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<v Speaker 1>Breakfast Club. Good morning, Ray, Ray, Ray, Yo, Charlotte man,

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<v Speaker 1>what up are we lying? Listen? Your time to get

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<v Speaker 1>it off your chest? Pool. We want to hear from

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<v Speaker 1>you on the Breakfast Club. Can get on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>right now. We're here to tell you what it is

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<v Speaker 1>we live. Hello. Here's every what's up track? Charlomagne Trive,

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<v Speaker 1>what's happening? Yes? Hi, how are you hey? Listen? You

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<v Speaker 1>are iconic, baby, Thank you, thank you. There's across the

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<v Speaker 1>board Radfrid Yes, hit the lottery and you know I

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<v Speaker 1>love you. I think you are one of the best

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<v Speaker 1>readers out there. You'd be reading the girl, and I

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<v Speaker 1>love thank you, thank you, thank you, speaking to reading,

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<v Speaker 1>speaking of reading the girls, Charlomagne yes Man. As a

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<v Speaker 1>further thought, it's your fault that we're not that we're

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<v Speaker 1>not in a super Bowl. Okay, it's Sharman's fault. We're

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<v Speaker 1>not in a super Bowl and I'm stuck in Philadelphia again.

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<v Speaker 1>At another is listening to them being the super Bowl

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<v Speaker 1>because you was out here friends and stuff that we're

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<v Speaker 1>not going to the super Bowl. One thing about me, Travis,

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<v Speaker 1>you know I'm always did with reality and I'm always

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<v Speaker 1>be realistic. You know I cannot be emotionally connected and

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<v Speaker 1>delusion of to my Dallas Cowboys anymore. Trust me, I

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<v Speaker 1>knew we weren't gonna do nothing this year, and you

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<v Speaker 1>were right. Hello, who's this? If I row slide down?

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<v Speaker 1>I ron? What's up? Getting a few chests? Man? People

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of money? Didn't stand word. I don't understand

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<v Speaker 1>why you can't just man your business, go to work

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<v Speaker 1>and come hold what you did? You just stole something?

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<v Speaker 1>What you didn't did you know't work? Actually what you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't did that? Somebody told on you bro pep people

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<v Speaker 1>beginning mad because what y hour you working? You see

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<v Speaker 1>you trying to just go home. You know, people all

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<v Speaker 1>in your business. I just get up for no reason.

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<v Speaker 1>I just told somebody who called in the mind their

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<v Speaker 1>business that he worried about who didn't who not coming

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<v Speaker 1>to work? Right? Man? Your business? We had us do.

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<v Speaker 1>One thing is that he's just money. And go on

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<v Speaker 1>what you're calling from? Brown? Okay, okay, smooth everybody in

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<v Speaker 1>Louisiana a brother? Yes, hello, who's this? D Knights from

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<v Speaker 1>Boxholder Jersey d Night or the Knights as a nighttime

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<v Speaker 1>All right, we'll get it off your chests. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to talk about this this morning. Yeah. Um, I

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<v Speaker 1>think there's a problem at home. I grew up in

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<v Speaker 1>the early nine either going to elementary school, and I

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<v Speaker 1>called the telling a teacher having permission to publish the

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<v Speaker 1>student yep. And when you was home, your grandparents and

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<v Speaker 1>your parents would take the jet aside no matter what. Yep.

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<v Speaker 1>If you acted up in school, you was in trouble

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<v Speaker 1>when you got home. And now they're talking to that.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, they got their own voice and to protected

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<v Speaker 1>emotions and stuff like that. So you know, I think

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<v Speaker 1>it's going a little too far. You know what she

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<v Speaker 1>is only making like forty k. You made me think

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<v Speaker 1>about something. Forty k's a lot, mom, most of my

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<v Speaker 1>mom ever made in a South Carolina with thirty thousand

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<v Speaker 1>a year. You made me think about something. She's beating

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<v Speaker 1>up on a dote at home because for her to

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<v Speaker 1>go out in the real world, I think she can

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<v Speaker 1>try and to do she doesn't want at home at

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<v Speaker 1>least once or twice. Yeah, ain't no, ain't no dough

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<v Speaker 1>that would be there asking the house. That's that's probably true.

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<v Speaker 1>But I would say this like he said. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I was at the telling of Miss Butterfield out in

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<v Speaker 1>Queen's Caribbean teacher who would grab my cheeks and twist

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<v Speaker 1>my cheeks if I wasn't paying attention. That's amuse I

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<v Speaker 1>mean a lot of no teachers, did you still amuse us?

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<v Speaker 1>I had a teacher name mister us up in four Gride.

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<v Speaker 1>She ain't never put her hands on me, but boys

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<v Speaker 1>to see her drafting kids around that classroom, and I

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<v Speaker 1>shout up, Miss Butterfield. Miss Butterfield, Me and her son

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<v Speaker 1>was good, but she would grab you, grab your cheek

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<v Speaker 1>if he wasn't paying attention. But he kept the students

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<v Speaker 1>in line. She grab your cheek. Now you're gonna get

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<v Speaker 1>a whole handful of ink because all that baby, get

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<v Speaker 1>it off your chest. Eight hundred five eight five one

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<v Speaker 1>oh five one. If you need to vent, hit this

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<v Speaker 1>up now. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast

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<v Speaker 1>Club from But these cops look like us. These cops

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<v Speaker 1>were you know, three of them were ques like like

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<v Speaker 1>they were us. You know what I mean? Hello? Who's this? Hello?

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<v Speaker 1>Breakfast club? Hey time you good morning? Get it off

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<v Speaker 1>your chests? Oh calling first of all, good morning, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>good morning. Um. I was just calling on with myself.

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<v Speaker 1>Happy your thirsday. It's your birthday, but she gonna for

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<v Speaker 1>your birthday, mama got to work. I wanted to plan

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<v Speaker 1>a big birthday party, but my mom passed away last year.

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry to hear that point. Yeah, let's state you in. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>what's your cash at Charlomagne and I put a little

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<v Speaker 1>something in your cash at for your birthday dinner to night? Nice?

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<v Speaker 1>What you sit there and cry? You better send that

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<v Speaker 1>cash ap put your cash at MoMA. We're gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>gonna put a little a little something in your thing

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<v Speaker 1>for your fiftith. Okay, my cash is um doll the

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<v Speaker 1>time finance you m E R and I'm gonna send

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<v Speaker 1>you fifty cents. You better not sending a fifty cents

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<v Speaker 1>ittieth birthday. I send you fifty cents, all right, I

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<v Speaker 1>just I just sent you something to your cash at nice.

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<v Speaker 1>I hope y'all send me something to man. Nina, you

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<v Speaker 1>kicked up. I don't see something's finest. I got it

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<v Speaker 1>right here, Tanya, something to su m p t e

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<v Speaker 1>r s finest far an est telling you something. She

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<v Speaker 1>got the grade, the great braids. Okay, I got you. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm all right, mom. I have a good night everybody,

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<v Speaker 1>and something man? Okay, mind is dollar sign? Ll thanks

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<v Speaker 1>your birthday, get it off your chest. Eight hundred five

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<v Speaker 1>eight five one oh five one. Now we have Ninie

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<v Speaker 1>Leaks joining us. She's our guests over all right, it's

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<v Speaker 1>the breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club. So the

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<v Speaker 1>question it is eight undred five eight five one oh

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<v Speaker 1>five one. Should you accept to get from somebody that

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<v Speaker 1>you're not interested in? Now this comes from real househoves

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<v Speaker 1>with Atlanta. Let's let's hear it. You're giving me a rolex?

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<v Speaker 1>Does that mean something? What are you think it means? Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>A rolex is timeless. Yeah, but if you let it

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<v Speaker 1>and you rewind it and you're working, it can last

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<v Speaker 1>five months. Okay, whatever that means. It's getting but I

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<v Speaker 1>still get this watching mad so Nini. Is this something

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<v Speaker 1>that you don't mind doing If somebody gives you a gift,

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<v Speaker 1>you like, hey, I'm keeping it. H Yeah, No, not really. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think you should accept a gifts. No, seriously,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think you should accept gifts from everyone that

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<v Speaker 1>you're not interested in. Okay, some guys. Look, I know

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<v Speaker 1>he was a nice guy. I know he wouldn't do

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<v Speaker 1>anything to me crazy, so and I want it to

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<v Speaker 1>get but I wanted to get. But don't you think

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<v Speaker 1>if somebody gives you something like a Rolex, right, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's ten thousand dollars. Yeah, he's not giving it to

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<v Speaker 1>you because he thinks you're cool. You know, he probably

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<v Speaker 1>wants to date you or but he thinks something cool.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why he wants to date me. But I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to date him. But I just wanted to get.

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<v Speaker 1>But he might think that that's like a leading like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>she's accepting and I am misleading him. So y'all don't

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<v Speaker 1>have a problem with it. As long as you don't

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<v Speaker 1>mislead him. You know, I'm saying, you gotta let that person. No,

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<v Speaker 1>this don't mean nothing. I don't owe you anything because

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<v Speaker 1>you gave me this watch. Don't think because you gave

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<v Speaker 1>me the gift, I'm gonna yeah, you know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>That understood. I don't have a problem with you taking

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<v Speaker 1>the gift. Yah know. I mean but even if you

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<v Speaker 1>do say that, he still think this is a chance

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<v Speaker 1>because you're accepting the gift. I mean yeah, but if

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<v Speaker 1>you're making it clear, like just because you're giving this gift,

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<v Speaker 1>that don't mean I'm giving you some of this boom boom?

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<v Speaker 1>You know? Can you also ask for other things? You know,

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<v Speaker 1>just because you gave me that this is not enough.

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<v Speaker 1>I'd like to have a car and shoes and bags.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I'll think about it. Think about what you

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<v Speaker 1>think about. Maybe you're going a date after all? Lot, No,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm go on the day. But sleeping with him, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we need to get some other stuff. What's the number

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<v Speaker 1>to sleep with? What somebody needing? Like? No, it's just

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<v Speaker 1>a his like he needed to do a lot because

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't attracted to him. Oh, this is a good

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<v Speaker 1>gifts to make him look a little sexier. Yeah so

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<v Speaker 1>you so okay, let's say, okay, you said you attracted

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<v Speaker 1>the little Baby game. I like little Baby. I was

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<v Speaker 1>attracted Sam. I like him. You attracted the game one

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<v Speaker 1>of them. You said, you know, I like him too.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not attracted to Yanni. Still, that's your fiance has

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<v Speaker 1>something I don't know. No, that's my boy. Okay, so

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<v Speaker 1>you were attracted to him. How much did he have

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<v Speaker 1>to buy before he got it wasn't a dinner vacation

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<v Speaker 1>when he gave gifts to Yea. Yeah, that's this moon

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<v Speaker 1>brother in the corner with the average with the accent

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<v Speaker 1>because an accident. I ain't crazy, Yeah, okay, okay, yeah

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<v Speaker 1>that brothers brother got let the pants on that six

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning. He ain't playing when I saw him

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<v Speaker 1>walk in this morning. Let the pants all six in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning, operator right, Yeah, but you know, even Yanni

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<v Speaker 1>he had to do the same things. You know dates.

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<v Speaker 1>You know he o gifts to Yahn't he hand come

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<v Speaker 1>out with them with the rollers from the door though, Yanni,

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<v Speaker 1>come in. Brother, you feel like I don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>go to frame till what the first gift you bought

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<v Speaker 1>with the nice teeth you got over there with the

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<v Speaker 1>first gift you brought when you need you better watch out.

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<v Speaker 1>He told about your man pants and the team. You

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<v Speaker 1>better watch out for Charlom Mane. Now he said, he

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<v Speaker 1>don't even remember he bought so many gifts. God damn it.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's go. Lot I was up here last week and

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<v Speaker 1>lot I said, you've got to get you an African man,

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<v Speaker 1>because then African man has been that bag. Remember she

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<v Speaker 1>said that happen guys. You know I would say, they

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<v Speaker 1>do take care of that lady, but you know, want

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<v Speaker 1>it done for me, like you know, something happened with us.

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't have a dated other African. Wow, heym it man?

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<v Speaker 1>What African? From? Brother? Okay? Okay, yeah, all right, well

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<v Speaker 1>let's go to the phone line. Hello, who's this from Georgia?

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Denise, talk to it. You're taking gifts some

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<v Speaker 1>people you're not interested in. Yeah, I take the role

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<v Speaker 1>at Wait now do you let them know that this

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<v Speaker 1>don't mean nothing just because you bought me this. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not gonna give you no ass Yeah, after I get

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<v Speaker 1>the gives reports, come on there, I'm my wife. Lord

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<v Speaker 1>that merged, so is there a certain price that the

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<v Speaker 1>person has to hit, and then you'd be like, all right, now,

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<v Speaker 1>time to give him something. Nahne I just want to

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<v Speaker 1>give all this crazy inflation is at an all time

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<v Speaker 1>high interest to Hi. Hello, who this hidy tish in

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<v Speaker 1>good morning? Morning? You accepting gets to somebody? Actually I

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<v Speaker 1>told him I couldn't accept it. I was staying this

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<v Speaker 1>guy here you go, woman, I liked him and he

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<v Speaker 1>got me an Apple watch, and girl, please knock it off. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm burning back. Yeah, you can turn out an Apple watch.

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<v Speaker 1>You get off with an Apple watch. God, I would

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<v Speaker 1>definitely give it back. What am I doing with Apple even?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not even mind I got an Apple Watch right

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<v Speaker 1>now and I'm never talking to him again. Jesus, somebody

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<v Speaker 1>ain't gotta stay in your wage though. You gotta stay

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<v Speaker 1>in the wage though. Some people gotta get it. But God,

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<v Speaker 1>that's true, But not an Apple watch? This gracious girl?

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<v Speaker 1>You think I give me a timema in five A

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<v Speaker 1>five one oh five one? Should you accept gifts from

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<v Speaker 1>someone you're not interested in? Call us now? It's the

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<v Speaker 1>breakfast club. Good morning, the breakfast Club. It's topic time,

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<v Speaker 1>eight hundred five eight five one oh five want to

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<v Speaker 1>join it to the discussion with the Breakfast Club Morning

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<v Speaker 1>everybody is j n V Charlomagne, the guys we are

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<v Speaker 1>the Breakfast Clubni leaks And just just to put it

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<v Speaker 1>out there, she's not accepting your Apple watching. I will

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<v Speaker 1>accept the Apple Watches. He's giving it to me and said, here,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just giving this to you to keep up with

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<v Speaker 1>your step. You know, you're working out or something. What

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<v Speaker 1>about if it's like a Michael cors backs, Like, here's

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<v Speaker 1>a Michael Court Michael co all right, never mind, get

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<v Speaker 1>that to your little teenage door. Michael right? Should you

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<v Speaker 1>except that gets from someone you're not interested in? It

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<v Speaker 1>comes from a real Housewives of LANDA. Of course you're

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<v Speaker 1>giving me a Rolex? Does that mean something? What are

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<v Speaker 1>you think it means? Oh? A rolex is timeless. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but if you let it and you rewind it and

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<v Speaker 1>you're working, it can last five Okay whatever that means.

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<v Speaker 1>It's getting weird. But I stidn't get this watch bling

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<v Speaker 1>bling lean. It's just mad and we're asking, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>what would you do? Hello? Who's this from Mississippi? How

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<v Speaker 1>are you? Should you accept gets from someone that you're

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<v Speaker 1>not interested in? It. So as long as say no

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<v Speaker 1>that you're not interested, I don't see a Probably I

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<v Speaker 1>agree as long as you put as long as you

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<v Speaker 1>let them know. Like, look, just because you give me

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<v Speaker 1>X Y and Z don't mean I'm giving you some

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<v Speaker 1>of this good good I think there's nothing wrong with it.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, him, this is good good. Now you're

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<v Speaker 1>from the country. Hello, Hello, who's this yo? Dante from Atlanta?

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<v Speaker 1>What's going on? Dante? What's bro? Hey? What's going on? Hey? Man?

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<v Speaker 1>First thing, before we get to the topic. I just

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<v Speaker 1>want to thank you and Charlotte man for all y'all do. Man,

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<v Speaker 1>y'all keep me rolling every day through the morning. Appreciate

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<v Speaker 1>you to talk to me. Yes, sir, I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>it's unnecessary for you that sptic gift because it creates

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<v Speaker 1>unnecessary motions like that wasn't even there. So if you

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<v Speaker 1>give a gift, you think that's you, you're smashing, that's

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<v Speaker 1>your girl. Now, No, not necessarily depends on the gift

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<v Speaker 1>a rolex. Yeah, if I give a rolling, yeah, that's

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<v Speaker 1>my girl. I'm no. See that's it. You can't have

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<v Speaker 1>that entitled you know, that entitlement. You know what I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>because because you know they always say it ain't tricking

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<v Speaker 1>if she's worth it, right, like if she's if she's

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<v Speaker 1>rolex worthing. You give a rolex, you know, it's like

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<v Speaker 1>you do it and hope for the best. Hello, who's this? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>good morning, good morning? Absolutely absolutely what yeah? Yeah you

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<v Speaker 1>ain't even absolutely yes, I'm taking the gifts. Let's tell

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<v Speaker 1>you something I was listening to respond. Okay, absolutely, you

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<v Speaker 1>should accept that a guest willingly. You don't lay no

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<v Speaker 1>stipulations down. We are sleeping together, So somebody gives you

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<v Speaker 1>a rolex that you're not interested in. You're taking that

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<v Speaker 1>rolex and you out absolutely because you want to know

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<v Speaker 1>something to day decided to give it to me for it? Nini,

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<v Speaker 1>do you lay any stipulations down? Do you let them know? Like,

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<v Speaker 1>ain't ain't happening now just because you gave me a gift?

