1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:03,520 Speaker 1: The Fread Show is on. It's stay or go Vanessa. 2 00:00:03,520 --> 00:00:06,080 Speaker 1: I see here. Good morning, Vanessa. How are you? 3 00:00:07,920 --> 00:00:08,160 Speaker 2: Hey? 4 00:00:08,400 --> 00:00:09,040 Speaker 3: How's it going? 5 00:00:09,480 --> 00:00:11,879 Speaker 1: I'm okay, okay, you're okay. So it's there. 6 00:00:11,920 --> 00:00:14,440 Speaker 4: Go hit us up Frendcho radio dot Com French your 7 00:00:14,520 --> 00:00:16,560 Speaker 4: radio on Instagram you can deal then dm us there 8 00:00:16,600 --> 00:00:18,480 Speaker 4: and hit us up whatever follow Did we ever get 9 00:00:18,480 --> 00:00:20,640 Speaker 4: to our forty four that we wanted, Paulina? 10 00:00:21,120 --> 00:00:23,400 Speaker 5: We did for babes. 11 00:00:23,680 --> 00:00:25,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, in a city of nine million people. 12 00:00:25,280 --> 00:00:25,520 Speaker 6: Yay. 13 00:00:25,880 --> 00:00:30,560 Speaker 7: Anyway, bread bas okay. 14 00:00:30,120 --> 00:00:30,800 Speaker 1: Betsy with you. 15 00:00:30,880 --> 00:00:31,319 Speaker 8: We got this. 16 00:00:31,680 --> 00:00:34,120 Speaker 4: If anything, it's my fault. So Vanessa, back to you though, 17 00:00:34,159 --> 00:00:36,960 Speaker 4: once two three, back to you. What's going on? Is 18 00:00:37,000 --> 00:00:37,839 Speaker 4: this with your boyfriend? 19 00:00:39,800 --> 00:00:42,720 Speaker 3: Yeah? This is just my boyfriend that I'm currently dating 20 00:00:42,800 --> 00:00:45,160 Speaker 3: right now. We started dating like seven months ago. 21 00:00:45,720 --> 00:00:49,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, all right, Tom, all good first and bases. So 22 00:00:49,360 --> 00:00:50,760 Speaker 4: what is Tom? What did he do? What did that? 23 00:00:51,080 --> 00:00:54,560 Speaker 1: What did that bastard do? Oh? He must have done something, 24 00:00:54,880 --> 00:00:55,400 Speaker 1: that's right. 25 00:00:56,480 --> 00:01:00,639 Speaker 3: I'm feeling really in a pickle fucus. So I'm done 26 00:01:00,720 --> 00:01:03,680 Speaker 3: for a while, basically, like things are just going really 27 00:01:03,880 --> 00:01:09,080 Speaker 3: really good with him. But the other day my sister 28 00:01:10,120 --> 00:01:13,160 Speaker 3: like shat me down and she told me that her 29 00:01:13,200 --> 00:01:16,520 Speaker 3: and Tom hooked up. Basically it was like one time. 30 00:01:16,959 --> 00:01:17,479 Speaker 7: Ye what. 31 00:01:18,920 --> 00:01:22,400 Speaker 1: Like before before you met him before? 32 00:01:22,480 --> 00:01:24,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, ten years ago, because we've only dated for a 33 00:01:24,520 --> 00:01:24,920 Speaker 3: few weeks. 34 00:01:25,040 --> 00:01:27,320 Speaker 4: Okay, this is like she didn't cheat with him or 35 00:01:27,360 --> 00:01:33,039 Speaker 4: something like, this is a way I know that your 36 00:01:33,080 --> 00:01:36,480 Speaker 4: problem problem, but I made a decade ago. 37 00:01:36,520 --> 00:01:36,800 Speaker 1: Okay. 38 00:01:36,840 --> 00:01:39,120 Speaker 4: So she sits you down and was heads up, I 39 00:01:39,160 --> 00:01:40,800 Speaker 4: hooked up with your boyfriend a decade ago. 40 00:01:42,440 --> 00:01:45,039 Speaker 3: Yes, given to. They were drunk and they told me. 41 00:01:45,040 --> 00:01:46,280 Speaker 9: No feelings were involved. 42 00:01:46,520 --> 00:01:49,280 Speaker 3: Basically, it's just like they hooked up drunk. 43 00:01:50,880 --> 00:01:54,320 Speaker 4: Okay, and so then what did you are you like? Okay, 44 00:01:54,360 --> 00:01:56,280 Speaker 4: what do you say to her in that situation? Like, okay, 45 00:01:56,320 --> 00:01:57,280 Speaker 4: thanks for telling me. 46 00:01:58,520 --> 00:01:59,160 Speaker 10: I didn't know. 47 00:01:59,120 --> 00:01:59,640 Speaker 8: How to feel. 48 00:01:59,680 --> 00:02:01,600 Speaker 3: I was so like, it was just I feel so 49 00:02:01,720 --> 00:02:05,400 Speaker 3: weird about the situation. In shocked upset, she reassured me 50 00:02:05,440 --> 00:02:08,280 Speaker 3: and she was like, okay, like they would they didn't 51 00:02:08,280 --> 00:02:11,400 Speaker 3: even like each other, they didn't it would never happen again. 52 00:02:12,120 --> 00:02:14,840 Speaker 3: And she told me that she didn't tell me because 53 00:02:15,040 --> 00:02:16,440 Speaker 3: that's why I was really upset. I was like, well, 54 00:02:16,480 --> 00:02:18,360 Speaker 3: why don't you tell me? She thought it was like 55 00:02:18,400 --> 00:02:20,680 Speaker 3: one of my other boyfriends that I had, and that 56 00:02:20,760 --> 00:02:23,000 Speaker 3: it was like not headed to where it is headed 57 00:02:23,040 --> 00:02:24,200 Speaker 3: like right now with Tom. 58 00:02:24,400 --> 00:02:27,360 Speaker 4: Ohs like, there was no need to have that conversation 59 00:02:27,400 --> 00:02:31,799 Speaker 4: because maybe wouldn't go anywhere anyway exactly. 60 00:02:31,400 --> 00:02:33,280 Speaker 3: Because I mean, like I've dated it is like I'll 61 00:02:33,360 --> 00:02:35,760 Speaker 3: date a few guys, and so she just thought it 62 00:02:35,800 --> 00:02:38,760 Speaker 3: was another one of my boyfriends and not like like 63 00:02:38,880 --> 00:02:42,000 Speaker 3: Tom and he's the longest I've ever been with somebody ever, 64 00:02:42,080 --> 00:02:44,280 Speaker 3: So she felt that it was a good reason to 65 00:02:44,320 --> 00:02:45,760 Speaker 3: go ahead and bring it up to me because it 66 00:02:45,800 --> 00:02:46,359 Speaker 3: was serious. 