WEBVTT - Listener Q&A With Morgan and Abby 0:00:01.160 --> 0:00:04.640 Best Bits of the Week with Morgan listener Q and 0:00:04.680 --> 0:00:07.720 a What's Up Friends listener Q and a time with 0:00:07.800 --> 0:00:10.080 Abby joining me this weekend. Abby, how you feeling. 0:00:10.400 --> 0:00:11.800 I'm good, doing good. 0:00:12.800 --> 0:00:15.480 We did get a lot of questions on boyfriend stuff, 0:00:15.520 --> 0:00:18.119 so go check out Part one. We talked all about 0:00:18.560 --> 0:00:21.560 Abby's big news that she shared and life lately and 0:00:21.600 --> 0:00:24.200 stuff that's going on, So go check all of that 0:00:24.239 --> 0:00:26.960 out on part one because you guys seen a lot 0:00:26.960 --> 0:00:28.880 of questions about that. But I try and like separate 0:00:28.920 --> 0:00:30.960 the two, and I'd already planned to talk. I've been 0:00:31.000 --> 0:00:34.159 waiting for so long to talk to Abby about the 0:00:34.159 --> 0:00:36.279 stuff that she finally shared because I've known about it 0:00:36.320 --> 0:00:38.800 since the beginning. I know, and I would want to 0:00:38.840 --> 0:00:40.760 ask you, and I knew that I couldn't, so I 0:00:40.800 --> 0:00:42.520 was just like, I just got to sit here, wait. 0:00:43.000 --> 0:00:45.680 I know, cuz like every week or every time I'm 0:00:45.720 --> 0:00:49.839 on with Best Bits or with you Hello, I'm like. 0:00:49.840 --> 0:00:51.960 Oh, I'll have an update soon. I'll have an update soon. 0:00:52.120 --> 0:00:54.200 I'll let you know. Yeah, I finally said it. 0:00:54.320 --> 0:00:56.840 I finally said it, which means that now we talked 0:00:56.840 --> 0:00:59.080 about it on part one, which I've been waiting for, 0:00:59.160 --> 0:01:01.640 So go check that out starting with some shout outs. 0:01:01.640 --> 0:01:04.919 April said, my favorite combo, which is like my unique 0:01:04.959 --> 0:01:08.160 look at us as y'all's biggest cheerleader. I'm a mom 0:01:08.200 --> 0:01:10.720 of four and no, you have found your person. 0:01:11.080 --> 0:01:13.720 Oh that's sweet. Oh thank you, super cute. 0:01:14.000 --> 0:01:16.280 Congrats on trivia wins. I want to hear more from 0:01:16.360 --> 0:01:20.160 Abby Lisa in California. Oh, thank you, You're crushing. I 0:01:20.160 --> 0:01:23.559 need to go to your brain, lady, because you should also. 0:01:23.640 --> 0:01:25.440 I just I'm sure to give up. My questions are 0:01:25.480 --> 0:01:27.959 always feel like they're hard and I just kind of 0:01:27.959 --> 0:01:28.360 give up. 0:01:28.560 --> 0:01:30.920 I know some of them are like really hard, like 0:01:30.959 --> 0:01:32.880 out of nowhere, and then some are so easy that 0:01:33.080 --> 0:01:34.440 I'm like, how do you miss that? 0:01:35.880 --> 0:01:39.080 Same way. It's also I always know it after the fact, yes, 0:01:39.160 --> 0:01:40.880 oh yeah, every time, I'm like, yeah, that was in 0:01:40.880 --> 0:01:42.399 my brain somewhere, I just didn't have enough time to 0:01:42.440 --> 0:01:44.120 access it. It's like you know when you go through 0:01:44.120 --> 0:01:46.560 that little bit your folder. Yeah, I don't have a 0:01:46.560 --> 0:01:47.200 lot of time for that. 0:01:47.240 --> 0:01:49.360 So you know what I also feel like is all 0:01:49.480 --> 0:01:52.320 you guys always get ones that I know, and then 0:01:52.320 --> 0:01:53.520 I mine's the only one I don't know. 0:01:53.640 --> 0:01:56.520 Same, I'm like, that one was easy that was in wait, 0:01:56.560 --> 0:01:56.880 I knew. 0:01:57.120 --> 0:02:01.400 I think Mike is really good, really good. I'm picking 