WEBVTT - Three Shots of Tequila Please feat. Marvin Abbey

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<v Speaker 1>We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion who

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<v Speaker 1>talks back. What's up, y'all? Thank you for tuning in

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<v Speaker 1>for a new episode that we talk back, A show

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<v Speaker 1>dedicated to you, niggas and these holes. That's how I'm

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<v Speaker 1>feeling this week, all right and everybody else in between.

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<v Speaker 1>This is your co host AJ Holiday. What's up? Tim?

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<v Speaker 1>Hey girl? Hey y'all is me Timm. I love y'all

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<v Speaker 1>this week. I know I feel better. I know I

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<v Speaker 1>sound better than last week. I mean, I don't feel

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<v Speaker 1>that much better, but I sound a little better than

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<v Speaker 1>that last week. M how's your weekend friend? It was cool.

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<v Speaker 1>It's uh taste of Latin. Uh, the Latin taste of

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<v Speaker 1>Charleston this past weekend line. And I was over Latin

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<v Speaker 1>people this weekend because somebody took my parking spot at

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<v Speaker 1>the flea market. Okay, Karen, bitch, when I tell you,

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<v Speaker 1>I could get out and stab, but they're fucking tires.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean that, have you ever swung and taking somebody

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<v Speaker 1>parking space? Oh? It was kind of like y'all were

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<v Speaker 1>like doing playing chicken for the perky chicken. It was

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<v Speaker 1>clearly my parking space and they swung in from a

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<v Speaker 1>different direction and took it and then looked at me

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<v Speaker 1>as they got out the car, and I said, y'all

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<v Speaker 1>think that's right, but your bitch ass. I was yelling

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<v Speaker 1>out the window all crazy and what they say? Nothing?

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<v Speaker 1>It just walked off and look they was like, I won, bitch,

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<v Speaker 1>move on, and I said, you know what, I ain't

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<v Speaker 1>spending no money with these hispanics today. I got the

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<v Speaker 1>funk about that parking lot. Now, you can't be mad

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<v Speaker 1>at all. Everybody gonna get it. I went and let

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<v Speaker 1>nobody in. I wouldn't let nobody in like trying to

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<v Speaker 1>get into the parking spot. I went and like I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>trying to get out the parking lot. I went and

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<v Speaker 1>letting nobody like get in. I wasn't courteous than anybody

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<v Speaker 1>going forward. That was some real caring behavior. AJ. What

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<v Speaker 1>did I do this weekend? I just laid in bed

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<v Speaker 1>all weekend, trying to recover. I'm still trying to recover,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys. So I didn't do shit but watch some

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<v Speaker 1>TV which brings me the stupid internet news this. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if y'all tuned in, but Amazon Prime has

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<v Speaker 1>a new series called Swarm that came out and it

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<v Speaker 1>has Damson Idriss and Chloe Bailey in it, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>created by Donald Glover also known as Childish Gambino and

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<v Speaker 1>Janine Neighbors. And it is a psychological thriller, which is

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<v Speaker 1>right on point with Donald Glover because he's always making

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<v Speaker 1>something that's it's given Jordan Peel, it's given m Night

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<v Speaker 1>Shamalin kind of vibes where it's like, y'all watch Atlanta.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure y'all watch Atlanta. So it's always like this

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<v Speaker 1>is weird, this is disturbing. But everybody was tuned in

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<v Speaker 1>this weekend And what really made me tune in is

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<v Speaker 1>because the Internet was going crazy saying Dampson and Choie

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<v Speaker 1>was on that fuck. I was like, well, let me

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<v Speaker 1>go seasons. I can't fun. I'm gonna watch somebody else

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<v Speaker 1>and baby Chloe had I mean, it wasn't really like

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<v Speaker 1>that like that like I was. I thought I was

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<v Speaker 1>gonna see some juices flying and all kind of stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>It wouldn't. It wasn't some soft porn, some soft hard porn.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah that's what I was thinking of an Amazon crazy Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that was going so crazy for it, But it was

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<v Speaker 1>just some back shots. Dampson give me some back shots

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<v Speaker 1>as on TV. Yeah, it looked good though she's throwing

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<v Speaker 1>it back. The arch was pretty good. Now. I was like, okay, Chloe,

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<v Speaker 1>I see you. Yeah, pussy for a real Dampson. Dampson

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<v Speaker 1>is a good ass actor. Like how they get him

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<v Speaker 1>to act like a little down south a nigga like that? Like, right, Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>he's a good Yes, he's a great actor. Man. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>I wonder what how he really fun? He'd probably be

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<v Speaker 1>like this pussy is brilliant. Reminds me of some crumpets.

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<v Speaker 1>I like, I'm sucking the shit out of you in it,

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<v Speaker 1>and it hey like Chloe said, Damnson made her feel comfortable.

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<v Speaker 1>She says, I was very scared because I haven't had

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<v Speaker 1>that many partners. I'm not like that that's sexual and open.

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<v Speaker 1>She explained, Damnson made it really comfortable. You know, there

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<v Speaker 1>were limited people on set. It was a close set.

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<v Speaker 1>We were laughing in between. We literally had a buncy

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<v Speaker 1>ball in between us. I have to give the give

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of kudos to him as a woman feel

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<v Speaker 1>comfortable being literally raw naked. I thought it was a

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<v Speaker 1>fake ass, so apparently I mean not a fake one.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought it was like a uh, like a stand in,

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<v Speaker 1>but it was actually her ass and his body and

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<v Speaker 1>she's so what they where was the ball? I see

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<v Speaker 1>no room for no bouncy ball. I looked like some

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<v Speaker 1>real basketball. Was that? That's what that looked like, some

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<v Speaker 1>real good fucking What I want to know is, Chloe,

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<v Speaker 1>was your pussy again? Win? Because my pussy would have

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<v Speaker 1>been leaking right down the bed acting to no act.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't be bouncing up against this pussy like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Another happened. Dan would have sexual rasping lawsuit on your ass.

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<v Speaker 1>Hell yeah, my bad dancing this pussy juicy. It has

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<v Speaker 1>a mind of the zone, thought she said. Okay, look,

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<v Speaker 1>speaking of sex and not having had a lot of sex,

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<v Speaker 1>Larsa pimping excuse me, lar pimp said it right, Larsa piping,

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<v Speaker 1>Larsa Larsa pimp pipping, Larsa pippen. Uh actually said that

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<v Speaker 1>her and um, her ex husband. Um this is on

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<v Speaker 1>the Real Housewives of Miami. I think this was the

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<v Speaker 1>reunion right. So she says her and Stottie Pippin would

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<v Speaker 1>have sex four times a night, leaving her without a

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<v Speaker 1>day off. She said, I was married for twenty three years.

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<v Speaker 1>I've always had sex four times a night, the forty

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<v Speaker 1>eight year old said on Thursday, March sixteenth during the

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<v Speaker 1>Rally Shows Reunion special. I had sex four times a night,

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<v Speaker 1>every night. I never had a day off for twenty

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<v Speaker 1>three years. But here's the thing, this is why she's

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<v Speaker 1>still fucking these young gass niggas because they say ten

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<v Speaker 1>thousand times are doing anything? Makes you an expert? Right?

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<v Speaker 1>That shit hitting you was fucking that many times a

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<v Speaker 1>day for twenty three years. You are an expert fucking.

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<v Speaker 1>She literally a motherfucker. Okay, yeah she is. That's a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of sex. Okay. Just recently, I've been having conversations

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<v Speaker 1>with women who are in These are friends who are

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<v Speaker 1>in you know, committed relationships, one of them actually married,

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<v Speaker 1>and they don't be getting enough dick. So here's Scottie Pippen.

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<v Speaker 1>He just digging his wife down four days a week,

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<v Speaker 1>excuse me, four times a night. So that's what four

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<v Speaker 1>times seven, twenty eight, twenty eight times a week. Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>this bitches out here that can't get it twice? God damn,

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<v Speaker 1>Scottie Pippen got a new bitch. See that dick might

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<v Speaker 1>not be dicking like that no more? What do you think? Yeah? Probably, man,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, but who I don't want to fuck

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<v Speaker 1>four times a day? But you know what, maybe if

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't have to go to work, that is the job.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the job, that is the that's a cape of woman.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm pretty sure she never had to work or take

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<v Speaker 1>care of kids ever on duty. Still don't smashing all

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<v Speaker 1>day long? Shit? Is that the life you want to live?

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<v Speaker 1>That's there ain't no soft life, man, that's a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of weird and take. That's a lot of weary telling

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<v Speaker 1>that coucie twenty eight times a weekday listen, work doing

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<v Speaker 1>hair all day and then sitting at this motherfucking racking

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<v Speaker 1>front with you is a lot of work, bitch. This

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<v Speaker 1>is weird terror by these and by vocal cords. Look,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's gonna be Look you know what, I'm twenty

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<v Speaker 1>eight times I head involved back of that throat you

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<v Speaker 1>tear up. Let's be clear, four times a night. It

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<v Speaker 1>got they got to be ten minute sessions each. That's

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of not that long. I think I could

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<v Speaker 1>do it. That's a lot of sexs I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe she can, maybe she can get something, give some

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<v Speaker 1>pointers she might can write a book on that, right,

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<v Speaker 1>like ten thousand times if anything, make you an expert.

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<v Speaker 1>She needs to write a book, larger pipe and write

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<v Speaker 1>us a book like she's not been with future. Future

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<v Speaker 1>looked just like Scottie Pippin to me, where you think

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<v Speaker 1>I could see the resemblance in the nose area, like

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<v Speaker 1>the face with the nose area that was like his

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<v Speaker 1>big brother for sure. So she got a tight dad.

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<v Speaker 1>And she's with Marcus Jordan now Michael Jordan's son. And

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<v Speaker 1>she said she'd actually changed her last name to Jordan

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<v Speaker 1>dubb it right of course he would she. I wonder

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<v Speaker 1>how her kids feel about that. I don't know. She's

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<v Speaker 1>forty eight years old. Is that coo? She's still hitting

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<v Speaker 1>at forty eight. Write a book, Write a book, Larsa, right,

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<v Speaker 1>we need you, girl, I think to get these young

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<v Speaker 1>niggas play evil. I don't want him. Don't nobody feel

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<v Speaker 1>like picking dick up and dropping dick off for the

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<v Speaker 1>rest of their life with these young niggas and pack

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<v Speaker 1>a bag one to you know what I mean? I do.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't wait to body's niggas an Xbox sixty two.

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<v Speaker 1>Mama got yourself, baby, new pair Jordan's and shit Fars.

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<v Speaker 1>Jordan's ain't gonna be wearing Larcen's bitch stupid. For the

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<v Speaker 1>real stupid Internet news, this young lady took the Twitter.

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<v Speaker 1>Her name is Claire skin Cutie ammaniology underscores her Twitter handle,

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<v Speaker 1>and she said that my waiter at a restaurant I

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<v Speaker 1>ate at asked me to leave him a Google review.

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<v Speaker 1>So I did, and now his BM is in my DMS.

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<v Speaker 1>Swipe to the left. Yep. So her Google review says

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<v Speaker 1>the food was amazing all cats and the service was

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<v Speaker 1>even better. Our waiter, Meek, provided exceptional service and we

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<v Speaker 1>will be returning because of him exclamation point. The BM

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<v Speaker 1>did not like that Google review. Okay. She found this

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<v Speaker 1>woman on Instagram okay, and DM turn said, don't know

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<v Speaker 1>who you are, but since you think flirting with my

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<v Speaker 1>baby father while he's at work it's cute, you can

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<v Speaker 1>have his whole ass. Imagine that Tansia clearly has been

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<v Speaker 1>through it with this nigga. You know you've been through

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<v Speaker 1>it with a nigga when you going to Yelp reviews

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<v Speaker 1>to fucking find his bitches, and you know Teasier don't

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<v Speaker 1>give a fuckers in the back of her aviator as

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<v Speaker 1>a toilet. You know, she don't give a fuck she

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<v Speaker 1>pulling up. She ain't give a fuck about her picture

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<v Speaker 1>for social media. Imagine that. First of all. Tasia was like,

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<v Speaker 1>first of all, that food is not even that motherfucking

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<v Speaker 1>good at that restaurant he worked at. Look at that

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<v Speaker 1>hard as scorn bread and it probably ain't good. But

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<v Speaker 1>Amani was just doing her due diligence and being nice.

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<v Speaker 1>I had a nigga like that though my ex, one

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<v Speaker 1>of my exes, he did not like me being nice

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<v Speaker 1>to nobody but him nothing. If we was going through

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<v Speaker 1>a drive through window and I smiled at the nigga

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<v Speaker 1>in the drive through window, He'd be like, what the

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<v Speaker 1>fuck you smiling about? Why you milling at the nigga?

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, he just passed me my French fries,

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<v Speaker 1>Like really crazy. So people beat us about a significant other.

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<v Speaker 1>I always had a problem with my ex because I

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<v Speaker 1>call people babe, and it's not that I'm really calling

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<v Speaker 1>them baby or a babe. It could be a young person,

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<v Speaker 1>an old person, a woman, a man. Like if I'm

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<v Speaker 1>like getting service from someone, I want to be as

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<v Speaker 1>pleasant as possible for them, not to fuck my shit up.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm okay, thank you, babe, Da da da da.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think I probably inherited that from my mom

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<v Speaker 1>maybe girl, that nigga did not like me calling other

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<v Speaker 1>people babe. And one time, because y'all maniacs, okay, calling

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<v Speaker 1>this bitch babe. It's not conscious. I'm not consciously aware

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<v Speaker 1>that I'm saying this thing, right, but he was because

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<v Speaker 1>he just I don't know. So one time we were

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<v Speaker 1>out and he called somebody babe, like consciously called somebody babe.

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<v Speaker 1>That is different. Oh am, I tripping. You're tripping. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not tripping. Don't like because he was trying to

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<v Speaker 1>show you. Did you not care if he called people babe?

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<v Speaker 1>The only reason I cared is because he consciously did

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<v Speaker 1>it to try and make some type of point. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't. I'm not consciously aware. You know. He had

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<v Speaker 1>to point it out to me and I you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I really tried consciously to stop calling people babe, right

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<v Speaker 1>because it bothered him. Anybody else I would never have

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<v Speaker 1>this discussion with m Yeah, I don't like that. There's

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<v Speaker 1>one thing to smile because you're being polite, but there's

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<v Speaker 1>another thing to be calling this a grown woman. Babe,

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<v Speaker 1>y'all slap the shit out of everybody in this way.

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<v Speaker 1>I take my forearm and knock all this shit on

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<v Speaker 1>the table to call it so bad. That's my favorite, bitch.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't I can't wait. I did. I did it

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit one time to an X. I knocked

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<v Speaker 1>all this shit off in his dresser, even like a

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<v Speaker 1>whole cup of water, like what it but restaurant. I

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<v Speaker 1>want to flip the table over. I want to clear

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<v Speaker 1>you're excited to have you excited to have a reason

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<v Speaker 1>to do that. Yes, and I kick sweep the nigga afterwards.

