WEBVTT - Human Design 101: A Practical Manual for Your Authentic Self | Jenna Zoe 

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<v Speaker 1>I mean. The thing that people say to me the most,

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<v Speaker 1>which is what makes me really just more in love

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<v Speaker 1>with this work every day is I trust myself more

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<v Speaker 1>and I feel capable.

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<v Speaker 2>Jenni Zo is the world leading expert in human design

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<v Speaker 2>and creator of the Aligned Human Design app. Since discovering

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<v Speaker 2>human design in twenty thirteen, Jenna has turned a complicated

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<v Speaker 2>science into something accessible and easy to implement.

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<v Speaker 1>You come here as your authentic self. You know, you're

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<v Speaker 1>just naturally living the way that you organically would. But

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<v Speaker 1>then you live in the world, and the world says

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<v Speaker 1>you should be more like this or whatever, and so

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<v Speaker 1>you get further and further away from living according to

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<v Speaker 1>your just like nature. So what human design does is

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<v Speaker 1>it gives you this very practical manual for how to

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<v Speaker 1>use your specific energetic body.

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<v Speaker 2>What do you think stops people from being able to

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<v Speaker 2>connect to their most authentic self?

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<v Speaker 1>Your authentic self is glorious. There is no other thing

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<v Speaker 1>worth doing with our time here than just to dare

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<v Speaker 1>to discover what you actually are.

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome to a Really Good Cry podcast. A Really Good

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<v Speaker 2>Cry is here to help you understand your body, feel

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<v Speaker 2>confident in your skin, manage your emotions, and take back

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<v Speaker 2>control of your health because growth doesn't always start with answers.

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<v Speaker 2>Sometimes it starts with a really good cry. Thank you

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<v Speaker 2>again for having me, No, Jenna, thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's very much fun here.

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<v Speaker 2>I have been deep diving into you and human design,

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<v Speaker 2>and I have to say I'm a little bit obsessed.

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<v Speaker 2>Over the weekend, I had one to three of my

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<v Speaker 2>friends and my husband and me and I did everyone

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<v Speaker 2>use your quiz to do everyone's human design? I would

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<v Speaker 2>love to get into it because I feel like it's

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<v Speaker 2>something that I've heard people talk about a lot, but

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<v Speaker 2>only when I started resetting you I understood how much

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<v Speaker 2>how powerful it can be in your life. So could

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<v Speaker 2>you give me the most layman, simplest terms definition of

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<v Speaker 2>what human design is?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So it only came about into the world like

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<v Speaker 1>forty years ago. It was channeled in nineteen eighty seven.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's a combination of a lot of other pre

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<v Speaker 1>existing modalities, so astrology, yeah, the eaching, the chakra system,

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<v Speaker 1>and the kabata.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, it's a mixture of all of that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, okay, yeah, So Alec, the most obvious thing to

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<v Speaker 1>think about it is it's a literal map of your

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<v Speaker 1>energetic body.

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<v Speaker 2>Your aura.

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<v Speaker 1>And so imagine like you come in here with this

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<v Speaker 1>specific essence, and you have this manual on how to

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<v Speaker 1>use your energy, how you give it, how you exchange it,

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<v Speaker 1>how you optimize it, the different gifts that are inherent

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<v Speaker 1>to you, your specific essence, and there's this manual that's

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<v Speaker 1>laying here that no one's given you before. What happens

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<v Speaker 1>is you come here as your authentic self. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>you're just naturally living the way that you would like

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<v Speaker 1>organically would But then you live in the world and

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<v Speaker 1>the world says, well done for going to help someone

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<v Speaker 1>do this when you didn't want to, or you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you should be more like this or whatever, and so

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<v Speaker 1>you get further and further away from living according to

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<v Speaker 1>your just like nature. So what human design does is

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<v Speaker 1>it gives you this like very practical manual for how

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<v Speaker 1>to use your specific energetic body. And you think about

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<v Speaker 1>it as the soul is actually around the body. It's

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<v Speaker 1>the body that just sits inside the soul. So it's

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<v Speaker 1>just the one tiny physical representation of all that you are.

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<v Speaker 1>But when I'm sitting with you, your area is six

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<v Speaker 1>feet wider than yourself, right right, our auras are intermingling

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<v Speaker 1>I'm feeling all this exchange of energy that's going in

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<v Speaker 1>and out of you the whole time. How you're using

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<v Speaker 1>your gifts, how you're optimizing your brain, how you're digesting things,

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<v Speaker 1>information and food, all these different components. And even if

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not able to pinpoint what I'm actually picking up

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<v Speaker 1>from you, I still am picking up like everyone's an

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<v Speaker 1>energy reader. So what we want to be doing is

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<v Speaker 1>we want to be showing up as our most organic self,

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<v Speaker 1>our most natural self, because that's when people gravitate towards

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<v Speaker 1>us the most of when people respond to us better,

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<v Speaker 1>that's when things kind of go our way. So it's

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<v Speaker 1>just like a very practical manual for how you actually

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<v Speaker 1>become your real self. It's like a half spirituality but

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<v Speaker 1>also very mechanical, which I really like the marriage of

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<v Speaker 1>those two things.

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<v Speaker 2>I love the marriage of that. And I love what

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<v Speaker 2>you said about there being this like six foot aura

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<v Speaker 2>that's around us because it's so true. I mean, if

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<v Speaker 2>there's so many things that we can't see in the

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<v Speaker 2>world that exist, and I think it's really sometimes difficult

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<v Speaker 2>for people who are you know, there's so much black

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<v Speaker 2>and white in this world too, where it's like this

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<v Speaker 2>is what is true, and this is what is not

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<v Speaker 2>based on what you see, based on what science can prove.

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<v Speaker 2>But then there's this whole world that exists where maybe

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<v Speaker 2>we can't even put it into numbers. You might even

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<v Speaker 2>not be able to put it into something you can

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<v Speaker 2>see or make math out of, but it exists because

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<v Speaker 2>you can feel it, and sometimes that's so much more

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<v Speaker 2>powerful even than the things that you can experiment on.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, one hundred percent. And so one of the components

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<v Speaker 1>inside your human design chart is your authority, which is

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<v Speaker 1>basically how your intuition functions, right, Like everyone's intuition is

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<v Speaker 1>slightly different. And the reason why they call it your

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<v Speaker 1>authority is because when you start to use it, you

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<v Speaker 1>become the authority of your own life. Now what does

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<v Speaker 1>that mean is like, not this is right because this

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<v Speaker 1>will lead you to the success that you desire, and

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<v Speaker 1>not sort of like working backwards to try and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>co strategize everything so that you get to an outcome.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like, oh, I'm trusting this even though I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know how it's making sense, but I just have to

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<v Speaker 1>do it. And that's where you know, the real unlock comes.

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<v Speaker 2>I love what you said about the magnetic energy being

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<v Speaker 2>when you're living your most authentic self, and you really

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<v Speaker 2>do feel that in people, and it's actually quite a

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<v Speaker 2>rare thing, I think, to experience in people. The main

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<v Speaker 2>time that I've experienced it is with my spiritual teacher

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<v Speaker 2>rather than Sami, and as soon as I met him,

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<v Speaker 2>and every single time since, it's almost like, not only

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<v Speaker 2>do I feel like he is radiating so much, like

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<v Speaker 2>you don't even have to have him speak anything before

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<v Speaker 2>you feel his energy, but also it feels like he

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<v Speaker 2>sees you in a completely different way. And I think

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<v Speaker 2>also what comes with authenticity is the ability to perceive

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<v Speaker 2>other people better, Like, not only are you showing up

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<v Speaker 2>with a specific aura, you're able to see other people

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<v Speaker 2>without filter too. You're able to see other people's look

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<v Speaker 2>into their eyes and maybe see a little bit more

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<v Speaker 2>than an average person might if they're not living in

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<v Speaker 2>the authentic self or if they've got all these filters

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<v Speaker 2>in front of them. And so I definitely think it's

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<v Speaker 2>something that you can feel, and you feel sparks of

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<v Speaker 2>it in people too.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, and that's when you actually have more of a

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<v Speaker 1>like confection. Yeah, you kind of want to get closer

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<v Speaker 1>to them. And so what human design also says is

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<v Speaker 1>that when you are living out of conditioning right, like

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<v Speaker 1>your fear, your blocks or whatever, then you can't see

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<v Speaker 1>the other person lying right, because you're running a story

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<v Speaker 1>of reality rather than actual just reading energy and responding

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<v Speaker 1>to it. So that's when you have all this like

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<v Speaker 1>misunderstanding about other humans and all the judgments can exist

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<v Speaker 1>and all of that stuff, But you dissipate that by

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<v Speaker 1>just radically showing up as your real self as much

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<v Speaker 1>as possible. Obviously, you know, not a lot of people,

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<v Speaker 1>we don't all get it right all the time, but

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<v Speaker 1>you know, just more and more we want to just

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<v Speaker 1>be going in the directionally correct.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a beautiful thing to aspire to, Yeah, especially if

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<v Speaker 2>you've experienced it or scene around you like that. You

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<v Speaker 2>know it exists. You said that it was created somewhat recently.

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<v Speaker 2>Who created it?

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<v Speaker 1>A man called rah Uru who who was a student

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<v Speaker 1>of the eaching and a student of all those modalities,

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<v Speaker 1>and it was basically, I guess he channeled it, downloaded it,

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<v Speaker 1>whatever you want to call it. One day when he

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<v Speaker 1>realized there was a pattern that was present in all

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<v Speaker 1>of those things, and it was also like really, really

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<v Speaker 1>into science. He really understood stuff that's even cutting edge

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<v Speaker 1>now about things like neutrinos that are sub atomic particles

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<v Speaker 1>that are made by the planets in our solar system.

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<v Speaker 1>And he spoke about how, then, why do you take

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<v Speaker 1>the birth time? Is because we are living in this

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<v Speaker 1>big giant neutrino stream of all these sub atomic particles

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<v Speaker 1>coming through our body right now, and they're particles that

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<v Speaker 1>don't just bounce off you, they pass through you. So

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<v Speaker 1>they literally carry an energy that kind of conditions you.

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<v Speaker 1>And so the day and time you're born, you're born

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<v Speaker 1>into a specific neutrino stream, and if you can measure

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<v Speaker 1>that energy, that's the energy that your souliers to pop

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<v Speaker 1>in through. And so if we measure that initial energy,

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<v Speaker 1>that's the thing that you always have to come back to.

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<v Speaker 1>So he was really really on the cutting edge of

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<v Speaker 1>how he understood life sort of worked. But so many people.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't know their birth now because I know for your

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<v Speaker 2>human design you need your birth time, place and a

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<v Speaker 2>date yeap. And from my experience of even asking my

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<v Speaker 2>friends a lot of them, I think my mum knows

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<v Speaker 2>my birth it's not my birth certificate. So is there

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<v Speaker 2>a way to still be able to do it without

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<v Speaker 2>having your birth time, like can it be as accurate

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<v Speaker 2>or is it a guest then?

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<v Speaker 1>So if you're born in the States, it's always on

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<v Speaker 1>your birth certificate. Oh yeah, really UK and other places

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<v Speaker 1>like we don't we want we say UK thing? Yeah yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>yeah right way books and those kind of things. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>but there's two things you can do. One is you can,

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<v Speaker 1>if you know, like let's say you're born between nine

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<v Speaker 1>am and eleven, I would just edit the day and

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<v Speaker 1>just like go through that window and see how much changes.

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<v Speaker 1>There will be stuff that does change, but you can

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<v Speaker 1>kind of at least go on the stuff that doesn't.

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<v Speaker 1>Or there are some astrologers that do this process called

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<v Speaker 1>astrological rectification more so and actually probably invade there. They're

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<v Speaker 1>better or they do this more because what they would

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<v Speaker 1>do is they'll sit down with you for like three

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<v Speaker 1>hours and they'll say, okay, well were you thirty two

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<v Speaker 1>or thirty five when you had an accident for example,

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<v Speaker 1>And what they'll do is they'll look at places like

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<v Speaker 1>where the moon was, and they can literally work backwards

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<v Speaker 1>to figure out your exact birth time. It's amazing actually

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<v Speaker 1>how they do it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, I am when I was doing my human

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<v Speaker 2>design on your website, I had put in one time

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<v Speaker 2>that I think my mom had told me, and then

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<v Speaker 2>it was like an hour difference. And then when I

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<v Speaker 2>saw there was like maybe one or two things that

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<v Speaker 2>were a little bit different, but it wasn't drastically different. Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>So I feel like any need to break down human

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<v Speaker 2>design a little bit and the different kind of characters

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<v Speaker 2>that you could be. I don't know what do you

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<v Speaker 2>call them? Characters? But tell me what you gain from

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<v Speaker 2>actually doing your human design, Like what are the practical

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<v Speaker 2>things that people will will receive by even taking this test?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I love that question. So there's so many components,

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<v Speaker 1>kind of like going in astrology, right, you have your sun,

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<v Speaker 1>your moon, your rising, so on and so forth. Human

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<v Speaker 1>design is the same thing, and it goes super deep.

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<v Speaker 1>So you can go from the basic thing, which is

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<v Speaker 1>your energy type, which is just how you're supposed to

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<v Speaker 1>exchange energy with the world around you. There's five of

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<v Speaker 1>those energy types. We can cover those. But then you

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<v Speaker 1>also have your authority, which is how your intuition functions.

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<v Speaker 1>You have your profile, which is sort of like the

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<v Speaker 1>archetypes you embody. Then you have all the different gifts

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<v Speaker 1>that you possess. You know, like, what are you good at?

