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Speaker 1: Good evening and welcome to Turning Point.

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Speaker 2: Tonight.

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Speaker 1: We're together. We are charting the course of America's cultural comeback.

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Speaker 1: My name is Joe Bob. Thanks so much for tuning

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Speaker 1: in today. We have a fantastic treat as we've been

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Speaker 1: saying for weeks upon and the Young Women's Leadership Summit,

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Speaker 1: Turning Points Flagship Women's program happened over the weekend. Program

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Speaker 1: summit happened over the weekend, and we've got fantastic speeches

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Speaker 1: from both Charlie Kirk and Erica Kirk.

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Speaker 3: Watch and enjoy.

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Speaker 4: Thank you everybody. How great is Erica by the way,

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Speaker 4: that's not easy to do. I'll tell you what. It's amazing.

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Speaker 4: She is a out of a mom and doing we're

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Speaker 4: working on Bible in three sixty five and proclaimed streetwear.

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Speaker 4: And then she gives an amazing address like that, and

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Speaker 4: so so many friends here. You know, this is our

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Speaker 4: tenth annual Young Women's Leadership somemit. We've been doing this

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Speaker 4: for ten years real women only, because there's only such

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Speaker 4: thing as real women. I want to say a special

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Speaker 4: thank you to our friend here, Karen Dudleston from the

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Speaker 4: Dudlson Foundation. They've been so generously supporting us for years,

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Speaker 4: So thank you about you. None of this would be possible.

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Speaker 4: And so we're just gonna chat for a second here,

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Speaker 4: and then we want to open it up for questions

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Speaker 4: from you, which is the most fun but no political question.

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Speaker 4: I'll be here back, I'll be back here tomorrow. We

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Speaker 4: can do that if you want to talk about all

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Speaker 4: that fun stuff. Literally, just want questions for both of

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Speaker 4: us about relationships and raising kids and getting married and

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Speaker 4: all that stuff that you might have questions about. That's

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Speaker 4: what we want to focus this Q and A on.

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Speaker 4: So Eric, a great job again. I love you. I

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Speaker 4: love you too, babies and so a lot of these

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Speaker 4: young ladies have competing pressures right now. Okay, some might

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Speaker 4: even have parents that are like, hey, you got to

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Speaker 4: get a job, you got to build your career, you

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Speaker 4: got to build money. Marriage can come later. Marriage can

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Speaker 4: come later. However, some ladies might be getting different advice

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Speaker 4: from this conference or from even inside. They say, boy,

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Speaker 4: I might want to get married sooner rather than later.

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Speaker 4: How do they balance that in a godly and biblical way.

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Speaker 5: That's hard because usually those voices are coming from your parents.

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Speaker 5: I mean they were for me and so it's hard

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Speaker 5: because you're in that in between of honoring your parents

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Speaker 5: but also knowing that there's a conviction in your heart.

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Speaker 2: To have a family.

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Speaker 5: If you want, you can literally write down what your career,

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Speaker 5: what you want that to look like, on a piece

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Speaker 5: of paper, put in an envelope, go pursue. If you

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Speaker 5: find the right guy. That's ninety percent of the problem

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Speaker 5: is find it the right finding the right person first,

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Speaker 5: then building your life. And once you do find the

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Speaker 5: right person and your family loves them, your parents are

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Speaker 5: going to be way more understanding and into the fact

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Speaker 5: of you having a family.

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Speaker 2: I think that's ninety percent of that.

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Speaker 4: So let me ask you raise your hand. If you

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Speaker 4: had to choose between amazing career amazing family, you have

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Speaker 4: to choose who here would choose amazing career.

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Speaker 5: That's fine if you do, please, like seriously, please raise

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Speaker 5: your hand.

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Speaker 4: There's a couple of hands amazing family. Although their hands

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Speaker 4: got it okay. So for everyone that rowse at the

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Speaker 4: hand of amazing family, how many of you every single

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Speaker 4: day it's your purpose for being is finding a husband,

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Speaker 4: then every hand should then go up. But I thought

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Speaker 4: you said you want an amazing family. You have to

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Speaker 4: prioritize and aim at what you want the most. I

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Speaker 4: might be the only speaker that says this in these

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Speaker 4: next couple of days.

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Speaker 2: You just have to make sure that you find the.

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Speaker 4: Right you know, I know you have to prioritize it.

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Speaker 5: I know. But you can't be like you can't be

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Speaker 5: like a heat seeking missile where you're like you see

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Speaker 5: Like you can't you there's like some new Once I

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Speaker 5: get what you're saying, I understand his sentiment.

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Speaker 4: If you are if you're not married by the age

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Speaker 4: of thirty, you only have a fifty percent chance of

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Speaker 4: age of thirty, of a fifty percent chance of not

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Speaker 4: having kids. You should know that. Now, I'm not telling

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Speaker 4: you anything that is that provocative. It's just the data. Right,

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Speaker 4: having children our gift from the Lord, and unfortunately our

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Speaker 4: culture deemphasizes it. And again, you get what you aim at,

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Speaker 4: you get what you prioritize, and so yeah, I just

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Speaker 4: it's interesting because every hand accept a couple. And that's

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Speaker 4: what I'm not even saying which answer is right or wrong.

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Speaker 4: It's just if that matters more for you, then everything

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Speaker 4: you do on a daily basis should point towards that.

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Speaker 5: To add on to that, for the women who are

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Speaker 5: getting married after thirty, that's okay. I'm trying to bridge

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Speaker 5: the gap here because it is okay. It's not ideal,

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Speaker 5: it's not probably the best statistical odd position for you,

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Speaker 5: but it's but God is.

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Speaker 4: Good and nothing. There's nothing wrong with it. Right, it's right,

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Speaker 2: No, it's good. This is good.

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Speaker 4: If you just want happy talk that that's fine.

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Speaker 2: So how do you.

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Speaker 4: Tell young ladies to navigate the pressures of hookup culture

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Speaker 4: on a college campus where they feel pressured that if

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Speaker 4: they don't get into let's just say, sexual situations with

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Speaker 4: find a boyfriend or a husband.

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Speaker 5: He's not meant to be with you like honor. He

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Speaker 5: needs to honor your purity. Save it for your husband,

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Speaker 5: that's simple.

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Speaker 2: Save it to your husband.

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Speaker 4: Talk more about how they should go about doing that,

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Speaker 4: because the pressures are so enormous. From free contraceptives to

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Speaker 4: the podcast they listen to, how many of you feel

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Speaker 4: as if it's very difficult to maintain your purity on

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Speaker 4: a college campus. Raise your hand. Okay, not Actually it's

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Speaker 4: less than I thought, so it's easy. Good, No, I

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Speaker 4: guess it's fine. How many how many people would you

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Speaker 4: what percentage of young ladies by the time they graduate

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Speaker 4: college do you think still are virgins? Less than twenty

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Speaker 4: I just think I'm just trying to process it because

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Speaker 4: I don't think the church talks enough about purity, right.

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Speaker 4: I think it's it's incredibly important, and we should tell

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Speaker 4: young men and young ladies to save themselves from marriage.

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Speaker 4: It's a beautiful thing.

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Speaker 2: Right.

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Speaker 5: No, I agree, because a lot of people will say, well,

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Speaker 5: how do I know that I'm compatible with that person?

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Speaker 5: And nless I test drive the car before I buy it.

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Speaker 5: That's not a real thing. Don't listen to that lie,

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Speaker 5: because when you make that covenant with the Lord on

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Speaker 5: that altar, don't let that fire burn out from the altar.