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<v Speaker 1>Please run after that because you're going to jail. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>y'all listen. April twenty second. Okay, we got the live

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<v Speaker 1>Get your tickets today. You can go to www dot

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna be on stage for the first time, y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so excited. Man, She's gonna be crazy. I ain't

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<v Speaker 1>gonna eat no more cards until then. So when y'all

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<v Speaker 1>see a bit yea out there. Look at at least

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<v Speaker 1>five pounds smaller. Y'all better clap for a bitch because

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<v Speaker 1>I'm hungry. I don't think about going to Koke died.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if you want to join me or not,

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<v Speaker 1>but I heard Coke get you together. I ain't doing that.

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<v Speaker 1>You're gonna be in a hospital. Shit, I would be

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<v Speaker 1>on stage like whoa having a good time. I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>get some narc head for your ass just the case. Look,

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<v Speaker 1>just the kise. I ain't out with a bad batch,

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<v Speaker 1>right bad y'all pull up on us, y'all. Everybody gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be there eighty five South Headline and the whole shit.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh yeah, just hilarious. And Charlomagne the guy hostess. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>it's gonna be a good time. I guess so much fun, y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>We um speaking of Dampson and fucking in a British accent.

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<v Speaker 1>We got a guest on today. He is one of

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<v Speaker 1>the hosts of Three Shots of Tequila, which is a

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<v Speaker 1>very popular UK podcast, and we got him on the

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<v Speaker 1>day talking shit with us. So we'll be right back, y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>Tune in, Hey, y'all, We're back and we got a

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<v Speaker 1>special guests on from across the Pond, my my friend

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<v Speaker 1>Marvin Abbey from Three Shots of Tequila podcast. Welcome, my boy.

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<v Speaker 1>What's happening. How are you doing? I'm good, Thanks for

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<v Speaker 1>having me. Yeah, I'm glad you came. I ain't think

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<v Speaker 1>he was coming for real. No, no, better, definitely I

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<v Speaker 1>better show up. Yeah, what's you got in New York?

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<v Speaker 1>What's what you got going on the side? I know

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<v Speaker 1>you ain't just down here doing we talk back? Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>say holiday, but you don't call it vaca vacation. Why

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<v Speaker 1>do they call it holiday? Why do you call it vaca?

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<v Speaker 1>It's a vacation, a holiday. It's like a day that

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<v Speaker 1>everybody celebrates. A vacation is specific to you. Holiday, that's

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<v Speaker 1>what we say. If you're working and you will leave. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So what is all right? Myself? All right? So what

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<v Speaker 1>do you call boxing day? Is that a holiday? Or

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<v Speaker 1>is that? What is that? Yes? Um, a public holiday?

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<v Speaker 1>So you have a personal holiday and a public but

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<v Speaker 1>it's a public holiday. It's everyone's off, I'm saying. But

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<v Speaker 1>as a holiday is just that's what the holiday is.

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<v Speaker 1>Everybody else, no public holiday is everyone? A holiday is

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<v Speaker 1>just for you, Okay, whatever, that's that crazy that American

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<v Speaker 1>is told like English people that you don't use the

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<v Speaker 1>English properly. You're not crazy days why because it's English.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I get what you're saying there. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that makes a lot of sense. Yeah, okay, you change,

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<v Speaker 1>you change everything, um, and what you use what you

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<v Speaker 1>use is like for example, like trash, cotton, the bin.

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<v Speaker 1>B can I go to the bathroom like it's the toilet,

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<v Speaker 1>see it again, the toilet, the bathroom, but there's more

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<v Speaker 1>in the bathroom beside the toilet. You know, I could

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<v Speaker 1>be going to use the bathroom and not be going

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<v Speaker 1>to use the toilet. You do realize that, Yeah, but

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<v Speaker 1>the toilet. But the main reason, the main thing in

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<v Speaker 1>there is the toilet, right, But that's not the only

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<v Speaker 1>thing you use in there. So it's a room with

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<v Speaker 1>a bath toilet, no bathroom them exactly something, there's no bathroom,

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<v Speaker 1>there're still a bathroom. And I'm saying starting to show up. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you're talking about all right, let's get into it. Tell

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<v Speaker 1>us about three shots of tequila. How did that get started? Um?

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<v Speaker 1>So that was just a podcast with two of my

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<v Speaker 1>guys in the UK. M We started out six years

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<v Speaker 1>ago April. There will be seven years this year. Um

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<v Speaker 1>let me started it. There wasn't really a podcast seed

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<v Speaker 1>in the UK for like black people or people from

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<v Speaker 1>our culture. There are a few people doing it, but

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't like Exposed, It wasn't big. Most people were

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<v Speaker 1>trying to do like YouTube rap, you know, like the

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<v Speaker 1>usual paths. And then we were all doing different things

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<v Speaker 1>that I was doing radio, my guy Keith was doing radio.

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<v Speaker 1>Tas was doing a few other things as well, and

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<v Speaker 1>then we just had an idea to come together a

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<v Speaker 1>podcast and we literally had no promo, no nothing, because

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<v Speaker 1>we're like, do you know what, let's just bring it

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<v Speaker 1>out on Friday. And then we just brought out and

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<v Speaker 1>then I think we got something crazy like seven K

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<v Speaker 1>in twenty four hours. Wow, Wow, with no promo or nothing. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but you were on the radio already, right, Yeah, but

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<v Speaker 1>the radio finished like three four months before that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so people are asking me out what else am I

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<v Speaker 1>going to do? I'm like, I'm not too sure. And

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<v Speaker 1>then we got like, within i don't know, like a month,

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<v Speaker 1>we were like on like a million plays and they

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<v Speaker 1>just spiraled out of out of control. But it just

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<v Speaker 1>went and then we kind of kicked open the door

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<v Speaker 1>for podcasts in the UK that like people were like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>because a lot of the time with podcast people spoke

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<v Speaker 1>in a PC way. There was no swearing, there was

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<v Speaker 1>no unfiltered stories. It was just PC where we were

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<v Speaker 1>like one of the first to come out and just

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<v Speaker 1>that American talk how you talk how guys were talking

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<v Speaker 1>like a group chat, right, That's what it was like.

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<v Speaker 1>And women loved it because they were like, we want

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<v Speaker 1>to hear what guys are really saying. We don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to what the water down? Yeah, So and it just

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<v Speaker 1>went from there um and then years later we got

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<v Speaker 1>signed exclusive to Spotify. Um. And then we've done so

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<v Speaker 1>many sold that shows if you had a Royal album

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<v Speaker 1>hole before. Oh, it's like a like a massive iconic.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that the Queen's Building in the UK's like a

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<v Speaker 1>stadium sold out? How much with Apollo We've done all

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<v Speaker 1>different things. So how didy'all come up with the name

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<v Speaker 1>three Shots of Tequila? I think that was my guy

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<v Speaker 1>Keia No taser like tequila. And we didn't want a

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<v Speaker 1>podcast that was named we don't want to name to

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<v Speaker 1>be too obvious, we don't We didn't want it to

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<v Speaker 1>be like, you look at the podcast and you know

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<v Speaker 1>it's three Black boys, right, So anyone listening or reading

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<v Speaker 1>it with black free shots, sequila, what's that? So you're

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<v Speaker 1>kind of forced to listen to it to find out

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<v Speaker 1>what it's about. You automatically know that's black women, right,

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<v Speaker 1>talking shit. But the thing is, you might say we

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<v Speaker 1>talked about you might be like radio because some means right.

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<v Speaker 1>So do you know what I'm saying this? It's a

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<v Speaker 1>play on if you know, you know, if you don't,

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<v Speaker 1>it was just like Boys in the Hood. You're like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a black boys. It's something like too cliche. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that's weird. That's weird. So okay, tell me about a

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<v Speaker 1>time that you were drunk on tequila, like your crazy

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<v Speaker 1>tequila story. You gotta have one. You can't be from

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<v Speaker 1>three shots of tequila without a crazy tequila story. Do

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<v Speaker 1>you know crazy tequila story like I've been I've been

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<v Speaker 1>drunk before story. Yeah, but it's not like a crazy story.

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<v Speaker 1>You're like, all right, So one time I was in Barcelona. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>we had a book in in Barcelona. Now, um, funny enough,

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<v Speaker 1>there are some Americans there as well. Um, so the

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<v Speaker 1>club and the shots that they gave were like this

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<v Speaker 1>big massive. So we're like we've got to the bar.

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<v Speaker 1>We're like, yo, let's get shots for like everyone, not everyone,

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<v Speaker 1>but like there's about maybe using like four or five.

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<v Speaker 1>Girls were like, you just get shot for everyone, three

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<v Speaker 1>shots each. So when the guy poured these shots here,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm looking, I'm like, what was that? Three and one

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<v Speaker 1>he's gonna and that's one each. They were like, this

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<v Speaker 1>shame you took it. Yeah, so I took it obviously

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<v Speaker 1>because I ain't no, ye ain't bitch. So I took

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<v Speaker 1>the shots bang bang bang, and I'm like, yeah, I'm cool.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm all right, like this is nothing anyway. I've got

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<v Speaker 1>in the cab and then my friends pulled up next

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<v Speaker 1>to me and he's gone, you're you're drunk. I'm like no,

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<v Speaker 1>but nothing. As soon as he said I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>what it was. I was just like, it's like I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna throw up. I put my head out of the cab.

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<v Speaker 1>When I got back to the hotel, I couldn't walk,

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<v Speaker 1>like people have to help me, Like my legs were gone.

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<v Speaker 1>As I was getting dragged. Some two girls are holding me.

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<v Speaker 1>My other guy was holding me. I don't know what happened,

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<v Speaker 1>but that split second my legs went. I don't drink

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<v Speaker 1>like that normally. No, there was just a vacation. AJ.

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<v Speaker 1>You got a crazy tequila story. Not tequila. But there's

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<v Speaker 1>a reason I don't drink vodka anymore. What I got

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<v Speaker 1>in the bath tub fully clothed, with your boots on,

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<v Speaker 1>not but everything on, like everything everything. Two times i've

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<v Speaker 1>had got Maria Wanna is that video? I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to know he was. I don't want to sometimes, but

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<v Speaker 1>the two times I've had to like get escorted or

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<v Speaker 1>like helped out the club, it was on tequilas I

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<v Speaker 1>don't I mean VA, So I don't fuck with vodka.

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<v Speaker 1>I speaking to someone else and they was saying different,

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<v Speaker 1>alcohol makes them feel different. Yeah, Henny, you get I

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<v Speaker 1>think someone said Heney makes I want to fight. Vote

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<v Speaker 1>certain I call makes you more honey, certain Voca makes

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<v Speaker 1>you or I can makes you want to fight? Serious? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't. No, I don't have that going for me,

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<v Speaker 1>but I have a crazy tequilla story. Yes, I only

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<v Speaker 1>smoke if I want to have sex. If I'm in like,

0:24:10.680 --> 0:24:12.879
<v Speaker 1>I know it's about to happen, because it makes your

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<v Speaker 1>pleasure go up. Yes, it's way more in hand. No, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I do not. I have a crazy Tequilla story from

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<v Speaker 1>all right. I'm telling my age. But I remember when

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<v Speaker 1>Usha was talking about Patron and the songs. Patron just

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<v Speaker 1>came out and Usha was like talking about Patrons and

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<v Speaker 1>all the songs. I was like, I gotta try Patron.

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<v Speaker 1>I went out try Patron and got so fucking I

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<v Speaker 1>will never drink that shit again. So I was in

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<v Speaker 1>the car leaving the club with one of my home girls,

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<v Speaker 1>right and I threw up out the window and it

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<v Speaker 1>went back in the car on her in the backseat,

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<v Speaker 1>and we had the fist fight once the car stole

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<v Speaker 1>because we gotta square up. She gotta get because I

0:25:08.119 --> 0:25:11.760
<v Speaker 1>threw up on her. It was an accident, But you're

0:25:11.800 --> 0:25:14.280
<v Speaker 1>gonna fa for that. No, I guess she was one

0:25:14.320 --> 0:25:16.360
<v Speaker 1>of them want them drunks that getting mad? I want

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<v Speaker 1>to fight. She beat my ass. I was so wasted

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<v Speaker 1>I can't even fight, you know, like, yeah, but she

0:25:31.640 --> 0:25:33.960
<v Speaker 1>was drunk too, so she couldn't control. Yeah, she drunk.

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<v Speaker 1>We went to like we fought, and then we still

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<v Speaker 1>went to waffle house and they made me sit in

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<v Speaker 1>the car. They would not let me get out of

0:25:39.200 --> 0:25:40.959
<v Speaker 1>the car, and they didn't give me no food. They

0:25:41.000 --> 0:25:42.760
<v Speaker 1>were so mad at me that night, and I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>please give me something. I was like, can I have something.

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<v Speaker 1>She's like, it's grits. I was like, please give me something.

0:25:47.440 --> 0:25:49.280
<v Speaker 1>She's like, I don't have an extra fork. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>put it in my hand. She slapped grits in my

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<v Speaker 1>hand and it was like all over my face. I

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<v Speaker 1>would never drink Patrona again. I only find out what

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<v Speaker 1>Chris was the other day. What Chris was. It was

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<v Speaker 1>pool because some shit grits we probably shouldn't be in. Gritz.

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<v Speaker 1>Grits make me feel extra swollen. I love grits. Have

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<v Speaker 1>you tried it? Yeah? It's like poord y, Yeah, yeah,

0:26:12.320 --> 0:26:15.399
<v Speaker 1>I saw it. I went to somewhere yesterday and the

0:26:15.880 --> 0:26:18.639
<v Speaker 1>grit and then she showed me it was like, but

0:26:18.760 --> 0:26:21.639
<v Speaker 1>porridge is more like oatmeal to me, and gris is

0:26:21.800 --> 0:26:24.919
<v Speaker 1>not yea like cream of wheat. Gris is something different.

0:26:24.960 --> 0:26:26.960
<v Speaker 1>People do make it like that with sugar and butter.

0:26:27.040 --> 0:26:29.000
<v Speaker 1>But y'all weird if you eat it that way. Yes,

0:26:29.359 --> 0:26:31.800
<v Speaker 1>we don't. We don't eat grits. You gotta we gotta

0:26:31.840 --> 0:26:36.520
<v Speaker 1>have some grips before you leave. You don't eat, Okay,

0:26:36.520 --> 0:26:38.760
<v Speaker 1>you gotta have some grits with some eggs and bacon,

0:26:39.000 --> 0:26:42.880
<v Speaker 1>little toast with some jelly New York. Who got good

0:26:42.880 --> 0:26:50.159
<v Speaker 1>grits in New York? Huh? What's jelly? Damn damn too much? Listen,

0:26:50.760 --> 0:26:56.600
<v Speaker 1>these are crazy jelly. Yeah, some great a sweet one,

0:26:57.280 --> 0:27:00.560
<v Speaker 1>um all love it sweet. No, there's one you know

0:27:00.800 --> 0:27:06.280
<v Speaker 1>is jamservatives. Now that this this jelly. We have jelly

0:27:06.359 --> 0:27:08.119
<v Speaker 1>and we have jam. Jam is like what you put

0:27:08.200 --> 0:27:11.920
<v Speaker 1>on toast or bread. Yeah, that's that's the same thing. Yeah,

0:27:11.960 --> 0:27:15.880
<v Speaker 1>but then jelly is something else that you m behow

0:27:15.920 --> 0:27:18.680
<v Speaker 1>they make it. I'm trying to think of all y'all.

