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Speaker 1: I can't leave immediately, But how can I prioritize my

431
00:23:20,160 --> 00:23:22,280
Speaker 1: own excitement like in the mornings or in the evenings

432
00:23:22,359 --> 00:23:24,520
Speaker 1: or on the weekends. And like it doesn't even have

433
00:23:24,600 --> 00:23:27,959
Speaker 1: to be career related, Like just like choosing to prioritize

434
00:23:27,960 --> 00:23:30,359
Speaker 1: what excites you will make you the most magnetic to

435
00:23:30,400 --> 00:23:33,119
Speaker 1: the most aligned opportunities. You know. So even just like

436
00:23:33,119 --> 00:23:36,240
Speaker 1: against small pockets can be a beautiful start, but out

437
00:23:36,280 --> 00:23:39,439
Speaker 1: of alignment would definitely be around like depletion, exhaustion just

438
00:23:39,480 --> 00:23:41,480
Speaker 1: for resistance, like just things are like not flowing in

439
00:23:41,520 --> 00:23:45,639
Speaker 1: your life thank you. So I want to share one

440
00:23:45,640 --> 00:23:48,040
Speaker 1: more piece about the generator and then I'll just like

441
00:23:48,040 --> 00:23:51,000
Speaker 1: share little tidbits on each type so people can um

442
00:23:51,240 --> 00:23:54,160
Speaker 1: find their own. So every type and human design will

443
00:23:54,160 --> 00:23:57,399
Speaker 1: have a strategy. And so your strategy is called waiting

444
00:23:57,440 --> 00:24:01,000
Speaker 1: to respond. But I usually call that magnetism. It basically

445
00:24:01,040 --> 00:24:03,200
Speaker 1: means that you're not really meant to chase after anything,

446
00:24:03,280 --> 00:24:05,879
Speaker 1: like life is meant to come to you and your workers.

447
00:24:05,960 --> 00:24:08,239
Speaker 1: To keep your awareness open and see what shows up

448
00:24:08,240 --> 00:24:10,439
Speaker 1: in your world. As soon as something shows up and

449
00:24:10,440 --> 00:24:12,919
Speaker 1: your gut like expands in response to it, you can

450
00:24:12,920 --> 00:24:14,440
Speaker 1: go after that thing and make it happen. Like it's

451
00:24:14,440 --> 00:24:15,879
Speaker 1: not like you need to be invited in like you know,

452
00:24:16,000 --> 00:24:17,719
Speaker 1: like oh the system, I've got to go like make

453
00:24:17,760 --> 00:24:19,800
Speaker 1: it happen. But I think it's like waiting for things

454
00:24:19,800 --> 00:24:23,960
Speaker 1: to light you up rather than like initiate forcing pushing,

455
00:24:24,080 --> 00:24:25,760
Speaker 1: like even try to come up with things out of

456
00:24:25,760 --> 00:24:27,359
Speaker 1: thin air, like for you. You're here to be in

457
00:24:27,440 --> 00:24:29,320
Speaker 1: response to life, you know. So it's not about like

458
00:24:29,320 --> 00:24:31,520
Speaker 1: sitting by yourself be like what should I do next.

459
00:24:31,560 --> 00:24:32,760
Speaker 1: It's more like let me just be out in the

460
00:24:32,760 --> 00:24:35,040
Speaker 1: world in my flow, see what shows up, what excite

461
00:24:35,119 --> 00:24:39,400
Speaker 1: me and like, let that inspire and drive me. Ah,

462
00:24:39,520 --> 00:24:43,160
Speaker 1: how does that feel? And that felt like the song

463
00:24:43,240 --> 00:24:46,639
Speaker 1: of my heart, Like that felt like deepest truth for me.

464
00:24:46,720 --> 00:24:50,560
Speaker 1: Absolutely yeah, And it's so it's so serendipitous to be

465
00:24:50,600 --> 00:24:54,080
Speaker 1: having this conversation with you, um, and I'm really grateful,

466
00:24:54,160 --> 00:24:56,600
Speaker 1: thank you for sharing this with me because it's so

467
00:24:56,840 --> 00:25:01,720
Speaker 1: it's so, you know, something we speak to on this

468
00:25:01,760 --> 00:25:04,040
Speaker 1: show a lot, like the real root and desire of

469
00:25:04,080 --> 00:25:08,560
Speaker 1: this show is to make higher consciousness really applicable in

470
00:25:08,600 --> 00:25:11,800
Speaker 1: the small moments of everyday life and so really bringing

471
00:25:11,840 --> 00:25:14,080
Speaker 1: it and grounding it down and how can we apply

472
00:25:14,160 --> 00:25:17,159
Speaker 1: it in what we're doing, especially for those of us

473
00:25:17,240 --> 00:25:20,080
Speaker 1: that live lives that it's like I can't just maybe

474
00:25:20,080 --> 00:25:23,359
Speaker 1: disappear to an ashram or I can't you know, just

475
00:25:23,520 --> 00:25:26,480
Speaker 1: go be away from things. But how do I maximize

476
00:25:26,880 --> 00:25:29,960
Speaker 1: the energetic potential of my life? And so when I'm

477
00:25:30,000 --> 00:25:33,200
Speaker 1: hearing you say that, it feels like the most delicious

478
00:25:33,240 --> 00:25:36,800
Speaker 1: confirmation because that is what I have been noticing, and

479
00:25:36,840 --> 00:25:40,640
Speaker 1: I've been spending, um a lot of time. I spent

480
00:25:40,720 --> 00:25:42,840
Speaker 1: a lot of time on my inner child and all

481
00:25:42,840 --> 00:25:46,760
Speaker 1: the ages, but especially right now, like the last few weeks.

482
00:25:47,320 --> 00:25:51,359
Speaker 1: Spirit has really connected me to investigating moments of my

483
00:25:51,440 --> 00:25:54,040
Speaker 1: life that had the momentum that this moment of my

484
00:25:54,119 --> 00:25:57,119
Speaker 1: life has, and I've been trying to notice the patterns

485
00:25:57,280 --> 00:26:01,200
Speaker 1: and say, you know, in those moments, I was noticing

486
00:26:01,480 --> 00:26:04,520
Speaker 1: this kind of forward motion and this kind of ease.

487
00:26:05,000 --> 00:26:08,360
Speaker 1: How did I respond to it, How did I experience it?

488
00:26:08,880 --> 00:26:12,240
Speaker 1: How can I be more fully in it now in

489
00:26:12,320 --> 00:26:14,800
Speaker 1: this moment? And so one of the themes that I

490
00:26:14,840 --> 00:26:18,240
Speaker 1: was kind of noticing is that really my life path

491
00:26:18,520 --> 00:26:23,120
Speaker 1: is about feeding and nourishing myself and then making myself

492
00:26:23,160 --> 00:26:26,439
Speaker 1: available as the opportunity comes to me. And that is

493
00:26:26,480 --> 00:26:29,280
Speaker 1: the natural flow. And any time I've tried to fight that,

494
00:26:29,720 --> 00:26:32,720
Speaker 1: any time that I have tried to really rigidly control

495
00:26:33,320 --> 00:26:38,760
Speaker 1: or create something, um, it's always difficult. It's always a fight,

496
00:26:38,880 --> 00:26:43,360
Speaker 1: it's always frustrating. It it feels unnatural. But sometimes it's

497
00:26:43,440 --> 00:26:45,840
Speaker 1: literally like I will be sitting and I'll be deep

498
00:26:45,880 --> 00:26:49,439
Speaker 1: in my own study or you know, living life to

499
00:26:49,520 --> 00:26:52,679
Speaker 1: the best of my ability, and then something that is

500
00:26:52,760 --> 00:26:56,399
Speaker 1: truly the perfect thing will arrive and I'll be ready

501
00:26:56,440 --> 00:26:59,080
Speaker 1: for it. Um. And so hearing you say that is

502
00:26:59,119 --> 00:27:03,840
Speaker 1: just so it always blows me away. It's fascinating and

503
00:27:03,880 --> 00:27:07,360
Speaker 1: it's so beautiful, and it's such a gift that tools

504
00:27:07,400 --> 00:27:11,159
Speaker 1: like this exists for us. I know, I know. It

505
00:27:11,240 --> 00:27:13,680
Speaker 1: just like gives language to the things that have no language,

506
00:27:13,720 --> 00:27:16,080
Speaker 1: you know, and like, and I think and I love

507
00:27:16,119 --> 00:27:19,159
Speaker 1: what you said around like feeding and nourishing ourselves like

508
00:27:19,640 --> 00:27:21,439
Speaker 1: for you, like it's what makes you available for the

509
00:27:21,480 --> 00:27:23,720
Speaker 1: right things, And it's so true. It's like again, it's

510
00:27:23,720 --> 00:27:26,520
Speaker 1: like feeding and nourishing yourself is what makes you magnetic.

511
00:27:26,680 --> 00:27:28,600
Speaker 1: And the thing is that, like your mind is really powerful.

512
00:27:28,640 --> 00:27:31,240
Speaker 1: It's not about like not your mind that it's not powerful.

513
00:27:31,280 --> 00:27:33,280
Speaker 1: It's more that like if you try to control and

514
00:27:33,320 --> 00:27:35,800
Speaker 1: like obsess that workings are going, like you make yourself

515
00:27:35,880 --> 00:27:37,879
Speaker 1: unavailable for like all the most magical things that are

516
00:27:37,880 --> 00:27:40,000
Speaker 1: coming your way, and often like you don't even know

517
00:27:40,040 --> 00:27:42,199
Speaker 1: what's possible. And it's by like things showing up and

518
00:27:42,240 --> 00:27:44,360
Speaker 1: tuning into your gut feeling that you're like that's it,

519
00:27:44,480 --> 00:27:47,000
Speaker 1: that's where to put my energy. So I love that

520
00:27:47,040 --> 00:27:49,600
Speaker 1: you're living in And again this is not true for everyone.

521
00:27:49,640 --> 00:27:52,240
Speaker 1: This is very much for like your design, but it's

522
00:27:52,280 --> 00:27:54,960
Speaker 1: just it gives us a language for finding a way

523
00:27:54,960 --> 00:27:57,920
Speaker 1: of flow that really is meant to uniquely work for us. Yeah,

524
00:27:58,200 --> 00:28:00,920
Speaker 1: thank you so much to give you shill I talk

525
00:28:00,920 --> 00:28:06,240
Speaker 1: all the things, all the other types. Yeah, let me

526
00:28:06,280 --> 00:28:09,040
Speaker 1: just tell okay, So let me just tell you quickly

527
00:28:09,080 --> 00:28:10,760
Speaker 1: about the other types and then we can go into

528
00:28:10,760 --> 00:28:12,840
Speaker 1: other layers of your designs. So just to give people

529
00:28:12,840 --> 00:28:16,160
Speaker 1: a taste of what's to be found there. So, um,

530
00:28:16,240 --> 00:28:18,879
Speaker 1: manifesting generators are in some ways very similar to what

531
00:28:18,920 --> 00:28:21,680
Speaker 1: I just shared. They are kind of another type of generator.