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Speaker 5: That that love is so special and so powerful. You

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Speaker 5: will have natural chemistry within that marriage. It's not like

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Speaker 5: you're marrying a robot like you're You married your soulmate,

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Speaker 5: You married the person who God made for you.

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Speaker 2: You're going to be compatible. You can you should know that.

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Speaker 4: So then the question that a lot of young ladies have,

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Speaker 4: but how do you know? How do you know this

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Speaker 4: person is right? And second question, if these young ladies

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Speaker 4: have a liberal boyfriend, sure should should? Should they dump them?

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Speaker 5: How many of you have a liberal boyfriend?

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Speaker 4: You have a liberal boyfriend, don't bow her, pray for her.

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna tell you can't change them. I'll tell her

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Speaker 4: right now, you can't change No, You're great, you know.

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Speaker 4: But so how how does a young lady know? And

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Speaker 4: is it ever too early to get married? If they're

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Speaker 5: I well, if you're either way, whether you're younger, whatever

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Speaker 5: age you are, I think going through I know it

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Speaker 5: has a stigma, but premarital is amazing. You get to

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Speaker 5: learn so much about the person you're with. And I

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Speaker 5: have seen it prevent marriages that should not be happening

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Speaker 5: they're so lustful because they haven't gone down the road

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Speaker 5: of having you know, they're saving themselves, so they're just

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Speaker 5: like salivating. Go to premarital you'll learn a lot when

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Speaker 5: you know he's the one. Here's an example when Charlie

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Speaker 5: date you. You want to be with someone who has every

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Speaker 5: intention to not mess with your heart. You're gonna know,

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Speaker 5: I know it sounds cliche, but you will know he's

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Speaker 5: not gonna He's not going to treat.

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Speaker 2: You like an option.

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Speaker 4: How what advice would you give to young ladies where

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Speaker 4: they are much more more motivated than their boyfriend. How

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Speaker 4: many of you have this problem? Raise your hand, Oh

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Speaker 4: that's tough, it's a big I think it's a big problem.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Now I think that they you should both be motivated.

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Speaker 4: But if the if the woman is much more motivated

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Speaker 4: than the man, would you agree that ends up causing structurally.

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Speaker 5: Right, because that because the man then ends up leaving

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Speaker 5: I'm fine with, you know, not going any further than

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Speaker 5: you become uneven and unequally yoked in your relationship or

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Speaker 4: For me, it becomes disordered. And there wasn't a ton of hands,

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Speaker 4: a whole longer speech I could give about the problems

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Speaker 4: with male masculinity. How many of you think that the

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Speaker 4: current dating pool of young men is not great? Raise

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Speaker 4: your hand? Okay, so no, no, this is very important.

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Speaker 4: Every hand went up. This is very important. What if

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Speaker 4: I told you if every hand of young men think

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Speaker 4: that the dating pool of young women is not great?

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Speaker 4: So who's right?

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Speaker 4: You guys are right? Okay, okay. I encourage you all

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Speaker 4: to have a little more humility about them. What is

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Speaker 4: one thing young women can do better to make themselves

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Speaker 4: more appealing to men who say that the current dating

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Speaker 4: pool of young women is lackluster? I ask good questions you. Yes,

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Speaker 4: I do this for a lot.

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Speaker 5: That's why he has such a good podcast and radio show,

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Speaker 5: The Charlie Kirkshaw.

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Speaker 4: You guys liking these questions.

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Speaker 5: You know, this might be so simple, but people pick

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Speaker 5: up on the way you speak. I'm not talking about

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Speaker 5: you know, if you sound smart or whatever. I'm saying,

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Speaker 5: they will pick up if you curse, they will pick

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Speaker 5: up if you're speaking life over someone. Men hate when

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Speaker 5: women are gossiping. Literally, the fire behind your lips is

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Speaker 5: so powerful. And if you can find a way to

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Speaker 5: harness your tongue in a way that's biblical, and you

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Speaker 5: dress appropriately, you don't have everything hanging out you, you

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Speaker 5: will attract.

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Speaker 2: A different type of guy.

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Speaker 5: Now, if you're going to the club or wherever you're

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Speaker 5: going and you're trying to appease a guy that is,

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Speaker 5: are you going to bring them to your mom? Are

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Speaker 5: just be the type of woman, the godly woman that

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Speaker 5: That's a very good question because your marriage came first,

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Speaker 4: But I know you I agree with all that. Just

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00:23:50,800 --> 00:23:54,280
Speaker 4: prioritize obviously your marriage actually comes before your kids. I

437
00:23:54,320 --> 00:23:56,840
Speaker 4: know that's a provocative thing to say, but it's true.

438
00:23:57,240 --> 00:24:01,080
Speaker 4: Your relationship with your kids is important, yes, but it's

439
00:24:01,119 --> 00:24:07,040
Speaker 4: not covenantal rights. Your marriage is a covenant. Your relationship

440
00:24:07,000 --> 00:24:09,400
Speaker 4: with your kids is an outgrowth of a covenant. They're

441
00:24:09,520 --> 00:24:14,560
Speaker 4: under your stewardship, but covenantal relationships are ones that we

442
00:24:14,600 --> 00:24:18,920
Speaker 4: saw with Abraham and David and Israel and of course Jesus.

443
00:24:19,160 --> 00:24:21,800
Speaker 4: That idea of marriage being a covenant is a big,

444
00:24:21,840 --> 00:24:25,119
Speaker 4: big deal. In fact, only marriage in the Bible is

445
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Speaker 4: compared to Christ's relationship with the church. To always prioritize

446
00:24:31,160 --> 00:24:32,040
Speaker 4: your marriage. Thank you.

447
00:24:32,720 --> 00:24:34,280
Speaker 2: Yes, Hi.

448
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Speaker 8: My name is Lindsay Cameron. I'm eighteen years old and

449
00:24:36,880 --> 00:24:39,880
Speaker 8: I was homeschool and I just graduated high school. And

450
00:24:42,000 --> 00:24:45,040
Speaker 8: with graduating high school comes the question of so what

451
00:24:45,040 --> 00:24:48,000
Speaker 8: are you going to do? And to be honest, in

452
00:24:48,040 --> 00:24:50,000
Speaker 8: my career, like I want to be a mom and

453
00:24:50,000 --> 00:24:51,480
Speaker 8: I want to have kids, and I want to homeschool

454
00:24:51,520 --> 00:24:52,800
Speaker 8: them and I want to stay at home with them,

455
00:24:52,920 --> 00:24:55,760
Speaker 8: and that's just not a really acceptable answer. And I'm

456
00:24:55,760 --> 00:24:57,960
Speaker 8: struggling to really know what i want to do in

457
00:24:58,000 --> 00:25:00,480
Speaker 8: the meantime while I'm waiting to get married and how kids,

458
00:25:00,840 --> 00:25:04,800
Speaker 8: because I'm not dating and I don't see anybody that

459
00:25:04,840 --> 00:25:08,000
Speaker 8: I really want to date, and so I'm just I'm in.

460
00:25:08,200 --> 00:25:09,439
Speaker 8: And I have a lot of friends who are in

461
00:25:09,480 --> 00:25:11,960
Speaker 8: the same position too of being in this weird waiting

462
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Speaker 8: period where I don't want to go to college and

463
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Speaker 8: I don't want to commit to a career that I

464
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Speaker 8: know that I'm going to abandon once I have kids.

465
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Speaker 8: So I was just wondering if you'll had any advice

466
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Speaker 8: for that, and if you had any advice with dealing

467
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Speaker 8: with criticism, because I'm having some from the extended family.

468
00:25:27,080 --> 00:25:29,520
Speaker 2: What I know, we.

469
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Speaker 5: Talked about don't follow your don't follow your heart and

470
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Speaker 5: all that.

