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Speaker 1: Welcome back to Good Mom's Bad Choices. I'm Erica and

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Speaker 1: I'm Mela. Happy Wednesday, Happy hump Day, y'all. We are

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Speaker 1: live from the desert. We've been on a little Good

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Speaker 1: Mom's Personal retreat. Was supposed to be like a day.

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Speaker 1: We extended it because we needed more time.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we came all the way in this isolated house

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Speaker 2: with a now TV on a big ass property with

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Speaker 2: a barn, and we brought groceries and we basically didn't

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Speaker 2: leave just to go to the National Park, got in

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Speaker 2: the jacuzzi, did a trailler looking at it on Patreon,

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Speaker 2: and you know, we slept, worked and took mushrooms.

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Speaker 1: I definitely had an intense journey. I told Jamila that

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Speaker 1: I've been like kind of like when I've been taking mushrooms,

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Speaker 1: I haven't really been like taking them all the way.

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Speaker 1: I've been like, you know, babying it. So I went

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Speaker 1: all the way in. I made us go all the

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Speaker 1: way down the rabbit hole, and we climbed out.

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Speaker 2: By the skin of our teeth. Yeah, Erica had a

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Speaker 2: bright idea to not take one full dose chocolate, but

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Speaker 2: to take two each on an empty fucking stomach, which

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Speaker 2: is wonderful, except we decided that we should cook right

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Speaker 2: as we took it. That meal didn't never got eaten

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Speaker 2: or completed, and they could eat in but like hours later,

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Speaker 2: it wasn't good.

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Speaker 1: It was terrible.

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Speaker 2: I don't recommend you taking double the dosage I do.

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Speaker 1: I liked it.

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Speaker 2: No, we did have a good time. I'm just saying,

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Speaker 2: if it's like your first time, don't do what we did. Also,

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Speaker 2: I had an allergic reaction, which was not good, which

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Speaker 2: you yeah, generally when you take any type of hallucinogen,

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Speaker 2: the people highly recommend that you don't look in the mirror.

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Speaker 2: I looked in the mirror, and I knew something wasn't

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Speaker 2: looking right, but I was like, you know what, it's

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Speaker 2: because I'm on mushrooms and this place also doesn't have

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Speaker 2: many mirrors. They're all very vintagey, the one in the bathroom.

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Speaker 2: So we're in the jacuzzi and Eric's like, oh god,

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Speaker 2: I think you're having an allergic reaction. You guys. My

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Speaker 2: eyes swollow up so big.

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Speaker 1: She looked like hitch, like low key like I was

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Speaker 1: like in the jacuzzi, and I didn't really notice because

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Speaker 1: it was all like moonlight and shit. And then She's like,

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Speaker 1: I think I'm like having an allergic reaction. Can you

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Speaker 1: look at my face? And like I was like, oh fuck.

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Speaker 2: Like She's like, I have to go get you something.

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Speaker 2: It was like one o'clock in the morning and we're

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Speaker 2: in the desert off of the dirt road. I'm like, bitch,

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Speaker 2: where do you think you're going? There's nowhere to go.

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Speaker 2: We're gonna have to stay and we're high as hell.

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Speaker 1: Like her face was Wow. If you guys want to

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Speaker 1: see her face, you have to go check out our

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Speaker 1: Patreon where we posted the photo because it was kind

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Speaker 1: of scary. I'm glad she was okay. I was like,

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Speaker 1: kept asking her if she was okay. She kept saying yes,

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Speaker 1: and then I was like, you know what, I'm gonna

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Speaker 2: I was like, am I okay?

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Speaker 1: I was like, I don't want to freak her out.

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Speaker 1: And honestly, there's nothing I can do about this unless

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Speaker 1: we call nine one one, which I'm really we all

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Speaker 2: Not for two black girls in the desert alone taking

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Speaker 2: fucking mushrooms. No, we're not not good and then like

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Speaker 2: before she discovered I was having an allergic reaction, I

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Speaker 2: was like, I was crying. I couldn't breathe. She's like,

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Speaker 2: it's okay, you're detoxing these niggas. So she's like, we

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Speaker 2: ate all the same things, We've consumed all the same things.

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Speaker 2: There's there's no way you're having a legigraction. It's just

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Speaker 2: a niggas coming out of your system.

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Speaker 1: It was. I'm still convinced it was because we did

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Speaker 1: we ate everything the same, We did everything the same.

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Speaker 1: That day, she was the only one that whose eyes

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Speaker 1: were just detoxing.

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Speaker 2: My body is really not has really betrayed me this week,

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Speaker 2: five days ago, my lip was big as shit from

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Speaker 2: the car accident, like hitched. Then five days later I

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Speaker 2: It's just like, fuck you.

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Speaker 1: Fuck you. Maybe the universe is trying to tell you

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Speaker 1: to take care of your body more.

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Speaker 2: Probably I.

