WEBVTT - H'eron Heroines FT. Blynn Cuhh 0:00:00.040 --> 0:00:01.680 A lot of the time when dudes be growing up 0:00:01.920 --> 0:00:04.240 to be fuck niggas and they be playing over women 0:00:04.280 --> 0:00:06.200 and fucking over them, it be having a. 0:00:06.120 --> 0:00:09.079 Lot to do with they mama flucky. Yes, like it 0:00:09.200 --> 0:00:09.720 be having. 0:00:09.560 --> 0:00:10.760 A lot to do it. 0:00:10.800 --> 0:00:13.600 Be having a lot to do with they damn mamas 0:00:13.600 --> 0:00:16.800 because they mama's enabled to behavior and made them feel like, oh, 0:00:16.840 --> 0:00:19.759 you could do no wrong. You my biggest gifts, my 0:00:19.800 --> 0:00:20.680 biggest blessing. 0:00:20.800 --> 0:00:21.439 So I'm just. 0:00:21.360 --> 0:00:23.880 Gonna go along with whatever you want and whatever you do, 0:00:23.960 --> 0:00:26.799 because I don't wanna lose our relationship, or like Lyck said, 0:00:26.920 --> 0:00:30.400 sometimes they be depending on their son for like that 0:00:30.600 --> 0:00:33.760 male camaraderie, that male relationship that they never had. 0:00:34.000 --> 0:00:36.760 So they just being a don't let them have money. 0:00:36.520 --> 0:00:38.360 Yeah, and don't let it end up being their son 0:00:38.440 --> 0:00:40.560 end up being successful, because then they really be going 0:00:40.560 --> 0:00:43.479 along with his bullshit because he be taking care of them. 0:00:43.840 --> 0:00:46.199 And so I think a lot of the time it 0:00:46.400 --> 0:00:49.080 be a lot of guys moms fought that they be 0:00:49.200 --> 0:00:52.560 on bullshit because they don't have no accountability. The mamas 0:00:52.600 --> 0:00:54.880 don't have no accountability, So now your son don't have 0:00:54.920 --> 0:00:56.880 no accountability, and he think a lot of shit is 0:00:56.920 --> 0:00:59.880 okay because you be letting him feel like it's okay. 0:01:00.200 --> 0:01:03.000 Yeah, and it's like you say, bitch you as a woman, 0:01:03.080 --> 0:01:06.920 first home because doing the same ship hell, and you 0:01:07.040 --> 0:01:09.039 be ready to confront. Don't buy some ship. No, it's 0:01:09.040 --> 0:01:10.880 the same thing if you feel that way when you 0:01:10.920 --> 0:01:15.680 feel about him. Hey, yup, you feel how you feel? 0:01:37.640 --> 0:01:40.520 What's up, y'all is your girl lex. 0:01:40.360 --> 0:01:42.760 P and it's your girls raising a cold and you 0:01:42.800 --> 0:01:45.720 are tuned in to another episode of poor. 0:01:45.560 --> 0:01:48.080 Minds, whereas drunk mind speaks sober. 0:01:48.240 --> 0:01:54.080 But we gotta guess today, we gotta guess saurday. 0:01:54.520 --> 0:01:54.720 Now. 0:01:54.840 --> 0:02:00.400 Listen, y'all have been blowing up our comments asking for 0:02:00.640 --> 0:02:03.640 this person to come and sit on the count. Yes, 0:02:04.080 --> 0:02:08.480 so we have the one and only the actress, her. 0:02:08.560 --> 0:02:11.720 The skipped queen, and the girl. 0:02:11.639 --> 0:02:13.520 Got some vocals on her to should be giving me 0:02:13.560 --> 0:02:14.520 a run for my mother. 0:02:15.160 --> 0:02:19.919 We got the one, the only, Barbieham's finest be letting 0:02:19.919 --> 0:02:30.120 it about. We got fire francess in the buildings today. 0:02:30.240 --> 0:02:31.160 She gonna be mad. 0:02:32.080 --> 0:02:33.679 I can't forget our girl, shak. 0:02:33.520 --> 0:02:35.400 Be laying what's up my girl? 0:02:35.600 --> 0:02:37.400 Y'all. I'm so happy to be on this count. I 0:02:37.440 --> 0:02:42.000 am too. I'm a fisher yay, like. 0:02:42.080 --> 0:02:45.000 Dang, I feel like ever since like me and you 0:02:45.040 --> 0:02:47.000 have been hanging out, people been like, why you don't 0:02:47.000 --> 0:02:48.200 have bee leaning on the shower? 0:02:48.320 --> 0:02:50.280 Why you don't be I'm like, just wait, just get 0:02:50.320 --> 0:02:51.919 me sticking. It's coming. 0:02:52.680 --> 0:02:56.360 I had to practice before I got on to this girl. 0:02:56.680 --> 0:03:02.880 J just everything. I don't know because I was the nervous god. 0:03:03.160 --> 0:03:04.240 Y'all is y'all. 0:03:06.160 --> 0:03:12.960 Don't come around in the kind of way. 0:03:13.400 --> 0:03:15.680 Okay, So first of all, how are you today? How 0:03:15.680 --> 0:03:17.760 you doing? I'm excited you are? 0:03:17.840 --> 0:03:28.880 Okay, you look good? All black moment I made all proud. 0:03:29.440 --> 0:03:33.680 And a hoigh bun Okay. I do love a hog bun. 0:03:36.000 --> 0:03:39.080 Okay. I want wore a hobbun for like a good year. 0:03:39.360 --> 0:03:42.760 Do you remember when we talked you did and that 0:03:42.760 --> 0:03:46.560 bunt because dry hair is long. That bun it was given. 0:03:48.360 --> 0:03:51.240 It was definitely tall. 0:03:51.280 --> 0:03:54.080 Okay in the moment it was cute, but looking back 0:03:54.120 --> 0:03:57.760 on it was like, why that bit so tall? What 0:03:58.040 --> 0:04:02.120 was you doing? My mouth? You gotta make sure that 0:04:02.160 --> 0:04:03.200 should be right. Yeah. 0:04:03.680 --> 0:04:05.280 I had to redo my ship a few times because 0:04:05.280 --> 0:04:09.400 it was so thin, and it's probably because I had 0:04:09.400 --> 0:04:12.120 just got the silk press. So you know si press, 0:04:12.200 --> 0:04:13.080 it'd be like real thing. 0:04:13.240 --> 0:04:15.840 You know she got that other time in the two. Yeah, 0:04:16.720 --> 0:04:21.960 and that's where a thing comes. Like, So what's that? 0:04:21.960 --> 0:04:23.800 That's that's on your mom's side, of your dad's side, 0:04:23.800 --> 0:04:26.240 my dad, your dad's side, you know that mother kind. 0:04:26.279 --> 0:04:28.440 They be having them slick ages. They were having them 0:04:28.440 --> 0:04:30.560 slick edges. See. I had to stop wearing it. 0:04:30.640 --> 0:04:32.280 But I remember because I had to cut my hair 0:04:32.279 --> 0:04:34.560 in a bob because nobody talk about how if you 0:04:34.560 --> 0:04:36.320 wear your hair in the button for a long time, 0:04:36.800 --> 0:04:39.960 it'll start breaking. And it is short in that, like 0:04:40.040 --> 0:04:42.360 the middle part be short. And then I had to 0:04:42.480 --> 0:04:43.400 That's why I had to cut my hair. 0:04:43.400 --> 0:04:45.119 And I had to cut my hair a few times 0:04:45.120 --> 0:04:47.680 and start old, because that's all I do is my hair. 0:04:47.880 --> 0:04:49.919 Like people like my hand long hair. I wear like these. 0:04:50.120 --> 0:04:51.480 It's like, no, you're gonna pull that ship. 0:04:51.839 --> 0:04:54.560 You are, like, my hair can reach goddamn bun. 0:04:54.960 --> 0:04:56.080 You don't. 0:04:57.080 --> 0:04:59.520 I'll talking about something that I do not know nothing 0:04:59.560 --> 0:05:06.480 about it asleep, Rice real slick like you know what 0:05:06.520 --> 0:05:07.160 I'm saying. 0:05:06.960 --> 0:05:11.720 Next to me lying because her hair Consistinitly, you got. 0:05:11.839 --> 0:05:14.080 Okay, okay, So we're gonna start from the beginning. 0:05:14.080 --> 0:05:16.680 Okay, we gonna take it back and ask you a 0:05:16.680 --> 0:05:20.000 few questions about, like, you know, were you always funny 0:05:20.000 --> 0:05:22.400 growing up, Like were you like the class clown or 0:05:22.440 --> 0:05:24.960 were you kind of just like a person that just 0:05:25.000 --> 0:05:26.919 came into doing skits and doing stuff like this. 0:05:28.440 --> 0:05:29.839 I was a class clown. Yeah. 0:05:30.000 --> 0:05:34.159 I definitely got in trouble a whole lot just from 0:05:34.240 --> 0:05:36.800 doing shit like talking too much, being a fucking class 0:05:37.320 --> 0:05:40.840 So yes, and that's how I can tell you, cause 0:05:40.880 --> 0:05:41.359 I don't. 0:05:41.160 --> 0:05:44.640 Remember too much and ship so I used to put 0:05:44.640 --> 0:05:49.040 your your disk o way. Yes a few times. 0:05:49.160 --> 0:05:50.800 Man, I was not there a lot, but I was 0:05:50.800 --> 0:05:52.720 out there. Yeah, I definitely was out there. 0:05:52.880 --> 0:05:54.599 Yeah, I was out there a few times. So I 0:05:54.680 --> 0:05:59.000 remember you probably had a dirty mouth though, No, not 0:05:59.120 --> 0:06:00.120 like cussing people. 0:06:00.520 --> 0:06:03.599 Smart the key Yeah, No, I wasn't cussing that now 0:06:03.600 --> 0:06:05.719 because my mama didn't play this. She like, I was 0:06:05.720 --> 0:06:08.240 scared of my mama. But I definitely had a smart mouth. 0:06:08.640 --> 0:06:10.240 So I used to always end up in the teacher 0:06:10.320 --> 0:06:13.240 for like talking back to the teacher, but not cussing. 0:06:13.160 --> 0:06:16.600 Okay, like I said, and she yeah, like I used to. 0:06:16.520 --> 0:06:19.440 Be in isis like I did for my phone and 0:06:19.480 --> 0:06:21.800 stuff too, especially once I got a phone in school. 0:06:22.160 --> 0:06:25.600 Yeah, I was definitely for sure cussing the teachers all. 0:06:25.960 --> 0:06:27.880 No, like I was just cussing general because you know, 0:06:27.880 --> 0:06:30.200 I hung around the other kind the other cond So 0:06:30.440 --> 0:06:31.719 you better fucking watch it. 0:06:31.800 --> 0:06:35.000 Pal, that's normal to them. 0:06:35.520 --> 0:06:39.400 Hey, you better, I will make you ship bricks. Brother. 0:06:40.480 --> 0:06:43.200 You used to say that. Yeah, I used to be reading. 0:06:43.760 --> 0:06:47.559 I was eating I was yeah, I was eating down. 0:06:48.320 --> 0:06:51.080 I'm white school too, and that ship was yeah like 0:06:51.120 --> 0:06:51.440 when you. 0:06:51.360 --> 0:06:56.520 Said ship like that. Yeah, business, you know what died 0:06:56.560 --> 0:06:57.760 and made you the fucking ball? 0:06:57.960 --> 0:07:03.960 Yeah, you you know a little something? Oh for fucking pizza? 0:07:04.200 --> 0:07:04.880 Yeah? 0:07:05.080 --> 0:07:08.080 Who is p You are on ice, buddy? 0:07:08.200 --> 0:07:12.000 Yeah, you had to give it to get into the 0:07:12.000 --> 0:07:13.720 white slang. When I was in high school, though, I 0:07:13.760 --> 0:07:16.120 hog around the white people. I just didn't get into it. 0:07:16.160 --> 0:07:18.520 You didn't like it. I liked it for them, but 0:07:18.840 --> 0:07:19.680 I tried. 0:07:19.400 --> 0:07:20.760 It for like a week or so. 0:07:20.880 --> 0:07:24.200 It just didn't stick. Yeah, Yeah, it stuck with me. 0:07:24.360 --> 0:07:25.880 I had to get back to cussing the black way. 0:07:26.000 --> 0:07:29.760 Yeah, it's a big difference between like cussing. I remember 0:07:29.840 --> 0:07:32.440 when people cussed like no other race. Yeah, it's a 0:07:32.440 --> 0:07:33.120 little different. 0:07:33.240 --> 0:07:35.840 I remember when my dance teacher was cussing me and 0:07:35.880 --> 0:07:36.640 my best friend Lindsey. 0:07:36.680 --> 0:07:38.680 I'll shout out to Lindsay. We were sitting on the 0:07:38.680 --> 0:07:40.520 balcony like doing something. We ain't had no bites. 0:07:40.520 --> 0:07:43.880 She's like, get your little ship asses right now. 0:07:44.440 --> 0:07:47.520 I said, what is a ship ass shipping my ass? Bitch. 0:07:48.080 --> 0:07:50.080 That's when I started getting on my black side. Yeah, 0:07:50.120 --> 0:07:53.560 I said, ho, bitch, fuck fuck what you're talking about? 0:07:53.560 --> 0:07:56.960 Whole nigga? A nigga was a little crazy, you know 0:07:56.960 --> 0:07:58.560 what I'm saying. You know what I'm saying. 0:07:58.640 --> 0:08:02.280 Shit ass did kind of eat ship, but she eats 0:08:02.320 --> 0:08:03.080 it a different way. 0:08:03.120 --> 0:08:05.640 Yeah, it don't make those things, but that's almost kind 0:08:05.640 --> 0:08:06.600 of why it's so good. 0:08:06.720 --> 0:08:09.680 Yeah, it does make sense that ship so crazy. But 0:08:09.840 --> 0:08:13.080 she was low key calling us dirty a ship ass. 0:08:13.080 --> 0:08:15.560 If you got shitting you ass, you're dirty bad, you. 0:08:15.520 --> 0:08:17.640 Know what I'm saying. So she was she kind of 0:08:17.760 --> 0:08:19.840 ate that down rest in piece to Miss Laura. That's 0:08:19.840 --> 0:08:22.560 a true story. I ain't lie that time. Okay, So 0:08:22.600 --> 0:08:24.080 we're gonna fast forward to. 0:08:24.120 --> 0:08:27.040 The skits, like when did you decide like, okay, maybe 0:08:27.080 --> 0:08:29.800 I can do this like for real, Like who was 0:08:29.840 --> 0:08:32.199 your inspiration to make you like, Okay, I want to 0:08:32.240 --> 0:08:34.880 pick up the video camera and do a skit myself. 0:08:34.960 --> 0:08:38.199 Yeah, dude, I didn't have a fucking job, and I 0:08:38.280 --> 0:08:40.439 think I used to be on Snapchat and I used 0:08:40.440 --> 0:08:42.000 to just do shit. I think I was working like 0:08:42.040 --> 0:08:44.400 at a tax office at the time, and I think 0:08:44.440 --> 0:08:48.520 my very first mistakenly skit was a ghost had stole 0:08:48.720 --> 0:08:52.160 my text money. So it was like a little Sayan's 0:08:52.160 --> 0:08:53.560 like a whole bunch of boys shit. And I post 0:08:53.600 --> 0:08:57.679 that shit on Snapchat and one of my cousins was. 0:08:57.640 --> 0:08:59.480 Like, oh, you need to put that shit on Facebook, and. 0:08:59.480 --> 0:09:02.280 I put on and then I just got to just 0:09:02.320 --> 0:09:04.600 took it from now. But I still didn't know like 0:09:04.679 --> 0:09:07.080 the seriousness with it and who it was, just like 0:09:07.240 --> 0:09:09.960 me just being me. I ain't know the formula the shit, Yeah, 0:09:10.280 --> 0:09:11.080 just doing stuff. 0:09:11.120 --> 0:09:13.240 So I just took it from there. 0:09:13.440 --> 0:09:16.200 And then you know, the most, the most time that 0:09:16.280 --> 0:09:17.800 you do it, the most that you do it, like 0:09:17.840 --> 0:09:21.360 that shit just starts forming on his own. Yeah, So 0:09:21.600 --> 0:09:23.560 it just went from there. It was just like, oh, shit, 0:09:24.080 --> 0:09:26.679 like because I ain't know nothing about that ship. I 0:09:26.760 --> 0:09:28.199 wasn't on the what was it was it? 0:09:28.320 --> 0:09:28.920 Vine Vine? 0:09:29.240 --> 0:09:31.920 I wasn't on Vine days and ship like that. Like 0:09:32.679 --> 0:09:35.240 so I ain't even know nothing too tough about a 0:09:35.280 --> 0:09:36.599 lot of skits and ship like that. 0:09:36.760 --> 0:09:38.719 So it was just like, okay, man, you couldn't tell 0:09:38.760 --> 0:09:40.920 me I wasn't gonna be a Vine star you used 0:09:40.960 --> 0:09:43.040 to be on what I just knew I was finning. 0:09:43.080 --> 0:09:45.720 I said, I'm finna take this six seconds ago straight 0:09:45.800 --> 0:09:52.600 to Hollywood. Three. Yeah, I'm o Vine. 0:09:53.600 --> 0:09:54.520 God that ship was. 0:09:54.679 --> 0:09:56.560 I'm so glad Vine got the leader because if people 0:09:56.559 --> 0:09:58.280 found that, they'll be like, Lex, what the fuck? 0:09:58.400 --> 0:10:01.000 Se I just used to be lurking like I never 0:10:01.080 --> 0:10:03.720 really used to post. I just used to be looking 0:10:03.720 --> 0:10:06.120 at other people's club. No, I was awful, But yeah, 0:10:06.200 --> 0:10:08.080 but Vine, it was only six sick because I feel 0:10:08.120 --> 0:10:09.520 like you could only do so much. 0:10:09.679 --> 0:10:12.960 Yeah, that's what that true talent come in for real 0:10:14.320 --> 0:10:15.160 and make that bit stick? 0:10:15.520 --> 0:10:16.880 Right, wasn't stick? 0:10:17.760 --> 0:10:23.080 When you speaking of steak, when did you know that 0:10:23.160 --> 0:10:25.640 you was on to something? Like? When was you like, okay, 0:10:25.720 --> 0:10:28.120 I should keep doing these Like with Sky they stick 0:10:28.120 --> 0:10:30.200 out of your mind. That kind of was the one 0:10:30.200 --> 0:10:32.280 that popped off and you was like, Okay, I'm gonna 0:10:32.320 --> 0:10:33.319 keep doing these. 0:10:35.920 --> 0:10:36.960 I think. 0:10:40.120 --> 0:10:42.240 It was like these skits that I was doing. I 0:10:42.320 --> 0:10:46.320 used to play this hood dude character and because me, 0:10:46.400 --> 0:10:48.520 I'm kind of like a in my head, I think 0:10:48.559 --> 0:10:51.840 I'm a hood nigga, like I think I'm a hood nigga. 0:10:51.920 --> 0:10:54.280 So I started doing like these hood niggas skits because 0:10:54.280 --> 0:10:55.880 I used to just talk like a hood nigga all 0:10:55.920 --> 0:10:58.480 the time, like I'd be with my homeboys. And I 0:10:58.640 --> 0:11:01.000 just changed my whole little to me and ship, and 0:11:02.800 --> 0:11:04.480 I started doing that ship and it was just like 0:11:05.559 --> 0:11:07.480 folks was s fucking with that ship. Like but I 0:11:07.520 --> 0:11:10.560 was like that fake hood nigga, like the ones that 0:11:10.679 --> 0:11:14.160 go to the store to get the snacks or backwoods 0:11:14.200 --> 0:11:18.600 and ship for the drawer deal little like the little niggles. Yeah, yeah, 0:11:19.000 --> 0:11:20.880 I was like one of them. So once I seen 0:11:20.880 --> 0:11:23.640 that ship, like because all the real niggas was sucking 0:11:23.640 --> 0:11:26.439 with that ship because they're like, man, I know lame as, Like. 0:11:28.120 --> 0:11:29.600 No lame nigga. 0:11:30.280 --> 0:11:31.520 She was the worf. 0:11:32.040 --> 0:11:32.360 I was. 0:11:32.520 --> 0:11:34.160 Yeah, I was danging a roundings and I ain't even 0:11:34.960 --> 0:11:36.800 playing with the with the real money and. 0:11:36.760 --> 0:11:41.800 Ship the drawer. I ain't knowing though, but I just. 0:11:41.760 --> 0:11:44.200 Took that ship incorporated and and that ship kind of 0:11:44.240 --> 0:11:47.280 started going. It was like okay, you can do it, 0:11:47.320 --> 0:11:49.559 like yeah. 0:11:48.840 --> 0:11:51.640 And I want to talk about the aunt character because 0:11:51.640 --> 0:11:54.320 that is my I think that's my favorite one that 0:11:54.360 --> 0:11:56.640 you do, because I feel like everybody has an aunt 0:11:56.720 --> 0:11:59.880 like that to just be in your business going right, 0:12:00.080 --> 0:12:02.480 this shit always be somewhere this fun. 0:12:02.559 --> 0:12:05.640 But she loved you, don't Yeah, so how did you 0:12:05.640 --> 0:12:06.840 come out with that character? 0:12:09.440 --> 0:12:12.080 Lou keep me up one day and was like, let's 0:12:12.080 --> 0:12:14.200 do an uncle in a Hunty character and we go 0:12:14.280 --> 0:12:14.640 to the game. 0:12:14.640 --> 0:12:15.199 I'm like, okay. 0:12:15.320 --> 0:12:17.640 So he gave me the dynamics of it, like okay, 0:12:17.679 --> 0:12:19.960 the Uncle Hunty that's together for a long time. But 0:12:20.440 --> 0:12:22.120 in my head, I'm like, okay, what do the fuck 0:12:22.200 --> 0:12:27.560 what do that look like like? Because whatever I got 0:12:27.559 --> 0:12:31.520 an Aunty. So I went to her page and she 0:12:31.679 --> 0:12:33.480 got like that same little. 0:12:33.200 --> 0:12:33.640 What is it? 0:12:33.640 --> 0:12:37.320 The little twenty seven with the little the little way 0:12:38.320 --> 0:12:41.760 with the gold tooth and be having the gold in 0:12:41.920 --> 0:12:44.680 rings and her husband like they be wearing Nike ship 0:12:44.920 --> 0:12:47.800 drawings and all that shit. But the little old he 0:12:47.880 --> 0:12:49.480 still got the bluetooth and all that shit. So I 0:12:49.520 --> 0:12:51.079 was like, you know what, I'm finna copy my Aunty 0:12:51.160 --> 0:12:54.480 staff yes to this day, because I believe a little, 0:12:54.720 --> 0:12:56.400 So I'm gonna call out because like, she're right in 0:12:56.400 --> 0:12:58.560 front of my videos and like that would brod me, 0:12:58.559 --> 0:13:01.680 Me and my uncle, like we got the sign hair style, 0:13:01.880 --> 0:13:05.839 the sign go cool and I'd be just like, it's 0:13:06.320 --> 0:13:06.680 about you. 0:13:08.920 --> 0:13:11.240 And I told her that like seventeen times. Should she 0:13:11.400 --> 0:13:12.320 still come back? 0:13:12.440 --> 0:13:23.960 And yeah, yeah, that ship is sore, so that's not 0:13:24.000 --> 0:13:24.520 that that ship. 0:13:24.640 --> 0:13:27.160 But yeah, okay. 0:13:26.679 --> 0:13:30.319 Okay, So how did you and lude linka? Like, how 0:13:30.320 --> 0:13:32.199 did y'all become cool and start doing. 0:13:32.880 --> 0:13:36.679 Back in like twenty nineteen, I think Lou was doing 0:13:36.760 --> 0:13:40.400 like Steve Harvey skiz and stuff, and so I used 0:13:40.440 --> 0:13:43.160 to come in and tag it was like Facebook. I 0:13:43.240 --> 0:13:44.800 used to it on Facebook because somebody used to take 0:13:44.800 --> 0:13:47.920 his videos and put it on Facebook, and so I 0:13:47.960 --> 0:13:50.120 found him on Instagram and I used to just come 0:13:50.200 --> 0:13:53.760 in and tag Steve Harbor all the time. And then 0:13:54.640 --> 0:13:56.200 one day he was like we should do something together. 0:13:56.240 --> 0:13:58.800 I'm like, okay, cool, and so he was like he 0:13:58.880 --> 0:14:00.400 hit me up and was like, hey, let's threw like 0:14:00.400 --> 0:14:02.880 this baby boy ski. So at the time this like 0:14:02.920 --> 0:14:05.160 twenty nineteen, I don't know when the fuck baby Boy 0:14:05.200 --> 0:14:07.160 came out. I had watched Baby Boy like one or 0:14:07.160 --> 0:14:10.080 two times, but I ain't no logistics of the shit. 0:14:10.160 --> 0:14:13.200 I'm like, Okay, So on my way down here, I 0:14:13.240 --> 0:14:15.480 was in Birmingham on my way down here to Atlanta driving. 