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Speaker 1: Welcome back to Batcher Happy Hour. This is part two

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Speaker 1: with Joey and Kelsey earned joe.

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Speaker 2: And I'm Serena and welcome back guys.

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Speaker 1: It's it's been a while to be here.

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Speaker 3: So the question I ended the last interview with is Kelsey,

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Speaker 3: did did you feel like you were kind? I want

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Speaker 3: to want to say a shoe in, but like you

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Speaker 3: were on Joey's mind a lot and that you were

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Speaker 3: probably going to make it the hometown before you guys

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Speaker 3: started traveling.

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Speaker 4: I don't know about before we were traveling, but once

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Speaker 4: we started traveling, they knew that Joey really liked me.

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Speaker 4: He gave me a lot of reassurance. But it's funny

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Speaker 4: because I don't know fully if all the girls knew

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Speaker 4: that because I wouldn't really talk about our relationship with

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Speaker 4: the other girls, like I always just kept it close

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Speaker 4: to me and I didn't feel like I needed to,

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Speaker 4: you know.

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Speaker 5: I feel like they knew I was pretty obvious on

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Speaker 5: group dates I am now, I got notes on my

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Speaker 5: end that hey, like let's let's let's spread the love

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Speaker 5: a little bit more from time the time.

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Speaker 6: So they had to know.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, we did have a few girls come on and

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Speaker 7: say like, we're like, who do you think like he

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Speaker 7: has a really strong connection with? And I think it

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Speaker 7: was Lexi.

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Speaker 2: Lexi.

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Speaker 7: I feel like it is always like so honest in

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Speaker 7: our interviews with her, which is amazing, and she's like, yeah, no,

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Speaker 7: I knew he liked Kelsey the whole.

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Speaker 2: Time, and we're like okay, cool, Yeah.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, it's hard to hide. We had a strong connection.

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Speaker 5: Really, Like I said from from after that, missus right

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Speaker 5: there was there's really not looking back.

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Speaker 3: Was there a part of you that was kind of

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Speaker 3: always like worried that you you are going to have

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Speaker 3: feelings for more than one woman, but the one that

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Speaker 3: you feel the strongest for you don't want to room that.

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Speaker 5: Yeah. We talked about that a ton. That was a

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Speaker 5: big conversation and it's definitely one of those things that's

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Speaker 5: hard to even understand. I've tried multiple times to express

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Speaker 5: how my feelings were, and I tried to hold it in.

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Speaker 5: I think you saw on that last day how I

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Speaker 5: explained that I only wanted to say I love you

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Speaker 5: too one person. I only wanted to fully express it

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Speaker 5: to to one. Even though I said falling in love

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Speaker 5: to two. My mindset of was I have to start

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Speaker 5: expressing some emotions because we're getting to that point. But

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Speaker 5: the falling in love is more like I can see

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Speaker 5: a future, like I'm starting to picture it. I'm just

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Speaker 5: not going to be fully in love with someone until

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Speaker 5: it's that final person. So I tried to hold back

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Speaker 5: as much as I could, but I knew when it

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Speaker 5: got to that point that there needed to be some

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Speaker 5: type of emotion shared, and we've talked through that. I

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Speaker 5: think that's it's a very weird part of this process,

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Speaker 5: but I know that my love was only strongest for her,

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Speaker 5: and I really tried as much as I could to

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Speaker 5: for us, because I think that is important.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I mean listen, if it was if if

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Speaker 3: you just went with Kelsey right away, then we wouldn't

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Speaker 3: have a show.

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Speaker 1: And exactly this one. This one worked.

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Speaker 7: So we touched on how you guys kind of had

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Speaker 7: your first day in where was it in Spain? Again, Ronda,

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Speaker 7: You'd only to call it like Rotunda or something you

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Speaker 7: read your first day in Rohnda, and like that kind

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Speaker 7: of sealed the deal for like Kelsey being like, Yep,

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Speaker 7: I'm into it.

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Speaker 2: I've shared my story.

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Speaker 7: I want to talk about your next one on one

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Speaker 7: day in Jasper, because Joe had such a reaction to

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Speaker 7: this date because he was like, I literally can't believe

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Speaker 7: they just let them go sit at a bar all day,

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Speaker 7: Like this is such a fun date, Like how are

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Speaker 2: How was that day for you guys?

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Speaker 8: It was so fun? I loved that. Honestly, both of

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Speaker 8: my dates were pretty like chill.

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Speaker 4: I felt like, you know, we hung out in the

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Speaker 4: bar in Jasper, and it just felt like we were

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Speaker 4: on a normal date and we were just hanging out and.

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Speaker 8: Drinking beer, shooting pool.

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Speaker 4: He taught me, you know, one or two tricks with that,

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Speaker 8: A really good time.

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Speaker 6: It was fun.

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Speaker 5: You know, you obviously get the ability to like pick

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Speaker 5: the dates when you're trying to figure out who it

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Speaker 5: makes sense with, and I always tried to pick the

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Speaker 5: cultural dates with her where we had more time and

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Speaker 5: more in between, because I knew that you'd have those breases.

