Speaker 1: Quorrow with me here. You know BT's so low. Shout
Speaker 1: Oct no color? What we see? Who getting in the bathing?
Speaker 1: Oh you can't stand on it on SUSI, I already
Speaker 1: know he can't ball with me because you have with
Speaker 1: a squad of me. They're getting They called me Baller Alert.
Speaker 1: Welcome to the Baller Alert Show podcast. This is Oct
Speaker 1: You know, damn, that's your dance. You know, hey, y'all,
Speaker 1: bar your bestie, sus Solos, your boy BT. I don't
Speaker 1: lose the energy now it's your boy person. Definitely. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: Ferrari's on vacation, but we're gonna hold it down. You
Speaker 1: always saying somebody on vacation, on vacation, thinking of vacation.
Speaker 1: How was your birthday, Sine Solo with your hennisy glasses on? Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm still trying to recover. It was nice and chill.
Speaker 1: I really wasn't feeling too fassive. Um Sunday was the
Speaker 1: forty days celebration of life or might get one, So
Speaker 1: it was just I'm just not feeling very festive. But
Speaker 1: I did have a great time at the house last night.
Speaker 1: My friends came over. Grace Madeline Solemn Kenesia justin and
Speaker 1: we had a ball. We have peopall. We had a
Speaker 1: ball that was more of my vibe. I didn't want
Speaker 1: to be on a flyer standing on somebody. I'm tired,
Speaker 1: Like I'm tired. I was supposed to do a party
Speaker 1: with BT. Yeah, I'm sorry, but I'm just not in
Speaker 1: the festival. So and that's okay. Yeah, but shout outs
Speaker 1: all the areas. You know, we still run it. It
Speaker 1: isn't but it is. I don't know about that, you know, Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: shout out to their Yeah, thank you. It's about to
Speaker 1: get hot outside, you know. So the Leo's about to
Speaker 1: start coming outside, the leos, the leos, you got jokes today,
Speaker 1: I'm well rested. Well, you said something about the forty
Speaker 1: days of mourning, So, um, I know they knew something
Speaker 1: like this in Europe. Um, how is that in your culture?
Speaker 1: So we are Orthodox christian Um typically the majority of us,
Speaker 1: and we have something that we call a hasin, which
Speaker 1: is basically a gathering of the community as soon as
Speaker 1: someone passes away, and it's generally for seven or ten days,
Speaker 1: but then we all come back together at the forty
Speaker 1: days and it's really just like a a check in.
Speaker 1: You know, it's really just to you know, bring the
Speaker 1: community back together, see how everyone's doing, and remind ourselves that,
Speaker 1: you know, this person is still a part of us,
Speaker 1: even though they may not be here physically. You know,
Speaker 1: we love this person. So we all gathered at the
Speaker 1: Eritrean Community Center here in Atlanta and we ate. You know,
Speaker 1: we shared stories, we looked at pictures, and it was
Speaker 1: more of a celebration than it was morning. You know,
Speaker 1: why does the actual funeral happen or the burial that
Speaker 1: happens right away. It's usually within the first week. Okay, Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's ceremony for to forty days, yes, okay, yeah, we're
Speaker 1: gonna I know, there are gonna be some other things planned,
Speaker 1: you know, my stones, his fiftieth birthday, things like that.
Speaker 1: But it's really important in our culture to keep that
Speaker 1: person's legacy alive, especially Mike. I mean, he's an Eritrean
Speaker 1: man that broke a lot of barriers. He dared to
Speaker 1: dream Differently, he comes from a small village in Eritrea
Speaker 1: and was really able to grow an empire. So he
Speaker 1: is legendary. I hope to get justice too. He deserves justice.
Speaker 1: He definitely deserves justice, and I hope he gets that.
Speaker 1: The reward is up to two hundred and fifty thousand dollars.
Speaker 1: So if anyone knows the whereabouts of Mike get One's
Speaker 1: murderer Soto, feel free to share those details, and if
Speaker 1: it leads to his arrest, the reward money is yours.
Speaker 1: So many crazy things have happened and it hasn't stopped.
