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Speaker 3: I ended a six year relationship. His mother asked for

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Speaker 3: a meeting behind his back.

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Speaker 2: Wait, what what do you want to meet about?

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Speaker 3: Were contact? I, twenty five female, broke up with my boyfriend,

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Speaker 3: twenty five mail of six years a few weeks ago.

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Speaker 3: It was an amazing six years together. We were always

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Speaker 3: happy and never had any issues. But I made a

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Speaker 3: lot of sacrifices to keep us together. By the way,

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Speaker 3: Okay Storytime severed it. I'm Sophia and I'm Savannah, and

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Speaker 3: we're here to give good advice. Goofy, But we don't

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Speaker 3: have all the answers. We only know what we'd do,

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Speaker 3: So let us know what you would do in the

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Speaker 3: comments and OPI says, for instance, I paid thousands of

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Speaker 3: dollars to get a visa and move to his country.

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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Speaker 3: I also turned down my dream job to get a

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Speaker 3: job in his city.

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Speaker 4: And over the.

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Speaker 3: Past year, I started realizing that I haven't made any

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Speaker 3: decisions for myself. I finally decided that I don't want

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Speaker 3: to wake up one day regretting that I've lived my

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Speaker 3: whole life for someone else. I doubt my ex gave

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Speaker 3: as much of an explanation when he told his parents,

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Speaker 3: so I'm sure they thought something must have happened to

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Speaker 3: just this morning, his mom's sixty female messaged me. I

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Speaker 3: was expecting something along the lines of we're sorry to

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Speaker 3: hear about the breakup, but we hope you know we'll always.

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Speaker 4: Be there for you. But I was very wrong.

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Speaker 3: She started with, as you can imagine, we are rather

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Speaker 3: shell shocked after ex boyfriend broke The news that you've

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Speaker 3: she says her and my ex's dad will be in

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Speaker 3: on their way home. She says they want to hear

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Speaker 5: Now, how about you are not in a relationship, so

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Speaker 5: you have no say yeah.

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Speaker 3: She then ends the message by saying not to tell

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Speaker 3: she's meddling in things. That's exactly what you're doing. I

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Speaker 3: don't want him to know exactly what I'm doing right now.

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Speaker 3: I am meddling in things and he just can't know.

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Speaker 3: I told a couple people about it, but they all

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Speaker 3: think it's sweet, and then I should do it.

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Speaker 4: Who thinks this is sweet? What is so sweet about it?

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Speaker 4: I'm sorry.

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Speaker 3: If Savennah was like, yeah, I broke up with my

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Speaker 3: ex and his mom reached out and says, I want

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Speaker 3: to know why exactly you broke up, I'd be like,

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Speaker 5: Yeah no, I would never I'd be like, yeah, it

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Speaker 5: I don't know. I who cares? Like we broke up?

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Speaker 5: Why do you need to be in the middle of it?

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Speaker 3: But it just feels wrong to me. She's always been

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Speaker 3: are basically asking me to not tell her either. Secondly,

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Speaker 3: Am I overreacting? Should I just do what my friends

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Speaker 4: Please help? And we've got an update. If you don't

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Speaker 4: want to meet up with them, don't meet up with them.

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Speaker 5: No, one's forcing me to do this. And I feel

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Speaker 5: like you don't owe her an explanation about like your relationship.

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Speaker 5: She wasn't a part of it, Like literally, yeah, she's

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Speaker 5: So like I don't understand why she's like, well, I

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Speaker 3: Please?

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Speaker 4: How do relationship update?

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Speaker 3: Seem that there were two groups of people, one those

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Speaker 4: Agree with both of those sentiments.

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Speaker 3: So I politely told her that I didn't feel comfortable

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Speaker 3: is the shortened version of what I wrote, excluding any

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Speaker 3: personally identifying information. Hi, thank you again for reaching out.

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Speaker 3: I don't think it would be fair to your son

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Speaker 3: been a shock to hear from your son that I

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Speaker 3: be easy to assume that something had happened or he

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Speaker 3: without considering whether it's what I really want for my life.

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Speaker 3: I've loved my time in this country. You guys have

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Speaker 3: I'm not sure if it was ever what was right

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Speaker 4: I guess I could see her like the mother in law.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I could see mother in law saying like, oh, like,

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Speaker 5: you know what, so you're just gonna jump them so

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Speaker 4: Your own thing and then come back. Yeah, that's not cool.

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Speaker 3: I hope that's not the answer that she gives.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I hope she's kind of cool with this, but

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Speaker 4: I mean, eh, but then who cares.

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Speaker 3: Yesterday I got another message from her. I was a

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Speaker 4: How lovely. Okay, wow, so sweet. I thought this was

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Speaker 3: No, very nice and all very happy with her response,

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Speaker 5: I mean, you did it, it all worked out, and

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Speaker 5: just really that was just not something that I thought, Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 3: Attacked or something, and then she threatened me.

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Speaker 4: That's not what happened here, and and I like that.

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Speaker 5: I like the positive ending we have, although I don't

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Speaker 6: And there you go, boom.

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Speaker 3: This is perfect, perfect ending, easy breakup. You're moving to

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Speaker 4: It, and that's the end of this story. We're going

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Speaker 5: My girlfriend sister gave her an ultimatum about our living situation.

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Speaker 5: Oh no, I've been with my girlfriend for three years.

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Speaker 4: I'm Savannah, I'm Sophia.

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Speaker 5: We're here to give some good advice goofy, but we

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Speaker 5: don't have all the answers. We don't only let you

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Speaker 5: should let us know what you would do in the comments.

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Speaker 5: As Opie says, but here's the thing. Her sister wants

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Speaker 5: him were originally planning on living together, but my plans

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Speaker 5: So where does that leave me The living room, which

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Speaker 5: also said the rent would be split equally four ways,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, no, and what you know what I think? What like, well,

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Speaker 5: And then my girlfriend realized it was epped up for

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Speaker 5: So my girlfriend decided to live by herself when Arlie

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Speaker 5: durations here. We then watched Free Solo and it was kind.

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Speaker 4: Of like our relationship.

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Speaker 3: Climbing documentary, like Alex Ottle Climbing Freaking.

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Speaker 4: Is it Capita?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Captain is a metaphor for my relationship.

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Speaker 4: I'm just thinking about.

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Speaker 3: The part where he's like, uh, his girlfriend and pants

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Speaker 4: And the girlfriend's like, oh, oh pee, he's just there.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. I think they have a very loving relationship. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: You are not moving into that situation. Your girlfriend finally realized, Oh,

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Speaker 4: Yeah, do you have your own place? Are you? What's

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Speaker 5: My girlfriend's final messages about her feelings was met with

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Speaker 5: I'm happy, my girlfriend is happy. I'm not commenting on

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Speaker 3: Smart man, smart man, smart man, smart don't don't even

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Speaker 4: And that's the end of this story. We're going on

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Speaker 3: My girlfriend did something crazy at a party and blame.

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Speaker 5: So what is she like?

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Speaker 6: Flash everyone On.

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Speaker 3: Saturday night, my twenty three male girlfriend, twenty one female

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Speaker 4: I'm Sophia and I'm Savannah, and we're here to give

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Speaker 3: Scoofy, but we don't have all the answers. We only

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Speaker 4: We're in this little.

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Speaker 3: minute later, another one of her roommates and her boyfriend,

441
00:19:21,160 --> 00:19:24,080
Speaker 3: both late twenties, arrive as well and come join in.

442
00:19:24,520 --> 00:19:26,560
Speaker 5: Okay, when you say join in, you mean like everyone's

443
00:19:26,600 --> 00:19:27,200
Speaker 5: now topless?

444
00:19:27,280 --> 00:19:30,760
Speaker 4: Or what is everyone topless? What's happening? Are you topless?

445
00:19:31,600 --> 00:19:33,720
Speaker 3: I've only briefly met all these people since me and

446
00:19:33,760 --> 00:19:36,720
Speaker 3: girlfriend have only been together four months, but they all

447
00:19:36,760 --> 00:19:39,080
Speaker 3: seem cool, so I don't really care if girlfriend wants

448
00:19:39,080 --> 00:19:41,879
Speaker 3: to get her chest out in front of everyone, but

449
00:19:42,000 --> 00:19:44,639
Speaker 3: her friend decides having hers out at that moment isn't

450
00:19:44,640 --> 00:19:46,200
Speaker 3: what she wants, so she puts her bra and T

451
00:19:46,320 --> 00:19:49,159
Speaker 3: shirt back on. So my girlfriend stays topless for the

452
00:19:49,240 --> 00:19:51,560
Speaker 3: rest of the night as we all continue hanging out

453
00:19:51,600 --> 00:19:54,800
Speaker 3: and occasionally getting a good look in or complimenting my

454
00:19:54,880 --> 00:19:58,600
Speaker 3: girlfriend's chest, which again I don't care, and girlfriend definitely

455
00:19:58,640 --> 00:20:00,920
Speaker 3: didn't seem to mind either. I'd go as far as

456
00:20:00,960 --> 00:20:03,679
Speaker 3: to say she was enjoying it. It is a little

457
00:20:03,720 --> 00:20:08,400
Speaker 3: weird just to be like topless in front of yeah,

458
00:20:08,440 --> 00:20:10,680
Speaker 3: a bunch of people, a bunch of like the only

459
00:20:10,760 --> 00:20:13,480
Speaker 3: person too, Like I get in, like you own your

460
00:20:13,480 --> 00:20:14,480
Speaker 3: own house, like cool?

461
00:20:14,680 --> 00:20:18,679
Speaker 5: Yeah, but then also while like people are coming in

462
00:20:18,720 --> 00:20:19,320
Speaker 5: and out.

463
00:20:19,600 --> 00:20:22,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, girlfriend and some other guy's boyfriend comes in.

464
00:20:23,880 --> 00:20:25,440
Speaker 5: I think that's a little I'd be like, oh my god,

465
00:20:25,440 --> 00:20:27,520
Speaker 5: I'm sorry, we were doing something.

466
00:20:27,560 --> 00:20:31,080
Speaker 4: We're just goofing. We're just having a big goof over here. Sorry,

467
00:20:31,119 --> 00:20:32,960
Speaker 4: and apparently our shirt's goofed off.

468
00:20:33,520 --> 00:20:35,960
Speaker 3: After a while, the party starts to wind down, so

469
00:20:36,160 --> 00:20:38,520
Speaker 3: friend gets an uber home and the rest of us

470
00:20:38,600 --> 00:20:40,960
Speaker 3: go to bed, and girlfriend never put her top back on.

471
00:20:41,640 --> 00:20:45,439
Speaker 3: Next morning, she's hungover and really embarrassed she was dressed.

472
00:20:45,440 --> 00:20:47,320
Speaker 3: It's gonna be weird now that one of her best

473
00:20:47,359 --> 00:20:51,240
Speaker 3: friends and two housemates and one of their significant others

474
00:20:51,240 --> 00:20:53,480
Speaker 3: have seen her chest. I just said, it's not.

475
00:20:53,440 --> 00:20:55,760
Speaker 4: A big deal, your own fault.

476
00:20:55,800 --> 00:20:57,760
Speaker 3: You had like two hours to change that.

477
00:20:58,080 --> 00:21:00,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, and your friend had, you know, the right mind

478
00:21:00,800 --> 00:21:01,080
Speaker 4: to be.

479
00:21:01,080 --> 00:21:03,720
Speaker 5: Like, yeah, this is a little weird now, it's not

480
00:21:03,760 --> 00:21:04,560
Speaker 5: just us anymore.

481
00:21:05,040 --> 00:21:06,920
Speaker 3: None of them seemed to mine, and no one took

482
00:21:06,960 --> 00:21:10,280
Speaker 3: pictures or anything, so what's the harm? Just drunken shenanigans.

