Speaker 1: I can't pick anymore. Even with categories. You were just
Speaker 1: saying the categories and you know, reliable starter.
Speaker 2: I literally was like, Oh, if you're fortunate enough right
Speaker 2: to to let's call it have tenure and I call
Speaker 2: it earn experience and then discipline enough to apply that experience,
Speaker 2: Like it makes it a little bit easier, like oh nope,
Speaker 2: been there before or not doing that one. But trust me,
Speaker 2: you have to. You have to in my case, be
Speaker 2: a part of drafting a buyer beware and oh, by
Speaker 2: the way, that buyer beware.
Speaker 3: Biting you in the ass to go. You know what?
Speaker 2: That reliable starter just seems so refreshing.
Speaker 1: Okay, But so I would say your wife would probably
Speaker 1: say Christy would probably say that you if I had
Speaker 1: to put you in a category.
Speaker 4: So there's a new category which is called reliable changer.
Speaker 1: So I'm taking math changer category and I'm combining it
Speaker 1: with reliable starter because to me, you are, in fact
Speaker 1: a math changer, like everything that you've done throughout your life,
Speaker 1: where you are, you know, your brain, the way that
Speaker 1: you think, what you've done with the Los Angeles Rams,
Speaker 1: So you're a math changer, but you also from everything
Speaker 1: I know of you. You are incredibly reliable. And I've
Speaker 1: said it, you know, as we've been talking for however
Speaker 1: long we've been talking for that you're very level You're
Speaker 1: very level headed, and you you're logical, You're a thinker,
Speaker 1: and to me that makes you very reliable. So I
Speaker 1: would like for you to add for me on my
Speaker 1: board reliable changer category.
Speaker 3: Will do it.
Speaker 1: I mean, I know it's shooting for the stars, but
Speaker 1: you well, I actually look.
Speaker 2: At me as I'm going down to the for five,
Speaker 2: I'm going downder our bucket six, which really is like
Speaker 2: it's a bucket that kind of says you're less talented,
Speaker 2: but more alliable, more over achiever. And I've actually always
Speaker 2: thought I'm more I'm I'm not one, two three, I'm down.
Speaker 2: But anything about those type of guys, it could be
Speaker 2: like Pooka and Nakup. You know what I mean, there's there's
Speaker 2: something that I call it, something intangibly that's gonna be
Speaker 2: you know what, we're gonna We're gonna make it. But
Speaker 2: I appreciate the compliment that I have some math changing
Speaker 2: you do.
Speaker 1: And I said that you were incredibly humble and and
Speaker 1: you just proved to me correct, So there you go.
Speaker 4: All right, So we're going to do a board.
Speaker 1: You know, we can set up all these different sort
Speaker 1: of categories for me, but I'm the one who has
Speaker 1: to essentially recognize with others help that that person is
Speaker 1: in the buyer beware category and instead of running towards it,
Speaker 1: like I have my entire life, I'm gonna the minute
Speaker 1: they go in that category.
Speaker 3: There there going to give you perspective though. Yeah, day
Speaker 3: you can forgive yourself.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like I grew up in a small town about
Speaker 2: twelve thousand in Alabama.
Speaker 3: And oh, by the way, if I could have.
Speaker 2: Been on nine oh two one oh instead of stuck
Speaker 2: in that town, oh I would have chased some deathly chased.
Speaker 3: Some buyer bewares, you know what I mean.
Speaker 2: So I've just giving you perspective that you know what
Speaker 2: to get it.
Speaker 3: Probably a good run.
Speaker 1: I understand, But you know, okay, I was gonna I think,
Speaker 1: you know, I.
Speaker 2: Think people tell us yeah, but.
Speaker 1: That was my particular destiny, right, just like what you're
Speaker 1: doing is your particular destiny. I do believe that we
Speaker 1: all have a destiny. And yes, you know, God gives
Speaker 1: us as humans free will, so we we are capable
Speaker 1: bull of making the correct or the wrong decision to take.
Speaker 3: Us off that path.
