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Speaker 1: You know, it's like peanut butter and jelly. They just

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Speaker 1: go together, really truly. It's Fricka Jeffrey in the morning,

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Speaker 1: your Second Date podcast, and Saturdays we do too.

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Speaker 2: Yes, so those are what go together, the Saturday and

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Speaker 3: Just try to think of two things I like it.

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Speaker 1: I would reference the candy bar twigs, but Alexis just

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Speaker 3: Just not my whole life. I've been getting given smaller

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Speaker 1: Before we get into your back to back classics, we

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Speaker 1: love to highlight what you what you leave.

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Speaker 3: For us your notes.

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Speaker 2: Yes Z commented on last week's classics and said, whoa,

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Speaker 2: I didn't realize I've been a silent listener for over

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Speaker 4: Well.

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Speaker 3: I love your show.

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Speaker 2: I always listen to while working and it helps me

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Speaker 3: Love from the Philippines. Ah, that's so cool. Thanks for

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Speaker 3: being here all the way from the Philippines. Yeah, that's awesome.

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Speaker 3: You know, time goes quickly. It really does alight the

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Speaker 1: Let's get into the second day classics, back to back

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Speaker 5: Here at Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. We make

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Speaker 5: big surprise he planned for his date night. I will

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Speaker 5: tell you there was a blindfold involved and a little

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Speaker 5: this second Date up date, a guy named Chris wrote

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Speaker 5: But Chris explained he learned a new strategy from a

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Speaker 3: Wait, she's not thinking, Wow, I'm really excited to us

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Speaker 5: She's thinking if I say yes, then I'm giving him

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Speaker 3: I don't know's I don't think that's how women think.

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Speaker 3: I love when men say what women think? It's so cute. Okay, continue, Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Well, let's talk to Chris about this and see what

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Speaker 5: it's all about. Chris, how you doing? Man?

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Speaker 6: Hey, good man, how are you?

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Speaker 5: I'm very curious to learn what this strategy is.

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Speaker 6: It's a fantastic little trick here.

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Speaker 5: Okay, So you don't ask a woman, hey, do you

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Speaker 6: What you got to do is you got to tell

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Speaker 3: Okay, So like you're going to dinner by yourself?

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Speaker 5: I mean, funny. I think you have a lot of friends,

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Speaker 6: Well, yes, you got to plan out your night a

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Speaker 6: Yeah, you tell you got the night planned? You've got

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Speaker 5: I see what you're saying. You're saying you're trying to

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Speaker 5: But if she's lucky, you can squeeze her in right.

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Speaker 3: So Okay, who did this work on that you went

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Speaker 6: Yeah? So this worked on Gina girl I met online

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Speaker 3: That's sweet. What was your proposal? What did you already

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Speaker 6: So I invited her this place that was opening that

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Speaker 5: Okay, you created urgency there that that's a good thing.

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Speaker 6: She was up for it, so I pick her up.

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Speaker 6: She looked good. I looked good, and I told her,

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Speaker 6: So she puts the blindfold off. Okay, trust we get there.

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Speaker 3: I thought you were taking her to seafood.

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Speaker 6: Hey it was seafood, right, technically fish.

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Speaker 5: This whole thing was a prank that you were playing

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Speaker 6: So she takes the blindfold off and she's looking at

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Speaker 3: The virgineers.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, after the joke is over, were you able to

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Speaker 6: No, don't forget. I'm dressed up too. So it was funny.

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Speaker 11: The whole thing is it's not just.

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Speaker 6: It was good, right, So we had a great time.

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Speaker 5: Okay, So what what's happened since then?

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Speaker 6: So four or five days ago she invites me over

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Speaker 3: Oh, maybe it's another prank. You guys are just the

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Speaker 5: Actually, it would were laughing on.

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Speaker 5: Pranking your date on your very first meetup is either

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Speaker 5: he convinced his date Gina, to dress up really really

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Speaker 5: Technically he wasn't lying because he did treat her to

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Speaker 5: Lot of good signs. The only problem is it's not

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Speaker 6: No, it definitely wasn't the wrong door because it was

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Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, oh yeah, I forgot about that part. All right.

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Speaker 5: Well I'm a dummy, So let's just end this part

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: You know, I'm just a little lost here because I'm

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Speaker 3: You are being really understanding, which is nice.

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Speaker 8: I mean, she invited you over for sure, like there

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Speaker 3: How do you miscommunicate that?

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Speaker 8: I don't know, you want to kick it some time?

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Speaker 5: And he's like on my way?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, no, this was very clear, point blank.

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Speaker 5: Okay, well, let's just point blank ask her why she's

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Speaker 11: I'm dialing her number right now. Here we go, Hello,

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Speaker 11: Hey is this Gina? U?

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Speaker 6: Yeah? This is she?

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Speaker 5: Are you sure you're Gina? Took a second.

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Speaker 1: She knows she's Gina, she doesn't know who you are. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: well you're the weird one in this situation.

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Speaker 5: I'm Jeff from a radio show called Brook and Jeffrey

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Speaker 5: in the Morning.

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Speaker 3: The whole shows here. Hello, Yeah, yeah, it's a little weird.

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Speaker 6: What's this about.

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Speaker 5: This is about a segment that we do called a

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Speaker 5: second Date Update, and we're trying to help one of

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Speaker 5: our listeners meet up with you again after you already

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Speaker 5: went out with him one time. His name is Chris.

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Speaker 12: Yeah, I know Chris. But did I sign up to this?

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Speaker 5: No, this isn't something you sign up for. Chris emailed

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Speaker 5: us because he told us about your guys' first date together.

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Speaker 3: He's a spontaneous guy that Chris right. Pretty funny too.

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Speaker 12: Yeah, he's quite the charmer.

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Speaker 4: Yeah is that good?

