1 00:00:02,000 --> 00:00:05,360 Speaker 1: Hey, everyone, welcome back to Happy Hour. I am here 2 00:00:05,360 --> 00:00:10,799 Speaker 1: with my lovely guest from The Golden Bachelor. Everyone and myself, 3 00:00:10,920 --> 00:00:14,520 Speaker 1: please welcome April, April, welcome the Happy Hour. How are you? 4 00:00:15,080 --> 00:00:19,560 Speaker 2: Thank you? It is wonderful to be here. I am 5 00:00:19,600 --> 00:00:23,920 Speaker 2: now a Bachelor Nation fan. I didn't know anything about 6 00:00:23,920 --> 00:00:28,000 Speaker 2: this before going on the show, and now I'm hooked 7 00:00:28,440 --> 00:00:31,080 Speaker 2: with all of you and all the shows and everything 8 00:00:31,080 --> 00:00:34,959 Speaker 2: that's going on. It's it's just a great experience. I'm grateful. 9 00:00:35,560 --> 00:00:38,640 Speaker 1: I love that. Also for our listeners, Serena is under 10 00:00:38,680 --> 00:00:41,440 Speaker 1: the weather so she cannot be here today. And April, 11 00:00:41,479 --> 00:00:43,360 Speaker 1: you could actually tell all our listeners what you just 12 00:00:43,400 --> 00:00:45,360 Speaker 1: said to me before we even started the recording. 13 00:00:46,320 --> 00:00:47,840 Speaker 3: Oh how handsome you are. 14 00:00:47,920 --> 00:00:49,919 Speaker 1: Yes, thank you, April, thank you, thank you. 15 00:00:50,000 --> 00:00:51,519 Speaker 2: I have a single thank you? 16 00:00:51,760 --> 00:00:56,680 Speaker 1: Thank you. Okay, great, okay, let's let's get into it. 17 00:00:56,760 --> 00:00:59,640 Speaker 1: So the Golden Bachelor, how are you enjoying all this? 18 00:00:59,680 --> 00:01:03,000 Speaker 1: I mean, it's got to be totally insane, right, this is. 19 00:01:02,960 --> 00:01:04,360 Speaker 3: Like a dream come true. 20 00:01:04,400 --> 00:01:08,000 Speaker 2: You know, at any age sometimes you need a reboot, 21 00:01:08,480 --> 00:01:13,120 Speaker 2: you need something that a boost. And for me, I 22 00:01:13,200 --> 00:01:16,360 Speaker 2: had lost a significant other, Ralphie, two and a half 23 00:01:16,440 --> 00:01:18,920 Speaker 2: years ago, and I was really going through some dark 24 00:01:19,040 --> 00:01:22,080 Speaker 2: times some people called the dark Knight of the soul, 25 00:01:22,600 --> 00:01:25,920 Speaker 2: and I did a lot of inner healing and asking 26 00:01:25,959 --> 00:01:29,080 Speaker 2: a lot of questions about my life and how I 27 00:01:29,160 --> 00:01:33,200 Speaker 2: acted and didn't act, and I really did pray and 28 00:01:33,240 --> 00:01:35,360 Speaker 2: I said, please, God, you know I've been a good girl, 29 00:01:35,680 --> 00:01:39,280 Speaker 2: help me give me something. And then this came and 30 00:01:39,600 --> 00:01:44,080 Speaker 2: I actually feel like I'm awake again. I'm revived, I'm 31 00:01:44,120 --> 00:01:48,640 Speaker 2: ready to fall in love, and I'm thrilled. I feel 32 00:01:48,640 --> 00:01:51,760 Speaker 2: like I'm like in college all over. That's how young 33 00:01:51,840 --> 00:01:53,320 Speaker 2: this show has made me feel. 34 00:01:53,800 --> 00:01:57,120 Speaker 1: Well, you look young, and you look great. How long 35 00:01:57,120 --> 00:01:57,800 Speaker 1: were you married for? 36 00:01:58,760 --> 00:02:04,000 Speaker 2: I was with Ralph years and then my other spouse, Billy, 37 00:02:04,080 --> 00:02:06,880 Speaker 2: who I had my two children with, he passed away 38 00:02:06,880 --> 00:02:13,240 Speaker 2: at forty six. It's been a long journey of being 39 00:02:13,240 --> 00:02:19,280 Speaker 2: a caretaker, loving people and watching them slowly fade away. 40 00:02:19,480 --> 00:02:22,960 Speaker 2: And it's something that I now realized when I went 41 00:02:23,240 --> 00:02:26,480 Speaker 2: to the mansion with all of these great women, that 42 00:02:26,560 --> 00:02:31,480 Speaker 2: we shared so many similar stories that one of the 43 00:02:31,520 --> 00:02:34,960 Speaker 2: benefits of many is that I never felt alone anymore. 44 00:02:35,320 --> 00:02:39,920 Speaker 2: I was in a select group of women that knew 45 00:02:39,960 --> 00:02:43,400 Speaker 2: what I was saying, and so I can't tell you 46 00:02:43,440 --> 00:02:44,760 Speaker 2: how healing this was for. 47 00:02:44,800 --> 00:02:48,080 Speaker 1: Me, if you don't mind me asking and feel free 48 00:02:48,240 --> 00:02:52,400 Speaker 1: not the answer. When your first husband passed, how long 49 00:02:52,440 --> 00:02:55,840 Speaker 1: did that take two for you to feel ready to 50 00:02:55,880 --> 00:02:56,760 Speaker 1: start dating again? 51 00:02:57,400 --> 00:03:02,400 Speaker 2: It took three or four years, and even with Ralph 52 00:03:02,600 --> 00:03:06,880 Speaker 2: this time, I must admit when I went to the mansion, 53 00:03:07,000 --> 00:03:09,560 Speaker 2: I wasn't quite sure. It had only been two and 54 00:03:09,560 --> 00:03:14,760 Speaker 2: a half years, and I was still having residue of 55 00:03:14,960 --> 00:03:19,080 Speaker 2: anxiety and guilt and loss and trying to look for 56 00:03:19,160 --> 00:03:23,040 Speaker 2: him in every other person. But going out with Gary 57 00:03:23,240 --> 00:03:26,519 Speaker 2: and then seeing the other ladies ready to jump into love, 58 00:03:27,040 --> 00:03:32,400 Speaker 2: it kind of was inspiring and rejuvenating. 