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<v Speaker 1>What are you naturally good at? There's sixty four different gifts.

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<v Speaker 1>You have your incarnation cross, which is the purpose of

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<v Speaker 1>your life. Here, there's one hundred and ninety two of those.

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<v Speaker 1>Then you have and there's many different gifts you can possess, right,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't just have one out of the sixty four.

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<v Speaker 1>Then you have your digestion, your environment, your perspective, your motivation,

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<v Speaker 1>the way you manifest specifically or non specifically. You have

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, there are so many different things to it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's kind of it's still mind blowing to me because

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<v Speaker 1>there's just always more to learn.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, when I saw the map, I was like, whoa,

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<v Speaker 2>this is beautiful number one, but also so intricate. I

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<v Speaker 2>have done astrology here and there in the past, but

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<v Speaker 2>it's something that I never really I had my birth

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<v Speaker 2>shot down from when I was bored. My mum had that,

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<v Speaker 2>but since then I've never seen an astrologer. No, really, no,

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<v Speaker 2>this is probably the first time. Even when I did

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<v Speaker 2>my chart with you online, I also then this was

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<v Speaker 2>the first time I found out when my rising in

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<v Speaker 2>my moon was because I was like, well, while I'm

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<v Speaker 2>doing this, we also dig into that a little bit.

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<v Speaker 2>But the archetypes. When I did it with my friends,

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<v Speaker 2>we all had like different types of archetypes. Could you

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<v Speaker 2>go into them a little bit more?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so your energy type. There are five different types,

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<v Speaker 1>which means that there are five different sort of general

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<v Speaker 1>ways that you. Let's say we have five different kinds

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<v Speaker 1>of engines. It's like you can be, you know, an audi,

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<v Speaker 1>or you can be a jeep. Right, It's just that

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<v Speaker 1>car is going to have a different speed at which

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<v Speaker 1>it runs out of energy, a different speed it can go,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, the way the engine revs up. It's literally

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<v Speaker 1>like that, and so it's less of a personality thing

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<v Speaker 1>and more of than an energy thing. Right, So there

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<v Speaker 1>are five You have manifestors, manifesting generators, generators, projectors, and reflectors.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you imagine.

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<v Speaker 2>Projector are you yeah? Okay, well are you.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a projector too? Oh yeah yeah. Now, so manifestors

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<v Speaker 1>will start with those. They are the people who they

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<v Speaker 1>have the really big aura. They have the biggest aura,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's a very noticeable aura. So it's like when

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<v Speaker 1>they walk in the room, you feel it, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>not because they're being allowed and kind of making themselves known.

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<v Speaker 1>It's because it's very sort of piercing and specific.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh I know people like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, yeah, And so those people are either at two

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<v Speaker 1>hundred percent or at twenty percent in terms of their energy,

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<v Speaker 1>meaning that they aren't able to be consistent every single day.

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<v Speaker 1>They're either on and they're really on, and when you

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<v Speaker 1>don't see them, they are like completely dead to the world.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's a good thing because they're supposed to kind

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<v Speaker 1>of work in bursts and sort of do things that

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<v Speaker 1>really create movement in this world. So they kind of

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<v Speaker 1>flick the dominoes. So you have to have this big

0:12:38.800 --> 0:12:41.079
<v Speaker 1>engine to do the flicking and then just kind of

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<v Speaker 1>sit back until the next urge comes to you and

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<v Speaker 1>then let those ripples sort of happen in the world. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>that doesn't mean that other people can't have impact. It's

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<v Speaker 1>none of those things. It's just energetic. So you think

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<v Speaker 1>about people like JK Rowling, you know, she writes a

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<v Speaker 1>book and then you don't see her, you know, or

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<v Speaker 1>Adele she has an album called eighteen and then she disappeared,

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<v Speaker 1>and then there was twenty one, and then she dis

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<v Speaker 1>and then there was twenty five, but when she's there,

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<v Speaker 1>you're like really feeling her totally. Yes, So that's what

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<v Speaker 1>manifestos are. And so the way they're supposed to use

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<v Speaker 1>their energy is like that with everything. So even the

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<v Speaker 1>way you work out, like you go hard for three

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<v Speaker 1>weeks and then you just want to lay around and

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<v Speaker 1>do nothing for a week, you know, Okay, So you

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<v Speaker 1>think about the conditioning of all the stuff we get told.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like, you know, you got to wake up every

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<v Speaker 1>day and have the same routine or do that. It's

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<v Speaker 1>like for some people it really doesn't work, but the

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<v Speaker 1>suffering comes from thinking of failing instead of understanding your machine.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, I was just about to say that how useful

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<v Speaker 2>that would be for someone to think, Oh, maybe I

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<v Speaker 2>am supposed to run out of energy a little bit,

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<v Speaker 2>and maybe I am supposed to be someone who becomes

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<v Speaker 2>a hermit for short periods of time. And it's not

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<v Speaker 2>weird and it's not unconventional. It is just who I am,

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<v Speaker 2>and I am able to settle into that exactly. So

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<v Speaker 2>my sister is one, and she's an actress, and so

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<v Speaker 2>she can literally do sixteen hour days on set and

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<v Speaker 2>also train for a half marathon and then afterwards she's

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<v Speaker 2>just like you don't see her, you know, so stuff

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<v Speaker 2>like that where you're like, oh, I don't know how

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<v Speaker 2>you're doing it all at the same time, and then

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<v Speaker 2>all of a sudden you're not able to you know exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's just energetically correct for them. Now, the reason

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<v Speaker 1>why they are supposed to embrace being that way is

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<v Speaker 1>because they do start movements. They are those people who

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<v Speaker 1>have a big impact and they create movement for other

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<v Speaker 1>people to respond to, right, so we all then react

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<v Speaker 1>to them and then that's it. So they're not necessarily

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<v Speaker 1>supposed to see the thing the whole way through. If

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<v Speaker 1>that makes sense, magical, that's manifestors as manifestors. Okay, then

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<v Speaker 1>you have so generators and generators are I mean literally,

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<v Speaker 1>like the name suggests, they generate energy for other people

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<v Speaker 1>and for themselves. And a generator is literally almost like

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<v Speaker 1>a joy machine. So what does that mean is a

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<v Speaker 1>generator does what they love. Their system creates so much

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<v Speaker 1>good energy it spills out of them and it lifts

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<v Speaker 1>other people up. So you think about people who just

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<v Speaker 1>do what they love, and you get high off them

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<v Speaker 1>doing what they love, even though you don't necessarily like

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<v Speaker 1>it as well. So you have like the Oprahs of

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<v Speaker 1>the world. And my husband was generator really yes, so

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<v Speaker 1>it's like that yea, it is oh cool, that makes

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<v Speaker 1>sense for him. So it's like the Oprahs, the j Loo's,

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<v Speaker 1>the Beyonce is like, even if you don't love their music,

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<v Speaker 1>they're just like sparkly and you just like love them

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<v Speaker 1>being or like you just like being around them because

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<v Speaker 1>they create this. They're ruled by the sacral center, right,

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<v Speaker 1>so when they're doing what they love, it creates so

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<v Speaker 1>much productivity and creativity and that kind of like sparkly

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<v Speaker 1>magnetic thing. Again, it's not jazz hands magnetic. It's just

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<v Speaker 1>like you know, juicy that it makes other people gravitate

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<v Speaker 1>towards them, and that lifts other people up, even if

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<v Speaker 1>they don't know how or why. Even if that person

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<v Speaker 1>is making paper clips and you're never going to do

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<v Speaker 1>anything with paper clips in your life, you just like

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<v Speaker 1>feeding off that energy.

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<v Speaker 2>Right.

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<v Speaker 1>So the issue with generators though, is that because they

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<v Speaker 1>get used to giving that good energy to people, and

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<v Speaker 1>because they obviously get praised for it in childhood specifically,

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<v Speaker 1>they then it's that well done for doing something you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't like. But they can't generate the sacrald can't turn

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<v Speaker 1>on when they're doing something they don't enjoy. So where

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<v Speaker 1>the trap becomes is like, oh, well, you should help

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<v Speaker 1>your friend move because that's a kind thing to do.

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<v Speaker 1>But if you've not be lit up by it, you've

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<v Speaker 1>been in that room, but you haven't net net left

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<v Speaker 1>anything positive in that room. But then you're like, why

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<v Speaker 1>do I feel flat? And actually that person didn't even

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<v Speaker 1>appreciate it, right, So it becomes a real funny one.

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<v Speaker 1>And they're really black and white generators. It's just either

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<v Speaker 1>yes or no. It's like the gut is black and white,

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<v Speaker 1>so think you no, do I feel this like? And

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<v Speaker 1>it's visceral too. They're very ruled by the body. So

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<v Speaker 1>it's like if I kind of sit up in my

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<v Speaker 1>seat at the idea of it, that means I had

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<v Speaker 1>to do it. And if I'm just like this, there's

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<v Speaker 1>no amount of talking myself into it that's going to

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<v Speaker 1>make me enjoy it, right, So that's them. They are

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<v Speaker 1>the people who are very consistent, meaning they wake up

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<v Speaker 1>with a certain amount of battery in the day they

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<v Speaker 1>wake up, they use that battery. When they finish the battery,

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<v Speaker 1>then it's time to go to bed, and then it

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<v Speaker 1>just renews the next day.

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<v Speaker 2>What happens when these people are out of alignment.

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<v Speaker 1>So when generators are out of alignment, they are flat,

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<v Speaker 1>they are burnt out, they are frustrated, because frustration is

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<v Speaker 1>what we call their signature sort of not self, which

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<v Speaker 1>is the sign that you're out of alignment. Feel like

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<v Speaker 1>nothing's happening, or they feel like energy isn't moving through

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<v Speaker 1>their bodies. They feel like they're trying but nothing is happening.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes they get like a bit rutty, I call it,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you just like want to like it's almost

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<v Speaker 1>like an engine that can't really do anything. Manifestos get angry,

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<v Speaker 1>so that means like why is no one helping me?

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<v Speaker 1>What isn't you know? Why is this not happening? They

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<v Speaker 1>just get mad at things. Wow, fascinating, Yeah, And so

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<v Speaker 1>that's a very consistent energy. We live in a world

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<v Speaker 1>that is actually built for generators in a way, because

0:17:26.960 --> 0:17:29.960
<v Speaker 1>generators like they can wake up and do the same

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<v Speaker 1>joy thing every day and it compounds so the longer

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<v Speaker 1>they do it, they get kind of much bigger returns

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<v Speaker 1>by just devoting themselves to doing the same thing all

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<v Speaker 1>the time, and they can just wake up and they

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<v Speaker 1>can do it again, and they can do it again,

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<v Speaker 1>and they can do it again.

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<v Speaker 2>Are they people who generally know? They sound like people

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<v Speaker 2>who know what they want in life, like or you know.

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<v Speaker 1>It's funny because it's visceral. So if you're a generator

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<v Speaker 1>and you don't know what you want to do in

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<v Speaker 1>your life, you can't be like, what do I want?

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<v Speaker 1>Because they don't respond well to open ended questions. Ah,

0:17:56.880 --> 0:17:58.520
<v Speaker 1>it has to be a yes or no. So if

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<v Speaker 1>you're a generator who's trying to figure out whether it's

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<v Speaker 1>like do I have a SMOOTHI or not? Or whether

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<v Speaker 1>it's whatever I want to do with my life, you

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<v Speaker 1>do okay, well do I prefer gardening or cooking?

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<v Speaker 2>Right?

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<v Speaker 1>Then they can answer what do you want for dinner?

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<v Speaker 1>Becomes do you want Chinese or Japanese? They can answer that.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, that's so okay, Yeah this makes sense.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's so good. So they're really really black and

0:18:19.040 --> 0:18:20.439
<v Speaker 1>white people. So if you want to get the best

0:18:20.480 --> 0:18:22.440
<v Speaker 1>out of your generators, you just got a narrow stuff

0:18:22.480 --> 0:18:25.280
<v Speaker 1>down and they can do it for themselves too. Yeah, okay,

0:18:25.280 --> 0:18:28.040
<v Speaker 1>give us the next one. So then you have manifesting generators,

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<v Speaker 1>and they are a blend, a hybrid of manifestors and generators,

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<v Speaker 1>So they have the spontaneity of manifestos and that sort

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<v Speaker 1>of big spontaneous thing, but they also have the engine

0:18:38.320 --> 0:18:40.040
<v Speaker 1>of the generator to be able to kind of like

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<v Speaker 1>carry things through and to kind of do things consistently.