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<v Speaker 1>Feel like we want to dinner? What's your restaurant? And

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<v Speaker 1>would you like to eat at? You know, we go

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<v Speaker 1>to dinner tonight. We can talk and yeah, but that's it.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you know I didn't do Yanni like that. Hello,

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't do you? Hello, good morning, good morning. What's

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<v Speaker 1>your name Devin, Devin, what's your thoughts, Devin? Are you

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<v Speaker 1>accepting gifts with somebody not interested in? Of course I

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<v Speaker 1>am not, and I love you, my husband adore you.

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<v Speaker 1>But I think it is so wrong to accept a

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<v Speaker 1>gift to somebody you have no interest with. I think

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<v Speaker 1>he mis lead them. I think, yeah, it gives something

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<v Speaker 1>the wrong message. And I think that's part of the

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<v Speaker 1>like part of why like soccer tapping, like open up

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<v Speaker 1>so many different hands on work. Yeah, I understand, but

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<v Speaker 1>I actually did, in the end date this guy for

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<v Speaker 1>a little while. I don't know if you guys remember

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<v Speaker 1>he's that sorry date like I have to do it

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<v Speaker 1>because he gave me order. No, he was giving me

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<v Speaker 1>so much. I was the guy. We saw this playout

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<v Speaker 1>on TV. Yeah, I did have to. I just felt

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<v Speaker 1>like I needed to day him. He was so good

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<v Speaker 1>to me. Who wasn't I don't want to shout him up.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't need to, h So, he was so good

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<v Speaker 1>to you, he gave you gifts, So why didn't it work?

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<v Speaker 1>It just didn't work. He's we're still are friends today.

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<v Speaker 1>He's a very nice guy. But um, I'm honestly, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just wasn't attracted to him. Okay, don't do that, I

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<v Speaker 1>tell you you, pepe j You know what I think too.

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<v Speaker 1>I think some of these women haven't received the right gift.

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<v Speaker 1>The only person I heard they give to get back

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<v Speaker 1>with the person who received the apple watch. Everybody getting

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<v Speaker 1>their rolexes and these big boy gives, these big girl

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<v Speaker 1>gifts ain't giving them back. But what's the mole of

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<v Speaker 1>the story. I think the mother of the story as

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<v Speaker 1>long as you let people know what it is. You

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<v Speaker 1>know what I think the mother of the story is.

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<v Speaker 1>You have to use good judgment, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>I knew that he wasn't a bad person. I knew

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<v Speaker 1>he wouldn't hurt me or anything like that. But you

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<v Speaker 1>can't accept everybody's gifts, all right? Did anybody ever ask

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<v Speaker 1>anything back? Who is everybody? Anybody? Anyone? No, you can't

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<v Speaker 1>get these gifts backs. They're not going back. What we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna do? What you want to be getting the back?

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<v Speaker 1>I respect that. I tell women all the time, you can't.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't on apphone, you know what I'm saying. You

0:18:55.720 --> 0:18:57.840
<v Speaker 1>can't that don't get to get back. I'm not giving

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<v Speaker 1>back anything. My goodness, it's the breakfast Come Morning, the

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<v Speaker 1>and you gotta come back on that bridge because everything

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<v Speaker 1>that go up come down, And so I just humble myself. Man.

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<v Speaker 1>I definitely feel the pain of all the oldgs that

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<v Speaker 1>have kids. I've been through a lot this year, bro.

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<v Speaker 1>So you know in hip hop, the kids are turning

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<v Speaker 1>on you. Everything you gotta deal with. And I get

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<v Speaker 1>out and fight and work for my kids. And I

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<v Speaker 1>look at and I'm gonna say the names because people

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<v Speaker 1>always change the realm. But everybody's going through something, whether

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<v Speaker 1>it's right or rome. But I feel like everything I've

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<v Speaker 1>been in life, I've been shot at, almost killed. I

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<v Speaker 1>grew up in the projects, I made it out. I

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<v Speaker 1>put the work in and then you know, we talk

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<v Speaker 1>about nine fifty years of hip hop. But look how

0:20:03.800 --> 0:20:06.879
<v Speaker 1>we're crumbling because we don't value each other. And so

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<v Speaker 1>anybody give you an opportunity, you should be able to

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<v Speaker 1>value that and be thankful anybody ever gave me an opportunity.

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<v Speaker 1>I know em when you came on and there was

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<v Speaker 1>like a joke and everybody saying like what I was saying. Y'allo, man,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not that many opportunities out here. Shout out the

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<v Speaker 1>fifty cent what he's doing in the TV game. But

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<v Speaker 1>when somebody come on the set, it's not from him.

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<v Speaker 1>You know your check is not gonna get cut from

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<v Speaker 1>that person. I mean, you're in the business. I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>Like when you look at George Lucas star Wars, those

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<v Speaker 1>checks don't come from him. But I will culture just

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<v Speaker 1>we just throw the blame at each other. And I

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<v Speaker 1>was just curious because I'm gonna tell you something. The

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<v Speaker 1>young lady that was on here, I love. I like her,

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<v Speaker 1>like chief funny to me like that's I wouldn't have

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<v Speaker 1>put it into the movie if I didn't feel like that.

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<v Speaker 1>So even other guy from DC, I wouldn't have put

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<v Speaker 1>him his music out. He's talented. I wouldn't have put

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<v Speaker 1>him I could honestly admit if I think you're talented.

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<v Speaker 1>But the world got to realize that everything don't sell

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<v Speaker 1>when you validate something. Say a person was in jail,

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<v Speaker 1>that's how and they're seeing their music in jail because

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<v Speaker 1>that like, come on, bro, how far are we going?

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<v Speaker 1>Like we gotta grow. That's why I said, we've more

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<v Speaker 1>adventure entertaining than educating. Well, you think the misunderstanding is

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<v Speaker 1>coming coming, Pep, Well, I think for me, Man, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be honest with you. I've been to a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I said, I lost my daughter and it's like, man,

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<v Speaker 1>I ain't really got time for this, But I wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to come up with the educated because I'm not gonna

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<v Speaker 1>go against these people because I love them. This is

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<v Speaker 1>this is this is what I was once was. But

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<v Speaker 1>I have that much respect to if I have a problem,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna call you try to figure it out. Or

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<v Speaker 1>if somebody ain't been around you ten years or this

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<v Speaker 1>stuff this other thing happened six years ago. What I'm saying,

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<v Speaker 1>why are we arguing and fussing about that. Other cultures

0:21:55.680 --> 0:21:58.360
<v Speaker 1>are not doing it right. They're not putting each other down.

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<v Speaker 1>They'll communicate now they that's the past. We can't change

0:22:01.600 --> 0:22:03.399
<v Speaker 1>the pads with the change people, but we can be

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<v Speaker 1>thankful somebody gave me an opportunity. Think about it, You

0:22:07.560 --> 0:22:10.680
<v Speaker 1>guys got an opportunity on here. So if I pay

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<v Speaker 1>somebody fifteen grand for three four hours or five whatever

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<v Speaker 1>it was, right, if I came up here and hosts

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<v Speaker 1>on this show with you, how much would you paying

0:22:20.720 --> 0:22:23.160
<v Speaker 1>the host on the show? Yeah, I mean co host

0:22:23.560 --> 0:22:27.480
<v Speaker 1>that on here anybody. Yeah, I mean if they're coming

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<v Speaker 1>to just for a couple of days. Okay, So somebody

0:22:29.600 --> 0:22:31.040
<v Speaker 1>could come here for a couple of days and make

0:22:31.119 --> 0:22:33.320
<v Speaker 1>no money. But I could give somebody fifteen thousand for

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of hours. And now I got to go

0:22:36.560 --> 0:22:39.080
<v Speaker 1>through this that I gave him my opportunity. Think about it.

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<v Speaker 1>Everything that I try to give people opportunities for it

0:22:42.359 --> 0:22:44.399
<v Speaker 1>come back to bite me. And I'm saying why I

0:22:44.560 --> 0:22:47.880
<v Speaker 1>think the devil is busy? You know why the devil busy?

0:22:47.960 --> 0:22:50.600
<v Speaker 1>Because we're doing bigger things now. It's not I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>in a music business. I love my people. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>think about it, Charler Man, everything that I haven't done,

0:22:56.240 --> 0:22:58.760
<v Speaker 1>why I didn't go byral Like I'm talking about pipe

0:22:58.760 --> 0:23:00.720
<v Speaker 1>being in community over twenty four years. I'm gonna show

0:23:00.720 --> 0:23:03.920
<v Speaker 1>you something. Your son going to an HBCU. Yeah, better

0:23:03.920 --> 0:23:05.600
<v Speaker 1>of this stuff. I'm gonna saw your something. I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>start right now. You're talking about product I put out.

0:23:08.480 --> 0:23:10.640
<v Speaker 1>It's a real book that I did with a seven

0:23:10.720 --> 0:23:15.040
<v Speaker 1>year old kid that's blind. Now, that got shot in Louisville, right,

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<v Speaker 1>Nobody talked about that. That can't like whoever did this?

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<v Speaker 1>Nobody seen the ABC book what I sell for the

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<v Speaker 1>kids and all. Let's go back for a wonderful call.

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<v Speaker 1>I'd embarrassed so many kids in that city even then Washington, DC.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm gonna go out and watch the DC. I

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<v Speaker 1>got a school that I'm with with other black men.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm on the board and it's called Richard Wright. Why

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<v Speaker 1>none of these kids coming down here and working with us,

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<v Speaker 1>helping us keep this going. I'm not from DC, but

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<v Speaker 1>the people in the DC know the time that I

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<v Speaker 1>put in there. So I'm gonna show y'all in this.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a gift for you, proud Burds. Y'all see that

0:23:56.560 --> 0:24:00.600
<v Speaker 1>twenty four sixteen. A righteous man false seven times and

0:24:00.720 --> 0:24:04.639
<v Speaker 1>then he arrives, He arrives from falling, he get back up.

0:24:04.760 --> 0:24:06.480
<v Speaker 1>It don't matter how many times I don't feel I

0:24:06.560 --> 0:24:08.840
<v Speaker 1>get back up. And I think people don't like that

0:24:09.080 --> 0:24:10.960
<v Speaker 1>because they want me to stay. Well I used to

0:24:11.040 --> 0:24:14.200
<v Speaker 1>be at I'm not. I'm not a quitter. I get

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<v Speaker 1>up and work hard, do what I gotta do. And

0:24:16.200 --> 0:24:18.119
<v Speaker 1>that's why God keep blessing. You think all of this

0:24:18.200 --> 0:24:21.440
<v Speaker 1>is just some miscommunication, Yes, I really do. And for

0:24:21.480 --> 0:24:24.480
<v Speaker 1>people that don't know, let's let's say Masterps here. Last week,

0:24:24.560 --> 0:24:27.240
<v Speaker 1>Jess Hilarious was co hosting with us and there was

0:24:27.280 --> 0:24:31.040
<v Speaker 1>a story about master P and Fatreal. So you know,

0:24:31.160 --> 0:24:33.439
<v Speaker 1>Jess claimed that, you know, during taping off, I got

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<v Speaker 1>the hook up too. She got a front end of

0:24:36.200 --> 0:24:38.320
<v Speaker 1>a check and never received the back end. And she

0:24:38.440 --> 0:24:41.200
<v Speaker 1>stated that, so what was the communication? And Masterpiece said,

0:24:41.240 --> 0:24:43.600
<v Speaker 1>you know, I don't miscommunications. Masterpi said, I don't pay

0:24:43.600 --> 0:24:45.880
<v Speaker 1>peoplet's a production company. It's my movie. But it's yeah,

0:24:45.920 --> 0:24:48.560
<v Speaker 1>but why is we talking about that. Let's be honest.

0:24:48.720 --> 0:24:51.080
<v Speaker 1>I gave you opportunity. Why is we talking about that

0:24:51.200 --> 0:24:53.479
<v Speaker 1>to bring I'm not even in the music business no more.

0:24:53.760 --> 0:24:55.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm not in the entertainment. But that's what I'm saying.

0:24:55.800 --> 0:24:58.240
<v Speaker 1>So you take that and turn it into clicks. And

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<v Speaker 1>even when she read it, I wasn't addressing them when

0:25:01.320 --> 0:25:04.840
<v Speaker 1>I said people hide behind these computers and blog that

0:25:04.960 --> 0:25:07.720
<v Speaker 1>wasn't That wasn't about her. That's what I'm telling y'all.

0:25:07.720 --> 0:25:10.639
<v Speaker 1>It's all the miscommunication. What she read was not about her.

0:25:11.080 --> 0:25:13.600
<v Speaker 1>So that's what I'm saying. Listen, Let's change this, man,

0:25:13.680 --> 0:25:16.320
<v Speaker 1>Let's change our thoughts and our patterns to say, how

0:25:16.400 --> 0:25:18.679
<v Speaker 1>can we help each other. I'm doing something bigger man.

0:25:18.800 --> 0:25:21.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm I used to be in the streets. I changed

0:25:21.040 --> 0:25:23.320
<v Speaker 1>my life. My life was about building guards kingdom. Now

0:25:23.600 --> 0:25:25.320
<v Speaker 1>I'm about building this guard kingdom. And I know the

0:25:25.400 --> 0:25:28.080
<v Speaker 1>devil gonna don't like that, like, okay, gonna throw my

0:25:28.119 --> 0:25:29.919
<v Speaker 1>own people. That's why I say this us against us.

0:25:30.400 --> 0:25:32.120
<v Speaker 1>We have to change that. But we got to stop

0:25:32.200 --> 0:25:36.040
<v Speaker 1>allowing all these bloggers and gossips to start putting stuff

0:25:36.080 --> 0:25:37.840
<v Speaker 1>out there and making the news. I'm just saying, even

0:25:37.920 --> 0:25:40.920
<v Speaker 1>if she said that, nobody checked it verified, but that

0:25:41.080 --> 0:25:43.600
<v Speaker 1>was news the same thing what you did. And when

0:25:43.640 --> 0:25:46.960
<v Speaker 1>you said that, you hit the news to go viral

0:25:47.119 --> 0:25:49.159
<v Speaker 1>for what? Oh I mean IRV got it? Yeah. All

0:25:49.200 --> 0:25:51.520
<v Speaker 1>the reason I said that because you know, during that time,

0:25:51.560 --> 0:25:55.639
<v Speaker 1>I was broke and and because that money meant everything

0:25:55.720 --> 0:25:57.200
<v Speaker 1>to me. Now it doesn't bother me. Now, I don't

0:25:57.200 --> 0:25:58.679
<v Speaker 1>need the money from Irvan. I speak to Earth all

0:25:58.720 --> 0:26:00.399
<v Speaker 1>the time. But it bought me because during that time,

0:26:00.440 --> 0:26:02.520
<v Speaker 1>I was an upcoming producer. That was my first beat

0:26:02.560 --> 0:26:06.040
<v Speaker 1>soul and I didn't know the game. So IRV brought

0:26:06.080 --> 0:26:07.600
<v Speaker 1>the beat. I never got a back end. He put

0:26:07.640 --> 0:26:09.280
<v Speaker 1>it in a movie. I never got a money from it.

0:26:09.480 --> 0:26:11.320
<v Speaker 1>But that bought me because I'm like, damn, that money

0:26:11.320 --> 0:26:13.680
<v Speaker 1>would have helped and that. But now I'm past it.

0:26:13.760 --> 0:26:15.280
<v Speaker 1>You know, I speak to him, but I speak to them.

0:26:15.320 --> 0:26:17.840
<v Speaker 1>But I'm saying no for that. It triggered something to

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<v Speaker 1>where the world on. That was a long time ago.

0:26:20.200 --> 0:26:22.720
<v Speaker 1>It was like this was yesterday. That's what I'm saying.

0:26:22.760 --> 0:26:24.760
<v Speaker 1>Even all the stuff that people talked about me, that

0:26:24.840 --> 0:26:28.040
<v Speaker 1>was a long time. Yes, see what I'm saying. But

0:26:28.200 --> 0:26:30.200
<v Speaker 1>it made it like this new. But I'm saying, we

0:26:30.280 --> 0:26:32.080
<v Speaker 1>don't need that with each other, because they don't. They

0:26:32.119 --> 0:26:34.240
<v Speaker 1>could stand on each cone to do all these different things.

0:26:34.520 --> 0:26:36.000
<v Speaker 1>Even if they have a problem with each other, they

0:26:36.000 --> 0:26:38.480
<v Speaker 1>could communicate that with each other. I just think we

0:26:38.640 --> 0:26:42.359
<v Speaker 1>have to stop that. We are killing us with the media.

0:26:43.200 --> 0:26:47.240
<v Speaker 1>I have a school in Saint Louis called Urban Bonn,

0:26:47.320 --> 0:26:50.440
<v Speaker 1>which you now, which we helped keep kids off the

0:26:50.480 --> 0:26:54.520
<v Speaker 1>streets after school program we started in LA where Nipsey

0:26:54.600 --> 0:26:57.159
<v Speaker 1>Hustle was one of the first kids in our school

0:26:57.560 --> 0:26:59.679
<v Speaker 1>in the eighth grade. So look how far well I've

0:26:59.680 --> 0:27:02.159
<v Speaker 1>been doing over twenty four years. Nobody talk about that.

0:27:02.240 --> 0:27:05.160
<v Speaker 1>That's the only thing I'm saying. So if you stop

0:27:05.320 --> 0:27:07.000
<v Speaker 1>me from doing what I'm doing, who are going to

0:27:07.080 --> 0:27:09.040
<v Speaker 1>help these kids? I'm in New Orleans being there for

0:27:09.040 --> 0:27:12.840
<v Speaker 1>over twenty something years, and Memphis been there for over

0:27:12.960 --> 0:27:18.560
<v Speaker 1>twenty years. In California, Louisville, you know I'm battering kids

0:27:18.640 --> 0:27:20.640
<v Speaker 1>paying for it. So I don't. I don't. I don't

0:27:20.680 --> 0:27:23.119
<v Speaker 1>measure well by what you have. I measured by what

0:27:23.240 --> 0:27:26.359
<v Speaker 1>you get. And so I want our culture now, people

0:27:26.359 --> 0:27:29.439
<v Speaker 1>to understand that why is we destroying each other? Now?

