WEBVTT - Episode 228 "911"

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<v Speaker 1>Quorrow with me here. You know BT's so low. Shout

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<v Speaker 1>Oct no color? What we see? Who getting in the bathing?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh you can't stand on it on SUSI, I already

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<v Speaker 1>know he can't ball with me because you have with

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<v Speaker 1>a squad of me. They're getting They called me Baller Alert.

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to the Baller Alert Show podcast. This is Oct

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<v Speaker 1>You know, damn, that's your dance. You know, hey, y'all,

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<v Speaker 1>bar your bestie, sus Solos, your boy BT. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>lose the energy now it's your boy person. Definitely. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Ferrari's on vacation, but we're gonna hold it down. You

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<v Speaker 1>always saying somebody on vacation, on vacation, thinking of vacation.

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<v Speaker 1>How was your birthday, Sine Solo with your hennisy glasses on? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm still trying to recover. It was nice and chill.

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<v Speaker 1>I really wasn't feeling too fassive. Um Sunday was the

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<v Speaker 1>forty days celebration of life or might get one, So

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<v Speaker 1>it was just I'm just not feeling very festive. But

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<v Speaker 1>I did have a great time at the house last night.

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<v Speaker 1>My friends came over. Grace Madeline Solemn Kenesia justin and

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<v Speaker 1>we had a ball. We have peopall. We had a

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<v Speaker 1>ball that was more of my vibe. I didn't want

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<v Speaker 1>to be on a flyer standing on somebody. I'm tired,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I'm tired. I was supposed to do a party

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<v Speaker 1>with BT. Yeah, I'm sorry, but I'm just not in

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<v Speaker 1>the festival. So and that's okay. Yeah, but shout outs

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<v Speaker 1>all the areas. You know, we still run it. It

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<v Speaker 1>isn't but it is. I don't know about that, you know, Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>shout out to their Yeah, thank you. It's about to

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<v Speaker 1>get hot outside, you know. So the Leo's about to

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<v Speaker 1>start coming outside, the leos, the leos, you got jokes today,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm well rested. Well, you said something about the forty

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<v Speaker 1>days of mourning, So, um, I know they knew something

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<v Speaker 1>like this in Europe. Um, how is that in your culture?

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<v Speaker 1>So we are Orthodox christian Um typically the majority of us,

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<v Speaker 1>and we have something that we call a hasin, which

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<v Speaker 1>is basically a gathering of the community as soon as

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<v Speaker 1>someone passes away, and it's generally for seven or ten days,

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<v Speaker 1>but then we all come back together at the forty

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<v Speaker 1>days and it's really just like a a check in.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, it's really just to you know, bring the

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<v Speaker 1>community back together, see how everyone's doing, and remind ourselves that,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, this person is still a part of us,

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<v Speaker 1>even though they may not be here physically. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>we love this person. So we all gathered at the

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<v Speaker 1>Eritrean Community Center here in Atlanta and we ate. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>we shared stories, we looked at pictures, and it was

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<v Speaker 1>more of a celebration than it was morning. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>why does the actual funeral happen or the burial that

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<v Speaker 1>happens right away. It's usually within the first week. Okay, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's ceremony for to forty days, yes, okay, yeah, we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna I know, there are gonna be some other things planned,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, my stones, his fiftieth birthday, things like that.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's really important in our culture to keep that

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<v Speaker 1>person's legacy alive, especially Mike. I mean, he's an Eritrean

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<v Speaker 1>man that broke a lot of barriers. He dared to

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<v Speaker 1>dream Differently, he comes from a small village in Eritrea

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<v Speaker 1>and was really able to grow an empire. So he

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<v Speaker 1>is legendary. I hope to get justice too. He deserves justice.

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<v Speaker 1>He definitely deserves justice, and I hope he gets that.

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<v Speaker 1>The reward is up to two hundred and fifty thousand dollars.

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<v Speaker 1>So if anyone knows the whereabouts of Mike get One's

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<v Speaker 1>murderer Soto, feel free to share those details, and if

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<v Speaker 1>it leads to his arrest, the reward money is yours.

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<v Speaker 1>So many crazy things have happened and it hasn't stopped.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna get into in case you missed it, get

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<v Speaker 1>into some words before we move on. Rest in Heaven

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<v Speaker 1>to Clay as well. You know, at just lost someone

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<v Speaker 1>else that's extremely legendary and important music industry. Clay is

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<v Speaker 1>that man. If you've ever had a moment to be

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<v Speaker 1>you may not have liked him at first. You may

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<v Speaker 1>have thought he was arrogant an asshole, but then like

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<v Speaker 1>two seconds later, he'll turn around and flip the conversation

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<v Speaker 1>with a smile, make you laugh like he was a

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<v Speaker 1>charming asshole. But he was necessary to the music industry.

