Speaker 1: You know, it's like peanut butter and jelly. They just
Speaker 1: go together, really truly. It's Fricka Jeffrey in the morning,
Speaker 1: your Second Date podcast, and Saturdays we do too.
Speaker 2: Yes, so those are what go together, the Saturday and
Speaker 2: the No No Second Day.
Speaker 3: Just try to think of two things I like it.
Speaker 1: I would reference the candy bar twigs, but Alexis just
Speaker 1: learned this week that there's two of those in a package.
Speaker 3: Just not my whole life. I've been getting given smaller
Speaker 3: candids should be. This is devastating me. Fun size and
Speaker 3: I get it all right.
Speaker 1: Before we get into your back to back classics, we
Speaker 1: love to highlight what you what you leave.
Speaker 3: For us your notes.
Speaker 2: Yes Z commented on last week's classics and said, whoa,
Speaker 2: I didn't realize I've been a silent listener for over
Speaker 2: a year already. I remember this episode and I was
Speaker 2: really surprised that a year had passed.
Speaker 4: Well.
Speaker 3: I love your show.
Speaker 2: I always listen to while working and it helps me
Speaker 2: finish my task quickly.
Speaker 3: Love from the Philippines. Ah, that's so cool. Thanks for
Speaker 3: being here all the way from the Philippines. Yeah, that's awesome.
Speaker 3: You know, time goes quickly. It really does alight the
Speaker 3: older you get. Alexis will also learn. Oh, don't tell
Speaker 3: me that.
Speaker 1: Let's get into the second day classics, back to back
Speaker 1: right now.
Speaker 5: Here at Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. We make
Speaker 5: a promise to not pass judgment on your.
Speaker 3: You can't even say it, yeah.
Speaker 5: Not pass judgment on your dating style or your dating choices. Okay,
Speaker 5: we promise we won't judge you too severely. Okay, we
Speaker 5: will judge you brutally and harshly, but at least not
Speaker 5: directly to your face.
Speaker 3: I won't see anybody's faces.
Speaker 5: That was definitely a difficult promise for us to keep
Speaker 5: with today's caller, especially when he told us about the
Speaker 5: big surprise he planned for his date night. I will
Speaker 5: tell you there was a blindfold involved and a little
Speaker 5: bit of deception. But he swears it went even better
Speaker 5: than he had planned and she loved it too. You're
Speaker 5: gonna hear it in your second date update. Right after
Speaker 5: this second Date up date, a guy named Chris wrote
Speaker 5: us saying he's made a rule to never ask a
Speaker 5: woman out ever again.
Speaker 1: Really after whatever happened that he's on the phone with
Speaker 1: us for before, I'm just reading this from his email.
Speaker 5: But Chris explained he learned a new strategy from a
Speaker 5: video that he saw where if you're a guy and
Speaker 5: you say, hey, would you like to go out to
Speaker 5: dinner with me on Saturday night? Yeah, you're already putting
Speaker 5: yourself at a disadvantage right there. Why Because in the
Speaker 5: woman's mind, she is thinking, if I say yes, then
Speaker 5: I'm doing him a favor and he's gonna end up
Speaker 5: having a great night because of me.
Speaker 3: Wait, she's not thinking, Wow, I'm really excited to us
Speaker 3: free meal.
Speaker 5: Yeah, she's thinking. She's thinking I was going beyond the meal.
Speaker 5: She's thinking if I say yes, then I'm giving him
Speaker 5: the gift of spending time with me. If I say no,
Speaker 5: then this loser has nothing going on in his life.
Speaker 5: He is going to spend the entire evening all alone
Speaker 5: in his apartment, watching Netflix and eating old pizza.
Speaker 3: I don't know's I don't think that's how women think.
Speaker 5: Even if that's not true, that's what he says, that's
Speaker 5: what a lot of women think. So instead, he uses
Speaker 5: a different strategy that makes him look really really good
Speaker 5: when he asks people out all right, I want to
Speaker 5: know what it is.
Speaker 3: I love when men say what women think? It's so cute. Okay, continue, Yeah.
Speaker 5: Well, let's talk to Chris about this and see what
Speaker 5: it's all about. Chris, how you doing? Man?
Speaker 6: Hey, good man, how are you?
Speaker 5: I'm very curious to learn what this strategy is.
Speaker 3: So wait, is the strategy?
Speaker 1: So then you came up with or is this also
Speaker 1: from the video that Jeff referenced.
Speaker 6: No, I learned this on an Instagram video. But I
Speaker 6: am telling you it works ninety percent of the time.
Speaker 6: It's a fantastic little trick here.
Speaker 5: Okay, So you don't ask a woman, hey, do you
Speaker 5: want to go out to dinner with me? What do
Speaker 5: you do instead?
Speaker 7: See?
Speaker 6: What you got to do is you got to tell
Speaker 6: them that you're already doing something, and then you invite
Speaker 6: them to come along with you.
Speaker 3: Okay, So like you're going to dinner by yourself?
Speaker 5: I mean, funny. I think you have a lot of friends,
Speaker 5: and I'm sure you have a very active social life.
Speaker 3: Chris, What if you don't have plans already?
Speaker 6: Well, yes, you got to plan out your night a
Speaker 6: little bit, right, You got to put a little thought
Speaker 6: into this.
Speaker 3: That's a positive.
Speaker 6: Yeah, you tell you got the night planned? You've got
Speaker 6: your going out to dinner. You're gonna go do x
Speaker 6: y Z. Now she's got a little bit of foem mo.
