WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: My Ex-BF’s Wedding 0:00:03.720 --> 0:00:08.240 Rooking jumbles second day. I don't think it's a big 0:00:08.280 --> 0:00:11.039 secret that a great place to meet women is at 0:00:11.039 --> 0:00:14.840 a wedding. Emotions are running high. It's all about love. 0:00:14.920 --> 0:00:16.920 It's a perfect place to catch a fish if you're 0:00:16.960 --> 0:00:23.840 a fisherman. And that's where Brianna met this guy named Christian, right, Brianna. Yes, 0:00:24.280 --> 0:00:26.880 it was a really good story. And everybody's so happy 0:00:26.920 --> 0:00:29.200 at weddings, that's what's so great about it. The energy 0:00:29.320 --> 0:00:32.280 is positive, right, it's kind of like a desperate happy 0:00:32.560 --> 0:00:35.680 too sometimes. Yeah, Brianna's story is a little awkward. Why 0:00:35.680 --> 0:00:38.960 don't you go ahead and tell everybody what your email said. Yeah, 0:00:39.000 --> 0:00:42.479 I actually wasn't happy that day, no purpose. I mean 0:00:42.520 --> 0:00:45.000 I was really happy for them, but the wedding was 0:00:45.120 --> 0:00:49.879 it was the wedding of my ex boyfriend. Oh together 0:00:49.960 --> 0:00:52.000 in a long time, and we were really good friends. 0:00:52.280 --> 0:00:55.080 I mean I was still like, it's still just hard 0:00:55.120 --> 0:00:58.160 because it's like, Okay, he found his person and he's 0:00:58.200 --> 0:01:01.720 getting married, but then I haven't, so you know, it 0:01:01.760 --> 0:01:04.640 was like mixed feelings. So I was a little emotional 0:01:04.720 --> 0:01:06.760 that day. Yeah, I've gone to a wedding of an 0:01:06.760 --> 0:01:10.560 ex girlfriend. Yeah, and it's a weird experience. It's not 0:01:10.720 --> 0:01:12.440 a good idea. No, I had fun. I thought it 0:01:12.480 --> 0:01:14.240 was awesome. It didn't bother The only thing that bothered 0:01:14.240 --> 0:01:16.280 me was when in her vow she said, you're the 0:01:16.280 --> 0:01:17.760 best man I've ever known to that guy, and I 0:01:17.800 --> 0:01:23.280 was like, wait a second, we know each other. So 0:01:23.280 --> 0:01:26.160 you were feeling pretty down watching your ex boyfriend get married? 0:01:26.520 --> 0:01:28.800 Well I was okay, but yeah. I mean, it was 0:01:28.840 --> 0:01:32.039 the ceremony itself that when they exchanged out, But that 0:01:32.160 --> 0:01:34.360 is the hardest part actually, And I didn't think it 0:01:34.400 --> 0:01:36.399 would bother me, but it did kind of get to me. No, 0:01:37.040 --> 0:01:38.840 I was crying a little bit, but I was awesome 0:01:38.920 --> 0:01:42.040 myself because obviously I didn't want anybody to really you 0:01:42.080 --> 0:01:44.720 know that I was upset and this guy just comes 0:01:44.760 --> 0:01:47.720 out of nowhere. His name's Christian. You know. He was 0:01:47.800 --> 0:01:49.760 so nice and he made me feld so much better 0:01:49.800 --> 0:01:52.160 and we ended up hanging out and having just an 0:01:52.200 --> 0:01:54.840 awesome time together. So did you tell him that it 0:01:54.880 --> 0:01:56.640 was your ex and that's why you were upset or 0:01:56.640 --> 0:01:58.640 do you just say you know? Love really chokes me up. 0:02:00.000 --> 0:02:02.000 It wasn't like I was pining away from he knew 0:02:02.240 --> 0:02:04.280 the situation for knew that we hadn't been together in 0:02:04.440 --> 0:02:06.840 you know, years, so it wasn't. It wasn't like, oh 0:02:06.880 --> 0:02:08.800 I still love my ax. It was more of a 0:02:08.960 --> 0:02:11.840 you know, I haven't found my person, so I'm assuming 0:02:11.880 --> 0:02:13.679 after you guys hung out at the wedding and everything else, 0:02:13.680 --> 0:02:19.840 you