1 00:00:00,360 --> 00:00:03,160 Speaker 1: Stories on Earth. I'm Sam and John. I got some 2 00:00:03,200 --> 00:00:07,560 Speaker 1: stories about ex husband's ex relationships and this story is 3 00:00:08,200 --> 00:00:12,039 Speaker 1: my fiance left me at the altar and it comes 4 00:00:12,080 --> 00:00:17,079 Speaker 1: from friend and seven Let's go and they say, yesterday 5 00:00:17,440 --> 00:00:20,520 Speaker 1: was supposed to be one of the happiest days of 6 00:00:20,560 --> 00:00:24,680 Speaker 1: my life and it turned out to be the worst. Ouch. Yeah, 7 00:00:24,840 --> 00:00:28,000 Speaker 1: my fiance never showed up to the ceremony, leaving me 8 00:00:28,120 --> 00:00:34,600 Speaker 1: at the altar rough that is rough. His friends and 9 00:00:34,640 --> 00:00:36,640 Speaker 1: family tried to get a hold of him, but all 10 00:00:36,760 --> 00:00:40,440 Speaker 1: calls went straight to voicemail. After waiting an hour for him, 11 00:00:40,560 --> 00:00:43,159 Speaker 1: I told my guests that there wasn't going to be 12 00:00:43,159 --> 00:00:46,000 Speaker 1: a wedding. I opened the reception hall and told them 13 00:00:46,040 --> 00:00:49,159 Speaker 1: to enjoy the food and open bar. Even if there 14 00:00:49,200 --> 00:00:51,640 Speaker 1: was no ceremony. I still wanted them to have a 15 00:00:51,680 --> 00:00:54,680 Speaker 1: good time and enjoy the food and drinks. I tried 16 00:00:54,680 --> 00:00:57,360 Speaker 1: to call him a couple of times, but after three 17 00:00:57,480 --> 00:01:01,800 Speaker 1: more failed calls, I just stopped and told everyone else 18 00:01:02,240 --> 00:01:05,120 Speaker 1: who were trying to get a hold of him to stop. 19 00:01:07,720 --> 00:01:09,560 Speaker 2: That is brutal. 20 00:01:09,760 --> 00:01:13,280 Speaker 1: Starting off heavy, that is brutal. Also shout out to 21 00:01:13,360 --> 00:01:18,720 Speaker 1: everyone who's just joined the stream. Recap is Opie was 22 00:01:18,880 --> 00:01:19,679 Speaker 1: left at the altar. 23 00:01:20,000 --> 00:01:20,440 Speaker 2: That's it. 24 00:01:20,560 --> 00:01:21,840 Speaker 1: That's it, that's what happened. 25 00:01:21,880 --> 00:01:22,360 Speaker 2: That's it. 26 00:01:22,640 --> 00:01:27,480 Speaker 1: Wow, man, Opie was left at the altar. So I 27 00:01:27,520 --> 00:01:31,679 Speaker 1: didn't cry. I wasn't going to cry, at least not 28 00:01:31,760 --> 00:01:34,200 Speaker 1: in front of everyone. His mother came to me and 29 00:01:34,240 --> 00:01:38,520 Speaker 1: apologized through tears. She told me how disappointed she was 30 00:01:38,560 --> 00:01:42,039 Speaker 1: in him and that she was so sorry. Op he 31 00:01:42,240 --> 00:01:45,960 Speaker 1: is the girl. I think, yes, it's the girl. Yeah, 32 00:01:46,840 --> 00:01:50,720 Speaker 1: oh man, that's so rough. That's so rough. His own 33 00:01:50,920 --> 00:01:59,680 Speaker 1: mother is like, guy's a wanker, anker. I just shook 34 00:01:59,680 --> 00:02:02,400 Speaker 1: my head and stuck with her the entire time. I 35 00:02:02,440 --> 00:02:05,280 Speaker 1: didn't want her to cry and feel bad for something 36 00:02:05,520 --> 00:02:09,520 Speaker 1: that wasn't her fault. And shout out Ireland mahoney for 37 00:02:09,560 --> 00:02:15,120 Speaker 1: the five bucks. Yo to you as well, but also 38 00:02:15,200 --> 00:02:20,560 Speaker 1: not yo to Opie who's dying inside. So for everyone 39 00:02:20,600 --> 00:02:22,960 Speaker 1: who just came in. Opie got left at the altar. 40 00:02:23,760 --> 00:02:26,480 Speaker 1: The real MVPs were all of my friends. They did 41 00:02:26,480 --> 00:02:29,360 Speaker 1: their absolute best to keep things from being awkward and 42 00:02:29,560 --> 00:02:32,240 Speaker 1: entertain everyone. They played music, dance, and one of them 43 00:02:32,240 --> 00:02:34,959 Speaker 1: went as far as back going back home to bring 44 00:02:35,000 --> 00:02:38,280 Speaker 1: a projector in a game system for all the kids 45 00:02:38,280 --> 00:02:40,960 Speaker 1: and teens to play against each other with I was 46 00:02:41,000 --> 00:02:44,400 Speaker 1: glad that the day was somewhat saved, I mean. 47 00:02:46,440 --> 00:02:48,079 Speaker 3: Made less of a complete disaster. 48 00:02:48,280 --> 00:02:53,360 Speaker 1: But yeah, I mean, like, yes, it is cool to 49 00:02:53,400 --> 00:02:56,640 Speaker 1: play video games when you get left at the altar 50 00:02:56,800 --> 00:02:59,920 Speaker 1: instead of just crying. But I don't know if it 51 00:02:59,960 --> 00:03:02,360 Speaker 1: was saved. Being saved would be like, oh, your husband 52 00:03:02,400 --> 00:03:05,440 Speaker 1: just got like, you know, uh, into a massive car 53 00:03:05,480 --> 00:03:08,280 Speaker 1: accident and he still wanted to be there, and then 54 00:03:08,320 --> 00:03:10,920 Speaker 1: he like limped across the aisle because he loved you 55 00:03:10,960 --> 00:03:13,359 Speaker 1: so much that he wanted to marry you. I mean, damn, 56 00:03:13,400 --> 00:03:16,520 Speaker 1: that sounds like a movie or something. Yeah, yeah that 57 00:03:16,720 --> 00:03:20,200 Speaker 1: I honestly I want to make that movie. I was 58 00:03:20,280 --> 00:03:22,640 Speaker 1: so glad that the day was somewhat saved, but I 59 00:03:22,639 --> 00:03:25,680 Speaker 1: still felt horrible. My would be brother in law, Ethan 60 00:03:25,840 --> 00:03:28,200 Speaker 1: kept me from getting ship faced, which is what I 61 00:03:28,240 --> 00:03:30,000 Speaker 1: really wanted to do, told me that it would be 62 00:03:30,000 --> 00:03:32,680 Speaker 1: awkward if I did, so, I did my best to 63 00:03:32,760 --> 00:03:37,400 Speaker 1: keep everyone happy. I think I would understand. Yeah, if 64 00:03:37,440 --> 00:03:40,920 Speaker 1: I got left at the altar, like I could, or 65 00:03:41,040 --> 00:03:43,920 Speaker 1: if anyone got left at the altar, I could understand, like, yeah, 66 00:03:44,120 --> 00:03:46,640 Speaker 1: you know, take a couple of shots. They deserve you 67 00:03:46,760 --> 00:03:52,720 Speaker 1: deserve it. Yeah, and Tia Mooran for the TLDR. The recap. Basically, 68 00:03:52,800 --> 00:03:56,720 Speaker 1: Op got left at the altar and is dealing with 69 00:03:56,920 --> 00:04:01,800 Speaker 1: the fallout from that. So after eleven I told everyone 70 00:04:01,800 --> 00:04:05,200 Speaker 1: who brought bought gifts to take them back and get 71 00:04:05,280 --> 00:04:08,400 Speaker 1: their money back. A few of them refused and had 72 00:04:08,480 --> 00:04:11,000 Speaker 1: me keep the gifts they got. So now I'm back 73 00:04:11,000 --> 00:04:16,159 Speaker 1: at the hotel we got and I'm alone. I'm alone. 74 00:04:16,680 --> 00:04:18,560 Speaker 1: This morning I got a couple of misscalls from my 75 00:04:18,600 --> 00:04:22,160 Speaker 1: fiance and several messages that I haven't opened up yet. 76 00:04:22,279 --> 00:04:26,080 Speaker 1: So the fiance is suddenly like, hey, let me tell 77 00:04:26,080 --> 00:04:30,400 Speaker 1: you why uh why didn't you tell me earlier exactly 78 00:04:30,480 --> 00:04:32,479 Speaker 1: And shout out to Lindsay for the five buck tip. 79 00:04:32,560 --> 00:04:34,920 Speaker 1: Love y'all, thanks for boosting my mood this evening. We 80 00:04:34,960 --> 00:04:38,440 Speaker 1: will boost your mood anytime. Big mood boost and anyone 81 00:04:38,520 --> 00:04:42,240 Speaker 1: who has just joined the stream. Basically, Op got left 82 00:04:42,279 --> 00:04:44,120 Speaker 1: at the altar and is just trying to make the 83 00:04:44,160 --> 00:04:45,479 Speaker 1: best of a bad situation. 84 00:04:45,880 --> 00:04:46,200 Speaker 2: Trying. 85 00:04:46,520 --> 00:04:49,839 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean like all right, of the things of 86 00:04:49,960 --> 00:04:53,720 Speaker 1: the douchebaggery, like the douchebag meter of like a husband 87 00:04:53,720 --> 00:04:56,440 Speaker 1: that's gonna get married one is like showing up to 88 00:04:56,440 --> 00:04:58,880 Speaker 1: the wedding drunk and still getting married all right. Two 89 00:04:59,040 --> 00:05:02,200 Speaker 1: is not showing up in the like the marriage and 90 00:05:02,200 --> 00:05:06,120 Speaker 1: then like just saying like, hey, sorry, I got cold feet, douchebag, 91 00:05:06,200 --> 00:05:11,279 Speaker 1: right right. Worse the worst is ghosting your own wife 92 00:05:11,520 --> 00:05:15,240 Speaker 1: before the marriage and saying nothing, you're ghosting everybody. You're ghosting. 93 00:05:15,279 --> 00:05:21,560 Speaker 1: You're ghosting your whole family. That yeh family, Like absolutely awful. 94 00:05:21,920 --> 00:05:25,360 Speaker 1: I'm so angry at him. He humiliated me yesterday but 95 00:05:25,520 --> 00:05:27,560 Speaker 1: not showing up when he could have told me he 96 00:05:27,600 --> 00:05:30,239 Speaker 1: was getting cold feet like a fucking normal human. 97 00:05:30,400 --> 00:05:32,120 Speaker 2: Yeah. 98 00:05:32,560 --> 00:05:35,080 Speaker 1: I had my friend message him that I wanted to 99 00:05:35,080 --> 00:05:37,680 Speaker 1: be left alone. Also, Cia Roberts shout out for the 100 00:05:37,720 --> 00:05:40,039 Speaker 1: ten bucks and not leaving us alone. Me and my 101 00:05:40,080 --> 00:05:42,640 Speaker 1: fiance love the show. I hope he doesn't leave you 102 00:05:42,680 --> 00:05:46,120 Speaker 1: at the altar. Please put him in the stream right now, 103 00:05:47,120 --> 00:05:50,080 Speaker 1: make him commit to you and Lost Galaxy. Thanks for 104 00:05:50,120 --> 00:05:52,159 Speaker 1: the ten bucks. Thanks for everything y'all do. Thanks for 105 00:05:52,160 --> 00:05:55,400 Speaker 1: everything you do. I had my friend message him that 106 00:05:55,440 --> 00:05:57,200 Speaker 1: I want to be left alone and that if he 107 00:05:57,279 --> 00:05:59,159 Speaker 1: showed up to my hotel room, I was going to 108 00:05:59,279 --> 00:06:03,479 Speaker 1: call my brothers to have him removed. So far, he 109 00:06:03,560 --> 00:06:06,320 Speaker 1: hasn't shown up. But I'm getting phone calls from his friends, 110 00:06:06,360 --> 00:06:09,880 Speaker 1: probably all wanting me to speak to him. I don't 111 00:06:09,920 --> 00:06:12,359 Speaker 1: know if it's me being shallow or not, but I'm 112 00:06:12,640 --> 00:06:16,840 Speaker 1: rethinking our entire relationship and whether or not I see 113 00:06:16,839 --> 00:06:21,120 Speaker 1: a future with him. Rethinking. Of course, you're gonna rethink 114 00:06:21,160 --> 00:06:23,880 Speaker 1: your entire relationship if you are left at the altar, 115 00:06:24,080 --> 00:06:28,680 Speaker 1: not left ghosted as the altar, leave him, leave him 116 00:06:28,800 --> 00:06:30,800 Speaker 1: you only thought you need to think. But you know 117 00:06:30,839 --> 00:06:33,400 Speaker 1: who shouldn't leave us alone is closing mouse. Thanks for 118 00:06:33,440 --> 00:06:36,320 Speaker 1: the twenty bucks and shout out to you getting paid. 119 00:06:36,640 --> 00:06:38,559 Speaker 2: Hey, thanks for sure. 120 00:06:38,760 --> 00:06:42,120 Speaker 1: So another issue is that I have an extra plane ticket. 121 00:06:43,000 --> 00:06:45,960 Speaker 1: It was supposed to be for our honeymoon, but since 122 00:06:45,960 --> 00:06:49,920 Speaker 1: the fiance isn't here, I decided to enjoy my little 123 00:06:49,920 --> 00:06:54,000 Speaker 1: getaway vacation for myself. A couple of friends are coming 124 00:06:54,040 --> 00:06:56,760 Speaker 1: with me, but not for another week since they gotta 125 00:06:56,800 --> 00:06:59,640 Speaker 1: get childcare, put vacation time in, et cetera, so they 126 00:06:59,720 --> 00:07:02,880 Speaker 1: can't come since his last second. To be honest, I 127 00:07:03,040 --> 00:07:06,719 Speaker 1: want to invite Ethan because I've never traveled anywhere in 128 00:07:06,760 --> 00:07:12,240 Speaker 1: my life. I'm guessing Ethan is the yeah I know 129 00:07:12,400 --> 00:07:14,600 Speaker 1: he's been to where I'm going and I want him 130 00:07:14,640 --> 00:07:16,600 Speaker 1: to come so he can be there to show us 131 00:07:16,640 --> 00:07:20,080 Speaker 1: the places to be at. Ethan told me he'd go 132 00:07:20,240 --> 00:07:22,320 Speaker 1: for me, but should I invite him? 133 00:07:22,840 --> 00:07:23,040 Speaker 2: Wait? 134 00:07:23,120 --> 00:07:26,200 Speaker 1: I'm confused is Ethan? I don't know if we got 135 00:07:26,400 --> 00:07:29,480 Speaker 1: I don't know if we got actual names beforehand, so 136 00:07:30,000 --> 00:07:33,400 Speaker 1: I'm a little confused. I think it might be Ethan 137 00:07:33,480 --> 00:07:35,440 Speaker 1: is the fiance, but I think we'll get more information 138 00:07:35,520 --> 00:07:38,680 Speaker 1: on that soon. Yeah. Also, do we just gonna Spiffy 139 00:07:38,760 --> 00:07:43,440 Speaker 1: Tiffy just gifted ten memberships to the Little Sillies. Come on, 140 00:07:43,600 --> 00:07:48,320 Speaker 1: let's fucking go. Let Spiffy Tiffy And for everyone who's 141 00:07:48,360 --> 00:07:50,520 Speaker 1: just joining the stream. Oh, he got left at the altar, 142 00:07:50,880 --> 00:07:54,400 Speaker 1: ghosted at the altar in fact, and Uh is deciding 143 00:07:54,440 --> 00:07:58,760 Speaker 1: to maybe still go on her honeymoon potentially with the fiance. 144 00:07:59,040 --> 00:08:00,720 Speaker 1: To be honest, I want to have a Ethan because 145 00:08:00,720 --> 00:08:03,040 Speaker 1: I've never traveled anywhere in my life. I know he's 146 00:08:03,080 --> 00:08:04,680 Speaker 1: been to where I'm going, and I want him to 147 00:08:04,720 --> 00:08:06,880 Speaker 1: be there so he can be there to show us 148 00:08:06,880 --> 00:08:09,040 Speaker 1: the places to be at. Ethan told me he'd go 149 00:08:09,120 --> 00:08:12,040 Speaker 1: for me, but should I invite him? I asked Ethan's 150 00:08:12,080 --> 00:08:14,600 Speaker 1: mom and she was all for it, but I don't 151 00:08:14,640 --> 00:08:18,040 Speaker 1: know if it'll cause drama. Any advice? Okay, I'm a 152 00:08:18,080 --> 00:08:20,600 Speaker 1: little confused. Who ethanis. I don't think Ethan is a fiance. 153 00:08:20,840 --> 00:08:23,880 Speaker 1: Oh maybe he's like, Oh, my would be brother in law. 154 00:08:24,440 --> 00:08:28,840 Speaker 1: I would be brother in law. My would be brother 155 00:08:28,920 --> 00:08:33,560 Speaker 1: in law. Oh so that is the the fiance who 156 00:08:33,760 --> 00:08:38,840 Speaker 1: ghosted opis brother? Is that a I see you in 157 00:08:38,880 --> 00:08:41,760 Speaker 1: the chat. I see you in the chat. If you 158 00:08:41,760 --> 00:08:43,880 Speaker 1: think they're going to fall in love on this honeymoon, 159 00:08:44,000 --> 00:08:46,439 Speaker 1: I mean I think I see it. I think I 160 00:08:46,480 --> 00:08:50,040 Speaker 1: see it too, I see you. I yeah, Okay, thank you. Yeah, 161 00:08:50,040 --> 00:08:53,640 Speaker 1: Ethan is the brother in law. Sorry, I now realize that. 162 00:08:53,679 --> 00:08:56,160 Speaker 2: Thanks for help, y'all. Uh. 163 00:08:56,200 --> 00:08:58,599 Speaker 1: And also question, well, John that we were about to 164 00:08:58,640 --> 00:09:01,040 Speaker 1: get into an edit. Where about to get into some 165 00:09:01,120 --> 00:09:04,920 Speaker 1: relevant comments and we're about to get into a juicy 166 00:09:05,120 --> 00:09:09,880 Speaker 1: up date. But do you think Opie should go to 167 00:09:10,120 --> 00:09:13,240 Speaker 1: the I like, I guess take this trip that was 168 00:09:13,280 --> 00:09:16,359 Speaker 1: gonna be honeymoon with the brother in law, so basically 169 00:09:16,640 --> 00:09:18,320 Speaker 1: the fiance's brother. 170 00:09:19,120 --> 00:09:23,040 Speaker 4: I think what she should do is completely step away 171 00:09:23,040 --> 00:09:26,400 Speaker 4: from everything that family related to give herself some time, 172 00:09:26,440 --> 00:09:28,480 Speaker 4: like go with her friends, go with I don't know 173 00:09:28,480 --> 00:09:32,280 Speaker 4: her mom or sister, someone else or someone like who 174 00:09:32,320 --> 00:09:32,840 Speaker 4: just tipped us? 175 00:09:33,640 --> 00:09:37,680 Speaker 1: That's right, loyal worms have gathered. But where is our worm, queen? Riley, 176 00:09:37,920 --> 00:09:41,480 Speaker 1: show the worm. Show them your queen is here, so 177 00:09:41,600 --> 00:09:41,960 Speaker 1: he has. 178 00:09:41,920 --> 00:09:45,440 Speaker 3: Learning to produce, So the worm queen is here. Ladies 179 00:09:45,480 --> 00:09:46,280 Speaker 3: and gentlemen, fear not. 180 00:09:46,760 --> 00:09:48,880 Speaker 4: But yes, I do think that she should be as 181 00:09:48,880 --> 00:09:51,480 Speaker 4: far away from anyone in the family as possible, because 182 00:09:51,480 --> 00:09:54,319 Speaker 4: I think it could trigger thoughts. But if I could 183 00:09:54,400 --> 00:09:59,840 Speaker 4: maybe put the conspiracy theory and guess some can sp 184 00:10:00,080 --> 00:10:04,000 Speaker 4: you're a c theories that just might happen. And ladies 185 00:10:04,000 --> 00:10:11,960 Speaker 4: and gentlemen, we've entered ours. That's all right, so shout 186 00:10:11,960 --> 00:10:15,480 Speaker 4: out to the transitions. But my conspiracy theory is that 187 00:10:15,640 --> 00:10:19,640 Speaker 4: she will fall in love with the brother and they 188 00:10:19,760 --> 00:10:22,640 Speaker 4: will start to conspire on how to get back to 189 00:10:22,679 --> 00:10:26,000 Speaker 4: the family to break the news, and then the brother, 190 00:10:26,160 --> 00:10:28,560 Speaker 4: the original groom, is going to be like how how 191 00:10:28,600 --> 00:10:30,840 Speaker 4: could you? How dare you? And then he's gonna be like, 192 00:10:31,240 --> 00:10:33,320 Speaker 4: how dare you? You left me at the altar? 193 00:10:33,440 --> 00:10:37,320 Speaker 1: And also like talk like I know it must be hard, 194 00:10:37,400 --> 00:10:40,839 Speaker 1: and take as much time as you need. I mean, 195 00:10:40,960 --> 00:10:44,040 Speaker 1: like so like for legitimate advice too, like take as 196 00:10:44,120 --> 00:10:46,920 Speaker 1: much time you need. But do you think she should 197 00:10:47,520 --> 00:10:50,760 Speaker 1: ever open up the texts and the messages from a freance. 198 00:10:51,040 --> 00:10:55,319 Speaker 4: Probably not unless there's some crazy thing that comes out 199 00:10:55,320 --> 00:10:55,920 Speaker 4: of the woodwork. 200 00:10:56,400 --> 00:10:59,320 Speaker 1: I would open it up, just I would be too curious. Dude, 201 00:10:59,440 --> 00:11:00,520 Speaker 1: I don't think I can could. 202 00:11:00,320 --> 00:11:02,760 Speaker 3: Not you like you probably shouldn't, but it's. 203 00:11:02,640 --> 00:11:03,680 Speaker 2: Just how can you? 204 00:11:03,720 --> 00:11:05,920 Speaker 1: It's so juicy? What is in there? I want to 205 00:11:05,960 --> 00:11:09,320 Speaker 1: know and I think we may find out the update. 206 00:11:09,480 --> 00:11:12,720 Speaker 1: Let's go to the element comments first. Okay, so back 207 00:11:12,760 --> 00:11:17,320 Speaker 1: to reality. So editor's note, Some posters wonder if the 208 00:11:17,360 --> 00:11:19,880 Speaker 1: fiance was in a car accident or something, and people 209 00:11:19,920 --> 00:11:22,800 Speaker 1: want to know what was in the messages he sent. 210 00:11:23,960 --> 00:11:26,120 Speaker 2: So let's get this juice. Let's squeeze this juice. 211 00:11:26,120 --> 00:11:30,160 Speaker 1: So Opie's responses. My maid of honor checked if there 212 00:11:30,160 --> 00:11:32,480 Speaker 1: were any accidents in the area when he didn't show up. 213 00:11:32,520 --> 00:11:34,679 Speaker 1: So far nothing, but I'm sure his parents would have 214 00:11:34,720 --> 00:11:37,080 Speaker 1: gotten hold of me if he was in an accident, 215 00:11:37,160 --> 00:11:40,280 Speaker 1: and so far no. If it was an emergency, I'm 216 00:11:40,320 --> 00:11:42,080 Speaker 1: sure his family would have gotten hold of me. He 217 00:11:42,200 --> 00:11:45,080 Speaker 1: sent me messages, but I haven't read them yet. I'm 218 00:11:45,080 --> 00:11:46,800 Speaker 1: going to wait until I'm out of state to read 219 00:11:46,800 --> 00:11:49,120 Speaker 1: them what if Like the messages are like, babe, I'm 220 00:11:49,120 --> 00:11:50,319 Speaker 1: on the ground. 221 00:11:50,840 --> 00:11:57,120 Speaker 2: I'm dying. I need you know what? Good? Good die? 222 00:11:57,960 --> 00:11:59,320 Speaker 2: You know what. If he was on the way to 223 00:11:59,360 --> 00:12:01,760 Speaker 2: the oh. 224 00:12:01,640 --> 00:12:03,160 Speaker 1: Then don't die. Then don't die. 225 00:12:03,200 --> 00:12:05,320 Speaker 4: And then if that's the scenario, then don't die. If 226 00:12:05,360 --> 00:12:07,679 Speaker 4: you were leaving to go to your mistress. 227 00:12:07,320 --> 00:12:08,600 Speaker 2: Then die. Yeah, just die. 228 00:12:09,280 --> 00:12:14,600 Speaker 1: So uh, there's a heavily downvoted comment. Seems like Ethan 229 00:12:14,800 --> 00:12:18,400 Speaker 1: genuinely cares about you. Stop you from drinking your hurt, 230 00:12:18,600 --> 00:12:21,160 Speaker 1: and to be honest, who cares if it causes drama? 231 00:12:21,280 --> 00:12:24,640 Speaker 1: He left you at his alter. His brother looked after 232 00:12:24,760 --> 00:12:28,720 Speaker 1: you take the brother. If something happens, then maybe it 233 00:12:28,760 --> 00:12:31,719 Speaker 1: was meant to be. Don't force anything because then it 234 00:12:31,760 --> 00:12:36,680 Speaker 1: will be forever awkward. It sounds like there that sounds 235 00:12:36,720 --> 00:12:40,160 Speaker 1: like terrible advice. Yeah, that sounds like terrible advice. If 236 00:12:40,160 --> 00:12:43,679 Speaker 1: you want a drama filled life, then yes go. If 237 00:12:43,720 --> 00:12:47,160 Speaker 1: you want the tea to be piping hot, then uh, 238 00:12:47,320 --> 00:12:50,920 Speaker 1: maybe go on this honeymoon with the brother of your fiance. 239 00:12:51,400 --> 00:12:53,920 Speaker 1: But if you want like a peaceful life, maybe don't. 240 00:12:54,600 --> 00:12:54,880 Speaker 5: I don't. 241 00:12:54,920 --> 00:12:56,640 Speaker 4: I don't think you want to burn your tongue after 242 00:12:56,720 --> 00:12:58,800 Speaker 4: you've been burned Alive with the altar. 243 00:12:58,720 --> 00:13:01,920 Speaker 1: Exactly, and also to Teresa G for the five bucks. 244 00:13:02,440 --> 00:13:05,720 Speaker 1: Hello for the up of Michigan. Love the live streams well, 245 00:13:05,760 --> 00:13:08,640 Speaker 1: we love interacting with y'all in the live streams. And yes, 246 00:13:09,120 --> 00:13:12,000 Speaker 1: Celia five three one, thank you for the TLDR. I 247 00:13:12,040 --> 00:13:14,400 Speaker 1: really appreciate what you guys. To the TLDR, I'm gonna 248 00:13:14,440 --> 00:13:17,160 Speaker 1: read that actually right now. So TLDR groom stood up 249 00:13:17,160 --> 00:13:19,840 Speaker 1: the bride op on wedding day. No one knows why 250 00:13:19,920 --> 00:13:22,559 Speaker 1: brother in law hit on the bride at the sad 251 00:13:22,640 --> 00:13:25,200 Speaker 1: after party. She's now wondering if she should take the 252 00:13:25,280 --> 00:13:29,120 Speaker 1: brother Ethan to the honeymoon. Shout out to Celia, Hey, 253 00:13:29,360 --> 00:13:31,880 Speaker 1: whoever has We're gonna read him. Yeah, throw him in 254 00:13:31,920 --> 00:13:32,240 Speaker 1: the chat. 255 00:13:32,320 --> 00:13:32,679 Speaker 2: Thank you? 256 00:13:33,600 --> 00:13:36,160 Speaker 1: Okay, so OPI replied, Yeah, Ethan is a good guy 257 00:13:36,200 --> 00:13:38,600 Speaker 1: and I doubt anything would happen between us. I've seen 258 00:13:38,600 --> 00:13:41,640 Speaker 1: his ex girlfriends and I'm nowhere near his type. We 259 00:13:41,760 --> 00:13:44,080 Speaker 1: definitely keep each other's back. So what does that mean? 260 00:13:45,720 --> 00:13:49,800 Speaker 4: It means that she's making excuses as to why it's fine. 261 00:13:49,480 --> 00:13:51,480 Speaker 1: For them to go on this trip. Yeah, that's what 262 00:13:51,520 --> 00:13:54,560 Speaker 1: that means. And then Opie's respond to people advising against 263 00:13:54,679 --> 00:13:58,720 Speaker 1: inviting Ethan. Okay, so don't invite Ethan, got it? Maybe 264 00:13:58,800 --> 00:14:02,200 Speaker 1: I asked Ethan's sister. I really don't know anything about traveling, 265 00:14:02,240 --> 00:14:04,360 Speaker 1: so I kind of want to just go to someone 266 00:14:04,360 --> 00:14:05,120 Speaker 1: who has a clue. 267 00:14:05,280 --> 00:14:08,280 Speaker 4: Isn't there anyone outside of this family that has traveled 268 00:14:08,320 --> 00:14:09,160 Speaker 4: before that. 269 00:14:09,280 --> 00:14:12,360 Speaker 1: The past or just like just I don't know if 270 00:14:12,360 --> 00:14:14,760 Speaker 1: you need to have someone that knows that country, just like, 271 00:14:14,840 --> 00:14:17,320 Speaker 1: hang out with someone else. I mean, yeah, get away 272 00:14:17,360 --> 00:14:19,960 Speaker 1: from this family and shout out to magnus. Why is 273 00:14:20,000 --> 00:14:22,760 Speaker 1: Sam the only one in uniform? Where's the orange shirt? 274 00:14:22,880 --> 00:14:24,600 Speaker 2: John? Whoa? Don't look at me? 275 00:14:24,760 --> 00:14:27,520 Speaker 1: Okay, don't start calling names, because I do have it downstairs. 276 00:14:27,880 --> 00:14:28,280 Speaker 1: He does. 277 00:14:28,320 --> 00:14:28,720 Speaker 2: He does. 278 00:14:29,280 --> 00:14:30,880 Speaker 1: Make him take off this shirt and put on the 279 00:14:30,880 --> 00:14:32,680 Speaker 1: other one. You might have to do something special. Yeah, So, 280 00:14:33,960 --> 00:14:37,120 Speaker 1: Lucy Shoes says, you need to talk to your fiance. 281 00:14:37,440 --> 00:14:40,040 Speaker 1: He did a shitty, horrendous thing, but you still need 282 00:14:40,040 --> 00:14:42,480 Speaker 1: to talk this through. Hiding from him is not going 283 00:14:42,520 --> 00:14:46,440 Speaker 1: to help either of you. Have the tough conversation and 284 00:14:46,520 --> 00:14:49,680 Speaker 1: make your decisions. Don't take his brother on your honeymoon. 285 00:14:50,120 --> 00:14:53,800 Speaker 1: This isn't the time for revenge or stupid decisions. This 286 00:14:54,000 --> 00:14:57,200 Speaker 1: is your life. Talk this through like adults take the 287 00:14:57,240 --> 00:15:00,040 Speaker 1: trip or get a refund or whatever. But you have 288 00:15:00,080 --> 00:15:02,440 Speaker 1: to talk to him. You were going to spend the 289 00:15:02,440 --> 00:15:05,160 Speaker 1: rest of your life with him. You owe it to 290 00:15:05,200 --> 00:15:08,560 Speaker 1: yourself to at least speak to him to get closure. 291 00:15:08,880 --> 00:15:10,200 Speaker 1: What do you think about that, John. 292 00:15:10,160 --> 00:15:12,360 Speaker 4: I think she does not have to talk to him. 293 00:15:12,760 --> 00:15:15,600 Speaker 4: I do think that there's definitely a point in terms 294 00:15:15,680 --> 00:15:18,440 Speaker 4: of like getting closure understanding why, Like I could I 295 00:15:18,480 --> 00:15:21,000 Speaker 4: could see her just like going asleep every night and 296 00:15:21,080 --> 00:15:23,160 Speaker 4: just being like, what was it? Like I can't like 297 00:15:23,480 --> 00:15:25,720 Speaker 4: a question that you can't get I would have that question. 298 00:15:25,760 --> 00:15:27,440 Speaker 1: But maybe Yeah, if she doesn't have that question, it 299 00:15:27,440 --> 00:15:30,040 Speaker 1: doesn't feel like she needs to answer that question. He 300 00:15:30,080 --> 00:15:32,920 Speaker 1: doesn't deserve it, He doesn't. Yeah, do she needs to 301 00:15:32,920 --> 00:15:34,360 Speaker 1: do whatever she needs to do? 302 00:15:34,560 --> 00:15:35,040 Speaker 2: Yes? You know. 303 00:15:35,160 --> 00:15:37,720 Speaker 1: I at this point, like you have fucked up so 304 00:15:37,880 --> 00:15:41,640 Speaker 1: royally that whatever emotions that you're having, I just like, ah, 305 00:15:41,720 --> 00:15:42,640 Speaker 1: but wait. 306 00:15:43,200 --> 00:15:44,560 Speaker 2: Wait, wait wait is there more? 307 00:15:44,800 --> 00:15:45,280 Speaker 6: But wait? 308 00:15:45,320 --> 00:15:47,400 Speaker 1: Like what if there's something really fucked up that happened, 309 00:15:48,400 --> 00:15:50,400 Speaker 1: and like you need to talk to him to understand 310 00:15:50,400 --> 00:15:51,000 Speaker 1: what that thing. 311 00:15:51,040 --> 00:15:54,160 Speaker 2: Was that is true? What if there's something really fucked up? 312 00:15:54,320 --> 00:15:56,160 Speaker 1: I mean, obviously he fucked up, but what like, what 313 00:15:56,200 --> 00:15:57,720 Speaker 1: if there's something more fucked up that you don't even 314 00:15:57,760 --> 00:15:58,120 Speaker 1: know about? 315 00:15:59,280 --> 00:16:02,560 Speaker 4: I think one the chances are low too if something, 316 00:16:02,640 --> 00:16:05,520 Speaker 4: if something could have happened, wouldn't like the like for instance, 317 00:16:05,520 --> 00:16:07,480 Speaker 4: if he got hurt or something, wouldn't the parents know, 318 00:16:07,520 --> 00:16:10,080 Speaker 4: wouldn't the brother know? Like this, this sounds like something 319 00:16:10,120 --> 00:16:12,680 Speaker 4: he wants hidden that if it was me. 320 00:16:13,040 --> 00:16:15,000 Speaker 1: If it was me, and I think if it was you, 321 00:16:15,320 --> 00:16:17,640 Speaker 1: you would want closure and you would want to talk 322 00:16:17,680 --> 00:16:18,320 Speaker 1: and then distance. 323 00:16:18,360 --> 00:16:21,360 Speaker 4: I wouldn't be able to think resist like you said. 324 00:16:21,640 --> 00:16:24,240 Speaker 4: I'd be like what like what is these messages? 325 00:16:24,280 --> 00:16:24,360 Speaker 7: Like? 326 00:16:24,400 --> 00:16:26,560 Speaker 1: What what is this? And I think honestly the best 327 00:16:26,560 --> 00:16:29,080 Speaker 1: thing like wouldn't be to resist. And Tracy Eisen says 328 00:16:29,080 --> 00:16:31,840 Speaker 1: I would need the closure, but she may not. Gina 329 00:16:31,960 --> 00:16:35,400 Speaker 1: agree with John, get closure but stay away. Uh A 330 00:16:35,480 --> 00:16:37,560 Speaker 1: cl F five three one. This is Reddit brother Ethan 331 00:16:37,680 --> 00:16:41,320 Speaker 1: locked up the groom to steal the ride. Yeah, honestly 332 00:16:41,360 --> 00:16:44,400 Speaker 1: with the crazy stories that we've read. Anyway, let's keep 333 00:16:44,440 --> 00:16:46,080 Speaker 1: going through the relevant comments and we are going to 334 00:16:46,080 --> 00:16:48,200 Speaker 1: get to this juicy update. If you're new to the stream, 335 00:16:48,280 --> 00:16:50,480 Speaker 1: look at the TLD yards pined to the chat. That's right, 336 00:16:50,960 --> 00:16:54,520 Speaker 1: So opie, I'm most likely not going to take Ethan. 337 00:16:54,560 --> 00:16:56,320 Speaker 1: I'm not going to try to take revenge or anything. 338 00:16:56,400 --> 00:16:58,920 Speaker 1: I just don't know about traveling. I've never even been 339 00:16:59,000 --> 00:17:01,560 Speaker 1: on a plane, and I know Ethan has traveled before, 340 00:17:01,760 --> 00:17:04,000 Speaker 1: and I will eventually talk to him after the honeymoon. 341 00:17:04,040 --> 00:17:07,040 Speaker 1: But right now, no, not after he embarrassed me in 342 00:17:07,080 --> 00:17:09,360 Speaker 1: front of all our families and friends, which I think 343 00:17:09,440 --> 00:17:12,000 Speaker 1: is smart. Take the break you need and then think 344 00:17:12,000 --> 00:17:15,479 Speaker 1: about it later. Yes, And then a deleted user says, ope, 345 00:17:15,960 --> 00:17:19,159 Speaker 1: this is the moment where you figure out who you 346 00:17:19,280 --> 00:17:22,919 Speaker 1: are outside of your relationship. Your fiance left you at 347 00:17:22,960 --> 00:17:26,480 Speaker 1: the altar. There isn't a relationship to reconsider. It was 348 00:17:26,600 --> 00:17:29,120 Speaker 1: over the moment he stood you up. Ethan is your 349 00:17:29,119 --> 00:17:31,959 Speaker 1: ex's brother. I don't know why he stopped you from drinking. 350 00:17:32,240 --> 00:17:34,960 Speaker 1: You should have done what the fuck you want. Ethan 351 00:17:35,040 --> 00:17:37,159 Speaker 1: isn't going to be in your life anymore. Him and 352 00:17:37,200 --> 00:17:40,000 Speaker 1: his family aren't going to disown their brother slash son 353 00:17:40,080 --> 00:17:43,760 Speaker 1: for his ex. Now, traveling alone is the best thing 354 00:17:43,840 --> 00:17:46,000 Speaker 1: in the world. It's scary at first, but once you 355 00:17:46,040 --> 00:17:49,240 Speaker 1: get past that, that's where the magic happens. Getting used 356 00:17:49,280 --> 00:17:52,359 Speaker 1: to being alone, getting comfortable with being alone, falling in 357 00:17:52,400 --> 00:17:55,679 Speaker 1: love with your own company. Damn that moment when you 358 00:17:55,760 --> 00:17:58,119 Speaker 1: wake up and think, what do I want to do today? 359 00:17:58,480 --> 00:18:01,240 Speaker 1: Maybe you don't have the answer. Maybe you realize it's 360 00:18:01,240 --> 00:18:03,800 Speaker 1: the first time you've ever had the choice to do 361 00:18:03,840 --> 00:18:06,479 Speaker 1: things purely for you, not a friend or a partner 362 00:18:06,560 --> 00:18:09,960 Speaker 1: or a family suggestion, not you predicting what someone else 363 00:18:10,240 --> 00:18:13,680 Speaker 1: would like to do. You're figuring yourself out. You learn 364 00:18:13,720 --> 00:18:16,560 Speaker 1: about your own company. You had been preparing for a marriage, 365 00:18:16,600 --> 00:18:19,240 Speaker 1: a life with someone else. Now you're single. Use this 366 00:18:19,320 --> 00:18:21,960 Speaker 1: trip as the first step in your new life where 367 00:18:22,000 --> 00:18:24,679 Speaker 1: you put yourself first. Use this trip to cry and 368 00:18:24,720 --> 00:18:27,240 Speaker 1: grieve for as long as you want. Use this trip 369 00:18:27,280 --> 00:18:29,960 Speaker 1: as a chance to realize how strong you are. Go 370 00:18:30,040 --> 00:18:32,840 Speaker 1: on this trip alone so when you return you don't 371 00:18:32,880 --> 00:18:35,919 Speaker 1: feel scared about suddenly living life alone when you expect 372 00:18:35,920 --> 00:18:38,080 Speaker 1: it to be married. If you know that you can 373 00:18:38,119 --> 00:18:41,440 Speaker 1: holiday alone, then you know you can do anything, including 374 00:18:41,520 --> 00:18:45,360 Speaker 1: surviving this breakup, and when you return, book an appointment 375 00:18:45,359 --> 00:18:48,280 Speaker 1: with a therapist. It was worrying that after your ex 376 00:18:48,359 --> 00:18:50,479 Speaker 1: left you had the alter You thought there was a 377 00:18:50,520 --> 00:18:53,119 Speaker 1: relationship to reconsider, and you seem very dependent on what 378 00:18:53,160 --> 00:18:55,959 Speaker 1: others think of you, like allowing Ethan to police your 379 00:18:56,040 --> 00:18:58,200 Speaker 1: drinking when you wanted to get shitfaced and you were 380 00:18:58,520 --> 00:19:02,040 Speaker 1: entitled to do that. In laws weren't thinking about you 381 00:19:02,119 --> 00:19:04,600 Speaker 1: when you wanted you to, and they wanted you to 382 00:19:04,600 --> 00:19:07,199 Speaker 1: stay dignified. It looks less bad for them if you 383 00:19:07,280 --> 00:19:10,600 Speaker 1: never look publicly heartbroken. And there are a couple other 384 00:19:10,760 --> 00:19:16,159 Speaker 1: relevant comments, but snap, poet, Snap, I want a poet 385 00:19:16,240 --> 00:19:20,480 Speaker 1: high fives in the chat for that. What I mean, amazing, Yeah, amazing, 386 00:19:20,520 --> 00:19:26,159 Speaker 1: that's incredible advice. Incredible advice. I think, like, like, actually 387 00:19:26,160 --> 00:19:28,199 Speaker 1: recently when I went to Vietnam alone, that was like 388 00:19:28,200 --> 00:19:30,160 Speaker 1: one of the first times that I've ever traveled alone. 389 00:19:30,480 --> 00:19:33,040 Speaker 1: And like that idea of falling in love with your 390 00:19:33,040 --> 00:19:35,680 Speaker 1: own company is something that I like totally felt there 391 00:19:35,760 --> 00:19:38,119 Speaker 1: where it's just like, oh, I don't I don't need 392 00:19:38,160 --> 00:19:40,439 Speaker 1: to do anything for anyone else. I can just like 393 00:19:40,960 --> 00:19:44,439 Speaker 1: be content with myself. And like, I think that's like 394 00:19:44,640 --> 00:19:46,560 Speaker 1: for like people who are like people pleasers, which I 395 00:19:46,560 --> 00:19:48,840 Speaker 1: think I definitely fall in the category of like it 396 00:19:49,200 --> 00:19:52,920 Speaker 1: it's a it's a freeing experience to realize that you 397 00:19:52,960 --> 00:19:55,480 Speaker 1: can be like self is sufficient and independent, and I 398 00:19:55,520 --> 00:19:57,359 Speaker 1: think that's what probably probably she needs to do, so 399 00:19:57,359 --> 00:19:58,240 Speaker 1: can I ask you a question? 400 00:19:58,359 --> 00:20:00,760 Speaker 4: So you have a great, you know, inner date with 401 00:20:00,840 --> 00:20:02,760 Speaker 4: yourself and at the end you're like, hey, why don't 402 00:20:02,800 --> 00:20:05,280 Speaker 4: we get out of here and go back to my place? 403 00:20:05,400 --> 00:20:08,720 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, and a little self love. I mean I 404 00:20:08,800 --> 00:20:15,720 Speaker 1: definitely journaled when I got back journal Sorry, Sophia, where's 405 00:20:15,720 --> 00:20:18,080 Speaker 1: your sex side? And shout out to Jesse for the 406 00:20:18,119 --> 00:20:21,960 Speaker 1: ten gifted Jesse is like putting the whole team on 407 00:20:22,000 --> 00:20:25,359 Speaker 1: their bad Daddy Jesse, Daddy Jesse back at it again. 408 00:20:25,520 --> 00:20:27,480 Speaker 1: But you know, I really do think like taking that 409 00:20:27,560 --> 00:20:30,159 Speaker 1: time is something that is so important and if you 410 00:20:30,240 --> 00:20:33,080 Speaker 1: haven't taken a trip, and like, also, it doesn't have 411 00:20:33,080 --> 00:20:35,399 Speaker 1: to be some extravagant trip where you're on a plane 412 00:20:35,480 --> 00:20:37,560 Speaker 1: or something like what this could mean is it could 413 00:20:37,640 --> 00:20:40,560 Speaker 1: just mean driving in your car to the city over 414 00:20:40,600 --> 00:20:42,639 Speaker 1: from you and just like taking you out to like 415 00:20:42,680 --> 00:20:48,240 Speaker 1: yourself to dinner, like like just so many things. Yeah, 416 00:20:48,680 --> 00:20:51,879 Speaker 1: but let's get into a couple more relevant comments before 417 00:20:52,000 --> 00:20:54,080 Speaker 1: we get into this juicy update. 418 00:20:54,200 --> 00:20:55,120 Speaker 2: Let's do it all right. 419 00:20:55,320 --> 00:20:59,359 Speaker 1: So Opie replied to that that advice and said, this 420 00:20:59,400 --> 00:21:01,359 Speaker 1: actually helped me. I used to tell everyone that I 421 00:21:01,400 --> 00:21:04,040 Speaker 1: was independent, but now you've maybe realized that maybe I'm 422 00:21:04,080 --> 00:21:06,360 Speaker 1: not as independent as I think I am. You're right, 423 00:21:06,560 --> 00:21:08,360 Speaker 1: maybe this trip should be a trip to take a loan. 424 00:21:08,560 --> 00:21:10,359 Speaker 1: I didn't even think about that last part. I think 425 00:21:10,440 --> 00:21:12,639 Speaker 1: maybe you're right. It probably would have embarrassed them if 426 00:21:12,680 --> 00:21:15,040 Speaker 1: I did. I don't know. If Gabby can't make it, 427 00:21:15,119 --> 00:21:17,320 Speaker 1: then I think I'll do what one person told me 428 00:21:17,359 --> 00:21:20,360 Speaker 1: to do and switch my tickets for first class. If 429 00:21:20,400 --> 00:21:23,159 Speaker 1: I can't, then I'll just take the loss. That's smart. 