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Speaker 5: He told us about the little pal joke that he played.

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Speaker 1: I would love to know what was going through your

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Speaker 3: You put it on yourself, I guess.

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Speaker 12: But well, I mean at that point, I didn't have

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Speaker 3: Had a choice to put the blindfold on. You could

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Speaker 4: I mean you're fully committed.

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Speaker 12: I was committed. I mean I like him, and I

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Speaker 5: So yeah, I mean we got the sense that you

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Speaker 6: It wasn't I don't know specifically, so hung up on that,

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Speaker 6: I like an idiot for it.

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Speaker 5: Well, okay, you invited him over at some point, and

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Speaker 12: Oh so he told you that part too.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean it was a pretty important part of everything, right,

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Speaker 1: because that's when that's when he stopped responding to him.

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Speaker 5: Well, the weird thing is that normally when we do

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Speaker 3: You know, I kind of like the old school physically

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Speaker 5: She's just watching into the key hole. We're just trying

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Speaker 12: You know, given his well thought out plan, I wanted

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Speaker 12: to get him back, and my plan didn't work.

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Speaker 1: Wait what you were setting up a whole elaborate prank

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Speaker 1: to prank him back?

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Speaker 12: Of course?

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Speaker 5: Oh what didn't work? What part of the plan.

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Speaker 12: So I take him that night and I said, hey,

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Speaker 7: Hey?

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Speaker 9: All right?

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Speaker 3: Oh it was a text, right, and so.

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Speaker 12: I was like, I need you to come over in

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Speaker 1: That should have been the red flag for him, is

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Speaker 1: just mirroring.

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Speaker 3: Okay, he still.

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Speaker 8: Like, oh my gosh, we're hooking up, and.

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Speaker 3: So what's the joke.

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Speaker 13: So, I mean it was late and he did come over,

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Speaker 13: And the thing is that I have a friend who's

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Speaker 13: a tow truck driver. Okay, okay, So I live on

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Speaker 3: Oh you weren't going to answer the door, and you

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Speaker 3: were going to get his car towed. And that was

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Speaker 3: the joke.

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Speaker 12: I mean, not fully toad, but you know, hooked up

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Speaker 12: at least to the tow truck.

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Speaker 5: So that was the joke. You invited him to be

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Speaker 5: hooking up and what you meant was hooking up his

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Speaker 12: What else would you have done? He did the whole

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Speaker 12: seafood thing that it's.

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Speaker 3: A little fall, so I don't think he got the joke.

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Speaker 1: Wait, did the tow truck thing happen because he didn't

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Speaker 1: tell us about it?

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Speaker 6: No.

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Speaker 12: See, that's the thing. My friend had another call where

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Speaker 12: he actually was gonna make some money and he.

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Speaker 5: Oh, that's why your plan failed.

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Speaker 7: Good you didn't.

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Speaker 3: So why haven't you called him back?

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Speaker 12: Well, because I'm trying to step this up again. It

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Speaker 12: was a great idea.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, my god, meant for each other.

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Speaker 5: It's ruined.

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Speaker 3: Wouldn't have been ruined if we didn't call her out.

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Speaker 5: I'm sorry. We totally screwed this up for you, Joe

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Speaker 5: who plan? Because actually, Chris has been on the other

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Speaker 12: Are you guys hitting me?

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Speaker 11: No? No?

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Speaker 3: W did you want to Oh that was good? Hose Edge.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 3: It was an elaborate praise you guy.

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Speaker 12: You ruined everything that's there.

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Speaker 6: Yeah. Wow, this is not cool, Gina, not cool?

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Speaker 3: Why are you laughing? Chris? I thought this would be

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Speaker 6: Yeah, but my car, I mean that's an it's an

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Speaker 6: expensive car. You gotta be careful. I mean, she's gonna

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Speaker 6: have my car, Toad, you can damage the car?

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Speaker 4: What did I do?

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Speaker 7: I bought her a Missdonald.

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Speaker 3: Didn't know we had the fun police on the.

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Speaker 9: Right. I haven't.

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Speaker 8: Buddies have damaged their car while they're getting towed fish full.

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Speaker 5: But the plan. I don't think the plan was to

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Speaker 5: totally like towe your car away to some like car

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Speaker 5: lot and make you pay to get it out. I

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Speaker 5: ever heard it. I think it was just like to

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Speaker 5: hook it up as a joke, right, Gina, Right.

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Speaker 12: I mean it would have worked had my friend not

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Speaker 4: A real call.

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Speaker 6: I mean, I'm glad the plant didn't work.

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Speaker 12: That's not it.

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Speaker 6: That's not even a prank. I mean, my pranks are good.

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Speaker 1: Oh God, did I thought you were going to be

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Speaker 1: so excited you just found out this woman that you

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Speaker 6: Yeah, listen, this doesn't work in a relationship. There's only

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Speaker 1: Not too God.

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Speaker 5: And it's the same thing with the morning show. Only

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Speaker 5: one of us can be funny. And yeah that's Jeff. No,

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Speaker 5: I don't know who it is.

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Speaker 12: Wasn't that funny? Honestly?

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Speaker 5: Oh, this is going south a little bit.

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Speaker 1: I can't believe you found a woman who was okay

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Speaker 1: with being pranked into a McDonald's dinner and you're negative

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Speaker 10: I forgot that is.

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Speaker 5: I mean, look, Chris, she's able to brush off your prank.

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Speaker 5: Why can't you just brush off hers and laugh with her?

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Speaker 6: Her prank is borderline dangerous, and you know she's gonna

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Speaker 6: try to prank me again somehow, and who knows she

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Speaker 6: might set the house on fire. I don't know like this, I.

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Speaker 12: Have about four or five ideas.

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Speaker 5: There is a prank cover.