471
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Speaker 4: Don't follow your heart. It's a bad idea. I don't

472
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Speaker 4: do that. You laugh, but the Bible is very clear.

473
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Speaker 4: The heart is wicked. Yeah, do not follow your heart.

474
00:25:41,040 --> 00:25:43,760
Speaker 4: Your talents, right, Yes, that's correct. Yeah. I mean, so look,

475
00:25:43,760 --> 00:25:44,440
Speaker 4: what are you good at?

476
00:25:44,520 --> 00:25:47,639
Speaker 2: What are you talented at? I love people.

477
00:25:47,960 --> 00:25:50,880
Speaker 8: I love talking to people all the time, and honestly,

478
00:25:50,920 --> 00:25:53,879
Speaker 8: turning Point USA, like Alex Clark has really shaped my life.

479
00:25:53,960 --> 00:25:55,600
Speaker 8: I got really into culture of Pothecario.

480
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Speaker 2: It's kind of change my life.

481
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Speaker 8: And I mean, I would love to get involved in

482
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Speaker 8: health and wellness, but I feel like there's not a

483
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Speaker 8: really clear path for a career in that. I feel

484
00:26:03,359 --> 00:26:05,560
Speaker 8: like most people just kind of happen to fall into

485
00:26:05,600 --> 00:26:08,280
Speaker 8: it because of life circumstances, and I don't really know

486
00:26:08,320 --> 00:26:09,280
Speaker 8: where to start for that.

487
00:26:09,520 --> 00:26:11,000
Speaker 4: You'd be surprised, I mean, like, so I could give

488
00:26:11,000 --> 00:26:12,560
Speaker 4: you a million ideas, but the first thing is you're

489
00:26:12,560 --> 00:26:16,359
Speaker 4: already thinking about this correctly, which is your aim. You

490
00:26:16,400 --> 00:26:19,000
Speaker 4: got your aim right, which is important. And by the way,

491
00:26:19,000 --> 00:26:21,240
Speaker 4: if your aim is career, I'm not saying that's bad.

492
00:26:21,480 --> 00:26:25,760
Speaker 4: At least you are clear. Don't confuse yourself of your aim.

493
00:26:25,920 --> 00:26:29,320
Speaker 4: We are aiming creatures. We need something to point at.

494
00:26:29,440 --> 00:26:30,919
Speaker 4: I mean, look, there's a million things you could do.

495
00:26:30,960 --> 00:26:33,640
Speaker 4: You could work at a mobile IV clinic right as

496
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Speaker 4: an administrator, Like, there's a lot of stuff you could

497
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Speaker 4: do in that kind of Maha space. I would are

498
00:26:38,200 --> 00:26:41,520
Speaker 4: you from Texas, I'm guessing yeah, I'm from here. Okay, yeah, great,

499
00:26:41,760 --> 00:26:44,800
Speaker 4: And Dallas actually has a huge infrastructure of like new

500
00:26:44,840 --> 00:26:47,960
Speaker 4: Maha small businesses. You could work at those kind of

501
00:26:48,000 --> 00:26:51,680
Speaker 4: around that kind of genre and that outreach. I will

502
00:26:51,680 --> 00:26:55,360
Speaker 4: say though, that don't if you find your future husband

503
00:26:55,800 --> 00:26:58,880
Speaker 4: and he is godly and it passes premarital counseling, which

504
00:26:58,960 --> 00:27:02,880
Speaker 4: Eric is exactly right. Uh, do not appease extended family.

505
00:27:02,960 --> 00:27:05,400
Speaker 4: You only really have one thing to worry about, which

506
00:27:05,400 --> 00:27:07,480
Speaker 4: is the fear of the Lord. Right now, let me

507
00:27:07,560 --> 00:27:09,920
Speaker 4: just can we riff on premarital counseling for a second.

508
00:27:10,960 --> 00:27:14,240
Speaker 4: It's very, very important and it shouldn't get a bad taboo.

509
00:27:15,359 --> 00:27:17,880
Speaker 4: If you are anybody currently engaged right now, I'm sure

510
00:27:17,880 --> 00:27:20,840
Speaker 4: there's some Okay, awesome, Praise the Lord. It's amazing. Aren't

511
00:27:20,840 --> 00:27:23,800
Speaker 4: you from Canada or something? Yeah? I remember you. You

512
00:27:23,840 --> 00:27:27,080
Speaker 4: found a husband. We'll talk in a second. We'll talk

513
00:27:27,119 --> 00:27:33,399
Speaker 4: in a second. I remember. That's great. I hope you

514
00:27:33,440 --> 00:27:35,639
Speaker 4: did not find your partner here at y WLS. I

515
00:27:35,640 --> 00:27:38,160
Speaker 4: hope you. I'm kidding. So no, I'm kidding. I'm kidding.

516
00:27:38,200 --> 00:27:44,880
Speaker 4: I'm kidding. So at SaaS right. So primaral counseling. Who's

517
00:27:44,920 --> 00:27:48,240
Speaker 4: going to control the finances? Who's gonna wake up in

518
00:27:48,280 --> 00:27:49,880
Speaker 4: the middle of the night if the kid has an issue?

519
00:27:49,880 --> 00:27:51,320
Speaker 4: Are you gonna have kids? How many kids are you

520
00:27:51,320 --> 00:27:53,960
Speaker 4: going to raise the kids? Protestant or Catholic? Are you

521
00:27:54,000 --> 00:27:56,040
Speaker 4: going to read the Bible? Are you Here's a good

522
00:27:56,119 --> 00:27:59,480
Speaker 4: question in premarital counseling that most won't ask, and you

523
00:27:59,520 --> 00:28:02,960
Speaker 4: got this will save you a lot of problems. Are

524
00:28:03,040 --> 00:28:07,840
Speaker 4: you a open or closed house? Who here grew up

525
00:28:07,880 --> 00:28:09,920
Speaker 4: in an open house where all the kids would come

526
00:28:09,920 --> 00:28:12,120
Speaker 4: by in the neighborhood. You know what I'm talking about, right,

527
00:28:12,680 --> 00:28:14,600
Speaker 4: how many of you was raised in a closed house

528
00:28:14,640 --> 00:28:18,520
Speaker 4: where your parents are Okay, that's important, though, has anyone

529
00:28:18,520 --> 00:28:20,080
Speaker 4: ever told you when you look in a spouse to

530
00:28:20,119 --> 00:28:22,000
Speaker 4: ask that question where you raised in an open or

531
00:28:22,000 --> 00:28:26,560
Speaker 4: closed house? It's incredibly important because all of a sudden,

532
00:28:26,840 --> 00:28:29,639
Speaker 4: if you raise you if you marry an open house person.

533
00:28:29,760 --> 00:28:32,040
Speaker 4: This was not an issue for us, thankfully at all,

534
00:28:32,480 --> 00:28:35,399
Speaker 4: but I've seen it destroy marriages, and they've recovered some

535
00:28:35,560 --> 00:28:38,000
Speaker 4: not an open house person marries a closed house person,

536
00:28:38,040 --> 00:28:40,400
Speaker 4: they get married, they're inviting all their friends over all

537
00:28:40,440 --> 00:28:44,320
Speaker 4: the time, barbecue open up. The closed house person is like,

538
00:28:44,360 --> 00:28:48,320
Speaker 4: this is crazy. I wasn't raised like this, and none

539
00:28:48,400 --> 00:28:51,719
Speaker 4: of that gets filtered in the engagement. That's one of

540
00:28:51,760 --> 00:28:54,600
Speaker 4: like a hundred questions that that would be a good book.

