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Speaker 1: Personally Felsman.

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Speaker 2: As we continue to look in words at our own

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Speaker 2: lives and have some personal reflection in this series. This

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Speaker 2: episode is going to continue us on that journey, and

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Speaker 2: I cannot be more excited to share this episode with

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Speaker 2: you guys. His name is Danny Morrell and we were

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Speaker 2: walking on the same path during this interview. I think

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Speaker 2: it's something really special.

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Speaker 3: Let's do this.

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Speaker 2: I'm excited to be joined by Danny Morrel. Danny, you

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Speaker 2: have insane amounts of things happening on social media because

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Speaker 2: you've blown up there for all your words of wisdom

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Speaker 2: and the incredible stories that you share.

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Speaker 3: Thanks for coming on the podcast, Thanks for having me.

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Speaker 2: You have a new book that's out by the time

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Speaker 2: this podcast is out in the world, Awaken your Highest Self.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and it's not your first one. You're an author,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, in many ways, it does feel like my first one,

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Speaker 1: because my first one was life from my old life.

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Speaker 1: In the book, I talk about the story of business, Danny,

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Speaker 1: and this is very much coming from a completely different

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Speaker 2: Weird for you when you look at that book that

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Speaker 2: does it feel weird that it's almost two completely different people.

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Speaker 1: It's so much of two completely different people that I

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Speaker 3: Really.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I was in my ego, I was in drive,

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Speaker 2: When the transition happened right when you finally were like, okay,

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Speaker 1: So it was twofold, and it all happened right about

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Speaker 1: This is even more beautiful. Let's take it a step further,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, very much so.

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Speaker 2: And you mentioned this conversation of obviously our parents didn't

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Speaker 3: Right we very much are.

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Speaker 1: No, it's really a commitment to authenticity. It's the only

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Speaker 1: I'm an open book. And the reason why I'm an

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and you cann't speak on it.

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Speaker 2: You're going to go in this life because you haven't

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Speaker 1: That's right. And I can trace my affair down literally

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Speaker 2: And isn't that just so wild to thing about that

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Speaker 3: This is what we're going for.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, which is only going to make you feel less.

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Speaker 3: So tell me.

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Speaker 2: the way back, we're just now starting to have the

438
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Speaker 2: tools and the resources to understand our traumas, understand different

439
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Speaker 2: levels of this.

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Speaker 3: So can you imagine the work that's being done to

441
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Speaker 3: try and heal generations of that? Yeah, yeah, and it is.

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Speaker 2: It's very much a conversation of understanding. And it's interesting

443
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Speaker 2: to me when people will say that's like woo woo,

444
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Speaker 2: there's no way, And I'm like.

445
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Speaker 3: Is there is that really no way when you really

446
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Speaker 3: think about it.

447
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Speaker 1: But again, isn't that their way of trying to protect themselves? Yeah?

448
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Speaker 2: H And does that make you then see the world

449
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Speaker 2: too when you have interactions with people that are questionable

450
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Speaker 2: and people that just want to put up blocks, and

451
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Speaker 2: because change is hard and all the things, doesn't that

452
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Speaker 2: make you then just want to be like, I really

453
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Speaker 2: want to help you.

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Speaker 3: I really help you want to see this other side?

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Speaker 1: No, okay, And I'll tell you why because I remember

456
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Speaker 1: when that was me, and that's where you can really

457
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Speaker 1: connect to the understanding that all of life is perfect

458
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Speaker 1: and everyone is on their own journey. Fear controls, love allows.

459
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Speaker 1: The control in me is like I really want to

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Speaker 1: help you, and the love and me goles when it's

461
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Speaker 1: your time.

462
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Speaker 2: And allowing the pick of the book, you'll start the

463
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Speaker 2: work to find the journey and it's all okay, yeah,

464
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Speaker 2: there has to be a peace with that as well.

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Speaker 3: Beautiful when you reach that point.

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Speaker 1: That's it and that is ultimately what we're all looking for.

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Speaker 3: Peace. Oh my gosh, yes.

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Speaker 1: That's it. What we are looking for in the business goal,

469
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Speaker 1: in the follower goal, in the relationship goal, in the

470
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Speaker 1: how do I look in my body goal? What we're

471
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Speaker 1: actually looking for is peace. We have just not been

472
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Speaker 1: shown how to access peace. Real peace. We think peace

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Speaker 1: is through achievement. We think piece is in doing. We

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Speaker 1: think peace is in being relentless and going after what

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Speaker 1: we want in life. But real peace is actually the opposite.

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Speaker 1: Real peace is not needing to do a thing. Real

477
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Speaker 1: peace is not needing to achieve anything. Real piece is

478
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Speaker 1: understanding that there's nowhere to go. There's nothing to relentless

479
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Speaker 1: about because you've always been exactly where you need to

480
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Speaker 1: be since the moment.

