1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:01,840 Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded. 2 00:00:04,280 --> 00:00:06,040 Speaker 2: Y'all know what time, y'all don't know y'all, but. 3 00:00:09,400 --> 00:00:20,799 Speaker 3: All at all, So don't given them the milk bus busy. 4 00:00:24,440 --> 00:00:25,000 Speaker 1: Listening to. 5 00:00:26,680 --> 00:00:26,920 Speaker 4: Show. 6 00:00:38,680 --> 00:00:59,680 Speaker 3: I don't Joy, yeah, Joy, you don't you. 7 00:01:01,880 --> 00:01:25,560 Speaker 4: Turn you love you turn? 8 00:01:31,400 --> 00:01:31,839 Speaker 5: I can't. 9 00:01:40,920 --> 00:01:44,080 Speaker 4: You got to turn the mouth turn you probably got 10 00:01:44,200 --> 00:01:47,640 Speaker 4: to turn the mouth turn out, turn the water the 11 00:01:47,720 --> 00:01:48,400 Speaker 4: money up. 12 00:01:55,840 --> 00:01:59,400 Speaker 3: Come come on, you're. 13 00:02:01,440 --> 00:02:05,320 Speaker 5: Uh huh, I said, well, coome onring everybody if you 14 00:02:05,400 --> 00:02:09,600 Speaker 5: are listening to the voice, come on dig me now, 15 00:02:10,600 --> 00:02:15,960 Speaker 5: one and only Steve Harvey. Got a radio show man 16 00:02:16,800 --> 00:02:22,919 Speaker 5: doing something with it too. Get a mission, Get a 17 00:02:23,000 --> 00:02:31,280 Speaker 5: mission man, get a purpose, get a higher calling. 18 00:02:34,880 --> 00:02:35,519 Speaker 2: Be about it. 19 00:02:39,040 --> 00:02:43,000 Speaker 5: What's this all for? What you're waking up in the morning? 20 00:02:43,120 --> 00:02:47,560 Speaker 5: For Get at it today. 21 00:02:49,040 --> 00:02:49,720 Speaker 2: One more time. 22 00:02:50,160 --> 00:02:56,280 Speaker 5: Get a mission, get a purpose in your life, find 23 00:02:56,360 --> 00:02:58,960 Speaker 5: that higher calling of why you are here? 24 00:03:00,200 --> 00:03:00,840 Speaker 2: Be about it? 25 00:03:02,120 --> 00:03:02,720 Speaker 6: What's it all? 26 00:03:02,880 --> 00:03:02,919 Speaker 7: For? 27 00:03:03,639 --> 00:03:08,200 Speaker 5: Get at it today now, Steve, you're making some some 28 00:03:08,480 --> 00:03:09,799 Speaker 5: some some big statements here. 29 00:03:10,480 --> 00:03:11,120 Speaker 2: Uh huh yeah. 30 00:03:11,200 --> 00:03:13,359 Speaker 5: But oh you know I'm gonna clean it up for you, 31 00:03:13,480 --> 00:03:15,440 Speaker 5: don't you Cause you know I don't just throw it 32 00:03:15,520 --> 00:03:18,480 Speaker 5: out there without without the how two part. See the 33 00:03:18,560 --> 00:03:22,280 Speaker 5: how two part is usually where most people stop, they 34 00:03:22,360 --> 00:03:23,799 Speaker 5: tell you this, what you gotta do is, what you 35 00:03:23,880 --> 00:03:25,560 Speaker 5: gotta do, is what you gotta do. Then they don't 36 00:03:25,600 --> 00:03:29,399 Speaker 5: tell you how to That's why I don't. I don't 37 00:03:29,440 --> 00:03:30,639 Speaker 5: get off the boat right there. 38 00:03:31,840 --> 00:03:32,000 Speaker 2: Now. 39 00:03:33,240 --> 00:03:35,640 Speaker 5: If you're trying to figure out if you're trying to 40 00:03:35,680 --> 00:03:38,040 Speaker 5: get your life a mission, and you're trying to figure 41 00:03:38,040 --> 00:03:40,040 Speaker 5: out the purpose and what the high calling is, and 42 00:03:40,400 --> 00:03:43,160 Speaker 5: you want to be about something, and you're trying to 43 00:03:43,240 --> 00:03:45,560 Speaker 5: figure out what's it all for, and you want to 44 00:03:45,640 --> 00:03:50,880 Speaker 5: go get at it today, here's the trick. God knows. 45 00:03:52,880 --> 00:03:58,160 Speaker 5: God knows the answer to all those questions. He knows 46 00:03:58,280 --> 00:04:01,080 Speaker 5: what your mission in life is. He already know what 47 00:04:01,240 --> 00:04:04,560 Speaker 5: your purpose is. He already know what the higher calling is. 48 00:04:04,840 --> 00:04:07,320 Speaker 5: He already know what you got to be about. He 49 00:04:07,520 --> 00:04:10,560 Speaker 5: already know what is all for. He already know what 50 00:04:10,720 --> 00:04:14,160 Speaker 5: you need to go get at. God knows, you know why. 51 00:04:14,240 --> 00:04:19,080 Speaker 5: He knows because He created you. And God created all 52 00:04:19,160 --> 00:04:23,440 Speaker 5: of us with a purpose in mind. Irregardless as to 53 00:04:23,520 --> 00:04:26,440 Speaker 5: how we were created, we were all created with the 54 00:04:26,520 --> 00:04:29,960 Speaker 5: purpose in mind. He got a mission for us, He 55 00:04:30,080 --> 00:04:32,760 Speaker 5: got something he wants from us, he got something he. 56 00:04:32,880 --> 00:04:33,960 Speaker 2: Expects of us. 57 00:04:34,920 --> 00:04:38,560 Speaker 5: He has a life of abundance prepared for each and 58 00:04:38,640 --> 00:04:41,479 Speaker 5: every one of us that will lay claim to it. Now, 59 00:04:41,880 --> 00:04:44,480 Speaker 5: if you don't want that, then gone and start making 60 00:04:44,560 --> 00:04:48,480 Speaker 5: decisions on your own, possibly like you have. Now, let 61 00:04:48,560 --> 00:04:50,840 Speaker 5: me ask you something. Since you've been making all the 62 00:04:50,960 --> 00:04:54,560 Speaker 5: decisions on your own, Where you at, where you at 63 00:04:54,640 --> 00:04:57,600 Speaker 5: with it? How you feel about it every day? How 64 00:04:57,680 --> 00:04:58,880 Speaker 5: locked in on your mission? 65 00:04:58,920 --> 00:04:59,120 Speaker 3: Are you? 66 00:04:59,680 --> 00:04:59,720 Speaker 7: What? 67 00:05:00,080 --> 00:05:01,640 Speaker 2: Are you on a good purpose? Plan? 68 00:05:02,320 --> 00:05:02,480 Speaker 8: You know? 69 00:05:02,640 --> 00:05:05,000 Speaker 5: Do you feel like your life is in a higher calling? 70 00:05:05,640 --> 00:05:08,760 Speaker 5: Do you know what you about? Do you have an 71 00:05:08,839 --> 00:05:12,440 Speaker 5: understanding of what it's all for? Are you up every 72 00:05:12,520 --> 00:05:14,080 Speaker 5: day going and getting at it? 73 00:05:15,720 --> 00:05:15,920 Speaker 2: See? 74 00:05:16,480 --> 00:05:20,520 Speaker 5: Come on now, So now I'm asking you if you've 75 00:05:20,640 --> 00:05:23,480 Speaker 5: done this without talking to God or without checking in 76 00:05:23,680 --> 00:05:24,520 Speaker 5: with your creator? 77 00:05:24,960 --> 00:05:28,320 Speaker 2: Can you answer all those questions? I can flat I'll 78 00:05:28,400 --> 00:05:31,680 Speaker 2: tell you you can't. I know for a fact you 79 00:05:31,839 --> 00:05:37,520 Speaker 2: can't because you can't know how good your life can. 80 00:05:37,480 --> 00:05:41,200 Speaker 5: Be, and you won't have a life as good as 81 00:05:41,240 --> 00:05:44,160 Speaker 5: you want it to be until you have connected with 82 00:05:44,320 --> 00:05:48,440 Speaker 5: the one that created you. You better understand this one now. 83 00:05:48,839 --> 00:05:52,159 Speaker 5: Please understand. This ain't Steve just over here ranting and raving. 84 00:05:52,400 --> 00:05:55,760 Speaker 5: This is Steve after having years of figuring this one out. 85 00:05:57,440 --> 00:06:02,400 Speaker 5: But it's all in the Bible, it's all in holy writings. 86 00:06:03,160 --> 00:06:05,040 Speaker 2: But you know I ain't got time for that. 87 00:06:06,440 --> 00:06:09,320 Speaker 5: Don't go church like I'm posed to. Don't read the 88 00:06:09,440 --> 00:06:13,520 Speaker 5: Bible or the scrolls or the Koran or whatever your 89 00:06:13,600 --> 00:06:16,800 Speaker 5: faith is. You don't read all that it's in there. 90 00:06:16,880 --> 00:06:23,920 Speaker 5: Though it's in there. But we're humans, so we go 91 00:06:24,080 --> 00:06:26,800 Speaker 5: get at it the way we see it. Let me 92 00:06:26,839 --> 00:06:30,120 Speaker 5: tell you what happened to me. See while I was 93 00:06:30,200 --> 00:06:32,560 Speaker 5: getting at it the way I saw it, or to 94 00:06:32,640 --> 00:06:36,159 Speaker 5: be got at You understand me. When I was defining 95 00:06:36,320 --> 00:06:40,719 Speaker 5: my purpose, when I was creating my own mission, when 96 00:06:40,839 --> 00:06:44,479 Speaker 5: I was laying claim to what my calling is in life, 97 00:06:44,960 --> 00:06:48,039 Speaker 5: let me tell you what I was doing. I was deferring. 98 00:06:49,080 --> 00:06:52,760 Speaker 5: I was deferring the abundance that He really had for me. 99 00:06:53,880 --> 00:06:58,279 Speaker 5: I'm just now listen to me. I'm just now getting. 100 00:06:57,960 --> 00:06:58,719 Speaker 2: At it for real. 101 00:06:59,880 --> 00:07:02,520 Speaker 5: I've been working towards it all my life. I didn't 102 00:07:02,600 --> 00:07:05,760 Speaker 5: know it though, But see, because God is so merciful 103 00:07:06,120 --> 00:07:08,719 Speaker 5: and so full of grace, he allowed me to make 104 00:07:08,800 --> 00:07:12,520 Speaker 5: all the mistakes I made, And then when I finally 105 00:07:12,600 --> 00:07:14,640 Speaker 5: came to him, he said, all right, now I'm gonna 106 00:07:14,640 --> 00:07:16,239 Speaker 5: take all of them. Is to tell you how cold 107 00:07:16,280 --> 00:07:18,680 Speaker 5: I am. Now this this God. Now I'm gonna tell 108 00:07:18,680 --> 00:07:22,760 Speaker 5: you how cold God is. He takes all the mistakes 109 00:07:23,160 --> 00:07:26,240 Speaker 5: you made, all the failures you made while you was 110 00:07:26,320 --> 00:07:30,440 Speaker 5: making your own decisions. He takes all of that and 111 00:07:30,760 --> 00:07:35,160 Speaker 5: uses them as valuable gained and learned experiences. And he 112 00:07:35,280 --> 00:07:38,120 Speaker 5: takes that and allows you to be who you are today. 113 00:07:38,440 --> 00:07:41,760 Speaker 5: See God, God ain't gonna let you forget what you did. 114 00:07:43,640 --> 00:07:46,160 Speaker 5: But here's something cold too. He ain't gonna let what 115 00:07:46,280 --> 00:07:47,400 Speaker 5: you did go for not. 116 00:07:48,920 --> 00:07:50,600 Speaker 4: Oh, oh, what you say to see. 117 00:07:51,200 --> 00:07:52,640 Speaker 2: Let's see that's what's cold. 118 00:07:53,040 --> 00:07:58,080 Speaker 5: See all the mistakes I made, every lie I told, 119 00:08:00,080 --> 00:08:03,960 Speaker 5: every traumatic experience I went through, I put anybody through. 120 00:08:05,720 --> 00:08:06,400 Speaker 2: Any time. 121 00:08:06,720 --> 00:08:10,280 Speaker 5: Man, I was out there tripping trying to justify it 122 00:08:10,360 --> 00:08:14,600 Speaker 5: as right. He said, all right, okay, But now because 123 00:08:14,680 --> 00:08:19,720 Speaker 5: of my mercy and my grace, what I'm gonna do 124 00:08:20,000 --> 00:08:23,480 Speaker 5: is I'm gonna allow all this to happen. You're gonna 125 00:08:23,520 --> 00:08:26,480 Speaker 5: waste a lot of time, you gonna forfeit a life 126 00:08:26,520 --> 00:08:29,040 Speaker 5: of abundance that you could have been and had. But 127 00:08:29,120 --> 00:08:30,960 Speaker 5: I tell you what I'm gonna do. I'm gonna take 128 00:08:31,080 --> 00:08:33,320 Speaker 5: all of that and I'm gonna turn it into some good. 129 00:08:33,920 --> 00:08:37,000 Speaker 5: So I'm gonna let all of these lessons that you've learned, 130 00:08:37,040 --> 00:08:40,520 Speaker 5: all of these hardships, all of these moments are despaired, 131 00:08:40,920 --> 00:08:43,120 Speaker 5: come back and you'll use them and you'll wear them 132 00:08:43,200 --> 00:08:44,560 Speaker 5: on your head like a crown. 133 00:08:45,000 --> 00:08:47,240 Speaker 2: You gonna it's gonna be jewels in your head. 134 00:08:47,400 --> 00:08:50,120 Speaker 5: Man. I'm gonna take all of that stuff and make 135 00:08:50,200 --> 00:08:53,640 Speaker 5: you knowledgeable. I'm gonna take all that stuff and make 136 00:08:53,760 --> 00:08:54,439 Speaker 5: you wise. 137 00:08:54,720 --> 00:08:54,920 Speaker 2: Man. 138 00:08:55,520 --> 00:08:58,320 Speaker 5: I'm gonna take all of that stuff and I'm gonna 139 00:08:58,320 --> 00:09:00,959 Speaker 5: put it in your mission. I'm gonna take all that 140 00:09:01,160 --> 00:09:03,800 Speaker 5: stuff and make that a part of your purpose. I'm 141 00:09:03,800 --> 00:09:06,360 Speaker 5: gonna take all that stuff and create that to be 142 00:09:06,480 --> 00:09:09,040 Speaker 5: a part of your higher calling. I'm gonna take all 143 00:09:09,160 --> 00:09:11,839 Speaker 5: that and let you be about that right there. I'm 144 00:09:11,880 --> 00:09:14,360 Speaker 5: gonna take all of that, and i'm gonna let you 145 00:09:14,480 --> 00:09:17,520 Speaker 5: find out what it's all been for. I'm gonna take 146 00:09:17,640 --> 00:09:19,800 Speaker 5: all of that, and with all of that mess you've 147 00:09:19,880 --> 00:09:22,240 Speaker 5: made of your life, I'm gonna let you now take 148 00:09:22,320 --> 00:09:25,360 Speaker 5: all that and go get at it. See, but that 149 00:09:25,559 --> 00:09:29,400 Speaker 5: only happens when you come to God. Because God is 150 00:09:29,480 --> 00:09:31,959 Speaker 5: the only one that knows what you've been through and 151 00:09:32,080 --> 00:09:34,160 Speaker 5: how to take what you've been through and turn it 152 00:09:34,280 --> 00:09:37,160 Speaker 5: into something to help you get through what you're going through. 153 00:09:37,679 --> 00:09:40,640 Speaker 2: Hey, the only one can do that. Ain't nobody else 154 00:09:40,880 --> 00:09:41,160 Speaker 2: like him. 155 00:09:41,440 --> 00:09:44,760 Speaker 5: There's nothing like him on this world available to you, man, 156 00:09:44,960 --> 00:09:47,920 Speaker 5: So quit tripping yourself out, get over there and talk 157 00:09:48,000 --> 00:09:48,360 Speaker 5: to God. 158 00:09:48,480 --> 00:09:51,480 Speaker 2: Man, quit waste in your life like I was doing. Stop. 159 00:09:51,600 --> 00:09:53,559 Speaker 5: I'm telling you He'll let you get at it and 160 00:09:53,679 --> 00:09:55,800 Speaker 5: can't nobody let you get at it like him. 161 00:09:55,960 --> 00:09:57,120 Speaker 2: All right, let's ride. 162 00:09:57,720 --> 00:10:04,760 Speaker 5: You're listening, Harymore, ladies and gentlemen. He's done it again. 163 00:10:04,960 --> 00:10:10,000 Speaker 5: God Almighty produced another great day. I'm a participant in it. 164 00:10:10,400 --> 00:10:13,319 Speaker 5: You're participant in it. We should all be grateful in it. 165 00:10:13,400 --> 00:10:15,960 Speaker 5: Today is the day that the Lord has made. Let 166 00:10:16,040 --> 00:10:17,200 Speaker 5: us rejoice and. 167 00:10:17,360 --> 00:10:18,600 Speaker 2: Be glad in it. Man. 168 00:10:18,679 --> 00:10:20,079 Speaker 5: My mom used to say that to me on the 169 00:10:20,120 --> 00:10:22,400 Speaker 5: way out to school. I ain't quite get it. I 170 00:10:22,520 --> 00:10:23,920 Speaker 5: got it now, Mama, Thank you. 171 00:10:24,720 --> 00:10:24,920 Speaker 2: Yeah. 172 00:10:25,960 --> 00:10:30,000 Speaker 5: Yeah. I ain't nobody making days, but God Almighty. Ain't 173 00:10:30,080 --> 00:10:34,360 Speaker 5: nobody making days but God Almighty. Man, I show appreciate it. 174 00:10:35,000 --> 00:10:40,199 Speaker 5: I am a participant and a willing participant too. I'm 175 00:10:40,200 --> 00:10:42,480 Speaker 5: gonna share something else with you too. I was having 176 00:10:42,520 --> 00:10:44,760 Speaker 5: a little lack of motivation getting in the gym for 177 00:10:44,800 --> 00:10:47,760 Speaker 5: a little short period here, I just didn't find the motivation. 178 00:10:47,880 --> 00:10:50,640 Speaker 5: I was looking for accountability partner. But then I discovered 179 00:10:51,000 --> 00:10:53,120 Speaker 5: I ain't got no friends with my age that can 180 00:10:53,200 --> 00:10:54,959 Speaker 5: come and work out at the time I need to 181 00:10:55,000 --> 00:11:00,320 Speaker 5: work out. I can stop looking for that, said, well, 182 00:11:00,320 --> 00:11:02,400 Speaker 5: why don't you work out with your sons, because well, 183 00:11:02,480 --> 00:11:04,640 Speaker 5: my son's doing a little bit different workout than me, 184 00:11:04,880 --> 00:11:07,400 Speaker 5: because if I did that workout, See, they get to 185 00:11:07,480 --> 00:11:09,199 Speaker 5: go and do their life. I got to do my 186 00:11:09,280 --> 00:11:10,800 Speaker 5: workout in the morning. I got to go to work, 187 00:11:11,000 --> 00:11:12,760 Speaker 5: so I need different type of workout because I got 188 00:11:12,840 --> 00:11:15,120 Speaker 5: to stand up all day. So anyway, I was looking 189 00:11:15,160 --> 00:11:17,719 Speaker 5: for the motivation, and then finally it dawned on me. 190 00:11:18,480 --> 00:11:21,120 Speaker 5: Steve Harvey, why don't you pray about it? 191 00:11:21,720 --> 00:11:22,160 Speaker 4: You're right? 192 00:11:22,760 --> 00:11:25,920 Speaker 5: So you know what I did Saturday? I prayed about it. 193 00:11:26,720 --> 00:11:28,880 Speaker 5: You know what I did Sunday morning, got up and 194 00:11:28,920 --> 00:11:32,320 Speaker 5: went to the gym by myself. I'm sitting up here 195 00:11:32,400 --> 00:11:36,240 Speaker 5: looking for all this external help to get me through something. 196 00:11:36,720 --> 00:11:41,000 Speaker 5: When God says, pray without ceasing and bring all things 197 00:11:41,120 --> 00:11:44,160 Speaker 5: to me, so I took it to it. I went 198 00:11:44,240 --> 00:11:47,400 Speaker 5: to the gym yesterday morning. As soon as I get 199 00:11:47,440 --> 00:11:48,760 Speaker 5: off the down. I'm gonna go in this gym and 200 00:11:48,800 --> 00:11:51,480 Speaker 5: then I'm gonna go to family feud. I was looking 201 00:11:51,520 --> 00:11:53,360 Speaker 5: for motivation when all I had to do is go 202 00:11:53,440 --> 00:11:56,080 Speaker 5: to God. He'll give you anything. Now I'm looking at 203 00:11:56,120 --> 00:11:59,160 Speaker 5: all the stuff he could go. Man, why ain't a motivation? 204 00:12:00,000 --> 00:12:00,880 Speaker 2: He a've me this life? 205 00:12:01,000 --> 00:12:05,240 Speaker 5: I can't get no motivation, man, Miss Me, Steve Hagia, 206 00:12:05,920 --> 00:12:11,400 Speaker 5: Lady Back Sharlote Strawberry, call it for real, Mississippi Monica 207 00:12:11,480 --> 00:12:14,040 Speaker 5: Junr will the wedd a Hell, Tommy Junior? 