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Speaker 1: Tried to take two days off work because his father

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Speaker 1: Now I'm catching him in dozens of other lives, and

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Speaker 1: this is okop where you read the craziest.

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Speaker 2: True stories on Earth.

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Speaker 1: I'm John and Sam and Sophia. Is it okay to

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Speaker 1: lie and say that your dad passed away? Is that fine?

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Speaker 2: I mean does he need it?

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Speaker 3: Does he really need a day off?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? He may really need.

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Speaker 4: It bad day.

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Speaker 1: You know, it's so funny. I thought you were saying

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Speaker 1: need him day dead.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, love me, just fake my own death and retreating

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Speaker 2: to the mountains so no one can email me.

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Speaker 4: No one's gonna read that with Steve Kroll.

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Speaker 2: Oh you know what. I haven't watched it because John

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Speaker 1: But I do read stories like this one coming from

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Speaker 1: roach coach, who says, so I really don't know how

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Speaker 1: to deal with this. I wouldn't either. I'm a manager

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Speaker 1: at a shop that's for twenty friendly for employees as

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Speaker 1: long as it doesn't affect your work.

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Speaker 2: We're all a bit big stoner family.

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Speaker 1: Love that we know who's capable of working high and

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Speaker 1: who isn't one of my employees is becoming a bit

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Speaker 1: of a chronic liar. He's a bit of a performer,

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Speaker 1: But he is a bit of a slacker. I'll call

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Speaker 1: him Scooby.

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Speaker 2: He's the personality higher that's right.

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Speaker 1: Shaggy, he's so fun that's true.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, why not Shaggy. That's definitely more of a stoner.

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Speaker 2: I mean, both Scooby and Shaggy are getting blazed. So

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Speaker 2: we've met our dogs edibles. We've fed our dogs edibles

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Speaker 2: to make it so, yes, we did.

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Speaker 4: It's not true.

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Speaker 2: Story okay, story time true it is. It is true,

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Speaker 1: Ask let's go love it well. One day, Scooby comes

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Speaker 1: in uncharacteristically quiet, just looking sad and depressed. He's walking

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Speaker 1: that his dad has just passed away.

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Speaker 4: He really committed to it, we know the future.

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Speaker 2: He was really reeling from it.

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Speaker 1: He told him not to tell anybody because he's not

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Speaker 2: What a good guy.

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Speaker 1: Uh, the owner and I gave him a hug, told

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Speaker 1: He comes back a couple of days later, and everything

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Speaker 2: So brave, so brave, A hard time. Wow.

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Speaker 1: But a few days later, a man walks in this

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Speaker 1: into the store and asked to see Scooby. Reggie gotcha.

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Speaker 1: I was wondering if I could see Scooby. That's my son.

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Speaker 2: Maybe he has two dads. That dad's gay dads. You're

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Speaker 2: so true.

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Speaker 1: That is so right.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you didn't think about it with your heteronormative ways.

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Speaker 1: Woh dang chap roast me right now, because I deserve it.

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Speaker 1: They're the good ones, okay. A response, Uh, you're his dad.

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Speaker 1: Yeah we look alike, don't we?

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Speaker 2: He did.

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Speaker 1: They looked exactly alike because it's his dad. So now

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Speaker 1: little liar. I pulled my boss, who was the owner,

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Speaker 1: that we're extremely shorthanded right now and letting him go

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Speaker 2: So they gonna wait, they gonna wait. Are they gonna

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Speaker 2: They they've heard him before, they've confronted him before, right, Yeah,

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Speaker 5: Confronted him about the big No, they haven't done it

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Speaker 2: Gotta stop lying, and he's like, no, I just have

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Speaker 2: to stop lying smaller. I'm gonna lie big, go bigger, go.

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Speaker 1: Home, plain sight. He has taken off of work from

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Speaker 1: vomiting all the time. Wait, what these you can I can't.

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Speaker 2: I can't. What am I gonna do?

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Speaker 1: Throw up on the customers?

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Speaker 2: That's true. I can't do that, not at all.

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Speaker 1: We could continue to job.

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Speaker 4: Really bad microbiome.

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Speaker 2: That's true. He's got to drink some kobucha, you know what?

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Speaker 2: He got it from his dad.

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Speaker 1: Trying to try.

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Speaker 2: He threw up in his mouth. Was baby burning him

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Speaker 1: Discuss I don't like that. Well, he's taken off of

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Speaker 2: Sounds like bullshit.

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Speaker 1: He said he went to the doctor and his doctor

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Speaker 1: occasionally catch him eating a prepackaged egg sandwich, smoke a

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Speaker 1: lunch breaks. Well, one time he came in all sad

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Speaker 2: Girlfriend broke up with him.

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Speaker 1: That would be crazy.

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Speaker 2: Mom My mom died. My family's dropping like, oh my god.

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Speaker 1: And his productivity slowed to a crawl. We told him

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Speaker 4: They got back together.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, hot and cold. Yeah, you know there's songs about this.

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Speaker 2: We kiss, we break up, we fight, we make up.

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Speaker 1: The first perfectly reasonable explanation for all of these things.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, he has two dads.

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Speaker 2: Our dad has risen from the dead.

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Speaker 4: Yes, and his girlfriend got back.

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Speaker 1: Together with it's bad gut byome Yeah, bad guy. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we would be great liars.

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Speaker 2: You can't fault him for having a faulty gut.

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Speaker 1: You really can't you or a faulty dad that sometimes

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Speaker 2: An on and again off again girlfriend.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I can't fault him for that boom.

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Speaker 2: He's assaulted the earth. This guy, Wow, what a guy?

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Speaker 2: Scoob is.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what to do and I can't look

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Speaker 2: Do I just deal with it?

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Speaker 1: Do I keep this little crap looking at me in

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Speaker 1: to take me off of work? And there is some

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Speaker 1: relevant comments, but first we have to do a little

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Speaker 1: breakdown everyone in the chat right now, let us know

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Speaker 1: should Scooby be fired or not fired or not? My

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Speaker 1: question to you all should he be fired?

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Speaker 2: And be how?

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Speaker 1: Oh how do you fire him?

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Speaker 2: I think show him footage of the dad, say, how

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Speaker 2: do you explain this?

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Speaker 4: Bring in his father to.

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Speaker 2: Yea, hire the dad.

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Speaker 1: Actually, there's a great episode of Kitchen Nightmares with Gordon

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Speaker 1: Ramsey where the restaurant didn't believe the negative yelp reviews,

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Speaker 1: so they brought the yelp the theater. They need to

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Speaker 1: rent down a theater and bring all of the people

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Speaker 1: that like his.

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Speaker 2: Girlfriend, his dad, his caught up and his lies. It

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Speaker 2: would be so funny.

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Speaker 1: Doctor, So doctor, would you tell it?

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Speaker 2: Be?

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Speaker 1: I told him that eggs are great protein for our caroutines.

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Speaker 2: And if the sandwich says fired from YouTube from twitch

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Speaker 2: Dojo Queen says, yes, fire him. Untrustworthy actions, shut out consequences.

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Speaker 2: Bonnie Fountain says fier, Dylan Parrish says firefirefire emoji, and

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Speaker 2: Rachel Curtis says red flag, red flat, red flag. It

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Speaker 2: seems like we're kind of in unison. This dude needs

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Speaker 1: Fire fire, fire fire.

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Speaker 2: Let's see how he's happening.

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Speaker 1: We have some relevant comments from the story Opie talking

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Speaker 1: to the owners about the matter. Now, this is the

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Speaker 1: thing they already know about it all. It's impossible to

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Speaker 1: lie to me, especially if you're already caught in a lie.

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Speaker 1: Then when you talk to me, my default position is

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Speaker 1: that you're lying, and I'll go back in and logically

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Speaker 1: catches people in these lies. This kid is a terrible

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Speaker 1: liar already, And when he talks to me, he's talking

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Speaker 1: to the g D gatekeeper of truth.

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Speaker 2: Okay, they think themselves, Yeah, true, Yeah, he's like gate

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Speaker 2: keeper of truth, always know of all of that is

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Speaker 2: just like snape with that truth zero and episode six.

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Speaker 1: Dude, freaking what is it called?

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Speaker 4: Episode six?

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Speaker 2: I whatever? Movie six? Damn all right, suit bro jesus Oh.

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Speaker 1: Then Opie responds not to toot my own horn or anything.

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Speaker 1: Loll So you just tooted, Yeah, you just do it,

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Speaker 4: Check that micro.

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Speaker 1: But it's the only way it's affecting my work is

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Speaker 1: that I would occasionally have to cover for him. But

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Speaker 1: I told them that if this continues, they would have

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Speaker 1: to cover for him because I am tired of working

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Speaker 1: six days a week and having to come in at

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Speaker 1: three a m. On my day off to open the store.

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Speaker 1: Because the student's family are dropping like flies.

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Speaker 2: Oh what do they do? God? I mean, maybe he's

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Speaker 2: just really good, but he's not even good at his job.

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Speaker 4: He sucks.

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Speaker 2: He's just like, how hard is it to find someone

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Speaker 2: else that's not high to work at one of these places.

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Speaker 1: They have to deal with it. I feel like they

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Speaker 1: just have to deal with it and then I'll force

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Speaker 1: them to hire someone quickly.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think.

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Speaker 1: I think that's what they got to do. I just

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Speaker 1: Opie when asked if there's an environment on fear of

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Speaker 1: disapproval for the for asking time off. Yes, that's what

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Speaker 1: I figured is the crux that the issue was at first.

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Speaker 2: Oh, what's this tragic story we're gonna get?

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Speaker 1: Because Katsey got in a big fight with his girlfriend.

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Speaker 4: She slushed his tires.

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Speaker 2: Do you think is he lying yes or no? Put

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Speaker 1: Because of this, he won't be able to work for

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Speaker 2: Break out Shaggy's paycheck. Who is this Shaggy?

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Speaker 1: Definitely not, I mean it is Shaggy because I'm not scoomy, right,

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Speaker 2: We already knew he was lying up for too long

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Speaker 5: Scott I thin kept going on about how like they're

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, what is this job? Guys?

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Speaker 1: Guess in the comments. Guess in the comments it's it's

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Speaker 2: Is it not a weed shot tail? Like a retail

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Speaker 2: I mean, I guess, I guess. I mean to enhance

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Speaker 1: True, I didn't even think about that. Yeah, I can

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Speaker 1: some guesses down below. Buffett says Walmart edible arrangements from

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Speaker 2: Oh god, is that a thing? Is that? Is that good?

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Speaker 1: Chocolate store camp for the weed because of the early

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Speaker 2: Cho chocolate store could be pretty three am threem is

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Speaker 4: Why do you feel like a coffee shop you would

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Speaker 2: Maybe you have to really just brew the chocolate. I

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Speaker 2: don't know how it works, but keep keep the guests coming,

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Speaker 2: ladies and gentlemen.

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Speaker 1: We do have some final comments from a he on

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Speaker 1: the story so op on Scooby, He's kind of a

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Speaker 2: Adult store that could be it. Shout out Marbie dumb,

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Speaker 2: dumb because people need to do adult things at every hour.

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Speaker 1: For him that, Yeah, Yeah, I feel like adult store

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Speaker 2: Continue, continue, it's a great guess.

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Speaker 1: It baffled me. I never knew this dude was getting

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Speaker 1: But I found out a few things over the course

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Speaker 1: a pillar.

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Speaker 2: Of bad decisions. That was Scooby's trademark, not snacks.

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Speaker 1: He got arrested a month ago, was put in jail

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Speaker 1: because he fessed up to some shoplifting that he and

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Speaker 1: his girlfriend did.

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Speaker 2: So maybe he was Why would.

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Speaker 4: He fess up to that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, the one thing he decides to tell the truth about.

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Speaker 3: He was stealing eggs. Wow, because he was allergic to him.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we got it, we got it, We got it, right,

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Speaker 2: Can you explain it a little bit? Yeah, I really

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Speaker 1: Right, So what had happened was also super quick. Tracy

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think so, Yeah, that's gonna be what time

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Speaker 2: do waffle houses open through? A lot of them are

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Speaker 2: waffle house could be it is it waffle House for

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Speaker 1: I mean like it's just like the family there. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: waffle house is just the wildest assortment of characters you

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Speaker 1: can possibly assemble.

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Speaker 2: It. I took an amish guy to waffle house once.

447
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Speaker 2: That is a great place to take it off. Yeah. Yeah,

448
00:22:47,440 --> 00:22:49,760
Speaker 2: he wanted, yeah, tell me you can get anything on

449
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Speaker 2: the menu, and he got waffles classic.

450
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Speaker 1: But because on so he was already on probation for

451
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Speaker 1: some other stuff, but he got off on a legal

452
00:23:00,720 --> 00:23:03,439
Speaker 1: technicality and got off light. But being in jail for

453
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Speaker 1: two days didn't do anything to help Scooby get his

454
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Speaker 1: crap together. His parents kicked him out of his house,

455
00:23:08,760 --> 00:23:11,520
Speaker 1: and he's been floating between his girlfriends and his ex

456
00:23:11,600 --> 00:23:15,119
Speaker 1: girlfriend's house. When he and his current girlfriend are fighting.

457
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Speaker 3: Oh my god, yikes.

458
00:23:16,520 --> 00:23:19,000
Speaker 2: Who looks at Scooby and is like, that's a guy

459
00:23:19,040 --> 00:23:20,280
Speaker 2: that I want to interact with.

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Speaker 4: Well, presumably this other girlfriend also seems a little.

461
00:23:23,080 --> 00:23:29,160
Speaker 2: Bit yeah yeah, but Why why are people giving him

462
00:23:29,200 --> 00:23:32,280
Speaker 2: such so many chances? I know he must feel like awesome,

463
00:23:32,920 --> 00:23:35,960
Speaker 2: he was just so cool in every other way. He's

464
00:23:35,960 --> 00:23:39,240
Speaker 2: probably sick. It's super funny. Yeah, Scooby's probably the man. Yeah,

465
00:23:39,240 --> 00:23:41,600
Speaker 2: Scooby's a man, not at all. Yeah, like his.

466
00:23:41,600 --> 00:23:44,880
Speaker 4: Lies used to be really cool. Yeah, he climbed Mount

467
00:23:44,880 --> 00:23:47,320
Speaker 4: Everest and they're like that way.

468
00:23:47,240 --> 00:23:50,359
Speaker 2: He's like, that's a lie. Now. I know.

469
00:23:50,440 --> 00:23:52,560
Speaker 1: This crap sounds like a bag of tope opera. And

470
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Speaker 1: none of us understands why he's letting himself be put

471
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Speaker 1: into these situations. But he needs his ass kicked by

472
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Speaker 1: someone who cares about him because he's really going down

473
00:24:01,480 --> 00:24:02,160
Speaker 1: a bad road.

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00:24:03,920 --> 00:24:05,160
Speaker 2: Does anyone? Uh?

475
00:24:05,200 --> 00:24:07,679
Speaker 1: And then on Scooby running from away from the owner

476
00:24:08,000 --> 00:24:11,000
Speaker 1: apparently he saw her before she got back there, ran

477
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Speaker 1: behind the wall and around the corner to his car.

478
00:24:13,680 --> 00:24:15,960
Speaker 1: Before she could come to the back door, she saw

479
00:24:16,040 --> 00:24:18,760
Speaker 1: him fly out of the parking lot in his non

480
00:24:18,920 --> 00:24:21,879
Speaker 1: tire slash car that he spent hours using as an

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Speaker 1: excuse to get out of work. It quick, How could

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Speaker 1: I forget? And then finally to close us out?

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Speaker 2: Op uh?

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00:24:32,160 --> 00:24:37,880
Speaker 1: When asked why a donut shop? That's what it isnt

485
00:24:38,119 --> 00:24:42,399
Speaker 1: shop shop, Katie said, bakery.

486
00:24:43,040 --> 00:24:48,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, bakery was a pretty good one. Erotic bakery, Yeah, dude,

487
00:24:48,600 --> 00:24:50,600
Speaker 2: like a little little penis donut holes.

488
00:24:50,680 --> 00:24:52,400
Speaker 1: Maybe that's the store that we should.

489
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Speaker 2: Start, erotic bakery. Would you buy erotic bake goods from us?

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00:24:58,400 --> 00:25:01,880
Speaker 4: But the o's are donuts and their tubes.

491
00:25:04,680 --> 00:25:09,680
Speaker 2: Nice? Right? Where's the sex side? Give it to yourself?

492
00:25:10,040 --> 00:25:16,720
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, come on in the corner. Where's the dat.

493
00:25:17,520 --> 00:25:18,320
Speaker 2: We're gonna work on it.

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00:25:19,280 --> 00:25:23,240
Speaker 1: So final part of the story, Opie says, on asking

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00:25:23,240 --> 00:25:25,760
Speaker 1: why a donut shop is busy on Valentine's Day. Who knows,

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Speaker 1: It's just what's happened over the past two years the

497
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Speaker 1: shop has been open. People like to get creative on

498
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Speaker 1: their Valentine's Day, so they do donuts instead of flowers

499
00:25:32,800 --> 00:25:36,679
Speaker 1: and chocolates. That is the end of the story. That

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Speaker 1: is it?

501
00:25:38,080 --> 00:25:42,280
Speaker 2: Wow? What a saga, truly? What is saga? Have you?

502
00:25:42,600 --> 00:25:45,320
Speaker 2: I wonder if anyone in the comments has ever met

503
00:25:45,320 --> 00:25:49,320
Speaker 2: like a scooby h type of person in their workplace,

504
00:25:49,440 --> 00:25:51,800
Speaker 2: Tell the story of the scoobies in your life, because

505
00:25:51,800 --> 00:25:55,040
Speaker 2: I feel like the scoobies that I know about are

506
00:25:55,160 --> 00:25:58,480
Speaker 2: really good at their job, so they can be a Scooby.

507
00:25:58,840 --> 00:26:02,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, like people will find the most efficient.

508
00:26:01,960 --> 00:26:06,000
Speaker 2: Way and potentially not even lazy, but just like unreliable,

509
00:26:06,240 --> 00:26:10,960
Speaker 2: but just God given talent from above. We just wish

510
00:26:11,280 --> 00:26:14,600
Speaker 2: we could interact with on a more regular basis, and

511
00:26:14,640 --> 00:26:15,800
Speaker 2: we'll take what wayever we can get.

512
00:26:15,880 --> 00:26:17,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, we we we, we truly will, truly will.

513
00:26:17,880 --> 00:26:19,800
Speaker 2: We'll just sit and wait. We'll sit and wait, We'll

514
00:26:19,800 --> 00:26:24,760
Speaker 2: sit and wait. I'm waiting right now. Let's try. Let's

515
00:26:24,800 --> 00:26:27,040
Speaker 2: talk to the people before our next story here. Wait.

516
00:26:27,119 --> 00:26:30,760
Speaker 2: Shout out to the Raven for the incredible Harry Potter

517
00:26:30,880 --> 00:26:33,560
Speaker 2: quote about uh, do you see the miss It's like

518
00:26:33,600 --> 00:26:36,320
Speaker 2: at the beginning the Raven put it, put it in again,

519
00:26:36,400 --> 00:26:38,800
Speaker 2: but she's like, where were you and.

520
00:26:38,320 --> 00:26:41,119
Speaker 5: Know, yeah you could have been killed.

521
00:26:42,840 --> 00:26:47,120
Speaker 2: I forgot what it was. Could have been killed? Yeah, yeah,

522
00:26:47,200 --> 00:26:51,400
Speaker 2: yeah yeah. Raven posted it beautifully. Shout out Raven. We've

523
00:26:51,400 --> 00:26:53,520
Speaker 2: been seeing you in the live st Yeah. I appreciate you, honey.

524
00:26:53,600 --> 00:26:55,720
Speaker 2: I've dealt with the Scooby in the last year. Lol.

525
00:26:56,160 --> 00:26:59,520
Speaker 2: Uh and I to tell us, tell us, how tell us,

526
00:26:59,560 --> 00:27:05,240
Speaker 2: how what have you been? That's it, that's it.

527
00:27:05,440 --> 00:27:08,120
Speaker 4: God, you could have died if you could have been

528
00:27:08,200 --> 00:27:11,360
Speaker 4: seen you wait until your follow gets to the stream.

529
00:27:13,880 --> 00:27:18,600
Speaker 2: So good, Kitty B says, what's up? Okay O P team,

530
00:27:18,800 --> 00:27:21,040
Speaker 2: I'm happy there's a live stream. I just gotta have

531
00:27:21,040 --> 00:27:24,040
Speaker 2: a work meeting. That made me sad. Well, we are

532
00:27:24,119 --> 00:27:28,800
Speaker 2: here to brighten your day. There you go, Yeah, tell.

533
00:27:28,800 --> 00:27:30,720
Speaker 4: Your work that you're dad.

534
00:27:33,320 --> 00:27:35,120
Speaker 2: If you're just getting to the stream. We just read

535
00:27:35,119 --> 00:27:38,960
Speaker 2: a story about dad's dying to get out of work

536
00:27:39,000 --> 00:27:42,200
Speaker 2: and get out of work free card. I hope, yeah,

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00:27:42,200 --> 00:27:44,680
Speaker 2: I hope everyone's dads are okay.

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00:27:45,280 --> 00:27:47,199
Speaker 1: We had we had one story if you scroll up

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Speaker 1: a little bit for me Riley from what Madeline be?

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Speaker 2: Madeline where Madeline Way? If you go, if you go down,

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00:27:56,359 --> 00:28:00,280
Speaker 2: I did see one a little bit lower. Keep if

542
00:28:00,280 --> 00:28:03,359
Speaker 2: you keep going a little bit down Battle in Gilstrap. Yes,

543
00:28:03,560 --> 00:28:06,639
Speaker 2: I had a coworker Redo I had.

544
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Speaker 1: I had a coworker redo all my work to get

545
00:28:09,760 --> 00:28:10,480
Speaker 1: out of doing his.

546
00:28:10,960 --> 00:28:11,560
Speaker 2: When he quit.

547
00:28:11,600 --> 00:28:13,800
Speaker 1: He gave two weeks notice, and the second day called

548
00:28:13,840 --> 00:28:15,640
Speaker 1: and said his dog was sick, and then he wasn't

549
00:28:15,680 --> 00:28:16,320
Speaker 1: coming back.

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00:28:16,800 --> 00:28:18,960
Speaker 2: How did he redo all your work to get out

551
00:28:18,960 --> 00:28:21,160
Speaker 2: of his work? That's what I want to know. Redo

552
00:28:21,240 --> 00:28:25,119
Speaker 2: all my that doesn't seems like more work? Or maybe

553
00:28:25,400 --> 00:28:29,560
Speaker 2: he just took everything oh P submitted and just like

554
00:28:29,960 --> 00:28:33,000
Speaker 2: here you go. Yeah yeah yeah. It's like, hey, h

555
00:28:33,720 --> 00:28:35,199
Speaker 2: can you can I look at your homework? Yeah, I

556
00:28:35,240 --> 00:28:37,040
Speaker 2: just change a little bit and just they just turn

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00:28:37,119 --> 00:28:40,560
Speaker 2: it in exactly. Yeah, the classic the essay, but just

558
00:28:40,600 --> 00:28:43,600
Speaker 2: rephrase the sentence. Yeah no, not dude, turn it in

559
00:28:43,720 --> 00:28:45,920
Speaker 2: catches that ship. I got an okay story time for that.

560
00:28:46,040 --> 00:28:49,160
Speaker 2: Tat's Toya says, lots of love from Canada, lots of

561
00:28:49,200 --> 00:28:51,200
Speaker 2: love to you too. All right, really quick, I got

562
00:28:51,200 --> 00:28:55,440
Speaker 2: an okay story time about weed. Sophia is like, oh,

563
00:28:55,480 --> 00:28:59,640
Speaker 2: we never gave our dogs weed wrong when Oscar so

564
00:28:59,720 --> 00:29:02,080
Speaker 2: it is, this is an okay storytime. Our dog, Oscar

565
00:29:02,840 --> 00:29:07,200
Speaker 2: was would go ballistic every Fourth of July because of

566
00:29:07,440 --> 00:29:12,040
Speaker 2: the fireworks and nothing like we did work like you

567
00:29:12,040 --> 00:29:14,520
Speaker 2: would run all throughout the house tear things up. We

568
00:29:14,560 --> 00:29:17,160
Speaker 2: tried to put a little doggy coat on him, didn't work.

569
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Speaker 2: And then my mom is like, we just need to

570
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Speaker 2: get doggy edibles and so she got THHC doggy edibles

571
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Speaker 2: for Oscar to calm him down.

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00:29:25,760 --> 00:29:28,160
Speaker 5: Okay, yeah, I know I knew he got like doggy

573
00:29:28,440 --> 00:29:30,360
Speaker 5: like edibles.

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00:29:30,120 --> 00:29:33,600
Speaker 2: They were edibles. There were TC doggy edibles and it

575
00:29:33,640 --> 00:29:39,280
Speaker 2: was an Australian shepherd e blanc. He hated fireworks. So

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00:29:39,320 --> 00:29:42,240
Speaker 2: it was just like it didn't work, by the way, No,

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00:29:42,360 --> 00:29:45,800
Speaker 2: I think you just got superpared. They're coming for me.

578
00:29:49,040 --> 00:29:52,080
Speaker 2: It did not work at all. But you know what

579
00:29:52,160 --> 00:29:53,920
Speaker 2: I always like to work on.

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00:29:54,840 --> 00:29:57,480
Speaker 1: We like to work on the fact that if we

581
00:29:57,560 --> 00:30:01,040
Speaker 1: get some donations of this chat, yeah, which which guys,

582
00:30:01,080 --> 00:30:02,880
Speaker 1: you can now donate. We have a little meter there

583
00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:05,600
Speaker 1: that I believe we'll see if if it works for us.

584
00:30:06,080 --> 00:30:08,720
Speaker 1: But if we get one hundred dollars, if we raise

585
00:30:08,760 --> 00:30:11,720
Speaker 1: one hundred dollars, we're going extra hour, extra hour, extra

586
00:30:12,040 --> 00:30:15,440
Speaker 1: I think of it like an Encore an Encore on core.

587
00:30:15,800 --> 00:30:17,400
Speaker 1: So you can vote if you want. But we also

588
00:30:17,480 --> 00:30:19,640
Speaker 1: have one more story.

589
00:30:20,160 --> 00:30:22,800
Speaker 2: And possibly more depending on if we can get through

590
00:30:22,800 --> 00:30:25,719
Speaker 2: this hour. So am I the a hole for telling

591
00:30:25,800 --> 00:30:29,240
Speaker 2: my son he needs to get over his X just

592
00:30:29,240 --> 00:30:30,040
Speaker 2: get over it? No?

593
00:30:30,720 --> 00:30:35,440
Speaker 4: I mean no, if he's wallowing, then no.

594
00:30:36,080 --> 00:30:39,160
Speaker 2: If he's wallowing, then no, you're not the a hole.

595
00:30:39,360 --> 00:30:41,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, So he's like.

596
00:30:42,480 --> 00:30:46,800
Speaker 2: For like two months, what what is the appropriate amount

597
00:30:46,840 --> 00:30:48,400
Speaker 2: of time to get rid of like over an X

598
00:30:48,520 --> 00:30:53,040
Speaker 2: three seconds? Three seconds? For him? Yeah, for him for him. Yeah,

599
00:30:53,280 --> 00:30:54,840
Speaker 2: everyone else gets on limited time.

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Speaker 1: This app child, he gets three seconds and then it's

601
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Speaker 1: like get back out there.

602
00:31:00,440 --> 00:31:02,120
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, you don't even know if he's telling the truth.

603
00:31:02,120 --> 00:31:05,040
Speaker 2: This could be a shaggy so Scooby or Scooby. I

604
00:31:05,120 --> 00:31:07,640
Speaker 2: have a twenty So this comes from content ad eight

605
00:31:07,680 --> 00:31:10,280
Speaker 2: one ninety four and they say, I have a twenty

606
00:31:10,320 --> 00:31:13,560
Speaker 2: six year old son named Dylan. He was married to

607
00:31:13,640 --> 00:31:16,720
Speaker 2: Miranda for five years. I only have sons, so I

608
00:31:16,720 --> 00:31:20,000
Speaker 2: can send her Miranda a daughter. She was perfect, a

609
00:31:20,040 --> 00:31:25,400
Speaker 2: perfect wife, funny, respectful, and she cared for Dylan. However,

610
00:31:26,120 --> 00:31:29,520
Speaker 2: about a little over a year ago, Miranda came crying

611
00:31:29,560 --> 00:31:33,200
Speaker 2: to me that Dylan was cheating on her with a

612
00:31:33,280 --> 00:31:34,480
Speaker 2: girl from high school.

613
00:31:35,000 --> 00:31:36,480
Speaker 4: On perfect Miranda, on.

614
00:31:36,440 --> 00:31:38,800
Speaker 2: Perfect Miranda, and hopefully it was a girl from high school,

615
00:31:38,800 --> 00:31:44,520
Speaker 2: and that they're married for five Yeah.

616
00:31:44,520 --> 00:31:45,880
Speaker 1: We got married in eighth grade.

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00:31:46,640 --> 00:31:52,360
Speaker 2: And the worst part was that Miranda was five months pregnant.

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Speaker 4: No, why did they always do this with twins? Ah?

619
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Speaker 2: Yeah, double trouble, Yeah, rough rough. I told her the

620
00:32:04,280 --> 00:32:07,560
Speaker 2: file for divorce because I wish I had when my

621
00:32:07,640 --> 00:32:10,520
Speaker 2: first husband had cheated on me. She immediately found a

622
00:32:10,560 --> 00:32:13,760
Speaker 2: lawyer and started the divorce, Dylan acted like he didn't care.

623
00:32:14,440 --> 00:32:17,480
Speaker 2: I don't care, but refused to sign the papers until

624
00:32:17,560 --> 00:32:19,600
Speaker 2: his father forced him to.

625
00:32:19,760 --> 00:32:20,440
Speaker 4: That's embarrassing.

626
00:32:20,480 --> 00:32:24,360
Speaker 2: Wow, I know daddy's gonna tell you what they do.

627
00:32:23,520 --> 00:32:28,440
Speaker 2: Dost and go into the chat. KK says, now Dylan

628
00:32:28,440 --> 00:32:32,240
Speaker 2: can kick some rocks. The Raven says, my ex cheated

629
00:32:32,280 --> 00:32:35,880
Speaker 2: on me while pregnant. Fuck that guy. The Raven fucked

630
00:32:35,880 --> 00:32:40,040
Speaker 2: that guy for sure. I mean not physically, but metaphorically.

631
00:32:40,200 --> 00:32:44,960
Speaker 2: We hate him. He quickly moved on with Lily, the

632
00:32:45,000 --> 00:32:48,880
Speaker 2: girl from high school. I disliked her instantly. She did drugs,

633
00:32:49,120 --> 00:32:52,240
Speaker 2: did nothing but laid around and is a jerk to everyone,

634
00:32:52,320 --> 00:32:56,880
Speaker 2: but hides it as bluntness. It was my granddaughter's first

635
00:32:56,960 --> 00:33:00,240
Speaker 2: birthday and Dylan came with Lily and Miranda and came

636
00:33:00,280 --> 00:33:05,280
Speaker 2: with Landon, her new boyfriend. So this is Miranda, the

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00:33:05,000 --> 00:33:09,600
Speaker 2: the ex, the perfect Miranda Miranda. One reason Dylan said

638
00:33:09,640 --> 00:33:16,880
Speaker 2: he cheated was because Miranda can anyone guess I don't want.

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00:33:17,320 --> 00:33:17,880
Speaker 4: I don't want to.

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00:33:19,280 --> 00:33:27,320
Speaker 2: Why do you think he cheated on Miranda? Uh? What No?

641
00:33:28,280 --> 00:33:34,240
Speaker 5: Really, I'm not going to dignify that was getting fat?

642
00:33:35,040 --> 00:33:38,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, she was getting really fat. Bro double the fat

643
00:33:38,840 --> 00:33:39,440
Speaker 2: with twins.

644
00:33:40,400 --> 00:33:41,280
Speaker 4: I'm fighting.

645
00:33:42,640 --> 00:33:46,440
Speaker 2: That's bad. Yeah, my precticant wife with twins gained a

646
00:33:46,440 --> 00:33:46,880
Speaker 2: little weight.

647
00:33:48,400 --> 00:33:50,560
Speaker 1: It's almost like she had two humans inside of her.

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00:33:51,280 --> 00:33:53,680
Speaker 2: Bro I heard that you could only need to gain

649
00:33:53,760 --> 00:33:55,960
Speaker 2: two pounds when you have twins. Yeah, one pound for

650
00:33:56,000 --> 00:34:01,400
Speaker 2: each twins. So between the splitcou toe, Miranda went to

651
00:34:01,480 --> 00:34:04,520
Speaker 2: the gym and not only did she lose the baby weight,

652
00:34:04,760 --> 00:34:07,440
Speaker 2: she got into really good shape.

653
00:34:07,200 --> 00:34:08,800
Speaker 4: After having two children.

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00:34:09,120 --> 00:34:14,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, she's like. Landon was her trainer and they have

655
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Speaker 2: been dating for about seven months. He's a sweet guy

656
00:34:17,360 --> 00:34:19,200
Speaker 2: who's a better man than my son.

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00:34:19,320 --> 00:34:19,960
Speaker 4: Oh my god.

658
00:34:20,440 --> 00:34:20,720
Speaker 2: Wow.

659
00:34:21,040 --> 00:34:23,240
Speaker 4: Well she han.

660
00:34:22,760 --> 00:34:25,840
Speaker 2: When your own mother is like, yeah, this guy Landon,

661
00:34:26,120 --> 00:34:31,839
Speaker 2: She's like, wait, Monica perfect, Miranda, perfect.

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Speaker 4: Miranda and Landon, Yeah, she wants to do Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Rouffe It says, what a loser this idiot is. Gracie

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Speaker 2: Nakas says, oh wait, we're on TV, Gracie welcome. Yeah.

665
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Speaker 2: KK says yes the revenge glow up, and Bonnie Fountain says, oh,

666
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Speaker 2: he's hurt. For sure, he's gonna be. He's gotta be.

667
00:34:51,880 --> 00:34:55,640
Speaker 2: So Lily scoffed and talked bad about Miranda wearing a

668
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Speaker 2: crop top as a mother. I overheard her and told

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Speaker 2: Lily that Miranda is young, fit in only twenty five,

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Speaker 2: so it suits her. Oh wow, they're young twenty five.

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Speaker 4: And she's like, she can't be wearing a crop top.

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Speaker 4: You can your tone stomach?

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Speaker 2: Is? U? Are crop talks in for for for guys? Like? Yes?

674
00:35:13,480 --> 00:35:14,759
Speaker 2: Could I wear a crop top? Yes?

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Speaker 4: Why are guys so afraid of crop tops? I was

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Speaker 4: Will Smith rocked it?

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Speaker 2: Yeah he did, he did. What what was it?

678
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Speaker 4: A fresh prince?

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Speaker 2: Fresh prince? I think I want to wear a crop tops?

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Speaker 4: Wear a crop tops have a style of No.

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Speaker 1: It's a big move. Uh crop top like sweater?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, facts fax craptop sweater style it. Lily went to

683
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Speaker 2: go tell my son that I called her fat. He

684
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Speaker 2: didn't want any trouble, so you just brushed it off.

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00:35:42,760 --> 00:35:46,239
Speaker 2: He also was starting and staring at Landed all day.

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00:35:46,600 --> 00:35:48,879
Speaker 2: My oldest son told me he isn't happy with Lily,

687
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Speaker 2: but has to stay with her to prove a point.

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00:35:51,960 --> 00:35:53,320
Speaker 2: The beast reason to stay with someone.

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00:35:53,600 --> 00:35:58,799
Speaker 1: We can prove that. Kelly C just donated ten Canadian dugald.

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00:35:58,560 --> 00:36:03,080
Speaker 2: Let's go ten percent of the way to another hour.

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Speaker 2: Thank you so much. Oh yeah, we can see the

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Speaker 2: Canadian ATHO. I know it starts with Canada, Canada, Ohnada

693
00:36:13,360 --> 00:36:19,200
Speaker 2: Syrup delicious. Yeah, we're going to love me.

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Speaker 1: Okay, my best friends are Canadians.

695
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Speaker 2: But here's where things really take a turn. As I'm

696
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Speaker 2: taking a turn already. My niece and Miranda are best friends.

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Speaker 2: So when she tried to get Miranda to have a drink,

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00:36:31,719 --> 00:36:35,040
Speaker 2: Miranda and I so my niece screamed that she must

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Speaker 2: be pregnant as a joke, but the face Miranda made

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Speaker 2: everyone knew it was true.

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Speaker 1: She's like, have a drink, no, pregnant, pregnant?

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Speaker 2: So by some powers of deduction, who is the father land?

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00:36:51,239 --> 00:36:52,600
Speaker 2: I thought it was big Landing.

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Speaker 4: Oh she's having another kid.

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Speaker 2: Perfect Miranda having another with another kid with hot trainer

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Speaker 2: land and landed down.

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Speaker 4: Never cheat on perfect Miranda.

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Speaker 2: No, he wouldn't know. We wouldn't. So we start congratulating her.

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00:37:08,200 --> 00:37:13,280
Speaker 2: Then we hear my son scream, you've got to eving

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Speaker 2: begetting me. Everyone stopped and stared at him, and instead

711
00:37:18,239 --> 00:37:20,719
Speaker 2: of backing down, my son continued to yell about how

712
00:37:20,760 --> 00:37:23,160
Speaker 2: she doesn't even know that guy and that she's really

713
00:37:23,200 --> 00:37:26,520
Speaker 2: throwing everything away for two minutes.

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Speaker 4: Of fun, is that not what he did?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? One, is that not what he did? And two?

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Speaker 2: Landed is a personal trainer. He's got stamina. Come on,

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Speaker 2: I think, Yeah, dude, landed at least go in ten,

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Speaker 2: possibly thirty to ninety minutes.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think you're thinking about yourself. Yeah, the rejection

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Speaker 1: going on?

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Speaker 2: Wow, Landing can get it. While she was screaming, Lily

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Speaker 2: came up and punched Miranda.

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Speaker 4: Why ragged one?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, pregnant perfect, Miranda?

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Speaker 4: Pregnant perfect? Miranda?

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Speaker 2: What for pregnant with? Why don't you freaking sleep with

727
00:38:11,520 --> 00:38:17,960
Speaker 2: my husband? Girlfriend? Boyfriend? S? Messy? Indeed, so my niece

728
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Speaker 2: handled her and Lily ended up going to jail.

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Speaker 4: She assaulted one a person and also.

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Speaker 2: A pregnant woman. Assaulted a pregnant woman. That is insane.

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Speaker 2: The party was cut short. I don't know, it feels

732
00:38:32,960 --> 00:38:36,520
Speaker 2: like it's just getting started. Fight fight, fight. Let's put

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Speaker 2: some w e in here, get some chairs, put a

734
00:38:39,080 --> 00:38:45,040
Speaker 2: ring in there. The party was cut short. But after

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Speaker 2: everyone left, my husband and I found my son bowed

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Speaker 2: up on the couch crying like a little bit.

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Speaker 5: Should Oh oh sorry, I was thinking that they were

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Speaker 5: talking about Miranda's.

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Speaker 2: Bitch boy. Nothing. Son on the ground.

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Speaker 4: He was acting so much like a baby. It thought

741
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Speaker 4: we were taking baby.

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Speaker 2: No, no, no, this is a real fuel human boy, man child.

743
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Speaker 2: My husband grabbed him by his collar and said he

744
00:39:14,160 --> 00:39:17,200
Speaker 2: brought this mess upon himself and crying about it now

745
00:39:17,440 --> 00:39:20,600
Speaker 2: shows that he's nothing but a coward. Oh. I mean,

746
00:39:21,360 --> 00:39:24,680
Speaker 2: I'm not saying he doesn't deserve it, but these parents

747
00:39:24,760 --> 00:39:26,080
Speaker 2: aren't just giving him.

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Speaker 4: Hate their child.

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Speaker 2: Dude.

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Speaker 1: You know what's not cowardly is donating ten dollars dream

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Speaker 1: like savage. Savage greetings from s Salem, Massachusetts.

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Speaker 2: That's spooky town. That's where the witch trials are. Love

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Speaker 2: everything you guys do. I look forward to every upload

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Speaker 2: and they really make my day. Well, thank you. We're

755
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Speaker 2: twenty percent. They're to our our our goal, and baby Godzilla,

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Speaker 2: I know you're forty minutes late, but don't worry. If

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Speaker 2: we get to our goal, we're gonna we're gonna get

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Speaker 2: to another hour. So just getting started, just getting started, potentially.

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Speaker 4: But fortes early.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So he tried to explain that he knew he ruined

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Speaker 2: everything but thought he had time for a second chance.

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Speaker 2: I said to him in the harshest tone, like there

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Speaker 2: wasn't already they needed to be harsher that he was

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Speaker 2: a piece of shit who I'm embarrassed to call a son.

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Speaker 2: So he's getting everything he asked for. I then told

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Speaker 2: him to get the fuck out of my house and

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Speaker 2: don't come back to Miranda, and don't come back until

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Speaker 2: Miranda accepts his apology. My three older sons heard what

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Speaker 2: I told him. The two oldest agree that what I

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Speaker 2: said with what I said, but said that I could

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Speaker 2: have told him in a nicer way. My youngest said

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Speaker 2: he was already at his lowest and shouldn't have said

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00:40:48,160 --> 00:40:51,200
Speaker 2: anything at all. I also heard that since Miranda decided

775
00:40:51,200 --> 00:40:53,960
Speaker 2: to press charges, Lily is stuck in jail because my

776
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Speaker 2: son refuses to pay her bail, so to break up

777
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Speaker 2: with her high a hole. There are some relevant comments

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Speaker 2: and an updates, but before we get into that, I

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Speaker 2: want to ask, is O p the a hole? Right?

