1 00:00:01,080 --> 00:00:04,320 Speaker 1: Jubils dirty little secret. The person on the phone for 2 00:00:04,360 --> 00:00:08,719 Speaker 1: today's dirty little secret is delicious, remember yes, and nutritious. 3 00:00:09,039 --> 00:00:12,560 Speaker 1: And also my tongue's frozen because I'm eating a cold 4 00:00:13,080 --> 00:00:16,280 Speaker 1: Si E bowl? You are? Are you talking funny? Yes? 5 00:00:16,840 --> 00:00:18,240 Speaker 1: And that's where I remember. If you want to tell 6 00:00:18,280 --> 00:00:19,520 Speaker 1: us a dirty little secret, I have to do is 7 00:00:19,520 --> 00:00:21,279 Speaker 1: text in four one h six one. Let us know 8 00:00:21,320 --> 00:00:22,760 Speaker 1: that you have a dirty little secret. You can say 9 00:00:22,800 --> 00:00:25,320 Speaker 1: whatever you want on the show because nobody even knows 10 00:00:25,320 --> 00:00:26,759 Speaker 1: what your name is. Because we don't even ask what 11 00:00:26,800 --> 00:00:29,000 Speaker 1: your name is, everybody gets a fake, anonymous nickname. And 12 00:00:29,080 --> 00:00:31,639 Speaker 1: since I was eating a very cold Si E bowl 13 00:00:31,760 --> 00:00:34,159 Speaker 1: just a second ago, that's who's on the phone right now, 14 00:00:34,520 --> 00:00:39,240 Speaker 1: my yummy freezing Si E bowl. Yeah, hello, how are you? Yeah? 15 00:00:39,280 --> 00:00:42,560 Speaker 1: I'm good? Are you? That's how I think an Si 16 00:00:42,600 --> 00:00:45,400 Speaker 1: E bowl would sound. Yeah, it would sound like it does. 17 00:00:46,120 --> 00:00:48,000 Speaker 1: A bowl is looking at me right now and it 18 00:00:48,040 --> 00:00:50,800 Speaker 1: wants me to eat it so bad. I'm not gonna 19 00:00:50,840 --> 00:00:52,320 Speaker 1: do that because I'm be polite and not speaking of 20 00:00:52,320 --> 00:00:54,120 Speaker 1: my mouthful, just kidding. I'm gonna take a bite of 21 00:00:54,160 --> 00:00:55,319 Speaker 1: it and you can start telling us what your doing 22 00:00:55,320 --> 00:01:04,960 Speaker 1: a little secret. Oh good, We'll go ahead read my 23 00:01:05,120 --> 00:01:08,880 Speaker 1: dirty little secret? Is um embarrassed to say this? But 24 00:01:09,040 --> 00:01:12,640 Speaker 1: I cheated on my husband? Oh no, we get a 25 00:01:12,640 --> 00:01:14,720 Speaker 1: lot of those. Though we do get we can't really 26 00:01:14,720 --> 00:01:16,000 Speaker 1: air a lot of those because they're kind of like 27 00:01:16,000 --> 00:01:20,120 Speaker 1: a downer. Yeah, are you cheating on your husband? Well, 28 00:01:20,240 --> 00:01:22,800 Speaker 1: I mean like, I'm married and I'm happily married, and 29 00:01:23,680 --> 00:01:26,440 Speaker 1: well you're you're cheated on your husband? So happy? I 30 00:01:26,480 --> 00:01:32,880 Speaker 1: wouldn't know if that's happily married. It's more like, I like, 31 00:01:33,319 --> 00:01:37,119 Speaker 1: withheld information? Have you cheating on him? Yeah? A lot 32 00:01:37,120 --> 00:01:39,120 Speaker 1: of people do that. I found that a lot of 33 00:01:39,120 --> 00:01:41,720 Speaker 1: people who cheat usually withhold that information from the person 34 00:01:42,120 --> 00:01:44,039 Speaker 1: cheating on. So have you been cheating on your husband 35 00:01:44,040 --> 00:01:48,200 Speaker 1: for a long time? Well, it only happened once, only 36 00:01:48,240 --> 00:01:52,280 Speaker 1: one time? One time? Was it worthday? Yeah? I mean 37 00:01:52,680 --> 00:01:55,880 Speaker 1: I mean just had coffee, So I guess it was 38 00:01:56,240 --> 00:01:59,040 Speaker 1: worth having a coffee. You had coffee? What do you 39 00:01:59,040 --> 00:02:02,800 Speaker 1: mean you just had coffee? I went to coffee with um, 40 00:02:03,240 --> 00:02:06,840 Speaker 1: this guy that I've known for ever, but um, I 41 00:02:06,840 --> 00:02:09,920 Speaker 1: hadn't seen him in years and I didn't tell him 42 00:02:09,919 --> 00:02:15,560 Speaker 1: my husband about it. Wait so that no? Wait, so 43 00:02:15,919 --> 00:02:19,040 Speaker 1: did you you looked up with him? No, So you 44 00:02:19,160 --> 00:02:22,560 Speaker 1: literally went to get coffee with someone who hadn't seen 45 00:02:22,600 --> 00:02:27,160 Speaker 1: in a while. Yeah, but he's he's a guy, and 46 00:02:27,280 --> 00:02:30,400 Speaker 1: I didn't tell I didn't tell my husband, So I 47 00:02:30,480 --> 00:02:37,200 Speaker 1: just where weird? When where's the cheating pot? Did? Yeah? 48 00:02:37,240 --> 00:02:40,160 Speaker 1: Because that's just lying? Really? Yeah, I don't think you 49 00:02:40,280 --> 00:02:45,400 Speaker 1: cheated on your husband. Oh serious, something that's cheating from 50 00:02:45,440 --> 00:02:47,760 Speaker 1: meeting up with another guy and I don't tell my husband. 