1 00:00:03,360 --> 00:00:07,440 Speaker 1: Brook and Jewels Second Date up date. Remember, if you 2 00:00:07,440 --> 00:00:08,680 Speaker 1: want a second date up date, all you have to 3 00:00:08,720 --> 00:00:10,479 Speaker 1: do is email. It's Brook and Jewel at Moving nine 4 00:00:10,520 --> 00:00:12,719 Speaker 1: two five dot com. We will call the person who 5 00:00:12,760 --> 00:00:15,440 Speaker 1: didn't call you back, like we're gonna do for Kristen 6 00:00:15,720 --> 00:00:18,840 Speaker 1: right now. Christen, how are you? I'm okay, I guess, 7 00:00:18,880 --> 00:00:22,600 Speaker 1: but I'm just feeling a little loss about what happened 8 00:00:22,640 --> 00:00:25,560 Speaker 1: on this date that I really thought was going somewhere. Okay, Yeah, 9 00:00:25,560 --> 00:00:27,920 Speaker 1: your email said that you met this guy Ryan at 10 00:00:27,960 --> 00:00:30,400 Speaker 1: a going away party. Ryan and I didn't know each other, 11 00:00:30,480 --> 00:00:32,519 Speaker 1: but you know, people that knew us thought that we 12 00:00:32,520 --> 00:00:35,040 Speaker 1: could get along, and so they introduced us, and I mean, 13 00:00:35,080 --> 00:00:38,080 Speaker 1: we had a great time. And hold on, Christen, what 14 00:00:38,479 --> 00:00:41,280 Speaker 1: did you like about Ryan? Well, the first thing I 15 00:00:41,320 --> 00:00:43,199 Speaker 1: noticed about him were his eyes. I mean, he's just 16 00:00:43,280 --> 00:00:45,880 Speaker 1: got these gorgeous, piercing eyes that just feel like they're 17 00:00:45,920 --> 00:00:48,000 Speaker 1: looking right into you. And that, I mean that just 18 00:00:48,040 --> 00:00:50,839 Speaker 1: almost took my breath away. Were they blue? Yeah, just 19 00:00:50,960 --> 00:00:53,239 Speaker 1: kind of this kind of icy blue, but not not 20 00:00:53,280 --> 00:00:55,040 Speaker 1: in a mean way. I've got the same thing going 21 00:00:55,040 --> 00:00:57,800 Speaker 1: on a minor hazel, you see. So I understand your 22 00:00:57,840 --> 00:01:00,400 Speaker 1: position on that, Like when girls see them, they just instantly, 23 00:01:00,680 --> 00:01:03,880 Speaker 1: I don't think. Yeah, so you got caught up in 24 00:01:03,880 --> 00:01:06,080 Speaker 1: his blue eyes. But then he was also but he 25 00:01:06,120 --> 00:01:08,640 Speaker 1: was really easy going, and that you know, because sometimes 26 00:01:08,640 --> 00:01:11,120 Speaker 1: people with like gorgeous good looks or kind of you know, 27 00:01:11,240 --> 00:01:13,600 Speaker 1: stand offers or whatever. But he just was easy going 28 00:01:13,640 --> 00:01:16,800 Speaker 1: and approachable and easy to laugh with and just seems 29 00:01:16,840 --> 00:01:19,679 Speaker 1: like a real good guy. Did he seem into you, Kristen, 30 00:01:19,720 --> 00:01:21,679 Speaker 1: because you know, sometimes your friends will introduce you to 31 00:01:21,720 --> 00:01:23,560 Speaker 1: somebody just so that you have someone else to talk 32 00:01:23,600 --> 00:01:26,640 Speaker 1: to at a party. What I thought so, because we 33 00:01:26,840 --> 00:01:29,720 Speaker 1: spent I mean a huge amount of that party time together. 34 00:01:29,800 --> 00:01:32,160 Speaker 1: We tweet drank quite a bit together, It did some shots, 35 00:01:32,200 --> 00:01:34,400 Speaker 1: you know, it was it was fun. Did he get 36 00:01:34,440 --> 00:01:37,720 Speaker 1: handsy ever, you know a little touchy? Well no, but 37 00:01:37,840 --> 00:01:39,479 Speaker 1: I mean, you know, there were a lot of people around, 38 00:01:39,560 --> 00:01:41,520 Speaker 1: but we weren't. I mean, did he fill you up? 39 00:01:42,120 --> 00:01:44,080 Speaker 1: Did he fill you up? At the going way party? 