Speaker 1: Hell Suck At Dating with Dean Angler and Jared Haven
Speaker 1: I heart Radio podcast. Hey, welcome back to help buy
Speaker 1: Suck At Dating. I'm Jared Habn. Dean Angler is having
Speaker 1: technical difficulties right now. I'm pretty sure he's on the
Speaker 1: top of a mountain. Uh so WiFi, as you can imagine,
Speaker 1: not the best up there. I'm not joking. He showed
Speaker 1: up on Zoom in full snowmobile, helmet on goggles, ready
Speaker 1: to go. Oh he's back now, Well, we're gonna find
Speaker 1: out if Dean's gonna join us on the podcast. He's
Speaker 1: looking for a better WiFi spot. We have a very
Speaker 1: special guest whos gonna go host this week's episode. You
Speaker 1: know her. She was on Ben Higgins season of The Bachelor.
Speaker 1: She was also on Bachelor in Paradise season three with
Speaker 1: me before I became somewhat of a smart man. My
Speaker 1: dog is barking in the background. This is a chaotic
Speaker 1: podcast to already begin. Okay, we're all going to settle down.
Speaker 1: It's still wonderful. The beautiful Lace Morris is joining us
Speaker 1: on the podcast today. Lace, how are you? I'm amazing?
Speaker 1: How are you? I'm doing well? It feels like I'm
Speaker 1: so sorry. You're walking into this chaotic situation. Dean's literally
Speaker 1: driving right now trying to find a better WiFi spot.
Speaker 1: My dog is freaking out in the background for god
Speaker 1: knows what. But we're so grateful for you to be here. Uh,
Speaker 1: Lace you were We were just talking off the podcast. Uh.
Speaker 1: We saw you a little over a year ago for
Speaker 1: J J J J Lane and Kayla's wedding. And that
Speaker 1: was like the last time we were at Ashley and
Speaker 1: I were at any big gathering. It was like the
Speaker 1: week before lockdown happened, right, Yeah, we got a little
Speaker 1: fun in before we got locked down. That was a
Speaker 1: fun wedding. That was the only time I've ever been
Speaker 1: to Denver, which is the scariest airport I've ever seen.
Speaker 1: Why because I think we have one of the best airports.
Speaker 1: I didn't really venture around, so I can't tell you.
Speaker 1: But that horse with the red eyes, what the hell
Speaker 1: is that about? You know that? Did you know that
Speaker 1: killed the guy that built it? Hold on, what did
Speaker 1: you know that? Wait? So it's a Bronco, right, Yeah,
Speaker 1: hence the Denver Broncos. No it's not, but it's not. No,
Speaker 1: I don't think so. Well, I'm in an assumption there,
Speaker 1: which as we all know, it makes an asset of
Speaker 1: it might be, but all I know is that his
Speaker 1: own thing killed him because it's all over on him.
Speaker 1: Well that's terrifying. Well I heard that airport. There's like
Speaker 1: conspiracy theories about that airport in Denver. Yeah, there is
Speaker 1: a lot I have. I should probably look into that
Speaker 1: ash and I looked into it, like there is some
Speaker 1: secret underground layer where uh there's like aliens being held captive.
Speaker 1: It's crazy, but I think it's really just because that
Speaker 1: bronco with the red eyes. But anyway, like what it
Speaker 1: was the purpose of putting the scary eyes in there,
Speaker 1: It could have been really cool. You know. Maybe the
Speaker 1: guy was like, listen, I love Denver so much that
Speaker 1: I don't want anybody coming here. So as soon as
Speaker 1: you touch ground in Denver, I'm just gonna put this
Speaker 1: giant horse with red eyes staring directly into your soul
Speaker 1: so it scares you the hell back wherever you came from.
Speaker 1: Don't come here, Yeah, don't come here. It's too good. Uh. Well, Lace,
Speaker 1: first of all, everybody obviously knows you from Ben Higgins
Speaker 1: season of the Bachelor, So how'd you end up getting
Speaker 1: on the show originally anyway, Um, I had applied like
Speaker 1: six months before they called me and just randomly. I
Speaker 1: don't know why, I just did it and then they
Speaker 1: called me. But I was in a relationship, so I
Speaker 1: was supposed to be on Ashley's season technically, but Crystal season. Yeah,
Speaker 1: Chris Crystals and I had a boyfriend at the time,
Speaker 1: but I knew we weren't going to work out. But
Speaker 1: I just was like a moral thing, so I was like,
Speaker 1: maybe when I'm single again, They're like call us when
Speaker 1: you're single. So I did, and it was just in
Speaker 1: time for bed and season. So you did not pull
Speaker 1: a Jed. That's a good decision, yea. Even though there
Speaker 1: was some talk like a couple of weeks ago that
Speaker 1: Jed was gonna say that he had like this explosive story.
Speaker 1: I don't know what happened to that, but I think
Speaker 1: it was a good decision, right, and then we never
Speaker 1: got it, and then we never got it. Something happened again.
Speaker 1: It was probably the Denver Airport. The Denver Airport controls everybody,
Speaker 1: including Bachelor Nation. So so you signed up, So I'm
Speaker 1: assuming you were single when you signed up, and then
Speaker 1: you started dating guy, and then that's when they called you. Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: I actually I was headed to Vegas, but I met
Speaker 1: them anyways behind his back and went and met like
Speaker 1: Lacey what was the name? Lacy really liking me? And
Speaker 1: well what's not to like? Thanks? Sick kind of cool?
Speaker 1: Um but yeah, so um I called him when I
Speaker 1: was single, like you're less than a year later? Oh wow,
Speaker 1: Um it is crazy? How like just it it? So
Speaker 1: when I got casted, I luckily was single, and I
Speaker 1: don't think I could have done what you did, which
Speaker 1: is like reach back out. I've I felt terrified to
Speaker 1: even tell them no. In the beginning, like anything they
Speaker 1: wanted me to do. I remember first getting up because
Speaker 1: obviously we all have to go to final casting weekend
Speaker 1: and like we have that super intimidating moment moment where
Speaker 1: you have to sit in front of the thirty producers
Speaker 1: and um, horrible. Oh it's terrifying. I remember, like I'm
Speaker 1: you know, I'm an outgoing person to a certain extent,
Speaker 1: but like they had me imitating Batman and as it
Speaker 1: like they were like, hey, why don't you, uh, oh,
Speaker 1: I don't know, walk up to this producer and pretend
Speaker 1: you're Batman and in your best Batman impersonation, say what
Speaker 1: you think Batman would say to the bachelorette. And I
Speaker 1: was like yeah. I was like, yeah, sure, no problem,
Speaker 1: and then walked into the corner and like started sweating
Speaker 1: immediately and was like, what the frigate am I doing
Speaker 1: with my life right now? So what did you say? Oh?
