WEBVTT - Conversations About Parenting (and Sh*t)

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<v Speaker 1>What's up And welcome back to another episode of No

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<v Speaker 1>Sealess Podcast with your hosts Now fuck that with your

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<v Speaker 1>loaw glasses Malone. No, no, it's not the mic, right.

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<v Speaker 1>What it is is so the whole point is your interface.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't do nothing but convert your microphone too like a

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<v Speaker 1>language that your computer can read. That's all your interface does.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not the microphone. It's really just the interface, right.

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<v Speaker 2>So the interface doesn't need a need a device to

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<v Speaker 2>plug into like, so it works like mic interface computer.

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<v Speaker 2>It can just be computer interface computer, well.

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<v Speaker 1>Like minees right, like at home, Like right now, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>using the zoom Age six and it's an interface but

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<v Speaker 1>has MIC inputs on it. So in theory, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>need nothing. I could plug I could put a flash

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<v Speaker 1>drive inside of it, right, and then plug mics into

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<v Speaker 1>it and just do my podcast with just this. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>two mics and a and a flash drive.

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<v Speaker 2>But but he needs a mic, like he can't just

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<v Speaker 2>have an interface sitting by itself, right, No.

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<v Speaker 1>He got a mic. His mic is plugged into his interface,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying. But what happens is when

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<v Speaker 1>he changes audio, when he puts his I you know

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<v Speaker 1>what I mean from stream Yard onto his interface. That

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<v Speaker 1>automatically disposal the fact that his the fact Streamyard is

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<v Speaker 1>picking up his interface says a lot. So it's really

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<v Speaker 1>something simple between a microphone and the interface.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, when he said he might need a podcast mic,

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<v Speaker 2>I thought he didn't have a mic. He just had

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<v Speaker 2>a computer and an interface.

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<v Speaker 3>Now you're my microphone over here, gotcha?

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<v Speaker 1>When you were just talking, was you talking into your microphone?

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<v Speaker 3>No, I'm talking into the computer mic.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm saying. When you were just checking

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<v Speaker 1>your interface? Now, because I said, was you snapping in

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<v Speaker 1>front of it?

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<v Speaker 3>Nope? Nope.

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<v Speaker 1>So then yeah, it could be working, but you just

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<v Speaker 1>try one more time, like, but bring your mic to

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<v Speaker 1>you and see if that helps, because you gotta talk

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<v Speaker 1>to the microphone. Oh see if that helped, because if

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<v Speaker 1>very if you if stream Yard cousins picking up your interface,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying, then at that point it's

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<v Speaker 1>really the conversation between your microphone and your interface. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so that should really worked.

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<v Speaker 2>Is there something more like the channel the interfaces on

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<v Speaker 2>it might not be matching the input where the MIC's

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<v Speaker 2>plugged into.

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<v Speaker 1>It could be that it could be that it could

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<v Speaker 1>be that I don't really know. But what I do

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<v Speaker 1>is because I'm gonna just come over there, Joey one

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<v Speaker 1>like in the next like six days and really just

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<v Speaker 1>make it to where you can actually where you could

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<v Speaker 1>actually just do this from here now, because you could

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<v Speaker 1>do way like I think this is the future for

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<v Speaker 1>any person looking to be in any level of entertainment.

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<v Speaker 1>You're having setups at home that you could use and

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<v Speaker 1>do all your interviews.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, because you got it. Yeah today, Yeah, I can't

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<v Speaker 3>be out there.

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<v Speaker 1>I think people finna get rid of brick and mortars altogether.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, you know what I'm saying right now, I

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<v Speaker 1>got I got Atlanta coming up right December, in December,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm stopping at all these places with radio, podcasts,

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<v Speaker 1>TV shows, video shows, you know, maybe some meetings. But

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<v Speaker 1>thinking about five years that should have been done. I

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<v Speaker 1>think technology or catch up, and you'll be able to

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<v Speaker 1>have visuals so fucking crisp on your computer and on

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<v Speaker 1>your phone that people won't just invest in productions like

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<v Speaker 1>that for this type of medium. Yeah, I mean, to

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<v Speaker 1>deliver this type of content.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't think that will take away from it though, I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, it's just what it is. At this point,

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<v Speaker 3>it's just evolving.

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<v Speaker 2>If you don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>About We use the term evolution because evolution kind of

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<v Speaker 1>signifies evolution signifies a necessary need to survive, like a

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<v Speaker 1>change that is made in regards to survive. I think

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<v Speaker 1>convenience because becomes the uh right it, convenience becomes Convenience

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<v Speaker 1>is also the killer of quality, oh for sure. So

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<v Speaker 1>but again I think as the world that just as

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<v Speaker 1>a standard becomes lower quality, it just won't matter like that.

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<v Speaker 1>It just won't matter like that. So but I know

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<v Speaker 1>that just like any feeling, because that the centerpiece of

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<v Speaker 1>you know, even cinematography to me is audi that's where

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<v Speaker 1>you get the professional quality because cinematography itself, the way

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<v Speaker 1>films look be all different. You can look at Traffic,

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<v Speaker 1>the movie Traffic, or look at certain films they'll have

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<v Speaker 1>all kind of looks and ideas the way you've seen them.

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<v Speaker 1>But the most professional films, the sound is what's really

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<v Speaker 1>the most professional part. I mean, there's a level of

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<v Speaker 1>editing that happens, but even in that's more style. Sound

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<v Speaker 1>is probably the one thing I don't think you could

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<v Speaker 1>really fuck with, you know what I mean, motherfuckers need

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<v Speaker 1>to hear some shit correctly.

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<v Speaker 2>And I think honestly, like the way that you'll be

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<v Speaker 2>able to digitally store and observe sound through I mean

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<v Speaker 2>it is just the case now. I mean, like if

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<v Speaker 2>you were a crack open the code on, like what's

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<v Speaker 2>really going on with the audio that's gonna get streamlined

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<v Speaker 2>and edited and really really perfected quite efficiently with AI stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>The ai'll be able to pick up like what's background

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<v Speaker 2>versus what's for a ground, what's static first? Not like

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<v Speaker 2>and it'll just clean all that right out.

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<v Speaker 1>For sure, but but yeah, yeah, but even.

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<v Speaker 2>Now it'll take echoes just right on out.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, they got that now. Like if you look at

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<v Speaker 1>some of the options and stream yards, because they have

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<v Speaker 1>echo cancelation, they got background cancelation, they got a grip

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<v Speaker 1>of dope. Ass shit, it ain't no plump you. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>so shut out the stream yard. Cuse But because this

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<v Speaker 1>is a real podcast, I don't really do a visual

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<v Speaker 1>component for the most part till we get, you know better,

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<v Speaker 1>Like we've been talking about doing more stuff visual. We

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<v Speaker 1>just got to figure it out the right way to

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<v Speaker 1>where to me is as creative as the ship were

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<v Speaker 1>talking about, Like we can't have this kind of lame standard.

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<v Speaker 1>Look you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 2>Can I set my stuff out on the balcony and

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<v Speaker 2>and and have a cigar with this?

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<v Speaker 1>It has to be like that. Yeah, I think we

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<v Speaker 1>think that.

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<v Speaker 2>Would be excellent. I would be doing podcasts all day life.

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<v Speaker 1>But what's crazy is right, is like we're working on

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<v Speaker 1>a film, right, so counsel these nothing now that it's

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<v Speaker 1>like and we sixty days in, like we're going into

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<v Speaker 1>like we're in the second quarter of the marketing level

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<v Speaker 1>right up the whole life of it, as far as

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<v Speaker 1>the marketing from our perspective as a label. And we're

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<v Speaker 1>working on this film called fed Up right me and

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<v Speaker 1>still been writing on it like.

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<v Speaker 2>Every white character in the in the feature, like I

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<v Speaker 2>just keep popping up in new outfits throughout.

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<v Speaker 1>That would be good, but no, we was working on it.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's funny because like we can shoot the dead

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<v Speaker 1>movie on our phone, and we was talking about like

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<v Speaker 1>we could literally get two fucking iPhones with a steady

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<v Speaker 1>cam and a couple jims and a couple zooms and

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<v Speaker 1>shoot the film. But the problem is, like I gotta

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<v Speaker 1>talk to Sega because like, to me, that's the catch.

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<v Speaker 1>You gotta have the right sound guy, and that's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>determine if your film comes across profession.

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<v Speaker 2>It's interesting because was Redd was gonna make a cell phone.

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<v Speaker 3>They did.

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<v Speaker 2>They did make a cell phone, but they outsourced the camera,

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<v Speaker 2>so everybody was like, well, what the fuck is this?

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<v Speaker 2>So like, okay, okay, okay, you caught us. We're gonna

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<v Speaker 2>make a new one with our own fully vertically integrated

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<v Speaker 2>camera in the phone. And right before it's supposed to

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<v Speaker 2>like finally be done, they switched CEOs and he canceled

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<v Speaker 2>the whole project.

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<v Speaker 1>He was more than stupid ass ship stupid ass.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe he was, maybe he wasn't.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, man, I just I just think. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I fucked with the whole cameras and fine things. I

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<v Speaker 1>just don't believe it's the smartest thing in the world.

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<v Speaker 1>Probably not as far as the chasing eyes from people

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<v Speaker 1>got to stop chasing eyePhone. People got to stop chasing

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<v Speaker 1>But a right, but side note, cud, did you see

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<v Speaker 1>the ship?

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<v Speaker 3>Uh?

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<v Speaker 1>You see t I got that new apartment show that

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<v Speaker 1>you see that?

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<v Speaker 3>Is it a show or a movie?

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<v Speaker 1>It's like a movie. I think it is.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, it's a movie called The Apartments. Yeah, I haven't

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<v Speaker 3>watched it yet. It looked like the previews kind of

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<v Speaker 3>made me feel like it was probably funny.

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<v Speaker 1>It gotta be good. I mean, I really didn't get

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<v Speaker 1>into ATL like that. I didn't get to ATL like that.

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<v Speaker 1>I really didn't watch that. Any time I look at it,

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<v Speaker 1>it was kind of corny.

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<v Speaker 2>It was that well, it was interesting.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm cet I skating that shit is crazy?

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<v Speaker 1>Can you skate? I mean all the land of niggas, I'm.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, is this nigga grown?

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<v Speaker 1>Or is he a kid?

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<v Speaker 2>All the other actors that were corny in it, like

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<v Speaker 2>all of his friends were corny as shit.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't every time I try to sit down and

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<v Speaker 1>watch it, it just be corny as fuck because I

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<v Speaker 1>cannot fuck with a lot of people watched it and

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<v Speaker 1>they love anything.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh I think people, I was the best actor of

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<v Speaker 2>the film. Are you fucking kidding me? You kidding me?

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<v Speaker 2>Have pro actors?

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<v Speaker 3>You know?

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<v Speaker 2>As to the actors looked like fucking idiots other than

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<v Speaker 2>that girl's dad, who was an actual actor who did

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<v Speaker 2>a good job.

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<v Speaker 1>All the dress always mean yeah, yeah, I mean I like.

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<v Speaker 2>That mean mean cells with me, no syllis jail.

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<v Speaker 1>All timing with my brother Peter Pete. Whatever got my

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<v Speaker 1>man Joey Westside from the La Giants, ironically we got you.

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<v Speaker 1>I always thought this would be a good conversation because

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<v Speaker 1>me and Pete don't got no kids.

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<v Speaker 2>This is true.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, I know about t I and this little

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<v Speaker 4>Well that's the thing about the thing about is we

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<v Speaker 4>don't never talk specifically about one thing because we don't

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<v Speaker 4>like we don't this ain't the uh, this ain't the view.