Speaker 1: We're gonna get into in case you missed it, get
Speaker 1: into some words before we move on. Rest in Heaven
Speaker 1: to Clay as well. You know, at just lost someone
Speaker 1: else that's extremely legendary and important music industry. Clay is
Speaker 1: that man. If you've ever had a moment to be
Speaker 1: you may not have liked him at first. You may
Speaker 1: have thought he was arrogant an asshole, but then like
Speaker 1: two seconds later, he'll turn around and flip the conversation
Speaker 1: with a smile, make you laugh like he was a
Speaker 1: charming asshole. But he was necessary to the music industry.
Speaker 1: I think he mentored so many people worked with Grand Hustle.
Speaker 1: There's there's so many people coming out talking about the
Speaker 1: ways that Clay helped them that I of course wasn't
Speaker 1: aware of. But it makes you realize how big of
Speaker 1: an instrument he was to Atlanta, to music, to fashion.
Speaker 1: So Atlanta took another hard hit in twenty twenty three.
Speaker 1: But it is beautiful to see the community come together
Speaker 1: and celebrate love. For sure. Yeah, her hits do not stop.
Speaker 1: In case you missed it, Unfortunately, condolences to the hundreds
Speaker 1: of families affected. In Nashville, twenty eight year old former
Speaker 1: student and mass shooter Audrey Elizabeth Hale went crazy. She
Speaker 1: is responsible for murdering six people total at the Covenant School,
Speaker 1: which is a Presbyterian private school in the Green Hills area.
Speaker 1: Three of them were nine year old children. The other
Speaker 1: three murdered were adults said to be in their sixties.
Speaker 1: I still don't understand the motive, but apparently, you know
Speaker 1: her being a former student, she had resentment for having
Speaker 1: to go to school. The story is still developing at
Speaker 1: this time, so I don't really know everything about it,
Speaker 1: but we know that she's transgender, and they're saying that
Speaker 1: maybe that has something to do with it. Again, the
Speaker 1: pieces are still coming together. Maybe she knew that she
Speaker 1: wanted to be transgender at that young of an age
Speaker 1: and was teased. I really don't know what would drive
Speaker 1: a person to go to any school and kill innocent
Speaker 1: children or adults or just innocent people anywhere in the world. Like,
Speaker 1: I don't know what would drive her to do that.
Speaker 1: And it's it's sad. I mean, it's just really kind
Speaker 1: of like, you know, a touchy situation because you know,
Speaker 1: we can't keep blaming mental health for people, you know,
Speaker 1: killing innocent people. We can't keep blaming because this person's
Speaker 1: sexuality is this some people are just fucking evil, man, Like,
Speaker 1: it's just evil people out in this world. And you know,
Speaker 1: we just got to stop blaming everything on mental health
Speaker 1: because some people are just pure evil and for somebody
Speaker 1: to do something like that, it's pure evil. And I mean,
Speaker 1: you know, we gotta do something about this gun law.
Speaker 1: You know, I know, the president only has so much
Speaker 1: that he could do. I know, he can try to
Speaker 1: encourage everyone, but you know, nobody should be going out
Speaker 1: buying assault rifles. You know, in my opinion, you know,
Speaker 1: I understand people having handguns and nine millimeters and stuff
Speaker 1: like that to protect themselves, but nobody should be out
Speaker 1: buying assault rifles that can kill fifty people, you know,
Speaker 1: in five minutes. Like, you know, we ought to do
Speaker 1: something about that. And you know, I hope you know
Speaker 1: whoever is in control of making the laws in Tennessee,
Speaker 1: which y'all might not care. You know, I don't know
Speaker 1: how many mass shootings have to continue happening for people
Speaker 1: to understand that the problem is people that are evil
Speaker 1: are able to access military rifles that can cause a
Speaker 1: lot of harm. And you know what I mean, I'm
Speaker 1: just I'm just sick of seeing it. But you know what,
Speaker 1: you can't gauge that, like when somebody is going to
Speaker 1: apply for a gun license or buy a gun, you
Speaker 1: can't decide in that moment whether they're evil psychotic like you.
Speaker 1: But that's why we should just ban it, Like you
Speaker 1: should just ban you should not be able to go
Speaker 1: buy an assault rifle anywhere in the US. I mean
Speaker 1: you would have to say any gun at that point,
Speaker 1: because they can still accomplish the same murders with any
Speaker 1: type of gun. And that I don't believe. But I
Speaker 1: don't believe that guns should be banned. I don't. I
Speaker 1: don't believe guns should ben I'm just saying, and military
Speaker 1: rifles that could literally kill a lot of people and
Speaker 1: dozens at one time. It's like you don't need all
Speaker 1: that you know, you don't you know, and you ain't
Speaker 1: taking out no military anywhere oneself and your salt work.