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00:41:08,640 --> 00:41:13,400
Speaker 2: Obviously this this dude is a massive piece of pope.

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00:41:14,719 --> 00:41:18,000
Speaker 2: But ba ba but is this too harsh?

782
00:41:18,040 --> 00:41:22,440
Speaker 1: Sleepless nights just donating fifty US dollars?

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Speaker 2: Old on? Baby goes? Really? Hey, righty right? We read

784
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Speaker 2: fully go up? Go U go? Okay, So I got you, guys,

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Speaker 2: I don't have much, so here you go sleepless nights.

786
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Speaker 2: Thank you so much, baby gone Zella. Okay, Sam, I

787
00:41:42,320 --> 00:41:44,120
Speaker 2: have a ten hour shift tonight, so you better get

788
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Speaker 2: to it.

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00:41:45,080 --> 00:41:49,880
Speaker 1: We are going for another hour struggle. So thank you guys.

790
00:41:50,239 --> 00:41:54,480
Speaker 2: Uh, we appreciate you. But getting back to the story, Yes,

791
00:41:54,880 --> 00:41:57,080
Speaker 2: what do you think, like, do you think it is?

792
00:41:57,640 --> 00:41:59,439
Speaker 2: It is? Is? There is there such a thing as

793
00:41:59,640 --> 00:42:00,440
Speaker 2: too harsh?

794
00:42:00,480 --> 00:42:04,560
Speaker 1: So breaking this down, I think that they definitely should

795
00:42:04,600 --> 00:42:06,680
Speaker 1: have kicked It was good that they kicked him out

796
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Speaker 1: of the house, right, It's good that they're reprimanding him.

797
00:42:10,880 --> 00:42:14,680
Speaker 1: And so ultimately I'm gonna go not the ahole personally, Okay,

798
00:42:14,760 --> 00:42:16,839
Speaker 1: like they needed Yeah, they could have changed their tone

799
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Speaker 1: a bit and like whatever else. But ultimately I think

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Speaker 1: that he needed to hear this stuff because he has

801
00:42:24,560 --> 00:42:25,240
Speaker 1: to stop.

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00:42:27,160 --> 00:42:30,120
Speaker 2: I don't know, yeah, I mean, does he like right,

803
00:42:30,120 --> 00:42:31,520
Speaker 2: you could put it on both of us when you

804
00:42:31,520 --> 00:42:34,760
Speaker 2: figure out the goal weidget maybe, but like I feel

805
00:42:34,760 --> 00:42:39,080
Speaker 2: like it feels like it could be possibly too harsh,

806
00:42:39,719 --> 00:42:43,080
Speaker 2: and like he's already already he already knows he's a yeah,

807
00:42:43,120 --> 00:42:45,719
Speaker 2: he's already like on a like a like a piece

808
00:42:45,719 --> 00:42:48,400
Speaker 2: of shit. Wait, Riley, go up a little bit. Shout

809
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Speaker 2: out to Blue ALTI twelve, let's keep it going. We will,

810
00:42:54,000 --> 00:42:57,160
Speaker 2: We're we're we're freaking rocking and rolling. But it feels

811
00:42:57,160 --> 00:42:58,920
Speaker 2: like it could be too much. I think he's around

812
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Speaker 2: twenty five Herbie Race is how old is he? Again?

813
00:43:01,360 --> 00:43:04,320
Speaker 2: He's probably around twenty five because his ex wife is

814
00:43:04,360 --> 00:43:08,920
Speaker 2: around twenty five. But it's like he's already at his lowest.

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00:43:09,080 --> 00:43:12,399
Speaker 2: I think just piling on isn't going to make him

816
00:43:13,640 --> 00:43:16,600
Speaker 2: better and could just like just funnel him into a

817
00:43:16,640 --> 00:43:20,759
Speaker 2: depression and he could I don't know, he could just

818
00:43:20,960 --> 00:43:23,319
Speaker 2: not want to recover. I don't know. What do you think? Yah,

819
00:43:24,000 --> 00:43:24,560
Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 5: I think, like in normal like for other people, if

821
00:43:29,400 --> 00:43:31,800
Speaker 5: they said this to him, I'd be like, yeah, he sucks.

822
00:43:32,239 --> 00:43:33,960
Speaker 4: But maybe just because it's his mom.

823
00:43:33,800 --> 00:43:36,440
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, yeah, that is like the one person

824
00:43:36,520 --> 00:43:38,399
Speaker 1: that's supposed to like at.

825
00:43:38,400 --> 00:43:42,279
Speaker 2: Least like he deserves it. Yeah, but is it the right?

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Speaker 1: I also just realized, like, is she's she kicked kicking

827
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Speaker 1: him out of the house right at that moment?

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Speaker 4: Does he live at their house?

829
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Speaker 2: I guess so?

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Speaker 5: Or is she's just like like hanging out and she's like,

831
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Speaker 5: get out of my house.

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Speaker 2: Oh you could be right. I think I think he's

833
00:43:57,560 --> 00:43:59,719
Speaker 2: I think she's just like get out of my house.

834
00:44:00,040 --> 00:44:02,480
Speaker 1: Hey yeah, yeah, go go back to your place.

835
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Speaker 2: Well or John, you have uh machinations of being a

836
00:44:07,640 --> 00:44:11,920
Speaker 2: father in the future, I sure do. If this was

837
00:44:12,000 --> 00:44:15,040
Speaker 2: your piece of shit son, Yes, not saying you would raise,

838
00:44:15,800 --> 00:44:17,880
Speaker 2: not say you would raise this kind of guy. But

839
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Speaker 2: what would you what would you do in this situation?

840
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Speaker 2: I would you say, like, he's at his lowest moment,

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00:44:24,960 --> 00:44:27,840
Speaker 2: oh p said you're a piece of shit and you

842
00:44:27,840 --> 00:44:29,040
Speaker 2: should know it. What would you say?

843
00:44:29,320 --> 00:44:31,200
Speaker 1: Honestly, I don't know if I would say it to

844
00:44:31,239 --> 00:44:33,440
Speaker 1: him in that moment, but I would probably the next

845
00:44:33,560 --> 00:44:37,880
Speaker 1: day sit him down and be like, hey, look you like,

846
00:44:38,239 --> 00:44:40,239
Speaker 1: if you want your life to keep going this way,

847
00:44:40,400 --> 00:44:41,880
Speaker 1: this is what's going to keep happening. If you make

848
00:44:41,920 --> 00:44:44,880
Speaker 1: these terrible decisions, you keep hurting people, you keep bringing

849
00:44:44,920 --> 00:44:48,719
Speaker 1: around people like your girlfriend literally that is literally dunching

850
00:44:48,960 --> 00:44:52,520
Speaker 1: the pregnant wife of your children. Like, if you keep

851
00:44:52,520 --> 00:44:54,839
Speaker 1: doing this, your life is just going to keep doing

852
00:44:54,840 --> 00:44:58,799
Speaker 1: going down this path, and like it's unacceptable, you know,

853
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Speaker 1: I gotta tell you to you straight back. Think I

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00:45:00,200 --> 00:45:03,359
Speaker 1: would deliver it like in that tone. You know, I'm

855
00:45:03,400 --> 00:45:05,480
Speaker 1: not like you have a piece of crap.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it seems like the mom from the get go

857
00:45:11,600 --> 00:45:13,960
Speaker 5: is on like Miranda's side.

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00:45:15,080 --> 00:45:18,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, more so like like like is is she really

859
00:45:19,280 --> 00:45:21,920
Speaker 2: giving a chance? I mean, like is she like I

860
00:45:21,960 --> 00:45:24,799
Speaker 2: even I mean not that he's obviously he's doing so

861
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Speaker 2: much wrong. But but we wanted to change. I want

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Speaker 2: I wonder if there's previous biases going into them being

863
00:45:31,280 --> 00:45:36,919
Speaker 2: so harsh. But uh, Michelle, yes, we are actually live,

864
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Speaker 2: baby Godzilla. I might have to open up a browser,

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Speaker 2: please do. I don't know what that is in reference

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Speaker 2: to just blank where the button would be, Oh, a

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Speaker 2: joint option for what? Oh maybe for our membership. I'm

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Speaker 2: not sure, but yeah, oh, where's the link to become

869
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Speaker 2: a member? If you Yeah, it's a joint it's a

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Speaker 2: join button. If you go to one of our previous

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Speaker 2: live streams that says members only, you can click it

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Speaker 2: and it should say like a join thing. So if

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Speaker 2: you want to join to see this live stream after

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Speaker 2: it's done, please join. But we are going for another

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Speaker 2: hour because we reached our one hundred dollars goal, so

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Speaker 2: we're gonna keep it moving. John, do you want to

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Speaker 2: hit us with this next freaking story story.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I do hit them harder than fully hit the girlfriends.

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00:46:27,960 --> 00:46:29,440
Speaker 2: All right, I'm not gonna say.

880
00:46:32,120 --> 00:46:40,800
Speaker 1: Correct. What is going on with my mouth that's saying

881
00:46:40,880 --> 00:46:43,319
Speaker 1: things like am I the A hole for telling my

882
00:46:43,400 --> 00:46:46,440
Speaker 1: wife that I would choose my mom over the birth

883
00:46:46,800 --> 00:46:50,160
Speaker 1: of our baby? This is okayop show, we read the

884
00:46:50,200 --> 00:46:51,880
Speaker 1: craziest true stories on Earth.

885
00:46:52,520 --> 00:46:54,280
Speaker 2: I'm John, Sam and Sophia.

886
00:46:54,760 --> 00:46:57,080
Speaker 1: Would this person be the a hole for telling the

887
00:46:57,120 --> 00:47:01,880
Speaker 1: wife and saying, hey, I'm choosing my mom overall baby?

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00:47:02,440 --> 00:47:06,719
Speaker 2: Choosing the mom over old baby? Uh birth, choosing the

889
00:47:06,719 --> 00:47:09,040
Speaker 2: mom over the baby? Just birth of a baby, the

890
00:47:09,080 --> 00:47:11,000
Speaker 2: birth of a baby. I want to hang out with

891
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Speaker 2: my mom and not being the delivery, right, Yeah, that's

892
00:47:13,080 --> 00:47:14,880
Speaker 2: what I mean the babies. I can't even remember it.

893
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Speaker 5: Dude, Yeah, no, you're the a hole?

894
00:47:18,600 --> 00:47:24,040
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah probably Also quick correction Earlier, when I said

895
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Speaker 1: that line, I was thinking that the the a hole

896
00:47:26,760 --> 00:47:29,520
Speaker 1: in the in the story got hit, and I got confused,

897
00:47:29,560 --> 00:47:31,279
Speaker 1: and then I said the exact wrong thing.

898
00:47:32,000 --> 00:47:34,960
Speaker 2: Who's the dude, the the guy that was crying on

899
00:47:35,000 --> 00:47:35,719
Speaker 2: the floor, And.

900
00:47:35,719 --> 00:47:37,680
Speaker 4: Oh you thought, yeah I got hit?

901
00:47:38,080 --> 00:47:41,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mixed it up getting hit.

902
00:47:41,280 --> 00:47:45,600
Speaker 1: And then realized I literally said the exact incorrect thing.

903
00:47:45,920 --> 00:47:50,160
Speaker 5: Sure, John, John, this is John's YouTuber apology.

904
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Speaker 2: Guys, let's get into those stores.

905
00:47:52,680 --> 00:47:56,040
Speaker 1: So good Shirt three sixties says this is a throwaway account.

906
00:47:56,080 --> 00:47:58,080
Speaker 1: I will check in the comments, but not all so

907
00:47:58,200 --> 00:48:00,440
Speaker 1: they get started. I am thirty six man and my

908
00:48:00,480 --> 00:48:03,160
Speaker 1: wife is thirty three female. We are expecting our first

909
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Speaker 1: child soon. My mother, who is seventy, was diagnosed with

910
00:48:06,680 --> 00:48:11,080
Speaker 1: stage four cancer and has been hospitalized since, and it

911
00:48:11,160 --> 00:48:13,200
Speaker 1: is so bad that the doctors are saying that she's

912
00:48:13,239 --> 00:48:16,040
Speaker 1: not going to survive since treatments are not working well

913
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Speaker 1: on her. My dad passed away when I was young,

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Speaker 1: and my mom took care of me while working two

915
00:48:21,080 --> 00:48:23,799
Speaker 1: jobs so that I could have a good life. I

916
00:48:23,800 --> 00:48:26,400
Speaker 1: feel like I owe everything to my mother. I bought

917
00:48:26,400 --> 00:48:28,919
Speaker 1: her a house and whatever she needed so that way

918
00:48:28,960 --> 00:48:31,359
Speaker 1: she could leave for elder years well, since she had

919
00:48:31,360 --> 00:48:34,200
Speaker 1: to struggle so much. When I got home from work

920
00:48:34,360 --> 00:48:37,120
Speaker 1: and visiting my mom, my wife and I were talking

921
00:48:37,520 --> 00:48:40,920
Speaker 1: and she asked if you got a call, And she asked,

922
00:48:41,400 --> 00:48:43,200
Speaker 1: if you got a call that I was in labor

923
00:48:43,360 --> 00:48:45,640
Speaker 1: or your mom was going to pass away, who would

924
00:48:45,719 --> 00:48:46,160
Speaker 1: you pick?

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00:48:46,800 --> 00:48:51,880
Speaker 5: Why would you ask that question pathetical is that that's horrible.

926
00:48:52,480 --> 00:48:54,040
Speaker 4: I take it back. He's not the ale.

927
00:48:54,880 --> 00:48:57,960
Speaker 2: Oh dude, but which one were you picked? Though? Truly?

928
00:48:59,080 --> 00:49:01,960
Speaker 2: Oh no, this is just a dumb which will Which

929
00:49:01,960 --> 00:49:04,000
Speaker 2: one would you pick? John? If your child I'm as

930
00:49:04,000 --> 00:49:06,799
Speaker 2: in labor, your mom's dying, what do you pick?

931
00:49:07,080 --> 00:49:08,560
Speaker 4: I would absolutely choose my mom.

932
00:49:08,640 --> 00:49:09,839
Speaker 2: Yeah, I would choose my mom.

933
00:49:09,960 --> 00:49:14,560
Speaker 5: Yeah, baby stop.

934
00:49:15,840 --> 00:49:18,120
Speaker 2: I would choose I feel like that's an easy Yeah,

935
00:49:18,320 --> 00:49:20,279
Speaker 2: it's like you can you're going to see your child,

936
00:49:20,680 --> 00:49:23,600
Speaker 2: the child? What if your wife dies in childbirth?

937
00:49:25,880 --> 00:49:29,080
Speaker 1: So much tragedy, so much tragedy.

938
00:49:29,160 --> 00:49:31,320
Speaker 2: I can't help it.

939
00:49:31,000 --> 00:49:34,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's it's not as much tragedy as whoever just

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00:49:34,160 --> 00:49:36,239
Speaker 1: joined our members?

941
00:49:37,040 --> 00:49:41,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, new members, Edwards and Sleepless Nights, all of our

942
00:49:41,280 --> 00:49:41,760
Speaker 2: new members.

943
00:49:41,760 --> 00:49:44,600
Speaker 1: We're so happy, thank you, thank you for joining. So

944
00:49:44,719 --> 00:49:47,719
Speaker 1: back to the story. I told her I would pick

945
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Speaker 1: up my mom. She asked why, and I told her

946
00:49:50,280 --> 00:49:52,200
Speaker 1: that I wanted to be there to say goodbye to

947
00:49:52,239 --> 00:49:55,200
Speaker 1: my mom since I would never see her again, and

948
00:49:55,280 --> 00:49:58,160
Speaker 1: so she would have somebody there in her final moments.

949
00:49:58,920 --> 00:50:02,120
Speaker 1: She got mad and said that what about her and

950
00:50:02,160 --> 00:50:04,480
Speaker 1: our baby? And I told her I would try to

951
00:50:04,520 --> 00:50:06,480
Speaker 1: be there as fast as I could after my mom,

952
00:50:06,840 --> 00:50:09,600
Speaker 1: but that most likely wouldn't happen, so I told her

953
00:50:09,719 --> 00:50:12,400
Speaker 1: not to worry about it. She was still mad and

954
00:50:12,440 --> 00:50:17,000
Speaker 1: told me to get out of the house. Be gone,

955
00:50:17,320 --> 00:50:19,239
Speaker 1: come get out of here.

956
00:50:19,320 --> 00:50:19,919
Speaker 2: That's not fair.

957
00:50:20,040 --> 00:50:23,239
Speaker 5: That's like to get mad over a hypothetical, especially when

958
00:50:23,320 --> 00:50:26,120
Speaker 5: like Opie's mother is sick.

959
00:50:26,200 --> 00:50:28,560
Speaker 2: Is literally dying cancer, that's.

960
00:50:28,200 --> 00:50:31,560
Speaker 1: Dying, like it's already terrible, but like the fact that

961
00:50:31,600 --> 00:50:36,200
Speaker 1: the mother's sick is just is sick. I left and

962
00:50:36,239 --> 00:50:39,520
Speaker 1: now I'm at my mom's house. So Reddit, am I

963
00:50:39,760 --> 00:50:42,120
Speaker 1: the a hole? And we have some edits, but everyone

964
00:50:42,200 --> 00:50:45,000
Speaker 1: tells me, now is op the a hole? Put your

965
00:50:45,040 --> 00:50:47,160
Speaker 1: answers in the comments right now?

966
00:50:48,120 --> 00:50:49,480
Speaker 2: But to be what do you think? Break it down?

967
00:50:49,560 --> 00:50:52,960
Speaker 5: No, no, why I think it's I get I think

968
00:50:52,960 --> 00:50:57,600
Speaker 5: it's just crazy to get mad over a hypothetical, especially

969
00:50:57,719 --> 00:51:00,520
Speaker 5: in concern to like losing a fan only member.

970
00:51:01,120 --> 00:51:06,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I think I think legitimately, like choosing your

971
00:51:06,840 --> 00:51:09,920
Speaker 2: your mother who's dying over a baby that will most

972
00:51:10,000 --> 00:51:13,279
Speaker 2: likely live, is not in a whole thing to do

973
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Speaker 2: at all. I mean, that's that's been like, it's it's

974
00:51:16,000 --> 00:51:19,240
Speaker 2: it's it's hard to die. Also, like not surrounded by

975
00:51:19,400 --> 00:51:22,040
Speaker 2: people that you love and true and also the baby's

976
00:51:22,080 --> 00:51:28,040
Speaker 2: not gonna remember. Yeah, John's emphatic about that. It's true.

977
00:51:28,440 --> 00:51:30,920
Speaker 1: It's so like like everything just points to again. You

978
00:51:30,920 --> 00:51:33,919
Speaker 1: can have that moment. Uh, you can see your see

979
00:51:33,920 --> 00:51:35,359
Speaker 1: with your child and grow up. But that's a lot

980
00:51:35,360 --> 00:51:37,400
Speaker 1: of the last moment with your mom. But it's not

981
00:51:37,480 --> 00:51:43,919
Speaker 1: the last moment that Scarlett do your showing my bond

982
00:51:44,040 --> 00:51:45,320
Speaker 1: goes so well together.

983
00:51:45,560 --> 00:51:48,520
Speaker 2: Hey, take a hit for us and come on into

984
00:51:48,600 --> 00:51:51,600
Speaker 2: this live stream us your bong. Yeah, take a freaking

985
00:51:51,880 --> 00:51:53,200
Speaker 2: fat rip, dude.

986
00:51:52,960 --> 00:51:57,160
Speaker 1: That's right. And uh, lady Lobster, one dollar for each

987
00:51:57,320 --> 00:51:58,880
Speaker 1: claw lobsters.

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00:51:59,040 --> 00:52:01,960
Speaker 2: Nice, nice, gotta love it. Thanks for that.

989
00:52:02,080 --> 00:52:03,840
Speaker 1: But y'all, there's more.

990
00:52:04,320 --> 00:52:04,920
Speaker 2: There's more.

991
00:52:05,280 --> 00:52:10,040
Speaker 1: Y Edit's number one to everyone saying that I would

992
00:52:10,080 --> 00:52:11,280
Speaker 1: be leaving her alone.

993
00:52:11,680 --> 00:52:12,759
Speaker 2: No, I wouldn't be.

994
00:52:12,920 --> 00:52:15,560
Speaker 1: She would have her mom there as she wanted to

995
00:52:15,560 --> 00:52:18,120
Speaker 1: have her mom with her. And also this was in

996
00:52:18,200 --> 00:52:20,040
Speaker 1: between the lines. But it looks like the wife is

997
00:52:20,120 --> 00:52:23,960
Speaker 1: pregnant and the mom. Yeah, so she's asking hypothetical that is.

998
00:52:23,920 --> 00:52:24,520
Speaker 2: That is true?

999
00:52:24,640 --> 00:52:28,640
Speaker 1: Yeah? Yes, I was right for leaving my house. It

1000
00:52:28,719 --> 00:52:30,680
Speaker 1: was either I leave or she go, and I was

1001
00:52:30,719 --> 00:52:32,880
Speaker 1: not about to put out my pregnant wife out of

1002
00:52:32,880 --> 00:52:36,000
Speaker 1: our house. Yes, I have been there for her. I

1003
00:52:36,040 --> 00:52:38,000
Speaker 1: have taken off work to comfort and help her in

1004
00:52:38,040 --> 00:52:40,600
Speaker 1: any way that she needs during this pregnancy. At it

1005
00:52:40,719 --> 00:52:43,479
Speaker 1: number two, I keep getting the same question about why

1006
00:52:43,480 --> 00:52:45,799
Speaker 1: did I leave my house, even though I may own

1007
00:52:45,920 --> 00:52:48,440
Speaker 1: the house. It was late and I didn't want my

1008
00:52:48,480 --> 00:52:51,080
Speaker 1: pregnant wife out late at night. But she told me

1009
00:52:51,120 --> 00:52:52,200
Speaker 1: to leave, so I knew it was.

1010
00:52:52,200 --> 00:52:54,520
Speaker 2: Either me or her, meaning I think that right. So

1011
00:52:54,560 --> 00:52:57,759
Speaker 2: she was giving the option of her leaving, which is

1012
00:52:57,800 --> 00:53:03,200
Speaker 2: like to lose lose whoever leads it's But what's never

1013
00:53:03,200 --> 00:53:07,800
Speaker 2: a lose lose is ann her Bannanner donating five bucks

1014
00:53:07,920 --> 00:53:11,160
Speaker 2: US dollars. Thank you so much, and thank you for

1015
00:53:11,239 --> 00:53:13,600
Speaker 2: looking forward to our videos every day. Oh we love it.

1016
00:53:13,680 --> 00:53:14,560
Speaker 2: We love making your day.

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00:53:15,640 --> 00:53:17,799
Speaker 1: Number two, my mother is in the hospital and she

1018
00:53:17,920 --> 00:53:19,080
Speaker 1: is not at her house.

1019
00:53:19,520 --> 00:53:19,800
Speaker 2: Three.

1020
00:53:20,040 --> 00:53:21,680
Speaker 1: I thought a lot about what a lot of you

1021
00:53:21,760 --> 00:53:24,160
Speaker 1: said about how I should put her first. But she

1022
00:53:24,160 --> 00:53:27,359
Speaker 1: doesn't put me first all at all. She chooses her

1023
00:53:27,400 --> 00:53:30,600
Speaker 1: sisters over me all the time. Fourth, I do not

1024
00:53:30,719 --> 00:53:33,120
Speaker 1: make her feel second. I have put my wife first,

1025
00:53:33,200 --> 00:53:35,880
Speaker 1: especially in emergencies, and I have tried my best to

1026
00:53:35,920 --> 00:53:39,160
Speaker 1: comfort her. I have gone home and now I'm thinking

1027
00:53:39,280 --> 00:53:42,719
Speaker 1: I don't need to apologize, y'all. I really don't know.

1028
00:53:43,200 --> 00:53:46,760
Speaker 1: Thanks to everyone who commented, and we have some relevant

1029
00:53:46,760 --> 00:53:48,439
Speaker 1: comments in the story, but I have to first ask

1030
00:53:48,520 --> 00:53:52,480
Speaker 1: everyone in the chat and everyone in this room, should

1031
00:53:52,840 --> 00:53:55,480
Speaker 1: ope apologize?

1032
00:53:55,680 --> 00:53:59,480
Speaker 2: Yes or no? What does he have to apologize for? Right?

1033
00:54:00,360 --> 00:54:00,720
Speaker 4: Yeah?

1034
00:54:01,080 --> 00:54:03,000
Speaker 2: Whoat more?

1035
00:54:03,560 --> 00:54:03,719
Speaker 4: No?

1036
00:54:03,719 --> 00:54:05,840
Speaker 5: No, No, I don't think he has to apologize. But

1037
00:54:06,239 --> 00:54:10,840
Speaker 5: I think that it's difficult. It's a difficult situation because

1038
00:54:10,840 --> 00:54:16,279
Speaker 5: like he can't just divorce his pregnant wife. Okay, I

1039
00:54:16,320 --> 00:54:18,680
Speaker 5: don't think he can divorce like over one spot.

1040
00:54:18,520 --> 00:54:19,600
Speaker 2: You know. Yeah, it's like.

1041
00:54:19,560 --> 00:54:21,279
Speaker 4: Obviously I don't think she's in the right at all.

1042
00:54:21,600 --> 00:54:25,319
Speaker 2: Also, also I think we're maybe uh missing out on

1043
00:54:25,440 --> 00:54:26,520
Speaker 2: pregnancy hormones?

1044
00:54:26,880 --> 00:54:29,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, like, is there is.

1045
00:54:28,960 --> 00:54:32,879
Speaker 2: There anything excusable? Like you get one fucking crazy thing

1046
00:54:32,920 --> 00:54:35,520
Speaker 2: that you're probably like once a day. I don't know

1047
00:54:35,520 --> 00:54:38,920
Speaker 2: what what what any pregnant people that have been pregnant

1048
00:54:39,920 --> 00:54:43,120
Speaker 2: pregnancy hormones? Is that like a thing that could happen?

1049
00:54:43,480 --> 00:54:47,200
Speaker 2: But rise A Khan to ask the people, uh what

1050
00:54:47,239 --> 00:54:52,640
Speaker 2: they think? Risea con says yes to apologize. Gracie Macka

1051
00:54:52,680 --> 00:54:58,040
Speaker 2: says if he wants to. But nah, Madeline gilstrap says, therapy, therapy, therapy,

1052
00:54:59,280 --> 00:55:02,960
Speaker 2: more More says yes, so to apologize Marmore you think,

1053
00:55:03,040 --> 00:55:07,080
Speaker 2: say yes. Madeline gilstrapp All says, hormones would not make

1054
00:55:07,120 --> 00:55:11,240
Speaker 2: me kick my husband out. Okay, that's good, fair point. Yeah.

1055
00:55:11,719 --> 00:55:13,480
Speaker 2: T Bree says, I love that Sofia is on so

1056
00:55:13,560 --> 00:55:16,240
Speaker 2: much now I love her too.

1057
00:55:17,440 --> 00:55:18,320
Speaker 4: That's so nice.

1058
00:55:18,960 --> 00:55:21,680
Speaker 2: Kim Kwant says therapy. See, I feel like a lot

1059
00:55:21,719 --> 00:55:25,480
Speaker 2: of this could just be solved with therapy. Truly, truly,

1060
00:55:26,280 --> 00:55:31,000
Speaker 2: I mean some relationship couple's things. It obviously seems you

1061
00:55:31,040 --> 00:55:33,040
Speaker 2: know what I think? All right, correct me if you

1062
00:55:33,040 --> 00:55:35,399
Speaker 2: guys think I'm wrong. But what it seems like is she,

1063
00:55:35,960 --> 00:55:38,320
Speaker 2: regardless of whether it's true or not, she's maybe feeling

1064
00:55:38,719 --> 00:55:42,920
Speaker 2: that he's not prioritizing her as much as he's prioritizing

1065
00:55:43,160 --> 00:55:45,120
Speaker 2: his mother and maybe feels like a little threatened by

1066
00:55:45,200 --> 00:55:49,040
Speaker 2: this scenario or like Admiral, I think, in this this

1067
00:55:49,239 --> 00:55:54,120
Speaker 2: scenario maybe signifies a larger issue that she is perceiving. Right,

1068
00:55:54,160 --> 00:55:57,480
Speaker 2: It's like an orange peel. It's like an orange peel.

1069
00:55:57,600 --> 00:55:59,960
Speaker 2: It's like an orange peel theory, It's like an onion.

1070
00:56:00,360 --> 00:56:05,400
Speaker 2: So many layers, but this story has layers too, like

1071
00:56:05,480 --> 00:56:11,080
Speaker 2: these relevant comments. Also thanks uh Renny real Acuma for

1072
00:56:11,239 --> 00:56:14,400
Speaker 2: joining our Little Sillies new members. Hey appreciate you. Shout

1073
00:56:14,480 --> 00:56:15,080
Speaker 2: out to you.

1074
00:56:15,560 --> 00:56:16,760
Speaker 4: Cho's our little Sillies.

1075
00:56:17,000 --> 00:56:19,280
Speaker 2: Yeah you don't like our little I love our little Sillies.

1076
00:56:19,400 --> 00:56:24,239
Speaker 2: There there are little Sillies. So this comes from Pace No.

1077
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Speaker 2: Forty one eight.

1078
00:56:25,800 --> 00:56:27,840
Speaker 1: You got kicked out of your house for getting a

1079
00:56:27,920 --> 00:56:31,960
Speaker 1: hypothetical question wrong on face value. When you put it

1080
00:56:32,080 --> 00:56:35,360
Speaker 1: like that, when you on face value, you're not the

1081
00:56:35,360 --> 00:56:37,680
Speaker 1: a hole. But what is likely happening is your wife

1082
00:56:37,719 --> 00:56:39,880
Speaker 1: isn't feeling the support and love that she really wants

1083
00:56:39,920 --> 00:56:43,480
Speaker 1: and needs right now. Is she super needy and controlling

1084
00:56:43,520 --> 00:56:47,520
Speaker 1: woman or is she simply feeling a tad neglected hormonal

1085
00:56:47,640 --> 00:56:50,400
Speaker 1: question mark. I think you need to consider why she

1086
00:56:50,560 --> 00:56:53,280
Speaker 1: asked the question and address that that is the problem.

1087
00:56:53,480 --> 00:56:56,720
Speaker 1: Great point the hypothetical question and hurt reaction is simply

1088
00:56:56,800 --> 00:56:59,319
Speaker 1: how it plays out. Get out of your mom's house

1089
00:56:59,360 --> 00:57:02,080
Speaker 1: and go fix that. Leaving her home alone isn't going

1090
00:57:02,120 --> 00:57:04,239
Speaker 1: to help. Sleep out in front if you need to

1091
00:57:04,600 --> 00:57:07,640
Speaker 1: bring lots of apologies to you, were not kicked out

1092
00:57:07,680 --> 00:57:09,920
Speaker 1: for a bad answer here, there is a feeling of

1093
00:57:10,040 --> 00:57:13,640
Speaker 1: loss and something missing that your wife isn't feeling and

1094
00:57:13,719 --> 00:57:15,840
Speaker 1: needs to as soon as possible, which is kind of

1095
00:57:15,880 --> 00:57:18,360
Speaker 1: what we were thinking. Yeah, it's like this is below

1096
00:57:18,440 --> 00:57:21,320
Speaker 1: the surface, there's something deeper. Figure out and go give

1097
00:57:21,360 --> 00:57:23,640
Speaker 1: it to her and give her another version of it

1098
00:57:23,680 --> 00:57:26,280
Speaker 1: every day for the rest of your life. Go find

1099
00:57:26,360 --> 00:57:29,200
Speaker 1: what part of your Go find what part of love

1100
00:57:29,240 --> 00:57:32,640
Speaker 1: your wife doesn't think she has. Don't become the a

1101
00:57:32,800 --> 00:57:36,760
Speaker 1: hole and sleep at your mom's house. Interesting, So they're like.

1102
00:57:37,560 --> 00:57:40,000
Speaker 2: That's a hot take. It's the hot take. I don't

1103
00:57:40,000 --> 00:57:44,280
Speaker 2: know if I fully agree. I want to break it down.

1104
00:57:44,320 --> 00:57:47,760
Speaker 2: Lizzie Martinez, thank you for your donation, but like, I

1105
00:57:48,880 --> 00:57:53,800
Speaker 2: don't know, I feel so what they're saying is Opie

1106
00:57:54,000 --> 00:57:55,960
Speaker 2: is the a hole. If they go to their.

1107
00:57:56,480 --> 00:57:59,120
Speaker 1: Moms and kind of like I think they're saying, in

1108
00:57:59,120 --> 00:58:01,480
Speaker 1: the lead nor the problem.

1109
00:58:01,520 --> 00:58:03,520
Speaker 4: Right, Yeah, and if you don't, I think they do

1110
00:58:03,680 --> 00:58:06,760
Speaker 4: have to talk it through. Yeah, yeah, I don't think

1111
00:58:06,800 --> 00:58:07,040
Speaker 4: they can.

1112
00:58:07,120 --> 00:58:11,120
Speaker 2: Just like I guess it's like knowing that if OPI

1113
00:58:11,240 --> 00:58:12,800
Speaker 2: knows that they have to talk it through and still

1114
00:58:12,840 --> 00:58:16,240
Speaker 2: chooses to leave and not address it, yes, they are

1115
00:58:16,440 --> 00:58:18,360
Speaker 2: maybe not doing the best thing of it. I don't

1116
00:58:18,400 --> 00:58:21,560
Speaker 2: think it's an a whole move, especially because the wife said,

1117
00:58:21,680 --> 00:58:22,600
Speaker 2: like get out.

1118
00:58:22,680 --> 00:58:24,040
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying, is like I feel like the

1119
00:58:24,080 --> 00:58:26,800
Speaker 1: wife might want some space from him, so to be

1120
00:58:26,920 --> 00:58:29,600
Speaker 1: like I'm just gonna sleep on the porch. I feel

1121
00:58:29,600 --> 00:58:31,920
Speaker 1: like it's kind of like YO should.

1122
00:58:31,840 --> 00:58:33,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, I wouldn't sleep on the porch.

1123
00:58:33,600 --> 00:58:36,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, Well, what do you guys think? Put put it?

1124
00:58:37,240 --> 00:58:38,600
Speaker 2: Put put it in the chat. I would love to

1125
00:58:38,640 --> 00:58:41,080
Speaker 2: know if if you think OPI is being the a

1126
00:58:41,200 --> 00:58:43,840
Speaker 2: hole here or would be the A hole in leaving

1127
00:58:43,880 --> 00:58:46,360
Speaker 2: to go to the mother's, Like, this is not leaving

1128
00:58:46,360 --> 00:58:48,480
Speaker 2: to go in this hypothetical situation. This is leaving just

1129
00:58:48,520 --> 00:58:51,880
Speaker 2: to go because the wife and them are fighting one

1130
00:58:51,920 --> 00:58:55,600
Speaker 2: hundred percent. And OPI actually responds to that comment saying, no,

1131
00:58:56,000 --> 00:58:59,000
Speaker 2: she's not a needy, controlling woman. I've never thought about that,

1132
00:58:59,240 --> 00:59:02,080
Speaker 2: but I did go home and apologize today and ask

1133
00:59:02,160 --> 00:59:06,400
Speaker 2: her some questions about it, and then Sleepless Night says,

1134
00:59:06,440 --> 00:59:09,280
Speaker 2: not the a hole, RUF it says red flag, red flag,

1135
00:59:09,280 --> 00:59:11,560
Speaker 2: red flag for the wife. These mind games are just

1136
00:59:11,720 --> 00:59:15,680
Speaker 2: insane and insensitive to op and the impossible situation he's in.

1137
00:59:16,920 --> 00:59:20,600
Speaker 2: Coss Queen says sleeping on it might help, but maybe

1138
00:59:20,640 --> 00:59:21,240
Speaker 2: not on the porch.

1139
00:59:21,640 --> 00:59:26,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe not. And amNY I believe says the wife

1140
00:59:26,480 --> 00:59:28,840
Speaker 1: is being unreasonable. She needs to ask herself the same

1141
00:59:28,960 --> 00:59:32,720
Speaker 1: question and see how she answers that we'll turn.

1142
00:59:32,560 --> 00:59:35,000
Speaker 2: The tables a little. Yeah, yeah, how the turntables turned?

1143
00:59:35,120 --> 00:59:36,200
Speaker 2: How the turntables turned?

1144
00:59:37,560 --> 00:59:41,560
Speaker 1: And Madeline Gilstrip says, Loel y'all's pregnancy hormones must have

1145
00:59:41,640 --> 00:59:43,959
Speaker 1: been worse than mine. I was just crying all the time,

1146
00:59:44,080 --> 00:59:46,800
Speaker 1: not angry. So I think that's two people kind of

1147
00:59:46,840 --> 00:59:48,280
Speaker 1: saying like, okay, this does seem.

1148
00:59:48,080 --> 00:59:51,760
Speaker 2: To be oh, Dylan said Parish. Dylan Parris said, would

1149
00:59:51,760 --> 00:59:53,960
Speaker 2: be the a hole. Gotta deal with the hormones with

1150
00:59:54,000 --> 00:59:58,280
Speaker 2: your lady. You help make the baby. Yeah, Rabin's forest

1151
00:59:58,360 --> 00:59:59,000
Speaker 2: quit harder.

1152
00:59:59,120 --> 01:00:04,000
Speaker 1: Jad, I'm sorry if I can't see four okay.

1153
01:00:03,760 --> 01:00:07,960
Speaker 2: As the oldest among us. Yeah, we got all that.

1154
01:00:08,080 --> 01:00:10,400
Speaker 5: It's funny because I think I can see it better

1155
01:00:10,680 --> 01:00:13,080
Speaker 5: even though it's completely.

1156
01:00:13,880 --> 01:00:19,120
Speaker 1: I'm just trying to. I'm so I'm so locked. Sure

1157
01:00:19,200 --> 01:00:21,120
Speaker 1: I get everything you guys say right, because.

1158
01:00:20,880 --> 01:00:21,320
Speaker 4: I love.

1159
01:00:22,680 --> 01:00:25,280
Speaker 5: Unfortunately John, you don't have any excuses because we all

1160
01:00:25,760 --> 01:00:26,600
Speaker 5: have bad eyes here.

1161
01:00:28,520 --> 01:00:29,720
Speaker 2: Actually, you do glasses.

1162
01:00:30,320 --> 01:00:34,280
Speaker 1: Shush because I went to the high doctor and they said, okay,

1163
01:00:34,320 --> 01:00:36,760
Speaker 1: so here's the deal when we go further, because they

1164
01:00:36,760 --> 01:00:38,560
Speaker 1: did the you know one or two, three or four,

1165
01:00:39,200 --> 01:00:41,840
Speaker 1: your vision will get worse the more that we we

1166
01:00:41,960 --> 01:00:48,320
Speaker 1: level description. So I'm locked into the like four fifty

1167
01:00:48,320 --> 01:00:50,800
Speaker 1: five hundred or yes.

1168
01:00:51,480 --> 01:00:55,040
Speaker 2: So yeah, so there you go. What's your prescriptions of

1169
01:00:55,080 --> 01:00:58,440
Speaker 2: the chat? The chat? Let's yeah, yeah, I got.

1170
01:00:58,400 --> 01:01:01,880
Speaker 4: I got negative three twenty five and seventy five.

1171
01:01:02,160 --> 01:01:07,120
Speaker 2: Negative two two five and negative two two five. Riley,

1172
01:01:07,560 --> 01:01:14,320
Speaker 2: damn fucking get out of here. Bro, get out right.

1173
01:01:14,360 --> 01:01:16,560
Speaker 3: I'll just sleep in the hot tub. That's what I'll do.

1174
01:01:16,680 --> 01:01:17,760
Speaker 2: Oh that's all bad.

1175
01:01:18,520 --> 01:01:21,360
Speaker 1: No, No, that's that's that's a treat. We have to

1176
01:01:21,400 --> 01:01:31,640
Speaker 1: get punished. So so Kyrie dall oxo comments info. Have

1177
01:01:31,760 --> 01:01:34,440
Speaker 1: you missed some important appointments or not helping out around

1178
01:01:34,480 --> 01:01:36,760
Speaker 1: the house as much making your wife feel like she's

1179
01:01:36,800 --> 01:01:38,640
Speaker 1: alone for her to ask questions like that. I was

1180
01:01:38,680 --> 01:01:41,720
Speaker 1: also wondering, like, hey, is there something that is he

1181
01:01:41,840 --> 01:01:42,880
Speaker 1: not as attentive or whatever?

1182
01:01:42,920 --> 01:01:44,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's kind of what we're saying because he.

1183
01:01:44,160 --> 01:01:47,200
Speaker 5: Said earlier that like she always went to her or

1184
01:01:47,280 --> 01:01:49,000
Speaker 5: chose her sisters over him.

1185
01:01:49,120 --> 01:01:51,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, but I'm wondering if she was just looking for support.

1186
01:01:51,880 --> 01:01:54,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe maybe the support.