0:02:01.400 --> 0:02:03.800 out the categories we're not good at and making sure 0:02:03.840 --> 0:02:04.600 we have questions in it. 0:02:05.040 --> 0:02:07.480 Whenever it's like movies, I'm like, oh bye, I know. 0:02:07.880 --> 0:02:12.919 Or I'm like whenever it's geography, see uh yeah, sports 0:02:12.960 --> 0:02:16.320 bye all right? As a step mom by oh mom, 0:02:16.360 --> 0:02:17.359 thank you for being you. 0:02:17.600 --> 0:02:19.040 Oh very thank you. 0:02:20.000 --> 0:02:21.680 Jalen from Fort Worth would like to know if we 0:02:21.720 --> 0:02:23.960 go to carry oak bars often? 0:02:25.400 --> 0:02:27.000 Yeah, I do a lot. 0:02:27.360 --> 0:02:32.600 Yeah, i'd say twice a month. Okay, Yeah, so that 0:02:32.720 --> 0:02:33.840 is that kind of that's. 0:02:33.639 --> 0:02:35.480 Pretty frequent and you're seeing every time. 0:02:35.600 --> 0:02:38.560 Yeah, so does my boyfriend do and we do do us? 0:02:40.160 --> 0:02:42.040 What is your guys favorite dods do together? 0:02:42.240 --> 0:02:46.320 Picture Cheryl Crow and kid picture today? 0:02:46.680 --> 0:02:48.960 Do you get like super breathy and then he goes 0:02:49.080 --> 0:02:50.200 deep the Good Book? 0:02:50.840 --> 0:02:53.840 I heard? Oh no, that's the that's her part. Girls 0:02:53.880 --> 0:02:54.520 love that part. 0:02:54.639 --> 0:02:59.480 I heard from you And three damn nice days. 0:02:59.720 --> 0:03:03.880 Yeah, night nights nights white, three nights. 0:03:03.960 --> 0:03:05.320 Okay, that would make more sense. 0:03:05.960 --> 0:03:07.600 I do a lot of Miranda Lambert. 0:03:07.280 --> 0:03:11.320 Too, Okay, favorite Miranda Lambert karaoke song uh kerosene or 0:03:11.360 --> 0:03:14.560 gun pattern lid sassy. When I used to go on 0:03:14.600 --> 0:03:16.679 cruises growing up with my family, I would always go 0:03:16.680 --> 0:03:18.080 to the character because I was back when you know, 0:03:18.080 --> 0:03:20.200 I wanted to be a singer. My parents would always 0:03:20.200 --> 0:03:21.680 get really embarrassed, but I do it every time we 0:03:21.720 --> 0:03:26.000 went on and I'd always use like kerosinger cum pattern. 0:03:26.760 --> 0:03:28.720 It's just like this little girl who was like ten 0:03:28.800 --> 0:03:31.440 years old. I was like gun pattern, lid. 0:03:31.520 --> 0:03:34.440 Oh, I'm going home, going low my shotgun. 0:03:35.040 --> 0:03:37.640 Wait by the door at a cigarette and they're just 0:03:37.680 --> 0:03:41.640 like what I who is she? And that was the thing. 0:03:41.680 --> 0:03:43.520 So I get to do with this. I really want 0:03:43.560 --> 0:03:46.280 to see it. I think upon a time I was 0:03:46.400 --> 0:03:47.200 watching you bad. 0:03:48.640 --> 0:03:52.760 I was so bad listen. I was really good at harmonizing. 0:03:52.920 --> 0:03:54.320 Oh see your harmonizing, Caro. 0:03:55.360 --> 0:03:59.200 And then I learned in karaoke you don't get to harmonize. 0:03:59.400 --> 0:04:01.800 You just have have the beat by yourself. And I 0:04:01.880 --> 0:04:04.040 never could find the meat by myself. 0:04:05.120 --> 0:04:07.040 You're trying to harmonize with the harmonies. 0:04:07.160 --> 0:04:09.400 We're on the truck, and I was like okay, Because like, 0:04:09.440 --> 0:04:11.960 I was really good inchoire and I would get solo's 0:04:12.000 --> 0:04:15.320 in choir and stuff because I could really fit in 0:04:15.360 --> 0:04:17.520 well with that. So that's why I thought I was 0:04:17.760 --> 0:04:21.960 really good sidered and then I learned a lot. So no, Jayalen, 0:04:22.120 --> 0:04:23.800 I don't go to a lot of karaoke bars, but 0:04:24.279 --> 0:04:26.479 drunk Morgan will have a great time. And I did. 0:04:26.520 --> 0:04:29.680 The last karaoke I sang was when I was dressed 0:04:29.720 --> 0:04:32.760 up as Sabrina Carpenter on Halloween and I went and 0:04:32.800 --> 0:04:36.279 I sang, isn't that me? I know, isn't that sweet? 