0:27:18.720 --> 0:27:26.560
<v Speaker 1>Food in England is uh, it's pretty gross. Y'all used

0:27:26.560 --> 0:27:28.920
<v Speaker 1>to eat this ship Like first of all, it would

0:27:28.920 --> 0:27:31.280
<v Speaker 1>be a little egg and a cup there's half cooked,

0:27:31.560 --> 0:27:34.840
<v Speaker 1>and then crack the egg and dip bread. You know,

0:27:34.880 --> 0:27:38.440
<v Speaker 1>it's America, Listen, what the fuck is that? We're black?

0:27:39.359 --> 0:27:41.320
<v Speaker 1>We're black in the UK. We don't eat that. That's

0:27:41.359 --> 0:27:47.400
<v Speaker 1>white people eat that, okay, soldiers. Yeah, so you cut bread,

0:27:47.480 --> 0:27:50.840
<v Speaker 1>you like bread into four and then you crack the

0:27:51.000 --> 0:27:53.240
<v Speaker 1>egg and then you dip in the bread. Into the yolk.

0:27:53.720 --> 0:27:55.800
<v Speaker 1>Oh my god. Yeah, it's scarbage, but I don't. I

0:27:55.880 --> 0:27:57.920
<v Speaker 1>don't eat that. Then it was some other ship and

0:27:57.960 --> 0:28:01.240
<v Speaker 1>I think it was called like marmalot, mama lady, and

0:28:01.359 --> 0:28:06.600
<v Speaker 1>it was like meat jelly it was. But it's some

0:28:07.160 --> 0:28:13.080
<v Speaker 1>orange jam. No no, not no orange jam like yeah, no, no, no,

0:28:13.200 --> 0:28:15.880
<v Speaker 1>that's not what I'm talking about, Mama, that's what I'm

0:28:15.920 --> 0:28:23.040
<v Speaker 1>talking about. That's meat jelly. Mama is disgusted. Mama is disgusted. Yeah,

0:28:23.200 --> 0:28:25.760
<v Speaker 1>that's a British but Mama, I think that've even got

0:28:25.800 --> 0:28:27.800
<v Speaker 1>the tape. Gliders even love it or you hate it,

0:28:28.560 --> 0:28:31.879
<v Speaker 1>so you hate it. I hate it. It's like imagine Liverpool.

0:28:31.960 --> 0:28:36.920
<v Speaker 1>You know what Liverpool. I love Liverpool, but I love

0:28:37.040 --> 0:28:44.600
<v Speaker 1>Liverpool with some grids. You gotta definitely in the jar.

0:28:45.600 --> 0:28:51.280
<v Speaker 1>Meat in the jar, bitch, nobody somebody it's not technically meat,

0:28:51.360 --> 0:28:58.560
<v Speaker 1>but it's a meat paste. I don't know what. It's

0:28:58.600 --> 0:29:01.360
<v Speaker 1>not meat though it's discussed still I know that. Yeah, man,

0:29:02.160 --> 0:29:04.920
<v Speaker 1>I listened. I was. I learned how to cook living

0:29:05.000 --> 0:29:08.160
<v Speaker 1>in England, so I lived there three years. I lived

0:29:08.200 --> 0:29:10.880
<v Speaker 1>in Suffolk, so I was in the country. I know.

0:29:11.040 --> 0:29:12.560
<v Speaker 1>But that's what I'm saying. No one, do you know,

0:29:12.640 --> 0:29:14.960
<v Speaker 1>it's about the UK. It's like once you come outside

0:29:14.960 --> 0:29:19.120
<v Speaker 1>of London, that's it. Like if no one, it's not

0:29:19.240 --> 0:29:24.840
<v Speaker 1>the same. Yeah, you got cities like Birmingham, Manchester not

0:29:25.040 --> 0:29:29.360
<v Speaker 1>in them maybe like leads Ish the like, you might

0:29:29.400 --> 0:29:34.440
<v Speaker 1>have black people like, but then after that we're like

0:29:34.560 --> 0:29:37.280
<v Speaker 1>two or three percent into population in the UK. So

0:29:37.480 --> 0:29:40.520
<v Speaker 1>UK is like sixty five billion people, there's maybe about

0:29:40.560 --> 0:29:44.640
<v Speaker 1>two million black people there. Are you African? Yeah? I

0:29:44.760 --> 0:29:48.080
<v Speaker 1>feel like every black person in Europe is African? Right,

0:29:48.200 --> 0:29:50.200
<v Speaker 1>So that's why there's always like the argument with black

0:29:50.240 --> 0:29:55.120
<v Speaker 1>Americans because know what tribe if we even came from Africa,

0:29:55.160 --> 0:29:58.280
<v Speaker 1>you know what the thing? But in in Europe, the

0:29:58.360 --> 0:30:02.280
<v Speaker 1>black people that know exactly where they came, right, I mean,

0:30:02.440 --> 0:30:04.560
<v Speaker 1>I think in terms of the UK, we've got a

0:30:04.600 --> 0:30:09.720
<v Speaker 1>lot of Nigerian's, Guardians, um, and then a sprinkle of

0:30:09.800 --> 0:30:13.400
<v Speaker 1>like other nationalities, Whereas within Europe you've got that more

0:30:13.480 --> 0:30:18.880
<v Speaker 1>like French, Africans, Cameroonians, Ivory coast um. You've got that

0:30:19.000 --> 0:30:21.560
<v Speaker 1>that kind of mix in Europe, and obviously you've got

0:30:21.640 --> 0:30:24.160
<v Speaker 1>Nigerians and Guardians as well. But in the UK has

0:30:24.160 --> 0:30:26.400
<v Speaker 1>a lot of West Indians. They to be fair, they

0:30:26.520 --> 0:30:31.200
<v Speaker 1>kind of got their first interesting like the wind Rush generation.

0:30:31.480 --> 0:30:34.080
<v Speaker 1>We heard the wind rush. The wind rush is like

0:30:34.160 --> 0:30:38.280
<v Speaker 1>the first boat that came over to the UK from

0:30:38.280 --> 0:30:41.320
<v Speaker 1>the West Indies. So after World War Two, a lot

0:30:41.360 --> 0:30:46.080
<v Speaker 1>of the UK were like, we want nurses, engineers, all

0:30:46.120 --> 0:30:51.440
<v Speaker 1>these people from the No, no, this is like nineteen fifty,

0:30:51.600 --> 0:30:54.040
<v Speaker 1>nineteen sixty wind rush year. It's it's not It's not

0:30:54.160 --> 0:30:57.680
<v Speaker 1>like that far away. And a lot with Indians came

0:30:57.800 --> 0:30:59.920
<v Speaker 1>over and then they were like helping with the nh

0:31:00.080 --> 0:31:07.320
<v Speaker 1>chess like nurses, engineers, builders, So that wave of West

0:31:07.400 --> 0:31:10.960
<v Speaker 1>Indian came into the UK. Obviously there were Africans as well,

0:31:11.360 --> 0:31:14.760
<v Speaker 1>but it was mainly West Indians um. And then that's

0:31:14.800 --> 0:31:18.720
<v Speaker 1>why there was that issue with racis them move in

0:31:18.760 --> 0:31:21.720
<v Speaker 1>the UK in the eighties because they weren't used to

0:31:22.600 --> 0:31:25.440
<v Speaker 1>black people being in their schools. So they saw black

0:31:25.480 --> 0:31:29.280
<v Speaker 1>people as adults in the fifties, but they weren't used

0:31:29.280 --> 0:31:33.360
<v Speaker 1>to like me being five years old in the nursery

0:31:33.720 --> 0:31:36.600
<v Speaker 1>in the same class as so then there was issues

0:31:36.720 --> 0:31:38.959
<v Speaker 1>with that and the police and there were so many riots.

0:31:39.160 --> 0:31:46.200
<v Speaker 1>Sounds familiar, yeah, yeah, So I spent a lot of

0:31:46.280 --> 0:31:48.240
<v Speaker 1>time in London, like every weekend we would, you know,

0:31:48.400 --> 0:31:50.800
<v Speaker 1>go into the city like and hang out. And I

0:31:50.960 --> 0:31:53.280
<v Speaker 1>felt like dating all right. At first, I was like,

0:31:53.360 --> 0:31:56.480
<v Speaker 1>oh that they sound so smart. They say brilliant. Everything's

0:31:56.480 --> 0:31:58.440
<v Speaker 1>brilliant over there, brilliant, brilliant. And I was like, all

0:31:58.480 --> 0:32:00.440
<v Speaker 1>these niggas sounds so smart. I'm gett me a real

0:32:00.480 --> 0:32:04.680
<v Speaker 1>smart ass nigga. But really it's just this ancient niggas

0:32:04.680 --> 0:32:10.480
<v Speaker 1>would have accent, you know what. That's what I kept meeting.

0:32:10.960 --> 0:32:14.280
<v Speaker 1>So let's let's talk about dating in the UK versus

0:32:14.440 --> 0:32:17.760
<v Speaker 1>dating in the stage, like because are you single? Yeah,

0:32:17.800 --> 0:32:19.760
<v Speaker 1>I'm single. I feel like it's a it's a hard

0:32:19.800 --> 0:32:22.720
<v Speaker 1>one because I won't know about dating in the US

0:32:22.760 --> 0:32:25.480
<v Speaker 1>because I'm a foreigner coming to the US, so girls

0:32:25.520 --> 0:32:27.160
<v Speaker 1>are always going to see me as like, oh I

0:32:27.240 --> 0:32:33.719
<v Speaker 1>love your accent, or you're from Britain. So I'm I'm

0:32:33.760 --> 0:32:37.680
<v Speaker 1>gonna get away with stuff that someone who lives here wouldn't. Right.

0:32:37.840 --> 0:32:39.200
<v Speaker 1>What I'm saying that if you go to go to

0:32:39.320 --> 0:32:41.880
<v Speaker 1>the UK and you meet if you're telling me African,

0:32:41.960 --> 0:32:48.680
<v Speaker 1>if you're Africans requirements crivate today, and an American girl

0:32:48.720 --> 0:32:52.360
<v Speaker 1>goes to the UK, a guy might be like your America.

0:32:52.440 --> 0:32:54.920
<v Speaker 1>Then that's it, you know what I'm saying. But I

0:32:55.080 --> 0:32:58.200
<v Speaker 1>prefer you know you're gonna getting killed. Go ahead, say

0:32:58.280 --> 0:33:02.320
<v Speaker 1>African women, not before American women to UK women. Why so,

0:33:03.080 --> 0:33:06.760
<v Speaker 1>I just feel like this list bullshit in what way?

0:33:07.240 --> 0:33:09.520
<v Speaker 1>So let us know what the European women, black women

0:33:09.600 --> 0:33:11.600
<v Speaker 1>come with, no no joys. I just feel like in

0:33:11.760 --> 0:33:16.960
<v Speaker 1>terms of the UK, we're very conservative, so it's kind

0:33:17.040 --> 0:33:19.440
<v Speaker 1>of like there's this whole I've got to be seen

0:33:19.520 --> 0:33:21.760
<v Speaker 1>to be doing the right thing, and you know that

0:33:22.240 --> 0:33:28.000
<v Speaker 1>women get judged for being being promiscuous or doing things.

0:33:28.080 --> 0:33:33.480
<v Speaker 1>So in the UK, I feel like girls more games

0:33:33.520 --> 0:33:37.000
<v Speaker 1>being played for the pussy, if that makes sense. So

0:33:37.080 --> 0:33:39.680
<v Speaker 1>are you saying American women are easy? No, I'm saying

0:33:39.720 --> 0:33:46.640
<v Speaker 1>American women that's what I heard wild. Now I'm saying

0:33:46.680 --> 0:33:49.920
<v Speaker 1>if American woman likes you, she likes you, she doesn't

0:33:50.640 --> 0:33:53.160
<v Speaker 1>wherebye know what I'm saying. Whereas in the UK girl

0:33:53.240 --> 0:33:55.120
<v Speaker 1>might like you, And this is like I would have

0:33:55.200 --> 0:33:57.560
<v Speaker 1>never known, but that's the same how we feel. I

0:33:57.640 --> 0:33:59.600
<v Speaker 1>think I feel like that about men in America, like

0:34:00.200 --> 0:34:02.840
<v Speaker 1>you gotta pretend like you don't like them, you know

0:34:02.880 --> 0:34:05.520
<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying, Right, even though you like them. You

0:34:05.600 --> 0:34:07.680
<v Speaker 1>have to pretend like you don't because for whatever reason,

0:34:07.760 --> 0:34:10.800
<v Speaker 1>men don't. They just love a challenge, chase and a

0:34:10.960 --> 0:34:14.760
<v Speaker 1>challenge you you make it too easy. Yeah, it's a problem.

0:34:15.320 --> 0:34:18.520
<v Speaker 1>Men can like you and then not tell you because

0:34:18.560 --> 0:34:22.360
<v Speaker 1>I'll hear that. But women say, I always use this analogy.

0:34:22.400 --> 0:34:24.680
<v Speaker 1>It's like a lion. If a lion's chasing the gazelle,

0:34:25.440 --> 0:34:27.239
<v Speaker 1>he's gonna chase the gazelle if he believes you can

0:34:27.320 --> 0:34:30.040
<v Speaker 1>capture gazelle. If the gazelle is a minor way, the

0:34:30.120 --> 0:34:32.320
<v Speaker 1>lion's gonna stop him in this chill. So for like

0:34:32.480 --> 0:34:35.719
<v Speaker 1>some women when they say make it difficult, or guys

0:34:35.760 --> 0:34:38.120
<v Speaker 1>are like a girl, that's easy, I hear that, but

0:34:38.800 --> 0:34:41.840
<v Speaker 1>at least let him think he can get there. But

0:34:42.000 --> 0:34:44.239
<v Speaker 1>some women do this thing where they don't even do that.

0:34:44.760 --> 0:34:48.279
<v Speaker 1>So the guy's like, I love the analogy that you

0:34:48.440 --> 0:34:51.560
<v Speaker 1>use because that's what y'all niggas like to do. Come

0:34:51.719 --> 0:34:53.560
<v Speaker 1>run up on a bitch and eat up the death

0:34:54.160 --> 0:34:56.960
<v Speaker 1>you know it then and go on about your business. Literally,

0:34:59.680 --> 0:35:01.480
<v Speaker 1>like do you do all that? You don't like me?