59 00:03:33,040 --> 00:03:36,960 Speaker 1: Would you say Gary is your type? Because Serena she 60 00:03:37,080 --> 00:03:39,160 Speaker 1: wanted me to ask you this question, because she's like, 61 00:03:39,480 --> 00:03:42,000 Speaker 1: because we love, We're big, We're big April fans in 62 00:03:42,040 --> 00:03:45,960 Speaker 1: this house, and just like you have this flirtatious, just 63 00:03:46,400 --> 00:03:51,640 Speaker 1: spunky vibe to you, like Gary is more I would 64 00:03:51,680 --> 00:03:55,560 Speaker 1: say mild when it comes to flirting and whatnot, at 65 00:03:55,640 --> 00:03:57,400 Speaker 1: least as a viewer's point of view. 66 00:03:58,840 --> 00:04:04,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm a mental health counselor, and also I'm pretty intuitive. 67 00:04:04,640 --> 00:04:07,400 Speaker 2: I work with people in Italy trying to raise my 68 00:04:07,520 --> 00:04:09,840 Speaker 2: frequency from a three D to a five D. I 69 00:04:09,840 --> 00:04:12,160 Speaker 2: don't want to get into all that wuhu stuff. So 70 00:04:12,360 --> 00:04:15,920 Speaker 2: I kind of envisioned Gary differently than other people did, 71 00:04:16,600 --> 00:04:21,040 Speaker 2: and I saw different aspects of him. But one is 72 00:04:21,960 --> 00:04:25,200 Speaker 2: he does like a quieter person. If you want to see, 73 00:04:25,360 --> 00:04:27,960 Speaker 2: every man has a type. We all have the type. 74 00:04:28,000 --> 00:04:31,120 Speaker 2: We have a basket of things we want, and if 75 00:04:31,120 --> 00:04:34,880 Speaker 2: you're not part of that basket of what you desire, 76 00:04:35,240 --> 00:04:37,560 Speaker 2: no matter what you do, it's not going to happen. 77 00:04:38,960 --> 00:04:40,200 Speaker 3: He kind of. 78 00:04:41,279 --> 00:04:43,840 Speaker 2: I looked at pictures of his wife, and I looked 79 00:04:43,839 --> 00:04:44,640 Speaker 2: at his. 80 00:04:44,320 --> 00:04:47,840 Speaker 3: History, so there there was. 81 00:04:50,279 --> 00:04:57,239 Speaker 2: A chisholm between us and that I really am trying 82 00:04:57,320 --> 00:05:00,279 Speaker 2: to get through and trying to make a connection. And 83 00:05:00,800 --> 00:05:04,360 Speaker 2: but we'll wait and see how that turns out. 84 00:05:04,800 --> 00:05:06,800 Speaker 1: So what what's your type? Can you explain to me? 85 00:05:06,839 --> 00:05:08,360 Speaker 3: You normally? 86 00:05:08,480 --> 00:05:11,040 Speaker 2: Is I like somebody when they walk into the room, 87 00:05:11,240 --> 00:05:14,960 Speaker 2: everybody stops and looks because they have an aura about 88 00:05:15,000 --> 00:05:20,000 Speaker 2: them that is powerful. I also love to play. Ralph 89 00:05:20,000 --> 00:05:22,680 Speaker 2: would look at me and go like we'd be across 90 00:05:22,680 --> 00:05:25,239 Speaker 2: the crowded room and he didn't have to say anything. 91 00:05:25,279 --> 00:05:29,760 Speaker 2: But there was an adventure about him and we would 92 00:05:29,760 --> 00:05:34,000 Speaker 2: call it zinging and zanging, you know, and I'm If 93 00:05:34,040 --> 00:05:36,680 Speaker 2: I can't play with my man, then it's no fun 94 00:05:36,720 --> 00:05:39,479 Speaker 2: for me. I'm the kind of person that I will 95 00:05:39,480 --> 00:05:42,520 Speaker 2: wear a cat tail all of Halloween or a bunny 96 00:05:42,560 --> 00:05:46,599 Speaker 2: tail at Easter, and I'll do crazy things that for me, 97 00:05:46,760 --> 00:05:49,719 Speaker 2: part of love is playing. But I like somebody who's 98 00:05:49,839 --> 00:05:53,560 Speaker 2: very strong and can command me and sometimes keep me 99 00:05:53,600 --> 00:05:55,280 Speaker 2: in line in a sweet way. 100 00:05:55,800 --> 00:05:57,520 Speaker 1: Okay, I will follow you. 101 00:05:58,440 --> 00:05:59,440 Speaker 3: We'll follow you. 102 00:06:00,320 --> 00:06:02,320 Speaker 1: I like that. I like that. Okay, that's that's actually 103 00:06:02,960 --> 00:06:03,760 Speaker 1: article description. 104 00:06:04,200 --> 00:06:05,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, I am. 105 00:06:05,800 --> 00:06:08,640 Speaker 2: I am very intimate, and I will I do want 106 00:06:08,680 --> 00:06:13,960 Speaker 2: to follow my man. I don't want to drag him along, 107 00:06:14,680 --> 00:06:17,680 Speaker 2: but I like someone a little stronger than me and 108 00:06:17,720 --> 00:06:18,479 Speaker 2: more powerful. 109 00:06:18,960 --> 00:06:20,560 Speaker 1: Got it? You want you, and you want a man 110 00:06:20,640 --> 00:06:22,800 Speaker 1: that's going to hold the door and pick up the 111 00:06:22,839 --> 00:06:24,280 Speaker 1: tab when you're at dinner. 112 00:06:24,680 --> 00:06:25,920 Speaker 3: In a playful way. 113 00:06:26,000 --> 00:06:29,359 Speaker 2: Though that that is not like, Oh I'm opening the 114 00:06:29,400 --> 00:06:31,440 Speaker 2: door for you. Aren't I a good boy? Don't you 115 00:06:31,480 --> 00:06:34,680 Speaker 2: want to pet me on the head? No? Are you 116 00:06:34,640 --> 00:06:37,359 Speaker 2: going to kiss me good night? No? Okay, if you 117 00:06:37,440 --> 00:06:39,039 Speaker 2: have to ask, it's not happening. 118 00:06:39,320 --> 00:06:43,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm with you. I'm with you, April. Okay, all right, 119 00:06:43,960 --> 00:06:46,880 Speaker 1: before we get into the episodes. How did you get on? 120 00:06:47,800 --> 00:06:51,400 Speaker 2: Oh? This is this is hilarious. I never even watched 121 00:06:51,400 --> 00:06:54,760 Speaker 2: The Bachelor. I knew nothing about it. All of a sudden, 122 00:06:54,800 --> 00:06:59,000 Speaker 2: I keep getting these applications from people that I actually 123 00:06:59,000 --> 00:07:02,479 Speaker 2: didn't even know. They've remembered me, people from grade school, 124 00:07:02,560 --> 00:07:06,680 Speaker 2: high school, college, old jobs, and they had known that 125 00:07:06,760 --> 00:07:08,800 Speaker 2: past the rouphe passed. We were kind of like the 126 00:07:08,880 --> 00:07:11,520 Speaker 2: couple of