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Speaker 1: It's with Jenny Garth and Tori Spelling. Who's ready for

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Speaker 1: another episode of nine O two? I know, MG, me me,

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Speaker 1: pick me, I pick you. Every guys, welcome to our show.

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Speaker 1: I like that. Thank you big show. Uh it's me Jenny.

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Speaker 1: I'm here with Tori and Amy and we are ready

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Speaker 1: for another episode. I need to know. I need to

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Speaker 1: know if you guys got anything in high school, in

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Speaker 1: real high school in your senior poll. Oh right, this

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Speaker 1: is senior pool episode. So that's a good question. What

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Speaker 1: were you anything? They didn't do it in my high school.

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Speaker 1: I went to an old girls school and they somehow

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Speaker 1: didn't do it. But my mom likes to remind me

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Speaker 1: that when she was in high school and she went

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Speaker 1: to Beverly that she at the body, best body, best body. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: they called the body. That was the thing all the time.

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Speaker 1: And then she's like, and look what you kids did

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Speaker 1: to me. And I was like, she's like I know,

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Speaker 1: and she goes, I never had a butt before, and

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Speaker 1: the doctor was like, that's from Victoria. And I never

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Speaker 1: realized that was a thing until after bow. And then

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Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, look at big booty Judy coming down

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Speaker 1: the line. Here. I am did I know your name

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Speaker 1: was Victorian Booty, Judy boot That's what he does. He

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Speaker 1: slaps me on the button and calls me big booty Judy.

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Speaker 1: Your god given name is Victoria. What's your middle name? Davey, David?

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Speaker 1: You listen? Jenny? Are you? Are you Jennifer? Yes? I am.

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Speaker 1: What's your middle name? Eve? Oh? I knew that? Wait?

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Speaker 1: And did you get what did you get? You didn't

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Speaker 1: go to high school? Amy? Wait? Did you have it all? Ever?

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Speaker 1: To real high school? I dropped out when I was

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Speaker 1: a sophomore junior. He didn't drop out. I dropped right out,

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Speaker 1: just disappeared. No, didn't you do schools? Set school? We

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Speaker 1: took the g D, and you stopped going. I took

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Speaker 1: the g D. Got my diploma. One day they were like,

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Speaker 1: where is she? Where is she in the on TV?

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Speaker 1: Look at me? Now? I remember? I wonder not hard?

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Speaker 1: I passed it. It's it's not hard. Let's just say

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Speaker 1: I was a bad girl when I was that age,

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Speaker 1: and I had gone out the night before and I was,

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Speaker 1: you know, doing things I shouldn't have done at that age,

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Speaker 1: maybe drinking some things and I had the worst hangover.

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Speaker 1: I think I was actually still inebriated when I took

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Speaker 1: the g D because I remember vividly, uh getting up

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Speaker 1: in the middle. Was in classroom and there was full students.

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Speaker 1: I remember getting up in the middle of it, going

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Speaker 1: to the bathroom, throwing up, coming back, finishing the test.

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Speaker 1: That's called rallying, guys, and I am proud of you,

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Speaker 1: thank you. That's probably the one only time I've done that. Rallied.

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Speaker 1: That is no, I've been with you when you've done

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Speaker 1: You're right, all right, I rally I rally man. So yeah,

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Speaker 1: what did you get, Amy? What what was your type?

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Speaker 1: Did you yeah? Wait, wait, wait, you want to take

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Speaker 1: a guess, Jen, you want to go first. Well, I

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Speaker 1: don't think it was the laugh that's so nice. I

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Speaker 1: don't think it was best whispers, most likely to interrupt.

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Speaker 1: They get so mad and I'm going to work on that.

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Speaker 1: Oh best hair, that's so nice. Now you get most

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Speaker 1: likely to six seed what they were, And just just

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Speaker 1: like that, you two are two pies in a pod. Actually,

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Speaker 1: you know, did you get another one? I think I got.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what I wunnderstand. What do you think

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Speaker 1: you would have gotten and we got titles in high school.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I don't know. Um, I don't even

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Speaker 1: know what the titles were. To be honest, quietest, biggest flirt.

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Speaker 1: That that's what Tory would get in high school. You

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Speaker 1: don't think you're well, excuse me? Are you? Are you

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Speaker 1: mixing me up with Donna? You are Donna? I might

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Speaker 1: have gotten biggest flirt at flirty. That's a good that's

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Speaker 1: Is that a thing? I just don't know the terms anything,

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Speaker 1: like they is still a thing they do this with

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Speaker 1: I think she should come down and kiss Bob. He's

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Speaker 1: just that screams COVID. Wow, how was that a school

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Speaker 1: that was supported pepper rally? But it was and everyone

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Speaker 1: pretty prettiest? I was like, please don't pick Kelly, Please

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Speaker 1: But I'm like, oh, this is just totally normal. Like

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Speaker 1: I just I thought the award was embarrassing. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: I was like totally in the whole episode. I'm like,

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Speaker 1: this is just great. Well, we're talking about episode Senior

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Speaker 1: Pole aired ape y'all Synopsis, Brenda reconsiders her college choice

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Speaker 1: most Beautiful Senior Kelly fears no one's looking beneath her surface.

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Speaker 1: Steve forgets he's dateless when he shines at one of

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Speaker 1: by Chip Joe Hanson. Where we Where do we even begin?

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Speaker 1: I think we begin with Steve, because I mean, obviously

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Speaker 1: the Kelly stuff always want to jump to Steve every time,

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Speaker 1: and my Ron, thank you for backing me up there,

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Speaker 1: I thought, I don't. Yeah, it's okay, we can start

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Speaker 1: sea of the episode, but sure, let's jump brand to Steve.

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Speaker 1: That was the real forum, Okay, is the real venue

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Speaker 1: where the lads played back then? That part was so

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Speaker 1: cool because it was an actual game. It was so crazy.

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Speaker 1: remember did he do that at a game? Can we should?

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Speaker 1: Should I text him? Oh? My god? They met someone

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Speaker 1: I was hoping they. First of all, Diane Canon, which

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Speaker 1: that's Jennifer Grants mom. So she probably was like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: but it really did look real. And I was so

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Speaker 1: excited when the Walsh cutaways looked like they did that

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Speaker 1: a different day. Yeah, what about when they went back

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Speaker 1: to have their little hideaway, their little conversation in the

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Speaker 1: back ay? How did they get backstage at the Forum

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Speaker 1: and there was not a soul in there? Like that

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Speaker 1: Chris Hibbler was probably like, this is like a man's dream,

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Speaker 1: like not so direct, but to be able to be

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Speaker 1: lying like this game and be directing and that's your job.

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Speaker 1: And clearly Iron was at the game. Yeah, run around.

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Speaker 1: It reminds it was like when we went to the

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Speaker 1: Rolling Stones concert. I know we'll get to it, but

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Speaker 1: they filmed there and we got to actually be there,

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Speaker 1: and this is like a live Lakers game and all

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Speaker 1: the same same thing Dave cause is still around. Yeah. Wait, okay,

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Speaker 1: what would you call that a wide shot? Wide shot? Yeah? Sure?

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Speaker 1: But were you guys if you guys were bummed you

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Speaker 1: if we probably weren't. The traffic to the Forum is terrible,

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Speaker 1: but it looks so cool. They don't use that forum anymore, right,

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Speaker 1: well now it's not for the Lakers, but they have

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Speaker 1: concerts there. It does exist. The exact same building looks

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Speaker 1: the same, but it's just not the Lakers. It's so

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Speaker 1: I think, but Chick Heern was the voice of the Lakers.