0:04:36.360 --> 0:04:36.760 I guess? 0:04:36.760 --> 0:04:37.520 So espresso. 0:04:37.640 --> 0:04:40.240 Oh yeah, I was gonna I think the other one. 0:04:40.920 --> 0:04:42.279 I wanted one of the other ones, but that was 0:04:42.279 --> 0:04:43.800 like one of the only ones on the thing. So 0:04:44.040 --> 0:04:44.880 I did espresso. 0:04:44.920 --> 0:04:46.159 Oh that's a good that's fun. 0:04:46.200 --> 0:04:48.320 And I was dressed up as Sabrina, so you know 0:04:48.560 --> 0:04:49.400 it was basically her. 0:04:49.640 --> 0:04:53.719 You like fully went all in. I'm like on the costume. 0:04:54.080 --> 0:04:56.640 It was so it was like part of my costume 0:04:56.640 --> 0:04:58.440 that night was to go sing and I had a 0:04:58.480 --> 0:05:00.599 sparklely mic in my hand and then the actual mic. 0:05:00.760 --> 0:05:02.839 Don't ask me why. I also took my mic that 0:05:02.880 --> 0:05:05.760 didn't work up. Yeah, so that was the last time 0:05:05.839 --> 0:05:07.880 I went. But yeah, you always find Abby Adam. She 0:05:07.960 --> 0:05:10.520 loves the charaoke word. Are you planning on making more 0:05:10.600 --> 0:05:13.119 music in the near future. Max from Massachusetts. 0:05:14.200 --> 0:05:15.680 Yes, I do one song a year. 0:05:17.839 --> 0:05:19.920 When's your last song come out? Isn't it wasn't twenty 0:05:19.960 --> 0:05:20.400 twenty three. 0:05:20.680 --> 0:05:24.000 I think it's twenty twenty four. X X girl Boyfrid 0:05:24.000 --> 0:05:24.480 what's his name? 0:05:24.640 --> 0:05:27.559 Well, I think wait, my boyfriend, I think we're the reason. 0:05:27.560 --> 0:05:29.120 I feel like it was twenty twenty three. I feel 0:05:29.120 --> 0:05:31.520 like we're past a year though. Oh shoot, I feel 0:05:31.560 --> 0:05:33.920 like you put it out like early twenty twenty four. 0:05:33.960 --> 0:05:35.120 Oh my gosh, are you serious? 0:05:35.240 --> 0:05:38.760 It feels like it. Let me google Abby ex boyfriend, 0:05:38.839 --> 0:05:42.359 ex boyfriend material. It's not even coming up Hobby Bones show. 0:05:42.880 --> 0:05:45.120 I always look at Google because then my blogs pop up. 0:05:46.680 --> 0:05:49.920 Oh no, you're right, okay, twenty Seventtember twenty twenty four. 0:05:50.000 --> 0:05:51.120 Okay, so it'll be September. 0:05:51.200 --> 0:05:53.479 I feel like January last year. 0:05:53.600 --> 0:05:54.880 I don't know because I yeah, I knew it was 0:05:54.920 --> 0:05:56.000 around my birthday, but I was. 0:05:55.920 --> 0:05:59.000 Like, oh my gosh, was it whoa Yeah, So this 0:05:59.080 --> 0:06:00.000 year I'll have another one. 0:06:00.360 --> 0:06:02.840 Are you gonna drop one on September? In September? 0:06:03.000 --> 0:06:05.200 Yeah, because that's when Hay their Hometown came out. 0:06:05.360 --> 0:06:07.760 Was really September the year before this is just gonna 0:06:07.760 --> 0:06:09.320 be a thing. Every September. You drop on your song 0:06:10.240 --> 0:06:13.120 I needed that's is that your Easter egg every September? 