WEBVTT - Desert Diaries

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome back to Good Mom's Bad Choices. I'm Erica and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm Mela. Happy Wednesday, Happy hump Day, y'all. We are

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<v Speaker 1>live from the desert. We've been on a little Good

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<v Speaker 1>Mom's Personal retreat. Was supposed to be like a day.

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<v Speaker 1>We extended it because we needed more time.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we came all the way in this isolated house

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<v Speaker 2>with a now TV on a big ass property with

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<v Speaker 2>a barn, and we brought groceries and we basically didn't

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<v Speaker 2>leave just to go to the National Park, got in

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<v Speaker 2>the jacuzzi, did a trailler looking at it on Patreon,

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<v Speaker 2>and you know, we slept, worked and took mushrooms.

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<v Speaker 1>I definitely had an intense journey. I told Jamila that

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<v Speaker 1>I've been like kind of like when I've been taking mushrooms,

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't really been like taking them all the way.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been like, you know, babying it. So I went

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<v Speaker 1>all the way in. I made us go all the

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<v Speaker 1>way down the rabbit hole, and we climbed out.

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<v Speaker 2>By the skin of our teeth. Yeah, Erica had a

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<v Speaker 2>bright idea to not take one full dose chocolate, but

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<v Speaker 2>to take two each on an empty fucking stomach, which

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<v Speaker 2>is wonderful, except we decided that we should cook right

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<v Speaker 2>as we took it. That meal didn't never got eaten

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<v Speaker 2>or completed, and they could eat in but like hours later,

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<v Speaker 2>it wasn't good.

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<v Speaker 1>It was terrible.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't recommend you taking double the dosage I do.

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<v Speaker 1>I liked it.

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<v Speaker 2>No, we did have a good time. I'm just saying,

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<v Speaker 2>if it's like your first time, don't do what we did. Also,

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<v Speaker 2>I had an allergic reaction, which was not good, which

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<v Speaker 2>you yeah, generally when you take any type of hallucinogen,

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<v Speaker 2>the people highly recommend that you don't look in the mirror.

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<v Speaker 2>I looked in the mirror, and I knew something wasn't

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<v Speaker 2>looking right, but I was like, you know what, it's

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<v Speaker 2>because I'm on mushrooms and this place also doesn't have

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<v Speaker 2>many mirrors. They're all very vintagey, the one in the bathroom.

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<v Speaker 2>So we're in the jacuzzi and Eric's like, oh god,

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<v Speaker 2>I think you're having an allergic reaction. You guys. My

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<v Speaker 2>eyes swollow up so big.

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<v Speaker 1>She looked like hitch, like low key like I was

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<v Speaker 1>like in the jacuzzi, and I didn't really notice because

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<v Speaker 1>it was all like moonlight and shit. And then She's like,

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<v Speaker 1>I think I'm like having an allergic reaction. Can you

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<v Speaker 1>look at my face? And like I was like, oh fuck.

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<v Speaker 2>Like She's like, I have to go get you something.

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<v Speaker 2>It was like one o'clock in the morning and we're

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<v Speaker 2>in the desert off of the dirt road. I'm like, bitch,

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<v Speaker 2>where do you think you're going? There's nowhere to go.

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<v Speaker 2>We're gonna have to stay and we're high as hell.

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<v Speaker 1>Like her face was Wow. If you guys want to

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<v Speaker 1>see her face, you have to go check out our

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<v Speaker 1>Patreon where we posted the photo because it was kind

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<v Speaker 1>of scary. I'm glad she was okay. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>kept asking her if she was okay. She kept saying yes,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I was like, you know what, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>stop asking because I'm gonna I don't want to freak

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<v Speaker 1>her out.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, am I okay?

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, I don't want to freak her out.

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<v Speaker 1>And honestly, there's nothing I can do about this unless

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<v Speaker 1>we call nine one one, which I'm really we all

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<v Speaker 1>know we ain't called nine one one, so.

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<v Speaker 2>Not for two black girls in the desert alone taking

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<v Speaker 2>fucking mushrooms. No, we're not not good and then like

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<v Speaker 2>before she discovered I was having an allergic reaction, I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, I was crying. I couldn't breathe. She's like,

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<v Speaker 2>it's okay, you're detoxing these niggas. So she's like, we

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<v Speaker 2>ate all the same things, We've consumed all the same things.