430 00:21:23,160 --> 00:21:25,200 Speaker 1: I didn't know you could do that. I mean, can 431 00:21:25,280 --> 00:21:26,399 Speaker 1: you I have no idea? 432 00:21:26,400 --> 00:21:29,080 Speaker 4: Can you tell I have two basic bitch tickets I 433 00:21:29,119 --> 00:21:30,440 Speaker 4: want to combine into one. 434 00:21:30,400 --> 00:21:34,720 Speaker 1: Baby, I mean potentially, potentially, I have no idea. But 435 00:21:34,840 --> 00:21:39,960 Speaker 1: then opie uh responded or there's another comment. They received 436 00:21:40,000 --> 00:21:42,160 Speaker 1: general travel tips about what to do and they were 437 00:21:42,200 --> 00:21:44,800 Speaker 1: super grateful, and a deleted user says, I mean he 438 00:21:44,880 --> 00:21:46,719 Speaker 1: left you at the altar. I don't think you're the 439 00:21:46,760 --> 00:21:49,520 Speaker 1: one rethinking the relationship, but after that, I would be 440 00:21:49,560 --> 00:21:53,720 Speaker 1: pretty certain it was done. Take the trip. So basically 441 00:21:54,000 --> 00:21:57,280 Speaker 1: she's gonna take the trip. And there is a big 442 00:21:57,520 --> 00:21:59,960 Speaker 1: old update for everyone in the stream of the TLDR. 443 00:22:00,040 --> 00:22:03,000 Speaker 1: It's pinned the chat, but basically OPI got ghosted at 444 00:22:03,000 --> 00:22:05,600 Speaker 1: the Altar, and she got. 445 00:22:05,359 --> 00:22:07,399 Speaker 2: Texted a bunch of stuff, a bunch of messages from 446 00:22:07,400 --> 00:22:07,760 Speaker 2: her ex. 447 00:22:08,000 --> 00:22:10,679 Speaker 1: We actually don't know what those are yet, but I 448 00:22:10,720 --> 00:22:13,600 Speaker 1: think in this update we are going to find out. 449 00:22:13,640 --> 00:22:14,720 Speaker 1: And also, if. 450 00:22:14,560 --> 00:22:17,480 Speaker 4: You're in the stream fucking like this, what wait, you 451 00:22:17,480 --> 00:22:18,480 Speaker 4: haven't liked it yet, Riley? 452 00:22:18,480 --> 00:22:19,520 Speaker 1: How many likes on the YouTube? 453 00:22:19,600 --> 00:22:19,920 Speaker 8: We have. 454 00:22:22,680 --> 00:22:23,200 Speaker 1: One hundred. 455 00:22:24,480 --> 00:22:26,239 Speaker 2: There are three hundred people in here like that. They 456 00:22:26,320 --> 00:22:27,680 Speaker 2: get did it? Hit it? 457 00:22:27,920 --> 00:22:32,199 Speaker 1: And now we're going to go into the update. Okay, 458 00:22:32,960 --> 00:22:36,240 Speaker 1: So I feel like I should explain more about Ethan. First, 459 00:22:36,640 --> 00:22:38,520 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna take him, not gonna take him on 460 00:22:38,560 --> 00:22:39,280 Speaker 1: the big trip. 461 00:22:39,320 --> 00:22:40,240 Speaker 2: There we go. Good. 462 00:22:41,600 --> 00:22:45,080 Speaker 1: Second, I've known Ethan a little longer than my ex fiance. 463 00:22:45,400 --> 00:22:49,399 Speaker 1: Oh please believe me when I say he's a close 464 00:22:49,560 --> 00:22:52,400 Speaker 1: friend of mine. Both of us bonded by teasing his brother, 465 00:22:53,200 --> 00:22:55,760 Speaker 1: and with that we just kind of clicked and became 466 00:22:55,920 --> 00:22:59,600 Speaker 1: fast friends. I wanted to take him because I didn't 467 00:22:59,640 --> 00:23:02,960 Speaker 1: know how to use my ticket in the airport. What 468 00:23:03,040 --> 00:23:03,679 Speaker 1: does that fucking mean? 469 00:23:03,720 --> 00:23:06,080 Speaker 2: They tell you, I tell you the tel. 470 00:23:06,320 --> 00:23:09,000 Speaker 4: I think she's just never traveled, and it's just very 471 00:23:09,040 --> 00:23:10,520 Speaker 4: nervous about the unknown. 472 00:23:10,240 --> 00:23:10,920 Speaker 2: Of the experience. 473 00:23:10,960 --> 00:23:13,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what I'm picking up here. Yeah, I've never 474 00:23:13,800 --> 00:23:15,840 Speaker 1: been traveling, and I didn't want to look dumb by 475 00:23:15,840 --> 00:23:18,119 Speaker 1: trying to figure it out. Okay, yeah that's kind of 476 00:23:18,119 --> 00:23:21,199 Speaker 1: what she said. Thankfully, someone said what to do, and 477 00:23:21,240 --> 00:23:24,160 Speaker 1: I'm forever grateful. So now I feel much more confident. 478 00:23:24,400 --> 00:23:26,320 Speaker 1: I know it sounded if you're trying to take Ethan, 479 00:23:26,359 --> 00:23:29,920 Speaker 1: but honestly it was something innocent. I see him more 480 00:23:29,960 --> 00:23:32,719 Speaker 1: of a brother than anything. Now that I look at 481 00:23:32,720 --> 00:23:36,200 Speaker 1: the comments that you guys left, and finally I read 482 00:23:36,440 --> 00:23:47,960 Speaker 1: my ex fiance's messages. Ex fiance's messages, I'm ready all right, Uh, 483 00:23:48,000 --> 00:23:49,080 Speaker 1: what do you think he's gonna say? 484 00:23:49,520 --> 00:23:52,959 Speaker 4: I think, oh, man, what did this mother efor say? 485 00:23:53,080 --> 00:23:56,960 Speaker 4: I think I think he was classic, just like, uh, 486 00:23:57,160 --> 00:24:00,320 Speaker 4: you know, I thought about it and uh, you suck 487 00:24:00,760 --> 00:24:03,680 Speaker 4: and you're not great and I don't want to be. 488 00:24:03,640 --> 00:24:07,560 Speaker 3: Here and this is a real conspiracy theory. 489 00:24:07,680 --> 00:24:12,439 Speaker 1: Oh what was I thinking? Yes, I think that. 490 00:24:12,640 --> 00:24:15,439 Speaker 4: Uh my conspiracy is he just sucks and he just 491 00:24:15,440 --> 00:24:17,720 Speaker 4: says like, oh I don't want you and I need 492 00:24:17,760 --> 00:24:18,360 Speaker 4: you out of my life. 493 00:24:18,359 --> 00:24:20,440 Speaker 1: Shadow Alex Harrisman for joining the stream and miss you. 494 00:24:20,520 --> 00:24:26,160 Speaker 1: Brother the Raven says he was cheating. Oh I think 495 00:24:26,280 --> 00:24:28,680 Speaker 1: I think that is also my conspiracy theory. I think 496 00:24:28,680 --> 00:24:31,040 Speaker 1: there was cheating, and jac I appreciate that you like 497 00:24:31,080 --> 00:24:33,359 Speaker 1: the animations. We have more coming. We're still we'll still 498 00:24:33,400 --> 00:24:37,280 Speaker 1: working it out, but let's get back to reality and 499 00:24:37,680 --> 00:24:39,679 Speaker 1: learn what actually happened. 500 00:24:39,720 --> 00:24:40,280 Speaker 2: Let's do it. 501 00:24:40,480 --> 00:24:47,520 Speaker 1: So I finally read my ex fiances messages. Yes, he's alive, 502 00:24:47,880 --> 00:24:51,000 Speaker 1: he wasn't in a terrible accident, and the reason he 503 00:24:51,080 --> 00:24:59,320 Speaker 1: never showed up was because he found out he has 504 00:24:59,440 --> 00:25:09,679 Speaker 1: a kid, So okay, bring him to the wedding. Have 505 00:25:09,840 --> 00:25:11,359 Speaker 1: him be the flower boy. 506 00:25:11,680 --> 00:25:15,960 Speaker 3: You're telling me, Okay, all right, yeah boy. 507 00:25:16,200 --> 00:25:20,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, yes, Riley, you can have a flower boy. Boys 508 00:25:20,600 --> 00:25:23,159 Speaker 1: can be flower boys and girls can be ring bears. 509 00:25:26,640 --> 00:25:30,040 Speaker 2: Yes, he's so all right. Yeah, So his childhood's. 510 00:25:29,520 --> 00:25:33,280 Speaker 1: Sweetheart came by with a kid, maybe a couple of 511 00:25:33,280 --> 00:25:36,040 Speaker 1: weeks ago. His best man knew and never told me 512 00:25:36,080 --> 00:25:39,119 Speaker 1: because my ex didn't want him to tell me until 513 00:25:39,119 --> 00:25:41,600 Speaker 1: he was one hundred percent sure. And I guess he 514 00:25:41,720 --> 00:25:45,000 Speaker 1: found out today. He apologized so many times for not 515 00:25:45,080 --> 00:25:48,000 Speaker 1: showing up, but he couldn't because he felt guilty of what. 516 00:25:48,400 --> 00:25:50,720 Speaker 1: I don't know, he said, a large part of him 517 00:25:50,760 --> 00:25:52,560 Speaker 1: wants to make things right and take care of his 518 00:25:52,640 --> 00:25:56,200 Speaker 1: son because he's always wanted a family. So screw the 519 00:25:56,280 --> 00:25:59,240 Speaker 1: last three years, right, yes, the last three years of 520 00:25:59,280 --> 00:26:02,000 Speaker 1: the relationship. I don't know if that means he's going 521 00:26:02,040 --> 00:26:04,240 Speaker 1: to go back to his ex because he wants to 522 00:26:04,240 --> 00:26:08,840 Speaker 1: talk over the phone. Honestly, I'm done good, which is great, 523 00:26:09,000 --> 00:26:13,439 Speaker 1: good good. I'm done. I think it's an excuse to 524 00:26:13,440 --> 00:26:15,720 Speaker 1: get back with his X. I don't believe he's ever 525 00:26:15,800 --> 00:26:21,040 Speaker 1: gotten over her, which is why she chose to show herself. 526 00:26:21,320 --> 00:26:23,199 Speaker 1: He's send a picture of the kid to me, and 527 00:26:23,240 --> 00:26:25,760 Speaker 1: I went over to the ex fiance's mom's Facebook to 528 00:26:25,800 --> 00:26:28,639 Speaker 1: see any picture she posted of ex fiance when he 529 00:26:28,680 --> 00:26:31,520 Speaker 1: was a kid. They're a low quality, but there's definitely 530 00:26:31,600 --> 00:26:34,920 Speaker 1: a resemblance. It feels so surreal to me, like this 531 00:26:34,960 --> 00:26:37,680 Speaker 1: is one big joke. I feel like I'm missing more info, 532 00:26:37,760 --> 00:26:39,920 Speaker 1: like there's something else going on, but I'll find out later. 533 00:26:40,200 --> 00:26:42,840 Speaker 1: I haven't responded, so instead I'm just going to open 534 00:26:42,840 --> 00:26:45,920 Speaker 1: a bottle of wine and just get plastered. My best 535 00:26:45,920 --> 00:26:49,560 Speaker 1: friend is currently on our way with takeout and ice cream, 536 00:26:49,840 --> 00:26:53,719 Speaker 1: so I thought i'd share this. Maybe after much needed vacation, 537 00:26:53,800 --> 00:26:56,320 Speaker 1: I'll do another update, but right now I'm just gonna 538 00:26:56,320 --> 00:27:01,640 Speaker 1: do me until then. Fuck you, Ben, dude, Fuck Ben, 539 00:27:02,040 --> 00:27:08,280 Speaker 1: fuck Ben. Welcome Wow wow, okay, okay, So, like obviously, 540 00:27:08,800 --> 00:27:12,159 Speaker 1: obviously this dude Ben, who would now learned Ben is 541 00:27:13,040 --> 00:27:17,199 Speaker 1: the name of this this douche baggery Ben did the 542 00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:19,840 Speaker 1: worst thing by ghosting her at the altar. Correct, we 543 00:27:19,920 --> 00:27:22,280 Speaker 1: now learn also shout out to pradition, be for the 544 00:27:22,320 --> 00:27:25,360 Speaker 1: fifty bucks. Just welcome from a nap craving Shenanigans and 545 00:27:25,400 --> 00:27:28,600 Speaker 1: my favorite dudes are on. Well, we're happy to be 546 00:27:28,640 --> 00:27:31,280 Speaker 1: your favorite dudes, of course. So we know that he 547 00:27:31,320 --> 00:27:34,800 Speaker 1: did like the worst thing, yep. Right now we know 548 00:27:34,920 --> 00:27:36,600 Speaker 1: the context of why he did the worst thing. He 549 00:27:36,680 --> 00:27:38,760 Speaker 1: did the worst thing because he found out how he 550 00:27:38,800 --> 00:27:42,879 Speaker 1: had a kid. Right, So my question to all of 551 00:27:42,920 --> 00:27:46,679 Speaker 1: you in the chat and to you John, is what 552 00:27:46,720 --> 00:27:48,960 Speaker 1: would be the right thing to do so he founds 553 00:27:48,960 --> 00:27:51,760 Speaker 1: out he has a kid, like maybe like the day 554 00:27:51,800 --> 00:27:55,399 Speaker 1: before the possibility of a kid, the day before his wedding, 555 00:27:55,480 --> 00:27:57,320 Speaker 1: or like maybe a couple of days before the wedding, 556 00:27:57,680 --> 00:27:59,399 Speaker 1: what do you do in that situation? Nothing? 557 00:28:00,040 --> 00:28:03,440 Speaker 4: I mean by nothing is like you still go through 558 00:28:03,520 --> 00:28:04,440 Speaker 4: You can still go through with. 559 00:28:04,359 --> 00:28:05,119 Speaker 1: The wedding and everything. 560 00:28:05,160 --> 00:28:07,679 Speaker 4: But I think you you immediately go to go to 561 00:28:07,720 --> 00:28:11,400 Speaker 4: your fiance if you're like so frazzled that you don't 562 00:28:11,440 --> 00:28:13,800 Speaker 4: know what to do and be like, listen, I just 563 00:28:14,119 --> 00:28:15,000 Speaker 4: found this out. 564 00:28:15,359 --> 00:28:17,680 Speaker 1: My brain is going crazy. I don't know what to do. 565 00:28:18,440 --> 00:28:18,560 Speaker 7: Uh. 566 00:28:19,480 --> 00:28:20,640 Speaker 1: I just needed to tell you. 567 00:28:20,880 --> 00:28:24,400 Speaker 3: If you really are that frazzled where you're like, I. 568 00:28:24,320 --> 00:28:28,160 Speaker 4: Can't see myself doing this, then you immediately communicate that, 569 00:28:28,400 --> 00:28:31,960 Speaker 4: like as soon as you possibly can. My question to 570 00:28:32,200 --> 00:28:36,720 Speaker 4: Ben is, why why does now finding out that you 571 00:28:36,800 --> 00:28:40,640 Speaker 4: have a kid change you going to the wedding and 572 00:28:40,760 --> 00:28:42,360 Speaker 4: obstruct you from telling anybody. 573 00:28:42,720 --> 00:28:45,720 Speaker 1: I think what she said was kind of right where 574 00:28:45,720 --> 00:28:47,479 Speaker 1: she's like, I think he just wanted to go back 575 00:28:47,520 --> 00:28:50,520 Speaker 1: to his ex and he was still never over great 576 00:28:50,840 --> 00:28:56,360 Speaker 1: and so he just yeah, so that's not what you 577 00:28:56,360 --> 00:29:01,800 Speaker 1: should do. Yeah, so yeah, I I I think the 578 00:29:01,840 --> 00:29:04,959 Speaker 1: best thing to do would have been to actually tell 579 00:29:05,120 --> 00:29:07,960 Speaker 1: her as immediately if like, as soon as he knew 580 00:29:09,000 --> 00:29:11,200 Speaker 1: love Bubble says, you can still be in the kid's life, 581 00:29:11,240 --> 00:29:14,960 Speaker 1: But why now, like in legally bond? Why now why 582 00:29:15,000 --> 00:29:18,600 Speaker 1: this sperm jac says he didn't communicate, so he probably 583 00:29:18,640 --> 00:29:20,720 Speaker 1: still wanted to be with the act. I think that's 584 00:29:20,840 --> 00:29:24,600 Speaker 1: probably most likely. Dylan Parish says, I have a taller 585 00:29:24,880 --> 00:29:28,800 Speaker 1: so me time is rare, but I appreciate the sentiment. Nonetheless, 586 00:29:29,600 --> 00:29:31,920 Speaker 1: Laser Church says, yeah, finding out you have a kid 587 00:29:32,240 --> 00:29:37,440 Speaker 1: doesn't limit you from getting married. True it does. No, daddy, 588 00:29:37,480 --> 00:29:42,800 Speaker 1: you can't do it. Get away. Ellie says, communication, Well, 589 00:29:42,800 --> 00:29:50,840 Speaker 1: actually sorry, come wait, come you okay? Shun? Communication? Is 590 00:29:50,880 --> 00:29:55,360 Speaker 1: that a let us know how it's pronounced? The baby Godzilla? Hey, 591 00:29:55,680 --> 00:30:00,760 Speaker 1: how you doing well? The baby jeeves in the chat? 592 00:30:02,200 --> 00:30:04,760 Speaker 1: The generals are joining? Also, question for all of you 593 00:30:04,800 --> 00:30:06,200 Speaker 1: in the chat, are we on like a little bit 594 00:30:06,240 --> 00:30:07,840 Speaker 1: of a lag? It looks like we're on the lag, 595 00:30:07,880 --> 00:30:10,200 Speaker 1: but I'm curious if it if it looks like it 596 00:30:10,320 --> 00:30:15,000 Speaker 1: on your side too. But Gina said he cheated and 597 00:30:15,040 --> 00:30:17,760 Speaker 1: became daddy. But the age of the kid says that 598 00:30:17,800 --> 00:30:20,600 Speaker 1: he cheated. Yeah, so I guess, well, do we know? 599 00:30:20,640 --> 00:30:22,920 Speaker 1: We don't know how old the kid is because it 600 00:30:22,960 --> 00:30:26,080 Speaker 1: could be that the kid is like four born or 601 00:30:26,480 --> 00:30:31,440 Speaker 1: nine months? Yeah, yeah, the the kid? So I don't know. Okay, 602 00:30:31,480 --> 00:30:33,600 Speaker 1: no lag. Great, there's a bit of a lag here 603 00:30:33,640 --> 00:30:38,480 Speaker 1: on YouTube, but there's no lag on twitch. Okay, so great, amazing. Yeah, 604 00:30:38,520 --> 00:30:42,959 Speaker 1: I think I think there could. There's their possibility of 605 00:30:43,000 --> 00:30:47,760 Speaker 1: a of some cheating, but not one hundred percent sure. 606 00:30:49,200 --> 00:30:52,320 Speaker 1: And that's all we get. There no more updates, stories over, 607 00:30:52,400 --> 00:30:55,400 Speaker 1: that's all we get. But you know what's never over? 608 00:30:55,560 --> 00:30:57,280 Speaker 1: What this next story? 609 00:30:57,400 --> 00:31:00,520 Speaker 4: That is correct? And let's get into it. So am 610 00:31:00,600 --> 00:31:02,880 Speaker 4: I the a hole for kicking my boyfriend and his 611 00:31:02,960 --> 00:31:07,120 Speaker 4: son out for taking over my daughter's room for his son? 612 00:31:07,440 --> 00:31:10,320 Speaker 4: So if I'm interpreting this, it's a little bit confusing. 613 00:31:10,720 --> 00:31:14,000 Speaker 4: I think Op kicked out the boyfriend and the sun 614 00:31:14,320 --> 00:31:16,120 Speaker 4: for taking over the daughter's room, kind of like a 615 00:31:16,160 --> 00:31:18,400 Speaker 4: step you know, there's like a step kid that's like 616 00:31:18,440 --> 00:31:19,880 Speaker 4: taking over their kids. 617 00:31:20,120 --> 00:31:22,080 Speaker 1: Room and you're like, Nah, what are you doing here? Sweet? 618 00:31:22,080 --> 00:31:24,280 Speaker 3: That's crazy? And you know what's extra sweet? 619 00:31:24,320 --> 00:31:24,600 Speaker 2: Sam? 620 00:31:24,800 --> 00:31:25,840 Speaker 1: What what's extra sweet? 621 00:31:25,880 --> 00:31:29,440 Speaker 4: This one was submitted from a O kob fam member. 622 00:31:31,080 --> 00:31:32,840 Speaker 4: Go to our slash Okop show if you want to 623 00:31:32,840 --> 00:31:34,560 Speaker 4: send in your stories, or you can call us at 624 00:31:34,560 --> 00:31:37,160 Speaker 4: four for zero five zer Weight six' five sixty seven 625 00:31:37,200 --> 00:31:39,000 Speaker 4: will actually be taking some calls on this. 626 00:31:39,040 --> 00:31:42,080 Speaker 1: Stream, yeah so it's we're either gonna be taking calls 627 00:31:42,120 --> 00:31:44,560 Speaker 1: after this story or after the next. Story so you 628 00:31:44,560 --> 00:31:47,400 Speaker 1: gotta wait sou, wait but let's see what the story 629 00:31:47,440 --> 00:31:47,720 Speaker 1: has to. 630 00:31:47,760 --> 00:31:51,320 Speaker 4: Offer so this comes from okay fam member okay computer 631 00:31:51,400 --> 00:31:54,440 Speaker 4: eight eight five two apter user name who, SAYS i 632 00:31:54,480 --> 00:31:57,160 Speaker 4: am female thirty in a relationship with mail thirty two 633 00:31:57,280 --> 00:32:01,160 Speaker 4: that has a son six from another female shout Out. 634 00:32:01,240 --> 00:32:04,720 Speaker 4: Riley me and him have a daughter one, together AND 635 00:32:04,760 --> 00:32:06,840 Speaker 4: i have another daughter seven from a past. 636 00:32:06,840 --> 00:32:07,760 Speaker 1: Marriage so to sum it. 637 00:32:07,760 --> 00:32:11,000 Speaker 4: UP opi as a, kid the husband as a, kid 638 00:32:11,000 --> 00:32:12,640 Speaker 4: and they have one kid, together three kids. 639 00:32:12,680 --> 00:32:16,040 Speaker 1: Total they moved into my three, bed two. 640 00:32:15,840 --> 00:32:18,800 Speaker 4: And a half bath house THAT i own outright after 641 00:32:18,840 --> 00:32:20,600 Speaker 4: he won full custody. 642 00:32:20,240 --> 00:32:21,280 Speaker 2: Of his, kid male. 643 00:32:21,360 --> 00:32:24,440 Speaker 4: Six he couldn't move in prior to winning custody because 644 00:32:24,440 --> 00:32:26,880 Speaker 4: the mom of the boy bullied me in high school 645 00:32:27,280 --> 00:32:30,200 Speaker 4: AND i ended up beating her up to the point 646 00:32:30,240 --> 00:32:32,600 Speaker 4: that she had a busted, lip nose and black. 647 00:32:32,680 --> 00:32:39,200 Speaker 1: Eye okay, Computer, wow, alright who did they beat? 648 00:32:39,280 --> 00:32:41,520 Speaker 4: Up so, Yeah i'll read it back one more time for. You, so, 649 00:32:42,080 --> 00:32:44,840 Speaker 4: uh he couldn't move in prior to winning custody because. 650 00:32:44,600 --> 00:32:45,760 Speaker 2: The mom of the. 651 00:32:45,840 --> 00:32:48,640 Speaker 4: Boy the mom of the boy bullied me in high 652 00:32:48,680 --> 00:32:51,640 Speaker 4: school AND i ended up beating her up to the 653 00:32:52,040 --> 00:32:55,080 Speaker 4: she had a busted lip nose and a black defended. 654 00:32:55,120 --> 00:33:01,040 Speaker 4: Themselves yes or, yeah so was bullied and unretaliated. Yeah, 655 00:33:02,400 --> 00:33:05,520 Speaker 4: uh and then he didn't want it to be used against. 656 00:33:05,560 --> 00:33:11,840 Speaker 4: Him she now isn't allowed around the. Boy SO i, 657 00:33:12,720 --> 00:33:15,680 Speaker 4: hmm that is a little bit. Confusing SO i think 658 00:33:15,840 --> 00:33:19,200 Speaker 4: hopefully as it, goes we'll get we'll give some more more. 659 00:33:19,240 --> 00:33:21,320 Speaker 4: Knowledge but it seems like they now have the boy. 660 00:33:21,360 --> 00:33:24,360 Speaker 4: Back but op just slapped the crap out. 661 00:33:24,240 --> 00:33:28,120 Speaker 1: Of the, mom which is. Interesting shout Out Pinky Di 662 00:33:28,200 --> 00:33:30,560 Speaker 1: slayer for the ten buck. TIP i got my bonus 663 00:33:30,680 --> 00:33:33,560 Speaker 1: and wanted to give back to the. People, hey, hey 664 00:33:33,680 --> 00:33:34,200 Speaker 1: shout out to. 665 00:33:34,240 --> 00:33:35,520 Speaker 2: You that's, right shout out to. 666 00:33:35,640 --> 00:33:38,680 Speaker 4: You, now when they moved, IN i made it CLEAR 667 00:33:38,760 --> 00:33:42,240 Speaker 4: i will not be uh, MOVE i will not move 668 00:33:42,360 --> 00:33:45,080 Speaker 4: one kid out of the room uh for the. Other 669 00:33:45,240 --> 00:33:49,000 Speaker 4: And i'm bunking them so his boy could have a. 670 00:33:49,080 --> 00:33:53,880 Speaker 1: Room, Okay so basically it's, like, uh my my partner's 671 00:33:54,480 --> 00:33:56,720 Speaker 1: kid wants to move into the, house But i'm not 672 00:33:56,760 --> 00:33:58,920 Speaker 1: going to move my children and have them go into 673 00:33:58,960 --> 00:34:02,320 Speaker 1: one room to give this other kid a room. Himself, yes, 674 00:34:02,480 --> 00:34:03,120 Speaker 1: okay that makes. 675 00:34:03,160 --> 00:34:06,400 Speaker 4: Sense reason being my oldest son has. Autism, sorry my 676 00:34:06,440 --> 00:34:09,279 Speaker 4: oldest has autism and doesn't do well with change of. 677 00:34:09,400 --> 00:34:14,160 Speaker 4: ENVIRONMENT i have a walking. CLOSET i believe what that 678 00:34:14,160 --> 00:34:17,200 Speaker 4: THAT i believe was a smaller fourth bedroom at one. 679 00:34:17,239 --> 00:34:19,720 Speaker 4: Point so they get A Harry, potter this kid. 680 00:34:20,800 --> 00:34:25,799 Speaker 2: Maybe the closet, PROPHECY. 681 00:34:27,040 --> 00:34:29,319 Speaker 1: I thought PoTA late for. 682 00:34:29,400 --> 00:34:33,680 Speaker 4: SCHOOL i told him we can move everything out of 683 00:34:33,719 --> 00:34:36,960 Speaker 4: it and make it into his son's, rooms so the closet, becomes, 684 00:34:37,160 --> 00:34:42,759 Speaker 4: uh you, know the Step sun's. ROOM i told, Him i'm, 685 00:34:42,960 --> 00:34:46,800 Speaker 4: Sure i'm sure this this closet is big enough for a. 686 00:34:46,920 --> 00:34:50,640 Speaker 1: Room but when you you sound like when you're when 687 00:34:50,640 --> 00:34:53,279 Speaker 1: you're putting your kid in the. Closet it apparently was 688 00:34:53,360 --> 00:34:56,560 Speaker 1: a room, before allegedly that was converted into a. Class 689 00:34:56,560 --> 00:34:59,439 Speaker 1: so it's like a very small room or a very 690 00:34:59,520 --> 00:35:03,719 Speaker 1: large closet. Exactly i'm sure what that's what they Told. 691 00:35:03,760 --> 00:35:06,840 Speaker 1: Harry BUT i was. Small, sorry that was a. 692 00:35:06,880 --> 00:35:07,640 Speaker 2: Closet that was a. 693 00:35:07,680 --> 00:35:08,440 Speaker 1: Closet this is. 694 00:35:08,360 --> 00:35:09,839 Speaker 2: A t put a bed in, there? 695 00:35:10,880 --> 00:35:13,160 Speaker 1: Fairly can you put? It you can't put a bed 696 00:35:13,160 --> 00:35:13,360 Speaker 1: in this? 697 00:35:13,400 --> 00:35:13,840 Speaker 2: Closet? 698 00:35:14,080 --> 00:35:17,480 Speaker 1: Uh, yeah a small. Closet, yeah get like a little 699 00:35:17,520 --> 00:35:20,560 Speaker 1: twin like or do you have a closet in your 700 00:35:20,640 --> 00:35:23,120 Speaker 1: house that you can put a bed IN i bet, 701 00:35:23,320 --> 00:35:27,319 Speaker 1: yeah a cot for, sure which is BASICALLY i think 702 00:35:27,320 --> 00:35:28,040 Speaker 1: that's what he's sleeping. 703 00:35:28,040 --> 00:35:28,120 Speaker 9: On. 704 00:35:28,120 --> 00:35:29,919 Speaker 1: Anyway, anyway, anyway all, Right. 705 00:35:31,560 --> 00:35:35,480 Speaker 4: Opie, SAYS i told him that his only. OPTION i 706 00:35:35,800 --> 00:35:38,040 Speaker 4: told him that this is his son's only, option or 707 00:35:38,080 --> 00:35:40,480 Speaker 4: he will have to live. Elsewhere so it's, like either 708 00:35:40,560 --> 00:35:44,200 Speaker 4: he's in the closet bedroom or you're not living. 709 00:35:44,239 --> 00:35:45,680 Speaker 1: Here he's not living. 710 00:35:45,400 --> 00:35:45,800 Speaker 2: Here. 711 00:35:47,520 --> 00:35:51,360 Speaker 1: LIKE i, THINK i just need to see the closet. Bedroom, 712 00:35:51,480 --> 00:35:54,400 Speaker 1: yeah it. Was the writer, says how big is this? 713 00:35:54,520 --> 00:35:56,879 Speaker 1: CLOSET i MEAN i have a walking closet that could 714 00:35:56,880 --> 00:35:59,160 Speaker 1: fit a cot or a toddler. Bed how how how 715 00:35:59,200 --> 00:35:59,560 Speaker 1: old is the? 716 00:35:59,640 --> 00:36:01,880 Speaker 2: Kid like? Five? SIX i believe? 717 00:36:01,920 --> 00:36:03,839 Speaker 1: Six, OKAY i mean six year olds don't need much, 718 00:36:03,920 --> 00:36:06,400 Speaker 1: Room that's What i'm. Saying, yeah, dude there is an. 719 00:36:06,280 --> 00:36:10,160 Speaker 2: Edit that tells us how Big, Okay sophia produce? 720 00:36:10,239 --> 00:36:16,879 Speaker 1: Worms you have your. Queen it's so weird to See 721 00:36:16,920 --> 00:36:20,439 Speaker 1: sophia the. Situation, right they're, Prepared. 722 00:36:20,800 --> 00:36:23,239 Speaker 4: Hey w in the chat For sophia Producing, yeah come 723 00:36:23,239 --> 00:36:27,359 Speaker 4: on to. Worms w in the chat for what. 724 00:36:27,320 --> 00:36:27,880 Speaker 1: AM i talking? 725 00:36:27,880 --> 00:36:29,040 Speaker 2: About? 726 00:36:29,040 --> 00:36:29,759 Speaker 1: Worms thank? 727 00:36:29,800 --> 00:36:33,440 Speaker 4: You so back to the, Story opie said he was 728 00:36:33,480 --> 00:36:36,840 Speaker 4: okay with it with the sun living in the. Closet 729 00:36:38,280 --> 00:36:38,640 Speaker 4: there you. 730 00:36:38,600 --> 00:36:41,800 Speaker 1: GO l in the chat for a guy being okay 731 00:36:41,800 --> 00:36:43,480 Speaker 1: for his son being in a, closet. 732 00:36:43,400 --> 00:36:47,040 Speaker 3: That's a big fat. No that's not a w that 733 00:36:47,080 --> 00:36:47,279 Speaker 3: is AN. 734 00:36:47,360 --> 00:36:50,560 Speaker 4: L he at least acted like it and turned it 735 00:36:50,600 --> 00:36:53,480 Speaker 4: into the boys. ROOM a few weeks after doing, so 736 00:36:53,600 --> 00:36:55,640 Speaker 4: he had started buying some material and said he was 737 00:36:55,640 --> 00:36:59,040 Speaker 4: going to redo my oldest. Room her room is made 738 00:36:59,160 --> 00:37:02,360 Speaker 4: with special path, adding jumping toys built into the, floor 739 00:37:02,400 --> 00:37:05,520 Speaker 4: and other safety. Precautions this lit sounds. Room, this this lit. 740 00:37:05,560 --> 00:37:06,200 Speaker 4: Sounds this room. 741 00:37:06,239 --> 00:37:07,560 Speaker 1: Sounds it's got like built in. 742 00:37:07,600 --> 00:37:16,640 Speaker 4: Trampolines it's built in, trampolines has built in which makes. 743 00:37:16,200 --> 00:37:19,399 Speaker 1: Closet so much worse where it's, like, yeah my son 744 00:37:19,480 --> 00:37:22,640 Speaker 1: has trampoline THAN i, room but your son could go 745 00:37:22,719 --> 00:37:23,080 Speaker 1: into the. 746 00:37:23,120 --> 00:37:26,080 Speaker 2: Closet, literally this is. Fire. Wow what a great. 747 00:37:26,160 --> 00:37:29,759 Speaker 1: Room, yes and also this comes from the okay fan 748 00:37:29,920 --> 00:37:33,560 Speaker 1: so like so much of like the the the of 749 00:37:33,600 --> 00:37:35,680 Speaker 1: what we're saying is dependent on how big this room. 750 00:37:35,760 --> 00:37:38,120 Speaker 2: Is it's, true but it is. Funny it's. Funny it's. 751 00:37:38,120 --> 00:37:40,640 Speaker 1: Funny apparently in an update there's a. Reveal, okay we 752 00:37:40,680 --> 00:37:41,520 Speaker 1: have to stick around to. 753 00:37:41,560 --> 00:37:44,920 Speaker 4: See, yes some of it is old and needs to be, 754 00:37:44,960 --> 00:37:47,400 Speaker 4: replaced SO i didn't think much of. It as he 755 00:37:47,480 --> 00:37:50,640 Speaker 4: worked on he kept saying that he wants it to 756 00:37:50,680 --> 00:37:54,200 Speaker 4: be a surprise when it's. Done during this time he 757 00:37:54,400 --> 00:37:57,000 Speaker 4: was and by the, way this is a little bit roughly, 758 00:37:57,080 --> 00:37:59,879 Speaker 4: worded so bear with. Me all during during the time 759 00:38:00,400 --> 00:38:02,280 Speaker 4: she was sleeping in the living room on the pullout. 760 00:38:02,280 --> 00:38:04,959 Speaker 4: Couch we ended up going out of town to visit 761 00:38:05,000 --> 00:38:08,680 Speaker 4: some of my family as he was redoing her. Room 762 00:38:08,320 --> 00:38:11,040 Speaker 4: he completely ran out of the house as me and 763 00:38:11,120 --> 00:38:13,840 Speaker 4: the kids were gone for a. WEEK i figured it 764 00:38:13,840 --> 00:38:15,880 Speaker 4: would be done by the time we got back because 765 00:38:15,920 --> 00:38:18,080 Speaker 4: he said he was putting up the finishing touches on 766 00:38:18,200 --> 00:38:21,960 Speaker 4: the room as we were. Leaving hey shout out To 767 00:38:22,239 --> 00:38:26,239 Speaker 4: Alluring undead for the two dollars. Donation we turned my 768 00:38:26,280 --> 00:38:29,160 Speaker 4: old bedroom into a. Closet, yeah my dad turned my 769 00:38:29,239 --> 00:38:32,840 Speaker 4: bedroom into his. Office, ooh we're getting the business, done 770 00:38:32,920 --> 00:38:35,480 Speaker 4: so guys QUICK tldr for everyone that just. 771 00:38:35,560 --> 00:38:39,319 Speaker 3: Joined so we have. Op she's married to this. 772 00:38:39,360 --> 00:38:41,239 Speaker 4: Guy he has a, KID opi has a, kid and 773 00:38:41,239 --> 00:38:44,480 Speaker 4: they have one kid, together and they're basically redoing this 774 00:38:44,960 --> 00:38:50,080 Speaker 4: alleged closet room into a new room for the other guy's. Kid, 775 00:38:50,280 --> 00:38:53,360 Speaker 4: Yeah and they were gone for a week And opie was, 776 00:38:53,400 --> 00:38:54,720 Speaker 4: like you can only move. 777 00:38:54,600 --> 00:38:56,440 Speaker 1: In here if you take the. Closet, yeah thats a 778 00:38:56,440 --> 00:38:58,000 Speaker 1: six year old takes the. Closet that's. 779 00:38:58,040 --> 00:39:00,799 Speaker 4: It and apparently he was doing a bunch of. Renovations 780 00:39:01,080 --> 00:39:02,239 Speaker 4: they were gone for a week and we're. 781 00:39:02,239 --> 00:39:05,400 Speaker 1: Back, okay we're about to see the grand reveal of 782 00:39:05,440 --> 00:39:08,120 Speaker 1: the closet. Room and we don't know how big this 783 00:39:08,200 --> 00:39:10,800 Speaker 1: closet room. Is, yes BUT i made Some Harry potter. 784 00:39:10,880 --> 00:39:11,319 Speaker 2: Jokes we. 785 00:39:11,360 --> 00:39:11,799 Speaker 1: Did it was. 786 00:39:11,840 --> 00:39:16,279 Speaker 4: Fun so a week goes by and we return. Home 787 00:39:16,800 --> 00:39:18,440 Speaker 4: he has gone at, work but the nanny is there 788 00:39:18,440 --> 00:39:21,200 Speaker 4: with my step. SON i laid our bags in our. 789 00:39:21,520 --> 00:39:24,080 Speaker 4: Mudroom that's. INTERESTING i guess that's like a spare, room 790 00:39:24,160 --> 00:39:24,759 Speaker 4: like any. 791 00:39:24,840 --> 00:39:27,520 Speaker 1: Rooms they have a. Trampoline how big is their playing? 792 00:39:27,600 --> 00:39:27,920 Speaker 2: Room a? 793 00:39:28,000 --> 00:39:31,479 Speaker 1: Mudroom walk in closets fit for a six year? Old 794 00:39:32,360 --> 00:39:33,919 Speaker 1: how rich are? You? 795 00:39:33,960 --> 00:39:37,040 Speaker 4: Seriously AND i told the girls to go play WHILE 796 00:39:37,040 --> 00:39:39,640 Speaker 4: i jumped in the. Shower not even ten minutes into 797 00:39:39,680 --> 00:39:42,239 Speaker 4: my shower AND i hear the kids yelling and the 798 00:39:42,320 --> 00:39:45,400 Speaker 4: nanny trying to break it. UP i get, out throwing 799 00:39:45,440 --> 00:39:48,279 Speaker 4: my robe to see what's going. ON i met with 800 00:39:48,320 --> 00:39:52,000 Speaker 4: the kids screaming and the nanny outside of my oldest kid's. 801 00:39:52,080 --> 00:39:55,719 Speaker 4: Room my oldest was a crying mess yelling my, room my. 802 00:39:55,920 --> 00:40:00,319 Speaker 3: ROOM i opened the door and my heart, dropped. 803 00:40:01,560 --> 00:40:03,080 Speaker 2: And my just heart just. 804 00:40:03,160 --> 00:40:07,280 Speaker 1: Dropped with a two dollars donation From Rachel, hashett, uh what's? 805 00:40:07,360 --> 00:40:10,239 Speaker 4: Up you went in the queue for. Tonight thank, You, 806 00:40:10,320 --> 00:40:12,440 Speaker 4: Rachel thank you for the. Donation and by the, way, 807 00:40:12,480 --> 00:40:14,279 Speaker 4: guys we are going to Do collins in a little. 808 00:40:14,280 --> 00:40:16,719 Speaker 4: Bit we're out pixie cakes with the five. Bucks if 809 00:40:16,719 --> 00:40:19,360 Speaker 4: it doesn't have a, window it's not a legal. Bedroom 810 00:40:19,920 --> 00:40:21,279 Speaker 4: is that? TRUE i think that is. 811 00:40:21,320 --> 00:40:25,040 Speaker 1: True, yeah, dude if it doesn't have a, yeah, Yeah 812 00:40:25,239 --> 00:40:27,440 Speaker 1: if that closet doesn't have a, window that's kind of 813 00:40:27,960 --> 00:40:29,640 Speaker 1: like messed up for a six year, old six year old. 814 00:40:29,880 --> 00:40:30,600 Speaker 2: Dream you know that's. 815 00:40:30,640 --> 00:40:34,080 Speaker 4: True that's, true but it's not it's not her son's. 816 00:40:34,120 --> 00:40:35,560 Speaker 1: True, yeah, yeah, dude that's not my. 817 00:40:35,680 --> 00:40:36,319 Speaker 2: KID i don't. 818 00:40:36,320 --> 00:40:37,080 Speaker 1: CARE i don't. 819 00:40:37,080 --> 00:40:41,719 Speaker 4: CARE i opened the door and my heart. DROPPED i 820 00:40:41,840 --> 00:40:46,880 Speaker 4: was overcome with so much. Anger he completely took everything 821 00:40:46,960 --> 00:40:49,600 Speaker 4: out of my daughter's room and made it into a 822 00:40:49,680 --> 00:40:51,200 Speaker 4: room for the step. 823 00:40:51,280 --> 00:40:56,640 Speaker 1: Son, oh like like took things From so here's what 824 00:40:56,680 --> 00:40:59,920 Speaker 1: happened to other kids, Room, okay come and Stuff op. 825 00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:03,800 Speaker 4: As a daughter who has autism and especially outfitted the 826 00:41:03,800 --> 00:41:07,640 Speaker 4: whole room of patting and, Jumping, like, oh this whole 827 00:41:07,719 --> 00:41:10,160 Speaker 4: room for, her right right in the house that she. 828 00:41:10,239 --> 00:41:16,920 Speaker 4: Owns the husband took down everything that they built in 829 00:41:16,960 --> 00:41:18,440 Speaker 4: the room and redid it for his. 830 00:41:18,600 --> 00:41:23,080 Speaker 1: Son when she, explained pretty, cool fucked, see like because 831 00:41:23,120 --> 00:41:26,280 Speaker 1: the kid is autistic and like needs the environment to stay, 832 00:41:26,320 --> 00:41:28,040 Speaker 1: stable exactly pretty messed? 833 00:41:28,080 --> 00:41:29,359 Speaker 2: Up is the husband the a? Hole? 834 00:41:30,080 --> 00:41:32,239 Speaker 1: Uh, YEAH i would love to know what y'all. THINK 835 00:41:32,440 --> 00:41:35,640 Speaker 1: i honestly think, Yes and shout out To Molly thornton 836 00:41:35,680 --> 00:41:37,560 Speaker 1: for not being an a hole by donating two bucks 837 00:41:37,560 --> 00:41:40,479 Speaker 1: to keep this live stream going for another. Hour shout 838 00:41:40,520 --> 00:41:42,680 Speaker 1: out To sierra for the ten buck. Tip love, y'all 839 00:41:42,680 --> 00:41:43,040 Speaker 1: we love you. 840 00:41:43,080 --> 00:41:43,279 Speaker 2: Too. 841 00:41:43,520 --> 00:41:47,440 Speaker 1: YEAH i THINK i think the husband is definitely the a. 842 00:41:47,480 --> 00:41:49,680 Speaker 1: Hole shout out To ashley for the fifty. Bucks you 843 00:41:49,719 --> 00:41:51,960 Speaker 1: guys are the best cure for my. Hangover, hey let's 844 00:41:52,000 --> 00:41:54,960 Speaker 1: fucking go stories From okop the best cure for. 845 00:41:55,000 --> 00:41:59,120 Speaker 2: Anything, also someone said a hangout, stream what does that? 846 00:41:59,200 --> 00:42:03,239 Speaker 1: Mean we're hanging? Out they just hanging? Out members only 847 00:42:03,280 --> 00:42:04,440 Speaker 1: hang out. Straight maybe we could do that. 848 00:42:04,480 --> 00:42:06,840 Speaker 2: Anyway oh, okay very interesting. Idea but back to the. 849 00:42:06,880 --> 00:42:08,680 Speaker 2: STORY i ran to. 850 00:42:08,680 --> 00:42:12,280 Speaker 4: The room that we made for, him even more anger 851 00:42:12,320 --> 00:42:15,319 Speaker 4: flooded over. Me he stuffed all of my special needs 852 00:42:15,400 --> 00:42:18,759 Speaker 4: child stuff together in this, room a room that is 853 00:42:18,800 --> 00:42:20,640 Speaker 4: not meant for this type of. Equipment so he took 854 00:42:20,719 --> 00:42:22,719 Speaker 4: all the stuff that all the padding and everything for 855 00:42:22,840 --> 00:42:25,200 Speaker 4: artistic daughter's room into the closet. 856 00:42:25,040 --> 00:42:26,000 Speaker 2: And, like how's? 857 00:42:26,080 --> 00:42:27,719 Speaker 1: It, LIKE i guess it's a big. Closet if you 858 00:42:27,719 --> 00:42:29,880 Speaker 1: can fit a trim lead in the, closet it's probably pretty. 859 00:42:29,920 --> 00:42:32,000 Speaker 1: Big like she, said he just like stuffed it in 860 00:42:32,040 --> 00:42:34,239 Speaker 1: and it doesn't fit at. All oh, okay it's still 861 00:42:34,480 --> 00:42:37,520 Speaker 1: it could still be. That it's just like a tiny 862 00:42:37,560 --> 00:42:39,960 Speaker 1: closet and barely fits. Anything, ALSO i shout out to 863 00:42:40,000 --> 00:42:42,239 Speaker 1: a seven x. Angel love you. Guys thanks for the. 864 00:42:42,320 --> 00:42:44,719 Speaker 4: Tubuctip hey thanks for also using the donation. Link we 865 00:42:44,760 --> 00:42:46,600 Speaker 4: have a link, Actually, sophia if you could drop it 866 00:42:46,640 --> 00:42:48,520 Speaker 4: in the, chat that would be. Great we have a 867 00:42:48,560 --> 00:42:50,680 Speaker 4: link that doesn't take the thirty percent from, YouTube so 868 00:42:50,800 --> 00:42:51,680 Speaker 4: we'll appreciate we do. 869 00:42:51,680 --> 00:42:53,759 Speaker 1: That but Jesse m says the husband is the asshole 870 00:42:53,840 --> 00:42:56,600 Speaker 1: because it's a structured space for their daughter with autism 871 00:42:56,800 --> 00:42:59,759 Speaker 1: that needs to have a particular. Structure kimberly Find he, says, 872 00:42:59,800 --> 00:43:02,240 Speaker 1: yeah but, ALSO, opi you should have paid special attention 873 00:43:02,440 --> 00:43:03,360 Speaker 1: and at least made wait For. 874 00:43:03,480 --> 00:43:04,640 Speaker 2: Sofia can you scroll up a little? 875 00:43:04,640 --> 00:43:08,640 Speaker 1: Bit, uh you says, divorce divorce divorce on the Chat. 876 00:43:08,640 --> 00:43:11,520 Speaker 1: Fia can you scroll up a little? Bit keep, going keep, 877 00:43:11,560 --> 00:43:14,799 Speaker 1: going keep going? Quick. Yes Kimberly fine says, yes but 878 00:43:14,880 --> 00:43:17,879 Speaker 1: also op should just pay special attention and at least 879 00:43:17,880 --> 00:43:20,000 Speaker 1: made the closet bendroom feel like it was a space 880 00:43:20,120 --> 00:43:22,920 Speaker 1: made for, them not just an available space to put them. 881 00:43:22,920 --> 00:43:26,080 Speaker 1: In one hundred, yes and shout out To Alluring undoubt 882 00:43:26,120 --> 00:43:28,799 Speaker 1: for the two buck. Tip mudroom is an. Entryway take 883 00:43:28,800 --> 00:43:31,560 Speaker 1: off your buddy. Boots shout out to a Black cat 884 00:43:31,600 --> 00:43:33,719 Speaker 1: for the two. Bucks listen to you guys while learning the, 885 00:43:33,719 --> 00:43:35,839 Speaker 1: crochet and shout out To Tiffany velvet for the two. 886 00:43:35,840 --> 00:43:36,880 Speaker 2: Bucks just the. 887 00:43:36,920 --> 00:43:39,279 Speaker 1: Tip, yeah, wow you guys are all coming in really. 