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Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast

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Speaker 1: with I our radio.

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Speaker 2: It's time for bachelor headlines. We got some headlines this

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Speaker 2: week coming through. The First one is you know it's

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Speaker 2: not written here, but it is something we care about

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Speaker 2: because of the Almost Famous og podcast. Ryan Sutter, Trista

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Speaker 2: Sutter's husband posted something on Instagram this week that made

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Speaker 2: us think that, well, trist has been gone. He pretty

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Speaker 2: much says it, we don't know where she's at. Ashley,

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Speaker 2: I would love for you to describe this post because

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Speaker 2: it is a big headline and it made headlines with

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Speaker 2: people's curiosity of where is Trista Sutter.

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Speaker 3: I don't think of Ryan as one for cliff bait, but.

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Speaker 2: I don't think he meant it. I don't think he

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Speaker 2: meant it to be clickbait. I have to read it.

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Speaker 3: It's so dramatic. I know you wish you were here

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Speaker 3: for Mother's Day. We wish you were too. But sometimes

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Speaker 3: being a mom means letting go of their hands, granting

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Speaker 3: independence and stimulating their courageous spirit. Sometimes it's necessary to

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Speaker 3: exemplify the characteristics you preach and to do rather than

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Speaker 3: to say. Sometimes it takes being uncomfortable and scared to

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Speaker 3: show them that it's okay to be uncomfortable and scared.

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Speaker 3: Sometimes you have to go away so that they know

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Speaker 3: you'll come back, that your love is not limited by

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Speaker 3: distance or difficulty or time. I'm sorry, I'm laughing a

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Speaker 3: little bit because it is very dramatic. Sometimes you have

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Speaker 3: to do what you sometimes have to do. We're proud

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Speaker 3: of you, Mama pajama or everything that you do for

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Speaker 3: us near or far. And then there's another post. There

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Speaker 3: was two posts, he says, Uh, I guess it was Yeah,

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Speaker 3: most day or the day before. They say that absence

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Speaker 3: makes the heart grow fonder. I can think of only

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Speaker 3: a handful of days I have not, at minimums spoken

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Speaker 3: to this incredible woman. A picture of her. She is

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Speaker 3: the love of my life and my best friend. I

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Speaker 3: cannot imagine loving her any more or any more fondly.

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Speaker 3: But I guess we're gonna find out dot dot dot

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Speaker 3: miss her already.

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Speaker 2: Goodness gracious. So we don't know where Tris is at

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Speaker 2: in the world. It doesn't sound like there's anything responding

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Speaker 2: to our text though. Guys. Yeah, so she's like around.

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Speaker 2: We just don't know doing what we'll try to find out.

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Speaker 2: We'll give you updates as we do, and then once

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Speaker 2: we do, we'll bring Trista on to do the interview.

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Speaker 2: There's no trouble in paradise. It just sounds like she's

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Speaker 2: she's gone doing something fun. Who knows.

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Speaker 3: The comments are like, why did you have to be

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Speaker 3: so cryptic? What's going on here? I'm concerned? Why so dramatic?

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Speaker 2: What's the Yeah, it's wild all right. So onto the

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Speaker 2: headlines that we do have listed here. A bachelorette, Hannah

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Speaker 2: Brown details her reuni with ex Tyler Cameron. Also, she

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Speaker 2: answers the question if Tyler Cameron is invited to her

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Speaker 2: wedding Ashley, what's going on? Would she say? And is

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Speaker 2: he invited to the wedding?

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Speaker 3: Well, she says that he's he's not necessarily invited or

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Speaker 3: not because she has not come up with a guest

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Speaker 2: To answer her question.

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Speaker 3: And as far as what this article is about, it's

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Speaker 3: basically saying that what she said on id for them

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Speaker 3: to address some unresolved feelings and the potential of moving

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Speaker 3: forward as friends. And then the question of friends is like, okay,

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Speaker 3: well how much friends are you going to be? Are

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Speaker 3: you going to invite him to the wedding, and she says,

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Speaker 3: no one has gotten an invite yet because we don't

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Speaker 3: have a list.

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Speaker 2: It'll be interesting to see. I don't know why he'd

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Speaker 3: It's yeah, that would be weird.

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Speaker 2: I doubt that, Yeah, it would be odd. Emily Ferguson

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Speaker 2: Emily Ferguson Carlson celebrates Mother's Day. Life has been more

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Speaker 2: meaning now. That is the quote on Bachelor Nation.

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Speaker 3: They had a Mother's Day article about Emily. Her son

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Speaker 3: just celebrated one year. He's a year old and she

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Speaker 3: is now a new aunt as of two weeks ago

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Speaker 3: with Haley giving birth, and she says being a mom

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Speaker 3: life and all the milestones is truly the honor of

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Speaker 3: a lifetime. I will never take motherhood for granted. It's

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Speaker 3: a love like no other, unexplainable, truly blissful and perfect.

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Speaker 3: I'm the happiest I've ever been, and my heart is

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Speaker 2: I love that.

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Speaker 3: I always knew that Emily and Haley would both be

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Speaker 3: such good moms. They are Oh yeah, they're gret full

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Speaker 2: They sure are. We're speaking of affection or black. Later off,

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Speaker 2: Victoria Fuller breaks silence about split from Greg. Breakups are

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Speaker 2: never easy, she says.

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Speaker 3: So she kind of ignored the fact that they broke

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Speaker 3: the one that kind of came out and talked about

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Speaker 3: it a little bit earlier, I think on Jason's podcast,

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Speaker 3: and she cant from the split on her side by saying, Hi,

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Speaker 3: not really sure we're to start here, but I haven't

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Speaker 3: felt up to talking about my breakup. To put it bluntly,

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Speaker 3: breakups are never easy, and especially when it's so public.