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<v Speaker 1>I think he mentored so many people worked with Grand Hustle.

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<v Speaker 1>There's there's so many people coming out talking about the

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<v Speaker 1>ways that Clay helped them that I of course wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>aware of. But it makes you realize how big of

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<v Speaker 1>an instrument he was to Atlanta, to music, to fashion.

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<v Speaker 1>So Atlanta took another hard hit in twenty twenty three.

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<v Speaker 1>But it is beautiful to see the community come together

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<v Speaker 1>and celebrate love. For sure. Yeah, her hits do not stop.

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<v Speaker 1>In case you missed it, Unfortunately, condolences to the hundreds

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<v Speaker 1>of families affected. In Nashville, twenty eight year old former

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<v Speaker 1>student and mass shooter Audrey Elizabeth Hale went crazy. She

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<v Speaker 1>is responsible for murdering six people total at the Covenant School,

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<v Speaker 1>which is a Presbyterian private school in the Green Hills area.

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<v Speaker 1>Three of them were nine year old children. The other

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<v Speaker 1>three murdered were adults said to be in their sixties.

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<v Speaker 1>I still don't understand the motive, but apparently, you know

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<v Speaker 1>her being a former student, she had resentment for having

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<v Speaker 1>to go to school. The story is still developing at

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<v Speaker 1>this time, so I don't really know everything about it,

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<v Speaker 1>but we know that she's transgender, and they're saying that

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<v Speaker 1>maybe that has something to do with it. Again, the

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<v Speaker 1>pieces are still coming together. Maybe she knew that she

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to be transgender at that young of an age

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<v Speaker 1>and was teased. I really don't know what would drive

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<v Speaker 1>a person to go to any school and kill innocent

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<v Speaker 1>children or adults or just innocent people anywhere in the world. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what would drive her to do that.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's it's sad. I mean, it's just really kind

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<v Speaker 1>of like, you know, a touchy situation because you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we can't keep blaming mental health for people, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>killing innocent people. We can't keep blaming because this person's

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<v Speaker 1>sexuality is this some people are just fucking evil, man, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just evil people out in this world. And you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we just got to stop blaming everything on mental health

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<v Speaker 1>because some people are just pure evil and for somebody

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<v Speaker 1>to do something like that, it's pure evil. And I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we gotta do something about this gun law.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I know, the president only has so much

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<v Speaker 1>that he could do. I know, he can try to

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<v Speaker 1>encourage everyone, but you know, nobody should be going out

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<v Speaker 1>buying assault rifles. You know, in my opinion, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I understand people having handguns and nine millimeters and stuff

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<v Speaker 1>like that to protect themselves, but nobody should be out

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<v Speaker 1>buying assault rifles that can kill fifty people, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>in five minutes. Like, you know, we ought to do

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<v Speaker 1>something about that. And you know, I hope you know

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<v Speaker 1>whoever is in control of making the laws in Tennessee,

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<v Speaker 1>which y'all might not care. You know, I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>how many mass shootings have to continue happening for people

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<v Speaker 1>to understand that the problem is people that are evil

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<v Speaker 1>are able to access military rifles that can cause a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of harm. And you know what I mean, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just I'm just sick of seeing it. But you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>you can't gauge that, like when somebody is going to

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<v Speaker 1>apply for a gun license or buy a gun, you

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<v Speaker 1>can't decide in that moment whether they're evil psychotic like you.

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<v Speaker 1>But that's why we should just ban it, Like you

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<v Speaker 1>should just ban you should not be able to go

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<v Speaker 1>buy an assault rifle anywhere in the US. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>you would have to say any gun at that point,

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<v Speaker 1>because they can still accomplish the same murders with any

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<v Speaker 1>type of gun. And that I don't believe. But I

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<v Speaker 1>don't believe that guns should be banned. I don't. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't believe guns should ben I'm just saying, and military

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<v Speaker 1>rifles that could literally kill a lot of people and

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<v Speaker 1>dozens at one time. It's like you don't need all

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<v Speaker 1>that you know, you don't you know, and you ain't

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<v Speaker 1>taking out no military anywhere oneself and your salt work.

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<v Speaker 1>You know how easy it is to buy a gun,

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<v Speaker 1>they screen you more to go get an apartment, to house,

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<v Speaker 1>to buy a house. I'm curious about like the psyche,

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<v Speaker 1>Like what is running through your mind to say, like, like,

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<v Speaker 1>what does her being transgender have to do with her

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<v Speaker 1>going to her old school and killing children that did

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<v Speaker 1>not go to school or at random? At random? We're

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<v Speaker 1>not responsible for you being potentially bullied. They don't know

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<v Speaker 1>you at all, So what is going on in your

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<v Speaker 1>brain to trigger you into doing that? You would think

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<v Speaker 1>that you would go find the kids that taunted you

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<v Speaker 1>in school instead of going to I just I can't

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<v Speaker 1>wrap my head around it. So I need to know

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<v Speaker 1>what the hell was going through this girl's mind or

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<v Speaker 1>we will never know because you want me took her out?