483
00:21:10,960 --> 00:21:13,120
Speaker 3: Then she kind of turned on me so that since

484
00:21:13,160 --> 00:21:15,440
Speaker 3: I could tell she was obviously wasted, that I should

485
00:21:15,440 --> 00:21:18,680
Speaker 3: have stopped her from humiliating herself, especially since I wasn't

486
00:21:18,680 --> 00:21:21,440
Speaker 3: moor in control. I told her that was stupid. She's

487
00:21:21,480 --> 00:21:25,240
Speaker 3: an adult who chose to drink. Absolutely, how's that? Hope's fault. Yeah,

488
00:21:25,400 --> 00:21:27,520
Speaker 3: Like imagine, you know, he goes help, you know, put

489
00:21:27,520 --> 00:21:29,960
Speaker 3: your top back on, and she goes, you're trying to

490
00:21:30,000 --> 00:21:33,640
Speaker 3: control me. Yeah, and then that's the new issue exactly.

491
00:21:33,720 --> 00:21:36,320
Speaker 5: It seems like this is a lose lose, like whether

492
00:21:36,400 --> 00:21:38,720
Speaker 5: you do something or don't do something, it's still gonna

493
00:21:38,760 --> 00:21:39,919
Speaker 5: have a negative outcome.

494
00:21:40,000 --> 00:21:43,679
Speaker 3: So I'll stop her from bringing harm to herself when wasted.

495
00:21:43,760 --> 00:21:46,879
Speaker 3: But she chose to get her chest out. She just

496
00:21:46,920 --> 00:21:48,960
Speaker 3: snapped back at me. So I put some clothes on

497
00:21:49,040 --> 00:21:50,720
Speaker 3: and went back to my place to give her some

498
00:21:50,800 --> 00:21:53,840
Speaker 3: time to cool down. But that was yesterday morning, and

499
00:21:53,880 --> 00:21:56,680
Speaker 3: she's been slow to respond and ignoring me since then.

500
00:21:57,400 --> 00:22:00,000
Speaker 3: I think this will all blow over, and she's overreacting

501
00:22:00,480 --> 00:22:02,879
Speaker 3: and now being stubborn and looking for someone else to

502
00:22:02,920 --> 00:22:05,479
Speaker 3: blame for it, though I haven't told her that of course,

503
00:22:05,600 --> 00:22:08,480
Speaker 3: at least not yet. I didn't encourage her to drink

504
00:22:08,600 --> 00:22:11,280
Speaker 3: or flash, nor really think I should say what she

505
00:22:11,359 --> 00:22:12,199
Speaker 3: does with her body.

506
00:22:12,320 --> 00:22:13,320
Speaker 4: But am I the ale?

507
00:22:13,600 --> 00:22:14,200
Speaker 6: Should I have.

508
00:22:14,160 --> 00:22:17,120
Speaker 3: Told her to put her top back on? She was tipsy,

509
00:22:17,160 --> 00:22:20,960
Speaker 3: but not hammered, by the way, Now, Dad, you're fine.

510
00:22:21,800 --> 00:22:25,359
Speaker 5: This is her own problem, and yeah, if she regrets it,

511
00:22:25,400 --> 00:22:27,280
Speaker 5: then she shouldn't have done in the first place. And

512
00:22:27,320 --> 00:22:31,520
Speaker 5: even though in like I understand, like you know, she's tipsy,

513
00:22:31,600 --> 00:22:34,640
Speaker 5: like had a few drinks whatever, but like that you

514
00:22:34,760 --> 00:22:36,440
Speaker 5: still make decisions.

515
00:22:36,600 --> 00:22:40,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, tipsy is not enough to be like I didn't

516
00:22:40,480 --> 00:22:42,960
Speaker 3: even think, you know, like I didn't want to take

517
00:22:42,960 --> 00:22:45,280
Speaker 3: my top off at all, and I just was drink.

518
00:22:45,320 --> 00:22:48,560
Speaker 4: It's like, no, you actively wanted to do that. Yeah, Like,

519
00:22:48,720 --> 00:22:52,359
Speaker 4: also she was doing that for the whole night, two hours.

520
00:22:52,520 --> 00:22:55,000
Speaker 3: She could not have been consistently the same I mean,

521
00:22:55,000 --> 00:22:56,879
Speaker 3: like maybe she could have, Like I doubt she was

522
00:22:56,880 --> 00:22:59,640
Speaker 3: consistently the same amount of tipsy the whole time.

523
00:22:59,480 --> 00:22:59,679
Speaker 6: You know.

524
00:23:00,080 --> 00:23:02,560
Speaker 5: And also why you know, if this is the case,

525
00:23:02,720 --> 00:23:04,879
Speaker 5: why aren't you yelling at your friend? Then she'd be like,

526
00:23:04,880 --> 00:23:06,400
Speaker 5: why didn't you tell me to put my inner shirt

527
00:23:06,400 --> 00:23:09,160
Speaker 5: back on? You know, like you're just yelling at ope

528
00:23:09,640 --> 00:23:11,720
Speaker 5: when the friend yeah did put her shirt on, and

529
00:23:11,720 --> 00:23:12,919
Speaker 5: then like later on left.

530
00:23:12,920 --> 00:23:15,399
Speaker 3: But like she just is embarrassed and she's trying to

531
00:23:15,400 --> 00:23:18,399
Speaker 3: blame anyone. And you guys are four months into the relationship.

532
00:23:19,640 --> 00:23:22,640
Speaker 3: If she doesn't like apologize for this behavior, I would.

533
00:23:22,520 --> 00:23:25,919
Speaker 4: Be it's a red flack. Update.

534
00:23:26,320 --> 00:23:28,240
Speaker 3: So I managed to get through to her this morning

535
00:23:28,280 --> 00:23:30,639
Speaker 3: before I had to work. She apologized for how she

536
00:23:30,720 --> 00:23:33,520
Speaker 3: treated me after that and semi agreed that it wasn't

537
00:23:33,560 --> 00:23:36,760
Speaker 3: my responsibility to stop her from going or staying topless

538
00:23:36,760 --> 00:23:39,280
Speaker 3: in a crowded room. I said it's okay, and took

539
00:23:39,280 --> 00:23:41,040
Speaker 3: some of the advice from the comments and told her

540
00:23:41,040 --> 00:23:43,280
Speaker 3: if she wants me to limit how far she goes

541
00:23:43,560 --> 00:23:46,960
Speaker 3: when she's to let me know. But otherwise, there wasn't

542
00:23:47,000 --> 00:23:49,280
Speaker 3: anything about her having her chest out then and there

543
00:23:49,400 --> 00:23:51,000
Speaker 3: that made me feel like I should.

544
00:23:50,720 --> 00:23:52,480
Speaker 4: Have jumped in, so I didn't.

545
00:23:53,119 --> 00:23:55,159
Speaker 3: She said she'd think about what her boundaries should be

546
00:23:55,680 --> 00:23:57,600
Speaker 3: and let me know if I can or should help

547
00:23:57,600 --> 00:24:02,080
Speaker 3: with that. Hey awesome that I haven't heard how things

548
00:24:02,119 --> 00:24:04,480
Speaker 3: are now between her and her housemates and friend, But

549
00:24:04,520 --> 00:24:06,800
Speaker 3: I'm not gonnap press the issue. No news is good

550
00:24:06,800 --> 00:24:09,240
Speaker 3: news in my opinion. Still don't think there are the

551
00:24:09,280 --> 00:24:11,919
Speaker 3: types to really care all that much. If they did,

552
00:24:11,960 --> 00:24:14,520
Speaker 3: they would have left the room. And for the record,

553
00:24:14,560 --> 00:24:17,000
Speaker 3: she's not done anything like that for as long as

554
00:24:17,040 --> 00:24:19,520
Speaker 3: I've known her, who's always acted like the good girl

555
00:24:19,560 --> 00:24:21,600
Speaker 3: type and talked about how she's never been much of

556
00:24:21,640 --> 00:24:24,280
Speaker 3: a partier. But you know what they say, A lady

557
00:24:24,320 --> 00:24:26,880
Speaker 3: on the street's freaking the den with a six peck

558
00:24:27,040 --> 00:24:32,920
Speaker 3: cighter in her whoa what they say all those words.

559
00:24:34,359 --> 00:24:37,879
Speaker 5: Well, you're four months in this could be like you know,

560
00:24:38,040 --> 00:24:40,080
Speaker 5: they always say, like give it like three months then

561
00:24:40,119 --> 00:24:44,600
Speaker 5: you'll see like true colors or whatever. Yeah, and you know,

562
00:24:44,680 --> 00:24:48,080
Speaker 5: she apologized, She's like, sorry, honestly.

563
00:24:48,560 --> 00:24:52,600
Speaker 4: That was my thing, My bad, my bad. Uh.

564
00:24:52,880 --> 00:24:56,040
Speaker 5: If you know, just like next time, maybe like I'm

565
00:24:56,040 --> 00:24:59,160
Speaker 5: gonna say it now next time, help me a little bit.

566
00:24:59,240 --> 00:25:02,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think that was really well, So, you know,

567
00:25:03,600 --> 00:25:05,720
Speaker 3: talk don't know away, but.

568
00:25:05,760 --> 00:25:06,520
Speaker 4: For now we're good.

569
00:25:06,680 --> 00:25:09,639
Speaker 3: Thanks to all that responded with some helpful perspectives and

570
00:25:09,720 --> 00:25:12,480
Speaker 3: advice To those that dm'd or commented saying I should

571
00:25:12,480 --> 00:25:13,120
Speaker 3: break up with her.

572
00:25:13,480 --> 00:25:14,399
Speaker 4: You don't know her or.

573
00:25:14,480 --> 00:25:17,040
Speaker 3: Us, nor were you there, so keep your noses out

574
00:25:17,080 --> 00:25:19,080
Speaker 3: of it, please Fox. She's owned up to it now

575
00:25:19,119 --> 00:25:22,000
Speaker 3: and apologize shows enough maturity and care for me that

576
00:25:22,040 --> 00:25:24,919
Speaker 3: I want to stay with her. So well, let bygones

577
00:25:24,960 --> 00:25:28,000
Speaker 3: be bygones and learn from this. But once again, thanks

578
00:25:28,000 --> 00:25:31,120
Speaker 3: to all the other helpful commenters. You guys help reassure

579
00:25:31,200 --> 00:25:33,920
Speaker 3: me when I was feeling down and confused about everything

580
00:25:33,960 --> 00:25:35,440
Speaker 3: that had happened and that's.

581
00:25:35,240 --> 00:25:36,320
Speaker 4: The end of that story.

582
00:25:37,160 --> 00:25:40,399
Speaker 5: My boyfriend got jealous of my cat, but I chose

583
00:25:40,440 --> 00:25:41,360
Speaker 5: my cat over him.

584
00:25:41,600 --> 00:25:43,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, you were right to be jealous, bud.

585
00:25:43,600 --> 00:25:46,840
Speaker 5: So I'm twenty four female and my boyfriend, who i'll

586
00:25:46,880 --> 00:25:50,320
Speaker 5: call Nathan, twenty six male, have.

587
00:25:50,359 --> 00:25:52,280
Speaker 4: Been together for around two years.

588
00:25:52,560 --> 00:25:55,280
Speaker 5: I got my cat Toby six years ago and I

589
00:25:55,359 --> 00:25:57,600
Speaker 5: love him with all my heart. By the way, this

590
00:25:57,720 --> 00:26:00,120
Speaker 5: comes from Okay syllabub.

591
00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:02,160
Speaker 4: D eighty seven. If you want to submit your.

592
00:26:02,040 --> 00:26:04,600
Speaker 5: Own stories, go to the r slash Okay story time subreddit.