0:27:29.520 --> 0:27:31.280
<v Speaker 1>I get what you're saying, people, I also look at

0:27:31.320 --> 0:27:32.639
<v Speaker 1>it like this, right when we talk about all your

0:27:32.640 --> 0:27:34.639
<v Speaker 1>positive you know you always invited a pair. But if

0:27:34.720 --> 0:27:38.000
<v Speaker 1>somebody owes me money, whether it's twenty years or ten years,

0:27:38.040 --> 0:27:40.880
<v Speaker 1>and it's a misunderstanding, I feel a conversation should be happy,

0:27:42.560 --> 0:27:44.040
<v Speaker 1>not the fact that it's twenty years ago. It don't

0:27:44.080 --> 0:27:46.560
<v Speaker 1>matter for me. Thank God I was blessed enough where

0:27:46.560 --> 0:27:49.560
<v Speaker 1>it doesn't matter now. But I'm saying that was your situation.

0:27:49.600 --> 0:27:51.639
<v Speaker 1>But I'm just saying, we are in the production thing, right,

0:27:52.400 --> 0:27:57.320
<v Speaker 1>we don't pay for the right, That's what I'm saying.

0:27:57.520 --> 0:28:00.040
<v Speaker 1>So that's why I'm asking was there and misunderstand it

0:28:00.200 --> 0:28:03.000
<v Speaker 1>with an agent, product, the production company or man, they

0:28:03.040 --> 0:28:05.000
<v Speaker 1>don't matter because I think people take it out of

0:28:05.080 --> 0:28:08.359
<v Speaker 1>contents because of what's saying instead of looking at you know.

0:28:08.600 --> 0:28:10.399
<v Speaker 1>And I hope one day I could get with her

0:28:10.480 --> 0:28:12.480
<v Speaker 1>and say, because I'm really, I really don't want to

0:28:12.520 --> 0:28:16.280
<v Speaker 1>be in the entertainment business ever again, I'm good. So

0:28:16.359 --> 0:28:17.840
<v Speaker 1>if my kids want to do it, they got to

0:28:17.880 --> 0:28:19.800
<v Speaker 1>do it on their own. I'm good. I want to be.

0:28:19.920 --> 0:28:21.159
<v Speaker 1>I want to be in a product of business, to

0:28:21.200 --> 0:28:23.840
<v Speaker 1>be honest with you, because once you grow up and

0:28:24.280 --> 0:28:26.240
<v Speaker 1>we got to show this culture how to live, and

0:28:26.359 --> 0:28:28.119
<v Speaker 1>that's what I want to do. I mean, they got

0:28:28.400 --> 0:28:31.879
<v Speaker 1>you know, even I'm just telling y'all comedians, this throwing

0:28:32.640 --> 0:28:34.680
<v Speaker 1>the people that's gonna do for what you got to

0:28:34.680 --> 0:28:36.640
<v Speaker 1>do for the community and the culture. So with us going,

0:28:36.840 --> 0:28:38.960
<v Speaker 1>who's gonna help? But you know two P two, when

0:28:38.960 --> 0:28:41.240
<v Speaker 1>people get in front of these microphones, you violenttee information

0:28:41.320 --> 0:28:43.960
<v Speaker 1>like you was talking about Meek Mild other Yeah, and

0:28:44.080 --> 0:28:45.720
<v Speaker 1>you know how, I guess you kept meeting you wanted

0:28:45.760 --> 0:28:47.280
<v Speaker 1>you didn't want Meet Mild to sign with m MG.

0:28:47.720 --> 0:28:49.200
<v Speaker 1>And then Meek Mill retweeted it and was like, this

0:28:49.320 --> 0:28:51.040
<v Speaker 1>is a lot. Let's let's talk about that when we

0:28:51.120 --> 0:28:52.520
<v Speaker 1>come back. We'll talk about it when we come back.

0:28:52.680 --> 0:28:55.080
<v Speaker 1>Master Pins here eight hundred five eight five, one oh

0:28:55.160 --> 0:28:56.680
<v Speaker 1>five one. We got more with Pete. Don't move. It's

0:28:56.680 --> 0:29:02.560
<v Speaker 1>the breakfast club, and show me the breakfast club now.

0:29:02.680 --> 0:29:04.560
<v Speaker 1>Master p said he just pulled up on us this morning.

0:29:04.600 --> 0:29:06.680
<v Speaker 1>So the poor mis ladies and poor mins, we just

0:29:06.960 --> 0:29:08.280
<v Speaker 1>we put him in the green room for a sac

0:29:08.360 --> 0:29:10.440
<v Speaker 1>YadA left the og speed gotta let the SPI. So

0:29:10.520 --> 0:29:12.600
<v Speaker 1>you asked the question right before we went to break Yeah,

0:29:12.600 --> 0:29:14.800
<v Speaker 1>because you know, everybody gets in front of these microphones

0:29:14.800 --> 0:29:17.800
<v Speaker 1>and they volunteer information like I never knew you managed

0:29:17.960 --> 0:29:19.360
<v Speaker 1>you know, So I want to I want to I

0:29:19.400 --> 0:29:22.280
<v Speaker 1>want to tell you guys about that situation. So I

0:29:22.400 --> 0:29:26.520
<v Speaker 1>had an opportunity to manage Meek Mills. So first, I

0:29:26.560 --> 0:29:29.920
<v Speaker 1>don't know if you know Charlie Mack that was and

0:29:30.000 --> 0:29:33.560
<v Speaker 1>so Charlie Mac had him, and then you know he

0:29:33.920 --> 0:29:36.520
<v Speaker 1>Meek wanted to go a different direction, but Charlie MC

0:29:36.560 --> 0:29:39.360
<v Speaker 1>had him under contract. James called Charlie Mac. Then I

0:29:39.440 --> 0:29:41.760
<v Speaker 1>called Charlie Mac. I said, man, this this guy is

0:29:41.800 --> 0:29:44.440
<v Speaker 1>a star. Let him go. Do you know Charlie Mack

0:29:44.560 --> 0:29:47.960
<v Speaker 1>was with Will Smith? And so what happened was it

0:29:48.080 --> 0:29:50.600
<v Speaker 1>was my attorney Rick. But I want to clear that

0:29:50.720 --> 0:29:53.000
<v Speaker 1>up to where I had an opportunity. Me and James

0:29:53.040 --> 0:29:56.400
<v Speaker 1>signed to management contract. But I knew that Meek was

0:29:56.440 --> 0:29:58.200
<v Speaker 1>gonna be a boss at the beginning. He had that

0:29:58.280 --> 0:30:01.760
<v Speaker 1>song called I'm a Boss. He this was a talented guy.

0:30:02.200 --> 0:30:05.480
<v Speaker 1>But my attorney Rick did all the stuff for me

0:30:05.720 --> 0:30:07.920
<v Speaker 1>and me and Jane trying to management contract. And then

0:30:07.960 --> 0:30:10.120
<v Speaker 1>I ended up moving on because I thought that Max

0:30:10.160 --> 0:30:12.600
<v Speaker 1>should be on his own, which you know, he's a

0:30:12.680 --> 0:30:14.680
<v Speaker 1>Boston night all work out. But when I talked about that,

0:30:15.120 --> 0:30:17.680
<v Speaker 1>it was talking about feel you how like you could

0:30:17.760 --> 0:30:20.480
<v Speaker 1>feel and move on and go on, do do something

0:30:20.560 --> 0:30:22.880
<v Speaker 1>else and be successful. So a lot of people think

0:30:22.920 --> 0:30:25.320
<v Speaker 1>that we're just successful right off the top. What this

0:30:25.520 --> 0:30:28.760
<v Speaker 1>was all about showing people how you could feel God

0:30:28.840 --> 0:30:30.880
<v Speaker 1>give you a second chance and move on. Other than that,

0:30:31.200 --> 0:30:34.280
<v Speaker 1>I mean I got a number loving respect for me

0:30:34.360 --> 0:30:36.360
<v Speaker 1>because he reposted it and putting this is a lie,

0:30:36.680 --> 0:30:38.719
<v Speaker 1>but there's no context to that. So of course blog's

0:30:38.720 --> 0:30:41.280
<v Speaker 1>going run with that. Yeah, they they didn't get it,

0:30:41.360 --> 0:30:43.960
<v Speaker 1>but that's that's the truth. So I had an opportunity.

0:30:44.000 --> 0:30:46.280
<v Speaker 1>I walked away from it because I figured, like he's

0:30:46.280 --> 0:30:49.360
<v Speaker 1>the truth, which he turned out to be. So another

0:30:49.440 --> 0:30:51.800
<v Speaker 1>thing that you know, was something I didn't like me

0:30:51.840 --> 0:30:54.400
<v Speaker 1>and Charlemagne didn't like because Charlemagne as for daughters, I

0:30:54.480 --> 0:30:56.880
<v Speaker 1>have six kids. You and your son got into a

0:30:56.920 --> 0:30:59.680
<v Speaker 1>public thing online, which was really bossing because like I

0:30:59.720 --> 0:31:02.440
<v Speaker 1>tell everybody, no matter what, that's family business and a

0:31:02.480 --> 0:31:04.560
<v Speaker 1>lot of time family business. Take time to straight your

0:31:04.600 --> 0:31:07.640
<v Speaker 1>family business out. So you Romeo, y'all, y'all good at

0:31:07.680 --> 0:31:09.800
<v Speaker 1>seeing like now. So that's what I want to tell y'all.

0:31:09.840 --> 0:31:11.960
<v Speaker 1>Man all y'all have kids, so I wouldn't wish this

0:31:12.080 --> 0:31:14.240
<v Speaker 1>on nobody. I love my son, but you know the

0:31:14.280 --> 0:31:16.600
<v Speaker 1>world and change now. You ain't never say it hurt

0:31:16.640 --> 0:31:19.160
<v Speaker 1>me saying nothing about it. I just like like any

0:31:19.240 --> 0:31:21.840
<v Speaker 1>other fail, you you hurt by You don't understand that

0:31:21.920 --> 0:31:24.640
<v Speaker 1>you like what's going on, because everybody try to tell

0:31:24.760 --> 0:31:27.360
<v Speaker 1>us all how to heal. You're not gonna understand my

0:31:27.520 --> 0:31:29.960
<v Speaker 1>pain because you know, you could say Romeo lost his sister.

0:31:30.280 --> 0:31:32.600
<v Speaker 1>I lost a daughter. So it's a different type of pain.

0:31:32.720 --> 0:31:34.920
<v Speaker 1>That's why I'm saying that that could make somebody snap.

0:31:35.280 --> 0:31:37.200
<v Speaker 1>And so at this time in my life, man, I'm

0:31:37.240 --> 0:31:40.080
<v Speaker 1>just thankful. I'm moving, so I'm doing positive things. I

0:31:40.120 --> 0:31:41.720
<v Speaker 1>wanted to get out you know, because some people think

0:31:41.880 --> 0:31:44.520
<v Speaker 1>I should be a certain way. I can't say at home,

0:31:44.640 --> 0:31:46.720
<v Speaker 1>so I get out here and I just want to

0:31:46.760 --> 0:31:49.360
<v Speaker 1>think the people that's been with me. That's a part

0:31:49.400 --> 0:31:51.480
<v Speaker 1>of it is, but that you are not alone foundation.

0:31:51.560 --> 0:31:53.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm telling like, even we talk about us, I got

0:31:54.040 --> 0:31:55.800
<v Speaker 1>one person in here, pop that came to me and

0:31:55.880 --> 0:31:58.480
<v Speaker 1>say let's do a tour. That was Post Malone, like,

0:31:58.640 --> 0:32:01.560
<v Speaker 1>let's do a concert, not alone concert to help and

0:32:01.680 --> 0:32:05.400
<v Speaker 1>give back because this is serious and so nobody looked

0:32:05.440 --> 0:32:07.320
<v Speaker 1>like us. And so shout out to post Malone and

0:32:07.480 --> 0:32:11.680
<v Speaker 1>his manager Drake Man. I appreciate y'all, Like we're gonna

0:32:11.760 --> 0:32:14.480
<v Speaker 1>do things because this is real. Drugs is killing ovel,

0:32:14.600 --> 0:32:18.600
<v Speaker 1>culturing off kids, and also mental illness, and so like

0:32:18.840 --> 0:32:20.320
<v Speaker 1>a lot of people are going through that. You think

0:32:20.360 --> 0:32:23.080
<v Speaker 1>this because you got money or you are you successful,

0:32:23.320 --> 0:32:27.000
<v Speaker 1>that that your kids are immune to this. Like nobody's

0:32:27.000 --> 0:32:30.240
<v Speaker 1>immune from pain, none of us. Because my brother died

0:32:30.280 --> 0:32:32.880
<v Speaker 1>at nineteen, got another brother in prison, you know what

0:32:32.920 --> 0:32:35.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying. And my parents, my grandparently, my grandparents, and

0:32:35.960 --> 0:32:37.960
<v Speaker 1>they took us the church every every day, you know,

0:32:38.040 --> 0:32:41.600
<v Speaker 1>I mean every Sunday. So you're not immune from pain that,

0:32:41.880 --> 0:32:44.560
<v Speaker 1>none of that. I just think that it's it's it's

0:32:44.640 --> 0:32:47.000
<v Speaker 1>tough man for a family. So you're good now though,

0:32:47.000 --> 0:32:49.000
<v Speaker 1>because because y'all are South, I mean, if the world

0:32:49.080 --> 0:32:51.000
<v Speaker 1>knows y'all like y'all were best friends, you know what

0:32:51.000 --> 0:32:53.560
<v Speaker 1>I mean that, But think about look how the media

0:32:53.760 --> 0:32:56.080
<v Speaker 1>turn that and Charlemagne No, I mean, we came up

0:32:56.320 --> 0:32:59.320
<v Speaker 1>the Challemaine to talk about why Romeo wanted to get

0:32:59.320 --> 0:33:01.239
<v Speaker 1>off of growing up hip hop, you know, and then

0:33:01.480 --> 0:33:03.640
<v Speaker 1>people each other your flowers when y'all was up pair like, yeah,

0:33:03.640 --> 0:33:06.240
<v Speaker 1>I took that opportunity to think about it. That's what

0:33:06.360 --> 0:33:09.280
<v Speaker 1>we got to realize. Man, nobody's promised, so you got

0:33:09.360 --> 0:33:12.440
<v Speaker 1>to appreciate every day. It's a blessing. So when your

0:33:12.480 --> 0:33:14.600
<v Speaker 1>family men walk out that though, man, I'm like, for

0:33:14.720 --> 0:33:17.479
<v Speaker 1>me as a parent, I get it. My kids are

0:33:17.520 --> 0:33:20.720
<v Speaker 1>not gonna understand everything I do, or somebody else could

0:33:20.760 --> 0:33:22.440
<v Speaker 1>get into somebody in and tell them that, oh you

0:33:22.520 --> 0:33:24.720
<v Speaker 1>need to do this or you deserve I don't have

0:33:24.880 --> 0:33:26.920
<v Speaker 1>all the answers. All I can do is keep growing

0:33:26.960 --> 0:33:28.480
<v Speaker 1>as a man and keep loving my kids. But the

0:33:28.560 --> 0:33:30.240
<v Speaker 1>ones that are old, I got to let them go

0:33:30.680 --> 0:33:32.920
<v Speaker 1>and do what they gotta do, make their mistakes feel

0:33:33.360 --> 0:33:36.440
<v Speaker 1>get over it, like like like I did and so

0:33:36.720 --> 0:33:40.320
<v Speaker 1>but my younger kids, I think it's different because I

0:33:40.520 --> 0:33:43.200
<v Speaker 1>just taught them hard work. And so you imagine as

0:33:43.200 --> 0:33:47.360
<v Speaker 1>a parent, I feel accountable for whatever happens with my

0:33:47.560 --> 0:33:51.480
<v Speaker 1>kids because you know, okay, growing up, you wanted to

0:33:51.520 --> 0:33:53.680
<v Speaker 1>give your kids everything if you're successful. I think that's

0:33:53.720 --> 0:33:56.080
<v Speaker 1>what's happened with a lot of these hip hop parents.

0:33:56.520 --> 0:33:58.320
<v Speaker 1>So we have to change that and just teach our

0:33:58.480 --> 0:34:01.480
<v Speaker 1>kids hard work like other cultures do. And so that's

0:34:01.560 --> 0:34:04.720
<v Speaker 1>the that's the changes that I'm in. Like I'm working

0:34:04.760 --> 0:34:07.600
<v Speaker 1>on myself. I'm not perfect, and I'm growing as a parent.

0:34:07.960 --> 0:34:10.440
<v Speaker 1>And that's why I really got out of the entertainment

0:34:10.520 --> 0:34:12.719
<v Speaker 1>side of this and say, let me focus more on

0:34:12.800 --> 0:34:14.840
<v Speaker 1>the product side. Do you hate the entertainment sign? No,

0:34:14.960 --> 0:34:17.120
<v Speaker 1>I don't hate it. I think going for it, But

0:34:17.239 --> 0:34:18.759
<v Speaker 1>I still have to grow up. I want to show

0:34:19.200 --> 0:34:21.239
<v Speaker 1>people in this culture how we can grow up and

0:34:21.320 --> 0:34:23.839
<v Speaker 1>don't don't be afraid to see us where we're at.

