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Speaker 1: Hey guys, we have a special bonus Christmas episode on

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Speaker 1: Q and A with our buddy Easton, and we have

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Speaker 1: a your good friend Bethany Joy Lenz from Once were

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Speaker 1: to come on and talk about some things and about

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Speaker 1: all about her new albums, snow Can't Wait wind Down podcast, Well,

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Speaker 1: wind Down Live on the Stereo app. Christmas Eat? Are

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Speaker 1: you ready for Christmas Eve? Brew? I'm so excited. Eastern

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Speaker 1: What are you about to do? What am I about

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Speaker 1: to do for Christmas Eve? Oh? My goodness. Uh, the

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Speaker 1: stockings are hung by the chimney with care. Um. I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna throw a dura flame log in the fireplace and

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Speaker 1: watch a Christmas movie, maybe make a gingerbread house at

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Speaker 1: a boy all the Christmas stuff. What's your favorite Christmas movie?

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Speaker 1: My favorite Christmas movie is Gremlins. What that's a Christmas movie? Oh,

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Speaker 1: it's a Christmas movie. It's very if you watch it,

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Speaker 1: it's very Christmas. Takes place on Christmas Eve, sand is

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Speaker 1: all over the place, they're in the snow. Gremlins is

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Speaker 1: a Christmas movie. You're right, that's like a diet the

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Speaker 1: die hard conversation exactly. I believe die Hard as a

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Speaker 1: Christmas movie. I think the argument of die Hard is

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Speaker 1: that it released in the summertime, and I don't know

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Speaker 1: about Gremlins. I think Gremlins released around Christmas. But that's

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Speaker 1: where the die Hard discourse comes in. That's that carries

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Speaker 1: some weight that's understandable. Well, what do you guy? So

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Speaker 1: we're just gonna hang out as a fan. We got

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Speaker 1: the in laws in town, and so we have a

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Speaker 1: tradition where we're able to open one present on Christmas Eve?

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Speaker 1: So what present are we gonna let the kids open? Honestly,

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Speaker 1: I wrapped the presents so long ago that I don't

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Speaker 1: remember what's in the presents. So I'm really I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I'll just go Emi MENI Moneymi, And we just want

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Speaker 1: to grab a big one who knows so small and

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Speaker 1: could be just as tricky. Well, this is fun. We're

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Speaker 1: on you know, Live wind Down on the stereo app Um,

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Speaker 1: we're gonna have a good friend of your yours, Bethany

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Speaker 1: joy Lynds from Wintry Hill. She's gonna be on the

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Speaker 1: show later. Yeah, she has a new album out called Snow.

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Speaker 1: It's so good. So if you want a good Christmas

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Speaker 1: album to listen to, definitely give it a listen. Um,

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Speaker 1: I just can't believe tomorrow's Christmas, Like we finally made

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Speaker 1: day after everything down, maybe like a few days later,

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Speaker 1: but it has to be down before New Year's, Before

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Speaker 1: New Year's. I know some people that like to keep

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Speaker 1: I think we left ours up until New Year's, but

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I think I like to say that

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Speaker 1: Swift song came out where she's like, we can leave

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Speaker 1: that's a that's a slippery slope. Go. Then it goes

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Speaker 1: to February. Then March. Then you start justifying to leave

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Speaker 1: him up all year exactly. Work smart, not hard. Hey,

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Speaker 1: so I know we're going to do some Q and A.

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Speaker 1: Uh this show. You've got some things lined up for us.

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Speaker 1: I certainly do. I mean, these are some hard hitting

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Speaker 1: let's do the first one here. Uh, what's your best

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Speaker 1: advice for a newly engaged couple? Mm hmm, what honey? Um?

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Speaker 1: enjoy the feeling that you have with your partner. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I would say, just enjoy getting to know each other,

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Speaker 1: like continuing to get to know each other, and that

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Speaker 1: What are your favorite attributes about each other? Um? I

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Speaker 1: Janna's just kind of relentlessness when it comes to to

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Speaker 1: and think outside the box. Right now, we're gonna turn

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Speaker 1: it on turn this next question on its head. If

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Speaker 1: do better? If you this is a high concept question

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Speaker 1: if you inhabited her body for the day, so like

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Speaker 1: Little Dickey style exactly, Um, oh what can I do?

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Speaker 1: I'll go out there and just let loose. Mhm um, yep, good.

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Speaker 1: I would probably say. I mean cleaning, you know, just

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Speaker 1: We have some live questions I'm gonna get I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: get this. What is one thing that you two have

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Speaker 1: before quarantine and COVID. Oh, I don't know. I feel

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Speaker 1: like I feel like we know each other pretty well. Mike.

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Speaker 1: Why don't you start mm hmmm. Something we learned knew

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Speaker 1: about each other that we didn't there before, man, Daniel,

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Speaker 1: I mean, the thing is not much changed for us

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Speaker 1: because we're always together anyway. Yeah, I would say honestly,

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Speaker 1: other environment. But good question, nonetheless, which one of you

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Speaker 1: How did you come up with kids names? Did you

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Speaker 1: But yeah, at times I do. It's like, hey, there's Janna,

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Speaker 1: Jolie and Chase and Mike just there existing. But you

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Speaker 1: you see what are the questions you got over there? Okay,

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Speaker 1: non Mike related songs you wrote? And you're saying, like whiskey,

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Speaker 1: I got the boy, I won't give up. So why

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Speaker 1: I'm the old Taylor Swift you know. Yeah, well, how

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Speaker 1: what I've always said. Uh oh, here's a here's a

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Speaker 1: different way, all right, all right? So what what was

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Speaker 1: supposed to be Jessica or Ariel And I'm just glad,

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Speaker 1: I mean, no, no hate to like Jessica or the

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Speaker 1: Ariels out there, but um yeah or no, sorry, it

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Speaker 1: on my list almost every month to be like, Okay,

423
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Speaker 1: what what have I kept putting back on the backburner

424
00:27:45,600 --> 00:27:49,320
Speaker 1: of my goals this year? Um? Because it's easy to

425
00:27:49,400 --> 00:27:53,280
Speaker 1: write your goals on a sheet of paper or tell

426
00:27:53,359 --> 00:27:55,679
Speaker 1: yourself it, But if you're not gonna look at it

427
00:27:55,720 --> 00:27:58,200
Speaker 1: and see it and remind yourself of what you set

428
00:27:58,200 --> 00:28:00,520
Speaker 1: out to do, you're never going to fulfill what you

429
00:28:00,560 --> 00:28:03,679
Speaker 1: want to do. Um. And you know there's things on

430
00:28:03,720 --> 00:28:05,640
Speaker 1: my list that I you know, there's only one thing

431
00:28:05,680 --> 00:28:09,000
Speaker 1: I didn't do this year on my list, and you

432
00:28:09,040 --> 00:28:13,359
Speaker 1: know it was something that I decided to put, you know,

433
00:28:13,440 --> 00:28:15,440
Speaker 1: to to my next year. But to be like the

434
00:28:15,880 --> 00:28:18,960
Speaker 1: top of what I'm gonna do because I didn't fulfill

435
00:28:19,000 --> 00:28:20,840
Speaker 1: everything I wanted to do. But I think it is

436
00:28:20,920 --> 00:28:26,480
Speaker 1: like writing things out and for me, like, um, you know,

437
00:28:26,520 --> 00:28:28,520
Speaker 1: I have my work goals and then my personal goals,

438
00:28:28,600 --> 00:28:33,879
Speaker 1: and I think just I'm gonna keep my own personal

439
00:28:33,960 --> 00:28:37,800
Speaker 1: ones to myself. But um, I have I have very

440
00:28:37,880 --> 00:28:45,320
Speaker 1: high goals. What about you? Um, you know I gotta

441
00:28:45,320 --> 00:28:48,200
Speaker 1: write them out? I don't. I don't. I have them

442
00:28:48,200 --> 00:28:49,360
Speaker 1: off the top of my head. But I think I

443
00:28:49,440 --> 00:28:50,959
Speaker 1: got to look back on my list. Is one thing

444
00:28:51,000 --> 00:28:52,960
Speaker 1: I didn't do is look back on my list enough.

445
00:28:54,040 --> 00:28:57,760
Speaker 1: But also looking to see you both are so talented.

446
00:28:58,200 --> 00:29:00,760
Speaker 1: What are some hidden talents that you don't know about?