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Speaker 1: He was on the show. And then now by if

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Speaker 1: you ever go to Staples Center, I think it's called

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Speaker 1: something else. Now it's called Crypto. There's so many bird names.

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Speaker 1: Now it's called what now crypto? I don't like that

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Speaker 1: at all. It's terrible. And there's Chicker and court they

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Speaker 1: named the street after him. On the street. Yes, I've

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Speaker 1: I was looking for Paula Abdul. I was like, where's Paula? Good?

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Speaker 1: to them when they're Ian and Jason are doing that

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Speaker 1: and uh, they're they're talking. First of all. First of all,

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Speaker 1: to confess that he voted for himself for something. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: most like Succeedeah. Did you see when Brandon kind of

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Speaker 1: slash Jason. Uh, he broke care number one? Remember when

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Speaker 1: supposed to be a red letter day, and it really

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Speaker 1: And us laughing at it. It just makes and I

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Speaker 1: Iron kept going because it's all in one shot. Iron

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Speaker 1: like the Jackie's coming out, you've got five now you've

424
00:27:20,640 --> 00:27:23,520
Speaker 1: got no time for Cindy. The patients. Yeah, I used

425
00:27:23,560 --> 00:27:26,359
Speaker 1: to have the patience of a saint. Everything would be

426
00:27:26,440 --> 00:27:29,800
Speaker 1: handled like this, and I hear you and I understand

427
00:27:30,000 --> 00:27:32,080
Speaker 1: and I know what you're feeling. But it was like

428
00:27:32,240 --> 00:27:35,120
Speaker 1: very therapy. Talked to the kids. I think that worked well.

429
00:27:35,160 --> 00:27:38,160
Speaker 1: I never raised my voice, And now like they start

430
00:27:38,280 --> 00:27:41,440
Speaker 1: arguing and I'm just like, ah, yeah, it's just losers.

431
00:27:41,480 --> 00:27:45,160
Speaker 1: Oh my god. Yeah, I hate it when they argue

432
00:27:45,240 --> 00:27:49,680
Speaker 1: the kids. Oh my god, that's the worst, the worst.

433
00:27:50,520 --> 00:27:52,960
Speaker 1: My kids still do it. And I'm like, you guys

434
00:27:52,960 --> 00:27:54,560
Speaker 1: are going to send me to the hospital. I can't

435
00:27:54,560 --> 00:27:58,800
Speaker 1: handle this. And you couldn't just like walk away because

436
00:27:58,800 --> 00:28:01,320
Speaker 1: they usually do it in your space, like do it

437
00:28:01,320 --> 00:28:08,080
Speaker 1: in front of you because they want you to do something. Yeah,

438
00:28:08,119 --> 00:28:13,720
Speaker 1: I'm sort of thinking about Jackie versus Cindy and ultimately,

439
00:28:13,800 --> 00:28:17,200
Speaker 1: like is one a better mom than another? You know what?

440
00:28:17,280 --> 00:28:19,520
Speaker 1: Cindy's got her own issues because I was a Cindy

441
00:28:19,600 --> 00:28:21,879
Speaker 1: for a long time, and when you repress your voice

442
00:28:21,880 --> 00:28:24,840
Speaker 1: and you just keep everything down, it somehow comes out

443
00:28:24,880 --> 00:28:27,320
Speaker 1: at some point, and not in a healthy way. So

444
00:28:27,440 --> 00:28:30,600
Speaker 1: like there's gotta be moments where Cindy wants to just

445
00:28:30,680 --> 00:28:35,800
Speaker 1: like be like yeah, like well, and I kind of understand. Mean,

446
00:28:36,640 --> 00:28:40,120
Speaker 1: it's that tricky thing where Jackie thinks she's helping Kelly,

447
00:28:40,360 --> 00:28:43,240
Speaker 1: helping her look better, helping her with her makeup, and

448
00:28:43,360 --> 00:28:46,160
Speaker 1: like it's the only way she knows to help her though, well,

449
00:28:46,200 --> 00:28:49,160
Speaker 1: and she might be even was right like maybe do

450
00:28:49,200 --> 00:28:50,920
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like, but how do you

451
00:28:50,960 --> 00:28:53,400
Speaker 1: help a kid without making them feel like they don't

452
00:28:53,520 --> 00:28:56,400
Speaker 1: look right? How do you do that? It's so hard

453
00:28:56,480 --> 00:29:00,520
Speaker 1: no matter because just in my own experience, it's even

454
00:29:00,560 --> 00:29:04,680
Speaker 1: currently like whatever I say or whatever suggestion I have,

455
00:29:05,280 --> 00:29:08,000
Speaker 1: I don't know how it's going to be received. So

456
00:29:08,080 --> 00:29:10,640
Speaker 1: it kind of almost even stops me from saying anything

457
00:29:10,680 --> 00:29:15,360
Speaker 1: because I don't want to get in her head in

458
00:29:15,400 --> 00:29:17,520
Speaker 1: a way that wasn't already there, like you know what

459
00:29:17,560 --> 00:29:21,960
Speaker 1: I mean, like the two perspectives, because you see that

460
00:29:22,040 --> 00:29:24,960
Speaker 1: in the big blow up where she's saying, you made

461
00:29:24,960 --> 00:29:27,320
Speaker 1: me get a nose job. You begged for the nose job.

462
00:29:28,040 --> 00:29:30,880
Speaker 1: You know, you didn't give me a cake or something.

463
00:29:30,960 --> 00:29:33,960
Speaker 1: You made me go on weight watchers. Like. It was

464
00:29:34,000 --> 00:29:39,960
Speaker 1: these two perspectives where I'm sure Kelly did ask for

465
00:29:40,000 --> 00:29:42,240
Speaker 1: the nose job, you know what I mean, like, and

466
00:29:42,280 --> 00:29:44,240
Speaker 1: then Jackie gave it to her because she thought that's

467
00:29:44,240 --> 00:29:46,880
Speaker 1: what she wanted, like, but in giving it to her,

468
00:29:47,160 --> 00:29:51,200
Speaker 1: she solidified Kelly's belief that she needed it right. So

469
00:29:51,280 --> 00:29:54,880
Speaker 1: it's just like and then saying, oh, if Kelly said,

470
00:29:54,920 --> 00:29:57,680
Speaker 1: oh I ate this cake, I feel like I should

471
00:29:57,680 --> 00:29:59,480
Speaker 1: lose some weight, her mom was probably trying to be

472
00:29:59,520 --> 00:30:01,800
Speaker 1: helpful and saying, oh, I just did this great program

473
00:30:01,880 --> 00:30:04,320
Speaker 1: called weight Watchers and you could do it too. It'll

474
00:30:04,360 --> 00:30:06,760
Speaker 1: be fun like, and then in Kelly's mind that was like,

475
00:30:06,800 --> 00:30:09,479
Speaker 1: oh I need weight Watchers. I'm I'm overweight, you know.