0:35:01.680 --> 0:35:06.520
<v Speaker 1>Like you eat my ass? You don't like me? Right? Well,

0:35:06.680 --> 0:35:10.120
<v Speaker 1>I can't speak for those fellows, but y'all eating asking me, okay,

0:35:10.320 --> 0:35:12.440
<v Speaker 1>that's a big thing in the state. I'm saying you

0:35:12.719 --> 0:35:17.080
<v Speaker 1>usually usually be eating Austins at eighties though, who say

0:35:17.160 --> 0:35:19.400
<v Speaker 1>that again? No, you guys in the y y'all just

0:35:19.480 --> 0:35:22.839
<v Speaker 1>started eating, not started, but we don't mind saying it now.

0:35:23.360 --> 0:35:26.000
<v Speaker 1>Whereas back in the day, like you guys here, because

0:35:26.000 --> 0:35:28.800
<v Speaker 1>it's the West Indies, they brought that bullshit like hiding

0:35:28.960 --> 0:35:31.799
<v Speaker 1>that they eat the pom pom when they actually yeah,

0:35:31.840 --> 0:35:34.160
<v Speaker 1>that might play around to a fire for doctor. Yeah,

0:35:34.640 --> 0:35:37.200
<v Speaker 1>you don't find out, but they definitely do it. I

0:35:37.360 --> 0:35:42.279
<v Speaker 1>had a couple some lady said to me the other day.

0:35:42.280 --> 0:35:45.400
<v Speaker 1>She was saying that if a guy leads with that,

0:35:45.840 --> 0:35:47.360
<v Speaker 1>he must have a small dick or he's not going

0:35:47.400 --> 0:35:49.640
<v Speaker 1>to the bedroom. I'm scared if you lead with that,

0:35:49.800 --> 0:35:52.120
<v Speaker 1>if a dude use that as a pickup line, I

0:35:52.200 --> 0:35:54.560
<v Speaker 1>feel like you gotta a std what I want to

0:35:54.600 --> 0:35:58.600
<v Speaker 1>eat yours? Yes, that's wild out. I want to eat.

0:35:59.280 --> 0:36:04.400
<v Speaker 1>I want to clean automatic like that. I don't like

0:36:04.520 --> 0:36:06.640
<v Speaker 1>to come at me like the hotel room in Vegas.

0:36:08.920 --> 0:36:16.279
<v Speaker 1>I think automatic. I told you of a guy with

0:36:16.320 --> 0:36:21.640
<v Speaker 1>a great head, but garbage in the I'm not a lesbian.

0:36:21.719 --> 0:36:23.320
<v Speaker 1>I need you to be able to follow up with

0:36:23.480 --> 0:36:26.359
<v Speaker 1>it mine ding go but not good down with his mouth.

0:36:26.920 --> 0:36:28.359
<v Speaker 1>I feel like you can teach him how to each

0:36:29.160 --> 0:36:32.399
<v Speaker 1>imagine this Canario. You can't teach. Why we can't teach

0:36:32.400 --> 0:36:38.600
<v Speaker 1>if we get a new man stupid? I don't like you.

0:36:38.680 --> 0:36:43.680
<v Speaker 1>Gotta you gotta choose. If I had I wanted better

0:36:44.040 --> 0:36:47.200
<v Speaker 1>dick than head. Yeah, if I had to choose, If

0:36:47.239 --> 0:36:52.880
<v Speaker 1>I had to choose, darn it. What's what about the

0:36:53.040 --> 0:36:58.160
<v Speaker 1>same question for you? But the opposite. M'd be the

0:36:58.200 --> 0:37:01.879
<v Speaker 1>same for me. But from my bridge is a lot

0:37:02.280 --> 0:37:04.200
<v Speaker 1>they would they'd rather have had them in. That's it.

0:37:04.719 --> 0:37:07.920
<v Speaker 1>Do you feel like all pussy is the same, No, impossible,

0:37:09.320 --> 0:37:12.880
<v Speaker 1>A little digga nigga say all couchie, sorry ladies, all pussies.

0:37:13.200 --> 0:37:15.719
<v Speaker 1>That's a man who has not had pussy. Yeah, yeah,

0:37:15.960 --> 0:37:19.120
<v Speaker 1>you're not good pussy. Sometimes you can tell that there's different.

0:37:19.520 --> 0:37:21.560
<v Speaker 1>Is there a difference in the actual pussy are Is

0:37:21.600 --> 0:37:23.680
<v Speaker 1>it the feelings that you have for the person that

0:37:23.880 --> 0:37:27.400
<v Speaker 1>makes it feel different, or is it really a difference

0:37:27.440 --> 0:37:30.399
<v Speaker 1>in vaginas. I think it's the full package, though, because

0:37:30.400 --> 0:37:32.720
<v Speaker 1>sometimes if a girl has a body that you desire,

0:37:33.560 --> 0:37:37.080
<v Speaker 1>then the moment you're in there, it's anything like it's

0:37:37.800 --> 0:37:44.200
<v Speaker 1>the whole New world. What's that? What Disney feel whom

0:37:44.840 --> 0:37:49.880
<v Speaker 1>Mermaids Little Mermaids. Yeah, it's a little memaid that mrmaid

0:37:49.960 --> 0:37:54.120
<v Speaker 1>pussy what I'm saying. But then some girls mermaid pussy

0:37:54.200 --> 0:37:59.120
<v Speaker 1>got giraffe pussy like tall pussy girls as well to

0:37:59.200 --> 0:38:02.080
<v Speaker 1>be fair talk girls at two girls, but funny enough

0:38:02.120 --> 0:38:05.960
<v Speaker 1>smooner girls can take it more. That sounds crazy. Still

0:38:06.040 --> 0:38:08.359
<v Speaker 1>yeah interesting A lot of time. I don't think real

0:38:08.600 --> 0:38:10.719
<v Speaker 1>skinny girls could take it. I can't for real, you

0:38:10.760 --> 0:38:13.600
<v Speaker 1>ain't about to be tearing my shit up ranting. First

0:38:13.600 --> 0:38:15.960
<v Speaker 1>of all, I don't know why niggas think, I hope

0:38:15.960 --> 0:38:19.080
<v Speaker 1>you're not like this, think that if a woman is screaming,

0:38:19.120 --> 0:38:22.080
<v Speaker 1>then she's in pleasure. But it depends on the woman though,

0:38:22.080 --> 0:38:24.279
<v Speaker 1>because some women like that. I feel like you have

0:38:24.400 --> 0:38:26.640
<v Speaker 1>to know who you're dealing with in the bedroom, because

0:38:26.640 --> 0:38:28.880
<v Speaker 1>some women like it rough and they want to get pounded.

0:38:29.360 --> 0:38:32.040
<v Speaker 1>All the women they don't want it rough, ye, And

0:38:32.080 --> 0:38:34.160
<v Speaker 1>then but when the manage used to somebody who wants

0:38:34.160 --> 0:38:35.600
<v Speaker 1>it rough and and you come over here, I'm like,

0:38:36.040 --> 0:38:41.439
<v Speaker 1>I'm really for real, Like okay, calm down, that doesn't

0:38:41.480 --> 0:38:49.280
<v Speaker 1>feel is that? What to TikTok? TikTok? What the language

0:38:49.360 --> 0:38:55.160
<v Speaker 1>barrier going on? Take time? Okay, TikTok? First, a little

0:38:55.160 --> 0:38:57.279
<v Speaker 1>bit roster because I had like a saw for a

0:38:57.320 --> 0:38:59.560
<v Speaker 1>couple of days ago. What you've been doing it? Now?

0:38:59.680 --> 0:39:02.880
<v Speaker 1>Something some girls going to talk about you and booty

0:39:02.920 --> 0:39:10.280
<v Speaker 1>Now that's a that's a coincidence, vacation on holiday holiday

0:39:10.360 --> 0:39:16.880
<v Speaker 1>boom poom. All right. So I was looking at your

0:39:16.920 --> 0:39:21.160
<v Speaker 1>Instagram and I saw that you are modeling for Daniel

0:39:22.400 --> 0:39:27.960
<v Speaker 1>Deep Dip. How'd you get into that? He's my guy?

0:39:28.080 --> 0:39:29.960
<v Speaker 1>So he was just like, you know, you've got following.

0:39:30.520 --> 0:39:33.560
<v Speaker 1>I like your style. Um, I think it'd be good

0:39:33.560 --> 0:39:35.040
<v Speaker 1>for you to model some of my bakes. And I

0:39:35.160 --> 0:39:38.360
<v Speaker 1>was like, mm hmmm. I can't really be bothered. I

0:39:38.360 --> 0:39:39.879
<v Speaker 1>don't want you want to do it. But the twenty

0:39:39.960 --> 0:39:42.000
<v Speaker 1>twenty three, let me start doing a bit more. So

0:39:42.200 --> 0:39:44.000
<v Speaker 1>just fo let me get into that bike. So I'm

0:39:44.000 --> 0:39:46.560
<v Speaker 1>trying to do a model and I'm trying to do

0:39:46.680 --> 0:39:50.439
<v Speaker 1>voice over work. I would love to do that. Yeah,

0:39:50.920 --> 0:39:55.480
<v Speaker 1>um ice over work, um for free shots. I deal

0:39:55.520 --> 0:39:59.480
<v Speaker 1>with the videos. I edit it, um the audio, the visuals.

0:40:00.120 --> 0:40:01.799
<v Speaker 1>So I'm going to get into that now that's doing

0:40:01.800 --> 0:40:04.279
<v Speaker 1>it for other people's podcasts and stuff like that. Um

0:40:05.040 --> 0:40:06.279
<v Speaker 1>So this year, I just want to try and do

0:40:06.360 --> 0:40:09.359
<v Speaker 1>as many things as possible because during Lockdown, I had

0:40:09.440 --> 0:40:12.839
<v Speaker 1>maybe like three four streams of income and like three

0:40:12.920 --> 0:40:15.560
<v Speaker 1>or four about two or three got kit and I

0:40:15.640 --> 0:40:19.680
<v Speaker 1>only had one, and I was like shit, like so

0:40:19.800 --> 0:40:21.600
<v Speaker 1>that's when I started to think, you know what, you

0:40:21.719 --> 0:40:26.640
<v Speaker 1>can't rely too much on one or two because you

0:40:26.719 --> 0:40:28.160
<v Speaker 1>never know what Tomara holds, you know what I mean.

0:40:28.280 --> 0:40:31.200
<v Speaker 1>So I'm just trying to do as much as I

0:40:31.280 --> 0:40:35.239
<v Speaker 1>can now and also save money but also enjoying my money.

0:40:35.840 --> 0:40:37.520
<v Speaker 1>So every month now I'm going on holiday. So I

0:40:37.560 --> 0:40:43.359
<v Speaker 1>went goodbye month will now this is February. Okay, cool?

0:40:43.360 --> 0:40:46.680
<v Speaker 1>So I went to Bye twice last month twice and

0:40:46.800 --> 0:40:51.160
<v Speaker 1>then I've New York. I'm gonna go Atlanta after this.

0:40:51.719 --> 0:40:54.680
<v Speaker 1>Then next month I'll leave a chill or go Gharana.

0:40:55.239 --> 0:40:57.120
<v Speaker 1>Then April again maybe the buyer. Then I'm going to

0:40:57.160 --> 0:41:00.040
<v Speaker 1>start doing like that listening. So I met him on

0:41:00.160 --> 0:41:05.040
<v Speaker 1>Instagram like a couple of years ago, right, and I

0:41:05.160 --> 0:41:07.640
<v Speaker 1>just don't even I don't even remember exactly how we

0:41:07.680 --> 0:41:10.239
<v Speaker 1>started coming because this was before we even started podcasting

0:41:11.000 --> 0:41:14.320
<v Speaker 1>um and he was in Dubai and I was in

0:41:14.440 --> 0:41:21.279
<v Speaker 1>his deal, like when are you taking meish you thought

0:41:21.280 --> 0:41:23.479
<v Speaker 1>it was a catfish? No, no, because because at first,

0:41:23.520 --> 0:41:27.880
<v Speaker 1>when you sometimes like you might get like someone follow

0:41:27.960 --> 0:41:30.640
<v Speaker 1>you and a pretty woman follows you, you look and

0:41:30.800 --> 0:41:33.520
<v Speaker 1>she's following nine thousand people and got two follows. You're

0:41:33.520 --> 0:41:35.600
<v Speaker 1>like whatever. So when I looked at your thing, I

0:41:35.640 --> 0:41:37.080
<v Speaker 1>was thinking it was the same thing that I looked

0:41:37.120 --> 0:41:39.280
<v Speaker 1>in your real and I was like, oh shit, okay,

0:41:40.040 --> 0:41:42.359
<v Speaker 1>I want following on nine thousand people. No no, I'm

0:41:42.360 --> 0:41:44.680
<v Speaker 1>not talk about you. About the other accounts, it was

0:41:44.760 --> 0:41:47.120
<v Speaker 1>like kind of and then those accounts that starts to

0:41:47.120 --> 0:41:51.719
<v Speaker 1>message you about webcom so I wasn't sure what it was.

0:41:52.080 --> 0:41:53.680
<v Speaker 1>Then when I saw your account, I was like, oh,

0:42:00.160 --> 0:42:03.239
<v Speaker 1>big ball. So all right, back to the pandemic industreams

0:42:03.239 --> 0:42:06.920
<v Speaker 1>and income. I was all this closed to making the

0:42:07.040 --> 0:42:09.719
<v Speaker 1>only fans because yeah, all right, So I have a

0:42:09.760 --> 0:42:12.360
<v Speaker 1>hair salon that was my main bread and butter, and

0:42:12.560 --> 0:42:14.920
<v Speaker 1>they shut all that shit down, you know, like they

0:42:15.040 --> 0:42:17.120
<v Speaker 1>chose it down. So we didn't have no money. I

0:42:17.200 --> 0:42:20.279
<v Speaker 1>didn't have literally almost no money coming in except for

0:42:20.440 --> 0:42:22.759
<v Speaker 1>like I got like a little biteple bait, you know

0:42:22.800 --> 0:42:25.160
<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying. But other than that, I didn't have

0:42:25.320 --> 0:42:27.680
<v Speaker 1>ship coming in, so I was gonna make me only fans.

0:42:27.719 --> 0:42:30.879
<v Speaker 1>But then I didn't want to fuck, Like I don't

0:42:30.920 --> 0:42:33.680
<v Speaker 1>want to. I'm not a porn star or someone who

0:42:33.719 --> 0:42:35.680
<v Speaker 1>would want to fuck on camera, but there's a lot

0:42:35.719 --> 0:42:37.680
<v Speaker 1>of things people do on the only thing, So that's

0:42:37.719 --> 0:42:39.600
<v Speaker 1>what I was trying to come up with, like something.