40 00:01:44,200 --> 00:01:48,440 Speaker 1: Is not going to be like grabbed her around the 41 00:01:48,480 --> 00:01:50,840 Speaker 1: waist or brushed your bag, you know, just things like 42 00:01:50,880 --> 00:01:52,720 Speaker 1: touching you on the elbow or you know, kind of 43 00:01:52,800 --> 00:01:55,440 Speaker 1: leaning up against him. But nothing, nothing, really, you know, 44 00:01:55,640 --> 00:01:57,480 Speaker 1: I don't though it was it was all this really nice. 45 00:01:57,920 --> 00:02:00,600 Speaker 1: Your email said that he gave you a piggyback ride home. 46 00:02:00,760 --> 00:02:03,240 Speaker 1: What's that all about? That's kind of flirty. We were 47 00:02:03,240 --> 00:02:05,800 Speaker 1: at the party for a while and we had quite 48 00:02:05,840 --> 00:02:08,480 Speaker 1: a bit to drink, and I was feeling really tired 49 00:02:08,480 --> 00:02:10,560 Speaker 1: and a little woozy because we were just kind of 50 00:02:10,600 --> 00:02:12,080 Speaker 1: joking around, and I said, oh, I don't think I 51 00:02:12,080 --> 00:02:14,760 Speaker 1: can walk another step, and so I hopped on his 52 00:02:14,840 --> 00:02:17,880 Speaker 1: back and he basically took me home as if I 53 00:02:17,960 --> 00:02:21,360 Speaker 1: were riding my white speed home to my apartment. And 54 00:02:21,360 --> 00:02:24,000 Speaker 1: it was, I mean, it was all this very casual, 55 00:02:24,160 --> 00:02:27,560 Speaker 1: very kind of romantic, I mean for first interaction kind 56 00:02:27,560 --> 00:02:29,640 Speaker 1: of thing. But and we just we got back to 57 00:02:29,639 --> 00:02:32,880 Speaker 1: the apartment and and things were just really really going well, 58 00:02:32,880 --> 00:02:34,720 Speaker 1: and then it just kind of fell apart. What do 59 00:02:34,760 --> 00:02:37,120 Speaker 1: you mean, like you're making out and then it stopped 60 00:02:37,200 --> 00:02:39,679 Speaker 1: or well, when I slid it off his back and 61 00:02:40,000 --> 00:02:43,200 Speaker 1: we kind of connected and we kissed, and I just thought, 62 00:02:43,240 --> 00:02:45,280 Speaker 1: oh my gosh, it just it took my breath away. 63 00:02:45,320 --> 00:02:46,800 Speaker 1: And I asked him if he wanted to come up 64 00:02:46,840 --> 00:02:51,280 Speaker 1: to my apartments, and he declined, oh really, maybe he 65 00:02:51,320 --> 00:02:54,040 Speaker 1: was trying to be a gentleman, but no, no, I asked. 66 00:02:54,080 --> 00:02:56,160 Speaker 1: I mean, I mean maybe, but I asked him a 67 00:02:56,160 --> 00:02:58,200 Speaker 1: couple of times. I how did you ask him a 68 00:02:58,280 --> 00:03:00,280 Speaker 1: couple of times? And he's just like begging him to 69 00:03:00,280 --> 00:03:04,440 Speaker 1: come upstairs? No, no, I I guess you know if 70 00:03:04,440 --> 00:03:07,120 Speaker 1: I didn't sound this, but I just I don't know it. 71 00:03:07,440 --> 00:03:14,919 Speaker 1: Just kept asking and come upstairs. So I texted him, 72 00:03:15,400 --> 00:03:17,840 Speaker 1: you know, the next day, and you know, to see 73 00:03:18,280 --> 00:03:19,959 Speaker 1: did you text me to say, hey, do you still 74 00:03:19,960 --> 00:03:26,000 Speaker 1: want to come upstairs? All right? I mean it's not 75 00:03:26,080 --> 00:03:28,239 Speaker 1: like I have to lay it all out there, so 76 00:03:28,360 --> 00:03:30,280 Speaker 1: he hasn't got back to you. Okay, we're gonna play 77 00:03:30,280 --> 00:03:32,079 Speaker 1: a song, come back, call him and get your second 78 00:03:32,120 --> 00:03:40,520 Speaker 1: day update. All right, okay, all right, hold on looking 79 00:03:40,640 --> 00:03:45,680 Speaker 1: jubil in the morning. Second and Kristen, you there, Yeah, 80 00:03:46,040 --> 00:03:47,680 Speaker 1: just making sure you didn't hop on some guys back 81 00:03:47,720 --> 00:03:52,840 Speaker 1: and right off. Well that song was playing. All right, 82 00:03:53,040 --> 00:03:55,800 Speaker 1: it's your second day update if you're just joining us. 83 00:03:55,840 --> 00:03:58,080 Speaker 1: Kristen is on the phone. She wants us to call Ryan, 84 00:03:58,480 --> 00:04:00,840 Speaker 1: a dude that she met at a going away party. 