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<v Speaker 1>Ye out of there? Oh I almost say something evil?

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<v Speaker 1>My damn self man. Speaking of the evil acts, Brittany

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<v Speaker 1>Taylor from Love and Hip Hop New York has been

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<v Speaker 1>arrested for allegedly assaulting her kid's father with the baseball bat.

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<v Speaker 1>Now apparently, and this is coming from tmz UM. As

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<v Speaker 1>he and his mom were leaving her apartment with the kids,

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<v Speaker 1>Brittany allegedly said something to him in which he ignored

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<v Speaker 1>and um that set her off. According to tim Z

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<v Speaker 1>and their sources, Uh, Brittany then punched him in the

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<v Speaker 1>face while the kids were present. I fez I believe

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<v Speaker 1>is that how you saying? I fez her baby daddy? Sure?

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<v Speaker 1>Her baby daddy then left the residence, but the cops

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<v Speaker 1>say Brittany followed him and out with the bat and

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<v Speaker 1>she began hitting him, leaving him with a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>knots on his face. But now she went on had

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<v Speaker 1>a post that I want to hear you guys opinion

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<v Speaker 1>about this her speaking out about his domestic violence. She said,

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<v Speaker 1>this Nigerian man has been beating her for years and

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<v Speaker 1>he feels like women should obey their men and if

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<v Speaker 1>they talk back, they should be hit. That's what she said.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what she posted. That's sad, man, because it's like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, some things you just gotta keep off the

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<v Speaker 1>internet because at the end of the day, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know how old their kids are, but whatever lives on

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<v Speaker 1>the internet is forever. They're their babies. The one is

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<v Speaker 1>a baby, and I believe the other is like a toddler.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's wrong. Is wrong. But a lot of people

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<v Speaker 1>in the comments are going in about her saying that

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<v Speaker 1>he is Nigerian and that should mean something, right, Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she kind of she should have left that out because

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<v Speaker 1>it's just kind of she's paid in the picture, like

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<v Speaker 1>like she's saying he's Nigerian, y'all, just so you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and Nigerian men are this way and that way. Men

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<v Speaker 1>from all over the world that way. Don't matter where

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<v Speaker 1>they come from, no matter how much money they have,

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<v Speaker 1>how much money they don't have, it doesn't matter matter

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<v Speaker 1>because portion got a Nigerian man. I mean, we don't

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<v Speaker 1>know what's going on. But I'm just saying, like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that doesn't mean that he's an abusing because I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>her comment kind of sounds racist. It's come off a

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<v Speaker 1>little racist. Yeah, it's almost like she was saying, like,

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<v Speaker 1>let me throw that in there so that people so

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<v Speaker 1>it makes it more believable. But some people are saying

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<v Speaker 1>they understand like a lot of Nigeria man abusive and

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<v Speaker 1>have like multiple women and stuff like that. So some

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<v Speaker 1>of them are on her side, but some of them

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<v Speaker 1>are just like what you guys are saying, Like, an

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<v Speaker 1>abuser is an abuser. Yeah. Yeah, you shouldn't label somebody

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<v Speaker 1>based on you know what they are now, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>matter if they eating food full of French fries. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>an abuser is an abuse Okay. Yeah. Well, it's a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of abusing going on in the news because Jonathan

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<v Speaker 1>Majors was arrested in New York City for assaulting a

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<v Speaker 1>woman who winds up to be his actual girlfriend. So

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<v Speaker 1>his rep said he has done nothing wrong. Here's what

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<v Speaker 1>allegedly happened that led up to this. Allegedly, him and

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<v Speaker 1>his girlfriend got in to an argument why In the

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<v Speaker 1>taxi returning home from a bar in Brooklyn, the girlfriend

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<v Speaker 1>saw another woman, Texan Major, and confronted him trying to

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<v Speaker 1>sneak a peek at his phone. His girlfriend claims that

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<v Speaker 1>Major got extremely upset and allegedly grabbed her hand and

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<v Speaker 1>allegedly slapped her. TIMZ has reported that the victim claims

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<v Speaker 1>that he put his hands around her neck during this situation.