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Speaker 5: But when they explained what Jasper was, I was like, oh,

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Speaker 5: this is an awesome date. Like I did not expect

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Speaker 5: for us to be able to hang out a public

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Speaker 5: that the polar plunge was obviously the big thing, but

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Speaker 5: there was a whole like outside venue that we got

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Speaker 5: to hang out too, Like we ended up playing like

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Speaker 5: cornhole that day we had there was a whole like

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Speaker 5: was even better than when everyone saw, Like we got

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Speaker 5: a full day of just activities and walking around and

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Speaker 5: there was no break time either, which you know can

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Speaker 5: happen sometimes. Like we just got to be hand in

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Speaker 6: So that date was unbelievable.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, it was beautiful. It was just so stunning.

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Speaker 2: There Kelsey, do you do coal plunges?

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Speaker 7: Because you were like such a champ and I could

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Speaker 7: tell Joey like hate it every second.

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Speaker 1: And how cold was it?

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Speaker 5: It was thirty something to think it was high thirties,

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Speaker 5: maybe low forties, but it was. Yeah, I've done ice

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Speaker 5: past before and that was I had that feeling of

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Speaker 5: where you lose your breath right away.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, he was.

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Speaker 4: I told I was like, the thing you have to

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Speaker 4: do is like you have to like focus on your breathing.

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Speaker 8: You have to you know, you can't just like hyperventilate.

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Speaker 4: And that's what he was doing immediately, and I don't

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Speaker 4: know if you saw that, Like in a part of

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Speaker 8: Because he was like I couldn't. He like couldn't breathe.

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Speaker 6: We had a whole contexts too. She was like, I'm

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Speaker 5: So that's why we took us so long to get

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Speaker 6: For she was until she was done.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, So we were like the last ones in there,

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Speaker 5: and then I was like I'm getting out you well,

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Speaker 5: I was like, I'm.

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Speaker 1: Going to beat you.

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Speaker 8: I'm going to stay longer.

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Speaker 6: But that was your first time, you said, yeah, that was.

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Speaker 8: My first time, though, but I've watched like YouTube videos on.

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Speaker 1: It was your first.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, it was your first time, and you're like instructing

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Speaker 7: him through the process of crazy so.

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Speaker 5: Many times that's so embarrassing. Like I've done the hot

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Speaker 5: like through it, and I'm yeah, it was a lot.

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Speaker 7: Maybe like the adrenaline rush for Kelsey helped a little bit,

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Speaker 7: you know what I mean, Like I feel like and

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Speaker 7: knowing like having done cold punches, not nearly Joe does

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Speaker 2: I've done it like maybe three times.

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Speaker 7: I feel like knowing what I'm getting myself into when

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Speaker 7: I'm like, oh, I know how bad this is gonna be.

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Speaker 7: Whereas when you don't and you're like, this is crazy,

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Speaker 7: this is fine, Like we're in this beautiful place, like

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Speaker 7: maybe you're adrenaline or you're just honestly a chap and

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Speaker 8: Calling the polar plunk girl.

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Speaker 5: And she was actually that excited too, like she lost

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Speaker 5: her mind. She was she wanted to do a polar

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Speaker 5: the lakes. Yeah, it was all real that she couldn't.

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Speaker 8: I was going to jump in the lake, like regardless.

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Speaker 4: I was gonna do it off Campras though, but then

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Speaker 4: you know, we had to stay and it was amazing.

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Speaker 2: I'm so excited doing it in open water.

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Speaker 7: I've done a few, like in Canada, and then also

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Speaker 7: like in other places, it's way more fun than jumping

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Speaker 7: into a cold yeah, like the the environment makes it

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Speaker 3: Day, Yeah, Kelsey, what I know, Like you guys went

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Speaker 3: to New Orleans and you had Begnet's, which is like

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Speaker 3: kind of like your typical New Orleans pastry.

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Speaker 1: But what what is your favorite like restaurant?

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Speaker 3: Like if if you were to take Joey around New

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Speaker 3: Orleans on your own.

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Speaker 1: What would you do?

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Speaker 4: I mean, like a good classic like New Orleans restaurant

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Speaker 4: would be Commander's Palace.

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Speaker 1: Uh.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, it's amazing.

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Speaker 4: They've got you know, turtle soup, they've got gumbo, they've

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Speaker 4: got all the classics and banana Fosters.

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Speaker 3: But I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I love trying. I mean in New Orleans, there's so

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Speaker 4: many restaurants. I feel like you could try a new

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Speaker 4: a favorite. Yeah, but yeah, I mean I just I

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Speaker 4: love New Orleans. I love running around trying, like jumping

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Speaker 4: into different places and how you can like you know,

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Speaker 6: What was that place that I ended up going to?

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Speaker 6: Coushon Coushonka really good.

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Speaker 8: That was really good, so good.

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Speaker 4: Like such a variety of foods as well. They have

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Speaker 4: really great Italian like Sophia or Italian Barrel.

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Speaker 8: Those are some really good places.

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Speaker 2: Well, you're in for a treat when you come to

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Speaker 2: New York in terms of restaurants and fail.