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Speaker 3: I absolutely love sharing my life with you guys, but

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Speaker 3: some moments are meant to be private. We are all

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Speaker 3: going through something, so just remind her to be kind.

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Speaker 3: Everyone handles breakups differently, and I'm choosing to process mind

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Speaker 3: in peace. Thank you to the people who have reached

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Speaker 3: out and been supportive. She ended the post by saying

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Speaker 3: that she wishes Greg nothing but the best and can't

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Speaker 3: wait to see where life takes them both.

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Speaker 2: Is it weird, Ashley for me to have a hard

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Speaker 2: time imagining them not together now, like it felt like

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Speaker 2: it was so meant to be, and it did feel

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Speaker 2: like they made so much sense together that you know,

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Speaker 2: there's some breakups that are hard for me to like

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Speaker 2: kind of move past, and I know we're going to

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Speaker 2: get into the longevity of a breakup story here, but

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Speaker 2: like Caitlin and Sean, for example, was one. I was like,

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Speaker 2: it's still in my mind at times, Pops in that

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Speaker 2: they're like, it's hard for me to imagine them not together.

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Speaker 2: Victorian Greg kind of sit in that same space.

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Speaker 3: I can feel that on I can figure on that. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: they definitely seem to have some powerful chemistry and I

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Speaker 3: felt I felt them together, but I also know I

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Speaker 3: also knew that, like they had their ups and downs, right,

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Speaker 3: there was always break up.

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Speaker 2: It was going to be. Yeah, I mean they're passionate peoples.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, right, there's gonna be a little turbulence in the relationship.

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Speaker 3: And there had been times where they had gone without

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Speaker 3: I'm not one shocked, but I completely agree. I associate them.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so much more than Victoria Fuller and Chrystals.

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Speaker 3: Yeah it was well, I forgot about until they were

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Speaker 2: Ta Booth gets candid about struggling with mental health and

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Speaker 2: taking a social media break. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I watched all of TIA's content about her social media break.

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Speaker 3: I was quite intrigued by it. I understand. I understand

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Speaker 3: It's also like she and I both acknowled, it's like

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Speaker 3: being able to work from home and just all the opportunities,

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Speaker 3: and it's just it's great. But it also is hard

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Speaker 3: mental health. And there's a lot of comparison, and there's

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Speaker 3: she talked with her husband about possibly taking like a

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Speaker 3: just trying to navigate it now in a little bit

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Speaker 3: her life. Yeah, it makes sense, like recently. Put this

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Speaker 2: This last week, I was able to be in Maine

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Speaker 2: we're actually struggling with envy, which is, you know, you

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Speaker 2: kind of need to decompress, You need to understand where

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Speaker 2: chase of getting something uplifting oftentimes leads to you seeing

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Speaker 2: just an interesting thing if you're out there and you're

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Speaker 2: feeling disconnected and you're struggling. You know, envy is a

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Speaker 2: maybe ask yourself if you're struggling with envy and I

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Speaker 3: Tia was also talking about how she gets basically dopamine

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Speaker 3: and I totally can relate.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Raven Gates gets emotional about figuring out new body

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Speaker 3: Well, Raven was so sweet. She was on Instagram and

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Speaker 3: a poll about like whether moms feel lonely, and the

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Speaker 3: majority of moms do feel lonely, So.

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Speaker 2: Do you relate with that? Do you feel lonely as.

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Speaker 3: We totally totally. Yeah, it's different. It's when you're home

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Speaker 3: I cannot put it into words why, but that's when

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Speaker 3: is it that when I'm with other moms, I just

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Catherine Lowe reveals biggest pet peeve about Sean Lowe

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Speaker 2: and his quote is she secretly hates me.

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Speaker 3: Okay, this was hilarious. They did the most epic Instagram

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Speaker 3: biggest pet peeves with Jared. I think it's just like

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Speaker 3: the sound of chewing. Caitlin Burstow has this thing I

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Speaker 3: out of this room. It's really not that big of

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Speaker 3: because it's so annoying.

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Speaker 2: I love it.

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Speaker 3: My mom has the same thing with my dad. Do

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Speaker 3: you do you have a similar situation in your life?

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Speaker 2: No, not yet. I mean I think Jess.

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Speaker 3: Has never said you're chewing too loud?

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Speaker 2: No, breathing heavy?

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Speaker 3: Yes, chewing too Oh okay similar?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, we here's the deal though. We travel so much.

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Speaker 2: I'm gone so much that I think when I am here,

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Speaker 2: she doesn't care what I'm doing as long as i'm home.

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Speaker 3: Oh well, that's sweet.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we're still in that phase. Uh, that's our producer

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Speaker 2: just said this.

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Speaker 3: It's called miss miss so Fiana, Miss sophie Fiana, miss

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Speaker 3: so fauna what miss aphonia? Okay, So you're triggered by sounds,

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Speaker 3: typically or originating in the facial activity area. Most famously,

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Speaker 3: the sound of chewing mathsnia can be experienced so severely

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Speaker 3: the fury caused by the sound.

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Speaker 2: Okay, you guys are gonna make me insecure anytime we

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Speaker 2: hang out.

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Speaker 2: Hey, that's all the headlines we have for you today.

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Speaker 2: We'll be back obviously next week. With so much talking

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Speaker 2: about the Golden Bachelorette this upcoming Bachelorette season, we'll have

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Speaker 2: more interviews coming out. Also, stay tuned for Almost Good Advice.

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Speaker 2: A really great episode is coming. We got some great

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Speaker 2: questions from you all, So until next time, I've Been Ben,

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