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Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. Good morning, Ray, Ray, Ray, Yo, Charlotte man,

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Speaker 1: what up are we lying? Listen? Your time to get

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Speaker 1: it off your chest? Pool. We want to hear from

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Speaker 1: right now. We're here to tell you what it is

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Speaker 1: we live. Hello. Here's every what's up track? Charlomagne Trive,

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Speaker 1: what's happening? Yes? Hi, how are you hey? Listen? You

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Speaker 1: speaking of reading the girls, Charlomagne yes Man. As a

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Speaker 1: further thought, it's your fault that we're not that we're

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Speaker 1: not in a super Bowl. Okay, it's Sharman's fault. We're

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Speaker 1: I ron? What's up? Getting a few chests? Man? People

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Speaker 1: What you didn't did you know't work? Actually what you

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Speaker 1: Club from But these cops look like us. These cops

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Speaker 1: the breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club. So the

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Speaker 1: with Atlanta. Let's let's hear it. You're giving me a rolex?

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Speaker 1: A rolex is timeless. Yeah, but if you let it

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Speaker 1: and you rewind it and you're working, it can last

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Speaker 1: five months. Okay, whatever that means. It's getting but I

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Speaker 1: still get this watching mad so Nini. Is this something

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Speaker 1: I don't think you should accept a gifts. No, seriously,

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Speaker 1: I don't think you should accept gifts from everyone that

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Speaker 1: that's ten thousand dollars. Yeah, he's not giving it to

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Speaker 1: you because he thinks you're cool. You know, he probably

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Speaker 1: That's why he wants to date me. But I don't

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Speaker 1: this don't mean nothing. I don't owe you anything because

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Speaker 1: me the gift, I'm gonna yeah, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: because you're accepting the gift. I mean yeah, but if

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Speaker 1: you're making it clear, like just because you're giving this gift,

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Speaker 1: that don't mean I'm giving you some of this boom boom?

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Speaker 1: You know? Can you also ask for other things? You know,

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Speaker 1: just because you gave me that this is not enough.

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Speaker 1: I'd like to have a car and shoes and bags.

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Speaker 1: I'm go on the day. But sleeping with him, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I wasn't attracted to him. Oh, this is a good

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Speaker 1: gifts to make him look a little sexier. Yeah so

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Speaker 1: attracted Sam. I like him. You attracted the game one

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Speaker 1: something I don't know. No, that's my boy. Okay, so

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Speaker 1: you were attracted to him. How much did he have

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Speaker 1: to buy before he got it wasn't a dinner vacation

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Speaker 1: when he gave gifts to Yea. Yeah, that's this moon

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Speaker 1: because an accident. I ain't crazy, Yeah, okay, okay, yeah

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Speaker 1: come in. Brother, you feel like I don't want to

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Speaker 1: good morning? Morning? You accepting gets to somebody? Actually I

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Speaker 1: What's going on? Dante? What's bro? Hey? What's going on? Hey? Man?

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Speaker 1: good morning, good morning? Absolutely absolutely what yeah? Yeah you

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Speaker 1: do you lay any stipulations down? Do you let them know? Like,

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Speaker 1: your name Devin, Devin, what's your thoughts, Devin? Are you

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Speaker 1: could come here for a couple of days and make

420
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Speaker 1: no money. But I could give somebody fifteen thousand for

421
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Speaker 1: a couple of hours. And now I got to go

422
00:22:36,560 --> 00:22:39,080
Speaker 1: through this that I gave him my opportunity. Think about it.

423
00:22:39,720 --> 00:22:42,240
Speaker 1: Everything that I try to give people opportunities for it

424
00:22:42,359 --> 00:22:44,399
Speaker 1: come back to bite me. And I'm saying why I

425
00:22:44,560 --> 00:22:47,880
Speaker 1: think the devil is busy? You know why the devil busy?

