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Speaker 1: Welcome back everybody to Bachelor Happy Hours, Golden Hour. Thanks

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Speaker 1: again for joining us. We're really excited about today.

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Speaker 2: We are we we always have fun together. Susan and

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Speaker 2: I've been talking about spring. Spring has sprung. My house

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Speaker 2: has been powerwashed. It's amazing the dirt you get up

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Speaker 1: Just want to say that, Kathy here, you can't powerwash

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Speaker 1: before the pollen star.

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Speaker 2: Well the Pollen's we were in Texas sentence. Yeah, we're

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Speaker 2: you know, we're like everything else. We're okay. We want

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Speaker 2: to make sure that everyone is checking out our latest episodes.

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Speaker 2: We've been having so much fun answering your questions, talking

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Speaker 2: about dating, life, sex after you know, nineteen years ago, whatever,

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Speaker 2: we're talking about it all. So we love chatting with

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Speaker 2: our Bachelor Nation faiths and as we do.

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Speaker 1: And today we have the most awesome guest. Not only

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Speaker 1: is she beautiful, but she might bring us on a

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Speaker 1: little break trip. Yeah, and we're gonna let her tell

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Speaker 1: you all about it. And she's from Grand Season and

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Speaker 1: this is Bailey Barely Welcome, Welcome Bailey.

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Speaker 3: Hi, guys, I'm so excited to be here.

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Speaker 2: I'm so okay, guys, I just have to say baby Portugal.

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Speaker 2: We're getting to that. I just want to say, another

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Speaker 2: gorgeous girl, I'm from Grand Season. Like it's like that,

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Speaker 2: your smile, your your complexion, your dress, your hair, everything

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Speaker 2: about you is amazing. It's just amazing. Now you are

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Speaker 4: It was crazy, but I really realized that I needed

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Speaker 4: to just be myself on Grand Season because every single

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Speaker 4: I was like, Okay, it's really time for personality to

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Speaker 4: like do the work.

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Speaker 2: Because oh, trust me, I know, just do you.

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Speaker 3: But they're not going to be enough for this.

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Speaker 2: So I want to know before Well, first you you

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Speaker 2: have a dog, and we saw your poodle and you

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Speaker 2: travel with this poodle, so you travel around. Just tell

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Speaker 2: us a little about that because i'mber getting too Portugal.

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Speaker 4: Okay, So the poodle, she's actually sitting in the bed.

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Speaker 4: Otherwise I would bring crab. But my dog's name is Lisa.

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Speaker 4: She's four. She's a toy poodle. I think that was

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Speaker 4: like a little bit of confusion. She's not a toy animal.

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Speaker 4: She's like a toy classification of a poodle, and she's

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Speaker 4: so she does travel to and from Portugal. She has

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Speaker 4: And I take her with me to Portugal when I

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Speaker 3: We take her everywhere in.

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Speaker 1: She behaves when you take her.

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Speaker 3: Oh she's so well because she's you think she's a human.

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Speaker 2: So wait, do you need a poodle puppy handler? Because

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Speaker 2: I'm available, rushing, So we want to go to Portugal.

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Speaker 3: For people that want her. They're like please, My great

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Speaker 2: I think she missed it, Susan, we want to come

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Speaker 2: to Portugal with the puppy poodle.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, come, we have a three bedroom. Everyone's welcome.

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Speaker 1: Who's we So my mom.

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Speaker 4: And my sister live in Portugal, like majority of the time,

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Speaker 3: I'm the oldest, I have a younger brother and a younger.

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Speaker 4: Sister, and my sister plays tennis, and so she's been

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Speaker 4: living in Portugal since she was almost like seventeen by herself. Wow,

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Speaker 4: my parents bought a place a few years ago. Like

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Speaker 2: Really we're ready. Do you speak Portuguese, your mom?

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Speaker 3: I'm actually relearning French right now. So I'm doing a

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Speaker 1: Tutor on tomorrow morning, no, Wednesday morning.

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Speaker 4: I've been doing an audio book with like French lessons

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Speaker 2: Wait a minute, guys, your mother and sister live in Portugal.

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Speaker 2: Now, I know. So, so I read that you're and

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Speaker 3: I don't think a lot of people.

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Speaker 4: We've been very blessed, and you know, being on the

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Speaker 4: journey with him was a really hard time. It was

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Well, I we're sorry for your loss. I just

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Speaker 2: saw I read that that you know, you walked in

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Speaker 2: make people aware. So thank you for doing that.

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Speaker 3: Thank you. You know, you know everyone wants to cure.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, absolutely right.

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Speaker 1: So we're going to ask a bunch of different questions

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Speaker 1: so we can let our fans get to know you more, okay,

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Speaker 1: as well as us.

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Speaker 2: Right now we know really well, we're going to Portugal

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Speaker 3: I feel like September would be a really good time.

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Speaker 2: I'm in I'm not kidding you. I'm not joking.

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Speaker 4: Cold, it's like the perfect weather we can travel around.

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Speaker 1: Or Sptember, it's not too late. I'm taking my granddaughter

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Speaker 5: And send my grains on her home by herself. I

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Speaker 5: love it. I really want to see it. I'm going, Susan,

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Speaker 1: what made you apply to be on this?

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Speaker 4: Okay, so I actually didn't apply to be on the show.

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Speaker 3: I had just been single. I was like, I just

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Speaker 4: I've gotten Instagram DM and I was like, no, I'm

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Speaker 1: Two days?

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Speaker 2: How did you have enough close all that? How did

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Speaker 2: are twinsies? Because when I was reading by you, Bailey,

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Speaker 2: you love to shop, and so did Susan to shop?

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Speaker 3: I'm there.

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Speaker 4: It's a really bad habit. Everyone has their like vice

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Speaker 4: and mine is shopped. That's the only thing I really

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Speaker 1: But love it.

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Speaker 2: Seven shops, shops, Kathy Walks.

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Speaker 3: You know what, we'll shop for you and then we

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Speaker 3: A Portugal is really good. I do my shopping there,

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Speaker 3: so I don't. I'm trying to really like, did you

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Speaker 2: I love it?

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Speaker 1: So?

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Speaker 2: Did you really love this shop? Number? Number?

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Speaker 4: Like, I don't know if you guys looked at my Instagram,

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Speaker 4: But all the Rose Haary money dresses are I already

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Speaker 4: believe that?

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Speaker 1: Do you wear those?

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Speaker 2: Okay, listen, I need you to hook me up with

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Speaker 3: I have an email for it. I feel like I

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Speaker 2: We're hooking up with this girl susan single company.

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Speaker 3: No, I've like, put me to work.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, you know, and you're going to be I'm

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Speaker 2: Mean, I just feel like you and I I'm really

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Speaker 4: Honestly though, I feel like a lot of the brands

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Speaker 2: Okay, since and we're hiring.

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Speaker 4: Know's email, it's time you guys.

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Speaker 2: Oh no, I want you to do it for me.

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Speaker 2: I want you to I want you to be Yeah, I'm.

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Speaker 3: Going to give media lessons to everyone.

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Speaker 2: I love it. Okay, what if you could if you

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Speaker 2: could choose, because it sounds like it sounds like you've

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Speaker 2: had so much going on before Bachelor, But if you

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Speaker 2: could choose just one word to describe your experience on

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Speaker 2: I'm going to ask you why so you better?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? Okay, one word to describe like my entire time

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Speaker 3: Oh, I would say eye opening.

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Speaker 4: Tish words, But I would say eye opening because I

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Speaker 4: like an emotional relationship standpoint, I've always been kind of

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Speaker 4: I feel like the process, like genuinely, you know, it's

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Speaker 3: I feel like just being like I have to let

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Speaker 2: But don't you I mean, you strike me as a

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Speaker 2: woman who is very self assured. Did it just affirm

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Speaker 2: a change of like, wow, I a be at safe and.

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Speaker 1: More comfortable in your own skin at that point.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I think thankfully my parents really raised me to

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Speaker 2: And then now we get into it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I ended up modeling.

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Speaker 3: To break you down.

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Speaker 4: So I think I've always had a really strong sense

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Speaker 4: know what, like I was one thousand percent myself and

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Speaker 2: You know what's Sowar Susan and I we were and

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Speaker 2: unapologetically yeah peoplegally like I don't want to not everyone's

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Speaker 2: going to love that, Bailey, but not everyone's gonna love it,

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Speaker 1: So, Bailey, if if you were stranded on a deserted

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Speaker 2: Kathy Susan? Oh wait, we weren't on our season.

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Speaker 3: You guys were in spirit.

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Speaker 4: I felt I felt that energy really hard because there's

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Speaker 4: feel like I would need to be more strategic about

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Speaker 3: Because number one, I cannot cook.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, it's my sister.

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Speaker 3: It's so bad.

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Speaker 1: We shopped together.

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Speaker 4: But I'll do the cooking, you know, I need lessons

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Speaker 4: can I come to your house and yes, yeah, like

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Speaker 4: my mom said to like, she's like any future partner

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Speaker 4: I feel like I'm like, you know, I'm gonna pick

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Speaker 2: I love her.

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Speaker 4: We're the funniest human being ever, and I feel like

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Speaker 4: Zoe can throw down in the kitchen. She she's funny.

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Speaker 4: We really got a chance to bond before I left,

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Speaker 4: honestly I'm really grateful for both of their friendships. And

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Speaker 1: Not enough, Like I need you're deserted.

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna bring Ella because Ella keeps me like very

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Speaker 4: I need my other half to just be like, hey,

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Speaker 4: you've got to relap, because I mean, who would you

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Speaker 2: I'm bringing the I'm bringing these young gorgeous girls who

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Speaker 2: could check me out of dress and makeup? Are you

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Speaker 2: kidding me?

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Speaker 4: I'm getting dressed up for dinner where I deserted island.

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Speaker 2: Exactly, I'm gonna I'm gonna say, Bailey, I need a

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Speaker 2: dress for dinner. I got a hot date tonight. What

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Speaker 2: the hell do I wear?

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Speaker 3: Just come to my closet. I have a ton of clothes.

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Speaker 4: Like all my friends who don't go shopping, they just

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Speaker 2: I'm like, isn't that hard to pick out what to wear?

