WEBVTT - Can Showing Gratitude Help You Live Longer?

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<v Speaker 1>I guess what will what's that man? So I was

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<v Speaker 1>looking at letters of note this week and there was

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<v Speaker 1>this thank you note I found that I was stunned by.

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<v Speaker 1>It's from Clyde Barrow. Clyde, Oh is that is that

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<v Speaker 1>Clyde of Bonnie and Clyde. That's right? And he wrote

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<v Speaker 1>a thank you note to Henry Ford. So here's what

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<v Speaker 1>it reads. While I still have got breadth in my lungs,

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<v Speaker 1>I will tell you what a dandy car you make.

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<v Speaker 1>I have drove forwards exclusively when I could get away

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<v Speaker 1>with one, for sustained speed and freedom from trouble. The

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<v Speaker 1>Ford has got every other car skinned. And even if

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<v Speaker 1>my business had been strictly legal, it don't hurt anything

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<v Speaker 1>to tell you what a fine car you got in

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<v Speaker 1>the V eight yours truly Clyde Champion Barrow. No is

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<v Speaker 1>this is this real? So there is some question about that.

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<v Speaker 1>But it was sent from Tulsa when Clyde Barrow was

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<v Speaker 1>tooling through the area, and according to Stokes, it was

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<v Speaker 1>very much his style of humor. But I was learning

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<v Speaker 1>about gratitude, and it turns out that counting your blessings

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<v Speaker 1>and writing thank you notes like this one actually help

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<v Speaker 1>you sleep better at night, And according to the Journal

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<v Speaker 1>of Psychosomatic Research, you should count blessings not cheap because

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<v Speaker 1>you actually have more positive thoughts before you sleep, which

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<v Speaker 1>soothes the nervous system and helps people sleep better and longer.

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<v Speaker 1>So maybe an outlaw like Clyde actually had a really

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<v Speaker 1>good reason for thanking Henry Ford. But learning about this

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<v Speaker 1>story made us wonder what are some of the other

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<v Speaker 1>scientific benefits of gratitude. Do human brains start with a

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<v Speaker 1>negative bias? And how much can being thankful and really

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<v Speaker 1>help our lives. So that's what we're digging into. Let's

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<v Speaker 1>dive in. Hey, their podcast listeners, Welcome to Part Time Genius.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm Will Pearson and is always I'm joined by my

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<v Speaker 1>friend man guess how Ticketer and sitting behind the soundproof

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<v Speaker 1>glass bell thing out the theme song to Golden Girls.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean this guy, he's been playing this what do

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<v Speaker 1>you Say? Mango for like three hours over Oh he

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<v Speaker 1>loves that thank you for being a friend line. It

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<v Speaker 1>just puts the biggest smile on his face and I

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<v Speaker 1>love to see that. That's our friend and producer Tristan McNeil. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>who knew he was such a fan. Well, I know

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<v Speaker 1>he loves the eighties, but yeah, you're right. I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>know he was such a big fan of this one.

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<v Speaker 1>But anyway, turn it down, Tristan, it's time to get

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<v Speaker 1>focused here. And I know we wanted to talk about gratitude,

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<v Speaker 1>and I thought there'd be no better person to discuss

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<v Speaker 1>this than with our good friend and author A. J. Jacobs. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>if for some reason you don't know A. J's work,

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<v Speaker 1>he's done all sorts of amazing feeds, from reading the

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<v Speaker 1>entire encyclopedia for his book That Know It All, to

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<v Speaker 1>following every rule in the Bible for the year of

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<v Speaker 1>living Biblically. And now he's got a new book all

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<v Speaker 1>about living a more thoughtful life called Thanks a Thousand. A. J. Jacobs,

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<v Speaker 1>welcome back to the program. Well, thank you, of course,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you. I have to say that, but I also

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<v Speaker 1>mean it. Well, J. Tell us a little bit about

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<v Speaker 1>this book. You chose to thank every person who helped

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<v Speaker 1>bring a cup of coffee to your lips. But why

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<v Speaker 1>don't you give you this idea? And why do you

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<v Speaker 1>choose coffee over I don't know, cheese or white wine

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<v Speaker 1>or something else. M hmm. That's good. I could do

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<v Speaker 1>sequels on those. I like both of those. Back when

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<v Speaker 1>I was writing The Year of Living Biblically, the book

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<v Speaker 1>you just referenced, and that one was about where I

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<v Speaker 1>tried to follow the Bible as literally as possible, uh

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<v Speaker 1>ten commandments. I grew a huge beard. I stoned people adulterers.