67 00:02:46,639 --> 00:02:47,920 Speaker 1: Did you ask him about it? 68 00:02:49,480 --> 00:02:51,880 Speaker 3: I did ask him about it, and he basically said 69 00:02:51,880 --> 00:02:54,079 Speaker 3: the same thing, that it was just a one time thing, 70 00:02:54,360 --> 00:02:56,079 Speaker 3: super insignificant. 71 00:02:56,400 --> 00:02:58,519 Speaker 4: Yeah, probably didn't need to know that, I mean, but 72 00:02:58,720 --> 00:03:00,880 Speaker 4: then again, I guess what you don't know is I 73 00:03:00,840 --> 00:03:03,480 Speaker 4: gonna hurt you. But at the same time, like, do 74 00:03:03,520 --> 00:03:06,200 Speaker 4: you want to be the odd woman out in that case, 75 00:03:06,320 --> 00:03:08,320 Speaker 4: like the only one who doesn't have the information? And 76 00:03:08,400 --> 00:03:09,720 Speaker 4: then again, it would have only been the two of 77 00:03:09,760 --> 00:03:10,360 Speaker 4: them that knew. 78 00:03:11,639 --> 00:03:14,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, but I say, it's not like the whole family 79 00:03:14,120 --> 00:03:16,040 Speaker 1: knew that they hooked up and then you're the only one. 80 00:03:16,120 --> 00:03:19,000 Speaker 11: Yeah, but that's the craziest secret that can from your sister. 81 00:03:19,600 --> 00:03:20,160 Speaker 11: For a long time. 82 00:03:20,160 --> 00:03:22,840 Speaker 4: That'sn't significant. It doesn't matter. They didn't even know each 83 00:03:22,880 --> 00:03:24,320 Speaker 4: other then, it was ten years ago. 84 00:03:24,440 --> 00:03:26,480 Speaker 11: Well, her sisters just letting her know that, like, hey, 85 00:03:26,520 --> 00:03:27,679 Speaker 11: I know you're serious with this guy. 86 00:03:27,680 --> 00:03:29,160 Speaker 1: Now, I'm just letting you know that. I still a thought. 87 00:03:29,240 --> 00:03:30,960 Speaker 5: But see, like why does that have to be serious? 88 00:03:31,000 --> 00:03:32,639 Speaker 7: Like I would like my sister tell me even if 89 00:03:32,639 --> 00:03:34,960 Speaker 7: we went on one day and she's try to do 90 00:03:35,000 --> 00:03:35,280 Speaker 7: it and she. 91 00:03:35,360 --> 00:03:37,560 Speaker 1: Was like, oh like that. 92 00:03:39,120 --> 00:03:41,480 Speaker 4: But and I'm playing because I'm a I'm not a 93 00:03:41,960 --> 00:03:44,840 Speaker 4: I guess I'm a jealous person. I'm not a jealous 94 00:03:45,040 --> 00:03:49,280 Speaker 4: controlling person. But like I I can't stand the thought 95 00:03:49,320 --> 00:03:51,880 Speaker 4: of somebody who I like having been with someone else, 96 00:03:52,160 --> 00:03:54,960 Speaker 4: and sadly, at my age, they've all been with someone else, 97 00:03:55,280 --> 00:03:57,760 Speaker 4: and so have I. By the way, so my point 98 00:03:57,880 --> 00:04:00,720 Speaker 4: is I I sometimes ask quest I don't want the 99 00:04:00,720 --> 00:04:02,720 Speaker 4: answers to and it would be better if I just 100 00:04:02,760 --> 00:04:05,920 Speaker 4: didn't know. But in this case, so I'm a hypocrite 101 00:04:05,960 --> 00:04:08,000 Speaker 4: because I would be the one to ask the question. 102 00:04:08,080 --> 00:04:09,560 Speaker 4: I would be the one to be annoyed by this. 103 00:04:09,840 --> 00:04:12,360 Speaker 4: Even though my advice is this isn't that big of 104 00:04:12,400 --> 00:04:17,160 Speaker 4: a deal. But if Vanessa knew on day one. Then 105 00:04:17,160 --> 00:04:19,080 Speaker 4: her sister had hooked up with Tom. They may have 106 00:04:19,120 --> 00:04:21,919 Speaker 4: never even gone out, and now they've been together for 107 00:04:21,960 --> 00:04:24,520 Speaker 4: seven months, her longest relationship, and she's thinking this guy 108 00:04:24,600 --> 00:04:27,040 Speaker 4: might be it and it all could have been prevented 109 00:04:27,040 --> 00:04:29,200 Speaker 4: because of something that happened one night ten years ago. 110 00:04:29,440 --> 00:04:29,680 Speaker 1: Why. 111 00:04:30,320 --> 00:04:30,719 Speaker 5: I don't know. 112 00:04:30,760 --> 00:04:32,200 Speaker 7: That's on her to decide if she wants to keep 113 00:04:32,200 --> 00:04:33,560 Speaker 7: seeing him or not, or go on a day with 114 00:04:33,600 --> 00:04:35,440 Speaker 7: him or do whatever. I just feel like, at least 115 00:04:35,440 --> 00:04:36,600 Speaker 7: you told me from the get go. I don't like 116 00:04:36,680 --> 00:04:38,400 Speaker 7: being the odd girl out, the person that doesn't know. 117 00:04:38,480 --> 00:04:39,080 Speaker 1: I'm in the dark. 118 00:04:39,240 --> 00:04:40,919 Speaker 7: Because now I feel like seven months and I'm like, 119 00:04:41,200 --> 00:04:43,240 Speaker 7: why didn't tell me this? Like that's my first thought, 120 00:04:43,279 --> 00:04:45,080 Speaker 7: you know. And I guess she was trying to protect her. 121 00:04:45,200 --> 00:04:47,040 Speaker 7: Maybe it wasn't like to her a big deal or 122 00:04:47,080 --> 00:04:49,520 Speaker 7: possibly like we said, you know, I don't think you 123 00:04:49,520 --> 00:04:50,120 Speaker 7: were serious. 124 00:04:50,560 --> 00:04:51,599 Speaker 5: That's no excuse though. 125 00:04:52,480 --> 00:04:54,840 Speaker 4: Eight five five five one three five is he called 126 00:04:54,839 --> 00:04:57,039 Speaker 4: a freend' show called Texas same number, Vanessa. I'm gonna 127 00:04:57,040 --> 00:04:58,800 Speaker 4: take some phone calls on this and have your radio 128 00:04:58,880 --> 00:04:59,920 Speaker 4: on and let's see what happens. 