426
00:22:47,960 --> 00:22:50,600
Speaker 1: Because we're doing bigger things now. It's not I'm not

427
00:22:50,720 --> 00:22:53,920
Speaker 1: in a music business. I love my people. I'm like,

428
00:22:53,960 --> 00:22:55,960
Speaker 1: think about it, Charler Man, everything that I haven't done,

429
00:22:56,240 --> 00:22:58,760
Speaker 1: why I didn't go byral Like I'm talking about pipe

430
00:22:58,760 --> 00:23:00,720
Speaker 1: being in community over twenty four years. I'm gonna show

431
00:23:00,720 --> 00:23:03,920
Speaker 1: you something. Your son going to an HBCU. Yeah, better

432
00:23:03,920 --> 00:23:05,600
Speaker 1: of this stuff. I'm gonna saw your something. I'm gonna

433
00:23:05,600 --> 00:23:07,920
Speaker 1: start right now. You're talking about product I put out.

434
00:23:08,480 --> 00:23:10,640
Speaker 1: It's a real book that I did with a seven

435
00:23:10,720 --> 00:23:15,040
Speaker 1: year old kid that's blind. Now, that got shot in Louisville, right,

436
00:23:15,640 --> 00:23:18,040
Speaker 1: Nobody talked about that. That can't like whoever did this?

437
00:23:18,720 --> 00:23:25,760
Speaker 1: Nobody seen the ABC book what I sell for the

438
00:23:25,880 --> 00:23:29,000
Speaker 1: kids and all. Let's go back for a wonderful call.

439
00:23:29,320 --> 00:23:33,840
Speaker 1: I'd embarrassed so many kids in that city even then Washington, DC.

440
00:23:34,200 --> 00:23:36,080
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna go out and watch the DC. I

441
00:23:36,200 --> 00:23:38,680
Speaker 1: got a school that I'm with with other black men.

442
00:23:39,080 --> 00:23:42,880
Speaker 1: I'm on the board and it's called Richard Wright. Why

443
00:23:43,000 --> 00:23:45,359
Speaker 1: none of these kids coming down here and working with us,

444
00:23:45,440 --> 00:23:47,920
Speaker 1: helping us keep this going. I'm not from DC, but

445
00:23:48,080 --> 00:23:49,760
Speaker 1: the people in the DC know the time that I

446
00:23:49,880 --> 00:23:52,600
Speaker 1: put in there. So I'm gonna show y'all in this.

447
00:23:53,320 --> 00:23:56,359
Speaker 1: It's a gift for you, proud Burds. Y'all see that

448
00:23:56,560 --> 00:24:00,600
Speaker 1: twenty four sixteen. A righteous man false seven times and

449
00:24:00,720 --> 00:24:04,639
Speaker 1: then he arrives, He arrives from falling, he get back up.

450
00:24:04,760 --> 00:24:06,480
Speaker 1: It don't matter how many times I don't feel I

451
00:24:06,560 --> 00:24:08,840
Speaker 1: get back up. And I think people don't like that

452
00:24:09,080 --> 00:24:10,960
Speaker 1: because they want me to stay. Well I used to

453
00:24:11,040 --> 00:24:14,200
Speaker 1: be at I'm not. I'm not a quitter. I get

454
00:24:14,280 --> 00:24:16,119
Speaker 1: up and work hard, do what I gotta do. And

455
00:24:16,200 --> 00:24:18,119
Speaker 1: that's why God keep blessing. You think all of this

456
00:24:18,200 --> 00:24:21,440
Speaker 1: is just some miscommunication, Yes, I really do. And for

457
00:24:21,480 --> 00:24:24,480
Speaker 1: people that don't know, let's let's say Masterps here. Last week,

458
00:24:24,560 --> 00:24:27,240
Speaker 1: Jess Hilarious was co hosting with us and there was

459
00:24:27,280 --> 00:24:31,040
Speaker 1: a story about master P and Fatreal. So you know,

460
00:24:31,160 --> 00:24:33,439
Speaker 1: Jess claimed that, you know, during taping off, I got