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<v Speaker 1>I stoned adulterers, but using small pebbles so I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>get arrested. The Bible says that you should say prayers

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<v Speaker 1>of thanksgiving, so I would do that, and uh, I

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<v Speaker 1>actually found it quite meaningful. But when the project was over, UH,

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to continue in some way, but it felt

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<v Speaker 1>a little odd because I'm agnostic, so thanking God seemed

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<v Speaker 1>a little strange. So instead I tweaked it and decided,

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<v Speaker 1>before a meal with my wife and kids, I would

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<v Speaker 1>thank some of the people who helped, you know, the

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<v Speaker 1>farmer who grew the tomatoes and the woman at the

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<v Speaker 1>grocery who sold me the tomatoes. And my my kids

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<v Speaker 1>tolerated it for a while and then my son said,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, Dad, uh, those people can't hear you. If

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<v Speaker 1>you really believe this, you should thank them in person.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, that is a good idea. That

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<v Speaker 1>is actually a book idea. So thank you for helping

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<v Speaker 1>my job. Um and uh, I decided to do it

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<v Speaker 1>and it was it was a wild experience. I went

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<v Speaker 1>all over the world and made me realize that it's

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<v Speaker 1>all interconnected. Every little thing we do in life has

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<v Speaker 1>hundreds thousands of people involved that we take for granted.

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<v Speaker 1>I decided costs or first of all, coffee. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I do love it. I have it every morning, and

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<v Speaker 1>it's just such a huge part of modern life. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>there's two billion cups of coffee consumed every day around

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<v Speaker 1>the world. And uh, a'm floys a hundred twenty five

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<v Speaker 1>million people. So I I thought, all right, let's do

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<v Speaker 1>the coffee. Wow, that is unbelievable. Hundred and twenty five

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<v Speaker 1>he said. Five million people employed by this industry somehow, right,

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<v Speaker 1>And that's not counting, as I say, sort of, the

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<v Speaker 1>the people who are adjacent, the people who you know,

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<v Speaker 1>make the steel for the coffee roasters so that they work. Uh. So,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, if you include that, you can get up

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<v Speaker 1>to I'm sure however you define it, you can get

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<v Speaker 1>it up to you know, a billion or two billion. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>with with that in mind, how do you even start

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<v Speaker 1>when you embark on a project like this, it definitely

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<v Speaker 1>feels overwhelming. So how did you decide which thousand people

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<v Speaker 1>to thank? I mean, and should you have thanked Beyonce

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<v Speaker 1>in the process. Yeah, you could thank her because you

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<v Speaker 1>could make the argument the chemist who designed the plastic

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<v Speaker 1>lining for my coffee cup listen to Beyonce while studying

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<v Speaker 1>for her example. But I just followed what fascinated me.

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to focus on for five or six stories

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<v Speaker 1>that I thought were really surprising and touching. I started

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<v Speaker 1>with the barista at my local New York coffee shop,

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<v Speaker 1>who was lovely and who told me, you're encountering people

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<v Speaker 1>in a very dangerous situation pre caffeination. And she said

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<v Speaker 1>the worst part is people just treat her like a

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<v Speaker 1>vending machine. They don't look up from their phones. They

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<v Speaker 1>just thrust their credit card in her direction. So I made,

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<v Speaker 1>uh the pledge that I would, you know, actually make

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<v Speaker 1>eye contact with people that I'm and I know I

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<v Speaker 1>deserve a Nobel prize for that. Uh but uh, but

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<v Speaker 1>it's you know, it's a small gesture, but it's so

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<v Speaker 1>it has such outsized impact to to actually look at

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<v Speaker 1>someone in the eyes when you're dealing with them instead

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<v Speaker 1>of at your phone. I really love that, you know what.