0:42:40.040 --> 0:42:41.640
<v Speaker 1>We went on eighty five South and I told my

0:42:41.800 --> 0:42:44.520
<v Speaker 1>idea and they didn't like it. All right, so this

0:42:44.800 --> 0:42:47.920
<v Speaker 1>was fucking, but it was like fucking with a mask on,

0:42:48.680 --> 0:42:52.600
<v Speaker 1>so not like a give it a second, listen listen.

0:42:52.880 --> 0:42:55.640
<v Speaker 1>So alright, think about all your favorite movies with black

0:42:55.719 --> 0:42:58.520
<v Speaker 1>sex scenes in it and putting the mask on of

0:42:58.640 --> 0:43:02.160
<v Speaker 1>the character and re enacting the scene from the movie

0:43:02.520 --> 0:43:05.600
<v Speaker 1>paper Mask, so it could be a little paper man,

0:43:05.800 --> 0:43:09.040
<v Speaker 1>you know those masks that fast, and it'll be like

0:43:09.760 --> 0:43:16.960
<v Speaker 1>paper you buck and masket on. What's love got to

0:43:17.040 --> 0:43:27.239
<v Speaker 1>do with it? Okay? All right, that was brilliant. Yes

0:43:28.960 --> 0:43:31.040
<v Speaker 1>you shouldn't do it. It will be funny though, because

0:43:31.040 --> 0:43:33.080
<v Speaker 1>if you're watching people fucking and then you're just laughing

0:43:33.120 --> 0:43:36.120
<v Speaker 1>at the same time, it's that comedic. But it's turning

0:43:36.160 --> 0:43:40.480
<v Speaker 1>you using the people's face, right, But would you do

0:43:40.680 --> 0:43:43.680
<v Speaker 1>with your only findings? I know people to do feat

0:43:44.560 --> 0:43:47.000
<v Speaker 1>They just put their feet on doing so. Then I

0:43:47.080 --> 0:43:49.200
<v Speaker 1>thought about that too, and then I was gonna do

0:43:49.320 --> 0:43:51.960
<v Speaker 1>something that was just gonna set black people back one

0:43:52.040 --> 0:43:55.759
<v Speaker 1>hundred thousand years. So right, I was gonna do. I

0:43:55.880 --> 0:44:03.080
<v Speaker 1>was gonna do slavery feet porn. What does that look like?

0:44:05.760 --> 0:44:10.480
<v Speaker 1>She's so fucking hot, slavery feet pool? Okay, this is

0:44:10.560 --> 0:44:15.560
<v Speaker 1>what does it even look like? Like like picking up

0:44:15.680 --> 0:44:20.680
<v Speaker 1>rocks and throwing them? But all right, But because I

0:44:21.200 --> 0:44:23.440
<v Speaker 1>love black people, I would never do this. But this

0:44:23.600 --> 0:44:25.719
<v Speaker 1>is my idea. Somebody, if you don't care, baby, you

0:44:25.800 --> 0:44:32.640
<v Speaker 1>can't go do it. I was gonna be barefoot running outside, right, Ye,

0:44:33.040 --> 0:44:35.759
<v Speaker 1>I was gonna run in the house and like jack

0:44:35.800 --> 0:44:39.000
<v Speaker 1>a white fake dick with my feet, with the dirty

0:44:39.480 --> 0:44:44.960
<v Speaker 1>dick with the dirty outside sleepy, No, I called, I

0:44:45.000 --> 0:44:47.919
<v Speaker 1>didn't see the angle cover. You're gonna step on someone

0:44:48.000 --> 0:44:56.719
<v Speaker 1>face or something. You into that dominatrix kind of stuff. Oh,

0:44:56.880 --> 0:45:00.160
<v Speaker 1>you have to be dominated. I like a hybrid. I

0:45:00.320 --> 0:45:03.120
<v Speaker 1>like to be like you know, And then I liked it.

0:45:03.280 --> 0:45:05.239
<v Speaker 1>Could you have a hybrid in the bedroom though, because

0:45:05.440 --> 0:45:08.680
<v Speaker 1>many speaking, you ain't grabbing my neck. No, definitely be choking.

0:45:11.960 --> 0:45:17.759
<v Speaker 1>Why nahn you if you've never had it done, you

0:45:17.800 --> 0:45:20.600
<v Speaker 1>would enjoy it. You don't like getting slapped or nothing

0:45:20.640 --> 0:45:32.640
<v Speaker 1>like that. We're still get No, I don't mind that.

0:45:33.160 --> 0:45:37.080
<v Speaker 1>A little nipple, yeah, a little nipple, little kids. Oh,

0:45:37.880 --> 0:45:39.719
<v Speaker 1>I don't mind that. I don't mind that. I like you.

0:45:39.800 --> 0:45:41.520
<v Speaker 1>I think most men like they just don't know yet.

0:45:41.960 --> 0:45:44.200
<v Speaker 1>Girl told me to slap at once. It was a

0:45:44.320 --> 0:45:52.360
<v Speaker 1>bit weird. It was kind of lapping. Well, she know

0:45:52.480 --> 0:45:55.759
<v Speaker 1>the things because she was why I didn't me so

0:45:56.960 --> 0:46:00.120
<v Speaker 1>and then she was like, slap me. So you know,

0:46:00.239 --> 0:46:02.560
<v Speaker 1>sometimes that's sex. When you're not involved in sex, sometimes

0:46:02.640 --> 0:46:04.440
<v Speaker 1>you can't I don't know. It happens if it fix

0:46:04.520 --> 0:46:14.520
<v Speaker 1>your hearing. Sometimes you can't hear clearly. I'm in the

0:46:14.640 --> 0:46:17.560
<v Speaker 1>zone and she's like, slap me, but I'm not hearing

0:46:19.280 --> 0:46:22.879
<v Speaker 1>something like what she could slap me? So I've slapped her. Yeah,

0:46:23.719 --> 0:46:27.000
<v Speaker 1>eventually then she could harder slap me a little pussy

0:46:27.120 --> 0:46:36.360
<v Speaker 1>slap me. Yeah, yeah, I know, I know harder n

0:46:39.080 --> 0:46:43.680
<v Speaker 1>yea the fun didn't you talk to her after that?

0:46:44.320 --> 0:46:46.239
<v Speaker 1>It's fine with me, I think in the bedroom anything

0:46:46.280 --> 0:46:50.960
<v Speaker 1>happens in the bedroom, it's cool. I'm saying what you

0:46:53.360 --> 0:46:59.719
<v Speaker 1>yea yo? The zone from me inside, hear from me.

0:47:00.200 --> 0:47:02.920
<v Speaker 1>I don't believe that. Why. I think that if you

0:47:03.040 --> 0:47:04.800
<v Speaker 1>mess around in there, there's a button in there, you

0:47:04.920 --> 0:47:09.319
<v Speaker 1>might confuse the anatomy of a man by hitting it. Well,

0:47:09.320 --> 0:47:11.000
<v Speaker 1>I don't think you're supposed to be up in there.

0:47:11.080 --> 0:47:13.120
<v Speaker 1>I haven't been up in there now, but I don't

0:47:13.160 --> 0:47:24.239
<v Speaker 1>think you. Yeah, but there's been buttholes and dicks for

0:47:24.320 --> 0:47:26.319
<v Speaker 1>a very long time. Like when did that come up?

0:47:26.400 --> 0:47:29.920
<v Speaker 1>When did it somebody uh discover that that was a

0:47:30.080 --> 0:47:32.960
<v Speaker 1>male of rodging his zone? When did they discover that?

0:47:33.640 --> 0:47:45.120
<v Speaker 1>I should probably happened google. Do you feel like anything?

0:47:45.280 --> 0:47:47.640
<v Speaker 1>All right? I feel like there's nothing a woman and

0:47:47.760 --> 0:47:50.919
<v Speaker 1>a man can do together that would be dem gay.

0:47:51.320 --> 0:47:53.160
<v Speaker 1>That's what you believe. I feel that way. Like so

0:47:53.280 --> 0:47:57.279
<v Speaker 1>if I stuck my finger in your butt later, it's

0:47:57.360 --> 0:48:05.400
<v Speaker 1>not gay that you give me something later. I'm joking.

0:48:05.480 --> 0:48:08.520
<v Speaker 1>You don't like it. No, I'm just I'm messing with you.

0:48:08.560 --> 0:48:11.200
<v Speaker 1>I'm messing, but I'm just saying, do you feel that way?

0:48:11.239 --> 0:48:13.000
<v Speaker 1>Do you feel like there's anything a woman and a

0:48:13.040 --> 0:48:15.279
<v Speaker 1>man can do together that would be like, oh, that's gay.

0:48:15.520 --> 0:48:17.560
<v Speaker 1>Do you know it's for me? As I've got older,

0:48:17.719 --> 0:48:21.480
<v Speaker 1>I believe there's nothing a mind a woman can do

0:48:21.560 --> 0:48:25.480
<v Speaker 1>in their bedroom for them, there's off limits because I

0:48:25.560 --> 0:48:29.560
<v Speaker 1>don't comment to other people's bedroom etiquette. For me personally,

0:48:30.719 --> 0:48:32.799
<v Speaker 1>ain't no one who's putting their finger anything in my bum.

0:48:33.000 --> 0:48:34.920
<v Speaker 1>They might help your promstate though, Like you don't have

0:48:35.040 --> 0:48:39.000
<v Speaker 1>to ill use the toilet. I'll put like a stool

0:48:39.040 --> 0:48:40.920
<v Speaker 1>under my legs. Oh you gotta what they call it?

0:48:41.560 --> 0:48:47.880
<v Speaker 1>I just use a shoe box. Yeah, I've reached my apostate.

0:48:47.960 --> 0:48:50.680
<v Speaker 1>Should be cool if you that call something or something

0:48:50.800 --> 0:48:52.840
<v Speaker 1>high or something for your feet to go up. So

0:48:53.640 --> 0:48:56.200
<v Speaker 1>because we don't use the bathroom, right, yeah, you're supposed

0:48:56.200 --> 0:49:00.239
<v Speaker 1>to down because Asians they squat on in toilet when

0:49:00.239 --> 0:49:02.120
<v Speaker 1>they have those toilets in the floor. You ever been

0:49:02.160 --> 0:49:05.239
<v Speaker 1>to China, Oh, Ukraine too, Yeah, they have like the

0:49:05.360 --> 0:49:10.080
<v Speaker 1>porcelain toilet in the floor. Squat over Us call Asians

0:49:10.120 --> 0:49:12.880
<v Speaker 1>and we call Asians is different. What do you mean

0:49:13.040 --> 0:49:17.560
<v Speaker 1>because Asians to us is like Indian Pakistani that is.

0:49:18.960 --> 0:49:22.200
<v Speaker 1>But we don't cool China. We will cool someone Chinese

0:49:22.320 --> 0:49:27.200
<v Speaker 1>or Japanese or Korean. We won't call them they are Asian. Once.

0:49:27.400 --> 0:49:30.640
<v Speaker 1>If you say Asian in the UK, you Matthews think

0:49:31.040 --> 0:49:36.960
<v Speaker 1>Indian just backwards. Okay, let's be clear because what well,

0:49:37.040 --> 0:49:39.160
<v Speaker 1>what part part of Asia were you talking about where

0:49:39.160 --> 0:49:40.960
<v Speaker 1>you saw? So I went to Hong Kong and u

0:49:41.280 --> 0:49:45.040
<v Speaker 1>guang Jao and they had the Hong Kong have toilets

0:49:45.080 --> 0:49:49.000
<v Speaker 1>like regular US American toilets, but they also have like

0:49:49.080 --> 0:49:51.720
<v Speaker 1>the party thing in the floor, but it wasn't mostly

0:49:51.760 --> 0:49:54.880
<v Speaker 1>in the whole ground in the mainland, especially a supposed

0:49:54.880 --> 0:49:57.400
<v Speaker 1>to use a toilet. Your bomb is supposed to be here.

0:49:57.600 --> 0:50:01.200
<v Speaker 1>It's like when you're squating weights. How your bumb's supposed

0:50:01.200 --> 0:50:02.759
<v Speaker 1>to be what they called bump to grass or whatever

0:50:02.800 --> 0:50:05.320
<v Speaker 1>they call it. So you're supposed to shit, I know.

0:50:05.440 --> 0:50:07.160
<v Speaker 1>So I wonder why they made the tallest the way

0:50:07.160 --> 0:50:10.319
<v Speaker 1>they do, because America is backwards with a lot of things. Yeah, yeah,

0:50:11.680 --> 0:50:18.680
<v Speaker 1>that's weird. But you're you're freaky though, you're definitely freaky American. No,

0:50:18.840 --> 0:50:25.160
<v Speaker 1>you are particular. You just said that. No, you said

0:50:25.160 --> 0:50:27.360
<v Speaker 1>there's nothing commanding and a woman could do in the

0:50:27.400 --> 0:50:30.480
<v Speaker 1>bedroom that deems that you deem it to be gad.

0:50:30.520 --> 0:50:32.440
<v Speaker 1>I'm not saying that is why you're freaking. But that

0:50:32.520 --> 0:50:39.279
<v Speaker 1>means in your head anything goes No, that's okay, cool, yeah,

0:50:39.280 --> 0:50:42.719
<v Speaker 1>because standard But you know what I'm saying. I just

0:50:43.000 --> 0:50:51.279
<v Speaker 1>feel like people as a good co host yourself, right,

0:50:51.600 --> 0:50:56.440
<v Speaker 1>I ain't no freak what they say that every woman's

0:50:56.480 --> 0:51:01.759
<v Speaker 1>a freak. You just got unlock it the right guys. Unlucky, No,

0:51:02.160 --> 0:51:05.239
<v Speaker 1>but I mean everybody has their kind of like that

0:51:05.800 --> 0:51:08.560
<v Speaker 1>you're not doing. Like I'm not into that booty and ship.

0:51:08.640 --> 0:51:13.200
<v Speaker 1>I'm not into that. That's wild eat eating or either

0:51:13.400 --> 0:51:16.080
<v Speaker 1>or I'm not and you'll be you know you eating

0:51:16.560 --> 0:51:20.719
<v Speaker 1>neither one. No, I don't like that where your ship

0:51:20.840 --> 0:51:23.160
<v Speaker 1>come from. I don't understand I don't only want to

0:51:23.239 --> 0:51:26.000
<v Speaker 1>kiss you after that? Yeah, like why you want to

0:51:26.080 --> 0:51:28.799
<v Speaker 1>lick that? I'm confused as to why that's a thing now.