129 00:05:00,160 --> 00:05:02,159 Speaker 1: Good luck. What does your gut tell you to do? 130 00:05:02,240 --> 00:05:03,120 Speaker 1: Stay with him or leave. 131 00:05:04,800 --> 00:05:06,920 Speaker 3: I'm so like I'm waiting here. I like what you 132 00:05:06,960 --> 00:05:09,520 Speaker 3: guys have to say, Like you guys just hearing you 133 00:05:09,760 --> 00:05:11,719 Speaker 3: with a lot of insight on it. But I'm still 134 00:05:12,000 --> 00:05:16,000 Speaker 3: just really confused on the whole situation, Like what what if? 135 00:05:16,200 --> 00:05:18,719 Speaker 3: What if they hook up again? Like I don't want 136 00:05:18,200 --> 00:05:20,760 Speaker 3: to what if it happened again. 137 00:05:22,320 --> 00:05:25,000 Speaker 4: Putting that out there hooking up? 138 00:05:25,080 --> 00:05:26,280 Speaker 1: They're not hooking up. 139 00:05:26,400 --> 00:05:28,560 Speaker 4: If they were hooking up, then the conversation never would 140 00:05:28,560 --> 00:05:30,120 Speaker 4: have taken place. Her sister never would have said her 141 00:05:30,240 --> 00:05:32,400 Speaker 4: and told her about right. No, no, see now you're 142 00:05:32,440 --> 00:05:32,799 Speaker 4: just feeding. 143 00:05:33,120 --> 00:05:35,880 Speaker 11: Don't look like my thing is Like the two of them, 144 00:05:35,880 --> 00:05:37,719 Speaker 11: they obviously know they hooked up with each other, but 145 00:05:37,760 --> 00:05:39,719 Speaker 11: like while you guys were dating, do you think they 146 00:05:39,760 --> 00:05:41,960 Speaker 11: had a conversation like should we tell her? Should we 147 00:05:41,960 --> 00:05:44,400 Speaker 11: not tell her? You know, like there's secrets from. 148 00:05:44,279 --> 00:05:47,440 Speaker 5: You, some sneaky bus. I would definitely leave him and. 149 00:05:47,320 --> 00:05:52,200 Speaker 4: Her, leave him and her sister. Thank you, Vanessa, good luck, 150 00:05:52,240 --> 00:05:52,800 Speaker 4: have a good day. 151 00:05:52,880 --> 00:06:01,760 Speaker 5: Nobody can be trusted. Yes, we are breaking. 152 00:06:01,520 --> 00:06:02,480 Speaker 1: Up families over there. 153 00:06:03,160 --> 00:06:05,400 Speaker 4: Look, it's one thing to kick the boyfriend out, fine, 154 00:06:05,520 --> 00:06:08,880 Speaker 4: even though that's your most significant relationship, She says, but 155 00:06:08,960 --> 00:06:10,680 Speaker 4: now we're writing A Sister. 156 00:06:10,440 --> 00:06:12,040 Speaker 5: Off seven months? 157 00:06:12,080 --> 00:06:14,560 Speaker 10: Seven months, I think we're met at a sister that's 158 00:06:14,600 --> 00:06:17,560 Speaker 10: a couple of holidays that we've spent together, and you 159 00:06:17,760 --> 00:06:19,880 Speaker 10: as my sister, sitting across from me at the time, 160 00:06:19,920 --> 00:06:22,840 Speaker 10: and dinner table across from me with the mashed potatoes 161 00:06:22,839 --> 00:06:25,160 Speaker 10: in the turkey, and you never thought to. 162 00:06:25,120 --> 00:06:26,880 Speaker 1: Tell me the mashed potatoes in the turkey. 163 00:06:27,160 --> 00:06:28,880 Speaker 10: You never thought to tell me that you saw what 164 00:06:28,920 --> 00:06:31,599 Speaker 10: that looked like. You never thought that I needed to 165 00:06:31,640 --> 00:06:32,000 Speaker 10: know that. 166 00:06:32,279 --> 00:06:33,680 Speaker 1: But what good is? What is? 167 00:06:34,080 --> 00:06:36,599 Speaker 12: How is that information useful? Because I need to find 168 00:06:36,600 --> 00:06:37,240 Speaker 12: another man. 169 00:06:37,839 --> 00:06:39,159 Speaker 1: We share about the family. 170 00:06:39,240 --> 00:06:41,719 Speaker 5: That's my sister. We don't need to share the same man. 171 00:06:41,839 --> 00:06:43,520 Speaker 10: It's a lot of other dudes out here that I 172 00:06:43,520 --> 00:06:45,960 Speaker 10: could be with, And you wait seven months to tell 173 00:06:46,000 --> 00:06:47,680 Speaker 10: me it's some shenanigans going on. 174 00:06:48,320 --> 00:06:50,839 Speaker 11: Yes I don't know, but on the boyfriend's and like 175 00:06:51,360 --> 00:06:53,640 Speaker 11: he was, like, you go to one, Oh that's your sister. 176 00:06:54,040 --> 00:06:56,120 Speaker 11: I hooked up with her ten years ago. Come on, 177 00:06:56,200 --> 00:06:58,800 Speaker 11: you know you gotta that you can't keep that a secret. 178 00:06:59,160 --> 00:07:01,279 Speaker 11: I mean, I realized it's not sister brother's stuff. But 179 00:07:01,320 --> 00:07:03,920 Speaker 11: I've been to weddings of people that I slept with. 180 00:07:03,960 --> 00:07:07,040 Speaker 11: And I'm certain that their husbands never knew, and there 181 00:07:07,040 --> 00:07:09,600 Speaker 11: are people at the wedding that knew. See, But why 182 00:07:09,720 --> 00:07:13,400 Speaker 11: have that conversation, Like why say to your soon to 183 00:07:13,400 --> 00:07:15,520 Speaker 11: be husband, Hey, I'm going to invite Fred. He's a 184 00:07:15,560 --> 00:07:16,160 Speaker 11: great friend. 185 00:07:16,680 --> 00:07:18,920 Speaker 4: By the way, in high school we slept together, or 186 00:07:18,960 --> 00:07:21,440 Speaker 4: in college we slept together. What's the point of that. 187 00:07:21,920 --> 00:07:23,960 Speaker 4: Why Now, I'm an idiot that would ask the question. 188 00:07:24,000 --> 00:07:25,600 Speaker 4: I'm an idiot that's gonna look at the guest list 189 00:07:25,600 --> 00:07:27,520 Speaker 4: and go, who did you bang on this list? 190 00:07:27,520 --> 00:07:30,480 Speaker 1: So that I know? And then because I'm an idiot. 