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<v Speaker 1>We don't talk everything. So we have to wrap a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of the ideas we want to talk about into

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<v Speaker 1>greater conversations, like about period in general. Right, And we

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<v Speaker 1>just happened to start with King and TV. They just

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<v Speaker 1>they kind of start where we're going into conversation. But

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<v Speaker 1>that's not really what this podcast about. It's about just

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<v Speaker 1>parenting in general. And I think it's dope that me

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<v Speaker 1>and Pete got pure takes on parenting, like we have,

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<v Speaker 1>honest and logical takes because there's no emotion. But obviously

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<v Speaker 1>having a kid makes you feel different about parenting for sure,

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<v Speaker 1>So we can ask your opinion to kids you do yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>because you you really start selling out all that, man,

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<v Speaker 1>you start doing shit that's probably you'll think that's good

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<v Speaker 1>for you, and then but I feel like I should

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<v Speaker 1>do this like Christmas gifts.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you're all were you like at a point like

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<v Speaker 2>coming up where you were like, man, I don't never

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<v Speaker 2>have much. By the time he was six, it was just.

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<v Speaker 3>Right there, just totally well, I got a daughter, so okay,

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<v Speaker 3>I wouldn't know, but I'm pretty sure. I mean, I

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<v Speaker 3>watched my brother say certain ship that he would never do,

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<v Speaker 3>and he you know, he can look like a liar

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<v Speaker 3>at this point, but he just didn't know. He just

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<v Speaker 3>didn't know no better. Yeah, he thought he thought he

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<v Speaker 3>would do things or not do things because he was

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<v Speaker 3>speaking from a place of ignorance, you know about that.

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<v Speaker 3>So for you know, when you're young and you rebellio,

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<v Speaker 3>see your dad or your your uncles or your OG's

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<v Speaker 3>be said things like this is gonna happen, This's gonnappen

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<v Speaker 3>because they didn't already experience it and seeing it. But

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<v Speaker 3>she'd be like, I ain't gonna be like that, Like

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<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna do it this way. It's like you don't

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<v Speaker 3>know what you're gonna do until you live in it.

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<v Speaker 3>Then you start living it. It's like damn and that

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<v Speaker 3>was what I'm gonna do with. Yeah, who did on

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<v Speaker 3>what I'm talking about? He was just saying, like, was

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<v Speaker 3>I ever? Was I ever the person that was like

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<v Speaker 3>I never do this with my son or in front

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<v Speaker 3>of my son or whatever. But I don't have a son.

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<v Speaker 3>But I watched my brother say things to my pops

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<v Speaker 3>and like, upples, you know what I'm saying, like I

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<v Speaker 3>never do that. I never do that, And it's like

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<v Speaker 3>you doing what you said you would never do, my nigga,

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<v Speaker 3>But he didn't know no better.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but y'all, y'all got a river. Also, like y'all

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<v Speaker 1>were parents. Hella young, I mean not crazy young, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>not not project young. I'm like, yeah, you know what

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<v Speaker 1>I mean. That is pretty young to have a kid. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so a lot of things that you know, like your

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<v Speaker 1>kids to some degree. I guess if you had a

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<v Speaker 1>kid at eighteen nineteen twenty, your kids was raised with you,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean. I know that sounds crazy

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<v Speaker 1>because like I'll be thinking about twenty today, Like I

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<v Speaker 1>look at kids twenty today and I'd be like, they

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<v Speaker 1>act like little kids at twenty today. But then I

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<v Speaker 1>think kids that was twenty when I was twenty.

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<v Speaker 3>It seemed to have been growner and more dope.

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<v Speaker 5>Huh.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, But nigga, let's go back to the sixties. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>if you was twenty in the sixties, you probably had

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<v Speaker 1>already worked for five years, you built up some pension,

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<v Speaker 1>you had, life is sort. You probably was married, You

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<v Speaker 1>was making on the housing on your house.

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<v Speaker 3>Yummy goldates and shit.

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<v Speaker 1>Yesay, you was receiving already.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you'd already been to Warren back seeing the world.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why I was saying. I was tripping off this

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<v Speaker 1>conversation we was having yesterday on the Clubhouse with the

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<v Speaker 1>Homie Trap Brash Show. Shout out to Trap in the

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<v Speaker 1>whole ad HD room. But it was funny to me

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<v Speaker 1>because we were talking about they were talking about Luke,

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<v Speaker 1>and they were talking about Gloria Valez. Right, wasn't that Velez?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>And you know, Joey, people hate when I talk about this, right,

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<v Speaker 1>But like, I can't help but be logical in approach,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's people be like, well, that's because you're not

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<v Speaker 1>a parent. It's like, look, I'm not saying something is

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<v Speaker 1>right or wrong. I'm just saying right. Just so, the

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<v Speaker 1>whole thing with Luke and Gloria a les Is. Gloria

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<v Speaker 1>is coming out now, Miyu. She had a baby with

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<v Speaker 1>Aaron Albohens. She was like seventeen or eighteen or something.

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<v Speaker 2>And you're talking like Luke, like uncle Luke, who knew.

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<v Speaker 1>She just said, oh, Luke was grooming her at sixteen,

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<v Speaker 1>and so I seen Luke respond to that. He was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I just figured out what grooming was, and everybody he

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<v Speaker 1>knew what it was. I was thinking, like man, Nigga

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<v Speaker 1>from Florida, that nigga, right, he probably did not know

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<v Speaker 1>groomy man.

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<v Speaker 2>I was at the bar with him at she five,

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<v Speaker 2>and I wanted to go say what's up to him?

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<v Speaker 2>But I didn't want to be that like corny ass

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<v Speaker 2>dude to go by the nigguy.

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<v Speaker 1>Lucas a card and less.

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<v Speaker 3>So I don't know who he is.

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<v Speaker 1>I know who you, so Luke, so Lucas mad. But

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<v Speaker 1>it was funny because I was having a room and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, obviously today it's this real stanch moral positioning

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<v Speaker 1>right about you know how they feel about me and

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<v Speaker 1>dealing with underage minors, and I'm saying to them, well,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, in the United States, like thirty plus states,

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<v Speaker 1>the legal age of consented sixteen. They're like, class, come

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<v Speaker 1>on with all that smart shit, and I'm like, Bro,

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<v Speaker 1>you have to care about because you're right, you don't understand.

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<v Speaker 1>Like this has always been my conversation, bro, morality only

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<v Speaker 1>comes from religion, underworld or laws. That creates morality for

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<v Speaker 1>most people, except a couple intelligent people who come up

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<v Speaker 1>with their own morality. But for the sheet the herd

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<v Speaker 1>itself religion, street life, or laws. So I was trying

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<v Speaker 1>to tell them, I'm like, well, in the nineties, the

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<v Speaker 1>legal age of consent in Florida and some of those

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<v Speaker 1>southern states was like thirteen and fourteen.

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<v Speaker 3>That shits out.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds crazy because only because we in twenty twenty three.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it sounds crazy in twenty twenty three.

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<v Speaker 2>Normally growing up, I heard an interesting observation by this

0:17:06.760 --> 0:17:11.840
<v Speaker 2>guy who was talking about well, anyway, let's cut to

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<v Speaker 2>the chase. In previous generations, like parents now are very

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<v Speaker 2>very very risk averse with how they let their kids

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<v Speaker 2>like go around town and all that kind of stuff,

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<v Speaker 2>you know what I mean, particularly like in the suburbs

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<v Speaker 2>and stuff. Whereas in previous generation we had six, seven,

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<v Speaker 2>eight kids. You lose one, eh, sucks, but eh, you

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<v Speaker 2>lose you got one kid and you lose one, that's

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<v Speaker 2>a bigger l man.

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<v Speaker 3>You know what you know what's crazy is uh, I

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<v Speaker 3>find myself being I remember growing up in you know,

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<v Speaker 3>moms at work, pops doing what he's doing. He at work,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, not there sometimes whenever you but they never

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<v Speaker 3>they never worried about us. Yeah, they we stayed at home.

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<v Speaker 3>That's what it was like. She didn't worry.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, you just you was staying on your ass,

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<v Speaker 1>stayed outside. You been not bringing up with fucking ass

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<v Speaker 1>in here.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's what I'm saying. Like when she at work,

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<v Speaker 3>she like, we we at When I'm saying home, I

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<v Speaker 3>mean the outside in the house, she ain't calling and

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<v Speaker 3>check all this and it's like I'm at work. My

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<v Speaker 3>kids is straight. But we also grew up in a

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<v Speaker 3>neighborhood where your where your homies was like your family.

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<v Speaker 3>So they know the neighbors. We know the neighbors. Everybody

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<v Speaker 3>know each other. So they didn't worry about that. My

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<v Speaker 3>dad didn't worry about that. Man. I be man, My

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<v Speaker 3>daughter go to her friend house and I'm calling, texting,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm checking her location, all me all these things that

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<v Speaker 3>they gave us to make sure they're safe or whatever

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<v Speaker 3>that you could use to make yourself feel like they safe.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, and I'd be I'd be worried, man, I just

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<v Speaker 5>be over worried, Like damn, I can't even allow her

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<v Speaker 5>to just you know, I don't want her to do

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<v Speaker 5>not dumb, but she makes a mistake or be responsible.

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<v Speaker 3>So I can trust it. I'm just own it. Yeah. Wait,

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<v Speaker 3>did you get there yet? All right? For shore, All right,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna call you in a minute. And my mom

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<v Speaker 3>and dad to do none of that shit.

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<v Speaker 1>Parents today is we scaredy hella, puss a five and

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<v Speaker 1>I don't forgive me for y'all. And I got kid y'all. Y'all,

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<v Speaker 1>y'all trying to like today is worse than we nigga

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<v Speaker 1>when we grew up. It was way worse. It was way,

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<v Speaker 1>way worse. Like everything about our childhood was really dangerous,

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<v Speaker 1>Like you really might get shot in the drive outside,

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<v Speaker 1>you really might get kidnapped by somebody in the van,

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<v Speaker 1>like these were normal things that was happening, and that

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<v Speaker 1>shit never Like guess what if you went outside at

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<v Speaker 1>the nine o'clock in the morning, not bring your back,

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<v Speaker 1>had your ass backing here before the street guys come on,

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<v Speaker 1>But nigga, don't be in and about this mother fucker.

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<v Speaker 1>Stay outside.

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<v Speaker 3>You're in and out the house. Get your ass whoop me.

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<v Speaker 3>That's crazy way.

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<v Speaker 1>Come back and over here. I wish you wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>be laying on the couch all day talking about Oh

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<v Speaker 1>you on the phone? First off, he blocking the phone line.

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<v Speaker 1>Part two, why the fuck is you in here?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? Yeah, that's true too. I feel like they're and

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<v Speaker 2>I was kind of thinking about it as we were talking.

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<v Speaker 2>There's an interesting, like almost paradox with parents now. It's like, Hey,

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of parents that I watch, they don't want

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<v Speaker 2>to do any parenting. They want to be the kid's

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<v Speaker 2>best friend. And then on the flip side, they don't

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<v Speaker 2>have any trust to let the kid go be out

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<v Speaker 2>and about or whatever the hell and learn a lesson

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<v Speaker 2>on their own. And I feel like, subconsciously you will

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<v Speaker 2>at saying you, Joe, I'm just saying, like, you know

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of people in general, if you know you're

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<v Speaker 2>doing a shitty job at parenting because all you want

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<v Speaker 2>to do is be your kid's best friend, then you

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<v Speaker 2>don't trust your kid because you don't trust the parenting

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<v Speaker 2>that you did for your kid in real time possability.

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<v Speaker 3>That could be true. I wouldn't not shoot true.

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<v Speaker 2>For a lot of girls I know, or at least

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think.

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<v Speaker 3>Now just to host them.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, just just to dress them up.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, But that's why you look in there and you

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<v Speaker 1>be looking at niggas biyo and women bidio. They be like, like,

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<v Speaker 1>the greatest accomplishment is like mother of todd I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>How'm gonna turn around to be a serial killer? That's

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<v Speaker 1>just your king in the case. And I don't forgive me. Like, ladies,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not talking about y'all. I'm just saying that shouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>be the crowning achievement of your life. Now. That's not

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<v Speaker 1>to say your kids shouldn't be important or or focused,

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<v Speaker 1>but that shouldn't define your existence.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I don't know. I'm not sure. For a long

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<v Speaker 2>time that kind of was. At least, if you're going

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<v Speaker 2>to say that the greatest accomplishment is your kids, at

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<v Speaker 2>least your greatest accomplishment needs to be your kid's accomplishment,

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<v Speaker 2>that not just their existence.