Youngstown, and we kind of ruled the school 127 00:07:12,200 --> 00:07:17,680 Speaker 2: and we were very passionate, and so I kept getting 128 00:07:17,720 --> 00:07:20,480 Speaker 2: all these applications. Finally, by the eighth one, I'm like, 129 00:07:21,000 --> 00:07:22,960 Speaker 2: you know, what do I got to lose? I'll just 130 00:07:23,000 --> 00:07:26,280 Speaker 2: send it in. Before I know it, they called. I 131 00:07:26,320 --> 00:07:28,560 Speaker 2: had an interview, and then a few weeks later I 132 00:07:28,600 --> 00:07:31,200 Speaker 2: had an interview, and then some with a few more 133 00:07:31,240 --> 00:07:33,720 Speaker 2: people and a few more people. The process was not 134 00:07:33,840 --> 00:07:37,760 Speaker 2: that difficult. It was fun. I got to think about 135 00:07:37,920 --> 00:07:42,240 Speaker 2: what I wanted and who I was, and I got 136 00:07:42,280 --> 00:07:44,679 Speaker 2: on and so here I am. But I think it's faith. 137 00:07:45,240 --> 00:07:47,880 Speaker 2: I think it's faith. As someone told my mother years 138 00:07:47,880 --> 00:07:51,200 Speaker 2: ago before she died, that I would not arrive to 139 00:07:51,280 --> 00:07:54,200 Speaker 2: my right place until I was older, and I just 140 00:07:54,240 --> 00:07:57,559 Speaker 2: thought she was trying to pacify me. But I see 141 00:07:57,600 --> 00:07:58,880 Speaker 2: now it has some merit. 142 00:07:59,560 --> 00:08:02,520 Speaker 1: Mom, right, what what do your kids think? 143 00:08:03,520 --> 00:08:07,240 Speaker 2: Uh? They were worried because I am really eccentric and 144 00:08:07,360 --> 00:08:10,800 Speaker 2: kind of and I am Italian, so. 145 00:08:10,840 --> 00:08:13,560 Speaker 1: I'm for reality TV. 146 00:08:14,120 --> 00:08:16,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, I am Italian. 147 00:08:16,600 --> 00:08:19,800 Speaker 2: I use my hands a lot, I'm very passionate, and 148 00:08:20,040 --> 00:08:21,720 Speaker 2: I am spiritual, so. 149 00:08:22,000 --> 00:08:23,440 Speaker 3: I do all of this soul work. 150 00:08:23,520 --> 00:08:27,200 Speaker 2: Like my soul was originated from the aspects of Fay, 151 00:08:27,680 --> 00:08:31,560 Speaker 2: which is fairy and nymph. My first house in astrology 152 00:08:31,720 --> 00:08:36,080 Speaker 2: is identical to Marilyn Monroe. My childhood is very much 153 00:08:36,240 --> 00:08:40,040 Speaker 2: like hers. However, thank goodness, I did not do drugs, 154 00:08:40,080 --> 00:08:44,359 Speaker 2: so I'm still here. But there is a childlike capacity 155 00:08:44,679 --> 00:08:48,920 Speaker 2: in me. And just for the record, I'm a sage 156 00:08:49,040 --> 00:08:51,960 Speaker 2: with a scorpio rising and an aries moon and so 157 00:08:52,000 --> 00:08:54,640 Speaker 2: I have fire everywhere. So they were a little worried 158 00:08:55,520 --> 00:08:58,319 Speaker 2: that I would embarrass them. But now they're very proud. 159 00:08:58,040 --> 00:09:00,240 Speaker 1: Of me, are they. I think you do and I 160 00:09:00,240 --> 00:09:03,120 Speaker 1: think you're doing great. You you Uh, you are bringing 161 00:09:03,120 --> 00:09:06,120 Speaker 1: a lot of a lot of the fun. So night one, 162 00:09:06,880 --> 00:09:10,040 Speaker 1: you step out of that limo, how are you feeling 163 00:09:10,320 --> 00:09:11,880 Speaker 1: what's going on right through there? 164 00:09:12,360 --> 00:09:15,280 Speaker 2: Well, I'm trying to I'm seeing the girl next to me, 165 00:09:15,440 --> 00:09:19,480 Speaker 2: which was Leslie. She's all dressed up in the you know, 166 00:09:19,600 --> 00:09:24,800 Speaker 2: elderly outfit with with the walker, and then Kathy and 167 00:09:24,920 --> 00:09:28,040 Speaker 2: Nancy and all these new people because remember we didn't 168 00:09:28,080 --> 00:09:30,719 Speaker 2: meet the girls until we got into the limo, you know, 169 00:09:30,760 --> 00:09:35,120 Speaker 2: until we came downstairs from our rooms, and I was worried. 170 00:09:35,960 --> 00:09:36,480 Speaker 1: I have. 171 00:09:37,920 --> 00:09:42,560 Speaker 2: Always been a little bit afraid of girls because girls 172 00:09:42,559 --> 00:09:45,720 Speaker 2: were mean to me in high school and I was bullied, 173 00:09:46,160 --> 00:09:50,720 Speaker 2: so you know, I'm always a little leery of other women. 174 00:09:50,880 --> 00:09:55,200 Speaker 2: But these women rocked it. Everybody was nice. And once 175 00:09:55,240 --> 00:09:57,280 Speaker 2: I got in the limo and we started to look 176 00:09:57,320 --> 00:09:59,680 Speaker 2: at each other and talk and we were all nervous, 177 00:10:00,360 --> 00:10:02,559 Speaker 2: it kind of calmed us down and then I had 178 00:10:02,600 --> 00:10:04,680 Speaker 2: to remember what I wanted to say. But once I 179 00:10:04,800 --> 00:10:06,840 Speaker 2: hit it out there, there's something about me. I'm a 180 00:10:06,840 --> 00:10:11,319 Speaker 2: show person. Once I got up, I can't even remember 181 00:10:11,360 --> 00:10:14,120 Speaker 2: shaking my booty like that. Once I saw it on film, 182 00:10:14,160 --> 00:10:23,400 Speaker 2: I was like, damn, that was a good rhythm. 183 00:10:23,520 --> 00:10:26,960 Speaker 1: So you meet Gary for the first time, what are 184 00:10:27,000 --> 00:10:29,239 Speaker 1: your thoughts about him after you have that first conversation. 185 00:10:29,880 --> 00:10:34,240 Speaker 2: The first moment I saw him, he had beautiful, beautiful eyes. 186 00:10:34,360 --> 00:10:35,920 Speaker 3: He was dressed to perfection. 