888 00:43:39,320 --> 00:43:39,920 Speaker 1: Quick let's. 889 00:43:39,960 --> 00:43:41,320 Speaker 2: Go we appreciate. 890 00:43:41,320 --> 00:43:43,399 Speaker 4: It thanks for giving us the. Tip, yes we love, 891 00:43:43,440 --> 00:43:47,680 Speaker 4: it So opie. SAYS i started yelling at the at the, 892 00:43:47,800 --> 00:43:50,960 Speaker 4: nanny demanding to know when this. Happened she told me 893 00:43:51,040 --> 00:43:53,680 Speaker 4: my boyfriend did it AND i call him demanding to come. 894 00:43:53,719 --> 00:43:53,959 Speaker 2: Home. 895 00:43:54,239 --> 00:43:57,359 Speaker 4: NOW i felt horrible for going off on, her AND 896 00:43:57,440 --> 00:44:00,560 Speaker 4: i apologized AS i was calming. Down when we got, 897 00:44:00,600 --> 00:44:03,880 Speaker 4: home he asked what my problem, was AND i lost 898 00:44:03,920 --> 00:44:06,120 Speaker 4: it on. HIM i told him the rooms were to 899 00:44:06,160 --> 00:44:09,920 Speaker 4: go back to the way they were before the previous, 900 00:44:09,960 --> 00:44:12,600 Speaker 4: week or him and his son could get. 901 00:44:12,760 --> 00:44:17,560 Speaker 1: Out of my. House, god get it out of. 902 00:44:17,560 --> 00:44:20,960 Speaker 4: Here jac says it seems Like op is very worried 903 00:44:21,000 --> 00:44:24,040 Speaker 4: about her own as she should her own, child that 904 00:44:24,080 --> 00:44:27,080 Speaker 4: she hasn't been concerned about this new child having their 905 00:44:27,120 --> 00:44:30,160 Speaker 4: own proper. Space so, Actually jacy brings up a great 906 00:44:30,200 --> 00:44:31,640 Speaker 4: point THAT i want to ask you on the chat right. 907 00:44:31,640 --> 00:44:35,279 Speaker 4: Now Was op the a hole for saying closet or 908 00:44:35,320 --> 00:44:36,600 Speaker 4: nothing for the other? 909 00:44:36,719 --> 00:44:41,319 Speaker 1: Kid, essentially it feels like somewhat unconcerned about how that 910 00:44:41,440 --> 00:44:44,120 Speaker 1: child would live in the. Closet, yes you, know like 911 00:44:44,239 --> 00:44:46,160 Speaker 1: it seems it seems LIKE opi was, LIKE i don't really. 912 00:44:46,200 --> 00:44:50,640 Speaker 1: Care But Laura artistry has a very interesting. Point they 913 00:44:50,719 --> 00:44:53,200 Speaker 1: are not, married they're not. Married they're not. Married the 914 00:44:53,320 --> 00:44:55,239 Speaker 1: move it in but not, married moving not. Married BUT 915 00:44:55,280 --> 00:44:56,880 Speaker 1: i feel like if you're moving, in you kind of 916 00:44:56,920 --> 00:45:00,000 Speaker 1: have to like you have to you have to accept 917 00:45:00,160 --> 00:45:02,880 Speaker 1: all of that person's like all that person and that 918 00:45:02,920 --> 00:45:05,760 Speaker 1: includes their. Kid, Right so if you're at that point 919 00:45:05,920 --> 00:45:08,520 Speaker 1: where you're moving, IN i think you should be concerned 920 00:45:08,520 --> 00:45:09,680 Speaker 1: about the children that they. 921 00:45:09,719 --> 00:45:13,760 Speaker 4: Have but if you're providing the house and your daughter 922 00:45:13,880 --> 00:45:17,600 Speaker 4: has you know everything you've you've you've done for do 923 00:45:17,719 --> 00:45:21,560 Speaker 4: you and and you have a large, closet small? 924 00:45:21,600 --> 00:45:22,080 Speaker 2: Bedroom? 925 00:45:22,239 --> 00:45:23,399 Speaker 1: Yeah why? 926 00:45:23,400 --> 00:45:23,600 Speaker 2: Don't? 927 00:45:23,840 --> 00:45:23,960 Speaker 5: All? 928 00:45:24,000 --> 00:45:26,680 Speaker 2: Right question why don't? Why how about the other? Kid 929 00:45:26,680 --> 00:45:27,279 Speaker 2: why don't they just? 930 00:45:27,320 --> 00:45:31,239 Speaker 1: Bunk how does why doesn't the the kid the other 931 00:45:31,320 --> 00:45:32,960 Speaker 1: kid bunk with the non autistic? 932 00:45:33,000 --> 00:45:34,200 Speaker 2: Kid that is a great. 933 00:45:34,280 --> 00:45:38,399 Speaker 4: Question AND i think the breakdown was that it's either 934 00:45:38,400 --> 00:45:40,279 Speaker 4: a three bedroom or they wanted all the kids to 935 00:45:40,320 --> 00:45:44,439 Speaker 4: have their own. Room, actually maybe this this way by 936 00:45:44,440 --> 00:45:45,120 Speaker 4: converting the. 937 00:45:45,160 --> 00:45:47,680 Speaker 2: Closet what was all the? 938 00:45:47,760 --> 00:45:49,839 Speaker 1: Kids so it's LIKE. 939 00:45:49,800 --> 00:45:50,960 Speaker 2: I need of this. 940 00:45:51,040 --> 00:45:56,439 Speaker 4: Closet the, closet the, Closet, SOPHIA couldu scroll up a little. 941 00:45:56,440 --> 00:45:58,840 Speaker 4: Bit we had some people weighing in On anya for 942 00:45:58,880 --> 00:45:59,359 Speaker 4: the five buck. 943 00:45:59,400 --> 00:46:02,680 Speaker 1: Tip SHOULD i a burger or? Not if you want a, 944 00:46:02,760 --> 00:46:04,200 Speaker 1: burger go for. 945 00:46:04,280 --> 00:46:07,600 Speaker 4: IT i, say go, Burger go. Burger scrope a little 946 00:46:07,640 --> 00:46:09,680 Speaker 4: to see who was saying not the a hole or 947 00:46:09,760 --> 00:46:10,000 Speaker 4: the a? 948 00:46:10,160 --> 00:46:11,840 Speaker 2: Hole where was? 949 00:46:11,880 --> 00:46:16,359 Speaker 1: It, Yeah marco m, says big. Closet Angel flower says 950 00:46:16,400 --> 00:46:19,400 Speaker 1: she's a bit Unconcerned Britney. Williams but at the closet 951 00:46:19,440 --> 00:46:21,520 Speaker 1: was too small for the small six year, old how 952 00:46:21,560 --> 00:46:23,960 Speaker 1: would it be okay for a sixteen year old autistic. 953 00:46:24,040 --> 00:46:27,600 Speaker 1: Child we're not saying that the autistic child should go 954 00:46:27,640 --> 00:46:28,720 Speaker 1: into the closet. 955 00:46:30,320 --> 00:46:30,560 Speaker 2: Saying. 956 00:46:30,560 --> 00:46:35,920 Speaker 1: That WHAT i was, Saying, Yeah i'm saying the like 957 00:46:36,080 --> 00:46:40,120 Speaker 1: the two kids could bed, together which is a weird 958 00:46:40,160 --> 00:46:41,759 Speaker 1: way of saying. That, anyway let's keep reading the. 959 00:46:41,800 --> 00:46:45,680 Speaker 4: Stories so when he got, home he asked what my problem, 960 00:46:45,760 --> 00:46:46,680 Speaker 4: was AND i lost it on. 961 00:46:46,760 --> 00:46:49,080 Speaker 1: HIM i told him the rooms were to go back 962 00:46:49,080 --> 00:46:51,759 Speaker 1: to the way. Before before he. Left he told me 963 00:46:52,000 --> 00:46:55,360 Speaker 1: he's not changing the rooms back for my, brat. 964 00:46:56,280 --> 00:46:57,440 Speaker 2: AND i can't make him. 965 00:46:57,520 --> 00:47:02,000 Speaker 1: Leave oh, dude of course they're. Not, yeah fucking, yeah 966 00:47:02,040 --> 00:47:06,719 Speaker 1: you lost. It, yeah so divorce, chance question, chance they're not, 967 00:47:06,800 --> 00:47:09,200 Speaker 1: married but divorce. Divorce Molly thorne, thinks for the two, 968 00:47:09,239 --> 00:47:12,359 Speaker 1: bucks we appreciate you loving the bubbles and The Harry potter. 969 00:47:12,440 --> 00:47:15,360 Speaker 1: Vibes that's what we bring every. Day do you think 970 00:47:15,440 --> 00:47:18,719 Speaker 1: they should get? Divorced? Uh, YEAH i think they. Should they. 971 00:47:18,719 --> 00:47:22,640 Speaker 1: Should obviously they. Are they do not care about each 972 00:47:22,680 --> 00:47:25,600 Speaker 1: other's children enough to live. Together and if you have, 973 00:47:25,719 --> 00:47:29,319 Speaker 1: children you have to, like you're you're. Married you're, married your, 974 00:47:29,400 --> 00:47:32,560 Speaker 1: children you're. Married you're you're just saying it's, cat you're 975 00:47:32,600 --> 00:47:34,600 Speaker 1: catching me all these. Terribles you're. 976 00:47:34,640 --> 00:47:35,000 Speaker 2: Married the. 977 00:47:35,120 --> 00:47:39,719 Speaker 1: Children shout out To naomi for the fifty dollars. Tip, 978 00:47:39,800 --> 00:47:43,200 Speaker 1: well shout out To Daddy jesse for the three hundred 979 00:47:43,200 --> 00:47:45,439 Speaker 1: and twenty. Bucks need at least a two hour. Stream 980 00:47:45,480 --> 00:47:48,120 Speaker 1: shout out to stars fall up the one dollar. Tip 981 00:47:48,400 --> 00:47:52,520 Speaker 1: oh my, God Daddy, Jesse Daddy jesse earning the daddy. 982 00:47:52,640 --> 00:47:55,200 Speaker 3: Name, okay general just stepped up to the. 983 00:47:55,080 --> 00:47:58,640 Speaker 1: Fucking damn straight all, right that means it's a two hour. 984 00:47:58,719 --> 00:48:02,000 Speaker 1: Stream you all, Shoutout Put daddy's in the, Chat Put 985 00:48:02,080 --> 00:48:06,440 Speaker 1: daddy's in the. Chat, Chat daddy, Shit Yaddy. Jesse you've 986 00:48:06,440 --> 00:48:09,759 Speaker 1: been fucking you're fucking murdering it out, here on, it on. 987 00:48:09,840 --> 00:48:12,319 Speaker 1: IT i just spilled my little red. Bull oh now 988 00:48:12,360 --> 00:48:12,920 Speaker 1: your legs will be. 989 00:48:13,000 --> 00:48:15,520 Speaker 4: ENERGIZED i love How, DAD i love How jesse comes 990 00:48:15,520 --> 00:48:19,640 Speaker 4: in and she's like just. It it goes, crazy, Right 991 00:48:19,680 --> 00:48:22,040 Speaker 4: you just lose your sense of self even. 992 00:48:22,440 --> 00:48:24,880 Speaker 1: Is an ambiguous. Name jesse could be any a gender 993 00:48:25,120 --> 00:48:25,400 Speaker 1: that is. 994 00:48:25,440 --> 00:48:27,480 Speaker 2: True, Jesse jesse's. 995 00:48:27,520 --> 00:48:29,800 Speaker 1: Girl you got my Friend. Jesse jesse's the. 996 00:48:29,840 --> 00:48:32,080 Speaker 3: Truck BUT i do know what's about to happen to this. 997 00:48:32,160 --> 00:48:35,200 Speaker 1: Story, Yeah daddy's in the chat For jesse spam the. Chat, 998 00:48:35,440 --> 00:48:38,680 Speaker 1: Also Peachy brains likes for the ten. Bucks this husband. 999 00:48:38,840 --> 00:48:41,400 Speaker 1: Sucks love you, guys shout out To aobi for the fifty. 1000 00:48:41,400 --> 00:48:44,920 Speaker 1: Bucks you didn't even write. Anything that was literally just just, 1001 00:48:44,960 --> 00:48:47,520 Speaker 1: silence just dropping, it just dropping. It that's honestly the 1002 00:48:47,560 --> 00:48:48,200 Speaker 1: most you can say. 1003 00:48:48,200 --> 00:48:48,399 Speaker 2: Though. 1004 00:48:48,480 --> 00:48:52,399 Speaker 1: Yeah, also, Daddy jesse put heartworms for the worm, Army 1005 00:48:52,440 --> 00:48:53,280 Speaker 1: sophia's worm. 1006 00:48:53,160 --> 00:48:54,560 Speaker 2: Army that is catching on way too. 1007 00:48:54,640 --> 00:49:00,919 Speaker 1: Quick it is the soil will be fair till we whim. 1008 00:49:01,239 --> 00:49:05,799 Speaker 1: Crawling all, Right so let's get into the. Update let's do. 1009 00:49:05,880 --> 00:49:13,160 Speaker 4: It he's blowing me up saying saying THAT i overreacted 1010 00:49:13,200 --> 00:49:15,920 Speaker 4: and my daughter doesn't need that much, room that he 1011 00:49:16,000 --> 00:49:17,440 Speaker 4: had every right to change the. 1012 00:49:17,520 --> 00:49:19,600 Speaker 1: Rooms do you, no, bro it's not your. 1013 00:49:19,600 --> 00:49:22,440 Speaker 4: HOUSE i told him to never contact me again and 1014 00:49:22,480 --> 00:49:25,840 Speaker 4: blocked him on. Everything AM i the a? Hole so 1015 00:49:25,920 --> 00:49:27,959 Speaker 4: now now we're coming up to an update to catch 1016 00:49:27,960 --> 00:49:30,440 Speaker 4: everyone up to speed because we have five. 1017 00:49:30,320 --> 00:49:33,759 Speaker 1: Hundred and eighty people in that. Chat welcome everybody like the. 1018 00:49:33,800 --> 00:49:36,000 Speaker 1: Stream have we pinned A tldr on this one? YET 1019 00:49:36,040 --> 00:49:37,480 Speaker 1: i don't think we, have so let me give it 1020 00:49:37,520 --> 00:49:40,560 Speaker 1: to you real. Quick, so, Uh opie had her boyfriend moving. In, 1021 00:49:41,080 --> 00:49:43,719 Speaker 1: uh she had a, kid her a boyfriend had a, 1022 00:49:43,800 --> 00:49:47,720 Speaker 1: kid and then they had one kid. Together And opie's 1023 00:49:47,760 --> 00:49:51,680 Speaker 1: daughter has, autism so she had this whole dope room. 1024 00:49:51,480 --> 00:49:52,520 Speaker 2: Specially outfitted for. 1025 00:49:52,560 --> 00:49:55,600 Speaker 4: Her she leaves for a week and the boyfriend comes, 1026 00:49:55,600 --> 00:49:58,239 Speaker 4: in rips down the room and shoves it in the 1027 00:49:58,320 --> 00:50:03,920 Speaker 4: closet room, literally which is allegedly a small. Bedroom, okay 1028 00:50:03,960 --> 00:50:05,799 Speaker 4: WE'RE i think we're gonna figure out how big it. 1029 00:50:05,840 --> 00:50:09,800 Speaker 4: Is but then she confronts him and she's. 1030 00:50:09,640 --> 00:50:12,520 Speaker 1: Like, Leaf, Yeah we're like, like, literally why did you 1031 00:50:12,600 --> 00:50:16,840 Speaker 1: completely take away my? Everything my autistic daughter needs to 1032 00:50:16,880 --> 00:50:18,440 Speaker 1: feel comfortable in her own, room. 1033 00:50:18,360 --> 00:50:21,560 Speaker 4: And why did aveda that are five give us everything 1034 00:50:21,600 --> 00:50:22,920 Speaker 4: with a fifty dollars. 1035 00:50:22,960 --> 00:50:28,359 Speaker 1: Donation longtime, lurker first time watching. LIVE i work ten hour, 1036 00:50:28,400 --> 00:50:30,440 Speaker 1: shifts So i'll just download a bunch of episodes On 1037 00:50:30,480 --> 00:50:33,239 Speaker 1: spotify and go from. There it's plug Into. Spotify thanks 1038 00:50:33,280 --> 00:50:35,799 Speaker 1: for that And knowmi thanks for the five buck. Tech 1039 00:50:35,880 --> 00:50:37,920 Speaker 1: thank you to ever give to the membership that landed 1040 00:50:37,960 --> 00:50:41,040 Speaker 1: in my. INBOX o kop fam is the best true. 1041 00:50:41,400 --> 00:50:44,800 Speaker 1: Dog everyone. Is, yeah, DUDE i love our little. Community. 1042 00:50:44,840 --> 00:50:47,000 Speaker 1: Y'all y'all are talking to each other in the. Comments, 1043 00:50:47,040 --> 00:50:51,640 Speaker 1: also the discord goes. Off everyone's Everyone's oh, Yeah gina, 1044 00:50:51,680 --> 00:50:53,960 Speaker 1: says we need worm queen. Merch this is how we'll 1045 00:50:54,000 --> 00:50:57,440 Speaker 1: show loyalty to our. Queen sophia's she's she's on the, 1046 00:50:57,480 --> 00:51:01,200 Speaker 1: case aren't, You? Sofia, Yeah sobia is GONNA i want 1047 00:51:01,239 --> 00:51:04,000 Speaker 1: that say if he hasn't like said a, word she's 1048 00:51:04,040 --> 00:51:04,239 Speaker 1: just like. 1049 00:51:04,360 --> 00:51:06,880 Speaker 2: HE i don't know how Much i'm allowed to. 1050 00:51:07,040 --> 00:51:08,960 Speaker 3: Talk you can't talk as much as you. 1051 00:51:09,000 --> 00:51:10,160 Speaker 2: Want, okay there we. 1052 00:51:10,200 --> 00:51:13,960 Speaker 3: Go but ladies and, gentlemen we do have an. 1053 00:51:14,040 --> 00:51:14,799 Speaker 1: Updates get. 1054 00:51:14,840 --> 00:51:14,960 Speaker 10: It? 1055 00:51:15,000 --> 00:51:19,040 Speaker 4: SO i filed charges AND i am suing for the, 1056 00:51:19,160 --> 00:51:21,520 Speaker 4: damages suing the boyfriend for the. 1057 00:51:21,600 --> 00:51:23,080 Speaker 1: Damages what are the damages? 1058 00:51:23,080 --> 00:51:23,239 Speaker 11: Are? 1059 00:51:23,320 --> 00:51:26,279 Speaker 4: Like he ripped it down the, Apartment, yeah which is 1060 00:51:26,400 --> 00:51:29,200 Speaker 4: totally outfit and. WHATNOT i didn't hate his. Son the 1061 00:51:29,239 --> 00:51:33,040 Speaker 4: walking closet was a bedroom before people remodeled and made 1062 00:51:33,080 --> 00:51:33,880 Speaker 4: it into a walking. 1063 00:51:33,920 --> 00:51:37,720 Speaker 1: Closet the room was a foot and a half from. 1064 00:51:37,600 --> 00:51:40,799 Speaker 4: Being a full, bed SO i guess it was a 1065 00:51:40,840 --> 00:51:42,359 Speaker 4: foot and a half, away SO i just have to 1066 00:51:42,400 --> 00:51:42,880 Speaker 4: angle the. 1067 00:51:43,440 --> 00:51:47,480 Speaker 1: Yeah or if you have like a kiddy dead, imagine no, 1068 00:51:47,600 --> 00:51:52,000 Speaker 1: worry it's a foot of half like the kids. Like it's, 1069 00:51:52,040 --> 00:51:59,160 Speaker 1: OKAY i need like, Circulation, dad it's, okay a Married, sam. 1070 00:51:58,880 --> 00:52:02,120 Speaker 2: You should tell about your bedroom as a. 1071 00:52:02,200 --> 00:52:05,440 Speaker 1: Child in my, BEDROOM i feel LIKE i don't even 1072 00:52:05,480 --> 00:52:10,640 Speaker 1: know what you're referring. To, okay, story he has an 1073 00:52:10,640 --> 00:52:12,920 Speaker 1: okay story time about my bed as a child for 1074 00:52:12,960 --> 00:52:15,600 Speaker 1: all you horn dogs get, ready. 1075 00:52:16,040 --> 00:52:19,480 Speaker 4: But we still got the, update ladies and. Gentlemen the 1076 00:52:19,520 --> 00:52:22,719 Speaker 4: walking closet did it. UP i remodeled it for, him 1077 00:52:22,960 --> 00:52:25,640 Speaker 4: the sun moving. IN i made it into a little 1078 00:52:25,640 --> 00:52:28,880 Speaker 4: boy's dream. ROOM i went. OUT i went out AND 1079 00:52:28,920 --> 00:52:31,759 Speaker 4: i bought An xbox and A ps five with a 1080 00:52:31,800 --> 00:52:35,240 Speaker 4: bunch of. Games BECAUSE i even added a gaming area 1081 00:52:35,360 --> 00:52:38,960 Speaker 4: in the. Room all BECAUSE i refuse to take responsibility 1082 00:52:39,560 --> 00:52:42,320 Speaker 4: over a kid that's not, mine doesn't MEAN i treat 1083 00:52:42,400 --> 00:52:46,080 Speaker 4: him like it doesn't belong and edit for further. Clarification 1084 00:52:46,239 --> 00:52:51,640 Speaker 4: the room is eleven feet by eleven, feet which is pretty. 1085 00:52:51,719 --> 00:52:53,320 Speaker 1: Large that's a huge. 1086 00:52:53,480 --> 00:52:54,319 Speaker 2: Closet that's. 1087 00:52:54,440 --> 00:52:57,360 Speaker 4: Right, yah that kid's got plenty of rooms and he 1088 00:52:57,440 --> 00:53:00,279 Speaker 4: has a gaming center at his box ps having. 1089 00:53:00,320 --> 00:53:03,120 Speaker 1: Games this ROOM i think is what like fifteen feet 1090 00:53:03,120 --> 00:53:06,399 Speaker 1: by fifteen or, something and shout Out maya for the ten. 1091 00:53:06,480 --> 00:53:08,759 Speaker 1: Bucks my husband have beef ley. All every TIME i 1092 00:53:08,760 --> 00:53:12,040 Speaker 1: go to, bed he hears your voices on the. Phone, Oh, 1093 00:53:12,160 --> 00:53:16,680 Speaker 1: MAYA i hope your husband doesn't hear us. Anymore just 1094 00:53:16,880 --> 00:53:18,680 Speaker 1: keep this little secret between. 1095 00:53:18,840 --> 00:53:22,600 Speaker 4: Us guess What maya's. Husband if they're keeping us, up we're. 1096 00:53:22,520 --> 00:53:23,120 Speaker 2: Keeping you up. 1097 00:53:23,160 --> 00:53:26,840 Speaker 4: Too, okay, buddy that's, right that's. Right no sleep for 1098 00:53:26,920 --> 00:53:30,920 Speaker 4: anybody around. Here all, right we're almost to the end 1099 00:53:30,960 --> 00:53:34,439 Speaker 4: of a, story ladies and. Gentlemen so WHERE i live 1100 00:53:34,760 --> 00:53:37,520 Speaker 4: this is considered a full bedroom eleven Eleven uh oh, 1101 00:53:37,560 --> 00:53:41,560 Speaker 4: sorry Where i'm considered a full bedroom is is considered 1102 00:53:41,600 --> 00:53:43,520 Speaker 4: eleven feet by twelve and a half. Feet so it's 1103 00:53:43,719 --> 00:53:46,600 Speaker 4: just shy of a full, bedroom not a full, bed 1104 00:53:46,960 --> 00:53:48,640 Speaker 4: a full, bed not just fitting a full. 1105 00:53:48,680 --> 00:53:49,360 Speaker 2: Bed, yeah that's a. 1106 00:53:49,760 --> 00:53:52,640 Speaker 4: Context, yeah there was enough room again to give him 1107 00:53:52,640 --> 00:53:54,920 Speaker 4: a gaming, area put in a, bed a toy, area 1108 00:53:55,000 --> 00:53:57,920 Speaker 4: a little snack, area plus some room to run and 1109 00:53:57,960 --> 00:54:01,160 Speaker 4: play and a hang up Basket, hoop it is. 1110 00:54:01,080 --> 00:54:03,600 Speaker 2: Really not as small as people are. 1111 00:54:03,640 --> 00:54:06,200 Speaker 1: Acting, okay that is the end of the, story, right 1112 00:54:06,440 --> 00:54:11,759 Speaker 1: that changes. Everything that changes. Everything i'd say not THE a. 1113 00:54:11,880 --> 00:54:14,200 Speaker 1: Hole now that we know that the room is like 1114 00:54:14,280 --> 00:54:16,960 Speaker 1: not A Harry potter closet and like a full, ROOM 1115 00:54:17,320 --> 00:54:20,600 Speaker 1: i don't think Oh op is being. Generous, YES opi 1116 00:54:20,760 --> 00:54:22,239 Speaker 1: is being. Generous it's her. 1117 00:54:22,280 --> 00:54:23,839 Speaker 3: House it's her. 1118 00:54:23,840 --> 00:54:25,440 Speaker 1: House she she bought. 1119 00:54:25,239 --> 00:54:27,200 Speaker 4: The xbox and THE ps five and all the, games 1120 00:54:27,200 --> 00:54:30,720 Speaker 4: she outfitted it to be, again, yeah. 1121 00:54:30,440 --> 00:54:34,160 Speaker 1: And then the husband literally like took like, it she 1122 00:54:34,360 --> 00:54:37,920 Speaker 1: like took things when she specifically, said my autistic child 1123 00:54:38,400 --> 00:54:40,920 Speaker 1: can like needs all of this to feel, safe to 1124 00:54:40,960 --> 00:54:44,759 Speaker 1: feel like like firm in her reality or. Whatever that's 1125 00:54:44,880 --> 00:54:47,520 Speaker 1: that was a Terrible i'm just saying that terrible thing, 1126 00:54:47,640 --> 00:54:51,200 Speaker 1: anyway just like to feel like, safe and took that 1127 00:54:51,320 --> 00:54:53,239 Speaker 1: away and moved it into the, kids like his kid's. 1128 00:54:53,320 --> 00:54:56,440 Speaker 1: Room that's so messed, up so messed. Up SO i 1129 00:54:56,480 --> 00:54:58,960 Speaker 1: think they should definitely break. UP i Think op is 1130 00:54:59,000 --> 00:55:00,880 Speaker 1: not the a. Hole The the only thing THAT i 1131 00:55:00,960 --> 00:55:02,959 Speaker 1: might switch is like she could have been like maybe 1132 00:55:03,000 --> 00:55:05,840 Speaker 1: a little bit more active in the putting together of 1133 00:55:05,880 --> 00:55:09,160 Speaker 1: the six year old's. Room potentially like if she wanted 1134 00:55:09,200 --> 00:55:11,440 Speaker 1: to be the, angel but definitely not THE a. 1135 00:55:11,480 --> 00:55:15,319 Speaker 4: Whole counter, argument what if the kid is, LIKE i 1136 00:55:15,400 --> 00:55:16,760 Speaker 4: want to be the NEXT nba. 1137 00:55:16,920 --> 00:55:18,320 Speaker 1: LEGEND i need. 1138 00:55:18,160 --> 00:55:22,560 Speaker 4: More room for my three hit three throws on my 1139 00:55:22,760 --> 00:55:24,160 Speaker 4: like hanging back and. 1140 00:55:24,080 --> 00:55:26,000 Speaker 1: He's like a six eight six year old and. 1141 00:55:25,960 --> 00:55:28,760 Speaker 4: He's a six year, old and he's, like he's, like step, 1142 00:55:28,760 --> 00:55:31,040 Speaker 4: MOM i need this room to get my threes going 1143 00:55:31,239 --> 00:55:33,439 Speaker 4: crazy SO i can get in THE nba and buy 1144 00:55:33,480 --> 00:55:33,759 Speaker 4: you a. 1145 00:55:33,680 --> 00:55:36,359 Speaker 1: House, exactly and, really, like what you're doing is you're 1146 00:55:36,360 --> 00:55:38,040 Speaker 1: shooting yourself in the. Foot you should invest in this, 1147 00:55:38,120 --> 00:55:41,319 Speaker 1: child true to HER nba. Crew, YEAH i don't think 1148 00:55:41,360 --> 00:55:44,160 Speaker 1: op's the a whole at. ALL i would love to 1149 00:55:44,200 --> 00:55:48,000 Speaker 1: read some of the, Comments, sofia can you scroll maya 1150 00:55:48,200 --> 00:55:50,799 Speaker 1: two to one? Three, wait can you scroll down for 1151 00:55:50,840 --> 00:55:53,479 Speaker 1: You maya two to one, three which is Maybe maya 1152 00:55:53,719 --> 00:55:55,560 Speaker 1: is there A maya two one two In mayo two one? 1153 00:55:55,600 --> 00:55:58,520 Speaker 1: Three maya two one two says not the, ale he 1154 00:55:58,719 --> 00:56:03,440 Speaker 1: was jealous of her financial. Situation Maybe alip is with 1155 00:56:03,480 --> 00:56:05,920 Speaker 1: a bedroom, before so there's probably a window in it. 1156 00:56:06,000 --> 00:56:09,560 Speaker 1: Already that's a good. Point that's a good. Point don't 1157 00:56:09,680 --> 00:56:12,439 Speaker 1: try the kids at the. Window that's, True shan, Says, 1158 00:56:12,480 --> 00:56:15,960 Speaker 1: oh he said specifically that she didn't want to bunk 1159 00:56:16,040 --> 00:56:17,760 Speaker 1: any of the. Kids. Ah, WHY. 1160 00:56:19,840 --> 00:56:22,120 Speaker 4: I guess so that way every kid has their own 1161 00:56:22,360 --> 00:56:24,760 Speaker 4: room or. SOMETHING i guess what's what would your preference? 1162 00:56:24,800 --> 00:56:27,080 Speaker 4: Be would you RATHER i would have the closet own 1163 00:56:27,160 --> 00:56:29,720 Speaker 4: room or bunk it with someone? 1164 00:56:29,719 --> 00:56:33,120 Speaker 1: ELSE i, MEAN i lived with my childhood best friend 1165 00:56:33,880 --> 00:56:37,239 Speaker 1: for like four years in the same. Room my bunk 1166 00:56:37,280 --> 00:56:39,560 Speaker 1: beds not a, child and he's not a. CHILD i 1167 00:56:39,640 --> 00:56:43,560 Speaker 1: lived WHEN i was twenty. SIX i lived with my 1168 00:56:44,000 --> 00:56:46,919 Speaker 1: childhood best friend in the same. Room if we had bunk, 1169 00:56:46,960 --> 00:56:49,600 Speaker 1: BEDS i would have loved, that, DUDE i Would i'm. 1170 00:56:49,480 --> 00:56:50,200 Speaker 2: Bunk bed all the. 1171 00:56:50,200 --> 00:56:55,600 Speaker 1: Way UH i. 1172 00:56:55,640 --> 00:56:56,160 Speaker 2: WAS i. 1173 00:56:56,239 --> 00:56:59,560 Speaker 1: WAS i was top in. College oh. God Linda spark 1174 00:56:59,600 --> 00:57:01,520 Speaker 1: says she had two girls and he had a. Boy 1175 00:57:01,760 --> 00:57:06,239 Speaker 1: OH i, SEE i see so like separation of genders 1176 00:57:06,280 --> 00:57:10,040 Speaker 1: in the. ROOMS i can't understand our step. Kids, technically. 1177 00:57:11,239 --> 00:57:11,479 Speaker 2: It's. 1178 00:57:11,520 --> 00:57:14,320 Speaker 1: True it's true they are step. 1179 00:57:14,440 --> 00:57:16,120 Speaker 2: Children it's. 1180 00:57:16,280 --> 00:57:20,040 Speaker 1: Legitimate said that any, also do we have op in 1181 00:57:20,080 --> 00:57:23,760 Speaker 1: the chat op okay? Computer are you in the chat okay? 1182 00:57:23,800 --> 00:57:26,520 Speaker 1: Computer reveal? Yourself Bad wall seven eight to fifty, Said 1183 00:57:26,520 --> 00:57:29,840 Speaker 1: i'd rather have the closet. Room shout Out Diana hernandez 1184 00:57:29,840 --> 00:57:30,640 Speaker 1: for joining our little. 1185 00:57:30,640 --> 00:57:32,520 Speaker 2: SILLIES i feel LIKE i. 1186 00:57:32,400 --> 00:57:36,440 Speaker 1: Saw, like is it A sarah that if if you revealed, 1187 00:57:36,480 --> 00:57:39,560 Speaker 1: yourself can you can you just, like, uh can you 1188 00:57:39,560 --> 00:57:41,919 Speaker 1: just span the chat yourself again and shout out camp 1189 00:57:41,920 --> 00:57:44,880 Speaker 1: for the. Wind the next story should be read by 1190 00:57:44,960 --> 00:57:49,920 Speaker 1: Big Protein riley Or Queen sophia please and Can john 1191 00:57:50,080 --> 00:57:53,760 Speaker 1: start by, saying spill that tea they are producing right. 1192 00:57:53,800 --> 00:57:57,160 Speaker 1: Now we need them to produce. Them but we can 1193 00:57:57,280 --> 00:57:59,800 Speaker 1: do spill that. Tea but you know, what we can 1194 00:57:59,840 --> 00:58:03,000 Speaker 1: all also do WHAT i think we might be able 1195 00:58:03,040 --> 00:58:04,960 Speaker 1: to now do a call it because we're at. 1196 00:58:04,960 --> 00:58:05,560 Speaker 2: It out. 1197 00:58:07,680 --> 00:58:11,520 Speaker 1: Should get, out boys and. Girls so LET'S i could 1198 00:58:11,520 --> 00:58:13,200 Speaker 1: do a short story while you're getting that set. 1199 00:58:13,240 --> 00:58:15,160 Speaker 2: Up do you need that? Time you should tell the 1200 00:58:15,200 --> 00:58:15,680 Speaker 2: story of your? 1201 00:58:15,840 --> 00:58:18,680 Speaker 1: Room, okay all, right we're gonna do a call in 1202 00:58:18,680 --> 00:58:22,400 Speaker 1: in a. Sec should you? What oh, Yeah sophia room, 1203 00:58:22,440 --> 00:58:24,160 Speaker 1: story come over? Here so if he has an okay 1204 00:58:24,240 --> 00:58:30,080 Speaker 1: story time come over, here you can all, right, yeah, 1205 00:58:30,160 --> 00:58:31,520 Speaker 1: yeah spill that you're gonna be. 1206 00:58:31,520 --> 00:58:34,920 Speaker 2: In we're getting. 1207 00:58:34,640 --> 00:58:37,120 Speaker 1: SOME i don't, REMEMBER i don't remember what you're. 1208 00:58:37,120 --> 00:58:40,160 Speaker 2: Talking, well like the SECOND i say. It so in 1209 00:58:40,720 --> 00:58:42,480 Speaker 2: we we lived in a lot of different, places and 1210 00:58:42,600 --> 00:58:45,120 Speaker 2: one of the places that we lived in there was 1211 00:58:45,120 --> 00:58:48,920 Speaker 2: only one Extra so there was my parents bedroom and 1212 00:58:48,960 --> 00:58:54,360 Speaker 2: then one extra. Bedroom uh and instead of uh like 1213 00:58:54,560 --> 00:58:57,439 Speaker 2: splitting that room With sam AND, i my parents gave 1214 00:58:57,560 --> 00:59:00,480 Speaker 2: me that room AND i got a bunk bed And 1215 00:59:00,560 --> 00:59:04,600 Speaker 2: sam lived in my mom's. Office, yeah what the fuck is? 1216 00:59:04,680 --> 00:59:07,240 Speaker 1: That is that why you're so maybe maybe. 1217 00:59:07,000 --> 00:59:07,840 Speaker 2: What the fuck was? 1218 00:59:07,880 --> 00:59:13,320 Speaker 1: That? YEAH i was in the, office my room with the, 1219 00:59:13,360 --> 00:59:14,840 Speaker 1: office and you got your own. 1220 00:59:14,960 --> 00:59:17,800 Speaker 4: Room wait wait was it the office while also being 1221 00:59:17,840 --> 00:59:19,680 Speaker 4: your room or was it oh? 1222 00:59:20,720 --> 00:59:24,360 Speaker 2: Office And sam's bed was in the. Car there wasn't 1223 00:59:24,400 --> 00:59:24,920 Speaker 2: even like a. 1224 00:59:25,120 --> 00:59:31,480 Speaker 1: Door there wasn't even like a, curtain there was. Nothing, 1225 00:59:31,720 --> 00:59:34,280 Speaker 1: yeah it Was it was just like my mom would 1226 00:59:34,280 --> 00:59:37,080 Speaker 1: come in the morning and like start working AND i 1227 00:59:37,120 --> 00:59:40,120 Speaker 1: would just be, asleep And sophia's over here with they're 1228 00:59:40,160 --> 00:59:41,720 Speaker 1: fucking her own. 1229 00:59:41,840 --> 00:59:44,960 Speaker 2: Room they were, like, well she's a growing, girls she 1230 00:59:45,040 --> 00:59:46,520 Speaker 2: NEEDS i was. 1231 00:59:46,720 --> 00:59:52,120 Speaker 1: Older that's such a. Bull that's SO i totally forgot about. 1232 00:59:52,160 --> 00:59:54,960 Speaker 2: That, YEAH i was surprised that You, yeah, IMMEDIATELY i don't, 1233 00:59:55,240 --> 00:59:56,200 Speaker 2: like oh my, god my. 1234 00:59:56,440 --> 01:00:01,320 Speaker 1: Experience, yeah there was only police if you casually bring 1235 01:00:01,400 --> 01:00:07,960 Speaker 1: Up SAM'S. Ptsd let's. Go, yeah, yeah maybe all, right 1236 01:00:08,000 --> 01:00:09,760 Speaker 1: you know, What i'm gonna flip this SO i. Win 1237 01:00:10,080 --> 01:00:12,800 Speaker 1: maybe she was just, LIKE i couldn't possibly do work 1238 01:00:12,880 --> 01:00:16,240 Speaker 1: with my annoying, child and This i'm gonna choose the 1239 01:00:16,240 --> 01:00:16,960 Speaker 1: more well behaved. 1240 01:00:17,000 --> 01:00:18,280 Speaker 2: HER i probably would have annoyed. 1241 01:00:18,320 --> 01:00:19,560 Speaker 1: Her, yeah you would have annoyed. 1242 01:00:19,560 --> 01:00:21,560 Speaker 2: Her but it was also funny because that's we didn't 1243 01:00:21,560 --> 01:00:24,440 Speaker 2: have A tv growing, up and so we used the 1244 01:00:24,520 --> 01:00:25,560 Speaker 2: computer to watch the. 1245 01:00:25,600 --> 01:00:27,240 Speaker 9: Movie, yeah and. 1246 01:00:27,360 --> 01:00:28,760 Speaker 2: The computer was in my. 1247 01:00:29,120 --> 01:00:32,480 Speaker 4: Room, wait so when you all gather around your mom's 1248 01:00:32,520 --> 01:00:34,560 Speaker 4: desk to watch a, Movie. 1249 01:00:34,360 --> 01:00:36,320 Speaker 2: No we would gather on My sam's. Bed. 1250 01:00:37,560 --> 01:00:44,240 Speaker 1: Yeah my room was the, office the entertainment. 1251 01:00:44,320 --> 01:00:49,479 Speaker 2: ROOM i only had the. BED i had had many 1252 01:00:49,560 --> 01:00:50,680 Speaker 2: BIRTH i had a couple of. 1253 01:00:50,720 --> 01:00:53,200 Speaker 1: Birthdays Barbie, RTIE i do get second? 1254 01:00:53,280 --> 01:00:55,400 Speaker 2: Dates what the? Fuck that's Why sam doesn't get second. 1255 01:00:55,480 --> 01:00:58,520 Speaker 2: DATES i. Don't he wasn't getting second dates as a. 1256 01:00:58,640 --> 01:01:02,520 Speaker 1: Child Bailey williams saying for the five, BUCKS i feel 1257 01:01:02,560 --> 01:01:06,720 Speaker 1: Like i've caught every Live let's fucking. Go, yeah Roly 1258 01:01:06,800 --> 01:01:09,160 Speaker 1: poly Says sam was absolutely. Astonished she forgot about all. 1259 01:01:09,200 --> 01:01:12,640 Speaker 1: THIS i don't remember. Anything, no your brain blocked the. 1260 01:01:12,680 --> 01:01:14,680 Speaker 1: Trauma you know What i'm, saying selective. 1261 01:01:14,680 --> 01:01:18,320 Speaker 2: Memory it was it wasn't that. Bad that same. House 1262 01:01:18,880 --> 01:01:24,080 Speaker 2: there was a doggy door and they made. No my 1263 01:01:24,200 --> 01:01:27,680 Speaker 2: mom she came to school one day WHEN i was 1264 01:01:27,720 --> 01:01:30,440 Speaker 2: in first grade and she called me out of. School 1265 01:01:30,520 --> 01:01:32,560 Speaker 2: she took me home AND i was, like what's going? 1266 01:01:32,600 --> 01:01:35,200 Speaker 2: On and she was, Like i've been locked out of the. 1267 01:01:35,240 --> 01:01:39,560 Speaker 2: HOUSE i need you to crawl this is DO i 1268 01:01:39,600 --> 01:01:41,680 Speaker 2: need you to roll through the doggy. Door SO i 1269 01:01:41,720 --> 01:01:47,440 Speaker 2: was taken out of, school go back. IN i was, 1270 01:01:47,440 --> 01:01:50,600 Speaker 2: LIKE i love. It that's. Legendary, yes those are two 1271 01:01:50,640 --> 01:01:51,960 Speaker 2: stories from. That oh my. 1272 01:01:52,000 --> 01:01:57,560 Speaker 1: God using the chat for, that Saying sam's, Suppressed Jama sarah, 1273 01:01:57,560 --> 01:02:00,720 Speaker 1: says like the, stream if you haven't yet six people 1274 01:02:00,800 --> 01:02:04,720 Speaker 1: in this stream, story have you not? Done what do you? 1275 01:02:04,760 --> 01:02:12,440 Speaker 2: Do like the? Stream there's what are we? Doing he, 1276 01:02:12,600 --> 01:02:15,000 Speaker 2: says take it? OFF i just, Did Michelle. Jesus was 1277 01:02:15,000 --> 01:02:18,160 Speaker 2: the doggy Door sam's? Door, no but it. 1278 01:02:18,240 --> 01:02:21,800 Speaker 3: Was it should have. Been it should have, been but it. 1279 01:02:21,840 --> 01:02:24,640 Speaker 2: Was, yeah laundry it was Like sam, was. 1280 01:02:25,960 --> 01:02:28,000 Speaker 3: And then like the doggy it was also the dog. 1281 01:02:28,080 --> 01:02:28,600 Speaker 2: Room we have. 1282 01:02:30,280 --> 01:02:32,480 Speaker 1: Get as, much you, said up these rooms as. Possible, 1283 01:02:32,560 --> 01:02:34,760 Speaker 1: yeah it was a small. 1284 01:02:34,800 --> 01:02:39,400 Speaker 2: House, yeah that is so true there how long were there? 1285 01:02:39,400 --> 01:02:43,400 Speaker 2: For like? Two the dog door wasn't my room and 1286 01:02:43,480 --> 01:02:44,080 Speaker 2: so is the. 1287 01:02:44,240 --> 01:02:46,640 Speaker 1: Dog the cre was in the. 1288 01:02:46,760 --> 01:02:50,760 Speaker 2: Room what the? 1289 01:02:50,920 --> 01:02:54,480 Speaker 1: Fuck, Guys sam is in all right? 1290 01:02:54,520 --> 01:02:57,320 Speaker 3: Now he cannot process what is, happening. 1291 01:02:57,200 --> 01:02:59,040 Speaker 2: Even realize that was not normal back. 1292 01:02:59,080 --> 01:03:02,080 Speaker 1: Then the dog thanks. Eighteen thanks for the five. BUCKS 1293 01:03:02,360 --> 01:03:04,200 Speaker 1: i had to share a room with three step. Brothers 1294 01:03:04,200 --> 01:03:07,400 Speaker 1: it was. Hell, hey everyone understand like having to share 1295 01:03:07,400 --> 01:03:09,440 Speaker 1: a room with a bunch of other, people but she. 1296 01:03:09,640 --> 01:03:11,880 Speaker 2: DID i had A i love the fact THAT i 1297 01:03:11,920 --> 01:03:15,200 Speaker 2: had a bunk bed but still didn't share a room with. 1298 01:03:15,240 --> 01:03:17,959 Speaker 1: You Jody, woodrow thanks for the two. Bucks i'm trying 1299 01:03:17,960 --> 01:03:20,640 Speaker 1: to do a super chat and this one go. Through i'm, 1300 01:03:20,640 --> 01:03:23,600 Speaker 1: Thinking i'm grateful THAT i went, through but you know 1301 01:03:23,640 --> 01:03:26,000 Speaker 1: WHAT i want to get through to WHAT i want 1302 01:03:26,000 --> 01:03:28,840 Speaker 1: to get through these next. Callers Rachel has thanks with 1303 01:03:28,840 --> 01:03:33,440 Speaker 1: the two. Bucks the Octave sam is hitting right. Now 1304 01:03:32,840 --> 01:03:37,680 Speaker 1: we process trauma is, Octaves, Baby it's higher the, octave 1305 01:03:37,760 --> 01:03:39,880 Speaker 1: the more of the. Trauma we were, Loved we were, 1306 01:03:40,000 --> 01:03:47,480 Speaker 1: Loved my mom loved us possibly, Equally it's. Possible definitely. 1307 01:03:47,600 --> 01:03:50,919 Speaker 1: Love Martica, waterma thanks for the five. BUCKS i found 1308 01:03:50,920 --> 01:03:52,720 Speaker 1: out THAT i have. Cancer So i'm watching this stream 1309 01:03:52,720 --> 01:03:55,680 Speaker 1: to make me. Happy, WELL i hope everything turns out, 1310 01:03:55,760 --> 01:03:58,360 Speaker 1: okay and shout out to. You put a heart in 1311 01:03:58,360 --> 01:03:58,800 Speaker 1: the chat From. 1312 01:04:00,720 --> 01:04:03,160 Speaker 12: Artica you guys, ready if you guys want to, call 1313 01:04:03,320 --> 01:04:04,760 Speaker 12: we got one ready. 1314 01:04:04,960 --> 01:04:09,240 Speaker 1: Chat let's get. Chat are they going to tell us 1315 01:04:09,320 --> 01:04:10,400 Speaker 1: their their one? 1316 01:04:10,440 --> 01:04:14,360 Speaker 12: Sentence so they texted me and SAID i had revenge 1317 01:04:14,400 --> 01:04:17,400 Speaker 12: sex with my lying ex's. 1318 01:04:17,440 --> 01:04:20,320 Speaker 2: Brother oh was it? 1319 01:04:20,400 --> 01:04:23,439 Speaker 1: Good we'll find? Out we, will won't? 1320 01:04:23,480 --> 01:04:28,040 Speaker 2: We where we? Go that's the, question not the. 1321 01:04:28,120 --> 01:04:30,720 Speaker 1: Question here we go doctor. 1322 01:04:30,760 --> 01:04:31,560 Speaker 2: Back thanks for the five. 1323 01:04:31,560 --> 01:04:33,760 Speaker 8: Bucks, hey thanks for calling to connect and. 1324 01:04:33,800 --> 01:04:35,560 Speaker 9: Talk just say your name and what you're calling. 1325 01:04:35,560 --> 01:04:36,280 Speaker 2: About after the. 1326 01:04:36,200 --> 01:04:41,160 Speaker 1: BEEP i am Is sam And i'm talking About oh, god. 1327 01:04:41,760 --> 01:04:43,280 Speaker 2: Is that WHAT I? 1328 01:04:43,360 --> 01:04:45,720 Speaker 1: Guys we got a funky, voicemail so we're going to 1329 01:04:45,800 --> 01:04:46,880 Speaker 1: have to try. 1330 01:04:46,960 --> 01:04:51,520 Speaker 12: Again that was, Also, wait she'll she'll come, back she'll come. 1331 01:04:51,520 --> 01:04:55,440 Speaker 12: Back she's it's, like oh you had your. 1332 01:04:55,440 --> 01:04:59,960 Speaker 1: Welo here we go. Funk you see if we get a, 1333 01:05:00,080 --> 01:05:05,240 Speaker 1: Again i'm ready to. Dance i'm ready what they get ask? 1334 01:05:05,360 --> 01:05:10,960 Speaker 1: Questions you are hurt right? NOW Aj thanks for the 1335 01:05:10,960 --> 01:05:13,000 Speaker 1: ten bucks From. Scotland thanks. 1336 01:05:15,000 --> 01:05:16,400 Speaker 9: You remember you dial has been. 1337 01:05:16,480 --> 01:05:22,080 Speaker 13: Changed they had to change your number because it's getting 1338 01:05:22,080 --> 01:05:22,600 Speaker 13: too too much. 1339 01:05:22,640 --> 01:05:23,680 Speaker 1: Drama. 