Speaker 1: I said something stupid. I said, like you wanted to
Speaker 1: go right in my batmobile. It was like, I can't
Speaker 1: believe they invited me on the show after that. So
Speaker 1: then of course you are on Ben Higgins season to
Speaker 1: the Bachelor, um, and then you were known. It's so
Speaker 1: crazy because I find that people that go on the
Speaker 1: show that are most polarizing are the people that I
Speaker 1: like the most, and you were certainly a polarizing figure
Speaker 1: in the beginning of Ben Higgen's season. Yeah, yeah, I
Speaker 1: was drunk, But you gotta think like they were coming
Speaker 1: in my hotel room before um, when you know, when
Speaker 1: you get ready and you have to wait in there
Speaker 1: for a while, and they'd come in with shots. So
Speaker 1: I was drinking way earlier in the day. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: and then you have campaign in the limo and then
Speaker 1: behind the camera, I'm taking shots days. So then of
Speaker 1: course you go on Bachelor in Paradise. That's where you
Speaker 1: meet Grant. You guys get engaged. Doesn't work out? Now,
Speaker 1: I have a question because a lot of people ask
Speaker 1: us about matching tattoos. They're like, should we get couple
Speaker 1: of tattoos? Have you ever talked about this? I know
Speaker 1: you've probably talked so much about this that you were
Speaker 1: so tired of the question, But I just want to
Speaker 1: know your overall thoughts. What do you think of a
Speaker 1: couple of tattoos? Now? Um, don't do it? Honestly? Never again?
Speaker 1: Was that your or Grant side day? I don't well, okay,
Speaker 1: so I told Alan that I really wanted a tattoo
Speaker 1: at some point of paradise. So he decided, you know,
Speaker 1: smart them, why don't you guys do it together? And
Speaker 1: I don't remember exactly whose idea it was. It wasn't mine,
Speaker 1: but I didn't want to do it. No, you guys
Speaker 1: got on your wrist though right, I'm getting I'm getting
Speaker 1: rid of this thing. This is so ugly. Wait, didn't
Speaker 1: you get it removed? I thought you got removed. No,
Speaker 1: I have it, and I'm I just don't want to
Speaker 1: deal with the pain, but I'm going to like the
Speaker 1: physical pain or like the emotional pain and letting go.
Speaker 1: Um that's long gone, thank you, Okay, just clarifying the
Speaker 1: emotions are long gone. No pain, I don't want to
Speaker 1: feel it. No, I don't blame, especially like a sensitive
Speaker 1: spot on the wrist that must have hurt. Like help.
Speaker 1: But then I was told that there might be one
Speaker 1: where they give you laughing gas and you don't feel it. Interesting.
Speaker 1: Do you have any other tattoos? Ah? Yeah, all my
Speaker 1: tattoos are pretty dumb. How many do you have? Three? Okay, Dean,
Speaker 1: I think he's joining us in a second. He's got
Speaker 1: better WiFi. He's got tattoos all over the place. I've
Speaker 1: always wanted a tattoo. I don't have one yet, but
Speaker 1: I plan on getting one. It's funny because we were
Speaker 1: talking about I don't know, I don't know something that
Speaker 1: like symbolizes me, whether it be like it's something stupid
Speaker 1: like Tom Brady a superman. I don't know if I'm
Speaker 1: gonna put it on my body. I wanted to be
Speaker 1: something that like I'm super passionate about. You should put
Speaker 1: Tom Brady. You're like you're like obsessed with him. Uh yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean that's an accurate representation of how I feel
Speaker 1: towards Tom Brady. Um, Dean, we walked into the perfect time,
Speaker 1: the perfect time. We're talking about tattoos. Um, well yeah,
Speaker 1: at Lace got a tattoo with Grant. Is that what
Speaker 1: we're talking about? Tattoos? Yes? Yeah? Nice? So Dean, would
Speaker 1: you ever get a couple of tattooed with Kalin? I
Speaker 1: was gonna get I got. We were getting couples tattoos,
Speaker 1: and I went first. Don't do it. I we were
Speaker 1: getting him. I went first, and then she was supposed
Speaker 1: to go second, and she never went so never happened. Well,
Speaker 1: if you guys got a couple tattoos, what would you get?
Speaker 1: Me and Kaylin? No? Uh, you and me? Yes, you
Speaker 1: and Kaylin. We should get couple of tattoos, Jared, we
Speaker 1: could get dating tattoos. Um. I got a skydiver and
Speaker 1: she got she was supposed to get like a paper
Speaker 1: airplane or something, but she never got it, and she
Speaker 1: still to this day says she's gonna get it, but
Speaker 1: it has yet to happen. Yeah, that's why you got
Speaker 1: yours though, right, yeah, I do. It's on my back
Speaker 1: and Now every time someone sees my little parachute guy,
Speaker 1: everyone's like, oh, why do you have a parachute guy?
Speaker 1: And I'm like, oh, my girlfriend was supposed to get
Speaker 1: an airplane and that he jumped out of but she
Speaker 1: never did, and so now I just have a parachute guy. Well,
Speaker 1: at least you can hold that against her for the
Speaker 1: rest of your life. Um. At last, do you like
Speaker 1: guys with tattoos? I don't either way, I go either way.
Speaker 1: My current boyfriend doesn't have any. I know, we saw that.
Speaker 1: I was gonna ask you about that. You just recently
Speaker 1: uh posted a picture of a man uh and you said,
Speaker 1: I think the cash one was found you very adorable.
Speaker 1: The thing is, though, there's nobody tagged on that photo,
Speaker 1: so I was unable to stalk him prior to this pod.
Speaker 1: Isn't that so great? No, it's quite sad. I needed
Speaker 1: to know more about this human being. Can you do
Speaker 1: you want to talk about him? Um? Yeah, yeah, we
Speaker 1: could talk about him. Great. So how do you guys meet? Um?
Speaker 1: I got on hande to delete it and there was
Speaker 1: a message from him. Really, so you went so you
Speaker 1: were on hinge and then you didn't use it for
Speaker 1: a while no, I just I mean I would go
Speaker 1: on dates, but it wasn't working out. So I was like,
Speaker 1: I'm just going to focus on work, not date whatever.
