WEBVTT - Ask Yee-

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<v Speaker 1>Morning. Everybody is d J Envy, Angela, Yee, Charlomagne, the guy.

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<v Speaker 1>We all the breakfast club. Is time to ask yee hello?

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<v Speaker 1>Who's this? Yeah? Hardy oh hey style stay bean, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>the all biggest fan though. Uh, what's your question? Though?

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<v Speaker 1>For Angela? Stop at envy? That's terrible. Let's go what's

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<v Speaker 1>the guy? Uh? I got my baby mama. She keeps

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<v Speaker 1>dming me. She doesn't have your phone number? She do,

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<v Speaker 1>but I guess she did a lot messenger and uh,

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<v Speaker 1>you usually don't need a tense me out the blue

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<v Speaker 1>light that but was like, what are you doing? And

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<v Speaker 1>then she'll coming short. I don't know what she wants.

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<v Speaker 1>To be honest, I give him money and I'll take

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<v Speaker 1>care of her. But I don't know if she's jealous,

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<v Speaker 1>she's trying to get back with me. What do you

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<v Speaker 1>want her? Hay me? I mean I want everything, but

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<v Speaker 1>to be honest, Uh, I can't see it with her.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why I don't really reply her back like that. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so then it doesn't It doesn't matter what she wants.

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<v Speaker 1>What matters is what you want. I mean true, So

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<v Speaker 1>if you don't want to be with her, don't be

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<v Speaker 1>with her don't matter if she wants to be with

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<v Speaker 1>you or you don't can't figure out what's her motives.

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<v Speaker 1>That none of that matters if that's not who you

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<v Speaker 1>want to be with. All right, well, guys, just shout

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<v Speaker 1>out my instagram is the mego underscore, Oh my god

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<v Speaker 1>and sliding him DMS. He'll answer him. I've seen that

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<v Speaker 1>drink Champs yesterday. I love me for YouTube, probably like

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<v Speaker 1>three years ago. Your nammy was on there talking about

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<v Speaker 1>some meat and booty. Oh yes, and he was talking

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<v Speaker 1>about eating booty. Y'all kill me, man, I love the

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<v Speaker 1>breakfast club. All right. I feel like sometimes y'all throw

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<v Speaker 1>shade at me, at you. We don't even know you. You

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<v Speaker 1>You might on Twitter, man, shut up? Okay, hey, thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a little shady. It's the audacity of man. Why

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<v Speaker 1>you're doing shade at him? All right? Take care? When

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<v Speaker 1>the middle of as he would you want to go

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<v Speaker 1>to Let's do Mikita online nine mkita? Good morning, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>how y'all, I'm good. So hey, okay, So I wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to assum so I pretty much I was in a

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<v Speaker 1>relationship and then I got pregnant. And when I got pregnant,

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<v Speaker 1>as I had my baby, everything pretty much shop went left.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I was kind of being like a little abused,

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<v Speaker 1>And what's a little abused? Um? So I have been

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<v Speaker 1>like kids before in my face, but only like once

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<v Speaker 1>we get in like a real strong argument and he

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<v Speaker 1>just don't know how to control his temper. But if Makita,

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<v Speaker 1>don't downplay what happened to you, weren't a little abuse,

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<v Speaker 1>you were abused. Oy, Okay, Makita hot people. But I

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<v Speaker 1>have a daughter with him, and I don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>take my daughter out of his life. And when I

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<v Speaker 1>went over his house to pick my daughter up and

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<v Speaker 1>he had a girl there, and it made me feel

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<v Speaker 1>wanting him best. So I kind of tried, but it

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<v Speaker 1>would feel negative and just negative energy. You know, I

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't be positive and right and feel loved and everything. Game,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess it's like what am I whether like you now?

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<v Speaker 1>Like ho's like you're over these feelings or Makita baby, listen,

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<v Speaker 1>First of all, it's okay for you to have these feelings.