208 00:12:14,120 --> 00:12:14,800 Speaker 2: What's on your man? 209 00:12:15,040 --> 00:12:17,200 Speaker 9: I set next to a lady on the plane yesterday 210 00:12:17,240 --> 00:12:19,520 Speaker 9: and she was talking about her life, and she said, 211 00:12:19,600 --> 00:12:21,720 Speaker 9: you know when I go to God, Now, I don't 212 00:12:21,760 --> 00:12:25,040 Speaker 9: go to God asking for things no more. I'm already grateful. 213 00:12:25,120 --> 00:12:28,640 Speaker 9: But she said, I do pray for more faith, more love, 214 00:12:29,280 --> 00:12:32,000 Speaker 9: more joy, and more understanding. And then you look at me, 215 00:12:32,000 --> 00:12:34,040 Speaker 9: said do you understand what I'm saying? I said absolutely, 216 00:12:34,080 --> 00:12:35,720 Speaker 9: I said, my boss talk about it all the time. 217 00:12:36,679 --> 00:12:38,120 Speaker 9: She said, I don't have to pray for my family more. 218 00:12:38,160 --> 00:12:41,400 Speaker 9: He got my family. I need more faith, I need 219 00:12:41,520 --> 00:12:44,280 Speaker 9: more love, and I need more joy. Did you would 220 00:12:44,320 --> 00:12:45,000 Speaker 9: you be agreed with that? 221 00:12:45,520 --> 00:12:47,760 Speaker 2: I would agree with that, and then I would add 222 00:12:47,840 --> 00:12:50,200 Speaker 2: I also have some things though. 223 00:12:54,440 --> 00:12:55,040 Speaker 3: What you gonna do? 224 00:12:55,720 --> 00:12:59,440 Speaker 5: Yeah? I need some more faith, you know, I need 225 00:12:59,559 --> 00:13:05,560 Speaker 5: some more motivation. Whism be all of God now once 226 00:13:05,640 --> 00:13:12,040 Speaker 5: I put that request in. Yeah, so I'm finna keep 227 00:13:12,040 --> 00:13:12,880 Speaker 5: it one hundred with you. 228 00:13:14,360 --> 00:13:16,240 Speaker 1: You agree to add on. 229 00:13:17,880 --> 00:13:21,760 Speaker 2: With everything? She said? Yeah, yeah, some things. 230 00:13:23,920 --> 00:13:31,040 Speaker 5: He'll be putting the new suits, no ask for suits, No, 231 00:13:31,400 --> 00:13:33,240 Speaker 5: my listen, a little bit bigger than suit. 232 00:13:33,080 --> 00:13:33,440 Speaker 8: I got. 233 00:13:34,960 --> 00:13:38,480 Speaker 1: All right, thank you. Junior coming up at thirty two 234 00:13:38,559 --> 00:13:41,400 Speaker 1: minutes after the hour, Junior is in for the nephews. 235 00:13:41,440 --> 00:13:45,080 Speaker 1: He runs that prank back right after this. You're listening 236 00:13:46,600 --> 00:13:49,800 Speaker 1: morning show. It is time now for the nephew to 237 00:13:49,920 --> 00:13:51,960 Speaker 1: run that prank back? What you got for his nest? 238 00:13:52,360 --> 00:13:54,400 Speaker 2: Can I have yo? Kid? 239 00:13:54,559 --> 00:13:54,719 Speaker 10: Man? 240 00:13:54,920 --> 00:13:56,000 Speaker 2: If you would cat on? 241 00:13:58,040 --> 00:14:01,920 Speaker 7: Hello, Hello, I'm trying to read brother Conley. This is 242 00:14:02,040 --> 00:14:05,079 Speaker 7: kind of how you doing, brother? This is Deacon Patterson 243 00:14:05,160 --> 00:14:07,240 Speaker 7: call him from the church. How you doing today, uh, 244 00:14:07,520 --> 00:14:08,320 Speaker 7: Deacon Patterson? 245 00:14:08,600 --> 00:14:10,720 Speaker 10: Yeah? Just doing finding yourself. 246 00:14:10,480 --> 00:14:13,320 Speaker 7: Sir, I'm doing good, doing good. You know the churches 247 00:14:13,360 --> 00:14:15,439 Speaker 7: behind you on what you're going through, and we were 248 00:14:15,480 --> 00:14:17,599 Speaker 7: praying for you. Man, we know all about the you 249 00:14:17,720 --> 00:14:20,160 Speaker 7: know you're going in the surgery on Friday to get 250 00:14:20,200 --> 00:14:23,320 Speaker 7: your get your painters removed. So I wanted to give 251 00:14:23,360 --> 00:14:25,000 Speaker 7: you a call, man, have a word of prayer and 252 00:14:25,120 --> 00:14:27,480 Speaker 7: let you know that we all are pulling for you, 253 00:14:27,520 --> 00:14:29,920 Speaker 7: and we know that that the man upstairs is gonna 254 00:14:29,960 --> 00:14:31,080 Speaker 7: pull you through this success. 255 00:14:31,920 --> 00:14:35,200 Speaker 10: Well, God blessing keep you, uh that, Deacon, God bless 256 00:14:35,200 --> 00:14:36,840 Speaker 10: and keep you because I tell you I'm going through 257 00:14:36,920 --> 00:14:39,360 Speaker 10: something here. Me and my wife, we've been talking about it, 258 00:14:39,440 --> 00:14:41,720 Speaker 10: and we've been praying on it, and it sure is 259 00:14:41,760 --> 00:14:44,000 Speaker 10: a wonderful thing to know that your church is with 260 00:14:44,160 --> 00:14:47,200 Speaker 10: you and and y'all thinking about me in prayer. I've 261 00:14:47,240 --> 00:14:49,680 Speaker 10: really had to take this, this to the Lord. This 262 00:14:49,840 --> 00:14:52,080 Speaker 10: is a serious thing with me and I ain't never 263 00:14:52,160 --> 00:14:54,840 Speaker 10: had an operation before in my life, and I know 264 00:14:55,000 --> 00:14:57,200 Speaker 10: I needed my wife have made it clear, the doctor 265 00:14:57,240 --> 00:14:59,000 Speaker 10: that made it clear, and I believe I'm ready to 266 00:14:59,080 --> 00:15:01,280 Speaker 10: go forward with Deacon. It was that Deacon Patterson. 267 00:15:01,440 --> 00:15:04,440 Speaker 7: Yes, yes, that's right, Dick, I haven't I haven't been. 268 00:15:04,520 --> 00:15:06,800 Speaker 7: I've been to church probably about about uh, probably about 269 00:15:06,840 --> 00:15:08,720 Speaker 7: eight months now. You've pretty much been out most of 270 00:15:08,800 --> 00:15:09,120 Speaker 7: the time. 271 00:15:09,240 --> 00:15:10,600 Speaker 10: Yes, I have been out of here. 272 00:15:10,840 --> 00:15:14,080 Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, So I've seen you a couple of times, 273 00:15:14,120 --> 00:15:16,640 Speaker 7: but I wanted to call and and and and put 274 00:15:16,680 --> 00:15:18,280 Speaker 7: a word in for you and let him you know, 275 00:15:18,400 --> 00:15:20,000 Speaker 7: let you know that we're all praying for you at 276 00:15:20,000 --> 00:15:22,480 Speaker 7: the church. He's the Lord can't get back, and we 277 00:15:22,640 --> 00:15:25,320 Speaker 7: know how for Friday is gonna definitely be a great success. 278 00:15:25,600 --> 00:15:29,520 Speaker 10: Yes, and we're gonna give the victory to who the victory, Yes, sir, 279 00:15:30,280 --> 00:15:31,000 Speaker 10: he's the victory. 280 00:15:31,280 --> 00:15:33,160 Speaker 7: He let me let me let me have a word 281 00:15:33,200 --> 00:15:35,560 Speaker 7: of proud with your brother con if you don't mind, uh, 282 00:15:35,720 --> 00:15:37,560 Speaker 7: just by your head from me, Father God, we ask 283 00:15:37,680 --> 00:15:40,720 Speaker 7: right now, we ask right now that you touch brother 284 00:15:40,840 --> 00:15:43,680 Speaker 7: Conley as he goes in on Friday. Please put your 285 00:15:43,760 --> 00:15:46,400 Speaker 7: hands on him. We asked, Father, that you hold on 286 00:15:47,080 --> 00:15:49,120 Speaker 7: to the doctor that's getting ready to go and late 287 00:15:49,200 --> 00:15:52,480 Speaker 7: to put surgery on. Yes. We asked that you make 288 00:15:52,560 --> 00:15:56,240 Speaker 7: sure that the doctor he's got a strong eye on 289 00:15:56,440 --> 00:15:59,000 Speaker 7: that moment with him. We asked that that that he 290 00:15:59,080 --> 00:16:01,800 Speaker 7: got a steady hand when he got the scoppel in 291 00:16:01,920 --> 00:16:04,440 Speaker 7: his hand. We asked that you hold on to it 292 00:16:04,720 --> 00:16:07,240 Speaker 7: lease as it goes in to a surgeon, because we 293 00:16:07,360 --> 00:16:08,720 Speaker 7: don't come side the morning. 294 00:16:09,040 --> 00:16:09,240 Speaker 11: Nah. 295 00:16:09,680 --> 00:16:13,120 Speaker 7: The victory going belong to brother Conley and the Lord. 296 00:16:12,960 --> 00:16:13,240 Speaker 10: Thank you. 297 00:16:13,320 --> 00:16:13,480 Speaker 1: Lord. 298 00:16:13,640 --> 00:16:15,920 Speaker 10: We know all of this, but we we we asked. 299 00:16:15,720 --> 00:16:18,680 Speaker 7: That you take that pancreas and you remove it out successfully, 300 00:16:19,120 --> 00:16:21,800 Speaker 7: close him back up like it will never been into 301 00:16:21,840 --> 00:16:24,240 Speaker 7: the end before walk with me, kid That's what we're asking. 302 00:16:24,360 --> 00:16:26,920 Speaker 7: We ask your Lord. At the same time that they're 303 00:16:26,960 --> 00:16:30,280 Speaker 7: removing this pancreas. Lord, we asked that you reach around 304 00:16:30,480 --> 00:16:34,720 Speaker 7: his backside, and we asked that you touch his kidney. Lord, 305 00:16:35,160 --> 00:16:37,000 Speaker 7: touch his kidney and make it whole, make it one 306 00:16:37,120 --> 00:16:38,240 Speaker 7: hundred and ten percent. 307 00:16:38,560 --> 00:16:40,920 Speaker 10: We want you to make that that kidney like it's 308 00:16:40,960 --> 00:16:44,600 Speaker 10: been the best kidney it was loc Deacon, that's deacon 309 00:16:44,960 --> 00:16:48,760 Speaker 10: Deacon whoop, pat decon, passon. Yes, you're saying the dun sir, 310 00:16:48,880 --> 00:16:51,560 Speaker 10: they're just nothing wrong with the kidney. Deacon, I'm doing. 311 00:16:51,720 --> 00:16:54,320 Speaker 10: I'm doing. Sign the Lordest Lord ist thenated, well, he's 312 00:16:54,320 --> 00:16:57,200 Speaker 10: gonna work on my pancreage. That's what the doctors operating though. 313 00:16:57,720 --> 00:16:59,400 Speaker 10: Then all pret me forward and that's what they plan 314 00:16:59,560 --> 00:17:02,360 Speaker 10: to remove. So my kidney is fine. They did what 315 00:17:02,440 --> 00:17:03,960 Speaker 10: they called it when they me in my eyes and 316 00:17:04,280 --> 00:17:06,280 Speaker 10: everything else is fine. He ain't working on nothing but 317 00:17:06,359 --> 00:17:07,240 Speaker 10: my pancreas, sir. 318 00:17:07,480 --> 00:17:10,160 Speaker 7: Right right, right, let me say, I'm glad you brought 319 00:17:10,200 --> 00:17:12,240 Speaker 7: it up for this, this this one't realon why I 320 00:17:12,320 --> 00:17:12,680 Speaker 7: call you? 321 00:17:13,240 --> 00:17:13,359 Speaker 3: Uh? 322 00:17:13,760 --> 00:17:15,240 Speaker 7: What I want to ask you? And I know we 323 00:17:15,440 --> 00:17:17,640 Speaker 7: we you know we've never met. What I was gonna 324 00:17:17,760 --> 00:17:20,760 Speaker 7: ask you was yeah, and I know this is. I 325 00:17:20,880 --> 00:17:22,600 Speaker 7: hate to come at you in the final hour and 326 00:17:22,640 --> 00:17:24,119 Speaker 7: you're getting ready to go have certain and all that, 327 00:17:24,440 --> 00:17:26,879 Speaker 7: But if you don't mind when they go in on 328 00:17:27,080 --> 00:17:31,280 Speaker 7: Friday morning and and remove that painker is out? Do 329 00:17:31,440 --> 00:17:34,720 Speaker 7: you think that that that that they could go in 330 00:17:35,680 --> 00:17:38,720 Speaker 7: and get one of your kidneys? Because I need one? 331 00:17:39,359 --> 00:17:42,040 Speaker 10: Hold hold on, just met digging up what you say? 332 00:17:43,280 --> 00:17:43,760 Speaker 10: What you say? 333 00:17:43,880 --> 00:17:46,600 Speaker 7: See, see see what else I've been going through myself 334 00:17:46,680 --> 00:17:50,000 Speaker 7: with a little helment. And and I'm wondering if if 335 00:17:50,280 --> 00:17:51,960 Speaker 7: I need a kitteney And I'm wondering if you can 336 00:17:52,040 --> 00:17:53,680 Speaker 7: give me one of yours when they go in and 337 00:17:53,720 --> 00:17:55,640 Speaker 7: get your paint, they go already have your open. 338 00:17:56,119 --> 00:17:58,359 Speaker 10: Did you say you wanted them to date one of 339 00:17:58,440 --> 00:17:59,080 Speaker 10: my kidneys? 340 00:17:59,200 --> 00:18:01,080 Speaker 7: Yeah, and give it to me because I need one. 341 00:18:01,600 --> 00:18:02,399 Speaker 10: You need a kidney? 342 00:18:02,680 --> 00:18:04,840 Speaker 7: Yeah, but what what I mean you already gonna be 343 00:18:04,960 --> 00:18:05,680 Speaker 7: laying there open. 344 00:18:05,920 --> 00:18:08,479 Speaker 10: Wait a minute, mister, you need a kidney? I need 345 00:18:08,560 --> 00:18:10,280 Speaker 10: help with my pastors. You gonna call me with some 346 00:18:10,440 --> 00:18:12,720 Speaker 10: flat that. Man, this ain't no work of the Lord. 347 00:18:13,080 --> 00:18:14,679 Speaker 10: Now you say you're a dickon. 348 00:18:16,000 --> 00:18:17,960 Speaker 7: Like I said, Dickon Patterson my name. But see what 349 00:18:18,000 --> 00:18:18,600 Speaker 7: I'm asking you? 350 00:18:19,200 --> 00:18:20,760 Speaker 5: What you can me? 351 00:18:21,160 --> 00:18:24,320 Speaker 7: Man, brother Connley, What harm is that? If you already 352 00:18:24,400 --> 00:18:25,480 Speaker 7: opened and laying on the table. 353 00:18:25,520 --> 00:18:27,359 Speaker 10: Oh you ain't heard the dang I say it? 354 00:18:27,440 --> 00:18:27,680 Speaker 5: Have you? 355 00:18:28,119 --> 00:18:31,359 Speaker 10: I said, I'll be man, you crazy as hell. Now 356 00:18:31,440 --> 00:18:33,119 Speaker 10: what I'm gonna have to do. I'm gonna need to 357 00:18:33,160 --> 00:18:36,480 Speaker 10: call the pastor because here's something going on here. You 358 00:18:36,600 --> 00:18:39,760 Speaker 10: say you knew you managed to mister. Matter of fact, 359 00:18:39,800 --> 00:18:41,480 Speaker 10: you took do to know who you're talking to? 360 00:18:41,680 --> 00:18:44,320 Speaker 7: What what? What I'm saying is you have two two 361 00:18:44,600 --> 00:18:46,080 Speaker 7: look like you said. You say they did the MRI. 362 00:18:46,160 --> 00:18:48,880 Speaker 10: I God, they don't give them what I said they did. Man, 363 00:18:49,200 --> 00:18:51,600 Speaker 10: I got two kidneys. You got to one of your advands. 364 00:18:51,600 --> 00:18:54,360 Speaker 10: That's your problem. Mister. Let me tell you something. I'm 365 00:18:54,400 --> 00:18:56,480 Speaker 10: trying to get well, and you call them with this. 366 00:18:57,119 --> 00:18:59,720 Speaker 10: You say you're a new dickon. You so his and 367 00:18:59,800 --> 00:19:01,920 Speaker 10: you be at that church loan. I tell you that 368 00:19:01,960 --> 00:19:04,240 Speaker 10: because if I ever get gold to your sister we 369 00:19:04,359 --> 00:19:05,520 Speaker 10: got some riskman, and do what. 370 00:19:05,680 --> 00:19:07,080 Speaker 7: Is it gonna hurt for you to give me one 371 00:19:07,080 --> 00:19:08,919 Speaker 7: of them kitteningers and both of them if both them 372 00:19:09,000 --> 00:19:09,720 Speaker 7: kittens is good? 373 00:19:09,960 --> 00:19:12,679 Speaker 10: Ain't Gonahai? Thank you? You ain't getting my kidney? Man, 374 00:19:13,040 --> 00:19:15,720 Speaker 10: can't go ahead? What's wrong with you? Say? 375 00:19:15,800 --> 00:19:17,440 Speaker 7: Man? All I'm saying is if you're gonna be opening 376 00:19:17,560 --> 00:19:19,920 Speaker 7: laying on the table, what is it gonna hurt you 377 00:19:20,200 --> 00:19:22,080 Speaker 7: got me mold? Now you're gonna tell him a moteen 378 00:19:22,160 --> 00:19:23,320 Speaker 7: laying on the table? 379 00:19:23,359 --> 00:19:25,920 Speaker 10: What kind of a play you in charge of? Mister? 380 00:19:26,400 --> 00:19:28,040 Speaker 10: Let me tell you something I was. I need to 381 00:19:28,119 --> 00:19:30,080 Speaker 10: meet you before I get to the hospital and nobody 382 00:19:30,080 --> 00:19:32,560 Speaker 10: can help. They got nothing. Man getting in yours and 383 00:19:32,600 --> 00:19:35,160 Speaker 10: I can tell you that we own you won't feeling 384 00:19:35,160 --> 00:19:38,240 Speaker 10: the thing I got that it's too many games going 385 00:19:38,280 --> 00:19:40,760 Speaker 10: on in the church today. I'll be you gonna call 386 00:19:40,960 --> 00:19:43,080 Speaker 10: and talk me out of one of my kittenys. Man, 387 00:19:43,440 --> 00:19:45,800 Speaker 10: I'm trying to live just like you, trying to let 388 00:19:45,880 --> 00:19:47,400 Speaker 10: the KNOWD take care of me, because what you talking 389 00:19:47,400 --> 00:19:49,720 Speaker 10: about ain't got a thing to do with Jesus. You 390 00:19:49,760 --> 00:19:52,399 Speaker 10: can catch my and get off my phone. That's what 391 00:19:52,560 --> 00:19:52,879 Speaker 10: you can do. 392 00:19:53,400 --> 00:19:54,320 Speaker 7: Can I say one more? 393 00:19:54,440 --> 00:19:54,840 Speaker 10: Thing to you? 394 00:19:55,200 --> 00:19:56,639 Speaker 3: What is you listen to me? 395 00:19:57,240 --> 00:19:57,440 Speaker 4: Man? 396 00:19:57,840 --> 00:19:59,920 Speaker 10: How to listen to you? And you ain't talking about 397 00:19:59,920 --> 00:20:02,240 Speaker 10: it nothing that's got nothing to do with what's going 398 00:20:02,280 --> 00:20:04,560 Speaker 10: on with me. Mister. You're running the game. If I 399 00:20:04,560 --> 00:20:05,520 Speaker 10: could get to y'all. 400 00:20:07,080 --> 00:20:08,719 Speaker 7: But you're not. Just say one more thing and then 401 00:20:08,720 --> 00:20:10,760 Speaker 7: I'm gonna let you go. If you're listening for what, 402 00:20:11,640 --> 00:20:14,280 Speaker 7: let's just left you time me from the Steve Hobby 403 00:20:14,440 --> 00:20:20,240 Speaker 7: Morning Show. You just got pranked by your daughter. Oh Lord, 404 00:20:20,520 --> 00:20:25,359 Speaker 7: have that girl, Lord have mercy, Lord have much Jess 405 00:20:26,400 --> 00:20:30,359 Speaker 7: you all right? Please forgive me God he much? Brother Coly, 406 00:20:30,400 --> 00:20:32,920 Speaker 7: I gotta ask you one more thing, man, what is 407 00:20:33,080 --> 00:20:36,720 Speaker 7: the baddest I'm talking about the baddest radio show in 408 00:20:36,840 --> 00:20:39,240 Speaker 7: the land to Steve Hobby Morning Shower. 