Speaker 6: She got a little bit of that fear of missing
Speaker 6: out on some action.
Speaker 5: I see what you're saying. You're saying you're trying to
Speaker 5: put the idea into the girl's head that you have
Speaker 5: a life outside of her, that she's not the only
Speaker 5: thing that's happening. And her answer isn't going to change you.
Speaker 5: But if she's lucky, you can squeeze her in right.
Speaker 3: So Okay, who did this work on that you went
Speaker 3: out with?
Speaker 6: Yeah? So this worked on Gina girl I met online
Speaker 6: on one of the apps. Very funny. Her and I
Speaker 6: were talking. Both had a sense of humor.
Speaker 3: That's sweet. What was your proposal? What did you already
Speaker 3: have planned that she could join you for?
Speaker 6: So I invited her this place that was opening that
Speaker 6: was serving some amazing seafood.
Speaker 5: Okay, you're like, oh, I'm going to check out this
Speaker 5: new seafood place. You want to come with?
Speaker 7: Yeah?
Speaker 6: But I said, listen, we have half an hour, Like
Speaker 6: you gotta get ready now, you know a little bit
Speaker 6: of urgency.
Speaker 5: Maybe a girl I'd be like, yeah, dog, some food.
Speaker 3: I mean, I feel like I would say yes just
Speaker 3: because of the pressure. No matter what you're wearing, I
Speaker 3: don't have.
Speaker 5: Okay, you created urgency there that that's a good thing.
Speaker 5: So she was up for it.
Speaker 6: She was up for it, so I pick her up.
Speaker 6: She looked good. I looked good, and I told her,
Speaker 6: I said, listen, I'll drive. Get in the car. I'll
Speaker 6: drive us there. And we were almost there. I like it,
Speaker 6: keep going, I said, listen, put on this blindfold because
Speaker 6: where we're going it's going to be a surprise, and
Speaker 6: I want to surprise you.
Speaker 8: Okay, super romantic if this has been your girlfriend for
Speaker 8: two years, but the first date.
Speaker 3: You've never met her before.
Speaker 5: Hold on, let's not judge until we hear where this goes.
Speaker 6: So she puts the blindfold off. Okay, trust we get there.
Speaker 6: I take the blindfold off, and she sees a file
Speaker 6: of fish from McDonald's right in front of her.
Speaker 9: Why.
Speaker 3: I thought you were taking her to seafood.
Speaker 6: Hey it was seafood, right, technically fish.
Speaker 5: This whole thing was a prank that you were playing
Speaker 5: on her, telling her she's gonna have this nice meal,
Speaker 5: and you really took her to a fast food place.
Speaker 5: And gave her ash.
Speaker 6: So she takes the blindfold off and she's looking at
Speaker 6: this filet of fish and I just see this look
Speaker 6: of confusion over her face. She was she went through
Speaker 6: every emotion. She was like pissed off for a second,
Speaker 6: but at the end of it, she just started to laugh.
Speaker 10: Good.
Speaker 3: Wow, I mean she took it the right way.
Speaker 1: Either that or she's laughing like, oh my god, of
Speaker 1: course this is my dating life.
Speaker 3: The virgineers.
Speaker 5: Yeah, after the joke is over, were you able to
Speaker 5: establish a romantic bond with her?
Speaker 7: Yeah?
Speaker 6: No, don't forget. I'm dressed up too. So it was funny.
Speaker 9: You know.
Speaker 11: The whole thing is it's not just.
Speaker 5: At her expense.
Speaker 3: Wow, I'm just still processing it. All that's the girls
Speaker 3: are like.
Speaker 5: Yi, So, how did how did the date end?
Speaker 6: It was good, right, So we had a great time.
Speaker 6: I dropped her off at her place and she even
Speaker 6: admitted that that was funny.
Speaker 5: Okay, So what what's happened since then?
Speaker 6: So four or five days ago she invites me over
Speaker 6: to come to her place and hang out.
Speaker 5: During the nighttime or the daytime.
Speaker 3: I don't think she's gonna say come over at nine am. Jeffery.
Speaker 3: It must she's got, like, I don't know, a sink
Speaker 3: to unclock.
Speaker 11: Get over here.
Speaker 5: I thought it's a valid question. The timing is important
Speaker 5: that that's a good sign that she wants you over
Speaker 5: at any time of the day.
Speaker 3: I mean, she obviously likes you, she's inviting you over.
Speaker 6: Yeah, so that's what I thought. So I go to
Speaker 6: her house, I'd knock on her door and she doesn't answer.
Speaker 3: Oh, maybe it's another prank. You guys are just the
Speaker 3: prank couple. I would feel good to get him back.
Speaker 5: Actually, it would were laughing on.
Speaker 6: The other end.
Speaker 5: If it was really late at night, maybe she fell
Speaker 5: asleep before he arrived.
Speaker 3: Oh, that's happened. Or if it was early in the morning.
Speaker 5: Maybe this is why the time question was so important.
Speaker 5: I guess we're never gonna.
Speaker 3: Know what time of day it was was, d did
Speaker 3: you hit snooze, buddy?
Speaker 5: We're never gonna know, because now we gotta go, and
Speaker 5: we're gonna come back and try and get you a
Speaker 5: second date update and maybe get some clarity on what
Speaker 5: time it was. Right after this hold.
Speaker 4: On second date update.