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Speaker 1: I think they're coming, whether they go out again or not.

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Speaker 5: Well, yeah, I mean there's unfinished business between you guys,

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Speaker 5: whether it's romance or pranking each other. So I'm going

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Speaker 5: to offer to send you guys out again on another

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Speaker 5: date that we would pay for. Plus we'll toss in

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Speaker 5: a couple of Brooke and Jam free Whoope cushions from

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Speaker 5: I'm probably.

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Speaker 6: Gonna stop you right there and just say that I'm

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Speaker 12: Probably, yeah, are you?

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Speaker 3: It was one bad taking the mud.

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Speaker 5: I'm not sure if I apologize to Gina here, or

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Speaker 5: if I apologize to Chris, or maybe I should just

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Speaker 5: apologize to the listeners. Listeners, I'm sorry that you had

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Speaker 4: All of that.

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Speaker 3: It was on a joke. It was just a joke.

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Speaker 10: We got.

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Speaker 4: Second datelhone tap so.

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Speaker 9: Good brooking Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 5: Why doesn't anybody just blurt out I love you anymore

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Speaker 5: on the first date? Why is it that now everybody

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Speaker 5: is like I saw on Instagram video and now I'm

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Speaker 5: gonna prank me back, and now everything's confusing and unclear.

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Speaker 5: But that's just how dating is because it's the Internet.

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Speaker 8: Trend right now.

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Speaker 1: I think even before the Internet, nobody's blurting out I

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Speaker 1: love you on the first date. Jeff I was weird

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Speaker 1: in like eighteen fifty.

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Speaker 5: It's weird the good old days. I am begging anybody listen.

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Speaker 5: If you recently went on a first date and you

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Speaker 5: and you're wondering why they're not calling you back, shoot

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Speaker 5: us an email. I would love to do an easy, simple,

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Speaker 3: Why you're just telling me, well, because they don't love

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Speaker 3: you back, what.

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Speaker 4: Do you want?

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Speaker 5: They were too perfect.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I don't know what world you and Jose are

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Speaker 5: I'm having a good time in it. Yeah, I guess

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Speaker 5: we'll just stick with the total confusion and game playing

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Speaker 5: and pranking all right.

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Speaker 3: Makes for great radio, jeff isn't that what we're here for?

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Speaker 5: That's true. Up, my head hurts right now.

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Speaker 3: I love it creating.

453
00:19:35,840 --> 00:19:38,000
Speaker 5: You can always email the show. We'll call that person

454
00:19:38,000 --> 00:19:38,560
Speaker 5: who wasn't.

455
00:19:38,359 --> 00:19:42,080
Speaker 9: Calling you back, brooking Jeffrey in the morning.

456
00:19:43,680 --> 00:19:47,480
Speaker 5: Rarely on this show do we talk about international love.

457
00:19:48,480 --> 00:19:51,200
Speaker 5: That's true, And I don't mean my college semester abroad

458
00:19:51,280 --> 00:19:55,280
Speaker 5: in Queensland, Australia. Hello, lifeguards.

459
00:19:57,040 --> 00:19:58,919
Speaker 3: I don't hear any more about that story.

460
00:19:59,000 --> 00:20:01,240
Speaker 5: I don't think there really is my more to that story.

461
00:20:00,960 --> 00:20:01,960
Speaker 3: Okay, that's what it is.

462
00:20:02,880 --> 00:20:06,800
Speaker 5: I mean, flying across the ocean just to meet someone

463
00:20:06,840 --> 00:20:11,119
Speaker 5: who you believe could be the one. Wow, we have

464
00:20:11,200 --> 00:20:15,280
Speaker 5: a listener who actually did that, took that flight, and

465
00:20:15,359 --> 00:20:17,919
Speaker 5: you're gonna find out what happened in your second date.

466
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Speaker 4: Update, next second date update.

467
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Speaker 5: In this segment, there's a lot of logic that goes

468
00:20:25,000 --> 00:20:28,320
Speaker 5: into our thinking about whether a pair should be together.

469
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Speaker 1: Or not.

470
00:20:30,200 --> 00:20:34,600
Speaker 5: We're always asking like is that fair? Does that make sense?

471
00:20:34,760 --> 00:20:35,040
Speaker 9: Sure?

472
00:20:36,320 --> 00:20:39,600
Speaker 5: I think there's not enough heart in our decision making

473
00:20:40,560 --> 00:20:44,359
Speaker 5: because love isn't always rational. We need to start thinking

474
00:20:44,440 --> 00:20:50,400
Speaker 5: with that other body, the heart.

475
00:20:51,320 --> 00:20:51,720
Speaker 4: The heart.

476
00:20:51,840 --> 00:20:54,240
Speaker 5: Let's think with that. And we've got a guy on

477
00:20:54,280 --> 00:20:57,480
Speaker 5: the phone who's got a whole lot of heart going on.

478
00:20:57,920 --> 00:20:59,400
Speaker 5: His name is Randall.

479
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Speaker 3: Why do I feel like it's a euphemism every time

480
00:21:01,720 --> 00:21:02,640
Speaker 3: you say it, Jack.

481
00:21:02,640 --> 00:21:07,159
Speaker 5: Is not not if you think with your heart, Brooks. So, Randall,

482
00:21:07,320 --> 00:21:10,119
Speaker 5: after take you seriously, after just reading your email, I

483
00:21:10,160 --> 00:21:12,840
Speaker 5: hope whatever the universe gives you here today you accept

484
00:21:12,880 --> 00:21:13,720
Speaker 5: with open arms.

485
00:21:14,119 --> 00:21:16,720
Speaker 7: Oh brother, I couldn't have said it better myself.

486
00:21:16,800 --> 00:21:17,320
Speaker 4: Oh good.