409 00:20:39,760 --> 00:20:47,560 Speaker 1: All right, Nev, thank you. Coming up. You're listening Harvey 410 00:20:47,640 --> 00:20:50,600 Speaker 1: Morning Show coming up at the top of the hour. 411 00:20:50,760 --> 00:20:55,440 Speaker 1: In entertainment news, Michael Jackson's blanket is suing his grandmother 412 00:20:55,600 --> 00:21:00,359 Speaker 1: Katherine Jackson. Giselle Bunchen is saying I didn't sheet on 413 00:21:00,440 --> 00:21:04,080 Speaker 1: Tom Brady. And some good news, Migo's co founder Quavo 414 00:21:04,520 --> 00:21:07,200 Speaker 1: is fighting Atlanta gun violence. We'll talk about all of 415 00:21:07,280 --> 00:21:10,000 Speaker 1: these stories at the top of the hour, But right 416 00:21:10,080 --> 00:21:11,120 Speaker 1: now it is time. 417 00:21:12,800 --> 00:21:14,600 Speaker 2: Blanket need to go sit down. 418 00:21:23,280 --> 00:21:25,080 Speaker 1: We'll talk about it at the top of the hour. 419 00:21:25,200 --> 00:21:28,400 Speaker 1: Right now it's time to ask the CLO Chief Love 420 00:21:28,560 --> 00:21:32,440 Speaker 1: Officer Steve Harvey standing by. All right, this is from 421 00:21:32,480 --> 00:21:36,399 Speaker 1: Elaine and Cincinnati. Elaine says, I baby said kids in 422 00:21:36,520 --> 00:21:40,280 Speaker 1: my home, and one child has been bringing roaches to 423 00:21:40,400 --> 00:21:44,040 Speaker 1: my house. I started sitting his bag in my garage 424 00:21:44,119 --> 00:21:46,000 Speaker 1: and his mom saw it and went off on me. 425 00:21:46,359 --> 00:21:48,320 Speaker 1: I have the right to protect my house. Should I 426 00:21:48,359 --> 00:21:49,960 Speaker 1: stop keeping her son over this? 427 00:21:50,800 --> 00:21:51,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's pretty much. 428 00:21:52,000 --> 00:21:52,119 Speaker 7: Ye. 429 00:21:53,680 --> 00:21:56,720 Speaker 2: Take you them baby and that bag of roaches. Tear 430 00:21:56,800 --> 00:22:00,639 Speaker 2: it down to some boy up at least hear what 431 00:22:00,800 --> 00:22:01,000 Speaker 2: you know. 432 00:22:01,119 --> 00:22:03,960 Speaker 5: I like your baby and everything, but your baby don't 433 00:22:04,000 --> 00:22:06,560 Speaker 5: know all in the cuff of the past. 434 00:22:07,600 --> 00:22:10,280 Speaker 2: It's in the baby bag. We're not finna do this 435 00:22:10,440 --> 00:22:12,040 Speaker 2: here now. 436 00:22:12,080 --> 00:22:14,960 Speaker 5: I understand what you're saying, but we have we have 437 00:22:15,119 --> 00:22:17,080 Speaker 5: a little infestation problem. 438 00:22:18,160 --> 00:22:20,040 Speaker 1: That's why the mom went off on her, cause. 439 00:22:19,880 --> 00:22:23,840 Speaker 5: She take your baby, take your bag of roaches. And 440 00:22:24,000 --> 00:22:27,080 Speaker 5: you gotta still go somewhere else. Oh, go down at 441 00:22:27,080 --> 00:22:29,080 Speaker 5: the krim Della cream and see if they'll let. 442 00:22:29,040 --> 00:22:36,040 Speaker 1: You waiting mine, all right, yeah, cut that off. 443 00:22:37,920 --> 00:22:38,280 Speaker 2: All right. 444 00:22:38,359 --> 00:22:38,919 Speaker 4: Moving on to. 445 00:22:39,080 --> 00:22:42,240 Speaker 1: Cherry in Brooklyn. Cherry says, I'm fifty eight and single. 446 00:22:42,400 --> 00:22:45,000 Speaker 1: I'm rinning my condo next door to a twenty nine 447 00:22:45,080 --> 00:22:47,879 Speaker 1: year old man and his girlfriend. I told him that 448 00:22:47,960 --> 00:22:50,720 Speaker 1: I hear them having sex a lot. He said, I 449 00:22:50,760 --> 00:22:54,560 Speaker 1: should experience it for myself. Should I try this younger 450 00:22:54,920 --> 00:22:57,679 Speaker 1: this youngster out, or keep it professional with her? 451 00:22:59,040 --> 00:22:59,479 Speaker 3: Try it out? 452 00:22:59,520 --> 00:23:04,520 Speaker 5: You're gonna see with all that hollering about it, run 453 00:23:04,600 --> 00:23:07,520 Speaker 5: down there if you want to you don't want to 454 00:23:07,560 --> 00:23:15,040 Speaker 5: do Yeah, yeah, now. 455 00:23:18,440 --> 00:23:20,639 Speaker 1: She should experience it for herself. 456 00:23:21,840 --> 00:23:22,080 Speaker 3: Wow. 457 00:23:24,640 --> 00:23:26,880 Speaker 2: But see it's the way she took it to him too. 458 00:23:27,560 --> 00:23:30,000 Speaker 1: How does she get in your. 459 00:23:29,960 --> 00:23:30,880 Speaker 2: Business or nothing? 460 00:23:30,960 --> 00:23:34,480 Speaker 5: But you know you and your h I can hear 461 00:23:34,600 --> 00:23:38,280 Speaker 5: y'all in there when you're getting in your private time, 462 00:23:38,359 --> 00:23:41,320 Speaker 5: and it's it's like really loud, and it's just. 463 00:23:42,920 --> 00:23:43,639 Speaker 2: I can hear it. 464 00:23:44,040 --> 00:23:44,240 Speaker 7: You know. 465 00:23:44,840 --> 00:23:47,920 Speaker 1: That's how she said, to come on and experience. 466 00:23:47,520 --> 00:23:48,440 Speaker 2: It for yourself. 467 00:23:48,520 --> 00:23:53,240 Speaker 5: Then what he's doing in there, and then she put 468 00:23:53,280 --> 00:23:58,200 Speaker 5: her hand on, right, experience for yourself. 469 00:23:58,320 --> 00:24:01,440 Speaker 2: Now she can rode in. You got thinking about it? 470 00:24:01,920 --> 00:24:06,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, shene wrote us dear clo thinking about it. 471 00:24:07,720 --> 00:24:09,560 Speaker 2: But she sprayed her fingers crossed, her chips. 472 00:24:10,480 --> 00:24:10,840 Speaker 3: Do it all? 473 00:24:11,560 --> 00:24:11,720 Speaker 5: Do it? 474 00:24:14,320 --> 00:24:14,439 Speaker 12: Oh? 475 00:24:14,920 --> 00:24:16,080 Speaker 2: Like she's put back. 476 00:24:22,000 --> 00:24:22,359 Speaker 3: All right? 477 00:24:22,520 --> 00:24:26,000 Speaker 1: Moving on to Henry, it's been a long time since 478 00:24:26,040 --> 00:24:30,600 Speaker 1: we've had a henyank Henry and Tacoma says, I'm tired 479 00:24:30,640 --> 00:24:35,080 Speaker 1: of my wife ordering cheap clothes on websites for younger women. 480 00:24:36,160 --> 00:24:40,639 Speaker 1: She is forever sixty one, not forever twenty one. I 481 00:24:40,760 --> 00:24:43,640 Speaker 1: want her clothes to be jazzy and classy, not trashy. 482 00:24:43,840 --> 00:24:46,440 Speaker 1: She prefers to wear trendy clothes. How do I tell 483 00:24:46,520 --> 00:24:48,480 Speaker 1: her I don't like her new style? 484 00:24:49,320 --> 00:24:51,000 Speaker 2: Well, how'd you just type it? 485 00:24:52,680 --> 00:24:53,840 Speaker 1: She wanted to say, what. 486 00:24:56,160 --> 00:24:58,280 Speaker 2: Hey, baby, listen to me. I hear. I see what 487 00:24:58,400 --> 00:24:58,840 Speaker 2: you're doing. 488 00:24:59,200 --> 00:25:02,560 Speaker 5: But it's not coming. It don't look real flattering on you, 489 00:25:03,359 --> 00:25:05,639 Speaker 5: and I'm just gonna keep it real. You need to 490 00:25:05,760 --> 00:25:08,720 Speaker 5: start You need to start watching what you order on 491 00:25:08,840 --> 00:25:15,040 Speaker 5: this stuff because it ain't befitting and befitting if befitting 492 00:25:15,320 --> 00:25:20,119 Speaker 5: is cold word for ben fitting like it been fitting 493 00:25:20,200 --> 00:25:22,960 Speaker 5: different when you was twenty one, but you sixty one now. 494 00:25:23,320 --> 00:25:28,320 Speaker 5: You can't show everything you got at sixty one more. 495 00:25:28,400 --> 00:25:30,840 Speaker 1: That Yeah, I look good. I can wear what I 496 00:25:30,960 --> 00:25:31,440 Speaker 1: want to wear. 497 00:25:32,000 --> 00:25:36,240 Speaker 2: I know that's what you think, baby, But I'm just 498 00:25:36,359 --> 00:25:38,399 Speaker 2: telling you you look a little. You look a little. 499 00:25:38,480 --> 00:25:41,840 Speaker 5: It cheapens you. And you know you're such a classy lady. 500 00:25:41,920 --> 00:25:45,000 Speaker 5: You know, I just like classy looking stuff like that. 501 00:25:45,200 --> 00:25:48,080 Speaker 2: But well I will. 502 00:25:48,280 --> 00:25:51,080 Speaker 5: But you got to quit on them off of you 503 00:25:51,160 --> 00:25:53,840 Speaker 5: know you can't. You got quit bang all your clothes 504 00:25:53,880 --> 00:25:55,040 Speaker 5: off Amazon. 505 00:25:56,920 --> 00:25:59,400 Speaker 6: All of them fashion down. 506 00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:01,840 Speaker 2: You've ordered any fishy shirts at You. 507 00:26:01,920 --> 00:26:04,800 Speaker 1: Got shirt on yesterday from Hell. 508 00:26:05,080 --> 00:26:08,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, but. 509 00:26:09,760 --> 00:26:11,840 Speaker 5: No, that's how you rock it though, That's why. See 510 00:26:11,920 --> 00:26:13,960 Speaker 5: that was in there and I didn't even see that shirt, 511 00:26:14,040 --> 00:26:15,719 Speaker 5: but then it came up in there. 512 00:26:15,760 --> 00:26:20,720 Speaker 2: You might also like sex, and I said, well, i'd 513 00:26:20,760 --> 00:26:23,280 Speaker 2: be down. How could you know. 514 00:26:24,960 --> 00:26:25,760 Speaker 5: I do like it? 515 00:26:26,040 --> 00:26:30,320 Speaker 1: Also? Yeah, and you know you ordered like ten at 516 00:26:30,359 --> 00:26:30,720 Speaker 1: a time. 517 00:26:31,560 --> 00:26:32,800 Speaker 3: Somebody order one. 518 00:26:34,200 --> 00:26:36,119 Speaker 2: Have to order no fishing clothes this year? 519 00:26:36,520 --> 00:26:37,320 Speaker 1: Why you have why? 520 00:26:38,240 --> 00:26:38,480 Speaker 7: Yeah? 521 00:26:38,800 --> 00:26:41,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, I seen your picture what I had on yesterday? 522 00:26:42,960 --> 00:26:47,080 Speaker 1: All right, last one, Steve, last one. This one is 523 00:26:47,119 --> 00:26:50,720 Speaker 1: from Ronda and Honolulu. Okay, wow, Ronda says. 524 00:26:50,880 --> 00:26:51,080 Speaker 3: Yeah. 525 00:26:51,280 --> 00:26:54,800 Speaker 1: Ronda says, I'm thirty seven and lonely. Lonely. I work 526 00:26:54,920 --> 00:26:56,760 Speaker 1: and I go home, so I tend to go on 527 00:26:56,920 --> 00:26:59,520 Speaker 1: dates with people I meet at the grocery store. Or 528 00:26:59,600 --> 00:27:02,280 Speaker 1: coffee shop. I have a high paying job, but the 529 00:27:02,400 --> 00:27:04,920 Speaker 1: men I meet do not. Is it cool to lower 530 00:27:05,040 --> 00:27:08,080 Speaker 1: my standards? Or should I wait for the right man? 531 00:27:09,080 --> 00:27:09,240 Speaker 2: Yeah? 532 00:27:09,320 --> 00:27:11,600 Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. Go there's a grocery store. 533 00:27:11,680 --> 00:27:14,399 Speaker 5: Keep shopping. You're not buying a head of letters. Now 534 00:27:14,440 --> 00:27:16,200 Speaker 5: you coming out there with a man? Every time you 535 00:27:16,320 --> 00:27:19,160 Speaker 5: go down there, that's where she meets. 536 00:27:19,320 --> 00:27:24,320 Speaker 2: Have you lowered your status? Do you have any Well? 537 00:27:24,440 --> 00:27:27,560 Speaker 2: If he down here trying to eat, I guess he cool. 538 00:27:29,480 --> 00:27:31,719 Speaker 2: Most people go to the grocery store. You ain't met 539 00:27:31,800 --> 00:27:33,000 Speaker 2: nothing down that lady. 540 00:27:34,240 --> 00:27:35,600 Speaker 1: She's thirty seven and lonely. 541 00:27:35,760 --> 00:27:39,000 Speaker 5: She says, Okay, well you ain't gonna stay down there 542 00:27:39,040 --> 00:27:42,080 Speaker 5: at the grocery store meeting men. Hey, if that doesn't 543 00:27:42,080 --> 00:27:43,760 Speaker 5: work out for you, I got an idea, why don't 544 00:27:43,760 --> 00:27:44,640 Speaker 5: you go over the quick Tree. 545 00:27:46,800 --> 00:27:47,840 Speaker 6: It's across the street. 546 00:27:48,720 --> 00:27:52,080 Speaker 2: Go to quick Oh, I have an idea, why don't 547 00:27:52,080 --> 00:27:53,280 Speaker 2: you go to a truck stop? 548 00:27:53,640 --> 00:27:53,800 Speaker 13: Hey? 549 00:27:54,080 --> 00:27:55,320 Speaker 2: What are you saying to her? 550 00:27:55,480 --> 00:27:55,800 Speaker 1: Really? 551 00:27:56,200 --> 00:27:56,800 Speaker 2: All the minute? 552 00:27:56,880 --> 00:27:57,040 Speaker 3: Work? 553 00:27:57,359 --> 00:28:02,359 Speaker 5: Stop hunting for men, because it's not what you all do. 554 00:28:03,920 --> 00:28:05,280 Speaker 5: You are not hunters. 555 00:28:05,840 --> 00:28:08,560 Speaker 1: So should she go online? What should she wants to 556 00:28:08,600 --> 00:28:09,080 Speaker 1: meet people? 557 00:28:09,160 --> 00:28:12,119 Speaker 5: Online? Dating works? You know they got dating sites that 558 00:28:12,160 --> 00:28:14,040 Speaker 5: will match you up. I had a couple on their 559 00:28:14,359 --> 00:28:17,560 Speaker 5: family feud last week who met online. Let me tell 560 00:28:17,560 --> 00:28:21,560 Speaker 5: you what this dude did. Black couple. He's an anesthesiologist, 561 00:28:21,640 --> 00:28:25,720 Speaker 5: his nurse. His wife is a nurse practitioner. They met 562 00:28:25,880 --> 00:28:29,600 Speaker 5: at work. He liked her at work, but he decided 563 00:28:29,720 --> 00:28:32,200 Speaker 5: not to date her at work or say nothing to 564 00:28:32,320 --> 00:28:35,600 Speaker 5: her because they worked together and he thought it wasn't professional. 565 00:28:37,280 --> 00:28:41,720 Speaker 5: They both on the same Dayton site. The Dayton site 566 00:28:42,000 --> 00:28:46,600 Speaker 5: recommended them to each other. Oh wow, So they re 567 00:28:46,880 --> 00:28:49,320 Speaker 5: met on the Dayton site. They married today. 568 00:28:50,320 --> 00:28:51,960 Speaker 2: Wow, that's crazy. 569 00:28:52,960 --> 00:28:55,280 Speaker 1: A coming up at the top of the hour, We'll 570 00:28:55,360 --> 00:28:58,640 Speaker 1: have some entertainment news for you right after this. You're 571 00:28:58,720 --> 00:29:06,200 Speaker 1: listening morning show. Amigo's co founder, Quavo, will level up 572 00:29:06,240 --> 00:29:09,680 Speaker 1: his anti gun violence efforts in the coming weeks by 573 00:29:09,880 --> 00:29:14,640 Speaker 1: creating Spark grants to benefit groups dedicated to that cause. 574 00:29:14,840 --> 00:29:18,760 Speaker 1: In Atlanta. The Rappers Rocket Foundation will divide one hundred 575 00:29:18,800 --> 00:29:22,080 Speaker 1: thousand dollars among ten local groups that he chose after 576 00:29:22,160 --> 00:29:25,480 Speaker 1: a meeting with Vice president Kamala Harris. Quevo started the 577 00:29:25,520 --> 00:29:30,120 Speaker 1: foundation a few months after to honor his bandmate and nephew, Takeoff, 578 00:29:30,120 --> 00:29:32,320 Speaker 1: who was shot and killed Back in twenty twenty two, 579 00:29:32,800 --> 00:29:35,680 Speaker 1: during a dispute that arose during a dice game in Houston, 580 00:29:36,160 --> 00:29:39,080 Speaker 1: Quevo said, in part quote, I am honored to launch 581 00:29:39,160 --> 00:29:43,440 Speaker 1: this grant program to honor take and the countless families 582 00:29:43,560 --> 00:29:47,040 Speaker 1: that have been affected by gun violence. Grant recipients will 583 00:29:47,080 --> 00:29:49,920 Speaker 1: be announced on June eighteenth, which would have been Takeoff's 584 00:29:49,960 --> 00:29:52,920 Speaker 1: thirtieth birthday. So it's a good thanks for doing. 585 00:29:54,480 --> 00:29:54,760 Speaker 2: News. 586 00:29:55,320 --> 00:30:01,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yep, anything that's violent all. 587 00:30:01,520 --> 00:30:06,440 Speaker 5: The government isn't going to do a damn thing because 588 00:30:06,480 --> 00:30:11,000 Speaker 5: the Republican Party will not allow gun control in this country. 589 00:30:12,080 --> 00:30:18,920 Speaker 5: The Republican Party will not allow gun control in this country. 590 00:30:20,960 --> 00:30:23,800 Speaker 2: We see. That's over and over and over. We see. 591 00:30:23,920 --> 00:30:27,680 Speaker 5: That's who it is that is stuck on this Second Amendment. 592 00:30:28,120 --> 00:30:31,080 Speaker 5: It is the Republicans, and they are stuck on it 593 00:30:31,360 --> 00:30:34,640 Speaker 5: because the n r A is the largest contributor to 594 00:30:34,760 --> 00:30:35,880 Speaker 5: the Republican Party. 595 00:30:36,680 --> 00:30:37,360 Speaker 1: Simple math. 596 00:30:37,640 --> 00:30:39,160 Speaker 2: That's all. It's nothing else. 597 00:30:39,760 --> 00:30:41,560 Speaker 13: I just I just don't like the fact that they 598 00:30:41,640 --> 00:30:45,440 Speaker 13: can't be brought down. I just don't like that they bigger, bigger, 599 00:30:45,640 --> 00:30:48,040 Speaker 13: so big. Nobody can bring them down and break that up. 600 00:30:48,720 --> 00:30:55,160 Speaker 13: Who who Thomas, Yeah, yeah, the n r A, that 601 00:30:55,240 --> 00:30:58,800 Speaker 13: they so big that they that powerful. Nobody can bring 602 00:30:58,880 --> 00:30:59,240 Speaker 13: them down. 603 00:30:59,720 --> 00:31:00,600 Speaker 2: No, they're not. 604 00:31:01,560 --> 00:31:06,160 Speaker 5: But see what they've done is they make so many 605 00:31:06,320 --> 00:31:13,000 Speaker 5: contributions to individual candidates and they threaten them with if 606 00:31:13,120 --> 00:31:16,880 Speaker 5: you do not keep the Second Amendment live, or if 607 00:31:16,920 --> 00:31:19,760 Speaker 5: we hear you talking about girl laws, we're gonna pull 608 00:31:19,920 --> 00:31:24,080 Speaker 5: back our financial support and dump it on your opponent. 609 00:31:24,240 --> 00:31:28,640 Speaker 5: Now the opponent will be another Republican who will stand 610 00:31:28,760 --> 00:31:31,160 Speaker 5: for the Second Amendment. They're not gonna go into the 611 00:31:31,240 --> 00:31:35,040 Speaker 5: Democratic Party. They're gonna dump it on another candidate. So 612 00:31:35,200 --> 00:31:38,960 Speaker 5: there's always one of them boys standing in line talking 613 00:31:38,960 --> 00:31:40,360 Speaker 5: about I'll take the money. 614 00:31:40,200 --> 00:31:41,040 Speaker 2: I want the power. 615 00:31:42,840 --> 00:31:43,840 Speaker 1: Everybody got a price. 616 00:31:43,920 --> 00:31:46,880 Speaker 2: So it's not that they're so powerful. 617 00:31:47,480 --> 00:31:52,040 Speaker 5: Is that the Republican parties need for power, control and money. 618 00:31:52,520 --> 00:31:56,120 Speaker 5: There are so many weak men and women that they 619 00:31:56,160 --> 00:32:00,320 Speaker 5: will do anything and sacrifice any number of lives for 620 00:32:00,480 --> 00:32:03,040 Speaker 5: their own personal game because this helps. 