0:34:24.160 --> 0:34:26.000
<v Speaker 1>Don't be afraid to get older. Shoulder, man, you know,

0:34:26.080 --> 0:34:28.320
<v Speaker 1>I mean you're growing up in this You said you

0:34:28.680 --> 0:34:31.520
<v Speaker 1>wasn't talking the way you talk now, absolutely think about it.

0:34:31.880 --> 0:34:33.640
<v Speaker 1>You're not talking the way you used to talk now.

0:34:33.800 --> 0:34:36.080
<v Speaker 1>So why why people can't allow us to grow up

0:34:36.480 --> 0:34:39.680
<v Speaker 1>and get better? Because we're stronger together. And that's how

0:34:39.719 --> 0:34:41.560
<v Speaker 1>That's how I feel about this, Like we're gonna keep

0:34:41.600 --> 0:34:44.080
<v Speaker 1>one and I think that's what makes me and snoop

0:34:44.160 --> 0:34:48.120
<v Speaker 1>relationship so good because we realized that our lives are

0:34:48.200 --> 0:34:50.560
<v Speaker 1>not perfect, but we got to keep going. We got

0:34:50.640 --> 0:34:53.120
<v Speaker 1>My whole strength is just man, don't worry about it.

0:34:53.200 --> 0:34:55.239
<v Speaker 1>I don't have to know everything. I don't have to

0:34:55.320 --> 0:34:57.160
<v Speaker 1>be the boss everything. So I'm gonna show you the

0:34:57.200 --> 0:35:00.160
<v Speaker 1>product that was because you know, you think sometimes that

0:35:00.360 --> 0:35:02.440
<v Speaker 1>people get disgruddled when things don't work out the way

0:35:02.440 --> 0:35:04.439
<v Speaker 1>they wanted to work out. Well, I'm gonna tell y'all,

0:35:05.040 --> 0:35:07.680
<v Speaker 1>so many things didn't work out for me. I feel

0:35:07.760 --> 0:35:09.680
<v Speaker 1>so many times, but I didn't hold my head down.

0:35:10.120 --> 0:35:12.360
<v Speaker 1>So I want people When people say, oh, they with

0:35:12.520 --> 0:35:14.200
<v Speaker 1>no limits, it's so allays And I think that's what

0:35:14.320 --> 0:35:18.080
<v Speaker 1>people come around me. They want what I did twenty

0:35:18.200 --> 0:35:20.440
<v Speaker 1>years ago. But that was twenty years ago. How long

0:35:20.560 --> 0:35:23.719
<v Speaker 1>do a music career last, That's what I'm saying, Like,

0:35:23.800 --> 0:35:25.360
<v Speaker 1>so think about it when you pull up some of

0:35:25.440 --> 0:35:28.600
<v Speaker 1>these things on iTunes. Everybody got products on iTunes, but

0:35:28.640 --> 0:35:30.759
<v Speaker 1>that don't mean to sell it, so you know you

0:35:30.840 --> 0:35:32.680
<v Speaker 1>can invest in something. So that's what I'm saying. I

0:35:32.760 --> 0:35:34.839
<v Speaker 1>think we just got to be able to communicate. That's

0:35:34.880 --> 0:35:36.799
<v Speaker 1>why I said today it's gonna be a teachable moment.

0:35:37.280 --> 0:35:40.480
<v Speaker 1>Let's educate the culture how this stuff work. Because people

0:35:40.520 --> 0:35:42.640
<v Speaker 1>see you on TV, they think you're making millions of dollars,

0:35:43.360 --> 0:35:44.879
<v Speaker 1>but that ain't the truth. A lot of these people

0:35:44.920 --> 0:35:46.839
<v Speaker 1>are not making unless you at the top of the game.

0:35:47.200 --> 0:35:49.160
<v Speaker 1>But the people at the bottom is not making millions

0:35:49.200 --> 0:35:51.680
<v Speaker 1>of dollars. People in the music industry right now is

0:35:51.719 --> 0:35:53.680
<v Speaker 1>not making millions of dollars. The ones at the top

0:35:53.760 --> 0:35:56.000
<v Speaker 1>bar but you pull up You guys talk about it

0:35:56.040 --> 0:35:58.480
<v Speaker 1>all the time. The people that that are not making

0:35:58.560 --> 0:36:01.680
<v Speaker 1>money that superstars, their records are not selling that superstar.

0:36:01.840 --> 0:36:03.560
<v Speaker 1>But this is the problem that I have that we

0:36:03.680 --> 0:36:07.480
<v Speaker 1>got to change. We don't go at the other coaches

0:36:07.640 --> 0:36:10.040
<v Speaker 1>the way we go at our culture if we have

0:36:10.080 --> 0:36:11.879
<v Speaker 1>a problem, because I think what it is, we're sitting

0:36:11.880 --> 0:36:14.520
<v Speaker 1>down and eat and hang with people. Yeah, you break

0:36:14.560 --> 0:36:16.320
<v Speaker 1>bread with him. So if you look somebody in the

0:36:16.400 --> 0:36:18.560
<v Speaker 1>eye and you have a conversation with him in their mind,

0:36:18.880 --> 0:36:21.520
<v Speaker 1>master Peers, the person behind all of this, Master Pea,

0:36:21.600 --> 0:36:24.080
<v Speaker 1>the person cutting me to check the even family, think

0:36:24.080 --> 0:36:26.400
<v Speaker 1>about it. Family, when you're not where you want to

0:36:26.440 --> 0:36:28.359
<v Speaker 1>be at, you tell a family member no one time

0:36:28.440 --> 0:36:30.359
<v Speaker 1>they mad with you, they never won't talk to They're

0:36:30.360 --> 0:36:32.480
<v Speaker 1>gonna they're gonna put you up, they're gonna blast you,

0:36:32.600 --> 0:36:34.160
<v Speaker 1>and all this stuff. So I'm saying, well, guess what,

0:36:34.400 --> 0:36:36.719
<v Speaker 1>won't y'all go do your own thing? Then if you

0:36:36.800 --> 0:36:38.520
<v Speaker 1>don't like the balls, go be the balls. That's what

0:36:38.600 --> 0:36:42.160
<v Speaker 1>I did, and everybody can't be the bass. So that's

0:36:42.200 --> 0:36:44.800
<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying. That's why Snooper is so successful to

0:36:44.960 --> 0:36:47.920
<v Speaker 1>where he took what he learned, what I showed him

0:36:48.040 --> 0:36:50.239
<v Speaker 1>and took it to another level. And that's cool, and

0:36:50.280 --> 0:36:51.440
<v Speaker 1>that's how we come to us. So I want to

0:36:51.440 --> 0:36:55.080
<v Speaker 1>show y'all. In June, and even with Snoop, Snoopers complained

0:36:55.080 --> 0:36:57.880
<v Speaker 1>about not getting paid from certain individuals, you know, from

0:36:57.920 --> 0:36:59.680
<v Speaker 1>death for all you who have held the publishing stuff

0:36:59.719 --> 0:37:01.880
<v Speaker 1>like that. Yeah, but that's a that's a common thing

0:37:01.960 --> 0:37:03.440
<v Speaker 1>for people to do. Yeah, people are gonna do it.

0:37:03.520 --> 0:37:05.640
<v Speaker 1>But guess what Snoop Now he went and brought the company.

0:37:06.640 --> 0:37:09.399
<v Speaker 1>See what I'm saying. So now we have Snoop Loops.

0:37:09.400 --> 0:37:11.480
<v Speaker 1>So this is bigger than I know a lot of people.

0:37:12.120 --> 0:37:14.600
<v Speaker 1>When we started, it was Snoop Loops. Right, Look, how

0:37:14.680 --> 0:37:18.120
<v Speaker 1>we feel people is like, oh, Snoop Loops, they gonna

0:37:18.120 --> 0:37:19.680
<v Speaker 1>they're gonna make y'all take it off the shelf. And

0:37:19.760 --> 0:37:22.120
<v Speaker 1>they did. Right. We came back and when you changed

0:37:22.160 --> 0:37:24.560
<v Speaker 1>the name to Snoop cereal, that's your second time in

0:37:24.600 --> 0:37:27.200
<v Speaker 1>this year, I remember who who? Yeah? I feel so

0:37:27.280 --> 0:37:29.160
<v Speaker 1>many times, but that's what it takes. So that y'all

0:37:29.160 --> 0:37:32.480
<v Speaker 1>don't realize I lost millions. Damn, I lost millions. So

0:37:32.840 --> 0:37:35.520
<v Speaker 1>and then but I figured the game out Brothers Food,

0:37:35.920 --> 0:37:39.520
<v Speaker 1>which is Snoop Calvin Brods. So think about it. When

0:37:39.520 --> 0:37:42.920
<v Speaker 1>you got when you got catalogs, You've got all these

0:37:42.960 --> 0:37:46.319
<v Speaker 1>different companies. Those are family brands. That's what we taught

0:37:46.360 --> 0:37:48.560
<v Speaker 1>each other how to build our own family brand. And

0:37:48.640 --> 0:37:50.760
<v Speaker 1>so Snoop is the founder of this, I'm gonna CEO

0:37:50.800 --> 0:37:52.960
<v Speaker 1>of the company. And so everybody got a job in

0:37:53.040 --> 0:37:54.960
<v Speaker 1>the roller. Fess why I get out of him from motus.

0:37:55.200 --> 0:37:57.840
<v Speaker 1>Let's think about it. We're feeding families with this. This

0:37:58.040 --> 0:38:01.000
<v Speaker 1>is not just about us. We take we tatling homelessness.

0:38:01.520 --> 0:38:03.520
<v Speaker 1>The more we make the movie gifts. So all right,

0:38:03.600 --> 0:38:05.480
<v Speaker 1>we got more with Master Pele when we come back,

0:38:05.520 --> 0:38:08.000
<v Speaker 1>don't move. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, think everybody

0:38:08.120 --> 0:38:10.719
<v Speaker 1>is DJ and V Charlomagne the guy. We are the

0:38:10.800 --> 0:38:13.800
<v Speaker 1>Breakfast Club. Were still kicking it with Master Pen. I

0:38:13.840 --> 0:38:16.719
<v Speaker 1>don't worry our Drea lex P from The poor Man's

0:38:16.760 --> 0:38:18.600
<v Speaker 1>Podcast and here they're just on in the green room

0:38:18.680 --> 0:38:20.359
<v Speaker 1>right now and we're still kicking it a Master Pa.

0:38:20.440 --> 0:38:22.040
<v Speaker 1>I want to declare something up to because I don't

0:38:22.080 --> 0:38:23.839
<v Speaker 1>want people to take it the wrong way. Now, when

0:38:23.920 --> 0:38:26.319
<v Speaker 1>when you were selling Meek Mill not to sign with Ross,

0:38:26.320 --> 0:38:28.439
<v Speaker 1>it wasn't because Ross was bad. You would just saying

0:38:28.440 --> 0:38:29.880
<v Speaker 1>it's big enough to be independent. He could have did

0:38:29.920 --> 0:38:31.560
<v Speaker 1>it on his own. The thing about it, that's own.

0:38:31.640 --> 0:38:34.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm a boss, go back when time passed that someone

0:38:34.640 --> 0:38:37.480
<v Speaker 1>was already big. Then Ross got on the record. So

0:38:37.600 --> 0:38:39.200
<v Speaker 1>that's the only thing I was saying. Then Ross tell

0:38:39.440 --> 0:38:43.080
<v Speaker 1>tell y'all hisself that he his his business wasn't straight.

0:38:43.200 --> 0:38:44.799
<v Speaker 1>Now you got it together and look where yet now,

0:38:44.960 --> 0:38:46.800
<v Speaker 1>So that's why I was saying about feeling, Man, I

0:38:46.880 --> 0:38:49.160
<v Speaker 1>love these guys. I mean I want them, I want

0:38:49.200 --> 0:38:50.560
<v Speaker 1>I want I want y'all to be able to learn

0:38:50.640 --> 0:38:52.960
<v Speaker 1>from all out of the mistakes. So that's basically what

0:38:53.000 --> 0:38:55.000
<v Speaker 1>it's about. I think the Internet to take it and

0:38:55.200 --> 0:38:57.560
<v Speaker 1>run with it, and that's how we destroying each other.

0:38:57.800 --> 0:38:59.920
<v Speaker 1>So that's why I say I'm gonna focus his own products.

0:39:00.800 --> 0:39:03.319
<v Speaker 1>So that's the that's the And I got one last

0:39:03.440 --> 0:39:05.520
<v Speaker 1>question okay that I thought it was kind of kind

0:39:05.560 --> 0:39:09.120
<v Speaker 1>of crazy. So, uh, your brother was saying that he

0:39:09.239 --> 0:39:11.440
<v Speaker 1>was trying to get hold on the record, I was

0:39:11.480 --> 0:39:13.680
<v Speaker 1>trying to get jays and he said jay Z declined

0:39:13.719 --> 0:39:16.120
<v Speaker 1>one hundred thousand dollars. Was that true? You know what

0:39:16.320 --> 0:39:18.879
<v Speaker 1>I mean? That was Silk project. That's what I'm saying,

0:39:18.920 --> 0:39:21.719
<v Speaker 1>I don't that was so long ago, like that was

0:39:21.920 --> 0:39:23.680
<v Speaker 1>that was my brother. That's what I'm saying. So I

0:39:23.960 --> 0:39:25.759
<v Speaker 1>want to I don't want people to turn this into

0:39:25.960 --> 0:39:29.439
<v Speaker 1>gotcha you know. So there you go. So how would

0:39:29.480 --> 0:39:33.080
<v Speaker 1>you tell people like Trev even just how how should

0:39:33.080 --> 0:39:37.560
<v Speaker 1>they handle these situations? Something? Reach out to communicate with

0:39:37.640 --> 0:39:40.520
<v Speaker 1>the people. That's it. But I'm just saying, though, like,

0:39:40.760 --> 0:39:43.239
<v Speaker 1>don't just jump off when I like if I was

0:39:43.320 --> 0:39:46.319
<v Speaker 1>in the music even room, even room my own son. Yeah,

0:39:46.440 --> 0:39:48.200
<v Speaker 1>and so I mean, this is a big part of

0:39:48.200 --> 0:39:50.319
<v Speaker 1>all this. But it's like, Okay, that's fine. But I'm

0:39:50.360 --> 0:39:52.560
<v Speaker 1>keep telling y'all that's what the devil would do. The

0:39:52.719 --> 0:39:55.040
<v Speaker 1>devil want to destroy the people that's gonna get out.

0:39:55.280 --> 0:39:56.840
<v Speaker 1>Like my whole life, if you're gonna look at it,

0:39:56.920 --> 0:39:59.320
<v Speaker 1>has been about helping. I didn't say I've been perfect.

0:40:00.000 --> 0:40:01.880
<v Speaker 1>My life ain't been perfect. I had to move on

0:40:02.120 --> 0:40:04.279
<v Speaker 1>and change and grow. I'm trying to show people we

0:40:04.400 --> 0:40:06.080
<v Speaker 1>can grow. And that's what I'm doing right now. The

0:40:06.160 --> 0:40:08.200
<v Speaker 1>last thing, pe tell us all the things you own

0:40:08.239 --> 0:40:09.879
<v Speaker 1>and we can get because p you always got something

0:40:09.960 --> 0:40:11.840
<v Speaker 1>that we ain't bring. No sneakers today, p Oh, you

0:40:11.920 --> 0:40:14.480
<v Speaker 1>know what I got. So many sneakers go to menat

0:40:14.600 --> 0:40:19.800
<v Speaker 1>dot com right now, come on, I'm gonna stay shin that.

0:40:19.840 --> 0:40:21.759
<v Speaker 1>I ain't wearing no. But you know what, even the

0:40:21.920 --> 0:40:25.640
<v Speaker 1>sneak of business, right bro, I didn't spend so much

0:40:25.719 --> 0:40:29.319
<v Speaker 1>money trying. I even we got to be like the Chinese. Right,

0:40:29.480 --> 0:40:33.880
<v Speaker 1>the Chinese give your order, make you pay for it upfront,

0:40:34.160 --> 0:40:35.960
<v Speaker 1>and then send you the wrong side. You can't do

0:40:36.080 --> 0:40:39.239
<v Speaker 1>nothing about it. You can't do nothing about it, dog

0:40:39.360 --> 0:40:42.239
<v Speaker 1>like you just like okay, whenever I had to change

0:40:42.280 --> 0:40:44.239
<v Speaker 1>the sides on that. But but what I'm gonna tell

0:40:44.239 --> 0:40:46.200
<v Speaker 1>you what I'm doing next? Oh you got the sports

0:40:46.440 --> 0:40:50.400
<v Speaker 1>talk radio show. Yeah, it's called the Truth. And so

0:40:50.800 --> 0:40:53.800
<v Speaker 1>it's really just about being able to give that entertainment.

0:40:53.880 --> 0:40:56.320
<v Speaker 1>I'm growing. I don't want to go to ESPN and

0:40:56.400 --> 0:40:58.160
<v Speaker 1>nothing I want. I wanted to do this, learn it

0:40:58.680 --> 0:41:00.719
<v Speaker 1>and get better because I I want. I want to

0:41:00.760 --> 0:41:02.680
<v Speaker 1>be in the sports because people don't realize sports. It

0:41:02.719 --> 0:41:05.800
<v Speaker 1>was saved my life. So basketball really took me to

0:41:05.880 --> 0:41:07.600
<v Speaker 1>a whole another level. So being able to do this

0:41:07.719 --> 0:41:11.360
<v Speaker 1>in Louisville, I mean, oh, I gotta show y'all I

0:41:11.480 --> 0:41:13.440
<v Speaker 1>got more products, he got more stuff and Now this

0:41:13.560 --> 0:41:15.680
<v Speaker 1>is good. They're gonna tell y'allself it's good and for

0:41:15.719 --> 0:41:17.839
<v Speaker 1>everybody listening. P just pull up on us this morning,

0:41:20.200 --> 0:41:22.920
<v Speaker 1>and I got things to talk about. Man, let me

0:41:22.960 --> 0:41:24.840
<v Speaker 1>tell you something. Put this on for your pain. You

0:41:24.920 --> 0:41:29.040
<v Speaker 1>see what that's called. Oh, CBD oil key Promax, p Provax.

