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Speaker 1: in all her own ways, and like it doesn't have

423
00:21:37,160 --> 00:21:40,520
Speaker 1: to be the beautiful that whatever porn star is or

424
00:21:40,560 --> 00:21:43,720
Speaker 1: whatever TikTok star is. It's like a different kind of

425
00:21:43,760 --> 00:21:46,800
Speaker 1: beautiful and sometimes that's even more beautiful. Right. Well, I

426
00:21:46,840 --> 00:21:51,679
Speaker 1: think the irony in her questions is the insecurity, Like

427
00:21:51,960 --> 00:21:54,159
Speaker 1: the problem that she's worried about with her boyfriend is

428
00:21:54,200 --> 00:21:58,040
Speaker 1: actually feeding her insecurity. So maybe it is maybe it's

429
00:21:58,040 --> 00:22:00,919
Speaker 1: time to take a break from TikTok exactly. You know,

430
00:22:01,160 --> 00:22:04,280
Speaker 1: like because it's it's it can be a self fulfilling

431
00:22:04,280 --> 00:22:09,840
Speaker 1: prophecy fun I hate those I look, trust me. I

432
00:22:09,840 --> 00:22:12,440
Speaker 1: I am making a concerted effort to not get addicted

433
00:22:12,480 --> 00:22:15,640
Speaker 1: to TikTok. Yeah, I've not gotten on it. I'm only

434
00:22:15,680 --> 00:22:17,439
Speaker 1: on it because I have some clients that are on it,

435
00:22:17,800 --> 00:22:19,760
Speaker 1: but I don't. I don't go on it. Like if

436
00:22:19,800 --> 00:22:21,720
Speaker 1: somebody sends me a funny video, I will watch it.

437
00:22:21,800 --> 00:22:24,080
Speaker 1: But it's so easy to go down a rabbit hole.

438
00:22:24,119 --> 00:22:26,800
Speaker 1: I've heard that it's funny, though, I mean, yeah, I

439
00:22:26,800 --> 00:22:28,960
Speaker 1: don't know. I think it's with all social media because

440
00:22:28,960 --> 00:22:31,720
Speaker 1: I I do it with Instagram really bad, and like

441
00:22:31,960 --> 00:22:34,240
Speaker 1: people post their best pictures and they edit the funk

442
00:22:34,240 --> 00:22:37,600
Speaker 1: out of them. Let's not forget so and I'm I'm

443
00:22:37,640 --> 00:22:41,000
Speaker 1: guilty of it too. Like if if somebody sends me

444
00:22:41,040 --> 00:22:42,720
Speaker 1: a photo and I don't think I look it's not

445
00:22:42,760 --> 00:22:45,359
Speaker 1: going up, why would you? You're like, here's a picture

446
00:22:45,359 --> 00:22:49,320
Speaker 1: of me looking like ship, I'm gonna start my my

447
00:22:49,320 --> 00:22:52,280
Speaker 1: my worst self like Instagram photos. I mean that would

448
00:22:52,320 --> 00:22:55,000
Speaker 1: actually be amazing. We should we should try to launch

449
00:22:55,000 --> 00:23:01,399
Speaker 1: a day where everyone post hashtag our self. Yeah, I

450
00:23:01,400 --> 00:23:04,600
Speaker 1: mean people do real instagrams, which I'm also like, yeah,

451
00:23:04,640 --> 00:23:07,040
Speaker 1: but then you put a filled around because I'm like, real,

452
00:23:07,119 --> 00:23:11,920
Speaker 1: are we talking here? Um? Okay, So anyway, I hope

453
00:23:11,960 --> 00:23:14,680
Speaker 1: we helped L I love that message. Thank you so much, el,

454
00:23:14,800 --> 00:23:17,320
Speaker 1: and thank you for listening. Yeah, thank you for listening

455
00:23:17,400 --> 00:23:20,800
Speaker 1: and like, and also thank you for your vulnerability, because

456
00:23:20,800 --> 00:23:22,800
Speaker 1: I think that that's what we appreciate from you guys

457
00:23:22,920 --> 00:23:29,440
Speaker 1: so much too. This one comes from Maryland. She says, Hey, there,

458
00:23:29,480 --> 00:23:32,720
Speaker 1: I'm riding in and because of a recent experience I

459
00:23:32,760 --> 00:23:35,159
Speaker 1: had that left me with mixed feelings. I recently had

460
00:23:35,160 --> 00:23:37,800
Speaker 1: a bachelorette party I went to I Want to Be

461
00:23:37,920 --> 00:23:40,879
Speaker 1: to eleven other girls for a long weekend. We discussed

462
00:23:40,920 --> 00:23:43,600
Speaker 1: sleeping arrangements before we all left for the club that night.

463
00:23:43,840 --> 00:23:45,720
Speaker 1: Don't drive to all. I feel like this is about

464
00:23:45,760 --> 00:23:48,640
Speaker 1: to get funny. I haven't read this, by the way,

465
00:23:48,640 --> 00:23:51,439
Speaker 1: I'm just I'm just diving into the inbox. Um and

466
00:23:51,480 --> 00:23:53,840
Speaker 1: I was told to sleep in a king size bed

467
00:23:54,000 --> 00:23:58,920
Speaker 1: with the bride. Fast forward to many jealous Jello shots.

468
00:23:59,080 --> 00:24:00,960
Speaker 1: I wonder how much the one they had her just

469
00:24:01,040 --> 00:24:05,640
Speaker 1: me right now, Jello's shots and drinks later, I come

470
00:24:05,680 --> 00:24:07,960
Speaker 1: home from the club and crash in bed because I

471
00:24:08,000 --> 00:24:11,000
Speaker 1: was exhausted after a long week at work. I get

472
00:24:11,040 --> 00:24:13,720
Speaker 1: woken up at three a m. By the bride and

473
00:24:13,720 --> 00:24:16,920
Speaker 1: her sister nicely asking me if I minded sleeping on

474
00:24:17,119 --> 00:24:20,639
Speaker 1: the cot on the floor to let the bride's sisters

475
00:24:20,680 --> 00:24:22,280
Speaker 1: sleep in the bed with her instead of me, and

476
00:24:22,320 --> 00:24:26,560
Speaker 1: I quote, I just want to be with family. I'm

477
00:24:26,560 --> 00:24:28,440
Speaker 1: not where I thought this was going first of all.