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Speaker 5: We were even talking about it too, because I've been

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Speaker 5: doing so much back and forth with LA and New York,

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Speaker 5: and we talked about West Coast for a little bit too.

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Speaker 5: Is an idea, but after doing both, I've had so

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Speaker 5: much more fun during press when we've been in New York.

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Speaker 5: It's just the food, the atmosphere of the energy. It's

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Speaker 5: close to where I live in Philly too, so I'm

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Speaker 5: really excited to get out there.

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Speaker 6: It's gonna be a good time.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, if you love a big city like you really

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Speaker 3: can't really match the energy in New York.

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Speaker 1: We we love it.

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Speaker 3: What about let's talk a little bit about uh you

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Speaker 3: have There's a lot of drama at your season, Kelsey.

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Speaker 3: What are your thoughts on all of it? The Cindy, Maria,

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Speaker 3: all of it.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I don't really think that I have much

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Speaker 4: to say about it. I just tried to stay away

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Speaker 4: from all of that. I didn't think that it was

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Speaker 4: any of my concern, So yeah, I mean, no comment.

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Speaker 1: We really know.

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Speaker 6: A lot too.

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Speaker 5: We even when we talked about it before, like it

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Speaker 5: should be focus on the individual connections, and I give

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Speaker 3: Well, I mean that you didn't have to get involved

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I think that that conversation I didn't realize that

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Speaker 7: Feeling in that moment, Joey, when your sisters brought that

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Speaker 5: So they explained that to me too, saying like, she

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so I didn't have a whole lot of time

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Speaker 8: Yeah, I could have wrote more. You know, I could

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Speaker 3: And you know, you should have just gave him a

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Speaker 7: You know what, though, in your defense, we talked to

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Speaker 8: Yeah, it could have made it a little bit better.

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Speaker 7: But does that conversation go how you thought it was

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Speaker 4: Saw him open the door and immediately my heart dropped

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Speaker 5: I guess I slipped up in some way by saying

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Speaker 5: I think you're completely right. I don't know what else

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Speaker 5: she would have wrote it just wasn't a good note

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Speaker 3: Okay, well I'm going to give you a blank card

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Speaker 8: This is a good one.

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Speaker 6: I think we.

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Speaker 1: Got to talk.

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Speaker 6: Maybe I said like I miss you.

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Speaker 5: So we found out from this that she's never gonna

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Speaker 8: Like that like little love letters.

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Speaker 7: Okay, yeah maybe yeah, maybe copywriting isn't in your future.

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Speaker 7: And Joe, if you get any ominous text from Kelsey,

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Speaker 6: Yeah, we're learning together on that one for sure.

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Speaker 1: Can we talk? Question question for Kelsey?

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Speaker 3: How is you when you got home after getting engaged?

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Speaker 3: How how was your family? How did they respond?

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Speaker 4: So I only told my dad and my sister Taylor,

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Speaker 8: My brother, no one really like pestered me with questions.

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Speaker 4: Just really nice and very respectful honestly of like not

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's and it's a it's such a like it's

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Speaker 1: Maybe like the biggest moment of your life. And then

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Speaker 4: I wanted to like spew it to everybody, you know, Yeah,

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Speaker 4: They're just so excited for me, and they know that,

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Speaker 1: Is Joey your type?

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Speaker 8: Yeah, I mean I think that my time.

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Speaker 1: At all.

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Speaker 4: I mean, jo He's obviously so handsome, but my type

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Speaker 8: Respect and are fun and I enjoy my time with.

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Speaker 8: And that's Joey.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Joey, what is your favorite quality about Kelsey?

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Speaker 6: I've said it all the time. I think you even

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Speaker 5: At the ending, how I kept explaining her, like describing

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Speaker 5: she has this like goofiness is light to her that

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Speaker 6: But there's just something different about her that makes your stand.

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Speaker 2: Out for sure, Kelsey, your turn.

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Speaker 5: It was hard time to think about this.

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Speaker 4: I think that was like, I don't know, No, I

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Speaker 8: Nobody was angry at him.

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Speaker 4: I think Joey is just very intentional and kind, and

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Speaker 4: I think that he grounds me a lot, which is

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Joey got lucky with that one. It's everyone everyone really,

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Speaker 3: ever seen this remo. It's like, oh, he broke he

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Speaker 5: Jesse like whispered to me during the tunnel. He was like,

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Speaker 5: I don't know what's going on, just trying to get

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Speaker 1: Oh it's great.

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Speaker 3: What okay, Joey, What is something that you learned about

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: See if I can think of it different answer to this,

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Speaker 5: I kind of don't want to give the same one.

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Speaker 5: I think that I found out a lot of times

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Speaker 5: how much she just like her energy is crazy. Like

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Speaker 5: But also I found out very quickly like I can

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Speaker 6: She doesn't have that bone in her body like she.

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Speaker 5: Is always on the go, always wanted to do something,

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Speaker 5: It's adorable. But I was like, Wow, this is this

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Speaker 8: But I've been able to.

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Speaker 5: As you said, I ground right, dude, not a negative.

