Speaker 1: Welcome back to Good Mom's Bad Choices. I'm Erica and
Speaker 1: I'm Mela. Happy Wednesday, Happy hump Day, y'all. We are
Speaker 1: live from the desert. We've been on a little Good
Speaker 1: Mom's Personal retreat. Was supposed to be like a day.
Speaker 1: We extended it because we needed more time.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we came all the way in this isolated house
Speaker 2: with a now TV on a big ass property with
Speaker 2: a barn, and we brought groceries and we basically didn't
Speaker 2: leave just to go to the National Park, got in
Speaker 2: the jacuzzi, did a trailler looking at it on Patreon,
Speaker 2: and you know, we slept, worked and took mushrooms.
Speaker 1: I definitely had an intense journey. I told Jamila that
Speaker 1: I've been like kind of like when I've been taking mushrooms,
Speaker 1: I haven't really been like taking them all the way.
Speaker 1: I've been like, you know, babying it. So I went
Speaker 1: all the way in. I made us go all the
Speaker 1: way down the rabbit hole, and we climbed out.
Speaker 2: By the skin of our teeth. Yeah, Erica had a
Speaker 2: bright idea to not take one full dose chocolate, but
Speaker 2: to take two each on an empty fucking stomach, which
Speaker 2: is wonderful, except we decided that we should cook right
Speaker 2: as we took it. That meal didn't never got eaten
Speaker 2: or completed, and they could eat in but like hours later,
Speaker 2: it wasn't good.
Speaker 1: It was terrible.
Speaker 2: I don't recommend you taking double the dosage I do.
Speaker 1: I liked it.
Speaker 2: No, we did have a good time. I'm just saying,
Speaker 2: if it's like your first time, don't do what we did. Also,
Speaker 2: I had an allergic reaction, which was not good, which
Speaker 2: you yeah, generally when you take any type of hallucinogen,
Speaker 2: the people highly recommend that you don't look in the mirror.
Speaker 2: I looked in the mirror, and I knew something wasn't
Speaker 2: looking right, but I was like, you know what, it's
Speaker 2: because I'm on mushrooms and this place also doesn't have
Speaker 2: many mirrors. They're all very vintagey, the one in the bathroom.
Speaker 2: So we're in the jacuzzi and Eric's like, oh god,
Speaker 2: I think you're having an allergic reaction. You guys. My
Speaker 2: eyes swollow up so big.
Speaker 1: She looked like hitch, like low key like I was
Speaker 1: like in the jacuzzi, and I didn't really notice because
Speaker 1: it was all like moonlight and shit. And then She's like,
Speaker 1: I think I'm like having an allergic reaction. Can you
Speaker 1: look at my face? And like I was like, oh fuck.
Speaker 2: Like She's like, I have to go get you something.
Speaker 2: It was like one o'clock in the morning and we're
Speaker 2: in the desert off of the dirt road. I'm like, bitch,
Speaker 2: where do you think you're going? There's nowhere to go.
Speaker 2: We're gonna have to stay and we're high as hell.
Speaker 1: Like her face was Wow. If you guys want to
Speaker 1: see her face, you have to go check out our
Speaker 1: Patreon where we posted the photo because it was kind
Speaker 1: of scary. I'm glad she was okay. I was like,
Speaker 1: kept asking her if she was okay. She kept saying yes,
Speaker 1: and then I was like, you know what, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: stop asking because I'm gonna I don't want to freak
Speaker 1: her out.
Speaker 2: I was like, am I okay?
Speaker 1: I was like, I don't want to freak her out.
Speaker 1: And honestly, there's nothing I can do about this unless
Speaker 1: we call nine one one, which I'm really we all
Speaker 1: know we ain't called nine one one, so.
Speaker 2: Not for two black girls in the desert alone taking
Speaker 2: fucking mushrooms. No, we're not not good and then like
Speaker 2: before she discovered I was having an allergic reaction, I
Speaker 2: was like, I was crying. I couldn't breathe. She's like,
Speaker 2: it's okay, you're detoxing these niggas. So she's like, we
Speaker 2: ate all the same things, We've consumed all the same things.
Speaker 2: There's there's no way you're having a legigraction. It's just
Speaker 2: a niggas coming out of your system.
Speaker 1: It was. I'm still convinced it was because we did
Speaker 1: we ate everything the same, We did everything the same.
Speaker 1: That day, she was the only one that whose eyes
Speaker 1: were just detoxing.