447
00:29:02,920 --> 00:29:07,800
Speaker 1: I can carty and I can do the splits, which

448
00:29:07,800 --> 00:29:09,760
Speaker 1: I feel like for thirty seven year old is pretty

449
00:29:09,800 --> 00:29:20,960
Speaker 1: darn good. Um, don't a great swimmer. You're a great cook,

450
00:29:21,040 --> 00:29:24,880
Speaker 1: but everyone knows that you are a good swimmer, strong summer.

451
00:29:25,040 --> 00:29:28,840
Speaker 1: I would drown you. See your back on the clock

452
00:29:28,880 --> 00:29:32,440
Speaker 1: with us. You're on the stereo app. All right, we

453
00:29:32,480 --> 00:29:35,200
Speaker 1: got we got some more questions coming in from social Jane.

454
00:29:35,320 --> 00:29:37,480
Speaker 1: I'm sorry when you say you can do the splits?

455
00:29:37,520 --> 00:29:41,160
Speaker 1: Is it like the like uh was it Jean Claude

456
00:29:41,200 --> 00:29:43,960
Speaker 1: being damn like straight out or like in front and

457
00:29:44,000 --> 00:29:47,320
Speaker 1: behind you? Which way? Well, front and behind. I can't

458
00:29:47,360 --> 00:29:49,760
Speaker 1: do this straight out. I don't think I've ever been

459
00:29:49,800 --> 00:29:51,760
Speaker 1: able to do that, that one. It's always just been

460
00:29:51,880 --> 00:29:55,360
Speaker 1: so I guess that's like kind of cheating. But no, no,

461
00:29:55,440 --> 00:29:57,480
Speaker 1: that's I mean, that's that's the splits in my mind.

462
00:29:57,520 --> 00:30:05,000
Speaker 1: It's still the splits. Right. M uh let's see. Oh,

463
00:30:05,480 --> 00:30:08,280
Speaker 1: I'm being told you didn't get to them. What were

464
00:30:08,280 --> 00:30:11,160
Speaker 1: the resolutions you didn't get to? Jannah? Can you share

465
00:30:11,360 --> 00:30:14,400
Speaker 1: the one you put off for next year? Yes? Um,

466
00:30:14,440 --> 00:30:17,480
Speaker 1: I never I really wanted to do a blog, um,

467
00:30:17,560 --> 00:30:21,320
Speaker 1: and I I I just I didn't do it. And

468
00:30:21,320 --> 00:30:24,040
Speaker 1: I'm bummed that I didn't do that. Um. But I'm

469
00:30:24,040 --> 00:30:26,280
Speaker 1: gonna start putting the things that I want to do

470
00:30:26,320 --> 00:30:30,320
Speaker 1: at the forefront and um and make sure that I

471
00:30:30,640 --> 00:30:35,200
Speaker 1: everything else I did. Um, but I that was the one.

472
00:30:35,360 --> 00:30:38,480
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna I like to write things down, even

473
00:30:38,480 --> 00:30:42,040
Speaker 1: though I'm not the best writer, but I like to

474
00:30:42,160 --> 00:30:45,040
Speaker 1: just kind of write out things and um, have a

475
00:30:45,080 --> 00:30:47,760
Speaker 1: safe place to express things because I feel like on

476
00:30:47,840 --> 00:30:52,440
Speaker 1: Instagram it's really hard to write right certain things because

477
00:30:52,440 --> 00:30:54,080
Speaker 1: you get a lot of negative feedback. But if I

478
00:30:54,120 --> 00:30:56,440
Speaker 1: have a blog, it's kind of like hopefully the only

479
00:30:56,680 --> 00:30:59,080
Speaker 1: hopefully people that like me, we'll just go to the

480
00:30:59,120 --> 00:31:02,040
Speaker 1: blog and not that people that hate on me. Um,

481
00:31:02,200 --> 00:31:04,760
Speaker 1: And you know, can it can be like a nicer

482
00:31:04,840 --> 00:31:08,840
Speaker 1: environment to share vulnerable things. So it would be like

483
00:31:08,840 --> 00:31:11,880
Speaker 1: like a general kind of like place to share your

484
00:31:11,920 --> 00:31:14,719
Speaker 1: thoughts as opposed to like like it won't be just

485
00:31:14,800 --> 00:31:18,800
Speaker 1: about parenting or just about your marriage, like everything related

486
00:31:18,800 --> 00:31:25,280
Speaker 1: to Janna, everything and everything, anything and everything. And that

487
00:31:25,320 --> 00:31:27,120
Speaker 1: brings me to my next question. I'm actually holding my

488
00:31:27,200 --> 00:31:29,080
Speaker 1: hand a copy of The Good Fight, which is an

489
00:31:29,080 --> 00:31:32,760
Speaker 1: amazing book everyone should check out by Jenna Clamer Michael Cosson.

490
00:31:32,920 --> 00:31:38,160
Speaker 1: Is there going to be another book? That's the plan.

491
00:31:40,000 --> 00:31:41,880
Speaker 1: That's the plan. We're just you know, we're working on

492
00:31:41,880 --> 00:31:44,240
Speaker 1: the topic and how we want to structure things and

493
00:31:45,480 --> 00:31:49,600
Speaker 1: go from there. Yeah. I mean, I've gotten a bunch

494
00:31:49,600 --> 00:31:51,520
Speaker 1: of ideas and I hope that you know, we can

495
00:31:51,520 --> 00:31:53,840
Speaker 1: sit down and come together and and you know, work

496
00:31:53,880 --> 00:31:58,760
Speaker 1: on it. So we'll see fingers crossed The Good Fight

497
00:31:58,880 --> 00:32:01,480
Speaker 1: round to come and do a bestsellers list near you.

498
00:32:04,000 --> 00:32:07,000
Speaker 1: Let's hey, what are some couples getaways? That you guys

499
00:32:07,000 --> 00:32:09,440
Speaker 1: have done you really enjoyed, and you'd recommend to some

500
00:32:09,520 --> 00:32:15,160
Speaker 1: parents that need a break. Um. I mean I think

501
00:32:15,200 --> 00:32:19,920
Speaker 1: there's a place. Um, we just went to Cabo. We

502
00:32:20,000 --> 00:32:24,760
Speaker 1: went to pedrogal Um Kaboul is a diamond resorts property

503
00:32:24,760 --> 00:32:27,880
Speaker 1: that's really nice. Um. And if you want to just

504
00:32:27,920 --> 00:32:31,480
Speaker 1: do something local, there's a place in Tennessee called BlackBerry

505
00:32:31,480 --> 00:32:37,120
Speaker 1: Farms that's all farm to table, really good food. Um.

506
00:32:37,160 --> 00:32:41,600
Speaker 1: And honestly, like for me, like just you know, you

507
00:32:41,640 --> 00:32:44,880
Speaker 1: can just get away anywhere with Airbnb. I mean pick

508
00:32:44,920 --> 00:32:51,400
Speaker 1: a place, get on Airbnb and and just get away. Um.

509
00:32:51,720 --> 00:32:55,120
Speaker 1: I'm trying to think of other places. I think you know,

510
00:32:55,200 --> 00:32:59,440
Speaker 1: a staycation is highly underrated. Um. You know, even in

511
00:32:59,520 --> 00:33:01,880
Speaker 1: your city or or a nearby city that's a close

512
00:33:01,960 --> 00:33:05,160
Speaker 1: to travel to and just get away and just so

513
00:33:05,280 --> 00:33:10,160
Speaker 1: you're waking up somewhere different together and just doing something different.