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Speaker 2: Like I'd have to being over my brain would be

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Speaker 1: Packing packing because I like choice. I know what I'm

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I love it? For the Bachelor, you know, you can

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Speaker 2: bring two suitcases. They want you to bring five thousand

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Speaker 4: Your heels, and I'm like, no speakers. I bring it

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Speaker 4: to I bring two large suitcases for a three day

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Speaker 4: I think you really get me on this, Like I was, Oh,

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Speaker 4: I get it.

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Speaker 2: I just can't do it. I get it. But you

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Speaker 2: know what, Bally, I all iron for you. I love

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Speaker 3: Okay, listen, I'm a steamer. I'm an ironer. I'll iron.

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Speaker 2: We can trade of Damn, I have no use to her.

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Speaker 2: I don't. Okay, So I want to know have you

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Speaker 2: been dating? I want to know? Wait's because you know

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I figured the dating. I have been like

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Speaker 4: I think the problem is also I am a very

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Speaker 4: So when I do have free time and i'm home,

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Speaker 1: But you know, I think where are the dates coming from?

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Speaker 1: Are they dming you? Or you on a dating site

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Speaker 4: Or it's like a multitude of things I think I do.

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Speaker 4: Like I've been doing social media for a while, so

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Speaker 4: And I'm really bad with my d N attack. So

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Speaker 2: But it's like, oh damn, I've got four thousand unanswered

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Speaker 3: Oh no, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 2: You know what Bailey says. I'm going shopping. I don't

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: Like we would get along so well.

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Speaker 4: So well I'm really I'm actually really excited part a

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Speaker 3: Now we're actually going to have a blore. No, we're

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Speaker 4: Like I've been on like a dating app like called

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Speaker 4: Riah for.

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Speaker 2: A while and oh you're on Riot.

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Speaker 1: They wouldn't they wouldn't accept me.

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Speaker 3: Let's me do your application.

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Speaker 4: I've been on it since twenty eighteen, twenty seventeen, so

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Speaker 4: I have for a long time.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, it's okay, So wait, it doesn't think you're

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Speaker 2: dating anyone in particular, and it sounds like you're a

446
00:20:29,920 --> 00:20:31,960
Speaker 2: very busy lady, so you're going to make time. Are

447
00:20:32,000 --> 00:20:33,960
Speaker 2: you going to go on Bachelor in Paradise if you're asked.

448
00:20:34,680 --> 00:20:37,720
Speaker 4: If I'm asked, I feel like I would love to

449
00:20:37,720 --> 00:20:39,479
Speaker 4: go on Paradise. I feel like it'd be like very

450
00:20:39,560 --> 00:20:41,679
Speaker 4: much my speed. I would love to be with my

451
00:20:41,760 --> 00:20:43,840
Speaker 4: friends again, love to make new friends.

452
00:20:44,160 --> 00:20:46,520
Speaker 2: Okay, well they're going to have some golden dirt if

453
00:20:46,520 --> 00:20:48,400
Speaker 2: we get out.

454
00:20:48,560 --> 00:20:50,480
Speaker 1: Do you have anybody in mind that you would like

455
00:20:50,600 --> 00:20:51,160
Speaker 1: to be there?

456
00:20:51,720 --> 00:20:55,000
Speaker 4: Oh? I think the hard part is like I actually,

457
00:20:55,040 --> 00:20:57,200
Speaker 4: like really haven't watched the show in a long time,

458
00:20:57,359 --> 00:20:59,399
Speaker 4: and I think that's a good thing if I'm like

459
00:20:59,480 --> 00:21:03,440
Speaker 4: asked to go Paradise, because I really easily get the ick,

460
00:21:03,640 --> 00:21:06,439
Speaker 4: and I really easily like you know, make I'm a

461
00:21:06,480 --> 00:21:09,320
Speaker 4: really big person like I unfortunately will look at someone

462
00:21:09,359 --> 00:21:11,720
Speaker 4: on social media and kind of have an idea of

463
00:21:11,760 --> 00:21:13,359
Speaker 4: what they are like. Even when I was going in

464
00:21:13,400 --> 00:21:15,960
Speaker 4: the grand season, like I really tried to do like

465
00:21:16,160 --> 00:21:17,440
Speaker 4: minimal research on him.

466
00:21:17,520 --> 00:21:18,920
Speaker 3: I just like saw him.

467
00:21:18,960 --> 00:21:21,760
Speaker 4: I was like, okay, initially like I'm attracted, and then

468
00:21:21,800 --> 00:21:23,600
Speaker 4: I just read about him, and I was like, I

469
00:21:23,600 --> 00:21:26,080
Speaker 4: love these qualities. I love these like, you know, his

470
00:21:26,160 --> 00:21:28,399
Speaker 4: personality trait that I'm like reading about, and so I

471
00:21:28,400 --> 00:21:29,919
Speaker 4: think that's what I need to know. I feel like

472
00:21:30,640 --> 00:21:34,560
Speaker 4: if I go you know, no, I mean happy, and

473
00:21:34,600 --> 00:21:36,480
Speaker 4: I'm so happy for him, but I mean I want

474
00:21:36,480 --> 00:21:38,720
Speaker 4: to go into it with the same strategy.

475
00:21:38,160 --> 00:21:41,280
Speaker 2: Of being like, Okay, you did a great job. That

476
00:21:41,359 --> 00:21:43,640
Speaker 2: Baily did a great job. Now who do you want

477
00:21:43,680 --> 00:21:45,480
Speaker 2: to see on Bachelor? Know?

478
00:21:45,600 --> 00:21:48,680
Speaker 3: Okay, I'll tell you what kind of type I'm looking for.

479
00:21:48,920 --> 00:21:53,119
Speaker 4: Okay, I actually I think all everyone that knows we

480
00:21:53,119 --> 00:21:55,800
Speaker 4: can contest contest to this. I do not have a type,

481
00:21:55,880 --> 00:21:58,040
Speaker 4: Like I do not have a physical type at all.

482
00:21:58,800 --> 00:22:00,919
Speaker 4: I would just ideally like for them to be taller

483
00:22:00,960 --> 00:22:03,720
Speaker 4: than me and I am like almost five eight.

484
00:22:03,720 --> 00:22:05,920
Speaker 3: I'm five seven and a half, so keep that.

485
00:22:06,359 --> 00:22:08,280
Speaker 2: I won't have to have dressers. I'm the same hype.

486
00:22:08,320 --> 00:22:09,920
Speaker 2: We won't have to have many dress.

487
00:22:09,560 --> 00:22:10,960
Speaker 3: We won't have to have anything.

488
00:22:11,080 --> 00:22:12,760
Speaker 1: Okay, I used to shrinking.

489
00:22:15,040 --> 00:22:17,480
Speaker 4: I sometimes I feel like I'm like randomly getting taller,

490
00:22:17,480 --> 00:22:19,120
Speaker 4: and then I don't know, maybe it's like the climate in.

491
00:22:19,080 --> 00:22:22,720
Speaker 3: My bones, like I enjoy it.

492
00:22:22,960 --> 00:22:26,160
Speaker 4: The personality that I'm looking for. I want someone that's

493
00:22:26,200 --> 00:22:31,640
Speaker 4: family oriented. I laugh a lot of humor, yes, God,

494
00:22:31,640 --> 00:22:33,280
Speaker 4: to have a sense of humor, you have to be

495
00:22:33,280 --> 00:22:36,320
Speaker 4: able to take a joke, like I genuinely love to

496
00:22:36,400 --> 00:22:40,520
Speaker 4: laugh at all moments. Laugh you'll cry, and I'm every

497
00:22:40,600 --> 00:22:43,520
Speaker 4: day I'm laughing, like a really positive person. I want

498
00:22:43,520 --> 00:22:46,879
Speaker 4: someone that's also positive. I want someone that's gonna like

499
00:22:46,960 --> 00:22:49,760
Speaker 4: support me. I want to support them. I want a partnership.

500
00:22:50,000 --> 00:22:52,280
Speaker 4: I'd love to like find my best friend and somebody.

501
00:22:52,680 --> 00:22:56,840
Speaker 2: I feel like I got to say everything that you're saying, Bailey.

502
00:22:57,160 --> 00:22:59,560
Speaker 2: When we've talked about this with other guests, it's it

503
00:23:00,080 --> 00:23:02,800
Speaker 2: and sends generations. It's what we're looking for. It's what

504
00:23:02,840 --> 00:23:06,240
Speaker 2: I'm looking for. Someone who's kind and generous, who's my

505
00:23:06,280 --> 00:23:08,920
Speaker 2: best friend, who will do things with me, who will

506
00:23:08,920 --> 00:23:10,639
Speaker 2: listen to me and I will listen to them, you know,

507
00:23:10,760 --> 00:23:15,920
Speaker 2: share our lives. It doesn't sound that complicated, doesn't.

508
00:23:14,520 --> 00:23:16,400
Speaker 3: Hard, But that's like maybe it is.

509
00:23:16,560 --> 00:23:17,520
Speaker 6: I don't know, you know.

510
00:23:17,680 --> 00:23:19,840
Speaker 4: And like just like I was in the show, I'm like,

511
00:23:19,920 --> 00:23:21,240
Speaker 4: you know, you got to be able to take a

512
00:23:21,240 --> 00:23:23,400
Speaker 4: good picture, like we will get there like.

513
00:23:23,400 --> 00:23:25,240
Speaker 2: That that was hysterical.

514
00:23:25,800 --> 00:23:27,960
Speaker 4: That was but I was like people that know me

515
00:23:28,040 --> 00:23:30,119
Speaker 4: like they were. I'm like, it's supposed to be a joke,

516
00:23:30,280 --> 00:23:32,520
Speaker 4: Like I love a joke. I love a bit, like

517
00:23:32,760 --> 00:23:35,320
Speaker 4: I love anything that's going to like bring people.

518
00:23:36,320 --> 00:23:39,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, like I got my bit. Mine was zip it

519
00:23:39,960 --> 00:23:41,840
Speaker 2: zip Like.

520
00:23:43,600 --> 00:23:45,399
Speaker 3: Like people that get it, they're not going to take

521
00:23:45,400 --> 00:23:47,440
Speaker 3: it personal. They're going to realize, like you know, this

522
00:23:47,600 --> 00:23:48,480
Speaker 3: is like funny.