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Speaker 5: It's actually better. It was one of the biggest things

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Speaker 5: together because I need that. If I have someone that's

449
00:19:43,119 --> 00:19:45,840
Speaker 5: too low key, I'm gonna be boring and low key too.

450
00:19:45,920 --> 00:19:50,320
Speaker 5: So it's it's a necessity, but it's it's it's energy

451
00:19:50,320 --> 00:19:51,360
Speaker 5: on steroids, that's for sure.

452
00:19:51,400 --> 00:19:52,480
Speaker 6: She's got that in school.

453
00:19:54,200 --> 00:19:55,960
Speaker 1: Well, Kelsey, what's your secret.

454
00:19:57,520 --> 00:20:05,200
Speaker 4: Of adhd adhd medicated?

455
00:20:07,840 --> 00:20:10,480
Speaker 1: And Kelsey, what about what about you?

456
00:20:10,480 --> 00:20:14,880
Speaker 3: What have you learned post engagement? Something about Joey.

457
00:20:15,720 --> 00:20:18,760
Speaker 4: Joey's I think so goofy too, though, Like I think

458
00:20:18,800 --> 00:20:21,359
Speaker 4: that on the show, we really, you know, get to

459
00:20:21,359 --> 00:20:24,639
Speaker 4: the nitty gritty and are focusing on the seriousness of everything.

460
00:20:24,680 --> 00:20:26,560
Speaker 4: But he has such a funny and fun side to

461
00:20:26,640 --> 00:20:29,159
Speaker 4: him that I don't think people really got to see

462
00:20:29,680 --> 00:20:33,920
Speaker 4: through the season fully. But yeah, he's super funny.

463
00:20:33,720 --> 00:20:35,879
Speaker 6: My older sister said something about that.

464
00:20:36,040 --> 00:20:38,240
Speaker 5: She said that what she loves most about Kelsey she

465
00:20:38,280 --> 00:20:40,960
Speaker 5: brings out my silly side because my family sees it.

466
00:20:40,920 --> 00:20:41,840
Speaker 6: Like my best friends do.

467
00:20:42,000 --> 00:20:44,640
Speaker 5: But a lot of times I take stuff too seriously

468
00:20:44,680 --> 00:20:47,520
Speaker 5: and she doesn't allow me to it anyway.

469
00:20:48,119 --> 00:20:48,639
Speaker 1: That's good.

470
00:20:49,000 --> 00:20:50,679
Speaker 3: I think that that's I think that's a really I

471
00:20:50,680 --> 00:20:54,920
Speaker 3: think that's important in a relationship for someone that have,

472
00:20:55,080 --> 00:20:58,720
Speaker 3: you know, the qualities that you may not possess.

473
00:20:59,080 --> 00:21:04,639
Speaker 7: Yeah, we obviously saw that Kelsey got to meet your sisters,

474
00:21:04,840 --> 00:21:06,040
Speaker 7: your mom, your dad.

475
00:21:06,480 --> 00:21:07,320
Speaker 2: But who we.

476
00:21:07,280 --> 00:21:11,359
Speaker 7: Didn't get to see this season was Uncle Joe, who,

477
00:21:11,560 --> 00:21:14,000
Speaker 7: if you watch Charity season, is Joey's uncle who kind

478
00:21:14,000 --> 00:21:16,240
Speaker 7: of gave him a hard time at Hometowns for.

479
00:21:16,359 --> 00:21:18,880
Speaker 2: Not showing the real Joey.

480
00:21:19,000 --> 00:21:22,080
Speaker 7: So what was Uncle Joe's feedback on this season and

481
00:21:22,160 --> 00:21:24,120
Speaker 7: did he feel like we got to see the real

482
00:21:24,200 --> 00:21:26,200
Speaker 7: Joey and that Kelsey gets to see the real Joey.

483
00:21:26,800 --> 00:21:28,560
Speaker 6: He was great.

484
00:21:28,880 --> 00:21:32,760
Speaker 5: We've had a lot of conversations, honestly since Charity's season.

485
00:21:33,119 --> 00:21:34,240
Speaker 6: I've spoken on it before.

486
00:21:34,640 --> 00:21:37,760
Speaker 5: It's actually made us a lot closer just because it

487
00:21:37,880 --> 00:21:40,080
Speaker 5: opened up a different side of our relationship to talk

488
00:21:40,160 --> 00:21:41,199
Speaker 5: more about those things.

489
00:21:41,560 --> 00:21:43,000
Speaker 6: He's been nothing but proud of me.

490
00:21:43,480 --> 00:21:46,480
Speaker 5: He sends me text almost every week after you watch

491
00:21:46,560 --> 00:21:48,840
Speaker 5: the episode and says, I can't believe you're making me

492
00:21:48,920 --> 00:21:51,080
Speaker 5: watch the show more, but I have to keep telling

493
00:21:51,119 --> 00:21:53,800
Speaker 5: you how you're navigating handle these situations, like, I don't

494
00:21:53,800 --> 00:21:56,320
Speaker 5: think you could have done it any better. So he

495
00:21:56,440 --> 00:21:59,000
Speaker 5: just I think has seen a lot of growth, is

496
00:21:59,080 --> 00:22:02,440
Speaker 5: very happy for how everything's been so excited about her.