Speaker 1: You know how easy it is to buy a gun,
Speaker 1: they screen you more to go get an apartment, to house,
Speaker 1: to buy a house. I'm curious about like the psyche,
Speaker 1: Like what is running through your mind to say, like, like,
Speaker 1: what does her being transgender have to do with her
Speaker 1: going to her old school and killing children that did
Speaker 1: not go to school or at random? At random? We're
Speaker 1: not responsible for you being potentially bullied. They don't know
Speaker 1: you at all, So what is going on in your
Speaker 1: brain to trigger you into doing that? You would think
Speaker 1: that you would go find the kids that taunted you
Speaker 1: in school instead of going to I just I can't
Speaker 1: wrap my head around it. So I need to know
Speaker 1: what the hell was going through this girl's mind or
Speaker 1: we will never know because you want me took her out?
Speaker 1: Ye out of there? Oh I almost say something evil?
Speaker 1: My damn self man. Speaking of the evil acts, Brittany
Speaker 1: Taylor from Love and Hip Hop New York has been
Speaker 1: arrested for allegedly assaulting her kid's father with the baseball bat.
Speaker 1: Now apparently, and this is coming from tmz UM. As
Speaker 1: he and his mom were leaving her apartment with the kids,
Speaker 1: Brittany allegedly said something to him in which he ignored
Speaker 1: and um that set her off. According to tim Z
Speaker 1: and their sources, Uh, Brittany then punched him in the
Speaker 1: face while the kids were present. I fez I believe
Speaker 1: is that how you saying? I fez her baby daddy? Sure?
Speaker 1: Her baby daddy then left the residence, but the cops
Speaker 1: say Brittany followed him and out with the bat and
Speaker 1: she began hitting him, leaving him with a lot of
Speaker 1: knots on his face. But now she went on had
Speaker 1: a post that I want to hear you guys opinion
Speaker 1: about this her speaking out about his domestic violence. She said,
Speaker 1: this Nigerian man has been beating her for years and
Speaker 1: he feels like women should obey their men and if
Speaker 1: they talk back, they should be hit. That's what she said.
Speaker 1: That's what she posted. That's sad, man, because it's like,
Speaker 1: you know, some things you just gotta keep off the
Speaker 1: internet because at the end of the day, I don't
Speaker 1: know how old their kids are, but whatever lives on
Speaker 1: the internet is forever. They're their babies. The one is
Speaker 1: a baby, and I believe the other is like a toddler.
Speaker 1: But it's wrong. Is wrong. But a lot of people
Speaker 1: in the comments are going in about her saying that
Speaker 1: he is Nigerian and that should mean something, right, Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: she kind of she should have left that out because
Speaker 1: it's just kind of she's paid in the picture, like
Speaker 1: like she's saying he's Nigerian, y'all, just so you know,
Speaker 1: and Nigerian men are this way and that way. Men
Speaker 1: from all over the world that way. Don't matter where
Speaker 1: they come from, no matter how much money they have,
Speaker 1: how much money they don't have, it doesn't matter matter
Speaker 1: because portion got a Nigerian man. I mean, we don't
Speaker 1: know what's going on. But I'm just saying, like, yeah,
Speaker 1: that doesn't mean that he's an abusing because I mean,
Speaker 1: her comment kind of sounds racist. It's come off a
Speaker 1: little racist. Yeah, it's almost like she was saying, like,
Speaker 1: let me throw that in there so that people so
Speaker 1: it makes it more believable. But some people are saying
Speaker 1: they understand like a lot of Nigeria man abusive and
Speaker 1: have like multiple women and stuff like that. So some
Speaker 1: of them are on her side, but some of them
Speaker 1: are just like what you guys are saying, Like, an
Speaker 1: abuser is an abuser. Yeah. Yeah, you shouldn't label somebody
Speaker 1: based on you know what they are now, I don't
Speaker 1: matter if they eating food full of French fries. Okay,
Speaker 1: an abuser is an abuse Okay. Yeah. Well, it's a
Speaker 1: lot of abusing going on in the news because Jonathan
Speaker 1: Majors was arrested in New York City for assaulting a
Speaker 1: woman who winds up to be his actual girlfriend. So
Speaker 1: his rep said he has done nothing wrong. Here's what
Speaker 1: allegedly happened that led up to this. Allegedly, him and
Speaker 1: his girlfriend got in to an argument why In the
Speaker 1: taxi returning home from a bar in Brooklyn, the girlfriend
Speaker 1: saw another woman, Texan Major, and confronted him trying to
Speaker 1: sneak a peek at his phone. His girlfriend claims that
Speaker 1: Major got extremely upset and allegedly grabbed her hand and
Speaker 1: allegedly slapped her. TIMZ has reported that the victim claims
Speaker 1: that he put his hands around her neck during this situation.
