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Speaker 1: Welcome to We Talk Back Podcast, the production of iHeartRadio

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Speaker 1: and the Black Effect Network Talk Talk.

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Speaker 2: We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion to talks.

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Speaker 3: Hey y'all, at your girl a j holiday? What's up,

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Speaker 3: Tam Bam?

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Speaker 2: Hey aj I love y'all so much. How was your weekend?

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Speaker 3: My weekend was very uneventful.

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Speaker 1: It's been getting cold outside and that's it. There's really

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Speaker 1: nothing much going on in South Carolina right now. I'm Hiberneaton.

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Speaker 2: So you didn't have bay.

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Speaker 3: Me about that nigga.

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Speaker 4: Listen.

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Speaker 2: You tell me every week, so I was just wondering

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Speaker 2: you asked me.

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Speaker 1: I don't be mentioning him because you ask me, and

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Speaker 1: sometimes I be having to explained some ship that I.

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Speaker 3: Said on this this damn podcast.

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Speaker 2: He listens to listen, so he listens every week. I'm

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Speaker 2: make sure my niggas don't listen.

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Speaker 3: Every week.

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Speaker 1: He'd be knowing what we're talking about. Like last week

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Speaker 1: he was like, so you want a marathon? But yes,

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Speaker 1: actually I do, so was it talking about you?

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Speaker 2: So he's gonna have two shows to listen to this week,

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Speaker 2: ours and our guests. So y'all, we got some amazing guests.

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Speaker 2: On their cousins to the podcast. They're like our Sisters

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Speaker 2: show on the network because it's female led Mela and

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Speaker 2: Erica from Good Mom's Bad Choices. It's our guests on

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Speaker 2: the show this week. Welcome lady Ah here, y'all, Hey, y'all,

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Speaker 2: eighty hey. So we just got on with them yesterday

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Speaker 2: and we had a really good time talking with them,

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Speaker 2: and now we had to bring them over here with

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Speaker 2: our of you listeners. So maybe y'all can jump on

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Speaker 2: and listen to their show if you already aren't. They

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Speaker 2: probably already tuning in. So I don't know where I

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Speaker 2: was about to go with it.

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Speaker 3: You high her?

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, let's talk about y'all.

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Speaker 4: Weekend LA is pretty uneventful. I feel like it's gotten

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Speaker 4: very dry since twenty twenty. So I was in I

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Speaker 4: was in New York, and then I went to Miami

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Speaker 4: because I was avoiding coming home because why come home

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Speaker 4: when I could go to Miami. And actually I had

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Speaker 4: a pretty eventful week in New York. I danced with

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Speaker 4: Sierra at the Soho House.

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Speaker 2: I saw that.

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Speaker 4: It's pretty epic. It wasn't planned. I don't know her

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Speaker 4: at all. People think I'm really cool now like, oh

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Speaker 4: my god, you guys blew up. I'm like yeah, me

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Speaker 4: and Sis. And then I went to Miami and I

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Speaker 4: wandered into a drag brunch by myself, made seven friends,

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Speaker 4: and joined the dance contest even though they said locals only.

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Speaker 4: I was like locals or locals and what I've joined? Anyway.

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Speaker 4: I didn't win, though, which was a tragedy. But other

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Speaker 4: than that, and today I went and tried on wedding dresses.

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Speaker 4: So I've had an eventful week.

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Speaker 2: Oh you had a very eventful week. What about you, Erica?

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Speaker 5: Excuse me? I was also in New York with Mila

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Speaker 5: and witnessed her dance with Sierra. If you have a second,

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Speaker 5: go on our page good Mom's bad Choices and go

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Speaker 5: see the knees, because mila'sknees are well oiled.

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Speaker 2: Okay, period?

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Speaker 5: And what else did I do? I came back. I

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Speaker 5: had to jump straight back into motherhood. So my daughter

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Speaker 5: had cheerleading. I fucked up, and I got to the

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Speaker 5: damn homecoming. We got her to the homecoming game late,

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Speaker 5: she missed the whole performance. Bad choice mom, good whatever

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Speaker 5: the fuck? So that was annoying. Other than I've just

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Speaker 5: been chilling girl, I've just been relaxing, decompressing. I love

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Speaker 5: New York, but every time I come back, I'm a

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Speaker 5: little bit like I just feel like energetically, like it

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Speaker 5: just pulls me a lot. Even this trip, I was

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Speaker 5: actually really well behaved. Like normally when I'm in New York,

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Speaker 5: I'm like outside, and this trip I was. This is

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Speaker 5: the calmest I've ever been in New York City in

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Speaker 5: my whole fucking life. But I still came back and

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Speaker 5: needed like two days of recovery. So I've just been chilling. Today.

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Speaker 5: It's raining in la and I love it. I love

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Speaker 5: a good rain. It feels cleansing. And now I'm on

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Speaker 5: here with you ladies.

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Speaker 1: Don't I always say that about New York, Like it's

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Speaker 1: like a it's They're definitely like harvesting our energy. Between

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Speaker 1: Atlanta and New York, I'm always feeling like drained.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you always said that you hate your own good.

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Speaker 2: So okay, let me tell you about my weekend. I

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Speaker 2: didn't tell y'all. So my mom just purchased a new house,

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Speaker 2: so I was out helping her. I'm know, I'm so

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Speaker 2: happy for her. Out by a new furniture for her

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Speaker 2: house and I'm just so as you know, y'all may

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Speaker 2: not know. I've been like a gypsy for the past year.

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Speaker 2: So I came out to La. I was there for

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Speaker 2: like forty five days, and I broke my foot. So

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Speaker 2: then I left LA. And then you broke your foot

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Speaker 2: in La, I know. I came back home for a

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Speaker 2: wedding and I jumped a catch the bouquet broke my

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Speaker 2: foot on the landing.

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Speaker 4: Yeah's gonna plush you, no, so, oh my god.

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Speaker 2: So my stuff is still in La in a storage

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Speaker 2: unit right now. So I haven't been back. It's been almostly.

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Speaker 2: It's been a year. So I'm going back out. I'll

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Speaker 2: be back out there soon. When we have to hang out.

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Speaker 4: Here for that forty five day I would do here. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: I decided to because you broke your foot.

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Speaker 2: Yes, and I just didn't want to be out there

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Speaker 2: or without a village with a broken foot, can't drive,

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Speaker 2: you know, all those things. So then I came back

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Speaker 2: to South Carolina to my mom's house and to heal.

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Speaker 2: And then in February, I got an apartment in New York,

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Speaker 2: but I was subletting that it wasn't like my own space,

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Speaker 2: and it was furnished. So my ship was in the

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Speaker 2: storage unit in Charlotte, some of my stuff was in

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Speaker 2: this unit in LA and then the stuff I brought

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Speaker 2: with me to New York. Right, so like I'm scattered,

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Speaker 2: and then there's ship in South Carolina. So now yeah,

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Speaker 2: like just very scattered. So now my mom is like moving,

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Speaker 2: So now I would either need to move my shit

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Speaker 2: my own place. So I've been apart apartment shopping. Finally,

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Speaker 2: after a year of living out of a suitcase and boxes,

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Speaker 2: I'm finally about to be back in an apartment of

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Speaker 2: my own, back in Charlotte, the place I did not

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Speaker 2: necessarily want to be, but here we are. So that's

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Speaker 2: what I was doing looking at apartments. It's fun. I

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Speaker 2: found it really Like I think right now is a

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Speaker 2: good time to be like apartment hunting because it's cheap.

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Speaker 2: I mean, well, I won't say cheap, because.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, can you share for the West Coast people listening,

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Speaker 4: can you please tell me its jealous and mad?

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Speaker 2: This q ass apartment y'all and south in Charlotte. So

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Speaker 2: it's right outside of downtown and it's a six floor unit.

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Speaker 2: It's nine hundred, nine hundred ninety square feet or something

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Speaker 2: like that, and it's only eighteen sixty. Well so it's

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Speaker 2: it's two thousand and ninety, right, but with a month free.

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Speaker 2: So I just take down them off the entire lease

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Speaker 2: and it came out to eighteen sixty a month. And

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Speaker 2: it's so cute, like I mean, it's got like the

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Speaker 2: nice finishes, like all those all the bells and whistles.

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Speaker 2: Wash your dryer, definitely wash your and dryer, yeah, absolutely.

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Speaker 4: I mean you don't get you got to be a

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Speaker 4: millionaire to have a washer and dryer in la Okay,

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Speaker 4: I'm not joking.

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Speaker 5: I gotta use water like that, right, I mean fact

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Speaker 5: I wish that. That sounds like a that's a great price.

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Speaker 2: Eighteen hundred sixty y'all take. And so this building it

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Speaker 2: was meant to be condos, right, so it's only four

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Speaker 2: units on each floor.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah nice?

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Speaker 2: And yeah it is just so I came went to

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Speaker 2: movie in Girl. Now the only thing I did not

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Speaker 2: I don't have is a balcony. So I hate that

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Speaker 2: because you know I'll be smoking.

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Speaker 4: But we just go four people on your floor. They

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Speaker 4: were like, go to fuck with you?

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Speaker 2: Maybe they leave the Yeah, because it's like corner. I'm

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Speaker 2: on the corner there on the corner, Like so I'm

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Speaker 2: just off by myself, but I'm excited for it.

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Speaker 3: They guys, air purified, you'd be all right, yeah yeah, So.

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Speaker 5: Wait, so why did New York work out?

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Speaker 4: And why aren't you going back to La?

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Speaker 2: Okay? So La did not work because I just didn't

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Speaker 2: feel connected there, but I didn't give it a chance

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Speaker 2: for real. I was only there a short moment.

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Speaker 4: I remember Orlando telling me like, TAM's moving and then

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Speaker 4: I was like, what happened to Tam. He's like she

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Speaker 4: broke her foot and how he was like she was

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Speaker 4: trying to catch the bouquet. I was like, wow, she

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Speaker 4: really wanted that bouquet. And then I just never heard

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Speaker 4: about it again, but he said that it reminded me.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm just hugely competitive, especially when I'm drunk. So

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Speaker 2: I was like, not.

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Speaker 5: Somebody else's wad and you broke you broke your foot,

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Speaker 5: and now all the attentions on you, bitch.

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Speaker 4: And it reeled out and to carry you outs or no.

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Speaker 2: I was drunk, you know, so I just kind of

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Speaker 2: hobbled out. I was like, it's fine, it's just frain.

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Speaker 2: But then the next day that's when I realized, like,

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Speaker 2: oh my shit is broken. My foot was you know,

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Speaker 2: big and the pain. But so La. The first day

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Speaker 2: I was there, it was an earthquake. I was like like,

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Speaker 2: I don't know if.

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Speaker 1: I only were recording virtual and then sh it just

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Speaker 2: I was like, oh shit, this place really be shaking

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Speaker 2: like this. I was like, I don't know, Like so

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Speaker 2: that just kind of, you know, was kind of off putting.

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Speaker 2: I was like an Elliott fall because it was like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: you thought Elliott had fell down, like it was a earthquake.

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Speaker 2: So I didn't give La A tried. Then New York.

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Speaker 2: I like New York, but New York is so like

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Speaker 2: the transportation was just so expensive. I don't I cannot

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Speaker 2: ride the train. I tried. I can't do it. You

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Speaker 2: watch these movies like sex TV shows like Sex and

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Speaker 2: the City. They're on the train, and shit, nobody really

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Speaker 2: rides that motherfucker for real, Like.

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Speaker 4: My say, dear girl, everybody be on there.

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Speaker 2: No girl, I got on that train. I was like

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna because I was taking acting classes right, so

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Speaker 2: I was like, I'm gonna take the train to class

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Speaker 2: the day before, just so I can make sure I

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Speaker 2: get there on time. And I got on the train

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Speaker 2: and I don't know if this guy could sense like

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Speaker 2: I was, you know something, but he came over me.

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Speaker 2: He was like, I can balance your chakras right, yeah,

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Speaker 2: for a dollar not in nodssense. He was standing over me, bitch.

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Speaker 2: I was so scared.

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Speaker 5: I was like, please.

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Speaker 4: Chakras for a dollar ninety nine, bitch.

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Speaker 2: A dollar ninety nine. And he was standing over me

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Speaker 2: with his hands like this girl. And I was like

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Speaker 2: ah like and I was like, I'm never getting on

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Speaker 2: this motherfucker again. I took my classes and I love

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Speaker 2: it and I'm still in school, but I'm just virtual now.

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Speaker 2: But I don't like the noise pollution either. It's just

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Speaker 2: too much. The train, Like I could literally hear the

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Speaker 2: train like it felt like it was running through my bedroom.

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Speaker 2: I could hear the motherfucker like next to Philadelphic because

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Speaker 2: Like I was, I can't.

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Speaker 4: Do this, So you traumatized the South?

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Speaker 2: It is for me. It's warm, it's beautiful, the people

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Speaker 1: New York is mad Max I'm cool on New York anyway, y'all,

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Speaker 1: let's get into stupid internet news. Yes, we got going

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Speaker 1: seeing Cam Newton and all his commentary between him and

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Speaker 1: turned up some shit again. Recently, he had an interview

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Speaker 1: stated that he asked Jasmine Brown for his excuse me

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Speaker 3: List, the big list, like who you have slept with?

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Speaker 2: Lists? What's big for some not for others?

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Speaker 1: Agent, are y'all giving y'all man a list of your

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Speaker 4: Do you want me to go first?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Go ahead.

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Speaker 4: Not only am I not giving you my list because Nigga,

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Speaker 4: I don't remember and I didn't write it down because

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Speaker 4: I'm a grown ass woman. I'm not in fucking twelfth grade.

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Speaker 4: I'm also going to stop talking to you for you

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Speaker 4: to ask me such an ignorant, ridiculous question, because nigga,

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Speaker 4: if I asked you that, you couldn't even begin. And anyway,

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Speaker 4: also I could lie and just put big Bean number seven,

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Speaker 4: Like what are you talking about? You don't know these niggas,

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Speaker 4: and what would be the point of that so you

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Speaker 4: just think it's an immature statement. I think it's an

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Speaker 4: spiritually we're not on the same page, because nigga, where's

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Speaker 4: your list and where we're going to cross reference and

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Speaker 4: call people and be like, hey, she lived there for

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Speaker 4: two years? Okay, well how was it?

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Speaker 6: Like?

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Speaker 4: What is the point?

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Speaker 5: Right?

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Speaker 4: That's an apartment hunting?

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Speaker 2: What about your am?

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Speaker 5: Sure I'm a lie.

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Speaker 3: Sure, I'm a firm believer in lion too.

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Speaker 4: Niggas, Okay, wait, if you're gonna if you're gonna lie,

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Speaker 4: what how much?

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Speaker 5: Like? Okay, just like you just like he's gonna lie?

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Speaker 5: Like what the fuck are you talking about?

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Speaker 4: But what do you?

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Speaker 5: And if I did? Then what nigga? Then what? What?

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Speaker 4: What are you gonna? What do you think is the

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Speaker 4: number that niggas want to hear with people with women

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Speaker 4: like our big age, Like let's say over thirty five.

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Speaker 5: I'm just curious under ten okay, mm hmmm, preferably five

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Speaker 5: under five that's like under less than one a year.

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Speaker 5: I feel like anything. Over ten, you start getting into

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Speaker 4: Their minds, right, okay, the men last they start, they.

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Speaker 5: Literally tell you literally start seeing Dix entering your pussy,

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Speaker 3: Hag your mouth and your eye everywhere and everything else. Essentially,

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Speaker 3: he basically said, like his ego, like his ego, you know,

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Speaker 1: He was it ew right, he was, he was ill,

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Speaker 1: and he was like he would definitely have a bruised ego,

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Speaker 1: and because of who he is and like going into

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Speaker 1: And like, you know, just and how you think a

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Speaker 5: We know you fucked a million motherfucking people. And I'm

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Speaker 5: gonna walk into a park.

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Speaker 1: I'm like what I always say, if I walk into

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Speaker 1: a party, it might be one person in there I

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Speaker 3: I walk in there with a nigga. He probably don't

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Speaker 3: hit like twenty bitches in here. So who's really the hope?

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Speaker 2: Right, what are we talking about?

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Speaker 4: I don't even don't honestly, and I've done somehow, and

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Speaker 4: I really don't even the one person rule, Like it

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Speaker 4: is so rare that we're gonna I have a hold

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Speaker 5: You know, I live in different city than I hold in,

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Speaker 3: They're spread out, nigga, nigga's in the same zip code.

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Speaker 3: Dan you a whole And.

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Speaker 4: I'm not the kind of how that you can ever

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Speaker 4: disrespect any any nigga I fuck still wants to be

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Speaker 4: my friend. He's gonna he he aha, your face, my face,

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Speaker 4: He's gonna be happy to see us because we had

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Speaker 4: a good run and I didn't do nothing but be

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Speaker 4: nice to him. And honestly, for all the men and

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Speaker 4: about these type of situations, you don't say shit until

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Speaker 4: think he's gonna speak, and you think maybe they know

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Speaker 4: each other in that case, right as he's approaching and say,

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Speaker 4: I know him, we've had history. Thanks doing real quick.

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Speaker 1: I know, men don't even think about you until they

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Speaker 1: see you with whoever you fucking now, you know, so

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Speaker 1: let me go ahead and tell on myself before this nigga,

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Speaker 1: you know, tells as if we had sex yesterday and

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Speaker 1: you ain't seen his pussy since I was eighteen.

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Speaker 2: My whole facts, My whole facts deletes at eleven fifty

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Speaker 2: nine fifty nine on December thirty first. Every year like

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Speaker 4: And to be honest, if you weren't condom, it doesn't

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Speaker 3: And if I didn't comment on count, what do we.

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Speaker 4: Think there's a barrier there? So now it didn't work.

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Speaker 5: I may, I may or may not even say shit

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Speaker 5: if the nigga's walking towards you, to be honest, because

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Speaker 5: it's not your motherfucking business, it's before you. Why what

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Speaker 5: for what you know? What I mean unless y'all be

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Speaker 5: unless I find out y'all are homeboys, maybe, and maybe

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Speaker 5: I'll give you the courtesy of afterwards. I'm not I'm

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Speaker 5: probably not gonna do it in the real time because

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Speaker 5: that's awkward and uncomfortable. I don't know, like I've actually

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Speaker 5: done that before and it has backfired on me because

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Speaker 5: niggas always say they want this and then they can't

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Speaker 5: handle it when it actually happens. So like their track

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Speaker 5: and their track record of actually being honest about what

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Speaker 5: they've done is also very low and poor. So why

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Speaker 5: the fuck am I going to tell you my shit?

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Speaker 5: Like no, thank you, I'm good.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And then anybody becomes their cousin or friend once

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Speaker 1: they know you fucked them.

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Speaker 3: That's my homeboy, Like.

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Speaker 4: Nigga, let me see your let me see your phone

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Speaker 4: phone number. You lie like a motherfucker.

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Speaker 3: You know him I have.

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Speaker 5: I also like one time I did tell this guy

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Speaker 4: That was so whack.

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Speaker 5: He he went and called him out of respect. He

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Speaker 5: really wasn't out of respect. It was on some like

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Speaker 5: like they're not even really.

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Speaker 3: That the.

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Speaker 5: Current. The current called the former. The former was out

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Speaker 5: there minded weird and and me and and the former

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Speaker 5: we had only slept together one time. It was a

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Speaker 5: one and done situation. We tried it, it wasn't there

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Speaker 5: wasn't a vibe. We continued being friends and he called

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Speaker 5: him and the guy was thrown off. He called me like,

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Speaker 5: why is this nigga calling me to tell me this ship?