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<v Speaker 2>There's there's no way you're having a legigraction. It's just

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<v Speaker 2>a niggas coming out of your system.

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<v Speaker 1>It was. I'm still convinced it was because we did

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<v Speaker 1>we ate everything the same, We did everything the same.

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<v Speaker 1>That day, she was the only one that whose eyes

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<v Speaker 1>were just detoxing.

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<v Speaker 2>My body is really not has really betrayed me this week,

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<v Speaker 2>five days ago, my lip was big as shit from

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<v Speaker 2>the car accident, like hitched. Then five days later I

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<v Speaker 2>come to the desert and my eyes swell up really big.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just like, fuck you.

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<v Speaker 1>Fuck you. Maybe the universe is trying to tell you

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<v Speaker 1>to take care of your body more.

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<v Speaker 2>Probably I.

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<v Speaker 1>Believe her, Yeah, because like I think I told you

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<v Speaker 1>if you talked about this last time, about like I

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<v Speaker 1>think when I went to Tahoe, how I took them

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<v Speaker 1>and like I just like really was so aware of

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<v Speaker 1>my body and like not in like a judgmental form,

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<v Speaker 1>like just looking at like my body and like this

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<v Speaker 1>is like this is the thing that carries us through life.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think it's the most the thing we take

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<v Speaker 1>for granted the most. I mean, I know I do,

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<v Speaker 1>like I put a bunch of shit in it. I

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<v Speaker 1>eat a bunch of shit.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't eat, don't I.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't water And I even now like when I sit

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<v Speaker 1>on my knees for too long, that sounds really sexual,

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<v Speaker 1>but yeah, when I sit on my knee, off my knees,

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<v Speaker 1>when I get up off these damn knees, she like,

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<v Speaker 1>I literally can't stand up quickly, like it hurts. My

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<v Speaker 1>joints are hurting. Like so I'm starting to feel like

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<v Speaker 1>my body age. And we got to take care of

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<v Speaker 1>our We got to take care of ourselves. Yeah, it's true.

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<v Speaker 2>It's so easy as as a parent, as a mom

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<v Speaker 2>to avoid yourself, like taking care of yourself because you're

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<v Speaker 2>taking care of everybody else. But you know, like I

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<v Speaker 2>eat probably once a day at like six ish, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>realizing I really don't get hungry unless I smoke. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't drink enough water. And yeah, body at some point

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<v Speaker 2>like bitch, fuck you, and especially in the time like now,

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<v Speaker 2>with like the mystery of Corona fucking harboring over the world,

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<v Speaker 2>it's even more time to just tap into your body

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<v Speaker 2>and reinforce it with good stuff, good food. And that's

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<v Speaker 2>so hard. It takes so much work to take care

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<v Speaker 2>of yourself. But also if we don't, what are we

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<v Speaker 2>left with?

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<v Speaker 1>I know, I think at the top of this pandemic,

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<v Speaker 1>like I was really taking care of myself so much.

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<v Speaker 1>If you guys follow my other Instagram, I was posting

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<v Speaker 1>like all my juices I was taking. I went on

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<v Speaker 1>a juice cleanse, I was, you know, working out like

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<v Speaker 1>a jail and made and somewhere along the line, I

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<v Speaker 1>fell apart and I need to get back to it.

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<v Speaker 1>My horoscope said, I was reading my horoscope yesterday my

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<v Speaker 1>friend Nisha sent me, and it said basically that this

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<v Speaker 1>month in July, I need to get back into tune

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<v Speaker 1>with routine and exercise and that's what's really gonna help

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<v Speaker 1>me this month. And like I've been feeling that, like

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<v Speaker 1>I know, I need to get back into a routine

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<v Speaker 1>and taking care of my body because it's one of

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<v Speaker 1>those things for me, like if I don't take care

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<v Speaker 1>of it, like I just everything feels off, my mental

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<v Speaker 1>health feels off, all of it, and so I started

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<v Speaker 1>working out. But I just have to do better with

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<v Speaker 1>what I put into this vessel that is carrying me

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<v Speaker 1>through life, because I'm not here forever and want and

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<v Speaker 1>while I'm here, I don't want to be fucking aching

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<v Speaker 1>and being in pain and being in the doct going

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<v Speaker 1>to the doctor and all those things.