532
00:28:21,960 --> 00:28:24,439
Speaker 1: Some people group them together. I to the difference of

533
00:28:24,480 --> 00:28:27,840
Speaker 1: manifesting generators is often they're quite multi passionate. They often

534
00:28:27,880 --> 00:28:29,840
Speaker 1: like having our energy and a lot of things at once,

535
00:28:29,920 --> 00:28:32,320
Speaker 1: and are kind of often pivoting between different inspirations as

536
00:28:32,320 --> 00:28:36,040
Speaker 1: they go. So I would just remind any manifesting generators listening,

537
00:28:36,040 --> 00:28:37,640
Speaker 1: like you're not really meant to stick with the same

538
00:28:37,680 --> 00:28:40,560
Speaker 1: thing forever. So like if you really feel the energy dwindling,

539
00:28:40,600 --> 00:28:43,040
Speaker 1: like giving yourself permission to move on and reinvent yourself.

540
00:28:43,080 --> 00:28:46,320
Speaker 1: It's so part of your nature. Um, and manifesting generators

541
00:28:46,360 --> 00:28:48,840
Speaker 1: tend to move out quickly like their gift is efficiency,

542
00:28:49,360 --> 00:28:51,080
Speaker 1: but they can skip a few steps along the way.

543
00:28:51,160 --> 00:28:53,360
Speaker 1: So good to surround themselves by people that can support

544
00:28:53,360 --> 00:28:56,120
Speaker 1: them in a step by step process and their strategy

545
00:28:56,240 --> 00:28:58,600
Speaker 1: similar to you as magnetism. They're also here to let

546
00:28:58,640 --> 00:29:00,720
Speaker 1: things come to them, wait for their gut to activate

547
00:29:00,720 --> 00:29:03,680
Speaker 1: in response to what shows up and on our back. Wow,

548
00:29:04,760 --> 00:29:07,880
Speaker 1: then we've got projectors. Projectors are really here to be

549
00:29:08,120 --> 00:29:11,520
Speaker 1: the leaders, the guides, the advisors, the teachers, not here

550
00:29:11,520 --> 00:29:13,440
Speaker 1: to do all the doing. You know. So so much

551
00:29:13,480 --> 00:29:15,360
Speaker 1: of being a projector is not trying to keep up

552
00:29:15,360 --> 00:29:17,320
Speaker 1: with the generators, you know, and just knowing that you

553
00:29:17,440 --> 00:29:19,880
Speaker 1: bring like a different gift, and so much of your

554
00:29:19,920 --> 00:29:22,720
Speaker 1: gift as projectors is really around how you see your

555
00:29:22,760 --> 00:29:25,920
Speaker 1: sensitivity to other people Like these people make amazing CEO

556
00:29:26,000 --> 00:29:29,760
Speaker 1: as managers, therapist, coaches, guides like their orientation is towards

557
00:29:29,800 --> 00:29:33,440
Speaker 1: the other and asking the right questions. Um, as projectors

558
00:29:33,440 --> 00:29:35,200
Speaker 1: and a projector, so I know this one so deeply.

559
00:29:35,240 --> 00:29:37,320
Speaker 1: But our energy is going to ebb and flow. It's

560
00:29:37,320 --> 00:29:39,120
Speaker 1: not about like using up our energy each day and

561
00:29:39,320 --> 00:29:41,960
Speaker 1: ways that feel satisfying, but honor the ebbs and flows,

562
00:29:42,000 --> 00:29:44,280
Speaker 1: like leverage the energy and it's their rest when it's not,

563
00:29:44,600 --> 00:29:46,480
Speaker 1: and not trying to do do do all day long.

564
00:29:47,000 --> 00:29:49,520
Speaker 1: UM and offome projectors work quite well with people. One

565
00:29:49,560 --> 00:29:52,640
Speaker 1: and one. This is not the exclusive expression of our energy,

566
00:29:52,720 --> 00:29:55,800
Speaker 1: but projectors have a real gift for dialing in the people,

567
00:29:55,920 --> 00:29:59,360
Speaker 1: making them feel deeply recognized and seen. And so our

568
00:29:59,400 --> 00:30:01,920
Speaker 1: strategy of rejectors is about waiting to be recognized and

569
00:30:01,960 --> 00:30:04,560
Speaker 1: invited in, so not chasing after. But it's not even

570
00:30:04,560 --> 00:30:06,360
Speaker 1: like for you, You're here to be in response to life.

571
00:30:06,360 --> 00:30:09,200
Speaker 1: I'm here to actually wait for an invitation for somebody

572
00:30:09,280 --> 00:30:11,920
Speaker 1: be like, Hey, I see you, I value I recognize

573
00:30:11,960 --> 00:30:15,160
Speaker 1: you when you come share yourself in this space. Wow,

574
00:30:15,200 --> 00:30:18,600
Speaker 1: and how and even hearing you share that with your background,

575
00:30:18,840 --> 00:30:21,120
Speaker 1: what I'm what I'm also seeing is like the beautiful

576
00:30:21,120 --> 00:30:24,000
Speaker 1: And I hope that everyone listening is kind of seeing

577
00:30:24,000 --> 00:30:27,200
Speaker 1: those dot connections. Um, and if you follow me on Instagram,

578
00:30:27,240 --> 00:30:30,920
Speaker 1: I'm always saying listen to the whispers. And what's so

579
00:30:31,000 --> 00:30:35,479
Speaker 1: interesting is you just even explained how you entered this

580
00:30:35,560 --> 00:30:39,120
Speaker 1: moment of your destiny. The person sitting with you invited

581
00:30:39,200 --> 00:30:42,280
Speaker 1: you in and said this is this and let me

582
00:30:42,360 --> 00:30:45,440
Speaker 1: show you this, and it's how beautiful, Like it is

583
00:30:45,440 --> 00:30:52,480
Speaker 1: the perfect example of purpose and synchronous stick flow. Wow totally,

584
00:30:52,560 --> 00:30:54,720
Speaker 1: And it's like and I contract back so many experiences

585
00:30:54,760 --> 00:30:56,280
Speaker 1: in my life where that was happening, but I used

586
00:30:56,280 --> 00:30:58,680
Speaker 1: to make myself wrong for that. Could often get invited

587
00:30:58,680 --> 00:30:59,800
Speaker 1: into things, but like it would just be like, we

588
00:30:59,840 --> 00:31:01,720
Speaker 1: can point you around, but I'm like, so why, Like

589
00:31:01,800 --> 00:31:03,640
Speaker 1: I just like I didn't get it. And now it's

590
00:31:03,680 --> 00:31:05,640
Speaker 1: just like just trust the invitation, you know, and invest

591
00:31:05,680 --> 00:31:07,680
Speaker 1: my energy where I feel the most seen. The last

592
00:31:07,680 --> 00:31:10,040
Speaker 1: piece that I would just share is that this isn't passive.

593
00:31:10,520 --> 00:31:13,120
Speaker 1: You know, people cannot find you unless you let yourself

594
00:31:13,160 --> 00:31:16,480
Speaker 1: be seen. So how I found more flows of projectors

595
00:31:16,480 --> 00:31:19,440
Speaker 1: that I'm always sharing. I'm sharing on Instagram, on podcasts

596
00:31:19,480 --> 00:31:22,240
Speaker 1: and newsletters, and not in a super salesy way, but

597
00:31:22,280 --> 00:31:23,640
Speaker 1: I just like let people know what I'm up to,

598
00:31:23,800 --> 00:31:26,200
Speaker 1: and like by doing that it really kind of allows

599
00:31:26,200 --> 00:31:27,920
Speaker 1: the right people to resonate with and invite me in.

600
00:31:29,000 --> 00:31:30,960
Speaker 1: So my job is not to push or initiate, but

601
00:31:30,960 --> 00:31:36,080
Speaker 1: to make myself visible. So then we've got manifest ors.

602
00:31:36,160 --> 00:31:38,920
Speaker 1: Manifestos are the initiators, the ones that are really here

603
00:31:38,960 --> 00:31:41,400
Speaker 1: to initiate get the ball rolling, not always here to

604
00:31:41,440 --> 00:31:43,160
Speaker 1: do all the doing themselves, but often to get things

605
00:31:43,160 --> 00:31:46,800
Speaker 1: off the ground. Very innovative kind of sparky, fiery energy

606
00:31:46,880 --> 00:31:48,960
Speaker 1: often and they often need a lot of freedom and

607
00:31:49,000 --> 00:31:51,160
Speaker 1: autonomy and control, like not here to be told what

608
00:31:51,240 --> 00:31:53,719
Speaker 1: to do or manage or guided it anyway. They might

609
00:31:53,800 --> 00:31:55,480
Speaker 1: have a lot of energy at the beginning, but aren't

610
00:31:55,480 --> 00:31:57,720
Speaker 1: always going to do all the doing themselves. They might

611
00:31:57,720 --> 00:32:00,760
Speaker 1: find that their energy operates and spurts um and so

612
00:32:00,800 --> 00:32:03,000
Speaker 1: also not here to do to do, And you know,

613
00:32:03,160 --> 00:32:05,640
Speaker 1: they we call them innovators in business because they just

614
00:32:05,680 --> 00:32:08,360
Speaker 1: see where things are going before other people do. And

615
00:32:08,400 --> 00:32:10,400
Speaker 1: my reminder for the manifest urs is that you're just

616
00:32:10,480 --> 00:32:12,200
Speaker 1: meant to do it so differently, like you're meant to

617
00:32:12,240 --> 00:32:14,840
Speaker 1: walk a path that has not been walked before. And

618
00:32:14,880 --> 00:32:17,880
Speaker 1: so your strategy is about initiating. It's not about letting

619
00:32:17,880 --> 00:32:20,440
Speaker 1: anything come. It's about like trust and the urges that

620
00:32:20,560 --> 00:32:23,720
Speaker 1: rise out within and just following them and just making

621
00:32:23,760 --> 00:32:26,400
Speaker 1: sure that you're communicating to the people around you what

622
00:32:26,440 --> 00:32:28,840
Speaker 1: you're pursuing and when, just so they can kind of

623
00:32:28,840 --> 00:32:31,240
Speaker 1: be on your team. If you go start initiating and

624
00:32:31,280 --> 00:32:33,840
Speaker 1: just like don't let anyone know. People might really resist you.

625
00:32:34,000 --> 00:32:35,920
Speaker 1: So just keeping people inform might kind of allow you

626
00:32:35,960 --> 00:32:40,479
Speaker 1: a lot more flow. And then do you know what

627
00:32:40,520 --> 00:32:45,280
Speaker 1: your son is my I have all his info, I

628
00:32:45,320 --> 00:32:47,400
Speaker 1: haven't done his human design yet, I don't know what

629
00:32:47,480 --> 00:32:50,200
Speaker 1: he is. Yes, it'll be so interesting when you do. Look.

