Speaker 1: A lot of the time when dudes be growing up
Speaker 1: to be fuck niggas and they be playing over women
Speaker 1: and fucking over them, it be having a.
Speaker 2: Lot to do with they mama flucky. Yes, like it
Speaker 2: be having.
Speaker 3: A lot to do it.
Speaker 1: Be having a lot to do with they damn mamas
Speaker 1: because they mama's enabled to behavior and made them feel like, oh,
Speaker 1: you could do no wrong. You my biggest gifts, my
Speaker 1: biggest blessing.
Speaker 3: So I'm just.
Speaker 1: Gonna go along with whatever you want and whatever you do,
Speaker 1: because I don't wanna lose our relationship, or like Lyck said,
Speaker 1: sometimes they be depending on their son for like that
Speaker 1: male camaraderie, that male relationship that they never had.
Speaker 3: So they just being a don't let them have money.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and don't let it end up being their son
Speaker 1: end up being successful, because then they really be going
Speaker 1: along with his bullshit because he be taking care of them.
Speaker 1: And so I think a lot of the time it
Speaker 1: be a lot of guys moms fought that they be
Speaker 1: on bullshit because they don't have no accountability. The mamas
Speaker 1: don't have no accountability, So now your son don't have
Speaker 1: no accountability, and he think a lot of shit is
Speaker 1: okay because you be letting him feel like it's okay.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's like you say, bitch you as a woman,
Speaker 2: first home because doing the same ship hell, and you
Speaker 2: be ready to confront. Don't buy some ship. No, it's
Speaker 2: the same thing if you feel that way when you
Speaker 2: feel about him. Hey, yup, you feel how you feel?
Speaker 3: What's up, y'all is your girl lex.
Speaker 4: P and it's your girls raising a cold and you
Speaker 4: are tuned in to another episode of poor.
Speaker 3: Minds, whereas drunk mind speaks sober.
Speaker 4: But we gotta guess today, we gotta guess saurday.
Speaker 3: Now.
Speaker 4: Listen, y'all have been blowing up our comments asking for
Speaker 4: this person to come and sit on the count. Yes,
Speaker 4: so we have the one and only the actress, her.
Speaker 5: The skipped queen, and the girl.
Speaker 3: Got some vocals on her to should be giving me
Speaker 3: a run for my mother.
Speaker 2: We got the one, the only, Barbieham's finest be letting
Speaker 2: it about. We got fire francess in the buildings today.
Speaker 2: She gonna be mad.
Speaker 3: I can't forget our girl, shak.
Speaker 5: Be laying what's up my girl?
Speaker 3: Y'all. I'm so happy to be on this count. I
Speaker 3: am too. I'm a fisher yay, like.
Speaker 4: Dang, I feel like ever since like me and you
Speaker 4: have been hanging out, people been like, why you don't
Speaker 4: have bee leaning on the shower?
Speaker 3: Why you don't be I'm like, just wait, just get
Speaker 3: me sticking. It's coming.
Speaker 2: I had to practice before I got on to this girl.
Speaker 3: J just everything. I don't know because I was the nervous god.
Speaker 3: Y'all is y'all.
Speaker 2: Don't come around in the kind of way.
Speaker 4: Okay, So first of all, how are you today? How
Speaker 4: you doing? I'm excited you are?
Speaker 3: Okay, you look good? All black moment I made all proud.
Speaker 1: And a hoigh bun Okay. I do love a hog bun.
Speaker 3: Okay. I want wore a hobbun for like a good year.
Speaker 3: Do you remember when we talked you did and that
Speaker 3: bunt because dry hair is long. That bun it was given.
Speaker 2: It was definitely tall.
Speaker 3: Okay in the moment it was cute, but looking back
Speaker 3: on it was like, why that bit so tall? What
Speaker 3: was you doing? My mouth? You gotta make sure that
Speaker 3: should be right. Yeah.
Speaker 2: I had to redo my ship a few times because
Speaker 2: it was so thin, and it's probably because I had
Speaker 2: just got the silk press. So you know si press,
Speaker 2: it'd be like real thing.
Speaker 3: You know she got that other time in the two. Yeah,
Speaker 3: and that's where a thing comes. Like, So what's that?
Speaker 4: That's that's on your mom's side, of your dad's side,
Speaker 4: my dad, your dad's side, you know that mother kind.
Speaker 3: They be having them slick ages. They were having them
Speaker 3: slick edges. See. I had to stop wearing it.
Speaker 1: But I remember because I had to cut my hair
Speaker 1: in a bob because nobody talk about how if you
Speaker 1: wear your hair in the button for a long time,
Speaker 1: it'll start breaking. And it is short in that, like
Speaker 1: the middle part be short. And then I had to
Speaker 1: That's why I had to cut my hair.
Speaker 2: And I had to cut my hair a few times
Speaker 2: and start old, because that's all I do is my hair.
Speaker 2: Like people like my hand long hair. I wear like these.
Speaker 2: It's like, no, you're gonna pull that ship.
Speaker 3: You are, like, my hair can reach goddamn bun.
Speaker 6: You don't.
Speaker 4: I'll talking about something that I do not know nothing
Speaker 4: about it asleep, Rice real slick like you know what
Speaker 4: I'm saying.
Speaker 1: Next to me lying because her hair Consistinitly, you got.
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, So we're gonna start from the beginning.
Speaker 4: Okay, we gonna take it back and ask you a
Speaker 4: few questions about, like, you know, were you always funny
Speaker 4: growing up, Like were you like the class clown or
Speaker 4: were you kind of just like a person that just
Speaker 4: came into doing skits and doing stuff like this.
Speaker 3: I was a class clown. Yeah.
Speaker 2: I definitely got in trouble a whole lot just from
Speaker 2: doing shit like talking too much, being a fucking class
Speaker 2: So yes, and that's how I can tell you, cause
Speaker 2: I don't.
Speaker 3: Remember too much and ship so I used to put
Speaker 3: your your disk o way. Yes a few times.
Speaker 2: Man, I was not there a lot, but I was
Speaker 2: out there. Yeah, I definitely was out there.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I was out there a few times. So I
Speaker 3: remember you probably had a dirty mouth though, No, not
Speaker 3: like cussing people.
Speaker 1: Smart the key Yeah, No, I wasn't cussing that now
Speaker 1: because my mama didn't play this. She like, I was
Speaker 1: scared of my mama. But I definitely had a smart mouth.
Speaker 1: So I used to always end up in the teacher
Speaker 1: for like talking back to the teacher, but not cussing.
Speaker 2: Okay, like I said, and she yeah, like I used to.
Speaker 1: Be in isis like I did for my phone and
Speaker 1: stuff too, especially once I got a phone in school.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I was definitely for sure cussing the teachers all.
Speaker 4: No, like I was just cussing general because you know,
Speaker 4: I hung around the other kind the other cond So
Speaker 4: you better fucking watch it.
Speaker 2: Pal, that's normal to them.
Speaker 3: Hey, you better, I will make you ship bricks. Brother.
Speaker 3: You used to say that. Yeah, I used to be reading.
Speaker 3: I was eating I was yeah, I was eating down.
Speaker 2: I'm white school too, and that ship was yeah like
Speaker 2: when you.
Speaker 3: Said ship like that. Yeah, business, you know what died
Speaker 3: and made you the fucking ball?
Speaker 2: Yeah, you you know a little something? Oh for fucking pizza?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Who is p You are on ice, buddy?
Speaker 2: Yeah, you had to give it to get into the
Speaker 2: white slang. When I was in high school, though, I
Speaker 2: hog around the white people. I just didn't get into it.
Speaker 3: You didn't like it. I liked it for them, but
Speaker 3: I tried.
Speaker 2: It for like a week or so.
Speaker 3: It just didn't stick. Yeah, Yeah, it stuck with me.
Speaker 2: I had to get back to cussing the black way.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a big difference between like cussing. I remember
Speaker 3: when people cussed like no other race. Yeah, it's a
Speaker 3: little different.
Speaker 4: I remember when my dance teacher was cussing me and
Speaker 4: my best friend Lindsey.
Speaker 3: I'll shout out to Lindsay. We were sitting on the
Speaker 3: balcony like doing something. We ain't had no bites.
Speaker 2: She's like, get your little ship asses right now.
Speaker 3: I said, what is a ship ass shipping my ass? Bitch.
Speaker 3: That's when I started getting on my black side. Yeah,
Speaker 3: I said, ho, bitch, fuck fuck what you're talking about?
Speaker 3: Whole nigga? A nigga was a little crazy, you know
Speaker 3: what I'm saying. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: Shit ass did kind of eat ship, but she eats
Speaker 2: it a different way.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it don't make those things, but that's almost kind
Speaker 1: of why it's so good.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it does make sense that ship so crazy. But
Speaker 4: she was low key calling us dirty a ship ass.
Speaker 4: If you got shitting you ass, you're dirty bad, you.
Speaker 3: Know what I'm saying. So she was she kind of
Speaker 3: ate that down rest in piece to Miss Laura. That's
Speaker 3: a true story. I ain't lie that time. Okay, So
Speaker 3: we're gonna fast forward to.
Speaker 4: The skits, like when did you decide like, okay, maybe
Speaker 4: I can do this like for real, Like who was
Speaker 4: your inspiration to make you like, Okay, I want to
Speaker 4: pick up the video camera and do a skit myself.
Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, I didn't have a fucking job, and I
Speaker 2: think I used to be on Snapchat and I used
Speaker 2: to just do shit. I think I was working like
Speaker 2: at a tax office at the time, and I think
Speaker 2: my very first mistakenly skit was a ghost had stole
Speaker 2: my text money. So it was like a little Sayan's
Speaker 2: like a whole bunch of boys shit. And I post
Speaker 2: that shit on Snapchat and one of my cousins was.
Speaker 3: Like, oh, you need to put that shit on Facebook, and.
Speaker 2: I put on and then I just got to just
Speaker 2: took it from now. But I still didn't know like
Speaker 2: the seriousness with it and who it was, just like
Speaker 2: me just being me. I ain't know the formula the shit, Yeah,
Speaker 2: just doing stuff.
Speaker 3: So I just took it from there.
Speaker 2: And then you know, the most, the most time that
Speaker 2: you do it, the most that you do it, like
Speaker 2: that shit just starts forming on his own. Yeah, So
Speaker 2: it just went from there. It was just like, oh, shit,
Speaker 2: like because I ain't know nothing about that ship. I
Speaker 2: wasn't on the what was it was it?
Speaker 3: Vine Vine?
Speaker 2: I wasn't on Vine days and ship like that. Like
Speaker 2: so I ain't even know nothing too tough about a
Speaker 2: lot of skits and ship like that.
Speaker 3: So it was just like, okay, man, you couldn't tell
Speaker 3: me I wasn't gonna be a Vine star you used
Speaker 3: to be on what I just knew I was finning.
Speaker 3: I said, I'm finna take this six seconds ago straight
Speaker 3: to Hollywood. Three. Yeah, I'm o Vine.
Speaker 5: God that ship was.
Speaker 4: I'm so glad Vine got the leader because if people
Speaker 4: found that, they'll be like, Lex, what the fuck?
Speaker 1: Se I just used to be lurking like I never
Speaker 1: really used to post. I just used to be looking
Speaker 1: at other people's club. No, I was awful, But yeah,
Speaker 1: but Vine, it was only six sick because I feel
Speaker 1: like you could only do so much.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what that true talent come in for real
Speaker 2: and make that bit stick?
Speaker 3: Right, wasn't stick?
Speaker 1: When you speaking of steak, when did you know that
Speaker 1: you was on to something? Like? When was you like, okay,
Speaker 1: I should keep doing these Like with Sky they stick
Speaker 1: out of your mind. That kind of was the one
Speaker 1: that popped off and you was like, Okay, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: keep doing these.
Speaker 3: I think.
Speaker 2: It was like these skits that I was doing. I
Speaker 2: used to play this hood dude character and because me,
Speaker 2: I'm kind of like a in my head, I think
Speaker 2: I'm a hood nigga, like I think I'm a hood nigga.
Speaker 2: So I started doing like these hood niggas skits because
Speaker 2: I used to just talk like a hood nigga all
Speaker 2: the time, like I'd be with my homeboys. And I
Speaker 2: just changed my whole little to me and ship, and
Speaker 2: I started doing that ship and it was just like
Speaker 2: folks was s fucking with that ship. Like but I
Speaker 2: was like that fake hood nigga, like the ones that
Speaker 2: go to the store to get the snacks or backwoods
Speaker 2: and ship for the drawer deal little like the little niggles. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 2: I was like one of them. So once I seen
Speaker 2: that ship, like because all the real niggas was sucking
Speaker 2: with that ship because they're like, man, I know lame as, Like.
Speaker 3: No lame nigga.
Speaker 5: She was the worf.
Speaker 3: I was.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I was danging a roundings and I ain't even
Speaker 2: playing with the with the real money and.
Speaker 3: Ship the drawer. I ain't knowing though, but I just.
Speaker 2: Took that ship incorporated and and that ship kind of
Speaker 2: started going. It was like okay, you can do it,
Speaker 2: like yeah.
Speaker 4: And I want to talk about the aunt character because
Speaker 4: that is my I think that's my favorite one that
Speaker 4: you do, because I feel like everybody has an aunt
Speaker 4: like that to just be in your business going right,
Speaker 4: this shit always be somewhere this fun.
Speaker 3: But she loved you, don't Yeah, so how did you
Speaker 3: come out with that character?
Speaker 2: Lou keep me up one day and was like, let's
Speaker 2: do an uncle in a Hunty character and we go
Speaker 2: to the game.
Speaker 3: I'm like, okay.
Speaker 2: So he gave me the dynamics of it, like okay,
Speaker 2: the Uncle Hunty that's together for a long time. But
Speaker 2: in my head, I'm like, okay, what do the fuck
Speaker 2: what do that look like like? Because whatever I got
Speaker 2: an Aunty. So I went to her page and she
Speaker 2: got like that same little.
Speaker 5: What is it?
Speaker 2: The little twenty seven with the little the little way
Speaker 2: with the gold tooth and be having the gold in
Speaker 2: rings and her husband like they be wearing Nike ship
Speaker 2: drawings and all that shit. But the little old he
Speaker 2: still got the bluetooth and all that shit. So I
Speaker 2: was like, you know what, I'm finna copy my Aunty
Speaker 2: staff yes to this day, because I believe a little,
Speaker 2: So I'm gonna call out because like, she're right in
Speaker 2: front of my videos and like that would brod me,
Speaker 2: Me and my uncle, like we got the sign hair style,
Speaker 2: the sign go cool and I'd be just like, it's
Speaker 2: about you.
Speaker 3: And I told her that like seventeen times. Should she
Speaker 3: still come back?
Speaker 2: And yeah, yeah, that ship is sore, so that's not
Speaker 2: that that ship.
Speaker 3: But yeah, okay.
Speaker 1: Okay, So how did you and lude linka? Like, how
Speaker 1: did y'all become cool and start doing.
Speaker 2: Back in like twenty nineteen, I think Lou was doing
Speaker 2: like Steve Harvey skiz and stuff, and so I used
Speaker 2: to come in and tag it was like Facebook. I
Speaker 2: used to it on Facebook because somebody used to take
Speaker 2: his videos and put it on Facebook, and so I
Speaker 2: found him on Instagram and I used to just come
Speaker 2: in and tag Steve Harbor all the time. And then
Speaker 2: one day he was like we should do something together.
Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, cool, and so he was like he
Speaker 2: hit me up and was like, hey, let's threw like
Speaker 2: this baby boy ski. So at the time this like
Speaker 2: twenty nineteen, I don't know when the fuck baby Boy
Speaker 2: came out. I had watched Baby Boy like one or
Speaker 2: two times, but I ain't no logistics of the shit.
Speaker 2: I'm like, Okay, So on my way down here, I
Speaker 2: was in Birmingham on my way down here to Atlanta driving.
Speaker 2: I had pulled up a certain scene he wanted to
Speaker 2: do and it was.
Speaker 3: When she found the combos in the car. Okay.
Speaker 2: So I watched that shit for like two hours straight
Speaker 2: on my way just driving, just like listening to her
Speaker 2: voice and shit. And we did this shit down here
Speaker 2: and it was like maybe months after I ended up
Speaker 2: posting it. I don't even realize I can sound like Taraji,
Speaker 2: that I can't do her facial all that shit exactly
Speaker 2: until I posted that shit. And that was like my
Speaker 2: first video.
Speaker 3: I ever did.
Speaker 2: It was like a million views. And when I seen
Speaker 2: that shit, ILL seen folks that was up under like, Damn,
Speaker 2: you sound like her, like her facial expressions, because I
Speaker 2: ain't even realize until I've seen that shit. And then
Speaker 2: I went back and looked at that shit and I
Speaker 2: was just like with they comings in my head, I
Speaker 2: was like, damn, I do sound like that whole Like
Speaker 2: what the fuck?
Speaker 3: I'm like, how don't fuck I mad myself sound?
Speaker 2: Yes, I never heard myself like I couldn't hear that ship.
Speaker 3: But when you're doing it, but when you watch it back, yeah,
Speaker 3: it's like damn.
Speaker 2: But I had to watch that ship like thirty sometimes,
Speaker 2: like because the first few times I couldn't hear myself.
Speaker 3: That's so sucking weird.
Speaker 2: But after that we started just doing more ship from
Speaker 2: there and it just went on even from men. Like
Speaker 2: I started realizing like that I can sometimes tweak my voices.
Speaker 3: To sound like people. Yeah, I can't do that ship
Speaker 3: on the spot like some women do, like Pomel. Yeah,
Speaker 3: that sh f me.
Speaker 2: I gotta like listen to it, and then I go
Speaker 2: because you're a one time I was listening to your
Speaker 2: voice and then I like you did. I'm like, she's
Speaker 2: like that she was crossing dress.
Speaker 5: Let me hear it grow.
Speaker 3: But I think that's probably what you be doing, like
Speaker 3: when you listen.
Speaker 2: To something over yeah, pack it up.
Speaker 3: Yeah, talent. It is like to be able to impersonate people.
Speaker 3: That ship is hard.
Speaker 2: I just want to master that ship, like he keep
Speaker 2: on that, give us some ship on the spot and
Speaker 2: she just.
Speaker 3: Jamie FOXX does that really well? That's like a true
Speaker 3: like skill it.
Speaker 1: Is, and I feel like you're on your way though,
Speaker 1: because let me tell you something, when y'all be doing
Speaker 1: in BMF SKI and you'll be acting like the mama,
Speaker 1: that shit be so fucking spot on.
Speaker 4: Yeah, she got her down the kind of yea, she
Speaker 4: could be your mom in real life, and.
Speaker 6: She is so sweet.
Speaker 3: I love her. That is my mom. Shake up on me.
Speaker 3: Her and Raquel from Raising be funny. So when y'all
Speaker 3: do her for the.
Speaker 2: Longest, and I hate that, I doubt myself because for
Speaker 2: the whole entire season, I was like, Okay, I want
Speaker 2: to do her, but I was like, oh, that she's gonna.
Speaker 3: Be so hard.
Speaker 2: And then towards the last episode when she did that woman,
Speaker 2: she was like, I own you, nigga.
Speaker 3: Like I looked at that ship probably three times and
Speaker 3: I got that shit up. It's like, damn the funny.
Speaker 3: I didn't even watch power Yeah, what's it called PowerBook three?
Speaker 3: Power Book? Yeah. I didn't even watch that until I
Speaker 3: saw y'all skins. I was like, I feel like I'm.
Speaker 4: Left out of the yot because every time I mean
Speaker 4: I could even scroll my timeline, TikTok, Facebook, Instagram, whatever,
Speaker 4: it was like everybody had it on their story.
Speaker 3: Because it be so funny. How good that y'all have
Speaker 3: them characters?
Speaker 1: Yes, it's so good. I know me and will be
Speaker 1: seeing my brother.
Speaker 3: I don't even watch these. I'm like, I don't.
Speaker 2: I don't want to last. But you know, it's so
Speaker 2: hard that I found it. Like people be like, oh,
Speaker 2: you can.
Speaker 3: Act, you can act. I know how to act.
Speaker 2: I think I would do really good in a bio
Speaker 2: movie because me just acting, like giving out a character,
Speaker 2: like you have to make that person come like it
Speaker 2: just be like this given be laying but me acting
Speaker 2: other people, it is so easy and I ain't gonna lie.
Speaker 2: I thought that ship like, I was like, oh, bitch,
Speaker 2: I can act. Then when I went to acting classes
Speaker 2: and they give you some ship that you got to
Speaker 2: bring the life, I was like, I talked that ship
Speaker 2: so I can see how that ship goes, so I
Speaker 2: can mock you.
Speaker 5: Like that ship hardy I was.
Speaker 4: I mean, she goes to acting classes with me now,
Speaker 4: And when I tell y'all, I was like, I came
Speaker 4: in here and I was talking about I was like, oh,
Speaker 4: I fucking suck. I'm horrible, but.
Speaker 2: That's really be doing good, Like I believe she like, oh,
Speaker 2: I don't think I did okay, and then she'll get
Speaker 2: up there and be rocking and ship.
Speaker 3: Now we do be getting a little.
Speaker 2: Trouble in trouble because I'll be talking to one. I
Speaker 2: can even laughing the back of.
Speaker 3: The classes, being bad, laughing at folks like we ain't
Speaker 3: got no bits.
Speaker 2: Then I get up there, ain't God damn Nancy, just
Speaker 2: about on mark or some ship.
Speaker 3: You walk up to your market and stop.
Speaker 2: I'm talking and laughing with leg and I get up
Speaker 2: there in front of the classroom.
Speaker 3: He said, I walked up everything. Now what I supposed
Speaker 3: to be split doing this? Your mess up on her
Speaker 3: time and then when you get a time, you don't
Speaker 3: get to go again. Yeah, then she'd be sitting at
Speaker 3: the rest of again. Yeah, it's I like it, but
Speaker 3: it is very It's tough.
Speaker 4: It's tough, yeah, because I definitely agree with you on that.
Speaker 4: I feel like whenever you're acting, it's like if you like,
Speaker 4: if somebody tells me, okay, Lex, I want you to
Speaker 4: be in a movie and I want you to act,
Speaker 4: You're playing Drey to call in the movie. Oh that's easy.
Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying, Like, cause I know you. Yeah,
Speaker 4: you know what I'm saying, if they tell me to act.
Speaker 3: Like whoever like, cause you can watch that person.
Speaker 4: But if they tell you, oh, act like this girl
Speaker 4: named Britney. She's twenty five years old and she's a bartender.
Speaker 4: She's trying to come up and make it in the world.
Speaker 4: You have to create this person on what you interpret
Speaker 4: them as. So even when you're like auditioning, your audition
Speaker 4: is going to be completely different from her audition and
Speaker 4: you don't even know what these people.
Speaker 3: Are looking yep. So that's why I feel like acting
Speaker 3: is hard and be like, what do you think this
Speaker 3: character is? What are you thinking? What do you think
Speaker 3: they're thinking in that moment?
Speaker 2: Bitch, I don't even know who the whole is.
Speaker 3: Like if she are yeah, like.
Speaker 2: Yes, That's why I said, bios, yes, but that damn yeah,
Speaker 2: that thing is.
Speaker 4: That's why I said, for me, I want to do
Speaker 4: more comedic acting because I can really just act like myself.
Speaker 3: Because and turn every script into a comedy.
Speaker 1: Yeah, everything I could see that, I see that. I
Speaker 1: always say the same thing though, I say, I feel
Speaker 1: like if anything I could just play or all this
Speaker 1: similar to myself, Like it need to be something that's
Speaker 1: similar to me. I don't think I could do like
Speaker 1: a bio people act like somebody.
Speaker 3: I told her.
Speaker 4: Because you saw the Kiki Palmer and Sissor movie. Yes,
Speaker 4: said Drea could play like a Scissor character like that.
Speaker 2: Yes, like really good her to be how she is
Speaker 2: like you see her.
Speaker 3: For her to act like that in a movie that
Speaker 3: was like mine, fucking like, oh she shouldn't really act.
Speaker 3: That's something like, definitely you can play that care Yeah
Speaker 3: for sure. Okay, So we're gonna move on. It's gonna
Speaker 3: have to be something close to me close.
Speaker 4: You could have definitely play if you see that. Once
Speaker 4: you watch that movie and you see her, you be like, oh, yeah,
Speaker 4: I could do that. I can for sure do that.
Speaker 3: Okay, Ta, what are we drinking today? All right?
Speaker 1: So for our guests, this one is gonna be called
Speaker 1: Big Bee, not the little one.
Speaker 3: Okay.
Speaker 1: Hello, we have the actress, the comedy everything, all right,
Speaker 1: she does it all, so we're so happy to have
Speaker 1: you here. This one is gonna have some tequila for her.
Speaker 1: We have some passion fruit, some mango, some pineapple, a
Speaker 1: little bit of a guy that and line and I
Speaker 1: even added a little time in there just to kind
Speaker 1: of give it a little bit of that herbal goodness,
Speaker 1: and then we garnish it with some dragon fruit on
Speaker 1: top as well, and it's kind of like floating in
Speaker 1: through there, just to kind of brighten it up a bit.
Speaker 1: And so this is the big bee, not the little one.
Speaker 3: Period. Yes it's good big bee, y'all.
Speaker 1: But my drink gnishnish it is. She got a little
Speaker 1: what is this is this passion for passion fruit, a
Speaker 1: little passion for a little dragon fruit for the dragon
Speaker 1: while in there too.
Speaker 3: You know, it's a little tropical, real good.
Speaker 1: And I know y'all probably see me with these little
Speaker 1: shot glass This is not liquor.
Speaker 3: I'm still doing my fast, but this is a little
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Speaker 1: But that's why I've been sleeping this slow because I'm
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Speaker 3: So I don't feel that.
Speaker 2: Wow, all we gonna do doing a fast is dropped.
Speaker 3: What we're supposed to drop, we gonna pick up, pick up.
Speaker 3: That's why I say, y'all don't want me to stop drinking,
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Speaker 2: A transition to go from alcohol to straight to crack.
Speaker 3: It's just like hard. It ain't never go to crag.
Speaker 3: If I gotta drop my alcohol, what else I'm gonna do.
Speaker 1: But see what I will say this, this is the
Speaker 1: first day that I've like tried to like drink the
Speaker 1: stuff because we've been having it for months and this
Speaker 1: is the first time I tried to drink. And I'm
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Speaker 3: I need a little get of seventy five not drinking, yes,
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Speaker 1: We are all entrepreneurs, but we wanted to talk about
Speaker 1: navigating like the nine to five grind versus being an
Speaker 1: entrepreneur because I'm I know links have had a nine
Speaker 1: to five before I have, and I'm sure you've had
Speaker 1: one too. So I just want to talk about like navigating,
Speaker 1: like the difference between having a nine to five and
Speaker 1: being an entrepreneur, because I think sometimes people think that
Speaker 1: being an entrepreneur is easier than having a nonce.
Speaker 3: It's not.
Speaker 2: You have to be so disciplined, Like you have to
Speaker 2: make yourself get up, You have to make yourself do
Speaker 2: the ship that you're supposed to do, because it's when
Speaker 2: the days that you could just stay in the bed,
Speaker 2: you could just get It's easy to get comfortable as yeah,
Speaker 2: but don't think that wake your ass back up is
Speaker 2: beach this time, make the money. But nine to five,
Speaker 2: like I was almost disciplined because bach I're staying in
Speaker 2: fire from somewhere because my ass is always late. Thing
Speaker 2: she'll supervisor, bitch. They catch me on camera dancing doing
Speaker 2: Why did they make me a ship supervisors?
Speaker 3: The girl fucking question?
Speaker 2: What made y'all feel like I should have been fucking
Speaker 2: over the store at Nice You was one of the
Speaker 2: people who didn't want the promotion, Like why the hell
Speaker 2: y'all promoted me? One of the reason I wanted it
Speaker 2: because I knew because I'm a shell supervisor, it ain't
Speaker 2: gonna be nobody over me like at my time, and
Speaker 2: I am the person over me and so like the
Speaker 2: people are like me and all the homeboy like bitch
Speaker 2: win are dancing.
Speaker 3: I ain't getting she done.
Speaker 2: I'll never forget when I first start working that I
Speaker 2: didn't know the camera placements. That's why I fucked up.
Speaker 2: I ain't know what the cameras was. And they was like,
Speaker 2: why you ain't put out the you know, the little
Speaker 2: the inventory whatever. The ship was cauded, and I'm like,
Speaker 2: you know, it was just a lot of customers coming in.
Speaker 4: Here, Like I was just so sad.
Speaker 3: That motherfucking camera. I'm on this bitch crip.
Speaker 2: Oh my going to Sierra dances like no one I
Speaker 2: still do.
Speaker 3: That's where I learned it from. I wasn't work, yes,
Speaker 3: but it was.
Speaker 2: It definitely was kind of easier then because you're not
Speaker 2: the person that's really over shit. Like you come in
Speaker 2: they got it already laid out what you're supposed to do.
Speaker 2: Now it's like you have to plan on your own days.
Speaker 2: You have to, and it is hard, like trying to
Speaker 2: make yourself get up and be like, Okay, I gotta
Speaker 2: do this, I gotta do this.
Speaker 4: So and I think to think The hardest thing about
Speaker 4: this is like when you got a record and you
Speaker 4: having a bad day or you don't feel good, like
Speaker 4: they don't care. They're here for the content and they
Speaker 4: want to laugh, you know what I'm saying. So I
Speaker 4: think that's the hardest part that I've realized. It's like
Speaker 4: you have to show up all the time. You have
Speaker 4: to be be leaning, you gotta be drained, the cole,
Speaker 4: I gotta be lexp like they not trying to hear
Speaker 4: that you on your period or that you had a
Speaker 4: bad day, Like they don't want to hear that, you
Speaker 4: know what I'm saying. So it's like we have to
Speaker 4: show up in a good mood. And I feel like
Speaker 4: too with like having a nine to five. I'm not
Speaker 4: gonna say that it's easy. I think work is hard
Speaker 4: in general, but I think, like I said, a nine
Speaker 4: to five is easier because that money is guaranteed. Yes,
Speaker 4: because with some.
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Speaker 3: So I think, like with you have to learn how
Speaker 3: to really like manage your money. You do, I ain't learn? Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 3: I mean it's it's hard. I ain't gonna lie.
Speaker 1: The first few years that we started making money from
Speaker 1: poor Mindes, I definitely was just BMF.
Speaker 3: Blog for real. Yeah. We was cutting up anything I wanted.
