1 00:00:00,800 --> 00:00:03,720 Speaker 1: It's time to Catch a Cheater. 2 00:00:03,960 --> 00:00:05,400 Speaker 2: Only on the Tuble Show. 3 00:00:05,559 --> 00:00:07,880 Speaker 3: Carmen is on the phone today for to Catch a Cheater. 4 00:00:08,000 --> 00:00:10,760 Speaker 3: She's been with her boyfriend Adrian for a little over 5 00:00:10,800 --> 00:00:12,840 Speaker 3: a year, but now she thinks that something might be 6 00:00:12,920 --> 00:00:15,120 Speaker 3: going on. So we'll see if we can help her out. 7 00:00:15,320 --> 00:00:18,920 Speaker 3: And hopefully he's not cheating. Carmen, hopefully we can help you. 8 00:00:19,400 --> 00:00:21,360 Speaker 3: What's going on? Why do you think that Adrian is cheating? 9 00:00:22,079 --> 00:00:25,400 Speaker 4: So I'm not one to go through anyone's phone. I 10 00:00:25,400 --> 00:00:27,640 Speaker 4: know if you start, she'll find so on and so forth. 11 00:00:27,680 --> 00:00:30,160 Speaker 4: But we were cooking dinner in the kitchen and he 12 00:00:30,200 --> 00:00:32,080 Speaker 4: went to go into another room and he left his 13 00:00:32,159 --> 00:00:35,120 Speaker 4: phone and so it lit up and I grabbed it 14 00:00:35,159 --> 00:00:36,840 Speaker 4: to go give it to him, and it was actually 15 00:00:36,840 --> 00:00:41,440 Speaker 4: an email from your show, which we listened to your show. Yeah, 16 00:00:41,479 --> 00:00:43,680 Speaker 4: and it's kind of why I reached out in the 17 00:00:43,680 --> 00:00:44,280 Speaker 4: first place. 18 00:00:45,040 --> 00:00:47,160 Speaker 2: You got an email from the show? What was it about? 19 00:00:47,400 --> 00:00:53,880 Speaker 4: It was actually about the first date segment, So I thought, oh, 20 00:00:54,160 --> 00:00:55,200 Speaker 4: what is he planning? 21 00:00:55,320 --> 00:00:55,440 Speaker 5: Like? 22 00:00:55,560 --> 00:00:56,560 Speaker 1: Is he being funny? 23 00:00:56,600 --> 00:00:56,680 Speaker 5: Like? 24 00:00:56,720 --> 00:00:58,240 Speaker 1: What's going on? Is this a surprise? 25 00:00:58,800 --> 00:01:01,600 Speaker 2: To clarify, he email about a first date follow up? 26 00:01:01,680 --> 00:01:05,080 Speaker 4: Yes, it was, yes, yes, So when I looked at 27 00:01:05,080 --> 00:01:07,480 Speaker 4: the actual email, he had reached out to you guys 28 00:01:07,520 --> 00:01:08,039 Speaker 4: as far. 29 00:01:07,920 --> 00:01:09,319 Speaker 1: As the first and I thought maybe he was. 30 00:01:09,280 --> 00:01:11,640 Speaker 4: Doing it like a joke, he thaning. But then I 31 00:01:11,680 --> 00:01:14,199 Speaker 4: go read. I read through the email and it's about 32 00:01:14,200 --> 00:01:16,679 Speaker 4: a first date he went on with someone named Megan. 33 00:01:16,920 --> 00:01:21,319 Speaker 4: What Yes, yeah, and she's not reaching back out, And 34 00:01:21,520 --> 00:01:25,280 Speaker 4: just like, I just need answers. I'm just confused, and 35 00:01:26,319 --> 00:01:28,000 Speaker 4: I just want to get to the bottom of what's 36 00:01:28,040 --> 00:01:30,600 Speaker 4: going on. I didn't think that there was anything wrong 37 00:01:30,640 --> 00:01:33,280 Speaker 4: in our relationship. The more I was reading it, the 38 00:01:33,319 --> 00:01:35,560 Speaker 4: more I was seeing that