Speaker 1: And then there he was what was his opening line? Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's a picture of my dog and I and he goes,
Speaker 1: beautiful the dog. That is smart man. Diana and I
Speaker 1: always talk about opening lines and d m ng someone,
Speaker 1: and we always say the best way to do it
Speaker 1: isn't just to say hi or hey, it's to bond
Speaker 1: to a photo or it's too like if you're on hand,
Speaker 1: you comment on a photo or even on Instagram, you
Speaker 1: respond to an Instagram story something to like, you know,
Speaker 1: break the ice, start the conversation. I feel like no
Speaker 1: girl or a lot of girls don't answer to like hey, hi, no,
Speaker 1: some people are really boring. I do really like those icebreggers. Um.
Speaker 1: I remember this one time when a guy at the
Speaker 1: restaurant came up and gave me a little white napkin
Speaker 1: um and he drew this like very like this really
Speaker 1: good picture of a polar bear and ice breaking and
Speaker 1: he goes, I just wanted to break the ice and
Speaker 1: put his phone number on it. That's really cute. Is
Speaker 1: that the best pickup line and us on you? What
Speaker 1: is that the best one you've ever had that I
Speaker 1: can remember? All right, I don't remember any good pickup lines.
Speaker 1: I had it on a woman. Lease. I have a
Speaker 1: question because we kind of scared it over it. So
Speaker 1: you didn't tag the guy on Instagram when you post
Speaker 1: the picture? Does you not have an Instagram? Yeah? He
Speaker 1: does not have Instagram. You got rid of it. Uh
Speaker 1: this year like this a much better without true and
Speaker 1: it works in my favor for all those stalkers. So right, well,
Speaker 1: so what was his reaction, like, did he know that
Speaker 1: you were on the Bachelor, Bachelor Paradise all that stuff,
Speaker 1: or did he like what was his response to that? Yeah,
Speaker 1: he obviously had to like google who he's going on
Speaker 1: a date with, right, so he got all these videos
Speaker 1: he was like what, Um, he definitely watched the Grace
Speaker 1: tattoo one that was about well that sounds you know,
Speaker 1: he's just scant some information. Yeah, he said he watched
Speaker 1: about poor that was enough, all right? Yeah, I mean
Speaker 1: there's really no point in watching. That's curious. Like, it's
Speaker 1: weird to even talk about this, but you know, being
Speaker 1: married to Ash, we've never had to have those conversations.
Speaker 1: You know, the only conversation we've ever had to discussed
Speaker 1: was like girls that I dated, you know, before we
Speaker 1: got together. I don't know, it's I guess it's different
Speaker 1: dating someone outside of the franchise to be like, hey,
Speaker 1: by the way, well you need to know something about me.
Speaker 1: I was on Bachelor, I dated people. There's like things
Speaker 1: on TV. That's an interesting dynamic, especially for someone who
Speaker 1: doesn't even watch any of that. So yeah, it's interesting.
Speaker 1: But he's pretty cool about it. I mean, I guess
Speaker 1: if I thought about it, if I was dating someone
Speaker 1: and they had a tattoo with their ex, that'd be
Speaker 1: uncomfortable a little bit get away. It's definitely weird, but
Speaker 1: it's you know, I mean, like you said, it's it
Speaker 1: doesn't mean anything to you anymore. Yeah, I mean my
Speaker 1: take on that is I've got so many meaningless tattoos
Speaker 1: already that what's another one? You know, what's another five
Speaker 1: at the end of the day. So I I personally
Speaker 1: think it's that weird. Was he because did you get
Speaker 1: yours covered up or like removed any No? I I
Speaker 1: do want to remove it because I actually don't like
Speaker 1: the design grant that he decided to do these little swirlies.
Speaker 1: But yeah, I don't really care for it personally. Well,
Speaker 1: it's in a tough spot to the wrist. Is something
Speaker 1: that you see like every day, no matter what you're doing.
Speaker 1: Didn't put it on my ass or anything to hide it, right, Well,
Speaker 1: I've got a lot of dumb tattoos, but most of
Speaker 1: my dumb ones are like on my back or you know,
Speaker 1: like places I can't really see all that. Well, yeah,
Speaker 1: I went to a family dinner last night and my
Speaker 1: brother showed up, who I haven't seen in four months,
Speaker 1: and he got a lips on his neck. I'm so annoyed.
Speaker 1: Who does That's pretty very noticeable that Amar who plays basketball.
Speaker 1: Didn't he do that? Yeah, that's so funny. I was
Speaker 1: going to mention Kenyan Martin had it. He pulled it off.
Speaker 1: He did pull it off. But I'm surprised, you know
Speaker 1: that Kmart had it. I will say though, like I
Speaker 1: wish I was a guy that was able to pull
Speaker 1: off like an arms sleeve because those are pretty badass.
Speaker 1: I could totally see you with an arm sleeve, me
Speaker 1: with an arms sleeve. I have a picture of a
Speaker 1: pig with a flower crown behind her. You think I
Speaker 1: could pull off an armed sleeve. I appreciate that, though,
Speaker 1: I really do. I feel like Ashley would beg to
Speaker 1: differ once. Once you get to know me, and all
Speaker 1: I do is talk about, you know, Superman and Rob Thomas.
Speaker 1: It's quite pathetic. Um, So, how long have you and uh,
Speaker 1: your boyfriend been dating? Now? How long has it been? Um?
Speaker 1: Actually a month? Not very long? Okay, so like no
Speaker 1: living together yet, nothing like that. I mean we stayed
Speaker 1: together a lot, but not yet okay six months? Yeah,
Speaker 1: one month? One month? That is very recent. You guys
Speaker 1: are still in puppy love phase. I bet you like
Speaker 1: you enjoy folding laundry together. Oh, it's our favorite to
Speaker 1: have past time. Um. Hey, sometimes like when you know
Speaker 1: you know? Yeah, that's fair, you know what. There's a question.
Speaker 1: So in our next segment, I have some questions for
Speaker 1: you in Dean. Uh, there's some weird dating facts out there,
Speaker 1: and I want to get your thoughts on there. But
Speaker 1: before we do that, let's take a quick break. All right,
Speaker 1: welcome back to help I suck a dating. Like we
Speaker 1: tease before the break, we have some weird dating facts
Speaker 1: here on help I sucon dating because that's what we're
Speaker 1: all about. I don't want to get Dan and Laces
Speaker 1: thoughts on it, and I guess I'll give some mine
Speaker 1: on as well. So Lace you talked about before, um
Speaker 1: we took the break that when you know, you know,
Speaker 1: And funny enough, there's stats on relationships that reveal that
Speaker 1: most people say they know whether or not they're attracted
Speaker 1: to someone after three seconds of seeing them. So my
Speaker 1: question is three seconds long enough to know whether you're
Speaker 1: attracted to someone or not? Yes? I would think, yeah,
Speaker 1: three seconds. The moment I saw him, I was like, whoa,
Speaker 1: he's hotter than I thought. Right, All right, fair point, Dean.