497
00:22:03,280 --> 00:22:05,480
Speaker 5: There's just a lot of good and again, I think

498
00:22:05,600 --> 00:22:08,280
Speaker 5: I'm the surprise of this whole show in general is

499
00:22:08,320 --> 00:22:11,080
Speaker 5: how close it's made my family. And also I honestly

500
00:22:11,160 --> 00:22:13,600
Speaker 5: changed some of the communication and relationships that we had.

501
00:22:13,480 --> 00:22:14,960
Speaker 6: So nothing a positive.

502
00:22:15,080 --> 00:22:17,200
Speaker 5: Uncle Joe said he saw the real Joey, even though

503
00:22:17,200 --> 00:22:19,320
Speaker 5: maybe an improved version of Joey might be.

504
00:22:19,240 --> 00:22:20,119
Speaker 6: The better way to put it.

505
00:22:26,800 --> 00:22:30,000
Speaker 4: Joey's styling has been like so supportive, like checking in

506
00:22:30,040 --> 00:22:32,320
Speaker 4: on me, being I don't know, Carly is.

507
00:22:32,280 --> 00:22:34,919
Speaker 6: Like Carly likes Kelsey more than she likes me.

508
00:22:36,000 --> 00:22:38,720
Speaker 4: Best friends like she is, but she is so supportive

509
00:22:38,720 --> 00:22:40,760
Speaker 4: and so kind, Like whenever I'm having any emotions, even

510
00:22:40,760 --> 00:22:42,600
Speaker 4: if I'm like, you know, annoyed about anything with the

511
00:22:42,600 --> 00:22:45,320
Speaker 4: show with him, like She's like, yeah, that that wasn't cool,

512
00:22:45,480 --> 00:22:47,160
Speaker 4: you know, Like she's like on my side, but also

513
00:22:47,320 --> 00:22:50,240
Speaker 4: just like like helping me see things from different perspectives.

514
00:22:50,320 --> 00:22:52,360
Speaker 8: I'm I'm so appreciative of his day.

515
00:22:52,480 --> 00:22:53,040
Speaker 6: She's been great.

516
00:22:53,160 --> 00:22:55,240
Speaker 5: She She's always said that she wanted to make sure

517
00:22:55,280 --> 00:22:57,119
Speaker 5: that the person I was with could be her best friend,

518
00:22:57,119 --> 00:22:59,600
Speaker 5: and I obviously was hopeful of that, but it's.

519
00:22:59,440 --> 00:23:02,399
Speaker 6: Been that and more. How much you talk, it's actually

520
00:23:02,400 --> 00:23:03,560
Speaker 6: scary talk.

521
00:23:05,240 --> 00:23:06,000
Speaker 2: That's amazing.

522
00:23:06,119 --> 00:23:08,160
Speaker 1: I love that, Kelsey.

523
00:23:08,200 --> 00:23:12,240
Speaker 3: After meeting you, I'm really excited to play this game because.

524
00:23:12,119 --> 00:23:15,920
Speaker 1: I'm very curious. You're off the cuff answers what they

525
00:23:15,920 --> 00:23:17,159
Speaker 1: will what they will be?

526
00:23:18,119 --> 00:23:21,320
Speaker 3: So you guys writing, we're gonna play a newly engaged game.

527
00:23:21,560 --> 00:23:22,120
Speaker 1: Who's who?

528
00:23:22,840 --> 00:23:25,399
Speaker 2: Oh boy, all right, who's the better cook?

529
00:23:26,480 --> 00:23:27,520
Speaker 6: Kelsey?

530
00:23:27,840 --> 00:23:28,159
Speaker 1: What do you?

531
00:23:28,200 --> 00:23:28,400
Speaker 4: What?

532
00:23:28,400 --> 00:23:28,640
Speaker 6: What?

533
00:23:28,640 --> 00:23:30,440
Speaker 1: What? What do you? What's your dish?

534
00:23:31,160 --> 00:23:31,320
Speaker 5: Oh?

535
00:23:31,359 --> 00:23:31,720
Speaker 3: I don't know.

536
00:23:31,760 --> 00:23:33,480
Speaker 4: I like making a bunch of different type of meals,

537
00:23:33,480 --> 00:23:36,320
Speaker 4: but honestly, usually it's some variation of like protein, rice

538
00:23:36,359 --> 00:23:37,520
Speaker 4: and vegetables.

539
00:23:38,040 --> 00:23:39,679
Speaker 6: We're both of you work jobs, so we're coming to

540
00:23:39,720 --> 00:23:43,800
Speaker 6: you soon. We need some help over. You're good. I'm terrible,

541
00:23:43,840 --> 00:23:44,679
Speaker 6: so I'm more speaking.

542
00:23:44,760 --> 00:23:47,160
Speaker 8: I don't like chicken dry like I'm good with seasoning.

543
00:23:47,359 --> 00:23:51,520
Speaker 7: You know, did you guys mostly cook at your happy

544
00:23:51,520 --> 00:23:52,720
Speaker 7: couples or did you order it?

545
00:23:53,320 --> 00:23:54,600
Speaker 6: We found out pretty quickly.

