WEBVTT - Second Cup: Theme parties aren't just for kids

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Before Breakfast, a production of iHeartRadio. Good Morning,

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<v Speaker 1>This is Laura. Welcome to the Before Breakfast podcast. Today's

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<v Speaker 1>tip is that theme parties aren't just for kids. When

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<v Speaker 1>you're planning a gathering, it can be fun to think

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<v Speaker 1>beyond the time and place and consider whether a theme

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<v Speaker 1>could make your party feel more special. So I recently

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<v Speaker 1>helped my daughter plan a Spa themed birthday party. We

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<v Speaker 1>ordered tween sized robes, face masks, nail polish, all that

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<v Speaker 1>good stuff. By thinking through the theme, she knew she

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<v Speaker 1>would have more fun with her friends than if she

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<v Speaker 1>just invited everyone over for pizza in a movie. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>of course that would be fun too, but the Spa

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<v Speaker 1>part would make it more memorable. I think she's onto something,

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<v Speaker 1>and not just for twelve year old birthday parties. A

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<v Speaker 1>theme can elevate almost any gathering. We know this instinctively

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<v Speaker 1>with seasonal parties around this time of year, you might

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<v Speaker 1>just get invited to a Halloween costume party. Come Thanksgiving,

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<v Speaker 1>you and your family will gather to express gratitude alongside

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<v Speaker 1>expressing your desire for more pie. December might bring cookie exchanges.

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<v Speaker 1>You figure out a time and place to get together,

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<v Speaker 1>but for seasonal parties, you also know there is something

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<v Speaker 1>else making the gathering coherent, which is one reason that

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<v Speaker 1>people feel so festive, even though sometimes the holidays and

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<v Speaker 1>their parties can be exhausting. I would argue that adding

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<v Speaker 1>themes can elevate gatherings any time of year. For instance,

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<v Speaker 1>if you are celebrating an adult's birthday, you can choose

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<v Speaker 1>a theme that relates to the birthday boy or girl,

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<v Speaker 1>either as a young person or today. Maybe you choose

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<v Speaker 1>the year a newly minted fifty year old graduated from

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<v Speaker 1>high school and invite people to wear clothes reflecting that year.

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<v Speaker 1>It goes without saying that that year's top forty hits

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<v Speaker 1>should be playing on the stereo. Or maybe you choose

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<v Speaker 1>the person's current passion as a theme, gathering the friends

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<v Speaker 1>of a budding chef at a culinary school for a

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<v Speaker 1>class followed by dinner. Or maybe the person is an

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<v Speaker 1>outdoor games enthusiast and you can build the party around

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<v Speaker 1>cornhole or Gaga or something like that. Of course, you

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<v Speaker 1>don't have to have an occasion like a holiday or

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<v Speaker 1>birthday to throw a themed party. If you and your

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<v Speaker 1>friends all love crafts or wish, you could find more

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<v Speaker 1>time for crafts. Have a crafting party. You could set

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<v Speaker 1>everyone up to do the same craft, say sculptures with

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<v Speaker 1>copper wire or making friendship brace. Or you could provide tables, chairs,

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<v Speaker 1>and snacks and invite everyone to bring their own craft

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<v Speaker 1>projects to work on. Priya Parker, author of the Art

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<v Speaker 1>of Gathering, urges hosts to think about the purpose of

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<v Speaker 1>their gatherings and that can help you decide on a

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<v Speaker 1>theme party that might be right for you. She points

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<v Speaker 1>out that a category of party isn't a purpose. In

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<v Speaker 1>other words, put luck, dinner, or even costume party doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>really qualify as a purpose. Go beyond what you are

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<v Speaker 1>doing to also consider why you are gathering in the

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<v Speaker 1>first place. Think about your hopes and your intentions for

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<v Speaker 1>this gathering. Do you want to create an occasion for

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<v Speaker 1>laughing and having fun together after a stressful season. Do

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<v Speaker 1>you want to help your friends circle get to know

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<v Speaker 1>each other better. Maybe a crafting party will let you

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<v Speaker 1>and your friends tap into your creative side and spend

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<v Speaker 1>an afternoon doing something for the love of it, not

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<v Speaker 1>because it's productive. Maybe the fifty year old's nineteen ninety

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<v Speaker 1>one themed birthday party will remind him that he's known

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<v Speaker 1>his friend group for a long time. Getting together with

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<v Speaker 1>friends and family is great, but you don't have to

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<v Speaker 1>settle for just picking a date and a time and

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<v Speaker 1>a default place. Instead, think about why you want to

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<v Speaker 1>get together and consider whether a themed gathering might help

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<v Speaker 1>you achieve that purpose. A theme can give your party

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<v Speaker 1>a focus and perhaps a sense of playfulness and fun too.

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<v Speaker 1>You'll create connections and memories that go deeper than they

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<v Speaker 1>otherwise would. In the meantime, this is Laura. Thanks for listening,

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<v Speaker 1>and here's to making the most of our time. Thanks

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