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Speaker 5: Like I don't like this is weird, and I was like,

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Speaker 5: I don't know, and it was like it was for

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Speaker 5: then and then and then abusing that ship against me,

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Speaker 5: then using that shit against me later. Like so it's

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Speaker 5: just like I'd rather not Ladies just shit the fuck up?

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Speaker 2: Now, did y'all see this? Steph Curry's wife, Ayisha, is

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Speaker 2: facing backlash for saying that she never wanted kids and

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Speaker 2: she had her own career goals and her husband doesn't understand.

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Speaker 2: So have y'all been seeing all the backlass she's been

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Speaker 2: receiving about that? Of course not true.

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Speaker 1: That whole headline isn't true. Of course I've seen it.

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Speaker 1: I actually watched the full episode, and she did not

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Speaker 1: say anything wrong. She praised the fuck out of her husband.

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Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: What woman who got married at twenty one and got

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Speaker 1: basically right right? Why would she not be reflecting at

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Speaker 2: Now?

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Speaker 1: You know, the should have could have waded because she

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Speaker 1: So of course she's going to be She was just

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Speaker 1: reflecting you know, they be cutting and pasting shit for Instagram.

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Speaker 3: I don't know why people hate her so much. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: do you see that people hate her.

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Speaker 2: Her a lot?

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Speaker 5: They really hate her. They hate her because that's me.

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Speaker 5: That was the first comment that hates people they hate women.

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Speaker 5: Well there's that too, yes, but they whimpically really hate

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Speaker 4: I feel like she's like the most Like she's like

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Speaker 4: a homemaking present. She has a cooking line. Like when

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Speaker 4: I think of the men on the internet who hate women,

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Speaker 4: like they might hate us, or like someone who's like

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Speaker 4: more provocative outwardly, because she probably is like a little

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Speaker 4: secret freak because she geten married all this time. But

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Speaker 4: I feel like I'm very shocked by people hating her,

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Speaker 4: Like what is there to hate? She seems very wholesome.

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Speaker 4: I never wear any sea or wearing anything that's gonna

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Speaker 4: make everybody like, I never see anything that's so triggering.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Like I say, it's because people, the men are

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Speaker 5: obsessed with Steph Curry and they will idolize him and

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Speaker 5: have decided what is suitable for him. They want to

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Speaker 5: talk as a wife and Aisha Curry has Ayisha Curry,

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Speaker 5: although yes, she has has yes, although she has followed

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Speaker 5: I guess, the traditional wife role for a while. I

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Speaker 5: on her own. She has her own like I guess,

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Speaker 5: like a makeup line or lip glass line, and she's

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Speaker 5: done her own like. They just they want her to

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Speaker 5: at all and doesn't say anything unbecoming around him or

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Speaker 5: just being a wife in general. And I think it's

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Speaker 5: of women coming for her. Even me and Mila went

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Speaker 5: I could see the like the like disgust in her.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, And I was like, where.

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Speaker 5: Is this coming?

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Speaker 1: No, I think the women think that girl, your husband

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Speaker 1: is be grateful whatever, you don't exactly be grateful, shut

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Speaker 1: up and look pretty.

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Speaker 3: This is yeah, this is the attitude women have for her.

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Speaker 5: But those same women, if they were in the same position,

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Speaker 5: would have fucking feelings about it too. I don't give

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Speaker 5: a fuck no matter how much money you got, you're

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Speaker 5: still human. You have you have desires, you have wishes,

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Speaker 5: especially when you're living in the shadow of a famous person,

438
00:21:09,119 --> 00:21:11,080
Speaker 5: you know, your whole identity starts being attached to them.

439
00:21:11,080 --> 00:21:12,800
Speaker 5: You can't even be your own woman, your own person.

440
00:21:12,920 --> 00:21:15,600
Speaker 5: Everyone your Steph Curry's wife, Steph Curry's wife. It's just

441
00:21:15,600 --> 00:21:17,080
Speaker 5: like when you go meet like even you don't gotta

442
00:21:17,080 --> 00:21:18,639
Speaker 5: be famous. Have you ever been out with like like

443
00:21:18,680 --> 00:21:21,040
Speaker 5: your man and like none of his homeboys ever like

444
00:21:21,160 --> 00:21:23,840
Speaker 5: even talk to you, Like they just they just like

445
00:21:23,840 --> 00:21:26,280
Speaker 5: like you'll go down the line of like shaking someone's

446
00:21:26,480 --> 00:21:29,040
Speaker 5: hand and they just like skip you out of respect.

447
00:21:29,200 --> 00:21:32,880
Speaker 5: Like this whole idea around like being respectful and act

448
00:21:32,960 --> 00:21:34,840
Speaker 5: and ignoring the woman.

449
00:21:35,160 --> 00:21:36,600
Speaker 4: Is like so old.

450
00:21:36,920 --> 00:21:38,960
Speaker 5: It's some. It's really some black people shit. And I

451
00:21:38,960 --> 00:21:39,879
Speaker 5: hate to say that about it.

452
00:21:40,119 --> 00:21:40,760
Speaker 4: I don't black people.

453
00:21:41,119 --> 00:21:43,600
Speaker 5: I don't see white men do that. I don't see

454
00:21:43,600 --> 00:21:45,000
Speaker 5: white I don't see white men do that.

455
00:21:46,160 --> 00:21:47,680
Speaker 4: We don't be hanging around them. We don't know.

456
00:21:48,600 --> 00:21:50,640
Speaker 5: I've been around the white men's They don't be ignoring

457
00:21:50,640 --> 00:21:53,199
Speaker 5: the fucking wives and shit like that. I see that

458
00:21:53,440 --> 00:21:55,800
Speaker 5: a lot in our culture, a lot.

459
00:21:55,960 --> 00:21:58,320
Speaker 4: I never even considered if it was a black people thing.

460
00:21:58,520 --> 00:22:01,399
Speaker 5: But maybe I mean, I'm or it happens on both sides,

461
00:22:01,440 --> 00:22:04,680
Speaker 5: but I say it's prevalent in our in our space.

462
00:22:04,840 --> 00:22:07,320
Speaker 4: Is it like an insecurity thing like or just like

463
00:22:07,320 --> 00:22:11,359
Speaker 4: it like yeah, I don't know respect yeah, but but

464
00:22:11,359 --> 00:22:13,959
Speaker 4: but but you don't want people to respect me, like

465
00:22:14,040 --> 00:22:16,919
Speaker 4: as a whole person. Like I think generally we've learned

466
00:22:17,200 --> 00:22:19,920
Speaker 4: in like the era of social media, is that society,

467
00:22:20,480 --> 00:22:24,520
Speaker 4: particularly men, don't respect whole women. They want you to

468
00:22:24,600 --> 00:22:26,680
Speaker 4: be like an avatar of who they think you're supposed

469
00:22:26,680 --> 00:22:29,439
Speaker 4: to be, not say much conservative, not have a history

470
00:22:29,600 --> 00:22:31,960
Speaker 4: like you want to. You want an ai girlfriend like

471
00:22:32,000 --> 00:22:34,040
Speaker 4: you don't want a real human or else. You wouldn't

472
00:22:34,040 --> 00:22:36,359
Speaker 4: even have these type of conversations because they do.

473
00:22:36,359 --> 00:22:39,119
Speaker 1: Though, because they they call the girl with the depth

474
00:22:39,240 --> 00:22:41,560
Speaker 1: and that's what they're cheating with, right while you got

475
00:22:41,600 --> 00:22:43,199
Speaker 1: old girl like the house, we shut the fuck up,

476
00:22:44,880 --> 00:22:45,320
Speaker 1: and then they.

477
00:22:45,200 --> 00:22:49,600
Speaker 4: Tell her all your business and write pillow talk. Yeah

478
00:22:49,840 --> 00:22:50,520
Speaker 4: you good advice.

479
00:22:52,119 --> 00:22:54,359
Speaker 5: Well, well, good news to them. I don't know if

480
00:22:54,359 --> 00:22:56,159
Speaker 5: you saw this today in the news. Not to interrupt

481
00:22:56,280 --> 00:22:59,080
Speaker 5: your news, but chatchy BT is going to now have

482
00:22:59,200 --> 00:23:02,480
Speaker 5: erotic interact actions for age verified adults on their app.

483
00:23:02,560 --> 00:23:05,639
Speaker 5: So yeah, just go get you a virtual bitch and

484
00:23:05,640 --> 00:23:07,200
Speaker 5: she'll be a very agreeing.

485
00:23:08,040 --> 00:23:10,000
Speaker 4: Can she suck your dick? Like, what are you talking about?

486
00:23:10,280 --> 00:23:10,760
Speaker 2: Phone sick?

487
00:23:11,320 --> 00:23:15,719
Speaker 5: Probably because chat can generate images, so sure they're going

488
00:23:15,800 --> 00:23:17,080
Speaker 5: to really start charging for that.

489
00:23:17,119 --> 00:23:19,000
Speaker 1: It's like chatg EPT is probably going to have like

490
00:23:19,000 --> 00:23:20,439
Speaker 1: an only fans tiers.

491
00:23:20,520 --> 00:23:24,320
Speaker 5: Of course they're trying to monopolize every every space. But anyway,

492
00:23:24,359 --> 00:23:27,000
Speaker 5: I'll long story short, go get you a build a

493
00:23:27,000 --> 00:23:30,080
Speaker 5: bitch if that's what you need, because I don't know,

494
00:23:30,480 --> 00:23:32,800
Speaker 5: I just feel like women the people just want women

495
00:23:32,800 --> 00:23:35,280
Speaker 5: to be quiet and just I don't know where else

496
00:23:35,320 --> 00:23:38,200
Speaker 5: they're supposed to share. I appreciate someone with her platform

497
00:23:38,280 --> 00:23:40,359
Speaker 5: being that, honest. I think a lot of women and

498
00:23:40,400 --> 00:23:45,280
Speaker 5: married people like want that and need that absolutely.

499
00:23:45,480 --> 00:23:47,880
Speaker 3: I don't know what just happened to Tam, but go ahead.

500
00:23:47,720 --> 00:23:50,680
Speaker 4: Keep going, she'll probably come back maybe. Yeah. I think

501
00:23:50,680 --> 00:23:53,439
Speaker 4: it's really important. I think it's really important that we

502
00:23:54,200 --> 00:23:57,280
Speaker 4: as women, especially women in our industry, as we talk

503
00:23:57,320 --> 00:23:59,520
Speaker 4: and we talk shit and and sometimes I know, like

504
00:23:59,520 --> 00:24:01,760
Speaker 4: we probably get backlash and niggas are trying to listen

505
00:24:01,800 --> 00:24:03,679
Speaker 4: to every episode so they can calculate what we did

506
00:24:03,760 --> 00:24:12,040
Speaker 4: last weekend, not anybody here or notthing, liar, I tell

507
00:24:12,080 --> 00:24:14,480
Speaker 4: all the things now, I know, I'm just fucking with you.

508
00:24:14,840 --> 00:24:18,440
Speaker 4: I think I think that there is it's really important

509
00:24:18,480 --> 00:24:21,440
Speaker 4: that women start to like stop being pigmies and start

510
00:24:21,480 --> 00:24:24,520
Speaker 4: living in their entire like their entirety, because then men

511
00:24:24,560 --> 00:24:29,040
Speaker 4: can men will can just be asexual and be together

512
00:24:29,119 --> 00:24:31,240
Speaker 4: and leave us the fuck alone if everyone and there's

513
00:24:31,240 --> 00:24:34,159
Speaker 4: not like women who are pretending to be half people

514
00:24:34,320 --> 00:24:36,600
Speaker 4: and pretending that they slept with three guys at thirty

515
00:24:36,600 --> 00:24:39,760
Speaker 4: because they're fucking lying like a motherfucker and like because

516
00:24:39,800 --> 00:24:42,159
Speaker 4: you want a man so badly. But the more that

517
00:24:42,200 --> 00:24:45,480
Speaker 4: we like be human and talk about it, then men

518
00:24:45,480 --> 00:24:49,520
Speaker 4: can stop like loving this fantasy like false sense of

519
00:24:49,560 --> 00:24:51,960
Speaker 4: what they thought we were because nigga, that's just not real.

520
00:24:53,080 --> 00:24:55,679
Speaker 1: Great man, yeah, man, And it's not all men, but

521
00:24:55,720 --> 00:24:59,479
Speaker 1: it's a large a large majority of them.

522
00:25:00,119 --> 00:25:03,359
Speaker 5: Fortunate because like the women women, women co signing what

523
00:25:03,400 --> 00:25:06,080
Speaker 5: they say just perpetuates this whole thing, like there's no

524
00:25:06,160 --> 00:25:09,480
Speaker 5: patriarchy unless women are upholding it, and unfortunately that's that's

525
00:25:09,520 --> 00:25:12,800
Speaker 5: what happens. So it's like women are literally the problem too.

526
00:25:13,560 --> 00:25:15,600
Speaker 1: Let's talk about that for one second. Y'all really think

527
00:25:15,640 --> 00:25:16,560
Speaker 1: we in a patriarchy?

528
00:25:17,320 --> 00:25:22,639
Speaker 3: Bitch? Hell yeah, stop. I'm gonna tell you why I

529
00:25:22,680 --> 00:25:24,440
Speaker 3: say that, right, because I.

530
00:25:24,359 --> 00:25:27,719
Speaker 1: Always say how some being submissive that is definitely an

531
00:25:27,840 --> 00:25:31,520
Speaker 1: ultimate form of manipulation, because your bitch is in the

532
00:25:31,560 --> 00:25:33,239
Speaker 1: bedroom telling you what to do.

533
00:25:33,280 --> 00:25:34,240
Speaker 3: When you go out there.

534
00:25:34,119 --> 00:25:37,680
Speaker 1: Front everybody like it was your decision. There's always women

535
00:25:37,800 --> 00:25:40,600
Speaker 1: behind it scenes, from the mothers to the grandmothers to

536
00:25:40,760 --> 00:25:46,160
Speaker 1: everybody who are actually running things. And and I think

537
00:25:46,200 --> 00:25:50,000
Speaker 1: white women in particular, right they the ship that.

538
00:25:49,960 --> 00:25:50,720
Speaker 3: There men do.

539
00:25:50,880 --> 00:25:53,720
Speaker 1: They benefit off of it one hundred and they are

540
00:25:53,800 --> 00:25:56,840
Speaker 1: raising them right. So I just I just feel like

541
00:25:57,960 --> 00:26:00,480
Speaker 1: the matriarchy and do y'all even think we would be

542
00:26:00,560 --> 00:26:03,840
Speaker 1: okay in a in a society actually just straight meat,

543
00:26:04,480 --> 00:26:05,920
Speaker 1: absolutely crazy, No.

544
00:26:05,960 --> 00:26:10,600
Speaker 4: Absolutely, I think we'd be frolicking picking berries naked, that

545
00:26:10,920 --> 00:26:15,760
Speaker 4: everybody'd have equals everything because we rebirthing each other's babies,

546
00:26:15,840 --> 00:26:17,600
Speaker 4: and we'd go outside to fucking come back in the

547
00:26:17,600 --> 00:26:20,080
Speaker 4: gates and lock the doors because that's where violence and

548
00:26:20,119 --> 00:26:22,439
Speaker 4: conflict happened when the niggas come in. We fuck out there,

549
00:26:22,480 --> 00:26:24,840
Speaker 4: we come back and we'd be great, you know, go back.

550
00:26:24,840 --> 00:26:29,200
Speaker 3: Like the like listen to divine. Feminine is very very dark.

551
00:26:29,400 --> 00:26:32,560
Speaker 4: Oh it can't, it can be but chaos. I think

552
00:26:32,560 --> 00:26:35,080
Speaker 4: it gets darker when we don't have when we don't

553
00:26:35,160 --> 00:26:38,440
Speaker 4: have healthy outlets to be dark. I think it's when

554
00:26:38,440 --> 00:26:40,719
Speaker 4: you don't have a man or like a safe space

555
00:26:40,800 --> 00:26:43,600
Speaker 4: that says, oh, I under I see the entirety of you.

556
00:26:43,680 --> 00:26:46,680
Speaker 4: I see both sides embrace that we're so busy trying

557
00:26:46,720 --> 00:26:50,080
Speaker 4: to be fucking pick mees for a nigga like Cam Newton,

558
00:26:50,280 --> 00:26:52,600
Speaker 4: that we're like suppressing and suppressing and then we get

559
00:26:52,640 --> 00:26:55,399
Speaker 4: caddy with each other like that's my nagger or whatever

560
00:26:55,440 --> 00:26:58,359
Speaker 4: it is, and then like it creates, it creates us imbalance.

561
00:26:58,400 --> 00:27:00,200
Speaker 4: We're not we don't really know what we are because

562
00:27:00,240 --> 00:27:02,840
Speaker 4: we haven't been fully expressed. And so when you when

563
00:27:02,880 --> 00:27:05,920
Speaker 4: you suppress anything, just like a gay nigga who's acting straight,

564
00:27:05,920 --> 00:27:08,400
Speaker 4: you suppress it, he becomes crazy, he becomes violent because

565
00:27:08,400 --> 00:27:10,720
Speaker 4: he's not being himself. I think that is what creates

566
00:27:10,760 --> 00:27:14,000
Speaker 4: these like this deep imbalance. Wait, wait, aj, do you

567
00:27:14,080 --> 00:27:16,520
Speaker 4: think that if we you think do you think that

568
00:27:16,560 --> 00:27:19,880
Speaker 4: women are better like showing up in this way that

569
00:27:19,960 --> 00:27:22,960
Speaker 4: men can know its palatable?

570
00:27:23,080 --> 00:27:24,439
Speaker 3: Don't get it? Don't get it fucked up.

571
00:27:25,040 --> 00:27:27,600
Speaker 1: Women are the gods on a planet and this is

572
00:27:27,600 --> 00:27:28,640
Speaker 1: why these nigga's mad.

573
00:27:28,880 --> 00:27:30,360
Speaker 4: But we got to confuse them to make them thinks

574
00:27:30,359 --> 00:27:31,080
Speaker 4: they're in control.

575
00:27:32,119 --> 00:27:36,120
Speaker 5: I think that means like go ahead, oh sorry, go ahead, no, no, please.

576
00:27:36,520 --> 00:27:38,040
Speaker 3: I want to hear what you want to say. I

577
00:27:38,080 --> 00:27:38,800
Speaker 3: was just gonna say.

578
00:27:38,880 --> 00:27:41,720
Speaker 5: I think that even in a matriarchal society, and even

579
00:27:41,720 --> 00:27:43,920
Speaker 5: in like okay, we'll start with the matriarchal society, I

580
00:27:43,920 --> 00:27:46,160
Speaker 5: think that even in a matriarchal society, a true maker

581
00:27:46,280 --> 00:27:49,600
Speaker 5: matriarchal society understands the balance, like Mila said, of like

582
00:27:49,680 --> 00:27:53,119
Speaker 5: the need for the masculine to be there. It's not

583
00:27:53,200 --> 00:27:57,240
Speaker 5: about necessarily like everything is woman. That's it, right, you

584
00:27:57,240 --> 00:27:59,120
Speaker 5: know what I mean? And I think even the divine

585
00:27:59,119 --> 00:28:01,719
Speaker 5: feminine like to be divine is to be like to

586
00:28:01,720 --> 00:28:03,680
Speaker 5: be one with God. And if you're one with God,

587
00:28:03,760 --> 00:28:05,960
Speaker 5: then you also see the divine and the masculine. And

588
00:28:06,000 --> 00:28:09,480
Speaker 5: I think this whole idea of like divine femininity is

589
00:28:09,960 --> 00:28:15,520
Speaker 5: great as beautiful and I reflect it and I receive it.