Speaker 1: You know, my path was sort of wrapped up with
Speaker 1: my parents and us moving here and just going to
Speaker 1: church and getting discovered doing plays at church. Like that
Speaker 1: path was set for me when I was very, very
Speaker 1: very young, versus you know, dating, starting to date it
Speaker 1: like eighteen ish and just loving the buyer beware category,
Speaker 1: just loving those bad boys, loving that, you know, loving
Speaker 1: the chase, loving the complexity of it.
Speaker 2: Here's a good one going now take who they are?
Speaker 2: Really out of it so I only know their characters,
Speaker 2: but go to the Little House on the Prairie. Michael Landon,
Speaker 2: what was the character people? He was the dead he
Speaker 2: was the dad. I mean, is he is he reliable starter?
Speaker 2: I know he's not buyer beware. He seems like he's
Speaker 2: reliable starter. Like that's he's math changing.
Speaker 3: That's that's what I thought.
Speaker 2: That's your Yeah, that's your your category became reliable changer. Yeah,
Speaker 2: like he's yeah, there was no buyer beware, no, at
Speaker 2: least in his character.
Speaker 4: And my dad, by the way, was reliable changer. It's funny.
Speaker 1: It's not like I, you know, had men around me
Speaker 1: when I when I was young that were in the
Speaker 1: buyer beware category, so that that's what I grew up
Speaker 1: associating with and thinking like, oh that's the normal, right,
Speaker 1: It's quite the opposite, Like the men when I was
Speaker 1: younger in my life were you know, people that you
Speaker 1: look up to that that became your mentors. I mean
Speaker 1: it probably like fell into a very bad relationship when
Speaker 1: I was like eighteen nineteen years old, and maybe that
Speaker 1: just sort of set me going off. Maybe it's because
Speaker 1: you know, my dad was really really sick, So I
Speaker 1: didn't want to choose from three life viable, change your
Speaker 1: category because a reliable changer might might look at me
Speaker 1: and say you're you're the buyer beware category.
Speaker 4: In that sham.
Speaker 2: Awareness is the key, yeah, I know.
Speaker 4: So maybe they would leave me.
Speaker 1: And because I was already facing you know, my father
Speaker 1: and him his health and feeling like he was going
Speaker 1: to leave me through death, that I went with what
Speaker 1: was a little bit safer to protect my heart.
Speaker 4: But the point is is, I does.
Speaker 3: Your heart still get broken in the end.
Speaker 1: Not that badly, not that badly, like maybe one or two,
Speaker 1: Like I think, even like I had a really good
Speaker 1: boyfriend I was in my twenties. His name was Rob Wise,
Speaker 1: and we were together for seven years and he was phenomenal.
Speaker 1: I don't he was definitely not in the buyer beware category.
Speaker 1: He's probably like reliable changer category in that really.
Speaker 3: Ship, what what was you doing?
Speaker 4: I was too young?
Speaker 3: But what were you? What?
Speaker 2: Television?
Speaker 1: I think it was towards the and I know it
Speaker 1: was during charms, but it might have crossed over in
Speaker 1: a sum of nine O O as well.
Speaker 4: It was, Oh, it was, it was actually is when
Speaker 4: I met him.
Speaker 2: I think was he in the business as well? Yes,
Speaker 2: that's all I was wondering it would I can easily
Speaker 2: see in the analogy or metaphor whatever the heck we're
Speaker 2: doing here, I can easily see the let's call it
Speaker 2: the reliable start of being like intimidating that, Oh, I'm
Speaker 2: dating one of your I'm dating Brenda Wall. I mean
Speaker 2: that's and I'm just I don't know, I'm just an accountant. Yeah,
Speaker 2: but I'm a good accountant, right, But that's intimidating. Yeah,
Speaker 2: you're probably intimidating if you'd have been an accountant.
Speaker 4: Probably, yeah, probably that's just my person.
Speaker 2: You've probably be in a hell of an accountant, a
Speaker 2: hell of a CFO. The budget would have been met.
Speaker 4: That's that's very true.