546
00:23:54,800 --> 00:23:56,480
Speaker 8: You have to get so many season and so many

547
00:23:56,480 --> 00:23:59,120
Speaker 8: things here. It's just all that hassle.

548
00:23:59,240 --> 00:24:01,280
Speaker 6: We did like one big dish. We always try to do,

549
00:24:01,400 --> 00:24:03,560
Speaker 6: like one nice dinner. But then uber eats.

550
00:24:03,720 --> 00:24:06,200
Speaker 1: It's just the free door dash Uber eats.

551
00:24:06,240 --> 00:24:08,560
Speaker 2: It's like, oh yeah, yeah, I feel like the first

552
00:24:08,560 --> 00:24:09,119
Speaker 2: happy couple.

553
00:24:09,240 --> 00:24:11,560
Speaker 7: We like stalked upon so much food that we didn't

554
00:24:11,560 --> 00:24:13,320
Speaker 7: get to and then we're like, okay, we just need

555
00:24:13,359 --> 00:24:15,040
Speaker 7: like snacks and breakfast food.

556
00:24:15,119 --> 00:24:17,800
Speaker 5: Like that's exactly what we do, snacks, breakfast food, alcohol.

557
00:24:17,840 --> 00:24:21,520
Speaker 7: That's literally yeah, Okay.

558
00:24:21,760 --> 00:24:23,920
Speaker 2: Who has the best music taste?

559
00:24:24,600 --> 00:24:28,080
Speaker 8: Joey, I have a wider variety.

560
00:24:28,359 --> 00:24:32,000
Speaker 6: She is definitely different on the music taste. I think.

561
00:24:34,920 --> 00:24:35,960
Speaker 2: Who sleeps in more?

562
00:24:36,840 --> 00:24:37,199
Speaker 8: Jelly?

563
00:24:38,520 --> 00:24:39,680
Speaker 2: What time do you wake up?

564
00:24:40,320 --> 00:24:43,120
Speaker 6: I can sleep in really really for a long time.

565
00:24:43,200 --> 00:24:43,560
Speaker 6: I think.

566
00:24:43,800 --> 00:24:46,840
Speaker 5: I think my usual would be like eight or nine.

567
00:24:47,240 --> 00:24:49,040
Speaker 5: I just need to get back into routine. I'm gonna

568
00:24:49,080 --> 00:24:49,680
Speaker 5: jump around so.

569
00:24:49,640 --> 00:24:51,880
Speaker 6: Many is not bad, I'm bad.

570
00:24:52,080 --> 00:24:55,080
Speaker 5: She's it's more she gets up really early. That's more

571
00:24:55,119 --> 00:24:57,359
Speaker 5: what it is. She doesn't like sleep as much as I.

572
00:24:57,640 --> 00:25:00,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, he's not a morning person or night forson, and

573
00:25:00,440 --> 00:25:02,280
Speaker 4: I am morning person and a night person.

574
00:25:02,760 --> 00:25:05,199
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, god chat.

575
00:25:05,359 --> 00:25:07,919
Speaker 7: Yeah, No, I'm I need a good like eight to

576
00:25:08,040 --> 00:25:09,440
Speaker 7: nine hours every ting.

577
00:25:10,119 --> 00:25:11,840
Speaker 6: If I'm doing stuff correctly.

578
00:25:11,840 --> 00:25:14,440
Speaker 5: In my life, it's usually like ten to seven am

579
00:25:14,480 --> 00:25:16,320
Speaker 5: would be the perfect thing, go to bed by ten,

580
00:25:16,359 --> 00:25:17,080
Speaker 5: wake up at seven.

581
00:25:17,160 --> 00:25:20,720
Speaker 3: That may be the best quality to have in life

582
00:25:20,880 --> 00:25:22,720
Speaker 3: is to be a morning person and a night person.

583
00:25:24,520 --> 00:25:28,320
Speaker 5: No, it's it's actually hard to understand sometimes.

584
00:25:28,119 --> 00:25:30,080
Speaker 6: Like you're crushing Chipper when she goes to.

585
00:25:30,040 --> 00:25:31,760
Speaker 5: Bed and Chipper when she wakes up, and I'm like,

586
00:25:31,800 --> 00:25:34,800
Speaker 5: I'm both like, just get me like more minutes.

587
00:25:34,840 --> 00:25:36,480
Speaker 8: I'm like, I want to wrest.

588
00:25:38,359 --> 00:25:41,000
Speaker 2: All right? Who hogs the bed.

589
00:25:43,480 --> 00:25:47,200
Speaker 6: Joey j Yeah? Probably mean probably. I think we're both

590
00:25:47,240 --> 00:25:48,240
Speaker 6: pretty understanding of.

591
00:25:49,840 --> 00:25:51,840
Speaker 2: Who takes longer to get ready.

592
00:25:52,320 --> 00:25:54,520
Speaker 8: Kelsey Kelsey barely what?

593
00:25:57,000 --> 00:25:59,200
Speaker 5: Yeah, you act like I take long though you don't

594
00:25:59,240 --> 00:26:01,520
Speaker 5: take long, but as a as a female, you are

595
00:26:01,520 --> 00:26:02,359
Speaker 5: going to take longer.