Speaker 2: My body is really not has really betrayed me this week,
Speaker 2: five days ago, my lip was big as shit from
Speaker 2: the car accident, like hitched. Then five days later I
Speaker 2: come to the desert and my eyes swell up really big.
Speaker 2: It's just like, fuck you.
Speaker 1: Fuck you. Maybe the universe is trying to tell you
Speaker 1: to take care of your body more.
Speaker 2: Probably I.
Speaker 1: Believe her, Yeah, because like I think I told you
Speaker 1: if you talked about this last time, about like I
Speaker 1: think when I went to Tahoe, how I took them
Speaker 1: and like I just like really was so aware of
Speaker 1: my body and like not in like a judgmental form,
Speaker 1: like just looking at like my body and like this
Speaker 1: is like this is the thing that carries us through life.
Speaker 1: And I think it's the most the thing we take
Speaker 1: for granted the most. I mean, I know I do,
Speaker 1: like I put a bunch of shit in it. I
Speaker 1: eat a bunch of shit.
Speaker 2: I don't eat, don't I.
Speaker 1: Don't water And I even now like when I sit
Speaker 1: on my knees for too long, that sounds really sexual,
Speaker 1: but yeah, when I sit on my knee, off my knees,
Speaker 1: when I get up off these damn knees, she like,
Speaker 1: I literally can't stand up quickly, like it hurts. My
Speaker 1: joints are hurting. Like so I'm starting to feel like
Speaker 1: my body age. And we got to take care of
Speaker 1: our We got to take care of ourselves. Yeah, it's true.
Speaker 2: It's so easy as as a parent, as a mom
Speaker 2: to avoid yourself, like taking care of yourself because you're
Speaker 2: taking care of everybody else. But you know, like I
Speaker 2: eat probably once a day at like six ish, I'm
Speaker 2: realizing I really don't get hungry unless I smoke. I
Speaker 2: don't drink enough water. And yeah, body at some point
Speaker 2: like bitch, fuck you, and especially in the time like now,
Speaker 2: with like the mystery of Corona fucking harboring over the world,
Speaker 2: it's even more time to just tap into your body
Speaker 2: and reinforce it with good stuff, good food. And that's
Speaker 2: so hard. It takes so much work to take care
Speaker 2: of yourself. But also if we don't, what are we
Speaker 2: left with?
Speaker 1: I know, I think at the top of this pandemic,
Speaker 1: like I was really taking care of myself so much.
Speaker 1: If you guys follow my other Instagram, I was posting
Speaker 1: like all my juices I was taking. I went on
Speaker 1: a juice cleanse, I was, you know, working out like
Speaker 1: a jail and made and somewhere along the line, I
Speaker 1: fell apart and I need to get back to it.
Speaker 1: My horoscope said, I was reading my horoscope yesterday my
Speaker 1: friend Nisha sent me, and it said basically that this
Speaker 1: month in July, I need to get back into tune
Speaker 1: with routine and exercise and that's what's really gonna help
Speaker 1: me this month. And like I've been feeling that, like
Speaker 1: I know, I need to get back into a routine
Speaker 1: and taking care of my body because it's one of
Speaker 1: those things for me, like if I don't take care
Speaker 1: of it, like I just everything feels off, my mental
Speaker 1: health feels off, all of it, and so I started
Speaker 1: working out. But I just have to do better with
Speaker 1: what I put into this vessel that is carrying me
Speaker 1: through life, because I'm not here forever and want and
Speaker 1: while I'm here, I don't want to be fucking aching
Speaker 1: and being in pain and being in the doct going
Speaker 1: to the doctor and all those things.
Speaker 2: And also, like I care about my health, I care
Speaker 2: about what I put in my body. Like I know
Speaker 2: all these things, and so it irritates me that I'm
Speaker 2: aware of it and I know it's what I should do,
Speaker 2: but I don't. And that's just overall, I don't want
Speaker 2: to be that bitch that knows better but doesn't do better.
Speaker 1: Well, it's easy, I think it's easy to forget. And
Speaker 1: also when you're a mom, it's just like you're just
Speaker 1: trying to get through the day and you just want
Speaker 1: to like sometimes you just want to grab something quick
Speaker 1: to eat and just like that's it, or you forget
Speaker 1: to eat because you're too busy feeding your kid. Speaking
Speaker 1: of feeding kids, by the way, my daughter has been
Speaker 1: eating You guys have heard me talk about this too,
Speaker 1: Like she's been eating the same motherfucking thing for like
Speaker 1: three and a half years. I'm done with that because
Speaker 1: I'm done making two different meals. And so this last
Speaker 1: week has been really really trying. There's been like a
Speaker 1: lot of tantrums and screaming, just because I want her
Speaker 1: to try and taste one thing, Jamila. Luna eats fucking
Speaker 1: scallops and crab and oysters and muscles and like vegetables.