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<v Speaker 1>One of the things, as he mentioned a little earlier,

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<v Speaker 1>was about how important the coffee lids are for for

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<v Speaker 1>the cups, and I was curious if you could expand

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<v Speaker 1>on that a little bit more. Oh yes, so the

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<v Speaker 1>lids I did not know. You know, I could have

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<v Speaker 1>written a book on lids. Probably would not have sold many,

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<v Speaker 1>but it was fascinating to see every little thing has

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<v Speaker 1>so much behind it. And I talked to the designer

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<v Speaker 1>of the lid for my coffee cups and he was

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<v Speaker 1>so passionate about it, and he was very innovative. He

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<v Speaker 1>was sort of like an Elon Musk of coffee lids,

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<v Speaker 1>hopefully a little more emotionally stable. And he thinks the

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<v Speaker 1>problem is the lids will block the aroma, which is

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<v Speaker 1>a huge part of the coffee experience. So he made

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<v Speaker 1>a bigger hole in the middle. Um he made this. Uh.

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<v Speaker 1>The shape is like this inverted uh hexagon, like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like the buckminster Fuller type uh shape and uh so

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<v Speaker 1>you can really get your nose in and get max

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<v Speaker 1>of him a roma. And it is just hilarious how

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<v Speaker 1>much thought goes into uh this, this little piece of plastic,

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<v Speaker 1>and it made me realize there are there are hundreds

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<v Speaker 1>of these these mini masterpieces. So I actually loved the

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<v Speaker 1>little sides of people who should have been thanked. And

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<v Speaker 1>one of the people you bring up in your book

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<v Speaker 1>is Jonas Salk, who we all know figured out the

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<v Speaker 1>vaccine for polio, but for most of us who've heard

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<v Speaker 1>of him, he's treated as kind of a loan genius. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>why do you think more people weren't recognized for that discovery? Right? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>that is one of the big themes of my book

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<v Speaker 1>is that it takes hundreds of people for every advance,

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<v Speaker 1>and psychologists call it the responsibility bias, that we just

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<v Speaker 1>like to focus on the one person and say, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>here's the loan genius. And Jonas Salk is a perfect

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<v Speaker 1>example of that. And he invented the polio vaccine or

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<v Speaker 1>a polio vaccine, and he was like the superhero. He

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<v Speaker 1>was along on the cover of Time magazine and he

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<v Speaker 1>gave a speech saying how great he was basically for

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<v Speaker 1>conventing the vaccine, but he neglected to thank all the

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<v Speaker 1>people in his lab, and there were tons of people

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<v Speaker 1>in his lab. There are tons of people who made

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<v Speaker 1>scientific advances, like on growing polio, so you could actually

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<v Speaker 1>do the experiments on the polio uh and and they

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<v Speaker 1>were very upset with which I think is understandable. So

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<v Speaker 1>we as humans have this bias to feature the one person,

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<v Speaker 1>and I totally as an author, I play into that.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, this book says it's by A. J. Jacobs,

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<v Speaker 1>which is ridiculous because a truthful cover would say by

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<v Speaker 1>you know, the words by A. J. Jacobs. Here's the design.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, it would have like two hundred fifty people

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<v Speaker 1>on the cover. And I actually proposed that to my publisher,

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<v Speaker 1>and I thought that might be an interesting sort of

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<v Speaker 1>marketing angle. But I do have a list in the

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<v Speaker 1>back of a thousand people who helped with the coffee

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<v Speaker 1>and my book. Speaking of being grateful and especially in

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<v Speaker 1>this sense, what are some of the scientific benefits of

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<v Speaker 1>being grateful? And you know, like does it have an

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<v Speaker 1>impact on our health or happiness? There are studies that

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<v Speaker 1>show you you know, it'll lift depression, it will help