191 00:07:30,240 --> 00:07:32,680 Speaker 5: No, because I because you need to. 192 00:07:32,640 --> 00:07:36,840 Speaker 4: Know, because I have problems rufio, Like I ask questions 193 00:07:36,880 --> 00:07:39,160 Speaker 4: I do not want the answer to all the time. 194 00:07:39,560 --> 00:07:40,160 Speaker 5: I need to know. 195 00:07:40,360 --> 00:07:40,960 Speaker 1: I don't know. 196 00:07:41,360 --> 00:07:43,200 Speaker 13: I think like in this case, though, like with family, 197 00:07:43,240 --> 00:07:45,800 Speaker 13: you do need to know. I think because of how 198 00:07:45,880 --> 00:07:48,320 Speaker 13: much you're seeing that person. I think, like if you 199 00:07:48,360 --> 00:07:50,880 Speaker 13: bang someone at the wedding, how much are you really 200 00:07:50,920 --> 00:07:51,880 Speaker 13: all in the same room? 201 00:07:52,000 --> 00:07:53,240 Speaker 1: Like how much does it matter? 202 00:07:53,400 --> 00:07:55,120 Speaker 5: But I think siblings, I don't know, Like. 203 00:07:55,200 --> 00:07:57,120 Speaker 10: Even the wedding though, like you send down in my 204 00:07:57,240 --> 00:07:59,760 Speaker 10: stake and lobster in this banquet hall and you just 205 00:08:00,040 --> 00:08:02,880 Speaker 10: with my man and I don't know, absolutely not, I 206 00:08:02,920 --> 00:08:03,400 Speaker 10: need to know. 207 00:08:03,720 --> 00:08:06,239 Speaker 4: I mean, but then you may not wind up giving 208 00:08:06,240 --> 00:08:08,400 Speaker 4: this person a chance, and this person could be the 209 00:08:08,400 --> 00:08:10,960 Speaker 4: person and the decision that they made had no impact 210 00:08:11,000 --> 00:08:13,360 Speaker 4: on you because you didn't even know them at the time. 211 00:08:13,440 --> 00:08:16,120 Speaker 10: My person has not been with my sister. If you've 212 00:08:16,120 --> 00:08:17,600 Speaker 10: been with my sister, you are not my person. 213 00:08:17,640 --> 00:08:18,360 Speaker 1: You are her person. 214 00:08:19,240 --> 00:08:25,800 Speaker 11: Oh my goodness, when they were wasting Wow, no, ten 215 00:08:25,840 --> 00:08:26,240 Speaker 11: years ago. 216 00:08:26,920 --> 00:08:28,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, you've been. 217 00:08:30,560 --> 00:08:33,880 Speaker 5: Why he's straight with women? 218 00:08:35,520 --> 00:08:37,439 Speaker 1: Amy? Hi, good morning, welcome to the Friend Show. What 219 00:08:37,480 --> 00:08:38,360 Speaker 1: do you want to say? 220 00:08:39,200 --> 00:08:39,520 Speaker 6: Morning? 221 00:08:39,600 --> 00:08:42,680 Speaker 9: No time for pleasantries because I have the best story ever. 222 00:08:43,320 --> 00:08:44,280 Speaker 1: Quickly, I. 223 00:08:47,200 --> 00:08:47,400 Speaker 6: Don't. 224 00:08:47,480 --> 00:08:49,280 Speaker 9: I know you hang up on people so fast. 225 00:08:49,559 --> 00:08:54,360 Speaker 4: I was married, I always say, I always say goodbye 226 00:08:54,400 --> 00:08:56,439 Speaker 4: and thank you. But yeah, just take up. Yeah exactly, 227 00:08:56,559 --> 00:08:58,199 Speaker 4: we don't. We got lots of time here. I got 228 00:08:58,240 --> 00:08:59,360 Speaker 4: within three hours to fill. 229 00:08:59,440 --> 00:08:59,920 Speaker 14: So take. 230 00:09:01,360 --> 00:09:03,640 Speaker 9: I was married ago. 231 00:09:03,679 --> 00:09:06,360 Speaker 1: So if you want to do all the talking, that's fine. 232 00:09:05,760 --> 00:09:06,920 Speaker 9: Yes, Oh my. 233 00:09:06,880 --> 00:09:10,000 Speaker 8: God, same, That's why I love your show. Okay, So go. 234 00:09:09,880 --> 00:09:11,920 Speaker 9: To the fence, meet the new neighbor. Oh great, they 235 00:09:11,920 --> 00:09:16,960 Speaker 9: have kids. I have a niece. Shake hands, long story, longer, 236 00:09:17,960 --> 00:09:21,959 Speaker 9: end up my step son, I would say, three years later, 237 00:09:22,480 --> 00:09:25,679 Speaker 9: walks in on my husband with the neighbor, and little 238 00:09:25,720 --> 00:09:29,080 Speaker 9: did I know everyone knew, even her husband, and I 239 00:09:29,120 --> 00:09:31,440 Speaker 9: didn't know. They left me in the dark that they 240 00:09:32,240 --> 00:09:36,400 Speaker 9: slept together before we were married. You know what, if 241 00:09:36,440 --> 00:09:39,320 Speaker 9: I would have known, I think I would have been 242 00:09:39,440 --> 00:09:44,000 Speaker 9: more on my like defensive, because I always trusted everybody. 243 00:09:44,080 --> 00:09:46,320 Speaker 8: You know, we were together thirteen years, married for eight. 244 00:09:47,160 --> 00:09:48,720 Speaker 9: I didn't think of any of that stuff. 245 00:09:49,400 --> 00:09:51,600 Speaker 4: Her husband was there, was they in like an open 246 00:09:51,640 --> 00:09:53,120 Speaker 4: relationship or husband just didn't care? 247 00:09:54,200 --> 00:09:57,320 Speaker 9: No, no, no, her husband knew that they had a 248 00:09:57,360 --> 00:09:58,480 Speaker 9: relationship in the past. 249 00:09:58,559 --> 00:10:02,920 Speaker 1: Oh okay, okay, and I was the only one left out. Wow, yep. 250 00:10:03,559 --> 00:10:06,000 Speaker 9: And then I get a call from Yeah, my step 251 00:10:06,040 --> 00:10:14,080 Speaker 9: son walked in on them in the dining room and there. 252 00:10:12,040 --> 00:10:13,640 Speaker 8: They're still together and. 253 00:10:14,400 --> 00:10:16,640 Speaker 9: My son is almost seven and. 254 00:10:17,240 --> 00:10:19,400 Speaker 8: It's better now. But yeah, I would say. 255 00:10:19,320 --> 00:10:22,200 Speaker 9: Don't trust that because even if it happened once, it 256 00:10:22,200 --> 00:10:22,880 Speaker 9: can happen again. 