Speaker 1: I have so much food envy when it comes to
Speaker 1: Luna's eating habits. And you know, now that I'm dating
Speaker 1: someone and like I just have someone like who's there
Speaker 1: to see what's happening daily, And I feel like outside
Speaker 1: of me, yeah, but like you know, I don't feel
Speaker 1: like he's judging me, but like he I feel like
Speaker 1: I'm judging myself because I'm aware of like the things
Speaker 1: that have not been worked on because he's seeing them
Speaker 1: and he's like, oh, why is she do that? And
Speaker 1: I'm like because I just yeah. And so I've been like, Okay,
Speaker 1: I need her to eat other things because like when
Speaker 1: we go out, like what am I supposed to do?
Speaker 1: Like I'm supposed to just cater to Iri every time?
Speaker 1: So I've been trying to encourage her to eat other things.
Speaker 1: I know you guys have messaged me like different tips
Speaker 1: and tricks, and I appreciate them. I've tried all of them.
Speaker 1: I know she's so stubborn.
Speaker 2: It's almost like if you tell her too, she's going
Speaker 2: to do everything opposite of what you say.
Speaker 1: It's my daughter.
Speaker 2: I got a tricker, it's me, don't eat vegetables.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Karen from Sex Talk with my Mom said to me.
Speaker 1: And I think even like Nelly had told me this.
Speaker 2: Like no, she put it, she put it in the comments.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but Nellie told me this like month, like a
Speaker 1: year ago, when I was complaining about the shit, and
Speaker 1: I never did it too. Is like making it like
Speaker 1: giving us her a sticker every time she eats something,
Speaker 1: and then if she gets like I don't know, six
Speaker 1: or seven stickers and she gets a toy. So I
Speaker 1: think that's like my next step because I tried with muffins, smoothies,
Speaker 1: ever pop like everything that you are thinking right now
Speaker 1: that you're gonna dm me, just don't because I've tried
Speaker 1: it all.
Speaker 2: Damn might miss out on some good advice. I've tried.
Speaker 1: I've tried it all except the stickers, which I think
Speaker 1: maybe I really likes gifts.
Speaker 2: Except the starvation. Are you hung?
Speaker 1: Oh I'm doing starvation too. Oh my god, I did
Speaker 1: this starvation and I like, at my dad's house a
Speaker 1: few like two weeks ago, we went to eat barbecue
Speaker 1: and I was like, you're eating a hamburger, that's it,
Speaker 1: or you're not eating dinner, and she like just threw
Speaker 1: a whole fit. My dad was like, I'm going to
Speaker 1: send you a video tonight of me crying because she
Speaker 1: didn't eat my burger. Maybe she'll feel bad. So he did.
Speaker 1: He sent me a whole lass video of him doing
Speaker 1: an award winning acting debut.
Speaker 2: Just look at it on our instagram.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's not very funny. It's on her Instagram. And
Speaker 1: she was and I was like, see you made you
Speaker 1: made papa cry like you didn't eat his hands.
Speaker 2: She's stirping because you know, Papa makes all the good
Speaker 2: barbecue I know.
Speaker 1: And I was like, she's like, okay, well next time
Speaker 1: when I go like, I'll eat something he makes, just
Speaker 1: not so much meat. I'm like, okay, well, this weekend.
Speaker 2: Killed your five year old.
Speaker 1: It's whatever work. This weekend is fourth of July, and
Speaker 1: I know that he'll be making something so, oh my god.
Speaker 2: Maybe, well, Luda literally eats every twelve minutes. Every twelve minutes,
Speaker 2: kind have a snack?
Speaker 1: Kind?
Speaker 2: I was like, I'm like, you just had a meal.
Speaker 2: You don't have a snack immediately following a fucking meal,
Speaker 2: but a digest.
Speaker 1: I know, I don't know how Luna eats so much.
Speaker 1: And she's well, I know how she's so it's tiny
Speaker 1: because of you, but she she eats so much every
Speaker 1: time she comes over. Eric can I anstend through? Erica?