476
00:30:09,560 --> 00:30:12,200
Speaker 1: Like you know, if you're trying to be helpful with

477
00:30:12,240 --> 00:30:16,760
Speaker 1: your teenage daughter, it's really tricky because they have to

478
00:30:16,800 --> 00:30:21,840
Speaker 1: figure it all out themselves. I just try to stand

479
00:30:21,840 --> 00:30:24,640
Speaker 1: back at this point and let them come to me

480
00:30:24,680 --> 00:30:30,479
Speaker 1: and not offer any advice or tips or anything until

481
00:30:31,440 --> 00:30:35,200
Speaker 1: I feel it's a safe space. The nose job combos

482
00:30:35,240 --> 00:30:38,600
Speaker 1: giving me PTSD. I wanted to ask I wanted to

483
00:30:38,640 --> 00:30:40,760
Speaker 1: ask you that, but I didn't. I wanted to. I'm

484
00:30:40,760 --> 00:30:45,440
Speaker 1: glad you are opening the door for me. Yeah, we'll

485
00:30:45,440 --> 00:30:49,920
Speaker 1: talk about it. Did it like? I don't know, but

486
00:30:50,000 --> 00:30:52,560
Speaker 1: I feel like I didn't even feel it watching it,

487
00:30:52,640 --> 00:30:55,280
Speaker 1: But hearing you talk about it now, I'm like, did

488
00:30:55,320 --> 00:30:58,080
Speaker 1: my dad say something to the writers about this situation?

489
00:30:58,120 --> 00:31:01,800
Speaker 1: Because it was it was a constant kind of we

490
00:31:01,800 --> 00:31:04,280
Speaker 1: didn't fight in our house, like, everyone just like kept

491
00:31:04,280 --> 00:31:07,440
Speaker 1: their feelings inside. And then I almost quiet and happy.

492
00:31:07,480 --> 00:31:09,800
Speaker 1: And even if you weren't, so it was it was

493
00:31:09,840 --> 00:31:11,560
Speaker 1: not good. No one ever yelled. I never heard my

494
00:31:11,600 --> 00:31:16,239
Speaker 1: parents fight my entire life. Um, but yeah, it's it's

495
00:31:16,400 --> 00:31:20,000
Speaker 1: a constant thing that I always I perceived it as

496
00:31:20,080 --> 00:31:21,800
Speaker 1: my mom wanted me to get a nose job. My

497
00:31:21,840 --> 00:31:24,400
Speaker 1: mom perceives it that I asked, you know, for a

498
00:31:24,440 --> 00:31:27,480
Speaker 1: nose job. So it's two different stories, but but the

499
00:31:27,560 --> 00:31:31,880
Speaker 1: same thing. That's the same thing, right, which it was,

500
00:31:32,000 --> 00:31:35,120
Speaker 1: and probably both are true, knowing just the way the

501
00:31:35,160 --> 00:31:42,680
Speaker 1: world works. Oh wait, what what? Amy whispering again? Whispering?

502
00:31:46,000 --> 00:31:49,080
Speaker 1: Um No, I think I think I told you guys

503
00:31:49,120 --> 00:31:52,240
Speaker 1: this story that it came. It never came out that

504
00:31:52,760 --> 00:31:55,320
Speaker 1: I felt this way or there was anything between us

505
00:31:55,600 --> 00:31:59,240
Speaker 1: until um in eleventh grade, I had a class, like

506
00:31:59,280 --> 00:32:02,040
Speaker 1: a health class, and it was Mrs Wildflower. She was

507
00:32:02,120 --> 00:32:06,120
Speaker 1: like this hippie, dippy perfect name, of course, right, and

508
00:32:06,160 --> 00:32:08,240
Speaker 1: we had to write down one thing in a paper

509
00:32:08,320 --> 00:32:11,560
Speaker 1: that we hadn't told anyone before that really heard us

510
00:32:11,560 --> 00:32:13,680
Speaker 1: and made us upset that we were angry about but

511
00:32:13,760 --> 00:32:15,640
Speaker 1: hadn't expressed it, and just write in a paper and

512
00:32:15,640 --> 00:32:17,400
Speaker 1: get it out and give it to her. And she

513
00:32:17,640 --> 00:32:22,800
Speaker 1: ended up calling my mom, which was I felt like,

514
00:32:22,840 --> 00:32:24,720
Speaker 1: oh my god, she betrayed me and I didn't know

515
00:32:24,800 --> 00:32:26,200
Speaker 1: to My mom called me in the bathroom. She's like,

516
00:32:26,200 --> 00:32:28,040
Speaker 1: I got a call from Mrs Wildflower and she read

517
00:32:28,080 --> 00:32:31,920
Speaker 1: me your paper. And I'm really hurt because I didn't

518
00:32:31,960 --> 00:32:33,840
Speaker 1: make you get a nose job. I didn't tell you

519
00:32:33,840 --> 00:32:36,480
Speaker 1: you weren't pretty. I didn't do any of this, and

520
00:32:36,520 --> 00:32:38,200
Speaker 1: you know, we'll never know what it was. But also

521
00:32:38,320 --> 00:32:40,680
Speaker 1: I was a young girl, and it's how I heard it,

522
00:32:40,760 --> 00:32:44,120
Speaker 1: no matter what she said, like you're saying, it's perceived differently.

523
00:32:44,920 --> 00:32:49,720
Speaker 1: So she was horrified and hysterically crying. I was hysterically crying.

524
00:32:49,800 --> 00:32:51,640
Speaker 1: Mrs Wildflower did a good thing. We got to talk

525
00:32:51,720 --> 00:32:53,800
Speaker 1: it out, and she was like, I never felt this way.

526
00:32:53,840 --> 00:32:55,600
Speaker 1: I thought you were you know, I think you're beautiful.

527
00:32:55,640 --> 00:32:57,120
Speaker 1: I thought you were beautiful before you didn't have to

528
00:32:57,160 --> 00:33:02,560
Speaker 1: get a nose job. So anyway, I'm wondering where this

529
00:33:02,600 --> 00:33:16,760
Speaker 1: story came from. WHOA Like wow? But anyhow, I would

530
00:33:17,400 --> 00:33:19,560
Speaker 1: say it was a good lesson though, because when my

531
00:33:19,640 --> 00:33:22,640
Speaker 1: daughters talk about their parents, I just don't say a

532
00:33:22,720 --> 00:33:27,080
Speaker 1: word because you know, I'm like, whatever you want, if

533
00:33:27,080 --> 00:33:29,240
Speaker 1: you feel, if you think it looks good, it looks good.

534
00:33:29,280 --> 00:33:32,200
Speaker 1: Like I'm so careful. Like you said, Jenny, you don't

535
00:33:32,240 --> 00:33:34,560
Speaker 1: know what to say. I just don't say anything because

536
00:33:34,720 --> 00:33:40,400
Speaker 1: how it really transpired and it was perceived apparently wrong

537
00:33:40,480 --> 00:33:44,320
Speaker 1: in my mind. But I don't know. No, I don't know, Jenny,

538
00:33:44,360 --> 00:33:46,640
Speaker 1: what do you think I would have? I think both

539
00:33:46,760 --> 00:33:53,000
Speaker 1: can be true, meaning both are true. You probably maybe

540
00:33:53,280 --> 00:33:56,520
Speaker 1: did want it, but then she probably didn't say the

541
00:33:56,640 --> 00:34:04,240
Speaker 1: right thing or not. Sometimes mom's effort up too Yeah,

542
00:34:04,320 --> 00:34:08,400
Speaker 1: I mean we're not perfect. Yeah, or maybe they I

543
00:34:08,440 --> 00:34:10,920
Speaker 1: don't know. I'm trying to get inside Jackie's head. Maybe

544
00:34:10,960 --> 00:34:15,480
Speaker 1: like she thought Kelly would be happier, do you know

545
00:34:15,480 --> 00:34:18,120
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. So maybe she did put that on

546
00:34:18,200 --> 00:34:21,440
Speaker 1: to her saying you can get a nose job, because

547
00:34:21,480 --> 00:34:24,880
Speaker 1: maybe she thought she had expressed it so many times

548
00:34:25,000 --> 00:34:28,120
Speaker 1: that she Yeah, maybe it doesn't come from a bad