51 00:02:48,680 --> 00:02:51,040 Speaker 1: It sounds bad when you say it, like, yeah, I 52 00:02:51,040 --> 00:02:55,919 Speaker 1: mean I would consider that being untruthful, not unfaithful necessarily 53 00:02:56,520 --> 00:02:59,240 Speaker 1: unless you had met with him and with plans of 54 00:02:59,280 --> 00:03:01,560 Speaker 1: hooking up. But the way that you started this off 55 00:03:01,560 --> 00:03:03,320 Speaker 1: with your dirty little secret, I thought for sure that 56 00:03:03,360 --> 00:03:07,440 Speaker 1: you were like, had cheated, cheated on him. Oh no, 57 00:03:07,720 --> 00:03:12,160 Speaker 1: we just got coffee. So it doesn't sound like you cheated. 58 00:03:12,200 --> 00:03:15,320 Speaker 1: It sounds like you went behind your husband's back and 59 00:03:15,680 --> 00:03:18,919 Speaker 1: had coffee with an old friend which is still lying 60 00:03:18,960 --> 00:03:20,840 Speaker 1: to him, which is still not cool. Didn't do that, 61 00:03:21,000 --> 00:03:24,000 Speaker 1: but I wouldn't feel so bad about it. I wouldn't 62 00:03:24,000 --> 00:03:26,040 Speaker 1: be so down though. Yeah. I don't know if that's 63 00:03:26,040 --> 00:03:29,040 Speaker 1: grounds for divorce or not. Well, if my husband went 64 00:03:29,120 --> 00:03:31,960 Speaker 1: out took coffee with another female I would definitely consider 65 00:03:31,960 --> 00:03:34,079 Speaker 1: that cheating. Yeah, well, I don't think it's that big 66 00:03:34,080 --> 00:03:36,120 Speaker 1: of a deal. Also, there is I know it's a stereotype, 67 00:03:36,120 --> 00:03:38,160 Speaker 1: but there is kind of a double standard sometimes when 68 00:03:38,160 --> 00:03:40,440 Speaker 1: it comes to relationships and dating and the way that 69 00:03:40,480 --> 00:03:42,600 Speaker 1: people see things like Alex and I are married. If 70 00:03:42,640 --> 00:03:43,800 Speaker 1: you didn't know that, By the way, I have to 71 00:03:44,160 --> 00:03:45,640 Speaker 1: say that in case people are listening they just tuned 72 00:03:45,640 --> 00:03:46,840 Speaker 1: in and be like, Hey, why are the guys talking 73 00:03:46,880 --> 00:03:49,920 Speaker 1: about this? But Alex and I have a situation where 74 00:03:49,920 --> 00:03:51,800 Speaker 1: Alex kind of gets to do what she wants sometimes. 75 00:03:52,200 --> 00:03:54,000 Speaker 1: And the other day on the show, I brought up 76 00:03:54,160 --> 00:03:55,920 Speaker 1: ten years ago I had a crush on one of 77 00:03:55,920 --> 00:03:58,880 Speaker 1: my friend's girlfriends, and she's like, who, who was it? 78 00:03:59,120 --> 00:04:02,320 Speaker 1: Tell me all about her? Like that was ten years 79 00:04:03,560 --> 00:04:07,480 Speaker 1: I didn't even know you then. Sometimes there's a little 80 00:04:07,480 --> 00:04:12,440 Speaker 1: bit of a dull stating. So anyway, yeah, for you, 81 00:04:12,520 --> 00:04:14,480 Speaker 1: it might be bad. For him, it might not be 82 00:04:14,520 --> 00:04:16,240 Speaker 1: as bad, but you should still tell him instead of 83 00:04:16,320 --> 00:04:18,440 Speaker 1: lying to him. But you didn't cheat, I don't think, No, 84 00:04:18,520 --> 00:04:20,200 Speaker 1: you have to tell him if you do it again, 85 00:04:20,360 --> 00:04:23,840 Speaker 1: just don't go look up what cheating is on Urban 86 00:04:23,880 --> 00:04:26,200 Speaker 1: Dictionary and then decide if you're going to if you're 87 00:04:26,240 --> 00:04:29,840 Speaker 1: cheating or not, but don't lie to him again. Okay, 88 00:04:30,200 --> 00:04:34,320 Speaker 1: I thank you. What's your dirty little secret.