0:18:43.600 --> 0:18:46.439
<v Speaker 1>So these people are the classic multi hyphenates. They are

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<v Speaker 1>the people like the Angelina Joli's, both the Beckhams Tony Robbins,

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<v Speaker 1>like they're doing twenty five hundred things that seem completely

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<v Speaker 1>unrelated and yet somehow it just works right. And that's

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<v Speaker 1>because they are supposed to be multi passionate, and they

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<v Speaker 1>are supposed to just allow themselves a little bit to

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<v Speaker 1>the second I get bored or something, it's time to

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<v Speaker 1>just jump to the next thing, because they pick up

0:19:08.080 --> 0:19:11.040
<v Speaker 1>stuff really fast, so they don't need to spend six

0:19:11.080 --> 0:19:13.240
<v Speaker 1>months learning the hot They can be like in it

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<v Speaker 1>for two weeks. They get bored, it's a sign it's

0:19:15.200 --> 0:19:17.399
<v Speaker 1>time to move on, right, because they've done whatever they

0:19:17.440 --> 0:19:18.920
<v Speaker 1>need to do. They picked up some kind of skill

0:19:18.960 --> 0:19:20.840
<v Speaker 1>that will come in handy. They don't have to do

0:19:20.880 --> 0:19:24.240
<v Speaker 1>what generators do, which is master something right so they're

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<v Speaker 1>just here to kind of like dip their toes in

0:19:26.400 --> 0:19:28.280
<v Speaker 1>many things and then forge a path that no one

0:19:28.320 --> 0:19:30.560
<v Speaker 1>has forger pause. You think about Jessica Albert who has

0:19:30.600 --> 0:19:33.760
<v Speaker 1>her baby company and she's acting and producing and whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>If she said that at the beginning of her career,

0:19:35.680 --> 0:19:37.520
<v Speaker 1>people will be like, no, you have to pick one, right,

0:19:37.640 --> 0:19:40.120
<v Speaker 1>But she didn't and it works right. So that's where

0:19:40.119 --> 0:19:42.800
<v Speaker 1>they get really tripped up because they're like, they're programmed

0:19:42.840 --> 0:19:44.760
<v Speaker 1>for this mastery thing too, but they can't do what

0:19:44.840 --> 0:19:47.959
<v Speaker 1>generators do, you know, and they get bored more quickly.

0:19:48.200 --> 0:19:48.440
<v Speaker 2>Right.

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<v Speaker 1>The thing with them is that it can't make sense

0:19:52.040 --> 0:19:54.200
<v Speaker 1>the path, and the path is really not going to

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<v Speaker 1>make sense, you know that advice of like the path

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't make sense. Yeah, it's like so true for them

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<v Speaker 1>because you can't trip yourself up with your identity of

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<v Speaker 1>what you are in the sense that if you're making

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<v Speaker 1>candles and then all of a sudden you're like really

0:20:08.200 --> 0:20:10.720
<v Speaker 1>excited by something else, you can't be like, oh, but

0:20:10.800 --> 0:20:13.119
<v Speaker 1>this doesn't work or this doesn't go you know, I

0:20:13.160 --> 0:20:15.239
<v Speaker 1>have to choose one. Like all of that kind of

0:20:15.480 --> 0:20:18.200
<v Speaker 1>stuff that stops people from just being able to play

0:20:18.240 --> 0:20:21.200
<v Speaker 1>and create in this world which they really need, really need,

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<v Speaker 1>and if they don't so like they can do that,

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<v Speaker 1>that's when they get really stuck because they just feel

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<v Speaker 1>like limited and contrived and put in a box for others,

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<v Speaker 1>when you know it's always us who are doing it

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<v Speaker 1>to ourselves. They're putting themselves in a box. You know,

0:20:33.160 --> 0:20:36.800
<v Speaker 1>they've absorbed that conditioning and then they're carrying it with them.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so that was the manifesting generator generator. Okay, so

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<v Speaker 2>we've done three so far. There's two more, right, yes, Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Then we have projectors now, projectors unlike the other three,

0:20:46.400 --> 0:20:49.719
<v Speaker 1>which are called energy beings, meaning that they create their

0:20:49.760 --> 0:20:53.520
<v Speaker 1>own energy. Projectors actually we have what's called an open

0:20:53.560 --> 0:20:56.480
<v Speaker 1>sacral center. So do manifestors, but they create their energy

0:20:56.520 --> 0:20:58.600
<v Speaker 1>in a different way. We have an open sacrel center.

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<v Speaker 1>So what does that mean is that we feel the

0:21:00.640 --> 0:21:03.040
<v Speaker 1>sacral energy of other people and also of the world.

0:21:03.200 --> 0:21:07.000
<v Speaker 1>The world runs on sacral energy. It's productive, it's appetite,

0:21:07.160 --> 0:21:11.400
<v Speaker 1>it's desire, it's go, go go, it's consumed. Projectors we

0:21:11.440 --> 0:21:14.520
<v Speaker 1>amplify that when we feel it. If it comes into you,

0:21:14.640 --> 0:21:16.840
<v Speaker 1>into your sacral as a two out of ten, you

0:21:16.880 --> 0:21:18.360
<v Speaker 1>can feel it in an eight out of ten kind

0:21:18.359 --> 0:21:20.760
<v Speaker 1>of way. So what does that mean is that when

0:21:20.760 --> 0:21:23.119
<v Speaker 1>you're on your own, you're not able to create that

0:21:23.240 --> 0:21:25.800
<v Speaker 1>energy yourself. When you're around other people, you feed off

0:21:25.800 --> 0:21:27.600
<v Speaker 1>it and you can get high off it. Now, what

0:21:27.760 --> 0:21:30.120
<v Speaker 1>we go really wrong is that we believe that being

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<v Speaker 1>eight out of ten all the time is the way

0:21:31.800 --> 0:21:35.160
<v Speaker 1>we need to be. So then we will plug ourselves

0:21:35.160 --> 0:21:37.880
<v Speaker 1>with all this energy, try and pretend that we can

0:21:37.920 --> 0:21:40.520
<v Speaker 1>consistently be aid out of ten, and then we burn

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<v Speaker 1>out because it's not our natural state. We're supposed to

0:21:43.720 --> 0:21:47.760
<v Speaker 1>expose ourselves to it specifically and intentionally ride off of

0:21:47.800 --> 0:21:50.240
<v Speaker 1>it to get stuff done for maximum two to three

0:21:50.280 --> 0:21:52.879
<v Speaker 1>hours a day in terms of like actual productivity, and

0:21:52.920 --> 0:21:55.639
<v Speaker 1>the rest of the time being your natural inherent state. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>the reason why that is is because projectors I like

0:21:57.680 --> 0:21:59.200
<v Speaker 1>to say, we're like the birds up on the trees.

0:21:59.520 --> 0:22:02.240
<v Speaker 1>You've got they's the tigers the bears on the ground,

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<v Speaker 1>and they're like getting from it to be and they're

0:22:04.400 --> 0:22:06.640
<v Speaker 1>doing stuff and they're forging pasts and they're rolling around

0:22:06.640 --> 0:22:09.359
<v Speaker 1>in the mud, right, and we are like a bird

0:22:09.440 --> 0:22:11.199
<v Speaker 1>that's like, okay, but try not to go in that

0:22:11.280 --> 0:22:12.840
<v Speaker 1>mud because you're going to see you. It's going to

0:22:12.880 --> 0:22:14.359
<v Speaker 1>be bad for your left legs, so just go this

0:22:14.440 --> 0:22:17.520
<v Speaker 1>all right, right, But if we come off the tree

0:22:17.560 --> 0:22:19.040
<v Speaker 1>and try to roll in the mud, we won't be

0:22:19.080 --> 0:22:21.919
<v Speaker 1>able to see that. So the more you try to

0:22:21.960 --> 0:22:24.720
<v Speaker 1>be productive, the less you're able to do your gift,

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<v Speaker 1>which is actually help other people do something in a

0:22:27.240 --> 0:22:30.159
<v Speaker 1>more efficient way. And we are all obsessed. You can

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<v Speaker 1>spot a projector from mile away because if you say

0:22:32.200 --> 0:22:35.560
<v Speaker 1>the word efficiency gains to them it's like hi, woh,

0:22:35.640 --> 0:22:36.119
<v Speaker 1>I go hi.

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<v Speaker 2>So we're all.

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<v Speaker 1>Obsessed with like making things slightly better, tweaking things, observing things,

0:22:41.240 --> 0:22:43.800
<v Speaker 1>you know, just kind of like constantly watching life.

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<v Speaker 2>Does that make Does that make projectors more likely to

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<v Speaker 2>try and fix other people or like try to put

0:22:51.640 --> 0:22:54.159
<v Speaker 2>the nose in where they weren't asked? Yes, yeah, I

0:22:54.160 --> 0:22:58.639
<v Speaker 2>do that sometimes, yes, so a lot. Yes, yeah, But

0:22:58.680 --> 0:23:01.200
<v Speaker 2>we can fix that. They didn't ask me about. But

0:23:01.240 --> 0:23:02.760
<v Speaker 2>we can fix that. We're going to figure out a

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<v Speaker 2>way to fix this.

0:23:04.680 --> 0:23:06.960
<v Speaker 1>So you just said the key thing, which is our aura,

0:23:07.119 --> 0:23:09.439
<v Speaker 1>is actually very piercing. It sees into the other. It's

0:23:09.480 --> 0:23:11.520
<v Speaker 1>a projector, right, So what is a projector? It's a

0:23:11.600 --> 0:23:14.680
<v Speaker 1>light that shines on another person and sees deeply into

0:23:14.720 --> 0:23:19.399
<v Speaker 1>the other. But where we can get stuck is that

0:23:19.640 --> 0:23:22.600
<v Speaker 1>we're looking into the shadow that it's also creating. Right,

0:23:22.920 --> 0:23:24.920
<v Speaker 1>So we can often get stuck in all the things

0:23:24.920 --> 0:23:27.600
<v Speaker 1>that are wrong or the dark that other people can't see,

0:23:27.840 --> 0:23:30.840
<v Speaker 1>and we get bitter now because we see into the other,

0:23:30.880 --> 0:23:33.840
<v Speaker 1>and other people do feel deeply seen by that interaction.

0:23:34.800 --> 0:23:37.240
<v Speaker 1>Issue is that they have to wait to be invited.

0:23:37.320 --> 0:23:40.320
<v Speaker 1>Projectors have to wait until someone has actually asked them,

0:23:40.560 --> 0:23:44.919
<v Speaker 1>because if you volunteer your advice or your guidance without

0:23:44.920 --> 0:23:47.679
<v Speaker 1>someone asking for it, you don't feel seen in return.

0:23:47.960 --> 0:23:51.040
<v Speaker 1>In there, and as a projector, you need to see you.

0:23:50.880 --> 0:23:53.679
<v Speaker 2>Need to be for my advice. Yes, yeah, Why are

0:23:53.720 --> 0:23:55.159
<v Speaker 2>you not following my advice that I gave you that

0:23:55.200 --> 0:23:56.640
<v Speaker 2>you didn't ask for? Yeah?

0:23:57.400 --> 0:23:59.840
<v Speaker 1>And so we feel bitter, we feel unappreciated, we feel

0:23:59.840 --> 0:24:02.120
<v Speaker 1>on scene, and also it doesn't lead to success, which

0:24:02.160 --> 0:24:04.959
<v Speaker 1>is the thing that it's supposed to lead to. So

0:24:05.040 --> 0:24:06.800
<v Speaker 1>as a projector, the best thing you can do is

0:24:06.880 --> 0:24:09.600
<v Speaker 1>just kind of keep on developing your seeing and see

0:24:09.640 --> 0:24:12.320
<v Speaker 1>yourself as someone who has value to give, because again,

0:24:12.400 --> 0:24:14.719
<v Speaker 1>when you see yourself as that that goes in your

0:24:14.720 --> 0:24:16.639
<v Speaker 1>aura and then people are more likely to invite you.

0:24:16.680 --> 0:24:19.679
<v Speaker 1>But when you're insisting on being invited, it doesn't work.

0:24:20.080 --> 0:24:22.399
<v Speaker 1>So it's not like emailing people, let me put my

0:24:22.440 --> 0:24:23.680
<v Speaker 1>product into your stores.

0:24:24.040 --> 0:24:24.280
<v Speaker 2>You know.

0:24:24.640 --> 0:24:26.760
<v Speaker 1>That is like put throwing a ball against the wall,

0:24:26.760 --> 0:24:29.760
<v Speaker 1>and that's smacking you in the face. It never works.

0:24:30.000 --> 0:24:32.959
<v Speaker 2>We're basically vampires. We have to be invited in.

0:24:34.000 --> 0:24:36.560
<v Speaker 1>Yes, okay, great, So our aura is like this, right,

0:24:36.680 --> 0:24:40.119
<v Speaker 1>But a generator's aura is like warm and enveloping. Manifesting

0:24:40.160 --> 0:24:43.600
<v Speaker 1>generators or is like loads of different globes. The manifesto

0:24:43.640 --> 0:24:45.720
<v Speaker 1>is just like boom, and you're you know, like here

0:24:45.800 --> 0:24:49.080
<v Speaker 1>I am and then I'm gone and you know what happened. Yeah,

0:24:49.240 --> 0:24:50.879
<v Speaker 1>even when I'm just trying to keep to myself and

0:24:50.880 --> 0:24:53.160
<v Speaker 1>sneak past you and get a coffee, You're like huh.