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Speaker 2: Let me ask you, when you did the crossover, you

482
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Speaker 2: talked about the very beginning of this where you were

483
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Speaker 2: this person and now you're a different person. Does it

484
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Speaker 2: feel like because I feel like when you're the person

485
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Speaker 2: on the front end of your life, the world feels

486
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Speaker 2: like a weight on your shoulders. Everything feels your chest

487
00:26:00,800 --> 00:26:03,879
Speaker 2: feels heavy, you tense up, your jaws always tached. The

488
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Speaker 2: second part of your life is the weight gone, the

489
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Speaker 2: jaw tensing gone, the piece that you feel a whole

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Speaker 2: body experience.

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Speaker 1: I think there's a third part, okay, and that's the

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Speaker 1: work that you get to do in between those of

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Speaker 1: both of those new realities. And what came to me

494
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Speaker 1: to share with you was I went through a really

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Speaker 1: deep process where I was afraid of death. That's how

496
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Speaker 1: deep this can get. Because fear is fear. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: and I just happened to I want to face all

498
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Speaker 1: of my fears, and so when I did, that's what happened.

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Speaker 1: I spent a year where I barely slept. I think

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Speaker 1: I slept three nights.

501
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Speaker 2: And because of that fear, you're afraid to go to sleep,

502
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Speaker 2: fear of not waking up, fear of just what could come.

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Speaker 1: That's how much I was in control by going through

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Speaker 1: it and facing it. And that's where I say a

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Speaker 1: lot of people don't like it when I say that,

506
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Speaker 1: but that's where I say, And all I can offer

507
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Speaker 1: is the thousands of people that I work with This

508
00:27:06,119 --> 00:27:09,800
Speaker 1: has changed my plant medicine is a very important tool

509
00:27:09,880 --> 00:27:16,320
Speaker 1: for us human to participate, whether it's ayahuasca or mushroom

510
00:27:17,200 --> 00:27:21,160
Speaker 1: cannabis used in a ceremonial way. It's the thing that

511
00:27:21,240 --> 00:27:25,560
Speaker 1: takes you deep with it yourself so that you can

512
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Speaker 1: bring up those parts of yourself been like shoving down.

513
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Speaker 1: And I actually built book that way to take you

514
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Speaker 1: into those depths of yourself. And that's why I decided

515
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Speaker 1: to include my breath work. So you'll see, you'll get

516
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Speaker 1: in the chapters and you'll go to the link of

517
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Speaker 1: the breath work and be able to download it and

518
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Speaker 1: lay down and listen, and I'll lead you through it.

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Speaker 1: Get ready, you're gonna have a beautiful experience.

520
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Speaker 2: And it's like that this is really for people who

521
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Speaker 2: are ready to take that next step, is what I'm hearing.

522
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Speaker 2: Like they're in that phase of their life. They're ready

523
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Speaker 2: for this change, They're ready to take whatever step.

524
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Speaker 3: Is necessary to become the highest self.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you're starting to notice that there's parts of your

526
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Speaker 1: life that you have been unhappy with for quite a

527
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Speaker 1: few years now, and you're starting to ask yourself, like

528
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Speaker 1: why is life this way? And you want answers and

529
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Speaker 1: no one seems to be giving you answers. And the

530
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Speaker 1: book won't give you the answers. The book will guide

531
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Speaker 1: you to find the answers within yourself. I think that's

532
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Speaker 1: what's so beautiful about it.

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Speaker 2: And I don't know if other people have felt this

534
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Speaker 2: way when they've started to do work with you. So

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Speaker 2: I'm curious because I often say it because change is hard.

536
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Speaker 2: Change is a really hard experience. We get used to comfortability.

537
00:28:43,040 --> 00:28:47,080
Speaker 2: There's so many securities in not changing. But I think

538
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Speaker 2: for me, and i'd probably speak for a lot of people,

539
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Speaker 2: there's a scariness to knowing that your potential is so

540
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Speaker 2: much higher, and it's almost like you're afraid of that.

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Speaker 1: It's our deepest fear.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so it's normal. I'm not strained in having that

543
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Speaker 2: feeling normal.

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Speaker 1: Our deepest fear is actually how powerful we actually are.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to go into a part. One of the

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Speaker 1: things that I really faced was like the construct of religion. Yeah,

547
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Speaker 1: so I started to go to Bible seminary, I used

548
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Speaker 1: to alter calls, I used to baptize people. I was

549
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Speaker 1: just like highly religious, and when my mom passed away,

550
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Speaker 1: it just made me question everything, something that I had

551
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Speaker 1: been afraid to do. I can remember. I think I

552
00:29:37,080 --> 00:29:39,840
Speaker 1: was like, I was really successful in business early on,

553
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Speaker 1: and so I think I bought like my first not mansion,

554
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Speaker 1: but like really big house, probably at twenty seven or

555
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Speaker 1: something like that. And I remember the people from the

556
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Speaker 1: church used to say, Oh, my God, God has blessed you,

557
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Speaker 1: and then in the back of my head, I would

558
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Speaker 1: go the work so no, no, no, never mind, don't ask that.