630
00:32:50,240 --> 00:32:54,000
Speaker 1: So then the last type is a reflector. Reflectors are

631
00:32:54,040 --> 00:32:57,040
Speaker 1: basically our collective mirrors. People that are really sensitive to

632
00:32:57,040 --> 00:33:00,080
Speaker 1: their physical space and just mirroring back any environment there

633
00:33:00,120 --> 00:33:03,000
Speaker 1: and meant to be such a ruthless curator the people

634
00:33:03,040 --> 00:33:04,920
Speaker 1: and you know places they're in the sister for all

635
00:33:04,960 --> 00:33:07,320
Speaker 1: of us. But they really magnify at all, so it'll

636
00:33:07,520 --> 00:33:10,400
Speaker 1: have a really deep impact on them. Um. Reflectors are

637
00:33:10,440 --> 00:33:13,160
Speaker 1: very fluid. They will have periods where like a generator

638
00:33:13,200 --> 00:33:15,320
Speaker 1: like you, or like a projector like me, or like

639
00:33:15,320 --> 00:33:17,800
Speaker 1: a manifest er, and their job is not to figure

640
00:33:17,840 --> 00:33:20,000
Speaker 1: themselves out or be just one thing, but honor whatever

641
00:33:20,040 --> 00:33:23,640
Speaker 1: feels like them that day. And they are such natural evaluators.

642
00:33:23,640 --> 00:33:25,880
Speaker 1: They just see and sense things that so many people miss,

643
00:33:25,960 --> 00:33:28,680
Speaker 1: so being in spaces where their perspective is so recognized

644
00:33:28,680 --> 00:33:32,640
Speaker 1: and invited in. So that's just a taste of the

645
00:33:32,640 --> 00:33:34,560
Speaker 1: different types. Speaking of back to your design, but just

646
00:33:34,600 --> 00:33:36,880
Speaker 1: to kind of give people a spread of what the

647
00:33:36,960 --> 00:33:41,120
Speaker 1: possibilities are there. Do you see, um, Like if we

648
00:33:41,160 --> 00:33:44,360
Speaker 1: look at our population, Like are their personages, like, how

649
00:33:44,360 --> 00:33:47,800
Speaker 1: many people of this? How many people are that? Yes,

650
00:33:47,920 --> 00:33:50,480
Speaker 1: so generators, and I just want to say that again,

651
00:33:50,480 --> 00:33:52,000
Speaker 1: type is the first piece. So if you are like

652
00:33:52,040 --> 00:33:54,240
Speaker 1: of a higher percentage, it doesn't mean you're not unique.

653
00:33:54,280 --> 00:33:57,440
Speaker 1: It just means we need to send a lot. And again,

654
00:33:57,480 --> 00:33:59,560
Speaker 1: there's so much more nuance underneath it. So generators and

655
00:33:59,640 --> 00:34:03,600
Speaker 1: manifest thing generators collectively make up about so about thirty

656
00:34:03,600 --> 00:34:06,440
Speaker 1: to thirty five each, because they're the doers, the builders,

657
00:34:06,440 --> 00:34:08,880
Speaker 1: the creatives, you know, the ones that really bring ideas

658
00:34:08,880 --> 00:34:14,040
Speaker 1: to life so powerfully. Projectors are about manifests about eight

659
00:34:14,040 --> 00:34:18,080
Speaker 1: to nine and reflectors one percent. Wow, reflectors one percent.

660
00:34:18,239 --> 00:34:23,040
Speaker 1: That's so interesting, But did it No? I was just thinking,

661
00:34:23,040 --> 00:34:26,280
Speaker 1: like I wonder what that personality type looks like in action.

662
00:34:28,160 --> 00:34:30,800
Speaker 1: It's hard to like, I think, with a lot of types,

663
00:34:30,840 --> 00:34:32,560
Speaker 1: I can sense what they might be like, and I'm

664
00:34:32,560 --> 00:34:34,839
Speaker 1: not always right, but like I can get a general sense.

665
00:34:34,880 --> 00:34:37,960
Speaker 1: Reflectors are always hard for me to sense because they're

666
00:34:37,960 --> 00:34:39,719
Speaker 1: they're showing up in so many different ways, like so

667
00:34:39,800 --> 00:34:41,400
Speaker 1: much of their magic is like to happ into so

668
00:34:41,400 --> 00:34:43,799
Speaker 1: many different ways of being. Um, So I wouldn't say

669
00:34:43,800 --> 00:34:46,440
Speaker 1: there's like a specific personality type because I think that

670
00:34:46,480 --> 00:34:48,960
Speaker 1: they are just like they're very vast in the way

671
00:34:48,960 --> 00:34:51,560
Speaker 1: that they express themselves. But I will say that like

672
00:34:52,520 --> 00:34:54,680
Speaker 1: environment where they might thrive and would be like say

673
00:34:55,000 --> 00:34:57,240
Speaker 1: at a company where they're just in a position where

674
00:34:57,280 --> 00:34:59,879
Speaker 1: like they're just so respected for their perspective. Like often

675
00:35:00,000 --> 00:35:02,160
Speaker 1: all these people, like the CEO whispers, So it's like

676
00:35:02,280 --> 00:35:04,680
Speaker 1: you having somebody next to you who's just like witnessing,

677
00:35:04,680 --> 00:35:07,319
Speaker 1: moving their energy around, sampling kind of observing it all

678
00:35:07,719 --> 00:35:10,120
Speaker 1: and reflecting back to you what they see, you know.

679
00:35:10,400 --> 00:35:12,480
Speaker 1: And so like whenever I have a reflected around or

680
00:35:12,520 --> 00:35:14,600
Speaker 1: on my team, I'm asking them questions all the time.

681
00:35:14,920 --> 00:35:16,080
Speaker 1: I'm like, but what do you see about this? And

682
00:35:16,160 --> 00:35:17,400
Speaker 1: like what do you think about this? You know, and

683
00:35:17,400 --> 00:35:19,760
Speaker 1: like their perspective is just so next level and really

684
00:35:19,760 --> 00:35:22,920
Speaker 1: helps us progress and evolved, you know. So it's so

685
00:35:23,080 --> 00:35:25,440
Speaker 1: important again be in those spaces where the perspective is

686
00:35:25,440 --> 00:35:30,319
Speaker 1: really recognized in that way hold that thought. We are

687
00:35:30,360 --> 00:35:44,239
Speaker 1: coming right back. Based on the time, This is like

688
00:35:44,280 --> 00:35:48,719
Speaker 1: always fascinating to me, especially when working with like birthday, birthtime,

689
00:35:49,920 --> 00:35:52,920
Speaker 1: how many minutes for a change, because I know, like

690
00:35:53,000 --> 00:35:55,960
Speaker 1: in some systems it's like even down to the minute

691
00:35:56,200 --> 00:36:00,600
Speaker 1: can change your chart completely. So it's so dependent on

692
00:36:00,640 --> 00:36:03,120
Speaker 1: the aspect of the chart. Like there's aspects of our

693
00:36:03,160 --> 00:36:05,360
Speaker 1: chart that can speak to like how he best digest food,

694
00:36:05,360 --> 00:36:08,240
Speaker 1: our ideal environment. That stuff does change like minute by minute.

695
00:36:08,719 --> 00:36:11,200
Speaker 1: Often stuff around like type or things like those things

696
00:36:11,320 --> 00:36:13,560
Speaker 1: change slower. So it just depends on kind of what

697
00:36:13,600 --> 00:36:16,160
Speaker 1: else is shifting in your design. So like, sometimes I'll

698
00:36:16,160 --> 00:36:18,040
Speaker 1: work with people where like the designs just a lot

699
00:36:18,080 --> 00:36:19,759
Speaker 1: over the day, and sometimes I'll work with people like

700
00:36:19,880 --> 00:36:22,040
Speaker 1: it doesn't shift much at all, So it is super

701
00:36:22,120 --> 00:36:23,920
Speaker 1: case by case. But I have worked with people that

702
00:36:23,960 --> 00:36:27,200
Speaker 1: are adopted or don't know the specific times, So in

703
00:36:27,239 --> 00:36:29,000
Speaker 1: those cases will kind of just like look at how

704
00:36:29,040 --> 00:36:30,920
Speaker 1: it shifts and see what all the possibilities are and

705
00:36:31,000 --> 00:36:35,880
Speaker 1: explore them together. Oh interesting, okay yeah, um okay, So

706
00:36:36,000 --> 00:36:39,279
Speaker 1: get more into your design, yea, let's do it. Um,

707
00:36:39,640 --> 00:36:42,080
Speaker 1: so we all have, you know, they're one other piece

708
00:36:42,120 --> 00:36:44,200
Speaker 1: that I would really recommend people diving into something called

709
00:36:44,200 --> 00:36:47,239
Speaker 1: your inner authority, which is how you best make decisions.

710
00:36:47,719 --> 00:36:51,120
Speaker 1: And so for you, your decision making is called sacrel

711
00:36:51,160 --> 00:36:53,799
Speaker 1: and human design, and it means that you're designed to

712
00:36:53,840 --> 00:36:56,120
Speaker 1: make decisions based on your gut feeling in the moment,

713
00:36:56,719 --> 00:36:58,880
Speaker 1: and it's a very visceral feeling in your belly that

714
00:36:58,880 --> 00:37:01,160
Speaker 1: will either give you like an expansive yes or kind

715
00:37:01,160 --> 00:37:03,759
Speaker 1: of a contracted not like a pulling towards or kind

716
00:37:03,760 --> 00:37:06,560
Speaker 1: of a pushing away from something. It's very in the moment.

717
00:37:06,600 --> 00:37:08,880
Speaker 1: If you're not getting a full bodied gut response towards

718
00:37:08,960 --> 00:37:11,279
Speaker 1: something or someone, it either means it is not the

719
00:37:11,360 --> 00:37:13,160
Speaker 1: right thing or not it's not the right time yet.

720
00:37:13,520 --> 00:37:16,080
Speaker 1: And your gut never comes with a reason. If you

721
00:37:16,120 --> 00:37:18,160
Speaker 1: find yourself saying like I think that I should do

722
00:37:18,160 --> 00:37:20,280
Speaker 1: this because it might lead to this thing or whatever,

723
00:37:20,600 --> 00:37:23,000
Speaker 1: not your gut, your gut is like feels right, doesn't

724
00:37:23,080 --> 00:37:25,600
Speaker 1: don't know why, We'll find out why later. A really

725
00:37:25,640 --> 00:37:28,160
Speaker 1: powerful way to access your gut response is to have

726
00:37:28,200 --> 00:37:31,160
Speaker 1: the people around you ask you very specific questions. So

727
00:37:31,200 --> 00:37:33,040
Speaker 1: if we were going out to dinner, instead of asking

728
00:37:33,200 --> 00:37:34,640
Speaker 1: like where do you wanna go for dinner? Like what

729
00:37:34,680 --> 00:37:35,880
Speaker 1: do you want to do tonight? I would ask you

730
00:37:35,920 --> 00:37:37,000
Speaker 1: like you want to go out of cook at home?