461
00:24:33,520 --> 00:24:36,119
Speaker 1: the hook up too. She got a front end of

462
00:24:36,200 --> 00:24:38,320
Speaker 1: a check and never received the back end. And she

463
00:24:38,440 --> 00:24:41,200
Speaker 1: stated that, so what was the communication? And Masterpiece said,

464
00:24:41,240 --> 00:24:43,600
Speaker 1: you know, I don't miscommunications. Masterpi said, I don't pay

465
00:24:43,600 --> 00:24:45,880
Speaker 1: peoplet's a production company. It's my movie. But it's yeah,

466
00:24:45,920 --> 00:24:48,560
Speaker 1: but why is we talking about that. Let's be honest.

467
00:24:48,720 --> 00:24:51,080
Speaker 1: I gave you opportunity. Why is we talking about that

468
00:24:51,200 --> 00:24:53,479
Speaker 1: to bring I'm not even in the music business no more.

469
00:24:53,760 --> 00:24:55,600
Speaker 1: I'm not in the entertainment. But that's what I'm saying.

470
00:24:55,800 --> 00:24:58,240
Speaker 1: So you take that and turn it into clicks. And

471
00:24:58,760 --> 00:25:01,320
Speaker 1: even when she read it, I wasn't addressing them when

472
00:25:01,320 --> 00:25:04,840
Speaker 1: I said people hide behind these computers and blog that

473
00:25:04,960 --> 00:25:07,720
Speaker 1: wasn't That wasn't about her. That's what I'm telling y'all.

474
00:25:07,720 --> 00:25:10,639
Speaker 1: It's all the miscommunication. What she read was not about her.

475
00:25:11,080 --> 00:25:13,600
Speaker 1: So that's what I'm saying. Listen, Let's change this, man,

476
00:25:13,680 --> 00:25:16,320
Speaker 1: Let's change our thoughts and our patterns to say, how

477
00:25:16,400 --> 00:25:18,679
Speaker 1: can we help each other. I'm doing something bigger man.

478
00:25:18,800 --> 00:25:21,000
Speaker 1: I'm I used to be in the streets. I changed

479
00:25:21,040 --> 00:25:23,320
Speaker 1: my life. My life was about building guards kingdom. Now

480
00:25:23,600 --> 00:25:25,320
Speaker 1: I'm about building this guard kingdom. And I know the

481
00:25:25,400 --> 00:25:28,080
Speaker 1: devil gonna don't like that, like, okay, gonna throw my

482
00:25:28,119 --> 00:25:29,919
Speaker 1: own people. That's why I say this us against us.

483
00:25:30,400 --> 00:25:32,120
Speaker 1: We have to change that. But we got to stop

484
00:25:32,200 --> 00:25:36,040
Speaker 1: allowing all these bloggers and gossips to start putting stuff

485
00:25:36,080 --> 00:25:37,840
Speaker 1: out there and making the news. I'm just saying, even

486
00:25:37,920 --> 00:25:40,920
Speaker 1: if she said that, nobody checked it verified, but that

487
00:25:41,080 --> 00:25:43,600
Speaker 1: was news the same thing what you did. And when

488
00:25:43,640 --> 00:25:46,960
Speaker 1: you said that, you hit the news to go viral

489
00:25:47,119 --> 00:25:49,159
Speaker 1: for what? Oh I mean IRV got it? Yeah. All

490
00:25:49,200 --> 00:25:51,520
Speaker 1: the reason I said that because you know, during that time,

491
00:25:51,560 --> 00:25:55,639
Speaker 1: I was broke and and because that money meant everything

492
00:25:55,720 --> 00:25:57,200
Speaker 1: to me. Now it doesn't bother me. Now, I don't

493
00:25:57,200 --> 00:25:58,679
Speaker 1: need the money from Irvan. I speak to Earth all

494
00:25:58,720 --> 00:26:00,399
Speaker 1: the time. But it bought me because during that time,

495
00:26:00,440 --> 00:26:02,520
Speaker 1: I was an upcoming producer. That was my first beat

496
00:26:02,560 --> 00:26:06,040
Speaker 1: soul and I didn't know the game. So IRV brought

497
00:26:06,080 --> 00:26:07,600
Speaker 1: the beat. I never got a back end. He put

498
00:26:07,640 --> 00:26:09,280
Speaker 1: it in a movie. I never got a money from it.