1187
01:01:53,880 --> 01:01:57,080
Speaker 1: Ope your response, Uh no, I have I've been to

1188
01:01:57,200 --> 01:01:59,560
Speaker 1: all but one of the appointments, and that's because she

1189
01:01:59,600 --> 01:02:01,680
Speaker 1: forgot to tell me about it. When I come home,

1190
01:02:01,720 --> 01:02:03,920
Speaker 1: I wash the dishes from dinner and clean the floor.

1191
01:02:04,080 --> 01:02:06,520
Speaker 1: Usually she prefers to cook. I have taken a lot.

1192
01:02:06,600 --> 01:02:08,320
Speaker 1: I have taken off a lot of days to help

1193
01:02:08,360 --> 01:02:11,200
Speaker 1: and comfort her through this, So maybe I could do more.

1194
01:02:11,280 --> 01:02:13,880
Speaker 1: I don't know what else to do, but I will ask.

1195
01:02:14,000 --> 01:02:15,760
Speaker 4: Though good I was gonna say, you should ask.

1196
01:02:16,000 --> 01:02:19,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, got it, that's a good response. Weak Possession of

1197
01:02:19,560 --> 01:02:21,520
Speaker 1: seventy six fifty says it's a hard choice, but I

1198
01:02:21,560 --> 01:02:23,880
Speaker 1: would say not the a hole, as long as your

1199
01:02:23,880 --> 01:02:26,200
Speaker 1: wife does actually have another plan for getting to the

1200
01:02:26,200 --> 01:02:29,040
Speaker 1: hospital and for someone to support her. If not, the

1201
01:02:29,080 --> 01:02:32,160
Speaker 1: situation is a little iffy. Chances of both happening at

1202
01:02:32,160 --> 01:02:34,560
Speaker 1: the same time are quite unlikely, though, so here's to

1203
01:02:34,600 --> 01:02:36,880
Speaker 1: hoping you don't actually have to choose. I think this

1204
01:02:36,960 --> 01:02:38,080
Speaker 1: hypothetical is so stupid.

1205
01:02:38,160 --> 01:02:40,760
Speaker 2: I do, I do. I hate it. I hate it.

1206
01:02:40,440 --> 01:02:44,080
Speaker 2: It's pregnancy hormones. He's the a hole for not just

1207
01:02:44,080 --> 01:02:47,480
Speaker 2: like it's like kind of like when your girlfriend asks you, would.

1208
01:02:47,160 --> 01:02:52,080
Speaker 1: You love me if I were the worm? Come on,

1209
01:02:53,280 --> 01:02:55,120
Speaker 1: you're just walking into a death draft.

1210
01:02:55,240 --> 01:02:57,160
Speaker 4: Sam. Would I still be able to host if I

1211
01:02:57,320 --> 01:02:58,080
Speaker 4: was with a worm?

1212
01:02:58,280 --> 01:03:03,920
Speaker 2: No? Could you still you still like talk?

1213
01:03:04,360 --> 01:03:04,560
Speaker 4: No?

1214
01:03:06,040 --> 01:03:11,080
Speaker 1: I go, guys, uh donate one thousand dollars. We will

1215
01:03:11,120 --> 01:03:14,000
Speaker 1: buy a worm costume for Sofia to wear on the

1216
01:03:14,080 --> 01:03:14,680
Speaker 1: live stream.

1217
01:03:14,800 --> 01:03:16,520
Speaker 4: Would you guys still watch if I were aware?

1218
01:03:17,680 --> 01:03:20,920
Speaker 2: Also shout out to April lamb Master for the one

1219
01:03:21,000 --> 01:03:25,240
Speaker 2: ninety nine. We appreciate you. And Camille says, I'd love

1220
01:03:25,480 --> 01:03:27,160
Speaker 2: Sofia as a worm.

1221
01:03:27,280 --> 01:03:30,959
Speaker 1: Guys, again, thousand dollars custom Sofia.

1222
01:03:30,680 --> 01:03:35,400
Speaker 4: Worm were worms, I'd love them the same.

1223
01:03:35,520 --> 01:03:36,640
Speaker 3: But here's my question.

1224
01:03:36,760 --> 01:03:39,360
Speaker 6: Would you know, like if you saw a worm, would

1225
01:03:39,400 --> 01:03:41,280
Speaker 6: you know Sofia or would it just be a random

1226
01:03:41,320 --> 01:03:41,920
Speaker 6: worm to you?

1227
01:03:42,040 --> 01:03:43,560
Speaker 3: And you have to connect to the worm to know

1228
01:03:43,560 --> 01:03:44,440
Speaker 3: if it was Sofia.

1229
01:03:44,880 --> 01:03:48,040
Speaker 2: Oh, like I'd have to. Sofia disappears one day and

1230
01:03:48,120 --> 01:03:50,200
Speaker 2: like I'm just have this inkling that she has been

1231
01:03:50,240 --> 01:03:52,520
Speaker 2: reincarnated as a worm, and so I have to talk

1232
01:03:52,560 --> 01:03:55,080
Speaker 2: to each worm that crosses my path, like Sofia trying

1233
01:03:55,080 --> 01:03:55,959
Speaker 2: to communicate with me.

1234
01:03:56,000 --> 01:03:58,320
Speaker 4: And then and then I would do a little bit.

1235
01:03:58,760 --> 01:04:00,760
Speaker 1: So all right, yeah, what would you do to let

1236
01:04:00,880 --> 01:04:02,280
Speaker 1: him know me?

1237
01:04:03,040 --> 01:04:07,919
Speaker 4: But in the case that you ask every worm.

1238
01:04:08,040 --> 01:04:10,080
Speaker 2: I have to ask every worm. Are you my sister?

1239
01:04:10,560 --> 01:04:13,680
Speaker 2: You're saying you can't need to get my attention. Have

1240
01:04:13,720 --> 01:04:16,520
Speaker 2: to go out to each worm? Yeah, and how am

1241
01:04:16,520 --> 01:04:17,480
Speaker 2: I supposed to do that?

1242
01:04:17,520 --> 01:04:19,560
Speaker 5: And then and then to let you know, if you

1243
01:04:19,600 --> 01:04:21,400
Speaker 5: went up to my worm and you were like, Sophia,

1244
01:04:21,520 --> 01:04:23,520
Speaker 5: is that you I would go?

1245
01:04:23,760 --> 01:04:27,280
Speaker 2: I would go, you say, you would head bang as

1246
01:04:27,320 --> 01:04:30,920
Speaker 2: the worm? Where we need to keep moving backwards? Where

1247
01:04:31,640 --> 01:04:34,760
Speaker 2: we got one little bit of Op responding before the update. Yes,

1248
01:04:35,160 --> 01:04:37,880
Speaker 2: she does have support. Her mom and sisters live close

1249
01:04:37,920 --> 01:04:40,920
Speaker 2: to us, about five minutes away. Uh, they would be

1250
01:04:41,040 --> 01:04:43,000
Speaker 2: able to drive for now. We got we got an

1251
01:04:43,040 --> 01:04:44,280
Speaker 2: update coming up, y'all.

1252
01:04:46,480 --> 01:04:47,320
Speaker 1: But what are we feeling?

1253
01:04:48,480 --> 01:04:52,880
Speaker 2: We're I mean, what so far I'm feeling OP is

1254
01:04:52,920 --> 01:04:53,480
Speaker 2: not the a hole?

1255
01:04:53,720 --> 01:04:56,400
Speaker 5: Yeah, yes, I don't think there is fully an a

1256
01:04:56,480 --> 01:04:57,560
Speaker 5: hole in this story.

1257
01:04:57,600 --> 01:04:59,880
Speaker 2: I like, like, the wife is more an a hole

1258
01:05:00,400 --> 01:05:03,760
Speaker 2: excuse because of pregnancy. I was not a lot going on.

1259
01:05:04,080 --> 01:05:06,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think I would be like, hey, I'm sure

1260
01:05:06,160 --> 01:05:06,920
Speaker 1: there's a lot going on.

1261
01:05:07,120 --> 01:05:08,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, like like this is a conversation.

1262
01:05:09,920 --> 01:05:12,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, what would you say, John, if like your pregnant

1263
01:05:12,960 --> 01:05:18,040
Speaker 2: girlfriend was like who would you choose your mom or me? Again?

1264
01:05:18,120 --> 01:05:19,680
Speaker 2: And you know she's pregnant, I.

1265
01:05:19,920 --> 01:05:23,840
Speaker 1: Would probably be like, I like these scenarios, like why why?

1266
01:05:24,000 --> 01:05:27,400
Speaker 1: I don't I don't know if these hypotheticals are productive, but.

1267
01:05:27,960 --> 01:05:29,560
Speaker 2: Like yeah, I.

1268
01:05:32,800 --> 01:05:37,720
Speaker 1: Was doing too, but yeah, I would probably go see

1269
01:05:37,760 --> 01:05:40,720
Speaker 1: my mom and try to like, you know, be in

1270
01:05:40,720 --> 01:05:43,200
Speaker 1: touch with the hospital everyone at the hospital. Try and

1271
01:05:43,400 --> 01:05:48,200
Speaker 1: you know, so you would too her. Yeah, yeah, if

1272
01:05:48,240 --> 01:05:49,560
Speaker 1: you want to put it that way, like it's just

1273
01:05:49,560 --> 01:05:53,479
Speaker 1: so unproductive, Like I don't know, but what's not unproductive is.

1274
01:05:58,880 --> 01:06:02,360
Speaker 2: Day at work on so much. Thank you for Sophia

1275
01:06:02,480 --> 01:06:05,120
Speaker 2: the Worm. Also, Riley, you're a sweet boy. I wish

1276
01:06:05,160 --> 01:06:06,160
Speaker 2: you were my son in law.

1277
01:06:06,440 --> 01:06:08,920
Speaker 3: Oh send me your daughters.

1278
01:06:10,720 --> 01:06:13,120
Speaker 1: We can make it happen. Oh dude, that would be

1279
01:06:13,120 --> 01:06:15,520
Speaker 1: a great video marrying our producer.

1280
01:06:15,840 --> 01:06:20,040
Speaker 2: Oh if you want to see Riley rising up someone online,

1281
01:06:20,280 --> 01:06:23,520
Speaker 2: there is a v that No.

1282
01:06:24,040 --> 01:06:26,040
Speaker 3: Okay, actually I have an okay story time?

1283
01:06:26,080 --> 01:06:29,720
Speaker 2: All right, all right, we will okay, okay, we're going

1284
01:06:29,720 --> 01:06:32,200
Speaker 2: to the okay story time. Let's finish this story first

1285
01:06:32,280 --> 01:06:32,960
Speaker 2: and then we'll get.

1286
01:06:32,800 --> 01:06:37,040
Speaker 1: Into it all right, Big protein update number one. Hello again,

1287
01:06:37,600 --> 01:06:39,480
Speaker 1: some of you asked for an update, So here it is.

1288
01:06:39,680 --> 01:06:42,680
Speaker 1: I went back home yesterday afternoon and she wasn't there.

1289
01:06:43,040 --> 01:06:45,040
Speaker 1: I assumed that she was at her mom's house. She

1290
01:06:45,120 --> 01:06:46,840
Speaker 1: came back in the evening and we had to talk

1291
01:06:46,840 --> 01:06:49,440
Speaker 1: about what happened, and she did apologize for asking that

1292
01:06:49,560 --> 01:06:52,680
Speaker 1: question and that when she thought about it, she understood

1293
01:06:52,720 --> 01:06:54,880
Speaker 1: my answer because she would do the same.

1294
01:06:55,520 --> 01:06:57,480
Speaker 2: Here we go a little, a little communication.

1295
01:06:57,800 --> 01:07:00,479
Speaker 1: This is this is going great. I asked her why.

1296
01:07:00,520 --> 01:07:03,360
Speaker 1: She said she didn't know, and I thought I was

1297
01:07:03,400 --> 01:07:07,120
Speaker 1: going to pick her since I normally do. Oh, I

1298
01:07:07,120 --> 01:07:09,920
Speaker 1: guess in reference to picking her in the scenario of

1299
01:07:09,960 --> 01:07:12,080
Speaker 1: the mom or mom or her, I kind of just

1300
01:07:12,120 --> 01:07:14,800
Speaker 1: said okay and I moved on. I did tell her

1301
01:07:14,880 --> 01:07:17,640
Speaker 1: I want marriage counseling after or even before the babies

1302
01:07:17,640 --> 01:07:20,640
Speaker 1: are born. She asked why, and I told her how

1303
01:07:20,640 --> 01:07:23,280
Speaker 1: I felt, and she denied it, so I had to

1304
01:07:23,320 --> 01:07:26,320
Speaker 1: give her proof. Then she started crying and got mad

1305
01:07:26,400 --> 01:07:28,920
Speaker 1: and told me to sleep in the guest room instead

1306
01:07:28,920 --> 01:07:31,280
Speaker 1: of kicking me out. So I guess that that is

1307
01:07:31,320 --> 01:07:34,560
Speaker 1: a win there. God, how are we like almost back

1308
01:07:34,640 --> 01:07:39,440
Speaker 1: where we started? Anyways, she told me that she was. Anyways,

1309
01:07:39,440 --> 01:07:42,320
Speaker 1: she told me she no longer wanted me in the

1310
01:07:42,400 --> 01:07:43,480
Speaker 1: delivery room.

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01:07:44,000 --> 01:07:46,800
Speaker 2: That seems like a gross overreaction.

1312
01:07:46,520 --> 01:07:53,120
Speaker 7: Yeah, which I was fine with. Ah No, No, I

1313
01:07:53,240 --> 01:07:56,000
Speaker 7: understand to an extent where it's coming from. I will

1314
01:07:56,000 --> 01:07:58,480
Speaker 7: go into therapy, which was suggested, and I do think

1315
01:07:58,480 --> 01:08:01,480
Speaker 7: I need it. Anyways, that's it. Thanks for the advice

1316
01:08:01,520 --> 01:08:04,320
Speaker 7: that y'all gave, some good and bad. And sorry if

1317
01:08:04,320 --> 01:08:06,640
Speaker 7: my comments came off as mean. I'm not really a

1318
01:08:06,640 --> 01:08:11,280
Speaker 7: friendly person till you know me, especially if you're accusing

1319
01:08:11,320 --> 01:08:13,080
Speaker 7: me of something.

1320
01:08:15,120 --> 01:08:19,599
Speaker 2: I feel like he's not in the wrong here, Yeah,

1321
01:08:19,640 --> 01:08:21,840
Speaker 2: and he's made the beef feel like he's in the wrong.

1322
01:08:21,960 --> 01:08:25,400
Speaker 2: I feel like I've been like pretty consistent the whole

1323
01:08:25,439 --> 01:08:28,280
Speaker 2: way through that this guy is just like not he's

1324
01:08:28,320 --> 01:08:29,200
Speaker 2: just not doing anything wrong.

1325
01:08:29,360 --> 01:08:32,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, I guess I get like you could say, like,

1326
01:08:33,080 --> 01:08:36,599
Speaker 1: oh he could when she first asked that question, if

1327
01:08:36,720 --> 01:08:39,680
Speaker 1: if he had the wherewithal to be like, hey, am

1328
01:08:39,680 --> 01:08:42,800
Speaker 1: I Like, what's the right way of saying it? But like,

1329
01:08:42,880 --> 01:08:44,880
Speaker 1: I want to make sure I'm doing everything I can.

1330
01:08:45,439 --> 01:08:48,320
Speaker 1: Are you feeling, you know, like you need some more

1331
01:08:48,360 --> 01:08:51,080
Speaker 1: support or what do you need yeah, what do you need? Like,

1332
01:08:51,200 --> 01:08:52,160
Speaker 1: I guess you could have done that.

1333
01:08:52,240 --> 01:08:54,720
Speaker 2: But but I think he like of the people that

1334
01:08:54,800 --> 01:08:56,960
Speaker 2: need to go to therapy. I think he's like the

1335
01:08:57,000 --> 01:08:59,759
Speaker 2: person that needs to go to it. Less if anyone

1336
01:08:59,840 --> 01:09:03,360
Speaker 2: like they need to do some couples counseling, you know,

1337
01:09:03,400 --> 01:09:05,519
Speaker 2: they both need to go. I think him doing the

1338
01:09:05,520 --> 01:09:10,280
Speaker 2: therapy is is good. But it's like only twenty five

1339
01:09:10,280 --> 01:09:14,000
Speaker 2: percent of the issue here or less or less. That's

1340
01:09:14,280 --> 01:09:18,120
Speaker 2: exact approximation. There is an issue that Riley has to

1341
01:09:18,120 --> 01:09:20,799
Speaker 2: throw down on right now unless there is an update.

1342
01:09:21,720 --> 01:09:25,240
Speaker 1: There is an update. Oh there is, yes, all right,

1343
01:09:25,840 --> 01:09:30,040
Speaker 1: story time. Well wait, so, uh, I read a lot

1344
01:09:30,080 --> 01:09:32,360
Speaker 1: of your comments, and I did apologize for not bringing

1345
01:09:32,439 --> 01:09:35,599
Speaker 1: up marriage counseling, but for the timing I brought it up,

1346
01:09:35,680 --> 01:09:38,360
Speaker 1: and that I did show her proof. She did forgive

1347
01:09:38,400 --> 01:09:40,439
Speaker 1: me and told me that I was still not going

1348
01:09:40,479 --> 01:09:42,080
Speaker 1: to be at the birth of our child.

1349
01:09:42,680 --> 01:09:47,080
Speaker 2: Oh that's that's that's really to gate keep. The birth

1350
01:09:47,120 --> 01:09:50,080
Speaker 2: of your child is kind of fucked. Yeah, that's a

1351
01:09:50,200 --> 01:09:53,120
Speaker 2: lot over this, dudude, I don't know.

1352
01:09:53,680 --> 01:09:55,479
Speaker 1: I said to her that it was okay, and then

1353
01:09:55,520 --> 01:09:57,439
Speaker 1: I had accepted it and I wasn't going to fight

1354
01:09:57,520 --> 01:10:00,080
Speaker 1: her on her choice. I did tell her that I

1355
01:10:00,000 --> 01:10:01,960
Speaker 1: I think she and I both need some space before

1356
01:10:02,000 --> 01:10:04,840
Speaker 1: the baby comes, to which she agreed. I told her

1357
01:10:04,960 --> 01:10:06,920
Speaker 1: I would leave and that she could have the house,

1358
01:10:07,000 --> 01:10:08,880
Speaker 1: and that if she needed anything just to call her

1359
01:10:08,920 --> 01:10:11,280
Speaker 1: text me. No, I'm not at my mother's house. I'm

1360
01:10:11,280 --> 01:10:13,639
Speaker 1: at a friend's house because he doesn't live there anymore,

1361
01:10:13,640 --> 01:10:16,559
Speaker 1: but he usually usually rents it out. To all of

1362
01:10:16,560 --> 01:10:18,799
Speaker 1: you asking why I don't kick her out, it's because

1363
01:10:19,200 --> 01:10:21,200
Speaker 1: I'm the only person who makes money in the house

1364
01:10:21,520 --> 01:10:24,160
Speaker 1: and I know now, especially if I kick her out,

1365
01:10:24,520 --> 01:10:28,280
Speaker 1: it will be called financial or emotional manipulation or even abuse,

1366
01:10:28,680 --> 01:10:31,200
Speaker 1: so it's better a lot of times if I leave. Yes,

1367
01:10:31,280 --> 01:10:33,120
Speaker 1: I do plan to go back home when the baby

1368
01:10:33,160 --> 01:10:35,679
Speaker 1: is born. And to someone who asked, I do plan

1369
01:10:35,760 --> 01:10:39,080
Speaker 1: to take paternity leave, No, she does not know where

1370
01:10:39,080 --> 01:10:42,160
Speaker 1: I'm at. She didn't ask, so I didn't tell, mainly

1371
01:10:42,200 --> 01:10:45,760
Speaker 1: because her family would be banging on my door with

1372
01:10:45,840 --> 01:10:46,599
Speaker 1: a family too.

1373
01:10:46,760 --> 01:10:50,040
Speaker 2: Oh a big yikes. This is the big yikes. I'm

1374
01:10:50,080 --> 01:10:55,760
Speaker 2: curious right now everyone in the comments divorce yes or no? Oh? Yeah? Yeah?

1375
01:10:56,400 --> 01:11:00,000
Speaker 2: We need? Do we need? Madeline Gilstrap says he must

1376
01:11:00,040 --> 01:11:04,679
Speaker 2: see divorce coming. He seems beaten down? Is that an ICU?

1377
01:11:04,800 --> 01:11:07,840
Speaker 2: In the comments? That might be an ic I want

1378
01:11:07,880 --> 01:11:10,639
Speaker 2: to see where this thing's going, let us know people.

1379
01:11:11,080 --> 01:11:13,960
Speaker 1: So to people who I know are asking, why aren't

1380
01:11:14,000 --> 01:11:16,559
Speaker 1: you fighting harder to be in the delivery room, I

1381
01:11:16,600 --> 01:11:20,080
Speaker 1: was curious about that. I've learned that there's some things

1382
01:11:20,120 --> 01:11:22,559
Speaker 1: I cannot control, and one of those things is people.

1383
01:11:22,960 --> 01:11:25,080
Speaker 1: If she doesn't want me in there, I won't be.

1384
01:11:25,200 --> 01:11:27,080
Speaker 1: So I think it's more of a like, I'm just

1385
01:11:27,120 --> 01:11:29,280
Speaker 1: not like, it's not productive.

1386
01:11:28,840 --> 01:11:32,000
Speaker 2: It's not worth the fight. But that is your child, dude. Like,

1387
01:11:32,040 --> 01:11:34,400
Speaker 2: if anything is worth the fight, it's got to be

1388
01:11:34,439 --> 01:11:35,600
Speaker 2: that right, got to be.

1389
01:11:35,960 --> 01:11:38,640
Speaker 1: It's got to be. My main example is if I

1390
01:11:38,640 --> 01:11:41,240
Speaker 1: had gotten someone pregnant in my twenties and I said

1391
01:11:41,400 --> 01:11:44,519
Speaker 1: to get it terminated. Just because it's my baby as well,

1392
01:11:44,720 --> 01:11:46,439
Speaker 1: doesn't mean I can control what she does.

1393
01:11:46,840 --> 01:11:48,080
Speaker 2: So it's her body, her choice.

1394
01:11:48,320 --> 01:11:50,120
Speaker 4: But that's a different conversation.

1395
01:11:50,439 --> 01:11:52,200
Speaker 1: I confused at that.

1396
01:11:52,320 --> 01:11:54,920
Speaker 2: I don't agree with this. I don't agree with this.

1397
01:11:54,960 --> 01:11:55,960
Speaker 4: I think that's a different thing.

1398
01:11:56,080 --> 01:12:00,840
Speaker 1: Yeah. Lastly, to people who are saying they need more details,

1399
01:12:01,880 --> 01:12:04,679
Speaker 1: I'm not using that. I'm not using to just randomly

1400
01:12:04,680 --> 01:12:06,920
Speaker 1: talk about myself. It's been this way since I was

1401
01:12:06,960 --> 01:12:09,360
Speaker 1: a child, and I've gotten better since I was a kid,

1402
01:12:09,400 --> 01:12:11,559
Speaker 1: but it's been a struggle. So if a question to

1403
01:12:11,560 --> 01:12:15,599
Speaker 1: give me a specific thing because I answer it, I

1404
01:12:15,640 --> 01:12:18,679
Speaker 1: will answer that, not what you ask above about divorce.

1405
01:12:19,200 --> 01:12:21,800
Speaker 1: I do care if she divorces me. I do love her,

1406
01:12:21,880 --> 01:12:24,720
Speaker 1: but I cannot control how she feels, so personally I

1407
01:12:24,760 --> 01:12:27,599
Speaker 1: won't beg her not to. I will suggest that we

1408
01:12:27,680 --> 01:12:30,280
Speaker 1: get help. But if she doesn't want to, then that's fine.

1409
01:12:30,720 --> 01:12:34,559
Speaker 1: I'm secure. What I mean by that is she will

1410
01:12:34,560 --> 01:12:37,600
Speaker 1: get nothing in the divorce. Does she know that I

1411
01:12:37,680 --> 01:12:40,719
Speaker 1: don't know this guy. This guy's all over the place.

1412
01:12:41,439 --> 01:12:46,400
Speaker 2: Madeline Gilstrap said, maybe it's not his kid, so maybe

1413
01:12:46,400 --> 01:12:48,960
Speaker 2: she wants the real father in the delivery room, and

1414
01:12:49,080 --> 01:12:53,599
Speaker 2: Samitch says what I feel like, we're all feeling divorce, divorce, divorce.

1415
01:12:53,800 --> 01:12:55,600
Speaker 2: Thank you for the donation, Sama.

1416
01:12:55,439 --> 01:12:59,840
Speaker 1: Yes, absolutely, yeah, I'm this guy. Oh he's confusing me

1417
01:12:59,840 --> 01:13:04,360
Speaker 1: now too, Yeah, all over the place, Oh my goodness, gracious.

1418
01:13:05,960 --> 01:13:10,120
Speaker 1: And then we have the war. There is a final update.

1419
01:13:10,160 --> 01:13:11,679
Speaker 2: All right, let's hit it. Let's hit it, but let's

1420
01:13:11,720 --> 01:13:12,280
Speaker 2: go into it.

1421
01:13:13,320 --> 01:13:17,640
Speaker 1: Hello people, I've assume good and bad news. So I

1422
01:13:17,640 --> 01:13:20,000
Speaker 1: will start with the good news that my wife had

1423
01:13:20,040 --> 01:13:23,120
Speaker 1: the baby on January twenty sixth, and it's a girl

1424
01:13:23,160 --> 01:13:24,040
Speaker 1: and I love her so much.

1425
01:13:24,479 --> 01:13:27,000
Speaker 2: Was he in the delivery room though? Was he in there?

1426
01:13:28,760 --> 01:13:29,400
Speaker 2: Let's find out.

1427
01:13:29,760 --> 01:13:31,920
Speaker 1: I wanted to name her after my mother, but we

1428
01:13:31,960 --> 01:13:33,960
Speaker 1: found a compromise in her middle.

1429
01:13:38,080 --> 01:13:40,360
Speaker 2: Wait, why is that so funny? Because the whole fight

1430
01:13:40,479 --> 01:13:46,000
Speaker 2: was about the moll bro his mother, right, Bro, I

1431
01:13:46,160 --> 01:13:47,639
Speaker 2: think he should be able.

1432
01:13:47,479 --> 01:13:50,280
Speaker 4: To after his mom. His mom's gonna die.

1433
01:13:51,080 --> 01:13:54,160
Speaker 2: Okay, oh that is true. Yeah, well everyone's gonna die.

1434
01:13:54,160 --> 01:13:59,679
Speaker 2: So you well, they found a compromise, and her middle

1435
01:13:59,760 --> 01:14:03,160
Speaker 2: name is now the mother's name. Bro. It's nothing, it's

1436
01:14:03,200 --> 01:14:03,760
Speaker 2: nothing over here.

1437
01:14:03,800 --> 01:14:07,519
Speaker 5: They found a compromise, and it was not doing it right.

1438
01:14:08,400 --> 01:14:12,839
Speaker 1: To the questions, to the questions I'm going to get about.

1439
01:14:13,560 --> 01:14:16,719
Speaker 1: Was I in the delivery room?

1440
01:14:16,840 --> 01:14:22,400
Speaker 2: Yeah? I was not. I did ask, your joke, I

1441
01:14:22,439 --> 01:14:23,000
Speaker 2: did ask.

1442
01:14:23,080 --> 01:14:24,679
Speaker 1: But I gotta know that's.

1443
01:14:25,640 --> 01:14:28,880
Speaker 2: All right, that's so fucked that's fucked right, fucked well.

1444
01:14:28,960 --> 01:14:31,479
Speaker 1: She said that she had already told her sister and

1445
01:14:31,520 --> 01:14:35,519
Speaker 1: that she couldn't hurt my feelings, which is okay. By then,

1446
01:14:36,040 --> 01:14:41,160
Speaker 1: I had stopped caring a lot there's no way this

1447
01:14:41,280 --> 01:14:46,400
Speaker 1: is a healthy marriage. The bad news is my mother.

1448
01:14:47,720 --> 01:14:55,000
Speaker 1: That was the good news. The good news was the

1449
01:14:55,040 --> 01:14:58,360
Speaker 1: baby was born. That was the good news. O. That

1450
01:14:58,439 --> 01:15:00,320
Speaker 1: was the good news section. Now we're getting into bad

1451
01:15:00,320 --> 01:15:03,920
Speaker 1: news section. The bad news is my mother passed away

1452
01:15:04,080 --> 01:15:08,320
Speaker 1: a week before my baby was born. A decent bit

1453
01:15:08,360 --> 01:15:11,559
Speaker 1: of her friends came to the funeral, and if you

1454
01:15:11,560 --> 01:15:13,800
Speaker 1: could go back up a sentence, I said, I had

1455
01:15:13,840 --> 01:15:18,519
Speaker 1: stopped caring a lot. She didn't come to the funeral. Okay,

1456
01:15:18,920 --> 01:15:22,640
Speaker 1: she made up stupid excuses, and I just said forget it.

1457
01:15:22,920 --> 01:15:25,360
Speaker 4: Okay. Now, actually I changed my mind. I think this

1458
01:15:25,439 --> 01:15:26,040
Speaker 4: is a divorce.

1459
01:15:26,600 --> 01:15:29,560
Speaker 2: Dude, this feels like divorce. What would put answers in

1460
01:15:29,600 --> 01:15:32,160
Speaker 2: the chat? What you guys think? But corse or I'm

1461
01:15:32,160 --> 01:15:32,920
Speaker 2: feeling divorce.

1462
01:15:33,640 --> 01:15:36,040
Speaker 1: It was nice, though I am mad that she wasn't

1463
01:15:36,040 --> 01:15:38,400
Speaker 1: there when I needed her, so I haven't been talking

1464
01:15:38,439 --> 01:15:40,840
Speaker 1: to her much, so I won't yell at her. We

1465
01:15:41,040 --> 01:15:44,000
Speaker 1: talk about the baby and her and other than that,

1466
01:15:44,439 --> 01:15:47,000
Speaker 1: we don't really talk. I'll bring up marriage counseling in

1467
01:15:47,000 --> 01:15:49,280
Speaker 1: a few weeks, but for now I am just going

1468
01:15:49,320 --> 01:15:54,760
Speaker 1: to enjoy my baby and love her, meaning my wife.

1469
01:15:54,840 --> 01:16:00,679
Speaker 2: And that is the end of the story. Man needs

1470
01:16:00,720 --> 01:16:07,160
Speaker 2: to just like have some self worth, truly, he needs

1471
01:16:07,160 --> 01:16:11,200
Speaker 2: to do it. She's yeah, geez, she didn't even come

1472
01:16:11,240 --> 01:16:13,760
Speaker 2: to the funeral of his mother and gave and gave

1473
01:16:13,840 --> 01:16:17,679
Speaker 2: like all those bullshit excuses. I mean, she sounds terrible,

1474
01:16:17,720 --> 01:16:21,679
Speaker 2: She sounds awful. She is the a hole, the villain

1475
01:16:21,760 --> 01:16:22,800
Speaker 2: of this story for sure.

1476
01:16:23,000 --> 01:16:27,479
Speaker 1: Also, it makes it a million times worse that she

1477
01:16:27,600 --> 01:16:29,559
Speaker 1: passed away before the birth, so she knew.

1478
01:16:29,840 --> 01:16:33,360
Speaker 2: She's like reeling and grieving. You can't have the joy

1479
01:16:33,400 --> 01:16:37,080
Speaker 2: of your baby. And even dude, that's such a good point.

1480
01:16:38,160 --> 01:16:40,800
Speaker 2: Don't even get.

1481
01:16:40,280 --> 01:16:41,400
Speaker 4: Your baby after your mom.

1482
01:16:41,560 --> 01:16:44,240
Speaker 1: No, how dare you can't see your baby?

1483
01:16:44,400 --> 01:16:49,240
Speaker 5: No, you didn't anyone comforting you at the funeral.

1484
01:16:49,080 --> 01:16:53,320
Speaker 2: No one. I feel so bad for him, Wow, feel

1485
01:16:53,360 --> 01:16:55,360
Speaker 2: so bad for him. And just to read some of

1486
01:16:55,400 --> 01:16:58,360
Speaker 2: your comments. So Jade says he needs to do better

1487
01:16:58,400 --> 01:17:01,000
Speaker 2: for his kid now that his kids here. They don't

1488
01:17:01,000 --> 01:17:03,439
Speaker 2: deserve to grow up in that toxic environment like this.

1489
01:17:04,200 --> 01:17:07,160
Speaker 2: Rubbed the sleep says I don't like my mother in law,

1490
01:17:07,200 --> 01:17:09,400
Speaker 2: and I will still be there when my husband needs me,

1491
01:17:10,040 --> 01:17:14,840
Speaker 2: silently cheering inside. Oh h Squidney four or five six

1492
01:17:14,840 --> 01:17:17,759
Speaker 2: says you were supposed to support each other in hard times,

1493
01:17:18,040 --> 01:17:19,760
Speaker 2: and losing your mom, if you love your mom, can

1494
01:17:19,800 --> 01:17:22,240
Speaker 2: be one of the hardest losses you live through. And

1495
01:17:22,240 --> 01:17:25,839
Speaker 2: Madelin Gelstrap literally not even hormones can excuse this. Yeah,

1496
01:17:26,080 --> 01:17:27,559
Speaker 2: I completely agree.

1497
01:17:27,640 --> 01:17:30,240
Speaker 4: No, we were letting her get away with stuff.

1498
01:17:30,320 --> 01:17:35,120
Speaker 2: We were, but it just kept getting so much worse. Yeah,

1499
01:17:35,160 --> 01:17:37,720
Speaker 2: but I feel like something that's like equally as bad

1500
01:17:37,760 --> 01:17:40,599
Speaker 2: as that is, like getting rejected on a YouTube video.

1501
01:17:41,760 --> 01:17:45,599
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I feel like Riley might have a

1502
01:17:45,920 --> 01:17:47,240
Speaker 2: okay story time.

1503
01:17:48,720 --> 01:17:50,640
Speaker 4: As bad as not being there for the birth of

1504
01:17:50,640 --> 01:17:51,080
Speaker 4: your style.

1505
01:17:52,880 --> 01:17:57,160
Speaker 6: Okay, all right, So I recently got asked to be

1506
01:17:57,240 --> 01:18:00,840
Speaker 6: on a YouTube video to be a bachelor and guess

1507
01:18:00,880 --> 01:18:06,679
Speaker 6: who else was also been asked Boooo, so I wasn't.

1508
01:18:06,520 --> 01:18:09,240
Speaker 3: The only one. Anyways, this was rigged. This was so rigged.

1509
01:18:09,280 --> 01:18:12,080
Speaker 6: So basically, the pick ten guys, ten guys to go

1510
01:18:12,200 --> 01:18:15,439
Speaker 6: through a yes or no scenario. So the yes or

1511
01:18:15,479 --> 01:18:18,360
Speaker 6: no scenario was you had to have a joke. And

1512
01:18:18,439 --> 01:18:21,760
Speaker 6: this is all YouTube video. This happened in La So

1513
01:18:21,800 --> 01:18:24,240
Speaker 6: you had to have a joke, and I I had

1514
01:18:24,240 --> 01:18:28,280
Speaker 6: a joke ready to go. I actually previously what Sam

1515
01:18:28,320 --> 01:18:31,360
Speaker 6: and I at the house where what we were like planning.

1516
01:18:31,000 --> 01:18:33,559
Speaker 2: Yeah, we were planning, so we uh were if we

1517
01:18:33,600 --> 01:18:35,679
Speaker 2: thought we would have to do a pickup line for

1518
01:18:35,840 --> 01:18:37,559
Speaker 2: this girl. If you if you want to look it up,

1519
01:18:37,600 --> 01:18:41,439
Speaker 2: it's we tell them. Yeah, Susie Taylor, Susie most recent

1520
01:18:41,560 --> 01:18:44,240
Speaker 2: and if she made it so much more awkward, we

1521
01:18:44,280 --> 01:18:47,280
Speaker 2: look terrible. Yeah we we it's the most you were

1522
01:18:47,320 --> 01:18:50,080
Speaker 2: in it. Yeah, oh shit. Yeah I didn't realize that

1523
01:18:50,240 --> 01:18:53,200
Speaker 2: I was the most cringe worthy of video, but yeah,

1524
01:18:53,240 --> 01:18:56,760
Speaker 2: it is. We Riley and I were prepping. Riley's like

1525
01:18:56,800 --> 01:18:59,160
Speaker 2: I'm gonna bring a qut and say like you're like

1526
01:18:59,240 --> 01:19:01,680
Speaker 2: a cutie. And then I'm like, I'm gonna bring a

1527
01:19:01,800 --> 01:19:04,519
Speaker 2: queen or like a little like a chess queen, and

1528
01:19:04,560 --> 01:19:07,680
Speaker 2: I got a chess queen in a candle because we

1529
01:19:07,760 --> 01:19:12,920
Speaker 2: don't wanted to kill obviously, we should have asked you

1530
01:19:13,520 --> 01:19:16,120
Speaker 2: before we went, so both of ourselves. I did. I did.

1531
01:19:16,120 --> 01:19:18,720
Speaker 3: I ask her about the outfit. But yeah, we go there.

1532
01:19:18,760 --> 01:19:20,439
Speaker 3: We have to give her a joke. I have a joke.

1533
01:19:20,479 --> 01:19:22,599
Speaker 6: I have cutie And you can, guys watch the video

1534
01:19:22,600 --> 01:19:25,400
Speaker 6: of how it goes Susie Taylor, her most recent one.

1535
01:19:25,439 --> 01:19:27,960
Speaker 6: I'll put the link somewhere I'll put the link in

1536
01:19:28,000 --> 01:19:31,000
Speaker 6: the chat. In the chat, but see how it goes.

1537
01:19:31,040 --> 01:19:34,240
Speaker 6: But like in her one of her comments, someone was like, oh,

1538
01:19:34,800 --> 01:19:36,719
Speaker 6: I wish she would have picked Riley.

1539
01:19:36,720 --> 01:19:40,599
Speaker 3: He seemed really nice. She said, yeah, I regretted that one.

1540
01:19:42,120 --> 01:19:44,240
Speaker 3: She said, Riley regret it.

1541
01:19:44,479 --> 01:19:48,160
Speaker 2: She said, she regretted it both of us, both Riley

1542
01:19:48,200 --> 01:19:51,519
Speaker 2: and I got rejected in the first round. But she

1543
01:19:51,640 --> 01:19:54,679
Speaker 2: knew all of the guys that she chose beforehand. Yeah,

1544
01:19:55,000 --> 01:19:56,759
Speaker 2: so it was a little ricked. It was a little rigged,

1545
01:19:56,920 --> 01:19:59,679
Speaker 2: a little rigged. If you go to that video, give

1546
01:19:59,800 --> 01:20:04,320
Speaker 2: give Riley and your boy Sam some love. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

1547
01:20:04,600 --> 01:20:06,320
Speaker 3: Are those the guys from the Okop Show?

1548
01:20:06,360 --> 01:20:06,639
Speaker 2: Please?

1549
01:20:07,080 --> 01:20:08,200
Speaker 3: Oh god, please do that.

1550
01:20:08,439 --> 01:20:10,519
Speaker 2: Yeah, I send the Okop army over there.

1551
01:20:10,560 --> 01:20:12,759
Speaker 5: I want you guys to go on and go Riley

1552
01:20:12,800 --> 01:20:15,200
Speaker 5: really like you really missed.

1553
01:20:14,920 --> 01:20:15,519
Speaker 4: Out with Yeah.

1554
01:20:17,680 --> 01:20:20,519
Speaker 1: Is that Riley from ok Show? Oh my god, if

1555
01:20:20,600 --> 01:20:24,200
Speaker 1: I could only have been Susie, that beautiful bastard, oh.

1556
01:20:24,120 --> 01:20:27,240
Speaker 6: Dude, I would yeah, please please, Yeah, that would make

1557
01:20:27,240 --> 01:20:28,120
Speaker 6: my ego go again.

1558
01:20:28,880 --> 01:20:29,479
Speaker 2: I was hurt.

1559
01:20:29,560 --> 01:20:30,679
Speaker 3: I was physically hurt.

1560
01:20:30,720 --> 01:20:33,760
Speaker 2: On some he was right. Riley and had like a

1561
01:20:33,800 --> 01:20:36,639
Speaker 2: deep chat about it. We gave each other some hugs.

1562
01:20:36,880 --> 01:20:38,639
Speaker 3: But I'm good now, I'm good of you guys.

1563
01:20:38,680 --> 01:20:43,080
Speaker 1: You guys drop the link so people can flood absolutely.

1564
01:20:42,640 --> 01:20:44,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, comments.

1565
01:20:45,479 --> 01:20:48,240
Speaker 1: Funny, but we have something else that we're going to

1566
01:20:48,280 --> 01:20:50,200
Speaker 1: flood your flood you with.

1567
01:20:50,120 --> 01:20:51,800
Speaker 4: This next story.

1568
01:20:54,040 --> 01:21:00,479
Speaker 2: And this is episode three twenty one. Yes too, should

1569
01:21:00,520 --> 01:21:05,760
Speaker 2: be yes too. So my boyfriend is moving in with

1570
01:21:05,920 --> 01:21:09,040
Speaker 2: his female so you gotta leave, all right, So he's

1571
01:21:09,040 --> 01:21:16,320
Speaker 2: gotta go, And that's all right, ladies and gentlemen, we're

1572
01:21:16,360 --> 01:21:17,599
Speaker 2: gonna scooter her on over.