559
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Speaker 1: There were so many moments like that where I I

560
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Speaker 1: would just start to challenge, but I was afraid to

561
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Speaker 1: do so. Yeah, and that's what actually led me to

562
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Speaker 1: my most beautiful awakening is that what we don't realize

563
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Speaker 1: is that religion causes us to believe that God is

564
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Speaker 1: like out there somewhere, and what you end up discovering,

565
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Speaker 1: think about separation when the discovering is you are actually one.

566
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Speaker 1: It was actually Jesus's message. It's actually what got him killed.

567
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Speaker 1: It wasn't that he came like for our sins or

568
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Speaker 1: any of that, because I don't know the story, but

569
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Speaker 1: it was that he actually was speaking I am the Father,

570
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Speaker 1: are one, and to all of the religious zealous. Then

571
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Speaker 1: like that completely contradicted everything that and then they told

572
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Speaker 1: the people and that's what got him killed. Jesus literally

573
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Speaker 1: was the physical embodiment of what is possible for human life.

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Speaker 1: Chin Light.

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Speaker 2: It's I love that you brought this up, because I

576
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Speaker 2: did want to touch on this with you. I really

577
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Speaker 2: was so intrigued watching your videos talking about religion and

578
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Speaker 2: spirituality because you're one of the first people that I

579
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Speaker 2: see that's not afraid to touch on this topic because

580
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Speaker 2: it's something that people are afraid to talk about.

581
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Speaker 1: Oh no, I've been very afraid.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Journey, but now here you are today and you're

583
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Speaker 3: in the space.

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Speaker 1: Yes, because think about it. Think about it. It's remember

585
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Speaker 1: what I said, like true masculine is about embodying your

586
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Speaker 1: own truth. So it's the truth I discovered. What was

587
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Speaker 1: going on with the fear was I was attached to

588
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Speaker 1: your reaction to the truth that I discover, and I

589
00:31:38,160 --> 00:31:41,080
Speaker 1: was attached to them, and I'm no longer attached to them.

590
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Speaker 1: And for a while I was angry about it because

591
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Speaker 1: I feel like, oh my god, they've been lying. Was

592
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Speaker 1: so it was that energy, and even that energy is gone.

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Speaker 1: I just want to share your experience, my experience, and

594
00:31:53,200 --> 00:31:57,320
Speaker 1: then if you want to test it, go experience it yourself.

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Speaker 1: What I can guarantee you, if you go deep enough,

596
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Speaker 1: you will find the exact thing that.

597
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Speaker 2: I found and the reason why it drew me so much,

598
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Speaker 2: to so much of your work and you talking about

599
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Speaker 2: it's funny because you were afraid of the responses, But

600
00:32:10,960 --> 00:32:14,160
Speaker 2: what your mind was protecting you from seeing was all

601
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Speaker 2: the people you could connect with of speaking to it, right, right,

602
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Speaker 2: That's what happens. But I loved it because church has

603
00:32:20,600 --> 00:32:22,080
Speaker 2: always been incredibly difficult for me.

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Speaker 3: I've had really bad experiences in churches, just horrible. We

605
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Speaker 3: could be here all day talking about those moments.

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Speaker 2: But I decided very early on through those experiences that

607
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Speaker 2: I just church wasn't for me, But what was for

608
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Speaker 2: me was just living a life full of love. I

609
00:32:38,080 --> 00:32:40,680
Speaker 2: wanted to take care of people. I wanted to be

610
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Speaker 2: the person that somebody could come up to and feel

611
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Speaker 2: comfortable talking to. I wanted to take care of my neighbors.

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Speaker 2: I wanted to show up for my community. I wanted

613
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Speaker 2: to be there for strangers.

614
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Speaker 3: I wanted to live in love. That's what I wanted.

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Speaker 1: That's it.

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Speaker 2: You are the first person I've really seen just have

617
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Speaker 2: that conversation about It's not about what you think it's about.

618
00:33:01,280 --> 00:33:04,640
Speaker 2: It's really about this inner piece of you that just

619
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Speaker 2: should be wanting to give love instead of demanding everybody

620
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Speaker 2: sees things a certain way.

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Speaker 1: Okay, you know what you're saying right now, let me

622
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Speaker 1: show it to you. So if I do this, let's

623
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Speaker 1: see what comes up for you. If I'm doing this,

624
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Speaker 1: what am I doing? What part of me am I

625
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Speaker 1: feeding right now?

626
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Speaker 3: Your mind?

627
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Speaker 1: Which means that I am receiving knowledge?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Right, you know what you just said. What you just

630
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Speaker 1: said is God is actually and life and love is

631
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Speaker 1: actually not about knowledge. It's about embodiment. That's what you

632
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Speaker 1: just said, and that's what we have a hard time

633
00:33:36,760 --> 00:33:42,480
Speaker 1: finding in church people that embody because church actually blocks

634
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Speaker 1: you from embodying. The only way that you can embody

635
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Speaker 1: is to go into, is to discover, is to feel,

636
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Speaker 1: is to let go of, is to surrender. It's to

637
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Speaker 1: have the human experience. It's to face your shadows, it's

638
00:33:58,200 --> 00:34:02,600
Speaker 1: to face the darkest parts of your Church actually blocks

639
00:34:02,680 --> 00:34:05,600
Speaker 1: you from doing any of that because it keeps you

640
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Speaker 1: stuck in belief, it keeps you stuck in waiting for

641
00:34:09,000 --> 00:34:11,799
Speaker 1: a savior that is not coming, and it keeps you

642
00:34:11,920 --> 00:34:15,960
Speaker 1: thinking that there's an enemy that doesn't exist. The enemy

643
00:34:16,000 --> 00:34:19,719
Speaker 1: you've been calling the enemy is just your shadow. So

644
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Speaker 1: you are actually detaching yourself from both of the parts

645
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Speaker 1: of yourself that if you were to bring them together,

646
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Speaker 1: you can integrate them and become the living embodiment of love.