499
00:26:09,480 --> 00:26:11,320
Speaker 1: But that bought me because I'm like, damn, that money

500
00:26:11,320 --> 00:26:13,680
Speaker 1: would have helped and that. But now I'm past it.

501
00:26:13,760 --> 00:26:15,280
Speaker 1: You know, I speak to him, but I speak to them.

502
00:26:15,320 --> 00:26:17,840
Speaker 1: But I'm saying no for that. It triggered something to

503
00:26:17,960 --> 00:26:20,120
Speaker 1: where the world on. That was a long time ago.

504
00:26:20,200 --> 00:26:22,720
Speaker 1: It was like this was yesterday. That's what I'm saying.

505
00:26:22,760 --> 00:26:24,760
Speaker 1: Even all the stuff that people talked about me, that

506
00:26:24,840 --> 00:26:28,040
Speaker 1: was a long time. Yes, see what I'm saying. But

507
00:26:28,200 --> 00:26:30,200
Speaker 1: it made it like this new. But I'm saying, we

508
00:26:30,280 --> 00:26:32,080
Speaker 1: don't need that with each other, because they don't. They

509
00:26:32,119 --> 00:26:34,240
Speaker 1: could stand on each cone to do all these different things.

510
00:26:34,520 --> 00:26:36,000
Speaker 1: Even if they have a problem with each other, they

511
00:26:36,000 --> 00:26:38,480
Speaker 1: could communicate that with each other. I just think we

512
00:26:38,640 --> 00:26:42,359
Speaker 1: have to stop that. We are killing us with the media.

513
00:26:43,200 --> 00:26:47,240
Speaker 1: I have a school in Saint Louis called Urban Bonn,

514
00:26:47,320 --> 00:26:50,440
Speaker 1: which you now, which we helped keep kids off the

515
00:26:50,480 --> 00:26:54,520
Speaker 1: streets after school program we started in LA where Nipsey

516
00:26:54,600 --> 00:26:57,159
Speaker 1: Hustle was one of the first kids in our school

517
00:26:57,560 --> 00:26:59,679
Speaker 1: in the eighth grade. So look how far well I've

518
00:26:59,680 --> 00:27:02,159
Speaker 1: been doing over twenty four years. Nobody talk about that.

519
00:27:02,240 --> 00:27:05,160
Speaker 1: That's the only thing I'm saying. So if you stop

520
00:27:05,320 --> 00:27:07,000
Speaker 1: me from doing what I'm doing, who are going to

521
00:27:07,080 --> 00:27:09,040
Speaker 1: help these kids? I'm in New Orleans being there for

522
00:27:09,040 --> 00:27:12,840
Speaker 1: over twenty something years, and Memphis been there for over

523
00:27:12,960 --> 00:27:18,560
Speaker 1: twenty years. In California, Louisville, you know I'm battering kids

524
00:27:18,640 --> 00:27:20,640
Speaker 1: paying for it. So I don't. I don't. I don't

525
00:27:20,680 --> 00:27:23,119
Speaker 1: measure well by what you have. I measured by what

526
00:27:23,240 --> 00:27:26,359
Speaker 1: you get. And so I want our culture now, people

527
00:27:26,359 --> 00:27:29,439
Speaker 1: to understand that why is we destroying each other? Now?