1573
01:21:17,960 --> 01:21:20,240
Speaker 3: Let me see how it looks here, all right, check

1574
01:21:20,280 --> 01:21:21,000
Speaker 3: it out? Check it out.

1575
01:21:21,600 --> 01:21:24,880
Speaker 2: It's looking good. Yeah, looks Oh, maybe we go a

1576
01:21:24,880 --> 01:21:34,080
Speaker 2: little We're just we're just gentlemen. Yeah, sofia, al right,

1577
01:21:36,040 --> 01:21:39,360
Speaker 2: all right, but let's get into the stories, do it.

1578
01:21:40,000 --> 01:21:43,479
Speaker 2: So my boyfriend is moving in with his female best

1579
01:21:43,479 --> 01:21:46,559
Speaker 2: friend and their closeness makes me uncomfortable. And this comes

1580
01:21:46,560 --> 01:21:50,240
Speaker 2: from throw our a eight four seven eight. How do

1581
01:21:50,240 --> 01:21:54,000
Speaker 2: you feel about? Uh? I mean, how would your girlfriend feel?

1582
01:21:54,560 --> 01:21:59,559
Speaker 1: Probably not great? Yeah, probably, dude. That's that's that's a

1583
01:21:59,560 --> 01:22:02,120
Speaker 1: tough one. And why not move in together?

1584
01:22:02,960 --> 01:22:04,800
Speaker 2: Maybe they're not too early. It might be too early.

1585
01:22:04,800 --> 01:22:06,320
Speaker 1: It might be too early. Yeah, but that would be

1586
01:22:06,320 --> 01:22:08,840
Speaker 1: my first question. If it's not too early, it's like,

1587
01:22:08,880 --> 01:22:11,960
Speaker 1: why not just move in with the female that you're

1588
01:22:11,960 --> 01:22:13,120
Speaker 1: inship with?

1589
01:22:13,240 --> 01:22:16,120
Speaker 2: WHOA yeah, I mean yeah, Usually it could be like

1590
01:22:16,200 --> 01:22:19,479
Speaker 2: maybe they're long distance or or But if it's too early,

1591
01:22:19,520 --> 01:22:22,120
Speaker 2: I do understand. I yeah, totally understand that. But let's

1592
01:22:22,120 --> 01:22:24,080
Speaker 2: see what actually happens. Let us know. If it's a

1593
01:22:24,120 --> 01:22:28,280
Speaker 2: red flag to move in with a opposite sex friend,

1594
01:22:29,040 --> 01:22:31,760
Speaker 2: let us know. But so, my boyfriend and I have

1595
01:22:31,800 --> 01:22:33,960
Speaker 2: been together for just under a year. When we first

1596
01:22:33,960 --> 01:22:37,080
Speaker 2: started dating, he told me about Faith, one of his

1597
01:22:37,120 --> 01:22:39,880
Speaker 2: best friends. They've known one another since childhood and are

1598
01:22:39,920 --> 01:22:43,480
Speaker 2: extremely close. I didn't have any problem with this initially

1599
01:22:43,640 --> 01:22:45,960
Speaker 2: because Faith had a boyfriend and the way she acted

1600
01:22:45,960 --> 01:22:49,120
Speaker 2: towards my boyfriend, she also acted towards another close male friend.

1601
01:22:49,400 --> 01:22:52,639
Speaker 2: So I thought, it's just who she is. And I'm

1602
01:22:52,680 --> 01:22:56,240
Speaker 2: imagining this behavior is probably a little flirtatious, a little

1603
01:22:56,560 --> 01:22:59,280
Speaker 2: hand on the chest, you know, hand on the shoulder.

1604
01:23:00,000 --> 01:23:05,400
Speaker 2: He's so funny, he's so silly. Just before Christmas, Faith

1605
01:23:05,560 --> 01:23:10,560
Speaker 2: and her boyfriend broke up. Oh could say, maybe he's unfaithful.

1606
01:23:10,960 --> 01:23:13,200
Speaker 2: I never got the details, just that it was a

1607
01:23:13,240 --> 01:23:15,920
Speaker 2: really bad breakup. They were living together and Faith needed

1608
01:23:15,920 --> 01:23:18,400
Speaker 2: a place to stay, so my boyfriend offered his couch.

1609
01:23:19,080 --> 01:23:23,000
Speaker 2: This is where I started getting uncomfortable. I told him

1610
01:23:23,000 --> 01:23:25,040
Speaker 2: I didn't like some girls staying at his place like this,

1611
01:23:25,120 --> 01:23:27,639
Speaker 2: and he told me it's temporary and she's his best

1612
01:23:27,640 --> 01:23:30,080
Speaker 2: friend and I don't get a say in who he

1613
01:23:30,200 --> 01:23:32,800
Speaker 2: lends his couch out to. What do you he was saying,

1614
01:23:32,800 --> 01:23:35,599
Speaker 2: red flag or not? Kim Kwant says red flag, Bernie Rose,

1615
01:23:35,960 --> 01:23:39,799
Speaker 2: red flag, Kirby Ray, red flag immediate No, Anna Bernanner

1616
01:23:39,800 --> 01:23:43,320
Speaker 2: says bye, Sophia, we also say bye. We argued, and

1617
01:23:43,360 --> 01:23:47,160
Speaker 2: eventually I relented. On New Year's I wanted to go

1618
01:23:47,240 --> 01:23:50,439
Speaker 2: back to his place after so ohp he relented. So

1619
01:23:50,520 --> 01:23:54,280
Speaker 2: now it's the girls on the couch right New Year's

1620
01:23:54,280 --> 01:23:56,280
Speaker 2: I wanted to go back to his place after the

1621
01:23:56,320 --> 01:23:59,800
Speaker 2: celebration at my friend's place, but he said Faith is

1622
01:23:59,840 --> 01:24:02,760
Speaker 2: there and we wouldn't be able to do anything. I

1623
01:24:02,840 --> 01:24:05,680
Speaker 2: eat sex, and I got annoyed and said she can

1624
01:24:05,840 --> 01:24:09,040
Speaker 2: listen to it for all, Like, yeah, for real, listen

1625
01:24:09,080 --> 01:24:11,640
Speaker 2: to it's a passion. Yeah, well she's gonna play it

1626
01:24:11,720 --> 01:24:16,479
Speaker 2: up also just like screaming, screaming exact nobody's business. Yeah, yeah,

1627
01:24:16,880 --> 01:24:19,000
Speaker 2: I almost did it, but I stop myself. So do it,

1628
01:24:19,080 --> 01:24:22,080
Speaker 2: do it? Do it? It's a moone mo there we go.

1629
01:24:24,920 --> 01:24:26,360
Speaker 2: As soon as Sophia's gone.

1630
01:24:28,200 --> 01:24:30,960
Speaker 1: You know what, Maya two twelve, who done it in

1631
01:24:31,040 --> 01:24:33,599
Speaker 1: two fifty euros said, call me insecure. But I would

1632
01:24:33,640 --> 01:24:34,760
Speaker 1: cry if my boyfriend did that.

1633
01:24:34,960 --> 01:24:38,200
Speaker 2: Yeah not not probably not the best news. See it listen,

1634
01:24:38,280 --> 01:24:40,360
Speaker 2: I says, hell no, any girl, best friends are not

1635
01:24:40,560 --> 01:24:46,000
Speaker 2: always best friends. So we argued and eventually related the

1636
01:24:46,040 --> 01:24:49,200
Speaker 2: sex stuff. Anyway. He got annoyed at that and said

1637
01:24:49,439 --> 01:24:51,960
Speaker 2: he's not doing that. I asked him when she plans

1638
01:24:51,960 --> 01:24:54,519
Speaker 2: on getting her own place, and he said she's looking,

1639
01:24:54,840 --> 01:24:57,000
Speaker 2: but it's hard to find something in her price range.

1640
01:24:57,360 --> 01:25:01,160
Speaker 2: I went home alone that night on New Year's Eve

1641
01:25:03,280 --> 01:25:06,040
Speaker 2: or no on New Years Regular, a week ago. He

1642
01:25:06,080 --> 01:25:08,200
Speaker 2: wasn't feeling the greatest, so I wanted to surprise him

1643
01:25:08,240 --> 01:25:11,479
Speaker 2: with food. Could I see you in the comments? If

1644
01:25:11,520 --> 01:25:14,120
Speaker 2: you know where this is going, put it in. So

1645
01:25:14,160 --> 01:25:17,719
Speaker 2: I showed up his apartment and she answered the door

1646
01:25:17,880 --> 01:25:22,280
Speaker 2: in a tank top and very small pajama shorts. Come

1647
01:25:22,479 --> 01:25:24,320
Speaker 2: when she went to have a shower. I asked him

1648
01:25:24,360 --> 01:25:26,800
Speaker 2: if she walks around like that all the time, and

1649
01:25:26,840 --> 01:25:29,040
Speaker 2: he said, yeah, what's the issue?

1650
01:25:29,320 --> 01:25:32,320
Speaker 1: MBD baby MBD from a big deal.

1651
01:25:34,040 --> 01:25:37,400
Speaker 2: And saw me get annoyed and told me not to start.

1652
01:25:37,680 --> 01:25:39,600
Speaker 2: I asked him how he'd feel if I had a

1653
01:25:39,640 --> 01:25:43,160
Speaker 2: close male friend living with me walking around half naked,

1654
01:25:43,320 --> 01:25:46,040
Speaker 2: and he said he'd be uncomfortable, but he trusts me

1655
01:25:46,120 --> 01:25:49,320
Speaker 2: not to do anything. I told him, I do trust him,

1656
01:25:49,320 --> 01:25:51,360
Speaker 2: but it's still a boundary for me, And I asked again,

1657
01:25:51,640 --> 01:25:54,479
Speaker 2: when she's moving out. That's when he dropped the bomb

1658
01:25:54,520 --> 01:25:57,680
Speaker 2: on me that the two of them had decided to

1659
01:25:57,800 --> 01:26:01,040
Speaker 2: look for a place together one his lease is up

1660
01:26:01,080 --> 01:26:06,240
Speaker 2: in March. All right, there's more to this story. But

1661
01:26:07,280 --> 01:26:10,080
Speaker 2: is this a red flag? I want to put put it.

1662
01:26:10,120 --> 01:26:12,080
Speaker 2: Put it in the comments everyone, But is this a

1663
01:26:12,080 --> 01:26:12,800
Speaker 2: red fla? What do you think?

1664
01:26:13,120 --> 01:26:15,240
Speaker 1: Let me break it down for you. So the thing

1665
01:26:15,400 --> 01:26:19,720
Speaker 1: is he can still be a supportive friend without offering

1666
01:26:19,760 --> 01:26:21,040
Speaker 1: his freaking place.

1667
01:26:21,439 --> 01:26:23,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, like that's the thing, Like I don't know, and

1668
01:26:23,920 --> 01:26:25,759
Speaker 2: without moving in with her.

1669
01:26:25,720 --> 01:26:28,680
Speaker 1: Without moving like this is so much. He did this

1670
01:26:28,720 --> 01:26:30,200
Speaker 1: all in the name of like, Hey, this is a

1671
01:26:30,240 --> 01:26:32,160
Speaker 1: close friend of mine, she's going through a hard time

1672
01:26:32,200 --> 01:26:34,880
Speaker 1: with the breakup. Be like, hey, we're getting all the

1673
01:26:34,880 --> 01:26:39,280
Speaker 1: friends together for bowling. We're covering your tab, come out,

1674
01:26:39,520 --> 01:26:43,160
Speaker 1: have fun. Like that's a great way to to like

1675
01:26:43,280 --> 01:26:43,960
Speaker 1: cheer up a friend.

1676
01:26:44,040 --> 01:26:46,679
Speaker 2: Not And I would even say, like offering the couch

1677
01:26:46,800 --> 01:26:49,599
Speaker 2: for you know, a week or two to a close friend.

1678
01:26:49,800 --> 01:26:52,840
Speaker 2: I can totally see doing that. You know, maybe maybe

1679
01:26:52,840 --> 01:26:56,280
Speaker 2: that would make like a significant other uncomfortable, but I

1680
01:26:56,280 --> 01:27:00,639
Speaker 2: could totally see that being understandable. Which ope, he was like, hey,

1681
01:27:00,680 --> 01:27:04,080
Speaker 2: I relented bye with that. But to then move in

1682
01:27:04,280 --> 01:27:07,280
Speaker 2: with her when you know your girlfriend is uncomfortable with

1683
01:27:07,280 --> 01:27:10,400
Speaker 2: the fact of you even spending time together, like her

1684
01:27:10,479 --> 01:27:13,160
Speaker 2: sleeping in the same room as you. Yeah, like, come on.

1685
01:27:13,479 --> 01:27:15,880
Speaker 1: Babe, the couch got too messy, so I just put

1686
01:27:15,920 --> 01:27:18,120
Speaker 1: her in my bed. Yeah, it's like so much like

1687
01:27:18,120 --> 01:27:19,759
Speaker 1: a better situation for her baby.

1688
01:27:19,800 --> 01:27:22,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, like you know, it's it's hot during

1689
01:27:22,400 --> 01:27:25,840
Speaker 2: the summer. We don't want to run the ac so

1690
01:27:25,439 --> 01:27:27,400
Speaker 2: we had to take off all our clothes.

1691
01:27:29,040 --> 01:27:32,920
Speaker 1: We're babe, babe, we're trying to save the point do you.

1692
01:27:32,880 --> 01:27:37,320
Speaker 2: Want David Attenborough to have a heart attack. He's the

1693
01:27:37,360 --> 01:27:40,439
Speaker 2: guy that does all the Planet Earth stuff. Oh the

1694
01:27:40,479 --> 01:27:43,360
Speaker 2: wild when you see the monkeys in the natural habitats,

1695
01:27:44,040 --> 01:27:49,040
Speaker 2: legend freaking living legend. Anyway, back to the story. I

1696
01:27:49,080 --> 01:27:52,120
Speaker 2: lost it. She heard us fighting and came out at

1697
01:27:52,120 --> 01:27:56,000
Speaker 2: the shower dressed somewhat and asked what was wrong, and

1698
01:27:56,080 --> 01:27:58,920
Speaker 2: I told her I'm not comfortable with any of this,

1699
01:27:59,560 --> 01:28:02,240
Speaker 2: and it doesn't seem like anyone in the commons is too.

1700
01:28:02,320 --> 01:28:05,880
Speaker 2: Kelly ceesays big Frickin' a red flag. E Blank says

1701
01:28:06,200 --> 01:28:08,360
Speaker 2: it was the no sex that made it a red flag.

1702
01:28:08,600 --> 01:28:16,400
Speaker 2: Lizzie Martinez says, conspiracy theory. He's cheating. Oh, talk about it,

1703
01:28:17,200 --> 01:28:19,559
Speaker 2: Lizzie Martinez. I think you might be right.

1704
01:28:19,720 --> 01:28:22,320
Speaker 1: I think you're really onto something here, Lizzy.

1705
01:28:22,520 --> 01:28:26,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think I mean the fact that, in fact,

1706
01:28:26,680 --> 01:28:28,400
Speaker 2: I mean they're like best friends. She's no longer in

1707
01:28:28,400 --> 01:28:30,920
Speaker 2: a relationship, they're planning on living together. It feels like

1708
01:28:31,040 --> 01:28:33,920
Speaker 2: maybe it was a case of the timing wasn't right,

1709
01:28:33,960 --> 01:28:35,679
Speaker 2: but we would be perfect for each other, and now

1710
01:28:36,320 --> 01:28:40,400
Speaker 2: the timing's there. Maybe, Bro, I hate this, Yeah, this

1711
01:28:40,520 --> 01:28:42,400
Speaker 2: is also like I hate it, but this is also

1712
01:28:42,479 --> 01:28:44,960
Speaker 2: the stuff that rom coms are built off of. Every

1713
01:28:45,040 --> 01:28:52,679
Speaker 2: rom com has. Have you watched The Notebook? Bro? All right, Okay,

1714
01:28:52,680 --> 01:28:55,839
Speaker 2: story time later, anyway back to it, back to reality.

1715
01:28:57,200 --> 01:29:01,240
Speaker 2: So she apologized and said I better find a way

1716
01:29:01,240 --> 01:29:03,880
Speaker 2: to be comfortable with it. He didn't say anything. And

1717
01:29:03,960 --> 01:29:09,160
Speaker 2: when I said seriously, because the best friend is saying

1718
01:29:09,200 --> 01:29:11,400
Speaker 2: you better find a way to be comfortable with it, brah,

1719
01:29:12,920 --> 01:29:15,960
Speaker 2: he sighed and told me she's right, that she's been

1720
01:29:16,000 --> 01:29:18,600
Speaker 2: his friend longer than I've been in his life, and

1721
01:29:18,640 --> 01:29:20,800
Speaker 2: that this will benefit them both in the long run.

1722
01:29:21,160 --> 01:29:25,240
Speaker 2: So this is what's happening. How I asked, what's going

1723
01:29:25,240 --> 01:29:27,719
Speaker 2: to happen if we wanted to move in together before

1724
01:29:27,800 --> 01:29:30,400
Speaker 2: the least to whatever place they're getting is up, and

1725
01:29:30,439 --> 01:29:33,960
Speaker 2: he said that's something we can discuss if and when

1726
01:29:34,160 --> 01:29:34,839
Speaker 2: that happens.

1727
01:29:35,680 --> 01:29:40,840
Speaker 1: That doesn't make any sense at all. Yeah, I don't

1728
01:29:40,880 --> 01:29:41,160
Speaker 1: get that.

1729
01:29:41,800 --> 01:29:45,439
Speaker 2: I don't get that. That's bad.

1730
01:29:45,600 --> 01:29:46,679
Speaker 1: That's bad, that's.

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Speaker 2: Bad, very bad. I was so unbelievably mad and insulted

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Speaker 2: that I just left. I texted him later and asked

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01:29:52,080 --> 01:29:54,639
Speaker 2: him to think about what's more important, living with her

1734
01:29:55,120 --> 01:29:58,840
Speaker 2: or our relationship. He said that sounds like I'm giving

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01:29:58,880 --> 01:30:02,120
Speaker 2: him an ultimatum, and I said, that's not what I'm doing,

1736
01:30:02,560 --> 01:30:05,599
Speaker 2: but he's being unreasonable. It sounds like an ultimatum, which, hey,

1737
01:30:05,479 --> 01:30:12,559
Speaker 2: maybe maybe necessary. Maybe. Yeah. We've been texting since but

1738
01:30:12,720 --> 01:30:15,960
Speaker 2: it feels like it's probably the end of our relationship.

1739
01:30:16,000 --> 01:30:18,880
Speaker 2: I brought up my discomfort about everything, including how close

1740
01:30:18,920 --> 01:30:21,120
Speaker 2: they are to my best friend, and she said there's

1741
01:30:21,160 --> 01:30:22,960
Speaker 2: nothing I can do and I'll lose one hundred percent

1742
01:30:22,960 --> 01:30:24,759
Speaker 2: of the time, which kind of pissed me off because

1743
01:30:24,800 --> 01:30:27,240
Speaker 2: if he saw a future with me at all, then

1744
01:30:27,280 --> 01:30:29,400
Speaker 2: he should want to fight for us and make me

1745
01:30:29,439 --> 01:30:32,439
Speaker 2: feel comfortable in the relationship. Rights and there are some

1746
01:30:32,560 --> 01:30:36,240
Speaker 2: relevant comments and an update. But John, everyone in the

1747
01:30:36,320 --> 01:30:39,799
Speaker 2: chat should they break up or should they stay together?

1748
01:30:40,280 --> 01:30:41,840
Speaker 2: What do y'all think? Uh?

1749
01:30:41,920 --> 01:30:45,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that her boyfriend is trying to have

1750
01:30:46,000 --> 01:30:49,479
Speaker 1: his cake and eat his friend too. Yep, that cannot

1751
01:30:49,479 --> 01:30:53,200
Speaker 1: be done. We cannot have that. So I think that

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01:30:53,320 --> 01:30:57,280
Speaker 1: OP should be like, you are not respecting me. You're

1753
01:30:57,720 --> 01:31:00,200
Speaker 1: you know, you won't listen to me, you won't try

1754
01:31:00,240 --> 01:31:03,360
Speaker 1: at all. I can't, I can't be in this relationship.

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01:31:03,560 --> 01:31:07,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, Miss glugg. Mercer says sounds like Op, you should

1756
01:31:08,000 --> 01:31:12,559
Speaker 2: dump this guy and they Riley Ravenous for says break up.

1757
01:31:12,640 --> 01:31:15,920
Speaker 2: If he wanted to, he would. Pixie Treeloff says, hell over,

1758
01:31:16,120 --> 01:31:20,160
Speaker 2: Joseph Brandon break up, Lucy Smith breakup. It seems like

1759
01:31:20,600 --> 01:31:23,439
Speaker 2: everyone is kind of in agreement in the comments the

1760
01:31:23,479 --> 01:31:25,880
Speaker 2: break up totally. And then Lizzie Martinez says, something I've

1761
01:31:25,920 --> 01:31:28,120
Speaker 2: always told myself is that if a boy has a

1762
01:31:28,160 --> 01:31:31,720
Speaker 2: girl best friend, it's because he was friend zoned and

1763
01:31:31,760 --> 01:31:35,280
Speaker 2: it is just waiting for the opportunity until they fall

1764
01:31:35,600 --> 01:31:40,240
Speaker 2: in love with them. I think that often could be

1765
01:31:40,240 --> 01:31:42,280
Speaker 2: the case. I don't think it's always the case, but

1766
01:31:42,320 --> 01:31:43,840
Speaker 2: I think often it's.

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01:31:43,439 --> 01:31:45,280
Speaker 1: A good way of saying it. I often can be

1768
01:31:45,360 --> 01:31:45,679
Speaker 1: the case.

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01:31:45,760 --> 01:31:50,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, but let's see what the case is over here,

1770
01:31:50,720 --> 01:31:54,080
Speaker 2: so relevant comments A writer spy says, you can't have

1771
01:31:54,200 --> 01:31:57,320
Speaker 2: sex because she's there and now they're moving in together,

1772
01:31:57,439 --> 01:32:01,240
Speaker 2: so no sex least between you and him.

1773
01:32:01,479 --> 01:32:05,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, like literally, ooh, is he gonna be like, oh babe,

1774
01:32:05,120 --> 01:32:10,439
Speaker 1: we just can't have sex anymore. And it's like hello, yeah.

1775
01:32:09,960 --> 01:32:13,920
Speaker 2: I'm here, Hi, I'm here. Yeah. It's pretty waff And

1776
01:32:13,960 --> 01:32:16,479
Speaker 2: then Opie says, I guess not. Maybe it was because

1777
01:32:16,479 --> 01:32:18,759
Speaker 2: she's couch surfing at the moment and it's a small apartment.

1778
01:32:18,960 --> 01:32:20,799
Speaker 2: If she has her own room, maybe it would be different.

1779
01:32:20,800 --> 01:32:22,760
Speaker 2: But they wouldn't be moving in together until the end

1780
01:32:22,800 --> 01:32:26,479
Speaker 2: of March, so no sex in his apartment. At least

1781
01:32:26,600 --> 01:32:29,839
Speaker 2: until then is what I got from it. Platinum dogshit,

1782
01:32:29,880 --> 01:32:32,640
Speaker 2: which is what the situation sounds like. Why did you

1783
01:32:32,680 --> 01:32:34,760
Speaker 2: guys just go to your place? Opie says, Unfortunately I

1784
01:32:34,800 --> 01:32:36,400
Speaker 2: had to move back in with my mom last year

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01:32:36,479 --> 01:32:39,000
Speaker 2: due to financial reasons. She's made it clear that she

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01:32:39,040 --> 01:32:41,040
Speaker 2: doesn't care if we have a loone time when she's

1787
01:32:41,040 --> 01:32:43,479
Speaker 2: not home, but when she is not trying not to

1788
01:32:43,560 --> 01:32:45,160
Speaker 2: out of respect for my mom. That's what I'm doing,

1789
01:32:45,439 --> 01:32:48,200
Speaker 2: fiery justice, as I always say on these as a

1790
01:32:48,240 --> 01:32:50,519
Speaker 2: girl best friend to a guy of ten plus years,

1791
01:32:50,920 --> 01:32:54,599
Speaker 2: I would never speak to his girlfriend like that. Then,

1792
01:32:54,640 --> 01:32:56,880
Speaker 2: OPI responds, from your perspective, then what do you think

1793
01:32:56,920 --> 01:32:59,360
Speaker 2: she was trying to achieve by speaking to her like this?

1794
01:33:00,400 --> 01:33:03,280
Speaker 2: I'm not we please, says I know the question is

1795
01:33:03,280 --> 01:33:06,320
Speaker 2: not directed at me, but from my POV, she's probably

1796
01:33:06,320 --> 01:33:09,679
Speaker 2: trying to assert dominance, as in, she's been here longer

1797
01:33:09,800 --> 01:33:14,160
Speaker 2: plus he would choose her and he has proven her rights.

1798
01:33:14,640 --> 01:33:18,240
Speaker 2: And there is a fat, juicy update, but let's get

1799
01:33:18,240 --> 01:33:22,280
Speaker 2: into it. Also, Riley, can you tally up the donations

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Speaker 2: to see if we're going for another hour?

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Speaker 6: Sorry, guys, I wanted the stupid meter down here to work,

1802
01:33:27,080 --> 01:33:29,360
Speaker 6: but it's getting there.

1803
01:33:29,560 --> 01:33:31,880
Speaker 2: It's a process Riley has done so well.

1804
01:33:31,960 --> 01:33:34,880
Speaker 1: That's right, W's in the chat chat.

1805
01:33:35,840 --> 01:33:38,240
Speaker 2: Riley is the man behind the scenes, really making it

1806
01:33:38,280 --> 01:33:44,200
Speaker 2: all work. So we appreciate this boy immensely. So this

1807
01:33:44,240 --> 01:33:46,040
Speaker 2: comes from February third, twenty twenty four, so this is

1808
01:33:46,040 --> 01:33:48,320
Speaker 2: pretty recent. So first of all, I want to say

1809
01:33:48,360 --> 01:33:50,320
Speaker 2: thank you for everyone who commented and gave me advice

1810
01:33:50,360 --> 01:33:53,080
Speaker 2: and support. I didn't expect this to blow up the

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01:33:53,080 --> 01:33:56,519
Speaker 2: way it did. As for an update, I texted them Thursday,

1812
01:33:56,600 --> 01:33:59,360
Speaker 2: sometimes after I made the post that I wanted to

1813
01:33:59,400 --> 01:34:01,320
Speaker 2: come pick up the things I have at his place

1814
01:34:01,360 --> 01:34:08,360
Speaker 2: Friday after work. All he replied was sure. Last night

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01:34:08,400 --> 01:34:10,120
Speaker 2: after work, I went to his place and when I

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01:34:10,120 --> 01:34:11,840
Speaker 2: got there, I texted him that I was in the

1817
01:34:11,840 --> 01:34:13,720
Speaker 2: parking lot and told him to bring my stuff down.

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01:34:14,200 --> 01:34:16,679
Speaker 2: I really didn't want to deal with faith like at all.

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01:34:17,040 --> 01:34:19,320
Speaker 2: He eventually came downstairs with a box of my stuff.

1820
01:34:19,720 --> 01:34:22,439
Speaker 2: I went there with every intention on just getting my

1821
01:34:22,520 --> 01:34:25,559
Speaker 2: things and walking away, not saying anything, but I don't know.

1822
01:34:25,600 --> 01:34:28,600
Speaker 2: It was like word vomit. I couldn't stop myself and

1823
01:34:28,640 --> 01:34:32,880
Speaker 2: I asked him how long they've been sleeping together. He

1824
01:34:33,000 --> 01:34:36,120
Speaker 2: kind of laughed and said, it really doesn't matter, now,

1825
01:34:36,280 --> 01:34:36,519
Speaker 2: does it.

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01:34:37,120 --> 01:34:42,120
Speaker 1: Oh that's admitting it. That's admitting that were sleeping together.

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01:34:43,520 --> 01:34:48,800
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I hate this guy, And I said, it

1828
01:34:48,880 --> 01:34:50,880
Speaker 2: kind of does if he's been sleeping with both of

1829
01:34:50,960 --> 01:34:53,679
Speaker 2: us at the same time, just for like safety reason

1830
01:34:54,720 --> 01:34:58,360
Speaker 2: sent he said the night I stormed out of his

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01:34:58,400 --> 01:35:02,200
Speaker 2: place when he was sick. He said, the night I

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01:35:02,240 --> 01:35:03,920
Speaker 2: stormed out of his place when he was sick was

1833
01:35:03,960 --> 01:35:07,040
Speaker 2: the first time they slept together since we've been together.

1834
01:35:07,640 --> 01:35:10,040
Speaker 2: I didn't ask if they slept together before me. I

1835
01:35:10,080 --> 01:35:12,920
Speaker 2: feel like the way he worded his answer confirmed they

1836
01:35:12,920 --> 01:35:15,639
Speaker 2: have a history of hooking up. But maybe I'm reading

1837
01:35:15,640 --> 01:35:17,920
Speaker 2: into it. I think that's probably true. Yep. The last

1838
01:35:17,920 --> 01:35:19,519
Speaker 2: thing I said to him was that he needs to

1839
01:35:19,520 --> 01:35:21,559
Speaker 2: figure his shit out, because no woman is going to

1840
01:35:21,560 --> 01:35:24,040
Speaker 2: play second to her forever. I got in my car

1841
01:35:24,120 --> 01:35:27,719
Speaker 2: and left without letting him respond or looking for a reaction.

1842
01:35:28,400 --> 01:35:30,080
Speaker 2: It didn't feel great to know he cheated on me,

1843
01:35:30,240 --> 01:35:32,120
Speaker 2: even though I kind of expected it to be honest.

1844
01:35:32,400 --> 01:35:35,360
Speaker 2: I think I'm somewhere between anger and indifference right now.

1845
01:35:35,640 --> 01:35:39,040
Speaker 2: I've deleted and blocked both of them on literally everything.

1846
01:35:39,320 --> 01:35:41,280
Speaker 2: I just want to move on from all of this.

1847
01:35:41,640 --> 01:35:43,400
Speaker 2: I know some of you are going to say it's

1848
01:35:43,439 --> 01:35:45,840
Speaker 2: a lesson to be learned, but all I learned from

1849
01:35:45,880 --> 01:35:48,240
Speaker 2: this is to make sure the next guy has no

1850
01:35:48,360 --> 01:35:53,040
Speaker 2: sexual history with any female friends before it becomes a relationship,

1851
01:35:53,280 --> 01:35:57,800
Speaker 2: because if that's and there are some relevant comments, so

1852
01:35:57,880 --> 01:36:01,080
Speaker 2: we'll get to that in a second indeed, But also

1853
01:36:01,240 --> 01:36:05,320
Speaker 2: shout out to our new members. We really appreciate you

1854
01:36:05,400 --> 01:36:07,960
Speaker 2: to everyone who's joined our Little Silly is our little

1855
01:36:07,960 --> 01:36:10,160
Speaker 2: membership group. If you want to see this live stream

1856
01:36:10,520 --> 01:36:13,600
Speaker 2: after it's finished, actually I think this one will be

1857
01:36:13,680 --> 01:36:15,479
Speaker 2: released our Tuesday's live stream.

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Speaker 1: Our exclusive live streams.

1859
01:36:16,800 --> 01:36:19,679
Speaker 2: Are on Tuesdays, and you'll get a bunch of other

1860
01:36:19,720 --> 01:36:22,360
Speaker 2: stuff too, and also we'll love you and it's apports

1861
01:36:22,360 --> 01:36:26,599
Speaker 2: of the show. Kira Leon says, this sounds weird. Why

1862
01:36:26,640 --> 01:36:28,800
Speaker 2: all of a sudden now during your relationship when they've

1863
01:36:28,840 --> 01:36:31,920
Speaker 2: known each other so long. It's also weird that if

1864
01:36:31,960 --> 01:36:34,320
Speaker 2: they would have been hooking up before you, why didn't

1865
01:36:34,320 --> 01:36:37,000
Speaker 2: they just become boyfriend girlfriend. I'm immensely confused. Are they

1866
01:36:37,080 --> 01:36:39,479
Speaker 2: dropped on their heads or something or is it something else?

1867
01:36:40,280 --> 01:36:42,680
Speaker 2: Opie says, I kind of feel like they have this

1868
01:36:42,760 --> 01:36:45,639
Speaker 2: weird obsession with each other, but forever reason they don't date.

1869
01:36:46,000 --> 01:36:48,719
Speaker 2: I also don't believe they have been hooking up throughout

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01:36:48,720 --> 01:36:53,720
Speaker 2: our entire relationship. He's a cheater, a liar, but he's

1871
01:36:53,720 --> 01:36:55,960
Speaker 2: a cheater, but and a liar wouldn't be that much

1872
01:36:55,960 --> 01:36:58,559
Speaker 2: more of a stretch. And then Kierra Leon says, you

1873
01:36:58,600 --> 01:37:01,639
Speaker 2: sound really calm. I would be infuriated if we want

1874
01:37:01,640 --> 01:37:04,560
Speaker 2: to burn them. Kind of angry you all right, Opie replied.

1875
01:37:04,680 --> 01:37:06,280
Speaker 2: I cried on the way home, and I'm sitting in

1876
01:37:06,360 --> 01:37:09,559
Speaker 2: beddying ice cream. So I'm handling it as well as

1877
01:37:09,560 --> 01:37:14,599
Speaker 2: I can. What a bag of dukie? This guy is

1878
01:37:14,960 --> 01:37:17,559
Speaker 2: bag of dukie, big old bag of dukie. Yeah, I

1879
01:37:17,600 --> 01:37:21,640
Speaker 2: feel I feel for OPI I mean op Is, I

1880
01:37:21,640 --> 01:37:24,280
Speaker 2: mean in a sense in this and yeah, the girl

1881
01:37:24,400 --> 01:37:27,240
Speaker 2: best friends. It's it's like it's a tricky, tricky situation.

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01:37:27,479 --> 01:37:30,599
Speaker 1: Also, so they're not dating or whatever, but they're going

1883
01:37:30,680 --> 01:37:33,880
Speaker 1: to live together now the dude and the and the

1884
01:37:34,200 --> 01:37:35,200
Speaker 1: girl is cheating with.

1885
01:37:35,400 --> 01:37:39,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, so they're hooking up and they're living together. It's

1886
01:37:39,400 --> 01:37:42,439
Speaker 2: like date, just date already, you know.

1887
01:37:43,360 --> 01:37:46,360
Speaker 1: And and we did exactly get this, but it almost

1888
01:37:46,400 --> 01:37:49,240
Speaker 1: seems like they might have talked about it before like

1889
01:37:49,280 --> 01:37:52,920
Speaker 1: OPI and the OPI and the ex and boyfriend now

1890
01:37:53,160 --> 01:37:55,040
Speaker 1: and we're like, oh, it's like too early to live together.

1891
01:37:55,520 --> 01:37:57,800
Speaker 1: But now he's moving into the person he has a

1892
01:37:57,840 --> 01:37:58,640
Speaker 1: situationship with.

1893
01:37:58,920 --> 01:38:00,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, but they've been like hook up and seeing each

1894
01:38:00,880 --> 01:38:03,439
Speaker 2: other for a while. This is crazy, that's just that's

1895
01:38:03,479 --> 01:38:07,640
Speaker 2: just so crazy to me. His box. But hey, you know,

1896
01:38:07,800 --> 01:38:10,040
Speaker 2: I hope they're happy.

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01:38:10,720 --> 01:38:12,639
Speaker 1: Question mark Mark.

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01:38:13,320 --> 01:38:20,360
Speaker 2: Also, we are so we uh we we because of

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01:38:20,400 --> 01:38:23,040
Speaker 2: your donations, we went for another hour right now, we're

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Speaker 2: at one thirty eight. Well, no, we're at one one

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01:38:28,600 --> 01:38:31,000
Speaker 2: hour and thirty eight minutes, so we have like technically

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01:38:31,040 --> 01:38:35,040
Speaker 2: like what twenty two minutes left, but we are at

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01:38:35,080 --> 01:38:38,120
Speaker 2: like one hundred and ninety seven dollars in donations, so

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01:38:38,160 --> 01:38:41,240
Speaker 2: we will go for one more hour if we get

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01:38:41,280 --> 01:38:44,120
Speaker 2: over that two hundred mark. That's right. So if you

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01:38:44,120 --> 01:38:46,479
Speaker 2: want to, if you want to have us sit in

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01:38:46,520 --> 01:38:49,120
Speaker 2: this chair for a longer, you can. You have the

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01:38:49,160 --> 01:38:52,559
Speaker 2: power within you, that's right. But John, you know what

1909
01:38:52,640 --> 01:38:57,040
Speaker 2: you have the power within you for what this next story?

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01:38:57,240 --> 01:39:01,599
Speaker 1: Yes I do. And this is three twenty two, isn't it, Riley? Yes,

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Speaker 1: thank you, sir, thank you, sir. So today I fed

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01:39:04,960 --> 01:39:10,240
Speaker 1: up by lying to my girlfriend about who I am?

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01:39:10,280 --> 01:39:14,360
Speaker 2: Sixty three? Is that right, Riley? Who I am? Sick? Oh?

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01:39:14,479 --> 01:39:17,360
Speaker 1: That might have been something else entirely today I'm blying

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01:39:17,360 --> 01:39:19,640
Speaker 1: to my girlfriend about who I am.

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01:39:19,920 --> 01:39:23,679
Speaker 2: So throw our a throwaway, our help.

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01:39:23,560 --> 01:39:26,600
Speaker 1: This says, okay, So for some context, this didn't technically

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Speaker 1: happen today. It has been a long time coming, and

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01:39:30,040 --> 01:39:32,240
Speaker 1: I now realize how much I've fed up.

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01:39:32,400 --> 01:39:34,120
Speaker 2: This is that today I fed up. And you know

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01:39:34,160 --> 01:39:37,360
Speaker 2: what we did not f up on? Naomi Morales given

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01:39:37,479 --> 01:39:42,479
Speaker 2: us twenty Canadian dollars to continue the stream for another hour.

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01:39:42,920 --> 01:39:46,320
Speaker 2: Thank you for your donation. We are going to go

1924
01:39:46,600 --> 01:39:50,040
Speaker 2: for another hour. Let's go. Appreciate you luck in ladies

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01:39:50,080 --> 01:39:52,360
Speaker 2: and gentlemen. And I would told you if you if

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01:39:52,360 --> 01:39:54,640
Speaker 2: we do another one hundred, maybe John will go for

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01:39:54,720 --> 01:39:56,720
Speaker 2: another hour. I do have a date tonight, so I

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01:39:56,720 --> 01:39:59,160
Speaker 2: won't be able to keep going, but it might be

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01:39:59,160 --> 01:40:00,880
Speaker 2: a Riley John's stay.

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Speaker 1: And also, thank you for the five bucks. Five not us,

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Speaker 1: Thank you very much, so Opie says. Throughout my life,

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Speaker 1: I have suffered quite extreme bullying, abuse and always looking

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Speaker 1: and feeling extremely ugly and homophobia for being bisexual. In

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Speaker 1: a very small old fashioned town. That must be so

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Speaker 1: that is awful.

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Speaker 2: I'm so sorry.

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Speaker 1: I always felt like I stuck out in the worst

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Speaker 1: way possible. I genuinely feel awful about myself every day,

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Speaker 1: and I was very, very depressed and contemplated certain things

1940
01:40:34,439 --> 01:40:39,400
Speaker 1: by the age of ten, harm by the age of twelve, uh,

1941
01:40:39,680 --> 01:40:43,040
Speaker 1: and more by the age of fourteen, struggling with social anxiety.

1942
01:40:43,080 --> 01:40:46,320
Speaker 1: Throughout my life. My only line of support were my pets.

1943
01:40:46,400 --> 01:40:48,640
Speaker 1: As dumb as it sounds, they were everything to me.

1944
01:40:48,760 --> 01:40:51,519
Speaker 1: They loved me, I love them, and that's all there

1945
01:40:51,720 --> 01:40:54,400
Speaker 1: was to it. I started dating my ex girlfriend at

1946
01:40:54,439 --> 01:40:56,840
Speaker 1: the age of fourteen, and it was my first experience

1947
01:40:56,880 --> 01:40:59,960
Speaker 1: with that kind of relationship. However, she sort of date

1948
01:41:00,240 --> 01:41:03,240
Speaker 1: me out of pity, as I now know, Oh oh,

1949
01:41:03,240 --> 01:41:06,240
Speaker 1: that is awful. Oh, as a way for her to

1950
01:41:06,240 --> 01:41:09,799
Speaker 1: feel better about herself. She cheated on me several times

1951
01:41:10,000 --> 01:41:13,400
Speaker 1: and would be telling everyone about it in front of me.

1952
01:41:15,640 --> 01:41:18,599
Speaker 1: She was abusive, and I never stopped it because I thought,

1953
01:41:18,680 --> 01:41:22,280
Speaker 1: at least she loves me. I began practicing Judaism as

1954
01:41:22,320 --> 01:41:24,480
Speaker 1: a coping missim and didn't tell anybody.

1955
01:41:26,479 --> 01:41:31,720
Speaker 2: Like the Jewish faith, oh yeah, some barakatad on Ia

1956
01:41:31,800 --> 01:41:35,280
Speaker 2: was in There also a shout out to Jojo forty

1957
01:41:35,320 --> 01:41:38,639
Speaker 2: five for the super chat another fie bucks. We appreciate you.