0:06:13.200 --> 0:06:16.720 Uh huh, be ready, I'll be dropping hints pretty soon. 0:06:17.080 --> 0:06:19.640 Are you working on another one though? No? Okay, so 0:06:19.839 --> 0:06:20.920 we might not go on this year. 0:06:21.160 --> 0:06:22.440 No, I need to. 0:06:22.839 --> 0:06:25.800 It's I know I have excuses, but I do work 0:06:25.839 --> 0:06:27.600 a lot for this job. I do a lot more 0:06:27.600 --> 0:06:30.039 than answer the phones, and I don't know if people 0:06:30.200 --> 0:06:32.359 really know that, and so a lot of like my 0:06:32.480 --> 0:06:35.840 creativity and stuff goes into what I'm doing for this job. 0:06:36.400 --> 0:06:40.000 And sometimes I feel a little drained and so I 0:06:40.120 --> 0:06:41.920 put off stuff that I want to do for myself. 0:06:42.000 --> 0:06:43.800 So that's something I need to work on too. 0:06:44.240 --> 0:06:46.600 I get back because I would like to. You know, hm, 0:06:47.520 --> 0:06:50.240 it's important and I but I get it also. You know, 0:06:50.320 --> 0:06:52.600 your job is how you survive, and it's m h. 0:06:53.320 --> 0:06:54.640 I don't think we give a lot of credits to 0:06:54.640 --> 0:06:56.240 people working like full time jobs and then you try 0:06:56.240 --> 0:06:59.200 and actually pursue other passions. It takes a lot of energy. 0:06:59.240 --> 0:07:02.919 And yeah, this job already requires a lot of creative energy. 0:07:03.120 --> 0:07:06.159 Because I work for the podcast network too, producing. So 0:07:06.279 --> 0:07:09.360 that's also like if I'm not here. I'm doing that also, 0:07:09.480 --> 0:07:13.000 so I put my singing on the back burner. 0:07:13.400 --> 0:07:15.920 Sad I know, And that's why you probably got to 0:07:15.960 --> 0:07:17.040 carryokey bars get your fill. 0:07:17.280 --> 0:07:19.240 I think that is what it is, honestly. 0:07:19.640 --> 0:07:22.760 Yeah, that's helpful. At least you're still singing. That's what matters. Yeah, 0:07:23.080 --> 0:07:25.200 what advice would you give to those that are single 0:07:25.360 --> 0:07:35.200 Andy in Spokane, Washington that are single, Yeah. 0:07:32.960 --> 0:07:35.240 I would say, just don't put so much like pressure 0:07:36.360 --> 0:07:40.120 on yourself to find somebody, like I feel like it 0:07:40.600 --> 0:07:43.720 you'll find them eventually, like in the right whether it's 0:07:43.720 --> 0:07:45.240 in real life or on a dating app. 0:07:45.280 --> 0:07:46.200 Like don't give up. 0:07:46.040 --> 0:07:47.760 Though, you know, like, don't be like, oh my gosh, 0:07:47.760 --> 0:07:50.120 I'm just done with this, because I feel like if 0:07:50.120 --> 0:07:52.680 you are patient and you like know what you're looking 0:07:52.720 --> 0:07:56.320 for and you don't settle, like you will eventually find 0:07:56.880 --> 0:07:59.120 the one, which I know is so hard. Like the waiting, 0:07:59.840 --> 0:08:01.560 it's just it's like a lot. I'm like, oh my gosh, 0:08:01.600 --> 0:08:02.960 I'm never gonna find the guy. 0:08:03.080 --> 0:08:05.480 You know. I will admit the thing that you just 0:08:05.480 --> 0:08:06.720 said is the thing that pissed me off the most 0:08:06.760 --> 0:08:09.960 when I was single. Really, everybody told me you'll find it. 0:08:10.080 --> 0:08:11.000 I just be patient. 0:08:11.200 --> 0:08:14.360 It's not wrong, but it would piss me off every time. 0:08:14.480 --> 0:08:17.720 I know, No, that is really annoying. But like I 0:08:17.720 --> 0:08:18.320 believe it. 0:08:18.520 --> 0:08:21.000 I know, and I think you can believe it once 0:08:21.000 --> 0:08:24.080 you're in it and once you've gotten to that point. 0:08:24.400 --> 0:08:26.680 But also have fun in the single. Oh my gosh, 0:08:26.680 --> 0:08:27.840 Like you can do whatever you want. 0:08:28.600 --> 0:08:30.720 It's true, it's your time to be single and do 0:08:30.760 --> 0:08:31.280 all the things. 