487
00:21:18,320 --> 00:21:18,800
Speaker 6: I don't know.

488
00:21:19,080 --> 00:21:21,639
Speaker 5: Some of us are more emotional and heart driven in

489
00:21:21,680 --> 00:21:22,440
Speaker 5: this room.

490
00:21:22,240 --> 00:21:24,359
Speaker 3: But I don't know when you're being serious or not.

491
00:21:24,480 --> 00:21:29,280
Speaker 5: That's a very analytical, pessimistic way to me as a person.

492
00:21:29,440 --> 00:21:30,400
Speaker 4: He's doing it right now.

493
00:21:30,480 --> 00:21:34,399
Speaker 5: Okay, just accept me for who I am deep inside,

494
00:21:34,840 --> 00:21:40,399
Speaker 5: and not for what I say what I do. Randall,

495
00:21:40,440 --> 00:21:43,200
Speaker 5: you're with me here, so tell us about your situation.

496
00:21:43,600 --> 00:21:45,360
Speaker 5: It sounds like it's a little bit complicated.

497
00:21:45,920 --> 00:21:49,800
Speaker 7: Okay, it's gonna sound a little unusual. But for a

498
00:21:49,920 --> 00:21:53,880
Speaker 7: year I've been texting a woman in Vietnam and we've

499
00:21:53,880 --> 00:21:56,639
Speaker 7: had a very deep connection, and we've gotten to know

500
00:21:56,680 --> 00:21:59,360
Speaker 7: one another so well that I fell deep in love

501
00:21:59,400 --> 00:22:00,000
Speaker 7: with this woman.

502
00:22:00,440 --> 00:22:03,400
Speaker 5: WHOA good for you?

503
00:22:04,040 --> 00:22:05,800
Speaker 1: I mean, you guys just found each other on the

504
00:22:05,800 --> 00:22:06,720
Speaker 1: internet somehow.

505
00:22:07,080 --> 00:22:09,280
Speaker 7: Yeah, we found each other on the internet and decided

506
00:22:09,400 --> 00:22:13,240
Speaker 7: to start texting, and it was like a whirlwind romance

507
00:22:13,240 --> 00:22:13,520
Speaker 7: for me.

508
00:22:13,680 --> 00:22:15,720
Speaker 3: Why did you say it was? Isn't it still?

509
00:22:16,640 --> 00:22:20,320
Speaker 7: Well? I wanted to profess my love to her in person.

510
00:22:20,440 --> 00:22:22,360
Speaker 7: So we decided that I was going to fly out

511
00:22:22,800 --> 00:22:24,479
Speaker 7: and I was going to meet her.

512
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Speaker 3: Oh my god, were you so nervous?

513
00:22:26,960 --> 00:22:27,480
Speaker 5: Dude?

514
00:22:27,600 --> 00:22:30,240
Speaker 7: Yes, I flew out. I was excited the whole trip.

515
00:22:30,280 --> 00:22:31,840
Speaker 7: I couldn't sleep, I couldn't eat.

516
00:22:31,960 --> 00:22:33,760
Speaker 5: Oh my god. Wow.

517
00:22:34,520 --> 00:22:36,639
Speaker 1: Yeah, what was it like when you land and you

518
00:22:36,760 --> 00:22:38,600
Speaker 1: finally get to see each other in person?

519
00:22:39,119 --> 00:22:42,840
Speaker 7: Well? I landed, I went to where we were supposed

520
00:22:42,840 --> 00:22:45,320
Speaker 7: to meet, and she didn't show up.

521
00:22:45,480 --> 00:22:50,920
Speaker 1: Oh man, I think that that is like the cruelest

522
00:22:50,960 --> 00:22:52,280
Speaker 1: thing that's going on right now.

523
00:22:52,480 --> 00:22:55,320
Speaker 5: Here's even so many people, actually, dude, that's terrible. So

524
00:22:55,960 --> 00:22:59,320
Speaker 5: we all hate Vietnamese fake girl. Now, so where are

525
00:22:59,320 --> 00:23:02,560
Speaker 5: you in your in your love life now well.

526
00:23:02,840 --> 00:23:04,679
Speaker 7: And you guys will be happy to learn that I

527
00:23:04,760 --> 00:23:06,480
Speaker 7: met another woman from the Philippine.

528
00:23:06,640 --> 00:23:07,679
Speaker 5: Oh God, here we go.

529
00:23:10,080 --> 00:23:14,320
Speaker 7: We met online again, But I know this woman's real.

530
00:23:14,720 --> 00:23:16,879
Speaker 3: How they could be real? But are they employed by

531
00:23:16,880 --> 00:23:17,320
Speaker 3: someone else?

532
00:23:17,359 --> 00:23:18,520
Speaker 5: Who are they?

533
00:23:18,440 --> 00:23:19,120
Speaker 4: They're real?

534
00:23:20,560 --> 00:23:24,360
Speaker 7: Her? We didn't FaceTime, but we've been texting a lot.

535
00:23:24,400 --> 00:23:26,080
Speaker 7: And let me tell you. I know you're gonna think

536
00:23:26,119 --> 00:23:28,000
Speaker 7: I'm crazy, but my heart tells me it's real.

537
00:23:28,720 --> 00:23:32,240
Speaker 5: Okay, we're throwing logic out the window, all rational, We're

538
00:23:32,280 --> 00:23:33,639
Speaker 5: only listening to our hearts.

539
00:23:33,760 --> 00:23:35,640
Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, now I understand j intro.

540
00:23:35,920 --> 00:23:38,520
Speaker 5: Oh I'm realrus So is that are we calling this

541
00:23:38,600 --> 00:23:40,000
Speaker 5: girl in the Philippines right now?