621 00:32:03,160 --> 00:32:06,200 Speaker 2: This has not helped the country, it helps the Republican Party. 622 00:32:06,720 --> 00:32:07,040 Speaker 1: Hmm. 623 00:32:08,680 --> 00:32:10,680 Speaker 5: What's gonna happen is you go run up in one 624 00:32:10,760 --> 00:32:12,880 Speaker 5: of these schools and a bunch of Republicity. 625 00:32:13,000 --> 00:32:14,920 Speaker 2: Now, when all when they were doing, when they went up. 626 00:32:14,880 --> 00:32:16,760 Speaker 5: There and they shot all the people at that softball 627 00:32:16,880 --> 00:32:18,960 Speaker 5: game when all the congressman was. 628 00:32:19,000 --> 00:32:20,400 Speaker 2: Up there, they got shot. 629 00:32:20,800 --> 00:32:23,920 Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah. See 630 00:32:23,960 --> 00:32:26,360 Speaker 5: then they started talking about some gun control. Then then 631 00:32:26,480 --> 00:32:29,960 Speaker 5: I came in and said, what y'all talking about? When 632 00:32:30,280 --> 00:32:32,720 Speaker 5: we was only talking for a minute, that's what we thought. 633 00:32:33,120 --> 00:32:36,760 Speaker 5: And then that went away. Everybody, it's so sad. 634 00:32:37,080 --> 00:32:37,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, it is. 635 00:32:38,400 --> 00:32:41,800 Speaker 1: Moving on to other entertainment news. J Zelle Bunchen is 636 00:32:41,960 --> 00:32:44,560 Speaker 1: in a relationship with her new trainer boyfriend, but she 637 00:32:44,680 --> 00:32:48,040 Speaker 1: insisted it was all platonic before her divorce from Tom Brady. 638 00:32:48,520 --> 00:32:51,200 Speaker 1: She tells The New York Times quote, this is something 639 00:32:51,280 --> 00:32:53,360 Speaker 1: that happens to a lot of women who get blamed 640 00:32:53,720 --> 00:32:56,760 Speaker 1: when they have the courage to leave an unhealthy relationship 641 00:32:56,880 --> 00:33:00,560 Speaker 1: and are labeled as being unfaithful. Official story is that 642 00:33:00,720 --> 00:33:03,080 Speaker 1: she and her man started dating back in June of 643 00:33:03,160 --> 00:33:07,000 Speaker 1: twenty twenty three. However, they were seen vacationing together in 644 00:33:07,080 --> 00:33:10,760 Speaker 1: Costa Rica in November of twenty twenty two, just weeks 645 00:33:10,880 --> 00:33:14,400 Speaker 1: after Giselle and Tom's divorce. So, Steve, here's a question 646 00:33:14,520 --> 00:33:17,040 Speaker 1: for you. So many people struggle with the decision to 647 00:33:17,240 --> 00:33:21,400 Speaker 1: leave or stay in a marriage relationship. Experts say here 648 00:33:21,480 --> 00:33:23,880 Speaker 1: are a few signs that you should know when your 649 00:33:23,960 --> 00:33:26,520 Speaker 1: marriage is over. Here are a few signs. There are 650 00:33:26,600 --> 00:33:30,480 Speaker 1: signs of isolation. The relationship is full of conflict, you 651 00:33:30,600 --> 00:33:33,840 Speaker 1: start to see the relationship in a different way, lack 652 00:33:33,920 --> 00:33:36,800 Speaker 1: of desire. Anything you want to add to that? 653 00:33:37,320 --> 00:33:38,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, what is the talk? 654 00:33:40,120 --> 00:33:40,720 Speaker 3: What is all that? 655 00:33:41,400 --> 00:33:42,360 Speaker 1: No, that's kind of out. 656 00:33:42,360 --> 00:33:44,360 Speaker 5: You can throw all out the window when y'all don't 657 00:33:44,360 --> 00:33:46,680 Speaker 5: stop liking each other no more. This is finna be 658 00:33:46,760 --> 00:33:51,200 Speaker 5: a rap, that simple, huh. That's you know, when you 659 00:33:51,320 --> 00:33:53,080 Speaker 5: walk in the room and you when he walk in 660 00:33:53,080 --> 00:33:54,320 Speaker 5: the room, you walk out the room. 661 00:33:55,800 --> 00:33:58,720 Speaker 6: Isolation if you stick your. 662 00:33:58,640 --> 00:34:00,120 Speaker 2: Head around the corner, seat them in. 663 00:34:00,120 --> 00:34:01,480 Speaker 1: The room and you don't go in the room. 664 00:34:04,240 --> 00:34:08,640 Speaker 5: If if one of them walking you do this here, 665 00:34:11,600 --> 00:34:12,279 Speaker 5: that's all to it. 666 00:34:12,360 --> 00:34:14,920 Speaker 2: And let me tell y'all something else to get this 667 00:34:15,160 --> 00:34:15,959 Speaker 2: through your head. 668 00:34:16,360 --> 00:34:20,480 Speaker 5: Stop getting mad at Jasell because a month after divorce 669 00:34:20,560 --> 00:34:24,360 Speaker 5: you saw her in Costa Rica. The divorce is simply 670 00:34:24,560 --> 00:34:29,799 Speaker 5: the date that the court system says it's officially over. 671 00:34:30,440 --> 00:34:34,920 Speaker 5: Marriages are usually over years before you get to the 672 00:34:35,080 --> 00:34:37,319 Speaker 5: park where the court gave you a date. 673 00:34:38,080 --> 00:34:40,359 Speaker 2: First of all, you got the file. Then you got 674 00:34:40,440 --> 00:34:41,759 Speaker 2: to go through a little separation. 675 00:34:42,680 --> 00:34:44,880 Speaker 5: Then you got to go through court date, waiting at 676 00:34:44,920 --> 00:34:48,279 Speaker 5: amendmenttioning and filers. Man, it takes a year and a half, 677 00:34:48,360 --> 00:34:51,680 Speaker 5: two years. You can't sit around without no life, wait 678 00:34:51,840 --> 00:34:53,560 Speaker 5: on that. So you saw what you say? 679 00:34:54,600 --> 00:34:55,320 Speaker 2: Tell you what I know? 680 00:34:58,080 --> 00:34:59,960 Speaker 5: You surf in there talking about me each center bre 681 00:35:00,000 --> 00:35:01,959 Speaker 5: talking about No Dad was quick. That wasn't quick. 682 00:35:02,719 --> 00:35:03,480 Speaker 3: It was time. 683 00:35:04,680 --> 00:35:06,440 Speaker 13: Well, I can tell you is they wouldn't. They wouldn't 684 00:35:06,480 --> 00:35:08,560 Speaker 13: train it in Costa Rica. I can tell it they wouldn't. 685 00:35:08,560 --> 00:35:09,000 Speaker 13: They wouldn't. 686 00:35:09,440 --> 00:35:10,080 Speaker 4: You don't know that. 687 00:35:12,040 --> 00:35:16,040 Speaker 2: In Costa Rica. No, they wouldn't. But who gives it? 688 00:35:16,239 --> 00:35:17,520 Speaker 2: Dal would Giselle do? 689 00:35:18,320 --> 00:35:18,480 Speaker 14: Right? 690 00:35:19,239 --> 00:35:19,680 Speaker 2: I don't. 691 00:35:21,320 --> 00:35:23,480 Speaker 1: She was in that relationship for a long time and 692 00:35:23,560 --> 00:35:25,800 Speaker 1: now she's out. You know, people have a lot to 693 00:35:25,880 --> 00:35:33,200 Speaker 1: say relationship. Yeah, coming up in twenty minutes after the hour, 694 00:35:33,440 --> 00:35:37,520 Speaker 1: Michael Jackson's youngest son, Blanket, is suing his grandmother Katherine. Jackson. 695 00:35:37,600 --> 00:35:44,120 Speaker 1: Will tell you why right after this your grandmama, dog, Granny, yo, granny. 696 00:35:45,200 --> 00:35:50,440 Speaker 1: You're listening hard morning show. All right, So Michael Jackson's 697 00:35:50,480 --> 00:35:55,600 Speaker 1: youngest son, Blanket, is suing his grandmother Katherine. Now this 698 00:35:55,760 --> 00:35:58,640 Speaker 1: is all according to tm Z. The family's allegedly been 699 00:35:58,719 --> 00:36:01,640 Speaker 1: locked in a battle with the executors of Michael's estate, 700 00:36:02,040 --> 00:36:05,239 Speaker 1: reportedly over removed to sell half of Michael's catalog for 701 00:36:05,440 --> 00:36:09,400 Speaker 1: six hundred million dollars, and now Mss Catherine wants to 702 00:36:09,520 --> 00:36:12,120 Speaker 1: use part of the estate's money to fight a court 703 00:36:12,239 --> 00:36:17,440 Speaker 1: decision on appeal, a move Blanket does not support. Blanket 704 00:36:17,560 --> 00:36:20,360 Speaker 1: believes the appeal isn't going to win in court, and 705 00:36:20,480 --> 00:36:24,680 Speaker 1: he wants his inheritance left alone and not drained by 706 00:36:24,760 --> 00:36:28,680 Speaker 1: these legal proceedings. That's why he's suing his grandmother because 707 00:36:28,719 --> 00:36:30,640 Speaker 1: he's like, she's using his inheritance. 708 00:36:31,480 --> 00:36:38,080 Speaker 2: Blanks down, down, I'm gonna take you. Listen to come on, Blanket, 709 00:36:42,840 --> 00:36:48,120 Speaker 2: listen to me. No, it's not no, it's not this 710 00:36:51,960 --> 00:36:54,040 Speaker 2: hey hey, hey, no, no, No. 711 00:36:55,760 --> 00:36:59,880 Speaker 5: Is the daughter saying anything. No, prayer is saying anything. 712 00:37:00,120 --> 00:37:06,480 Speaker 5: Pair is prince saying anything? Because they know, and they 713 00:37:06,640 --> 00:37:10,640 Speaker 5: the oldest ones they know. Listen to me, y'all. There 714 00:37:10,840 --> 00:37:15,319 Speaker 5: is a thing called an irrevocable trust. When your money 715 00:37:15,440 --> 00:37:18,560 Speaker 5: is in there, it ain't nothing they can do about it. Now, 716 00:37:18,760 --> 00:37:24,040 Speaker 5: Katherine Jackson got plenty money and they know it, and 717 00:37:24,440 --> 00:37:28,560 Speaker 5: they know it. She got to say, so you ain't 718 00:37:28,640 --> 00:37:36,960 Speaker 5: heard none of them. Jackson's complaining them one fights Amongster Jackson. 719 00:37:39,360 --> 00:37:41,360 Speaker 5: They love and honor. 720 00:37:41,600 --> 00:37:45,120 Speaker 2: Listen to me, they love and honor Miss Catherine Jackson. 721 00:37:46,239 --> 00:37:46,439 Speaker 3: Man. 722 00:37:46,600 --> 00:37:48,960 Speaker 5: Y'all people need to sit down and shut up talking 723 00:37:48,960 --> 00:37:52,360 Speaker 5: about people. If you don't know, stop talking about people. 724 00:37:52,719 --> 00:37:56,560 Speaker 5: Ain't nobody in the whole Jackson family said nothing now here, 725 00:37:56,640 --> 00:38:01,279 Speaker 5: come blinking. You cannot see a person who is the 726 00:38:01,520 --> 00:38:07,400 Speaker 5: recipient of an irrevocable trust. Listen to the word ire revocable. 727 00:38:08,360 --> 00:38:10,560 Speaker 5: Nobody can go against that. 728 00:38:11,480 --> 00:38:13,120 Speaker 1: But this is your mother though. 729 00:38:13,280 --> 00:38:18,640 Speaker 5: Come on right there, see blank that's the white side. 730 00:38:18,800 --> 00:38:24,319 Speaker 5: That's the white side there that's trying to let your 731 00:38:24,360 --> 00:38:25,439 Speaker 5: white side get talk. 732 00:38:26,440 --> 00:38:30,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, but I know you're twenty two years old, Blanket, to. 733 00:38:30,480 --> 00:38:33,160 Speaker 2: Get my allowance from you, I want all my money. 734 00:38:33,280 --> 00:38:36,440 Speaker 1: I'm tired of you would think to suit their grandmother. 735 00:38:36,640 --> 00:38:38,920 Speaker 6: Come on, yeah, Blanket sueing quilt. 736 00:38:39,120 --> 00:38:43,320 Speaker 5: Come on, black people, don't sue a grandmama. Y'all know 737 00:38:44,040 --> 00:38:45,400 Speaker 5: where you gonna go eat. 738 00:38:49,560 --> 00:38:51,719 Speaker 1: Coming up in thirty four minutes after the hour, We're 739 00:38:51,760 --> 00:38:54,839 Speaker 1: gonna check your voicemailed Steve at eight seven seven twenty nine. 740 00:38:54,920 --> 00:38:58,480 Speaker 1: Steve eight seven seven twenty nine, Steve right after this 741 00:38:59,360 --> 00:39:04,359 Speaker 1: you're listening morning show. It is time now to check 742 00:39:04,440 --> 00:39:07,480 Speaker 1: Steve's voicemail eight seven seven twenty nine. Steve, if you 743 00:39:07,520 --> 00:39:09,800 Speaker 1: would like to leave a message for Steve, please do. 744 00:39:10,040 --> 00:39:11,440 Speaker 1: We would love to hear from you, and you can 745 00:39:11,520 --> 00:39:15,279 Speaker 1: hear your call on the air. Maybe Steve, you ready, yes, Yes, 746 00:39:15,840 --> 00:39:19,280 Speaker 1: here we go. This is a question about a relationship breakup. 747 00:39:21,440 --> 00:39:25,040 Speaker 14: Hey, it's so Harfio is calling to see if you 748 00:39:25,120 --> 00:39:26,440 Speaker 14: break up with your fiance. 749 00:39:26,840 --> 00:39:28,359 Speaker 2: Is he got your furniture in the house. 750 00:39:28,360 --> 00:39:30,560 Speaker 11: Should you get your furniture back or should you. 751 00:39:30,640 --> 00:39:31,680 Speaker 3: Just leave it in there with her? 752 00:39:35,080 --> 00:39:39,280 Speaker 5: Well, let me say this to you, doog. It depends 753 00:39:39,320 --> 00:39:43,320 Speaker 5: on why y'all broke up. It has a lot to 754 00:39:43,440 --> 00:39:47,200 Speaker 5: do with calls and effect. Whose fault it was. So 755 00:39:47,520 --> 00:39:51,480 Speaker 5: if it was your fault, probably need to leave that 756 00:39:51,560 --> 00:39:57,520 Speaker 5: furniture in there. If it was her fault, how you 757 00:39:57,680 --> 00:40:03,400 Speaker 5: gonna get in there? See that the question of your furniture, 758 00:40:03,560 --> 00:40:08,160 Speaker 5: my furniture, her furniture, it's kind of a little shaky, 759 00:40:08,640 --> 00:40:11,640 Speaker 5: so to me, it depends on who calls the breakup. 760 00:40:12,040 --> 00:40:14,160 Speaker 2: It wasn't no mutual understanding. 761 00:40:14,400 --> 00:40:18,960 Speaker 5: Somebody did something and therefore it's off and just based 762 00:40:19,040 --> 00:40:21,520 Speaker 5: on the intensity and your voice and a phone call. 763 00:40:22,120 --> 00:40:28,480 Speaker 2: I think it was you. I did something, dog. Can 764 00:40:28,560 --> 00:40:30,280 Speaker 2: I get in there and get the furniture? 765 00:40:30,840 --> 00:40:31,000 Speaker 3: Now? 766 00:40:32,120 --> 00:40:34,600 Speaker 5: See first of all, in there, that ain't your house. 767 00:40:36,400 --> 00:40:39,719 Speaker 5: See that problem ain't your house. And it's been clear, 768 00:40:40,000 --> 00:40:41,879 Speaker 5: it's been clear that you got put out. 769 00:40:44,120 --> 00:40:45,880 Speaker 6: What kind of fund you trying to get back up? 770 00:40:46,520 --> 00:40:47,279 Speaker 6: Get out the house? 771 00:40:47,400 --> 00:40:49,960 Speaker 5: It's you know that that that flash green? You know 772 00:40:50,440 --> 00:40:54,320 Speaker 5: me and always want that flash green and in that 773 00:40:54,520 --> 00:40:59,120 Speaker 5: bedroom set them the two things we invest in. 774 00:41:00,680 --> 00:41:01,400 Speaker 2: And sleepy. 775 00:41:04,600 --> 00:41:09,040 Speaker 1: All right, help you out? Helped you out, all right, Steve. Next, 776 00:41:09,120 --> 00:41:12,680 Speaker 1: a young listener named Hannah who's from Indiana needs advice 777 00:41:12,880 --> 00:41:15,160 Speaker 1: on when everything seems like it's falling apart. 778 00:41:16,120 --> 00:41:16,239 Speaker 14: Hi. 779 00:41:16,440 --> 00:41:20,600 Speaker 12: See, my name is Hannah from forty, Indiana, and I 780 00:41:20,880 --> 00:41:24,800 Speaker 12: just one of your great advice is about when everything 781 00:41:24,880 --> 00:41:28,120 Speaker 12: seems like it's falling apart and it seems like the 782 00:41:28,239 --> 00:41:33,399 Speaker 12: lowest once again, I just want your advice on how 783 00:41:33,880 --> 00:41:39,440 Speaker 12: you keep a positive monkset and basically trust in the Lord. 784 00:41:39,520 --> 00:41:43,640 Speaker 12: Because we all know your story, so I would love 785 00:41:43,719 --> 00:41:45,600 Speaker 12: to hear what you have to say. 786 00:41:46,040 --> 00:41:49,719 Speaker 5: Thank you well, you sound young, So I'm going to 787 00:41:49,800 --> 00:41:52,759 Speaker 5: tell you what I wish I knew back then that 788 00:41:52,920 --> 00:41:56,640 Speaker 5: I know now and I got I heard Tom Hanks 789 00:41:56,719 --> 00:41:59,879 Speaker 5: say this in an interview and it was so impactful. 790 00:42:01,120 --> 00:42:06,200 Speaker 5: This too shall pass. See this little dark moment that 791 00:42:06,320 --> 00:42:10,080 Speaker 5: you're going through, this is temporary. All you got to 792 00:42:10,120 --> 00:42:12,960 Speaker 5: do is see, here's what people forget a lot, and 793 00:42:13,120 --> 00:42:16,759 Speaker 5: as I've often done it myself when we're going through 794 00:42:16,840 --> 00:42:21,400 Speaker 5: some stuff, we forget that of all the prior things 795 00:42:21,520 --> 00:42:26,359 Speaker 5: we've ever gone through prior to this period, our track 796 00:42:26,480 --> 00:42:30,920 Speaker 5: record for surviving those time periods has been one hundred percent. 797 00:42:32,320 --> 00:42:36,960 Speaker 2: You have a one hundred survival rate up until this point. 798 00:42:38,000 --> 00:42:41,239 Speaker 5: You will get through this, and then you have to 799 00:42:41,400 --> 00:42:44,239 Speaker 5: understand that this is the part of it that's just 800 00:42:44,440 --> 00:42:45,080 Speaker 5: called life. 801 00:42:46,120 --> 00:42:47,640 Speaker 2: You are not the only one. 802 00:42:48,480 --> 00:42:51,440 Speaker 5: Everybody has these periods where it gets dark and you 803 00:42:51,560 --> 00:42:53,440 Speaker 5: can't see that. You know how people say, you know, 804 00:42:53,560 --> 00:42:55,680 Speaker 5: there's a light at the end of the tunnel. I've 805 00:42:55,680 --> 00:42:58,040 Speaker 5: been in some tunnels where it wasn't no light. I 806 00:42:58,239 --> 00:42:59,240 Speaker 5: just ain't seen now. 807 00:43:00,160 --> 00:43:07,080 Speaker 1: Kind of like this boy on zoom right now anyway, and. 808 00:43:07,440 --> 00:43:09,200 Speaker 5: You don't and you don't see no light at the 809 00:43:09,320 --> 00:43:12,879 Speaker 5: end of the tunnel, and but you have to keep 810 00:43:13,000 --> 00:43:16,440 Speaker 5: putting one foot in front of the next because eventually 811 00:43:16,760 --> 00:43:19,040 Speaker 5: you will see the light at the end of the tunnel. 812 00:43:19,640 --> 00:43:25,120 Speaker 5: Nobody lives in complete darkness unless you allow the darkness 813 00:43:25,400 --> 00:43:29,600 Speaker 5: to define not only where you at, but it's your future. 