Speaker 1: Sources say that the woman was dropped off somewhere and
Speaker 1: that Jonathan Major spent the night somewhere else, and it
Speaker 1: appears the girlfriend went to the police the following Saturday morning.
Speaker 1: Major was obviously booked Saturday morning on charges of strangulation,
Speaker 1: assault and harassment. So Jonathan Major is officially charged with
Speaker 1: the salt and harassment. Despite what the lawyer said, man,
Speaker 1: some people are saying, Oh, they just trying to, you know,
Speaker 1: defame this black man. You know, it's just the I
Speaker 1: forget what they call it, the like the teardown kind
Speaker 1: of I forget what the word that they said. I
Speaker 1: know what you're trying to say. Pretty much, every time
Speaker 1: a black man reached a certain peak in the entertainment business,
Speaker 1: it's always something Yeah, but in this situation, we have
Speaker 1: to stop putting ourselves in these environments that could lead
Speaker 1: to something like this. That's what people are not talking about. Well,
Speaker 1: how did he put himself? So so let's say, let's
Speaker 1: say it's not true, okay, Well, how that he assaulted her? Okay?
Speaker 1: How can you avoid someone lying on you, especially someone
Speaker 1: that you're in an intimate relationship with, black or white,
Speaker 1: black or white? How can you can't? You really can't
Speaker 1: avoid that. You just got to live your life and
Speaker 1: hope that these people are good people and not trying
Speaker 1: to take you down, but not like the damage is
Speaker 1: done right now and it's sticking with him. You know what,
Speaker 1: it doesn't seem like, it doesn't seem like to me
Speaker 1: that this is the first time this has happened before.
Speaker 1: And I feel like if this is not, if this
Speaker 1: is his behavior, then it's just gonna come back again,
Speaker 1: come back to home him again, and you know, then
Speaker 1: that's gonna be for sure to tell us if he's
Speaker 1: really an abuser. If he isn't, So let's say he
Speaker 1: was an abuser. Has she reported him before? Is this
Speaker 1: the first time she reported him? Is it? Is it,
Speaker 1: you know, luck of the Irish that she chose to
Speaker 1: do it now as his career has taken off, like
Speaker 1: or did she just reach her breaking point? What is it?
Speaker 1: We don't know and we probably will never know. Well,
Speaker 1: you know a lot of his exes that are coming
Speaker 1: out of some people from his past. Yes, so one
Speaker 1: of his friends from his past, or well, yes it's
Speaker 1: not his friends. When his associates from his past that
Speaker 1: went to Yale with him. He made a bit tweet
Speaker 1: that when viral all on the internet. He says, I'm
Speaker 1: just gonna say this about Jonathan Majors and be done
Speaker 1: with it. Folks at Yale and the border of New
Speaker 1: York City community has known about him for years. He's
Speaker 1: a psychopath, an abuser, and that is how virtually everyone
Speaker 1: speaks about him. It's just a shame that it took
Speaker 1: this long for this to be reported. So I feel like,
Speaker 1: if this is his behavior, then it's just gonna come
Speaker 1: out later on, like, well it'll it'll time or reveal itself. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but as for right now, we don't know. They're saying, uh,
Speaker 1: he's officially been charged. So now it's just up to
Speaker 1: the friend to confess or admit or whatever, and you know,
Speaker 1: just to open this case up. This is about to
Speaker 1: be a sticky situation, man, because imagine you finally getting
Speaker 1: a peak of your career and your spouse comes out
Speaker 1: and gets your girlfriend. Well well yea his girlfriend. Your
Speaker 1: girlfriend comes out or your boyfriend comes out and say
Speaker 1: says something allegedly what happened, and you end up in
Speaker 1: jail and you were just on the biggest movie this year.