0:14:15.920 --> 0:14:17.520 I had pulled up a certain scene he wanted to 0:14:17.559 --> 0:14:18.000 do and it was. 0:14:17.920 --> 0:14:19.760 When she found the combos in the car. Okay. 0:14:19.960 --> 0:14:22.040 So I watched that shit for like two hours straight 0:14:22.480 --> 0:14:25.000 on my way just driving, just like listening to her 0:14:25.080 --> 0:14:27.000 voice and shit. And we did this shit down here 0:14:27.320 --> 0:14:30.960 and it was like maybe months after I ended up 0:14:30.960 --> 0:14:33.520 posting it. I don't even realize I can sound like Taraji, 0:14:33.800 --> 0:14:36.440 that I can't do her facial all that shit exactly 0:14:36.520 --> 0:14:38.360 until I posted that shit. And that was like my 0:14:38.360 --> 0:14:39.080 first video. 0:14:38.960 --> 0:14:39.560 I ever did. 0:14:39.600 --> 0:14:42.160 It was like a million views. And when I seen 0:14:42.160 --> 0:14:44.560 that shit, ILL seen folks that was up under like, Damn, 0:14:44.600 --> 0:14:47.400 you sound like her, like her facial expressions, because I 0:14:47.440 --> 0:14:49.240 ain't even realize until I've seen that shit. And then 0:14:49.280 --> 0:14:50.720 I went back and looked at that shit and I 0:14:50.800 --> 0:14:52.800 was just like with they comings in my head, I 0:14:52.840 --> 0:14:55.400 was like, damn, I do sound like that whole Like 0:14:56.120 --> 0:14:56.760 what the fuck? 0:14:58.000 --> 0:14:59.960 I'm like, how don't fuck I mad myself sound? 0:15:00.520 --> 0:15:03.760 Yes, I never heard myself like I couldn't hear that ship. 0:15:03.840 --> 0:15:06.440 But when you're doing it, but when you watch it back, yeah, 0:15:06.520 --> 0:15:07.120 it's like damn. 0:15:07.200 --> 0:15:09.400 But I had to watch that ship like thirty sometimes, 0:15:09.800 --> 0:15:11.720 like because the first few times I couldn't hear myself. 0:15:11.720 --> 0:15:12.680 That's so sucking weird. 0:15:13.120 --> 0:15:16.520 But after that we started just doing more ship from 0:15:16.520 --> 0:15:19.360 there and it just went on even from men. Like 0:15:19.400 --> 0:15:23.400 I started realizing like that I can sometimes tweak my voices. 0:15:23.040 --> 0:15:24.880 To sound like people. Yeah, I can't do that ship 0:15:24.880 --> 0:15:28.680 on the spot like some women do, like Pomel. Yeah, 0:15:28.480 --> 0:15:30.600 that sh f me. 0:15:30.800 --> 0:15:33.280 I gotta like listen to it, and then I go 0:15:33.320 --> 0:15:34.680 because you're a one time I was listening to your 0:15:34.720 --> 0:15:44.240 voice and then I like you did. I'm like, she's 0:15:44.280 --> 0:15:45.680 like that she was crossing dress. 0:15:46.560 --> 0:15:48.800 Let me hear it grow. 0:15:53.520 --> 0:15:55.240 But I think that's probably what you be doing, like 0:15:55.240 --> 0:15:56.160 when you listen. 0:15:55.920 --> 0:15:58.600 To something over yeah, pack it up. 0:15:58.680 --> 0:16:03.480 Yeah, talent. It is like to be able to impersonate people. 0:16:03.520 --> 0:16:04.280 That ship is hard. 0:16:04.360 --> 0:16:06.160 I just want to master that ship, like he keep 0:16:06.200 --> 0:16:08.160 on that, give us some ship on the spot and 0:16:08.200 --> 0:16:08.800 she just. 0:16:09.200 --> 0:16:13.880 Jamie FOXX does that really well? That's like a true 0:16:14.160 --> 0:16:15.640 like skill it. 0:16:15.520 --> 0:16:17.400 Is, and I feel like you're on your way though, 0:16:17.480 --> 0:16:20.440 because let me tell you something, when y'all be doing 0:16:20.480 --> 0:16:23.920 in BMF SKI and you'll be acting like the mama, 0:16:24.360 --> 0:16:26.600 that shit be so fucking spot on. 0:16:27.080 --> 0:16:32.280 Yeah, she got her down the kind of yea, she 0:16:32.280 --> 0:16:34.320 could be your mom in real life, and. 0:16:34.240 --> 0:16:34.960 She is so sweet. 0:16:35.000 --> 0:16:38.240 I love her. That is my mom. Shake up on me. 0:16:38.640 --> 0:16:43.359 Her and Raquel from Raising be funny. So when y'all 0:16:43.120 --> 0:16:44.800 do her for the. 0:16:44.720 --> 0:16:47.120 Longest, and I hate that, I doubt myself because for 0:16:47.160 --> 0:16:50.000 the whole entire season, I was like, Okay, I want 0:16:50.000 --> 0:16:52.280 to do her, but I was like, oh, that she's gonna. 0:16:52.040 --> 0:16:52.720 Be so hard. 0:16:52.840 --> 0:16:55.360 And then towards the last episode when she did that woman, 0:16:55.400 --> 0:16:56.760 she was like, I own you, nigga. 0:16:57.800 --> 0:17:00.640 Like I looked at that ship probably three times and 0:17:00.680 --> 0:17:08.879 I got that shit up. It's like, damn the funny. 0:17:08.960 --> 0:17:14.120 I didn't even watch power Yeah, what's it called PowerBook three? 0:17:14.200 --> 0:17:16.879 Power Book? Yeah. I didn't even watch that until I 0:17:16.920 --> 0:17:19.000 saw y'all skins. I was like, I feel like I'm. 0:17:18.920 --> 0:17:21.760 Left out of the yot because every time I mean 0:17:21.840 --> 0:17:27.159 I could even scroll my timeline, TikTok, Facebook, Instagram, whatever, 0:17:27.240 --> 0:17:29.600 it was like everybody had it on their story. 0:17:29.320 --> 0:17:32.240 Because it be so funny. How good that y'all have 0:17:32.359 --> 0:17:33.159 them characters? 0:17:33.480 --> 0:17:36.639 Yes, it's so good. I know me and will be 0:17:36.640 --> 0:17:38.560 seeing my brother. 0:17:38.960 --> 0:17:41.120 I don't even watch these. I'm like, I don't. 0:17:41.520 --> 0:17:44.320 I don't want to last. But you know, it's so 0:17:44.400 --> 0:17:46.520 hard that I found it. Like people be like, oh, 0:17:46.560 --> 0:17:47.040 you can. 0:17:46.960 --> 0:17:49.720 Act, you can act. I know how to act. 0:17:49.760 --> 0:17:52.040 I think I would do really good in a bio 0:17:52.040 --> 0:17:56.040 movie because me just acting, like giving out a character, 0:17:56.760 --> 0:17:59.159 like you have to make that person come like it 0:17:59.359 --> 0:18:02.320 just be like this given be laying but me acting 0:18:02.359 --> 0:18:04.600 other people, it is so easy and I ain't gonna lie. 0:18:04.600 --> 0:18:06.240 I thought that ship like, I was like, oh, bitch, 0:18:06.320 --> 0:18:08.720 I can act. Then when I went to acting classes 0:18:08.760 --> 0:18:09.920 and they give you some ship that you got to 0:18:09.960 --> 0:18:13.359 bring the life, I was like, I talked that ship 0:18:13.560 --> 0:18:15.320 so I can see how that ship goes, so I 0:18:15.359 --> 0:18:15.920 can mock you. 0:18:16.160 --> 0:18:17.879 Like that ship hardy I was. 0:18:18.600 --> 0:18:20.520 I mean, she goes to acting classes with me now, 0:18:21.160 --> 0:18:22.560 And when I tell y'all, I was like, I came 0:18:22.600 --> 0:18:23.720 in here and I was talking about I was like, oh, 0:18:24.000 --> 0:18:26.160 I fucking suck. I'm horrible, but. 0:18:26.240 --> 0:18:29.760 That's really be doing good, Like I believe she like, oh, 0:18:29.800 --> 0:18:31.640 I don't think I did okay, and then she'll get 0:18:31.680 --> 0:18:32.960 up there and be rocking and ship. 0:18:33.040 --> 0:18:34.480 Now we do be getting a little. 0:18:34.320 --> 0:18:38.040 Trouble in trouble because I'll be talking to one. I 0:18:38.040 --> 0:18:40.439 can even laughing the back of. 0:18:40.400 --> 0:18:44.400 The classes, being bad, laughing at folks like we ain't 0:18:44.400 --> 0:18:45.040 got no bits. 0:18:45.200 --> 0:18:47.320 Then I get up there, ain't God damn Nancy, just 0:18:47.359 --> 0:18:48.480 about on mark or some ship. 0:18:48.520 --> 0:18:49.800 You walk up to your market and stop. 0:18:49.920 --> 0:18:51.800 I'm talking and laughing with leg and I get up 0:18:51.840 --> 0:18:52.800 there in front of the classroom. 0:18:52.920 --> 0:18:56.439 He said, I walked up everything. Now what I supposed 0:18:56.440 --> 0:18:59.720 to be split doing this? Your mess up on her 0:18:59.760 --> 0:19:01.240 time and then when you get a time, you don't 0:19:01.240 --> 0:19:03.480 get to go again. Yeah, then she'd be sitting at 0:19:03.520 --> 0:19:12.040 the rest of again. Yeah, it's I like it, but 0:19:12.119 --> 0:19:13.840 it is very It's tough. 0:19:14.400 --> 0:19:16.879 It's tough, yeah, because I definitely agree with you on that. 0:19:17.000 --> 0:19:20.159 I feel like whenever you're acting, it's like if you like, 0:19:20.200 --> 0:19:22.639 if somebody tells me, okay, Lex, I want you to 0:19:22.680 --> 0:19:24.000 be in a movie and I want you to act, 0:19:24.119 --> 0:19:27.400 You're playing Drey to call in the movie. Oh that's easy. 0:19:28.840 --> 0:19:31.160 You know what I'm saying, Like, cause I know you. Yeah, 0:19:31.280 --> 0:19:33.320 you know what I'm saying, if they tell me to act. 0:19:33.160 --> 0:19:35.359 Like whoever like, cause you can watch that person. 0:19:35.400 --> 0:19:38.040 But if they tell you, oh, act like this girl 0:19:38.160 --> 0:19:41.600 named Britney. She's twenty five years old and she's a bartender. 0:19:41.680 --> 0:19:43.320 She's trying to come up and make it in the world. 0:19:43.640 --> 0:19:46.880 You have to create this person on what you interpret 0:19:46.920 --> 0:19:50.360 them as. So even when you're like auditioning, your audition 0:19:50.480 --> 0:19:53.239 is going to be completely different from her audition and 0:19:53.280 --> 0:19:54.840 you don't even know what these people. 0:19:54.600 --> 0:19:58.040 Are looking yep. So that's why I feel like acting 0:19:58.160 --> 0:20:00.320 is hard and be like, what do you think this 0:20:00.520 --> 0:20:02.480 character is? What are you thinking? What do you think 0:20:02.520 --> 0:20:03.760 they're thinking in that moment? 0:20:03.840 --> 0:20:05.600 Bitch, I don't even know who the whole is. 0:20:05.800 --> 0:20:09.320 Like if she are yeah, like. 0:20:10.280 --> 0:20:14.320 Yes, That's why I said, bios, yes, but that damn yeah, 0:20:14.480 --> 0:20:15.159 that thing is. 0:20:15.240 --> 0:20:16.840 That's why I said, for me, I want to do 0:20:16.920 --> 0:20:20.120 more comedic acting because I can really just act like myself. 0:20:19.800 --> 0:20:23.280 Because and turn every script into a comedy. 0:20:23.480 --> 0:20:27.560 Yeah, everything I could see that, I see that. I 0:20:27.600 --> 0:20:30.399 always say the same thing though, I say, I feel 0:20:30.440 --> 0:20:33.920 like if anything I could just play or all this 0:20:34.119 --> 0:20:36.120 similar to myself, Like it need to be something that's 0:20:36.119 --> 0:20:38.080 similar to me. I don't think I could do like 0:20:38.119 --> 0:20:40.520 a bio people act like somebody. 0:20:41.440 --> 0:20:42.000 I told her. 0:20:42.200 --> 0:20:44.560 Because you saw the Kiki Palmer and Sissor movie. Yes, 0:20:44.640 --> 0:20:46.960 said Drea could play like a Scissor character like that. 0:20:47.080 --> 0:20:51.080 Yes, like really good her to be how she is 0:20:51.119 --> 0:20:52.000 like you see her. 0:20:52.200 --> 0:20:53.720 For her to act like that in a movie that 0:20:53.840 --> 0:20:57.800 was like mine, fucking like, oh she shouldn't really act. 0:20:58.760 --> 0:21:01.600 That's something like, definitely you can play that care Yeah 0:21:01.600 --> 0:21:04.440 for sure. Okay, So we're gonna move on. It's gonna 0:21:04.480 --> 0:21:06.359 have to be something close to me close. 0:21:06.960 --> 0:21:08.520 You could have definitely play if you see that. Once 0:21:08.520 --> 0:21:10.400 you watch that movie and you see her, you be like, oh, yeah, 0:21:10.400 --> 0:21:11.840 I could do that. I can for sure do that. 0:21:12.160 --> 0:21:16.560 Okay, Ta, what are we drinking today? All right? 0:21:16.640 --> 0:21:18.879 So for our guests, this one is gonna be called 0:21:19.080 --> 0:21:20.920 Big Bee, not the little one. 0:21:21.000 --> 0:21:21.880 Okay. 0:21:22.200 --> 0:21:25.439 Hello, we have the actress, the comedy everything, all right, 0:21:25.480 --> 0:21:27.280 she does it all, so we're so happy to have 0:21:27.359 --> 0:21:30.120 you here. This one is gonna have some tequila for her. 0:21:30.200 --> 0:21:33.159 We have some passion fruit, some mango, some pineapple, a 0:21:33.160 --> 0:21:34.679 little bit of a guy that and line and I 0:21:34.720 --> 0:21:36.640 even added a little time in there just to kind 0:21:36.640 --> 0:21:38.879 of give it a little bit of that herbal goodness, 0:21:39.119 --> 0:21:41.439 and then we garnish it with some dragon fruit on 0:21:41.520 --> 0:21:43.080 top as well, and it's kind of like floating in 0:21:43.119 --> 0:21:44.680 through there, just to kind of brighten it up a bit. 0:21:44.960 --> 0:21:47.440 And so this is the big bee, not the little one. 0:21:47.640 --> 0:21:50.720 Period. Yes it's good big bee, y'all. 0:21:52.119 --> 0:22:01.800 But my drink gnishnish it is. She got a little 0:22:01.800 --> 0:22:04.040 what is this is this passion for passion fruit, a 0:22:04.080 --> 0:22:06.800 little passion for a little dragon fruit for the dragon 0:22:08.080 --> 0:22:09.040 while in there too. 0:22:09.280 --> 0:22:10.960 You know, it's a little tropical, real good. 0:22:11.240 --> 0:22:12.920 And I know y'all probably see me with these little 0:22:12.920 --> 0:22:14.359 shot glass This is not liquor. 0:22:15.560 --> 0:22:18.399 I'm still doing my fast, but this is a little 0:22:18.480 --> 0:22:22.960 uh th hc concoction. Do you feel anything yet? Not yet. 0:22:22.960 --> 0:22:25.120 But that's why I've been sleeping this slow because I'm 0:22:25.160 --> 0:22:26.520 scared he's gonna creep up on me. 0:22:27.560 --> 0:22:28.639 So I don't feel that. 0:22:30.000 --> 0:22:32.760 Wow, all we gonna do doing a fast is dropped. 0:22:32.760 --> 0:22:34.639 What we're supposed to drop, we gonna pick up, pick up. 0:22:36.600 --> 0:22:38.320 That's why I say, y'all don't want me to stop drinking, 0:22:38.359 --> 0:22:47.920 y'alln't check smoking too, that's a wild I don't care. 0:22:48.119 --> 0:22:51.720 A transition to go from alcohol to straight to crack. 0:22:52.280 --> 0:22:56.639 It's just like hard. It ain't never go to crag. 0:22:56.880 --> 0:22:59.159 If I gotta drop my alcohol, what else I'm gonna do. 0:22:59.520 --> 0:23:04.920 But see what I will say this, this is the 0:23:05.040 --> 0:23:09.119 first day that I've like tried to like drink the 0:23:09.280 --> 0:23:11.960 stuff because we've been having it for months and this 0:23:12.040 --> 0:23:13.640 is the first time I tried to drink. And I'm 0:23:13.680 --> 0:23:16.360 on days twenty sevent But sometimes I be like, goddamn 0:23:16.400 --> 0:23:17.720 be leaning. I need a little buzz. 0:23:17.800 --> 0:23:24.120 I need a little get of seventy five not drinking, yes, 0:23:24.960 --> 0:23:26.240 and going to the gym, And I. 0:23:26.359 --> 0:23:28.200 Go to the gym every day, like I have not 0:23:28.320 --> 0:23:32.400 skipped a day working out in twenty seven days. Because 0:23:32.400 --> 0:23:35.960 I'll be seeing on your story everywhere I do like 0:23:36.000 --> 0:23:36.879 I ain't make it today, but. 0:23:39.600 --> 0:23:46.879 Days it's okay, I'm right now our liquor, it's possible, 0:23:48.280 --> 0:23:49.159 so we're gonna seough. 0:23:49.200 --> 0:23:51.840 I've never went there long without drinking though. The longest 0:23:51.880 --> 0:23:54.560 I've went these forty days. So when I get past 0:23:54.680 --> 0:23:57.880 forty days, i'ma be like, Okay, now we really own 0:23:57.960 --> 0:23:59.600 to something, because I don't feel like it's a real 0:23:59.720 --> 0:24:02.280 child n g A because I've done this before. 0:24:02.480 --> 0:24:04.679 How you feel. I feel good like I. 0:24:04.720 --> 0:24:06.640 Feel like I wake up every day and I don't 0:24:06.680 --> 0:24:10.120 feel as like groggy, and I feel like I don't 0:24:10.160 --> 0:24:13.119 have like no brain fog. I'm way more focused. 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Yeah, but I want y'all falling out a 0:27:05.680 --> 0:27:06.200 good time. 0:27:06.800 --> 0:27:09.480 You parted so hard your teeth fall out that that 0:27:09.600 --> 0:27:12.240 bitch be hanging by a thread before it actually full out. 0:27:12.680 --> 0:27:16.360 Like, what is the problem falling out? 0:27:17.600 --> 0:27:18.160 I don't. 0:27:20.400 --> 0:27:23.159 Oh my god, I'm outside. 0:27:23.520 --> 0:27:26.639 If you're a tooth flues, imagine you are Dan and. 0:27:26.680 --> 0:27:33.959 It just fall like the ground I'm outside. That's how 0:27:34.040 --> 0:27:39.719 you know it just got turned on. Period. That's how 0:27:39.800 --> 0:27:41.359 far life. Okay, Okay, we're gona get in to the 0:27:41.400 --> 0:27:46.720 first Okay, So for the first topic, obviously. 0:27:46.880 --> 0:27:50.600 We are all entrepreneurs, but we wanted to talk about 0:27:50.760 --> 0:27:53.919 navigating like the nine to five grind versus being an 0:27:54.040 --> 0:27:56.040 entrepreneur because I'm I know links have had a nine 0:27:56.040 --> 0:27:57.680 to five before I have, and I'm sure you've had 0:27:57.720 --> 0:28:01.440 one too. So I just want to talk about like navigating, 0:28:01.520 --> 0:28:04.159 like the difference between having a nine to five and 0:28:04.240 --> 0:28:07.720 being an entrepreneur, because I think sometimes people think that 0:28:08.359 --> 0:28:11.639 being an entrepreneur is easier than having a nonce. 0:28:11.680 --> 0:28:11.920 It's not. 0:28:12.119 --> 0:28:14.879 You have to be so disciplined, Like you have to 0:28:15.040 --> 0:28:18.760 make yourself get up, You have to make yourself do 0:28:18.840 --> 0:28:21.120 the ship that you're supposed to do, because it's when 0:28:21.160 --> 0:28:23.520 the days that you could just stay in the bed, 0:28:23.920 --> 0:28:26.920 you could just get It's easy to get comfortable as yeah, 0:28:27.359 --> 0:28:29.000 but don't think that wake your ass back up is 0:28:29.080 --> 0:28:31.680 beach this time, make the money. But nine to five, 0:28:32.000 --> 0:28:35.840 like I was almost disciplined because bach I're staying in 0:28:35.920 --> 0:28:39.480 fire from somewhere because my ass is always late. Thing 0:28:39.840 --> 0:28:44.160 she'll supervisor, bitch. They catch me on camera dancing doing 0:28:46.320 --> 0:28:50.120 Why did they make me a ship supervisors? 0:28:50.160 --> 0:28:51.200 The girl fucking question? 0:28:51.440 --> 0:28:54.680 What made y'all feel like I should have been fucking 0:28:54.760 --> 0:28:56.720 over the store at Nice You was one of the 0:28:56.800 --> 0:28:58.880 people who didn't want the promotion, Like why the hell 0:28:59.000 --> 0:29:01.240 y'all promoted me? One of the reason I wanted it 0:29:01.360 --> 0:29:04.440 because I knew because I'm a shell supervisor, it ain't 0:29:04.440 --> 0:29:06.800 gonna be nobody over me like at my time, and 0:29:07.400 --> 0:29:10.160 I am the person over me and so like the 0:29:10.280 --> 0:29:12.760 people are like me and all the homeboy like bitch 0:29:12.800 --> 0:29:13.560 win are dancing. 0:29:13.600 --> 0:29:14.400 I ain't getting she done. 0:29:14.840 --> 0:29:16.600 I'll never forget when I first start working that I 0:29:16.600 --> 0:29:18.640 didn't know the camera placements. That's why I fucked up. 0:29:18.720 --> 0:29:21.360 I ain't know what the cameras was. And they was like, 0:29:21.400 --> 0:29:23.960 why you ain't put out the you know, the little 0:29:24.160 --> 0:29:27.920 the inventory whatever. 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Being an entrepreneur, you really 0:33:14.680 --> 0:33:18.200 have to be a self starter because nobody's gonna tell 0:33:18.200 --> 0:33:19.560 you what you need to do, and if you don't 0:33:19.600 --> 0:33:21.400 do it, ain't shit gonna happen. 0:33:21.640 --> 0:33:23.520 And I do like it too because me as a 0:33:23.600 --> 0:33:28.120 single parent, huh, it's very easy for me to still 0:33:28.160 --> 0:33:31.120 show up for my son, Like I can base my 0:33:31.280 --> 0:33:34.320 work schedule around being a mom versus nine. 0:33:34.200 --> 0:33:37.600 To five, Like, shit, I gotta go to work. Yeah, 0:33:37.720 --> 0:33:39.680 they ain't give a fuck about what your child got 0:33:39.720 --> 0:33:41.080 going on. None of that shit. 0:33:41.160 --> 0:33:43.480 You gotta find somebody even take it, cheersn to their 0:33:43.520 --> 0:33:46.440 appointments of shit. So it's like I do like that 0:33:46.640 --> 0:33:49.560 part because I can show up as a mom and 0:33:49.800 --> 0:33:52.280 that single parent, it's like most of the times I'm 0:33:52.320 --> 0:33:55.480 the only person that he has right, So I do 0:33:55.600 --> 0:33:57.200 thank God for that that part. 0:33:57.960 --> 0:33:59.920 Yeah, And I will say with the nine to five 0:34:00.280 --> 0:34:04.880 entrepreneurship thing too, I feel like I always tell people this, 0:34:05.600 --> 0:34:08.880 keep your job for as long as you can whenever 0:34:08.960 --> 0:34:10.120 you're making that transition. 0:34:10.280 --> 0:34:10.400 Too. 0:34:11.080 --> 0:34:13.800 I think it's crazy when people like and it's not 0:34:14.640 --> 0:34:16.799 a blueprint for this. I will say, thatt, like what. 0:34:17.040 --> 0:34:18.920 I did, or what Dre did or what Blind did, 0:34:19.000 --> 0:34:21.680 they may your story may be completely different. 