Speaker 2: I was buying it, just being dumb, like going out
Speaker 2: to eat all the time, four hundred dollars tabs for
Speaker 2: what I was a Louis Bauton doum. Yeah, you was
Speaker 2: in Louis m every week.
Speaker 1: Like, it's definitely hard to like learn how to budget,
Speaker 1: but like you said, it's necessary when you work for yourself.
Speaker 1: I don't necessarily think either one is easier than the other.
Speaker 1: I just I think they both have their pros and
Speaker 1: con Yeah, I think having a nine to five has
Speaker 1: the pros and counts because you have this structure, you
Speaker 1: know exactly what you need to do, you know exactly
Speaker 1: what tom you gotta be at work, Your boss gonna
Speaker 1: tell you what to do. Being an entrepreneur, you really
Speaker 1: have to be a self starter because nobody's gonna tell
Speaker 1: you what you need to do, and if you don't
Speaker 1: do it, ain't shit gonna happen.
Speaker 2: And I do like it too because me as a
Speaker 2: single parent, huh, it's very easy for me to still
Speaker 2: show up for my son, Like I can base my
Speaker 2: work schedule around being a mom versus nine.
Speaker 3: To five, Like, shit, I gotta go to work. Yeah,
Speaker 3: they ain't give a fuck about what your child got
Speaker 3: going on. None of that shit.
Speaker 2: You gotta find somebody even take it, cheersn to their
Speaker 2: appointments of shit. So it's like I do like that
Speaker 2: part because I can show up as a mom and
Speaker 2: that single parent, it's like most of the times I'm
Speaker 2: the only person that he has right, So I do
Speaker 2: thank God for that that part.
Speaker 4: Yeah, And I will say with the nine to five
Speaker 4: entrepreneurship thing too, I feel like I always tell people this,
Speaker 4: keep your job for as long as you can whenever
Speaker 4: you're making that transition.
Speaker 3: Too.
Speaker 4: I think it's crazy when people like and it's not
Speaker 4: a blueprint for this. I will say, thatt, like what.
Speaker 3: I did, or what Dre did or what Blind did,
Speaker 3: they may your story may be completely different.
Speaker 4: I always tell this story. My job literally gave me
Speaker 4: an ultimatum. Of course I was gonna choose Poor Minds,
Speaker 4: but they gave me a ultimatum. So they was pushing
Speaker 4: me out the door, and I was like, I'm not
Speaker 4: ready to quit. I didn't say I wanted to quit,
Speaker 4: but I say all that to say because I think
Speaker 4: that if you can work your nine to five and
Speaker 4: still chase your dreams, you have to create that good
Speaker 4: balance because if you just quit your job and go
Speaker 4: all in and try to go all in with your dreams,
Speaker 4: that money is not going to come in as quickly
Speaker 4: as you think it is.
Speaker 3: You how I felt like we.
Speaker 4: Were doing Poor Minds for what like two years, two
Speaker 4: and a half years before I was able to quit
Speaker 4: my job. Yeah, yeah, like two and a half years
Speaker 4: far I was able to quit my job, So I
Speaker 4: couldn't have imagine being without a job for two and
Speaker 4: a half years while I was chasing my dreams, like
Speaker 4: there was no you really would have been on it
Speaker 4: here on I was about to be when I got
Speaker 4: far from my first song man, what but gyirl?
Speaker 3: You know with me?
Speaker 2: It was my transition was easy because the apartments I
Speaker 2: was living in at the time, they were income based,
Speaker 2: but not the income based. Well you got the report
Speaker 2: every time. It was like as soon as you moving
Speaker 2: that beach, they're not checking on income. Oh so whatever
Speaker 2: you bought was what you bought. So I think I
Speaker 2: started earning my incomes around like win into COVID happened
Speaker 2: twenty twenty. Yeah, so I think I started on videos
Speaker 2: and with like twenty nineteen, so that years spaying, I
Speaker 2: started making money and soon as I put it in
Speaker 2: like I was a CNA at the time, okay, and
Speaker 2: wish was the best job I ever hadd like working
Speaker 2: with those old people like wiping ass and shit. Okay,
Speaker 2: but old people be sweet, said okay, like I fucked
Speaker 2: with them. But Brian in time when the pandemic started,
Speaker 2: like probably two weeks prior to that, I had just
Speaker 2: put in my two weeks notice to drop down like
Speaker 2: part time because I had just started having money coming
Speaker 2: in and so after that it just made it easy,
Speaker 2: like I ain't have to make a whole bunch of
Speaker 2: money because mind you, I'm staying in a low income
Speaker 2: based apartment. So I was able to like go ahead
Speaker 2: and quick. But that's just for me because my biels
Speaker 2: were low. But I always encourage people because people come
Speaker 2: up to me all the time and be like, yeah,
Speaker 2: I want to start doing videos, I can just quit
Speaker 2: my job and start doing I'd be like, you better
Speaker 2: fuck not, because shit, this shit don't be out what
Speaker 2: people be thinking it is.
Speaker 3: It takes a while for.
Speaker 1: Them to come, like people be thinking it's gonna be overnight,
Speaker 1: or like sometimes I think where people get stuff confused,
Speaker 1: especially with like us being media personalities, people will equate
Speaker 1: views too much money.
Speaker 3: They'll think, oh, this person.
Speaker 1: Getting a million views per video, they eating five hundred
Speaker 1: thousand views, they making hell of money, not necessarily depending
Speaker 1: on what platform you saw's worth.
Speaker 3: Of dollarge got a million views, you got a million dollars,
Speaker 3: And hell no, that's not the truth.
Speaker 4: Because I feel like this TikTok is different because you
Speaker 4: do have like the big creators, like the clerks, and
Speaker 4: right like that, so they get sponsorships. But I'll say
Speaker 4: this the only platform, the two platforms that if you're
Speaker 4: like hitting a million, half a million to a million views,
Speaker 4: like consistently, you making a lot of money, it's for
Speaker 4: sure YouTube.
Speaker 3: Yeah, like if you can't. But that is hard. Yes,
Speaker 3: that is very very extremely hard.
Speaker 4: Like if you see people that they post videos like
Speaker 4: maybe once or twice a week and all those videos
Speaker 4: are getting half a million to a million views and
Speaker 4: they're monetized, like they get the green the green light
Speaker 4: on them, they're making money. Like that's where you can
Speaker 4: be like, okay, somebody's making money. But that community of
Speaker 4: people that are doing those numbers is very very small,
Speaker 4: especially when you get into the black.
Speaker 3: It's even yeah, you for everything. That's why we be
Speaker 3: bleeping on close words out.
Speaker 1: Like the first one, and they still be finding a
Speaker 1: way to have this because did you see I'll showed
Speaker 1: you that video was demontized after it was already monitored.
Speaker 3: Somebody going through like i'll see what we last month,
Speaker 3: and it's like they be feeling and they spared that.
Speaker 2: Like soon as you post the video, it's like they
Speaker 2: be knowing like okay, this motherfuckering to go up. Let's
Speaker 2: stop real quick.
Speaker 4: Like And it's crazy because okay, so what I learned
Speaker 4: to with YouTube they have humans that go in there
Speaker 4: and yeah, yeah, so wing that day. Because one person
Speaker 4: will flag our videos, the next person be like, oh
Speaker 4: this is fine.
Speaker 3: So they're not all on the same accord. Came in
Speaker 3: there and.
Speaker 2: Him now a flag most like a video all not
Speaker 2: with these big bolst getting nothing.
Speaker 3: They be like, defund all this was in charge of this,
Speaker 3: I'm telling you.
Speaker 4: But I really feel like if you tube would change
Speaker 4: that and get everybody on the same afford.
Speaker 3: And there was one thing and another one. I don't
Speaker 3: understand this world. But the streamers on Twitch, they make
Speaker 3: a lot of money.
Speaker 4: They make a lot of money, but it's so hard
Speaker 4: to get what do they call it, because it's not
Speaker 4: is it subscribers on Twitch?
Speaker 3: What is it called subscribers?
Speaker 4: Yeah, so it's hard to get subscribers on Twitch, Like
Speaker 4: it's very hard. Like that's a whole nother world because
Speaker 4: you're life. Yeah, so you gotta entertain people and they
Speaker 4: be on it for our hours. People people playing games.
Speaker 3: Or whatever they do.
Speaker 4: Like Twitch is hard, but all the hardest platforms are
Speaker 4: the one you're gonna make the money on.
Speaker 3: Yep. So, like I said, Instagram is cool, Instagram, do
Speaker 3: not pay like that. No more, don't. And when I
Speaker 3: tell you and our videos get a lot of it
Speaker 3: all the time.
Speaker 2: Behave any reason and I pay you.
Speaker 3: Like when that the program first came and then they
Speaker 3: was doing the pictures. Oh baby, that booty was out.
Speaker 6: And them checks was coming in.
Speaker 3: But yeah, they said, oh these two weeks, that's why
Speaker 3: I stopped post posting pictures.
Speaker 2: You got to be hellook consistent too, because that's why
Speaker 2: I fucked up with YouTube, Like on one of my channels,
Speaker 2: like I stopped because I cannot multi task for nothing.
Speaker 2: So I got like two YouTube channels and one of
Speaker 2: them is my skit and one of them is my vlogs.
Speaker 3: And my vlogs used to do very good.
Speaker 2: But I stopped doing the vlogs and went over here
Speaker 2: with the skits and ship instead of me came off
Speaker 2: to my task.
Speaker 3: I should have been on a boat.
Speaker 2: And my vloging views used to get like a lot
Speaker 2: of a hell of good views. And now it's like
Speaker 2: i'men trying to like post like two times a week,
Speaker 2: and it's like you gotta start from scratch.
Speaker 3: Who start from scratch?
Speaker 2: And I just be like, damn, I wish I would
Speaker 2: have just fucking kept going, helped fucking going.
Speaker 3: You have to start all the way over.
Speaker 1: That's something that I noticed about YouTube too. It be
Speaker 1: so many people who be having millions of followers because
Speaker 1: they used to post all the time, millions of suspibers,
Speaker 1: and they used to get like five hundred thousand yes,
Speaker 1: and you look like two thousand views yup. And I'd
Speaker 1: be like, damn, and it's crazy. And I always wonder
Speaker 1: thing because I'm like, where are the subscribers? If you
Speaker 1: have all of these people subscribed? Is YouTube purposely just
Speaker 1: not showing your content because you had stopped.
Speaker 3: Posting for a long time. That's probably what it is. Yeah,
Speaker 3: that too, because they push you to be consistent on
Speaker 3: that platform.
Speaker 4: And I told this to you the other day. YouTube
Speaker 4: Now they want you to use it like you use cable,
Speaker 4: So you know what the content they're pushing they gonna
Speaker 4: push out of poor minds because they know Friday at
Speaker 4: seven o'clock, poor minds is gonna get posted. Yeah, they
Speaker 4: want you to you. They don't want you to sign
Speaker 4: up for Hulu and Netflix. They want you to use
Speaker 4: YouTube like it's cable. So the people that are consistently posting,
Speaker 4: and I'm talking about every Friday at seven pm, not
Speaker 4: just oh, I'm gonna just post when I feel like it.
Speaker 4: Because even if you are consistently posting, but you're not
Speaker 4: posting at the.
Speaker 3: Same time, same day, they're not gonna push that out. Ye.
Speaker 3: The algorithm with YouTube.
Speaker 4: Is like, okay, you post every day at this time,
Speaker 4: I'm gonna I'm gonna push your content out. So I
Speaker 4: think it's all of that stuff like with the algorithm
Speaker 4: and stuff. Now, it's so tricky and it's so hard.
Speaker 3: But like I say, anybody that has a podcast out
Speaker 3: there or doing skits or vlogs or whatever you're doing,
Speaker 3: I always say, I never understand what people do things
Speaker 3: in seasons or when they pa breaking. I never understand
Speaker 3: it works for some people. Maybe it does. We ain't
Speaker 3: taking no breaks.
Speaker 2: That's why I look up to y'all so much, because
Speaker 2: when you told me, like, wait, y'all haven't missed a
Speaker 2: Friday in like filla six years. Oh yeah, Like that
Speaker 2: shit just did something to my fucking mincole. Because I'm like, damn,
Speaker 2: because that's me, I'm inconsistent. But I'm inconsistent also because
Speaker 2: I let a lot of shit that I be going
Speaker 2: through like stop me. And it's like, Okay, you're gonna
Speaker 2: go through a lot of shit in life that's not
Speaker 2: gonna stop, so you need to find a way to
Speaker 2: like keep going. Yes, So I'm in that point of
Speaker 2: my life now because I'm not gonna I'm inconsistent, like
Speaker 2: very bad. And then a lot of times like then
Speaker 2: now he forms like regret and he'd be like damn,
Speaker 2: Like a lot of times I go down my channel
Speaker 2: and be like damn, all these views I used to
Speaker 2: get if I would have kept doing this all the
Speaker 2: use now it's really affecting me now it's finish sit
Speaker 2: into like some type of depression or it made me
Speaker 2: feel a certain type of way, but it's just like, okay,
Speaker 2: enough of that. Now, I just got to do it
Speaker 2: and stick to it. Like the other day when you
Speaker 2: were telling me, like how long y'all been consistent for
Speaker 2: it for all those years and he was like, you
Speaker 2: have to pick a date and just stick with you.
Speaker 2: So it's just like, okay, let me do that, and
Speaker 2: no matter what, I don't give a fuck what happens,
Speaker 2: like I'm gonna raise sure that that's my posting date.
Speaker 2: I gotta do that, Like, but that should be kind
Speaker 2: of it's hard. I really look up to y'all cause
Speaker 2: that shit is not easy. But that many years at that.
Speaker 1: That's been some obstacles to because like during COVID, we
Speaker 1: used to be stressed because we had started finally recording
Speaker 1: in the studio. Being COVID happened and we was like, fuck,
Speaker 1: where are we gonna record it? Because all the studios
Speaker 1: and everything was like, you know, closed down. Girl, we
Speaker 1: started back recording at our house. We were to record
Speaker 1: a well well well, I mean I guess like just
Speaker 1: in the house. We started recording at our friend house
Speaker 1: and she was like helping us edit the videos and everything.
Speaker 1: And then it's so funny because when we finally was
Speaker 1: able to go back to the studio, I just remember
Speaker 1: these because.
Speaker 3: We had to wear fucking masks, so we just in
Speaker 3: the studio.
Speaker 2: A lot of people cannot say that, like I do
Speaker 2: not know a lot of people that's just consistent like that.
Speaker 2: When I heard that, when you told me that, I
Speaker 2: was just like fucking mind bloine because I'm like, yes.
Speaker 3: Six, what is five or six, it's about to be
Speaker 3: six years.
Speaker 2: Of consistency is crazy, Like that's not easy, girl, and
Speaker 2: n ain't because life be life in and we are
Speaker 2: at times so we're like I've.
Speaker 3: Been going through sheit, she been going through shit. We
Speaker 3: do not want to pull up? And what do y'all?
Speaker 2: What is something that makes like, what is something that
Speaker 2: gives y'all their motivation to keep going?
Speaker 3: Like, yeah, I think for me what I tried that.
Speaker 2: You all got some hair runs, some liquid air runway.
Speaker 1: I think for me, it's just always putting into perspective that,
Speaker 1: like you said earlier, it's always gonna be very much
Speaker 1: something like something is gonna always be going on.
Speaker 3: But I think Licks and I both are really.
Speaker 1: Good at keeping our eye on the prize, Like we
Speaker 1: both really know what we want poor.
