WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Brunch Yuck

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, it's Brigan Jeffrey and you have found your brand

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<v Speaker 2>That's it.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the goal here. And this actually is really funny.

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<v Speaker 1>It is. It's a really funny one. I think you're

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<v Speaker 1>really going to enjoy it.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, this guy was definitely worried about a story,

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<v Speaker 2>an old story he told that he thought would be

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<v Speaker 2>funny that you know, he came off as a freeloading criminal.

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<v Speaker 1>But whatever she did. Laugh, it happens, It happens, It happens.

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<v Speaker 1>You're gonna do the whole thing. And we always love.

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<v Speaker 2>To read your comments because it really means so much

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<v Speaker 2>to us that you take time out of your day

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<v Speaker 1>So, alexis, what do you like?

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<v Speaker 2>I saw one from olin A who said the only

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<v Speaker 2>thing that should have been offered to him was a

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<v Speaker 2>therapy session.

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<v Speaker 1>My god, about past second.

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<v Speaker 2>Date, and I'm thinking, what if we did offer therapy

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<v Speaker 2>in dinner it would be a really good Like, instead

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<v Speaker 2>of the gift certificate, you get just a therapy session.

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<v Speaker 3>You're trying to destroy the show.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a good point.

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<v Speaker 4>No one get therapy and requesting dates from most second dates.

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<v Speaker 1>Meant disable people don't call radio stories. All right, I

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<v Speaker 1>see you, Jose. All right, your brand new second date

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<v Speaker 1>starts right now.

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<v Speaker 3>Second date update.

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<v Speaker 5>You ask anybody and you'll get a lot of different

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<v Speaker 5>responses for what's the best time of day for a date?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh yeah, because I mean you have the traditional seven

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<v Speaker 5>o'clock dinner plans people.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm literally going to see seven pm.

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<v Speaker 5>But then you also have the hikers and bikers who

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<v Speaker 5>are like, ooh, five in the morning, let's wake up

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<v Speaker 5>early and go for a ride together while the sun

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<v Speaker 5>rises on my tandem two person speed bike.

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<v Speaker 4>Wait, but I gotta get up at two am first

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<v Speaker 4>to work out.

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<v Speaker 6>Before or five?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, our listener res he might fall somewhere in the

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<v Speaker 5>middle of those based on what he chose to do

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<v Speaker 5>for his first date the other day, So let's talk

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<v Speaker 5>to him about it.

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<v Speaker 3>Rez, Welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 7>Hey guys, thanks for having me.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey you doing.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh we're pretty good. Yeah, good time of day to

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<v Speaker 2>do the show.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, what time of day do you like to go

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<v Speaker 5>on your dates?

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<v Speaker 7>Res, I'm a gentleman, so I like to go at

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<v Speaker 7>whatever time is convenient for my date.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, Okay, so you asked them when would

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<v Speaker 1>be best?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah exactly.

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<v Speaker 5>Like, so tell us about this woman that you met recently,

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<v Speaker 5>what's her name and what time did she want to

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<v Speaker 5>go out?

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<v Speaker 7>So this woman's name is Katrina, and she said she

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<v Speaker 7>was free on a Sunday and kind of left me

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<v Speaker 7>with that, and I was like, well, like Sunday is

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<v Speaker 7>brunch day.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I think a great date.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah exactly. So we did like a Sunday brunch buffet

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<v Speaker 7>that I really love that been to before, and so

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<v Speaker 7>we met at the place and we hit it off

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<v Speaker 7>like immediately, and I was like, on my best behavior,

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<v Speaker 7>you know, I wanted to be a total gentleman, like

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<v Speaker 7>opened the door, pulled her chair out, really really was

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<v Speaker 7>like into this girl.

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<v Speaker 5>You know a lot of people like to get rowdy

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<v Speaker 5>and go wild at brunch. So it's good that you

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<v Speaker 5>reeled it in and held yourself in check.

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<v Speaker 4>Don't push her into the door, open it for her.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, put into it. Let her go first for the

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<v Speaker 3>omelet section. She gets to do her choice. That's really

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<v Speaker 3>nice of it.

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<v Speaker 1>That's cute. I mean, were you able to connect?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, for sure.

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<v Speaker 5>I know Brooke wants to know about your connection and

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<v Speaker 5>if there was like a vibe going on we're doing.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm more curious about what the selection was like at

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<v Speaker 5>that buffet.

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<v Speaker 1>You want to know if there's crab legs or not.

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<v Speaker 1>I do.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm glad you're asking you if it was like a

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<v Speaker 4>oyster like a seafood buffet.