1340 01:05:23,560 --> 01:05:25,600 Speaker 12: Wait, wait the way it works IS i think they 1341 01:05:25,640 --> 01:05:28,120 Speaker 12: have like A google voice set, up so it's, like 1342 01:05:28,320 --> 01:05:31,720 Speaker 12: say your, name stop, talking the radio thing will be 1343 01:05:31,920 --> 01:05:34,240 Speaker 12: the robot will be like, okay and then it'll be 1344 01:05:34,280 --> 01:05:34,720 Speaker 12: able to call. 1345 01:05:34,760 --> 01:05:36,000 Speaker 2: Them so is. 1346 01:05:36,000 --> 01:05:36,840 Speaker 1: It are we still on with? 1347 01:05:36,880 --> 01:05:37,040 Speaker 11: Them? 1348 01:05:37,080 --> 01:05:37,760 Speaker 6: No, no, no but we are. 1349 01:05:37,800 --> 01:05:40,840 Speaker 4: Back we're gonna travel back, again say our, names don't 1350 01:05:40,880 --> 01:05:43,040 Speaker 4: say anything and see if it goes. 1351 01:05:42,880 --> 01:05:45,280 Speaker 1: Through or should we just go to the next? 1352 01:05:45,320 --> 01:05:47,200 Speaker 6: Week do we have another She i'm texting her right, 1353 01:05:47,240 --> 01:05:48,480 Speaker 6: now she's said she try to call. 1354 01:05:48,560 --> 01:05:50,640 Speaker 2: Back, okay we'll shout one more. 1355 01:05:50,640 --> 01:05:52,960 Speaker 1: Time, okay one more time for the. Money all, right 1356 01:05:53,040 --> 01:05:55,160 Speaker 1: go the discord going off right. 1357 01:05:55,200 --> 01:05:59,600 Speaker 2: Now there's more, pictures this worm, army there's there's an. 1358 01:06:00,080 --> 01:06:06,040 Speaker 1: The word, really, hello hello? Us this is? Okay is 1359 01:06:06,080 --> 01:06:08,680 Speaker 1: this is this? Real are you a real human voice 1360 01:06:08,680 --> 01:06:08,920 Speaker 1: that we're? 1361 01:06:08,920 --> 01:06:11,040 Speaker 5: Hearing, Yes i'm a real. 1362 01:06:11,160 --> 01:06:12,960 Speaker 9: Human oh my, god we did? 1363 01:06:13,000 --> 01:06:13,640 Speaker 2: It real? 1364 01:06:13,800 --> 01:06:15,840 Speaker 1: Cuman who are you and where do you hail? 1365 01:06:15,880 --> 01:06:16,080 Speaker 2: From? 1366 01:06:17,720 --> 01:06:21,080 Speaker 14: OH i Am Tiffany AND i meant to tell my 1367 01:06:21,080 --> 01:06:22,560 Speaker 14: story the other night and THEN i fell. 1368 01:06:22,600 --> 01:06:25,000 Speaker 1: Asleep, okay all, good it's all. Good we'll here Now 1369 01:06:25,040 --> 01:06:28,600 Speaker 1: i'm glad you're here. Now, So, tiffany we hear that 1370 01:06:28,680 --> 01:06:34,040 Speaker 1: you had sex with your ex boyfriend's. Brother, yeah can 1371 01:06:34,040 --> 01:06:37,840 Speaker 1: you give us the thirty to sixty second breakdown on 1372 01:06:38,080 --> 01:06:40,040 Speaker 1: how that happened and how that unfolded? 1373 01:06:40,240 --> 01:06:40,360 Speaker 2: You? 1374 01:06:42,160 --> 01:06:45,000 Speaker 14: Okay SO i had an ex who was kind of 1375 01:06:45,040 --> 01:06:49,200 Speaker 14: like a pathological liar If i'm gonna diagnose, people like 1376 01:06:49,280 --> 01:06:52,760 Speaker 14: he lied about even having a. Brother and THEN i 1377 01:06:53,080 --> 01:06:56,240 Speaker 14: found out he was cheating on me with someone and 1378 01:06:56,720 --> 01:06:58,680 Speaker 14: we talked and she showed me a picture of his, 1379 01:06:58,760 --> 01:07:02,400 Speaker 14: brother and we ended up matching on a dating site after, 1380 01:07:03,360 --> 01:07:05,000 Speaker 14: LIKE i was, LIKE i don't want to talk to you, 1381 01:07:05,040 --> 01:07:07,800 Speaker 14: Anymore LIKE, i that's with his. Brother and then we 1382 01:07:07,880 --> 01:07:10,920 Speaker 14: end up having, sex not with his. 1383 01:07:10,840 --> 01:07:11,960 Speaker 1: Brother on a dating. 1384 01:07:12,040 --> 01:07:14,560 Speaker 15: Site, yeah and THEN i told. 1385 01:07:14,600 --> 01:07:16,560 Speaker 14: HIM i was, Like, HEY i had sex with your. 1386 01:07:16,600 --> 01:07:19,640 Speaker 2: Brother did you know that he was the brother when you? 1387 01:07:19,720 --> 01:07:23,240 Speaker 14: Matched not when we met because he lied he said 1388 01:07:23,280 --> 01:07:24,120 Speaker 14: he had eight. 1389 01:07:23,920 --> 01:07:29,360 Speaker 1: Sisters, Eight so pathological lying runs in the. Family, Wow 1390 01:07:29,560 --> 01:07:33,520 Speaker 1: oh the ex line about having eight. Sisters, yeah so 1391 01:07:33,600 --> 01:07:35,600 Speaker 1: you didn't know that you were having sex with his 1392 01:07:35,720 --> 01:07:38,560 Speaker 1: brother or weren't? Sure you weren't? Sure Were are you? 1393 01:07:38,640 --> 01:07:42,080 Speaker 14: Sure were you? 1394 01:07:39,360 --> 01:07:47,440 Speaker 1: NOT i was told you were told at what point 1395 01:07:47,440 --> 01:07:50,200 Speaker 1: were you told whether the brother was the? 1396 01:07:50,200 --> 01:07:55,200 Speaker 14: Brother, okay SO i was told that this might be 1397 01:07:55,280 --> 01:07:58,280 Speaker 14: his brother by the girl he cheated on me, with 1398 01:07:58,680 --> 01:08:06,040 Speaker 14: and then after like we were friends and he was, like, oh, 1399 01:08:06,120 --> 01:08:07,000 Speaker 14: yeah that was my. 1400 01:08:07,120 --> 01:08:10,360 Speaker 15: Brother AND i was, like, oh so. 1401 01:08:10,320 --> 01:08:13,680 Speaker 1: You're kind of Ok so you were kind of like 1402 01:08:13,880 --> 01:08:17,479 Speaker 1: morally okay in this situation because you actually didn't even 1403 01:08:17,520 --> 01:08:18,200 Speaker 1: know you didn't. 1404 01:08:18,240 --> 01:08:25,000 Speaker 14: KNOW i, say but that it doesn't like his brother 1405 01:08:25,160 --> 01:08:27,559 Speaker 14: is amazing in bed and he's just. NOT i don't. 1406 01:08:27,600 --> 01:08:31,120 Speaker 14: Know that does not run in the. FAMILY i consider 1407 01:08:31,200 --> 01:08:32,559 Speaker 14: myself a morally gray. 1408 01:08:32,640 --> 01:08:37,880 Speaker 1: Person, yeah morally gray. Person, Okay so but you didn't 1409 01:08:37,880 --> 01:08:41,880 Speaker 1: know beforehand the brother was better in bed than your? 1410 01:08:42,000 --> 01:08:43,479 Speaker 1: Ex did you tell? 1411 01:08:43,760 --> 01:08:47,800 Speaker 2: Ya what that's a high? 1412 01:08:47,800 --> 01:08:51,040 Speaker 1: Score did you so you told your? Ex did you say, like, oh, like, 1413 01:08:51,680 --> 01:08:54,080 Speaker 1: uh he's, Better. 1414 01:08:55,720 --> 01:09:00,000 Speaker 15: Oh, YEAH i. Was your brother's really, freaky not freaking. 1415 01:09:05,680 --> 01:09:06,960 Speaker 15: Him i'm, like how is your brother? 1416 01:09:07,120 --> 01:09:07,360 Speaker 9: Doing? 1417 01:09:10,600 --> 01:09:16,080 Speaker 1: Ah what is his? Response and he. 1418 01:09:16,160 --> 01:09:17,479 Speaker 14: Was, like you, KNOW i need to text. 1419 01:09:17,520 --> 01:09:20,200 Speaker 15: Him like he's very candle about, it he's okay with, 1420 01:09:20,280 --> 01:09:22,040 Speaker 15: it AND i have a great. 1421 01:09:22,080 --> 01:09:23,600 Speaker 14: Time so Whatever. 1422 01:09:26,000 --> 01:09:28,920 Speaker 3: Sam is, Floored sam is Absolutely. 1423 01:09:30,040 --> 01:09:30,400 Speaker 2: Morley. 1424 01:09:30,479 --> 01:09:35,839 Speaker 1: Gray if he's not angry is not? Angry, well thanks 1425 01:09:35,880 --> 01:09:38,800 Speaker 1: for god into the. Browsers i'm glad you got some good. 1426 01:09:38,840 --> 01:09:41,080 Speaker 1: Sex And i'm glad you're done with your, ex you, 1427 01:09:41,120 --> 01:09:43,759 Speaker 1: know because one sounds good and one sounds. 1428 01:09:43,760 --> 01:09:46,240 Speaker 2: Bad that's. Right thanks for coming in. 1429 01:09:47,960 --> 01:09:49,519 Speaker 14: You, guys have a good. One you have a good, 1430 01:09:49,600 --> 01:09:50,120 Speaker 14: night you. 1431 01:09:50,120 --> 01:09:54,120 Speaker 2: Too and thank you realizing for the five. Bucks love, you. 1432 01:09:54,160 --> 01:09:55,000 Speaker 3: GUYS i appreciate. 1433 01:09:55,120 --> 01:09:58,680 Speaker 1: You oh my, god bad, wolf Says. Sophia are you? 1434 01:09:58,840 --> 01:10:00,519 Speaker 1: OKAY i was in? 1435 01:10:00,560 --> 01:10:04,240 Speaker 2: Shock that was? Crazy? Right? Wow, YEAH i love that. 1436 01:10:04,360 --> 01:10:08,240 Speaker 2: Story you love that story like from like a like a. 1437 01:10:08,320 --> 01:10:16,400 Speaker 1: Storytelling the author really narrated the climax of the. Story, 1438 01:10:16,720 --> 01:10:17,840 Speaker 1: yeah the climax of the. 1439 01:10:17,880 --> 01:10:20,519 Speaker 2: Story all, right we got another. One, uh here we. 1440 01:10:20,560 --> 01:10:24,320 Speaker 12: Go three baby, mamas three, babies one dad one. 1441 01:10:24,439 --> 01:10:29,679 Speaker 1: Year wait, wait three baby, mamas three, babies one, dad one. 1442 01:10:29,880 --> 01:10:34,439 Speaker 1: Year this, summer a baby daddy near you is about 1443 01:10:34,479 --> 01:10:35,040 Speaker 1: to wreck your. 1444 01:10:35,120 --> 01:10:39,479 Speaker 2: Home oh my, God, yes let's call. Dude that's. Crazy 1445 01:10:39,600 --> 01:10:40,160 Speaker 2: so they pick. 1446 01:10:40,280 --> 01:10:42,439 Speaker 6: Up then it takes, back but we shall. 1447 01:10:42,680 --> 01:10:48,800 Speaker 1: DUDE i Am god Smack, Jesus oh My god was. 1448 01:10:48,840 --> 01:10:51,240 Speaker 2: Smacked, truly my smack was. 1449 01:10:51,240 --> 01:10:56,240 Speaker 1: Gobbed Dylan parrish, SAYS i sincerely. Hope no one ever 1450 01:10:56,320 --> 01:10:57,800 Speaker 1: compares me in bed to my. Brother. 1451 01:10:57,920 --> 01:11:00,840 Speaker 2: Hello, Hello, oh this is. 1452 01:11:00,760 --> 01:11:02,200 Speaker 1: Okayop now being. 1453 01:11:02,240 --> 01:11:03,240 Speaker 2: Recorded how are? 1454 01:11:03,320 --> 01:11:03,920 Speaker 1: You who's? 1455 01:11:04,000 --> 01:11:07,599 Speaker 2: Talking it's? 1456 01:11:07,680 --> 01:11:07,960 Speaker 1: Us It's. 1457 01:11:07,960 --> 01:11:09,920 Speaker 2: Okayope who are we talking? 1458 01:11:09,960 --> 01:11:11,760 Speaker 16: WITH i am? 1459 01:11:11,800 --> 01:11:13,639 Speaker 1: Here who are we talking? 1460 01:11:13,680 --> 01:11:16,920 Speaker 9: With this Is? Hannah, Hannah? 1461 01:11:19,200 --> 01:11:21,000 Speaker 1: Hannah have you been in the? Chat are you like 1462 01:11:21,120 --> 01:11:23,360 Speaker 1: over here chatting with us on the? Lot are you 1463 01:11:23,360 --> 01:11:23,800 Speaker 1: doing someone? 1464 01:11:23,840 --> 01:11:27,479 Speaker 9: Else i'm on the, Trip i'm, driving So i'm pulling. 1465 01:11:27,560 --> 01:11:31,960 Speaker 1: Over oh, Huge, Well, hannah w for, sake we have 1466 01:11:32,439 --> 01:11:38,280 Speaker 1: some questions about your, story the three baby, mamas the three, 1467 01:11:38,360 --> 01:11:41,639 Speaker 1: babies one, year one. Man can you give us your 1468 01:11:41,720 --> 01:11:45,679 Speaker 1: thirty second to sixty second breakdown of what went? 1469 01:11:45,800 --> 01:11:51,720 Speaker 9: On, WELL i had at the, TIME i had just 1470 01:11:51,800 --> 01:11:56,479 Speaker 9: had my second child with my partner at the. Time 1471 01:11:56,920 --> 01:12:04,160 Speaker 9: congrats and, uh within that four days of each, other 1472 01:12:04,720 --> 01:12:08,000 Speaker 9: found out about two other women that he knocked up 1473 01:12:08,040 --> 01:12:13,120 Speaker 9: WHILE i was pregnant my. Youngest within four days of each. 1474 01:12:13,160 --> 01:12:15,559 Speaker 9: Other it was the worst week of my. 1475 01:12:15,640 --> 01:12:17,240 Speaker 1: Life how did you find? 1476 01:12:17,240 --> 01:12:22,160 Speaker 9: Out, well, first he got a letter in the mail 1477 01:12:22,200 --> 01:12:25,320 Speaker 9: from the local child support, agency which is weird because 1478 01:12:25,320 --> 01:12:28,920 Speaker 9: it's only other child lives in another state and it 1479 01:12:29,000 --> 01:12:34,000 Speaker 9: wasn't me because we lived. Together and shared. Expenses you live? 1480 01:12:34,120 --> 01:12:38,400 Speaker 9: Together oh, yeah we lived. Together we had been together 1481 01:12:38,400 --> 01:12:39,080 Speaker 9: for years at that. 1482 01:12:39,160 --> 01:12:40,559 Speaker 2: Point how many? Years? 1483 01:12:41,479 --> 01:12:43,839 Speaker 9: Ah four? Years oh that was golden. 1484 01:12:43,920 --> 01:12:44,840 Speaker 16: Rule you, know. 1485 01:12:49,600 --> 01:12:52,680 Speaker 9: We have two kids in four, years so you, know 1486 01:12:53,200 --> 01:12:55,280 Speaker 9: oh my, god he's. 1487 01:12:55,320 --> 01:12:58,120 Speaker 3: Done did you? Also were you the one that found 1488 01:12:58,120 --> 01:12:58,600 Speaker 3: and opened the? 1489 01:12:58,680 --> 01:13:02,519 Speaker 9: ENVELOPE i passed in the envelope and, said open this, 1490 01:13:02,760 --> 01:13:03,559 Speaker 9: now all. 1491 01:13:03,760 --> 01:13:04,400 Speaker 2: In front of. 1492 01:13:04,439 --> 01:13:09,920 Speaker 9: Me, whoa, YEAH i and be, LIKE i don't even 1493 01:13:10,040 --> 01:13:12,160 Speaker 9: know what she's talking. ABOUT i couldn't possibly be the 1494 01:13:12,200 --> 01:13:16,400 Speaker 9: father of this. Child he's, LIKE i never slept it 1495 01:13:16,479 --> 01:13:22,120 Speaker 9: their but what ended UP dna test? Positive oh my. 1496 01:13:22,240 --> 01:13:26,800 Speaker 9: God and then what happened is we happened to be 1497 01:13:26,880 --> 01:13:30,200 Speaker 9: visiting the other the older, child out of state that. 1498 01:13:30,280 --> 01:13:33,040 Speaker 9: Weekend SO i, said you know, what kids counting on. 1499 01:13:33,160 --> 01:13:36,880 Speaker 9: Us we'll deal with this after we get. Back, well that, 1500 01:13:36,960 --> 01:13:40,360 Speaker 9: weekend while we're in another, state some other woman THAT 1501 01:13:40,520 --> 01:13:43,600 Speaker 9: i didn't trust starts calling and, says you better call me, 1502 01:13:43,800 --> 01:13:47,040 Speaker 9: now AND i, says where To, God if that woman 1503 01:13:47,160 --> 01:13:50,920 Speaker 9: has your, CHILD i will lose. It oh so you're sure, 1504 01:13:51,000 --> 01:13:52,680 Speaker 9: enough start sending text a? 1505 01:13:52,800 --> 01:13:55,000 Speaker 1: Baby see what? 1506 01:13:55,160 --> 01:13:55,360 Speaker 2: Again? 1507 01:13:55,439 --> 01:14:03,200 Speaker 9: Sorry she starts sending text of a. Baby, Yeah AND 1508 01:14:03,240 --> 01:14:05,559 Speaker 9: i was, like AND i. START i of course lost 1509 01:14:05,600 --> 01:14:07,600 Speaker 9: MY i lost my mind. 1510 01:14:08,880 --> 01:14:12,919 Speaker 1: A while because you were keeping together for one like baby, 1511 01:14:13,120 --> 01:14:16,479 Speaker 1: mama and you're, like but, two that's that's too. 1512 01:14:16,520 --> 01:14:18,720 Speaker 16: Much, YEAH i was LIKE i. 1513 01:14:18,720 --> 01:14:21,679 Speaker 9: Couldn't NOW i want to say THAT i walked away 1514 01:14:21,680 --> 01:14:26,599 Speaker 9: from that relationship right. AWAY i don't. KNOW i stuck 1515 01:14:26,760 --> 01:14:29,719 Speaker 9: for seven more, years But i'm finally walked. 1516 01:14:29,760 --> 01:14:36,679 Speaker 1: Away, okay there we, go but doing much better? Now oh, god, 1517 01:14:36,920 --> 01:14:43,760 Speaker 1: Wow but like there weren't any more baby mamas, right 1518 01:14:43,840 --> 01:14:44,759 Speaker 1: it ended up too. 1519 01:14:45,360 --> 01:14:52,880 Speaker 9: As far AS i, know he doesn't have. Anymore oh 1520 01:14:53,280 --> 01:14:55,599 Speaker 9: as far AS i, Know oh my, God. 1521 01:14:55,439 --> 01:14:57,160 Speaker 15: I'm still to parent and. 1522 01:14:58,680 --> 01:14:59,120 Speaker 9: Our two. 1523 01:14:59,200 --> 01:15:01,960 Speaker 2: Kids what made you like leave? 1524 01:15:02,080 --> 01:15:04,600 Speaker 1: Finally? Like what was if that if the. 1525 01:15:05,040 --> 01:15:06,040 Speaker 2: Two, babies. 1526 01:15:08,720 --> 01:15:09,720 Speaker 9: That cheating never? 1527 01:15:09,800 --> 01:15:11,720 Speaker 2: Stopped, oh the cheating never. 1528 01:15:11,760 --> 01:15:17,240 Speaker 1: Stopped, WELL i am so glad that you are finally 1529 01:15:17,360 --> 01:15:23,080 Speaker 1: away from this this dog pile human ship face of a. 1530 01:15:23,120 --> 01:15:27,799 Speaker 1: Person and could ask you on getting away from a terrible. 1531 01:15:27,840 --> 01:15:30,040 Speaker 1: Person and thanks for calling in and sharing your. 1532 01:15:30,040 --> 01:15:34,640 Speaker 9: Story, yes thank you for calling. ME i love, you. 1533 01:15:34,680 --> 01:15:37,479 Speaker 9: GUYS i. LISTEN i am literally listening to one of 1534 01:15:37,520 --> 01:15:40,160 Speaker 9: your videos on my. Drive oh my, god. 1535 01:15:42,680 --> 01:15:44,439 Speaker 1: So much to. 1536 01:15:44,560 --> 01:15:47,280 Speaker 9: Pause you to answer. 1537 01:15:47,000 --> 01:15:51,640 Speaker 3: You so much shocks. 1538 01:15:53,560 --> 01:15:56,280 Speaker 1: My, goodness another insane what? 1539 01:15:56,439 --> 01:15:57,080 Speaker 2: Ager? 1540 01:15:57,640 --> 01:16:02,760 Speaker 1: Wow also shout out to Silver rise over the ten. 1541 01:16:02,800 --> 01:16:05,519 Speaker 1: Bucks if y'all want a story about sperm. Donors mine 1542 01:16:05,760 --> 01:16:08,760 Speaker 1: died and it sounds like a? Plot wait was going? 1543 01:16:08,800 --> 01:16:08,880 Speaker 2: On? 1544 01:16:09,479 --> 01:16:12,120 Speaker 1: Wait mine died and it sounds like a plot in a. 1545 01:16:12,120 --> 01:16:14,320 Speaker 1: Movie it was the top comment a few weeks. 1546 01:16:14,360 --> 01:16:15,639 Speaker 2: Ago very. 1547 01:16:15,680 --> 01:16:21,000 Speaker 1: Interesting Cia kaile mclanney, Says i'm so HAPPY i caught 1548 01:16:21,000 --> 01:16:27,120 Speaker 1: a stream for my. Brother hoping my call is in 1549 01:16:27,160 --> 01:16:29,120 Speaker 1: the queue for. Tonight we can take a. 1550 01:16:29,160 --> 01:16:31,280 Speaker 2: Look might be. 1551 01:16:31,160 --> 01:16:34,000 Speaker 1: It may, Be sophia, WAS i can't was putting it? 1552 01:16:34,000 --> 01:16:36,400 Speaker 1: Together do we have time for one? 1553 01:16:36,479 --> 01:16:37,200 Speaker 2: More one? 1554 01:16:37,320 --> 01:16:37,599 Speaker 11: More? 1555 01:16:38,360 --> 01:16:41,080 Speaker 12: GOD i couldn't sleep with my crush BECAUSE i already 1556 01:16:41,080 --> 01:16:48,480 Speaker 12: slept with his brother out of. Anger why would you. 1557 01:16:48,800 --> 01:16:49,080 Speaker 2: With his? 1558 01:16:49,240 --> 01:16:53,120 Speaker 1: Brother you can't run through the whole? FAMILY i mean you? 1559 01:16:53,160 --> 01:16:53,680 Speaker 1: Could you? 1560 01:16:53,720 --> 01:16:55,240 Speaker 2: Could that's a QUESTION i will ask you? 1561 01:16:55,280 --> 01:16:57,160 Speaker 1: COULD i mean The game Of throne And? Style? 1562 01:16:57,280 --> 01:17:00,200 Speaker 10: Hello hello you were He? 1563 01:17:02,560 --> 01:17:03,320 Speaker 8: Hi oh my. 1564 01:17:03,400 --> 01:17:07,759 Speaker 7: GOODNESS i fucking love you. GUYS i watch you guys every. 1565 01:17:07,880 --> 01:17:08,880 Speaker 2: Day thank you. 1566 01:17:09,280 --> 01:17:14,240 Speaker 1: Listening so we heard you have a pretty crazy story 1567 01:17:14,320 --> 01:17:18,200 Speaker 1: about a brother and a. Crush could you give Us 1568 01:17:18,240 --> 01:17:21,160 Speaker 1: you're like thirty to sixty second breakdown of what the heck. 1569 01:17:21,240 --> 01:17:27,120 Speaker 7: Happened, yeah so this was in my late, teens fresh 1570 01:17:27,160 --> 01:17:28,800 Speaker 7: out of high. School, OKAY i just want to put 1571 01:17:28,800 --> 01:17:32,160 Speaker 7: that out. There i'm a, whole completely different person, now All. 1572 01:17:32,240 --> 01:17:33,559 Speaker 2: Right we grew, up, girl we. 1573 01:17:33,720 --> 01:17:36,000 Speaker 5: Change SO. 1574 01:17:37,400 --> 01:17:40,519 Speaker 7: I liked this guy THAT i went to high school 1575 01:17:40,520 --> 01:17:43,679 Speaker 7: with AND i didn't meet him until after high school, though, 1576 01:17:43,960 --> 01:17:48,320 Speaker 7: okay and he had an older, brother AND i was 1577 01:17:48,400 --> 01:17:51,040 Speaker 7: really good friends with some. Girls, okay so at the 1578 01:17:51,040 --> 01:17:54,400 Speaker 7: time she was my best. Friend so my best friend 1579 01:17:54,439 --> 01:17:57,719 Speaker 7: AND i hung out with my crush and. 1580 01:17:57,520 --> 01:17:59,559 Speaker 9: We met his, brother his older. 1581 01:17:59,600 --> 01:18:04,080 Speaker 7: Brother SO i liked my crush and my best friend 1582 01:18:04,120 --> 01:18:07,639 Speaker 7: at the time liked the older, brother BUT i could tell. 1583 01:18:07,479 --> 01:18:09,360 Speaker 10: From the start that his older brother liked. 1584 01:18:09,479 --> 01:18:13,400 Speaker 7: Me so long story, SHORT i got in a fight 1585 01:18:13,479 --> 01:18:17,840 Speaker 7: with my friends because she disrespected. Me one. Night we 1586 01:18:17,920 --> 01:18:20,000 Speaker 7: went over to their house and they said they were 1587 01:18:20,040 --> 01:18:21,559 Speaker 7: gonna grab some water in, fight AND i told. HER 1588 01:18:21,600 --> 01:18:23,519 Speaker 7: i was, like, hey, like just got to, respect like 1589 01:18:23,640 --> 01:18:27,880 Speaker 7: please don't go, upstairs like BECAUSE i wasn't ready to 1590 01:18:27,920 --> 01:18:31,160 Speaker 7: do anything with my crush. Yet and you know some, 1591 01:18:31,280 --> 01:18:33,120 Speaker 7: guys they tend to, like, oh you hook up with 1592 01:18:33,160 --> 01:18:34,880 Speaker 7: this person WHILE i hook up with the other, one 1593 01:18:35,080 --> 01:18:38,080 Speaker 7: AND i didn't want that image for myself at that. Time, 1594 01:18:38,320 --> 01:18:41,160 Speaker 7: yeah so she went upstairs, anyway so we got in an. 1595 01:18:41,280 --> 01:18:44,599 Speaker 7: Argument then later, On Mike crush ended up dating, someone 1596 01:18:45,080 --> 01:18:47,439 Speaker 7: so we all the four of us stopped, talking but 1597 01:18:47,520 --> 01:18:51,160 Speaker 7: the brother kept hitting me up and then one thing 1598 01:18:51,360 --> 01:18:54,000 Speaker 7: led to another and then we ended up packing up 1599 01:18:55,320 --> 01:19:02,120 Speaker 7: and it was. Terrible oh, no if it, WAS i 1600 01:19:02,160 --> 01:19:05,120 Speaker 7: don't know if it was because he hadn't been with anyone. 1601 01:19:04,800 --> 01:19:05,320 Speaker 9: In a long. 1602 01:19:05,439 --> 01:19:07,080 Speaker 8: TIME i, mean he had. 1603 01:19:06,960 --> 01:19:10,640 Speaker 7: A really good, size so it was very. Disappointing but 1604 01:19:10,800 --> 01:19:13,599 Speaker 7: he was literally a two pump. Chump oh. 1605 01:19:15,439 --> 01:19:17,080 Speaker 2: But that could be a compliment, THOUGH. 1606 01:19:20,800 --> 01:19:23,320 Speaker 7: I mean that's happened to me. Before but it. 1607 01:19:23,400 --> 01:19:23,719 Speaker 9: Sucking. 1608 01:19:23,840 --> 01:19:24,439 Speaker 14: Sucks it. 1609 01:19:24,560 --> 01:19:34,240 Speaker 12: Sucked but like what if he could get it up 1610 01:19:34,240 --> 01:19:36,479 Speaker 12: for round two and it was great? There like but 1611 01:19:36,640 --> 01:19:37,680 Speaker 12: could he not make? 1612 01:19:37,720 --> 01:19:40,479 Speaker 8: That so this might be a listen, listen so this 1613 01:19:40,600 --> 01:19:42,559 Speaker 8: might be t M i BUT i SO i thought 1614 01:19:42,600 --> 01:19:45,360 Speaker 8: he was kidding when he said that he was going to, 1615 01:19:45,439 --> 01:19:49,680 Speaker 8: finish and so HE i thought he you, know he 1616 01:19:49,800 --> 01:19:51,639 Speaker 8: was still, fine and he kept. 1617 01:19:51,479 --> 01:19:55,479 Speaker 7: Going but it went limp because he was, finished so 1618 01:19:55,680 --> 01:20:03,000 Speaker 7: the kind of fell, out so he started. CRYING i was, Good, 1619 01:20:03,120 --> 01:20:06,400 Speaker 7: yes so he started crying because he thought THAT i 1620 01:20:06,439 --> 01:20:12,720 Speaker 7: was gonna end up, pregnant AND i was, like, bro, 1621 01:20:13,040 --> 01:20:16,120 Speaker 7: like you're fucking. Thirty, HEY i was, like, no he was. 1622 01:20:16,160 --> 01:20:20,400 Speaker 7: TWENTY i was eighteen, nineteen so he was like twenty 1623 01:20:20,400 --> 01:20:23,360 Speaker 7: four by twenty, three twenty, four you, know and when 1624 01:20:23,400 --> 01:20:26,479 Speaker 7: you're eighteen nineteen dating someone or support were going out with, 1625 01:20:26,479 --> 01:20:28,840 Speaker 7: someone that's sleep you, know when their like early mid, 1626 01:20:28,840 --> 01:20:30,840 Speaker 7: twenties you think for some reason they're a lot, older 1627 01:20:30,880 --> 01:20:33,519 Speaker 7: which NOW i know that's completely, wrong you, know like 1628 01:20:33,520 --> 01:20:37,559 Speaker 7: more mature. Whatever and so he ended. UP i took 1629 01:20:37,600 --> 01:20:40,040 Speaker 7: A PLAN b just to be. Safe but, Yeah so then, 1630 01:20:40,080 --> 01:20:44,920 Speaker 7: anyway so then a year, later my, QUESTION i we 1631 01:20:45,040 --> 01:20:47,680 Speaker 7: ended up like linking up. Again we started hanging out 1632 01:20:47,680 --> 01:20:49,880 Speaker 7: again because we were like summer, friends THAT'S i guess 1633 01:20:49,880 --> 01:20:50,479 Speaker 7: what you can call. 1634 01:20:50,560 --> 01:20:53,200 Speaker 8: It and so me. 1635 01:20:53,160 --> 01:20:56,240 Speaker 7: And the brother just stopped. Talking, yes, okay we stopped 1636 01:20:56,240 --> 01:20:58,639 Speaker 7: talking because you know, WHATEVER i didn't like him, ANYWAY 1637 01:20:58,680 --> 01:21:00,719 Speaker 7: i don't know WHAT i was. Thinking so my, QUESTION 1638 01:21:00,800 --> 01:21:03,080 Speaker 7: i started talking. Again we started like hanging out and, 1639 01:21:03,160 --> 01:21:05,760 Speaker 7: whatever and then one thing led to another and we 1640 01:21:05,760 --> 01:21:09,040 Speaker 7: started making out and it was definitely a lot better 1641 01:21:09,080 --> 01:21:11,160 Speaker 7: than the. Brother SO i did make out with, him 1642 01:21:11,160 --> 01:21:13,080 Speaker 7: and he invited me to go, inside BUT i was, 1643 01:21:13,080 --> 01:21:15,920 Speaker 7: like oh, no this is deja. Vu he's gonna take 1644 01:21:15,920 --> 01:21:19,280 Speaker 7: me into the guest room and Then i'm like, WHAT i. 1645 01:21:21,120 --> 01:21:21,479 Speaker 16: Started. 1646 01:21:21,560 --> 01:21:24,639 Speaker 8: Crying i'm like, NO i don't want to make another one. 1647 01:21:24,720 --> 01:21:29,120 Speaker 7: Cry oh, No Like i'm, good and he's, like, oh come. 1648 01:21:29,160 --> 01:21:31,040 Speaker 7: On AND i ended up telling him no THAT i, 1649 01:21:31,160 --> 01:21:35,080 Speaker 7: like you know THAT i wasn't my my excuse to 1650 01:21:35,160 --> 01:21:37,040 Speaker 7: him because he knew THAT i liked, him but he 1651 01:21:37,080 --> 01:21:38,240 Speaker 7: didn't know THAT i hooked up with his. 1652 01:21:38,280 --> 01:21:42,240 Speaker 14: Brother oh to this, DAY i don't think he. 1653 01:21:42,400 --> 01:21:43,960 Speaker 7: Knows to this, DAY i don't think he knew THAT 1654 01:21:44,000 --> 01:21:44,800 Speaker 7: i hooked up with his. 1655 01:21:44,840 --> 01:21:49,840 Speaker 2: Brother we will never. Tell, yeah luckily all. 1656 01:21:50,000 --> 01:21:56,720 Speaker 8: Six but, yeah so then, yeah, no the brother ENDED 1657 01:21:56,800 --> 01:21:59,680 Speaker 8: i the brother AND i ended up making making out and. 1658 01:21:59,640 --> 01:22:02,760 Speaker 7: Stuff but it was it was, like you, know that's 1659 01:22:02,800 --> 01:22:06,840 Speaker 7: WHERE i left. It, no but even to this, day the. 1660 01:22:06,960 --> 01:22:11,120 Speaker 7: Brother the brother literally texted me a month ago oh. 1661 01:22:14,560 --> 01:22:16,960 Speaker 1: Oh, wait oh, wait sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry SORRY i 1662 01:22:16,960 --> 01:22:17,920 Speaker 1: thought it WAS i thought it was the. 1663 01:22:17,960 --> 01:22:20,040 Speaker 2: Crush for a, SECOND i thought it was the. Brother, no, 1664 01:22:20,160 --> 01:22:20,640 Speaker 2: brother the. 1665 01:22:23,960 --> 01:22:27,200 Speaker 7: Pump. Chump we call him the chinless man because he 1666 01:22:27,240 --> 01:22:29,439 Speaker 7: doesn't have a chin so my friends AND i call 1667 01:22:29,520 --> 01:22:33,840 Speaker 7: him the chinless. Man oh, no thess man hit me 1668 01:22:34,000 --> 01:22:37,799 Speaker 7: up and he left him On red a few weeks. 1669 01:22:37,840 --> 01:22:39,800 Speaker 2: Ago, huh you left him On. 1670 01:22:39,880 --> 01:22:42,519 Speaker 8: RED i left him On. 1671 01:22:42,600 --> 01:22:44,960 Speaker 7: Red i'm in a. Relationship now there we, go. 1672 01:22:46,880 --> 01:22:47,040 Speaker 10: We're. 1673 01:22:47,080 --> 01:22:52,240 Speaker 1: Talking, well thank you so much for calling. IN i 1674 01:22:52,320 --> 01:22:55,320 Speaker 1: am glad that you left the two pump chump back 1675 01:22:55,360 --> 01:22:59,599 Speaker 1: in the dust man chinless, man chinless Wonder uh, yeah 1676 01:22:59,600 --> 01:23:00,639 Speaker 1: thanks again for calling. 1677 01:23:00,680 --> 01:23:04,400 Speaker 8: In thank. You i'll go back to watching this. 1678 01:23:04,520 --> 01:23:08,200 Speaker 14: Podcast have a good one. 1679 01:23:08,800 --> 01:23:19,760 Speaker 1: One look at? That who's they? Just these are great fucking. Bangers, 1680 01:23:21,160 --> 01:23:24,280 Speaker 1: WELL i think we just did. Three we're gonna go 1681 01:23:24,479 --> 01:23:28,439 Speaker 1: back into some. Story. JOHN i think this is on. 1682 01:23:28,560 --> 01:23:29,680 Speaker 1: YOU i think this might be. 1683 01:23:29,760 --> 01:23:33,679 Speaker 2: Me and where are we? Reading riley three Of Barbie 1684 01:23:33,720 --> 01:23:35,600 Speaker 2: artie says there at least two hundred people here that 1685 01:23:35,680 --> 01:23:37,160 Speaker 2: haven't liked the. Street what the are you? 1686 01:23:37,200 --> 01:23:39,880 Speaker 1: Doing what do You you haven't liked the? Stream do 1687 01:23:39,960 --> 01:23:40,479 Speaker 1: you even like? 1688 01:23:40,560 --> 01:23:43,360 Speaker 2: Me we're at three eighty. Two come, ON i thought. 1689 01:23:43,160 --> 01:23:45,519 Speaker 1: We had a connection. Here it's a. CLICK i THOUGHT 1690 01:23:45,680 --> 01:23:48,680 Speaker 1: i thought we had something, Special and it feels like 1691 01:23:48,880 --> 01:23:51,160 Speaker 1: you're just LIKE i, Mean i've been like putting in 1692 01:23:51,200 --> 01:23:52,920 Speaker 1: all this, effort and, like where's the effort from? 1693 01:23:52,920 --> 01:23:53,000 Speaker 9: You? 1694 01:23:53,960 --> 01:24:00,960 Speaker 1: Reciprocate, yeah come, on exactly. Exactly BUT wt asked the 1695 01:24:01,080 --> 01:24:03,160 Speaker 1: chat for everyone who hasn't liked this. 1696 01:24:03,080 --> 01:24:06,040 Speaker 3: STREAM, Wtf and if you haven't liked, it then like. 1697 01:24:06,120 --> 01:24:07,960 Speaker 1: It like, it don't you dare PUT. 1698 01:24:08,040 --> 01:24:10,840 Speaker 4: Wtf i'm watching you as much As i'm watching this, 1699 01:24:10,920 --> 01:24:14,680 Speaker 4: story which IS i think my husband's mistress thinks he 1700 01:24:14,800 --> 01:24:18,280 Speaker 4: is richer than he actually. Is my best friend THINKS 1701 01:24:18,520 --> 01:24:21,320 Speaker 4: i am a douche BECAUSE i am keeping. 1702 01:24:21,800 --> 01:24:27,439 Speaker 1: Silent very. Interesting this comes from, wrong say forty, nine who, 1703 01:24:27,479 --> 01:24:30,639 Speaker 1: says shout out To eva for the ten buck tip 1704 01:24:30,800 --> 01:24:34,400 Speaker 1: a YouTube no thirty percent here can he say hi 1705 01:24:34,479 --> 01:24:39,680 Speaker 1: To trent if you see, This, hi tra little skullyback you. 1706 01:24:39,680 --> 01:24:42,760 Speaker 4: Little, trenty thanks for using, donation like appreciate. You so 1707 01:24:43,080 --> 01:24:46,400 Speaker 4: husband is in quotation marks because we are not married. Legally, 1708 01:24:46,640 --> 01:24:48,479 Speaker 4: uh this is a throwaway and just let me vent. 1709 01:24:48,520 --> 01:24:51,080 Speaker 1: Here so this is the cast. 1710 01:24:51,320 --> 01:24:54,160 Speaker 4: Him thirty, nine me thirty, nine the mistress twenty nine 1711 01:24:54,200 --> 01:24:56,799 Speaker 4: and the best friend thirty. Nine sounds a little, Familiar, 1712 01:24:56,800 --> 01:25:00,240 Speaker 4: sam let me, know Wives waite say, Again, uh it's 1713 01:25:00,840 --> 01:25:03,840 Speaker 4: it might be seems a little, familiar but we shall 1714 01:25:03,880 --> 01:25:07,200 Speaker 4: see what shall. See we have been together for fourteen, 1715 01:25:07,320 --> 01:25:09,240 Speaker 4: years living together for. 1716 01:25:09,320 --> 01:25:11,280 Speaker 2: Eleven he came. 1717 01:25:11,160 --> 01:25:14,160 Speaker 1: And told, Me honeybundy, says this sounds. Familiar honey, bunny 1718 01:25:14,360 --> 01:25:15,400 Speaker 1: does it sound familiar to? 1719 01:25:15,439 --> 01:25:16,240 Speaker 2: You sound? Familiar? 1720 01:25:16,439 --> 01:25:20,280 Speaker 3: Yeah all, right just kidding, ladies going to the next. 1721 01:25:20,280 --> 01:25:23,200 Speaker 1: One we all, know y'all, know we've heard like a 1722 01:25:23,280 --> 01:25:27,200 Speaker 1: thousand Fucking reddit. STORIES i do check them. All, Yes 1723 01:25:27,320 --> 01:25:29,280 Speaker 1: marco m this was an old. Story and you know 1724 01:25:29,320 --> 01:25:30,760 Speaker 1: who you can blame me. 1725 01:25:33,520 --> 01:25:34,360 Speaker 2: WHERE i checked? 1726 01:25:34,439 --> 01:25:39,160 Speaker 1: Him just apparently it is your worm, Queen, yes your worm. 1727 01:25:39,240 --> 01:25:43,679 Speaker 1: Queen how fertile is your? Soil? Now your worm queen 1728 01:25:43,720 --> 01:25:44,280 Speaker 1: has Fot. 1729 01:25:45,680 --> 01:25:48,280 Speaker 3: But you know what is very fertile is this next? 1730 01:25:48,320 --> 01:25:49,400 Speaker 3: Story and That i'm gonna get. 1731 01:25:49,479 --> 01:25:51,760 Speaker 4: HIG i fooled you, all and that is AM i 1732 01:25:51,800 --> 01:25:53,760 Speaker 4: the a hole for telling my son that we don't 1733 01:25:53,760 --> 01:25:55,960 Speaker 4: really have any room for him right, now so he 1734 01:25:56,120 --> 01:25:59,080 Speaker 4: needs to live with his dad and. Stepmom is it 1735 01:25:59,280 --> 01:26:02,000 Speaker 4: we're gonna find doubt because this comes from scary literature 1736 01:26:02,000 --> 01:26:04,840 Speaker 4: eight three, five who says my ex husband AND i 1737 01:26:04,960 --> 01:26:07,800 Speaker 4: divorced when my son was ten years. Old my ex 1738 01:26:07,840 --> 01:26:10,160 Speaker 4: has found someone new and we went for fifty to 1739 01:26:10,200 --> 01:26:13,439 Speaker 4: fifty custody because we still had to pay some because 1740 01:26:13,479 --> 01:26:16,639 Speaker 4: he still had to pay some child. SUPPORT i went 1741 01:26:16,680 --> 01:26:18,679 Speaker 4: back to school at that, time and on the weeks 1742 01:26:18,680 --> 01:26:21,479 Speaker 4: that his dad had, HIM i buckled down and did 1743 01:26:21,600 --> 01:26:24,559 Speaker 4: nothing but. Schoolwork when he was with, ME i made 1744 01:26:24,600 --> 01:26:26,840 Speaker 4: sure THAT i had time for him before and after his. 1745 01:26:26,880 --> 01:26:29,519 Speaker 4: SCHOOL i did expect him to help around the, house 1746 01:26:29,560 --> 01:26:32,880 Speaker 4: but nothing, excessive mostly just cleaning up after himself and 1747 01:26:32,920 --> 01:26:36,240 Speaker 4: helping with cooking and doing some. Laundry his dad's house 1748 01:26:36,360 --> 01:26:39,400 Speaker 4: was more. FUN i tried to make my home more. 1749 01:26:39,439 --> 01:26:42,559 Speaker 4: WELCOMING i bought a USED ps four AND i got 1750 01:26:42,600 --> 01:26:46,559 Speaker 4: fiber optic. Internet that's pretty, good let's go all. Right 1751 01:26:47,600 --> 01:26:50,600 Speaker 4: it wasn't good enough for. Him when he was, fourteen 1752 01:26:50,880 --> 01:26:53,880 Speaker 4: he and his father got to court to award my 1753 01:26:54,120 --> 01:26:55,640 Speaker 4: ex primary. 1754 01:26:55,960 --> 01:26:59,000 Speaker 2: Custody the fuck of the. 1755 01:26:59,080 --> 01:27:02,559 Speaker 4: Kids so after everything, after you, Know op was trying 1756 01:27:02,560 --> 01:27:05,160 Speaker 4: her best to you, know get USED ps fours and fiber. 1757 01:27:05,200 --> 01:27:10,599 Speaker 1: Optic it wasn't. Enough it wasn't. Enough And anya, says 1758 01:27:10,800 --> 01:27:13,280 Speaker 1: The queen makes no. Mistakes it was your fault. 1759 01:27:13,800 --> 01:27:16,040 Speaker 2: It, before so, right what were they. 1760 01:27:15,880 --> 01:27:21,400 Speaker 1: Thinking, Anya your your empire will fall and just built upon, swet. 1761 01:27:21,160 --> 01:27:22,439 Speaker 2: Damp dat and. 1762 01:27:22,600 --> 01:27:26,040 Speaker 1: Lies shout Out Roberts smart for the twenty. Bucks shout 1763 01:27:26,080 --> 01:27:29,120 Speaker 1: Out okop for continue to pride us all entertainment through 1764 01:27:29,160 --> 01:27:33,080 Speaker 1: the week without. Fail go like the. Stream that's, right 1765 01:27:33,120 --> 01:27:35,120 Speaker 1: do it For. Roberts thanks for reasoning the donation. Link 1766 01:27:36,200 --> 01:27:39,880 Speaker 1: SO i did fight trying to get custody, back but 1767 01:27:40,000 --> 01:27:43,080 Speaker 1: my son made it clear that he would run away. 1768 01:27:43,200 --> 01:27:44,320 Speaker 2: IF i didn't give. Him. 1769 01:27:44,439 --> 01:27:49,680 Speaker 1: Oh, wow he's probably been. Manipulated that, is, yes he's 1770 01:27:49,680 --> 01:27:51,599 Speaker 1: probably been put this as far. 1771 01:27:51,520 --> 01:27:52,920 Speaker 2: As before in the process of the. 1772 01:27:52,960 --> 01:27:55,040 Speaker 4: DIVORCE i see you in the, chat BUT i see 1773 01:27:55,040 --> 01:27:57,280 Speaker 4: you in the chat if you see something coming yadies and. 1774 01:27:57,320 --> 01:28:00,679 Speaker 2: Gentlemen counseling didn't. HELP i tried. 1775 01:28:00,840 --> 01:28:04,080 Speaker 4: Everything it was devastating having my son decide THAT i 1776 01:28:04,240 --> 01:28:05,840 Speaker 4: wasn't someone he wanted to spend time. 1777 01:28:05,880 --> 01:28:07,960 Speaker 2: With oh he started skipping on his. 1778 01:28:08,040 --> 01:28:12,200 Speaker 1: Visitation oh shout Out raven Pen dragon for not skipping 1779 01:28:12,200 --> 01:28:14,080 Speaker 1: out on. Us listening in my car AS i run, 1780 01:28:14,200 --> 01:28:16,920 Speaker 1: errands GOT i got to another live love all of. 1781 01:28:16,920 --> 01:28:18,880 Speaker 3: You, hey appreciate. You raven always coming in. 1782 01:28:18,920 --> 01:28:20,840 Speaker 1: Strong oh, shit we're almost at a three hour. Stream 1783 01:28:21,000 --> 01:28:23,719 Speaker 1: oh we can. Go we're almost. There we're almost. There 1784 01:28:23,760 --> 01:28:26,200 Speaker 1: are we gonna hit the? Goal maybe we'll. 1785 01:28:26,200 --> 01:28:28,320 Speaker 2: SEE i guess we'll. SEE i guess we'll. See we're. 1786 01:28:28,520 --> 01:28:33,560 Speaker 4: Army when when he did come to the, house he 1787 01:28:33,600 --> 01:28:35,880 Speaker 4: would leave the house and not come home until it 1788 01:28:35,920 --> 01:28:36,519 Speaker 4: was time to. 1789 01:28:36,560 --> 01:28:39,840 Speaker 3: Sleep oh, wow that's so. Tough and thank You Rachel 1790 01:28:39,840 --> 01:28:40,639 Speaker 3: hatchet for the three. 1791 01:28:40,720 --> 01:28:42,240 Speaker 2: Dollars we appreciate. 1792 01:28:42,280 --> 01:28:46,000 Speaker 1: You during this, TIME i started a relationship with my current. 1793 01:28:46,080 --> 01:28:47,760 Speaker 1: Husband he helped me through this. 1794 01:28:47,880 --> 01:28:51,960 Speaker 4: Time he wasn't on my radar, romantically nobody, was so 1795 01:28:52,040 --> 01:28:55,000 Speaker 4: he got close by being an amazing. FRIEND i asked 1796 01:28:55,040 --> 01:28:57,439 Speaker 4: him out and we got married six months. 1797 01:28:57,520 --> 01:29:03,680 Speaker 1: Later date fat pretty quick after after the, divorce after the. 1798 01:29:03,720 --> 01:29:07,240 Speaker 1: Divorce Six, yeah so they met very soon after the 1799 01:29:07,240 --> 01:29:08,160 Speaker 1: divorce and then six months. 1800 01:29:08,240 --> 01:29:10,439 Speaker 3: LATER i don't know that it was six months after the. Divorce, 1801 01:29:11,479 --> 01:29:11,960 Speaker 3: yeah that's. 1802 01:29:12,120 --> 01:29:12,320 Speaker 2: Yeah. 1803 01:29:12,560 --> 01:29:15,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, Also, john can you do a QUICK tldr for 1804 01:29:15,880 --> 01:29:20,519 Speaker 1: everyone in the? Chat QUICK. Tldr Op uh split with 1805 01:29:20,560 --> 01:29:23,880 Speaker 1: her husband and as much as she, tried her son 1806 01:29:24,439 --> 01:29:28,040 Speaker 1: denied visitation and is just literally not even seeing or not. 1807 01:29:28,080 --> 01:29:28,360 Speaker 2: Talking. 