257 00:10:23,320 --> 00:10:26,480 Speaker 4: You're saying that Amy is, you're saying that he's in 258 00:10:26,520 --> 00:10:27,400 Speaker 4: his bedroom, didn't. 259 00:10:27,200 --> 00:10:42,480 Speaker 8: You because I'm trying to again, I guess if you're cheating, 260 00:10:42,559 --> 00:10:42,880 Speaker 8: make it. 261 00:10:42,840 --> 00:10:47,199 Speaker 4: Frisky, right, Wow, I just so you're saying you would 262 00:10:47,200 --> 00:10:49,679 Speaker 4: have been more aware if you had known there was 263 00:10:49,720 --> 00:10:52,080 Speaker 4: a past, because we. 264 00:10:52,000 --> 00:10:53,920 Speaker 9: At the party house, we had the bar in the basement. 265 00:10:54,000 --> 00:10:56,200 Speaker 9: I would go to bed after everyone had come up. 266 00:10:56,960 --> 00:11:00,200 Speaker 9: They'd be like smoking cigarettes in the garage and everyone up, 267 00:11:00,240 --> 00:11:01,000 Speaker 9: And I didn't see. 268 00:11:00,800 --> 00:11:01,320 Speaker 8: Anything of it. 269 00:11:01,679 --> 00:11:04,520 Speaker 9: She's married with three kids. You know, we're trying to 270 00:11:04,520 --> 00:11:07,160 Speaker 9: have a baby. So yeah, I didn't think of anything 271 00:11:07,160 --> 00:11:07,400 Speaker 9: of it. 272 00:11:07,559 --> 00:11:08,440 Speaker 1: What did you say that? 273 00:11:09,000 --> 00:11:11,520 Speaker 4: No, he's with always with the other president. I think 274 00:11:11,760 --> 00:11:14,120 Speaker 4: we're trying to I'm like, whoahoa, how do you get 275 00:11:14,120 --> 00:11:14,640 Speaker 4: back in the bed? 276 00:11:14,720 --> 00:11:15,080 Speaker 9: No? 277 00:11:15,080 --> 00:11:17,079 Speaker 1: No, he's on the dining room table from that one 278 00:11:17,080 --> 00:11:19,200 Speaker 1: and he's sleeping on the dining room table for that one. 279 00:11:19,520 --> 00:11:22,199 Speaker 8: Okay, all right, yeah, I think you story right. 280 00:11:22,400 --> 00:11:24,080 Speaker 4: No, it is a good story. I mean, thank you 281 00:11:24,120 --> 00:11:25,440 Speaker 4: and thank you for listening, for calling. 282 00:11:26,360 --> 00:11:26,880 Speaker 15: You're welcome. 283 00:11:27,400 --> 00:11:28,920 Speaker 4: I'm gonna wait for you to hang up, though, go ahead, 284 00:11:28,960 --> 00:11:34,920 Speaker 4: hang up you okay, left her? Hey, Robert, how are 285 00:11:34,880 --> 00:11:35,120 Speaker 4: you doing? 286 00:11:35,200 --> 00:11:35,959 Speaker 1: Robert? Welcome? 287 00:11:36,840 --> 00:11:41,959 Speaker 14: I went you on the idea of, you know, there 288 00:11:41,960 --> 00:11:44,400 Speaker 14: are things that are better left on set, something that 289 00:11:44,520 --> 00:11:46,120 Speaker 14: just better left on set. You don't need to know. 290 00:11:46,360 --> 00:11:49,480 Speaker 14: There's no game from it, Like you said, what if 291 00:11:49,520 --> 00:11:51,679 Speaker 14: he hooks up again with her, But what if you're 292 00:11:51,679 --> 00:11:53,480 Speaker 14: don't you get caught up in that whirlwind? But what 293 00:11:53,600 --> 00:11:55,840 Speaker 14: if you're just never going to find yourself happy? 294 00:11:56,080 --> 00:11:57,640 Speaker 4: He could have hooked up with her over the past 295 00:11:57,640 --> 00:12:00,840 Speaker 4: ten years, like why now if they wanted to be together, 296 00:12:00,880 --> 00:12:02,760 Speaker 4: they would be together like it was ten years. 297 00:12:02,559 --> 00:12:05,120 Speaker 14: Ago, if it will And considering that their sisters, had 298 00:12:05,120 --> 00:12:07,959 Speaker 14: they been serious at that time that they were hooking up, 299 00:12:08,400 --> 00:12:11,319 Speaker 14: I'm sure she would have known of him. So I 300 00:12:11,600 --> 00:12:14,000 Speaker 14: do believe it was then one night thing and that's 301 00:12:14,040 --> 00:12:17,040 Speaker 14: all it was. If it was an extensive like relationship, 302 00:12:17,440 --> 00:12:19,760 Speaker 14: then obviously she would have known. Again, she would have 303 00:12:19,800 --> 00:12:21,880 Speaker 14: known that they were together, and then obviously this would 304 00:12:21,920 --> 00:12:25,160 Speaker 14: be a different conversation. But yeah, yeah, su the piece 305 00:12:25,200 --> 00:12:26,719 Speaker 14: she's to stay. We don't give it a shot. If 306 00:12:26,720 --> 00:12:29,679 Speaker 14: he's giving her everything she needs, you know, and he's 307 00:12:29,720 --> 00:12:32,000 Speaker 14: making her happy, then give it a shot. 308 00:12:32,160 --> 00:12:34,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, thank you, I agree, Robert, Thank you, have a 309 00:12:34,120 --> 00:12:36,720 Speaker 4: good day. And if you're just tuning in. So Vanessa 310 00:12:37,040 --> 00:12:39,559 Speaker 4: called staygo that went this guy for seven months, her 311 00:12:39,559 --> 00:12:43,120 Speaker 4: longest relationship ever. She thinks he might be at only 312 00:12:43,160 --> 00:12:45,840 Speaker 4: to find out that her sister ten years ago slept 313 00:12:45,840 --> 00:12:48,680 Speaker 4: with her boyfriend and didn't think it was important for 314 00:12:48,679 --> 00:12:50,480 Speaker 4: her to know seven months ago because she didn't know 315 00:12:50,520 --> 00:12:53,200 Speaker 4: that it would become serious. Because I guess Vanessa is 316 00:12:53,240 --> 00:12:55,560 Speaker 4: not much of a long term dater. And so the 317 00:12:55,600 --> 00:12:58,600 Speaker 4: debate is, does she stay or go from this relationship 318 00:12:58,640 --> 00:13:02,400 Speaker 4: because they had this secret hookup ten years ago? You're 319 00:13:02,400 --> 00:13:05,560 Speaker 4: going to blow up the longest relationship you've had because 320 00:13:05,600 --> 00:13:08,880 Speaker 4: something happened ten years ago that you never knew about 321 00:13:09,080 --> 00:13:10,800 Speaker 4: that was so insignificant. 