there there were like I 39 00:01:35,720 --> 00:01:38,479 Speaker 4: was catching him in these lies, like he was out 40 00:01:38,480 --> 00:01:40,199 Speaker 4: with his friend he told me, and oh. 41 00:01:40,080 --> 00:01:41,840 Speaker 1: We're doing a guys night. We're going to go to 42 00:01:41,880 --> 00:01:42,200 Speaker 1: the bar. 43 00:01:42,400 --> 00:01:45,800 Speaker 4: And that was That was the actual day that he 44 00:01:45,920 --> 00:01:47,480 Speaker 4: said in the email that he had gone on the 45 00:01:47,560 --> 00:01:48,400 Speaker 4: date with this girl. 46 00:01:48,640 --> 00:01:52,160 Speaker 3: Wow, did you even bother asking him about it after 47 00:01:52,240 --> 00:01:54,120 Speaker 3: you read all of that, I mean, you had the information. 48 00:01:55,160 --> 00:01:57,880 Speaker 1: I know, I haven't. I'm not sure what has come 49 00:01:57,920 --> 00:01:58,280 Speaker 1: over me. 50 00:01:58,480 --> 00:02:02,040 Speaker 4: I just I want to find out, you know, if 51 00:02:02,080 --> 00:02:04,680 Speaker 4: this is what's going on like like that dudes, like 52 00:02:04,720 --> 00:02:07,400 Speaker 4: I just if he wants to reach out and put 53 00:02:07,400 --> 00:02:09,880 Speaker 4: his business on the radio. Guess what, that's what he's 54 00:02:09,880 --> 00:02:13,080 Speaker 4: going to get. I mean, that's kind of stupid, right, 55 00:02:13,160 --> 00:02:16,040 Speaker 4: like even if you're cheating me, Yeah, why would you 56 00:02:16,200 --> 00:02:16,720 Speaker 4: do that? 57 00:02:17,000 --> 00:02:19,840 Speaker 3: I'm not you him obviously, but I mean, is there 58 00:02:19,880 --> 00:02:22,600 Speaker 3: any way you can explain it away? I'm having trouble 59 00:02:22,600 --> 00:02:24,440 Speaker 3: finding it, but I'm just wondering if there could be 60 00:02:25,080 --> 00:02:26,919 Speaker 3: very reasonable what would he say? 61 00:02:27,040 --> 00:02:29,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I can't think of anything. 62 00:02:30,080 --> 00:02:33,320 Speaker 4: I mean, especially as far as like, like again, like. 63 00:02:33,240 --> 00:02:35,400 Speaker 1: It would be one thing if he was seen out 64 00:02:35,440 --> 00:02:36,400 Speaker 1: with someone and. 65 00:02:36,320 --> 00:02:38,160 Speaker 4: Someone reported it back to me'd be like, oh, yeah, 66 00:02:38,160 --> 00:02:41,200 Speaker 4: it was a coworker. So he applied, Like he sent 67 00:02:41,320 --> 00:02:44,000 Speaker 4: an email to your show asking to be on the 68 00:02:44,040 --> 00:02:45,320 Speaker 4: show about a first date with someone. 69 00:02:45,320 --> 00:02:47,600 Speaker 1: That is at me, that's wild, Like. 70 00:02:47,680 --> 00:02:50,799 Speaker 3: You wouldn't hear it, like somebody wouldn't do Yeah, yeah, 71 00:02:51,040 --> 00:02:53,720 Speaker 3: I mean, let's just call let's play a song, come back, 72 00:02:53,800 --> 00:02:55,440 Speaker 3: call him, and then we'll just be from the show. 73 00:02:55,800 --> 00:02:58,280 Speaker 3: And because when people email us for those things, we 74 00:02:58,360 --> 00:03:00,079 Speaker 3: call them back and find out more information. So you 75 00:03:00,080 --> 00:03:02,400 Speaker 3: can just find out information on the first day fall 76 00:03:02,480 --> 00:03:03,920 Speaker 3: he wants to do and you can hear that, and 77 00:03:03,960 --> 00:03:05,760 Speaker 3: then you can oh. 78 00:03:05,639 --> 00:03:08,160 Speaker 2: Gosh, do whatever you gotta do. Brace yourself. 