593
00:26:04,680 --> 00:26:06,160
Speaker 5: I'm Savannah, I'm Sophia.

594
00:26:06,480 --> 00:26:08,399
Speaker 4: We're here to give some good advice goofley, but we

595
00:26:08,440 --> 00:26:09,760
Speaker 4: don't have all the little answers.

596
00:26:09,920 --> 00:26:11,280
Speaker 5: We don't let you know what we would do in

597
00:26:11,280 --> 00:26:12,800
Speaker 5: this situation, but let us know what you would do

598
00:26:12,960 --> 00:26:13,800
Speaker 5: down the comments.

599
00:26:13,880 --> 00:26:16,200
Speaker 4: As Opie says, last.

600
00:26:15,960 --> 00:26:18,400
Speaker 5: Night, Nathan came over to my apartment and we were

601
00:26:18,440 --> 00:26:21,120
Speaker 5: just sitting on my couch watching Netflix while eating snacks,

602
00:26:21,320 --> 00:26:24,159
Speaker 5: pretty standard stuff. Obi eventually jumped onto the couch and

603
00:26:24,200 --> 00:26:26,960
Speaker 5: started trying to cuddle with me. Nathan seemed to get

604
00:26:26,960 --> 00:26:29,439
Speaker 5: a bit pissed off at this, but I ignored it

605
00:26:29,520 --> 00:26:32,680
Speaker 5: and started cuddling Toby. After a few minutes, he started

606
00:26:32,840 --> 00:26:37,880
Speaker 5: subtenly trying to push Toby off me. I got really

607
00:26:37,960 --> 00:26:40,960
Speaker 5: confused at this and asked what the heck he was doing.

608
00:26:41,640 --> 00:26:44,280
Speaker 5: He started talking about how Toby was taking all my

609
00:26:44,400 --> 00:26:48,080
Speaker 5: attention and that he felt unloved. Mind you, I didn't

610
00:26:48,119 --> 00:26:51,720
Speaker 5: stop being affectionate with him. While cuddling Toby, my head

611
00:26:51,760 --> 00:26:53,639
Speaker 5: was on his shoulder and I was holding his hand

612
00:26:53,640 --> 00:26:54,480
Speaker 5: with my free one.

613
00:26:54,840 --> 00:26:57,199
Speaker 3: He's like, you're not touching me, enof I need you

614
00:26:57,240 --> 00:26:58,280
Speaker 3: to be on top of me.

615
00:26:58,359 --> 00:27:00,760
Speaker 4: Sorry, I need both hands in the air. Mhmm, thank you.

616
00:27:00,960 --> 00:27:02,880
Speaker 4: Drands on me, mind your back.

617
00:27:03,240 --> 00:27:05,960
Speaker 5: I told him that he was being ridiculous, and he said,

618
00:27:06,200 --> 00:27:07,400
Speaker 5: I'm not being ridiculous.

619
00:27:07,680 --> 00:27:09,639
Speaker 4: You just like that dumb cat more than me.

620
00:27:10,000 --> 00:27:12,879
Speaker 5: I was pissed and tired at this point, so I

621
00:27:12,960 --> 00:27:14,240
Speaker 5: just asked him to leave my apartment.

622
00:27:14,480 --> 00:27:16,720
Speaker 4: Yes, as you should. Nice.

623
00:27:17,160 --> 00:27:19,440
Speaker 5: He's been blowing up my phone ever since he got home,

624
00:27:19,480 --> 00:27:22,160
Speaker 5: saying stuff like I can't believe you threw me out

625
00:27:22,800 --> 00:27:25,639
Speaker 5: over that stupid cat, and all I wanted was for

626
00:27:25,680 --> 00:27:26,760
Speaker 5: you to pay attention to me.

627
00:27:27,440 --> 00:27:30,919
Speaker 4: I haven't responded yet. Am I the ale in you?

628
00:27:30,920 --> 00:27:32,080
Speaker 4: You're not see a whole?

629
00:27:32,400 --> 00:27:35,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, he's the a hole for literally just like everything.

630
00:27:36,080 --> 00:27:38,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, just like being jealous of a freaking cat.

631
00:27:38,800 --> 00:27:42,040
Speaker 5: Come on, dude, Like that's the whole thing for animals

632
00:27:42,040 --> 00:27:45,000
Speaker 5: is that they like give affection. Yes, as you can

633
00:27:45,040 --> 00:27:48,840
Speaker 5: see right now, see literally there's a dog right here

634
00:27:50,000 --> 00:27:51,040
Speaker 5: really wants affection.

635
00:27:53,400 --> 00:27:54,879
Speaker 4: But yeah, there's an update.

636
00:27:55,119 --> 00:27:57,720
Speaker 5: After making my post, I honestly didn't expect to get

637
00:27:57,760 --> 00:27:59,960
Speaker 5: all the support I got. I want to thank every

638
00:28:00,040 --> 00:28:02,360
Speaker 5: want who help me realize something was up with him

639
00:28:02,359 --> 00:28:05,440
Speaker 5: before it was too late. Something that was said in

640
00:28:05,520 --> 00:28:08,240
Speaker 5: multiple comments was that Nathan might try to get rid

641
00:28:08,240 --> 00:28:09,840
Speaker 5: of Toby if I stayed with him.

642
00:28:09,920 --> 00:28:11,440
Speaker 4: Mm hm.

643
00:28:11,480 --> 00:28:15,119
Speaker 5: At first, I thought that was ridiculous. Then I started

644
00:28:15,119 --> 00:28:18,000
Speaker 5: thinking back and it started to make more and more

645
00:28:18,119 --> 00:28:21,359
Speaker 5: sense to me. For example, a few years back, but

646
00:28:21,359 --> 00:28:24,800
Speaker 5: I got a plushy of Cardinal Kopia. It was absolutely hideous,

647
00:28:24,800 --> 00:28:26,919
Speaker 5: but I loved it. I used to get many jewelry

648
00:28:27,000 --> 00:28:29,000
Speaker 5: and clothes to put on him and stuff like that.

649
00:28:29,080 --> 00:28:31,800
Speaker 5: When we got together. Nathan made his dislike for the

650
00:28:31,800 --> 00:28:36,600
Speaker 5: plushy extremely obvious. Then one day, Nathan accidentally dropped him

651
00:28:36,600 --> 00:28:39,360
Speaker 5: while visiting his neighbor, who happened to have several very

652
00:28:39,360 --> 00:28:40,280
Speaker 5: aggressive dogs.

653
00:28:40,440 --> 00:28:43,080
Speaker 3: Wait, I'm sorry, he was jealous of your plushy.

654
00:28:43,360 --> 00:28:44,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, this man is psycho.

655
00:28:45,760 --> 00:28:48,920
Speaker 5: I can't believe I actually believed that. I also can't

656
00:28:48,960 --> 00:28:51,360
Speaker 5: believe that I kept trusting him and his dumb excuses.

657
00:28:51,400 --> 00:28:54,520
Speaker 5: After all, my items would keep getting destroyed. No way

658
00:28:55,040 --> 00:28:57,479
Speaker 5: on he did it to multiple things.

659
00:28:57,600 --> 00:28:59,840
Speaker 3: Saw this guy is so insecure.

660
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Speaker 5: My anime figure I used to model small clothes I

661
00:29:03,360 --> 00:29:06,160
Speaker 5: made for fun fell out of his pocket while he

662
00:29:06,240 --> 00:29:08,800
Speaker 5: was walking in the city. Face paint I used for

663
00:29:08,880 --> 00:29:12,160
Speaker 5: cosplane destroyed by his knees. Who who he gave it

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Speaker 5: to without asking me?

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Speaker 4: I mean, just opie, how did we believe any of these? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: He was like, oh, yeah, I fell out of my pocket.

667
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Speaker 4: Why was it in your pocket? Yeah?

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Speaker 5: I certain you did get that less sip I. After

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Speaker 5: like the second time something got destroyed, I would have

670
00:29:27,440 --> 00:29:28,959
Speaker 5: been like, Okay, you can't use my stuff anymore.

671
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Speaker 4: Don't touch my stuff.

672
00:29:29,920 --> 00:29:34,040
Speaker 5: Actually, yeah, like the notebooks I was using to practice

673
00:29:34,040 --> 00:29:38,280
Speaker 5: writing accidentally dropped out the window during a store I

674
00:29:38,640 --> 00:29:40,640
Speaker 5: opened the window when there was a storm and they just.

675
00:29:40,640 --> 00:29:41,640
Speaker 6: Flew out, just like.

676
00:29:41,720 --> 00:29:43,200
Speaker 4: It didn't even rain last night.

677
00:29:44,120 --> 00:29:46,800
Speaker 5: There was You didn't hear that giant thunder? There was

678
00:29:46,840 --> 00:29:49,880
Speaker 5: a hurricane last night and it literally came it opened

679
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Speaker 5: the window.

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Speaker 4: Didn't touch anything else, took.

681
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Speaker 3: Your notebooks and took them threw them away.

682
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Speaker 4: What was I supposed to do?

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00:29:56,880 --> 00:29:59,880
Speaker 5: Yeah, I can't you think I'm I'm big enough to

684
00:30:00,160 --> 00:30:04,320
Speaker 5: a hurricane of that size. Come on, I can list

685
00:30:04,360 --> 00:30:07,600
Speaker 5: countless more instances of this. It would make this way

686
00:30:07,640 --> 00:30:11,320
Speaker 5: too long. I honestly don't know why I didn't suspect

687
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Speaker 5: he was lying before. Anyway, I decided to meet him

688
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Speaker 5: this morning at a local cafe. I wanted to hear

689
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Speaker 5: his side of the story, and also to confront him

690
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Speaker 5: on the whole possibly destroying my things over the course

691
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Speaker 5: of our relationship thing. When I got there, he was

692
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Speaker 5: already sitting at a table sat across from him, and

693
00:30:26,600 --> 00:30:31,240
Speaker 5: there was an awkward silence for a while. Eventually he said, Wow,

694
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Speaker 5: you're really still pissed about what happened last night. Apparently

695
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Speaker 5: you are, dude, Yeah, like why you brought it up?

696
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Speaker 5: But yeah, well you're still pett Yeah actually because it's

697
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Speaker 5: my pet that I care for and have had for

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Speaker 5: six years.

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Speaker 4: So actually, yeah, I am still pissed about it. It's

700
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Speaker 4: just a cat.

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Speaker 2: Oh p.

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Speaker 5: I was a bit annoyed at him, referring to my

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Speaker 5: cat as an it, but I ignored that and just told

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Speaker 5: him how I felt about it and how I didn't

705
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Speaker 5: think it made sense to be jealous over a cat,

706
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Speaker 5: especially since I was still giving him affection. He scoffed

707
00:31:03,200 --> 00:31:05,920
Speaker 5: and said something along the lines of I thought you'd

708
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Speaker 5: understand how it feels by now, which really confused me.

709
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Speaker 5: I guess he didn't mean to say that, because he

710
00:31:12,400 --> 00:31:15,000
Speaker 5: kept trying to backtrack or changed the subject after I

711
00:31:15,000 --> 00:31:17,960
Speaker 5: didn't drop it. He admitted to destroying slash getting rid

712
00:31:18,000 --> 00:31:22,200
Speaker 5: of my things whenever I got too attached to them,

713
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Speaker 5: so that I could see what it was like to

714
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Speaker 5: have something you love be taken away from you.

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Speaker 4: This guy is a psychle.

