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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Bea Tilly and Tanya rad and iHeartRadio

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Speaker 1: and two time People's Choice Award winning podcast. Hello everybody,

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Speaker 1: we are scrubbing in. Nah.

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Speaker 2: Did you think rapril Fool's Day? Oh no, I know.

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Speaker 1: Haley's not a big prank gal.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, neither am I?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I take that fun to brank.

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Speaker 2: I know, which is why Robby always does it.

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Speaker 1: You're actually both fun to prank, but Haley gets more

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Speaker 1: like mad at me and you just go like like,

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Speaker 1: I throw a little fit you and then you move on. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so it's more it's more worth it to do to

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Speaker 1: save it for you than Haley. But no, I do

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Speaker 1: love a prank.

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Speaker 2: So hope you all stayed prank free yesterday. I hope

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Speaker 2: you were on alert.

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Speaker 1: Hope you were pranked or got to pranks somebody. What's

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Speaker 1: the fun harmless prank? It's just where is the line?

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Speaker 1: Where do you draw the line of harmless?

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Speaker 2: I don't enjoy like the like serious.

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Speaker 1: Like remember when I told you Gypsy Roses with Pete Davidson.

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Speaker 2: Right, harmless, harmless? And I believed it? Yeah? And who

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Speaker 2: can't get who can't that guy gets everybody? I'm like

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Speaker 2: trying to find the photos. She got me good. I

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Speaker 2: was like, I adoptate my trending report.

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Speaker 1: Yeah she really got me with that. But that's harmless.

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah yeah yeah.

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Speaker 1: Harmful is like when someone's tends to be hurt, yeah,

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Speaker 1: or sick or you know that type of stuff. If

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Speaker 1: it lasts longer than an hour and someone's in hours,

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I mean that was again harmless. If you told me

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Speaker 2: that you're sick for an hour, I'd be so pissed.

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, you're right, you're right. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: AnyWho, any moving on?

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Speaker 1: Well, we are happy passover, Happy Passover. We have a

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Speaker 1: Dear Bonia episode today, so we can just jump right

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Speaker 1: into it, shall we. Yeah, I'm feeling advicey okay, right

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Speaker 1: from anonymous.

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Speaker 3: I'm a day one scrubber looking from some advice. I

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Speaker 3: broke up with my ex about five months ago. I

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Speaker 3: learned he is seeing someone. We were together for six years,

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Speaker 3: lived together, just grew apart, became more roommates than partners.

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Speaker 3: We had many talks about if things never changed, and

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Speaker 3: I finally reached my breaking point, I moved out. We

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Speaker 3: broke up because he owns that house. I'm thirty one.

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Speaker 3: He's thirty eight. We're still friends. We talk occasionally, which

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Speaker 3: is how I find out he's seeing someone. I'm happy

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Speaker 3: for him, but I still love him and I want

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Speaker 3: him to be happy. I'm also sad and upset that

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Speaker 3: he has moved on so quickly. Any advice on how

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Speaker 3: to get through this. I'm moving into an apartment this

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Speaker 3: weekend to live solo for the first time ever, without

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Speaker 3: a roommate or a partner, trying some of that modern

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Speaker 3: woman energy. Thank you love the pod so much. You

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Speaker 3: guys bring a smile to my face. Make me laugh

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Speaker 3: every episode.

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Speaker 2: You know what I'm hearing in this. She's not upset

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Speaker 2: that she's not with him. She's upset that he moved on.

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Speaker 1: I don't want your body, but I hate to.

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Speaker 2: Think about you with somebody else. Yeah that songs.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like you. He wasn't actually your person that

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Speaker 1: you want to spend your life with, but you weren't

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Speaker 1: ready to see him move on. And the thing is,

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Speaker 1: I always hear these stories about how like when men

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Speaker 1: break up or divorce or lose their wives or whatever

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Speaker 1: it is, they always quickly find a woman. Because I

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Speaker 1: think this is just my opinion. I think men need.

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Speaker 1: I think men depend on women more than women depend

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Speaker 1: on men.

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Speaker 2: Have you seen the stats? Mark, I might need to

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Speaker 2: do a little quick factor.