187 00:10:36,200 --> 00:10:39,040 Speaker 2: He looked fabulous for his age, compared to some of 188 00:10:39,080 --> 00:10:41,720 Speaker 2: the other guys who have asked me out at his age, 189 00:10:41,760 --> 00:10:45,320 Speaker 2: I'm like, oh my god, he's heavenly. He was warm, 190 00:10:45,559 --> 00:10:49,880 Speaker 2: he was very intimate. I think he liked my chicken 191 00:10:50,000 --> 00:10:58,319 Speaker 2: dance and the there we Go and the little bit 192 00:10:58,320 --> 00:10:59,400 Speaker 2: of the stripper hit. 193 00:11:00,880 --> 00:11:03,160 Speaker 1: But are you getting are you getting those fun vibes 194 00:11:03,200 --> 00:11:03,600 Speaker 1: from him? 195 00:11:03,800 --> 00:11:04,480 Speaker 3: Yeah? I did. 196 00:11:04,559 --> 00:11:07,000 Speaker 2: I thought, you know, this could go somewhere. And I 197 00:11:07,160 --> 00:11:12,240 Speaker 2: was really open and I am really open to finding love, 198 00:11:12,520 --> 00:11:17,440 Speaker 2: and I was hoping that he that he felt the 199 00:11:17,480 --> 00:11:19,520 Speaker 2: same way. Of course, we never know what's in the 200 00:11:19,520 --> 00:11:21,880 Speaker 2: mind of someone else, even if we've known them a 201 00:11:22,000 --> 00:11:24,719 Speaker 2: hundred years. We don't really know what's going on in 202 00:11:25,240 --> 00:11:28,760 Speaker 2: other people's hearts and souls. But yeah, I was hoping 203 00:11:28,800 --> 00:11:32,000 Speaker 2: for the best. And I walked away feeling very good. 204 00:11:32,400 --> 00:11:35,000 Speaker 2: And then I'm heading down to where all the other 205 00:11:35,080 --> 00:11:37,439 Speaker 2: women are waiting, And of course the first thing they 206 00:11:37,480 --> 00:11:40,280 Speaker 2: say is what did you do? You know, what did 207 00:11:40,320 --> 00:11:41,360 Speaker 2: you do with that basket? 208 00:11:41,400 --> 00:11:42,559 Speaker 3: Why do you have the eggs? 209 00:11:43,200 --> 00:11:48,800 Speaker 2: And I did. My My joy in life is to 210 00:11:48,840 --> 00:11:51,800 Speaker 2: make other people laugh, not because I need it. It 211 00:11:51,880 --> 00:11:56,400 Speaker 2: brings me real joy and satisfaction when I walk away 212 00:11:56,440 --> 00:11:59,360 Speaker 2: and I see people giggling, even if they don't like me, 213 00:11:59,440 --> 00:12:03,600 Speaker 2: and say, she's a pistol, she's a spitfire. At least 214 00:12:03,720 --> 00:12:09,120 Speaker 2: I made them grin, you know. And that's If I'm 215 00:12:09,200 --> 00:12:11,920 Speaker 2: not making somebody laugh, then it's a worthless day. 216 00:12:12,800 --> 00:12:15,079 Speaker 1: I like that. I think that's a good quality. What 217 00:12:15,080 --> 00:12:19,120 Speaker 1: what women are you finding yourself gravitating towards? 218 00:12:19,240 --> 00:12:23,880 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, Okay, there is my group. We got 219 00:12:24,320 --> 00:12:27,640 Speaker 2: to stay together upstairs. You know, we share the rooms 220 00:12:27,640 --> 00:12:29,520 Speaker 2: and there's bunk bes and it was done in a 221 00:12:29,600 --> 00:12:34,160 Speaker 2: beautiful shade of pale pink. I felt like a princess. Now. 222 00:12:34,520 --> 00:12:38,160 Speaker 2: When I went away to college, I really didn't stay. 223 00:12:38,240 --> 00:12:41,720 Speaker 2: My mother had mental health issues. I was afraid. I 224 00:12:41,800 --> 00:12:45,679 Speaker 2: was bullied in high school, and so I really didn't 225 00:12:45,720 --> 00:12:48,760 Speaker 2: adapt well as a freshman. You know that that freshman 226 00:12:49,040 --> 00:12:50,600 Speaker 2: issue didn't work for me. 227 00:12:51,200 --> 00:12:53,920 Speaker 3: So I got to go back and relive it. 228 00:12:54,480 --> 00:12:57,520 Speaker 2: These girls, and I'll name it, we call ourselves the 229 00:12:57,720 --> 00:13:02,760 Speaker 2: Asking Crew. So it's April, Susan, Kathy, and Nancy. We 230 00:13:02,800 --> 00:13:06,800 Speaker 2: are completely different. We come from different walks of life, 231 00:13:07,160 --> 00:13:11,840 Speaker 2: but yet we we just blended, I mean, and we 232 00:13:11,880 --> 00:13:14,440 Speaker 2: would stay up all night when they would take the 233 00:13:14,520 --> 00:13:16,960 Speaker 2: mics off, you know, we would go up there in 234 00:13:17,000 --> 00:13:17,720 Speaker 2: our bed and all. 235 00:13:17,679 --> 00:13:20,040 Speaker 1: Right, okay, okay, I'm gonna stop you right here because 236 00:13:20,120 --> 00:13:23,079 Speaker 1: I want, I need more of this and that is 237 00:13:23,280 --> 00:13:25,280 Speaker 1: from this episode. So we're gonna we're gonna get to 238 00:13:25,320 --> 00:13:28,240 Speaker 1: that a little later. All right, Okay, great, because yes, 239 00:13:28,360 --> 00:13:32,040 Speaker 1: put a pin in it. Okay, so put a pin 240 00:13:32,120 --> 00:13:33,960 Speaker 1: in It's yeah, you like that. 241 00:13:34,520 --> 00:13:35,040 Speaker 3: I like it. 242 00:13:35,480 --> 00:13:41,280 Speaker 1: Okay, So let's go to the next episode. Gary's birthday. 243 00:13:41,840 --> 00:13:43,280 Speaker 1: You give him a little lap dance? 244 00:13:43,720 --> 00:13:44,120 Speaker 2: Okay. 245 00:13:44,400 --> 00:13:44,679 Speaker 1: Yeah. 246 00:13:44,800 --> 00:13:50,800 Speaker 2: On Gary's birthday, it was kind of interesting because we 247 00:13:50,880 --> 00:13:54,480 Speaker 2: had a cake ready for him and I wanted to 248 00:13:54,520 --> 00:13:59,640 Speaker 2: do that, and I wanted to get his attention and 249 00:13:59,840 --> 00:14:01,920 Speaker 2: I I love to dance, and I said, can we 250 00:14:01,960 --> 00:14:04,600 Speaker 2: get some music on? I want to give him a 251 00:14:04,679 --> 00:14:10,120 Speaker 2: lap dance. So there, his male sensuality came out of 252 00:14:10,120 --> 00:14:12,360 Speaker 2: his eyes. I mean, his eyes will tell you the 253 00:14:12,400 --> 00:14:12,920 Speaker 2: whole story. 