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Speaker 5: Dude, What so you're just destroying her idea, the things

717
00:31:33,800 --> 00:31:37,120
Speaker 5: that she likes to do. This guy is a freak

718
00:31:37,320 --> 00:31:39,280
Speaker 5: because he's like, you're too attached to them, You should

719
00:31:39,280 --> 00:31:41,720
Speaker 5: be too attached to me. Oh you like writing, well,

720
00:31:42,280 --> 00:31:43,400
Speaker 5: there go your notebooks.

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Speaker 4: I y this guy.

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00:31:44,480 --> 00:31:47,960
Speaker 5: Oh you like to causeplay, well, all of your makeup

723
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Speaker 5: is destroyed.

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Speaker 3: Get him out of here, Like, what dude could ever

725
00:31:52,200 --> 00:31:53,040
Speaker 3: want to see him again?

726
00:31:53,280 --> 00:31:55,160
Speaker 4: It's so weird, this reaction.

727
00:31:55,680 --> 00:31:58,000
Speaker 5: I didn't even have to ask him about the items

728
00:31:58,000 --> 00:31:59,280
Speaker 5: he just told on himself.

729
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Speaker 3: Leave him. Obviously, I think you already know that.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I he this guy's psychotic. And to say the least,

731
00:32:07,360 --> 00:32:10,640
Speaker 5: like getting rid of like a plushy or like makeup,

732
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Speaker 5: or like items just because you like them.

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Speaker 4: I would be so pissed.

734
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Speaker 5: Do you know how many freaking knickknacks I have?

735
00:32:16,360 --> 00:32:17,800
Speaker 4: She's got a lot of nicknacks.

736
00:32:17,880 --> 00:32:20,440
Speaker 5: I love trinkets. If a man came into my room

737
00:32:20,600 --> 00:32:23,960
Speaker 5: was like, oh, you spend too much time trinketing, I

738
00:32:24,000 --> 00:32:25,840
Speaker 5: would like attack Like.

739
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Speaker 4: I would have to be like.

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Speaker 5: You need to get out immediately before something bad happens

741
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Speaker 5: to you. Run run Like if he's like, you need

742
00:32:33,600 --> 00:32:37,960
Speaker 5: to stop nicknacking, I'd be like, run, run for your

743
00:32:38,000 --> 00:32:38,640
Speaker 5: life right now.

744
00:32:40,240 --> 00:32:41,840
Speaker 4: Obviously, I was pissed.

745
00:32:42,760 --> 00:32:44,560
Speaker 5: I didn't want to cause a scene in public, so

746
00:32:44,600 --> 00:32:46,680
Speaker 5: I just calmly told him that we were done and

747
00:32:46,760 --> 00:32:50,040
Speaker 5: left the cafe. I changed my locks and texted all

748
00:32:50,120 --> 00:32:52,880
Speaker 5: our mutual friends, telling them about what happened, so that

749
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Speaker 5: they so that he can't spend the story and turn

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Speaker 5: them against me. Thank you so much to all the

751
00:32:57,320 --> 00:32:59,160
Speaker 5: people on Reddit. Otherwise I don't think I would have

752
00:32:59,200 --> 00:33:03,960
Speaker 5: ever dumped him. Toby is thankfully fine. He's currently curled

753
00:33:04,000 --> 00:33:06,040
Speaker 5: up in my lap as I write this out. After

754
00:33:06,040 --> 00:33:08,280
Speaker 5: reading the comments, I was honestly scared that Nathan had

755
00:33:08,320 --> 00:33:10,400
Speaker 5: done something to him, but he seems to be acting

756
00:33:10,520 --> 00:33:13,360
Speaker 5: just fine and definitely taking him to the vet asap though,

757
00:33:13,560 --> 00:33:16,560
Speaker 5: just in case. Again, thank you to the kind strangers

758
00:33:16,560 --> 00:33:19,640
Speaker 5: of Reddit for helping me out of that toxic relationship.

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00:33:20,040 --> 00:33:22,080
Speaker 4: And that's the end of this story. We're going on

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Speaker 4: to the next one.

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Speaker 6: A woman tried to get me fired at my grandma's farm.

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Speaker 6: Grandma was not impressed.

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Speaker 4: Go grandma.

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Speaker 6: So for a little bit of background, my grandma works

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Speaker 6: on a medium sized dairy farm as kind of a manager,

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Speaker 6: and I eighteen female help her out from time to time.

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Speaker 6: By the way, this comes from user Nobody's artist, And

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Speaker 6: if you want to submit your own stories, go to

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Speaker 6: the r slash Okay storytime subrend it. I'm Dakota, I'm Carly,

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Speaker 6: and we're here to give good advice. Goofully, But we

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Speaker 6: don't have all the answers. We only know what we

775
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Speaker 6: would do, so let us know what you would do

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Speaker 6: in the comments. That's your job and our job is

777
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Speaker 6: to read what OP says. We have a thing called

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Speaker 6: a milk filling station. It's basically a vending machine where

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Speaker 6: you can buy fresh milk from us and it's one

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Speaker 6: euro per lid. We're located on a hill a little

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Speaker 6: outside a small village and surrounded by meadows and forests,

782
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Speaker 6: so we do get some hikers or families on a

783
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Speaker 6: nice walk from time to time, especially on the weekends,

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Speaker 6: and they usually look at the calves and buy some milk.

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00:34:28,400 --> 00:34:32,120
Speaker 6: One shift here usually includes four people. Everyone has different

786
00:34:32,200 --> 00:34:34,640
Speaker 6: jobs to fulfill, so most of the time you're alone

787
00:34:34,680 --> 00:34:37,319
Speaker 6: just doing your tasks. And my job is essential for

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Speaker 6: the milking process as it includes bringing the cows to

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Speaker 6: the milking station and back to their herds. And now

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Speaker 6: on to the actual story. As I've mentioned, I'm alone

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00:34:46,200 --> 00:34:48,440
Speaker 6: most of the time, just doing my thing, running around

792
00:34:48,520 --> 00:34:51,680
Speaker 6: inside the farm. It's a restricted area. We have signs

793
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Speaker 6: up since it can be quite dangerous, but the gates

794
00:34:54,040 --> 00:34:57,120
Speaker 6: are open to make work easier and for ventilation, so

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Speaker 6: theoretically everyone could walk in. Still I was kind kind

796
00:35:00,200 --> 00:35:03,040
Speaker 6: of surprised when I, in the midst of literally shoveling

797
00:35:03,160 --> 00:35:07,600
Speaker 6: coal manure, was met with a rather annoyed m behind me.

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00:35:07,840 --> 00:35:10,680
Speaker 6: I turned around, shovels still in hand, and saw a woman,

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Speaker 6: maybe in her mid thirties standing before me, way too

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00:35:14,160 --> 00:35:17,360
Speaker 6: overdressed to be seen anywhere near a farm. She also

801
00:35:17,400 --> 00:35:19,799
Speaker 6: didn't look like she was on a casual walk with

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Speaker 6: her family, at least I wouldn't do one in the

803
00:35:22,640 --> 00:35:25,080
Speaker 6: high heels she was wearing. She was looking at me

804
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Speaker 6: rather angrily, and I immediately knew that this probably was

805
00:35:28,960 --> 00:35:32,480
Speaker 6: the day I had been waiting for to meet someone entitled,

806
00:35:32,520 --> 00:35:35,440
Speaker 6: although I never expected it to be here, of all places.

807
00:35:35,480 --> 00:35:37,800
Speaker 6: Before I could even so much as open my mouth,

808
00:35:37,880 --> 00:35:41,840
Speaker 6: the entitled mother already started speaking in a very condescending tone,

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Speaker 6: saying that she had been looking for someone to help

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00:35:44,719 --> 00:35:47,440
Speaker 6: her for ages and demanding to know why none of

811
00:35:47,480 --> 00:35:49,760
Speaker 6: us were doing our job and being there when needed.

812
00:35:49,880 --> 00:35:52,120
Speaker 6: I was instantly annoyed, because how dare she come in

813
00:35:52,160 --> 00:35:54,120
Speaker 6: here and talk to me like that? And also what

814
00:35:54,239 --> 00:35:56,640
Speaker 6: job was she referring to, because I, for one, was

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00:35:56,719 --> 00:35:59,880
Speaker 6: doing mine right at this moment, and it was strictly

816
00:36:00,160 --> 00:36:02,479
Speaker 6: timed I had to get stuff done with zero time

817
00:36:02,520 --> 00:36:05,480
Speaker 6: to listen to this lady. Still, I tried to give

818
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Speaker 6: her the benefit of the doubt and be nice, explaining

819
00:36:07,920 --> 00:36:10,160
Speaker 6: that if she was referring to the office in the front,

820
00:36:10,239 --> 00:36:12,520
Speaker 6: there usually was no one there since we were all

821
00:36:12,560 --> 00:36:15,839
Speaker 6: inside doing our jobs, and asking what her problem was

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Speaker 6: and whether I could help. I thought that maybe she

823
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Speaker 6: had a flat tire or something around here and needed help,

824
00:36:20,719 --> 00:36:23,440
Speaker 6: because I legitimately had no idea what someone dressed like

825
00:36:23,520 --> 00:36:26,239
Speaker 6: her could want on a dairy farm. She just scoffed

826
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Speaker 6: at me and told me I should be over at

827
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Speaker 6: the office in case someone needed help like she did.

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Speaker 6: Then got straight to the point our milk was too

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Speaker 6: expensive and she wanted a better price.

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Speaker 4: Raizalough are you talking to me?

831
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Speaker 6: Oh?

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Speaker 2: Did you not see I'm shoveling cow crap right now.

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Speaker 6: I would say, you know what, that's so fair. If

834
00:36:47,320 --> 00:36:50,319
Speaker 6: you're too broke to afford our milk, I would immediately

835
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Speaker 6: just turn it into like a you poor thing, If

836
00:36:53,120 --> 00:36:55,239
Speaker 6: you want, you can work for some milk. If you

837
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Speaker 6: shovel the rest of this manure, I'll get you that

838
00:36:57,320 --> 00:36:59,560
Speaker 6: milk for free. No one was at the office for

839
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Speaker 6: me to have.

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Speaker 2: I'm a haggler, one year o per leader.

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Speaker 6: It's not a lot that's way cheaper than I think

842
00:37:08,239 --> 00:37:12,600
Speaker 6: American prices or maybe equivalent, but it's for like farm fresh.

843
00:37:12,760 --> 00:37:16,680
Speaker 6: That's crazy. I asked her to repeat herself, and she did,

844
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Speaker 6: saying every word slowly and loudly, as if she thought

845
00:37:22,880 --> 00:37:27,319
Speaker 6: I was disabled, adding that it was way cheaper at

846
00:37:27,320 --> 00:37:30,320
Speaker 6: the supermarket, but her daughter had wanted to try fresh milk,

847
00:37:30,440 --> 00:37:33,120
Speaker 6: so they drove here, and that we should match supermarket

848
00:37:33,120 --> 00:37:36,360
Speaker 6: prices or we wouldn't sell much. I gotta say, I

849
00:37:36,400 --> 00:37:38,719
Speaker 6: would just turn around. I would turn around and go

850
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Speaker 6: back to the manure.

851
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Speaker 2: Then go to the supermarket, or buy just a tiny

852
00:37:43,080 --> 00:37:45,279
Speaker 2: little thing of milk for your daughter to try better.

853
00:37:45,280 --> 00:37:47,239
Speaker 2: Hope she doesn't like it. You're spending a lot more

854
00:37:47,239 --> 00:37:47,720
Speaker 2: on milk.