85 00:04:01,040 --> 00:04:03,840 Speaker 1: She hopped on his back to get a piggyback ride 86 00:04:04,080 --> 00:04:06,640 Speaker 1: back to her place, which was down the street, then 87 00:04:06,680 --> 00:04:11,560 Speaker 1: invited him up to her place? How many times? Seventeen thousand? 88 00:04:12,080 --> 00:04:14,320 Speaker 1: It was just like it was like, probably maybe free, 89 00:04:14,360 --> 00:04:16,800 Speaker 1: I mean, after you know, two more after the initial one, 90 00:04:16,880 --> 00:04:19,360 Speaker 1: and right, it probably wasn't that bad. But he wouldn't 91 00:04:19,360 --> 00:04:21,200 Speaker 1: go up to your place. And now you haven't heard 92 00:04:21,200 --> 00:04:22,720 Speaker 1: from him. So we're gonna get him on the phone 93 00:04:22,760 --> 00:04:24,320 Speaker 1: in just a second. What's going through your mind right now? 94 00:04:24,360 --> 00:04:26,880 Speaker 1: Are you worried that he's gonna say something bad? What 95 00:04:27,000 --> 00:04:29,240 Speaker 1: I'm hoping is that it's just, you know, just a 96 00:04:29,279 --> 00:04:32,200 Speaker 1: matter of miscommunication. You know, we didn't get into a 97 00:04:32,200 --> 00:04:34,200 Speaker 1: lot of details even about what we did and what 98 00:04:34,279 --> 00:04:37,320 Speaker 1: our schedules were, so I don't know, maybe maybe he's 99 00:04:37,360 --> 00:04:40,479 Speaker 1: out of tower or something. Christen, before we call him, 100 00:04:40,520 --> 00:04:43,360 Speaker 1: I forgot to ask how drunk were you? Were you 101 00:04:43,400 --> 00:04:47,760 Speaker 1: slurring your words when you were asking him to come up? No, no, no, no, 102 00:04:47,839 --> 00:04:49,520 Speaker 1: not that that just you know, just kind of that 103 00:04:49,839 --> 00:04:53,839 Speaker 1: sort of were you kind of your intefitions and you're 104 00:04:53,839 --> 00:04:56,279 Speaker 1: a little more confident. Maybe the problem is you weren't 105 00:04:56,320 --> 00:04:58,440 Speaker 1: slurring your words, because I know that gets me up 106 00:04:58,480 --> 00:05:03,760 Speaker 1: to a woman's house every time. Hold on, all right, 107 00:05:03,760 --> 00:05:18,279 Speaker 1: we're gonna call right now. Okay, all right? Is Ryan there. Yeah, 108 00:05:18,320 --> 00:05:20,280 Speaker 1: this is hey Ryan. How are you man? This is 109 00:05:20,360 --> 00:05:21,960 Speaker 1: Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the morning. I'm moving 110 00:05:22,000 --> 00:05:31,480 Speaker 1: ninety two point five. Oh hey, congratulations. Thanks. Do you 111 00:05:31,520 --> 00:05:35,800 Speaker 1: remember entering a contest with our station? No, I don't. 112 00:05:36,000 --> 00:05:41,080 Speaker 1: That's because you didn't. I'm calling you about a second 113 00:05:41,080 --> 00:05:42,720 Speaker 1: we do on our show called the Second Date Update. 