WEBVTT - Let's Draft...with LA Rams General Manager Les Snead (Part 2)

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<v Speaker 1>I can't pick anymore. Even with categories. You were just

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<v Speaker 1>saying the categories and you know, reliable starter.

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<v Speaker 2>I literally was like, Oh, if you're fortunate enough right

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<v Speaker 2>to to let's call it have tenure and I call

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<v Speaker 2>it earn experience and then discipline enough to apply that experience,

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<v Speaker 2>Like it makes it a little bit easier, like oh nope,

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<v Speaker 2>been there before or not doing that one. But trust me,

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<v Speaker 2>you have to. You have to in my case, be

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<v Speaker 2>a part of drafting a buyer beware and oh, by

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<v Speaker 2>the way, that buyer beware.

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<v Speaker 3>Biting you in the ass to go. You know what?

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<v Speaker 2>That reliable starter just seems so refreshing.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, But so I would say your wife would probably

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<v Speaker 1>say Christy would probably say that you if I had

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<v Speaker 1>to put you in a category.

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<v Speaker 4>So there's a new category which is called reliable changer.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm taking math changer category and I'm combining it

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<v Speaker 1>with reliable starter because to me, you are, in fact

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<v Speaker 1>a math changer, like everything that you've done throughout your life,

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<v Speaker 1>where you are, you know, your brain, the way that

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<v Speaker 1>you think, what you've done with the Los Angeles Rams,

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<v Speaker 1>So you're a math changer, but you also from everything

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<v Speaker 1>I know of you. You are incredibly reliable. And I've

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<v Speaker 1>said it, you know, as we've been talking for however

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<v Speaker 1>long we've been talking for that you're very level You're

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<v Speaker 1>very level headed, and you you're logical, You're a thinker,

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<v Speaker 1>and to me that makes you very reliable. So I

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<v Speaker 1>would like for you to add for me on my

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<v Speaker 1>board reliable changer category.

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<v Speaker 3>Will do it.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I know it's shooting for the stars, but

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<v Speaker 1>you well, I actually look.

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<v Speaker 2>At me as I'm going down to the for five,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going downder our bucket six, which really is like

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<v Speaker 2>it's a bucket that kind of says you're less talented,

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<v Speaker 2>but more alliable, more over achiever. And I've actually always

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<v Speaker 2>thought I'm more I'm I'm not one, two three, I'm down.

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<v Speaker 2>But anything about those type of guys, it could be

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<v Speaker 2>like Pooka and Nakup. You know what I mean, there's there's

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<v Speaker 2>something that I call it, something intangibly that's gonna be

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<v Speaker 2>you know what, we're gonna We're gonna make it. But

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<v Speaker 2>I appreciate the compliment that I have some math changing

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<v Speaker 2>you do.

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<v Speaker 1>And I said that you were incredibly humble and and

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<v Speaker 1>you just proved to me correct, So there you go.

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<v Speaker 4>All right, So we're going to do a board.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, we can set up all these different sort

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<v Speaker 1>of categories for me, but I'm the one who has

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<v Speaker 1>to essentially recognize with others help that that person is

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<v Speaker 1>in the buyer beware category and instead of running towards it,

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<v Speaker 1>like I have my entire life, I'm gonna the minute

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<v Speaker 1>they go in that category.

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<v Speaker 3>There there going to give you perspective though. Yeah, day

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<v Speaker 3>you can forgive yourself.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Like I grew up in a small town about

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<v Speaker 2>twelve thousand in Alabama.

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<v Speaker 3>And oh, by the way, if I could have.

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<v Speaker 2>Been on nine oh two one oh instead of stuck

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<v Speaker 2>in that town, oh I would have chased some deathly chased.

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<v Speaker 3>Some buyer bewares, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 2>So I've just giving you perspective that you know what

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<v Speaker 2>to get it.

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<v Speaker 3>Probably a good run.

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<v Speaker 1>I understand, But you know, okay, I was gonna I think,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Think people tell us yeah, but.

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<v Speaker 1>That was my particular destiny, right, just like what you're

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<v Speaker 1>doing is your particular destiny. I do believe that we

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<v Speaker 1>all have a destiny. And yes, you know, God gives

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<v Speaker 1>us as humans free will, so we we are capable

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<v Speaker 1>bull of making the correct or the wrong decision to take.