523
00:23:49,320 --> 00:23:51,960
Speaker 2: Tell tell us your thoughts a little more serious out

524
00:23:52,000 --> 00:23:55,800
Speaker 2: here on the bats or finale because you think, you know,

525
00:23:56,200 --> 00:23:57,840
Speaker 2: what did you did you think it's going to go

526
00:23:57,960 --> 00:23:58,240
Speaker 2: that way?

527
00:23:58,359 --> 00:24:03,520
Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, I was very grateful to be at

528
00:24:03,560 --> 00:24:07,120
Speaker 4: after the final rowse and I am friends with both

529
00:24:07,160 --> 00:24:09,960
Speaker 4: of them, Like I love both of them. I had

530
00:24:10,000 --> 00:24:15,240
Speaker 4: a separate relationship with both of them and Zoe included.

531
00:24:15,880 --> 00:24:20,199
Speaker 4: I honestly am very proud of each of them just

532
00:24:20,200 --> 00:24:23,439
Speaker 4: being able to like fully articulate their feelings. And I

533
00:24:23,560 --> 00:24:27,200
Speaker 4: think that they're both in amazing places, Like I think

534
00:24:27,840 --> 00:24:31,320
Speaker 4: Juliana and Grant are like made for each other. I mean,

535
00:24:31,400 --> 00:24:34,520
Speaker 4: you know, I think when you're watching it back, you're

536
00:24:34,600 --> 00:24:35,160
Speaker 4: learning so.

537
00:24:35,240 --> 00:24:38,080
Speaker 3: Much more about what you did fractions.

538
00:24:37,680 --> 00:24:39,800
Speaker 4: Because really, I think we all just focused on our

539
00:24:39,840 --> 00:24:43,400
Speaker 4: relationships with each other, not really what I didn't really

540
00:24:43,400 --> 00:24:46,800
Speaker 4: worry about what one of my friends relationships was with Grant,

541
00:24:47,440 --> 00:24:49,359
Speaker 4: and so I think, you know, there's always gonna be

542
00:24:49,520 --> 00:24:52,000
Speaker 4: shocking twists, It's always going to be a moment where,

543
00:24:51,680 --> 00:24:53,679
Speaker 4: you know, I wasn't there, I don't know what was

544
00:24:53,680 --> 00:24:57,520
Speaker 4: filmed ex and I think most of any emotions I had,

545
00:24:57,560 --> 00:24:59,840
Speaker 4: I really just like I felt like I was taking

546
00:25:00,040 --> 00:25:02,280
Speaker 4: on the emotions of the girls up there. I was

547
00:25:02,359 --> 00:25:06,160
Speaker 4: just like I felt sad, I felt happy, over joyed

548
00:25:06,160 --> 00:25:08,119
Speaker 4: for Zoe for going to Paradise, Like there was just

549
00:25:08,560 --> 00:25:11,600
Speaker 4: such inn a range of motions and I feel like

550
00:25:11,680 --> 00:25:13,639
Speaker 4: it was, oh really like you were sitting on the

551
00:25:13,720 --> 00:25:16,200
Speaker 4: edge of your seat the entire alley because I was there,

552
00:25:16,200 --> 00:25:18,240
Speaker 4: and I was just like, you know, I don't, I just.

553
00:25:18,240 --> 00:25:22,119
Speaker 2: Which is definitely the sign of good TV, right yeah.

554
00:25:21,800 --> 00:25:24,640
Speaker 1: But I still there's no drama, but there was just

555
00:25:24,640 --> 00:25:27,440
Speaker 1: did you have a feeling that it was who it

556
00:25:27,600 --> 00:25:30,399
Speaker 1: was or were you torn too? You know?

557
00:25:31,400 --> 00:25:36,080
Speaker 4: I mean obviously like you when you are there, you

558
00:25:36,119 --> 00:25:38,000
Speaker 4: have an idea of who it was like. And I

559
00:25:38,000 --> 00:25:39,479
Speaker 4: think a lot of people say this, like when we

560
00:25:39,480 --> 00:25:42,399
Speaker 4: were there, I totally like was like, I feel like

561
00:25:42,480 --> 00:25:44,760
Speaker 4: Litia is definitely a front runner and it made sense,

562
00:25:44,800 --> 00:25:46,040
Speaker 4: but she made it to Final two.

563
00:25:46,320 --> 00:25:47,920
Speaker 3: I think also watching.

564
00:25:47,560 --> 00:25:50,320
Speaker 4: Back, I saw the relationship that they each had with him,

565
00:25:50,359 --> 00:25:54,159
Speaker 4: so I think it it all made sense at the

566
00:25:54,280 --> 00:25:58,040
Speaker 4: end kind of you know, his relationship with each of them,

567
00:25:58,080 --> 00:26:01,240
Speaker 4: and I feel like, really, he just he chose with

568
00:26:01,280 --> 00:26:02,960
Speaker 4: his heart, you know, what was going to work best

569
00:26:02,960 --> 00:26:05,680
Speaker 4: for him. But I do feel like they're both in

570
00:26:05,720 --> 00:26:08,640
Speaker 4: the correct places, Like there's a plan for everyone, and

571
00:26:08,680 --> 00:26:10,760
Speaker 4: you know, what's meant to happen is supposed to happen.

572
00:26:10,800 --> 00:26:12,720
Speaker 4: And I feel like that's what I really took away

573
00:26:12,720 --> 00:26:14,840
Speaker 4: from it. I was like, it wasn't meant to go

574
00:26:14,840 --> 00:26:16,960
Speaker 4: another way. It was literally meant to go this way

575
00:26:17,359 --> 00:26:18,240
Speaker 4: all things should be.

576
00:26:18,760 --> 00:26:21,000
Speaker 2: And that's you know, that was a positive way to

577
00:26:21,000 --> 00:26:23,840
Speaker 2: look at it too, because there's you know, I hate

578
00:26:23,840 --> 00:26:26,480
Speaker 2: the expression one door shuts, the window opens or whatever,

579
00:26:26,520 --> 00:26:28,920
Speaker 2: but in some ways it's very true. You know, it's

580
00:26:29,040 --> 00:26:30,359
Speaker 2: very true, and they.

581
00:26:30,240 --> 00:26:31,439
Speaker 1: At least expected you.

582
00:26:31,560 --> 00:26:32,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, they're both lovely.

583
00:26:34,960 --> 00:26:37,639
Speaker 4: I would have been able, honestly, like I think that

584
00:26:37,960 --> 00:26:41,679
Speaker 4: everybody had, like even just like who was left, Like

585
00:26:41,720 --> 00:26:43,840
Speaker 4: after I went home, I was just like, there's no

586
00:26:43,920 --> 00:26:46,080
Speaker 4: way to know what's going on. You're not really even

587
00:26:46,160 --> 00:26:48,919
Speaker 4: gonna get to know. I wish I could watch all

588
00:26:48,960 --> 00:26:52,800
Speaker 4: the footage of everything. You know, we will two hours.

589
00:26:52,440 --> 00:26:53,920
Speaker 1: All the things they don't put in there.

590
00:26:54,080 --> 00:26:56,879
Speaker 4: Yeah, like I only get two hours like everyone else is. Like,

591
00:26:57,080 --> 00:26:59,880
Speaker 4: I'm also learning things about my friends and about their

592
00:27:00,000 --> 00:27:02,679
Speaker 4: relationships with him, So I think that it was really

593
00:27:02,760 --> 00:27:04,600
Speaker 4: I really enjoyed watching it all back.

594
00:27:04,760 --> 00:27:08,959
Speaker 2: Honestly, I'm well, they do seem very happy, so that

595
00:27:09,160 --> 00:27:09,960
Speaker 2: is Oh my god.

596
00:27:09,840 --> 00:27:12,120
Speaker 3: They're being meant for each other, and I feel.

597
00:27:11,880 --> 00:27:13,639
Speaker 1: Like they they are so cute.

598
00:27:14,040 --> 00:27:14,879
Speaker 3: They're so cute.

599
00:27:14,960 --> 00:27:19,040
Speaker 4: I feel like the way that they interact like they

600
00:27:19,040 --> 00:27:20,760
Speaker 4: were just you know, they were meant for each other,

601
00:27:20,800 --> 00:27:22,800
Speaker 4: and I really love that for them, and I'm just

602
00:27:22,880 --> 00:27:25,399
Speaker 4: so excited for them. I like, hope we all get

603
00:27:25,440 --> 00:27:26,399
Speaker 4: invited to the wedding.

604
00:27:27,480 --> 00:27:28,760
Speaker 1: I do the wedding I knew.

605
00:27:29,119 --> 00:27:34,720
Speaker 2: I knew, poor girl, Like you know, I'll be the commentator,

606
00:27:35,000 --> 00:27:35,640
Speaker 2: Yeah exactly.

607
00:27:35,720 --> 00:27:37,399
Speaker 4: I'm like, you know, I'll help you guys, and I

608
00:27:37,480 --> 00:27:39,600
Speaker 4: love helping my friends play on their weddings. But I

609
00:27:39,680 --> 00:27:42,320
Speaker 4: just feel like everything happened how it was supposed to,

610
00:27:42,600 --> 00:27:44,720
Speaker 4: and I actually cannot.

611
00:27:44,600 --> 00:27:47,080
Speaker 2: Do you wait, do you see yourself getting married in

612
00:27:47,119 --> 00:27:49,840
Speaker 2: the next you know, pick a number of years and

613
00:27:49,920 --> 00:27:52,320
Speaker 2: having kids and a family and settling down.

614
00:27:52,560 --> 00:27:53,240
Speaker 1: Is that your goal?

615
00:27:53,720 --> 00:27:56,360
Speaker 4: Yes, Like I'm from the South, so you know that's

616
00:27:56,400 --> 00:27:58,560
Speaker 4: important to say because if you would have asked me,

617
00:27:58,640 --> 00:28:01,160
Speaker 4: I would have been married at twenty five. I would

618
00:28:01,160 --> 00:28:03,680
Speaker 4: have already like had a kid now. And majority of

619
00:28:03,720 --> 00:28:06,800
Speaker 4: my friends from where I'm from have children and they're married.

620
00:28:07,160 --> 00:28:09,760
Speaker 4: I think right now I would really like to get

621
00:28:09,840 --> 00:28:13,600
Speaker 4: married in the next like four ish years. I really

622
00:28:13,720 --> 00:28:16,199
Speaker 4: like love to take the time to like travel with

623
00:28:16,200 --> 00:28:19,720
Speaker 4: my partner and you know, spend that time in Portugal together.

