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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 2: Drea is on the phone today for our first Date

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Speaker 2: follow up and she's getting ghosted from a date she

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Speaker 2: went on with a woman named Carolina. So we're going

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Speaker 2: to see if we can help figure it out for

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Speaker 2: and maybe get another date if she still wants one.

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Speaker 2: In a second, but first, Drea, how long has it

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Speaker 2: been since you heard from Krolina.

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Speaker 3: It's been about a week now that I hadn't heard from.

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Speaker 4: Her, Okay, And yeah, so I'm.

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Speaker 3: Just really confused because we will for like, we met

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Speaker 3: at work and we've kind of been flirting, like back

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Speaker 3: and forth, you know, just kind of office romance. I guess, yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 4: But she's really pretty. She has a great sense of humor, and.

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Speaker 3: We've actually been having coffee like in the office break

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Speaker 3: room and stuff and kind of getting to know each other.

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Speaker 3: So it was we kind of knew each other before

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Speaker 3: going into the date, and so I finally got up

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Speaker 3: the nerve to ask her out. And I wanted I've

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Speaker 3: been wanting to play pickleball because I've heard there's so

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Speaker 3: much hype around it, and I thought it would be fun.

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Speaker 5: Is that what you did for your date?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we went, we played We played a couple of

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Speaker 3: rounds of pickleball, and then we had some drinks after

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Speaker 3: words at bar. Okay, And I mean, as far as

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Speaker 3: I'm concerned, the date was great. Like the conversation was wonderful.

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Speaker 3: Like I said, she has a great personality, she's funny,

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Speaker 3: she has wonderful sense of humor. And we even shared

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Speaker 3: a little kiss. Oh but yeah, the next day, I

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Speaker 3: was excited to like get to work and see her,

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Speaker 3: and she wasn't there. So I texted her because I

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Speaker 3: make sure she was okay, maybe she was sick. I

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Speaker 4: In on her.

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Speaker 3: And she didn't answer me back, and so she has

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Speaker 4: She get fired, I don't know. I hadn't heard anything,

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Speaker 4: so I don't think so. But I've been.

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Speaker 3: Reaching out to her, and I'm actually like kind of

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Speaker 3: if she's really sick or if I mean maybe I

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Speaker 3: just don't know. I thought we had a great date.

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Speaker 4: I think, you know.

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Speaker 3: Now I'm just worried.

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Speaker 4: I did something.

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Speaker 2: Do they have like a policy about dating other coworkers

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Speaker 2: at your office?

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Speaker 3: Only if you're like you can't, like supervisors can't date

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Speaker 3: hourly employees and things like that. But if you're both hourly,

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Speaker 3: then you can. Then you can be okay, then it's.

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Speaker 5: A free for all each other. I love it. Does

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Speaker 5: she usually show up to work every day?

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Speaker 6: Like?

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Speaker 7: I mean, is she the type of person that just

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Speaker 3: She's actually pretty good with attendance, so which is why

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Speaker 3: I'm so worried that she's missed so much.

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Speaker 7: Did anything weird happen on the day, Like, was there

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Speaker 5: I don't know, I mean.

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Speaker 3: Not on my end, I thought everything went went great,

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Speaker 3: Like when we parted, we parted on great terms, and

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Speaker 3: you know, we even said we were kind of even like,

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Speaker 4: Out of it.

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Speaker 5: But I'd be worried too. Have you asked around about her?

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Speaker 4: I asked a couple of people, but nobody really made.

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Speaker 3: Everybody just kind of says they haven't heard from her either,

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Speaker 7: I feel like it's a good amount of time to

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Speaker 7: not be in the office, right, Like, do you know

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Speaker 7: where she lives? Just do a drive by or I mean,

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Speaker 7: I don't know. It's an idea.

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Speaker 3: I did call her from a block number to see

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Speaker 3: if she would answer, and she did answer, but I

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Speaker 2: Oh no, so you know that she's answering her phone

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Speaker 5: Okay, Well, good, she's alive.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, she is alive, So that's good. I just now

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Speaker 3: it's more so I'm worried that she's just avoiding me.

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Speaker 5: We'll see if we can figure it out.

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Speaker 2: We'll play a song come Back, and then we'll call

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Speaker 2: her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting

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Speaker 2: you and maybe get you another date if you still

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Speaker 4: Okay, that's great, thanks guys.

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Speaker 5: All right, well play song come Back. Get your first

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Speaker 5: Day follow Up.

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Speaker 1: Next first Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury

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Speaker 2: Drea is on the phone today for a first day

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Speaker 2: follow up and she's getting ghosted by a date she

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Speaker 2: went on with a coworker named Carolina and doesn't know why.

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Speaker 2: So we're about to call Carolina and see if she'll

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Speaker 2: tell us why she's ghosting and maybe get Drea another

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Speaker 2: date if she still wants one. But first, Drea, why

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Speaker 2: don't you catch everybody up on your date with Carolina.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Carolyne and I met at work. We've been kind

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Speaker 3: of flirting back and forth, and I finally got the

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Speaker 3: nerve to ask her out. We went, we played pickleball,

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Speaker 3: We had drinks, great conversation, and even a little kiss.

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Speaker 4: At the end.

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Speaker 3: So, oh, I'm just wondering why she's not returning my text.

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Speaker 5: Or coast and she hasn't been to work for a week. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: that's the alarming thing.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, all right, that's where I'm worried.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, we call her. Hello, Hi, may I speak

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Speaker 5: to Carolina? Please?