guys spent the night together, so usually happen, right, No, 0:02:20.360 --> 0:02:23.520 not one of those Oh come on, did you do 0:02:23.560 --> 0:02:26.400 anything with him? Credit did you kiss him? We kissed 0:02:26.480 --> 0:02:29.240 one time, like, but then we hung out after that 0:02:29.320 --> 0:02:31.360 and it was nothing major. It was it was nice, 0:02:31.400 --> 0:02:33.720 it wasn't and you're still wondering why he's not calling 0:02:33.720 --> 0:02:39.480 you back? Huh? How did it in between you guys? 0:02:39.480 --> 0:02:41.720 So you kissed and then what then we were? I mean, 0:02:41.760 --> 0:02:43.880 we were still hanging out after that, but then he 0:02:43.919 --> 0:02:46.519 had to leave suddenly. You know, his friend. He was 0:02:46.560 --> 0:02:48.919 with his friends. They were driving, so when they wanted 0:02:48.960 --> 0:02:50.760 to go, he had to go. But he did ask 0:02:50.800 --> 0:02:52.960 for my number. He was supposed to give me his 0:02:53.040 --> 0:02:54.960 number two, but I didn't have myself phone on me, 0:02:55.480 --> 0:02:57.880 so I was like, whatever, he'll call me, But then 0:02:57.960 --> 0:03:00.280 he never did, So what you do? And if he 0:03:00.280 --> 0:03:03.079 hadn't called you, how'd you find him? That's the thing 0:03:03.080 --> 0:03:05.119 where I was like, okay, well, you know, maybe he's 0:03:05.160 --> 0:03:09.000 busier playing it cool. But he never called. So after 0:03:09.040 --> 0:03:11.840 about a week and a half, which I thought was 0:03:12.040 --> 0:03:15.080 enough time to give him, I was really embarrassed. But 0:03:15.160 --> 0:03:17.760 I just didn't understand because we got along so well. 0:03:18.000 --> 0:03:22.240 So I asked my ax. Oh so embarrassing, but I 0:03:22.360 --> 0:03:24.720 asked him as I could have his number. I don't 0:03:24.720 --> 0:03:27.800 think that's embarrassing. That could because he's already married. Yeah, 0:03:27.840 --> 0:03:30.760 he's taken. I mean, it's still kind of an awkward conversation, like, hey, 0:03:30.840 --> 0:03:33.040 we used to be together, but your buddy is super hot. 0:03:34.560 --> 0:03:37.080 Gonna get those numbers. It's proof that you weren't like 0:03:37.160 --> 0:03:40.800 totally distraughted his wedding. Well whatever, he's married. He had 0:03:40.840 --> 0:03:43.560 just gotten back to honeyman. He was good, you know, 0:03:43.720 --> 0:03:45.720 he was in good spirits. So he gave you his 0:03:45.720 --> 0:03:48.880 buddy's number, and did you call him? I texted him 0:03:49.320 --> 0:03:52.280 and it was just like, hey, remember me from the wedding. 0:03:52.320 --> 0:03:55.080 I hope you don't mind no response. Did you tell 0:03:55.160 --> 0:03:58.400 him where you got the number? Well, yeah, okay, I 0:03:58.520 --> 0:04:00.400 was just if you didn't say if I just got 0:04:00.400 --> 0:04:01.880 a text me was like hey remember me? And I 0:04:01.920 --> 0:04:03.520 never gave you my number. I'd be like, that's weird. 0:04:03.520 --> 0:04:05.400 If you said I got your number from your friend, 0:04:05.440 --> 0:04:07.240 then that makes it a little less. Yeah. No, I'm 0:04:07.240 --> 0:04:11.000 there like a creepy stalker. Okay, when gonna play a song, 0:04:11.320 --> 0:04:13.160 come back and get your second day up date. Okay, 0:04:13.240 --> 0:04:20.720 all right, hang on brooking jubil in the morning second date. 0:04:21.920 --> 0:04:23.680 You know, Brianna, the more that I think about it, 0:04:23.720 --> 0:04:25.760 the more that I think you may have just creeped 0:04:25.920 --> 0:04:27.359 Christian out, the guy that you want to get a 0:04:27.360 --> 0:04:31.919 hold of. How well, I just feel like because you 0:04:31.960 --> 