322 00:13:10,920 --> 00:13:15,520 Speaker 12: Your sister never even told you. Yes, she told you 323 00:13:15,559 --> 00:13:18,080 Speaker 12: from the jump. I'm blowing up the relationship and some 324 00:13:18,120 --> 00:13:22,600 Speaker 12: other things. Wow, you two costume people? 325 00:13:24,320 --> 00:13:26,240 Speaker 1: Serious? Heidi? Good morning, Heidi? 326 00:13:27,720 --> 00:13:28,480 Speaker 16: Hi, good morning. 327 00:13:28,559 --> 00:13:29,880 Speaker 1: Hey, what do you want to say? Welcome? 328 00:13:31,240 --> 00:13:32,559 Speaker 3: I think she should say. 329 00:13:33,880 --> 00:13:34,080 Speaker 1: Why. 330 00:13:36,160 --> 00:13:38,880 Speaker 16: I actually dated my husband's brother about eight years before we. 331 00:13:38,840 --> 00:13:40,480 Speaker 8: Started dating, and. 332 00:13:41,920 --> 00:13:42,800 Speaker 5: We're now married. 333 00:13:42,840 --> 00:13:43,960 Speaker 16: We've been together ten years. 334 00:13:44,000 --> 00:13:44,440 Speaker 14: We have two. 335 00:13:44,320 --> 00:13:47,880 Speaker 16: Beautiful children and a wonderful wife. And he almost broke 336 00:13:47,920 --> 00:13:49,000 Speaker 16: it off, you know, a week or. 337 00:13:49,000 --> 00:13:50,040 Speaker 9: Two in because of this. 338 00:13:50,600 --> 00:13:52,640 Speaker 16: And if you had, I mean, what kind of life 339 00:13:52,880 --> 00:13:54,720 Speaker 16: would we We've been missed out on all of the 340 00:13:55,400 --> 00:13:56,199 Speaker 16: beautifulness that. 341 00:13:56,120 --> 00:13:58,520 Speaker 4: We have now, That's what I'm saying. If she had 342 00:13:58,559 --> 00:14:01,240 Speaker 4: note on day one. Then she may have never gone 343 00:14:01,280 --> 00:14:02,880 Speaker 4: out with this guy and then wouldn't be with him 344 00:14:02,880 --> 00:14:03,480 Speaker 4: for seven months. 345 00:14:03,960 --> 00:14:06,679 Speaker 11: That's but she this this caller saying that she like, 346 00:14:07,320 --> 00:14:09,520 Speaker 11: she told, you know what I'm saying the husband and. 347 00:14:10,200 --> 00:14:12,719 Speaker 4: Almost cost him the relationship. By the way, Heidi, I 348 00:14:12,800 --> 00:14:15,280 Speaker 4: just got it. But hold on, hold, but Haffield jumped. 349 00:14:15,440 --> 00:14:18,160 Speaker 4: She knew I got seven months later, I got more 350 00:14:18,160 --> 00:14:21,520 Speaker 4: important questions for Phil. Fred I know, okay, just you 351 00:14:21,600 --> 00:14:22,400 Speaker 4: and me talking, Heidi. 352 00:14:22,480 --> 00:14:24,680 Speaker 1: It's just you and me. It's just me, Fred, Are 353 00:14:24,680 --> 00:14:27,040 Speaker 1: you gonna make it a divorce happen here? Fred? I 354 00:14:27,080 --> 00:14:29,080 Speaker 1: know how you're gonna answer this, But which which one 355 00:14:29,160 --> 00:14:32,640 Speaker 1: was better in the in bed, on the dining room table? 356 00:14:34,760 --> 00:14:36,840 Speaker 4: Which which of the brothers was? Which of the brothers 357 00:14:36,920 --> 00:14:38,960 Speaker 4: was like, you know, you know what I'm saying. 358 00:14:39,720 --> 00:14:41,000 Speaker 5: Obviously my husband. 359 00:14:41,600 --> 00:14:43,840 Speaker 16: It's totally different when you love someone to have an 360 00:14:43,960 --> 00:14:44,800 Speaker 16: action with them. 361 00:14:44,960 --> 00:14:46,720 Speaker 4: That's right, girl, That was the right answer. But her, 362 00:14:46,760 --> 00:14:50,160 Speaker 4: even if it's not, that was the right answer. Yeah, Heidi, 363 00:14:50,400 --> 00:14:53,840 Speaker 4: A plush, Thank you for calling. I have a good day. 364 00:14:55,000 --> 00:14:56,240 Speaker 5: Thank you got you. 365 00:14:57,000 --> 00:14:57,320 Speaker 1: Come on. 366 00:14:57,440 --> 00:15:00,600 Speaker 4: I had to know, I mean I wanted to know too. Yeah, 367 00:15:00,600 --> 00:15:04,160 Speaker 4: I don't think she appreciated that question. But anyway, have 368 00:15:04,240 --> 00:15:09,360 Speaker 4: you ever No, I'm sorry if I offended you, but 369 00:15:09,480 --> 00:15:10,800 Speaker 4: I needed to know the answer. But I knew what 370 00:15:10,840 --> 00:15:12,680 Speaker 4: she would say. How was she going to say anything else? 371 00:15:13,320 --> 00:15:13,920 Speaker 4: You know what I mean? 372 00:15:14,600 --> 00:15:14,720 Speaker 14: Oh? 373 00:15:14,800 --> 00:15:19,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, the brother put it down, man, Jose Hi, Jose. 374 00:15:20,600 --> 00:15:23,760 Speaker 14: Hey, I'll be going for the thirteen listeners. 375 00:15:23,400 --> 00:15:25,680 Speaker 1: Thank you, brother, Only thirteen man, and trust me, it 376 00:15:25,680 --> 00:15:27,720 Speaker 1: ain't growing. So what's you know? 377 00:15:27,880 --> 00:15:30,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, but you guys, you guys listen long and hard 378 00:15:30,080 --> 00:15:31,920 Speaker 4: though you really do so we appreciate you for that. 379 00:15:32,080 --> 00:15:32,600 Speaker 1: It's their go. 380 00:15:34,040 --> 00:15:35,360 Speaker 5: She's got a head for the hills. 