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Speaker 1: Hey, it's Brigan Jeffrey and you have found your brand

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Speaker 1: new second Dy podcast Yes Friday, to get you through

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Speaker 1: whatever you need to today or just make you laugh.

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Speaker 2: That's it.

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Speaker 1: That's the goal here. And this actually is really funny.

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Speaker 1: It is. It's a really funny one. I think you're

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Speaker 1: really going to enjoy it.

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Speaker 2: You know, this guy was definitely worried about a story,

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Speaker 2: an old story he told that he thought would be

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Speaker 2: funny that you know, he came off as a freeloading criminal.

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Speaker 1: But whatever she did. Laugh, it happens, It happens, It happens.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna do the whole thing. And we always love.

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Speaker 2: To read your comments because it really means so much

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Speaker 2: to us that you take time out of your day

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Speaker 2: to write them.

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Speaker 1: So, alexis, what do you like?

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Speaker 2: I saw one from olin A who said the only

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Speaker 2: thing that should have been offered to him was a

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Speaker 2: therapy session.

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Speaker 1: My god, about past second.

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Speaker 2: Date, and I'm thinking, what if we did offer therapy

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Speaker 2: in dinner it would be a really good Like, instead

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Speaker 2: of the gift certificate, you get just a therapy session.

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Speaker 3: You're trying to destroy the show.

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Speaker 1: That's a good point.

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Speaker 4: No one get therapy and requesting dates from most second dates.

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Speaker 1: Meant disable people don't call radio stories. All right, I

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Speaker 1: see you, Jose. All right, your brand new second date

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Speaker 1: starts right now.

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Speaker 3: Second date update.

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Speaker 5: You ask anybody and you'll get a lot of different

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Speaker 5: responses for what's the best time of day for a date?

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, because I mean you have the traditional seven

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Speaker 3: I'm literally going to see seven pm.

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Speaker 5: But then you also have the hikers and bikers who

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Speaker 5: are like, ooh, five in the morning, let's wake up

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Speaker 4: Wait, but I gotta get up at two am first

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Speaker 6: Before or five?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, our listener res he might fall somewhere in the

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Speaker 5: middle of those based on what he chose to do

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Speaker 5: for his first date the other day, So let's talk

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Speaker 5: to him about it.

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Speaker 3: Rez, Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 7: Hey guys, thanks for having me.

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Speaker 3: Hey you doing.

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Speaker 2: Oh we're pretty good. Yeah, good time of day to

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Speaker 5: Yeah, what time of day do you like to go

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Speaker 7: Res, I'm a gentleman, so I like to go at

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Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, so you asked them when would

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Speaker 7: Yeah exactly.

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Speaker 5: Like, so tell us about this woman that you met recently,

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Speaker 7: So this woman's name is Katrina, and she said she

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think a great date.

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Speaker 7: Yeah exactly. So we did like a Sunday brunch buffet

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Speaker 7: like immediately, and I was like, on my best behavior,

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Speaker 5: You know a lot of people like to get rowdy

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Speaker 4: Don't push her into the door, open it for her.

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Speaker 3: Okay, put into it. Let her go first for the

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Speaker 1: That's cute. I mean, were you able to connect?

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Speaker 5: I know Brooke wants to know about your connection and

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Speaker 5: I'm more curious about what the selection was like at

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Speaker 1: You want to know if there's crab legs or not.

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Speaker 4: I'm glad you're asking you if it was like a

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Speaker 2: I do love when they have when they have a crash.

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Speaker 5: Because you said it's a breakfast buffet, So does that

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Speaker 7: I mean, this is my secret spot. I'm not telling anyone. Yeah,

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Speaker 7: I'm gay king thing. But there was a carving station

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Speaker 1: Usually it's usually just like one fruit salad.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like the worst part of the buffet.

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Speaker 7: Like I said before, like I won't tell.

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Speaker 6: You where this place is.

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Speaker 7: But the place is legit. It has absolutely everything, all

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Speaker 3: And fruit palace. You won't ask questions.

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Speaker 7: So being the gentleman that I am. Like, every time

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Speaker 1: Did you describe your trips to the buffet? It sounds

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Speaker 5: Well, get your money's worth. But did anything like awkward

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Speaker 3: Well?

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Speaker 7: Like I decided to reveal to her this uh like

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Speaker 1: What is it?

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Speaker 7: You know how hotels do continental breakfast for the guests. Yeah,

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Speaker 7: so like if you just walk into this hotel and

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Speaker 7: like you belong there? Do you just eat it in length?

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Speaker 2: That's very risky though, because you make your show the

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Speaker 2: little cupons usually like the little people.

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Speaker 1: You wouldn't take her to a hotel, did you?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 7: No, I just told her that hack.

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Speaker 3: That hack that's actually just an illegal activity. Okay, I

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Speaker 2: Aren't real anyway, And how old has that waffled been

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Speaker 3: Something, jes Yes. How did Katrina reacts to hearing your hack?

