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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at advocates dot com.

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Speaker 2: Phebe is on the phone today for a first date

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Speaker 2: follow up, and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Thomas.

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Speaker 2: So in a few minutes, we're gonna call him and

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Speaker 2: see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and

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Speaker 2: maybe get her a second date if she still wants one.

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Speaker 2: But Evie, why do you think that Thomas is ghosting you?

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Speaker 1: You know, I'm not sure, but I'm thinking that he

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Speaker 1: may think that I'm a gold digger?

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Speaker 3: Okay, why you think that?

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Speaker 4: Okay? Well, so.

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Speaker 1: We had like what I thought. I thought it was

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Speaker 1: a really fun date. Like we met for coffee and

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Speaker 1: wandered around. We ended up just like walking through the mall,

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Speaker 1: and like, I don't know, I thought it was so good,

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Speaker 1: Like it was really flirty, and we like I don't know,

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Speaker 1: even kind of had a little makeout session.

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Speaker 5: And yeah, like which was fun. There was a lot

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Speaker 5: of chemistry and and then we you know, like stopped

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Speaker 5: in a Victoria's Secret and like I was on some.

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Speaker 1: Lingerie your first date.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, but we.

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Speaker 4: Were just like, oh my god, like what if we

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Speaker 4: go do this thing? Like that'd be fun, okay, and

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Speaker 4: like he like came in to like, you know, help

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Speaker 4: make sure it looked okay and fit wink wink, and

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Speaker 4: like we have a little makeout session and like the

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Speaker 4: dressing row like she's really cute.

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Speaker 7: Right yeah yeah, I mean that's kind of hot.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well, like okay, So I was like, Okay, this

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Speaker 1: is like going so well. But the reason why I

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Speaker 1: think that maybe he thinks I'm trying to be a

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Speaker 1: gold eyer and isn't like interested is because I know

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Speaker 1: he has a really good job. He makes good money,

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Speaker 1: and I was so like, I picked out this laundree

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Speaker 1: sept that was really cute that I wanted, and I

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Speaker 1: was totally going to buy it, but I complete, like

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Speaker 1: I left, I actually did leave my credit card at home,

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Speaker 1: and so he paid for her.

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Speaker 2: Oh you're thinking maybe he thought you were acting like

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Speaker 2: you left at her home just trying to get free stuff.

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, And so I like I want to you know,

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Speaker 1: be honest and like clear to the air and like

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Speaker 1: make sure he doesn't think that because I really liked

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Speaker 1: him and really liked her.

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Speaker 2: Date Evie is on the phone and she's getting ghosted

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Speaker 2: by a guy named Thomas. So we're about to call

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Speaker 2: him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting

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Speaker 2: her and maybe get her a second date. But first, Evie,

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Speaker 2: remind us again, why you think you might be getting ghosted?

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Speaker 1: I think I might be getting ghosted because I think

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Speaker 1: Thomas thinks I'm trying to be a gold digger, even.

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Speaker 4: Though I'm not. I promise.

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Speaker 1: We went to the mall, we walked around, I tried

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Speaker 1: all the lingerie and he ended up buying it for

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Speaker 1: me because I left my credit card at home.

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Speaker 2: Okay, and you think that he might think that was

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Speaker 2: just an excuse for you to get free up?

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Speaker 4: Correct?

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Speaker 3: All right? Well, are you ready for us to call him?

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Speaker 3: I am yeah, Okay, here we go.

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Speaker 6: Hello.

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Speaker 3: Hi, man speaking to Thomas please.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, this is him.

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Speaker 3: Hey Thomas, how are you? This is a radio show.

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Speaker 3: It's called The Jebel Show.

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Speaker 7: Hi Thomas.

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Speaker 3: I'm Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria and my name is Jewbell.

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Speaker 3: How are you?

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Speaker 6: Hey?

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Speaker 3: Hey?

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Speaker 6: Okay, Yeah, what's up?

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Speaker 4: Gus?

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Speaker 6: Why are you?

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Speaker 3: Have you ever heard of the show before?

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Speaker 6: I'm sorry no I haven't.

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Speaker 2: All right, that's cool, that's fine. You can check out

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Speaker 2: our podcast if you want to, where we get your podcast.

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Speaker 2: It's fine show.

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Speaker 3: That's all you got to do, you know.

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Speaker 2: But anyway, we're calling you today because we do a

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Speaker 2: segment on the show it's called the first Date follow Up.

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Speaker 2: That's where if you go out on a date with

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Speaker 2: somebody and you end up ghosting them, they can email

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Speaker 2: us to get you on the phone and ask why

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Speaker 2: you're ghosting them. And we got an email about you

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Speaker 2: from somebody.

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Speaker 6: Okay, that's awkward, but.

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Speaker 2: Do you know who would email us like, are you

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Speaker 2: ghosting somebody that you know?

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Speaker 8: Like, I mean, for are we on the radio right now? Yes,

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Speaker 8: I don't know, man, I don't it's weird to just

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Speaker 8: call me up.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean it. Well, you know, somebody really wants

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Speaker 2: to know why you won't call him back. They liked

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Speaker 2: you a lot. Her name is Evie.

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Speaker 6: And she called you.

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Speaker 2: Yes, she emailed us. We talked to her a little

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Speaker 2: bit about your date. She said it was about three

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Speaker 2: weeks ago. You haven't talked to her since, and she's

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Speaker 2: wondering if you will tell us.

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Speaker 4: All right, yeah, sure, yeah, I know Evie.

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Speaker 3: Okay, cools happened.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, so you know, we went to mal We were

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Speaker 9: flirting back and forth and you know, we went to

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Speaker 9: the Victoria's Secret and she tried some lingerie.