590
00:28:15,560 --> 00:28:18,240
Speaker 5: But I also think my journey in understanding the divinity

591
00:28:18,280 --> 00:28:21,360
Speaker 5: of the femininity is also seeing the divinity in men,

592
00:28:21,400 --> 00:28:24,719
Speaker 5: and I think it's been like there's like always this

593
00:28:24,880 --> 00:28:28,880
Speaker 5: like agenda to separate us because there are a lot

594
00:28:28,880 --> 00:28:32,159
Speaker 5: of men that are not in their divinity, of course,

595
00:28:32,520 --> 00:28:34,120
Speaker 5: but then there are a lot that there are some

596
00:28:34,200 --> 00:28:36,240
Speaker 5: that are, you know, there are some that are willing

597
00:28:36,560 --> 00:28:39,800
Speaker 5: and open and want to listen to their women. And ultimately,

598
00:28:40,120 --> 00:28:43,760
Speaker 5: what makes a woman, what makes I think the divine

599
00:28:43,840 --> 00:28:46,480
Speaker 5: be able to be divine as far as it goes

600
00:28:46,520 --> 00:28:51,600
Speaker 5: with femininity, is being able to really rest in your femininity,

601
00:28:51,640 --> 00:28:55,800
Speaker 5: which requires the masculine to be present. And so I

602
00:28:55,840 --> 00:28:57,640
Speaker 5: don't think that like it's one or the other. I

603
00:28:57,640 --> 00:28:59,680
Speaker 5: think that there has to be both, you know. And

604
00:28:59,800 --> 00:29:02,200
Speaker 5: like I do think that we are in a patriarchal society.

605
00:29:02,200 --> 00:29:05,440
Speaker 5: We're seeing it, especially here in America. We're seeing how

606
00:29:05,640 --> 00:29:09,080
Speaker 5: how when it goes so far, how fucked up it

607
00:29:09,120 --> 00:29:13,880
Speaker 5: can get. Like our country is on fire, not quite yet,

608
00:29:13,960 --> 00:29:15,920
Speaker 5: not like literally yet, but it's like I feel like

609
00:29:15,960 --> 00:29:19,000
Speaker 5: we're heading towards that, unfortunately, and it's because there's a

610
00:29:19,000 --> 00:29:23,320
Speaker 5: lot of imbalance and a lot of white men making

611
00:29:23,360 --> 00:29:26,400
Speaker 5: a lot of decisions for women, and women are not

612
00:29:26,440 --> 00:29:30,240
Speaker 5: being heard and men and even black men. I was

613
00:29:30,280 --> 00:29:33,040
Speaker 5: just listening to fucking what's his name, Stephen that nigga

614
00:29:33,080 --> 00:29:37,120
Speaker 5: on ESPN. Oh my god, someone take him off the

615
00:29:37,160 --> 00:29:41,920
Speaker 5: air lord, please God fire his ass. Already they were

616
00:29:41,920 --> 00:29:44,320
Speaker 5: talking about him running for a politics.

617
00:29:44,320 --> 00:29:46,960
Speaker 4: I was like, oh, oh, yes.

618
00:29:46,760 --> 00:29:49,480
Speaker 5: He's thinking about running getting into politics, and I'm like,

619
00:29:50,400 --> 00:29:51,760
Speaker 5: as haircut, get out of here.

620
00:29:54,200 --> 00:29:57,320
Speaker 2: Just like the fact that we have text on items

621
00:29:57,320 --> 00:30:00,240
Speaker 2: for women, it's proof that we live in a patriarchal.

622
00:30:00,160 --> 00:30:01,280
Speaker 4: What what kind of tax?

623
00:30:01,760 --> 00:30:06,640
Speaker 2: Pink tax? Like pink so things that are pink of

624
00:30:06,840 --> 00:30:09,880
Speaker 2: a female's bike is more than a male's bike, a

625
00:30:09,920 --> 00:30:10,680
Speaker 2: pink bike.

626
00:30:11,200 --> 00:30:13,240
Speaker 4: Like we're making less money we're women.

627
00:30:14,160 --> 00:30:17,680
Speaker 2: It'll be the same razor, same package. If it's pink,

628
00:30:17,960 --> 00:30:19,920
Speaker 2: it costs a few cents more. We did a whole

629
00:30:19,920 --> 00:30:23,280
Speaker 2: episode all night on that, like things that are for

630
00:30:23,400 --> 00:30:26,480
Speaker 2: women are more expensive. Yes, that's why it.

631
00:30:26,480 --> 00:30:29,440
Speaker 3: Should be inflation on this plicity if you want it.

632
00:30:29,240 --> 00:30:31,360
Speaker 4: It got to be inflation on the pussy baby.

633
00:30:31,200 --> 00:30:33,040
Speaker 3: A lot to be a woman.

634
00:30:33,120 --> 00:30:35,000
Speaker 1: It just costs a lot, So y'all got to pay

635
00:30:35,640 --> 00:30:38,560
Speaker 1: the I see, what are the usage tax?

636
00:30:39,080 --> 00:30:41,280
Speaker 4: I think for us to become like back in balance,

637
00:30:41,400 --> 00:30:43,520
Speaker 4: like deeply in balance, Like there has to be like

638
00:30:43,560 --> 00:30:46,720
Speaker 4: a deep, like we have to come all the way

639
00:30:46,760 --> 00:30:48,840
Speaker 4: back and also wake the fuck up. Like I feel

640
00:30:48,840 --> 00:30:52,160
Speaker 4: like women are resurrecting right now, like there's a resurrection

641
00:30:52,240 --> 00:30:54,640
Speaker 4: of like the wild and free woman, So we're waking up.

642
00:30:55,040 --> 00:30:58,320
Speaker 4: But I think that because men have had this power trip,

643
00:30:58,400 --> 00:31:02,440
Speaker 4: this like toxic, this top masculinity for so long, it's violent,

644
00:31:02,600 --> 00:31:04,720
Speaker 4: Like I think we have to completely in some ways

645
00:31:04,760 --> 00:31:08,280
Speaker 4: pull back because it's like we see it. It's violent,

646
00:31:08,320 --> 00:31:10,120
Speaker 4: like they don't give a fuck about us because they've

647
00:31:10,120 --> 00:31:12,480
Speaker 4: lived in this this facade for so long. So I

648
00:31:12,560 --> 00:31:15,440
Speaker 4: just think, like for in order to find balance again.

649
00:31:15,480 --> 00:31:17,920
Speaker 4: Because of course there are good divine masculine men, of

650
00:31:17,920 --> 00:31:20,000
Speaker 4: course they exist, or else we'd all be single bitches,

651
00:31:21,200 --> 00:31:23,440
Speaker 4: but you know, we have uncles and fathers and things

652
00:31:23,440 --> 00:31:25,160
Speaker 4: like that. But it's like there has to be like

653
00:31:25,200 --> 00:31:27,520
Speaker 4: we have to starve these new niggas that with this

654
00:31:27,800 --> 00:31:31,160
Speaker 4: brain set like no pussy, no food, like just go away,

655
00:31:31,720 --> 00:31:34,520
Speaker 4: die off and don't procreate. Definitely don't put your seamen

656
00:31:34,560 --> 00:31:36,520
Speaker 4: in anybody with those fucking stupid thoughts.

657
00:31:37,080 --> 00:31:39,920
Speaker 1: So yeah, but the bitches will never ever be on

658
00:31:39,960 --> 00:31:42,880
Speaker 1: the same page because there's always going to be somebody's couch.

659
00:31:42,960 --> 00:31:46,120
Speaker 1: This nigga can go to right. So I don't know

660
00:31:46,120 --> 00:31:48,040
Speaker 1: what do we do about the women? Because it starts

661
00:31:48,040 --> 00:31:48,960
Speaker 1: and ends with us.

662
00:31:48,920 --> 00:31:49,840
Speaker 4: You go with them too.

663
00:31:51,600 --> 00:31:53,360
Speaker 5: There might be a few, There might be some women.

664
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Speaker 5: Some women gotta die off too. They got some women

665
00:31:55,560 --> 00:31:56,920
Speaker 5: gotta go.

666
00:31:59,120 --> 00:32:02,760
Speaker 3: Choose the wrong one before we get off stupid internet news.

667
00:32:02,800 --> 00:32:05,200
Speaker 1: Because we've been here for a long time. Have y'all

668
00:32:05,240 --> 00:32:11,560
Speaker 1: seen the headlines about us? Swee eat Ye, Sweety, former friends, Sweedy,

669
00:32:12,080 --> 00:32:14,480
Speaker 1: her former friend Mayback.

670
00:32:14,760 --> 00:32:17,520
Speaker 3: May. I don't know if may is sure for madam,

671
00:32:17,840 --> 00:32:20,000
Speaker 3: but she's.

672
00:32:19,760 --> 00:32:22,520
Speaker 1: Basically saying that Sweety owes her some money cause she

673
00:32:22,560 --> 00:32:24,640
Speaker 1: put her down does European soccer player?

674
00:32:24,800 --> 00:32:29,720
Speaker 3: And like how I owe you for broken in Mikucci?

675
00:32:30,440 --> 00:32:33,360
Speaker 5: Basically, So she's all I know is I love Sweety.

676
00:32:33,520 --> 00:32:34,280
Speaker 5: I want to be clear.

677
00:32:34,760 --> 00:32:35,560
Speaker 3: I love her too.

678
00:32:36,200 --> 00:32:37,120
Speaker 2: I'm a fan too.

679
00:32:38,000 --> 00:32:40,959
Speaker 5: Okay, and may Back, whatever the fuck your name is,

680
00:32:41,240 --> 00:32:43,200
Speaker 5: you should have got you should have collected your coins

681
00:32:43,240 --> 00:32:45,240
Speaker 5: ahead of time, honey. I don't know what to tell you.

682
00:32:45,240 --> 00:32:46,760
Speaker 5: You're doing bad business, bitch.

683
00:32:47,280 --> 00:32:49,800
Speaker 4: Bitch is because they put you with the baller. They

684
00:32:49,960 --> 00:32:52,000
Speaker 4: are owed. No, bitch, we was hanging out and I

685
00:32:52,040 --> 00:32:54,040
Speaker 4: got the baller, and you better shut the fuck up.

686
00:32:54,080 --> 00:32:56,480
Speaker 5: That's it unless we had unless.

687
00:32:56,200 --> 00:32:57,800
Speaker 4: We had a contract, and if we don't have an agreement,

688
00:32:57,840 --> 00:32:58,520
Speaker 4: shut the fuck up.

689
00:32:58,640 --> 00:33:01,520
Speaker 5: Now get your coins before come on, are you are

690
00:33:01,560 --> 00:33:02,400
Speaker 5: you a madam or not?

691
00:33:03,800 --> 00:33:07,760
Speaker 4: Beyonce's Internet bashing me like uh uh? And honestly, how.

692
00:33:07,600 --> 00:33:09,640
Speaker 1: Does this even become a headline? Because how much I

693
00:33:09,720 --> 00:33:12,240
Speaker 1: owe you? How much I'll right for my ship?

694
00:33:13,240 --> 00:33:13,640
Speaker 3: Exact?

695
00:33:13,720 --> 00:33:14,680
Speaker 4: Like how did? How do we?

696
00:33:14,840 --> 00:33:16,720
Speaker 5: How are we? Like? Yeah, how are we coming to

697
00:33:16,760 --> 00:33:20,160
Speaker 5: a final? Like cost of goods and services?

698
00:33:20,240 --> 00:33:23,040
Speaker 2: Like well, she's supposed to be coming out with receipts, so.

699
00:33:24,000 --> 00:33:25,840
Speaker 5: Girl, come out with them. I still love sweetie.

700
00:33:26,040 --> 00:33:32,560
Speaker 4: She got invoices on Sweety Couci like, well five Sweety

701
00:33:33,120 --> 00:33:36,240
Speaker 4: fucked this baller in Africa at seventen.

702
00:33:37,040 --> 00:33:39,480
Speaker 5: I'm doing rid shit, pretty bit shit.

703
00:33:41,760 --> 00:33:44,320
Speaker 4: Like girl, leave that girl on her kouchie alone. Everybody

704
00:33:44,400 --> 00:33:46,440
Speaker 4: sold some pussy one way or another, okay, and they

705
00:33:46,440 --> 00:33:47,160
Speaker 4: didn't knowwe you shit?

706
00:33:50,280 --> 00:33:52,600
Speaker 2: All right, y'all, we got we got a topic today,

707
00:33:52,640 --> 00:33:56,920
Speaker 2: the judgment Olympics from moms and single ladies. After this commercial,

708
00:33:56,960 --> 00:33:58,600
Speaker 2: we're going to get into it. We'll be right back,

709
00:34:02,640 --> 00:34:06,560
Speaker 2: all right, y'all. We're back, and it's the Judgment Olympics.

710
00:34:06,600 --> 00:34:09,520
Speaker 2: I don't know why I always laugh at that, what

711
00:34:09,760 --> 00:34:11,640
Speaker 2: because we don't really go no fucking wear.

712
00:34:11,719 --> 00:34:13,880
Speaker 5: Right, I'm like, do I need to do that?

713
00:34:14,239 --> 00:34:16,200
Speaker 4: Yeah? I was taking that yesterday. We didn't do that.

714
00:34:17,960 --> 00:34:21,480
Speaker 5: Because the way they be interrupting our conversation with ads abruptly,

715
00:34:21,600 --> 00:34:24,719
Speaker 5: I'm like, Okay, maybe we really need to be more

716
00:34:24,719 --> 00:34:25,720
Speaker 5: more diligent here.

717
00:34:26,080 --> 00:34:28,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, you added in there that way they don't break

718
00:34:28,520 --> 00:34:31,120
Speaker 2: your shit up because they will break it up they listen.

719
00:34:31,160 --> 00:34:33,359
Speaker 2: You might add it in there and your shit still

720
00:34:33,360 --> 00:34:34,080
Speaker 2: get broken up.

721
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Speaker 4: I know, girl, I know.

722
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Speaker 2: All right, So AJ you came up with this? What's

723
00:34:40,800 --> 00:34:41,440
Speaker 2: up with the judgment?

724
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Speaker 1: All right? So today we're competing in the Judgment Olympics

725
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Speaker 1: twenty twenty five edition, because whether you're a single woman

726
00:34:48,520 --> 00:34:51,879
Speaker 1: or a mom with kids, society loves to hand out

727
00:34:51,960 --> 00:34:57,719
Speaker 1: unsolicited medals and criticism. Okay, So today's contestants, the co

728
00:34:57,840 --> 00:35:00,279
Speaker 1: hosts of Good Mom's Bad Choice.

729
00:35:00,160 --> 00:35:06,080
Speaker 3: Is and us we talk about podcasts. I'm gonna start

730
00:35:06,239 --> 00:35:09,120
Speaker 3: using like the things on this app.

731
00:35:08,880 --> 00:35:12,319
Speaker 2: Anyway, but we can add it in later in no words.

732
00:35:12,239 --> 00:35:15,799
Speaker 1: Right, So for the warm up, let's talk about like

733
00:35:15,880 --> 00:35:20,759
Speaker 1: some of the common stereotypes as a single moms that

734
00:35:20,800 --> 00:35:24,040
Speaker 1: you guys, hear a lot we're moms that are single

735
00:35:24,120 --> 00:35:27,600
Speaker 1: or y'all are in relationships now and right, but moms

736
00:35:27,640 --> 00:35:28,759
Speaker 1: that are single that.

737
00:35:28,760 --> 00:35:34,719
Speaker 4: We have baggage and we're like unwanted ran through we're

738
00:35:34,719 --> 00:35:37,160
Speaker 4: still sucking our baby daddies and we were not to

739
00:35:37,200 --> 00:35:39,520
Speaker 4: be married. No one wants, No one wants to father

740
00:35:39,680 --> 00:35:40,680
Speaker 4: somebody else's kids.

741
00:35:43,120 --> 00:35:51,680
Speaker 5: We're unavailable. We're unavailable. We're not sexy, even though we

742
00:35:51,719 --> 00:35:54,240
Speaker 5: had to be that we should that we shouldn't be dating,

743
00:35:54,280 --> 00:35:56,239
Speaker 5: and that we shouldn't be sexy, that we should wear

744
00:35:56,320 --> 00:35:58,000
Speaker 5: like certain conservative clothes.

745
00:35:58,680 --> 00:36:04,799
Speaker 2: Oh you're a mom now, yeah, why are you?

746
00:36:04,800 --> 00:36:05,000
Speaker 6: Wow?

747
00:36:05,320 --> 00:36:07,759
Speaker 4: Where's your kid? That's when you at the party at

748
00:36:07,880 --> 00:36:09,640
Speaker 4: midnight and the he's like, where's where sew? And so

749
00:36:09,840 --> 00:36:11,960
Speaker 4: nigga in the bed? Where do you think she's at

750
00:36:13,440 --> 00:36:17,640
Speaker 4: with her with her daddy? Like what right? Daddy?

751
00:36:17,680 --> 00:36:19,399
Speaker 1: Don't ever have to have the damn kids? Do they

752
00:36:19,400 --> 00:36:21,720
Speaker 1: even get do they even get asked that question?

753
00:36:22,120 --> 00:36:24,680
Speaker 4: Not where's the kids?

754
00:36:25,080 --> 00:36:28,440
Speaker 2: I hate when niggas be like, I got a babysit, nigga,

755
00:36:28,480 --> 00:36:31,440
Speaker 2: that's your kid. You not babysitting that child. You're not baby,

756
00:36:31,480 --> 00:36:34,840
Speaker 2: that's your child. You don't babysit your own kid. You

757
00:36:34,960 --> 00:36:38,000
Speaker 2: are being a parent, So that's annoying.

758
00:36:38,120 --> 00:36:38,440
Speaker 7: All right?

759
00:36:38,440 --> 00:36:43,319
Speaker 2: What about all right? Aj me and you child free selfish?

760
00:36:43,360 --> 00:36:46,520
Speaker 2: Your clock is ticking, your clock ticking.

761
00:36:48,480 --> 00:36:49,920
Speaker 3: Oh no, this is the one I hate. And this

762
00:36:50,000 --> 00:36:52,440
Speaker 3: is from like the friends who have kids and family.

763
00:36:52,200 --> 00:36:53,480
Speaker 5: Who have kids.

764
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Speaker 1: Just because I don't have kids, that does not mean

765
00:36:55,520 --> 00:36:58,840
Speaker 1: I don't got shit to do. So I'm not sitting

766
00:36:58,840 --> 00:37:00,799
Speaker 1: home twittering my thumb with and for your ass to

767
00:37:00,840 --> 00:37:02,480
Speaker 1: hit me up to do something for you and your

768
00:37:02,520 --> 00:37:05,080
Speaker 1: fucking kids. And that's the one thing I really can't

769
00:37:05,080 --> 00:37:07,319
Speaker 1: stand because I'm just as busy even though I don't

770
00:37:07,320 --> 00:37:07,960
Speaker 1: have kids.

771
00:37:08,480 --> 00:37:09,840
Speaker 2: Are you gonna die along.

772
00:37:11,120 --> 00:37:12,160
Speaker 3: And wait and give a fuck?

773
00:37:12,640 --> 00:37:15,160
Speaker 2: Oh you ain't got a kid yet, your pussy must

774
00:37:15,160 --> 00:37:15,719
Speaker 2: not be good.

775
00:37:16,840 --> 00:37:18,879
Speaker 3: I've had an abortion. This pussy is good.

776
00:37:21,040 --> 00:37:23,120
Speaker 1: If you ain't never had an abortion, that pussy is

777
00:37:23,320 --> 00:37:25,680
Speaker 1: why shut up?