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Speaker 7: I mean like immediately she just had this look on

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Speaker 3: It was not good.

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Speaker 2: She's a better person than Yeah, you would think she'd

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Speaker 3: Know, unless you did it last week. And she probably

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Speaker 3: assumed that you weren't going to pay for brunch this.

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Speaker 1: She's like, wait, have you paid for this meal tonight yet?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Oh yeah.

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Speaker 7: I had to backpedal and be like I only did

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Speaker 7: this when I was seventeen, Like I'm gonna tip like

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Speaker 7: thirty percent now?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So did the whole energy shift after that combo?

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Speaker 7: Yeah? We wrapped up hugs, so really weird. And then

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Speaker 7: we haven't spoken in.

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Speaker 3: Like a whole week.

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Speaker 2: YI.

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Speaker 1: Have you tried?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 7: I reached out. I texted her the next day because

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Speaker 7: I was kind of like hoping she would text me

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Speaker 3: Think you did this to yourself.

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Speaker 4: You taught her how to get free food and she

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Speaker 4: doesn't need you anymore.

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Speaker 1: She's busy. Yeah, she does you a person fish or

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Speaker 1: teach him to fish? I see you go.

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Speaker 5: Well, we'll find out when we call her and see

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Speaker 5: if she actually stole your brunchhack and is using it

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Speaker 5: for evil when we do your second date update right

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Speaker 5: after this.

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Speaker 7: Thank you guys, and then hold on.

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Speaker 5: Second date update if you're just joining us for the

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Speaker 5: second date update. We've been talking to res about his

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Speaker 5: brunch date at a super secret brunch location that he

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Speaker 1: It's very strange how protective he is at this place.

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Speaker 3: He's he is, But.

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Speaker 5: That's where he took a woman named Katrina recently, and

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Speaker 5: it was going extremely well until he made the mistake

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Speaker 5: of speaking specifically speaking about his brunch hack, where you

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Speaker 5: can get free continental breakfast from hotels if you just

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean that's that's stealing it.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, but stealing things doesn't cost anything, so that can.

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Speaker 3: Be considered a hack. Yeah, if you look at it

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Speaker 3: in a different way.

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Speaker 1: It was an idea.

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Speaker 5: It did change the vibe for the rest of their date, though,

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Speaker 5: because Katrina did not have the best reaction. He's hoping

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Speaker 5: unrelated note, the CEO of Best Western called in and

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Speaker 5: wants to speak to you after the segment is over. Okay, Rez,

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Speaker 5: I gave them your phone number so you can chat later.

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Speaker 7: I mean, I had been to nothing, though.

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Speaker 1: You already admitted to it.

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Speaker 3: Head, we have recorded.

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Speaker 2: Evidence, So I'm gonna tell you should ask for a

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Speaker 2: lawyer if you ever get called in.

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Speaker 1: Don't do your own talking, you know.

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Speaker 7: I honestly I regret talking about it to you guys,

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Speaker 7: and I regret talking about on my date.

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Speaker 5: This is ruining my life.

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Speaker 1: Yes, wow, well that seems dramatic.

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Speaker 5: The good news is we don't know if that was

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Speaker 5: the cause. Sure she could have some other re in

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Speaker 5: to not be calling you back. But let's dial her

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Speaker 5: number right now. We'll figure out what she has to say.

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Speaker 5: All right, great, Hopefully she picks up. And this is

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Speaker 5: a good time for you to not say anything.

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Speaker 3: Okay, All right, here we go. I'm dialar right now.

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Speaker 7: Hello.

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Speaker 3: Hey is this Katrina? Yes, hey, Katrina, You're on a

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Speaker 3: radio show right now.

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Speaker 5: It's called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 7: Bye, Hi, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 4: I like jeff branched out there for a Yeahtyle.

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Speaker 3: I know it really opened up.

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Speaker 6: Sorry, I'm on a radio show.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it's called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning, And

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Speaker 5: this is a segment that we do. You might be

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Speaker 5: familiar with it. It's called a second date update.

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Speaker 6: I don't know. Is this like a prank?

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Speaker 5: No, No, we do those too, Yeah, but this one

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Speaker 7: Oh.

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Speaker 6: Okay, yeah, look, I'm sorry. There's just no way that

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Speaker 2: You might be blowing him off, and you sound real

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 6: I mean I should say he was a really nice guy.

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Speaker 6: He was very polite. He was like offering to get

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Speaker 1: Why wouldn't you want to do that.

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Speaker 3: You don't like nice guys?

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Speaker 6: No, I like nice guys. He's just missing something missing.

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Speaker 3: Did something happen at the buffet that turns you off?

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Speaker 2: Maybe he's one of those guys that gets candle open

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Speaker 1: Maybe he's like some men don't know they're melons.