Speaker 5: Pranking your date on your very first meetup is either
Speaker 5: the move of a very confident man or a very
Speaker 5: foolish one thing. We're just trying to figure out which
Speaker 5: one of those categories are listener Chris falls into because
Speaker 5: he convinced his date Gina, to dress up really really
Speaker 5: nice to go out and eat some seafood.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and she only had a half an hour to
Speaker 3: get ready.
Speaker 7: Yeah.
Speaker 5: Technically he wasn't lying because he did treat her to
Speaker 5: seafood a filet of fish sandwich at a McDonald's.
Speaker 1: Which I will say, it's my best friend's favorite. If
Speaker 1: a man took her to get a yes, she's she'd
Speaker 1: be like, I'm divorcing my husband to marry you.
Speaker 5: Books friends love language. But they were able to laugh
Speaker 5: about it afterwards after the prank was over, and they've
Speaker 5: been in contact since then.
Speaker 3: She hasn't invited him over, so a.
Speaker 5: Lot of good signs. The only problem is it's not
Speaker 5: resulting in a date yet. But that's going to be
Speaker 5: our job to step in.
Speaker 3: That's crazy that she didn't answer the door, just standing there.
Speaker 5: I know that's rude. Actually, yeah, maybe he got the
Speaker 5: wrong door. We don't know.
Speaker 11: I didn't think that.
Speaker 4: Maybe it was a big.
Speaker 5: Apartment complex and she just texted the apartment like building,
Speaker 5: not a specific rum.
Speaker 6: No, it definitely wasn't the wrong door because it was
Speaker 6: the same door that I picked her up in.
Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, oh yeah, I forgot about that part. All right.
Speaker 5: Well I'm a dummy, So let's just end this part
Speaker 5: and get to the part where we call her and
Speaker 5: figure out what's going on.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 6: You know, I'm just a little lost here because I'm
Speaker 6: knocking at the door. She didn't answer, and you know,
Speaker 6: I don't know what's going on here.
Speaker 3: You are being really understanding, which is nice.
Speaker 8: I mean, she invited you over for sure, like there
Speaker 8: wasn't like, uh, you know, there was no miscommunication text.
Speaker 3: How do you miscommunicate that?
Speaker 8: I don't know, you want to kick it some time?
Speaker 5: And he's like on my way?
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, no, this was very clear, point blank.
Speaker 5: Okay, well, let's just point blank ask her why she's
Speaker 5: not going out with you.
Speaker 11: I'm dialing her number right now. Here we go, Hello,
Speaker 11: Hey is this Gina? U?
Speaker 6: Yeah? This is she?
Speaker 5: Are you sure you're Gina? Took a second.
Speaker 1: She knows she's Gina, she doesn't know who you are. Yeah,
Speaker 1: well you're the weird one in this situation.
Speaker 5: I'm Jeff from a radio show called Brook and Jeffrey
Speaker 5: in the Morning.
Speaker 3: The whole shows here. Hello, Yeah, yeah, it's a little weird.
Speaker 6: What's this about.
Speaker 5: This is about a segment that we do called a
Speaker 5: second Date Update, and we're trying to help one of
Speaker 5: our listeners meet up with you again after you already
Speaker 5: went out with him one time. His name is Chris.
Speaker 12: Yeah, I know Chris. But did I sign up to this?
Speaker 5: No, this isn't something you sign up for. Chris emailed
Speaker 5: us because he told us about your guys' first date together.
Speaker 3: He's a spontaneous guy that Chris right. Pretty funny too.
Speaker 12: Yeah, he's quite the charmer.
Speaker 4: Yeah is that good?
Speaker 5: He told us about the little pal joke that he played.
Speaker 1: I would love to know what was going through your
Speaker 1: head when he put a blindfold on you.
Speaker 3: You put it on yourself, I guess.
Speaker 12: But well, I mean at that point, I didn't have
Speaker 12: a choice. I was in his car, But you.
Speaker 3: Had a choice to put the blindfold on. You could
Speaker 3: have said no.
Speaker 4: I mean you're fully committed.
Speaker 12: I was committed. I mean I like him, and I
Speaker 12: mean it was low key funny at the end of
Speaker 12: the day.
Speaker 5: So yeah, I mean we got the sense that you
Speaker 5: must have liked him, because we heard that you even
Speaker 5: invited him over one one or one time.
Speaker 6: It wasn't I don't know specifically, so hung up on that,
Speaker 6: I like an idiot for it.
Speaker 5: Well, okay, you invited him over at some point, and
Speaker 5: he says that he went there and that you didn't
Speaker 5: answer the door.
Speaker 12: Oh so he told you that part too.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean it was a pretty important part of everything, right,
Speaker 1: because that's when that's when he stopped responding to him.
Speaker 5: Well, the weird thing is that normally when we do
Speaker 5: this segment, people will ghost each other over text, or
Speaker 5: they'll just like break off communication. They won't actually set
Speaker 5: up a time to meet that person at their own
Speaker 5: place and then just not show up and answer the door.
Speaker 3: You know, I kind of like the old school physically
Speaker 3: doing there. It's a lot more mystery.
Speaker 5: She's just watching into the key hole. We're just trying
Speaker 5: to help Chris get some understanding of what's going on
Speaker 5: between you two.
Speaker 12: You know, given his well thought out plan, I wanted
Speaker 12: to get him back, and my plan didn't work.
Speaker 1: Wait what you were setting up a whole elaborate prank
Speaker 1: to prank him back?
Speaker 12: Of course?
Speaker 5: Oh what didn't work? What part of the plan.
Speaker 12: So I take him that night and I said, hey,
Speaker 12: do you wanna hook up?