0:08:33.520 --> 0:08:35.440 Maybe try something new. I'm just trying to think of 0:08:35.480 --> 0:08:36.080 like good advice. 0:08:36.120 --> 0:08:38.480 Try something new where you can meet someone you know, 0:08:38.600 --> 0:08:42.520 like a take club volleyball or yeah. 0:08:42.440 --> 0:08:44.800 It's great co edesports are a great way to meet people. 0:08:45.000 --> 0:08:48.600 Take a class, art class, go rock climbing. 0:08:49.720 --> 0:08:53.040 Be assertive too, Like I think I never did that 0:08:53.080 --> 0:08:54.960 when I was single. I never would see a cute 0:08:54.960 --> 0:08:57.320 guy and be like, go up and talk to him. 0:08:57.679 --> 0:08:59.679 And then I'm like why not, Like what's the worst 0:08:59.679 --> 0:09:00.360 that can happen? 0:09:00.440 --> 0:09:03.800 He's just like, oh I have a girlfriend, or that's okay, 0:09:03.840 --> 0:09:06.560 I'm not interested. Then okay bye, But like what's just 0:09:06.600 --> 0:09:08.240 be like, oh, do you come here often? 0:09:09.080 --> 0:09:09.920 Do you come here often? 0:09:10.400 --> 0:09:13.559 The typical I don't ask that question. 0:09:13.320 --> 0:09:16.319 But I do. I do agree with the be assertive. 0:09:16.720 --> 0:09:18.920 I also think it's important to be intentional if you 0:09:19.040 --> 0:09:22.560 truly want to date. It can be very easy to 0:09:23.120 --> 0:09:26.680 get frustrated with dating and the way that dating is today. 0:09:26.720 --> 0:09:29.240 But if you are intentional and you're purposely dating and 0:09:29.280 --> 0:09:32.319 you know what you want, I think you have less 0:09:32.360 --> 0:09:37.240 moments of being upset and less frustration, which then in 0:09:37.280 --> 0:09:39.800 turn makes you more fun to date. Because if all 0:09:39.840 --> 0:09:42.480 you feel and think is I'm never going to meet 0:09:42.520 --> 0:09:44.720 somebody and I'm never going to do this, this is 0:09:44.720 --> 0:09:46.079 never going to work out. Why am I putting in 0:09:46.080 --> 0:09:49.600 an effort, then that's what you're going to receive back. 0:09:50.440 --> 0:09:54.400 So be intentional, but also go on dates, like, genuinely 0:09:54.559 --> 0:09:58.439 have fun dating. I loved dating. I don't know how 0:09:58.440 --> 0:10:00.520 many people I talk to are me and they're just like, 0:10:00.520 --> 0:10:01.959 I don't want to go on dates. I don't want 0:10:01.960 --> 0:10:06.600 to do this. It's not I have so many funny, hilarious, 0:10:06.720 --> 0:10:10.839 great stories from my twenties from going on dates. 0:10:11.600 --> 0:10:14.400 Yeah, me too. I'm scarred from a lot of them, 0:10:14.800 --> 0:10:16.480 a lot of them like did not end well. 0:10:22.520 --> 0:10:23.920 But that's als are The point is that you also 0:10:23.960 --> 0:10:25.280 have bad stories too, right, that's true? 0:10:25.280 --> 0:10:27.240 And then yeah, they're very entertaining to tell. 0:10:27.360 --> 0:10:29.240 Exactly, and then you always have funny stories to share. 0:10:29.800 --> 0:10:32.280 So and you learn a lot about yourself, what you 0:10:32.280 --> 0:10:34.800 don't want, what you do want. You see these things 0:10:35.640 --> 0:10:39.359 that'll help you, like translate into an actual healthy relationship. 