814 00:43:29,880 --> 00:43:32,640 Speaker 5: Your darkness you are in today is not your future 815 00:43:32,680 --> 00:43:34,920 Speaker 5: of tomorrow. All you gotta do is keep waking up. 816 00:43:35,160 --> 00:43:37,280 Speaker 5: You're gonna look up and the sun gonna shine again. 817 00:43:38,120 --> 00:43:41,880 Speaker 5: This too shall pass. Keep your faith in God, stay prayerful, 818 00:43:42,120 --> 00:43:43,480 Speaker 5: and know you ain't the only one. 819 00:43:44,719 --> 00:43:46,359 Speaker 2: Okay, that's it, all. 820 00:43:46,320 --> 00:43:50,439 Speaker 1: Right, all right, thank you for the call, Hannah. Coming 821 00:43:50,520 --> 00:43:53,400 Speaker 1: up next, we'll hear from the nephew again with today's 822 00:43:53,440 --> 00:43:58,839 Speaker 1: brank phone call. Right after this you're listening morning show 823 00:44:00,120 --> 00:44:02,080 Speaker 1: coming up at the top of the hour, right about 824 00:44:02,120 --> 00:44:05,040 Speaker 1: four minutes after. It's my strawberry letter for today, and 825 00:44:05,120 --> 00:44:07,800 Speaker 1: the subject is why is my mom sharing my daddy? 826 00:44:08,840 --> 00:44:09,400 Speaker 2: Mm hmmm. 827 00:44:11,239 --> 00:44:15,000 Speaker 1: We'll find out what that's all about. Yeah, shut the 828 00:44:15,120 --> 00:44:19,760 Speaker 1: room down on that one. Why is my mom sharing 829 00:44:19,840 --> 00:44:22,480 Speaker 1: my daddy? We'll find out in just a few because 830 00:44:22,600 --> 00:44:27,160 Speaker 1: right now the nephew is here with today's prank phone call. Nephew, 831 00:44:28,480 --> 00:44:29,600 Speaker 1: what do you have for us? 832 00:44:29,920 --> 00:44:30,040 Speaker 4: Uh? 833 00:44:30,400 --> 00:44:32,280 Speaker 2: You know what I got? I got stupid and ignorance. 834 00:44:32,320 --> 00:44:34,800 Speaker 13: When we go through my file real quick, here, Shirley, 835 00:44:35,480 --> 00:44:37,880 Speaker 13: go down the list and see how stupid what I. 836 00:44:37,920 --> 00:44:38,319 Speaker 2: Want to get? 837 00:44:38,400 --> 00:44:41,520 Speaker 13: You know, mile medium, a hot stupidity. You know, I 838 00:44:41,600 --> 00:44:43,480 Speaker 13: got to figure out which level I'm gonna drop on 839 00:44:43,640 --> 00:44:47,320 Speaker 13: y'all this morning. And let's see here, I'm gonna. 840 00:44:47,160 --> 00:44:54,160 Speaker 9: Come my medium, my hot stupid like wings. Yeah, l 841 00:44:55,280 --> 00:45:03,400 Speaker 9: So you got files and flavors, yeah of stupid, yeah stupid, 842 00:45:03,480 --> 00:45:07,760 Speaker 9: don't make no sense, no doubt. Oh my goodness. 843 00:45:08,120 --> 00:45:10,480 Speaker 1: So what's today? What flavor you feeling today? 844 00:45:11,520 --> 00:45:16,520 Speaker 13: Right between medium and hot? Right over there? You just 845 00:45:16,600 --> 00:45:20,360 Speaker 13: got my stupid on sizzle. I keep it on this 846 00:45:20,560 --> 00:45:23,600 Speaker 13: right here is no anchobies, no ancholby. 847 00:45:23,719 --> 00:45:27,080 Speaker 2: Let's go get yellow man. 848 00:45:27,080 --> 00:45:29,600 Speaker 8: Who who is the person I need to talk to about? 849 00:45:30,360 --> 00:45:32,520 Speaker 8: I got a pizza that's been messed up? Who do 850 00:45:32,600 --> 00:45:33,279 Speaker 8: I need to talk to? 851 00:45:34,320 --> 00:45:36,080 Speaker 11: Well, you can talk to me. So what's going on? 852 00:45:36,160 --> 00:45:36,960 Speaker 11: What happened to your pizza? 853 00:45:37,160 --> 00:45:39,800 Speaker 8: Nobody puts some man shobies on my pizza? 854 00:45:40,239 --> 00:45:40,719 Speaker 10: White people? 855 00:45:41,400 --> 00:45:46,480 Speaker 8: You know, man, who who would do that? 856 00:45:46,520 --> 00:45:48,080 Speaker 10: Who would put answer. 857 00:45:49,960 --> 00:45:52,000 Speaker 11: Settled down with the language that pal? 858 00:45:52,320 --> 00:45:52,680 Speaker 7: All right? 859 00:45:52,840 --> 00:45:55,800 Speaker 11: You know, if you got answerbies on your pizza, he 860 00:45:56,000 --> 00:45:58,040 Speaker 11: just must have gotten mixed up with another water. I'll 861 00:45:58,040 --> 00:45:59,919 Speaker 11: send you another pizza. It ain't a big deal. 862 00:46:00,560 --> 00:46:03,799 Speaker 8: But I ain't answering no anthobies, man. Matter of fact, 863 00:46:03,840 --> 00:46:06,320 Speaker 8: let me ask you, so what the here's an anthoby 864 00:46:06,400 --> 00:46:07,080 Speaker 8: any damn way. 865 00:46:07,480 --> 00:46:11,200 Speaker 11: It's like a sardine. That's what a sanchoby is. Okay, 866 00:46:11,280 --> 00:46:13,120 Speaker 11: Now take the sardine. 867 00:46:13,600 --> 00:46:16,080 Speaker 8: Hey, hey, hey, let me tell you something. Man, what's 868 00:46:16,120 --> 00:46:16,520 Speaker 8: your name? 869 00:46:16,920 --> 00:46:17,640 Speaker 10: What is your name? 870 00:46:17,680 --> 00:46:18,880 Speaker 11: I'm Gino. I'm Gino. 871 00:46:19,280 --> 00:46:21,560 Speaker 8: So you're the owner of the damn pizza place. 872 00:46:21,920 --> 00:46:24,080 Speaker 11: Yeah, I owned the damn pizza place. And on these 873 00:46:24,120 --> 00:46:26,560 Speaker 11: people calling me that person at me because there was 874 00:46:26,600 --> 00:46:29,400 Speaker 11: a mistake. You know, mistakes happened. Now where stakes go 875 00:46:29,520 --> 00:46:32,040 Speaker 11: on in this life? And then you're get some anthobies 876 00:46:32,080 --> 00:46:32,680 Speaker 11: on your pizza? 877 00:46:33,000 --> 00:46:33,440 Speaker 2: A right, man? 878 00:46:33,719 --> 00:46:36,080 Speaker 8: Okay, So here's a deal. I don'e had a bunch 879 00:46:36,120 --> 00:46:39,000 Speaker 8: of jats coming out or the pizza and every last 880 00:46:39,000 --> 00:46:41,520 Speaker 8: one of them got bantrobies on them. You know what 881 00:46:41,560 --> 00:46:43,560 Speaker 8: I'm saying. So I got an issue with it. I'd 882 00:46:43,560 --> 00:46:46,280 Speaker 8: have spent over fifty dollars with you with these pizzas 883 00:46:46,440 --> 00:46:47,919 Speaker 8: in the right row. 884 00:46:49,160 --> 00:46:50,480 Speaker 11: Nobody likes anchobys. 885 00:46:51,960 --> 00:46:54,799 Speaker 8: Well, I tell you something, folk, black we don't know pantopies, man, 886 00:46:56,680 --> 00:46:57,160 Speaker 8: right about it? 887 00:46:57,239 --> 00:47:01,040 Speaker 11: Hold on, I'm on my woe. Certain I've served an 888 00:47:01,160 --> 00:47:02,800 Speaker 11: choby pizza of black people before. 889 00:47:03,640 --> 00:47:09,000 Speaker 8: Okay, the black people that I know don't eat and showby's. 890 00:47:09,440 --> 00:47:11,960 Speaker 11: Okay, well, then we'll send you some pizzas without any 891 00:47:12,600 --> 00:47:13,799 Speaker 11: Anchoby's on them. 892 00:47:14,080 --> 00:47:14,880 Speaker 7: You know what I don't like you. 893 00:47:15,080 --> 00:47:16,360 Speaker 8: I don't like your attitude. 894 00:47:16,400 --> 00:47:19,000 Speaker 11: You know what, man, you didn't tell me with so 895 00:47:19,160 --> 00:47:22,160 Speaker 11: much attitude to start was you wouldn't get no attitude? 896 00:47:22,680 --> 00:47:26,120 Speaker 8: Okay, okay, look at it, don't get your okay, don't 897 00:47:26,160 --> 00:47:26,880 Speaker 8: get you what. 898 00:47:28,760 --> 00:47:29,239 Speaker 3: You know? 899 00:47:29,360 --> 00:47:31,560 Speaker 10: What did you just did? You just threaten me? 900 00:47:32,480 --> 00:47:33,400 Speaker 8: I said, don't get you. 901 00:47:34,480 --> 00:47:37,560 Speaker 11: You think you're talking Who the do you think you're 902 00:47:37,640 --> 00:47:38,879 Speaker 11: talking to face? 903 00:47:39,640 --> 00:47:44,480 Speaker 8: I'm talking to Gino the owner, right, pleas sur real, that's. 904 00:47:44,840 --> 00:47:47,040 Speaker 11: Right, that's right. You don't tell me that you kicked 905 00:47:47,080 --> 00:47:50,040 Speaker 11: my Okay, found you know where the feature is? 906 00:47:50,880 --> 00:47:54,440 Speaker 8: You know you just calm down, do you do you? Okay, 907 00:47:54,600 --> 00:47:56,600 Speaker 8: that's it. I'll tell you what, man, in the next 908 00:47:56,640 --> 00:47:58,760 Speaker 8: three to five minutes, open the walk down there. 909 00:47:58,760 --> 00:47:59,200 Speaker 3: And kick you. 910 00:48:00,000 --> 00:48:02,799 Speaker 8: Why putting me anchoies on here and having a little 911 00:48:02,840 --> 00:48:05,160 Speaker 8: pump with attitude like you said? You can't get thrown. 912 00:48:07,360 --> 00:48:10,719 Speaker 11: You come on down here, okay and we'll see. Do 913 00:48:10,880 --> 00:48:13,960 Speaker 11: me a favor, go yourself and the no one show 914 00:48:14,040 --> 00:48:16,359 Speaker 11: it in on. Okay, I'm bringing it on down here, 915 00:48:16,640 --> 00:48:18,959 Speaker 11: all right, we'll take care of it there. I'll stop 916 00:48:19,000 --> 00:48:21,120 Speaker 11: some anchoby up here, all right. 917 00:48:21,200 --> 00:48:24,840 Speaker 10: Fal okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, cool. 918 00:48:24,719 --> 00:48:27,200 Speaker 11: All right, cool, okay, okay, okay. You like to say 919 00:48:27,239 --> 00:48:30,480 Speaker 11: okay a lot do you words? Okay? 920 00:48:31,520 --> 00:48:33,520 Speaker 8: You need to have somebody there with you when I 921 00:48:33,600 --> 00:48:35,000 Speaker 8: get there, because I promise you you. 922 00:48:37,400 --> 00:48:40,440 Speaker 11: Yeah, you don't shaking in his boots pole. Me and 923 00:48:40,520 --> 00:48:42,880 Speaker 11: my anchobies were sitting here scared out of our minds 924 00:48:43,000 --> 00:48:48,080 Speaker 11: right now. Okay, dealt with clowns like you my old life. 925 00:48:48,760 --> 00:48:51,880 Speaker 10: So let me tell you this it do you do? 926 00:48:52,000 --> 00:48:53,040 Speaker 8: You know who you're talking to? 927 00:48:54,120 --> 00:48:56,359 Speaker 11: I'm pumping to something. An idiot who don't know how 928 00:48:56,400 --> 00:48:57,600 Speaker 11: to talk. That's what I'm talking. 929 00:48:57,640 --> 00:48:57,799 Speaker 10: Tough. 930 00:48:58,560 --> 00:49:02,240 Speaker 8: No, you're talking to nips him pup from the Steve 931 00:49:02,320 --> 00:49:06,320 Speaker 8: Harvey Morton Show. Mister Gino, you just got preak. 932 00:49:09,600 --> 00:49:12,200 Speaker 11: You're telling me I'm throwing F bombs all over the radio. 933 00:49:14,640 --> 00:49:17,000 Speaker 8: You're dropping M bomb all over the radio. 934 00:49:17,200 --> 00:49:19,080 Speaker 11: Baby, who I want to know who did this to 935 00:49:19,120 --> 00:49:20,560 Speaker 11: me because they're getting some f bombs. 936 00:49:21,000 --> 00:49:23,440 Speaker 8: You do you have a guy that works for you, 937 00:49:23,880 --> 00:49:26,840 Speaker 8: he says, he works five to close. Andre you got 938 00:49:27,040 --> 00:49:28,560 Speaker 8: and you got a dre that works for you. 939 00:49:29,360 --> 00:49:30,680 Speaker 11: Yeah, I got a Drade that works for me. And 940 00:49:30,719 --> 00:49:33,000 Speaker 11: Dred's gonna be sending some time in a walking freezer. 941 00:49:37,280 --> 00:49:37,640 Speaker 8: All right. 942 00:49:38,640 --> 00:49:39,920 Speaker 11: People don't need Anchoby. 943 00:49:40,040 --> 00:49:44,920 Speaker 8: Huh, you don't need Anthoby's baby. Hey, I gotta ask 944 00:49:44,960 --> 00:49:47,600 Speaker 8: you this, missus, Gino, what is the baddest and I 945 00:49:47,760 --> 00:49:50,320 Speaker 8: mean the baddest radio show in the land. 946 00:49:51,360 --> 00:49:56,400 Speaker 11: Your show, the baddest radio show in the land is 947 00:49:56,480 --> 00:49:57,520 Speaker 11: the Steve Harvey Show. 948 00:49:59,160 --> 00:50:02,040 Speaker 8: Wouldn't know what the morning nobody want it? 949 00:50:02,160 --> 00:50:06,000 Speaker 11: Jail I man, I'll be saying, I'm gonna send you 950 00:50:06,080 --> 00:50:09,160 Speaker 11: some pizzas. I'm sending that station dozens of pieces with 951 00:50:09,680 --> 00:50:11,440 Speaker 11: double anthrobes on every one of them. 952 00:50:13,640 --> 00:50:16,960 Speaker 2: And there you have it right there, lady stupid and 953 00:50:17,040 --> 00:50:18,680 Speaker 2: just said it. Just set it right there. That's how 954 00:50:18,719 --> 00:50:19,000 Speaker 2: you do it. 955 00:50:19,120 --> 00:50:23,400 Speaker 13: Just set it right there, keep it officially stupid. I 956 00:50:23,440 --> 00:50:27,680 Speaker 13: would be officially stupid this Saturday night in Montgomery, Alabama 957 00:50:27,800 --> 00:50:30,239 Speaker 13: in the gump Baby. So if you tickets left, so 958 00:50:30,320 --> 00:50:31,640 Speaker 13: y'all get them and come on out and see your 959 00:50:31,680 --> 00:50:36,080 Speaker 13: boy along with celebrity the comedian also JJ Williamson. That 960 00:50:36,280 --> 00:50:39,480 Speaker 13: boy right there is straight ignorant. And of course you 961 00:50:39,600 --> 00:50:43,239 Speaker 13: already know earthquake stupid all day every day. That right 962 00:50:43,280 --> 00:50:46,120 Speaker 13: there is a hell of a show. In the Gump, Montgomery, Alabama. 963 00:50:46,200 --> 00:50:49,320 Speaker 13: Black hats on, Black hats up, laying in the cut. Friday, 964 00:50:49,440 --> 00:50:52,280 Speaker 13: April the fifth, That would be April Fool's Comedy. 965 00:50:52,360 --> 00:50:52,560 Speaker 5: Jamn. 966 00:50:52,640 --> 00:50:54,440 Speaker 2: Now stay with me now because I'm going somewhere. 967 00:50:54,719 --> 00:50:59,640 Speaker 13: Brian Hooks in the building, Chantay Wayne's in the building, London, 968 00:50:59,719 --> 00:51:04,520 Speaker 13: Brian in the building, Lighting Love in the building, Tory 969 00:51:04,640 --> 00:51:08,200 Speaker 13: Hart in the building, Coco Brown, just hilarious. Oh all. 970 00:51:08,280 --> 00:51:10,799 Speaker 2: This is hosted by Rip Michaels. You got Bruce Bruce 971 00:51:10,880 --> 00:51:12,200 Speaker 2: in the building. You got d. L. 972 00:51:12,320 --> 00:51:15,240 Speaker 13: Hugley in the building. You got Tracy Morgan in the building. 973 00:51:15,560 --> 00:51:18,440 Speaker 13: Nephew Tommy in the building. It's all going down at 974 00:51:18,480 --> 00:51:22,719 Speaker 13: the Barclays Center, Brooklyn. In the house, Brooklyn, New York. 975 00:51:22,880 --> 00:51:26,319 Speaker 13: That is Friday night, April fifth, April Fool's Comedy Jam. 976 00:51:26,440 --> 00:51:31,360 Speaker 13: Tickets on Seale rent. Now everybody is in the building. 977 00:51:31,640 --> 00:51:33,080 Speaker 13: You want to be in the building. Go ahead, what 978 00:51:33,200 --> 00:51:33,880 Speaker 13: you want to get you on? 979 00:51:34,840 --> 00:51:37,080 Speaker 2: I ain't no wa in here. He ain't for nobody 980 00:51:37,120 --> 00:51:41,640 Speaker 2: else on that day. No matter what time you get there, 981 00:51:41,640 --> 00:51:43,080 Speaker 2: it's still the whole show left. 982 00:51:44,480 --> 00:51:50,920 Speaker 6: You can make your own show. Huh, Tommy, you know 983 00:51:50,960 --> 00:51:52,680 Speaker 6: what I counted thirteen, Tommy. 984 00:51:53,400 --> 00:51:58,000 Speaker 5: I told you that I've been counted thirteen thirteen thirteen 985 00:51:58,160 --> 00:51:58,760 Speaker 5: in the building. 986 00:51:58,840 --> 00:52:01,480 Speaker 13: But you come get it, man, man were laughing all night. 987 00:52:01,520 --> 00:52:05,360 Speaker 13: All right, we are laughing all night laying way in 988 00:52:05,480 --> 00:52:08,319 Speaker 13: the cut. April nineteenth and twentieth, The Nephew is coming 989 00:52:08,800 --> 00:52:12,040 Speaker 13: back to Baltimore back by popular the Man at the 990 00:52:12,120 --> 00:52:15,719 Speaker 13: Comedy Factory. That is April nineteenth and twenty b more. 991 00:52:15,800 --> 00:52:20,440 Speaker 13: I'm coming back. Tickets on sale, read now, and then 992 00:52:20,480 --> 00:52:22,960 Speaker 13: you gonna catch me Friday too. If you want to Friday, 993 00:52:23,040 --> 00:52:25,400 Speaker 13: you can just turn te me on, won't you do it? 994 00:52:25,680 --> 00:52:25,839 Speaker 10: Yes? 995 00:52:26,040 --> 00:52:30,280 Speaker 13: Friday? That right there is Ready to Well, there's thirteen 996 00:52:30,360 --> 00:52:38,839 Speaker 13: people on there too, and he's on that TV show. 997 00:52:38,960 --> 00:52:47,440 Speaker 13: He clearly the start of that Ready Love on Readily 998 00:52:47,520 --> 00:52:50,640 Speaker 13: Love on Friday and Black College Quiz it's on Saturday. 999 00:52:50,800 --> 00:52:52,760 Speaker 13: Check your listens and catch your boy on Black College 1000 00:52:52,800 --> 00:52:56,000 Speaker 13: Quiz and you can see some amazing students at HBCU colleges. 1001 00:52:56,680 --> 00:52:59,720 Speaker 13: They are battling for scholarship money and they are smart 1002 00:52:59,719 --> 00:53:00,560 Speaker 13: as I'll get out. 1003 00:53:00,640 --> 00:53:00,799 Speaker 5: Man. 1004 00:53:00,920 --> 00:53:03,560 Speaker 2: That's me saying black college queers. 1005 00:53:04,000 --> 00:53:05,400 Speaker 3: All right, I love it. 1006 00:53:05,560 --> 00:53:10,879 Speaker 1: That is wonderful, nephew, Thank you. Coming up next, it's 1007 00:53:10,960 --> 00:53:14,080 Speaker 1: the Strawberry Letter. The subject why is my mom sharing 1008 00:53:14,160 --> 00:53:21,400 Speaker 1: my daddy? Fuck house? Right after this, you're listening to 1009 00:53:21,760 --> 00:53:26,080 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. It is time now for today's 1010 00:53:26,080 --> 00:53:31,400 Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice on relationships, dating, works, sex, parenting, 1011 00:53:31,480 --> 00:53:35,200 Speaker 1: and more, please submit your Strawberry Letter to STEVEVARVEFM dot 1012 00:53:35,320 --> 00:53:38,520 Speaker 1: com and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading 1013 00:53:38,600 --> 00:53:41,480 Speaker 1: your letter live on the air, just like we're going 1014 00:53:41,560 --> 00:53:43,680 Speaker 1: to read this one right here, right now, and you 1015 00:53:43,760 --> 00:53:44,960 Speaker 1: never know, it could be yours. 1016 00:53:45,719 --> 00:53:47,520 Speaker 2: It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on tight 1017 00:53:47,560 --> 00:53:50,920 Speaker 2: we go. Had it ful you Here it e Strawberry Letter, Thank. 