514
00:33:12,560 --> 00:33:16,360
Speaker 1: What's one word of advice you guys can share for

515
00:33:16,440 --> 00:33:21,560
Speaker 1: a long happy marriage. One word? One word? But that's

516
00:33:21,560 --> 00:33:35,200
Speaker 1: all you got patients, Um, Empathy, grace, communication. Yeah, my

517
00:33:35,400 --> 00:33:45,080
Speaker 1: mom would be grace that. Yeah. So when this is

518
00:33:45,080 --> 00:33:47,920
Speaker 1: a question that came in when one of you is

519
00:33:47,960 --> 00:33:54,720
Speaker 1: in trouble, who gets over the silent treatment? First? What

520
00:33:54,760 --> 00:33:57,400
Speaker 1: do you mean? I'm I'm sorry, I'm trying to kind

521
00:33:57,400 --> 00:33:59,640
Speaker 1: of worth this out with it. What they mean? I

522
00:34:00,040 --> 00:34:02,000
Speaker 1: you do give each other the silent treatment? Like do

523
00:34:02,040 --> 00:34:03,959
Speaker 1: you do? You there? You guys like shut down when

524
00:34:04,000 --> 00:34:07,200
Speaker 1: you're when you're upset at the other one. Yeah, I

525
00:34:07,240 --> 00:34:12,680
Speaker 1: think we both do. And when that happens, which of

526
00:34:12,719 --> 00:34:20,040
Speaker 1: you is fastest to break that? Probably? Yeah, because it's

527
00:34:20,080 --> 00:34:25,560
Speaker 1: usually me that's in trouble. So usually the culprit is

528
00:34:25,600 --> 00:34:30,520
Speaker 1: the one that needs to break the silence. So it's

529
00:34:30,600 --> 00:34:36,879
Speaker 1: the easiest spot to start waving the white flag. Let's

530
00:34:36,920 --> 00:34:42,360
Speaker 1: see here. Um. You know, I I personally have just

531
00:34:42,440 --> 00:34:46,680
Speaker 1: learned so much about about marriage from you guys, and

532
00:34:46,760 --> 00:34:50,560
Speaker 1: like working on this show has been like just a

533
00:34:50,560 --> 00:34:55,080
Speaker 1: master class I think in in conflict management and listening

534
00:34:55,280 --> 00:34:57,800
Speaker 1: and patience. And I just want to thank you guys

535
00:34:58,120 --> 00:35:01,200
Speaker 1: as we end the end of the year here or uh,

536
00:35:01,200 --> 00:35:04,200
Speaker 1: for for all the you know, I can't imagine the

537
00:35:04,280 --> 00:35:07,239
Speaker 1: thousands of other couples you're helping, but just I'm just

538
00:35:07,320 --> 00:35:10,879
Speaker 1: one case. This has been I just appreciate you guys

539
00:35:10,880 --> 00:35:13,799
Speaker 1: sharing your your journey and sharing these things that you've

540
00:35:13,880 --> 00:35:17,840
Speaker 1: learned along the way. It's helping everybody else than thanks Easter.

541
00:35:18,200 --> 00:35:24,959
Speaker 1: Appreciative buddy. Uh. Let's see, it's not always easy, right,

542
00:35:26,719 --> 00:35:29,560
Speaker 1: That's that's right. Uh, you know you got to keep

543
00:35:29,560 --> 00:35:33,520
Speaker 1: on fighting the good fight because you know, if it

544
00:35:33,560 --> 00:35:35,920
Speaker 1: was easy, everyone would do it, and uh not everybody

545
00:35:35,960 --> 00:35:39,480
Speaker 1: does it, that's for sure, not every h So you

546
00:35:39,520 --> 00:35:43,000
Speaker 1: know you mentioned on the show the other uh last week,

547
00:35:43,400 --> 00:35:47,560
Speaker 1: I think, um, that you were thinking about maybe surrogacy

548
00:35:47,680 --> 00:35:52,200
Speaker 1: if you're gonna go for baby number three? Uh? Is

549
00:35:52,239 --> 00:35:54,279
Speaker 1: that's is that something as I have looked into, how

550
00:35:54,520 --> 00:35:57,480
Speaker 1: do you feel about about like how would you react

551
00:35:57,520 --> 00:36:02,640
Speaker 1: over someone else like carrying your child? Yeah, you know

552
00:36:02,719 --> 00:36:05,880
Speaker 1: it's something that we we've just kind of thrown at

553
00:36:05,920 --> 00:36:08,719
Speaker 1: the board, just talking out all sorts of options if

554
00:36:08,760 --> 00:36:10,560
Speaker 1: we want to end up having a third And I

555
00:36:10,600 --> 00:36:15,200
Speaker 1: think it's you know, you gotta weigh the options, and

556
00:36:16,360 --> 00:36:19,320
Speaker 1: you know, for us, it's it's in the possible equation.

557
00:36:19,920 --> 00:36:24,400
Speaker 1: But I have my you know, right, my reservations about

558
00:36:24,440 --> 00:36:28,320
Speaker 1: it as well, are my hesitations about it as well, Um,

559
00:36:28,400 --> 00:36:32,320
Speaker 1: just you know, not feeling as the dad. We already

560
00:36:32,320 --> 00:36:35,239
Speaker 1: don't feel as connected because we're not carrying the child, right,

561
00:36:35,239 --> 00:36:37,919
Speaker 1: so there's not that initial maternal bond like a mother

562
00:36:38,000 --> 00:36:42,160
Speaker 1: and a child have. And so now you know, as

563
00:36:42,160 --> 00:36:45,360
Speaker 1: the dad, will feel even more kind of displaced because

564
00:36:45,920 --> 00:36:48,080
Speaker 1: now we're not even able to be next to the

565
00:36:48,160 --> 00:36:50,360
Speaker 1: child on a regular basis and talk to the child.

566
00:36:50,760 --> 00:36:54,400
Speaker 1: You would think, though, that that would help you, like

567
00:36:54,480 --> 00:36:57,480
Speaker 1: because we're both like we're like doing it together where

568
00:36:57,480 --> 00:36:59,839
Speaker 1: it's like we're both like going through it and being like,

569
00:37:00,480 --> 00:37:03,120
Speaker 1: do you know what I mean? Yeah, I do, but

570
00:37:04,280 --> 00:37:06,440
Speaker 1: I think i'd be closer to you. But I'm not

571
00:37:06,520 --> 00:37:11,680
Speaker 1: comparing it to to your to like your connection or

572
00:37:11,760 --> 00:37:15,120
Speaker 1: like the mother's connection. I'm I'm just kind of saying

573
00:37:15,160 --> 00:37:17,279
Speaker 1: like in general, like now I wouldn't be able to

574
00:37:17,320 --> 00:37:19,640
Speaker 1: see it at all or not at all, but you know,

575
00:37:19,960 --> 00:37:24,759
Speaker 1: but yeah, I get what you're saying. Would you like,

576
00:37:26,600 --> 00:37:29,080
Speaker 1: I'm not sure exactly how it works, but like when

577
00:37:29,120 --> 00:37:32,239
Speaker 1: you like hang out with the with the surrogate, like

578
00:37:32,320 --> 00:37:35,440
Speaker 1: I'd be inclined to just be like macking down sushi

579
00:37:35,480 --> 00:37:37,799
Speaker 1: and drinking, like you know, doing all the stuff you

580
00:37:37,840 --> 00:37:40,680
Speaker 1: can't do when you're pregnant, like so that that, I mean,

581
00:37:40,680 --> 00:37:44,920
Speaker 1: that's an attractive thing, right, I mean, the only thing

582
00:37:44,960 --> 00:37:47,719
Speaker 1: that's really attractive to me is the fact that I

583
00:37:47,760 --> 00:37:52,920
Speaker 1: wouldn't be puking the entire time, and I would, like,

584
00:37:52,960 --> 00:37:55,680
Speaker 1: who knows if I'd be able to carry it, you know,

585
00:37:55,800 --> 00:37:58,040
Speaker 1: like if I would have another miscarriage again. So it's

586
00:37:58,080 --> 00:38:02,239
Speaker 1: just and I'm being sure, having wine is a nice thing,

587
00:38:02,280 --> 00:38:04,000
Speaker 1: but I mean it was easy to give it up

588
00:38:04,080 --> 00:38:06,480
Speaker 1: when when I was pregnant because the thought of wine

589
00:38:06,520 --> 00:38:11,080
Speaker 1: tasted disgusting, which is not something that would happen for me.

590
00:38:12,320 --> 00:38:15,560
Speaker 1: I got another live question here at East Do either

591
00:38:15,640 --> 00:38:19,440
Speaker 1: of you have any crazy holiday stories, like anything that

592
00:38:19,960 --> 00:38:26,719
Speaker 1: went wrong or any holiday blunders or forgotten things. Um,

593
00:38:27,200 --> 00:38:28,960
Speaker 1: The only thing that I can remember when when I

594
00:38:29,000 --> 00:38:31,080
Speaker 1: was five years old, those around Joy's age, I was

595
00:38:31,080 --> 00:38:33,640
Speaker 1: playing this little Mermaid game with my uncle Polly, and

596
00:38:33,680 --> 00:38:36,160
Speaker 1: I threw up all over my red dress. So that

597
00:38:36,280 --> 00:38:39,600
Speaker 1: was like one of my early Christmas memories. And I

598
00:38:39,680 --> 00:38:41,839
Speaker 1: just remember being so upset and apologizing to my uncle

599
00:38:41,880 --> 00:38:48,600
Speaker 1: and saying sorry. I don't know if I have I

600
00:38:48,600 --> 00:38:51,000
Speaker 1: still have this DEVI memory when I was a kid though,

601
00:38:51,040 --> 00:38:57,279
Speaker 1: and it was snowstorm in Virginia and we're coming back

602
00:38:57,280 --> 00:38:59,960
Speaker 1: from my grandfather's house, which was just a couple of

603
00:39:00,000 --> 00:39:03,120
Speaker 1: alls away we couldn't even make it home in our car.