Speaker 1: What do you think? I think three seconds is a
Speaker 1: good amount of time for a lot of things. I
Speaker 1: think I think a lot can happen in three seconds.
Speaker 1: A lot more than we expect to happen can happen
Speaker 1: in three seconds. Some times you just have to, you know,
Speaker 1: go with it. And yeah, three seconds is plenty time
Speaker 1: in my opinion. Here's my devil's advocate to this. When
Speaker 1: I get to know someone, when I when I see them,
Speaker 1: of course I know whether I'm attractive to them or not.
Speaker 1: But when I get to know someone's personality they become
Speaker 1: either more or less attractive to of course, of course,
Speaker 1: so in my mind I need more than three seconds. Well,
Speaker 1: there are people that like are physically attractive that you're like, whoa,
Speaker 1: this person's got a nice smile, a big but beautiful eyes,
Speaker 1: like that kind of thing. Like that's pretty easy to
Speaker 1: figure out, I think when you say are attracted to someone, yeah,
Speaker 1: that's kind of like the first thing my mind goes
Speaker 1: to was like, yeah, I can. I can go up
Speaker 1: and down on someone pretty quick, but it does take
Speaker 1: time to like figure out their personality and like decide
Speaker 1: whether or not you're attracted to them more than just
Speaker 1: the physical component, you know, Yeah, Dan needs not even
Speaker 1: a second quick updown, but a bang, but a boom
Speaker 1: Dean seconds man. Uh, you know it's another weird dating
Speaker 1: effect and lace. I want to get your thoughts on
Speaker 1: this one. Apparently, as Buddy shows that women are attracted
Speaker 1: to men when they wear blue. This is something we
Speaker 1: talked about on the podcast before, but obviously Dean and
Speaker 1: I are dude, so we can't really answer this. So
Speaker 1: at least, are you attracted to a man when he
Speaker 1: wears blue more than any other color? I feel like
Speaker 1: I need to see a man of blue right now
Speaker 1: to like decide wrap I'm not I'm wearing black. Um,
Speaker 1: what do you think about a guy in ski helmet
Speaker 1: and ski goggles and a ski jacket. It's pretty good jacket.
Speaker 1: I mean that's a pretty good look right there. Better. Um, yeah,
Speaker 1: I think blue looks good for some reason. I feel
Speaker 1: like blue brings out their eyes, especially the brown eyes.
Speaker 1: So I think I think guys, I think people in
Speaker 1: general just look better wearing black. I don't know if
Speaker 1: I agree with the blue thing, but black is definitely color.
Speaker 1: Is there a meaning behind the color blue for this
Speaker 1: that we could let's find out actually something to do
Speaker 1: with it, a meaning behind the color blue? What does
Speaker 1: the color blue mean? Blue is the color of sky
Speaker 1: and see it is often associated with depth and stability
Speaker 1: and trust, loyalty, wisdom, confidence, intelligence. So maybe interesting. That
Speaker 1: is very interesting, because when I think of blue, I
Speaker 1: think of like the blues, like I'm I'm sad, you know,
Speaker 1: like the blues, like, oh I got the blues. That's
Speaker 1: like the last thing that I think of. I think.
Speaker 1: I just remember the fact when we were kids, everyone's
Speaker 1: always like, what's your favorite color? What's your favorite color,
Speaker 1: and if someone's favorite color was blue, they'd always be like, oh,
Speaker 1: most geniuses favorite colors are blue when their kids, So
Speaker 1: it's a good sign. I just remember that was like
Speaker 1: things who told you that that's whatever? It's common knowledge
Speaker 1: apparently when you're a kid. I don't know. But now
Speaker 1: I just associate the color blue with intelligence. I'm just
Speaker 1: saying two out of the three people have never heard
Speaker 1: this before in this podcast. I don't know where you
Speaker 1: guys went to school, but where I went to school,
Speaker 1: it was the color of intelligence. Feeling. Robert de Niro
Speaker 1: just came out of beat the parents. You know, they
Speaker 1: say genius is pickering um. All right, Another uh weird
Speaker 1: dating fact of men say they date women that are
Speaker 1: at least five years younger than them. So my question, lace,
Speaker 1: are you older or younger than your boyfriend? Okay, alright,
Speaker 1: so this one didn't go as far. Five years. That
Speaker 1: seems like a little much. I think that seems a
Speaker 1: little nice. I think five years is too much. No,
Speaker 1: not too much. I just think that as a stat
Speaker 1: I don't know, it seems like five years. I don't
Speaker 1: want to like, I don't want to make this uncomfortable.
Speaker 1: Conversation or anything. But in April I turned thirty and
Speaker 1: Caitlyn is so right into this narrative. I guess I'm
Speaker 1: a weirdo, but only for a couple of months out
Speaker 1: of the year because the other ten months I'm only
Speaker 1: four years older than her. Well, no, I think the
Speaker 1: h gap is good, Like that's fine. I'm just saying
Speaker 1: as a stat five years seems if that's the you know,
Speaker 1: the number of years most Pete. I don't know, Jared,
Speaker 1: aren't you younger than Ashley? I am. I'm nine months
Speaker 1: younger than Ashley. Also, Ashley's birthday is tomorrow. We're recording
Speaker 1: this on Friday, and Ashley's yep, she's turning thirty three.
Speaker 1: For uh, well, we're in the midst of moving right now,
Speaker 1: so it's a little chaotic, but we're gonna go have
Speaker 1: dinner with Tanner and Jade uh and I uh, I
Speaker 1: have some things planned for her, small things, you know,
Speaker 1: just a little little reminders. Moving out of your apartment
Speaker 1: in l A. Yes, we are where a little place
Speaker 1: called Rhode Island. I don't know you guys were moving,
Speaker 1: that's yeah, So we're moving out of our apartment. Um,
Speaker 1: I mean We're gonna probably be back and maybe get
Speaker 1: a studio apartment sometime next year when things get normal,
Speaker 1: like if we have to be here for work and
Speaker 1: things of that nature. But it just didn't make sense
Speaker 1: for us to be here in Los Angeles. We want
Speaker 1: to be closer to our family. We love the East Coast.