731
00:37:37,040 --> 00:37:38,320
Speaker 1: Like you want to go to this restaurant or this.

732
00:37:38,640 --> 00:37:41,360
Speaker 1: Like when you're asked more specific yes, no things, you

733
00:37:41,440 --> 00:37:44,040
Speaker 1: might have a more immediate like that feels right, that doesn't,

734
00:37:44,440 --> 00:37:46,160
Speaker 1: or as an open ended question can get you straight

735
00:37:46,200 --> 00:37:48,839
Speaker 1: into your head and everything is possible, you know. So

736
00:37:49,239 --> 00:37:51,120
Speaker 1: it's useful to have the people around you give you

737
00:37:51,160 --> 00:37:53,120
Speaker 1: things to respond to to kind of help you connect

738
00:37:53,120 --> 00:37:55,839
Speaker 1: to that visceral gut. No one, I love that. That's

739
00:37:55,880 --> 00:38:00,040
Speaker 1: so spot on. Like literally my stomach contracts or I

740
00:38:00,080 --> 00:38:02,480
Speaker 1: have like a lot of breath moving through me and

741
00:38:02,520 --> 00:38:05,759
Speaker 1: that's what informs me immediately. So wold right. And there's

742
00:38:05,800 --> 00:38:07,799
Speaker 1: so much talk out there like follow your gutless into

743
00:38:07,840 --> 00:38:10,000
Speaker 1: your gut. Not all of us have access to that.

744
00:38:10,080 --> 00:38:11,960
Speaker 1: I don't have that in my body at all. Like

745
00:38:12,040 --> 00:38:13,759
Speaker 1: some of us are meant to sleep on things, other

746
00:38:13,760 --> 00:38:16,080
Speaker 1: ones that our intuition. Other people are like you to

747
00:38:16,200 --> 00:38:18,240
Speaker 1: talk things out. Everybody's about being in the right space.

748
00:38:18,280 --> 00:38:20,680
Speaker 1: Like we all have a different way of accessing our truth.

749
00:38:21,120 --> 00:38:23,360
Speaker 1: And for you, it's just like gut instinct in the

750
00:38:23,440 --> 00:38:26,360
Speaker 1: moment and so like again, just honoring it and trusting

751
00:38:26,360 --> 00:38:27,839
Speaker 1: it and knowing that your gut knows more than your

752
00:38:27,840 --> 00:38:32,440
Speaker 1: body than your mind could ever know. So that is

753
00:38:32,440 --> 00:38:34,560
Speaker 1: I definitely record people diving into that, and again not

754
00:38:34,640 --> 00:38:36,719
Speaker 1: only with yourself but the people around you. Because you

755
00:38:36,800 --> 00:38:39,960
Speaker 1: might be partnering with or collaborating with somebody that can't

756
00:38:39,960 --> 00:38:42,640
Speaker 1: decide instantaneously. They need to sleep on things and take

757
00:38:42,640 --> 00:38:44,920
Speaker 1: their time. So rather than expecting them to move at

758
00:38:45,120 --> 00:38:47,360
Speaker 1: the pace that you move, it's also giving them like

759
00:38:47,360 --> 00:38:49,799
Speaker 1: a night or two to really reach their own clarity. Yeah,

760
00:38:50,000 --> 00:38:54,680
Speaker 1: oh that's beautiful. Um. There are aspects of our design

761
00:38:54,760 --> 00:38:56,759
Speaker 1: that speak to where we are the most sensitive to

762
00:38:56,800 --> 00:38:59,799
Speaker 1: other people's energy, and these are both the areas that

763
00:38:59,800 --> 00:39:01,719
Speaker 1: we can get the most taken off track in our

764
00:39:01,719 --> 00:39:03,719
Speaker 1: lives and also where we have the most to learn.

765
00:39:04,239 --> 00:39:06,319
Speaker 1: And so one of the biggest areas for you is

766
00:39:06,360 --> 00:39:10,040
Speaker 1: around your emotional awareness. You are highly empathic according to

767
00:39:10,080 --> 00:39:14,120
Speaker 1: your design, and very sensitive to what other you are feeling. Um,

768
00:39:14,320 --> 00:39:17,880
Speaker 1: this can be overwhelming but also make you incredibly perceptive.

769
00:39:18,080 --> 00:39:19,960
Speaker 1: So I would say the shadow for you is just

770
00:39:20,000 --> 00:39:23,080
Speaker 1: like emotional overwhelmed, getting lost and what other people are feeling,

771
00:39:23,120 --> 00:39:25,200
Speaker 1: trying to fix it, like not speaking your truth for

772
00:39:25,239 --> 00:39:27,960
Speaker 1: fear of like sparking a thing and another person. And

773
00:39:28,000 --> 00:39:30,400
Speaker 1: the wisdom for you is it's just like very calm,

774
00:39:30,520 --> 00:39:34,000
Speaker 1: empathic nature. It's like having strong boundaries and being aware

775
00:39:34,040 --> 00:39:36,160
Speaker 1: of what other people are feeling. Without personalizing it, are

776
00:39:36,200 --> 00:39:38,320
Speaker 1: taken on as your own and knowing that one of

777
00:39:38,360 --> 00:39:40,640
Speaker 1: your biggest lessons is speaking your truth and saying the

778
00:39:40,680 --> 00:39:43,239
Speaker 1: hard things, and knowing that you will almost always feel

779
00:39:43,239 --> 00:39:45,719
Speaker 1: about on the other side of confrontation because this is

780
00:39:45,719 --> 00:39:47,800
Speaker 1: one of your biggest lessons. That's also an area in

781
00:39:47,800 --> 00:39:50,120
Speaker 1: which you're meant to teach other people, like helping other

782
00:39:50,120 --> 00:39:52,520
Speaker 1: people speak their truth, say the hard things. How does that?

783
00:39:52,680 --> 00:39:56,720
Speaker 1: How does that go? Pers sent me? But and hearing

784
00:39:56,760 --> 00:40:02,920
Speaker 1: you say this feels for me, um, it really feels

785
00:40:02,920 --> 00:40:05,240
Speaker 1: for me to be honest. Like I feel very proud

786
00:40:05,360 --> 00:40:08,480
Speaker 1: right now because I am on the healthy side of this,

787
00:40:08,640 --> 00:40:12,360
Speaker 1: and I remember being younger and not knowing what it

788
00:40:12,520 --> 00:40:15,279
Speaker 1: felt like to be this overwhelmed. Like I I'd walk

789
00:40:15,320 --> 00:40:17,800
Speaker 1: into a room and I would know what every single

790
00:40:17,880 --> 00:40:20,359
Speaker 1: person in that room was going through, you know, and

791
00:40:20,400 --> 00:40:23,319
Speaker 1: then usually every person in that room would find me

792
00:40:23,360 --> 00:40:26,919
Speaker 1: at some point and then verbalize that. And it's a lot,

793
00:40:27,239 --> 00:40:30,040
Speaker 1: you know, it really is. It's a lot. And and

794
00:40:30,120 --> 00:40:33,440
Speaker 1: my deepest desire in nature is to serve and is

795
00:40:33,480 --> 00:40:36,520
Speaker 1: to be there for people. And so that was always

796
00:40:36,640 --> 00:40:40,040
Speaker 1: um a fight for me for a lot of my life,

797
00:40:40,160 --> 00:40:43,640
Speaker 1: and in this moment of my life. I'm actually so

798
00:40:43,719 --> 00:40:48,080
Speaker 1: beautifully boundaried, and it's given me the energy supply to

799
00:40:48,200 --> 00:40:51,640
Speaker 1: show up in my purpose. I say no so constantly,

800
00:40:51,680 --> 00:40:55,239
Speaker 1: and I love it, and I say no with love. Um.

801
00:40:55,280 --> 00:40:59,440
Speaker 1: But I'm I'm so boundaried, and especially around clearing my energy,

802
00:40:59,600 --> 00:41:03,560
Speaker 1: especially you, around not taking on the weight of the

803
00:41:03,600 --> 00:41:06,080
Speaker 1: world and other people. And I feel like I've found

804
00:41:06,120 --> 00:41:09,320
Speaker 1: a balance of being able to serve with my gifts

805
00:41:09,760 --> 00:41:13,040
Speaker 1: but also being able to choose myself as my number

806
00:41:13,080 --> 00:41:17,080
Speaker 1: one priority. Um. And and everyone gets what I'm able

807
00:41:17,120 --> 00:41:20,040
Speaker 1: to do, not all of me. And so it feels

808
00:41:20,080 --> 00:41:22,360
Speaker 1: so good to hear you reflect that. Because I'm hearing that,

809
00:41:22,440 --> 00:41:25,920
Speaker 1: I'm like, wow, Like what a gift my self investigation

810
00:41:26,080 --> 00:41:29,400
Speaker 1: and the work that I've been doing um in my

811
00:41:29,480 --> 00:41:32,360
Speaker 1: life has led me to a point where where I'm

812
00:41:32,400 --> 00:41:37,720
Speaker 1: I'm sitting inside what my natural, innate way of being

813
00:41:37,880 --> 00:41:41,919
Speaker 1: is supposed to be. Yeah. And also that you are

814
00:41:42,040 --> 00:41:44,400
Speaker 1: learning and have learned so many of the lessons like

815
00:41:44,480 --> 00:41:46,759
Speaker 1: these areas and re design are often like the most

816
00:41:46,800 --> 00:41:48,920
Speaker 1: indicative where it just like, are we living in the

817
00:41:48,920 --> 00:41:50,759
Speaker 1: shadow of the wisdom, Because like so much for my

818
00:41:50,880 --> 00:41:53,120
Speaker 1: life is the evolution from the shadow of the wisdom,

819
00:41:53,160 --> 00:41:55,560
Speaker 1: So being aware of it really supports it's in that journey.