604
00:39:03,280 --> 00:39:05,240
Speaker 1: We had to park our car at like this gas

605
00:39:05,239 --> 00:39:07,960
Speaker 1: station and then walk home and like a foot of snow.

606
00:39:10,239 --> 00:39:12,640
Speaker 1: And I remember just doing that when I was shoot,

607
00:39:12,760 --> 00:39:23,200
Speaker 1: I was probably Jolly's age. Yeah, good old days of snow. Mhm. Hey, guys,

608
00:39:23,960 --> 00:39:28,600
Speaker 1: looking towards what's a guest you've wanted to have on

609
00:39:28,680 --> 00:39:33,279
Speaker 1: the podcast but you have it yet? I think it'd

610
00:39:33,280 --> 00:39:36,960
Speaker 1: be fun to have like Dak Shepherd beyond the podcast. Um,

611
00:39:36,960 --> 00:39:38,920
Speaker 1: And I've always wanted to do his podcast too, but

612
00:39:39,040 --> 00:39:41,040
Speaker 1: I just like how open he is about his struggles

613
00:39:41,040 --> 00:39:44,920
Speaker 1: with addictions and marriage and stuff. So I just you know,

614
00:39:45,080 --> 00:39:48,280
Speaker 1: I would love to have him on. Yeah, Dak Shepherd

615
00:39:48,280 --> 00:39:51,480
Speaker 1: would definitely be one. Um. And I would love to

616
00:39:51,520 --> 00:39:56,560
Speaker 1: talk to a little Dickie as well, so random about

617
00:39:56,560 --> 00:40:00,880
Speaker 1: what just talk to him? He I just talked to

618
00:40:00,920 --> 00:40:04,680
Speaker 1: him because I just think we've had great conversations with him.

619
00:40:04,719 --> 00:40:07,680
Speaker 1: You do know our podcast is about relationships and Yeah,

620
00:40:07,719 --> 00:40:15,080
Speaker 1: but it'd be great start a new podcast. It's going

621
00:40:15,120 --> 00:40:24,160
Speaker 1: to be his own podcast past the micro Yeah. Uh

622
00:40:24,160 --> 00:40:27,600
Speaker 1: and Canada, We're all we're all asking again. This is

623
00:40:27,600 --> 00:40:30,040
Speaker 1: winding down live on the stereo app. Thanks every way

624
00:40:30,120 --> 00:40:33,000
Speaker 1: for listening. But Jana, we we got to know when

625
00:40:33,000 --> 00:40:37,319
Speaker 1: are we getting new music from you? As soon as

626
00:40:37,360 --> 00:40:40,000
Speaker 1: I find a producer to produce that. Um. I have

627
00:40:40,520 --> 00:40:42,359
Speaker 1: a few songs I really want to put out there,

628
00:40:43,600 --> 00:40:47,080
Speaker 1: but I just got to find the right producer and

629
00:40:48,160 --> 00:40:50,640
Speaker 1: it's on my to do list for the new year.

630
00:40:54,000 --> 00:40:57,759
Speaker 1: I've loved everything you've put out over the last you know,

631
00:40:57,880 --> 00:40:59,840
Speaker 1: the last couple of releases you've done. Those are some

632
00:41:00,680 --> 00:41:04,040
Speaker 1: kick ass songs. Have you been writing during the quarantine?

633
00:41:04,800 --> 00:41:09,040
Speaker 1: Um No, I've I only wrote one song. Um. I

634
00:41:09,120 --> 00:41:11,400
Speaker 1: wish now looking back, I would have written more. But

635
00:41:11,480 --> 00:41:14,720
Speaker 1: again I do enjoy like I did enjoy the quarantine

636
00:41:14,760 --> 00:41:16,600
Speaker 1: time just because I was being able to be like

637
00:41:16,680 --> 00:41:23,400
Speaker 1: really present with the kids. Um. But I I definitely

638
00:41:23,640 --> 00:41:26,520
Speaker 1: have some great inspiration to write some new songs. Um.

639
00:41:26,600 --> 00:41:29,080
Speaker 1: So I'm looking forward to one to be able to

640
00:41:29,080 --> 00:41:34,800
Speaker 1: write more songs. Alright, everybody, get get get your iTunes

641
00:41:34,840 --> 00:41:39,839
Speaker 1: saved button ready. I think we got time for like

642
00:41:39,880 --> 00:41:42,400
Speaker 1: one more They're easty, and then we're gonna part ways

643
00:41:42,440 --> 00:41:47,360
Speaker 1: for Christmas eve festivities. All right, again, this is on

644
00:41:47,480 --> 00:41:50,560
Speaker 1: the Live on the Stereo app. We've had a great time, Hey, Janna.

645
00:41:50,719 --> 00:41:53,200
Speaker 1: If Mike was asked to do Dancing with the Stars,

646
00:41:53,200 --> 00:41:56,879
Speaker 1: how would that make you feel? Um, I would want

647
00:41:56,880 --> 00:42:03,680
Speaker 1: to pick his partner because you know, um things canna

648
00:42:03,680 --> 00:42:06,360
Speaker 1: be kind of scanned us not dancing with the stars,

649
00:42:06,520 --> 00:42:09,560
Speaker 1: so um. But no, I mean I would totally support him.

650
00:42:09,840 --> 00:42:14,040
Speaker 1: Um And I yeah, I think he would do amazing

651
00:42:14,080 --> 00:42:18,719
Speaker 1: on it. All right, I love it. Uh, but I

652
00:42:18,760 --> 00:42:24,040
Speaker 1: hope that happens. Um. Well, it's uh it is Christmas Eve,

653
00:42:24,760 --> 00:42:27,960
Speaker 1: and uh, I think we're we're getting ready to wrap this,

654
00:42:28,400 --> 00:42:31,480
Speaker 1: wrap this up like a present for everyone to open.

655
00:42:32,400 --> 00:42:36,520
Speaker 1: And uh, I hope Santa brings everybody what they want

656
00:42:36,760 --> 00:42:39,040
Speaker 1: down the chimney this year. And I hope you guys

657
00:42:39,040 --> 00:42:40,880
Speaker 1: have a great time with your family. This has been

658
00:42:40,920 --> 00:42:43,400
Speaker 1: so much fun. Thanks for letting me hang out with

659
00:42:43,400 --> 00:42:46,839
Speaker 1: the party today. Thanks for moderate Eastern. We know it's

660
00:42:46,880 --> 00:42:49,520
Speaker 1: not an easy job, but we hope you have a

661
00:42:49,560 --> 00:42:54,120
Speaker 1: fantastic Christmas and all the listeners a fantastic Christmas as well.

662
00:42:54,160 --> 00:42:57,399
Speaker 1: And uh, yeah, man, we're looking forward to a new year.

663
00:42:57,560 --> 00:42:59,759
Speaker 1: And do you and your wife do you know what

664
00:42:59,800 --> 00:43:01,680
Speaker 1: you're guys are getting each other for Christmas? Or do

665
00:43:01,719 --> 00:43:03,960
Speaker 1: you guys try to keep a secret we keep it

666
00:43:04,000 --> 00:43:06,640
Speaker 1: a secret. It's it's definitely a secret. I have no

667
00:43:06,719 --> 00:43:08,759
Speaker 1: idea what she got me, and hopefully she does not

668
00:43:08,840 --> 00:43:11,800
Speaker 1: know what I got her. But we like that surprise

669
00:43:11,840 --> 00:43:14,880
Speaker 1: and Christmas morning. I love it. It's all about surprise.

670
00:43:14,960 --> 00:43:18,880
Speaker 1: Do you know what I got you? Mike? Nope, I

671
00:43:18,960 --> 00:43:22,840
Speaker 1: do not. Never know with you. She's a professional actress.