Speaker 2: I like the mom that should probably pack my kid's
Speaker 2: own food when they go somewhere, because people are gonna
Speaker 2: get tired of my kid. Like she ate us out
Speaker 2: of house and home, Like, just take your grocery back
Speaker 2: with you, take your own snacks.
Speaker 1: Oh my god. Oh.
Speaker 2: Also, speaking of horoscopes, one of our people's sent us
Speaker 2: last night. What's her name? Oh, Queen Cup Queen Cups
Speaker 2: Queen Cups YouTube, This black woman who does tarot card readings.
Speaker 2: I had never heard of her, but she she told
Speaker 2: us that it like she something told her to, something
Speaker 2: told her to tell us to check it out. And
Speaker 2: you know, I'm all about a magical universal message. Oh,
Speaker 2: the universe told you to call me, let me go.
Speaker 2: I'm figured out right now all I need to hear sis.
Speaker 2: So we looked it up and she was really good.
Speaker 2: She's really on point. It's they're pretty lengthy, which most
Speaker 2: people really enjoy because it gets really deep into what
Speaker 2: you're going through. But we like skimmed through both answer
Speaker 2: in Scorpio for July and it was pretty accurate. I've
Speaker 2: had like a really terrible week, and generally because I'm
Speaker 2: always looking for like some universal universe message, a white
Speaker 2: hawk to fly by or something, or someone to come
Speaker 2: to me in a crowd of people and give me
Speaker 2: the answers to the world, I've really been like, Okay,
Speaker 2: what's going on? What's going on that all these this
Speaker 2: shit is happening. So I appreciated that Taro car reading
Speaker 2: and you guys should check out Queen Cups. I got
Speaker 2: a lot of answers. Did you feel like she was
Speaker 2: on point?
Speaker 1: I need to listen to more of it because I
Speaker 1: think we it was really late, it was like two
Speaker 1: in the morning, and we listened to a lot of yours,
Speaker 1: which I think was was on point.
Speaker 2: It's crazy because me and Erica, obviously I've been in
Speaker 2: the desert for three days alone with nothing but each other.
Speaker 2: So we've been talking a lot, and it's crazy that
Speaker 2: what we've discussed about how we're feeling was we could
Speaker 2: both vouch that that was so accurate, right, yeah.
Speaker 1: I think so yours was about like mothering yourself. And
Speaker 1: I don't know if you want me to share part
Speaker 1: of your trip or whatever. Well, when you were tripping,
Speaker 1: you were saying how you feel like you've been like
Speaker 1: you feel like you've been waiting for someone to kind
Speaker 1: of scoop you up and save you, and you know
Speaker 1: that adulting is fucking hard and you don't want to
Speaker 1: do it. This is what I discovered, and that you've
Speaker 1: been like, yeah, you've been waiting for someone to kind
Speaker 1: of scoop you up and fix fix the things that
Speaker 1: you But essentially, in your in your trip, you've acknowledged
Speaker 1: that no one's going to do that and that you
Speaker 1: have to do that for yourself, and essentially you have
Speaker 1: to self mother yourself.
Speaker 2: I literally told Erica and now I remember, I literally said,
Speaker 2: I feel I feel like I'm a baby and I
Speaker 2: just want someone to kind of pick me up. I
Speaker 2: literally said that, and she's like, yeah, no, it's not
Speaker 2: I was like, that's not gonna happen.
Speaker 1: It's not happening.
Speaker 2: I'm like, but that's what I want to happen. Oh
Speaker 2: my god. Revisiting these conversations.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. And then for I think for me
Speaker 1: from I still have to go back and listen to more.
Speaker 1: But she was saying, how I have a Either I'm like,
Speaker 1: I have a partner or I have a Like I've
Speaker 1: been dating someone in private and it's not that private
Speaker 1: because I've talked to you about him. But I think
Speaker 1: but that like I've kind of been keeping it to
Speaker 1: the belt and I haven't been like sharing so many
Speaker 1: things about him and trying and getting opinions about him
Speaker 1: from other people, which I think in the past I
Speaker 1: have done a lot, But I think for me, and
Speaker 1: it's true, like with this situation, like I have been,
Speaker 1: I've had to work through things on my own instead
Speaker 1: of asking people like do you think this nick is crazy?
Speaker 1: Do you think that?