820
00:41:55,560 --> 00:41:58,120
Speaker 1: But it's also so beautiful to connect people that are like,

821
00:41:58,280 --> 00:42:00,359
Speaker 1: I know what that shadow feels like, and I've also

822
00:42:00,400 --> 00:42:02,160
Speaker 1: done working myself and in a way that I'm no

823
00:42:02,200 --> 00:42:05,040
Speaker 1: longer living in that I'm also really just like embracing

824
00:42:05,080 --> 00:42:07,279
Speaker 1: the gift to the sensitivity that I have, you know. So,

825
00:42:07,800 --> 00:42:09,880
Speaker 1: and it's so cool because this is also an aspect

826
00:42:09,920 --> 00:42:12,280
Speaker 1: of our design where you can really understand the impact

827
00:42:12,280 --> 00:42:14,319
Speaker 1: we have on each other, because like, while you are

828
00:42:14,400 --> 00:42:17,160
Speaker 1: very respective to other people's emotions, there might be certain

829
00:42:17,160 --> 00:42:18,879
Speaker 1: people in your life that really kind of like set

830
00:42:18,880 --> 00:42:21,000
Speaker 1: the emotional tone and project out their emotions and you

831
00:42:21,040 --> 00:42:23,040
Speaker 1: might be like hyper sensitive to what they're feeling. So

832
00:42:23,360 --> 00:42:25,839
Speaker 1: it's just kind of nice to understand those dynamics because

833
00:42:25,840 --> 00:42:27,920
Speaker 1: I think it's just like again, creates a lot more

834
00:42:27,920 --> 00:42:33,319
Speaker 1: compassion to just understand exactly what's happening. So some of

835
00:42:33,360 --> 00:42:35,360
Speaker 1: the other big areas of learning for you, one is

836
00:42:35,440 --> 00:42:40,160
Speaker 1: around how you like handle stress and pressure. So one

837
00:42:40,160 --> 00:42:44,640
Speaker 1: of your biggest shadows is being in too much of

838
00:42:44,640 --> 00:42:47,120
Speaker 1: a hurry and applying a sense of urgency to everything

839
00:42:47,120 --> 00:42:49,359
Speaker 1: that you do and just this feeling that like, once

840
00:42:49,360 --> 00:42:51,239
Speaker 1: I get this thing, gonna be free. But like the

841
00:42:51,280 --> 00:42:53,840
Speaker 1: thing is that the pressure never disappears into The lesson

842
00:42:53,920 --> 00:42:57,080
Speaker 1: for you is around really assessing what's worth herring for

843
00:42:57,160 --> 00:42:59,719
Speaker 1: and what's not and not like, you know, throwing your

844
00:42:59,760 --> 00:43:01,879
Speaker 1: urge to see it everything that comes in your way.

845
00:43:01,920 --> 00:43:04,080
Speaker 1: And you're also so sensitive to other people's stress, so

846
00:43:04,080 --> 00:43:05,719
Speaker 1: if you're around somebody that's stress, you might feel like

847
00:43:05,800 --> 00:43:08,719
Speaker 1: uber stress. So the lesson for you is like slowing down,

848
00:43:08,760 --> 00:43:11,480
Speaker 1: building ease and spaciousness into your life and really just

849
00:43:11,600 --> 00:43:14,200
Speaker 1: like knowing what's worth her and from what's not, and

850
00:43:14,200 --> 00:43:16,040
Speaker 1: and being fast when you want to be fast, but

851
00:43:16,120 --> 00:43:19,920
Speaker 1: not having a beer default. How do you feel like

852
00:43:19,920 --> 00:43:22,600
Speaker 1: you're doing with that one? I feel I feel so good.

853
00:43:25,040 --> 00:43:29,480
Speaker 1: This is like such a beautiful, beautiful um gift hearing

854
00:43:29,520 --> 00:43:32,719
Speaker 1: you say this to me, And it's so interesting because

855
00:43:33,840 --> 00:43:37,480
Speaker 1: not even interesting, it's there's no coincidences, you know, It's

856
00:43:37,520 --> 00:43:41,320
Speaker 1: just very synchronistic for me because the last couple of months,

857
00:43:41,360 --> 00:43:45,759
Speaker 1: I've really privately been in deep evaluation of myself and

858
00:43:45,800 --> 00:43:49,839
Speaker 1: I've been noticing my triggers and my traumas and how

859
00:43:49,880 --> 00:43:53,120
Speaker 1: I responded or how I occupied space and work in

860
00:43:53,239 --> 00:43:58,160
Speaker 1: my home within myself with just me over different junctures

861
00:43:58,160 --> 00:44:01,840
Speaker 1: in my life. And then I've been and really savoring

862
00:44:02,000 --> 00:44:06,400
Speaker 1: and exploring especially what the gift of the pandemic was.

863
00:44:06,560 --> 00:44:10,280
Speaker 1: And I think this last year I really set powerful

864
00:44:10,320 --> 00:44:16,560
Speaker 1: intention around healing a lot, healing any against nouses of

865
00:44:16,800 --> 00:44:22,040
Speaker 1: my innate natural destiny UM and way of being. And

866
00:44:22,120 --> 00:44:25,759
Speaker 1: so I think you know, things are still sometimes things

867
00:44:25,840 --> 00:44:28,600
Speaker 1: still come up, right. I'm we are all flawed humans,

868
00:44:28,840 --> 00:44:33,480
Speaker 1: um with these long expansive journeys. But and what you're saying, yeah,

869
00:44:33,560 --> 00:44:38,480
Speaker 1: that feels really good because again like with really really

870
00:44:38,560 --> 00:44:42,719
Speaker 1: investing in nourishing UM my self, honoring choices in my

871
00:44:42,760 --> 00:44:47,480
Speaker 1: boundary system UM, and really coming into my body and

872
00:44:47,760 --> 00:44:51,439
Speaker 1: knowing what I am actually feeling in each moment, even

873
00:44:51,480 --> 00:44:55,040
Speaker 1: down to the gut responses that I have that you mentioned,

874
00:44:55,040 --> 00:44:57,640
Speaker 1: like sometimes if I have a decision to make, I'll

875
00:44:57,680 --> 00:45:00,759
Speaker 1: literally feel contractions in my stomach and if I look down,

876
00:45:00,760 --> 00:45:05,320
Speaker 1: my stomach will have moved UM. And so I'm just like, wow, Okay,

877
00:45:05,320 --> 00:45:09,960
Speaker 1: this feels good, Like my healing feels really really rooted. UM,

878
00:45:10,960 --> 00:45:14,560
Speaker 1: give me more, keep going, It's fun, right, Okay, So

879
00:45:14,719 --> 00:45:17,000
Speaker 1: let me there are two more big areas. You're here

880
00:45:17,000 --> 00:45:18,399
Speaker 1: to learn, but I want to just there are two

881
00:45:18,400 --> 00:45:19,759
Speaker 1: other pieces of your design that I want to make

882
00:45:19,760 --> 00:45:21,600
Speaker 1: sure I cover, so we'll come those a big time.

883
00:45:21,719 --> 00:45:24,759
Speaker 1: But there's an aspect of our design and these are

884
00:45:24,760 --> 00:45:27,480
Speaker 1: called our channels, and they're basically known as just like

885
00:45:27,520 --> 00:45:30,280
Speaker 1: our innate strengths. These are not like super actual pieces

886
00:45:30,320 --> 00:45:31,719
Speaker 1: of your design. It's not like you have to like

887
00:45:32,239 --> 00:45:34,160
Speaker 1: work to make them happen. But often when you're living

888
00:45:34,160 --> 00:45:36,400
Speaker 1: in alignment, they're just there and you just like are

889
00:45:36,440 --> 00:45:39,239
Speaker 1: expressing in that way. So, um, you have one of

890
00:45:39,280 --> 00:45:41,160
Speaker 1: my favorite ones. I have it too, which is why

891
00:45:41,200 --> 00:45:43,280
Speaker 1: it's one of my favorite. But it's called freak to Genius,

892
00:45:43,280 --> 00:45:45,800
Speaker 1: which is like such a hilarious thing, but it basically

893
00:45:45,800 --> 00:45:48,040
Speaker 1: means that you're here to bring these like new freaky

894
00:45:48,160 --> 00:45:51,200
Speaker 1: genius insights into the world. And if you share your

895
00:45:51,400 --> 00:45:53,879
Speaker 1: like new kind of like light years ahead of everyone

896
00:45:53,920 --> 00:45:55,920
Speaker 1: else insight before people are ready to hear them, you

897
00:45:56,000 --> 00:45:57,440
Speaker 1: might be like seen as a freak or just be

898
00:45:57,600 --> 00:46:00,640
Speaker 1: like really misunderstood. But if you offer insights and an

899
00:46:00,640 --> 00:46:02,960
Speaker 1: audience that is actually ready and receptive, and you've really

900
00:46:03,000 --> 00:46:05,240
Speaker 1: given so much thought in terms of how to structure

901
00:46:05,280 --> 00:46:07,480
Speaker 1: them and make it. Obviously other people you're seen as

902
00:46:07,480 --> 00:46:10,160
Speaker 1: like an absolute genius, you know, and so just knowing that,

903
00:46:10,200 --> 00:46:13,040
Speaker 1: like you're really here to have like such spontaneous breakthroughs

904
00:46:13,040 --> 00:46:15,080
Speaker 1: and insights and you might just like not even know

905
00:46:15,120 --> 00:46:17,040
Speaker 1: how you know all the things that you know, and

906
00:46:17,080 --> 00:46:19,239
Speaker 1: the work is to just like guard your knowing so

907
00:46:19,280 --> 00:46:21,600
Speaker 1: you only share it with the right people and also

908
00:46:21,760 --> 00:46:23,920
Speaker 1: just to create space for the insights to come. And

909
00:46:23,920 --> 00:46:25,600
Speaker 1: it feels like you do that beautifully, but they don't

910
00:46:25,640 --> 00:46:27,399
Speaker 1: come from you being like I need to figure it out.

911
00:46:27,400 --> 00:46:29,120
Speaker 1: It just like let me just create space and like

912
00:46:29,160 --> 00:46:34,920
Speaker 1: they'll just land. I mean, come on, you're telling me

913
00:46:35,040 --> 00:46:39,319
Speaker 1: my life. Yeah, and it's it's so interesting. And I

914
00:46:39,320 --> 00:46:41,640
Speaker 1: I hope through sharing like my my some of my

915
00:46:41,680 --> 00:46:45,840
Speaker 1: feedback and process um for for everyone listening. I really

916
00:46:46,000 --> 00:46:49,719
Speaker 1: I'm really hoping that you'll start if you are not

917
00:46:49,880 --> 00:46:54,239
Speaker 1: currently looking at yourself with this type of strategy, so

918
00:46:54,360 --> 00:46:57,640
Speaker 1: like really like being willing to do the observation in

919
00:46:57,680 --> 00:47:00,520
Speaker 1: the analysis because they're such gift in it. Hearing you

920
00:47:00,560 --> 00:47:02,720
Speaker 1: say that's me. I didn't know that at all about

921
00:47:02,760 --> 00:47:05,919
Speaker 1: my chart and it's literally my life. And I think

922
00:47:05,960 --> 00:47:08,319
Speaker 1: when I used to fight, and I wasn't in full

923
00:47:08,360 --> 00:47:13,360
Speaker 1: acceptance of my innate nature. I used to feel so

924
00:47:13,480 --> 00:47:17,239
Speaker 1: misunderstood because I was traveling, maybe in circles or having

925
00:47:17,280 --> 00:47:21,759
Speaker 1: conversations with people that the conversations just couldn't land. It

926
00:47:21,840 --> 00:47:26,480
Speaker 1: was conversations they weren't ready for. And so then you're

927
00:47:26,520 --> 00:47:28,880
Speaker 1: feeling like a freak and people aren't seeing you and

928
00:47:28,960 --> 00:47:32,200
Speaker 1: your value because they're not speaking your language. But when

929
00:47:32,200 --> 00:47:36,040
Speaker 1: you speak your language around those you're meant to, then

930
00:47:36,160 --> 00:47:38,520
Speaker 1: it is like you're greeted. Um. It reminds me kind

931
00:47:38,520 --> 00:47:40,840
Speaker 1: of that quote of like go where you're celebrated, not

932
00:47:40,920 --> 00:47:44,200
Speaker 1: where you're tolerated. I never understood that quote when I

933
00:47:44,239 --> 00:47:46,120
Speaker 1: had when i'd heard it before, but I've been thinking

934
00:47:46,160 --> 00:47:48,839
Speaker 1: about it recently because it's like when you are with

935
00:47:49,200 --> 00:47:52,080
Speaker 1: when you're in flow with your destiny and you're in

936
00:47:52,160 --> 00:47:55,279
Speaker 1: the groupings and in the systems that you're supposed to be,

937
00:47:57,480 --> 00:48:00,719
Speaker 1: who you are is celebrated. Whoever you are, you're celebrated

938
00:48:00,760 --> 00:48:04,400
Speaker 1: because you're deeply seen. Um. And so if you're in

939
00:48:04,480 --> 00:48:08,080
Speaker 1: places where you're feeling like you're fighting, or you're feeling

940
00:48:08,120 --> 00:48:11,239
Speaker 1: like you're not your full self, or you're you're feeling depleted.