672
00:43:22,840 --> 00:43:27,920
Speaker 1: I don't know you can hide it. I wouldn't really

673
00:43:27,960 --> 00:43:31,279
Speaker 1: say professional, but you know, do you get paid to

674
00:43:31,320 --> 00:43:36,840
Speaker 1: do something? I don't know what that al Right, guys,

675
00:43:36,840 --> 00:43:40,440
Speaker 1: well marry Christmas Eve, and we hope everyone has a

676
00:43:40,440 --> 00:44:03,440
Speaker 1: fantastic and healthy holiday. Goodbye, goodbye, d later ethany h

677
00:44:03,960 --> 00:44:09,400
Speaker 1: my friend. Oh my goodness, I'm so I just love you.

678
00:44:09,680 --> 00:44:11,960
Speaker 1: I'm your album cover. First of all, can we just

679
00:44:11,960 --> 00:44:14,080
Speaker 1: talk about how beautiful you look like? You look like

680
00:44:14,080 --> 00:44:16,960
Speaker 1: you're coming out of a window and like Tuscany or

681
00:44:17,000 --> 00:44:23,920
Speaker 1: something like just done. I was coming out of amazing

682
00:44:24,760 --> 00:44:26,560
Speaker 1: Thank you. Yeah, we had a good team that day.

683
00:44:26,600 --> 00:44:31,239
Speaker 1: It was it was a great photographer Juliana Vicore and

684
00:44:31,360 --> 00:44:34,120
Speaker 1: um just an amazing hair and you know what I mean,

685
00:44:34,160 --> 00:44:35,840
Speaker 1: it's like, you know what happens. You wake up in

686
00:44:35,840 --> 00:44:40,399
Speaker 1: the morning and you're like somebody can like, Oh, I've

687
00:44:40,480 --> 00:44:44,960
Speaker 1: been a window in Tuscany. I remember Um Tree Hill days. You.

688
00:44:45,000 --> 00:44:48,399
Speaker 1: I mean you always loved Christmas music. Um, even when

689
00:44:48,400 --> 00:44:50,879
Speaker 1: we had that Christmas party. I mean you were singing

690
00:44:50,920 --> 00:44:54,600
Speaker 1: the Christmas songs and you have such a beautiful voice. So, um,

691
00:44:54,640 --> 00:44:57,480
Speaker 1: I mean Snow is out now, so you guys can

692
00:44:57,520 --> 00:44:59,800
Speaker 1: get the album. What's your favorite song on the album

693
00:44:59,840 --> 00:45:05,239
Speaker 1: that sang? Um? I'm kind of torn. I've got two favorites. Um.

694
00:45:05,320 --> 00:45:06,840
Speaker 1: One of them is a duet that I do with

695
00:45:06,880 --> 00:45:09,360
Speaker 1: my friend Anthony Evans, and it's for It's kind of

696
00:45:09,400 --> 00:45:11,279
Speaker 1: like if you like baby. It's called Outside I think

697
00:45:11,280 --> 00:45:14,360
Speaker 1: it was. It's kind of a another take on that

698
00:45:14,440 --> 00:45:17,279
Speaker 1: kind of a song. Um, it's still but it's still

699
00:45:17,280 --> 00:45:20,320
Speaker 1: in that fifties, forties, fifties scene. Um. And then the

700
00:45:20,360 --> 00:45:23,680
Speaker 1: other one is called Rejoice. It just feels like a

701
00:45:23,680 --> 00:45:28,000
Speaker 1: big church song to me. So I love it so good.

702
00:45:28,239 --> 00:45:31,919
Speaker 1: Are these original songs, Bethany that you have on the album? Yes?

703
00:45:32,120 --> 00:45:36,600
Speaker 1: So I did four original and um two covers. We

704
00:45:36,680 --> 00:45:42,200
Speaker 1: covered jingle Bells and my Favorite Things, which is one

705
00:45:42,200 --> 00:45:44,759
Speaker 1: of my favorite songs, and uh, and the rest were

706
00:45:44,760 --> 00:45:46,480
Speaker 1: just songs that I had written. There were two that

707
00:45:46,520 --> 00:45:49,040
Speaker 1: I had to finish, but I had them started and

708
00:45:49,080 --> 00:45:52,000
Speaker 1: then others. My Christmas with You was from a play

709
00:45:52,080 --> 00:45:56,680
Speaker 1: that I had written several years ago, and um, snow

710
00:45:56,840 --> 00:45:59,680
Speaker 1: was just the thing I wrote this year. So yeah,

711
00:45:59,760 --> 00:46:03,120
Speaker 1: I mean that it just kind of came together really fast. Um,

712
00:46:03,120 --> 00:46:05,160
Speaker 1: which is why we only released it like four days ago,

713
00:46:06,040 --> 00:46:09,239
Speaker 1: because I'm so last minute. I was like the day

714
00:46:09,239 --> 00:46:12,080
Speaker 1: after Thanksgiving and I went, it's Christmas time. Now I

715
00:46:12,760 --> 00:46:16,960
Speaker 1: make some Christmas music. Is writing a Christmas song? Is

716
00:46:16,960 --> 00:46:20,920
Speaker 1: there any more added stress or difficulty to that because of,

717
00:46:21,440 --> 00:46:23,719
Speaker 1: you know, it being Christmas time? And I don't know.

718
00:46:24,000 --> 00:46:27,480
Speaker 1: I feel like Christmas songs are so nostalgic, nostalgic, and

719
00:46:27,520 --> 00:46:30,399
Speaker 1: they last, you know, fifty plus years. It's like, here's

720
00:46:30,400 --> 00:46:35,839
Speaker 1: an original. Yeah, they're good, They're good. Yeah. That For me,

721
00:46:36,200 --> 00:46:39,759
Speaker 1: I find it a little easier because I grew up

722
00:46:39,800 --> 00:46:42,759
Speaker 1: with the musical theater background, and so much of that

723
00:46:42,800 --> 00:46:47,000
Speaker 1: includes American standards, which is that jazzy sort of sound

724
00:46:47,120 --> 00:46:48,960
Speaker 1: that you hear in all the classics. I'll be Home

725
00:46:48,960 --> 00:46:53,280
Speaker 1: for Christmas, White Christmas, the Christmas song, um silver Bells,

726
00:46:53,600 --> 00:46:57,480
Speaker 1: you know, all of those tunes that if you take

727
00:46:57,520 --> 00:47:01,400
Speaker 1: the lyrics out, the music still stands up by itself.

728
00:47:01,440 --> 00:47:03,319
Speaker 1: It still holds up, which is why people are still

729
00:47:03,360 --> 00:47:07,480
Speaker 1: listening to those songs a hundred years later. Um. And

730
00:47:07,480 --> 00:47:09,680
Speaker 1: I'm curious to know if some of the modern songs

731
00:47:09,680 --> 00:47:12,160
Speaker 1: that have been written will also stand the test of

732
00:47:12,160 --> 00:47:13,480
Speaker 1: time in that way. And I think there are some

733
00:47:13,640 --> 00:47:16,799
Speaker 1: that will. Um. But I try and write in that

734
00:47:16,880 --> 00:47:19,200
Speaker 1: vein because it was really natural to me. So in

735
00:47:19,239 --> 00:47:23,800
Speaker 1: a way, writing Christmas songs, Um, this is a roundabout

736
00:47:23,800 --> 00:47:27,799
Speaker 1: way of explaining this. I hope you're following it. In

737
00:47:27,800 --> 00:47:31,080
Speaker 1: a way, writing Christmas songs is a lot easier because

738
00:47:31,160 --> 00:47:34,160
Speaker 1: I'm so comfortable with the American standards sound from the forties,

739
00:47:34,760 --> 00:47:36,839
Speaker 1: you know. I feel like to no one can really

740
00:47:36,840 --> 00:47:40,200
Speaker 1: say a Christmas song sucks, like like that song sucks.

741
00:47:40,280 --> 00:47:41,759
Speaker 1: Like They'll be like, oh, it's just not I just

742
00:47:41,800 --> 00:47:44,400
Speaker 1: don't like it. It's just not my taste. But I

743
00:47:44,440 --> 00:47:46,760
Speaker 1: think people just have like high expectations. Like I remember

744
00:47:46,760 --> 00:47:49,080
Speaker 1: when Taylor Swift came out with her Christmas Tree front

745
00:47:49,120 --> 00:47:51,319
Speaker 1: and I'm just like, man, like I was wanting like

746
00:47:51,360 --> 00:47:53,520
Speaker 1: all I want for Christmas or saying to tell me

747
00:47:53,640 --> 00:47:55,320
Speaker 1: like kind of vibe, and so I was like bummed

748
00:47:55,760 --> 00:48:00,279
Speaker 1: because you're not like, so it's still Christmas? Are you

749
00:48:00,360 --> 00:48:04,720
Speaker 1: so much? You're happy? Yeah? I have heard that one, Jannah.

