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Speaker 1: So this is kiss in the morning. Those Tailor Swift

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Speaker 1: tickets are hot. I've got them for you again next hour.

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Speaker 1: And we're giving those away all day long. And we're

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Speaker 1: giving those away every hour in the morning next week

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Speaker 1: and and an I love that and and and Okay,

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Speaker 1: so before we get to Father's Day plans for the

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Speaker 1: weekend or by, there may be just get a little

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Speaker 1: bit of b us. There may be a secret that

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Speaker 1: we have not really talked about. Here to a happy

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Speaker 1: marriage is what you learn.

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Speaker 2: So I think we've all heard of separate bathroom, separate closet,

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Speaker 2: even separate bedrooms for maybe a happy marriage. Right some

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Speaker 2: people claim that that works for their relationships and whatnot.

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Speaker 2: But separate apartments, I feel like that's really taking it

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Speaker 2: a step further. And I don't know that it's for everyone.

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Speaker 2: But this couple claims that that is their secret to

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Speaker 2: their happy marriage. They got married in twenty twenty one,

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Speaker 2: and their names are Bianca and Peter. So she is

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Speaker 2: in her early forties and he's in his late fifties.

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Speaker 2: And so after they tied the knot, she continued to

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Speaker 2: live with her cat and he lived with.

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Speaker 3: His teenage son.

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Speaker 2: So actually his teenage son was allergic to cats, So

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Speaker 2: I don't know if that.

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Speaker 3: Was all that means why they had to live apart.

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Speaker 2: Right, But his teenage son moved away after the year,

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Speaker 2: And even so the teenage son moved away to college,

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Speaker 2: they are still continuing to live apart and are continuing

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Speaker 2: to have their separate apartments. And what they do is

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Speaker 2: they meet up for dinner every night at either one's apartment.

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Speaker 2: They cook, they hang out, and then they go home.

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Speaker 2: Is that not bizarre?

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Speaker 3: Not for me?

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Speaker 2: Not for me.

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Speaker 3: I'm lonely, Like I don't want to get well.

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Speaker 1: I mean, there's a lot of things here, but I

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Speaker 1: don't like the benefit of being with that person or

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Speaker 1: finding that partners having that partner.

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Speaker 2: I know, and part of me was thinking, Okay, they

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Speaker 2: got married in twenty twenty one, it's twenty twenty three.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, this is only in two years. But no,

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Speaker 2: they've been together for six years. They've been doing this

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Speaker 2: for a while, like this routine, and so it's not

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Speaker 2: like it's anything new, Like this is what works for them.

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Speaker 3: They like it like this. There doesn't it feel like

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Speaker 3: dating and not marriage. Maybe that's the key.

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Speaker 2: Maybe that's yeah, that's what they're saying, is like they're

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Speaker 2: sacred to marital bliss.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I don't know. I know it does not

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Speaker 3: work for me.

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Speaker 2: And it's not like they live in like studio city

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Speaker 2: in Sherman Oaks, like this is a forty minute commute.

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Speaker 2: It sounds I don't think, so we're talking like the

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Speaker 2: valley to the west Side.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I don't say I don't know anything about them.

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Speaker 3: To me, it doesn't sound like something that would.

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Speaker 1: Endure to each their own but either his marriage, right,

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Speaker 1: that sounds difficult.

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Speaker 2: But six years together and they seem happy.

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Speaker 1: Right. You cannot put anybody into a box exactly. Everybody

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Speaker 1: is different. Not everybody needs to get married. Not everybody

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Speaker 1: needs to get married and lived again.

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Speaker 2: And that's what she said in the article that I

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Speaker 2: was reading, And she was just like, there's no right reason.

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Speaker 3: I believe more and more that there is no textbook.

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Speaker 3: All right.

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Speaker 1: Interesting, I would ponder that might take that to dinner

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Speaker 1: tonight with friends.

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Speaker 2: Not take that.

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Speaker 3: I'd be like, no, thank you.

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Speaker 1: Married couples. If I run into a married couples this

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Speaker 1: weekend out in I might ask him, if I was

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Speaker 1: reading this, do you think this.

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Speaker 3: Would work for you?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we got tickets for the family to not very

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Speaker 1: farm next to Kiss