Speaker 7: Hey?
Speaker 9: All right?
Speaker 3: Oh it was a text, right, and so.
Speaker 12: I was like, I need you to come over in
Speaker 12: a half hour.
Speaker 1: That should have been the red flag for him, is
Speaker 1: the half hour, because he gave her a half hour
Speaker 1: just mirroring.
Speaker 3: Okay, he still.
Speaker 8: Like, oh my gosh, we're hooking up, and.
Speaker 3: So what's the joke.
Speaker 13: So, I mean it was late and he did come over,
Speaker 13: And the thing is that I have a friend who's
Speaker 13: a tow truck driver. Okay, okay, So I live on
Speaker 13: the third floor and I have a clear view to
Speaker 13: the street view, and he would have seen the tow
Speaker 13: truck driver hook up his car.
Speaker 3: Oh you weren't going to answer the door, and you
Speaker 3: were going to get his car towed. And that was
Speaker 3: the joke.
Speaker 12: I mean, not fully toad, but you know, hooked up
Speaker 12: at least to the tow truck.
Speaker 5: So that was the joke. You invited him to be
Speaker 5: hooking up and what you meant was hooking up his
Speaker 5: car to a tow truck.
Speaker 12: What else would you have done? He did the whole
Speaker 12: seafood thing that it's.
Speaker 3: A little fall, so I don't think he got the joke.
Speaker 1: Wait, did the tow truck thing happen because he didn't
Speaker 1: tell us about it?
Speaker 6: No.
Speaker 12: See, that's the thing. My friend had another call where
Speaker 12: he actually was gonna make some money and he.
Speaker 5: Oh, that's why your plan failed.
Speaker 7: Good you didn't.
Speaker 3: So why haven't you called him back?
Speaker 12: Well, because I'm trying to step this up again. It
Speaker 12: was a great idea.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, my god, meant for each other.
Speaker 5: It's ruined.
Speaker 3: Wouldn't have been ruined if we didn't call her out.
Speaker 5: I'm sorry. We totally screwed this up for you, Joe
Speaker 5: who plan? Because actually, Chris has been on the other
Speaker 5: line listening to this conversation the entire time.
Speaker 12: Are you guys hitting me?
Speaker 11: No? No?
Speaker 3: W did you want to Oh that was good? Hose Edge.
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, I'm sorry.
Speaker 3: It was an elaborate praise you guy.
Speaker 12: You ruined everything that's there.
Speaker 6: Yeah. Wow, this is not cool, Gina, not cool?
Speaker 3: Why are you laughing? Chris? I thought this would be
Speaker 3: exactly your type of humor.
Speaker 6: Yeah, but my car, I mean that's an it's an
Speaker 6: expensive car. You gotta be careful. I mean, she's gonna
Speaker 6: have my car, Toad, you can damage the car?
Speaker 4: What did I do?
Speaker 7: I bought her a Missdonald.
Speaker 3: Didn't know we had the fun police on the.
Speaker 9: Right. I haven't.
Speaker 8: Buddies have damaged their car while they're getting towed fish full.
Speaker 5: But the plan. I don't think the plan was to
Speaker 5: totally like towe your car away to some like car
Speaker 5: lot and make you pay to get it out. I
Speaker 5: ever heard it. I think it was just like to
Speaker 5: hook it up as a joke, right, Gina, Right.
Speaker 12: I mean it would have worked had my friend not
Speaker 12: had to leave for.
Speaker 4: A real call.
Speaker 6: I mean, I'm glad the plant didn't work.
Speaker 12: That's not it.
Speaker 6: That's not even a prank. I mean, my pranks are good.
Speaker 1: Oh God, did I thought you were going to be
Speaker 1: so excited you just found out this woman that you
Speaker 1: like was planning on seeing you again.
Speaker 6: Yeah, listen, this doesn't work in a relationship. There's only
Speaker 6: room for like one funny person.
Speaker 1: Not too God.
Speaker 5: And it's the same thing with the morning show. Only
Speaker 5: one of us can be funny. And yeah that's Jeff. No,
Speaker 5: I don't know who it is.
Speaker 12: Wasn't that funny? Honestly?
Speaker 5: Oh, this is going south a little bit.
Speaker 1: I can't believe you found a woman who was okay
Speaker 1: with being pranked into a McDonald's dinner and you're negative
Speaker 1: about blindfold blindfolded.
Speaker 10: I forgot that is.
Speaker 5: I mean, look, Chris, she's able to brush off your prank.
Speaker 5: Why can't you just brush off hers and laugh with her?
Speaker 6: Her prank is borderline dangerous, and you know she's gonna
Speaker 6: try to prank me again somehow, and who knows she
Speaker 6: might set the house on fire. I don't know like this, I.
Speaker 12: Have about four or five ideas.
Speaker 5: There is a prank cover.
Speaker 1: I think they're coming, whether they go out again or not.
Speaker 5: Well, yeah, I mean there's unfinished business between you guys,
Speaker 5: whether it's romance or pranking each other. So I'm going
Speaker 5: to offer to send you guys out again on another
Speaker 5: date that we would pay for. Plus we'll toss in
Speaker 5: a couple of Brooke and Jam free Whoope cushions from
Speaker 5: I'm probably.
Speaker 6: Gonna stop you right there and just say that I'm
Speaker 6: not interested in you.
Speaker 12: Probably, yeah, are you?
Speaker 3: It was one bad taking the mud.