549
00:34:28,160 --> 00:34:30,560
Speaker 1: place of wanting to change your kid, but maybe you're thinking,

550
00:34:30,640 --> 00:34:34,439
Speaker 1: let me give my kid I think it is. Yeah,

551
00:34:34,480 --> 00:34:38,080
Speaker 1: but then okay, so right, so then I can totally

552
00:34:38,080 --> 00:34:41,680
Speaker 1: relate to this that I won't go into detail, but um,

553
00:34:41,800 --> 00:34:44,920
Speaker 1: the you want the kid. You want your kid to

554
00:34:45,080 --> 00:34:48,160
Speaker 1: feel confident and like go out there with their best

555
00:34:48,160 --> 00:34:50,879
Speaker 1: foot forward. And this is a tough life. And if

556
00:34:50,920 --> 00:34:53,520
Speaker 1: that's what they need and you have the ability to

557
00:34:53,520 --> 00:34:57,840
Speaker 1: provide it for them, and and you know, you're like, whoa, Okay,

558
00:34:57,840 --> 00:35:00,840
Speaker 1: why not. If that's gonna that's gonna help my child,

559
00:35:01,040 --> 00:35:04,000
Speaker 1: then that's what I'll do. But on the other hand,

560
00:35:05,000 --> 00:35:08,400
Speaker 1: you're supposed to be giving them the message of unconditional

561
00:35:08,480 --> 00:35:10,600
Speaker 1: love and love yourself the way you are and you're

562
00:35:10,640 --> 00:35:12,840
Speaker 1: perfect just the way you are, and go out in

563
00:35:12,880 --> 00:35:15,640
Speaker 1: the world and conquer it that way. So what's you

564
00:35:15,719 --> 00:35:19,200
Speaker 1: is the right way? You're damned if you do. You're

565
00:35:19,239 --> 00:35:23,920
Speaker 1: damned if you don't. I don't know. You're right, I

566
00:35:23,920 --> 00:35:26,799
Speaker 1: don't know either. You know, it makes me think, is

567
00:35:26,960 --> 00:35:33,080
Speaker 1: of the four of you, Kelly, Donna, Andrea, Brenda, who

568
00:35:33,160 --> 00:35:39,640
Speaker 1: do you think is the most comfortable in who they are? Andrea? Yeah,

569
00:35:40,000 --> 00:35:43,719
Speaker 1: I think so what do you think, Jenny? I like

570
00:35:44,040 --> 00:35:48,520
Speaker 1: Brenda was very comfortable and who she was. No, no, no,

571
00:35:48,880 --> 00:35:53,759
Speaker 1: it's to me it's Andrea. I never really haven't seen

572
00:35:54,320 --> 00:35:58,840
Speaker 1: Brenda like look in the mirror and feel self conscious

573
00:35:58,920 --> 00:36:02,839
Speaker 1: or feel like I've never seen that on the show yet.

574
00:36:03,120 --> 00:36:06,400
Speaker 1: I've seen that with Andrea. That happens. Cameria has it

575
00:36:06,440 --> 00:36:12,440
Speaker 1: a little bit, but Brenda is I think has her things.

576
00:36:12,480 --> 00:36:14,640
Speaker 1: I mean even right now, she wants to go home.

577
00:36:15,120 --> 00:36:18,680
Speaker 1: She feels like she doesn't have these close friends here

578
00:36:19,400 --> 00:36:23,520
Speaker 1: and she's like wants to go back home. That just

579
00:36:23,600 --> 00:36:26,440
Speaker 1: comes from like insecurity in the whole situation. She I mean,

580
00:36:26,440 --> 00:36:28,640
Speaker 1: I'd want to go home too, that all this had

581
00:36:28,680 --> 00:36:31,759
Speaker 1: happened to me. Yeah, But Jenna asked in right there

582
00:36:31,760 --> 00:36:34,000
Speaker 1: and didn't get picked the prettiest girl, like I'd be

583
00:36:34,040 --> 00:36:38,399
Speaker 1: like Sea Beverly jents. Right though they don't really ever

584
00:36:38,480 --> 00:36:43,040
Speaker 1: show her struggling with her appearance or how she looked like, no, no,

585
00:36:43,239 --> 00:36:51,160
Speaker 1: you're right, color her hair look. Yeah, it's true she

586
00:36:51,280 --> 00:36:54,799
Speaker 1: and she doesn't really blame herself. Well maybe a little

587
00:36:54,800 --> 00:36:56,759
Speaker 1: bit like just if she would have gone over to

588
00:36:57,160 --> 00:37:00,160
Speaker 1: the hotel room that night, then things with Dylan Helly

589
00:37:00,200 --> 00:37:03,560
Speaker 1: would be different. But she's nevers a little bit of

590
00:37:03,880 --> 00:37:13,080
Speaker 1: a narcissist, right, how so because she somehow makes the

591
00:37:13,120 --> 00:37:17,719
Speaker 1: situations about her often? Is it okay to say this?

592
00:37:19,560 --> 00:37:22,680
Speaker 1: Of course? Yeah, And I think sorry, I've been I've

593
00:37:22,719 --> 00:37:25,399
Speaker 1: been reading a lot about narcissists lately, and it's not

594
00:37:25,440 --> 00:37:28,640
Speaker 1: always what you think because there's like five there's many

595
00:37:28,680 --> 00:37:31,040
Speaker 1: different types of narcissists. You could be like the sweet,

596
00:37:31,840 --> 00:37:35,640
Speaker 1: sweet kind narcissists, Like I feel like she does often

597
00:37:35,680 --> 00:37:38,839
Speaker 1: make things about her and it's about like, I don't know,

598
00:37:38,960 --> 00:37:41,240
Speaker 1: so maybe she doesn't always have moments where she feels

599
00:37:41,239 --> 00:37:45,080
Speaker 1: insecure because she feels entitled, she feels you know, kind

600
00:37:45,080 --> 00:37:48,720
Speaker 1: of a little bit. Yeah, I'm so scared of that title.

601
00:37:48,800 --> 00:37:52,400
Speaker 1: I'm so scared of that word narcissist. Like I have

602
00:37:52,560 --> 00:37:56,960
Speaker 1: issues with that word because I've used it. I know

603
00:37:57,080 --> 00:38:01,920
Speaker 1: people that I'm pretty sure narcissist um. But it's such

604
00:38:02,080 --> 00:38:05,680
Speaker 1: there's so many different facets to a narcissist. There's so

605
00:38:05,719 --> 00:38:08,759
Speaker 1: many different ways that you can be one, or that

606
00:38:08,800 --> 00:38:10,680
Speaker 1: you can or you're not one, like you know what

607
00:38:10,719 --> 00:38:12,560
Speaker 1: I mean, Like I get I get really nervous with

608
00:38:12,600 --> 00:38:15,360
Speaker 1: that term now because who's to say I'm not a narcissist?

609
00:38:15,440 --> 00:38:17,680
Speaker 1: Like if someone someone could look at me and think

610
00:38:17,719 --> 00:38:21,000
Speaker 1: I'm a narcissist or or and then how is it

611
00:38:21,000 --> 00:38:23,440
Speaker 1: okay I'm looking at someone else to either narcissists? Does

612
00:38:23,520 --> 00:38:27,279
Speaker 1: that make me a narcissist? Like, you know, it's I mean,

613
00:38:27,320 --> 00:38:29,560
Speaker 1: we could do. I've been studying it a lot lately.

614
00:38:29,640 --> 00:38:32,600
Speaker 1: And did you know that there's like a one percent

615
00:38:33,000 --> 00:38:35,960
Speaker 1: in every single one of us, so we all have

616
00:38:36,160 --> 00:38:39,560
Speaker 1: minor it's all varying, you know, degrees. It's it's a

617
00:38:39,600 --> 00:38:43,640
Speaker 1: definite spectrum with narcissism. And again there's many different kinds.