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Speaker 3: Wow, I just felt like I went to a servant.

648
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Speaker 2: And I know we're not in trolley that that's exactly

649
00:34:37,920 --> 00:34:41,440
Speaker 2: what I needed, But what did that feel like? I

650
00:34:41,480 --> 00:34:45,000
Speaker 2: loved hearing somebody speak to the things that are happening

651
00:34:45,080 --> 00:34:47,439
Speaker 2: in my head and I can't get anywhere else.

652
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Speaker 3: You know what I mean.

653
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Speaker 2: And that's why I loved you talking about it was

654
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Speaker 2: because it's so hard to find people who are one

655
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Speaker 2: willing and two to just have that open conversation and

656
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Speaker 2: just have the conversation that.

657
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Speaker 3: Looks a little different.

658
00:35:01,280 --> 00:35:03,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, it doesn't mean it's wrong. It doesn't mean anything's

659
00:35:03,880 --> 00:35:05,960
Speaker 2: wrong or right. And like, I really don't identify with

660
00:35:06,120 --> 00:35:09,000
Speaker 2: wrongs and right. It's very much of how does it

661
00:35:09,040 --> 00:35:11,719
Speaker 2: make you feel and what is your way of perceiving

662
00:35:11,760 --> 00:35:14,680
Speaker 2: it and the openness that comes up right right, And

663
00:35:14,800 --> 00:35:17,760
Speaker 2: so listening to you say that, it was like somebody

664
00:35:17,760 --> 00:35:19,960
Speaker 2: sees the way that I see and that was really cool.

665
00:35:20,200 --> 00:35:23,160
Speaker 1: And when you talk about like wrong or right, wrong

666
00:35:23,239 --> 00:35:26,520
Speaker 1: or right is the ego's way of protecting.

667
00:35:26,000 --> 00:35:29,600
Speaker 2: Its story, putting you into these categories of like, what

668
00:35:29,600 --> 00:35:31,880
Speaker 2: you're doing here is wrong, what you're doing here is right.

669
00:35:31,760 --> 00:35:34,319
Speaker 1: That's right. So watch this. This is what religion does.

670
00:35:34,360 --> 00:35:38,080
Speaker 1: By the way, if I believe that my way is

671
00:35:38,120 --> 00:35:41,719
Speaker 1: the only way, then I am what. I am right

672
00:35:41,960 --> 00:35:44,719
Speaker 1: and you are wrong. And if I am right and

673
00:35:44,760 --> 00:35:49,080
Speaker 1: you are wrong, then we are in oneness or in separation.

674
00:35:49,360 --> 00:35:52,520
Speaker 1: And if we're in separation, are we in love or fear?

675
00:35:52,719 --> 00:35:53,000
Speaker 3: Fear?

676
00:35:53,280 --> 00:35:55,400
Speaker 1: And if we are in fear. Are we in victim

677
00:35:55,480 --> 00:35:56,880
Speaker 1: energy or creator energy?

678
00:35:57,000 --> 00:35:57,720
Speaker 3: Victim energy?

679
00:35:57,760 --> 00:36:00,000
Speaker 1: And if we're in victim energy, can we ever actually

680
00:36:00,440 --> 00:36:04,919
Speaker 1: create the human embodiment and life that we actually are

681
00:36:04,960 --> 00:36:06,080
Speaker 1: capable of creating?

682
00:36:06,280 --> 00:36:06,360
Speaker 2: No?

683
00:36:06,719 --> 00:36:14,080
Speaker 3: Absolutely, it is no, iile, It's like we're just like

684
00:36:14,440 --> 00:36:20,520
Speaker 3: the same thought. Not really, it's it's so cool to me.

685
00:36:20,960 --> 00:36:24,520
Speaker 1: You know it lands though, because it's universal truth.

686
00:36:25,200 --> 00:36:25,520
Speaker 3: It's not.

687
00:36:25,760 --> 00:36:28,040
Speaker 1: And the way that universal truth is you can go

688
00:36:28,239 --> 00:36:32,520
Speaker 1: into it and test it, test it, go experience it

689
00:36:32,600 --> 00:36:35,960
Speaker 1: for yourself. This is why I say, like, you know,

690
00:36:36,000 --> 00:36:38,040
Speaker 1: you come to my three day event. I literally start

691
00:36:38,080 --> 00:36:40,960
Speaker 1: off every event saying, you're not here for me, Because

692
00:36:40,960 --> 00:36:42,799
Speaker 1: if you're here for me, you're right back in the church.