Speaker 5: I'm not sure if I apologize to Gina here, or
Speaker 5: if I apologize to Chris, or maybe I should just
Speaker 5: apologize to the listeners. Listeners, I'm sorry that you had
Speaker 5: to sit through.
Speaker 4: All of that.
Speaker 3: It was on a joke. It was just a joke.
Speaker 10: We got.
Speaker 4: Second datelhone tap so.
Speaker 9: Good brooking Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 5: Why doesn't anybody just blurt out I love you anymore
Speaker 5: on the first date? Why is it that now everybody
Speaker 5: is like I saw on Instagram video and now I'm
Speaker 5: gonna trick the person and prank them, and then they're
Speaker 5: gonna prank me back, and now everything's confusing and unclear.
Speaker 5: But that's just how dating is because it's the Internet.
Speaker 8: Trend right now.
Speaker 1: I think even before the Internet, nobody's blurting out I
Speaker 1: love you on the first date. Jeff I was weird
Speaker 1: in like eighteen fifty.
Speaker 5: It's weird the good old days. I am begging anybody listen.
Speaker 5: If you recently went on a first date and you
Speaker 5: confess your undying love for them in the first ten minutes,
Speaker 5: and you're wondering why they're not calling you back, shoot
Speaker 5: us an email. I would love to do an easy, simple,
Speaker 5: straightforward call like that.
Speaker 3: Why you're just telling me, well, because they don't love
Speaker 3: you back, what.
Speaker 4: Do you want?
Speaker 5: They were too perfect.
Speaker 1: Yes, I don't know what world you and Jose are
Speaker 1: living in right now, but I don't think it exists.
Speaker 5: I'm having a good time in it. Yeah, I guess
Speaker 5: we'll just stick with the total confusion and game playing
Speaker 5: and pranking all right.
Speaker 3: Makes for great radio, jeff isn't that what we're here for?
Speaker 5: That's true. Up, my head hurts right now.
Speaker 3: I love it creating.
Speaker 5: You can always email the show. We'll call that person
Speaker 5: who wasn't.
Speaker 9: Calling you back, brooking Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 5: Rarely on this show do we talk about international love.
Speaker 5: That's true, And I don't mean my college semester abroad
Speaker 5: in Queensland, Australia. Hello, lifeguards.
Speaker 3: I don't hear any more about that story.
Speaker 5: I don't think there really is my more to that story.
Speaker 3: Okay, that's what it is.
Speaker 5: I mean, flying across the ocean just to meet someone
Speaker 5: who you believe could be the one. Wow, we have
Speaker 5: a listener who actually did that, took that flight, and
Speaker 5: you're gonna find out what happened in your second date.
Speaker 4: Update, next second date update.
Speaker 5: In this segment, there's a lot of logic that goes
Speaker 5: into our thinking about whether a pair should be together.
Speaker 1: Or not.
Speaker 5: We're always asking like is that fair? Does that make sense?
Speaker 9: Sure?
Speaker 5: I think there's not enough heart in our decision making
Speaker 5: because love isn't always rational. We need to start thinking
Speaker 5: with that other body, the heart.
Speaker 4: The heart.
Speaker 5: Let's think with that. And we've got a guy on
Speaker 5: the phone who's got a whole lot of heart going on.
Speaker 5: His name is Randall.
Speaker 3: Why do I feel like it's a euphemism every time
Speaker 3: you say it, Jack.
Speaker 5: Is not not if you think with your heart, Brooks. So, Randall,
Speaker 5: after take you seriously, after just reading your email, I
Speaker 5: hope whatever the universe gives you here today you accept
Speaker 5: with open arms.
Speaker 7: Oh brother, I couldn't have said it better myself.
Speaker 4: Oh good.
Speaker 6: I don't know.
Speaker 5: Some of us are more emotional and heart driven in
Speaker 5: this room.
Speaker 3: But I don't know when you're being serious or not.
Speaker 5: That's a very analytical, pessimistic way to me as a person.
Speaker 4: He's doing it right now.
Speaker 5: Okay, just accept me for who I am deep inside,
Speaker 5: and not for what I say what I do. Randall,
Speaker 5: you're with me here, so tell us about your situation.
Speaker 5: It sounds like it's a little bit complicated.
Speaker 7: Okay, it's gonna sound a little unusual. But for a
Speaker 7: year I've been texting a woman in Vietnam and we've
Speaker 7: had a very deep connection, and we've gotten to know
Speaker 7: one another so well that I fell deep in love
Speaker 7: with this woman.
Speaker 5: WHOA good for you?
Speaker 1: I mean, you guys just found each other on the
Speaker 1: internet somehow.
Speaker 7: Yeah, we found each other on the internet and decided
Speaker 7: to start texting, and it was like a whirlwind romance
Speaker 7: for me.
Speaker 3: Why did you say it was? Isn't it still?
Speaker 7: Well? I wanted to profess my love to her in person.
Speaker 7: So we decided that I was going to fly out
Speaker 7: and I was going to meet her.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, were you so nervous?
Speaker 5: Dude?
Speaker 7: Yes, I flew out. I was excited the whole trip.
Speaker 7: I couldn't sleep, I couldn't eat.
Speaker 5: Oh my god. Wow.
Speaker 1: Yeah, what was it like when you land and you
Speaker 1: finally get to see each other in person?
Speaker 7: Well? I landed, I went to where we were supposed
Speaker 7: to meet, and she didn't show up.
Speaker 1: Oh man, I think that that is like the cruelest
Speaker 1: thing that's going on right now.