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<v Speaker 2>And also, like I care about my health, I care

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<v Speaker 2>about what I put in my body. Like I know

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<v Speaker 2>all these things, and so it irritates me that I'm

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<v Speaker 2>aware of it and I know it's what I should do,

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<v Speaker 2>but I don't. And that's just overall, I don't want

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<v Speaker 2>to be that bitch that knows better but doesn't do better.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, it's easy, I think it's easy to forget. And

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<v Speaker 1>also when you're a mom, it's just like you're just

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<v Speaker 1>trying to get through the day and you just want

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<v Speaker 1>to like sometimes you just want to grab something quick

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<v Speaker 1>to eat and just like that's it, or you forget

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<v Speaker 1>to eat because you're too busy feeding your kid. Speaking

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<v Speaker 1>of feeding kids, by the way, my daughter has been

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<v Speaker 1>eating You guys have heard me talk about this too,

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<v Speaker 1>Like she's been eating the same motherfucking thing for like

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<v Speaker 1>three and a half years. I'm done with that because

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<v Speaker 1>I'm done making two different meals. And so this last

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<v Speaker 1>week has been really really trying. There's been like a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of tantrums and screaming, just because I want her

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<v Speaker 1>to try and taste one thing, Jamila. Luna eats fucking

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<v Speaker 1>scallops and crab and oysters and muscles and like vegetables.

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<v Speaker 1>I have so much food envy when it comes to

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<v Speaker 1>Luna's eating habits. And you know, now that I'm dating

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<v Speaker 1>someone and like I just have someone like who's there

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<v Speaker 1>to see what's happening daily, And I feel like outside

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<v Speaker 1>of me, yeah, but like you know, I don't feel

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<v Speaker 1>like he's judging me, but like he I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>I'm judging myself because I'm aware of like the things

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<v Speaker 1>that have not been worked on because he's seeing them

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<v Speaker 1>and he's like, oh, why is she do that? And

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like because I just yeah. And so I've been like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I need her to eat other things because like when

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<v Speaker 1>we go out, like what am I supposed to do?

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<v Speaker 1>Like I'm supposed to just cater to Iri every time?

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<v Speaker 1>So I've been trying to encourage her to eat other things.

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<v Speaker 1>I know you guys have messaged me like different tips

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<v Speaker 1>and tricks, and I appreciate them. I've tried all of them.

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<v Speaker 1>I know she's so stubborn.

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<v Speaker 2>It's almost like if you tell her too, she's going

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<v Speaker 2>to do everything opposite of what you say.

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<v Speaker 1>It's my daughter.

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<v Speaker 2>I got a tricker, it's me, don't eat vegetables.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Karen from Sex Talk with my Mom said to me.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think even like Nelly had told me this.

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<v Speaker 2>Like no, she put it, she put it in the comments.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but Nellie told me this like month, like a

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<v Speaker 1>year ago, when I was complaining about the shit, and

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<v Speaker 1>I never did it too. Is like making it like

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<v Speaker 1>giving us her a sticker every time she eats something,

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<v Speaker 1>and then if she gets like I don't know, six

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<v Speaker 1>or seven stickers and she gets a toy. So I

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<v Speaker 1>think that's like my next step because I tried with muffins, smoothies,

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<v Speaker 1>ever pop like everything that you are thinking right now

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<v Speaker 1>that you're gonna dm me, just don't because I've tried

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<v Speaker 1>it all.

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<v Speaker 2>Damn might miss out on some good advice. I've tried.

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<v Speaker 1>I've tried it all except the stickers, which I think

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<v Speaker 1>maybe I really likes gifts.

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<v Speaker 2>Except the starvation. Are you hung?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I'm doing starvation too. Oh my god, I did

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<v Speaker 1>this starvation and I like, at my dad's house a

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<v Speaker 1>few like two weeks ago, we went to eat barbecue

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, you're eating a hamburger, that's it,

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<v Speaker 1>or you're not eating dinner, and she like just threw

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<v Speaker 1>a whole fit. My dad was like, I'm going to

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<v Speaker 1>send you a video tonight of me crying because she

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<v Speaker 1>didn't eat my burger. Maybe she'll feel bad. So he did.

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<v Speaker 1>He sent me a whole lass video of him doing

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<v Speaker 1>an award winning acting debut.