693
00:36:42,840 --> 00:36:44,799
Speaker 1: You're right back listening to the preacher. You're right by

694
00:36:44,840 --> 00:36:47,319
Speaker 1: believing and what no, no, no, no no. And as you're

695
00:36:47,360 --> 00:36:51,560
Speaker 1: not here for knowledge, you are here to literally get

696
00:36:51,680 --> 00:36:56,080
Speaker 1: naked with yourself so that you can experience and feel

697
00:36:56,239 --> 00:37:01,120
Speaker 1: and challenge and test everything so that you can become

698
00:37:01,600 --> 00:37:06,840
Speaker 1: the teacher, the leader, the guide, the spiritual version of

699
00:37:06,880 --> 00:37:10,919
Speaker 1: yourself that has been trying to come online literally since

700
00:37:10,920 --> 00:37:14,880
Speaker 1: you were born. And that only happens when you actually

701
00:37:15,000 --> 00:37:17,400
Speaker 1: stop believing and you start becoming.

702
00:37:18,480 --> 00:37:20,520
Speaker 2: I know this isn't a church, but I just you're

703
00:37:20,560 --> 00:37:23,239
Speaker 2: really good at preaching and it's really good and not

704
00:37:23,280 --> 00:37:25,160
Speaker 2: on a preaching is probably the wrong word.

705
00:37:25,480 --> 00:37:26,399
Speaker 1: So let's talk about that.

706
00:37:26,520 --> 00:37:29,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, because you made me feel certain things then like

707
00:37:30,440 --> 00:37:34,720
Speaker 2: just captivated, just understood, just wanting to attract the energy

708
00:37:34,760 --> 00:37:36,120
Speaker 2: that you have per se.

709
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Speaker 1: Okay, it's really interesting. So have you done your human

710
00:37:39,560 --> 00:37:40,320
Speaker 1: design yet?

711
00:37:40,600 --> 00:37:40,680
Speaker 2: No?

712
00:37:41,000 --> 00:37:44,239
Speaker 1: Okay, you need to. Okay, so go nowadays you can

713
00:37:44,280 --> 00:37:46,360
Speaker 1: just do it for free on any CHADGYBT or anything

714
00:37:46,360 --> 00:37:48,840
Speaker 1: like that. Go get your birth date, your birth time,

715
00:37:49,440 --> 00:37:52,480
Speaker 1: and your birth location and type it in and say

716
00:37:52,680 --> 00:37:55,400
Speaker 1: you're a human design expert. Tell me my human design

717
00:37:56,080 --> 00:37:58,239
Speaker 1: and if people and if you want remind me, I'll

718
00:37:58,280 --> 00:38:00,799
Speaker 1: get it for you for free. You go to podcast

719
00:38:01,000 --> 00:38:05,120
Speaker 1: dot Dannymorell dot com, backslash human Design and you can

720
00:38:05,160 --> 00:38:09,799
Speaker 1: get it's a full customized story of you, your life.

721
00:38:10,520 --> 00:38:16,120
Speaker 1: There are certain different human design types. There's generators, there's projectors,

722
00:38:16,239 --> 00:38:20,719
Speaker 1: there's manifest generators, and there's reflectors and all of this

723
00:38:20,800 --> 00:38:23,400
Speaker 1: is based off of your time and date of birth

724
00:38:23,440 --> 00:38:26,440
Speaker 1: and all of this. Reflectors are less than one percent

725
00:38:26,440 --> 00:38:30,560
Speaker 1: of the human population. I'm a reflector. So what that

726
00:38:30,680 --> 00:38:33,279
Speaker 1: means and what you're feeling right now. And by the way,

727
00:38:33,360 --> 00:38:36,759
Speaker 1: what I am feeling right now is that curiosity that

728
00:38:36,920 --> 00:38:40,560
Speaker 1: was in You gave me the space to say what

729
00:38:40,760 --> 00:38:43,399
Speaker 1: needed to be said so that you can hear what

730
00:38:43,440 --> 00:38:45,839
Speaker 1: you needed to hear. See, we're co creating this moment

731
00:38:45,920 --> 00:38:47,360
Speaker 1: right now. That's the way it happens.

732
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Speaker 3: That's so cool.

733
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Speaker 1: Yeah, because I've been on podcasts before like this is

734
00:38:51,360 --> 00:38:54,200
Speaker 1: I've spoken about this. I was on Lewis House's podcast, Yeah,

735
00:38:54,200 --> 00:38:57,279
Speaker 1: and I was a mess because his energy is very

736
00:38:57,360 --> 00:39:01,480
Speaker 1: like this and I was very like this and I

737
00:39:01,880 --> 00:39:04,160
Speaker 1: wasn't myself. Yeah, that's how it happened.

738
00:39:03,960 --> 00:39:05,680
Speaker 3: Because you're gl isn't that cool too?

739
00:39:05,680 --> 00:39:09,400
Speaker 2: Because also you think about partnerships, right The most important

740
00:39:09,400 --> 00:39:12,239
Speaker 2: thing that you choose in this life is a partner.