Speaker 5: Here's even so many people, actually, dude, that's terrible. So
Speaker 5: we all hate Vietnamese fake girl. Now, so where are
Speaker 5: you in your in your love life now well.
Speaker 7: And you guys will be happy to learn that I
Speaker 7: met another woman from the Philippine.
Speaker 5: Oh God, here we go.
Speaker 7: We met online again, But I know this woman's real.
Speaker 3: How they could be real? But are they employed by
Speaker 3: someone else?
Speaker 5: Who are they?
Speaker 4: They're real?
Speaker 7: Her? We didn't FaceTime, but we've been texting a lot.
Speaker 7: And let me tell you. I know you're gonna think
Speaker 7: I'm crazy, but my heart tells me it's real.
Speaker 5: Okay, we're throwing logic out the window, all rational, We're
Speaker 5: only listening to our hearts.
Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, now I understand j intro.
Speaker 5: Oh I'm realrus So is that are we calling this
Speaker 5: girl in the Philippines right now?
Speaker 7: No? No, here's what I need you guys to help
Speaker 7: me with my friend. You know everything that happened with
Speaker 7: the last girl. He said to me, why not just
Speaker 7: meet a woman locally, face to face and just how
Speaker 7: it goes. Yeah, so I did. I actually got online
Speaker 7: and I matched with a young lady and we met
Speaker 7: up at a bar and her name is Georgina.
Speaker 1: Okay, so you we're not a day with Georgina, but
Speaker 1: you're in love with the woman from the Philippines.
Speaker 7: Yes, I'm just trying to see if maybe I am
Speaker 7: supposed to meet someone locally, just to see where love
Speaker 7: may take me.
Speaker 1: Well, and you're a lover, You're a true romantic and
Speaker 1: with everyone you see, that's okay.
Speaker 5: Can we know more about Georgina at the bar?
Speaker 7: Yes, we just had a great conversation. She's been through
Speaker 7: some hurt in her past too, so we bonded over
Speaker 7: that and we just really had a deep conversation, nothing
Speaker 7: too deep, just conversations about life and our goals and
Speaker 7: what we would like to achieve.
Speaker 4: And it was nice.
Speaker 3: Were usually people following nothing too deep with like favorite movie.
Speaker 5: Yeah, anyway, what's your dog's name?
Speaker 3: Whoa, whoa, whoa whoa?
Speaker 7: All right, So now I got to be honest though
Speaker 7: I felt like I was cheating on my Philippine girl.
Speaker 7: So I'm a little torn and I had a good time.
Speaker 7: So want to put it in the universe's hands, in
Speaker 7: universe being you guys, and I want to see if
Speaker 7: this person wants to pursue this. I'm not going to
Speaker 7: the Philippines, but if they don't, then I'm on the
Speaker 7: first plane out of here.
Speaker 1: Oh okay, So if Georgina wants to pursue a relationship
Speaker 1: with you, then you're gonna just totally leave the Filipino girl.
Speaker 3: But is she not texting you back? Or why do
Speaker 3: you need us?
Speaker 7: Yeah? So we just had the date last night, so
Speaker 7: I don't even really know what to do.
Speaker 3: Well, we can jump in before things go wrong?
Speaker 4: Yeah does Yeah.
Speaker 5: Also, he's a guy that clearly operates through grand romantic gestures.
Speaker 5: And what better way to do like a big gesture
Speaker 5: to Georgina than to have a radio show call engauge
Speaker 5: how she feels about him in a cosmic sort of way.
Speaker 1: But we shouldn't push if she says no, because that's
Speaker 1: the universe, right that.
Speaker 5: Like analytical, rational, logical context.
Speaker 3: I'm trying to act like the universe, and I feel
Speaker 3: like the universe just goes with the flow.
Speaker 5: Jet exactly, So stop overthinking it. Let's just call this
Speaker 5: lady and see where her heart is at when we
Speaker 5: do the second date update.
Speaker 4: Right after this second date update, we're.
Speaker 5: In the middle of your second date update, And if
Speaker 5: you missed the first part, the universe was brought up
Speaker 5: a lot. Yes, because our listener Randall has put his
Speaker 5: fate into our hands, saying we are the universe, and
Speaker 5: I guess that makes brook.
Speaker 3: Uranus a giant gas plan and the.
Speaker 5: Rest of us are stars. Because here's the situation. Randall's
Speaker 5: been heartbroken before. He flew to Vietnam to meet a woman,
Speaker 5: ended up getting catfished there, then fell for another lady
Speaker 5: from the Philippines who he has not met her yet,
Speaker 5: not even FaceTime, but in his heart he feels that
Speaker 5: their connection is true. He's in love, he said, he's
Speaker 5: in love with her. Absolutely, Randall on a scale one
Speaker 5: out of ten. How serious are you about Philippines girl?
Speaker 7: I am so serious that if this doesn't work out today,
Speaker 7: I am on the first plane to the Philippines with
Speaker 7: a ring in my hands.
Speaker 8: Can I recommend not the first It's gonna be very
Speaker 8: expensive flight.
Speaker 1: Maybe.
Speaker 5: Yes, But you're going to propose?
Speaker 7: Yes? Absolutely.
Speaker 1: You went on one date last night, Yeah, with Georgina.
Speaker 3: Writer's the name Georgina.
Speaker 7: Her name is Georgia.
Speaker 5: Yeah, good memory.
Speaker 1: Georgina is going to decide whether or not you propose
Speaker 1: to a woman in the Philippines.