Speaker 3: Minds to turn into.
Speaker 1: And I think we both are also really locked in
Speaker 1: on our own personal goals. She know exactly what she
Speaker 1: wants this platform to liberate her to do, and I
Speaker 1: know what I wanted to deleverage me to do. And
Speaker 1: I think I just always keep that in mind because
Speaker 1: it's like, if I stop being consistent, you're not gonna
Speaker 1: get to all of these other spaces and places that
Speaker 1: you're trying to get that's my fuck up.
Speaker 2: Then I don't I need to see that. I haven't
Speaker 2: probably sat down and.
Speaker 3: Roll down my goals.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know how long, so I don't know
Speaker 2: what that look.
Speaker 3: Look, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: You got to know what's right hand funny on what
Speaker 2: you're trying to get to.
Speaker 1: And that's and I think on the other end a
Speaker 1: parting point, you should definitely do that. Like I always
Speaker 1: tell people, I think that's really important to like write
Speaker 1: down your goals that you want for yourself in the
Speaker 1: next six months, the next year, and even the next
Speaker 1: five years, and just always reread it too, so that
Speaker 1: you can like keep that in mind, especially when you
Speaker 1: having hard days. Cause I do that too, Like when.
Speaker 2: I'm having a hard day, I'll just reread my.
Speaker 1: Goals and be like, Okay, this is what you're trying
Speaker 1: to be doing, This's what you're trying to be doing.
Speaker 3: In the year. So today's just today.
Speaker 1: Tomorrow gonna be able to push through, push out the
Speaker 1: county in, or push out whatever of the work you
Speaker 1: need to do.
Speaker 4: And I think another angle for me too is like
Speaker 4: at the end of the day. Like sometimes I don't
Speaker 4: feel like recording and I'm tired or I'm not in.
Speaker 3: The mood, but in the grand scheme of things, I am.
Speaker 4: So blessed right, like this is a blessing to have
Speaker 4: this and what we have built and what we created.
Speaker 4: Like every day I wake up and I show gratitude
Speaker 4: to God because like it's a blessing to do this.
Speaker 4: So even if I'm in a bad mood, like I
Speaker 4: was talking to you this morning, I was like, I'm
Speaker 4: not in the med good mood. I gotta get my
Speaker 4: hair right. But once I start filming, I'm like, my
Speaker 4: life is really fire. Like I complain a lot, but
Speaker 4: I have so much more to be happy for. So again,
Speaker 4: to me, I don't have to escape from work. Work
Speaker 4: is my escape. So if I am having a bad time,
Speaker 4: I don't care what is going on in my life.
Speaker 4: If I can come in here, I get to get drunk,
Speaker 4: talk to Tie, talk to Drea, and I'm.
Speaker 3: Be like, bro, you really that you really that girl?
Speaker 5: Like you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 4: It's like sometimes when I'm away from work, I'll be
Speaker 4: forgetting who I am. I'm like, oh wait, hold on,
Speaker 4: And it's like now we both started our separate channels,
Speaker 4: Like Love lex P is doing good and I just
Speaker 4: started it, you know what I'm saying. So I feel
Speaker 4: like and that's another thing I'm gonna be consistent with
Speaker 4: every Monday at ten am, y'all Finn to see my face.
Speaker 3: Like, so I think I do too, Like I love
Speaker 3: to work. I love to start a new project.
Speaker 4: Like even when I started Love Lexp, I'm like, oh,
Speaker 4: this reminds me of the early days of poor minds,
Speaker 4: like figuring out the camera, figuring out my mind.
Speaker 2: Like that's what I lost with me because when I
Speaker 2: first started doing the videos, like I can wake up
Speaker 2: and I'll just do it, like I didn't give a fuck.
Speaker 3: Who didn't like it, bitch, I can get one view.
Speaker 3: I liked it. I'm happy.
Speaker 2: Now it's just be so much pressure, cause it'd be
Speaker 2: like if I post this, I don't think they gonna
Speaker 2: like these, they gonna fuck with it. They're not gonna
Speaker 2: fuck with this shit like nowaday like, and it be
Speaker 2: so many Thus I don't know, And to this day,
Speaker 2: I'm still trying to figure out because now it's been
Speaker 2: like a year and a half and like I haven't
Speaker 2: been happy doing it. I like it, I love it,
Speaker 2: don't get me wrong, But I just want to get
Speaker 2: back to that mental space that I was in where
Speaker 2: I just woke up and I was just like just
Speaker 2: doing shit. My creativity is just it'd be like in
Speaker 2: a block.
Speaker 3: Sometime like and.
Speaker 7: I don't.
Speaker 3: It's two things with that. One, it's confidence.
Speaker 4: I don't care what I drop or what I don't
Speaker 4: care if you get one like or fifteen thousand, like
Speaker 4: if I think it's funny or I find I'm a
Speaker 4: drop it because I don't care because I be thinking
Speaker 4: it's funny, you know what I'm saying, or I think
Speaker 4: it's entertainer, or I think it's some people want to hear.
Speaker 4: But two, you have to find your tribe that gets
Speaker 4: you and understands you, because there's gonna be some people
Speaker 4: who scroll past Like that Chris Brown video I posted
Speaker 4: other and me singing it was probably a lot of
Speaker 4: people that probably like, why is she doing this?
Speaker 3: This is how it's party.
Speaker 4: But what I'm saying is it works for my audience
Speaker 4: because they know me and they know how I do.
Speaker 4: So if you keep posting stuff, you're gonna find everybody
Speaker 4: has a community, like Drea has a community, Like they
Speaker 4: want to know what Drea is doing from sun up
Speaker 4: to sundown. They want to know what she got on
Speaker 4: her lips, what she put in her hair, what shoes
Speaker 4: she got on with perfume she's wearing. They're like, if
Speaker 4: I do this, I can, you know, live the life
Speaker 4: that Dre lives. They're so interested in that. So it's
Speaker 4: just like, you have to find your community, and but
Speaker 4: you gotta serve them. You know, you have to serve
Speaker 4: your community. So that's the two things you gotta be.
Speaker 4: You gotta just post, get that, get your confidence back,
Speaker 4: because like I tell you this all the time, I
Speaker 4: don't think I've ever said this on the show. It's
Speaker 4: a very small category. And I know people gonna be like, oh,
Speaker 4: you sound stupid.
Speaker 3: I don't care.
Speaker 4: It's a very small category of like women who are
Speaker 4: really fucking funny, but they're bad and beautiful. And I'm
Speaker 4: not saying because y'all don't be taking this out of context,
Speaker 4: but it's not like I feel like the comedy scene
Speaker 4: for women and men too, because there's nobody really like
Speaker 4: killing it killing it right now as far as like
Speaker 4: stand up, because you do stand up, but I feel
Speaker 4: like that lane for you is so wide open. I
Speaker 4: feel like the last time we had like a baddie
Speaker 4: that was a lie, Carris was like some more Like
Speaker 4: we ain't had that in a long time, and that
Speaker 4: lane is so wide open for you, Like you know
Speaker 4: what I'm saying, like the same thing I'm doing with
Speaker 4: lovelex P, Like are Wendy Williams Okay, let me let
Speaker 4: me do that, Let me let me see the people.
Speaker 4: You gotta see what the people are missing and give
Speaker 4: it to them like thatl ain't so wide open for you, girl,
Speaker 4: Like you just gotta keep you just gotta keep going
Speaker 4: and keep doing it, and your people are gonna find you.
Speaker 3: I agree. You just gotta find your niche.
Speaker 1: Yeah, gotta find your niche audience and figure out what
Speaker 1: is it that people want to see from me, because
Speaker 1: I think that is like both of us have figured out,
Speaker 1: Like she's figured out.
Speaker 3: What people want to see from her.
Speaker 1: I know people love to see like beauty content, lifestyle content,
Speaker 1: day to day content, all.
Speaker 3: Of that type of stuff.
Speaker 1: And I feel like you already have a community, You
Speaker 1: already have a lot of pair want to see you
Speaker 1: because when you be dropping your skits, that shit be funny.
Speaker 1: As hell, and you and Lou when y'all be doing
Speaker 1: y'all skits together, y'all be having a like y'all have.
Speaker 3: A cult fire chemistry, you know.
Speaker 1: So I feel like, don't doubt shop and be like, oh,
Speaker 1: I don't know if I should post this. I don't
Speaker 1: know if I should post that, because I promise you
Speaker 1: is telling people out there who if you posted the
Speaker 1: content that you think is stupid, they gonna be under
Speaker 1: there laughing and telling you how good.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it be so much stuff to me and d
Speaker 3: be like this is stupid, and we posted.
Speaker 2: It and people like we were like, girl, ain't nobody
Speaker 2: gonna like this?
Speaker 3: And then it blowing up.
Speaker 4: Even that dancing video we did, Yeah, that's you got
Speaker 4: a whole bunch of likes and people just comment with us.
Speaker 4: We was drunk, me and Philly, and that's why I say, like,
Speaker 4: you are so Andrea knows it's about me. I don't
Speaker 4: think nobody funny. Yeah, same, I think everybody is. I
Speaker 4: don't I think nobody.
Speaker 3: I'd be like, oh, we both be like we both
Speaker 3: be over here, like you know, we were sitting we
Speaker 3: were sitting tiktoks to each other last night, looking like
Speaker 3: look at this.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, but anyways, but you are really you.
Speaker 4: Actually, I felt like when I first met you, I'm
Speaker 4: like bro me and this girl and I never like,
Speaker 4: I feel like you were one of the few people
Speaker 4: I'm very rarely meet people who act like me, like Philly, you.
Speaker 3: Know what I'm saying, Like Drea.
Speaker 4: Me Andrea are both like silly as here like of
Speaker 4: course people if you watch the show, you know Drea's funny.
Speaker 3: I thinking like day to day when people.
Speaker 4: See you, when they they don't, yeah, you know what
Speaker 4: I'm saying.
Speaker 3: So when I met you, I was like, damn, she
Speaker 3: really pretty. She really pretty.
Speaker 4: And then because sometimes you'll see people who make skits
Speaker 4: and then you meet them in real life and they're
Speaker 4: not the same.
Speaker 3: They don't have that same Internet person Internet person.
Speaker 4: Maybe when I tell you, I think the first because
Speaker 4: I mean we hung out all the time, but like
Speaker 4: the night that we really really really hung out with
Speaker 4: like the Usher, maybe when I tell you I know
Speaker 4: them people. It was to the point to where I
Speaker 4: think the people behind us was watching watching up, watching
Speaker 4: the show. Literally, I mean I was saying, I mean
Speaker 4: I know, Usher was like shut up.
Speaker 3: It was like, did I sit down. Y'all was definitely cutting.
Speaker 3: But we also had a time in l A too.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, we had a time in l A.
Speaker 2: We was cutting up in because while we crashed them
Speaker 2: in part.
Speaker 3: What was that.
Speaker 5: Man?
Speaker 3: But what's his real name?
Speaker 2: Miguelgul Yeah, we crashed. Was like god damn, they came
Speaker 2: up that start asking that's why tickets was. We was
Speaker 2: getting all the free drinks, all the free fool We
Speaker 2: had a lot harder then y'all had the nerve.
Speaker 6: Y'all was over there.
Speaker 2: No wait, somebody was doing the worm on the ground.
Speaker 3: Oh lord, it was a lot. There was a lot.
Speaker 3: We were shuting over the section.
Speaker 1: Y'all had a dance a d nav got on the
Speaker 1: microphone was girl because we had like eight shots Miguel.
Speaker 2: And you know what that day, I found out my
Speaker 2: son's auntie had died that so I had already been
Speaker 2: drinking since twelve pm and y'all got there, and it
Speaker 2: just made me like it just like me because I
Speaker 2: was like, yeah it was. It was a rough night,
Speaker 2: but we made it good and that made it worse.
Speaker 3: My son.
Speaker 2: I told my auntie to take away all his gadgets
Speaker 2: and stuff because my that was my son's dad. That
Speaker 2: was my son's his dad's sister, and so I told
Speaker 2: my auntie because that's who had him. I was, I
Speaker 2: will take away his phone all that type of stuff.
Speaker 2: I'm so messed up in the head. I didn't even
Speaker 2: think to tell her to take his iPad because connected
Speaker 2: to his phone, because I didn't want him to find
Speaker 2: out until I got back while I could be with him.
Speaker 5: And he called me.
Speaker 2: I think y'all was at the bt uh. I think
Speaker 2: y'all was working at the BC Award. Yeah, And so
Speaker 2: I was at the hotel and I think my son
Speaker 2: called me. As soon as I answered the phone, I'm like,
Speaker 2: how did why the fuck thisa got his phone?
Speaker 3: Like why?
Speaker 2: And he just had like tears coming down his eyes
Speaker 2: and it just really broke me down. So I just
Speaker 2: started like really drinking, like you, just seeming what I needed.
Speaker 2: And then when y'all got there, it was just like
Speaker 2: I was crying, but it was just kind of like
Speaker 2: we started having fun. Yes, it definitely made everything like
Speaker 2: because you because I was like, she was dancing, She's
Speaker 2: gonna cut a rug now, I said, okay, because that's
Speaker 2: my first time going out with Yeah, it's like that
Speaker 2: was like our first time hanging out. Yeah, yeah, I said, okay,
Speaker 2: but again, don't go see this. He's gonna be like that.
Speaker 3: He is beating on my shoes. I would have about
Speaker 3: none of them got damn shoes dirty.
Speaker 4: I'm not with this same but you know what I swear,
Speaker 4: I just remember this when you were in the bathroom crying.
Speaker 4: I was in the bathroom with you. Then I had
Speaker 4: walked out to go get something and he was like, Miguel,
Speaker 4: he grabbed me.
Speaker 3: He was like, is she okay? Is she okay?
Speaker 2: Well, you know what, I do like your shoes because
Speaker 2: I was spinning Cops song.
Speaker 3: We we definitely meant to buy some, Yes, we did.
Speaker 3: We did.
Speaker 4: We gonna go on the web, so y'all make sure
Speaker 4: y'all google his shoe line and go get some.
Speaker 3: Honestly, yeah, we definitely crashed his party and we had
Speaker 3: we had a blast. Shout out to you. Thanks, thank you, Miguel. Okay, okay,
Speaker 3: let's move on, let's get the Yes. What's up, y'all?
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Speaker 4: The call and we have a very exciting announcement today.
Speaker 4: We have a brand new show dropping.
Speaker 1: Yes, stot, we have a brand new show dropping y'all
Speaker 1: on Patreon. It's gonna air on September second, and it's
Speaker 1: called Poor Chronicles. We're gonna be doing so much stuff
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Speaker 3: If you can't go to Bellanche, what the hell we're
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Speaker 5: Oh my god, No you didn't.
Speaker 3: God.
Speaker 2: Everything y'all been wanting to see, we're gonna be doing
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Speaker 4: Yes, y'all ask us for so much. Well, we've been
Speaker 4: to give it to y'all every single Monday. And it's
Speaker 4: gonna be a time. Y'all know, Poor Minds has grown
Speaker 4: into its own little entity.
Speaker 3: When we're gonna have a lot of fun still over
Speaker 3: here at Poor Chronicles. So make sure y'all tune in
Speaker 3: September second. It's going down. Say so, since we're talking
Speaker 3: speaking of your son.