0:34:22.360 --> 0:34:25.239 I always tell this story. My job literally gave me 0:34:25.320 --> 0:34:28.440 an ultimatum. Of course I was gonna choose Poor Minds, 0:34:28.560 --> 0:34:30.920 but they gave me a ultimatum. So they was pushing 0:34:30.960 --> 0:34:32.200 me out the door, and I was like, I'm not 0:34:32.320 --> 0:34:34.120 ready to quit. I didn't say I wanted to quit, 0:34:34.520 --> 0:34:37.680 but I say all that to say because I think 0:34:37.719 --> 0:34:39.560 that if you can work your nine to five and 0:34:39.680 --> 0:34:42.120 still chase your dreams, you have to create that good 0:34:42.239 --> 0:34:45.840 balance because if you just quit your job and go 0:34:46.040 --> 0:34:47.800 all in and try to go all in with your dreams, 0:34:47.840 --> 0:34:49.840 that money is not going to come in as quickly 0:34:49.920 --> 0:34:50.840 as you think it is. 0:34:51.320 --> 0:34:53.319 You how I felt like we. 0:34:53.360 --> 0:34:55.400 Were doing Poor Minds for what like two years, two 0:34:55.440 --> 0:34:56.879 and a half years before I was able to quit 0:34:56.960 --> 0:34:59.920 my job. Yeah, yeah, like two and a half years 0:35:00.040 --> 0:35:01.840 far I was able to quit my job, So I 0:35:01.880 --> 0:35:04.160 couldn't have imagine being without a job for two and 0:35:04.200 --> 0:35:06.320 a half years while I was chasing my dreams, like 0:35:06.680 --> 0:35:08.759 there was no you really would have been on it 0:35:08.880 --> 0:35:12.080 here on I was about to be when I got 0:35:12.160 --> 0:35:16.640 far from my first song man, what but gyirl? 0:35:17.120 --> 0:35:18.040 You know with me? 0:35:18.400 --> 0:35:21.560 It was my transition was easy because the apartments I 0:35:21.680 --> 0:35:24.760 was living in at the time, they were income based, 0:35:25.000 --> 0:35:27.360 but not the income based. Well you got the report 0:35:28.080 --> 0:35:29.799 every time. It was like as soon as you moving 0:35:29.840 --> 0:35:32.280 that beach, they're not checking on income. Oh so whatever 0:35:32.360 --> 0:35:34.360 you bought was what you bought. So I think I 0:35:34.440 --> 0:35:37.279 started earning my incomes around like win into COVID happened 0:35:37.320 --> 0:35:39.960 twenty twenty. Yeah, so I think I started on videos 0:35:40.000 --> 0:35:42.600 and with like twenty nineteen, so that years spaying, I 0:35:42.719 --> 0:35:45.680 started making money and soon as I put it in 0:35:45.840 --> 0:35:48.000 like I was a CNA at the time, okay, and 0:35:48.360 --> 0:35:51.680 wish was the best job I ever hadd like working 0:35:51.760 --> 0:35:54.600 with those old people like wiping ass and shit. Okay, 0:35:55.320 --> 0:35:59.840 but old people be sweet, said okay, like I fucked 0:35:59.840 --> 0:36:04.400 with them. But Brian in time when the pandemic started, 0:36:04.840 --> 0:36:06.880 like probably two weeks prior to that, I had just 0:36:06.960 --> 0:36:09.120 put in my two weeks notice to drop down like 0:36:09.320 --> 0:36:12.480 part time because I had just started having money coming 0:36:12.520 --> 0:36:16.440 in and so after that it just made it easy, 0:36:16.520 --> 0:36:17.840 like I ain't have to make a whole bunch of 0:36:17.880 --> 0:36:20.720 money because mind you, I'm staying in a low income 0:36:20.880 --> 0:36:24.360 based apartment. So I was able to like go ahead 0:36:24.400 --> 0:36:27.680 and quick. But that's just for me because my biels 0:36:27.719 --> 0:36:30.759 were low. But I always encourage people because people come 0:36:30.800 --> 0:36:32.160 up to me all the time and be like, yeah, 0:36:32.160 --> 0:36:34.040 I want to start doing videos, I can just quit 0:36:34.120 --> 0:36:35.879 my job and start doing I'd be like, you better 0:36:36.000 --> 0:36:40.520 fuck not, because shit, this shit don't be out what 0:36:40.600 --> 0:36:41.480 people be thinking it is. 0:36:41.600 --> 0:36:42.440 It takes a while for. 0:36:42.480 --> 0:36:46.240 Them to come, like people be thinking it's gonna be overnight, 0:36:46.400 --> 0:36:49.280 or like sometimes I think where people get stuff confused, 0:36:49.400 --> 0:36:53.280 especially with like us being media personalities, people will equate 0:36:53.640 --> 0:36:54.880 views too much money. 0:36:55.360 --> 0:36:57.480 They'll think, oh, this person. 0:36:57.360 --> 0:37:01.040 Getting a million views per video, they eating five hundred 0:37:01.080 --> 0:37:05.160 thousand views, they making hell of money, not necessarily depending 0:37:05.239 --> 0:37:08.480 on what platform you saw's worth. 0:37:08.280 --> 0:37:11.160 Of dollarge got a million views, you got a million dollars, 0:37:11.400 --> 0:37:12.839 And hell no, that's not the truth. 0:37:12.960 --> 0:37:16.000 Because I feel like this TikTok is different because you 0:37:16.080 --> 0:37:18.360 do have like the big creators, like the clerks, and 0:37:18.600 --> 0:37:20.640 right like that, so they get sponsorships. But I'll say 0:37:20.680 --> 0:37:25.440 this the only platform, the two platforms that if you're 0:37:25.520 --> 0:37:28.120 like hitting a million, half a million to a million views, 0:37:28.160 --> 0:37:30.800 like consistently, you making a lot of money, it's for 0:37:30.880 --> 0:37:31.600 sure YouTube. 0:37:31.719 --> 0:37:34.719 Yeah, like if you can't. But that is hard. Yes, 0:37:34.920 --> 0:37:37.239 that is very very extremely hard. 0:37:37.400 --> 0:37:40.759 Like if you see people that they post videos like 0:37:41.280 --> 0:37:43.479 maybe once or twice a week and all those videos 0:37:43.480 --> 0:37:45.480 are getting half a million to a million views and 0:37:45.680 --> 0:37:49.120 they're monetized, like they get the green the green light 0:37:49.200 --> 0:37:52.279 on them, they're making money. Like that's where you can 0:37:52.320 --> 0:37:54.680 be like, okay, somebody's making money. But that community of 0:37:54.760 --> 0:37:57.920 people that are doing those numbers is very very small, 0:37:58.360 --> 0:37:59.759 especially when you get into the black. 0:38:00.719 --> 0:38:10.560 It's even yeah, you for everything. That's why we be 0:38:10.600 --> 0:38:11.879 bleeping on close words out. 0:38:12.280 --> 0:38:15.640 Like the first one, and they still be finding a 0:38:15.680 --> 0:38:18.000 way to have this because did you see I'll showed 0:38:18.000 --> 0:38:21.080 you that video was demontized after it was already monitored. 0:38:21.160 --> 0:38:27.239 Somebody going through like i'll see what we last month, 0:38:28.040 --> 0:38:30.880 and it's like they be feeling and they spared that. 0:38:32.920 --> 0:38:34.560 Like soon as you post the video, it's like they 0:38:34.680 --> 0:38:38.080 be knowing like okay, this motherfuckering to go up. Let's 0:38:38.200 --> 0:38:39.719 stop real quick. 0:38:39.719 --> 0:38:42.520 Like And it's crazy because okay, so what I learned 0:38:42.600 --> 0:38:45.399 to with YouTube they have humans that go in there 0:38:45.400 --> 0:38:50.680 and yeah, yeah, so wing that day. Because one person 0:38:50.840 --> 0:38:53.520 will flag our videos, the next person be like, oh 0:38:53.560 --> 0:38:54.200 this is fine. 0:38:54.680 --> 0:38:59.200 So they're not all on the same accord. Came in 0:38:59.320 --> 0:38:59.799 there and. 0:39:01.120 --> 0:39:06.600 Him now a flag most like a video all not 0:39:06.800 --> 0:39:11.320 with these big bolst getting nothing. 0:39:12.040 --> 0:39:17.000 They be like, defund all this was in charge of this, 0:39:17.160 --> 0:39:17.759 I'm telling you. 0:39:17.920 --> 0:39:20.080 But I really feel like if you tube would change 0:39:20.160 --> 0:39:21.880 that and get everybody on the same afford. 0:39:21.880 --> 0:39:24.640 And there was one thing and another one. I don't 0:39:24.719 --> 0:39:27.960 understand this world. But the streamers on Twitch, they make 0:39:28.000 --> 0:39:28.520 a lot of money. 0:39:28.560 --> 0:39:30.720 They make a lot of money, but it's so hard 0:39:31.000 --> 0:39:32.920 to get what do they call it, because it's not 0:39:33.080 --> 0:39:34.280 is it subscribers on Twitch? 0:39:34.320 --> 0:39:36.319 What is it called subscribers? 0:39:36.440 --> 0:39:38.640 Yeah, so it's hard to get subscribers on Twitch, Like 0:39:39.120 --> 0:39:41.800 it's very hard. Like that's a whole nother world because 0:39:42.080 --> 0:39:45.040 you're life. Yeah, so you gotta entertain people and they 0:39:45.120 --> 0:39:48.800 be on it for our hours. People people playing games. 0:39:49.000 --> 0:39:49.719 Or whatever they do. 0:39:49.920 --> 0:39:53.319 Like Twitch is hard, but all the hardest platforms are 0:39:53.320 --> 0:39:54.440 the one you're gonna make the money on. 0:39:54.719 --> 0:39:57.880 Yep. So, like I said, Instagram is cool, Instagram, do 0:39:58.040 --> 0:40:00.279 not pay like that. No more, don't. And when I 0:40:00.400 --> 0:40:02.200 tell you and our videos get a lot of it 0:40:02.560 --> 0:40:03.280 all the time. 0:40:03.719 --> 0:40:09.200 Behave any reason and I pay you. 0:40:09.600 --> 0:40:12.120 Like when that the program first came and then they 0:40:12.200 --> 0:40:14.960 was doing the pictures. Oh baby, that booty was out. 0:40:18.600 --> 0:40:19.759 And them checks was coming in. 0:40:20.960 --> 0:40:23.200 But yeah, they said, oh these two weeks, that's why 0:40:23.200 --> 0:40:24.640 I stopped post posting pictures. 0:40:24.719 --> 0:40:30.040 You got to be hellook consistent too, because that's why 0:40:30.080 --> 0:40:32.360 I fucked up with YouTube, Like on one of my channels, 0:40:32.480 --> 0:40:35.480 like I stopped because I cannot multi task for nothing. 0:40:36.000 --> 0:40:38.320 So I got like two YouTube channels and one of 0:40:38.320 --> 0:40:40.240 them is my skit and one of them is my vlogs. 0:40:40.680 --> 0:40:42.520 And my vlogs used to do very good. 0:40:43.320 --> 0:40:46.680 But I stopped doing the vlogs and went over here 0:40:46.800 --> 0:40:48.799 with the skits and ship instead of me came off 0:40:48.840 --> 0:40:49.279 to my task. 0:40:49.320 --> 0:40:50.399 I should have been on a boat. 0:40:50.960 --> 0:40:54.200 And my vloging views used to get like a lot 0:40:54.320 --> 0:40:57.120 of a hell of good views. And now it's like 0:40:57.280 --> 0:40:59.399 i'men trying to like post like two times a week, 0:40:59.440 --> 0:41:01.440 and it's like you gotta start from scratch. 0:41:01.480 --> 0:41:02.880 Who start from scratch? 0:41:02.880 --> 0:41:04.680 And I just be like, damn, I wish I would 0:41:04.719 --> 0:41:07.399 have just fucking kept going, helped fucking going. 0:41:07.600 --> 0:41:09.040 You have to start all the way over. 0:41:09.320 --> 0:41:12.160 That's something that I noticed about YouTube too. It be 0:41:12.320 --> 0:41:15.640 so many people who be having millions of followers because 0:41:15.719 --> 0:41:18.280 they used to post all the time, millions of suspibers, 0:41:18.320 --> 0:41:20.440 and they used to get like five hundred thousand yes, 0:41:20.640 --> 0:41:24.000 and you look like two thousand views yup. And I'd 0:41:24.040 --> 0:41:26.759 be like, damn, and it's crazy. And I always wonder 0:41:26.840 --> 0:41:29.440 thing because I'm like, where are the subscribers? If you 0:41:29.520 --> 0:41:32.320 have all of these people subscribed? Is YouTube purposely just 0:41:32.480 --> 0:41:34.920 not showing your content because you had stopped. 0:41:34.640 --> 0:41:37.000 Posting for a long time. That's probably what it is. Yeah, 0:41:37.200 --> 0:41:39.640 that too, because they push you to be consistent on 0:41:39.719 --> 0:41:40.280 that platform. 0:41:40.320 --> 0:41:42.680 And I told this to you the other day. YouTube 0:41:42.800 --> 0:41:45.280 Now they want you to use it like you use cable, 0:41:45.880 --> 0:41:48.120 So you know what the content they're pushing they gonna 0:41:48.120 --> 0:41:50.480 push out of poor minds because they know Friday at 0:41:50.520 --> 0:41:52.880 seven o'clock, poor minds is gonna get posted. Yeah, they 0:41:53.000 --> 0:41:55.360 want you to you. They don't want you to sign 0:41:55.480 --> 0:41:58.239 up for Hulu and Netflix. They want you to use 0:41:58.360 --> 0:42:02.240 YouTube like it's cable. So the people that are consistently posting, 0:42:02.560 --> 0:42:05.080 and I'm talking about every Friday at seven pm, not 0:42:05.239 --> 0:42:07.040 just oh, I'm gonna just post when I feel like it. 0:42:07.239 --> 0:42:09.880 Because even if you are consistently posting, but you're not 0:42:09.960 --> 0:42:10.600 posting at the. 0:42:10.640 --> 0:42:13.600 Same time, same day, they're not gonna push that out. Ye. 0:42:13.800 --> 0:42:15.440 The algorithm with YouTube. 0:42:15.160 --> 0:42:17.960 Is like, okay, you post every day at this time, 0:42:18.040 --> 0:42:20.520 I'm gonna I'm gonna push your content out. So I 0:42:20.600 --> 0:42:23.360 think it's all of that stuff like with the algorithm 0:42:23.440 --> 0:42:25.359 and stuff. Now, it's so tricky and it's so hard. 0:42:25.680 --> 0:42:27.759 But like I say, anybody that has a podcast out 0:42:27.800 --> 0:42:30.520 there or doing skits or vlogs or whatever you're doing, 0:42:30.560 --> 0:42:33.040 I always say, I never understand what people do things 0:42:33.120 --> 0:42:36.960 in seasons or when they pa breaking. I never understand 0:42:37.080 --> 0:42:39.959 it works for some people. Maybe it does. We ain't 0:42:39.960 --> 0:42:40.560 taking no breaks. 0:42:40.719 --> 0:42:43.320 That's why I look up to y'all so much, because 0:42:43.600 --> 0:42:45.600 when you told me, like, wait, y'all haven't missed a 0:42:45.640 --> 0:42:48.160 Friday in like filla six years. Oh yeah, Like that 0:42:48.239 --> 0:42:50.879 shit just did something to my fucking mincole. Because I'm like, damn, 0:42:50.920 --> 0:42:54.720 because that's me, I'm inconsistent. But I'm inconsistent also because 0:42:55.239 --> 0:42:56.799 I let a lot of shit that I be going 0:42:56.920 --> 0:43:00.719 through like stop me. And it's like, Okay, you're gonna 0:43:00.719 --> 0:43:02.200 go through a lot of shit in life that's not 0:43:02.280 --> 0:43:04.120 gonna stop, so you need to find a way to 0:43:04.280 --> 0:43:08.320 like keep going. Yes, So I'm in that point of 0:43:08.360 --> 0:43:11.400 my life now because I'm not gonna I'm inconsistent, like 0:43:12.040 --> 0:43:14.879 very bad. And then a lot of times like then 0:43:14.960 --> 0:43:17.160 now he forms like regret and he'd be like damn, 0:43:17.200 --> 0:43:18.520 Like a lot of times I go down my channel 0:43:18.560 --> 0:43:19.920 and be like damn, all these views I used to 0:43:19.920 --> 0:43:21.960 get if I would have kept doing this all the 0:43:22.080 --> 0:43:24.680 use now it's really affecting me now it's finish sit 0:43:24.760 --> 0:43:27.200 into like some type of depression or it made me 0:43:27.280 --> 0:43:29.720 feel a certain type of way, but it's just like, okay, 0:43:30.320 --> 0:43:33.840 enough of that. Now, I just got to do it 0:43:33.960 --> 0:43:35.600 and stick to it. Like the other day when you 0:43:35.640 --> 0:43:37.800 were telling me, like how long y'all been consistent for 0:43:37.840 --> 0:43:39.480 it for all those years and he was like, you 0:43:39.560 --> 0:43:41.600 have to pick a date and just stick with you. 0:43:42.000 --> 0:43:44.320 So it's just like, okay, let me do that, and 0:43:44.400 --> 0:43:46.640 no matter what, I don't give a fuck what happens, 0:43:46.800 --> 0:43:49.279 like I'm gonna raise sure that that's my posting date. 0:43:49.719 --> 0:43:51.960 I gotta do that, Like, but that should be kind 0:43:52.000 --> 0:43:56.400 of it's hard. I really look up to y'all cause 0:43:56.680 --> 0:43:59.319 that shit is not easy. But that many years at that. 0:44:00.719 --> 0:44:04.239 That's been some obstacles to because like during COVID, we 0:44:04.440 --> 0:44:07.360 used to be stressed because we had started finally recording 0:44:07.440 --> 0:44:10.480 in the studio. Being COVID happened and we was like, fuck, 0:44:10.880 --> 0:44:13.080 where are we gonna record it? Because all the studios 0:44:13.120 --> 0:44:15.279 and everything was like, you know, closed down. Girl, we 0:44:15.360 --> 0:44:18.280 started back recording at our house. We were to record 0:44:18.320 --> 0:44:21.200 a well well well, I mean I guess like just 0:44:21.320 --> 0:44:23.640 in the house. We started recording at our friend house 0:44:23.920 --> 0:44:27.120 and she was like helping us edit the videos and everything. 0:44:27.560 --> 0:44:29.360 And then it's so funny because when we finally was 0:44:29.440 --> 0:44:31.520 able to go back to the studio, I just remember 0:44:31.600 --> 0:44:32.400 these because. 0:44:32.200 --> 0:44:37.960 We had to wear fucking masks, so we just in 0:44:38.080 --> 0:44:38.920 the studio. 0:44:42.800 --> 0:44:45.279 A lot of people cannot say that, like I do 0:44:45.480 --> 0:44:48.800 not know a lot of people that's just consistent like that. 0:44:48.920 --> 0:44:50.800 When I heard that, when you told me that, I 0:44:50.960 --> 0:44:53.840 was just like fucking mind bloine because I'm like, yes. 0:44:54.160 --> 0:44:56.360 Six, what is five or six, it's about to be 0:44:56.480 --> 0:44:57.280 six years. 0:44:58.680 --> 0:45:03.160 Of consistency is crazy, Like that's not easy, girl, and 0:45:03.239 --> 0:45:05.440 n ain't because life be life in and we are 0:45:05.520 --> 0:45:07.040 at times so we're like I've. 0:45:06.920 --> 0:45:09.400 Been going through sheit, she been going through shit. We 0:45:09.520 --> 0:45:11.839 do not want to pull up? And what do y'all? 0:45:12.040 --> 0:45:14.640 What is something that makes like, what is something that 0:45:14.760 --> 0:45:17.359 gives y'all their motivation to keep going? 0:45:17.600 --> 0:45:24.160 Like, yeah, I think for me what I tried that. 0:45:26.160 --> 0:45:32.040 You all got some hair runs, some liquid air runway. 0:45:32.800 --> 0:45:36.400 I think for me, it's just always putting into perspective that, 0:45:36.840 --> 0:45:40.719 like you said earlier, it's always gonna be very much 0:45:40.840 --> 0:45:43.840 something like something is gonna always be going on. 0:45:44.440 --> 0:45:46.720 But I think Licks and I both are really. 0:45:46.600 --> 0:45:49.520 Good at keeping our eye on the prize, Like we 0:45:49.719 --> 0:45:51.640 both really know what we want poor. 0:45:51.560 --> 0:45:52.520 Minds to turn into. 0:45:52.680 --> 0:45:54.680 And I think we both are also really locked in 0:45:54.840 --> 0:45:57.680 on our own personal goals. She know exactly what she 0:45:57.960 --> 0:46:00.239 wants this platform to liberate her to do, and I 0:46:00.360 --> 0:46:02.040 know what I wanted to deleverage me to do. And 0:46:02.160 --> 0:46:05.080 I think I just always keep that in mind because 0:46:05.120 --> 0:46:07.719 it's like, if I stop being consistent, you're not gonna 0:46:07.760 --> 0:46:09.759 get to all of these other spaces and places that 0:46:09.800 --> 0:46:11.600 you're trying to get that's my fuck up. 0:46:11.640 --> 0:46:14.160 Then I don't I need to see that. I haven't 0:46:14.200 --> 0:46:15.200 probably sat down and. 0:46:15.320 --> 0:46:16.400 Roll down my goals. 0:46:16.840 --> 0:46:19.600 Yeah, I don't know how long, so I don't know 0:46:19.800 --> 0:46:21.120 what that look. 0:46:21.160 --> 0:46:22.000 Look, you know what I'm saying. 0:46:22.000 --> 0:46:24.160 You got to know what's right hand funny on what 0:46:24.239 --> 0:46:24.920 you're trying to get to. 0:46:25.080 --> 0:46:28.279 And that's and I think on the other end a 0:46:28.320 --> 0:46:30.920 parting point, you should definitely do that. Like I always 0:46:30.960 --> 0:46:33.359 tell people, I think that's really important to like write 0:46:33.440 --> 0:46:35.360 down your goals that you want for yourself in the 0:46:35.440 --> 0:46:38.200 next six months, the next year, and even the next 0:46:38.320 --> 0:46:41.600 five years, and just always reread it too, so that 0:46:41.760 --> 0:46:43.600 you can like keep that in mind, especially when you 0:46:43.760 --> 0:46:46.360 having hard days. Cause I do that too, Like when. 0:46:46.200 --> 0:46:49.160 I'm having a hard day, I'll just reread my. 0:46:49.239 --> 0:46:51.399 Goals and be like, Okay, this is what you're trying 0:46:51.400 --> 0:46:53.440 to be doing, This's what you're trying to be doing. 0:46:53.320 --> 0:46:55.400 In the year. So today's just today. 0:46:55.800 --> 0:46:58.360 Tomorrow gonna be able to push through, push out the 0:46:58.400 --> 0:47:00.640 county in, or push out whatever of the work you 0:47:00.719 --> 0:47:01.080 need to do. 0:47:01.600 --> 0:47:03.560 And I think another angle for me too is like 0:47:04.480 --> 0:47:06.359 at the end of the day. Like sometimes I don't 0:47:06.360 --> 0:47:09.680 feel like recording and I'm tired or I'm not in. 0:47:09.680 --> 0:47:14.399 The mood, but in the grand scheme of things, I am. 0:47:14.680 --> 0:47:18.880 So blessed right, like this is a blessing to have 0:47:19.120 --> 0:47:21.200 this and what we have built and what we created. 