478
00:24:28,480 --> 00:24:32,080
Speaker 1: But aside from the fact that I get so irate

479
00:24:32,160 --> 00:24:33,680
Speaker 1: when I'm woken up in the middle of the night,

480
00:24:33,720 --> 00:24:36,679
Speaker 1: I was especially upset because it made me very feel

481
00:24:36,760 --> 00:24:39,879
Speaker 1: very unimportant. It just felt ridiculous to me that if

482
00:24:40,000 --> 00:24:42,800
Speaker 1: I if it was worth being so disrespectful for something,

483
00:24:42,840 --> 00:24:44,760
Speaker 1: that it could have waited until the next next day

484
00:24:44,800 --> 00:24:47,040
Speaker 1: to be discussed. What made it worse was that she

485
00:24:47,119 --> 00:24:48,960
Speaker 1: asked a bunch of the other girls to wake me

486
00:24:49,040 --> 00:24:50,760
Speaker 1: up so I wouldn't be mad at her, and none

487
00:24:50,800 --> 00:24:53,640
Speaker 1: of the other girls wanted to because they didn't want

488
00:24:53,680 --> 00:24:56,080
Speaker 1: me to be mad at them either. But all they

489
00:24:56,080 --> 00:24:57,960
Speaker 1: were worried about was me just being mad at them,

490
00:24:58,040 --> 00:25:02,120
Speaker 1: not about why I would be mad. How disrespectful waking

491
00:25:02,119 --> 00:25:04,840
Speaker 1: me up and asking me to move was. Do you

492
00:25:04,880 --> 00:25:07,280
Speaker 1: think I had the right to be upset after the incident,

493
00:25:07,320 --> 00:25:09,199
Speaker 1: I just couldn't get back into the party mode and

494
00:25:09,240 --> 00:25:11,520
Speaker 1: I just wanted to go home. Part of me felt

495
00:25:11,600 --> 00:25:13,760
Speaker 1: very dramatic, but the other part of me felt like

496
00:25:13,800 --> 00:25:16,840
Speaker 1: I was justified and being offended. Let me clarify that

497
00:25:16,920 --> 00:25:20,280
Speaker 1: everyone is in their thirties. This isn't high school anymore, ladies,

498
00:25:20,480 --> 00:25:24,720
Speaker 1: Thanks Marilyn. I would be annoying, would be especially if

499
00:25:24,760 --> 00:25:28,400
Speaker 1: it was planned out in advance, like because what kind

500
00:25:28,400 --> 00:25:32,959
Speaker 1: of fucking ego does it take to like, I'm so annoyed.

501
00:25:33,240 --> 00:25:35,320
Speaker 1: I want that bed and I'm going to ask the

502
00:25:35,359 --> 00:25:37,760
Speaker 1: person who is asleep to give it to me and

503
00:25:37,760 --> 00:25:39,680
Speaker 1: go sleep on a cop I just want to be like, hello,

504
00:25:39,920 --> 00:25:42,480
Speaker 1: she's already asleep, Like you go sleep on the cop bitch.

505
00:25:43,320 --> 00:25:45,200
Speaker 1: If you one of that beds so bad, you should

506
00:25:45,200 --> 00:25:47,679
Speaker 1: have raised your hand when it was being discussed. Also

507
00:25:47,960 --> 00:25:50,520
Speaker 1: totally by and she's like, quote unquote, I just want

508
00:25:50,520 --> 00:25:54,040
Speaker 1: to be with my family. That's annoying because like you

509
00:25:54,080 --> 00:25:57,120
Speaker 1: should have made those arrangements before and made it very clear, like, hey,

510
00:25:57,160 --> 00:25:59,199
Speaker 1: my sister is going to sleep with me, you know

511
00:25:59,280 --> 00:26:01,879
Speaker 1: this is the deal. Well, I mean that's that was

512
00:26:01,920 --> 00:26:05,639
Speaker 1: the only excuse that like gave it a modicum of

513
00:26:06,920 --> 00:26:12,159
Speaker 1: Wait what a modicum, I don't know, probably words like

514
00:26:12,200 --> 00:26:16,320
Speaker 1: any credible understand that one, you know, like you gave

515
00:26:16,359 --> 00:26:19,280
Speaker 1: it a dot of credibility. And by the way, it's

516
00:26:19,280 --> 00:26:23,199
Speaker 1: a terrible excuse. It's so stupid. Also, the fact that

517
00:26:23,240 --> 00:26:25,400
Speaker 1: she brought the other girls in. It was like, can

518
00:26:25,440 --> 00:26:27,200
Speaker 1: you guys go tell her? This is why I hate

519
00:26:27,200 --> 00:26:30,040
Speaker 1: brides right, Like this is when you go this is

520
00:26:30,080 --> 00:26:32,960
Speaker 1: a bridezilla moment. No, no, no, no no. Just because

521
00:26:32,960 --> 00:26:35,280
Speaker 1: you're the bride doesn't mean you stop being a human

522
00:26:35,560 --> 00:26:39,000
Speaker 1: and like, stop being a friend to Maryland. I'm totally

523
00:26:39,000 --> 00:26:41,560
Speaker 1: on Maryland's side. Me too. I would have said no,

524
00:26:41,640 --> 00:26:43,359
Speaker 1: I'm on right back to bed and then left the

525
00:26:43,440 --> 00:26:45,639
Speaker 1: next day. I would have just played, like what is

526
00:26:45,680 --> 00:26:48,600
Speaker 1: our friend do? I would have appeed and then gotten

527
00:26:48,600 --> 00:26:50,920
Speaker 1: out of bed. I would have played pausing and pretend

528
00:26:51,000 --> 00:26:54,679
Speaker 1: like I didn't hear it. Just get up swinging like

529
00:26:54,760 --> 00:26:57,160
Speaker 1: you think someone's breaking in. You're like, oh my god. Yeah.

530
00:26:57,840 --> 00:27:00,280
Speaker 1: I would have definitely just peed the bed and called

531
00:27:00,280 --> 00:27:06,080
Speaker 1: it sure you can sleep here? I was sorry, did

532
00:27:06,119 --> 00:27:10,119
Speaker 1: I do that? Do that? Okay? So Maryland, No, you

533
00:27:10,160 --> 00:27:11,760
Speaker 1: had every right to be mad. The only thing I

534
00:27:11,760 --> 00:27:14,679
Speaker 1: would say now is how valuable are these friendships to you?

535
00:27:14,760 --> 00:27:18,040
Speaker 1: And if they're valuable, maybe just let it go. It

536
00:27:18,160 --> 00:27:20,760
Speaker 1: might not be worth it to start the argument, you

537
00:27:20,760 --> 00:27:23,359
Speaker 1: know what I mean. If you're in your thirties, sometimes

538
00:27:23,359 --> 00:27:26,960
Speaker 1: you just know what to expect from those friends. The

539
00:27:27,600 --> 00:27:30,119
Speaker 1: hate when you've got to follow it away in another category.

540
00:27:30,280 --> 00:27:32,600
Speaker 1: Do you know what I'm saying. You had a friend

541
00:27:32,600 --> 00:27:35,000
Speaker 1: in a certain category and then something happens and you're like, well,

542
00:27:35,080 --> 00:27:37,840
Speaker 1: now I know where to follow you. And it can

543
00:27:37,880 --> 00:27:41,600
Speaker 1: happen like look my um, my mom and one of

544
00:27:41,640 --> 00:27:44,280
Speaker 1: her best friends. Like I won't go into the whole story,

545
00:27:44,320 --> 00:27:47,919
Speaker 1: but like a couple a year ago, something happened and

546
00:27:47,960 --> 00:27:52,320
Speaker 1: it's like, my mom is in her seventies and happens

547
00:27:52,359 --> 00:27:55,159
Speaker 1: for the rest of our lives, like she and it was,

548
00:27:55,440 --> 00:27:57,439
Speaker 1: you know, it was like my mom thought she was

549
00:27:57,480 --> 00:27:59,679
Speaker 1: doing the right thing and it upset her friend, and

550
00:27:59,720 --> 00:28:02,560
Speaker 1: like they used to talk several times a day. Yeah,

551
00:28:02,600 --> 00:28:04,639
Speaker 1: and they're still friends. But it's not like it was

552
00:28:05,520 --> 00:28:09,800
Speaker 1: so sad. Yeah, it's so these things like friends show

553
00:28:09,840 --> 00:28:12,040
Speaker 1: their true colors sometimes and you have to follow in

554
00:28:12,080 --> 00:28:14,720
Speaker 1: a different category. The hard thing is, my mom always

555
00:28:14,720 --> 00:28:17,119
Speaker 1: says where there's people, there's problems, and so it's just

556
00:28:17,160 --> 00:28:20,760
Speaker 1: like relationships are so hard, you know, even friendships, and

557
00:28:20,800 --> 00:28:22,919
Speaker 1: so it's like, how do you get out of yourself

558
00:28:22,920 --> 00:28:25,639
Speaker 1: for a second ago? You know, it's really not that important.