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<v Speaker 1>Sources say that the woman was dropped off somewhere and

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<v Speaker 1>that Jonathan Major spent the night somewhere else, and it

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<v Speaker 1>appears the girlfriend went to the police the following Saturday morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Major was obviously booked Saturday morning on charges of strangulation,

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<v Speaker 1>assault and harassment. So Jonathan Major is officially charged with

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<v Speaker 1>the salt and harassment. Despite what the lawyer said, man,

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<v Speaker 1>some people are saying, Oh, they just trying to, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>defame this black man. You know, it's just the I

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<v Speaker 1>forget what they call it, the like the teardown kind

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<v Speaker 1>of I forget what the word that they said. I

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<v Speaker 1>know what you're trying to say. Pretty much, every time

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<v Speaker 1>a black man reached a certain peak in the entertainment business,

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<v Speaker 1>it's always something Yeah, but in this situation, we have

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<v Speaker 1>to stop putting ourselves in these environments that could lead

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<v Speaker 1>to something like this. That's what people are not talking about. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>how did he put himself? So so let's say, let's

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<v Speaker 1>say it's not true, okay, Well, how that he assaulted her? Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>How can you avoid someone lying on you, especially someone

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<v Speaker 1>that you're in an intimate relationship with, black or white,

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<v Speaker 1>black or white? How can you can't? You really can't

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<v Speaker 1>avoid that. You just got to live your life and

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<v Speaker 1>hope that these people are good people and not trying

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<v Speaker 1>to take you down, but not like the damage is

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<v Speaker 1>done right now and it's sticking with him. You know what,

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<v Speaker 1>it doesn't seem like, it doesn't seem like to me

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<v Speaker 1>that this is the first time this has happened before.

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<v Speaker 1>And I feel like if this is not, if this

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<v Speaker 1>is his behavior, then it's just gonna come back again,

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<v Speaker 1>come back to home him again, and you know, then

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<v Speaker 1>that's gonna be for sure to tell us if he's

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<v Speaker 1>really an abuser. If he isn't, So let's say he

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<v Speaker 1>was an abuser. Has she reported him before? Is this

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<v Speaker 1>the first time she reported him? Is it? Is it,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, luck of the Irish that she chose to

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<v Speaker 1>do it now as his career has taken off, like

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<v Speaker 1>or did she just reach her breaking point? What is it?

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<v Speaker 1>We don't know and we probably will never know. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>you know a lot of his exes that are coming

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<v Speaker 1>out of some people from his past. Yes, so one

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<v Speaker 1>of his friends from his past, or well, yes it's

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<v Speaker 1>not his friends. When his associates from his past that

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<v Speaker 1>went to Yale with him. He made a bit tweet

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<v Speaker 1>that when viral all on the internet. He says, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just gonna say this about Jonathan Majors and be done

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<v Speaker 1>with it. Folks at Yale and the border of New

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<v Speaker 1>York City community has known about him for years. He's

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<v Speaker 1>a psychopath, an abuser, and that is how virtually everyone

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<v Speaker 1>speaks about him. It's just a shame that it took

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<v Speaker 1>this long for this to be reported. So I feel like,

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<v Speaker 1>if this is his behavior, then it's just gonna come

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<v Speaker 1>out later on, like, well it'll it'll time or reveal itself. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but as for right now, we don't know. They're saying, uh,

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<v Speaker 1>he's officially been charged. So now it's just up to

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<v Speaker 1>the friend to confess or admit or whatever, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>just to open this case up. This is about to

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<v Speaker 1>be a sticky situation, man, because imagine you finally getting

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<v Speaker 1>a peak of your career and your spouse comes out

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<v Speaker 1>and gets your girlfriend. Well well yea his girlfriend. Your

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<v Speaker 1>girlfriend comes out or your boyfriend comes out and say

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<v Speaker 1>says something allegedly what happened, and you end up in

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<v Speaker 1>jail and you were just on the biggest movie this year.

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<v Speaker 1>This is crazy. That's why doctor doctor Lamar said. I said,

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<v Speaker 1>Black Queens Forever, snow buddies up lead the snow buttons behind.

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<v Speaker 1>But y'all see a pint y'all see his girlfriend? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you know what's so crazy about Instagram and

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<v Speaker 1>black Twitter. Everybody was like rooting for him, like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like I hope he didn't do it. I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>he's doing it. Then everybody was like, wait, it's his

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<v Speaker 1>girlfriend white or black? I definitely asked that question in

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<v Speaker 1>the group chat. I said, is she black? Oh? White? Then?

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<v Speaker 1>So what did the comments when they, oh, they found

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<v Speaker 1>out she was white? Oh? It was like, oh, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we don't care. We don't care black people because you know,

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<v Speaker 1>most of his fans are women, so you know, you

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<v Speaker 1>know the black community. I start seeing in the comments

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<v Speaker 1>when they discovered that his girlfriend was white, was like, oh, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you're on your home. I care. I just that's messed up.