79 00:03:09,240 --> 00:03:11,800 Speaker 1: Sound good, sounds like a thing we're gonna do. 80 00:03:11,960 --> 00:03:14,239 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm sorry that you have to do this. It 81 00:03:14,800 --> 00:03:19,519 Speaker 3: doesn't make your situation anymore no fun. But you know, 82 00:03:19,520 --> 00:03:21,079 Speaker 3: at least you can find out for sure. And if 83 00:03:21,080 --> 00:03:24,399 Speaker 3: there is some crazy way that is legit, then you'll 84 00:03:24,440 --> 00:03:26,359 Speaker 3: find that out too. So we'll play a song'll come 85 00:03:26,360 --> 00:03:28,280 Speaker 3: back and call him and get you to catch a cheater. 86 00:03:28,560 --> 00:03:33,880 Speaker 4: Next, it's time to Catch a Cheater only on. 87 00:03:33,760 --> 00:03:34,520 Speaker 2: The Tuble Show. 88 00:03:34,720 --> 00:03:37,280 Speaker 3: If you're just joining us for today's to Catch a Cheater. 89 00:03:37,560 --> 00:03:40,800 Speaker 3: Carmen is on the phone and she thinks that her 90 00:03:40,840 --> 00:03:42,800 Speaker 3: boyfriend of a little over a year might be cheating 91 00:03:42,800 --> 00:03:45,560 Speaker 3: on her. Pretty hard to think that he's not. Before 92 00:03:45,560 --> 00:03:47,680 Speaker 3: we call him to try to catch him, we'll let 93 00:03:47,680 --> 00:03:50,720 Speaker 3: Carmen explain her situation. Carmen refresh everybody's memory on what's 94 00:03:50,720 --> 00:03:51,000 Speaker 3: going on. 95 00:03:51,440 --> 00:03:55,520 Speaker 4: So my boyfriend, Adrian, he left his phone in the 96 00:03:55,600 --> 00:04:01,120 Speaker 4: kitchen and I saw an email to your show asking 97 00:04:01,520 --> 00:04:04,240 Speaker 4: to do a follow up on a first date. And 98 00:04:04,360 --> 00:04:07,119 Speaker 4: the first date was with someone that isn't me, And 99 00:04:07,240 --> 00:04:09,480 Speaker 4: so now I want to find out what what is 100 00:04:09,520 --> 00:04:09,920 Speaker 4: going on? 101 00:04:10,320 --> 00:04:13,200 Speaker 3: All right, So we're gonna call him and just be 102 00:04:13,240 --> 00:04:15,440 Speaker 3: from the show, because when people email us about a 103 00:04:15,480 --> 00:04:18,160 Speaker 3: first date follow up, we you know, interview them and 104 00:04:18,200 --> 00:04:19,719 Speaker 3: find out more about it before we actually do it 105 00:04:19,760 --> 00:04:22,320 Speaker 3: on the air. So we'll just do that. We'll see 106 00:04:22,320 --> 00:04:24,600 Speaker 3: if we can get some information out of them. I'm 107 00:04:24,640 --> 00:04:28,360 Speaker 3: foolishly optimistic at times, so I still hope that there's 108 00:04:28,400 --> 00:04:29,240 Speaker 3: a way that this is. 109 00:04:29,200 --> 00:04:31,120 Speaker 2: Not him cheating. But I you know, I don't know 110 00:04:31,160 --> 00:04:33,000 Speaker 2: how it's not. But yeah, I know it hopes so too. 111 00:04:33,040 --> 00:04:36,360 Speaker 2: But really, yeah, who see are you ready. 