778
00:37:31,960 --> 00:37:38,640
Speaker 5: Unpopular opinion trigger warning, sexy warning. I don't know I.

779
00:37:38,680 --> 00:37:39,880
Speaker 2: Work another one. You're lonely.

780
00:37:41,920 --> 00:37:44,360
Speaker 1: People with no kids just got all this extra money,

781
00:37:44,920 --> 00:37:47,640
Speaker 1: Like my nieces and nephews hit me up so much

782
00:37:47,840 --> 00:37:50,719
Speaker 1: for money, like it's just me paying all my bills, like,

783
00:37:51,239 --> 00:37:54,240
Speaker 1: your parents are together, I don't have extra money.

784
00:37:54,719 --> 00:37:56,360
Speaker 2: It's not income house.

785
00:37:57,000 --> 00:37:58,839
Speaker 4: Or you're crazy. Oh she never, she ain't been married,

786
00:37:58,840 --> 00:38:00,840
Speaker 4: she got no kids. She probably crazy.

787
00:38:01,280 --> 00:38:04,959
Speaker 2: What's wrong with you? What's wrong with you? I don't

788
00:38:05,000 --> 00:38:08,279
Speaker 2: like people say why don't you have any kids? That's

789
00:38:08,360 --> 00:38:09,440
Speaker 2: such a rude question.

790
00:38:11,760 --> 00:38:14,640
Speaker 1: My ex fiance he had two kids at the time.

791
00:38:14,880 --> 00:38:17,560
Speaker 1: I've heard that he has since had two other I

792
00:38:17,600 --> 00:38:19,200
Speaker 1: don't even tell you about that shit, tam, because how

793
00:38:19,200 --> 00:38:22,040
Speaker 1: the fuck my mama know that? And I don't anyway,

794
00:38:22,280 --> 00:38:25,880
Speaker 1: my mom still talks to my ex fiance and she

795
00:38:25,960 --> 00:38:30,080
Speaker 1: doesn't see a problem with that. Do you realize, like

796
00:38:30,120 --> 00:38:32,719
Speaker 1: he probably thinks he was right in a relationship because

797
00:38:32,719 --> 00:38:35,800
Speaker 1: he still has access to you.

798
00:38:35,800 --> 00:38:36,759
Speaker 3: You're an extension of me.

799
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Speaker 1: But anyway, I would always like, I don't have to

800
00:38:39,800 --> 00:38:41,400
Speaker 1: be a mom to be a parents. I think a

801
00:38:41,400 --> 00:38:45,280
Speaker 1: lot of times people think that women with no kids

802
00:38:45,680 --> 00:38:51,239
Speaker 1: can't parent. Okay, I'm a mother at heart, so I

803
00:38:51,280 --> 00:38:52,880
Speaker 1: don't have to have kids to be a parent. So

804
00:38:52,920 --> 00:38:56,879
Speaker 1: this was being like an ongoing argument and that relationship

805
00:38:56,880 --> 00:39:00,399
Speaker 1: because just because you have kids that do not.

806
00:39:00,360 --> 00:39:05,279
Speaker 3: Automatically mean you're a good parent. That sometimes the longer.

807
00:39:05,000 --> 00:39:08,000
Speaker 1: You wait to have kids, you see things like I

808
00:39:08,080 --> 00:39:11,480
Speaker 1: might have a little bit extra information gathered from everywhere

809
00:39:11,640 --> 00:39:15,400
Speaker 1: watching everybody else parents. You know, I know what I

810
00:39:15,400 --> 00:39:17,279
Speaker 1: want to do as a parent and what I wouldn't do.

811
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Speaker 3: I don't know. I think the longer you wait, you

812
00:39:19,600 --> 00:39:20,600
Speaker 3: get more information.

813
00:39:21,920 --> 00:39:24,399
Speaker 2: But it ain't nothing like the real deal though, No.

814
00:39:24,320 --> 00:39:27,439
Speaker 1: Absolutely listen, I'm not trying to discredit parents at all.

815
00:39:27,800 --> 00:39:30,640
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, do you get offended when you said?

816
00:39:30,640 --> 00:39:32,480
Speaker 1: Do you get offended when people say why don't you

817
00:39:32,600 --> 00:39:34,600
Speaker 1: have any kids? You get offended when they ask you

818
00:39:34,640 --> 00:39:35,840
Speaker 1: when are you having kids?

819
00:39:36,320 --> 00:39:37,080
Speaker 5: Is that the same thing?

820
00:39:38,280 --> 00:39:38,520
Speaker 4: Yeah?

821
00:39:38,560 --> 00:39:42,080
Speaker 2: Both of those. It's like, bitch, if I knew, I get,

822
00:39:42,160 --> 00:39:44,520
Speaker 2: I tell you right, I don't know when I'm having kids.

823
00:39:44,560 --> 00:39:46,240
Speaker 2: How the fuck am I going to answer that question

824
00:39:46,320 --> 00:39:47,839
Speaker 2: for you tomorrow? I don't know?

825
00:39:48,080 --> 00:39:50,960
Speaker 5: Or do you want kids? Is that also? Like like

826
00:39:51,200 --> 00:39:52,280
Speaker 5: you get offended with someone.

827
00:39:53,520 --> 00:39:56,279
Speaker 2: Do you want kids? You know? That's not offensive, It's

828
00:39:56,320 --> 00:40:00,160
Speaker 2: just why don't you have kids? Because I could say

829
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Speaker 2: some shit that will make us both uncomfortable. I do it,

830
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Speaker 2: and sometimes I double pregnancies.

831
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Speaker 3: I go ahead and make everybody uncomfortable.

832
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Speaker 1: If God will, and I have one I've had two

833
00:40:09,560 --> 00:40:12,280
Speaker 1: tuber pregnancies and they like, oh, yeah, because you should

834
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Speaker 1: not be asking women I believe.

835
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Speaker 3: Over thirty why they don't have kids.

836
00:40:15,760 --> 00:40:17,200
Speaker 4: Wait, is that true? Or you just do that to

837
00:40:17,239 --> 00:40:18,160
Speaker 4: make them feel un comforted.

838
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Speaker 3: That's true, it's true.

839
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Speaker 1: Yeah, So you should not ask women of a certain

840
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Speaker 1: age why they don't have kids. If they want kids,

841
00:40:26,400 --> 00:40:29,200
Speaker 1: just mine your business, That's how I feel.

842
00:40:30,719 --> 00:40:33,600
Speaker 4: I agree, wrong, I agree, I agree?

843
00:40:34,200 --> 00:40:37,480
Speaker 2: All right, So let's talk about why people just so

844
00:40:37,680 --> 00:40:41,279
Speaker 2: hard though? All right, Oh, we just talked about the

845
00:40:41,280 --> 00:40:45,640
Speaker 2: patriarchal expectations of motherhood. Do y'all feel like y'all need

846
00:40:45,680 --> 00:40:47,759
Speaker 2: to fit into the mold? Well? No, y'all know, y'all

847
00:40:47,760 --> 00:40:48,399
Speaker 2: don't feel like girl.

848
00:40:48,400 --> 00:40:49,720
Speaker 5: We back good minds about choices.

849
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Speaker 4: Our entire podcast is about it.

850
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Speaker 5: I think we did it. We've done everything except do

851
00:40:55,080 --> 00:41:02,520
Speaker 5: that hard, move ian very hard, swung hard.

852
00:41:02,400 --> 00:41:03,200
Speaker 4: To the other side.

853
00:41:03,680 --> 00:41:07,759
Speaker 2: Okay, but when you were like new mothers, did you

854
00:41:07,840 --> 00:41:11,759
Speaker 2: have like did people's judgments affect your confidence and you're

855
00:41:11,920 --> 00:41:13,279
Speaker 2: dating your friendships?

856
00:41:13,360 --> 00:41:13,520
Speaker 4: Like?

857
00:41:13,960 --> 00:41:16,440
Speaker 2: Were you affected by that as very young mothers?

858
00:41:17,560 --> 00:41:19,840
Speaker 4: I think I noticed when people were being judgmental, like,

859
00:41:19,960 --> 00:41:22,360
Speaker 4: especially when I broke up with my child's father, and

860
00:41:22,400 --> 00:41:24,200
Speaker 4: I was going out and I was outside, I could

861
00:41:24,239 --> 00:41:26,399
Speaker 4: see even some of my friends who hadn't had kids

862
00:41:26,440 --> 00:41:28,080
Speaker 4: yet were like, oh, you're out, You're out a lot,

863
00:41:28,160 --> 00:41:31,640
Speaker 4: or whatever their comments were. But I've always been pretty

864
00:41:31,719 --> 00:41:35,040
Speaker 4: like clear about the balance in like having a life,

865
00:41:35,239 --> 00:41:37,160
Speaker 4: like mama got to have a life too, because my

866
00:41:37,239 --> 00:41:40,239
Speaker 4: parents were kind of like that. But I think people

867
00:41:40,320 --> 00:41:43,200
Speaker 4: are very judgmental about that, especially women against women is

868
00:41:43,200 --> 00:41:46,200
Speaker 4: because they are when you see someone that is exuding

869
00:41:46,280 --> 00:41:48,280
Speaker 4: and existing in a way that you think that you can't,

870
00:41:48,480 --> 00:41:51,279
Speaker 4: you're gonna project and you're gonna feel away about it

871
00:41:51,280 --> 00:41:54,240
Speaker 4: because bitch, you're over there knitting sweaters and baking cakes

872
00:41:54,239 --> 00:41:56,799
Speaker 4: so and you wish you were getting your black back

873
00:41:56,880 --> 00:41:59,759
Speaker 4: blown out, and you know daddy was doing something, but

874
00:41:59,800 --> 00:42:02,480
Speaker 4: he's watching fucking football and ignoring the fuck out of

875
00:42:02,480 --> 00:42:04,680
Speaker 4: you and that kid, Yeah, you're gonna feel a way.

876
00:42:04,840 --> 00:42:06,440
Speaker 4: One time I went I went to a party of

877
00:42:06,480 --> 00:42:08,000
Speaker 4: this guy. I was like a small dinner party. I

878
00:42:08,040 --> 00:42:10,040
Speaker 4: was like some white people and they were like, I

879
00:42:10,080 --> 00:42:11,400
Speaker 4: was talking about my daughter and I was like no,

880
00:42:12,000 --> 00:42:14,120
Speaker 4: me and her dad broke up, like oh my god,

881
00:42:14,960 --> 00:42:17,680
Speaker 4: oh god, I'm so sorry, Like, oh god, that seems

882
00:42:17,760 --> 00:42:21,200
Speaker 4: so hard. That's like so hard. I was like, no,

883
00:42:21,440 --> 00:42:25,759
Speaker 4: actually not, that's not nothing to be sorry about. I'm

884
00:42:25,800 --> 00:42:29,480
Speaker 4: doing great. Actually, God's plan for my life, right, I

885
00:42:29,520 --> 00:42:30,920
Speaker 4: get the best of both worlds.

886
00:42:31,000 --> 00:42:36,439
Speaker 6: So yeah, yeah, I mean yeah, I mean I think

887
00:42:36,520 --> 00:42:41,080
Speaker 6: me and Mila have had different journeys as early as

888
00:42:41,160 --> 00:42:46,120
Speaker 6: moms early on, because I definitely felt myself when I

889
00:42:46,120 --> 00:42:50,759
Speaker 6: got pregnant starting to kind of fall into society's expectations

890
00:42:50,800 --> 00:42:52,520
Speaker 6: around what motherhood was supposed to look like.

891
00:42:52,560 --> 00:42:55,680
Speaker 5: And that wasn't just from society, that was also my family.

892
00:42:56,400 --> 00:43:00,120
Speaker 5: And so prior to having my daughter, I was like,

893
00:43:00,760 --> 00:43:02,280
Speaker 5: just I'm a free spirit.

894
00:43:02,760 --> 00:43:03,880
Speaker 4: I smoke a lot of weed.

895
00:43:04,640 --> 00:43:08,200
Speaker 5: I moved how I wanted to move. I was probably

896
00:43:08,200 --> 00:43:11,720
Speaker 5: financially irresponsible because I didn't have anything to worry about

897
00:43:11,719 --> 00:43:16,000
Speaker 5: except myself. And when I became a parent, like it

898
00:43:16,080 --> 00:43:17,880
Speaker 5: was like, oh, y erca, you know, you can't do

899
00:43:17,920 --> 00:43:19,120
Speaker 5: that no more. You can't do that no more, you

900
00:43:19,120 --> 00:43:21,680
Speaker 5: can't do that any more. And I almost fell into

901
00:43:21,680 --> 00:43:24,480
Speaker 5: that trap. And I think that's one of the things

902
00:43:24,480 --> 00:43:27,160
Speaker 5: that me and Mila share a lot on our on

903
00:43:27,200 --> 00:43:29,160
Speaker 5: our show, is like that was the beginning of good

904
00:43:29,160 --> 00:43:32,600
Speaker 5: mom's bad choices. Was me meeting Mela and her mirroring

905
00:43:32,680 --> 00:43:36,480
Speaker 5: the things that I wasn't allowing myself to experience and

906
00:43:37,520 --> 00:43:40,560
Speaker 5: realizing that like I was heading on down a path

907
00:43:40,800 --> 00:43:46,560
Speaker 5: of imprisonment. And it's and it's interesting because like the

908
00:43:46,600 --> 00:43:49,400
Speaker 5: person that I was with my child's father, he's not

909
00:43:49,440 --> 00:43:52,840
Speaker 5: like a traditional man, like he's outside, you know, Like

910
00:43:52,920 --> 00:43:55,359
Speaker 5: I wasn't like about to wrap up my life with

911
00:43:55,440 --> 00:43:59,200
Speaker 5: like a like a god fearing in the house nigga,

912
00:43:59,640 --> 00:44:04,719
Speaker 5: like like he spent like half my pregnancy at the

913
00:44:04,719 --> 00:44:07,239
Speaker 5: strip club, you know what I'm saying. So that even

914
00:44:07,280 --> 00:44:09,080
Speaker 5: tells you even more. And he wasn't even that was

915
00:44:09,120 --> 00:44:12,120
Speaker 5: not his expectation of me either, you know. So it

916
00:44:12,239 --> 00:44:16,400
Speaker 5: was really like the programming, really it's so deeply ingrained

917
00:44:16,400 --> 00:44:19,480
Speaker 5: in women from such a young age with us like

918
00:44:19,760 --> 00:44:24,000
Speaker 5: caring for babies and playing house and you know, like

919
00:44:24,320 --> 00:44:29,760
Speaker 5: these roles really being shoved down our throats and society

920
00:44:29,760 --> 00:44:33,200
Speaker 5: doesn't help. And so I you know, I'm grateful for

921
00:44:33,239 --> 00:44:36,640
Speaker 5: my friendship with Jamila because it reawakened what was already

922
00:44:36,640 --> 00:44:38,560
Speaker 5: inside of me, like what I had already been. I

923
00:44:38,640 --> 00:44:40,680
Speaker 5: was already that girl. It was just that when I

924
00:44:40,719 --> 00:44:42,600
Speaker 5: became when I went into motherhood. I felt like I

925
00:44:42,600 --> 00:44:45,520
Speaker 5: had to. That girl had to die. And granted, when

926
00:44:45,560 --> 00:44:47,759
Speaker 5: your mom like you do, you rebirth into something else,

927
00:44:47,880 --> 00:44:50,120
Speaker 5: but like the old parts of you are still there

928
00:44:50,160 --> 00:44:53,080
Speaker 5: and in fact, like they deserve to be watered and

929
00:44:53,200 --> 00:44:55,680
Speaker 5: your child deserves to see you show up as a

930
00:44:55,680 --> 00:44:58,560
Speaker 5: whole human and like understand who their parent is because

931
00:44:58,600 --> 00:45:01,360
Speaker 5: and ultimately that bitch go par out or she's just

932
00:45:01,400 --> 00:45:03,600
Speaker 5: gonna literally die and be depressed. And I think we

933
00:45:03,640 --> 00:45:06,920
Speaker 5: see a lot of maybe our parents, we see like

934
00:45:07,160 --> 00:45:10,400
Speaker 5: what that does to them. We see like these shells

935
00:45:10,440 --> 00:45:13,960
Speaker 5: of these women and like we have like, oh, your

936
00:45:14,040 --> 00:45:16,279
Speaker 5: mom used to be that girl. I'm like, what the

937
00:45:16,280 --> 00:45:18,920
Speaker 5: fuck happened? I don't know that girl, you know. And

938
00:45:18,960 --> 00:45:20,880
Speaker 5: it's like it almost feels like a fable, like a

939
00:45:21,680 --> 00:45:24,040
Speaker 5: story time where it's like is that real? Like my

940
00:45:24,120 --> 00:45:27,120
Speaker 5: mom was that? And unfortunately, I think a lot of

941
00:45:27,120 --> 00:45:28,840
Speaker 5: women fall into that trap when they don't have to.

942
00:45:28,920 --> 00:45:30,440
Speaker 5: So if you're listening to this and you're a mom,

943
00:45:30,520 --> 00:45:32,760
Speaker 5: you're falling into that trap. Just come over to Good Moms.

944
00:45:33,120 --> 00:45:36,239
Speaker 5: Let's start at episode one, take the journey with us.

945
00:45:36,280 --> 00:45:38,840
Speaker 5: Because when I started episode one, like I was just

946
00:45:39,000 --> 00:45:41,960
Speaker 5: kind of like coming out of it. And I think

947
00:45:41,960 --> 00:45:46,080
Speaker 5: it's really important for mothers to really evaluate themselves and

948
00:45:46,080 --> 00:45:48,359
Speaker 5: give themselves the time and space to really evaluate who

949
00:45:48,360 --> 00:45:51,399
Speaker 5: they are now and how they and what parts of

950
00:45:51,760 --> 00:45:54,759
Speaker 5: the former. And I say that with air quotes of

951
00:45:54,800 --> 00:45:57,359
Speaker 5: you that you want to bring into this space, because

952
00:45:57,400 --> 00:46:01,640
Speaker 5: it's important to not just let that person go, right, because.

953
00:46:01,360 --> 00:46:04,960
Speaker 3: That's what Asha Curry is essentially experiencing.

954
00:46:05,120 --> 00:46:05,319
Speaker 4: Right.

955
00:46:05,800 --> 00:46:08,120
Speaker 3: She has fomo a little bit.

956
00:46:09,880 --> 00:46:12,000
Speaker 1: You know, she might have felt like she missed out

957
00:46:12,000 --> 00:46:14,760
Speaker 1: on some things, or I mean, she has the means

958
00:46:14,840 --> 00:46:17,160
Speaker 1: and the resources to do whatever it is that she wants,

959
00:46:17,160 --> 00:46:19,560
Speaker 1: but it's something there because she never got to discover

960
00:46:20,000 --> 00:46:23,719
Speaker 1: exactly who she was before having to take care of

961
00:46:23,800 --> 00:46:27,040
Speaker 1: somebody else and who who don't have kids. It's not

962
00:46:27,120 --> 00:46:29,399
Speaker 1: selfish not to want to be responsible for somebody else

963
00:46:29,400 --> 00:46:30,239
Speaker 1: for the rest of your life.

964
00:46:30,760 --> 00:46:32,920
Speaker 4: It's crazy. It's a crazy response.

965
00:46:32,960 --> 00:46:35,520
Speaker 5: Not every person needs to be a parent. A lot

966
00:46:35,520 --> 00:46:38,440
Speaker 5: of parents don't even need to be parents, you know, right.

967
00:46:39,080 --> 00:46:41,880
Speaker 2: Did y'all ever feel like your relationships with your friends

968
00:46:42,000 --> 00:46:43,600
Speaker 2: shifted once she became moms?