559
00:28:25,680 --> 00:28:29,720
Speaker 1: Everyone was doing jealous shots like that would be my recommendation, Maryland.

560
00:28:29,760 --> 00:28:32,119
Speaker 1: It's just kind of go and you know what, you

561
00:28:32,160 --> 00:28:34,320
Speaker 1: could always like bring it back up, like in a

562
00:28:34,320 --> 00:28:37,000
Speaker 1: funny way, like, hey, do you want the bed tonight?

563
00:28:37,080 --> 00:28:39,520
Speaker 1: Are you gonna want this bed or that bad? Like

564
00:28:39,720 --> 00:28:42,640
Speaker 1: just like make it like just shame her with like

565
00:28:42,800 --> 00:28:46,160
Speaker 1: literally yeah, it's totally do you want to be with family?

566
00:28:47,320 --> 00:28:48,920
Speaker 1: Like on the wedding day, walk in the room and

567
00:28:48,920 --> 00:28:51,120
Speaker 1: be like, sorry, did you just want to be with family?

568
00:28:52,160 --> 00:28:55,160
Speaker 1: It's awkward? What a bit. Just never let her forget it.

569
00:28:55,360 --> 00:28:58,000
Speaker 1: Never you're like they try to do the dance party

570
00:28:58,040 --> 00:28:59,400
Speaker 1: later and you're like, I'm sorry, I'm gonna be asleep

571
00:28:59,400 --> 00:29:02,000
Speaker 1: on my car. I gotta go over on the cot.

572
00:29:02,320 --> 00:29:04,520
Speaker 1: I can't dance. My back's been hurting from sleeping on

573
00:29:04,560 --> 00:29:11,000
Speaker 1: that damn cor. Give her a wedding gift that says,

574
00:29:11,120 --> 00:29:15,320
Speaker 1: you know, like just I love being with family. Give

575
00:29:15,360 --> 00:29:19,240
Speaker 1: her when you get back from the honeymoon and here's

576
00:29:19,240 --> 00:29:29,959
Speaker 1: a big fucking cock Cot casual. Okay, this one's from Taylor. Actually,

577
00:29:29,960 --> 00:29:31,920
Speaker 1: this one made me laugh out loud a little bit earlier.

578
00:29:32,320 --> 00:29:35,520
Speaker 1: Um she So she messaged back to my Instagram post

579
00:29:35,560 --> 00:29:37,880
Speaker 1: about questions, and she goes, not a question. But here's

580
00:29:37,880 --> 00:29:40,720
Speaker 1: a funny story for you. I feel like this is Brittany,

581
00:29:40,800 --> 00:29:43,400
Speaker 1: you know, inspired from our jaw the other week. But

582
00:29:43,520 --> 00:29:47,080
Speaker 1: here we go. Funny story. After my doors my divorce,

583
00:29:47,120 --> 00:29:50,760
Speaker 1: I was living up my sled of paluza hashtag sled

584
00:29:50,840 --> 00:29:54,040
Speaker 1: a Palouza. Well, I ate the little kids fries that

585
00:29:54,080 --> 00:29:57,680
Speaker 1: looked like smiley faces and got drunk. I don't know

586
00:29:57,720 --> 00:30:03,520
Speaker 1: what that means. Is that drugs? Baby? I feel so

587
00:30:05,120 --> 00:30:08,960
Speaker 1: I ate the little kids fries that looks like smiley

588
00:30:09,000 --> 00:30:15,280
Speaker 1: faces and got drunk. Maybe it's a drunk reference. God,

589
00:30:15,320 --> 00:30:18,160
Speaker 1: are we old? I don't know. Okay, So let's just

590
00:30:18,160 --> 00:30:21,280
Speaker 1: go with Taylor's fucked up. Okay, Okay. So I was

591
00:30:21,320 --> 00:30:23,479
Speaker 1: doing my best to impress this guy I was with

592
00:30:23,560 --> 00:30:26,240
Speaker 1: and I was giving him a blowjob. Next thing I know,

593
00:30:26,520 --> 00:30:30,800
Speaker 1: I throw up on his dick, vomit and a dick

594
00:30:30,880 --> 00:30:34,600
Speaker 1: in my mouth. Somehow I managed to swallow my own

595
00:30:34,800 --> 00:30:38,640
Speaker 1: vomit and continue with the blowjob. I shouldn't be proud

596
00:30:38,640 --> 00:30:40,840
Speaker 1: of that, but honestly, when I asked about it months later,

597
00:30:41,160 --> 00:30:43,400
Speaker 1: he didn't know that it happened, and I was pretty proud.

598
00:30:45,200 --> 00:30:46,760
Speaker 1: I love it. I wonder how proud he would have

599
00:30:46,800 --> 00:30:49,320
Speaker 1: been knowing that, like he made you puke, because like

600
00:30:49,360 --> 00:30:53,560
Speaker 1: because I mean, he's like, oh, my dick. Gross. Guys

601
00:30:53,560 --> 00:30:58,040
Speaker 1: are so stupid about their dick. It's so disgusting. Like

602
00:30:58,120 --> 00:31:00,680
Speaker 1: guys are so the thing about the size of a

603
00:31:00,800 --> 00:31:03,360
Speaker 1: dick is the biggest thing in a guy's life. I mean,

604
00:31:03,400 --> 00:31:06,080
Speaker 1: I think it controls a lot. What do you mean, like,

605
00:31:06,120 --> 00:31:07,560
Speaker 1: if you have a big dick, you get to do

606
00:31:07,600 --> 00:31:11,320
Speaker 1: a lot of stuff. I don't think it means. I

607
00:31:11,320 --> 00:31:14,120
Speaker 1: think you can tell like there is like people have

608
00:31:14,120 --> 00:31:19,080
Speaker 1: swaggers energy, there's also there's assholes who have the smallest dick.

609
00:31:23,200 --> 00:31:27,400
Speaker 1: Totally okay, Well, was it was it big? I want

610
00:31:27,400 --> 00:31:28,760
Speaker 1: to know if it was a big dick or if

611
00:31:28,800 --> 00:31:31,320
Speaker 1: she just should have written her back. I mean, I mean,

612
00:31:31,320 --> 00:31:34,880
Speaker 1: obviously the gag reflexes there, and if you had eaten

613
00:31:34,920 --> 00:31:37,880
Speaker 1: a little kid fries that look like smiley faces. I

614
00:31:37,880 --> 00:31:41,760
Speaker 1: don't know what she's like tripping acid and we're like,

615
00:31:41,920 --> 00:31:44,640
Speaker 1: what does that mean? French fries look like smiley faces?