0:47:21.280 --> 0:47:24.080 Like every day I wake up and I show gratitude 0:47:24.120 --> 0:47:26.000 to God because like it's a blessing to do this. 0:47:26.640 --> 0:47:28.360 So even if I'm in a bad mood, like I 0:47:28.480 --> 0:47:30.080 was talking to you this morning, I was like, I'm 0:47:30.120 --> 0:47:31.759 not in the med good mood. I gotta get my 0:47:31.800 --> 0:47:34.040 hair right. But once I start filming, I'm like, my 0:47:34.200 --> 0:47:38.600 life is really fire. Like I complain a lot, but 0:47:39.080 --> 0:47:42.040 I have so much more to be happy for. So again, 0:47:42.440 --> 0:47:44.799 to me, I don't have to escape from work. Work 0:47:44.880 --> 0:47:47.960 is my escape. So if I am having a bad time, 0:47:48.000 --> 0:47:49.560 I don't care what is going on in my life. 0:47:49.600 --> 0:47:51.760 If I can come in here, I get to get drunk, 0:47:52.120 --> 0:47:54.200 talk to Tie, talk to Drea, and I'm. 0:47:54.080 --> 0:47:57.600 Be like, bro, you really that you really that girl? 0:47:57.840 --> 0:47:58.919 Like you know what I'm saying. 0:47:59.320 --> 0:48:01.360 It's like sometimes when I'm away from work, I'll be 0:48:01.440 --> 0:48:04.160 forgetting who I am. I'm like, oh wait, hold on, 0:48:04.320 --> 0:48:06.520 And it's like now we both started our separate channels, 0:48:06.640 --> 0:48:09.279 Like Love lex P is doing good and I just 0:48:09.440 --> 0:48:11.520 started it, you know what I'm saying. So I feel 0:48:11.560 --> 0:48:13.120 like and that's another thing I'm gonna be consistent with 0:48:13.280 --> 0:48:15.440 every Monday at ten am, y'all Finn to see my face. 0:48:16.080 --> 0:48:19.080 Like, so I think I do too, Like I love 0:48:19.200 --> 0:48:21.600 to work. I love to start a new project. 0:48:21.680 --> 0:48:23.319 Like even when I started Love Lexp, I'm like, oh, 0:48:23.440 --> 0:48:25.320 this reminds me of the early days of poor minds, 0:48:25.400 --> 0:48:27.440 like figuring out the camera, figuring out my mind. 0:48:27.560 --> 0:48:29.960 Like that's what I lost with me because when I 0:48:30.040 --> 0:48:33.120 first started doing the videos, like I can wake up 0:48:33.680 --> 0:48:36.319 and I'll just do it, like I didn't give a fuck. 0:48:36.360 --> 0:48:38.640 Who didn't like it, bitch, I can get one view. 0:48:38.800 --> 0:48:39.840 I liked it. I'm happy. 0:48:40.480 --> 0:48:42.759 Now it's just be so much pressure, cause it'd be 0:48:42.880 --> 0:48:44.959 like if I post this, I don't think they gonna 0:48:45.000 --> 0:48:46.839 like these, they gonna fuck with it. They're not gonna 0:48:46.840 --> 0:48:48.960 fuck with this shit like nowaday like, and it be 0:48:49.280 --> 0:48:52.680 so many Thus I don't know, And to this day, 0:48:52.680 --> 0:48:54.400 I'm still trying to figure out because now it's been 0:48:54.560 --> 0:48:58.080 like a year and a half and like I haven't 0:48:58.120 --> 0:49:01.120 been happy doing it. I like it, I love it, 0:49:01.239 --> 0:49:02.920 don't get me wrong, But I just want to get 0:49:03.000 --> 0:49:05.839 back to that mental space that I was in where 0:49:05.880 --> 0:49:07.920 I just woke up and I was just like just 0:49:08.040 --> 0:49:10.880 doing shit. My creativity is just it'd be like in 0:49:10.960 --> 0:49:11.719 a block. 0:49:11.520 --> 0:49:13.600 Sometime like and. 0:49:15.320 --> 0:49:15.640 I don't. 0:49:16.239 --> 0:49:19.160 It's two things with that. One, it's confidence. 0:49:19.800 --> 0:49:22.239 I don't care what I drop or what I don't 0:49:22.239 --> 0:49:24.880 care if you get one like or fifteen thousand, like 0:49:25.000 --> 0:49:27.040 if I think it's funny or I find I'm a 0:49:27.200 --> 0:49:28.719 drop it because I don't care because I be thinking 0:49:28.719 --> 0:49:30.600 it's funny, you know what I'm saying, or I think 0:49:30.640 --> 0:49:32.600 it's entertainer, or I think it's some people want to hear. 0:49:32.920 --> 0:49:36.600 But two, you have to find your tribe that gets 0:49:36.680 --> 0:49:39.239 you and understands you, because there's gonna be some people 0:49:39.280 --> 0:49:42.319 who scroll past Like that Chris Brown video I posted 0:49:42.360 --> 0:49:44.160 other and me singing it was probably a lot of 0:49:44.160 --> 0:49:45.719 people that probably like, why is she doing this? 0:49:45.840 --> 0:49:46.720 This is how it's party. 0:49:47.120 --> 0:49:50.480 But what I'm saying is it works for my audience 0:49:50.640 --> 0:49:52.600 because they know me and they know how I do. 0:49:53.200 --> 0:49:56.560 So if you keep posting stuff, you're gonna find everybody 0:49:56.800 --> 0:50:00.279 has a community, like Drea has a community, Like they 0:50:00.360 --> 0:50:02.080 want to know what Drea is doing from sun up 0:50:02.120 --> 0:50:03.400 to sundown. They want to know what she got on 0:50:03.440 --> 0:50:05.359 her lips, what she put in her hair, what shoes 0:50:05.400 --> 0:50:07.760 she got on with perfume she's wearing. They're like, if 0:50:07.800 --> 0:50:10.080 I do this, I can, you know, live the life 0:50:10.120 --> 0:50:12.839 that Dre lives. They're so interested in that. So it's 0:50:13.000 --> 0:50:15.440 just like, you have to find your community, and but 0:50:15.520 --> 0:50:18.319 you gotta serve them. You know, you have to serve 0:50:18.400 --> 0:50:20.920 your community. So that's the two things you gotta be. 0:50:21.239 --> 0:50:24.719 You gotta just post, get that, get your confidence back, 0:50:24.719 --> 0:50:27.480 because like I tell you this all the time, I 0:50:27.680 --> 0:50:30.879 don't think I've ever said this on the show. It's 0:50:31.000 --> 0:50:33.520 a very small category. And I know people gonna be like, oh, 0:50:33.520 --> 0:50:34.200 you sound stupid. 0:50:34.239 --> 0:50:34.680 I don't care. 0:50:34.920 --> 0:50:37.440 It's a very small category of like women who are 0:50:37.520 --> 0:50:41.759 really fucking funny, but they're bad and beautiful. And I'm 0:50:41.800 --> 0:50:44.360 not saying because y'all don't be taking this out of context, 0:50:44.480 --> 0:50:47.640 but it's not like I feel like the comedy scene 0:50:47.719 --> 0:50:51.320 for women and men too, because there's nobody really like 0:50:51.480 --> 0:50:53.080 killing it killing it right now as far as like 0:50:53.120 --> 0:50:55.040 stand up, because you do stand up, but I feel 0:50:55.080 --> 0:50:57.279 like that lane for you is so wide open. I 0:50:57.320 --> 0:50:59.480 feel like the last time we had like a baddie 0:50:59.520 --> 0:51:01.440 that was a lie, Carris was like some more Like 0:51:01.600 --> 0:51:04.040 we ain't had that in a long time, and that 0:51:04.239 --> 0:51:07.320 lane is so wide open for you, Like you know 0:51:07.360 --> 0:51:08.800 what I'm saying, like the same thing I'm doing with 0:51:08.840 --> 0:51:12.360 lovelex P, Like are Wendy Williams Okay, let me let 0:51:12.440 --> 0:51:14.080 me do that, Let me let me see the people. 0:51:14.520 --> 0:51:17.160 You gotta see what the people are missing and give 0:51:17.239 --> 0:51:20.160 it to them like thatl ain't so wide open for you, girl, 0:51:20.320 --> 0:51:22.800 Like you just gotta keep you just gotta keep going 0:51:22.880 --> 0:51:25.360 and keep doing it, and your people are gonna find you. 0:51:25.600 --> 0:51:27.560 I agree. You just gotta find your niche. 0:51:27.680 --> 0:51:30.440 Yeah, gotta find your niche audience and figure out what 0:51:30.719 --> 0:51:32.719 is it that people want to see from me, because 0:51:32.760 --> 0:51:35.399 I think that is like both of us have figured out, 0:51:35.480 --> 0:51:36.479 Like she's figured out. 0:51:36.400 --> 0:51:37.480 What people want to see from her. 0:51:37.800 --> 0:51:41.320 I know people love to see like beauty content, lifestyle content, 0:51:41.520 --> 0:51:42.839 day to day content, all. 0:51:42.760 --> 0:51:43.560 Of that type of stuff. 0:51:43.840 --> 0:51:46.279 And I feel like you already have a community, You 0:51:46.400 --> 0:51:48.560 already have a lot of pair want to see you 0:51:48.680 --> 0:51:51.360 because when you be dropping your skits, that shit be funny. 0:51:51.400 --> 0:51:53.600 As hell, and you and Lou when y'all be doing 0:51:53.680 --> 0:51:56.040 y'all skits together, y'all be having a like y'all have. 0:51:56.080 --> 0:51:57.880 A cult fire chemistry, you know. 0:51:58.160 --> 0:52:01.080 So I feel like, don't doubt shop and be like, oh, 0:52:01.280 --> 0:52:03.080 I don't know if I should post this. I don't 0:52:03.080 --> 0:52:04.520 know if I should post that, because I promise you 0:52:04.680 --> 0:52:06.880 is telling people out there who if you posted the 0:52:06.920 --> 0:52:08.920 content that you think is stupid, they gonna be under 0:52:08.920 --> 0:52:10.399 there laughing and telling you how good. 0:52:10.840 --> 0:52:12.759 Yeah, it be so much stuff to me and d 0:52:12.960 --> 0:52:14.680 be like this is stupid, and we posted. 0:52:14.360 --> 0:52:17.399 It and people like we were like, girl, ain't nobody 0:52:17.440 --> 0:52:17.880 gonna like this? 0:52:18.400 --> 0:52:19.919 And then it blowing up. 0:52:20.000 --> 0:52:24.120 Even that dancing video we did, Yeah, that's you got 0:52:24.160 --> 0:52:26.640 a whole bunch of likes and people just comment with us. 0:52:26.719 --> 0:52:29.279 We was drunk, me and Philly, and that's why I say, like, 0:52:29.880 --> 0:52:32.080 you are so Andrea knows it's about me. I don't 0:52:32.080 --> 0:52:36.200 think nobody funny. Yeah, same, I think everybody is. I 0:52:36.320 --> 0:52:37.560 don't I think nobody. 0:52:37.560 --> 0:52:39.759 I'd be like, oh, we both be like we both 0:52:39.800 --> 0:52:41.680 be over here, like you know, we were sitting we 0:52:41.800 --> 0:52:44.279 were sitting tiktoks to each other last night, looking like 0:52:44.360 --> 0:52:44.719 look at this. 0:52:45.080 --> 0:52:51.640 Oh yeah, yeah, but anyways, but you are really you. 0:52:51.880 --> 0:52:55.080 Actually, I felt like when I first met you, I'm 0:52:55.080 --> 0:52:57.400 like bro me and this girl and I never like, 0:52:57.480 --> 0:52:59.000 I feel like you were one of the few people 0:52:59.080 --> 0:53:04.040 I'm very rarely meet people who act like me, like Philly, you. 0:53:04.040 --> 0:53:05.040 Know what I'm saying, Like Drea. 0:53:05.560 --> 0:53:07.840 Me Andrea are both like silly as here like of 0:53:07.920 --> 0:53:10.040 course people if you watch the show, you know Drea's funny. 0:53:10.200 --> 0:53:12.480 I thinking like day to day when people. 0:53:12.239 --> 0:53:15.640 See you, when they they don't, yeah, you know what 0:53:15.640 --> 0:53:15.960 I'm saying. 0:53:16.000 --> 0:53:17.480 So when I met you, I was like, damn, she 0:53:17.600 --> 0:53:18.800 really pretty. She really pretty. 0:53:19.200 --> 0:53:21.200 And then because sometimes you'll see people who make skits 0:53:21.239 --> 0:53:22.480 and then you meet them in real life and they're 0:53:22.520 --> 0:53:22.960 not the same. 0:53:23.000 --> 0:53:27.600 They don't have that same Internet person Internet person. 0:53:28.200 --> 0:53:31.600 Maybe when I tell you, I think the first because 0:53:31.600 --> 0:53:34.080 I mean we hung out all the time, but like 0:53:34.160 --> 0:53:36.160 the night that we really really really hung out with 0:53:36.200 --> 0:53:39.320 like the Usher, maybe when I tell you I know 0:53:39.440 --> 0:53:41.200 them people. It was to the point to where I 0:53:41.239 --> 0:53:44.120 think the people behind us was watching watching up, watching 0:53:44.239 --> 0:53:48.359 the show. Literally, I mean I was saying, I mean 0:53:48.400 --> 0:53:50.200 I know, Usher was like shut up. 0:53:55.880 --> 0:54:02.080 It was like, did I sit down. Y'all was definitely cutting. 0:54:02.239 --> 0:54:04.080 But we also had a time in l A too. 0:54:04.560 --> 0:54:07.360 Oh my god, we had a time in l A. 0:54:07.600 --> 0:54:10.879 We was cutting up in because while we crashed them 0:54:10.960 --> 0:54:11.319 in part. 0:54:12.400 --> 0:54:12.840 What was that. 0:54:14.520 --> 0:54:14.640 Man? 0:54:15.640 --> 0:54:16.799 But what's his real name? 0:54:17.200 --> 0:54:27.480 Miguelgul Yeah, we crashed. Was like god damn, they came 0:54:27.560 --> 0:54:30.080 up that start asking that's why tickets was. We was 0:54:30.160 --> 0:54:33.719 getting all the free drinks, all the free fool We 0:54:34.400 --> 0:54:37.719 had a lot harder then y'all had the nerve. 0:54:37.840 --> 0:54:38.640 Y'all was over there. 0:54:38.760 --> 0:54:43.440 No wait, somebody was doing the worm on the ground. 0:54:44.000 --> 0:54:46.239 Oh lord, it was a lot. There was a lot. 0:54:46.400 --> 0:54:47.680 We were shuting over the section. 0:54:51.000 --> 0:54:53.320 Y'all had a dance a d nav got on the 0:54:53.400 --> 0:55:00.800 microphone was girl because we had like eight shots Miguel. 0:55:04.000 --> 0:55:08.640 And you know what that day, I found out my 0:55:09.239 --> 0:55:14.239 son's auntie had died that so I had already been 0:55:14.320 --> 0:55:16.880 drinking since twelve pm and y'all got there, and it 0:55:17.080 --> 0:55:20.120 just made me like it just like me because I 0:55:20.400 --> 0:55:24.440 was like, yeah it was. It was a rough night, 0:55:24.520 --> 0:55:27.520 but we made it good and that made it worse. 0:55:27.640 --> 0:55:28.080 My son. 0:55:29.040 --> 0:55:31.320 I told my auntie to take away all his gadgets 0:55:31.320 --> 0:55:34.440 and stuff because my that was my son's dad. That 0:55:34.600 --> 0:55:38.920 was my son's his dad's sister, and so I told 0:55:38.960 --> 0:55:40.520 my auntie because that's who had him. I was, I 0:55:40.520 --> 0:55:42.480 will take away his phone all that type of stuff. 0:55:42.840 --> 0:55:45.000 I'm so messed up in the head. I didn't even 0:55:45.400 --> 0:55:48.000 think to tell her to take his iPad because connected 0:55:48.000 --> 0:55:50.160 to his phone, because I didn't want him to find 0:55:50.280 --> 0:55:52.719 out until I got back while I could be with him. 0:55:53.600 --> 0:55:55.520 And he called me. 0:55:55.640 --> 0:55:58.000 I think y'all was at the bt uh. I think 0:55:58.080 --> 0:55:59.840 y'all was working at the BC Award. Yeah, And so 0:56:00.040 --> 0:56:02.600 I was at the hotel and I think my son 0:56:02.760 --> 0:56:05.239 called me. As soon as I answered the phone, I'm like, 0:56:05.520 --> 0:56:07.320 how did why the fuck thisa got his phone? 0:56:07.400 --> 0:56:07.719 Like why? 0:56:08.480 --> 0:56:11.000 And he just had like tears coming down his eyes 0:56:11.280 --> 0:56:13.880 and it just really broke me down. So I just 0:56:13.960 --> 0:56:17.439 started like really drinking, like you, just seeming what I needed. 0:56:17.480 --> 0:56:19.080 And then when y'all got there, it was just like 0:56:19.400 --> 0:56:21.440 I was crying, but it was just kind of like 0:56:22.000 --> 0:56:26.120 we started having fun. Yes, it definitely made everything like 0:56:26.840 --> 0:56:30.839 because you because I was like, she was dancing, She's 0:56:30.840 --> 0:56:33.239 gonna cut a rug now, I said, okay, because that's 0:56:33.239 --> 0:56:35.360 my first time going out with Yeah, it's like that 0:56:35.480 --> 0:56:39.000 was like our first time hanging out. Yeah, yeah, I said, okay, 0:56:39.880 --> 0:56:41.520 but again, don't go see this. He's gonna be like that. 0:56:41.640 --> 0:56:46.680 He is beating on my shoes. I would have about 0:56:46.719 --> 0:56:49.120 none of them got damn shoes dirty. 0:56:52.080 --> 0:56:56.440 I'm not with this same but you know what I swear, 0:56:56.520 --> 0:56:59.839 I just remember this when you were in the bathroom crying. 0:57:00.000 --> 0:57:02.080 I was in the bathroom with you. Then I had 0:57:02.160 --> 0:57:05.240 walked out to go get something and he was like, Miguel, 0:57:05.320 --> 0:57:06.080 he grabbed me. 0:57:06.160 --> 0:57:08.239 He was like, is she okay? Is she okay? 0:57:08.880 --> 0:57:12.760 Well, you know what, I do like your shoes because 0:57:12.800 --> 0:57:13.919 I was spinning Cops song. 0:57:15.880 --> 0:57:18.960 We we definitely meant to buy some, Yes, we did. 0:57:19.280 --> 0:57:19.520 We did. 0:57:19.560 --> 0:57:21.000 We gonna go on the web, so y'all make sure 0:57:21.040 --> 0:57:22.520 y'all google his shoe line and go get some. 0:57:22.680 --> 0:57:25.320 Honestly, yeah, we definitely crashed his party and we had 0:57:25.640 --> 0:57:29.880 we had a blast. Shout out to you. Thanks, thank you, Miguel. Okay, okay, 0:57:29.960 --> 0:57:33.000 let's move on, let's get the Yes. What's up, y'all? 0:57:33.040 --> 0:57:35.960 Is your girl xp andy shergirls joining the call? And 0:57:36.080 --> 0:57:38.040 I don't know about y'all, but me, I am so 0:57:38.280 --> 0:57:40.960 lazy when it comes to booking a doctor's appointment, finding 0:57:41.000 --> 0:57:43.080 a due doctor, all that stuff. 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Are they hijacked like wedding planning, or they 1:00:19.960 --> 1:00:22.360 don't make women feel worthy. 1:00:22.160 --> 1:00:22.880 Enough for their son. 1:00:23.000 --> 1:00:25.600 Now I have a story to tell, and this is 1:00:25.960 --> 1:00:28.160 no shade, no tea to anybody in my family, but 1:00:28.280 --> 1:00:31.200 this happened to me when my sister was giving birth 1:00:31.360 --> 1:00:34.200 to her first son. I wasn't allowed to be in 1:00:34.240 --> 1:00:37.920 the living room because they only allowed two people to 1:00:38.040 --> 1:00:42.600 be in there, and so his mom and yo, my 1:00:42.680 --> 1:00:45.640 mom were in the room, and my sister was upset 1:00:45.680 --> 1:00:47.760 because she wanted me in the room. And also it 1:00:48.400 --> 1:00:51.320 wasn't his first child, but it was her first child. 1:00:51.840 --> 1:00:53.640 So you know, we're trying to explain all of this, 1:00:53.840 --> 1:00:56.040 and I just felt like in that moment, like it's 1:00:56.160 --> 1:00:58.360 always just been me, my sister and my mom, and 1:00:58.440 --> 1:01:00.720 I felt like, I mean, yeah, it's a moment for everybody, 1:01:00.800 --> 1:01:03.040 but I felt like, look, nah, this is your third one. 1:01:04.920 --> 1:01:07.520 Move O would be okay, this is your third one? 1:01:07.720 --> 1:01:10.200 Okay? This is my first grand baby, this is my 1:01:10.320 --> 1:01:13.280 first nephew, So in that moment, I'm not gonna lie. 1:01:13.360 --> 1:01:15.280 Like I called my sister about that, and it's crazy 1:01:15.360 --> 1:01:17.560 because honestly, I didn't even write this. 1:01:17.840 --> 1:01:20.200 I didn't write this honestly, So it just is. 1:01:20.240 --> 1:01:22.200 Crazy because I called my sister two weeks ago and 1:01:22.240 --> 1:01:23.920 I was just really upset and I was like, I 1:01:24.040 --> 1:01:25.960 just thought that I just remember the moment, like I 1:01:26.000 --> 1:01:27.840 didn't really didn't get to see Jackson being. 1:01:27.760 --> 1:01:30.240 Born, and I don't know. I just wanted to talk 1:01:30.240 --> 1:01:33.720 about like boy moms just being overprotective, like overbearing. 1:01:34.000 --> 1:01:37.480 I had a situation another situation where in high school, 1:01:37.560 --> 1:01:39.760 like the guy I was dating at the time was 1:01:39.880 --> 1:01:41.920 just being weird and I found out he had a 1:01:41.960 --> 1:01:44.000 girl in his room and his mom was lying for him. 1:01:44.080 --> 1:01:47.600 So you're literally creating a monster and treating and teaching 1:01:47.680 --> 1:01:49.280 him that it's okay to treat. 1:01:49.120 --> 1:01:51.680 Women like this. So I want to talk about boy 1:01:51.760 --> 1:01:54.200 moms because I'd be having an issue with boy. 1:01:54.080 --> 1:01:55.200 Monk I do so well. 1:01:55.240 --> 1:01:57.480 Now I don't have an issue with him, but I 1:01:57.640 --> 1:02:01.440 just think sometimes they definitely just be if he's a 1:02:01.520 --> 1:02:06.440 mama's boy, the mom is nine times out of ten Berry, overprotected, overbearing, 1:02:07.040 --> 1:02:10.200 and be trying to control him and control his life 1:02:10.360 --> 1:02:12.680 and control his dating life, all of this stuff. 1:02:12.680 --> 1:02:14.720 So I thought, be Jaden is not your king. He's 1:02:14.800 --> 1:02:19.520 mine people, period, Bitch. I hate that, you know what, 1:02:19.960 --> 1:02:22.240 And it's baby. 1:02:22.360 --> 1:02:25.440 I didn't I dealt with the mama's boy for real, 1:02:25.560 --> 1:02:29.320 and I'm sorry I didn't cut her ass the fuck out. Yeah, 1:02:29.960 --> 1:02:33.800 sometimes you were like because and not only that, not 1:02:33.880 --> 1:02:37.200 only was she like he was a mama's boy, she 1:02:37.480 --> 1:02:39.840 just overstepped her boundaries, like she'll tell me stuff like 1:02:39.840 --> 1:02:41.480 I rememb one time I had little stick and she 1:02:41.640 --> 1:02:43.280 was like, oh, I don't like that on you. 1:02:44.200 --> 1:02:45.080 Who a true? 1:02:46.120 --> 1:02:47.720 But she I'm not gonna say who the lady is 1:02:47.760 --> 1:02:51.720 because you're kind of tied in. But my mama heard that. 1:02:51.840 --> 1:02:54.080 Come in and babe, my mama cast up the fuck 1:02:54.160 --> 1:02:57.840 out and was like whatever the fuck was? She was like, 1:02:58.160 --> 1:02:59.720 but she know not, just take it over my mama. 1:03:00.080 --> 1:03:01.520 I'm not gonna be missed because I got to call 1:03:01.520 --> 1:03:01.919 your mother. 