541
00:28:54,600 --> 00:28:56,880
Speaker 4: We could write one hundred questions you should ask before

542
00:28:56,880 --> 00:28:59,080
Speaker 4: you get married, right, that would be a good book.

543
00:29:02,200 --> 00:29:03,960
Speaker 5: Go ahead, No, no, no, I was just saying the

544
00:29:03,960 --> 00:29:04,680
Speaker 5: homeless sacred.

545
00:29:05,200 --> 00:29:07,920
Speaker 4: I could go on, but that's like you just have

546
00:29:08,040 --> 00:29:10,640
Speaker 4: to what premarital counseling should do, which it does a

547
00:29:10,680 --> 00:29:13,640
Speaker 4: bad job of in most churches, is you must really

548
00:29:13,760 --> 00:29:18,160
Speaker 4: know the nature of your spouse introvert extrovert? What is

549
00:29:18,200 --> 00:29:21,640
Speaker 4: their love language? Right? Do they need time alone? Do

550
00:29:21,680 --> 00:29:23,680
Speaker 4: they get filled up when you spend time with them

551
00:29:24,040 --> 00:29:25,520
Speaker 4: or when they come home and they're beat down and

552
00:29:25,600 --> 00:29:27,640
Speaker 4: they need time alone. Here's a good one that almost

553
00:29:27,680 --> 00:29:31,040
Speaker 4: no pastor will ever tell you. What is a vice

554
00:29:31,120 --> 00:29:34,520
Speaker 4: that your spouse struggles with and what is an acceptable

555
00:29:34,600 --> 00:29:38,720
Speaker 4: vice and an unacceptable vice. So, for example, an acceptable

556
00:29:38,800 --> 00:29:41,920
Speaker 4: vice might be that you'll allow alcohol. We don't drink, right,

557
00:29:41,960 --> 00:29:43,600
Speaker 4: so that for us. I'm not saying you have to

558
00:29:43,640 --> 00:29:45,480
Speaker 4: do that, but for us, that's what works. So it's

559
00:29:45,480 --> 00:29:48,360
Speaker 4: not even a question. Some men like cigars. I think

560
00:29:48,360 --> 00:29:52,080
Speaker 4: they smell like, you know, dead raccoons, But that's fine.

561
00:29:52,720 --> 00:29:54,800
Speaker 4: Are you willing to smell a cigar? Have you ever

562
00:29:54,840 --> 00:29:58,600
Speaker 4: smelled a cigar? Will your house be able to withstand

563
00:29:58,680 --> 00:30:01,560
Speaker 4: cigar smoke inside your laugh thing? This is the stuff

564
00:30:01,600 --> 00:30:05,680
Speaker 4: that breaks apart marriages. This is the stuff that creates isolation,

565
00:30:05,800 --> 00:30:08,400
Speaker 4: and it must be flushed out in the engagement period,

566
00:30:08,800 --> 00:30:12,080
Speaker 4: not in the honeymoon period or two years in. And

567
00:30:12,160 --> 00:30:14,480
Speaker 4: so other vices, which is like, you know, we're not

568
00:30:14,520 --> 00:30:17,720
Speaker 4: gonna watch R rated movies or we're not gonna swear

569
00:30:19,040 --> 00:30:21,000
Speaker 4: you'd be amazed at how many marriages all of a sudden,

570
00:30:21,560 --> 00:30:25,240
Speaker 4: you know, the husband's just drop an F bomb. She's like, whoa, whoa, whoa, Like,

571
00:30:25,280 --> 00:30:28,120
Speaker 4: we don't do that around here. You see this, who's

572
00:30:28,160 --> 00:30:28,720
Speaker 4: gonna cook?

573
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Speaker 9: Right?

574
00:30:29,320 --> 00:30:31,760
Speaker 4: What does it mean to take time off? Here's another one.

575
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Speaker 4: What type of vacations are you guys gonna take? This

576
00:30:35,280 --> 00:30:36,160
Speaker 4: is very important?

577
00:30:37,720 --> 00:30:37,880
Speaker 10: Right?

578
00:30:38,440 --> 00:30:39,680
Speaker 4: Hey, so you're getting married?

579
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Speaker 1: Yes, amazing.

580
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Speaker 11: So, speaking of which, I have a winning planning question.

581
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Speaker 11: I know that this sounds a bit weird. So essentially,

582
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Speaker 11: I am facing visa visa delays. How do I deal

583
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Speaker 11: with the disappointment and the feeling of sadness of having

584
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Speaker 11: to plan for a peak winter wedding in the state

585
00:31:07,680 --> 00:31:08,360
Speaker 11: of Wisconsin.

586
00:31:11,160 --> 00:31:14,320
Speaker 4: Wait, so, okay, is it a visa question or is it?

587
00:31:14,320 --> 00:31:17,880
Speaker 11: It's so basically because of the visa delays, which is

588
00:31:17,920 --> 00:31:24,040
Speaker 11: beyond anyone's beyond pretty much anyone's control, how do I

589
00:31:24,120 --> 00:31:28,400
Speaker 11: plan for? Okay, I am going to have a wedding

590
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Speaker 11: in the peak winter when there's no outside, when when

591
00:31:32,080 --> 00:31:35,880
Speaker 11: it's really really cold, like, and I'm feeling disappointed and

592
00:31:35,920 --> 00:31:36,640
Speaker 11: sad about it.

593
00:31:36,800 --> 00:31:37,360
Speaker 2: You shouldn't.

594
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Speaker 5: The winter is actually really beautiful. There's something really, I

595
00:31:41,480 --> 00:31:44,680
Speaker 5: know it's cold, you can figure out the outfit. You

596
00:31:44,720 --> 00:31:48,760
Speaker 5: can wear a really beautiful shawl over yourself. There's way

597
00:31:48,800 --> 00:31:51,200
Speaker 5: more options for winter attire.

598
00:31:51,040 --> 00:31:53,640
Speaker 2: Than the typical think of it.

599
00:31:53,640 --> 00:31:56,600
Speaker 5: This way, your wedding is going to be amazing because

600
00:31:56,640 --> 00:31:57,960
Speaker 5: you're not having to have.

601
00:31:58,280 --> 00:32:00,320
Speaker 4: The florals and the bunch money.

602
00:32:00,360 --> 00:32:00,920
Speaker 2: You'll save a.

603
00:32:00,880 --> 00:32:06,640
Speaker 5: Ton of moneyscon. Yes, you'll get a killer deal. But

604
00:32:06,680 --> 00:32:08,840
Speaker 5: there's something special about the winter season.

605
00:32:09,720 --> 00:32:10,440
Speaker 2: There really is.

606
00:32:10,800 --> 00:32:15,560
Speaker 5: And because what comes after winter spring Metaphorically you are

607
00:32:15,640 --> 00:32:18,560
Speaker 5: springing into a new season of life. You're springing into

608
00:32:18,640 --> 00:32:23,760
Speaker 5: a beautiful marriage. Embrace the snow, Embrace the beauty of it.

609
00:32:23,760 --> 00:32:27,160
Speaker 5: It might not be ideally what you want, and that's

610
00:32:27,200 --> 00:32:30,840
Speaker 5: that's okay, because God's challenging you to release that the

611
00:32:30,920 --> 00:32:34,000
Speaker 5: wedding day is a wedding day. It's really not for you.