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<v Speaker 1>That also, this is the thing, right, It is like

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<v Speaker 1>back in the day, women would be proud to be

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<v Speaker 1>somebody's wife. That was their crowning achievement. It wasn't the kids.

0:22:10.840 --> 0:22:14.119
<v Speaker 1>The family set up was the crowning achievement. Socially, it

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't just the two kids or three kids. Mother of

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<v Speaker 1>four that just don't look attractive, like wife of blah

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<v Speaker 1>blah blah, not mother mother of ford.

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<v Speaker 3>Looked like I see the wife in the bio, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>but a lot of them mad wives.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but that that would be the greatest ACCOMPLI like

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<v Speaker 1>that used to be women's accomplishment. I mean wife of

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<v Speaker 1>Robert Jr. M. You know what I'm saying. So it's

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<v Speaker 1>just changed. But I was looking at the tr shit

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<v Speaker 1>and it was crazy, right because like I'm watching this

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<v Speaker 1>nigga and it looks like he's pushing his mom because

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<v Speaker 1>and he talking about telling his mom he's standing on business.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm thinking to myself, like, Cluz, I wish I

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<v Speaker 1>would have used slang in my mom. My mom would

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<v Speaker 1>have knocked my motherfucking head off, Like I was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>mom washed up with that. She didn't be like nigga, what.

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<v Speaker 3>She's gonna brn you out and put all your business

0:23:09.880 --> 0:23:13.159
<v Speaker 3>because your mom know anything about you. First off, it

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<v Speaker 3>wasn't no more out there all the little boys shit

0:23:16.320 --> 0:23:18.080
<v Speaker 3>you do around the cramb. She's about to say it

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<v Speaker 3>and let you know how much of a whole ass nigga.

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<v Speaker 1>You Olivia six foot three hundred fans nigga. First off,

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<v Speaker 1>it had been no right hand. First off, before she

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<v Speaker 1>took my phone off the ground to drop me, she'd

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<v Speaker 1>have took the phone like this little bitch ass nigga,

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<v Speaker 1>ya'all to grab cloths up right. And it's funny because

0:23:36.560 --> 0:23:39.200
<v Speaker 1>I saw you on today, cousin on Instagram, Me like, yeah,

0:23:39.240 --> 0:23:41.080
<v Speaker 1>you know these niggas better. You know, I stand on

0:23:41.080 --> 0:23:42.880
<v Speaker 1>bidding nigga better stay out of my business. And I'm

0:23:42.920 --> 0:23:47.359
<v Speaker 1>just thinking to myself, like for him to be saying,

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<v Speaker 1>like what happened to where people are just ungrateful about

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<v Speaker 1>their parents.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't, I don't. I don't know where that. I

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<v Speaker 3>don't know what that come from, man, Like.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it comes from the fact, Like I'll go

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<v Speaker 2>back to it, parents have. There's been a slow linear

0:24:12.000 --> 0:24:17.040
<v Speaker 2>decline in the degree to which parents adequately equip their

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<v Speaker 2>kids with the tools to be upstanding and productive, so

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<v Speaker 2>as they get older, they understand that there's a void

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<v Speaker 2>of skills and tools and ship. So they get rebellious

0:24:29.480 --> 0:24:33.680
<v Speaker 2>because they're arming and they feel like they're ill prepared

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<v Speaker 2>for the world. So what can you do. You can

0:24:35.720 --> 0:24:37.760
<v Speaker 2>just bitch, and then the kids are going to bitch

0:24:37.760 --> 0:24:38.760
<v Speaker 2>at a certain age what they do.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I'm not mad at that.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you believe in hitting your kids, Pete, if you

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<v Speaker 1>hide a key?

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<v Speaker 2>I am I allowed to say, Yeah, I don't have

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<v Speaker 2>a problem with that. I think there's there's there's a

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<v Speaker 2>there's a real I think I don't even think it's

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<v Speaker 2>a fin line. I think there's a pretty big gap

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<v Speaker 2>between like disciplining your kid and physically abusing and beating

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<v Speaker 2>the ship out of your kid and turning your kid

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<v Speaker 2>into dysfunction a socially dysfunctional, violent person. Those two things

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<v Speaker 2>in the world apart.

0:25:11.800 --> 0:25:14.000
<v Speaker 1>That's like those are a world apart. It's like, who

0:25:14.480 --> 0:25:16.879
<v Speaker 1>your kid asked the coffee hot? That's not what I'm.

0:25:16.720 --> 0:25:20.280
<v Speaker 2>Talking Yeah, no, come on home because you got rough

0:25:20.320 --> 0:25:21.640
<v Speaker 2>day at work and take it out of your kid.

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<v Speaker 1>In the same shit, how about your kids stole your car?

0:25:23.720 --> 0:25:24.640
<v Speaker 1>Whoop your kid.

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<v Speaker 2>At if your kids stole the car, whoop your kids

0:25:27.600 --> 0:25:30.560
<v Speaker 2>asked you might their kids old enough to you have

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<v Speaker 2>to earn that one. Maybe how old that kid is?

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<v Speaker 2>But a ten year old? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>No, No depends on how fourteen.

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<v Speaker 2>If you can. I had a kid. Next year, when

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<v Speaker 2>he's fourteen, I'll be fifty five.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't think you been a whooping kid ass at

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<v Speaker 1>fifty five?

0:25:51.760 --> 0:25:54.399
<v Speaker 2>Man, I barely you heard me earlier. I could barely

0:25:54.480 --> 0:25:58.200
<v Speaker 2>drink that PEPSI man, I'm falling apart. I almost got

0:25:58.200 --> 0:26:01.080
<v Speaker 2>I almost got an outsource open and soa hands nowadays

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<v Speaker 2>supposed to open up just trying to whoop ass on

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<v Speaker 2>my chid. I came home.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me, Joey, you the only one that got a

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<v Speaker 1>kid on this mother podcast? And what age would you

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<v Speaker 1>not whoop yah y'all?

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<v Speaker 2>Man?

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<v Speaker 1>Now, y'all fourteen?

0:26:17.520 --> 0:26:17.680
<v Speaker 3>Now?

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<v Speaker 1>So where what age would you not whoop?

0:26:19.560 --> 0:26:19.720
<v Speaker 3>Yah?

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<v Speaker 1>Y'all? You actually too big for whooping on her?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Now it's now. I don't I ain't whoop y'all y'all

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<v Speaker 3>that many times? You know what I'm saying. I remember

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<v Speaker 3>one time though she like she had said something slick

0:26:32.560 --> 0:26:34.920
<v Speaker 3>out her boud. She was younger though, like basically called

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<v Speaker 3>me like annoying or something. But the way she said.

0:26:37.640 --> 0:26:40.400
<v Speaker 3>It was almost like she didn't even say it though.

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<v Speaker 3>I just like, what was you about to say?

0:26:41.680 --> 0:26:41.760
<v Speaker 1>What?

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<v Speaker 3>I think he was about to say? Like, and I

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<v Speaker 3>popped her in the fore as so goddamn all man,

0:26:46.720 --> 0:26:48.560
<v Speaker 3>and I and I felt bad as soon as I

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<v Speaker 3>did it. Damn, I don't I got turned into a man.

0:26:53.840 --> 0:26:56.840
<v Speaker 3>I got melted as soon as I did it. Man,

0:26:56.880 --> 0:27:00.360
<v Speaker 3>but it was reflected mouth mouth was just too much

0:27:00.359 --> 0:27:02.959
<v Speaker 3>of a god. But right now, I can't see myself

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<v Speaker 3>whooping her. Man. I just try to talk to her

0:27:04.960 --> 0:27:07.200
<v Speaker 3>every now I did. I got to get a little loud,

0:27:08.080 --> 0:27:09.800
<v Speaker 3>you know what I'm saying to let her know I'm

0:27:09.800 --> 0:27:12.600
<v Speaker 3>not playing like I'm serious about what I'm saying. But

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<v Speaker 3>she don't really do anything to where I have to

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<v Speaker 3>go that route. And she dig now like she know

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<v Speaker 3>she a young lady.

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<v Speaker 1>And how old was you the last time you got

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<v Speaker 1>your ass whooped?

0:27:26.000 --> 0:27:26.240
<v Speaker 5>Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>Man, I can't even remember, man.

0:27:29.560 --> 0:27:31.080
<v Speaker 1>I mean, and I'm gonna talk about what a belt?

0:27:31.119 --> 0:27:32.960
<v Speaker 1>I mean, you got disciplined?

0:27:33.800 --> 0:27:38.280
<v Speaker 3>Oh? I remember Pop's like probably high school, like ninth

0:27:38.359 --> 0:27:40.880
<v Speaker 3>tenth grade. Pops took off on me in the chest

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<v Speaker 3>a couple of times before you let me out the car.

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<v Speaker 1>What about you, Pete. I'm just I can't imagine. When's

0:27:47.600 --> 0:27:50.400
<v Speaker 1>the last time you got disciplined, Pete? Physically you're paying

0:27:50.760 --> 0:27:51.560
<v Speaker 1>as as.

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<v Speaker 2>A kid, probably six or seven, something like that, Nigga.

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<v Speaker 1>The last time I got disciplined, nigga was my mom.

0:27:56.440 --> 0:27:58.840
<v Speaker 1>I was eighteen years old, out of high school. Nigga,

0:27:58.880 --> 0:28:00.680
<v Speaker 1>she damned to knocked my team. Try to nigga about

0:28:00.680 --> 0:28:03.520
<v Speaker 1>whole marvels bleed for about fifteen minutes when you said

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<v Speaker 1>they the time she called me selling drugs and she

0:28:08.840 --> 0:28:11.600
<v Speaker 1>asked me, she was like, are you hustling? And I'm

0:28:11.600 --> 0:28:14.000
<v Speaker 1>like looking away, like you know, you know how you

0:28:14.080 --> 0:28:15.960
<v Speaker 1>look away you think you get two girls. I'm looking

0:28:15.960 --> 0:28:18.520
<v Speaker 1>away like you know. She's like, are you hustling? I

0:28:18.560 --> 0:28:21.639
<v Speaker 1>know you hear me talking to you. I look I'm like,

0:28:22.480 --> 0:28:28.920
<v Speaker 1>I gotta get my Yeah, the whole damn nigga.

0:28:30.000 --> 0:28:31.840
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, my daughter. She had to Like I would have

0:28:31.880 --> 0:28:34.800
<v Speaker 3>to catch my daughter doing some shit like like tworking

0:28:34.880 --> 0:28:36.960
<v Speaker 3>on TikTok or something, I probably should have to shoot

0:28:36.960 --> 0:28:41.560
<v Speaker 3>out of it. She gotta be tough because because that

0:28:41.640 --> 0:28:44.520
<v Speaker 3>I and probably because I just and it might be selfish,

0:28:44.600 --> 0:28:50.800
<v Speaker 3>like I'm embarrassed, so I'm about to that is abused.

0:28:51.040 --> 0:28:53.959
<v Speaker 1>You can't whoop your You can't, but you know what,

0:28:54.000 --> 0:28:55.680
<v Speaker 1>I could relate to it, but you can't do that.

0:28:55.840 --> 0:28:58.120
<v Speaker 1>But I really think as black people, we got in

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<v Speaker 1>trouble with our parents because we embarrassed. It probably wouldn't

0:29:01.440 --> 0:29:05.000
<v Speaker 1>even worse the ash whild it, but they're so embarrassed.

0:29:05.520 --> 0:29:07.840
<v Speaker 1>He was like, you motherfucker, you got me looking crip.

0:29:08.120 --> 0:29:10.200
<v Speaker 1>That's how my mother to talk to my brother when

0:29:10.200 --> 0:29:12.080
<v Speaker 1>we got in trouble at school. Like he get in

0:29:12.120 --> 0:29:13.560
<v Speaker 1>trouble school, She's like, you got me, come up here.

0:29:13.600 --> 0:29:16.200
<v Speaker 1>I'm embarrasseding shit, Like she gotta walk up and it's

0:29:16.280 --> 0:29:22.600
<v Speaker 1>your kid causing all them. Yeah, my mom nigga eighteen nigga.