1018 00:53:50,760 --> 00:53:54,440 Speaker 1: You, nephew. Subject why is my mom sharing my daddy? 1019 00:53:54,960 --> 00:53:57,440 Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm thirty three years old and I 1020 00:53:57,560 --> 00:54:00,799 Speaker 1: moved back to my hometown two months ago. My dad 1021 00:54:00,960 --> 00:54:03,120 Speaker 1: is ill and my mother is doing the best she 1022 00:54:03,280 --> 00:54:05,960 Speaker 1: can to take care of him, at least that's what 1023 00:54:06,160 --> 00:54:09,000 Speaker 1: she told me. I kicked right in and started taking 1024 00:54:09,080 --> 00:54:11,920 Speaker 1: Daddy to the doctor and to get his medication. When 1025 00:54:11,960 --> 00:54:14,480 Speaker 1: I couldn't do it because of work, Daddy had another 1026 00:54:14,560 --> 00:54:16,680 Speaker 1: woman taking him, and I thought she was some kind 1027 00:54:16,719 --> 00:54:20,520 Speaker 1: of nurse or assistant that his insurance provided. My Mom 1028 00:54:20,640 --> 00:54:24,279 Speaker 1: said it was just a lady that my dad knows well. 1029 00:54:24,360 --> 00:54:26,560 Speaker 1: One day, Dad called me and asked me could I 1030 00:54:26,680 --> 00:54:29,000 Speaker 1: drop him off at a restaurant and he would get 1031 00:54:29,040 --> 00:54:32,520 Speaker 1: a ride home. I took him and walked him inside. 1032 00:54:32,960 --> 00:54:34,960 Speaker 1: He met with the lady that I thought was his 1033 00:54:35,120 --> 00:54:38,080 Speaker 1: home health nurse. He said it was her birthday, so 1034 00:54:38,280 --> 00:54:42,160 Speaker 1: I told her Happy birthday. I called Mama and asked 1035 00:54:42,200 --> 00:54:44,719 Speaker 1: if she was going to join them. I didn't care 1036 00:54:44,719 --> 00:54:47,040 Speaker 1: if I was being messy by alerting my mom that 1037 00:54:47,160 --> 00:54:50,160 Speaker 1: my dad was having dinner with the woman. Mama said 1038 00:54:50,600 --> 00:54:53,720 Speaker 1: it's a special occasion for her, so she was allowing 1039 00:54:53,840 --> 00:54:57,040 Speaker 1: my dad to spend some time with her alone. I 1040 00:54:57,120 --> 00:54:59,200 Speaker 1: went by my mom and dad's house to wait for 1041 00:54:59,360 --> 00:55:01,920 Speaker 1: Dad with her. He got home three hours later and 1042 00:55:02,000 --> 00:55:04,400 Speaker 1: he had a milkshake. He said they went for a 1043 00:55:04,480 --> 00:55:07,440 Speaker 1: birthday treat. My Mom had already gone to bed, so 1044 00:55:07,560 --> 00:55:09,520 Speaker 1: I asked him if the woman is a nurse or 1045 00:55:09,640 --> 00:55:12,319 Speaker 1: his girlfriend. He said she's a little bit of both, 1046 00:55:12,600 --> 00:55:14,560 Speaker 1: and he said to talk to my mom about it. 1047 00:55:14,960 --> 00:55:17,920 Speaker 1: The next morning, Mama told me that she lets dad 1048 00:55:18,160 --> 00:55:21,359 Speaker 1: entertain himself in that way because he's sick. My dad 1049 00:55:21,520 --> 00:55:25,080 Speaker 1: isn't terminally ill, So why is my mom allowing this? 1050 00:55:25,920 --> 00:55:28,440 Speaker 1: She seems so sad about it. Should I confront my 1051 00:55:28,600 --> 00:55:33,560 Speaker 1: daddy about cheating on my mom? Look, these are your parents, 1052 00:55:33,760 --> 00:55:36,239 Speaker 1: and you can ask them. It's nothing wrong with that. 1053 00:55:37,040 --> 00:55:40,359 Speaker 1: But you talk to them already, and they both gave 1054 00:55:40,440 --> 00:55:43,120 Speaker 1: you their answers. The woman is a nurse and a 1055 00:55:43,160 --> 00:55:47,359 Speaker 1: girlfriend to your dad, and your mom lets him see 1056 00:55:47,400 --> 00:55:50,200 Speaker 1: her because he's sick, And as weird as it sounds, 1057 00:55:50,760 --> 00:55:53,399 Speaker 1: that's what they told you. Obviously, your mom and dad 1058 00:55:53,480 --> 00:55:56,600 Speaker 1: have some sort of crazy arrangement going on here. Your 1059 00:55:56,640 --> 00:55:59,680 Speaker 1: dad also told you to ask your mom, which meant 1060 00:56:00,080 --> 00:56:02,239 Speaker 1: that your mom is well aware of what's going on 1061 00:56:02,400 --> 00:56:05,120 Speaker 1: in this situation. This is not a secret between them. 1062 00:56:05,520 --> 00:56:08,480 Speaker 1: You can ask her if this is making her sad, 1063 00:56:08,600 --> 00:56:11,000 Speaker 1: why is she allowing your dad to see this other woman? 1064 00:56:11,400 --> 00:56:12,520 Speaker 3: But again, she. 1065 00:56:12,719 --> 00:56:15,960 Speaker 1: Told you because he's sick. She knows what he's doing. 1066 00:56:16,120 --> 00:56:17,880 Speaker 1: She didn't even stay up and wait for him to 1067 00:56:17,920 --> 00:56:20,120 Speaker 1: get back. She was in bed before he got home 1068 00:56:20,200 --> 00:56:22,640 Speaker 1: from his date with the other woman. So is she 1069 00:56:22,800 --> 00:56:27,279 Speaker 1: really sad about it like you say? And your dad 1070 00:56:27,400 --> 00:56:29,560 Speaker 1: might not be that sick either, not if he has 1071 00:56:29,640 --> 00:56:32,040 Speaker 1: the energy to have a wife and a side chick. 1072 00:56:32,480 --> 00:56:35,480 Speaker 1: You said, he's not terminally ill, so this just must 1073 00:56:35,560 --> 00:56:38,600 Speaker 1: be something they've decided to do. I know you care 1074 00:56:38,640 --> 00:56:41,280 Speaker 1: about what's going on with your parents, but as strange 1075 00:56:41,280 --> 00:56:43,840 Speaker 1: as it is, it's their business. And don't be shocked 1076 00:56:43,840 --> 00:56:46,279 Speaker 1: if you do confront them that they may or may 1077 00:56:46,320 --> 00:56:47,560 Speaker 1: not give you what you want. 1078 00:56:48,040 --> 00:56:52,799 Speaker 5: But yeah, this is crazy, Steve, ain't no secrets. Why 1079 00:56:52,960 --> 00:57:00,880 Speaker 5: is my mom shared my daddy? Well, you Shaddy, So 1080 00:57:01,280 --> 00:57:05,800 Speaker 5: let's just get into it. You thirty three, You to 1081 00:57:05,960 --> 00:57:10,759 Speaker 5: move back to your hometown a couple months ago. Your 1082 00:57:10,880 --> 00:57:13,160 Speaker 5: dad is ill. Now, y'all ain't saying what he got, 1083 00:57:13,480 --> 00:57:16,680 Speaker 5: So I just come up with something on my own. 1084 00:57:16,760 --> 00:57:21,520 Speaker 5: Lad On, my mother's doing the best she can to 1085 00:57:21,600 --> 00:57:24,720 Speaker 5: take care of him, at least that's what she's saying. 1086 00:57:24,800 --> 00:57:27,000 Speaker 5: So you jumped in and helped out taking Daddy to 1087 00:57:27,120 --> 00:57:30,680 Speaker 5: the doctor to get his medicine. And when I couldn't 1088 00:57:30,720 --> 00:57:34,880 Speaker 5: do it because of work. Daddy had another woman taking him, 1089 00:57:35,280 --> 00:57:37,480 Speaker 5: and I thought she was some kind of nurse or 1090 00:57:37,520 --> 00:57:43,120 Speaker 5: assistant that his insurance provided. Well, it ain't that the 1091 00:57:43,280 --> 00:57:48,800 Speaker 5: nice cove up he got, y'all thinking or you thinking 1092 00:57:48,840 --> 00:57:50,440 Speaker 5: it's potentially a nurse. 1093 00:57:50,280 --> 00:57:51,800 Speaker 2: That the insurance has provided. 1094 00:57:53,960 --> 00:57:56,240 Speaker 5: My mom said it was just a lady that my 1095 00:57:56,440 --> 00:58:00,840 Speaker 5: daddy know, which means you're the other thing is aware 1096 00:58:00,880 --> 00:58:04,080 Speaker 5: of this. Well, one day Daddy called me in to 1097 00:58:04,160 --> 00:58:06,480 Speaker 5: ask if I could drop him off at a restaurant 1098 00:58:07,000 --> 00:58:11,320 Speaker 5: and he would get a ride home. Now, I'm assuming 1099 00:58:13,320 --> 00:58:15,520 Speaker 5: since you came into town and you done jumped in 1100 00:58:15,720 --> 00:58:17,520 Speaker 5: the kick in to take and get his medicine, take 1101 00:58:17,560 --> 00:58:20,040 Speaker 5: him to the doctor, that you do it when your 1102 00:58:20,080 --> 00:58:25,000 Speaker 5: mama came. I'm assuming maybe your mama is at work 1103 00:58:25,560 --> 00:58:30,200 Speaker 5: with the car. See, because I thank your daddy and 1104 00:58:30,280 --> 00:58:33,200 Speaker 5: mama got a car. But I think mama got the car. 1105 00:58:34,560 --> 00:58:37,400 Speaker 5: She's overwhelmed with going to work and taking him places. 1106 00:58:37,480 --> 00:58:40,080 Speaker 5: So now you done jumped in and kicked in. So 1107 00:58:40,280 --> 00:58:42,560 Speaker 5: this one day he asked you if you could call 1108 00:58:42,640 --> 00:58:44,320 Speaker 5: you and ask you if you drop him off at 1109 00:58:44,360 --> 00:58:50,160 Speaker 5: a restaurant, he'll get a ride home. This is hustling 1110 00:58:50,240 --> 00:58:53,440 Speaker 5: too hard for me. All he getting to ride home, 1111 00:58:54,400 --> 00:58:58,520 Speaker 5: got a lift apple huber app. But he fixed all 1112 00:58:58,600 --> 00:59:02,120 Speaker 5: that because he got this woman. So I took him 1113 00:59:02,360 --> 00:59:06,040 Speaker 5: and walked him inside. He didn't ask you for that. 1114 00:59:07,640 --> 00:59:10,360 Speaker 5: All he did was so how sick is he? Where 1115 00:59:10,360 --> 00:59:13,360 Speaker 5: you got to walk him inside? But you took your 1116 00:59:13,480 --> 00:59:16,600 Speaker 5: nosey ass in that to walk him inside this restaurant 1117 00:59:16,960 --> 00:59:19,200 Speaker 5: because you wanted to know what was going on. 1118 00:59:20,360 --> 00:59:22,600 Speaker 2: He met with the lady that I thought was his 1119 00:59:22,800 --> 00:59:23,960 Speaker 2: home health care. 1120 00:59:23,960 --> 00:59:24,680 Speaker 7: And she is. 1121 00:59:26,080 --> 00:59:27,440 Speaker 2: That's what she is. 1122 00:59:28,240 --> 00:59:37,800 Speaker 5: She is the home healthcare provided. Yes, he said it 1123 00:59:37,920 --> 00:59:40,720 Speaker 5: was her birthday, so I told her happy birthday. Oh oh, 1124 00:59:41,400 --> 00:59:44,240 Speaker 5: now to mama, No, did daddy know? Now you done 1125 00:59:44,320 --> 00:59:47,120 Speaker 5: join the in talking about happy birthday? So now yo, 1126 00:59:47,280 --> 00:59:51,520 Speaker 5: you involved too now cause you at the birthday party. 1127 00:59:53,440 --> 00:59:55,840 Speaker 5: I called Mama and asked if she was gonna join him. 1128 00:59:56,920 --> 00:59:58,760 Speaker 5: And I don't care if I was being messy by 1129 00:59:58,800 --> 01:00:00,520 Speaker 5: a learning my mom to my day Dad was having 1130 01:00:00,560 --> 01:00:03,240 Speaker 5: dinner with the woman. When we come back, I'm gonna 1131 01:00:03,240 --> 01:00:05,520 Speaker 5: tell you the rest of them, and it ain't gonna 1132 01:00:05,520 --> 01:00:06,280 Speaker 5: be that shocking. 1133 01:00:06,520 --> 01:00:09,120 Speaker 1: We'll have part two of your response coming up at 1134 01:00:09,160 --> 01:00:12,840 Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the hour, Today's Strawberry letter subject 1135 01:00:12,880 --> 01:00:15,600 Speaker 1: why is my mom sharing my daddy? Right after this, 1136 01:00:16,120 --> 01:00:20,520 Speaker 1: you're listening Morning show. All right, Steve, come on, let's 1137 01:00:20,560 --> 01:00:23,520 Speaker 1: recap today's Strawberry letter, the subject why is my mom 1138 01:00:23,960 --> 01:00:25,040 Speaker 1: sharing my daddy? 1139 01:00:25,840 --> 01:00:28,040 Speaker 5: First of all, this ain't your business, but since you 1140 01:00:28,120 --> 01:00:30,720 Speaker 5: want to make it yours, it's time for you to 1141 01:00:30,800 --> 01:00:31,880 Speaker 5: have a grown folk. 1142 01:00:32,520 --> 01:00:37,800 Speaker 2: Come to Jesus. Now, your daddy's sick, you to move 1143 01:00:37,920 --> 01:00:41,440 Speaker 2: back home. You started helping out, taking it to the doctor, 1144 01:00:41,480 --> 01:00:42,440 Speaker 2: getting his medicine. 1145 01:00:43,680 --> 01:00:47,280 Speaker 5: Obviously, your mama is still working, or and your mama 1146 01:00:47,320 --> 01:00:49,360 Speaker 5: and they got one car, and your mama stay in 1147 01:00:49,440 --> 01:00:52,560 Speaker 5: the car. So now when she can't do it, you 1148 01:00:52,720 --> 01:00:55,600 Speaker 5: got to do it. And then sometimes you got to 1149 01:00:55,640 --> 01:00:58,600 Speaker 5: go to work yourself. And so then he had another 1150 01:00:58,800 --> 01:01:02,840 Speaker 5: lady come back. You thought this lady was the home 1151 01:01:03,080 --> 01:01:07,840 Speaker 5: care health provider. The mama know about the lady. That 1152 01:01:08,000 --> 01:01:10,320 Speaker 5: dad didn't know about the lady, And now you know 1153 01:01:10,400 --> 01:01:13,720 Speaker 5: about the lady. So his mama was at work and 1154 01:01:13,800 --> 01:01:18,280 Speaker 5: couldn't take him somewhere. So your daddy called you and 1155 01:01:18,360 --> 01:01:19,960 Speaker 5: asked you if you could drop him off at a 1156 01:01:20,120 --> 01:01:22,520 Speaker 5: restaurant and he would get a ride home. 1157 01:01:22,720 --> 01:01:24,680 Speaker 2: Well, your little nose the ass. Take him down to 1158 01:01:24,760 --> 01:01:26,320 Speaker 2: the restaurant. You walk inside. 1159 01:01:27,360 --> 01:01:29,840 Speaker 5: Now if he is he is, I don't know what 1160 01:01:30,000 --> 01:01:34,320 Speaker 5: his sickness is, but he didn't need walking inside. But 1161 01:01:34,480 --> 01:01:36,920 Speaker 5: you took it in there. And now the lady was 1162 01:01:37,000 --> 01:01:41,280 Speaker 5: there you thought was the nurse. So then he said 1163 01:01:42,400 --> 01:01:45,320 Speaker 5: that it was her birthday, so I told her happy birthday. 1164 01:01:45,400 --> 01:01:47,760 Speaker 2: So now you done joined. Then you participating in it. 1165 01:01:48,480 --> 01:01:49,600 Speaker 2: The mama know he knows it. 1166 01:01:50,160 --> 01:01:52,439 Speaker 5: So then you went home with your little messy self 1167 01:01:52,480 --> 01:01:55,160 Speaker 5: and called Mama and asked if she was gonna join him. 1168 01:01:56,000 --> 01:01:58,080 Speaker 5: I didn't care if I was being messy by alerting 1169 01:01:58,160 --> 01:02:00,440 Speaker 5: my mom that my dad was having dinner with the woman. 1170 01:02:01,280 --> 01:02:02,200 Speaker 2: Mama said it was. 1171 01:02:02,240 --> 01:02:06,320 Speaker 5: A special occasion for her, so she was allowing my 1172 01:02:06,520 --> 01:02:12,040 Speaker 5: dad to spend some time with her alone. I be, damn, 1173 01:02:14,880 --> 01:02:23,440 Speaker 5: I have got to get me a sickness. What work off, Junior? 1174 01:02:23,520 --> 01:02:28,680 Speaker 5: This got to be right in your ass, boy, it's 1175 01:02:28,760 --> 01:02:34,680 Speaker 5: finna be. This is one glorious occasion. She told you 1176 01:02:34,920 --> 01:02:37,640 Speaker 5: that it's a special occasion, so she was allowing my 1177 01:02:37,760 --> 01:02:38,920 Speaker 5: dad spend some time with her. 1178 01:02:39,000 --> 01:02:39,200 Speaker 4: Loan. 1179 01:02:39,920 --> 01:02:42,000 Speaker 5: I went by mom and Dad's house to wait for 1180 01:02:42,160 --> 01:02:46,200 Speaker 5: my daddy with her He got home some three hours later, 1181 01:02:47,080 --> 01:02:50,360 Speaker 5: and he had a milkshake. He said, they went for 1182 01:02:50,440 --> 01:02:54,080 Speaker 5: a birthday treat. I know that's right, And the milkshake 1183 01:02:54,240 --> 01:02:57,440 Speaker 5: was just to cover who's sure, guy hot in here, 1184 01:02:57,520 --> 01:03:02,280 Speaker 5: swain by steak and shake. Girl, let me get that 1185 01:03:02,400 --> 01:03:05,720 Speaker 5: chocolate shirt going. So he walked in the house, swirled 1186 01:03:05,760 --> 01:03:09,120 Speaker 5: in the cup. They went by for a birthday treat. 1187 01:03:09,200 --> 01:03:13,520 Speaker 5: Now they got to be old. So now Ruby, you 1188 01:03:13,640 --> 01:03:18,880 Speaker 5: sitting in the house with Ruby? He done just left 1189 01:03:19,240 --> 01:03:22,400 Speaker 5: Estale down at the motor end and swinging by the 1190 01:03:22,440 --> 01:03:23,160 Speaker 5: steak and shape. 1191 01:03:24,080 --> 01:03:26,480 Speaker 2: Now you, Joscelyn, you sitting in the house with Ruby 1192 01:03:28,680 --> 01:03:30,720 Speaker 2: and a staler. Just tighten your. 1193 01:03:30,640 --> 01:03:34,280 Speaker 5: Daddy up with a special birthday treat. And he come 1194 01:03:34,360 --> 01:03:38,320 Speaker 5: back in with a milkshake to cover for it. Three hours, 1195 01:03:38,360 --> 01:03:42,640 Speaker 5: there's plenty of time. And then so I asked him 1196 01:03:42,640 --> 01:03:46,560 Speaker 5: if the woman is a nurse or his girlfriend. He 1197 01:03:46,760 --> 01:03:52,120 Speaker 5: said she a little bit of both, and he said, 1198 01:03:52,200 --> 01:03:55,200 Speaker 5: go talk to your mama about it. So now the 1199 01:03:55,280 --> 01:03:58,360 Speaker 5: next morning, Mama told me that she lets dad entertain 1200 01:03:58,560 --> 01:04:01,800 Speaker 5: himself in that way because he's sick. 1201 01:04:06,000 --> 01:04:08,520 Speaker 2: We got two sick ass dudes on the show right here. 1202 01:04:12,760 --> 01:04:17,080 Speaker 5: We got one that's clear and we got one that's survived. 1203 01:04:18,880 --> 01:04:23,000 Speaker 5: So now fellas see, y'all ain't been using y'all illnesses 1204 01:04:23,080 --> 01:04:27,400 Speaker 5: the right way. Y'all could have had you an in 1205 01:04:27,760 --> 01:04:35,000 Speaker 5: home nurse care provider. Boy, boy, boy, Now, Tommy, I 1206 01:04:35,120 --> 01:04:37,520 Speaker 5: know your wife. You ain't gonna be able to sell 1207 01:04:37,600 --> 01:04:43,840 Speaker 5: that one. So you sit your ass down to be quiet. Junior, 1208 01:04:44,160 --> 01:04:48,600 Speaker 5: you show better not say nothing, so y'all can take 1209 01:04:48,720 --> 01:04:51,720 Speaker 5: y'allself out of the little we sick two categories. 