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Speaker 2: It's a fresh show, Adam, good morning, welcome to the program.

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Speaker 3: How are you?

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Speaker 4: I'm doing all right? How are you doing?

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Speaker 5: Man?

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Speaker 3: Doing okay? What's going on with this woman?

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Speaker 6: Kristin?

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Speaker 2: I got to know how you met? About any days

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Speaker 2: that you've been on and where things are now? In

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Speaker 2: waiting by the phone because you feel like maybe she's

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Speaker 2: ghosting you?

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Speaker 1: Right?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean so me and.

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Speaker 1: Kristin had met by the pool at our gym one weekend,

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Speaker 1: and I mean we were both just kind of hanging

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Speaker 4: So I asked her out and she said yes, So

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Speaker 4: she gave me.

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Speaker 1: Your number, and so like we texted for a little

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Speaker 1: bit and then we decided that we wanted to take

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Speaker 1: it further. So we met up for drinks and then

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Speaker 1: like drinks later that week ended up doing really really well,

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Speaker 1: and so like even before the date, like our artechts

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Speaker 4: It was going really really good.

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Speaker 1: Like I mean I was even late to work the

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Speaker 1: next day because like we had ended up having so

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Speaker 1: much late night fun. Oh okay, but I mean ever

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Speaker 1: since that day, like I just haven't heard from her,

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Speaker 1: and I don't know what's going on. Things were going well.

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Speaker 1: She agreed that things were going well, and I mean,

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Speaker 1: I don't know what happened.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's always kind of crazy when this happens, because

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Speaker 2: it's like everything was going so well. I mean the

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Speaker 2: all sounds great, except for whatever reason, something must have happened.

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Speaker 2: And now I assume you've texted, You've called Kristen, you've

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I didn't.

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Speaker 1: Like send her an over abundant, like desperate amount of

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Speaker 1: so like I tried to call her one night and

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Speaker 1: she just didn't pick up. And so I don't want

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Speaker 1: to be like a stalker and keep texting, and yeah,

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Speaker 1: we don't want but I just kind of want.

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Speaker 2: To know what's going on. Like we're going really really

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Speaker 2: well and then nothing, Yeah makes sense. So we're going

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Speaker 2: to play a song. Come back in a couple of minutes.

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Speaker 2: We'll call Kristen. You'll be on the phone, Adam. We're

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Speaker 2: going to ask these questions for you. And the hope

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Speaker 2: waiting at the phone, Hey Adam, Yeah, all right, let's

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Speaker 2: call Christen. You guys, you met at the gym, right,

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Speaker 2: You met at the gym, and you were at the

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Speaker 3: There was a lot of flirtation going on.

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Speaker 2: They got a little spicy, giky they got a little

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Speaker 2: spicy by his uh, by his description, and you guys

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Speaker 2: all of a sudden radio silence, Kristin is not responding

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Speaker 2: being ghosted. You want to know why. Okay, let's call

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Speaker 2: Kristin now. Good luck Adam.

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Speaker 3: I appreciate it, but thanks than Hi is this Kristen? Yeah,

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Speaker 3: this is hey Kristin. Good morning.

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Speaker 2: My name is Fredam calling for the Fred Show, the

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Speaker 2: morning radio show, and I have to tell you that

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Speaker 2: we are on the radio right now and I do

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Speaker 2: need your permission to continue with the call.

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Speaker 3: Is it okay?

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Speaker 5: If we have for a second, I guess, I guess,

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Speaker 5: I guess okay, Well, thank you were calling out behalf

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Speaker 5: of a guy named Adam.

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Speaker 2: I guess you met him at the at the pool

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Speaker 2: and you hung out a couple of times, and uh,

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Speaker 2: I guess you guys went on some dates and stuff

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Speaker 2: like that. Do you remember meeting this guy and going

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Speaker 7: Yep?

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Speaker 2: Okay, So he describes to us a minute ago what

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Speaker 2: he thought was, you know this this great story about

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Speaker 2: meeting and all the chemistry you guys, had the dates

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Speaker 2: you've been on, but he says he can't get ahold

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Speaker 6: Okay, listen, Adam is awesome.

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Speaker 5: Okay, he's attractive, he's charming, he's confident, he has great energy.

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Speaker 3: Okay, what's the butt? Where's the problem?

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Speaker 2: You?

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Speaker 4: Wait? So we did, we did go out. Okay, this

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Speaker 4: sex was amazing, but.

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Speaker 3: Okay, still interesting.

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Speaker 4: Okay, all right, just just wait for it.

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Speaker 6: He's leaving my place and you know, he's talking.

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Speaker 5: About, you know, meeting up again, and he just casually

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Speaker 5: slips in that you know, oh, he just has to

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Speaker 4: How do you think I felt.

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Speaker 5: Having just had this amazing night with this man and

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Speaker 5: all of a sudden learning that he has a wife.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so all us, So you guys, you met, you talked,

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Speaker 2: you hooked up, you went on dates. Didn't He never

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Speaker 2: mentioned that he was married, And then like in passing,

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Speaker 2: I was like, oh yeah, yeah, yeah, maybe tomorrow, but

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Speaker 4: How was it out there like it's nothing, and you

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Speaker 3: You didn't know there was a wife.