616
00:31:45,600 --> 00:31:48,440
Speaker 1: Do they make those? Can you buy like smiley face

617
00:31:48,520 --> 00:31:50,560
Speaker 1: French fries? Well, you know the last time I was like,

618
00:31:50,600 --> 00:31:55,760
Speaker 1: did my acid research? I don't fucking know. Jeff God, Okay,

619
00:31:55,800 --> 00:31:57,920
Speaker 1: this one is actually funny because I didn't know what

620
00:31:57,960 --> 00:31:59,320
Speaker 1: this meant, and I feel like you're gonna be like,

621
00:31:59,320 --> 00:32:03,160
Speaker 1: oh god God. So this girl wrote how do you

622
00:32:03,280 --> 00:32:06,160
Speaker 1: straight men feel about as play and pegging? And we

623
00:32:06,200 --> 00:32:10,680
Speaker 1: had another girl right us that said, hold on, will

624
00:32:10,760 --> 00:32:14,480
Speaker 1: to find it? Okay, don't judge me, but to do

625
00:32:14,640 --> 00:32:20,240
Speaker 1: guys like it when girls peg them? I'm dying to know. Okay,

626
00:32:20,680 --> 00:32:23,520
Speaker 1: thank you. I literally just go, well, if I knew

627
00:32:23,520 --> 00:32:25,680
Speaker 1: what pegging was, then maybe I could answer, and she

628
00:32:25,720 --> 00:32:27,920
Speaker 1: goes ha ha ha laugh my ass off, and I

629
00:32:27,960 --> 00:32:30,160
Speaker 1: was like, oh my god, okay, well I just did

630
00:32:30,200 --> 00:32:33,560
Speaker 1: a Google search urban dictionary. What does it mean? Well, first,

631
00:32:33,720 --> 00:32:35,240
Speaker 1: you know how the Google comes up with like the

632
00:32:35,360 --> 00:32:38,120
Speaker 1: big answer at the top I do it just says

633
00:32:38,160 --> 00:32:41,880
Speaker 1: equal opportunity sex act. I'm on my work computer. By

634
00:32:41,880 --> 00:32:45,240
Speaker 1: the way, too, she missed it. Or if this is

635
00:32:45,280 --> 00:32:47,680
Speaker 1: the first time you're hearing of the empowering sex act.

636
00:32:47,760 --> 00:32:50,479
Speaker 1: Pegging is when a woman wears a strap on dildo

637
00:32:50,560 --> 00:32:54,280
Speaker 1: and penetrates her partner anally. Okay, I have some things

638
00:32:54,320 --> 00:32:57,280
Speaker 1: to say about this actually, So do you guys remember

639
00:32:57,440 --> 00:33:01,400
Speaker 1: when I like pouring third glass of wine? You guys,

640
00:33:01,440 --> 00:33:05,480
Speaker 1: I love it. This has been not my week, okay,

641
00:33:05,720 --> 00:33:08,360
Speaker 1: So I'm going to regret this later when I released

642
00:33:08,360 --> 00:33:09,840
Speaker 1: this and my mom's texting me and she's like, are

643
00:33:09,840 --> 00:33:14,120
Speaker 1: you okay? But sometimes, you know, the thing is obvious?

644
00:33:14,120 --> 00:33:19,000
Speaker 1: Sleep by eight sleep okay. So remember the time I

645
00:33:19,080 --> 00:33:21,880
Speaker 1: told you guys about how I had that one night

646
00:33:21,920 --> 00:33:25,040
Speaker 1: stand with the padres player and the girl that I

647
00:33:25,080 --> 00:33:26,960
Speaker 1: was with was like cooking up with the other one.

648
00:33:27,400 --> 00:33:31,560
Speaker 1: Do you know how she used to keep him interested him?

649
00:33:31,680 --> 00:33:33,720
Speaker 1: She used to peg the funk out of him. I

650
00:33:33,720 --> 00:33:35,920
Speaker 1: had to go with her one time to buy a dildo,

651
00:33:36,320 --> 00:33:39,840
Speaker 1: a strap one. It was interesting. She got a smaller

652
00:33:39,880 --> 00:33:44,400
Speaker 1: size and I was like interesting, noted, okay, but he

653
00:33:44,560 --> 00:33:48,160
Speaker 1: loved it and he was like the most masculine, like,

654
00:33:48,280 --> 00:33:55,000
Speaker 1: it's definitely not about your sexuality. That guy was like, well,

655
00:33:55,520 --> 00:34:00,960
Speaker 1: I mean I will tell you the so okay. Have also,

656
00:34:01,560 --> 00:34:04,280
Speaker 1: I have a lot of questions, so we have, Like

657
00:34:04,400 --> 00:34:07,480
Speaker 1: the clitoris you know which is I have heard said

658
00:34:08,000 --> 00:34:11,040
Speaker 1: that there's no other part of a human body that's

659
00:34:11,400 --> 00:34:16,160
Speaker 1: purely for pleasure, Like you think about it, you're dick peace.

660
00:34:16,880 --> 00:34:19,520
Speaker 1: I mean, so you have pleasure, but you also use

661
00:34:19,560 --> 00:34:23,799
Speaker 1: it to urinate. Um, everything else about us, like internally

662
00:34:23,960 --> 00:34:27,520
Speaker 1: has other functions. So the clip is literally the only

663
00:34:27,600 --> 00:34:31,880
Speaker 1: place made just for pleasure. But is the g spot

664
00:34:31,960 --> 00:34:36,320
Speaker 1: in a male's ass that way? Well, it's the prostate, right,

665
00:34:36,400 --> 00:34:39,240
Speaker 1: so it has another functions. Another what does the prostate

666
00:34:39,280 --> 00:34:40,759
Speaker 1: even do? I don't know. I don't know. It gets

667
00:34:40,760 --> 00:34:43,000
Speaker 1: cancer a lot. You know that it's a really bad

668
00:34:43,080 --> 00:34:46,360
Speaker 1: cancer to get. Yeah, it's like insurvival. I mean I

669
00:34:46,360 --> 00:34:48,600
Speaker 1: think there's probably people who've survived. I hope so, but

670
00:34:48,719 --> 00:34:51,520
Speaker 1: it's very low survival. But yeah, it's a very serious cancer.