969
00:46:44,600 --> 00:46:49,960
Speaker 5: Yes? Absolutely, I was outside. I was an outside girl.

970
00:46:52,080 --> 00:46:55,000
Speaker 5: I had friends that just stopped calling me, you know,

971
00:46:55,560 --> 00:46:58,080
Speaker 5: they didn't really. I remember specifically, I had a situation

972
00:46:58,160 --> 00:47:00,200
Speaker 5: one of my best friends at the time. I was

973
00:47:00,200 --> 00:47:03,600
Speaker 5: so excited to tell her I was pregnant. I was

974
00:47:03,640 --> 00:47:05,280
Speaker 5: living in New York when I found out I was pregnant.

975
00:47:05,280 --> 00:47:07,640
Speaker 5: So I came back to LA and I sat down

976
00:47:07,680 --> 00:47:09,200
Speaker 5: with her and my other friend and I was like,

977
00:47:09,200 --> 00:47:11,640
Speaker 5: I have something to tell you guys. And before I

978
00:47:11,640 --> 00:47:13,319
Speaker 5: could even tell her, she was like, you're pregnant. And

979
00:47:13,360 --> 00:47:17,400
Speaker 5: I was like, yeah, I am, and she's like I know,

980
00:47:17,920 --> 00:47:20,640
Speaker 5: and then just like just like didn't want to know

981
00:47:20,680 --> 00:47:23,239
Speaker 5: anything else. Like I was shocked. I was like, what

982
00:47:23,280 --> 00:47:26,680
Speaker 5: the fuck, bitch like, and then after that, I like

983
00:47:26,800 --> 00:47:29,439
Speaker 5: barely ever heard from her again. It was the weirdest thing,

984
00:47:30,360 --> 00:47:32,759
Speaker 5: and so I don't I still don't really know what

985
00:47:32,800 --> 00:47:34,919
Speaker 5: that was. It was like, maybe it was like she

986
00:47:35,000 --> 00:47:36,719
Speaker 5: was mad that she was gonna have to share me.

987
00:47:37,360 --> 00:47:39,800
Speaker 5: She felt like we couldn't relate anymore. She was jealous.

988
00:47:39,840 --> 00:47:41,920
Speaker 5: I mean, I don't really like to go straight to

989
00:47:41,960 --> 00:47:43,600
Speaker 5: jealousy with women, because I think that's what we do

990
00:47:43,680 --> 00:47:45,960
Speaker 5: a lot. But I just don't. I don't know what

991
00:47:46,000 --> 00:47:48,719
Speaker 5: that was. And I'm sure that maybe there's other women

992
00:47:48,719 --> 00:47:51,160
Speaker 5: that maybe relate to it. But I know for me,

993
00:47:51,360 --> 00:47:54,680
Speaker 5: like motherhood really showed me who my friends were, and

994
00:47:55,080 --> 00:47:57,480
Speaker 5: it continues to it shows me even like with partners,

995
00:47:57,520 --> 00:48:00,640
Speaker 5: like what who was really open, really down for me?

996
00:48:01,040 --> 00:48:02,600
Speaker 5: And who isn't?

997
00:48:03,440 --> 00:48:04,560
Speaker 2: What about you?

998
00:48:05,080 --> 00:48:07,560
Speaker 4: I would say that that didn't really happen to me.

999
00:48:07,800 --> 00:48:09,879
Speaker 4: I had I was the first person in my friend

1000
00:48:09,880 --> 00:48:12,120
Speaker 4: group to have a kid, and I do feel like

1001
00:48:12,200 --> 00:48:16,840
Speaker 4: everybody really rallied around me and was like my baby daddy.

1002
00:48:17,600 --> 00:48:19,320
Speaker 4: So I had like a lot of baby daddies and

1003
00:48:19,640 --> 00:48:21,640
Speaker 4: like because there was no other kids, it was kind

1004
00:48:21,680 --> 00:48:25,560
Speaker 4: of like a fun group project. Look, we have a baby.

1005
00:48:26,800 --> 00:48:29,960
Speaker 4: But you know, it was kind of fun that way.

1006
00:48:30,040 --> 00:48:33,680
Speaker 4: But I think there were some things that like people

1007
00:48:33,680 --> 00:48:36,160
Speaker 4: didn't understand. Like there was a time where I was

1008
00:48:36,200 --> 00:48:38,640
Speaker 4: like about my baby daddy, like this is not gonna work.

1009
00:48:38,640 --> 00:48:41,600
Speaker 4: I can't stand him, or like or I would talk

1010
00:48:41,640 --> 00:48:43,520
Speaker 4: shit about him because it was time for me to leave,

1011
00:48:43,520 --> 00:48:45,440
Speaker 4: and then they would be like why don't you leave,

1012
00:48:45,440 --> 00:48:47,040
Speaker 4: Why don't you leave? Why don't you leave? And I'm like,

1013
00:48:47,040 --> 00:48:49,520
Speaker 4: you don't understand. You know, I had this. I'm trying,

1014
00:48:49,600 --> 00:48:51,879
Speaker 4: like you're not black, you don't understand. I don't want

1015
00:48:51,880 --> 00:48:53,560
Speaker 4: to be a baby mama, like making a lot of

1016
00:48:53,640 --> 00:48:56,120
Speaker 4: excuses for what that meant to me, because I think

1017
00:48:56,200 --> 00:48:59,920
Speaker 4: for as a black woman being with my child's father,

1018
00:49:00,120 --> 00:49:03,000
Speaker 4: it was like there was a like a stereotype I

1019
00:49:03,040 --> 00:49:04,879
Speaker 4: was trying to break, Like I didn't want to fall

1020
00:49:04,880 --> 00:49:06,200
Speaker 4: into that to the point where I'd be like at

1021
00:49:06,280 --> 00:49:10,320
Speaker 4: museums or at Disneyland like with my family, like miserable inside.

1022
00:49:10,320 --> 00:49:12,759
Speaker 4: But look, that's the dad, that's the mom, and that's

1023
00:49:12,800 --> 00:49:17,440
Speaker 4: the kid. Bitches, Okay, black families stay together. So I

1024
00:49:17,440 --> 00:49:19,440
Speaker 4: think there I had something to prove in that way,

1025
00:49:19,480 --> 00:49:21,600
Speaker 4: but it was not in the sense that like my

1026
00:49:21,840 --> 00:49:23,160
Speaker 4: party friends fell off.

1027
00:49:24,560 --> 00:49:24,759
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1028
00:49:24,840 --> 00:49:27,000
Speaker 1: I think anytime one of my old ast friends have

1029
00:49:27,040 --> 00:49:29,399
Speaker 1: a baby, I'd be like, girl, your time is coming up.

1030
00:49:30,360 --> 00:49:33,200
Speaker 3: I'm so happy when the old bitches have a baby.

1031
00:49:33,280 --> 00:49:37,600
Speaker 4: Okay, I'm gonna be looking at old bitch having a baby.

1032
00:49:38,680 --> 00:49:41,960
Speaker 2: So you want another kid? I want more kids?

1033
00:49:42,280 --> 00:49:51,880
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, I do. But I have a timeline in

1034
00:49:51,960 --> 00:49:53,759
Speaker 5: which I would let in which I would want that

1035
00:49:53,840 --> 00:49:55,680
Speaker 5: to happen, and if it doesn't, then I'm.

1036
00:49:55,480 --> 00:49:59,719
Speaker 2: Cool and aj I know you're trying to have a

1037
00:49:59,760 --> 00:50:00,720
Speaker 2: baby every weekend.

1038
00:50:01,760 --> 00:50:04,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I was very sad this weekend because my

1039
00:50:04,200 --> 00:50:05,120
Speaker 1: fucking period came on.

1040
00:50:05,560 --> 00:50:08,759
Speaker 4: Okay, Oh, so you're you're you're like actively if if

1041
00:50:08,800 --> 00:50:09,840
Speaker 4: it happens, it happened.

1042
00:50:10,719 --> 00:50:10,959
Speaker 5: Yeah.

1043
00:50:11,000 --> 00:50:13,480
Speaker 1: So two weeks ago, I intentionally was trying to get

1044
00:50:13,760 --> 00:50:15,080
Speaker 1: trying to get pregnant.

1045
00:50:15,040 --> 00:50:17,640
Speaker 5: Two weeks ago, are you are you you're picking them?

1046
00:50:17,680 --> 00:50:22,919
Speaker 5: You're picking them well right, like you're you're making sure

1047
00:50:22,920 --> 00:50:25,680
Speaker 5: that they're like genetically they're okay as well.

1048
00:50:26,120 --> 00:50:28,719
Speaker 1: Yes, And I'm also I was also trying to have

1049
00:50:28,960 --> 00:50:29,640
Speaker 1: a Gemini.

1050
00:50:30,480 --> 00:50:33,840
Speaker 5: So now let me tell you I have a Gemini baby. Daddy,

1051
00:50:34,040 --> 00:50:34,800
Speaker 5: don't recommend.

1052
00:50:35,160 --> 00:50:36,759
Speaker 4: No, she was a Gemini bababy.

1053
00:50:37,080 --> 00:50:40,520
Speaker 1: The baby, So I missed my deception window for the

1054
00:50:40,560 --> 00:50:42,920
Speaker 1: Gemini baby because I'm a Gemini.

1055
00:50:43,040 --> 00:50:45,800
Speaker 3: My mom is a Gemini. My grandmother was a fucking Gemini.

1056
00:50:45,920 --> 00:50:47,520
Speaker 4: Oh you're trying to keep it going, Okay, I see.

1057
00:50:47,600 --> 00:50:50,200
Speaker 4: So it's a legacy, Yeah, a Gemini legacy.

1058
00:50:50,280 --> 00:50:52,520
Speaker 1: So my legacy is fucked up because now, like at

1059
00:50:52,520 --> 00:50:54,719
Speaker 1: this point, I'll be trying to get pregnant next year,

1060
00:50:55,120 --> 00:50:56,120
Speaker 1: I'm be forty three.

1061
00:50:56,040 --> 00:50:56,840
Speaker 3: Trying to have a baby.

1062
00:50:56,960 --> 00:50:57,320
Speaker 4: Babe.

1063
00:50:57,360 --> 00:50:59,480
Speaker 3: Just a Gemini timeline.

1064
00:50:59,520 --> 00:51:01,680
Speaker 4: We don't need any more Geminis in the world. We

1065
00:51:01,840 --> 00:51:02,960
Speaker 4: just just keep sucking.

1066
00:51:03,520 --> 00:51:05,799
Speaker 3: I could do Virgo or Libra, and that's it.

1067
00:51:06,160 --> 00:51:08,719
Speaker 4: I can't do. I can't do no fucking virgo child.

1068
00:51:08,800 --> 00:51:09,640
Speaker 4: That wouldn't work for me.

1069
00:51:10,520 --> 00:51:12,880
Speaker 3: I'm Virgo rising. I could do it, I would.

1070
00:51:12,719 --> 00:51:14,440
Speaker 4: Get on their nerves.

1071
00:51:14,920 --> 00:51:18,880
Speaker 2: I still want to. Like my desire to be a

1072
00:51:18,960 --> 00:51:21,200
Speaker 2: mother is starting to dwindle a little bit as I

1073
00:51:21,239 --> 00:51:23,680
Speaker 2: get older. I just feel like my window is closing

1074
00:51:24,280 --> 00:51:30,280
Speaker 2: on me. But I'm just terrified still to be pregnant again.

1075
00:51:30,520 --> 00:51:32,440
Speaker 2: Let me say that pregnant or births?

1076
00:51:32,480 --> 00:51:34,360
Speaker 4: Are you terrified about the actual birth?

1077
00:51:34,960 --> 00:51:40,120
Speaker 2: The whole process. The whole process just makes me scared,

1078
00:51:40,800 --> 00:51:43,560
Speaker 2: Like I wish I could skip that part.

1079
00:51:43,400 --> 00:51:47,120
Speaker 4: And just have my bitches are doing it every day.

1080
00:51:47,360 --> 00:51:50,879
Speaker 4: Bitches are sarrogating, surrogated whatever their lives away. So it's

1081
00:51:50,920 --> 00:51:53,000
Speaker 4: not not an option.

1082
00:51:52,880 --> 00:51:55,640
Speaker 2: Not impossible, right, But then I don't Also, I also

1083
00:51:55,719 --> 00:51:57,520
Speaker 2: at the same time don't want.

1084
00:51:58,360 --> 00:52:00,200
Speaker 4: Somebody else when you put yeah.

1085
00:52:00,160 --> 00:52:02,520
Speaker 2: Because there has even though they say, oh, it's your

1086
00:52:02,640 --> 00:52:05,319
Speaker 2: your DNA, there has to be some of this other

1087
00:52:05,360 --> 00:52:11,320
Speaker 2: bitch DNA in my band's.

1088
00:52:08,840 --> 00:52:10,680
Speaker 4: The science I know, the real.

1089
00:52:11,280 --> 00:52:16,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's all like in his too, Like.

1090
00:52:18,040 --> 00:52:20,799
Speaker 4: I don't know's gonna be a little confused because.

1091
00:52:21,719 --> 00:52:23,000
Speaker 2: No throble baby.

1092
00:52:23,560 --> 00:52:28,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's baby Polly pregnancy.

1093
00:52:29,120 --> 00:52:32,279
Speaker 2: Right, So y'all we want to play again. Do you

1094
00:52:32,360 --> 00:52:33,799
Speaker 2: have any more questions? I want to play? Would you

1095
00:52:33,840 --> 00:52:34,919
Speaker 2: rather go?

1096
00:52:34,920 --> 00:52:35,239
Speaker 5: Go? Go?

1097
00:52:36,000 --> 00:52:38,240
Speaker 2: Okay, so we're gonna play a game with y'all real quick.

1098
00:52:38,760 --> 00:52:41,799
Speaker 2: Would you rather right? So the first one is would

1099
00:52:41,840 --> 00:52:44,120
Speaker 2: you rather have a man who worships you but has

1100
00:52:44,200 --> 00:52:47,760
Speaker 2: no ambition or a man who challenges you but triggers

1101
00:52:47,760 --> 00:52:49,600
Speaker 2: you all the time? B?

1102
00:52:54,600 --> 00:52:57,359
Speaker 5: Yeah? B gosh, you know what?

1103
00:52:57,520 --> 00:53:00,560
Speaker 4: I think that all I don't know relations are going

1104
00:53:00,600 --> 00:53:03,680
Speaker 4: to trigger you all the time. Like it's you're in

1105
00:53:03,719 --> 00:53:08,200
Speaker 4: a relationships, most close relationships are going to trigger you.

1106
00:53:08,239 --> 00:53:10,640
Speaker 4: Because that's the whole point of this game of life.

1107
00:53:11,280 --> 00:53:13,000
Speaker 4: It's like if you were alone and you locked yourself

1108
00:53:13,000 --> 00:53:14,719
Speaker 4: in your apartment, you're only around those two friends that

1109
00:53:14,760 --> 00:53:16,440
Speaker 4: don't trigger you. They know what to say and not

1110
00:53:16,480 --> 00:53:18,640
Speaker 4: to say. That you're not growing, You're not going to evolve.

1111
00:53:18,680 --> 00:53:21,480
Speaker 4: It's like the triggering leads you to more depths of yourself.

1112
00:53:21,520 --> 00:53:23,520
Speaker 4: Why did it, sugar me? Why am I feeling this way?

1113
00:53:23,600 --> 00:53:25,560
Speaker 4: And this is for a person who gets triggered very easily.

1114
00:53:25,640 --> 00:53:27,080
Speaker 4: And I'm triggered right now and I'm annoyed, and I

1115
00:53:27,120 --> 00:53:30,359
Speaker 4: don't even want to take my own advice. But that's

1116
00:53:30,400 --> 00:53:30,840
Speaker 4: the truth.

1117
00:53:31,600 --> 00:53:33,640
Speaker 5: You know what. I think that if I was with

1118
00:53:33,680 --> 00:53:35,640
Speaker 5: a man who worshiped me but had no ambition, I

1119
00:53:35,640 --> 00:53:41,399
Speaker 5: would be triggered. Also, probably I probably would rather just do.

1120
00:53:41,400 --> 00:53:47,279
Speaker 3: Be Let's see. Would you rather build him up or

1121
00:53:47,640 --> 00:53:50,680
Speaker 3: find him built but boring?

1122
00:53:51,280 --> 00:53:52,839
Speaker 4: I can't do boring. I will build him up. I'll

1123
00:53:52,840 --> 00:53:54,759
Speaker 4: get that wardrobe, we'll go to the mall. Baby, we'll

1124
00:53:54,760 --> 00:53:58,000
Speaker 4: put on some jeans. I look put on that hat. Yep. No,

1125
00:53:58,080 --> 00:54:00,719
Speaker 4: I'm not doing anything boring because you're gonna I'm gonna

1126
00:54:00,760 --> 00:54:01,279
Speaker 4: cheat on you.

1127
00:54:01,400 --> 00:54:08,240
Speaker 5: It's happened. I'd rather build you up. Come on, baby,

1128
00:54:08,560 --> 00:54:12,040
Speaker 5: let's build a bear you let's go. You know, a

1129
00:54:12,120 --> 00:54:13,200
Speaker 5: bitch loves a project.

1130
00:54:13,719 --> 00:54:15,399
Speaker 4: Bitches love projects.

1131
00:54:16,120 --> 00:54:19,800
Speaker 2: Oh here's a good one. Would you rather feel safe

1132
00:54:20,040 --> 00:54:23,160
Speaker 2: but unseen or seen but uncertain?

1133
00:54:24,160 --> 00:54:25,640
Speaker 4: I don't like none of those options.

1134
00:54:28,239 --> 00:54:34,839
Speaker 5: Wait, say but unseen, seen but uncertain. I would rather

1135
00:54:34,920 --> 00:54:37,399
Speaker 5: be seen. I would rather be seen and uncertain because

1136
00:54:37,400 --> 00:54:39,080
Speaker 5: then I'm gonna break up with you anyway. But at

1137
00:54:39,160 --> 00:54:42,440
Speaker 5: least while we're together, I'm thinking I feel seen, you know,

1138
00:54:42,560 --> 00:54:43,160
Speaker 5: like it's like.

1139
00:54:43,280 --> 00:54:45,239
Speaker 4: It is it Stevie wonder, like, what do you mean

1140
00:54:45,280 --> 00:54:47,440
Speaker 4: he can't like if you see me, they're gonna see me.

1141
00:54:48,800 --> 00:54:50,400
Speaker 4: I ain't no not seeing this nigga.

1142
00:54:52,880 --> 00:54:55,520
Speaker 3: Or maybe he's not like inviting you out stuff like that.

1143
00:54:55,640 --> 00:54:56,160
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying.

1144
00:54:56,160 --> 00:54:59,080
Speaker 2: You just feel you're there, but you're not there.

1145
00:54:59,280 --> 00:55:01,640
Speaker 4: You know, I don't like any of those options.

1146
00:55:02,600 --> 00:55:05,080
Speaker 1: Okay, I actually saw this on Instagram. You know how

1147
00:55:05,120 --> 00:55:08,759
Speaker 1: those people be on the street asking questions, would you

1148
00:55:08,840 --> 00:55:12,080
Speaker 1: rather be a side chick to a star NBA player

1149
00:55:12,280 --> 00:55:21,000
Speaker 1: or married to a loyal, average salary man b.

1150
00:55:18,520 --> 00:55:21,239
Speaker 4: B That A would be your a groupie? Bitch? If

1151
00:55:21,280 --> 00:55:24,799
Speaker 4: you just answered A, you are a groupie. Okay, you

1152
00:55:24,800 --> 00:55:25,480
Speaker 4: probably knew that.