0:10:39.480 --> 0:10:43.280 Yes, it's some good. We like it is. We did good. 0:10:43.360 --> 0:10:46.280 Yeah, I had to go beyond the don't you know 0:10:46.480 --> 0:10:46.720 I had. 0:10:46.840 --> 0:10:49.360 I had to push you, mostly because I just remember 0:10:49.920 --> 0:10:53.840 very vividly, and that was not very long over me. 0:10:54.480 --> 0:10:57.800 So traveling with the dog dips places to stay, what 0:10:57.880 --> 0:10:59.160 to do, and you can't bring them. 0:10:59.080 --> 0:11:03.960 Jenna, ooh, that's a good. That's for you, because you 0:11:04.440 --> 0:11:04.760 I do. 0:11:04.840 --> 0:11:08.680 I travel with me a lot, so whenever I travel 0:11:08.720 --> 0:11:11.920 with her, I typically play play. I typically stay in 0:11:12.120 --> 0:11:15.880 Airbnb's vrbos because if I have to leave room me 0:11:15.960 --> 0:11:18.160 behind to go do an activity, she'll bark. So hotels 0:11:18.160 --> 0:11:21.480 don't really work out. I'll only do hotels if she's 0:11:21.480 --> 0:11:23.360 gonna be with me the whole time. And I also 0:11:23.400 --> 0:11:28.360 find just cool places I look in advance of cool 0:11:28.440 --> 0:11:31.040 dog friendly cities, cool things to do with dogs. You'd 0:11:31.040 --> 0:11:33.840 be surprised how many things are pet friendly. It's also 0:11:33.880 --> 0:11:38.360 easier to travel in the nicer months spring, spall, spring, small, spring, summer, 0:11:38.640 --> 0:11:41.160 fall because you can be outside with them, you can 0:11:41.200 --> 0:11:43.920 sit on patios and stuff like that. So winter's a 0:11:43.960 --> 0:11:46.480 little bit tougher. But if you're gonna do a staycation, 0:11:46.559 --> 0:11:50.080 those are fun. And whenever I can't bring her, I 0:11:50.120 --> 0:11:52.439 have people like Abby or I have friends come over 0:11:52.480 --> 0:11:54.640 and stay with them and hang out, which is harder. 0:11:54.679 --> 0:11:57.199 I mean, like requiring people to come and stay makes 0:11:57.240 --> 0:11:59.800 it a little bit difficult. But that's why I made 0:11:59.840 --> 0:12:02.920 it a priority to teach Rimy I hazel now how 0:12:02.960 --> 0:12:06.560 to travel with me because it made my life easier 0:12:06.559 --> 0:12:08.800 with being able to travel than being able to come. 0:12:10.000 --> 0:12:13.120 So that's what we got a little break, and we'll 0:12:13.160 --> 0:12:13.880 be back with some more. 0:12:14.080 --> 0:12:14.439 Mm hmm. 0:12:14.480 --> 0:12:23.000 Okay. Most embarrassing moments from growing up Miguel from Emma Reneau. 0:12:25.080 --> 0:12:27.040 Morning, I want. 0:12:28.160 --> 0:12:30.520 I can't, I can't. I cannot find the beat without 0:12:30.520 --> 0:12:33.480 somebody else. Now that you've done it, not again, anyways. 0:12:33.040 --> 0:12:37.240 Go on, Oh, most embarrassing moment mine would definitely have 0:12:37.360 --> 0:12:37.960 to be. 0:12:40.440 --> 0:12:40.640 Well. 0:12:40.720 --> 0:12:43.080 One time at prom I fell down the stairs in 0:12:43.080 --> 0:12:45.760 front of everybody. Oh it was like a stair entrance. 0:12:45.800 --> 0:12:47.880 How they like announce you, you know, and then you 0:12:47.920 --> 0:12:48.280 walk down. 0:12:48.400 --> 0:12:51.360 Wait, you had like a a Cinderella story moment where 0:12:51.880 --> 0:12:53.760 you get announced at the top of the stairs. What 0:12:53.840 --> 0:12:56.840 did you go to a royal school? No, we never 0:12:56.880 --> 0:12:57.880 got announced. Ituff wrong. 0:12:57.960 --> 0:13:00.200 You didn't know it was like a special thing. 0:13:00.679 --> 0:13:03.360 No, everybody just walked in and ran to the dance floor. 0:13:03.640 --> 0:13:05.840 Yeah, for some reason they did do that. It was 0:13:05.880 --> 0:13:07.280 like a tradition because they did. 0:13:07.760 --> 0:13:10.079 Abby. This is back where we go. You were in 0:13:10.120 --> 0:13:11.880 the bougie life and I was not. I went to 0:13:11.880 --> 0:13:12.600 a public school. 