741
00:39:11,920 --> 00:39:13,040
Speaker 3: That you're gonna spend your life with.

742
00:39:13,320 --> 00:39:16,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, And when you think about people making those choices.

743
00:39:16,600 --> 00:39:19,960
Speaker 1: Without the tools, That's why I'm saying, go get your

744
00:39:20,040 --> 00:39:23,360
Speaker 1: human design, Go get the his human design, Go stick

745
00:39:23,360 --> 00:39:25,919
Speaker 1: it in a GPT and say, tell us about each other.

746
00:39:26,320 --> 00:39:29,239
Speaker 1: I'll give you an example. So when you look at

747
00:39:29,360 --> 00:39:32,279
Speaker 1: energy and when you look at human designs, you'll notice that,

748
00:39:32,360 --> 00:39:36,319
Speaker 1: like different parts of you are defined or undefined as

749
00:39:36,320 --> 00:39:41,760
Speaker 1: a reflector energetically, I'm undefined and I have an undefined spleen.

750
00:39:42,840 --> 00:39:46,160
Speaker 1: What happens when you have an undefined spleen is and

751
00:39:46,200 --> 00:39:48,040
Speaker 1: I bet you a bunch of compans will relate to this,

752
00:39:48,480 --> 00:39:51,359
Speaker 1: what happens when you have an undefined spleen is that,

753
00:39:51,520 --> 00:39:55,600
Speaker 1: like you outsource parts of your power onto your partner

754
00:39:56,320 --> 00:39:59,120
Speaker 1: and you don't do the things that you know that

755
00:39:59,200 --> 00:40:03,040
Speaker 1: you should do for or yourself, but you actually blame

756
00:40:03,160 --> 00:40:05,480
Speaker 1: them for it. And all of this is happening unconsciously

757
00:40:05,840 --> 00:40:09,320
Speaker 1: and it's all energetic, and no one has ever told

758
00:40:09,440 --> 00:40:11,920
Speaker 1: us like how this stuff works. That's why I talk

759
00:40:12,000 --> 00:40:14,359
Speaker 1: so much about it because once you discover it, you

760
00:40:14,400 --> 00:40:15,359
Speaker 1: want the world to know.

761
00:40:15,680 --> 00:40:18,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, so you you want to be the vessel to

762
00:40:18,239 --> 00:40:21,040
Speaker 2: allow people to experience the things you're experiencing that and

763
00:40:21,120 --> 00:40:23,240
Speaker 2: so you're in this place now and you're like, I haven't,

764
00:40:23,280 --> 00:40:24,320
Speaker 2: so why wouldn't I share it?

765
00:40:24,840 --> 00:40:27,200
Speaker 1: Yeah? And when I said I used to be afraid

766
00:40:27,239 --> 00:40:29,880
Speaker 1: of it is I literally used to think, if I

767
00:40:30,000 --> 00:40:32,160
Speaker 1: share this, they're gonna kill me. Because it was my

768
00:40:32,200 --> 00:40:34,920
Speaker 1: deepest fear of the fear of that Ye see how and.

769
00:40:34,880 --> 00:40:37,080
Speaker 2: When I'm assuming when you say they, it's just anybody

770
00:40:37,120 --> 00:40:41,359
Speaker 2: who thinks that you could be hurting a narrative that's

771
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Speaker 2: been created.

772
00:40:43,320 --> 00:40:46,400
Speaker 1: And what is happening right now because of social media

773
00:40:46,760 --> 00:40:52,080
Speaker 1: is all narratives are literally being destroyed. The political narrative

774
00:40:52,160 --> 00:40:56,120
Speaker 1: is being destroyed, the religious narrative is being destroyed. Everything

775
00:40:56,200 --> 00:40:59,879
Speaker 1: is out in the open, because that's how we act,

776
00:41:00,360 --> 00:41:04,600
Speaker 1: transcend darkness. It's we've been shoving it down forever. All

777
00:41:04,640 --> 00:41:07,479
Speaker 1: of the Epstein files, what happened with Charlie Kirk, all

778
00:41:07,520 --> 00:41:10,600
Speaker 1: of this stuff, it's all coming up into the light.

779
00:41:11,040 --> 00:41:13,040
Speaker 1: And the more that it comes up into the light,

780
00:41:13,160 --> 00:41:16,480
Speaker 1: the more that all human secrets they're just going to dissolve.

781
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Speaker 1: And the more that they dissolve, the more that fear dissolves,

782
00:41:19,360 --> 00:41:22,120
Speaker 1: and the more that fear dissolves, the more liberated we.

783
00:41:22,080 --> 00:41:24,319
Speaker 3: Actually go and love finally does win.

784
00:41:24,480 --> 00:41:24,960
Speaker 1: That's right.

785
00:41:26,920 --> 00:41:29,480
Speaker 3: Gosh, Yeah, I know it's not preaching, but like I

786
00:41:29,520 --> 00:41:30,919
Speaker 3: don't feel it, and it feels good.