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00:37:47,880 --> 00:37:52,160
Speaker 6: I tried to explain that we weren't a supermarket and

856
00:37:52,200 --> 00:37:56,920
Speaker 6: that we were selling leftover for fresh milk, so it

857
00:37:56,920 --> 00:37:59,319
Speaker 6: didn't go to waste, but the entitled mother cut me

858
00:37:59,360 --> 00:38:02,640
Speaker 6: off immediately, treating about how it was leftover milk and

859
00:38:02,680 --> 00:38:05,480
Speaker 6: now her daughter could have drank that. Now, for clarification,

860
00:38:06,000 --> 00:38:07,960
Speaker 6: when I said leftover milk, I meant that it was

861
00:38:08,000 --> 00:38:10,360
Speaker 6: fresh milk, as in barely out of the cow fresh,

862
00:38:10,440 --> 00:38:12,600
Speaker 6: that we weren't able to sell to the company which

863
00:38:12,600 --> 00:38:15,359
Speaker 6: collects our milk because they have fixed numbers, and if

864
00:38:15,360 --> 00:38:17,680
Speaker 6: we produce more milk than those numbers, we would have

865
00:38:17,719 --> 00:38:20,040
Speaker 6: to throw it away. But with the vending machine, at

866
00:38:20,120 --> 00:38:22,520
Speaker 6: least some of it still gets sold. If you want

867
00:38:22,520 --> 00:38:24,759
Speaker 6: fresher milk than that, you would have to milk the

868
00:38:24,800 --> 00:38:27,319
Speaker 6: cow yourself right into the bottle. I started to try

869
00:38:27,320 --> 00:38:29,319
Speaker 6: and explain this to the entitled mother, but she cut

870
00:38:29,360 --> 00:38:32,200
Speaker 6: me off again, insisting that neither she nor her child

871
00:38:32,280 --> 00:38:34,960
Speaker 6: would drink old milk, and then came to the dreaded sentence,

872
00:38:35,280 --> 00:38:38,040
Speaker 6: she wanted to speak to my manager. I gotta love

873
00:38:38,520 --> 00:38:43,160
Speaker 6: the complete disassociation of saying me and my daughter will

874
00:38:43,239 --> 00:38:45,720
Speaker 6: never drink old milk. What do you think the milk

875
00:38:45,719 --> 00:38:46,480
Speaker 6: at the store is.

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00:38:46,680 --> 00:38:48,879
Speaker 2: You know what I would do. I'd bring a cow out.

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Speaker 4: That's my manager.

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00:38:54,000 --> 00:38:59,440
Speaker 6: Oh you said manager. I thought you said ohmuger.

879
00:39:00,200 --> 00:39:02,640
Speaker 7: Oh okay, Oh, I'd just be like I work for

880
00:39:02,680 --> 00:39:05,600
Speaker 7: the cows. You saw me shovel in their crap. I

881
00:39:05,719 --> 00:39:07,919
Speaker 7: work for him, or I guess I work for her.

882
00:39:08,160 --> 00:39:11,000
Speaker 7: This is Bertha, this is Rosy our best one.

883
00:39:11,480 --> 00:39:13,160
Speaker 2: This is milk you'd be drinking today.

884
00:39:13,440 --> 00:39:15,719
Speaker 6: I gotta tell you, don't look her in the eye.

885
00:39:16,200 --> 00:39:18,600
Speaker 6: I had already had enough of this bs pun intended,

886
00:39:18,760 --> 00:39:21,400
Speaker 6: and as I've already said, I had a strictly timed

887
00:39:21,520 --> 00:39:23,400
Speaker 6: job to get back to, because we were in the

888
00:39:23,440 --> 00:39:25,640
Speaker 6: middle of milking our cows and this lady was literally

889
00:39:25,680 --> 00:39:28,600
Speaker 6: holding up the whole process by holding me up. So

890
00:39:28,800 --> 00:39:31,440
Speaker 6: I was more than happy to agree and get her

891
00:39:31,480 --> 00:39:34,400
Speaker 6: to my manager, my grandma, and have her out of

892
00:39:34,440 --> 00:39:37,239
Speaker 6: my hair. I just motioned for her to follow me

893
00:39:37,360 --> 00:39:39,680
Speaker 6: and speed walked in the direction of the front office

894
00:39:39,760 --> 00:39:41,440
Speaker 6: while the lady was trying to keep up in her

895
00:39:41,480 --> 00:39:44,759
Speaker 6: high heels without breaking our ankles. Now, our office is

896
00:39:44,800 --> 00:39:47,480
Speaker 6: in kind of another building, and the door closest to

897
00:39:47,560 --> 00:39:49,760
Speaker 6: us was locked, so we had to walk around the building,

898
00:39:50,040 --> 00:39:53,240
Speaker 6: across the parking lot for the workers, and through another

899
00:39:53,400 --> 00:39:56,279
Speaker 6: entrance that happened to be right beside the boxes we

900
00:39:56,360 --> 00:39:59,319
Speaker 6: kept the newborn calves in. This was also the place

901
00:39:59,320 --> 00:40:02,759
Speaker 6: where I met the the aforementioned daughter of the entitled mother.

902
00:40:03,360 --> 00:40:06,400
Speaker 6: The entitled girl was maybe ten years old and happily

903
00:40:06,400 --> 00:40:09,719
Speaker 6: watching the calves and petting them on when we came

904
00:40:09,760 --> 00:40:11,880
Speaker 6: into view. As soon as she saw her mom, she

905
00:40:12,040 --> 00:40:14,839
Speaker 6: ran to her and started excitedly jumping up and down,

906
00:40:15,120 --> 00:40:17,680
Speaker 6: telling her mom to look at the cute calves and

907
00:40:17,760 --> 00:40:20,640
Speaker 6: dragging her over to the boxes, exclaiming that one was

908
00:40:20,719 --> 00:40:24,120
Speaker 6: so cute and that she named her Emma and begged

909
00:40:24,160 --> 00:40:26,640
Speaker 6: to keep her. I expected the entitled mother to maybe

910
00:40:26,640 --> 00:40:28,640
Speaker 6: say something along the lines of a cow is not

911
00:40:28,680 --> 00:40:31,840
Speaker 6: a pet, or we don't have the space, or maybe

912
00:40:31,960 --> 00:40:33,640
Speaker 6: I don't know how to take care of a cow,

913
00:40:34,040 --> 00:40:37,640
Speaker 6: but boy, was I wrong. Instead, she turned to me

914
00:40:37,840 --> 00:40:42,360
Speaker 6: completely serious and asked how much the calves were. Now.

915
00:40:42,440 --> 00:40:45,080
Speaker 6: Although we do sell our male calves since they are

916
00:40:45,120 --> 00:40:47,520
Speaker 6: of no use to us, I for one wasn't sure

917
00:40:47,560 --> 00:40:50,239
Speaker 6: how much exactly this calf was worth. Pretty sure that

918
00:40:50,360 --> 00:40:53,319
Speaker 6: there was a registration process involved in owning a cow,

919
00:40:53,400 --> 00:40:56,600
Speaker 6: and in no way, shape or form was I authorized

920
00:40:56,600 --> 00:40:59,040
Speaker 6: to just sell a calf like that. And on top

921
00:40:59,080 --> 00:41:01,520
Speaker 6: of that, cows aren't exactly animals you can just put

922
00:41:01,560 --> 00:41:03,640
Speaker 6: in your yard and be done with. I tried to

923
00:41:03,640 --> 00:41:06,280
Speaker 6: explain this, but was cut off again with the entitled

924
00:41:06,280 --> 00:41:08,920
Speaker 6: mother demanding a price and then declaring that since our

925
00:41:08,960 --> 00:41:11,560
Speaker 6: milk was too expensive anyway, we should just sell her

926
00:41:11,600 --> 00:41:13,279
Speaker 6: one of the calves so her daughter could have what

927
00:41:13,360 --> 00:41:16,360
Speaker 6: she wanted and they would have their own really fresh milk.

928
00:41:16,520 --> 00:41:21,560
Speaker 2: From their male calf. That'll go really well. I'm sure

929
00:41:21,600 --> 00:41:23,000
Speaker 2: a lot of milk will come from that.

930
00:41:23,719 --> 00:41:29,000
Speaker 6: I really wish spitting wasn't like an assault charge, because

931
00:41:29,040 --> 00:41:31,520
Speaker 6: some people just need to get spit on. Bro, Like

932
00:41:31,680 --> 00:41:35,120
Speaker 6: this person just needs to get a to the face.

933
00:41:35,239 --> 00:41:36,960
Speaker 2: The cow will probably do it.

934
00:41:37,040 --> 00:41:39,080
Speaker 6: I don't think I've ever said that about anyone in

935
00:41:39,120 --> 00:41:42,719
Speaker 6: any story we've read, but man, this woman needs to

936
00:41:42,800 --> 00:41:46,279
Speaker 6: just get a loogie to the noggin straight up.

937
00:41:46,560 --> 00:41:47,560
Speaker 2: Maybe Grandma will.

938
00:41:47,719 --> 00:41:51,280
Speaker 6: At this point, I strongly consider just walking away because

939
00:41:51,280 --> 00:41:53,480
Speaker 6: there was no way this woman could be serious. I

940
00:41:53,480 --> 00:41:56,160
Speaker 6: wouldn't leave her alone with the calves if I were

941
00:41:56,200 --> 00:41:59,160
Speaker 6: you personally, because I would think this woman's so entitled

942
00:41:59,239 --> 00:42:00,200
Speaker 6: to just take one.

943
00:42:00,320 --> 00:42:01,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, I would think that too.

944
00:42:02,200 --> 00:42:04,360
Speaker 6: I tried to explain this, but was cut off again

945
00:42:04,440 --> 00:42:07,520
Speaker 6: with the entitled mother demanding a price and then declaring

946
00:42:07,560 --> 00:42:10,120
Speaker 6: that since our milk was too expensive anyway, we should

947
00:42:10,160 --> 00:42:11,839
Speaker 6: just sell her one of the calves so her daughter

948
00:42:11,880 --> 00:42:13,839
Speaker 6: could have what she wanted and they would have their

949
00:42:13,880 --> 00:42:15,440
Speaker 6: own really fresh milk.

950
00:42:15,560 --> 00:42:20,640
Speaker 2: From their male calf. That'll go really well. I'm sure

951
00:42:20,680 --> 00:42:22,040
Speaker 2: a lot of milk will come from that.

952
00:42:22,760 --> 00:42:28,080
Speaker 6: I really wish spitting wasn't like an assault charge, because

953
00:42:28,120 --> 00:42:30,600
Speaker 6: some people just need to get spit on. Bro, Like

954
00:42:30,760 --> 00:42:34,200
Speaker 6: this person just needs to get a to the face.

955
00:42:34,320 --> 00:42:36,000
Speaker 4: The cow will probably do it.

956
00:42:36,120 --> 00:42:38,160
Speaker 6: I don't think I've ever said that about anyone in

957
00:42:38,200 --> 00:42:41,759
Speaker 6: any story we've read, but man, this woman needs to

958
00:42:41,880 --> 00:42:45,359
Speaker 6: just get a loogie to the noggin straight up.

959
00:42:45,640 --> 00:42:46,600
Speaker 3: Maybe Grandma will.