618
00:38:43,680 --> 00:38:46,319
Speaker 1: There's the kind sweet narcissist that you were like, Oh,

619
00:38:46,640 --> 00:38:49,560
Speaker 1: I always thought narcissist meant this bad bad. It's not

620
00:38:49,600 --> 00:38:52,359
Speaker 1: always like that, but I just mean, I don't know, Yeah,

621
00:38:52,360 --> 00:38:54,080
Speaker 1: you're right, I guess it came up for me because

622
00:38:54,080 --> 00:38:56,719
Speaker 1: I'm just like, I'm just gonna be an. I don't

623
00:38:56,719 --> 00:39:00,600
Speaker 1: think either of you are because you always care about

624
00:39:00,640 --> 00:39:03,000
Speaker 1: how the other person feels, meaning even just the three

625
00:39:03,040 --> 00:39:08,520
Speaker 1: of us, and narcissist typically wouldn't. It's not that they

626
00:39:08,560 --> 00:39:12,560
Speaker 1: don't even think about it, right, it's not. It's not

627
00:39:12,600 --> 00:39:15,839
Speaker 1: a purpose, it's just ingrained in them. Yeah, I mean

628
00:39:16,040 --> 00:39:19,040
Speaker 1: you're always you guys from the research I've been doing. Yeah,

629
00:39:19,040 --> 00:39:22,799
Speaker 1: I don't think why are you doing? I just want

630
00:39:22,840 --> 00:39:26,040
Speaker 1: to learn about it. But I don't think any of

631
00:39:26,160 --> 00:39:28,319
Speaker 1: us are. But I don't think so either, because we

632
00:39:28,360 --> 00:39:32,960
Speaker 1: get so upset if we think somebody else is feeling No,

633
00:39:33,200 --> 00:39:37,160
Speaker 1: did I make you feel? No, we do their actions

634
00:39:37,200 --> 00:39:40,560
Speaker 1: the three of us where it's like, that wasn't my intention.

635
00:39:41,160 --> 00:39:43,719
Speaker 1: Let me figure let's figure that out. Every single one

636
00:39:43,760 --> 00:39:45,200
Speaker 1: of us does that. But what I started to think

637
00:39:45,200 --> 00:39:49,399
Speaker 1: about when you said that Tori is Brandon versus Brenda. Yes,

638
00:39:49,560 --> 00:39:53,759
Speaker 1: if I had to say, Brandon is like the EmPATH.

639
00:39:54,239 --> 00:39:58,160
Speaker 1: He's always trying to like solve the problem, take care

640
00:39:58,200 --> 00:40:00,960
Speaker 1: of everybody, make his sister like she goes to him

641
00:40:01,000 --> 00:40:03,120
Speaker 1: for the fifty bucks. He doesn't even have the fifty bucks.

642
00:40:03,160 --> 00:40:10,080
Speaker 1: He's trying to figure it out, so he does. He

643
00:40:10,320 --> 00:40:12,880
Speaker 1: is the one that gets the less attention a lot.

644
00:40:13,840 --> 00:40:17,440
Speaker 1: He's okay with that though. Yeah, they would be interesting

645
00:40:17,480 --> 00:40:21,120
Speaker 1: for a therapist to like analyze. That would be kind

646
00:40:21,120 --> 00:40:24,000
Speaker 1: of cool to get a therapist to come on the

647
00:40:24,080 --> 00:40:27,879
Speaker 1: show to analyze the characters. Yeah, we do it like that.

648
00:40:28,680 --> 00:40:30,719
Speaker 1: We have to get a we have to find a therapist.

649
00:40:31,239 --> 00:40:35,560
Speaker 1: So if someone's listening that really knows the show, yeah,

650
00:40:35,640 --> 00:40:43,000
Speaker 1: because Dr Drew, it would be fascinating to analyze Kelly

651
00:40:43,080 --> 00:40:48,200
Speaker 1: and Jackie and I think Tory Donna and uh, what's

652
00:40:48,200 --> 00:40:51,120
Speaker 1: your mom? Felice Felice. I think there's a lot coming

653
00:40:51,120 --> 00:41:07,200
Speaker 1: with Felice. Yeah, there is. Yeah, going back to the show,

654
00:41:07,280 --> 00:41:10,000
Speaker 1: I felt like, um, what you said last week? Well

655
00:41:10,040 --> 00:41:14,719
Speaker 1: two things what you said last week? Amy about um

656
00:41:15,400 --> 00:41:19,319
Speaker 1: the sort of um, uh, what's it called? When you

657
00:41:19,360 --> 00:41:24,239
Speaker 1: see ahead? I'm blanking? Do you see what? Foreshadowing? Thank you?

658
00:41:24,680 --> 00:41:27,640
Speaker 1: Of Brandon and Kelly. I felt like there was even

659
00:41:27,760 --> 00:41:34,319
Speaker 1: more there this week, like a little flirty exchanges with them. Yeah, yeah,

660
00:41:34,360 --> 00:41:37,960
Speaker 1: I'm wondering. I have no idea does that come soon later?

661
00:41:38,200 --> 00:41:41,360
Speaker 1: What season does that happen? Because I know what happens,

662
00:41:41,440 --> 00:41:45,560
Speaker 1: but not soon. It's not super so. So they're just

663
00:41:45,600 --> 00:41:50,640
Speaker 1: developing a really nice, sweet close friendship right right, because

664
00:41:50,680 --> 00:41:53,680
Speaker 1: it's not like when that does happen, all they have

665
00:41:53,760 --> 00:41:56,040
Speaker 1: to get to know each other, they are going a date, like, no,

666
00:41:56,320 --> 00:42:01,160
Speaker 1: they're way past that stuff. So though I did at

667
00:42:01,160 --> 00:42:09,000
Speaker 1: the end really feel prime Kelly and Dylan like now

668
00:42:09,200 --> 00:42:12,160
Speaker 1: they're really in a groove and like you see, because

669
00:42:12,160 --> 00:42:14,080
Speaker 1: we haven't talked about the scene at the kid at

670
00:42:14,120 --> 00:42:18,440
Speaker 1: the at the park or the playground, because that was

671
00:42:18,520 --> 00:42:23,600
Speaker 1: first of all amazing performance by both they. It was

672
00:42:23,760 --> 00:42:26,320
Speaker 1: I felt like that scene was compelling, Like I watched

673
00:42:26,320 --> 00:42:29,280
Speaker 1: it and I was actually like, I like the scene

674
00:42:30,280 --> 00:42:34,319
Speaker 1: and I can kind of remember doing it. Well, how

675
00:42:34,360 --> 00:42:36,960
Speaker 1: could you not? It was night, so obviously you shot

676
00:42:37,000 --> 00:42:44,000
Speaker 1: all night. And Luke Perry is eight. He is really amazing,

677
00:42:45,640 --> 00:42:49,279
Speaker 1: like he is such a good actor. Mm hmm, I

678
00:42:49,280 --> 00:42:52,840
Speaker 1: just remember it was it felt very like it was

679
00:42:52,920 --> 00:42:55,120
Speaker 1: just the two of us out there because I that

680
00:42:55,520 --> 00:42:57,839
Speaker 1: I didn't. I felt like there was no crew when

681
00:42:57,840 --> 00:43:01,239
Speaker 1: we were doing that scene, and it was very like

682
00:43:01,360 --> 00:43:04,200
Speaker 1: we were allowed to just go where we wanted to go.