Speaker 7: That's a lot of way think about it. This could
Speaker 7: be a sign from the universe. So let's just see
Speaker 7: what happened.
Speaker 2: Could protecting you, and also don't tell Georgina maybe about
Speaker 2: the backup plans about.
Speaker 3: He's really all or nothing type of guy and very honest.
Speaker 5: I think we just let the universe take control of
Speaker 5: the conversation. We're not going to plan anything out. I'm
Speaker 5: just going to start the number.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but don't you think we should zip it Uranus?
Speaker 5: We've got a universal business to attend to.
Speaker 3: You're not a star. You're like the moon of Uranus.
Speaker 3: I know it.
Speaker 6: You wish.
Speaker 5: Damn, let's just make this guy black hole right now?
Speaker 5: You want me to be anyway?
Speaker 4: Here we go.
Speaker 5: Hello, Hi, we're looking to speak with Georgina.
Speaker 4: This is her.
Speaker 5: This this is a morning radio show. We're called Brooke
Speaker 5: and Jeffrey, and we are very eager to speak with
Speaker 5: you today. Brooke, take it away.
Speaker 10: Why are you interested in speaking to me?
Speaker 3: We heard last night you hade a really great date.
Speaker 10: I did go on on a date last night.
Speaker 5: Yeah, would you say it was great?
Speaker 3: She took that word out?
Speaker 12: Okay, why do you even want to know?
Speaker 7: What?
Speaker 10: How did you even get my man?
Speaker 5: We actually got it from that guy Randall. And in
Speaker 5: this segment that we're doing, we're just trying to gauge
Speaker 5: and see how things go. Yeah, okay, so we're just
Speaker 5: trying to pry a little bit and ask you. You know,
Speaker 5: how was your date? How was the hangout?
Speaker 3: It's just a short review.
Speaker 10: I mean it was a good date.
Speaker 12: We had a couple of drinks.
Speaker 10: Randall was super thoughtful and nice.
Speaker 5: This all fits his character.
Speaker 3: Yeah, so you were feeling really good.
Speaker 10: I was until the very end, because it was a
Speaker 10: little bit weird, to say the least.
Speaker 5: Yeah, we don't know what happened at the end. He
Speaker 5: didn't mention that was there like a kiss.
Speaker 10: No, it was not a kiss. So basically he told me,
Speaker 10: I just want you to know this date meant a
Speaker 10: lot to me.
Speaker 3: Okay, that's good. That must make you feel great.
Speaker 12: It did.
Speaker 10: It did until the second part, in which he said,
Speaker 10: I don't know if I'm going going to propose to
Speaker 10: someone else. No, yeah, but it's been very nice to
Speaker 10: meet you.
Speaker 1: Okay, Oh my god, I bet your heart just sunk, like.
Speaker 10: Well, yeah, I was more confused than anything.
Speaker 5: I didn't wish it luck. Do you think there's any
Speaker 5: chance maybe it was just a line, like a little
Speaker 5: hard to get line to play towards you, to make
Speaker 5: himself seem a little bit more desirable.
Speaker 3: To get married, and second guesses, sounds like a good joke.
Speaker 5: Like how wild would it be if he really was engaged?
Speaker 8: Like, obviously he's kidding.
Speaker 10: Yeah, if it was a joke, it didn't work. It
Speaker 10: did not land.
Speaker 12: He should workshop that with someone else.
Speaker 1: Up until that very last sentence, you were planning on
Speaker 1: seeing him again.
Speaker 12: It definitely seemed like it was going in that direction.
Speaker 3: Okay answer, Okay, so that's our answer. Can we ignore
Speaker 3: the last sentence? Can we just forget that happened?
Speaker 10: It doesn't I think that would be textbook ignoring a flag.
Speaker 5: Well, maybe we could. We could replace it with some
Speaker 5: new sentences that he wants to say to you right now,
Speaker 5: because he is listening to this phone call.
Speaker 7: Well, I need to talk to her. I need I
Speaker 7: need to say something, Linda.
Speaker 12: What are you doing?
Speaker 5: Yeah, sorry, he's on the phone. That's how this segment works.
Speaker 5: We have him waiting.
Speaker 7: Georgina. I'm sorry. You were wonderful. I had a great time,
Speaker 7: but I got to tell you the whole story. A
Speaker 7: year ago, I fell in love with a person in Vietnam.
Speaker 7: They catfished me. I was heartbroken. I didn't know what
Speaker 7: to do. Then I found another person, and this woman's
Speaker 7: from the Philippines. I feel like she might be the one.
Speaker 7: I haven't met her yet. I haven't facetimed her. All.
Speaker 12: You have to wait. You haven't met her.
Speaker 7: No, No, I haven't met her yet.
Speaker 13: I'm just trying to face timed.
Speaker 12: Her, have you No, No, we have heard her voice.
Speaker 12: Do you know what she sounds like?
Speaker 7: No?
Speaker 5: I'm not sure where she's going with this? Where are
Speaker 5: you going with this?
Speaker 14: You you just admitted to getting cat fish for the
Speaker 14: Vietnamese person, and now you're putting yourself in the same
Speaker 14: scenario potentially with this woman from the Philippines, Like you
Speaker 14: do you not see the pattern here?
Speaker 7: But yes, I see what everyone else sees.
Speaker 12: But Adam sent this woman money.
Speaker 3: Oh we didn't know that.
Speaker 7: I mean not a lot, a little.
Speaker 5: Rand probably just for like a new phone so that
Speaker 5: they could text more.