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Speaker 3: I'm ready.

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Speaker 2: They say that like married men live live like ten

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Speaker 2: years more or something, but single women live longer.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. And I saw this TikTok.

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Speaker 2: It's something like that.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna derailed from this a little bit, but it's

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Speaker 1: still the same kind of concept. I saw this TikTok

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Speaker 1: and then and then you talk to men and they're

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Speaker 1: like immediately trying to like find another woman who can

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Speaker 1: she was like, women feel like it seems as though

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Speaker 1: women feel a sense of freedom if they've been in

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Speaker 1: a long term marriage or that they don't want to

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Speaker 1: enter back into that as opposed to men feel like,

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Speaker 1: I my life is so much less without a woman

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it is interesting, It is interesting. I think it

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Speaker 2: just depends on like the dynamic of your relationships, and

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Speaker 2: like I think the like thinkership, the old school partnership

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Speaker 2: where like the woman like takes care of everything. She

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Speaker 2: takes care of the kids, she takes care of the house.

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Speaker 2: She's like takes on that mental load. I do feel

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Speaker 2: like at least like modern relationships seem a little bit different.

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Speaker 1: I agree. I think there the goal is for a

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Speaker 1: more equal partnership, whereas I think that was more like

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Speaker 1: the wives catering to the women, catering to the men

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Speaker 1: and taking care of the kids in the house and whatnot.

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Speaker 2: Like I know, there's like we have like a couple

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Speaker 2: married friends. When the wife like goes out of town,

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Speaker 2: she has to leave like minute by minute instructions of

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Speaker 2: for this meal. And when I leave Robbie, I'm like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: you know, like and he gets handle it. And if

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Speaker 2: me instructions, you know what I mean. So it's just

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Speaker 2: like we both kind of have like that same mental load.

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Speaker 1: Mark, do you agree with that statement? As a man?

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Speaker 3: I was doing research, and I'll give you the results

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Speaker 3: of my research and then we can explore that further.

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Speaker 3: Both married men and married women live longer than single

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Speaker 3: men and single women, but the longevity gap is shorter

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Speaker 3: with women. Men live a lot longer, married women live

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Speaker 3: a little longer. Got it, Okay, So the question is

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Speaker 3: men are more reliant on women than vice versa.

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Speaker 1: Well, like the man if people. If a man and

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Speaker 1: a woman are in a relationship and they split up,

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Speaker 1: it's normal for a man to seek out the relationship

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Speaker 1: with a woman faster than a woman to move on to.

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Speaker 3: Seek that relationship because the guy doesn't know how to

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Speaker 3: do anything. Yeah, he literally has no idea how to

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Speaker 3: I believe that's true.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So, Anonymous, what I'm here to say is that

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Speaker 1: I don't think this was something that was against you

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Speaker 1: he's just seeking out the comfort of having a woman

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Speaker 1: willing to stay in there totally, I think. But I

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Speaker 1: think that you are entering one of the most exciting

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Speaker 1: seasons of your life, having your own place, getting it

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Speaker 1: to be exactly what you want, keeping it the way

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Speaker 1: that you want, and getting to explore what that looks

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Speaker 1: like to be single and ready to mingle.

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Speaker 2: It's such an exciting season of life. And like I

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Speaker 2: think back on my when I didn't have roommates and

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Speaker 2: think of it very fondly. So it is very exciting

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Speaker 2: time you're entering. And you know what they say, like

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Speaker 2: when you're a swimmer, what you should just swim, swim,

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Speaker 2: keep swimming in your lane because the minute you look

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Speaker 2: to your left or the minute you look to your right,

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Speaker 2: you're losing the race. So stop looking at your ex

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Speaker 2: and whoever he's with, stop looking at whoever, keep in

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Speaker 2: your own path and you'll get there faster. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Well executed.

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Speaker 1: And I was a little nervous. Yeah that was well done.

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Speaker 2: Wait again, anything I know it's things?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, all right, Anonymous says, hello, back a time your

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Speaker 3: mark and Eastern I became a scrubber last year. The

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Speaker 3: recommendation of a friend of loved every episode would you

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Speaker 3: tell your partner if an ex commented on a selfie

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Speaker 3: you posted. I posted a selfie of myself at the

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Speaker 3: beach last week, and a couple of days later, my

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Speaker 3: ex commented with fire emojis and hope you're doing well.