0:29:22.600 --> 0:29:24.840
<v Speaker 1>I was already hustling at that point for three years.

0:29:24.840 --> 0:29:27.520
<v Speaker 1>She just didn't know because she got in trouble. She

0:29:27.600 --> 0:29:29.400
<v Speaker 1>came home and I did never say nothing. I have

0:29:29.480 --> 0:29:32.640
<v Speaker 1>my own place, and I was at my dad house chilling.

0:29:33.040 --> 0:29:37.160
<v Speaker 1>I was on the seventh and I was. She she

0:29:37.200 --> 0:29:39.080
<v Speaker 1>pulled up and I was sitting in the car with her,

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<v Speaker 1>and she knew it already. I don't know who told her,

0:29:41.720 --> 0:29:43.640
<v Speaker 1>maybe probably my little brother told her. But this all

0:29:43.720 --> 0:29:49.320
<v Speaker 1>fucking I'm telling them she are you hustling? And I

0:29:49.400 --> 0:29:52.480
<v Speaker 1>was like ignoring her? Right, I was like, man, she said,

0:29:52.480 --> 0:29:56.120
<v Speaker 1>are you hustling? Yeah, I gotta get She busted my

0:29:56.160 --> 0:29:59.040
<v Speaker 1>whole mouth right. Second time she called me us and

0:29:59.080 --> 0:30:01.480
<v Speaker 1>she tried to hit me with her car. I was

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<v Speaker 1>walking away from a cell in the streets like a seal.

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<v Speaker 1>Like somebody came. I thank bought like a twenty dollars

0:30:07.000 --> 0:30:09.040
<v Speaker 1>four or something, and I gave it to him and

0:30:09.040 --> 0:30:10.880
<v Speaker 1>got the money. Was walking back to the curve to

0:30:11.440 --> 0:30:13.200
<v Speaker 1>put the money around the fold the other You know,

0:30:13.200 --> 0:30:15.200
<v Speaker 1>when you're a young hustler, you just put the fold.

0:30:15.200 --> 0:30:17.200
<v Speaker 1>You put out your whole wives put the fold folding

0:30:17.240 --> 0:30:20.240
<v Speaker 1>on the otherwise. When I was walking k not caring

0:30:20.360 --> 0:30:23.680
<v Speaker 1>tens and all I heard, I looked it was her

0:30:23.720 --> 0:30:25.440
<v Speaker 1>car and I had to dive on the curve and

0:30:25.480 --> 0:30:26.120
<v Speaker 1>I died.

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<v Speaker 3>Man, Moss wasn't playing.

0:30:30.360 --> 0:30:33.840
<v Speaker 1>Oh she's sacrifice all this shit, that's what it be.

0:30:34.080 --> 0:30:35.720
<v Speaker 1>They feel like they they put all that work in

0:30:35.760 --> 0:30:37.680
<v Speaker 1>and stop you from doing. Is it what you're doing

0:30:37.720 --> 0:30:42.000
<v Speaker 1>with that sacrifice? This is what you do with my sacrifice.

0:30:42.640 --> 0:30:44.400
<v Speaker 1>Do you remember the worst time you ever let your

0:30:44.440 --> 0:30:50.920
<v Speaker 1>parents down? Like the greatest letdown you had for ham

0:30:51.000 --> 0:30:54.200
<v Speaker 1>for playing hand. You was like you like this this

0:30:54.320 --> 0:30:58.040
<v Speaker 1>was gonna be the monumentist let down where you let

0:30:58.080 --> 0:30:58.560
<v Speaker 1>them down.

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<v Speaker 3>I can't, I can't think. I can't think of a

0:31:03.680 --> 0:31:08.120
<v Speaker 3>situation right now. Ain't nothing popping up, Pete.

0:31:08.160 --> 0:31:10.640
<v Speaker 1>You remember the greatest letdown you add.

0:31:10.760 --> 0:31:17.720
<v Speaker 2>For your parents, like single action, like happened at once?

0:31:18.040 --> 0:31:18.760
<v Speaker 1>Single action?

0:31:24.120 --> 0:31:26.560
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, probably was. It was accumulation of the snowball of

0:31:26.600 --> 0:31:27.800
<v Speaker 2>a bunch of stuff, but it was. It would have

0:31:27.800 --> 0:31:32.520
<v Speaker 2>been like what I didn't uh re enroll to finish

0:31:32.520 --> 0:31:38.680
<v Speaker 2>off of lest few classes for my degree, which I

0:31:38.720 --> 0:31:40.920
<v Speaker 2>still not bothered by that at all, but I think

0:31:40.920 --> 0:31:44.000
<v Speaker 2>at the time my dad was kind of pissed, like quite.

0:31:47.440 --> 0:31:47.680
<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

0:31:48.480 --> 0:31:51.480
<v Speaker 1>For my mom, it was when I was hustling that day.

0:31:51.640 --> 0:31:54.240
<v Speaker 1>She the way she hit me in my mouth, She

0:31:54.360 --> 0:31:56.440
<v Speaker 1>hit me hard, like she tried to really knock me out,

0:31:57.800 --> 0:31:59.800
<v Speaker 1>like I could tell her. My mom points hard. I

0:31:59.800 --> 0:32:03.480
<v Speaker 1>got said, she was a squabbling like a big lady.

0:32:03.520 --> 0:32:05.200
<v Speaker 1>She was a nice large woman to be punching on

0:32:05.240 --> 0:32:10.320
<v Speaker 1>the motherfucker. You felt that pressure, niggie, and my mom

0:32:10.440 --> 0:32:12.520
<v Speaker 1>was breathing for like fifteen minutes. I jumped out the

0:32:12.520 --> 0:32:15.160
<v Speaker 1>car I was spinning up bluff for about fifteen minutes.

0:32:15.760 --> 0:32:18.400
<v Speaker 1>For a long time, I thought my.

0:32:18.240 --> 0:32:19.200
<v Speaker 3>Teeth was fucked up.

0:32:19.320 --> 0:32:26.880
<v Speaker 1>She fucked me up good. And my dad. The biggest

0:32:26.920 --> 0:32:31.840
<v Speaker 1>let down from my what's crazy is my dad called me?

0:32:37.880 --> 0:32:42.280
<v Speaker 1>My dad called me? When uh? My dad called me? When?

0:32:42.360 --> 0:32:48.800
<v Speaker 1>Uh the biggest let damn? When did I let my

0:32:48.880 --> 0:32:55.640
<v Speaker 1>dad dawn? You know what? The angriest I ever had him?

0:32:55.680 --> 0:32:57.560
<v Speaker 1>I called him a nickname that his friends used to

0:32:57.600 --> 0:32:59.520
<v Speaker 1>call him that got on his nerves and I didn't know.

0:33:01.520 --> 0:33:04.080
<v Speaker 1>And I chased me around the field next to the house,

0:33:04.200 --> 0:33:06.360
<v Speaker 1>nigga and Wi. He chased me around the field with

0:33:06.440 --> 0:33:08.440
<v Speaker 1>a tire with a spare tire, trying to hit me

0:33:08.480 --> 0:33:11.200
<v Speaker 1>with the tire. This nigga chased me in a field

0:33:11.240 --> 0:33:14.840
<v Speaker 1>with a tire, calling over his one of his best

0:33:14.880 --> 0:33:18.440
<v Speaker 1>friends right, His name was Ellis. Rest in peace, please

0:33:18.440 --> 0:33:21.240
<v Speaker 1>your Ellen. And Ellis and my dad had been friends

0:33:21.240 --> 0:33:23.040
<v Speaker 1>for a long time. Ellis is a little older than

0:33:23.040 --> 0:33:26.120
<v Speaker 1>my dad and they worked on race cars. One day

0:33:26.120 --> 0:33:28.720
<v Speaker 1>we were sitting in the front yard and he was like, hey,

0:33:28.800 --> 0:33:30.719
<v Speaker 1>you know what your daddy nickname was? And I had

0:33:30.760 --> 0:33:34.280
<v Speaker 1>to be about twelve or thirteen. He said, you know.

0:33:35.520 --> 0:33:36.920
<v Speaker 1>He said, you know what your daddy nick name? He

0:33:36.920 --> 0:33:38.960
<v Speaker 1>said his nickname used to be Skeik, call him Skeep

0:33:40.560 --> 0:33:42.600
<v Speaker 1>And I'm like okay, Like I didn't know.

0:33:43.520 --> 0:33:44.160
<v Speaker 3>I was like, what up?

0:33:44.200 --> 0:33:44.680
<v Speaker 2>Skee?

0:33:45.120 --> 0:33:48.760
<v Speaker 1>That nigga looked and fletched up and start chasing after me.

0:33:49.080 --> 0:33:51.760
<v Speaker 1>I felt like homerssensant at bart because I was digging.

0:33:52.080 --> 0:33:54.600
<v Speaker 1>He ain't picked up but tire off of Noah is

0:33:54.600 --> 0:33:57.960
<v Speaker 1>his mother's all nover. He picked up a tire and

0:33:58.200 --> 0:33:59.840
<v Speaker 1>chased me with the fucking tire.

0:34:00.640 --> 0:34:02.960
<v Speaker 3>Hey, nigga, tires ain't light like that either.

0:34:03.240 --> 0:34:09.359
<v Speaker 1>It's a tired threw up.

0:34:10.040 --> 0:34:12.480
<v Speaker 3>Why did they call that man? It's a backstory to skip.

0:34:12.920 --> 0:34:15.520
<v Speaker 1>I have no idea. I've never said that name since

0:34:15.520 --> 0:34:17.319
<v Speaker 1>that day. That's how much that ship.

0:34:17.520 --> 0:34:19.520
<v Speaker 2>You don't just walk back into the house and ask

0:34:21.360 --> 0:34:22.319
<v Speaker 2>where'd that come from?

0:34:23.120 --> 0:34:24.759
<v Speaker 3>Like why did they call you that?

0:34:25.120 --> 0:34:28.200
<v Speaker 1>Listen? I almost blurted it. I want to blurt it

0:34:28.200 --> 0:34:33.759
<v Speaker 1>out in the podcast. That's how frightened I was ever

0:34:33.840 --> 0:34:34.640
<v Speaker 1>since that date.

0:34:35.680 --> 0:34:39.440
<v Speaker 3>I remember one time me and my brother was getting

0:34:39.440 --> 0:34:41.680
<v Speaker 3>the too it. We was young enough and I was

0:34:41.800 --> 0:34:43.719
<v Speaker 3>mad and when I like, when I get mad, I

0:34:44.000 --> 0:34:48.560
<v Speaker 3>just I guess I would smelling my pists. At this point,

0:34:49.080 --> 0:34:52.560
<v Speaker 3>I start cussing that nigga out in front of them, like

0:34:53.080 --> 0:34:55.879
<v Speaker 3>I didn't care, nigga, but I didn't. The way I'm

0:34:55.880 --> 0:34:57.960
<v Speaker 3>cussing him out, you would have thought my mama wouldn't

0:34:57.960 --> 0:35:01.319
<v Speaker 3>even right there, nigga. When I tell you my whole shirt,

0:35:01.680 --> 0:35:04.239
<v Speaker 3>she pulled me from my shirt and pulled me back

0:35:04.239 --> 0:35:06.880
<v Speaker 3>in the crayl while I was walking out, and she

0:35:07.080 --> 0:35:09.080
<v Speaker 3>just you could tell how her she was, how I

0:35:09.120 --> 0:35:12.240
<v Speaker 3>was talking to my brother. I was, well, you thinking

0:35:12.280 --> 0:35:14.120
<v Speaker 3>you could just talk like that? Like what you think

0:35:14.160 --> 0:35:17.400
<v Speaker 3>this is? You feel me like? She she was mad.