Speaker 7: Oh, Randall, I gotta be a person.
Speaker 12: Of course, she needs help.
Speaker 10: She's an invisible woman on the internet who you don't know.
Speaker 5: Ye a man, Brook, Why don't you ever step in
Speaker 5: and tell Randall any of this stuff earlier?
Speaker 3: Jeffrey Randall.
Speaker 1: He is a hopeful truly a heartfelt guy, and he's
Speaker 1: just getting taken advantage of.
Speaker 3: And that is like so sad.
Speaker 5: I don't see it as a sad thing at all.
Speaker 3: I see Randall, give me money to a woman in
Speaker 3: the Philippines. It probably doesn't exist.
Speaker 5: You can money to random people you've never met. You before,
Speaker 5: you call it charity, and all of a sudden, you're
Speaker 5: a good person, yo, Like, I'm sorry. He's just he's
Speaker 5: got a big heart. He has a lot of hope
Speaker 5: and optimism, and he's willing to do whatever it takes
Speaker 5: to make love happen in his life. And he's willing
Speaker 5: to put himself out there, even put himself on the
Speaker 5: radio like this.
Speaker 7: Could I go with the girl in the Philippines or
Speaker 7: should I continue to pursue Georgina?
Speaker 3: Georgina, are you kidding me?
Speaker 12: I can hear you.
Speaker 3: You need to say something romantic to Georgina. Tell her
Speaker 3: why you tried this, why you finally went out on
Speaker 3: the limb and riss because his friend made him.
Speaker 7: Georgina, in all honesty, before our date, I was wholeheartedly
Speaker 7: in love with the young lady from the Philippines. But
Speaker 7: after meeting you, there's just something about you. I thought
Speaker 7: we had a connection. I didn't know if that was
Speaker 7: a universe telling me that I was making the wrong
Speaker 7: decision with the other girl.
Speaker 10: I appreciate your candor, but I will just tell you
Speaker 10: the difference between me and this other woman.
Speaker 12: I am real and the other person is a fantasy.
Speaker 10: So that's that's why you are so swept up, because
Speaker 10: that's what these scammers do.
Speaker 7: Yeah, you mean like there's a small percent, like one percent.
Speaker 7: She's not real?
Speaker 10: Definitely ninety nine one hundred, one hundred and nine about
Speaker 10: she's not real?
Speaker 13: And you know, I don't know where things are going
Speaker 13: to stand between us, but for.
Speaker 10: Now we should at least I will be your friend
Speaker 10: and help you navigate this situation if.
Speaker 13: That's what you need.
Speaker 3: Wow, georg that is amazing.
Speaker 4: Randall.
Speaker 5: You hear that she is willing to fight for you.
Speaker 3: We could take it that way. I love it, Jeff.
Speaker 5: Sure so she sure, she is willing to do whatever
Speaker 5: it takes. It sounds like to help you be your
Speaker 5: Sirpa through your romantic life.
Speaker 3: Riddle. This is a real one, Georgina is a real one.
Speaker 3: Please don't pass up this chance.
Speaker 7: No woman has ever fought from me before, well, let's.
Speaker 5: Get the boxing gloves on and get this going. Because Georgina,
Speaker 5: we want to send you and Randall out on another
Speaker 5: day and we'll pay for it if you say yes.
Speaker 12: Well I am willing to do that.
Speaker 7: Thank you, Thank you, Georgina. You are such a caring
Speaker 7: time person. I can't wait for us to hang out again.
Speaker 5: Oh.
Speaker 3: I look forward to it.
Speaker 5: Okay, And how much money do you want him to
Speaker 5: send you, Georgina before this date happens, you.
Speaker 12: Get to pay me in person.
Speaker 4: We're fine.
Speaker 5: Oh gosh, the universe did Congratulations you two you're going.
Speaker 4: Out the other day.
Speaker 3: Seriously, Thank God for Georgia. Stressful, save this guy.
Speaker 12: I gotta save this guy.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's brookod Jeffrey in the.
Speaker 9: Morning, Brooking Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 5: Hey, look at that. We actually got a yes today, Dude.
Speaker 3: I have ever been more thankful for one of our listeners.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm The thing is, it wasn't necessarily a romantic yes,
Speaker 5: but the opportunity for romance is there.
Speaker 3: I mean, by him. I'm sure he's going to fall
Speaker 3: in love with her, there's no question on that. But
Speaker 3: I mean the whole thing is, hopefully she saves him.
Speaker 3: From getting scammed out of tons of money.
Speaker 8: Yeah, I just think you're right. I think he needs
Speaker 8: to not talk to another woman ever. Yeah, because he
Speaker 8: falls alone with everyone.
Speaker 5: Yeah who said that? Because it does feel like everybody
Speaker 5: Randall meets or talks to he immediately falls forth. So Brook,
Speaker 5: make sure to check your DMS tomorrow because there's probably
Speaker 5: a message in there that says the way you handled
Speaker 5: that second date was just magnanimous. Perhaps the universe willed
Speaker 5: this call into existence just so I could hear your
Speaker 5: beautiful nasally voice and find my true compass.
Speaker 3: Hey, yeah, Naisley, thank you, jeff But those are Randalls. Yes, Randall,
Speaker 3: if you're listening, please dm Alexis instead.
Speaker 5: Yes, you can hear all of our lovely voices for
Speaker 5: hours on end if you listen to our Second Date
Speaker 5: Update podcast. Wherever you get yours, just search Brooke and
Speaker 5: Jeffrey