0:24:53.240 --> 0:24:56.320
<v Speaker 1>And then you have reflectors. Now, reflectors are only one

0:24:56.359 --> 0:24:59.399
<v Speaker 1>percent of the population. And the theory is that in

0:24:59.440 --> 0:25:02.080
<v Speaker 1>the old days is you need a reflector in the

0:25:02.200 --> 0:25:05.520
<v Speaker 1>center of society because a reflector, like the name suggests,

0:25:06.080 --> 0:25:09.720
<v Speaker 1>is almost like a chameleon. They literally are someone who

0:25:09.720 --> 0:25:11.720
<v Speaker 1>will mirror you back to you. And I know that

0:25:11.880 --> 0:25:14.080
<v Speaker 1>we say that, you know, everyone is a mirror of you,

0:25:14.520 --> 0:25:17.159
<v Speaker 1>but in such a deeper way than all other people

0:25:17.240 --> 0:25:20.840
<v Speaker 1>because we are all solar beings, and reflectors are Luna beings,

0:25:21.000 --> 0:25:23.160
<v Speaker 1>so solar beings like we shine where like the sun,

0:25:23.760 --> 0:25:27.960
<v Speaker 1>reflectors are lunar, meaning that they are so open across

0:25:28.040 --> 0:25:30.320
<v Speaker 1>all of their sharkras. Because all of their chakras are open,

0:25:30.760 --> 0:25:33.359
<v Speaker 1>They're so open to whatever anyone else is going to

0:25:33.440 --> 0:25:36.080
<v Speaker 1>throw at them that if they are not doing what

0:25:36.080 --> 0:25:39.160
<v Speaker 1>they're not supposed to be doing, they can really show

0:25:39.200 --> 0:25:41.360
<v Speaker 1>you what you are in such a deep way. Now,

0:25:41.960 --> 0:25:44.440
<v Speaker 1>issue is that we live in a world where it's

0:25:44.440 --> 0:25:46.200
<v Speaker 1>like know who you are? Who are you? I need

0:25:46.200 --> 0:25:49.040
<v Speaker 1>to find myself whatever, And they get tripped up by

0:25:49.200 --> 0:25:53.040
<v Speaker 1>if I'm around you and you're doing cooking, I'm going

0:25:53.080 --> 0:25:54.840
<v Speaker 1>to think all of a sudden, I'm a cook. Yeah,

0:25:54.840 --> 0:25:57.199
<v Speaker 1>And I make this my entire personality, and I'm going

0:25:57.240 --> 0:25:59.320
<v Speaker 1>to announce all my social media that I am a cook.

0:25:59.400 --> 0:26:01.600
<v Speaker 1>And then I'm going to go around a makeup person

0:26:01.600 --> 0:26:03.280
<v Speaker 1>and I'm going to start a makeup line right, and

0:26:03.320 --> 0:26:06.399
<v Speaker 1>I'm going to declare it with so much spontaneity. But actually,

0:26:06.400 --> 0:26:08.120
<v Speaker 1>like the moon, they have to wait twenty eight days

0:26:08.119 --> 0:26:11.560
<v Speaker 1>a full lunar cycle and see if something consistently feels

0:26:11.640 --> 0:26:14.200
<v Speaker 1>ripe for a month before they know that it's true

0:26:14.200 --> 0:26:16.280
<v Speaker 1>for them because what's happened over the course of the month,

0:26:16.480 --> 0:26:19.800
<v Speaker 1>They've exposed themselves to all sorts of different environments, and

0:26:19.840 --> 0:26:22.240
<v Speaker 1>they've then been able to see what was just kind

0:26:22.240 --> 0:26:25.200
<v Speaker 1>of temporary and what was there to stay. So they're

0:26:25.200 --> 0:26:27.080
<v Speaker 1>really supposed to be slow like the moon. They're not

0:26:27.119 --> 0:26:30.119
<v Speaker 1>supposed to be spontaneous. They're supposed to kind of really

0:26:30.200 --> 0:26:34.320
<v Speaker 1>just like not attached to identities, but enjoy actually feeling,

0:26:34.400 --> 0:26:36.119
<v Speaker 1>like when I'm around you, what it's like to be

0:26:36.160 --> 0:26:38.679
<v Speaker 1>you in a deeper way that no one can. So

0:26:38.720 --> 0:26:41.440
<v Speaker 1>it's a really special experience to be a reflector. But again,

0:26:42.000 --> 0:26:43.440
<v Speaker 1>you know we're all prone to conditioning.

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<v Speaker 2>So thank you for explaining them so well. If I've

0:26:45.880 --> 0:26:47.959
<v Speaker 2>got such an insight and I can almost see all

0:26:48.000 --> 0:26:50.760
<v Speaker 2>the different people in my life that play into or

0:26:50.760 --> 0:26:54.120
<v Speaker 2>that have those different qualities. One thing I struggle with

0:26:54.119 --> 0:26:57.080
<v Speaker 2>with astrology, with human design, with these type of what

0:26:57.160 --> 0:27:01.959
<v Speaker 2>would you call them not practices modalities, yes, is sometimes

0:27:02.160 --> 0:27:05.760
<v Speaker 2>you can get so engrossed into it where like my

0:27:05.840 --> 0:27:07.680
<v Speaker 2>friend was like, oh, this feels like me, but it

0:27:07.680 --> 0:27:09.439
<v Speaker 2>feels like a version of me that I want to become.

0:27:09.760 --> 0:27:12.199
<v Speaker 2>When he heard his he was like, a lot of

0:27:12.240 --> 0:27:14.680
<v Speaker 2>this sounds like someone I want to be, but I'm

0:27:14.720 --> 0:27:17.840
<v Speaker 2>not quite there yet. And the feeling of this obsession

0:27:17.880 --> 0:27:21.120
<v Speaker 2>of wanting to almost like a self fulfilling prophecy. How

0:27:21.160 --> 0:27:24.280
<v Speaker 2>do you maintain this balance of Okay, this is what

0:27:24.320 --> 0:27:29.040
<v Speaker 2>I'm being told I am, and not trying to become

0:27:29.119 --> 0:27:31.000
<v Speaker 2>that before you even feel it.

0:27:31.359 --> 0:27:33.239
<v Speaker 1>One of the core tenets is trying to get all

0:27:33.280 --> 0:27:35.359
<v Speaker 1>of us away from is how addicted we are to

0:27:35.400 --> 0:27:39.199
<v Speaker 1>the mind, because the aura has so much more of

0:27:39.240 --> 0:27:44.560
<v Speaker 1>a connection to the liminal guidance than the mind does.

0:27:45.000 --> 0:27:47.760
<v Speaker 1>The mind, we're using it to try and make our

0:27:47.800 --> 0:27:50.640
<v Speaker 1>decisions and to try to figure out our self identity. Right,

0:27:50.680 --> 0:27:53.679
<v Speaker 1>we're addicted to using it on ourselves. What human design

0:27:53.720 --> 0:27:57.520
<v Speaker 1>says is if you let something else make the decisions

0:27:57.520 --> 0:28:00.879
<v Speaker 1>for your body. The mind is actually supposed to be

0:28:00.880 --> 0:28:03.560
<v Speaker 1>turned out into the world, and everyone is supposed to

0:28:03.600 --> 0:28:06.280
<v Speaker 1>become a genius at something. Right, You're supposed to use

0:28:06.280 --> 0:28:07.959
<v Speaker 1>your mind to make your music. You're supposed to use

0:28:07.960 --> 0:28:11.000
<v Speaker 1>your mind to you know, become a mixologist. You're supposed

0:28:11.000 --> 0:28:12.919
<v Speaker 1>to use your mind to do such incredible things, and

0:28:12.920 --> 0:28:16.880
<v Speaker 1>we're wasting it on ourselves. So what's amazing about human

0:28:16.920 --> 0:28:18.840
<v Speaker 1>design is it says, Okay, here are all the different

0:28:18.840 --> 0:28:20.480
<v Speaker 1>things you could learn about yourself, and that's where a

0:28:20.520 --> 0:28:23.040
<v Speaker 1>lot of people it's very exciting, but it is also

0:28:23.040 --> 0:28:25.400
<v Speaker 1>where a lot of people get stuck. There's only two

0:28:25.440 --> 0:28:28.560
<v Speaker 1>things you need to know about your design, and you would, naturally,

0:28:28.640 --> 0:28:31.720
<v Speaker 1>without even knowing all the other stuff, end up living

0:28:31.760 --> 0:28:34.560
<v Speaker 1>that way without knowing how, which is really cool. So

0:28:34.600 --> 0:28:36.360
<v Speaker 1>the only two things you would ever have to do

0:28:36.920 --> 0:28:39.320
<v Speaker 1>is knowing your authority, which is your intuition and how

0:28:39.360 --> 0:28:42.240
<v Speaker 1>it functions, and your strategy, which is just the main

0:28:42.280 --> 0:28:44.040
<v Speaker 1>way that you're supposed to use your energy depending on

0:28:44.080 --> 0:28:46.360
<v Speaker 1>what your energy type is. And if you only ever

0:28:46.440 --> 0:28:49.760
<v Speaker 1>use your strategy and authority, everything else would fall into place.

0:28:50.120 --> 0:28:52.640
<v Speaker 1>Now that's almost annoying to us because it's too simple

0:28:52.720 --> 0:28:55.480
<v Speaker 1>and we don't like too simple, and it's difficult to

0:28:55.520 --> 0:28:58.800
<v Speaker 1>do because where you need to know it applies and

0:28:58.840 --> 0:29:00.560
<v Speaker 1>where the work is is in your daily life.

0:29:00.720 --> 0:29:00.880
<v Speaker 2>Right.

0:29:01.400 --> 0:29:03.680
<v Speaker 1>Oh, actually, I need to start using my intuition to

0:29:03.760 --> 0:29:05.600
<v Speaker 1>figure out if I want a green tea every day

0:29:06.080 --> 0:29:07.600
<v Speaker 1>or actually do I want it? Some days and some

0:29:07.680 --> 0:29:09.400
<v Speaker 1>days not, and that trips up our ego.

0:29:09.640 --> 0:29:09.920
<v Speaker 2>Right.

0:29:10.600 --> 0:29:13.120
<v Speaker 1>So that's the beauty of human design, is that you

0:29:13.160 --> 0:29:17.560
<v Speaker 1>don't have to measure yourself against the description of who

0:29:17.600 --> 0:29:19.480
<v Speaker 1>you are. And I don't even care if people know

0:29:19.520 --> 0:29:22.000
<v Speaker 1>the description of what they're supposed to be. I just

0:29:22.040 --> 0:29:24.959
<v Speaker 1>care about people using their strategy and their authority. And

0:29:25.000 --> 0:29:28.040
<v Speaker 1>you start to see really really fast how that just

0:29:28.080 --> 0:29:30.240
<v Speaker 1>brings more flow into your day. And the best, I mean,

0:29:30.240 --> 0:29:32.400
<v Speaker 1>the thing that people say to me the most, which

0:29:32.440 --> 0:29:34.320
<v Speaker 1>is what makes me really just more in love with

0:29:34.320 --> 0:29:38.000
<v Speaker 1>this work than every day, is I trust myself more

0:29:38.040 --> 0:29:39.000
<v Speaker 1>and I feel capable.

0:29:39.200 --> 0:29:42.400
<v Speaker 2>What do you think stops people from being able to

0:29:42.720 --> 0:29:44.800
<v Speaker 2>connect to their most authentic self? Like, what is it

0:29:44.920 --> 0:29:48.480
<v Speaker 2>that you see on a regular basis when you see clients.

0:29:48.320 --> 0:29:51.760
<v Speaker 1>Who you think you have to be mostly for yourself?

0:29:52.520 --> 0:29:52.760
<v Speaker 2>You know?

0:29:52.920 --> 0:29:55.800
<v Speaker 1>Because I think we easily blame it on while someone

0:29:55.800 --> 0:29:57.440
<v Speaker 1>told me to do this, or someone told me to

0:29:57.480 --> 0:29:59.920
<v Speaker 1>do that, But it's only because we've taken it on

0:30:00.120 --> 0:30:02.400
<v Speaker 1>and we have this idea of what we want ourselves

0:30:02.440 --> 0:30:05.160
<v Speaker 1>to be and how we want other people to perceive us. Right,

0:30:05.640 --> 0:30:08.400
<v Speaker 1>So that sort of self perception that we've clung onto

0:30:08.800 --> 0:30:10.840
<v Speaker 1>but then also, you know, I think, especially in the

0:30:10.840 --> 0:30:14.760
<v Speaker 1>spiritual world, we run the risk of replacing one less

0:30:14.760 --> 0:30:17.680
<v Speaker 1>spiritual identity with a new, more spiritual one, but that's

0:30:17.680 --> 0:30:20.120
<v Speaker 1>still an identity. You know, they're still conditioning in the

0:30:20.160 --> 0:30:22.880
<v Speaker 1>spiritual world. You have to be love and light, or

0:30:22.920 --> 0:30:24.960
<v Speaker 1>you have to be calm, or you have to be peaceful,

0:30:25.000 --> 0:30:26.920
<v Speaker 1>you have to talk the talk, and none of those

0:30:26.960 --> 0:30:30.560
<v Speaker 1>things are are real. And so there's especially in this

0:30:30.640 --> 0:30:32.320
<v Speaker 1>time I feel like where so much is changing, and

0:30:32.400 --> 0:30:34.960
<v Speaker 1>human design actually predicted the changing of an era twenty

0:30:35.000 --> 0:30:39.320
<v Speaker 1>twenty seven, which we're obviously seeing one era really crumbling

0:30:39.360 --> 0:30:43.080
<v Speaker 1>down in a quickening process. But you know, especially in

0:30:43.080 --> 0:30:47.400
<v Speaker 1>this time, I think that we are feeling so much

0:30:47.440 --> 0:30:51.320
<v Speaker 1>ego death that it's so understandable to try and then

0:30:51.440 --> 0:30:53.960
<v Speaker 1>just replace one ego with another one, one persona with

0:30:54.000 --> 0:30:56.640
<v Speaker 1>another one, where actually it's so much harder and you

0:30:56.680 --> 0:30:59.600
<v Speaker 1>have to be so much more unafraid to just completely

0:30:59.720 --> 0:31:03.080
<v Speaker 1>jump off the path and just go rogue almost. But

0:31:03.200 --> 0:31:05.920
<v Speaker 1>human design is called the science of differentiation and de

0:31:06.000 --> 0:31:08.720
<v Speaker 1>hoomogenization for that reason, And you are going to feel

0:31:08.720 --> 0:31:10.080
<v Speaker 1>like a freak, and you are going to feel like

0:31:10.160 --> 0:31:12.440
<v Speaker 1>maybe that's going to make you not successful or not

0:31:12.480 --> 0:31:14.960
<v Speaker 1>get you the things you want and whatever. But what's

0:31:15.040 --> 0:31:17.800
<v Speaker 1>amazing about this time is I really feel like people

0:31:18.240 --> 0:31:20.880
<v Speaker 1>realize that they're suffering too much not doing that.