Speaker 1: We want to raise a family in Rhode Island. I've
Speaker 1: always you know, when we got together, I told Ashley,
Speaker 1: I've always wanted to move back, and she was like, no,
Speaker 1: I would love to grow, you know, live in New England.
Speaker 1: So we didn't plan to do this for a couple
Speaker 1: more years. But with COVID, everything just kind of expedited
Speaker 1: and we felt that now is the right time to
Speaker 1: do it. And then if we need to come back
Speaker 1: for you know, whatever work, or if we need to
Speaker 1: be here for a few months, then we'll figure it out.
Speaker 1: When we crossed that bridge, that is. So that is
Speaker 1: That's what I was gonna say, because I remember you
Speaker 1: saying that you did want to move to the East Coast,
Speaker 1: but it was gonna be happening, like, you know, three
Speaker 1: or four years. But I guess COVID kinda, I mean,
Speaker 1: everything is remote. When's the next time you and I
Speaker 1: are gonna be in studio. I mean, you're on top
Speaker 1: of a mountain. We can't get you down, bro right
Speaker 1: right right. It's it's my fault. That's why you're moving
Speaker 1: to Rhode Island because you're not gonna see me in
Speaker 1: studio anymore. I get it exactly. I was like, ash
Speaker 1: we gotta move now. I mean, Dean, just now, the
Speaker 1: time is nice. Do you guys have a place in
Speaker 1: on the East Coast picked out? No? No, not yet.
Speaker 1: We're looking at different plots of land, we're looking at
Speaker 1: different houses. We don't have anything that you know we're
Speaker 1: gonna buy. Yeah, we've never owned. We've never owned in
Speaker 1: our lives, so this will be the first time we're
Speaker 1: gonna be homeowners. Be honest. Did Kaylin and I buying
Speaker 1: a house inspire you guys to buy a house? Were
Speaker 1: you like, they're buying one, so now we have to, like,
Speaker 1: you know, be better than them and buy one ourselves. Oh? Totally,
Speaker 1: Except I didn't say it calmly. I was like, Ashley,
Speaker 1: Dean and Kaylin have a house. We need to buy
Speaker 1: a house right now, right right? That's fair. I respect that.
Speaker 1: What are you building a house? On a plot of land,
Speaker 1: or are you gonna buy and already built house. Uh,
Speaker 1: we're leaning towards the former. You're gonna build a house
Speaker 1: because that's that means you're gonna live with your parents
Speaker 1: for like a year or something. We might rent. We're
Speaker 1: gonna try to figure it out my sister and we're
Speaker 1: gonna stay with my sister for a little while. We're
Speaker 1: gonna we're gonna kind of figure it out. So uh yeah,
Speaker 1: we're gonna we're kind of playing it by ear. But
Speaker 1: the time to do that is now before we have
Speaker 1: kids and we can't really do anything spontaneously. That's crazy, man.
Speaker 1: I feel like it's like a big a bomb being
Speaker 1: dropped on me right now in the middle of a
Speaker 1: casual conversation with Lace, and I feel like that's I
Speaker 1: like to sneak in breaking news, like have we I
Speaker 1: feel like you, I don't know, we can move on.
Speaker 1: I am just still baffled. I feel like we haven't
Speaker 1: talked about this and it's just a lot of things
Speaker 1: to unpact. We'll talk about it more in definitely next podcast.
Speaker 1: I don't want to Okay, okay, um me and Kitlin, Yeah,
Speaker 1: we have a house in l A and we just
Speaker 1: bought a house in Las Vegas. Okay, so, but I
Speaker 1: think that we bought the house in January, told Jared
Speaker 1: about it, and now apparently he's just trying to one
Speaker 1: up us and buy a house in freaking New England.
Speaker 1: As soon Ash and I will have a joint bank account. Yeah,
Speaker 1: maybe on the same cell phone plan, you know. I
Speaker 1: mean that's I mean, we're married, bro, I don't Let's
Speaker 1: take one step at a time, um, lace. I also
Speaker 1: want to ask you about this. Uh, only twenty percent
Speaker 1: of women believe in love at first sight. So my
Speaker 1: question to you is, do you believe a love at
Speaker 1: first sight? I don't know how to answer this. Um yes,
Speaker 1: And now, like I feel like after the first date,
Speaker 1: I knew that, like Trenton and I are going to
Speaker 1: blast forever. Oh that's so sweet. How do you know
Speaker 1: after one day have this good intuition? You guys should
Speaker 1: totally get matching tattoos. Leave me alone. They are on
Speaker 1: the same page about everything, So we've talked about it.
Speaker 1: That's so sweet? Is insane? Well, they always say, we
Speaker 1: always say communication is the most important thing to have
Speaker 1: in a relationship. Yeah, so you're you're saying you knew
Speaker 1: right away that he was the one. It was after
Speaker 1: that first date. I was like, yeah I did, And
Speaker 1: he said he myself, it's cool listening to this. No,
Speaker 1: he's working. Okay. Cool. I was gonna say we had
Speaker 1: we would have to bring him in if that were
Speaker 1: the case, He'd love to. He's a great speaker. Can
Speaker 1: you say what he does? Um? He actually is a
Speaker 1: director of sales for pharmaceutical sales and he has multiple
Speaker 1: investment properties. Damn, you found a good one. I did. Um.
Speaker 1: But well, this isn't kind of goes along with your
Speaker 1: relationship right now as well. The status of current committed
Speaker 1: relationships began online, which is not shocking at all. I
Speaker 1: feel like everybody's beating online today. Yeah. I feel like
Speaker 1: I feel like five years from now to that number
Speaker 1: is gonna be a lot higher because I feel like
Speaker 1: online dating is really just starting to take off, you know. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I feel like, Okay, where'd you meet? Oh, we're at
Speaker 1: on a hinge. It's just so common now, doesn't seem so.
Speaker 1: It's so funny too, because like four years ago, people
Speaker 1: would like make up stories about how they met when
Speaker 1: in reality, they met on Tinder or some thing because
Speaker 1: they were like ashamed of it. But now people are like,
Speaker 1: it's just way more commonplace. Yeah, I'm glad it's becoming
Speaker 1: more commonplace because You're right, Dean, I feel like there
Speaker 1: is used to be this stigma against it, which is
Speaker 1: so weird because all you should really focus on is
Speaker 1: achieving happiness, no matter how you get there. And like
Speaker 1: even for me, when I was on dating apps, you know,
Speaker 1: before one on the show, I was always ashamed. I
Speaker 1: was like, oh, I don't want people to know that
Speaker 1: I'm on plenty of Fish. My my sister met her
Speaker 1: husband on plenty of fish, you know, and fish is
Speaker 1: so terrible. No, I love I love plenty of fish.