960
00:42:46,760 --> 00:42:50,320
Speaker 6: At this point I strongly consider just walking away because

961
00:42:50,360 --> 00:42:52,560
Speaker 6: there was no way this woman could be serious. I

962
00:42:52,560 --> 00:42:55,200
Speaker 6: wouldn't leave her alone with the calves if I were

963
00:42:55,239 --> 00:42:58,239
Speaker 6: you personally, because I would think this woman's so entitled

964
00:42:58,320 --> 00:43:03,880
Speaker 6: to just take one too. She completely seriously wanted to

965
00:43:03,920 --> 00:43:06,440
Speaker 6: buy an animal that would grow up to be around

966
00:43:06,719 --> 00:43:10,160
Speaker 6: one point four meters high and seven hundred kilograms heavy,

967
00:43:10,800 --> 00:43:14,640
Speaker 6: strong enough to delete you from existence if you handle

968
00:43:14,719 --> 00:43:17,400
Speaker 6: them wrongly. Not only that, but also a cow of

969
00:43:17,440 --> 00:43:19,160
Speaker 6: a breed that needs to be milked twice a day

970
00:43:19,200 --> 00:43:21,759
Speaker 6: because it produces as much milk as possible, which is

971
00:43:21,800 --> 00:43:25,560
Speaker 6: about thirty to fifty liters at our farm. All of

972
00:43:25,600 --> 00:43:28,400
Speaker 6: that because one euro per leader of fresh milk apparently

973
00:43:28,560 --> 00:43:31,279
Speaker 6: was too much, and her daughter thought our calves were cute,

974
00:43:31,320 --> 00:43:34,000
Speaker 6: which they are, but that's not the point. Well, she

975
00:43:34,080 --> 00:43:36,319
Speaker 6: need to properly take care of them and feed them right,

976
00:43:36,400 --> 00:43:38,959
Speaker 6: and just getting a calf won't give you instant milk.

977
00:43:39,040 --> 00:43:41,560
Speaker 6: She has to grow up and get pregnant and give birth, etc.

978
00:43:42,040 --> 00:43:44,759
Speaker 6: All in all, this entitled mother would have had to

979
00:43:44,760 --> 00:43:47,120
Speaker 6: wait for another twenty four to twenty eight months until

980
00:43:47,120 --> 00:43:50,040
Speaker 6: her calf starts giving milk, and then repeat the process

981
00:43:50,080 --> 00:43:52,680
Speaker 6: every year, so she would have had new calves to

982
00:43:52,719 --> 00:43:54,760
Speaker 6: take care of every year just to keep her one

983
00:43:54,800 --> 00:43:58,360
Speaker 6: cow running, so to speak. Instead of telling her directly

984
00:43:58,360 --> 00:44:02,200
Speaker 6: how stupid time and money consuming this idea is, I

985
00:44:02,280 --> 00:44:05,560
Speaker 6: decided to try and take the diplomatic approach, telling her

986
00:44:05,719 --> 00:44:08,480
Speaker 6: I understood, but that it wasn't that easy and that

987
00:44:08,520 --> 00:44:10,360
Speaker 6: I was afraid I wasn't able to help her with that.

988
00:44:11,040 --> 00:44:14,280
Speaker 6: She cut me off again, telling me to get someone

989
00:44:14,480 --> 00:44:17,279
Speaker 6: who was able, reminding me that she had wanted to

990
00:44:17,280 --> 00:44:20,319
Speaker 6: speak to my manager anyway, and calling me an incompetent

991
00:44:20,360 --> 00:44:23,239
Speaker 6: worker before asking how old I was and telling me

992
00:44:23,280 --> 00:44:26,520
Speaker 6: that children shouldn't talk back to adults. That's where I

993
00:44:26,560 --> 00:44:29,200
Speaker 6: had it, and so I just blurted out the best

994
00:44:29,200 --> 00:44:31,640
Speaker 6: thing I could think of at the time, telling her

995
00:44:31,680 --> 00:44:34,720
Speaker 6: that I was an adult and that she should stop

996
00:44:34,760 --> 00:44:37,279
Speaker 6: talking to me like that, and that I was not

997
00:44:37,360 --> 00:44:40,240
Speaker 6: obligated to help her, and that in fact, we could

998
00:44:40,320 --> 00:44:44,200
Speaker 6: sue her for trespassing on private property. She demanded to

999
00:44:44,239 --> 00:44:47,200
Speaker 6: know how I dared threaten her, and told me that

1000
00:44:47,280 --> 00:44:49,920
Speaker 6: there was no way I could talk to someone older

1001
00:44:49,960 --> 00:44:52,080
Speaker 6: than me like that and that I needed to learn

1002
00:44:52,120 --> 00:44:54,560
Speaker 6: some respect, and then declared she wanted to speak to

1003
00:44:54,560 --> 00:44:57,200
Speaker 6: my manager and that she would get me fired, as

1004
00:44:57,200 --> 00:45:00,480
Speaker 6: if she was beckoned from the heavens. My grandmother stepped

1005
00:45:00,480 --> 00:45:03,240
Speaker 6: out of the building right at that moment, probably because

1006
00:45:03,239 --> 00:45:06,799
Speaker 6: she heard the commotion. My grandma asked what was going on,

1007
00:45:07,560 --> 00:45:10,200
Speaker 6: and the entitled mother immediately turned to her and asked

1008
00:45:10,239 --> 00:45:13,520
Speaker 6: if she was the manager. When my grandma confirmed she was,

1009
00:45:13,600 --> 00:45:17,800
Speaker 6: the entitled mother launched into her version of events, claiming

1010
00:45:17,840 --> 00:45:21,040
Speaker 6: I had been incredibly rude, that I had threatened her

1011
00:45:21,120 --> 00:45:24,680
Speaker 6: and her daughter, refusing to help them, and even tried

1012
00:45:24,719 --> 00:45:28,719
Speaker 6: to rush her right before my grandma came outside, suggesting

1013
00:45:28,800 --> 00:45:30,240
Speaker 6: she didn't know what would.

1014
00:45:30,040 --> 00:45:33,200
Speaker 2: Have happened if my grandma hadn't been there in time.

1015
00:45:33,680 --> 00:45:39,400
Speaker 6: Again, Oh, just one right, center in the middle of

1016
00:45:39,400 --> 00:45:40,120
Speaker 6: her face.

1017
00:45:40,040 --> 00:45:41,040
Speaker 2: All that over milk.

1018
00:45:41,360 --> 00:45:45,200
Speaker 6: Yeah, you know what I'd do. Maybe this is different.

1019
00:45:45,560 --> 00:45:48,600
Speaker 6: Spitting is definitely against the law. But if you got

1020
00:45:48,600 --> 00:45:52,600
Speaker 6: a little bottle of milk and you said, here's your milk, splash,

1021
00:45:52,800 --> 00:45:56,080
Speaker 6: now get off of our property, I bet you that

1022
00:45:56,120 --> 00:45:59,360
Speaker 6: would be legal. The entitled mother was trying to squeeze

1023
00:45:59,360 --> 00:46:02,400
Speaker 6: some faked out at this point, quickly swiping them away

1024
00:46:02,440 --> 00:46:04,839
Speaker 6: with her finger before they could ruin her very thick

1025
00:46:04,960 --> 00:46:08,000
Speaker 6: layer of makeup. Then summarized that all they had wanted

1026
00:46:08,040 --> 00:46:09,520
Speaker 6: was to ask if they could get the milk a

1027
00:46:09,560 --> 00:46:12,480
Speaker 6: little cheaper, and that her daughter had really liked the

1028
00:46:12,520 --> 00:46:15,239
Speaker 6: calf over there, so they thought about buying it. My

1029
00:46:15,320 --> 00:46:19,320
Speaker 6: grandma was just silently listening to this woman's story, arms crossed,

1030
00:46:19,560 --> 00:46:22,799
Speaker 6: eyebrow raised because she could smell the bs from three

1031
00:46:22,880 --> 00:46:26,799
Speaker 6: miles away. She calmly told the entitled mother that she

1032
00:46:26,920 --> 00:46:29,480
Speaker 6: was talking about her granddaughter and that she knew for

1033
00:46:29,560 --> 00:46:32,319
Speaker 6: a fact I wouldn't do any of that, at which

1034
00:46:32,360 --> 00:46:36,160
Speaker 6: point the entitled mother went awfully quiet. My grandma then

1035
00:46:36,160 --> 00:46:39,440
Speaker 6: addressed the milk situation, saying she might have helped her

1036
00:46:39,480 --> 00:46:42,279
Speaker 6: out if she hadn't just lied to her face, but

1037
00:46:42,360 --> 00:46:45,080
Speaker 6: that now she kindly asked her to pay the full

1038
00:46:45,120 --> 00:46:47,840
Speaker 6: price like everyone else does. As for the calf, my

1039
00:46:47,840 --> 00:46:49,880
Speaker 6: grandma said she was afraid she wouldn't be able to

1040
00:46:49,920 --> 00:46:54,239
Speaker 6: sell it. The entitled mother called it outrageous, insisting she

1041
00:46:54,320 --> 00:46:56,600
Speaker 6: was a paying customer who would pay for the calf

1042
00:46:56,840 --> 00:46:59,440
Speaker 6: and demanding to know why my grandma was refusing when

1043
00:46:59,440 --> 00:47:01,960
Speaker 6: her daughter I wanted a cow that and liked that

1044
00:47:02,080 --> 00:47:05,919
Speaker 6: particular one. The entitled girl chimed in that her name

1045
00:47:05,960 --> 00:47:09,720
Speaker 6: was Emma. My grandma calmly replied that that calf wouldn't

1046
00:47:09,719 --> 00:47:11,760
Speaker 6: give her a cow, it would give her a bull,

1047
00:47:12,000 --> 00:47:15,440
Speaker 6: as it was a male calf. The entitled mother accused

1048
00:47:15,440 --> 00:47:17,960
Speaker 6: my grandma of lying and said she just didn't want

1049
00:47:17,960 --> 00:47:21,080
Speaker 6: to sell it because it was pretty sure.

1050
00:47:21,400 --> 00:47:22,759
Speaker 2: That's how that works.

1051
00:47:23,080 --> 00:47:29,160
Speaker 6: And if I may, thank you. And I really feel

1052
00:47:29,200 --> 00:47:32,160
Speaker 6: like there is not enough justice in this story yet.

1053
00:47:32,600 --> 00:47:37,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, because so far we've just been like, well, no,

1054
00:47:37,120 --> 00:47:40,239
Speaker 2: you can't have that, No you can't like not come out,

1055
00:47:40,440 --> 00:47:43,040
Speaker 2: get him out of here. Yeah, I'm over it. Yeah.

1056
00:47:43,080 --> 00:47:44,400
Speaker 6: I think at this point, I hope.

1057
00:47:44,280 --> 00:47:47,960
Speaker 2: She trips into your poop pile. Yeah, that'd be fun.

1058
00:47:48,120 --> 00:47:49,960
Speaker 6: I think there needs to be something with the manure

1059
00:47:50,000 --> 00:47:52,839
Speaker 6: on this dress, or like a heel. The heels need

1060
00:47:52,880 --> 00:47:56,359
Speaker 6: to be like broken or something. Something needs to be

1061
00:47:56,480 --> 00:48:00,440
Speaker 6: a miss or you know, just a real quick.

1062
00:48:01,960 --> 00:48:02,359
Speaker 4: I don't know.

1063
00:48:02,480 --> 00:48:06,000
Speaker 6: Again, I do not advocating crime. Make sure you're familiar

1064
00:48:06,040 --> 00:48:09,520
Speaker 6: with the legality of hawk and ALOGI in this woman's

1065
00:48:09,560 --> 00:48:12,080
Speaker 6: face wherever you may live. But I know it's illegal

1066
00:48:12,120 --> 00:48:16,440
Speaker 6: in the States. So anyway, my grandma just silently pointed

1067
00:48:16,440 --> 00:48:19,240
Speaker 6: to the big male symbol on the side of the box,

1068
00:48:19,760 --> 00:48:22,719
Speaker 6: clearly labeling it as a boy. At this point, the

1069
00:48:22,840 --> 00:48:26,400
Speaker 6: entitled mother just huffed and mumbled something about stupid, uneducated

1070
00:48:26,440 --> 00:48:28,920
Speaker 6: people from the countryside and how she would never come

1071
00:48:28,960 --> 00:48:32,200
Speaker 6: back here ever again, which I would also really appreciate.