Speaker 4: We wanted to talk about protective boy mom, and I
Speaker 4: really wanted to discuss this too, because so one of
Speaker 4: the examples that we have is like some women want
Speaker 4: to be in the delivery room while their son's partner
Speaker 4: gives birth. Are they hijacked like wedding planning, or they
Speaker 4: don't make women feel worthy.
Speaker 3: Enough for their son.
Speaker 4: Now I have a story to tell, and this is
Speaker 4: no shade, no tea to anybody in my family, but
Speaker 4: this happened to me when my sister was giving birth
Speaker 4: to her first son. I wasn't allowed to be in
Speaker 4: the living room because they only allowed two people to
Speaker 4: be in there, and so his mom and yo, my
Speaker 4: mom were in the room, and my sister was upset
Speaker 4: because she wanted me in the room. And also it
Speaker 4: wasn't his first child, but it was her first child.
Speaker 4: So you know, we're trying to explain all of this,
Speaker 4: and I just felt like in that moment, like it's
Speaker 4: always just been me, my sister and my mom, and
Speaker 4: I felt like, I mean, yeah, it's a moment for everybody,
Speaker 4: but I felt like, look, nah, this is your third one.
Speaker 2: Move O would be okay, this is your third one?
Speaker 3: Okay? This is my first grand baby, this is my
Speaker 3: first nephew, So in that moment, I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 4: Like I called my sister about that, and it's crazy
Speaker 4: because honestly, I didn't even write this.
Speaker 3: I didn't write this honestly, So it just is.
Speaker 4: Crazy because I called my sister two weeks ago and
Speaker 4: I was just really upset and I was like, I
Speaker 4: just thought that I just remember the moment, like I
Speaker 4: didn't really didn't get to see Jackson being.
Speaker 3: Born, and I don't know. I just wanted to talk
Speaker 3: about like boy moms just being overprotective, like overbearing.
Speaker 4: I had a situation another situation where in high school,
Speaker 4: like the guy I was dating at the time was
Speaker 4: just being weird and I found out he had a
Speaker 4: girl in his room and his mom was lying for him.
Speaker 4: So you're literally creating a monster and treating and teaching
Speaker 4: him that it's okay to treat.
Speaker 3: Women like this. So I want to talk about boy
Speaker 3: moms because I'd be having an issue with boy.
Speaker 5: Monk I do so well.
Speaker 1: Now I don't have an issue with him, but I
Speaker 1: just think sometimes they definitely just be if he's a
Speaker 1: mama's boy, the mom is nine times out of ten Berry, overprotected, overbearing,
Speaker 1: and be trying to control him and control his life
Speaker 1: and control his dating life, all of this stuff.
Speaker 3: So I thought, be Jaden is not your king. He's
Speaker 3: mine people, period, Bitch. I hate that, you know what,
Speaker 3: And it's baby.
Speaker 2: I didn't I dealt with the mama's boy for real,
Speaker 2: and I'm sorry I didn't cut her ass the fuck out. Yeah,
Speaker 2: sometimes you were like because and not only that, not
Speaker 2: only was she like he was a mama's boy, she
Speaker 2: just overstepped her boundaries, like she'll tell me stuff like
Speaker 2: I rememb one time I had little stick and she
Speaker 2: was like, oh, I don't like that on you.
Speaker 5: Who a true?
Speaker 2: But she I'm not gonna say who the lady is
Speaker 2: because you're kind of tied in. But my mama heard that.
Speaker 2: Come in and babe, my mama cast up the fuck
Speaker 2: out and was like whatever the fuck was? She was like,
Speaker 2: but she know not, just take it over my mama.
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna be missed because I got to call
Speaker 2: your mother.
Speaker 3: And I love her, I love you, but it was
Speaker 3: it was a stretch me for me.
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna be overprotective like mom. I'm not gonna
Speaker 2: be one of those type of moms because first and foremost,
Speaker 2: I'm a woman first, Yes you do. I'm a woman
Speaker 2: before I was your mama, so all that. No, my
Speaker 2: son probably not gonna like me when he grew up
Speaker 2: because and I think I've told you this, if he
Speaker 2: ch ain't on a girl or whatever, I'm fucking telling
Speaker 2: because at the end of the day, I'm a woman first.
Speaker 3: Don't play with no woman. Don't.
Speaker 2: You're definitely not gonna do this shit in my house
Speaker 2: because I've been a woman where a nigga didn't fucked
Speaker 2: me over and I got hurt and bitch, I would
Speaker 2: come and fuck your shit or be cha. I don't
Speaker 2: give you stay with your mama, your grandma. I don't
Speaker 2: give fucking ch ill. Would go dig your grandma by
Speaker 2: her grades and beat your ass.
Speaker 3: With her bones. I don't play. I don't care who
Speaker 3: I got disrespect with my son. You not to know
Speaker 3: how these females come and fucking my shit? Uf Will
Speaker 3: I be mad? That's I will be mad.
Speaker 2: But will I be understanding to understand? Yes, because I've
Speaker 2: done this playing with people. Stop doing that shit. Y,
Speaker 2: So I've never been the I know I won't. I
Speaker 2: will not be that type of woman.
Speaker 3: Being in a roll in him while he having his
Speaker 3: first child. Baby, you came out of me. You. I
Speaker 3: don't give a fuck about all it.
Speaker 2: I do like I'm a little my ground, but to
Speaker 2: be in a room and if anybody else want to
Speaker 2: come into that siecause babe, I can come in there,
Speaker 2: like I just don't. I won't be that type of
Speaker 2: parent that's just overstepping because I've dealt with that. And
Speaker 2: like I said, I'm woman first, Like, yeah, no, bitch,
Speaker 2: he not even have a lot of women in and
Speaker 2: out of my house, little girls and stuff.
Speaker 3: You pick.
Speaker 2: You want the girl to come out to this house
Speaker 2: right around and doing these little girls called to my phone,
Speaker 2: Like so let me say, won't house phones?
Speaker 3: So I can't even do that because I would wander
Speaker 3: and be like, hey, I'm gone. The wrong Name's purpose
Speaker 3: but something kind of controversial, and they probably might drag
Speaker 3: me for this. They might not.
Speaker 4: I think a lot of times that boy moms when
Speaker 4: they overstep their boundaries or they let their son she
Speaker 4: and they think it's funny. I seen a TikTok the
Speaker 4: other day. This guy had his babies next to each
Speaker 4: other and they were six months apart. She was like, oh,
Speaker 4: and the mom is laughing like, oh, look at the
Speaker 4: ghetto twins, and everybody's just laughing in the comments, and
Speaker 4: it's like you raised somebody like that. So this is
Speaker 4: what I think truly. I think sometimes women that are
Speaker 4: boy moms and overstep their boundaries and oh, my son
Speaker 4: can do no wrong. They're looking for that acceptance and
Speaker 4: a man and their son that they never.
Speaker 3: Got in their dating world. Yeah, like they never had
Speaker 3: that acceptance of like they're kind of like a pick
Speaker 3: me and they never really got picked. So they look
Speaker 3: for that acceptance in their son, like oh this my
Speaker 3: son gonna do whatever for me. My son's gonna do everything.
Speaker 3: And yes, that's so bring and dad. Yeah, yea, I've
Speaker 3: seen that recently. Yes, that's discussed exact which one you're
Speaker 3: talking about.
Speaker 1: It's very weird. But you know where I seen a
Speaker 1: TikTok or.
Speaker 2: It was a video that went viral and it was
Speaker 2: this woman and her son had came around to the
Speaker 2: ring camera because she was at work. You come round
Speaker 2: to the ring camera and he's like, mom, I had
Speaker 2: both my girl h I guess the girlfriends was like friends.
Speaker 2: So he got caught up and one of the girlfriends
Speaker 2: called him little boy, like nine or ten, and he
Speaker 2: was like, mom, help me because I got caught up.
Speaker 2: I go to one of the girls and she had
Speaker 2: the other girl on the phone and they called me
Speaker 2: up and this and this, and she was like, well,
Speaker 2: come out in the house. I'm finna go on. I'm
Speaker 2: finna tell you what to say. I don't care if
Speaker 2: he is nine years old. I don't like that because
Speaker 2: the behavior. Yes, when my son moved to Atlanta, Now
Speaker 2: wasn't Burman Hay go to white school.
Speaker 3: So we moved to Atlanta.
Speaker 2: Not gonna why my son because see, Brice gotta little
Speaker 2: curly you little girls because I haven't watched myself, because
Speaker 2: I'm gona sit in the holes, y'all, not little hole.
Speaker 3: But that's not talk. But the little girls is like.
Speaker 2: Crazy over my son. And every day my son come home,
Speaker 2: he got a new fucking girlfriend or they be friends.
Speaker 3: I know, that's right, not ill the girls.
Speaker 8: I know.
Speaker 2: Yeah, he had a roster.
Speaker 3: So sweet he is. He's a I can see why
Speaker 3: because he's just so. He's very sweet, he's athletic, he's
Speaker 3: a gentleman.
Speaker 2: So yeah, that makes me And I said I had
Speaker 2: to tell him. I'm like, you know, you don't do that.
Speaker 2: We're not gonna talk to friends. You pick you one
Speaker 2: little girl, like I'm trying to teach him at a
Speaker 2: young age.
Speaker 3: We're not running through hoes. You know, pick you one
Speaker 3: little nice girl and you talk to her. We're not
Speaker 3: talking to friends. We're not doing all that.
Speaker 2: But you know, it's crazy at this age that I'm
Speaker 2: at well with my son's age, I feel like he
Speaker 2: gonna be like the type that's gonna be a little
Speaker 2: rain over. Because yes, like one time this little girl,
Speaker 2: he liked to her, and she come around him and
Speaker 2: she hit him with my two fill out the two
Speaker 2: fairty give me no money this equivalent so saying I need.
Speaker 3: My bills paid.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but here that just fell out too too nice
Speaker 2: before and I gave him like ten to twenty dollars
Speaker 2: one of them. I think it was like teen dollars.
Speaker 2: This is a few years ago.
Speaker 3: He gave his money to the girl because.
Speaker 2: Get the whole fucking teams.
Speaker 3: He could have slid a little too, got a lot too.
Speaker 3: You could have gave hard dollars, give a little time,
Speaker 3: and I don't know, you don't give for the Hall gotta.
Speaker 2: Say he had like a little sweetheart, and that's okay.
Speaker 2: I rather than be a sweetheart dead as.
Speaker 3: Being a sweetheart as a man, he's gonna find a
Speaker 3: good woman.
Speaker 2: Yeah, But I don't know because it's a lot of
Speaker 2: good women I here that be fucking over these little boys.
Speaker 2: And once he get it out, I've been I don't know.
Speaker 2: I read to snatch a bitch.
Speaker 4: I don't know people to go through heartbreak as children,
Speaker 4: like all blue boys go through that, all little girls
Speaker 4: go through. But I think it's still good that you're
Speaker 4: teaching him good habits because guess what when he is
Speaker 4: an adult, because we deal with this with me talking
Speaker 4: about oh I had this wrong in my childhood and
Speaker 4: my daddy didn't do this, my mama didn't do this.
Speaker 4: So you're doing your part as a mother, so he
Speaker 4: don't have nothing to blame, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 4: So when he's dating, he had a good relationship with
Speaker 4: his mother. His mother taught him right from wrong. So
Speaker 4: if he's doing wrong, you can only do so much
Speaker 4: as a mother. I think that's what people need to
Speaker 4: realize too. I agree a mother being a good mother.
Speaker 4: You don't know that you're gonna raise somebody who's crazy
Speaker 4: or does like everybody goes in trying when most people
Speaker 4: go in trying to be a good parent. So as
Speaker 4: long as you doing your due diligence to instill in
Speaker 4: him the morals.
Speaker 3: And values that you have as a woman, that's all
Speaker 3: you can do.
Speaker 4: And you can say that you did your part, but
Speaker 4: he can't grow up and being like, oh I need
Speaker 4: therapy because my mom is crazy.
Speaker 3: You're doing your part. I be around you. I see
Speaker 3: how you are when I tell you he is so
Speaker 3: well mannered. Yes, ma'am.
Speaker 4: No, I got him a Christmas gift. I mean you
Speaker 4: would have thought I pulled up with a maybag.
Speaker 5: I love.
Speaker 4: I love having stuff to kids because my nephews are
Speaker 4: so spoiled. I give Jackson something, Oh thanks Auntie. Yeah,
Speaker 4: he gonna play with his other thirty God damn. And
Speaker 4: I'm not saying Carter don't have everything. But Carter is
Speaker 4: just grateful.
Speaker 3: I'm say his name, yeah, yokay, and he's just he's
Speaker 3: just so sweet, yeah, so sweet.
Speaker 4: And let me not say Jackson, because Jackson be grateful.
Speaker 4: It's the little one, it's the little one.
Speaker 3: Jackson be grateful.
Speaker 4: It's the little one. So you're doing an amazing job.
Speaker 4: And I'm glad that you can speak for boy mom
Speaker 4: since you do have kids and we don't.
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I think that that's good because you don't
Speaker 1: want to be the type of woman that's enabling your
Speaker 1: son to do bullshit, because I one hundred percent believe
Speaker 1: when dude A lot of the time, when dudes be
Speaker 1: growing up to be fuck niggas and they be playing
Speaker 1: over women and fucking over them, if be having a
Speaker 1: lot to do with a mama, flucky, yes, like I
Speaker 1: be having a lot to do, it be having a
Speaker 1: lot to do with they damn mamas because they mama's
Speaker 1: enabled their behavior and made them feel like, oh, you
Speaker 1: could do no wrong. You my biggest gifts, my biggest blessing.
Speaker 1: So I'm just gonna go along with whatever you want
Speaker 1: and whatever you do, because I don't want to lose
Speaker 1: our relationship or like lyck sais, sometimes they be depending
Speaker 1: on their son for like that male camaraderie, that male relationship.
Speaker 3: That they never had.
Speaker 1: So they just being don't have money, yeah, and don't
Speaker 1: let it end up being their son end up being successful,
Speaker 1: because then they really be going along with his bullshit
Speaker 1: because he be taking care of them. And so I
Speaker 1: think a lot of the time it be a lot
Speaker 1: of guys moms fought that they be on bullshe because
Speaker 1: they don't have no accountability. The mamas don't have no accountability.
Speaker 1: So now your son don't have no accountability, and he
Speaker 1: think a lot of shit is okay because you be
Speaker 1: letting him feel like it's okay.
Speaker 3: And it's how you take of all that shit.
Speaker 2: Bitch you as a woman, first home, because doing the
Speaker 2: same shit hell, and you be ready to confront.
Speaker 3: Don't buy some shit.
Speaker 5: No, it's the same thing.
Speaker 2: If you feel that, hey, yup, you feel how you feel,
Speaker 2: take that same feeling. You can't cuss this man out
Speaker 2: over here for doing you like that, but then you
Speaker 2: let your son do that shit to another one.
Speaker 3: Maan, that's this your comma.
Speaker 2: That's why this NHA doing you like that, because you
Speaker 2: let your son go out here and do all these
Speaker 2: other women like that.
Speaker 3: That's just so crazy, Like how why is it so
Speaker 3: hard just to be a good person? Oh sure, I
Speaker 3: was thinking about that this morning. I just think you
Speaker 3: either are are you not? I don't really I think
Speaker 3: a lot of stuff just can't be taught. Either you
Speaker 3: got it in you or you're not.
Speaker 1: I think really and truly, and especially now because you
Speaker 1: know I be reading why be listening to my Bible.
Speaker 3: In the Day podcast?