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Speaker 6: I mean, I was like, maybe he missed it right,

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Speaker 6: Maybe he just didn't see it, Like there's a lot

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Speaker 6: Well, no, because I realized I don't think this guy

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Speaker 5: So just to be clear, the big red flag in

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Speaker 3: Like that's a big turn off to you him, Like you're.

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Speaker 6: A thirty year old man and you've never heard of candleop?

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Speaker 6: What else has he not heard of you? We're going

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Speaker 6: to go on a date and he's gonna be like, oh,

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Speaker 2: Can't read candalop to suddenly the poor man can't read?

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Speaker 6: Those are basic things though, Like if it's one basic

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Speaker 5: Well, let's ask him what a they're basic things? He

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Speaker 5: the other line of this phone call right now, listening,

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Speaker 6: What are you talking about? He is not?

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Speaker 3: He actually is that That's how this segment works.

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Speaker 1: He could wait and right enough to email us. So

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Speaker 1: that's a good sign.

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Speaker 5: Well, you get chatchypt to do a lot of that

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Speaker 3: Credits. Are you there? Oh I'm here?

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Speaker 1: Oh wow?

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Speaker 3: Are you Are you hearing what Katrina is saying about.

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Speaker 7: You being fruit shamed?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, with good reason, some would argue.

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Speaker 6: But yeah, I'm sorry. I didn't know you were on

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Speaker 6: me the questions. I just said the truth, like you

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Speaker 6: can't deny it. I obviously would have not said it

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Speaker 7: Well I know I know now I googled it.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, we love a man who learns. Yeah, there,

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Speaker 1: you know he took your criticism. He's not offended. That's

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Katrina, this must feel like growth, right, you've encouraged this.

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Speaker 6: I mean, I'm glad he learned. I'm glad that I

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Speaker 6: it doesn't change how I feel.

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Speaker 1: The less fortunate.

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Speaker 3: That is so rude, the fruit illiterate out there. It's

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Speaker 7: I feel like I'm Oliver Twist over here, like I'm

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Speaker 6: I don't know what a candle?

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Speaker 1: Do you hear that literary reference again? Prove the man reads?

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Speaker 3: He did say Twist weird.

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Speaker 1: Though, this is so weird, like this is not a

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Speaker 1: He knows. Now, you guys can go out.

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Speaker 3: Again, Katrina.

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Speaker 7: I mean, hear me out in the moment, I did

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Speaker 7: I was just never round canelope. But like that doesn't

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Speaker 6: I mean, I appreciate you saying that. And I don't

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Speaker 6: I immediately felt like a yak about you not knowing

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Speaker 1: Get new candalope.

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Speaker 5: Well, desperate times call for desperate measures sometimes. But but Katrina,

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Speaker 5: I mean, in a lot of relationships, a big part

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Speaker 5: That could be your journey with res and educating him

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Speaker 1: The rest know a lot of stuff that you don't

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Speaker 2: Nobody means to that saying you learn new interests and

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Speaker 1: That you date.

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Speaker 5: Are you willing to keep an open mind and give

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Speaker 6: I just think it's weird, Like it's his brunch place.

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Speaker 6: He brought me there. They have a lot of candalope there,

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Speaker 1: Okay, we can't. We can't get over this one.

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Speaker 4: Word in the future.

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Speaker 3: I know.

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Speaker 2: It's like such a small hill to climb, you know,

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Speaker 5: Everybody is different, Brooke. It's not your life that we're

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Speaker 4: Okay, what if he can name ten fruits right now?

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Speaker 4: He app.

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Speaker 3: I was kidding.

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Speaker 1: There's no way he's picking guava out of a table.

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Speaker 3: He just googled fruits right now and he's just looking

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Speaker 4: It's alphabetical, apple, banana, cherry.

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Speaker 5: Nice try right, Brooking Jeffrey in the morning, Brooke, this

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Speaker 1: Oh you've come to my side.

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Speaker 3: Well, I agree.

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Speaker 5: It's a small problem that she should probably get over.

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Speaker 5: Sure, but it's more than just he doesn't know the

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Speaker 5: Like what else am I getting myself into? That's where

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Speaker 4: What's gonna happen? And someone hands are a kumquat? She

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Speaker 1: Know this making problems. The real problem is how much

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm with you on there. Should have eaten more meats.

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Speaker 5: But still, you gotta respect people for where their line

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Speaker 3: That's where she draws the line.

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Speaker 2: No, camelope, I guess it's a very very short line.

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Speaker 5: Well, plus you have to wait in the embarrassment too

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Speaker 5: of telling her friends she decided to go out with

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Speaker 5: melon boy again. That's hard to come back from, but

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Speaker 5: hopefully we can help you come back. If you're struggling

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Speaker 5: to get a second date, email the show. We'll call

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Speaker 5: that person who's not calling you back and go check

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Speaker 5: yours at Brooke and Jeffrey