1808 01:29:28,439 --> 01:29:33,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, Nothing, yeah it was Not, yes, Private now she's. 1809 01:29:33,360 --> 01:29:37,519 Speaker 3: Married after date six months, later she's, married and here we. 1810 01:29:37,560 --> 01:29:37,720 Speaker 2: Are. 1811 01:29:38,439 --> 01:29:40,559 Speaker 4: Uh we had known each other SINCE i was back in. 1812 01:29:40,680 --> 01:29:44,759 Speaker 4: University six months after we got, MARRIED i got. Pregnant, 1813 01:29:44,840 --> 01:29:48,040 Speaker 4: man they just take things in six month. Chunks, wow 1814 01:29:48,280 --> 01:29:50,120 Speaker 4: they're going. Fast what's happened in the next six? 1815 01:29:50,200 --> 01:29:50,800 Speaker 2: MONTHS i don't. 1816 01:29:50,800 --> 01:29:56,479 Speaker 4: Know he beat that by some strange. Coincidence oh, sorry 1817 01:29:56,840 --> 01:30:00,760 Speaker 4: six months after We. OH i already, said, yeah by 1818 01:30:00,760 --> 01:30:04,679 Speaker 4: a strange. Coincidence so did the woman my ex was cheating. 1819 01:30:04,760 --> 01:30:08,080 Speaker 4: With not the woman he left me for a newer. 1820 01:30:08,160 --> 01:30:12,640 Speaker 2: Model, OH, x is with the person they cheated on. 1821 01:30:12,800 --> 01:30:15,200 Speaker 4: With, yes so it seems, like, yeah that one of 1822 01:30:15,320 --> 01:30:17,040 Speaker 4: one of the people he cheated with he's now with, 1823 01:30:17,120 --> 01:30:18,280 Speaker 4: them not even the original. 1824 01:30:18,320 --> 01:30:22,519 Speaker 3: Person another cheating. Mistress we're on mistress number. 1825 01:30:22,520 --> 01:30:25,200 Speaker 1: Two shout Out Queen rhubarb for the five. 1826 01:30:25,200 --> 01:30:25,840 Speaker 2: Bucks here we go. 1827 01:30:25,840 --> 01:30:28,080 Speaker 1: Again you're reading stories and me with mac and? Cheese 1828 01:30:28,240 --> 01:30:30,439 Speaker 1: are the odds also starting to think you just eat 1829 01:30:30,479 --> 01:30:30,720 Speaker 1: mac and? 1830 01:30:30,760 --> 01:30:31,000 Speaker 2: Cheese? 1831 01:30:31,080 --> 01:30:32,160 Speaker 1: YEAH i think he's like mac and. 1832 01:30:32,200 --> 01:30:33,599 Speaker 2: Cheese what's the, Truth Queen? 1833 01:30:33,680 --> 01:30:34,479 Speaker 1: Rubarb let us. 1834 01:30:34,520 --> 01:30:38,920 Speaker 4: KNOW i had sold my house and my husband AND 1835 01:30:38,920 --> 01:30:41,879 Speaker 4: i bought a condo, together just a two bedroom apartment 1836 01:30:41,920 --> 01:30:43,960 Speaker 4: with a tiny. Den we made the den into a 1837 01:30:44,040 --> 01:30:47,200 Speaker 4: nursery and consolidated our offices into the second. Bedroom my 1838 01:30:47,280 --> 01:30:50,040 Speaker 4: ex moved in with his new ex girlfriend and she 1839 01:30:50,600 --> 01:30:54,080 Speaker 4: is not a fan of my. Son his stepmother doesn't 1840 01:30:54,120 --> 01:30:56,400 Speaker 4: want him there if his father isn't. There so my 1841 01:30:56,600 --> 01:30:59,400 Speaker 4: son is also in the new house with his, dad 1842 01:31:00,040 --> 01:31:02,160 Speaker 4: his dad's pregnant girlfriend and her. 1843 01:31:02,240 --> 01:31:06,360 Speaker 1: Mom, okay, well wait a, SECOND i gotta recap a new. 1844 01:31:06,280 --> 01:31:13,240 Speaker 2: House the ex and his new, wife like the mistress 1845 01:31:13,280 --> 01:31:13,760 Speaker 2: who's now his. 1846 01:31:13,800 --> 01:31:16,400 Speaker 1: Wife, Yeah i'm gonna read it. Back if you understand, 1847 01:31:16,400 --> 01:31:18,559 Speaker 1: it give us the TL r and B. W i 1848 01:31:18,600 --> 01:31:20,720 Speaker 1: thanks for the five buck. Tip you guys are the 1849 01:31:20,800 --> 01:31:23,640 Speaker 1: best study. BUDDIES i can't imagine us helping you. 1850 01:31:23,680 --> 01:31:24,600 Speaker 2: Study people do. 1851 01:31:24,680 --> 01:31:25,720 Speaker 1: IT i can't people do it. 1852 01:31:26,080 --> 01:31:29,840 Speaker 2: Work it's just based off HOW salmoni Is. Brainsburg but, yeah, YEAH. 1853 01:31:29,720 --> 01:31:31,519 Speaker 1: I couldn't do it. Either if you could, HAPPENED i. 1854 01:31:31,560 --> 01:31:34,320 Speaker 1: COULDN'T i couldn't. Focus we appreciate you, that but we appreciate. 1855 01:31:34,320 --> 01:31:34,760 Speaker 2: You it's. 1856 01:31:34,800 --> 01:31:37,240 Speaker 4: Right we're impressed By, yeah we're. Impressed so to break 1857 01:31:37,240 --> 01:31:38,920 Speaker 4: down what, HAPPENED im gonna read it. Again so my 1858 01:31:39,080 --> 01:31:42,040 Speaker 4: ex moved in with his new girlfriend and she is 1859 01:31:42,160 --> 01:31:44,160 Speaker 4: not a fan of my. Son that was one of the. 1860 01:31:44,160 --> 01:31:46,960 Speaker 1: Mistresses my ex moved in with his new. Girl, OKAY 1861 01:31:47,000 --> 01:31:50,639 Speaker 1: i see the. Mistresses, yeah, yeah, current so the son 1862 01:31:50,720 --> 01:31:53,080 Speaker 1: that they currently, share not the new son that they. 1863 01:31:53,080 --> 01:31:56,320 Speaker 1: Have the son that like was, like, OH i don't like. 1864 01:31:56,360 --> 01:31:57,519 Speaker 1: YOU i don't want to spend any time with. 1865 01:31:57,560 --> 01:31:57,760 Speaker 2: You. 1866 01:31:57,800 --> 01:32:01,280 Speaker 1: Exactly, OKAY i understand she doesn't want him there if 1867 01:32:01,320 --> 01:32:05,240 Speaker 1: his father isn't. There so my son is in the new. 1868 01:32:05,040 --> 01:32:10,439 Speaker 4: House with his dad and his dad's pregnant girlfriend and her. 1869 01:32:10,479 --> 01:32:14,919 Speaker 4: Mom so that was just a subtle drop of insane. 1870 01:32:14,960 --> 01:32:17,240 Speaker 2: Knowledge the mistress is. 1871 01:32:17,360 --> 01:32:19,880 Speaker 3: Pregnant, yeah she's, pregnant actually. 1872 01:32:19,880 --> 01:32:24,160 Speaker 4: Pregnant so so he's living with like the step mom 1873 01:32:24,200 --> 01:32:27,439 Speaker 4: and the step. Grandma the mistress's mom is also now 1874 01:32:27,479 --> 01:32:29,680 Speaker 4: living with the, dad but she doesn't won. 1875 01:32:29,760 --> 01:32:31,800 Speaker 3: There that's so she's, LIKE i don't like. 1876 01:32:31,840 --> 01:32:34,439 Speaker 1: You SO i feel like the kid is now going 1877 01:32:34,479 --> 01:32:36,640 Speaker 1: to be, like, Oh i'm going to go over to the. 1878 01:32:36,680 --> 01:32:41,000 Speaker 1: Mom but now he's like the relationship is not really. 1879 01:32:41,040 --> 01:32:45,679 Speaker 1: Great BUT i really, think LIKE i think what the 1880 01:32:45,720 --> 01:32:47,479 Speaker 1: op he should do is just welcome the kid back with. 1881 01:32:47,439 --> 01:32:49,800 Speaker 2: Open arms if you want to have a relationship with your. 1882 01:32:49,800 --> 01:32:52,719 Speaker 1: Son, yeah there was a story before where a kid 1883 01:32:52,880 --> 01:32:54,599 Speaker 1: was just, LIKE i, LIKE i don't want to see 1884 01:32:54,600 --> 01:32:58,559 Speaker 1: my mom because of some like manipulation that happened on 1885 01:32:58,600 --> 01:33:01,320 Speaker 1: the dad's. Side but the thing THAT i think should 1886 01:33:01,320 --> 01:33:03,960 Speaker 1: happen is you should just continually, like, yeah you should 1887 01:33:04,040 --> 01:33:07,360 Speaker 1: just continually put effort in even if your kid, doesn't 1888 01:33:07,400 --> 01:33:10,800 Speaker 1: because what your job is as a parent is to 1889 01:33:10,800 --> 01:33:12,040 Speaker 1: provide stability for your. 1890 01:33:12,080 --> 01:33:12,240 Speaker 10: Child. 1891 01:33:12,280 --> 01:33:15,400 Speaker 1: Absolute, Yeah Kimberly fine, says so her kid is, sixteen 1892 01:33:15,479 --> 01:33:18,800 Speaker 1: and she made a housing choice with no consideration that 1893 01:33:18,840 --> 01:33:21,400 Speaker 1: he would even do as much as. Visit she was 1894 01:33:21,479 --> 01:33:25,720 Speaker 1: willing enough to accept that that to basically. 1895 01:33:25,280 --> 01:33:28,000 Speaker 2: Erase him from the family. Structure, oh that's also a 1896 01:33:28,040 --> 01:33:30,760 Speaker 2: great point because the op got a new house and 1897 01:33:30,880 --> 01:33:34,200 Speaker 2: didn't have. ROOM i think that's what they're, saying doesn't have. 1898 01:33:34,200 --> 01:33:37,760 Speaker 3: Room for their sixteen for the right, right they. 1899 01:33:37,760 --> 01:33:39,519 Speaker 1: Didn't it was kind of like after the fact of 1900 01:33:39,560 --> 01:33:41,400 Speaker 1: getting oh, like let me get the gaming. Stations Sight 1901 01:33:41,479 --> 01:33:44,240 Speaker 1: unseen has a GREAT. Tldr, Yeah op is, divorced son 1902 01:33:44,320 --> 01:33:46,760 Speaker 1: was skipping visitation with her for as much as she. 1903 01:33:46,840 --> 01:33:50,679 Speaker 1: Tried stepmom prego and does not Want ope's. Son, there that's. 1904 01:33:50,720 --> 01:33:55,439 Speaker 1: It there we go. That thank you you, Guys, Bravo, bravo. 1905 01:33:55,880 --> 01:33:56,559 Speaker 2: Guys that's a GREAT. 1906 01:33:56,560 --> 01:34:01,240 Speaker 1: Tldr read, it you guys, Wrong my, God so now we're. 1907 01:34:01,280 --> 01:34:04,080 Speaker 4: Back my son is sixteen, now and he called me 1908 01:34:04,160 --> 01:34:06,680 Speaker 4: to see if he could stay with. 1909 01:34:06,920 --> 01:34:12,080 Speaker 1: Me, okay so now he's crawling, back which, HONESTLY i 1910 01:34:12,120 --> 01:34:14,920 Speaker 1: mean like she should take him back or should she 1911 01:34:14,960 --> 01:34:15,559 Speaker 1: get sweet? 1912 01:34:15,560 --> 01:34:17,920 Speaker 3: Revenge you guys. 1913 01:34:17,560 --> 01:34:20,920 Speaker 2: Sun LIKE i feel like we're, like, oh, yeah the 1914 01:34:20,960 --> 01:34:23,640 Speaker 2: sixteen year old you, know said he hates her and 1915 01:34:23,680 --> 01:34:24,160 Speaker 2: doesn't want to be. 1916 01:34:24,200 --> 01:34:30,559 Speaker 17: Her he's, sixteen sixteen a, divorce it'll give me Mo, 1917 01:34:30,800 --> 01:34:34,240 Speaker 17: Yeah no one gets me, Think, yeah he gets a 1918 01:34:34,240 --> 01:34:34,640 Speaker 17: little bit of. 1919 01:34:34,840 --> 01:34:39,160 Speaker 4: Slack, yeah fair, enough fair. ENOUGH i SAID i didn't 1920 01:34:39,160 --> 01:34:40,639 Speaker 4: really have any. 1921 01:34:41,000 --> 01:34:45,000 Speaker 1: Room, guys does she actually not have any room where 1922 01:34:45,040 --> 01:34:46,520 Speaker 1: she's or she being, petty. 1923 01:34:46,479 --> 01:34:47,720 Speaker 3: Op ahole or? 1924 01:34:47,760 --> 01:34:49,400 Speaker 2: Not in the? CHAT a, WHOLE. 1925 01:34:50,920 --> 01:34:54,920 Speaker 1: I, think a whole you when you're when you're especially 1926 01:34:54,920 --> 01:34:59,720 Speaker 1: when your kid is, underage like especially regardless if there 1927 01:34:59,720 --> 01:35:01,400 Speaker 1: are it like you just got to be there for. 1928 01:35:01,479 --> 01:35:05,479 Speaker 1: Him but Q wrengo, SAYS i don't agree With. Sam 1929 01:35:05,560 --> 01:35:07,800 Speaker 1: the kid abandoned his mother due to, money and now 1930 01:35:07,920 --> 01:35:10,080 Speaker 1: he scroll up a little bit for Me, riley and 1931 01:35:10,160 --> 01:35:12,880 Speaker 1: now that his cheating father didn't care for, him comes 1932 01:35:12,920 --> 01:35:15,439 Speaker 1: back to the, mother who already moved on with her new. 1933 01:35:15,439 --> 01:35:18,360 Speaker 2: Family, yes he's still her, family but still her. 1934 01:35:18,400 --> 01:35:21,719 Speaker 1: Son, yeah still her. Son and it's like even even 1935 01:35:21,840 --> 01:35:25,559 Speaker 1: like if the son is like the son's job isn't 1936 01:35:25,600 --> 01:35:27,280 Speaker 1: to be a. Mother the mother chose to be the. 1937 01:35:27,320 --> 01:35:30,280 Speaker 1: Mother the son just was born, right and so the 1938 01:35:30,360 --> 01:35:34,280 Speaker 1: mother should be a mother regardless of what. Happens that's. 1939 01:35:34,360 --> 01:35:38,560 Speaker 4: Right mother To rachel gifted The Little. Sillies we appreciate. 1940 01:35:38,600 --> 01:35:41,640 Speaker 1: It thanks for the five membership for A Little. Sillies that's, amazing. 1941 01:35:42,080 --> 01:35:44,840 Speaker 1: Beautiful Nita fountain, says she has. Rooms she's definitely being. 1942 01:35:44,880 --> 01:35:45,160 Speaker 2: Petty. 1943 01:35:45,680 --> 01:35:50,839 Speaker 1: Uh Anastasia gilly says a whole Azy angel, says, nah, alluring, 1944 01:35:50,960 --> 01:35:54,040 Speaker 1: undead a Whole Seth froth a, hole but so is the. 1945 01:35:54,120 --> 01:35:55,559 Speaker 1: KID i would kind of agree with. 1946 01:35:55,600 --> 01:35:57,639 Speaker 2: That all sixteen year olds or sometimes little. 1947 01:35:57,800 --> 01:35:58,040 Speaker 4: Yeah. 1948 01:35:58,360 --> 01:35:59,880 Speaker 3: Yeah is there a curve an a whole? 1949 01:36:00,040 --> 01:36:00,200 Speaker 8: Her? 1950 01:36:00,439 --> 01:36:01,680 Speaker 2: Yeah. YEAH i think it's like. 1951 01:36:06,000 --> 01:36:08,679 Speaker 1: It's understandably he's still growing. Up but we have more 1952 01:36:08,800 --> 01:36:09,000 Speaker 1: to the. 1953 01:36:09,040 --> 01:36:12,600 Speaker 4: STORY i, SAID i didn't really have any. Room he 1954 01:36:12,760 --> 01:36:15,320 Speaker 4: asked me WHAT i did with his. Room he didn't 1955 01:36:15,360 --> 01:36:16,680 Speaker 4: even KNOW i sold the. 1956 01:36:16,720 --> 01:36:19,800 Speaker 2: House, oh he's very. 1957 01:36:19,920 --> 01:36:22,200 Speaker 4: Upset he called me a bitch for not having a 1958 01:36:22,200 --> 01:36:24,599 Speaker 4: place for him to. STAY i, said he could stay 1959 01:36:24,600 --> 01:36:25,880 Speaker 4: in our living room or on the. 1960 01:36:25,880 --> 01:36:26,880 Speaker 2: Couch not. 1961 01:36:27,120 --> 01:36:32,920 Speaker 1: Acceptable that's that's, fair that's, fair because does she not 1962 01:36:32,960 --> 01:36:36,000 Speaker 1: have Another she doesn't have another. Room BUT i kind 1963 01:36:36,040 --> 01:36:39,000 Speaker 1: of wondered To sophia's point from, earlier was she almost 1964 01:36:39,120 --> 01:36:43,040 Speaker 1: like like giving up basically by selling the house with 1965 01:36:43,120 --> 01:36:43,519 Speaker 1: the extra. 1966 01:36:43,560 --> 01:36:46,440 Speaker 2: Room she didn't even think of, that not planning. 1967 01:36:46,160 --> 01:36:48,640 Speaker 1: Or like preparing for. Him, Right, yes BUT i mean 1968 01:36:48,680 --> 01:36:52,080 Speaker 1: it sounds like it's been so, long like it it's 1969 01:36:52,080 --> 01:36:54,880 Speaker 1: been so. LONG i feel like that might be, normal 1970 01:36:54,920 --> 01:37:00,280 Speaker 1: like she she she she like she can't necessarily wait 1971 01:37:00,320 --> 01:37:04,320 Speaker 1: forever for him to possibly move, in but she can 1972 01:37:04,400 --> 01:37:07,920 Speaker 1: when he needs, it give him the space that, like 1973 01:37:08,000 --> 01:37:08,800 Speaker 1: all the space that she can. 1974 01:37:08,880 --> 01:37:11,760 Speaker 4: Muster, Yeah Brittany williams, SAID i. Agree he's a, kid 1975 01:37:11,840 --> 01:37:14,559 Speaker 4: and all kids make bad. Decisions sometimes he's her son 1976 01:37:14,720 --> 01:37:17,120 Speaker 4: no matter, what there will always be a place for 1977 01:37:17,200 --> 01:37:18,719 Speaker 4: my daughter with, me no. 1978 01:37:18,600 --> 01:37:20,599 Speaker 1: Matter her, age WHICH i think goes to same. 1979 01:37:20,640 --> 01:37:23,760 Speaker 3: Point shout Out martika too for the two. Dollars it 1980 01:37:23,800 --> 01:37:24,280 Speaker 3: is now. 1981 01:37:24,160 --> 01:37:25,719 Speaker 1: A Fish National Women's. 1982 01:37:25,880 --> 01:37:28,160 Speaker 2: Day thank, You, Sophia we. 1983 01:37:28,240 --> 01:37:33,120 Speaker 1: Appreciate, yeah you're international and a woman. 1984 01:37:33,240 --> 01:37:35,519 Speaker 2: Today that's. 1985 01:37:35,600 --> 01:37:40,639 Speaker 1: Right megan McCann is giving an ALTERNATIVE. Tldr, So opie's 1986 01:37:40,640 --> 01:37:43,479 Speaker 1: ex husband got remarried and then cheated on the new 1987 01:37:43,479 --> 01:37:46,559 Speaker 1: wife and got a mistress, pregnant and the step mom 1988 01:37:46,800 --> 01:37:49,920 Speaker 1: kIPS kicks Op he's ex out and the ex is 1989 01:37:50,000 --> 01:37:57,840 Speaker 1: living with the mistress and the mistress's. Mother yeah, uh 1990 01:37:58,280 --> 01:38:02,040 Speaker 1: and SAYS. Tldr opie son was skipping visitation with. Her 1991 01:38:02,320 --> 01:38:04,920 Speaker 1: opie's son's stepmom does not want the son. There son 1992 01:38:05,080 --> 01:38:07,639 Speaker 1: asked to live With opie said, no son Called Mama 1993 01:38:07,680 --> 01:38:10,640 Speaker 1: bee doesn't. Know opie sold the. House that makes more 1994 01:38:10,640 --> 01:38:12,080 Speaker 1: sense to. Me so let me share with that one 1995 01:38:12,320 --> 01:38:15,760 Speaker 1: nice one sight, unseen but we have more to. 1996 01:38:15,800 --> 01:38:21,040 Speaker 2: See the story that has ever been seen that is. 1997 01:38:21,080 --> 01:38:22,439 Speaker 2: True go To. 1998 01:38:22,479 --> 01:38:25,200 Speaker 4: MATANA i talked to my husband and we have enough 1999 01:38:25,200 --> 01:38:27,160 Speaker 4: money from the sale of my house and his old 2000 01:38:27,160 --> 01:38:30,799 Speaker 4: bachelor pad as well as our condo to buy back 2001 01:38:31,000 --> 01:38:31,599 Speaker 4: into the. 2002 01:38:31,680 --> 01:38:33,599 Speaker 1: Market, okay so maybe getting a new. 2003 01:38:33,600 --> 01:38:36,599 Speaker 4: House we were waiting for interest rates to fall and 2004 01:38:36,720 --> 01:38:39,200 Speaker 4: we were going to move to a more reasonably priced. 2005 01:38:39,240 --> 01:38:41,360 Speaker 4: CITY i told my son if he could take the 2006 01:38:41,400 --> 01:38:43,519 Speaker 4: living room for, now we could have a room for 2007 01:38:43,600 --> 01:38:44,160 Speaker 4: him in six. 2008 01:38:44,240 --> 01:38:47,200 Speaker 1: Months. Amazing that's exactly what he should. DO i don't 2009 01:38:47,200 --> 01:38:47,960 Speaker 1: think he's doing anything. 2010 01:38:48,000 --> 01:38:52,160 Speaker 4: Wrong so he moved in with his. Grandparents he isn't happy. 2011 01:38:52,200 --> 01:38:54,439 Speaker 4: There at least his dad got him a car so 2012 01:38:54,479 --> 01:38:57,439 Speaker 4: he can drive to his same. School my son is 2013 01:38:57,920 --> 01:39:00,519 Speaker 4: is pissed THAT i prioritize my new baby and my 2014 01:39:00,600 --> 01:39:04,080 Speaker 4: work over. HIM i had no expectation to ever need 2015 01:39:04,160 --> 01:39:07,880 Speaker 4: him in my, house sorry to ever need to house him. 2016 01:39:08,000 --> 01:39:10,439 Speaker 4: Again my ex called me and told me to make 2017 01:39:10,479 --> 01:39:13,240 Speaker 4: our office into a room for our. SON i told 2018 01:39:13,320 --> 01:39:16,479 Speaker 4: him that our son's circumstances were his fault and not, 2019 01:39:16,760 --> 01:39:18,560 Speaker 4: mine and that is the end of a. 2020 01:39:18,880 --> 01:39:21,920 Speaker 1: Story And Kimberly vine, says what we just figured out, 2021 01:39:21,920 --> 01:39:25,000 Speaker 1: Again but she still can't move her office to the living. 2022 01:39:25,080 --> 01:39:27,719 Speaker 2: Room that's What, Yeah, YEAH i would. 2023 01:39:27,800 --> 01:39:34,080 Speaker 1: Say, YEAH i would say, honestly if if that was my, 2024 01:39:34,240 --> 01:39:36,920 Speaker 1: kid even IF i was like really hurt by the 2025 01:39:37,040 --> 01:39:39,439 Speaker 1: years of him just like maybe you, know being a little, 2026 01:39:39,439 --> 01:39:43,000 Speaker 1: DOUCHEBAG i would probably still make room for the. Office. 2027 01:39:43,080 --> 01:39:43,680 Speaker 2: Absolutely. 2028 01:39:44,080 --> 01:39:48,439 Speaker 12: Yeah Low key is giving The facebook mom influencer vibes 2029 01:39:48,520 --> 01:39:49,680 Speaker 12: from yesterday's. 2030 01:39:49,680 --> 01:39:53,000 Speaker 1: Stream, YEAH i was just like not caring for a your, 2031 01:39:53,080 --> 01:39:55,280 Speaker 1: kid sight and scene says she is not the a 2032 01:39:55,360 --> 01:39:58,640 Speaker 1: whole Roly polly says son is facing his own. CONSEQUENCES 2033 01:39:58,640 --> 01:39:59,200 Speaker 1: i think he's a. 2034 01:39:59,280 --> 01:40:02,360 Speaker 2: KID i mean, mean you, know they don't understand. 2035 01:40:02,720 --> 01:40:06,160 Speaker 1: Consequences Pixel punkin, says but she can still accommodate him 2036 01:40:06,160 --> 01:40:11,160 Speaker 1: in the. Office, yeah, SO i think Cassas sam shared 2037 01:40:11,160 --> 01:40:13,360 Speaker 1: a room with THE i was literally just about to say, 2038 01:40:13,400 --> 01:40:16,880 Speaker 1: That Cass, yes, YEAH i, mean and look how you 2039 01:40:17,000 --> 01:40:18,840 Speaker 1: turned out, amazing. 2040 01:40:20,080 --> 01:40:20,559 Speaker 2: It's all. 2041 01:40:20,640 --> 01:40:23,559 Speaker 1: THERE i don't know IF i would do that to my. Kid, yeah, 2042 01:40:23,640 --> 01:40:26,840 Speaker 1: yeah why couldn't the kid do? That? 2043 01:40:27,000 --> 01:40:28,040 Speaker 2: Sam do The? 2044 01:40:28,080 --> 01:40:35,640 Speaker 1: Sam he is, UNGRATEFUL i mean, YEAH i MEAN i 2045 01:40:35,720 --> 01:40:37,439 Speaker 1: did live in an. OFFICE i guess he. 2046 01:40:37,520 --> 01:40:41,240 Speaker 2: DID i do think he is. Ungrateful BUT i also, 2047 01:40:41,320 --> 01:40:45,200 Speaker 2: think oh my, god both of his parents don't want 2048 01:40:45,280 --> 01:40:45,720 Speaker 2: to live with. 2049 01:40:45,840 --> 01:40:49,519 Speaker 4: Him are all three of them the? AHOLE i think the, 2050 01:40:49,640 --> 01:40:50,800 Speaker 4: dad the, mom and. 2051 01:40:50,720 --> 01:40:53,080 Speaker 2: The kid OR i think he's like a sixteen year old, 2052 01:40:53,160 --> 01:40:55,800 Speaker 2: ahole but like the parents are grown. 2053 01:40:55,600 --> 01:40:57,320 Speaker 3: Up their adult a hole the. 2054 01:40:57,400 --> 01:41:01,040 Speaker 1: Dad the dad he has, custody and its custody like 2055 01:41:01,160 --> 01:41:03,760 Speaker 1: getting not kicking him. Out this is like like the 2056 01:41:04,120 --> 01:41:08,800 Speaker 1: doesn't want to live with him because because with his New, 2057 01:41:09,080 --> 01:41:12,040 Speaker 1: yeah and then oh HE i think is a little 2058 01:41:12,080 --> 01:41:14,559 Speaker 1: bit of the asshole for not giving him like an 2059 01:41:14,600 --> 01:41:17,280 Speaker 1: office and saying sleep on the couch for god knows how. 2060 01:41:17,320 --> 01:41:20,880 Speaker 2: Long alsop was very hesitant when he called and, said 2061 01:41:20,880 --> 01:41:22,800 Speaker 2: CAN i live with? You and she, SAID i don't have. 2062 01:41:22,840 --> 01:41:25,280 Speaker 1: Space, yeah SO i, think, oh, p he's THE a. Whole, 2063 01:41:25,400 --> 01:41:28,800 Speaker 1: yeah think uh two or So dad is the a 2064 01:41:28,840 --> 01:41:31,639 Speaker 1: hole the most, Op he's THE a whole, second and 2065 01:41:31,680 --> 01:41:33,679 Speaker 1: the sun is THE a whole, third but like much. 2066 01:41:33,720 --> 01:41:35,080 Speaker 1: Lower he's just like a sixteen year old. 2067 01:41:35,120 --> 01:41:37,840 Speaker 2: Ahole but he's a byproduct of two of a. 2068 01:41:37,960 --> 01:41:41,000 Speaker 1: Holes And Tracy issen, says the kid is a teenage 2069 01:41:41,120 --> 01:41:44,240 Speaker 1: a hole. Baby THE a hole doesn't fall far from the. 2070 01:41:44,280 --> 01:41:47,360 Speaker 1: Tree the a hole doesn't fall far than fart blows 2071 01:41:47,360 --> 01:41:48,639 Speaker 1: in the. Wind you can smell it if you're. 2072 01:41:48,640 --> 01:41:52,640 Speaker 2: Close that is. Disgusting it's also gonna say in the 2073 01:41:52,680 --> 01:41:55,760 Speaker 2: point of the, STORY i think it's also hard for 2074 01:41:55,840 --> 01:41:59,040 Speaker 2: the kid to have two parents who are expecting children 2075 01:42:00,840 --> 01:42:03,679 Speaker 2: and like feeling like your second best to these new 2076 01:42:03,720 --> 01:42:04,960 Speaker 2: lives that they're Both. 2077 01:42:05,000 --> 01:42:06,559 Speaker 1: Yeah they're like moving on From. 2078 01:42:06,680 --> 01:42:08,280 Speaker 2: He's like literally, no, Young. 2079 01:42:08,200 --> 01:42:11,280 Speaker 12: Oh my, gosh WHAT i think my parents had like 2080 01:42:11,320 --> 01:42:14,360 Speaker 12: a new life of my two little. Brothers oh my, 2081 01:42:14,400 --> 01:42:16,920 Speaker 12: gosh because like they're way better than we. Are they 2082 01:42:16,960 --> 01:42:19,720 Speaker 12: know how to play the violin and the, guitar and 2083 01:42:19,760 --> 01:42:23,439 Speaker 12: me And tate just kind of vibe oh, my oh 2084 01:42:23,520 --> 01:42:32,080 Speaker 12: my god FEEL i guess like the closet room things. 2085 01:42:32,360 --> 01:42:33,360 Speaker 1: Process riley's. 2086 01:42:33,400 --> 01:42:34,800 Speaker 3: Processing w's in the chat For. 2087 01:42:34,920 --> 01:42:40,720 Speaker 1: Riley everybody's processing their trauma caused by some trauma Questions 2088 01:42:40,920 --> 01:42:42,479 Speaker 1: paterson for the five dollars ten. 2089 01:42:43,320 --> 01:42:46,720 Speaker 12: Us probably not the case at, all BUT w was in. 2090 01:42:46,680 --> 01:42:51,960 Speaker 1: The chat for processing. Trauma live. On that's what we, do, Babies, 2091 01:42:54,920 --> 01:43:00,559 Speaker 1: yes The, Queen we've just lived back to our right. 2092 01:43:01,680 --> 01:43:07,080 Speaker 1: Trauma what's in this? Box pain shout out to? Do 2093 01:43:07,160 --> 01:43:10,560 Speaker 1: and if anyone's seen during the episode One pandora's. 2094 01:43:10,080 --> 01:43:11,519 Speaker 2: BOX i was gonna say opening, up. 2095 01:43:13,640 --> 01:43:15,400 Speaker 1: But you know what can of? WORMS i want to 2096 01:43:15,400 --> 01:43:17,679 Speaker 1: open up. UP i want to open up this next. 2097 01:43:17,720 --> 01:43:22,599 Speaker 1: Story what do we, Got? Riley what episode are we? At? 2098 01:43:23,600 --> 01:43:24,439 Speaker 7: FIVE s? 2099 01:43:24,520 --> 01:43:25,160 Speaker 2: Five from? 2100 01:43:25,160 --> 01:43:25,240 Speaker 7: What? 2101 01:43:25,360 --> 01:43:27,200 Speaker 1: Episode three ninety? 2102 01:43:27,240 --> 01:43:29,479 Speaker 2: FIVE s? Five that's, shorty you want to do that 2103 01:43:29,520 --> 01:43:30,519 Speaker 2: much of a short for the? 2104 01:43:31,080 --> 01:43:34,719 Speaker 1: Dollar thank, You. Maynard the tool says process that. Trauma, 2105 01:43:34,800 --> 01:43:38,320 Speaker 1: well we're about to process someone else's. Trauma and it 2106 01:43:38,360 --> 01:43:41,280 Speaker 1: comes from Old ambassador ten Forty eight's an old man 2107 01:43:41,320 --> 01:43:43,719 Speaker 1: with a lot of. Trauma ami The ale for asking 2108 01:43:43,800 --> 01:43:47,360 Speaker 1: my husband's ex family to contribute to my son's education 2109 01:43:47,479 --> 01:43:54,120 Speaker 1: savings even though he's not the. Father m really, Quick 2110 01:43:54,120 --> 01:43:56,360 Speaker 1: i'm gonna read that, again because that's kind of. Crazy 2111 01:43:56,840 --> 01:44:02,080 Speaker 1: Am I assel for asking my husband's x, so her 2112 01:44:02,120 --> 01:44:05,679 Speaker 1: husband's ex wife family to contribute to my son's education 2113 01:44:05,880 --> 01:44:10,080 Speaker 1: savings even though he's not the. Father so her current 2114 01:44:10,120 --> 01:44:13,840 Speaker 1: husband is not the father of her, kid and she's saying, saying, 2115 01:44:13,960 --> 01:44:18,200 Speaker 1: hey can your exes family pay for my kid to do? 2116 01:44:18,240 --> 01:44:20,040 Speaker 2: It that's a little that's the. 2117 01:44:20,080 --> 01:44:23,680 Speaker 1: Money the fact that we're confused may mean there's too 2118 01:44:23,760 --> 01:44:26,439 Speaker 1: many degrees of separation from you and your kid for 2119 01:44:26,600 --> 01:44:28,479 Speaker 1: this inheritance. 2120 01:44:27,920 --> 01:44:28,880 Speaker 2: To give me all the. 2121 01:44:28,920 --> 01:44:30,600 Speaker 1: Money give me the, Money give me the, money and 2122 01:44:30,640 --> 01:44:32,840 Speaker 1: shout out To Jamie lee And charlotte for joining our 2123 01:44:32,920 --> 01:44:37,360 Speaker 1: little silly giving. Up let's get into the. STORY i 2124 01:44:37,439 --> 01:44:41,320 Speaker 1: got divorced six years. AGO i have an excellent co 2125 01:44:41,439 --> 01:44:44,360 Speaker 1: parenting relationship with my. Ex he finally figured out that 2126 01:44:44,400 --> 01:44:49,120 Speaker 1: he's gay and we parted. Amicably props to both of 2127 01:44:49,160 --> 01:44:52,400 Speaker 1: you for doing that. Well he wasn't the love of my, 2128 01:44:52,439 --> 01:44:57,000 Speaker 1: life just SOMEONE i cared. FOR i met my husband 2129 01:44:57,439 --> 01:45:01,200 Speaker 1: two years. Later both of us have twelve year old, 2130 01:45:01,240 --> 01:45:04,400 Speaker 1: children my son and his. Daughter he has fifty to 2131 01:45:04,439 --> 01:45:08,000 Speaker 1: fifty custody with his, Ex. Linda my ex's family is 2132 01:45:08,040 --> 01:45:09,720 Speaker 1: well off and they spoil my. 2133 01:45:09,840 --> 01:45:13,360 Speaker 2: Son that's pretty. Good it is. Nice so they love. 2134 01:45:13,400 --> 01:45:16,760 Speaker 1: Them, yeah they love, Them, yeah and just. Yeah so 2135 01:45:17,439 --> 01:45:20,680 Speaker 1: basically everything's going, well not in any way that makes 2136 01:45:20,760 --> 01:45:24,560 Speaker 1: us been. Titled they just like to give him a great. Life, 2137 01:45:24,840 --> 01:45:28,360 Speaker 1: Recently linda has started saying that her daughter deserves the 2138 01:45:28,560 --> 01:45:31,320 Speaker 1: same kind of treatment as my. SON i explained that 2139 01:45:31,400 --> 01:45:34,519 Speaker 1: it was his father's family and not me who's doing 2140 01:45:34,560 --> 01:45:36,920 Speaker 1: this stuff for. HIM i treat them, equally AND i 2141 01:45:37,000 --> 01:45:38,519 Speaker 1: go out of my way to make sure she is 2142 01:45:38,520 --> 01:45:41,559 Speaker 1: comfortable in my. Home my husband has also explained this 2143 01:45:41,600 --> 01:45:43,920 Speaker 1: to her and her. Family they say it does not 2144 01:45:44,200 --> 01:45:46,880 Speaker 1: matter and that everything needs to be. Fair this has 2145 01:45:46,920 --> 01:45:49,680 Speaker 1: been going on for months. Now we were dropping him 2146 01:45:49,720 --> 01:45:52,240 Speaker 1: off at an event For linda's family and it started. 2147 01:45:52,360 --> 01:45:55,400 Speaker 1: Again SO i agreed that everything should be. EQUAL i 2148 01:45:55,439 --> 01:45:58,360 Speaker 1: said THAT i knew his daughter had a trust fund for. 2149 01:45:58,560 --> 01:46:01,400 Speaker 1: Education if they lt it fifty to fifty between her 2150 01:46:01,520 --> 01:46:04,320 Speaker 1: and my, SON i would ask my family to do 2151 01:46:04,520 --> 01:46:07,960 Speaker 1: for her like they were doing for my. Son this 2152 01:46:08,200 --> 01:46:13,120 Speaker 1: made them go. Nuts they started screaming THAT i was 2153 01:46:13,120 --> 01:46:15,280 Speaker 1: trying to take away money that only belongs to my 2154 01:46:15,320 --> 01:46:17,839 Speaker 1: stepdaughter to give it to someone they are not related. 2155 01:46:17,880 --> 01:46:20,439 Speaker 1: To they refused to listen to my side of the, 2156 01:46:20,520 --> 01:46:23,760 Speaker 1: argument and apparently it was all anyone talked about at the. 2157 01:46:23,800 --> 01:46:25,960 Speaker 1: Wedding now we are getting a lot of hate for 2158 01:46:26,040 --> 01:46:29,320 Speaker 1: being greedy and not caring about my stepdaughter and her. 2159 01:46:29,360 --> 01:46:32,839 Speaker 1: FUTURE i think fair is. Fair why should my ex's 2160 01:46:32,920 --> 01:46:35,679 Speaker 1: family do What linda's family will? 2161 01:46:35,760 --> 01:46:38,519 Speaker 2: Not, OKAY i, understand all, right give us a break 2162 01:46:38,520 --> 01:46:38,800 Speaker 2: down for. 2163 01:46:38,840 --> 01:46:38,880 Speaker 7: Me. 2164 01:46:39,000 --> 01:46:43,120 Speaker 2: Okay so we Have ope who has who split up 2165 01:46:43,160 --> 01:46:47,960 Speaker 2: with their ex and her exes who's like the father 2166 01:46:48,040 --> 01:46:52,559 Speaker 2: of her. Child the family still continues to pay for 2167 01:46:52,680 --> 01:46:56,120 Speaker 2: the son's lifestyle and like help him. Out and Then 2168 01:46:56,280 --> 01:47:00,599 Speaker 2: opee got remarried And opee's new husband had a. Daughter 2169 01:47:00,800 --> 01:47:04,519 Speaker 2: so this Is opie's stepdaughter And opie's stepdaughter and like 2170 01:47:04,600 --> 01:47:08,120 Speaker 2: that family are, like, well why aren't we getting the 2171 01:47:08,160 --> 01:47:10,160 Speaker 2: same support that your son, is you. 2172 01:47:10,120 --> 01:47:12,360 Speaker 1: Know they're, like, yeah they're steps. 2173 01:47:12,360 --> 01:47:15,599 Speaker 2: Something it's, like why is my stepbrother getting because, Exactly 2174 01:47:16,080 --> 01:47:19,519 Speaker 2: and so op was like, SURE i can, ask LIKE 2175 01:47:19,600 --> 01:47:23,080 Speaker 2: i can support step, daughter but your side of the 2176 01:47:23,080 --> 01:47:25,840 Speaker 2: family also has to support my, son and they're, like, 2177 01:47:25,920 --> 01:47:27,800 Speaker 2: well we're not, really you, know we're not related to, 2178 01:47:27,880 --> 01:47:29,519 Speaker 2: him and so that's. 2179 01:47:29,360 --> 01:47:31,679 Speaker 1: What, yeah sight UNSEEN i think has a great. Take 2180 01:47:32,000 --> 01:47:35,000 Speaker 1: it is in good taste to help with, her but 2181 01:47:35,080 --> 01:47:38,040 Speaker 1: it is not. Required you are not the a hole to, 2182 01:47:38,160 --> 01:47:40,960 Speaker 1: ask but they are the a hole to. Refuse But i'm, 2183 01:47:40,960 --> 01:47:42,760 Speaker 1: sorry but they are also not the a hole to, 2184 01:47:42,800 --> 01:47:45,440 Speaker 1: refuse WHICH i think is also. 2185 01:47:45,240 --> 01:47:47,599 Speaker 2: Not her, money it's her exes. 2186 01:47:47,600 --> 01:47:49,680 Speaker 1: Money, Okay so this is actually a question THAT i 2187 01:47:49,680 --> 01:47:51,160 Speaker 1: have in this, scenario AND i would love for you 2188 01:47:51,200 --> 01:47:53,519 Speaker 1: guys to let us know what you think in the. Chat, 2189 01:47:53,560 --> 01:47:56,040 Speaker 1: so say you have two kids from two different. Marriages 2190 01:47:56,320 --> 01:47:59,320 Speaker 1: one family is, wealthy one family is not, right and 2191 01:47:59,640 --> 01:48:02,640 Speaker 1: one of the kids gets all this inheritance money for 2192 01:48:02,720 --> 01:48:06,320 Speaker 1: education stuff from that family and one does. Not is 2193 01:48:06,320 --> 01:48:08,920 Speaker 1: it your duty as a parent to equalize it in 2194 01:48:09,000 --> 01:48:12,160 Speaker 1: some way by basically not adding anything to that kid's 2195 01:48:12,280 --> 01:48:16,440 Speaker 1: education and only adding to the other kids education basically 2196 01:48:17,320 --> 01:48:21,080 Speaker 1: like favoring quote unquote one kid by exclusively giving, money 2197 01:48:21,200 --> 01:48:23,680 Speaker 1: but only in an effort to like basically make the 2198 01:48:24,160 --> 01:48:28,519 Speaker 1: kids these two kids have equal opportunity in. Life so 2199 01:48:28,800 --> 01:48:31,960 Speaker 1: is it your job as a parent to basically give 2200 01:48:32,160 --> 01:48:35,240 Speaker 1: equally to each children or equalize for both. 2201 01:48:35,320 --> 01:48:41,000 Speaker 12: CHILDREN i agree with the equalizing BECAUSE i, mean in 2202 01:48:41,040 --> 01:48:43,040 Speaker 12: different parts of life you need different. Things SO i 2203 01:48:43,040 --> 01:48:45,240 Speaker 12: think if you equalize it rather than, like OH i 2204 01:48:45,240 --> 01:48:46,800 Speaker 12: got this much money from my parents when they only 2205 01:48:46,800 --> 01:48:50,800 Speaker 12: gave you this much money here Likes it's very, scenario you, 2206 01:48:50,840 --> 01:48:52,799 Speaker 12: know Situational. 2207 01:48:52,439 --> 01:48:54,760 Speaker 1: Shout out To Bernie Hert dragon for the two buck. Tip, 2208 01:48:56,160 --> 01:48:59,639 Speaker 1: yeah what do you think equal like basically equal pay 2209 01:49:00,080 --> 01:49:00,760 Speaker 1: or equalize? 2210 01:49:00,800 --> 01:49:03,240 Speaker 2: Pay so and you get, that do? 2211 01:49:02,920 --> 01:49:03,679 Speaker 6: YOU i don't. 2212 01:49:03,680 --> 01:49:06,960 Speaker 1: KNOW i don't know IF i, yeah someone says equity VERSUS. 2213 01:49:06,400 --> 01:49:08,599 Speaker 2: I was about to say, that, right. 2214 01:49:08,800 --> 01:49:12,559 Speaker 4: Yeah, so so basically you could give them the exact same, 2215 01:49:12,600 --> 01:49:17,519 Speaker 4: amount or you could like just any same amount kind 2216 01:49:17,600 --> 01:49:22,160 Speaker 4: of or you could give someone like we're gonna make 2217 01:49:22,200 --> 01:49:23,479 Speaker 4: up the deficit that you don't. 2218 01:49:23,479 --> 01:49:23,599 Speaker 9: Have. 2219 01:49:23,800 --> 01:49:26,720 Speaker 1: Yeah so like like let's, say, uh you have two 2220 01:49:26,800 --> 01:49:29,000 Speaker 1: kids and one one of the families is, rich and, like, 2221 01:49:29,000 --> 01:49:31,599 Speaker 1: hey we're gonna give you fifty thousand dollars for your, education, 2222 01:49:31,760 --> 01:49:34,439 Speaker 1: yep and one kid has, nothing and you're, like, okay 2223 01:49:34,600 --> 01:49:38,120 Speaker 1: because that other kid has, Nothing i'm going to uh 2224 01:49:38,320 --> 01:49:41,800 Speaker 1: continually give that kid money until they eventually have fifty 2225 01:49:41,840 --> 01:49:44,640 Speaker 1: thousand dollars instead of giving both kids, money, right so 2226 01:49:44,680 --> 01:49:46,719 Speaker 1: they have an equal, access, Right, Yeah. 2227 01:49:46,640 --> 01:49:48,639 Speaker 2: Yeah it depends on if op can afford. 2228 01:49:48,680 --> 01:49:51,920 Speaker 1: That, yeah but like like no matter, what like like 2229 01:49:52,160 --> 01:49:54,320 Speaker 1: like it's not like they can maybe give all like 2230 01:49:54,400 --> 01:49:57,040 Speaker 1: all the, way but like whatever they can give like 2231 01:49:57,080 --> 01:50:00,600 Speaker 1: the maximum amount. Essentially, yeah probably equity or. Quality what 2232 01:50:00,640 --> 01:50:01,000 Speaker 1: do you think? 2233 01:50:01,160 --> 01:50:04,040 Speaker 4: Equity, right because that's that's giving it bringing the other 2234 01:50:04,080 --> 01:50:08,160 Speaker 4: person to fifty fifty. K, Right, look the reality is 2235 01:50:08,760 --> 01:50:11,759 Speaker 4: they get the benefit of what they. Have this person 2236 01:50:11,880 --> 01:50:15,800 Speaker 4: already has fifty. K they are receiving that benefit, Already 2237 01:50:16,080 --> 01:50:19,160 Speaker 4: so why not bring this person to also have the same. 2238 01:50:19,280 --> 01:50:23,759 Speaker 1: Benefit, yeah and you know someone who always continually benefits 2239 01:50:23,840 --> 01:50:32,920 Speaker 1: Us john who, Oh Daddy. Jesse one more, hour one 2240 01:50:33,040 --> 01:50:36,679 Speaker 1: hundred seventy, bucks one more, hour, Fools thank, You Daddy. 