671
00:34:51,640 --> 00:34:55,960
Speaker 1: So yes, So, um, that's interesting. So it's inside of

672
00:34:56,000 --> 00:34:59,799
Speaker 1: a man's ass, Yes, and that's what stimulated. But it's

673
00:35:00,200 --> 00:35:03,480
Speaker 1: because a lot of hetero guys are so like no

674
00:35:03,320 --> 00:35:05,600
Speaker 1: no no, no no no no. But sometimes I'm like,

675
00:35:05,880 --> 00:35:08,359
Speaker 1: but you would like it, I bet totally. I mean

676
00:35:08,400 --> 00:35:10,840
Speaker 1: I think a lot of the hesitancy is more of

677
00:35:10,880 --> 00:35:15,279
Speaker 1: a mental thing and society does this? Does this make

678
00:35:15,280 --> 00:35:17,120
Speaker 1: me gay? No? I mean I think like that's the

679
00:35:17,160 --> 00:35:20,640
Speaker 1: whole thing about sex is like you're not. It's even

680
00:35:20,640 --> 00:35:23,279
Speaker 1: though we're sitting here talking to strangers about it. It's

681
00:35:23,280 --> 00:35:25,799
Speaker 1: not like sex is meant to be like you put

682
00:35:25,800 --> 00:35:28,239
Speaker 1: it on Facebook every day like oh I did this,

683
00:35:28,560 --> 00:35:31,919
Speaker 1: like we do. Literally that it is about like doing

684
00:35:31,960 --> 00:35:34,759
Speaker 1: what makes you feel good, and you know, like no

685
00:35:34,880 --> 00:35:39,239
Speaker 1: shame about it. I have no shame about it. And um,

686
00:35:39,280 --> 00:35:41,000
Speaker 1: I was trying to find a quote. I can't even

687
00:35:41,000 --> 00:35:44,560
Speaker 1: remember the actor's name. Let go and let God don't

688
00:35:44,560 --> 00:35:47,520
Speaker 1: find it. Let it happen. You just bring God into

689
00:35:47,560 --> 00:35:51,880
Speaker 1: like a play. Why not God created sex? I mean, listen,

690
00:35:52,400 --> 00:35:55,960
Speaker 1: don't make me go down? All right? Yeah, I mean

691
00:35:56,320 --> 00:35:59,160
Speaker 1: I think that's really interesting. It's like I don't think that.

692
00:35:59,440 --> 00:36:01,839
Speaker 1: I mean, for those of you who don't know any

693
00:36:01,920 --> 00:36:05,600
Speaker 1: gay terms, that bottoming is what you would call receiving

694
00:36:05,600 --> 00:36:09,960
Speaker 1: a penis in your butt. You giving these scientific definition

695
00:36:10,400 --> 00:36:16,680
Speaker 1: tell us while being pegged, this baseball player is essentially bottoming.

696
00:36:17,239 --> 00:36:21,479
Speaker 1: And to a tiny little girl that I love gott

697
00:36:21,480 --> 00:36:22,960
Speaker 1: I wish she. I hope she had some whips or

698
00:36:23,080 --> 00:36:25,600
Speaker 1: I mean, it's probably a dominance thing, like he probably

699
00:36:25,719 --> 00:36:28,520
Speaker 1: probably dominated because he was like I think there's a

700
00:36:28,560 --> 00:36:31,480
Speaker 1: lot of people in a high pressure I've heard this,

701
00:36:31,800 --> 00:36:34,920
Speaker 1: if you're in a high pressure situation in your whole life,

702
00:36:35,040 --> 00:36:39,080
Speaker 1: like you might be into being dominated in the bedroom,

703
00:36:39,320 --> 00:36:42,040
Speaker 1: right because you don't Maybe we've had questions about that.

704
00:36:42,440 --> 00:36:45,040
Speaker 1: I don't know if we've definitely like touched on that

705
00:36:45,080 --> 00:36:47,120
Speaker 1: at some point. I talked to a dominator who I

706
00:36:47,160 --> 00:36:49,320
Speaker 1: should have her on the podcast. I bet she'd be interesting.

707
00:36:49,320 --> 00:36:51,760
Speaker 1: I talked to a dominatrix one time, which was an

708
00:36:51,800 --> 00:36:55,520
Speaker 1: interesting experience because I would, you know, maybe follow them

709
00:36:55,560 --> 00:36:58,279
Speaker 1: away as something else in my head. And it's so

710
00:36:58,360 --> 00:37:02,719
Speaker 1: about with what she is about power and the power shifting,

711
00:37:02,840 --> 00:37:05,239
Speaker 1: and like the guys that she goes in or even

712
00:37:05,239 --> 00:37:07,160
Speaker 1: the women, it's like a lot of times they want

713
00:37:07,200 --> 00:37:10,440
Speaker 1: to be not in power, and so it's kind of

714
00:37:10,480 --> 00:37:13,879
Speaker 1: maybe like that. Plus maybe it feels good, yeah, I mean,

715
00:37:14,080 --> 00:37:17,839
Speaker 1: and the and the truth is that it does feel good.

716
00:37:18,600 --> 00:37:22,320
Speaker 1: And um, I mean I think that, like there's probably

717
00:37:22,320 --> 00:37:24,480
Speaker 1: not a mail that's had it. I mean, look, there

718
00:37:24,480 --> 00:37:27,759
Speaker 1: there are some painful aspects to it, like just like

719
00:37:27,800 --> 00:37:31,840
Speaker 1: there is well you need lube, yeah, you like it

720
00:37:31,880 --> 00:37:35,400
Speaker 1: takes a second, like you don't just like jambling like

721
00:37:35,480 --> 00:37:37,960
Speaker 1: I mean, I mean, you experience the same things. Yeah,

722
00:37:38,280 --> 00:37:42,920
Speaker 1: so um, but you know, I think that um, I

723
00:37:43,040 --> 00:37:46,680
Speaker 1: sort of lost the point though I'm gonna make but

724
00:37:47,840 --> 00:37:50,000
Speaker 1: I think that there's nothing like it doesn't make someone

725
00:37:50,160 --> 00:37:57,840
Speaker 1: less masculine to enjoy being pleasured that yeah, being pegged.

726
00:37:58,280 --> 00:38:01,520
Speaker 1: So um, look, I think it might be a hard

727
00:38:01,680 --> 00:38:04,520
Speaker 1: thing to like go into the locker room and be like, hey, guys,

728
00:38:04,560 --> 00:38:06,600
Speaker 1: my wife sucked me with a dildo last night, and

729
00:38:06,600 --> 00:38:09,480
Speaker 1: have everyone something you keep in the bedroom. You keep this,

730
00:38:10,320 --> 00:38:13,279
Speaker 1: that's just that's fine. But or maybe we normalize it?

731
00:38:15,520 --> 00:38:20,799
Speaker 1: Should I try it? Oh my god, Christmas gift. You're

732
00:38:20,840 --> 00:38:26,919
Speaker 1: like like what like going my got me like going? My? Guy?

733
00:38:27,000 --> 00:38:28,759
Speaker 1: I will tell you this, I will never look at

734
00:38:28,760 --> 00:38:31,239
Speaker 1: a woman named Peg the same way. Do you know

735
00:38:31,320 --> 00:38:33,319
Speaker 1: a lot of Peg? I mean, I know a couple

736
00:38:33,320 --> 00:38:37,880
Speaker 1: of Peggy's, Peggy, Peggy, Peggy, the peg Peggy short for

737
00:38:37,960 --> 00:38:43,759
Speaker 1: something like actually I think it's Patricia. Surely no one

738
00:38:43,800 --> 00:38:46,480
Speaker 1: looks at their beautiful baby girl. And guess I would

739
00:38:46,520 --> 00:38:49,200
Speaker 1: think that about a lot of names though, And unfortunately

740
00:38:49,239 --> 00:38:52,160
Speaker 1: I think sorry Peggy's out there, They're like, you know

741
00:38:52,200 --> 00:38:54,280
Speaker 1: what I need to just name this baby boy stand

742
00:38:54,560 --> 00:38:57,200
Speaker 1: but I think anyone named Peggy needs to fucking own

743
00:38:57,280 --> 00:39:00,239
Speaker 1: that ship now and start sucking their dude. I'm mother

744
00:39:00,320 --> 00:39:06,840
Speaker 1: fucking pexter. Anybody want to get pegged? I want to

745
00:39:06,840 --> 00:39:10,160
Speaker 1: know if these girls have got Peggy got peg? Is

746
00:39:10,160 --> 00:39:13,360
Speaker 1: that our next stay added to the list? Do you

747
00:39:13,640 --> 00:39:19,560
Speaker 1: know that I posted about our merch my Instagram because like,

748
00:39:19,680 --> 00:39:21,959
Speaker 1: people keep messaging me about it. So I was like, Okay,

749
00:39:21,960 --> 00:39:24,080
Speaker 1: I'm gonna make a list. What am I missing? I

750
00:39:24,120 --> 00:39:28,960
Speaker 1: got half of them wrong. I'm like, don't I can't remember.