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<v Speaker 2>Just look at it on our instagram.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's not very funny. It's on her Instagram. And

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<v Speaker 1>she was and I was like, see you made you

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<v Speaker 1>made papa cry like you didn't eat his hands.

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<v Speaker 2>She's stirping because you know, Papa makes all the good

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<v Speaker 2>barbecue I know.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, she's like, okay, well next time

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<v Speaker 1>when I go like, I'll eat something he makes, just

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<v Speaker 1>not so much meat. I'm like, okay, well, this weekend.

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<v Speaker 2>Killed your five year old.

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<v Speaker 1>It's whatever work. This weekend is fourth of July, and

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<v Speaker 1>I know that he'll be making something so, oh my god.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe, well, Luda literally eats every twelve minutes. Every twelve minutes,

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<v Speaker 2>kind have a snack?

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<v Speaker 1>Kind?

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, I'm like, you just had a meal.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't have a snack immediately following a fucking meal,

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<v Speaker 2>but a digest.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, I don't know how Luna eats so much.

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<v Speaker 1>And she's well, I know how she's so it's tiny

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<v Speaker 1>because of you, but she she eats so much every

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<v Speaker 1>time she comes over. Eric can I anstend through? Erica?

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<v Speaker 2>I like the mom that should probably pack my kid's

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<v Speaker 2>own food when they go somewhere, because people are gonna

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<v Speaker 2>get tired of my kid. Like she ate us out

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<v Speaker 2>of house and home, Like, just take your grocery back

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<v Speaker 2>with you, take your own snacks.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god. Oh.

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<v Speaker 2>Also, speaking of horoscopes, one of our people's sent us

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<v Speaker 2>last night. What's her name? Oh, Queen Cup Queen Cups

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<v Speaker 2>Queen Cups YouTube, This black woman who does tarot card readings.

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<v Speaker 2>I had never heard of her, but she she told

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<v Speaker 2>us that it like she something told her to, something

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<v Speaker 2>told her to tell us to check it out. And

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<v Speaker 2>you know, I'm all about a magical universal message. Oh,

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<v Speaker 2>the universe told you to call me, let me go.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm figured out right now all I need to hear sis.

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<v Speaker 2>So we looked it up and she was really good.

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<v Speaker 2>She's really on point. It's they're pretty lengthy, which most

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<v Speaker 2>people really enjoy because it gets really deep into what

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<v Speaker 2>you're going through. But we like skimmed through both answer

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<v Speaker 2>in Scorpio for July and it was pretty accurate. I've

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<v Speaker 2>had like a really terrible week, and generally because I'm

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<v Speaker 2>always looking for like some universal universe message, a white

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<v Speaker 2>hawk to fly by or something, or someone to come

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<v Speaker 2>to me in a crowd of people and give me

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<v Speaker 2>the answers to the world, I've really been like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>what's going on? What's going on that all these this

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<v Speaker 2>shit is happening. So I appreciated that Taro car reading

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<v Speaker 2>and you guys should check out Queen Cups. I got

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of answers. Did you feel like she was

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<v Speaker 2>on point?

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<v Speaker 1>I need to listen to more of it because I

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<v Speaker 1>think we it was really late, it was like two

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning, and we listened to a lot of yours,

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<v Speaker 1>which I think was was on point.

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<v Speaker 2>It's crazy because me and Erica, obviously I've been in

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<v Speaker 2>the desert for three days alone with nothing but each other.

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<v Speaker 2>So we've been talking a lot, and it's crazy that

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<v Speaker 2>what we've discussed about how we're feeling was we could

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<v Speaker 2>both vouch that that was so accurate, right, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I think so yours was about like mothering yourself. And

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if you want me to share part

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<v Speaker 1>of your trip or whatever. Well, when you were tripping,

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<v Speaker 1>you were saying how you feel like you've been like

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<v Speaker 1>you feel like you've been waiting for someone to kind

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<v Speaker 1>of scoop you up and save you, and you know

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<v Speaker 1>that adulting is fucking hard and you don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>do it. This is what I discovered, and that you've

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<v Speaker 1>been like, yeah, you've been waiting for someone to kind

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<v Speaker 1>of scoop you up and fix fix the things that

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<v Speaker 1>you But essentially, in your in your trip, you've acknowledged

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<v Speaker 1>that no one's going to do that and that you

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<v Speaker 1>have to do that for yourself, and essentially you have

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<v Speaker 1>to self mother yourself.