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<v Speaker 1>you sleep, improve your diet. Uh. I like this one

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<v Speaker 1>study that indicated that gratitude causes you to be more

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<v Speaker 1>generous to strangers. If you're feeling grateful, you're more likely

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<v Speaker 1>to help others. There's studies on how it boosts athletic performance.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if that's true. I love that you

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<v Speaker 1>thanked a thousand people and now you're gonna, like be

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<v Speaker 1>drafted for the NBA or okay, exactly, I should try

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<v Speaker 1>out now that I'm so grateful. Many people we have

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<v Speaker 1>the negative bias, which was very helpful when we were

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<v Speaker 1>cave people trying to uh get away from lions. But

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<v Speaker 1>but going through the world with a negative bias and

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<v Speaker 1>only focusing on those three or four things that go wrong,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not great for our mood. So this really has

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<v Speaker 1>helped me to focus on the hundreds of things that

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<v Speaker 1>go right every day as opposed to the three or

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<v Speaker 1>four that go wrong, and just making a conscious effort.

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<v Speaker 1>Like when I was at the airport, uh the other day,

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<v Speaker 1>I I'm always annoyed because my gate is always the

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<v Speaker 1>one that's a mile and a half walk. It drives

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<v Speaker 1>me crazy. But I realized that's not true. That's just

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<v Speaker 1>what I remember because I remember the annoying ones. And

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<v Speaker 1>so every time the other day I was at a gate,

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<v Speaker 1>like you go through security and it's right there, and

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<v Speaker 1>I say, you know what, I'm gonna make a note

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<v Speaker 1>of that. I'm gonna remember pay attention, and next time

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<v Speaker 1>I try to complain to myself, I'm gonna say, that's wrong,

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<v Speaker 1>You're you're being irrational. I I know, I've read these

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<v Speaker 1>studies before that if you've fake smiling, it'll actually eventually

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<v Speaker 1>make you happier. And I was curious, is that possible

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<v Speaker 1>with gratitude, to like, can you fake gratitude and and

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<v Speaker 1>end up being more grateful in the process? Right, Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>the answer is yeah, and there are studies and from

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<v Speaker 1>an anecdotal point of view, totally because I you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I would wake up in my default mood of grumpiness

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<v Speaker 1>and I would during this project, I would force myself

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<v Speaker 1>every day to spend a couple of hours either writing

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<v Speaker 1>thank you notes or uh calling people cold calling or

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<v Speaker 1>visiting people uh to thank them for their role in

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<v Speaker 1>my coffee. And it had an effect on me, and

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<v Speaker 1>it had the the ideal as if it has a

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<v Speaker 1>good effect on that. You know, some people I would

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<v Speaker 1>call and they'd be like, what's going on? Is this

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<v Speaker 1>a pyramid scheme? What are you trying to do? But

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<v Speaker 1>I would call the woman who does the pest control

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<v Speaker 1>for the coffee, the warehouse where the coffee beans are

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<v Speaker 1>word and I'd say, I know this sounds strange, but

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<v Speaker 1>I want to thank you for helping keep the insects

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<v Speaker 1>out of my coffee. And she would say, well, that

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<v Speaker 1>does sound a little strange, but that that's lovely and

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<v Speaker 1>that helped make my day and you know, it made

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<v Speaker 1>me feel better, you know, A j There's this little

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<v Speaker 1>aside in the book that I really liked, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>about how a friend of yours has this trick for

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<v Speaker 1>counting her blessings and this is before she goes to sleep,

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<v Speaker 1>and she uses the alphabet to do this. Can you

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<v Speaker 1>talk a little bit about that. Yeah, that was a

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<v Speaker 1>love and that has worked for me, this idea of

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<v Speaker 1>when you're going to sleep, instead of counting sheep, do

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<v Speaker 1>this little trick, which is go through the alphabet and

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<v Speaker 1>come up with one thing for every letter that you

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<v Speaker 1>are thankful for. So you know, I could be anything