Speaker 1: My my brother in law came from plenty of fish.
Speaker 1: Funny memories of plenty of fish. Wow, I was. I
Speaker 1: was skiing with this guy the other day in winter
Speaker 1: park and he was like, so, how'd you meet your girlfriend?
Speaker 1: And I hate that question because it just opens the
Speaker 1: door for so much more like follow up conversation, and
Speaker 1: so I'm always I always just tell people that she
Speaker 1: slid into my d M s. You know, you lie
Speaker 1: unless I'm like, unless I like the person I'm talking to,
Speaker 1: and like I'm ready to have like a full Converse station,
Speaker 1: and then I'll be like, yeah, we met on a
Speaker 1: TV show, but I don't. It's not necessarily a lie
Speaker 1: because she did slide into my d M s and
Speaker 1: we like talked in the d M s before even
Speaker 1: going on Bachelor Paradise, So it's not technically a lie. Okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: that's true. Actually it's just not the whole truth. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I I I usually tell people that ashe and I
Speaker 1: met on TV show, usually like it's it's always funny
Speaker 1: to me whenever I go golfing and I get paired
Speaker 1: up with a random two and it's like a buddy
Speaker 1: of mine and they're like, you know, we're just talking.
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh yeah, I've been married for a year now,
Speaker 1: and they're like, oh, where'd you meet your wife? And
Speaker 1: I was like, a funny story, we met on a
Speaker 1: we met on a show called Bachelor in Paradise. How
Speaker 1: did you? Usually usually like it changes, it's so funny,
Speaker 1: and I'm sure you guys can attest this where like
Speaker 1: people will treat you differently once they know that you're
Speaker 1: on TV. Weirdly enough, like guys will like, you know,
Speaker 1: we're like busting balls or like I'm getting to know
Speaker 1: someone and then like, oh, yeah, we met on Bachelor Paradise.
Speaker 1: And then I'll kind of kinda go into the story
Speaker 1: and are just like almost in awe a little bit,
Speaker 1: mostly in Rhode Island, so it's like, it's it's funny.
Speaker 1: I I always enjoy the reaction of people whenever I
Speaker 1: say it right, They're like start, they start getting more
Speaker 1: chummy with you, they get like more buddy buddy. Yeah,
Speaker 1: like there's a business opportunity here. You know. It's interesting
Speaker 1: dating Trent and though because so many people would message
Speaker 1: him and be like you know who dating right and
Speaker 1: stuff like that, you know, because he wasn't on the
Speaker 1: show versus you guys dating really Yeah, people will message
Speaker 1: him and tell him about me or screenshot my stories
Speaker 1: because they already follow me, and then give him the detail.
Speaker 1: And I'm like, Okay, were they what were they saying? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I think bad. No one said anything bad. They're like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, like what what is this? You know,
Speaker 1: but that's really funny. He must have felt pretty cool.
Speaker 1: I don't know, I'm not sure or like, what did
Speaker 1: I get myself into when the Yeah, either one could
Speaker 1: go either way really. Um, all right, last haf before
Speaker 1: we move on? Which one do I like the best? Uh?
Speaker 1: You know, let's give the last one. Eighty percent of
Speaker 1: women find money to be very important in a relationship, um,
Speaker 1: which I agree with. If it's gonna be a long
Speaker 1: term relationship. If you think that this is going to
Speaker 1: be something that can be marriage material, then of course
Speaker 1: I think obviously money places a factors. It's it's kind
Speaker 1: of weird to say, but I just think it's true. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean, of course it's true, whether we want to
Speaker 1: say it or not. It's like, like you said, especially
Speaker 1: long term you want to have like a comfortable future.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't say it's like obviously everything, but it definitely
Speaker 1: has to be factored into your decision making I feel like, yeah,
Speaker 1: on a date, like a guy that well money. No, yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean sometimes I feel insecure. My Ashley's walking into
Speaker 1: the room so rudely, I might add every week on
Speaker 1: the podcast Last she always walks into the room and interrupts, No,
Speaker 1: it's well. If I did this to her on her podcast,
Speaker 1: I say it all the time, there would be hell
Speaker 1: rained upon me. Anyhow are you going to tell the
Speaker 1: podcasts that she's behind you naked, she's's well, she's not naked,
Speaker 1: she's got booty shorts on. Um. Well, what I was
Speaker 1: gonna say is Ashley, I don't mind saying this actually
Speaker 1: makes more more money than I and sometimes it's like
Speaker 1: a little insecurity of mine. But we talked about it.
Speaker 1: I told you, Jerry, that's why you gotta get the
Speaker 1: joint bank account. Kalin out earns me by a freaking mile,
Speaker 1: but we gotta join bank account. So it's cool. I
Speaker 1: got I gotta I gotta contract right there. Yeah, same,
Speaker 1: so do I contract? Not really? Actually? Uh? We actually
Speaker 1: we bicker. Killen and I picker about money sometimes, Like,
Speaker 1: for instance, whenever I drive us places, I always use
Speaker 1: my credit cards, like pay for the gas and everything.
Speaker 1: But then whenever she drives places, she uses the joint
Speaker 1: credit card to pay for gas, and I'm like, well,
Speaker 1: I trick you on the trips and pay for the gas,
Speaker 1: but then you make us split gas when you places.
Speaker 1: That's not fair. Also, I like never charged her for
Speaker 1: her half of the cell phone bill for the past
Speaker 1: like year, and then all of a sudden one day
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, hey, by the way, you owe me,
Speaker 1: like you for the cell phone bill that I haven't
Speaker 1: been charging you for and then like well like have
Speaker 1: to like pick her back and forth to like settle
Speaker 1: on an amount that seems more correct. But at the
Speaker 1: end of the day, it's not like the biggest deal
Speaker 1: in the world, but it's just like still funny. Adulting sucks, Yeah, adulting,
Speaker 1: especially tax seasons. Forever on the corner, kid, it was
Speaker 1: way better. All right, we'll make sure are you stay tuned.
Speaker 1: We have some emails, of course, our favorite part of
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Speaker 1: All right, here we go. This is from Jenny. I
Speaker 1: had just gotten out of a series of pretty intense relationships.
Speaker 1: It wasn't looking for anything serious. When I started dating
Speaker 1: a new guy. I entered into the relationship thinking it
Speaker 1: would just be a fling and wouldn't last long. In
Speaker 1: the early dating phase, I slept with someone else, still
Speaker 1: thinking the relationship wouldn't last longer than a couple of months.