2241 01:50:36,760 --> 01:50:40,320 Speaker 1: Jesse and ALSO i think we Have Jamie lee And 2242 01:50:40,439 --> 01:50:43,799 Speaker 1: charlotte thanks for the five. Bucks we appreciate. You Daddy 2243 01:50:43,880 --> 01:50:46,920 Speaker 1: jesse out here freaking save in the, stream always in the, 2244 01:50:47,040 --> 01:50:48,840 Speaker 1: right in the nick of. Time we only had ten 2245 01:50:48,840 --> 01:50:52,640 Speaker 1: minutes left. There, yeah And Daddy jesse's, like, UH i 2246 01:50:52,680 --> 01:50:56,519 Speaker 1: THINK i don't think SO i don't think. So the 2247 01:50:56,640 --> 01:51:02,320 Speaker 1: d strikes, again the strikes, Baby god, facts, dude IT'S D. Day, 2248 01:51:02,720 --> 01:51:05,680 Speaker 1: yeah we've read a story similar to that where it's, like, 2249 01:51:06,160 --> 01:51:09,680 Speaker 1: uh like the question of equity versus equality comes, up 2250 01:51:09,720 --> 01:51:13,160 Speaker 1: AND i think, like for your, CHILDREN i think equity makes. Sense, 2251 01:51:13,360 --> 01:51:16,120 Speaker 1: yeah it's a very nuanced situation because then your kid 2252 01:51:16,120 --> 01:51:18,240 Speaker 1: could feel, like, oh, like why do you only ever 2253 01:51:19,040 --> 01:51:21,240 Speaker 1: uh give money to the other kid even you? 2254 01:51:21,240 --> 01:51:23,040 Speaker 4: Know but, YEAH i think then it's, like, yo you 2255 01:51:23,080 --> 01:51:26,320 Speaker 4: have you have you, know sitting down, especially it sounds 2256 01:51:26,360 --> 01:51:26,960 Speaker 4: like do we get the? 2257 01:51:26,960 --> 01:51:28,280 Speaker 2: Ages are they close to? 2258 01:51:28,280 --> 01:51:30,400 Speaker 1: COLLEGE i. DON'T i don't, Know, okay BUT i think 2259 01:51:30,439 --> 01:51:32,000 Speaker 1: when once they reached out, age you can kind of 2260 01:51:32,000 --> 01:51:33,880 Speaker 1: sit them down going into college and be, like, man 2261 01:51:34,040 --> 01:51:36,280 Speaker 1: this is. It but you know what Age i've? Reached 2262 01:51:36,560 --> 01:51:38,880 Speaker 1: What i've, reached the ripe old age of wanting to 2263 01:51:38,920 --> 01:51:42,240 Speaker 1: hear some, stories possibly from our, okay, fan but maybe 2264 01:51:42,240 --> 01:51:44,479 Speaker 1: we actually read one more short story before we. 2265 01:51:44,439 --> 01:51:45,320 Speaker 2: Do, That, riley what do you? 2266 01:51:45,360 --> 01:51:49,800 Speaker 12: Think, honestly we have some pretty good stuff for a, Wait, 2267 01:51:52,360 --> 01:51:53,000 Speaker 12: okay we'll be. 2268 01:51:53,160 --> 01:51:58,559 Speaker 1: Calling, yeah let's do. It let's do, it call it maybe. 2269 01:51:58,360 --> 01:51:59,280 Speaker 2: Maybe get it? 2270 01:51:59,640 --> 01:52:03,040 Speaker 12: Right, Okay so here it is true off my. CHEST 2271 01:52:03,960 --> 01:52:06,400 Speaker 12: i found OUT i have a half brother from my 2272 01:52:06,520 --> 01:52:07,800 Speaker 12: dad's side due to his. 2273 01:52:08,400 --> 01:52:11,240 Speaker 1: Infidelity oh, NO i want to know how you found 2274 01:52:11,240 --> 01:52:12,040 Speaker 1: out about it and your. 2275 01:52:12,720 --> 01:52:15,439 Speaker 2: DAD i love all the wiggles in the. Chat let's. 2276 01:52:15,520 --> 01:52:18,360 Speaker 1: Go, yeah wiggles in the chat for your worm, queen. 2277 01:52:21,280 --> 01:52:28,479 Speaker 2: And we're. Calling who do we have? 2278 01:52:28,640 --> 01:52:33,000 Speaker 1: Today riley was so excited for. That yes he, Was Crystal, Barton, 2279 01:52:33,080 --> 01:52:38,320 Speaker 1: honey thanks for the five gifted. MEMBERSHIPS a wiggle for, 2280 01:52:38,439 --> 01:52:42,080 Speaker 1: you that's, right a wiggle for, me a wiggle for 2281 01:52:42,120 --> 01:52:47,280 Speaker 1: everyone to be, free a wiggle for, us rook for, 2282 01:52:47,360 --> 01:52:50,920 Speaker 1: them a wiggle to celebrate your Worm. 2283 01:52:51,040 --> 01:52:54,040 Speaker 8: Queen YOUR sms notification. 2284 01:52:54,120 --> 01:52:56,000 Speaker 3: Willing oh, no, bro. 2285 01:53:00,160 --> 01:53:01,080 Speaker 1: You're leaving us on? 2286 01:53:01,160 --> 01:53:04,240 Speaker 2: Voicemail should we give them one more? 2287 01:53:04,320 --> 01:53:04,599 Speaker 6: Chance? 2288 01:53:05,040 --> 01:53:08,240 Speaker 1: Uh now you can call them back if they text. 2289 01:53:08,320 --> 01:53:10,280 Speaker 6: US i got another, Person. 2290 01:53:12,439 --> 01:53:14,840 Speaker 1: Anya, says have you ever thought of doing a twenty 2291 01:53:14,840 --> 01:53:17,360 Speaker 1: four hour? Live, yes we have coming. 2292 01:53:17,400 --> 01:53:18,320 Speaker 2: UP i fear. 2293 01:53:18,400 --> 01:53:21,559 Speaker 1: It, yeah there's gonna be a lot of red, bulls 2294 01:53:21,600 --> 01:53:23,080 Speaker 1: the quivering. 2295 01:53:24,520 --> 01:53:26,080 Speaker 2: Just you, wait here's another? 2296 01:53:26,120 --> 01:53:29,040 Speaker 12: One uh til D r and when they hope for 2297 01:53:29,120 --> 01:53:31,559 Speaker 12: dating my dad's best friend without my dad's. 2298 01:53:31,560 --> 01:53:37,160 Speaker 1: Approval let's, Go, yeah let's do it all, right who 2299 01:53:37,280 --> 01:53:43,360 Speaker 1: do we? Got we got call Them, Shelley shep, says 2300 01:53:43,439 --> 01:53:46,040 Speaker 1: any other affair babies out there or is it just? 2301 01:53:46,160 --> 01:53:47,880 Speaker 1: Me a fair babies. 2302 01:53:50,120 --> 01:53:50,519 Speaker 2: Now being? 2303 01:53:50,560 --> 01:53:53,400 Speaker 3: Recorded, hello we're talking to. 2304 01:53:55,160 --> 01:53:56,720 Speaker 5: This Is manners the tool in the? 2305 01:53:56,800 --> 01:54:00,680 Speaker 1: Chat hey put a little hammers in the? 2306 01:54:00,760 --> 01:54:01,240 Speaker 2: CHAT i mean. 2307 01:54:01,400 --> 01:54:04,920 Speaker 1: HAMMERS i heard you have a story for. Us can 2308 01:54:04,960 --> 01:54:06,479 Speaker 1: you give us the thirty to sixty second? 2309 01:54:06,520 --> 01:54:12,320 Speaker 5: Breakdown so the breakdown basically IS i started hanging out 2310 01:54:12,360 --> 01:54:16,360 Speaker 5: with my dad's best friend AND i caught feelings for 2311 01:54:16,479 --> 01:54:18,400 Speaker 5: him and we started, dating and my dad was. 2312 01:54:18,479 --> 01:54:23,080 Speaker 1: Furious how old was the age? 2313 01:54:23,080 --> 01:54:27,760 Speaker 13: Difference SO i was, twenty he was, forty and how 2314 01:54:27,760 --> 01:54:32,400 Speaker 13: old your? Dad my dad was like forty, TWO i 2315 01:54:32,440 --> 01:54:34,000 Speaker 13: believe at the, time it's not. 2316 01:54:34,200 --> 01:54:38,200 Speaker 1: Older what, Happened, like how did the relationships start? 2317 01:54:38,320 --> 01:54:42,360 Speaker 13: Progress, Yeah so BASICALLY. 2318 01:54:43,160 --> 01:54:47,160 Speaker 5: I was in a really bad relationship AND i needed 2319 01:54:47,200 --> 01:54:49,560 Speaker 5: to get out of the house a, lot and my 2320 01:54:49,640 --> 01:54:52,200 Speaker 5: dad used to take my sister AND i to his whiffleball. 2321 01:54:52,280 --> 01:54:56,960 Speaker 5: Club SO i met his friend at the whiffleball club 2322 01:54:57,360 --> 01:55:01,280 Speaker 5: and we'd all hang out and, talk and my dad 2323 01:55:01,360 --> 01:55:04,200 Speaker 5: wasn't the nicest to. Him so we started becoming a 2324 01:55:04,240 --> 01:55:08,200 Speaker 5: lot closer and we would go and get taco bell 2325 01:55:08,360 --> 01:55:10,880 Speaker 5: and hang out and talk for hours to get out 2326 01:55:10,920 --> 01:55:15,000 Speaker 5: of the, house and you, know we just really hit it. 2327 01:55:15,040 --> 01:55:18,320 Speaker 5: Off and one NIGHT i ended up confessing my feelings for. 2328 01:55:18,440 --> 01:55:23,440 Speaker 1: Him oh you made a move on, HIM i. 2329 01:55:23,520 --> 01:55:24,640 Speaker 5: DID i asked him. 2330 01:55:24,680 --> 01:55:27,840 Speaker 3: Out, also DARE i ask how old were you at this? 2331 01:55:27,960 --> 01:55:28,200 Speaker 2: Point? 2332 01:55:28,960 --> 01:55:32,600 Speaker 5: Twenty? Okay, yeah everything happened to twenty. 2333 01:55:32,480 --> 01:55:39,320 Speaker 1: Got you wow and like and he was like, down. 2334 01:55:41,000 --> 01:55:43,800 Speaker 5: Uh, yeah he was, LIKE i feel the same way about. 2335 01:55:43,840 --> 01:55:45,840 Speaker 5: You you, know we had a lot of really deep. 2336 01:55:45,920 --> 01:55:50,320 Speaker 5: Conversations he THOUGHT i was really. Awesome so we started 2337 01:55:50,320 --> 01:55:50,520 Speaker 5: to go. 2338 01:55:50,600 --> 01:55:52,040 Speaker 2: Out so you started? 2339 01:55:52,120 --> 01:55:55,520 Speaker 1: Dating at what point were you, LIKE i need to 2340 01:55:55,560 --> 01:55:57,480 Speaker 1: tell my dad or possibly like tell. 2341 01:55:57,520 --> 01:56:02,400 Speaker 5: Someone so we you, know we all hung out in 2342 01:56:02,480 --> 01:56:05,720 Speaker 5: this group of. People so it was my dad and 2343 01:56:05,760 --> 01:56:08,720 Speaker 5: his few friends that we would all play whippleball, with 2344 01:56:08,760 --> 01:56:10,480 Speaker 5: and we were, like we don't know how long we 2345 01:56:10,640 --> 01:56:15,040 Speaker 5: can keep this. Undercover so he was actually living with 2346 01:56:15,200 --> 01:56:21,760 Speaker 5: another friend at the, time and we apparently he figured 2347 01:56:21,760 --> 01:56:23,880 Speaker 5: out THAT i was coming over and sneaking in the 2348 01:56:23,880 --> 01:56:27,040 Speaker 5: window to hang out with, him and he told my. 2349 01:56:27,280 --> 01:56:29,680 Speaker 5: Dad the same, day we were going to take my 2350 01:56:29,800 --> 01:56:32,240 Speaker 5: dad out to dinner to like Red lobster or something 2351 01:56:32,280 --> 01:56:32,600 Speaker 5: to tell. 2352 01:56:32,680 --> 01:56:36,480 Speaker 1: Him he told your. Dad you didn't even realize he 2353 01:56:36,560 --> 01:56:37,120 Speaker 1: was going to tell your. 2354 01:56:37,160 --> 01:56:38,960 Speaker 2: Dad uh. 2355 01:56:39,280 --> 01:56:43,120 Speaker 5: Yeah the roommate who was also a close friend of my, dad. 2356 01:56:43,000 --> 01:56:47,880 Speaker 1: Told, oh, okay so. 2357 01:56:47,880 --> 01:56:48,360 Speaker 8: What did your? 2358 01:56:48,400 --> 01:56:50,400 Speaker 5: Dad we were going to take him to get food 2359 01:56:50,440 --> 01:56:53,200 Speaker 5: because my dad is a very simple. Guy he's the 2360 01:56:53,280 --> 01:56:56,200 Speaker 5: type of guy who is, like you, know put food 2361 01:56:56,240 --> 01:56:58,160 Speaker 5: in front of, Me i'll be happy or Else i'm 2362 01:56:58,200 --> 01:56:59,080 Speaker 5: just angry all the. 2363 01:56:59,160 --> 01:57:04,840 Speaker 1: Time oh and THEN i imagine he didn't have food 2364 01:57:04,880 --> 01:57:07,240 Speaker 1: in front of, him and he had this news about 2365 01:57:07,240 --> 01:57:12,240 Speaker 1: his friend dating his. DAUGHTER i imagine that didn't sit 2366 01:57:12,280 --> 01:57:12,560 Speaker 1: well with. 2367 01:57:12,640 --> 01:57:14,120 Speaker 9: Him it. 2368 01:57:14,480 --> 01:57:20,400 Speaker 5: Didn't the aftermath was. Crazy so, basically as we're getting 2369 01:57:20,440 --> 01:57:23,800 Speaker 5: ready to call my dad up and invite him out to, 2370 01:57:23,920 --> 01:57:27,960 Speaker 5: DINNER i get a call from my dad, instead and 2371 01:57:28,040 --> 01:57:31,520 Speaker 5: he called, me yelling at, me just calling, me you, 2372 01:57:31,560 --> 01:57:34,000 Speaker 5: know all sorts of profanities and how COULD i do 2373 01:57:34,080 --> 01:57:36,040 Speaker 5: this to? Him And i'm, Like, dad it's not like, 2374 01:57:36,200 --> 01:57:39,080 Speaker 5: that because he accused it of being just sexual AND 2375 01:57:39,120 --> 01:57:41,200 Speaker 5: i was, like, no this is about love that does 2376 01:57:41,240 --> 01:57:46,919 Speaker 5: nothing like that has, happened and he Was we currently 2377 01:57:46,960 --> 01:57:48,640 Speaker 5: are almost seven years On. 2378 01:57:48,720 --> 01:57:52,480 Speaker 1: August we're still. Together, yeah a. 2379 01:57:54,360 --> 01:57:56,400 Speaker 5: Lot of ups and downs but currently still. 2380 01:57:56,440 --> 01:58:02,800 Speaker 1: Together, yes no, way, congrats that's. Huge, wait so did your, 2381 01:58:02,880 --> 01:58:06,200 Speaker 1: dad like one final, question did your dad come? 2382 01:58:06,240 --> 01:58:10,920 Speaker 5: Around my dad accepts, it but he still is, like 2383 01:58:11,040 --> 01:58:11,800 Speaker 5: so when are you going to? 2384 01:58:11,920 --> 01:58:17,080 Speaker 1: Leave, god so it sounds like he. 2385 01:58:15,520 --> 01:58:15,640 Speaker 2: Does. 2386 01:58:17,840 --> 01:58:18,200 Speaker 5: Strong. 2387 01:58:19,120 --> 01:58:23,360 Speaker 1: Wow, WELL i, mean congrats to you for a relationship 2388 01:58:24,000 --> 01:58:29,240 Speaker 1: strong seven years, strong wild, scenario AND i hope one 2389 01:58:29,320 --> 01:58:32,360 Speaker 1: day maybe your dad can accept your love if if 2390 01:58:32,360 --> 01:58:33,960 Speaker 1: the relationship is really good to its. 2391 01:58:34,000 --> 01:58:34,200 Speaker 2: Core. 2392 01:58:35,920 --> 01:58:38,440 Speaker 5: Yeah the crazy thing is my dad accepted a way 2393 01:58:38,520 --> 01:58:42,920 Speaker 5: worse relationship before. That but as you guys, KNOW i 2394 01:58:42,960 --> 01:58:44,560 Speaker 5: told you guys on the call, line but we can't 2395 01:58:44,560 --> 01:58:45,280 Speaker 5: talk about that on. 2396 01:58:45,320 --> 01:58:50,600 Speaker 1: YouTube, yeah, no, fair, fair, well thanks so much for calling. 2397 01:58:50,600 --> 01:58:53,520 Speaker 1: In made it at the tool and seven more years, 2398 01:58:54,160 --> 01:58:58,200 Speaker 1: yeah seven more, years seven more, years, well seven more, 2399 01:58:58,320 --> 01:58:59,520 Speaker 1: years seven more. 2400 01:58:59,600 --> 01:59:01,720 Speaker 2: Years talk to see you in the. 2401 01:59:01,800 --> 01:59:03,280 Speaker 9: Chat all, right thank you. 2402 01:59:03,320 --> 01:59:07,400 Speaker 1: Guys, dude that's awesome that they're still. 2403 01:59:07,400 --> 01:59:10,080 Speaker 3: Together, yeah, listen, huge they stand at. 2404 01:59:10,200 --> 01:59:15,320 Speaker 4: Time it's almost like If sam met someone who was so. 2405 01:59:15,480 --> 01:59:18,800 Speaker 1: Special i'm Just i'm just getting off To i'm just. 2406 01:59:18,840 --> 01:59:22,080 Speaker 1: Playing i'm just playing on a date with an older. Woman, 2407 01:59:22,280 --> 01:59:26,640 Speaker 1: yes getting, revenge. Revenge the thing, is it's not revenge 2408 01:59:26,680 --> 01:59:29,480 Speaker 1: BECAUSE i, SAY i have no secrets in my. 2409 01:59:29,520 --> 01:59:30,960 Speaker 2: Life its, true open. 2410 01:59:30,960 --> 01:59:33,800 Speaker 1: BOOK i. Am everyone knows, everyone everyone. 2411 01:59:33,480 --> 01:59:34,360 Speaker 2: Knows WHO i. 2412 01:59:34,400 --> 01:59:37,560 Speaker 1: Am that's, Right Samuel. Donna, yeah BUT i. DID i 2413 01:59:37,560 --> 01:59:40,080 Speaker 1: did have to break things off with the older woman 2414 01:59:40,240 --> 01:59:45,160 Speaker 1: recently BECAUSE i, REALIZED i, think, uh and someone dating 2415 01:59:45,160 --> 01:59:46,280 Speaker 1: someone of my age is important to. 2416 01:59:46,280 --> 01:59:49,800 Speaker 2: Me, yeah realizations live on the, stream, lads. 2417 01:59:50,600 --> 01:59:55,160 Speaker 12: Unpacked so we're going to call. Back, uh THE i 2418 01:59:55,200 --> 01:59:57,760 Speaker 12: have found OUT i have a half brother from my dad's. 2419 01:59:57,800 --> 01:59:59,400 Speaker 12: Side their phone was on. 2420 01:59:59,480 --> 02:00:04,120 Speaker 2: Silence let's call it. Go that's my friend's all. 2421 02:00:04,520 --> 02:00:07,360 Speaker 1: Chances now take it to let its, hones says Sam 2422 02:00:07,360 --> 02:00:08,800 Speaker 1: wait on a date with a Woman's john's. 2423 02:00:08,840 --> 02:00:12,680 Speaker 3: Age that's a nice writ back in your. 2424 02:00:12,720 --> 02:00:17,280 Speaker 1: Defense, hello how's it? Going who we're talking? 2425 02:00:17,320 --> 02:00:17,400 Speaker 5: To? 2426 02:00:18,240 --> 02:00:20,960 Speaker 16: Hi this is jac from The Chat Jason. 2427 02:00:21,400 --> 02:00:22,080 Speaker 2: Chat let's. 2428 02:00:22,160 --> 02:00:23,760 Speaker 1: Go we heard you have a story for. Us can 2429 02:00:23,760 --> 02:00:25,160 Speaker 1: you give us the thirty to sixty second? 2430 02:00:25,200 --> 02:00:29,400 Speaker 16: Breakdown, Yeah so a little bit of context for you. 2431 02:00:29,480 --> 02:00:32,520 Speaker 16: GUYS i believe it was WHEN i was around seven years. 2432 02:00:32,560 --> 02:00:36,320 Speaker 16: OLD i knew that my parents were going through. SOMETHING 2433 02:00:36,400 --> 02:00:39,360 Speaker 16: i noticed that they were arguing a. LOT i didn't 2434 02:00:39,400 --> 02:00:41,960 Speaker 16: know exactly what the context of it. Was, OBVIOUSLY i 2435 02:00:42,080 --> 02:00:44,840 Speaker 16: was like six seven years. Old they didn't want to 2436 02:00:44,880 --> 02:00:47,920 Speaker 16: share any of that with. Me but around WHEN i 2437 02:00:47,960 --> 02:00:50,680 Speaker 16: was seventeen years, OLD i went AND i checked the, 2438 02:00:50,720 --> 02:00:54,200 Speaker 16: mail AND i noticed that it was a court on 2439 02:00:54,280 --> 02:00:57,160 Speaker 16: paper AND i was addressed to my. DAD i was, Like, 2440 02:00:57,200 --> 02:00:59,480 Speaker 16: okay this is a little. Weird i'm not sure what's going. 2441 02:00:59,520 --> 02:01:02,760 Speaker 16: On AND i, decided as a notavy, teenager to open it. 2442 02:01:02,840 --> 02:01:06,160 Speaker 16: Up AND i saw something something about child. SUPPORT i 2443 02:01:06,200 --> 02:01:10,680 Speaker 16: have a younger brother that is seven years, old younger than, 2444 02:01:10,720 --> 02:01:13,360 Speaker 16: me but our parents are still. Together SO i was, 2445 02:01:13,400 --> 02:01:16,960 Speaker 16: like what's going. ON i decided to confront my mother 2446 02:01:17,160 --> 02:01:20,120 Speaker 16: and she completely broke down and she told, me you, 2447 02:01:20,160 --> 02:01:22,360 Speaker 16: KNOW i don't know if you remember when your, dad 2448 02:01:23,280 --> 02:01:24,960 Speaker 16: when you and your dad or like me and your 2449 02:01:25,000 --> 02:01:29,600 Speaker 16: dad were having. Arguments but turned out that around that same, 2450 02:01:29,720 --> 02:01:34,600 Speaker 16: time he had gotten his affair partner pregnant. 2451 02:01:35,200 --> 02:01:36,360 Speaker 2: And your mom knew. 2452 02:01:36,520 --> 02:01:38,760 Speaker 16: A child and my mother had knew. 2453 02:01:38,840 --> 02:01:41,480 Speaker 1: Yet, oh and she stayed with. 2454 02:01:41,560 --> 02:01:44,280 Speaker 16: Him and she decided to stay with. 2455 02:01:44,320 --> 02:01:44,640 Speaker 1: Him. 2456 02:01:46,120 --> 02:01:50,040 Speaker 16: Like, What, YEAH i, Honestly i'm not exactly. Sure she 2457 02:01:50,160 --> 02:01:52,560 Speaker 16: really didn't share with me too much exactly about why 2458 02:01:52,600 --> 02:01:56,240 Speaker 16: she decided to stay with. Him, honestly IF i was 2459 02:01:56,280 --> 02:01:58,680 Speaker 16: in that, situation she's stronger than. ME i would have. 2460 02:01:59,400 --> 02:02:04,920 Speaker 16: Left but, yeah SO i GUESS i have a half. 2461 02:02:04,960 --> 02:02:08,640 Speaker 16: Brother i've never met him. BEFORE i know who he is. 2462 02:02:09,360 --> 02:02:12,640 Speaker 16: Now my younger brother honestly doesn't even really. Know they 2463 02:02:12,680 --> 02:02:14,720 Speaker 16: told me to kind of keep this on the down 2464 02:02:14,720 --> 02:02:17,400 Speaker 16: low until that they decided to sit down and have 2465 02:02:17,480 --> 02:02:18,480 Speaker 16: that conversation with. 2466 02:02:18,560 --> 02:02:19,960 Speaker 6: Him how old is? 2467 02:02:19,960 --> 02:02:24,000 Speaker 16: HE i think he's Around i'm twenty three right. NOW 2468 02:02:24,080 --> 02:02:26,600 Speaker 16: i think he's around the exact same age with my. 2469 02:02:26,600 --> 02:02:28,879 Speaker 16: Brother so he's, sixteen you'll be turning. Seventeen. 2470 02:02:29,000 --> 02:02:32,400 Speaker 1: Wolla so he doesn't even know that he's he's an 2471 02:02:32,400 --> 02:02:32,680 Speaker 1: a fair. 2472 02:02:32,720 --> 02:02:36,720 Speaker 16: Baby, YEAH i HONESTLY i think he may. KNOW i 2473 02:02:36,800 --> 02:02:42,200 Speaker 16: know that the affair partner his, mother he did end. 2474 02:02:42,320 --> 02:02:44,480 Speaker 16: Up she did get married to, someone AND i think 2475 02:02:44,520 --> 02:02:47,960 Speaker 16: he did adopt. Him But i'm not sure of exactly 2476 02:02:48,000 --> 02:02:51,000 Speaker 16: if he knows that he that he has me and 2477 02:02:51,000 --> 02:02:55,960 Speaker 16: that he has another. Brother but, yeah it was it was. 2478 02:02:56,040 --> 02:02:58,720 Speaker 16: CRAZY i honestly like refuse to even look at my 2479 02:02:58,800 --> 02:03:01,080 Speaker 16: dad and talk to. Him like a month after this, 2480 02:03:01,160 --> 02:03:05,560 Speaker 16: happened we lived with each, OTHER i can. Imagine, YEAH i, 2481 02:03:05,880 --> 02:03:07,640 Speaker 16: mean to this, DAY i really don't know IF i 2482 02:03:07,680 --> 02:03:10,480 Speaker 16: really have like forgiven him for what he's put my 2483 02:03:10,600 --> 02:03:12,640 Speaker 16: mother through and honestly what he put me through with 2484 02:03:12,680 --> 02:03:16,960 Speaker 16: the entire. Situation but AND i MEAN i talked to 2485 02:03:17,000 --> 02:03:18,680 Speaker 16: my mom because she had asked, me, like do you 2486 02:03:18,720 --> 02:03:20,320 Speaker 16: want to even get to know who he? 2487 02:03:20,480 --> 02:03:23,400 Speaker 1: Is, yeah like do you want to get to know 2488 02:03:23,720 --> 02:03:26,240 Speaker 1: like you're, LIKE i, mean especially maybe when he turns 2489 02:03:26,280 --> 02:03:28,560 Speaker 1: eighteen then like comes of? Age is that like something 2490 02:03:28,640 --> 02:03:29,280 Speaker 1: like would you reach? 2491 02:03:29,320 --> 02:03:32,720 Speaker 16: OUT i, MEAN i would honestly reach. OUT i think 2492 02:03:33,400 --> 02:03:36,160 Speaker 16: my with HOW i feel right, NOW i would think 2493 02:03:36,280 --> 02:03:39,840 Speaker 16: if he MAYBE i don't know exactly how much he, 2494 02:03:40,000 --> 02:03:43,680 Speaker 16: knows maybe if he wants to reach, out BECAUSE i 2495 02:03:43,680 --> 02:03:46,080 Speaker 16: if he really doesn't, KNOW i don't want to really 2496 02:03:46,680 --> 02:03:49,280 Speaker 16: break it, through and like it would be his mom's 2497 02:03:49,320 --> 02:03:50,640 Speaker 16: decision to give him that. 2498 02:03:50,720 --> 02:03:53,520 Speaker 1: Information maybe one day he does a twenty three in 2499 02:03:53,640 --> 02:03:55,600 Speaker 1: me and then he finds out that. 2500 02:03:55,800 --> 02:03:56,440 Speaker 2: Okay. 2501 02:03:58,680 --> 02:04:01,880 Speaker 16: And that's honestly that's been lingering in the back of 2502 02:04:01,960 --> 02:04:04,920 Speaker 16: my mind. Too as far as if he does end 2503 02:04:05,000 --> 02:04:07,600 Speaker 16: up doing like some story OF dna TO i know 2504 02:04:07,720 --> 02:04:10,160 Speaker 16: that my on my dad's, side his aunt or my 2505 02:04:10,240 --> 02:04:12,600 Speaker 16: aunt has done something like, That so we're all end 2506 02:04:12,680 --> 02:04:14,480 Speaker 16: up popping up somewhere or. 2507 02:04:14,560 --> 02:04:18,200 Speaker 1: So just know, that, like he probably has the tools 2508 02:04:18,240 --> 02:04:22,320 Speaker 1: to find out if he decides to do. So, SO i, 2509 02:04:22,320 --> 02:04:24,520 Speaker 1: MEAN i guess, like if you want be prepared for 2510 02:04:24,560 --> 02:04:25,520 Speaker 1: when that, happened. 2511 02:04:25,200 --> 02:04:27,000 Speaker 3: And if it does, happen you can call us. 2512 02:04:27,040 --> 02:04:30,760 Speaker 1: Back, yeah of, Course and thank you so much for calling. 2513 02:04:30,840 --> 02:04:32,120 Speaker 1: In we really appreciate. 2514 02:04:32,160 --> 02:04:35,040 Speaker 14: It, yeah of, course, guys thank you so much for 2515 02:04:35,120 --> 02:04:35,560 Speaker 14: listening to. 2516 02:04:35,600 --> 02:04:37,720 Speaker 2: Me the best stop, Too. 2517 02:04:39,600 --> 02:04:43,280 Speaker 1: Spiffy tiffy, says twenty three and meters destroys family. 2518 02:04:43,960 --> 02:04:45,800 Speaker 2: Families here's, why here's. 2519 02:04:45,880 --> 02:04:48,240 Speaker 1: Why shout out to that video that we did a. Beg, 2520 02:04:48,240 --> 02:04:50,520 Speaker 1: oh that's. TRUE i love these. Callings that's all these. 2521 02:04:50,520 --> 02:04:51,800 Speaker 1: Are these have been amazing. 2522 02:04:51,840 --> 02:04:53,360 Speaker 2: Stories, well thank you good. 2523 02:04:53,360 --> 02:04:54,320 Speaker 1: Stories was that? 2524 02:04:54,320 --> 02:04:57,040 Speaker 2: Three ever choose the? Story? Two let's really want one? 2525 02:04:57,120 --> 02:04:57,320 Speaker 16: More? 2526 02:04:57,800 --> 02:05:00,560 Speaker 2: Yeah did you choose all these soa high? 2527 02:05:00,600 --> 02:05:07,560 Speaker 12: Thought, wow that's crazy because these people are, like, yeah 2528 02:05:07,600 --> 02:05:09,000 Speaker 12: it's So fiel did a great. 2529 02:05:09,040 --> 02:05:10,480 Speaker 6: Job it's one mis. Day she did a great. 2530 02:05:10,520 --> 02:05:13,800 Speaker 2: JOB i literally did choose these. Stories, okay what's the 2531 02:05:13,840 --> 02:05:14,760 Speaker 2: next one about to? Choose? 2532 02:05:14,800 --> 02:05:15,280 Speaker 6: IN i don't. 2533 02:05:15,280 --> 02:05:17,880 Speaker 12: KNOW i don't on three, one, two, THREE i don't 2534 02:05:17,880 --> 02:05:20,360 Speaker 12: even know what my best friend slept with my boyfriend 2535 02:05:20,480 --> 02:05:20,680 Speaker 12: in the. 2536 02:05:20,880 --> 02:05:23,840 Speaker 2: BED i chose that. Story, okay, cool all? 2537 02:05:23,920 --> 02:05:27,600 Speaker 12: Right, uh my best friend slept with my boyfriend in 2538 02:05:27,840 --> 02:05:30,600 Speaker 12: my bed with me sleeping next to the Night oh. 2539 02:05:33,040 --> 02:05:35,680 Speaker 1: Damn, also should we take off THE T L D? R? 2540 02:05:36,400 --> 02:05:42,360 Speaker 1: Yes m, sorry but holy, MOLY i? Did did you wake? 2541 02:05:42,480 --> 02:05:46,240 Speaker 2: Up what's? Fun? Oh? Man this reminds me of the 2542 02:05:46,280 --> 02:05:50,840 Speaker 2: story of the girl the friend who like asked to couple. 2543 02:05:52,440 --> 02:05:52,560 Speaker 11: Read? 2544 02:05:52,640 --> 02:05:55,560 Speaker 1: Yesterday, yeah pinky just uh pixel, punk it's his. Dog 2545 02:05:55,600 --> 02:05:59,400 Speaker 1: that sounds like a porn, situation it really. Does So, Hello, 2546 02:05:59,440 --> 02:06:02,440 Speaker 1: hello it's. Okop who is college now being? 2547 02:06:02,520 --> 02:06:05,000 Speaker 10: Recorded Maddie dully in the? 2548 02:06:05,080 --> 02:06:06,280 Speaker 2: Chat maddie. 2549 02:06:07,760 --> 02:06:12,040 Speaker 1: Put maddie in the chat For. MADDIE i heard you 2550 02:06:12,120 --> 02:06:14,040 Speaker 1: have a story for. Us can you give us your 2551 02:06:14,200 --> 02:06:15,120 Speaker 1: thirty to sixty second? 2552 02:06:15,120 --> 02:06:21,080 Speaker 10: Breakdown oh, boy my best friend slept with my boyfriend 2553 02:06:21,400 --> 02:06:23,800 Speaker 10: WHILE i slept in bed next to. 2554 02:06:23,920 --> 02:06:29,440 Speaker 1: Them, Ouch so can you can you pay me the 2555 02:06:29,520 --> 02:06:33,000 Speaker 1: picture of like how you went to bed that? Night and? 2556 02:06:33,640 --> 02:06:36,240 Speaker 16: Yeah, Okay so. 2557 02:06:37,760 --> 02:06:41,240 Speaker 10: My best friend and my boyfriend and hurt at the 2558 02:06:41,320 --> 02:06:41,720 Speaker 10: time her. 2559 02:06:41,800 --> 02:06:43,640 Speaker 16: Boyfriend this all happened in. 2560 02:06:43,680 --> 02:06:47,240 Speaker 10: College we all went on it double dates and her 2561 02:06:47,480 --> 02:06:50,680 Speaker 10: boyfriend ended up dropping us all off at my. Place, 2562 02:06:51,000 --> 02:06:53,800 Speaker 10: okay so we just hung out for the rest of the, 2563 02:06:53,880 --> 02:06:56,360 Speaker 10: day and, uh we all just decided to have a 2564 02:06:56,360 --> 02:06:58,600 Speaker 10: sleepover like we have many times. 2565 02:06:58,640 --> 02:07:00,600 Speaker 2: Before was there sexual. 2566 02:07:00,480 --> 02:07:03,840 Speaker 1: Tension at the sleepover between like anyone besides you and 2567 02:07:03,920 --> 02:07:06,840 Speaker 1: your boyfriend or was it all just like friends hanging 2568 02:07:06,880 --> 02:07:07,560 Speaker 1: out playing? 2569 02:07:07,720 --> 02:07:11,280 Speaker 10: Uda just friends hanging, out you, know, twister Playing twister 2570 02:07:11,680 --> 02:07:14,320 Speaker 10: for movies right after just hanging. Out nothing. 2571 02:07:14,400 --> 02:07:15,640 Speaker 2: Weird, okay are. 2572 02:07:15,560 --> 02:07:17,920 Speaker 1: You all cuddling together or are you kind of like separate. 2573 02:07:18,040 --> 02:07:21,920 Speaker 10: Cuddlers you, see we didn't have a, couch so it 2574 02:07:22,120 --> 02:07:24,720 Speaker 10: was all hanging out on a king size bed type of. 2575 02:07:24,760 --> 02:07:30,040 Speaker 1: Thing, yeah semi. Cuddling, okay, yeah. 2576 02:07:30,200 --> 02:07:33,640 Speaker 2: Semi but you, know but there's there's. Boundaries there are. 2577 02:07:33,680 --> 02:07:36,959 Speaker 14: Boundaries, yeah there's obviously. 2578 02:07:37,080 --> 02:07:37,920 Speaker 11: Boundaries were all in. 2579 02:07:38,080 --> 02:07:40,160 Speaker 10: Relationships i've been best. 2580 02:07:39,960 --> 02:07:41,680 Speaker 11: Friends with this girl for like ten. 2581 02:07:41,800 --> 02:07:43,840 Speaker 10: Years i've been dating this guy for like a. 2582 02:07:43,960 --> 02:07:49,320 Speaker 1: Year, okay, yeah of course they would respect the, boundaries 2583 02:07:49,360 --> 02:07:51,320 Speaker 1: would be, great you would. 2584 02:07:51,400 --> 02:07:55,240 Speaker 10: Think, WELL i ended up taking a nap for like a, 2585 02:07:55,400 --> 02:07:58,920 Speaker 10: bit and, UH i just hear, them LIKE i wake 2586 02:07:59,000 --> 02:08:03,040 Speaker 10: up BECAUSE i can hear, then like flirting, together AND 2587 02:08:03,800 --> 02:08:06,040 Speaker 10: i just, like ONCE i can hear, IT i just 2588 02:08:06,160 --> 02:08:08,640 Speaker 10: wake up AND i just lay there and they start 2589 02:08:08,720 --> 02:08:13,400 Speaker 10: having sex right next to. ME i can see, Everything. 2590 02:08:15,480 --> 02:08:17,120 Speaker 1: Like you're feeling the seismic. 2591 02:08:17,200 --> 02:08:21,520 Speaker 10: Activity, yeah LIKE i would say five inches at. 2592 02:08:21,600 --> 02:08:25,560 Speaker 2: Most oh, man is that about your boyfriend or is that. 2593 02:08:25,760 --> 02:08:26,840 Speaker 1: How you were to? 2594 02:08:26,960 --> 02:08:27,120 Speaker 2: Them? 2595 02:08:30,040 --> 02:08:35,200 Speaker 10: Yeah so that, happened and after the FACT i kind 2596 02:08:35,200 --> 02:08:38,760 Speaker 10: of front her the next day because they ended up 2597 02:08:38,800 --> 02:08:39,160 Speaker 10: coming with. 2598 02:08:39,320 --> 02:08:41,520 Speaker 2: Me but you didnt them. 2599 02:08:41,640 --> 02:08:43,320 Speaker 1: There you just waited it. 2600 02:08:43,400 --> 02:08:45,040 Speaker 9: OUT i just waited it. 2601 02:08:45,120 --> 02:08:47,120 Speaker 8: OUT i was not going to deal with. 2602 02:08:47,280 --> 02:08:48,680 Speaker 1: It is he a tupup? 2603 02:08:48,800 --> 02:08:50,920 Speaker 2: Shop so it was? Quick or was it like a full? 2604 02:08:51,040 --> 02:08:52,880 Speaker 2: Session it was. 2605 02:08:53,040 --> 02:08:53,960 Speaker 11: Quick it wasn't that. 2606 02:08:54,160 --> 02:08:56,160 Speaker 10: Long, Thankfully, okay. 2607 02:08:56,600 --> 02:09:02,160 Speaker 2: Thankfully at least we know he doesn't have. Endure, yeah, yeah, 2608 02:09:02,240 --> 02:09:06,120 Speaker 2: yeah jump there we. Go oh my, God so what 2609 02:09:06,280 --> 02:09:07,200 Speaker 2: did you? Say the next? 2610 02:09:07,320 --> 02:09:10,480 Speaker 10: Day the next day we all went to this like 2611 02:09:10,960 --> 02:09:14,920 Speaker 10: like post funeral type of thing because my family was 2612 02:09:15,280 --> 02:09:17,680 Speaker 10: buying a cake and bringing. It so they hung out 2613 02:09:17,720 --> 02:09:21,920 Speaker 10: with me until we could drop them off. Home, so, 2614 02:09:22,240 --> 02:09:23,280 Speaker 10: uh they ended. 2615 02:09:23,160 --> 02:09:23,680 Speaker 9: Up hanging out with. 2616 02:09:23,840 --> 02:09:28,440 Speaker 10: ME i talked to her privately at the costco we 2617 02:09:28,560 --> 02:09:31,840 Speaker 10: were at and was, like, HEY i know what happened last. 2618 02:09:31,960 --> 02:09:36,959 Speaker 10: NIGHT i was awake and she's, like, oh to bask. 2619 02:09:39,880 --> 02:09:41,160 Speaker 2: Too bad with? 2620 02:09:41,280 --> 02:09:43,760 Speaker 10: Her, YEAH i had to deal with her for the 2621 02:09:43,840 --> 02:09:46,520 Speaker 10: rest of the, day AND i was just so. ANGRY 2622 02:09:46,640 --> 02:09:48,480 Speaker 10: i talked to my. BOYFRIEND i was, LIKE i, know 2623 02:09:48,920 --> 02:09:52,880 Speaker 10: and nothing, else complete. Silence we couldn't actually have a 2624 02:09:52,960 --> 02:09:56,680 Speaker 10: fight in. Public and uh EVENTUALLY i text her ONCE 2625 02:09:56,720 --> 02:10:00,320 Speaker 10: i dropped her, off like we're not friends, anymore and. 2626 02:10:00,760 --> 02:10:04,400 Speaker 2: She don't mean to. Apologize she's just, like, yeah, yeah 2627 02:10:04,480 --> 02:10:04,920 Speaker 2: but MAY. 2628 02:10:04,800 --> 02:10:05,680 Speaker 7: I said we weren't friends. 2629 02:10:05,720 --> 02:10:08,440 Speaker 10: Anymore she decided to say he's trying to rape. 2630 02:10:08,440 --> 02:10:12,760 Speaker 2: Her, yeah, goodness yeah she's. 2631 02:10:13,000 --> 02:10:16,360 Speaker 10: Bad bad hockey meets for a year on our college. 2632 02:10:16,440 --> 02:10:24,560 Speaker 18: Campus oh, god oh my, God well you dropped the? Boyfriend, 2633 02:10:24,720 --> 02:10:27,080 Speaker 18: yes oh, yeah, yeah this is. 2634 02:10:30,040 --> 02:10:35,560 Speaker 2: Best. Friend. Yeah oh you're happily. Married oh you're happily. Married, 2635 02:10:36,960 --> 02:10:40,520 Speaker 2: yeah NOW i have let's. GO i love the. 2636 02:10:40,720 --> 02:10:45,760 Speaker 1: Ends oh my. Goodness and, question have you slept in 2637 02:10:45,840 --> 02:10:48,760 Speaker 1: a king bed with your husband and a new best 2638 02:10:48,840 --> 02:10:49,920 Speaker 1: friend at any point? 2639 02:10:50,040 --> 02:10:50,280 Speaker 2: Since? 2640 02:10:51,560 --> 02:10:53,680 Speaker 9: NO i, KNOW i don't even have any girlfriends. 2641 02:10:53,720 --> 02:11:00,840 Speaker 1: Anymore so you know What Women's international because some new good. 2642 02:11:01,000 --> 02:11:02,560 Speaker 2: Girlfriend, YEAH i. 2643 02:11:03,040 --> 02:11:05,960 Speaker 11: Need to, try BUT i haven't had success. 2644 02:11:06,080 --> 02:11:09,680 Speaker 1: Yet you know, What we're hoping that someone got, there 2645 02:11:09,960 --> 02:11:17,200 Speaker 1: you could join our. Discords, well thank you so much 2646 02:11:17,320 --> 02:11:19,640 Speaker 1: for calling in and for showing the. 2647 02:11:19,720 --> 02:11:31,440 Speaker 2: Story all, right, wow oh my the. Audacity so you 2648 02:11:31,560 --> 02:11:42,840 Speaker 2: are JUST i, am but a. Vessel, Yes Andy riley 2649 02:11:43,000 --> 02:11:43,760 Speaker 2: usually does all. 2650 02:11:43,800 --> 02:11:44,360 Speaker 13: This it was just. 2651 02:11:44,440 --> 02:11:45,600 Speaker 2: Today oh my. 2652 02:11:46,320 --> 02:11:50,320 Speaker 1: Goodness oh, yeah we should have. Asked so What pixie? 2653 02:11:50,320 --> 02:11:52,800 Speaker 1: Says please tell me there were signs that this friend was. 2654 02:11:52,960 --> 02:11:55,960 Speaker 1: Crazy there had to be. Signs this is so gross 2655 02:11:56,000 --> 02:12:00,160 Speaker 1: behavior that it couldn't have come out of. NOWHERE i 2656 02:12:00,320 --> 02:12:02,080 Speaker 1: kind of want to call back and ask if there were. 2657 02:12:02,160 --> 02:12:04,880 Speaker 2: Signs is that too? Much, WELL i think that they're 2658 02:12:04,920 --> 02:12:06,160 Speaker 2: in the they're in the. 2659 02:12:06,320 --> 02:12:13,400 Speaker 1: Chat, No well let's just go, okay, sure can we 2660 02:12:13,480 --> 02:12:15,440 Speaker 1: call back really? QUICK i want to know about, signs 2661 02:12:16,240 --> 02:12:18,160 Speaker 1: just really, quick and then we could go into THE. 2662 02:12:18,280 --> 02:12:27,840 Speaker 1: Xbod But i'm so curious, that, right, okay really? Quick 2663 02:12:27,880 --> 02:12:30,120 Speaker 1: were there side so that your friend was like? 2664 02:12:30,360 --> 02:12:36,600 Speaker 10: Terrible, honestly, yes ANYTIME i had a crush on a, 2665 02:12:36,680 --> 02:12:37,840 Speaker 10: boy she would date. 2666 02:12:37,920 --> 02:12:41,680 Speaker 11: This and this happened from elementary, school middle, school or high. 2667 02:12:41,680 --> 02:12:47,200 Speaker 11: School so if there was, TIME i just never acknowledged, 2668 02:12:47,240 --> 02:12:50,880 Speaker 11: it and she usually had the boundaries of not actually 2669 02:12:51,000 --> 02:12:52,640 Speaker 11: messing with GUYS i was actively. 2670 02:12:52,720 --> 02:12:56,480 Speaker 1: With oh my, GOD i would really hate to say 2671 02:12:56,560 --> 02:12:59,600 Speaker 1: this On International woman's, day but she sounds like a stinky, 2672 02:12:59,640 --> 02:13:06,920 Speaker 1: woman woman extra stink. Etting all, right we have to 2673 02:13:07,000 --> 02:13:08,879 Speaker 1: call you back and ask you, that so we appreciate. 2674 02:13:08,920 --> 02:13:12,880 Speaker 2: You thank you good. 2675 02:13:14,400 --> 02:13:19,680 Speaker 19: Stinky she's not a girl's girl, stinky but you know, 2676 02:13:19,760 --> 02:13:24,400 Speaker 19: WHAT i love the stink of what this next? 2677 02:13:24,920 --> 02:13:25,880 Speaker 2: Story who is? 2678 02:13:25,920 --> 02:13:26,160 Speaker 7: It is? 2679 02:13:26,200 --> 02:13:26,240 Speaker 9: It? 2680 02:13:26,400 --> 02:13:30,560 Speaker 2: Me it's who's the next? One? One and who is? 2681 02:13:30,600 --> 02:13:36,280 Speaker 1: IT i read the Whole he hasn't read. ANYTHING i 2682 02:13:36,320 --> 02:13:42,440 Speaker 1: don't read, something says a stinky woman alluring and says 2683 02:13:42,560 --> 02:13:46,960 Speaker 1: sleep is Sleepless in the, chat the general alluring undead 2684 02:13:47,000 --> 02:13:53,360 Speaker 1: says high. Sleepless tracy says this next. Story Janelle fresher 2685 02:13:53,440 --> 02:13:56,879 Speaker 1: says she sounds. Ratchet marbie Dumb dumb, says. 2686 02:13:56,800 --> 02:13:59,400 Speaker 2: Hi, all what are we? On what are we? 2687 02:13:59,480 --> 02:13:59,520 Speaker 9: On? 2688 02:13:59,680 --> 02:14:00,040 Speaker 11: Right he? 2689 02:14:00,360 --> 02:14:04,320 Speaker 2: On three fifty, eight three fifty? 2690 02:14:04,440 --> 02:14:04,640 Speaker 8: Eight? 2691 02:14:05,080 --> 02:14:06,000 Speaker 2: Thanks Rachel. 2692 02:14:06,040 --> 02:14:13,160 Speaker 1: Hatchets Sleepless night, says, Yes i'm awake, right y'all ready for. 2693 02:14:13,280 --> 02:14:15,480 Speaker 1: This i'm, Ready i'm, ready hit, it hit. 2694 02:14:15,560 --> 02:14:19,200 Speaker 2: It my stepdaughter said she hates, me So i'm not 2695 02:14:19,520 --> 02:14:24,080 Speaker 2: bringing her on my. Trip and this is from Opposite 2696 02:14:24,120 --> 02:14:27,800 Speaker 2: pumpkin twenty seven to fifty who, SAYS i twenty eight 2697 02:14:27,880 --> 02:14:31,480 Speaker 2: female married my thirty seven male husband four years ago 2698 02:14:31,640 --> 02:14:35,800 Speaker 2: when his daughter was. Eleven she's, fifteen almost sixteen. Now 2699 02:14:36,680 --> 02:14:38,720 Speaker 2: her parents had been divorced since she was seven years. 2700 02:14:38,760 --> 02:14:41,720 Speaker 2: Old she still sees her mom regularly and they have 2701 02:14:41,880 --> 02:14:44,600 Speaker 2: a great. RELATIONSHIP i KNOW i will never be her, 2702 02:14:44,680 --> 02:14:46,840 Speaker 2: mother AND i have never tried to take on that 2703 02:14:47,000 --> 02:14:49,800 Speaker 2: role nor force her to look at me that. Way 2704 02:14:50,480 --> 02:14:56,000 Speaker 2: the problem is she doesn't like me at. All, ooh, tough. 2705 02:14:55,960 --> 02:14:59,200 Speaker 1: Tough asshole kids there. 2706 02:14:59,240 --> 02:15:00,600 Speaker 2: Everybody but that's. 2707 02:15:00,680 --> 02:15:02,360 Speaker 1: NORMAL i hate my step. 2708 02:15:02,480 --> 02:15:03,440 Speaker 2: Parent, yeah that's. 2709 02:15:03,480 --> 02:15:04,680 Speaker 1: Normal that's the. Thing you got to deal with. 2710 02:15:04,760 --> 02:15:07,600 Speaker 2: It, yeah since she was, eleven she made it Clear 2711 02:15:07,840 --> 02:15:10,640 Speaker 2: i'm not her. Mom she rolls her eyes at, me 2712 02:15:10,920 --> 02:15:13,480 Speaker 2: ignores me a lot of the, time tells Me i'm 2713 02:15:13,520 --> 02:15:15,200 Speaker 2: not her. Mom except. 2714 02:15:16,640 --> 02:15:19,240 Speaker 1: That's WHAT i told my mom When i'm kidding. 2715 02:15:20,280 --> 02:15:21,920 Speaker 3: When he was forced to sleep in the. 2716 02:15:22,040 --> 02:15:28,640 Speaker 1: Office yeah my, Mother, yeah. 2717 02:15:30,720 --> 02:15:31,120 Speaker 2: Her own. 2718 02:15:31,240 --> 02:15:33,240 Speaker 1: ROOM i need to call mom and ask her about. That, 2719 02:15:33,760 --> 02:15:35,840 Speaker 1: yikes after the, STORY i should call. Mom she just 2720 02:15:35,880 --> 02:15:36,360 Speaker 1: called me right. 