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<v Speaker 3>Us off that path.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, my path was sort of wrapped up with

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<v Speaker 1>my parents and us moving here and just going to

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<v Speaker 1>church and getting discovered doing plays at church. Like that

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<v Speaker 1>path was set for me when I was very, very

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<v Speaker 1>very young, versus you know, dating, starting to date it

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<v Speaker 1>like eighteen ish and just loving the buyer beware category,

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<v Speaker 1>just loving those bad boys, loving that, you know, loving

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<v Speaker 1>the chase, loving the complexity of it.

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<v Speaker 2>Here's a good one going now take who they are?

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<v Speaker 2>Really out of it so I only know their characters,

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<v Speaker 2>but go to the Little House on the Prairie. Michael Landon,

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<v Speaker 2>what was the character people? He was the dead he

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<v Speaker 2>was the dad. I mean, is he is he reliable starter?

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<v Speaker 2>I know he's not buyer beware. He seems like he's

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<v Speaker 2>reliable starter. Like that's he's math changing.

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<v Speaker 3>That's that's what I thought.

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<v Speaker 2>That's your Yeah, that's your your category became reliable changer. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>like he's yeah, there was no buyer beware, no, at

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<v Speaker 2>least in his character.

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<v Speaker 4>And my dad, by the way, was reliable changer. It's funny.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not like I, you know, had men around me

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<v Speaker 1>when I when I was young that were in the

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<v Speaker 1>buyer beware category, so that that's what I grew up

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<v Speaker 1>associating with and thinking like, oh that's the normal, right,

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<v Speaker 1>It's quite the opposite, Like the men when I was

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<v Speaker 1>younger in my life were you know, people that you

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<v Speaker 1>look up to that that became your mentors. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>it probably like fell into a very bad relationship when

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<v Speaker 1>I was like eighteen nineteen years old, and maybe that

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<v Speaker 1>just sort of set me going off. Maybe it's because

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<v Speaker 1>you know, my dad was really really sick, So I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't want to choose from three life viable, change your

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<v Speaker 1>category because a reliable changer might might look at me

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<v Speaker 1>and say you're you're the buyer beware category.

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<v Speaker 4>In that sham.

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<v Speaker 2>Awareness is the key, yeah, I know.

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<v Speaker 4>So maybe they would leave me.

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<v Speaker 1>And because I was already facing you know, my father

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<v Speaker 1>and him his health and feeling like he was going

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<v Speaker 1>to leave me through death, that I went with what

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<v Speaker 1>was a little bit safer to protect my heart.

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<v Speaker 4>But the point is is, I does.

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<v Speaker 3>Your heart still get broken in the end.

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<v Speaker 1>Not that badly, not that badly, like maybe one or two,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I think, even like I had a really good

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<v Speaker 1>boyfriend I was in my twenties. His name was Rob Wise,

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<v Speaker 1>and we were together for seven years and he was phenomenal.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't he was definitely not in the buyer beware category.

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<v Speaker 1>He's probably like reliable changer category in that really.

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<v Speaker 3>Ship, what what was you doing?

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<v Speaker 4>I was too young?

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<v Speaker 3>But what were you? What?

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<v Speaker 2>Television?

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<v Speaker 1>I think it was towards the and I know it

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<v Speaker 1>was during charms, but it might have crossed over in

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<v Speaker 1>a sum of nine O O as well.

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<v Speaker 4>It was, Oh, it was, it was actually is when

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<v Speaker 4>I met him.

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<v Speaker 2>I think was he in the business as well? Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>that's all I was wondering it would I can easily

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<v Speaker 2>see in the analogy or metaphor whatever the heck we're

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<v Speaker 2>doing here, I can easily see the let's call it

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<v Speaker 2>the reliable start of being like intimidating that, Oh, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>dating one of your I'm dating Brenda Wall. I mean

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<v Speaker 2>that's and I'm just I don't know, I'm just an accountant. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>but I'm a good accountant, right, But that's intimidating. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>you're probably intimidating if you'd have been an accountant.

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<v Speaker 4>Probably, yeah, probably that's just my person.

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<v Speaker 2>You've probably be in a hell of an accountant, a

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<v Speaker 2>hell of a CFO. The budget would have been met.

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<v Speaker 4>That's that's very true.