787
00:41:30,960 --> 00:41:33,000
Speaker 2: It's a great feeling, and it's cool to hear you

788
00:41:33,040 --> 00:41:37,359
Speaker 2: talk and just to connect with somebody who truly puts

789
00:41:37,360 --> 00:41:39,640
Speaker 2: a lot of my feelings into words, because it's a

790
00:41:39,640 --> 00:41:41,440
Speaker 2: weird feeling when you have all these things and you

791
00:41:41,520 --> 00:41:43,720
Speaker 2: just they feel jumbled and they don't quite make sense.

792
00:41:44,400 --> 00:41:46,680
Speaker 3: But then when somebody says them, you're like, dah, that's

793
00:41:46,680 --> 00:41:48,160
Speaker 3: what I meant, That's what I wanted to hear.

794
00:41:48,960 --> 00:41:51,520
Speaker 2: I do love to end this podcast in a space

795
00:41:51,560 --> 00:41:53,080
Speaker 2: because I have a feeling I could keep you here

796
00:41:53,120 --> 00:41:53,400
Speaker 2: all day.

797
00:41:53,440 --> 00:41:54,160
Speaker 3: I'm not going to here.

798
00:41:54,239 --> 00:41:56,279
Speaker 2: You have places to be, things to do, But I

799
00:41:56,320 --> 00:41:59,080
Speaker 2: really like to end this podcast in a space where

800
00:41:59,200 --> 00:42:02,239
Speaker 2: either it's a piece of advice, motivation, inspiration, or maybe

801
00:42:02,239 --> 00:42:04,560
Speaker 2: something we just didn't get to that you feel heavy

802
00:42:04,560 --> 00:42:05,400
Speaker 2: on your heart to share.

803
00:42:05,520 --> 00:42:06,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, and go anywhere.

804
00:42:07,160 --> 00:42:09,560
Speaker 1: Yeah. The greatest piece of advice I have for anyone

805
00:42:09,680 --> 00:42:14,480
Speaker 1: listening is that absolutely everything in your life that has

806
00:42:14,560 --> 00:42:19,440
Speaker 1: happened prior to today, all of it has happened for you.

807
00:42:21,280 --> 00:42:25,239
Speaker 1: And the thing that keeps you from seeing that is

808
00:42:25,400 --> 00:42:29,880
Speaker 1: the resistance that you have for it. And the most

809
00:42:29,880 --> 00:42:33,880
Speaker 1: important thing that you can heal is the relationship that

810
00:42:33,920 --> 00:42:38,680
Speaker 1: you have with your mother involvement, because any negative energy

811
00:42:38,719 --> 00:42:42,120
Speaker 1: that you have with your mother, negative energy that you

812
00:42:42,200 --> 00:42:46,239
Speaker 1: have with yourself and your heart, Any negative energy that

813
00:42:46,280 --> 00:42:49,239
Speaker 1: you have with your father, it's negative energy that you

814
00:42:49,320 --> 00:42:53,160
Speaker 1: have with your masculine and other people, because your father

815
00:42:53,320 --> 00:42:57,359
Speaker 1: literally teaches you how to relate to others. So when

816
00:42:57,400 --> 00:43:01,200
Speaker 1: you are attracting partners that aren't meeting you, that aren't

817
00:43:01,239 --> 00:43:05,000
Speaker 1: loving you, and that aren't choosing you, it is somehow

818
00:43:05,040 --> 00:43:07,799
Speaker 1: connected to the relationship that you had with your father.

819
00:43:08,400 --> 00:43:10,759
Speaker 1: And when you're in a constant state of anxiousness and

820
00:43:10,880 --> 00:43:14,640
Speaker 1: worthy and unworthiness and self doubt and fear and not

821
00:43:14,760 --> 00:43:17,759
Speaker 1: feeling connected and not able to own your truth, it's

822
00:43:17,800 --> 00:43:20,480
Speaker 1: because of something that you experience with your mother. And

823
00:43:20,520 --> 00:43:23,719
Speaker 1: this is why healing is so important. And I would

824
00:43:23,760 --> 00:43:27,319
Speaker 1: say that if you want to start understand once and

825
00:43:27,360 --> 00:43:31,279
Speaker 1: for law, that the only pain that your mother and

826
00:43:31,360 --> 00:43:34,600
Speaker 1: father could have ever passed down to you is pain

827
00:43:34,680 --> 00:43:37,719
Speaker 1: that they received as little boys and girls from their

828
00:43:37,800 --> 00:43:40,319
Speaker 1: mother and father. And that's when you get to go,

829
00:43:40,440 --> 00:43:43,200
Speaker 1: Wait a minute, It's either I resist and hold on

830
00:43:43,600 --> 00:43:46,040
Speaker 1: or I let go and I allow myself to forgive

831
00:43:46,080 --> 00:43:49,120
Speaker 1: them and see them and see their pain in them.

832
00:43:49,200 --> 00:43:52,040
Speaker 1: And that's where everything heals is when you can look back,

833
00:43:52,520 --> 00:43:55,640
Speaker 1: offer forgiveness, offer love, and your whole life will literally

834
00:43:55,680 --> 00:43:56,440
Speaker 1: change for everyone.