381 00:15:35,360 --> 00:15:35,560 Speaker 7: Man. 382 00:15:35,720 --> 00:15:38,560 Speaker 14: I mean this guy, this guy, if he was if 383 00:15:38,560 --> 00:15:42,200 Speaker 14: he wanted a meaningful relationship with her, then he would 384 00:15:42,200 --> 00:15:43,120 Speaker 14: have told her from the jump. 385 00:15:43,560 --> 00:15:44,560 Speaker 1: He would have seen his sister. 386 00:15:45,000 --> 00:15:47,520 Speaker 3: I understand, you know if it was a friend or 387 00:15:47,520 --> 00:15:48,120 Speaker 3: someone like that. 388 00:15:48,160 --> 00:15:49,080 Speaker 1: But this is a sibling. 389 00:15:49,440 --> 00:15:51,480 Speaker 14: This is someone that you know, you probably have a bond, 390 00:15:51,480 --> 00:15:54,680 Speaker 14: witch like. You can't sit there until that under the rug. 391 00:15:54,920 --> 00:15:56,760 Speaker 14: You gotta tell her immediately. 392 00:15:56,560 --> 00:15:58,680 Speaker 3: Especially if you want something to go with this. 393 00:15:58,600 --> 00:16:00,760 Speaker 1: Woman, you know. Yeah, all right, saying thank you, bro, 394 00:16:00,840 --> 00:16:01,920 Speaker 1: thanks for listening. Have a good day. 395 00:16:02,000 --> 00:16:02,560 Speaker 5: That's right. 396 00:16:04,000 --> 00:16:05,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, just just blow the whole thing up. Hey, Jesse, 397 00:16:07,320 --> 00:16:10,080 Speaker 4: ridiculous Jesse haw Hey, good morning, stare Go. 398 00:16:11,520 --> 00:16:12,520 Speaker 8: I think she should leave. 399 00:16:13,440 --> 00:16:17,320 Speaker 12: Everybody wants to just this is a lifetime Jesse yep appreciated. 400 00:16:17,440 --> 00:16:20,800 Speaker 1: Why Why Why should Yeah? Why ten years ago? One time? 401 00:16:20,800 --> 00:16:25,120 Speaker 1: Who cares? Well, they're adding too much. They had seven 402 00:16:25,120 --> 00:16:26,960 Speaker 1: months to can ive up a story and then we're 403 00:16:26,960 --> 00:16:29,360 Speaker 1: gonna just throw out happened ten years ago. 404 00:16:30,200 --> 00:16:32,400 Speaker 4: Also, you think that you think they concocted this, the 405 00:16:32,480 --> 00:16:34,560 Speaker 4: two of them together, they got together with a sinister 406 00:16:34,640 --> 00:16:37,960 Speaker 4: plan to line to Vanessa really. 407 00:16:37,880 --> 00:16:40,720 Speaker 8: Well, yeah, I mean it. I mean, what she's gonna 408 00:16:40,760 --> 00:16:44,160 Speaker 8: ruin her sister or her friendship with her sister all 409 00:16:44,200 --> 00:16:47,440 Speaker 8: for that. Yeah, it just it seems too fishy. Okay, 410 00:16:47,560 --> 00:16:48,560 Speaker 8: just makes too much sense. 411 00:16:48,600 --> 00:16:50,640 Speaker 14: If they were drunk and ten years ago, I mean, 412 00:16:50,680 --> 00:16:52,400 Speaker 14: come on, you're not gonna say, oh. 413 00:16:52,320 --> 00:16:54,800 Speaker 11: Yeah, we were drinking ten years ago and now now 414 00:16:54,840 --> 00:16:56,920 Speaker 11: we're seven months later, Yeah we hooked up. 415 00:16:57,000 --> 00:16:58,960 Speaker 1: Oh we got a conspiracy theory on our hands. 416 00:16:58,800 --> 00:17:00,800 Speaker 5: Here, right, what if they were telling the truth? 417 00:17:06,359 --> 00:17:07,000 Speaker 1: Thank you, Jesse. 418 00:17:09,600 --> 00:17:11,199 Speaker 4: People are laughing at me on the text now, like 419 00:17:11,960 --> 00:17:15,560 Speaker 4: I can't believe you asked that question. You can't have 420 00:17:16,440 --> 00:17:18,879 Speaker 4: we met before and by the way, there's about forty 421 00:17:18,920 --> 00:17:20,920 Speaker 4: people also wanted to know the answer to that question. 422 00:17:21,359 --> 00:17:24,639 Speaker 4: Come on, man, you can tell me to screw off anytime, 423 00:17:24,640 --> 00:17:28,600 Speaker 4: they'll Heidie it's fine. Hey Debbie, Hey Debby, what do 424 00:17:28,600 --> 00:17:29,560 Speaker 4: you think I've great? 425 00:17:29,600 --> 00:17:29,959 Speaker 1: Thank you? 426 00:17:30,119 --> 00:17:34,920 Speaker 2: Date say, I've got a really weird situation. I had friends, 427 00:17:35,119 --> 00:17:37,960 Speaker 2: Oh god, a long time ago. There were sisters Sue 428 00:17:38,000 --> 00:17:41,720 Speaker 2: and Kim, and there were brothers Bob and Mike. Now, 429 00:17:42,400 --> 00:17:44,680 Speaker 2: Sue had a thing for Bob, but Bob was a 430 00:17:44,720 --> 00:17:47,480 Speaker 2: real player, so she started hooking. 431 00:17:47,280 --> 00:17:47,840 Speaker 5: Up with Mike. 432 00:17:47,920 --> 00:17:51,479 Speaker 2: She actually lost her virginity to them. And then Sue's 433 00:17:51,520 --> 00:17:55,879 Speaker 2: sister Kim started dating Mike and they wound up getting married, 434 00:17:56,640 --> 00:18:00,560 Speaker 2: and Sue wound up marrying Bob after all, So Sue 435 00:18:00,760 --> 00:18:04,719 Speaker 2: lost her virginity to her brother in law and married 436 00:18:04,760 --> 00:18:08,399 Speaker 2: this guy's brother. I mean, wow, the craziest story. 437 00:18:09,040 --> 00:18:09,240 Speaker 4: Yeah. 438 00:18:09,240 --> 00:18:16,520 Speaker 15: I was following along with and paper, but that means something. Yeah, everybody, 439 00:18:16,560 --> 00:18:20,160 Speaker 15: get everybody cool, like bygus, We're just we're all good. 440 00:18:20,240 --> 00:18:22,439 Speaker 2: Yeah, they're all I mean, they're all fine. 441 00:18:22,440 --> 00:18:22,600 Speaker 14: Now. 442 00:18:22,640 --> 00:18:24,520 Speaker 2: As far as I know, Sue and Bob are happy 443 00:18:24,560 --> 00:18:26,760 Speaker 2: and have two kids. I think Kim and Mike wound 444 00:18:26,880 --> 00:18:30,119 Speaker 2: up getting divorced. But you know, I mean they all 445 00:18:30,200 --> 00:18:33,000 Speaker 2: knew about it. It was it wasn't a secret or anything. 