624
00:28:19,520 --> 00:28:23,560
Speaker 2: And no, no, no, no, bab stop stop, you're traveling

625
00:28:23,600 --> 00:28:24,840
Speaker 2: with us, not.

626
00:28:24,720 --> 00:28:26,840
Speaker 1: Even if you marry them, we're coming anything.

627
00:28:26,920 --> 00:28:29,240
Speaker 3: I'm like, okay, sorry, we have to put our vacation

628
00:28:29,400 --> 00:28:32,720
Speaker 3: on hold. The girls and we have guests.

629
00:28:32,800 --> 00:28:35,680
Speaker 4: My dream husband, he would be like absolutely, he would

630
00:28:36,560 --> 00:28:40,640
Speaker 4: like more than girls Portugal. And that's what I feel

631
00:28:40,680 --> 00:28:42,600
Speaker 4: like I want, like I want a few years to

632
00:28:42,760 --> 00:28:46,040
Speaker 4: like be with my partner, to explore, to do things.

633
00:28:46,560 --> 00:28:48,560
Speaker 4: But I also I love kids, like I do feel

634
00:28:48,560 --> 00:28:51,720
Speaker 4: like one of my many purposes on this children the mother,

635
00:28:52,560 --> 00:28:54,520
Speaker 4: and so I am really excited to have kids. I

636
00:28:54,560 --> 00:28:57,160
Speaker 4: love being an auntie to all my friends kids. It's

637
00:28:57,200 --> 00:28:59,000
Speaker 4: like the thing that keeps me going.

638
00:28:59,160 --> 00:29:02,520
Speaker 3: I definitely go. We're bored on holidays. I cannot help it.

639
00:29:02,560 --> 00:29:04,360
Speaker 3: I do not care. You know.

640
00:29:04,480 --> 00:29:06,600
Speaker 4: I'm like, I was meant, I'm like rich auntie. So

641
00:29:06,640 --> 00:29:09,520
Speaker 4: I'm like, I'm I'm bringing them clothes from everywhere.

642
00:29:10,000 --> 00:29:10,600
Speaker 1: Isn't fun?

643
00:29:10,720 --> 00:29:13,240
Speaker 2: It's so much fun. I have two granddaughters, and my

644
00:29:13,680 --> 00:29:17,480
Speaker 2: youngest granddaughter turns to this Sunday and we're doing a

645
00:29:17,760 --> 00:29:21,400
Speaker 2: everybuddy you know loves that's her birthday and we're gonna

646
00:29:21,480 --> 00:29:23,040
Speaker 2: I'm my daughter and I are going to make a

647
00:29:23,080 --> 00:29:26,360
Speaker 2: bunny birthday cake. And I'm just you know, it's just

648
00:29:26,440 --> 00:29:29,440
Speaker 2: the best dress.

649
00:29:29,760 --> 00:29:32,000
Speaker 4: The two year old is iconic. I love that, like

650
00:29:32,160 --> 00:29:35,120
Speaker 4: I just birthdays. I love themes. I love anything.

651
00:29:35,520 --> 00:29:36,160
Speaker 2: It's a whole thing.

652
00:29:36,320 --> 00:29:39,280
Speaker 3: It's over overbearing parent for sure. If you can't tell.

653
00:29:39,480 --> 00:29:42,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, my daughter loves the theme party and this is

654
00:29:42,240 --> 00:29:45,360
Speaker 2: going to be, you know, incredible with but I got

655
00:29:45,360 --> 00:29:48,280
Speaker 2: we shop for the dress for We got her the cutest,

656
00:29:48,800 --> 00:29:52,000
Speaker 2: of course, smock dress with Easter bunnies hopping across.

657
00:29:53,080 --> 00:29:56,280
Speaker 4: It's like I actually can fully picture the dress. I

658
00:29:56,400 --> 00:29:58,960
Speaker 4: know exactly like what you're talking about that's.

659
00:29:59,160 --> 00:30:02,600
Speaker 1: Absolute perfect, especially girls, they're so fun.

660
00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:03,480
Speaker 3: Oh my god.

661
00:30:11,360 --> 00:30:15,560
Speaker 1: Since we're talking about dating, so we have the question

662
00:30:15,680 --> 00:30:18,280
Speaker 1: of the day that we're going to ask you. Okay,

663
00:30:18,520 --> 00:30:23,640
Speaker 1: do you think long distance relationships can work? And if yes,

664
00:30:24,040 --> 00:30:26,400
Speaker 1: what do you think it takes? So what if you

665
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Speaker 1: met somebody in Europe, not even in Portugal, France, wherever?

666
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Speaker 3: How do you think really open to long distance?

667
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Speaker 2: I are? Or not?

668
00:30:37,880 --> 00:30:40,360
Speaker 3: Yes? I think long distance is a good thing.

669
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Speaker 2: How's it work?

670
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Speaker 4: Actually in my past too, like serious relationships, there were

671
00:30:45,720 --> 00:30:49,200
Speaker 4: moments where we've done long distance. And I think that

672
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Speaker 4: long distance can be good because it allows you to

673
00:30:52,040 --> 00:30:55,080
Speaker 4: like live your life. I don't, I you know, I'm

674
00:30:55,120 --> 00:30:58,760
Speaker 4: not like really that into codependent relationships. So I think

675
00:30:58,760 --> 00:31:02,400
Speaker 4: it's really important to still have of like your self individual.

676
00:31:02,600 --> 00:31:04,959
Speaker 4: I think it should be two entities that come together

677
00:31:05,040 --> 00:31:07,440
Speaker 4: and like make a really good partnership. And I think

678
00:31:07,480 --> 00:31:10,960
Speaker 4: the key to like a successful long distance relationship is

679
00:31:11,000 --> 00:31:14,360
Speaker 4: that you spend the time like cultivating your relationship. You

680
00:31:14,400 --> 00:31:17,160
Speaker 4: spend the time communicating, you spend the time checking in,

681
00:31:17,720 --> 00:31:20,880
Speaker 4: you spend the time, you know, visiting each other. And

682
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Speaker 4: I also think that's kind of what makes it fun,

683
00:31:23,000 --> 00:31:24,520
Speaker 4: Like do I think, do I want to be long

684
00:31:24,520 --> 00:31:25,960
Speaker 4: distance my entire relationship?

685
00:31:26,240 --> 00:31:29,280
Speaker 3: No, of course not. There's moments where I want my

686
00:31:29,320 --> 00:31:31,840
Speaker 3: partner with me, but I don't. I think that people get.

687
00:31:31,640 --> 00:31:33,800
Speaker 4: Really scared of long distance, and it's really not a

688
00:31:33,840 --> 00:31:36,720
Speaker 4: scary thing. It just takes effort and it just takes time.

689
00:31:36,840 --> 00:31:39,719
Speaker 4: When you really care about someone and you really love someone,

690
00:31:40,040 --> 00:31:40,920
Speaker 4: it's not even.

691
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Speaker 1: A thought the time.

692
00:31:41,800 --> 00:31:42,440
Speaker 3: I can't do this.

693
00:31:42,560 --> 00:31:45,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's like whatever, Okay, I'll see you in three weeks,

694
00:31:45,680 --> 00:31:47,680
Speaker 4: like right, and I'll come out. And I'm an adult,

695
00:31:47,720 --> 00:31:49,520
Speaker 4: like I'm twenty eight, Like I can come and see

696
00:31:49,560 --> 00:31:51,720
Speaker 4: you for I mean, and thankfully I work for myself,

697
00:31:51,720 --> 00:31:53,160
Speaker 4: so like I can come spend a month with you

698
00:31:53,200 --> 00:31:54,800
Speaker 4: if you want, like I'm there for a month.

699
00:31:55,040 --> 00:31:55,400
Speaker 3: Whatever.

700
00:31:55,480 --> 00:31:56,959
Speaker 4: We can go on a trip, we can meet up,

701
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Speaker 4: we can you know, meet at my friend's wedding.

702
00:31:59,360 --> 00:32:02,560
Speaker 2: Yeah. It was Ben Higgins who said that. Was it

703
00:32:02,600 --> 00:32:05,280
Speaker 2: Ben Higgins who said that when he started dating, they

704
00:32:05,280 --> 00:32:08,400
Speaker 2: were long distance and they never left without having the

705
00:32:08,440 --> 00:32:10,440
Speaker 2: next date, you know, the next time they're going to

706
00:32:10,440 --> 00:32:13,720
Speaker 2: meet each other. Yes, but I think it's hard to

707
00:32:13,920 --> 00:32:17,920
Speaker 2: start a date a relationship long distance. I mean, you

708
00:32:17,960 --> 00:32:21,240
Speaker 2: meet someone you got to spend some quality time with

709
00:32:21,320 --> 00:32:24,040
Speaker 2: them in that initial stage to know you want to

710
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Speaker 2: do long distance.

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00:32:24,920 --> 00:32:26,760
Speaker 3: Right, Yeah, I mean I think it's hard.

712
00:32:26,760 --> 00:32:29,440
Speaker 4: They'll also like I think we can all relate to this,

713
00:32:29,600 --> 00:32:32,120
Speaker 4: Like I think you'd be shocked how quickly your emotions

714
00:32:32,160 --> 00:32:34,200
Speaker 4: get involved, Like you know what I mean. Even just

715
00:32:34,200 --> 00:32:36,320
Speaker 4: being on the show, you're like, oh, I'm like really

716
00:32:36,400 --> 00:32:38,239
Speaker 4: into this person. So I feel like it's kind of

717
00:32:38,320 --> 00:32:40,640
Speaker 4: like a similar thing in that sense. And I also

718
00:32:40,680 --> 00:32:43,520
Speaker 4: think going on the show, you you really have to

719
00:32:43,520 --> 00:32:45,920
Speaker 4: be in the mindset that there's no you know, we're

720
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Speaker 4: all from all over, so there's.

721
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Speaker 1: No way that we're going to be able to not

722
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Speaker 1: getting the guy next.

723
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Speaker 2: Yeah we're not.

724
00:32:50,280 --> 00:32:50,600
Speaker 1: We're not.

725
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Speaker 3: I mean a miracle.

