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Speaker 1: Hey, Tony, what is stressing you out now about this

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Speaker 1: wedding planning?

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Speaker 2: So I have a girlfriend, I'm like surrounded by brides,

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Speaker 2: Like literally, I have four people in my immediate circle

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Speaker 2: that are getting married this year in twenty twenty four.

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Speaker 2: And one of them was talking to me the other

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Speaker 2: day and she was basically just like she's kind of

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Speaker 2: in the nitty gritty of it now, like has the date,

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Speaker 2: has the venue, has all this stuff, and she's like,

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Speaker 2: I go back. She's like, there's days that come and

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Speaker 2: go where I seriously just want to just have a

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Speaker 2: big dinner and call it a day. So Elope, no,

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Speaker 2: not a lope, have a big dinner just like not

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Speaker 2: like a wedding, like like an actual like a wedding,

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Speaker 2: but like hundress.

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Speaker 1: Like their party, Yeah, dinner party, dinner celebration, right.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like dinner party on the beach somewhere or whatever.

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Speaker 2: And it's like she says, like she goes back and

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Speaker 2: forth and she's getting into all and I'm like I

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Speaker 2: can't even make a decision. Like I'm like I can't

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Speaker 2: even make the first step because that's what's like, there's

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Speaker 2: I'm having this like decision. It's not even decision fatigue,

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Speaker 2: like I just can't decide, and decision phobia. Decision phobia.

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Speaker 2: I've never had it before, but like I can't decide.

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Speaker 2: It just feels like such a big decision.

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Speaker 1: This explains some of the things we were hearing earlier

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Speaker 1: from you this hour on the show, because you're kind

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Speaker 1: of like your brain is being the energy of Yeah,

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Speaker 1: this is taking away.

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Speaker 2: It's a space, it is, and because like as more

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Speaker 2: time goes on, like I keep thinking like, Okay, well

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Speaker 2: I want to have a baby, so let's like get

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Speaker 2: this party started, like you know what I mean, Like

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Speaker 2: it's all kind of like going in my head and

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Speaker 2: so it's like, don't overthink it.

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Speaker 1: This is exactly why I always say be very careful

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Speaker 1: when you're starting to plan a wedding, get married, because

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Speaker 1: this is the You're the product of all that stress

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Speaker 1: and anxiety. It's supposed to be celebratory and fun. It's

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Speaker 1: supposed to be the easiest thing, seamless thing. And I

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Speaker 1: see you like I'm worked up over your being worked up.

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Speaker 1: Yeah I'm worked up, and it's counterproduct. You have some advice, I.

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Speaker 3: Just you have to just start making decisions and don't

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Speaker 3: overthink it. No matter what you do, it's going to

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Speaker 3: be the happiest day of your life outside of when

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Speaker 3: your future children are born. But it's just and that's it.

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Speaker 3: At the end of the day. Just look at it

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Speaker 3: as a big party, like it's yes, it's your wedding

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Speaker 3: and you want it to be perfect, but nothing is

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Speaker 3: going to be perfect and there could think there could

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Speaker 3: be things that go wrong that day, so you just

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Speaker 3: can't dwell on them. Making the right.

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Speaker 2: Decision right now?

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Speaker 3: Is that the right venues I do this? It's I

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Speaker 3: just pick a spot, pick a date, start checking stuff

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Speaker 3: off your list, and then why did you start doing that?

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Speaker 3: You're going to feel the weight coming off your shoulder

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Speaker 3: as soon as you pick your date. Oh, it's going

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Speaker 3: to be like.

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Speaker 1: Should just pick a date already and let us all

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Speaker 1: out of the misery of stress.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I gotta talk to Oh.

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Speaker 1: Gosh, Oh no, they've shifted the date that I blocked off.

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Speaker 2: Now, yeah, there's two potential shifts.

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Speaker 1: Oh man, I thought I was perform over a holiday weekend.

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Speaker 1: Now it sounds like I'm not.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, no, not doing Oh no, that's been long gone.

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Speaker 3: You didn't tell them.

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Speaker 1: About that yet, No, she didn't tell me that I

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Speaker 1: got my family on hold.

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Speaker 3: No, she vetoed that a long time ago. Uh.

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Speaker 1: Here's the other thing I'm gonna tell you. I know

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Speaker 1: nothing about planning a wedding. I know something about what

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Speaker 1: I'm watching you go through. Yeah, get off your phone

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Speaker 1: a little.

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Speaker 2: Bit like looking people's weddings.

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Speaker 1: No, I need a little less time with you on

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Speaker 1: your phone. That's going to bring down your heart rate

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Speaker 1: a little.

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Speaker 2: Bit, you think, so I do.

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Speaker 1: It's really serious. I do. I think you're on your

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Speaker 1: phone too much in general, and this is the right

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Speaker 1: opportunity to address it.

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Speaker 2: That's true.

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Speaker 3: Everyone is on their phone too much.

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Speaker 1: She doesn't need to be adding to the anxiety that

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Speaker 1: she's got already. And it's I think it's stirring it

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Speaker 1: a little bit, honestly.

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Speaker 3: I mean this is what you say, like posting and

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Speaker 3: social media and things like that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because it gets I don't know what you noticed.

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Speaker 1: It off up to a blood pressure analyzer and see

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Speaker 1: what happens when you're on your phone, like your heart rate.

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Speaker 1: Your blood pressure goes out, your heart heart rate goes up.

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Speaker 1: It's a heart rate monitor. Heart rate goes your heart rates. Yes,

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Speaker 1: your heart rate's already up through all of this. I

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Speaker 1: think it's adding to the pressure. Try it. It's Monday.

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Speaker 1: Do a digital detox this week.

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Speaker 2: Okay, like a phone fast.

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Speaker 1: Yes, that's it. I think you know what it is,

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Speaker 1: and I'm telling you it's kind of help. All right,

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Speaker 1: watch this, we'll have a date. Well, performers will have more.

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Speaker 2: Friday, honestly results Okay, But.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I mean, very good friend to you right now.

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Speaker 2: Thank you, appreciate you. I love you mean it?

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Speaker 1: Mean it too. You don't have to mean it. If

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Speaker 1: you mean it, I mean that makes it feel the

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Speaker 1: authenticity of it. Now, I don't know if you meant it,

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Speaker 1: if you don't mean.

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Speaker 3: It, or like all the other times she says it, like.

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Speaker 1: Does she mean right? Does she doesn't mean it?

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Speaker 2: Love you mean it?

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Speaker 1: Put your phone down, We're taking a break. Morning hack

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Speaker 1: is next. Cause of m