0:35:18.040 --> 0:35:19.680
<v Speaker 3>She was mad that she heard me talk to my

0:35:19.760 --> 0:35:21.560
<v Speaker 3>brother like that, because that's at the time when you

0:35:21.600 --> 0:35:24.319
<v Speaker 3>cuss outside with me, you ain't. You ain't cussing in

0:35:24.320 --> 0:35:27.920
<v Speaker 3>front of your parents like that's a no note. Outside

0:35:27.920 --> 0:35:30.440
<v Speaker 3>were cussing up a store coming to ours, you but

0:35:31.520 --> 0:35:33.359
<v Speaker 3>you ain't doing nothing. You couldn't even you couldn't even

0:35:33.400 --> 0:35:36.040
<v Speaker 3>answer my mama with what. You couldn't say, she lying,

0:35:37.320 --> 0:35:40.480
<v Speaker 3>don't use the word liar or say what? Who you what?

0:35:41.040 --> 0:35:42.600
<v Speaker 3>That's how I asked what because.

0:35:42.520 --> 0:35:44.319
<v Speaker 1>I wish I would tell my mom. She called me

0:35:44.840 --> 0:35:50.760
<v Speaker 1>CD what she'd have looked across that motherfucking ring. Yeah,

0:35:51.320 --> 0:35:53.080
<v Speaker 1>loik at that ship. She didit me with a lamp.

0:35:53.200 --> 0:35:55.799
<v Speaker 1>You that's back because with parents threw anything to you

0:35:55.840 --> 0:35:58.480
<v Speaker 1>that was close to them, A fist, tailed, a lamp,

0:35:58.960 --> 0:36:03.640
<v Speaker 1>a shoe. Take remote remote used to be your mom

0:36:03.719 --> 0:36:06.320
<v Speaker 1>grandiest weapon she had. Throw that motherfucking remote. Fucking remote.

0:36:06.360 --> 0:36:15.800
<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to you name me break this motherfucker remote. Okay,

0:36:16.560 --> 0:36:21.239
<v Speaker 1>what if your kid came out like Lorie Hardy, what

0:36:21.360 --> 0:36:22.319
<v Speaker 1>do you do as a parent?

0:36:22.400 --> 0:36:26.520
<v Speaker 3>Then I wouldn't know, man, I would I wouldn't like it.

0:36:28.400 --> 0:36:32.560
<v Speaker 2>I know how I would handle that. Would I would

0:36:32.640 --> 0:36:34.839
<v Speaker 2>legally change my last name and say, don't know who

0:36:34.880 --> 0:36:41.239
<v Speaker 2>she is? You you turned on the morning radio show

0:36:41.280 --> 0:36:46.960
<v Speaker 2>and it'd be like the Steve Peterson Show, all that shink,

0:36:47.160 --> 0:36:49.279
<v Speaker 2>Laurie Harvey, I don't know. That's a strange lady. She

0:36:49.320 --> 0:36:51.040
<v Speaker 2>popped up out of nowhere. Weird bitch.

0:36:52.400 --> 0:36:56.479
<v Speaker 1>Are you embarrassed if that's your kid? Like a Steven

0:36:56.520 --> 0:36:57.280
<v Speaker 1>Harvey and bears?

0:36:58.560 --> 0:37:01.399
<v Speaker 3>I don't know, I mean like Steve Rvy is Steve Rvy?

0:37:01.480 --> 0:37:06.680
<v Speaker 1>Man, I don't know if you know even game?

0:37:07.320 --> 0:37:09.839
<v Speaker 2>What's she really? What she really do? It just kind

0:37:09.880 --> 0:37:12.279
<v Speaker 2>of like worst with skippy outfits and dates some high

0:37:12.360 --> 0:37:15.000
<v Speaker 2>profile people. I mean it depends, like I guess, the

0:37:15.040 --> 0:37:16.520
<v Speaker 2>hell of a lot worse than that. I don't know.

0:37:17.560 --> 0:37:19.600
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, she just dated a lot of men we know

0:37:20.080 --> 0:37:24.640
<v Speaker 3>and see how a few high profile you know, Laurie

0:37:25.680 --> 0:37:27.960
<v Speaker 3>wors some short dresses. R Dash, she and and somebody

0:37:28.000 --> 0:37:28.840
<v Speaker 3>that's a little different.

0:37:29.600 --> 0:37:34.839
<v Speaker 1>Okay, what if you was what's who if he was robbed?

0:37:34.920 --> 0:37:36.759
<v Speaker 1>What's the pop's name? Robert Gardashian?

0:37:37.640 --> 0:37:40.120
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I will be I will be like, I will

0:37:40.160 --> 0:37:45.400
<v Speaker 3>be hurt. I'll start taking the blame, like damn, what what?

0:37:45.640 --> 0:37:45.680
<v Speaker 2>What?

0:37:46.320 --> 0:37:47.680
<v Speaker 1>What did I do or didn't do?

0:37:48.520 --> 0:37:50.440
<v Speaker 3>Why would she make it decision.

0:37:51.440 --> 0:37:54.840
<v Speaker 2>Either, especially like the like the Hilton Dad. That's a

0:37:55.360 --> 0:37:57.719
<v Speaker 2>brand name guy with a brand name family you don't

0:37:57.719 --> 0:37:59.560
<v Speaker 2>really know. I mean like Kardashian, Yeah he was in

0:38:00.080 --> 0:38:03.319
<v Speaker 2>good Lawyer whatnot. But that's not a name like Pow

0:38:03.520 --> 0:38:03.960
<v Speaker 2>you know what I mean.

0:38:04.239 --> 0:38:06.920
<v Speaker 3>You see held everywhere right next to this day.

0:38:07.680 --> 0:38:14.000
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean she she damn near rebranded that whole

0:38:14.719 --> 0:38:17.080
<v Speaker 2>hotel empire, like they might have all just changed the

0:38:17.120 --> 0:38:21.399
<v Speaker 2>name of Snoopy Fox at that point.

0:38:23.040 --> 0:38:25.000
<v Speaker 3>And you know what's crazy because I used to that's

0:38:25.040 --> 0:38:28.800
<v Speaker 3>funny because I when I was young, I thought of

0:38:28.880 --> 0:38:33.280
<v Speaker 3>the Hilton as being like this real luxurious hotel.

0:38:34.280 --> 0:38:36.279
<v Speaker 1>Saying what it kind of was though, wasn't it.

0:38:36.800 --> 0:38:38.520
<v Speaker 2>I feel like I feel like, yeah, I feel like

0:38:38.560 --> 0:38:39.080
<v Speaker 2>they're working.

0:38:39.600 --> 0:38:42.120
<v Speaker 3>That ship is in days and now that's like the

0:38:42.200 --> 0:38:44.080
<v Speaker 3>best WESTY know them.

0:38:46.960 --> 0:38:49.080
<v Speaker 2>They got like the Hilton gardens. Now they have like

0:38:49.120 --> 0:38:56.480
<v Speaker 2>all sorts of tears, like this courtyard by Marriott.

0:38:56.880 --> 0:38:58.279
<v Speaker 3>Then she tried to give me pull up to a

0:38:58.360 --> 0:38:59.000
<v Speaker 3>bye him.

0:38:59.520 --> 0:39:03.440
<v Speaker 1>And she didn't rebranded the Hill each of the slewti fots.

0:39:03.520 --> 0:39:08.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm crying. She didn't rebranded the Hill into the Motel six.

0:39:09.440 --> 0:39:13.800
<v Speaker 3>Shit man, I take as loud ass events.

0:39:14.600 --> 0:39:17.280
<v Speaker 1>Mm hmm, that's crazy.

0:39:18.920 --> 0:39:21.560
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I wouldn't know. I would be because you know what,

0:39:21.680 --> 0:39:24.560
<v Speaker 3>as a parent, man, you kind of you pride yourself

0:39:24.640 --> 0:39:29.600
<v Speaker 3>for your kids accomplishments. Like you know what I'm saying, Like,

0:39:29.680 --> 0:39:31.799
<v Speaker 3>I remember my mom just always wanted us. She all

0:39:31.880 --> 0:39:34.800
<v Speaker 3>she talked about was walking the stage, walking the stage.

0:39:35.280 --> 0:39:37.600
<v Speaker 3>You better walk that motherfucking stage. That's all I know,

0:39:38.960 --> 0:39:41.360
<v Speaker 3>both of middle school or high school. You know what

0:39:41.400 --> 0:39:46.080
<v Speaker 3>I'm saying, like, you better walk that stage. And I

0:39:46.239 --> 0:39:48.000
<v Speaker 3>was I wasn't even worried about what I'm gonna do

0:39:48.120 --> 0:39:50.520
<v Speaker 3>after school. I'm worried about just walking the stage and

0:39:50.640 --> 0:39:53.239
<v Speaker 3>not embarrassing her more so than anything else.

0:39:53.920 --> 0:39:57.520
<v Speaker 1>With a black community, Man and me and Pete talk

0:39:57.560 --> 0:40:03.680
<v Speaker 1>about this all the time. I'd be telling him it'd

0:40:03.680 --> 0:40:06.640
<v Speaker 1>be all about keeping your kids alive, out of jail

0:40:06.760 --> 0:40:09.680
<v Speaker 1>and get them through high school. There's no thought of

0:40:09.840 --> 0:40:13.320
<v Speaker 1>anything else after that. In the darkest parts of the

0:40:13.360 --> 0:40:20.120
<v Speaker 1>culture and the darkest parts of that existed. And because

0:40:20.200 --> 0:40:22.080
<v Speaker 1>college don't even seem like a real thing, you know

0:40:22.120 --> 0:40:24.040
<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying, They don't even seem like a real thing.

0:40:25.640 --> 0:40:31.359
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I find myself sometimes like, yeah, the college thing

0:40:31.520 --> 0:40:34.759
<v Speaker 3>like Man's I'll be telling my daughter, if you want

0:40:34.800 --> 0:40:36.680
<v Speaker 3>to go, you know, just figure out what it is

0:40:36.760 --> 0:40:40.400
<v Speaker 3>you want to do and do it. I'll be like,

0:40:40.480 --> 0:40:42.360
<v Speaker 3>go for the bread, go for something that you know

0:40:42.480 --> 0:40:45.680
<v Speaker 3>you're probably gonna enjoy. It's gonna pay you. If you're

0:40:45.680 --> 0:40:50.960
<v Speaker 3>gonna go to school, get some money. Well, I think

0:40:51.200 --> 0:40:53.480
<v Speaker 3>I go into business for yourself. Cool. I'm definitely not

0:40:53.600 --> 0:40:58.319
<v Speaker 3>that person acting like entrepreneurship is just what everybody does now,

0:40:58.560 --> 0:40:59.920
<v Speaker 3>you know what I'm saying, Like, you could just do it.

0:41:00.120 --> 0:41:03.839
<v Speaker 3>It's be an entrepreneur. It's like it's that's a lot

0:41:03.920 --> 0:41:08.520
<v Speaker 3>more tougher than what people believe because they looking at scammers.

0:41:09.880 --> 0:41:12.359
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, there's a lot of eb treneurs out there.

0:41:14.640 --> 0:41:15.239
<v Speaker 1>What you say.

0:41:17.920 --> 0:41:20.359
<v Speaker 2>I said, there's a lot of eb treneurs out there.

0:41:21.600 --> 0:41:23.040
<v Speaker 1>They're gonna get your ass.

0:41:25.160 --> 0:41:25.359
<v Speaker 2>Man.

0:41:25.640 --> 0:41:32.839
<v Speaker 6>It is no, it is they scamming selling classes. Yeah,

0:41:33.719 --> 0:41:36.000
<v Speaker 6>this nigga selling the classes. The nigga selling the class

0:41:36.160 --> 0:41:37.759
<v Speaker 6>right now. Probably if you show you how to set

0:41:37.840 --> 0:41:40.279
<v Speaker 6>up a stream yard, is.

0:41:40.320 --> 0:41:42.600
<v Speaker 1>That really robbing anything? Like what college do?

0:41:43.920 --> 0:41:46.040
<v Speaker 3>We ain't saying, Robin, I was just talking about. It's

0:41:46.080 --> 0:41:48.680
<v Speaker 3>just everybody like just talking about as far as my daughter,

0:41:49.760 --> 0:41:52.279
<v Speaker 3>you know, trying to you know, encourage her to go

0:41:52.360 --> 0:41:54.840
<v Speaker 3>to college or even if she want to just figure

0:41:54.840 --> 0:41:57.160
<v Speaker 3>out her own business owner you know, our own business.