751
00:39:29,120 --> 00:39:32,000
Speaker 1: We've got to keep a running one. If anyone's listening

752
00:39:32,000 --> 00:39:34,360
Speaker 1: that remembers it, I said, Like when I said it,

753
00:39:34,400 --> 00:39:35,960
Speaker 1: I was like an off handed It was like, what

754
00:39:36,120 --> 00:39:38,960
Speaker 1: the something? And I said trademark or like TM and

755
00:39:40,239 --> 00:39:42,480
Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to go back and listen because I cannot.

756
00:39:42,560 --> 00:39:44,160
Speaker 1: For the life of me. It was like what the

757
00:39:44,239 --> 00:39:48,080
Speaker 1: actual something? Or what the actual Yeah, if you remember

758
00:39:48,360 --> 00:39:52,279
Speaker 1: messages to the CHIP because I'm serious, once I get

759
00:39:52,320 --> 00:39:54,480
Speaker 1: my life together and do my taxes or I'm gonna

760
00:39:54,520 --> 00:39:57,560
Speaker 1: make march. I mean, are you going to get us

761
00:39:57,560 --> 00:40:01,919
Speaker 1: on cameo? Too? Because about that A lot actually don't

762
00:40:01,960 --> 00:40:03,959
Speaker 1: want to do it. I mean I kind of don't either,

763
00:40:04,000 --> 00:40:06,920
Speaker 1: but I kind of do. Like that mentor thing that

764
00:40:06,960 --> 00:40:08,360
Speaker 1: you sent me. I think that was really funny. But

765
00:40:08,480 --> 00:40:10,399
Speaker 1: did send you You were like, I mean I would

766
00:40:10,400 --> 00:40:12,239
Speaker 1: suggest that we would do this, but then I think

767
00:40:12,239 --> 00:40:16,640
Speaker 1: about camy, mentor dot com or like you can pay

768
00:40:16,840 --> 00:40:19,440
Speaker 1: people can pass for advice. This is what happened. So

769
00:40:19,480 --> 00:40:22,399
Speaker 1: what had happened was so I got this email from

770
00:40:22,440 --> 00:40:24,920
Speaker 1: another company, is like Camyo is probably like competition, but

771
00:40:25,000 --> 00:40:28,160
Speaker 1: like way lower rated. I'm sure. And he was like,

772
00:40:28,480 --> 00:40:30,879
Speaker 1: so I'm a huge fan and blah blah blah blah

773
00:40:30,880 --> 00:40:33,120
Speaker 1: blah blah blah blah blah. And I afforded it to

774
00:40:33,200 --> 00:40:34,640
Speaker 1: Chip and I was like, I mean, I would run

775
00:40:34,719 --> 00:40:36,560
Speaker 1: him back, but I'm just waiting to hear back from

776
00:40:36,560 --> 00:40:39,280
Speaker 1: our cameo. I can hear. I just pulled up the email.

777
00:40:39,520 --> 00:40:41,600
Speaker 1: It says I would tell him we're already on cameo,

778
00:40:41,760 --> 00:40:49,640
Speaker 1: but but literally it's mentor dot com and it's that

779
00:40:49,760 --> 00:40:52,520
Speaker 1: people ask for advice and we send a video back

780
00:40:52,520 --> 00:40:55,400
Speaker 1: with advice. I mean yeah, and I kind of feel

781
00:40:55,440 --> 00:40:57,640
Speaker 1: like I would much rather people just email us here

782
00:40:57,680 --> 00:40:59,680
Speaker 1: and then we like get to share that advice with

783
00:40:59,719 --> 00:41:05,280
Speaker 1: every body. Sorry, sorry, yeah, we'll see you guys on cameo. Okay,

784
00:41:05,440 --> 00:41:10,120
Speaker 1: so never never, I was just dropping that for you

785
00:41:10,719 --> 00:41:14,440
Speaker 1: I have. This is not a question this guy. This

786
00:41:14,480 --> 00:41:15,600
Speaker 1: is the kind of ship that I get. You know,

787
00:41:15,640 --> 00:41:18,279
Speaker 1: I get a lot of stuff. I get a lot

788
00:41:18,320 --> 00:41:24,880
Speaker 1: of messages about my feet. But did you change it? Also?

789
00:41:24,960 --> 00:41:27,719
Speaker 1: And like I'm also just sort of like, you know,

790
00:41:27,760 --> 00:41:30,200
Speaker 1: maybe we should just go there? Is that our next move?

791
00:41:31,040 --> 00:41:33,040
Speaker 1: It shouldn't be when I get the tattoo removed? Should

792
00:41:33,040 --> 00:41:37,760
Speaker 1: I document the process? Right? Lots to think about. Okay,

793
00:41:38,440 --> 00:41:40,040
Speaker 1: these are the kind of things that want. If we

794
00:41:40,160 --> 00:41:43,800
Speaker 1: made that had your tattoo on it. Oh, it's so cheesy.

795
00:41:43,840 --> 00:41:46,279
Speaker 1: It's savage and you're going to use that word. It's

796
00:41:46,320 --> 00:41:49,400
Speaker 1: like the cheesiest But I buy them, so whatever. Okay,

797
00:41:49,440 --> 00:41:51,520
Speaker 1: So this guy writes me. First of all, his name

798
00:41:51,600 --> 00:41:55,200
Speaker 1: is Simo. Hashtag. He tried to hashtag his own name

799
00:41:55,480 --> 00:41:57,239
Speaker 1: and he didn't finish it. Maybe it's supposed to be

800
00:41:57,239 --> 00:42:02,040
Speaker 1: Simon anyway, it doesn't matter. He writes hey, and I

801
00:42:02,080 --> 00:42:05,920
Speaker 1: don't respond. Then he writes that was in January or

802
00:42:05,920 --> 00:42:10,799
Speaker 1: two thousan So I got another one today though it

803
00:42:10,880 --> 00:42:12,759
Speaker 1: was whenever I posted about what do you guys want

804
00:42:12,760 --> 00:42:17,719
Speaker 1: to know? And he wrote, hey, hon, and something inside

805
00:42:17,800 --> 00:42:24,000
Speaker 1: of my body just like curled. I cannot fucking stand

806
00:42:24,040 --> 00:42:29,280
Speaker 1: when a guy calls me hon. It is the worst,

807
00:42:29,320 --> 00:42:31,719
Speaker 1: Like I just don't. I mean, my boyfriend every now

808
00:42:31,719 --> 00:42:33,000
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna do it, And now he does it

809
00:42:33,000 --> 00:42:34,960
Speaker 1: to piss me off because I've told him, but he

810
00:42:35,120 --> 00:42:40,800
Speaker 1: said it, and I'm just like, no, no, it's so degrading. Literally,

811
00:42:40,800 --> 00:42:42,759
Speaker 1: I'd rather you call me a slued. It doesn't even

812
00:42:42,760 --> 00:42:45,480
Speaker 1: sound like a word. Hey hon, What would you feel

813
00:42:45,520 --> 00:42:50,600
Speaker 1: like if someone called you honn? I could talk about

814
00:42:50,600 --> 00:42:53,120
Speaker 1: this topic for days because it pisses me off so much.