112 00:04:36,560 --> 00:04:37,360 Speaker 1: Ready as I can be? 113 00:04:37,560 --> 00:04:38,400 Speaker 2: All right? Here we go? 114 00:04:49,080 --> 00:04:49,359 Speaker 1: Hello? 115 00:04:49,960 --> 00:04:50,880 Speaker 2: Hey is this Adrian? 116 00:04:51,720 --> 00:04:51,920 Speaker 6: Yeah? 117 00:04:51,960 --> 00:04:52,440 Speaker 1: This Adrian? 118 00:04:52,680 --> 00:04:54,200 Speaker 2: Hey man, this is the Jubil Show. 119 00:04:54,720 --> 00:04:56,600 Speaker 1: Hey, nice to hear. 120 00:04:57,080 --> 00:04:57,640 Speaker 7: What's going on? 121 00:04:58,160 --> 00:04:58,480 Speaker 5: Not much? 122 00:04:58,720 --> 00:04:59,120 Speaker 2: How are you? 123 00:05:00,040 --> 00:05:04,719 Speaker 7: I'm feeling good, good day, you know, just looking looking 124 00:05:04,720 --> 00:05:08,080 Speaker 7: forward to call it. Calling this person, seeing if you 125 00:05:08,080 --> 00:05:09,240 Speaker 7: guys can get in touch with them. 126 00:05:09,440 --> 00:05:11,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what we're calling about. We're talking about the 127 00:05:11,279 --> 00:05:14,920 Speaker 3: first day followup email that you sent in. Yeah, so 128 00:05:15,240 --> 00:05:16,960 Speaker 3: just you know, before we do these on the air, 129 00:05:17,000 --> 00:05:18,960 Speaker 3: we do find out more information because sometimes it just 130 00:05:19,040 --> 00:05:20,520 Speaker 3: might not work for whatever reason. 131 00:05:21,040 --> 00:05:22,719 Speaker 2: Tell like, what's the situation again? 132 00:05:24,200 --> 00:05:26,880 Speaker 7: So I met this girl Megan on Tinder and we 133 00:05:26,920 --> 00:05:31,120 Speaker 7: went out. We kind of went to a nice restaurant. 134 00:05:30,800 --> 00:05:34,039 Speaker 3: And and just for like a timeline in my head, 135 00:05:34,279 --> 00:05:35,039 Speaker 3: how long ago was that? 136 00:05:36,120 --> 00:05:36,760 Speaker 2: Two weeks ago? 137 00:05:37,400 --> 00:05:40,520 Speaker 4: Hey, go ahead, Yeah, and we had a pretty good night. 138 00:05:40,560 --> 00:05:43,840 Speaker 7: I we ended up actually great night, hooking up at 139 00:05:43,839 --> 00:05:45,880 Speaker 7: the end of the night. Yeah, and I thought she 140 00:05:46,000 --> 00:05:49,360 Speaker 7: was like really sexy and hell and I would love 141 00:05:49,680 --> 00:05:50,679 Speaker 7: to see her again. 142 00:05:50,839 --> 00:05:51,360 Speaker 2: It's just. 143 00:05:53,360 --> 00:05:56,200 Speaker 7: Like I haven't felt like this about anybody. 144 00:05:55,800 --> 00:05:57,080 Speaker 1: For a while now. 145 00:05:57,279 --> 00:05:57,559 Speaker 2: Wow. 146 00:05:57,839 --> 00:06:05,040 Speaker 1: Really, yeah, you you too, Adrian? Are you serious? Are 147 00:06:05,040 --> 00:06:05,640 Speaker 1: you for real? 148 00:06:05,839 --> 00:06:09,520 Speaker 2: Adrian? That is your girlfriend, Carmen. She emailed us about 149 00:06:09,560 --> 00:06:10,360 Speaker 2: a to get to Cheeter. 150 00:06:11,440 --> 00:06:14,719 Speaker 1: Oh oh yeah, oh crazy. 