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<v Speaker 1>It's okay that you were jealous that he had another

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<v Speaker 1>woman at the house. It's okay that you feel a

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<v Speaker 1>way better to You're a human being and that's fine,

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<v Speaker 1>but I would say you should be thankful that you

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<v Speaker 1>are not with this man anymore, and I would say

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<v Speaker 1>run and keep it moving. And just because y'all not

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<v Speaker 1>together doesn't mean he can't be a father and that

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<v Speaker 1>he's not going to be in your daughter's life. He

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<v Speaker 1>can still do those things, but you don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>raise your daughter around somebody that's abusive to you that

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<v Speaker 1>you're making excuses for that. I think that right now

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<v Speaker 1>you should be so happy that you're not with him anymore,

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<v Speaker 1>and that the I know that it takes a long

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<v Speaker 1>time because only time can heal those wounds that you're feeling.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's okay for you to mourn the death of

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<v Speaker 1>a relationship. It's over. And then what if, like I

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<v Speaker 1>don't I'd be telling him like I don't want him.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want my child around thirty who people that

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<v Speaker 1>he has around him because they just are enemies to

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<v Speaker 1>me or do so like me or whatever, And he

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<v Speaker 1>feels feel like, pretty much, just forget what I say,

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<v Speaker 1>Like there's no respect. So here's the thing. Do you

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<v Speaker 1>feel like your daughters in harm and harm's way? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so it's gonna be. It sounds like This is an

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<v Speaker 1>emotional experience where you don't want your child around people

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<v Speaker 1>who you don't like, and you want him to respect that,

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<v Speaker 1>but that's a hard thing for you to enforce. And

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<v Speaker 1>if you feel like your daughter is safe and she's okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and that he's doing a good job as a father,

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<v Speaker 1>you yourself are gonna have to deal with those because

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<v Speaker 1>you can't really tell him who to be around, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and all those things. I think it's a different question

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<v Speaker 1>if it's a safety issue, But if you feel like

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<v Speaker 1>your daughter is safe and being treated, well, that's the

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<v Speaker 1>top priority. Okay, Well, thank you. You definitely help me

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<v Speaker 1>clear my mind. Then just know which way to go, mckitta.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't wait till you find somebody who loves you

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<v Speaker 1>and values you the way that you deserve to be

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<v Speaker 1>valued in your relationship. And I think that sometimes certain

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<v Speaker 1>things are a blessing. Like anytime you think I want

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<v Speaker 1>him back, I want to get back with him, just

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<v Speaker 1>remember how abusive he was and remember that he has

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<v Speaker 1>other girls that he's dealing with. And don't go back

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<v Speaker 1>and backside, because it's gonna take you even longer to

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<v Speaker 1>get out of that hole. You halfway out of it.

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<v Speaker 1>Now keep going. Okay, thank you, Okay, mckitta, We love you,

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<v Speaker 1>love y'all to thank y'all, listening to y'all every morning.

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<v Speaker 1>So all right, thank you, thank you. Sorry, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>but let's go to another line. Hello, who's this and

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<v Speaker 1>shou Land going from Regina. What's up? Bro? What's your

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<v Speaker 1>question for you? I'm about to go to jail and

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<v Speaker 1>do three years. And you know, my girl said she

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<v Speaker 1>send you to work with me, whatever, but we had

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<v Speaker 1>infidelities before coquter texting people and stuff. She said, whatever did.

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<v Speaker 1>But I don't know if I don't know if I

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<v Speaker 1>should go with a clear mind or you know, just

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<v Speaker 1>try to hold it down with her, with you, um,

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<v Speaker 1>being that she's already had infidelity issues while you were

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<v Speaker 1>home and not locked up, and you've caught her texting

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<v Speaker 1>and doing other things. I always say, I wouldn't want

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<v Speaker 1>you to be stressed out in jail thinking that your

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<v Speaker 1>girl is going to hold you down, right, That's what

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<v Speaker 1>I was saying to That's one of the same things.

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<v Speaker 1>Great as she does, but you have to be realistic

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<v Speaker 1>with yourself. You know you are about to go away.

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<v Speaker 1>You're going to be gone for three years. She's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>have a lot of freedom, and imagine every day you're

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<v Speaker 1>trying to call her wondering what she's doing. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>you might have to just in reality all they say, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna just give her this pass in my mind

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<v Speaker 1>and know that whatever might be happening might happen, and

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<v Speaker 1>I have to be prepared for the fact that she's

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<v Speaker 1>not gonna do this bid with me, or you have

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<v Speaker 1>to just let her know it. Look, I don't even

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<v Speaker 1>expect you to do that. Yeah, true, true, I guess

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<v Speaker 1>I might just break it off, all right, no problem.

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<v Speaker 1>Good luck to you in jail trying to keep it real.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah right, you need a little more than luck. Geez,

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<v Speaker 1>all right,