Speaker 1: This is crazy. That's why doctor doctor Lamar said. I said,
Speaker 1: Black Queens Forever, snow buddies up lead the snow buttons behind.
Speaker 1: But y'all see a pint y'all see his girlfriend? Yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, you know what's so crazy about Instagram and
Speaker 1: black Twitter. Everybody was like rooting for him, like, you know,
Speaker 1: like I hope he didn't do it. I don't think
Speaker 1: he's doing it. Then everybody was like, wait, it's his
Speaker 1: girlfriend white or black? I definitely asked that question in
Speaker 1: the group chat. I said, is she black? Oh? White? Then?
Speaker 1: So what did the comments when they, oh, they found
Speaker 1: out she was white? Oh? It was like, oh, yeah,
Speaker 1: we don't care. We don't care black people because you know,
Speaker 1: most of his fans are women, so you know, you
Speaker 1: know the black community. I start seeing in the comments
Speaker 1: when they discovered that his girlfriend was white, was like, oh, yeah,
Speaker 1: you're on your home. I care. I just that's messed up.
Speaker 1: I was having a conversation with my brother on Saturday,
Speaker 1: my family throw a little birthday should day for me,
Speaker 1: and he was saying how he doesn't think that rich
Speaker 1: people or people with a lot of fame would ever
Speaker 1: either sexually assault somebody or view someone. And I said, why,
Speaker 1: why do you think that? Because they have too much
Speaker 1: to lose. I was like, it don't matter how much money, fame,
Speaker 1: or fortune, somebody got their ego is their ego. The
Speaker 1: crazy things that they want to do is what they're
Speaker 1: going to do. You don't got to be a poor
Speaker 1: man to write somebody or view somebody. It could literally
Speaker 1: be anybody. I'm like, do you hear yourself? Brother, Like,
Speaker 1: do you hear what you're saying? You have politicians that
Speaker 1: he said a lot of money they're yeah. He was like,
Speaker 1: it just doesn't make sense for rich people or famous
Speaker 1: people to turn up. But you know a lot of people,
Speaker 1: a lot of people think how Sue Brother thinks a
Speaker 1: lot that's smart, and I feel like, once enraged, they're
Speaker 1: not thinking at all, not at all. Well, I think
Speaker 1: I think what it is. I think it's more so
Speaker 1: of people in those situations would do something like that
Speaker 1: because they're gonna say, who's gonna believe you? And they
Speaker 1: could got money to cover it up. Absolutely, you know
Speaker 1: they got money to make it go away. Grave abuse,
Speaker 1: all those things is about power. It's not about how
Speaker 1: much money you have. There's a need for power. There's
Speaker 1: the most evil people one hundred percent because again they
Speaker 1: have resources and feel like, who won't touch me? Exactly
Speaker 1: needing the reason why none of the presidents have been
Speaker 1: to jail yet. But if okay, Donald Trump still ain't
Speaker 1: been there. I ain't gonna say no names, but I'm
Speaker 1: just saying Donald Trump still ain't in the jail. On
Speaker 1: that note, we'll be back with it. We'll be right
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Speaker 1: It's love versus money on a ball Or Alert show,
Speaker 1: and we're bad love versus the money. I'm gonna give
Speaker 1: a couple and you let me know if they're there
Speaker 1: for the love or is it just business. I'm always
Speaker 1: scared when you do this. Okay, ahead, Today's love versus money?
Speaker 1: Is a you know, it's a lot going on on
Speaker 1: this couple, or it's it's more than a couple. I
Speaker 1: don't know what this is. Nick Cannon and all his
Speaker 1: baby mamas, Oh lord, you are asking us, do you
Speaker 1: do we think that it's love or for the collective.
Speaker 1: Are you gonna ask us like this mother all of them,
Speaker 1: all of them? But it's not fair to group them all. Well,
Speaker 1: it's really Nick Cannon versus Nick. First of all, you
Speaker 1: gotta have money to be pleasing all those baby mothers,
Speaker 1: does he? Because he just recently came out and say,
Speaker 1: we literally just came out and said that I do
Speaker 1: not give my children's mother's monthly allowance. But what they need,
Speaker 1: they get. What they need they get. I see that's
Speaker 1: some rich people lingo right there? Okay, you do they
Speaker 1: come out and say what they need? Do are they
Speaker 1: prideful like or some prideful because I know I'm right.