542
00:23:41,040 --> 00:23:43,240
Speaker 7: No? No, here's what I need you guys to help

543
00:23:43,280 --> 00:23:46,600
Speaker 7: me with my friend. You know everything that happened with

544
00:23:46,680 --> 00:23:49,840
Speaker 7: the last girl. He said to me, why not just

545
00:23:49,960 --> 00:23:53,080
Speaker 7: meet a woman locally, face to face and just how

546
00:23:53,119 --> 00:23:56,240
Speaker 7: it goes. Yeah, so I did. I actually got online

547
00:23:56,320 --> 00:23:58,760
Speaker 7: and I matched with a young lady and we met

548
00:23:58,840 --> 00:24:01,000
Speaker 7: up at a bar and her name is Georgina.

549
00:24:01,200 --> 00:24:03,600
Speaker 1: Okay, so you we're not a day with Georgina, but

550
00:24:03,600 --> 00:24:05,399
Speaker 1: you're in love with the woman from the Philippines.

551
00:24:05,840 --> 00:24:08,639
Speaker 7: Yes, I'm just trying to see if maybe I am

552
00:24:08,640 --> 00:24:11,040
Speaker 7: supposed to meet someone locally, just to see where love

553
00:24:11,119 --> 00:24:11,639
Speaker 7: may take me.

554
00:24:11,840 --> 00:24:13,919
Speaker 1: Well, and you're a lover, You're a true romantic and

555
00:24:14,680 --> 00:24:17,640
Speaker 1: with everyone you see, that's okay.

556
00:24:18,920 --> 00:24:21,120
Speaker 5: Can we know more about Georgina at the bar?

557
00:24:21,640 --> 00:24:24,600
Speaker 7: Yes, we just had a great conversation. She's been through

558
00:24:24,640 --> 00:24:26,800
Speaker 7: some hurt in her past too, so we bonded over

559
00:24:26,840 --> 00:24:30,960
Speaker 7: that and we just really had a deep conversation, nothing

560
00:24:31,040 --> 00:24:35,239
Speaker 7: too deep, just conversations about life and our goals and

561
00:24:35,280 --> 00:24:36,480
Speaker 7: what we would like to achieve.

562
00:24:36,560 --> 00:24:40,680
Speaker 4: And it was nice.

563
00:24:41,119 --> 00:24:43,920
Speaker 3: Were usually people following nothing too deep with like favorite movie.

564
00:24:44,200 --> 00:24:46,520
Speaker 5: Yeah, anyway, what's your dog's name?

565
00:24:46,600 --> 00:24:48,840
Speaker 3: Whoa, whoa, whoa whoa?

566
00:24:49,040 --> 00:24:51,639
Speaker 7: All right, So now I got to be honest though

567
00:24:51,840 --> 00:24:55,960
Speaker 7: I felt like I was cheating on my Philippine girl.

568
00:24:56,160 --> 00:24:59,280
Speaker 7: So I'm a little torn and I had a good time.

569
00:24:59,440 --> 00:25:02,159
Speaker 7: So want to put it in the universe's hands, in

570
00:25:02,280 --> 00:25:05,240
Speaker 7: universe being you guys, and I want to see if

571
00:25:05,240 --> 00:25:07,359
Speaker 7: this person wants to pursue this. I'm not going to

572
00:25:07,440 --> 00:25:09,919
Speaker 7: the Philippines, but if they don't, then I'm on the

573
00:25:09,920 --> 00:25:10,840
Speaker 7: first plane out of here.

574
00:25:11,160 --> 00:25:15,879
Speaker 1: Oh okay, So if Georgina wants to pursue a relationship

575
00:25:15,880 --> 00:25:18,960
Speaker 1: with you, then you're gonna just totally leave the Filipino girl.

576
00:25:19,240 --> 00:25:20,879
Speaker 3: But is she not texting you back? Or why do

577
00:25:20,920 --> 00:25:21,440
Speaker 3: you need us?

578
00:25:21,720 --> 00:25:24,400
Speaker 7: Yeah? So we just had the date last night, so

579
00:25:24,640 --> 00:25:26,160
Speaker 7: I don't even really know what to do.

580
00:25:26,800 --> 00:25:28,560
Speaker 3: Well, we can jump in before things go wrong?

581
00:25:28,680 --> 00:25:32,000
Speaker 4: Yeah does Yeah.

582
00:25:32,000 --> 00:25:36,159
Speaker 5: Also, he's a guy that clearly operates through grand romantic gestures.

583
00:25:36,200 --> 00:25:38,720
Speaker 5: And what better way to do like a big gesture

584
00:25:38,840 --> 00:25:41,760
Speaker 5: to Georgina than to have a radio show call engauge

585
00:25:41,880 --> 00:25:45,080
Speaker 5: how she feels about him in a cosmic sort of way.

586
00:25:45,160 --> 00:25:48,359
Speaker 1: But we shouldn't push if she says no, because that's

587
00:25:48,400 --> 00:25:50,560
Speaker 1: the universe, right that.

588
00:25:50,560 --> 00:25:53,080
Speaker 5: Like analytical, rational, logical context.

589
00:25:54,920 --> 00:25:57,000
Speaker 3: I'm trying to act like the universe, and I feel

590
00:25:57,000 --> 00:25:58,920
Speaker 3: like the universe just goes with the flow.

591
00:25:58,760 --> 00:26:01,880
Speaker 5: Jet exactly, So stop overthinking it. Let's just call this

592
00:26:01,960 --> 00:26:04,280
Speaker 5: lady and see where her heart is at when we

593
00:26:04,320 --> 00:26:05,520
Speaker 5: do the second date update.

594
00:26:05,720 --> 00:26:10,520
Speaker 4: Right after this second date update, we're.