Speaker 1: Two and a half years later, I am head over
Speaker 1: heels in love with this guy. We lived together, we
Speaker 1: see a future together, et cetera. Do I tell him
Speaker 1: about the guy I slept within the beginning? Technically that
Speaker 1: was cheating as we were in a loose relationship at
Speaker 1: the time. And if sty together, or do I just
Speaker 1: forget it about it? Because nothing good would come from
Speaker 1: telling him? Help, Because, like I want to say, some
Speaker 1: things are better left on said. But m hm okay,
Speaker 1: I think, oh, man, I think you tell him. I
Speaker 1: think you tell him here, I don't know. I just
Speaker 1: think that he'll forgive you. I think he'll forgive you
Speaker 1: if you tell him. If he finds out on his own,
Speaker 1: God forbid he finds out on his own, then it
Speaker 1: seems like you were hiding it from him. Half years later, Yeah,
Speaker 1: but now if she thinks like, oh, I'm gonna marry
Speaker 1: this dude, and I might have like technically cheated on
Speaker 1: him in early part of the relationship. I would just
Speaker 1: be nervous that if he finds out from someone else
Speaker 1: that she did technically cheat on him, would he lose
Speaker 1: trust in her rather than her just being like, hey, listen,
Speaker 1: I want to be upfront about you because I want
Speaker 1: to spend the rest of my life with you. Um,
Speaker 1: there was this thing two and a half years ago,
Speaker 1: right when we first dated. I was confused and something
Speaker 1: happened and that was it. I don't know, I don't know.
Speaker 1: I respect the honest David. That's tough. I agree. I
Speaker 1: think that. At first I wanted to say, don't tell him,
Speaker 1: but after hearing Jared's explaination, I agree, you gotta tell him.
Speaker 1: You just gotta preface it and be like, hey, there's
Speaker 1: something I gotta get off my chest. Not a big deal.
Speaker 1: But like when we first started talking, I also looked
Speaker 1: up with someone else, uh way before we were you know, solidified,
Speaker 1: and um, what's the word I'm looking for? Uh? I
Speaker 1: guess right, like whatever it is, So like, I think
Speaker 1: that's probably the move that way, like, let him make
Speaker 1: his decision. If he doesn't want to be in the relationship,
Speaker 1: God forbid, obviously, so be at least you were the
Speaker 1: one that told him and came clean. And in my opinion,
Speaker 1: for the record, I don't necessarily even think that she
Speaker 1: did anything wrong, and I think that to be stated
Speaker 1: because if they're especially in the beginning stages of relationships,
Speaker 1: when things are so loosely defined, it's like, well, it's like,
Speaker 1: you know, it's fine. In my opinion, that's kind of
Speaker 1: why I was thinking, maybe just leave it alone, because
Speaker 1: she technically wasn't with him. Yeah, that's a good argument too,
Speaker 1: because then like what do you deal? Let go back
Speaker 1: and recount every time he hooked up with a girl
Speaker 1: before they were even together. I think there's two big
Speaker 1: questions here that we don't have the answers to that
Speaker 1: would help. On this one, what discussions were had at
Speaker 1: the time. Had you had any talk about being putting
Speaker 1: a label on it, putting commitment on it? Boyfriend girlfriend?
Speaker 1: Was that happening at all? Because if not, you're probably fine.
Speaker 1: And the second question is who is this guy? Is
Speaker 1: it someone you both know, because that's going to be
Speaker 1: weird and increases the odds that he would find out
Speaker 1: again someday it was it a rando and he'll never
Speaker 1: find out. I still leaned towards telling him, but who
Speaker 1: it is has a big impact on that. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: could see going either way. I think for me personally,
Speaker 1: I'm such a paranoid person. I'd always be nervous that
Speaker 1: they would find out and that that would then they
Speaker 1: would lose trust in me. But I can also agree
Speaker 1: with Lace, like doesn't really matter at this point. It
Speaker 1: was two and a half years ago. Were you even
Speaker 1: together then? Who was kind of loosely defined? Yeah, I
Speaker 1: don't know. I kind of I don't know. I could
Speaker 1: see it going both ways to now. It's like because
Speaker 1: like if you tell him that, then like what else
Speaker 1: are you expected to tell him about all of your
Speaker 1: other previous relationships? That's kind of mine. That's like the
Speaker 1: thing because like if I think about it, like I,
Speaker 1: you know, from years ago, back in my promiscuous days,
Speaker 1: like let's say, hooked up with someone that I'm now
Speaker 1: like still good friends with, and now like if Kyla
Speaker 1: and I are hanging out with that person, isn't it
Speaker 1: kind of just make it more awkward if I say, hey,
Speaker 1: calein by the way, I hooked up with this person
Speaker 1: eight years ago. Take that information as you well, but
Speaker 1: like that's the truth, Like it almost makes sense just
Speaker 1: to not even say anything at all. My question is,
Speaker 1: would say the you were in the opposite position, Say
Speaker 1: you were hanging out with Klin and this dude and
Speaker 1: it was a friend of hers, but they had hooked
Speaker 1: up eight years ago? Would you want to know? Would
Speaker 1: you not want to know? I don't know. I mean,
Speaker 1: you're right, I think I probably want to know. But
Speaker 1: at the same time, if I don't know, what do
Speaker 1: I care? Because I don't know what about you? Lace?
Speaker 1: What do you think? I actually just had this conversation
Speaker 1: with some of the other day, um, because my last
Speaker 1: X would like, we'd go to a bar and run
Speaker 1: into someone and he'd be like, did you have sex
Speaker 1: with that person? I'm like, why would you even want
Speaker 1: to know that? I want to know? If I like,
Speaker 1: it's just weird to me. So that's a weird way
Speaker 1: of approaching it, trust me, I know. So, Um, I
Speaker 1: don't know. I just I think some things are just
Speaker 1: better left on side. I think it's going to open
Speaker 1: a candle worms, you know what I mean. Like to
Speaker 1: her point point, in talking about previous hook up. Yeah,
Speaker 1: whenever I think about that stuff with Kalen, like I remember,
Speaker 1: like I wonder who she hooked up with before me,
Speaker 1: like that, like weird thought that. I feel like it's
Speaker 1: just natural and everyone gets at some Yeah. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: always think about like I have I have literally zero
Speaker 1: place to get upset about anything because whatever she did,
Speaker 1: I probably did thirty times worse. So like I'm just
Speaker 1: like super grateful that I don't even have to worry
Speaker 1: about it. All right. This is from Mercedes. Since now
Speaker 1: that Jared is married and Dana is dating, my question
Speaker 1: is to do Ashley or Kalen ever listened to the podcast?