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<v Speaker 2>I literally told Erica and now I remember, I literally said,

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<v Speaker 2>I feel I feel like I'm a baby and I

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<v Speaker 2>just want someone to kind of pick me up. I

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<v Speaker 2>literally said that, and she's like, yeah, no, it's not

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, that's not gonna happen.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not happening.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, but that's what I want to happen. Oh

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<v Speaker 2>my god. Revisiting these conversations.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh. And then for I think for me

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<v Speaker 1>from I still have to go back and listen to more.

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<v Speaker 1>But she was saying, how I have a Either I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>I have a partner or I have a Like I've

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<v Speaker 1>been dating someone in private and it's not that private

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<v Speaker 1>because I've talked to you about him. But I think

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<v Speaker 1>but that like I've kind of been keeping it to

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<v Speaker 1>the belt and I haven't been like sharing so many

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<v Speaker 1>things about him and trying and getting opinions about him

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<v Speaker 1>from other people, which I think in the past I

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<v Speaker 1>have done a lot, But I think for me, and

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<v Speaker 1>it's true, like with this situation, like I have been,

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<v Speaker 1>I've had to work through things on my own instead

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<v Speaker 1>of asking people like do you think this nick is crazy?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think that?

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<v Speaker 2>Like? You know, and as women, we tend to do that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and like wanting to like get an answer or

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<v Speaker 1>seek validation or like confirm your fears with your friends

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<v Speaker 1>that that may or may not be right, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>And so like I think that I had been doing

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<v Speaker 1>that with him, and for me, like it's been paying

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<v Speaker 1>off because I think had I really sought out my

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<v Speaker 1>friends and told them my fears based on like I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>for me, like based on like my one of my

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<v Speaker 1>fears with this was I'm ever since Like if you

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<v Speaker 1>guys listened to my art episode I'm Dating a married Man,

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<v Speaker 1>where I talk about, you know, this guy that I

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<v Speaker 1>met on the internet through the podcast, it seemed like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, this great person had a shit together single dad,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, we talked for like a few months,

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<v Speaker 1>finally met and you know he ended up being completely married.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, I almost forgot about that.

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<v Speaker 1>So true, and like he just he listened to the

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<v Speaker 1>podcast and kind of got to know everything about me

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<v Speaker 1>and use that to capture me. And so when I

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<v Speaker 1>met this my new guy, like he knew, I felt

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<v Speaker 1>like we knew each other already, and I was super

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<v Speaker 1>paranoid and scared, and like I had expressed that to

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<v Speaker 1>some friends, but like I think, I I didn't express

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<v Speaker 1>all of my fears because I was like, you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>let me figure this out for myself, let me kind

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<v Speaker 1>of come to this conclusion myself. And it took time.

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<v Speaker 1>But then I just trusted myself and I went for it,

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<v Speaker 1>and I and I made and we became we entered

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<v Speaker 1>into a relationship really quickly, and like, I didn't seek

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<v Speaker 1>the approval or the opinions of any of my friends

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<v Speaker 1>to do that. I just knew that this is what

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to do, and this is what I felt right,

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<v Speaker 1>even though most people it might have been like take

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<v Speaker 1>your time, Erica, like what are you doing. You're the

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<v Speaker 1>You're the one that's always telling me to do this, this,

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<v Speaker 1>this and that, and I didn't. I didn't do that,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm I'm happy with my decision. I'm cool with

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<v Speaker 1>my decision, and I'm glad that I didn't seek out

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<v Speaker 1>seek outward. So I have to go back and listen

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<v Speaker 1>more to what she said, because I know there's it's

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<v Speaker 1>it's each reading it's about forty five minutes long. So yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I felt like she was pretty pretty accurate.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I did too, And I don't look at a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of tarot card readings on YouTube, so I will

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<v Speaker 2>now also, somebody will set us a screenshot of I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>an app that helps you interpret Tarot cards, because you know,

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<v Speaker 2>we'd be always pulling ours and we don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Shit.

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<v Speaker 2>I'd be like, hold on, let me shuffle this right

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<v Speaker 2>quick and be like, hold on, let me get the pamphlet.

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<v Speaker 1>Queen up wand oh wait wait wait is that? And

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<v Speaker 1>is that what yet?