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Speaker 3: I haven't and don't plan to respond, but I posted

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Speaker 3: another selfie. He commented with fire emojis. Again. This is

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Speaker 3: an ax I dated for almost a year, and we

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Speaker 3: had it on good terms. I've been with my current

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Speaker 3: boyfriend just over a year. Haven't heard from my ex

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Speaker 3: until now. I think it's pretty innocent. But should I

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Speaker 3: mention it? I have no plans to respond. I don't

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Speaker 3: I think the girlies often post selfie so I was

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Speaker 3: just wondering if you ever experienced anything similar. Would love

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Speaker 3: your thoughts. Thanks for bringing the sunshine every week.

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Speaker 1: I would almost just bring it up as like, oh,

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Speaker 1: so and so keeps he like keeps sending me fire emojis.

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Speaker 1: I would just make it seem like you're not trying

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Speaker 2: Like, see, I feel like commenting on an Instagram to

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Speaker 1: Is I can't tell if it's a direct message comment or.

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Speaker 2: No, I think she's saying, like commenting with fire emojis,

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Speaker 1: Her phone, it's a commenting on her her like story,

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Speaker 1: so it's like private because if you can see it,

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Speaker 2: If it's like on the photo on the grid and

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Speaker 2: it's public. And I wouldn't say it to him because

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Speaker 2: I feel like it's like you're trying to get a

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Speaker 1: And if he's like, wait, why is he commenting fire?

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Speaker 1: Be like, I don't know, why is he doing that.

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Speaker 2: I did this when I started dating Robbie because I

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Speaker 2: me every once in a while, but like nothing flirty

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Speaker 2: So I say, tell him if it's privates, if it's

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Speaker 2: a private message, I would just say tell him. And

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Speaker 2: then if he just like does not care, then.

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Speaker 1: Just stop, yeah, because it's like you're.

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Speaker 2: Doing the right thing and like but then eventually like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: who cares.

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Speaker 1: If it's public, don't even say anything. If it's private,

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Speaker 1: be like I don't He keeps dming me just want

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Speaker 1: to show you like I have no right. I'm not

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Speaker 3: Yeah, remember when to get Robbi's attention.

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Speaker 2: Those were those like my het, I mean to what extent?

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Speaker 2: Like what else did I do you get? D I

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Speaker 2: had a mail leg in my photos?

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Speaker 1: The way we were just like Robert, we need Robert,

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Speaker 1: good old Robert the best. You know, he always called

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Speaker 1: me He'll calment here and there on mine things with

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Speaker 2: You know, explaining that to Robbie was like really difficult,

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Speaker 2: because yeah, it just made me seem so insane, like

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's weird. Yeah, Uh, that's very weird. Yeah, so strange.

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Speaker 2: So I'm my instinct is to say Blair, Blair.

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Speaker 3: Love Blair, and I'll tell you why. Oh no, I'm old.

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Speaker 3: No, I feel like all of those Blairs are kind

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Speaker 1: I love I actually love both, but I'm like, well,

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Speaker 2: What about blow me?

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Speaker 3: Well, I can think of why not me.

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Speaker 2: Blair Rare not good? Rare and wren is so cute?

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Speaker 3: No, she's shaking her head.

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Speaker 3: Better than blow me. I'll give you that one.

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Speaker 3: By the way, Romy is nine hundred and twenty six

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Speaker 1: I followed well Jojo, and then another girl I follow

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Speaker 2: I do blow up. I do like the genes sequah

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Speaker 2: of like the last name, like flowing, you know, what

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Speaker 2: We'll just ponder and then we'll email you back. But

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Speaker 3: How do you spell that?

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Speaker 2: Why don't you? Why don't you leave me?

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Speaker 1: What's her name? Rare?

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Speaker 1: What is it rare? It's rare, it's rare, But what

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Speaker 2: I love it?

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Speaker 3: Save it for your own babies.