0:31:21.080 --> 0:31:23.640
<v Speaker 2>Right. Do you think that there are specific things that

0:31:23.640 --> 0:31:25.480
<v Speaker 2>people can do on a daily basis to bring them

0:31:25.520 --> 0:31:28.520
<v Speaker 2>back to themselves, to like constantly keep trying to connect

0:31:28.520 --> 0:31:30.760
<v Speaker 2>back to their authentic self? What does that look like? Yeah?

0:31:30.800 --> 0:31:33.640
<v Speaker 1>You know, I think the really basic thing and even

0:31:33.680 --> 0:31:35.120
<v Speaker 1>if you don't act on it, you can just start

0:31:35.120 --> 0:31:38.280
<v Speaker 1>asking USLF this question is like if I could secretly

0:31:38.280 --> 0:31:40.160
<v Speaker 1>do this my way, what would I do if I

0:31:40.240 --> 0:31:41.880
<v Speaker 1>knew that it would work out? What's the way that

0:31:41.880 --> 0:31:44.440
<v Speaker 1>it would organically? It just naturally occur to me? And

0:31:44.520 --> 0:31:46.880
<v Speaker 1>even just asking that question I think really helps because

0:31:46.880 --> 0:31:49.400
<v Speaker 1>it helps you realize that you have your own ideas. Yeah,

0:31:49.480 --> 0:31:51.200
<v Speaker 1>you know, it opens your mind up a little bit

0:31:51.240 --> 0:31:55.840
<v Speaker 1>where you go, oh, actually, i'm quite I'm quite ingenuous

0:31:55.840 --> 0:31:58.040
<v Speaker 1>with this. Is that the word like I'm quite inventive,

0:31:58.080 --> 0:32:00.720
<v Speaker 1>Like I have my own ways where you almost forget

0:32:00.720 --> 0:32:01.880
<v Speaker 1>you have your own way.

0:32:01.880 --> 0:32:05.760
<v Speaker 2>Right, you just get on a mechanical because you're something

0:32:05.760 --> 0:32:07.080
<v Speaker 2>that you're so used to. And I guess that's what

0:32:07.120 --> 0:32:09.960
<v Speaker 2>conditioning is right, you just get used to the same pattern,

0:32:10.320 --> 0:32:13.120
<v Speaker 2>the same mindset that you're surrounded by. Yeah, and I

0:32:13.160 --> 0:32:16.920
<v Speaker 2>often thinks sometimes it's also doing. The thing is that

0:32:17.200 --> 0:32:19.360
<v Speaker 2>your mind first of all, says no to I think

0:32:19.400 --> 0:32:23.280
<v Speaker 2>there's this thin line between intuition and protection. Your protection

0:32:23.400 --> 0:32:25.320
<v Speaker 2>is saying no, don't do that. And it might be

0:32:25.320 --> 0:32:27.720
<v Speaker 2>because of comfort, it might be because of conditioning. But

0:32:27.720 --> 0:32:30.120
<v Speaker 2>then actually sometimes going outside of that box or outside

0:32:30.160 --> 0:32:32.800
<v Speaker 2>of that limit is what allows you to gain that

0:32:32.840 --> 0:32:35.840
<v Speaker 2>different perspective, allows you to see the different ways of

0:32:35.880 --> 0:32:38.080
<v Speaker 2>doing things, you know, when you go to different countries,

0:32:38.120 --> 0:32:40.960
<v Speaker 2>when you explore. I think exploring is such an important

0:32:41.000 --> 0:32:43.920
<v Speaker 2>part of actually knowing your authentic self because you've been

0:32:43.920 --> 0:32:46.560
<v Speaker 2>able to see what the other options are, rather than

0:32:46.600 --> 0:32:50.840
<v Speaker 2>it being a conditioning or something mechanical that you're doing.

0:32:51.080 --> 0:32:52.760
<v Speaker 2>Sometimes you need to know more to be able to

0:32:52.760 --> 0:32:55.880
<v Speaker 2>decide for yourself what's actually for you. Does that make sense? Yeah?

0:32:55.960 --> 0:32:57.600
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, And we have so much more of a blank

0:32:57.600 --> 0:33:00.520
<v Speaker 1>slate than we even realize that we have. Any moment,

0:33:00.520 --> 0:33:03.720
<v Speaker 1>you can just completely recreate yourself, your life. Yeah, all

0:33:03.720 --> 0:33:04.200
<v Speaker 1>this stuff.

0:33:04.240 --> 0:33:07.200
<v Speaker 2>I would have never ever thought like there was no

0:33:07.320 --> 0:33:09.120
<v Speaker 2>part of me when I was in London that ever

0:33:09.160 --> 0:33:12.040
<v Speaker 2>wanted to leave London. No part of me wanted to travel,

0:33:12.160 --> 0:33:14.000
<v Speaker 2>No part of me wanted to leave. I was so

0:33:14.760 --> 0:33:17.440
<v Speaker 2>content being in the place that I was, and there

0:33:17.480 --> 0:33:19.840
<v Speaker 2>was nothing wrong with that. I really appreciate it. But

0:33:20.000 --> 0:33:24.400
<v Speaker 2>actually moving and going to New York was created a

0:33:24.480 --> 0:33:27.000
<v Speaker 2>version of me, or expanded a version of me that

0:33:27.040 --> 0:33:29.000
<v Speaker 2>I would have never even got to know. Like I

0:33:29.000 --> 0:33:31.400
<v Speaker 2>don't think I would have ever met that person had

0:33:31.400 --> 0:33:34.000
<v Speaker 2>I stayed in London in the same place. And it

0:33:34.120 --> 0:33:38.360
<v Speaker 2>was the moving, the pushing, the going out of side

0:33:38.360 --> 0:33:40.200
<v Speaker 2>of my comforts, and that would say all every part

0:33:40.200 --> 0:33:41.920
<v Speaker 2>of me were saying, no, I don't want to do this.

0:33:42.080 --> 0:33:43.640
<v Speaker 2>But there was a slight part of me that was like,

0:33:43.840 --> 0:33:46.440
<v Speaker 2>but what if there's something wow? And like to actually

0:33:46.480 --> 0:33:49.480
<v Speaker 2>go against the ninety nine percent and go towards the

0:33:49.480 --> 0:33:51.920
<v Speaker 2>one percent that was in my mind. I could have

0:33:51.920 --> 0:33:53.959
<v Speaker 2>thought it was intuition, but actually I think it was

0:33:54.280 --> 0:33:55.560
<v Speaker 2>me needing to get outside.

0:33:55.800 --> 0:33:56.240
<v Speaker 1>Wow.

0:33:56.760 --> 0:33:58.560
<v Speaker 2>I maybe my intuition was that one percent and I

0:33:58.600 --> 0:34:00.000
<v Speaker 2>wasn't used to listening to it.

0:34:00.320 --> 0:34:03.680
<v Speaker 1>That's so interesting. Is there a quality that you noticed

0:34:03.800 --> 0:34:05.640
<v Speaker 1>or that it woke up in yourself when you're in

0:34:05.640 --> 0:34:07.400
<v Speaker 1>New York that you didn't know you had or had

0:34:07.480 --> 0:34:08.320
<v Speaker 1>less of in London.

0:34:08.440 --> 0:34:12.080
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it was autonomy over my own life. Like this

0:34:12.200 --> 0:34:15.719
<v Speaker 2>idea of oh I actually am able to make decisions

0:34:15.719 --> 0:34:19.480
<v Speaker 2>by myself. I actually am able to figure out what

0:34:19.560 --> 0:34:22.319
<v Speaker 2>I want to do without thinking other people should be

0:34:22.360 --> 0:34:25.520
<v Speaker 2>doing that for me. Oh I could if I want

0:34:25.560 --> 0:34:27.479
<v Speaker 2>to be a yoga teacher, I could do a yoga

0:34:27.520 --> 0:34:30.359
<v Speaker 2>teacher training and never wanted to do it again after

0:34:30.400 --> 0:34:33.840
<v Speaker 2>the yoga teach training. But this idea of I always

0:34:34.000 --> 0:34:36.000
<v Speaker 2>felt like I fit into a box, and New York

0:34:36.000 --> 0:34:39.880
<v Speaker 2>allowed me to see that I'd created that box fully myself,

0:34:40.120 --> 0:34:42.719
<v Speaker 2>and I didn't have to just exist within that and

0:34:42.760 --> 0:34:44.719
<v Speaker 2>all these ideas I had created for myself. Oh you're

0:34:44.719 --> 0:34:46.640
<v Speaker 2>not intelligent, so you shouldn't be doing this. Oh you're

0:34:46.680 --> 0:34:48.919
<v Speaker 2>not this, you should just be sticking to these little

0:34:48.960 --> 0:34:52.120
<v Speaker 2>areas of your life. But exploring that allowed me to see, oh, yeah,

0:34:52.160 --> 0:34:54.279
<v Speaker 2>actually some parts were true. I'm not really good at that,

0:34:54.680 --> 0:34:57.400
<v Speaker 2>but so much more was true than I thought was possible.

0:34:57.640 --> 0:34:59.719
<v Speaker 1>That's so amazing. I think that's another one you can

0:34:59.760 --> 0:35:02.640
<v Speaker 1>start to try on is when people say I'm not intelligent,

0:35:02.800 --> 0:35:05.479
<v Speaker 1>you can go, well, it's not I'm black and white.

0:35:05.520 --> 0:35:07.759
<v Speaker 1>There's probably some places I'm really dumb ye, and I'm

0:35:07.760 --> 0:35:09.920
<v Speaker 1>also probably quite smart at some things, and just to

0:35:10.000 --> 0:35:12.000
<v Speaker 1>challenge that and just be like, oh, yeah, I'm talented

0:35:12.000 --> 0:35:14.200
<v Speaker 1>and I'm not. I love to be going and not

0:35:14.320 --> 0:35:16.520
<v Speaker 1>like I don't like this whole introvert extravert or I

0:35:16.560 --> 0:35:19.080
<v Speaker 1>don't like you know, smart people and creative people and

0:35:19.120 --> 0:35:21.239
<v Speaker 1>this and that. It's like we all have everything, but

0:35:21.520 --> 0:35:23.880
<v Speaker 1>even just telling us off those stories again and again,

0:35:24.480 --> 0:35:26.880
<v Speaker 1>it just brings you smaller and smaller and smaller.

0:35:27.000 --> 0:35:28.640
<v Speaker 2>It's what you said, even about the person making the

0:35:28.680 --> 0:35:31.800
<v Speaker 2>paper clips. And every time I leave somewhere and sometimes

0:35:31.800 --> 0:35:33.959
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, oh, I felt so dumb in that room.

0:35:34.280 --> 0:35:36.640
<v Speaker 2>And he was like, yeah, but if they asked you,

0:35:36.840 --> 0:35:38.680
<v Speaker 2>if you start talking about ivado, or if you start

0:35:38.760 --> 0:35:40.560
<v Speaker 2>talking about cooking, or if you start talking about all

0:35:40.600 --> 0:35:42.400
<v Speaker 2>those things. Find they were talking about politics, and you

0:35:42.440 --> 0:35:44.880
<v Speaker 2>didn't know find they were talking about I don't know.

0:35:45.239 --> 0:35:47.080
<v Speaker 2>Someone was a poet and they were talking so like

0:35:47.440 --> 0:35:49.480
<v Speaker 2>beautifully and FLI I was like, I can't speak like

0:35:49.520 --> 0:35:52.120
<v Speaker 2>that and it was amazing, and he was just like, no,

0:35:52.760 --> 0:35:55.719
<v Speaker 2>they're amazing in what they are doing. We don't have

0:35:55.760 --> 0:35:58.200
<v Speaker 2>to be incredible all types of conversation. But if someone

0:35:58.239 --> 0:36:01.239
<v Speaker 2>asked you about what lights you up, or cooking or

0:36:01.440 --> 0:36:03.840
<v Speaker 2>nutrition or health, you'd be able to speak in the

0:36:03.840 --> 0:36:05.160
<v Speaker 2>same way, and they might not be able to. And

0:36:05.280 --> 0:36:08.000
<v Speaker 2>it's interesting when you go into a room filled with

0:36:08.040 --> 0:36:10.759
<v Speaker 2>people who are different from you, rather than feeling less

0:36:10.760 --> 0:36:12.719
<v Speaker 2>than I think it's a reminder to yourself of, oh,

0:36:12.800 --> 0:36:15.000
<v Speaker 2>but this is the quality that I hold. And I

0:36:15.000 --> 0:36:17.759
<v Speaker 2>think it's very normal to sometimes have that lessoned in

0:36:17.800 --> 0:36:19.359
<v Speaker 2>you when you walk into a room of people who

0:36:19.440 --> 0:36:22.880
<v Speaker 2>know different types of things, rather than holding your ground

0:36:22.880 --> 0:36:25.640
<v Speaker 2>and realizing, oh, I can provide something different. I love.