612
00:32:34,720 --> 00:32:37,720
Speaker 5: It's for your family. It's important on the altar that

613
00:32:37,880 --> 00:32:40,400
Speaker 5: is for you. But I'm talking about the party. It's

614
00:32:40,440 --> 00:32:43,680
Speaker 5: really not for you. It's to entertain everyone else. So

615
00:32:43,840 --> 00:32:47,280
Speaker 5: just hold true to the fact that what matters the most,

616
00:32:47,680 --> 00:32:50,360
Speaker 5: regardless of the season, is the man and the woman

617
00:32:50,440 --> 00:32:52,680
Speaker 5: standing at the altar and that covenant you're making it

618
00:32:52,720 --> 00:32:55,560
Speaker 5: could be raining, it could be snowing, it could be

619
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Speaker 5: one hundred and some degrees like our wedding. That didn't

620
00:32:58,440 --> 00:33:02,640
Speaker 5: stop us. What's so important is is that marriage and

621
00:33:02,640 --> 00:33:05,520
Speaker 5: that because when you guys get married, that's your family.

622
00:33:06,520 --> 00:33:10,720
Speaker 5: Your husband's your family, everyone else's relatives, that's your husband.

623
00:33:11,200 --> 00:33:13,520
Speaker 4: Congratulations, And I want to use you as an example.

624
00:33:13,600 --> 00:33:16,400
Speaker 4: What's your name again, Vicki? And that was last year

625
00:33:16,440 --> 00:33:19,080
Speaker 4: when you gave the question two years ago, so that was.

626
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Speaker 11: In twenty twenty four, So that was last year.

627
00:33:21,240 --> 00:33:23,280
Speaker 4: So Vicky came up last year and said, how do

628
00:33:23,360 --> 00:33:26,280
Speaker 4: I meet a husband? And she made her priority and

629
00:33:26,320 --> 00:33:30,840
Speaker 4: a year later she's engaged. How awesome, Thank you very much,

630
00:33:30,920 --> 00:33:34,600
Speaker 4: we got thank you, thank you. Next question, Yes, hi.

631
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Speaker 2: Erica, Charlie.

632
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Speaker 9: I'm Melissa, and my question is I'm twenty and I'm

633
00:33:38,360 --> 00:33:41,040
Speaker 9: single and I want to get married young. However, every

634
00:33:41,120 --> 00:33:43,160
Speaker 9: almost every woman in my life is telling me that

635
00:33:43,200 --> 00:33:45,560
Speaker 9: I'm not missing out anything. Do you have any response to.

636
00:33:45,480 --> 00:33:47,200
Speaker 2: That the women that are married.

637
00:33:47,680 --> 00:33:50,080
Speaker 11: Yes, well, that's so sad, so sad.

638
00:33:51,480 --> 00:33:53,080
Speaker 2: That's really sad.

639
00:33:54,440 --> 00:33:57,280
Speaker 4: What I mean as far as like having kids or

640
00:33:57,280 --> 00:33:58,440
Speaker 4: the relationship or just.

641
00:33:58,400 --> 00:34:01,440
Speaker 9: Like getting married young. Because when I tell people like

642
00:34:01,480 --> 00:34:03,160
Speaker 9: my parents are really supportive about it. But when I

643
00:34:03,200 --> 00:34:05,720
Speaker 9: tell other people, like in church, like outside of church,

644
00:34:05,720 --> 00:34:06,800
Speaker 9: I won't get any young.

645
00:34:07,400 --> 00:34:08,840
Speaker 2: They look down on me.

646
00:34:09,000 --> 00:34:10,960
Speaker 9: Like why they like they tell me to, you know,

647
00:34:11,000 --> 00:34:13,560
Speaker 9: get go to college, to get a career. So like,

648
00:34:14,280 --> 00:34:15,920
Speaker 9: what is like a good response to that?

649
00:34:16,040 --> 00:34:17,319
Speaker 2: And like what should I be doing?

650
00:34:17,320 --> 00:34:19,279
Speaker 9: Because I don't I don't feel like I'm missing out,

651
00:34:19,640 --> 00:34:21,560
Speaker 9: but I'm not sure, Like what I should be doing?

652
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Speaker 4: What church do you go to? I must have missed

653
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Speaker 4: it in Matthew, which is go forth and become a

654
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Speaker 4: CEO of a shoe company. You'd be fruitful and multiply,

655
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Speaker 4: Like I mean, first of all, you are hitting a

656
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Speaker 4: very fundamental and precious point. I've said for a long time,

657
00:34:39,160 --> 00:34:43,920
Speaker 4: we as Christians have done a crappy job of glorifying

658
00:34:43,920 --> 00:34:45,160
Speaker 4: and celebrating marriage.

659
00:34:45,400 --> 00:34:45,480
Speaker 5: It.

660
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Speaker 4: In fact, when we first got married, I heard almost

661
00:34:47,719 --> 00:34:50,799
Speaker 4: more negatives than positives, like oh, you're gonna be have

662
00:34:50,880 --> 00:34:54,839
Speaker 4: your handcuffs or oh, marriage is the most awesome thing ever. Everybody,

663
00:34:54,960 --> 00:34:55,560
Speaker 4: it's amazing.

664
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Speaker 2: And I think.

665
00:35:00,080 --> 00:35:04,080
Speaker 5: It's because they didn't have good examples to look towards themselves,

666
00:35:04,640 --> 00:35:07,640
Speaker 5: so they either settled or they're not happy because either

667
00:35:07,760 --> 00:35:11,000
Speaker 5: something in their life they didn't settle and get fixed

668
00:35:11,000 --> 00:35:17,400
Speaker 5: prior to getting marriage. They're unequally yoked. It's sad, but honestly,

669
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Speaker 5: I feel like it's like I talked about, that's a

670
00:35:19,320 --> 00:35:22,440
Speaker 5: form of spiritual warfare, Like the enemies will use anybody

671
00:35:22,719 --> 00:35:26,000
Speaker 5: to keep you from where God needs you to be.

672
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Speaker 2: So smile and wave.

673
00:35:29,120 --> 00:35:30,840
Speaker 5: Just feel like, I'm so sorry that happened to you.

674
00:35:30,880 --> 00:35:33,920
Speaker 5: It's not gonna happen to me. And you just you

675
00:35:33,960 --> 00:35:36,560
Speaker 5: say I'll be praying for you. I mean, marriage is beautiful,

676
00:35:37,040 --> 00:35:40,040
Speaker 5: don't let that deter you. It's another thing too. I'd

677
00:35:40,080 --> 00:35:43,360
Speaker 5: like motherhood's the same thing. There are so many Christian

678
00:35:43,440 --> 00:35:45,680
Speaker 5: moms who will get on social media and they'll say

679
00:35:45,880 --> 00:35:50,480
Speaker 5: I'm so tired, I need wine. My child's driving me nuts.

680
00:35:50,920 --> 00:35:58,239
Speaker 5: Like no, no, motherhood is beautiful. It's exhausting, but it's beautiful.

681
00:35:58,920 --> 00:36:04,200
Speaker 5: And it's not gonna be those sleepless nights. Yeah, one day,

682
00:36:04,239 --> 00:36:06,160
Speaker 5: your kid's probably not gonna go home until midnight, So

683
00:36:06,160 --> 00:36:08,719
Speaker 5: the sleepless nights gets like a little bit construed. But

684
00:36:09,320 --> 00:36:12,640
Speaker 5: you will sleep again, you will have you know your

685
00:36:12,760 --> 00:36:17,400
Speaker 5: time again. But I feel so bad for the women

686
00:36:17,480 --> 00:36:20,640
Speaker 5: not being able to have people to look towards for

687
00:36:21,840 --> 00:36:24,480
Speaker 5: marriage and motherhood because they've just a complaining about it mostly,

688
00:36:24,520 --> 00:36:25,080
Speaker 5: which is sad.