Speaker 1: So I have had a few, you know, even my
Speaker 1: second husband, who is one hundred percent in the buyer
Speaker 1: it's not he he wasn't even buyer.
Speaker 4: Beware, he was in the like do not go there.
Speaker 3: You do have a category like.
Speaker 1: Yeah, like he was in that category off the board,
Speaker 1: like I adore him, like still to this day, I
Speaker 1: don't regret that marriage.
Speaker 4: I don't regret knowing him.
Speaker 1: I'm still friends with him, Rick, I still like we
Speaker 1: laugh hysterically together. He's one of the funniest human beings
Speaker 1: I've ever met. But then all the others, I'm like,
Speaker 1: oh God, like why why did I do this?
Speaker 4: So self awareness, I get it.
Speaker 1: Reliable starter is probably the category I should be looking in.
Speaker 1: I don't know, but I in a reliable changer.
Speaker 2: I think I don't know if you can. And again
Speaker 2: I don't whoever's listening, if you're an accountant, that's I'm
Speaker 2: not knocking. We're just trying to use an analogy. But what
Speaker 2: I do know is I do think you you're if
Speaker 2: you're drafting, you should draft a reliable changer. Like you,
Speaker 2: I don't know if you can you need a math
Speaker 2: changer because you're a math changer. So I do often
Speaker 2: say that, but if you're a math changer, you probably
Speaker 2: need a math changer, and with that there's probably gonna
Speaker 2: be some frictional moments. But I do think I do
Speaker 2: think that would be best knowing. So I like your
Speaker 2: new calibery changer. That's reliable.
Speaker 4: Right, So now it's like, how do you like?
Speaker 1: Now we have to figure out how we're going to
Speaker 1: start drafting, because you know, I'm a homebody.
Speaker 4: I don't like leaving my house. I'm the girl.
Speaker 1: Who Now they're apps for this, a dating app seems
Speaker 1: where and I don't have.
Speaker 2: Them social media so never Yeah, I've.
Speaker 3: Seen my friends swiping. I'm like, this is how it
Speaker 3: gets done these days.
Speaker 1: I was feel so uncomfortable with that. Basically, I think
Speaker 1: I just have to listen to I have to rely
Speaker 1: on other people to set me up because well, Christy
Speaker 1: tried to set me up, but it was too soon
Speaker 1: after my separation.
Speaker 4: I wasn't really ready for it. But yeah, I think
Speaker 4: I've gotta can.
Speaker 2: You imagine just let's just go back a reliable starter
Speaker 2: swiping y'all meet and he's like, holy shit, this is
Speaker 2: Shannon Dorry, Like that's wonder how that first dake goes.
Speaker 2: I say, I don't think I thought I was going
Speaker 2: to meet a contributor. I've met a math change.
Speaker 1: I love these categories. I'm writing this down a contributor. Wow,
Speaker 1: I like that one.
Speaker 4: I yeah, that's.
Speaker 1: Why I'm not gonna I'm there's apparently there's other apps
Speaker 1: that are more targeted towards people like high up in
Speaker 1: their businesses, CEOs and actors or producers, farmers, farmers like
Speaker 1: but by the way, you know, yeah, farmers. Whenever I
Speaker 1: go to the South, I like, I just need to
Speaker 1: marry a good Southern man and I'll be fine, Like
Speaker 1: that's the way to go. And there's some that, you know,
Speaker 1: the things that they're doing and and and with agriculture,
Speaker 1: So yeah, farmers like any of them. But there are
Speaker 1: those special apps, but it just doesn't feel like a
Speaker 1: very I'm too old for apps.
Speaker 3: I'm just going to eliminate the apps.
Speaker 4: I'm too old for apps. And then there's also and
Speaker 4: one of the things that I seems.
Speaker 3: Like that wouldn't be fun anyway.
Speaker 1: There's an element of right Like, what about the excitement
Speaker 1: of just walking in a room and there's that spark
Speaker 1: that's that there's that palpable electricity between two people. That's
Speaker 1: more when I that's the experience I want.
Speaker 3: Wait, we just well you're a homebody. So but you
Speaker 3: know what's need in this go by?