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<v Speaker 2>I do love when they have when they have a crash.

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<v Speaker 5>Because you said it's a breakfast buffet, So does that

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<v Speaker 5>mean it's all serve yourself or is there a menu

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<v Speaker 5>that you can order off of? Like I need a

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<v Speaker 5>new spot to hit up.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean, this is my secret spot. I'm not telling anyone. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 7>I'm gay king thing. But there was a carving station

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<v Speaker 7>which was sick. I was putting down the bacon, but

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<v Speaker 7>shoeses into like a ton of different fruit.

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<v Speaker 1>Usually it's usually just like one fruit salad.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's like the worst part of the buffet.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, there's a kiwi there.

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<v Speaker 2>Usually kiwis unless it's the real fancy ones have the

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<v Speaker 2>smoothie stations.

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<v Speaker 7>Like I said before, like I won't tell.

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<v Speaker 6>You where this place is.

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<v Speaker 7>But the place is legit. It has absolutely everything, all

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<v Speaker 7>the fruits.

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<v Speaker 3>And fruit palace. You won't ask questions.

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<v Speaker 7>So being the gentleman that I am. Like, every time

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<v Speaker 7>I was either going or coming back, I would ask her, like,

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<v Speaker 7>is there anything that I can get you? Running up

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<v Speaker 7>getting her bagel, getting there some pineapples?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you describe your trips to the buffet? It sounds

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<v Speaker 1>like you two did some damage at this place, which

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<v Speaker 1>is good, right. I imagine him just being the serve

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<v Speaker 1>her to her honestly.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, get your money's worth. But did anything like awkward

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<v Speaker 5>or weird happen?

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<v Speaker 3>Well?

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<v Speaker 7>Like I decided to reveal to her this uh like

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<v Speaker 7>age old brunch hack that me and my friends have

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<v Speaker 7>or had.

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<v Speaker 1>What is it?

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<v Speaker 7>You know how hotels do continental breakfast for the guests. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 7>so like if you just walk into this hotel and

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<v Speaker 7>you just walk up to the buffet, sit down, get

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<v Speaker 7>your food, sit down, like you know what you're doing,

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<v Speaker 7>like you belong there? Do you just eat it in length?

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<v Speaker 2>That's very risky though, because you make your show the

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<v Speaker 2>little cupons usually like the little people.

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<v Speaker 1>You wouldn't take her to a hotel, did you?

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<v Speaker 2>No?

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<v Speaker 7>No, I just told her that hack.

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<v Speaker 3>That hack that's actually just an illegal activity. Okay, I

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<v Speaker 3>mean the eggs.

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<v Speaker 2>Aren't real anyway, And how old has that waffled been

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<v Speaker 2>sitting there.

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<v Speaker 3>Something, jes Yes. How did Katrina reacts to hearing your hack?

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<v Speaker 7>I mean like immediately she just had this look on

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<v Speaker 7>her face like I don't know, like my face was

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<v Speaker 7>melting off.

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<v Speaker 3>It was not good.

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<v Speaker 2>She's a better person than Yeah, you would think she'd

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<v Speaker 2>laugh and talk about like how she got free stuff

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<v Speaker 2>in college something, you.

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<v Speaker 3>Know, unless you did it last week. And she probably

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<v Speaker 3>assumed that you weren't going to pay for brunch this.

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<v Speaker 1>She's like, wait, have you paid for this meal tonight yet?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? Oh yeah.

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<v Speaker 7>I had to backpedal and be like I only did

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<v Speaker 7>this when I was seventeen, Like I'm gonna tip like

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<v Speaker 7>thirty percent now?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So did the whole energy shift after that combo?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah? We wrapped up hugs, so really weird. And then

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<v Speaker 7>we haven't spoken in.

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<v Speaker 3>Like a whole week.

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<v Speaker 2>YI.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you tried?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 7>I reached out. I texted her the next day because

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<v Speaker 7>I was kind of like hoping she would text me

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<v Speaker 7>later that day being like I had such a good

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<v Speaker 7>time or something, and she didn't.

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<v Speaker 3>Think you did this to yourself.

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<v Speaker 4>You taught her how to get free food and she

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<v Speaker 4>doesn't need you anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>She's busy. Yeah, she does you a person fish or

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<v Speaker 1>teach him to fish? I see you go.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, we'll find out when we call her and see

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<v Speaker 5>if she actually stole your brunchhack and is using it

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<v Speaker 5>for evil when we do your second date update right

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<v Speaker 5>after this.

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<v Speaker 7>Thank you guys, and then hold on.