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<v Speaker 1>So I have had a few, you know, even my

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<v Speaker 1>second husband, who is one hundred percent in the buyer

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<v Speaker 1>it's not he he wasn't even buyer.

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<v Speaker 4>Beware, he was in the like do not go there.

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<v Speaker 3>You do have a category like.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, like he was in that category off the board,

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<v Speaker 1>like I adore him, like still to this day, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't regret that marriage.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't regret knowing him.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm still friends with him, Rick, I still like we

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<v Speaker 1>laugh hysterically together. He's one of the funniest human beings

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<v Speaker 1>I've ever met. But then all the others, I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh God, like why why did I do this?

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<v Speaker 4>So self awareness, I get it.

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<v Speaker 1>Reliable starter is probably the category I should be looking in.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, but I in a reliable changer.

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<v Speaker 2>I think I don't know if you can. And again

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<v Speaker 2>I don't whoever's listening, if you're an accountant, that's I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not knocking. We're just trying to use an analogy. But what

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<v Speaker 2>I do know is I do think you you're if

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<v Speaker 2>you're drafting, you should draft a reliable changer. Like you,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if you can you need a math

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<v Speaker 2>changer because you're a math changer. So I do often

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<v Speaker 2>say that, but if you're a math changer, you probably

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<v Speaker 2>need a math changer, and with that there's probably gonna

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<v Speaker 2>be some frictional moments. But I do think I do

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<v Speaker 2>think that would be best knowing. So I like your

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<v Speaker 2>new calibery changer. That's reliable.

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<v Speaker 4>Right, So now it's like, how do you like?

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<v Speaker 1>Now we have to figure out how we're going to

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<v Speaker 1>start drafting, because you know, I'm a homebody.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't like leaving my house. I'm the girl.

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<v Speaker 1>Who Now they're apps for this, a dating app seems

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<v Speaker 1>where and I don't have.

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<v Speaker 2>Them social media so never Yeah, I've.

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<v Speaker 3>Seen my friends swiping. I'm like, this is how it

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<v Speaker 3>gets done these days.

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<v Speaker 1>I was feel so uncomfortable with that. Basically, I think

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<v Speaker 1>I just have to listen to I have to rely

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<v Speaker 1>on other people to set me up because well, Christy

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<v Speaker 1>tried to set me up, but it was too soon

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<v Speaker 1>after my separation.

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<v Speaker 4>I wasn't really ready for it. But yeah, I think

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<v Speaker 4>I've gotta can.

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<v Speaker 2>You imagine just let's just go back a reliable starter

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<v Speaker 2>swiping y'all meet and he's like, holy shit, this is

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<v Speaker 2>Shannon Dorry, Like that's wonder how that first dake goes.

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<v Speaker 2>I say, I don't think I thought I was going

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<v Speaker 2>to meet a contributor. I've met a math change.

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<v Speaker 1>I love these categories. I'm writing this down a contributor. Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>I like that one.

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<v Speaker 4>I yeah, that's.

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<v Speaker 1>Why I'm not gonna I'm there's apparently there's other apps

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<v Speaker 1>that are more targeted towards people like high up in

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<v Speaker 1>their businesses, CEOs and actors or producers, farmers, farmers like

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<v Speaker 1>but by the way, you know, yeah, farmers. Whenever I

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<v Speaker 1>go to the South, I like, I just need to

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<v Speaker 1>marry a good Southern man and I'll be fine, Like

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<v Speaker 1>that's the way to go. And there's some that, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>the things that they're doing and and and with agriculture,

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, farmers like any of them. But there are

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<v Speaker 1>those special apps, but it just doesn't feel like a

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<v Speaker 1>very I'm too old for apps.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just going to eliminate the apps.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm too old for apps. And then there's also and

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<v Speaker 4>one of the things that I seems.

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<v Speaker 3>Like that wouldn't be fun anyway.

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<v Speaker 1>There's an element of right Like, what about the excitement

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<v Speaker 1>of just walking in a room and there's that spark

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<v Speaker 1>that's that there's that palpable electricity between two people. That's

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<v Speaker 1>more when I that's the experience I want.

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<v Speaker 3>Wait, we just well you're a homebody. So but you

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<v Speaker 3>know what's need in this go by?

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<v Speaker 4>People are going to have to bring them to me.