Speaker 2: Like? You know, and as women, we tend to do that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and like wanting to like get an answer or
Speaker 1: seek validation or like confirm your fears with your friends
Speaker 1: that that may or may not be right, you know,
Speaker 1: And so like I think that I had been doing
Speaker 1: that with him, and for me, like it's been paying
Speaker 1: off because I think had I really sought out my
Speaker 1: friends and told them my fears based on like I mean,
Speaker 1: for me, like based on like my one of my
Speaker 1: fears with this was I'm ever since Like if you
Speaker 1: guys listened to my art episode I'm Dating a married Man,
Speaker 1: where I talk about, you know, this guy that I
Speaker 1: met on the internet through the podcast, it seemed like,
Speaker 1: you know, this great person had a shit together single dad,
Speaker 1: and you know, we talked for like a few months,
Speaker 1: finally met and you know he ended up being completely married.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I almost forgot about that.
Speaker 1: So true, and like he just he listened to the
Speaker 1: podcast and kind of got to know everything about me
Speaker 1: and use that to capture me. And so when I
Speaker 1: met this my new guy, like he knew, I felt
Speaker 1: like we knew each other already, and I was super
Speaker 1: paranoid and scared, and like I had expressed that to
Speaker 1: some friends, but like I think, I I didn't express
Speaker 1: all of my fears because I was like, you know what,
Speaker 1: let me figure this out for myself, let me kind
Speaker 1: of come to this conclusion myself. And it took time.
Speaker 1: But then I just trusted myself and I went for it,
Speaker 1: and I and I made and we became we entered
Speaker 1: into a relationship really quickly, and like, I didn't seek
Speaker 1: the approval or the opinions of any of my friends
Speaker 1: to do that. I just knew that this is what
Speaker 1: I wanted to do, and this is what I felt right,
Speaker 1: even though most people it might have been like take
Speaker 1: your time, Erica, like what are you doing. You're the
Speaker 1: You're the one that's always telling me to do this, this,
Speaker 1: this and that, and I didn't. I didn't do that,
Speaker 1: and I'm I'm happy with my decision. I'm cool with
Speaker 1: my decision, and I'm glad that I didn't seek out
Speaker 1: seek outward. So I have to go back and listen
Speaker 1: more to what she said, because I know there's it's
Speaker 1: it's each reading it's about forty five minutes long. So yeah,
Speaker 1: I felt like she was pretty pretty accurate.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I did too, And I don't look at a
Speaker 2: lot of tarot card readings on YouTube, so I will
Speaker 2: now also, somebody will set us a screenshot of I mean,
Speaker 2: an app that helps you interpret Tarot cards, because you know,
Speaker 2: we'd be always pulling ours and we don't know.
Speaker 1: Shit.
Speaker 2: I'd be like, hold on, let me shuffle this right
Speaker 2: quick and be like, hold on, let me get the pamphlet.
Speaker 1: Queen up wand oh wait wait wait is that? And
Speaker 1: is that what yet?
Speaker 2: Is that a one or cut? First of all, I
Speaker 2: need to updated one or we know what the fuck
Speaker 2: it is because those are very old timing. It's a
Speaker 2: little unclear. But yeah, I'm going to download that in
Speaker 2: the car. So maybe we could become better witches.
Speaker 1: Yeah, for sure, need to become better witches. I need
Speaker 1: to tap into that more for sure.
Speaker 2: Well, I mean it's I think it does have a
Speaker 2: lot to do with tapping into your intuition and tapping
Speaker 2: into yourself. I think because I do that a lot too.
Speaker 2: I ask five people only to do what I wanted
Speaker 2: to do in the beginning. In the beginning why, I
Speaker 2: don't know, because if you tell me what I don't
Speaker 2: want to hear is going to irritate me because I
Speaker 2: shouldn't ask in the first place. And it's just and
Speaker 2: as we move along in this life, I mean, that's
Speaker 2: all we really have is our gut. So we have
Speaker 2: I think the more you become familiar with it, and
Speaker 2: the more you become like comfortable relying on it and
Speaker 2: going with it, then the easier it will be to
Speaker 2: live life alone to your own beat. Because yeah, it's
Speaker 2: especially when dating people. I think we do that. It's
Speaker 2: just it's best to evaluate things. And I think sometimes
Speaker 2: when you tell other people, especially stuff with like a relationship,
Speaker 2: especially when it's like really good in the beginning, or
Speaker 2: like it usually is, you have this expectation, You've built
Speaker 2: this expectation to live up to, and because you've said
Speaker 2: it out loud and so you know, it takes time
Speaker 2: later if something shifts or you don't really want to
Speaker 2: a lot of times I feel like you don't want
Speaker 2: to admit that maybe it's not what you thought it
Speaker 2: was because you've already said it out loud. But I
Speaker 2: think sometimes when you keep things to yourself and those
Speaker 2: type of things, it gives you better space to kind
Speaker 2: of work through, you know, getting to know that person
Speaker 2: without the opinions of other people, even if they're not
Speaker 2: even really giving you their opinions. You know, your own
Speaker 2: judgment of yourself.