254 00:14:13,600 --> 00:14:14,280 Speaker 1: Was locked in. 255 00:14:15,360 --> 00:14:17,560 Speaker 2: I think he was locked in. Yeah, he was, and 256 00:14:17,600 --> 00:14:19,000 Speaker 2: his mouth was hanging open. 257 00:14:19,080 --> 00:14:20,040 Speaker 3: So I think that was a. 258 00:14:19,960 --> 00:14:22,240 Speaker 1: Good that's a good side. 259 00:14:22,680 --> 00:14:27,000 Speaker 2: Drooling and eyes dilating always works for me if. 260 00:14:26,880 --> 00:14:27,680 Speaker 3: You're doing that. 261 00:14:28,560 --> 00:14:30,920 Speaker 1: Did he get any drool on you. 262 00:14:31,000 --> 00:14:33,640 Speaker 2: No, I don't know, but I did feed him cake, 263 00:14:34,040 --> 00:14:37,680 Speaker 2: and that I felt was charming because there's a very 264 00:14:37,920 --> 00:14:41,360 Speaker 2: Italian mothering side of me too. So I kind of 265 00:14:41,480 --> 00:14:45,360 Speaker 2: fed him and held his chin like I would somebody 266 00:14:45,480 --> 00:14:49,680 Speaker 2: very tender and dear to me, and that meant a 267 00:14:49,680 --> 00:14:50,160 Speaker 2: lot to me. 268 00:14:51,080 --> 00:14:55,160 Speaker 1: Okay, so let's go. Now this week's episode, we see 269 00:14:55,840 --> 00:15:00,000 Speaker 1: Leslie gives him a lap dance and feeds him cakee 270 00:15:00,120 --> 00:15:02,760 Speaker 1: as well. Is that Leslie coming for you? You think? 271 00:15:02,840 --> 00:15:05,320 Speaker 1: Did she get that idea from you? Let's talk about that. 272 00:15:06,080 --> 00:15:10,440 Speaker 2: I think Leslie is her career is as a dancer. 273 00:15:10,520 --> 00:15:13,440 Speaker 2: I think she teaches yoga and does a lot of 274 00:15:13,600 --> 00:15:17,520 Speaker 2: I think dancing is her thing as an adult. That's 275 00:15:17,640 --> 00:15:20,880 Speaker 2: kind of her part time gig, her job or something, 276 00:15:21,840 --> 00:15:24,160 Speaker 2: and so I think that was what she does best. 277 00:15:24,280 --> 00:15:26,680 Speaker 2: And I'm not sure. I don't think she was coming 278 00:15:26,760 --> 00:15:29,800 Speaker 2: after me. I think she was coming after Gary. And 279 00:15:30,280 --> 00:15:33,440 Speaker 2: she danced. She dances excellent. I would like to take 280 00:15:33,520 --> 00:15:37,840 Speaker 2: some stripper moves from her. I mean, she rocks it 281 00:15:37,880 --> 00:15:40,440 Speaker 2: and has a rock and little body. It is what 282 00:15:40,480 --> 00:15:40,840 Speaker 2: it is. 283 00:15:41,960 --> 00:15:46,000 Speaker 1: So it were you looking at Gary? Was he drooling 284 00:15:46,080 --> 00:15:46,680 Speaker 1: with her? Too? 285 00:15:47,600 --> 00:15:53,120 Speaker 3: Yeah? I think Gary. I think Gary. 286 00:15:53,360 --> 00:15:55,800 Speaker 2: Didn't know what to think at some times. I don't 287 00:15:55,840 --> 00:15:59,920 Speaker 2: think Gary from Indiana is used to being in the scene. 288 00:16:00,160 --> 00:16:03,640 Speaker 1: So now we see you were talking about it earlier 289 00:16:03,680 --> 00:16:08,480 Speaker 1: in the podcast. We see this group form asking right, yes, okay, 290 00:16:08,520 --> 00:16:11,240 Speaker 1: so who's in that group and tell me a little 291 00:16:11,240 --> 00:16:11,840 Speaker 1: more about it. 292 00:16:12,600 --> 00:16:15,640 Speaker 2: The group was thrown together by the fates of God. 293 00:16:16,280 --> 00:16:19,200 Speaker 2: I believe that we probably knew each other in past lives. 294 00:16:19,240 --> 00:16:23,400 Speaker 2: We get put into the same bedroom, small bathroom, and 295 00:16:23,600 --> 00:16:26,240 Speaker 2: all of a sudden, it's like magic. 296 00:16:26,640 --> 00:16:27,840 Speaker 3: We just click. 297 00:16:28,000 --> 00:16:32,320 Speaker 2: Although we have completely different personalities, we play off each 298 00:16:32,320 --> 00:16:36,560 Speaker 2: other well. We intimate things about our lives and our 299 00:16:36,680 --> 00:16:41,000 Speaker 2: hurts and things that no one else knows, and it 300 00:16:41,240 --> 00:16:44,640 Speaker 2: just gels and it's beautiful and it's fun. And I 301 00:16:44,920 --> 00:16:49,760 Speaker 2: kind of pretended we were a sorority the asking April, Susan, Kathy, Nancy, 302 00:16:50,440 --> 00:16:53,720 Speaker 2: and then we became very very close, and we're even 303 00:16:53,760 --> 00:16:57,720 Speaker 2: planning a vacation this winter, really some time together. 304 00:16:57,880 --> 00:16:59,360 Speaker 1: Yes where are you guys going to go? 305 00:17:00,200 --> 00:17:01,520 Speaker 2: I think Saint Martin. 306 00:17:01,880 --> 00:17:03,040 Speaker 3: I'm not sure where. 307 00:17:03,160 --> 00:17:06,320 Speaker 2: Susan's planning it. She's the planner and I just kind 308 00:17:06,320 --> 00:17:11,000 Speaker 2: of I'm the stabiliser. Yeah, I'm the one like let's 309 00:17:11,040 --> 00:17:13,480 Speaker 2: think about this, Okay. 310 00:17:13,640 --> 00:17:17,879 Speaker 1: So now we see Kathy gets really upset in the 311 00:17:17,880 --> 00:17:23,800 Speaker 1: episode because it seems like Teresa is boasting about her 312 00:17:24,359 --> 00:17:25,560 Speaker 1: relationship with Gary. 313 00:17:26,080 --> 00:17:31,119 Speaker 2: Yeah. Number one mistake that all women should know is 314 00:17:31,200 --> 00:17:37,800 Speaker 2: you never kiss and tell. That's a good rule to follow. 315 00:17:38,160 --> 00:17:41,800 Speaker 2: I don't think any of us were upset what happened. 