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<v Speaker 1>I was having a conversation with my brother on Saturday,

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<v Speaker 1>my family throw a little birthday should day for me,

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<v Speaker 1>and he was saying how he doesn't think that rich

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<v Speaker 1>people or people with a lot of fame would ever

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<v Speaker 1>either sexually assault somebody or view someone. And I said, why,

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<v Speaker 1>why do you think that? Because they have too much

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<v Speaker 1>to lose. I was like, it don't matter how much money, fame,

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<v Speaker 1>or fortune, somebody got their ego is their ego. The

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<v Speaker 1>crazy things that they want to do is what they're

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<v Speaker 1>going to do. You don't got to be a poor

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<v Speaker 1>man to write somebody or view somebody. It could literally

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<v Speaker 1>be anybody. I'm like, do you hear yourself? Brother, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>do you hear what you're saying? You have politicians that

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<v Speaker 1>he said a lot of money they're yeah. He was like,

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<v Speaker 1>it just doesn't make sense for rich people or famous

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<v Speaker 1>people to turn up. But you know a lot of people,

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of people think how Sue Brother thinks a

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<v Speaker 1>lot that's smart, and I feel like, once enraged, they're

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<v Speaker 1>not thinking at all, not at all. Well, I think

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<v Speaker 1>I think what it is. I think it's more so

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<v Speaker 1>of people in those situations would do something like that

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<v Speaker 1>because they're gonna say, who's gonna believe you? And they

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<v Speaker 1>could got money to cover it up. Absolutely, you know

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<v Speaker 1>they got money to make it go away. Grave abuse,

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<v Speaker 1>all those things is about power. It's not about how

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<v Speaker 1>much money you have. There's a need for power. There's

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<v Speaker 1>the most evil people one hundred percent because again they

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<v Speaker 1>have resources and feel like, who won't touch me? Exactly

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<v Speaker 1>needing the reason why none of the presidents have been

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<v Speaker 1>to jail yet. But if okay, Donald Trump still ain't

0:18:37.440 --> 0:18:39.760
<v Speaker 1>been there. I ain't gonna say no names, but I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just saying Donald Trump still ain't in the jail. On

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<v Speaker 1>that note, we'll be back with it. We'll be right

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<v Speaker 1>back with more of the Baller Alert Show, Baller Nation.

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<v Speaker 1>What's up? Man? You like what you see? Man? We

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<v Speaker 1>lit right now. Yes, sir, if you got a big

0:18:57.440 --> 0:19:00.320
<v Speaker 1>business or small business of products and you need millions

0:19:00.320 --> 0:19:02.119
<v Speaker 1>some people to see it, you can lock it right

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<v Speaker 1>here with the ball of Love Show podcast. That's right.

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<v Speaker 1>You can be right here right now. Get us up, y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>It's love versus money on a ball Or Alert show,

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<v Speaker 1>and we're bad love versus the money. I'm gonna give

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<v Speaker 1>a couple and you let me know if they're there

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<v Speaker 1>for the love or is it just business. I'm always

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<v Speaker 1>scared when you do this. Okay, ahead, Today's love versus money?

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<v Speaker 1>Is a you know, it's a lot going on on

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<v Speaker 1>this couple, or it's it's more than a couple. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what this is. Nick Cannon and all his

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<v Speaker 1>baby mamas, Oh lord, you are asking us, do you

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<v Speaker 1>do we think that it's love or for the collective.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you gonna ask us like this mother all of them,

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<v Speaker 1>all of them? But it's not fair to group them all. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>it's really Nick Cannon versus Nick. First of all, you

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<v Speaker 1>gotta have money to be pleasing all those baby mothers,

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<v Speaker 1>does he? Because he just recently came out and say,

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<v Speaker 1>we literally just came out and said that I do

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<v Speaker 1>not give my children's mother's monthly allowance. But what they need,

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<v Speaker 1>they get. What they need they get. I see that's

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<v Speaker 1>some rich people lingo right there? Okay, you do they

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<v Speaker 1>come out and say what they need? Do are they

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<v Speaker 1>prideful like or some prideful because I know I'm right.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't need nothing. I mean clearly, but maybe maybe

0:20:24.920 --> 0:20:27.399
<v Speaker 1>they all have credit cards and when they need stuff

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<v Speaker 1>for the kids, they just go get it. And he

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<v Speaker 1>just pays the credit card field every month, see Nick

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<v Speaker 1>chop because honestly, they get what they need. Could mean anything,

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<v Speaker 1>It could be anything. Is it just but we all

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<v Speaker 1>got needs? Right? You can say, hey, I need a

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<v Speaker 1>trip to Hawaii. No, no, no no, I need a child.

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<v Speaker 1>What you need for a child? But I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean some of them, that's not what he said.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't need a smoking mom. That's not what he said.