683
00:43:04,400 --> 00:43:06,360
Speaker 1: There was no like set blocking that we had to

684
00:43:06,400 --> 00:43:10,000
Speaker 1: do for camera angles, and they weren't worried about the

685
00:43:10,080 --> 00:43:13,000
Speaker 1: lights blocking us. It was more about what we were

686
00:43:13,040 --> 00:43:16,520
Speaker 1: saying and the emotions that the characters were going through.

687
00:43:17,480 --> 00:43:19,600
Speaker 1: I remember feeling a lot of freedom with that scene,

688
00:43:19,680 --> 00:43:22,400
Speaker 1: is just as far as like what what what are

689
00:43:22,400 --> 00:43:24,319
Speaker 1: we going to get out of the scene? Who knows? Like,

690
00:43:24,480 --> 00:43:29,000
Speaker 1: let's seecause I was a little bit more raw, Like

691
00:43:29,040 --> 00:43:31,480
Speaker 1: there was some parts where you you couldn't even totally

692
00:43:31,520 --> 00:43:33,920
Speaker 1: see Kelly's face. Maybe I'm trying to remember. I think

693
00:43:33,960 --> 00:43:37,200
Speaker 1: you're in a black dress in that scene. Yeah, and

694
00:43:37,200 --> 00:43:41,040
Speaker 1: I didn't have any shoes on either, which you know,

695
00:43:41,960 --> 00:43:44,680
Speaker 1: you just can't have shoes on when you're just dealing

696
00:43:44,719 --> 00:43:48,879
Speaker 1: with so much emotional that she had to lose those

697
00:43:48,880 --> 00:43:51,160
Speaker 1: shoes and I was just walking around barefoot in that

698
00:43:51,200 --> 00:43:52,800
Speaker 1: grass and night. I was like, oh my gosh, you

699
00:43:52,880 --> 00:43:55,080
Speaker 1: must have been cold. But yeah, I did love that scene.

700
00:43:55,160 --> 00:43:59,120
Speaker 1: I felt like before that though, I was like, what

701
00:43:59,200 --> 00:44:02,160
Speaker 1: the F is these problems? Like she's on such a

702
00:44:03,360 --> 00:44:08,560
Speaker 1: rant all the time, Like God, she was irritating me.

703
00:44:07,719 --> 00:44:12,359
Speaker 1: Because that sort of made me understand her on a

704
00:44:12,360 --> 00:44:14,879
Speaker 1: different level. It is that the first time they acknowledge

705
00:44:15,960 --> 00:44:21,960
Speaker 1: that the phone call saved him. I think that and

706
00:44:22,000 --> 00:44:24,880
Speaker 1: then you saying yeah, and I just wanted to hear

707
00:44:24,960 --> 00:44:27,879
Speaker 1: your voice. So it's almost like you saved you save

708
00:44:27,960 --> 00:44:36,080
Speaker 1: each other. Yeah, that line made me. I feel like

709
00:44:36,120 --> 00:44:38,239
Speaker 1: they do this a lot with Dylan and Kelly. They

710
00:44:38,280 --> 00:44:40,799
Speaker 1: like put them out there, like you were saying, like

711
00:44:40,840 --> 00:44:44,320
Speaker 1: there's the observatory, there's the pool at night, there's this scene,

712
00:44:45,320 --> 00:44:48,320
Speaker 1: and it's really cool. It's like them against the world.

713
00:44:48,360 --> 00:44:51,640
Speaker 1: They're totally in a different universe, the soulmates, and it's

714
00:44:52,239 --> 00:44:55,560
Speaker 1: I love that they do this. Yeah, I'm thinking, Tory,

715
00:44:55,640 --> 00:44:58,560
Speaker 1: that's a good point. I'm thinking about it. We don't

716
00:44:58,640 --> 00:45:02,120
Speaker 1: see that with the are cast as much. Those one

717
00:45:02,200 --> 00:45:07,720
Speaker 1: on one intimate, dark, gritty you're outdoors somewhere totally removed

718
00:45:07,760 --> 00:45:12,760
Speaker 1: from the world really with just the two of them,

719
00:45:12,960 --> 00:45:16,799
Speaker 1: always at night. It's really cool. We get a lot

720
00:45:16,840 --> 00:45:18,680
Speaker 1: of David and Donna scenes with the two of them,

721
00:45:18,719 --> 00:45:22,319
Speaker 1: but it's always very right. But these are all see

722
00:45:22,440 --> 00:45:27,560
Speaker 1: too like deep, you know, it's they set the mood

723
00:45:27,600 --> 00:45:31,880
Speaker 1: moody and dark, and it's too like really flawed characters

724
00:45:31,920 --> 00:45:35,920
Speaker 1: like that have come together to and and find that

725
00:45:36,040 --> 00:45:39,560
Speaker 1: comfort in one another because nobody else can really relate

726
00:45:39,600 --> 00:45:43,520
Speaker 1: to the depths of their you know, what they've in

727
00:45:43,560 --> 00:45:47,400
Speaker 1: their mind, what their faults are. And I feel like

728
00:45:47,440 --> 00:45:50,560
Speaker 1: they relate on such a deep level that that they

729
00:45:50,560 --> 00:45:52,480
Speaker 1: don't really do that with the other characters. You're right,

730
00:45:54,080 --> 00:45:56,800
Speaker 1: but I feel like at that end when when they

731
00:45:56,800 --> 00:45:59,719
Speaker 1: when they took the picture of um they finally took

732
00:45:59,719 --> 00:46:03,200
Speaker 1: the picture her for the senior pole thing best couple

733
00:46:03,280 --> 00:46:09,120
Speaker 1: or whatever it was, umty, we see like we I

734
00:46:09,160 --> 00:46:11,320
Speaker 1: don't know. For me, I just saw the way Dylan

735
00:46:11,360 --> 00:46:14,960
Speaker 1: loved Kelly, like I could feel how much he loved her,

736
00:46:15,239 --> 00:46:20,680
Speaker 1: and that made me love her again, and that just

737
00:46:20,719 --> 00:46:26,200
Speaker 1: that last moment. Yeah, I I sort of hoped you

738
00:46:26,280 --> 00:46:29,200
Speaker 1: have that picture somewhere in a frame like that was

739
00:46:29,280 --> 00:46:31,440
Speaker 1: on the same way. I don't. I don't have that picture,

740
00:46:31,480 --> 00:46:34,000
Speaker 1: but oh my god, that I can. But if someone

741
00:46:34,080 --> 00:46:38,000
Speaker 1: does have it, let us know. Did anybody have a moment?

742
00:46:38,120 --> 00:46:40,000
Speaker 1: I mean, and I don't. I don't know if this

743
00:46:40,040 --> 00:46:44,960
Speaker 1: is just me where it was like Dylan and Kelly,

744
00:46:45,560 --> 00:46:49,440
Speaker 1: but it was Luke and Jenny. I thought, oh, that's

745
00:46:49,480 --> 00:46:52,560
Speaker 1: a picture of Luke and Jenny too. I have felt

746
00:46:52,560 --> 00:46:54,319
Speaker 1: at the very end of the show like I felt

747
00:46:54,360 --> 00:47:00,600
Speaker 1: like that was us. Yeah, yeah, agreed, it didn't You know,

748
00:47:00,680 --> 00:47:02,600
Speaker 1: when you're making it, you don't really think about it

749
00:47:02,640 --> 00:47:05,200
Speaker 1: because you're trying to I don't know what you're You're

750
00:47:05,239 --> 00:47:08,040
Speaker 1: just in the moment of the scene, and but you

751
00:47:08,280 --> 00:47:10,640
Speaker 1: it does gets blurred and I feel like that was

752
00:47:10,680 --> 00:47:13,319
Speaker 1: one of the moments when it felt really blurry for me.