1153
00:55:25,400 --> 00:55:28,120
Speaker 3: Already in the on the Instagram post.

1154
00:55:28,200 --> 00:55:30,480
Speaker 1: The guy then says, well, the guy only makes like

1155
00:55:30,560 --> 00:55:31,759
Speaker 1: sixty thousand a year and the.

1156
00:55:31,760 --> 00:55:34,680
Speaker 5: Girls like sixty thousand. Like that is the.

1157
00:55:34,680 --> 00:55:38,000
Speaker 1: Average person's salary, is what we're talking about? What a

1158
00:55:38,000 --> 00:55:40,279
Speaker 1: lot of places, well we're in the South. Were in

1159
00:55:40,320 --> 00:55:43,480
Speaker 1: the South, right, that's a lot black people. What do

1160
00:55:43,480 --> 00:55:45,719
Speaker 1: you think the average income for a black man is?

1161
00:55:47,280 --> 00:55:49,320
Speaker 4: Can you even live off of sixty thousand dollars?

1162
00:55:50,160 --> 00:55:51,680
Speaker 5: Yeah? In other places?

1163
00:55:52,040 --> 00:55:55,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, y y'all can in LA for sure, one hundred

1164
00:55:55,040 --> 00:55:56,760
Speaker 4: thousand dollars a year is the average.

1165
00:55:58,200 --> 00:56:00,040
Speaker 5: That's not the average, not even in LA.

1166
00:56:00,560 --> 00:56:04,799
Speaker 2: Not even clothes. No, it's probably probably like seventy five,

1167
00:56:06,960 --> 00:56:09,960
Speaker 2: probably like fifty honestly, because think about.

1168
00:56:11,280 --> 00:56:14,160
Speaker 5: Because together we're going to combine our income, so you know,

1169
00:56:14,360 --> 00:56:18,000
Speaker 5: we'll be had that one twenty together and we can

1170
00:56:18,080 --> 00:56:21,400
Speaker 5: get a cute, little cavicul little lifestyle and wherever the

1171
00:56:21,400 --> 00:56:22,640
Speaker 5: fuck that takes us.

1172
00:56:23,840 --> 00:56:26,200
Speaker 1: So this this is from twenty twenty three, and it

1173
00:56:26,280 --> 00:56:29,320
Speaker 1: says that average, this is for black persons.

1174
00:56:29,320 --> 00:56:30,560
Speaker 3: It says fifty four thousand.

1175
00:56:30,760 --> 00:56:33,279
Speaker 2: That's what I said about, fifty thousand is the average.

1176
00:56:34,200 --> 00:56:38,280
Speaker 2: You gotta think about these small towns and these small

1177
00:56:38,320 --> 00:56:41,400
Speaker 2: places where it's more of that than everything else.

1178
00:56:41,680 --> 00:56:44,000
Speaker 4: You know, yeah, I forget that. There's like all those

1179
00:56:44,000 --> 00:56:44,800
Speaker 4: states in between.

1180
00:56:45,640 --> 00:56:46,080
Speaker 5: Mm hmm.

1181
00:56:47,560 --> 00:56:51,120
Speaker 1: Y'all listen, catch a man cheating with someone batter or

1182
00:56:51,200 --> 00:56:53,080
Speaker 1: is someone basic in crocs?

1183
00:56:54,280 --> 00:56:55,560
Speaker 4: I were crocs today, bitch?

1184
00:56:58,920 --> 00:56:59,960
Speaker 5: Wait, what was the first one?

1185
00:57:00,600 --> 00:57:03,000
Speaker 1: Catch your man cheating with someone batter than you? Like

1186
00:57:03,000 --> 00:57:05,759
Speaker 1: a batter bitch with crocs on.

1187
00:57:06,000 --> 00:57:08,080
Speaker 4: It's gonna have to be be. I can't handle I

1188
00:57:08,080 --> 00:57:11,320
Speaker 4: can't handle a I'm gonna be mad. I didn't be

1189
00:57:11,360 --> 00:57:13,200
Speaker 4: able to talk shit to my friends. I didn't talk

1190
00:57:13,239 --> 00:57:20,160
Speaker 4: shit to my friends, and that bitch was ugly. That's

1191
00:57:20,200 --> 00:57:21,000
Speaker 4: because I'm shallow.

1192
00:57:21,800 --> 00:57:24,240
Speaker 1: I need the bitch to be batter or comparable. I

1193
00:57:24,240 --> 00:57:26,520
Speaker 1: cannot stand a nigga who doesn't.

1194
00:57:26,200 --> 00:57:28,080
Speaker 4: Have like standard.

1195
00:57:28,160 --> 00:57:31,440
Speaker 3: You don't have, Yeah, you don't have no standards like I've.

1196
00:57:31,320 --> 00:57:35,960
Speaker 5: Literally never in my whole I've never in my long

1197
00:57:36,000 --> 00:57:41,560
Speaker 5: life of being cheated on, ever, ever been cheated on

1198
00:57:41,640 --> 00:57:42,560
Speaker 5: with a bitch better than me.

1199
00:57:42,800 --> 00:57:43,880
Speaker 4: And it doesn't happen.

1200
00:57:44,160 --> 00:57:46,600
Speaker 3: It just doesn't cheating. Then it's cheating. It's just a

1201
00:57:46,600 --> 00:57:47,120
Speaker 3: bitch batter.

1202
00:57:47,480 --> 00:57:49,800
Speaker 5: It just doesn't happen. And I'm not even saying that

1203
00:57:49,840 --> 00:57:53,040
Speaker 5: because I'm like, I am pretty fine myself, but I'm

1204
00:57:53,040 --> 00:57:58,680
Speaker 5: just always astonished. I'm always like, Nigga, what what if it's.

1205
00:57:58,520 --> 00:58:02,040
Speaker 4: Not batter than you? They stepped out not cheating? What if?

1206
00:58:02,200 --> 00:58:05,640
Speaker 1: What if like she's but ugly like this ugly saying

1207
00:58:05,800 --> 00:58:08,360
Speaker 1: I have seen some some some fucked up ship to

1208
00:58:08,400 --> 00:58:12,440
Speaker 1: where it's like Nigga, where I'm offended Because this I'm offended.

1209
00:58:12,680 --> 00:58:15,880
Speaker 4: Yes she has one eye or one arm y'all.

1210
00:58:15,880 --> 00:58:17,840
Speaker 1: I have only reached out to a bitch one time

1211
00:58:17,840 --> 00:58:21,360
Speaker 1: in life about a nigga, and it was because I

1212
00:58:21,480 --> 00:58:26,160
Speaker 1: could not believe this nigga was fucking this Walrus.

1213
00:58:26,840 --> 00:58:28,800
Speaker 3: I could not believe it.

1214
00:58:28,880 --> 00:58:31,240
Speaker 1: Like and I messaged the bitch on Instagram and she

1215
00:58:31,280 --> 00:58:34,800
Speaker 1: didn't respond. She read my message, didn't respond, and then

1216
00:58:34,880 --> 00:58:38,000
Speaker 1: she told him I messaged her messaged her. I could

1217
00:58:38,040 --> 00:58:40,200
Speaker 1: not believe how this person look I just I like

1218
00:58:41,440 --> 00:58:43,520
Speaker 1: I needed to hear it from her that he actually

1219
00:58:43,560 --> 00:58:43,920
Speaker 1: fucked her.

1220
00:58:43,960 --> 00:58:44,800
Speaker 3: I couldn't believe it.

1221
00:58:47,280 --> 00:58:49,040
Speaker 5: I would prefer to see the bad bitches.

1222
00:58:49,080 --> 00:58:52,200
Speaker 1: Please please fuck some bad bitches, because I can't understand

1223
00:58:52,240 --> 00:58:53,000
Speaker 1: when you're fucking on.

1224
00:58:53,960 --> 00:58:57,000
Speaker 2: No, I need her to be ugly, but not now

1225
00:58:57,040 --> 00:59:00,600
Speaker 2: I'm offended, like, don't be cut know why?

1226
00:59:00,600 --> 00:59:01,920
Speaker 5: I mean, I don't even I don't know if I

1227
00:59:01,920 --> 00:59:04,520
Speaker 5: can even answer that question because it's never happened. Like

1228
00:59:04,560 --> 00:59:07,040
Speaker 5: maybe I would be like so hurt if she was.

1229
00:59:07,120 --> 00:59:08,840
Speaker 5: I mean, I was hurt even when she was ugly,

1230
00:59:09,120 --> 00:59:11,240
Speaker 5: so like imagine she was fine, Like maybe I would

1231
00:59:11,280 --> 00:59:12,320
Speaker 5: be super devastated.

1232
00:59:12,560 --> 00:59:13,120
Speaker 4: But I don't know.

1233
00:59:13,200 --> 00:59:16,160
Speaker 5: I've never experienced it, Like ugly bitches have hurt my

1234
00:59:16,200 --> 00:59:18,560
Speaker 5: feelings too, So I don't know.

1235
00:59:20,640 --> 00:59:22,760
Speaker 4: The point is, it's always gonna hurt your feelings, but

1236
00:59:22,760 --> 00:59:25,280
Speaker 4: it's gonna hurt more. It's gonna hurt worse either way.

1237
00:59:25,280 --> 00:59:28,800
Speaker 4: If she's extremely not to your level, and also if

1238
00:59:28,800 --> 00:59:30,920
Speaker 4: she's way better than you, it's gonna hurt both Ways's

1239
00:59:30,920 --> 00:59:32,960
Speaker 4: gonna be offended? Are you gonna be like? What the fuck?

1240
00:59:33,800 --> 00:59:34,000
Speaker 2: Right?

1241
00:59:34,800 --> 00:59:36,960
Speaker 5: Because if she's bad like she got like, I don't know,

1242
00:59:37,200 --> 00:59:38,720
Speaker 5: is I gonna make me be like, damn? Do I

1243
00:59:38,720 --> 00:59:40,800
Speaker 5: need to get my like? Maybe my ass isn't bigger

1244
00:59:40,800 --> 00:59:42,400
Speaker 5: than maybe I need to put a little someone in there,

1245
00:59:42,440 --> 00:59:44,480
Speaker 5: like damn, she got bigger titties? Do I need a

1246
00:59:44,480 --> 00:59:46,960
Speaker 5: bigger like? I don't even want to go down that route.

1247
00:59:47,000 --> 00:59:50,760
Speaker 5: So I'm actually grateful for thank you. I want to

1248
00:59:50,760 --> 00:59:54,760
Speaker 5: personally thank all my old hoes, all my my baby daddy,

1249
00:59:55,240 --> 00:59:58,600
Speaker 5: and everyone else from my past that fucked with ugly bitches.

1250
00:59:58,600 --> 01:00:00,840
Speaker 5: Thank you, Thank you so much for be my confidence

1251
01:00:00,960 --> 01:00:02,040
Speaker 5: high true?

1252
01:00:02,080 --> 01:00:02,440
Speaker 2: Amen?

1253
01:00:03,640 --> 01:00:03,920
Speaker 5: All right?

1254
01:00:04,680 --> 01:00:07,320
Speaker 2: Would you rather have a man who moans louder than

1255
01:00:07,360 --> 01:00:09,600
Speaker 2: you or one who doesn't make a sound at all?

1256
01:00:10,200 --> 01:00:15,160
Speaker 4: Loud man louder? Yeah, let me know this pussy's good nigga.

1257
01:00:14,520 --> 01:00:17,120
Speaker 5: Anything worse than a silent fun like yeah, like nigga

1258
01:00:17,120 --> 01:00:22,440
Speaker 5: e be dead, Like what's going on? I love like

1259
01:00:22,480 --> 01:00:23,360
Speaker 5: growl in my ear?

1260
01:00:24,400 --> 01:00:28,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, do something. Somebody I posted something reposted something yesterday

1261
01:00:28,400 --> 01:00:31,000
Speaker 4: that said if you're if you're a woman who likes

1262
01:00:31,120 --> 01:00:33,920
Speaker 4: male moans, you're a hoe it' said guilty.

1263
01:00:35,360 --> 01:00:38,560
Speaker 2: Well listen sometimes like I was dating this guy and

1264
01:00:38,600 --> 01:00:40,440
Speaker 2: I liked everything about him. He would have been a

1265
01:00:40,440 --> 01:00:43,360
Speaker 2: great husband, but I hated how he came, Like I

1266
01:00:43,400 --> 01:00:44,800
Speaker 2: broke up with him because how.

1267
01:00:44,680 --> 01:00:46,360
Speaker 4: He know, well, how did he do it?

1268
01:00:46,600 --> 01:00:49,680
Speaker 2: Bru He sounded like a cartoon villain. He was like,

1269
01:00:55,000 --> 01:00:55,760
Speaker 2: that's how he came.

1270
01:00:57,920 --> 01:01:00,280
Speaker 5: You should have got him like a like I want

1271
01:01:00,280 --> 01:01:02,000
Speaker 5: to guide in him on that a count.

1272
01:01:02,120 --> 01:01:04,440
Speaker 4: You should have made him a vampire for Halloween or something.

1273
01:01:04,640 --> 01:01:06,439
Speaker 2: Why did he come like that? He was like, I'm

1274
01:01:06,480 --> 01:01:09,840
Speaker 2: just so filled with joy and.

1275
01:01:09,880 --> 01:01:13,360
Speaker 4: You left him? Bitch, you go now, you gotta go.

1276
01:01:13,520 --> 01:01:15,480
Speaker 4: Theory because he was a joy was scary.

1277
01:01:15,720 --> 01:01:17,200
Speaker 3: I was a happy man, Okay.

1278
01:01:17,200 --> 01:01:19,440
Speaker 5: Well I don't like though. What I don't like is

1279
01:01:19,520 --> 01:01:21,440
Speaker 5: too much of a talking ass nigga during sex, Like

1280
01:01:21,560 --> 01:01:23,479
Speaker 5: just shut the fuck up, Like not like I don't

1281
01:01:23,480 --> 01:01:26,040
Speaker 5: need you're not moan, but like you're talking too much.

1282
01:01:26,600 --> 01:01:31,960
Speaker 5: I can't focus, just like I had a guy trying

1283
01:01:32,000 --> 01:01:33,600
Speaker 5: to tell me what to say, like I get it,

1284
01:01:33,600 --> 01:01:36,360
Speaker 5: like sometimes that's cool, but like it was throughout the

1285
01:01:36,400 --> 01:01:38,760
Speaker 5: whole experience, And so I gave him a second chance

1286
01:01:38,800 --> 01:01:40,720
Speaker 5: and he did it again, and I was like, like,

1287
01:01:40,840 --> 01:01:41,480
Speaker 5: let what.

1288
01:01:41,320 --> 01:01:43,360
Speaker 4: Was he telling you to say? What was he telling

1289
01:01:43,400 --> 01:01:44,040
Speaker 4: you to say?

1290
01:01:44,240 --> 01:01:46,040
Speaker 5: Like, tell me how good this stick is? Tell me

1291
01:01:46,080 --> 01:01:48,840
Speaker 5: how good it is? Tell me tell me. Then he

1292
01:01:48,880 --> 01:01:50,680
Speaker 5: said like, tell me how how good my body looks?

1293
01:01:50,720 --> 01:01:55,840
Speaker 5: And I was like, whoa, this is ship with me.

1294
01:01:57,360 --> 01:02:00,080
Speaker 5: Talk to your therapist. I don't know what's happened it

1295
01:02:00,160 --> 01:02:03,480
Speaker 5: in here. Not talk to your therapist. That might be

1296
01:02:03,640 --> 01:02:06,000
Speaker 5: that might be a lame like sex therapist. That's gonna

1297
01:02:06,040 --> 01:02:07,440
Speaker 5: tell you like how good you look. It's gonna be

1298
01:02:07,440 --> 01:02:09,400
Speaker 5: like therapize you while your dick is inside of her.

1299
01:02:10,280 --> 01:02:13,240
Speaker 5: Well that's a lot of sacrifice, It's crazy.

1300
01:02:13,400 --> 01:02:15,720
Speaker 2: Did you tell them just like I did?

1301
01:02:16,280 --> 01:02:21,720
Speaker 5: I did? I definitely, because like he was like what hey.

1302
01:02:22,480 --> 01:02:24,200
Speaker 5: At that point, I was just like just don't stop.

1303
01:02:24,320 --> 01:02:26,360
Speaker 5: I'll say whatever you want, but like this is the

1304
01:02:26,400 --> 01:02:31,720
Speaker 5: last time. Yeah, you can talk me through a bit.

1305
01:02:31,800 --> 01:02:35,960
Speaker 5: Don't be asking for compliments. Was he a pisces? Probably

1306
01:02:36,160 --> 01:02:37,160
Speaker 5: low key? I need to go.

1307
01:02:37,240 --> 01:02:39,720
Speaker 4: Look, I hate people talk too much and you're like

1308
01:02:39,760 --> 01:02:40,440
Speaker 4: your ear is here.

1309
01:02:40,600 --> 01:02:43,920
Speaker 5: You're like, huh what, Yeah, that's happened to the keep

1310
01:02:43,960 --> 01:02:45,560
Speaker 5: saying things are mumbling.

1311
01:02:45,200 --> 01:02:47,160
Speaker 4: And like, nig I can't hear you. Stop talking to me,

1312
01:02:47,200 --> 01:02:49,320
Speaker 4: like I'm just the haunt is taking me out of it,

1313
01:02:49,400 --> 01:02:51,080
Speaker 4: Like just fucking what. I can't read your lips. I

1314
01:02:51,080 --> 01:02:52,840
Speaker 4: can't see you. What the are we talking about?

1315
01:02:58,720 --> 01:03:03,240
Speaker 3: I was sticking these niggas. Do what you came to do.

1316
01:03:03,560 --> 01:03:09,400
Speaker 2: Right, all right, when the lottery, but lose your best

1317
01:03:09,480 --> 01:03:14,600
Speaker 2: friend or stay broke, but keep your tribe it broke

1318
01:03:14,640 --> 01:03:15,280
Speaker 2: as fuck.

1319
01:03:15,640 --> 01:03:16,440
Speaker 5: Like broke forever.

1320
01:03:16,920 --> 01:03:21,400
Speaker 4: Like I don't like these questions. We're witches. This is

1321
01:03:21,400 --> 01:03:23,600
Speaker 4: what happened to us. This is not how we We don't

1322
01:03:23,640 --> 01:03:25,200
Speaker 4: manifest like this. This is not.

1323
01:03:29,320 --> 01:03:31,160
Speaker 5: I don't want to be a lonely rich bitch.

1324
01:03:31,320 --> 01:03:33,280
Speaker 4: Yeah, Like, who are gonna go on the yacht with?

1325
01:03:33,400 --> 01:03:35,400
Speaker 4: Like who's gonna be theych, who's gonna be in the PJ?

1326
01:03:35,600 --> 01:03:37,680
Speaker 1: So many people I know exactly who the I want

1327
01:03:37,720 --> 01:03:39,959
Speaker 1: to see having a good ass time.

1328
01:03:40,560 --> 01:03:44,280
Speaker 3: Okay, I gotta take all the people. Yeah, I don't like.

1329
01:03:44,280 --> 01:03:48,440
Speaker 2: That that question because I can't. I can't figure one

1330
01:03:48,440 --> 01:03:51,400
Speaker 2: to choose either, because we're just gonna have.

1331
01:03:51,400 --> 01:03:53,080
Speaker 4: To be broke. Well, we have to figure it out, like

1332
01:03:53,560 --> 01:03:56,480
Speaker 4: for a while, girls, you just sell some pussy. I'm

1333
01:03:56,480 --> 01:04:00,760
Speaker 4: gonna be broke. Why would I be broke? What does

1334
01:04:00,800 --> 01:04:01,880
Speaker 4: that make sense to anyone?