596
00:26:02,480 --> 00:26:06,840
Speaker 3: You're definitely, I would bet you are. You take thirty

597
00:26:06,840 --> 00:26:08,720
Speaker 3: at least thirty minutes longer than Joey.

598
00:26:09,280 --> 00:26:10,399
Speaker 8: That's usually like the max.

599
00:26:10,520 --> 00:26:14,040
Speaker 6: I feel I take like five minutes. Yeah, yeah, so

600
00:26:14,040 --> 00:26:14,480
Speaker 6: he's right.

601
00:26:15,440 --> 00:26:16,520
Speaker 2: Who's more forgetful?

602
00:26:18,359 --> 00:26:20,520
Speaker 6: Mm hmmm joe Joey.

603
00:26:20,720 --> 00:26:22,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, who's the funniest?

604
00:26:24,600 --> 00:26:25,119
Speaker 6: I hate that?

605
00:26:25,960 --> 00:26:26,920
Speaker 2: Who's more going?

606
00:26:28,680 --> 00:26:29,040
Speaker 8: Kelsey?

607
00:26:29,200 --> 00:26:29,360
Speaker 3: Yeah?

608
00:26:29,480 --> 00:26:29,880
Speaker 6: Kelsey.

609
00:26:30,359 --> 00:26:31,359
Speaker 2: Who's the better driver?

610
00:26:32,720 --> 00:26:35,680
Speaker 6: Joey Joey. I would think we haven't tested about she drives.

611
00:26:35,800 --> 00:26:38,480
Speaker 5: She's got some still really find out that she has

612
00:26:38,800 --> 00:26:41,719
Speaker 5: a stick Chevy Cruise, so that we're gonna be we're

613
00:26:41,760 --> 00:26:43,760
Speaker 5: gonna be sharing that car in New Orleans too soon.

614
00:26:43,880 --> 00:26:45,840
Speaker 2: So are you going to brand to New York?

615
00:26:46,520 --> 00:26:47,480
Speaker 8: No?

616
00:26:47,200 --> 00:26:49,120
Speaker 6: No car in New York subway?

617
00:26:49,720 --> 00:26:50,000
Speaker 1: Yeah.

618
00:26:50,760 --> 00:26:53,440
Speaker 2: Who's the better dancer, Joey?

619
00:26:53,480 --> 00:26:55,680
Speaker 6: Oh my god, No one wants to see that?

620
00:26:56,440 --> 00:26:56,880
Speaker 3: Really?

621
00:26:57,560 --> 00:26:58,640
Speaker 6: Really, you can.

622
00:27:00,200 --> 00:27:00,360
Speaker 4: Rough.

623
00:27:01,080 --> 00:27:03,400
Speaker 6: She has the moments where she gets up and I'm like, no,

624
00:27:03,480 --> 00:27:05,400
Speaker 6: you can stop. I don't want to see.

625
00:27:05,320 --> 00:27:07,320
Speaker 1: What's your kelsey, what's your boob? What you like your

626
00:27:07,359 --> 00:27:07,920
Speaker 1: go to boo?

627
00:27:08,119 --> 00:27:11,280
Speaker 4: Yeah? Show us like I don't know what this thing is,

628
00:27:11,320 --> 00:27:12,720
Speaker 4: you know, like the criss cross.

629
00:27:12,440 --> 00:27:15,600
Speaker 2: Knee thing, Like that's what you're whipping out of the club.

630
00:27:17,119 --> 00:27:19,360
Speaker 6: It's like it's like a walking meme. When she tried

631
00:27:19,359 --> 00:27:21,080
Speaker 6: to no one wants to see.

632
00:27:20,920 --> 00:27:24,400
Speaker 1: It, the criss cross the thing that's your first move

633
00:27:24,440 --> 00:27:27,800
Speaker 1: on the dancer. That's great. I'm an awful dancer as well,

634
00:27:27,920 --> 00:27:28,760
Speaker 1: So she'll.

635
00:27:28,600 --> 00:27:33,160
Speaker 5: Be requesting like dancing something like that.

636
00:27:33,320 --> 00:27:34,280
Speaker 2: Oh my god.

637
00:27:34,600 --> 00:27:42,440
Speaker 7: Okay, who's the bigger cuddler, Joey, who's the more organized one,

638
00:27:43,680 --> 00:27:47,440
Speaker 7: who's more adventurous?

639
00:27:49,560 --> 00:27:50,440
Speaker 1: Shared agree to this?

640
00:27:51,400 --> 00:27:52,640
Speaker 2: Who's the better listener?

641
00:27:53,720 --> 00:27:55,840
Speaker 6: Joey that want to agree on.

642
00:27:57,640 --> 00:27:59,800
Speaker 2: Who wakes up the earliest. We kind of answered that

643
00:27:59,840 --> 00:28:03,800
Speaker 2: one Kelsey, that is.

644
00:28:04,119 --> 00:28:08,520
Speaker 5: That only a couple of like off ones there, but

645
00:28:08,960 --> 00:28:09,720
Speaker 5: same page.