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<v Speaker 1>He said, they get what they need. They it's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>have to be there. He got a lot of days

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<v Speaker 1>like he gotta take Yeah, he gotta take care of

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<v Speaker 1>the rich folks talking. I mean some of them have houses.

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<v Speaker 1>I've seen that some of them have new houses. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>and it doesn't seem every child should have a nice home. Absolutely,

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<v Speaker 1>so for him, he feels like, Okay, I'm gonna make

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<v Speaker 1>sure that my children have a nice home. What you

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<v Speaker 1>look like your kids come to your mansion when they

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<v Speaker 1>come over, and then their mama house is a mess.

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<v Speaker 1>Like especially if he's a women that you actually love,

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<v Speaker 1>respect value. I don't think he has children with just

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<v Speaker 1>random women. I really think that he has special bonds

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<v Speaker 1>and relationships. Yeah, yeah, I think so. I think so too,

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<v Speaker 1>because all of his you know, when I see him.

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<v Speaker 1>First of all, for a man to be at all

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<v Speaker 1>the baby showers, you gotta have some sort of connection

0:21:45.320 --> 0:21:47.920
<v Speaker 1>with these women. And you know the way Nick Cannon

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<v Speaker 1>talks about love and being there, you know for his

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<v Speaker 1>baby mothers. You know, I mean, to me, that's a

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<v Speaker 1>special bond. Man. I don't care how people talking about

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<v Speaker 1>how many kids he got Listen, it's people with one

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<v Speaker 1>kid that ain't half the man Nick Cannon got with

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<v Speaker 1>with all these kids he got. So y'all can say

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<v Speaker 1>what y'all want to say about Nick Cannon. That man's

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<v Speaker 1>handling his business. So do you think any of the

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<v Speaker 1>mothers were there for the money and you think it's

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<v Speaker 1>just all love all around? First of all, I ain't

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<v Speaker 1>no woman about to know you got she said, eight

0:22:17.560 --> 0:22:21.560
<v Speaker 1>baby mamas, and you ain't got no money? What do

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<v Speaker 1>you mean? I think that some of those relationships are

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<v Speaker 1>for the money. Which ones he thinking for the love?

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<v Speaker 1>Whoever ain't getting no money from him? Mariah? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I think some of some of those situations were there

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<v Speaker 1>for the love. But you know, listen, man, you're a man.

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<v Speaker 1>You see something hot, you know he probably just ain't man.

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<v Speaker 1>You need a kid? You need a kid? What he

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<v Speaker 1>probably like, you need a kid? He recently just said

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<v Speaker 1>he regretted not having a kid with Christine Million. I'm

0:22:56.119 --> 0:22:58.440
<v Speaker 1>sure she felt like she digs the bullet. Baby. She like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I am good all at one. So I think that

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<v Speaker 1>they're actually all there for love. And I'm gonna tell

0:23:04.520 --> 0:23:08.359
<v Speaker 1>you why none of them have blasted anything about this man.

0:23:08.880 --> 0:23:12.200
<v Speaker 1>They're not flaunting things that he's purchased. They're not flaunting trips,

0:23:12.200 --> 0:23:16.320
<v Speaker 1>they're not flaunting their houses, bad shoes, They're not doing that.

0:23:16.320 --> 0:23:18.280
<v Speaker 1>They are not calling him a dead beat at all.

0:23:18.359 --> 0:23:22.000
<v Speaker 1>Like they are all literally raising their children with this man.

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<v Speaker 1>Whether he's physically present or just emotionally financially present, whatever

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<v Speaker 1>it is, none of them are dogging this man out

0:23:30.760 --> 0:23:34.600
<v Speaker 1>out here being extra's hell. Like, Oh, Nick, and I

0:23:34.800 --> 0:23:37.560
<v Speaker 1>think that there's a lot of respects in these relationships

0:23:37.560 --> 0:23:39.480
<v Speaker 1>and a lot of love. So I think they're all

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<v Speaker 1>there for love. You know what, Nick Cannon should teach

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<v Speaker 1>a father class. You should come out with a book

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<v Speaker 1>on how to be there for like your kids. Because

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<v Speaker 1>I say, we give it about you know, ten more years.

0:23:51.040 --> 0:23:52.920
<v Speaker 1>She let the kids get a little older and let

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<v Speaker 1>them decide if they feel like he was present. The

0:23:56.160 --> 0:23:58.840
<v Speaker 1>kids say yeah, because you know right now he has

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<v Speaker 1>um how can roll? They I am almost in middle

0:24:02.280 --> 0:24:05.760
<v Speaker 1>school right or his kids from a Yeah, I think

0:24:05.760 --> 0:24:10.440
<v Speaker 1>they're like with twelve, Yeah, they're probably like twelve now

0:24:08.200 --> 0:24:14.160
<v Speaker 1>eleven years old? Oh right, look at that right? Yeah? Um,

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<v Speaker 1>and he has a great relationship. He did a lot

0:24:17.880 --> 0:24:23.600
<v Speaker 1>in ten years. Okay, Yeah, the math is math. You know.