2721 02:15:36,400 --> 02:15:39,840 Speaker 2: Now her mom AND i get, along so this is the. 2722 02:15:41,800 --> 02:15:45,400 Speaker 2: Op and, yeah she will call me if she needs 2723 02:15:45,440 --> 02:15:48,160 Speaker 2: me to take my stepdaughter to practice instead because she 2724 02:15:48,320 --> 02:15:51,480 Speaker 2: has a new. Baby we're not best, friends but we 2725 02:15:51,560 --> 02:15:53,360 Speaker 2: do keep in touch for the sake of her, daughter 2726 02:15:53,760 --> 02:15:55,920 Speaker 2: because their dad travels a lot for, work SO i 2727 02:15:56,040 --> 02:15:59,240 Speaker 2: am the sole parental figure for. HER i don't try 2728 02:15:59,280 --> 02:16:01,160 Speaker 2: to force my step daughter to spend time with, me 2729 02:16:01,320 --> 02:16:05,440 Speaker 2: but SOMETIMES i do suggest we go, shopping watch a, movie. 2730 02:16:05,760 --> 02:16:08,840 Speaker 2: Etc especially when her dad travels out of town for 2731 02:16:08,880 --> 02:16:13,600 Speaker 2: a few. Days i'm always shut. Down this brings me 2732 02:16:13,800 --> 02:16:15,960 Speaker 2: to last. WEEK i had to go into her room 2733 02:16:16,040 --> 02:16:18,400 Speaker 2: to put more towels in her, bathroom and she's been 2734 02:16:18,440 --> 02:16:20,600 Speaker 2: a little down because her boyfriend broke up with. HER 2735 02:16:21,120 --> 02:16:23,080 Speaker 2: i knock and she lets me, in AND i see 2736 02:16:23,160 --> 02:16:26,200 Speaker 2: she's Watching Love Is. Blind AND i, say, Oh i'm 2737 02:16:26,280 --> 02:16:29,200 Speaker 2: watching this right now With, anna my. Niece i'm an 2738 02:16:29,200 --> 02:16:31,600 Speaker 2: episode behind, you But i'd love to watch it with. 2739 02:16:31,760 --> 02:16:35,400 Speaker 2: You she ignores. Me, Oh AND i put the towels 2740 02:16:35,440 --> 02:16:37,400 Speaker 2: up in her, bathroom and What i'm, LEAVING i, SAY 2741 02:16:38,080 --> 02:16:41,520 Speaker 2: i have snacks. Downstairs i'm Also i've also got new 2742 02:16:41,640 --> 02:16:43,720 Speaker 2: face masks if you want to try them, out or 2743 02:16:43,800 --> 02:16:45,840 Speaker 2: we can just talk if you want someone to vent. 2744 02:16:45,959 --> 02:16:48,800 Speaker 1: To, oh he's trying so. Hard are you still talking to? 2745 02:16:48,879 --> 02:16:51,320 Speaker 1: Me are you literally like still in my? 2746 02:16:51,480 --> 02:16:56,880 Speaker 2: Room like existing not far? Off because we're both into, 2747 02:16:56,920 --> 02:16:59,600 Speaker 2: skincare AND i know how hard a teenage breakup. Is 2748 02:17:00,120 --> 02:17:05,440 Speaker 2: she pauses HER tv and, says stop effing trying to 2749 02:17:05,600 --> 02:17:09,240 Speaker 2: be my. MOM i don't like. You you're just my dad's. 2750 02:17:09,280 --> 02:17:12,800 Speaker 2: WIFE i have a mom and you mean nothing to, 2751 02:17:12,920 --> 02:17:16,000 Speaker 2: Me so stay the hell out of my life and 2752 02:17:16,360 --> 02:17:18,440 Speaker 2: stop trying to get me to do things with. YOU 2753 02:17:19,000 --> 02:17:20,760 Speaker 2: i want nothing to do with. 2754 02:17:20,959 --> 02:17:21,000 Speaker 11: You. 2755 02:17:21,200 --> 02:17:24,360 Speaker 3: Weirdo wow, okay. 2756 02:17:25,080 --> 02:17:27,960 Speaker 1: Wow SO i know we have this things, like, oh 2757 02:17:28,040 --> 02:17:29,800 Speaker 1: like kids go through these phases and, like, yes that's 2758 02:17:29,840 --> 02:17:33,840 Speaker 1: a little, bit BUT i think that that is just 2759 02:17:34,240 --> 02:17:35,800 Speaker 1: absolutely way too. 2760 02:17:35,879 --> 02:17:39,440 Speaker 3: MUCH i would have never said that as a. Kid, no, never, never. 2761 02:17:39,680 --> 02:17:43,800 Speaker 2: Never Sheila modis is this kid steiks. 2762 02:17:43,680 --> 02:17:48,600 Speaker 1: Yeah stinky, kid shy? Kid oh, man Because Sonder pierre, 2763 02:17:48,760 --> 02:17:51,560 Speaker 1: says oh, no this poor woman just trying to be 2764 02:17:51,720 --> 02:17:52,160 Speaker 1: nice and. 2765 02:17:52,400 --> 02:17:54,280 Speaker 2: Boond that's so. Sad she was, like we could do 2766 02:17:54,440 --> 02:17:56,880 Speaker 2: skincare and Watch love Is blind and she's, like, yeah you. 2767 02:17:57,040 --> 02:18:01,000 Speaker 1: SUCK i wonder like at that point does the father step? In, 2768 02:18:01,400 --> 02:18:05,240 Speaker 1: YES i think absolutely there's a difference between LIKE i 2769 02:18:05,280 --> 02:18:07,080 Speaker 1: don't want a relationship with your, Wife like there's a 2770 02:18:07,080 --> 02:18:10,880 Speaker 1: different between that and actively just like being. Rude she 2771 02:18:10,879 --> 02:18:13,480 Speaker 1: shouldn't be rude to. Anyone she doesn't necessarily have to 2772 02:18:13,600 --> 02:18:17,360 Speaker 1: like like, her like, her but she should not like 2773 02:18:17,480 --> 02:18:18,040 Speaker 1: talk to her like. 2774 02:18:18,120 --> 02:18:22,240 Speaker 2: THAT i think it's a little strange That opi was, Like, 2775 02:18:22,320 --> 02:18:25,600 Speaker 2: Oh i'm the sole parental figure and a lot of 2776 02:18:25,680 --> 02:18:29,160 Speaker 2: this parenting stuff is on her, shoulders and like the 2777 02:18:29,280 --> 02:18:30,120 Speaker 2: dad is gone all the. 2778 02:18:30,160 --> 02:18:33,600 Speaker 3: Time, yeah, yeah she just said, that, like, oh it 2779 02:18:33,680 --> 02:18:33,960 Speaker 3: is what it. 2780 02:18:34,080 --> 02:18:36,360 Speaker 1: Is, YEAH i don't, know, daddy can you FaceTime be 2781 02:18:36,560 --> 02:18:37,520 Speaker 1: FaceTime daddy or? 2782 02:18:37,560 --> 02:18:40,199 Speaker 2: SOMETHING i don't. Know you put a little bit, effort, yeah, yeah. 2783 02:18:42,280 --> 02:18:47,560 Speaker 1: But it continues her FAVORITE i love this the stinky stinky's. 2784 02:18:47,640 --> 02:18:52,000 Speaker 2: Stinky it's so. Great thank, You opie. Says she shoes 2785 02:18:52,080 --> 02:18:55,480 Speaker 2: me out of her room and slams the door in my. 2786 02:18:55,720 --> 02:19:00,880 Speaker 2: FACE i will admit THAT i cried a. Little oh 2787 02:19:01,320 --> 02:19:04,960 Speaker 2: she's just. TRYING i would too if a sixteen year 2788 02:19:05,000 --> 02:19:06,959 Speaker 2: old said that to, ME i would Sob. 2789 02:19:07,160 --> 02:19:10,120 Speaker 1: John mulaney has like this one thing where it's like 2790 02:19:10,240 --> 02:19:13,200 Speaker 1: twelve year old kids are the meanest thing in the. 2791 02:19:13,280 --> 02:19:15,760 Speaker 1: World they'll just like look at you and say something. 2792 02:19:15,560 --> 02:19:16,200 Speaker 2: That is good. 2793 02:19:16,280 --> 02:19:20,879 Speaker 1: Man he has, voice and then just like reach read 2794 02:19:20,959 --> 02:19:23,080 Speaker 1: you and cut you down to your. Core we do 2795 02:19:23,200 --> 02:19:25,480 Speaker 1: have An, okay story time of a seven year old 2796 02:19:25,560 --> 02:19:28,280 Speaker 1: who happened to come after one of our very own 2797 02:19:29,640 --> 02:19:32,760 Speaker 1: who laser Tag oh. 2798 02:19:34,280 --> 02:19:35,199 Speaker 2: Year old still. 2799 02:19:35,080 --> 02:19:35,840 Speaker 1: Haven't said. 2800 02:19:38,879 --> 02:19:39,320 Speaker 2: He's coming. 2801 02:19:39,440 --> 02:19:40,680 Speaker 1: Up, back stick. 2802 02:19:40,720 --> 02:19:41,480 Speaker 3: Around it's a great. 2803 02:19:41,520 --> 02:19:46,440 Speaker 2: Story my, niece slash goddaughter is graduating high school this, 2804 02:19:46,560 --> 02:19:48,920 Speaker 2: year and when we were Watching Love Is, blind she 2805 02:19:49,000 --> 02:19:51,480 Speaker 2: said she would love to go to a beach because 2806 02:19:51,520 --> 02:19:54,560 Speaker 2: she's never been and would love to go on a 2807 02:19:54,640 --> 02:19:58,080 Speaker 2: vacation before she starts. College so we started making. Plans 2808 02:19:58,760 --> 02:20:01,040 Speaker 2: i'm paying for both of. Us her mom says she 2809 02:20:01,160 --> 02:20:03,760 Speaker 2: wants to go and she'll pay for. Herself my niece 2810 02:20:03,840 --> 02:20:05,960 Speaker 2: also asked if her best friend could, come AND i, 2811 02:20:06,080 --> 02:20:09,480 Speaker 2: SAID i cover the hotel and, plane but her parents 2812 02:20:09,560 --> 02:20:11,959 Speaker 2: will have to pay the. Rest what a good. 2813 02:20:12,720 --> 02:20:14,000 Speaker 1: Aunt, yeah it was pretty. 2814 02:20:14,000 --> 02:20:17,280 Speaker 2: Great, well yesterday WHEN i was searching and calling around 2815 02:20:17,320 --> 02:20:20,520 Speaker 2: for hotels and amenities and things to, do SHE i. 2816 02:20:20,680 --> 02:20:24,480 Speaker 2: Believe the stepdaughter comes down and hears. Me her dad walked, 2817 02:20:24,520 --> 02:20:27,680 Speaker 2: in and she, goes are we going on a? Vacation he, 2818 02:20:27,800 --> 02:20:29,600 Speaker 2: SAYS i don't think so are? 2819 02:20:29,680 --> 02:20:29,720 Speaker 8: We? 2820 02:20:29,879 --> 02:20:34,680 Speaker 2: Sarah sarah's. OPE i, Say i'm taking my sister niece 2821 02:20:34,879 --> 02:20:39,640 Speaker 2: and her friend as a graduation, present and stepdaughter asks 2822 02:20:39,720 --> 02:20:42,119 Speaker 2: her dad if she can go, too and he asks 2823 02:20:42,520 --> 02:20:46,040 Speaker 2: WHY I opie didn't ask, her AND i, say we 2824 02:20:46,240 --> 02:20:48,280 Speaker 2: made this plan WHEN i asked her if she wanted 2825 02:20:48,320 --> 02:20:50,760 Speaker 2: to watch a show with me and my niece with 2826 02:20:50,840 --> 02:20:53,440 Speaker 2: a show with me and my, niece and she told 2827 02:20:53,480 --> 02:20:55,080 Speaker 2: Me i'm not her mom and she doesn't want to 2828 02:20:55,120 --> 02:20:56,800 Speaker 2: do things with me and she wants nothing to do with, 2829 02:20:56,879 --> 02:21:01,640 Speaker 2: Me and they tried to make excuse AND i, SAY 2830 02:21:02,600 --> 02:21:05,800 Speaker 2: i can't be your parents slash friend when you want 2831 02:21:05,840 --> 02:21:07,880 Speaker 2: me to do things for, you but you treat me 2832 02:21:08,000 --> 02:21:09,000 Speaker 2: like crap any other. Time. 2833 02:21:09,800 --> 02:21:12,600 Speaker 1: Facts, yeah, yeah she wants she wants to be like 2834 02:21:12,680 --> 02:21:16,680 Speaker 1: a total be to her fake mom and also get the. 2835 02:21:16,720 --> 02:21:20,600 Speaker 4: Trip, yeah we have been saying for the past few. 2836 02:21:20,680 --> 02:21:22,440 Speaker 4: Stories and let us know in the chat if you 2837 02:21:22,600 --> 02:21:25,360 Speaker 4: if you agree or. Disagree but being like the bigger, 2838 02:21:25,400 --> 02:21:29,320 Speaker 4: person you mean to be the bigger, Person, yes being 2839 02:21:29,440 --> 02:21:32,360 Speaker 4: the bigger, person but also uh not her. 2840 02:21:32,480 --> 02:21:36,879 Speaker 1: KID i, yeah that's also like what if she's also 2841 02:21:37,200 --> 02:21:38,840 Speaker 1: she's trying to do a nice thing for her. Niece 2842 02:21:39,200 --> 02:21:41,960 Speaker 1: what if this kid is just a total asshole the 2843 02:21:42,040 --> 02:21:42,560 Speaker 1: whole time in? 2844 02:21:42,640 --> 02:21:45,400 Speaker 2: Ruin? Yeah, everyone, yes this is her like for her niece's. Birthday, 2845 02:21:45,440 --> 02:21:47,400 Speaker 2: yeah SO i don't think. That, yeah there's an expectation 2846 02:21:47,560 --> 02:21:49,040 Speaker 2: to seem to have a special bond to. 2847 02:21:50,000 --> 02:21:50,720 Speaker 1: That, yeah, YEAH i. 2848 02:21:50,760 --> 02:21:53,800 Speaker 2: AGREE i think also there could be like a scenario 2849 02:21:53,879 --> 02:21:57,000 Speaker 2: Where op's, like if she, apologizes if there is a 2850 02:21:57,080 --> 02:21:59,360 Speaker 2: change in her, ATTITUDE i would love to bring her. 2851 02:21:59,360 --> 02:22:02,640 Speaker 1: Along but right, Now pixel, says this isn't about being 2852 02:22:02,680 --> 02:22:05,320 Speaker 1: a bigger. Person this is about being a doormat to an. Asshole. 2853 02:22:05,520 --> 02:22:08,520 Speaker 1: Yeah whoa damn fucking bars. 2854 02:22:08,800 --> 02:22:14,440 Speaker 2: Bar all. Right so then the stepdaughter went and calls her, 2855 02:22:14,840 --> 02:22:18,040 Speaker 2: mom and her mom called me AND i explained what 2856 02:22:18,160 --> 02:22:21,280 Speaker 2: happened and what was. Said she was shocked about what 2857 02:22:21,360 --> 02:22:24,240 Speaker 2: her daughter said to, me but she understood. Completely she 2858 02:22:24,400 --> 02:22:27,240 Speaker 2: told me my stepdaughter or she told my stepdaughter that 2859 02:22:27,360 --> 02:22:29,800 Speaker 2: she will take her on a trip when she. Graduates 2860 02:22:30,200 --> 02:22:32,360 Speaker 2: but she missed out by acting that, way and she 2861 02:22:32,480 --> 02:22:35,240 Speaker 2: can't force me to take. Her my husband, SAYS i 2862 02:22:35,280 --> 02:22:37,480 Speaker 2: should get over it and take. HER i don't Think 2863 02:22:37,600 --> 02:22:37,880 Speaker 2: i'm in. 2864 02:22:38,600 --> 02:22:42,760 Speaker 1: Consequences you can't just be an ass. That you can't 2865 02:22:42,840 --> 02:22:45,080 Speaker 1: just be an asshole the whole time and get a. 2866 02:22:45,120 --> 02:22:47,600 Speaker 1: Trip also shout out at THE eva for the five buck. 2867 02:22:47,640 --> 02:22:51,480 Speaker 1: Tip Whoa, sam bring out your love club hoodie, PLEASE 2868 02:22:51,600 --> 02:22:52,080 Speaker 1: i love B. 2869 02:22:53,800 --> 02:22:54,000 Speaker 2: That's. 2870 02:22:54,040 --> 02:22:56,280 Speaker 1: Awesome we'll probably bring we could we could possibly bring 2871 02:22:56,360 --> 02:22:56,840 Speaker 1: the drop. 2872 02:22:56,640 --> 02:23:00,200 Speaker 2: Ball the end of. Stream, Yeah i've got mine from. 2873 02:23:00,200 --> 02:23:02,200 Speaker 2: You but there are some relevant. 2874 02:23:02,200 --> 02:23:04,800 Speaker 1: Comments, yes wait before we get too the all of the. 2875 02:23:04,840 --> 02:23:06,360 Speaker 1: Comments who do we think is the a hole in the? 2876 02:23:06,440 --> 02:23:10,879 Speaker 2: STORY i, mean obviously the, stepdaughter the, DAUGHTER i think 2877 02:23:10,920 --> 02:23:11,520 Speaker 2: also the, Dad? 2878 02:23:11,760 --> 02:23:13,440 Speaker 1: Dad why why is the dad the ahill you? 2879 02:23:13,480 --> 02:23:15,680 Speaker 2: THINK i don't think he's playing an active enough role 2880 02:23:15,800 --> 02:23:16,840 Speaker 2: in his daughter's. 2881 02:23:16,879 --> 02:23:21,040 Speaker 1: Life and also SO i think someone brings up a 2882 02:23:21,120 --> 02:23:23,440 Speaker 1: really Good Jamie lee And charlotte bring up a really good. 2883 02:23:23,480 --> 02:23:25,680 Speaker 1: Point why is the dad not backing his? 2884 02:23:25,800 --> 02:23:27,040 Speaker 2: Wife? Yeah why? 2885 02:23:28,400 --> 02:23:31,520 Speaker 1: Why probably in favor with the, DAUGHTER i. Think but 2886 02:23:32,480 --> 02:23:34,800 Speaker 1: you got to assess the situation and be, Like, okay 2887 02:23:34,879 --> 02:23:38,160 Speaker 1: who's actually like in the right? Here and it's like 2888 02:23:38,440 --> 02:23:41,760 Speaker 1: the wife was literally only like the wife seems like a, 2889 02:23:41,840 --> 02:23:44,080 Speaker 1: sweetheart and she's like trying to do stuff for her, 2890 02:23:44,120 --> 02:23:46,760 Speaker 1: knees trying to connect with the with the stepdaughter and 2891 02:23:46,920 --> 02:23:50,200 Speaker 1: just doing everything that she, can and she shut it. 2892 02:23:50,320 --> 02:23:52,879 Speaker 1: Down AND i, think to What sophia was saying, earlier 2893 02:23:53,160 --> 02:23:56,840 Speaker 1: the dad is not present and engaged, enough or maybe 2894 02:23:57,040 --> 02:23:57,720 Speaker 1: doesn't even care. 2895 02:23:57,840 --> 02:23:58,120 Speaker 7: Enough it. 2896 02:23:58,160 --> 02:23:59,960 Speaker 1: Doesn't it doesn't seem like the care and it sounds 2897 02:24:00,080 --> 02:24:02,720 Speaker 1: like he's trying to earn easy points with the daughter 2898 02:24:02,840 --> 02:24:05,720 Speaker 1: instead of actually being the parent that she, needs because 2899 02:24:05,720 --> 02:24:07,840 Speaker 1: there's a difference between like like when a kid SAYS 2900 02:24:07,879 --> 02:24:09,680 Speaker 1: i want ice cream for every, meal you don't give 2901 02:24:09,680 --> 02:24:11,960 Speaker 1: the kid ice cream to make the kid like. 2902 02:24:12,080 --> 02:24:15,440 Speaker 2: You you give them. Chocolate it like he's the only 2903 02:24:15,480 --> 02:24:18,360 Speaker 2: one actually parenting here. EXACTLY i think it's also a 2904 02:24:18,480 --> 02:24:20,840 Speaker 2: very different scenario than with the story that we read 2905 02:24:20,920 --> 02:24:23,280 Speaker 2: about the son who is like trying, to you, know 2906 02:24:23,680 --> 02:24:28,480 Speaker 2: go to the opie's, house because that's like a living. 2907 02:24:28,560 --> 02:24:32,440 Speaker 2: Situation that's like totally. Different this is not a. Right 2908 02:24:32,600 --> 02:24:34,720 Speaker 2: this is more of like a privilege and if you're 2909 02:24:35,080 --> 02:24:40,520 Speaker 2: rude and bar then you don't get to have. That and, 2910 02:24:40,760 --> 02:24:45,760 Speaker 2: yeah that's bars everyone's worm. 2911 02:24:45,920 --> 02:24:47,640 Speaker 1: Queen but he said there's an, update. 2912 02:24:47,440 --> 02:24:50,720 Speaker 2: There's relevant common and then there is an. 2913 02:24:50,800 --> 02:24:51,959 Speaker 1: Update, okay let's get. 2914 02:24:52,000 --> 02:24:54,960 Speaker 2: It let's do it from impressive belt four seven four 2915 02:24:55,320 --> 02:24:57,240 Speaker 2: not the a. Hole But i'm curious why you would 2916 02:24:57,280 --> 02:24:59,640 Speaker 2: marry someone with a kid that clearly does not like. 2917 02:24:59,760 --> 02:25:02,680 Speaker 2: You that's a shitty deal either, way and it's telling 2918 02:25:02,760 --> 02:25:05,119 Speaker 2: when the parent doesn't care enough to at least try 2919 02:25:05,240 --> 02:25:09,000 Speaker 2: to fix the problem. Beforehand based off the husband's, response 2920 02:25:09,080 --> 02:25:12,920 Speaker 2: he enables your stepdaughter's. Behavior so not sure how you 2921 02:25:13,040 --> 02:25:15,840 Speaker 2: expect all of this to play out really? 2922 02:25:15,920 --> 02:25:21,600 Speaker 1: Quick, yes that, phrase why would you marry someone who's? 2923 02:25:23,360 --> 02:25:24,200 Speaker 1: Kid does? 2924 02:25:24,240 --> 02:25:24,520 Speaker 11: It like? 2925 02:25:24,560 --> 02:25:25,800 Speaker 2: You does? 2926 02:25:25,879 --> 02:25:26,480 Speaker 7: That is? 2927 02:25:26,560 --> 02:25:29,080 Speaker 2: That does that feel fair or? IRRELEVANT i don't think 2928 02:25:29,120 --> 02:25:31,280 Speaker 2: it feels. FAIR i don't feel like that fair. 2929 02:25:31,320 --> 02:25:34,920 Speaker 4: IRRELEVANT i MEAN i one point is like when, you're, 2930 02:25:35,080 --> 02:25:36,720 Speaker 4: like you, know marrying someone if they have a, kid 2931 02:25:37,040 --> 02:25:39,440 Speaker 4: it's like it's like the, parents, Right like there is 2932 02:25:39,920 --> 02:25:42,759 Speaker 4: in a, way like you are going to be inextricably 2933 02:25:42,920 --> 02:25:44,240 Speaker 4: connected to, this to these. 2934 02:25:44,320 --> 02:25:47,120 Speaker 1: People so that is probably a variable you weigh in your, 2935 02:25:47,200 --> 02:25:50,080 Speaker 1: mind but it is not a end all be. 2936 02:25:50,200 --> 02:25:51,920 Speaker 2: ALL i feel LIKE i also don't think it's something 2937 02:25:51,959 --> 02:25:54,840 Speaker 2: that necessarily has to be like there from the. Beginning 2938 02:25:54,920 --> 02:25:56,439 Speaker 2: it can be a relationship. 2939 02:25:56,000 --> 02:25:59,640 Speaker 1: That, Yeah and also, like LIKE i think the reason 2940 02:25:59,720 --> 02:26:02,880 Speaker 1: WHY i think it's unfair is it is just a 2941 02:26:03,000 --> 02:26:06,440 Speaker 1: classic trope of the kid hating the step. Parent, yeah 2942 02:26:06,520 --> 02:26:08,480 Speaker 1: it's just like a trope as old as. Time and 2943 02:26:08,560 --> 02:26:11,000 Speaker 1: so if you were to like you would possibly never 2944 02:26:11,120 --> 02:26:14,240 Speaker 1: find love ever again off of. It, yeah you can't 2945 02:26:14,320 --> 02:26:16,360 Speaker 1: rate it off of. THAT i think it definitely factors. In, 2946 02:26:16,720 --> 02:26:20,160 Speaker 1: yeah says first step is to find out, why which 2947 02:26:20,240 --> 02:26:22,720 Speaker 1: is probably, therapy and also maybe just being playing an 2948 02:26:22,720 --> 02:26:24,480 Speaker 1: active role in your kid's whole life or like. 2949 02:26:24,560 --> 02:26:27,480 Speaker 2: What, yeah you, know if it's if they don't like 2950 02:26:27,560 --> 02:26:29,800 Speaker 2: them because they're being rude or mean to, them then 2951 02:26:29,959 --> 02:26:32,480 Speaker 2: you know that's a conversation that the dad needs to 2952 02:26:32,560 --> 02:26:33,600 Speaker 2: have with the. 2953 02:26:33,959 --> 02:26:36,240 Speaker 1: Daughter Barbie artis, SAYS i would not marry someone that 2954 02:26:36,320 --> 02:26:38,760 Speaker 1: doesn't get along with my. Kid not fair for the 2955 02:26:38,879 --> 02:26:42,680 Speaker 1: partner nor the. Kid BUT i think this is, different 2956 02:26:42,840 --> 02:26:46,600 Speaker 1: like not getting along with the child is different than the, 2957 02:26:47,240 --> 02:26:48,160 Speaker 1: child like being like. 2958 02:26:48,320 --> 02:26:53,320 Speaker 4: Actively maybe it's when it's one sided because ops trying 2959 02:26:53,440 --> 02:26:55,320 Speaker 4: everything she can do and is trying to be as 2960 02:26:55,400 --> 02:26:58,040 Speaker 4: reasonable and open as, possible whereas the kid is just like. 2961 02:26:58,280 --> 02:27:04,920 Speaker 4: Stonewalling but Unlike Signal imagination sixteen To donated twenty, BUCKS 2962 02:27:05,040 --> 02:27:07,760 Speaker 4: i love my stepmom AND i hated my former step. 2963 02:27:07,879 --> 02:27:11,680 Speaker 4: Dad it's all about respect to the relationship to your. 2964 02:27:12,080 --> 02:27:15,560 Speaker 2: Parents good, point But opie does have. 2965 02:27:15,640 --> 02:27:16,960 Speaker 1: Response, okay let's hit. 2966 02:27:17,040 --> 02:27:20,080 Speaker 2: It opie says she was not so open about not 2967 02:27:20,200 --> 02:27:22,960 Speaker 2: liking me until she hit, thirteen which would have been 2968 02:27:23,080 --> 02:27:27,480 Speaker 2: two years later after the, marriage we were. Cordial that 2969 02:27:27,560 --> 02:27:29,760 Speaker 2: feels like something i'd say about two. Adults BUT i 2970 02:27:29,840 --> 02:27:31,840 Speaker 2: knew that she wanted to be left alone because her 2971 02:27:31,879 --> 02:27:34,600 Speaker 2: parents had, divorced AND i know how hard it is 2972 02:27:34,680 --> 02:27:37,480 Speaker 2: because my parents got. Divorced SO i did not pressure 2973 02:27:37,520 --> 02:27:40,160 Speaker 2: her into talking to. ME i hope this is making, 2974 02:27:40,280 --> 02:27:43,320 Speaker 2: Sense but when she was, ELEVEN i was not being 2975 02:27:43,400 --> 02:27:46,560 Speaker 2: a verbally assaulted like. This she just kept her distance 2976 02:27:46,640 --> 02:27:50,680 Speaker 2: and kept conversations at a. Minimum and then there is 2977 02:27:50,720 --> 02:27:54,280 Speaker 2: another comment from internet wanderer who, SAYS i love when 2978 02:27:54,320 --> 02:27:58,199 Speaker 2: spoiled children run up against the consequences of their. Actions 2979 02:27:58,680 --> 02:28:01,440 Speaker 2: kids need to learn you're better THAN i, Am. OPIE 2980 02:28:01,640 --> 02:28:04,440 Speaker 2: i wouldn't even give her another. Chance she hates. Me, 2981 02:28:04,720 --> 02:28:08,480 Speaker 2: great no more, presence money for field, trips, allowances favorite 2982 02:28:08,520 --> 02:28:11,959 Speaker 2: meals made by, me or anything. Else, really if she decides, 2983 02:28:12,040 --> 02:28:15,080 Speaker 2: to she could try and earn back my. Regard BUT 2984 02:28:15,200 --> 02:28:18,760 Speaker 2: i tend to ignore people that hate, me and once 2985 02:28:18,800 --> 02:28:20,920 Speaker 2: she turns, EIGHTEEN i would start treating her as an. 2986 02:28:20,920 --> 02:28:24,320 Speaker 2: ADULT i don't. Like But i'm also a vindictive. 2987 02:28:24,400 --> 02:28:27,520 Speaker 1: BASTARD i mean that kind of, LIKE i feel like 2988 02:28:27,640 --> 02:28:30,680 Speaker 1: that kind of makes. SENSE i also saw conspiracy theory 2989 02:28:30,720 --> 02:28:35,520 Speaker 1: in the chat or sleepless whoa conspiracy theory so really? 2990 02:28:35,600 --> 02:28:43,480 Speaker 1: Quick maybe, maybe maybe maybe maybe the kid thinks that 2991 02:28:43,520 --> 02:28:45,840 Speaker 1: their parent is going to get back together and by 2992 02:28:45,959 --> 02:28:50,800 Speaker 1: being an absolute ass hat To, opee driving the step mom, 2993 02:28:50,879 --> 02:28:55,840 Speaker 1: away leaving a hole that could only be filled by their. Mother, 2994 02:28:56,160 --> 02:29:03,160 Speaker 1: mmmm and so good sleepless sleepless. Theories, Wow, yeah that's. 2995 02:29:03,240 --> 02:29:05,480 Speaker 1: GREAT i THINK i would go back to. Reality BUT 2996 02:29:05,720 --> 02:29:07,560 Speaker 1: i think that could be. TRUE i think it really could. 2997 02:29:07,640 --> 02:29:10,360 Speaker 2: Be my, goodness could be a little parent drop situation 2998 02:29:11,480 --> 02:29:16,000 Speaker 2: without the. Twins opie then responds to that, COMMENT i 2999 02:29:16,120 --> 02:29:18,600 Speaker 2: have thought about going down that route after she said, 3000 02:29:18,640 --> 02:29:21,240 Speaker 2: that But i'm also a kid of divorce, parents AND 3001 02:29:21,360 --> 02:29:23,199 Speaker 2: i know how hard it can be when your parents 3002 02:29:23,240 --> 02:29:26,080 Speaker 2: start dating someone. New SO i never fed her for 3003 02:29:26,200 --> 02:29:29,760 Speaker 2: that BECAUSE i, was uh the, one BECAUSE i was 3004 02:29:30,000 --> 02:29:33,720 Speaker 2: in that position. Before BUT i feel like she's sixteen 3005 02:29:33,800 --> 02:29:35,920 Speaker 2: now and she says what she, says she can mean 3006 02:29:36,000 --> 02:29:39,800 Speaker 2: what she, says so she has to deal with those. Actions. Amen, 3007 02:29:40,680 --> 02:29:44,360 Speaker 2: sure BUT i, hear, yes there is an update hit 3008 02:29:44,520 --> 02:29:48,040 Speaker 2: that update all. RIGHT i took some of the people's 3009 02:29:48,040 --> 02:29:50,520 Speaker 2: advice AND i had to sit down with, her her 3010 02:29:50,600 --> 02:29:54,680 Speaker 2: father and her mother to talk about boundaries and clear 3011 02:29:54,840 --> 02:29:57,640 Speaker 2: rules of WHAT i will not tolerate anymore we go. 3012 02:29:57,879 --> 02:30:00,320 Speaker 2: STEPS i am still standing firm, that But i'm not 3013 02:30:00,480 --> 02:30:02,880 Speaker 2: taking her on this trip Because i'm not going to 3014 02:30:03,000 --> 02:30:06,520 Speaker 2: award bad behavior and verbally abusing AND i don't want 3015 02:30:06,560 --> 02:30:08,600 Speaker 2: to deal with that on the. TRIP i do not 3016 02:30:08,760 --> 02:30:10,920 Speaker 2: want to make a Miserable. OH i do not want 3017 02:30:10,959 --> 02:30:14,000 Speaker 2: to be miserable on a trip that's for my niece 3018 02:30:14,080 --> 02:30:17,280 Speaker 2: and celebrating her. Graduating when my husband goes out of, 3019 02:30:17,320 --> 02:30:19,640 Speaker 2: town she will be staying with her grandmother or. MOTHER 3020 02:30:19,920 --> 02:30:23,040 Speaker 2: i will no longer be parenting her here since she 3021 02:30:23,200 --> 02:30:25,600 Speaker 2: does not want me to do anything for, her AND 3022 02:30:25,680 --> 02:30:29,760 Speaker 2: i will not until her attitude change. CHANGES i said 3023 02:30:29,800 --> 02:30:31,720 Speaker 2: that maybe she needs to go back to, therapy and 3024 02:30:31,800 --> 02:30:36,440 Speaker 2: her mother and dad agree, Also thank you. 3025 02:30:39,760 --> 02:30:43,480 Speaker 1: Five BUT i love my dad's girlfriend and hate my step. 3026 02:30:43,640 --> 02:30:46,200 Speaker 1: Tuche she is so nice to be while he is so. 3027 02:30:46,400 --> 02:30:48,920 Speaker 1: Rude how can you treat? Them how you treat them 3028 02:30:49,000 --> 02:30:50,040 Speaker 1: depends on how they treat. 3029 02:30:50,080 --> 02:30:52,240 Speaker 2: You, yeah it makes a lot of, sense but in this, 3030 02:30:52,360 --> 02:30:55,200 Speaker 2: case it does seem LIKE op is trying to treat 3031 02:30:55,520 --> 02:30:57,800 Speaker 2: the step daughter will yes and include, her and it 3032 02:30:57,920 --> 02:31:00,680 Speaker 2: might just be like the sudden or. NOT i don't 3033 02:31:00,680 --> 02:31:02,800 Speaker 2: know the changes of parents going through. 3034 02:31:02,800 --> 02:31:04,400 Speaker 1: Divorce, agreed but it. 3035 02:31:04,440 --> 02:31:07,080 Speaker 2: CONTINUES i told her once again THAT i know she 3036 02:31:07,240 --> 02:31:09,960 Speaker 2: has a mother and doesn't need, another and that we 3037 02:31:10,280 --> 02:31:12,119 Speaker 2: then that was never my goal to try and come 3038 02:31:12,200 --> 02:31:14,360 Speaker 2: in and replace her. MOM i just wanted to be 3039 02:31:14,600 --> 02:31:18,320 Speaker 2: a parental. Figure my husband did apologize for not having 3040 02:31:18,400 --> 02:31:21,600 Speaker 2: my back and controlling this behavior. BEFORE i said THAT 3041 02:31:21,680 --> 02:31:24,400 Speaker 2: i may not be her, mom BUT i am her father's. 3042 02:31:24,760 --> 02:31:31,200 Speaker 2: Wife respect AND i need basic. Respect. Yeah, yeah she 3043 02:31:31,360 --> 02:31:34,200 Speaker 2: doesn't have to like, me BUT i won't tolerate her 3044 02:31:34,480 --> 02:31:36,520 Speaker 2: disrespect QUICK tldr for. 3045 02:31:36,640 --> 02:31:40,560 Speaker 1: Everyone, BASICALLY op is the step mom and is dealing 3046 02:31:40,640 --> 02:31:44,439 Speaker 1: with a brat of this this kid and the stepchild 3047 02:31:44,520 --> 02:31:46,880 Speaker 1: is just being an absolute, asshole saying you're not my, 3048 02:31:47,040 --> 02:31:49,680 Speaker 1: Mom you'll never, be even just When op's just trying 3049 02:31:49,720 --> 02:31:50,040 Speaker 1: to be. 3050 02:31:50,200 --> 02:31:50,400 Speaker 15: Nice. 3051 02:31:50,560 --> 02:31:52,680 Speaker 2: Yeah and THEN opi was going to go on a 3052 02:31:52,800 --> 02:31:55,720 Speaker 2: trip with her niece and the stepdaughter's, like, WELL i 3053 02:31:55,800 --> 02:31:58,480 Speaker 2: want to, come and she's basically saying not UNTIL i 3054 02:31:58,520 --> 02:32:03,560 Speaker 2: see an attitude. Change. Yeah they both asked her to 3055 02:32:03,680 --> 02:32:06,760 Speaker 2: apologize for what she said and. Shed she scoffed and 3056 02:32:07,040 --> 02:32:14,120 Speaker 2: rolled her. Eyes unbelievable. Dipictine she stormed, off and her 3057 02:32:14,160 --> 02:32:16,760 Speaker 2: mother and father went after her to scold. Her we 3058 02:32:16,920 --> 02:32:20,119 Speaker 2: also agreed to go to family. THERAPY i told them 3059 02:32:20,320 --> 02:32:22,160 Speaker 2: THAT i will not be asking her to do things 3060 02:32:22,200 --> 02:32:23,920 Speaker 2: with me like go to the mall or look for 3061 02:32:24,000 --> 02:32:26,480 Speaker 2: a birthday present for her, dad but if she comes 3062 02:32:26,520 --> 02:32:29,120 Speaker 2: to me with a changed, attitude THEN i will be 3063 02:32:29,200 --> 02:32:31,960 Speaker 2: more than happy to do. So her mother said she 3064 02:32:32,080 --> 02:32:35,080 Speaker 2: will be taking talking to her privately about how her 3065 02:32:35,200 --> 02:32:38,280 Speaker 2: actions have, consequences and that this was a small thing 3066 02:32:38,440 --> 02:32:41,760 Speaker 2: compared to what may happen in the real. WORLD i 3067 02:32:41,879 --> 02:32:43,680 Speaker 2: do REALIZE i should have been more vocal about the, 3068 02:32:43,720 --> 02:32:46,720 Speaker 2: mistreatment BUT i didn't want her to dislike me more any, 3069 02:32:46,879 --> 02:32:49,400 Speaker 2: oh anymore than she. Did BUT i see that was 3070 02:32:49,560 --> 02:32:52,480 Speaker 2: not the correct, decision and hopefully we can come to 3071 02:32:52,640 --> 02:32:55,480 Speaker 2: some sort OF i can't think of the word or, 3072 02:32:55,560 --> 02:32:59,760 Speaker 2: phrase but we can be cordial and there are a 3073 02:33:00,200 --> 02:33:00,760 Speaker 2: More so. 3074 02:33:00,800 --> 02:33:03,120 Speaker 1: We're getting to a place where at least they're. Communicating 3075 02:33:03,480 --> 02:33:05,800 Speaker 1: auntie t asks a good, question why are we trashing a? 3076 02:33:05,920 --> 02:33:06,080 Speaker 2: Kid? 3077 02:33:06,480 --> 02:33:09,280 Speaker 1: Riley can you go? Up why are you trashing a 3078 02:33:09,360 --> 02:33:12,760 Speaker 1: kid for speaking the truth and working through her own family? 3079 02:33:12,920 --> 02:33:16,520 Speaker 1: Trauma SO i don't know if we're like necessarily trashing the. 3080 02:33:16,680 --> 02:33:19,600 Speaker 1: KID i think what we're seeing is a behavior that 3081 02:33:19,720 --> 02:33:22,800 Speaker 1: definitely needs to change and is like there's no respect in, 3082 02:33:22,879 --> 02:33:25,120 Speaker 1: it and SO i think that behavior needs to, change 3083 02:33:25,480 --> 02:33:29,520 Speaker 1: AND i think the kid is being like, assholy but 3084 02:33:29,959 --> 02:33:33,640 Speaker 1: we grade at like underage assholes very differently than over 3085 02:33:33,720 --> 02:33:34,320 Speaker 1: age as this. 3086 02:33:34,360 --> 02:33:38,320 Speaker 2: Is very explain. Explainable, yeah, yeah. 3087 02:33:38,440 --> 02:33:40,160 Speaker 1: Exactly, YEAH i think it's a good. 3088 02:33:40,240 --> 02:33:41,640 Speaker 2: Question it's good. 3089 02:33:41,640 --> 02:33:42,920 Speaker 3: TOTAL i think the main a hole. 3090 02:33:42,840 --> 02:33:44,800 Speaker 2: In the story is the, dad BECAUSE i think that 3091 02:33:44,920 --> 02:33:46,760 Speaker 2: was behavior that needed to be like checked and. 3092 02:33:46,959 --> 02:33:50,720 Speaker 1: Addressed and auntit says respect is, earned not, demanded BUT 3093 02:33:50,800 --> 02:33:53,000 Speaker 1: i think everyone deserves a certain level of. 3094 02:33:53,080 --> 02:33:56,959 Speaker 2: Respect. Yeah, YEAH i don't think you Necessarily, yeah it's 3095 02:33:57,720 --> 02:33:59,800 Speaker 2: in this. CASE i think that's just like you can't 3096 02:33:59,840 --> 02:34:02,080 Speaker 2: talk rudely to, yeah a, person and it. 3097 02:34:02,160 --> 02:34:04,040 Speaker 1: Needs to be a, Dressed it needs to be. Addressed 3098 02:34:04,120 --> 02:34:06,680 Speaker 1: when do we become such responsible? Parents, yeah come, on. 3099 02:34:08,200 --> 02:34:09,959 Speaker 6: You guys are gonna kill it whenever you guys become. 3100 02:34:10,080 --> 02:34:12,879 Speaker 2: Dad's, yeah WHEN i become a, Dad i'm gonna kill. 3101 02:34:12,920 --> 02:34:18,200 Speaker 1: It International. Wednesday Who but for anyone then is out 3102 02:34:18,200 --> 02:34:20,160 Speaker 1: there everyone who wants to like maybe chat about it 3103 02:34:20,280 --> 02:34:22,280 Speaker 1: in the in the chat you. Disagree, yeah if you, 3104 02:34:22,320 --> 02:34:24,680 Speaker 1: disagree let us. Know if you have anything rebuttals to 3105 02:34:24,720 --> 02:34:25,640 Speaker 1: aun D t let us know. 3106 02:34:25,760 --> 02:34:32,160 Speaker 2: Too yeah's, Fight but there are some final. Relevance one commoner, says, 3107 02:34:32,280 --> 02:34:34,600 Speaker 2: WELL i can understand where her anger is coming. From 3108 02:34:34,800 --> 02:34:36,720 Speaker 2: she was half your age when you married her, dad 3109 02:34:37,120 --> 02:34:40,120 Speaker 2: and you've only been married four. Years dad is constantly 3110 02:34:40,240 --> 02:34:42,480 Speaker 2: gone and mom is a new, baby so she's pawned 3111 02:34:42,520 --> 02:34:44,879 Speaker 2: off on you all. WEEK i can see why she's 3112 02:34:44,879 --> 02:34:47,520 Speaker 2: feeling abandoned and like they're forcing you to be her new. 3113 02:34:47,600 --> 02:34:51,040 Speaker 2: Mom i'd give her some. Slack teenagers say stupid shit 3114 02:34:51,040 --> 02:34:52,840 Speaker 2: when they're going through, stuff and she's going through a. 3115 02:34:52,920 --> 02:34:55,440 Speaker 2: Lot did you knock on her door before going? In 3116 02:34:55,640 --> 02:34:57,800 Speaker 2: or did you just walk? In teenagers need to feel 3117 02:34:57,840 --> 02:35:00,680 Speaker 2: like they have their own. Space maybe she had just 3118 02:35:00,800 --> 02:35:03,440 Speaker 2: been crying and snapped at you because her actual parents 3119 02:35:03,480 --> 02:35:06,320 Speaker 2: weren't anywhere to be. Found come, ON i remember what 3120 02:35:06,400 --> 02:35:08,480 Speaker 2: it's like to be a, teenager and it's farther away 3121 02:35:08,520 --> 02:35:10,880 Speaker 2: in time for me than it is for. YOU i 3122 02:35:10,959 --> 02:35:13,440 Speaker 2: think setting some more hard rules is a really bad 3123 02:35:13,560 --> 02:35:17,039 Speaker 2: idea and will only breed more. Resentment, here she learned 3124 02:35:17,080 --> 02:35:19,040 Speaker 2: the lesson that you can't treat someone like shit and 3125 02:35:19,120 --> 02:35:21,840 Speaker 2: then expect something gifted to you from them for no. 3126 02:35:21,959 --> 02:35:24,280 Speaker 2: Reason why don't you ask her where she wants to 3127 02:35:24,360 --> 02:35:26,840 Speaker 2: live during the week When dad's. Gone has anyone ever done? 3128 02:35:26,840 --> 02:35:30,560 Speaker 2: That opie, says you made a comment and still getting 3129 02:35:30,600 --> 02:35:33,200 Speaker 2: the same response after trying to explain Why i'm in 3130 02:35:33,240 --> 02:35:36,720 Speaker 2: the wrong is really. Funny i'm not trying to be her, 3131 02:35:36,800 --> 02:35:40,400 Speaker 2: mom never, was never. WILL i have tried. This last 3132 02:35:40,440 --> 02:35:42,920 Speaker 2: TIME i, TRIED i was verbally talked down to and 3133 02:35:43,040 --> 02:35:45,560 Speaker 2: told to stay out of her. Life so why should 3134 02:35:45,600 --> 02:35:47,320 Speaker 2: she want to go on this trip if she doesn't 3135 02:35:47,400 --> 02:35:50,520 Speaker 2: like the person hosting, it and if he wants to 3136 02:35:50,600 --> 02:35:52,280 Speaker 2: take her on a. TRIP i believe That dad he. 3137 02:35:52,440 --> 02:35:55,600 Speaker 2: Can i'm not barring her from all vacations, ever just 3138 02:35:55,720 --> 02:35:57,760 Speaker 2: this one that's to celebrate my niece That i'm paying. 3139 02:35:57,840 --> 02:36:00,200 Speaker 2: For she's not. COMING i don't know what she and 3140 02:36:00,240 --> 02:36:02,000 Speaker 2: her friends do because she does not let me in 3141 02:36:02,200 --> 02:36:04,280 Speaker 2: on that part of her, life AND i don't ask 3142 02:36:04,360 --> 02:36:06,240 Speaker 2: because she's made it clear that she doesn't want to 3143 02:36:06,280 --> 02:36:08,879 Speaker 2: speak about any of that with. ME i only asked 3144 02:36:08,879 --> 02:36:10,560 Speaker 2: if she wanted to talk about what she was going 3145 02:36:10,600 --> 02:36:13,640 Speaker 2: through BECAUSE i know how lonely it can feel going 3146 02:36:13,720 --> 02:36:16,080 Speaker 2: through a breakup and not having anyone to talk to, 3147 02:36:16,160 --> 02:36:19,880 Speaker 2: you you can give. Advice, YEAH i Think i'm On 3148 02:36:20,200 --> 02:36:21,280 Speaker 2: i'm on op side with. 3149 02:36:21,440 --> 02:36:21,480 Speaker 9: You. 3150 02:36:21,640 --> 02:36:25,240 Speaker 1: Yeah There Rachel hatchett for five. Bucks it's keep the stream, 3151 02:36:25,360 --> 02:36:27,360 Speaker 1: going are You Rachel. Hatchett i'm just trying to get 3152 02:36:27,360 --> 02:36:28,120 Speaker 1: that four hour stream. 