941
00:48:12,440 --> 00:48:15,520
Speaker 1: That is not your circle. It's not about earning or

942
00:48:15,560 --> 00:48:18,800
Speaker 1: getting them to eventually see what you have to offer.

943
00:48:18,920 --> 00:48:22,640
Speaker 1: It is packing your bag and leaving it entirely because

944
00:48:22,640 --> 00:48:25,279
Speaker 1: it's not your place and it's not your people, which

945
00:48:25,320 --> 00:48:27,359
Speaker 1: is not a judgment of them. They are doing and

946
00:48:27,400 --> 00:48:30,480
Speaker 1: being who they are supposed to be. But you got

947
00:48:30,480 --> 00:48:32,759
Speaker 1: to figure out why you were choosing to plant there

948
00:48:33,360 --> 00:48:37,040
Speaker 1: and then find find that fertile soil to go take

949
00:48:37,120 --> 00:48:41,520
Speaker 1: root mm hmm exactly, you know, And just knowing that,

950
00:48:41,600 --> 00:48:46,280
Speaker 1: like it's gonna feel so unsatisfying and cultivate so much bitterness.

951
00:48:46,320 --> 00:48:48,480
Speaker 1: They're going to share all those parts of yourself with

952
00:48:48,520 --> 00:48:50,400
Speaker 1: people that aren't ready to hear it, you know. And

953
00:48:50,440 --> 00:48:52,560
Speaker 1: so just like knowing that, like the research of your

954
00:48:52,560 --> 00:48:54,560
Speaker 1: audience really allows you to like and it can be

955
00:48:54,600 --> 00:48:57,040
Speaker 1: your friends, your community, your family is what actually allows

956
00:48:57,040 --> 00:48:59,719
Speaker 1: you really honor this gift because it's such a powerful one.

957
00:49:00,239 --> 00:49:03,920
Speaker 1: Um you have another one around just like rhythm and

958
00:49:03,920 --> 00:49:06,000
Speaker 1: being in your flow basically, like you're just here to

959
00:49:06,040 --> 00:49:08,279
Speaker 1: find like a powerful flow in every area of your life.

960
00:49:08,320 --> 00:49:10,520
Speaker 1: And like when you're listening to your gut and trusting it,

961
00:49:10,560 --> 00:49:12,440
Speaker 1: like things are just meant to feel like so effortless

962
00:49:12,440 --> 00:49:14,680
Speaker 1: and natural and just happening, and when you're not listening

963
00:49:14,719 --> 00:49:16,799
Speaker 1: to your gut, it's just like chaos. And so like

964
00:49:17,239 --> 00:49:19,279
Speaker 1: always asking yourself, like what could I do to bring

965
00:49:19,320 --> 00:49:21,880
Speaker 1: myself more into the flow. And also like you know,

966
00:49:22,000 --> 00:49:23,960
Speaker 1: I know that having a kid probably makes this difficult

967
00:49:23,960 --> 00:49:26,719
Speaker 1: at times, but also like not letting people when you

968
00:49:26,760 --> 00:49:29,360
Speaker 1: can interfere with your flow, you know, really giving yourself

969
00:49:29,400 --> 00:49:32,320
Speaker 1: space to kind of be in your own flow without interference. Yeah,

970
00:49:32,960 --> 00:49:38,040
Speaker 1: I love that that fits so much. You also have

971
00:49:38,200 --> 00:49:40,879
Speaker 1: the strength of shock, which is a very intense thing,

972
00:49:41,280 --> 00:49:44,240
Speaker 1: and it basically means that you have such a gift

973
00:49:44,480 --> 00:49:48,520
Speaker 1: of transformation, of transforming people out of complacency into an

974
00:49:48,640 --> 00:49:51,760
Speaker 1: entirely new way of doing things, you know. But similarly

975
00:49:51,800 --> 00:49:53,200
Speaker 1: like you've got to make sure they're ready for it,

976
00:49:53,239 --> 00:49:55,600
Speaker 1: you know, that you're not just like you know, in

977
00:49:55,719 --> 00:49:58,719
Speaker 1: forcing that transformation before they're ready. But it also means

978
00:49:58,719 --> 00:50:01,360
Speaker 1: that you're really here to go through intense experiences in

979
00:50:01,400 --> 00:50:05,080
Speaker 1: your own life that's just like level up your level,

980
00:50:05,160 --> 00:50:07,400
Speaker 1: up your awareness and just like wake you up, you know,

981
00:50:07,480 --> 00:50:10,080
Speaker 1: into like just like a new way of being, you know.

982
00:50:10,160 --> 00:50:13,719
Speaker 1: So it's this ability to actually withstand shock and evolve

983
00:50:13,880 --> 00:50:16,879
Speaker 1: and grow and so like it's that journey in your

984
00:50:16,880 --> 00:50:20,400
Speaker 1: own life but also that inspire transformation in others. Do

985
00:50:20,440 --> 00:50:24,239
Speaker 1: you feel that Do I feel that? It feels like yes,

986
00:50:24,440 --> 00:50:29,919
Speaker 1: oh my god, yes, yeah, that's so funny. Yes. All

987
00:50:29,960 --> 00:50:32,400
Speaker 1: of my center piece moments in my life that have

988
00:50:32,440 --> 00:50:37,320
Speaker 1: been catalysts for change have been utterly shocking, like utterly

989
00:50:37,760 --> 00:50:43,040
Speaker 1: like shocking, like something's very much and shocking in the

990
00:50:43,040 --> 00:50:47,840
Speaker 1: way that it's like melodramatic, like a lifetime movie, you

991
00:50:47,880 --> 00:50:49,919
Speaker 1: know what I mean. Like, I find that that all

992
00:50:50,000 --> 00:50:55,760
Speaker 1: of the all of the catalysts for immense growth and change. Um,

993
00:50:55,840 --> 00:50:57,799
Speaker 1: even when I think about I got divorced in a

994
00:50:57,800 --> 00:51:01,200
Speaker 1: global pandemic, you know, when you think about those really

995
00:51:01,320 --> 00:51:05,759
Speaker 1: pannacle moments in your life and and what it what

996
00:51:05,880 --> 00:51:09,719
Speaker 1: it actually really deeply offered you. Um. And so yeah,

997
00:51:09,760 --> 00:51:13,680
Speaker 1: I relate to that so much. Mm hmm. Yeah. And

998
00:51:13,680 --> 00:51:16,480
Speaker 1: and again just like really trusting that journey, you know,

999
00:51:16,520 --> 00:51:18,280
Speaker 1: and knowing that so much of your work is around

1000
00:51:18,280 --> 00:51:20,239
Speaker 1: having the courage to take the leap and see what's

1001
00:51:20,239 --> 00:51:23,160
Speaker 1: on the other side. Um. And again, like it's a

1002
00:51:23,200 --> 00:51:25,200
Speaker 1: really powerful journey you're going through, but you're also here

1003
00:51:25,239 --> 00:51:27,640
Speaker 1: to inspire transformation and so many others and the last

1004
00:51:27,719 --> 00:51:30,680
Speaker 1: kind of powerful strength you have there is around. Just

1005
00:51:30,760 --> 00:51:34,279
Speaker 1: like when you're so self empowered and interests of your

1006
00:51:34,320 --> 00:51:36,960
Speaker 1: own direction and where you're going, you are a natural

1007
00:51:36,960 --> 00:51:39,600
Speaker 1: waste show. Or for other people, you inspire them to

1008
00:51:39,680 --> 00:51:42,200
Speaker 1: connect to their own direction, their own sense of purpose,

1009
00:51:42,320 --> 00:51:44,880
Speaker 1: like you just bring new direction wherever you go, you know,

1010
00:51:44,960 --> 00:51:47,560
Speaker 1: and so like, but it requires that you're so aligned

1011
00:51:47,560 --> 00:51:49,960
Speaker 1: with it yourself like, and that's the thing that ripples

1012
00:51:49,960 --> 00:51:52,319
Speaker 1: out and has the impact that you're meant to mm hmm.

1013
00:51:53,960 --> 00:51:56,880
Speaker 1: What a gift, What a gift, What a gift it

1014
00:51:57,000 --> 00:52:00,239
Speaker 1: is to be alive right now and to even have

1015
00:52:00,440 --> 00:52:03,799
Speaker 1: access to this moment, to your genius, to this beautiful

1016
00:52:03,880 --> 00:52:07,520
Speaker 1: technology for our our existence. You know, Like when I

1017
00:52:07,560 --> 00:52:12,160
Speaker 1: hear stuff like this erin it really you know, one,

1018
00:52:12,200 --> 00:52:15,040
Speaker 1: it's fun, right, Like I I'm kind of thrilled to

1019
00:52:15,200 --> 00:52:17,719
Speaker 1: hear you know that I'm like on track with myself,

1020
00:52:17,760 --> 00:52:20,759
Speaker 1: Like I'm I'm fully I might have a little have

1021
00:52:20,840 --> 00:52:24,080
Speaker 1: a little celebration later, you know, because it felt I

1022
00:52:24,120 --> 00:52:26,799
Speaker 1: feel really seen right now and I feel really grateful

1023
00:52:26,920 --> 00:52:30,000
Speaker 1: that I was that I my heart has been so

1024
00:52:30,040 --> 00:52:32,640
Speaker 1: willing to do some of the deeper work so that

1025
00:52:32,680 --> 00:52:35,600
Speaker 1: I can arrive UM in the beautiful way that you

1026
00:52:35,680 --> 00:52:38,120
Speaker 1: express it in the wisdom and not in the shadow,

1027
00:52:38,600 --> 00:52:41,000
Speaker 1: you know, And being able to arrive in the wisdom

1028
00:52:41,160 --> 00:52:46,920
Speaker 1: is really UM. It's being willing to explore those shadows

1029
00:52:47,080 --> 00:52:51,520
Speaker 1: and shadow work is something I have fallen so deeply

1030
00:52:51,560 --> 00:52:55,160
Speaker 1: in love with UM and find such beauty in and

1031
00:52:55,239 --> 00:52:58,040
Speaker 1: so and I think, you know what a gift like.