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<v Speaker 1>related to your life. You know, A is for the

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<v Speaker 1>apple pancakes and my my husband makes on Saturday mornings,

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<v Speaker 1>or what have you. It gets you enough outside of

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<v Speaker 1>yourself for me that you fall asleep as opposed to

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<v Speaker 1>stressing about all of the things you have to do

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<v Speaker 1>the next day. That's really wonderful. Well, we're gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>back with A. J. Jacobs right after this break. Welcome

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<v Speaker 1>back to Part Time Genius, where we're talking to author A. J. Jacobs. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>A J. I want you to talk to us a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit about nostalgia. I know you used to have

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<v Speaker 1>a calm at mental flass that talked about how things

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<v Speaker 1>used to be and falling into this trap of the

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<v Speaker 1>good old days? But what was coffee like in the

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<v Speaker 1>good old days? And should we be grateful for how

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<v Speaker 1>it's evolved? Oh? Yeah, I mean I love talking about that.

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<v Speaker 1>The good old days were not good at all. They

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<v Speaker 1>were They were horrible day where disease ridden, smell a racist, homophobic, sexist,

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<v Speaker 1>the whole thing. And yeah, coffee, you are very lucky

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<v Speaker 1>that you were not drinking coffee in the nineteenth century.

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<v Speaker 1>You did not know what you were getting. There was

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<v Speaker 1>no FBA. So you know, the list of things that

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<v Speaker 1>adulterated coffee in the past is quite impressive. You know, sawdust,

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<v Speaker 1>dog biscuits, lead arsenic, something called monkey nuts, which I

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<v Speaker 1>don't actually think is the private parts of animals. It

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<v Speaker 1>was a sort of plant from South America. But I

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<v Speaker 1>am very grateful for coffee for saving the United States,

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<v Speaker 1>at least that's my theory. The because in the Civil War,

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<v Speaker 1>the North had real coffee, caffeinated coffee, but the South

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<v Speaker 1>had no real coffee. The naval blockade blocked it, so

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<v Speaker 1>they had to make bake coffee out of chicory and

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<v Speaker 1>like roasted corn and asparagus seeds and all sorts of

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<v Speaker 1>ridiculous stuff. But you know, they were not caffeinated. So

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<v Speaker 1>North was caffinated. And I think it could have been

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<v Speaker 1>the deciding factor. Will never know, but I like to think. So. Um. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>you you did talk about a friend who happens to

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<v Speaker 1>be a professor that reminded you that you do have

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<v Speaker 1>to be honest, even in a book about gratitude about

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<v Speaker 1>coffees good and bad qualities. And so with that in mind,

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<v Speaker 1>along the way, you decided to thank a major petroleum company.

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<v Speaker 1>And so I'm I'm curious one, you know, why did

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<v Speaker 1>you do that and to how did it make you

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<v Speaker 1>feel when you decided to do that? Right, it made

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<v Speaker 1>me realize the coffee could not have gotten to me

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<v Speaker 1>without oil. And you know, it powers the ships and

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<v Speaker 1>the trucks that bring it to me. So I figured

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<v Speaker 1>I had to thank Exxon because they were that's what

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<v Speaker 1>the trucks used. But I also think that Exxon is

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<v Speaker 1>probably doing some horrible things to our planet. So I

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<v Speaker 1>wrote what I think might be the most passive aggressive

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<v Speaker 1>thank you note in the history of thank you notes

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<v Speaker 1>to the CEO of Exxon, where I said, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I appreciate your role in getting me my coffee. I

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<v Speaker 1>love coffee. I hope it's around in fifty undred years

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<v Speaker 1>and that are planet doesn't explode from overuse of fossil fuels.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm pretty sure that had a huge impact. We're

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<v Speaker 1>just we're just waiting. I'm sure that some of those

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<v Speaker 1>policy changes are coming pretty soon because of you exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>So I wanted to hear about your experiences at the

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<v Speaker 1>coffee warehouse because I saw a line in the book

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<v Speaker 1>about gay moths and I was curious to hear a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit more about that. Oh yeah, so that was