1210 01:04:53,400 --> 01:04:55,600 Speaker 2: It's too late for me. I know better than this. 1211 01:04:55,760 --> 01:05:02,040 Speaker 5: Right here, my dad isn't terminally ill. So why is 1212 01:05:02,120 --> 01:05:05,080 Speaker 5: my mom allowing this? She seems so sad about it. 1213 01:05:05,280 --> 01:05:08,160 Speaker 5: Should I confront my daddy about cheating? No, Mama, what 1214 01:05:08,320 --> 01:05:09,360 Speaker 5: are you gonna confront him? 1215 01:05:09,360 --> 01:05:09,400 Speaker 7: For? 1216 01:05:09,960 --> 01:05:10,840 Speaker 2: Everybody know. 1217 01:05:12,400 --> 01:05:17,800 Speaker 5: Your mama said, because your daddy is sick, she allows this. Now, 1218 01:05:17,880 --> 01:05:19,760 Speaker 5: your daddy is not terminally ill. 1219 01:05:19,920 --> 01:05:24,680 Speaker 2: So what do your daddy? Well, let's talk about it. Oh, okay, 1220 01:05:25,560 --> 01:05:27,120 Speaker 2: do your daddy have diabetes? 1221 01:05:27,720 --> 01:05:30,120 Speaker 5: He got sugar. People with sugar need a lot of 1222 01:05:30,200 --> 01:05:35,480 Speaker 5: other sugar. So maybe maybe it's that right there, Maybe 1223 01:05:35,520 --> 01:05:41,439 Speaker 5: your daddy got a like a heart murmur. Maybe your 1224 01:05:41,720 --> 01:05:46,680 Speaker 5: daddy uh oh, here we go. Maybe your daddy been 1225 01:05:46,760 --> 01:05:50,280 Speaker 5: with your mama so long that your mama that got 1226 01:05:50,360 --> 01:05:52,760 Speaker 5: tired of your daddy and she don't service your daddy 1227 01:05:52,880 --> 01:05:56,760 Speaker 5: no more. And because he's sick, she really don't feel 1228 01:05:56,880 --> 01:05:59,320 Speaker 5: like it. So she done give him permission go get 1229 01:05:59,400 --> 01:06:03,160 Speaker 5: service where he won't to. I was like, mm, because 1230 01:06:03,200 --> 01:06:06,240 Speaker 5: I done lost my desire for it. So I told 1231 01:06:06,240 --> 01:06:08,200 Speaker 5: your daddy. And then your daddy came in here and 1232 01:06:08,320 --> 01:06:10,680 Speaker 5: told me whatever time he got left, he won't to 1233 01:06:10,800 --> 01:06:15,040 Speaker 5: enjoy hisself. So your daddy got a little girlfriend, and 1234 01:06:15,080 --> 01:06:17,360 Speaker 5: I ain't going nowhere, but I ain't servicing him as 1235 01:06:17,440 --> 01:06:21,840 Speaker 5: she do. All right, Steve, you can confront your daddy 1236 01:06:21,840 --> 01:06:24,120 Speaker 5: if you want to, But your daddy told you going 1237 01:06:24,200 --> 01:06:25,919 Speaker 5: in and ask your mama and your post. 1238 01:06:26,000 --> 01:06:29,680 Speaker 1: He told you she allowed post your comments on Today's 1239 01:06:29,680 --> 01:06:33,440 Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter at Steve HARVEFM on Instagram and Facebook, and 1240 01:06:33,640 --> 01:06:37,160 Speaker 1: check out a Strawberry Letter podcast on the free iHeartRadio 1241 01:06:37,240 --> 01:06:40,840 Speaker 1: app Free Never Sounded So Good. Downloaded today coming up 1242 01:06:40,840 --> 01:06:43,120 Speaker 1: in forty six minutes after the hour, we got Junior 1243 01:06:43,160 --> 01:06:47,960 Speaker 1: and Sports Talk right after this. You're listening Hardy Morning Show. 1244 01:06:48,800 --> 01:06:53,160 Speaker 1: The federal agents descended on Diddy's properties on multiple coasts. 1245 01:06:53,240 --> 01:06:56,320 Speaker 1: On Monday, a home in Los Angeles and as Miami 1246 01:06:56,480 --> 01:07:01,120 Speaker 1: residents were both rated by Homeland Security investigators, who confirmed 1247 01:07:01,720 --> 01:07:04,800 Speaker 1: that law enforcement actions were taken as quote part of 1248 01:07:04,840 --> 01:07:09,000 Speaker 1: an ongoing investigation. The raids are believed to be connected 1249 01:07:09,080 --> 01:07:12,960 Speaker 1: to sex trafficking allegations made against Ditty and his associates 1250 01:07:13,000 --> 01:07:17,200 Speaker 1: by multiple individuals. One Los Angeles news station captured aerial 1251 01:07:17,280 --> 01:07:19,880 Speaker 1: shots of what appeared to be Ditty's two sons, Justin 1252 01:07:19,920 --> 01:07:24,400 Speaker 1: and King Colms, handcuffed outside the home. Photographers in Miami 1253 01:07:24,560 --> 01:07:28,720 Speaker 1: captured photos of armed agents arriving by land and boat 1254 01:07:29,120 --> 01:07:33,080 Speaker 1: with guns drawn, ready to execute the search warrant. Ditty's 1255 01:07:33,120 --> 01:07:36,760 Speaker 1: private jet has also been tracked to antigue with the Caribbean. 1256 01:07:37,320 --> 01:07:41,160 Speaker 1: Cassie's lawyers meanwhile released a statement saying, quote, we will 1257 01:07:41,160 --> 01:07:44,600 Speaker 1: always support law enforcement when it seeks to prosecute those 1258 01:07:44,640 --> 01:07:47,840 Speaker 1: who have violated the law. Hopefully this is the beginning 1259 01:07:47,880 --> 01:07:51,080 Speaker 1: of a process that will hold mister Colmes responsible for 1260 01:07:51,280 --> 01:07:56,200 Speaker 1: his depraved conduct. Fifty cent also posted his reaction on 1261 01:07:56,320 --> 01:07:59,720 Speaker 1: ig as he captured sugar Honey iced tea, just got 1262 01:08:00,640 --> 01:08:03,959 Speaker 1: the Feds and all the cribs. They got the kids 1263 01:08:04,040 --> 01:08:07,000 Speaker 1: in cuffs and another he wrote Now, it's not Ditti's 1264 01:08:07,080 --> 01:08:10,120 Speaker 1: didn't do it. It's Diddies done. They don't come like 1265 01:08:10,240 --> 01:08:12,480 Speaker 1: that unless they got a case. 1266 01:08:12,680 --> 01:08:20,240 Speaker 5: Any time though government agencies, FBI, ATF Homeland Securities. They 1267 01:08:20,320 --> 01:08:22,479 Speaker 5: got them letters on the back of their jackie and 1268 01:08:22,600 --> 01:08:29,120 Speaker 5: that jacket blue. It's serious. There are no charges right. 1269 01:08:29,000 --> 01:08:35,599 Speaker 15: Now, Okay, gathering, you know, but they're not guessing, you're saying, 1270 01:08:35,600 --> 01:08:38,160 Speaker 15: they're not going on a hunch. They have some concrete 1271 01:08:38,280 --> 01:08:42,000 Speaker 15: evidence that made them want to raid his homes like that, right. 1272 01:08:42,040 --> 01:08:45,840 Speaker 5: When they send that many people guns they spend that 1273 01:08:46,120 --> 01:08:47,240 Speaker 5: kind of money on. 1274 01:08:48,640 --> 01:08:49,400 Speaker 2: They serious. 1275 01:08:49,600 --> 01:08:54,080 Speaker 5: Now Diddy's plane being in antiquity, they don't They didn't 1276 01:08:54,120 --> 01:08:56,479 Speaker 5: know if he was on it or not yet, right, 1277 01:08:57,040 --> 01:09:01,960 Speaker 5: but it doesn't matter at this point. The only thing 1278 01:09:02,080 --> 01:09:06,639 Speaker 5: that can be happening right now to me is Diddy's 1279 01:09:06,680 --> 01:09:09,639 Speaker 5: lawyers got to be talking to them right now. 1280 01:09:10,320 --> 01:09:13,360 Speaker 2: Find out where we're going with this. What's the basis 1281 01:09:13,560 --> 01:09:15,439 Speaker 2: of the warrant? 1282 01:09:16,200 --> 01:09:16,240 Speaker 5: What? 1283 01:09:16,640 --> 01:09:17,640 Speaker 3: Uh what? 1284 01:09:17,880 --> 01:09:20,560 Speaker 5: What are what are they looking for? What can they substantiate? 1285 01:09:21,200 --> 01:09:23,920 Speaker 5: And I mean, I mean, what's the end game? Because 1286 01:09:23,960 --> 01:09:26,200 Speaker 5: at one point in time somebody got to go down 1287 01:09:26,280 --> 01:09:29,000 Speaker 5: and talk and so you know, they can arrange for 1288 01:09:29,240 --> 01:09:33,800 Speaker 5: for Diddy to come in and talk voluntarily. Yeah, but 1289 01:09:34,000 --> 01:09:37,120 Speaker 5: right now, I mean all, I mean, you know they there, 1290 01:09:37,240 --> 01:09:40,120 Speaker 5: So it's it's it's really really serious. 1291 01:09:40,560 --> 01:09:44,200 Speaker 1: Yes, ongoing. You're right, it's an ongoing investigation. And we'll 1292 01:09:44,240 --> 01:09:44,960 Speaker 1: keep you posted. 1293 01:09:45,439 --> 01:09:45,840 Speaker 3: Telly up. 1294 01:09:45,880 --> 01:09:48,320 Speaker 1: We'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right 1295 01:09:48,400 --> 01:09:54,880 Speaker 1: after this. You're listening Harvey Morning Show. All right, stee, 1296 01:09:54,960 --> 01:09:57,519 Speaker 1: This is from Lisa on Steve Harvey FM. She needs 1297 01:09:57,560 --> 01:10:00,240 Speaker 1: some advice, she says. My coworker, who I've I worked 1298 01:10:00,240 --> 01:10:02,960 Speaker 1: with for two years, has always been really nice to me, 1299 01:10:03,400 --> 01:10:05,479 Speaker 1: and I thought he might have a crush on me. 1300 01:10:05,880 --> 01:10:07,800 Speaker 1: My last boyfriend and I broke up a couple of 1301 01:10:07,880 --> 01:10:10,759 Speaker 1: months ago, and I've been kind of kind of flirting 1302 01:10:10,840 --> 01:10:14,280 Speaker 1: with my coworker, dropping little hints that i'd be open 1303 01:10:14,360 --> 01:10:17,759 Speaker 1: to asking to him asking me out. But he doesn't 1304 01:10:17,800 --> 01:10:20,080 Speaker 1: seem to be taking the hint. Should I take it 1305 01:10:20,160 --> 01:10:23,200 Speaker 1: as a sign that he's just nice and not really interested, 1306 01:10:23,520 --> 01:10:25,600 Speaker 1: or should I be blunt with him and make the 1307 01:10:25,720 --> 01:10:26,360 Speaker 1: first move. 1308 01:10:26,760 --> 01:10:28,280 Speaker 5: Well, you can go and be blunt, but you might 1309 01:10:28,320 --> 01:10:30,639 Speaker 5: get blunt back. I remember this a new day now, 1310 01:10:30,880 --> 01:10:33,800 Speaker 5: so go ahead and be blunt. He might be blunt too. 1311 01:10:35,200 --> 01:10:39,160 Speaker 1: Oh gosh, if she might ask me, well, you know. 1312 01:10:39,240 --> 01:10:41,679 Speaker 5: The rejection, you know, it could be you know, pronoun 1313 01:10:41,840 --> 01:10:44,960 Speaker 5: could be anything. You never know, got to be aware 1314 01:10:44,960 --> 01:10:49,720 Speaker 5: of its twenty fifth night. Yeah, all you. 1315 01:10:50,000 --> 01:10:52,840 Speaker 1: Because someone's nice to you doesn't mean they're interested in 1316 01:10:52,960 --> 01:10:53,360 Speaker 1: that way. 1317 01:10:53,920 --> 01:10:56,240 Speaker 2: Well, not no more, not no more. He used to, 1318 01:10:56,439 --> 01:11:00,320 Speaker 2: but not no more, not no more, Not in twenty twenty. Folks. 1319 01:11:00,800 --> 01:11:04,360 Speaker 2: There's too much going on out here. You just never know. 1320 01:11:05,800 --> 01:11:09,160 Speaker 1: All right, So she shouldn't, you're saying. If she does, 1321 01:11:09,720 --> 01:11:10,519 Speaker 1: I still go ahead. 1322 01:11:10,560 --> 01:11:13,840 Speaker 2: But get ready, though, be prepared your feelings together. 1323 01:11:13,920 --> 01:11:16,360 Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, you have, you know, you know, you know, 1324 01:11:16,479 --> 01:11:19,080 Speaker 5: make sure you're mentally capable of handling what you're fit 1325 01:11:19,200 --> 01:11:19,479 Speaker 5: to hear. 1326 01:11:20,040 --> 01:11:22,320 Speaker 1: Okay, so shoot your shot, but. 1327 01:11:23,360 --> 01:11:25,920 Speaker 2: Shoot your shot, but get ready to get shot shot. 1328 01:11:29,760 --> 01:11:34,000 Speaker 2: Go ahead with your hand on your chef. 1329 01:11:36,040 --> 01:11:38,280 Speaker 1: She says, he's really been nice to her, though, and 1330 01:11:38,400 --> 01:11:39,600 Speaker 1: he wearrush on. 1331 01:11:39,680 --> 01:11:41,639 Speaker 2: Her might. 1332 01:11:43,240 --> 01:11:45,280 Speaker 5: When the last you might have thought the dude had 1333 01:11:45,280 --> 01:11:49,439 Speaker 5: a crush over We're from that generation where it might 1334 01:11:49,520 --> 01:11:49,960 Speaker 5: have would have. 1335 01:11:50,200 --> 01:11:52,559 Speaker 2: Could you know for sure? 1336 01:11:53,000 --> 01:11:53,200 Speaker 3: Oh? 1337 01:11:53,439 --> 01:11:54,000 Speaker 2: Hell yeah? 1338 01:11:55,400 --> 01:11:59,439 Speaker 1: All right? Moving on to Melinda and Steve Harvey f M. 1339 01:12:00,360 --> 01:12:02,800 Speaker 1: Melinda says, the last guy I had sex with. Was 1340 01:12:02,840 --> 01:12:05,400 Speaker 1: a friend with benefits that I was getting together with 1341 01:12:05,560 --> 01:12:08,599 Speaker 1: pretty regularly for almost a year, and who was only 1342 01:12:08,680 --> 01:12:11,639 Speaker 1: the fourth guy I was ever with. Well, he recently 1343 01:12:11,680 --> 01:12:15,160 Speaker 1: got engaged. I know we didn't love one another, but 1344 01:12:15,360 --> 01:12:18,519 Speaker 1: for some reason, I'm having a really hard time accepting 1345 01:12:18,560 --> 01:12:21,839 Speaker 1: that he's getting married after us only having stopped sleeping 1346 01:12:21,880 --> 01:12:24,840 Speaker 1: together a few months ago. Maybe I felt more for 1347 01:12:24,960 --> 01:12:28,280 Speaker 1: him than I wanted to admit. Even though we weren't dating, 1348 01:12:28,600 --> 01:12:31,479 Speaker 1: it was the best relationship I've had in a few years. 1349 01:12:31,960 --> 01:12:35,240 Speaker 1: Is it normal to feel jealous over a lost hook 1350 01:12:35,320 --> 01:12:37,760 Speaker 1: up even though it was never going anywhere? Do I 1351 01:12:37,880 --> 01:12:39,840 Speaker 1: just need to get back out there and start dating 1352 01:12:40,240 --> 01:12:41,599 Speaker 1: to help get over this feeling? 1353 01:12:41,960 --> 01:12:42,200 Speaker 2: Wow? 1354 01:12:43,000 --> 01:12:45,280 Speaker 1: Yes, yes to everything. 1355 01:12:45,880 --> 01:12:51,439 Speaker 2: Yeah, let's just simplify this merry go round and jumped 1356 01:12:51,520 --> 01:12:51,880 Speaker 2: us round? 1357 01:12:51,920 --> 01:12:53,080 Speaker 3: What so? 1358 01:12:53,280 --> 01:12:56,680 Speaker 1: Yes, it's it's normal to feel jealous. Oh yeah, I 1359 01:12:56,800 --> 01:12:59,839 Speaker 1: lost hook up, okay, even though it was never going anywhere. 1360 01:13:00,439 --> 01:13:01,400 Speaker 2: Wasn't going nowhere? 1361 01:13:01,920 --> 01:13:02,280 Speaker 4: Uh huh? 1362 01:13:02,439 --> 01:13:04,559 Speaker 2: And then she all, y'all was was friends with. 1363 01:13:04,640 --> 01:13:07,519 Speaker 1: Benefits with Benny's Yeah, and then she said it was 1364 01:13:07,600 --> 01:13:11,720 Speaker 1: test driving bread Yeah, And what's your theory? What you 1365 01:13:11,920 --> 01:13:13,320 Speaker 1: what you're saying about testing women? 1366 01:13:13,400 --> 01:13:16,320 Speaker 5: Gotta be careful test driving because y'all always wind up 1367 01:13:16,400 --> 01:13:22,639 Speaker 5: getting drove, all right, and then the low you test driving, 1368 01:13:22,720 --> 01:13:25,000 Speaker 5: but he driving off in a Mercedes somewhere else. 1369 01:13:25,080 --> 01:13:26,080 Speaker 2: It's called a wedding. 1370 01:13:26,479 --> 01:13:28,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, he's getting married. And then she wants to know, 1371 01:13:28,880 --> 01:13:30,560 Speaker 1: do I just need to get back out there and 1372 01:13:30,680 --> 01:13:31,400 Speaker 1: start dating. 1373 01:13:31,439 --> 01:13:33,679 Speaker 5: You don't need to get back out there because you stupid. 1374 01:13:34,040 --> 01:13:36,400 Speaker 5: You don't know, you don't know the rules, and you 1375 01:13:36,479 --> 01:13:38,519 Speaker 5: don't know how it goes. You don't need to get 1376 01:13:38,600 --> 01:13:41,360 Speaker 5: back out there. You need to get within yourself and 1377 01:13:42,160 --> 01:13:45,120 Speaker 5: discover what you want. Find out what you're looking for, 1378 01:13:45,479 --> 01:13:48,640 Speaker 5: and set yourself some new goals and some new principles, 1379 01:13:48,840 --> 01:13:53,519 Speaker 5: and get yourself a whole whole new set of what 1380 01:13:53,640 --> 01:13:54,320 Speaker 5: am I looking for? 1381 01:13:55,439 --> 01:13:56,240 Speaker 2: What it starting? 1382 01:13:56,320 --> 01:14:01,120 Speaker 1: Standards, standards, Yeah, you need all that to you all that. 1383 01:14:01,320 --> 01:14:03,160 Speaker 1: She needs to value yourself. 1384 01:14:03,240 --> 01:14:05,519 Speaker 2: Because you don't have that. To get stop. 1385 01:14:05,800 --> 01:14:07,439 Speaker 5: The last thing you need to do is go back 1386 01:14:07,520 --> 01:14:11,120 Speaker 5: out there with this mindset because you're gonna get drove again. 1387 01:14:11,520 --> 01:14:11,640 Speaker 7: Right. 1388 01:14:11,760 --> 01:14:15,519 Speaker 2: Stop test driving when it ain't what you do, right. 1389 01:14:16,280 --> 01:14:18,400 Speaker 1: She she wants to get over this feeling, and that's 1390 01:14:18,479 --> 01:14:19,719 Speaker 1: only temporary, right. 1391 01:14:19,960 --> 01:14:23,040 Speaker 5: Y'all can't get over feeling with another feeling. That's what 1392 01:14:23,320 --> 01:14:25,280 Speaker 5: me and do we get over another you with a you. 1393 01:14:25,560 --> 01:14:28,200 Speaker 5: You gotta go get it, you gotta go find yourself system. 1394 01:14:28,280 --> 01:14:32,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's right, all right, thank you, Steve Moore. The 1395 01:14:32,280 --> 01:14:34,679 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at twenty minutes after 1396 01:14:34,720 --> 01:14:39,240 Speaker 1: the hour, right after this. You're listening Harvey Morning Show. 1397 01:14:41,240 --> 01:14:44,320 Speaker 1: All right, So, Steve, a divorce lawyer in Arizona, has 1398 01:14:44,360 --> 01:14:48,080 Speaker 1: sparked a debate on social media after revealing the five 1399 01:14:48,160 --> 01:14:52,080 Speaker 1: occupations she says have the highest percentage of cheaters. These 1400 01:14:52,120 --> 01:14:54,280 Speaker 1: are the most common jobs of those who cheat on 1401 01:14:54,439 --> 01:14:58,479 Speaker 1: their spouse based on her experience, She says, Number five 1402 01:14:59,000 --> 01:15:05,759 Speaker 1: pilots and fl attendants. Oh that's number five, okay. Number 1403 01:15:05,840 --> 01:15:10,600 Speaker 1: four men in the military, men in the military. 