0:51:31.520 --> 0:51:35.480
<v Speaker 1>Doesn't really feel good though, m just the act of

0:51:35.600 --> 0:51:39.279
<v Speaker 1>doing it. It doesn't really like feel good though. It's

0:51:39.360 --> 0:51:41.520
<v Speaker 1>kind of uncomfortable. It's like I feel like I got

0:51:41.600 --> 0:51:48.879
<v Speaker 1>a farty he's doing it to me. That's it's uncomfortable

0:51:49.000 --> 0:51:54.960
<v Speaker 1>feeling because I'm afraid. Now. Yeah, the guys, there's guys

0:51:55.000 --> 0:51:57.759
<v Speaker 1>in London that they actually like you have conversations that

0:51:58.080 --> 0:52:01.120
<v Speaker 1>bro like the feeling is they like to get their

0:52:01.160 --> 0:52:03.239
<v Speaker 1>bum Yeah, they loved it. I'm like, I don't get

0:52:03.280 --> 0:52:05.719
<v Speaker 1>I don't get it. Like like they're saying that legs

0:52:05.719 --> 0:52:07.920
<v Speaker 1>are shaking, the girls are either the legs are shaking,

0:52:08.480 --> 0:52:10.759
<v Speaker 1>they probably be on his stomach. I'm just gonna tell

0:52:10.760 --> 0:52:21.560
<v Speaker 1>your friends looking back here as fat I can't do.

0:52:21.680 --> 0:52:25.000
<v Speaker 1>I don't I'm like a man's mind. Anything that makes

0:52:25.000 --> 0:52:28.279
<v Speaker 1>me feel vulnerable, I'm not comfortable with it. Oh really Yeah,

0:52:28.600 --> 0:52:30.920
<v Speaker 1>if you're gonna eat my arms physically, are like, are

0:52:30.960 --> 0:52:37.320
<v Speaker 1>you comfortable being vulnerable? Like emotionally? Um, it depends on

0:52:37.440 --> 0:52:41.919
<v Speaker 1>them what circumstances. So if it's a funeral or something,

0:52:42.120 --> 0:52:48.080
<v Speaker 1>then I'm comfortable to only but a woman, like exposing

0:52:48.200 --> 0:52:53.440
<v Speaker 1>yourself emotionally to a woman or to your friends, I

0:52:53.480 --> 0:52:55.800
<v Speaker 1>think it depends Yeah, I think it depends on the woman,

0:52:55.920 --> 0:52:58.279
<v Speaker 1>and I think it depends on the friend. Because the

0:52:58.480 --> 0:53:01.000
<v Speaker 1>polemic socide united just someone could use it against you

0:53:01.520 --> 0:53:03.319
<v Speaker 1>at a later date. So you need to be very

0:53:03.440 --> 0:53:06.640
<v Speaker 1>sure that this person that you're telling something to is

0:53:07.480 --> 0:53:11.160
<v Speaker 1>like they're cool. Whereas if it's just someone that I'm

0:53:11.200 --> 0:53:13.920
<v Speaker 1>cool with and I've just met and we're kicking it

0:53:14.920 --> 0:53:18.200
<v Speaker 1>to like a leash like some in our secret or something.

0:53:18.760 --> 0:53:20.759
<v Speaker 1>Then we fall out and out of the blue, yeah,

0:53:20.880 --> 0:53:23.160
<v Speaker 1>this is now. So for me, I'm just very selecting

0:53:24.200 --> 0:53:28.440
<v Speaker 1>his stomach. I'm saying he was crying when I eat,

0:53:28.719 --> 0:53:35.160
<v Speaker 1>Like naw, you know what I'm saying. So, and a

0:53:35.200 --> 0:53:38.600
<v Speaker 1>lot of time with vulnerability, people want you to be

0:53:38.680 --> 0:53:44.040
<v Speaker 1>vulnerable for them, not you get So that's why a

0:53:44.080 --> 0:53:46.760
<v Speaker 1>lot of the time, it's like, oh, he was vulnerable

0:53:46.800 --> 0:53:48.640
<v Speaker 1>for me, I must be special, not the fact that,

0:53:48.719 --> 0:53:51.560
<v Speaker 1>oh he was vulnerable and I heard something that was important, right.

0:53:51.719 --> 0:53:53.080
<v Speaker 1>So that's why I feel out a lot of people

0:53:53.400 --> 0:53:55.759
<v Speaker 1>are not in it for the right reasons as well.

0:53:55.800 --> 0:53:59.560
<v Speaker 1>Sometimes interesting, Yeah, I always asked male guests, so do

0:53:59.680 --> 0:54:02.440
<v Speaker 1>you think think it's women you can't be vulnerable with

0:54:02.600 --> 0:54:04.440
<v Speaker 1>that men can't be vulnerable with? Or is it you're

0:54:04.520 --> 0:54:08.600
<v Speaker 1>homeboys you can't be vulnerable with? Why men collectively seem

0:54:08.600 --> 0:54:10.720
<v Speaker 1>to have a problem with being vulnerable because they're always

0:54:10.719 --> 0:54:14.080
<v Speaker 1>afraid like somebody's gonna use their vulnerability against them in

0:54:14.120 --> 0:54:16.680
<v Speaker 1>the midst of an argument. I feel like weel men

0:54:16.760 --> 0:54:18.759
<v Speaker 1>feel like that with women, but I feel like with

0:54:18.880 --> 0:54:21.880
<v Speaker 1>their guys. Guys are not gonna use it against you. Yes,

0:54:22.000 --> 0:54:27.080
<v Speaker 1>they dude, they'd be like nigger, they'd be laughing at y'all. No,

0:54:27.200 --> 0:54:28.680
<v Speaker 1>I think it depends on what it is. For example,

0:54:28.760 --> 0:54:32.239
<v Speaker 1>maybe if if you're like as you're getting older as

0:54:32.280 --> 0:54:35.279
<v Speaker 1>guys as well, like maybe when you're younger, you might

0:54:35.400 --> 0:54:37.120
<v Speaker 1>joke about certain things. But if a guy comes to

0:54:37.200 --> 0:54:39.719
<v Speaker 1>me now and says to me, you're all feeling a

0:54:39.760 --> 0:54:42.279
<v Speaker 1>little bit depressed or I feel like my life's a

0:54:42.320 --> 0:54:45.840
<v Speaker 1>little bit, I don't. I can't control what's going on that.

0:54:46.320 --> 0:54:50.080
<v Speaker 1>I can't make fun of that because it's serious. It's serious,

0:54:50.080 --> 0:54:51.680
<v Speaker 1>You're I'm slaying, So it's for me to be like, oh,

0:54:51.760 --> 0:54:54.120
<v Speaker 1>what's going on? But I feel that with guys, we're

0:54:54.280 --> 0:54:58.120
<v Speaker 1>very logical. So the reason the reason we don't talk

0:54:59.040 --> 0:55:02.960
<v Speaker 1>is because it's not exactly a solution to our problem,

0:55:03.040 --> 0:55:05.279
<v Speaker 1>if that makes sense. If I'm in debt of like

0:55:05.400 --> 0:55:08.840
<v Speaker 1>twenty five pounds, what's the point of me telling you

0:55:10.360 --> 0:55:12.440
<v Speaker 1>it's not going to solve my debt? Whereas I think

0:55:12.480 --> 0:55:15.040
<v Speaker 1>women are a bit different. Whereas sometimes you vent into

0:55:15.120 --> 0:55:18.279
<v Speaker 1>your home girl or a friend makes you feel better,

0:55:18.880 --> 0:55:21.000
<v Speaker 1>what if a guy it's like if I'm venting, I'm

0:55:21.000 --> 0:55:25.560
<v Speaker 1>just telling one more person my problem which is stressful anyway,

0:55:25.680 --> 0:55:27.600
<v Speaker 1>let me just deal with it. I think that's sometimes

0:55:27.640 --> 0:55:30.920
<v Speaker 1>that person they might have a way that can help

0:55:30.960 --> 0:55:35.680
<v Speaker 1>you do. Sometimes I feel like guys see it as

0:55:35.840 --> 0:55:38.040
<v Speaker 1>very logical as and like you can't help me with

0:55:38.120 --> 0:55:44.160
<v Speaker 1>what it is sometimes not going to say nothing. Oh yeah,

0:55:44.320 --> 0:55:47.160
<v Speaker 1>I mean stop trying to do everything by yourself. That's

0:55:47.160 --> 0:55:49.000
<v Speaker 1>what I would like to tell Black men. You know

0:55:49.040 --> 0:55:51.480
<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying, Like you might need somebody else even

0:55:51.520 --> 0:55:53.799
<v Speaker 1>just to talk you through it, maybe help you work

0:55:53.840 --> 0:55:56.439
<v Speaker 1>it out in your own mind, but to bottle things

0:55:56.520 --> 0:55:59.399
<v Speaker 1>in and then blame it on women that you don't

0:55:59.440 --> 0:56:02.920
<v Speaker 1>have anybody to talk to you no peace. Yeah, I

0:56:02.960 --> 0:56:05.200
<v Speaker 1>don't really blaming women. Yes they do. I see it

0:56:05.280 --> 0:56:07.400
<v Speaker 1>online all the time, Like, no, I don't see this

0:56:07.480 --> 0:56:10.239
<v Speaker 1>in my real life, right, But well no, I have

0:56:10.400 --> 0:56:12.040
<v Speaker 1>seen it in my real life. I've had been in

0:56:12.080 --> 0:56:15.120
<v Speaker 1>a relationship with somebody and they tell you something right,

0:56:15.160 --> 0:56:17.080
<v Speaker 1>and then they kind of want you to use that

0:56:17.200 --> 0:56:20.520
<v Speaker 1>to justify their bad behavior. Like I told you when

0:56:20.520 --> 0:56:23.080
<v Speaker 1>I've been through, I told you you know how I'm feeling.

0:56:23.719 --> 0:56:26.000
<v Speaker 1>But that still does not negate, Like how do you

0:56:26.080 --> 0:56:32.239
<v Speaker 1>treat me? I was, Hey, I'm going to use that

0:56:32.320 --> 0:56:35.560
<v Speaker 1>shit to justify why are you fucking up with me? No? No,

0:56:35.719 --> 0:56:37.719
<v Speaker 1>But I feel like everyone has to heal though, so

0:56:37.840 --> 0:56:40.200
<v Speaker 1>I feel like men do it, women do it like

0:56:40.960 --> 0:56:43.040
<v Speaker 1>But the bottom line is shouldn't bedating if you haven't

0:56:43.040 --> 0:56:47.080
<v Speaker 1>healed yet. True, that's the you can't be happy man.

0:56:47.239 --> 0:56:50.040
<v Speaker 1>My next man has to be happy or just understanding

0:56:50.160 --> 0:56:52.520
<v Speaker 1>enough to be Like, if I'm not happy, it's tough

0:56:52.560 --> 0:56:55.759
<v Speaker 1>to do with your use it an excuse for you.

0:56:55.960 --> 0:56:57.960
<v Speaker 1>So this is what I'm going This is how I am.

0:56:58.360 --> 0:57:00.400
<v Speaker 1>But I'm not going to affect us, but I'm going

0:57:00.440 --> 0:57:04.600
<v Speaker 1>to try to improve it. But it will affect us ultimately.

0:57:05.320 --> 0:57:08.160
<v Speaker 1>Everyone comes your baggage into relationship anyway. The older you get,

0:57:08.840 --> 0:57:12.160
<v Speaker 1>the more you've experienced the more. For example, I'm single,

0:57:12.280 --> 0:57:16.320
<v Speaker 1>so I know my net relationship. I'm very like used

0:57:16.320 --> 0:57:19.720
<v Speaker 1>to my own space, used to not asking to know one,

0:57:20.360 --> 0:57:21.880
<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying. So now I know if

0:57:21.880 --> 0:57:24.960
<v Speaker 1>I get someone, that's gonna be I can't go holiday

0:57:25.480 --> 0:57:29.400
<v Speaker 1>tomorrow without telling No. One could be somebody you really

0:57:29.480 --> 0:57:31.400
<v Speaker 1>want to do holiday with, Like it don't matter, like

0:57:31.440 --> 0:57:33.360
<v Speaker 1>we're doing this together because this is who we couldn't do.

0:57:33.480 --> 0:57:36.200
<v Speaker 1>She's my fun. Yeah, we could do, but she works

0:57:36.240 --> 0:57:39.200
<v Speaker 1>and she can't. She times maybe not asplectible as mine.

0:57:40.840 --> 0:57:43.040
<v Speaker 1>Can you date a woman who doesn't work? Like? Can

0:57:43.080 --> 0:57:46.480
<v Speaker 1>you what's the grocery store out there? Uh? Can you

0:57:46.600 --> 0:57:49.480
<v Speaker 1>date a woman that's working in tescos? Or do you

0:57:49.560 --> 0:57:52.919
<v Speaker 1>need a woman that's like making earning a good living

0:57:52.960 --> 0:57:55.920
<v Speaker 1>for herself? Now I feel like it doesn't really matter.

0:57:56.000 --> 0:57:59.800
<v Speaker 1>I don't think men go out women for that. Someone

0:58:00.120 --> 0:58:03.120
<v Speaker 1>might but the leeches. But if most men don't get

0:58:03.280 --> 0:58:07.200
<v Speaker 1>women for what they can provide financially, I don't know.

0:58:07.280 --> 0:58:10.000
<v Speaker 1>I feel like lately here in the States, I hear

0:58:10.120 --> 0:58:14.000
<v Speaker 1>men who want women who make money. Well, they say

0:58:14.440 --> 0:58:17.000
<v Speaker 1>they don't care about what a woman makes. Right on

0:58:17.120 --> 0:58:19.720
<v Speaker 1>one in in the spectrum you have them, we don't

0:58:19.760 --> 0:58:21.640
<v Speaker 1>care what you make, we don't care about your degrees

0:58:21.720 --> 0:58:24.760
<v Speaker 1>just at the third. But you in the rarest child

0:58:24.840 --> 0:58:27.640
<v Speaker 1>support over here, So you want a woman who can

0:58:27.760 --> 0:58:30.240
<v Speaker 1>help you. A lot of men are looking for help,

0:58:30.440 --> 0:58:33.840
<v Speaker 1>but they they act like, you know, it doesn't matter

0:58:33.920 --> 0:58:35.560
<v Speaker 1>if a woman has money or not. No, I think

0:58:35.720 --> 0:58:37.280
<v Speaker 1>I think we've men for example, it's not the first

0:58:37.320 --> 0:58:38.840
<v Speaker 1>one we look for. So if I meet a woman,

0:58:39.360 --> 0:58:41.120
<v Speaker 1>Like I could be in the grocery store tomorrow and

0:58:41.200 --> 0:58:43.160
<v Speaker 1>see a woman and be like, oh my god, she's beautiful.

0:58:43.480 --> 0:58:47.360
<v Speaker 1>Speak to her here, Off, we date, it's not a problem.

0:58:47.680 --> 0:58:51.000
<v Speaker 1>Or I could go to a party, a networking party,

0:58:51.040 --> 0:58:54.680
<v Speaker 1>celebrity party, meets someone there she's rich, we hear off.