726
00:32:53,360 --> 00:32:55,720
Speaker 4: They you guys lived in the same place, but nine

727
00:32:55,760 --> 00:32:57,440
Speaker 4: times out of ten that's just not the case. So

728
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Speaker 4: I think you have to go into it being a

729
00:33:00,000 --> 00:33:02,320
Speaker 4: okay with long distance. And I love the idea that

730
00:33:02,320 --> 00:33:04,680
Speaker 4: you would go ahead and plan your I'm a big planner,

731
00:33:04,800 --> 00:33:07,840
Speaker 4: so I you know, I'm totally into that.

732
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Speaker 3: You always have something free dates.

733
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Speaker 2: I want to date for Bailey, I want to date

734
00:33:12,160 --> 00:33:13,680
Speaker 2: you could get my life totally together.

735
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Speaker 3: I'll come visit you I'll go to your closet.

736
00:33:17,360 --> 00:33:20,800
Speaker 2: I'll free Oh you listen, you have no idea what

737
00:33:20,840 --> 00:33:23,440
Speaker 2: you are signing up for. People say to me, oh,

738
00:33:23,520 --> 00:33:26,000
Speaker 2: Kathy always looks so nice. You're put together. Do you

739
00:33:26,080 --> 00:33:30,080
Speaker 2: understand it is like ripping toenails off? I mean it

740
00:33:30,200 --> 00:33:31,760
Speaker 2: is so hard for me.

741
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Speaker 3: Oh say my bed.

742
00:33:34,760 --> 00:33:36,360
Speaker 4: So I'm like, I don't want to get up today,

743
00:33:36,400 --> 00:33:39,560
Speaker 4: Like I don't actually want to do anything. And then I,

744
00:33:39,600 --> 00:33:42,280
Speaker 4: you know, the me being a goal oriented person like

745
00:33:42,320 --> 00:33:43,320
Speaker 4: always gets me out of the bed.

746
00:33:43,320 --> 00:33:45,600
Speaker 3: But I'm like, can I just like take a break.

747
00:33:45,360 --> 00:33:47,800
Speaker 1: And say, we all have those dings we do?

748
00:33:48,760 --> 00:33:49,000
Speaker 2: Wow?

749
00:33:49,200 --> 00:33:53,040
Speaker 1: Now we also do advice. People right in to us

750
00:33:53,520 --> 00:33:56,120
Speaker 1: and they want our opinions and our advice. So we

751
00:33:56,200 --> 00:33:58,440
Speaker 1: would like you to give some advice today. Are you

752
00:33:58,480 --> 00:33:59,040
Speaker 1: okay with that?

753
00:33:59,640 --> 00:33:59,800
Speaker 3: Oh?

754
00:33:59,840 --> 00:34:03,959
Speaker 4: I actually love giving unsolicited and solicited advice. It's like

755
00:34:04,040 --> 00:34:05,400
Speaker 4: a thing being a Taurus.

756
00:34:05,440 --> 00:34:09,400
Speaker 6: Like wait, I'm Taurus too, but your Taurus.

757
00:34:09,640 --> 00:34:11,960
Speaker 2: I am my birthdays May ninth May?

758
00:34:12,800 --> 00:34:13,040
Speaker 1: Okay?

759
00:34:13,120 --> 00:34:15,359
Speaker 4: You know, like Tauruses, we find each other and I

760
00:34:15,440 --> 00:34:17,640
Speaker 4: feel like a lot I have a lot of friends

761
00:34:17,760 --> 00:34:21,160
Speaker 4: that are chorus is like it's team Taurus. And the

762
00:34:21,200 --> 00:34:22,879
Speaker 4: thing is we get along with everyone, So I think

763
00:34:22,920 --> 00:34:24,399
Speaker 4: that's also a really big thing.

764
00:34:24,560 --> 00:34:26,480
Speaker 1: Is but what happened to the bowl?

765
00:34:26,960 --> 00:34:34,759
Speaker 2: Like my my son in law's birthday is in May,

766
00:34:34,960 --> 00:34:38,480
Speaker 2: is in May, my sister's birthdays in May, my son's

767
00:34:38,520 --> 00:34:40,320
Speaker 2: birthdays in May. May is a great mind. And the

768
00:34:40,400 --> 00:34:42,359
Speaker 2: rest of my siblings are born in April. So we're

769
00:34:42,400 --> 00:34:43,600
Speaker 2: a bunch of Torreans here.

770
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Speaker 4: Oh I love tourist season. I actually celebrate my birthday

771
00:34:46,800 --> 00:34:49,040
Speaker 4: all of April and all of tourist seasons.

772
00:34:49,080 --> 00:34:50,600
Speaker 3: So it's behalf of May.

773
00:34:51,040 --> 00:34:51,960
Speaker 1: When is yours? May?

774
00:34:52,000 --> 00:34:56,200
Speaker 2: What mine's April twenty four?

775
00:34:56,320 --> 00:34:59,360
Speaker 4: The whole month of April. I've already that's mine. And

776
00:34:59,400 --> 00:35:01,080
Speaker 4: then I also go into Taurus.

777
00:35:01,360 --> 00:35:03,000
Speaker 2: I'm like, yeah, I would like you. I would like

778
00:35:03,040 --> 00:35:06,640
Speaker 2: to invite you. I would like you to invite celebrating April.

779
00:35:07,360 --> 00:35:08,840
Speaker 2: That's where we got March, April and mayhir.

780
00:35:09,040 --> 00:35:11,680
Speaker 3: I mean, Kathy, you might be celebrating somewhere else.

781
00:35:11,760 --> 00:35:15,040
Speaker 2: I know if I do and you're there, will you

782
00:35:15,200 --> 00:35:20,320
Speaker 2: help me pick out what to wear? Oh my god, Okay,

783
00:35:20,560 --> 00:35:22,359
Speaker 2: this is getting better all the time. All right, here

784
00:35:22,400 --> 00:35:27,360
Speaker 2: we go, We're gonna go uh with some advisor Ali asks, Hi, ladies,

785
00:35:28,000 --> 00:35:30,680
Speaker 2: I need your help I want to know if you

786
00:35:30,840 --> 00:35:35,480
Speaker 2: think this is friendship breakup worthy. Uh oh, I've been

787
00:35:35,520 --> 00:35:38,279
Speaker 2: besties with my friend Nina since high school and we're

788
00:35:38,320 --> 00:35:41,960
Speaker 2: twenty six now. She's always been the peacekeeper type, so

789
00:35:42,040 --> 00:35:45,440
Speaker 2: getting her to cut someone off is impossible. For example,

790
00:35:45,760 --> 00:35:48,080
Speaker 2: if I was wronged by someone in our friend group,

791
00:35:48,320 --> 00:35:51,800
Speaker 2: she'd continue her friendship with them. I always just accepted

792
00:35:51,840 --> 00:35:54,279
Speaker 2: this about her because I never saw a problem with it.

793
00:35:54,480 --> 00:35:57,440
Speaker 2: But now I'm wondering if it's a red flag. I

794
00:35:57,480 --> 00:36:00,360
Speaker 2: recently broke up with my boyfriend of four years because

795
00:36:00,360 --> 00:36:03,320
Speaker 2: I found out he was cheating on me with multiple women.

796
00:36:03,760 --> 00:36:07,040
Speaker 2: I've obviously been very angry and devastated by this, so

797
00:36:07,120 --> 00:36:11,200
Speaker 2: I vented to Nina. Last weekend. While I was at

798
00:36:11,200 --> 00:36:13,839
Speaker 2: home with bad cramps, I got a text from one

799
00:36:13,840 --> 00:36:15,920
Speaker 2: of the girls in our friend group. It was a

800
00:36:15,960 --> 00:36:19,279
Speaker 2: screenshot of my ex's Instagram story at a bar lo

801
00:36:19,440 --> 00:36:22,600
Speaker 2: and behold, Nina was in the background taking shots with

802
00:36:22,680 --> 00:36:25,640
Speaker 2: him and his friends. I'm going to be seeing Nina

803
00:36:25,719 --> 00:36:29,799
Speaker 2: next week for a wine night AKA to bring it

804
00:36:29,880 --> 00:36:32,960
Speaker 2: up to her. She has no idea I know. Should

805
00:36:32,960 --> 00:36:35,359
Speaker 2: I even do this and confront her or just cut

806
00:36:35,400 --> 00:36:38,600
Speaker 2: her off? Am I being too harsh. What should I do?

807
00:36:38,840 --> 00:36:43,520
Speaker 2: Am I justified and feeling betrayed? Hey? Thanks, ladies, what

808
00:36:43,560 --> 00:36:44,080
Speaker 2: do you think?

809
00:36:44,800 --> 00:36:48,240
Speaker 3: Oh, that is such a doozy. That is really crazy.

810
00:36:48,400 --> 00:36:51,160
Speaker 4: Okay, And I'm going to say this and maybe you

811
00:36:51,200 --> 00:36:53,280
Speaker 4: can relate happy because you're also a Taurus.

812
00:36:53,440 --> 00:36:54,920
Speaker 3: Yep, I am.

813
00:36:54,920 --> 00:36:59,000
Speaker 4: Quick to cut people off quick. I you know you're

814
00:36:59,040 --> 00:37:02,200
Speaker 4: a snip snip snip. Now, if you're my best friend

815
00:37:02,600 --> 00:37:06,719
Speaker 4: and you met my boyfriend or my ex boyfriend through me,

816
00:37:07,200 --> 00:37:10,160
Speaker 4: as soon as I cut ties with him, you also

817
00:37:10,239 --> 00:37:12,440
Speaker 4: cut ties with him. And I do have like very

818
00:37:12,760 --> 00:37:15,040
Speaker 4: a very harsh sense of like, you know, I feel

819
00:37:15,040 --> 00:37:17,279
Speaker 4: like I give advice and I'm like, cut that person off.