689
00:36:25,560 --> 00:36:27,480
Speaker 4: Great question. We have time for about two or three

690
00:36:27,480 --> 00:36:29,880
Speaker 4: more if we go quick. Really, I have to do

691
00:36:29,880 --> 00:36:32,160
Speaker 4: this before I forget who here knows. Nobody in the

692
00:36:32,200 --> 00:36:33,680
Speaker 4: room raise your hand anybody?

693
00:36:33,920 --> 00:36:35,279
Speaker 2: Oh that's cool, all.

694
00:36:35,239 --> 00:36:38,799
Speaker 4: Right for those of you that knowpe keep your hands up.

695
00:36:38,840 --> 00:36:39,440
Speaker 4: Keep your hands up.

696
00:36:39,480 --> 00:36:39,839
Speaker 2: I like that.

697
00:36:39,920 --> 00:36:42,480
Speaker 4: Everybody around the people raising your hands. Now you have

698
00:36:42,520 --> 00:36:46,480
Speaker 4: to introduce yourself and then we fix that problem. No, seriously,

699
00:36:46,520 --> 00:36:50,480
Speaker 4: go do that right now and say where you're from.

700
00:36:50,640 --> 00:36:51,280
Speaker 2: That's sweet.

701
00:36:53,080 --> 00:36:58,440
Speaker 4: Let's sweet, and now you have friends, You're welcomed. That's

702
00:36:58,480 --> 00:37:00,560
Speaker 4: what the Young Women's Leadership something at all about. How

703
00:37:00,600 --> 00:37:05,520
Speaker 4: great is that? It's next question?

704
00:37:07,960 --> 00:37:11,560
Speaker 12: Hi, mister Kirk. My name is Naveah. I'm eighteen years

705
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Speaker 12: old and I was homeschooled my whole life and just

706
00:37:14,200 --> 00:37:20,080
Speaker 12: graduated last year, thank you. So right now I'm in

707
00:37:20,080 --> 00:37:23,680
Speaker 12: that period of my life where I'm trying to establish myself.

708
00:37:23,719 --> 00:37:26,920
Speaker 12: So I've been working for myself online as a YouTuber

709
00:37:26,960 --> 00:37:30,120
Speaker 12: and a podcaster from the time I was fifteen, and

710
00:37:30,120 --> 00:37:32,319
Speaker 12: I'm actually trying to work for you right now. So

711
00:37:32,400 --> 00:37:35,440
Speaker 12: that's what I've been focusing on. But I do have

712
00:37:35,480 --> 00:37:38,520
Speaker 12: a really strong desire as a Christian to eventually get

713
00:37:38,560 --> 00:37:40,600
Speaker 12: married and have children, and I want to homeschool my

714
00:37:40,680 --> 00:37:43,640
Speaker 12: kids as well eventually. So I'm wondering what your advice

715
00:37:43,719 --> 00:37:47,000
Speaker 12: is for balancing those two desires and what to prioritize

716
00:37:47,000 --> 00:37:49,160
Speaker 12: at what stage in your life. Since women can't have.

717
00:37:49,160 --> 00:37:56,920
Speaker 5: It all, women care they can have it all, but

718
00:37:56,960 --> 00:38:04,040
Speaker 5: it's not simultaneously like different seasons. Your career again, like

719
00:38:04,080 --> 00:38:06,600
Speaker 5: I said, is not going anywhere. So what you're establishing

720
00:38:06,640 --> 00:38:08,960
Speaker 5: now on YouTube and your platform and all that stuff,

721
00:38:09,239 --> 00:38:10,440
Speaker 5: it's not going anywhere.

722
00:38:10,920 --> 00:38:12,400
Speaker 2: What I will recommend though.

723
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Speaker 5: Is when you do have children, do not use your

724
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Speaker 5: children as ponds for a discount code.

725
00:38:17,239 --> 00:38:18,040
Speaker 2: Do not use your.

726
00:38:18,000 --> 00:38:24,719
Speaker 5: Child for a free stroller for some influencer thing. Your

727
00:38:24,800 --> 00:38:26,839
Speaker 5: children are sacred. Protect them.

728
00:38:27,320 --> 00:38:28,399
Speaker 2: That is your role as a mother.

729
00:38:29,160 --> 00:38:31,960
Speaker 5: Your platform was given to you by God, so stewart

730
00:38:32,000 --> 00:38:34,880
Speaker 5: it well and Stuart properly. But it's not going to

731
00:38:34,920 --> 00:38:36,799
Speaker 5: go anywhere. What you're building now is not going to

732
00:38:36,800 --> 00:38:38,399
Speaker 5: get destroyed. I think that's what a lot of people

733
00:38:38,400 --> 00:38:40,839
Speaker 5: get misconstrued is thinking like, Okay, what I'm building now

734
00:38:40,880 --> 00:38:42,640
Speaker 5: is going to be worthless once I have a family. No,

735
00:38:42,840 --> 00:38:45,840
Speaker 5: God will redirect it. He'll turn it into whatever it

736
00:38:45,880 --> 00:38:48,640
Speaker 5: needs to turn into. Pray on it because it's not

737
00:38:48,760 --> 00:38:51,520
Speaker 5: always super clear, but it will come to you. And

738
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Speaker 5: I think that, yes, every season is going to come

739
00:38:54,800 --> 00:38:59,279
Speaker 5: and have its own time and turn. But if this

740
00:38:59,360 --> 00:39:02,440
Speaker 5: is what you're focusing on right now, like that's what

741
00:39:02,480 --> 00:39:03,359
Speaker 5: you're focusing on.

742
00:39:03,320 --> 00:39:04,839
Speaker 2: I mean, I don't.

743
00:39:05,920 --> 00:39:07,840
Speaker 4: I think you're in a great spot, honestly, And Erica

744
00:39:07,880 --> 00:39:12,000
Speaker 4: answered it beautifully. So again, if you you have to

745
00:39:12,000 --> 00:39:15,080
Speaker 4: always prioritize what you what matters most, and with that,

746
00:39:15,160 --> 00:39:17,600
Speaker 4: the Lord will open up the right doors. Thank you.

747
00:39:18,160 --> 00:39:20,160
Speaker 4: All right, let's see how quick this one is. This

748
00:39:20,239 --> 00:39:21,160
Speaker 4: might be the last question.

749
00:39:21,239 --> 00:39:24,600
Speaker 10: Yes, okay, Hi guys, my name is Lily. So one

750
00:39:24,640 --> 00:39:26,600
Speaker 10: thing is a piece of advice I'd love. The other

751
00:39:26,880 --> 00:39:29,960
Speaker 10: is a question whichever one you guys have time for. So,

752
00:39:30,040 --> 00:39:32,440
Speaker 10: first of all, with gentle parenting and then you have

753
00:39:32,520 --> 00:39:35,920
Speaker 10: like abusive homes, what is the balance of biblical discipline

754
00:39:35,960 --> 00:39:39,600
Speaker 10: and love? And also I would love advice for if

755
00:39:39,719 --> 00:39:41,399
Speaker 10: you know you have a godly guy in your life.

756
00:39:41,400 --> 00:39:46,279
Speaker 10: You guys agree on a lot of things spiritually and politically,

757
00:39:46,520 --> 00:39:48,399
Speaker 10: but you still feel like there's a little bit more

758
00:39:48,440 --> 00:39:50,360
Speaker 10: maturity that needs to go. How do you wait on

759
00:39:50,360 --> 00:39:51,680
Speaker 10: the Lord and how do you go about that.

760
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Speaker 2: I'll take the second one.

761
00:39:54,480 --> 00:39:56,400
Speaker 5: That's say, I'll take the first one too, but I

762
00:39:56,440 --> 00:39:56,920
Speaker 5: want to hear.

763
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Speaker 2: I mean it's powerfully hear. Father.