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Speaker 3: I bought it for you know, yeah, she she told

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Speaker 3: us about that.

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Speaker 2: She thinks that you might be ghosting her because she

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Speaker 2: had you pay for it. You might think she's a

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Speaker 2: gold digger.

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Speaker 4: You know.

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Speaker 9: I honestly, guys, I didn't care about buying the lingerie.

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Speaker 9: And I'm embarrassed to say, yeah, I am kind of

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Speaker 9: ghosting her, but buying the lingerie that was kind of

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Speaker 9: part of the plan.

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Speaker 3: What do you mean?

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Speaker 6: This is so okay?

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Speaker 9: So I set up the date in the whole situation

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Speaker 9: because my ex works across from that victoria Secret, and

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Speaker 9: I thought of if she saw me with another woman

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Speaker 9: buying her lingerie and.

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Speaker 6: Might make her jealous. And we start talking again.

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Speaker 2: Whole situation up just to see if your ex would

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Speaker 2: see you guys there.

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Speaker 6: I mean, you know, it works and me and my

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Speaker 2: What hey, Thomas, that's Eve. She's actually on the phone

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Speaker 2: listening and wants to talk to you.

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Speaker 9: Okay, Well, I assumed there was some kind of scheme

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Speaker 9: going on here because the radio called.

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Speaker 3: Me if it's a scheme, But.

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Speaker 9: I mean it's a lot of times like I'm being

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Speaker 9: trapped for something people can't.

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Speaker 4: You're being trapped for a lying to me and using me.

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Speaker 6: I haven't you. I don't know why you talked them

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Speaker 6: to the radio. I haven't got back to you.

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Speaker 9: I don't know what you would bring these people in that.

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Speaker 4: I don't know. Why is he being so defensive? This

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Speaker 4: is insane? Did you guys hear what he just say?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, because I'm kind of surprised.

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Speaker 7: Man, you buy a woman lingerie that's an intimate thing,

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Speaker 7: and then just to disappear after you got to experience

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Speaker 7: the lingerie in a dressing room. I think at the

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Speaker 7: very very least you can be like, sorry, I'm back

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Speaker 7: together with my X now now that I just saw

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Speaker 7: you in lingerie and bought it for you, like that's

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Speaker 7: an intimate doesn't.

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Speaker 4: Do what I'm doing.

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Speaker 6: You you want a radio station?

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Speaker 3: Call me for no reason?

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Speaker 6: You want me to buy you some lingerie too?

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Speaker 3: Got no about my own? Thank you?

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Speaker 1: Well, now I realize that you're actually a horrible person,

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Speaker 1: and you know what, You call.

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Speaker 9: The RAO to talk to somebody who didn't even try

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Speaker 9: to talk back to you.

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Speaker 6: What are you talking about? Horrible person?

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Speaker 7: You're the crazy one that tried to set up your ex.

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Speaker 7: What in the world.

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Speaker 9: Okay, yeah, what in the world you guys are all

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Speaker 9: together doing this little scheme.

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Speaker 6: And that I don't know you.

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Speaker 9: I'm the only person I know is Evie, and I

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Speaker 9: got four people talking to me about somebody I wasn't.

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Speaker 3: Trying to talk to. All Right, Evie, you take the care.

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Speaker 4: Uh.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I'm like, I'm frankly so shocked by list that,

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Speaker 1: Like that is insane. I thought we had a really

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Speaker 1: that this entire thing was just a scheme to get

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Speaker 4: Like that is so messed up.

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Speaker 1: To do that to me and to do that to her,

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Speaker 1: Like somebody needs to save this girl from you.

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Speaker 6: Somebody needs to save to you what.

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Speaker 9: Somebody needs to save you? A guy didn't call you

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Speaker 7: Wow, even you did get saved without having to deal

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Speaker 1: Uh yeah, I mean I definitely got my answer. You

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Speaker 1: are a fool, and I'm so glad that I never

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Speaker 4: So actually, thank you for doing that.

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Speaker 3: I really hope I have to ask, uh Thomas, we'll

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Speaker 3: pay for it?

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Speaker 6: I don't need I don't know. I don't need any

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Speaker 6: connection to you guys.

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Speaker 9: I don't need any connection to her. I don't I

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Speaker 9: don't need your money. I could buy her lunge right,

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Speaker 9: I could pay for a date. I could buy all

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Speaker 9: your crew launch right.

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Speaker 4: I don't know. I don't know this.

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Speaker 6: You know you guys called me.

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Speaker 9: All this, and I know this didn't work out the

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Speaker 9: way you guys planned. And I was trying to be

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Speaker 9: But the only one who whose plan worked out was mine.

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Speaker 6: That I did what I had to do to get

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Speaker 3: We're back together.

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Speaker 6: We're happy now.

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Speaker 9: I'm sorry that your your but hurt about that, and

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Speaker 9: I'm sorry that we're wasting these people's time.

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Speaker 1: You know what, Thomas, you haven't heard the last of

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Speaker 1: me from this moment on for the rest of your life.

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Speaker 4: You better look over your.

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Speaker 1: Shoulder when you're sleeping. You better have one eye open

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Speaker 1: when you got to work.

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Speaker 4: You better look in the rear view mirror when you're

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Speaker 4: making sweet, sweet love to your precious girlfriends.

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Speaker 1: You never know when I'm gonna pop up, And trust me, Thomas,

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Speaker 1: I will pop up the wrong.

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Speaker 6: Girl hung up, So I guess she's not going anywhere.

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Speaker 4: You will first date,