1:03:04.720 --> 1:03:07.240 And I love her, I love you, but it was 1:03:07.480 --> 1:03:09.520 it was a stretch me for me. 1:03:11.000 --> 1:03:14.520 I'm not gonna be overprotective like mom. I'm not gonna 1:03:14.520 --> 1:03:17.440 be one of those type of moms because first and foremost, 1:03:17.520 --> 1:03:20.000 I'm a woman first, Yes you do. I'm a woman 1:03:20.160 --> 1:03:25.760 before I was your mama, so all that. No, my 1:03:25.880 --> 1:03:28.080 son probably not gonna like me when he grew up 1:03:28.160 --> 1:03:31.120 because and I think I've told you this, if he 1:03:31.240 --> 1:03:33.640 ch ain't on a girl or whatever, I'm fucking telling 1:03:34.200 --> 1:03:35.760 because at the end of the day, I'm a woman first. 1:03:35.800 --> 1:03:37.400 Don't play with no woman. Don't. 1:03:37.560 --> 1:03:39.400 You're definitely not gonna do this shit in my house 1:03:39.520 --> 1:03:42.560 because I've been a woman where a nigga didn't fucked 1:03:42.560 --> 1:03:44.560 me over and I got hurt and bitch, I would 1:03:44.560 --> 1:03:45.920 come and fuck your shit or be cha. I don't 1:03:45.920 --> 1:03:48.480 give you stay with your mama, your grandma. I don't 1:03:48.520 --> 1:03:50.360 give fucking ch ill. Would go dig your grandma by 1:03:50.440 --> 1:03:51.800 her grades and beat your ass. 1:03:51.600 --> 1:03:54.000 With her bones. I don't play. I don't care who 1:03:54.040 --> 1:03:56.840 I got disrespect with my son. You not to know 1:03:56.960 --> 1:03:59.240 how these females come and fucking my shit? Uf Will 1:03:59.280 --> 1:04:00.680 I be mad? That's I will be mad. 1:04:00.760 --> 1:04:03.600 But will I be understanding to understand? Yes, because I've 1:04:03.640 --> 1:04:06.640 done this playing with people. Stop doing that shit. Y, 1:04:07.360 --> 1:04:10.280 So I've never been the I know I won't. I 1:04:10.320 --> 1:04:11.920 will not be that type of woman. 1:04:12.720 --> 1:04:14.400 Being in a roll in him while he having his 1:04:14.560 --> 1:04:19.440 first child. Baby, you came out of me. You. I 1:04:19.520 --> 1:04:20.600 don't give a fuck about all it. 1:04:20.680 --> 1:04:22.680 I do like I'm a little my ground, but to 1:04:22.800 --> 1:04:24.920 be in a room and if anybody else want to 1:04:24.920 --> 1:04:26.560 come into that siecause babe, I can come in there, 1:04:27.680 --> 1:04:29.800 like I just don't. I won't be that type of 1:04:29.880 --> 1:04:33.320 parent that's just overstepping because I've dealt with that. And 1:04:33.720 --> 1:04:37.200 like I said, I'm woman first, Like, yeah, no, bitch, 1:04:37.600 --> 1:04:39.480 he not even have a lot of women in and 1:04:39.560 --> 1:04:41.280 out of my house, little girls and stuff. 1:04:41.480 --> 1:04:41.840 You pick. 1:04:41.880 --> 1:04:43.439 You want the girl to come out to this house 1:04:44.120 --> 1:04:47.200 right around and doing these little girls called to my phone, 1:04:47.520 --> 1:04:49.840 Like so let me say, won't house phones? 1:04:50.240 --> 1:04:52.479 So I can't even do that because I would wander 1:04:53.760 --> 1:04:56.640 and be like, hey, I'm gone. The wrong Name's purpose 1:04:56.960 --> 1:05:01.560 but something kind of controversial, and they probably might drag 1:05:01.640 --> 1:05:02.440 me for this. They might not. 1:05:02.920 --> 1:05:05.800 I think a lot of times that boy moms when 1:05:05.840 --> 1:05:08.480 they overstep their boundaries or they let their son she 1:05:08.800 --> 1:05:11.040 and they think it's funny. I seen a TikTok the 1:05:11.120 --> 1:05:15.440 other day. This guy had his babies next to each 1:05:15.440 --> 1:05:17.200 other and they were six months apart. She was like, oh, 1:05:17.280 --> 1:05:19.040 and the mom is laughing like, oh, look at the 1:05:19.040 --> 1:05:22.280 ghetto twins, and everybody's just laughing in the comments, and 1:05:22.360 --> 1:05:27.000 it's like you raised somebody like that. So this is 1:05:27.040 --> 1:05:32.080 what I think truly. I think sometimes women that are 1:05:32.240 --> 1:05:34.960 boy moms and overstep their boundaries and oh, my son 1:05:35.040 --> 1:05:38.120 can do no wrong. They're looking for that acceptance and 1:05:38.200 --> 1:05:39.920 a man and their son that they never. 1:05:39.840 --> 1:05:43.320 Got in their dating world. Yeah, like they never had 1:05:43.400 --> 1:05:45.439 that acceptance of like they're kind of like a pick 1:05:45.560 --> 1:05:48.120 me and they never really got picked. So they look 1:05:48.200 --> 1:05:50.720 for that acceptance in their son, like oh this my 1:05:50.840 --> 1:05:53.600 son gonna do whatever for me. My son's gonna do everything. 1:05:53.720 --> 1:06:04.400 And yes, that's so bring and dad. Yeah, yea, I've 1:06:04.400 --> 1:06:07.680 seen that recently. Yes, that's discussed exact which one you're 1:06:07.680 --> 1:06:08.160 talking about. 1:06:08.240 --> 1:06:11.520 It's very weird. But you know where I seen a 1:06:11.640 --> 1:06:12.760 TikTok or. 1:06:12.880 --> 1:06:15.160 It was a video that went viral and it was 1:06:15.240 --> 1:06:17.840 this woman and her son had came around to the 1:06:17.920 --> 1:06:20.040 ring camera because she was at work. You come round 1:06:20.080 --> 1:06:22.320 to the ring camera and he's like, mom, I had 1:06:22.400 --> 1:06:25.000 both my girl h I guess the girlfriends was like friends. 1:06:25.040 --> 1:06:26.640 So he got caught up and one of the girlfriends 1:06:26.760 --> 1:06:30.640 called him little boy, like nine or ten, and he 1:06:30.760 --> 1:06:32.680 was like, mom, help me because I got caught up. 1:06:32.720 --> 1:06:33.920 I go to one of the girls and she had 1:06:33.960 --> 1:06:35.440 the other girl on the phone and they called me 1:06:35.520 --> 1:06:37.040 up and this and this, and she was like, well, 1:06:37.120 --> 1:06:38.360 come out in the house. I'm finna go on. I'm 1:06:38.360 --> 1:06:40.480 finna tell you what to say. I don't care if 1:06:40.520 --> 1:06:42.960 he is nine years old. I don't like that because 1:06:44.120 --> 1:06:47.520 the behavior. Yes, when my son moved to Atlanta, Now 1:06:47.760 --> 1:06:49.200 wasn't Burman Hay go to white school. 1:06:49.800 --> 1:06:52.200 So we moved to Atlanta. 1:06:52.880 --> 1:06:55.439 Not gonna why my son because see, Brice gotta little 1:06:55.440 --> 1:06:58.560 curly you little girls because I haven't watched myself, because 1:06:58.560 --> 1:07:01.080 I'm gona sit in the holes, y'all, not little hole. 1:07:01.600 --> 1:07:03.400 But that's not talk. But the little girls is like. 1:07:03.440 --> 1:07:05.680 Crazy over my son. And every day my son come home, 1:07:05.720 --> 1:07:08.320 he got a new fucking girlfriend or they be friends. 1:07:08.480 --> 1:07:11.800 I know, that's right, not ill the girls. 1:07:11.960 --> 1:07:12.200 I know. 1:07:13.440 --> 1:07:14.680 Yeah, he had a roster. 1:07:16.880 --> 1:07:20.320 So sweet he is. He's a I can see why 1:07:20.400 --> 1:07:23.800 because he's just so. He's very sweet, he's athletic, he's 1:07:23.840 --> 1:07:24.440 a gentleman. 1:07:24.560 --> 1:07:27.320 So yeah, that makes me And I said I had 1:07:27.400 --> 1:07:29.320 to tell him. I'm like, you know, you don't do that. 1:07:29.440 --> 1:07:31.840 We're not gonna talk to friends. You pick you one 1:07:31.880 --> 1:07:33.560 little girl, like I'm trying to teach him at a 1:07:33.640 --> 1:07:34.160 young age. 1:07:34.280 --> 1:07:37.160 We're not running through hoes. You know, pick you one 1:07:37.240 --> 1:07:39.200 little nice girl and you talk to her. We're not 1:07:39.320 --> 1:07:41.040 talking to friends. We're not doing all that. 1:07:41.320 --> 1:07:43.760 But you know, it's crazy at this age that I'm 1:07:43.800 --> 1:07:46.520 at well with my son's age, I feel like he 1:07:46.680 --> 1:07:49.080 gonna be like the type that's gonna be a little 1:07:49.160 --> 1:07:53.520 rain over. Because yes, like one time this little girl, 1:07:53.600 --> 1:07:55.720 he liked to her, and she come around him and 1:07:55.920 --> 1:07:59.560 she hit him with my two fill out the two 1:07:59.600 --> 1:08:02.160 fairty give me no money this equivalent so saying I need. 1:08:02.120 --> 1:08:02.800 My bills paid. 1:08:02.840 --> 1:08:08.680 Yeah, but here that just fell out too too nice 1:08:08.720 --> 1:08:11.200 before and I gave him like ten to twenty dollars 1:08:11.280 --> 1:08:12.800 one of them. I think it was like teen dollars. 1:08:12.880 --> 1:08:13.760 This is a few years ago. 1:08:14.160 --> 1:08:15.960 He gave his money to the girl because. 1:08:16.760 --> 1:08:19.440 Get the whole fucking teams. 1:08:20.439 --> 1:08:23.240 He could have slid a little too, got a lot too. 1:08:24.120 --> 1:08:26.200 You could have gave hard dollars, give a little time, 1:08:26.320 --> 1:08:33.759 and I don't know, you don't give for the Hall gotta. 1:08:33.560 --> 1:08:36.599 Say he had like a little sweetheart, and that's okay. 1:08:36.960 --> 1:08:41.080 I rather than be a sweetheart dead as. 1:08:41.960 --> 1:08:44.200 Being a sweetheart as a man, he's gonna find a 1:08:44.240 --> 1:08:44.639 good woman. 1:08:44.800 --> 1:08:47.600 Yeah, But I don't know because it's a lot of 1:08:47.600 --> 1:08:50.280 good women I here that be fucking over these little boys. 1:08:50.479 --> 1:08:52.880 And once he get it out, I've been I don't know. 1:08:53.439 --> 1:08:55.320 I read to snatch a bitch. 1:08:55.640 --> 1:08:58.320 I don't know people to go through heartbreak as children, 1:08:58.400 --> 1:09:00.760 like all blue boys go through that, all little girls 1:09:00.840 --> 1:09:03.400 go through. But I think it's still good that you're 1:09:03.439 --> 1:09:07.240 teaching him good habits because guess what when he is 1:09:07.280 --> 1:09:10.400 an adult, because we deal with this with me talking 1:09:10.439 --> 1:09:13.400 about oh I had this wrong in my childhood and 1:09:13.520 --> 1:09:15.600 my daddy didn't do this, my mama didn't do this. 1:09:16.080 --> 1:09:19.200 So you're doing your part as a mother, so he 1:09:19.280 --> 1:09:21.559 don't have nothing to blame, you know what I'm saying. 1:09:21.600 --> 1:09:24.360 So when he's dating, he had a good relationship with 1:09:24.439 --> 1:09:26.880 his mother. His mother taught him right from wrong. So 1:09:27.000 --> 1:09:28.640 if he's doing wrong, you can only do so much 1:09:28.680 --> 1:09:30.360 as a mother. I think that's what people need to 1:09:30.400 --> 1:09:33.679 realize too. I agree a mother being a good mother. 1:09:33.800 --> 1:09:36.519 You don't know that you're gonna raise somebody who's crazy 1:09:36.640 --> 1:09:40.000 or does like everybody goes in trying when most people 1:09:40.080 --> 1:09:42.280 go in trying to be a good parent. So as 1:09:42.360 --> 1:09:45.920 long as you doing your due diligence to instill in 1:09:46.040 --> 1:09:47.040 him the morals. 1:09:46.800 --> 1:09:49.680 And values that you have as a woman, that's all 1:09:49.720 --> 1:09:50.160 you can do. 1:09:50.240 --> 1:09:52.200 And you can say that you did your part, but 1:09:52.360 --> 1:09:54.160 he can't grow up and being like, oh I need 1:09:54.240 --> 1:09:55.880 therapy because my mom is crazy. 1:09:57.280 --> 1:09:59.439 You're doing your part. I be around you. I see 1:09:59.479 --> 1:10:01.920 how you are when I tell you he is so 1:10:02.560 --> 1:10:04.719 well mannered. Yes, ma'am. 1:10:04.840 --> 1:10:07.240 No, I got him a Christmas gift. I mean you 1:10:07.280 --> 1:10:09.360 would have thought I pulled up with a maybag. 1:10:10.960 --> 1:10:11.400 I love. 1:10:11.760 --> 1:10:14.640 I love having stuff to kids because my nephews are 1:10:14.680 --> 1:10:18.960 so spoiled. I give Jackson something, Oh thanks Auntie. Yeah, 1:10:19.200 --> 1:10:21.240 he gonna play with his other thirty God damn. And 1:10:21.320 --> 1:10:23.560 I'm not saying Carter don't have everything. But Carter is 1:10:23.680 --> 1:10:24.639 just grateful. 1:10:24.680 --> 1:10:28.680 I'm say his name, yeah, yokay, and he's just he's 1:10:28.720 --> 1:10:31.000 just so sweet, yeah, so sweet. 1:10:31.000 --> 1:10:32.920 And let me not say Jackson, because Jackson be grateful. 1:10:32.920 --> 1:10:34.320 It's the little one, it's the little one. 1:10:34.680 --> 1:10:35.599 Jackson be grateful. 1:10:35.600 --> 1:10:37.760 It's the little one. So you're doing an amazing job. 1:10:38.120 --> 1:10:40.679 And I'm glad that you can speak for boy mom 1:10:40.760 --> 1:10:42.200 since you do have kids and we don't. 1:10:42.439 --> 1:10:44.519 Yeah, And I think that that's good because you don't 1:10:44.520 --> 1:10:46.599 want to be the type of woman that's enabling your 1:10:46.680 --> 1:10:49.120 son to do bullshit, because I one hundred percent believe 1:10:49.160 --> 1:10:50.680 when dude A lot of the time, when dudes be 1:10:50.720 --> 1:10:53.120 growing up to be fuck niggas and they be playing 1:10:53.200 --> 1:10:55.600 over women and fucking over them, if be having a 1:10:55.680 --> 1:10:58.600 lot to do with a mama, flucky, yes, like I 1:10:58.720 --> 1:11:00.800 be having a lot to do, it be having a 1:11:00.880 --> 1:11:03.960 lot to do with they damn mamas because they mama's 1:11:04.080 --> 1:11:06.439 enabled their behavior and made them feel like, oh, you 1:11:06.520 --> 1:11:10.200 could do no wrong. You my biggest gifts, my biggest blessing. 1:11:10.320 --> 1:11:12.559 So I'm just gonna go along with whatever you want 1:11:12.600 --> 1:11:14.559 and whatever you do, because I don't want to lose 1:11:14.680 --> 1:11:17.759 our relationship or like lyck sais, sometimes they be depending 1:11:18.280 --> 1:11:22.920 on their son for like that male camaraderie, that male relationship. 1:11:22.400 --> 1:11:23.240 That they never had. 1:11:23.560 --> 1:11:26.639 So they just being don't have money, yeah, and don't 1:11:26.720 --> 1:11:28.959 let it end up being their son end up being successful, 1:11:28.960 --> 1:11:31.200 because then they really be going along with his bullshit 1:11:31.280 --> 1:11:33.880 because he be taking care of them. And so I 1:11:33.960 --> 1:11:36.599 think a lot of the time it be a lot 1:11:36.680 --> 1:11:39.800 of guys moms fought that they be on bullshe because 1:11:39.800 --> 1:11:43.280 they don't have no accountability. The mamas don't have no accountability. 1:11:43.360 --> 1:11:45.479 So now your son don't have no accountability, and he 1:11:45.560 --> 1:11:47.760 think a lot of shit is okay because you be 1:11:47.840 --> 1:11:49.360 letting him feel like it's okay. 1:11:50.240 --> 1:11:51.639 And it's how you take of all that shit. 1:11:51.680 --> 1:11:54.840 Bitch you as a woman, first home, because doing the 1:11:54.920 --> 1:11:57.479 same shit hell, and you be ready to confront. 1:11:57.520 --> 1:11:58.200 Don't buy some shit. 1:11:58.280 --> 1:11:59.160 No, it's the same thing. 1:11:59.280 --> 1:12:05.160 If you feel that, hey, yup, you feel how you feel, 1:12:05.400 --> 1:12:07.720 take that same feeling. You can't cuss this man out 1:12:07.760 --> 1:12:09.800 over here for doing you like that, but then you 1:12:09.920 --> 1:12:11.680 let your son do that shit to another one. 1:12:11.720 --> 1:12:12.799 Maan, that's this your comma. 1:12:12.840 --> 1:12:14.479 That's why this NHA doing you like that, because you 1:12:14.600 --> 1:12:16.320 let your son go out here and do all these 1:12:16.360 --> 1:12:17.040 other women like that. 1:12:17.439 --> 1:12:19.960 That's just so crazy, Like how why is it so 1:12:20.160 --> 1:12:23.560 hard just to be a good person? Oh sure, I 1:12:23.760 --> 1:12:25.680 was thinking about that this morning. I just think you 1:12:25.840 --> 1:12:28.160 either are are you not? I don't really I think 1:12:28.200 --> 1:12:30.720 a lot of stuff just can't be taught. Either you 1:12:30.840 --> 1:12:32.360 got it in you or you're not. 1:12:32.640 --> 1:12:34.800 I think really and truly, and especially now because you 1:12:34.800 --> 1:12:37.520 know I be reading why be listening to my Bible. 1:12:37.280 --> 1:12:38.280 In the Day podcast? 1:12:38.760 --> 1:12:43.560 Like, some people are just innately evil and it just 1:12:43.760 --> 1:12:46.160 can't be removed because that's just who you are, Like 1:12:46.240 --> 1:12:48.519 that shit is inside of you. And some people are 1:12:48.640 --> 1:12:52.840 just good, genuine people with good, genuine hearts. I think 1:12:53.040 --> 1:12:55.839 some people couldn't be a good person the life depended 1:12:55.920 --> 1:13:00.320 on it's It's scary, it is, but I mean that's 1:13:00.360 --> 1:13:03.200 why us as people who are good people, we just 1:13:03.240 --> 1:13:05.200 have to protect ourselves from people like that. And I 1:13:05.240 --> 1:13:07.679 think that's the the part too, because when you're naturally 1:13:07.840 --> 1:13:10.439 a nice person, a genuine person with a good heart, 1:13:11.120 --> 1:13:11.960 a lot of the time it. 1:13:12.040 --> 1:13:14.880 Almost seem like you kind of team to attract them. 1:13:17.320 --> 1:13:23.160 Yeah, my god, it's like they just off you out. 1:13:23.240 --> 1:13:24.519 They're like, oh, this is pray? 1:13:25.040 --> 1:13:25.479 What is that? 1:13:25.560 --> 1:13:27.360 Opposite the track the Sweetest? 1:13:28.640 --> 1:13:33.559 Looky, Hi, leave me alone? 1:13:34.840 --> 1:13:39.519 You are laying. Okay, So any boy mom's out there, 1:13:39.600 --> 1:13:41.599 leave a comment and let us know how y'all feel. 1:13:42.200 --> 1:13:45.080 And if y'all be enabling y'all. Goddamn son because I 1:13:45.200 --> 1:13:50.080 want to hear y'all reason like that makes sense, y'all. 1:13:50.640 --> 1:13:52.559 I'm not gonna lie. If I see my ex from hospital, 1:13:52.560 --> 1:13:54.320 if I saw his mama to this day, I was like, 1:13:55.600 --> 1:13:58.280 you are you are a week ass, You are a 1:13:58.400 --> 1:14:02.559 week ass whole. You really weak as fuck, And I'm 1:14:02.560 --> 1:14:04.120 gonna go on tour when we go on tour in 1:14:04.160 --> 1:14:05.800 twenty twenty five, and I'm gonna talk about you on 1:14:06.000 --> 1:14:06.479 every day. 1:14:06.720 --> 1:14:09.120 I mean, because I think too, Like Bee Len said, 1:14:09.280 --> 1:14:12.080 you're a woman first, and I think sometimes these same 1:14:12.200 --> 1:14:15.960 women be forgetting the trauma that they went through with 1:14:16.120 --> 1:14:19.960 these men, and then you're aiding and traumatizing. 1:14:19.320 --> 1:14:22.919 A young girl because a lot of women do not heal. 1:14:22.760 --> 1:14:24.639 From a certain street that men be doing to them, 1:14:24.680 --> 1:14:26.640 and they carry it on through out they life. It 1:14:26.720 --> 1:14:28.880 make it hard for them to get in new relationships. 1:14:29.120 --> 1:14:30.760 It make it hard for them to love on their 1:14:30.840 --> 1:14:31.639 kids properly. 1:14:31.960 --> 1:14:33.120 Yep, I'm gonna tell y'all. 1:14:32.960 --> 1:14:34.720 Because the trauma that they went through with the men, 1:14:34.880 --> 1:14:37.519 because y'all fucking mama was enabling, yo. 1:14:37.600 --> 1:14:38.879 Ask that's what is shit starting. 1:14:39.520 --> 1:14:41.400 I was in therapy and I was talking to my 1:14:41.520 --> 1:14:45.400 therapist about cheating because she went on to explain how 1:14:46.000 --> 1:14:50.080 cheating can be a form of abuse. I agree of 1:14:50.240 --> 1:14:53.679 mental abuse, so I'm not gonna get into what she said. 1:14:53.840 --> 1:14:56.519 It was obviously a private conversation, but I really want 1:14:56.640 --> 1:14:59.599 y'all to like take a deep dive and do your 1:14:59.680 --> 1:15:04.000 google and do some research on like the mental abuse 1:15:04.240 --> 1:15:06.599 and all that stuff that comes with cheating and how 1:15:06.720 --> 1:15:09.400 sometimes they will use that as a form of like 1:15:09.479 --> 1:15:10.599 a control method. 1:15:11.479 --> 1:15:13.480 Yeah, because if I didn't. 1:15:13.280 --> 1:15:15.439 Sign up for this shit, if I didn't consent to 1:15:15.560 --> 1:15:19.320 be in a polygamous relationship knowing that you're gonna be 1:15:19.400 --> 1:15:21.600 dating other people or I'm gonna whatever, Like we have 1:15:21.680 --> 1:15:23.960 an often relationship. If it's just supposed to be me 1:15:24.080 --> 1:15:26.400 and you and you constantly cheating on me, that does 1:15:26.479 --> 1:15:27.920 stuff to people's mental health. 1:15:28.280 --> 1:15:30.320 Yeah, it's definitely abused. 1:15:30.400 --> 1:15:33.879 So for the the you're a neighborer, you know, especially 1:15:33.880 --> 1:15:36.080 as his mother allowing you. But like I said, I 1:15:36.120 --> 1:15:38.760 think that goes into wanting acceptance from any man. You 1:15:38.800 --> 1:15:40.280 don't care who it comes from. You just want to 1:15:40.320 --> 1:15:44.160 feel accepted by somebody. So let us know what y'all think. 