764
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Speaker 4: The most important thing is a is that you must

765
00:40:02,080 --> 00:40:05,160
Speaker 4: instill self control and not self esteem for your kid.

766
00:40:05,520 --> 00:40:09,400
Speaker 4: Whatever it takes, you must have them understand the power

767
00:40:09,400 --> 00:40:11,480
Speaker 4: of restraint, which is a fruit of the spirit. Remember,

768
00:40:11,520 --> 00:40:14,680
Speaker 4: self control is a fruit of the spirit. That's much

769
00:40:14,680 --> 00:40:19,160
Speaker 4: easier said than done. Right, I could tell you more

770
00:40:19,160 --> 00:40:20,839
Speaker 4: about what not to do and what we're not doing

771
00:40:20,880 --> 00:40:22,560
Speaker 4: them what we're doing, because we're still figuring it out,

772
00:40:22,560 --> 00:40:24,600
Speaker 4: but we know what not to do. It is a

773
00:40:24,880 --> 00:40:28,960
Speaker 4: It is a civilizational tragedy. When Eric and I go

774
00:40:29,040 --> 00:40:31,360
Speaker 4: out with our two kids to eat and we go

775
00:40:31,400 --> 00:40:34,400
Speaker 4: look at another family and everyone has their eyes on

776
00:40:34,440 --> 00:40:39,399
Speaker 4: a screen, I just it is so beyond I don't

777
00:40:39,400 --> 00:40:41,319
Speaker 4: want to sound judgmental. Maybe they had like a long

778
00:40:41,400 --> 00:40:44,560
Speaker 4: day at work or something. I really find no excuse

779
00:40:44,600 --> 00:40:48,120
Speaker 4: whatsoever because these kids put on these headphones and they

780
00:40:48,200 --> 00:40:51,520
Speaker 4: just escape reality staring at these screens all day long

781
00:40:51,920 --> 00:40:56,240
Speaker 4: and it's really really bad everybody, and it's totally unnecessary.

782
00:40:56,560 --> 00:40:59,480
Speaker 4: We have a very hyperactive two year old. You just

783
00:40:59,520 --> 00:41:02,719
Speaker 4: you have to just have them color something, have them right.

784
00:41:03,120 --> 00:41:06,080
Speaker 5: I bring an arsenal of a backpack, I have plato,

785
00:41:06,239 --> 00:41:09,160
Speaker 5: I have paints, I have anything.

786
00:41:09,200 --> 00:41:09,920
Speaker 2: You can imagine.

787
00:41:09,960 --> 00:41:10,360
Speaker 4: Totally.

788
00:41:10,440 --> 00:41:13,080
Speaker 5: You just load up that bag and that's but you're

789
00:41:13,200 --> 00:41:16,440
Speaker 5: teaching them. You make it fun. Here's your fancy napkin.

790
00:41:16,560 --> 00:41:18,759
Speaker 5: You get to order like this is really special. If

791
00:41:18,760 --> 00:41:20,560
Speaker 5: they have to get up and go outside and run around,

792
00:41:20,840 --> 00:41:23,680
Speaker 5: so be it. But you're teaching them how to interact

793
00:41:23,680 --> 00:41:26,000
Speaker 5: with adults. You're teaching them how to be patient. If

794
00:41:26,040 --> 00:41:27,919
Speaker 5: you're putting a screen in front of them, you're teaching

795
00:41:27,960 --> 00:41:29,160
Speaker 5: them a way to escape.

796
00:41:29,239 --> 00:41:31,920
Speaker 4: The data shows this, but we anecdotally can confirm this.

797
00:41:32,400 --> 00:41:35,800
Speaker 4: Even like five minutes of screen time, they get braddier. Yeah,

798
00:41:35,880 --> 00:41:38,799
Speaker 4: they get more unruly. They just kind of get disconnected

799
00:41:38,800 --> 00:41:41,120
Speaker 4: from where they are. We could see a total behavioral

800
00:41:41,120 --> 00:41:44,480
Speaker 4: difference with our daughter as soon as there's like a

801
00:41:44,480 --> 00:41:45,680
Speaker 4: screen introduced.

802
00:41:45,239 --> 00:41:47,520
Speaker 5: Even if it's just Spotify, Like if even if she's like,

803
00:41:47,560 --> 00:41:47,960
Speaker 5: I want.

804
00:41:47,840 --> 00:41:50,480
Speaker 2: To choose my song, do you want to know so? Moon?

805
00:41:51,160 --> 00:41:54,719
Speaker 5: And she but like five minutes later, she's like, you can't.

806
00:41:54,960 --> 00:41:57,600
Speaker 4: It's like she's droned in. So we have one screen

807
00:41:57,680 --> 00:42:00,680
Speaker 4: for the whole family Central and it's same is Matt Walsh,

808
00:42:00,680 --> 00:42:02,800
Speaker 4: and I kind of got this from him. There's agreed

809
00:42:02,880 --> 00:42:05,320
Speaker 4: upon stuff that we're allowed to watch as a family,

810
00:42:05,360 --> 00:42:07,839
Speaker 4: and it's a very very short list, right, It's like

811
00:42:08,040 --> 00:42:12,040
Speaker 4: Bob Ross, Mister Rogers, and then the Chicago Cubs and

812
00:42:12,080 --> 00:42:14,840
Speaker 4: the Charlie Kirkshow and the Charlie kirk Show. And we

813
00:42:14,840 --> 00:42:16,920
Speaker 4: don't allow it later in the day unless the clubs

814
00:42:16,960 --> 00:42:18,960
Speaker 4: are playing. That's a whole separate issue. They happened, they

815
00:42:18,960 --> 00:42:21,759
Speaker 4: happen to be good this year, and then maybe some

816
00:42:21,880 --> 00:42:26,080
Speaker 4: college football. But that's like, we're so careful because and

817
00:42:26,239 --> 00:42:27,799
Speaker 4: that we can do the whole parenting. But as far

818
00:42:27,800 --> 00:42:30,640
Speaker 4: as this, this is a very difficult thing and it's

819
00:42:30,680 --> 00:42:33,520
Speaker 4: hard for it's very hard actually, but it must be said.

820
00:42:33,560 --> 00:42:37,239
Speaker 4: You are not your kid's friend. But it deserves so

821
00:42:37,480 --> 00:42:40,879
Speaker 4: the women. You deserve so much credit for keeping church

822
00:42:40,920 --> 00:42:44,719
Speaker 4: attendance alive, for serving in the churches, for volunteering in

823
00:42:44,760 --> 00:42:49,319
Speaker 4: the churches, for keeping the entire faith robust. And now

824
00:42:49,320 --> 00:42:51,759
Speaker 4: we're seeing a resurgence of young men finally come back.

825
00:42:52,040 --> 00:42:54,759
Speaker 4: It's something I don't think that's always articulated of how

826
00:42:54,800 --> 00:42:58,319
Speaker 4: the American Church has really been saved and strengthened by

827
00:42:58,320 --> 00:42:59,680
Speaker 4: women in America. Final thoughts.

828
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Speaker 5: So, something that he does support into me emotionally is

829
00:43:05,200 --> 00:43:09,200
Speaker 5: or to just check in from that standpoint is if

830
00:43:09,320 --> 00:43:11,560
Speaker 5: he comes home, he's tired, how'd you ja great? Blah

831
00:43:11,560 --> 00:43:15,600
Speaker 5: blah blah, and I'm still cooking whatever. On his sabbath,

832
00:43:15,640 --> 00:43:17,680
Speaker 5: when he has a moment, he writes me a note.