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<v Speaker 2>Is that a one or cut? First of all, I

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<v Speaker 2>need to updated one or we know what the fuck

0:18:38.520 --> 0:18:41.080
<v Speaker 2>it is because those are very old timing. It's a

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<v Speaker 2>little unclear. But yeah, I'm going to download that in

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<v Speaker 2>the car. So maybe we could become better witches.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, for sure, need to become better witches. I need

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<v Speaker 1>to tap into that more for sure.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I mean it's I think it does have a

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<v Speaker 2>lot to do with tapping into your intuition and tapping

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<v Speaker 2>into yourself. I think because I do that a lot too.

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<v Speaker 2>I ask five people only to do what I wanted

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<v Speaker 2>to do in the beginning. In the beginning why, I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know, because if you tell me what I don't

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<v Speaker 2>want to hear is going to irritate me because I

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<v Speaker 2>shouldn't ask in the first place. And it's just and

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<v Speaker 2>as we move along in this life, I mean, that's

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<v Speaker 2>all we really have is our gut. So we have

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<v Speaker 2>I think the more you become familiar with it, and

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<v Speaker 2>the more you become like comfortable relying on it and

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<v Speaker 2>going with it, then the easier it will be to

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<v Speaker 2>live life alone to your own beat. Because yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 2>especially when dating people. I think we do that. It's

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<v Speaker 2>just it's best to evaluate things. And I think sometimes

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<v Speaker 2>when you tell other people, especially stuff with like a relationship,

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<v Speaker 2>especially when it's like really good in the beginning, or

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<v Speaker 2>like it usually is, you have this expectation, You've built

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<v Speaker 2>this expectation to live up to, and because you've said

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<v Speaker 2>it out loud and so you know, it takes time

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<v Speaker 2>later if something shifts or you don't really want to

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of times I feel like you don't want

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<v Speaker 2>to admit that maybe it's not what you thought it

0:20:05.600 --> 0:20:07.680
<v Speaker 2>was because you've already said it out loud. But I

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<v Speaker 2>think sometimes when you keep things to yourself and those

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<v Speaker 2>type of things, it gives you better space to kind

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<v Speaker 2>of work through, you know, getting to know that person

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<v Speaker 2>without the opinions of other people, even if they're not

0:20:19.440 --> 0:20:21.720
<v Speaker 2>even really giving you their opinions. You know, your own

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<v Speaker 2>judgment of yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>Like you said, yeah, that's true, it's true. So basically

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<v Speaker 1>I need to take better care of myself and exercise

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<v Speaker 1>and not tell you nigga shit.

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<v Speaker 2>Good luck with that.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to Mexico next week with my nugget and

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<v Speaker 2>some friends. It like a late birthday trip. So even

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<v Speaker 2>though I've just left the desert for three days of retreat,

0:20:52.680 --> 0:20:56.200
<v Speaker 2>rest and relaxation, I'm going again to do more because

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<v Speaker 2>I need self care right now. I need to go

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<v Speaker 2>inside and figure shit out. So I'm excited about that.

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<v Speaker 2>And like I said, I've had a really bad week.

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<v Speaker 2>You just want to get the fuck out of here. God,

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<v Speaker 2>I hope twenty twenty, we're at the seventh were at

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<v Speaker 2>the seventh month mark. I really hope shit has gone

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<v Speaker 2>up and up.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I don't know. I feel like this year

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<v Speaker 1>was like a year of like burning the shit down

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<v Speaker 1>so that we can rebuild a better future. In all ways,

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<v Speaker 1>how do you feel about Fourth of July?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't give a fuck about Fourth of July. I

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<v Speaker 2>just want your dad's barbecue.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, I'm just saying, like, now, yeah, like, are

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<v Speaker 1>we suppose is it?

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<v Speaker 2>Like are we supposed to not even go to the barbecue?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. Well, I mean we're not supposed to

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<v Speaker 1>spend money on that day. Maybe spend more money on

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<v Speaker 1>black businesses on that day.