0:04:34.159 met him at a wedding, he got your number, he 0:04:34.160 --> 0:04:35.840 didn't get a hold of you, and then you went 0:04:35.960 --> 0:04:38.919 through different sources and channels and talked to your ex 0:04:39.240 --> 0:04:41.920 who is a friend of his, to get his number, 0:04:41.920 --> 0:04:43.440 and then just texted him out of the blue, Like 0:04:43.520 --> 0:04:46.120 maybe you should have called him and maybe explained how 0:04:46.120 --> 0:04:48.479 you got the number better. So I'm gonna go ahead 0:04:48.680 --> 0:04:50.520 and guess that's why he's not calling you back. But 0:04:50.600 --> 0:04:52.880 why didn't he call me in the first place? Okay, 0:04:52.960 --> 0:04:57.480 that's too many questions about. Stop making good points. All right, 0:04:57.839 --> 0:05:01.080 you were crying over your ex at his wedding, Well 0:05:01.120 --> 0:05:02.800 he didn't have to hang out with me all night. 0:05:03.800 --> 0:05:05.240 If you're just tuning into the second day up date, 0:05:05.320 --> 0:05:08.120 Brianna wants us to call Christian. She met him at 0:05:08.160 --> 0:05:11.080 her ex boyfriend's wedding. They kissed at the end of 0:05:11.120 --> 0:05:13.040 the night. He got her number but has never called her. 0:05:13.360 --> 0:05:17.240 She finally asked her ex, who is Christian's buddy for 0:05:17.440 --> 0:05:19.560 Christians number, texted him and hasn't heard anything back. You 0:05:19.680 --> 0:05:22.440 ready to give him a call? Yes, Okay, we're gonna 0:05:22.440 --> 0:05:35.640 call him right now. Okay, that's hell. Hey is this Christian? Yeah? Christian? 0:05:35.680 --> 0:05:37.360 What's up? Man? How are you? This is Jewel from 0:05:37.360 --> 0:05:39.080 Brook and Jewil in the Morning. I'm Moving ninety two 0:05:39.080 --> 0:05:48.599 point five. Yeah, how are you doing? Jebil from Brook 0:05:48.640 --> 0:05:50.960 and Jewil in the Morning on the radio station Moving 0:05:51.040 --> 0:05:53.599 ninety two point five. We have a morning show. Why 0:05:53.600 --> 0:05:55.520 are you calling me? I wanted to call you to 0:05:55.520 --> 0:05:57.320 talk about a mutual friend that we have a girl 0:05:57.400 --> 0:06:01.760 named Brianna for good. Yeah. You met her at a 0:06:01.760 --> 0:06:05.440 wedding a little while ago. It was your buddy's wedding. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, 0:06:05.480 --> 0:06:08.240 you know. Oh a friend of yours, not really a 0:06:08.279 --> 0:06:11.960 friend of mine, oh friend of mine? Yeah, friend of mine. 0:06:12.200 --> 0:06:14.320 She says that you guys hung out that night and 0:06:14.360 --> 0:06:16.080 you end up getting her number but never called her. 0:06:16.600 --> 0:06:20.200 Is there something that she said that was wrong or no? No, 0:06:20.440 --> 0:06:23.599 she wasn't standing one. You know. I like there, she's cute, 0:06:23.600 --> 0:06:26.440 but you know, it's just I don't know. I kind 0:06:26.480 --> 0:06:29.000 of no, it's not gonna work. Christian. I mean, you 0:06:29.120 --> 0:06:33.040 just sound really negative and a little almost angry right now. 0:06:33.680 --> 0:06:37.760 I'm not angry negative just because I don't understand why 0:06:37.839 --> 0:06:40.200 y'all are calling me. We went out one We didn't 0:06:40.200 --> 0:06:42.040 even go out. We met at the wedding, We hung out, 0:06:42.040 --> 0:06:44.520 we made out, now like we get all that that 0:06:44.800 --> 0:06:46.280 that you know, it was just a one night thing 0:06:46.400 --> 0:06:48.680 or whatever, but like she liked you and would like 0:06:48.760 --> 0:06:50.360 to see you again, and she's just wondering why you 0:06:50.400 --> 0:06:52.680 won't call her back. That's all. I don't know. I 