595
00:26:10,400 --> 00:26:12,800
Speaker 5: In the middle of your second date update, And if

596
00:26:12,800 --> 00:26:15,679
Speaker 5: you missed the first part, the universe was brought up

597
00:26:15,840 --> 00:26:19,600
Speaker 5: a lot. Yes, because our listener Randall has put his

598
00:26:19,720 --> 00:26:24,000
Speaker 5: fate into our hands, saying we are the universe, and

599
00:26:24,040 --> 00:26:25,520
Speaker 5: I guess that makes brook.

600
00:26:25,400 --> 00:26:30,840
Speaker 3: Uranus a giant gas plan and the.

601
00:26:30,720 --> 00:26:36,880
Speaker 5: Rest of us are stars. Because here's the situation. Randall's

602
00:26:36,920 --> 00:26:40,480
Speaker 5: been heartbroken before. He flew to Vietnam to meet a woman,

603
00:26:40,880 --> 00:26:45,679
Speaker 5: ended up getting catfished there, then fell for another lady

604
00:26:45,720 --> 00:26:49,280
Speaker 5: from the Philippines who he has not met her yet,

605
00:26:49,359 --> 00:26:52,280
Speaker 5: not even FaceTime, but in his heart he feels that

606
00:26:52,320 --> 00:26:55,920
Speaker 5: their connection is true. He's in love, he said, he's

607
00:26:55,960 --> 00:26:58,880
Speaker 5: in love with her. Absolutely, Randall on a scale one

608
00:26:58,960 --> 00:27:02,560
Speaker 5: out of ten. How serious are you about Philippines girl?

609
00:27:03,119 --> 00:27:06,280
Speaker 7: I am so serious that if this doesn't work out today,

610
00:27:06,520 --> 00:27:09,520
Speaker 7: I am on the first plane to the Philippines with

611
00:27:09,600 --> 00:27:10,840
Speaker 7: a ring in my hands.

612
00:27:11,960 --> 00:27:14,040
Speaker 8: Can I recommend not the first It's gonna be very

613
00:27:14,040 --> 00:27:14,680
Speaker 8: expensive flight.

614
00:27:14,760 --> 00:27:14,960
Speaker 1: Maybe.

615
00:27:15,000 --> 00:27:19,120
Speaker 5: Yes, But you're going to propose?

616
00:27:20,160 --> 00:27:21,480
Speaker 7: Yes? Absolutely.

617
00:27:24,280 --> 00:27:28,600
Speaker 1: You went on one date last night, Yeah, with Georgina.

618
00:27:28,600 --> 00:27:29,800
Speaker 3: Writer's the name Georgina.

619
00:27:30,200 --> 00:27:31,040
Speaker 7: Her name is Georgia.

620
00:27:31,160 --> 00:27:31,879
Speaker 5: Yeah, good memory.

621
00:27:32,440 --> 00:27:35,200
Speaker 1: Georgina is going to decide whether or not you propose

622
00:27:35,280 --> 00:27:36,400
Speaker 1: to a woman in the Philippines.

623
00:27:37,040 --> 00:27:38,960
Speaker 7: That's a lot of way think about it. This could

624
00:27:38,960 --> 00:27:42,159
Speaker 7: be a sign from the universe. So let's just see

625
00:27:42,520 --> 00:27:43,200
Speaker 7: what happened.

626
00:27:43,480 --> 00:27:47,320
Speaker 2: Could protecting you, and also don't tell Georgina maybe about

627
00:27:47,320 --> 00:27:48,919
Speaker 2: the backup plans about.

628
00:27:50,640 --> 00:27:53,800
Speaker 3: He's really all or nothing type of guy and very honest.

629
00:27:53,960 --> 00:27:56,760
Speaker 5: I think we just let the universe take control of

630
00:27:56,800 --> 00:27:59,240
Speaker 5: the conversation. We're not going to plan anything out. I'm

631
00:27:59,240 --> 00:28:00,640
Speaker 5: just going to start the number.

632
00:28:00,800 --> 00:28:03,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, but don't you think we should zip it Uranus?

633
00:28:04,240 --> 00:28:06,200
Speaker 5: We've got a universal business to attend to.

634
00:28:06,560 --> 00:28:08,760
Speaker 3: You're not a star. You're like the moon of Uranus.

635
00:28:08,840 --> 00:28:09,200
Speaker 3: I know it.

636
00:28:09,840 --> 00:28:10,800
Speaker 6: You wish.

637
00:28:12,840 --> 00:28:15,960
Speaker 5: Damn, let's just make this guy black hole right now?

638
00:28:16,280 --> 00:28:17,640
Speaker 5: You want me to be anyway?

639
00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:18,000
Speaker 4: Here we go.

640
00:28:24,119 --> 00:28:27,280
Speaker 5: Hello, Hi, we're looking to speak with Georgina.

641
00:28:28,080 --> 00:28:28,520
Speaker 4: This is her.

642
00:28:28,920 --> 00:28:32,560
Speaker 5: This this is a morning radio show. We're called Brooke

643
00:28:32,640 --> 00:28:37,320
Speaker 5: and Jeffrey, and we are very eager to speak with

644
00:28:37,359 --> 00:28:41,040
Speaker 5: you today. Brooke, take it away.

645
00:28:40,760 --> 00:28:43,400
Speaker 10: Why are you interested in speaking to me?

646
00:28:43,720 --> 00:28:46,400
Speaker 3: We heard last night you hade a really great date.

647
00:28:47,360 --> 00:28:49,560
Speaker 10: I did go on on a date last night.

648
00:28:49,680 --> 00:28:51,800
Speaker 5: Yeah, would you say it was great?

649
00:28:52,040 --> 00:28:54,640
Speaker 3: She took that word out?

650
00:28:55,400 --> 00:28:57,959
Speaker 12: Okay, why do you even want to know?

651
00:28:58,040 --> 00:28:58,160
Speaker 7: What?