Speaker 1: Like you said, yeah, that's true, it's true. So basically
Speaker 1: I need to take better care of myself and exercise
Speaker 1: and not tell you nigga shit.
Speaker 2: Good luck with that.
Speaker 1: Oh.
Speaker 2: I'm going to Mexico next week with my nugget and
Speaker 2: some friends. It like a late birthday trip. So even
Speaker 2: though I've just left the desert for three days of retreat,
Speaker 2: rest and relaxation, I'm going again to do more because
Speaker 2: I need self care right now. I need to go
Speaker 2: inside and figure shit out. So I'm excited about that.
Speaker 2: And like I said, I've had a really bad week.
Speaker 2: You just want to get the fuck out of here. God,
Speaker 2: I hope twenty twenty, we're at the seventh were at
Speaker 2: the seventh month mark. I really hope shit has gone
Speaker 2: up and up.
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know. I feel like this year
Speaker 1: was like a year of like burning the shit down
Speaker 1: so that we can rebuild a better future. In all ways,
Speaker 1: how do you feel about Fourth of July?
Speaker 2: I don't give a fuck about Fourth of July. I
Speaker 2: just want your dad's barbecue.
Speaker 1: I know, I'm just saying, like, now, yeah, like, are
Speaker 1: we suppose is it?
Speaker 2: Like are we supposed to not even go to the barbecue?
Speaker 1: I don't know. Well, I mean we're not supposed to
Speaker 1: spend money on that day. Maybe spend more money on
Speaker 1: black businesses on that day.
Speaker 2: I think we maybe spending back money as much as
Speaker 2: black businesses. And of course, but I'm just saying, like,
Speaker 2: how do you I don't know, I don't know. I like,
Speaker 2: I don't, I don't like, just like I don't celebrate
Speaker 2: or believe in Thanksgiving. There's this theory that like it's
Speaker 2: called I don't know if that's just what it's called,
Speaker 2: but it's like powering the beast, and so the beast
Speaker 2: would be like the power that be and this like
Speaker 2: the social these social things that we've built, so like
Speaker 2: professional athletic teams, these fake ass holidays, and by fueling
Speaker 2: the beast, pouring a bunch of money on Valentine's Day
Speaker 2: into Hallmark cards and bullshit chocolate, it's just like this
Speaker 2: wave of capitalism. And like I think by even contributing
Speaker 2: like your energy, your finances to these holidays, it's a
Speaker 2: part of fueling the beast. And so like maybe don't
Speaker 2: go eat that meal on Thanksgiving or go to the
Speaker 2: barbecue in July fourth, which is so hard because that's
Speaker 2: what's going on. And you know, even for black people,
Speaker 2: we like to barbecue, We like to gather around family,
Speaker 2: like to listen to you know, those songs where we
Speaker 2: do the slide and shit. But how do you change
Speaker 2: what's become so normal to you, even if it doesn't
Speaker 2: represent something that is something that you believe in. So
Speaker 2: the answer is no, don't sell em. Rate fourth of July.
Speaker 1: Okay, so we're not going to eat barbecue? Fuck?
Speaker 2: Can you just save it plate? I don't know. I
Speaker 2: mean I want to kind of show little some fire
Speaker 2: like it's.
Speaker 1: Hot as fuck out in La. I'm gonna eat on
Speaker 1: Saturday regardless, and I'm gonna swim. True. So I'm probably
Speaker 1: not gonna do a red white.
Speaker 2: And blue, right, but I'm not gonna post but that's
Speaker 2: not gonna be rocking my red white and blue bikini.
Speaker 1: Yeah no, fuck oud it, fuck old it.
Speaker 2: Fuck the patriarchy, Fuck the patriarchy.
Speaker 1: Yeah, make sure you go check out our episode last
Speaker 1: week with the Oprah Rose Show.
Speaker 2: There's two there's one on their platform and one on ours,
Speaker 2: and they're both great.
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