Speaker 1: I don't need nothing. I mean clearly, but maybe maybe
Speaker 1: they all have credit cards and when they need stuff
Speaker 1: for the kids, they just go get it. And he
Speaker 1: just pays the credit card field every month, see Nick
Speaker 1: chop because honestly, they get what they need. Could mean anything,
Speaker 1: It could be anything. Is it just but we all
Speaker 1: got needs? Right? You can say, hey, I need a
Speaker 1: trip to Hawaii. No, no, no no, I need a child.
Speaker 1: What you need for a child? But I don't know,
Speaker 1: I mean some of them, that's not what he said.
Speaker 1: I don't need a smoking mom. That's not what he said.
Speaker 1: He said, they get what they need. They it's gonna
Speaker 1: have to be there. He got a lot of days
Speaker 1: like he gotta take Yeah, he gotta take care of
Speaker 1: the rich folks talking. I mean some of them have houses.
Speaker 1: I've seen that some of them have new houses. Um,
Speaker 1: and it doesn't seem every child should have a nice home. Absolutely,
Speaker 1: so for him, he feels like, Okay, I'm gonna make
Speaker 1: sure that my children have a nice home. What you
Speaker 1: look like your kids come to your mansion when they
Speaker 1: come over, and then their mama house is a mess.
Speaker 1: Like especially if he's a women that you actually love,
Speaker 1: respect value. I don't think he has children with just
Speaker 1: random women. I really think that he has special bonds
Speaker 1: and relationships. Yeah, yeah, I think so. I think so too,
Speaker 1: because all of his you know, when I see him.
Speaker 1: First of all, for a man to be at all
Speaker 1: the baby showers, you gotta have some sort of connection
Speaker 1: with these women. And you know the way Nick Cannon
Speaker 1: talks about love and being there, you know for his
Speaker 1: baby mothers. You know, I mean, to me, that's a
Speaker 1: special bond. Man. I don't care how people talking about
Speaker 1: how many kids he got Listen, it's people with one
Speaker 1: kid that ain't half the man Nick Cannon got with
Speaker 1: with all these kids he got. So y'all can say
Speaker 1: what y'all want to say about Nick Cannon. That man's
Speaker 1: handling his business. So do you think any of the
Speaker 1: mothers were there for the money and you think it's
Speaker 1: just all love all around? First of all, I ain't
Speaker 1: no woman about to know you got she said, eight
Speaker 1: baby mamas, and you ain't got no money? What do
Speaker 1: you mean? I think that some of those relationships are
Speaker 1: for the money. Which ones he thinking for the love?
Speaker 1: Whoever ain't getting no money from him? Mariah? I mean,
Speaker 1: I think some of some of those situations were there
Speaker 1: for the love. But you know, listen, man, you're a man.
Speaker 1: You see something hot, you know he probably just ain't man.
Speaker 1: You need a kid? You need a kid? What he
Speaker 1: probably like, you need a kid? He recently just said
Speaker 1: he regretted not having a kid with Christine Million. I'm
Speaker 1: sure she felt like she digs the bullet. Baby. She like, no,
Speaker 1: I am good all at one. So I think that
Speaker 1: they're actually all there for love. And I'm gonna tell
Speaker 1: you why none of them have blasted anything about this man.
Speaker 1: They're not flaunting things that he's purchased. They're not flaunting trips,
Speaker 1: they're not flaunting their houses, bad shoes, They're not doing that.
Speaker 1: They are not calling him a dead beat at all.
Speaker 1: Like they are all literally raising their children with this man.
Speaker 1: Whether he's physically present or just emotionally financially present, whatever
Speaker 1: it is, none of them are dogging this man out
Speaker 1: out here being extra's hell. Like, Oh, Nick, and I
Speaker 1: think that there's a lot of respects in these relationships
Speaker 1: and a lot of love. So I think they're all
Speaker 1: there for love. You know what, Nick Cannon should teach
Speaker 1: a father class. You should come out with a book
Speaker 1: on how to be there for like your kids. Because
Speaker 1: I say, we give it about you know, ten more years.