750
00:48:04,719 --> 00:48:07,160
Speaker 1: What is the vibe on that? I mean I think

751
00:48:07,360 --> 00:48:09,799
Speaker 1: it was just a one. She just released one song,

752
00:48:09,920 --> 00:48:11,680
Speaker 1: so it was like, um, because she grew up on

753
00:48:11,680 --> 00:48:13,839
Speaker 1: a Christmas tree farm. I mean it's cute, but I

754
00:48:13,880 --> 00:48:15,759
Speaker 1: was just like I think I was expecting like a bop,

755
00:48:16,280 --> 00:48:18,480
Speaker 1: you know, and it wasn't like it didn't bought me,

756
00:48:18,920 --> 00:48:21,600
Speaker 1: Like it didn't bought me in the face, like I

757
00:48:21,680 --> 00:48:25,439
Speaker 1: really wanted to bop. Have you put out Christmas music? Yeah, Jana,

758
00:48:26,560 --> 00:48:28,759
Speaker 1: I put out one song like a million years ago

759
00:48:28,800 --> 00:48:30,640
Speaker 1: when I was on a label. But um, I mean

760
00:48:30,680 --> 00:48:35,640
Speaker 1: actually that's like my dream is to do a Christmas album.

761
00:48:34,719 --> 00:48:37,480
Speaker 1: It would you do a song with me? Though, Like

762
00:48:37,520 --> 00:48:41,520
Speaker 1: can we do a duet together? Like let's let's let's

763
00:48:41,560 --> 00:48:44,440
Speaker 1: write it girl on girl, let's write it. Do it?

764
00:48:44,719 --> 00:48:51,200
Speaker 1: I mean yeah, I mean Christmas Love Story, Christmas song. No.

765
00:48:51,400 --> 00:48:54,000
Speaker 1: I would like, yeah, next year that would be that

766
00:48:54,040 --> 00:48:57,080
Speaker 1: would be a total dreamboat scenario because I said I

767
00:48:57,120 --> 00:48:58,480
Speaker 1: want to do it this year. But I mean with

768
00:48:58,520 --> 00:49:01,680
Speaker 1: Quarantine and I mean you did it, you got it done, girl,

769
00:49:01,880 --> 00:49:04,440
Speaker 1: and snow is out now. So I'm like super excited

770
00:49:04,640 --> 00:49:07,000
Speaker 1: because I listened to the ones that isn't hit the

771
00:49:07,040 --> 00:49:10,439
Speaker 1: top ten. Um two days ago we hit the top

772
00:49:10,480 --> 00:49:15,320
Speaker 1: ten New Christmas albums were right under Maria. That's awesome.

773
00:49:18,520 --> 00:49:22,400
Speaker 1: And where are you living again? Right now? I am

774
00:49:22,440 --> 00:49:26,080
Speaker 1: on a ranch. I'm here in California. I found a

775
00:49:26,120 --> 00:49:29,600
Speaker 1: little place just outside of l A. And UM got

776
00:49:29,640 --> 00:49:31,760
Speaker 1: some horses. I think I'm going to get a baby goat,

777
00:49:31,840 --> 00:49:34,600
Speaker 1: I think. So there was this baby goat. I was

778
00:49:34,640 --> 00:49:36,600
Speaker 1: out shoveling manure the other day and we had to

779
00:49:36,600 --> 00:49:40,120
Speaker 1: go dump on manure at a local ranch because I

780
00:49:40,160 --> 00:49:42,640
Speaker 1: don't what am I gonna do with like tons of manure?

781
00:49:42,880 --> 00:49:44,960
Speaker 1: So we dumped it, you know, we spent all days

782
00:49:44,960 --> 00:49:47,400
Speaker 1: shoveling dumped it. And then I see in the corner

783
00:49:47,440 --> 00:49:49,759
Speaker 1: there's this little it's kind of a collective ranch where

784
00:49:49,760 --> 00:49:51,840
Speaker 1: people have their chickens and their goat and their horses.

785
00:49:51,880 --> 00:49:54,479
Speaker 1: And so I went to the cage in the back

786
00:49:54,600 --> 00:49:57,480
Speaker 1: and this mama goat had just had four babies like

787
00:49:57,960 --> 00:50:00,719
Speaker 1: twenty minutes before. I mean she was still leading the goat.

788
00:50:00,800 --> 00:50:03,080
Speaker 1: She was licking all the you know, everything off the goats.

789
00:50:03,080 --> 00:50:04,880
Speaker 1: It was like really cute, and there was one in

790
00:50:04,920 --> 00:50:07,800
Speaker 1: the corner that was just like crumpled up and dying

791
00:50:08,280 --> 00:50:11,200
Speaker 1: and couldn't get the utters. So I got to go

792
00:50:11,239 --> 00:50:13,000
Speaker 1: in there and I grabbed the baby goat and I

793
00:50:13,080 --> 00:50:15,279
Speaker 1: like stuck it on the mom's eat and was like

794
00:50:15,320 --> 00:50:18,120
Speaker 1: squeezing the goat's milk into its mouth and the colostom

795
00:50:18,160 --> 00:50:20,960
Speaker 1: and making her it was alive. And now I'm attached

796
00:50:21,320 --> 00:50:27,120
Speaker 1: to this. You have to keep the goat. You're a farmer,

797
00:50:27,200 --> 00:50:29,520
Speaker 1: now you're a farm girl. I mean, you've got to

798
00:50:29,600 --> 00:50:32,520
Speaker 1: keep the goat. It's your baby, I know. Do you

799
00:50:32,560 --> 00:50:35,480
Speaker 1: have any animals? Do you guys have urine Nashville? Right,

800
00:50:35,560 --> 00:50:38,640
Speaker 1: there's two dogs. We had chickens, but our friends farm

801
00:50:38,680 --> 00:50:40,680
Speaker 1: down the street. Yeah. We apparently we're not allowed to

802
00:50:40,680 --> 00:50:44,120
Speaker 1: have a coupe with our h o A people, So

803
00:50:45,640 --> 00:50:48,440
Speaker 1: we're just thinking about I was thinking about getting chickens

804
00:50:48,440 --> 00:50:52,960
Speaker 1: this week. You recommend chickens, you know, I would because

805
00:50:53,000 --> 00:50:55,760
Speaker 1: I'm the fact that they can lay eggs and stuff

806
00:50:55,840 --> 00:50:58,320
Speaker 1: is great, and we eat eggs all the time, so

807
00:50:58,480 --> 00:51:01,040
Speaker 1: it's save on that. But also, I mean, and they're

808
00:51:01,040 --> 00:51:05,000
Speaker 1: like little garbage disposals any like fruit rhymes like anything

809
00:51:05,719 --> 00:51:08,319
Speaker 1: food lies throw out into the coupe and they eat it.

810
00:51:08,640 --> 00:51:12,160
Speaker 1: They eat everything there. I think they're I think, and

811
00:51:12,160 --> 00:51:14,719
Speaker 1: they're so cute as little chicks. They're so cute. But

812
00:51:14,800 --> 00:51:19,760
Speaker 1: how old is your your kid? Now? He's nine, she's nine,

813
00:51:20,280 --> 00:51:28,120
Speaker 1: almost ten? Um, are you done done? No? Oh my god,

814
00:51:28,400 --> 00:51:36,759
Speaker 1: that's great. She's having a baby not today, You're like,

815
00:51:36,880 --> 00:51:39,080
Speaker 1: right now, just a baby goat is all I'm gonna have.

816
00:51:40,239 --> 00:51:42,960
Speaker 1: Are good for me right now? Oh my gosh. I

817
00:51:43,040 --> 00:51:47,800
Speaker 1: love it. And what are you guys doing for Christmas? Um? Well,

818
00:51:47,920 --> 00:51:50,120
Speaker 1: Maria's actually with your dad for Christmas this year. So

819
00:51:50,320 --> 00:51:52,479
Speaker 1: I'm just here, I'm like here on the ranch by myself.