835
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Speaker 2: Mat you mentioned the little boys little girl's moment one

836
00:43:59,560 --> 00:44:02,400
Speaker 2: of my favorite things to say to people. When I

837
00:44:02,600 --> 00:44:06,440
Speaker 2: hear they're having difficult relationships with families, you do realize

838
00:44:06,440 --> 00:44:09,359
Speaker 2: it's also their first time going through life too, right,

839
00:44:09,719 --> 00:44:10,600
Speaker 2: they're still learning.

840
00:44:10,760 --> 00:44:13,120
Speaker 3: That's right, and again, didn't.

841
00:44:12,840 --> 00:44:15,040
Speaker 2: Have a lot of tools and resources that we have now,

842
00:44:16,400 --> 00:44:17,840
Speaker 2: and there has to be grace given.

843
00:44:17,920 --> 00:44:19,080
Speaker 3: I'm not saying you have to.

844
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Speaker 2: Forgive and forget in that moment, but understanding that they're

845
00:44:23,080 --> 00:44:25,560
Speaker 2: also a human that is experiencing things for the first

846
00:44:25,560 --> 00:44:26,120
Speaker 2: time too.

847
00:44:27,520 --> 00:44:30,240
Speaker 3: Almost takes out the relationship and makes the more human.

848
00:44:30,400 --> 00:44:30,960
Speaker 1: That's right.

849
00:44:31,080 --> 00:44:32,560
Speaker 3: That's right, and that's what you mentioned.

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Speaker 1: It opens you up to allowing you could literally just

851
00:44:35,280 --> 00:44:37,960
Speaker 1: tell God say I'm ready to forgive my mother, I'm

852
00:44:37,960 --> 00:44:40,200
Speaker 1: ready to forgive my father. I don't know how to

853
00:44:40,239 --> 00:44:42,719
Speaker 1: do that. I don't know how to forgive. I don't

854
00:44:42,719 --> 00:44:45,799
Speaker 1: know how to open my heart. I actually don't want

855
00:44:45,800 --> 00:44:49,000
Speaker 1: to do this. Every part of me is telling me

856
00:44:49,200 --> 00:44:52,879
Speaker 1: to keep holding anger towards them, but I can see

857
00:44:52,880 --> 00:44:56,279
Speaker 1: how that's hurting. So meet me where I'm at, Show

858
00:44:56,320 --> 00:44:58,600
Speaker 1: me the path, bring me the people, bring me the

859
00:44:58,640 --> 00:45:02,000
Speaker 1: circumstances that would all allow me to forgive them. Because

860
00:45:02,000 --> 00:45:04,279
Speaker 1: I'm finally starting to realize that the pain that I

861
00:45:04,320 --> 00:45:07,840
Speaker 1: harbor towards them is actually pain that I'm harboring towards myself.

862
00:45:08,360 --> 00:45:10,080
Speaker 1: And all you have to do is speak that into

863
00:45:10,200 --> 00:45:13,840
Speaker 1: existence and forget about the how and watch how literally

864
00:45:13,920 --> 00:45:17,680
Speaker 1: life will magically start to bring you whatever help and

865
00:45:17,719 --> 00:45:20,759
Speaker 1: support you need to forgive the people that you need

866
00:45:20,800 --> 00:45:21,680
Speaker 1: to forgive the most.

867
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Speaker 2: That's so powerful and truthfully, I don't know that you

868
00:45:24,719 --> 00:45:27,680
Speaker 2: can hit on anything more important in this moment, so

869
00:45:27,880 --> 00:45:30,279
Speaker 2: it's a perfect place to end. Check out Danny's book,

870
00:45:30,320 --> 00:45:33,399
Speaker 2: Awaken Your Highest Self. You'll love it if you loved him.

871
00:45:33,560 --> 00:45:34,879
Speaker 2: The book is just more of that.

872
00:45:35,040 --> 00:45:37,880
Speaker 1: The website is awakenbook dot com.

873
00:45:37,440 --> 00:45:39,800
Speaker 2: Perfect and he has all all kinds of content on

874
00:45:39,840 --> 00:45:43,680
Speaker 2: your Instagram. Yeah yeah, there's all kinds of stuff there too,

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Speaker 2: so check it all out.

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Speaker 3: But it sounds like I'll.

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Speaker 2: Be doing some meditating coming up and these next few weeks,

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Speaker 2: So Danny, thank you for being here. I know interviews

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Speaker 2: like this one can be challenging because they may bring

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Speaker 2: up our own belief systems or internal values, but that's

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Speaker 2: where so much of our own personal work begins. This

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Speaker 2: interview opened up something and you, like it did for me,

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Speaker 2: you can check out Danny's new book linked in the

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Speaker 2: show notes, and while you're there, subscribe it up. Let

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Speaker 2: me know who you want to hear from on this podcast,

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Speaker 2: and don't forget. You can watch on YouTube or follow

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Speaker 2: along on social media at take this personally. I'm so

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Speaker 2: happy that you're here.

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Speaker 3: I love you. Bye.