820
00:37:17,480 --> 00:37:18,960
Speaker 4: I think it's a little bit different if they like

821
00:37:19,040 --> 00:37:21,440
Speaker 4: have known each other since high school. But still I

822
00:37:21,440 --> 00:37:25,799
Speaker 4: wouldn't feel comfortable hanging out with my friend's ex at

823
00:37:25,840 --> 00:37:29,400
Speaker 4: any moment, and I think just going in, I would first,

824
00:37:30,040 --> 00:37:31,719
Speaker 4: you know, bring that to her and be like, I

825
00:37:31,719 --> 00:37:34,800
Speaker 4: don't feel comfortable with you guys hanging out. You should

826
00:37:34,840 --> 00:37:37,080
Speaker 4: be my friend, you should be supporting me. Now, if

827
00:37:37,120 --> 00:37:39,880
Speaker 4: they have been friends for like, I don't know, fifteen years,

828
00:37:39,920 --> 00:37:43,680
Speaker 4: there's there's another thing to had said. But also if

829
00:37:43,719 --> 00:37:46,400
Speaker 4: you're my best friend. There's just no reason why you are.

830
00:37:46,480 --> 00:37:49,360
Speaker 1: What why would you be hanging out doing shots with

831
00:37:49,440 --> 00:37:52,439
Speaker 1: him when you know he just cheated on your best friends? Right?

832
00:37:52,520 --> 00:37:54,279
Speaker 3: Wait I cheating the cheating.

833
00:37:54,880 --> 00:37:58,879
Speaker 2: Okay, well but Bailey you just like but Bailey said

834
00:37:58,920 --> 00:38:01,239
Speaker 2: maybe if they've known each other since high school. I mean,

835
00:38:01,560 --> 00:38:05,120
Speaker 2: but should you bring it up? I think Ali, the

836
00:38:05,120 --> 00:38:08,640
Speaker 2: three of us are saying wholeheartedly, yes, you should bring

837
00:38:08,680 --> 00:38:10,680
Speaker 2: it up without a doubt.

838
00:38:10,600 --> 00:38:13,120
Speaker 1: And you can make your choice to hang with him.

839
00:38:13,120 --> 00:38:14,319
Speaker 1: But you can't hang with me?

840
00:38:15,120 --> 00:38:15,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think.

841
00:38:15,760 --> 00:38:17,360
Speaker 4: I mean it's hard because you don't want to have

842
00:38:17,400 --> 00:38:23,000
Speaker 4: to pick side. Give you just ultimatum.

843
00:38:22,440 --> 00:38:23,520
Speaker 3: Because I forgot that he.

844
00:38:23,520 --> 00:38:27,200
Speaker 4: Cheated and that that's big, that's too much, Like I'm

845
00:38:27,200 --> 00:38:28,880
Speaker 4: not going to be friends with someone that's friends with

846
00:38:28,880 --> 00:38:30,040
Speaker 4: my cheating ex boyfriend.

847
00:38:30,120 --> 00:38:33,200
Speaker 2: Like in another podcast, I just said to Susan my

848
00:38:33,320 --> 00:38:36,080
Speaker 2: three things that I that I would break up with

849
00:38:36,080 --> 00:38:38,319
Speaker 2: the guy over. My have three things. The first one

850
00:38:38,360 --> 00:38:41,560
Speaker 2: is cheating, the second one is cheating, and the third

851
00:38:41,560 --> 00:38:43,799
Speaker 2: one is lying. Now there's other ones in there too,

852
00:38:43,880 --> 00:38:44,960
Speaker 2: but cheating for me.

853
00:38:46,600 --> 00:38:50,080
Speaker 4: Like that breaks the trust? Like and also how can

854
00:38:50,120 --> 00:38:51,640
Speaker 4: I trust you as a friend? Like what are you

855
00:38:51,680 --> 00:38:53,040
Speaker 4: saying to him there's a lot.

856
00:38:53,040 --> 00:38:55,320
Speaker 1: Okay with it? I mean, how can you be okay

857
00:38:55,360 --> 00:38:57,600
Speaker 1: with that? You know, I'm not going to force you

858
00:38:57,680 --> 00:39:00,839
Speaker 1: to be mad at him. But I don't think she's

859
00:39:00,880 --> 00:39:03,480
Speaker 1: being harsh. I don't think she's been harsh. I think

860
00:39:03,520 --> 00:39:07,600
Speaker 1: she's probably upset emotionally, like, this is my friend, and

861
00:39:07,760 --> 00:39:10,040
Speaker 1: you think she's asking does she bring it up or

862
00:39:10,120 --> 00:39:10,879
Speaker 1: just ignore it?

863
00:39:10,960 --> 00:39:12,680
Speaker 2: Like, so, of course you bring it up. You have

864
00:39:12,719 --> 00:39:13,520
Speaker 2: to tell your friend.

865
00:39:13,760 --> 00:39:15,160
Speaker 1: You got to look her in the eye and say,

866
00:39:15,200 --> 00:39:18,080
Speaker 1: do you know how that feels? Put yourself in my shoes?

867
00:39:18,480 --> 00:39:19,759
Speaker 1: This is not okay with me?

868
00:39:20,719 --> 00:39:23,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, this is I think this is definitely something she

869
00:39:23,120 --> 00:39:25,880
Speaker 4: needs to bring up it. Actually, I wouldn't feel comfortable

870
00:39:25,920 --> 00:39:28,759
Speaker 4: being friends with my best friend knowing that this would

871
00:39:28,760 --> 00:39:29,120
Speaker 4: be going on.

872
00:39:29,160 --> 00:39:31,000
Speaker 3: I would called her up Melium and like.

873
00:39:31,200 --> 00:39:34,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, I would I asked this question. I was going

874
00:39:34,080 --> 00:39:35,799
Speaker 2: to say, I would have made a wine date. Either

875
00:39:35,840 --> 00:39:39,319
Speaker 2: would be like what the hell are you doing? You

876
00:39:39,360 --> 00:39:41,560
Speaker 2: know what I would have done, Take a screenshot of

877
00:39:41,640 --> 00:39:44,160
Speaker 2: the screenshot, send it on her and say you want

878
00:39:44,200 --> 00:39:46,440
Speaker 2: to explain this, you got thirty seconds.

879
00:39:46,560 --> 00:39:48,960
Speaker 4: I have done that so many times, Like I have

880
00:39:49,120 --> 00:39:52,040
Speaker 4: sent a screenshot and then sometimes I blocked.

881
00:39:52,440 --> 00:39:54,560
Speaker 2: We areous raetorians.

882
00:39:54,760 --> 00:39:55,839
Speaker 1: We don't go back and.

883
00:39:55,800 --> 00:39:57,920
Speaker 3: Be like, okay, now you have the chance to respond.

884
00:39:58,040 --> 00:40:02,120
Speaker 4: Now I've block you blocked that buttons so easy to

885
00:40:02,160 --> 00:40:05,520
Speaker 4: push my favorite button, like because.

886
00:40:05,680 --> 00:40:09,759
Speaker 1: It gives me time to did you take it all in?

887
00:40:10,160 --> 00:40:11,520
Speaker 1: You know I don't yet.

888
00:40:11,840 --> 00:40:13,520
Speaker 3: Now you can also take it in?

889
00:40:13,560 --> 00:40:17,120
Speaker 4: And you know, unfortunately I'm a Taurus, like it's on

890
00:40:17,200 --> 00:40:20,160
Speaker 4: my time and I'm the one that I did it

891
00:40:20,200 --> 00:40:20,680
Speaker 4: for a reason.

892
00:40:20,760 --> 00:40:21,279
Speaker 2: About me?

893
00:40:21,719 --> 00:40:25,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, about like sorry, I deserve an answer when I'm

894
00:40:25,760 --> 00:40:26,399
Speaker 3: ready for one.

895
00:40:26,560 --> 00:40:31,279
Speaker 2: That's right until then, until then, go counchy. All right,

896
00:40:31,560 --> 00:40:33,759
Speaker 2: So we have gotten to know you a little better.

897
00:40:33,800 --> 00:40:37,360
Speaker 2: We love you. We want to open the floor to you. Bailey.

898
00:40:37,560 --> 00:40:40,640
Speaker 2: Do you have questions for us, comments, thoughts, advice? What

899
00:40:41,000 --> 00:40:43,360
Speaker 2: do you got for us? Because you're a smart, talented woman.

900
00:40:43,560 --> 00:40:46,720
Speaker 4: Love. I feel like I vibe with you guys so well,

901
00:40:46,760 --> 00:40:49,160
Speaker 4: and I would like genuinely love to know. I guess

902
00:40:49,239 --> 00:40:52,600
Speaker 4: as I'm getting into twenty eight, I'm so excited for thirties,

903
00:40:52,719 --> 00:40:56,040
Speaker 4: Like you know, what advice would you guys give to me?

904
00:40:56,640 --> 00:40:58,799
Speaker 4: You know, just about like navigating life, and I think

905
00:40:58,880 --> 00:41:02,799
Speaker 4: even navigating partnerships like going forward, Like you know, I

906
00:41:02,800 --> 00:41:05,680
Speaker 4: think I would really like take what you guys have

907
00:41:05,719 --> 00:41:07,040
Speaker 4: to say to heart and don't for me.

908
00:41:07,480 --> 00:41:10,520
Speaker 1: It's something I learned later, and I didn't take the

909
00:41:10,560 --> 00:41:13,800
Speaker 1: advice I heard the advice when you see a red flag,

910
00:41:14,120 --> 00:41:17,840
Speaker 1: it is a red flag. You're not going to change anybody.

911
00:41:17,880 --> 00:41:20,719
Speaker 1: And be true to yourself. Know what you want and

912
00:41:20,760 --> 00:41:25,240
Speaker 1: what makes you happy, and don't settle for anything less.

913
00:41:25,440 --> 00:41:26,200
Speaker 3: That's so good.

914
00:41:26,600 --> 00:41:29,719
Speaker 1: Don't give up your career for anybody, do you.

915
00:41:30,239 --> 00:41:34,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think when you're you're clearly a smart, talented,

916
00:41:34,920 --> 00:41:37,960
Speaker 2: beautiful woman who's going to dress me so I look

917
00:41:38,080 --> 00:41:40,399
Speaker 2: like you and I can hardly wait. But as you're

918
00:41:40,440 --> 00:41:43,200
Speaker 2: looking for that perfect guy, first of all, there is

919
00:41:43,239 --> 00:41:47,960
Speaker 2: no perfect guy. There's always compromised people mistake perfection for

920
00:41:48,280 --> 00:41:52,680
Speaker 2: or lack of perfection for settling. They're not perfect for you,

921
00:41:52,760 --> 00:41:55,719
Speaker 2: They're not that There's there's two different things are I

922
00:41:55,760 --> 00:41:59,240
Speaker 2: would say to you, You're you're busy and you're involved

923
00:41:59,239 --> 00:42:01,880
Speaker 2: in so many things. So Bailey, do the things that

924
00:42:01,960 --> 00:42:05,160
Speaker 2: you love and the right people will come into your life.