1335
01:04:02,040 --> 01:04:02,120
Speaker 6: Like?

1336
01:04:02,280 --> 01:04:04,120
Speaker 3: No last one?

1337
01:04:04,160 --> 01:04:06,720
Speaker 1: I have a man who makes you laugh but never commits,

1338
01:04:07,000 --> 01:04:10,120
Speaker 1: or one who commits but never compliments you.

1339
01:04:10,400 --> 01:04:12,520
Speaker 3: Y'all haven't been with somebody who never complimented you.

1340
01:04:17,520 --> 01:04:21,640
Speaker 4: I probably didn't even notice for real, for real, It's

1341
01:04:21,680 --> 01:04:24,320
Speaker 4: like I'm used to that. Like it's when someone compliments

1342
01:04:24,360 --> 01:04:26,760
Speaker 4: me where I'm like, oh okay, wow, that's a lot relaxed.

1343
01:04:27,280 --> 01:04:29,080
Speaker 4: It's like I'm not good at like. But now that

1344
01:04:29,160 --> 01:04:31,280
Speaker 4: I have that, I don't think I would be able

1345
01:04:31,320 --> 01:04:33,360
Speaker 4: to be a someone who like didn't notice little things

1346
01:04:33,480 --> 01:04:35,000
Speaker 4: or compliment me with bother me.

1347
01:04:37,000 --> 01:04:40,080
Speaker 5: Laughing goes a long way with me. What was what

1348
01:04:40,120 --> 01:04:42,800
Speaker 5: was the what makes me laugh? But what won't commit?

1349
01:04:42,960 --> 01:04:44,480
Speaker 3: Won't commit? He won't commit?

1350
01:04:44,920 --> 01:04:50,080
Speaker 5: Oh that was like my baby daddy. We did it

1351
01:04:50,120 --> 01:04:52,240
Speaker 5: for seven years. Though he made me laugh for a

1352
01:04:52,320 --> 01:04:56,840
Speaker 5: long time. That that laughing, that laughing sustained me for

1353
01:04:57,120 --> 01:04:57,800
Speaker 5: some time.

1354
01:04:57,960 --> 01:04:59,880
Speaker 4: We forgot about the other bitches. It was so some

1355
01:05:00,280 --> 01:05:01,640
Speaker 4: I was just like, just.

1356
01:05:01,680 --> 01:05:08,440
Speaker 5: Keep with the no compliment. I don't know. I'm an

1357
01:05:08,480 --> 01:05:11,320
Speaker 5: words I'm a words of affirmation type of a I'm

1358
01:05:11,360 --> 01:05:13,280
Speaker 5: a words of affirmation type of lover. Like that's what

1359
01:05:13,320 --> 01:05:16,760
Speaker 5: I give, and it says feel nice to receive it.

1360
01:05:16,840 --> 01:05:20,400
Speaker 5: I have, like my partner now is very much like

1361
01:05:20,440 --> 01:05:22,720
Speaker 5: affirms me a lot, and I appreciate that because I

1362
01:05:22,720 --> 01:05:24,720
Speaker 5: think I think I've had it in the past, but

1363
01:05:24,760 --> 01:05:26,720
Speaker 5: maybe not to the extent that I get it now.

1364
01:05:28,360 --> 01:05:30,920
Speaker 1: Facts, that's that's what I'm experiencing too. I had an

1365
01:05:30,960 --> 01:05:34,200
Speaker 1: ex who would never, like verbally compliment me. He would

1366
01:05:34,200 --> 01:05:36,480
Speaker 1: wait till I leave the house and like text me like,

1367
01:05:36,520 --> 01:05:37,480
Speaker 1: you look you looked good.

1368
01:05:37,600 --> 01:05:38,400
Speaker 3: I'm like, what the fuck?

1369
01:05:39,000 --> 01:05:41,040
Speaker 1: Meanwhile, like when he putting that shit on because I

1370
01:05:41,080 --> 01:05:43,120
Speaker 1: bought it, like I'm like, man, you look so good.

1371
01:05:44,560 --> 01:05:50,640
Speaker 3: Never never, what is that? I don't know, hater. I

1372
01:05:50,640 --> 01:05:53,120
Speaker 3: think a lot of people be in relationships with men who.

1373
01:05:53,200 --> 01:05:54,400
Speaker 5: Well, yeah, they're like I don't want you to get

1374
01:05:54,440 --> 01:05:56,479
Speaker 5: a big head. I want you to have a big head,

1375
01:05:56,640 --> 01:05:58,480
Speaker 5: Like what what are you talking about.

1376
01:05:59,400 --> 01:06:01,720
Speaker 2: I've had a guy who would be like his compliments

1377
01:06:01,760 --> 01:06:04,760
Speaker 2: would be like you think you cute, like it would

1378
01:06:04,760 --> 01:06:06,680
Speaker 2: always be like some kind of life.

1379
01:06:06,920 --> 01:06:08,160
Speaker 5: I'm not undercutting.

1380
01:06:08,320 --> 01:06:10,440
Speaker 4: I feel like that's black people. Shit. I feel like

1381
01:06:10,480 --> 01:06:12,960
Speaker 4: that's like black people, Like that's how my family talks

1382
01:06:13,000 --> 01:06:15,840
Speaker 4: to each other. Like I feel like it's true. Like

1383
01:06:15,880 --> 01:06:18,920
Speaker 4: I know that it sounds strange, but I don't know,

1384
01:06:19,280 --> 01:06:20,920
Speaker 4: like I don't know.

1385
01:06:20,800 --> 01:06:21,880
Speaker 2: Where you think you going.

1386
01:06:22,360 --> 01:06:25,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, right, that for me, my pussy got away, Like

1387
01:06:25,960 --> 01:06:34,480
Speaker 4: now I'm toxic, all right, y'all.

1388
01:06:34,880 --> 01:06:37,680
Speaker 1: So after this commercial break, we are going to get

1389
01:06:37,720 --> 01:06:41,680
Speaker 1: some dumb bitch stories from good Mom's bad Choices.

1390
01:06:42,160 --> 01:06:43,760
Speaker 5: Okay, So I can't wait.

1391
01:06:49,200 --> 01:06:51,040
Speaker 3: And we're back, all right, y'all.

1392
01:06:51,080 --> 01:06:54,400
Speaker 1: So we have uh dumb bitch stories for the women

1393
01:06:54,640 --> 01:06:59,080
Speaker 1: and stimp series for the men. Okay, so we need

1394
01:06:59,240 --> 01:07:01,840
Speaker 1: a dumb bitch storre. This is just a time or

1395
01:07:01,880 --> 01:07:04,800
Speaker 1: a situation where you got played. And I don't know

1396
01:07:04,840 --> 01:07:07,400
Speaker 1: how y'all get down by the same or opposite sex.

1397
01:07:07,440 --> 01:07:07,880
Speaker 3: I don't know.

1398
01:07:09,960 --> 01:07:10,800
Speaker 2: It could be either or.

1399
01:07:14,920 --> 01:07:16,720
Speaker 5: I've shared this story before on the Pot, but this

1400
01:07:16,760 --> 01:07:19,520
Speaker 5: is a first for y'all. So well, my dumbitch story

1401
01:07:19,720 --> 01:07:24,200
Speaker 5: started once upon a time I was walking in uh

1402
01:07:24,280 --> 01:07:27,200
Speaker 5: on fourteenth Street. I just got off the train and

1403
01:07:27,280 --> 01:07:29,240
Speaker 5: there was this fine guy. He was, but he was

1404
01:07:29,280 --> 01:07:31,000
Speaker 5: out there. He was like he's kind of short, which

1405
01:07:31,000 --> 01:07:33,520
Speaker 5: I'm not really into the short kings too much, like

1406
01:07:33,600 --> 01:07:36,800
Speaker 5: I have I make a few exceptions, but he was

1407
01:07:36,800 --> 01:07:40,160
Speaker 5: out there selling. He was like selling like feed the

1408
01:07:40,240 --> 01:07:48,800
Speaker 5: children type packages, like like sponsor a child in Africa.

1409
01:07:49,200 --> 01:07:50,600
Speaker 3: Was he really working for non problem?

1410
01:07:50,720 --> 01:07:52,919
Speaker 4: He was. I really did feed.

1411
01:07:53,040 --> 01:07:56,400
Speaker 5: I fed. I fed Zach for a good three hundred

1412
01:07:56,400 --> 01:08:01,440
Speaker 5: and sixty five days. Okay, So anyway, he brought he top,

1413
01:08:01,560 --> 01:08:03,520
Speaker 5: he took me to Starbucks, sold me on the package,

1414
01:08:03,600 --> 01:08:06,360
Speaker 5: got it. He was. He was really fine to me

1415
01:08:06,400 --> 01:08:10,040
Speaker 5: at the time. He told me that he was a model,

1416
01:08:10,280 --> 01:08:11,640
Speaker 5: and so I was like, oh my god, what model.

1417
01:08:11,680 --> 01:08:13,640
Speaker 5: And he had the pictures ready. It was like a

1418
01:08:13,680 --> 01:08:17,240
Speaker 5: Calvin Klein ad that he had done, a VERSACEI ad,

1419
01:08:17,520 --> 01:08:19,080
Speaker 5: but like all the pictures were kind of like from

1420
01:08:19,160 --> 01:08:22,800
Speaker 5: the side, and he was Dominican, so he you know,

1421
01:08:22,840 --> 01:08:24,880
Speaker 5: he had a specific He's like kind of he was Dominican,

1422
01:08:24,920 --> 01:08:27,720
Speaker 5: but he kind of like Puerto Rican. Whatever. Anyway, long

1423
01:08:27,760 --> 01:08:31,800
Speaker 5: story short I saw these pictures. My friends had started

1424
01:08:31,840 --> 01:08:33,320
Speaker 5: to do research because they didn't trust him. They're like,

1425
01:08:33,360 --> 01:08:35,280
Speaker 5: I don't think that's really him in the picture and

1426
01:08:35,320 --> 01:08:40,160
Speaker 5: I was like, yes, it is girl, like it is him.

1427
01:08:40,880 --> 01:08:44,040
Speaker 5: So anyway, we started, we're continuing to date long distance.

1428
01:08:44,160 --> 01:08:47,360
Speaker 5: He's in New York, I'm in LA. I'm being a

1429
01:08:47,400 --> 01:08:49,080
Speaker 5: dumb bitch and so I have a really good job

1430
01:08:49,080 --> 01:08:51,439
Speaker 5: at the time, so I'm flying him out to LA.

1431
01:08:51,680 --> 01:08:55,000
Speaker 5: He got no funds, but he had a big old dick,

1432
01:08:55,840 --> 01:08:58,559
Speaker 5: big old dick. You're kings, you know what I'm saying.

1433
01:09:00,040 --> 01:09:02,600
Speaker 1: Oh listen, I'm a short nigga advocate. I always say that,

1434
01:09:02,760 --> 01:09:05,160
Speaker 1: like they be little and big at the same time.

1435
01:09:05,280 --> 01:09:07,240
Speaker 4: Okay, not Avidge.

1436
01:09:07,280 --> 01:09:10,479
Speaker 5: Anyway, you know, he because we were long distance, there's

1437
01:09:10,479 --> 01:09:12,880
Speaker 5: a level of trust that you have to have. And

1438
01:09:13,479 --> 01:09:15,360
Speaker 5: he was always telling me like he had his best friend.

1439
01:09:15,360 --> 01:09:19,720
Speaker 5: He had this best friend but she only had one arm,

1440
01:09:19,800 --> 01:09:22,200
Speaker 5: so she was handicapped. And he was like, you know,

1441
01:09:22,280 --> 01:09:25,400
Speaker 5: I'm hanging out with Andrea, and so he was like.

1442
01:09:26,000 --> 01:09:32,360
Speaker 2: Very he was really adamant about like this is like

1443
01:09:32,439 --> 01:09:33,840
Speaker 2: my best friend from childhood.

1444
01:09:33,880 --> 01:09:35,840
Speaker 5: I never and my stupid ass, I never asked for

1445
01:09:35,880 --> 01:09:37,920
Speaker 5: no pictures. This was before like social media too, Like

1446
01:09:37,960 --> 01:09:40,400
Speaker 5: we Instagram wasn't really big. I think I don't even

1447
01:09:40,439 --> 01:09:43,680
Speaker 5: think I had joined Instagram yet at this point, so

1448
01:09:43,760 --> 01:09:46,519
Speaker 5: I'm like, okay, yeah, sure, I mean cause I had

1449
01:09:46,560 --> 01:09:49,320
Speaker 5: male I had male friends as well, and in the past,

1450
01:09:49,320 --> 01:09:51,160
Speaker 5: like I had been in relationships where men had like

1451
01:09:51,280 --> 01:09:53,360
Speaker 5: really are boys, I would say I had really like

1452
01:09:53,439 --> 01:09:56,920
Speaker 5: had taken issue with my male friendships. And so he wasn't.

1453
01:09:56,960 --> 01:09:58,800
Speaker 5: So I was not going to ruffle no feathers because

1454
01:09:58,800 --> 01:10:00,559
Speaker 5: I was like, yeah, they could go ahead, have your friend.

1455
01:10:00,600 --> 01:10:04,800
Speaker 5: I have my friend. We're cool. Long story short, I

1456
01:10:04,800 --> 01:10:07,080
Speaker 5: get an email one day from a bitch named Andrea

1457
01:10:07,560 --> 01:10:08,440
Speaker 5: talking about.

1458
01:10:09,720 --> 01:10:10,560
Speaker 2: Talking about.

1459
01:10:11,880 --> 01:10:16,519
Speaker 5: Talking about I heard I found out that you are

1460
01:10:16,600 --> 01:10:19,040
Speaker 5: seeing my my man and I was like, who is

1461
01:10:19,080 --> 01:10:22,120
Speaker 5: your man? And she told me it was this nigga.

1462
01:10:22,200 --> 01:10:25,360
Speaker 5: And I said, let me ask you a question. Do

1463
01:10:25,439 --> 01:10:26,200
Speaker 5: you have one arm?

1464
01:10:28,320 --> 01:10:28,960
Speaker 3: That's all I.

1465
01:10:28,840 --> 01:10:31,200
Speaker 4: Want to fucking know. Over there.

1466
01:10:33,479 --> 01:10:39,880
Speaker 5: Her strong hand, she said, bitch, what are you talking about? No,

1467
01:10:41,479 --> 01:10:44,400
Speaker 5: but then she said do you have one arm? Because

1468
01:10:44,439 --> 01:10:47,400
Speaker 5: he had also told her that he had a friend

1469
01:10:47,439 --> 01:10:50,160
Speaker 5: in La with one arm that he goes and visits

1470
01:10:50,280 --> 01:10:53,240
Speaker 5: is his best friend from back in the day. And

1471
01:10:53,280 --> 01:10:57,479
Speaker 5: I only got one bitch. So so then I was like, Okay,

1472
01:10:58,720 --> 01:11:00,960
Speaker 5: that's crazy. But also I have one final question, is

1473
01:11:01,320 --> 01:11:06,120
Speaker 5: Is this him? Are these his pictures? Is he a model? No, bitch,

1474
01:11:06,280 --> 01:11:08,000
Speaker 5: this was not him in any of the pictures. So

1475
01:11:08,160 --> 01:11:11,400
Speaker 5: I was basically just dating a whole lie, just fucking

1476
01:11:11,520 --> 01:11:13,120
Speaker 5: not a model that I thought he was. I was

1477
01:11:13,160 --> 01:11:14,800
Speaker 5: really thinking like he was gonna make it out of

1478
01:11:14,960 --> 01:11:17,600
Speaker 5: like the Child Africa scheme he was in, and he

1479
01:11:17,640 --> 01:11:20,760
Speaker 5: was going to be a top model, and also that

1480
01:11:20,840 --> 01:11:22,800
Speaker 5: he was just loyal to me, and he was just

1481
01:11:22,880 --> 01:11:26,599
Speaker 5: so kind. He had this one arm bestie, and come

1482
01:11:26,640 --> 01:11:29,559
Speaker 5: to find out, we both were handicapped. Bitch. Okay, so

1483
01:11:29,640 --> 01:11:33,320
Speaker 5: that's my dumb bitch story. And that went on.

1484
01:11:33,960 --> 01:11:35,519
Speaker 4: Was with him for a year. That was a year

1485
01:11:35,560 --> 01:11:38,120
Speaker 4: of my life, y'all. And then he proposed. Oh then

1486
01:11:38,160 --> 01:11:38,479
Speaker 4: he dang.

1487
01:11:38,600 --> 01:11:41,120
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, he did propose to me one day one

1488
01:11:41,160 --> 01:11:43,519
Speaker 5: time when I flew him to LA we had sex

1489
01:11:43,560 --> 01:11:47,320
Speaker 5: on my friend's couch and while he was inside of me,

1490
01:11:48,160 --> 01:11:51,719
Speaker 5: he pulled out the tiniest diamond ring I've ever seen,

1491
01:11:56,760 --> 01:12:01,440
Speaker 5: and I said yes. So that adds to the dumb bitchness.

1492
01:12:04,760 --> 01:12:06,840
Speaker 2: Oh dumb, Sorry.

1493
01:12:06,600 --> 01:12:07,120
Speaker 5: We had that.

1494
01:12:07,360 --> 01:12:13,080
Speaker 3: I feel like.

1495
01:12:12,120 --> 01:12:12,360
Speaker 4: Girl.

1496
01:12:12,360 --> 01:12:15,720
Speaker 5: I still got the ring too. I never gave that

1497
01:12:15,760 --> 01:12:18,639
Speaker 5: bitch back because it costs about probably forty two dollars.

1498
01:12:19,200 --> 01:12:21,360
Speaker 2: Oh goodness in love.

1499
01:12:22,040 --> 01:12:23,519
Speaker 5: I don't know if I could every now and then

1500
01:12:23,520 --> 01:12:25,479
Speaker 5: I go check on him on his Instagram, see what

1501
01:12:25,520 --> 01:12:28,640
Speaker 5: he's up to. Still fucking lying and scheming, trying to

1502
01:12:28,640 --> 01:12:30,519
Speaker 5: be a singer, rapper or some shit.

1503
01:12:30,560 --> 01:12:31,080
Speaker 4: I don't know.

1504
01:12:33,840 --> 01:12:34,439
Speaker 2: What's yours.

1505
01:12:36,920 --> 01:12:38,840
Speaker 4: I can't. I want to say, did I do this?

1506
01:12:39,040 --> 01:12:41,320
Speaker 4: That's some pretty dumb bitch shit, Like Erica probably does

1507
01:12:41,320 --> 01:12:42,800
Speaker 4: my dumb shit better than me, because I.

1508
01:12:42,720 --> 01:12:47,920
Speaker 5: Can think of one in particular. Actually, okay, the dog,

1509
01:12:48,200 --> 01:12:52,840
Speaker 5: I near gonna say that. Okay, it wasn't that bad.

1510
01:12:52,960 --> 01:12:57,000
Speaker 4: But one time I really needed to get an apartment

1511
01:12:57,160 --> 01:12:59,599
Speaker 4: and my credit wasn't good, so I needed to scheme

1512
01:12:59,640 --> 01:13:02,640
Speaker 4: into So my homegirl was like, call this guy. He

1513
01:13:02,680 --> 01:13:05,559
Speaker 4: could hook you up. He's gonna do X, Y and Z.

1514
01:13:06,200 --> 01:13:09,320
Speaker 4: So I was like, okay, call the guy, pay him

1515
01:13:09,360 --> 01:13:12,960
Speaker 4: his little five hundred. So I think I got the apartment.