0:36:25.880 --> 0:36:28.840
<v Speaker 1>One of the things this has really taught me actually is,

0:36:29.800 --> 0:36:32.160
<v Speaker 1>you know, it's so easy to feel I guess, threatened

0:36:32.160 --> 0:36:34.520
<v Speaker 1>by other people who are in their light. But once

0:36:34.560 --> 0:36:37.399
<v Speaker 1>you really not just kind of conceptually see what you're

0:36:37.400 --> 0:36:40.480
<v Speaker 1>good at, but just actually really make yourself bring it

0:36:40.520 --> 0:36:43.320
<v Speaker 1>out of you every single day, you do start to

0:36:43.560 --> 0:36:46.319
<v Speaker 1>fall in love with just in a very objective way.

0:36:46.520 --> 0:36:48.160
<v Speaker 1>Just you just do fall in love with the costume

0:36:48.160 --> 0:36:50.160
<v Speaker 1>that you came to wear. And then you can just

0:36:50.200 --> 0:36:52.640
<v Speaker 1>like get to enjoy other people who're like, oh wow, yes,

0:36:52.719 --> 0:36:54.600
<v Speaker 1>this kind of human and this kind of human and

0:36:54.640 --> 0:36:57.840
<v Speaker 1>this and aren't they so cool? It's like a multiplification

0:36:58.000 --> 0:37:01.000
<v Speaker 1>of enjoying every different kind of role that exists that

0:37:01.000 --> 0:37:03.240
<v Speaker 1>we're all here to kind of like play different ones.

0:37:03.280 --> 0:37:04.200
<v Speaker 1>It's so much fun.

0:37:04.320 --> 0:37:06.080
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And I feel that's the same. It kind of

0:37:06.120 --> 0:37:08.560
<v Speaker 2>aligns with confidence as well. It's like the more that

0:37:08.600 --> 0:37:10.440
<v Speaker 2>you feel confidence, the more you're able to appreciate other

0:37:10.440 --> 0:37:13.040
<v Speaker 2>people's beauty, other people's skills, other people, and you feel

0:37:13.080 --> 0:37:15.279
<v Speaker 2>less threatened about even the ones that are in the

0:37:15.360 --> 0:37:17.719
<v Speaker 2>same kind of work or even the people who are

0:37:17.719 --> 0:37:20.160
<v Speaker 2>in the same kind of proximity as you to what

0:37:20.200 --> 0:37:23.040
<v Speaker 2>you do. You actually get a deep appreciation for them.

0:37:23.239 --> 0:37:26.280
<v Speaker 2>The more you feel grounded or in your authentic self,

0:37:26.320 --> 0:37:26.880
<v Speaker 2>I imagine.

0:37:26.960 --> 0:37:27.759
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I think.

0:37:27.840 --> 0:37:31.360
<v Speaker 2>So are there certain types like the five that you mentioned?

0:37:31.680 --> 0:37:34.880
<v Speaker 2>Are there ones that are more compatible, like in relationships

0:37:35.200 --> 0:37:37.560
<v Speaker 2>that are more compatible, or some that actually really struggle

0:37:37.600 --> 0:37:38.560
<v Speaker 2>with compatibility.

0:37:39.239 --> 0:37:42.440
<v Speaker 1>So my favorite favorite thing about human design is that

0:37:42.480 --> 0:37:44.799
<v Speaker 1>when you understand yourself and you understand the other, that's

0:37:44.960 --> 0:37:50.239
<v Speaker 1>the beginning of love right self love of others. Yeah,

0:37:50.280 --> 0:37:52.080
<v Speaker 1>So what I always say is that there are no

0:37:52.200 --> 0:37:55.160
<v Speaker 1>types that are incompatible, and I mean across every board,

0:37:55.200 --> 0:37:59.280
<v Speaker 1>across gifts, skills, whatever, But compatibility is created, not fated.

0:37:59.320 --> 0:38:01.919
<v Speaker 1>So what does that mean? So the mechanics of human

0:38:01.960 --> 0:38:05.320
<v Speaker 1>design is that everyone has what's called a magnetic monopole

0:38:05.400 --> 0:38:09.120
<v Speaker 1>inside them, which is basically this magnet that gets created

0:38:09.200 --> 0:38:11.759
<v Speaker 1>when the soul and the body get kind of put together,

0:38:11.880 --> 0:38:14.319
<v Speaker 1>fuse together, and they make you that's standing in front

0:38:14.360 --> 0:38:16.680
<v Speaker 1>of me, this physical thing. Right, it's almost like those

0:38:16.680 --> 0:38:19.359
<v Speaker 1>two things come together, but they get held together by

0:38:19.400 --> 0:38:24.120
<v Speaker 1>this magnetic monopole inside. Now, again, the existence of monopols

0:38:24.200 --> 0:38:26.279
<v Speaker 1>is something that even scientists right now are trying to find.

0:38:26.360 --> 0:38:29.120
<v Speaker 1>And ra was like they're inside humans, like they are

0:38:29.200 --> 0:38:31.160
<v Speaker 1>driving us towards our destiny if we get out of

0:38:31.200 --> 0:38:33.560
<v Speaker 1>the way and we use our authority correctly. We have

0:38:33.640 --> 0:38:36.520
<v Speaker 1>this magnet. Now, this magnet is drawn to people, places,

0:38:36.520 --> 0:38:39.160
<v Speaker 1>and things. So and you probably you know, everyone can

0:38:39.280 --> 0:38:42.200
<v Speaker 1>relate to. When you are into a guy and you

0:38:42.440 --> 0:38:46.280
<v Speaker 1>see every single you know, Heala and Sharman and whatever,

0:38:46.520 --> 0:38:48.319
<v Speaker 1>and they all tell you that he's wrong for you,

0:38:48.360 --> 0:38:50.600
<v Speaker 1>there's something that still draws you to that person. Right,

0:38:50.840 --> 0:38:52.920
<v Speaker 1>So in human design they say you are drawn to

0:38:52.960 --> 0:38:55.040
<v Speaker 1>certain people for certain amounts of time, and when that

0:38:55.080 --> 0:38:58.200
<v Speaker 1>magnet stops that's when you're done. Okay. So yes, there's

0:38:58.200 --> 0:39:00.080
<v Speaker 1>stories about he did this and she said that, and

0:39:00.080 --> 0:39:02.479
<v Speaker 1>then I move whatever. But there's also just this draw,

0:39:02.840 --> 0:39:04.560
<v Speaker 1>and for as long as the draw's there, you can't

0:39:04.560 --> 0:39:05.160
<v Speaker 1>fight the draw.

0:39:05.360 --> 0:39:05.760
<v Speaker 2>Okay.

0:39:06.200 --> 0:39:08.200
<v Speaker 1>So what you have to do is that you have

0:39:08.239 --> 0:39:10.680
<v Speaker 1>to accept that your path is kind of drawing you

0:39:10.719 --> 0:39:12.880
<v Speaker 1>towards a certain direction, and you go with it. But

0:39:13.800 --> 0:39:16.360
<v Speaker 1>you learn the other and you learn yourself. So what

0:39:16.400 --> 0:39:19.200
<v Speaker 1>does that mean? Okay, if you are a generator in

0:39:19.239 --> 0:39:22.360
<v Speaker 1>a relationship too, generators in a relationship, Okay, this is

0:39:22.400 --> 0:39:24.520
<v Speaker 1>one of them. This is the example that my teacher

0:39:24.560 --> 0:39:27.839
<v Speaker 1>taught me. They come home from work, long day at work,

0:39:27.880 --> 0:39:31.400
<v Speaker 1>and they're both tired because they've done what lit them up. Okay,

0:39:31.600 --> 0:39:33.480
<v Speaker 1>she wants to go to the movies, he wants to

0:39:33.480 --> 0:39:36.080
<v Speaker 1>watch sports. So then they try and do the generator

0:39:36.120 --> 0:39:38.440
<v Speaker 1>thing and compromise and then they watch a movie. But

0:39:38.480 --> 0:39:40.319
<v Speaker 1>then neither of them is happy. Right, what they should

0:39:40.360 --> 0:39:42.840
<v Speaker 1>have done is she should have gone to the movies,

0:39:43.120 --> 0:39:45.359
<v Speaker 1>he should have watched sports. They come home, they're both

0:39:45.560 --> 0:39:48.480
<v Speaker 1>it up. Now what happens. They're both really into each other,

0:39:48.520 --> 0:39:51.600
<v Speaker 1>they're really fascinated. Then you stop, it's better, right, But

0:39:51.640 --> 0:39:53.360
<v Speaker 1>instead of being like, oh, we've got to do it

0:39:53.400 --> 0:39:58.719
<v Speaker 1>the way that the normal relationship works, then it dwindles

0:39:58.880 --> 0:40:03.759
<v Speaker 1>the juiciness. So it really comes into actually, when you

0:40:03.800 --> 0:40:07.560
<v Speaker 1>are with someone, it is such a privilege to support

0:40:07.640 --> 0:40:10.719
<v Speaker 1>them being their natural self, because even if it goes

0:40:10.719 --> 0:40:12.960
<v Speaker 1>against what you want for them, it's gonna make it

0:40:12.960 --> 0:40:16.279
<v Speaker 1>the best relationship. And that works for kids, that works

0:40:16.280 --> 0:40:18.359
<v Speaker 1>for parents, that works with brothers and sisters, that works

0:40:18.360 --> 0:40:20.600
<v Speaker 1>with friends, it works for everyone. If you can get

0:40:20.600 --> 0:40:22.879
<v Speaker 1>out of your own mind about what you need them

0:40:22.920 --> 0:40:26.160
<v Speaker 1>to be for you, you can actually be so surprised

0:40:26.160 --> 0:40:29.280
<v Speaker 1>and tickled and delighted by what happens when you invest

0:40:29.320 --> 0:40:31.200
<v Speaker 1>in helping them become their real self.

0:40:31.280 --> 0:40:34.920
<v Speaker 2>That's so true. Even when I was struggling to I

0:40:34.960 --> 0:40:36.759
<v Speaker 2>was really struggling to forget what I wanted to do

0:40:36.800 --> 0:40:39.920
<v Speaker 2>when we first moved to New York. And I sometimes

0:40:40.000 --> 0:40:42.200
<v Speaker 2>go through that fairly often. I'm like, am I doing

0:40:42.200 --> 0:40:45.839
<v Speaker 2>the right thing? And even when I kept asking Jay,

0:40:45.920 --> 0:40:47.680
<v Speaker 2>like what do you think I should be doing? And

0:40:47.880 --> 0:40:49.160
<v Speaker 2>how do you think I should live my life? And

0:40:49.200 --> 0:40:51.279
<v Speaker 2>should I just travel with you everywhere and just do

0:40:51.320 --> 0:40:53.239
<v Speaker 2>whatever you're doing. And the first thing we'll be is like, no,

0:40:53.280 --> 0:40:55.279
<v Speaker 2>I want you to find what makes you happy, Like

0:40:55.480 --> 0:40:57.840
<v Speaker 2>you need to do what makes you happy, and I

0:40:57.840 --> 0:40:59.880
<v Speaker 2>don't want you to just do what makes me happy

0:41:00.000 --> 0:41:01.879
<v Speaker 2>because that's not going to make you happy. You're gonna

0:41:01.920 --> 0:41:03.640
<v Speaker 2>end up coming like coming to all these places, but

0:41:03.719 --> 0:41:05.680
<v Speaker 2>you don't even like being in this social situation. So

0:41:05.880 --> 0:41:08.080
<v Speaker 2>it's gonna it's gonna make you fundamentally unhappy, and seeing

0:41:08.080 --> 0:41:10.359
<v Speaker 2>you unhappy is going to make me unhappy. And so

0:41:10.760 --> 0:41:13.920
<v Speaker 2>every time we talk about like going to work events

0:41:14.000 --> 0:41:16.520
<v Speaker 2>or doing anything, he's like, I don't need you to go,

0:41:16.880 --> 0:41:18.560
<v Speaker 2>and I don't want you to go because I'm going.

0:41:19.040 --> 0:41:20.440
<v Speaker 2>I want you to go if you want to go.

0:41:20.719 --> 0:41:22.680
<v Speaker 2>And we realized that there are so many things that

0:41:22.680 --> 0:41:24.839
<v Speaker 2>we different. For example, we were just talking about our

0:41:24.840 --> 0:41:28.960
<v Speaker 2>weekend that just went, and he loves going and going

0:41:28.960 --> 0:41:31.040
<v Speaker 2>out on the weekend day, like going out walking around.

0:41:31.120 --> 0:41:32.920
<v Speaker 2>I love being a hermit and I need to be

0:41:33.000 --> 0:41:36.879
<v Speaker 2>at home and I need to just like regain my

0:41:37.280 --> 0:41:39.120
<v Speaker 2>energy and I need to sit sometimes in like a

0:41:39.200 --> 0:41:41.879
<v Speaker 2>quiet room and just do nothing the whole day. Yeah,

0:41:42.160 --> 0:41:44.640
<v Speaker 2>And so what we realized was when we were compromising,

0:41:44.680 --> 0:41:46.439
<v Speaker 2>I'd go out and I'd be there, but not there,

0:41:46.920 --> 0:41:49.160
<v Speaker 2>he'd stay in, but he'd be kind of like edging

0:41:49.560 --> 0:41:52.400
<v Speaker 2>to do something or like pottering about. So then we

0:41:52.480 --> 0:41:54.640
<v Speaker 2>just made it half the day. He'd go out and

0:41:54.680 --> 0:41:57.480
<v Speaker 2>he'd spend his half day going out shopping and hanging around,

0:41:57.640 --> 0:41:59.719
<v Speaker 2>and I'd stay at home read. And then in the

0:41:59.760 --> 0:42:02.359
<v Speaker 2>after we've come back together and you can see he's

0:42:02.480 --> 0:42:05.160
<v Speaker 2>so happy he's gone out. I'm so happy I've stayed in,

0:42:05.239 --> 0:42:08.399
<v Speaker 2>and then we get to actually connect and exactly what

0:42:08.400 --> 0:42:10.759
<v Speaker 2>you said, that's quite fascinating.