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<v Speaker 2>How you get in the categories too. What's interesting in

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<v Speaker 2>football is every football player doesn't fit every team. Like

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<v Speaker 2>there's schemes that teams run where a player could be

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<v Speaker 2>good in this scheme but not good in hours based

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<v Speaker 2>on their skill sets.

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<v Speaker 3>Right, they just are not.

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<v Speaker 2>All good football. It's more like a square and a

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<v Speaker 2>rectangle on a square. But end of the day, that's

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<v Speaker 2>that's how you get on our board, Right, how do

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<v Speaker 2>you help the rams? And we have these and we

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<v Speaker 2>need these skill sets. So that's kind of what you're

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<v Speaker 2>you're going through now. And all coaches have to go

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<v Speaker 2>through that because what they did last year isn't going

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<v Speaker 2>to be good enough this year or next year. So

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<v Speaker 2>you're always evolving. So that's kind of what you're you're

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<v Speaker 2>going through now. You your schemes evolving. We've got to

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<v Speaker 2>figure out what the critical factors are right, and one

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<v Speaker 2>of them is obviously not meeting on an app.

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<v Speaker 4>Definitely not.

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<v Speaker 1>There's also the thought that I've had that I said

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<v Speaker 1>something on one of my podcasts, on one of the

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<v Speaker 1>episodes where I said that, you know, if my protocol

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<v Speaker 1>worked for a long time, I would like to adopt.

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<v Speaker 1>And somebody on my social media made a comment and said,

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<v Speaker 1>what a you know, selfish human being that she would

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<v Speaker 1>adopt a child when even if her protocol is working,

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<v Speaker 1>she's probably going to be dead in five years, And

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<v Speaker 1>I was like ouch. But it's definitely the thought process

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<v Speaker 1>that also goes through my brain as far as meeting

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<v Speaker 1>and dating someone, because I'm like, God, who really wants

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<v Speaker 1>to get involved with the stage four terminal cancer girl?

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<v Speaker 1>Except the buyer beware category?

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<v Speaker 3>How you do? I would disagree?

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<v Speaker 4>Really.

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<v Speaker 2>Now, obviously we're talking about you're going to pick someone

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<v Speaker 2>that fits your scheme. But your scheme in this case,

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<v Speaker 2>right is we've eliminated a lot of people. But based

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<v Speaker 2>on probably age, here's the neat thing about you.

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<v Speaker 4>If you have to find a ninety eight year old

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<v Speaker 4>and I'm going.

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<v Speaker 2>To laugh interesting with that? Would that could be a

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<v Speaker 2>math changer, like technically bank account math changer. But I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not going there for me, but that could be. I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>money's math, they sell spreadsheet. It's but point where I

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<v Speaker 2>know that's not a scheme fit. But the here's probably

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<v Speaker 2>what you have going for you, which is neat is

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<v Speaker 2>if someone did get involved with you, they would come

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<v Speaker 2>into it knowing even if you weren't Shennon Doherty and

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<v Speaker 2>you probably could Google and that's one of the first

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<v Speaker 2>things that comes up, right, your health adversity. But you

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<v Speaker 2>would probably tell them at some point, right, So that

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<v Speaker 2>the neat thing is I truly think we can find

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<v Speaker 2>reliable changer. You sound like an assistant coach, right, and

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<v Speaker 2>that's talking the GM and the Hey, you know, let's

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<v Speaker 2>take this buyer. I can you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 2>But I know you're not. You're saying You're actually saying

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<v Speaker 2>this is the only thing that we can settle for.

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<v Speaker 2>So in a draft. Now, okay, it's gonna be a

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<v Speaker 2>little tougher to find this scheme fit. So we may

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<v Speaker 2>have to trade up, right, we may have to trade

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<v Speaker 2>up and work to make this decision work. But I

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<v Speaker 2>still think we can find the reliable change. It's gonna

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<v Speaker 2>take a little work.

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<v Speaker 1>It's gonna take. It's gonna take a lot of work.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm really counting on you less. So you're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be in charge of that. And I know that you

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<v Speaker 1>have a busy season. You're you're right in it.

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<v Speaker 2>What we are going to do is what we're going

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<v Speaker 2>to partner together is we're not going to marry a buyer.

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<v Speaker 1>Beware, marriage is like off the table for me unless

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<v Speaker 1>it's a reliable.