Speaker 1: Like, some people are just innately evil and it just
Speaker 1: can't be removed because that's just who you are, Like
Speaker 1: that shit is inside of you. And some people are
Speaker 1: just good, genuine people with good, genuine hearts. I think
Speaker 1: some people couldn't be a good person the life depended
Speaker 1: on it's It's scary, it is, but I mean that's
Speaker 1: why us as people who are good people, we just
Speaker 1: have to protect ourselves from people like that. And I
Speaker 1: think that's the the part too, because when you're naturally
Speaker 1: a nice person, a genuine person with a good heart,
Speaker 1: a lot of the time it.
Speaker 3: Almost seem like you kind of team to attract them.
Speaker 2: Yeah, my god, it's like they just off you out.
Speaker 3: They're like, oh, this is pray?
Speaker 6: What is that?
Speaker 3: Opposite the track the Sweetest?
Speaker 2: Looky, Hi, leave me alone?
Speaker 3: You are laying. Okay, So any boy mom's out there,
Speaker 3: leave a comment and let us know how y'all feel.
Speaker 3: And if y'all be enabling y'all. Goddamn son because I
Speaker 3: want to hear y'all reason like that makes sense, y'all.
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie. If I see my ex from hospital,
Speaker 3: if I saw his mama to this day, I was like,
Speaker 3: you are you are a week ass, You are a
Speaker 3: week ass whole. You really weak as fuck, And I'm
Speaker 3: gonna go on tour when we go on tour in
Speaker 3: twenty twenty five, and I'm gonna talk about you on
Speaker 3: every day.
Speaker 1: I mean, because I think too, Like Bee Len said,
Speaker 1: you're a woman first, and I think sometimes these same
Speaker 1: women be forgetting the trauma that they went through with
Speaker 1: these men, and then you're aiding and traumatizing.
Speaker 2: A young girl because a lot of women do not heal.
Speaker 1: From a certain street that men be doing to them,
Speaker 1: and they carry it on through out they life. It
Speaker 1: make it hard for them to get in new relationships.
Speaker 1: It make it hard for them to love on their
Speaker 1: kids properly.
Speaker 3: Yep, I'm gonna tell y'all.
Speaker 1: Because the trauma that they went through with the men,
Speaker 1: because y'all fucking mama was enabling, yo.
Speaker 3: Ask that's what is shit starting.
Speaker 4: I was in therapy and I was talking to my
Speaker 4: therapist about cheating because she went on to explain how
Speaker 4: cheating can be a form of abuse. I agree of
Speaker 4: mental abuse, so I'm not gonna get into what she said.
Speaker 4: It was obviously a private conversation, but I really want
Speaker 4: y'all to like take a deep dive and do your
Speaker 4: google and do some research on like the mental abuse
Speaker 4: and all that stuff that comes with cheating and how
Speaker 4: sometimes they will use that as a form of like
Speaker 4: a control method.
Speaker 3: Yeah, because if I didn't.
Speaker 1: Sign up for this shit, if I didn't consent to
Speaker 1: be in a polygamous relationship knowing that you're gonna be
Speaker 1: dating other people or I'm gonna whatever, Like we have
Speaker 1: an often relationship. If it's just supposed to be me
Speaker 1: and you and you constantly cheating on me, that does
Speaker 1: stuff to people's mental health.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's definitely abused.
Speaker 4: So for the the you're a neighborer, you know, especially
Speaker 4: as his mother allowing you. But like I said, I
Speaker 4: think that goes into wanting acceptance from any man. You
Speaker 4: don't care who it comes from. You just want to
Speaker 4: feel accepted by somebody. So let us know what y'all think.
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Speaker 1: Okay, a time I got too drunk and embarrassing myself
Speaker 1: in public. Ooh, probably when I slipped and filled on
Speaker 1: my back in the club.
Speaker 3: Where was this? You wasn't no?
Speaker 1: So I had went out with my friend. This is
Speaker 1: when I was friends with my friend Marlene. We had
Speaker 1: went out. We had went to like R and B
Speaker 1: night or something, and we was in somebody section and
Speaker 1: we was like sitting up on like the little couch
Speaker 1: in the section, and then I was I got down
Speaker 1: and I was like talking to somebody and like, girl,
Speaker 1: I don't know if the floor was like wet or whatever,
Speaker 1: but I wasn't paying attention because I was drunk and
Speaker 1: I had heels on of course, So like I slipped
Speaker 1: and I fell back, and then I had on a
Speaker 1: white shirt. And y'all know them club floors be dirty
Speaker 1: and wet.
Speaker 3: They had to wipe you down, y'all.
Speaker 1: Like I fell on my back, and luckily, I don't
Speaker 1: think that many people noticed that.
Speaker 3: My homeboy he was there. He was like you good,
Speaker 3: you good, and he was like trying to help me up.
Speaker 3: But it was so embarrassed. So we're gonna move on.
Speaker 1: Yes, now it's time to get into the bowl.
Speaker 3: Boubou bow.
Speaker 1: So for the bed topic, I wanted to talk about
Speaker 1: masturbation and do you feel like if you masturbate a lot,
Speaker 1: does that mean you don't need a man? Because I
Speaker 1: feel like you still need a man in my person, But.
Speaker 5: You're nowhere a lot of times where I am.
Speaker 2: Now, I'll be good with like just masturbating a lot
Speaker 2: of times. YE needs to me the fuck out, y'all.
Speaker 2: I'm masturbated crowd like every day.
Speaker 3: A lot that come with these niggas.
Speaker 2: Though like before, I probably do it to a nigga
Speaker 2: again after yeah, not after strong.
Speaker 3: He got a lot of powerlifting. What's that they not
Speaker 3: doing it? No?
Speaker 4: Yeah, Well I'm not gonna lie. I'm very verbal about
Speaker 4: what I want in the bedroom.
Speaker 3: You tell the niggas. Ain't look like she was like yeah,
Speaker 3: yo me, yes, I give.
Speaker 4: I used directions because you I know you fit the bus.
Speaker 4: Because that I like you a little, I got to say,
Speaker 4: but don't be afraid to do that. But so I
Speaker 4: feel like I'm not gonna lie. I masturbate probably about
Speaker 4: every other day. I get sit in, I beat I
Speaker 4: beat that meat okay, but I will say.
Speaker 3: It's the right I replacement for a man. You know what,
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 4: I'm the type of person like after I masturbate, like
Speaker 4: it be feeling good, but I'll be like I need
Speaker 4: so it made me want to dig more, like I
Speaker 4: be wanting to have sex.
Speaker 3: And I don't know what it is. I just really
Speaker 3: it's something about a body up on me, like I
Speaker 3: need that body. That's what I was gonna say. I
Speaker 3: like the NVC.
Speaker 1: Yes, that's why I feel like masturbation E isn't enough
Speaker 1: for me because it's just something like, don't get me wrong,
Speaker 1: and these days with all the toys and technology, a
Speaker 1: toy could.
Speaker 2: Do everything a man can do. That it can do
Speaker 2: more than what a man can do.
Speaker 3: But it's just something about that body to body contact me.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I like you.
Speaker 2: I love the intimacy part. But if I don't have it,
Speaker 2: or if a nigga just not turning me on enough,
Speaker 2: because you know it's mental with us.
Speaker 3: I'm okay. If you can't mentally stimulate me, then I'm okay.
Speaker 2: With just masturbat. Yeah, but I do rather have that
Speaker 2: intimacy like I do.
Speaker 3: But if not I'm cool like me.
Speaker 6: Y'all know me.
Speaker 3: I love to take me a little z quill. Once
Speaker 3: I get that z quill, let me.
Speaker 2: And really, if I'm using a row, I'm gonna be okay.
Speaker 2: I tried it a few times. I had a rose
Speaker 2: when they first time out, and I tried it, and
Speaker 2: it's just didn't.
Speaker 3: Very right. Maybe they use minds right, No.
Speaker 1: It's just very very strong, like it's no build up.
Speaker 1: In my opinion, I feel like as soon as you
Speaker 1: put it on there, you don't. Yeah, it's over.
Speaker 3: As soon as you turn it on.
Speaker 2: You're like if you'll do with your masturbation edging, I
Speaker 2: like to edge a little bit.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I like to go ahead and get mine.
Speaker 2: You're trying to get yelled in what she's trying to
Speaker 2: make love and do foul playing ship ship about it.
Speaker 1: But that's because I look at masturbation too. Almost it's
Speaker 1: like a stress reliever.
Speaker 3: Probably like I love, get you, pretty girl, get a
Speaker 3: hall experience.
Speaker 2: I'll be pouring my little one. Yeah, I might take
Speaker 2: a little edable. I'm not drinking right now.
Speaker 3: Up a little said.
Speaker 2: So soon as I drove my son, I'll be in
Speaker 2: there getting it down.
Speaker 3: When I driving my back school and when you go
Speaker 3: to sleep back again by two three hours, maybe I
Speaker 3: do that.
Speaker 2: Indeed, i'd be so yeah watching poor I'd be so
Speaker 2: fucking pissed off.
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna watch the last time.
Speaker 4: I was like, cause y'all know, like I like to
Speaker 4: watch lesbian porn. Whenever I do, I like it's something
Speaker 4: about I already don't like me and as it is, so,
Speaker 4: I always want to think about the man I'm dating,
Speaker 4: Like I can't masturbate just off of like thinking about
Speaker 4: six that I had with somebody. But if I'm trying
Speaker 4: to like hurry up or whatever, I'll be watching a
Speaker 4: porn I watched lesbian porn. After I'm done, I'll be like,
Speaker 4: y'all are whole. Yeah, you're discussed, you at.
Speaker 3: Bitch, you gotta hurry. Oh, I'll be feeling so disgusting.
Speaker 2: I don't know, like I am a filthy bitch.
Speaker 3: Why was I watching babies?
Speaker 5: But you're not?
Speaker 3: Like I am so different. I'm not gonna fucking say
Speaker 3: it because I don't. You don't have to say. You
Speaker 3: don't have to say.
Speaker 2: But some of the ship that I like not gay
Speaker 2: porn because I don't want to better think because they
Speaker 2: probably gonna.
Speaker 3: I never think niggasu niggas.
Speaker 6: But you know what, now, okay, you like to watch
Speaker 6: or something.
Speaker 2: If it's a guy that I'm day and I like
Speaker 2: really fuck with him, Like sometimes I will find porn
Speaker 2: like in that body shape or whatever, like how they
Speaker 2: look with them sucking the girl, and I imagine, like
Speaker 2: it is.
Speaker 4: Term is that appenin because I don't know what I
Speaker 4: got on. Well, it's usually when men like to watch
Speaker 4: their woman have sex with some people, so I think
Speaker 4: it's the same thing if a woman likes to watch
Speaker 4: her partner.
Speaker 1: No, that's not that bad girl. I thought she was
Speaker 1: about to say something crazy and you'll be putting your head.
Speaker 3: Like Bart Simpson. She was about to say, yeah, that's
Speaker 3: noth I was like, oh, that's not that's not me.
Speaker 3: I'll see your poorn and it.
Speaker 6: Looked like.
Speaker 3: I don't want a nigga that cheat always.
Speaker 2: But I kind of get out like it kind of
Speaker 2: turned me a little like yeah, thinking about you, Yeah,
Speaker 2: thing like a babbage And that's so weird because if
Speaker 2: I've had on my nether chet on me like I
Speaker 2: can this, but no, it's different from knowing real life.
Speaker 3: In a fantasy. Yeah, okay, this being sneaky. You know
Speaker 3: what I'm saying. I don't want to see none of
Speaker 3: that ship.
Speaker 1: So y'all okay, So with all of us, now that
Speaker 1: we clarified, everybody on the couch watch porn.
Speaker 5: How do y'all feel that?
Speaker 1: Y'all know that porn Hub got men that a stay
Speaker 1: and oh my god, it's being in element bitch.
Speaker 3: Yes, you must ain't been on that in a minute.
Speaker 2: Oh man should be on there in Georgia and I
Speaker 2: have to go to some other poor sights and im
Speaker 2: poorn videos be old, it's funk like, yes.
Speaker 3: Mother, I love Why what the fun with the music.
Speaker 2: In the you know what everybody else Harris, Why I'm
Speaker 2: down here though? What I'm gonna do?
Speaker 3: I'm gonna look at me a little poor hub? Why
Speaker 3: get in my car.
Speaker 5: When I got back to the house.
Speaker 3: That is what you should do? What what sights do? Y'all?
Speaker 3: Use porn Hub?
Speaker 2: Yeah, use porn Hub a lot, or it's a bore
Speaker 2: ex videos, egg videos, worn Hub and then like judging
Speaker 2: me free by me.
Speaker 3: I used to be looking on Twitter. That's why I
Speaker 3: go to now porn Hub. Look, especially if you follow
Speaker 3: Janie just gets down.
Speaker 1: Twitter has like no lots. Twitter has really good porn.
Speaker 1: And what I like about the porn on Twitter is
Speaker 1: that I feel like it gets straight to.
Speaker 3: The point story line. The watering. Yeah with a fucking
Speaker 3: mini skirt, I for real.
Speaker 4: Yeah that's the names being nasty. She posts some good
Speaker 4: stuff because like, I like that she does solo content. Yeah,
Speaker 4: I like a little solo. Sometimes I would wish she
Speaker 4: would just be in the bed, like sometimes she just
Speaker 4: be at the chiropractor.
Speaker 3: Nigga break her back. She start rubbing up Coolie in
Speaker 3: the car.
Speaker 2: I did once watch one of the lads and porn
Speaker 2: I like, and she giving a little massage this one man.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I like stuff like that.
Speaker 1: I just don't I like a real If it is
Speaker 1: gonna be a storyline, it just needs to be something real.
Speaker 3: Just knock on the door you want, but come out.
Speaker 3: Some people like that build up. They neither. I like
Speaker 3: straight to the point.
Speaker 2: I'm a Twitter girl, porn hub girl.
Speaker 4: But we all agree masturbation does not take the place
Speaker 4: of a man though, right, No, you.
Speaker 3: Still needed man sometimes not she need another shine y'all. Okay,
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Speaker 3: about bow Bow Bow bow Bao. Okay, Allels. So weird.
Speaker 4: It's so inappropriate for making this my bop of the
Speaker 4: week this week. What well, just because of everything we
Speaker 4: were just talking about. And it's a gospel song because.
Speaker 3: Y'all know I have been consistently going to church and
Speaker 3: I have been the Lord your heart, my heart, He
Speaker 3: created me in his image. Amen, Amen, Okay.
Speaker 4: But yeah, so I have a gospel playlist and not
Speaker 4: always like add like random songs that I like. This
Speaker 4: is not a new song, it's an older song. It's
Speaker 4: a song called Refiner by Maverick City. So it's just
Speaker 4: about you know, God redefining your life and you know,
Speaker 4: getting everything right and just staying on track and just
Speaker 4: believing him.
Speaker 3: One thing.
Speaker 4: I feel like, it don't matter what you go through
Speaker 4: in life, it can feel like the world is crumbling.
Speaker 3: Down on you.
Speaker 4: But I always tell people that I got on live
Speaker 4: and I said to this morning, it does not rain forever,
Speaker 4: and whatever you're going through, this too shall pass. And
Speaker 4: I am a person who I'm the most dramatic person
Speaker 4: on this earth. But when I tell you, baby, God
Speaker 4: has put his hand on me, and I'm very serious
Speaker 4: right now when I tell you I live a very
Speaker 4: blessed life and everything He has given me and done
Speaker 4: for me, I am really a true testament of just
Speaker 4: keep going and just keep waking up and keep trying,
Speaker 4: and just all you can do is work on yourself.