316 00:17:41,960 --> 00:17:44,760 Speaker 2: I just don't think on the first date the next 317 00:17:44,840 --> 00:17:49,000 Speaker 2: morning that she had to broadcast all the intimate details 318 00:17:49,440 --> 00:17:56,119 Speaker 2: and her thoughts going forwards. And unfortunately, I think it 319 00:17:56,320 --> 00:18:01,480 Speaker 2: hit Kathy wrong. And Kathy is very very emotional herself 320 00:18:01,640 --> 00:18:06,639 Speaker 2: and her persona, her vocals, you know, her inflection and 321 00:18:06,680 --> 00:18:09,840 Speaker 2: her tone is very loud in and of itself, even 322 00:18:09,880 --> 00:18:12,199 Speaker 2: when she's in a good mood, even when she's funny. 323 00:18:13,000 --> 00:18:15,119 Speaker 3: And then. 324 00:18:16,720 --> 00:18:20,399 Speaker 2: It just seemed to be escalating and escalating, and no 325 00:18:20,440 --> 00:18:22,359 Speaker 2: one was going to let it go. And then when 326 00:18:22,480 --> 00:18:25,680 Speaker 2: you know, it just kept going on and on and growing. 327 00:18:25,720 --> 00:18:27,359 Speaker 1: Well, this is why I want to ask you, what 328 00:18:27,480 --> 00:18:30,119 Speaker 1: do you think Teresa's motive was. Do you think she 329 00:18:30,200 --> 00:18:32,720 Speaker 1: was just excited and wanted to talk to her girlfriends 330 00:18:32,720 --> 00:18:37,880 Speaker 1: about her new potential relationship, or do you think there 331 00:18:38,119 --> 00:18:40,760 Speaker 1: was a competitive nature to it to where she was 332 00:18:40,880 --> 00:18:43,640 Speaker 1: kind of trying to make it seem like you guys 333 00:18:43,720 --> 00:18:44,719 Speaker 1: stand no chance. 334 00:18:46,560 --> 00:18:51,960 Speaker 2: I'm not sure about her either she was brilliant and 335 00:18:52,080 --> 00:18:57,000 Speaker 2: calculating or she was very naive, but it was one 336 00:18:57,080 --> 00:18:59,399 Speaker 2: or the other. I didn't see a middle ground. So 337 00:18:59,480 --> 00:19:02,240 Speaker 2: let's let it go and let's move on. Like ladies, 338 00:19:02,320 --> 00:19:05,440 Speaker 2: we're not in high school. It's not middle school, and 339 00:19:05,960 --> 00:19:10,960 Speaker 2: let's care for one another. Yeah, and as elegant about it. 340 00:19:11,080 --> 00:19:13,960 Speaker 2: Like I said, I don't really I didn't really care 341 00:19:14,000 --> 00:19:16,760 Speaker 2: as much, but just don't kiss and tell. 342 00:19:17,359 --> 00:19:20,639 Speaker 1: Yeah. Okay, so let's let's let's get off of that 343 00:19:20,720 --> 00:19:25,520 Speaker 1: topic for now. So So where are you at currently 344 00:19:26,680 --> 00:19:28,679 Speaker 1: at this point of the show with Gary? Where do 345 00:19:28,720 --> 00:19:30,920 Speaker 1: you feel like your relationship is with him? 346 00:19:31,720 --> 00:19:32,640 Speaker 3: At this point? 347 00:19:32,680 --> 00:19:36,760 Speaker 2: I'm still trying to get close enough with him. There 348 00:19:36,800 --> 00:19:41,280 Speaker 2: have been moments when I've seen him wink or give 349 00:19:41,359 --> 00:19:45,200 Speaker 2: that beautiful smile to someone else that I'm not receiving. 350 00:19:45,920 --> 00:19:49,239 Speaker 2: And I'm still trying to make a headway and i 351 00:19:49,280 --> 00:19:52,919 Speaker 2: still want want my chance, and I'd still like to 352 00:19:52,960 --> 00:19:58,920 Speaker 2: have a one on one with Gary. I some of it, though, 353 00:19:59,160 --> 00:20:04,800 Speaker 2: I said, I blame myself. I think sometimes I held back. Also, 354 00:20:05,640 --> 00:20:08,840 Speaker 2: this is a very difficult dating situation. 355 00:20:09,200 --> 00:20:15,200 Speaker 3: I mean, this is this is perfect for Cupid. 356 00:20:15,480 --> 00:20:19,320 Speaker 2: I mean Cupid's favorite tactic is there's nothing so much 357 00:20:19,440 --> 00:20:24,679 Speaker 2: desired as a desired person. So when everybody wants the 358 00:20:24,720 --> 00:20:28,160 Speaker 2: one that everybody wants, if you want, then I want them, 359 00:20:28,160 --> 00:20:29,960 Speaker 2: then I want them, then I want them, then I 360 00:20:30,000 --> 00:20:30,560 Speaker 2: want them. 361 00:20:30,480 --> 00:20:31,840 Speaker 1: And then do you think that's Do you think that's 362 00:20:31,880 --> 00:20:32,560 Speaker 1: happening here? 363 00:20:33,280 --> 00:20:35,680 Speaker 3: I think it happens everywhere. Yeah, I think, you know. 364 00:20:35,680 --> 00:20:40,359 Speaker 2: You get caught up in this scenario. And it's also 365 00:20:41,400 --> 00:20:46,000 Speaker 2: I don't like being rejected, so you know, I probably, 366 00:20:46,119 --> 00:20:51,280 Speaker 2: like I said, I I watching myself and from the 367 00:20:51,359 --> 00:20:54,600 Speaker 2: last two weeks, people's you know, social media on me 368 00:20:54,840 --> 00:20:57,000 Speaker 2: is they're like, you better move in, you better get 369 00:20:57,000 --> 00:21:01,240 Speaker 2: more aggressive. And I'm not used to having to be 370 00:21:01,440 --> 00:21:03,000 Speaker 2: that way to get a man's attention. 371 00:21:03,520 --> 00:21:14,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's different. Yeah I get that. Let's talk about 372 00:21:15,600 --> 00:21:19,720 Speaker 1: So why do you think the Golden Bachelor is striking 373 00:21:19,760 --> 00:21:21,920 Speaker 1: such a chord with the viewers. 374 00:21:22,400 --> 00:21:29,120 Speaker 2: I think that this could very easily be a mental 375 00:21:29,160 --> 00:21:35,280 Speaker 2: health issue as well as entertainment. The demographic of that 376 00:21:35,560 --> 00:21:42,359 Speaker 2: copulation is more depressed, more lonely, more isolated than any 377 00:21:42,560 --> 00:21:47,480 Speaker 2: other group in the world. More than teenagers, more than anybody. 