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<v Speaker 5>Second date update if you're just joining us for the

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<v Speaker 5>second date update. We've been talking to res about his

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<v Speaker 5>brunch date at a super secret brunch location that he

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<v Speaker 5>refuses to disclose on the radio.

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<v Speaker 1>It's very strange how protective he is at this place.

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<v Speaker 3>He's he is, But.

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<v Speaker 5>That's where he took a woman named Katrina recently, and

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<v Speaker 5>it was going extremely well until he made the mistake

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<v Speaker 5>of speaking specifically speaking about his brunch hack, where you

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<v Speaker 5>can get free continental breakfast from hotels if you just

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<v Speaker 5>walk in and act like you're staying there.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean that's that's stealing it.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, but stealing things doesn't cost anything, so that can.

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<v Speaker 3>Be considered a hack. Yeah, if you look at it

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<v Speaker 3>in a different way.

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<v Speaker 1>It was an idea.

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<v Speaker 5>It did change the vibe for the rest of their date, though,

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<v Speaker 5>because Katrina did not have the best reaction. He's hoping

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<v Speaker 5>we can get things back on track. And in an

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<v Speaker 5>unrelated note, the CEO of Best Western called in and

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<v Speaker 5>wants to speak to you after the segment is over. Okay, Rez,

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<v Speaker 5>I gave them your phone number so you can chat later.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean, I had been to nothing, though.

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<v Speaker 1>You already admitted to it.

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<v Speaker 3>Head, we have recorded.

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<v Speaker 2>Evidence, So I'm gonna tell you should ask for a

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<v Speaker 2>lawyer if you ever get called in.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't do your own talking, you know.

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<v Speaker 7>I honestly I regret talking about it to you guys,

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<v Speaker 7>and I regret talking about on my date.

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<v Speaker 5>This is ruining my life.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, wow, well that seems dramatic.

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<v Speaker 5>The good news is we don't know if that was

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<v Speaker 5>the cause. Sure she could have some other re in

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<v Speaker 5>to not be calling you back. But let's dial her

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<v Speaker 5>number right now. We'll figure out what she has to say.

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<v Speaker 5>All right, great, Hopefully she picks up. And this is

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<v Speaker 5>a good time for you to not say anything.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, All right, here we go. I'm dialar right now.

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<v Speaker 7>Hello.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey is this Katrina? Yes, hey, Katrina, You're on a

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<v Speaker 3>radio show right now.

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<v Speaker 5>It's called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 7>Bye, Hi, welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 4>I like jeff branched out there for a Yeahtyle.

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<v Speaker 3>I know it really opened up.

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<v Speaker 6>Sorry, I'm on a radio show.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it's called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning, And

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<v Speaker 5>this is a segment that we do. You might be

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<v Speaker 5>familiar with it. It's called a second date update.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know. Is this like a prank?

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<v Speaker 5>No, No, we do those too, Yeah, but this one

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<v Speaker 5>is one where we're trying to help one of our

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<v Speaker 5>listeners get back in touch with you after you went

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<v Speaker 5>on a date with him, a guy named Res.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, yeah, look, I'm sorry. There's just no way that

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<v Speaker 6>I can go out with him again. But thank you

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<v Speaker 6>guys for calling.

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<v Speaker 5>No wait, wait, that's okay for you to say that,

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<v Speaker 5>but could you maybe give us a little bit more

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<v Speaker 5>information on why, because Res is really confused. He told

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<v Speaker 5>us about your brunch date, but he's clueless for the reason.

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<v Speaker 2>You might be blowing him off, and you sound real

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<v Speaker 2>strong in that conviction there that you don't want to

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<v Speaker 2>see him again.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean I should say he was a really nice guy.

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<v Speaker 6>He was very polite. He was like offering to get

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<v Speaker 6>any food. We went to this brunch buffet.

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<v Speaker 1>Why wouldn't you want to do that.

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<v Speaker 3>You don't like nice guys?

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<v Speaker 6>No, I like nice guys. He's just missing something missing.

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<v Speaker 3>Did something happen at the buffet that turns you off?

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, yeah, it was. Honestly, it was so weird,

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<v Speaker 6>like I've never I've never experienced anything like this before.