815
00:42:53,160 --> 00:42:55,600
Speaker 1: But I'm so curious if other people have pet names

816
00:42:55,600 --> 00:42:59,000
Speaker 1: they don't like? Is this a topic? Do you have

817
00:42:59,040 --> 00:43:01,799
Speaker 1: any pet name that that really just drive you crazy?

818
00:43:01,920 --> 00:43:03,799
Speaker 1: Or like? Have you ever been dating someone and they

819
00:43:03,840 --> 00:43:05,560
Speaker 1: say something and it makes you cringe and you're like

820
00:43:05,600 --> 00:43:09,279
Speaker 1: don't now. The worst is when someone you barely know

821
00:43:09,400 --> 00:43:13,440
Speaker 1: gives you a nickname. Oh, I have a situation like

822
00:43:13,440 --> 00:43:15,800
Speaker 1: when someone's like, hey, Chipster and I'm like, you don't

823
00:43:15,840 --> 00:43:21,320
Speaker 1: fucking know me, don't call me Chipster. I'm not five.

824
00:43:22,880 --> 00:43:28,680
Speaker 1: Chip is already bad? Well, I mean, Frank, let's get

825
00:43:28,840 --> 00:43:32,920
Speaker 1: right here. Frank's Chip's first name for anyone, as is

826
00:43:32,960 --> 00:43:37,680
Speaker 1: my real name, Frank Chip. I wish tell us your name.

827
00:43:37,840 --> 00:43:42,360
Speaker 1: I can't say. My middle name is Listener. My middle

828
00:43:42,480 --> 00:43:45,960
Speaker 1: name is Adolph. Oh. I see, I didn't want to

829
00:43:46,000 --> 00:43:48,799
Speaker 1: say that. I forgot, I forgot. I have to edit

830
00:43:48,840 --> 00:43:52,680
Speaker 1: that one out. No, never, it is spelled differently, but yes,

831
00:43:52,840 --> 00:43:55,120
Speaker 1: it's a family name. How do you spell it differently?

832
00:43:55,200 --> 00:43:57,879
Speaker 1: It's a D O L. But it's not like you're

833
00:43:58,000 --> 00:44:01,239
Speaker 1: you weren't born after the fat so what the fun? Now?

834
00:44:01,400 --> 00:44:04,719
Speaker 1: I was born after That's why it's even. Yeah, my

835
00:44:05,160 --> 00:44:07,319
Speaker 1: dad has the same name, my grandfather the same name,

836
00:44:07,360 --> 00:44:09,359
Speaker 1: my great grandfather the same Do you think it ever dawned?

837
00:44:09,360 --> 00:44:10,879
Speaker 1: And then though, you know, maybe this is a name,

838
00:44:10,880 --> 00:44:15,120
Speaker 1: but my dad wanted to retire it. Your mom wanted it.

839
00:44:15,400 --> 00:44:18,719
Speaker 1: My mom insisted because she was like, southern, have the

840
00:44:18,719 --> 00:44:21,200
Speaker 1: same name as your dad. I mean that's why God

841
00:44:21,280 --> 00:44:26,080
Speaker 1: was like, he gay, he's going to cut this one

842
00:44:26,160 --> 00:44:32,680
Speaker 1: off so he can't certificate. Gotta go, you better go.

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Speaker 1: Um No, literally, that's the worst. It is the worst.

844
00:44:37,400 --> 00:44:39,399
Speaker 1: And it's like a party trick, like I'll be like

845
00:44:39,520 --> 00:44:41,600
Speaker 1: at a bar and meeting new people. I'm like, you'll

846
00:44:41,600 --> 00:44:43,960
Speaker 1: never guess what my middle name is, and I'm like,

847
00:44:44,040 --> 00:44:47,040
Speaker 1: it is literally the worst name you could give somebody,

848
00:44:47,040 --> 00:44:48,680
Speaker 1: and no one guesses it. And then I showed them

849
00:44:48,719 --> 00:44:55,040
Speaker 1: my idea and they lose it. Do I do this one? Bottom? Um?

850
00:44:55,200 --> 00:44:59,799
Speaker 1: Maybe not? Okay? Good? Yeah, we'll save that one for

851
00:45:00,239 --> 00:45:07,319
Speaker 1: um today on a very special act casual. And I

852
00:45:07,320 --> 00:45:10,919
Speaker 1: feel like there's a lot to unpack there. Oh sorry, guys,

853
00:45:10,920 --> 00:45:13,359
Speaker 1: we're talking in code. We are. They're like, where did

854
00:45:13,440 --> 00:45:16,040
Speaker 1: they just go? They were just talking about eight off?

855
00:45:17,320 --> 00:45:20,440
Speaker 1: How did they just do this? This is what we do, guys.

856
00:45:20,520 --> 00:45:23,400
Speaker 1: We like long pauses on podcasts. Chip likes to go

857
00:45:23,480 --> 00:45:27,640
Speaker 1: through drawers and eat ice which he ate all the

858
00:45:27,719 --> 00:45:34,040
Speaker 1: eyes from his eyes coffee it apparently, Um, that's all

859
00:45:34,080 --> 00:45:36,359
Speaker 1: the questions that I'm think I'm going to go through them. Yeah.

860
00:45:36,400 --> 00:45:39,360
Speaker 1: I think that we've probably board people on up today.

861
00:45:39,640 --> 00:45:44,560
Speaker 1: I think it was fun for me, so entertaining. I'm

862
00:45:44,600 --> 00:45:46,839
Speaker 1: gonna listen back tomorrow and be like that was well,

863
00:45:47,120 --> 00:45:49,480
Speaker 1: here's the thing that you guys need to know. Every week,

864
00:45:50,040 --> 00:45:53,680
Speaker 1: Kelly's like, oh that was bad, wasn't it? Like every

865
00:45:53,680 --> 00:45:55,719
Speaker 1: week she doubts herself and I'm like, I don't know,

866
00:45:55,760 --> 00:45:57,719
Speaker 1: it felt really great and then she's like listens and

867
00:45:57,719 --> 00:46:00,120
Speaker 1: she's like like, no, it was really good. I have

868
00:46:00,200 --> 00:46:03,160
Speaker 1: this weird thing. Well, yeah, I just I never think

869
00:46:03,200 --> 00:46:05,359
Speaker 1: the work that I do, like when I first do it,

870
00:46:05,680 --> 00:46:08,279
Speaker 1: I'm always so critical. So that goes with everything I