753
00:47:13,480 --> 00:47:18,600
Speaker 1: But it was so heartwarming and like I miss I

754
00:47:18,920 --> 00:47:26,320
Speaker 1: miss that, miss those moments, right, And when she said

755
00:47:27,040 --> 00:47:31,440
Speaker 1: I just wanted to hear your voice like that, I

756
00:47:33,000 --> 00:47:40,360
Speaker 1: that was so accurate. M hmm. I'm the show is

757
00:47:40,920 --> 00:47:43,200
Speaker 1: ringing it out of me. I tell you. Sometimes it's

758
00:47:43,239 --> 00:47:48,040
Speaker 1: just like too much. Yeah, it takes takes me back

759
00:47:48,800 --> 00:47:51,399
Speaker 1: when I stopped like the episode, I'm like, what year

760
00:47:51,560 --> 00:47:55,080
Speaker 1: is it? A little bit like I really can get

761
00:47:56,040 --> 00:48:05,880
Speaker 1: into Yeah, you m I kind of love how it

762
00:48:05,960 --> 00:48:12,080
Speaker 1: is for you both re watching it. I will say this, though,

763
00:48:12,239 --> 00:48:17,640
Speaker 1: you were right. Kelly's hair does look darker again this week.

764
00:48:18,880 --> 00:48:23,200
Speaker 1: I noticed it now, not almost just a little what's

765
00:48:23,280 --> 00:48:29,360
Speaker 1: the like a toner, It had like it had highs

766
00:48:29,400 --> 00:48:32,399
Speaker 1: and lows, Like it felt like there was low lights

767
00:48:32,400 --> 00:48:34,640
Speaker 1: and highlights. Maybe it was, you know, when we would

768
00:48:34,680 --> 00:48:37,880
Speaker 1: go and do our movies of the week River and

769
00:48:37,920 --> 00:48:40,879
Speaker 1: they would we color our hair or whatever we would

770
00:48:40,920 --> 00:48:43,439
Speaker 1: do to it. Maybe this was after we came back

771
00:48:43,480 --> 00:48:47,120
Speaker 1: from one of those Oh I wonder okay, wait wait wait,

772
00:48:47,120 --> 00:48:53,479
Speaker 1: so if this aired in April we had then could

773
00:48:53,480 --> 00:48:55,279
Speaker 1: it be over Christmas break and you have been doing

774
00:48:55,280 --> 00:48:58,279
Speaker 1: a movie maybe the last episode? Yeah, it was like

775
00:48:58,320 --> 00:49:00,840
Speaker 1: the first episode back from a break. Tory and I

776
00:49:00,880 --> 00:49:05,360
Speaker 1: were talking Jenny before. The fashion wasn't super nothing stood

777
00:49:05,360 --> 00:49:09,520
Speaker 1: out to me, although you had for the yearbook photos

778
00:49:10,400 --> 00:49:13,640
Speaker 1: like Brandon in that suit. I actually liked Brandon in

779
00:49:13,640 --> 00:49:15,960
Speaker 1: that suit better than Dylan in that tux. To me,

780
00:49:16,160 --> 00:49:19,040
Speaker 1: Dylan looked better at the end when he was just

781
00:49:19,080 --> 00:49:22,440
Speaker 1: being Dylan. I'm of the outfits when Donna and David

782
00:49:22,480 --> 00:49:25,719
Speaker 1: were announcing on on the stage, like, your little color

783
00:49:25,800 --> 00:49:29,799
Speaker 1: coordinated striped outfit was so cute with he kind of

784
00:49:29,840 --> 00:49:34,480
Speaker 1: looked yeah, but it was like a blazer dress box.

785
00:49:35,000 --> 00:49:39,280
Speaker 1: It was like a fitted one. Right, that was cute,

786
00:49:40,560 --> 00:49:43,440
Speaker 1: going I'm going back on imad And I loved your

787
00:49:43,520 --> 00:49:48,839
Speaker 1: dress in the first scene, like that felt we got it.

788
00:49:49,040 --> 00:49:52,520
Speaker 1: Oh that's like Kelly, that felt you. That felt like

789
00:49:52,600 --> 00:49:55,960
Speaker 1: you in real life at the time. Yeah, like long dress.

790
00:49:56,000 --> 00:50:01,000
Speaker 1: Now like you're Daniel Steele's how do I can you

791
00:50:01,000 --> 00:50:03,480
Speaker 1: guys see it yet? Oh? There we go? Now star

792
00:50:04,360 --> 00:50:08,600
Speaker 1: Star is my hair darker. Oh my god, let's look

793
00:50:08,600 --> 00:50:14,120
Speaker 1: at her hair, man, I'm pulling it out. Whoa, Oh

794
00:50:14,200 --> 00:50:17,960
Speaker 1: my god. This first one, wasn't it. You had done

795
00:50:17,960 --> 00:50:20,240
Speaker 1: a couple episodes of melrose Place, and then you also

796
00:50:20,280 --> 00:50:24,040
Speaker 1: were doing Lies of the Heart, the story of Lori Kellogg.

797
00:50:24,080 --> 00:50:26,359
Speaker 1: But that seems a little later. Oh god, you're being

798
00:50:27,200 --> 00:50:29,799
Speaker 1: choked by that man. I'm being choked by that man.

799
00:50:29,840 --> 00:50:34,399
Speaker 1: Who is now my How to even explain that? Who

800
00:50:34,480 --> 00:50:40,200
Speaker 1: is that? Gregory Harrison did a lifetime Moviegory Harrison. Uh?

801
00:50:40,239 --> 00:50:43,760
Speaker 1: And yeah? And who is he? Agen? He is now

802
00:50:44,360 --> 00:50:51,560
Speaker 1: my ex husband's soon to your father in law. It's

803
00:50:51,600 --> 00:50:54,400
Speaker 1: so weird. I made out with I made out with

804
00:50:54,480 --> 00:50:59,920
Speaker 1: basically my ex husband's new fiancee's dad. I'm trying to

805
00:51:00,000 --> 00:51:01,799
Speaker 1: think of a time when you all will be together.

806
00:51:01,840 --> 00:51:05,040
Speaker 1: I mean, your hair here is a little bit warmer

807
00:51:05,520 --> 00:51:08,319
Speaker 1: than your natural Kelly hare and maybe you were just

808
00:51:08,400 --> 00:51:10,320
Speaker 1: like I want to be a little different than Kelly

809
00:51:10,320 --> 00:51:12,239
Speaker 1: in this movie. And so they put a rinse on

810
00:51:12,320 --> 00:51:14,600
Speaker 1: it or something, and then it was still kind of

811
00:51:14,600 --> 00:51:18,480
Speaker 1: in there when it came out. Mystery solved. Mystery solved.

812
00:51:18,840 --> 00:51:22,920
Speaker 1: I'm more fascinated. And when all the all the all

813
00:51:22,920 --> 00:51:25,080
Speaker 1: those people you just talked about will be together, and

814
00:51:25,120 --> 00:51:28,360
Speaker 1: I think it'll be at your kid's weddings. Oh my gosh,

815
00:51:29,120 --> 00:51:37,319
Speaker 1: I'm there for that. Whoa. And then without consent that's

816
00:51:37,360 --> 00:51:40,719
Speaker 1: coming to that seems not too good either. They are

817
00:51:40,760 --> 00:51:44,759
Speaker 1: all very dramatic without consent. Who was in that one?