0:24:23.600 --> 0:24:25.960
<v Speaker 1>They brings me to the bar that Drake did. I

0:24:26.000 --> 0:24:29.720
<v Speaker 1>got a homeboy who got three kids and they all three.

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<v Speaker 1>But we've always been the type of crew who being

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<v Speaker 1>good without a playing b I mean, sir, sound like

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<v Speaker 1>listen like like I said, it's a lot of fathers

0:24:37.200 --> 0:24:38.920
<v Speaker 1>out there with one kid that ain't even there for

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<v Speaker 1>their kids. Yeah. Shout out to Nick and all the

0:24:41.920 --> 0:24:46.240
<v Speaker 1>women that are in this village TV show coming out

0:24:46.240 --> 0:24:49.920
<v Speaker 1>too with Kevin hard out to Abby. Hey, maama's mama's. Yeah,

0:24:50.560 --> 0:24:54.360
<v Speaker 1>mama's mama's it's love. It's all loved. We'll be right back.

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<v Speaker 1>Stay tuned with more of the Baller Alert show message.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, now it's time for balla mail. This is

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<v Speaker 1>a good when y'all, This is a going you're ready

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<v Speaker 1>ball Alert. What's good? My lady X got married and

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<v Speaker 1>she was pissed. She found out in the car with

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<v Speaker 1>me and I ain't know what to say, so I

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<v Speaker 1>ain't say shit. She's mad to her ex married the

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<v Speaker 1>person he cheated on her with. Now I'm not saying

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<v Speaker 1>she can't be mad, but in front of me and

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<v Speaker 1>my kids, come on, now, she got me too mad.

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<v Speaker 1>She tried to apologize it, but I ain't accepted no

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<v Speaker 1>apologies at this moment, and my tripping do y'all think

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<v Speaker 1>that she still got feelings for her ex? WHOA, that

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<v Speaker 1>is crazy. I just was having a conversation with one

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<v Speaker 1>of my girlfriends who lives up in DC, who's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of experiencing something in this realm. It's not exactly that,

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<v Speaker 1>but I think when you break up with somebody and

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<v Speaker 1>you know years have gone past you in a new relationship,

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<v Speaker 1>but then you end up learning something new, I think

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<v Speaker 1>it does trigger you. You end up going back into thinking, damn,

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<v Speaker 1>but this person ever loved me? Did you ever respect me?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if it's that you still have feelings.

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<v Speaker 1>I just think you're triggered into rethinking everything you thought

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<v Speaker 1>about the relationship. Like, but there's also something unhealthy about

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<v Speaker 1>getting so worked up about it years later in a

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<v Speaker 1>new relationship with kids involved, Like, there's something about that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I agree with that, And this is the person that

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<v Speaker 1>he cheated on her with exactly. So that is a

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<v Speaker 1>good punch within itself. But you know, you always gotta

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<v Speaker 1>keep in your mind you get them, how you lose them?

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<v Speaker 1>Ye man, listen, I'm gonna tell you something right now,

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<v Speaker 1>losing how you get them back, however that goes, you

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<v Speaker 1>should be tripping. You should be very concerned because she'd

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<v Speaker 1>be No, I'm saying that to say she should be,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, not so so much mad, but like good

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<v Speaker 1>luck girl. No, no, no, no, no no, you gotta you

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<v Speaker 1>gotta be tripping, because it's like if you're in the

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<v Speaker 1>car and your woman finds out that this guy that

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<v Speaker 1>she dated got married, and she's upset to the girl

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<v Speaker 1>that he cheated on her with. You can't leave that out. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you already cheated on me with this girl, and now

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<v Speaker 1>you're marrying her. That is who knows how long they

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<v Speaker 1>was together, who knows how in love she was or

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<v Speaker 1>they were, you know, And for you to go and

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<v Speaker 1>cheat and then marry this person, I understand that we

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<v Speaker 1>got to move on. We gotta forget about man, move on.

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<v Speaker 1>But if if Diddy couldn't move on from Cassie, Um,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just saying like she could be upset. She had

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<v Speaker 1>to get so worked up in front of her her

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<v Speaker 1>new guy. Yeah that you know somewhere else. But I

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<v Speaker 1>understand your girlfriends about that, and there's nothing you can

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<v Speaker 1>do about it. But like I said, good luck to

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<v Speaker 1>the next girl, because you know it could happen to her.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess I gotta move on. You're singing Diddy now

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<v Speaker 1>before the man just let her have that. You know

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<v Speaker 1>she ain't she can't get him out, so you telling him,

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<v Speaker 1>don't even trip. No, he just let it, Let it go.