1958
01:41:38,680 --> 01:41:43,720
Speaker 1: Thank you, Jojo. I eventually hit a breaking point in

1959
01:41:43,760 --> 01:41:44,160
Speaker 1: my life.

1960
01:41:44,640 --> 01:41:45,440
Speaker 2: I was fifteen.

1961
01:41:45,720 --> 01:41:48,680
Speaker 1: My pets had all passed away within a year. I

1962
01:41:48,760 --> 01:41:51,720
Speaker 1: realized my then girlfriend had no love and she didn't care.

1963
01:41:52,120 --> 01:41:55,080
Speaker 1: She was threatening to leave me for someone else. And

1964
01:41:55,160 --> 01:41:57,559
Speaker 1: for the first time my life, I took a stand

1965
01:41:57,600 --> 01:42:01,400
Speaker 1: and said, fine, then go get on out of here.

1966
01:42:01,640 --> 01:42:04,759
Speaker 2: I feel like op now like having some courage. Stepping

1967
01:42:04,840 --> 01:42:05,800
Speaker 2: in the.

1968
01:42:05,560 --> 01:42:07,680
Speaker 1: Courage, then self worth I can. I can feel like

1969
01:42:07,720 --> 01:42:11,200
Speaker 1: I can see it building. I realized that after all

1970
01:42:11,320 --> 01:42:13,559
Speaker 1: that she did to me, I didn't love her. I

1971
01:42:13,640 --> 01:42:17,519
Speaker 1: just wanted to be loved anyways. That brings us to

1972
01:42:17,800 --> 01:42:21,639
Speaker 1: the problem. After this breaking point, I dyed my hair,

1973
01:42:21,800 --> 01:42:25,800
Speaker 1: curled it, cleared up, my skin, started wearing height boosters

1974
01:42:25,840 --> 01:42:28,559
Speaker 1: deep in my voice. Went to the gym who went

1975
01:42:28,680 --> 01:42:32,479
Speaker 1: on a diet to benefit my appearance. Change my music taste. O,

1976
01:42:32,680 --> 01:42:36,080
Speaker 1: he's glowing up, dude, alter some of my interests, changed

1977
01:42:36,120 --> 01:42:40,040
Speaker 1: my dexterity, tackled my social anxiety, and act way more

1978
01:42:40,080 --> 01:42:45,400
Speaker 1: confident than I was before. Wow, becoming even more extroverted. Wow,

1979
01:42:45,640 --> 01:42:49,519
Speaker 1: actually the list is not over. Became quite an emotional person,

1980
01:42:49,680 --> 01:42:52,720
Speaker 1: so I'd never have to hold onto any of this

1981
01:42:52,840 --> 01:42:55,519
Speaker 1: type of stuff again, and told people that the reason

1982
01:42:55,560 --> 01:42:59,639
Speaker 1: I practiced Judaism was because my family was Jewish. As

1983
01:42:59,720 --> 01:43:02,120
Speaker 1: I did this over lockdown. When I came back to

1984
01:43:02,160 --> 01:43:06,680
Speaker 1: school almost eighteen years old, nobody even recognized me from

1985
01:43:06,680 --> 01:43:11,160
Speaker 1: the person that I was before, which had gone. But

1986
01:43:11,400 --> 01:43:14,880
Speaker 1: now everyone began to notice me. They liked me, respected

1987
01:43:14,920 --> 01:43:18,640
Speaker 1: me for my newfound popularity. I made some new friends,

1988
01:43:19,200 --> 01:43:21,920
Speaker 1: one of them being my current girlfriend.

1989
01:43:22,360 --> 01:43:23,840
Speaker 2: Oh, let's go.

1990
01:43:25,040 --> 01:43:29,800
Speaker 1: Wanting to wanting to be desperately genuinely be the best person.

1991
01:43:29,479 --> 01:43:30,040
Speaker 2: I was.

1992
01:43:31,920 --> 01:43:35,920
Speaker 1: Acting natural and as if I didn't feel different. The

1993
01:43:36,040 --> 01:43:39,960
Speaker 1: few that remembered me soon forgot that I who I

1994
01:43:40,080 --> 01:43:43,599
Speaker 1: used to be and associated with me with my new self.

1995
01:43:44,080 --> 01:43:45,760
Speaker 1: As my girlfriend was one of the people that I

1996
01:43:45,760 --> 01:43:48,760
Speaker 1: had made friends with. She was under the impression that

1997
01:43:48,840 --> 01:43:52,639
Speaker 1: this was my genuine, natural self, and when I began

1998
01:43:52,760 --> 01:43:55,320
Speaker 1: dating her at the age of seventeen, I decided to

1999
01:43:55,400 --> 01:43:58,720
Speaker 1: keep up the facade because for the first time, I

2000
01:43:58,800 --> 01:44:01,320
Speaker 1: really loved my life. I loved who I was, and

2001
01:44:01,360 --> 01:44:02,599
Speaker 1: I didn't want to change.

2002
01:44:03,000 --> 01:44:05,160
Speaker 2: But what But at what point is like the facade

2003
01:44:05,240 --> 01:44:09,880
Speaker 2: of being cool and outgoing just become you. You know, that's

2004
01:44:09,880 --> 01:44:11,800
Speaker 2: the question that I wanted to ask.

2005
01:44:11,880 --> 01:44:14,320
Speaker 1: Like I feel like it's like opis just not yet

2006
01:44:14,520 --> 01:44:20,120
Speaker 1: used to this newfound comfort in themselves and confidence, and

2007
01:44:20,280 --> 01:44:23,240
Speaker 1: it's more of a just like I'm not used to

2008
01:44:23,280 --> 01:44:26,479
Speaker 1: this than I it's not who I am type thing,

2009
01:44:26,479 --> 01:44:27,880
Speaker 1: because like if you go to.

2010
01:44:27,840 --> 01:44:30,840
Speaker 2: That, it sounds like OP just like changed like every

2011
01:44:30,880 --> 01:44:32,960
Speaker 2: even the things they liked about themselves, Like they're like

2012
01:44:33,000 --> 01:44:35,120
Speaker 2: maybe they like the music taste. No, I'm changing that

2013
01:44:35,120 --> 01:44:37,160
Speaker 2: because that doesn't fit in with being popular, right. Yeah.

2014
01:44:37,200 --> 01:44:39,200
Speaker 1: Maybe it's like there's this like a line where it's like, Okay,

2015
01:44:39,240 --> 01:44:41,080
Speaker 1: I'm like going to the gym, I'm like eating better.

2016
01:44:41,320 --> 01:44:43,840
Speaker 1: Then it's like people are like, oh now I'm looking

2017
01:44:43,880 --> 01:44:47,439
Speaker 1: good or whatever. Now I'm like doing different jokes and

2018
01:44:47,479 --> 01:44:50,000
Speaker 1: like have a different interest to get into groups that

2019
01:44:50,040 --> 01:44:52,639
Speaker 1: are like now giving me recognition for the first time.

2020
01:44:52,680 --> 01:44:53,320
Speaker 2: In validation.

2021
01:44:53,640 --> 01:44:56,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, I could see that, especially seventeen years old.

2022
01:44:56,120 --> 01:45:01,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, and also we have some validation. Ten Canadian dollars

2023
01:45:01,240 --> 01:45:04,479
Speaker 2: from Kelly C. Have a good date, Sam, and let's

2024
01:45:04,520 --> 01:45:08,280
Speaker 2: go Riley one more hour. Yeah, we're keeping it going there,

2025
01:45:08,320 --> 01:45:11,960
Speaker 2: we go for all the have a good date. Sam comments,

2026
01:45:12,200 --> 01:45:14,400
Speaker 2: I appreciate you. Yeah, drop some more in there. I

2027
01:45:14,479 --> 01:45:18,639
Speaker 2: met her in the park. Oh, this is chet the girl,

2028
01:45:18,880 --> 01:45:20,799
Speaker 2: the girl very nice.

2029
01:45:21,240 --> 01:45:25,000
Speaker 1: Do so back to the story. As my girlfriend was

2030
01:45:25,000 --> 01:45:26,840
Speaker 1: one of the people I made friends with, she was

2031
01:45:26,920 --> 01:45:31,000
Speaker 1: under the impression this was my true, genuine self. Now

2032
01:45:31,200 --> 01:45:33,920
Speaker 1: I wanted the person I used to be just to

2033
01:45:34,120 --> 01:45:39,519
Speaker 1: be gone and forgotten. However, we're nineteen now, from seventeen

2034
01:45:39,520 --> 01:45:43,720
Speaker 1: to nineteen, in university together and strongly committed. I love

2035
01:45:43,760 --> 01:45:46,200
Speaker 1: her more than life itself, and I do everything I

2036
01:45:46,240 --> 01:45:48,320
Speaker 1: can to prove that to her. I can't wait to

2037
01:45:48,360 --> 01:45:50,840
Speaker 1: marry her and have kids. I think about it every

2038
01:45:50,880 --> 01:45:54,280
Speaker 1: single day. However, besides the height boosters in my shoes

2039
01:45:54,560 --> 01:45:57,320
Speaker 1: hard to hide, she doesn't know anything else about my

2040
01:45:57,400 --> 01:46:01,280
Speaker 1: original self. I know that I've really f this up

2041
01:46:01,360 --> 01:46:04,639
Speaker 1: by not telling her by now, but I can't bear

2042
01:46:04,720 --> 01:46:05,920
Speaker 1: to even remind.

2043
01:46:05,600 --> 01:46:10,439
Speaker 2: Myself until now. Again. I don't but like I was

2044
01:46:10,479 --> 01:46:14,519
Speaker 2: awkward in middle school and stuff, and that I've changed

2045
01:46:14,600 --> 01:46:18,479
Speaker 2: since then. I hope, like I don't, I don't like,

2046
01:46:18,520 --> 01:46:20,880
Speaker 2: I don't know if OP maybe OPI is just like

2047
01:46:20,960 --> 01:46:23,600
Speaker 2: it was such a drastic change that it feels like

2048
01:46:23,640 --> 01:46:27,640
Speaker 2: two different people. But it seems like this facade has

2049
01:46:27,680 --> 01:46:28,840
Speaker 2: been kept up for years.

2050
01:46:28,880 --> 01:46:31,160
Speaker 1: So I feel like OPI's still really young, like now,

2051
01:46:31,280 --> 01:46:34,360
Speaker 1: just nineteen, and I think it's like Opie's like, no,

2052
01:46:34,520 --> 01:46:36,600
Speaker 1: this is the like this is my whole life, like

2053
01:46:36,640 --> 01:46:39,720
Speaker 1: this is the way that I've been, and really it's

2054
01:46:39,760 --> 01:46:42,320
Speaker 1: just like, no, that was just an awkward two year

2055
01:46:42,479 --> 01:46:45,280
Speaker 1: phases and you've grown out of that and the rest

2056
01:46:45,280 --> 01:46:47,120
Speaker 1: of your life. You are who you've been.

2057
01:46:47,280 --> 01:46:50,080
Speaker 2: Exactly since that point. I feel like like the person

2058
01:46:50,160 --> 01:46:52,599
Speaker 2: you are is who you show up as most Yes,

2059
01:46:52,880 --> 01:46:56,519
Speaker 2: one hundred percent, So Opi, you are that better person.

2060
01:46:57,080 --> 01:46:57,720
Speaker 2: You deserve that.

2061
01:46:58,880 --> 01:47:01,599
Speaker 1: It's all been a race and so much fun. These

2062
01:47:01,600 --> 01:47:03,040
Speaker 1: have been the best years of my life and I

2063
01:47:03,080 --> 01:47:06,559
Speaker 1: feel so free. However, I have one thing holding me back,

2064
01:47:06,600 --> 01:47:10,000
Speaker 1: and that is guilt. Me and my girlfriend are incredibly

2065
01:47:10,000 --> 01:47:12,320
Speaker 1: open with each other on every issue, and I love

2066
01:47:12,360 --> 01:47:14,640
Speaker 1: that about us. I told her my life story, and

2067
01:47:14,680 --> 01:47:17,439
Speaker 1: I told her I changed myself, but never elaborated and

2068
01:47:17,479 --> 01:47:20,599
Speaker 1: told her to the extent which I did it again.

2069
01:47:20,960 --> 01:47:24,080
Speaker 1: I'm like, just because you don't tell someone all the

2070
01:47:24,120 --> 01:47:26,200
Speaker 1: details of something like.

2071
01:47:26,280 --> 01:47:28,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, like what do you say? Like I would used

2072
01:47:28,120 --> 01:47:31,920
Speaker 2: to be a loser, like like because that's that's what

2073
01:47:32,000 --> 01:47:35,320
Speaker 2: it seems like op is is hiding. Yeah, you know,

2074
01:47:35,800 --> 01:47:37,280
Speaker 2: it doesn't seem like any I don't know. What do

2075
01:47:37,280 --> 01:47:40,040
Speaker 2: you guys say? Do you think op needs to confess anything?

2076
01:47:40,240 --> 01:47:43,320
Speaker 2: Or I mean, obviously op feels like feels it they

2077
01:47:43,400 --> 01:47:45,720
Speaker 2: need to confess something so and that I guess if

2078
01:47:45,720 --> 01:47:48,120
Speaker 2: that's the then they maybe they do, maybe, but maybe

2079
01:47:48,120 --> 01:47:49,760
Speaker 2: they just maybe they just say like, hey, this is

2080
01:47:49,800 --> 01:47:51,679
Speaker 2: who I was before and this is what's changed.

2081
01:47:51,800 --> 01:47:54,519
Speaker 1: Lizzie Martinez did say it is bad to build a

2082
01:47:54,560 --> 01:47:57,320
Speaker 1: relationship with lies, but you can always repair it if

2083
01:47:57,320 --> 01:48:00,439
Speaker 1: both parties are willing to work it out, and KK

2084
01:48:00,600 --> 01:48:02,720
Speaker 1: says growing as a person and keeping it up as

2085
01:48:02,760 --> 01:48:05,439
Speaker 1: an act are two wildly different things.

2086
01:48:05,680 --> 01:48:09,120
Speaker 2: That's true. That's true. So maybe OPI feels like it's

2087
01:48:09,439 --> 01:48:12,519
Speaker 2: an act. Yeah, but like an act that you've kept

2088
01:48:12,520 --> 01:48:15,400
Speaker 2: for this long. Yeah. I don't like when doesn't When

2089
01:48:15,439 --> 01:48:19,400
Speaker 2: does an act actually like like trickle into who you are?

2090
01:48:19,640 --> 01:48:22,320
Speaker 1: And also I don't like of the stuff that Opie

2091
01:48:22,400 --> 01:48:27,680
Speaker 1: is describing now I'm not getting like, oh uh, I

2092
01:48:27,720 --> 01:48:29,920
Speaker 1: don't don't listen to music I like anymore and like

2093
01:48:29,960 --> 01:48:33,840
Speaker 1: it seems like OPI is doing like what he wants

2094
01:48:33,920 --> 01:48:36,680
Speaker 1: to do, that's part of him. I don't know.

2095
01:48:36,760 --> 01:48:43,120
Speaker 2: I just yeah, I'm I'm very curious where this goes

2096
01:48:43,200 --> 01:48:46,760
Speaker 2: because I'm wondering. It seems like he's gonna confess something. Yeah,

2097
01:48:47,000 --> 01:48:49,120
Speaker 2: I mean, it's just something that we don't know yet.

2098
01:48:49,680 --> 01:48:51,840
Speaker 1: Opie goes on to say, I feel guilty for hiding

2099
01:48:51,880 --> 01:48:54,799
Speaker 1: anything and know that something has to give at some point.

2100
01:48:55,320 --> 01:48:57,680
Speaker 1: If I don't, she'll somehow find out by hearing it

2101
01:48:57,680 --> 01:49:00,880
Speaker 1: from my family that I dyed my hair, or that

2102
01:49:00,960 --> 01:49:02,240
Speaker 1: they're not Jewish.

2103
01:49:02,640 --> 01:49:04,880
Speaker 2: Oh, I guess the big one is that he's told

2104
01:49:04,920 --> 01:49:06,720
Speaker 2: everyone or wait is it? Is it?

2105
01:49:07,479 --> 01:49:09,679
Speaker 1: What's op I'm not one hundred percent sure.

2106
01:49:09,760 --> 01:49:14,160
Speaker 2: Okay, they've told everyone that they're Jewish. So I guess

2107
01:49:14,280 --> 01:49:16,719
Speaker 2: that that is a kind of a big lie. Yeah,

2108
01:49:16,760 --> 01:49:20,960
Speaker 2: but I don't know because like like like.

2109
01:49:21,840 --> 01:49:23,599
Speaker 1: That is a very bit It is a big thing

2110
01:49:23,640 --> 01:49:26,559
Speaker 1: to lie about. But it is it something that I

2111
01:49:26,560 --> 01:49:28,519
Speaker 1: guess if the other person is Jewish and like, oh,

2112
01:49:28,600 --> 01:49:30,640
Speaker 1: like all this stuff and then he's like, oh, I

2113
01:49:30,680 --> 01:49:32,120
Speaker 1: lied about my family being yeah.

2114
01:49:32,000 --> 01:49:34,400
Speaker 2: I'm not Jewish, then that that there could be I

2115
01:49:34,400 --> 01:49:36,880
Speaker 2: guess that's the kind of that that's that's the one

2116
01:49:37,000 --> 01:49:39,320
Speaker 2: that would probably get you in trouble, not like changing

2117
01:49:39,320 --> 01:49:40,040
Speaker 2: your music taste.

2118
01:49:40,120 --> 01:49:45,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, exactly. Why what do I do? I've really

2119
01:49:45,640 --> 01:49:47,760
Speaker 1: fed this up? Do I tell her? Do I see

2120
01:49:47,760 --> 01:49:50,800
Speaker 1: how far it'll go? It could last me forever, but

2121
01:49:50,880 --> 01:49:53,120
Speaker 1: I feel increasingly guilty.

2122
01:49:53,840 --> 01:49:56,120
Speaker 2: Ladies and gentlemen. That's the end of this story.

2123
01:49:57,439 --> 01:49:59,920
Speaker 1: Let's see what some people said in the chat. Tat

2124
01:50:00,080 --> 01:50:03,240
Speaker 1: Toy says, uh, if you if you feel it, but

2125
01:50:03,400 --> 01:50:05,760
Speaker 1: it doesn't have to be a huge reveal, just make

2126
01:50:05,920 --> 01:50:08,840
Speaker 1: a joke, joking reference to it to your past self.

2127
01:50:08,920 --> 01:50:11,080
Speaker 2: Yeah. So like, hey, this is what I used to

2128
01:50:11,600 --> 01:50:14,920
Speaker 2: I used to be called salad boy back in middle school. Yeah,

2129
01:50:15,160 --> 01:50:17,000
Speaker 2: like one of those that is a true story. And

2130
01:50:17,000 --> 01:50:19,840
Speaker 2: then she's like, Sam, you were salad boy?

2131
01:50:20,000 --> 01:50:22,560
Speaker 1: You were salad boy? Why did you not tell me this?

2132
01:50:22,720 --> 01:50:25,760
Speaker 2: Yeah? How dare you? How dare you get out? Leave?

2133
01:50:25,880 --> 01:50:28,160
Speaker 2: Leave this relationship and this. I don't want to be

2134
01:50:28,200 --> 01:50:31,000
Speaker 2: mixed up in this. Yeah, come on. Someone said, fake

2135
01:50:31,040 --> 01:50:31,800
Speaker 2: it till you make it?

2136
01:50:31,840 --> 01:50:32,000
Speaker 7: Where?

2137
01:50:32,040 --> 01:50:34,599
Speaker 2: Where where is it? Where is it? Uh? It was

2138
01:50:34,640 --> 01:50:38,160
Speaker 2: it was just up there. Yeah. Bernie hart Dragon says, well, Sam,

2139
01:50:38,200 --> 01:50:41,280
Speaker 2: you fake it until you make it. I think that's true.

2140
01:50:41,600 --> 01:50:43,720
Speaker 2: I think that's true for some people. Yeah.

2141
01:50:44,439 --> 01:50:47,800
Speaker 1: I think it's more like you, uh, you execute to

2142
01:50:47,840 --> 01:50:49,800
Speaker 1: where you want to be until you are there.

2143
01:50:50,120 --> 01:50:52,920
Speaker 2: Yeah. Also, Rufit says, shout out to my daughter Cinderella

2144
01:50:52,920 --> 01:50:55,720
Speaker 2: and Beanie Baby. They love listing to your show. What

2145
01:50:55,800 --> 01:51:01,040
Speaker 2: they shout out that? Dam Yeah? Great names? Yeah amazing. Wait,

2146
01:51:01,160 --> 01:51:04,120
Speaker 2: Stella Davis, they called you salad girl and you were

2147
01:51:04,120 --> 01:51:07,080
Speaker 2: in middle school. No way to tell us? Why tell us?

2148
01:51:07,120 --> 01:51:08,000
Speaker 2: Why tell us why?

2149
01:51:08,200 --> 01:51:11,000
Speaker 1: Stella Davis was recently on the show on the call

2150
01:51:11,040 --> 01:51:16,200
Speaker 1: in line, So shout out to you, Stella, welcome back again. Oh,

2151
01:51:16,240 --> 01:51:20,160
Speaker 1: Bella Lloyd says, imposter syndrome is real. That is totally

2152
01:51:20,400 --> 01:51:22,400
Speaker 1: so that's what. That's what poster syndrome. And Opie's like,

2153
01:51:22,560 --> 01:51:24,960
Speaker 1: I'm not this person and that you think and I

2154
01:51:25,000 --> 01:51:27,720
Speaker 1: really am and I'm lying, I'm a terrible liar, Like.

2155
01:51:28,040 --> 01:51:33,040
Speaker 2: That is actually probably the most accurate, great situation. Yeah,

2156
01:51:33,560 --> 01:51:34,799
Speaker 2: for sure, I totally agree.

2157
01:51:35,120 --> 01:51:37,360
Speaker 1: Burning Rose says it's always been it's always best to

2158
01:51:37,360 --> 01:51:40,360
Speaker 1: be honest. Even if she never finds out, the guilt

2159
01:51:40,360 --> 01:51:43,040
Speaker 1: will always be there if it's really bad, and it

2160
01:51:43,080 --> 01:51:46,040
Speaker 1: will only get worse. I will stay to Burning Rose's point,

2161
01:51:46,080 --> 01:51:50,000
Speaker 1: because OPI feels guilt inside, it may be good to

2162
01:51:50,120 --> 01:51:52,320
Speaker 1: just like let let her know, and I think she'll

2163
01:51:52,360 --> 01:51:54,599
Speaker 1: be like, Okay, yeah, that's fine.

2164
01:51:54,720 --> 01:51:56,920
Speaker 2: Fine. I feel like, yeah, I feel like he'll be good.

2165
01:51:57,200 --> 01:51:59,040
Speaker 2: Is that the end of the story? That is it?

2166
01:51:59,160 --> 01:52:02,680
Speaker 2: You're saying there's no up they That's freaking tragic, right,

2167
01:52:02,800 --> 01:52:05,080
Speaker 2: that's freaking tragic. I want to know what happens. I

2168
01:52:05,080 --> 01:52:07,559
Speaker 2: want to know hope he inside of anything, if they

2169
01:52:07,560 --> 01:52:12,160
Speaker 2: get married, get married kids, if he says anything. All right,

2170
01:52:12,360 --> 01:52:15,599
Speaker 2: well you know what I'm about to say right now,

2171
01:52:15,800 --> 01:52:19,120
Speaker 2: what I'm about to hit you with this next story?

2172
01:52:19,360 --> 01:52:19,840
Speaker 4: Oh god?

2173
01:52:21,680 --> 01:52:25,160
Speaker 2: All right, here we go. So this is S three?

2174
01:52:25,840 --> 01:52:36,240
Speaker 2: Uh one? S one? Okay? So am I the a

2175
01:52:36,439 --> 01:52:41,320
Speaker 2: hole for walking out on my boyfriend when he's grieving? Uh? Yeah,

2176
01:52:41,360 --> 01:52:45,479
Speaker 2: it sounds like it. Did she walk out to deliver

2177
01:52:45,520 --> 01:52:46,800
Speaker 2: her baby like the earlier story?

2178
01:52:46,880 --> 01:52:49,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I walked out because you know, I got

2179
01:52:49,320 --> 01:52:50,439
Speaker 1: a baby coming out of me.

2180
01:52:50,520 --> 01:52:54,000
Speaker 2: So I gotta catch the new TV show. I don't know.

2181
01:52:54,200 --> 01:52:55,479
Speaker 2: Have you watched Mister and Missus Smith?

2182
01:52:55,880 --> 01:52:56,559
Speaker 1: I haven't yet.

2183
01:52:56,680 --> 01:52:58,840
Speaker 2: Pretty fire, dude, you're a Donald Glover Fance.

2184
01:52:58,880 --> 01:53:00,240
Speaker 1: I know I know I'm behind.

2185
01:53:00,280 --> 01:53:01,960
Speaker 2: What are you doing. What are you doing? Dude?

2186
01:53:02,040 --> 01:53:04,519
Speaker 1: We have our regular show and then we also watched

2187
01:53:04,520 --> 01:53:05,599
Speaker 1: it app Elementary come Out.

2188
01:53:05,640 --> 01:53:08,280
Speaker 2: We haven't watched it yet, dude, it is I'm behind five.

2189
01:53:08,479 --> 01:53:10,120
Speaker 2: You would love you would love it. You love dog?

2190
01:53:10,240 --> 01:53:11,360
Speaker 1: I know, I really do.

2191
01:53:11,400 --> 01:53:13,960
Speaker 2: I'm looking at it on the screen like, ooh, can

2192
01:53:14,040 --> 01:53:16,679
Speaker 2: watch it? Ka Maaya two twelve says you're the asshole

2193
01:53:16,680 --> 01:53:20,400
Speaker 2: with no context. Yeah, we love the no context here

2194
01:53:20,479 --> 01:53:24,519
Speaker 2: the as let's actually get into it. So this comes

2195
01:53:24,520 --> 01:53:27,799
Speaker 2: from a lazy iron three one three zero. My thirty

2196
01:53:27,800 --> 01:53:31,040
Speaker 2: five female boyfriend thirty six male had to have his

2197
01:53:31,120 --> 01:53:36,240
Speaker 2: family dog put down. He is naturally devastated. I went

2198
01:53:36,320 --> 01:53:39,000
Speaker 2: round his the day after and we stayed in and

2199
01:53:39,040 --> 01:53:41,360
Speaker 2: had a few drinks. The next morning, I had got

2200
01:53:41,439 --> 01:53:43,800
Speaker 2: up before him. When he got up, he just went

2201
01:53:43,840 --> 01:53:46,320
Speaker 2: straight into the kitchen and was washing up. So I

2202
01:53:46,400 --> 01:53:48,519
Speaker 2: went in from where I was in the living room

2203
01:53:48,560 --> 01:53:50,080
Speaker 2: and he looked annoyed. I asked him if he was

2204
01:53:50,120 --> 01:53:52,760
Speaker 2: all right, and he said no. I asked what was wrong?

2205
01:53:52,880 --> 01:53:55,479
Speaker 2: He shot at me, what do you think is wrong?

2206
01:53:55,800 --> 01:54:01,040
Speaker 2: My dog just died. Just fuck off and leave me alone,

2207
01:54:01,439 --> 01:54:07,080
Speaker 2: Chris bro I did. I went and got dressed and

2208
01:54:07,160 --> 01:54:09,760
Speaker 2: as I was walking out the door. He asked where

2209
01:54:09,800 --> 01:54:16,559
Speaker 2: I was going? Why son? I told him home. When

2210
01:54:16,560 --> 01:54:19,600
Speaker 2: he asked why, I said, get as. I said, I

2211
01:54:19,640 --> 01:54:21,920
Speaker 2: get that his dog died, but he didn't need to

2212
01:54:21,960 --> 01:54:24,360
Speaker 2: tell me to fuck off when he was just asking

2213
01:54:24,439 --> 01:54:27,160
Speaker 2: what was wrong. He told me to go and called

2214
01:54:27,200 --> 01:54:32,960
Speaker 2: me a twat. These are British people. I've since sent

2215
01:54:33,080 --> 01:54:35,720
Speaker 2: him a message explaining that he didn't look like he

2216
01:54:35,800 --> 01:54:39,320
Speaker 2: was upset. He looked annoyed. So that's why I asked

2217
01:54:39,360 --> 01:54:43,320
Speaker 2: him what was wrong. He just said, okay, no apology.

2218
01:54:44,080 --> 01:54:45,840
Speaker 2: I had spoken to a couple of my friends who

2219
01:54:45,840 --> 01:54:47,600
Speaker 2: both say there was no need for him to speak

2220
01:54:47,600 --> 01:54:50,040
Speaker 2: to me like that and that they would have left too.

2221
01:54:50,480 --> 01:54:54,240
Speaker 2: But the way he's reacted makes me think he's hurt,

2222
01:54:54,440 --> 01:54:58,920
Speaker 2: and that's why I left him while he's grieving. And

2223
01:54:58,960 --> 01:55:01,440
Speaker 2: there is an up date and the relevant comments. But

2224
01:55:01,960 --> 01:55:05,000
Speaker 2: now that we have a little more context, is O

2225
01:55:05,160 --> 01:55:07,720
Speaker 2: P the a hole you think? John?

2226
01:55:08,440 --> 01:55:11,720
Speaker 1: No, No, bro, the boyfriend is a hole? He like,

2227
01:55:12,760 --> 01:55:17,080
Speaker 1: I get it. Dogs dead, dog is dead. Dog is dead, dude.

2228
01:55:17,120 --> 01:55:20,840
Speaker 1: It's so so so much harshness, so much aggression for.

2229
01:55:21,000 --> 01:55:23,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I just feel like, hey, is everything okay?

2230
01:55:23,440 --> 01:55:31,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, you dumb. No, I hate you get out and

2231
01:55:31,560 --> 01:55:33,760
Speaker 1: dig a ditch and then crawling it and then never

2232
01:55:33,800 --> 01:55:34,240
Speaker 1: come back.

2233
01:55:34,360 --> 01:55:37,080
Speaker 2: Yeah. Rufe Fit says, not the A hole. Jerry's songs

2234
01:55:37,160 --> 01:55:38,960
Speaker 2: is not the ahl Kelly as not the A whole.

2235
01:55:39,120 --> 01:55:42,080
Speaker 2: Lady bartidaz Opie is not the A whole. Courtney Brave.

2236
01:55:42,160 --> 01:55:44,320
Speaker 2: I've had to put down multiple family animals and I've

2237
01:55:44,320 --> 01:55:49,720
Speaker 2: never treated anyone like that. Yeah, uh Yusha uh Yusra

2238
01:55:50,080 --> 01:55:53,880
Speaker 2: shafat Con says, I don't know. Uh Evo is not

2239
01:55:53,920 --> 01:55:55,880
Speaker 2: the A whole. Yeah, it seems like everyone thinks not

2240
01:55:55,920 --> 01:55:59,320
Speaker 2: the ahole. But let's get into these relevant comments. He

2241
01:55:59,360 --> 01:56:01,000
Speaker 2: may be grieving, but there was no reason for him

2242
01:56:01,000 --> 01:56:02,720
Speaker 2: to speak to you like that. But also it was

2243
01:56:02,800 --> 01:56:05,280
Speaker 2: kind of an obvious answer to your question. Yeah, I know.

2244
01:56:05,480 --> 01:56:07,720
Speaker 2: It threw me that he looked annoyed, not upset, so

2245
01:56:07,720 --> 01:56:09,960
Speaker 2: it didn't make the connection. I was also very hungover

2246
01:56:10,040 --> 01:56:13,520
Speaker 2: and shattered. I've explained this to him, and all I've

2247
01:56:13,560 --> 01:56:17,160
Speaker 2: had back is Okay, does he often have issues lashing out?

2248
01:56:17,200 --> 01:56:20,640
Speaker 2: Because someone said bipolar in the chat and she said,

2249
01:56:20,760 --> 01:56:23,200
Speaker 2: I'll be honest, it's not the first time he's taken

2250
01:56:23,200 --> 01:56:25,880
Speaker 2: out his frustrations with me. Is that a red flag

2251
01:56:26,080 --> 01:56:27,560
Speaker 2: put red flags in the chat if you think so.

2252
01:56:28,320 --> 01:56:30,520
Speaker 2: This is the first time he's sworn at me, though

2253
01:56:30,720 --> 01:56:33,880
Speaker 2: we had conversations not long ago and told him the

2254
01:56:33,920 --> 01:56:36,919
Speaker 2: way he speaks to me is disrespectful. Now he's swearing

2255
01:56:36,960 --> 01:56:40,400
Speaker 2: at me. I guess I was just thinking because he's grieving,

2256
01:56:40,440 --> 01:56:43,200
Speaker 2: I could forget it. But he's not even apologized, and

2257
01:56:43,240 --> 01:56:46,480
Speaker 2: he usually has by now. And Hopie says, I don't

2258
01:56:46,520 --> 01:56:49,320
Speaker 2: think grieving for a dog makes him less of a

2259
01:56:49,360 --> 01:56:54,200
Speaker 2: man verbally abusing his girlfriend does. And mini update in

2260
01:56:54,240 --> 01:56:56,200
Speaker 2: the comments and what just I asked if this is

2261
01:56:56,280 --> 01:56:58,640
Speaker 2: red flag Kim quant red flag Natalie heards a red

2262
01:56:58,680 --> 01:57:01,919
Speaker 2: flag Jerry's song Red Flag, Crazy Carol Crew Red Flag,

2263
01:57:02,040 --> 01:57:05,040
Speaker 2: and Court and the Brave says a red flag anger problems.

2264
01:57:05,120 --> 01:57:08,800
Speaker 2: I agree, so uh. Opie says yes, but not the

2265
01:57:08,920 --> 01:57:11,920
Speaker 2: swearing in the name calling your X sounds very Oh.

2266
01:57:11,960 --> 01:57:17,760
Speaker 2: This is a mini update from the comments, someone saying yes,

2267
01:57:17,840 --> 01:57:19,760
Speaker 2: but not the swearing and name calling your X sounds

2268
01:57:19,800 --> 01:57:22,040
Speaker 2: very similar to him. To be honest, we said we're

2269
01:57:22,040 --> 01:57:24,240
Speaker 2: going to talk today. I don't know how this is

2270
01:57:24,280 --> 01:57:25,720
Speaker 2: going to go. I want to make my point, but

2271
01:57:25,760 --> 01:57:28,680
Speaker 2: also not disregard his feelings. I'm sure he thinks me

2272
01:57:28,760 --> 01:57:31,280
Speaker 2: asking what's wrong with a stupid question? And I get that,

2273
01:57:31,360 --> 01:57:33,760
Speaker 2: but I need him to see that his reaction was

2274
01:57:33,760 --> 01:57:35,640
Speaker 2: way over top. Okay, so this is actually coming from

2275
01:57:35,640 --> 01:57:39,120
Speaker 2: a p and then update in case anyone was interested.

2276
01:57:39,360 --> 01:57:42,200
Speaker 2: He refused to apologize and said I godded him because

2277
01:57:42,240 --> 01:57:44,600
Speaker 2: I knew he was pissed off because I didn't stay

2278
01:57:44,680 --> 01:57:47,640
Speaker 2: in bed to give him cuddle and I didn't oh

2279
01:57:47,720 --> 01:57:50,480
Speaker 2: man manage just thinking himself a great.

2280
01:57:50,360 --> 01:57:51,920
Speaker 1: Here we go, let's see what is this?

2281
01:57:52,200 --> 01:57:55,400
Speaker 2: BS? Tell me how y'all would respond to this sentence?

2282
01:57:55,440 --> 01:57:59,920
Speaker 2: Here we go? Because I knew he was pissed off

2283
01:58:00,040 --> 01:58:02,200
Speaker 2: because I didn't stay in bed to give him a

2284
01:58:02,280 --> 01:58:06,280
Speaker 2: cuddle and I didn't sexually satisfy him the night before.

2285
01:58:06,960 --> 01:58:09,680
Speaker 2: He can't keep hard when he's drank too much, and

2286
01:58:09,720 --> 01:58:18,440
Speaker 2: that's my fault. Gone, done, done out, gone, he's gone.

2287
01:58:18,520 --> 01:58:22,480
Speaker 2: He's gone, Bro, he's gone. Just maybe don't drink all

2288
01:58:22,480 --> 01:58:25,880
Speaker 2: the whiskey and the work. So what do you think?

2289
01:58:25,960 --> 01:58:33,120
Speaker 2: Should Ope? Should opie uh leave break up or not?

2290
01:58:33,400 --> 01:58:36,440
Speaker 2: Put in the chat? Break up or nah? But op

2291
01:58:37,200 --> 01:58:43,520
Speaker 2: says weave split up. I'm on hinge. Thank you to

2292
01:58:43,520 --> 01:58:47,120
Speaker 2: everyone for helping me see him for what he really is,

2293
01:58:47,320 --> 01:58:48,920
Speaker 2: a piece of ship.

2294
01:58:49,200 --> 01:58:50,480
Speaker 1: Yes, thank god.

2295
01:58:51,720 --> 01:58:56,560
Speaker 2: Wow, I hate that guy. Hate that guy. I hate him.

2296
01:58:56,840 --> 01:58:58,320
Speaker 2: It sucks. That sucks.

2297
01:58:58,760 --> 01:59:02,400
Speaker 1: Thank god, thank god. Op he's and got out of there.

2298
01:59:02,480 --> 01:59:06,520
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, I feel like I feel like sometimes we've

2299
01:59:06,560 --> 01:59:09,960
Speaker 2: said this before. When people just write these things on Reddit,

2300
01:59:10,120 --> 01:59:13,160
Speaker 2: often it's just the act of like putting it all

2301
01:59:13,200 --> 01:59:17,160
Speaker 2: on paper. They realize that's not what I should take.

2302
01:59:17,240 --> 01:59:20,640
Speaker 2: That's not like, that's that that is not a good

2303
01:59:20,760 --> 01:59:24,920
Speaker 2: thing for me to just endure because it shatters the

2304
01:59:24,920 --> 01:59:27,400
Speaker 2: glass and you're like, oh shit, this relationship is not good.

2305
01:59:27,800 --> 01:59:30,720
Speaker 2: Crafty Witch for twenty Sis break Up. Stella Davis sortedly,

2306
01:59:30,880 --> 01:59:34,120
Speaker 2: we do. We just ignore them because red is our color.

2307
01:59:34,480 --> 01:59:37,000
Speaker 2: I'm not sure what that is, in references to Kimberly

2308
01:59:37,040 --> 01:59:39,920
Speaker 2: finds hiss Opie's X is that meme with the kids

2309
01:59:39,920 --> 01:59:45,800
Speaker 2: shoving a stick in his bicycle spokes crashing and saying, thanks, bro,

2310
01:59:45,920 --> 01:59:48,040
Speaker 2: Have I seen that? I don't think I do that.

2311
01:59:48,080 --> 01:59:51,680
Speaker 2: I want to see it. Oh my god, Yeah, there

2312
01:59:51,720 --> 01:59:52,000
Speaker 2: we go.

2313
01:59:52,560 --> 01:59:56,560
Speaker 1: Natalie Ruzzo said that's called reflecting one hundred percent, and

2314
01:59:56,680 --> 01:59:58,400
Speaker 1: sometimes sharing the story is a good way to do that,

2315
01:59:58,440 --> 02:00:02,960
Speaker 1: and then kat Jardine says, I completely understand not making

2316
02:00:03,000 --> 02:00:06,440
Speaker 1: the connection when he looked annoyed instead of upset. I

2317
02:00:06,480 --> 02:00:09,280
Speaker 1: hate people who lash out at others because they know

2318
02:00:09,480 --> 02:00:12,480
Speaker 1: you won't fight back, punching bag mentality.

2319
02:00:12,520 --> 02:00:12,960
Speaker 2: Yeah I could.

2320
02:00:13,600 --> 02:00:16,600
Speaker 1: I could totally see how she might have misinterpreted it

2321
02:00:16,640 --> 02:00:19,520
Speaker 1: and was like trying, was asking out of concern, you

2322
02:00:19,520 --> 02:00:20,000
Speaker 1: know what I mean?

2323
02:00:20,240 --> 02:00:22,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, And to take it that far is like,

2324
02:00:22,320 --> 02:00:23,040
Speaker 2: doesn't even make.

2325
02:00:23,000 --> 02:00:28,760
Speaker 1: Sense, ridiculous. Burning Rose says, first talking to anger, then

2326
02:00:28,800 --> 02:00:31,600
Speaker 1: cursing only amount of time until it got physical. She

2327
02:00:31,640 --> 02:00:33,480
Speaker 1: got out of there while the getting was good.

2328
02:00:34,200 --> 02:00:36,200
Speaker 2: I mean it sounds it sounds like it was increasing right,

2329
02:00:36,200 --> 02:00:38,880
Speaker 2: exactly like your first time, he swore. I mean, yeah,

2330
02:00:38,920 --> 02:00:43,440
Speaker 2: it's obviously he's grieving, but that doesn't excuse this kind

2331
02:00:43,480 --> 02:00:46,360
Speaker 2: of not at all. And also the doubling down later. Yeah,

2332
02:00:46,560 --> 02:00:51,360
Speaker 2: it's not a good person. Why not at all? But

2333
02:00:51,480 --> 02:00:54,040
Speaker 2: John want to hit me with this next story? Yes

2334
02:00:54,200 --> 02:00:57,200
Speaker 2: I will. And where also that to those of you

2335
02:00:57,280 --> 02:00:59,760
Speaker 2: who are asking about the date and picking her up dinner,

2336
02:00:59,840 --> 02:01:04,520
Speaker 2: I've actually never taken out a girl to dinner on

2337
02:01:04,560 --> 02:01:08,120
Speaker 2: a first date before. Whoa this is my Yeah, I mean,

2338
02:01:08,160 --> 02:01:10,360
Speaker 2: because I usually I'll do like a walk down to

2339
02:01:10,400 --> 02:01:13,400
Speaker 2: the beach, or I don't know, I'll do something more active.