1:15:44.200 --> 1:15:46.559 What's up, y'all is your girl xp andy s girls 1:15:46.640 --> 1:15:48.920 ain the call and y'all know we are always putting 1:15:49.000 --> 1:15:51.680 y'all own game about all the good hygiene products, So 1:15:51.720 --> 1:15:54.640 we're gonna tell y'all about good wipes. 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If you're more of an online shopper, look 1:16:28.120 --> 1:16:30.760 on Amazon tell them we sent you. If you want 1:16:30.840 --> 1:16:33.679 to upgrade your restaurant ritual, you can grab good Wipes 1:16:33.720 --> 1:16:37.400 at Target, Walmart, Kroger, and most local grocery stores. Just 1:16:37.479 --> 1:16:39.320 head to the toilet paper owl and look for the 1:16:39.400 --> 1:16:42.920 bright aqua rods and emerald packages. They're also available on 1:16:43.000 --> 1:16:45.040 Amazon if you're more of an online shopper. 1:16:52.000 --> 1:16:55.000 Okay, a time I got too drunk and embarrassing myself 1:16:55.080 --> 1:17:00.120 in public. Ooh, probably when I slipped and filled on 1:17:00.240 --> 1:17:01.240 my back in the club. 1:17:01.760 --> 1:17:04.680 Where was this? You wasn't no? 1:17:05.080 --> 1:17:09.200 So I had went out with my friend. This is 1:17:09.200 --> 1:17:11.760 when I was friends with my friend Marlene. We had 1:17:11.840 --> 1:17:13.400 went out. We had went to like R and B 1:17:13.560 --> 1:17:17.320 night or something, and we was in somebody section and 1:17:18.000 --> 1:17:20.040 we was like sitting up on like the little couch 1:17:20.160 --> 1:17:22.160 in the section, and then I was I got down 1:17:23.000 --> 1:17:26.800 and I was like talking to somebody and like, girl, 1:17:26.840 --> 1:17:29.000 I don't know if the floor was like wet or whatever, 1:17:29.479 --> 1:17:31.720 but I wasn't paying attention because I was drunk and 1:17:31.840 --> 1:17:34.320 I had heels on of course, So like I slipped 1:17:34.400 --> 1:17:36.560 and I fell back, and then I had on a 1:17:36.600 --> 1:17:40.360 white shirt. And y'all know them club floors be dirty 1:17:40.840 --> 1:17:41.519 and wet. 1:17:41.960 --> 1:17:44.160 They had to wipe you down, y'all. 1:17:44.280 --> 1:17:48.120 Like I fell on my back, and luckily, I don't 1:17:48.120 --> 1:17:49.720 think that many people noticed that. 1:17:49.840 --> 1:17:51.760 My homeboy he was there. He was like you good, 1:17:51.800 --> 1:17:53.479 you good, and he was like trying to help me up. 1:17:54.080 --> 1:17:56.000 But it was so embarrassed. So we're gonna move on. 1:17:56.400 --> 1:18:00.640 Yes, now it's time to get into the bowl. 1:18:01.160 --> 1:18:04.040 Boubou bow. 1:18:06.240 --> 1:18:10.160 So for the bed topic, I wanted to talk about 1:18:10.840 --> 1:18:15.640 masturbation and do you feel like if you masturbate a lot, 1:18:15.680 --> 1:18:18.360 does that mean you don't need a man? Because I 1:18:18.439 --> 1:18:22.160 feel like you still need a man in my person, But. 1:18:22.320 --> 1:18:24.680 You're nowhere a lot of times where I am. 1:18:24.840 --> 1:18:27.479 Now, I'll be good with like just masturbating a lot 1:18:27.520 --> 1:18:30.360 of times. YE needs to me the fuck out, y'all. 1:18:30.400 --> 1:18:32.400 I'm masturbated crowd like every day. 1:18:34.240 --> 1:18:35.840 A lot that come with these niggas. 1:18:35.880 --> 1:18:39.800 Though like before, I probably do it to a nigga 1:18:39.800 --> 1:18:43.920 again after yeah, not after strong. 1:18:47.479 --> 1:18:51.320 He got a lot of powerlifting. What's that they not 1:18:51.520 --> 1:18:52.040 doing it? No? 1:18:52.840 --> 1:18:55.679 Yeah, Well I'm not gonna lie. I'm very verbal about 1:18:55.680 --> 1:18:57.040 what I want in the bedroom. 1:18:57.240 --> 1:19:04.240 You tell the niggas. Ain't look like she was like yeah, 1:19:05.720 --> 1:19:08.040 yo me, yes, I give. 1:19:09.640 --> 1:19:13.080 I used directions because you I know you fit the bus. 1:19:13.280 --> 1:19:17.320 Because that I like you a little, I got to say, 1:19:18.640 --> 1:19:21.600 but don't be afraid to do that. But so I 1:19:21.760 --> 1:19:25.759 feel like I'm not gonna lie. I masturbate probably about 1:19:25.840 --> 1:19:29.160 every other day. I get sit in, I beat I 1:19:29.320 --> 1:19:32.599 beat that meat okay, but I will say. 1:19:32.520 --> 1:19:40.240 It's the right I replacement for a man. You know what, 1:19:40.320 --> 1:19:41.040 I'm not gonna lie. 1:19:41.360 --> 1:19:44.040 I'm the type of person like after I masturbate, like 1:19:44.200 --> 1:19:46.320 it be feeling good, but I'll be like I need 1:19:46.439 --> 1:19:49.120 so it made me want to dig more, like I 1:19:49.280 --> 1:19:50.479 be wanting to have sex. 1:19:50.640 --> 1:19:53.400 And I don't know what it is. I just really 1:19:53.560 --> 1:19:56.600 it's something about a body up on me, like I 1:19:56.720 --> 1:19:58.880 need that body. That's what I was gonna say. I 1:19:59.040 --> 1:19:59.839 like the NVC. 1:20:00.160 --> 1:20:03.040 Yes, that's why I feel like masturbation E isn't enough 1:20:03.120 --> 1:20:06.120 for me because it's just something like, don't get me wrong, 1:20:06.200 --> 1:20:08.680 and these days with all the toys and technology, a 1:20:08.800 --> 1:20:09.400 toy could. 1:20:09.320 --> 1:20:11.400 Do everything a man can do. That it can do 1:20:11.520 --> 1:20:12.519 more than what a man can do. 1:20:13.280 --> 1:20:17.360 But it's just something about that body to body contact me. 1:20:21.680 --> 1:20:23.600 Yeah, I like you. 1:20:24.240 --> 1:20:27.120 I love the intimacy part. But if I don't have it, 1:20:27.720 --> 1:20:29.599 or if a nigga just not turning me on enough, 1:20:29.720 --> 1:20:32.559 because you know it's mental with us. 1:20:33.160 --> 1:20:37.720 I'm okay. If you can't mentally stimulate me, then I'm okay. 1:20:37.560 --> 1:20:41.640 With just masturbat. Yeah, but I do rather have that 1:20:42.000 --> 1:20:44.280 intimacy like I do. 1:20:44.479 --> 1:20:46.960 But if not I'm cool like me. 1:20:47.120 --> 1:20:47.560 Y'all know me. 1:20:47.680 --> 1:20:50.320 I love to take me a little z quill. Once 1:20:50.360 --> 1:20:51.680 I get that z quill, let me. 1:20:54.439 --> 1:21:01.120 And really, if I'm using a row, I'm gonna be okay. 1:21:01.280 --> 1:21:03.880 I tried it a few times. I had a rose 1:21:03.880 --> 1:21:05.439 when they first time out, and I tried it, and 1:21:05.520 --> 1:21:06.400 it's just didn't. 1:21:08.600 --> 1:21:11.360 Very right. Maybe they use minds right, No. 1:21:11.680 --> 1:21:15.400 It's just very very strong, like it's no build up. 1:21:15.640 --> 1:21:17.760 In my opinion, I feel like as soon as you 1:21:17.880 --> 1:21:21.240 put it on there, you don't. Yeah, it's over. 1:21:21.280 --> 1:21:22.400 As soon as you turn it on. 1:21:22.680 --> 1:21:25.920 You're like if you'll do with your masturbation edging, I 1:21:26.120 --> 1:21:27.240 like to edge a little bit. 1:21:27.520 --> 1:21:30.200 Yeah, yeah, I like to go ahead and get mine. 1:21:31.439 --> 1:21:34.479 You're trying to get yelled in what she's trying to 1:21:34.520 --> 1:21:37.800 make love and do foul playing ship ship about it. 1:21:38.080 --> 1:21:41.400 But that's because I look at masturbation too. Almost it's 1:21:41.479 --> 1:21:43.200 like a stress reliever. 1:21:43.400 --> 1:21:50.240 Probably like I love, get you, pretty girl, get a 1:21:50.360 --> 1:21:51.480 hall experience. 1:21:51.600 --> 1:21:55.840 I'll be pouring my little one. Yeah, I might take 1:21:55.920 --> 1:21:59.439 a little edable. I'm not drinking right now. 1:22:00.080 --> 1:22:01.760 Up a little said. 1:22:01.840 --> 1:22:05.560 So soon as I drove my son, I'll be in 1:22:05.680 --> 1:22:06.719 there getting it down. 1:22:07.439 --> 1:22:09.160 When I driving my back school and when you go 1:22:09.240 --> 1:22:13.000 to sleep back again by two three hours, maybe I 1:22:13.120 --> 1:22:13.360 do that. 1:22:14.560 --> 1:22:18.800 Indeed, i'd be so yeah watching poor I'd be so 1:22:18.960 --> 1:22:19.840 fucking pissed off. 1:22:22.439 --> 1:22:23.840 I'm not gonna watch the last time. 1:22:24.000 --> 1:22:26.479 I was like, cause y'all know, like I like to 1:22:26.560 --> 1:22:30.920 watch lesbian porn. Whenever I do, I like it's something 1:22:30.960 --> 1:22:33.920 about I already don't like me and as it is, so, 1:22:34.479 --> 1:22:37.479 I always want to think about the man I'm dating, 1:22:37.520 --> 1:22:40.519 Like I can't masturbate just off of like thinking about 1:22:40.760 --> 1:22:43.439 six that I had with somebody. But if I'm trying 1:22:43.479 --> 1:22:45.920 to like hurry up or whatever, I'll be watching a 1:22:45.960 --> 1:22:47.920 porn I watched lesbian porn. After I'm done, I'll be like, 1:22:48.000 --> 1:22:52.840 y'all are whole. Yeah, you're discussed, you at. 1:22:54.120 --> 1:22:59.720 Bitch, you gotta hurry. Oh, I'll be feeling so disgusting. 1:23:00.520 --> 1:23:04.679 I don't know, like I am a filthy bitch. 1:23:04.800 --> 1:23:06.200 Why was I watching babies? 1:23:06.280 --> 1:23:07.240 But you're not? 1:23:12.520 --> 1:23:15.519 Like I am so different. I'm not gonna fucking say 1:23:15.560 --> 1:23:18.280 it because I don't. You don't have to say. You 1:23:18.320 --> 1:23:18.840 don't have to say. 1:23:19.000 --> 1:23:21.120 But some of the ship that I like not gay 1:23:21.200 --> 1:23:22.720 porn because I don't want to better think because they 1:23:22.760 --> 1:23:23.240 probably gonna. 1:23:23.240 --> 1:23:24.800 I never think niggasu niggas. 1:23:25.800 --> 1:23:36.400 But you know what, now, okay, you like to watch 1:23:37.040 --> 1:23:37.320 or something. 1:23:40.320 --> 1:23:42.320 If it's a guy that I'm day and I like 1:23:42.600 --> 1:23:47.559 really fuck with him, Like sometimes I will find porn 1:23:47.800 --> 1:23:50.479 like in that body shape or whatever, like how they 1:23:50.560 --> 1:23:53.320 look with them sucking the girl, and I imagine, like 1:23:53.920 --> 1:23:54.160 it is. 1:23:54.200 --> 1:23:59.519 Term is that appenin because I don't know what I 1:23:59.560 --> 1:24:03.559 got on. Well, it's usually when men like to watch 1:24:03.640 --> 1:24:06.160 their woman have sex with some people, so I think 1:24:06.200 --> 1:24:07.880 it's the same thing if a woman likes to watch 1:24:07.920 --> 1:24:08.439 her partner. 1:24:08.920 --> 1:24:10.720 No, that's not that bad girl. I thought she was 1:24:10.720 --> 1:24:15.360 about to say something crazy and you'll be putting your head. 1:24:17.600 --> 1:24:27.880 Like Bart Simpson. She was about to say, yeah, that's 1:24:27.920 --> 1:24:32.240 noth I was like, oh, that's not that's not me. 1:24:33.120 --> 1:24:34.320 I'll see your poorn and it. 1:24:34.360 --> 1:24:34.680 Looked like. 1:24:44.760 --> 1:24:47.360 I don't want a nigga that cheat always. 1:24:47.680 --> 1:24:49.600 But I kind of get out like it kind of 1:24:49.680 --> 1:24:52.200 turned me a little like yeah, thinking about you, Yeah, 1:24:52.400 --> 1:24:54.400 thing like a babbage And that's so weird because if 1:24:54.400 --> 1:24:56.000 I've had on my nether chet on me like I 1:24:56.160 --> 1:25:01.559 can this, but no, it's different from knowing real life. 1:25:01.400 --> 1:25:06.120 In a fantasy. Yeah, okay, this being sneaky. You know 1:25:06.200 --> 1:25:08.320 what I'm saying. I don't want to see none of 1:25:08.360 --> 1:25:08.720 that ship. 1:25:09.479 --> 1:25:11.760 So y'all okay, So with all of us, now that 1:25:11.880 --> 1:25:14.920 we clarified, everybody on the couch watch porn. 1:25:15.560 --> 1:25:16.360 How do y'all feel that? 1:25:16.439 --> 1:25:19.240 Y'all know that porn Hub got men that a stay 1:25:19.439 --> 1:25:26.479 and oh my god, it's being in element bitch. 1:25:26.520 --> 1:25:28.240 Yes, you must ain't been on that in a minute. 1:25:29.920 --> 1:25:32.240 Oh man should be on there in Georgia and I 1:25:32.439 --> 1:25:34.559 have to go to some other poor sights and im 1:25:34.680 --> 1:25:38.839 poorn videos be old, it's funk like, yes. 1:25:38.960 --> 1:25:43.879 Mother, I love Why what the fun with the music. 1:25:43.720 --> 1:25:47.720 In the you know what everybody else Harris, Why I'm 1:25:47.760 --> 1:25:49.080 down here though? What I'm gonna do? 1:25:49.200 --> 1:25:51.040 I'm gonna look at me a little poor hub? Why 1:25:51.120 --> 1:25:51.680 get in my car. 1:25:53.479 --> 1:25:54.679 When I got back to the house. 1:25:54.920 --> 1:25:57.559 That is what you should do? What what sights do? Y'all? 1:25:57.680 --> 1:25:58.800 Use porn Hub? 1:25:59.520 --> 1:26:03.240 Yeah, use porn Hub a lot, or it's a bore 1:26:03.360 --> 1:26:08.960 ex videos, egg videos, worn Hub and then like judging 1:26:09.040 --> 1:26:09.760 me free by me. 1:26:10.040 --> 1:26:13.320 I used to be looking on Twitter. That's why I 1:26:13.400 --> 1:26:17.800 go to now porn Hub. Look, especially if you follow 1:26:17.880 --> 1:26:20.200 Janie just gets down. 1:26:20.320 --> 1:26:23.760 Twitter has like no lots. Twitter has really good porn. 1:26:23.840 --> 1:26:25.760 And what I like about the porn on Twitter is 1:26:25.800 --> 1:26:27.680 that I feel like it gets straight to. 1:26:27.720 --> 1:26:35.439 The point story line. The watering. Yeah with a fucking 1:26:35.560 --> 1:26:39.040 mini skirt, I for real. 1:26:39.280 --> 1:26:41.960 Yeah that's the names being nasty. She posts some good 1:26:42.000 --> 1:26:45.639 stuff because like, I like that she does solo content. Yeah, 1:26:45.760 --> 1:26:49.160 I like a little solo. Sometimes I would wish she 1:26:49.160 --> 1:26:51.000 would just be in the bed, like sometimes she just 1:26:51.080 --> 1:26:52.120 be at the chiropractor. 1:26:52.600 --> 1:26:55.160 Nigga break her back. She start rubbing up Coolie in 1:26:55.200 --> 1:26:55.519 the car. 1:26:56.120 --> 1:26:58.280 I did once watch one of the lads and porn 1:26:58.360 --> 1:27:00.720 I like, and she giving a little massage this one man. 1:27:01.800 --> 1:27:02.840 Yeah, I like stuff like that. 1:27:02.960 --> 1:27:06.400 I just don't I like a real If it is 1:27:06.479 --> 1:27:08.720 gonna be a storyline, it just needs to be something real. 1:27:09.640 --> 1:27:16.439 Just knock on the door you want, but come out. 1:27:16.520 --> 1:27:21.400 Some people like that build up. They neither. I like 1:27:21.960 --> 1:27:22.720 straight to the point. 1:27:23.200 --> 1:27:25.679 I'm a Twitter girl, porn hub girl. 1:27:26.720 --> 1:27:29.400 But we all agree masturbation does not take the place 1:27:29.439 --> 1:27:31.920 of a man though, right, No, you. 1:27:32.000 --> 1:27:45.240 Still needed man sometimes not she need another shine y'all. Okay, 1:27:45.680 --> 1:27:47.760 the mother week. First off, I want to shout out 1:27:47.920 --> 1:27:51.760 my hairstylist Diddy at rich Look Hair if y'all need 1:27:51.880 --> 1:27:54.160 y'all a little quick glueless unit. 1:27:54.240 --> 1:27:55.880 I needed something to throw on my hair real quick, 1:27:55.920 --> 1:27:58.040 and she hooked me up. So y'all make sure y'all 1:27:58.800 --> 1:28:01.840 visit at rich Look Hair on Instagram. She has all 1:28:01.880 --> 1:28:03.479 the bundles you need. When I had my braids in, 1:28:03.600 --> 1:28:05.000 a lot of y'all were asking me where I got 1:28:05.080 --> 1:28:07.280 my bundles in for the ballhole braids, because do y'all 1:28:07.320 --> 1:28:10.000 notice when people get boho braids, they always complain that 1:28:10.120 --> 1:28:11.040 they don't last long. 1:28:11.320 --> 1:28:14.120 It's because y'all aren't using like raw virgin hair. When 1:28:14.120 --> 1:28:16.160 you get boho braids, you have to use virgin hair. 1:28:16.240 --> 1:28:20.360 I agree, and you got to brush watch brushy. So 1:28:20.760 --> 1:28:23.519 I got my curly hair from my braids from rich 1:28:23.600 --> 1:28:27.120 Look Hair. This is where this glueless unit is from. Yeah, 1:28:27.200 --> 1:28:29.839 me and d d we liked in. So that's anytime 1:28:29.920 --> 1:28:31.880 I have some hair in in twenty twenty five, it's 1:28:31.920 --> 1:28:33.960 gonna be from rich Look Hair. So shout out to her. 1:28:34.040 --> 1:28:34.240 Thank you. 1:28:34.439 --> 1:28:36.640 And that shit looked good close up too, because the. 1:28:38.920 --> 1:28:42.800 Yeah don't look yes, and this is glueless. This is 1:28:42.840 --> 1:28:44.680 not glued. I'll tell you that's what you had on 1:28:44.680 --> 1:28:45.080 the other night. 1:28:46.000 --> 1:28:46.800 Yeah, yeah, I don't know. 1:28:47.000 --> 1:28:49.680 That was all one to y'all need to get me 1:28:49.760 --> 1:28:51.759 some literally through this home this morning. 1:28:51.880 --> 1:28:54.040 See, that's what I'm growing from the help. Yeah. 1:28:54.120 --> 1:28:56.000 In that middle part wig that I'll be throwing on too, 1:28:56.080 --> 1:28:57.439 that's from d D And that wig is like two 1:28:57.520 --> 1:28:59.560 years old and I still be getting compliments from it. 1:29:00.400 --> 1:29:01.360 Yeah, it definitely gives. 1:29:03.720 --> 1:29:06.360 And of course y'all know Muses Beauty Collections dot com, 1:29:06.560 --> 1:29:11.200 get y'all lip glosses, lipliners, Matt Lick Wi lipsticks, jelly blushes, 1:29:11.600 --> 1:29:13.560 and then I have new products coming out. 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So weird. 1:31:40.880 --> 1:31:42.720 It's so inappropriate for making this my bop of the 1:31:42.760 --> 1:31:45.280 week this week. What well, just because of everything we 1:31:45.360 --> 1:31:48.400 were just talking about. And it's a gospel song because. 1:31:48.200 --> 1:31:50.840 Y'all know I have been consistently going to church and 1:31:50.880 --> 1:31:53.439 I have been the Lord your heart, my heart, He 1:31:53.600 --> 1:31:57.400 created me in his image. Amen, Amen, Okay. 1:31:58.840 --> 1:32:01.840 But yeah, so I have a gospel playlist and not 1:32:01.840 --> 1:32:03.720 always like add like random songs that I like. This 1:32:03.800 --> 1:32:05.800 is not a new song, it's an older song. It's 1:32:05.840 --> 1:32:09.680 a song called Refiner by Maverick City. So it's just 1:32:09.760 --> 1:32:13.800 about you know, God redefining your life and you know, 1:32:13.960 --> 1:32:16.080 getting everything right and just staying on track and just 1:32:16.160 --> 1:32:16.800 believing him. 1:32:16.800 --> 1:32:17.120 One thing. 1:32:17.240 --> 1:32:18.880 I feel like, it don't matter what you go through 1:32:18.920 --> 1:32:22.960 in life, it can feel like the world is crumbling. 1:32:22.600 --> 1:32:23.240 Down on you. 1:32:23.479 --> 1:32:25.280 But I always tell people that I got on live 1:32:25.280 --> 1:32:27.719 and I said to this morning, it does not rain forever, 1:32:28.280 --> 1:32:31.760 and whatever you're going through, this too shall pass. And 1:32:31.960 --> 1:32:34.599 I am a person who I'm the most dramatic person 1:32:34.680 --> 1:32:36.760 on this earth. But when I tell you, baby, God 1:32:37.120 --> 1:32:39.559 has put his hand on me, and I'm very serious 1:32:39.640 --> 1:32:41.680 right now when I tell you I live a very 1:32:41.800 --> 1:32:46.400 blessed life and everything He has given me and done 1:32:46.520 --> 1:32:50.040 for me, I am really a true testament of just 1:32:50.240 --> 1:32:53.719 keep going and just keep waking up and keep trying, 1:32:53.920 --> 1:32:56.320 and just all you can do is work on yourself. 1:32:56.400 --> 1:32:59.080 You can't change how other people treat you, you can't 1:32:59.160 --> 1:33:01.200 change with other people do to you, you can't change 1:33:01.360 --> 1:33:02.760 how other people perceive you. 1:33:03.120 --> 1:33:05.840 All you can do is work on yourself and just 1:33:05.920 --> 1:33:08.000 keep pushing it. So, yeah, that's my bop of the week. 1:33:08.960 --> 1:33:13.519 Refiner by Maverick City. I didn't go. I feel like 1:33:13.600 --> 1:33:15.800 I heard. I feel like I probably knowed it. I 1:33:15.880 --> 1:33:17.559 can't sing it because he kind of in a hot note. 1:33:20.400 --> 1:33:23.800 Oh I don't know that, So I don't think I 1:33:23.920 --> 1:33:27.479 know that. That's a white man named m m okay, 1:33:27.800 --> 1:33:29.479 and I thought that's what I've seen on your No, 1:33:29.560 --> 1:33:32.519 it was it was a back it's him. 1:33:33.200 --> 1:33:35.040 Oh okay, he like a new age of. 1:33:35.560 --> 1:33:38.880 A new movie. Okay, but yeah, yeah, that's the that's 1:33:39.000 --> 1:33:40.519 my little bop. You know what I'm saying. I be 1:33:40.600 --> 1:33:41.720 going to church and getting the word. 1:33:41.800 --> 1:33:43.840 I be going to church every Sunday, whether if I'm 1:33:43.880 --> 1:33:45.920 at home, I always stream it or I actually go. 1:33:46.040 --> 1:33:48.200 I've been really consistent in that in twenty twenty five. 1:33:48.240 --> 1:33:49.439 So I'm really proud of myself for that. 1:33:50.040 --> 1:33:50.640 Are you even am? 1:33:50.640 --> 1:33:52.760 I'm proud of you too. I start going to church 1:33:52.840 --> 1:33:56.360 on Sundays. I always stream church, but I need to 1:33:56.439 --> 1:33:57.920 start going physically. 1:33:58.120 --> 1:34:01.439 You know, Yeah, you gonna ca Yeah. 1:34:01.439 --> 1:34:03.639 I think that was my thing to do my acting 1:34:03.680 --> 1:34:06.280 classes and come to church. So I've been consistent with 1:34:06.360 --> 1:34:06.960 those two things. 