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Speaker 3: It's a Simon anonymous. They're all anonymous. So just factor

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Speaker 1: Love you so much, You're not being unreasonable. I think

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Speaker 2: I also understand the safety concerns that you have because

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Speaker 2: This career move bringing in more financial stability? Like I

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Speaker 1: And is there any other job that will fulfill him

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Speaker 3: Well, what if maybe he becomes a cop but mom

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Speaker 2: You know, she could be forty years old for a Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I agree. It's just she said he feels responsible.

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Speaker 2: If somebody's moved in to kick them out feels dark?

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Speaker 3: That seems unhealthy to me.

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, just a space that's separate.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I think this is a conver I

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Speaker 3: And if he becomes a cop, you're now married to

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Speaker 2: Mark in the jugular, Oh.

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Maybe you become a cop.

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Speaker 2: I knew we're both become a cop and then you

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Speaker 1: Yeah. No, I think I think you just need to say, hey,

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Speaker 1: Maybe not for the positive. Yeah, but we're truly wishing

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we love you all.

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Speaker 3: Right, one more break and then one more dear, Oh.

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Speaker 4: My goodness, we're back.

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Speaker 1: That we are on time for one more Banya.

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Speaker 3: Well, it's a fun one, Bree says, based on your

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Speaker 2: We talked about like songs. Remember they said they could

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Speaker 1: Oh that's why?

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Speaker 1: Five songs would describe me as a person and five

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Speaker 1: you have some but jeweled I knew you were going

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Speaker 2: Red? Come on is like peak t Rat not Nollo.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you're like married.

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Speaker 2: I know, but it's like the girl that feels everything

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Speaker 2: so passionately, you know what I mean, like Red the

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Speaker 2: Life of a show Girl. No, and my last one

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Speaker 2: would be Texas hold them.

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Speaker 3: As that's right?

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Speaker 2: No, what's the one not not text? Hold them? The

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Speaker 2: one from Lemonade that was like the big one. I

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Speaker 2: ain't sorry, I ain't sorry, Sorry, I'm sorry that's me.

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Speaker 1: That wasn't the right key.

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Speaker 3: So I don't remember thinking the same song define you

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Speaker 3: as a person if you don't even know what remember?

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Speaker 2: Sorry, I ain't sorry, I A'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: Literally can't think of a single song right now. I

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Speaker 1: just gave you five, So I go with what just

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Speaker 1: what love means to me? What does that?

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Speaker 2: Are you gonna do? The second portion?

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Speaker 1: I have songs that mean love to you. Yeah, I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna say, uh, you got me on Taylor Swift, but

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna say you are in love by Taylor Swift.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna say yeah, sure we'll go in daylight.

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Speaker 2: I will say bones, Maren Morris, come on love.

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Speaker 1: You like that Digne. And this means this is like

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Speaker 1: a big deal to me because I love lyrics and song.

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Speaker 1: So what's a cold Play song? Yellow?

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Speaker 2: Oh that's too sad. Yeah it's giving sadness. But they

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Speaker 2: have that new one that's like super about love all

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Speaker 2: my love.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe I'll be because you know, he says, I'll

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Speaker 1: be the greatest fan of your life.

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Speaker 2: Viva Levita. All right, I feel like I'm falling in love.

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Speaker 1: Feels like, yeah, I'm.

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Speaker 2: Falling in love. No divers time. Yeah, that's a good one.

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Speaker 1: I'll think more on that. But great questions. And we

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Speaker 1: all as we all, we just always hope that life

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Speaker 1: is fun and easy and that you have people around

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Speaker 1: you to support you. And if you ever need advice

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Speaker 1: and you're like, oh, I don't have anyone to turn

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Speaker 1: to that I feel safe to ask, just head on

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Speaker 1: over to the scrubbing in page.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and if you are having a bad day or

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Speaker 2: dealing with an annoying person. Just wrap yourself in that

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Speaker 2: little love cocoon and don't let that negative energy in.

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Speaker 2: Block it out, block it out, do not absorb it.

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Speaker 2: For the love of everything lovely, do not absorb anybody's

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Speaker 2: energy other than your own. Okay, okay, okay.

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Speaker 1: We love you.

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Speaker 2: Somebody I love you.