652
00:28:58,800 --> 00:29:01,040
Speaker 10: How did you even get my man?

653
00:29:01,160 --> 00:29:04,280
Speaker 5: We actually got it from that guy Randall. And in

654
00:29:04,320 --> 00:29:07,360
Speaker 5: this segment that we're doing, we're just trying to gauge

655
00:29:07,480 --> 00:29:11,520
Speaker 5: and see how things go. Yeah, okay, so we're just

656
00:29:11,560 --> 00:29:14,080
Speaker 5: trying to pry a little bit and ask you. You know,

657
00:29:14,120 --> 00:29:15,720
Speaker 5: how was your date? How was the hangout?

658
00:29:15,800 --> 00:29:17,720
Speaker 3: It's just a short review.

659
00:29:18,400 --> 00:29:20,160
Speaker 10: I mean it was a good date.

660
00:29:20,480 --> 00:29:21,800
Speaker 12: We had a couple of drinks.

661
00:29:22,200 --> 00:29:25,400
Speaker 10: Randall was super thoughtful and nice.

662
00:29:26,480 --> 00:29:27,640
Speaker 5: This all fits his character.

663
00:29:27,760 --> 00:29:29,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, so you were feeling really good.

664
00:29:29,920 --> 00:29:33,320
Speaker 10: I was until the very end, because it was a

665
00:29:33,400 --> 00:29:35,360
Speaker 10: little bit weird, to say the least.

666
00:29:36,640 --> 00:29:38,160
Speaker 5: Yeah, we don't know what happened at the end. He

667
00:29:38,160 --> 00:29:39,800
Speaker 5: didn't mention that was there like a kiss.

668
00:29:40,440 --> 00:29:44,959
Speaker 10: No, it was not a kiss. So basically he told me,

669
00:29:46,160 --> 00:29:48,960
Speaker 10: I just want you to know this date meant a

670
00:29:49,000 --> 00:29:49,440
Speaker 10: lot to me.

671
00:29:49,800 --> 00:29:52,640
Speaker 3: Okay, that's good. That must make you feel great.

672
00:29:53,200 --> 00:29:53,640
Speaker 12: It did.

673
00:29:53,760 --> 00:29:56,880
Speaker 10: It did until the second part, in which he said,

674
00:29:57,560 --> 00:30:01,960
Speaker 10: I don't know if I'm going going to propose to

675
00:30:02,120 --> 00:30:09,440
Speaker 10: someone else. No, yeah, but it's been very nice to

676
00:30:09,560 --> 00:30:09,960
Speaker 10: meet you.

677
00:30:10,400 --> 00:30:15,880
Speaker 1: Okay, Oh my god, I bet your heart just sunk, like.

678
00:30:15,840 --> 00:30:18,040
Speaker 10: Well, yeah, I was more confused than anything.

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Speaker 5: I didn't wish it luck. Do you think there's any

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Speaker 5: chance maybe it was just a line, like a little

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Speaker 5: hard to get line to play towards you, to make

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Speaker 5: himself seem a little bit more desirable.

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Speaker 3: To get married, and second guesses, sounds like a good joke.

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Speaker 5: Like how wild would it be if he really was engaged?

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Speaker 8: Like, obviously he's kidding.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, if it was a joke, it didn't work. It

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Speaker 10: did not land.

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Speaker 12: He should workshop that with someone else.

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Speaker 1: Up until that very last sentence, you were planning on

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Speaker 1: seeing him again.

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Speaker 12: It definitely seemed like it was going in that direction.

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Speaker 3: Okay answer, Okay, so that's our answer. Can we ignore

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Speaker 3: the last sentence? Can we just forget that happened?

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Speaker 10: It doesn't I think that would be textbook ignoring a flag.

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Speaker 5: Well, maybe we could. We could replace it with some

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Speaker 5: new sentences that he wants to say to you right now,

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Speaker 5: because he is listening to this phone call.

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Speaker 7: Well, I need to talk to her. I need I

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Speaker 7: need to say something, Linda.

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Speaker 12: What are you doing?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, sorry, he's on the phone. That's how this segment works.

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Speaker 5: We have him waiting.

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Speaker 7: Georgina. I'm sorry. You were wonderful. I had a great time,

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Speaker 7: but I got to tell you the whole story. A

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Speaker 7: year ago, I fell in love with a person in Vietnam.

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Speaker 7: They catfished me. I was heartbroken. I didn't know what

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Speaker 7: to do. Then I found another person, and this woman's

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Speaker 7: from the Philippines. I feel like she might be the one.

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Speaker 7: I haven't met her yet. I haven't facetimed her. All.

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Speaker 12: You have to wait. You haven't met her.

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Speaker 7: No, No, I haven't met her yet.

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Speaker 13: I'm just trying to face timed.

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Speaker 12: Her, have you No, No, we have heard her voice.

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Speaker 12: Do you know what she sounds like?

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Speaker 7: No?

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Speaker 5: I'm not sure where she's going with this? Where are

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Speaker 5: you going with this?

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Speaker 14: You you just admitted to getting cat fish for the

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Speaker 14: Vietnamese person, and now you're putting yourself in the same

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Speaker 14: scenario potentially with this woman from the Philippines, Like you

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Speaker 14: do you not see the pattern here?

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Speaker 7: But yes, I see what everyone else sees.

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Speaker 12: But Adam sent this woman money.

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Speaker 3: Oh we didn't know that.

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Speaker 7: I mean not a lot, a little.

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Speaker 5: Rand probably just for like a new phone so that

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Speaker 5: they could text more.

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Speaker 7: Oh, Randall, I gotta be a person.

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Speaker 12: Of course, she needs help.

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Speaker 10: She's an invisible woman on the internet who you don't know.