0:42:11.360 --> 0:42:13.000
<v Speaker 1>My parents are the same, but the other way around,

0:42:13.000 --> 0:42:14.960
<v Speaker 1>and so my dad likes staying home mom and Mom

0:42:15.000 --> 0:42:17.640
<v Speaker 1>is so social and it took them twenty five years

0:42:17.640 --> 0:42:19.560
<v Speaker 1>to figure that out, you know, but they're so much

0:42:19.600 --> 0:42:20.320
<v Speaker 1>happier now.

0:42:20.520 --> 0:42:22.560
<v Speaker 2>So once someone has figured out their human design, or

0:42:22.560 --> 0:42:25.400
<v Speaker 2>they've seen their chart and they've somewhat deciphered it, is

0:42:25.400 --> 0:42:27.200
<v Speaker 2>that something you just have to do once and then

0:42:27.239 --> 0:42:29.840
<v Speaker 2>once you know it, you just have to implement it

0:42:29.880 --> 0:42:32.000
<v Speaker 2>into your life, or do you regularly come back to

0:42:32.080 --> 0:42:32.839
<v Speaker 2>it in a different way.

0:42:32.920 --> 0:42:34.640
<v Speaker 1>So what I think is cool is, you know, like

0:42:34.680 --> 0:42:36.680
<v Speaker 1>those books that really change you, Like there's a handful

0:42:36.680 --> 0:42:39.200
<v Speaker 1>of spiritual books where you read them two years later

0:42:39.280 --> 0:42:41.319
<v Speaker 1>and you get them in a whole different way. So

0:42:41.440 --> 0:42:44.919
<v Speaker 1>the chart never changes, you understand it differently. But where

0:42:44.920 --> 0:42:46.839
<v Speaker 1>the rubber really meets the road, where the magic really

0:42:46.880 --> 0:42:49.319
<v Speaker 1>happens is in how you implement it every single day.

0:42:49.360 --> 0:42:50.840
<v Speaker 1>It's like, if you have the same manual, you have

0:42:50.920 --> 0:42:53.160
<v Speaker 1>to keep using the manual. So that's why I have

0:42:53.239 --> 0:42:55.680
<v Speaker 1>that app is because I want people to really get

0:42:55.719 --> 0:42:57.880
<v Speaker 1>like they get a daily customized tip every day. So

0:42:57.920 --> 0:42:59.800
<v Speaker 1>it's like, okay, how do you pack as a projector

0:43:00.120 --> 0:43:01.919
<v Speaker 1>and that would be different than how you would pack

0:43:01.960 --> 0:43:04.279
<v Speaker 1>if you're a manifesting generator or if you're emotional or

0:43:04.280 --> 0:43:07.200
<v Speaker 1>non emotional, or how do you figure out where to

0:43:07.200 --> 0:43:09.279
<v Speaker 1>put your kids in school? How do you parent a

0:43:09.360 --> 0:43:11.440
<v Speaker 1>kid that's a man gen versus a projector?

0:43:11.600 --> 0:43:11.799
<v Speaker 2>Right?

0:43:12.520 --> 0:43:14.640
<v Speaker 1>And then different profiles as well, like how do you

0:43:14.680 --> 0:43:17.359
<v Speaker 1>show up socially if you're a three five or one four?

0:43:17.360 --> 0:43:20.880
<v Speaker 1>They're all different components. And then I was telling you

0:43:20.880 --> 0:43:22.840
<v Speaker 1>before we got on we have the AI, so now

0:43:23.120 --> 0:43:25.040
<v Speaker 1>you can be like, okay, well how do I decide

0:43:25.080 --> 0:43:27.719
<v Speaker 1>how to you know? You say, my husband's a generator,

0:43:27.760 --> 0:43:29.680
<v Speaker 1>he likes going out. What do I do as a projector?

0:43:30.080 --> 0:43:34.440
<v Speaker 1>And that's what helps you really ball down the few

0:43:34.640 --> 0:43:39.040
<v Speaker 1>simple platitudinal truths into real life, because I think even

0:43:39.040 --> 0:43:40.640
<v Speaker 1>if you here be the light, it's like, yeah, we

0:43:40.680 --> 0:43:42.160
<v Speaker 1>love the idea, and we've heard it so many times.

0:43:42.520 --> 0:43:45.040
<v Speaker 1>I actually be the light in lies. And that's where

0:43:45.680 --> 0:43:48.759
<v Speaker 1>I'm really concerned actually at the moment with how do

0:43:48.840 --> 0:43:50.719
<v Speaker 1>I put this? And I say this because I was

0:43:50.760 --> 0:43:53.160
<v Speaker 1>like this myself. Is that sometimes when you get so

0:43:53.640 --> 0:43:56.680
<v Speaker 1>when spirituality really gives you such a bomb, you want

0:43:56.680 --> 0:43:58.560
<v Speaker 1>to retreat to it and almost keep it separate to

0:43:58.640 --> 0:44:01.920
<v Speaker 1>your life where to retreat to, But then you can

0:44:01.960 --> 0:44:03.799
<v Speaker 1>still spend so many years feeling like you haven't moved

0:44:03.800 --> 0:44:06.239
<v Speaker 1>the needle forward on your life. Right you know, say

0:44:06.360 --> 0:44:09.279
<v Speaker 1>that so you feel like you want to hear, like

0:44:09.320 --> 0:44:10.880
<v Speaker 1>you want to bathe in the wisdom of like be

0:44:11.000 --> 0:44:12.840
<v Speaker 1>the light and you want to bathe in the wisdom

0:44:12.880 --> 0:44:15.439
<v Speaker 1>of you know, God is everywhere and all these things,

0:44:15.440 --> 0:44:18.480
<v Speaker 1>and it feels so good, But then it doesn't necessarily

0:44:18.480 --> 0:44:21.520
<v Speaker 1>help your self esteem, and I mean esteem of self

0:44:21.560 --> 0:44:24.480
<v Speaker 1>knowing that you're capable and that you're sovereign unless you've

0:44:24.480 --> 0:44:26.440
<v Speaker 1>actually challenge yourself to be like the light in places

0:44:26.440 --> 0:44:29.080
<v Speaker 1>where it's been difficult for you. Right you know, like,

0:44:29.280 --> 0:44:31.200
<v Speaker 1>where are you less loving than you could be? Or

0:44:31.239 --> 0:44:33.320
<v Speaker 1>where is it hard for you to not be so judgmental?

0:44:33.480 --> 0:44:33.680
<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

0:44:33.920 --> 0:44:35.440
<v Speaker 1>You know what I mean. That kind of stuff is

0:44:35.440 --> 0:44:38.160
<v Speaker 1>the stuff where you feel like prime actually pretty great,

0:44:38.600 --> 0:44:40.440
<v Speaker 1>and not because I'm better than other people, but because

0:44:40.440 --> 0:44:42.839
<v Speaker 1>we have this divine inside us, you know. But if

0:44:42.880 --> 0:44:44.960
<v Speaker 1>I don't use it, I'm not going to know it's there.

0:44:45.680 --> 0:44:47.759
<v Speaker 1>So that's where I really that's where I created the

0:44:47.800 --> 0:44:50.279
<v Speaker 1>app because I wanted people to a not have to

0:44:50.320 --> 0:44:52.360
<v Speaker 1>pay three hundred and fifty dollars for a session and

0:44:52.400 --> 0:44:54.640
<v Speaker 1>wait a year and a half it's a price of

0:44:54.680 --> 0:44:57.680
<v Speaker 1>a arte and you get the daily like I need this?

0:44:57.840 --> 0:45:00.600
<v Speaker 1>How do I do this according to my authentics? Yes,

0:45:00.719 --> 0:45:02.080
<v Speaker 1>you know, because that's what I think.

0:45:01.960 --> 0:45:04.560
<v Speaker 2>I would want now if I was to put it

0:45:04.600 --> 0:45:08.399
<v Speaker 2>into practice on a daily basis. Can someone be really

0:45:08.440 --> 0:45:12.640
<v Speaker 2>successful in what they're doing without knowing this part of

0:45:12.680 --> 0:45:16.800
<v Speaker 2>their human design? And can it help in every area?

0:45:16.920 --> 0:45:18.800
<v Speaker 2>Like does it help you figure out how you should

0:45:18.800 --> 0:45:20.600
<v Speaker 2>be making money? Does it help you figure out your

0:45:20.600 --> 0:45:24.440
<v Speaker 2>relationship with different things? Like is there direction for each

0:45:24.480 --> 0:45:27.480
<v Speaker 2>part of your life through figuring out your human design? Yes?

0:45:27.880 --> 0:45:32.399
<v Speaker 1>So, for example, the authority which is the intuition. That's

0:45:32.400 --> 0:45:34.520
<v Speaker 1>how you're supposed to be making those day to day decisions.

0:45:34.680 --> 0:45:38.279
<v Speaker 1>But for example, there's something called your digestion, which is

0:45:38.320 --> 0:45:41.520
<v Speaker 1>how you're supposed to eat food, but also how you

0:45:41.560 --> 0:45:44.520
<v Speaker 1>digest life. You know, how you take in information that's

0:45:44.600 --> 0:45:45.160
<v Speaker 1>oh yeah.

0:45:45.000 --> 0:45:45.720
<v Speaker 2>Mine must taste.

0:45:46.160 --> 0:45:49.440
<v Speaker 1>Oh does that make sense? I think that must be

0:45:49.440 --> 0:45:53.360
<v Speaker 1>your strongest sense. Okay, yeah, yeah, that's a subcategory of

0:45:53.360 --> 0:45:56.759
<v Speaker 1>a digestion. So you have what's called the for transformations

0:45:56.800 --> 0:45:59.359
<v Speaker 1>in human design, which is like a sub section which

0:45:59.400 --> 0:46:02.320
<v Speaker 1>is your dia congestion, are your environment, your perspective of

0:46:02.360 --> 0:46:05.400
<v Speaker 1>your motivation. If you lived according to those four things,

0:46:05.440 --> 0:46:08.040
<v Speaker 1>everyone would become a genius at something. But think about

0:46:08.040 --> 0:46:10.040
<v Speaker 1>it like this, If you're not feeding your brain properly,

0:46:10.160 --> 0:46:13.880
<v Speaker 1>you don't even have a fighting chance of being able

0:46:13.960 --> 0:46:16.839
<v Speaker 1>to then spot the things you're supposed to spot, put

0:46:16.880 --> 0:46:18.680
<v Speaker 1>them together in the unique way you're supposed to put

0:46:18.719 --> 0:46:20.840
<v Speaker 1>them together, and then actually get them out into the

0:46:20.840 --> 0:46:23.239
<v Speaker 1>world you're supposed to get them out to right. So

0:46:24.080 --> 0:46:27.120
<v Speaker 1>it has so many sublays. And again with environment, like

0:46:27.200 --> 0:46:30.000
<v Speaker 1>where do you thrive? Some people thrive when they're among

0:46:30.080 --> 0:46:32.680
<v Speaker 1>the people, when they're in the noise, when they're on

0:46:32.719 --> 0:46:35.000
<v Speaker 1>the ground. Some people thrive when they're kind of a

0:46:35.000 --> 0:46:37.680
<v Speaker 1>bit higher up and a bit more removed. Some people

0:46:37.880 --> 0:46:41.280
<v Speaker 1>thrive in dry environments or more humid environments. Some people

0:46:41.640 --> 0:46:44.359
<v Speaker 1>are caves people, so they need to be in enclosed basis.

0:46:44.000 --> 0:46:45.680
<v Speaker 2>Oh yes, or caves valleys.

0:46:45.960 --> 0:46:49.319
<v Speaker 1>Yes, exactly so. And then you have your perspective, like

0:46:49.560 --> 0:46:52.480
<v Speaker 1>where are you supposed to what parts? If we're both

0:46:52.480 --> 0:46:54.440
<v Speaker 1>looking at a tennis ball, like, what are we supposed

0:46:54.480 --> 0:46:56.640
<v Speaker 1>to both pick out different aspects of it? Right?

0:46:57.120 --> 0:46:58.200
<v Speaker 2>So intricate?

0:46:58.360 --> 0:47:02.239
<v Speaker 1>No, I love it so deep, so it has something

0:47:02.280 --> 0:47:03.240
<v Speaker 1>to say about everything.

0:47:03.600 --> 0:47:05.360
<v Speaker 2>What were the numbers you were mentioning earlier?

0:47:06.000 --> 0:47:08.680
<v Speaker 1>Oh, that's your profile. Okay, so you have twelve profiles.

0:47:08.719 --> 0:47:10.759
<v Speaker 1>Those are like the archetypes that make up who you are.