1072
00:48:32,880 --> 00:48:35,799
Speaker 6: The entitled girl was whining loudly about her Emma while

1073
00:48:35,800 --> 00:48:38,760
Speaker 6: her mom was dragging her back to their expensive looking car,

1074
00:48:39,160 --> 00:48:41,600
Speaker 6: and my grandma and I watched them drive away before

1075
00:48:41,640 --> 00:48:44,080
Speaker 6: having a good laugh about the whole story. There's a

1076
00:48:44,080 --> 00:48:47,520
Speaker 6: little picture of Emma here. Oh you can kind of

1077
00:48:47,560 --> 00:48:53,480
Speaker 6: see it. Look. Oh, he's got a little straw in

1078
00:48:53,520 --> 00:49:00,399
Speaker 6: his nose. That's not Emma, that's Emmett. Yes, but that

1079
00:49:00,600 --> 00:49:01,840
Speaker 6: is the end of that story.

1080
00:49:02,680 --> 00:49:06,480
Speaker 2: Mm hmmmm, Well, I mean, you guys didn't really like

1081
00:49:07,480 --> 00:49:10,239
Speaker 2: I can't really be like you showed her. But I'm

1082
00:49:10,239 --> 00:49:11,000
Speaker 2: glad she left.

1083
00:49:11,280 --> 00:49:14,200
Speaker 6: I mean, on a very real level, the greatest punishment

1084
00:49:14,200 --> 00:49:18,440
Speaker 6: of all is having to exist as that awful woman. Yeah,

1085
00:49:18,520 --> 00:49:23,279
Speaker 6: can you just every day of her life she is miserable,

1086
00:49:24,560 --> 00:49:30,280
Speaker 6: miserable at the most slightest, little inconvenience, absolute misery.

1087
00:49:30,640 --> 00:49:33,919
Speaker 2: And I feel bad for that little girl and she's

1088
00:49:33,920 --> 00:49:34,600
Speaker 2: being raised.

1089
00:49:34,680 --> 00:49:36,279
Speaker 6: Yeah, I feel bad for her now, but I'll tell

1090
00:49:36,280 --> 00:49:37,839
Speaker 6: you what, I certainly won't feel bad for her when

1091
00:49:37,880 --> 00:49:40,880
Speaker 6: she turns into a terrible adult because of her mother's parenting.

1092
00:49:41,719 --> 00:49:43,360
Speaker 6: But that is the end of that story.

1093
00:49:44,080 --> 00:49:47,439
Speaker 2: Hey, it's Carly, your favorite Axelatel host.

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Speaker 3: Here.

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Speaker 2: We're going to get back to the stories. But here's

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Speaker 2: three minutes of ads from our sponsors. A family got

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Speaker 2: their membership revoked. It took three generations to get there,

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Speaker 2: A generational For context, I've been working at a resort

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Speaker 2: restaurant for almost four years that also operates as a

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Speaker 2: private club for members. As you'd probably expect, most if

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Speaker 2: not all, of our members are very rich people who

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Speaker 2: usually either own or manage some major successful business or

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Speaker 2: inherited money from a family member. Despite their privilege. However,

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Speaker 2: it hasn't stopped these people from being kind and respectful

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Speaker 2: towards the staff and guests. By the way, this comes

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Speaker 2: from Gipsie Cakes and if you want usubmit your own stories,

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Speaker 2: go to the r slash okay storytime subreddit.

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Speaker 6: I'm Carly, I'm Dakota.

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Speaker 2: And we're here to give good advice. Goofily, but we

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Speaker 2: don't have all the answers. We only know what we

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Speaker 2: would do. Let us know what you would do in

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Speaker 2: the comments, and Opie says they're honestly really sweet people

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Speaker 2: most of the time, and only ever act entitled when

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Speaker 2: they feel they haven't been given the basic treatment expected

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Speaker 2: for any guest at our hotel. Even the owner himself,

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Speaker 2: who visits every so often, doesn't ask for anything outrageous

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Speaker 2: if he knows he can't get it from us. That

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Speaker 2: doesn't mean entitled types aren't uncommon, but even still, their

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Speaker 2: behavior doesn't last long. They can demand a manager all

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Speaker 2: they want, but a manager can still say no and

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Speaker 2: get away with it. This is because no matter how

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00:51:14,719 --> 00:51:18,120
Speaker 2: much they scream or cry, throw their money or titles around,

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Speaker 2: or act like a knucklehead, our resort still puts the

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Speaker 2: happiness of their staff over money. As the hr rep

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Speaker 2: at our recent annual training said, no matter how important

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Speaker 2: our members are or how much money they spend, that

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Speaker 2: doesn't give them the right to treat others badly or

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Speaker 2: act like they're better than those around them. We have

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Speaker 2: no tolerance for that. So pull up a chair and

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Speaker 2: get your popcorn, because I'm about to tell you the

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00:51:43,360 --> 00:51:47,440
Speaker 2: three part story about how a family of three a daughter,

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00:51:47,520 --> 00:51:52,399
Speaker 2: a mother, and a father had their memberships completely revoked

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00:51:52,880 --> 00:51:58,040
Speaker 2: and their faces plastered on do not serve signs because

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00:51:58,080 --> 00:52:01,960
Speaker 2: they decided to throw a fit and threatened staff, managers,

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Speaker 2: and eventually even one of the big bosses himself. Let's

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Speaker 2: speak good like I.

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Speaker 6: Don't know where this club is, but the image of

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00:52:10,880 --> 00:52:13,919
Speaker 6: big Boss I just see like a bit like a

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00:52:13,960 --> 00:52:18,480
Speaker 6: cartoonishly large man walking around with suspenders and there's like

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Speaker 6: a wogging around my nah. I heard you've been treating

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00:52:24,120 --> 00:52:27,680
Speaker 6: my customers. Mo I hear you've been treating my staff.

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Speaker 6: For a little poor left.

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Speaker 2: I was going a little more mob boss in my mind.

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Speaker 6: No, I'm going like Foghorn Leghorn Southern eight hundred pounds,

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Speaker 6: but like not like in a like unhealthy way, like

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Speaker 6: in a almost like a mythical creature kind of way,

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Speaker 6: like he's like seven hundred years old.

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Speaker 4: It's like a Dwarf Jr.

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Speaker 6: Like a Tolkien dwarf.

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Speaker 2: Okay, soide, note this story took place in a different restaurant,

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Speaker 2: a sports bar, and was told to me by a

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Speaker 2: bartender who had connections there. I know the important details

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Speaker 2: and not fluff, so keep that in mind. Oh, we

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Speaker 2: have chapters Chapter one, the daughter. This story started when

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Speaker 2: a new girl, Heather, was hired to work as a

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Speaker 2: waitress at a sports bar. Heather had known about the

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Speaker 2: job through her parents, Missus Karen and mister Kevin. I

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Speaker 2: wanted them to be both mister and missus Karen.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, mister and missus Karen, who.

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00:53:20,719 --> 00:53:24,280
Speaker 2: Were both members at our resort. Hiring children of members

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Speaker 2: actually isn't uncommon, since whenever the parents needed their child

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Speaker 2: to get a job, they'd automatically consider the resort due

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00:53:30,680 --> 00:53:33,760
Speaker 2: to their connections. However, you don't get any extra perks

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Speaker 2: for being both a member and employed here. One night,

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Speaker 2: when Heather was working, the bar got hit really hard

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Speaker 2: and it was in all hands on deck kind of situation.

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Speaker 2: So imagine the surprise when a frantic waitress ran across

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Speaker 2: the table where Missus Karen, mister Kevin, and Heather were

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Speaker 2: all sitting. Heather was happily laughing with her parents, eating food,

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Speaker 2: drinking a a massive no no by the way, for

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Speaker 2: multitude of reasons, and generally just slacking off. The employee

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Speaker 2: walks up and says to Heather, Hey, what are you doing.

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Speaker 2: You're supposed to be working. I need your help here.

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Speaker 2: Heather brushes the employee off and says, I can't. I'm

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Speaker 2: spending time with my parents right now. The employee responds,

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Speaker 2: you can't do this or in the middle of a shift,

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Speaker 2: please help me. Heather repeats her refusal leave me alone.

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Speaker 2: I'll work when my parents are gone. Her parents didn't

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Speaker 2: say much as far as I can remember, So the employee, redfaced,

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Speaker 2: did what any other person would do in the situation

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Speaker 2: and told one of the managers, who was furious. When

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Speaker 2: the manager approached the table, she was even angrier. Maybe

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Speaker 2: it was the cocktail her employee was holding, or the

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Speaker 2: fact that Heather had misbehaved before, but the manager fired

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Speaker 2: Heather that night and sent her home. Good on the manager, goodbye,

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Speaker 2: I can't remember whether the parents were there or not

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Speaker 2: at that moment, but I recall being told that once

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Speaker 2: or twice they called to complain how it was unfair

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Speaker 2: that their child was fired because in cert reason here. However,

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Speaker 2: it wouldn't be the last time they intervened. Chapter two,

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Speaker 2: missus Karen.

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Speaker 6: I can't think of a worse way to try to

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Speaker 6: get your job back than by like your parents calling

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Speaker 6: and being like.

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Speaker 4: That's not very fair of you.

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Speaker 6: Ye, my daughter deserves to wear Oh your it's not good.

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Speaker 6: Maybe she should call us herself.

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Speaker 2: About a week had passed since Heather was fired, and

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Speaker 2: it's just a normal day for the sports Bar. As typical,

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Speaker 2: the employees just started arriving for work and started preparing

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Speaker 2: the bar and restaurant area for the guests who'd be

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Speaker 2: arriving in an hour. Among those employees was the manager

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Speaker 2: for that day, who all call Alice. Alice was actually

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Speaker 2: one of the main managers of the sports bar and

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Speaker 2: was very good at her job. I've worked with her

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Speaker 2: once before and she's one of the kindest, most loving

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Speaker 2: ladies you'd ever have the pleasure of working with. She

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Speaker 2: was helping the employees with their duties when the doors

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Speaker 2: to the bar opened unexpectedly. A guest coming into the

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Speaker 2: bar before opening wasn't uncommon, but this wasn't any normal person.

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Speaker 2: It was a very very angry missus Karen, who immediately

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Speaker 2: upon entering the bar started screaming at the staff. My

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Speaker 2: daughter has the VID.

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Speaker 3: And now she's sick. I bet she got it from

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Speaker 3: one of you, didn't she.

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Speaker 2: I can't believe you monsters would do.

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Speaker 4: That to her.

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Speaker 3: You fired her and then you get her sick.

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Speaker 2: Don't you know who I am?

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Speaker 6: I do know who you are. You missus Karen, you annoying.

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Speaker 2: For the record, this happened mid to late twenty twenty,

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Speaker 2: when the VID was still a big issue. Masks were

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Speaker 2: mandatory for businesses, and vaccines weren't even available to the

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Speaker 2: public yet. The staff immediately stopped what they were doing

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Speaker 2: and started watching. Keep in mind, this sports bar was

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Speaker 2: actually one big, massive room, so everyone there could see

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Speaker 2: and hear everything.

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Speaker 6: I know what state had to be in.

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Speaker 2: I'm starting together all right now.

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Speaker 6: I'm starting to piece together what kind of resort we're

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Speaker 6: talking about here?

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Speaker 2: YEA. As soon as they were like, everyone's rich, Oh,

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Speaker 2: close the bar, close the country club?

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Speaker 4: What are we doing?

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Speaker 6: Welcome to the state of Florida.

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Speaker 2: The staff immediately stopped what they were doing and started watching.

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Speaker 2: Keep in mind, the sports bar was actually one big,

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Speaker 2: massive room, so everyone there could see and hear everything.