925
00:42:05,920 --> 00:42:06,680
Speaker 2: So that's it.

926
00:42:06,600 --> 00:42:09,520
Speaker 1: Takes to your sixty eight. But I'm just say I.

927
00:42:09,480 --> 00:42:13,279
Speaker 4: Mean I'm really wanting I want my marriage like I

928
00:42:13,320 --> 00:42:14,120
Speaker 4: want to get it right.

929
00:42:14,200 --> 00:42:16,480
Speaker 3: So I'm really wait. I'm willing to wait if that's

930
00:42:16,480 --> 00:42:17,000
Speaker 3: what it takes.

931
00:42:17,080 --> 00:42:21,560
Speaker 2: But you're going to compromise, compromises, not settling, Bailey. There

932
00:42:21,600 --> 00:42:23,680
Speaker 2: will be compromises in your and I don't think a

933
00:42:23,719 --> 00:42:27,800
Speaker 2: lot of people get that at any age. They if

934
00:42:28,320 --> 00:42:30,879
Speaker 2: you know, you're going to have to compromise, because that's

935
00:42:31,719 --> 00:42:35,600
Speaker 2: everyone does. The communication I think is the most important thing.

936
00:42:36,040 --> 00:42:40,080
Speaker 2: But again people mistake communication for listen to what I'm

937
00:42:40,120 --> 00:42:43,200
Speaker 2: telling you. Well, no, it goes both ways. Listen to

938
00:42:43,200 --> 00:42:45,879
Speaker 2: what I'm telling you, and I'm going to listen to you,

939
00:42:46,520 --> 00:42:49,840
Speaker 2: and that's hard. Sometimes my marriage is hard work.

940
00:42:50,160 --> 00:42:53,600
Speaker 1: When you were talking about the long distance relationship, I'm

941
00:42:54,200 --> 00:42:59,520
Speaker 1: just started one, and you had the perfect, perfect words

942
00:43:00,440 --> 00:43:02,360
Speaker 1: which were I was paying attention?

943
00:43:03,000 --> 00:43:03,400
Speaker 2: Was paying?

944
00:43:04,040 --> 00:43:07,960
Speaker 4: The long distance is like when you love someone, when

945
00:43:07,960 --> 00:43:10,880
Speaker 4: you see potential, it's okay, the lease of your worries.

946
00:43:10,960 --> 00:43:14,359
Speaker 4: Like you know, I also love traveling, so like I'm

947
00:43:14,360 --> 00:43:17,400
Speaker 4: open to like exploring new cities and learning new things

948
00:43:17,480 --> 00:43:20,200
Speaker 4: and I want to that also does that, you know.

949
00:43:20,440 --> 00:43:23,480
Speaker 1: And for you, I think it will be even difficult

950
00:43:23,480 --> 00:43:26,399
Speaker 1: because you're so worldly I mean, you fly over here,

951
00:43:26,480 --> 00:43:29,520
Speaker 1: you're over here, You're in Florida, you're in Atlanta, and

952
00:43:29,719 --> 00:43:33,000
Speaker 1: a lot of the men your age haven't had this

953
00:43:33,160 --> 00:43:37,680
Speaker 1: worldly experience as of yet. You'll be able to show him.

954
00:43:37,920 --> 00:43:40,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm not expecting someone to like come to me

955
00:43:40,640 --> 00:43:42,719
Speaker 4: and be like yeah, I like I've lived here, I

956
00:43:42,760 --> 00:43:45,279
Speaker 4: live here. I'm like, yes, yes, the beauty is guess what,

957
00:43:45,400 --> 00:43:50,279
Speaker 4: I actually have a place that we can stay with me.

958
00:43:50,640 --> 00:43:52,840
Speaker 3: I just want someone that wants to come with me.

959
00:43:52,920 --> 00:43:57,640
Speaker 2: And I'm curious. Bailey. First of all, I wuldn't know what

960
00:43:57,719 --> 00:44:01,160
Speaker 2: your age ranges for, like how old and how young

961
00:44:01,200 --> 00:44:03,520
Speaker 2: will you go? Because usually when you ask that question,

962
00:44:03,560 --> 00:44:05,920
Speaker 2: people say how old they'll go? How old will you go?

963
00:44:06,000 --> 00:44:07,200
Speaker 2: But also how young will you go?

964
00:44:07,640 --> 00:44:11,399
Speaker 4: Okay, so turning twenty eight, I think youngest I would

965
00:44:11,480 --> 00:44:16,120
Speaker 4: go is like twenty six, and I though I'm not

966
00:44:16,200 --> 00:44:19,520
Speaker 4: against it, I'm trying to keep an open mind. I

967
00:44:19,520 --> 00:44:23,440
Speaker 4: would rather not date younger. I would definitely rather date older.

968
00:44:23,480 --> 00:44:26,280
Speaker 4: I think just being the kind I've always been very mature,

969
00:44:26,400 --> 00:44:28,759
Speaker 4: as like an older sibling, and so I feel like

970
00:44:28,800 --> 00:44:32,239
Speaker 4: I've always kind of wanted someone that's a little bit

971
00:44:32,280 --> 00:44:35,319
Speaker 4: older than me, as far as like oldest I'll go.

972
00:44:35,480 --> 00:44:38,319
Speaker 4: I mean I feel like I would go like ten

973
00:44:38,480 --> 00:44:41,759
Speaker 4: or twelve years about twenty eight. I'm not like, you know,

974
00:44:42,719 --> 00:44:46,160
Speaker 4: against anything. I just feel like because I don't really

975
00:44:46,160 --> 00:44:49,200
Speaker 4: have a type of person. I really don't know, you know,

976
00:44:49,239 --> 00:44:50,919
Speaker 4: I don't know how old they would be. I don't

977
00:44:50,960 --> 00:44:53,040
Speaker 4: know what my perfect match, what age they would be.

978
00:44:53,080 --> 00:44:55,000
Speaker 4: I feel like I don't want to like say no

979
00:44:55,200 --> 00:44:58,080
Speaker 4: when this person could really be someone that could bring

980
00:44:58,120 --> 00:45:01,160
Speaker 4: me a lot of smart this yeah, you know, I'm like,

981
00:45:01,239 --> 00:45:03,080
Speaker 4: I don't want to like just be like no because

982
00:45:03,120 --> 00:45:05,120
Speaker 4: he doesn't look like this or it's not this age,

983
00:45:05,239 --> 00:45:08,120
Speaker 4: Like I'm definitely not. The problem is, though I do

984
00:45:08,200 --> 00:45:10,600
Speaker 4: look really young, So I think a lot of times

985
00:45:10,640 --> 00:45:12,960
Speaker 4: younger guys come to me and they're like, no, like

986
00:45:13,160 --> 00:45:14,640
Speaker 4: it's fine that you're seven years older.

987
00:45:14,680 --> 00:45:21,240
Speaker 6: I'm like yeah, and I do you ever get guys

988
00:45:21,320 --> 00:45:24,960
Speaker 6: saying to you because you are accomplished and Susan and

989
00:45:24,960 --> 00:45:28,560
Speaker 6: I've had this and actually it's it greats on me

990
00:45:28,760 --> 00:45:31,399
Speaker 6: because there's so much more to me than that.

991
00:45:31,560 --> 00:45:34,120
Speaker 2: Do you ever have men say to you, Wow, you're

992
00:45:34,200 --> 00:45:37,719
Speaker 2: a lot, You're you're too strong, you're too competent, you're too.

993
00:45:37,840 --> 00:45:40,400
Speaker 2: Whatever do you ever have that men said it?

994
00:45:40,400 --> 00:45:43,640
Speaker 3: Because I imagine guys really like me on paper.

995
00:45:43,760 --> 00:45:46,279
Speaker 4: I think I present really well on paper, and so

996
00:45:46,360 --> 00:45:49,239
Speaker 4: I think that sometimes is really intimidating to them in

997
00:45:49,280 --> 00:45:52,120
Speaker 4: the sense of, like, I do have really high expectations.

998
00:45:52,160 --> 00:45:54,520
Speaker 4: I think my dad and my brother have sent a

999
00:45:54,520 --> 00:45:57,520
Speaker 4: lot of high expectations as to what I expect, like

1000
00:45:58,239 --> 00:46:00,160
Speaker 4: the man in my the men in my life to

1001
00:46:00,200 --> 00:46:03,560
Speaker 4: do for me and to interrupt me. And so I

1002
00:46:03,560 --> 00:46:05,640
Speaker 4: think that can be really off putting to a lot

1003
00:46:05,680 --> 00:46:05,960
Speaker 4: of guys.

1004
00:46:06,000 --> 00:46:08,000
Speaker 2: I think that's that's the word off put. Off put.

1005
00:46:08,160 --> 00:46:09,920
Speaker 4: I'm not really into like younger because I think that

1006
00:46:10,160 --> 00:46:12,080
Speaker 4: is really I mean, that's scary, Like how can I

1007
00:46:12,120 --> 00:46:14,239
Speaker 4: expect a twenty seven year old to like come in

1008
00:46:14,640 --> 00:46:16,479
Speaker 4: and you know, I don't know how.

1009
00:46:16,400 --> 00:46:17,360
Speaker 3: To do my car things?

1010
00:46:17,400 --> 00:46:21,160
Speaker 4: Like yeah, little brother, still my dad passed that job

1011
00:46:21,239 --> 00:46:22,400
Speaker 4: was given to my little brother.

1012
00:46:23,239 --> 00:46:26,480
Speaker 2: You though you could do it, you have Okay. So

1013
00:46:26,880 --> 00:46:29,600
Speaker 2: here's here's another piece of advice for you. If a

1014
00:46:29,640 --> 00:46:34,720
Speaker 2: man tells you you are too much, it means they're

1015
00:46:34,760 --> 00:46:35,719
Speaker 2: just not enough.