Speaker 4: People are going to have to bring them to me.
Speaker 2: How you get in the categories too. What's interesting in
Speaker 2: football is every football player doesn't fit every team. Like
Speaker 2: there's schemes that teams run where a player could be
Speaker 2: good in this scheme but not good in hours based
Speaker 2: on their skill sets.
Speaker 3: Right, they just are not.
Speaker 2: All good football. It's more like a square and a
Speaker 2: rectangle on a square. But end of the day, that's
Speaker 2: that's how you get on our board, Right, how do
Speaker 2: you help the rams? And we have these and we
Speaker 2: need these skill sets. So that's kind of what you're
Speaker 2: you're going through now. And all coaches have to go
Speaker 2: through that because what they did last year isn't going
Speaker 2: to be good enough this year or next year. So
Speaker 2: you're always evolving. So that's kind of what you're you're
Speaker 2: going through now. You your schemes evolving. We've got to
Speaker 2: figure out what the critical factors are right, and one
Speaker 2: of them is obviously not meeting on an app.
Speaker 4: Definitely not.
Speaker 1: There's also the thought that I've had that I said
Speaker 1: something on one of my podcasts, on one of the
Speaker 1: episodes where I said that, you know, if my protocol
Speaker 1: worked for a long time, I would like to adopt.
Speaker 1: And somebody on my social media made a comment and said,
Speaker 1: what a you know, selfish human being that she would
Speaker 1: adopt a child when even if her protocol is working,
Speaker 1: she's probably going to be dead in five years, And
Speaker 1: I was like ouch. But it's definitely the thought process
Speaker 1: that also goes through my brain as far as meeting
Speaker 1: and dating someone, because I'm like, God, who really wants
Speaker 1: to get involved with the stage four terminal cancer girl?
Speaker 1: Except the buyer beware category?
Speaker 3: How you do? I would disagree?
Speaker 4: Really.
Speaker 2: Now, obviously we're talking about you're going to pick someone
Speaker 2: that fits your scheme. But your scheme in this case,
Speaker 2: right is we've eliminated a lot of people. But based
Speaker 2: on probably age, here's the neat thing about you.
Speaker 4: If you have to find a ninety eight year old
Speaker 4: and I'm going.
Speaker 2: To laugh interesting with that? Would that could be a
Speaker 2: math changer, like technically bank account math changer. But I'm
Speaker 2: not going there for me, but that could be. I mean,
Speaker 2: money's math, they sell spreadsheet. It's but point where I
Speaker 2: know that's not a scheme fit. But the here's probably
Speaker 2: what you have going for you, which is neat is
Speaker 2: if someone did get involved with you, they would come
Speaker 2: into it knowing even if you weren't Shennon Doherty and
Speaker 2: you probably could Google and that's one of the first
Speaker 2: things that comes up, right, your health adversity. But you
Speaker 2: would probably tell them at some point, right, So that
Speaker 2: the neat thing is I truly think we can find
Speaker 2: reliable changer. You sound like an assistant coach, right, and
Speaker 2: that's talking the GM and the Hey, you know, let's
Speaker 2: take this buyer. I can you know what I mean?
Speaker 2: But I know you're not. You're saying You're actually saying
Speaker 2: this is the only thing that we can settle for.
Speaker 2: So in a draft. Now, okay, it's gonna be a
Speaker 2: little tougher to find this scheme fit. So we may
Speaker 2: have to trade up, right, we may have to trade
Speaker 2: up and work to make this decision work. But I
Speaker 2: still think we can find the reliable change. It's gonna
Speaker 2: take a little work.
Speaker 1: It's gonna take. It's gonna take a lot of work.
Speaker 1: And I'm really counting on you less. So you're gonna
Speaker 1: be in charge of that. And I know that you
Speaker 1: have a busy season. You're you're right in it.
Speaker 2: What we are going to do is what we're going
Speaker 2: to partner together is we're not going to marry a buyer.
Speaker 1: Beware, marriage is like off the table for me unless
Speaker 1: it's a reliable.