0:21:40.920 --> 0:21:42.679
<v Speaker 2>I think we maybe spending back money as much as

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<v Speaker 2>black businesses. And of course, but I'm just saying, like,

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<v Speaker 2>how do you I don't know, I don't know. I like,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't, I don't like, just like I don't celebrate

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<v Speaker 2>or believe in Thanksgiving. There's this theory that like it's

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<v Speaker 2>called I don't know if that's just what it's called,

0:21:56.000 --> 0:21:59.080
<v Speaker 2>but it's like powering the beast, and so the beast

0:21:59.320 --> 0:22:02.840
<v Speaker 2>would be like the power that be and this like

0:22:02.880 --> 0:22:06.560
<v Speaker 2>the social these social things that we've built, so like

0:22:06.960 --> 0:22:11.760
<v Speaker 2>professional athletic teams, these fake ass holidays, and by fueling

0:22:11.840 --> 0:22:15.919
<v Speaker 2>the beast, pouring a bunch of money on Valentine's Day

0:22:15.920 --> 0:22:19.080
<v Speaker 2>into Hallmark cards and bullshit chocolate, it's just like this

0:22:19.200 --> 0:22:23.639
<v Speaker 2>wave of capitalism. And like I think by even contributing

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<v Speaker 2>like your energy, your finances to these holidays, it's a

0:22:28.119 --> 0:22:32.080
<v Speaker 2>part of fueling the beast. And so like maybe don't

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<v Speaker 2>go eat that meal on Thanksgiving or go to the

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<v Speaker 2>barbecue in July fourth, which is so hard because that's

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<v Speaker 2>what's going on. And you know, even for black people,

0:22:38.760 --> 0:22:41.520
<v Speaker 2>we like to barbecue, We like to gather around family,

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<v Speaker 2>like to listen to you know, those songs where we

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<v Speaker 2>do the slide and shit. But how do you change

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<v Speaker 2>what's become so normal to you, even if it doesn't

0:22:51.440 --> 0:22:55.760
<v Speaker 2>represent something that is something that you believe in. So

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<v Speaker 2>the answer is no, don't sell em. Rate fourth of July.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so we're not going to eat barbecue? Fuck?

0:23:04.680 --> 0:23:08.879
<v Speaker 2>Can you just save it plate? I don't know. I

0:23:08.960 --> 0:23:10.760
<v Speaker 2>mean I want to kind of show little some fire

0:23:10.880 --> 0:23:11.400
<v Speaker 2>like it's.

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<v Speaker 1>Hot as fuck out in La. I'm gonna eat on

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<v Speaker 1>Saturday regardless, and I'm gonna swim. True. So I'm probably

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<v Speaker 1>not gonna do a red white.

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<v Speaker 2>And blue, right, but I'm not gonna post but that's

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<v Speaker 2>not gonna be rocking my red white and blue bikini.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah no, fuck oud it, fuck old it.

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<v Speaker 2>Fuck the patriarchy, Fuck the patriarchy.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, make sure you go check out our episode last

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<v Speaker 1>week with the Oprah Rose Show.

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<v Speaker 2>There's two there's one on their platform and one on ours,

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<v Speaker 2>and they're both great.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, they're both really funny. And also I love those girls. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>they're awesome. And we talk about and we talk about

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<v Speaker 1>fuck the patriarchy. So anyway, we have to get out

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<v Speaker 1>of this airbnb because we're supposed to be checking.

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<v Speaker 2>Out in four minutes, but we just you know, we

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<v Speaker 2>just had to do one episode.

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<v Speaker 1>One one good one in the desert, but actually did.

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<v Speaker 2>More than one good thing in the desert. We've been

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<v Speaker 2>vlogging again. I know we keep saying that you never

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<v Speaker 2>see it, but we're gonna send this shit to Jessica Roodes.

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<v Speaker 2>It's's gonna edit it for us. Yeah, but you're ready.

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<v Speaker 2>It's gonna be on Patreon. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>And if you haven't joined our Patreon, you should because

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<v Speaker 1>we have some extra We always we have extra videos there.

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<v Speaker 1>We have a series called Good Mom's Smoke where we

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<v Speaker 2>You can see the full version of all our podcast

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, if you want to watch these episodes, you can

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<v Speaker 2>We also have sex Positions one on one where Eric

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<v Speaker 2>and I demonstrate bomb put sex positions that we've experienced recently.

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<v Speaker 2>You asking for sex videos and whatever works, just send them.

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<v Speaker 2>Why are you in here?

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<v Speaker 1>All right? Y'all?

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<v Speaker 2>We'll catch you guys later by lend.

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