446 00:18:33,240 --> 00:18:37,480 Speaker 2: And you know, I don't know sisters, brothers, you know, 447 00:18:37,600 --> 00:18:38,440 Speaker 2: it's all family. 448 00:18:38,640 --> 00:18:39,280 Speaker 8: Yeah. 449 00:18:39,840 --> 00:18:41,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, it wasn't a secret. 450 00:18:41,600 --> 00:18:42,120 Speaker 5: That's the thing. 451 00:18:42,680 --> 00:18:43,560 Speaker 9: Yeah, yeah, that's true. 452 00:18:43,640 --> 00:18:48,160 Speaker 2: It wasn't a secret. But it worked out very weird, 453 00:18:48,240 --> 00:18:52,280 Speaker 2: you know. Yeah, you remember that one, you know, mom. 454 00:18:52,080 --> 00:18:52,920 Speaker 1: Who was your first? 455 00:18:52,960 --> 00:18:55,920 Speaker 2: So uncle like weird? 456 00:18:56,400 --> 00:19:00,720 Speaker 1: You're right, put it like that, Debbie. It's a little weird, 457 00:19:00,960 --> 00:19:03,400 Speaker 1: a little weird. Yeah, Debbie, thank you, have a good day. 458 00:19:04,359 --> 00:19:06,159 Speaker 5: Who was your first? 459 00:19:06,359 --> 00:19:11,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's the question. I am just fine. 460 00:19:11,320 --> 00:19:17,440 Speaker 6: Never know, okay, Yeah, your your your dad dated your 461 00:19:18,000 --> 00:19:22,520 Speaker 6: my mom only my adopted dad who came in our 462 00:19:22,560 --> 00:19:24,080 Speaker 6: lives when we were I was nine. 463 00:19:24,840 --> 00:19:27,919 Speaker 4: We only knew him as a family friend because my 464 00:19:28,119 --> 00:19:30,800 Speaker 4: aunt Paula, the Saint tod An brought him in. 465 00:19:30,960 --> 00:19:32,760 Speaker 1: But they went on two dates. 466 00:19:33,520 --> 00:19:36,879 Speaker 4: Insists they never slept together, and he says that he 467 00:19:36,960 --> 00:19:39,520 Speaker 4: knew instantly that she was not like two dates like 468 00:19:39,560 --> 00:19:41,760 Speaker 4: you just I think they even went on a trip 469 00:19:41,800 --> 00:19:44,880 Speaker 4: together and it was yeah, yeah, my dad was a 470 00:19:44,920 --> 00:19:47,920 Speaker 4: player from him. This dude had a sailboat and he 471 00:19:47,920 --> 00:19:55,800 Speaker 4: would take. Yeah, he was out here, man Scott, but 472 00:19:55,880 --> 00:19:58,600 Speaker 4: everybody knew and they never hooked up and it just 473 00:19:58,720 --> 00:19:59,440 Speaker 4: wasn't a match. 474 00:19:59,560 --> 00:20:03,200 Speaker 1: But that years later they were. 475 00:20:03,280 --> 00:20:05,080 Speaker 4: My aunt was still friends with him, so then he 476 00:20:05,080 --> 00:20:07,679 Speaker 4: would come around to like family functions and stuff. And 477 00:20:07,720 --> 00:20:10,240 Speaker 4: then when my mom got divorced, and he called and 478 00:20:10,240 --> 00:20:11,919 Speaker 4: they went out, and it turns out she was a 479 00:20:11,920 --> 00:20:14,119 Speaker 4: better match for him. See, and I believe the story, 480 00:20:14,119 --> 00:20:15,080 Speaker 4: and everybody's fine with it. 481 00:20:15,200 --> 00:20:16,200 Speaker 5: Yeah, as long as. 482 00:20:16,119 --> 00:20:20,000 Speaker 10: Everybody knows you, as long as everybody'sn't aware of what's 483 00:20:20,040 --> 00:20:20,440 Speaker 10: going on. 484 00:20:20,680 --> 00:20:21,760 Speaker 5: But seven months heying? 485 00:20:22,080 --> 00:20:27,320 Speaker 4: No, Ruth, Hi, Ruth, Hello, Hey, good morning. And if 486 00:20:27,320 --> 00:20:29,919 Speaker 4: you're just tuning in, a woman called us. She's been 487 00:20:30,000 --> 00:20:32,520 Speaker 4: dating a guy for seven months. Turns out her sister 488 00:20:32,720 --> 00:20:34,960 Speaker 4: slept with this guy ten years ago and just told her. 489 00:20:35,119 --> 00:20:37,880 Speaker 4: And now we get a million people who think there's 490 00:20:37,920 --> 00:20:39,520 Speaker 4: some kind of big conspiracy theory going on. 491 00:20:39,680 --> 00:20:40,160 Speaker 1: What do you think? 492 00:20:40,240 --> 00:20:40,480 Speaker 5: Ruth? 493 00:20:41,920 --> 00:20:44,600 Speaker 2: I am team Kiky and review hit the brick. 494 00:20:45,119 --> 00:20:49,119 Speaker 4: Yes, girl, Okay, why why you would you take that 495 00:20:49,280 --> 00:20:50,199 Speaker 4: ridiculous side? 496 00:20:51,480 --> 00:20:55,679 Speaker 2: A ridiculous side, because at seven months, there's something that 497 00:20:55,720 --> 00:20:58,320 Speaker 2: they've been hiding, whether they've been sleeping together or not. 498 00:20:58,760 --> 00:21:02,480 Speaker 1: Why weren't they honest up front? That's right, I guess 499 00:21:02,560 --> 00:21:05,040 Speaker 1: my question. I guess all right, Ruth, thank you, have 500 00:21:05,119 --> 00:21:07,760 Speaker 1: a good day. You're welcome. I don't think it's in me. 501 00:21:10,040 --> 00:21:12,000 Speaker 4: I just think we're down to twelve listeners now after Heidi, 502 00:21:12,119 --> 00:21:14,640 Speaker 4: So that's if you know anybody you know. 503 00:21:14,920 --> 00:21:16,600 Speaker 1: Right, maybe my husband will start listening. 504 00:21:16,840 --> 00:21:19,399 Speaker 4: Okay, okay, so we're down to eleven, right, maybe make 505 00:21:19,600 --> 00:21:22,680 Speaker 4: sense if you know of a couple that's looking for morning. 506 00:21:22,920 --> 00:21:25,280 Speaker 4: I'm sorry, Heidi, but I'm not. I mean, I'm asking 507 00:21:25,320 --> 00:21:26,240 Speaker 4: the people's questions.