1:34:07.040 --> 1:34:12.000 Okay, I know what your boppy is. 1:34:12.320 --> 1:34:19.360 Fact she couldn't wait, girl. 1:34:19.600 --> 1:34:23.799 So Drake Party next Door came out with an album. 1:34:24.479 --> 1:34:27.320 They came out with an album, y'all and it's y'all 1:34:27.640 --> 1:34:30.960 so good, so good, It's so good. 1:34:31.120 --> 1:34:32.360 So it's. 1:34:33.960 --> 1:34:35.920 One da give me a hugg And they came in 1:34:36.000 --> 1:34:37.240 with the eye miss. 1:34:41.200 --> 1:34:41.439 See. 1:34:41.560 --> 1:34:45.160 I'm also a Party next Door person. I feel like 1:34:45.400 --> 1:34:48.760 if you like his music, then you're gonna think the. 1:34:48.840 --> 1:34:49.719 Album is good. 1:34:49.920 --> 1:34:52.240 I've always been a person who really like like Party 1:34:52.320 --> 1:34:55.240 next Door, and I think whenever him and Drake collapse together, 1:34:55.400 --> 1:34:57.519 like out of all the songs that they've ever made, 1:34:57.560 --> 1:34:59.360 I don't feel like they have no Missi's prior to 1:34:59.479 --> 1:35:04.840 the album because that Padre I okay, but that's like, okay, 1:35:04.920 --> 1:35:07.000 this is one song kind of like twenty one. 1:35:07.360 --> 1:35:10.439 But what my song is my favorite song? I can 1:35:10.520 --> 1:35:12.360 agree with you on that one. What you thinking about? Okay? 1:35:12.720 --> 1:35:14.960 No Kida is my favorite song? That's a hit. No 1:35:15.120 --> 1:35:16.920 Kida is such a great song. Is he heavy? You 1:35:16.960 --> 1:35:17.839 want to do the robot? 1:35:18.240 --> 1:35:18.439 Yeah? 1:35:18.600 --> 1:35:22.120 Not Yeah, you get down? 1:35:24.680 --> 1:35:27.080 She cut a run. No, I'm telling you. 1:35:27.200 --> 1:35:28.040 You hear that song? 1:35:28.120 --> 1:35:31.200 Girl, You're gonna bust a move yea. My best friend 1:35:31.280 --> 1:35:32.400 Lid shout out to list. 1:35:32.439 --> 1:35:34.960 She had posted on her story the other day because 1:35:34.960 --> 1:35:37.040 she was listening to the album and she was like, 1:35:37.160 --> 1:35:39.880 I'm so sorry, but this album slept so bad, and 1:35:40.000 --> 1:35:42.920 she posted this clip of like these people from the eighties. 1:35:42.680 --> 1:35:44.280 DNC and I don't know if you hear it. I did. 1:35:44.400 --> 1:35:46.880 I did, But it was so fucking funny because that's 1:35:46.920 --> 1:35:49.080 what the that's what the damn song make you want 1:35:49.120 --> 1:35:49.240 to do? 1:35:49.360 --> 1:35:50.000 You want to be like? 1:35:50.360 --> 1:35:53.360 Yeah, that song, I will say, it's a few that 1:35:53.520 --> 1:35:56.240 I did, Like I would say the album as a whole, 1:35:56.320 --> 1:35:57.360 it's a good album. 1:35:57.600 --> 1:36:02.240 Yeah, it's cool. I think so what you think. I think. 1:36:03.720 --> 1:36:07.320 For this to be his first project after everything, it 1:36:07.360 --> 1:36:09.840 should have been a solo Drake and it should have 1:36:09.920 --> 1:36:10.960 been hardest. 1:36:10.600 --> 1:36:12.280 Fun Like he should have gotten to that. I just 1:36:12.320 --> 1:36:13.040 flipped the switch. 1:36:14.439 --> 1:36:16.200 He should have been in that bag, you know what 1:36:16.280 --> 1:36:19.479 I'm saying, Like it was time to pop yr ship Like, yeah, 1:36:19.560 --> 1:36:22.320 I'm still Drake, you know what I'm saying. I get 1:36:22.360 --> 1:36:24.840 it because it was a Valentine's Day album. It's a 1:36:24.960 --> 1:36:28.479 good album, but I don't think that was the correct 1:36:29.080 --> 1:36:30.800 response to gn X. 1:36:31.439 --> 1:36:33.599 But do you think it was a respond Yeah, because 1:36:33.640 --> 1:36:35.360 he was talking about it. I mean he did talk 1:36:35.400 --> 1:36:37.120 about it on like I think. I think I only 1:36:37.160 --> 1:36:40.080 heard him talk about it on one song. But I 1:36:40.360 --> 1:36:42.920 feel like that's probably still coming. 1:36:43.320 --> 1:36:46.760 I think he's trying to move past it, like okay, man, 1:36:47.280 --> 1:36:51.320 you hate me up by gn x's Kendrick album. 1:36:51.880 --> 1:36:59.600 G nxxserve doesn't mean and L. 1:37:04.120 --> 1:37:04.640 He ate that. 1:37:05.720 --> 1:37:09.960 I deserve it. That's what I'll be saying. Face. 1:37:10.439 --> 1:37:12.040 I'll be listening to that year when I be on 1:37:12.120 --> 1:37:12.519 a tread. 1:37:14.600 --> 1:37:17.439 So that's what I say. I'm a Kendrick frand I'm 1:37:17.479 --> 1:37:18.240 a Drake fan. 1:37:18.479 --> 1:37:22.320 I think Drake's album it has some it has some 1:37:22.439 --> 1:37:25.360 bangers on there, but as a whole, it's not something 1:37:25.439 --> 1:37:26.560 I can play. 1:37:26.439 --> 1:37:29.280 Through front to bed. Yeah, I can't play. It's got 1:37:29.360 --> 1:37:30.040 some skips in there. 1:37:30.160 --> 1:37:32.400 I just think he was backing his South. Like to me, 1:37:32.479 --> 1:37:35.439 that album kind of reminds me of like so Far Gone. 1:37:35.760 --> 1:37:38.240 Okay, he was like in his South far gone bag 1:37:39.000 --> 1:37:40.240 ain'trake fan. 1:37:40.920 --> 1:37:42.160 I will say so far. 1:37:43.560 --> 1:37:45.800 Because so far Gone if you think about it, like, Okay, 1:37:46.320 --> 1:37:49.040 he was doing the rapping, but he was singing the light. 1:37:49.439 --> 1:37:52.280 It was kind of an emotional album. Then he did 1:37:52.280 --> 1:37:54.640 a lot of crossovers with like other women on the 1:37:54.720 --> 1:37:57.240 album and stuff because he has like a yebba on 1:37:57.400 --> 1:38:01.599 this album, pim and then Pim Pimmy, and he has 1:38:01.720 --> 1:38:04.479 like a few other I think we mean maybe on air. 1:38:04.760 --> 1:38:06.000 I get what he was trying to do. He's trying 1:38:06.040 --> 1:38:06.960 to win the bitches back. 1:38:07.400 --> 1:38:11.599 Is because the bitches walking all yeah, we stopped working 1:38:11.640 --> 1:38:12.080 and weeping. 1:38:15.400 --> 1:38:22.640 Paul's ain't shukar ass checks his Kendrick. She's trying to 1:38:22.680 --> 1:38:23.439 get us to dance again. 1:38:23.520 --> 1:38:24.040 So I get it. 1:38:24.400 --> 1:38:26.240 I get it. I feel it her. 1:38:27.120 --> 1:38:30.120 It wasn't quite I know he still got it in 1:38:30.200 --> 1:38:34.000 him though, but it wasn't quite the response that I 1:38:34.160 --> 1:38:35.759 was hoping for to the g NA. 1:38:35.760 --> 1:38:40.080 That man ain't trying to respond, it would have been me, 1:38:40.080 --> 1:38:42.959 I want to respect like that. It ain't happy. 1:38:44.400 --> 1:38:47.599 But no, but he should have dropped a club banger 1:38:48.040 --> 1:38:51.640 that was so crazy that it made people be like, 1:38:51.880 --> 1:38:55.080 I don't give a fuck, and no, Kiya is good. 1:38:55.280 --> 1:38:58.080 But it's not good enough to let us forget a 1:38:58.360 --> 1:39:02.600 minor But I think people gonna forget that anyway. 1:39:02.360 --> 1:39:05.120 There all the time. No, we are not like us 1:39:05.360 --> 1:39:09.120 one four Grammy, I can come out with it. 1:39:09.280 --> 1:39:11.760 Make nobody forget about this. She he doing exactly what 1:39:11.880 --> 1:39:16.000 he posted to keep it on. I feel you would 1:39:16.400 --> 1:39:17.800 it happened in twenty twenty four. 1:39:18.960 --> 1:39:19.639 That's go here. 1:39:20.360 --> 1:39:23.000 I just feel like spinning a whole album trying to 1:39:23.160 --> 1:39:25.840 like make a comeback to somebody from some sheep. 1:39:25.920 --> 1:39:26.840 That's what up. 1:39:27.160 --> 1:39:29.280 That's laying as hell. You're still drake at the end 1:39:29.320 --> 1:39:31.200 of the day. You don't really have to have a comeback. 1:39:31.280 --> 1:39:33.240 That's why I feel like he mentioned it on like 1:39:33.400 --> 1:39:34.519 one or two songs, and. 1:39:35.120 --> 1:39:36.880 So let me ask y'all this though, because I saw 1:39:36.920 --> 1:39:41.519 a discourse about the Melissa Ford bar shout out to Melissa, 1:39:41.600 --> 1:39:42.080 that's our girl. 1:39:42.240 --> 1:39:44.280 So a lot of people to leaning what they see. 1:39:44.439 --> 1:39:47.759 So basically he said, shout out to the sixth Melissa, 1:39:47.760 --> 1:39:48.280 you a legend. 1:39:48.320 --> 1:39:48.800 What was the bar? 1:39:49.479 --> 1:39:52.320 He yeah, he said, shout out to Melissa for you 1:39:52.439 --> 1:39:54.280 a legend from the six Take to see you with 1:39:54.360 --> 1:39:55.639 a dick sucker or something. 1:39:55.840 --> 1:40:00.400 So back dick because she's allegedly because she he sits 1:40:00.439 --> 1:40:02.519 on the couch next to Joe Budden on the Joe 1:40:02.560 --> 1:40:03.040 button posse. 1:40:03.120 --> 1:40:07.479 They said Joe's second Well I don't know literally no, 1:40:08.880 --> 1:40:09.360 but he was. 1:40:09.360 --> 1:40:11.360 Just saying, like Joe be on his dick, yeah or 1:40:11.360 --> 1:40:12.120 whatever because Joe. 1:40:12.640 --> 1:40:15.840 Now, I don't know if y'all remember this, but Joe, 1:40:17.040 --> 1:40:21.000 Joe did release some dish tracks to Drake a few 1:40:21.080 --> 1:40:21.559 years ago. 1:40:22.200 --> 1:40:25.240 Like this is like like recent. You know, Joe, don't 1:40:25.240 --> 1:40:28.479 get in that stew. And he got in the stew 1:40:28.560 --> 1:40:31.800 and gave Aubrey some bars. Now Aubrey didn't respond, I said, Aubrey, like, 1:40:31.840 --> 1:40:35.479 I know that means right, Drake didn't respond, but the 1:40:35.560 --> 1:40:36.559 bars weren't bad. 1:40:37.560 --> 1:40:39.600 I mean, I know how everybody feels about Joe, but 1:40:39.680 --> 1:40:42.479 Joe actually he's very he's an intellectual. He can really 1:40:43.400 --> 1:40:47.680 he's witty. So with that being said, Melissa, you know 1:40:47.920 --> 1:40:50.800 she put the song in her bio, and I mean 1:40:50.880 --> 1:40:53.080 anybody would be excited to be shout out by Drake, 1:40:53.160 --> 1:40:56.880 Let's be honest. But people were like, Melissa took the 1:40:56.960 --> 1:41:00.320 bait because Drake don't respect you. He's just you using 1:41:00.400 --> 1:41:03.680 you to take a shot at Joe. So how do 1:41:03.760 --> 1:41:05.320 y'all think that Drake meant that? Do you feel like 1:41:05.400 --> 1:41:08.200 he was really genuinely shouting Melissa out? Or do y'all 1:41:08.240 --> 1:41:08.680 feel like. 1:41:09.560 --> 1:41:12.320 Hell, mom shout out? Since then you probab just like 1:41:12.439 --> 1:41:14.360 you said, used her as an used her as a 1:41:14.400 --> 1:41:16.519 pawn together, what you think I would have failed for 1:41:16.640 --> 1:41:21.600 it to? Drake said, I would have worked on me 1:41:21.720 --> 1:41:25.000 out here. I mean would have worked on me. I 1:41:25.240 --> 1:41:29.439 know I would have took the first flight out was 1:41:29.600 --> 1:41:33.040 heard the beat coming in here. I just heard my 1:41:33.200 --> 1:41:36.680 name ship. 1:41:37.160 --> 1:41:39.760 But I don't know, I feel like it's a little 1:41:39.800 --> 1:41:43.360 bit of boat Like I feel like he definitely possibly 1:41:43.520 --> 1:41:45.240 was trying to use her as a pawn. 1:41:45.320 --> 1:41:48.360 But then you know, like him and her have history, 1:41:48.720 --> 1:41:49.719 like they have history. 1:41:49.800 --> 1:41:50.320 She said that. 1:41:51.240 --> 1:41:53.160 She said, you know they used to date or whatever. 1:41:53.200 --> 1:41:54.439 They're both from Toronto. 1:41:54.880 --> 1:41:57.720 So I also feel like to him, she probably is 1:41:57.800 --> 1:41:59.920 a legend. And I mean Melissa for it is a legend, 1:42:00.640 --> 1:42:03.000 like one of the o G video b Still it's 1:42:03.120 --> 1:42:07.479 final FuG And let me say this. I we said 1:42:07.560 --> 1:42:09.960 this on the podcast when we went on Joe's podcast. 1:42:10.320 --> 1:42:13.280 We said this when Melissa sat right here. One thing 1:42:13.320 --> 1:42:15.719 I will say, I do not like how they treat 1:42:15.760 --> 1:42:18.160 Melissa on that pod. Yes, I told that to her face. 1:42:18.240 --> 1:42:20.800 I told that to them, faith y'all gonna stop sitting. 1:42:20.520 --> 1:42:33.479 On the face the face you don't need spoofie, I said. 1:42:34.400 --> 1:42:36.120 I said that to their faces. 1:42:36.240 --> 1:42:39.519 I said that to Melissa, y'all have got to stop 1:42:39.600 --> 1:42:44.760 acting like this is not Melissa Ford a pioneer, a 1:42:45.000 --> 1:42:48.479 very much a pioneer in this whole Instagram models and 1:42:48.600 --> 1:42:49.240 all this stuff. 1:42:49.280 --> 1:42:51.840 She was the first, the original. 1:42:52.280 --> 1:42:55.840 So I feel like Drake was probably genuinely shouting her 1:42:55.840 --> 1:43:00.080 out because honestly, Melissa Ford is something to have on 1:43:00.160 --> 1:43:04.040 your roster, because not only does she look like that if. 1:43:04.000 --> 1:43:07.240 Y'all really watched his podcast or y'all watched our episode 1:43:07.320 --> 1:43:10.600 with her, she's so that is probably one of the 1:43:10.720 --> 1:43:14.360 smartest women that I have ever spoke to in my life. 1:43:15.120 --> 1:43:17.560 I mean that you can tell she done read a 1:43:17.640 --> 1:43:21.360 few books in her day. Look, Drea's vocabulary is extensive. 1:43:22.240 --> 1:43:25.800 That lady vocabulary is very I mean yeah, and she 1:43:26.080 --> 1:43:29.639 articulates very well. She can get her point across. 1:43:30.080 --> 1:43:31.960 They don't be letting her finish her thoughts a lot 1:43:32.000 --> 1:43:35.519 of times because when it comes to that intellectual the 1:43:35.640 --> 1:43:38.320 only person that can really hang with her is Joe. Yeah, 1:43:38.880 --> 1:43:41.519 because Joe is smart. And I'm not saying anybody else 1:43:41.560 --> 1:43:43.719 on that couch is not smart. That's not what I'm saying. 1:43:44.080 --> 1:43:51.759 They just listen intellectual debates. 1:43:52.040 --> 1:43:54.640 I would like, I wouldn't actually mind seeing the Joe 1:43:54.800 --> 1:43:56.120 podcast being him. 1:43:56.160 --> 1:44:00.839 Ah yeah, so we can really. 1:44:00.680 --> 1:44:04.800 Get down to some good, good deep conversation, you know 1:44:04.840 --> 1:44:08.560 what I'm saying, and minus all the extra nest and 1:44:08.640 --> 1:44:11.120 a woman perspective and a man's perspective because they're both 1:44:11.160 --> 1:44:14.479 two very highly intelligent people. You know, I got to 1:44:14.479 --> 1:44:20.679 watch the podcast. I'm telling you, Melissa is she's very smart. 1:44:21.560 --> 1:44:23.280 I mean, like I said, I knew she was smart, 1:44:23.280 --> 1:44:26.080 but actually having her on the show, I was like, Wow, Okay, 1:44:26.280 --> 1:44:31.720 so she just joined the show, but she got her 1:44:31.760 --> 1:44:35.040 own part, her own podcast as well. But yeah, I 1:44:35.080 --> 1:44:37.640 think Drake was shouting her out. I think the I 1:44:37.680 --> 1:44:40.200 think sometimes people do try to pick on Melissa though, 1:44:40.560 --> 1:44:44.640 so I think that conversation around her drake, oh she 1:44:44.760 --> 1:44:45.280 took the bait. 1:44:45.400 --> 1:44:47.080 I think that was just people just want to bully. 1:44:48.320 --> 1:44:53.160 Yeah, and just probably Jalie because so could people be 1:44:53.240 --> 1:44:54.920 wanting people spot they feel like, oh, I can do 1:44:55.000 --> 1:44:55.320 what you do. 1:44:55.439 --> 1:45:00.479 Okay, we'll do it. Yeah right, okay, what you don't 1:45:00.479 --> 1:45:03.240 listen to me? What's your at my Bible the week? 1:45:03.400 --> 1:45:05.920 And I'm lady sire and he is like, oh, what's 1:45:06.000 --> 1:45:08.240 the not? I don't even know l P B Poodie 1:45:08.360 --> 1:45:10.720 or something, but he's saying that, no, I can't be 1:45:11.520 --> 1:45:12.400 because I'll be robbing. 1:45:13.160 --> 1:45:13.960 I don't know I. 1:45:14.080 --> 1:45:22.080 Dance and I'm like that you know what I'm saying. 1:45:22.160 --> 1:45:24.360 The mother fucking video and it was a soul trying 1:45:24.479 --> 1:45:25.719 dancers back they dancing. 1:45:26.200 --> 1:45:27.800 I said, damn, what song is that? 1:45:28.720 --> 1:45:31.960 I started playing and my nephew was like, yeah, that's been. 1:45:31.880 --> 1:45:33.960 Out not that it was m J. And job was like, 1:45:34.200 --> 1:45:36.160 I was like, yo, this is not ship name. He 1:45:36.280 --> 1:45:38.360 was like, no, it didn't. It didn't been. It came out, 1:45:38.479 --> 1:45:42.760 but I've been learning the words. It's when they played 1:45:42.800 --> 1:45:43.400 this in the club. 1:45:43.439 --> 1:45:48.560 They probably ain't gonna play that they're done, but that 1:45:48.800 --> 1:45:49.880 is yes, I. 1:45:50.000 --> 1:45:56.240 Know that song, and I learn he's from Florida thine. Okay, yeah, 1:45:56.280 --> 1:46:00.360 that's been my mob. I'm gonna learning sure that about. 1:46:00.439 --> 1:46:12.080 It's l P B P l BP something. It's called Batman. Yep. Yeah, 1:46:12.400 --> 1:46:15.280 you ate you aint down my girl. Period. 1:46:18.000 --> 1:46:21.320 Now it's time to get into our favorite segment of 1:46:21.400 --> 1:46:23.400 the show, which is pour your heart out. You know, 1:46:23.439 --> 1:46:25.599 if you have any questions, send them to ask poor 1:46:25.680 --> 1:46:27.240 Minds at gmail dot com. 1:46:27.640 --> 1:46:28.840 A s k P O. 1:46:29.000 --> 1:46:32.200 You r in my n B s at gmail dot com. 1:46:32.720 --> 1:46:35.960 Send us show questions and your testimonials. 1:46:36.160 --> 1:46:39.880 Okay, you think you could given advice? Good, they need 1:46:39.960 --> 1:46:43.599 to give me advice. You are good at giving advice. 1:46:43.920 --> 1:46:46.400 I just don't take my own advice. No, you're really 1:46:46.439 --> 1:46:47.360 good at giving advice. 1:46:47.400 --> 1:46:50.200 I think we all from there a little bit give 1:46:50.280 --> 1:46:53.240 the advice, but when it comes to taking it ourselves. 1:46:53.479 --> 1:47:02.080 To your nigga, can I can I get one more job? Oh? 1:47:02.160 --> 1:47:05.479 You are Yeah? You want to drink? You want a 1:47:05.520 --> 1:47:09.800 shot or got a shot right here? Oh about your drink? Okay, yeah, 1:47:09.800 --> 1:47:12.000 I'm sorry, thank you? Okay, y'all. 1:47:12.200 --> 1:47:16.360 Question number one, Haylex pe Andre and the call. I'm 1:47:16.400 --> 1:47:19.720 twenty six, almost twenty seven and love y'all show. Been 1:47:19.760 --> 1:47:22.559 watching since COVID when y'all first got on eighty five Souths. 1:47:22.880 --> 1:47:25.679 Haven't even watched eighty five since. Just kidding, just kidding, 1:47:25.760 --> 1:47:31.280 but for real, I prefer y'all now, okay, anyway, anyway 1:47:31.560 --> 1:47:38.960 the whole time. I mean, it's what she said. No, 1:47:39.120 --> 1:47:41.000 this is d that's because she puts your girl d 1:47:41.200 --> 1:47:44.320 D you wrong for that. But anyways, any all that 1:47:44.439 --> 1:47:47.000 what she said. Anyway, I've been with my men for 1:47:47.120 --> 1:47:51.439 almost four years. We've been through everything, lies, cheating, living together, 1:47:51.560 --> 1:47:54.800 breaking up except baby mama and daddy, drama shout out 1:47:54.840 --> 1:47:57.320 to my I U D. But as I grow and 1:47:57.400 --> 1:47:59.920 get more self aware, I see we just don't align. 1:48:00.479 --> 1:48:02.160 He wants to be a rapper and I'm a. 1:48:02.200 --> 1:48:12.679 Degree about you wrong this whole message she said. 1:48:12.760 --> 1:48:16.040 I'm a degree having nine to five girl, just trying 1:48:16.080 --> 1:48:18.599 to grow in my career. I love him, but when 1:48:18.640 --> 1:48:21.160 I think about our future, I see nothing but resent me. 1:48:21.800 --> 1:48:23.400 Do I talk to him and try to work it 1:48:23.479 --> 1:48:26.920 out or move on gracefully, because let's be real, the 1:48:27.040 --> 1:48:29.679 deck is too good, and I know I'll get lonely 1:48:29.800 --> 1:48:32.240 in his phone. But do I stop the train now 1:48:32.439 --> 1:48:34.920 or reson becoming his baby mama and regretting it later? 1:48:35.320 --> 1:48:38.680 Best your girl, d girl, get that. 1:48:38.800 --> 1:48:41.280 Dangling three four, five more times? 1:48:41.360 --> 1:48:45.160 Didn't get the phone mama, yeah before you. 1:48:45.200 --> 1:48:51.240 Go okay, yeah, because being a baby mama, shot girl, 1:48:51.320 --> 1:48:52.800 you can't turn back the hands of that. 1:48:53.880 --> 1:48:54.400 I ain't that. 1:48:54.560 --> 1:48:57.000 I don't care how good some dicky hills, It ain't 1:48:57.040 --> 1:48:59.160 that goddamn good to become a babe mama. Then you 1:48:59.240 --> 1:49:00.599 have to deal with all this she because I feel 1:49:00.640 --> 1:49:03.960 like she gets ten times worse after Nigga become your 1:49:04.000 --> 1:49:06.720 baby daddy. Like she's saying that ship and then that 1:49:06.800 --> 1:49:09.519 ship a multiply like a whole bunch of other ship 1:49:09.600 --> 1:49:14.360 that she ain't no after that Nigga like hell no, get. 1:49:14.280 --> 1:49:17.519 Your imagine if his song actually take off. 1:49:17.880 --> 1:49:20.920 He gonna be that's gonna be add whatre just read 1:49:21.000 --> 1:49:23.639 That's gonna be in the intro his of you gonna 1:49:23.680 --> 1:49:26.640 be reading in the video before he started the song. 1:49:26.720 --> 1:49:31.720 And then the first time gonna be bad. I got 1:49:31.800 --> 1:49:38.080 me a new one and she yo put you on 1:49:38.200 --> 1:49:46.360 the track. I'm gonna be like, yeah, but you need 1:49:46.400 --> 1:49:49.320 to listen to your first mind. You really answered your 1:49:49.360 --> 1:49:51.800 own question. You don't want to be with him? You 1:49:52.640 --> 1:49:55.000 on the line. You answered your own question. 