114 00:05:42,720 --> 00:05:46,760 Speaker 1: Are you familiar with that at all? No? Okay. Say 115 00:05:46,760 --> 00:05:48,680 Speaker 1: you go out on a date with someone, right, and 116 00:05:48,720 --> 00:05:50,839 Speaker 1: then you blow them off and you don't call him back. 117 00:05:51,160 --> 00:05:54,480 Speaker 1: They email us to call you and ask if they 118 00:05:54,480 --> 00:05:58,400 Speaker 1: did something wrong. Oh, so you want to date with 119 00:05:58,400 --> 00:06:00,599 Speaker 1: one of my friends named Kristen. So I'm just calling 120 00:06:00,640 --> 00:06:06,440 Speaker 1: to see why you're not calling her back. She said 121 00:06:06,480 --> 00:06:10,480 Speaker 1: she was a little drunk. Did she say something stupid? No? No, okay. 122 00:06:11,000 --> 00:06:12,960 Speaker 1: She did say that you gave her a piggyback ride 123 00:06:12,960 --> 00:06:16,240 Speaker 1: back to her place. Very romantic, by the way, nice touch. 124 00:06:16,720 --> 00:06:18,560 Speaker 1: And she said that she was like kind of inviting 125 00:06:18,600 --> 00:06:20,520 Speaker 1: you up to her apartment and you didn't want to 126 00:06:20,520 --> 00:06:22,800 Speaker 1: go up there and then just left and haven't called her. 127 00:06:22,880 --> 00:06:25,040 Speaker 1: Well no, I mean it wasn't. I didn't. I did 128 00:06:25,320 --> 00:06:28,239 Speaker 1: not want to go up there, Like I just I couldn't. 129 00:06:28,760 --> 00:06:34,240 Speaker 1: Why do you have a girlfriend? No, no, I'm It's 130 00:06:34,279 --> 00:06:37,599 Speaker 1: just it's when I was given her a piggyback I 131 00:06:37,680 --> 00:06:42,640 Speaker 1: kind of I kind of hurt myself. Why what do 132 00:06:42,680 --> 00:06:47,000 Speaker 1: you mean I threw my back out? You threw your 133 00:06:47,040 --> 00:06:51,279 Speaker 1: back out? If he's going inside, he can't do any 134 00:06:51,560 --> 00:06:53,840 Speaker 1: But he didn't call her back later? Like, why wouldn't 135 00:06:53,880 --> 00:06:56,719 Speaker 1: you call her back later? I couldn't move like I 136 00:06:56,839 --> 00:06:59,720 Speaker 1: was in bed for the next three days. Oh man, 137 00:07:00,320 --> 00:07:03,040 Speaker 1: did you hold it against her? Like? Because it was 138 00:07:03,320 --> 00:07:06,559 Speaker 1: you giving her a piggyback ride? She was a little 139 00:07:07,160 --> 00:07:12,640 Speaker 1: she's a she's a bigger girl, you know, Ryan? What 140 00:07:12,720 --> 00:07:15,400 Speaker 1: did she like scream in pain or something? Though I 141 00:07:15,640 --> 00:07:20,520 Speaker 1: was trying not to. Yeah, that would be even more embarrassing. 142 00:07:21,240 --> 00:07:24,600 Speaker 1: She jumps on your back like, oh tubs, get off? 143 00:07:25,720 --> 00:07:29,080 Speaker 1: Oh come on, Yeah, don't be mean to this girl 144 00:07:29,600 --> 00:07:32,040 Speaker 1: just because he can't carry a girl on his back, 145 00:07:32,240 --> 00:07:36,760 Speaker 1: a bigger girl. He thinks I'm a bigger girl? What 146 00:07:36,960 --> 00:07:40,960 Speaker 1: because I'm not five two? And Wayne, Ryan, I should 147 00:07:41,000 --> 00:07:42,680 Speaker 1: let you know that Kristen is actually on the phone 148 00:07:42,680 --> 00:07:47,880 Speaker 1: and heard everything you just said. Who are you giving 149 00:07:47,920 --> 00:07:54,240 Speaker 1: pickyback rights to twelve year old? Get him Kristen, Well, 150 00:07:54,520 --> 00:08:04,360 Speaker 1: I mean what I mean, it's it's fun entirely untrue. 151 00:08:05,840 --> 00:08:08,240 Speaker 1: I mean, if I knew you had a fight or 152 00:08:08,280 --> 00:08:10,560 Speaker 1: a weight limit on your back, believe me, I would 153 00:08:10,600 --> 00:08:12,920 Speaker 1: have warned you. But you didn't say anything about that. 154 00:08:13,360 --> 00:08:15,560 Speaker 1: I'm sorry. If you're over five to seven or you're 155 00:08:15,600 --> 00:08:17,560 Speaker 1: over one hundred and forty pounds, you can't get on 156 00:08:17,600 --> 00:08:22,240 Speaker 1: my back. Ryan. You saw her, you spent the whole 157 00:08:22,320 --> 00:08:25,320 Speaker 1: night with her, and you what offered to get