1032
00:52:58,080 --> 00:53:01,800
Speaker 1: It's not lost on me that you and I Ine

1033
00:53:02,000 --> 00:53:06,360
Speaker 1: are having this conversation and the depth and the access

1034
00:53:06,400 --> 00:53:11,240
Speaker 1: it gives to us and not the majority of people

1035
00:53:11,280 --> 00:53:14,880
Speaker 1: in generations that preceded us didn't have this, you know.

1036
00:53:15,120 --> 00:53:17,839
Speaker 1: And I think there is so much grace and gratitude

1037
00:53:17,840 --> 00:53:21,359
Speaker 1: in that, even as we kind of um maybe experience

1038
00:53:22,040 --> 00:53:25,280
Speaker 1: people within our own family systems that are from older generations,

1039
00:53:25,360 --> 00:53:29,800
Speaker 1: it's like coming into our humility and grace like this

1040
00:53:29,880 --> 00:53:33,120
Speaker 1: is this moment in time. Collective consciousness has risen to

1041
00:53:33,200 --> 00:53:38,919
Speaker 1: this moment in time to allow us to know ourselves steeply. Yeah,

1042
00:53:39,840 --> 00:53:42,080
Speaker 1: you know, and it is so and it just feels

1043
00:53:42,120 --> 00:53:43,680
Speaker 1: like people are so ready for you know, I shared

1044
00:53:43,680 --> 00:53:45,520
Speaker 1: a little bit about my journey, but like when I

1045
00:53:45,520 --> 00:53:49,080
Speaker 1: first started working with human design from seventeen, like it

1046
00:53:49,239 --> 00:53:51,960
Speaker 1: just wasn't landing, you know, and and not that like

1047
00:53:52,080 --> 00:53:53,839
Speaker 1: the people that I was working with it was landing with,

1048
00:53:53,840 --> 00:53:55,760
Speaker 1: but like it was just like people were not really interested.

1049
00:53:55,760 --> 00:53:58,200
Speaker 1: It felt like very new and different and like out there,

1050
00:53:58,520 --> 00:54:00,480
Speaker 1: And it really wasn't until twenty teen that it just

1051
00:54:00,600 --> 00:54:02,799
Speaker 1: started to take hold in a totally different way. And

1052
00:54:02,840 --> 00:54:05,560
Speaker 1: I've just seen such a wild, amazing growth over the

1053
00:54:05,560 --> 00:54:09,040
Speaker 1: past three years of just like such receptivity and such

1054
00:54:09,080 --> 00:54:10,959
Speaker 1: openness to human design in a way that just wasn't

1055
00:54:11,000 --> 00:54:13,480
Speaker 1: even there six years ago, you know. And so it's

1056
00:54:13,480 --> 00:54:16,080
Speaker 1: so beautiful to kind of witness the expansion and the

1057
00:54:16,120 --> 00:54:17,600
Speaker 1: growth that so many people are going through. And I

1058
00:54:17,680 --> 00:54:20,920
Speaker 1: think that I expected so much reluctance and so much skepticism,

1059
00:54:21,040 --> 00:54:23,280
Speaker 1: and I've encountered so little of it. Oh my god.

1060
00:54:23,360 --> 00:54:27,520
Speaker 1: And it's so interesting even Um. Yeah, that's so. I've

1061
00:54:27,520 --> 00:54:30,200
Speaker 1: been thinking a lot, especially about two thousands seventeen, two

1062
00:54:30,239 --> 00:54:33,920
Speaker 1: thousand eighteen, like something significantly shifted on the planet at

1063
00:54:33,960 --> 00:54:39,640
Speaker 1: that time, and our consciousness was accelerated in immense ways.

1064
00:54:39,680 --> 00:54:41,600
Speaker 1: And I've talked about this here on the show before,

1065
00:54:41,640 --> 00:54:44,080
Speaker 1: but I think about this all the time. You know

1066
00:54:44,120 --> 00:54:47,960
Speaker 1: what I think about when I think about even like

1067
00:54:48,000 --> 00:54:52,040
Speaker 1: the Me Too movement was such a massive catalyst for

1068
00:54:52,400 --> 00:54:56,000
Speaker 1: our collective consciousness and it ushered in so much healing

1069
00:54:56,040 --> 00:55:00,160
Speaker 1: for so many different communities and so much activation of

1070
00:55:00,239 --> 00:55:04,840
Speaker 1: that throat chakra for so many different communities specifically in

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Speaker 1: service to healing and sstral trauma, whether that is ancestral

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Speaker 1: trauma of the feminine, ancestral trauma of bipop community. You know,

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Speaker 1: we everything now is and also it came with Trump.

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Speaker 1: You know, everything is being purged to such an extent

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Speaker 1: so we can see without the veil and really take

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Speaker 1: stock of who are we, what does our collective look like,

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Speaker 1: what does this world look like? And what do we

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Speaker 1: really want? Because all this has been us and all

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00:55:33,560 --> 00:55:36,799
Speaker 1: this has actually been like gaslighting, Like it's been a

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00:55:36,880 --> 00:55:41,240
Speaker 1: country of gaslighting and sociopathy. And you know, the ways

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Speaker 1: we operated were so unnatural to what I believe as

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Speaker 1: natural law and divine love. And it feels like to

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Speaker 1: your point, it's like when I feel like you got

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00:55:52,520 --> 00:55:54,920
Speaker 1: called into this work at this time so you can

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Speaker 1: be in mastery for this moment. It was just preparation before. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: And I feel that way about my own work because

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Speaker 1: I think when I started when I when I left

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Speaker 1: my previous career and I moved into the mindfulness space,

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Speaker 1: half the work I did was just getting people to

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Speaker 1: listen to me, just saying, hey, meditation is an anti God,

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Speaker 1: this isn't the devil. Like those were the kind of

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Speaker 1: conversations I'd have to have before leading a meditation in

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Speaker 1: my community when I got started in as a business.

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00:56:25,920 --> 00:56:29,439
Speaker 1: And then now it's like, oh, like spirit came in

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00:56:29,760 --> 00:56:33,359
Speaker 1: and kind of collectively brought some healing to earth that

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00:56:33,440 --> 00:56:37,800
Speaker 1: gave many of us now a baseline or a foundation. Um.

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Speaker 1: And so it's less about the education and more about

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Speaker 1: the process mm hmmmmmmm being in it, you know, and

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Speaker 1: it feels like and it feels like there's been so

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Speaker 1: much preparation and now it's just like there's so much receptivity.

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Speaker 1: People are so ready, Like I just think that, like,

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Speaker 1: you know, especially over the past year, I feel like

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Speaker 1: so many people that I worked with, like you know,

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Speaker 1: I saw set to growth and I see like where

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Speaker 1: people were like I'm ready for this, I want this.

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Speaker 1: I'm just no longer tolerating what I've been doing things

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Speaker 1: like I want a new way. Um, and I think

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Speaker 1: the magic of human design and a lot of other

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Speaker 1: systems out there is it returns us to ourselves. Like

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Speaker 1: I'm not going to sit here and tell you like

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00:57:10,600 --> 00:57:12,360
Speaker 1: you should do this thing with your life, but I

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Speaker 1: will remind you of the way that you operate best.

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Speaker 1: You can assess that for yourself. Can I share one

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00:57:17,640 --> 00:57:21,360
Speaker 1: more piece that your design with I mean yes. So

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00:57:21,600 --> 00:57:24,080
Speaker 1: there's a really cool aspect of a design called our

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00:57:24,120 --> 00:57:26,720
Speaker 1: profile and their twelve different profiles and human design, you

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00:57:26,720 --> 00:57:28,600
Speaker 1: and I have the same one. It's called the six too.

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Speaker 1: And basically what it means that I'm so curious that

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Speaker 1: this resonates. There are two pieces to it. One is

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Speaker 1: that like there's a bit of a hermit nature to

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Speaker 1: your design. And this doesn't mean that you're meant to

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Speaker 1: be like hermetic all the time, but just like having

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Speaker 1: regular time and space, and it feels like you do

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Speaker 1: this naturally with your spiritual practice, especially in the evenings,

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Speaker 1: to kind of just like pull away and being your

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Speaker 1: own energy and your own space and your own flow,

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00:57:48,640 --> 00:57:51,280
Speaker 1: like it brings you such harmony. So giving yourself space

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Speaker 1: for that is so key. Um also knowing that you're

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Speaker 1: just meant to be a natural of what you do,

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Speaker 1: Like you might find that you can't always explain how

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Speaker 1: you do what you do. You just do it like

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Speaker 1: you just like you bring such a genius and gift

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Speaker 1: to whatever it is you do. And so in some

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Speaker 1: ways it's released the need to explain it and just

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Speaker 1: trusting that. I know that was like such a big

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Speaker 1: lesson for me. So I want to repeace, I want

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Speaker 1: to share. But how does that land for you? Oh

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Speaker 1: my god, do we go together now? Like I just

1139
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Speaker 1: feel so seen. Ah yeah, that's it's so good and

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00:58:20,400 --> 00:58:24,520
Speaker 1: and it's so funny. Um. And I'm kind of offering

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00:58:24,520 --> 00:58:26,480
Speaker 1: like a little bit more of these explanations because I

1142
00:58:26,480 --> 00:58:29,720
Speaker 1: want to ground the process of how if anyone listening

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00:58:29,880 --> 00:58:33,280
Speaker 1: is getting this done, which I highly recommend, and Aaron

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00:58:33,360 --> 00:58:35,040
Speaker 1: is going to be tagged with all her stuff in

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Speaker 1: this episode, Um, the way you can can kind of

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Speaker 1: evaluate it. And so it's interesting, like you sharing that.

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Speaker 1: So I'm an extrovert and like by the Meyer Brick system,

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Speaker 1: I'm an e n f J. I'm I'm very much

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Speaker 1: really okay, perfect sense, very Um, we are so aligned. Um,

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Speaker 1: and you know, I'm I'm an extrovert, but I always

1151
00:58:59,320 --> 00:59:03,280
Speaker 1: but I rave being alone. I crave alone time. I

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Speaker 1: cannot function without it. And I used to just think, well,

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Speaker 1: maybe it's because I'm an only child and that's like

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00:59:10,040 --> 00:59:13,480
Speaker 1: that was my foundation. Um. But no, like I have

1155
00:59:13,720 --> 00:59:17,760
Speaker 1: to have alone time to live, like to be alive,

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Speaker 1: to operate, to be in my purpose, to be in

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Speaker 1: my gifts, to be in my sovereignty. I have to

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Speaker 1: have those hermit modes. I have to carve out hours

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Speaker 1: in my day where I'm alone and I'm in ritual

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Speaker 1: or prayer or meditation, or I'm nourishing myself in some way. Um.