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Speaker 4: I knew nothing about it. I would have never gone

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Speaker 6: I had known that he had a wife.

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Speaker 2: Be helpful to know. Let me bring Adam, and I

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Speaker 2: forgot to mention Kristin that Adam is here. I'm very forgetful. Also,

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Speaker 2: you're married Adam, and that that's just not important to know.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, yeah, you forgot to mention that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: No, I'm non monogamous and my wife has agreed to

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Speaker 1: everything to an open relationship. She doesn't want to live

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Speaker 1: that life, and so she says that I'm I'm available

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Speaker 1: doesn't want to know about it.

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Speaker 4: So she doesn't want to know about it, like.

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Speaker 2: Really, and that would be interesting is to see, because

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Speaker 2: I mean, honestly, madam, what you're describing.

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Speaker 4: Is not I don't believe that I have I don't

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Speaker 2: He's describing I have heard of existing before, whereas oh I.

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Speaker 5: Have to But the wife actually like agrees and like

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Speaker 5: she's available to like talk to, you.

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Speaker 6: Know, potential partners. It's like they don't believe.

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Speaker 2: A few she's says she's wanting to doing it. But

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Speaker 2: at the same time, it's Yadam, you got it. I'm

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Speaker 2: starting to rupt you, but you got to disclose that

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Speaker 2: the other person involved in this needs to have all

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Speaker 2: not comfortable with this arrangement even if it's above board

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Speaker 6: And I mean it is about board. Why can't I

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Speaker 5: Kind of a lifestyle, and they're always allowed to talk

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Speaker 5: to the south and get it verified.

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Speaker 4: That's all I'm asking for, Like, if.

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Speaker 7: This is above board, the only way I could participate

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Speaker 7: wife and she said, yay, verily she can do this, Adam, I.

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Speaker 3: Can about like a verification. That's not problem.

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Speaker 1: I'm not trying to hide anything. Like she just was

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Speaker 2: But I mean that's let's say that Adam's telling the truth.

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Speaker 2: I mean, Kristen, do you want to be a third

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Speaker 2: no one discloses this sort of open relationship thing.

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Speaker 3: I mean in your mind, it's it's what I make

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Speaker 3: it for me, right?

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Speaker 2: So Adam, do you if you fall in love with Kristin, well,

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Speaker 3: I mean that's pretty unlikely.

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Speaker 1: But I mean also, Kristen said that she didn't want kids,

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Speaker 1: So I mean, I don't know what's to stop us

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Speaker 3: Like I don't good.

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Speaker 6: It'll make me feel like I'm a cheater. I'm a cheater.

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Speaker 6: For the entire length of our relationship.

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Speaker 4: How do I introduce you to people? Well, the family,

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Speaker 2: I just want to trying to figure out is okay?

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Speaker 2: So let's say it's all on the up and up?

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Speaker 2: Or like if she says, yeah, it's true, I let

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Speaker 2: him do it, then are you okay with those terms?

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Speaker 2: Because he just said he's not leaving his life, So

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Speaker 2: basically now you can accept that you're going to.

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Speaker 5: Be if there's no chance of him leaving his wife.

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Speaker 4: And I'm just like some weird little secret.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm probably not interested honestly, Like, I just I

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Speaker 4: I can't live that way.

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Speaker 2: Right on your head, Kiki, what because this isn't like

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Speaker 2: he's insane?

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Speaker 3: This is insane.

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Speaker 7: Like you, if your wife gave me the green light

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Speaker 7: to do whatever you want to do, do it.

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Speaker 2: But why bring in people unknowing like, hey, my wife,

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Speaker 2: I have a wife.

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Speaker 3: You don't tell somebody after the fact. I think you've

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Speaker 2: I think, Adam, you know that a lot of people

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Speaker 2: are gonna say no to this situation, and you didn't

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Speaker 2: want Kristin to say no, so you just didn't tell her.

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Speaker 4: That's what I think why lied?

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Speaker 2: And I can accept that, right, Okay, do we have

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Speaker 3: It's impossible.

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Speaker 2: I do think you got to you got to lead

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Speaker 2: I'm in an open relationship, like I got a wife

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Speaker 2: changes now for Kristen because maybe she didn't want to

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Speaker 2: that decision. But if she doesn't know, then look here

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Speaker 2: we are.

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Speaker 6: It's just really disrespectful, is really what it comes down to.

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Speaker 5: It's incredibly disrespectful and it puts the other person in

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Speaker 4: And yeah, have.

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Speaker 2: You ever had this problem before, Adam? I mean, I

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Speaker 2: assume you've been doing this for a little while. Like

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Speaker 2: if you had this issue, where when do you normally

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Speaker 2: lead with it? Do you normally tell people a friend

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Speaker 1: I mean usually to kind of gauge how how things go.

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Speaker 3: First, it's not going to work out.

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Speaker 2: Kristin, Hey, thank you for your time and I'm sorry

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Speaker 2: that you know this happened to you and I wish

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Speaker 2: you to invest in Adam.

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Speaker 3: Good luck out there to you as well.

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Speaker 4: Thank you