Speaker 1: She let the kids get a little older and let
Speaker 1: them decide if they feel like he was present. The
Speaker 1: kids say yeah, because you know right now he has
Speaker 1: um how can roll? They I am almost in middle
Speaker 1: school right or his kids from a Yeah, I think
Speaker 1: they're like with twelve, Yeah, they're probably like twelve now
Speaker 1: eleven years old? Oh right, look at that right? Yeah? Um,
Speaker 1: and he has a great relationship. He did a lot
Speaker 1: in ten years. Okay, Yeah, the math is math. You know.
Speaker 1: They brings me to the bar that Drake did. I
Speaker 1: got a homeboy who got three kids and they all three.
Speaker 1: But we've always been the type of crew who being
Speaker 1: good without a playing b I mean, sir, sound like
Speaker 1: listen like like I said, it's a lot of fathers
Speaker 1: out there with one kid that ain't even there for
Speaker 1: their kids. Yeah. Shout out to Nick and all the
Speaker 1: women that are in this village TV show coming out
Speaker 1: too with Kevin hard out to Abby. Hey, maama's mama's. Yeah,
Speaker 1: mama's mama's it's love. It's all loved. We'll be right back.
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Speaker 1: All right, now it's time for balla mail. This is
Speaker 1: a good when y'all, This is a going you're ready
Speaker 1: ball Alert. What's good? My lady X got married and
Speaker 1: she was pissed. She found out in the car with
Speaker 1: me and I ain't know what to say, so I
Speaker 1: ain't say shit. She's mad to her ex married the
Speaker 1: person he cheated on her with. Now I'm not saying
Speaker 1: she can't be mad, but in front of me and
Speaker 1: my kids, come on, now, she got me too mad.
Speaker 1: She tried to apologize it, but I ain't accepted no
Speaker 1: apologies at this moment, and my tripping do y'all think
Speaker 1: that she still got feelings for her ex? WHOA, that
Speaker 1: is crazy. I just was having a conversation with one
Speaker 1: of my girlfriends who lives up in DC, who's kind
Speaker 1: of experiencing something in this realm. It's not exactly that,
Speaker 1: but I think when you break up with somebody and
Speaker 1: you know years have gone past you in a new relationship,
Speaker 1: but then you end up learning something new, I think
Speaker 1: it does trigger you. You end up going back into thinking, damn,
Speaker 1: but this person ever loved me? Did you ever respect me?
Speaker 1: I don't know if it's that you still have feelings.
Speaker 1: I just think you're triggered into rethinking everything you thought
Speaker 1: about the relationship. Like, but there's also something unhealthy about
Speaker 1: getting so worked up about it years later in a
Speaker 1: new relationship with kids involved, Like, there's something about that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I agree with that, And this is the person that
Speaker 1: he cheated on her with exactly. So that is a
Speaker 1: good punch within itself. But you know, you always gotta
Speaker 1: keep in your mind you get them, how you lose them?
Speaker 1: Ye man, listen, I'm gonna tell you something right now,
Speaker 1: losing how you get them back, however that goes, you
Speaker 1: should be tripping. You should be very concerned because she'd
Speaker 1: be No, I'm saying that to say she should be,
Speaker 1: you know, not so so much mad, but like good
Speaker 1: luck girl. No, no, no, no, no no, you gotta you
Speaker 1: gotta be tripping, because it's like if you're in the
Speaker 1: car and your woman finds out that this guy that
Speaker 1: she dated got married, and she's upset to the girl
Speaker 1: that he cheated on her with. You can't leave that out. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you already cheated on me with this girl, and now
Speaker 1: you're marrying her. That is who knows how long they
Speaker 1: was together, who knows how in love she was or
Speaker 1: they were, you know, And for you to go and
Speaker 1: cheat and then marry this person, I understand that we
Speaker 1: got to move on. We gotta forget about man, move on.
Speaker 1: But if if Diddy couldn't move on from Cassie, Um,
Speaker 1: I'm just saying like she could be upset. She had
Speaker 1: to get so worked up in front of her her
Speaker 1: new guy. Yeah that you know somewhere else. But I
Speaker 1: understand your girlfriends about that, and there's nothing you can
Speaker 1: do about it. But like I said, good luck to
Speaker 1: the next girl, because you know it could happen to her.
Speaker 1: I guess I gotta move on. You're singing Diddy now
Speaker 1: before the man just let her have that. You know
Speaker 1: she ain't she can't get him out, so you telling him,
Speaker 1: don't even trip. No, he just let it, Let it go.