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Speaker 1: Believe her, Yeah, because like I think I told you

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Speaker 1: think when I went to Tahoe, how I took them

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Speaker 2: I don't eat, don't I.

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Speaker 1: Don't water And I even now like when I sit

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Speaker 1: on my knees for too long, that sounds really sexual,

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Speaker 1: but yeah, when I sit on my knee, off my knees,

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Speaker 1: when I get up off these damn knees, she like,

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Speaker 1: I literally can't stand up quickly, like it hurts. My

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Speaker 1: joints are hurting. Like so I'm starting to feel like

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Speaker 1: my body age. And we got to take care of

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Speaker 1: our We got to take care of ourselves. Yeah, it's true.

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Speaker 2: It's so easy as as a parent, as a mom

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Speaker 2: to avoid yourself, like taking care of yourself because you're

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Speaker 2: taking care of everybody else. But you know, like I

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Speaker 2: realizing I really don't get hungry unless I smoke. I

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Speaker 2: don't drink enough water. And yeah, body at some point

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Speaker 2: like bitch, fuck you, and especially in the time like now,

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Speaker 2: with like the mystery of Corona fucking harboring over the world,

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Speaker 2: it's even more time to just tap into your body

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Speaker 2: and reinforce it with good stuff, good food. And that's

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Speaker 2: of yourself. But also if we don't, what are we

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Speaker 1: I know, I think at the top of this pandemic,

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Speaker 1: like I was really taking care of myself so much.

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Speaker 1: If you guys follow my other Instagram, I was posting

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Speaker 1: like all my juices I was taking. I went on

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Speaker 1: My horoscope said, I was reading my horoscope yesterday my

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Speaker 1: friend Nisha sent me, and it said basically that this

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Speaker 1: month in July, I need to get back into tune

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Speaker 1: with routine and exercise and that's what's really gonna help

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Speaker 1: me this month. And like I've been feeling that, like

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Speaker 1: while I'm here, I don't want to be fucking aching

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Speaker 2: And also, like I care about my health, I care

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Speaker 2: aware of it and I know it's what I should do,

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Speaker 1: Well, it's easy, I think it's easy to forget. And

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Speaker 1: also when you're a mom, it's just like you're just

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Speaker 1: Like she's been eating the same motherfucking thing for like

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Speaker 1: to try and taste one thing, Jamila. Luna eats fucking

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Speaker 1: scallops and crab and oysters and muscles and like vegetables.

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Speaker 1: of me, yeah, but like you know, I don't feel

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Speaker 1: So I've been trying to encourage her to eat other things.

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Speaker 1: I know you guys have messaged me like different tips

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Speaker 1: and tricks, and I appreciate them. I've tried all of them.

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Speaker 1: I know she's so stubborn.

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Speaker 2: It's almost like if you tell her too, she's going

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Speaker 1: It's my daughter.

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Speaker 2: I got a tricker, it's me, don't eat vegetables.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Karen from Sex Talk with my Mom said to me.

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Speaker 1: And I think even like Nelly had told me this.

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Speaker 2: Like no, she put it, she put it in the comments.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but Nellie told me this like month, like a

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Speaker 1: year ago, when I was complaining about the shit, and

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Speaker 1: I never did it too. Is like making it like

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Speaker 1: giving us her a sticker every time she eats something,

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Speaker 1: think that's like my next step because I tried with muffins, smoothies,

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Speaker 1: ever pop like everything that you are thinking right now

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Speaker 1: that you're gonna dm me, just don't because I've tried

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Speaker 2: Damn might miss out on some good advice. I've tried.

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Speaker 1: I've tried it all except the stickers, which I think

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Speaker 1: maybe I really likes gifts.

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Speaker 2: Except the starvation. Are you hung?

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Speaker 1: Oh I'm doing starvation too. Oh my god, I did

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Speaker 1: this starvation and I like, at my dad's house a

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Speaker 1: few like two weeks ago, we went to eat barbecue

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Speaker 1: didn't eat my burger. Maybe she'll feel bad. So he did.

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Speaker 1: He sent me a whole lass video of him doing

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Speaker 2: Just look at it on our instagram.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's not very funny. It's on her Instagram. And

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Speaker 1: she was and I was like, see you made you

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Speaker 1: made papa cry like you didn't eat his hands.

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Speaker 2: She's stirping because you know, Papa makes all the good

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Speaker 1: And I was like, she's like, okay, well next time

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Speaker 2: what's become so normal to you, even if it doesn't

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Speaker 1: Okay, so we're not going to eat barbecue? Fuck?

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Speaker 2: Can you just save it plate? I don't know. I

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Speaker 1: Hot as fuck out in La. I'm gonna eat on

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Speaker 2: And blue, right, but I'm not gonna post but that's

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Speaker 1: Yeah no, fuck oud it, fuck old it.

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Speaker 2: Fuck the patriarchy, Fuck the patriarchy.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, make sure you go check out our episode last

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