151 00:06:15,440 --> 00:06:18,880 Speaker 8: Yeah, you haven't felt that way about someone in a 152 00:06:19,160 --> 00:06:22,880 Speaker 8: in hell long because we've been together a year. So 153 00:06:22,880 --> 00:06:26,880 Speaker 8: the math isn't mathing. I saw the email that you sent, 154 00:06:26,920 --> 00:06:28,760 Speaker 8: the first date follow up email that you sent to 155 00:06:28,800 --> 00:06:31,880 Speaker 8: the show, and that's why I contacted them. 156 00:06:32,680 --> 00:06:37,280 Speaker 6: Oh yeah, I don't know what to say. 157 00:06:38,040 --> 00:06:40,839 Speaker 1: Uh is this something you do often? 158 00:06:41,120 --> 00:06:43,160 Speaker 4: I mean, you you lied, you told me you were 159 00:06:43,160 --> 00:06:44,960 Speaker 4: going I mean I know details to this. 160 00:06:45,600 --> 00:06:47,640 Speaker 2: You know you got the email? 161 00:06:47,960 --> 00:06:51,440 Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, uh yeah, you told me you were going 162 00:06:51,440 --> 00:06:53,839 Speaker 4: out with your friends a guys night, and then you 163 00:06:53,880 --> 00:06:56,080 Speaker 4: went on a like and you hooked up. I mean, 164 00:06:56,120 --> 00:06:58,720 Speaker 4: I haven't even processed that part of it yet. 165 00:06:59,000 --> 00:07:01,880 Speaker 1: I do not, like I want to be together. I'm 166 00:07:01,920 --> 00:07:05,080 Speaker 1: so confused by this. I don't I don't know how 167 00:07:05,120 --> 00:07:06,240 Speaker 1: to I'm sorry. 168 00:07:06,360 --> 00:07:07,559 Speaker 2: I did well. 169 00:07:09,200 --> 00:07:12,160 Speaker 1: I mean, I did go out with my friend that night. 170 00:07:12,320 --> 00:07:16,280 Speaker 7: I just, I literally, I don't know what you're talking about. 171 00:07:16,360 --> 00:07:20,440 Speaker 4: Like you told me that you were going out with 172 00:07:20,520 --> 00:07:22,640 Speaker 4: all the guys. It was a guy's night. That's why 173 00:07:22,640 --> 00:07:25,440 Speaker 4: none of the girlfriends were invited, and you were going 174 00:07:25,480 --> 00:07:28,040 Speaker 4: to the box and instead went on a date. 175 00:07:27,880 --> 00:07:29,040 Speaker 1: With someone named Megan. 176 00:07:31,040 --> 00:07:32,960 Speaker 2: It wasn't really a date. It was just like we 177 00:07:33,440 --> 00:07:33,880 Speaker 2: hung out. 178 00:07:34,120 --> 00:07:35,960 Speaker 1: You just said you hooked up with her. 179 00:07:37,240 --> 00:07:39,120 Speaker 4: You just said I was the best thing of your 180 00:07:39,160 --> 00:07:40,680 Speaker 4: whole life, best date ever. 181 00:07:42,080 --> 00:07:45,800 Speaker 7: I was just trying to like make it sound more interesting. 182 00:07:45,920 --> 00:07:50,520 Speaker 2: I didn't save yourself now, But. 183 00:07:50,640 --> 00:07:55,200 Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, no, I mean, I don't know. I don't 184 00:07:55,200 --> 00:07:57,560 Speaker 6: I don't think. I don't know what we've We've been 185 00:07:57,600 --> 00:08:00,920 Speaker 6: going through a few things, so I thought i'd, you know, 186 00:08:01,280 --> 00:08:06,280 Speaker 6: try just try something once. And I guess I just 187 00:08:06,320 --> 00:08:07,400 Speaker 6: wanted to see what it's like. 188 00:08:08,440 --> 00:08:10,200 Speaker 5: Do you want to know what she's do you want 189 00:08:10,200 --> 00:08:13,520 Speaker 5: to know why she's ghosting you because I called her. 190 00:08:13,840 --> 00:08:16,080 Speaker 5: I got her number from the email and I called 191 00:08:16,080 --> 00:08:20,520 Speaker 5: her from your phone and I called her, yeah, and 192 00:08:20,560 --> 00:08:23,560 Speaker 5: I let her know that you are you have been 193 00:08:23,640 --> 00:08:27,080 Speaker 5: in a relationship for the last year, that we have talked. 