Speaker 1: Talk to her, calm down and have a conversation with her.
Speaker 1: Let her know how that makes you feel, but also
Speaker 1: be open to how she feels. Yeah, this advice coming
Speaker 1: from women, so they probably can help you. And take
Speaker 1: it to a therapist too, so y'all can understand each
Speaker 1: other because y'all sometimes you know, you need a third
Speaker 1: party and most times a third party yeah most times. Yeah,
Speaker 1: So that was bailer mail. Before we get out of here,
Speaker 1: you know, we gotta do the pep talk today. Today's
Speaker 1: pep talk is coming from a coach and he gave
Speaker 1: a great um sermon, I should say, because that was
Speaker 1: preaching right there. On consent. Remember we went over consent
Speaker 1: deserves good. You're with a young lady. She has to
Speaker 1: consent to every act. So if you were in the
Speaker 1: car with her and something went down in the car,
Speaker 1: that does not mean that something has to go down
Speaker 1: at the apartment. If y'all did something in the car
Speaker 1: that does not something else has to happen that next day.
Speaker 1: You cannot assume it is okay to send a or
Speaker 1: something like that. If you're in study hall and attraction
Speaker 1: walks by you and she's got tyson and she's going
Speaker 1: to study, you can I can say, look at that,
Speaker 1: Fatima can harassment. She has every right to turn around
Speaker 1: and press charge against you if you're not quite sure
Speaker 1: what the fuck to say, picture of being your little
Speaker 1: sister or your mother, and then show what you call
Speaker 1: the fuck up? Are we clear? Yeah? And I thought
Speaker 1: that was so great and vital because a lot of
Speaker 1: these kids, you know, who are playing sports, they look
Speaker 1: at their coaches you know, and respect them so much
Speaker 1: and actually listen to them, even sometimes more so than
Speaker 1: their parents, you know, or sometimes they may not have
Speaker 1: parents at home, and their coaches you know, really trying
Speaker 1: to like the father figure, the father figure, yeah, or
Speaker 1: a parent, and um, they really listen. So I feel like,
Speaker 1: you know, all coaches need to follow this guy because
Speaker 1: a lot of these players go grow up and get
Speaker 1: into trouble, you know, not even knowing Sometimes or you know,
Speaker 1: not thinking. Yeah, So he's just putting the thought in
Speaker 1: their minds early, and I really appreciate that. I feel
Speaker 1: like every coach should do that, no matter what sport,
Speaker 1: as long as it involved men. I think that the
Speaker 1: information that he gave them is very vital because I
Speaker 1: feel like a lot of these athletes, you know, they
Speaker 1: go off and they go to college, and you know,
Speaker 1: they don't understand that the situations that they can place
Speaker 1: theirselves into, you know, uh, you know, drinking and all
Speaker 1: that stuff. That doesn't that that's that's not a consent,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. And I feel like the
Speaker 1: information he giving them can save a lot of those
Speaker 1: guys careers and lives in the future. You know, that's
Speaker 1: information that every coach should be given these athletes because
Speaker 1: they're not I respect any coach that takes the responsibility
Speaker 1: to coach outside of what is on the court and
Speaker 1: what is on the field. When you understand that your
Speaker 1: actions outside can affect your scholarships, can really just affect
Speaker 1: your life in general. Get you taken away from your goals,
Speaker 1: your dreams, your aspirations, everything that you've been physically training
Speaker 1: hard for has to start from your mental and a
Speaker 1: coach that will feed your spirit like that is a
Speaker 1: man or a coach that understands that everything in life
Speaker 1: goes together. They all follow. It's not just sports, it's
Speaker 1: not just work. They all go together. So shout out
Speaker 1: to the coaches that take that extra step, because this man,
Speaker 1: in particular, he was a young man at one point
Speaker 1: in his life. He probably was a young athlete. You
Speaker 1: probably saw his his teammates go down the wrong path
Speaker 1: sexually harassed women for any little thing. I love that
Speaker 1: he was so detailed what happened in the car and
Speaker 1: spoke their language where they were. Just because something happened
Speaker 1: in the car don't mean they got to happen in
Speaker 1: the house. Just because of woman walks by with some
Speaker 1: tight song doesn't mean. I mean, this was very clear,
Speaker 1: but it hit hard. I respect him so much. Shout
Speaker 1: out to you, coach. Coaches, get on board. Can't get
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