1516
01:13:13,000 --> 01:13:14,839
Speaker 4: I think I had like some kind of Stockholm syndrome

1517
01:13:14,880 --> 01:13:16,479
Speaker 4: because I was like, oh my god, he got me

1518
01:13:16,520 --> 01:13:19,040
Speaker 4: this apartment. I was really struggling before, like thank god.

1519
01:13:19,160 --> 01:13:20,960
Speaker 4: So like he had a real deep voice and I

1520
01:13:21,040 --> 01:13:23,599
Speaker 4: was like, where are you from, like you know, trying

1521
01:13:23,880 --> 01:13:26,280
Speaker 4: start a conversation with the niggas doing the scheming because

1522
01:13:26,320 --> 01:13:30,120
Speaker 4: I'm stupid, I'm a cancer. I'm like, oh my god,

1523
01:13:31,280 --> 01:13:33,400
Speaker 4: we gonna love each other. And then one day he

1524
01:13:33,560 --> 01:13:36,000
Speaker 4: facetied me. He had this big old smile, got freckles,

1525
01:13:36,040 --> 01:13:37,280
Speaker 4: kind of light skinned. I was like, oh my guy,

1526
01:13:37,280 --> 01:13:41,000
Speaker 4: he's gotta fine. I was like Erica, Erica, the man

1527
01:13:41,040 --> 01:13:44,080
Speaker 4: who helped me with the with the stuff. He's fine.

1528
01:13:44,520 --> 01:13:46,000
Speaker 4: So I was like all giddy. I was like, you know,

1529
01:13:46,000 --> 01:13:47,680
Speaker 4: you said you want to come to La, Like you

1530
01:13:47,680 --> 01:13:51,160
Speaker 4: should come out and visit me. Like yeah, So he

1531
01:13:51,720 --> 01:13:56,559
Speaker 4: comes to La and then he he gets up the car.

1532
01:13:56,680 --> 01:13:59,600
Speaker 4: He's like this big He's with a.

1533
01:13:59,600 --> 01:14:02,760
Speaker 5: Big old head and a little body. He looked like

1534
01:14:02,760 --> 01:14:04,400
Speaker 5: a big nigga, you know how like big niggas got

1535
01:14:04,400 --> 01:14:06,640
Speaker 5: big heads, like on the FaceTime. He looked like he

1536
01:14:06,680 --> 01:14:08,000
Speaker 5: could be around six feet tall.

1537
01:14:08,680 --> 01:14:10,920
Speaker 4: So then erics like, you can't fuck him, Like if

1538
01:14:10,960 --> 01:14:13,280
Speaker 4: you all have a baby, it's gonna be too little.

1539
01:14:15,920 --> 01:14:18,920
Speaker 4: I was like, shut up. But to make matters worse,

1540
01:14:19,080 --> 01:14:22,479
Speaker 4: he came down. He did have a big ass dog

1541
01:14:22,880 --> 01:14:24,240
Speaker 4: and let him and the dog come.

1542
01:14:25,120 --> 01:14:26,320
Speaker 3: He brought a dog with him.

1543
01:14:26,800 --> 01:14:31,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, and on top of it, he was a Muslim,

1544
01:14:31,520 --> 01:14:33,360
Speaker 4: so he was one of those niggas. One time we

1545
01:14:33,360 --> 01:14:35,120
Speaker 4: had a conversation and he was like, yeah, you know,

1546
01:14:35,200 --> 01:14:37,519
Speaker 4: I don't know the word of the Muslims. Like if

1547
01:14:37,560 --> 01:14:39,559
Speaker 4: my brother, if I go to my brother's house, my

1548
01:14:39,640 --> 01:14:41,400
Speaker 4: e hum or, whatever the fuck they be calling each

1549
01:14:41,439 --> 01:14:45,280
Speaker 4: other and his wife goes in the back room. I said,

1550
01:14:45,320 --> 01:14:48,679
Speaker 4: like a dog, like we're talking about in her house.

1551
01:14:48,760 --> 01:14:50,920
Speaker 4: If you come over, she goes in the back room,

1552
01:14:50,960 --> 01:14:52,839
Speaker 4: so you don't have to speak, I said, oh, nigga.

1553
01:14:52,920 --> 01:14:54,800
Speaker 4: So then I had this complex I'm and he like

1554
01:14:54,840 --> 01:14:57,760
Speaker 4: really did love horse, So he would like talk like salaciously,

1555
01:14:57,920 --> 01:15:00,200
Speaker 4: But then I also be talking this Muslim shit, and

1556
01:15:00,200 --> 01:15:02,000
Speaker 4: then I would like sit there and watch fary con

1557
01:15:02,680 --> 01:15:06,440
Speaker 4: fhary Con documentaries with him and be like yeah, I understand,

1558
01:15:09,000 --> 01:15:11,520
Speaker 4: and then I let him kind of move in basically,

1559
01:15:13,120 --> 01:15:13,679
Speaker 4: but wait.

1560
01:15:13,520 --> 01:15:15,280
Speaker 5: But why what kind of sex were you having that

1561
01:15:15,320 --> 01:15:16,479
Speaker 5: he was mind fucking you with?

1562
01:15:16,800 --> 01:15:18,320
Speaker 4: But wait, what kind of sex are you having?

1563
01:15:18,360 --> 01:15:21,360
Speaker 5: Oh you don't remember, No, you guys were having like

1564
01:15:21,400 --> 01:15:23,559
Speaker 5: you guys were role playing like trigger warning.

1565
01:15:24,240 --> 01:15:31,880
Speaker 7: No bitch, wait, hold up, hold on, now I don't

1566
01:15:31,880 --> 01:15:34,719
Speaker 7: remember tell it.

1567
01:15:34,880 --> 01:15:39,599
Speaker 5: Wait, there's gotta you gotta do. She was long story short,

1568
01:15:39,680 --> 01:15:42,840
Speaker 5: she was digmatized. Okay, there was something going on sexually

1569
01:15:42,920 --> 01:15:44,240
Speaker 5: that had her digmatized.

1570
01:15:44,479 --> 01:15:49,160
Speaker 4: Not trigger warning, bitch, oh my god. But then he

1571
01:15:49,280 --> 01:15:51,240
Speaker 4: was like mind fucking me, Like he wasn't eating my

1572
01:15:51,320 --> 01:15:53,519
Speaker 4: he was like talking super sillatiously. But then he's like,

1573
01:15:53,640 --> 01:15:55,880
Speaker 4: wasn't eating my pussy? And like, my, nigga, like you've

1574
01:15:55,920 --> 01:15:57,680
Speaker 4: been You've been around here for a long time, Like

1575
01:15:57,800 --> 01:16:00,000
Speaker 4: I started to notice there was like a mind manipul

1576
01:16:00,080 --> 01:16:02,280
Speaker 4: and he would talk salaciously, but then like be like, oh,

1577
01:16:02,280 --> 01:16:04,120
Speaker 4: you're gonna wear that, and I'm like, nigga, you just

1578
01:16:04,120 --> 01:16:06,120
Speaker 4: tell me love hordes. I'm so confused. And like he

1579
01:16:06,120 --> 01:16:08,360
Speaker 4: would talk, he would use like those big jail words

1580
01:16:08,400 --> 01:16:12,559
Speaker 4: like under circumstantial understanding of spirituality, and I was like,

1581
01:16:13,560 --> 01:16:21,720
Speaker 4: you're so smart. Anyway, I let him move in and

1582
01:16:23,360 --> 01:16:27,360
Speaker 4: he was bipolar and he was having manic episodes occasionally,

1583
01:16:27,720 --> 01:16:29,880
Speaker 4: and then I told all my friends that it was

1584
01:16:29,920 --> 01:16:31,559
Speaker 4: over and that he had moved out and I'm not

1585
01:16:31,600 --> 01:16:34,200
Speaker 4: talking to him anymore. And then one time I was

1586
01:16:34,200 --> 01:16:36,120
Speaker 4: on the phone with Erica and I was like yeah,

1587
01:16:36,200 --> 01:16:37,799
Speaker 4: uh huh, and then all of a sudden, the background

1588
01:16:37,880 --> 01:16:40,720
Speaker 4: was like she was like, bitch, and I was like.

1589
01:16:47,040 --> 01:16:49,519
Speaker 4: She was like, is that fucking man and that fucking

1590
01:16:49,560 --> 01:16:53,120
Speaker 4: dog over there? And I was like, huh, I'll call

1591
01:16:53,160 --> 01:16:54,800
Speaker 4: you back. And I was like, what the fuck did

1592
01:16:54,920 --> 01:17:01,280
Speaker 4: you shut the dog up? Nigga? I told you no, man.

1593
01:17:01,520 --> 01:17:03,080
Speaker 3: Not going to see a man with a whorse a

1594
01:17:03,120 --> 01:17:03,800
Speaker 3: man with a dog.

1595
01:17:04,479 --> 01:17:08,200
Speaker 4: And then I continued the ridiculous relationship until one day

1596
01:17:08,200 --> 01:17:11,200
Speaker 4: he slapped me in my face and I was like, oh,

1597
01:17:11,240 --> 01:17:13,120
Speaker 4: god's really trying to try me right now, Like are

1598
01:17:13,160 --> 01:17:15,439
Speaker 4: you a real dumb bitch? And then like Erica was

1599
01:17:15,479 --> 01:17:16,960
Speaker 4: like just picking me up and I got in the

1600
01:17:17,000 --> 01:17:20,000
Speaker 4: car and she was like what's wrong? And I was like, he.

1601
01:17:22,760 --> 01:17:24,200
Speaker 3: Was conditioning you the whole time.

1602
01:17:24,240 --> 01:17:26,720
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, like hardcore. I was like totally unattached. And

1603
01:17:26,720 --> 01:17:29,800
Speaker 4: then it switched and then I was acting nuts. She

1604
01:17:30,000 --> 01:17:31,880
Speaker 4: was like a like on crack. She was like a

1605
01:17:31,880 --> 01:17:35,320
Speaker 4: crackhead for this dick, okay, crack stot status.

1606
01:17:36,240 --> 01:17:38,240
Speaker 2: It was what the trigger warning was?

1607
01:17:38,920 --> 01:17:41,000
Speaker 4: I think was it like was it like rape play?

1608
01:17:41,080 --> 01:17:43,160
Speaker 4: Is that what it was? Okay, I don't even remember that.

1609
01:17:43,200 --> 01:17:46,040
Speaker 4: I've blocked it out, but yeah, I'm pretty I like

1610
01:17:46,720 --> 01:17:48,559
Speaker 4: for someone to take it a little bit. So maybe

1611
01:17:48,560 --> 01:17:53,080
Speaker 4: he went all the way, yeah a bit. Yeah, he's

1612
01:17:53,080 --> 01:17:56,760
Speaker 4: like choking ed this whole. This is.

1613
01:17:59,320 --> 01:18:02,400
Speaker 1: Like I want to planned one, like plan it, Like, yeah,

1614
01:18:02,400 --> 01:18:03,799
Speaker 1: it's planned, it was planned.

1615
01:18:04,600 --> 01:18:07,160
Speaker 4: I was like, it was consensual, non consensual. It's that's

1616
01:18:07,200 --> 01:18:09,760
Speaker 4: a real word in the kink, consensual, non consensual. So

1617
01:18:09,840 --> 01:18:12,599
Speaker 4: I was really into that he was. He was an Okay,

1618
01:18:12,640 --> 01:18:14,559
Speaker 4: this is the thing aj those short niggas, And this

1619
01:18:14,600 --> 01:18:17,240
Speaker 4: is where all the ladies listening. Those short niggas do

1620
01:18:17,280 --> 01:18:21,639
Speaker 4: be packing sometimes okay sometimes, but also with short niggas,

1621
01:18:21,640 --> 01:18:23,880
Speaker 4: they've had to they've had to compensate for their height

1622
01:18:23,920 --> 01:18:26,240
Speaker 4: their whole life, so they come with a lot of

1623
01:18:27,800 --> 01:18:31,160
Speaker 4: buried testosterone that comes out unhealthy. So they might slap you.

1624
01:18:31,320 --> 01:18:33,400
Speaker 4: They're going to mind fuck you, and they probably have

1625
01:18:33,439 --> 01:18:36,679
Speaker 4: really worked on their their their talking and their sex

1626
01:18:36,760 --> 01:18:39,559
Speaker 4: game really good because that's how they brain fuck you.

1627
01:18:40,160 --> 01:18:42,000
Speaker 4: So if they come and have all this chemistry and

1628
01:18:42,000 --> 01:18:44,360
Speaker 4: they stare deep into your eyes, run, bitch, run, they're

1629
01:18:44,360 --> 01:18:45,840
Speaker 4: trying to mind fuck your brain.

1630
01:18:48,760 --> 01:18:52,720
Speaker 1: Mine used to drool on me. Imagine somebody drooling on

1631
01:18:52,760 --> 01:18:53,599
Speaker 1: you while you having sex.

1632
01:18:53,640 --> 01:18:58,280
Speaker 4: They just he would growl like and then he would

1633
01:18:58,320 --> 01:19:01,639
Speaker 4: do like he would do Arabic prayer like Mama, I'd

1634
01:19:01,800 --> 01:19:03,519
Speaker 4: like I'd be like, oh my god, he loved me

1635
01:19:03,560 --> 01:19:08,320
Speaker 4: so much. He made it was he was just like saying, oh,

1636
01:19:08,360 --> 01:19:10,080
Speaker 4: ba blah blah like I don't even know the words anymore,

1637
01:19:10,080 --> 01:19:11,720
Speaker 4: a blah blah like he would like pray after he

1638
01:19:11,760 --> 01:19:13,800
Speaker 4: fucked me. And I was like, it was like, that's

1639
01:19:13,800 --> 01:19:15,439
Speaker 4: why I don't really fuck with Kevin Gates because I

1640
01:19:15,439 --> 01:19:18,240
Speaker 4: see that same demon. Like there's like a similar there's

1641
01:19:18,240 --> 01:19:20,360
Speaker 4: like a sex demon that lives in like in like

1642
01:19:20,400 --> 01:19:22,880
Speaker 4: certain type of men where they act like they love

1643
01:19:22,920 --> 01:19:25,240
Speaker 4: the horrishness about you, but then they tried to do

1644
01:19:25,320 --> 01:19:27,599
Speaker 4: like some religious ship. They try to like use big words.

1645
01:19:29,280 --> 01:19:31,559
Speaker 1: I'm just so glad Draca left his ass because it's

1646
01:19:31,560 --> 01:19:33,880
Speaker 1: almost like he was starting to look like her, like

1647
01:19:34,000 --> 01:19:34,360
Speaker 1: he was.

1648
01:19:34,520 --> 01:19:37,599
Speaker 3: I can see that he was draining the fuck out her.

1649
01:19:38,280 --> 01:19:40,080
Speaker 4: Is that what happened to? Nigga started drading you, you start

1650
01:19:40,120 --> 01:19:43,600
Speaker 4: looking they started looking like start looking like I don't know,

1651
01:19:45,640 --> 01:19:49,080
Speaker 4: do they not look alike? Yeah? I'm happy too.

1652
01:19:49,240 --> 01:19:50,080
Speaker 2: She's beautiful.

1653
01:19:50,280 --> 01:19:53,479
Speaker 4: She's probably getting dicked down by healthy dick by now amen.

1654
01:19:54,280 --> 01:19:59,960
Speaker 2: Yeah today, all right, ladies, Yeah, this was so much fun.

1655
01:20:00,040 --> 01:20:03,120
Speaker 2: Y'all are so funny. Tell everybody where they can find you,

1656
01:20:03,160 --> 01:20:05,439
Speaker 2: plug all your things.

1657
01:20:05,920 --> 01:20:08,479
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1658
01:20:08,560 --> 01:20:12,200
Speaker 4: with an h underscore map with two p's follow the

1659
01:20:12,200 --> 01:20:14,840
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1660
01:20:14,880 --> 01:20:18,360
Speaker 4: international trips next year. If you have kids or a

1661
01:20:18,439 --> 01:20:20,080
Speaker 4: job and you need to put that shit down for

1662
01:20:20,120 --> 01:20:22,880
Speaker 4: a minute and find yourself and go hang out with

1663
01:20:22,920 --> 01:20:25,600
Speaker 4: some bad bitches and smoke weed and haul at the

1664
01:20:25,600 --> 01:20:28,160
Speaker 4: moon and think about your motherfucking self, this is the

1665
01:20:28,200 --> 01:20:34,080
Speaker 4: trip for you. It is just the best woman summer camp,

1666
01:20:34,439 --> 01:20:37,800
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1667
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1668
01:20:41,640 --> 01:20:43,360
Speaker 4: You don't have to smoke weed to come, but if

1669
01:20:43,400 --> 01:20:46,599
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1670
01:20:46,640 --> 01:20:48,320
Speaker 4: have to worry about shit at getting yourself there, and

1671
01:20:48,320 --> 01:20:50,120
Speaker 4: then we take care of everything after that.

1672
01:20:52,200 --> 01:20:54,679
Speaker 5: And make sure you follow us at Good Mom's Underscore

1673
01:20:54,680 --> 01:20:58,320
Speaker 5: Bad Choices on Instagram and listen to our podcast. If

1674
01:20:58,360 --> 01:21:01,919
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1675
01:21:02,400 --> 01:21:06,799
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1677
01:21:11,360 --> 01:21:12,559
Speaker 5: the Bible for moms.

1678
01:21:13,760 --> 01:21:15,439
Speaker 4: If you have a friend who's about to have a baby,

1679
01:21:15,800 --> 01:21:18,080
Speaker 4: and yeah, just give her that book too. That's a

1680
01:21:18,080 --> 01:21:19,080
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1681
01:21:20,160 --> 01:21:23,920
Speaker 2: Amen. All right, ladies, thank y'all so much. This is fun,

1682
01:21:23,960 --> 01:21:26,000
Speaker 2: and I'm definitely coming on the four to twenty trip.

1683
01:21:26,479 --> 01:21:28,000
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, come, I'm gonna send you all that.

1684
01:21:28,000 --> 01:21:31,680
Speaker 1: I'm gonna text you thenk right now, yeah really there,

1685
01:21:31,840 --> 01:21:33,880
Speaker 1: y'all be doing rituals, mammy.

1686
01:21:35,120 --> 01:21:37,880
Speaker 5: Yeah, and we have payment plans so you have months

1687
01:21:37,880 --> 01:21:40,320
Speaker 5: and months and months to make small payments so it

1688
01:21:40,320 --> 01:21:45,160
Speaker 5: doesn't feel so overwhelming. Come on, girls, Okay, I'm about

1689
01:21:45,160 --> 01:21:46,120
Speaker 5: to put the tech message.

1690
01:21:46,200 --> 01:21:48,479
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, all right, y'all.

1691
01:21:48,760 --> 01:21:51,320
Speaker 1: If y'all enjoyed this episode, y'all tune in every Thursday

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Speaker 2: Remember speak now, I.

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Speaker 4: Don't know never hold them never heard you forever, hold

1699
01:22:10,560 --> 01:22:11,599
Speaker 4: your peace forever.

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01:22:12,880 --> 01:22:13,880
Speaker 3: We kind of switched it up.

1701
01:22:13,880 --> 01:22:17,400
Speaker 2: A little bit, who's on or what we talk about.

1702
01:22:17,439 --> 01:22:20,599
Speaker 4: So never hold them.

1703
01:22:20,560 --> 01:22:22,760
Speaker 3: Bad choices speak.

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01:22:24,880 --> 01:22:26,040
Speaker 5: Forever hold them titties.

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