1016
00:46:36,280 --> 00:46:39,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, And I need to keep that in mind because

1017
00:46:39,600 --> 00:46:42,480
Speaker 4: I feel like the person that's meant for me, I

1018
00:46:42,520 --> 00:46:44,360
Speaker 4: won't be too much, you know, I will be like

1019
00:46:44,440 --> 00:46:48,200
Speaker 4: exactly the completion of them. I will add what they're

1020
00:46:48,239 --> 00:46:50,960
Speaker 4: missing or you know, little things like that. So I

1021
00:46:51,000 --> 00:46:53,719
Speaker 4: feel like I alsum, Thats why I've been so selective

1022
00:46:53,800 --> 00:46:56,000
Speaker 4: with dating in a sense, because I'm like, oh, you know,

1023
00:46:56,680 --> 00:46:59,719
Speaker 4: I don't want to be disappointed. I want to, you know,

1024
00:47:00,040 --> 00:47:02,560
Speaker 4: meet someone that's really going to like help me grow

1025
00:47:02,640 --> 00:47:03,120
Speaker 4: and be there for.

1026
00:47:03,280 --> 00:47:09,239
Speaker 1: And loves you for you quirkiness or your spontaneouism and

1027
00:47:09,320 --> 00:47:14,400
Speaker 1: your outgoing personality. There is somebody out there that appreciates that.

1028
00:47:14,920 --> 00:47:16,880
Speaker 2: I think there's more than one person out there. I

1029
00:47:16,880 --> 00:47:19,200
Speaker 2: don't believe there's only one person in the world for us,

1030
00:47:19,440 --> 00:47:21,680
Speaker 2: do you, Billy, I don't know.

1031
00:47:21,800 --> 00:47:24,720
Speaker 3: I think that you can be a love multiple times.

1032
00:47:24,960 --> 00:47:25,719
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying.

1033
00:47:25,880 --> 00:47:27,600
Speaker 3: Absolutely, it's honestly.

1034
00:47:27,640 --> 00:47:28,960
Speaker 4: I mean, I think through the show we can all

1035
00:47:28,960 --> 00:47:31,000
Speaker 4: see it's possible to be in love with multiple peep

1036
00:47:31,040 --> 00:47:33,799
Speaker 4: in people, multiple people at the same time. And I

1037
00:47:33,880 --> 00:47:37,520
Speaker 4: also think that there you know, people come in your

1038
00:47:37,560 --> 00:47:40,799
Speaker 4: life for a reason and there's different Just because you've

1039
00:47:40,840 --> 00:47:43,279
Speaker 4: like loved somebody, that doesn't mean that like you.

1040
00:47:43,239 --> 00:47:44,799
Speaker 3: Will never love again, Like.

1041
00:47:44,960 --> 00:47:46,279
Speaker 2: I I hope not.

1042
00:47:47,920 --> 00:47:50,160
Speaker 3: I can't be that. I'm like, I'm gonna need to

1043
00:47:50,200 --> 00:47:52,680
Speaker 3: be in love again. Thank you, Like this is need,

1044
00:47:52,719 --> 00:47:53,160
Speaker 3: this is need.

1045
00:47:53,200 --> 00:47:54,480
Speaker 1: I can't trust me you will.

1046
00:47:55,760 --> 00:47:56,840
Speaker 3: I'm not that worried about it.

1047
00:47:56,920 --> 00:47:59,400
Speaker 4: I think that there's different people that were put in

1048
00:47:59,480 --> 00:48:01,000
Speaker 4: your life for different reason.

1049
00:48:01,719 --> 00:48:03,640
Speaker 1: Everybody comes into you, you know, it may be.

1050
00:48:03,760 --> 00:48:06,520
Speaker 4: That, like God decided that that person was there for

1051
00:48:06,560 --> 00:48:08,600
Speaker 4: you to like be a shoulder, for you to lean

1052
00:48:08,640 --> 00:48:09,280
Speaker 4: on them.

1053
00:48:09,280 --> 00:48:10,680
Speaker 3: There's a bigger place.

1054
00:48:10,560 --> 00:48:14,080
Speaker 1: Or teach you something or experience. Yes, yes, exactly. You

1055
00:48:14,239 --> 00:48:17,160
Speaker 1: are so above your age.

1056
00:48:18,120 --> 00:48:21,560
Speaker 2: Since we talk about this, I'm sure we've had several

1057
00:48:22,320 --> 00:48:25,959
Speaker 2: we've had several of the women from Grant season. All

1058
00:48:26,000 --> 00:48:29,640
Speaker 2: of you are I said, you're all beautiful and talented

1059
00:48:29,680 --> 00:48:33,440
Speaker 2: and successful, but you're also, in my mind wise beyond

1060
00:48:33,440 --> 00:48:34,000
Speaker 2: your years.

1061
00:48:34,719 --> 00:48:38,239
Speaker 4: The girls I can't even express, like how amazing all

1062
00:48:38,280 --> 00:48:39,000
Speaker 4: of them are.

1063
00:48:39,080 --> 00:48:40,040
Speaker 3: Like I think.

1064
00:48:39,840 --> 00:48:42,600
Speaker 4: People sometimes get They're like, no, way, you're friends with everyone.

1065
00:48:42,680 --> 00:48:45,239
Speaker 4: I'm like, I'm not joking. Every single girl that I've

1066
00:48:45,280 --> 00:48:50,200
Speaker 4: met from my season has genuinely taught me something or

1067
00:48:50,280 --> 00:48:51,799
Speaker 4: inspired for you.

1068
00:48:51,719 --> 00:48:54,440
Speaker 1: Know, you learned something from I've learned something.

1069
00:48:54,239 --> 00:48:57,240
Speaker 4: From all of them, and they all are so beautiful,

1070
00:48:57,360 --> 00:49:01,800
Speaker 4: so accomplished, so well spoken, Yeah, so I mean confident.

1071
00:49:02,040 --> 00:49:04,319
Speaker 4: Just the energy and the aura that they all have,

1072
00:49:04,520 --> 00:49:06,799
Speaker 4: it's like the craziest thing. And I feel like that

1073
00:49:06,880 --> 00:49:09,480
Speaker 4: really allowed me to be myself and to just you know,

1074
00:49:09,640 --> 00:49:12,239
Speaker 4: live authentically. And I feel like I'm just so proud

1075
00:49:12,280 --> 00:49:14,279
Speaker 4: of all the girls in my season because really like

1076
00:49:14,480 --> 00:49:16,680
Speaker 4: they are so wise beyond.

1077
00:49:16,440 --> 00:49:18,840
Speaker 1: Their I was impressed by everything, like.

1078
00:49:19,400 --> 00:49:21,080
Speaker 4: Pressed, I was like, you know, the house was like,

1079
00:49:21,239 --> 00:49:24,080
Speaker 4: I have got to wow, step up my game.

1080
00:49:24,200 --> 00:49:25,640
Speaker 3: This will not just be like.

1081
00:49:26,040 --> 00:49:28,320
Speaker 1: You did not your game.

1082
00:49:28,360 --> 00:49:34,359
Speaker 2: You were you did, you did just fine.

1083
00:49:33,840 --> 00:49:34,120
Speaker 3: Just what.

1084
00:49:34,920 --> 00:49:38,160
Speaker 1: I hope you find that man. I hope so too,

1085
00:49:38,440 --> 00:49:39,680
Speaker 1: and he finds.

1086
00:49:39,320 --> 00:49:41,719
Speaker 3: You out there. He will, he will find you, know what.

1087
00:49:42,120 --> 00:49:45,279
Speaker 2: I hope you find all of them, and I hope

1088
00:49:45,320 --> 00:49:47,760
Speaker 2: all of them find you till you find the perfect

1089
00:49:47,840 --> 00:49:48,879
Speaker 2: one for you.

1090
00:49:49,760 --> 00:49:52,040
Speaker 3: I think the perfect one's out there. I'm not too worry.

1091
00:49:52,080 --> 00:49:56,280
Speaker 1: Absolutely, Billy, thank you so much for being with us today.

1092
00:49:56,560 --> 00:50:00,000
Speaker 1: Do not leave this podcast without us exchanging numbers, because

1093
00:50:00,120 --> 00:50:01,640
Speaker 1: we're going to continue.

1094
00:50:01,200 --> 00:50:04,000
Speaker 3: This number of instagrams. Everything Instagram.

1095
00:50:05,120 --> 00:50:07,160
Speaker 2: I mean, and if you if I show up on

1096
00:50:07,200 --> 00:50:10,240
Speaker 2: Bachelor in Paradise and you show up on Bachelor in Paradise.

1097
00:50:11,200 --> 00:50:12,560
Speaker 2: You're gonna be a very busy girl.

1098
00:50:12,800 --> 00:50:13,280
Speaker 3: Open.

1099
00:50:13,680 --> 00:50:15,560
Speaker 2: I'm gonna go, where's Bailey, And they're gonna go, oh

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Speaker 2: my god, she's with Kathy trying to.

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Speaker 3: I want to be over there with you.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, wait, I can't wait to, like, you know,

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Speaker 4: if I'm there, I'm so excited. I like want to

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Speaker 4: make new friends and like, I'm so excited to meet everyone.

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Speaker 4: I feel like I've been traveling so much, I haven't

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Speaker 4: really got to meet that many people from Bachelor Nations.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, they're great people. Well, listen, we have loved

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Speaker 2: getting to chat with you you. Thank you all our

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Speaker 2: listeners for joining us. Be sure to follow Bachelor or

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Speaker 2: Happy Hour. We have new episodes every week, and if

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Speaker 2: you loved getting to know Bailey as we did, you

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Speaker 2: will want to tune in to hear more. Just like this,

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Speaker 2: she is an wonderful person.

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Speaker 1: Going to be invited to Portico. I'm just saying.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, by the way, not only yeah, Susan Ali.

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Speaker 2: We love getting to chat with Bailey. We got another

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Speaker 2: vacational plan.

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Speaker 1: Road trip, and everybody makes sure that keeps submitting your

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Speaker 1: questions to us so that we can talk about them

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Speaker 1: and give you some advice or at least our opinion.

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Speaker 1: You can go to bachelornation dot com, slash Golden Hour,

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Speaker 1: or dm us on Instagram at Bachelor Happy Hour.

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Speaker 2: Listen to Bachelor Happy Hours Golden Hour on the iHeartRadio app,

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Speaker 2: or wherever you get your podcasts. Until next time, have

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Speaker 2: a great week.

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Speaker 1: Yes,