378 00:21:47,560 --> 00:21:51,280 Speaker 2: They are lost, they are lonely, they don't know what 379 00:21:51,440 --> 00:21:55,360 Speaker 2: to do, they have given up hope. This provides them 380 00:21:55,440 --> 00:22:00,000 Speaker 2: with entertainment interaction, even if they hate us. 381 00:22:00,560 --> 00:22:01,400 Speaker 3: I mean that's. 382 00:22:01,160 --> 00:22:04,400 Speaker 2: Something good hates a good energy. Good get going, get 383 00:22:04,400 --> 00:22:07,960 Speaker 2: your heart rate going, come on, you know, cheer for 384 00:22:08,080 --> 00:22:12,880 Speaker 2: one person, dislike the other person, but get going. I 385 00:22:12,920 --> 00:22:20,040 Speaker 2: think more than ever, we need to provide people of 386 00:22:20,119 --> 00:22:27,280 Speaker 2: this age help, inspiration and joy. And they're lost in 387 00:22:27,320 --> 00:22:28,080 Speaker 2: social media. 388 00:22:28,200 --> 00:22:31,200 Speaker 3: They're lost in swipe left, swipe right. 389 00:22:32,680 --> 00:22:35,439 Speaker 1: What is that I don't know, I don't know what 390 00:22:35,560 --> 00:22:39,480 Speaker 1: you I don't know? Or what do you think is? 391 00:22:39,520 --> 00:22:43,480 Speaker 1: What's one powerful thing that you learned about yourself during 392 00:22:43,520 --> 00:22:44,040 Speaker 1: this time? 393 00:22:44,880 --> 00:22:48,240 Speaker 2: I remembered who I was before I was a caretaker, 394 00:22:48,440 --> 00:22:54,600 Speaker 2: before I was somebody's girl, their wife, their mom, their teacher, 395 00:22:54,720 --> 00:22:57,920 Speaker 2: their guidance counselor These are all the hats that I've warned. 396 00:22:58,720 --> 00:23:05,360 Speaker 2: I am a performer. I after I did the scene 397 00:23:05,760 --> 00:23:09,960 Speaker 2: and that everyone is going to see at the talent show, 398 00:23:10,160 --> 00:23:13,480 Speaker 2: I was. I actually I don't know what happened to me. 399 00:23:13,560 --> 00:23:15,840 Speaker 2: But when I saw the black velvet curtain and I 400 00:23:15,880 --> 00:23:19,199 Speaker 2: walked out there, I remembered who I was, and I 401 00:23:19,280 --> 00:23:22,400 Speaker 2: wanted to actually leave the stage, get a bus, go 402 00:23:22,440 --> 00:23:25,320 Speaker 2: to Las Vegas to some dowdy, dirty little bar and 403 00:23:25,440 --> 00:23:28,320 Speaker 2: dance on stage all night for free. And I do 404 00:23:28,440 --> 00:23:33,119 Speaker 2: nothing for free. 405 00:23:33,920 --> 00:23:38,480 Speaker 1: I like that. I like that. Okay, So this for 406 00:23:38,600 --> 00:23:42,280 Speaker 1: women in their golden years who maybe did lose a 407 00:23:42,280 --> 00:23:45,480 Speaker 1: little hope in finding love or whatever it may be, 408 00:23:46,080 --> 00:23:48,640 Speaker 1: what would be your advice for them? Now? 409 00:23:49,640 --> 00:23:50,720 Speaker 3: Remember your war? 410 00:23:51,440 --> 00:23:53,639 Speaker 1: Excuse me, let me say this, ye say it again. 411 00:23:54,000 --> 00:24:00,960 Speaker 2: Okay, remember your worth. You are no different inside. First 412 00:24:01,000 --> 00:24:05,080 Speaker 2: of all, the soul is eternal. It's ageless. That's why 413 00:24:05,119 --> 00:24:07,400 Speaker 2: you feel ageless, because you truly are. 414 00:24:07,760 --> 00:24:08,919 Speaker 3: There is no death. 415 00:24:09,080 --> 00:24:12,960 Speaker 2: There's a physical taking off of a glove which is 416 00:24:13,000 --> 00:24:15,640 Speaker 2: your body. But you are still you. 417 00:24:15,640 --> 00:24:17,600 Speaker 3: You are that beautiful little girl. 418 00:24:17,400 --> 00:24:21,000 Speaker 2: That skipped down the road, that was excited for Christmas, 419 00:24:21,400 --> 00:24:24,879 Speaker 2: that wanted to go to prom, that loved getting her 420 00:24:24,960 --> 00:24:28,200 Speaker 2: license and driving around. Even if you're no longer driving, 421 00:24:28,359 --> 00:24:33,520 Speaker 2: there's so much out there that is still waiting for 422 00:24:33,880 --> 00:24:37,399 Speaker 2: the inner child. And you let her out, let her sing, 423 00:24:37,520 --> 00:24:41,199 Speaker 2: let her dance, let her fall, let her cry, don't 424 00:24:41,320 --> 00:24:46,000 Speaker 2: lean in, jump in, jump in, don't miss a second 425 00:24:46,080 --> 00:24:48,040 Speaker 2: of it. The rest of my life is going to 426 00:24:48,119 --> 00:24:52,479 Speaker 2: be the best part of my life and the people 427 00:24:52,480 --> 00:24:55,639 Speaker 2: who are meant for you. My favorite for affirmation is 428 00:24:55,760 --> 00:24:59,640 Speaker 2: what God has made for me will not pass me by. 429 00:25:00,920 --> 00:25:04,639 Speaker 2: I had no idea about The Bachelor. The Bachelor changed me, 430 00:25:04,920 --> 00:25:08,840 Speaker 2: It healed me, it revitalized me, it woke me up. 431 00:25:09,760 --> 00:25:14,480 Speaker 2: That was planned, not with my consciousness, and I'm living. 432 00:25:14,240 --> 00:25:16,359 Speaker 3: Proof of that. I had no idea. 433 00:25:17,640 --> 00:25:19,160 Speaker 2: Oh, I'm so grateful. 434 00:25:19,840 --> 00:25:22,880 Speaker 1: After I hear all that, I can't help but think 435 00:25:23,000 --> 00:25:28,040 Speaker 1: you're making a huge mistake with the group asking going 436 00:25:28,119 --> 00:25:30,560 Speaker 1: to Saint Thomas and not going to Vegas. How are 437 00:25:30,560 --> 00:25:32,320 Speaker 1: you guys not going to Las Vegas? 438 00:25:32,480 --> 00:25:35,840 Speaker 3: I don't know, I because I don't make the rules. 