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<v Speaker 1>I did check up on this, and and it appears

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<v Speaker 1>to be true. But they have, you know, they have

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<v Speaker 1>a pest problem at the warehouse because they have the

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<v Speaker 1>amount of coffee there. It was, if I believe it

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<v Speaker 1>was five football fields, Big phil stacked with coffee fifteen

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<v Speaker 1>feet high. You know, it could make a billion cups

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<v Speaker 1>of coffee so that you know, of course insects enjoy

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<v Speaker 1>their coffee. So but they had found some novel strategy

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<v Speaker 1>for getting rid of the moths and it had to

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<v Speaker 1>do with releasing a far genome that made the male

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<v Speaker 1>moths not attracted to females so that they wouldn't, uh,

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<v Speaker 1>they wouldn't mate and have baby moths. And I looked

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<v Speaker 1>into it and it seemed to have some scientific package,

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<v Speaker 1>so uh, yeah, I don't know it was. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm all for uh, moths identifying in any way they

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<v Speaker 1>want and their fluidity and moths is fine by me. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>and I guess it's better than killing them. So there

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<v Speaker 1>you go. Now, we've we've got a bunch of stories

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<v Speaker 1>on coffee over the years, both at Mental Floss and

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<v Speaker 1>now Here a part time genius. And I've read about

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<v Speaker 1>coffee cherries before, but I didn't realize that you can

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<v Speaker 1>actually eat them. So I'm curious, what does a coffee

0:19:17.359 --> 0:19:21.359
<v Speaker 1>cherry taste like? Yeah, coffees grow on trees and uh

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<v Speaker 1>and the fruit looks like a cherry or a grape tomato.

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<v Speaker 1>It's red and inside is the coffee bean. And what's weird.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a very paradoxical fruit because you've got If you

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<v Speaker 1>taste the fruit, it's quite sweet, but the but the

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<v Speaker 1>bean is bitter. And there's the legend of how coffee

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<v Speaker 1>was discovered. I guess people didn't need it, but the

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<v Speaker 1>legend is that called the the Ethiopian goatherd, and Millennia

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<v Speaker 1>passed saw his goats eating the the cherries and like

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<v Speaker 1>flipping out and just dancing and bouncing around, and he's like, huh,

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<v Speaker 1>that looks fun, and so he uh started to eat him.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I did think collect heard in the book,

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<v Speaker 1>but ever existed. That's a great point. I didn't and

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<v Speaker 1>that is an oversight. Thank you. In the follow up edition,

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<v Speaker 1>I will so. One of the facts that struck me

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<v Speaker 1>was that if you actually paid minimum wage to everyone

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<v Speaker 1>involved in the process, you're write that a cup of

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<v Speaker 1>coffee would cost Is that right? Well, there was one

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<v Speaker 1>calculation from one team. I can't swear that that's true,

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<v Speaker 1>but yeah it was. It's weird because you pay three

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<v Speaker 1>dollars for this little cup of brown liquid. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>one part of me is like, this is ridiculous, This

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<v Speaker 1>is yeah crazy. Uh, but once you look into the

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<v Speaker 1>supply chain, there are so many hundreds of people, and

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<v Speaker 1>it has to travel so far, and if you paid

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<v Speaker 1>minimum wage to the people who were working in the

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<v Speaker 1>developing countries, then the coffee should actually be twenty five dollars.

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<v Speaker 1>Some people are afraid that beings super grateful makes you complacent,

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<v Speaker 1>And there was a Barbara Aaron Reich, the writer. She

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<v Speaker 1>wrote a New York Times op ed that said, you

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<v Speaker 1>know gratitude is She said it was basically a right

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<v Speaker 1>wing conspiracy to keep people from making real reforms, like

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<v Speaker 1>Walmart workers would be so grateful for their for minimum

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<v Speaker 1>wage or whatever they can paid that they wouldn't object.