2340
02:01:13,480 --> 02:01:15,520
Speaker 2: I've gone like surfing as a first date, which is

2341
02:01:15,520 --> 02:01:19,360
Speaker 2: a terrible idea, but this is the first. Yeah. I

2342
02:01:20,000 --> 02:01:21,920
Speaker 2: one of my first dates was I invited a girl

2343
02:01:21,960 --> 02:01:24,920
Speaker 2: to the Democratic National Convention and we snuck in and

2344
02:01:24,960 --> 02:01:29,000
Speaker 2: we stole Pete Boudagesh's notes. And I've never but I've

2345
02:01:29,040 --> 02:01:33,680
Speaker 2: never actually like done a like a dinner date, true

2346
02:01:33,680 --> 02:01:34,879
Speaker 2: dinner day. I'm kind of nervous.

2347
02:01:34,920 --> 02:01:38,120
Speaker 1: Sam is a big planner ladies and gentlemen. He always had,

2348
02:01:38,120 --> 02:01:39,680
Speaker 1: he always has something up his sleeve.

2349
02:01:40,200 --> 02:01:46,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm probably I would probably pay. Well, I'm definitely

2350
02:01:47,000 --> 02:01:49,760
Speaker 2: Someone asked, someone asked, do you usually split the bill

2351
02:01:49,840 --> 02:01:51,560
Speaker 2: or do you pay? And I'm like, yeah, I would pay.

2352
02:01:51,680 --> 02:01:54,640
Speaker 6: Oh sorry, I just I just heard the hesitation in

2353
02:01:54,640 --> 02:01:56,560
Speaker 6: your voice. That's kind of crazy.

2354
02:01:56,680 --> 02:01:59,800
Speaker 2: No, no, no, of course. I think if if I'm asking

2355
02:02:00,120 --> 02:02:03,040
Speaker 2: someone on a date, especially a first date, I think

2356
02:02:03,160 --> 02:02:06,680
Speaker 2: that it's on it's on me to pay. Yeah, I agree,

2357
02:02:07,160 --> 02:02:09,800
Speaker 2: if it's on, if it's on like a dating app,

2358
02:02:09,840 --> 02:02:12,360
Speaker 2: I feel like maybe it's different. But I asked her

2359
02:02:12,360 --> 02:02:15,800
Speaker 2: on a date, so whoa on a.

2360
02:02:15,800 --> 02:02:18,040
Speaker 6: Dating app, you would you would be like, maybe we

2361
02:02:18,040 --> 02:02:19,000
Speaker 6: should split the bill.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't do dating apps.

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Speaker 1: I'm not sure I put it in the comments. Should

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Speaker 1: should guys pay the first date or not? My rules,

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02:02:27,640 --> 02:02:33,320
Speaker 1: I would always pay when whatever direction, But eventually i'd

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02:02:33,320 --> 02:02:34,960
Speaker 1: be like, oh, hey, would you mind just like splitting

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Speaker 1: in the future.

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Speaker 6: So I've done, like I've always paid for dinner, but

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02:02:39,640 --> 02:02:41,960
Speaker 6: sometimes they're like, always go get a treat, and like,

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Speaker 6: I'll try to pay for it, but sometimes they'll like

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Speaker 6: get the ice cream or whatever afterwards.

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Speaker 3: That seems cool, Yeah, but like I'll usually try to

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Speaker 3: pay as much as I can, but always pay on

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Speaker 3: the first day. Whatever.

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Speaker 1: Come on, yeah, come on, call me old fashioned, old fashion.

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02:02:56,240 --> 02:02:58,360
Speaker 2: I don't think I've ever not paid for a first date.

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02:02:58,480 --> 02:03:01,880
Speaker 2: I don't, but I've also done dates that costs no

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Speaker 2: money before. How dare you? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Well, ladies and gentlemen, put down below with a fun

2380
02:03:09,960 --> 02:03:13,560
Speaker 1: little side chat. But we have our next story for you.

2381
02:03:14,440 --> 02:03:20,080
Speaker 1: My boyfriend is, oh, this is not the right one.

2382
02:03:20,160 --> 02:03:23,400
Speaker 1: We're not on three twenty one. Here, what's the episode

2383
02:03:23,560 --> 02:03:24,880
Speaker 1: we are one?

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02:03:25,160 --> 02:03:28,360
Speaker 2: Kimberly Fine says, come prepared to pay on both ends.

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02:03:28,960 --> 02:03:31,200
Speaker 2: I agree, but I think it's safe to assume the

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02:03:31,200 --> 02:03:34,400
Speaker 2: person who asks should pay. I don't think it's like

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02:03:34,400 --> 02:03:37,040
Speaker 2: a man woman thing. It's like who asks? Right? A grade?

2388
02:03:38,040 --> 02:03:42,600
Speaker 1: Now, my husband is seriously prioritizing his girlfriend over me.

2389
02:03:43,160 --> 02:03:47,959
Speaker 1: What should I do? So, Sam?

2390
02:03:49,840 --> 02:03:56,200
Speaker 2: Your your why my husband is providing his choosing his

2391
02:03:56,280 --> 02:04:00,880
Speaker 2: girlfriend over me? Are they still in a relationship, the

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02:04:00,920 --> 02:04:05,000
Speaker 2: wife and the I mean I'm assuming they're they're married, Yeah,

2393
02:04:05,040 --> 02:04:09,120
Speaker 2: my husband. Maybe it's a polly relationship. Maybe maybe?

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02:04:09,280 --> 02:04:12,760
Speaker 1: So what happens when the girlfriend is getting priority over

2395
02:04:12,800 --> 02:04:13,280
Speaker 1: the wife?

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02:04:15,440 --> 02:04:18,200
Speaker 2: I think you, I don't know.

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02:04:18,360 --> 02:04:21,919
Speaker 1: You get another girlfriend, you get a boyfriend, get a boyfriend,

2398
02:04:22,280 --> 02:04:24,800
Speaker 1: and then do you prioritize them and just keep going

2399
02:04:24,840 --> 02:04:25,480
Speaker 1: on and on.

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02:04:25,400 --> 02:04:28,280
Speaker 2: And on until you guys are just married to a

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02:04:28,320 --> 02:04:31,440
Speaker 2: separate to everybody? Yeah, exactly to everybody.

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02:04:32,200 --> 02:04:36,400
Speaker 1: Let's see what happens. This comes from a throw rauh

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02:04:36,560 --> 02:04:40,200
Speaker 1: hubby girlfriend who says, a year ago, my husband Marcus

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02:04:40,240 --> 02:04:43,360
Speaker 1: and I came to a mutual agreement about opening up

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02:04:43,400 --> 02:04:48,040
Speaker 1: our marriage. Sam called it, Hey, hey, there he is.

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02:04:48,680 --> 02:04:50,360
Speaker 1: Didn't even need a nice.

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Speaker 2: Do I we read it? Or what why we read it?

2408
02:04:52,680 --> 02:04:53,600
Speaker 2: Or what he does?

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02:04:55,200 --> 02:04:57,480
Speaker 1: The spark was almost gone and we had toyed with

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02:04:57,560 --> 02:05:00,760
Speaker 1: the idea of opening up a relationship slash polygamy before

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02:05:01,000 --> 02:05:04,000
Speaker 1: polyamory before excuse me. Once we had more in depth

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02:05:04,040 --> 02:05:07,000
Speaker 1: conversations about it and put rules in place, I began

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02:05:07,120 --> 02:05:10,120
Speaker 1: downloading dating apps and reaching out to people who expressed

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02:05:10,160 --> 02:05:16,760
Speaker 1: interest in me previously previously keyword. I was going for

2415
02:05:16,840 --> 02:05:20,000
Speaker 1: quick hookups, one night stand, stuff of that nature. If

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02:05:20,040 --> 02:05:23,520
Speaker 1: it turned to something more, it did, and I didn't

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02:05:23,520 --> 02:05:27,000
Speaker 1: care if it did not. Marcus, however, was looking for

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02:05:27,120 --> 02:05:31,640
Speaker 1: someone semi serious, one partner rather than multiple people, and

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02:05:31,800 --> 02:05:35,040
Speaker 1: was trying to date locally, but struggled with it because

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02:05:35,080 --> 02:05:38,360
Speaker 1: he was ugly. Now I'm just kidding. I suggested that

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02:05:38,400 --> 02:05:40,560
Speaker 1: he tried using a dating app like me, and he

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02:05:40,640 --> 02:05:44,520
Speaker 1: downloaded an app where he met his current girlfriend, Charmie.

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02:05:45,280 --> 02:05:48,120
Speaker 2: That's a fun name, yeah, I feel like something like

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02:05:48,200 --> 02:05:53,919
Speaker 2: a stripper name, a mischief, a mistress mischief, yeah, mistress,

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02:05:53,920 --> 02:05:54,760
Speaker 2: mischievous name.

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Speaker 1: Charmie is in her second year of law school, graduated

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02:06:00,520 --> 02:06:04,600
Speaker 1: summa cum laude with a BA for her undergrad and

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02:06:04,600 --> 02:06:05,720
Speaker 1: his fairly.

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02:06:05,480 --> 02:06:06,800
Speaker 2: Well off parents.

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02:06:07,080 --> 02:06:10,160
Speaker 1: I know all this because my husband gushed about it

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02:06:10,200 --> 02:06:12,640
Speaker 1: to me after he already went on a few dates

2432
02:06:12,680 --> 02:06:15,400
Speaker 1: and was hitting it off with her. Dude, should you

2433
02:06:15,440 --> 02:06:19,600
Speaker 1: really be gushing about your girlfriend girlfriend to your to

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02:06:19,680 --> 02:06:20,240
Speaker 1: your wife.

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02:06:21,360 --> 02:06:23,720
Speaker 2: I don't know, man, I've never been in this situation,

2436
02:06:24,520 --> 02:06:28,000
Speaker 2: but I would say maybe not. I don't know, like,

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02:06:28,120 --> 02:06:30,680
Speaker 2: are they like are they are they talking about their

2438
02:06:30,720 --> 02:06:35,360
Speaker 2: relationships to each other generally? I mean it's they definitely

2439
02:06:35,400 --> 02:06:36,360
Speaker 2: laid some rules down.

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02:06:36,360 --> 02:06:38,880
Speaker 1: It's unclear if it's maybe maybe it's not, because I

2441
02:06:38,880 --> 02:06:40,160
Speaker 1: feel like, oh, P would have been like and he

2442
02:06:40,240 --> 02:06:41,080
Speaker 1: violated the rule.

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02:06:41,200 --> 02:06:43,600
Speaker 2: He talked about it to me, So I guess I

2444
02:06:43,760 --> 02:06:45,480
Speaker 2: just I don't know. I feel like it's a poor look.

2445
02:06:45,880 --> 02:06:47,160
Speaker 2: That's true.

2446
02:06:47,400 --> 02:06:50,800
Speaker 1: But Lizzie Martinez says, what would our stripper names be?

2447
02:06:50,880 --> 02:06:51,440
Speaker 2: Personally?

2448
02:06:51,520 --> 02:06:54,000
Speaker 1: Vanilla Thunder it would be mine.

2449
02:06:54,120 --> 02:06:56,560
Speaker 2: Mine would be Thunder down Under to give a nod

2450
02:06:56,600 --> 02:06:58,160
Speaker 2: to my Australian heritage.

2451
02:06:57,880 --> 02:07:00,840
Speaker 1: Dude, and we could be the Thunderboys, the under boy

2452
02:07:01,520 --> 02:07:06,760
Speaker 1: boy you thunder you can say that's from uh there's

2453
02:07:06,800 --> 02:07:12,680
Speaker 1: a storm a brewin it's the thunder Boys, Okay, okay,

2454
02:07:13,480 --> 02:07:15,720
Speaker 1: uh quick Lightning.

2455
02:07:16,600 --> 02:07:20,720
Speaker 2: You can be your quick Lightning whiten quick quick Lightning

2456
02:07:20,720 --> 02:07:22,400
Speaker 2: and the Thunderboys.

2457
02:07:23,080 --> 02:07:25,600
Speaker 3: White Lightning, because all right, go quick.

2458
02:07:29,080 --> 02:07:31,000
Speaker 2: Bro. That should have been your pickup line in the video.

2459
02:07:31,360 --> 02:07:35,720
Speaker 1: Oh yo, next round, next round, Next round, guys comment

2460
02:07:35,720 --> 02:07:37,080
Speaker 1: if you want us to go on you know those

2461
02:07:37,120 --> 02:07:40,800
Speaker 1: like white studio videos. We've actually been in some recently.

2462
02:07:40,840 --> 02:07:44,320
Speaker 2: Yeah. We actually all of us are in another video

2463
02:07:44,440 --> 02:07:47,800
Speaker 2: zero to one hundred. Try Apple Vision Pro. That's catch

2464
02:07:47,800 --> 02:07:49,440
Speaker 2: your boys out there.

2465
02:07:49,520 --> 02:07:51,280
Speaker 1: Sam making a PBJ sandwich.

2466
02:07:51,400 --> 02:07:56,880
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, channel you know you know Thunderboards.

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02:07:58,160 --> 02:08:04,920
Speaker 1: All right, ravenous forest as Thunderboys. Okopie calendar, Oh wow,

2468
02:08:05,160 --> 02:08:10,560
Speaker 1: it's already been yeahikes, well want let's let's get back

2469
02:08:10,600 --> 02:08:13,760
Speaker 1: to the story become before this becomes too dangerous. I

2470
02:08:13,800 --> 02:08:16,960
Speaker 1: was happy for him, the relationship only really annoying me

2471
02:08:17,120 --> 02:08:17,560
Speaker 1: when their.

2472
02:08:17,480 --> 02:08:18,920
Speaker 2: Plans coincided with mine.

2473
02:08:19,040 --> 02:08:21,840
Speaker 1: Okay, so it seems like Opie is down at first,

2474
02:08:22,200 --> 02:08:24,560
Speaker 1: and I had to cancel my own plans last minute

2475
02:08:24,600 --> 02:08:27,200
Speaker 1: to watch the kids. Until Marcus would stay up for

2476
02:08:27,440 --> 02:08:31,600
Speaker 1: hours talking to Charmie while in our bed and only

2477
02:08:31,720 --> 02:08:34,920
Speaker 1: go to the living room to resume their conversation there

2478
02:08:35,240 --> 02:08:36,160
Speaker 1: if I said that he's.

2479
02:08:36,080 --> 02:08:38,320
Speaker 2: Keeping me up or that he had woke me up

2480
02:08:38,360 --> 02:08:44,480
Speaker 2: in the morning, Oh my goodness, I've seen plenty brother, Well,

2481
02:08:44,560 --> 02:08:46,440
Speaker 2: I've seen plenty of seats for flowers.

2482
02:08:46,640 --> 02:08:51,800
Speaker 1: Chocolates, new purses, jewelry, fancy dinners, all for charmy.

2483
02:08:52,000 --> 02:08:53,920
Speaker 2: Oh man, all for CHARMI.

2484
02:08:54,160 --> 02:08:57,560
Speaker 1: Uh when we've hardly done anything truly special in the

2485
02:08:57,600 --> 02:08:58,160
Speaker 1: past year.

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02:08:58,920 --> 02:09:02,560
Speaker 2: Geez, dude, dude, he's got, he's got. You know, he's

2487
02:09:02,560 --> 02:09:03,120
Speaker 2: been charmed.

2488
02:09:03,520 --> 02:09:06,640
Speaker 1: Okay, So so getting getting to the rules. Part of

2489
02:09:06,680 --> 02:09:09,400
Speaker 1: our agreement was that we wouldn't totally give up on

2490
02:09:09,400 --> 02:09:10,160
Speaker 1: our marriage.

2491
02:09:11,360 --> 02:09:12,240
Speaker 2: That's a good rule.

2492
02:09:12,280 --> 02:09:15,160
Speaker 1: Now, we won't completely give up on our marriage.

2493
02:09:15,240 --> 02:09:18,680
Speaker 2: That's not a fucking rule. That's not a rule. Rule

2494
02:09:18,760 --> 02:09:20,720
Speaker 2: is like we're not going to talk about our partners

2495
02:09:20,760 --> 02:09:23,600
Speaker 2: to each other, or like we're only gonna have like

2496
02:09:23,880 --> 02:09:26,000
Speaker 2: one date per week with our partner, or we're not

2497
02:09:26,040 --> 02:09:30,960
Speaker 2: gonna buy the the the girlfriend's gifts like like stuff

2498
02:09:31,000 --> 02:09:36,160
Speaker 2: like that. Yeah, dude, that that is not a fucking like. Like,

2499
02:09:36,520 --> 02:09:39,080
Speaker 2: if a poly relationship is to work, if I've learned

2500
02:09:39,120 --> 02:09:42,160
Speaker 2: anything from reading all these stories, if a poly relationship

2501
02:09:42,200 --> 02:09:44,960
Speaker 2: is to work, you have to have very specific rules

2502
02:09:45,240 --> 02:09:48,240
Speaker 2: that respect both of your boundaries, and if you don't,

2503
02:09:48,480 --> 02:09:49,120
Speaker 2: you're fucked.

2504
02:09:50,160 --> 02:09:56,480
Speaker 1: What about no rules, just shoot from the hip.

2505
02:09:56,840 --> 02:10:01,000
Speaker 2: What about what about the one rule? Oh wait, someone

2506
02:10:01,000 --> 02:10:04,120
Speaker 2: said weekly check its Kelly. Remember the story with the

2507
02:10:04,560 --> 02:10:09,640
Speaker 2: yeah weekly checking throw back, Yes, let's go and a

2508
02:10:09,640 --> 02:10:12,880
Speaker 2: real fan Kelly. Yeah, dude, see a weekly checking where

2509
02:10:12,880 --> 02:10:14,960
Speaker 2: you're like, how are things going? And he's like, I

2510
02:10:15,000 --> 02:10:16,480
Speaker 2: need to tell you about Charmie.

2511
02:10:16,560 --> 02:10:19,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, terrible, great weekly Checking.

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02:10:19,400 --> 02:10:21,040
Speaker 2: Done, were strong, We're good to go.

2513
02:10:21,160 --> 02:10:23,040
Speaker 6: Wait wait, wait, do you guys remember the one story

2514
02:10:23,080 --> 02:10:25,600
Speaker 6: where like it was like a poly couple and they

2515
02:10:25,640 --> 02:10:27,680
Speaker 6: had a calendar of like who's going to sleep with

2516
02:10:27,680 --> 02:10:28,440
Speaker 6: you each night?

2517
02:10:29,240 --> 02:10:31,920
Speaker 2: Yeah? Oh my god, I remember vaguely.

2518
02:10:32,520 --> 02:10:35,120
Speaker 3: I think that's the best way to go about it because.

2519
02:10:35,320 --> 02:10:39,120
Speaker 2: The sex calendar, the sexy calendar courtesy if the thunderblay

2520
02:10:41,800 --> 02:10:42,879
Speaker 2: very quick light.

2521
02:10:44,640 --> 02:10:45,360
Speaker 1: Good yow.

2522
02:10:47,520 --> 02:10:56,880
Speaker 2: Well okay, Samer, what do you got, friend? John?

2523
02:10:57,000 --> 02:11:00,800
Speaker 1: To your point, they did one rule. We would still

2524
02:11:00,840 --> 02:11:01,960
Speaker 1: have things like date nights.

2525
02:11:02,040 --> 02:11:04,320
Speaker 2: So there is one rule. There is one rule that

2526
02:11:04,360 --> 02:11:07,280
Speaker 2: was what does that even mean? On what basis like

2527
02:11:07,440 --> 02:11:08,960
Speaker 2: a date that could be once a year?

2528
02:11:09,120 --> 02:11:10,760
Speaker 1: Yes, that's the rule.

2529
02:11:10,600 --> 02:11:13,600
Speaker 2: Is Bullshit's this is a bullshit rules. It need us

2530
02:11:13,600 --> 02:11:16,480
Speaker 2: to come and counsel. Honestly, we could start a consulting

2531
02:11:16,520 --> 02:11:19,280
Speaker 2: business for poly relationships. Dude, you should listen to us,

2532
02:11:19,360 --> 02:11:20,680
Speaker 2: truly break up.

2533
02:11:21,000 --> 02:11:26,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's the advice. Now, if I try to bring

2534
02:11:26,160 --> 02:11:28,240
Speaker 1: all of this up, Marcus will argue that he's been

2535
02:11:28,240 --> 02:11:30,960
Speaker 1: busy with work and that I don't actually bother to

2536
02:11:31,000 --> 02:11:34,160
Speaker 1: do anything special for us, or just walk away from

2537
02:11:34,160 --> 02:11:39,480
Speaker 1: the conversation. Straight up, yesterday was my last straw. January

2538
02:11:39,520 --> 02:11:42,200
Speaker 1: thirty first is our wedding anniversary, and I assumed that

2539
02:11:42,200 --> 02:11:44,879
Speaker 1: he would at least stay home with me and our kids.

2540
02:11:45,480 --> 02:11:49,800
Speaker 1: Oh they have kids, like he did last year, at

2541
02:11:49,880 --> 02:11:52,920
Speaker 1: least be home just just just sitting on the couch

2542
02:11:53,240 --> 02:11:54,000
Speaker 1: there at least.

2543
02:11:55,480 --> 02:11:55,800
Speaker 2: Nope.

2544
02:11:56,480 --> 02:11:58,200
Speaker 1: When I went to talk to him about it, he

2545
02:11:58,280 --> 02:12:01,080
Speaker 1: said that since he had missed Charmie's birthday that was

2546
02:12:01,160 --> 02:12:03,200
Speaker 1: last week due to being super busy at work and

2547
02:12:03,240 --> 02:12:05,360
Speaker 1: too exhausted to go out, he wanted to have a

2548
02:12:05,440 --> 02:12:09,040
Speaker 1: late birthday celebration with her. Gee, maybe pick like the

2549
02:12:09,080 --> 02:12:13,560
Speaker 1: next day. That isn't your fucking wedding. And I'm swearing

2550
02:12:13,600 --> 02:12:16,920
Speaker 1: so much, but I'm pissed, dude. All for modestizations. Yeah,

2551
02:12:17,000 --> 02:12:21,040
Speaker 1: boom tanked absolutely taking over here, which means we need a.

2552
02:12:21,040 --> 02:12:22,400
Speaker 2: Few more donations.

2553
02:12:22,640 --> 02:12:25,240
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2554
02:12:25,280 --> 02:12:28,600
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02:12:28,640 --> 02:12:33,200
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2556
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2559
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Speaker 1: Pro tip, those Thursday live streams are Tuesday too, sorry.

2560
02:12:43,920 --> 02:12:46,400
Speaker 1: Our Tuesday live streams are our episodes like a week

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Speaker 1: or two early, so you're not just getting access to

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Speaker 1: those live streams, you're also seeing the stories early, which

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02:12:51,680 --> 02:12:54,560
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Speaker 2: Thank y'all. I yelled at him when he said that.

2566
02:12:59,080 --> 02:13:03,840
Speaker 1: And obviously our wedding anniversary is more important than Charmie's birthday, obviously, right.

2567
02:13:04,040 --> 02:13:07,840
Speaker 2: I don't know, Yeah, I don't know. Charmie. Charmis just

2568
02:13:07,880 --> 02:13:12,440
Speaker 2: got that bizza. She's got that in her name. There's

2569
02:13:12,520 --> 02:13:16,480
Speaker 2: just something about her, you know, Marcus.

2570
02:13:16,480 --> 02:13:19,280
Speaker 1: Marcus argued with me, saying that we didn't do anything

2571
02:13:19,360 --> 02:13:21,480
Speaker 1: last year, so why would it matter if he spends

2572
02:13:21,480 --> 02:13:26,000
Speaker 1: his time somewhere else? I said that, Yeah, I said,

2573
02:13:26,160 --> 02:13:29,080
Speaker 1: at least he spend his time at home rather than

2574
02:13:29,120 --> 02:13:29,920
Speaker 1: with someone else.

2575
02:13:30,520 --> 02:13:32,560
Speaker 2: Like, freaking yikes, bare minimum.

2576
02:13:32,160 --> 02:13:34,240
Speaker 1: Bro, just sit sit down and watch them Netflix, dude,

2577
02:13:34,320 --> 02:13:39,919
Speaker 1: freaking yikes, there, Minimum We argued some more before Marcus

2578
02:13:39,960 --> 02:13:42,919
Speaker 1: just walked away from me and went into the guest bedroom.

2579
02:13:43,400 --> 02:13:45,880
Speaker 1: He didn't come out and unless it was to interact

2580
02:13:45,920 --> 02:13:47,840
Speaker 1: with the kids, and barely spoke to me if I

2581
02:13:47,920 --> 02:13:50,680
Speaker 1: was around. He went straight to work after making sure

2582
02:13:50,680 --> 02:13:53,040
Speaker 1: that the kids had caught their bus, and hasn't answered

2583
02:13:53,120 --> 02:13:55,280
Speaker 1: or replied to my phone calls or text about wanting

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02:13:55,320 --> 02:13:57,600
Speaker 1: to talk with him. He'll be home soon, and I

2585
02:13:57,640 --> 02:14:01,080
Speaker 1: am seriously at the end of my rope. Our relationship

2586
02:14:01,120 --> 02:14:03,640
Speaker 1: has gone seriously downhill since he started dating her, But

2587
02:14:03,680 --> 02:14:06,440
Speaker 1: then again, she also makes him happy. From what I've seen,

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02:14:07,160 --> 02:14:07,680
Speaker 1: I don't care.

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02:14:08,840 --> 02:14:08,960
Speaker 2: Uh.

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02:14:09,120 --> 02:14:12,040
Speaker 1: It's also not like he's neglecting our kids, which I

2591
02:14:12,080 --> 02:14:15,320
Speaker 1: would never allow. We have some relevant comments in the story,

2592
02:14:15,360 --> 02:14:17,960
Speaker 1: but first we gotta make this down.

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02:14:18,880 --> 02:14:23,360
Speaker 2: Spreak it down. Divorce or not. In the chat, divorce

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02:14:23,440 --> 02:14:23,600
Speaker 2: or not?

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02:14:24,000 --> 02:14:28,600
Speaker 1: I mean, uh, crazy Corel crazy Coral Cruz says, divorce, divorce, divorce.

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02:14:29,040 --> 02:14:31,720
Speaker 2: I'm gonna say no. Actually, I'm gonna say no.

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02:14:32,040 --> 02:14:32,440
Speaker 1: Talk to me.

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02:14:33,560 --> 02:14:38,760
Speaker 2: Obviously he's overstepping a boundary. But does the boundary exist yet?

2599
02:14:38,840 --> 02:14:42,040
Speaker 2: If there are really no rules, the only rule you

2600
02:14:42,080 --> 02:14:45,560
Speaker 2: have is a date night on some kind of frequency.

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02:14:45,600 --> 02:14:48,040
Speaker 2: It doesn't it is not a yearly date night. Yeah,

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02:14:48,040 --> 02:14:48,920
Speaker 2: it could be yearly date.

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02:14:49,080 --> 02:14:49,800
Speaker 1: That's a frequency.

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02:14:49,880 --> 02:14:53,720
Speaker 2: So I think I think, yes, he is definitely in

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02:14:53,840 --> 02:14:57,760
Speaker 2: a hole for trans like uh, for just blowing past.

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02:14:58,040 --> 02:15:01,640
Speaker 2: I think boundaries that would even makes sense to a

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02:15:01,760 --> 02:15:06,440
Speaker 2: normal brain person. But I think, don't divorce. Have a

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02:15:06,480 --> 02:15:09,240
Speaker 2: conversation with him and establish some new boundaries, some new

2609
02:15:09,320 --> 02:15:12,760
Speaker 2: rules in new relationship to see if this thing can work. Obviously,

2610
02:15:12,800 --> 02:15:15,400
Speaker 2: you have kids together, so if it's just like him

2611
02:15:15,400 --> 02:15:18,160
Speaker 2: being infatuated for a little bit, I don't know that.

2612
02:15:18,480 --> 02:15:21,800
Speaker 2: I guess can happen in these poly relationships. But I

2613
02:15:21,880 --> 02:15:25,840
Speaker 2: think there needs to be a check in. There needs

2614
02:15:25,840 --> 02:15:28,320
Speaker 2: to be a weekly check out, a game you're actually

2615
02:15:28,360 --> 02:15:31,200
Speaker 2: talking about it and establishing new boundaries. So I don't

2616
02:15:31,200 --> 02:15:34,320
Speaker 2: think divorce, But I think maybe y'all might disagree with me.

2617
02:15:34,320 --> 02:15:35,800
Speaker 2: I don't know what are they saying over there.

2618
02:15:36,640 --> 02:15:41,800
Speaker 1: Well, well, Burning Rose just said that she's a new member.

2619
02:15:42,040 --> 02:15:44,560
Speaker 2: Our new member, so thank you.

2620
02:15:44,840 --> 02:15:48,640
Speaker 1: And Samwich also threw another five bucks in the chat.

2621
02:15:48,960 --> 02:15:51,800
Speaker 1: So the Thunderboys Quick Lightning Tour, oh.

2622
02:15:51,680 --> 02:15:54,560
Speaker 2: Man, I know people want us to create a sexy calendar,

2623
02:15:54,600 --> 02:15:57,840
Speaker 2: so maybe that's right. Also, Jenna, I mean, I mean

2624
02:15:58,120 --> 02:16:02,720
Speaker 2: someone redacted the girl I'm going to date with texav

2625
02:16:04,120 --> 02:16:05,600
Speaker 2: She said, see you soon in smiley face.

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02:16:05,640 --> 02:16:08,280
Speaker 1: Oh dude, wait wait wait wait wait which face?

2627
02:16:08,800 --> 02:16:09,480
Speaker 3: Which my face?

2628
02:16:09,680 --> 02:16:14,160
Speaker 2: Og or og o G smiley face right out anyway

2629
02:16:14,880 --> 02:16:18,240
Speaker 2: at sidetrack sidetrack. So what are we feeling? Uh?

2630
02:16:18,320 --> 02:16:23,240
Speaker 1: I'm feeling divorce completely. You're feeling completely disagreeing with you.

2631
02:16:23,840 --> 02:16:25,880
Speaker 1: My thing is like, you're totally right. They need to

2632
02:16:25,920 --> 02:16:29,400
Speaker 1: have rules and boundaries in place, but he's just going

2633
02:16:29,440 --> 02:16:34,120
Speaker 1: like so far outside of what like OP OP wants. Yes,

2634
02:16:34,160 --> 02:16:36,920
Speaker 1: it wasn't discussed and all of these things, although it

2635
02:16:36,920 --> 02:16:38,560
Speaker 1: does seem that OP did kind of bring it up

2636
02:16:38,720 --> 02:16:42,560
Speaker 1: yea once once boundaries that hadn't been pre established started

2637
02:16:42,600 --> 02:16:42,920
Speaker 1: to be.

2638
02:16:42,959 --> 02:16:46,120
Speaker 2: Crossed, they need couples therapy, a weekly check in. But

2639
02:16:46,280 --> 02:16:48,959
Speaker 2: the couple's therapy needs to start start with establishing the

2640
02:16:49,040 --> 02:16:51,000
Speaker 2: boundaries and then weekly check ins for themselves.

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02:16:51,040 --> 02:16:53,280
Speaker 1: I think it's savable. But if it keeps going down

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02:16:53,320 --> 02:16:55,760
Speaker 1: this road, I would say divorce. But what are the

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02:16:55,800 --> 02:16:56,640
Speaker 1: people say?

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02:16:57,320 --> 02:16:57,440
Speaker 2: Uh?

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02:16:57,959 --> 02:17:01,320
Speaker 1: Janey Jackson says a divorce. He has no respect for OP.

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02:17:01,720 --> 02:17:04,640
Speaker 1: He hasn't prioritized the relationship or their family.

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02:17:05,320 --> 02:17:05,440
Speaker 2: Uh.

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02:17:05,640 --> 02:17:07,960
Speaker 1: Lizzie Martinez said, I think you should talk it out.

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02:17:07,959 --> 02:17:11,879
Speaker 1: From what Op has mentioned, it seems like he is

2650
02:17:11,920 --> 02:17:17,600
Speaker 1: there more we don't know. Ravenous for said, look at

2651
02:17:17,640 --> 02:17:21,640
Speaker 1: Sam Cheeson because he's getting texts from he's not divorcing

2652
02:17:21,680 --> 02:17:23,640
Speaker 1: from his date coming up later today.

2653
02:17:23,760 --> 02:17:25,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll tell you how I met her. It's actually

2654
02:17:25,520 --> 02:17:28,879
Speaker 2: kind of funny, but we'll keep reading the talents.

2655
02:17:28,879 --> 02:17:32,800
Speaker 1: And Emily Ratitsky says, the fact that he's completely ignoring

2656
02:17:32,840 --> 02:17:36,000
Speaker 1: the importance of the wedding anniversary really shows that he's

2657
02:17:36,040 --> 02:17:36,520
Speaker 1: checked out.

2658
02:17:36,720 --> 02:17:38,920
Speaker 2: That is great point. Yeah, I would say that's a

2659
02:17:38,920 --> 02:17:43,080
Speaker 2: great point. I think therapy. Yeah. And then if that

2660
02:17:43,200 --> 02:17:45,920
Speaker 2: if it keeps going divorced, he's obviously not respecting her.

2661
02:17:46,000 --> 02:17:47,959
Speaker 2: I think he someone said he's not respecting his family.

2662
02:17:48,320 --> 02:17:51,480
Speaker 2: I do think that he is being It sounds like

2663
02:17:51,640 --> 02:17:53,560
Speaker 2: what what Op is saying, he's still being a good

2664
02:17:53,560 --> 02:17:55,760
Speaker 2: father to the children, but nice not to being a

2665
02:17:55,760 --> 02:17:56,680
Speaker 2: good partner too.

2666
02:17:57,840 --> 02:17:59,320
Speaker 1: Which shack.

2667
02:17:59,400 --> 02:18:03,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't like it. But for as for how

2668
02:18:03,680 --> 02:18:07,560
Speaker 2: I met Squidney four five six was asking how I

2669
02:18:07,320 --> 02:18:09,400
Speaker 2: met the girl I'm going on date with? So I

2670
02:18:09,560 --> 02:18:12,160
Speaker 2: was filming a video. I don't know if most of

2671
02:18:12,200 --> 02:18:14,039
Speaker 2: you probably haven't seen it because it didn't do well.

2672
02:18:14,040 --> 02:18:16,720
Speaker 2: But we did this video called Welcome to the Neighborhood,

2673
02:18:17,160 --> 02:18:19,200
Speaker 2: like this series where basically we try to unite the

2674
02:18:19,200 --> 02:18:23,400
Speaker 2: whole neighborhood. And on the second episode, we were inviting

2675
02:18:23,480 --> 02:18:27,360
Speaker 2: people to come to a backyard movie theater night in

2676
02:18:27,440 --> 02:18:30,960
Speaker 2: our backyard and we got this like big inflatable movie

2677
02:18:31,000 --> 02:18:34,959
Speaker 2: theater screen. And I was going around the neighborhood inviting everyone,

2678
02:18:35,280 --> 02:18:37,360
Speaker 2: and I saw this girl reading a book in the

2679
02:18:37,400 --> 02:18:40,520
Speaker 2: park and I'm like, I'm gonna invite her, And so

2680
02:18:40,720 --> 02:18:42,520
Speaker 2: I went and invited her and I had a little

2681
02:18:42,600 --> 02:18:44,520
Speaker 2: chat with her, and she was really cool. She was

2682
02:18:44,520 --> 02:18:47,600
Speaker 2: reading Napoleon Hill, Think and Grow Rich. I'm like, that's

2683
02:18:47,680 --> 02:18:50,959
Speaker 2: kind of sick. She went to UCLA and so like

2684
02:18:51,080 --> 02:18:55,840
Speaker 2: all like green flags. She does judo and also like

2685
02:18:57,040 --> 02:18:59,800
Speaker 2: is like a stunt woman, and I'm like, that's that's sick.

2686
02:19:00,959 --> 02:19:03,360
Speaker 2: And so I invited her to the to the movie

2687
02:19:03,440 --> 02:19:05,280
Speaker 2: night and she couldn't make it, but she came to

2688
02:19:05,320 --> 02:19:07,760
Speaker 2: our pot luck like a couple weeks later, and we

2689
02:19:07,879 --> 02:19:10,879
Speaker 2: chatted a little bit more and she was kind of

2690
02:19:10,879 --> 02:19:13,560
Speaker 2: a vibe and so we kept talking and talking and

2691
02:19:13,600 --> 02:19:16,520
Speaker 2: then I had to go and talk to some other people.

2692
02:19:16,520 --> 02:19:19,760
Speaker 2: But she was leaving and I saw her like like

2693
02:19:19,879 --> 02:19:21,800
Speaker 2: leaving it and we said bye. But then' like I

2694
02:19:21,800 --> 02:19:24,680
Speaker 2: should totally ask her out, and so like after she left,

2695
02:19:24,720 --> 02:19:28,360
Speaker 2: I chased her out the door, like, hey, I totally blank,

2696
02:19:28,440 --> 02:19:31,320
Speaker 2: but I have to ask you something. Can I take

2697
02:19:31,320 --> 02:19:34,400
Speaker 2: you out sometime? And she's like yeah, I'm like, okay,

2698
02:19:34,440 --> 02:19:37,080
Speaker 2: it's a date. And initially I was going to take

2699
02:19:37,080 --> 02:19:40,040
Speaker 2: her to Huntington Gardens, but I'm gonna take her to this.

2700
02:19:40,080 --> 02:19:43,439
Speaker 2: There's this like Michelin Star restaurant that's actually fairly affordable

2701
02:19:43,680 --> 02:19:45,199
Speaker 2: in our neighborhood down the street.

2702
02:19:45,600 --> 02:19:46,560
Speaker 1: Is it an Indian spot?

2703
02:19:46,720 --> 02:19:50,360
Speaker 2: It's Kobe's, Okay, Yeah, So I'm going to take her

2704
02:19:50,520 --> 02:19:53,160
Speaker 2: there and I don't know, we'll see how it goes.

2705
02:19:53,360 --> 02:19:55,440
Speaker 1: It's funny because she kind of seems like a female

2706
02:19:55,480 --> 02:19:56,400
Speaker 1: Sam like, yeah.

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02:19:58,280 --> 02:20:02,440
Speaker 6: I would write a tin age paper about why she

2708
02:20:02,840 --> 02:20:03,560
Speaker 6: should be with him.

2709
02:20:03,640 --> 02:20:03,960
Speaker 3: I would.

2710
02:20:04,200 --> 02:20:05,199
Speaker 2: That's so cute.

2711
02:20:05,280 --> 02:20:09,880
Speaker 1: Get started, Riley tonight. You have to drink four energy

2712
02:20:09,959 --> 02:20:13,360
Speaker 1: drinks and write that and then and then we read

2713
02:20:13,360 --> 02:20:16,560
Speaker 1: it on the live stream for everybody. Yeah, that's the

2714
02:20:16,600 --> 02:20:17,920
Speaker 1: story that we're going to read tomorrow.

2715
02:20:18,000 --> 02:20:20,959
Speaker 3: I love that. Also, I see you, buddy, I love you.

2716
02:20:21,320 --> 02:20:22,920
Speaker 3: My brother has Hey.

2717
02:20:23,640 --> 02:20:25,720
Speaker 2: Let's go, let's go take in the building.

2718
02:20:25,920 --> 02:20:27,240
Speaker 1: But let's get back to some.

2719
02:20:27,520 --> 02:20:30,400
Speaker 2: Should I respond to see you soon? Which I said?

2720
02:20:30,560 --> 02:20:32,680
Speaker 2: Heart it? And say anything else?

2721
02:20:33,520 --> 02:20:33,960
Speaker 3: I don't know?

2722
02:20:34,400 --> 02:20:36,160
Speaker 2: Uh? Yeah?

2723
02:20:36,280 --> 02:20:37,080
Speaker 3: What should he say?

2724
02:20:37,320 --> 02:20:39,480
Speaker 2: What should I? What should I say? If I tell

2725
02:20:39,480 --> 02:20:43,440
Speaker 2: them what I should say? Right now? I've just hearted it,

2726
02:20:43,480 --> 02:20:45,119
Speaker 2: but I need answers right now.

2727
02:20:45,080 --> 02:20:47,800
Speaker 1: Right now, the time is ticking.

2728
02:20:48,080 --> 02:20:50,800
Speaker 2: What do I say? She just said see you soon?

2729
02:20:51,480 --> 02:20:56,800
Speaker 1: Don't Oh no, I already hearted it. I can't hear it.

2730
02:20:57,080 --> 02:20:59,400
Speaker 1: You can't tell me what to say? Why is the

2731
02:21:00,440 --> 02:21:04,280
Speaker 1: too excr see you soon? Oh yeah, looking forward to it.

2732
02:21:04,320 --> 02:21:06,760
Speaker 1: There we go, that's perfect. Yeah, oh yeah, I can't

2733
02:21:06,760 --> 02:21:07,240
Speaker 1: I can't wait.

2734
02:21:08,040 --> 02:21:08,879
Speaker 3: She already sad? Can't wait?