0:47:11.360 --> 0:47:14.600
<v Speaker 1>There are six kind of like sub archetypes, and then

0:47:14.840 --> 0:47:17.239
<v Speaker 1>everyone has two of them and they combine to make

0:47:17.239 --> 0:47:21.399
<v Speaker 1>a specific one. So, for example, you have people who

0:47:21.400 --> 0:47:24.640
<v Speaker 1>are three fives who there's a lot of actors and

0:47:24.640 --> 0:47:26.440
<v Speaker 1>actresses who are three fives. It just means you have

0:47:26.560 --> 0:47:29.040
<v Speaker 1>three and the five when they come together. You are

0:47:29.080 --> 0:47:31.000
<v Speaker 1>someone who think about those people who were just like

0:47:31.600 --> 0:47:35.120
<v Speaker 1>we live vicariously through them and they didn't like study anything,

0:47:35.200 --> 0:47:37.719
<v Speaker 1>and they weren't naturally good at certain things. They just

0:47:37.800 --> 0:47:40.399
<v Speaker 1>learned by like being knocked around by life. And then

0:47:40.440 --> 0:47:42.440
<v Speaker 1>they had this equality where they've like fallen on their

0:47:42.480 --> 0:47:44.040
<v Speaker 1>feet so many times, but it's like almost like a

0:47:44.120 --> 0:47:46.560
<v Speaker 1>rom com their life and they just like carry it

0:47:46.600 --> 0:47:48.840
<v Speaker 1>with this like very courageous energy and they want to

0:47:48.880 --> 0:47:51.040
<v Speaker 1>like save the day for other people, and so you

0:47:51.160 --> 0:47:53.560
<v Speaker 1>just love like watching how their life story is unfolded.

0:47:53.880 --> 0:47:55.799
<v Speaker 1>But then you also have like four sixes who are

0:47:55.800 --> 0:47:58.239
<v Speaker 1>more like regal and they like bring people together and

0:47:58.360 --> 0:48:00.919
<v Speaker 1>things kind of evolve around them, and they're very into

0:48:01.000 --> 0:48:04.760
<v Speaker 1>like you know, have a family, settle down, get married,

0:48:05.280 --> 0:48:08.000
<v Speaker 1>reach wisdom at fifty, and then like spread it from

0:48:08.040 --> 0:48:08.480
<v Speaker 1>one high.

0:48:08.600 --> 0:48:08.799
<v Speaker 2>You know.

0:48:09.040 --> 0:48:11.120
<v Speaker 1>Then you have people who like always want to learn information,

0:48:11.200 --> 0:48:13.160
<v Speaker 1>they always want to pass it on. You know. These

0:48:13.160 --> 0:48:15.160
<v Speaker 1>are things that when you speak about them colloquially, you

0:48:15.239 --> 0:48:17.319
<v Speaker 1>kind of go, oh, yeah, yeah, those are different kinds

0:48:17.360 --> 0:48:18.040
<v Speaker 1>of people that I know.

0:48:18.200 --> 0:48:22.000
<v Speaker 2>Definitely. Yeah. I really think everyone has to go out

0:48:22.000 --> 0:48:24.400
<v Speaker 2>and get their human design done to really understand this.

0:48:24.440 --> 0:48:26.920
<v Speaker 2>So I recommend people take do their human design and

0:48:26.960 --> 0:48:29.920
<v Speaker 2>then listen to this all over again, because I feel

0:48:29.920 --> 0:48:32.920
<v Speaker 2>like if I hadn't done my human design before before

0:48:32.920 --> 0:48:35.120
<v Speaker 2>I sat down with you, it wouldn't I wouldn't have

0:48:35.520 --> 0:48:38.040
<v Speaker 2>been able to understand all these different aspects of it.

0:48:38.080 --> 0:48:39.920
<v Speaker 2>And I think it's so nice. Like you said, when

0:48:39.960 --> 0:48:42.120
<v Speaker 2>you end up reading something over again, I think with

0:48:42.200 --> 0:48:44.640
<v Speaker 2>this episode, I think, if you are learning it for

0:48:44.680 --> 0:48:47.040
<v Speaker 2>the first time, do yours, and then come back again

0:48:47.080 --> 0:48:48.279
<v Speaker 2>and listen to it, and I feel like you'll be

0:48:48.320 --> 0:48:51.360
<v Speaker 2>able to understand yourself so much better through listening to

0:48:51.360 --> 0:48:52.680
<v Speaker 2>it the second time. Yeah.

0:48:52.840 --> 0:48:55.400
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, And on the app you can which is just

0:48:55.440 --> 0:48:57.319
<v Speaker 1>called a line. It's the a lineupp. Yeah, you can

0:48:57.360 --> 0:48:59.880
<v Speaker 1>literally just get a reading. So I basically read it

0:49:00.040 --> 0:49:01.760
<v Speaker 1>whole entire chart. Do you just get a reading?

0:49:02.080 --> 0:49:02.719
<v Speaker 2>Wow?

0:49:02.880 --> 0:49:05.480
<v Speaker 1>A fraction of Because I don't like things being so

0:49:05.560 --> 0:49:07.200
<v Speaker 1>expensive and spirituality, so I.

0:49:07.200 --> 0:49:09.200
<v Speaker 2>Have to admit what I did was not. Probably the

0:49:09.280 --> 0:49:11.640
<v Speaker 2>best option was I got my chart and then I

0:49:11.760 --> 0:49:14.279
<v Speaker 2>because obviously I was seeing it. A few days later,

0:49:14.280 --> 0:49:16.239
<v Speaker 2>I put into chutch GPT and was like, can you

0:49:16.400 --> 0:49:18.960
<v Speaker 2>just explain this to me? But I would say that

0:49:19.080 --> 0:49:21.120
<v Speaker 2>it was not It will end up giving a lot

0:49:21.120 --> 0:49:23.920
<v Speaker 2>of generic answers for all of us, and we had

0:49:23.920 --> 0:49:26.480
<v Speaker 2>different types. So I'm definitely gonna put mine through your

0:49:26.480 --> 0:49:29.920
<v Speaker 2>app now because that sounds so useful. Is there anything

0:49:30.040 --> 0:49:32.760
<v Speaker 2>that you'd want people to know? One about human design,

0:49:33.040 --> 0:49:35.919
<v Speaker 2>but also just about their authentic self? Because I feel

0:49:35.920 --> 0:49:38.200
<v Speaker 2>a lot of people are more sad in the world

0:49:38.360 --> 0:49:41.000
<v Speaker 2>because they're not connecting to their full potential or their

0:49:41.000 --> 0:49:45.080
<v Speaker 2>authentic self, but can often feel really lost about or

0:49:45.080 --> 0:49:47.320
<v Speaker 2>not even know that that's why they're upset, or not

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<v Speaker 2>even know that that's why they're feeling unfulfilled. So if

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<v Speaker 2>you have any.

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<v Speaker 1>Little piece of advice for people to feel a bit

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<v Speaker 1>lost right now, what's coming to me is that your

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<v Speaker 1>authentic self is glorious. I think a lot of people

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<v Speaker 1>worry that if they go off script and venture off

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<v Speaker 1>the path, then they might discover they're not great as

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<v Speaker 1>great as they think they are, or as what's underneath

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<v Speaker 1>there isn't good enough, so they have to kind of

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<v Speaker 1>like contrive something else. Because we have this slide that

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<v Speaker 1>other people are doing life right and we're somehow flowed

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<v Speaker 1>and we're getting it wrong and we're like defect, you know, humans,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's just really not the case. And that's just

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<v Speaker 1>as much ego as thinking are better than other people

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<v Speaker 1>as thinking you're worse than people you know, and so

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<v Speaker 1>there is no other thing worth doing with our time

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<v Speaker 1>here than just to dare to discover what you actually

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<v Speaker 1>are from a place of I know I'm made by

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<v Speaker 1>the divine, so I'm gonna be enchanted by it. But

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<v Speaker 1>I have to try, at least have to owe myself

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<v Speaker 1>that just figure out what it is, even if you

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<v Speaker 1>never do your human design or your astrology or anything.

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<v Speaker 1>Just starting to notice and maybe trust a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>more the way you would like to sequently do life,

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<v Speaker 1>and just to give that part of your bit more energy.

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<v Speaker 1>That's truly. I think where self love comes in is

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<v Speaker 1>that you doing right by yourself, you making yourself proud.

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<v Speaker 1>That's how self love comes.

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<v Speaker 2>That's so beautiful. Yeah, I really I was thinking about

0:51:10.200 --> 0:51:12.680
<v Speaker 2>this idea while you were saying that. Of imagine if

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<v Speaker 2>every single person in the world, or even in everyone

0:51:16.719 --> 0:51:18.960
<v Speaker 2>who evolves around you right now, everyone who knows who

0:51:18.960 --> 0:51:21.759
<v Speaker 2>you are, they do their human design and they feel

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<v Speaker 2>a little bit more connected to themselves. Let's say that's

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<v Speaker 2>just a small step towards them feeling that way. Imagine

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<v Speaker 2>then the ripple effects that all these people are then

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<v Speaker 2>creating with their children, with their partners with the people

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<v Speaker 2>that they meet, and the ability to impact other people's

0:51:36.880 --> 0:51:40.759
<v Speaker 2>lives in a positive way becomes so much more available

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<v Speaker 2>to them, and then the little bits of joy that increases.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like such a collective thing. It feels like such

0:51:47.320 --> 0:51:49.640
<v Speaker 2>an individual thing where I'm doing this human design thing

0:51:49.640 --> 0:51:51.680
<v Speaker 2>for myself, or I'm finding out my astrology for myself,

0:51:51.719 --> 0:51:55.239
<v Speaker 2>whatever it is that you're doing. But actually the impact

0:51:55.360 --> 0:51:58.840
<v Speaker 2>that you understanding yourself or getting closer to your authentic

0:51:58.880 --> 0:52:02.319
<v Speaker 2>self that you get that the impact of that is

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<v Speaker 2>so much more widespread than what we probably can imagine,

0:52:06.960 --> 0:52:09.320
<v Speaker 2>like the riplifect that it could create in other people

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<v Speaker 2>just by us showing up as our closest to ourselves

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<v Speaker 2>as we possibly can.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's so true that. And I've seen that time

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<v Speaker 1>and time again, where you just give someone who doesn't

0:52:19.160 --> 0:52:21.680
<v Speaker 1>even necessarily have curiosity for this kind of stuff, but

0:52:21.719 --> 0:52:23.400
<v Speaker 1>you give them a little nugget about themselves that they

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<v Speaker 1>actually am, Like they go, oh yeah, how, like I

0:52:26.600 --> 0:52:29.000
<v Speaker 1>didn't even I kind of felt that about myself, but

0:52:29.000 --> 0:52:30.839
<v Speaker 1>I didn't clock it, you know, And you just hear

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<v Speaker 1>it from an answer source, you trust it more, and

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<v Speaker 1>then they just give that part of them a bit

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<v Speaker 1>more energy and a bit more validation, and then it

0:52:37.719 --> 0:52:39.920
<v Speaker 1>gives them the courage to start leaning into it. You're

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<v Speaker 1>absolutely right.

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<v Speaker 2>I think one of the best things that I've experienced

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<v Speaker 2>that other people have given me, and the best one

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<v Speaker 2>of the best qualities that I think you can give

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<v Speaker 2>to someone is or someone has is the ability to

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<v Speaker 2>make others feel really good about themselves. And I think

0:52:54.120 --> 0:52:55.920
<v Speaker 2>what you said that you can only really make other

0:52:55.920 --> 0:52:58.279
<v Speaker 2>people feel good about themselves if you're feeling somewhat good

0:52:58.280 --> 0:53:01.480
<v Speaker 2>about yourself. It ends up being such a beautiful exchange

0:53:01.480 --> 0:53:02.040
<v Speaker 2>that you can have.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I've tried to make other people feel good when

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't and it's it's not that you can't do it,

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<v Speaker 1>but it feels like you're muscling in log Yeah, it

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<v Speaker 1>really is, Yeah, for sure. Whereas when you're going at

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<v Speaker 1>it from a place where you just know that you're

0:53:17.000 --> 0:53:19.799
<v Speaker 1>like tickled by the fact that we're all there, these

0:53:19.920 --> 0:53:22.960
<v Speaker 1>divine beings like running around like doing and throwing in

0:53:23.000 --> 0:53:25.680
<v Speaker 1>this weird life, and you just it's it's like a

0:53:25.719 --> 0:53:28.200
<v Speaker 1>cuteness that you see in them, that there's a humor

0:53:28.200 --> 0:53:30.040
<v Speaker 1>and a levity. Like whenever I've kind of gone to

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<v Speaker 1>the other side. Yeah, whenever I've seen from the other side,

0:53:32.800 --> 0:53:35.200
<v Speaker 1>it's just they're all giggling and they're all laughed. It's

0:53:35.200 --> 0:53:37.520
<v Speaker 1>a levity and there's just joy in it. And when

0:53:37.560 --> 0:53:39.479
<v Speaker 1>you just can see that in someone else because you've

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<v Speaker 1>done the experiment on doing it to yourself, it's lived,

0:53:43.000 --> 0:53:45.400
<v Speaker 1>it's cellular, it's visceral. You can give it in a

0:53:45.440 --> 0:53:46.760
<v Speaker 1>way that feels much more effortless.

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<v Speaker 2>I think, Yeah, so true. Oh my goodness, thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>This has been amazing. I feel like I learned so

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<v Speaker 2>much about this and honestly, I feel like I've gotten

0:53:54.800 --> 0:53:56.600
<v Speaker 2>a little bit obsessed with it over the weekend and

0:53:56.840 --> 0:54:00.560
<v Speaker 2>I'm looking so forward to one use your app also

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<v Speaker 2>dig deeper into this for myself and understand the intricacies

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<v Speaker 2>of it. Because everything you were saying, I was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like this is me, but I feel like

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<v Speaker 2>I still have to come into I still need to

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<v Speaker 2>explore it more and live it, like really understand the

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<v Speaker 2>bit and then like see how I can live my

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<v Speaker 2>life through it.

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<v Speaker 1>That's when it becomes like I mean, that's when you

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<v Speaker 1>just fall in love with life. It's the best.

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<v Speaker 2>O good Jenna, Thank you so much.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you for having me,