646
00:28:10,160 --> 00:28:14,359
Speaker 3: Anything before before we hang up on you guys and

647
00:28:14,680 --> 00:28:18,360
Speaker 3: send you off on your on your way, anything you want.

648
00:28:18,200 --> 00:28:21,920
Speaker 1: To say about your journey or anything we didn't cover

649
00:28:22,040 --> 00:28:24,000
Speaker 1: or anything like that, I don't know.

650
00:28:24,080 --> 00:28:27,080
Speaker 4: I think that I'm just so excited to, you know,

651
00:28:27,200 --> 00:28:29,240
Speaker 4: live life off camera and.

652
00:28:30,720 --> 00:28:33,119
Speaker 8: Yeah, make new life experiences together.

653
00:28:33,480 --> 00:28:33,720
Speaker 6: Yeah.

654
00:28:33,760 --> 00:28:36,040
Speaker 5: I mean the season was obviously a wild ride for

655
00:28:36,119 --> 00:28:38,600
Speaker 5: me in general. It's been like a year of reality TV.

656
00:28:38,800 --> 00:28:40,840
Speaker 5: So I'm very excited for this to be all done with.

657
00:28:40,960 --> 00:28:43,280
Speaker 5: And this was the whole reason. This was the purpose

658
00:28:43,320 --> 00:28:46,040
Speaker 5: to find her, So now that we have that, I'm

659
00:28:46,080 --> 00:28:46,720
Speaker 5: just excited.

660
00:28:46,480 --> 00:28:47,440
Speaker 6: To see what comes next.

661
00:28:47,720 --> 00:28:51,760
Speaker 7: Do you guys have any advice for future couples coming

662
00:28:51,760 --> 00:28:53,719
Speaker 7: out of the franchise or a piece of advice that

663
00:28:53,760 --> 00:28:55,160
Speaker 7: you were given that really stuck with you.

664
00:28:56,720 --> 00:28:57,520
Speaker 8: For me, I just.

665
00:28:57,480 --> 00:28:59,720
Speaker 4: Think that trying to look at it from the other

666
00:28:59,760 --> 00:29:02,360
Speaker 4: person perspective as much as you can, Yeah, I think

667
00:29:02,360 --> 00:29:04,200
Speaker 4: that that can really be eye opening.

668
00:29:04,440 --> 00:29:07,240
Speaker 5: Yeah, I think change obviously understand the perspective, but also

669
00:29:07,400 --> 00:29:10,400
Speaker 5: to I thought out pretty early through this like it's

670
00:29:10,400 --> 00:29:13,240
Speaker 5: going to take work. This isn't a normal situation, so

671
00:29:13,520 --> 00:29:16,320
Speaker 5: you have to make sure if you pick the right person, like,

672
00:29:16,360 --> 00:29:17,800
Speaker 5: you're going to have to put in the effort. You're

673
00:29:17,840 --> 00:29:19,560
Speaker 5: going to have to understand that you have to choose

674
00:29:19,600 --> 00:29:21,320
Speaker 5: each other above anything else.

675
00:29:21,400 --> 00:29:24,600
Speaker 6: So yeah, just understand that it will take work, but

676
00:29:24,640 --> 00:29:25,240
Speaker 6: it's all worth it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, love that. Well, So honestly, I'm really really happy

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Speaker 1: for you, guys.

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Speaker 3: I've called this relationship from the beginning no bo But

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Speaker 3: thank you guys so much for taking the time.

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Speaker 7: And actually, wait a second, no, you didn't because she

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Speaker 7: is in my bracket and we at the beginning of

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Speaker 7: the season, we each picked four people. We picked two

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Speaker 7: picked we picked two based off the headshots before the

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Speaker 7: show started, and then we picked two after night one,

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Speaker 7: and Kelsey is in my bracket, not yours.

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Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure.

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Speaker 1: I don't know about that.

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Speaker 2: Let's see.

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Speaker 7: Let's see, let's see, let's see. Serena Serena kelsey A

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Speaker 7: my third pick, well, my first pick after night one.

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Speaker 2: So Joe, eat your words.

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Speaker 3: Okay, you know what, Okay, fine, whatever, whatever, I'm over

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Speaker 3: us uptime now, guys, it doesn't matter now.

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Speaker 2: All that matters that you guys are happy and I

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Speaker 2: was right, Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Exactly, and uh okay, And thank you to all our

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Speaker 3: lovely listeners.

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Speaker 1: Thank you guys so much for tuning in.

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Speaker 3: We really enjoyed Joey's season and we're so happy for

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Speaker 3: this couple. And yeah, thank you guys, and make sure

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Speaker 3: you stay tuned because we will. We're gonna keep going.

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Speaker 2: We'll be here every season, all right.

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Speaker 7: And be sure to subscribe to Bachelor Happy Hour and

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Speaker 7: keep listening because even though the show is done, this

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Speaker 7: season is over, we still have lots more exclusive interviews

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Speaker 7: coming your way and more fun episodes before we head

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Speaker 7: into the next season of the Boucherette.

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Speaker 2: So stick around.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, guys.

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Speaker 4: Thank