820
00:51:52,520 --> 00:51:55,759
Speaker 1: I'm kind of just redoing her bedroom. It's kind of

821
00:51:56,280 --> 00:52:00,520
Speaker 1: convenient for me with the fact that everybody's a lot

822
00:52:00,560 --> 00:52:04,359
Speaker 1: of people are staying home right now necessarily so uh

823
00:52:04,600 --> 00:52:06,080
Speaker 1: so I've got a lot of friends in town that

824
00:52:06,080 --> 00:52:07,880
Speaker 1: are not traveling to see their family and all that.

825
00:52:08,000 --> 00:52:10,279
Speaker 1: So there's we've got a kind of a group of

826
00:52:10,320 --> 00:52:13,560
Speaker 1: misfits that are going to get together. How do you

827
00:52:13,880 --> 00:52:16,440
Speaker 1: how do you handle because there you know those I've

828
00:52:16,440 --> 00:52:18,000
Speaker 1: got a lot of We've got a lot of relationship,

829
00:52:18,000 --> 00:52:20,319
Speaker 1: a lot of mamas on here that you know are

830
00:52:20,440 --> 00:52:23,680
Speaker 1: not um with their significant other husband. How do you

831
00:52:23,719 --> 00:52:26,800
Speaker 1: deal with holidays time and maybe not having the holiday

832
00:52:26,840 --> 00:52:33,480
Speaker 1: this year with your girl? I mean, I love being

833
00:52:33,520 --> 00:52:37,239
Speaker 1: with her, but it's twenty four set, like it's all

834
00:52:37,280 --> 00:52:40,640
Speaker 1: me all the time. I have full I'm she's it's

835
00:52:40,640 --> 00:52:47,920
Speaker 1: all I'm like the only parents basically in many ways. Um, so, honestly,

836
00:52:47,960 --> 00:52:52,640
Speaker 1: like it's really nice to it's so, you know, honestly,

837
00:52:52,640 --> 00:52:55,040
Speaker 1: I get like I feel that though, because sometimes like

838
00:52:55,920 --> 00:52:57,960
Speaker 1: I'm like, I kind of see the other side of it.

839
00:52:58,000 --> 00:53:02,080
Speaker 1: I'm like, you know, kind of seems nice sometimes, but

840
00:53:02,120 --> 00:53:03,480
Speaker 1: then the flip side of it is like when you

841
00:53:03,520 --> 00:53:06,440
Speaker 1: do become just the only parent, you know, where it

842
00:53:06,440 --> 00:53:08,399
Speaker 1: can be hard because it's usually the mom that has

843
00:53:08,480 --> 00:53:12,160
Speaker 1: like most of the time. Yeah, it is, It's true.

844
00:53:12,160 --> 00:53:15,080
Speaker 1: I mean there's definitely a lot of challenges that come

845
00:53:15,120 --> 00:53:17,760
Speaker 1: with that. But I love being a mom and she's

846
00:53:17,960 --> 00:53:19,600
Speaker 1: a great kid and makes it easy and we have

847
00:53:19,600 --> 00:53:23,200
Speaker 1: a good relationship. So um, but yeah, to be able

848
00:53:23,200 --> 00:53:25,680
Speaker 1: to just have a break and have a movie calling

849
00:53:25,680 --> 00:53:28,040
Speaker 1: my name, Nobody needs me to make lunch, nobody's knocking

850
00:53:28,080 --> 00:53:31,399
Speaker 1: on my door, nobody needs anything. Just it's like what

851
00:53:31,440 --> 00:53:33,600
Speaker 1: it was like before a kid. Nobody needs anything for me.

852
00:53:33,640 --> 00:53:36,200
Speaker 1: I have no responsibilities for two weeks. It's so bizarre,

853
00:53:37,160 --> 00:53:39,360
Speaker 1: but I kind of love it. So I'm just painting

854
00:53:39,400 --> 00:53:42,160
Speaker 1: the house and you know, I'm redoing her room and

855
00:53:42,719 --> 00:53:44,759
Speaker 1: taking care of the horses and the dogs and just

856
00:53:44,840 --> 00:53:48,520
Speaker 1: being I'm goofing off, you know, just being a goat mom,

857
00:53:48,640 --> 00:53:52,799
Speaker 1: just being a goat mom picking up poop. You have

858
00:53:52,840 --> 00:53:56,319
Speaker 1: a movie out right now, too, don't you blind well,

859
00:53:56,400 --> 00:54:00,680
Speaker 1: yea blind Fire is out and Star Chrism is also

860
00:54:00,719 --> 00:54:02,480
Speaker 1: out with that's on Hallmarks. We have to wait for

861
00:54:02,480 --> 00:54:05,520
Speaker 1: the reruns on that, which, by the way, you were

862
00:54:06,400 --> 00:54:10,640
Speaker 1: with Victor, which is Chantelle. So it was Sean Tell

863
00:54:10,840 --> 00:54:14,520
Speaker 1: so your sister Quinn it was now her like real

864
00:54:14,520 --> 00:54:16,279
Speaker 1: life boyfriend, which I think is really cute because you

865
00:54:16,320 --> 00:54:18,319
Speaker 1: guys were like making out and you're like, hey, this

866
00:54:18,400 --> 00:54:21,000
Speaker 1: is like my best friends. It's like, you know, boyfriend.

867
00:54:22,200 --> 00:54:24,719
Speaker 1: I know, it's not funny, it's just small town. I

868
00:54:24,719 --> 00:54:26,399
Speaker 1: think that's kind of like part for the course, And then,

869
00:54:26,800 --> 00:54:28,560
Speaker 1: isn't it It really was? I was like, wow, this

870
00:54:28,640 --> 00:54:30,960
Speaker 1: is I mean, hey, if there's anybody to make out with,

871
00:54:31,000 --> 00:54:33,200
Speaker 1: like someone like mis will be someone that you trust,

872
00:54:33,760 --> 00:54:37,919
Speaker 1: you know, and you know we weren't really making out.

873
00:54:37,920 --> 00:54:41,200
Speaker 1: There was like Hallmarkets kiss and it was a Hallmark kiss. Yeah,

874
00:54:41,200 --> 00:54:43,600
Speaker 1: it's not like we're ripping each other's clothes off. But

875
00:54:43,680 --> 00:54:45,480
Speaker 1: even when I have to do things like that, like

876
00:54:45,520 --> 00:54:48,799
Speaker 1: in Pierson, there's just such a as long as both

877
00:54:48,800 --> 00:54:51,919
Speaker 1: people come in with really clean energy and it's just

878
00:54:52,080 --> 00:54:56,759
Speaker 1: like work, it's not. It's not really it's not like

879
00:54:56,840 --> 00:55:00,760
Speaker 1: you go home you're like, oh that was that was steamy.

880
00:55:00,800 --> 00:55:04,560
Speaker 1: There was twelve people watching, and no way, I hope

881
00:55:04,560 --> 00:55:10,040
Speaker 1: to say. It's a world I don't understand that heart

882
00:55:10,080 --> 00:55:12,920
Speaker 1: isn't hard for you, as like knowing that your wife

883
00:55:13,000 --> 00:55:16,600
Speaker 1: is like sometimes like, how are you to tell about

884
00:55:16,600 --> 00:55:21,200
Speaker 1: this last Door Lifetime movie? Well, when I the thing is, fortunately,

885
00:55:21,200 --> 00:55:23,920
Speaker 1: since we've been married for the past five six years,

886
00:55:24,520 --> 00:55:28,040
Speaker 1: she's only done like Hallmark Lifetime kisses. So when she

887
00:55:28,080 --> 00:55:31,319
Speaker 1: does whenever she does a movie or series that has

888
00:55:31,360 --> 00:55:34,440
Speaker 1: something a little bit more intense, that's gonna be a

889
00:55:34,480 --> 00:55:38,279
Speaker 1: different story. Daddy's not gonna want to know. I'm not

890
00:55:38,320 --> 00:55:40,120
Speaker 1: going to be there on set that day. I'm not

891
00:55:40,120 --> 00:55:42,720
Speaker 1: gonna watch it when it comes out. Well, it's funny

892
00:55:42,719 --> 00:55:45,000
Speaker 1: because this last Lifetime when I had like more of

893
00:55:45,000 --> 00:55:49,520
Speaker 1: a longer, steamy, er kiss and he was like, that's

894
00:55:49,560 --> 00:55:53,400
Speaker 1: a little long. I was like, sorry, oh no, And

895
00:55:53,480 --> 00:55:55,440
Speaker 1: there's what two or three kisses? Yeah, there was a