0:58:54.840 --> 0:58:58.160
<v Speaker 1>It doesn't really matter as such. I think we've men

0:58:58.200 --> 0:59:01.560
<v Speaker 1>that focus is not money. But I think as maybe

0:59:01.600 --> 0:59:06.880
<v Speaker 1>you ascend and you become like rich er or more successful,

0:59:07.320 --> 0:59:10.560
<v Speaker 1>you maybe have to check your your dating poor bit

0:59:10.800 --> 0:59:13.640
<v Speaker 1>more in terms of somebody has to have something to

0:59:13.720 --> 0:59:15.640
<v Speaker 1>lose too. Yeah, yeah, yeah, if you starting to lose

0:59:15.720 --> 0:59:18.600
<v Speaker 1>to or like our money together, we can just be

0:59:18.960 --> 0:59:20.640
<v Speaker 1>a super couple of power couple, you know what I mean.

0:59:20.720 --> 0:59:23.320
<v Speaker 1>So it works both ways, But I don't think it's

0:59:24.000 --> 0:59:27.480
<v Speaker 1>that for a woman, for example, Like that's more paramount

0:59:27.520 --> 0:59:31.160
<v Speaker 1>to you. A guy that is stable than could provide right,

0:59:31.560 --> 0:59:33.800
<v Speaker 1>whereas guys were used to provide it anyway, So we

0:59:33.960 --> 0:59:36.920
<v Speaker 1>want other boxes ticks, but someone some guys aren't used

0:59:36.920 --> 0:59:39.200
<v Speaker 1>to providing their moms provided for them, you know what

0:59:39.200 --> 0:59:41.320
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying, So they kind of looking for big Mama

0:59:41.640 --> 0:59:45.320
<v Speaker 1>and their girlfriend and wife. Could you date that. Hell, No,

0:59:46.160 --> 0:59:48.640
<v Speaker 1>what depends on how much money I got. Honestly, if

0:59:48.720 --> 0:59:50.960
<v Speaker 1>I was like super rich, I hand me like a

0:59:51.040 --> 0:59:56.120
<v Speaker 1>couple of leagues a different walk, just building them up.

0:59:58.000 --> 1:00:00.760
<v Speaker 1>Could you be um? Could you ever want me to play?

1:00:02.040 --> 1:00:03.959
<v Speaker 1>I have been with one and I don't. I didn't

1:00:04.040 --> 1:00:06.600
<v Speaker 1>like it. I don't like niggas with mamma's. She don't

1:00:06.640 --> 1:00:11.480
<v Speaker 1>like for a man with mama's No, mama's dead momma.

1:00:11.920 --> 1:00:18.080
<v Speaker 1>So I'm serious. Unless your mom or your sister is

1:00:18.160 --> 1:00:21.720
<v Speaker 1>in a committed, healthy, good relationship, I'm not fucking with

1:00:21.840 --> 1:00:24.960
<v Speaker 1>you because I'm not competing with your mama and your

1:00:25.000 --> 1:00:28.400
<v Speaker 1>sister because now here I come and I'm you're doing

1:00:28.520 --> 1:00:31.480
<v Speaker 1>things for me and your sister talking shit because her

1:00:31.560 --> 1:00:34.640
<v Speaker 1>baby daddy ain't did nothing for her since before the

1:00:34.720 --> 1:00:36.360
<v Speaker 1>baby was born. You know what I'm saying, Like, I

1:00:36.400 --> 1:00:39.200
<v Speaker 1>don't feel like dealing with that type of shit. And

1:00:39.520 --> 1:00:41.680
<v Speaker 1>you know mama's mama's being all right, but it doesn't

1:00:41.720 --> 1:00:44.600
<v Speaker 1>the damn sisters. Man. I loving my boyfriend's moms, I'd

1:00:44.600 --> 1:00:47.040
<v Speaker 1>be like getting the moms to love me like and

1:00:47.160 --> 1:00:49.360
<v Speaker 1>try to get them on my side more than they see.

1:00:49.480 --> 1:00:54.880
<v Speaker 1>That's manipulation, right, So mama. Now he can't ever gate, right,

1:00:54.880 --> 1:00:56.600
<v Speaker 1>So that's how they say in the club as well,

1:00:56.680 --> 1:01:01.040
<v Speaker 1>like you um speak to the ugly friend. Yeah, if

1:01:01.040 --> 1:01:02.400
<v Speaker 1>you're the club. If I see you in the club

1:01:03.200 --> 1:01:04.600
<v Speaker 1>and you've got like an ugly friend next to you,

1:01:04.880 --> 1:01:07.960
<v Speaker 1>that's the person that I need to make sure it's

1:01:08.000 --> 1:01:12.800
<v Speaker 1>cool and then so we can be cool. Oh that's manipulation.

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<v Speaker 1>That tends to be the bodyguard. So you're gonna tell

1:01:16.640 --> 1:01:18.840
<v Speaker 1>to the ugly friend, the ugly friend, but make sure

1:01:18.880 --> 1:01:21.280
<v Speaker 1>she's gonna acknowledge her. Yeah, So like I'm not just

1:01:21.360 --> 1:01:24.880
<v Speaker 1>gonna talk to you and then not her. What's kind

1:01:24.880 --> 1:01:28.280
<v Speaker 1>of you to drink? Friend? I was like, come on, girl, Yes,

1:01:29.520 --> 1:01:36.040
<v Speaker 1>she's always the bodyguard. He was outside, he's waiting, relaxed, man,

1:01:36.440 --> 1:01:42.800
<v Speaker 1>right on, man, listen that that girl there, that girl there,

1:01:43.480 --> 1:01:48.960
<v Speaker 1>everyone knows her, but everyone knows her like it's just annoying. Serious,

1:01:49.320 --> 1:01:55.840
<v Speaker 1>I got the best pussy. She just marrinating nobody for

1:01:57.920 --> 1:02:02.200
<v Speaker 1>un I'm kept with you. I've noticed those girls there,

1:02:02.360 --> 1:02:05.240
<v Speaker 1>They're like they're always the bodyguard. I don't get it.

1:02:05.560 --> 1:02:07.320
<v Speaker 1>But is it is it an attention thing? As in

1:02:07.440 --> 1:02:09.560
<v Speaker 1>like if you go out, you don't get attention to

1:02:09.640 --> 1:02:11.840
<v Speaker 1>it makes you feel a particular weight. I think that's

1:02:11.880 --> 1:02:14.800
<v Speaker 1>what it is. They kind of get auntieing mad. Maybe

1:02:15.600 --> 1:02:18.240
<v Speaker 1>everybody wants to be desired. I get that. But then

1:02:18.480 --> 1:02:21.560
<v Speaker 1>but then don't take it out on your home girl

1:02:21.680 --> 1:02:24.520
<v Speaker 1>just got the guy that she wants. So she's talking

1:02:24.560 --> 1:02:27.760
<v Speaker 1>to you. That's what I'm saying. As in, if, for example,

1:02:28.120 --> 1:02:30.720
<v Speaker 1>I'm bothering you and she can see you don't want

1:02:30.760 --> 1:02:33.440
<v Speaker 1>to be near me, or you can see she's like,

1:02:34.040 --> 1:02:36.720
<v Speaker 1>then come in and say you're the cops here, or

1:02:36.800 --> 1:02:39.439
<v Speaker 1>save your girlfriend or whatever. How you know that ain't

1:02:39.440 --> 1:02:43.680
<v Speaker 1>the case the case because she because the girl saying yeah,

1:02:44.120 --> 1:02:47.720
<v Speaker 1>you're thinking like, okay, I'm saying well, and she's like,

1:02:48.040 --> 1:02:55.400
<v Speaker 1>that's just my ugly friend. Say that, girl, I don't

1:02:55.400 --> 1:02:57.760
<v Speaker 1>feel like I have an ugly do you can say

1:02:57.800 --> 1:03:00.720
<v Speaker 1>that all my all my girls are beautiful? Up? Oh

1:03:00.880 --> 1:03:03.000
<v Speaker 1>my god, I don't. I can't think of not one me?

1:03:04.360 --> 1:03:09.800
<v Speaker 1>All right, so you say, ain't there no more your

1:03:09.840 --> 1:03:13.280
<v Speaker 1>home girls are beautiful? I think all my friends are beautiful.

1:03:13.320 --> 1:03:15.680
<v Speaker 1>And then sometimes it's like how the person is like,

1:03:15.880 --> 1:03:18.000
<v Speaker 1>you know, they may not be like super I don't

1:03:18.040 --> 1:03:20.720
<v Speaker 1>feel like I'm super duper extra fine. You know what

1:03:20.800 --> 1:03:23.760
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying. But there are some people who are esthetically

1:03:24.280 --> 1:03:27.040
<v Speaker 1>challenge but they have a very good personality, dress nice,

1:03:27.040 --> 1:03:31.520
<v Speaker 1>they like super bad bitches. Still, it's the aura swagged out,

1:03:31.520 --> 1:03:37.200
<v Speaker 1>the energy to swag, so it's not really aesthetics. I

1:03:37.280 --> 1:03:41.960
<v Speaker 1>guess for women, we more. Y'all weigh more shallow than women.

1:03:42.320 --> 1:03:44.000
<v Speaker 1>I don't think it's a shallow thing, you though, because

1:03:44.000 --> 1:03:46.680
<v Speaker 1>I feel I just feel that we just want different things.

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<v Speaker 1>So I don't think it's a shallow thing. I don't

1:03:50.160 --> 1:03:54.360
<v Speaker 1>know it's shallow. Yeah, because you got a man he

1:03:54.440 --> 1:03:57.000
<v Speaker 1>could be like a three and he thinks he deserves

1:03:57.080 --> 1:04:00.600
<v Speaker 1>attend like nigga, no your hollow level. But then women

1:04:00.640 --> 1:04:03.360
<v Speaker 1>do the same. Women do the same thing. Women will

1:04:03.360 --> 1:04:04.960
<v Speaker 1>be a free and say I want a guide the six,

1:04:05.600 --> 1:04:07.040
<v Speaker 1>I want a guy who does this and that, And

1:04:07.080 --> 1:04:10.760
<v Speaker 1>you're like, okay, let's see how the bottom line is

1:04:10.760 --> 1:04:14.280
<v Speaker 1>this In life, everyone can want what they want, but

1:04:14.400 --> 1:04:17.640
<v Speaker 1>the profs in the pudding results. Maybe let's see what

1:04:17.720 --> 1:04:20.080
<v Speaker 1>you get. So you can want what you want either

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<v Speaker 1>be realistic or you can have a cat when you're

1:04:23.640 --> 1:04:31.320
<v Speaker 1>foolly just happy with them cats. Okay, did you date

1:04:31.360 --> 1:04:43.120
<v Speaker 1>a stripper? Seriously? Would I date a stripper. Stripper, But

1:04:43.680 --> 1:04:47.640
<v Speaker 1>for some reason, whenever Americans imitate the you can accent

1:04:47.720 --> 1:04:53.720
<v Speaker 1>you proper like exaggerate, cannot get a war. We don't

1:04:53.800 --> 1:04:57.400
<v Speaker 1>say that that's what you like. I don't feel I

1:04:57.400 --> 1:05:03.440
<v Speaker 1>to date a stripper, no ripper. Why when you say date,

1:05:03.440 --> 1:05:08.120
<v Speaker 1>what do you mean date as your girlfriend? Your mom

1:05:08.240 --> 1:05:10.960
<v Speaker 1>don't have to know. My mom will collapse. Your mom

1:05:11.040 --> 1:05:18.600
<v Speaker 1>will collapse. It's Chippa. It's Chippa. Yeah, collapse mama. Yeah,

1:05:19.240 --> 1:05:24.320
<v Speaker 1>I won't kid about that. It's chipol. Yeah, I will collapse.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm telling you listen you mom, Nah, if you

1:05:29.960 --> 1:05:32.200
<v Speaker 1>could create your ultimate woman, what would she be like?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you know I'm not good of names? You know? Oh,

1:05:37.440 --> 1:05:39.360
<v Speaker 1>so who's the person? Well played? What they played on?

1:05:40.960 --> 1:05:42.520
<v Speaker 1>You said you're not good with names? So you're thinking

1:05:42.520 --> 1:05:46.520
<v Speaker 1>about in particular? No, no, as in when you said, um,

1:05:47.080 --> 1:05:50.560
<v Speaker 1>I was just gonna think about putting people together, but okay,

1:05:50.840 --> 1:05:56.080
<v Speaker 1>I can't think of names. Um. I just like I

1:05:56.240 --> 1:06:00.720
<v Speaker 1>like shape the black women like, that's that's my my bike. Um.

1:06:02.240 --> 1:06:04.840
<v Speaker 1>I used to love like dark schemeingman when I was younger,

1:06:06.680 --> 1:06:11.560
<v Speaker 1>but now I'm not as picky, but still like my complexion,

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<v Speaker 1>So just physicals. You don't have to have no brain.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh now even looks wise? No, I mean like okay

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<v Speaker 1>okay o no no, definitely rocks in the head, got

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<v Speaker 1>kick rock um no, no, I like him. I like

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<v Speaker 1>an intelligent woman. I like um, an articulate woman, god fearing?

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<v Speaker 1>Um what else? I like a woman who has humor

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<v Speaker 1>because I cracked joke a lot. I'll make a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of jokes. Your batteries used to use banner here, banter

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<v Speaker 1>like back and forth? What do you talk? Yeah, banners

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<v Speaker 1>like this comment like comedy. But I didn't know if

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<v Speaker 1>you use it here because the word yeah, yeah, we don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you know what I mean. But if you

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<v Speaker 1>say someone's funny, you just say humor. Someone humorous, right, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>someone humorous? Um? Someone who can cook? Um else, someone

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<v Speaker 1>who can dress? Man, I can't be worrying about ye.

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<v Speaker 1>One time one time when on a date with um

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<v Speaker 1>a girl, and I'd only see that parties. So you know,

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<v Speaker 1>when you're a party, just wear like just a party dress.

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<v Speaker 1>But could it body come? So that's not easy. But

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<v Speaker 1>if you've got a body, you put it on showtime

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<v Speaker 1>in it. So I'm going to pick her up, not

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<v Speaker 1>thinking of anything, and she walked to her house. I've looked,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, what in the he's wearing a turtleneck jumper. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>like a thick one. She had like a leather jacket on. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>a jumper or when you say a jumper, because I

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<v Speaker 1>think of a one piece outfit when you say, oh no,

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<v Speaker 1>like a like a like a like a turtle a

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<v Speaker 1>sweaterwe yeah, but like a thick one, yeah, with a

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<v Speaker 1>leather jacket on. Yeah, it's just summer by the way.

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<v Speaker 1>Then she had the jeans on it. At the bottom

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<v Speaker 1>of the jeans she had like roses embroidered into you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like the scene and they were like kind of like fled.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, you had like these kind of like

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<v Speaker 1>dull kind of ballerinas shoes on. Actually move me to

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<v Speaker 1>the car. I'm looking thinking, oh my god, what year

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<v Speaker 1>was this? This was? This is might have been like

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<v Speaker 1>two thousand and twelve or something like that. No on

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<v Speaker 1>for her to be dressed like that. Eleven and we'll

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<v Speaker 1>got in cinema, but we got there early, so we

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<v Speaker 1>went into Nando's and I'm like, the area that the

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<v Speaker 1>cinema and I know a lot of people this area.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm like, I can't be seen. So I went

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<v Speaker 1>into the Nandos. That was still. So I got into Nando's.