1404 01:15:10,920 --> 01:15:12,800 Speaker 2: Women in Holland. They ain't never been in the. 1405 01:15:12,840 --> 01:15:23,559 Speaker 1: Military, okay. Number three bartenders don't even drink. Number two 1406 01:15:24,400 --> 01:15:32,920 Speaker 1: police officers, police, Oh yeah, what Number one? Who do 1407 01:15:32,960 --> 01:15:35,479 Speaker 1: you think is number one? Just take a wild guest, 1408 01:15:36,160 --> 01:15:44,000 Speaker 1: doc ranchers, politicians, firefighters, firefighters, they put. 1409 01:15:43,920 --> 01:15:49,240 Speaker 2: Fires out everywhere. No, they down there, they down they 1410 01:15:49,360 --> 01:15:51,880 Speaker 2: down there at to beleeve at that station. Two three days. 1411 01:15:52,800 --> 01:15:55,200 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I know. 1412 01:15:55,320 --> 01:15:58,519 Speaker 2: They covered for each other. Oh, so they say they 1413 01:15:58,560 --> 01:16:00,439 Speaker 2: have to go to work in there. 1414 01:16:00,520 --> 01:16:01,840 Speaker 1: Oh okay, all. 1415 01:16:01,800 --> 01:16:03,720 Speaker 2: Right, and then put the fires out. 1416 01:16:04,840 --> 01:16:08,200 Speaker 1: So yeah, no doctors, no politicians, none of that, no 1417 01:16:08,320 --> 01:16:09,080 Speaker 1: one in media. 1418 01:16:09,840 --> 01:16:14,960 Speaker 15: They didn't mention that the first responder is just I know, police, 1419 01:16:15,560 --> 01:16:18,960 Speaker 15: all that stress coming up with thirty three minutes after 1420 01:16:19,080 --> 01:16:20,720 Speaker 15: the hour, we'll play a round it. 1421 01:16:20,800 --> 01:16:25,920 Speaker 1: Would you rather right after this you're listening morning show, 1422 01:16:26,640 --> 01:16:29,080 Speaker 1: It's time for a rounded? Would you rather? Would you 1423 01:16:29,240 --> 01:16:32,240 Speaker 1: rather be the loudest person in the room, or would 1424 01:16:32,280 --> 01:16:35,000 Speaker 1: you rather be the quietest person in the room? 1425 01:16:35,680 --> 01:16:38,599 Speaker 2: Quietest? Shut up? Shut them out? 1426 01:16:39,880 --> 01:16:42,240 Speaker 6: Quiet Junior, I'll be last. 1427 01:16:44,000 --> 01:16:44,439 Speaker 3: I go ahead. 1428 01:16:44,479 --> 01:16:44,840 Speaker 4: What happen? 1429 01:16:44,880 --> 01:16:47,680 Speaker 3: Name man? I got going on? 1430 01:16:49,800 --> 01:16:50,479 Speaker 2: No Jr. 1431 01:16:50,720 --> 01:16:56,680 Speaker 5: Ju Just because you got the highest voice, ain't gonna mey. 1432 01:16:58,920 --> 01:16:58,960 Speaker 15: Go? 1433 01:17:00,720 --> 01:17:01,679 Speaker 2: What about you, Steve? 1434 01:17:01,840 --> 01:17:03,000 Speaker 1: Quietest or loudest? 1435 01:17:03,320 --> 01:17:04,880 Speaker 5: Well, I got to be lived. I've made all my 1436 01:17:05,000 --> 01:17:06,800 Speaker 5: money talking more than anybody else. 1437 01:17:06,880 --> 01:17:10,040 Speaker 4: So okay, all right? 1438 01:17:10,080 --> 01:17:13,320 Speaker 1: Would you rather be with someone who hates your favorite 1439 01:17:13,400 --> 01:17:16,200 Speaker 1: food or who hates your pet? 1440 01:17:17,240 --> 01:17:18,639 Speaker 2: Don't hate my favorite dog? 1441 01:17:19,200 --> 01:17:24,120 Speaker 6: Yeah I hate the dog? Yeah you rather what somebody 1442 01:17:24,160 --> 01:17:25,080 Speaker 6: would the picture? 1443 01:17:25,760 --> 01:17:26,000 Speaker 2: Okay? 1444 01:17:26,360 --> 01:17:26,519 Speaker 3: Pet? 1445 01:17:27,240 --> 01:17:31,559 Speaker 13: My food though, my favorite wood, but I'm gonna eat 1446 01:17:31,640 --> 01:17:36,479 Speaker 13: it in front of you. You hating what's on your plate. 1447 01:17:37,439 --> 01:17:39,280 Speaker 5: That's a good way that they want to really care 1448 01:17:40,120 --> 01:17:42,559 Speaker 5: because you don't care about the time from I can't 1449 01:17:42,600 --> 01:17:43,400 Speaker 5: stand that dog. 1450 01:17:43,560 --> 01:17:46,639 Speaker 2: Either. Feeling is mutual. 1451 01:17:50,000 --> 01:17:53,879 Speaker 1: Would you rather live by yourself on an inhabited island 1452 01:17:54,000 --> 01:17:56,679 Speaker 1: or would you rather live in a two bedroom, one 1453 01:17:56,800 --> 01:18:00,439 Speaker 1: bathroom apartment with seven people? Wow? 1454 01:18:01,240 --> 01:18:02,280 Speaker 2: Oh they all ladies? 1455 01:18:03,000 --> 01:18:08,880 Speaker 1: Rather seven people inhabited where people are on. 1456 01:18:08,920 --> 01:18:11,479 Speaker 6: The island or not on the island. 1457 01:18:12,520 --> 01:18:16,479 Speaker 2: But you, yeah, you want to live in a partner 1458 01:18:16,560 --> 01:18:17,200 Speaker 2: with seven. 1459 01:18:17,000 --> 01:18:19,120 Speaker 1: People with one bathroom? 1460 01:18:19,920 --> 01:18:24,360 Speaker 5: No, No, I'm gonna go from here on that island 1461 01:18:24,560 --> 01:18:28,679 Speaker 5: with that house, nice crib. But you said inhabited, which 1462 01:18:28,760 --> 01:18:29,519 Speaker 5: means people are. 1463 01:18:29,760 --> 01:18:33,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, inhabit it means people. Uninhabited means no people. 1464 01:18:33,960 --> 01:18:34,799 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's. 1465 01:18:36,360 --> 01:18:39,680 Speaker 1: That you should so by yourself on the island. 1466 01:18:39,400 --> 01:18:40,520 Speaker 2: With no people. 1467 01:18:42,960 --> 01:18:44,559 Speaker 1: People, no people? 1468 01:18:45,000 --> 01:18:45,280 Speaker 2: People? 1469 01:18:45,439 --> 01:18:46,640 Speaker 6: Which one you want to be? 1470 01:18:47,720 --> 01:18:50,040 Speaker 1: Don't get mad at that, Just answer the question. 1471 01:18:50,439 --> 01:18:52,720 Speaker 2: No people? Or saw you read it? 1472 01:18:54,320 --> 01:18:56,639 Speaker 1: I read it how it was on the paper. 1473 01:18:59,720 --> 01:19:01,519 Speaker 2: Well, I'm not gonna be in this house with these 1474 01:19:01,600 --> 01:19:04,519 Speaker 2: seven people in this one bathroom. That's not that's not. 1475 01:19:05,320 --> 01:19:07,639 Speaker 1: Not seven all women. 1476 01:19:07,800 --> 01:19:10,320 Speaker 2: Hell, you really ain't gonna get in that bathroom. 1477 01:19:12,920 --> 01:19:13,080 Speaker 5: Time. 1478 01:19:13,160 --> 01:19:13,680 Speaker 2: Which one is? 1479 01:19:18,080 --> 01:19:18,400 Speaker 3: All right? 1480 01:19:18,479 --> 01:19:21,240 Speaker 1: That's today's rounded. Would you rather coming up next to 1481 01:19:21,240 --> 01:19:23,400 Speaker 1: our last break of the day and we'll have some 1482 01:19:23,520 --> 01:19:26,360 Speaker 1: closing remarks from the one and only Steve Harvey right 1483 01:19:26,400 --> 01:19:32,920 Speaker 1: after this. You're listening Harvey Morning Show. Here we are, guys, 1484 01:19:32,960 --> 01:19:36,439 Speaker 1: our last break of the day and Steve, before we 1485 01:19:36,520 --> 01:19:39,280 Speaker 1: get out of here, we have a question for you 1486 01:19:39,439 --> 01:19:44,120 Speaker 1: from a Sandra Jackson. She's a fan of yours unfamily feud. 1487 01:19:44,880 --> 01:19:48,160 Speaker 16: Hey, it's me again, Standard. Oh my god. 1488 01:19:48,960 --> 01:19:51,920 Speaker 14: I know you're probably tilling me saying this, mister Steve Hagges, 1489 01:19:52,479 --> 01:19:55,320 Speaker 14: But when I say, you were born for this, you 1490 01:19:55,479 --> 01:20:00,160 Speaker 14: were born just for this, this beautiful. 1491 01:20:00,160 --> 01:20:07,519 Speaker 16: Blue, black, purple wave soup man, you rocket with that shirt, 1492 01:20:07,640 --> 01:20:10,519 Speaker 16: in that tie and a beautiful China shoes. 1493 01:20:10,760 --> 01:20:14,040 Speaker 14: Oh my god. You know I becan't wait for you 1494 01:20:14,120 --> 01:20:16,040 Speaker 14: to come out. I can't wait for you to come 1495 01:20:16,080 --> 01:20:18,360 Speaker 14: out ran that corner so I can see what color 1496 01:20:18,439 --> 01:20:21,559 Speaker 14: suit you got on. When I say, you've got men 1497 01:20:22,040 --> 01:20:26,320 Speaker 14: looking at you, every race, every color, they just want 1498 01:20:26,360 --> 01:20:29,800 Speaker 14: to wear they suit like you wear yours. I am 1499 01:20:30,040 --> 01:20:32,760 Speaker 14: so proud of you, and you done made me laugh 1500 01:20:33,040 --> 01:20:35,640 Speaker 14: ever since I turned to the family few you make 1501 01:20:35,720 --> 01:20:38,640 Speaker 14: me laugh so hard. Okay, keep on being blessed in 1502 01:20:38,760 --> 01:20:40,840 Speaker 14: Jesus name, Thank you, bye bye. 1503 01:20:47,840 --> 01:20:51,960 Speaker 2: Thank you. Right, sure, don't need to keep being blessed 1504 01:20:52,000 --> 01:20:52,439 Speaker 2: in Jesus. 1505 01:20:52,520 --> 01:20:57,040 Speaker 6: That junior one she said, Oh, Steve Harves, I know me. 1506 01:20:57,280 --> 01:20:59,120 Speaker 6: She din call here multiple time looking for you. 1507 01:21:04,240 --> 01:21:05,519 Speaker 1: Yeah, all the way down. 1508 01:21:07,200 --> 01:21:14,760 Speaker 2: No clue what she talked about. That's nothing. Yeah, yeah, 1509 01:21:14,880 --> 01:21:18,560 Speaker 2: you know it is such a blessing, man. I just 1510 01:21:20,000 --> 01:21:20,599 Speaker 2: you know, I did. 1511 01:21:20,800 --> 01:21:23,160 Speaker 5: I did a period, man, while I was asking God 1512 01:21:23,280 --> 01:21:26,520 Speaker 5: for so much, and I was getting a little frustrated 1513 01:21:27,080 --> 01:21:31,280 Speaker 5: because it wasn't happening when I wanted it to, and 1514 01:21:31,400 --> 01:21:34,320 Speaker 5: I couldn't figure out why, because I had done everything 1515 01:21:34,479 --> 01:21:37,840 Speaker 5: I was supposed to. But there was a lesson in 1516 01:21:37,960 --> 01:21:40,400 Speaker 5: it for me to learn, because what had happened was 1517 01:21:40,960 --> 01:21:44,439 Speaker 5: I kept asking him for this, and I kept going, Lord, why, 1518 01:21:44,640 --> 01:21:46,880 Speaker 5: I mean, I've done everything you've asked me to do. 1519 01:21:47,120 --> 01:21:47,639 Speaker 2: Why why? 1520 01:21:47,840 --> 01:21:48,000 Speaker 3: Why? 1521 01:21:48,160 --> 01:21:48,320 Speaker 2: Why? 1522 01:21:48,520 --> 01:21:48,680 Speaker 3: Why? 1523 01:21:48,880 --> 01:21:49,080 Speaker 2: Why? 1524 01:21:49,800 --> 01:21:54,080 Speaker 5: And then he said, go home. So he arranged it 1525 01:21:54,160 --> 01:21:57,240 Speaker 5: where the deal didn't happen, and he sent me home 1526 01:21:58,120 --> 01:22:01,160 Speaker 5: and I'm homegoing. Man, these deals didn't happen. I did 1527 01:22:01,240 --> 01:22:03,280 Speaker 5: everything I was supposed to do. Blah blah blah blah, 1528 01:22:03,280 --> 01:22:07,000 Speaker 5: blah blah blah. He said, yeah, but you forgot though 1529 01:22:08,320 --> 01:22:12,920 Speaker 5: in your quest for asking me for so much, you 1530 01:22:13,160 --> 01:22:18,320 Speaker 5: forgot what all I've done for you. You keep forgetting that, man, 1531 01:22:19,640 --> 01:22:22,200 Speaker 5: and I know you want more. And you got more 1532 01:22:22,320 --> 01:22:25,360 Speaker 5: dreams and aspirations because the Bible says a man without 1533 01:22:25,400 --> 01:22:27,960 Speaker 5: a dream or visions your parents I got. 1534 01:22:28,080 --> 01:22:31,280 Speaker 2: I told you to have dreams and vision. But you 1535 01:22:31,400 --> 01:22:34,880 Speaker 2: should also be grateful. See you forget. 1536 01:22:35,200 --> 01:22:39,200 Speaker 5: Sometimes when you get so focused on what you don't have, 1537 01:22:39,960 --> 01:22:44,200 Speaker 5: you lose focus of what you do have. And when 1538 01:22:44,240 --> 01:22:47,479 Speaker 5: you lose focus of what you do have, you lose 1539 01:22:47,680 --> 01:22:53,920 Speaker 5: the major component to success. It's gratitude, because why would 1540 01:22:54,000 --> 01:22:59,160 Speaker 5: God give you more empower on some more when you're 1541 01:22:59,240 --> 01:23:03,639 Speaker 5: not great for what you already have. I mean, I've 1542 01:23:03,720 --> 01:23:06,519 Speaker 5: used this analogy a hundred times. It's one of your neighbors. 1543 01:23:06,600 --> 01:23:09,200 Speaker 5: Let's say people come by, Remember remember peoples to come 1544 01:23:09,240 --> 01:23:10,880 Speaker 5: out and boll a couple of sugar? Can I get 1545 01:23:10,920 --> 01:23:12,760 Speaker 5: a cup of sugar from? And you gave them a 1546 01:23:12,800 --> 01:23:15,000 Speaker 5: cup of sugar, And then next week they came and 1547 01:23:15,080 --> 01:23:17,840 Speaker 5: got another cup of sugar. Man, I'm out of sugar again. 1548 01:23:17,920 --> 01:23:19,600 Speaker 5: Can you give me another cup of sugar? And you 1549 01:23:19,680 --> 01:23:21,759 Speaker 5: give them another cup of sugar, and they take sugar, 1550 01:23:21,840 --> 01:23:25,559 Speaker 5: they just walk away. How many times could that person 1551 01:23:25,680 --> 01:23:28,320 Speaker 5: come to you and ask for a cup of sugar 1552 01:23:28,680 --> 01:23:30,960 Speaker 5: without you checking them and going, hey, you know what, man, 1553 01:23:32,040 --> 01:23:34,160 Speaker 5: you keep coming by here asking me for a couple 1554 01:23:34,160 --> 01:23:38,320 Speaker 5: of sugar. You don't ever say thank you. Huh, you 1555 01:23:38,400 --> 01:23:39,519 Speaker 5: don't ever say thank you? 1556 01:23:40,640 --> 01:23:41,240 Speaker 2: What you mean? 1557 01:23:41,720 --> 01:23:41,800 Speaker 8: Now? 1558 01:23:41,920 --> 01:23:42,559 Speaker 2: What I mean? 1559 01:23:43,960 --> 01:23:46,519 Speaker 5: I keep giving you a cup of sugar and you 1560 01:23:46,640 --> 01:23:52,080 Speaker 5: don't ever say thank you? Oh man, you tripping? Well, 1561 01:23:52,200 --> 01:23:55,320 Speaker 5: I tell you what, since I'm tripping, don't come by 1562 01:23:55,360 --> 01:23:56,679 Speaker 5: here and ask for no more sugar. 1563 01:23:57,680 --> 01:23:59,160 Speaker 2: I'll show you. Well. 1564 01:23:59,200 --> 01:24:02,519 Speaker 5: That's the human way of dealing with it. But let's 1565 01:24:02,600 --> 01:24:06,120 Speaker 5: think about God for a second. Let's think about all 1566 01:24:06,320 --> 01:24:08,719 Speaker 5: the stuff he does for you on a daily basis 1567 01:24:09,880 --> 01:24:12,479 Speaker 5: that he don't get thanked for. How many times has 1568 01:24:12,560 --> 01:24:17,040 Speaker 5: God awakened you and you didn't say thank you? You 1569 01:24:17,120 --> 01:24:19,000 Speaker 5: know how many breaths you take during the course of 1570 01:24:19,040 --> 01:24:22,080 Speaker 5: a day. Do you realize, man, that God allows you 1571 01:24:22,160 --> 01:24:26,559 Speaker 5: to take these breaths every step you take. There are 1572 01:24:26,680 --> 01:24:30,360 Speaker 5: people who are immobile, man. There are people who need 1573 01:24:30,560 --> 01:24:34,719 Speaker 5: ventilators to breathe. There are people who need hearing aids. 1574 01:24:35,120 --> 01:24:38,360 Speaker 5: There are people who need van lifts just to get 1575 01:24:38,400 --> 01:24:41,400 Speaker 5: up in the car and get transported somewhere. There are 1576 01:24:41,560 --> 01:24:45,720 Speaker 5: people man on respirators. There are people man who need 1577 01:24:45,920 --> 01:24:49,599 Speaker 5: hover rounds. There are people using walkers, There are people 1578 01:24:49,720 --> 01:24:52,360 Speaker 5: on crutches. There are people who can't move at all. 1579 01:24:52,720 --> 01:24:55,439 Speaker 5: But yet instilled these things that you take for granted, 1580 01:24:55,520 --> 01:24:58,400 Speaker 5: you never say thank you for. And I had to 1581 01:24:58,479 --> 01:25:02,600 Speaker 5: catch myself. I said, wow, So what he did was 1582 01:25:02,640 --> 01:25:05,599 Speaker 5: he made me come home and look around and look 1583 01:25:05,640 --> 01:25:09,519 Speaker 5: at all He's done for me. Now, however, meager your 1584 01:25:09,600 --> 01:25:13,759 Speaker 5: place of residence may be, have you realized that it's yours? 1585 01:25:14,520 --> 01:25:16,880 Speaker 5: That there is a joy that you get being able 1586 01:25:16,960 --> 01:25:19,599 Speaker 5: to say, no matter how it's going for you out there, 1587 01:25:19,840 --> 01:25:20,759 Speaker 5: I'm going home. 1588 01:25:21,439 --> 01:25:22,719 Speaker 2: I'm getting ready to go home. 1589 01:25:23,840 --> 01:25:27,280 Speaker 5: And somehow sticking your key in that door and shutting 1590 01:25:27,320 --> 01:25:30,720 Speaker 5: it and locking it back gives you a sense of security. 1591 01:25:31,479 --> 01:25:34,400 Speaker 5: I used to didn't have that. That was a period 1592 01:25:34,439 --> 01:25:36,439 Speaker 5: in my life where I couldn't say I'm going home. 1593 01:25:37,439 --> 01:25:40,080 Speaker 5: I just had to go get in that car. Man, 1594 01:25:40,200 --> 01:25:42,720 Speaker 5: when you lose that, that's something special. So I got 1595 01:25:42,760 --> 01:25:44,800 Speaker 5: to thinking about my life and I realized what all 1596 01:25:44,880 --> 01:25:48,960 Speaker 5: God had done for me, and I got overjoyed with 1597 01:25:49,200 --> 01:25:52,920 Speaker 5: all he'd done for me, to the point where I 1598 01:25:53,080 --> 01:25:56,280 Speaker 5: quit asking for something. I was just so busy thinking him, 1599 01:25:56,680 --> 01:25:59,000 Speaker 5: and then lo and behold, out of nowhere, he gave 1600 01:25:59,080 --> 01:26:02,720 Speaker 5: it to me because I had learned the lesson. So 1601 01:26:02,880 --> 01:26:05,320 Speaker 5: instead of getting taught the lesson, why don't we all 1602 01:26:05,520 --> 01:26:08,599 Speaker 5: just learn the lesson be grateful today because God has 1603 01:26:08,680 --> 01:26:09,439 Speaker 5: done a lot for you. 1604 01:26:09,680 --> 01:26:12,000 Speaker 2: He really really has. Those are my closing remarks. 1605 01:26:13,120 --> 01:26:15,080 Speaker 5: That's it, God, William, We'll see you all tomorrow. Hey, 1606 01:26:15,160 --> 01:26:17,640 Speaker 5: y'all talk to God today. He'd absolutely love to hear 1607 01:26:17,720 --> 01:26:18,000 Speaker 5: from you. 1608 01:26:29,240 --> 01:26:32,720 Speaker 1: For all Steve Harvey contests, no purchase necessary, void were prohibited. 1609 01:26:32,760 --> 01:26:36,240 Speaker 1: Participants must be legal US residents at least eighteen years old, 1610 01:26:36,360 --> 01:26:40,120 Speaker 1: unless otherwise stated. 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