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Speaker 4: Yes?

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Speaker 5: This is Carolina, Carolina, how are you?

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Speaker 2: My name is Jewbel and a host the radio show

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Speaker 2: and it's called The Jebel Show.

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Speaker 5: Hi, Carolina, the show's here too. My name is Nina, Hi,

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Speaker 5: and I'm Victoria. There's three of us on the phone

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Speaker 5: with you right now. Hi.

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Speaker 4: Okay, sorry, three of this. Okay, what's going on?

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Speaker 5: We do a segment on our show. It's called the

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Speaker 5: First Date follow Up?

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Speaker 2: That's where if you go out on a date with

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Speaker 2: somebody and end up ghosting them, that person can email

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Speaker 2: us to get you on the phone and ask why

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Speaker 2: you're ghosting them. So we got an email about you

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Speaker 2: from somebody that you dated recently, Okay, any idea who

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Speaker 4: Was it Rio?

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Speaker 5: Yes? It was Dre wants to know why you're ghosting her,

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Speaker 5: why you haven't been to work.

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Speaker 4: Okay, so I'll tell you about that. Okay, cool to

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Speaker 5: Okay, Yeah, sorry, appreciate it.

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Speaker 6: Okay, but you know what, fine, So I'm ghosting Drea.

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Speaker 6: She's kind of like, oh, you know, it's going to

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Speaker 6: be amazing when my ex years about this, She's going

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Speaker 6: Like to me, that's like, you know, listen, I'm getting older.

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Speaker 6: I don't want to be a pawn in anyone's game.

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Speaker 4: So I was hurt by that.

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Speaker 6: I thought it was really uncalled for, and from there

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Speaker 5: She was saying that going out with you was going

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Speaker 6: Yeah, like basically like getting back at her, Like happiness

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Speaker 4: Like that's what I took.

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Speaker 6: Actually I haven't been around her because I called out

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Speaker 6: I'm getting better, but I just have no interest in

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Speaker 5: Yeah that I'm glad you're feeling about her.

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Speaker 4: She seems like a cool girl. I had to protect

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Speaker 6: I don't want to set myself up for something and

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Speaker 4: Figure that out.

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Speaker 5: You think that she didn't really like you that much?

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Speaker 5: She just wanted to make her ex jealous.

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Speaker 6: Well that's the thing, Like, I didn't see that coming

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Speaker 6: Maybe? You know, it was just the one date. So

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Speaker 6: being a ghoster here, aren't I? But sometimes like it's

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Speaker 6: I don't know what she'll say if I mentioned that

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Speaker 4: I don't know, a little backfire.

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Speaker 2: Well, let's see, because she's actually on the phone and

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Speaker 2: she's been listening this whole time, and she.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, So Dreya you're there.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, I'm here. Sorry, I just got kind

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Speaker 3: No, first of all, I am so sorry, Like, let

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Speaker 3: me apologize for making that comment. Obviously you don't know

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Speaker 4: It didn't come from.

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Speaker 3: Actually I had an amazing time with you, but my

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Speaker 3: might like me back. So I am so sorry for

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Speaker 3: that comment. If it hurt you, okay, I would say

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Speaker 3: right now, like I do appreciate the apology for sure.

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Speaker 3: You know, I didn't think that's where you'd be coming from.

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Speaker 3: I'm not really sure if I'm interested if they gave

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Speaker 3: like this is a lot of talk about your act

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Speaker 4: Up like past girlfriends or even skies. I dated about

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Speaker 6: Early on, so I feel like this is a lot

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Speaker 4: Does that make sense? You dated guys? Yeah, I date

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Speaker 4: people for sure. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, you didn't tell me that, so I didn't

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Speaker 3: know that. So I just thought I'll mention you know,

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Speaker 3: kind of shut up just a lot. Yeah, well, you're

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Speaker 3: didn't even tell me about your xes, so it's just

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Speaker 3: kind of it's just kind of odds to me.

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Speaker 6: I wasn't really getting on too much your acts. I

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Speaker 6: think for me, it was just more about like, oh,

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Speaker 6: that seemed like some game client there, so.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well, I just I mean, I guess, like I

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Speaker 6: Yeah, but like in time for sure.

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Speaker 4: But that is exactly what I'm trying to say. You

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Speaker 6: You know, I just think it takes time to get

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Speaker 6: to know one to I don't need to know everything

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Speaker 3: I guess I'm just kind of different on that end.

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Speaker 3: I kind of like, you know, I mean.

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Speaker 2: More different Carolina. Would you would you like to got

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Speaker 2: with your egg in another date? We'll pay for it.

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Speaker 4: I think I've just made myself pretty clear here. Again.

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Speaker 6: I think she seems like a cool girl, but I

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Speaker 6: think you know she's I'm not the one for her.

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Speaker 6: You know that it's early on, but I can tell

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Speaker 6: I can definitely tell this.

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Speaker 5: We're just not a match.

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Speaker 4: But yeah, no, that's fine.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I would feel like to be friends because

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Speaker 3: I think you're really cool girls. But I mean, I

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Speaker 3: just I'm not really interested either, because you know, like

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Speaker 6: So well, hopefully you know, work friends.

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Speaker 4: We'll leave it at that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, well see it work, Carolina.

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Speaker 5: We have a good first day back after being sick.

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Speaker 4: Oh, thank you, I appreciate that.

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