818
00:51:45,000 --> 00:51:50,319
Speaker 1: Was that Johnny Galecky? Yeah, I'm so good. And then

819
00:51:50,400 --> 00:51:54,960
Speaker 1: this is Mr Schoviz, I got you ulling for you.

820
00:51:54,960 --> 00:51:57,839
Speaker 1: You have the short hair, so that's later. We don't

821
00:51:57,840 --> 00:51:59,880
Speaker 1: have that yet. Who's that? It was that Rob Bestie's.

822
00:52:00,480 --> 00:52:08,040
Speaker 1: No Williams was in that? Oh my god? Wait, was

823
00:52:08,080 --> 00:52:10,960
Speaker 1: that when you were a piano player? No? That was

824
00:52:11,040 --> 00:52:14,440
Speaker 1: star Okay, okay, I think she was. Yeah, she was

825
00:52:14,480 --> 00:52:19,680
Speaker 1: a singer. Daniel Steele. She's Oh my god, that's that's

826
00:52:20,920 --> 00:52:23,680
Speaker 1: that's like major to like being a Daniel Steele movie.

827
00:52:24,080 --> 00:52:28,840
Speaker 1: Back then, that was like everything. Sorry, I've read every

828
00:52:28,920 --> 00:52:34,640
Speaker 1: Daniel Steel book. I love her. It was definitely fun.

829
00:52:34,960 --> 00:52:42,000
Speaker 1: Ah good. Kids now would be like, who's Daniel Steel? Yeah,

830
00:52:42,080 --> 00:52:46,399
Speaker 1: they don't even know who we are, so, oh my god,

831
00:52:46,440 --> 00:52:48,759
Speaker 1: you know what I've had to be Oh god, it's

832
00:52:49,120 --> 00:52:52,800
Speaker 1: at this point lately because you get that blank stare

833
00:52:54,560 --> 00:52:56,600
Speaker 1: and someone will be like I know you, And then

834
00:52:56,680 --> 00:52:59,439
Speaker 1: like the kids were and I said, oh, don't worry

835
00:52:59,480 --> 00:53:04,000
Speaker 1: your mom's I'm sure your mom's a fan. Yeah, you've

836
00:53:04,040 --> 00:53:06,919
Speaker 1: just embraced that now I do. I'm embarrassed that they're

837
00:53:06,960 --> 00:53:09,440
Speaker 1: just like and they and they look at their parents

838
00:53:09,520 --> 00:53:11,080
Speaker 1: or look at whoever they're with, like how do you

839
00:53:11,120 --> 00:53:13,280
Speaker 1: know when I was like that, like your your mom's

840
00:53:13,280 --> 00:53:15,319
Speaker 1: a fan, that's why. Just let me know each other.

841
00:53:16,040 --> 00:53:19,120
Speaker 1: Or this kid at the airport was screaming, excuse me.

842
00:53:19,239 --> 00:53:22,080
Speaker 1: His voice was so loud and it was early morning,

843
00:53:22,200 --> 00:53:24,319
Speaker 1: just gone off the longest light ever, and he was,

844
00:53:24,360 --> 00:53:27,800
Speaker 1: excuse me, my dad's a huge fan. I get a picture.

845
00:53:28,280 --> 00:53:34,520
Speaker 1: And I was like, yes, yes me, yes, yes, my dad.

846
00:53:35,520 --> 00:53:38,200
Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, take a picture of the old girl

847
00:53:38,280 --> 00:53:42,680
Speaker 1: here that used to bother but doesn't father me anymore

848
00:53:42,840 --> 00:53:46,840
Speaker 1: like that. You know when that first started happening, I remember,

849
00:53:46,840 --> 00:53:49,520
Speaker 1: I was like whoa, whoa wa, whoa whoa. Oh. Remember

850
00:53:49,520 --> 00:53:51,799
Speaker 1: when we first started talking about how we didn't get

851
00:53:51,800 --> 00:53:54,759
Speaker 1: the looks anymore from a certain age of men, that

852
00:53:54,840 --> 00:53:58,200
Speaker 1: they just remember that that you're invisible. Yes, Remember I

853
00:53:58,239 --> 00:54:00,840
Speaker 1: told you. I was driving and I was like honking

854
00:54:01,280 --> 00:54:02,840
Speaker 1: and then he looked out and he saw blondeer and

855
00:54:02,840 --> 00:54:04,080
Speaker 1: he looked over and saw it was me, and he's

856
00:54:04,120 --> 00:54:07,120
Speaker 1: like and just kept driving. He was I think they're

857
00:54:07,120 --> 00:54:10,319
Speaker 1: going to get something great from Like I was devastated,

858
00:54:10,360 --> 00:54:13,239
Speaker 1: and Jen's like, yeah, this is what's happening. I was like, no.

859
00:54:13,719 --> 00:54:16,239
Speaker 1: And we had it very we wanted to write about it.

860
00:54:16,280 --> 00:54:19,520
Speaker 1: At some points we're like, God, it's such a thing,

861
00:54:19,680 --> 00:54:24,480
Speaker 1: like you, it's a transition for I forgot to tell

862
00:54:24,480 --> 00:54:29,040
Speaker 1: you guys my idea. You never told a special podcast

863
00:54:29,080 --> 00:54:30,960
Speaker 1: you were going to Texas and you never do. I

864
00:54:31,000 --> 00:54:33,560
Speaker 1: think take it to the text, yeah, because I don't

865
00:54:33,600 --> 00:54:35,520
Speaker 1: want to reveal it, because what if it is so

866
00:54:35,560 --> 00:54:40,560
Speaker 1: good we have a private OMG text yea, Chaine, take

867
00:54:40,600 --> 00:54:43,240
Speaker 1: it to the next I'm gonna take it to the text. Okay,

868
00:54:43,400 --> 00:54:47,040
Speaker 1: what are we doing next week? It is episode twenty six.

869
00:54:47,080 --> 00:54:51,359
Speaker 1: She came in through the bathroom window. That's a take

870
00:54:51,400 --> 00:54:54,480
Speaker 1: on a famous movie, right. Uh. He came in through

871
00:54:54,520 --> 00:54:57,759
Speaker 1: the back door. No, that's that's different. That's a poor

872
00:54:57,840 --> 00:55:06,640
Speaker 1: And you saw she gave it through the speaking of

873
00:55:06,800 --> 00:55:14,200
Speaker 1: old Jed. That was a real knee slapper. Oh my god, crying.

874
00:55:15,320 --> 00:55:18,640
Speaker 1: I think we gotta wrap on that I can't do

875
00:55:18,719 --> 00:55:33,400
Speaker 1: it anymore. Watch it, Cocker, cocker, She said, come on

876
00:55:33,680 --> 00:55:42,839
Speaker 1: the movie. I can't. Oh my god, we crack us up.

877
00:55:42,880 --> 00:55:45,560
Speaker 1: I don't know if we crack you up, but oh

878
00:55:45,600 --> 00:55:50,120
Speaker 1: my god, it's going to laugh with you guys every week.

879
00:55:50,160 --> 00:55:52,560
Speaker 1: That I gotta tell you. I need it, We all need.

880
00:55:52,640 --> 00:55:56,279
Speaker 1: Everybody out there has a good laugh. Please do that

881
00:55:56,440 --> 00:56:00,400
Speaker 1: has a good week. We love you, Love you. My

882
00:56:00,480 --> 00:56:03,400
Speaker 1: mom's a huge fan. My god, your mom's going to

883
00:56:03,520 --> 00:56:14,040
Speaker 1: hear this. That's even more embarrassing by gus By