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00:57:28,960 --> 00:57:31,600
Speaker 2: Alice tried to approach missus Karen and asked her to

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Speaker 2: calm down and to leave because they weren't open yet. However,

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Speaker 2: missus Karen kept screaming and making a major scene out

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Speaker 2: of everything. Alice shifted to a more strict tone, insisting

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Speaker 2: missus Karen leave or she'd get security involved. That's when

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00:57:45,960 --> 00:57:50,480
Speaker 2: missus Karen noticed something behind Alice. One of the employees

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00:57:50,560 --> 00:57:54,800
Speaker 2: had gotten their phone out and started recording everything that

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Speaker 2: was happening. I mean, obviously someone would do that in

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Speaker 2: this day and age, right, Is that all I think? So?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: Like, think about I remember being in working in restaurants

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Speaker 6: and if we were opening up the restaurant and some

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Speaker 6: lady came in screaming her head off, Yeah, somebody would

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00:58:10,440 --> 00:58:12,760
Speaker 6: have whipped out a phone and went, YO, what is

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Speaker 6: going on here.

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Speaker 2: Missus Karen was furious and turned her anger onto the employee.

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Speaker 2: She ran up to them and smacked their phone so

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Speaker 2: hard it flew out of their hands, and then proceeded

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00:58:25,720 --> 00:58:29,440
Speaker 2: to scream at them, even louder than before. Ooh, that

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00:58:29,520 --> 00:58:33,200
Speaker 2: would be bad for you, ma'am. Alice immediately called security,

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Speaker 2: who came to the bar almost immediately. Missus Karen had

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Speaker 2: to be physically dragged out of the building by two

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Speaker 2: very large security guards as she screamed every possible thing

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Speaker 2: an entitled person could say. As you'd expect from a

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00:58:47,640 --> 00:58:50,880
Speaker 2: situation like this, an incident report had to be filed,

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00:58:51,000 --> 00:58:53,520
Speaker 2: and since missus Karen was a member of the resort,

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00:58:53,840 --> 00:58:59,080
Speaker 2: her and mister Kevin's membership was temporarily suspended pending investigation.

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00:58:59,400 --> 00:59:03,440
Speaker 2: Security even had to print posters with missus Karen's face

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Speaker 2: on it, saying to keep watch and under no circumstance

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Speaker 2: serve her or even her husband until further notice. And

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00:59:10,480 --> 00:59:16,840
Speaker 2: then it got worse. Oh boy, oh boy, three, mister Kevin, ooh,

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00:59:17,080 --> 00:59:20,800
Speaker 2: mister Kevin. The time frame between Missus Karen's freak out

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00:59:20,920 --> 00:59:23,640
Speaker 2: and this wasn't ever told to me, but I remember

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00:59:23,680 --> 00:59:27,280
Speaker 2: it happened so soon after that the original posters with

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00:59:27,360 --> 00:59:30,520
Speaker 2: Missus Karen on them hadn't even been taken down yet.

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00:59:30,560 --> 00:59:33,920
Speaker 2: Needless to say, mister Kevin, who was the primary holder

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00:59:33,960 --> 00:59:37,800
Speaker 2: of the family's membership was furious about what happened. But

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00:59:37,840 --> 00:59:40,040
Speaker 2: what do you think he'd do. Did he try to

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00:59:40,080 --> 00:59:43,280
Speaker 2: reach out calmly and apologize. Did he wait a little

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00:59:43,320 --> 00:59:46,840
Speaker 2: for the dust to settle before repairing things. Most employees

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00:59:46,960 --> 00:59:50,120
Speaker 2: actually know where most of the major manager's offices are

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00:59:50,320 --> 00:59:52,640
Speaker 2: and know how to find them. While this was never

1281
00:59:52,680 --> 00:59:55,920
Speaker 2: taught to me when I was first trained, I believe

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00:59:56,000 --> 00:59:59,080
Speaker 2: it's probably just a cautionary thing. One of the major

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00:59:59,160 --> 01:00:03,760
Speaker 2: managers r resorts general director had his office located in

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Speaker 2: the main building, and, as you'd guess, has power over

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01:00:07,280 --> 01:00:12,400
Speaker 2: various departments. As you'd expect, his name is everywhere, including

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01:00:12,440 --> 01:00:15,600
Speaker 2: major emails the members would get about, newsletters and things

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01:00:15,680 --> 01:00:18,800
Speaker 2: like that. Everyone knew this man, knew his face, knew

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01:00:18,840 --> 01:00:22,280
Speaker 2: his position, and knew what he did. On that fateful day,

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01:00:22,560 --> 01:00:26,160
Speaker 2: mister Kevin arrives at the resort and immediately started asking

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01:00:26,200 --> 01:00:29,800
Speaker 2: employees where he could find the general director. Some naive

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01:00:29,880 --> 01:00:32,600
Speaker 2: fool who probably had no idea of anything going on,

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01:00:32,840 --> 01:00:35,120
Speaker 2: gave him the answer and told him where he could

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Speaker 2: find the gd. Honestly, no idea why this employee gave

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01:00:38,880 --> 01:00:41,800
Speaker 2: the answer so willingly, and maybe I'll never know, but

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01:00:42,040 --> 01:00:47,320
Speaker 2: mister Kevin charged to the office. Mister GD was quietly

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01:00:47,360 --> 01:00:50,120
Speaker 2: sitting at his desk and his office when mister Kevin

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01:00:50,400 --> 01:00:54,560
Speaker 2: threw opened the doors and without hesitating, unloaded all of

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01:00:54,560 --> 01:00:57,760
Speaker 2: his fury upon the man. Mister GD, a man who

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01:00:57,880 --> 01:01:02,080
Speaker 2: did never seen angry or raises his voice, immediately told

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Speaker 2: mister Kevin that he shouldn't be yelling at him and

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01:01:04,360 --> 01:01:07,320
Speaker 2: that he will get security involved. But say it with me,

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01:01:07,840 --> 01:01:09,280
Speaker 2: miss mister Kevin.

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01:01:09,560 --> 01:01:11,480
Speaker 6: Did it stop?

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01:01:11,600 --> 01:01:16,440
Speaker 2: He instead kept insisting his membership be reinstated, let his

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01:01:16,520 --> 01:01:19,200
Speaker 2: wife be let back onto the resort, and that this

1306
01:01:19,440 --> 01:01:23,520
Speaker 2: was all ridiculous, he spends thousands on us, and that

1307
01:01:23,640 --> 01:01:27,480
Speaker 2: we should apologize. After all, it wasn't his fault. But

1308
01:01:27,680 --> 01:01:30,720
Speaker 2: mister GD wasn't amused. Of course, he was aware of

1309
01:01:30,760 --> 01:01:34,280
Speaker 2: the situation with mister Kevin's family and membership status, but

1310
01:01:34,320 --> 01:01:37,040
Speaker 2: his hands were tied and what mister Kevin was doing

1311
01:01:37,080 --> 01:01:40,320
Speaker 2: at that moment wasn't exactly gonna help him. I mean,

1312
01:01:40,520 --> 01:01:43,320
Speaker 2: would you help a man who just barged into your

1313
01:01:43,360 --> 01:01:47,720
Speaker 2: office unannounced and started screaming at you almost immediately, just

1314
01:01:47,840 --> 01:01:50,960
Speaker 2: like his wife. Security was called and mister Kevin was

1315
01:01:51,200 --> 01:01:54,280
Speaker 2: dragged out of the office and thrown off property. I

1316
01:01:54,320 --> 01:01:57,560
Speaker 2: even think police got involved, but I can't remember for sure.

1317
01:01:57,720 --> 01:02:00,760
Speaker 2: What I do remember is this being the final straw

1318
01:02:00,800 --> 01:02:04,320
Speaker 2: for mister Kevin and his family, and courteously of mister

1319
01:02:04,400 --> 01:02:08,400
Speaker 2: g D. Mister Kevin's entire family not only had their

1320
01:02:08,440 --> 01:02:13,400
Speaker 2: membership terminated, but were even banned from the property. Well,

1321
01:02:13,440 --> 01:02:16,280
Speaker 2: what would you expect to happen? Play with fire, prepared

1322
01:02:16,280 --> 01:02:16,960
Speaker 2: to get burned?

1323
01:02:17,080 --> 01:02:20,000
Speaker 6: Right, No, because I'm using fileproof gloves, well.

1324
01:02:20,360 --> 01:02:22,320
Speaker 2: And that would help. And that's why you're not banned

1325
01:02:22,320 --> 01:02:23,680
Speaker 2: from the country club exactly.

1326
01:02:23,880 --> 01:02:26,440
Speaker 6: I've loved to work for this place as an employee.

1327
01:02:27,040 --> 01:02:30,320
Speaker 6: It sounds dramatic. I just meaning that they, you know,

1328
01:02:30,880 --> 01:02:34,880
Speaker 6: defend their employees first. Yeah. Just can't imagine the lack

1329
01:02:34,960 --> 01:02:38,160
Speaker 6: of awareness of just being like I spend thousands here.

1330
01:02:38,160 --> 01:02:42,240
Speaker 6: It's like, yeah, you and everyone else, Oh no, we

1331
01:02:42,280 --> 01:02:45,560
Speaker 6: have to apologize to you. No we don't, No, we don't.

1332
01:02:46,440 --> 01:02:48,640
Speaker 2: Your membership's literally under her view right now.

1333
01:02:48,680 --> 01:02:50,040
Speaker 4: I wouldn't be doing this, sir.

1334
01:02:50,720 --> 01:02:51,800
Speaker 6: Yeah.

1335
01:02:51,920 --> 01:02:55,640
Speaker 2: Chapter four epilogue. I remember first learning about this story

1336
01:02:55,680 --> 01:02:58,520
Speaker 2: myself when I saw the posters for myself. I imagine a

1337
01:02:58,560 --> 01:03:00,680
Speaker 2: piece of paper with a family pick sure of mister

1338
01:03:00,800 --> 01:03:03,840
Speaker 2: Kevin and missus Karen hung on the walls of Security's

1339
01:03:03,880 --> 01:03:07,600
Speaker 2: office with these fine words written, mister Kevin and Missus

1340
01:03:07,680 --> 01:03:12,360
Speaker 2: Karen's membership has been suspended terminated due to their poor

1341
01:03:12,400 --> 01:03:15,560
Speaker 2: treatment of staff and guests on our property. If you

1342
01:03:15,640 --> 01:03:19,160
Speaker 2: see these two anywhere on property or at sports bar,

1343
01:03:19,520 --> 01:03:22,800
Speaker 2: do not serve them and immediately call Security. Thank you.

1344
01:03:23,040 --> 01:03:25,880
Speaker 2: The posters stayed on that wall for almost two months.

1345
01:03:26,000 --> 01:03:28,600
Speaker 2: I'd often talk to some of the officers at Security.

1346
01:03:28,680 --> 01:03:30,800
Speaker 2: I would visit them a lot before I started work

1347
01:03:30,840 --> 01:03:33,240
Speaker 2: for the day during the summer, and they never saw

1348
01:03:33,440 --> 01:03:36,680
Speaker 2: or heard from them again. As my coworker finished the story,

1349
01:03:36,800 --> 01:03:40,760
Speaker 2: she laughed loudly and said, those nutcases had it coming.

1350
01:03:41,040 --> 01:03:43,920
Speaker 2: Good riddance. As far as I know, none of them

1351
01:03:43,920 --> 01:03:45,480
Speaker 2: were ever heard from again.

1352
01:03:46,000 --> 01:03:50,200
Speaker 6: From any world. Yeah, as far as I know, they

1353
01:03:50,240 --> 01:03:52,880
Speaker 6: slipped into the space between spaces.

1354
01:03:54,040 --> 01:03:55,680
Speaker 2: But that's the end of that story.