1:49:55.520 --> 1:49:57.720 I think a lot of times our mind and our 1:49:57.880 --> 1:50:02.160 hearts disagree. The one that I've learned, listen to your mind. Yep, 1:50:03.080 --> 1:50:04.040 don't agree that hard. 1:50:04.479 --> 1:50:06.600 It's gonna have you fucked up. They don't have up. 1:50:06.640 --> 1:50:09.599 Every time your brain you when you take a test, 1:50:09.880 --> 1:50:12.519 you use your brain, you know what I'm saying. When 1:50:12.520 --> 1:50:14.160 you have to do important things in life and make 1:50:14.160 --> 1:50:15.479 important decisions, you use your brain. 1:50:15.960 --> 1:50:18.040 I don't. I don't trust this motherfucker. 1:50:18.439 --> 1:50:20.720 I think when something is a good decision and you 1:50:20.920 --> 1:50:22.120 know it's a good decision, you. 1:50:22.200 --> 1:50:23.160 Don't have no doubt. 1:50:23.960 --> 1:50:25.960 When I think of things in life that I made 1:50:26.479 --> 1:50:29.599 like decisions about and I knew it was a good decision, 1:50:29.680 --> 1:50:32.120 I didn't I wasn't questioning it, you know what I mean. 1:50:32.240 --> 1:50:35.280 I feel like you're questioning this situation because you know 1:50:36.040 --> 1:50:38.880 it's not a good situation and you probably still want 1:50:38.880 --> 1:50:40.080 to deal with him because you got. 1:50:40.000 --> 1:50:42.160 Feelings to him, and like you said, it's a they're 1:50:42.240 --> 1:50:45.760 good But I get it. But it's but like Melein said, 1:50:46.000 --> 1:50:46.840 the deck being good. 1:50:46.960 --> 1:50:50.479 Is it worked that nigga becoming your baby daddy? Probably not, 1:50:51.240 --> 1:50:53.839 So I feel like you need to cut that situation 1:50:54.080 --> 1:50:56.000 off because a lot of the time, if by a 1:50:56.120 --> 1:50:59.120 certain age, I'm not saying, I do feel like you 1:50:59.240 --> 1:51:01.959 can make it it any point in life. But sometimes 1:51:02.040 --> 1:51:04.240 if a man don't have nothing going on by a 1:51:04.320 --> 1:51:07.800 certain point and he's just sally pouring everything into his 1:51:08.000 --> 1:51:10.200 rap career and he not doing nothing else on the side, 1:51:10.880 --> 1:51:13.360 that's a little bit of a red flag to me. 1:51:13.960 --> 1:51:16.240 Now, you ain't talking about you need diapers for the 1:51:16.360 --> 1:51:18.080 child and all that shit. You gotta wait to one 1:51:18.080 --> 1:51:20.360 of the niggas songs hit, all right before he can 1:51:20.400 --> 1:51:21.960 buy some goddamn loves like. 1:51:22.400 --> 1:51:22.960 Luck with them. 1:51:23.560 --> 1:51:25.000 And you know, I ain't even gonna laugh at that. 1:51:25.400 --> 1:51:27.320 You know what I ain't gonna say, Man, don't get 1:51:27.400 --> 1:51:28.880 with them niggas. That's trying to be a rapper, My 1:51:28.920 --> 1:51:30.560 favorit daddy to this day, still trying to be a 1:51:30.640 --> 1:51:34.040 rapper and now rapping in jail right now, probably for 1:51:34.479 --> 1:51:40.160 a hundred bund of hot pockets because he child. I 1:51:40.160 --> 1:51:42.960 ain't later a day. 1:51:43.200 --> 1:51:44.360 But that's what I'm saying. 1:51:45.439 --> 1:51:49.120 And now see she just prove. I feel like he 1:51:49.240 --> 1:51:51.000 gonna still be he twenty six y'all? 1:51:51.200 --> 1:51:53.640 Did she say, oh, here, y'are? She said, well, she. 1:51:53.760 --> 1:51:56.880 Said, she's twenty six, almost twenty seven. He gonna still 1:51:56.960 --> 1:51:58.719 be trying to be rapping when you forty seven? 1:51:59.240 --> 1:52:02.000 Just letting God right now he's showing up to the 1:52:02.040 --> 1:52:05.320 baby school on career day repping, and God damn. 1:52:09.040 --> 1:52:09.400 The kid. 1:52:10.280 --> 1:52:15.920 Okay, okay, so yeah, move on, move I think, all right, 1:52:16.040 --> 1:52:18.680 Question number two, I need to vent and figure out 1:52:18.720 --> 1:52:21.120 how to move forward from this situationship. I'm having an 1:52:21.160 --> 1:52:21.920 affair with. 1:52:22.120 --> 1:52:25.320 A policeman six years older than me who has a 1:52:25.400 --> 1:52:27.880 three month old baby. We met at a party he 1:52:27.960 --> 1:52:29.599 hosted and I made a move on him. 1:52:29.840 --> 1:52:30.639 Blame the drink. 1:52:31.000 --> 1:52:33.200 I don't usually initiate, but he was fine, and I 1:52:33.320 --> 1:52:35.760 have a thing for a man in the uniform, so what. 1:52:36.560 --> 1:52:38.679 The next day he hit me up and I invited 1:52:38.720 --> 1:52:41.400 him over. He chilled for a few hours, stepped out 1:52:41.439 --> 1:52:43.200 to take a call, then came back and let's just 1:52:43.280 --> 1:52:46.599 say we did more than talk, y'all. It was baby 1:52:46.680 --> 1:52:50.320 making six best I ever had. He knows what I want, 1:52:50.520 --> 1:52:52.800 and while I'm not looking for a relationship, I do 1:52:52.960 --> 1:52:57.600 want something consistent, which he's cool with. Take note what 1:52:57.720 --> 1:52:59.559 she said right there. He's honest. 1:52:59.680 --> 1:53:01.599 I like him and I want to keep spending time 1:53:01.640 --> 1:53:03.800 with him, But he lives with his baby mama. 1:53:04.439 --> 1:53:11.120 He's got a busy he wants he lived with his 1:53:11.200 --> 1:53:16.880 baby mama. He consistently can't come cry. He's got a 1:53:17.000 --> 1:53:19.920 busy schedule and a new born. I don't want to 1:53:19.960 --> 1:53:22.800 get in the baby three months three months, and I 1:53:22.920 --> 1:53:24.200 don't want to get in the mix of that. 1:53:24.439 --> 1:53:26.560 I just want to bring peace and happiness, but I 1:53:26.640 --> 1:53:29.000 also want me time to How do I keep this 1:53:29.160 --> 1:53:31.599 going without being naggy or pushy, just a girl asking 1:53:31.680 --> 1:53:32.200 for advice. 1:53:32.360 --> 1:53:33.960 You shouldn't want to get in the middle of there. 1:53:34.040 --> 1:53:35.960 You need to leave their family alone. 1:53:35.800 --> 1:53:38.760 Three months of baby and your police ofuser and all 1:53:38.960 --> 1:53:41.040 police house for behes baby. 1:53:41.720 --> 1:53:49.160 That's what I okay. It's God damn, get my tickets 1:53:49.439 --> 1:53:50.080 thrown out. 1:53:50.880 --> 1:53:52.639 That's how you need to be using him for because 1:53:52.640 --> 1:53:54.120 I ain't else finna comprom. 1:53:53.880 --> 1:53:55.519 This year, ain't where is baby mama? 1:53:56.360 --> 1:53:58.120 Shouldn't even have to ask he's with his baby mama 1:53:58.200 --> 1:53:59.920 in now because we already knew that well we are. 1:54:01.800 --> 1:54:04.479 So let me tell you where she's a liar. At 1:54:06.800 --> 1:54:10.639 she said, I want something consistent, but I'm not looking 1:54:10.720 --> 1:54:14.600 for a relationship. You know what's consistent a relationship. You 1:54:14.840 --> 1:54:17.400 want a relationship and this man cannot give you that. 1:54:17.960 --> 1:54:21.160 I want women to stop lying to ourselves so we 1:54:21.240 --> 1:54:22.240 can be in a situation. 1:54:22.439 --> 1:54:25.480 He gave you some good dick. Now you done got digmatized. 1:54:26.080 --> 1:54:26.880 And that's the truth. 1:54:26.960 --> 1:54:29.439 Because at the end of the day, if this man 1:54:29.600 --> 1:54:31.479 left his family right now and say I want to 1:54:31.520 --> 1:54:35.400 be with you, you finish get in a relationship. You 1:54:35.520 --> 1:54:38.560 got your lying to yourself. You want your me time, 1:54:39.040 --> 1:54:42.560 you don't get no me time. You get some dick 1:54:43.280 --> 1:54:47.240 and grown about his day. I don't know when we 1:54:47.480 --> 1:54:50.480 got into this world where side men and side women 1:54:50.680 --> 1:54:54.760 start feeling like they owe you anything outside of dick. 1:54:55.680 --> 1:54:59.720 That's why I don't sign up for situations like. 1:55:00.280 --> 1:55:03.120 You'll get trapped in and you look up you talking 1:55:03.160 --> 1:55:05.360 about hey, but you know what. 1:55:05.680 --> 1:55:08.160 A lot of times too, I don't even think that 1:55:08.280 --> 1:55:10.440 we can just blame it full it on good dick. 1:55:10.960 --> 1:55:13.200 I think sometimes a lot of women just be having 1:55:13.280 --> 1:55:15.760 low self esteem and they just go for whatever they 1:55:15.840 --> 1:55:18.720 can because they'd be horrible and trash. A lot of 1:55:18.840 --> 1:55:22.920 times and aga, just what else? 1:55:23.360 --> 1:55:25.640 Yep, I get that because I'm not gonna sit up parently. 1:55:25.800 --> 1:55:27.120 I mean, I've talked about that. I've been in a 1:55:27.160 --> 1:55:29.400 situation not like this, but I've been in a situation 1:55:29.440 --> 1:55:31.120 where I'm like and I look back and I'm like, 1:55:31.160 --> 1:55:31.760 what were you doing? 1:55:31.960 --> 1:55:32.200 Yeah? 1:55:33.120 --> 1:55:34.640 So I think for you, you want to be in 1:55:34.680 --> 1:55:37.360 a relationship, You want me time, You want somebody to go, 1:55:37.600 --> 1:55:40.720 get somebody that you can have to give. And I 1:55:40.760 --> 1:55:43.320 think as women, we just got to do better and 1:55:43.400 --> 1:55:44.320 realize what we want. 1:55:44.480 --> 1:55:46.280 Now. If you was really like, I don't care what 1:55:46.480 --> 1:55:48.560 he do. I'm having a good time. I'm not saying 1:55:48.600 --> 1:55:49.080 that's okay. 1:55:49.160 --> 1:55:53.680 But men gonna find a woman, yeah, because if it 1:55:53.680 --> 1:55:56.240 ain't you, it's gonna be somebody else. Y'all need to 1:55:56.320 --> 1:55:58.480 learn that these men really, they really don't care. They 1:55:58.640 --> 1:55:59.440 just it's somebody. 1:56:00.040 --> 1:56:02.320 Ain't somebody who's gonna be okay with they she and 1:56:02.440 --> 1:56:05.520 not only that, it's a fun time because you me 1:56:05.600 --> 1:56:07.320 and be looking at like, oh well, she don't stress 1:56:07.400 --> 1:56:08.760 me out, of course, because you don't got to deal 1:56:08.800 --> 1:56:10.360 with the ship that the wife and the baby mama 1:56:10.400 --> 1:56:12.960 got it out. She gotta deal with helping him with 1:56:13.040 --> 1:56:15.720 his business or his nine to five or whatever he 1:56:15.800 --> 1:56:16.200 got going on. 1:56:16.360 --> 1:56:18.560 She gotta deal with his bad attitude. 1:56:18.080 --> 1:56:20.440 And she gonna always be fun until that next woman 1:56:22.000 --> 1:56:26.680 because she's hart put her no where either. Now you 1:56:26.800 --> 1:56:28.840 have a hell with your main bitch, hand your side, 1:56:28.880 --> 1:56:29.600 bitch yho. 1:56:30.440 --> 1:56:32.160 And now he's gonna be running on the baby mama, 1:56:32.200 --> 1:56:34.400 and she got some side dick and now she happy. 1:56:36.080 --> 1:56:38.440 Now you just make it up. Well, I'm just saying, 1:56:40.080 --> 1:56:42.920 you want a man, you want a man, and that's okay. 1:56:43.160 --> 1:56:46.680 Leave the situation alone. I agree, let it go. I 1:56:46.760 --> 1:56:48.040 think you better let it go. 1:56:48.880 --> 1:56:50.960 You do want to be in a relationship. It was 1:56:50.960 --> 1:56:54.400 a lot of inconsistency. Yeah, talking about I want consistency. 1:56:54.520 --> 1:56:59.040 You want if you want consistency, that's a relationship. 1:57:00.160 --> 1:57:00.600 Consistent. 1:57:02.000 --> 1:57:04.040 Well, he'd probably be coming to see her when he's 1:57:04.040 --> 1:57:05.240 time for his nice shoes. 1:57:06.920 --> 1:57:13.680 Literally they probably be. He'd probably be handcuffing Hu Walmart robbed. 1:57:15.080 --> 1:57:18.320 That is a good role play, that rod play. You 1:57:18.560 --> 1:57:20.560 driving in your car, then the lights on and you 1:57:20.640 --> 1:57:22.280 get pulled off and then you and the. 1:57:24.680 --> 1:57:30.920 I can see Drake doing that like that. I may 1:57:31.040 --> 1:57:36.160 or may not. I'm doing it. I'm going for the 1:57:36.280 --> 1:57:40.360 role play roll away, but I want to drive a car. 1:57:40.440 --> 1:57:41.320 I want to be the police. 1:57:41.320 --> 1:57:42.840 I want to put you along with. 1:57:44.880 --> 1:57:52.600 This because I'm trying to borrow. 1:57:52.440 --> 1:58:05.480 Police gone pulling people over with the in and they're 1:58:05.560 --> 1:58:10.480 all funny. Oh god, Okay, let everybody know where can 1:58:10.480 --> 1:58:11.080 you find you? 1:58:11.320 --> 1:58:13.920 What you got coming up, what you're working on, anything 1:58:13.960 --> 1:58:15.560 that we can expect, all that good stuff. 1:58:15.680 --> 1:58:19.480 Okay, y'all can follow me in be laying on the 1:58:19.560 --> 1:58:21.240 score cuz u h h. 1:58:24.040 --> 1:58:27.360 I haven't been on eight in classes. I'm doing stand 1:58:27.480 --> 1:58:30.160 up comedy. I'm practicing and shut out the list because 1:58:30.160 --> 1:58:33.120 she'd be there. She been coming to every show. He 1:58:33.200 --> 1:58:37.000 ain't no sign that fine joke that I have told 1:58:37.240 --> 1:58:45.040 seven times in a row, and I'll be laughing. I'll 1:58:45.080 --> 1:58:47.120 be laughing the hardest funk. I heard a joke for 1:58:47.320 --> 1:58:56.760 thirteen Oh, she said, pulled up every time. Okay, Oh, 1:58:58.680 --> 1:59:03.640 I have a lot of solo projects coming out series. 1:59:05.240 --> 1:59:07.480 I'm trying to do some short films, so make sure 1:59:07.560 --> 1:59:08.280 y'all follow me. 1:59:10.480 --> 1:59:13.480 Yes, And I do want to give you your flowers too, 1:59:13.560 --> 1:59:16.960 because around Halloween time, you did a serious skit that 1:59:17.200 --> 1:59:20.960 was really like a horror skit that was really really good. 1:59:21.440 --> 1:59:23.120 So I think that's cool too that you do that, 1:59:23.160 --> 1:59:25.400 because I think a lot of people who are like comedians, 1:59:25.800 --> 1:59:28.920 they shot away from showing another side to them. So 1:59:29.080 --> 1:59:31.040 I think that was like, it was really cool to 1:59:31.120 --> 1:59:34.280 see as somebody who's like consumed your content, like I'm 1:59:34.320 --> 1:59:36.760 your friend, but I've also consumed your content as a fan, 1:59:37.240 --> 1:59:39.440 so to see that side of you was like surprising 1:59:39.520 --> 1:59:39.680 for me. 1:59:39.800 --> 1:59:42.360 I'm like, what is it. I'm trying not to get typecasts. Yeah, 1:59:42.560 --> 1:59:43.240 that's what I'm saying. 1:59:43.880 --> 1:59:46.600 I started off doing a lot of serious stuff and 1:59:46.720 --> 1:59:50.200 people just then gravitate or take that serious is they do? 1:59:50.360 --> 1:59:52.040 Like I feel like a lot of times comedy and 1:59:52.040 --> 1:59:54.840 stuff is so easier to push that. So I'm like, okay, 1:59:55.000 --> 1:59:56.200 now I got the comedy part. 1:59:56.360 --> 1:59:56.960 Let me see what. 1:59:58.720 --> 2:00:01.000 Cause I think, like, okay, think about like a Jamie Foxx, 2:00:01.160 --> 2:00:04.080 Like he started off as Wanda doing all the shuff, 2:00:04.120 --> 2:00:05.320 but then it's like when he does his. 2:00:05.400 --> 2:00:09.640 Serious role and they kill it, man, you forget that 2:00:09.720 --> 2:00:12.040 they even started off at community comedy. 2:00:12.320 --> 2:00:15.320 Yeah, so it's definitely it's definitely possible. I think even 2:00:15.360 --> 2:00:18.160 with Eddie Murphy and he did dream Girls, like oh yes, 2:00:18.400 --> 2:00:21.000 like that was a serious role for him, you know, 2:00:21.320 --> 2:00:23.640 used laughing at him. So I think that you are 2:00:23.920 --> 2:00:27.160 very good at doing like serious stuff too. So don't 2:00:27.200 --> 2:00:30.040 limit yourself, girl, because we're looking out. 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Bye y'all, y'all, 2:01:39.800 --> 2:01:40.360 make sure. 2:01:40.280 --> 2:01:45.080 Y'all share the content like subscribe, follow all that good stuff. 2:01:45.120 --> 2:01:47.320 And let me say this before we close out, y'all, 2:01:47.800 --> 2:01:51.360 there is one Twitter account that is connected to poor Minds. 2:01:51.400 --> 2:01:51.960 It's p O. 2:01:52.200 --> 2:01:56.720 You are underscore in my nds. Y'all are tagging the 2:01:56.800 --> 2:01:59.880 wrong poor mind page. If you see at poor mind 2:02:00.120 --> 2:02:02.160 with no underscore, that is a fake page. Do not 2:02:02.280 --> 2:02:06.320 follow that page. Okay, they blocked me Andrea and the 2:02:06.400 --> 2:02:10.000 poor Minds page on both so we only have one Instagram, 2:02:10.960 --> 2:02:13.360 one Twitter, one TikTok. 2:02:13.720 --> 2:02:16.560 It is p O. You are underscore in my nds 2:02:16.680 --> 2:02:17.760 a right, and we. 2:02:17.840 --> 2:02:20.280 Gotta held a fake Facebook page on the. 2:02:20.320 --> 2:02:22.280 Facebook page it's our face. 2:02:22.480 --> 2:02:25.800 The crazy thing is our Facebook page actually have the least. 2:02:25.600 --> 2:02:28.000 Amount of file. So if you're on Facebook, one that's 2:02:28.160 --> 2:02:30.200 ours got the least amount. 2:02:29.920 --> 2:02:32.600 Of but one that's not us got like two hundred 2:02:32.640 --> 2:02:33.000 and fifty. 2:02:34.080 --> 2:02:35.760 Make if you actually look at the content because the 2:02:35.880 --> 2:02:39.240 caption is like, whoever it is, don't speak English because. 2:02:38.960 --> 2:02:41.000 Their captains are like, bumba claude? 2:02:41.000 --> 2:02:45.400 Should men? Should men pay bill? Should men pay bill? Yes? No? 2:02:46.680 --> 2:02:50.000 Check answer below block block pull. 2:02:51.640 --> 2:02:54.280 Like that's literally with the captions. I'm like, what that 2:02:54.440 --> 2:02:55.800 DG's bumba claude. 2:02:56.040 --> 2:02:56.760 Bumba claude. 2:02:57.600 --> 2:03:02.360 Oh girls, yoh, it's the DBL girls in the building. 2:03:02.920 --> 2:03:08.160 See, he's my pride Bertie. Ain't any girl that's ug? 2:03:08.920 --> 2:03:12.240 I might just call yo lo love cause I don't 2:03:12.320 --> 2:03:17.480 give who are you to call myself? Oh? I'm gonna 2:03:17.520 --> 2:03:22.520 wish you well. Girls. Any girl that tried has fell. 2:03:22.800 --> 2:03:25.680 But where my girls at from the front to bag Whill? 2:03:25.800 --> 2:03:28.360 Is your feeling that put one hand up? Can you 2:03:28.520 --> 2:03:31.720 repeat that trying to take my mancy? I don't need that. 2:03:32.240 --> 2:03:35.440 Don't play yourself, But my girls at from the front 2:03:35.520 --> 2:03:38.400 tobag will is your feeling that put one hand up? 2:03:38.520 --> 2:03:41.440 Can you repeat that trying to take my mancy? I 2:03:41.520 --> 2:03:42.120 don't need that? 2:03:44.040 --> 2:03:46.640 Hey, hey, hey, hey, don't you bye. 2:03:46.600 --> 2:03:50.760 Lay me because I'm ana make it hey me. If 2:03:50.840 --> 2:03:53.200 you decide to mess with my. 2:03:54.680 --> 2:04:01.120 Shup, you down to the side making red eyes that 2:04:01.280 --> 2:04:05.760 you don't mess up this time when my girls at 2:04:06.040 --> 2:04:08.320 when up front to back, whether is your feeling next? 2:04:08.640 --> 2:04:11.560 Put one hand up? Can you repeat that, try to 2:04:11.640 --> 2:04:15.040 take my man? See y'all don't need that. Don't pay yourself. 2:04:15.200 --> 2:04:17.640 Where my girls at front of front to bath, so 2:04:17.800 --> 2:04:20.440 that you're feeling that, put one hand up? Can you 2:04:20.560 --> 2:04:23.120 repeat that, try to take my man? See y I 2:04:23.200 --> 2:04:23.760 don't need that. 2:04:26.040 --> 2:04:33.880 You mustline the rules, don't come closer in anything that 2:04:34.480 --> 2:04:42.720 be long, sue me, he mind my profencey. 2:04:43.920 --> 2:04:52.320 My face, pull my hands up? Can you repeat that, 2:04:52.840 --> 2:04:56.920 try to take my mon? Y'all know I don't we 2:04:57.120 --> 2:04:59.600 my girls ass from the front to back. Whether is 2:04:59.640 --> 2:05:00.120 your feeling that? 2:05:00.440 --> 2:05:04.360 Here's your need that trying to take my man? 2:05:04.440 --> 2:05:05.840 Say, y'all don't need to as. 2:05:05.840 --> 2:05:09.600 So, don't take yourself. I'm say frin of friends the back? 2:05:09.680 --> 2:05:12.400 Well is your feeling that? Go my hand up? Can 2:05:12.480 --> 2:05:14.080 you repeat that, trying to. 2:05:14.120 --> 2:05:14.760 Take my man? 2:05:14.880 --> 2:05:17.880 See y'all don't need that, and don't play yourself. Where 2:05:17.920 --> 2:05:20.000 my girls at front of fronts of bag? 2:05:20.080 --> 2:05:22.800 What did you feeling that? Put one hand up? Can 2:05:22.880 --> 2:05:25.640 you repeat that, trying to take my man? Say, y'all 2:05:25.680 --> 2:05:29.040 don't need that? D b lad 2:05:31.560 --> 2:05:34.800 That was an walk off, that was gonna walk off, 2:06:02.800 --> 2:06:02.840 B