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<v Speaker 1>Talk to her, calm down and have a conversation with her.

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<v Speaker 1>Let her know how that makes you feel, but also

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<v Speaker 1>be open to how she feels. Yeah, this advice coming

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<v Speaker 1>from women, so they probably can help you. And take

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<v Speaker 1>it to a therapist too, so y'all can understand each

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<v Speaker 1>other because y'all sometimes you know, you need a third

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<v Speaker 1>party and most times a third party yeah most times. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>So that was bailer mail. Before we get out of here,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we gotta do the pep talk today. Today's

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<v Speaker 1>pep talk is coming from a coach and he gave

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<v Speaker 1>a great um sermon, I should say, because that was

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<v Speaker 1>preaching right there. On consent. Remember we went over consent

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<v Speaker 1>deserves good. You're with a young lady. She has to

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<v Speaker 1>consent to every act. So if you were in the

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<v Speaker 1>car with her and something went down in the car,

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<v Speaker 1>that does not mean that something has to go down

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<v Speaker 1>at the apartment. If y'all did something in the car

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<v Speaker 1>that does not something else has to happen that next day.

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<v Speaker 1>You cannot assume it is okay to send a or

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<v Speaker 1>something like that. If you're in study hall and attraction

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<v Speaker 1>walks by you and she's got tyson and she's going

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<v Speaker 1>to study, you can I can say, look at that,

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<v Speaker 1>Fatima can harassment. She has every right to turn around

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<v Speaker 1>and press charge against you if you're not quite sure

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<v Speaker 1>what the fuck to say, picture of being your little

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<v Speaker 1>sister or your mother, and then show what you call

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<v Speaker 1>the fuck up? Are we clear? Yeah? And I thought

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<v Speaker 1>that was so great and vital because a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>these kids, you know, who are playing sports, they look

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<v Speaker 1>at their coaches you know, and respect them so much

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<v Speaker 1>and actually listen to them, even sometimes more so than

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<v Speaker 1>their parents, you know, or sometimes they may not have

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<v Speaker 1>parents at home, and their coaches you know, really trying

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<v Speaker 1>to like the father figure, the father figure, yeah, or

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<v Speaker 1>a parent, and um, they really listen. So I feel like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, all coaches need to follow this guy because

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of these players go grow up and get

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<v Speaker 1>into trouble, you know, not even knowing Sometimes or you know,

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<v Speaker 1>not thinking. Yeah, So he's just putting the thought in

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<v Speaker 1>their minds early, and I really appreciate that. I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like every coach should do that, no matter what sport,

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<v Speaker 1>as long as it involved men. I think that the

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<v Speaker 1>information that he gave them is very vital because I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like a lot of these athletes, you know, they

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<v Speaker 1>go off and they go to college, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>they don't understand that the situations that they can place

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<v Speaker 1>theirselves into, you know, uh, you know, drinking and all

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<v Speaker 1>that stuff. That doesn't that that's that's not a consent,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean. And I feel like the

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<v Speaker 1>information he giving them can save a lot of those

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<v Speaker 1>guys careers and lives in the future. You know, that's

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<v Speaker 1>information that every coach should be given these athletes because

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<v Speaker 1>they're not I respect any coach that takes the responsibility

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<v Speaker 1>to coach outside of what is on the court and

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<v Speaker 1>what is on the field. When you understand that your

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<v Speaker 1>actions outside can affect your scholarships, can really just affect

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<v Speaker 1>your life in general. Get you taken away from your goals,

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<v Speaker 1>your dreams, your aspirations, everything that you've been physically training

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<v Speaker 1>hard for has to start from your mental and a

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<v Speaker 1>coach that will feed your spirit like that is a

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<v Speaker 1>man or a coach that understands that everything in life

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<v Speaker 1>goes together. They all follow. It's not just sports, it's

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<v Speaker 1>not just work. They all go together. So shout out

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<v Speaker 1>to the coaches that take that extra step, because this man,

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<v Speaker 1>in particular, he was a young man at one point

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<v Speaker 1>in his life. He probably was a young athlete. You

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<v Speaker 1>probably saw his his teammates go down the wrong path

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<v Speaker 1>sexually harassed women for any little thing. I love that

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<v Speaker 1>he was so detailed what happened in the car and

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<v Speaker 1>spoke their language where they were. Just because something happened

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<v Speaker 1>in the car don't mean they got to happen in

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<v Speaker 1>the house. Just because of woman walks by with some

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<v Speaker 1>tight song doesn't mean. I mean, this was very clear,

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<v Speaker 1>but it hit hard. I respect him so much. Shout

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<v Speaker 1>out to you, coach. Coaches, get on board. Can't get

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