833
00:43:18,200 --> 00:43:21,160
Speaker 5: He has not missed one. He writes me a note,

834
00:43:21,400 --> 00:43:23,279
Speaker 5: either leaves it on my pillow, hands it to me.

835
00:43:23,719 --> 00:43:26,080
Speaker 5: I've saved every single one of them in those notes

836
00:43:27,160 --> 00:43:32,000
Speaker 5: are what refill me emotionally if I need that filling.

837
00:43:32,480 --> 00:43:33,640
Speaker 2: He's very good about that.

838
00:43:34,000 --> 00:43:37,160
Speaker 5: So when you're in a relationship, how it's important to

839
00:43:37,200 --> 00:43:39,759
Speaker 5: know your spouse's nature, it's also important to know your own.

840
00:43:40,600 --> 00:43:43,040
Speaker 5: What do you want him to do to help pour

841
00:43:43,120 --> 00:43:46,080
Speaker 5: into your emotional side? What is something that makes you

842
00:43:46,120 --> 00:43:47,800
Speaker 5: tick in your heart tick? Do you want him to

843
00:43:47,800 --> 00:43:49,080
Speaker 5: write you a note? Do you want him to tell

844
00:43:49,120 --> 00:43:49,840
Speaker 5: you you're beautiful?

845
00:43:49,840 --> 00:43:51,080
Speaker 2: Do you want him to take you on a date.

846
00:43:51,120 --> 00:43:52,799
Speaker 2: Do you want him to bring you flowers? Do you

847
00:43:52,840 --> 00:43:54,759
Speaker 2: hate flowers? Do you want a cake?

848
00:43:55,239 --> 00:43:58,560
Speaker 5: Like? You learn what will speak to you so that

849
00:43:58,640 --> 00:44:01,560
Speaker 5: you can check that box head even on a day

850
00:44:01,560 --> 00:44:04,160
Speaker 5: where he says five words, but he brought you flowers

851
00:44:04,200 --> 00:44:07,239
Speaker 5: and you're like, wow, I feel loved. I get it,

852
00:44:07,640 --> 00:44:10,359
Speaker 5: just like be sure to communicate that though he can't

853
00:44:10,400 --> 00:44:14,319
Speaker 5: read your brain. It's the famous thing of where do

854
00:44:14,360 --> 00:44:16,439
Speaker 5: you want to go eat for dinner? I don't care.

855
00:44:16,760 --> 00:44:19,560
Speaker 5: We'll go to Chipotle. I don't want Chipotle. Like you

856
00:44:19,719 --> 00:44:22,319
Speaker 5: need to be able to know your own nature, to

857
00:44:22,360 --> 00:44:24,279
Speaker 5: tell your husband, not train him.

858
00:44:24,800 --> 00:44:27,719
Speaker 2: But is a team. This is what I want. This

859
00:44:27,760 --> 00:44:30,240
Speaker 2: is what I expect. I love you so much. Please,

860
00:44:30,320 --> 00:44:30,640
Speaker 2: this is.

861
00:44:30,600 --> 00:44:32,719
Speaker 5: How you can pour into me. How can I pour

862
00:44:32,800 --> 00:44:34,920
Speaker 5: into you? Charlie and I check in with each other

863
00:44:34,960 --> 00:44:37,160
Speaker 5: every single day. How can I serve you better? What

864
00:44:37,160 --> 00:44:38,560
Speaker 5: can I do for you to make it better when

865
00:44:38,560 --> 00:44:40,360
Speaker 5: you get home? Is there anything that you need me

866
00:44:40,400 --> 00:44:41,759
Speaker 5: to have ready for you when you come back from

867
00:44:41,800 --> 00:44:42,759
Speaker 5: the office or this trip?

868
00:44:42,920 --> 00:44:44,440
Speaker 2: Xyz? He asked me the same thing.

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Speaker 5: If I'm not doing something, or even if I'm out

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Speaker 5: with the kids, what can I do? How can I

871
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Speaker 5: make your day better? You're a team and you guys

872
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Speaker 5: are not at ends with each other, work together, communicate,

873
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Speaker 5: and grow together as equally yoked partnership.

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Speaker 4: It's beautiful and thank you for that. I want to

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Speaker 4: plug one thing and then I will say one last

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Speaker 4: thing to the whole audience, and thank you. I want

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Speaker 4: all of you to start a Turning Point USA chapter

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Speaker 4: at your high school or college. Who's your at turning Point?

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Speaker 4: You say, chapter leader, raise your hand. We need more

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Speaker 4: of you to go start Turning Point USA chapters. You

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Speaker 4: could do so out there. There's amazing giveaways. Associated the

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Speaker 4: final thing, I'll say two final things and that Eric,

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Speaker 4: Do you have any final thoughts Before I get to

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Speaker 4: my two final things, I'll go quick while you think

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Speaker 4: about it, the first of which is we're gonna have

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Speaker 4: a whole Q and A for politics or whatever you

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Speaker 4: want tomorrow or more relationship stuff if you want. Do

888
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Speaker 4: not talk down to men. Do not engage in this

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Speaker 4: toxic maskin masculinity, bashing of men. Not only do we

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Speaker 4: need men, the civilization is God created men and women,

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Speaker 4: and it's very tempting to get into the whole kind

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Speaker 4: of girl dominant society. You do not want to live

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Speaker 4: in that world. I'm telling you right now. You do

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Speaker 4: not you want to live in a world where the

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Speaker 4: best of both sexes are equally balanced. The other thing

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Speaker 4: I'll say, which is kind of funnier. It's hard to

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Speaker 4: put into words how much men want a just like

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Speaker 4: a return to normal things like cooking a meal, like

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Speaker 4: serving in like those fundamental ways like that stuff as

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Speaker 4: a husband or even a boyfriend goes beyond measure that

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Speaker 4: I can put into words and.

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Speaker 2: Make it fun and be like, what do you want

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Speaker 2: to eat?

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Speaker 5: And then like have them make a menu, and then

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Speaker 5: it's a good challenge for you to like I cooked

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Speaker 5: swordfish the other night.

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Speaker 2: It was okay, it wasn't.

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Speaker 4: My best, but it's like great.

909
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Speaker 5: But it goes to say, just make things fun. Don't again,

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Speaker 5: don't look at it as I have to. I get

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Speaker 5: to serve my husband. I get to submit unto my

912
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Speaker 5: husband because he's submitting himself to the Lord. There is

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Speaker 5: a balance, and there's something really beautiful about that balance.

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Speaker 2: If you have a situation where you don't.

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Speaker 5: Have someone in your life that you can look towards

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Speaker 5: as a healthy marriage, find seek that out.

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Speaker 2: Whether that's in your.

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Speaker 5: Church, whether that's in your community, whether that's something online.

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Speaker 5: Hold on to that so that you can have some

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Speaker 5: form of an understanding of Okay, this is what I

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Speaker 5: have to look forward to. I'm so excited. And God

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Speaker 5: will make sure that the right man will come into

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Speaker 5: your path. He won't walk past you, he won't miss you.

924
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Speaker 5: God is always on time, and so is your future husband.

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Speaker 5: So just wait on the Lord and you'll get everything

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Speaker 5: that you've prayed for, and more stuff that you prayed

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Speaker 5: for that you thought you needed. You'll get way beyond

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Speaker 5: that because God knows truly is the desires of your heart.

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Speaker 4: If you see anybody that looks lonely, go introduce yourself totally.

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Speaker 4: Make sure you counsel them and make a friend out

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Speaker 4: of them. We want people to leave friends for a

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Speaker 4: lifetime here and we are just getting started. The next

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Speaker 4: couple days are gonna be life changing. God bless you all.

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Speaker 3: Thank you so much,