0:41:57.239 --> 0:42:01.600
<v Speaker 3>But I don't be preaching entrepreneurship like it's like it's

0:42:01.680 --> 0:42:03.480
<v Speaker 3>just the grandest thing in the world. You know what

0:42:03.520 --> 0:42:04.080
<v Speaker 3>I'm saying, You.

0:42:04.320 --> 0:42:07.680
<v Speaker 1>About to be the kind of person make a choice. Yeah,

0:42:07.760 --> 0:42:08.560
<v Speaker 1>that got to be you th.

0:42:10.200 --> 0:42:14.560
<v Speaker 3>Because there's a boss there's a false narrative about entrepreneurship

0:42:14.640 --> 0:42:17.200
<v Speaker 3>out there because of scammers and he entreneurs.

0:42:17.280 --> 0:42:20.399
<v Speaker 1>You know, but what's crazy is what Peter saying makes sense.

0:42:20.440 --> 0:42:22.520
<v Speaker 1>Like when you were talking about the disappointment, the greatest

0:42:22.520 --> 0:42:25.919
<v Speaker 1>disappointment for his parents was him not taking those last

0:42:25.960 --> 0:42:30.200
<v Speaker 1>little classes getting that degree. It didn't matter where he

0:42:30.360 --> 0:42:32.160
<v Speaker 1>ended up after that. It was like they felt like

0:42:32.280 --> 0:42:32.960
<v Speaker 1>that was for them.

0:42:35.320 --> 0:42:37.520
<v Speaker 2>Nah, No, that I don't know. I think they just

0:42:37.640 --> 0:42:41.239
<v Speaker 2>thought like there was a lot of contexts to that,

0:42:41.560 --> 0:42:46.640
<v Speaker 2>Like I had been a giant disappointment like forever and

0:42:46.840 --> 0:42:50.839
<v Speaker 2>then kind of had a brief window of redemption because

0:42:50.840 --> 0:42:51.319
<v Speaker 2>I like, why.

0:42:51.239 --> 0:42:53.120
<v Speaker 1>The hell did you become up? How was you that? Forever?

0:42:54.800 --> 0:42:59.080
<v Speaker 2>I always was a disappointment, So what you mean, I

0:42:59.160 --> 0:43:03.319
<v Speaker 2>mean I've all always like not even landed with an

0:43:03.360 --> 0:43:05.400
<v Speaker 2>earshot of expectations, you know.

0:43:06.680 --> 0:43:08.799
<v Speaker 3>So the.

0:43:12.480 --> 0:43:15.279
<v Speaker 2>Thing like with that that it was kind of one

0:43:15.280 --> 0:43:17.280
<v Speaker 2>of those deals where I had like a little window

0:43:17.320 --> 0:43:20.360
<v Speaker 2>of like redemption so to speak, after school, because like

0:43:20.920 --> 0:43:23.719
<v Speaker 2>I left college that got hired for like a really

0:43:23.800 --> 0:43:29.200
<v Speaker 2>good job that was probably on paper. I got that

0:43:29.360 --> 0:43:32.480
<v Speaker 2>shit because I clobbered an interview, Like I just like

0:43:32.560 --> 0:43:34.400
<v Speaker 2>went through a series of interviews and just like ripped

0:43:34.400 --> 0:43:36.799
<v Speaker 2>them up, so I got like a slew of job

0:43:36.880 --> 0:43:39.360
<v Speaker 2>offers all at once. It was a strong job market also,

0:43:40.719 --> 0:43:43.360
<v Speaker 2>and I didn't really appreciate that aspect of it. And

0:43:43.440 --> 0:43:45.480
<v Speaker 2>then the position got nixed from the company. I was

0:43:45.560 --> 0:43:48.120
<v Speaker 2>at the other positions that offered me before, those availables

0:43:48.160 --> 0:43:51.600
<v Speaker 2>weren't there anymore. So I went from like having it

0:43:51.719 --> 0:43:54.839
<v Speaker 2>all together to having it not altogether. And I had

0:43:54.920 --> 0:43:59.120
<v Speaker 2>gone online and spent money to enroll online, but I

0:43:59.239 --> 0:44:02.560
<v Speaker 2>was working. I forgot like when schooled even started, Like

0:44:02.640 --> 0:44:05.000
<v Speaker 2>I would figure out like two weeks in next thing,

0:44:05.080 --> 0:44:07.160
<v Speaker 2>you know, it's like, oh, I'm guaranteed a D because

0:44:07.200 --> 0:44:10.000
<v Speaker 2>I missed the whole first fucking everything for this class,

0:44:11.280 --> 0:44:14.680
<v Speaker 2>and I'm just like, I'm just not gonna do this.

0:44:14.760 --> 0:44:17.520
<v Speaker 2>I'm on academic probation now because I enrolled in school,

0:44:17.560 --> 0:44:20.000
<v Speaker 2>paid for it twice, and it just like and forgot

0:44:20.040 --> 0:44:23.120
<v Speaker 2>when school started because I'm like worried about other shit, right,

0:44:23.320 --> 0:44:24.879
<v Speaker 2>So it was kind of one of those things where,

0:44:24.880 --> 0:44:27.480
<v Speaker 2>like you, I was like twenty four and they were

0:44:27.520 --> 0:44:29.160
<v Speaker 2>just like, I think it was one of those deals

0:44:29.160 --> 0:44:30.520
<v Speaker 2>when my my dad just kind of looked at it

0:44:30.640 --> 0:44:34.439
<v Speaker 2>like he just isn't isn't shit, isn't gonna be shit.

0:44:35.520 --> 0:44:39.160
<v Speaker 2>It was more emblematic then they wanted me to have

0:44:39.280 --> 0:44:42.279
<v Speaker 2>a degree. I wonder it was like white people not

0:44:42.400 --> 0:44:45.320
<v Speaker 2>being shit. You're looking at it.

0:44:47.360 --> 0:44:48.439
<v Speaker 1>That's a hell of a hide.

0:44:48.520 --> 0:44:51.640
<v Speaker 2>Not shit, No it's not. You just have a very

0:44:51.760 --> 0:44:53.680
<v Speaker 2>narrow scope on this computer screen.

0:44:57.280 --> 0:44:59.799
<v Speaker 3>Say we gotta follow him around with a camera one day.

0:45:00.719 --> 0:45:03.120
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, if we fish eye lends this thing right here

0:45:03.160 --> 0:45:04.240
<v Speaker 2>at the top of this laptop.

0:45:04.320 --> 0:45:06.600
<v Speaker 1>He's real bad outside of this square.

0:45:06.920 --> 0:45:09.960
<v Speaker 2>And I mean real bad. There's not even walls beyond

0:45:10.040 --> 0:45:11.479
<v Speaker 2>this square. I'm still gonna park.

0:45:15.360 --> 0:45:17.320
<v Speaker 3>That's how Family five got on street. There was so

0:45:17.440 --> 0:45:19.879
<v Speaker 3>much ship all on the couch. I said, nigga, that shit.

0:45:19.920 --> 0:45:20.880
<v Speaker 3>Get a camera right here.

0:45:21.120 --> 0:45:22.359
<v Speaker 1>You got to clean that up.

0:45:23.360 --> 0:45:25.439
<v Speaker 2>Old man, I ain't ship. I'm old, and I ain't

0:45:25.440 --> 0:45:27.320
<v Speaker 2>got ship to show for it. That's truth. I'm not

0:45:27.320 --> 0:45:31.880
<v Speaker 2>gonna lie if you have this show for it. I mean,

0:45:31.960 --> 0:45:33.879
<v Speaker 2>for christ I got turned forty years old this year.

0:45:34.360 --> 0:45:36.480
<v Speaker 2>I mean, like everybody else that I grew up with,

0:45:37.600 --> 0:45:42.200
<v Speaker 2>got a lot, a lot, a lot, a lot, a

0:45:42.280 --> 0:45:49.240
<v Speaker 2>lot a lot, like kids, every financial kids, families, wives, careers, holmes, retirement,

0:45:49.320 --> 0:45:51.640
<v Speaker 2>all this shit. They got a lot, a lot, a lot.

0:45:53.040 --> 0:45:56.560
<v Speaker 2>So it's not even close. It's not even close at all.

0:45:57.400 --> 0:45:59.640
<v Speaker 2>So I don't disagree with them.

0:46:00.680 --> 0:46:02.480
<v Speaker 1>Do you not think that light though? Do you not

0:46:02.600 --> 0:46:04.520
<v Speaker 1>think life is supposed to run your own race?

0:46:06.200 --> 0:46:07.400
<v Speaker 2>Hmmm? Said? What's up?

0:46:09.239 --> 0:46:10.920
<v Speaker 1>And like, do you not think we're supposed to run

0:46:10.960 --> 0:46:12.839
<v Speaker 1>your own race? Yeah?

0:46:12.920 --> 0:46:18.520
<v Speaker 2>You are, but you can run it fucked up, slow

0:46:18.560 --> 0:46:20.839
<v Speaker 2>blow amstring and finished last, or you can win.

0:46:22.239 --> 0:46:23.760
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but you're not really competing.

0:46:24.880 --> 0:46:31.800
<v Speaker 2>Always competing, You're always competing. You're never the market, your expectations,

0:46:32.200 --> 0:46:35.279
<v Speaker 2>every people around you. You're always competing to such, not

0:46:35.480 --> 0:46:37.799
<v Speaker 2>competing is probably not good.

0:46:41.440 --> 0:46:42.160
<v Speaker 1>So you got it all?

0:46:42.239 --> 0:46:42.399
<v Speaker 3>Right.

0:46:45.320 --> 0:46:47.560
<v Speaker 1>Let's take my parents for example. Right, everybody felt that

0:46:47.560 --> 0:46:49.919
<v Speaker 1>I was supposed to go to college, my older sister's family, mother.

0:46:52.200 --> 0:46:53.840
<v Speaker 1>It didn't work out that way, right, I end up

0:46:53.880 --> 0:46:58.279
<v Speaker 1>being this pretty popular drug dealer that was a gang member,

0:46:58.360 --> 0:47:02.800
<v Speaker 1>low ride and blah blah blah. So that was my

0:47:02.920 --> 0:47:06.759
<v Speaker 1>first thing. I would have lost right that that w

0:47:06.840 --> 0:47:12.560
<v Speaker 1>we Raight, I started rapping. Everybody didn't think I was

0:47:12.600 --> 0:47:14.160
<v Speaker 1>gonna be able to pull it off. I still pulled

0:47:14.200 --> 0:47:15.839
<v Speaker 1>it off. Parents didn't even think I was gonna pull

0:47:15.880 --> 0:47:18.359
<v Speaker 1>it off. Yeah, pulled it off.

0:47:19.560 --> 0:47:20.080
<v Speaker 2>Did I win?

0:47:21.040 --> 0:47:24.600
<v Speaker 1>No? Right? Then I started looking at other rapids. Right now,

0:47:24.680 --> 0:47:26.560
<v Speaker 1>mind you when I first get in the game, I'm

0:47:26.600 --> 0:47:29.719
<v Speaker 1>with gang right facing g Ride face put me on

0:47:29.880 --> 0:47:33.800
<v Speaker 1>g ride my brother pulled all these people. Game sells

0:47:33.840 --> 0:47:36.360
<v Speaker 1>half a million records in the first week. Right, I

0:47:36.440 --> 0:47:40.640
<v Speaker 1>barely get a record deal? Did I win? No, I

0:47:40.719 --> 0:47:44.480
<v Speaker 1>get a record deal. Right, I'm signing cash Money records.

0:47:44.600 --> 0:47:46.600
<v Speaker 1>Lil Wayne comes out, sells a million records in the

0:47:46.640 --> 0:47:49.400
<v Speaker 1>first week I put out my first single. It does

0:47:49.480 --> 0:47:53.200
<v Speaker 1>welp for me? Did I win? Like? How do you compete? Like?