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<v Speaker 3>So we're reliable change.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, for sure.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know what I'm signing up for. That could

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<v Speaker 3>get tough, but we'll see.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, if look at what you do with the rams,

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<v Speaker 1>you can listen. I had to call in somebody to help,

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<v Speaker 1>and I just looked at your record and went, that's

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<v Speaker 1>the man for it.

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<v Speaker 4>So I'm putting my level life into your hands. Good

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<v Speaker 4>luck with it. Less.

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<v Speaker 2>My wife Carrie would tell you that would be what

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<v Speaker 2>not to do, what not to do.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't put him in charge.

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<v Speaker 1>Of You're in charge, and you know what, it's really good

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<v Speaker 1>practice for you. I'm actually doing you a favor because

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<v Speaker 1>you're gonna have to do this with your daughter, like

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<v Speaker 1>as she gets older, she may be dating now, but

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<v Speaker 1>like we said, she's probably, like you said, she's probably

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<v Speaker 1>not quite in that.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, here we go.

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<v Speaker 2>So but she's head over heels for a buyer.

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<v Speaker 3>Beware, you've been a daughter. What does a dad do?

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<v Speaker 3>Like I? We have we Actually it's pretty cool. We

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<v Speaker 3>have a.

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<v Speaker 2>Team psychologists that helps our players get through stressful times

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<v Speaker 2>on the field off the field. And I've definitely chatted

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<v Speaker 2>with her like, Okay, this is what my daughter has done.

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<v Speaker 3>This was my response.

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<v Speaker 2>I know that's exactly what not to do. How do

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<v Speaker 2>I clean up this mess? So?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, and I know your daughter and she's she's

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<v Speaker 1>a good girl, and she's got her head on straight.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, we're girls, and we stumble on occasion, and

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<v Speaker 1>she will. She'll probably have a few stumbles in life.

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<v Speaker 1>But I can only tell you what my dad did

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<v Speaker 1>with me, and I would say that my father was

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<v Speaker 1>the best dad ever. Because if you're capable of being

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<v Speaker 1>your daughter's best friend, if your daughter feels like you're

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<v Speaker 1>her best friend, meaning she can come to you no

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<v Speaker 1>matter how bad something is, she still can come to

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<v Speaker 1>you and have a conversation and feel safe with you.

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<v Speaker 1>You may get upset, but she knows you're always going

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<v Speaker 1>to be there, you're always going to love her and

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<v Speaker 1>you're probably going to help her get out of the situation.

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<v Speaker 1>That's being the best father and the best friend to

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<v Speaker 1>your daughter. And I think, yeah, it didn't really matter

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<v Speaker 1>what I did. I always felt like I could go

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<v Speaker 1>to my dad and talk to him about it. And

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<v Speaker 1>because of that with him, people think, you know, some

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<v Speaker 1>of the stuff I did when I was hearing was bad,

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<v Speaker 1>it was nothing compared to what it would have been

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<v Speaker 1>if I didn't have a father like that. And even

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<v Speaker 1>though i'm you know, obviously I adore and I love

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<v Speaker 1>my mother and I respect her, and she's, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>a hero to me. Now, back then I was much

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<v Speaker 1>closer to my dad, just because my mom was a

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<v Speaker 1>disciplinarian and it was nice to have that combo, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>somebody who really put restrictions on me, and then the

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<v Speaker 1>other flip side. But for father and daughter, you can

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<v Speaker 1>be firm and say, listen, just you know, this is

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<v Speaker 1>a big mistake. Don't make this mistake. But I'm still

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<v Speaker 1>going to be here for you, and I'm still going

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<v Speaker 1>to love you, and I'm always going to have enough

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<v Speaker 1>money to bail you out of jail.

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<v Speaker 3>You're good, Maybe a night in jails.

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<v Speaker 4>Good for you sometimes.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, I'm not going to hold you up anymore

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<v Speaker 1>because I want you to go make my board and

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<v Speaker 1>start on my future. And you know, because you have

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<v Speaker 1>busy stuff to do with the rams, but less Thanks,

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<v Speaker 1>enjoyed it. Yeah, this was a lot of fun.

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<v Speaker 3>Had a blast, all right.

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<v Speaker 4>Cool, Thanks for listening to you guys, See you next time.

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<v Speaker 4>Bye mm hmm.