871
00:46:08,280 --> 00:46:10,279
Speaker 1: have a hard time posting about like my work on

872
00:46:10,280 --> 00:46:12,640
Speaker 1: social media. Like I just I don't know. It's like

873
00:46:12,680 --> 00:46:15,279
Speaker 1: some sort of weird exposure and it's my perfectionism comes

874
00:46:15,280 --> 00:46:17,880
Speaker 1: out in the same way. But I'm letting go on,

875
00:46:17,960 --> 00:46:20,359
Speaker 1: letting God with this one. Well, I'm drinking wine and

876
00:46:20,680 --> 00:46:25,320
Speaker 1: going whatever that means. Um. I do love getting the

877
00:46:25,400 --> 00:46:28,839
Speaker 1: questions from you guys, and we really appreciate knowing that

878
00:46:28,960 --> 00:46:31,040
Speaker 1: y'all are listening and you're in it with us, Like

879
00:46:31,120 --> 00:46:33,759
Speaker 1: that actually means something to my heart. I know. I

880
00:46:34,760 --> 00:46:36,839
Speaker 1: swear to God, I saw you get tear yet I

881
00:46:36,880 --> 00:46:38,960
Speaker 1: did when I when I saw that you have lost

882
00:46:39,480 --> 00:46:42,279
Speaker 1: over now today I know. I feel like you guys

883
00:46:42,280 --> 00:46:44,360
Speaker 1: want to be besties. You're like Brittany h You're like

884
00:46:44,440 --> 00:46:48,040
Speaker 1: making your at so we can be friends. On Instagram

885
00:46:48,080 --> 00:46:53,240
Speaker 1: it's at chip door shameless plug. Well, I'm at velvet

886
00:46:53,320 --> 00:46:59,600
Speaker 1: Edge competing. Um uh, if you guys want to message

887
00:46:59,640 --> 00:47:04,319
Speaker 1: us more at casual at velmotolm, so just miss that.

888
00:47:05,280 --> 00:47:09,520
Speaker 1: It's a tongue dentals right casual at Yeah, and Chip

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00:47:09,600 --> 00:47:12,520
Speaker 1: is at chip Doors on Instagram. I'm at velvets Edge

890
00:47:12,520 --> 00:47:14,120
Speaker 1: on Instagram, so you can always slide into our d

891
00:47:14,239 --> 00:47:16,960
Speaker 1: M s there. I mean, I love their relationship and

892
00:47:17,120 --> 00:47:19,200
Speaker 1: sex questions, but I feel like the Bachelorrette one was

893
00:47:19,200 --> 00:47:22,000
Speaker 1: pretty good too. That's a good at casual moment. That

894
00:47:22,120 --> 00:47:24,479
Speaker 1: was a really great I mean, she got on the cops,

895
00:47:24,520 --> 00:47:27,760
Speaker 1: so that's acting casual to its finest. She casually pissed

896
00:47:27,800 --> 00:47:30,839
Speaker 1: that bad before getting out. I love that you act

897
00:47:30,880 --> 00:47:32,759
Speaker 1: like people can just piss, and first of all, you

898
00:47:32,840 --> 00:47:35,480
Speaker 1: also piss anymore. I also love that I'm like, I

899
00:47:35,520 --> 00:47:39,640
Speaker 1: act like I'm such a bad as the nicest I

900
00:47:39,680 --> 00:47:41,160
Speaker 1: wouldn't have even said anything. I would just go on

901
00:47:41,239 --> 00:47:45,000
Speaker 1: and talk ship the whole next day the cop and

902
00:47:45,000 --> 00:47:47,920
Speaker 1: then she comes up and you're like, hey, hey, Hi,

903
00:47:50,120 --> 00:47:54,120
Speaker 1: you're not calling anyone girl anymore. If Chip calls you hunt,

904
00:47:54,239 --> 00:47:58,880
Speaker 1: you have royally pissed him off. It's disgusting who would

905
00:47:59,040 --> 00:48:03,239
Speaker 1: say that and type it? Also, he typed it h un.

906
00:48:03,360 --> 00:48:05,200
Speaker 1: But I've had it typed h o in which I'm

907
00:48:05,239 --> 00:48:07,440
Speaker 1: even more offended by, Like I'm grossed out. Tell me

908
00:48:07,520 --> 00:48:11,320
Speaker 1: honey at that point, just don't call me either, Just

909
00:48:12,520 --> 00:48:16,560
Speaker 1: call me collect what I don't know it some dumb

910
00:48:16,640 --> 00:48:18,040
Speaker 1: joke I used to say when I was a kid,

911
00:48:18,239 --> 00:48:20,399
Speaker 1: call me collect, and that mean it's like you're calling

912
00:48:20,400 --> 00:48:23,160
Speaker 1: from jail. I wouldn't even call you collect. I mean

913
00:48:23,200 --> 00:48:25,920
Speaker 1: that's an insult though, Like you wouldn't if you're the

914
00:48:26,000 --> 00:48:27,880
Speaker 1: last call that I had, I wouldn't even call you

915
00:48:27,920 --> 00:48:30,879
Speaker 1: back home. Collect. That's what I need to write back to, Hey, hone,

916
00:48:31,320 --> 00:48:33,319
Speaker 1: should I do that and post it? Don't call me

917
00:48:33,400 --> 00:48:39,399
Speaker 1: hon or collect? Got him? Okay, we gotta go before

918
00:48:39,400 --> 00:48:41,319
Speaker 1: I say, and then so stupid that my mom was like,

919
00:48:41,520 --> 00:48:46,120
Speaker 1: boycotts me, my mom dis owns Meum. Okay, Well, I

920
00:48:46,200 --> 00:48:48,399
Speaker 1: hope that we brought some joys to you guys this week.

921
00:48:48,600 --> 00:48:50,920
Speaker 1: I actually needed this. I needed this today. My but

922
00:48:51,120 --> 00:48:53,160
Speaker 1: needed this today. I'm gonna go take an Epps and

923
00:48:53,200 --> 00:48:55,480
Speaker 1: salt bath and trying to soak out this alcohol and

924
00:48:55,560 --> 00:48:58,640
Speaker 1: my but what are you going to do today with

925
00:48:58,680 --> 00:49:02,560
Speaker 1: your weekend? Go do my taxes? Boring boring. How fun

926
00:49:02,600 --> 00:49:05,239
Speaker 1: with that? Mine weren't as bad as I was expecting.

927
00:49:05,320 --> 00:49:07,719
Speaker 1: I will say, I'm probably going to go try to

928
00:49:07,760 --> 00:49:10,240
Speaker 1: do them and then just give up, pay the late fee,

929
00:49:10,520 --> 00:49:13,160
Speaker 1: and hire somebody to them. Why would you ever try

930
00:49:13,160 --> 00:49:15,960
Speaker 1: to do them by yourself? Wine are pretty simple, You've

931
00:49:16,000 --> 00:49:21,840
Speaker 1: got seven complex Yeah, self employedness is rough. Okay, we

932
00:49:21,880 --> 00:49:24,080
Speaker 1: gotta go, but you guys, have a great week, and

933
00:49:24,120 --> 00:49:27,920
Speaker 1: always remember act casually. Do it so much better if

934
00:49:27,920 --> 00:49:32,239
Speaker 1: I'm drunk, damn. Noted by