0:41:29.360 --> 0:41:32.480
<v Speaker 1>You rubbed that on, You got an eight pains. I'm

0:41:32.560 --> 0:41:35.600
<v Speaker 1>taking it away for real, I'm taking it away. I

0:41:35.680 --> 0:41:38.080
<v Speaker 1>got a product, product to product of town. And that's

0:41:38.120 --> 0:41:39.920
<v Speaker 1>what it is. Because think about it, right, when you

0:41:39.960 --> 0:41:42.719
<v Speaker 1>look at these Portun five hundred companies, right, we make

0:41:42.840 --> 0:41:45.880
<v Speaker 1>up a tenth or one percent. I'm talking about CEOs

0:41:45.920 --> 0:41:48.400
<v Speaker 1>of these Portun five hundred company and we spend trillions

0:41:48.440 --> 0:41:52.000
<v Speaker 1>of dollars as African Americans. Why we don't own nothing

0:41:52.200 --> 0:41:56.200
<v Speaker 1>control anything. Also, when you go to Shopify, you go

0:41:56.280 --> 0:42:00.160
<v Speaker 1>to Shopify, I'm not. I got a new company. It's

0:42:00.160 --> 0:42:03.080
<v Speaker 1>called lunch Car. And so now that's what I'm saying.

0:42:03.120 --> 0:42:05.839
<v Speaker 1>Shopify is a sixty three million dollars sixty three billion

0:42:05.880 --> 0:42:09.800
<v Speaker 1>dollar company. We gotta start thinking building things to compete

0:42:10.320 --> 0:42:12.839
<v Speaker 1>and and and be able to grow things and give

0:42:12.880 --> 0:42:15.319
<v Speaker 1>our people opportunity. And so that's what I'm doing. I'm

0:42:15.360 --> 0:42:18.080
<v Speaker 1>like constantly thinking and because we can't take none of

0:42:18.160 --> 0:42:20.680
<v Speaker 1>this with her, We can't take when you die, they

0:42:20.680 --> 0:42:22.760
<v Speaker 1>ain't gonna You know, this is a sad thing about

0:42:22.760 --> 0:42:24.920
<v Speaker 1>it too, y'all. When we do die, they're gonna talk

0:42:24.920 --> 0:42:27.879
<v Speaker 1>about how great we was. But while we're here thinking

0:42:27.880 --> 0:42:31.359
<v Speaker 1>about it. No, if Biggie and Tupart was here, man,

0:42:31.400 --> 0:42:33.520
<v Speaker 1>they'll be going through so much right now. But but

0:42:33.840 --> 0:42:37.160
<v Speaker 1>like even Nipsey, all the stuff Nipsey did, all of

0:42:37.239 --> 0:42:39.799
<v Speaker 1>a sudden, he went platinum when he died, we gotta

0:42:39.840 --> 0:42:41.759
<v Speaker 1>stop with be honest with you. For me, I ain't

0:42:41.760 --> 0:42:43.920
<v Speaker 1>gonna let him look at my face. They might as

0:42:43.960 --> 0:42:46.479
<v Speaker 1>well cream make me. I don't want no fakers looking

0:42:46.520 --> 0:42:48.800
<v Speaker 1>in my face talking about they missed me and all that.

0:42:49.120 --> 0:42:52.000
<v Speaker 1>I don't want it. Even everybody that died, that's an

0:42:52.160 --> 0:42:55.240
<v Speaker 1>entertainment this world are now looking at it. We didn't

0:42:55.760 --> 0:42:58.840
<v Speaker 1>appreciate the people why they was here, right, you know,

0:42:59.000 --> 0:43:01.120
<v Speaker 1>we gotta start appreciate each other while we're here. And

0:43:01.400 --> 0:43:04.439
<v Speaker 1>I think that's basically what it is. The journey is gonna.

0:43:04.440 --> 0:43:05.880
<v Speaker 1>I love the journey. I love the products, I love

0:43:05.960 --> 0:43:08.920
<v Speaker 1>creating things, and I love my people. And so if

0:43:08.960 --> 0:43:11.600
<v Speaker 1>I can educate my people. I'm tired of this. We're

0:43:11.640 --> 0:43:14.160
<v Speaker 1>just gonna entertain our people. Let's educate our people, because

0:43:14.160 --> 0:43:17.279
<v Speaker 1>the bide will say, pray for wisdom, master, p ladies

0:43:17.280 --> 0:43:19.759
<v Speaker 1>and gentlemen. Pete, we appreciate you for pulling up. Yes, sir,

0:43:19.840 --> 0:43:25.600
<v Speaker 1>it's the breakfast Club the morning, it's time for Donkey

0:43:25.640 --> 0:43:29.960
<v Speaker 1>of the Day. I'm a Democrat, so being Dunky of

0:43:30.040 --> 0:43:32.320
<v Speaker 1>the day a little bit of a mixture. So like

0:43:32.400 --> 0:43:39.839
<v Speaker 1>a donkey the other day. Bitches. Now, I've been called

0:43:39.840 --> 0:43:41.880
<v Speaker 1>a lot of my twenty three years, but Donkey of

0:43:41.960 --> 0:43:44.120
<v Speaker 1>the Day is a new wife. Donkey the Day goes

0:43:44.120 --> 0:43:47.040
<v Speaker 1>to a young lady named Madison Marie rus So. She's

0:43:47.120 --> 0:43:50.000
<v Speaker 1>nineteen years old. She hails from Iowa, and she is

0:43:50.040 --> 0:43:52.040
<v Speaker 1>the reason that when people send me go fund me

0:43:52.200 --> 0:43:54.880
<v Speaker 1>is my first reaction is go f yourself. Okay, you

0:43:54.960 --> 0:43:58.160
<v Speaker 1>know why because in this cash I've been Mozelle go

0:43:58.400 --> 0:44:01.080
<v Speaker 1>fund me era, people be kind instantly asking for things,

0:44:01.120 --> 0:44:03.279
<v Speaker 1>and they'd be asking for things that some of us

0:44:03.400 --> 0:44:05.480
<v Speaker 1>used to have to work to get. For example, you

0:44:05.560 --> 0:44:07.279
<v Speaker 1>don't need to go fund me because you need tin

0:44:07.360 --> 0:44:10.440
<v Speaker 1>on your windows. Okay, all right, thank you, sim all right,

0:44:10.600 --> 0:44:12.479
<v Speaker 1>don't you don't need me to cash, have you because

0:44:12.480 --> 0:44:14.239
<v Speaker 1>you want to go to Miami for the weekend? All right?

0:44:14.239 --> 0:44:16.080
<v Speaker 1>I used to get those kind of requests often, but

0:44:16.160 --> 0:44:18.480
<v Speaker 1>I think folks realize that's not the way to get

0:44:18.640 --> 0:44:20.759
<v Speaker 1>money out of people. The way to get money out

0:44:20.840 --> 0:44:23.200
<v Speaker 1>of people is to have a story, and not just

0:44:23.400 --> 0:44:26.839
<v Speaker 1>any story, a story that pulls out people's heart strings. Okay,

0:44:26.920 --> 0:44:30.080
<v Speaker 1>you gotta have a SOB story. I'm talking Cleo right

0:44:30.120 --> 0:44:32.160
<v Speaker 1>before she accepted that she was about to go out

0:44:32.239 --> 0:44:34.359
<v Speaker 1>in the blaze of glory and set it off. I'm

0:44:34.440 --> 0:44:37.040
<v Speaker 1>talking Ricky getting shot in the backing boys in the Hood.

0:44:37.080 --> 0:44:40.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm talking when Charlotte and Charlotte's Webb dies because she

0:44:40.640 --> 0:44:44.400
<v Speaker 1>has reached the end of her lifespan sidebar. Wilbur is

0:44:44.400 --> 0:44:46.840
<v Speaker 1>the reason Charlotte died, all right. She doing all that

0:44:46.920 --> 0:44:50.040
<v Speaker 1>damned graffiti with her web right now, full messages to

0:44:50.160 --> 0:44:52.480
<v Speaker 1>show how special Wilber was when the reality is his

0:44:52.600 --> 0:44:55.319
<v Speaker 1>fate was to be baking. Okay, wal poor Charlotte out

0:44:55.320 --> 0:44:58.520
<v Speaker 1>physically and emotionally. Charlotte sacrificed her own well being for Wilbur,

0:44:58.640 --> 0:45:02.680
<v Speaker 1>dropping a clue's bomb for Charlotte Chote what a selfless spider.

0:45:02.800 --> 0:45:05.920
<v Speaker 1>She was okay, but your story to receive money from

0:45:05.960 --> 0:45:08.600
<v Speaker 1>complete scranges have to be that sad, which actually means

0:45:08.760 --> 0:45:11.040
<v Speaker 1>it has to be that good. And this woman Madison

0:45:11.080 --> 0:45:13.880
<v Speaker 1>from Iowa, Oh, she's one of those people who had

0:45:13.880 --> 0:45:16.440
<v Speaker 1>a really good, sad story. This woman was able to

0:45:16.480 --> 0:45:19.800
<v Speaker 1>raise thirty seven thousand dollars from Daunus thirty seven thousand

0:45:19.840 --> 0:45:22.399
<v Speaker 1>dollars thirty seven recks. How was she able to get

0:45:22.440 --> 0:45:24.439
<v Speaker 1>this money? Let's go to News eight for the report. Please,

0:45:25.360 --> 0:45:29.360
<v Speaker 1>hi everyone, my name is Maddie Russel and this is

0:45:29.440 --> 0:45:32.360
<v Speaker 1>my story. A LinkedIn video of nineteen year old Mattie

0:45:32.440 --> 0:45:36.200
<v Speaker 1>Russo explaining her supposed cancer diagnosis. She claims she was

0:45:36.280 --> 0:45:40.719
<v Speaker 1>diagnosed with stage two pancreatic cancer, acute limphoblastic leukemia, and

0:45:40.840 --> 0:45:44.120
<v Speaker 1>told there was a football sized tumor wrapped around her spine.

0:45:44.280 --> 0:45:46.880
<v Speaker 1>Since then, Russo has talked about going through cancer with

0:45:46.960 --> 0:45:50.160
<v Speaker 1>the National Pancreas Foundation in Chicago. She's also been on

0:45:50.239 --> 0:45:52.960
<v Speaker 1>a podcast for Project Purple Online, a group on a

0:45:53.040 --> 0:45:56.040
<v Speaker 1>mission to find a cure for pancreatic cancer. Her stories

0:45:56.080 --> 0:45:59.080
<v Speaker 1>on both platforms have since been removed. A go fund

0:45:59.120 --> 0:46:02.920
<v Speaker 1>me fundraiser was started titled Maddie's Fight against Pancreatic Cancer.

0:46:03.200 --> 0:46:06.160
<v Speaker 1>Tom Bouland was listed as who started the donation page.

0:46:06.400 --> 0:46:08.840
<v Speaker 1>As you can see, it raised nearly thirty eight thousand

0:46:08.920 --> 0:46:12.000
<v Speaker 1>dollars from more than four hundred donors By Tuesday. The

0:46:12.080 --> 0:46:14.239
<v Speaker 1>go fund me page was taken down. Go fund Me

0:46:14.400 --> 0:46:17.280
<v Speaker 1>releasing a statement Tuesday saying they have a zero tolerance

0:46:17.320 --> 0:46:19.840
<v Speaker 1>policy for misuse of our platform and the group is

0:46:19.920 --> 0:46:23.840
<v Speaker 1>guaranteeing a full refund to donors. I really don't understand

0:46:23.880 --> 0:46:28.239
<v Speaker 1>people like her. If you could take the time and

0:46:28.360 --> 0:46:31.560
<v Speaker 1>energy to create this elaborate false story about having a

0:46:31.680 --> 0:46:34.880
<v Speaker 1>stage two cancer diagnosis with a tumor, then guess what.

0:46:35.200 --> 0:46:37.960
<v Speaker 1>You can write a script? Okay, you can write a novel,

0:46:38.239 --> 0:46:40.920
<v Speaker 1>all right, how about write about your dock side instead

0:46:40.960 --> 0:46:43.400
<v Speaker 1>of leaning into it. Because what happens in these situations

0:46:43.560 --> 0:46:45.879
<v Speaker 1>is you make it bad for a person who's really

0:46:45.960 --> 0:46:48.520
<v Speaker 1>dealing with cancer and would and who would love to

0:46:48.640 --> 0:46:51.160
<v Speaker 1>have thirty seven thousand dollars to deal with their medical bills,

0:46:51.200 --> 0:46:54.040
<v Speaker 1>but because of folks like you, Okay, folks like me

0:46:54.120 --> 0:46:57.600
<v Speaker 1>will come across these requests and deny them simply because

0:46:57.640 --> 0:46:59.640
<v Speaker 1>I don't believe you. You need more people. All right,

0:46:59.680 --> 0:47:02.400
<v Speaker 1>this one had a fake stash and medical supplies. You

0:47:02.480 --> 0:47:06.040
<v Speaker 1>know what I mean, Anne wigs in her apartment. Girl,

0:47:06.080 --> 0:47:07.960
<v Speaker 1>you could have been throwing place. Okay. You could be

0:47:08.000 --> 0:47:10.040
<v Speaker 1>the next Style of Period, the next Jordan Cooper, the

0:47:10.160 --> 0:47:13.160
<v Speaker 1>next August Wilson. But instead of being America's next top playwright,

0:47:13.400 --> 0:47:16.080
<v Speaker 1>you decided to compete in America's got your cameras. I

0:47:16.239 --> 0:47:18.879
<v Speaker 1>don't feel sorry for you, man, Okay, I just hate

0:47:18.920 --> 0:47:20.960
<v Speaker 1>to waste the talent because anyone who can come up

0:47:21.000 --> 0:47:23.839
<v Speaker 1>with lavish, successful schemes like this can use that same

0:47:23.960 --> 0:47:26.480
<v Speaker 1>time and energy figure it out a way to mix

0:47:26.560 --> 0:47:29.239
<v Speaker 1>some money legally. Okay. Also, I was born in the

0:47:29.360 --> 0:47:31.800
<v Speaker 1>nineteen hundred. Okay, yo old uncle Charlotte and took a

0:47:31.840 --> 0:47:33.600
<v Speaker 1>few laps around the sun, and I'm from the era

0:47:33.719 --> 0:47:36.479
<v Speaker 1>with certain things. I just wasn't pretending to be because

0:47:36.480 --> 0:47:38.520
<v Speaker 1>I didn't want to actually be. That's how it was.

0:47:38.600 --> 0:47:40.600
<v Speaker 1>I didn't want to park in the handicap spot just

0:47:40.680 --> 0:47:43.880
<v Speaker 1>because I had the handicap decap. Okay, I wasn't parking

0:47:43.920 --> 0:47:46.680
<v Speaker 1>in the handicap spot getting out limping because I was taught.

0:47:46.719 --> 0:47:48.719
<v Speaker 1>You played like that, you may end up handicapped for

0:47:48.800 --> 0:47:51.880
<v Speaker 1>real faking sick, no, sir, not me. Hell I tell

0:47:51.960 --> 0:47:54.200
<v Speaker 1>my kids that now. I don't play about stuff like that. Okay,

0:47:54.200 --> 0:47:56.520
<v Speaker 1>if something is really wrong, by all means, let me know,

0:47:56.800 --> 0:47:59.759
<v Speaker 1>but don't pretend, because you really might end up that way.

0:48:00.200 --> 0:48:02.920
<v Speaker 1>Madison nineteen years old from Iowa clearly got none of

0:48:03.000 --> 0:48:05.560
<v Speaker 1>thold lessons in life, and now she's facing ten years

0:48:05.600 --> 0:48:08.520
<v Speaker 1>in prison because she wants to lie. And I hope

0:48:09.400 --> 0:48:12.480
<v Speaker 1>maybe she can get at least six months, six months.

0:48:12.680 --> 0:48:14.880
<v Speaker 1>She can just be in there with some some tough women,

0:48:15.480 --> 0:48:20.640
<v Speaker 1>you know, some tough women that sleeping box of briefs. Okay,

0:48:20.960 --> 0:48:23.840
<v Speaker 1>please get Madison Marie Russo the sweet sounds of the

0:48:23.880 --> 0:48:38.759
<v Speaker 1>Hamletones you dogkee oh the day, yeah, dog oh the day.

0:48:40.040 --> 0:48:46.040
<v Speaker 1>Yeah me six months for a scam that elaborate, you

0:48:46.120 --> 0:48:48.480
<v Speaker 1>know what I mean, making light of something that has

0:48:48.520 --> 0:48:51.239
<v Speaker 1>taken so many people's lives. At least low six months

0:48:51.640 --> 0:48:53.480
<v Speaker 1>in a prison, you know what I mean? All right,

0:48:53.520 --> 0:48:55.040
<v Speaker 1>just let us all let a room with some tough

0:48:55.120 --> 0:48:56.880
<v Speaker 1>women that wear box of briefs, you know what I mean.

0:48:57.320 --> 0:49:01.479
<v Speaker 1>That's all that scam scrap. Oh, come, that's it. What's

0:49:01.880 --> 0:49:06.759
<v Speaker 1>the background. We're gonna play games, Okay, Okay, I guess

0:49:06.800 --> 0:49:10.080
<v Speaker 1>it's time to play a game of guess what rati?