Speaker 1: Are they ever offended about what has said? Or do
Speaker 1: you advise them not to listen? If they do bring
Speaker 1: up something you said on the podcast, how do you
Speaker 1: handle it. I'm very lucky in this sense because whatever
Speaker 1: I say on the podcast, Ashley has definitely said something
Speaker 1: ten times worse. That's just Ashley's personality. I know who
Speaker 1: I married. Read sometimes she just has word vomit. I
Speaker 1: hear her talking on her I don't get a podcast
Speaker 1: and she's talking about like kind of in detail, a
Speaker 1: little bit us, you know, trying to make a baby,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, ash, don't say stuff like that. She
Speaker 1: just came in shrugging, like, well that's what I am.
Speaker 1: It's okay. I love you for it. Well let's ask Lace, Lace,
Speaker 1: are you gonna let Trenton listen to this podcast? Ah? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I think, Oh, no, Qualt, are you gonna encourage him
Speaker 1: to listen to it or just like let him listen
Speaker 1: to it if he wants to do this morning he
Speaker 1: asked me, He's like, should I listen to it? And
Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't even know. I didn't know what
Speaker 1: to expect from this one, but I think this is
Speaker 1: more interesting. I just did one with the twins. He
Speaker 1: wouldn't he would be bored, right, because it was like
Speaker 1: girl talk, But this one's interesting. Sometimes girl talk is
Speaker 1: like it kind of would be interesting to get a
Speaker 1: peek into your girlfriend's girl talk about you know, not too.
Speaker 1: But I also am curious some of my answers on
Speaker 1: this of what he would think. Yeah, I very early
Speaker 1: online courage Klin not to listen to this podcast. She
Speaker 1: listened to like the first episode after we started dating
Speaker 1: or something like that, and I was like, why did
Speaker 1: you listen to it like there's no real reason for
Speaker 1: you to listen to it, and basically everything I say
Speaker 1: here I say to her anyway, So it's like not
Speaker 1: the end of the like, not for that reason. I
Speaker 1: just I just I think it's kind of weird. Well, Calin. Also,
Speaker 1: I feel like Kalen, for going on a reality TV show,
Speaker 1: is kind of a private person. She she comes off
Speaker 1: that way. Yeah, she is pretty private, I suppose, and
Speaker 1: I respect that a lot. I'm kind of like the
Speaker 1: like I private as well, but I like, yeah, I
Speaker 1: don't like, I don't have any um qualms about talking
Speaker 1: about certain things obviously, but so yeah, so I don't
Speaker 1: think you'd ever get mad. I mean, it's funny. There
Speaker 1: is a episode like a couple of weeks ago, I
Speaker 1: can't remember what it was, but she like read the
Speaker 1: description of it for some reason and she goes, why
Speaker 1: were you guys talking about this? Like what a random
Speaker 1: thing for you to be talking about, Like I kind
Speaker 1: of want to listen to it. And I was like, well,
Speaker 1: whoever writes those descriptions, which I think is Eastern you know,
Speaker 1: likes to embellish a little bit and get get a
Speaker 1: little creative in there. Yeah, yeah, which is and that's
Speaker 1: what I told her. But um, but yeah, no, I
Speaker 1: encourage your not to listen more so just because it's like,
Speaker 1: I don't know, like I'm obviously super sarcastic all the time,
Speaker 1: and it's just I don't know, pointless to listen. We
Speaker 1: should just really start making these headlines like full on
Speaker 1: click bait and just completely lie about what we talked
Speaker 1: about in the podcast, like this one Easton should be.
Speaker 1: Dean tells the time he almost broke up with Kalin.
Speaker 1: Yeah at Jared on the brink of divorce with Ashley. Yeah,
Speaker 1: Lace married Yeah uh good times, good times. Well a Lace.
Speaker 1: Thank you so much for joining us on the podcast
Speaker 1: this week. We really appreciate it. You were uh, you
Speaker 1: were great to have. It's always good to have a
Speaker 1: female perspective because Dean and I just really ramble about
Speaker 1: stupid guy stuff. Yeah no, this is this is fun. No,
Speaker 1: thank you so much, and you have to come back soon. Um,
Speaker 1: thank you too, Jenny and Mercedes for emailing us. We
Speaker 1: really appreciate it. Thank you to secure components dot com.
Speaker 1: If you guys need masks and mass of course on
Speaker 1: the way to go, make sure you go to Secure
Speaker 1: Components dot com to get those today. Lace once again,
Speaker 1: thank you for joining us. Of course, everybody can follow
Speaker 1: you on Instagram. Where else can they find you? Instagram?
Speaker 1: That's it? Gram Dean any Dean Lace, any thoughts for
Speaker 1: you before we go? Um, next time you have me,
Speaker 1: we can have trenton On here like looking about if
Speaker 1: you can have like a couple of perspective right then
Speaker 1: you can get both of us. We'd love to. We'll
Speaker 1: just have trenton On if that's okay, I'm gonna sit
Speaker 1: here in the background. Yeah, with a gun to his back.
Speaker 1: Say that sounds like a great idea. UM. I would
Speaker 1: like to just say, oh gosh. I would just like
Speaker 1: to apologize for my technical difficulties today. I like was
Speaker 1: on the top of the mountain, or not the top
Speaker 1: of the mountain. I like left the mountain early to
Speaker 1: get settled into my van. Had full service on my phone,
Speaker 1: and I was like, Okay, this is great, I'm being responsible.
Speaker 1: I'll be there. And then I logged on and like
Speaker 1: there was there. It was like fake service. It didn't
Speaker 1: actually work. So I would like to apologize for my
Speaker 1: who would have thought there'd be spotty WiFi on the
Speaker 1: top of a Mountain. Well, I'm not at the top anymore.
Speaker 1: And then also like now I'm parked on the side
Speaker 1: of the road and there's a bunch of big trucks
Speaker 1: driving by. So if you hear big trucks driving by,
Speaker 1: I would also like to apologize for that. I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: Montana not the best in terms of cell phone coverage,
Speaker 1: but here we are. Anyways, Thank you guys for putting
Speaker 1: up with me. Lace you rock. It's great to catch
Speaker 1: up with you and hear how great things are going
Speaker 1: for you. Were stoked Jared freaking moving to Rhode Island. Dude,
Speaker 1: what a bomb you just dropped on us this episode.
Speaker 1: You're crazy. I want to talk to you more about
Speaker 1: that next week. Um. Thank you to the listeners, be
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