Speaker 4: You can't change how other people treat you, you can't
Speaker 4: change with other people do to you, you can't change
Speaker 4: how other people perceive you.
Speaker 3: All you can do is work on yourself and just
Speaker 3: keep pushing it. So, yeah, that's my bop of the week.
Speaker 3: Refiner by Maverick City. I didn't go. I feel like
Speaker 3: I heard. I feel like I probably knowed it. I
Speaker 3: can't sing it because he kind of in a hot note.
Speaker 3: Oh I don't know that, So I don't think I
Speaker 3: know that. That's a white man named m m okay,
Speaker 3: and I thought that's what I've seen on your No,
Speaker 3: it was it was a back it's him.
Speaker 2: Oh okay, he like a new age of.
Speaker 3: A new movie. Okay, but yeah, yeah, that's the that's
Speaker 3: my little bop. You know what I'm saying. I be
Speaker 3: going to church and getting the word.
Speaker 4: I be going to church every Sunday, whether if I'm
Speaker 4: at home, I always stream it or I actually go.
Speaker 4: I've been really consistent in that in twenty twenty five.
Speaker 4: So I'm really proud of myself for that.
Speaker 3: Are you even am?
Speaker 1: I'm proud of you too. I start going to church
Speaker 1: on Sundays. I always stream church, but I need to
Speaker 1: start going physically.
Speaker 3: You know, Yeah, you gonna ca Yeah.
Speaker 4: I think that was my thing to do my acting
Speaker 4: classes and come to church. So I've been consistent with
Speaker 4: those two things.
Speaker 3: Okay, I know what your boppy is.
Speaker 5: Fact she couldn't wait, girl.
Speaker 2: So Drake Party next Door came out with an album.
Speaker 2: They came out with an album, y'all and it's y'all
Speaker 2: so good, so good, It's so good.
Speaker 3: So it's.
Speaker 2: One da give me a hugg And they came in
Speaker 2: with the eye miss.
Speaker 3: See.
Speaker 1: I'm also a Party next Door person. I feel like
Speaker 1: if you like his music, then you're gonna think the.
Speaker 3: Album is good.
Speaker 1: I've always been a person who really like like Party
Speaker 1: next Door, and I think whenever him and Drake collapse together,
Speaker 1: like out of all the songs that they've ever made,
Speaker 1: I don't feel like they have no Missi's prior to
Speaker 1: the album because that Padre I okay, but that's like, okay,
Speaker 1: this is one song kind of like twenty one.
Speaker 3: But what my song is my favorite song? I can
Speaker 3: agree with you on that one. What you thinking about? Okay?
Speaker 3: No Kida is my favorite song? That's a hit. No
Speaker 3: Kida is such a great song. Is he heavy? You
Speaker 3: want to do the robot?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 5: Not Yeah, you get down?
Speaker 3: She cut a run. No, I'm telling you.
Speaker 5: You hear that song?
Speaker 2: Girl, You're gonna bust a move yea. My best friend
Speaker 2: Lid shout out to list.
Speaker 1: She had posted on her story the other day because
Speaker 1: she was listening to the album and she was like,
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry, but this album slept so bad, and
Speaker 1: she posted this clip of like these people from the eighties.
Speaker 3: DNC and I don't know if you hear it. I did.
Speaker 1: I did, But it was so fucking funny because that's
Speaker 1: what the that's what the damn song make you want
Speaker 1: to do?
Speaker 3: You want to be like?
Speaker 4: Yeah, that song, I will say, it's a few that
Speaker 4: I did, Like I would say the album as a whole,
Speaker 4: it's a good album.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's cool. I think so what you think. I think.
Speaker 4: For this to be his first project after everything, it
Speaker 4: should have been a solo Drake and it should have
Speaker 4: been hardest.
Speaker 3: Fun Like he should have gotten to that. I just
Speaker 3: flipped the switch.
Speaker 4: He should have been in that bag, you know what
Speaker 4: I'm saying, Like it was time to pop yr ship Like, yeah,
Speaker 4: I'm still Drake, you know what I'm saying. I get
Speaker 4: it because it was a Valentine's Day album. It's a
Speaker 4: good album, but I don't think that was the correct
Speaker 4: response to gn X.
Speaker 1: But do you think it was a respond Yeah, because
Speaker 1: he was talking about it. I mean he did talk
Speaker 1: about it on like I think. I think I only
Speaker 1: heard him talk about it on one song. But I
Speaker 1: feel like that's probably still coming.
Speaker 4: I think he's trying to move past it, like okay, man,
Speaker 4: you hate me up by gn x's Kendrick album.
Speaker 3: G nxxserve doesn't mean and L.
Speaker 4: He ate that.
Speaker 3: I deserve it. That's what I'll be saying. Face.
Speaker 2: I'll be listening to that year when I be on
Speaker 2: a tread.
Speaker 3: So that's what I say. I'm a Kendrick frand I'm
Speaker 3: a Drake fan.
Speaker 4: I think Drake's album it has some it has some
Speaker 4: bangers on there, but as a whole, it's not something
Speaker 4: I can play.
Speaker 3: Through front to bed. Yeah, I can't play. It's got
Speaker 3: some skips in there.
Speaker 1: I just think he was backing his South. Like to me,
Speaker 1: that album kind of reminds me of like so Far Gone.
Speaker 2: Okay, he was like in his South far gone bag
Speaker 2: ain'trake fan.
Speaker 3: I will say so far.
Speaker 1: Because so far Gone if you think about it, like, Okay,
Speaker 1: he was doing the rapping, but he was singing the light.
Speaker 1: It was kind of an emotional album. Then he did
Speaker 1: a lot of crossovers with like other women on the
Speaker 1: album and stuff because he has like a yebba on
Speaker 1: this album, pim and then Pim Pimmy, and he has
Speaker 1: like a few other I think we mean maybe on air.
Speaker 3: I get what he was trying to do. He's trying
Speaker 3: to win the bitches back.
Speaker 4: Is because the bitches walking all yeah, we stopped working
Speaker 4: and weeping.
Speaker 2: Paul's ain't shukar ass checks his Kendrick. She's trying to
Speaker 2: get us to dance again.
Speaker 5: So I get it.
Speaker 3: I get it. I feel it her.
Speaker 4: It wasn't quite I know he still got it in
Speaker 4: him though, but it wasn't quite the response that I
Speaker 4: was hoping for to the g NA.
Speaker 3: That man ain't trying to respond, it would have been me,
Speaker 3: I want to respect like that. It ain't happy.
Speaker 4: But no, but he should have dropped a club banger
Speaker 4: that was so crazy that it made people be like,
Speaker 4: I don't give a fuck, and no, Kiya is good.
Speaker 1: But it's not good enough to let us forget a
Speaker 1: minor But I think people gonna forget that anyway.
Speaker 3: There all the time. No, we are not like us
Speaker 3: one four Grammy, I can come out with it.
Speaker 2: Make nobody forget about this. She he doing exactly what
Speaker 2: he posted to keep it on. I feel you would
Speaker 2: it happened in twenty twenty four.
Speaker 3: That's go here.
Speaker 1: I just feel like spinning a whole album trying to
Speaker 1: like make a comeback to somebody from some sheep.
Speaker 3: That's what up.
Speaker 1: That's laying as hell. You're still drake at the end
Speaker 1: of the day. You don't really have to have a comeback.
Speaker 1: That's why I feel like he mentioned it on like
Speaker 1: one or two songs, and.
Speaker 4: So let me ask y'all this though, because I saw
Speaker 4: a discourse about the Melissa Ford bar shout out to Melissa,
Speaker 4: that's our girl.
Speaker 3: So a lot of people to leaning what they see.
Speaker 4: So basically he said, shout out to the sixth Melissa,
Speaker 4: you a legend.
Speaker 3: What was the bar?
Speaker 1: He yeah, he said, shout out to Melissa for you
Speaker 1: a legend from the six Take to see you with
Speaker 1: a dick sucker or something.
Speaker 4: So back dick because she's allegedly because she he sits
Speaker 4: on the couch next to Joe Budden on the Joe
Speaker 4: button posse.
Speaker 2: They said Joe's second Well I don't know literally no,
Speaker 2: but he was.
Speaker 3: Just saying, like Joe be on his dick, yeah or
Speaker 3: whatever because Joe.
Speaker 4: Now, I don't know if y'all remember this, but Joe,
Speaker 4: Joe did release some dish tracks to Drake a few
Speaker 4: years ago.
Speaker 3: Like this is like like recent. You know, Joe, don't
Speaker 3: get in that stew. And he got in the stew
Speaker 3: and gave Aubrey some bars. Now Aubrey didn't respond, I said, Aubrey, like,
Speaker 3: I know that means right, Drake didn't respond, but the
Speaker 3: bars weren't bad.
Speaker 4: I mean, I know how everybody feels about Joe, but
Speaker 4: Joe actually he's very he's an intellectual. He can really
Speaker 4: he's witty. So with that being said, Melissa, you know
Speaker 4: she put the song in her bio, and I mean
Speaker 4: anybody would be excited to be shout out by Drake,
Speaker 4: Let's be honest. But people were like, Melissa took the
Speaker 4: bait because Drake don't respect you. He's just you using
Speaker 4: you to take a shot at Joe. So how do
Speaker 4: y'all think that Drake meant that? Do you feel like
Speaker 4: he was really genuinely shouting Melissa out? Or do y'all
Speaker 4: feel like.
Speaker 3: Hell, mom shout out? Since then you probab just like
Speaker 3: you said, used her as an used her as a
Speaker 3: pawn together, what you think I would have failed for
Speaker 3: it to? Drake said, I would have worked on me
Speaker 3: out here. I mean would have worked on me. I
Speaker 3: know I would have took the first flight out was
Speaker 3: heard the beat coming in here. I just heard my
Speaker 3: name ship.
Speaker 1: But I don't know, I feel like it's a little
Speaker 1: bit of boat Like I feel like he definitely possibly
Speaker 1: was trying to use her as a pawn.
Speaker 2: But then you know, like him and her have history,
Speaker 2: like they have history.
Speaker 3: She said that.
Speaker 1: She said, you know they used to date or whatever.
Speaker 1: They're both from Toronto.
Speaker 3: So I also feel like to him, she probably is
Speaker 3: a legend. And I mean Melissa for it is a legend,
Speaker 3: like one of the o G video b Still it's
Speaker 3: final FuG And let me say this. I we said
Speaker 3: this on the podcast when we went on Joe's podcast.
Speaker 4: We said this when Melissa sat right here. One thing
Speaker 4: I will say, I do not like how they treat
Speaker 4: Melissa on that pod. Yes, I told that to her face.
Speaker 4: I told that to them, faith y'all gonna stop sitting.
Speaker 9: On the face the face you don't need spoofie, I said.
Speaker 9: I said that to their faces.
Speaker 4: I said that to Melissa, y'all have got to stop
Speaker 4: acting like this is not Melissa Ford a pioneer, a
Speaker 4: very much a pioneer in this whole Instagram models and
Speaker 4: all this stuff.
Speaker 3: She was the first, the original.
Speaker 4: So I feel like Drake was probably genuinely shouting her
Speaker 4: out because honestly, Melissa Ford is something to have on
Speaker 4: your roster, because not only does she look like that if.
Speaker 3: Y'all really watched his podcast or y'all watched our episode
Speaker 3: with her, she's so that is probably one of the
Speaker 3: smartest women that I have ever spoke to in my life.
Speaker 3: I mean that you can tell she done read a
Speaker 3: few books in her day. Look, Drea's vocabulary is extensive.
Speaker 3: That lady vocabulary is very I mean yeah, and she
Speaker 3: articulates very well. She can get her point across.
Speaker 4: They don't be letting her finish her thoughts a lot
Speaker 4: of times because when it comes to that intellectual the
Speaker 4: only person that can really hang with her is Joe. Yeah,
Speaker 4: because Joe is smart. And I'm not saying anybody else
Speaker 4: on that couch is not smart. That's not what I'm saying.
Speaker 3: They just listen intellectual debates.
Speaker 2: I would like, I wouldn't actually mind seeing the Joe
Speaker 2: podcast being him.
Speaker 3: Ah yeah, so we can really.
Speaker 4: Get down to some good, good deep conversation, you know
Speaker 4: what I'm saying, and minus all the extra nest and
Speaker 4: a woman perspective and a man's perspective because they're both
Speaker 4: two very highly intelligent people. You know, I got to
Speaker 4: watch the podcast. I'm telling you, Melissa is she's very smart.
Speaker 4: I mean, like I said, I knew she was smart,
Speaker 4: but actually having her on the show, I was like, Wow, Okay,
Speaker 4: so she just joined the show, but she got her
Speaker 4: own part, her own podcast as well. But yeah, I
Speaker 4: think Drake was shouting her out. I think the I
Speaker 4: think sometimes people do try to pick on Melissa though,
Speaker 4: so I think that conversation around her drake, oh she
Speaker 4: took the bait.
Speaker 3: I think that was just people just want to bully.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and just probably Jalie because so could people be
Speaker 4: wanting people spot they feel like, oh, I can do
Speaker 4: what you do.
Speaker 3: Okay, we'll do it. Yeah right, okay, what you don't
Speaker 3: listen to me? What's your at my Bible the week?
Speaker 2: And I'm lady sire and he is like, oh, what's
Speaker 2: the not? I don't even know l P B Poodie
Speaker 2: or something, but he's saying that, no, I can't be
Speaker 2: because I'll be robbing.
Speaker 3: I don't know I.
Speaker 6: Dance and I'm like that you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: The mother fucking video and it was a soul trying
Speaker 2: dancers back they dancing.
Speaker 3: I said, damn, what song is that?
Speaker 2: I started playing and my nephew was like, yeah, that's been.
Speaker 3: Out not that it was m J. And job was like,
Speaker 3: I was like, yo, this is not ship name. He
Speaker 3: was like, no, it didn't. It didn't been. It came out,
Speaker 3: but I've been learning the words. It's when they played
Speaker 3: this in the club.
Speaker 2: They probably ain't gonna play that they're done, but that
Speaker 2: is yes, I.
Speaker 3: Know that song, and I learn he's from Florida thine. Okay, yeah,
Speaker 3: that's been my mob. I'm gonna learning sure that about.
Speaker 3: It's l P B P l BP something. It's called Batman. Yep. Yeah,
Speaker 3: you ate you aint down my girl. Period.
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Speaker 3: Okay, you think you could given advice? Good, they need
Speaker 3: to give me advice. You are good at giving advice.
Speaker 3: I just don't take my own advice. No, you're really
Speaker 3: good at giving advice.
Speaker 1: I think we all from there a little bit give
Speaker 1: the advice, but when it comes to taking it ourselves.
Speaker 3: To your nigga, can I can I get one more job? Oh?
Speaker 3: You are Yeah? You want to drink? You want a
Speaker 3: shot or got a shot right here? Oh about your drink? Okay, yeah,
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, thank you? Okay, y'all.
Speaker 1: Question number one, Haylex pe Andre and the call. I'm
Speaker 1: twenty six, almost twenty seven and love y'all show. Been
Speaker 1: watching since COVID when y'all first got on eighty five Souths.