0:49:11.800 --> 0:49:15.400
<v Speaker 1>All right, Madison Marie Russo, nineteen years old of Iowa

0:49:15.680 --> 0:49:18.520
<v Speaker 1>did a scam where she said she had stage two

0:49:18.600 --> 0:49:21.799
<v Speaker 1>cancer and a big ass tumor. She got thirty seven

0:49:21.840 --> 0:49:30.879
<v Speaker 1>thousand dollars from donors. Guys, what ratio is completely white? Why?

0:49:31.000 --> 0:49:34.200
<v Speaker 1>Completely white? Not even off white? Just completely white white

0:49:34.239 --> 0:49:39.560
<v Speaker 1>completely not completely white? Him uh dj n Yes, Madison

0:49:39.640 --> 0:49:42.760
<v Speaker 1>Marie rosso Or nineteen years old from Iowa, U scam

0:49:42.920 --> 0:49:45.160
<v Speaker 1>thirty seven racks out of people by lying about having

0:49:45.200 --> 0:49:49.320
<v Speaker 1>stage two cancer diagnosis and a tumor. Yess what ratio

0:49:49.520 --> 0:49:54.799
<v Speaker 1>is white? I'm with you. Black people ain't gonna pay

0:49:54.840 --> 0:49:57.120
<v Speaker 1>with ale miss, like they ain't gonna say ain't got sick?

0:49:57.560 --> 0:49:59.160
<v Speaker 1>And then I don't think people are gonna get black

0:49:59.160 --> 0:50:02.560
<v Speaker 1>people money like that bad love. That's right. I just

0:50:02.640 --> 0:50:04.719
<v Speaker 1>had a whole conversation about how certain black people don't

0:50:04.760 --> 0:50:06.200
<v Speaker 1>want to go to the doctor. So I ain't about

0:50:06.200 --> 0:50:10.239
<v Speaker 1>to play about being what I'm saying. Both of you

0:50:10.520 --> 0:50:14.520
<v Speaker 1>are absolutely correct. I didn't send Marie Russo is completely white,

0:50:18.880 --> 0:50:25.120
<v Speaker 1>completely white the breakfast club and it was just something

0:50:25.160 --> 0:50:27.839
<v Speaker 1>about his charisma and his energy, Like whatever he said

0:50:27.880 --> 0:50:29.279
<v Speaker 1>he wanted to do in his life, thus far, he

0:50:29.320 --> 0:50:31.320
<v Speaker 1>had gotten it. So I was like, oh, this this

0:50:31.440 --> 0:50:33.080
<v Speaker 1>could be something. Did you know she was the one

0:50:33.120 --> 0:50:44.160
<v Speaker 1>he was the first time about Nah, actually, man, man,

0:50:44.239 --> 0:50:46.279
<v Speaker 1>that's gonna hit me with the Kevin Harten. I didn't

0:50:46.320 --> 0:50:49.880
<v Speaker 1>say no like that, like damn, we're talking our podcasts

0:50:49.880 --> 0:50:51.600
<v Speaker 1>and we said in the book like she told me

0:50:51.719 --> 0:50:53.800
<v Speaker 1>she loved me. After two weeks and I was like,

0:50:55.160 --> 0:50:59.359
<v Speaker 1>thanks much. I didn't know not turn off. It could

0:50:59.400 --> 0:51:03.799
<v Speaker 1>have been eighteen No, I said thanks. And the reason

0:51:03.840 --> 0:51:07.000
<v Speaker 1>why I said thanks and I still came back for

0:51:07.120 --> 0:51:09.200
<v Speaker 1>more after the things right, So he was the crazy one.

0:51:09.600 --> 0:51:11.279
<v Speaker 1>But here's the thing though, I said thanks because I

0:51:11.400 --> 0:51:13.040
<v Speaker 1>was like, I don't want to lead her on. Am

0:51:13.080 --> 0:51:14.440
<v Speaker 1>I going to be a liar and be like I

0:51:14.600 --> 0:51:17.120
<v Speaker 1>love you and then not know if we're gonna be together?

0:51:17.160 --> 0:51:18.400
<v Speaker 1>So I was like I didn't know what to say,

0:51:18.440 --> 0:51:20.719
<v Speaker 1>so I said thanks. It makes me think, like, can

0:51:20.800 --> 0:51:23.239
<v Speaker 1>you have a future someone if you can't see a

0:51:23.320 --> 0:51:25.640
<v Speaker 1>future with someone like you saw the future with him?

0:51:25.920 --> 0:51:28.319
<v Speaker 1>Yeah I did, And it's funny. It's just the vibe

0:51:28.320 --> 0:51:30.160
<v Speaker 1>I think that we had from early. It was just

0:51:30.239 --> 0:51:33.040
<v Speaker 1>talking about hopes and dreams, and he always spoke like

0:51:33.160 --> 0:51:35.440
<v Speaker 1>a guy that was just far beyond his years, like

0:51:35.520 --> 0:51:37.759
<v Speaker 1>even with plans for what he wants to do financially

0:51:37.840 --> 0:51:39.719
<v Speaker 1>with his life and his future. And he knew that

0:51:39.719 --> 0:51:41.560
<v Speaker 1>he didn't want to play football long term. He wanted

0:51:41.600 --> 0:51:43.640
<v Speaker 1>to eventually be an actor. So I'm like, well, how

0:51:43.640 --> 0:51:45.359
<v Speaker 1>are you gonna do that? He's like, I'm gonna ride

0:51:45.360 --> 0:51:47.120
<v Speaker 1>out on the scholarship. I'm gonna see if I could

0:51:47.280 --> 0:51:49.400
<v Speaker 1>make the NFL. If I'm at least on the practice squad,

0:51:49.400 --> 0:51:51.080
<v Speaker 1>I can make a little money to build a little

0:51:51.120 --> 0:51:53.920
<v Speaker 1>nest egg, move back to Brooklyn and get around so renovated.

0:51:53.960 --> 0:51:55.480
<v Speaker 1>We live on the bottom floor, like we had a

0:51:55.520 --> 0:51:57.319
<v Speaker 1>whole thing planned. That was the first date. We talked

0:51:57.360 --> 0:51:59.440
<v Speaker 1>about that on the first day. First day. And when

0:51:59.440 --> 0:52:01.879
<v Speaker 1>I think about it yourself, eighteen year old kids don't

0:52:01.880 --> 0:52:04.600
<v Speaker 1>speak about building their life like that. But when I remember,

0:52:04.600 --> 0:52:06.720
<v Speaker 1>if they think I was thinking like that at eighteen,

0:52:06.880 --> 0:52:09.520
<v Speaker 1>So did you ever think because he played football he

0:52:09.600 --> 0:52:11.120
<v Speaker 1>was an athlete, like, oh, he's gonna be one of

0:52:11.160 --> 0:52:14.560
<v Speaker 1>those Oh, absolutely absolutely. People warned me too, They were like, oh, like,

0:52:14.680 --> 0:52:17.920
<v Speaker 1>don't even get too involved, especially once time came for

0:52:18.000 --> 0:52:20.880
<v Speaker 1>the NFL and he was a prospect. They were like,

0:52:21.080 --> 0:52:23.919
<v Speaker 1>this is the part where you guys go your separate ways.

0:52:24.040 --> 0:52:26.279
<v Speaker 1>Let him. So was Willow, you focus on what you

0:52:26.360 --> 0:52:29.000
<v Speaker 1>gotta focus on, and if you make it out on

0:52:29.120 --> 0:52:31.880
<v Speaker 1>top after he's out there with these NFL groupies, then

0:52:31.960 --> 0:52:34.319
<v Speaker 1>maybe things will work out. And they went both ways.

0:52:34.440 --> 0:52:36.040
<v Speaker 1>They told me when I went to go play football,

0:52:36.040 --> 0:52:38.320
<v Speaker 1>she wasn't gonna wait for me. She was still in schools.

0:52:38.360 --> 0:52:40.640
<v Speaker 1>You get her masters degree. Everybody's like, you think while

0:52:40.640 --> 0:52:42.480
<v Speaker 1>you playing ball, she's gonna be sitting back at how

0:52:42.520 --> 0:52:43.960
<v Speaker 1>she just waiting for you to come back. And it

0:52:44.120 --> 0:52:45.560
<v Speaker 1>was part to me. I was like, dang, that's a

0:52:45.680 --> 0:52:48.320
<v Speaker 1>tall tax. And it made me insecure. Like there's a

0:52:48.320 --> 0:52:50.920
<v Speaker 1>story we talked about in the book when we couldn't

0:52:50.960 --> 0:52:53.520
<v Speaker 1>find her for a day. She was coming back from

0:52:53.560 --> 0:52:55.520
<v Speaker 1>tracks in Brooklyn. Yeah, it was like a little lounge

0:52:55.520 --> 0:52:57.279
<v Speaker 1>I used to go to every Thursday with my home girls.

0:52:57.440 --> 0:52:59.120
<v Speaker 1>And she ran into her uncle on the way back

0:52:59.239 --> 0:53:01.160
<v Speaker 1>and he was like, you're not driving back to Long Island.

0:53:01.160 --> 0:53:03.000
<v Speaker 1>You're gonna come stay when you know you were drinking

0:53:03.080 --> 0:53:04.520
<v Speaker 1>or whatever, and he was She's like, I wasn't drinking.

0:53:04.520 --> 0:53:06.439
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna meal. So he went to stay. She went stay,

0:53:06.800 --> 0:53:08.960
<v Speaker 1>uncle fell asleep, left her car, her phone in the car.

0:53:09.239 --> 0:53:11.359
<v Speaker 1>She always calls me when she gets back. So now

0:53:11.440 --> 0:53:13.839
<v Speaker 1>I'm in the locker room, I'm getting ready for team meetings,

0:53:13.880 --> 0:53:15.239
<v Speaker 1>and I don't get no phone call. I don't get

0:53:15.280 --> 0:53:19.320
<v Speaker 1>no phone call at all. I wish woman understood that

0:53:19.480 --> 0:53:21.480
<v Speaker 1>what I really do not want you understand how that

0:53:21.600 --> 0:53:24.120
<v Speaker 1>makes us feel when you talk about it, bro, because

0:53:24.120 --> 0:53:25.359
<v Speaker 1>I used to tell her all the time, like how

0:53:25.400 --> 0:53:27.279
<v Speaker 1>do you not call me when you get places to

0:53:27.400 --> 0:53:30.000
<v Speaker 1>this day? So now I'm in the locker room, NFL rookie.

0:53:30.120 --> 0:53:31.960
<v Speaker 1>I didn't even get to practice. I didn't get to

0:53:32.000 --> 0:53:34.640
<v Speaker 1>practice because after that, her mom called me to, hey,

0:53:34.800 --> 0:53:40.200
<v Speaker 1>we haven't heard from now you cry? You cry? What?

0:53:41.200 --> 0:53:46.960
<v Speaker 1>No nasty snot? Somebody got my good man? Like I'm

0:53:47.080 --> 0:53:51.960
<v Speaker 1>crying balling. Then my mom calls me, Um, I think

0:53:52.000 --> 0:53:55.320
<v Speaker 1>you should come home. So now I'm thinking they found

0:53:55.360 --> 0:53:57.719
<v Speaker 1>her and they don't want to tell me because I'm

0:53:57.760 --> 0:54:01.120
<v Speaker 1>buying myself in Detroit. So I go to the security office.

0:54:03.400 --> 0:54:05.880
<v Speaker 1>I go to my the NFL securities office. I'm like, yo, um,

0:54:06.000 --> 0:54:08.160
<v Speaker 1>they can't find my girlfriend and they've been having issues

0:54:08.200 --> 0:54:11.440
<v Speaker 1>with people breaking in people's house, taking people's family members.

0:54:11.480 --> 0:54:13.440
<v Speaker 1>This happens in the league a lot. We're taking for ransom,

0:54:13.480 --> 0:54:15.239
<v Speaker 1>all of you. So they're like, all right, you know

0:54:15.280 --> 0:54:18.120
<v Speaker 1>we're gonna get our people involved. They called FBI, they

0:54:18.239 --> 0:54:21.920
<v Speaker 1>broke into her phone, they called campus security, broke into everything,

0:54:22.040 --> 0:54:24.600
<v Speaker 1>like text menures everything right, They're like, we have nothing,

0:54:24.640 --> 0:54:26.839
<v Speaker 1>We found nothing, like, we don't know where she give

0:54:26.880 --> 0:54:28.399
<v Speaker 1>me a time to man, how long? What's that matter

0:54:28.440 --> 0:54:32.320
<v Speaker 1>of dropped her? My friend? Another thing that you support

0:54:32.320 --> 0:54:35.880
<v Speaker 1>int to mention. This guy parked me into my parking

0:54:35.960 --> 0:54:38.279
<v Speaker 1>spot and wouldn't let me out the spot unless I

0:54:38.360 --> 0:54:41.000
<v Speaker 1>gave him my number. That's the last conversation she had

0:54:41.160 --> 0:54:42.880
<v Speaker 1>we had on the just like it was like, no,

0:54:42.960 --> 0:54:44.239
<v Speaker 1>I need your number, and I'm like, I'm really trying

0:54:44.239 --> 0:54:45.640
<v Speaker 1>to get this parking spot. So he was trying to

0:54:45.640 --> 0:54:47.520
<v Speaker 1>bullieve me to get my number, and I told him

0:54:47.520 --> 0:54:50.320
<v Speaker 1>that what was happening, So he thought for sure, homeboy

0:54:50.400 --> 0:54:52.799
<v Speaker 1>follow me. Yeah, And I wasn't even thinking to put

0:54:52.840 --> 0:54:54.760
<v Speaker 1>two and two together. So it's about maybe two am,

0:54:54.800 --> 0:54:58.399
<v Speaker 1>but a yeah, and literally as I turned the block,

0:54:58.520 --> 0:54:59.960
<v Speaker 1>I pull up and my uncle looks and He's like

0:55:00.160 --> 0:55:02.399
<v Speaker 1>ky and I was like yeah, uncle Emil big time.

0:55:02.480 --> 0:55:04.239
<v Speaker 1>Protected like you're not driving. He was like you about

0:55:04.239 --> 0:55:10.240
<v Speaker 1>to drive to Long Island and yeah. I was missing

0:55:10.280 --> 0:55:15.920
<v Speaker 1>for about two am to ten am and then she

0:55:16.200 --> 0:55:17.560
<v Speaker 1>got to her phone. It was just like, yo, what's

0:55:17.560 --> 0:55:19.080
<v Speaker 1>going on? Yeah? I woke up. I'm like, oh my god,

0:55:19.120 --> 0:55:20.560
<v Speaker 1>where's my phone. I get to the car and I

0:55:20.719 --> 0:55:22.320
<v Speaker 1>was like, oh, it's dead. The man I turned the

0:55:22.360 --> 0:55:26.799
<v Speaker 1>phone on. It's like forty eight text messages, thirty something voicemails.

0:55:26.880 --> 0:55:28.480
<v Speaker 1>My mom is in tears. She was like, don't you

0:55:28.600 --> 0:55:30.840
<v Speaker 1>ever do that again? Develos on his way home. I'm like,

0:55:30.960 --> 0:55:34.600
<v Speaker 1>what that part? And I was just wanting to make

0:55:34.600 --> 0:55:36.640
<v Speaker 1>it to practice lines got me to flight. Oh my god,

0:55:37.120 --> 0:55:38.840
<v Speaker 1>I'm in. I'm on my way to the airport. My

0:55:38.920 --> 0:55:40.960
<v Speaker 1>phone rings. At first when I was calling her, it

0:55:41.040 --> 0:55:42.960
<v Speaker 1>went dead. Now I'm like, they got her phone, They

0:55:43.000 --> 0:55:45.239
<v Speaker 1>turned it off. They sending me the voicemail. Then I

0:55:45.320 --> 0:55:47.400
<v Speaker 1>see a phone call from the boss. I got in.

0:55:47.480 --> 0:55:49.480
<v Speaker 1>There's the boss and I'm like, not about to ask

0:55:49.480 --> 0:55:50.920
<v Speaker 1>you for some money? Whoever? This is about I ask

0:55:51.000 --> 0:55:53.279
<v Speaker 1>some money? So I pick up the phone. Yeah, I'm

0:55:53.320 --> 0:55:57.600
<v Speaker 1>like I'm like who She's like, babe, baby, I tell

0:55:57.640 --> 0:55:59.040
<v Speaker 1>you everything I went through. Right, you would think my

0:55:59.120 --> 0:56:03.720
<v Speaker 1>wife learned right again, what happened this past weekend? Again,

0:56:04.239 --> 0:56:08.000
<v Speaker 1>it wasn't that she went to get a massage, right,

0:56:08.120 --> 0:56:10.360
<v Speaker 1>and she texts me, Hey, babe, I'm here. I'll be

0:56:10.440 --> 0:56:12.520
<v Speaker 1>on my way home. I'll be home at six. Right,

0:56:12.840 --> 0:56:15.120
<v Speaker 1>it's five forty five. I'm thinking she gotta be on

0:56:15.200 --> 0:56:17.880
<v Speaker 1>her way home. Of course, I'm calling like ten minutes straight.

0:56:18.239 --> 0:56:19.680
<v Speaker 1>Now I'm in a car, I'm about to pull out.

0:56:19.719 --> 0:56:23.440
<v Speaker 1>I get phone call. Hey man, I'm like, bro, I'm

0:56:27.160 --> 0:56:30.200
<v Speaker 1>my kids phone. My wife is sixty. I got through

0:56:30.280 --> 0:56:33.160
<v Speaker 1>sixty three sixty. You know what's crazy? But what pisses

0:56:33.200 --> 0:56:35.719
<v Speaker 1>you off the Moses, how nonchalant they act like it's

0:56:35.800 --> 0:56:43.719
<v Speaker 1>nothing learnt that black. I was just on the massage table. Man.

