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Speaker 2: you have to. You have to in my case, be

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Speaker 2: That reliable starter just seems so refreshing.

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Speaker 1: Okay, But so I would say your wife would probably

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Speaker 4: So there's a new category which is called reliable changer.

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Speaker 1: So I'm taking math changer category and I'm combining it

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Speaker 3: Will do it.

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Speaker 2: I appreciate the compliment that I have some math changing

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Speaker 1: And I said that you were incredibly humble and and

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Speaker 1: you just proved to me correct, So there you go.

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Speaker 1: You know, we can set up all these different sort

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Speaker 3: There there going to give you perspective though. Yeah, day

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Like I grew up in a small town about

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Speaker 2: So I've just giving you perspective that you know what

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Speaker 1: That was my particular destiny, right, just like what you're

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Speaker 4: I was too young?

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Speaker 2: You've probably be in a hell of an accountant, a

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Speaker 4: So self awareness, I get it.

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Speaker 1: Reliable starter is probably the category I should be looking in.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, but I in a reliable changer.

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Speaker 4: Right, So now it's like, how do you like?

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Speaker 1: Now we have to figure out how we're going to

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Speaker 2: You imagine just let's just go back a reliable starter

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Speaker 1: I love these categories. I'm writing this down a contributor. Wow,

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Speaker 1: Why I'm not gonna I'm there's apparently there's other apps

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Speaker 3: Wait, we just well you're a homebody. So but you

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Speaker 4: People are going to have to bring them to me.

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Speaker 1: There's also the thought that I've had that I said

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Speaker 1: And somebody on my social media made a comment and said,

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Speaker 3: How you do? I would disagree?

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Speaker 2: Now, obviously we're talking about you're going to pick someone

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Speaker 2: But I know you're not. You're saying You're actually saying

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Speaker 1: It's gonna take. It's gonna take a lot of work.

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Speaker 1: And I'm really counting on you less. So you're gonna

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Speaker 2: What we are going to do is what we're going

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Speaker 3: So we're reliable change.

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Speaker 4: Yes, for sure.

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Speaker 3: I don't know what I'm signing up for. That could

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Speaker 4: So I'm putting my level life into your hands. Good

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Speaker 3: Don't put him in charge.

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Speaker 1: Of You're in charge, and you know what, it's really good

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Speaker 3: Beware, you've been a daughter. What does a dad do?

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Speaker 3: Like I? We have we Actually it's pretty cool. We

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Speaker 2: I know that's exactly what not to do. How do

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Speaker 3: You're good, Maybe a night in jails.

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Speaker 4: Good for you sometimes.

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Speaker 1: All right, I'm not going to hold you up anymore

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Speaker 1: start on my future. And you know, because you have

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Speaker 3: Had a blast, all right.

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Speaker 4: Cool, Thanks for listening to you guys, See you next time.

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Speaker 4: Bye mm hmm.