0:13:13.840 --> 0:13:14.960 I was not in the boogie. 0:13:15.960 --> 0:13:18.840 You were getting to announce like a royal They just 0:13:18.880 --> 0:13:19.280 like did that. 0:13:19.400 --> 0:13:20.040 It was tradition. 0:13:20.720 --> 0:13:22.720 It's cool. It's a cool tradition. But still, for sure 0:13:22.760 --> 0:13:23.880 you were bougie. 0:13:23.920 --> 0:13:24.480 It was cool. 0:13:24.520 --> 0:13:26.880 Didn't get a crap about it. They were just like, Okay, I. 0:13:26.800 --> 0:13:29.560 Thought all proms did that. Honestly, I've seen videos. 0:13:29.640 --> 0:13:31.280 Isn't that funny how you grow up with one certain 0:13:31.280 --> 0:13:32.679 way and you think everybody else does it? 0:13:32.960 --> 0:13:37.160 Where weriors at, like at our school in our gym Okay, yeah, 0:13:37.320 --> 0:13:37.720 we had it. 0:13:37.840 --> 0:13:39.199 I mean there was one problem. We spent one of 0:13:39.240 --> 0:13:43.520 our problems in a tornado. Oh man, very Kansas. 0:13:43.679 --> 0:13:47.600 That's so Kansas. Yeah. Wow, Oh my gosh. 0:13:47.640 --> 0:13:49.600 But yeah, I fell down and like the curve the 0:13:49.760 --> 0:13:51.600 stairs kind of curved at the end, so the one 0:13:51.600 --> 0:13:53.920 of the stairs was shorter or less. 0:13:53.840 --> 0:13:55.840 Like and you just tripped and face plated. Yeah. 0:13:56.040 --> 0:13:57.760 I just kind of like rolled down, and I remember 0:13:57.760 --> 0:14:00.000 looking up and just seeing everybody like looking. 0:14:00.200 --> 0:14:02.079 Were they laughing or were they just more in shock? 0:14:02.160 --> 0:14:04.720 That happened more in shock. There were a few chuckles, 0:14:04.720 --> 0:14:06.560 but I kind of laughed it off. I think I 0:14:06.640 --> 0:14:07.200 kind of like. 0:14:07.320 --> 0:14:10.480 Got that out of my brain. Yeah, like, oh that 0:14:10.600 --> 0:14:14.120 was embarrassing. I just dropped this dress on too. Ah, 0:14:14.360 --> 0:14:15.480 that could have been really bad. 0:14:15.640 --> 0:14:17.120 Oh yeah, that could have You could have had a 0:14:17.120 --> 0:14:19.280 booths up and then it would have been truly embarrassing. 0:14:19.480 --> 0:14:20.080 Oh. 0:14:20.320 --> 0:14:23.240 I would have never lived that down, never recovered. No, 0:14:23.600 --> 0:14:25.320 I think I would have just turned around, like left 0:14:25.400 --> 0:14:26.400 by guys. 0:14:26.800 --> 0:14:28.240 Nice to meet you, guys, see you later. 0:14:28.560 --> 0:14:30.040 Yeah, oh my gosh. 0:14:30.120 --> 0:14:33.400 Another embarrassing that really was for me is my teeth 0:14:33.480 --> 0:14:36.360 were so crooked, like like a whole nother I don't 0:14:36.400 --> 0:14:39.240 think anybody has ever had teeth this crooked, because my 0:14:39.320 --> 0:14:40.920 dad has huge teeth and then my mom has a 0:14:40.960 --> 0:14:42.880 small mouth. So it was like trying to fit all 0:14:42.880 --> 0:14:45.320 these teeth and they were all going like every direction. 0:14:45.880 --> 0:14:47.040 But I was so confident. 0:14:47.080 --> 0:14:50.440 I just smiled all the time, like just and I 0:14:50.480 --> 0:14:52.520 remember my grandma being like, oh my gosh, I don't 0:14:52.560 --> 0:14:53.320 smile that big. 0:14:54.400 --> 0:14:55.640 Your Grandpa said that. 0:14:56.800 --> 0:15:00.320 So I was Annie in the musical Annie, and I 0:15:00.320 --> 0:15:03.200 had to stand, Oh my god, this is hilarious. 