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<v Speaker 6>It was it was so strange. Like I said, he

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<v Speaker 6>was really nice. He's like offering to go get me

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<v Speaker 6>food right from the buffet, which was like very gentlemanly

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<v Speaker 6>of him. I was like, sure, okay, I'll have like

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<v Speaker 6>some candlope. And then I'd see him walking around and

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<v Speaker 6>he finally comes back a few minutes later and he's like, oh,

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<v Speaker 6>they don't have it. But I could see it from

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<v Speaker 6>where we were sitting, Like I could see there was

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<v Speaker 6>candlope sitting on like one of the buffet things.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe he's one of those guys that gets candle open

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<v Speaker 2>honeydew mixed up.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe he's like some men don't know they're melons.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, I was like, maybe he missed it right,

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<v Speaker 6>Maybe he just didn't see it, Like there's a lot

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<v Speaker 6>of food there. So I winted to where it was

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<v Speaker 6>and I was like, oh, I think I see it

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<v Speaker 6>right over there. So he gets up, he walks over there,

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<v Speaker 6>and I see him like circling the table and he's

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<v Speaker 6>not grabbing the cantlope. And then he brings me back

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<v Speaker 6>a bowl of like fairies and he was like, they

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<v Speaker 6>didn't have it. So I just got you this. I

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<v Speaker 6>hope that's okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, So did you just get up and go get it? Finally?

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<v Speaker 6>Well, no, because I realized I don't think this guy

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<v Speaker 6>knows what canalope is, Like, I don't how do you

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<v Speaker 6>not know what a candelope is?

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<v Speaker 3>I a tree?

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<v Speaker 6>I was so shocked in that moment. Wow.

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<v Speaker 5>So just to be clear, the big red flag in

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<v Speaker 5>your mind was that this is a man who does

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<v Speaker 5>not understand what type of fruit canelope is.

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<v Speaker 3>Like that's a big turn off to you him, Like you're.

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<v Speaker 6>A thirty year old man and you've never heard of candleop?

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<v Speaker 6>What else has he not heard of you? We're going

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<v Speaker 6>to go on a date and he's gonna be like, oh,

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<v Speaker 6>I can't read, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Can't read candalop to suddenly the poor man can't read?

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<v Speaker 1>Like that is a wild jump to make.

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<v Speaker 6>Those are basic things though, Like if it's one basic

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<v Speaker 6>thing he doesn't comprehend, then what any other basic thing

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<v Speaker 6>is going to show up?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, let's ask him what a they're basic things? He

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<v Speaker 5>doesn't know and comprehend the math because res is on

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<v Speaker 5>the other line of this phone call right now, listening,

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<v Speaker 5>waiting to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 6>What are you talking about? He is not?

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<v Speaker 3>He actually is that That's how this segment works.

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<v Speaker 1>He could wait and right enough to email us. So

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<v Speaker 1>that's a good sign.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, you get chatchypt to do a lot of that

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<v Speaker 5>stuff for you.

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<v Speaker 3>Credits. Are you there? Oh I'm here?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh wow?

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<v Speaker 3>Are you Are you hearing what Katrina is saying about.

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<v Speaker 7>You being fruit shamed?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, with good reason, some would argue.

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<v Speaker 6>But yeah, I'm sorry. I didn't know you were on

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<v Speaker 6>the phone. They didn't tell me. They just they asked

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<v Speaker 6>me the questions. I just said the truth, like you

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<v Speaker 6>can't deny it. I obviously would have not said it

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<v Speaker 6>like that had I known you were listening. I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 7>Well I know I know now I googled it.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, we love a man who learns. Yeah, there,

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<v Speaker 1>you know he took your criticism. He's not offended. That's

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<v Speaker 1>pretty good.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, Katrina, this must feel like growth, right, you've encouraged this.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, I'm glad he learned. I'm glad that I

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<v Speaker 6>was able to help him expand his knowledge, like help

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<v Speaker 6>the less fortunate in terms of what they know about fruit. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 6>it doesn't change how I feel.

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<v Speaker 1>The less fortunate.

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<v Speaker 3>That is so rude, the fruit illiterate out there. It's

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<v Speaker 3>a real problem.

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<v Speaker 7>I feel like I'm Oliver Twist over here, like I'm

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<v Speaker 7>low class or something.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know what a candle?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you hear that literary reference again? Prove the man reads?

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<v Speaker 3>He did say Twist weird.

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<v Speaker 1>Though, this is so weird, like this is not a

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<v Speaker 1>class thing. He just didn't know what a cantelope is.

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<v Speaker 1>He knows. Now, you guys can go out.

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<v Speaker 3>Again, Katrina.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean, hear me out in the moment, I did

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<v Speaker 7>not know what a cantelope was, and you know, like

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<v Speaker 7>apparently I should know this, and now I do. Everyone

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<v Speaker 7>on the show knows. I know, you know, we're all

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<v Speaker 7>on the same page. I'm adaptable. I can learn.

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<v Speaker 1>Look at that that's hard nowadays.