194 00:08:26,800 --> 00:08:29,520 Speaker 1: About moving in together, saying god, we didn't do that, 195 00:08:30,120 --> 00:08:32,920 Speaker 1: Oh my god. And I let her know everything. So 196 00:08:34,000 --> 00:08:35,520 Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know what you want to 197 00:08:35,520 --> 00:08:39,120 Speaker 1: do with that information. That's why she's ghosting you. That's 198 00:08:39,120 --> 00:08:41,840 Speaker 1: your first day follow up. I called her. I let 199 00:08:41,880 --> 00:08:42,400 Speaker 1: her know. 200 00:08:42,840 --> 00:08:47,600 Speaker 3: You're whoa good job hosting the first day follow up? Carmen, 201 00:08:47,840 --> 00:08:51,600 Speaker 3: no job, Adrian? Are you still there? 202 00:08:52,160 --> 00:08:53,360 Speaker 1: Are you there? Do you? 203 00:08:53,960 --> 00:08:54,440 Speaker 6: Yeah? 204 00:08:54,520 --> 00:08:59,240 Speaker 1: I'm here. I mean, I'm sorry, I don't know what 205 00:08:59,320 --> 00:09:03,960 Speaker 1: to say. Well, don't worry about saying anything. Just just goodbye, 206 00:09:04,040 --> 00:09:11,000 Speaker 1: get off the phone. I'll call you. 207 00:09:09,760 --> 00:09:10,200 Speaker 2: Off the shell. 208 00:09:10,320 --> 00:09:14,479 Speaker 3: Yeah she did awesome. She's a host and harmon bodyguard. Yeah, 209 00:09:14,679 --> 00:09:18,000 Speaker 3: I'm so sorry. 210 00:09:16,920 --> 00:09:20,599 Speaker 1: Serious, I mean, I knew what it was going to 211 00:09:20,640 --> 00:09:22,400 Speaker 1: be going into it. How could I not? 212 00:09:23,040 --> 00:09:27,240 Speaker 4: I just you know, they're still shocked, but I'm just 213 00:09:27,280 --> 00:09:28,800 Speaker 4: so glad we didn't move in together. 214 00:09:29,400 --> 00:09:32,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, real, Yeah, at least you don't you don't have 215 00:09:32,080 --> 00:09:34,200 Speaker 2: to deal with that. And I don't even know what 216 00:09:34,240 --> 00:09:34,640 Speaker 2: that was. 217 00:09:34,679 --> 00:09:37,240 Speaker 3: I was like, no remorse, that was just like wild, Yes, 218 00:09:37,360 --> 00:09:38,440 Speaker 3: got saved a big time. 219 00:09:38,600 --> 00:09:39,679 Speaker 1: Yeah I'm embarrassed. 220 00:09:39,720 --> 00:09:41,680 Speaker 4: No, I'm embarrassed that I dated that person. 221 00:09:42,679 --> 00:09:43,319 Speaker 7: That's my fault. 222 00:09:44,200 --> 00:09:46,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, you don't. You don't know people you know. You 223 00:09:47,160 --> 00:09:49,600 Speaker 3: didn't know that that about him when you started dating him. 224 00:09:50,160 --> 00:09:52,040 Speaker 3: And you should not be embarrassed about your radio hosting 225 00:09:52,040 --> 00:09:53,560 Speaker 3: skills either, because I was impressive all of it. 226 00:09:53,720 --> 00:09:54,200 Speaker 4: Yeah I was. 227 00:09:58,640 --> 00:10:01,400 Speaker 2: You will show it's a catch a cheater.