0:56:44.040 --> 0:56:45.680
<v Speaker 1>I don't know why our minds worked like that, but

0:56:45.800 --> 0:56:48.880
<v Speaker 1>we think the worst, worst possible, an argument like after that,

0:56:48.920 --> 0:56:51.040
<v Speaker 1>because now you kids just can't let her Liftc's the

0:56:51.040 --> 0:56:52.759
<v Speaker 1>second time you gotta give a grace you talk about

0:56:52.800 --> 0:56:54.440
<v Speaker 1>in the new book. You have to give you your

0:56:54.680 --> 0:56:58.040
<v Speaker 1>partner Greece. Yes, yes, that's the biggest thing for us

0:56:58.080 --> 0:56:59.920
<v Speaker 1>is learning how to communicate. You know, we came from

0:57:00.040 --> 0:57:04.360
<v Speaker 1>different communication style, polar opposite. I grew up at an athlete.

0:57:04.680 --> 0:57:07.040
<v Speaker 1>Nothing was ever good enough for my parents. They were

0:57:07.040 --> 0:57:09.360
<v Speaker 1>always being hard on me like that. Then my football

0:57:09.400 --> 0:57:12.520
<v Speaker 1>coaches extremely hard on me, but that made me successful.

0:57:12.800 --> 0:57:15.200
<v Speaker 1>So I felt like, if you love someone and you

0:57:15.280 --> 0:57:17.400
<v Speaker 1>want them to be successful, you should be hard on them.

0:57:17.640 --> 0:57:19.760
<v Speaker 1>So I used to be hard on my girlfriend if

0:57:19.800 --> 0:57:21.560
<v Speaker 1>I saw that she wanted to do something to send,

0:57:21.600 --> 0:57:23.040
<v Speaker 1>which she was like, how are we gonna do that?

0:57:23.400 --> 0:57:24.760
<v Speaker 1>She said she wanted to do TV. How are we

0:57:24.880 --> 0:57:27.680
<v Speaker 1>gonna do it? I'm on her, Oh, TV, they weigh

0:57:27.680 --> 0:57:29.200
<v Speaker 1>one hundred and twenty pounds. You need to be in

0:57:29.240 --> 0:57:31.040
<v Speaker 1>the gym. What are your grades? Like, you said you

0:57:31.080 --> 0:57:33.160
<v Speaker 1>wanted to do this, you need to record more content,

0:57:33.200 --> 0:57:35.480
<v Speaker 1>And she'd be like, bro, I thought I was doing

0:57:35.520 --> 0:57:38.520
<v Speaker 1>the right thing. And after five years of marriage, that's

0:57:38.520 --> 0:57:40.600
<v Speaker 1>when I kind of realized he was taking the football approach.

0:57:40.640 --> 0:57:42.480
<v Speaker 1>He thought it was like, I'm a teammate, yes, but

0:57:42.600 --> 0:57:44.760
<v Speaker 1>I'm not like a teammate on the football field. So

0:57:45.040 --> 0:57:47.680
<v Speaker 1>coming from a background where my family really like had

0:57:47.880 --> 0:57:50.600
<v Speaker 1>extensive conversations about anything, it was more so if something

0:57:50.680 --> 0:57:52.880
<v Speaker 1>happened you didn't feel so good about it. You feel

0:57:52.920 --> 0:57:55.400
<v Speaker 1>a way it'll blow over. Let's just sweep it under

0:57:55.400 --> 0:57:58.640
<v Speaker 1>the rug. So attacking things head on, communicating about problems,

0:57:58.760 --> 0:58:00.520
<v Speaker 1>talking about how you felt like this was a huge

0:58:00.640 --> 0:58:03.080
<v Speaker 1>learning curve for me. We're just figuring out how to

0:58:03.360 --> 0:58:06.480
<v Speaker 1>both of us just eloquently even expressed or formulate in

0:58:06.560 --> 0:58:08.640
<v Speaker 1>my mind, how to tell him how I felt about it.

0:58:09.000 --> 0:58:10.920
<v Speaker 1>So people see us now and they're like, man, I

0:58:11.040 --> 0:58:12.919
<v Speaker 1>want to find me a Devot. I want to find

0:58:12.960 --> 0:58:15.440
<v Speaker 1>me a Codeine. So we're like, well, Devalikade, you see

0:58:15.480 --> 0:58:19.080
<v Speaker 1>today is not the Devalide that first met each other.

0:58:19.160 --> 0:58:21.440
<v Speaker 1>This is twenty years in the making. We have more

0:58:21.480 --> 0:58:23.720
<v Speaker 1>with Cadein and de Vouls. When we come back that

0:58:23.840 --> 0:58:26.040
<v Speaker 1>book we over me. It's out today. It's the breakfast

0:58:26.080 --> 0:58:27.920
<v Speaker 1>club of morning. We're still kicking it with Codeine and

0:58:27.960 --> 0:58:30.960
<v Speaker 1>Devout Charlemagne. You know, in the book, y'all talk about

0:58:31.400 --> 0:58:34.600
<v Speaker 1>friendship and how friendship is the core of the relationship,

0:58:34.680 --> 0:58:36.440
<v Speaker 1>which I agree with too, But some people would say

0:58:36.760 --> 0:58:40.600
<v Speaker 1>a love should be the core of a relationship over friendship.

0:58:40.640 --> 0:58:42.960
<v Speaker 1>What would y'all say that? I would say this, More

0:58:43.080 --> 0:58:47.280
<v Speaker 1>friendships last than intimate partners. People have boyfriends and girlfriends

0:58:47.320 --> 0:58:48.800
<v Speaker 1>in and out of their entire life. But some people

0:58:48.840 --> 0:58:52.240
<v Speaker 1>have friends their whole life, and those friends are allowed grace. Right,

0:58:52.600 --> 0:58:54.240
<v Speaker 1>You have friends that may do something to you like

0:58:54.320 --> 0:58:56.520
<v Speaker 1>that's my homeboy. We'll figure it out. But a lot

0:58:56.560 --> 0:58:58.400
<v Speaker 1>of times when this love that's like you hurt me,

0:58:59.240 --> 0:59:01.280
<v Speaker 1>and when you hurt me, I can't take I can't

0:59:01.800 --> 0:59:04.440
<v Speaker 1>you know, rekindle that hurt. This is what we've learned

0:59:04.640 --> 0:59:07.200
<v Speaker 1>over the past couple of years. I no longer try

0:59:07.360 --> 0:59:10.880
<v Speaker 1>to validate my actions by dismissing the way she feels

0:59:10.920 --> 0:59:13.400
<v Speaker 1>about it, you know. And I think a lot of

0:59:13.480 --> 0:59:17.440
<v Speaker 1>times in intimate relationships, not in friendships, people do that.

0:59:17.760 --> 0:59:19.600
<v Speaker 1>If your friend is hurt by something, a lot of times,

0:59:19.640 --> 0:59:20.880
<v Speaker 1>as your friend, you'd be like, oh my bad, I

0:59:20.920 --> 0:59:22.600
<v Speaker 1>ain't mean to hurt your feelings. But then when your

0:59:22.640 --> 0:59:25.480
<v Speaker 1>girl does something or your girl's feelings are hurt, it's like, well,

0:59:25.520 --> 0:59:27.280
<v Speaker 1>I didn't mean to hurt you. I did it like this,

0:59:27.480 --> 0:59:30.520
<v Speaker 1>and you shouldn't be hurt. You can't tell people not

0:59:30.720 --> 0:59:32.840
<v Speaker 1>to be hurt by something you did. They didn't ask

0:59:33.240 --> 0:59:35.920
<v Speaker 1>to be hurt. They hurt. So what we've learned how

0:59:35.960 --> 0:59:38.400
<v Speaker 1>to do was just accept the other's feelings. You feel

0:59:38.440 --> 0:59:40.480
<v Speaker 1>that way, I'm gonna explain to you why I did it.

0:59:40.520 --> 0:59:42.240
<v Speaker 1>I didn't mean to hurt you, but I accept the

0:59:42.320 --> 0:59:44.560
<v Speaker 1>fact that you feel that way. And it's not just

0:59:44.720 --> 0:59:46.680
<v Speaker 1>a for a man to do to a woman. I'd

0:59:46.720 --> 0:59:49.120
<v Speaker 1>be wanting my feelings to be validated to you know

0:59:49.160 --> 0:59:51.360
<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying, Like, that's and that's the manliest thing

0:59:51.400 --> 0:59:53.520
<v Speaker 1>I can say about it. When my wife started to

0:59:53.600 --> 0:59:56.120
<v Speaker 1>validate my feelings and say she understands how I feel,

0:59:56.280 --> 0:59:58.800
<v Speaker 1>she didn't always agree, but she understood, I said, at

0:59:58.840 --> 1:00:01.000
<v Speaker 1>least if you can understand, can move forward. And that's

1:00:01.360 --> 1:00:04.240
<v Speaker 1>that's why I feel like friendship to me is the foundation,

1:00:04.400 --> 1:00:06.360
<v Speaker 1>because you have funds for life. Now let me ask

1:00:06.360 --> 1:00:08.520
<v Speaker 1>you know, what do you think about that? No? I think, um,

1:00:08.760 --> 1:00:10.240
<v Speaker 1>he's spot on with that. And it's funny. For a

1:00:10.320 --> 1:00:13.440
<v Speaker 1>while with Devout, I would encourage him to speak his

1:00:13.520 --> 1:00:15.120
<v Speaker 1>mind and say how he felt, and then at the

1:00:15.200 --> 1:00:17.400
<v Speaker 1>same time be like, man, you're bitching and moaning every

1:00:17.520 --> 1:00:22.520
<v Speaker 1>day about something like literally, I was like, since when

1:00:22.560 --> 1:00:25.640
<v Speaker 1>did the feeling she become what you said? We will

1:00:25.640 --> 1:00:27.320
<v Speaker 1>have been a discussion, right, And this is for the

1:00:27.400 --> 1:00:29.480
<v Speaker 1>first time in my life. I was just like, well,

1:00:29.480 --> 1:00:31.360
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna be honest, this is how I fell to

1:00:31.440 --> 1:00:33.320
<v Speaker 1>hurt my feelings, and I'm going through what I hurt

1:00:33.360 --> 1:00:36.320
<v Speaker 1>my feelings. She goes, sound like a damn it man,

1:00:38.400 --> 1:00:41.480
<v Speaker 1>how do you respond? So me being a very immature

1:00:41.800 --> 1:00:43.600
<v Speaker 1>person as I am, I said, I don't got to

1:00:43.680 --> 1:00:46.160
<v Speaker 1>sound like a I can get me another because now

1:00:46.240 --> 1:00:53.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to hurt her like we were like twenty

1:00:53.160 --> 1:00:57.360
<v Speaker 1>six immature. But and we tell these stories in the

1:00:57.400 --> 1:00:59.760
<v Speaker 1>book because we like to tell people the stories too

1:01:00.160 --> 1:01:02.560
<v Speaker 1>through the trauma. I'm not gonna make it seem like

1:01:02.640 --> 1:01:05.360
<v Speaker 1>everything was picture perfect, because when people fall into a

1:01:05.480 --> 1:01:08.320
<v Speaker 1>situation in relationship where they hurting each other, they feel

1:01:08.320 --> 1:01:11.120
<v Speaker 1>like I'm the only relationship going through this. And since

1:01:11.160 --> 1:01:14.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm the only relationship going through this, I'm gonna get

1:01:14.120 --> 1:01:16.840
<v Speaker 1>out of here. But nah, were just like, listen, that

1:01:16.960 --> 1:01:18.640
<v Speaker 1>hurt my feelings. That hurt my feelings. I don't mean

1:01:18.680 --> 1:01:20.160
<v Speaker 1>to do that. I didn't mean to say that. How

1:01:20.200 --> 1:01:21.520
<v Speaker 1>can we get back to what we want to do?

1:01:22.280 --> 1:01:23.680
<v Speaker 1>We try to. I try to encourage it now too,

1:01:23.720 --> 1:01:26.360
<v Speaker 1>because I mean so often women are trying to pull

1:01:26.440 --> 1:01:28.600
<v Speaker 1>at their men to tell them how do you feel

1:01:28.640 --> 1:01:30.240
<v Speaker 1>what do you need? What do you want? And the

1:01:30.320 --> 1:01:32.000
<v Speaker 1>fact that I have a Husbandhod I think is sometimes

1:01:32.040 --> 1:01:34.720
<v Speaker 1>even an oversharer, like sometimes we just talk like for us,

1:01:34.800 --> 1:01:38.240
<v Speaker 1>marriage seems to be one continued long conversation, like it

1:01:38.400 --> 1:01:41.080
<v Speaker 1>just never ends, like we're always talking about something. So

1:01:41.680 --> 1:01:43.440
<v Speaker 1>that's the thing that's been our saving race for us.

1:01:43.480 --> 1:01:45.440
<v Speaker 1>It's like just being upfront about how we feel off

1:01:45.440 --> 1:01:48.360
<v Speaker 1>the bat, so there's no guessing involved. Now he's acting now,

1:01:49.160 --> 1:01:50.880
<v Speaker 1>or he's been acting for a long time now, So

1:01:51.240 --> 1:01:53.000
<v Speaker 1>did you ever have a problem with him lip locking

1:01:53.160 --> 1:01:59.520
<v Speaker 1>with others? How looky like this? Really? Well, let me

1:01:59.560 --> 1:02:05.960
<v Speaker 1>tell you, queen, queen, now we're extending my poorn vocabulary.

1:02:06.320 --> 1:02:09.120
<v Speaker 1>But anyway, no, I actually I think because I understand

1:02:09.160 --> 1:02:11.280
<v Speaker 1>the industry and I realized, like, these sex scenes ain't

1:02:11.320 --> 1:02:13.880
<v Speaker 1>really nothing super sexy about it. I think about the

1:02:14.000 --> 1:02:16.880
<v Speaker 1>environment that he's in when they're actually filming that. Um.

1:02:17.080 --> 1:02:21.320
<v Speaker 1>But a funny story. Two years ago, actually almost two

1:02:21.400 --> 1:02:23.800
<v Speaker 1>years he was filming an episode of Sisters or a

1:02:23.840 --> 1:02:27.440
<v Speaker 1>season of Sisters. So I'm simultaneously watching the episodes that

1:02:27.480 --> 1:02:30.320
<v Speaker 1>are on air, and he warns me that he has

1:02:30.400 --> 1:02:33.160
<v Speaker 1>this shower scene coming up with his coast or Crystal.

1:02:33.280 --> 1:02:35.680
<v Speaker 1>So I was like, okay, all right, and he was

1:02:35.760 --> 1:02:37.880
<v Speaker 1>just like just so you know, like it's gonna be

1:02:37.920 --> 1:02:40.240
<v Speaker 1>a little intense. And I'm like, how intense is going

1:02:40.280 --> 1:02:43.600
<v Speaker 1>to be for BT? Like that's bet. So the episode

1:02:43.640 --> 1:02:46.080
<v Speaker 1>comes on and I see the valve got Crystal like

1:02:46.320 --> 1:02:48.720
<v Speaker 1>legs over his shoulder. She's up against the shower wall.

1:02:48.760 --> 1:02:51.160
<v Speaker 1>It's a blue light and I'm then it's just going

1:02:51.240 --> 1:02:54.040
<v Speaker 1>and it's going and I'm like, oh, that's what we're doing, right.

1:02:54.240 --> 1:03:00.280
<v Speaker 1>So I'm like, that's what we doing? Okay? Cool? So

1:03:00.320 --> 1:03:01.760
<v Speaker 1>what I did. I go on Amazon. I was like,

1:03:02.160 --> 1:03:06.720
<v Speaker 1>blue light bulb. So I ordered me a blue light bulb,

1:03:06.960 --> 1:03:09.600
<v Speaker 1>a blue light bulb, and the lamp came to the door.

1:03:10.280 --> 1:03:13.040
<v Speaker 1>I screwed that join in. He came home one day

1:03:13.280 --> 1:03:16.160
<v Speaker 1>before Valentine's Day and I was like, oh you hear.

1:03:16.400 --> 1:03:19.200
<v Speaker 1>I went put that thing together, put the blue light on.

1:03:19.240 --> 1:03:21.000
<v Speaker 1>We only had the air mattress in the bedroom at

1:03:21.040 --> 1:03:23.120
<v Speaker 1>this point. And let me tell you, got to work

1:03:23.240 --> 1:03:30.880
<v Speaker 1>in our son, Dakota the product of the Blue which

1:03:30.960 --> 1:03:33.520
<v Speaker 1>is kind of weird because it was inspired from a

1:03:33.560 --> 1:03:36.440
<v Speaker 1>scene between him and Crystals his godmother. Actually yeah, and

1:03:36.600 --> 1:03:39.680
<v Speaker 1>he's you know, born months later, So I can't tell

1:03:39.760 --> 1:03:42.600
<v Speaker 1>him that story. I don't think I'll save the I

1:03:42.640 --> 1:03:48.720
<v Speaker 1>can't tell him like, oh, you were documented. But I

1:03:48.800 --> 1:03:51.480
<v Speaker 1>will say this though, I'm very deliberate. I'm making sure

1:03:51.520 --> 1:03:54.000
<v Speaker 1>that she is in contact with the women that I

1:03:54.080 --> 1:03:56.480
<v Speaker 1>have these scenes were so for example, when we did

1:03:56.520 --> 1:03:59.560
<v Speaker 1>our chemistry read me and Crystal, Crystal face timed her

1:04:00.080 --> 1:04:01.720
<v Speaker 1>let her know beforehand, like, you know, we have some

1:04:01.840 --> 1:04:04.040
<v Speaker 1>sex scenes to me. I don't want it to ever

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<v Speaker 1>be a thing where she feels uncomfortable. You go to

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<v Speaker 1>a red carpet or you go to an event, and

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<v Speaker 1>that's the woman that I had a sex scene within.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the first time you have a meter. It's like, nah,

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<v Speaker 1>y'all have this conversation beforehand. I'm always respectful, especially to

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<v Speaker 1>my costars, like I'm never going to cross that line

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<v Speaker 1>because after the whole Me Too movement, you realize how

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<v Speaker 1>easy it is for someone to feel uncomfortable in your presence.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you ever felt uncomfortable in the workplace. I've never

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<v Speaker 1>felt uncomfortable, to be honest, and I'm not going to

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<v Speaker 1>out anybody, but women are very sexual to as a workplace.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, they say stuff they you know, a woman, mate,

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<v Speaker 1>smack you on the butt if you know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>If they think it's just that type of environment, and

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<v Speaker 1>you may feel comfortable as a man saying oh, if

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<v Speaker 1>that's what we're doing, that's what we're doing. But what

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<v Speaker 1>I equated to, which may not be right, is kind

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<v Speaker 1>of like I can make a joke on a white boy.