439 00:25:36,000 --> 00:25:40,200 Speaker 2: I try to stay busy doing me and I'm always 440 00:25:40,280 --> 00:25:43,720 Speaker 2: reading about love now and I really want to be 441 00:25:43,960 --> 00:25:46,840 Speaker 2: a role model. My soul's purpose is to open up 442 00:25:46,880 --> 00:25:50,480 Speaker 2: the hearts of others, so I kind of leave that 443 00:25:50,560 --> 00:25:53,080 Speaker 2: kind of stuff to them and I just show up 444 00:25:53,080 --> 00:25:57,000 Speaker 2: with an open heart and open arms. And that's where 445 00:25:57,040 --> 00:26:00,600 Speaker 2: I have positioned myself. You know, I want to be 446 00:26:03,720 --> 00:26:10,920 Speaker 2: kind of eccentrically interesting, but yet have depth, and so 447 00:26:11,080 --> 00:26:14,879 Speaker 2: that is what takes up my passion in my time 448 00:26:14,920 --> 00:26:16,360 Speaker 2: and I follow my passion. 449 00:26:17,040 --> 00:26:19,320 Speaker 1: Got it? Okay, Well, I still think you guys should 450 00:26:19,320 --> 00:26:22,680 Speaker 1: go to Vegas. Let's uh, let's play uh, let's play 451 00:26:22,720 --> 00:26:25,439 Speaker 1: a quick game. All right, we're gonna do rapid I 452 00:26:25,440 --> 00:26:28,199 Speaker 1: hate to lose. Okay, all right, you can't lose, like 453 00:26:28,240 --> 00:26:31,520 Speaker 1: there is no losers in this rapid fire. First thing 454 00:26:31,560 --> 00:26:34,560 Speaker 1: that comes to your mind? Okay, okay, all right, let's 455 00:26:34,600 --> 00:26:37,800 Speaker 1: do it. What is the first thing you do when 456 00:26:37,840 --> 00:26:38,760 Speaker 1: you wake up in the morning. 457 00:26:40,800 --> 00:26:44,160 Speaker 2: I tell my dogs to ask for three things they're 458 00:26:44,160 --> 00:26:47,240 Speaker 2: grateful for, and we say them out loud. I usually 459 00:26:47,240 --> 00:26:49,320 Speaker 2: don't hear them, but I'm hoping they're doing it. 460 00:26:50,160 --> 00:26:53,919 Speaker 1: Well, if you hear them, then that's call me. What 461 00:26:54,119 --> 00:26:56,440 Speaker 1: is your go to rose ceremony cocktail? 462 00:26:58,280 --> 00:27:02,480 Speaker 2: I really don't drink very much, so I really don't drink, 463 00:27:02,560 --> 00:27:09,480 Speaker 2: so it just I just have water or something with 464 00:27:09,560 --> 00:27:10,560 Speaker 2: electrolytes in it. 465 00:27:11,000 --> 00:27:12,359 Speaker 1: What is your love language? 466 00:27:13,440 --> 00:27:19,720 Speaker 2: My love language is gifting and security. I appreciate feeling 467 00:27:19,840 --> 00:27:24,840 Speaker 2: safe because I had trauma as a child, and I 468 00:27:24,920 --> 00:27:28,040 Speaker 2: love to give gifts and make people smile. 469 00:27:28,960 --> 00:27:30,680 Speaker 1: How many hours of sleep you need every night? 470 00:27:31,520 --> 00:27:33,399 Speaker 3: Oh God, I love to sleep. 471 00:27:33,920 --> 00:27:35,200 Speaker 2: I'd say eight to ten. 472 00:27:35,760 --> 00:27:39,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's fair. What is your favorite place in the 473 00:27:39,080 --> 00:27:39,639 Speaker 1: whole world? 474 00:27:41,520 --> 00:27:42,000 Speaker 3: My bed? 475 00:27:43,440 --> 00:27:46,800 Speaker 1: That's also fair. What is one word your kids or 476 00:27:46,800 --> 00:27:48,359 Speaker 1: grandkids would describe you? 477 00:27:51,560 --> 00:27:52,080 Speaker 3: Magical? 478 00:27:53,440 --> 00:27:55,680 Speaker 1: I like that. What is your go to karaoke song? 479 00:27:58,800 --> 00:28:01,680 Speaker 2: Can't take my eyes off you? And I want someone 480 00:28:01,720 --> 00:28:03,359 Speaker 2: who can't take their eyes off of me. 481 00:28:04,080 --> 00:28:07,960 Speaker 1: What is one word to describe this season of The 482 00:28:08,000 --> 00:28:09,280 Speaker 1: Golden Bachelor. 483 00:28:11,040 --> 00:28:11,480 Speaker 2: Healing? 484 00:28:12,920 --> 00:28:16,080 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, April, thank you very much for coming 485 00:28:16,119 --> 00:28:16,879 Speaker 1: on the podcast. 486 00:28:17,560 --> 00:28:18,680 Speaker 3: Let me give you my blessing. 487 00:28:18,880 --> 00:28:20,919 Speaker 2: I have to do this to you because you're adorable, 488 00:28:21,000 --> 00:28:24,480 Speaker 2: your marriage, you have a family, and I'm so grateful. 489 00:28:24,080 --> 00:28:24,720 Speaker 3: To have met you. 490 00:28:25,440 --> 00:28:26,399 Speaker 1: Let's go. Thank you. 491 00:28:26,680 --> 00:28:29,480 Speaker 3: I praise you, I appreciate you. You are God's child. 492 00:28:29,600 --> 00:28:32,120 Speaker 2: Great things happen to you, nothing can stop it, and 493 00:28:32,240 --> 00:28:36,080 Speaker 2: so it is my wonderful future. If I don't meet 494 00:28:36,119 --> 00:28:38,720 Speaker 2: you again, I'll be seeing you in the heavens. 495 00:28:39,200 --> 00:28:42,320 Speaker 1: Thank you. I feel unstoppable right now. And to everyone 496 00:28:42,320 --> 00:28:44,280 Speaker 1: out there, all our listeners, thank you so much for 497 00:28:44,320 --> 00:28:47,000 Speaker 1: tuning in and remember all new episodes of The Golden 498 00:28:47,000 --> 00:28:50,160 Speaker 1: Bachelor air every Thursday on ABC at eight seventh Central, 499 00:28:50,240 --> 00:28:53,440 Speaker 1: followed by new episodes of Bachelor Paradise. You can stream 500 00:28:53,480 --> 00:28:56,000 Speaker 1: both shows the next day on Hulu, and make sure 501 00:28:56,120 --> 00:28:59,000 Speaker 1: to tune into new episodes of Bachelor Happy Hour Every 502 00:28:59,040 --> 00:29:01,480 Speaker 1: single week. We are going to have some great guests on. 503 00:29:01,720 --> 00:29:04,280 Speaker 1: We've got all kinds of exclusive interviews coming up, so 504 00:29:04,360 --> 00:29:07,840 Speaker 1: don't forget to subscribe. Thank you everyone, and thank you April. 505 00:29:08,040 --> 00:29:09,080 Speaker 1: See you guys next time.