her 158 00:08:25,360 --> 00:08:28,200 Speaker 1: on your back? Well, I mean, I don't know that 159 00:08:28,480 --> 00:08:30,760 Speaker 1: either one of our judgments was the best though. You know, 160 00:08:30,880 --> 00:08:35,640 Speaker 1: like we've been saying that. All right, If I'm gonna 161 00:08:35,640 --> 00:08:37,360 Speaker 1: go ahead and read into what you're saying here, Ryan, 162 00:08:37,400 --> 00:08:40,240 Speaker 1: you're saying that you, in your opinion, you had your 163 00:08:40,240 --> 00:08:43,120 Speaker 1: beer goggles on and then she hurt your back because 164 00:08:43,120 --> 00:08:45,280 Speaker 1: you feel like maybe she's a little bit big for you. 165 00:08:45,960 --> 00:08:48,000 Speaker 1: I'm not saying that, I'm not. I mean that sure 166 00:08:48,040 --> 00:08:51,080 Speaker 1: sounds like what you're saying. That sounds exactly what you're saying. 167 00:08:52,000 --> 00:08:54,360 Speaker 1: It probably just wasn't the best idea. You know, I 168 00:08:54,400 --> 00:08:56,960 Speaker 1: couldn't do anything for like three days. I was I 169 00:08:57,000 --> 00:09:00,480 Speaker 1: was stuck in bit three days and I suppose it 170 00:09:00,520 --> 00:09:02,200 Speaker 1: had nothing to do with the fact that maybe he 171 00:09:02,280 --> 00:09:04,280 Speaker 1: had too much to drink and he wasn't using his 172 00:09:04,400 --> 00:09:06,760 Speaker 1: body in the way that he should have been. Easy 173 00:09:07,280 --> 00:09:10,320 Speaker 1: sport here, Ryan, at this point, I'd like to ask 174 00:09:10,360 --> 00:09:13,480 Speaker 1: if you would go out on a second date with Kristen, 175 00:09:13,720 --> 00:09:19,120 Speaker 1: we will pay for it. Interested I I don't know, 176 00:09:19,640 --> 00:09:22,080 Speaker 1: you don't know. What do you mean? You don't know? 177 00:09:23,160 --> 00:09:24,920 Speaker 1: I don't know what I mean. I'm vous, I can 178 00:09:24,960 --> 00:09:29,680 Speaker 1: make it easier for him. Never mind, No, come on, Christen, 179 00:09:29,760 --> 00:09:31,679 Speaker 1: he sounds like a sweetheart. Christ He gave you a 180 00:09:31,760 --> 00:09:33,559 Speaker 1: He give you a piggyback ride. Christ needs to go 181 00:09:33,720 --> 00:09:35,760 Speaker 1: find a real man who can give her a real 182 00:09:35,800 --> 00:09:38,599 Speaker 1: piggyback ride without hurting a little bit. Ryan needs to 183 00:09:38,679 --> 00:09:45,320 Speaker 1: hit the gym, I think, instead of going on a date. Okay, Oh, 184 00:09:45,360 --> 00:09:47,280 Speaker 1: he's just trying to get off this. Yeah, because like 185 00:09:47,360 --> 00:09:49,280 Speaker 1: I just I dug myself into a ditch and I 186 00:09:49,280 --> 00:09:51,400 Speaker 1: can't get out of it. Okay, Ryan, Well, thank you 187 00:09:51,440 --> 00:09:54,240 Speaker 1: for your time. I appreciate you being honest. Really, yeah, 188 00:09:54,280 --> 00:09:56,320 Speaker 1: I appreciate him being honest. Now we also say that 189 00:09:56,360 --> 00:09:59,400 Speaker 1: you're sorry that christ And got her feelings her Christen, 190 00:09:59,400 --> 00:10:01,640 Speaker 1: did you get your feel hurt, you know what. I 191 00:10:01,679 --> 00:10:04,320 Speaker 1: think maybe it's more of a situation where you just 192 00:10:04,440 --> 00:10:08,920 Speaker 1: saved me from some future irritation a positive side. I 193 00:10:09,000 --> 00:10:12,559 Speaker 1: appreciate that. And just to make sure the next guy 194 00:10:12,600 --> 00:10:14,040 Speaker 1: you got with you take one of those like theme 195 00:10:14,080 --> 00:10:15,640 Speaker 1: park ride things along with them, like you must be 196 00:10:15,640 --> 00:10:20,640 Speaker 1: this tall broken jewel in the morning.