2735
02:21:08,920 --> 02:21:09,400
Speaker 2: Can't wait?

2736
02:21:10,600 --> 02:21:11,720
Speaker 3: Or did she? What did she say?

2737
02:21:11,760 --> 02:21:14,840
Speaker 2: She said, see you soon? Can't wait? Oh than look

2738
02:21:14,840 --> 02:21:21,240
Speaker 2: at chat coming to chat, coming in freaking Thank you.

2739
02:21:21,959 --> 02:21:22,840
Speaker 3: That made it seem simple.

2740
02:21:22,959 --> 02:21:24,039
Speaker 1: Double down on the heart.

2741
02:21:24,080 --> 02:21:27,760
Speaker 2: I like that, judge. Yeah, I can't wait. I like that.

2742
02:21:27,920 --> 02:21:31,280
Speaker 1: Thanks guys for that one. Let's get into irrelevant comments here.

2743
02:21:31,440 --> 02:21:34,039
Speaker 2: The baby god Sella says you can'tcel your date because

2744
02:21:34,040 --> 02:21:35,920
Speaker 2: you're having a date night with three hundred and thirty

2745
02:21:35,920 --> 02:21:41,520
Speaker 2: two facts.

2746
02:21:41,520 --> 02:21:44,360
Speaker 1: Bro wait, now just hit her back and be like, hey, wait,

2747
02:21:44,920 --> 02:21:46,240
Speaker 1: can I just bring my chat with me?

2748
02:21:47,440 --> 02:21:51,280
Speaker 2: Bring my chat with me on the date? Yeah? Should

2749
02:21:51,320 --> 02:21:55,879
Speaker 2: we order? Wait? Actually bro live, No, but I actually

2750
02:21:55,959 --> 02:21:58,320
Speaker 2: left that a thing. I should totally not do that

2751
02:21:58,400 --> 02:22:01,840
Speaker 2: because I was recording when I first like interact with

2752
02:22:01,879 --> 02:22:05,080
Speaker 2: her in the park, and when I went and asked

2753
02:22:05,120 --> 02:22:09,720
Speaker 2: her out, She's like, are you recording this? And I'm like, no,

2754
02:22:09,840 --> 02:22:11,280
Speaker 2: I just wanted to ask you out.

2755
02:22:11,360 --> 02:22:15,680
Speaker 1: Oh my god, dude. The side effects of.

2756
02:22:17,440 --> 02:22:20,320
Speaker 3: Creator said, bring us lo mo.

2757
02:22:20,680 --> 02:22:24,000
Speaker 2: Yeah. Anyway, but she's really cute. She seems really nice

2758
02:22:24,000 --> 02:22:27,640
Speaker 2: and smart, and we'll see if it goes well. I'm excited, obviously.

2759
02:22:27,680 --> 02:22:28,360
Speaker 2: I'll tell you guys.

2760
02:22:28,400 --> 02:22:32,880
Speaker 1: But Sam's livestream date coming soon. All right, some relevant

2761
02:22:32,879 --> 02:22:35,680
Speaker 1: comments This is not me fifteen. Why did you permit

2762
02:22:35,760 --> 02:22:38,360
Speaker 1: a full fledged relationship to be a part of your

2763
02:22:38,440 --> 02:22:41,120
Speaker 1: open marriage rules or is he violating the rules you

2764
02:22:41,160 --> 02:22:44,000
Speaker 1: set out? Frankly, this looks like it's headed for divorce

2765
02:22:44,080 --> 02:22:48,080
Speaker 1: in a big hurry. Just an outsider's perspective, op says,

2766
02:22:48,120 --> 02:22:50,320
Speaker 1: per our agreement, we are both allowed to have girlfriends

2767
02:22:50,400 --> 02:22:53,119
Speaker 1: or boyfriends as long as we are transparent about it.

2768
02:22:53,480 --> 02:22:56,480
Speaker 1: Word a Big Bird says, what rules were put in place? Specifically?

2769
02:22:56,560 --> 02:22:58,279
Speaker 1: Is he obviously violating.

2770
02:22:57,879 --> 02:23:00,600
Speaker 2: Any specific we need specific rule? Here we go.

2771
02:23:01,080 --> 02:23:04,200
Speaker 1: Our rules are full transparency about people we're seeing. We

2772
02:23:04,240 --> 02:23:07,560
Speaker 1: get tested for STDs every two months. We can't bring

2773
02:23:07,600 --> 02:23:11,080
Speaker 1: partners home or have them state the nights close friends

2774
02:23:11,120 --> 02:23:14,119
Speaker 1: are off limits unless fully discussed with each other, and

2775
02:23:14,360 --> 02:23:17,440
Speaker 1: that our kids wouldn't interact with any of these people

2776
02:23:17,560 --> 02:23:22,920
Speaker 1: we were seeing. Tinny Luxio says, who first brought up

2777
02:23:23,320 --> 02:23:27,840
Speaker 1: opening as in opening the relationship, Opie, I did for

2778
02:23:27,959 --> 02:23:31,120
Speaker 1: the first conversation about that. Then Marcus came to me

2779
02:23:31,600 --> 02:23:36,840
Speaker 1: for the rest. So we have an update coming up here.

2780
02:23:38,520 --> 02:23:41,400
Speaker 1: Shall we dive in? Let's dive in, but before we do.

2781
02:23:42,000 --> 02:23:45,760
Speaker 1: B June, thanks for joining our Little Silly, our little

2782
02:23:45,920 --> 02:23:49,040
Speaker 1: Silly membership squad for YouTube. We appreciate you, and also

2783
02:23:49,120 --> 02:23:52,640
Speaker 1: Burning Rows if I haven't already said thank you, here

2784
02:23:52,720 --> 02:23:53,039
Speaker 1: it is.

2785
02:23:53,200 --> 02:23:55,560
Speaker 2: We appreciate for joining. And if you want to join

2786
02:23:55,720 --> 02:23:59,920
Speaker 2: and see our Tuesday live streams after they've been like

2787
02:23:59,879 --> 02:24:02,680
Speaker 2: live stream forever and ever and get a little early

2788
02:24:02,720 --> 02:24:05,560
Speaker 2: glimpse of the episodes coming out, join our little sillies.

2789
02:24:05,800 --> 02:24:08,000
Speaker 2: That's right, check it out, y'all. Let's get to do

2790
02:24:08,000 --> 02:24:08,480
Speaker 2: this update.

2791
02:24:09,600 --> 02:24:12,440
Speaker 1: This is just a small update that'll probably upset the

2792
02:24:12,480 --> 02:24:15,400
Speaker 1: people bashing me and rooting for my husband who is

2793
02:24:15,480 --> 02:24:18,480
Speaker 1: rooting for the husband who I don't know who.

2794
02:24:21,280 --> 02:24:25,120
Speaker 2: I feel like it's just trolls, dude, Yeah, just trolls.

2795
02:24:25,920 --> 02:24:28,440
Speaker 1: Maybe there's some crazy people out there, so it could

2796
02:24:28,440 --> 02:24:31,920
Speaker 1: be so. Apparently, when Marcus went over to Charmie's place

2797
02:24:32,400 --> 02:24:38,120
Speaker 1: after they ate dinner dessert, he gave Charmie her birthday gift.

2798
02:24:38,520 --> 02:24:43,080
Speaker 2: Oh my god, what is it? What is it? She

2799
02:24:43,320 --> 02:24:46,520
Speaker 2: broke up with him?

2800
02:24:47,160 --> 02:24:50,560
Speaker 1: What for the birthday dinner that he like skipped his

2801
02:24:50,560 --> 02:24:54,960
Speaker 1: anniversary for she broke up with him?

2802
02:24:55,080 --> 02:24:57,440
Speaker 2: Kind of serves him, right, you know, dude?

2803
02:24:58,680 --> 02:24:59,480
Speaker 1: Absolutely?

2804
02:25:00,080 --> 02:25:01,959
Speaker 2: Wow. Wow.

2805
02:25:02,360 --> 02:25:05,160
Speaker 1: Charmie said that her parents didn't approve of her dating

2806
02:25:05,200 --> 02:25:08,200
Speaker 1: an older man and she really needed to focus on

2807
02:25:08,320 --> 02:25:08,959
Speaker 1: her study.

2808
02:25:09,160 --> 02:25:15,120
Speaker 3: Oh she's young? Wait I did. I totally forgot how

2809
02:25:15,160 --> 02:25:16,080
Speaker 3: young she was in this.

2810
02:25:16,320 --> 02:25:18,520
Speaker 1: I didn't really So do we know how old uh

2811
02:25:18,800 --> 02:25:21,720
Speaker 1: op is and how old she is?

2812
02:25:21,920 --> 02:25:22,280
Speaker 2: Uh yeah?

2813
02:25:22,360 --> 02:25:25,360
Speaker 3: Yeah one second second op op thirty five?

2814
02:25:25,959 --> 02:25:28,480
Speaker 2: Oh twenty five? Ten year difference?

2815
02:25:29,320 --> 02:25:31,840
Speaker 1: Wow, I did not even clock that.

2816
02:25:32,120 --> 02:25:36,800
Speaker 2: In the Wow, I did not even clock that that is. Wow.

2817
02:25:36,879 --> 02:25:44,520
Speaker 2: He must be heartbroken right now. Yeah, Kelly says sugar Daddy.

2818
02:25:44,760 --> 02:25:48,680
Speaker 2: Tattoya says dude was a sugar daddy. Yeah.

2819
02:25:49,000 --> 02:25:51,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, Charmie, she loves me so much.

2820
02:25:51,400 --> 02:25:53,199
Speaker 2: She's like so amazing.

2821
02:25:53,320 --> 02:25:54,080
Speaker 1: Oh my god.

2822
02:25:54,760 --> 02:25:58,760
Speaker 2: Yeah now, I I definitely I think she was Actually

2823
02:25:58,800 --> 02:26:01,520
Speaker 2: we don't know she was in it for the cash,

2824
02:26:01,640 --> 02:26:08,960
Speaker 2: I do, but potentially ravenous for conspiracy theory, sugar Daddy. Yeah, yeah,

2825
02:26:09,480 --> 02:26:15,800
Speaker 2: I deserved deserved, deserved, deserved. My husband pleaded. Stella Davis

2826
02:26:15,800 --> 02:26:18,119
Speaker 2: says dude was a sugar daddy, but thought he was just.

2827
02:26:18,240 --> 02:26:23,279
Speaker 1: Daddy, a dude Stella with the singers. My husband pleaded

2828
02:26:23,320 --> 02:26:27,280
Speaker 1: with Charmie, but she was firm about it. Marcus left

2829
02:26:27,280 --> 02:26:30,400
Speaker 1: her apartment and told me, uh and told all of

2830
02:26:30,400 --> 02:26:31,080
Speaker 1: this to me in.

2831
02:26:31,040 --> 02:26:32,760
Speaker 2: A miserable tone of voice.

2832
02:26:33,240 --> 02:26:34,840
Speaker 4: When we were loaded our bedroom.

2833
02:26:35,520 --> 02:26:37,800
Speaker 1: I didn't say anything or try to comfort him, which

2834
02:26:37,840 --> 02:26:39,959
Speaker 1: made him angry, so he slept in the guest bedroom

2835
02:26:40,000 --> 02:26:40,440
Speaker 1: once again.

2836
02:26:40,760 --> 02:26:45,880
Speaker 2: Bro, I hate this guy. This guy is kind of

2837
02:26:45,920 --> 02:26:46,760
Speaker 2: a wet noodle.

2838
02:26:47,280 --> 02:26:50,200
Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure Marcus is trying to win Charmie back.

2839
02:26:51,640 --> 02:26:52,800
Speaker 2: Wow.

2840
02:26:52,959 --> 02:26:56,400
Speaker 1: How From the Order and Save for Later list on

2841
02:26:56,480 --> 02:27:00,960
Speaker 1: our shared Amazon account sugar daddy, sugar daddy, Daddy daddy,

2842
02:27:00,959 --> 02:27:03,720
Speaker 1: she didn't care about him, called it. I can tell

2843
02:27:03,800 --> 02:27:06,600
Speaker 1: that he's moping over the breakup, but he's putting on

2844
02:27:06,720 --> 02:27:09,119
Speaker 1: a good face for the last for the past couple

2845
02:27:09,160 --> 02:27:12,800
Speaker 1: of days. As for me, I am going to meet

2846
02:27:13,320 --> 02:27:17,160
Speaker 1: with a lawyer about separating from my husband later this week.

2847
02:27:17,760 --> 02:27:21,359
Speaker 2: Oh dese de worse.

2848
02:27:23,040 --> 02:27:30,680
Speaker 1: Wow, hopefully serving him the papers for it as soon

2849
02:27:31,040 --> 02:27:35,720
Speaker 1: as possible. I haven't told him about any of this yet.

2850
02:27:35,879 --> 02:27:41,640
Speaker 2: Dude is going to be slapped with reality so effing hard.

2851
02:27:42,000 --> 02:27:45,040
Speaker 1: Sorry if this isn't update you wanted about my husband

2852
02:27:45,040 --> 02:27:48,560
Speaker 1: divorcing me and going to live happily ever after with Charmie.

2853
02:27:48,879 --> 02:27:52,200
Speaker 2: But it is what it is, is what it is.

2854
02:27:52,320 --> 02:27:57,480
Speaker 2: I'm I'm I'm kind of thrilled. I got a question, Yeah.

2855
02:27:57,160 --> 02:27:58,080
Speaker 3: Sugar daddy.

2856
02:27:58,040 --> 02:28:04,720
Speaker 6: Yeah, can't you just like basically like find another one?

2857
02:28:04,760 --> 02:28:06,119
Speaker 1: He doesn't know he's a sugar daddy?

2858
02:28:06,200 --> 02:28:06,520
Speaker 2: Yeah what?

2859
02:28:07,280 --> 02:28:07,440
Speaker 1: Yes?

2860
02:28:07,680 --> 02:28:08,240
Speaker 4: How does he know?

2861
02:28:08,360 --> 02:28:11,160
Speaker 1: How does he not know? That's the thing, that's why.

2862
02:28:10,920 --> 02:28:14,240
Speaker 2: It's so well. He's thinking like, oh, I'm just buying

2863
02:28:14,280 --> 02:28:16,720
Speaker 2: her gifts, but she's really in love with me for

2864
02:28:16,800 --> 02:28:19,240
Speaker 2: me and not just by my knee, you know. Her

2865
02:28:19,280 --> 02:28:22,480
Speaker 2: love language is gift receiver. Well, there is actually love

2866
02:28:22,560 --> 02:28:28,560
Speaker 2: languages gifts or get what if giving? Gift giving? Giving? Yeah,

2867
02:28:28,600 --> 02:28:32,320
Speaker 2: that's a love language. Educated. Yeah, yeah, so maybe it is.

2868
02:28:32,480 --> 02:28:35,240
Speaker 2: Maybe it is. I don't know, but I feel like

2869
02:28:35,680 --> 02:28:38,800
Speaker 2: it's pretty obvious that she was probably just in it.

2870
02:28:38,879 --> 02:28:41,640
Speaker 2: If she had an Amazon Say for Later list.

2871
02:28:42,040 --> 02:28:45,439
Speaker 1: I think that was. Oh they have a shared Amazon account.

2872
02:28:45,560 --> 02:28:48,280
Speaker 2: And and and she just adds things to the list

2873
02:28:48,280 --> 02:28:51,760
Speaker 2: and he buys it. Like, come on, I actually I

2874
02:28:51,800 --> 02:28:54,840
Speaker 2: have a Twitch streamer friend that has that and like

2875
02:28:55,280 --> 02:28:59,120
Speaker 2: with her simps, with her simps simps. Yeah, I like,

2876
02:28:59,200 --> 02:29:02,480
Speaker 2: I feel like, I don't know, it's it's not a

2877
02:29:02,760 --> 02:29:05,199
Speaker 2: it's not a real relationship. I don't dude. It's so

2878
02:29:05,360 --> 02:29:07,840
Speaker 2: terrible and like, and he just trashes marriage for that.

2879
02:29:07,879 --> 02:29:10,160
Speaker 2: He trashes marriage and it's just so embarrassing.

2880
02:29:10,240 --> 02:29:12,920
Speaker 1: He's such an idiot because he's out here like thinking

2881
02:29:12,959 --> 02:29:15,440
Speaker 1: that this, this girl a decade younger than him, is

2882
02:29:15,480 --> 02:29:18,240
Speaker 1: interested in him, pouring all of his love and attention

2883
02:29:18,280 --> 02:29:18,959
Speaker 1: into this, and.

2884
02:29:18,879 --> 02:29:23,280
Speaker 2: Then what bam, hit with a dose reality, hit with

2885
02:29:23,280 --> 02:29:26,240
Speaker 2: a dose with a dose in reality. But let's see

2886
02:29:26,240 --> 02:29:29,000
Speaker 2: what y'all think. So Rabbinus for says, it's called sugar

2887
02:29:29,000 --> 02:29:34,040
Speaker 2: baby Riley. Who wants to be Riley sugar baby Sidney?

2888
02:29:35,280 --> 02:29:37,640
Speaker 2: Or maybe Riley will be your sugar baby. There we go,

2889
02:29:37,959 --> 02:29:40,480
Speaker 2: Sidney Durantz is going from a closed marriage to an

2890
02:29:40,520 --> 02:29:43,760
Speaker 2: open one rarely works. It needs lots of research in

2891
02:29:43,800 --> 02:29:46,240
Speaker 2: there because we are not raised to love that way.

2892
02:29:47,680 --> 02:29:52,720
Speaker 2: And Maya two twelve says, men can be really delusional. Facts? Facts?

2893
02:29:53,840 --> 02:29:56,200
Speaker 2: What what? But what what story was that? Because I

2894
02:29:56,200 --> 02:29:58,959
Speaker 2: think we got another one? Here's the question? That story?

2895
02:29:59,320 --> 02:30:03,000
Speaker 2: What for? As for as four that we're getting to

2896
02:30:03,120 --> 02:30:06,920
Speaker 2: S four now? Yeah, so twenty one three, twenty one,

2897
02:30:07,320 --> 02:30:12,279
Speaker 2: S four. This is a long one, y'all. And I

2898
02:30:12,320 --> 02:30:15,720
Speaker 2: think this may I think I may have to be

2899
02:30:16,160 --> 02:30:19,800
Speaker 2: get ready for my date after this, because you date.

2900
02:30:20,200 --> 02:30:23,200
Speaker 2: My day's a eight thirty and I want to walk

2901
02:30:23,240 --> 02:30:24,800
Speaker 2: over there. She's going to meet me there.

2902
02:30:24,840 --> 02:30:27,840
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, what You're gonna walk over there?

2903
02:30:27,959 --> 02:30:29,360
Speaker 2: Why? Why not? Should I not?

2904
02:30:29,879 --> 02:30:29,959
Speaker 1: You?

2905
02:30:30,520 --> 02:30:32,360
Speaker 3: I thought she didn't want to walk?

2906
02:30:32,760 --> 02:30:37,160
Speaker 2: No, no, no, she she she's gonna park there, right, she's

2907
02:30:37,160 --> 02:30:39,280
Speaker 2: gonna park there, and then I'm going to walk to her.

2908
02:30:40,520 --> 02:30:44,200
Speaker 2: So we're meeting there. But then she shed she has

2909
02:30:44,240 --> 02:30:45,000
Speaker 2: to drive anyway.

2910
02:30:45,120 --> 02:30:46,400
Speaker 3: She's gonna have to drive you back.

2911
02:30:46,560 --> 02:30:50,360
Speaker 2: No, I can walk. I like walking? Okay?

2912
02:30:50,640 --> 02:30:51,560
Speaker 3: Does she like walking?

2913
02:30:52,160 --> 02:30:56,879
Speaker 2: It doesn't matter at the walk okay Matt or my

2914
02:30:56,920 --> 02:31:00,360
Speaker 2: boy Matt he walked four miles home once? Yeah, for fun, fun?

2915
02:31:00,720 --> 02:31:01,400
Speaker 2: I love walking?

2916
02:31:03,000 --> 02:31:03,920
Speaker 1: Should Sam walk?

2917
02:31:04,000 --> 02:31:07,400
Speaker 2: But yeah? Why is Riley so bad of my walking?

2918
02:31:07,640 --> 02:31:12,720
Speaker 2: Or not? Walk or not? So let's get into this

2919
02:31:14,000 --> 02:31:18,240
Speaker 2: last story at least for me, final Sam story? Uh,

2920
02:31:18,560 --> 02:31:20,600
Speaker 2: John and Riley that we're going to go for another

2921
02:31:20,680 --> 02:31:24,560
Speaker 2: thirty minutes the very least right. Oh, it's my Sophia.

2922
02:31:24,680 --> 02:31:28,200
Speaker 2: Is Sophia's name on me? I don't know anyway? So

2923
02:31:29,360 --> 02:31:32,280
Speaker 2: my girlfriend twenty six female and I thirty two male,

2924
02:31:32,360 --> 02:31:35,760
Speaker 2: I have been dating the title Oh frick frack the

2925
02:31:35,840 --> 02:31:39,280
Speaker 2: title girlfriend has a secret conversation every morning and it's

2926
02:31:39,320 --> 02:31:42,840
Speaker 2: making me crazy. Oh god, and this comes from throw

2927
02:31:43,160 --> 02:31:47,280
Speaker 2: our a phone secrets. What do you think? Is this

2928
02:31:47,320 --> 02:31:50,599
Speaker 2: a red flag secret conversation? Bro? Secret?

2929
02:31:51,280 --> 02:31:53,520
Speaker 1: How often our secret conversation is a green flag?

2930
02:31:53,879 --> 02:31:58,480
Speaker 2: Often? Halften not often? Not off? That's a red flag

2931
02:31:58,520 --> 02:32:02,360
Speaker 2: on the plane man and also ravenous for says walk

2932
02:32:02,440 --> 02:32:11,400
Speaker 2: of shame. Yeah, thanks no, Well, my girlfriend twenty six

2933
02:32:11,440 --> 02:32:13,760
Speaker 2: female and I thirty two mail have been dating for

2934
02:32:13,800 --> 02:32:17,480
Speaker 2: a few months. My work switched to full home working recently,

2935
02:32:17,560 --> 02:32:20,720
Speaker 2: so I started staying over more and things have been great,

2936
02:32:20,879 --> 02:32:23,920
Speaker 2: apart from one issue. When I used to stay over

2937
02:32:24,000 --> 02:32:26,520
Speaker 2: and get up early for work, my girlfriend would stay

2938
02:32:26,560 --> 02:32:29,280
Speaker 2: in bed until after I left. As soon as I

2939
02:32:29,280 --> 02:32:33,320
Speaker 2: started working from here, she became an instant early riser,

2940
02:32:33,600 --> 02:32:36,560
Speaker 2: always getting up maybe twenty minutes before me. When she

2941
02:32:36,640 --> 02:32:39,240
Speaker 2: asked me about it, she says she just likes a

2942
02:32:39,320 --> 02:32:41,720
Speaker 2: quiet coffee in the mornings. I got up early a

2943
02:32:41,760 --> 02:32:44,000
Speaker 2: couple of times, made fresh coffee and handed her a

2944
02:32:44,040 --> 02:32:46,880
Speaker 2: cup so we could enjoy together. But wherever I sit,

2945
02:32:47,560 --> 02:32:51,240
Speaker 2: she would go and sit elsewhere. This has been really

2946
02:32:51,240 --> 02:32:53,240
Speaker 2: getting to me, so I pressed the point and said

2947
02:32:53,400 --> 02:32:55,880
Speaker 2: it'd be nice to sit together in the mornings. Didn't

2948
02:32:55,879 --> 02:32:57,760
Speaker 2: go great, and when I tried to sit with her

2949
02:32:57,800 --> 02:33:00,720
Speaker 2: the next day, I am seeing red flags even as

2950
02:33:00,760 --> 02:33:04,080
Speaker 2: I type this right she went in her office and

2951
02:33:04,120 --> 02:33:08,160
Speaker 2: lock the door behind her. Is that a red flag

2952
02:33:08,320 --> 02:33:09,879
Speaker 2: for your thoughts in the chat?

2953
02:33:10,000 --> 02:33:10,520
Speaker 1: Type it in.

2954
02:33:11,120 --> 02:33:14,720
Speaker 2: She did this for several days in a row last week,

2955
02:33:14,760 --> 02:33:16,600
Speaker 2: and when I tried to bring it up, she says

2956
02:33:16,640 --> 02:33:19,560
Speaker 2: she doesn't want to talk about it. Yesterday was my

2957
02:33:19,640 --> 02:33:22,280
Speaker 2: day off, So I stayed in bed, waited till she

2958
02:33:22,360 --> 02:33:25,800
Speaker 2: got up for her quiet coffee and I crept it

2959
02:33:26,080 --> 02:33:29,360
Speaker 2: and I crept up to the office and as I

2960
02:33:29,400 --> 02:33:35,080
Speaker 2: suspected she's talking to someone, she was speaking very softly,

2961
02:33:35,120 --> 02:33:36,600
Speaker 2: so I couldn't make it out, but it sounded like

2962
02:33:36,640 --> 02:33:40,800
Speaker 2: a very intimate conversation. I've barely spoken to her since

2963
02:33:41,200 --> 02:33:43,440
Speaker 2: and don't know what to say. How do you address

2964
02:33:43,520 --> 02:33:46,240
Speaker 2: this when she refuses to even speak about it? What

2965
02:33:46,400 --> 02:33:48,640
Speaker 2: is she getting from another relationship when I'm with her

2966
02:33:48,680 --> 02:33:50,800
Speaker 2: twenty four to seven the last two weeks. I do

2967
02:33:50,920 --> 02:33:53,160
Speaker 2: have a small camera I could put in her office.

2968
02:33:53,200 --> 02:33:55,480
Speaker 2: I know what's wrong with This is riving me crazy,

2969
02:33:55,840 --> 02:33:57,760
Speaker 2: and if I need to confront her, it'll be easier

2970
02:33:57,879 --> 02:34:03,320
Speaker 2: with evidence. And tld are today my girl. TLDR girlfriend

2971
02:34:03,360 --> 02:34:05,720
Speaker 2: gets up every morning for a secret conversation, won't discuss

2972
02:34:05,720 --> 02:34:10,320
Speaker 2: it with me, and it's driving me crazy. And there

2973
02:34:10,520 --> 02:34:14,840
Speaker 2: is an update, a juicy, thick update, but quick edit

2974
02:34:14,840 --> 02:34:17,400
Speaker 2: Op gets a few replies telling him to hide the camera.

2975
02:34:17,680 --> 02:34:20,800
Speaker 2: These posts are later heavily downloaded, but at the time

2976
02:34:20,920 --> 02:34:23,560
Speaker 2: the post gets little attention. And then there's two days

2977
02:34:23,600 --> 02:34:26,160
Speaker 2: later when the update happened. But what do you always

2978
02:34:26,240 --> 02:34:28,280
Speaker 2: what do you all think? One, should he put a

2979
02:34:28,280 --> 02:34:31,520
Speaker 2: camera in the office yes or no? Put camera yes

2980
02:34:31,680 --> 02:34:34,440
Speaker 2: or camera no? In the chat right now? What do

2981
02:34:34,480 --> 02:34:38,320
Speaker 2: you think? And two? What do you think this means?

2982
02:34:38,360 --> 02:34:40,200
Speaker 2: This is a red flag with a secret conversation or

2983
02:34:40,360 --> 02:34:43,000
Speaker 2: she just like I don't know, planning his birthday or something.

2984
02:34:45,120 --> 02:34:49,640
Speaker 1: Every every morning, every morning morning, it's an extravagant birthday.

2985
02:34:49,800 --> 02:34:51,880
Speaker 1: And you know, you know, so here's the soul for this,

2986
02:34:52,240 --> 02:34:55,640
Speaker 1: Like I have a secret conversations, but it's it's for

2987
02:34:55,680 --> 02:34:57,640
Speaker 1: a good reason. It's and it's all gonna pay off

2988
02:34:57,680 --> 02:35:00,800
Speaker 1: and it's going to be great. That's like, okay, it's

2989
02:35:00,840 --> 02:35:02,760
Speaker 1: like a surprise party or something like that.

2990
02:35:03,040 --> 02:35:05,400
Speaker 2: Like that gets that out of the way.

2991
02:35:06,760 --> 02:35:09,400
Speaker 1: But we have a few people commenting in Wednesday says

2992
02:35:09,520 --> 02:35:15,520
Speaker 1: camera no. Crazy, Carol Crew also says no. Jess says

2993
02:35:15,560 --> 02:35:19,120
Speaker 1: camera no. We're getting no on on the camera.

2994
02:35:19,240 --> 02:35:21,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, that I think that makes sense.

2995
02:35:21,360 --> 02:35:25,000
Speaker 1: I fully agree with the okay fam here, A little

2996
02:35:25,000 --> 02:35:30,360
Speaker 1: silly is going on here. And Rachel Matchett says that

2997
02:35:30,480 --> 02:35:32,840
Speaker 1: secret convos are definitely a red flash.

2998
02:35:32,879 --> 02:35:34,080
Speaker 2: Yes, thank you, Rachel Hatchett.

2999
02:35:35,400 --> 02:35:36,760
Speaker 3: Conspiracyracy.

3000
02:35:36,760 --> 02:35:39,920
Speaker 1: Here we go, all the hats Boom didn't for conspiracy, what.

3001
02:35:39,920 --> 02:35:40,760
Speaker 2: Do you got for us? Riley?

3002
02:35:41,879 --> 02:35:46,200
Speaker 3: It's lame. But if like she's talking to like a

3003
02:35:46,240 --> 02:35:48,920
Speaker 3: family member, or if she just really just wants quiet

3004
02:35:48,959 --> 02:35:51,240
Speaker 3: time because some people just need that kind of quiet time,

3005
02:35:51,560 --> 02:35:52,080
Speaker 3: she's trying to.

3006
02:35:52,000 --> 02:35:54,680
Speaker 2: Do a therapist, then say that.

3007
02:35:55,360 --> 02:36:00,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, then say that you're totally right, You're totally right.

3008
02:36:00,360 --> 02:36:02,680
Speaker 1: But and you know what, maybe she is. Maybe it

3009
02:36:02,720 --> 02:36:05,800
Speaker 1: is like a therapist and she's afraid to be like, hey,

3010
02:36:05,800 --> 02:36:10,119
Speaker 1: I'm going through therapy, but you should just be like, hey,

3011
02:36:10,160 --> 02:36:13,400
Speaker 1: I just want to have some space to have therapy

3012
02:36:13,440 --> 02:36:17,000
Speaker 1: and not be thinking about you know, you're listening.

3013
02:36:17,040 --> 02:36:18,840
Speaker 2: It's a weird way to phrase it, but it's hard.

3014
02:36:19,240 --> 02:36:20,760
Speaker 2: Weird way to hard.

3015
02:36:20,600 --> 02:36:21,800
Speaker 1: To find a way to like phrase it in a

3016
02:36:21,840 --> 02:36:24,320
Speaker 1: nice like I don't want you around, but it's like.

3017
02:36:24,480 --> 02:36:26,280
Speaker 2: I just like I could have some private space. Yeah,

3018
02:36:26,280 --> 02:36:29,320
Speaker 2: I think that's having some private space to talk to someone.

3019
02:36:29,760 --> 02:36:32,680
Speaker 2: Is I think very reasonable? Yeah, very reasonable in the fact,

3020
02:36:32,879 --> 02:36:35,600
Speaker 2: not a conspiracy at all. I feel like it's fine, yes, yeah,

3021
02:36:35,640 --> 02:36:38,400
Speaker 2: But what is a conspiracy is maybe what happens in

3022
02:36:38,400 --> 02:36:41,400
Speaker 2: the future or is that just the truth? Oh my god,

3023
02:36:41,480 --> 02:36:45,520
Speaker 2: let's get into it. So philosophical Bernie Hart Dragon says,

3024
02:36:45,520 --> 02:36:48,120
Speaker 2: this one makes me sad. It also makes me sad.

3025
02:36:48,160 --> 02:36:52,240
Speaker 2: So this happens Tuesday the night A couple days later,

3026
02:36:52,400 --> 02:36:54,760
Speaker 2: I notice recently that my girlfriend is avoiding me in

3027
02:36:54,800 --> 02:36:56,879
Speaker 2: the mornings only for a short period of time, but

3028
02:36:56,920 --> 02:37:00,080
Speaker 2: every single day, and insisting she wants a quiet I

3029
02:37:00,320 --> 02:37:05,480
Speaker 2: coffee on her own. Kelly C. Says she's doing OnlyFans whoop.

3030
02:37:06,480 --> 02:37:10,080
Speaker 2: Maybe I happened to hear her talking to someone one

3031
02:37:10,120 --> 02:37:12,440
Speaker 2: of these morning sessions and obviously wanted to know who

3032
02:37:12,440 --> 02:37:15,400
Speaker 2: she's talking to every morning. Today, when she got up

3033
02:37:15,520 --> 02:37:17,520
Speaker 2: and went to make her coffee, I took her mug

3034
02:37:17,840 --> 02:37:20,560
Speaker 2: and wouldn't let her have it. I was only joking

3035
02:37:20,600 --> 02:37:22,959
Speaker 2: at first, but it turned worse with her saying just

3036
02:37:22,959 --> 02:37:26,480
Speaker 2: give me my bug, and I lost my temper and said,

3037
02:37:26,600 --> 02:37:29,720
Speaker 2: just tell me who you're effing cheating on me with.

3038
02:37:30,959 --> 02:37:34,880
Speaker 2: This is where I think I'm the asshole. Maybe because

3039
02:37:34,959 --> 02:37:38,320
Speaker 2: it was something she's been doing every day since her

3040
02:37:38,400 --> 02:37:42,800
Speaker 2: dad died almost a year ago. She talks to him

3041
02:37:42,879 --> 02:37:50,720
Speaker 2: every morning while she drinks her coffee. Oh yeah, we

3042
02:37:50,720 --> 02:37:53,879
Speaker 2: were wrong. We were wrong. We were wrong, but like

3043
02:37:54,879 --> 02:37:59,960
Speaker 2: we were so wrong, we were so wrong. We were wrong,

3044
02:38:00,879 --> 02:38:05,880
Speaker 2: but say that I don't know. I don't know we

3045
02:38:05,920 --> 02:38:10,440
Speaker 2: were wrong. Damn. That's like the cutest, saddest thing ever.

3046
02:38:13,560 --> 02:38:17,640
Speaker 2: Just chats about her day or whatever. Obviously, I backed

3047
02:38:17,640 --> 02:38:20,840
Speaker 2: off right away and sat down. I told her it's

3048
02:38:20,879 --> 02:38:23,760
Speaker 2: fine and she should keep doing it. I want her to,

3049
02:38:24,760 --> 02:38:28,520
Speaker 2: and I just needed to know. Yeah, I mean, this,

3050
02:38:29,280 --> 02:38:36,120
Speaker 2: honestly is a really great cover for someone who's cheating. Scooby. Okay,

3051
02:38:36,520 --> 02:38:38,920
Speaker 2: Scooby from the beginning of the Scooby from the beginning.

3052
02:38:39,040 --> 02:38:41,160
Speaker 1: My dad died and I've been talking to him.

3053
02:38:41,240 --> 02:38:43,959
Speaker 2: Yeah, that actually that was that is actually what happened.

3054
02:38:43,959 --> 02:38:45,280
Speaker 1: That was his life.

3055
02:38:45,400 --> 02:38:47,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, like I said, his dad died to get out

3056
02:38:47,280 --> 02:38:51,800
Speaker 2: of work, but knows that. Yeah, but wow, I mean,

3057
02:38:51,840 --> 02:38:55,039
Speaker 2: all right, jokes aside, I would feel so bad as OPI.

3058
02:38:55,560 --> 02:39:00,000
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I mean, what what an asshole he actually?

3059
02:39:00,200 --> 02:39:03,840
Speaker 1: Like even with you know, again, he didn't know He's like, oh,

3060
02:39:03,879 --> 02:39:07,920
Speaker 1: he's just cheating or whatever. But ultimately you berated her

3061
02:39:08,160 --> 02:39:11,720
Speaker 1: about her talking to her dad, this cute, beautiful, really

3062
02:39:12,280 --> 02:39:13,440
Speaker 1: ceremony that she does.

3063
02:39:13,800 --> 02:39:17,600
Speaker 2: Did he ever actually ask though what she was doing before? Besides, like,

3064
02:39:17,800 --> 02:39:20,720
Speaker 2: I mean, maybe maybe he didn't sound like he didn't

3065
02:39:20,840 --> 02:39:22,320
Speaker 2: didn't was it was?

3066
02:39:22,120 --> 02:39:25,320
Speaker 1: It? Wasn't there some sort of conversation about it, like

3067
02:39:25,360 --> 02:39:26,760
Speaker 1: he obviously had a problem with it.

3068
02:39:27,040 --> 02:39:30,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think it doesn't. I don't remember there

3069
02:39:30,520 --> 02:39:34,039
Speaker 2: being any kind of conversation or him asking, yeah.

3070
02:39:33,959 --> 02:39:35,720
Speaker 1: Didn't wait, didn't he say that she doesn't want to

3071
02:39:35,760 --> 02:39:38,440
Speaker 1: talk about it? So that was I think him asking

3072
02:39:38,440 --> 02:39:38,920
Speaker 1: and trying.

3073
02:39:39,120 --> 02:39:42,959
Speaker 2: Uh, I remember that today what she got. I took

3074
02:39:42,959 --> 02:39:46,879
Speaker 2: her mug. I was, uh, just oh, she said, just

3075
02:39:46,959 --> 02:39:50,320
Speaker 2: give me my mug. Oh, so he asked her and

3076
02:39:50,360 --> 02:39:52,920
Speaker 2: she's like, just give me my my mug. So she didn't.

3077
02:39:53,000 --> 02:39:54,560
Speaker 2: She kind of didn't want to say and then he's like,

3078
02:39:54,680 --> 02:39:55,080
Speaker 2: just tell me.

3079
02:39:55,720 --> 02:39:58,600
Speaker 1: And before that, I think I remember something along those lines.

3080
02:39:58,600 --> 02:40:00,080
Speaker 2: I don't think he said anything. He was just like

3081
02:40:00,160 --> 02:40:05,400
Speaker 2: I saw something. Yeah I saw it. But yeah, that's

3082
02:40:06,000 --> 02:40:08,680
Speaker 2: that's a little rough. But this is not over. Not over.

3083
02:40:08,720 --> 02:40:13,200
Speaker 2: We got more. So I have these back down right

3084
02:40:13,240 --> 02:40:15,400
Speaker 2: away and told her it's fine, she can keep doing it.

3085
02:40:15,560 --> 02:40:17,360
Speaker 2: I want her to. And I just needed to know.

3086
02:40:17,879 --> 02:40:19,720
Speaker 2: I just thought she was talking to some other guy.

3087
02:40:19,959 --> 02:40:22,360
Speaker 2: She shook herself, she shook her head and said it

3088
02:40:22,400 --> 02:40:25,400
Speaker 2: was just a silly thing and she couldn't keep doing it.

3089
02:40:25,480 --> 02:40:27,920
Speaker 2: Now she had to talk about it. I don't know

3090
02:40:27,959 --> 02:40:32,000
Speaker 2: why me knowing what she's doing makes a difference, and

3091
02:40:32,240 --> 02:40:34,000
Speaker 2: that would just have avoided this whole thing. Yeah, this

3092
02:40:34,040 --> 02:40:34,520
Speaker 2: seems weird.

3093
02:40:34,560 --> 02:40:36,959
Speaker 1: It's like I get, I get wanting to have the

3094
02:40:37,000 --> 02:40:38,240
Speaker 1: private space.

3095
02:40:38,280 --> 02:40:40,160
Speaker 2: But she's like, now that you know, I can't do

3096
02:40:40,200 --> 02:40:43,920
Speaker 2: it anymore. I don't know if that makes sense, right,

3097
02:40:44,360 --> 02:40:46,320
Speaker 2: I don't know if that makes sense. Yeah, that is odd.

3098
02:40:46,640 --> 02:40:49,360
Speaker 2: She seems sad, but she was smiling. So I went

3099
02:40:49,400 --> 02:40:52,039
Speaker 2: in the bedroom. But just a minute later I heard

3100
02:40:52,080 --> 02:40:54,920
Speaker 2: her crying really really hard. I went back and she

3101
02:40:55,120 --> 02:40:58,760
Speaker 2: was saying, he's gone. Now, he's really gone. So I said,

3102
02:40:59,080 --> 02:41:01,640
Speaker 2: are you talking about your dad? And she just got

3103
02:41:01,760 --> 02:41:05,200
Speaker 2: up and ran out the door. She has not answered

3104
02:41:05,240 --> 02:41:08,240
Speaker 2: my text. And then about an hour ago, her brother

3105
02:41:08,320 --> 02:41:10,240
Speaker 2: came to the door and called me an effing asshole

3106
02:41:10,240 --> 02:41:13,160
Speaker 2: and worse, I honestly thought he was going to hit me.

3107
02:41:13,440 --> 02:41:15,240
Speaker 2: He took some of her stuff and said she won't

3108
02:41:15,240 --> 02:41:18,120
Speaker 2: be home tonight. I never meant to upset her, and

3109
02:41:18,160 --> 02:41:20,240
Speaker 2: it is not unreasonable to want to know who your

3110
02:41:20,280 --> 02:41:23,120
Speaker 2: partner is talking to every morning. I am sorry she

3111
02:41:23,160 --> 02:41:25,600
Speaker 2: got upset, but am I really in the wrong here

3112
02:41:29,000 --> 02:41:31,280
Speaker 2: and post was removed before the verdict was rendered, but

3113
02:41:31,360 --> 02:41:35,440
Speaker 2: votes were heavily or the asshole here. But we do

3114
02:41:35,520 --> 02:41:39,320
Speaker 2: have another update a week later and a bunch of

3115
02:41:41,400 --> 02:41:46,680
Speaker 2: conversations with op and the commenters. But I don't know,

3116
02:41:46,720 --> 02:41:53,160
Speaker 2: what do you think, John, I'm gonna go not the asshole?