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<v Speaker 1>But luckily, the research says the exact opposite. It actually

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<v Speaker 1>says the more grateful you are, the more likely you

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<v Speaker 1>are to advocate for change. I'm curious, what was it

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<v Speaker 1>like to thank the people who plucked and produced the

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<v Speaker 1>coffee cherries in Colombia? Like, how did they respond when

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<v Speaker 1>you thank them? I think they were a bit confused

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<v Speaker 1>as to my project. But in the end, I think

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<v Speaker 1>I got through and I tried to make it as

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<v Speaker 1>vivid as possible, which is what they say the best

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<v Speaker 1>ways of thanking. You know, I said, you, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>every morning I drink the coffee that you that you

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<v Speaker 1>guys make possible, and and I couldn't do my job

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<v Speaker 1>or take care of my kids without your coffee, so

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<v Speaker 1>thank you. And and they did come around, and they

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<v Speaker 1>actually said that they couldn't do their job without a

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<v Speaker 1>hundred other people. And they talked about, uh, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>the pickup truck that they drive is made from parts

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<v Speaker 1>all over the world, and the machine that takes the

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<v Speaker 1>skin off of the coffee cherry that's made in Brazil.

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<v Speaker 1>They didn't Jonas Salka and just take all the credit

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<v Speaker 1>for all the coffee exactly that it's all us. Uh No,

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<v Speaker 1>they were very nice. Stay right there, Listeners will be

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<v Speaker 1>back with A. J. Jacobs after the break. Welcome back

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<v Speaker 1>to Part Time Genius. We're here with A. J. Jacobs

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<v Speaker 1>talking about his new book, Thanks a Thousand. I love

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<v Speaker 1>seeing the list some of the funnier entries in there.

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<v Speaker 1>I know it was a little surprised to see Joe's

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<v Speaker 1>parents from Joe's Coffee thanked in here. And I'm curious, like,

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<v Speaker 1>who were some of the funnier, maybe more surprising people

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<v Speaker 1>that you didn't exactly expect to thank as you were

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<v Speaker 1>on your way to a thousand thank yous. Uh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>there were some very you know, I used my credit

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<v Speaker 1>card and I didn't know how much went into just

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<v Speaker 1>making the credit card. The people who have to make

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<v Speaker 1>the magnetic strip and the people who assigned the numbers

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<v Speaker 1>to the credit cards. There's a there's a whole institute

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<v Speaker 1>that assigns numbers two various credit cards. Um, and you

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<v Speaker 1>know that they don't do it themselves. Uh. I will

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<v Speaker 1>say this one was crazy. If you go on the

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<v Speaker 1>Apple website, you can find a list of their suppliers,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's I could have done the whole thing just

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<v Speaker 1>that list that I restrained myself. But a lot of

0:24:09.680 --> 0:24:12.159
<v Speaker 1>companies don't do that. They don't say where their stuff

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<v Speaker 1>comes from. But but some do, and the Apple was

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<v Speaker 1>one of them. M hm. Well, I'm not going to

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<v Speaker 1>spoil it for people, but the way you end the

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<v Speaker 1>book with the Italo Calvino quote and how the world

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<v Speaker 1>could look if we were all a little bit more

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<v Speaker 1>grateful made me just genuinely want a world where we

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<v Speaker 1>could be more aware and more connected and not like

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<v Speaker 1>social media, connected but actually grateful and connected. And I

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<v Speaker 1>just wanted to thank you so much, truly for writing

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<v Speaker 1>this book, and thank you of course in mangas as

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<v Speaker 1>I mentioned, I you know I'm a huge listener, and

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<v Speaker 1>I that a few episodes ago you told the story

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<v Speaker 1>of how you were in Portland and everyone thanks and

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<v Speaker 1>the bus driver and how touched you were, and I

0:24:53.560 --> 0:24:56.280
<v Speaker 1>thought that it's lovely. If we can turn the world

0:24:56.480 --> 0:25:01.520
<v Speaker 1>into one giant Portland bus, the world would be a

0:25:01.560 --> 0:25:07.520
<v Speaker 1>better place. I agree. The book is thanks at thousand.

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