0:47:53.320 --> 0:47:57.040
<v Speaker 1>How do I really measure myself up against people that

0:47:57.239 --> 0:48:01.080
<v Speaker 1>don't have the exact experiences like mine? Like the only time,

0:48:02.239 --> 0:48:03.920
<v Speaker 1>like even as a rapper, Right, you know why I

0:48:04.040 --> 0:48:07.120
<v Speaker 1>never felt like I was losing behind Game or behind

0:48:07.200 --> 0:48:11.360
<v Speaker 1>Wayne or behind Kendrick is because I wasn't a rapper.

0:48:11.600 --> 0:48:13.640
<v Speaker 1>Where we started at was completely different.

0:48:15.160 --> 0:48:17.040
<v Speaker 2>Sure, but it's like you're competing against the games on

0:48:17.120 --> 0:48:19.440
<v Speaker 2>your schedule, right, So you're competing it. Like, let's say

0:48:19.440 --> 0:48:22.320
<v Speaker 2>that because it started the genesis of the of the

0:48:22.480 --> 0:48:28.279
<v Speaker 2>diagram was not going to college and doing going from

0:48:28.360 --> 0:48:33.440
<v Speaker 2>hustling to rapping, Right, so you didn't have to surrender

0:48:33.600 --> 0:48:37.319
<v Speaker 2>like twenty years time. So that's a when you made

0:48:37.400 --> 0:48:40.600
<v Speaker 2>more money in the interim. That's a win. You exceeded

0:48:41.239 --> 0:48:44.640
<v Speaker 2>media and income for that path in rapping and hustling,

0:48:44.719 --> 0:48:46.920
<v Speaker 2>so that's the win. So compared to that starting point

0:48:47.000 --> 0:48:48.920
<v Speaker 2>for week one of the schedule, you went.

0:48:49.760 --> 0:48:52.040
<v Speaker 1>But if you had an older sisters, they felt I

0:48:52.239 --> 0:49:01.319
<v Speaker 1>lost because I was hustling, But you didn't lose it hustling. Yeah,

0:49:01.400 --> 0:49:03.080
<v Speaker 1>but hustling was the gass.

0:49:03.680 --> 0:49:06.560
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, the fact that you just choose to do something illegal.

0:49:07.840 --> 0:49:11.560
<v Speaker 2>But again, it's like you're down in the second quarter,

0:49:11.719 --> 0:49:13.640
<v Speaker 2>but you're up out of fourth quarter because by the

0:49:13.719 --> 0:49:16.560
<v Speaker 2>time you get your path manifested, now you're ahead of

0:49:16.600 --> 0:49:20.120
<v Speaker 2>where you you have money and security, ahead of where

0:49:20.160 --> 0:49:22.120
<v Speaker 2>you otherwise would have had had you done that path.

0:49:22.239 --> 0:49:27.160
<v Speaker 1>So that's a win. But that's what I'm seeing. That's

0:49:27.160 --> 0:49:31.319
<v Speaker 1>why I feel like even though the the expectations are

0:49:31.400 --> 0:49:34.880
<v Speaker 1>peers put on us cannot be real, right paroding like

0:49:35.000 --> 0:49:38.239
<v Speaker 1>because they don't till them who we are.

0:49:41.080 --> 0:49:45.759
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's that's true. But yeah, but I think they're

0:49:45.800 --> 0:49:48.360
<v Speaker 2>trying to. I think their expectation is for is just

0:49:48.480 --> 0:49:52.839
<v Speaker 2>for kind of a blanket standard typically, so you either

0:49:53.560 --> 0:49:59.640
<v Speaker 2>exceed meat or fall short of that kind of blanket standard.

0:49:59.680 --> 0:50:01.799
<v Speaker 2>It is kind about pay some some parents are really

0:50:01.920 --> 0:50:07.680
<v Speaker 2>like myself has to be specifically a doctor or specifically

0:50:07.960 --> 0:50:10.800
<v Speaker 2>a lawyer. Sometimes it's very narrow. I think by a

0:50:10.960 --> 0:50:16.000
<v Speaker 2>large it's just a certain a standard. You know, you

0:50:16.160 --> 0:50:17.080
<v Speaker 2>either there or you're not.

0:50:18.200 --> 0:50:20.000
<v Speaker 1>What did you think your parents? What would you think

0:50:20.040 --> 0:50:21.480
<v Speaker 1>your parents would have been happy if you did? What

0:50:21.600 --> 0:50:22.160
<v Speaker 1>exactly had?

0:50:22.200 --> 0:50:27.040
<v Speaker 2>What kind of career, kind of anything, just like anything

0:50:27.120 --> 0:50:30.160
<v Speaker 2>that was buildable and anything that was a stable, secure career,

0:50:30.280 --> 0:50:33.040
<v Speaker 2>that was buildable, that was growth trajectory oriented, and that

0:50:33.200 --> 0:50:38.359
<v Speaker 2>was security oriented. So they were happy, like our first

0:50:38.440 --> 0:50:40.840
<v Speaker 2>year at a school, were very happy with that. But

0:50:40.920 --> 0:50:43.239
<v Speaker 2>I never was able to recreate that opportunity. I mean,

0:50:43.320 --> 0:50:48.960
<v Speaker 2>like God, let go in a downward slump of the

0:50:49.160 --> 0:50:51.840
<v Speaker 2>like a downward slump of the entire economy. Two thousand

0:50:51.840 --> 0:50:54.280
<v Speaker 2>and eight was not a great year to find yourself

0:50:54.440 --> 0:50:55.640
<v Speaker 2>being newly unemployed.

0:50:57.360 --> 0:51:01.920
<v Speaker 3>All right, from the look at my life right now,

0:51:02.080 --> 0:51:05.520
<v Speaker 3>she she she will be proud. She is proud of me.

0:51:05.680 --> 0:51:08.279
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, your mom probably look at joe what's crazy is Joey?

0:51:08.400 --> 0:51:12.800
<v Speaker 1>How hard you are on yourself? All parents are hella

0:51:12.960 --> 0:51:15.560
<v Speaker 1>proud because they're like, man, my boy graduate high school,

0:51:15.560 --> 0:51:17.160
<v Speaker 1>he take care of his kid, He got a job

0:51:17.200 --> 0:51:20.520
<v Speaker 1>that got security, this, that and the third. But Joe, yeah, I.

0:51:20.640 --> 0:51:22.439
<v Speaker 3>Paid, especially my mama. You can't.

0:51:23.880 --> 0:51:26.080
<v Speaker 1>You know, it's right to a degree, right. But the

0:51:26.160 --> 0:51:28.680
<v Speaker 1>only it's like I tell you, like I tell still

0:51:28.719 --> 0:51:31.520
<v Speaker 1>all the time, y'all. Problem is gonna be your intellect

0:51:31.640 --> 0:51:34.160
<v Speaker 1>is a little too vast for you, Like you try

0:51:34.239 --> 0:51:37.360
<v Speaker 1>to take a sheep opportunity when you're a shepherd or what.

0:51:40.160 --> 0:51:43.600
<v Speaker 1>And that's Peter's problem. Peter is not a fucking sheep,

0:51:44.360 --> 0:51:47.080
<v Speaker 1>Like the life he even compared would never work is

0:51:47.480 --> 0:51:49.200
<v Speaker 1>And I'm not saying some of his friends he grew

0:51:49.320 --> 0:51:52.160
<v Speaker 1>up with are not smart or not even educated. But

0:51:52.360 --> 0:51:56.520
<v Speaker 1>Pete is an intellectual, so his idea of creating is vast.

0:51:57.520 --> 0:52:01.520
<v Speaker 1>His ability to listen is bad. To take in information

0:52:01.680 --> 0:52:04.040
<v Speaker 1>and make it work and be his it's that your

0:52:04.200 --> 0:52:07.239
<v Speaker 1>motherfucker man, Like we talk about your job, motherfucker be

0:52:07.280 --> 0:52:09.520
<v Speaker 1>at your job. Motherfuckers be that's the greatest thing in

0:52:09.560 --> 0:52:11.680
<v Speaker 1>the world to them. You sit around this mother fucker like, man,

0:52:12.480 --> 0:52:13.920
<v Speaker 1>I was supposed to be doing so much more with

0:52:14.080 --> 0:52:14.480
<v Speaker 1>my life.

0:52:16.320 --> 0:52:19.000
<v Speaker 2>I felt that way. One day. Yeah, I'll be going

0:52:19.040 --> 0:52:22.000
<v Speaker 2>through that, But like I didn't have a thought in

0:52:22.080 --> 0:52:24.680
<v Speaker 2>my head till I was probably thirty dead as.

0:52:24.680 --> 0:52:29.359
<v Speaker 1>Serious, I'm sure, yeah, fucking bitch, I didn't.

0:52:29.360 --> 0:52:31.080
<v Speaker 2>That didn't cross my mind till I was probably twenty.

0:52:32.560 --> 0:52:33.279
<v Speaker 2>I don't fuck it.

0:52:33.320 --> 0:52:36.239
<v Speaker 1>I don't know what this time pass you by.

0:52:36.320 --> 0:52:37.279
<v Speaker 2>I don't know what the fuck, but.

0:52:39.160 --> 0:52:40.640
<v Speaker 1>You all remember what you was thinking about?

0:52:42.520 --> 0:52:46.560
<v Speaker 2>Different? Everything was a different. My brain was was like

0:52:46.680 --> 0:52:49.200
<v Speaker 2>the White House. Every few years, there was somebody.

0:52:48.960 --> 0:52:52.120
<v Speaker 1>Else in it. So you don't know who you was.

0:52:53.760 --> 0:52:56.400
<v Speaker 2>I know who I was. I didn't know what the

0:52:56.440 --> 0:52:58.520
<v Speaker 2>fuck I wanted to do what I was interested in

0:52:59.120 --> 0:53:01.440
<v Speaker 2>even to this day, like people like, if I meet

0:53:01.520 --> 0:53:05.120
<v Speaker 2>some woman, she is, what do you like to do? Nothing?

0:53:05.280 --> 0:53:07.560
<v Speaker 2>I don't know. You don't know what you like to do?

0:53:08.880 --> 0:53:09.280
<v Speaker 1>Comedy.

0:53:10.239 --> 0:53:12.520
<v Speaker 2>I don't like to do comedy. I hate doing comedy.

0:53:12.560 --> 0:53:14.200
<v Speaker 2>That's why I don't do it, because I hate it.

0:53:15.040 --> 0:53:16.400
<v Speaker 2>I hate doing comedy.

0:53:17.000 --> 0:53:19.080
<v Speaker 1>Wow, I know that it's crazy.

0:53:19.480 --> 0:53:23.480
<v Speaker 2>I hate that going to the comedy clubs. Christ, that's

0:53:23.480 --> 0:53:25.879
<v Speaker 2>why I stopped going. I hate I hate that shit

0:53:25.960 --> 0:53:27.200
<v Speaker 2>more than I hate a lot of things.

0:53:27.520 --> 0:53:29.960
<v Speaker 3>Wait, so you hate doing comedy or you hate what

0:53:30.520 --> 0:53:31.600
<v Speaker 3>the things you gotta.

0:53:31.400 --> 0:53:34.719
<v Speaker 2>Do for all of it, all of it.

0:53:34.880 --> 0:53:38.440
<v Speaker 3>That's why I about this business that I don't like,

0:53:39.120 --> 0:53:42.480
<v Speaker 3>but I still enjoy doing it. I hate all of it.

0:53:42.800 --> 0:53:44.400
<v Speaker 2>That's why the only way I ever wanted to do

0:53:44.480 --> 0:53:47.720
<v Speaker 2>it was one very particular way. I need to write

0:53:47.760 --> 0:53:52.080
<v Speaker 2>out an ace out of a special film it and

0:53:52.239 --> 0:53:54.520
<v Speaker 2>sell the content and be done. I don't want to

0:53:54.600 --> 0:53:56.800
<v Speaker 2>go perform it. I don't want to go to the

0:53:56.920 --> 0:53:58.440
<v Speaker 2>clubs and test. I don't want to do any of

0:53:58.480 --> 0:54:03.200
<v Speaker 2>that shit you like doing. No, I don't know what

0:54:03.280 --> 0:54:06.400
<v Speaker 2>I like doing just socially. There's nothing that I enjoy

0:54:06.600 --> 0:54:07.560
<v Speaker 2>doing in life.