0:06:52.760 --> 0:06:54.480 kind of talked to my boy about it as a 0:06:54.560 --> 0:06:57.400 guy that she went out with, and let's just say 0:06:58.080 --> 0:07:02.400 he illuminated me, and that was was it. Yeah, the groom, 0:07:02.880 --> 0:07:06.400 her ex boyfriend. That's that's who you talked to about her, obviously. Yeah, 0:07:06.440 --> 0:07:08.359 that's who we have in common. I was hoping that 0:07:08.560 --> 0:07:10.400 not more of her exes were also at the wedding, 0:07:10.520 --> 0:07:14.280 Like she knew every dude at the wedding. What did 0:07:14.280 --> 0:07:17.480 your buddy say about her? I mean they're friends, right, Yeah, 0:07:17.520 --> 0:07:19.840 obviously they're still friends. She was at his wedding. So 0:07:19.960 --> 0:07:21.960 did he say something about her that made you not 0:07:22.040 --> 0:07:25.280 want to call her? You know, he told me about 0:07:25.320 --> 0:07:32.240 their relationship and she wasn't. Um, she's not exactly a 0:07:32.280 --> 0:07:37.920 tomcat in the stack. If he cator, he said she's 0:07:37.960 --> 0:07:45.520 bad in bed. Yeah, he kind of. Yeah, it's not 0:07:45.840 --> 0:07:48.680 that's bad, it's that she's super boring, like he was, like, 0:07:51.240 --> 0:07:54.080 he didn't have to conjure up images to keep it happening. 0:07:54.080 --> 0:07:56.440 He had to conjure up images to keep it you 0:07:56.520 --> 0:08:01.160 know what I'm saying. Yeah, hey, Christian, Brianna is actually 0:08:01.160 --> 0:08:05.800 on the other line right now, Brianna, Brianna say that's 0:08:05.840 --> 0:08:10.320 why you didn't call me. Look, I consider myself quite 0:08:10.360 --> 0:08:14.840 a joint in the skills of the bedroom, and I 0:08:14.880 --> 0:08:18.280 didn't necessarily want to have to teach someone. But it's 0:08:18.320 --> 0:08:21.560 not like you need teaching, You just need Okay, let 0:08:21.560 --> 0:08:25.000 me tell you something. Obviously, he doesn't want me dating 0:08:25.000 --> 0:08:28.360 you because if you actually knew anything about our relationship. 0:08:28.400 --> 0:08:32.120 The entire thing was based on sets. Okay, he said 0:08:32.120 --> 0:08:34.040 I was the best that he ever had. That like, 0:08:34.160 --> 0:08:36.840 who he's with now doesn't compare to that, which is 0:08:36.840 --> 0:08:39.800 what's so horrible, which is why I was crying. Which, 0:08:39.840 --> 0:08:41.920 by the way, you don't even deserve to get any 0:08:42.080 --> 0:08:46.840 now anyway, So it's sure a lot. Well, I mean 0:08:47.040 --> 0:08:48.880 he and I have been around the block a couple 0:08:48.880 --> 0:08:52.559 of times. I sort of know his let's say, proclivities, 0:08:52.640 --> 0:08:54.439 and I mean I don't why would he not want 0:08:54.520 --> 0:08:57.000 us to get together He's obviously married. Oh my gosh, 0:08:57.120 --> 0:08:59.880 you know what, keep walking around the block, both of you, 0:09:00.120 --> 0:09:04.199 because now I'm pitched both of you, like he's supposed 0:09:04.240 --> 0:09:06.640 to be my friend, Like why would I actually went 0:09:06.679 --> 0:09:09.360 to his wedding? And you're just a loser the fact 0:09:09.360 --> 0:09:11.400 that you would even listen to something like that and 0:09:11.480 --> 0:09:18.360 not even like find out for yourself. You're put that Brianna, Brianna, 0:09:18.360 --> 0:09:20.040 what are you more? What are you more upset about 0:09:20.120 --> 0:09:21.959 the fact that you've been called bad in bed or 0:09:22.000 --> 0:09:23.880 the fact that you think that your ex is trying 0:09:23.920 --> 0:09:26.920 to block you from dating his friend. Well, now I'm 0:09:26.960 --> 0:09:28.800 just pitched to the fact that I was so good 0:09:28.840 --> 