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Speaker 1: And I think because society, especially for women, so often

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00:59:37,920 --> 00:59:40,680
Speaker 1: would frame that. You know, even when you think of parenting,

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Speaker 1: they'll say like, oh, give mom a break, a break,

1164
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Speaker 1: how about let's create a lifestyle that creates a flow

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Speaker 1: that each of us are allowed to be our full

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Speaker 1: selves um. And So I think I used to really

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Speaker 1: limit that side of me um because society was calling

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Speaker 1: it selfish um or it was just expected that you

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Speaker 1: deny yourself um. And I really started giving that a

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Speaker 1: hard look a few years ago and really hit my

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Speaker 1: groove in the pandemic of stopped watching television completely. My

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Speaker 1: social plans well, we're in a pandemic, so they went,

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Speaker 1: you know, out the door. But really, um, just really

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Speaker 1: saying you don't need to be around people. You don't

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Speaker 1: need to do just because you're invited. You don't got

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Speaker 1: to say yes, Like what is your deepest priority? And

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Speaker 1: for me that's myself. Yeah, And it's all about balance.

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Speaker 1: You know. None of us are meant to be alone

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Speaker 1: all the time, you know, and also none of us

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Speaker 1: men to be like around people all the time, you know.

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Speaker 1: And I think for you it's just that like again,

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Speaker 1: be around people when you're inspired a hunt a person,

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Speaker 1: and you're meant to be such a teacher for others,

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Speaker 1: which requires being around others. But like the time alone

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Speaker 1: and the pulling away is the most restorative thing you

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Speaker 1: can do, you know. And I find that, especially during

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Speaker 1: the past year, a lot of people that had this

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Speaker 1: profile there like finally it's some space and time, just

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Speaker 1: like be in my own energy. I have imagine it's

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Speaker 1: different with a child, but like it really is just

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Speaker 1: against such a restorative thing. And then the other part

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Speaker 1: of your profile, it's around the fact that you're here

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Speaker 1: to be a role model and a teacher, you know,

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Speaker 1: like you really are you inspire trust in people, your

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Speaker 1: natural authority, like your gift is like caring like a

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Speaker 1: bird's eye view, like you're really here to like step back,

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Speaker 1: witness the whole thing and have a very objective, objective

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Speaker 1: and optimistic perspective, and workings are going. When you get

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Speaker 1: like two in the details, you can also get quite pestimistic.

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Speaker 1: So we're just like pulling back, observing, offering your perspective

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Speaker 1: like you're such a witness. But what comes with this

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Speaker 1: is that we tend to live our life in three phases,

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Speaker 1: and so the first thirty years of your life is

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01:01:33,480 --> 01:01:36,040
Speaker 1: meant to be like a huge time of trial and error.

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Speaker 1: It's like a time to make all the mistakes in

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Speaker 1: the world, experience as much as you can, and not

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01:01:40,560 --> 01:01:43,240
Speaker 1: a great time to make big commitments, but so often

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Speaker 1: we do um. But it's basically a time to experience

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Speaker 1: it all and not really figure any of it out.

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Speaker 1: Thirty to fifty is a time of like really processing

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Speaker 1: everything you learned, integrating your wisdom in a deeper and

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Speaker 1: deeper way, investing on all the things that do work,

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Speaker 1: finding more stability if you want it, and your mentate

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Speaker 1: your primary fro in fifty and this doesn't mean that

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Speaker 1: there's anything to wait for. It just means that it's

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Speaker 1: meant to keep getting better because you're really here to

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Speaker 1: become like a living example of authenticity where there's such

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Speaker 1: a gravity to your energy as you get older, where

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Speaker 1: you just inspire people to become them be themselves by

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Speaker 1: just like living it yourself. And I think that like

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Speaker 1: I discovered from it was you know, I was like,

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Speaker 1: I want to do a real model. Now I think

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Speaker 1: it was such a lesson that like there's nothing to

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Speaker 1: wait for, it just keeps getting better. And I've been

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Speaker 1: around so many people in this third phase and like

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Speaker 1: there is a true gravity to their energy. Am around

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Speaker 1: them it's like tell me everything, you know. So just

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Speaker 1: I think having that trust and also knowing you're in

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Speaker 1: such a precious phase of witnessing, investing processing right now. Gosh,

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Speaker 1: that's so beautiful. God he gave me chills. Yeah, that's

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Speaker 1: so beautiful. Um, and even I just I would love

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Speaker 1: to reflect you, Aaron, like what a gift you are,

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Speaker 1: like your way of being, in your way of really

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Speaker 1: divinely translating this work. You know, I can speak for myself,

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Speaker 1: but I know you have such a massive platform and

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01:03:05,560 --> 01:03:07,880
Speaker 1: so everyone that connects with you feels this way. But

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Speaker 1: it's what a gift to really see someone and give

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Speaker 1: them the ability to see themselves at at such a

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Speaker 1: deep level of acceptance, um and love and grace and

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Speaker 1: it's so beautiful. Thank you for saying that. I think

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Speaker 1: that I received that, and it really like it's so

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Speaker 1: fun for me, you know. And I think that like

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Speaker 1: once I had and human design is a lifelong study,

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01:03:33,480 --> 01:03:35,640
Speaker 1: you know, but I think that once I had enough mastery,

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Speaker 1: like I've just been able to flow with it and

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Speaker 1: be much more intuitive in the way that I share

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Speaker 1: the information, and that has felt so much more natural

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Speaker 1: than like just regurgitating the things that I've read. So

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Speaker 1: it's so fun for me now because it just feels

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Speaker 1: playful and experimental and intuitive. Yeah, and what I'm hearing

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Speaker 1: on what you're saying too, it's like it goes from

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Speaker 1: this being what you're recognizing is like maybe an innate

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01:03:55,720 --> 01:04:00,400
Speaker 1: curiosity and calling to then like the deeper aboding an

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Speaker 1: embodiment of your purpose and the way that that feels

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Speaker 1: to express that work. M m m. And again like

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Speaker 1: I have that same profile as you do, so so

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Speaker 1: much of the gift that we book carry is just

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Speaker 1: bringing like an genius and gift to whatever it is

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Speaker 1: we do that's inexplicable. And so it's also just like

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Speaker 1: leaning into our way of doing things, even if it's

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Speaker 1: like different or we can't always explain it. So it

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Speaker 1: feels like it's been a real journey of like finding

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Speaker 1: out what that looks like for me. Oh my gosh,

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Speaker 1: this has been such an amazing interview. I am so

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Speaker 1: grateful for your time. We're going to connect the links

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Speaker 1: to all of these things. Um, but I'd love to

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Speaker 1: share right now with everyone your Instagram pages Aaron Claire Jones.

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Speaker 1: Um spelled exactly, Aaron Claire Jones. Everybody needs to go

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Speaker 1: check this out. And I'm already like, I don't even

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Speaker 1: know if you do one on ones, but I know

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Speaker 1: you're it's about to get lit lit. I do share

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Speaker 1: a lot on Instagram. If you look up your type,

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01:04:56,560 --> 01:04:58,600
Speaker 1: you're going to find so much kind of information in

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Speaker 1: terms of how to integrate that a beautiful place to

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Speaker 1: get started, as I offer something called the Blueprint, which

1276
01:05:03,640 --> 01:05:05,800
Speaker 1: is a thirty plus page it's actually got to be

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01:05:05,880 --> 01:05:07,600
Speaker 1: quite a bit longer, but like a written guide to

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Speaker 1: your unique design that walks you through all the key pieces,

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Speaker 1: so everything we talked about today, but in written form,

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Speaker 1: and it really is meant to just be like a

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Speaker 1: written manual to you that you keep returning to. It's

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Speaker 1: really just meant to make the information as like accessible

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Speaker 1: and empowering as possible. UM. I make each of them

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Speaker 1: not for like a whole lot longer, but right now

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Speaker 1: I do, and it's just like it's an amazing resource

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Speaker 1: to you to have. So the my website is Aaron

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Speaker 1: crow Jones dot com. I was like, I'll be adding

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Speaker 1: that to cart for myself because I'm like, yeah, I

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Speaker 1: need to get this transcribed. No, No, it's the best

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Speaker 1: because like I've had people like three years ago, you

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Speaker 1: know what I mean, and they still go back every

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Speaker 1: month every week to just like check in, especially moments

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Speaker 1: of resistance such just to remember UM. Then I also

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Speaker 1: offer a workshop called Flow, which is really an exploration

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Speaker 1: of how to use UM your design to move out

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Speaker 1: of resistance and end of flow in your life. So

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Speaker 1: the discount code dropping gems will be for both of those.

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Speaker 1: And then I also do offer one on one sessions

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Speaker 1: and partnership sessions and families and team sessions if you

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Speaker 1: want to kind of dig deeper one on one, and

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Speaker 1: so the discount doesn't apply for those just because I

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Speaker 1: don't offer for those. But it's all my website. Thank

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Speaker 1: you so much. Yes, I highly recommend everyone, and speaking

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Speaker 1: to to the point you just made too about revisiting it.

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Speaker 1: What I think, um, and I know this will be

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Speaker 1: a fit for some listening. When you invest in getting

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Speaker 1: this kind of powerful insight into your life and this

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Speaker 1: kind of powerful work done, it is not so you

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Speaker 1: can kind of read it and and be a little

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Speaker 1: tickled by it in the moment and then put it

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Speaker 1: on a shelf. I look over the book of Debby

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Speaker 1: that I've created for myself. I look over it all

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Speaker 1: the time, several times a week. I look over it

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Speaker 1: all the time. I Am always checking in with myself,

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Speaker 1: always observing, always seen, you know, what could feel a

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Speaker 1: little more aligned, what could feel like a free or

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Speaker 1: more nourishing life for myself. And so when you invest

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Speaker 1: in this work, please don't just read it and put

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Speaker 1: it on a shelf. Even if it feels triggering and

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Speaker 1: you don't understand it, stick wick that like, work with it.

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Speaker 1: Keep it as part of your daily practice, you know,

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Speaker 1: especially as you're on the road of self investigation and mastery.

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Speaker 1: Keep checking in as it's clicking, and then maybe you know,

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Speaker 1: take some time away to process and embody. Um. But yeah,

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Speaker 1: oh wow, Aaron, I'm so grateful for your time. Thank

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Speaker 1: you for this just utterly delicious reading um pleasure. It

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Speaker 1: was such a joy and a confirmation for me. And

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Speaker 1: thank you so much for generously gifting us the discount

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Speaker 1: code of dropping gems um on your website, Aaron Claire Jones,

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Speaker 1: on your Instagram Aaron Claire Jones UM highly recommend for everyone.

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much. Hey, find me on social Let's

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Speaker 1: connect at Debbie Brown. That's Twitter and Instagram, or go

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Speaker 1: to my website Debbie Brown dot com. And if you're

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Speaker 1: listening to the show on Apple Podcasts, please please please

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Speaker 1: don't forget to rate, review and subscribe and send this

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