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Speaker 5: Ye a man, Brook, Why don't you ever step in

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Speaker 5: and tell Randall any of this stuff earlier?

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Speaker 3: Jeffrey Randall.

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Speaker 1: He is a hopeful truly a heartfelt guy, and he's

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Speaker 1: just getting taken advantage of.

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Speaker 3: And that is like so sad.

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Speaker 5: I don't see it as a sad thing at all.

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Speaker 3: I see Randall, give me money to a woman in

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Speaker 3: the Philippines. It probably doesn't exist.

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Speaker 5: You can money to random people you've never met. You before,

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Speaker 5: you call it charity, and all of a sudden, you're

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Speaker 5: a good person, yo, Like, I'm sorry. He's just he's

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Speaker 5: got a big heart. He has a lot of hope

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Speaker 5: and optimism, and he's willing to do whatever it takes

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Speaker 5: to make love happen in his life. And he's willing

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Speaker 5: to put himself out there, even put himself on the

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Speaker 5: radio like this.

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Speaker 7: Could I go with the girl in the Philippines or

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Speaker 7: should I continue to pursue Georgina?

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Speaker 3: Georgina, are you kidding me?

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Speaker 12: I can hear you.

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Speaker 3: You need to say something romantic to Georgina. Tell her

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Speaker 3: why you tried this, why you finally went out on

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Speaker 3: the limb and riss because his friend made him.

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Speaker 7: Georgina, in all honesty, before our date, I was wholeheartedly

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Speaker 7: in love with the young lady from the Philippines. But

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Speaker 7: after meeting you, there's just something about you. I thought

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Speaker 7: we had a connection. I didn't know if that was

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Speaker 7: a universe telling me that I was making the wrong

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Speaker 7: decision with the other girl.

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Speaker 10: I appreciate your candor, but I will just tell you

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Speaker 10: the difference between me and this other woman.

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Speaker 12: I am real and the other person is a fantasy.

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Speaker 10: So that's that's why you are so swept up, because

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Speaker 10: that's what these scammers do.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, you mean like there's a small percent, like one percent.

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Speaker 7: She's not real?

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Speaker 10: Definitely ninety nine one hundred, one hundred and nine about

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Speaker 10: she's not real?

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Speaker 13: And you know, I don't know where things are going

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Speaker 13: to stand between us, but for.

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Speaker 10: Now we should at least I will be your friend

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Speaker 10: and help you navigate this situation if.

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Speaker 13: That's what you need.

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Speaker 3: Wow, georg that is amazing.

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Speaker 4: Randall.

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Speaker 5: You hear that she is willing to fight for you.

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Speaker 3: We could take it that way. I love it, Jeff.

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Speaker 5: Sure so she sure, she is willing to do whatever

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Speaker 5: it takes. It sounds like to help you be your

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Speaker 5: Sirpa through your romantic life.

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Speaker 3: Riddle. This is a real one, Georgina is a real one.

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Speaker 3: Please don't pass up this chance.

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Speaker 7: No woman has ever fought from me before, well, let's.

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Speaker 5: Get the boxing gloves on and get this going. Because Georgina,

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Speaker 5: we want to send you and Randall out on another

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Speaker 5: day and we'll pay for it if you say yes.

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Speaker 12: Well I am willing to do that.

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Speaker 7: Thank you, Thank you, Georgina. You are such a caring

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Speaker 7: time person. I can't wait for us to hang out again.

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Speaker 5: Oh.

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Speaker 3: I look forward to it.

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Speaker 5: Okay, And how much money do you want him to

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Speaker 5: send you, Georgina before this date happens, you.

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Speaker 12: Get to pay me in person.

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Speaker 4: We're fine.

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Speaker 5: Oh gosh, the universe did Congratulations you two you're going.

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Speaker 4: Out the other day.

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Speaker 3: Seriously, Thank God for Georgia. Stressful, save this guy.

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Speaker 12: I gotta save this guy.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that's brookod Jeffrey in the.

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Speaker 9: Morning, Brooking Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 5: Hey, look at that. We actually got a yes today, Dude.

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Speaker 3: I have ever been more thankful for one of our listeners.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm The thing is, it wasn't necessarily a romantic yes,

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00:35:55,000 --> 00:35:57,399
Speaker 5: but the opportunity for romance is there.

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Speaker 3: I mean, by him. I'm sure he's going to fall

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00:35:59,719 --> 00:36:01,719
Speaker 3: in love with her, there's no question on that. But

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Speaker 3: I mean the whole thing is, hopefully she saves him.

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Speaker 3: From getting scammed out of tons of money.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, I just think you're right. I think he needs

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Speaker 8: to not talk to another woman ever. Yeah, because he

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00:36:11,440 --> 00:36:12,480
Speaker 8: falls alone with everyone.

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Speaker 5: Yeah who said that? Because it does feel like everybody

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00:36:14,640 --> 00:36:18,160
Speaker 5: Randall meets or talks to he immediately falls forth. So Brook,

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00:36:18,239 --> 00:36:21,320
Speaker 5: make sure to check your DMS tomorrow because there's probably

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Speaker 5: a message in there that says the way you handled

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Speaker 5: that second date was just magnanimous. Perhaps the universe willed

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00:36:28,800 --> 00:36:31,359
Speaker 5: this call into existence just so I could hear your

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Speaker 5: beautiful nasally voice and find my true compass.

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Speaker 3: Hey, yeah, Naisley, thank you, jeff But those are Randalls. Yes, Randall,

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Speaker 3: if you're listening, please dm Alexis instead.

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Speaker 5: Yes, you can hear all of our lovely voices for

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Speaker 5: hours on end if you listen to our Second Date

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Speaker 5: Update podcast. Wherever you get yours, just search Brooke and

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Speaker 5: Jeffrey