0:15:03.240 --> 0:15:04.400 I have a point from that. 0:15:04.560 --> 0:15:06.960 Keep going, remember, Okay, So I was standing on the 0:15:07.040 --> 0:15:08.880 chair and like Daddy Warbucks looks up at me, and 0:15:08.920 --> 0:15:11.360 my grandma she was kidding like she's no longer here, 0:15:11.440 --> 0:15:14.600 rest in peace. But she'd be like she's like, oh 0:15:14.680 --> 0:15:17.360 my gosh, I wonder what Daddy Warbucks thought of your teeth. 0:15:17.400 --> 0:15:22.040 And he looked up at you, well you were. 0:15:21.920 --> 0:15:22.800 An orphan and that. 0:15:24.240 --> 0:15:28.120 I was like, I don't know, Oh my gosh, but 0:15:28.200 --> 0:15:29.680 they were so bad. And I look back at pictures 0:15:29.720 --> 0:15:31.920 and I'm embarrassed of every picture I had. I got 0:15:31.960 --> 0:15:32.720 him in middle school. 0:15:32.720 --> 0:15:34.680 But that's because somebody was telling you and that you 0:15:35.680 --> 0:15:36.360 don't smile. 0:15:37.040 --> 0:15:37.840 No, I didn't care. 0:15:37.960 --> 0:15:39.720 I was like, no, I love my teeth. They make 0:15:39.800 --> 0:15:42.240 me me. But now I'm like, oh, I look back, 0:15:42.760 --> 0:15:43.200 it was bad. 0:15:43.280 --> 0:15:46.720 You have second hand embarrassment now, but you didn't then, right. 0:15:46.600 --> 0:15:48.600 Yeah, yeah, but I'm people were making fun of me 0:15:48.640 --> 0:15:51.040 behind my back, I'm sure, Like I remember, they would 0:15:51.080 --> 0:15:53.120 just look at my mouth and like kind of go 0:15:53.200 --> 0:15:58.240 cross side, like, ah, that's so sad, it's so sad. 0:15:58.800 --> 0:16:02.440 I love her though. You got braces ut braces, Yeah, 0:16:03.160 --> 0:16:04.840 don't know if you just maybe you grew into them too, 0:16:05.880 --> 0:16:08.600 you think, No, I mean like your teeth growl as 0:16:08.680 --> 0:16:12.640 you grow. I didn't mean that evacuate literally what you have, 0:16:14.160 --> 0:16:18.040 just kidding, like you you grow like your your body grows. 0:16:18.720 --> 0:16:19.880 I thought that was a thing. 0:16:20.040 --> 0:16:23.880 Maybe not when your teeth are going every direction. 0:16:24.480 --> 0:16:26.680 Well listen. I also had a I had a gap 0:16:26.720 --> 0:16:30.000 in my the side of my smile for four years. 0:16:30.680 --> 0:16:33.000 I had a tooth that was missing, but like it 0:16:33.080 --> 0:16:35.120 fell out, and the tooth, the adult tooth, I was 0:16:35.120 --> 0:16:35.840 supposed to come down. 0:16:35.880 --> 0:16:37.520 It never came down. Did you have to have a 0:16:37.520 --> 0:16:39.840 little you were a retainer with the like the fake too. 0:16:40.000 --> 0:16:41.720 I had a I had a screw thing on the 0:16:41.760 --> 0:16:44.200 top and they were literally pulling it down by a chain. 0:16:45.720 --> 0:16:46.600 For four years. 0:16:46.600 --> 0:16:47.960 That sucker took to come down. 0:16:48.400 --> 0:16:48.920 Oh my god. 0:16:49.000 --> 0:16:50.880 So in half of my high school photos I would 0:16:50.880 --> 0:16:52.640 always smile with this side of my face, which is 0:16:52.680 --> 0:16:54.360 the right side of my face, because it didn't have 0:16:54.400 --> 0:16:56.120 the hole. And then anytime I was in the other 0:16:56.160 --> 0:16:59.800 I'd stick my tongue through it. All these mixtures, right, 0:17:00.240 --> 0:17:02.120 and my tongue sticking out because I was trying to 0:17:02.120 --> 0:17:03.080 fill the hole in my mouth. 0:17:03.160 --> 0:17:05.560 Oh my god, embrace it. Embrace. 0:17:05.640 --> 0:17:08.200 I did not embrace it. I hated it. I had 0:17:08.200 --> 0:17:11.399 a hole, yeah, a little just and everything. And I 0:17:11.440 --> 0:17:12.840 was like, I think that's still now why I like, 0:17:12.840 --> 0:17:14.960