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<v Speaker 7>I was just never round canelope. But like that doesn't

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<v Speaker 7>seem like enough of a reason not to like community.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, I appreciate you saying that. And I don't

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<v Speaker 6>mean to fruit shame you. It's just a thing that

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<v Speaker 6>I immediately felt like a yak about you not knowing

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<v Speaker 6>that basic thing, and I I appreciate you taking the

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<v Speaker 6>time to do the research. I wish you would have

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<v Speaker 6>gone to the bathroom and googled it instead of like

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<v Speaker 6>running around and like god to.

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<v Speaker 1>Get new candalope.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, desperate times call for desperate measures sometimes. But but Katrina,

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, in a lot of relationships, a big part

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<v Speaker 5>of it is doing new things and exploring new things together.

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<v Speaker 5>That could be your journey with res and educating him

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<v Speaker 5>through all of the different types of fruits that exist

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<v Speaker 5>in the world.

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<v Speaker 1>The rest know a lot of stuff that you don't

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<v Speaker 1>know yet too, you know, on the flip side, oh vegetables.

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<v Speaker 2>Nobody means to that saying you learn new interests and

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<v Speaker 2>new stuff through people.

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<v Speaker 1>That you date.

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<v Speaker 5>Are you willing to keep an open mind and give

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<v Speaker 5>res one more chances? And we would pay for it

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<v Speaker 5>if you'd go out with him another time.

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<v Speaker 6>I just think it's weird, Like it's his brunch place.

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<v Speaker 6>He brought me there. They have a lot of candalope there,

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<v Speaker 6>Like I feel like he should have known it.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, we can't. We can't get over this one.

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<v Speaker 4>Word in the future.

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<v Speaker 3>I know.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like such a small hill to climb, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>to jump over this moment.

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<v Speaker 5>Everybody is different, Brooke. It's not your life that we're

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<v Speaker 5>living here. Katrina has standards in One of the standards

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<v Speaker 5>is canalope, or at least knowing what a canalope is. So, Katrina,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm assuming that it's a no from you. That's kind

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<v Speaker 5>of what I'm hearing.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I just I don't think I can get plf it.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, what if he can name ten fruits right now?

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<v Speaker 4>He app.

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<v Speaker 3>I was kidding.

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<v Speaker 1>There's no way he's picking guava out of a table.

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<v Speaker 1>There's no.

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<v Speaker 3>He just googled fruits right now and he's just looking

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<v Speaker 3>it up.

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<v Speaker 4>It's alphabetical, apple, banana, cherry.

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<v Speaker 5>Nice try right, Brooking Jeffrey in the morning, Brooke, this

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<v Speaker 5>might surprise you, but I kind of agree with you

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<v Speaker 5>on this whole canalope situation.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh you've come to my side.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I agree.

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<v Speaker 5>It's a small problem that she should probably get over.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>Sure, but it's more than just he doesn't know the

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<v Speaker 5>name of one fruit. What is it that like this

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<v Speaker 5>is just a small slice of a larger picture that

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<v Speaker 5>Katrina is recognizing. Where she's thinking, God, if he doesn't

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<v Speaker 5>know something as basic as this, how is he gonna

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<v Speaker 5>fit into the rest of my life? Like with my

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<v Speaker 5>upscale friends and my melon loving parents will accept him?

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<v Speaker 5>Like what else am I getting myself into? That's where

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<v Speaker 5>her mind was at.

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<v Speaker 4>What's gonna happen? And someone hands are a kumquat? She

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<v Speaker 4>has no idea what to do. I don't even know

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<v Speaker 4>what a kum quat looks like.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, so it's like she's looking down the road of

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<v Speaker 5>like other problems that are gonna be arising if he doesn't.

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<v Speaker 1>Know this making problems. The real problem is how much

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<v Speaker 1>fruit she's eating at breakfast and said, pancakes and baked

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<v Speaker 1>you must spend a lot of time in the bathroom.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'm with you on there. Should have eaten more meats.

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<v Speaker 5>But still, you gotta respect people for where their line

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<v Speaker 5>is drawn.

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<v Speaker 3>That's where she draws the line.

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<v Speaker 2>No, camelope, I guess it's a very very short line.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, plus you have to wait in the embarrassment too

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<v Speaker 5>of telling her friends she decided to go out with

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<v Speaker 5>melon boy again. That's hard to come back from, but

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<v Speaker 5>hopefully we can help you come back. If you're struggling

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<v Speaker 5>to get a second date, email the show. We'll call

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<v Speaker 5>that person who's not calling you back and go check

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<v Speaker 5>yours at Brooke and Jeffrey