0:54:08.760 --> 0:54:10.759
<v Speaker 3>How often you hit the bar and be chilling like

0:54:11.000 --> 0:54:11.840
<v Speaker 3>I know you already said that.

0:54:11.920 --> 0:54:15.319
<v Speaker 2>I was at these barble not often, not off number

0:54:15.880 --> 0:54:17.520
<v Speaker 2>last like seven eight years, very rare.

0:54:18.239 --> 0:54:20.320
<v Speaker 3>So you you would you be considered an introvert?

0:54:21.400 --> 0:54:23.120
<v Speaker 2>I am now. I didn't used to be, but I

0:54:23.200 --> 0:54:23.640
<v Speaker 2>am now.

0:54:25.719 --> 0:54:29.880
<v Speaker 1>What the fuck what? You don't know what you like?

0:54:31.160 --> 0:54:33.640
<v Speaker 3>No, you know a lot of shit too, that's what

0:54:34.080 --> 0:54:36.399
<v Speaker 3>you got something that makes so much ship.

0:54:37.080 --> 0:54:39.360
<v Speaker 1>Were fucking women for that fucking a field day with

0:54:39.440 --> 0:54:43.080
<v Speaker 1>your motherfucking ass right there? Like you motherfuck? I hope

0:54:43.080 --> 0:54:45.239
<v Speaker 1>they be like, see that's what's roll and peak. He

0:54:45.400 --> 0:54:46.960
<v Speaker 1>always asked me what happened to pee?

0:54:47.000 --> 0:54:50.279
<v Speaker 2>Who the only the like I went from. I think

0:54:50.320 --> 0:54:52.879
<v Speaker 2>when I was younger, you kind of have like your

0:54:52.960 --> 0:54:59.920
<v Speaker 2>pursuing happiness, you know, I went, I had a paradigm

0:55:00.080 --> 0:55:03.239
<v Speaker 2>shift probably six years ago, seven maybe maybe not even

0:55:03.280 --> 0:55:04.840
<v Speaker 2>that long ago. A few years ago. I had a

0:55:04.880 --> 0:55:07.600
<v Speaker 2>paradigm shift five or six years ago. I'm just it's

0:55:07.719 --> 0:55:10.360
<v Speaker 2>it's just miter misery, mitigation. At this point, all I

0:55:10.400 --> 0:55:12.160
<v Speaker 2>want to do is go sit out on that balcony,

0:55:12.239 --> 0:55:14.200
<v Speaker 2>smoke a cigar and just not think about it. For

0:55:14.280 --> 0:55:16.319
<v Speaker 2>it now, it's all I want to think about other things.

0:55:16.360 --> 0:55:17.480
<v Speaker 2>I want to read it. I want to read an

0:55:17.560 --> 0:55:21.480
<v Speaker 2>article about technology or markets. Well, I smoke a cigar

0:55:21.760 --> 0:55:24.960
<v Speaker 2>for about ninety minutes, So that's all. That's not what

0:55:25.080 --> 0:55:31.279
<v Speaker 2>I like. It's what I it's what I dislike. Least man, Wait, the.

0:55:31.800 --> 0:55:35.800
<v Speaker 3>Pet I ain't even acknowledge it, you know, as it's crazy,

0:55:37.120 --> 0:55:39.600
<v Speaker 3>So you just tru you got to write that special man.

0:55:39.920 --> 0:55:42.399
<v Speaker 3>All this is if this right here we're talking about

0:55:43.120 --> 0:55:45.439
<v Speaker 3>all this is good for the special dog.

0:55:45.560 --> 0:55:49.160
<v Speaker 2>So you know, I'm putting junk bond junk bond pussy

0:55:49.239 --> 0:55:51.360
<v Speaker 2>from last week that's going in if I if I

0:55:51.440 --> 0:55:53.120
<v Speaker 2>ever do anything, junk bond pussies in.

0:55:53.960 --> 0:55:57.040
<v Speaker 1>Bill Bird is like your You're like Elder Twin.

0:55:59.160 --> 0:56:04.000
<v Speaker 3>Could hut and Bill Burden and made it to my

0:56:04.160 --> 0:56:04.680
<v Speaker 3>top five.

0:56:05.760 --> 0:56:10.759
<v Speaker 2>Really, Bill Burr's a happier man than me. Bill Burr

0:56:10.800 --> 0:56:12.200
<v Speaker 2>is a comedian. He's a happier guy than me.

0:56:12.280 --> 0:56:13.719
<v Speaker 1>I don't know what Bill Burr is happy than you.

0:56:14.480 --> 0:56:17.520
<v Speaker 2>You know how I knew because Bill Burr sat down

0:56:17.640 --> 0:56:20.680
<v Speaker 2>opposite Jerry Seinfeld on Comedians and Cars getting coffee and

0:56:20.719 --> 0:56:24.279
<v Speaker 2>look Jerry dead in the eye and he goes, you're

0:56:24.320 --> 0:56:28.400
<v Speaker 2>a real you are an angry man to Jerry Slidefeld

0:56:28.400 --> 0:56:30.680
<v Speaker 2>said you you're he's a You're you do comedy a

0:56:30.800 --> 0:56:34.520
<v Speaker 2>lot angrier than me, and like you could just kind

0:56:34.520 --> 0:56:39.919
<v Speaker 2>of tell Bill Rance, but he's a happy guy. He rants,

0:56:39.960 --> 0:56:40.839
<v Speaker 2>but he's a happy guy.

0:56:42.200 --> 0:56:47.840
<v Speaker 1>So he's in character. Mhm, it's a caricature. He's a

0:56:47.960 --> 0:56:49.080
<v Speaker 1>caricature of Pete.

0:56:50.280 --> 0:56:54.840
<v Speaker 2>No, he's a caricature of his dad. Be honest. I

0:56:54.840 --> 0:56:56.560
<v Speaker 2>mean you look at that TV show he did the cartoon.

0:56:59.000 --> 0:57:01.800
<v Speaker 1>You need to just have uh fucking ship where you

0:57:01.960 --> 0:57:03.400
<v Speaker 1>just talk about shit. You don't like.

0:57:04.920 --> 0:57:05.560
<v Speaker 2>That's all I do.

0:57:07.320 --> 0:57:08.040
<v Speaker 1>The kid Pete.

0:57:09.960 --> 0:57:12.680
<v Speaker 2>That would be god man, if if I had a kid.

0:57:12.680 --> 0:57:14.080
<v Speaker 2>You know what happened. You know what I would do

0:57:14.239 --> 0:57:17.360
<v Speaker 2>every day? I would call that fucking department at the

0:57:17.400 --> 0:57:22.360
<v Speaker 2>county and tell them to take this kid away. If

0:57:22.400 --> 0:57:24.240
<v Speaker 2>I had a kid, I'd be calling what's a child

0:57:24.280 --> 0:57:27.960
<v Speaker 2>Protective Services? On myself three four times a day. They

0:57:28.120 --> 0:57:28.920
<v Speaker 2>blocked my number.

0:57:29.240 --> 0:57:31.280
<v Speaker 1>How did you get to this space, bro to where

0:57:31.320 --> 0:57:35.920
<v Speaker 1>you're just so unhappy with existing? That's years of practice

0:57:36.520 --> 0:57:38.520
<v Speaker 1>or hurt yourself and nothing?

0:57:39.360 --> 0:57:39.560
<v Speaker 2>Huh?

0:57:39.920 --> 0:57:44.400
<v Speaker 1>You ain't that saying I don't like everybody driving home?

0:57:45.360 --> 0:57:47.200
<v Speaker 1>I'll tell you that's not you don't like yourself. You

0:57:47.320 --> 0:57:48.520
<v Speaker 1>just don't like everything else.

0:57:49.520 --> 0:57:50.040
<v Speaker 2>Ask both.

0:57:50.960 --> 0:57:56.520
<v Speaker 1>But I mean I don't like you don't dislike yourself

0:57:56.600 --> 0:57:57.480
<v Speaker 1>enough to hurt yourself.

0:57:59.160 --> 0:58:03.800
<v Speaker 2>I can't afford it, God damn it. See there's the thing.

0:58:04.000 --> 0:58:06.240
<v Speaker 2>I got really bad luck, right, like you acknowledge like

0:58:06.280 --> 0:58:08.000
<v Speaker 2>I Got'm notoriously unlucky.

0:58:08.120 --> 0:58:08.240
<v Speaker 1>Right.

0:58:09.760 --> 0:58:12.200
<v Speaker 2>Here's why I can't hurt myself because I fuck up

0:58:12.240 --> 0:58:14.280
<v Speaker 2>too much shit. If I tried to hurt myself, I

0:58:14.280 --> 0:58:18.000
<v Speaker 2>would you know what I would end up hurt? I didn't.

0:58:18.520 --> 0:58:22.520
<v Speaker 2>I would just be like long term injured. I'd be

0:58:22.600 --> 0:58:26.680
<v Speaker 2>like what now, let's look, I'd be like, well, now

0:58:26.720 --> 0:58:29.120
<v Speaker 2>I can't even get my ass out there, smoke my cigar.

0:58:29.240 --> 0:58:30.200
<v Speaker 2>It was stuck over there.

0:58:30.560 --> 0:58:32.880
<v Speaker 1>We get a wheelchair at the patio door with a.

0:58:33.560 --> 0:58:35.680
<v Speaker 2>I'd have half my face missing and I'd be sitting

0:58:35.720 --> 0:58:39.640
<v Speaker 2>there just like for the next forty years, with better medication,

0:58:39.840 --> 0:58:44.920
<v Speaker 2>probably fifty years, just be like, what the fuck, Yeah.

0:58:44.720 --> 0:58:46.800
<v Speaker 1>We gotta get you. You need a Therapist's cool?

0:58:47.800 --> 0:58:50.720
<v Speaker 2>No, Remember remember those two girls who did the podcast

0:58:51.240 --> 0:58:53.480
<v Speaker 2>and then they yeah, and they had the therapist come

0:58:53.520 --> 0:58:56.160
<v Speaker 2>on like a few episodes and they can try to

0:58:56.280 --> 0:58:58.480
<v Speaker 2>like get the therapist on me and all me and

0:58:58.520 --> 0:59:00.160
<v Speaker 2>all me and on me, and the therapist was like, no,

0:59:00.320 --> 0:59:02.480
<v Speaker 2>this guy, hate him, need no therapy. You knows exactly

0:59:02.600 --> 0:59:05.440
<v Speaker 2>who he is, exactly what's around him. That's just how

0:59:05.480 --> 0:59:11.360
<v Speaker 2>the fuck he feels. She conceded it pretty quickly, crying.

0:59:12.320 --> 0:59:15.320
<v Speaker 2>She was like, there's no asymmetry, there's no disconnect here

0:59:15.480 --> 0:59:18.840
<v Speaker 2>that could be fixed with therapy. It's just what it is.

0:59:19.120 --> 0:59:21.120
<v Speaker 2>And I was like, thank you. It was very vindicating.

0:59:21.120 --> 0:59:22.280
<v Speaker 2>I enjoyed it very much.

0:59:23.440 --> 0:59:24.520
<v Speaker 1>We had her mad.

0:59:25.520 --> 0:59:25.960
<v Speaker 2>You like it?

0:59:26.080 --> 0:59:26.520
<v Speaker 3>You liked it.

0:59:28.600 --> 0:59:30.320
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, but you might just I don't know,

0:59:30.560 --> 0:59:34.280
<v Speaker 1>you know what, I'll preak I'll break for the math

0:59:34.360 --> 0:59:37.280
<v Speaker 1>that's your ass, is crazy your ass.

0:59:37.400 --> 0:59:38.400
<v Speaker 2>It's called worse.

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<v Speaker 1>Good Looking out for tuning into the note Seller's podcast,

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<v Speaker 1>Please do us a favorite, subscribe, rate, comment, and share.

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<v Speaker 1>This episode was recorded right here on the West coast

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<v Speaker 1>of the USA and produced by my homeboy A King,

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<v Speaker 1>for the Black Effect Podcast Network and now Hard Radio. Yeah.