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<v Speaker 1>I said to her, listen, oh, to sit, to take

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<v Speaker 1>that seat in the corner, and I'll just go and order.

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<v Speaker 1>And that was it. So we're in the corner and

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<v Speaker 1>Nando's and I didn't leave until the film started as

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<v Speaker 1>it Yeah, damn, it was the bad. That's something you

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<v Speaker 1>can fix though it is. But then it depends if

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<v Speaker 1>she's stubborn and she lacked her start, you can do,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying. So do you think Americas

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<v Speaker 1>could just better than UK? UK could just better than Americans?

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<v Speaker 1>I think the men in Europe drink, dressed better. I

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<v Speaker 1>think they dressed better in the UK. I think they

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<v Speaker 1>hair don't be as point as ours in the States,

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<v Speaker 1>Like niggas in the UK did not get a line

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<v Speaker 1>up all the time, like y'all shit, y'all have hair

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<v Speaker 1>grown all the way down too, before you go get

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<v Speaker 1>that shit line back up, Like what's going on? I

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<v Speaker 1>think your beauty here in terms of the beauty, like

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<v Speaker 1>the hand sung on the wigs and yeah, like your

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<v Speaker 1>your head, like you can see because there's so much

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<v Speaker 1>money here, so you're on top of your game, where

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<v Speaker 1>as the UK were like a little bit behind. Girls

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<v Speaker 1>are getting the wigs in the lage fronts and all

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<v Speaker 1>that stuff now or for a while. But use of

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<v Speaker 1>the front runners in that it was the Olympics. She's

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<v Speaker 1>gotta be getting the gold medal for her. Yeah, I agree.

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<v Speaker 1>But when it comes to fashion, I will say, like,

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<v Speaker 1>it depends, all right, it depends because in London, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean they were like, but you go out of Suffock

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<v Speaker 1>and they they got the embroidered past. That suffer. Now

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<v Speaker 1>I hear that. I hear that girl from suff Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>In terms of London, I feel like we were one

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<v Speaker 1>of the leaders in terms of dressing in terms of fashion.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's one of the couple, wasn't it fashion even

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<v Speaker 1>to your people? Not everyone? But you can see elements

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<v Speaker 1>of a lot different cultures and styles here as well.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait where your family is with Chlageville. No, I live

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<v Speaker 1>in Charlotte, North Carolina. From Columbia, South Carolina. Though, how

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<v Speaker 1>they dress there, thank you. I feel like Columbia women

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<v Speaker 1>be pretty and they dressed nice. Yeah it could be

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<v Speaker 1>like yeah, absolutely beautiful women right country thick girls, but

1:11:38.200 --> 1:11:41.519
<v Speaker 1>it's a crapshoot. Yeah, sometimes they real fly. Sometimes they

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, just like anywhere else from Stoleston, South Carolina. Okay, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like a kind of the same thing. It's the

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<v Speaker 1>country though, so it's the South Southern. I'm country. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>okay with that. I'm wear that with pride. It's not

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<v Speaker 1>as me, countries like a state of mind, Like we're

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<v Speaker 1>just the down a map. Like there are a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of people in New York City that are country as fuck,

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<v Speaker 1>but because they're further up geographically on a map, they

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<v Speaker 1>don't get see themselves country and their country as hell.

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<v Speaker 1>So to me, like I'm Southern, I'm not country. Country

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<v Speaker 1>is like I'm country. I'm awful country. I don't view

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<v Speaker 1>it like that. She doesn't mean ignorant. To me, awful

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<v Speaker 1>country is just like how you how you speak um

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<v Speaker 1>and in terms of the way you grew up, in

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<v Speaker 1>terms of maybe you weren't in the in the city,

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<v Speaker 1>you were like those more those more space. Yeah, running outside,

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<v Speaker 1>boot making move mudpies as a kid riding a huffy

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<v Speaker 1>bite mudpies there, No, it's a mud pie. You outside

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<v Speaker 1>with water and dirt and mud. Oh you don't eat

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<v Speaker 1>that all right? No, listen, clay, how usede the clay

1:12:50.080 --> 1:12:53.280
<v Speaker 1>dirt like the orange clay dirt? Why it has like

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of new tree inc in it? I do.

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<v Speaker 1>I've never done that, but I've seen a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>people do that in South Carolina. They actually eat the clay.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't do that because I was eating that marmite ship.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't eat, mama. But that's the UK thing though.

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<v Speaker 1>Ya Europe, I think it's a European. Let me tell you,

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<v Speaker 1>it's some cookies out there that I thought there was

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<v Speaker 1>regular cookies. Nice they like cookies digestives or something like that. No, man,

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<v Speaker 1>you had something else to eat because digestions a friend

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<v Speaker 1>that you have it with tea. It's a it's a cookie,

1:13:43.040 --> 1:13:45.080
<v Speaker 1>but y'all call it a biscuit. No, No, it's a biscuit.

1:13:45.120 --> 1:13:51.040
<v Speaker 1>It's cookie cookie cookies like um fire cookies, cookies the

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<v Speaker 1>one that's thick and it's like rigid and it's got

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<v Speaker 1>like pieces of ain't biscuit is made with yeast A

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<v Speaker 1>biscuits just like smooth like just you know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a cookie making. So what do y'all call a

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<v Speaker 1>biscuity anything? No? Biscuit is a scone triangle. There's a

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<v Speaker 1>scone triangle. No, No, scone is like your what a

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<v Speaker 1>biscuit is if you go to Popeyes and get busy

1:14:21.080 --> 1:14:24.519
<v Speaker 1>scones like those little triangle burnt blue from Starbucks. That's

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<v Speaker 1>what That's what we call stones, okay, and there's always

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<v Speaker 1>sweet scone is what your biscuit it's similar to. But

1:14:33.200 --> 1:14:35.880
<v Speaker 1>your biscuit scone is a bit thicker, a bit more dense.

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<v Speaker 1>But that's what I'm saying. These are things that black

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<v Speaker 1>people don't eat in the UK, like we know about it,

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<v Speaker 1>but like what black people eat in the UK. So

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<v Speaker 1>exactly for African Yes, I'm Nagean, so that Nigerian food,

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<v Speaker 1>so I'll be eating joel Off rice at bar pounded

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<v Speaker 1>see yeah yeah. Then with Indian people will have like

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<v Speaker 1>rice and peas chicken curry must like. So it turns

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<v Speaker 1>in the UK we might have that fishing chips. That's

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<v Speaker 1>the best thing there. Hold on, Tim, let's say some bills.

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<v Speaker 1>But there's no really easy way to say this. Pure

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<v Speaker 1>So we have a segment on our show called Dumb

1:15:17.920 --> 1:15:20.439
<v Speaker 1>Bitch Story or SIMP series, and you have to share

1:15:20.520 --> 1:15:23.680
<v Speaker 1>time where you got played by the opposite sex. Can

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<v Speaker 1>you think of a time and don't tell us no

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<v Speaker 1>high school ship? No, no, I'll go played. Umm was there?

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<v Speaker 1>Let me know. I'm not gonna do date spot. I

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<v Speaker 1>must have been in Um. I was in Dubai. So

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<v Speaker 1>I'm in Dubai chilling with my homeboy when the club

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<v Speaker 1>party and whatever ever, and this girl keeps looking at me.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm like, but I'm not saying nothing. I'm not cool.

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<v Speaker 1>Then the party finishes, my bridgend comes up to me

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<v Speaker 1>and he's like, my ex is here. So I'm like cool.

1:15:57.840 --> 1:15:59.519
<v Speaker 1>So I'm like, who that girl keeps watching me? He's

1:15:59.520 --> 1:16:04.519
<v Speaker 1>gonna that's my ex's friend. I say, serious, okay, cool. Anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>she comes up to me, she starts talking to me.

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<v Speaker 1>We're talking to each other or whatever. I'm driving in

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<v Speaker 1>the bay so and my apartment was like I've got

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<v Speaker 1>like a Jacuzi, um sofa bed, then another bed whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>So we get back to the apartment now and then

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<v Speaker 1>she's I want to get in Jacuzi. I want to

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<v Speaker 1>jump into Jacuzi. So I'll start Jacuzi. She jumps in it.

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<v Speaker 1>Now that she's jumping naked, so I jump in as well.

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<v Speaker 1>Then my friend. Then he's X. They didn't jump in.

1:16:35.160 --> 1:16:38.719
<v Speaker 1>They were supposed to, but I think because they're trying

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<v Speaker 1>to like speak about the past and whatever, they're doing

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<v Speaker 1>their own thing. So anytime in JACUZI with her and

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<v Speaker 1>everyone turns their back, she's feeling me up, she's rubbing

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<v Speaker 1>me whatever. The moment they come back, she stops, so

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, what's going on? But I'm thinking, kinky game. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>no problem, let's play this game. Any he cut along

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<v Speaker 1>to the short. I go to my bedroom to dry

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<v Speaker 1>off whatever. She comes in after me. One thing leads

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<v Speaker 1>to another. You start to have sex. She's like, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna come. I'm gonna come, making noise. The moment she came,

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<v Speaker 1>she was like, she got up, so I'm thinking she's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna change position or like, let's do doggie now. Whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>She walked out. She's walked out, and you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>it was mad she she walked out and it was

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<v Speaker 1>actually didn't know me. I'm like what. So in my head,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, nah, this shit't just happened. So I'm sitting

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<v Speaker 1>there and I'm like no, I'm like I'm dumbfounded. So

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<v Speaker 1>so my bedroom was like here, there's a door into

1:17:55.560 --> 1:17:58.760
<v Speaker 1>the living room, kitchen, whatever. So I've walked out and

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<v Speaker 1>then she's just there chilling like just by the war

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<v Speaker 1>ready to go. Like so my guys like, oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just gonna drop them back to I'm gonna drop

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<v Speaker 1>well and I'm gonna drop them back. So I'm looking

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<v Speaker 1>at like, wait that crazy? Are you bad? I swear

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<v Speaker 1>to you. I'm still like in like a towel and shit,

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<v Speaker 1>like I'm like, I've got like this. She was second,

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<v Speaker 1>it was like maybe I don't know about ten minutes,

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<v Speaker 1>fifteen minutes what I'm saying, that bitch came and came

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<v Speaker 1>to herself and she left. And as soon as she left,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm following me on the grammar as well. Everything Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna be honest with you. It was crazy about

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<v Speaker 1>to be honest with you. I'm about to be honest

1:18:48.240 --> 1:18:57.880
<v Speaker 1>with you that Dick might not she came. Maybe that

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<v Speaker 1>was it was Dickens. Still it was Dick. I could

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<v Speaker 1>tell because I just personally feel like she knew people.

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<v Speaker 1>I knew, Oh, she didn't want nobody. She's trying to

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<v Speaker 1>hurry out, and I didn't think you want anyone to

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<v Speaker 1>know because remember her, even her friend in the room

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<v Speaker 1>didn't know what was going on, so she was very like.

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<v Speaker 1>When I told my guy, I was like, yo, but

1:19:25.120 --> 1:19:28.840
<v Speaker 1>you know, like what happened. Even my guy was that, nah, bro,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm telling you honorable. She fucked me and she left.

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<v Speaker 1>She's gone me first I ever heard of man. He

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<v Speaker 1>was like, Na, she couldn't have. I said, bro, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>being serious. He come brow you like. She didn't say

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<v Speaker 1>nothing in the car, nothing like that happened In my head.

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<v Speaker 1>I was thinking, nah, maybe maybe I didn't. Maybe maybe

1:19:49.360 --> 1:19:52.920
<v Speaker 1>I just imagine the whole thing like, but I was thinking,

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<v Speaker 1>I just charged to the game. I just thought, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what the games, the game is what it is.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you ever see her after that? I'm I've seen

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<v Speaker 1>a sense. Was the pussy? Was it good? Do you

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<v Speaker 1>know I'm not gonna let you? I can't remember no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>because I was so no. You know is I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like because what happened afterwards consumed my whole mind. I

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<v Speaker 1>forgot the whole session in it. So because I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>that's like me, like, I'm set with you today. And

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<v Speaker 1>then the moment I'm like, has happened? No? No, no,

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<v Speaker 1>not like just leave and the guy and the guy

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<v Speaker 1>just doesn't speak to you again exactly no, But in

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<v Speaker 1>your mind you're thinking, especially I had to be in

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<v Speaker 1>the same room. She must have a boyfriend, maybe maybe

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<v Speaker 1>for the night in Dubaie. But the thing is, you

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<v Speaker 1>know me, Yeah, you can tell me that I'm cool. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not saying I promote it, but what happens to

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<v Speaker 1>the bay stage in Dubaye. But I feel like maybe

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of guys maybe speak and talk. So maybe

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<v Speaker 1>in that mind she's like, I'm not charting it. So

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<v Speaker 1>if me and you know, it's my way against yours.

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<v Speaker 1>But you didn't lose any money, right, not you don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean technically I thought you used to that. Yeah

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<v Speaker 1>you feel like you got used? I think, yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>think it used. He got used for his body, I

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<v Speaker 1>got used. How does that make you feel? Now? Today?

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<v Speaker 1>Made for a good story? Have a good story Joey's

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<v Speaker 1>I don't really yo, because if a woman told this story,

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<v Speaker 1>we'd be like, niggah, exactly, he ain't shit. You get

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<v Speaker 1>the camera tell if you're listening, you know you reggedy bitch?

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<v Speaker 1>You what film is that? Getting the way? He checks off?

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<v Speaker 1>Because it just come that in you. She came fast

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<v Speaker 1>and she put his ass out. Lea, you bitch. Name

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<v Speaker 1>of this episode. Shout out to her. Tell everybody where

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<v Speaker 1>they can find you. Plug anything that you're doing. Ye

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<v Speaker 1>all that funny when the gram Marvin, I'd be funny

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<v Speaker 1>on TikTok Marvin, I'd be um our saving thing. And

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<v Speaker 1>that's it really um oh free shops tequila underscore on

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<v Speaker 1>Instagram YouTube. That's about it. Yeah, stop chat. If you

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<v Speaker 1>enjoyed this episode, please tune in every Thursday on the

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<v Speaker 1>That this your co host AJ Holiday y'all following me

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<v Speaker 1>on the grams. Kick it Tam, y'all, It's official, Tam bam.

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<v Speaker 1>I love y'all so much, Thank y'all for tuning in,

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you for coming. Marvin yea, and we're gonna see

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<v Speaker 1>you on London. We're coming for real. Come to them.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll look after your co host person. I got you.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll blame this bitch, y'all. We love y'all. Beat now

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<v Speaker 1>and never hold your piece of ben b