Speaker 3: So we're reliable change.
Speaker 4: Yes, for sure.
Speaker 3: I don't know what I'm signing up for. That could
Speaker 3: get tough, but we'll see.
Speaker 1: I mean, if look at what you do with the rams,
Speaker 1: you can listen. I had to call in somebody to help,
Speaker 1: and I just looked at your record and went, that's
Speaker 1: the man for it.
Speaker 4: So I'm putting my level life into your hands. Good
Speaker 4: luck with it. Less.
Speaker 2: My wife Carrie would tell you that would be what
Speaker 2: not to do, what not to do.
Speaker 3: Don't put him in charge.
Speaker 1: Of You're in charge, and you know what, it's really good
Speaker 1: practice for you. I'm actually doing you a favor because
Speaker 1: you're gonna have to do this with your daughter, like
Speaker 1: as she gets older, she may be dating now, but
Speaker 1: like we said, she's probably, like you said, she's probably
Speaker 1: not quite in that.
Speaker 3: Okay, here we go.
Speaker 2: So but she's head over heels for a buyer.
Speaker 3: Beware, you've been a daughter. What does a dad do?
Speaker 3: Like I? We have we Actually it's pretty cool. We
Speaker 3: have a.
Speaker 2: Team psychologists that helps our players get through stressful times
Speaker 2: on the field off the field. And I've definitely chatted
Speaker 2: with her like, Okay, this is what my daughter has done.
Speaker 3: This was my response.
Speaker 2: I know that's exactly what not to do. How do
Speaker 2: I clean up this mess? So?
Speaker 1: I mean, and I know your daughter and she's she's
Speaker 1: a good girl, and she's got her head on straight.
Speaker 1: You know, we're girls, and we stumble on occasion, and
Speaker 1: she will. She'll probably have a few stumbles in life.
Speaker 1: But I can only tell you what my dad did
Speaker 1: with me, and I would say that my father was
Speaker 1: the best dad ever. Because if you're capable of being
Speaker 1: your daughter's best friend, if your daughter feels like you're
Speaker 1: her best friend, meaning she can come to you no
Speaker 1: matter how bad something is, she still can come to
Speaker 1: you and have a conversation and feel safe with you.
Speaker 1: You may get upset, but she knows you're always going
Speaker 1: to be there, you're always going to love her and
Speaker 1: you're probably going to help her get out of the situation.
Speaker 1: That's being the best father and the best friend to
Speaker 1: your daughter. And I think, yeah, it didn't really matter
Speaker 1: what I did. I always felt like I could go
Speaker 1: to my dad and talk to him about it. And
Speaker 1: because of that with him, people think, you know, some
Speaker 1: of the stuff I did when I was hearing was bad,
Speaker 1: it was nothing compared to what it would have been
Speaker 1: if I didn't have a father like that. And even
Speaker 1: though i'm you know, obviously I adore and I love
Speaker 1: my mother and I respect her, and she's, you know,
Speaker 1: a hero to me. Now, back then I was much
Speaker 1: closer to my dad, just because my mom was a
Speaker 1: disciplinarian and it was nice to have that combo, you know,
Speaker 1: somebody who really put restrictions on me, and then the
Speaker 1: other flip side. But for father and daughter, you can
Speaker 1: be firm and say, listen, just you know, this is
Speaker 1: a big mistake. Don't make this mistake. But I'm still
Speaker 1: going to be here for you, and I'm still going
Speaker 1: to love you, and I'm always going to have enough
Speaker 1: money to bail you out of jail.
Speaker 3: You're good, Maybe a night in jails.
Speaker 4: Good for you sometimes.
Speaker 1: All right, I'm not going to hold you up anymore
Speaker 1: because I want you to go make my board and
Speaker 1: start on my future. And you know, because you have
Speaker 1: busy stuff to do with the rams, but less Thanks,
Speaker 1: enjoyed it. Yeah, this was a lot of fun.
Speaker 3: Had a blast, all right.
Speaker 4: Cool, Thanks for listening to you guys, See you next time.
Speaker 4: Bye mm hmm.