0:09:32.520 in bed, but obviously not worth staying with forever. Let 0:09:32.600 --> 0:09:36.319 me date somebody new. Christian, she sounds really fiery. I 0:09:36.400 --> 0:09:38.560 think Pad harry X might have been lying about Yeah, 0:09:38.640 --> 0:09:45.280 this is making me rethink my old Brianna. Why don't 0:09:45.320 --> 0:09:47.400 we just I don't know, why don't we just try 0:09:47.440 --> 0:09:54.160 to figure this out over some cordials. You must have 0:09:54.240 --> 0:09:56.360 been the love that dumped your ex am. I right, 0:09:57.400 --> 0:10:01.280 it's a long story. Well make a short run the radio. 0:10:02.880 --> 0:10:05.160 Well I made him feel bad because I made him 0:10:05.200 --> 0:10:08.280 only about sex, like that was what the whole thing was. 0:10:08.679 --> 0:10:11.040 You used him like I was in a bad phase 0:10:11.160 --> 0:10:13.160 where I was doing that to guys, like making them 0:10:13.240 --> 0:10:19.960 worthless at step for sex. Revenge thing. Now because this guy, Christian, 0:10:20.440 --> 0:10:22.480 I thought you were really nice, but really it is 0:10:22.600 --> 0:10:26.000 just about that, which you'll never get. Well, why don't 0:10:26.000 --> 0:10:29.600 you kind of take out your anger on me? Oh 0:10:31.320 --> 0:10:34.080 would have had you actually played your cards right instead 0:10:34.080 --> 0:10:38.840 of being complete about it. Look, hey, you guys are Christian. 0:10:38.880 --> 0:10:40.920 You're not angry, You're just trying to defend yourself. But Brianna, 0:10:40.920 --> 0:10:42.880 you're angry right now. I think that you two really 0:10:42.960 --> 0:10:44.920 I want you two to get together more than any 0:10:44.960 --> 0:10:48.079 second day ever, No, because the sex is gonna be amazing. 0:10:48.200 --> 0:10:50.760 Listen to them, they're so angry with each other. It's 0:10:50.800 --> 0:10:53.199 gonna be wonderful. We'll pay for a second day for 0:10:53.280 --> 0:10:56.480 you guys. I'll go look at all the probably went 0:10:56.559 --> 0:11:01.199 to the information. You're like Encyclopedia Brown. Oh, that's because 0:11:01.240 --> 0:11:04.440 it's a person. I'm just I don't even know what's 0:11:04.440 --> 0:11:06.760 going on. Like I called about this really nice guy 0:11:06.840 --> 0:11:08.360 that I had met, So it's not a nice guy 0:11:08.400 --> 0:11:11.240 at all. I'm still a nice guy. I mean I'm 0:11:11.640 --> 0:11:15.280 a no, you're not not no. No. Girl wants a 0:11:15.400 --> 0:11:19.040 guy that like doesn't find out for himself, that like 0:11:19.280 --> 0:11:22.680 follows people. A woman wants a leader. Yeah, you're Christian. 0:11:22.880 --> 0:11:24.719 You're not a man. You're a little boy. Christian. You 0:11:24.760 --> 0:11:26.760 could have at least tested it out and then found 0:11:26.800 --> 0:11:28.720 out if it was more. It's like taking a car 0:11:28.760 --> 0:11:29.959 and a test drive, you know what I mean. You 0:11:30.040 --> 0:11:31.559 gotta figure out how much you really like it. You 0:11:31.600 --> 0:11:33.480 should have done that. You are worth more than that. 0:11:33.600 --> 0:11:36.240 And I think that you just stand your ground. Girlfriend, Brianna, 0:11:36.320 --> 0:11:38.600 would you like to go out with Christian again? Please? 0:11:38.720 --> 0:11:41.560 I think Christian's into an a no Christian, good Christian. 0:11:42.080 --> 0:11:44.599 Never I would destroy him, then the teachers anyways, he 0:11:44.640 --> 0:11:49.840 would not be able to handle me. So yeah, girl, okay, 0:11:50.120 --> 0:11:53.200 I think you have no idea what you can handle 0:11:53.280 --> 0:12:02.199 when you know I love her some broken jubil in 0:12:02.240 --> 0:12:02.640 the morning.