3117
02:41:53,440 --> 02:41:58,920
Speaker 1: If he like, like he did something that like it

3118
02:41:59,080 --> 02:42:02,720
Speaker 1: had the impact whether regardless of its attention, it had

3119
02:42:02,760 --> 02:42:04,920
Speaker 1: the impact it had, which was you know it hurt

3120
02:42:05,080 --> 02:42:09,040
Speaker 1: it hurt her? Yeah, right, So he now has he's

3121
02:42:09,080 --> 02:42:12,119
Speaker 1: definitely apologized to apologize. He has some work to do

3122
02:42:12,280 --> 02:42:16,320
Speaker 1: with with the apology and kind of maybe maybe being like, hey,

3123
02:42:16,440 --> 02:42:19,120
Speaker 1: is is there anything anyway I can help you? Know

3124
02:42:19,160 --> 02:42:22,039
Speaker 1: you're going through this grieving process and like I don't know,

3125
02:42:22,120 --> 02:42:23,320
Speaker 1: just like how can I support you?

3126
02:42:23,360 --> 02:42:23,680
Speaker 4: More?

3127
02:42:23,800 --> 02:42:26,040
Speaker 1: Like I feel like he needs to do that. If

3128
02:42:26,040 --> 02:42:28,520
Speaker 1: he does that, then I would say he is not

3129
02:42:28,640 --> 02:42:28,920
Speaker 1: the A.

3130
02:42:28,959 --> 02:42:36,120
Speaker 2: Hole in Yeah. Yeah. Do you think her leaving because

3131
02:42:36,120 --> 02:42:37,759
Speaker 2: of it is justified.

3132
02:42:39,200 --> 02:42:41,240
Speaker 1: Her leaving the relationship.

3133
02:42:40,720 --> 02:42:43,720
Speaker 2: Or like leaving the house, leaving the house and the

3134
02:42:43,760 --> 02:42:45,640
Speaker 2: brother saying you're the a hole and stuff.

3135
02:42:50,560 --> 02:42:53,680
Speaker 1: I could see her getting flustered, like.

3136
02:42:53,920 --> 02:42:57,080
Speaker 2: I see her needing time in space space away from

3137
02:42:57,160 --> 02:43:01,520
Speaker 2: him exactly. I also agree, I don't think he's the

3138
02:43:01,560 --> 02:43:05,800
Speaker 2: a hole. I mean, like he just and it also

3139
02:43:05,959 --> 02:43:08,280
Speaker 2: was it seems like it was just one moment of like,

3140
02:43:08,959 --> 02:43:11,400
Speaker 2: what's going on? Are you cheating on me? Like you

3141
02:43:11,440 --> 02:43:14,840
Speaker 2: know obviously is he's he's a little like that's that.

3142
02:43:15,000 --> 02:43:17,960
Speaker 2: That is not a good thing that he did. It

3143
02:43:18,000 --> 02:43:19,920
Speaker 2: wasn't the most eloquent way to go about it, But

3144
02:43:20,520 --> 02:43:25,400
Speaker 2: he's curious about what's going on. Yeah, And I don't know.

3145
02:43:25,440 --> 02:43:28,360
Speaker 2: I also don't know why she can't keep talking to

3146
02:43:28,400 --> 02:43:30,360
Speaker 2: her dad now that he knows.

3147
02:43:30,680 --> 02:43:34,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think maybe it's just a thing if she's like, Okay,

3148
02:43:34,560 --> 02:43:36,760
Speaker 1: I have to like do it at this time, maybe

3149
02:43:37,520 --> 02:43:40,640
Speaker 1: like I have to have my coffee, it has to

3150
02:43:40,640 --> 02:43:42,640
Speaker 1: be at this time. No one can know about it.

3151
02:43:42,640 --> 02:43:45,160
Speaker 1: She's kind of just like built up this thing in her.

3152
02:43:45,160 --> 02:43:46,960
Speaker 2: She also wants to I guess process on her head.

3153
02:43:47,040 --> 02:43:48,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, I process on her own.

3154
02:43:48,360 --> 02:43:50,720
Speaker 2: So, but I guess to read some of the comments,

3155
02:43:50,920 --> 02:43:54,160
Speaker 2: Court the Brave says, I think she just mentally broke.

3156
02:43:54,320 --> 02:43:58,000
Speaker 2: Raven Young says communication is key. Luna Moon says, I

3157
02:43:58,160 --> 02:44:00,720
Speaker 2: have private things that if my husband knows about it

3158
02:44:00,720 --> 02:44:02,760
Speaker 2: would make me stop doing it. Because of fear being

3159
02:44:02,840 --> 02:44:06,039
Speaker 2: made fun of. Oh that's not good. But vin or

3160
02:44:06,040 --> 02:44:08,840
Speaker 2: Grafo says, this is like everyone's the a hole here

3161
02:44:09,360 --> 02:44:13,120
Speaker 2: to me. She blocked off communication was openly behaving sketchy

3162
02:44:13,320 --> 02:44:16,160
Speaker 2: him because he really should have been straightforward and be like, hey,

3163
02:44:16,200 --> 02:44:19,120
Speaker 2: we need to sit down and talk facts. Yes, like

3164
02:44:19,160 --> 02:44:20,800
Speaker 2: I think he should have said, instead of being like,

3165
02:44:21,120 --> 02:44:22,560
Speaker 2: are you cheating on me? He's like, hey, can we

3166
02:44:22,560 --> 02:44:26,960
Speaker 2: talk about I'm like feeling a little bit. I don't

3167
02:44:27,000 --> 02:44:28,960
Speaker 2: know that's a cure. Yeah, And I just want to

3168
02:44:29,000 --> 02:44:32,680
Speaker 2: know what's going on because like I mean, like, is

3169
02:44:32,720 --> 02:44:35,039
Speaker 2: this something I should be worried about? I don't know,

3170
02:44:36,240 --> 02:44:43,600
Speaker 2: but there is Oh some updates? Oh boy, So my

3171
02:44:43,640 --> 02:44:45,959
Speaker 2: girlfriend of me had an argument last week over coffee

3172
02:44:45,959 --> 02:44:48,039
Speaker 2: of all things. It got out of hand and she

3173
02:44:48,120 --> 02:44:50,240
Speaker 2: went to stay somewhere else to cool off. Now she's

3174
02:44:50,280 --> 02:44:53,760
Speaker 2: only speaking to me through her brother, who hates me anyway,

3175
02:44:53,959 --> 02:44:55,320
Speaker 2: so I don't have a chance to set things right.

3176
02:44:55,360 --> 02:44:57,879
Speaker 2: They gotta stop drinking coffee. Yeah, he is saying, I

3177
02:44:57,920 --> 02:45:00,600
Speaker 2: need to move out in three days, so she come home.

3178
02:45:00,640 --> 02:45:02,280
Speaker 2: But I have nowhere to go and can't get a

3179
02:45:02,320 --> 02:45:05,760
Speaker 2: place of my own so fast. I know, if I

3180
02:45:05,760 --> 02:45:07,720
Speaker 2: could talk to her, We could get past this, but

3181
02:45:07,760 --> 02:45:10,680
Speaker 2: everything is going through him, and I am sure he

3182
02:45:10,800 --> 02:45:13,080
Speaker 2: is twisting her words in mine to keep us apart.

3183
02:45:13,840 --> 02:45:17,160
Speaker 2: She has blocked me on everything, and her phone is here,

3184
02:45:17,280 --> 02:45:19,920
Speaker 2: so I can't call or text her. What can I

3185
02:45:19,959 --> 02:45:22,320
Speaker 2: do to get past her brother who's trying to keep

3186
02:45:22,400 --> 02:45:25,400
Speaker 2: us apart. I need to set things straight or I'm

3187
02:45:25,440 --> 02:45:29,600
Speaker 2: going to be homeless at it. She has taken some

3188
02:45:29,720 --> 02:45:31,680
Speaker 2: leave from her job, but her work phone and laptop

3189
02:45:31,720 --> 02:45:33,959
Speaker 2: are here, so I could possibly use her job to

3190
02:45:34,000 --> 02:45:36,520
Speaker 2: convince her to speak with me, like basically use it

3191
02:45:36,560 --> 02:45:38,879
Speaker 2: as leverage, right which I don't know if.

3192
02:45:38,800 --> 02:45:41,760
Speaker 1: It's sang out put the camera.

3193
02:45:42,120 --> 02:45:47,039
Speaker 2: I use to holdtop work laptop hostage, but on his

3194
02:45:47,120 --> 02:45:51,160
Speaker 2: living and working arrangements. No, the house belongs to her.

3195
02:45:51,520 --> 02:45:54,000
Speaker 2: Although I have a key and do live here full time,

3196
02:45:54,480 --> 02:45:57,040
Speaker 2: I don't drive and don't have much money right now. Also,

3197
02:45:57,080 --> 02:45:58,879
Speaker 2: I need internet access for my job, and I've been

3198
02:45:59,040 --> 02:46:01,080
Speaker 2: using a laptop that isn't my I need to talk

3199
02:46:01,120 --> 02:46:02,960
Speaker 2: to her or I'm finished. I know we can sort

3200
02:46:03,000 --> 02:46:05,760
Speaker 2: this thing out, but the brother is deliberately preventing it.

3201
02:46:06,280 --> 02:46:09,040
Speaker 2: I haven't got anywhere else to go. I am not

3202
02:46:09,320 --> 02:46:12,560
Speaker 2: using homeless lightly. I have not been contributing so far

3203
02:46:12,680 --> 02:46:14,800
Speaker 2: as I am trying to deal with the lease on

3204
02:46:14,879 --> 02:46:17,960
Speaker 2: my old place, but I was planning to very shortly.

3205
02:46:18,160 --> 02:46:21,160
Speaker 2: My girlfriend owns the house outright, so I wasn't shorting

3206
02:46:21,160 --> 02:46:24,240
Speaker 2: her by not contributing on rent or anything. And his

3207
02:46:24,360 --> 02:46:28,200
Speaker 2: own on his old apartment. We have been together a

3208
02:46:28,240 --> 02:46:30,879
Speaker 2: few months. I've been living here a few weeks due

3209
02:46:30,879 --> 02:46:33,320
Speaker 2: to a problem with the lease at my old place.

3210
02:46:33,920 --> 02:46:36,800
Speaker 2: One oof, well, this is a little this is getting

3211
02:46:36,800 --> 02:46:39,359
Speaker 2: a little sketch on his part. One of the problems

3212
02:46:39,360 --> 02:46:41,760
Speaker 2: her brother has with me is because his friend's dad

3213
02:46:41,879 --> 02:46:44,600
Speaker 2: owns my building, so it's obviously nothing to do with

3214
02:46:44,640 --> 02:46:46,440
Speaker 2: me and his sister. He's just being a dick. I

3215
02:46:46,480 --> 02:46:48,680
Speaker 2: don't have a lot of stuff, probably a suitcase of

3216
02:46:48,720 --> 02:46:51,320
Speaker 2: clothes and a few other items. I've not been able

3217
02:46:51,320 --> 02:46:53,640
Speaker 2: to collect my stuff from my old apartment. My big

3218
02:46:53,680 --> 02:46:56,200
Speaker 2: problem is having no access to a computer, as I

3219
02:46:56,240 --> 02:46:58,960
Speaker 2: can't do my job without that, and I've been using

3220
02:46:58,959 --> 02:47:01,959
Speaker 2: a laptop here. I only have about four hundred dollars

3221
02:47:02,040 --> 02:47:05,039
Speaker 2: right now and another seventy in cash. Dang oh, he's

3222
02:47:05,040 --> 02:47:07,520
Speaker 2: in a tough spot, YEP. I had to dispute with

3223
02:47:07,520 --> 02:47:10,360
Speaker 2: the landlord. I had to dispute with the landlord and

3224
02:47:10,360 --> 02:47:13,080
Speaker 2: he won't let me collect my belongings. You would get

3225
02:47:13,120 --> 02:47:15,320
Speaker 2: on well with him, as you both are so determined

3226
02:47:15,320 --> 02:47:18,119
Speaker 2: to take everything in the worst possible view. I guess

3227
02:47:18,120 --> 02:47:21,960
Speaker 2: to some of the comments, someone said, are you just

3228
02:47:21,959 --> 02:47:24,480
Speaker 2: making up your own story here? I fell out with

3229
02:47:24,520 --> 02:47:27,320
Speaker 2: the landlord, so I moved out, a totally normal thing

3230
02:47:27,400 --> 02:47:29,840
Speaker 2: to do. This is completely unrelated, and I have given

3231
02:47:29,840 --> 02:47:31,840
Speaker 2: to her brother no reason to have a problem with me.

3232
02:47:32,720 --> 02:47:35,240
Speaker 2: And then OPI says, I broke the lease on my apartment,

3233
02:47:35,320 --> 02:47:37,400
Speaker 2: so I can't go back there. So it sounds like

3234
02:47:37,400 --> 02:47:41,480
Speaker 2: OPI is just in a really rough spot. It's it

3235
02:47:41,560 --> 02:47:43,720
Speaker 2: is very hard to get anywhere here without reference, and

3236
02:47:43,720 --> 02:47:45,800
Speaker 2: I doubt I have enough for a deposit. Most of

3237
02:47:45,800 --> 02:47:48,160
Speaker 2: my money is tied up in various deals right now,

3238
02:47:48,320 --> 02:47:49,959
Speaker 2: and I would take a big loss if I try

3239
02:47:50,000 --> 02:47:52,920
Speaker 2: to pull it back on using her work phone slash

3240
02:47:52,959 --> 02:47:55,879
Speaker 2: laptop to force to talk to him, which is bad.

3241
02:47:55,920 --> 02:47:58,680
Speaker 2: Idea there in her office or personal phone is in

3242
02:47:58,720 --> 02:48:01,280
Speaker 2: there too, although I think she has her tablet. I

3243
02:48:01,400 --> 02:48:03,680
Speaker 2: told her brother to take her phone and he said no,

3244
02:48:03,760 --> 02:48:06,840
Speaker 2: she'd get it when she's home. Edit. What he actually

3245
02:48:06,840 --> 02:48:08,440
Speaker 2: said was the fuck off and stay out of his

3246
02:48:08,440 --> 02:48:11,520
Speaker 2: fucking building. I have no idea why I am trying

3247
02:48:11,520 --> 02:48:13,720
Speaker 2: to hide the kind of person he actually is. He

3248
02:48:13,760 --> 02:48:17,240
Speaker 2: has no reason to act this way towards me. There

3249
02:48:17,320 --> 02:48:25,880
Speaker 2: is a bunch more stuff here, But with these updates,

3250
02:48:26,320 --> 02:48:28,760
Speaker 2: I don't know, I feel like I'm getting a sketchy

3251
02:48:28,840 --> 02:48:32,920
Speaker 2: or vibe from op Yeah, in terms of what I

3252
02:48:32,959 --> 02:48:34,800
Speaker 2: don't know, Like people are saying in the comments, like

3253
02:48:35,280 --> 02:48:40,840
Speaker 2: various deals, like stuff like that op is a red

3254
02:48:40,920 --> 02:48:43,120
Speaker 2: flag people are like drug deals. I don't know if

3255
02:48:43,160 --> 02:48:46,039
Speaker 2: it's that. But Shannon Stinson says, kind of sounds like

3256
02:48:46,080 --> 02:48:50,080
Speaker 2: he's using her. Yeah, totally. Bernie hart Dragon says, poor

3257
02:48:50,120 --> 02:48:55,920
Speaker 2: wiggle victim op Like. I think it sounds like he is, like, no,

3258
02:48:55,959 --> 02:48:58,199
Speaker 2: you can't, like, I mean, they've only been they've only

3259
02:48:58,200 --> 02:48:59,720
Speaker 2: been dating for a couple months.

3260
02:48:59,480 --> 02:49:01,760
Speaker 1: And he's only and staying there for a.

3261
02:49:01,760 --> 02:49:04,080
Speaker 2: Couple of weeks because of his situation.

3262
02:49:03,760 --> 02:49:05,680
Speaker 1: Because of a situation. It wasn't even like and she

3263
02:49:05,760 --> 02:49:08,160
Speaker 1: owns the home. So yeah, I think it's not like

3264
02:49:08,520 --> 02:49:12,440
Speaker 1: Opie doesn't really have too much like legs to stand on.

3265
02:49:12,520 --> 02:49:13,520
Speaker 2: As far as him.

3266
02:49:13,560 --> 02:49:18,360
Speaker 1: Staying there, he's probably legally can be victed or like

3267
02:49:18,520 --> 02:49:20,680
Speaker 1: start the eviction process.

3268
02:49:20,720 --> 02:49:23,039
Speaker 2: I would, I would guess yeah, and then like the

3269
02:49:23,120 --> 02:49:27,040
Speaker 2: least breakage is kind of sketchy. Cindy Sugar says he

3270
02:49:27,520 --> 02:49:29,879
Speaker 2: sounds more scared about being homeless to be honest, which

3271
02:49:30,240 --> 02:49:33,280
Speaker 2: I mean makes sense, like he is like that that

3272
02:49:33,440 --> 02:49:36,640
Speaker 2: is a scary thing, but it sounds like he's putting

3273
02:49:36,680 --> 02:49:39,520
Speaker 2: a lot of it on the relationship, which is not

3274
02:49:39,959 --> 02:49:44,520
Speaker 2: fair either. Yeah, no, totally. Maya two twelve says Opie's

3275
02:49:44,560 --> 02:49:46,480
Speaker 2: not scared of losing her He's scared of losing the

3276
02:49:46,520 --> 02:49:51,720
Speaker 2: financial stability she provides. OPI is the sugar baby from

3277
02:49:51,800 --> 02:49:56,080
Speaker 2: Stella Davis. But let's keep going so on his current

3278
02:49:56,120 --> 02:49:58,920
Speaker 2: predicament and problems with her brother. Her brother has threatened

3279
02:49:58,920 --> 02:50:01,880
Speaker 2: to literally drag me out if I'm not gone by Wednesday.

3280
02:50:02,160 --> 02:50:04,040
Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure if I leave, I will not be

3281
02:50:04,080 --> 02:50:06,200
Speaker 2: able to get back in. I walked to the story yesterday.

3282
02:50:06,240 --> 02:50:08,480
Speaker 2: On my way back, I saw her brother drive pass,

3283
02:50:08,720 --> 02:50:11,400
Speaker 2: so I cut across to get back before him. But no,

3284
02:50:11,680 --> 02:50:13,800
Speaker 2: someone on the street is telling him when I leave.

3285
02:50:14,000 --> 02:50:16,200
Speaker 2: He did not stop, just drove past. He saw me

3286
02:50:16,200 --> 02:50:18,280
Speaker 2: in the window and didn't stop. So basically it sounds like, Oh,

3287
02:50:18,320 --> 02:50:24,040
Speaker 2: he's trying to squat that's crazy. You don't know anything

3288
02:50:24,040 --> 02:50:26,200
Speaker 2: about this. You'd buy him a drink for bowling some

3289
02:50:26,959 --> 02:50:31,160
Speaker 2: This is just like kind of really going downhill. So

3290
02:50:31,320 --> 02:50:35,160
Speaker 2: another thing her brother is bulling though. Stand So this

3291
02:50:35,280 --> 02:50:39,640
Speaker 2: is my favorite comment comment from someone else. Her brother

3292
02:50:39,760 --> 02:50:42,199
Speaker 2: is bowling though, standing between two adults, using his physical

3293
02:50:42,240 --> 02:50:44,879
Speaker 2: side to stop them from talking each other. He is

3294
02:50:44,920 --> 02:50:46,880
Speaker 2: the one who has used abusive language. He is the

3295
02:50:46,879 --> 02:50:48,720
Speaker 2: one who is threatened violence. He is the one who

3296
02:50:48,760 --> 02:50:50,560
Speaker 2: is threatened to make someone homeless. If I posted this

3297
02:50:50,600 --> 02:50:52,360
Speaker 2: from the other side, I am the landlord and I'm

3298
02:50:52,440 --> 02:50:55,080
Speaker 2: using my brother to make someone homeless in three days

3299
02:50:55,120 --> 02:50:57,680
Speaker 2: and refusing to let them speak, you guys would be

3300
02:50:57,720 --> 02:51:01,959
Speaker 2: all over the houses. Advice is op responding to all

3301
02:51:02,000 --> 02:51:07,480
Speaker 2: the comments. There's a bunch more, but I don't know this.

3302
02:51:07,480 --> 02:51:09,720
Speaker 2: This feels like like Cindy Sugar says, yeah, this is

3303
02:51:09,720 --> 02:51:12,320
Speaker 2: getting weird. I feel like it's getting weird too, like

3304
02:51:12,320 --> 02:51:14,959
Speaker 2: this and sorry I was rushing through all of that,

3305
02:51:15,120 --> 02:51:20,040
Speaker 2: but it feels like he's using her for our financial

3306
02:51:20,040 --> 02:51:23,600
Speaker 2: stability and now it's almost like squatting there. Yeah, one

3307
02:51:23,640 --> 02:51:27,520
Speaker 2: hundred and it's definitely a tough situation.

3308
02:51:28,160 --> 02:51:32,039
Speaker 1: Yeah sure, yeah, yeah, yeah, and like I will say,

3309
02:51:32,080 --> 02:51:36,920
Speaker 1: like the thing that got us there, yeah, Like it's like, maybe, okay,

3310
02:51:36,959 --> 02:51:39,840
Speaker 1: maybe she could have been like more willing to sit

3311
02:51:39,879 --> 02:51:42,280
Speaker 1: down and talk about about it, like that would have

3312
02:51:42,360 --> 02:51:45,879
Speaker 1: given OPI a chance to like try to do better

3313
02:51:45,920 --> 02:51:48,840
Speaker 1: and kind of like give her some more support. But

3314
02:51:49,840 --> 02:51:52,400
Speaker 1: low key, at the end of the day, it kind

3315
02:51:52,400 --> 02:51:54,720
Speaker 1: of almost doesn't matter because if she's like, hey, I

3316
02:51:54,840 --> 02:51:57,640
Speaker 1: don't want to you know, be with you in this

3317
02:51:57,720 --> 02:52:00,520
Speaker 1: relationship whatever, and I don't want you at my house

3318
02:52:01,000 --> 02:52:02,480
Speaker 1: like legally.

3319
02:52:02,520 --> 02:52:06,600
Speaker 2: Like yeah, but ravenous forces squatters rights yikes. I mean

3320
02:52:06,680 --> 02:52:08,560
Speaker 2: like he could just squat there.

3321
02:52:08,520 --> 02:52:10,080
Speaker 1: He could just squat Yeah, we don't. We don't know

3322
02:52:10,080 --> 02:52:11,960
Speaker 1: where they're based out of. So it's like, how how

3323
02:52:12,000 --> 02:52:15,000
Speaker 1: long of a window, you know, does he would he

3324
02:52:15,120 --> 02:52:18,160
Speaker 1: have with squattersh rice. I don't know, maybe a few

3325
02:52:18,160 --> 02:52:19,480
Speaker 1: months possibly.

3326
02:52:19,320 --> 02:52:23,240
Speaker 2: But I'm getting nothing but red flags. Yeah yeah yeah,

3327
02:52:23,240 --> 02:52:26,439
Speaker 2: someone said more like a disgruntled tenant than an actual relationship.

3328
02:52:26,520 --> 02:52:27,440
Speaker 2: That's what it feels like.

3329
02:52:27,520 --> 02:52:30,680
Speaker 1: And so wait, break it down from me again. The

3330
02:52:30,680 --> 02:52:33,039
Speaker 1: the girlfriend's parent.

3331
02:52:32,920 --> 02:52:37,560
Speaker 2: The girlfriend's brothers, fam family, I guess, yeah, the girlfriend's

3332
02:52:37,560 --> 02:52:41,920
Speaker 2: family owns the building that he's in right, like extended family,

3333
02:52:41,959 --> 02:52:44,640
Speaker 2: and so the brother is acting on behalf of that family,

3334
02:52:44,720 --> 02:52:49,600
Speaker 2: saying like you screwed me over. It's all like weirdly, twine,

3335
02:52:49,640 --> 02:52:50,520
Speaker 2: I don't like it at all.

3336
02:52:50,600 --> 02:52:55,200
Speaker 1: So they're like, wait, you're you already Like yeah, now

3337
02:52:55,200 --> 02:52:56,920
Speaker 1: you're trying to squat in this place.

3338
02:52:57,160 --> 02:53:02,160
Speaker 2: That's yeah, it's a little tell. Yeah. A Maya two

3339
02:53:02,200 --> 02:53:04,560
Speaker 2: twelve says, I don't feel like we got the full story. Yeah,

3340
02:53:04,560 --> 02:53:08,520
Speaker 2: I feel like this is intensely from his point of view. Yes,

3341
02:53:08,680 --> 02:53:12,120
Speaker 2: and even then we're seeing just like some cracks, some

3342
02:53:12,400 --> 02:53:15,240
Speaker 2: cracks that I don't know. It feels it feels a

3343
02:53:15,280 --> 02:53:18,840
Speaker 2: little whack. Yeah, feel as a whack. Jerry Sword says,

3344
02:53:18,840 --> 02:53:20,600
Speaker 2: I feel like there's definitely more to the story that

3345
02:53:20,640 --> 02:53:26,920
Speaker 2: op he didn't share. Uh, completely agree, But y'all, John's

3346
02:53:26,959 --> 02:53:30,240
Speaker 2: gonna keep going for a little bit longer. My date

3347
02:53:30,480 --> 02:53:32,480
Speaker 2: is in thirty minutes, and I'm gonna walk over there,

3348
02:53:32,480 --> 02:53:36,240
Speaker 2: and I need to get dressed. I think I'm gonna

3349
02:53:36,240 --> 02:53:39,680
Speaker 2: wear something a little fancy, maybe like a collared shirt.

3350
02:53:40,040 --> 02:53:44,640
Speaker 1: Oh, aless, chaps, askless, chaps, there we go, what's your same? Whar?

3351
02:53:44,959 --> 02:53:49,280
Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, I'll come back and I'll I'll show you, guys. Yeah,

3352
02:53:49,280 --> 02:53:53,280
Speaker 2: I'll give you a little There we go, but thank

3353
02:53:53,320 --> 02:53:55,879
Speaker 2: you for the good luck. I'll be right back to

3354
02:53:55,920 --> 02:53:58,520
Speaker 2: show you what I'm wearing. But John, I think I'll

3355
02:53:58,560 --> 02:53:59,959
Speaker 2: let you take it from here. Here we go.

3356
02:54:00,000 --> 02:54:04,840
Speaker 1: Oh, ladies and gentlemen, let's get back to the story,

3357
02:54:04,959 --> 02:54:07,359
Speaker 1: which is Riley Is that three.

3358
02:54:07,280 --> 02:54:09,280
Speaker 2: Twenty s four? Yeah?

3359
02:54:09,360 --> 02:54:13,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, sweet sauce, we are in the.

3360
02:54:14,480 --> 02:54:16,280
Speaker 2: Chat that love that.

3361
02:54:18,320 --> 02:54:22,200
Speaker 1: Okay, this is oh nope, this is not this.

3362
02:54:22,320 --> 02:54:23,879
Speaker 3: Like we're just reading through the comments and stuff.

3363
02:54:23,959 --> 02:54:29,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, we're go to girlfriend yep, okay, girlfriends your conversation.

3364
02:54:30,080 --> 02:54:36,720
Speaker 1: I'm right here, I'm in it. And where should.

3365
02:54:36,480 --> 02:54:38,119
Speaker 3: I like to the very bottom?

3366
02:54:38,320 --> 02:54:43,720
Speaker 1: And then where those white line? Op on his living arrangements?

3367
02:54:44,240 --> 02:54:44,560
Speaker 3: Do that?

3368
02:54:45,360 --> 02:54:45,680
Speaker 2: Okay?

3369
02:54:45,720 --> 02:54:48,800
Speaker 1: So Op on his living arrangements?

3370
02:54:49,360 --> 02:54:49,480
Speaker 2: Uh?

3371
02:54:49,680 --> 02:54:52,560
Speaker 1: No, the house belongs to her, although I do have

3372
02:54:52,600 --> 02:54:53,560
Speaker 1: a key and I do live.

3373
02:54:53,959 --> 02:54:56,600
Speaker 6: I go down, go down, sorry, go down to my

3374
02:54:56,680 --> 02:55:01,200
Speaker 6: absolute favorite comment. No, no, sorry, sorry, guys.

3375
02:55:03,840 --> 02:55:06,959
Speaker 3: Oh dude. And then finally OPI cannot help return.

3376
02:55:07,879 --> 02:55:11,480
Speaker 1: And then finally OPI cannot help but return one of

3377
02:55:11,480 --> 02:55:14,920
Speaker 1: the original replies about planting a camera, saying he wished

3378
02:55:14,920 --> 02:55:18,080
Speaker 1: he had just done that instead. Oh my, just an FYI,

3379
02:55:18,320 --> 02:55:20,440
Speaker 1: I if I had followed your advice, this would have

3380
02:55:20,480 --> 02:55:24,080
Speaker 1: been settled quickly and quietly, with no harm done. I

3381
02:55:24,120 --> 02:55:28,959
Speaker 1: mean the harm of planting a camera on your significant other.

3382
02:55:29,040 --> 02:55:34,040
Speaker 1: I would beg to difface. I listen to people saying

3383
02:55:34,080 --> 02:55:37,120
Speaker 1: crap like use your words, crap like use your words,

3384
02:55:37,680 --> 02:55:39,640
Speaker 1: and now I wished I'd just listened to you.

3385
02:55:40,160 --> 02:55:40,400
Speaker 2: Uh.

3386
02:55:40,440 --> 02:55:44,520
Speaker 1: This was marked inconclusive as OPI never posted again, so

3387
02:55:44,600 --> 02:55:47,360
Speaker 1: either the brother dragged him out or he left of

3388
02:55:47,440 --> 02:55:50,640
Speaker 1: his own accord, but it looks like he didn't take

3389
02:55:50,680 --> 02:55:52,600
Speaker 1: the laptop with him.

3390
02:55:53,240 --> 02:55:54,720
Speaker 2: Wow.

3391
02:55:54,720 --> 02:55:57,920
Speaker 6: I did not get good vibes from this guy, Like, yeah,

3392
02:55:57,959 --> 02:56:00,440
Speaker 6: when did you start having like kind of weird vibes

3393
02:56:00,480 --> 02:56:00,920
Speaker 6: about him?

3394
02:56:00,920 --> 02:56:05,920
Speaker 2: I mean the camera was the first, like the camera why? Yeah?

3395
02:56:05,959 --> 02:56:09,760
Speaker 6: And also I think it was like when he found

3396
02:56:09,840 --> 02:56:13,600
Speaker 6: out the truth, it was like a around there. But

3397
02:56:13,680 --> 02:56:16,039
Speaker 6: like I feel like the way he told the story,

3398
02:56:16,320 --> 02:56:19,199
Speaker 6: he left out some some parts because I mean, yeah,

3399
02:56:19,520 --> 02:56:21,840
Speaker 6: I don't think you should have reacted that way, but

3400
02:56:21,920 --> 02:56:23,800
Speaker 6: there was I think there was more that he did

3401
02:56:23,800 --> 02:56:26,680
Speaker 6: that made her leave like that, and the brother right

3402
02:56:26,840 --> 02:56:28,600
Speaker 6: to say something, You're.

3403
02:56:28,440 --> 02:56:32,080
Speaker 1: Totally right, because basically it was like, uh, like Oh,

3404
02:56:32,200 --> 02:56:33,320
Speaker 1: are you cheating on someone?

3405
02:56:33,480 --> 02:56:35,959
Speaker 2: No? And then it's like I'm leaving you, I'm going

3406
02:56:35,959 --> 02:56:37,160
Speaker 2: out of the house, and it's like.

3407
02:56:37,440 --> 02:56:41,680
Speaker 1: One accusation usually doesn't lead to the brother wanting to

3408
02:56:41,720 --> 02:56:44,400
Speaker 1: beat the crap out of you. Yeah, and you like

3409
02:56:44,400 --> 02:56:46,560
Speaker 1: like leaving and you're like, I'm not returning under any

3410
02:56:46,560 --> 02:56:51,280
Speaker 1: circumstance Like that is a like pretty outsized reaction for

3411
02:56:51,320 --> 02:56:54,080
Speaker 1: that to Obviously there there could be like arguments and

3412
02:56:54,160 --> 02:56:56,360
Speaker 1: continuing stuff from there, but it seemed like it was

3413
02:56:56,440 --> 02:56:58,840
Speaker 1: just like cut off. So what more was there? What

3414
02:56:58,879 --> 02:56:59,880
Speaker 1: more was under the surface?

3415
02:57:00,080 --> 02:57:01,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, that we didn't know about.

3416
02:57:01,920 --> 02:57:03,880
Speaker 3: Weird vibese was a good question.

3417
02:57:04,440 --> 02:57:07,360
Speaker 1: Kelly C says, why would op expose himself like that

3418
02:57:07,480 --> 02:57:10,240
Speaker 1: and even start trouble with his girlfriend? If he was

3419
02:57:10,280 --> 02:57:14,560
Speaker 1: squatting there, living like a sugar baby, why risk losing

3420
02:57:14,680 --> 02:57:17,840
Speaker 1: his living situation? Yeah, just from a purely logical standpoint,

3421
02:57:17,879 --> 02:57:21,360
Speaker 1: like of him trying to if he is truly squatting,

3422
02:57:21,879 --> 02:57:24,199
Speaker 1: why would he try to start trouble with his girlfriend

3423
02:57:24,200 --> 02:57:29,520
Speaker 1: and just shut up? Sidney Durant says, Uh, yeah, why

3424
02:57:29,640 --> 02:57:33,240
Speaker 1: name your insecurities when you can't just yell at her

3425
02:57:33,560 --> 02:57:37,800
Speaker 1: or play the camera toxic mexculinity exactly. It's like, yeah, like.

3426
02:57:38,040 --> 02:57:40,400
Speaker 2: Why don't I just play the camera.

3427
02:57:40,160 --> 02:57:41,920
Speaker 1: Like everything would be solved, Like we would all be

3428
02:57:41,959 --> 02:57:47,240
Speaker 1: good rabbit for says John if he comes back in

3429
02:57:47,360 --> 02:57:50,879
Speaker 1: askless chaps, come call him, call him a scalley wag

3430
02:57:51,440 --> 02:57:52,000
Speaker 1: and the.

3431
02:57:51,920 --> 02:57:55,279
Speaker 3: Butt cheeks Oh my gosh, what.

3432
02:57:55,160 --> 02:57:56,720
Speaker 2: And what the butt cheeks rabbit us for?

3433
02:57:56,879 --> 02:58:01,120
Speaker 1: Please please elaborate see the Plu says, I do think

3434
02:58:01,160 --> 02:58:03,320
Speaker 1: her leaving so fast seemed very strange.

3435
02:58:03,440 --> 02:58:04,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, like we were saying.

3436
02:58:04,760 --> 02:58:08,000
Speaker 1: I know grief can cause some strange reactions speaking from experience,

3437
02:58:08,200 --> 02:58:12,680
Speaker 1: but yeah, seemed like a lot was left out. Great point.

3438
02:58:12,720 --> 02:58:16,199
Speaker 1: Burning Rose says there was definitely. Uh, there was definitely more,

3439
02:58:16,640 --> 02:58:19,640
Speaker 1: especially since she immediately gave up talking to her dad

3440
02:58:19,920 --> 02:58:22,160
Speaker 1: as soon as she as he as he found out

3441
02:58:22,200 --> 02:58:25,280
Speaker 1: about it. No one felt no one who felt emotionally

3442
02:58:25,360 --> 02:58:27,960
Speaker 1: safe with their significant other would do that. It's like, yeah,

3443
02:58:28,000 --> 02:58:29,400
Speaker 1: why why.

3444
02:58:29,240 --> 02:58:34,600
Speaker 2: Would you do that? Sidney Durant then also says, uh,

3445
02:58:34,720 --> 02:58:37,000
Speaker 2: is he not paying rent? Which that was my question, Like.

3446
02:58:37,000 --> 02:58:39,400
Speaker 1: That's a good point, even if the house is paid off,

3447
02:58:39,520 --> 02:58:42,000
Speaker 1: Like yeah, of course you can. I mean you can

3448
02:58:42,080 --> 02:58:43,920
Speaker 1: have someone live for free even if you are paying

3449
02:58:43,959 --> 02:58:48,959
Speaker 1: the rent, But that doesn't mean that he shouldn't because.

3450
02:58:48,680 --> 02:58:50,560
Speaker 3: He did hint that he didn't have a lot of money.

3451
02:58:50,800 --> 02:58:52,720
Speaker 6: I feel like and he seems like he was like

3452
02:58:52,840 --> 02:58:56,480
Speaker 6: kind of munching off of her, So it could if

3453
02:58:56,480 --> 02:58:58,600
Speaker 6: he if he wasn't paying rent and then he reacted

3454
02:58:58,640 --> 02:59:03,080
Speaker 6: like that. There was probably way more emotionally involved that

3455
02:59:03,240 --> 02:59:04,879
Speaker 6: was not spoke that he hid.

3456
02:59:05,120 --> 02:59:06,400
Speaker 3: I feel like there's more than he hid.

3457
02:59:06,800 --> 02:59:08,959
Speaker 1: Yeah, one hundred percent agree, Oh do we have it?

3458
02:59:09,040 --> 02:59:10,680
Speaker 2: Do you have another story for the good people?

3459
02:59:11,320 --> 02:59:13,280
Speaker 3: Look at the time, Look at the time.

3460
02:59:13,480 --> 02:59:14,520
Speaker 2: How much time? Oh?

3461
02:59:15,560 --> 02:59:16,400
Speaker 1: Oh my good?

3462
02:59:16,879 --> 02:59:18,720
Speaker 2: Wow? Wow, dang.

3463
02:59:18,760 --> 02:59:20,520
Speaker 1: All right, we'll read a few of our comments here.

3464
02:59:20,240 --> 02:59:24,480
Speaker 1: We're getting close to the end. Stella Bagfelt says, not

3465
02:59:24,600 --> 02:59:28,959
Speaker 1: that that he should have planted the camera, but he had.

3466
02:59:29,000 --> 02:59:31,240
Speaker 1: But had he done it, he could have removed it

3467
02:59:31,280 --> 02:59:34,199
Speaker 1: again never mentioned it to her, but then he knew

3468
02:59:34,200 --> 02:59:38,680
Speaker 1: what she was doing. Uh, but still against the cam, Yeah,

3469
02:59:38,680 --> 02:59:40,640
Speaker 1: one hundred percent, Like, yeah, it would have gone on

3470
02:59:40,680 --> 02:59:42,360
Speaker 1: the radar, but it's like, yeah, the camera is still

3471
02:59:42,360 --> 02:59:46,280
Speaker 1: not a good idea, Stella Davis. I hope for Sophia's

3472
02:59:46,280 --> 02:59:48,720
Speaker 1: sake that Sam doesn't even own Nasslas.

3473
02:59:48,800 --> 02:59:51,040
Speaker 2: Jeffs that's so funny.

3474
02:59:51,879 --> 02:59:59,720
Speaker 1: Kellyes, the money's tied up, very suspicious. Uh what else

3475
02:59:59,760 --> 03:00:01,359
Speaker 1: can we got taught to ya?

3476
03:00:01,720 --> 03:00:02,160
Speaker 2: OMG?

3477
03:00:02,480 --> 03:00:06,280
Speaker 1: Did Op delete the only recording of her deceased father?

3478
03:00:06,440 --> 03:00:08,360
Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't know. That's a good question.

3479
03:00:08,640 --> 03:00:13,039
Speaker 1: But ladies and gentlemen, we have reached the three hour

3480
03:00:13,480 --> 03:00:15,400
Speaker 1: mark of this live stream.

3481
03:00:15,680 --> 03:00:18,439
Speaker 4: Wow, y'all.

3482
03:00:18,480 --> 03:00:21,200
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3483
03:00:21,280 --> 03:00:25,800
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3484
03:00:25,800 --> 03:00:28,840
Speaker 1: of your incredible donations. You definitely do not need to,

3485
03:00:29,920 --> 03:00:32,880
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3486
03:00:33,320 --> 03:00:35,640
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3487
03:00:35,680 --> 03:00:37,400
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3488
03:00:37,440 --> 03:00:40,200
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3489
03:00:40,240 --> 03:00:43,280
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3490
03:00:43,360 --> 03:00:44,199
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3491
03:00:46,520 --> 03:00:47,879
Speaker 3: Sham has something for us.

3492
03:00:48,320 --> 03:00:50,720
Speaker 2: I don't even know. This is like I'm just wearing

3493
03:00:50,720 --> 03:00:54,840
Speaker 2: the same thing. There he is, there, he is, I

3494
03:00:54,840 --> 03:00:58,000
Speaker 2: don't know. Let me know what they think. Do you

3495
03:00:58,000 --> 03:01:00,240
Speaker 2: want to close us out? Yeah?

3496
03:01:01,680 --> 03:01:04,840
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3497
03:01:04,959 --> 03:01:06,840
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