3153 02:36:28,280 --> 02:36:31,640 Speaker 4: TRULY i will, say, like WHILE i don't agree with 3154 02:36:31,840 --> 02:36:36,760 Speaker 4: the kind of LIKE i guess angle or maybe an 3155 02:36:36,760 --> 02:36:40,039 Speaker 4: aggression that the commenter, HAD i do think like being 3156 02:36:40,200 --> 02:36:43,440 Speaker 4: just like massively, empathetic like, okay was? There, yeah are 3157 02:36:43,480 --> 02:36:45,400 Speaker 4: there certain things that like Maybe i'm doing that are 3158 02:36:45,440 --> 02:36:47,360 Speaker 4: rubbing the kid the wrong way that could actually help 3159 02:36:47,480 --> 02:36:51,640 Speaker 4: in my goal of? Connecting, YEAH i do LIKE i 3160 02:36:52,040 --> 02:36:55,440 Speaker 4: feel like humanizing the kid as saying, like like also 3161 02:36:55,520 --> 02:36:58,000 Speaker 4: bring up the like you, know a new woman in 3162 02:36:58,080 --> 02:37:00,440 Speaker 4: your dad's life that's like half his age and stuff like. 3163 02:37:00,520 --> 02:37:04,920 Speaker 1: THAT i think that contextualizes what might be Tough yes 3164 02:37:05,080 --> 02:37:08,039 Speaker 1: for the, kid still doesn't excuse the behavior by any, 3165 02:37:08,120 --> 02:37:11,000 Speaker 1: means BUT i, think, LIKE i think having a little 3166 02:37:11,000 --> 02:37:12,320 Speaker 1: bit of empathy makes. 3167 02:37:12,360 --> 02:37:14,240 Speaker 2: Sense it goes a long, way. 3168 02:37:14,200 --> 02:37:16,600 Speaker 1: Goes a long. Way and shout out, Marriage munchkins And 3169 02:37:16,800 --> 02:37:17,720 Speaker 1: mescara for the. 3170 02:37:17,840 --> 02:37:18,080 Speaker 2: Vibe. 3171 02:37:18,120 --> 02:37:24,760 Speaker 1: Bucks thank, you BUT i think we have another. Story, 3172 02:37:26,080 --> 02:37:27,280 Speaker 1: really what do you want me to? 3173 02:37:27,360 --> 02:37:28,920 Speaker 2: READ i will read anything you. 3174 02:37:29,160 --> 02:37:30,119 Speaker 3: DESIRE a MASTER. 3175 02:37:32,080 --> 02:37:35,120 Speaker 2: S two, two three fifty EIGHT s. 3176 02:37:35,240 --> 02:37:36,160 Speaker 1: Two let's get, it. 3177 02:37:36,320 --> 02:37:40,200 Speaker 6: Baby you can pull if Your Social security number two are, 3178 02:37:40,720 --> 02:37:40,960 Speaker 6: there we. 3179 02:37:41,040 --> 02:37:45,800 Speaker 1: Go we'll do three fifty EIGHT s. Two so AM 3180 02:37:46,160 --> 02:37:49,400 Speaker 1: i the a hole for not buying food for my 3181 02:37:49,480 --> 02:37:55,040 Speaker 1: fiance's family? Anymore and this user name is totally not 3182 02:37:55,200 --> 02:37:59,959 Speaker 1: poor an act says. Nice every other week my, fiance 3183 02:38:00,040 --> 02:38:02,520 Speaker 1: say twenty two female AND i twenty three mail go 3184 02:38:02,640 --> 02:38:05,880 Speaker 1: to eat out with her, family and last week we 3185 02:38:06,000 --> 02:38:08,960 Speaker 1: went out to A korean barbecue restaurant owned by my 3186 02:38:09,320 --> 02:38:14,039 Speaker 1: uncle fifty nine, mail WHERE i paid for everyone's. Meal shout, Out, 3187 02:38:14,080 --> 02:38:17,000 Speaker 1: op and Thanks pixel Punk at for the five. Bucks 3188 02:38:17,560 --> 02:38:19,240 Speaker 1: for all the stories about kids and, PARENTS i feel 3189 02:38:19,280 --> 02:38:21,400 Speaker 1: bad for, repeating but this could be avoided if they 3190 02:38:21,480 --> 02:38:24,920 Speaker 1: talked to their kids before any major changes. Happened my 3191 02:38:25,080 --> 02:38:27,360 Speaker 1: parents learned from that mistake after they. Separated it helped 3192 02:38:27,680 --> 02:38:31,880 Speaker 1: a lot going with that. Approach, yeah, agreed agreed. 3193 02:38:31,920 --> 02:38:34,119 Speaker 2: WITH i think the general consensus off to the story 3194 02:38:34,320 --> 02:38:35,680 Speaker 2: was the DoD needs to be at. 3195 02:38:35,720 --> 02:38:38,960 Speaker 1: More, Yes dad's an a, hole but op wasn't so 3196 02:38:40,120 --> 02:38:42,119 Speaker 1: paid for everyone's. MEAL i only asked them to cover 3197 02:38:42,240 --> 02:38:44,320 Speaker 1: the tip for the, waitress which they agreed to. Do 3198 02:38:45,240 --> 02:38:48,160 Speaker 1: the total bail was over two hundred and forty, dollars 3199 02:38:48,640 --> 02:38:51,280 Speaker 1: AND i. Paid usually WHEN i cover the tab for 3200 02:38:51,360 --> 02:38:54,760 Speaker 1: my friends or significant, other they generously tipped since they're 3201 02:38:54,840 --> 02:38:57,720 Speaker 1: only responsible for the gratuity and not the cost of 3202 02:38:57,760 --> 02:39:00,360 Speaker 1: the meal, itself which IS i think a cap funny 3203 02:39:00,400 --> 02:39:00,680 Speaker 1: thing to. 3204 02:39:00,760 --> 02:39:00,800 Speaker 11: Do. 3205 02:39:01,320 --> 02:39:05,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, however, however, however they're not cash. 3206 02:39:05,440 --> 02:39:06,360 Speaker 2: Money they're not cash. 3207 02:39:06,400 --> 02:39:08,640 Speaker 1: MONEY a few days, ago my cousin twenty one mail 3208 02:39:08,760 --> 02:39:15,000 Speaker 1: revealed that they only had left a one dollar tip. 3209 02:39:14,920 --> 02:39:16,320 Speaker 2: On a two hundred and fifty dollars. 3210 02:39:16,400 --> 02:39:19,879 Speaker 1: Meal one, dollar hold, on hold, on one dollar. 3211 02:39:20,760 --> 02:39:25,680 Speaker 2: Minimum one dollar minimum like thirty. Seven. 3212 02:39:26,080 --> 02:39:29,800 Speaker 1: That, yeah if you're in a minimum for a for 3213 02:39:29,920 --> 02:39:32,720 Speaker 1: a meal for a family like that's crazy, nothing THAT'S 3214 02:39:32,959 --> 02:39:39,279 Speaker 1: i was shocked and disappointed because one dollar tip is insultingly, 3215 02:39:39,400 --> 02:39:43,800 Speaker 1: low especially CONSIDERING i treated them to alcohol and desserts 3216 02:39:44,000 --> 02:39:49,480 Speaker 1: delicious so bad puts in the chat that one dollar 3217 02:39:49,600 --> 02:39:52,640 Speaker 1: tip f in the chat right. Now SO i discussed 3218 02:39:52,640 --> 02:39:56,320 Speaker 1: this msue with my, fiance but her family insists they 3219 02:39:56,560 --> 02:39:59,959 Speaker 1: never tip or only pay like one dollar for tips 3220 02:40:00,040 --> 02:40:03,520 Speaker 1: at restaurants Slash General. Services, ye don't. 3221 02:40:03,520 --> 02:40:04,720 Speaker 2: Worry they were, like oh love the. 3222 02:40:04,760 --> 02:40:08,160 Speaker 1: Steal, Ny, yes this is. 3223 02:40:08,480 --> 02:40:09,600 Speaker 2: FANTASTIC i made what? 3224 02:40:09,879 --> 02:40:12,560 Speaker 1: Dollars now we have to pay for the? 3225 02:40:12,720 --> 02:40:18,279 Speaker 2: Dollar oh my, god that is so. Bad that's horrible. 3226 02:40:18,760 --> 02:40:22,080 Speaker 1: Economy Baby godzilla's is speaking of tip tip to stream. 3227 02:40:22,200 --> 02:40:28,280 Speaker 1: Donation Like Baby, Godzilla Aggie winston SAYS i once had 3228 02:40:28,320 --> 02:40:30,640 Speaker 1: to split a twenty dollars tip with two other servers 3229 02:40:30,680 --> 02:40:35,080 Speaker 1: for a group of addred where the ticket was one thousand. 3230 02:40:35,120 --> 02:40:39,200 Speaker 2: Dollars you're so. Cheap oh my, god. Crazy so this 3231 02:40:39,480 --> 02:40:40,880 Speaker 2: is happening in THE us OF. 3232 02:40:40,959 --> 02:40:43,520 Speaker 1: A as a, RESULT i informed my fiance our bi 3233 02:40:43,680 --> 02:40:47,520 Speaker 1: weekly restaurant outings would have to. CHANGE i also have 3234 02:40:47,640 --> 02:40:50,160 Speaker 1: informed to my fiance about. THIS i told her THAT 3235 02:40:50,240 --> 02:40:52,920 Speaker 1: i had only paid for their meals as a kind. 3236 02:40:53,200 --> 02:40:57,840 Speaker 1: Gesture while my fiance was, annoyed she ultimately understood why 3237 02:40:58,440 --> 02:40:59,520 Speaker 1: why ANNOY i? 3238 02:40:59,560 --> 02:41:02,560 Speaker 3: Annoyed you should be annoyed at your family. 3239 02:41:03,040 --> 02:41:09,840 Speaker 1: Exactly that is such a classless thing to. Do. Yeah, yeah, 3240 02:41:09,959 --> 02:41:13,800 Speaker 1: wait like like they're putting in so much effort not 3241 02:41:13,920 --> 02:41:17,600 Speaker 1: getting paid really much at. All, yeah and are depending 3242 02:41:17,640 --> 02:41:17,920 Speaker 1: on those. 3243 02:41:17,959 --> 02:41:22,680 Speaker 2: Tips, yeah fucking, yeah especially especially because this is specific 3244 02:41:22,760 --> 02:41:25,039 Speaker 2: to like the serving industry. 3245 02:41:24,959 --> 02:41:27,160 Speaker 1: For everyone who's not in THE, Us like like if 3246 02:41:27,160 --> 02:41:29,440 Speaker 1: you don't get, tips you're basically on the. 3247 02:41:29,480 --> 02:41:31,680 Speaker 2: Street, no this is that was such an important distinction 3248 02:41:31,840 --> 02:41:33,520 Speaker 2: because like in other, countries you, know it's. 3249 02:41:35,000 --> 02:41:38,560 Speaker 1: Is a deal breaker for. Me, yeah, yeah, YEAH i feel. 3250 02:41:38,400 --> 02:41:40,280 Speaker 2: Like WHEN i was, TRAVELING i was so stressed out 3251 02:41:40,280 --> 02:41:42,200 Speaker 2: about not, tipping because it's like not the culture there 3252 02:41:43,200 --> 02:41:46,000 Speaker 2: in cer certain, countries not all Of, europe but, yeah 3253 02:41:46,400 --> 02:41:47,440 Speaker 2: here it. 3254 02:41:47,600 --> 02:41:50,640 Speaker 1: Is so yesterday they asked IF i would buy their 3255 02:41:50,680 --> 02:41:56,039 Speaker 1: food again next, week the audacity to WHICH i responded 3256 02:41:56,120 --> 02:41:58,879 Speaker 1: that they'll need to cover their own expenses for their. 3257 02:41:58,959 --> 02:42:01,360 Speaker 1: MEAL i didn't want to confront them about their habit 3258 02:42:01,440 --> 02:42:03,640 Speaker 1: of tipping only a, dollar SO i decided to handle 3259 02:42:03,680 --> 02:42:07,200 Speaker 1: it differently this time and simply pretend to cover the 3260 02:42:07,280 --> 02:42:11,720 Speaker 1: tip for. Them her family did not take, that so, 3261 02:42:11,959 --> 02:42:14,240 Speaker 1: WELL i don't, Worry i'll cover the tip this. 3262 02:42:14,400 --> 02:42:14,640 Speaker 2: Time. 3263 02:42:15,160 --> 02:42:19,879 Speaker 4: Yeah, god the audacity of first not tipping and then going, 3264 02:42:19,920 --> 02:42:22,040 Speaker 4: back because if someone pays for a meal for, you 3265 02:42:22,040 --> 02:42:25,000 Speaker 4: you're not, like, oh, hey could you cover it? 3266 02:42:25,120 --> 02:42:30,600 Speaker 1: Again you did it last. TIME i covered the. Tip, 3267 02:42:30,800 --> 02:42:35,120 Speaker 1: GOD i left a. Dollar oh my, god, yeah so 3268 02:42:36,000 --> 02:42:38,160 Speaker 1: didn't want, to so they accused, Me oh my, god, 3269 02:42:38,280 --> 02:42:40,560 Speaker 1: yeah this fucking gets so. Bad SO i decided to 3270 02:42:40,600 --> 02:42:43,640 Speaker 1: handle it, differently trying to cover the. Tip her family 3271 02:42:44,200 --> 02:42:49,720 Speaker 1: did not take that. Well they accuse me of being, 3272 02:42:49,879 --> 02:42:53,480 Speaker 1: ungrateful arguing that they were the ones taking the time 3273 02:42:53,600 --> 02:42:55,840 Speaker 1: to meet up with me bi, weekly. 3274 02:42:56,360 --> 02:42:57,879 Speaker 2: Racing him with their. 3275 02:42:58,120 --> 02:43:04,080 Speaker 1: Present they're, like we were there and that seeing them. 3276 02:43:04,000 --> 02:43:08,520 Speaker 2: To tip was. Unreasonable in the, beginning my presence is. 3277 02:43:08,600 --> 02:43:11,960 Speaker 1: Priceless they also suggested that since my family is, wealthy 3278 02:43:12,160 --> 02:43:15,400 Speaker 1: it's only fair THAT i continue paying for their. MEANS 3279 02:43:17,000 --> 02:43:19,000 Speaker 1: a little, STEAKY i, said. 3280 02:43:18,840 --> 02:43:21,000 Speaker 2: The steaky, family old digging. 3281 02:43:21,120 --> 02:43:25,720 Speaker 1: Family my fiance was surprisingly on my, side which red 3282 02:43:25,760 --> 02:43:29,040 Speaker 1: flag if it's, Surprising, yeah she knew her family had this, 3283 02:43:29,200 --> 02:43:32,360 Speaker 1: issue she didn't have the courage to inform them about. 3284 02:43:32,400 --> 02:43:36,280 Speaker 2: It so here we come to the question we asked 3285 02:43:36,320 --> 02:43:37,920 Speaker 2: the chat and we ask each. 3286 02:43:37,959 --> 02:43:42,360 Speaker 1: Other AM i the a hole for deciding not to 3287 02:43:42,440 --> 02:43:45,160 Speaker 1: buy food for my fiance's family? Anymore and there is 3288 02:43:45,280 --> 02:43:47,560 Speaker 1: a slight quick. Update but while we're doing this update 3289 02:43:48,400 --> 02:43:51,600 Speaker 1: a whole or not a, whole put your answers in the. 3290 02:43:51,720 --> 02:43:54,320 Speaker 1: Chat tell us the update IS i didn't break up with, 3291 02:43:54,400 --> 02:43:57,600 Speaker 1: her but her family is. Furious uh AND i SENDED 3292 02:43:57,800 --> 02:44:00,160 Speaker 1: i sent the top upload of. Reply they were to 3293 02:44:00,200 --> 02:44:02,760 Speaker 1: talk to. Me they've called my fiance multiple times saying 3294 02:44:02,840 --> 02:44:07,000 Speaker 1: things like is this How koreans do their? Business whoa 3295 02:44:07,640 --> 02:44:11,000 Speaker 1: and suggesting she should break up with, that along with 3296 02:44:11,200 --> 02:44:13,879 Speaker 1: other offensive and more racist. 3297 02:44:14,000 --> 02:44:18,680 Speaker 2: Remarks oh my, god oh my, god so chat that 3298 02:44:19,080 --> 02:44:23,720 Speaker 2: ales or not a holes got a big real horror 3299 02:44:23,800 --> 02:44:27,720 Speaker 2: on this. Gentleman wow head. 3300 02:44:27,800 --> 02:44:33,360 Speaker 1: Scratch, well at least we know they're bad tippers and 3301 02:44:37,040 --> 02:44:38,520 Speaker 1: one that they wouldn't pay. 3302 02:44:38,640 --> 02:44:39,760 Speaker 2: For, yeah oh my. 3303 02:44:39,959 --> 02:44:44,920 Speaker 1: God Causar queen says racist a Honey Bunny wait says 3304 02:44:45,080 --> 02:44:47,040 Speaker 1: the WAY i just, screamed was it a sam? 3305 02:44:47,160 --> 02:44:49,400 Speaker 2: Scream like a bad? 3306 02:44:49,480 --> 02:44:52,240 Speaker 1: Wall seven eight to fifty says we're away past asshole 3307 02:44:52,320 --> 02:44:52,520 Speaker 1: at this? 3308 02:44:52,640 --> 02:44:53,120 Speaker 2: Point what do? 3309 02:44:53,200 --> 02:44:55,640 Speaker 1: We what are we? At stinky? Family is that past? 3310 02:44:55,680 --> 02:44:57,000 Speaker 2: Asshole oh, Yeah. 3311 02:44:58,920 --> 02:45:00,440 Speaker 1: Shan, says and are gonna be? 3312 02:45:00,560 --> 02:45:02,440 Speaker 2: Racist she's someone who paid for their. 3313 02:45:02,520 --> 02:45:05,360 Speaker 1: Lunch, man her family is, cheap. 3314 02:45:05,440 --> 02:45:08,960 Speaker 3: Cheap AUNTIE t says he should have responded On Vietnamese. 3315 02:45:10,360 --> 02:45:13,880 Speaker 1: Britney, williams these people are. DELUSIONAL i agree that they are, 3316 02:45:13,920 --> 02:45:18,120 Speaker 1: delusional but you know it's never. Delusional What john potentially 3317 02:45:18,280 --> 02:45:20,000 Speaker 1: reading this next story before we do a couple of 3318 02:45:20,040 --> 02:45:26,520 Speaker 1: color god Where perry, says slimy humans, right Tell john 3319 02:45:26,680 --> 02:45:27,400 Speaker 1: where the fuck he? 3320 02:45:27,560 --> 02:45:27,880 Speaker 2: Is right? 3321 02:45:27,959 --> 02:45:33,320 Speaker 1: Now, Yeah Cherry love four to twenty Says Evil. Family 3322 02:45:33,920 --> 02:45:37,000 Speaker 1: Rachel hatchett, says oh trust, ME i. Will i'm so 3323 02:45:37,200 --> 02:45:40,800 Speaker 1: mad right. Now we're mad. Too Sleepless night says for the. 3324 02:45:40,920 --> 02:45:43,119 Speaker 3: Streets, yep for the, Streets Sleepless. 3325 02:45:43,160 --> 02:45:46,760 Speaker 1: Senate that means it's fact. Fact And rally four Says. 3326 02:45:47,200 --> 02:45:51,720 Speaker 1: Lulu we'll get ready for the De lulu of this next. 3327 02:45:51,760 --> 02:45:54,800 Speaker 1: Story we have a short and sweet. Title i'm taking 3328 02:45:54,920 --> 02:45:56,960 Speaker 1: my mom to. Court that's the. 3329 02:45:57,040 --> 02:46:00,120 Speaker 4: Title this is From Dizzy mama one oh, seven who who, 3330 02:46:00,160 --> 02:46:04,040 Speaker 4: says my mother has finally pushed me too. FAR i 3331 02:46:04,280 --> 02:46:07,480 Speaker 4: thirty four female cut contact with her back in twenty twenty. 3332 02:46:07,520 --> 02:46:11,560 Speaker 4: One she's always favored my son and he became her golden, 3333 02:46:11,680 --> 02:46:14,920 Speaker 4: child so she started trying to use the school to 3334 02:46:15,080 --> 02:46:19,280 Speaker 4: see him without mine or my father's. Permissions AFTER i 3335 02:46:19,400 --> 02:46:22,920 Speaker 4: cut her out of our, lives we quickly put a 3336 02:46:23,000 --> 02:46:25,480 Speaker 4: stop to it by speaking with the, school and my 3337 02:46:25,600 --> 02:46:29,000 Speaker 4: son's father sent a lengthy text telling her to never 3338 02:46:29,200 --> 02:46:32,520 Speaker 4: manipulate the school system to get our son again or 3339 02:46:32,600 --> 02:46:34,760 Speaker 4: we'd take legal, action and he let her know that 3340 02:46:34,879 --> 02:46:36,920 Speaker 4: we've spoken to the school about this and they're very 3341 02:46:36,920 --> 02:46:40,400 Speaker 4: aware of our. Feelings she was mostly quiet for a 3342 02:46:40,520 --> 02:46:43,480 Speaker 4: while after, that BUT i caught her following me once 3343 02:46:43,760 --> 02:46:46,960 Speaker 4: AND i evaded. Her i'm guessing like physically like trailing. 3344 02:46:47,000 --> 02:46:47,360 Speaker 2: Her that's. 3345 02:46:47,560 --> 02:46:51,960 Speaker 4: Insanity she even traveled to another state where my son's 3346 02:46:52,320 --> 02:46:57,200 Speaker 4: father's family vacations almost every year During. Christmas luckily my 3347 02:46:57,320 --> 02:46:58,440 Speaker 4: son happened to not. 3348 02:46:58,600 --> 02:46:59,200 Speaker 1: Be there that. 3349 02:46:59,440 --> 02:47:01,320 Speaker 2: Year, whoa oh my. 3350 02:47:01,440 --> 02:47:05,760 Speaker 1: GOD i have a quick early story question of restraining 3351 02:47:05,920 --> 02:47:11,879 Speaker 1: order or? Not, yeah, yeah, yeah ro in the chat 3352 02:47:11,920 --> 02:47:13,879 Speaker 1: if we're going restraining order because. 3353 02:47:13,800 --> 02:47:14,640 Speaker 2: Why would you guys do? 3354 02:47:14,760 --> 02:47:17,960 Speaker 1: That because this creepy is fucking, Yeah Cassandra perry, says, 3355 02:47:18,000 --> 02:47:20,320 Speaker 1: wait like actually following? Her, YEAH i don't think just On. 3356 02:47:20,400 --> 02:47:22,400 Speaker 1: INSTAGRAM i think following and that is. 3357 02:47:22,480 --> 02:47:25,640 Speaker 2: Weird and then going to the summer home where the 3358 02:47:25,800 --> 02:47:28,040 Speaker 2: sun like. Summers what are we talking? 3359 02:47:28,040 --> 02:47:30,400 Speaker 1: About it, was that's. CRAZY a lot of rows in 3360 02:47:30,440 --> 02:47:33,600 Speaker 1: the chats and the, chat row, row row your boat 3361 02:47:33,720 --> 02:47:36,000 Speaker 1: all the way away from these. People, indeed but let's 3362 02:47:36,000 --> 02:47:36,240 Speaker 1: see what. 3363 02:47:36,360 --> 02:47:40,959 Speaker 4: Happens, well, recently she started volunteering at my son's ten 3364 02:47:41,080 --> 02:47:42,039 Speaker 4: male elementary. 3365 02:47:42,080 --> 02:47:42,400 Speaker 2: School. 3366 02:47:43,440 --> 02:47:47,080 Speaker 4: This oh my, gosh she will not stop A she 3367 02:47:47,280 --> 02:47:49,879 Speaker 4: lives over an hour away and didn't tell the family 3368 02:47:50,040 --> 02:47:53,040 Speaker 4: she had any familial connections, there since she knows we 3369 02:47:53,120 --> 02:47:54,520 Speaker 4: had spoken to the school about her. 3370 02:47:54,520 --> 02:47:59,680 Speaker 1: Antics a while. Back oh my, god, dude we assume. 3371 02:47:59,480 --> 02:48:02,200 Speaker 4: She lied about her address to get approved since she 3372 02:48:02,320 --> 02:48:05,800 Speaker 4: lives so far. Away, anyway she's somehow snuck out of 3373 02:48:05,879 --> 02:48:09,560 Speaker 4: the classroom she was volunteering in and asked another child 3374 02:48:09,800 --> 02:48:11,160 Speaker 4: to get my son out of the. 3375 02:48:11,240 --> 02:48:14,800 Speaker 1: Cafeteria oh my, this this is this is. 3376 02:48:15,000 --> 02:48:15,680 Speaker 2: Abduction this is. 3377 02:48:15,720 --> 02:48:19,640 Speaker 1: Abduction to say that made straight up put abduction put 3378 02:48:19,680 --> 02:48:21,600 Speaker 1: the little aliens to the. CHAT i think this kid's 3379 02:48:21,600 --> 02:48:28,520 Speaker 1: gonna get. Abducted oh my, god what. SICK i hope 3380 02:48:28,520 --> 02:48:34,880 Speaker 1: that doesn't. Happen fe ill. Grandma so this is the 3381 02:48:34,959 --> 02:48:37,199 Speaker 1: grandma that's, like this is great. Grandma. 3382 02:48:37,320 --> 02:48:39,920 Speaker 4: Yeah so she asked another child to get my son 3383 02:48:39,920 --> 02:48:42,920 Speaker 4: out of the cafeteria and spent fifteen minutes crying to, 3384 02:48:43,040 --> 02:48:45,640 Speaker 4: him telling him how unfair That i've. 3385 02:48:45,560 --> 02:48:47,840 Speaker 2: Been and that she's never done anything. 3386 02:48:47,920 --> 02:48:48,760 Speaker 1: Wrong how old is this? 3387 02:48:48,879 --> 02:48:50,680 Speaker 2: Kid he's ten years. Old oh my. 3388 02:48:50,760 --> 02:48:53,920 Speaker 1: God this is like, manipulation big time. Manipulation oh my, 3389 02:48:54,040 --> 02:48:57,160 Speaker 1: god that she has angry baby caxuses grandma got a. 3390 02:48:57,240 --> 02:49:01,800 Speaker 1: Probe wow. Nod oh my. God she goes on to 3391 02:49:01,840 --> 02:49:04,080 Speaker 1: say that she has years of presents for him and 3392 02:49:04,200 --> 02:49:05,520 Speaker 1: he needs to come over to our. 3393 02:49:05,600 --> 02:49:11,480 Speaker 2: House, Man oh my, god lock this woman. 3394 02:49:11,640 --> 02:49:16,440 Speaker 1: Away, okay, wait, actually like, LEGITIMATELY i was like kind 3395 02:49:16,480 --> 02:49:19,039 Speaker 1: of joking, INITIALLY i think she is trying to abduct. 3396 02:49:19,080 --> 02:49:22,080 Speaker 2: HIM i think. So it Wouldn't it would make sense 3397 02:49:22,080 --> 02:49:24,640 Speaker 2: because she's already stalked him and, them. 3398 02:49:24,520 --> 02:49:26,920 Speaker 4: We've already established restraining order or. NOT i think we're 3399 02:49:26,959 --> 02:49:30,600 Speaker 4: on the same page next one for the chat jail or. 3400 02:49:30,640 --> 02:49:34,080 Speaker 2: NOT i don't think at the point be able to 3401 02:49:34,240 --> 02:49:36,240 Speaker 2: couldn't do. It you couldn't because she hasn't done what. 3402 02:49:36,280 --> 02:49:39,720 Speaker 1: You need to tell the squad should you need? Order 3403 02:49:39,840 --> 02:49:43,640 Speaker 1: and she should go straight to, Jail straight to, Jail 3404 02:49:43,640 --> 02:49:46,120 Speaker 1: that's What i'm. Saying worst of, all she told him 3405 02:49:46,200 --> 02:49:48,680 Speaker 1: not to tell anyone that she spoke with him or 3406 02:49:48,840 --> 02:49:51,200 Speaker 1: that he saw. Her and, Also, cassandra this woman does 3407 02:49:51,280 --> 02:49:53,280 Speaker 1: not need. Help it feels like she can abduct him 3408 02:49:53,320 --> 02:49:57,040 Speaker 1: all on her. Own she needs to be should make 3409 02:49:57,080 --> 02:49:58,960 Speaker 1: sure she has no, help and she needs to be. 3410 02:49:59,040 --> 02:50:01,600 Speaker 1: Prisoned AND i, know totally misinterpreting what you're, saying But 3411 02:50:01,680 --> 02:50:03,440 Speaker 1: i'm doing it intentionally for the comedic bit. 3412 02:50:03,560 --> 02:50:08,520 Speaker 4: Period it's unseen a quick tal Ther So, opie this 3413 02:50:08,800 --> 02:50:12,120 Speaker 4: is This opie's MOM i think is an absolute maniac 3414 02:50:12,520 --> 02:50:15,760 Speaker 4: and she is literally like breaking into the school secretly 3415 02:50:15,800 --> 02:50:19,879 Speaker 4: volunteering to try and basically abduct opie, son her. 3416 02:50:20,000 --> 02:50:23,120 Speaker 3: Grandson it is. Crazy the length that wish Just granny Is. 3417 02:50:23,400 --> 02:50:27,279 Speaker 2: YEAH i Like Gwyneth cole's, comment what In merlin's most baggy? 3418 02:50:27,400 --> 02:50:30,880 Speaker 2: Trousers is this What i'm? Thinking the big old. 3419 02:50:31,000 --> 02:50:36,240 Speaker 1: Trowsers my, GOD i felt like my mom was slowly 3420 02:50:36,360 --> 02:50:39,680 Speaker 1: calculating away to eventually take him from the. School my 3421 02:50:39,840 --> 02:50:43,360 Speaker 1: son's father AND i aren't, together but we immediately banded 3422 02:50:43,440 --> 02:50:46,080 Speaker 1: together and spoke to the school's vice principal the next 3423 02:50:46,160 --> 02:50:50,280 Speaker 1: day and decided to file an. Injunction what does that? 3424 02:50:50,480 --> 02:50:50,640 Speaker 2: Mean? 3425 02:50:51,000 --> 02:50:53,199 Speaker 3: Legal people in the, chat can you tell us about. 3426 02:50:56,160 --> 02:50:56,680 Speaker 2: We're a little? 3427 02:50:56,760 --> 02:50:59,440 Speaker 3: Lawyers tell us the, law my. 3428 02:50:59,480 --> 02:51:01,760 Speaker 2: Worm rise, rise. 3429 02:51:03,000 --> 02:51:05,640 Speaker 3: Take the, stand poking. 3430 02:51:05,400 --> 02:51:06,600 Speaker 2: Through the dect of. Justice. 3431 02:51:07,080 --> 02:51:09,280 Speaker 1: Man, also we only have ten minutes left in the. 3432 02:51:09,360 --> 02:51:11,200 Speaker 2: Stream, guys you know what that. 3433 02:51:11,280 --> 02:51:13,280 Speaker 1: MEANS i Think i'm not even gonna say. It i'm 3434 02:51:13,280 --> 02:51:14,760 Speaker 1: not gonna Say i'm not even gonna say say, it 3435 02:51:14,800 --> 02:51:17,760 Speaker 1: but we're gonna Do, collins hopefully before the stream. 3436 02:51:17,879 --> 02:51:20,360 Speaker 4: Ends that's, Right i'm gonna read. Quick the temporary injunction 3437 02:51:20,600 --> 02:51:24,000 Speaker 4: was approved within an hour of. Filing, okay we're working 3438 02:51:24,080 --> 02:51:26,200 Speaker 4: quick on this. JUSTICE i was immediately in. 3439 02:51:26,280 --> 02:51:28,800 Speaker 2: TEARS i was so. Relieved our hearing is coming. 3440 02:51:28,879 --> 02:51:30,800 Speaker 4: Up and the closer it, gets the MORE i find 3441 02:51:30,879 --> 02:51:33,320 Speaker 4: myself questioning What i'm, doing because, again this is like 3442 02:51:33,400 --> 02:51:35,480 Speaker 4: your own, mom SO i can see it feels kind of. 3443 02:51:35,480 --> 02:51:37,920 Speaker 1: Weird, YEAH i Know i'm doing the right, thing but 3444 02:51:38,000 --> 02:51:39,640 Speaker 1: the situation just. Sucks it. 3445 02:51:39,720 --> 02:51:41,920 Speaker 4: Does no one should have to protect themselves or their 3446 02:51:42,000 --> 02:51:45,280 Speaker 4: children from their own parent or. Grandparent it's an awful. 3447 02:51:45,400 --> 02:51:48,760 Speaker 4: FEELING i wish she would have just respected her, boundaries 3448 02:51:48,800 --> 02:51:51,560 Speaker 4: but she's clearly incapable of. THAT i tried so hard 3449 02:51:51,600 --> 02:51:54,320 Speaker 4: to make her understand my boundaries BEFORE i cut contact with. 3450 02:51:54,400 --> 02:51:58,279 Speaker 4: Her her entitlement to my son was. Disgusting she demanded 3451 02:51:58,320 --> 02:52:00,680 Speaker 4: seeing him talking to, him and got very nasty and 3452 02:52:00,800 --> 02:52:03,080 Speaker 4: angry with. Me IF i didn't, oblige or IF i 3453 02:52:03,160 --> 02:52:05,760 Speaker 4: had other plans and couldn't fit her. In she would 3454 02:52:05,840 --> 02:52:08,600 Speaker 4: constantly slip and call him her. 3455 02:52:08,879 --> 02:52:12,920 Speaker 1: Son, Wow, oh this is getting more and more. 3456 02:52:13,000 --> 02:52:16,840 Speaker 4: NUTS i Guess i'm triggered and back in, childhood feeling 3457 02:52:16,920 --> 02:52:17,400 Speaker 4: helpless and. 3458 02:52:17,440 --> 02:52:19,240 Speaker 1: Scared, Yeah i'm sure she was a great mom. EITHER 3459 02:52:20,040 --> 02:52:22,480 Speaker 1: i feel bad That i've HAD i feel bad That 3460 02:52:22,520 --> 02:52:25,000 Speaker 1: i've had to go this. FAR i feel terrible that 3461 02:52:25,080 --> 02:52:25,400 Speaker 1: she's been. 3462 02:52:25,480 --> 02:52:28,680 Speaker 4: SERVED i KNOW i probably shouldn't feel bad because she's 3463 02:52:28,760 --> 02:52:31,400 Speaker 4: probably more embarrassed and worried about how this makes her 3464 02:52:31,480 --> 02:52:34,000 Speaker 4: look more than. Anything it's probably a long, Shot but 3465 02:52:34,120 --> 02:52:35,880 Speaker 4: have any of y'all experienced anything like? 3466 02:52:35,959 --> 02:52:40,640 Speaker 1: This chat chat chat chat type? Type for, us we're 3467 02:52:40,680 --> 02:52:44,080 Speaker 1: almost done as your mom ever tried to abduct your 3468 02:52:44,200 --> 02:52:47,120 Speaker 1: child or anything like? It let us. KNOW i not 3469 02:52:47,440 --> 02:52:50,240 Speaker 1: for y'all, say but let us. Known we can, talk 3470 02:52:50,280 --> 02:52:50,840 Speaker 1: we can console. 3471 02:52:50,879 --> 02:52:52,800 Speaker 2: YOU i have never been to. 3472 02:52:52,879 --> 02:52:55,840 Speaker 1: Court even when my son's father AND i, divorced we 3473 02:52:55,920 --> 02:52:57,160 Speaker 1: were able to settle it on our. 3474 02:52:57,240 --> 02:52:59,480 Speaker 2: OWN i have no idea what to, expect And i'm. 3475 02:52:59,520 --> 02:53:01,120 Speaker 2: SCARED i don't want to see. 3476 02:53:01,160 --> 02:53:03,680 Speaker 4: HER i don't want to hear her lie in court 3477 02:53:03,879 --> 02:53:07,560 Speaker 4: or cry and, manipulate BUT i know it's. Coming the 3478 02:53:07,720 --> 02:53:12,520 Speaker 4: situation is. Heartbreaking sad face. Emoji that is the end 3479 02:53:13,320 --> 02:53:15,279 Speaker 4: of the. Story we are left. 3480 02:53:15,520 --> 02:53:19,039 Speaker 2: With so many, questions with so many, questions with so. 3481 02:53:19,160 --> 02:53:24,960 Speaker 4: Many questions About. Patty patty's uni. Fang Pat snake, says 3482 02:53:25,120 --> 02:53:27,520 Speaker 4: as a daughter of a woman like, this stopped feeling. 3483 02:53:27,600 --> 02:53:29,360 Speaker 2: Bad, ope, YEAH i. 3484 02:53:29,360 --> 02:53:32,680 Speaker 1: THINK i think that's great. Advice, yes stop feeling bad 3485 02:53:32,720 --> 02:53:35,039 Speaker 1: and just do it needs to be done to protect your. 3486 02:53:35,120 --> 02:53:36,840 Speaker 2: Child, exactly absolutely great. 3487 02:53:36,879 --> 02:53:40,240 Speaker 4: Advice PATTY a Bad wolf seventy eight to fifty, says, yep. 3488 02:53:40,120 --> 02:53:43,000 Speaker 1: Claimed my daughter was here and made some discerning. 3489 02:53:43,080 --> 02:53:50,760 Speaker 4: Comments we moved across whoa, wow bad, wolf angela terrible. 3490 02:53:50,840 --> 02:53:54,160 Speaker 1: Stella davis is my bio bitch used to threaten to 3491 02:53:54,240 --> 02:53:56,640 Speaker 1: kidnap me every TIME i got in her. Car oh my. God, 3492 02:53:56,680 --> 02:54:00,440 Speaker 1: okay so it sounds like many people have experienced what 3493 02:54:00,800 --> 02:54:07,080 Speaker 1: helped what. Happens i'm curious through yes and question for. 3494 02:54:07,240 --> 02:54:10,520 Speaker 1: Y'ALL i saw someone in the chat earlier say they 3495 02:54:10,600 --> 02:54:13,000 Speaker 1: want to hear me call my mom and ask about 3496 02:54:13,000 --> 02:54:18,200 Speaker 1: the office. Story would you guys rather office? Story so call? 3497 02:54:18,360 --> 02:54:25,080 Speaker 1: Mom or call ins So mom or more? Callins let 3498 02:54:25,200 --> 02:54:27,720 Speaker 1: us know the chat And david were not. 3499 02:54:27,959 --> 02:54:30,520 Speaker 2: Twins sam is my older, brother. 3500 02:54:30,640 --> 02:54:34,160 Speaker 1: Yeah four years. Older and Then sitan scene says my 3501 02:54:34,320 --> 02:54:37,520 Speaker 1: ex mom in law tried this try to keep my son. 3502 02:54:37,680 --> 02:54:38,800 Speaker 3: AND i had to go. 3503 02:54:39,000 --> 02:54:41,200 Speaker 1: Back, okay you want? It seems like everyone wants everyone 3504 02:54:41,959 --> 02:54:45,480 Speaker 1: and Camm colleiny, says my mom abducted me as a. 3505 02:54:45,560 --> 02:54:48,520 Speaker 1: Kid my dad protected. Me, well amazing that. Happened, okay 3506 02:54:48,560 --> 02:54:50,600 Speaker 1: everyone's saying, mom all, right all, Right i'm Going. 3507 02:54:50,800 --> 02:54:52,640 Speaker 2: Mom all, right here we. 3508 02:54:52,720 --> 02:54:59,920 Speaker 1: Go i'll call her my phone or, actually, yeah call her, there, 3509 02:55:01,120 --> 02:55:05,400 Speaker 1: yeah ohio. NUMBER i don't think she'll pick. 3510 02:55:05,480 --> 02:55:07,240 Speaker 2: Up she, won't she won't pick. 3511 02:55:07,320 --> 02:55:09,200 Speaker 1: Up let me let me just let me just call. 3512 02:55:09,280 --> 02:55:12,080 Speaker 1: Her all, Right i'm calling my. Mom, guy here we. 3513 02:55:12,200 --> 02:55:13,959 Speaker 1: Go do you want to? Do you want to talk 3514 02:55:13,959 --> 02:55:14,960 Speaker 1: to mom and ask her the? 3515 02:55:15,000 --> 02:55:18,680 Speaker 2: Details, no it's about your living. Situation But i'll be 3516 02:55:18,760 --> 02:55:19,400 Speaker 2: here to support. 3517 02:55:19,440 --> 02:55:29,280 Speaker 1: You i'm. Calling it's, ringing ladies and, gentlemen get, ready it's. 3518 02:55:29,440 --> 02:55:34,440 Speaker 1: Coming i'm in The Sondra. Perry i've had six stress induced. 3519 02:55:34,800 --> 02:55:40,880 Speaker 1: Miskid Hey, MOM i have a question for. You yeah 3520 02:55:41,200 --> 02:55:44,880 Speaker 1: AM i, okay yeah you. Are you're With sophia AND, 3521 02:55:44,920 --> 02:55:50,960 Speaker 1: i so really quick. Question we were talking about this 3522 02:55:51,360 --> 02:55:54,600 Speaker 1: kid in a story like like a bit ago where 3523 02:55:54,640 --> 02:55:57,680 Speaker 1: this uh we were talking about this kid who basically 3524 02:55:57,840 --> 02:56:01,400 Speaker 1: was like put in a closet room and was like 3525 02:56:01,440 --> 02:56:04,920 Speaker 1: given a really small. Room And sophia reminded me that 3526 02:56:05,080 --> 02:56:07,800 Speaker 1: when we moved into one of our, Houses sophia got 3527 02:56:07,840 --> 02:56:11,200 Speaker 1: a room with a bunk bed AND i got the 3528 02:56:11,360 --> 02:56:14,800 Speaker 1: room that was shared with the office and the, dog 3529 02:56:15,440 --> 02:56:18,119 Speaker 1: and it was the entertainment room as, well and ALL 3530 02:56:18,200 --> 02:56:20,320 Speaker 1: i had was a bed and there wasn't even really a. 3531 02:56:20,520 --> 02:56:24,520 Speaker 1: Door that is that is just such a. Lie it 3532 02:56:24,640 --> 02:56:28,520 Speaker 1: was the biggest room and you had such a? Lie 3533 02:56:30,480 --> 02:56:32,600 Speaker 1: is that what was did you use? It you used 3534 02:56:32,600 --> 02:56:39,360 Speaker 1: it as the, office didn't? You so it was at the, 3535 02:56:39,400 --> 02:56:44,480 Speaker 1: office and the dog was also in that, room, right the? 3536 02:56:44,760 --> 02:56:46,960 Speaker 1: Dog what do you mean the golden retrieve that you 3537 02:56:47,120 --> 02:56:50,680 Speaker 1: loved to sleep in? Bed, yes so the dog was 3538 02:56:50,760 --> 02:56:52,800 Speaker 1: in the. Room you sound a little bit. 3539 02:56:53,000 --> 02:56:53,960 Speaker 9: ENTITLED i didn't have. 3540 02:56:54,680 --> 02:56:59,680 Speaker 19: ROOM i didn't say, It entitia, Said. 3541 02:57:00,959 --> 02:57:03,320 Speaker 1: And is it also true that we watched movies in 3542 02:57:03,440 --> 02:57:04,800 Speaker 1: that room because we didn't have THE. 3543 02:57:04,879 --> 02:57:07,200 Speaker 2: Tv, well we didn't have A. 3544 02:57:07,280 --> 02:57:12,000 Speaker 1: Tv so what movies on THE iMac you? Had so 3545 02:57:12,560 --> 02:57:17,640 Speaker 1: just to be, clear in that, room in that, room 3546 02:57:18,680 --> 02:57:23,440 Speaker 1: it was your, office the dogs, room the entertainment, room 3547 02:57:24,160 --> 02:57:26,800 Speaker 1: and my. Room, oh oh my, god you sound so 3548 02:57:26,920 --> 02:57:28,199 Speaker 1: privileged the entertainment. 3549 02:57:28,320 --> 02:57:33,040 Speaker 2: Room, seriously you guys should be careful, because oh my, 3550 02:57:33,160 --> 02:57:36,800 Speaker 2: god my poor parents didn't provide me with a separate. Room, 3551 02:57:37,600 --> 02:57:40,120 Speaker 2: DUDE i didn't even. Remember sophia brought it. 3552 02:57:40,240 --> 02:57:43,840 Speaker 17: Up, well what what sort of financial contribution where you 3553 02:57:44,000 --> 02:57:45,920 Speaker 17: keep saying costing us? 3554 02:57:46,040 --> 02:57:52,080 Speaker 2: Money private school swim? Lessons, yes, yes you swim. 3555 02:57:53,560 --> 02:57:55,800 Speaker 1: Entitled you, guys you know. 3556 02:57:55,920 --> 02:58:00,000 Speaker 2: WHAT i was happy with my, room. Mom uh Was. 3557 02:58:00,320 --> 02:58:05,720 Speaker 1: Sophia's trying to stoke? THIS i wasn't complaining, Anyway NIKKI 3558 02:58:05,760 --> 02:58:08,240 Speaker 1: p thanks for the ten dollars. Tip tell your, MOM i, said, 3559 02:58:08,280 --> 02:58:11,640 Speaker 1: gooday longtime, listener first time. TIPPER i love you. Guys, 3560 02:58:12,440 --> 02:58:16,000 Speaker 1: uh there was a there's a there was a person that, 3561 02:58:16,120 --> 02:58:18,400 Speaker 1: said hell from the from the. 3562 02:58:18,440 --> 02:58:22,560 Speaker 2: Stream. Yeah well all, Right well you. 3563 02:58:22,560 --> 02:58:24,680 Speaker 19: Guys cost us a lot of, money And i'm so 3564 02:58:25,040 --> 02:58:26,000 Speaker 19: sorry you didn't. 3565 02:58:25,800 --> 02:58:26,400 Speaker 7: Have your own. 3566 02:58:26,600 --> 02:58:29,240 Speaker 2: Room, WELL i love you so. Much. 3567 02:58:29,400 --> 02:58:31,880 Speaker 1: MOM i don't care IF i shared a room with, 3568 02:58:32,080 --> 02:58:37,400 Speaker 1: you the dog and the entertainment. Room i'm just. Glad 3569 02:58:37,720 --> 02:58:40,080 Speaker 1: I'M i was close enough to my mom that she 3570 02:58:40,280 --> 02:58:41,800 Speaker 1: trusted me to sleep while she was. 3571 02:58:41,879 --> 02:58:45,800 Speaker 2: Working, right you had your own iMac where you made 3572 02:58:45,840 --> 02:58:48,800 Speaker 2: your own movies and you set The you set the, 3573 02:58:49,760 --> 02:58:53,400 Speaker 2: uh you set the road or set the tone for you. 3574 02:58:53,720 --> 02:58:54,440 Speaker 10: Doing what you're. 3575 02:58:54,480 --> 02:58:55,360 Speaker 9: Doing, now that is. 3576 02:58:55,480 --> 02:58:58,440 Speaker 1: TRUE i guess LIKE i guess like because you were, 3577 02:58:58,480 --> 02:59:00,920 Speaker 1: WORKING i thought LIKE i had to work, too because 3578 02:59:00,920 --> 02:59:02,039 Speaker 1: it was the, office. 3579 02:59:04,160 --> 02:59:07,680 Speaker 2: You learned how to use computer program program is watching? 3580 02:59:07,800 --> 02:59:13,160 Speaker 1: Me, yeah this is, true this is. True, Well, MOM 3581 02:59:13,280 --> 02:59:14,959 Speaker 1: i love you so. Much i'll call you later, today 3582 02:59:15,080 --> 02:59:17,959 Speaker 1: but we just have to get. CLARITY i love you By. 3583 02:59:19,800 --> 02:59:20,000 Speaker 9: Yeah. 3584 02:59:20,120 --> 02:59:22,880 Speaker 2: Sure sam's mom is the. 3585 02:59:23,120 --> 02:59:24,800 Speaker 1: Greatest she is the. 3586 02:59:25,040 --> 02:59:28,000 Speaker 6: Greatest oh my, god she Is. 3587 02:59:28,120 --> 02:59:30,279 Speaker 2: Australian australian if you couldn't. 3588 02:59:30,320 --> 02:59:35,000 Speaker 1: Tell, Yeah AND i think we're about to wrap up this. 3589 02:59:35,280 --> 02:59:39,200 Speaker 1: Chat this street is about thirty. Seconds but my, MOM 3590 02:59:39,320 --> 02:59:42,000 Speaker 1: i love my. Mother that was So, yeah my mom 3591 02:59:42,160 --> 02:59:44,560 Speaker 1: is great mom or daughter telling it how it is, 3592 02:59:44,840 --> 02:59:47,440 Speaker 1: honestly like to be. HONEST i know it sounds, bad 3593 02:59:47,520 --> 02:59:50,680 Speaker 1: BUT i literally did not think anything of it Until 3594 02:59:50,720 --> 02:59:52,160 Speaker 1: sophia framed. 3595 02:59:51,800 --> 02:59:54,119 Speaker 2: It where she's, like you, know you shared your room 3596 02:59:54,200 --> 02:59:56,360 Speaker 2: but the office and the. Dog it really wasn't like 3597 02:59:56,520 --> 02:59:58,680 Speaker 2: it was a big. Room it wasn't like tight or. 3598 02:59:58,720 --> 02:59:59,760 Speaker 2: Anything stam had. 3599 02:59:59,840 --> 03:00:03,000 Speaker 1: A i had A, YEAH i had a. Bed what 3600 03:00:03,080 --> 03:00:03,879 Speaker 1: are you gonna do about? 3601 03:00:03,879 --> 03:00:03,920 Speaker 16: It? 3602 03:00:04,000 --> 03:00:09,400 Speaker 1: YEAH i HONESTLY i enjoyed that. Room but if you love, 3603 03:00:09,560 --> 03:00:12,720 Speaker 1: us make sure to. Subscribe we love. You