896
00:55:55,440 --> 00:55:57,080
Speaker 1: lot in this one. Yeah. She's like, oh, there's just

897
00:55:57,120 --> 00:56:00,640
Speaker 1: one kiss I'm watching. I'm like, okay, that's one. There's

898
00:56:00,680 --> 00:56:04,000
Speaker 1: another one five minutes later, another. Okay, you're just kissing

899
00:56:04,000 --> 00:56:08,000
Speaker 1: the whole movie. Get okay. So funny, it's I wonder

900
00:56:08,120 --> 00:56:09,960
Speaker 1: like because I don't know what that's like. I've been

901
00:56:09,960 --> 00:56:12,480
Speaker 1: acting since I was twelve years old, you know, kissing,

902
00:56:12,600 --> 00:56:16,480
Speaker 1: like it's just become a such a natural part of

903
00:56:17,920 --> 00:56:21,120
Speaker 1: I don't know. I like, is that like that can

904
00:56:21,160 --> 00:56:25,160
Speaker 1: I say curse words? On this show? Us up? Like

905
00:56:25,200 --> 00:56:28,600
Speaker 1: the fact that we're like I could kiss anybody and

906
00:56:28,760 --> 00:56:32,360
Speaker 1: walk away and be fine. It's all about compartmentalization. But

907
00:56:32,400 --> 00:56:34,000
Speaker 1: I think it is because it's like, I mean, I

908
00:56:34,000 --> 00:56:36,239
Speaker 1: remember even doing scenes with the COLLETTI like we'd be

909
00:56:36,320 --> 00:56:38,680
Speaker 1: rolling around and bad making out and then they call Cotton.

910
00:56:38,719 --> 00:56:41,040
Speaker 1: I'm like, are you gonna have the Caesar salad for

911
00:56:41,200 --> 00:56:43,440
Speaker 1: lunch today? Like or do you think you're gonna? Like you?

912
00:56:43,520 --> 00:56:46,080
Speaker 1: Because when you add the shrimp on top. It's really good, like,

913
00:56:47,239 --> 00:56:49,239
Speaker 1: but it's like I don't think, I mean, you know,

914
00:56:49,280 --> 00:56:51,040
Speaker 1: because because it's just work. And even like with this

915
00:56:51,120 --> 00:56:53,040
Speaker 1: last movie to like Kiss and Dudes, it's like, you know,

916
00:56:53,520 --> 00:56:55,640
Speaker 1: it's just it's just work and you go home to

917
00:56:55,719 --> 00:56:59,320
Speaker 1: your reality. That's just none of that's reality. It's just work.

918
00:56:59,400 --> 00:57:01,520
Speaker 1: And our work us involves lip blocking a few times

919
00:57:01,719 --> 00:57:06,520
Speaker 1: or yeah, dry humping. It's a real naughty show. You

920
00:57:06,560 --> 00:57:10,400
Speaker 1: have to have like an inner monitor that's really keeping

921
00:57:10,400 --> 00:57:12,359
Speaker 1: it clean because yeah, a lot of people do fall

922
00:57:12,400 --> 00:57:15,640
Speaker 1: in love on set because they're having problems with their

923
00:57:15,680 --> 00:57:18,240
Speaker 1: partner or they're like, you know, they're single, and then

924
00:57:18,240 --> 00:57:20,280
Speaker 1: it's because you've got somebody that you a lot of

925
00:57:20,320 --> 00:57:22,440
Speaker 1: cuddily time with, and then you start to imagine that

926
00:57:22,480 --> 00:57:25,000
Speaker 1: it is real even what's not so, I mean, you

927
00:57:25,040 --> 00:57:28,160
Speaker 1: do have to like have a good inner guard and

928
00:57:28,760 --> 00:57:31,840
Speaker 1: boundaries and keep it clean. You know, you go in

929
00:57:31,960 --> 00:57:34,360
Speaker 1: everybody's just keeping it clean. Oh yeah, you have to

930
00:57:34,400 --> 00:57:36,400
Speaker 1: because if not, I mean, you spend so much time

931
00:57:36,400 --> 00:57:38,840
Speaker 1: with you spend like fifteen hours a day with this person.

932
00:57:38,920 --> 00:57:40,960
Speaker 1: You're just like telling your deepest, darkest and then you're

933
00:57:41,000 --> 00:57:45,120
Speaker 1: like you're so connected and the thing is too for

934
00:57:45,240 --> 00:57:48,200
Speaker 1: Jane and I, you know, she always wants me on set,

935
00:57:48,320 --> 00:57:50,240
Speaker 1: and so I try to go early on in the

936
00:57:50,280 --> 00:57:53,440
Speaker 1: process just to not to mark my territory, but just

937
00:57:53,480 --> 00:57:56,600
Speaker 1: to get comfortable myself with everybody and and get to

938
00:57:56,600 --> 00:57:58,840
Speaker 1: know them and know them as people and human beings

939
00:57:58,880 --> 00:58:01,200
Speaker 1: and what they like and don't like and so that,

940
00:58:01,320 --> 00:58:03,840
Speaker 1: and then just having boundaries with you know, you're not

941
00:58:03,880 --> 00:58:06,200
Speaker 1: going to read lines in each other's trailer by yourself

942
00:58:06,240 --> 00:58:08,240
Speaker 1: and you know what I mean, stuff like that. So

943
00:58:09,000 --> 00:58:12,360
Speaker 1: healthy boundaries. But you know what is healthy? Christmas music

944
00:58:13,240 --> 00:58:15,880
Speaker 1: and Enjoy has an album out. It's called Snow. You

945
00:58:15,880 --> 00:58:18,760
Speaker 1: guys can get it now, um and rewatch her on

946
00:58:18,880 --> 00:58:21,800
Speaker 1: five Star Christmas on Hallmark on Christmas Day, so check

947
00:58:21,840 --> 00:58:24,560
Speaker 1: your local listings, um, and get her albums Snow, it's

948
00:58:24,600 --> 00:58:29,600
Speaker 1: so good originals and a few classics. Um. Bethany, thanks

949
00:58:29,600 --> 00:58:33,760
Speaker 1: for coming on. Thank you so much. Thanks you guys,

950
00:58:33,800 --> 00:58:37,720
Speaker 1: thank you, thanks for coming on. Bethany, thank you well,

951
00:58:37,720 --> 00:58:40,560
Speaker 1: that was fun talking to Bethany. And of course Eastern

952
00:58:40,920 --> 00:58:45,040
Speaker 1: and Easton. OK, we love him. It's Christmas Eve. Oh

953
00:58:45,080 --> 00:58:47,320
Speaker 1: we have to go open a present yep. So every

954
00:58:47,360 --> 00:58:51,000
Speaker 1: kid gets a present. Every adult gets a present. I

955
00:58:51,080 --> 00:58:52,840
Speaker 1: was just cleaning myself as one of the kids. I

956
00:58:52,920 --> 00:58:56,800
Speaker 1: was like, yep, I sure do. I'm so excited. Can

957
00:58:56,800 --> 00:59:01,000
Speaker 1: we get to pick them? Well, no, you can pick

958
00:59:01,760 --> 00:59:02,960
Speaker 1: the one you want to give me. I'll pick the

959
00:59:02,960 --> 00:59:04,160
Speaker 1: one I want to give you, because like you don't

960
00:59:04,200 --> 00:59:07,320
Speaker 1: want to pick, like you're like you're the present. The one.

961
00:59:07,400 --> 00:59:09,480
Speaker 1: Then what movie are we gonna watch tonight? It's a

962
00:59:09,480 --> 00:59:12,360
Speaker 1: wonderful life. I'm so excited. We hope all of you

963
00:59:12,360 --> 00:59:14,880
Speaker 1: guys have the most amazing Christmas. We know it looks

964
00:59:14,880 --> 00:59:16,320
Speaker 1: a little different this year, but just know that you

965
00:59:16,360 --> 00:59:18,240
Speaker 1: were loved and you were cherished, and we just hope

966
00:59:18,240 --> 00:59:21,960
Speaker 1: you enjoy relaxing holiday and the biggest presents that you

967
00:59:22,000 --> 00:59:23,840
Speaker 1: have are the people you're with, are the people you're

968
00:59:23,840 --> 00:59:29,280
Speaker 1: talking to and listening to see what I mean. We'll

969
00:59:29,320 --> 00:59:41,840
Speaker 1: be back Monday for an all new, very exciting episode.