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<v Speaker 1>If you make a joke on me about my blackness,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna be pissed. Right if a woman says something

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<v Speaker 1>to me about my physique, I'm gonna eat that. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not gonna now just comment about her body every time

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<v Speaker 1>I see her. You don't know that sounds crazy? Let

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<v Speaker 1>me ask your questions, right. So, people got on me

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<v Speaker 1>about a couple of weeks ago because my wife went

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<v Speaker 1>on a twenty day trip. Yeah I see, and they

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<v Speaker 1>were like, how dare you? How you let her go

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<v Speaker 1>on the scene? Would you let your wife go on

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<v Speaker 1>to twenty day trip? So here's here's my thing. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know how she would survive without me and the

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<v Speaker 1>kids for twenty days and she would spend the whole

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<v Speaker 1>time calling me first time the kids and it wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>out of me, right, me, I don't know how I

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<v Speaker 1>would survive without my wife for twenty days. If Kay

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<v Speaker 1>tells me she wants to do something, I'm gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>one hundred percent behind it. But it was also a

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<v Speaker 1>challenge to me six kids, no wife, I mean, and

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<v Speaker 1>you could do that, Bro, I'm just sixty. You could

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<v Speaker 1>do that. The math on work was hard. I ain't

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<v Speaker 1>even gonna third grade. Third grade because that's what the

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<v Speaker 1>common mass started to regroup of the common cord. Bro, Bro, me,

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<v Speaker 1>you're on everything. Me and Jackson almost came to blows

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<v Speaker 1>because I was trying to tell him old school carried

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<v Speaker 1>the one and he's like, no, you got to make

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<v Speaker 1>it go to ten. And they're like, I've been I've

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<v Speaker 1>been doing math my whole life. You put put the

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<v Speaker 1>one on top of that, cross the eight on and

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<v Speaker 1>he was just like no. I said, you gonna tell

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<v Speaker 1>me no, I'm your father. I don't care what your

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<v Speaker 1>teach to say. Who was right? He was right to

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<v Speaker 1>make all the equations go to ten for some reason? Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>And then it comes back around about answer when you

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<v Speaker 1>could have easily did it in three seconds. And I said,

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<v Speaker 1>I am not having a stroke trying to figure this

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<v Speaker 1>out with my eight year old. Yeah, I've been getting

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<v Speaker 1>at assignment to my wife raised and they come home

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<v Speaker 1>like dad is bad. So we had Lola up here

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<v Speaker 1>against host and I see that I didn't see. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she came to mind it because her clip on people

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<v Speaker 1>not wanting to be married now or aspiring to me different.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I guess it's a case by case basis,

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<v Speaker 1>but it doesn't. It's not something that's highlighted is the

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<v Speaker 1>best thing all the time. Right, So I think the

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<v Speaker 1>val and I much like many other couples, because why

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<v Speaker 1>does this kept We're not an anomaly, Like there are

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of like you're a happily married man, happily marriedment.

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<v Speaker 1>There are a lot of happily married people running around.

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<v Speaker 1>So I just feel like by us sharing more of

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<v Speaker 1>those stories, it's a way to kind of help the

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<v Speaker 1>narrative around marriage, but also too, like I said earlier,

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<v Speaker 1>making sure people know, like do I aspire to marriage? Right?

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<v Speaker 1>You can't find somebody and be like, oh, well, this

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<v Speaker 1>person makes me want to be married, because what happens

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<v Speaker 1>that puts the onus on that person to always be

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<v Speaker 1>this perfect image of what you were, what they were

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<v Speaker 1>when they met you were, you know, and that put

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<v Speaker 1>that's so much pressure on one person. So what if

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<v Speaker 1>they falter, what if they change, what if they outgrow something?

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<v Speaker 1>Then are you still a marriage person or not? You

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<v Speaker 1>know so I think you really need to decide, like

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<v Speaker 1>is that something you aspire to first and then go

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<v Speaker 1>from there. We have more with Cadeen and the vow Las.

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<v Speaker 1>When we come back that book, we over me. It's

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<v Speaker 1>out today. It's the Breakfast Club. Good Morning, The Breakfast

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<v Speaker 1>Club body is DJ Envy Charlemagne the god ray j

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<v Speaker 1>Our co host. We're still kicking it with Codeine de

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<v Speaker 1>vois Chage Yea. I have a chapter called There's a

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<v Speaker 1>Marriage after this Wedding? Break that down. So while we

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<v Speaker 1>were writing the book, we had discussed what I thought

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<v Speaker 1>process was about getting engaged in being married, and Kadein

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<v Speaker 1>had admitted that she had never really thought about the marriage. Nope, anytime,

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<v Speaker 1>anytime I had conversations with anyone regarding marriage or the wedding,

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<v Speaker 1>it was the wedding. It was you know, what dress

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<v Speaker 1>are you going to get? And who's the florist, and

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<v Speaker 1>it was the planning of the day. At no point

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<v Speaker 1>in time did anyone pull me aside and say kadein like,

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<v Speaker 1>once you get married, here are some things to expect, right.

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<v Speaker 1>You watch these Disney movies and it says happily ever after,

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<v Speaker 1>no one sees what happens after they ride off into

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<v Speaker 1>the sunset. So I felt like I was left in

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<v Speaker 1>the dark. I feel like it was a setup. I

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<v Speaker 1>felt like nobody prepped me on anything. And then I

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<v Speaker 1>think there was also a beauty in that though, because

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<v Speaker 1>I felt like if I were to get advice from

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<v Speaker 1>aunt's uncles or grandmothers, it might have also been their

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<v Speaker 1>jaded perspective of what their marriage was like, and I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>that could have been a turnoff too. But it was

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<v Speaker 1>particularly difficult because I just did not think about or

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<v Speaker 1>plan for what life was going to look like after

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<v Speaker 1>the wedding. So the pressure comment had triggered a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of women because they felt like, oh, so she pressured

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<v Speaker 1>you to get married, And I was like, it wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>the pressure to get married. It was the pressure to

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<v Speaker 1>take care of all of the responsibilities once you decide

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<v Speaker 1>you're going to marry a woman. For example, I have

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<v Speaker 1>to save the money to get you a ring, I

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<v Speaker 1>have to decide how we're going to propose. I have

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<v Speaker 1>to decide after we get married, what else our life

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<v Speaker 1>gonna look like if we have financial issues. No one

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<v Speaker 1>ever says, what's your wife doing? They always look at

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<v Speaker 1>me as a husband and be like So there was

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of pressure on me to make sure that

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<v Speaker 1>I'm doing everything that I can to be the husband

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<v Speaker 1>and I want to be on top of that. Once

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<v Speaker 1>I proposed, I had got cut six weeks after by

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<v Speaker 1>the NFL, so I didn't have a job. So there

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<v Speaker 1>was a lot of pressure on me because I'm like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I was in the NFL when I proposed, and now

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<v Speaker 1>we're planning a wedding and I'm no longer in the NFL.

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<v Speaker 1>How do I sustain the lifestyle of someone who was

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<v Speaker 1>making a half a million dollars a year when I

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<v Speaker 1>make no money. So yeah, there was a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>pressure on me. But I understand how a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>woman could have taken that word pressure and felt triggered

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<v Speaker 1>by it. But to me, I'm like, as the man,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't care about the wedding at all. I didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>I was focused on the marriage. I said, Okay, after

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<v Speaker 1>we get married, where we're gonna live. What are you

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<v Speaker 1>gonna do for work? What am I gonna do for

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<v Speaker 1>work all? We're gonna have children? How most men feel

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<v Speaker 1>because I look at it the same way, like we

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<v Speaker 1>spend all this money for this, Yeah right, if that,

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<v Speaker 1>Let's do the future, Let's do the house, let's do

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<v Speaker 1>the savings investment, let's do this because that's just for

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<v Speaker 1>the show. Bro other day and James Wilson said, it's

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<v Speaker 1>my guy, let's get he said, me and my wife

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<v Speaker 1>got it together together on that come up. You know

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying, Like we worry about things that it's

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<v Speaker 1>what you got a partner for. She's gonna be with

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<v Speaker 1>you if she's a real woman. That's the fact. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>think about it. After the whole wedding situation happened and

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<v Speaker 1>then we went back, you know, the wedding was over,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it's spend for yourself. At this point, ye

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<v Speaker 1>Dive looked at me and he said, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to go to Canada because he had an

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<v Speaker 1>opportunity to play ball in Canada. He said, y'all want

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<v Speaker 1>to start a business and maybe work towards this acting career.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, all right, well, what we gotta

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<v Speaker 1>do on everything? We had a house, I was in Michigan.

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<v Speaker 1>It was on acre. Who's on an acre? Four bedrooms,

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<v Speaker 1>five bathrooms, living room, dining them everything. Now we're back

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<v Speaker 1>in an apartment in Crown Heights and she's on the bus.

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<v Speaker 1>When I tell you my ego was freaking crushed, I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>I should sit in the bathroom. Sometimes I go in

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<v Speaker 1>the bathroom, go on the bathroom. Babe. I'd be on

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<v Speaker 1>the toilet, just sitting there, just like like, how did

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<v Speaker 1>I end up back here? And I got this woman

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<v Speaker 1>that I asked to be my wife, and now she

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<v Speaker 1>got to go to the mall and work. Like imagine

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<v Speaker 1>you tell a woman, yeah, I'm gonna be an actor.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to play football no more. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know how I'm gonna be an actor, but I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be an actor. A matter of fact, I'm gonna open

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<v Speaker 1>a gym. I don't have no experience in kinesiology. But

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<v Speaker 1>you tell your woman is and she goes, Okay, how

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<v Speaker 1>are we gonna do that? You gotta tell me that. Imagine.

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<v Speaker 1>I know y'all both been through it. So when you

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<v Speaker 1>when you hear like when people say you know why

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<v Speaker 1>you love marriage so much? That's why I got a

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<v Speaker 1>partner row when when it was the worst or the worst,

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<v Speaker 1>I could not right here, how many days did we

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<v Speaker 1>eat ritz? Yo? This is after the NFL grit Rist today.

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<v Speaker 1>That might be why that's Jackson, our old listen loves

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<v Speaker 1>gritz and eggs like that's the thing. And it might

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<v Speaker 1>be because three times a day I was not trying

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<v Speaker 1>to go buy those stakes. The hungry buddy with you

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<v Speaker 1>on breakfast. You want breakfast, breast, gritsain eggs every day.

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<v Speaker 1>Can we give some of these books away? We got

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<v Speaker 1>to a pair. We over me man, that's right, eight

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<v Speaker 1>hundred and five eight five, one oh five one. We

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<v Speaker 1>got two books to give away. We were keeping four books.

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<v Speaker 1>You brought up so we can give it to away.

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<v Speaker 1>So we don't give two books away today. Call us

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<v Speaker 1>up right now and pick up the book. We over

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<v Speaker 1>me and we appreciate you for joining us. Guys, subscribe

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<v Speaker 1>to the Dead Ass podcast paton. You can watch all

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<v Speaker 1>the video content on Patreon. We got some live shows

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<v Speaker 1>coming up Detroit. We still got tickets if y'all out there. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm From's podcast dot com, Go todas podcast dot com.

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<v Speaker 1>The last few tickets in Detroit everywhere else has sold out,

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<v Speaker 1>LA sold out, Texas to sold out, Chicago sold out.

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<v Speaker 1>All of the book tours sold out New York, DC, Philly,

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<v Speaker 1>and Atlanta. It's all sold out, so we'll see ully.

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<v Speaker 1>I love Sisters, man, but see I watched Sisters from

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<v Speaker 1>the perspective of a comedy. Oh for sure, you have

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<v Speaker 1>it is it's not the one way to do. Hit

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<v Speaker 1>the dude and he's spun around. Don't tell you. Let

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<v Speaker 1>me tell you the truth about Sisters. And when people

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<v Speaker 1>don't understand, do y'all watch telling novellas? No? I mean

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<v Speaker 1>I know, I know they are so Telling novellas is

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<v Speaker 1>a soapy comedy in the soap opera. So when people

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<v Speaker 1>first saw Sisters, they were just like, why is this

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<v Speaker 1>on parme time? Tyler put a soap opera on prime

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<v Speaker 1>time and added comedy to it, so it's like a

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<v Speaker 1>telling novella. That's why the numbers are so crazy. But

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<v Speaker 1>people who watch it don't understand. They're like, this is funny,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's not supposed to be funny. It's supposed to

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<v Speaker 1>be a drama. I didn't want you to hit care

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<v Speaker 1>here so much. I don't know, and it na she

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<v Speaker 1>mad disrespectful to the Teama. A lot of it is

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<v Speaker 1>the fact that people love for Teama so much and

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<v Speaker 1>she's the antithesis of what I need in a mental

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<v Speaker 1>They're like, you gotta hate her in order to love her,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, no, it's a divine dichotomy. I can

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<v Speaker 1>love both of them at the same time. Yeah, but no.

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<v Speaker 1>Divine economy is the fact that two things that the

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<v Speaker 1>opposite can exist at the same exact time, and people

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<v Speaker 1>often think that they can't. Right. So it's like my

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<v Speaker 1>ex and my current girl, I have to hate her

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<v Speaker 1>in order to love my girl properly. No, I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I can still have love for her. It just didn't

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<v Speaker 1>work out for us because she wasn't my one. This

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<v Speaker 1>one is my one. I have loved for her, But

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<v Speaker 1>I am in love with Fatima. And that's a great

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<v Speaker 1>question because on Twitter that's what I'm always arguing with people.

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<v Speaker 1>Why you still talk to Karen? Why would I not?

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<v Speaker 1>Every woman deserves respect, especially if she might be carrying

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<v Speaker 1>my child right exactly? This is why Charlemagne got the

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<v Speaker 1>good job, is always what they asked me. Why do

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<v Speaker 1>you still talk to Karen? Im? We have the travel

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<v Speaker 1>show coming out with the boys. It's coming out actually

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<v Speaker 1>this Friday, February ten, so make sure that's a good time.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I do have one more question. How do you

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<v Speaker 1>feel about putting your family out there so much? So

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<v Speaker 1>as the kids get older, I'm not sure how much

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<v Speaker 1>more they're going to be out there. I'm just being up.

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<v Speaker 1>It got to a point where we're asking Jackson like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>do you want to be on camera? And the Jackson

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<v Speaker 1>say no, answers no because always yeah, Cass has always

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<v Speaker 1>been no. Chiro loves the camera. At first, this was

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<v Speaker 1>a way for me to share my life, like I'm

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<v Speaker 1>an artist. If I was a rapper, i'd be rapping

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<v Speaker 1>about my family, you know. But I'm starting to realize,

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<v Speaker 1>like my kids need to have say in what their

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<v Speaker 1>likeness is and just for safety prose too. Yeah that's me.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm am a beer mo, so I have the time like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>leave them out. No, even if people see it's in public.

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<v Speaker 1>For the most part, people are very respectful. They'll come

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<v Speaker 1>up and say from a distance, but they see it's

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<v Speaker 1>with the kids. They kind of know that, like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>stay back and stuff. So we have a good strong

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<v Speaker 1>hate saying fan base. But supportive. But the kids as

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<v Speaker 1>they get old, especially going to school, traveling on their own,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm probably gonna phase them back. I don't want them

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<v Speaker 1>to have to walk around with security because their parents,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I just don't want them to have to.

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<v Speaker 1>I want them to live, phase all the way off

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<v Speaker 1>of social media and just shut the whole, the whole

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<v Speaker 1>joint down. Well, she never wanted to do social media.

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<v Speaker 1>This is what crazy moments where I like go back

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<v Speaker 1>and forth about it, just because again, safety protectives, mama

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<v Speaker 1>bear all that. So we just try to take the

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<v Speaker 1>musures necessary. What we do involve them. But the travel

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<v Speaker 1>show was fun because it was something that we got

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<v Speaker 1>to do travel to the US a little bit with

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<v Speaker 1>the guys, and we executive produce all our content. So

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not I'm not about letting anybody else have autonomy

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<v Speaker 1>over my children's likeness or my family's Like yet of

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<v Speaker 1>stuff did we turn on a whole lot of stuff,

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<v Speaker 1>like our manage over it is in the corner to

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<v Speaker 1>be looking at us sometimes like really, y'all really don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to do that, And I'm like, I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to do it if we can't control it. So um,

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<v Speaker 1>we're just trying to own this as best as we can.

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<v Speaker 1>And just you know, be we over me till we die.

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<v Speaker 1>We over me. The books out right now right, It's

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<v Speaker 1>n V. Charlemagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club.

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<v Speaker 1>It's time to get up out again. Charlemagne, You've got

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<v Speaker 1>a positive note. The positive note is simply this, if

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<v Speaker 1>nothing else, and I want you to remember that this weekend.

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<v Speaker 1>If nothing else, some people just teach you how not

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<v Speaker 1>to be breakfast club pitches you don't finish for y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>Dunb