Speaker 1: Haven't even watched eighty five since. Just kidding, just kidding,
Speaker 1: but for real, I prefer y'all now, okay, anyway, anyway
Speaker 1: the whole time. I mean, it's what she said. No,
Speaker 1: this is d that's because she puts your girl d
Speaker 1: D you wrong for that. But anyways, any all that
Speaker 1: what she said. Anyway, I've been with my men for
Speaker 1: almost four years. We've been through everything, lies, cheating, living together,
Speaker 1: breaking up except baby mama and daddy, drama shout out
Speaker 1: to my I U D. But as I grow and
Speaker 1: get more self aware, I see we just don't align.
Speaker 1: He wants to be a rapper and I'm a.
Speaker 3: Degree about you wrong this whole message she said.
Speaker 1: I'm a degree having nine to five girl, just trying
Speaker 1: to grow in my career. I love him, but when
Speaker 1: I think about our future, I see nothing but resent me.
Speaker 1: Do I talk to him and try to work it
Speaker 1: out or move on gracefully, because let's be real, the
Speaker 1: deck is too good, and I know I'll get lonely
Speaker 1: in his phone. But do I stop the train now
Speaker 1: or reson becoming his baby mama and regretting it later?
Speaker 3: Best your girl, d girl, get that.
Speaker 2: Dangling three four, five more times?
Speaker 3: Didn't get the phone mama, yeah before you.
Speaker 2: Go okay, yeah, because being a baby mama, shot girl,
Speaker 2: you can't turn back the hands of that.
Speaker 3: I ain't that.
Speaker 2: I don't care how good some dicky hills, It ain't
Speaker 2: that goddamn good to become a babe mama. Then you
Speaker 2: have to deal with all this she because I feel
Speaker 2: like she gets ten times worse after Nigga become your
Speaker 2: baby daddy. Like she's saying that ship and then that
Speaker 2: ship a multiply like a whole bunch of other ship
Speaker 2: that she ain't no after that Nigga like hell no, get.
Speaker 3: Your imagine if his song actually take off.
Speaker 2: He gonna be that's gonna be add whatre just read
Speaker 2: That's gonna be in the intro his of you gonna
Speaker 2: be reading in the video before he started the song.
Speaker 3: And then the first time gonna be bad. I got
Speaker 3: me a new one and she yo put you on
Speaker 3: the track. I'm gonna be like, yeah, but you need
Speaker 3: to listen to your first mind. You really answered your
Speaker 3: own question. You don't want to be with him? You
Speaker 3: on the line. You answered your own question.
Speaker 4: I think a lot of times our mind and our
Speaker 4: hearts disagree. The one that I've learned, listen to your mind. Yep,
Speaker 4: don't agree that hard.
Speaker 3: It's gonna have you fucked up. They don't have up.
Speaker 4: Every time your brain you when you take a test,
Speaker 4: you use your brain, you know what I'm saying. When
Speaker 4: you have to do important things in life and make
Speaker 4: important decisions, you use your brain.
Speaker 3: I don't. I don't trust this motherfucker.
Speaker 1: I think when something is a good decision and you
Speaker 1: know it's a good decision, you.
Speaker 3: Don't have no doubt.
Speaker 1: When I think of things in life that I made
Speaker 1: like decisions about and I knew it was a good decision,
Speaker 1: I didn't I wasn't questioning it, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: I feel like you're questioning this situation because you know
Speaker 1: it's not a good situation and you probably still want
Speaker 1: to deal with him because you got.
Speaker 3: Feelings to him, and like you said, it's a they're
Speaker 3: good But I get it. But it's but like Melein said,
Speaker 3: the deck being good.
Speaker 1: Is it worked that nigga becoming your baby daddy? Probably not,
Speaker 1: So I feel like you need to cut that situation
Speaker 1: off because a lot of the time, if by a
Speaker 1: certain age, I'm not saying, I do feel like you
Speaker 1: can make it it any point in life. But sometimes
Speaker 1: if a man don't have nothing going on by a
Speaker 1: certain point and he's just sally pouring everything into his
Speaker 1: rap career and he not doing nothing else on the side,
Speaker 1: that's a little bit of a red flag to me.
Speaker 2: Now, you ain't talking about you need diapers for the
Speaker 2: child and all that shit. You gotta wait to one
Speaker 2: of the niggas songs hit, all right before he can
Speaker 2: buy some goddamn loves like.
Speaker 3: Luck with them.
Speaker 2: And you know, I ain't even gonna laugh at that.
Speaker 2: You know what I ain't gonna say, Man, don't get
Speaker 2: with them niggas. That's trying to be a rapper, My
Speaker 2: favorit daddy to this day, still trying to be a
Speaker 2: rapper and now rapping in jail right now, probably for
Speaker 2: a hundred bund of hot pockets because he child. I
Speaker 2: ain't later a day.
Speaker 3: But that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: And now see she just prove. I feel like he
Speaker 2: gonna still be he twenty six y'all?
Speaker 3: Did she say, oh, here, y'are? She said, well, she.
Speaker 1: Said, she's twenty six, almost twenty seven. He gonna still
Speaker 1: be trying to be rapping when you forty seven?
Speaker 2: Just letting God right now he's showing up to the
Speaker 2: baby school on career day repping, and God damn.
Speaker 5: The kid.
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, so yeah, move on, move I think, all right,
Speaker 3: Question number two, I need to vent and figure out
Speaker 3: how to move forward from this situationship. I'm having an
Speaker 3: affair with.
Speaker 4: A policeman six years older than me who has a
Speaker 4: three month old baby. We met at a party he
Speaker 4: hosted and I made a move on him.
Speaker 3: Blame the drink.
Speaker 4: I don't usually initiate, but he was fine, and I
Speaker 4: have a thing for a man in the uniform, so what.
Speaker 3: The next day he hit me up and I invited
Speaker 3: him over. He chilled for a few hours, stepped out
Speaker 3: to take a call, then came back and let's just
Speaker 3: say we did more than talk, y'all. It was baby
Speaker 3: making six best I ever had. He knows what I want,
Speaker 3: and while I'm not looking for a relationship, I do
Speaker 3: want something consistent, which he's cool with. Take note what
Speaker 3: she said right there. He's honest.
Speaker 4: I like him and I want to keep spending time
Speaker 4: with him, But he lives with his baby mama.
Speaker 3: He's got a busy he wants he lived with his
Speaker 3: baby mama. He consistently can't come cry. He's got a
Speaker 3: busy schedule and a new born. I don't want to
Speaker 3: get in the baby three months three months, and I
Speaker 3: don't want to get in the mix of that.
Speaker 4: I just want to bring peace and happiness, but I
Speaker 4: also want me time to How do I keep this
Speaker 4: going without being naggy or pushy, just a girl asking
Speaker 4: for advice.
Speaker 3: You shouldn't want to get in the middle of there.
Speaker 3: You need to leave their family alone.
Speaker 2: Three months of baby and your police ofuser and all
Speaker 2: police house for behes baby.
Speaker 3: That's what I okay. It's God damn, get my tickets
Speaker 3: thrown out.
Speaker 2: That's how you need to be using him for because
Speaker 2: I ain't else finna comprom.
Speaker 3: This year, ain't where is baby mama?
Speaker 2: Shouldn't even have to ask he's with his baby mama
Speaker 2: in now because we already knew that well we are.
Speaker 3: So let me tell you where she's a liar. At
Speaker 3: she said, I want something consistent, but I'm not looking
Speaker 3: for a relationship. You know what's consistent a relationship. You
Speaker 3: want a relationship and this man cannot give you that.
Speaker 4: I want women to stop lying to ourselves so we
Speaker 4: can be in a situation.
Speaker 3: He gave you some good dick. Now you done got digmatized.
Speaker 3: And that's the truth.
Speaker 4: Because at the end of the day, if this man
Speaker 4: left his family right now and say I want to
Speaker 4: be with you, you finish get in a relationship. You
Speaker 4: got your lying to yourself. You want your me time,
Speaker 4: you don't get no me time. You get some dick
Speaker 4: and grown about his day. I don't know when we
Speaker 4: got into this world where side men and side women
Speaker 4: start feeling like they owe you anything outside of dick.
Speaker 4: That's why I don't sign up for situations like.
Speaker 3: You'll get trapped in and you look up you talking
Speaker 3: about hey, but you know what.
Speaker 2: A lot of times too, I don't even think that
Speaker 2: we can just blame it full it on good dick.
Speaker 2: I think sometimes a lot of women just be having
Speaker 2: low self esteem and they just go for whatever they
Speaker 2: can because they'd be horrible and trash. A lot of
Speaker 2: times and aga, just what else?
Speaker 3: Yep, I get that because I'm not gonna sit up parently.
Speaker 4: I mean, I've talked about that. I've been in a
Speaker 4: situation not like this, but I've been in a situation
Speaker 4: where I'm like and I look back and I'm like,
Speaker 4: what were you doing?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 4: So I think for you, you want to be in
Speaker 4: a relationship, You want me time, You want somebody to go,
Speaker 4: get somebody that you can have to give. And I
Speaker 4: think as women, we just got to do better and
Speaker 4: realize what we want.
Speaker 3: Now. If you was really like, I don't care what
Speaker 3: he do. I'm having a good time. I'm not saying
Speaker 3: that's okay.
Speaker 4: But men gonna find a woman, yeah, because if it
Speaker 4: ain't you, it's gonna be somebody else. Y'all need to
Speaker 4: learn that these men really, they really don't care. They
Speaker 4: just it's somebody.
Speaker 1: Ain't somebody who's gonna be okay with they she and
Speaker 1: not only that, it's a fun time because you me
Speaker 1: and be looking at like, oh well, she don't stress
Speaker 1: me out, of course, because you don't got to deal
Speaker 1: with the ship that the wife and the baby mama
Speaker 1: got it out. She gotta deal with helping him with
Speaker 1: his business or his nine to five or whatever he
Speaker 1: got going on.
Speaker 3: She gotta deal with his bad attitude.
Speaker 2: And she gonna always be fun until that next woman
Speaker 2: because she's hart put her no where either. Now you
Speaker 2: have a hell with your main bitch, hand your side,
Speaker 2: bitch yho.
Speaker 3: And now he's gonna be running on the baby mama,
Speaker 3: and she got some side dick and now she happy.
Speaker 3: Now you just make it up. Well, I'm just saying,
Speaker 3: you want a man, you want a man, and that's okay.
Speaker 3: Leave the situation alone. I agree, let it go. I
Speaker 3: think you better let it go.
Speaker 1: You do want to be in a relationship. It was
Speaker 1: a lot of inconsistency. Yeah, talking about I want consistency.
Speaker 3: You want if you want consistency, that's a relationship.
Speaker 2: Consistent.
Speaker 1: Well, he'd probably be coming to see her when he's
Speaker 1: time for his nice shoes.
Speaker 3: Literally they probably be. He'd probably be handcuffing Hu Walmart robbed.
Speaker 2: That is a good role play, that rod play. You
Speaker 2: driving in your car, then the lights on and you
Speaker 2: get pulled off and then you and the.
Speaker 3: I can see Drake doing that like that. I may
Speaker 3: or may not. I'm doing it. I'm going for the
Speaker 3: role play roll away, but I want to drive a car.
Speaker 3: I want to be the police.
Speaker 2: I want to put you along with.
Speaker 5: This because I'm trying to borrow.
Speaker 3: Police gone pulling people over with the in and they're
Speaker 3: all funny. Oh god, Okay, let everybody know where can
Speaker 3: you find you?
Speaker 4: What you got coming up, what you're working on, anything
Speaker 4: that we can expect, all that good stuff.
Speaker 3: Okay, y'all can follow me in be laying on the
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Speaker 2: I haven't been on eight in classes. I'm doing stand
Speaker 2: up comedy. I'm practicing and shut out the list because
Speaker 2: she'd be there. She been coming to every show. He
Speaker 2: ain't no sign that fine joke that I have told
Speaker 2: seven times in a row, and I'll be laughing. I'll
Speaker 2: be laughing the hardest funk. I heard a joke for
Speaker 2: thirteen Oh, she said, pulled up every time. Okay, Oh,
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Speaker 4: because around Halloween time, you did a serious skit that
Speaker 4: was really like a horror skit that was really really good.
Speaker 4: So I think that's cool too that you do that,
Speaker 4: because I think a lot of people who are like comedians,
Speaker 4: they shot away from showing another side to them. So
Speaker 4: I think that was like, it was really cool to
Speaker 4: see as somebody who's like consumed your content, like I'm
Speaker 4: your friend, but I've also consumed your content as a fan,
Speaker 4: so to see that side of you was like surprising
Speaker 4: for me.
Speaker 3: I'm like, what is it. I'm trying not to get typecasts. Yeah,
Speaker 3: that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: I started off doing a lot of serious stuff and
Speaker 2: people just then gravitate or take that serious is they do?
Speaker 2: Like I feel like a lot of times comedy and
Speaker 2: stuff is so easier to push that. So I'm like, okay,
Speaker 2: now I got the comedy part.
Speaker 3: Let me see what.
Speaker 4: Cause I think, like, okay, think about like a Jamie Foxx,
Speaker 4: Like he started off as Wanda doing all the shuff,
Speaker 4: but then it's like when he does his.
Speaker 2: Serious role and they kill it, man, you forget that
Speaker 2: they even started off at community comedy.
Speaker 4: Yeah, so it's definitely it's definitely possible. I think even
Speaker 4: with Eddie Murphy and he did dream Girls, like oh yes,
Speaker 4: like that was a serious role for him, you know,
Speaker 4: used laughing at him. So I think that you are
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Speaker 3: But where my girls at from the front to bag Whill?
Speaker 3: Is your feeling that put one hand up? Can you
Speaker 3: repeat that trying to take my mancy? I don't need that.
Speaker 3: Don't play yourself, But my girls at from the front
Speaker 3: tobag will is your feeling that put one hand up?
Speaker 3: Can you repeat that trying to take my mancy? I
Speaker 3: don't need that?
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Speaker 3: Lay me because I'm ana make it hey me. If
Speaker 3: you decide to mess with my.
Speaker 7: Shup, you down to the side making red eyes that
Speaker 7: you don't mess up this time when my girls at
Speaker 7: when up front to back, whether is your feeling next?
Speaker 3: Put one hand up? Can you repeat that, try to
Speaker 3: take my man? See y'all don't need that. Don't pay yourself.
Speaker 3: Where my girls at front of front to bath, so
Speaker 3: that you're feeling that, put one hand up? Can you
Speaker 3: repeat that, try to take my man? See y I
Speaker 3: don't need that.
Speaker 8: You mustline the rules, don't come closer in anything that
Speaker 8: be long, sue me, he mind my profencey.
Speaker 5: My face, pull my hands up? Can you repeat that,
Speaker 5: try to take my mon? Y'all know I don't we
Speaker 5: my girls ass from the front to back. Whether is
Speaker 5: your feeling that?
Speaker 3: Here's your need that trying to take my man?
Speaker 5: Say, y'all don't need to as.
Speaker 3: So, don't take yourself. I'm say frin of friends the back?
Speaker 3: Well is your feeling that? Go my hand up? Can
Speaker 3: you repeat that, trying to.
Speaker 5: Take my man?
Speaker 1: See y'all don't need that, and don't play yourself. Where
Speaker 1: my girls at front of fronts of bag?
Speaker 3: What did you feeling that? Put one hand up? Can
Speaker 3: you repeat that, trying to take my man? Say, y'all
Speaker 3: don't need that? D b lad
Speaker 5: That was an walk off, that was gonna walk off,
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