528
00:27:29,520 --> 00:27:31,280
Speaker 1: I get what you're saying, people, I also look at

529
00:27:31,320 --> 00:27:32,639
Speaker 1: it like this, right when we talk about all your

530
00:27:32,640 --> 00:27:34,639
Speaker 1: positive you know you always invited a pair. But if

531
00:27:34,720 --> 00:27:38,000
Speaker 1: somebody owes me money, whether it's twenty years or ten years,

532
00:27:38,040 --> 00:27:40,880
Speaker 1: and it's a misunderstanding, I feel a conversation should be happy,

533
00:27:42,560 --> 00:27:44,040
Speaker 1: not the fact that it's twenty years ago. It don't

534
00:27:44,080 --> 00:27:46,560
Speaker 1: matter for me. Thank God I was blessed enough where

535
00:27:46,560 --> 00:27:49,560
Speaker 1: it doesn't matter now. But I'm saying that was your situation.

536
00:27:49,600 --> 00:27:51,639
Speaker 1: But I'm just saying, we are in the production thing, right,

537
00:27:52,400 --> 00:27:57,320
Speaker 1: we don't pay for the right, That's what I'm saying.

538
00:27:57,520 --> 00:28:00,040
Speaker 1: So that's why I'm asking was there and misunderstand it

539
00:28:00,200 --> 00:28:03,000
Speaker 1: with an agent, product, the production company or man, they

540
00:28:03,040 --> 00:28:05,000
Speaker 1: don't matter because I think people take it out of

541
00:28:05,080 --> 00:28:08,359
Speaker 1: contents because of what's saying instead of looking at you know.

542
00:28:08,600 --> 00:28:10,399
Speaker 1: And I hope one day I could get with her

543
00:28:10,480 --> 00:28:12,480
Speaker 1: and say, because I'm really, I really don't want to

544
00:28:12,520 --> 00:28:16,280
Speaker 1: be in the entertainment business ever again, I'm good. So

545
00:28:16,359 --> 00:28:17,840
Speaker 1: if my kids want to do it, they got to

546
00:28:17,880 --> 00:28:19,800
Speaker 1: do it on their own. I'm good. I want to be.

547
00:28:19,920 --> 00:28:21,159
Speaker 1: I want to be in a product of business, to

548
00:28:21,200 --> 00:28:23,840
Speaker 1: be honest with you, because once you grow up and

549
00:28:24,280 --> 00:28:26,240
Speaker 1: we got to show this culture how to live, and

550
00:28:26,359 --> 00:28:28,119
Speaker 1: that's what I want to do. I mean, they got

551
00:28:28,400 --> 00:28:31,879
Speaker 1: you know, even I'm just telling y'all comedians, this throwing

552
00:28:32,640 --> 00:28:34,680
Speaker 1: the people that's gonna do for what you got to

553
00:28:34,680 --> 00:28:36,640
Speaker 1: do for the community and the culture. So with us going,

554
00:28:36,840 --> 00:28:38,960
Speaker 1: who's gonna help? But you know two P two, when

555
00:28:38,960 --> 00:28:41,240
Speaker 1: people get in front of these microphones, you violenttee information

556
00:28:41,320 --> 00:28:43,960
Speaker 1: like you was talking about Meek Mild other Yeah, and

557
00:28:44,080 --> 00:28:45,720
Speaker 1: you know how, I guess you kept meeting you wanted

558
00:28:45,760 --> 00:28:47,280
Speaker 1: you didn't want Meet Mild to sign with m MG.

559
00:28:47,720 --> 00:28:49,200
Speaker 1: And then Meek Mill retweeted it and was like, this

560
00:28:49,320 --> 00:28:51,040
Speaker 1: is a lot. Let's let's talk about that when we

561
00:28:51,120 --> 00:28:52,520
Speaker 1: come back. We'll talk about it when we come back.

562
00:28:52,680 --> 00:28:55,080
Speaker 1: Master Pins here eight hundred five eight five, one oh

563
00:28:55,160 --> 00:28:56,680
Speaker 1: five one. We got more with Pete. Don't move. It's

564
00:28:56,680 --> 00:29:02,560
Speaker 1: the breakfast club, and show me the breakfast club now.

565
00:29:02,680 --> 00:29:04,560
Speaker 1: Master p said he just pulled up on us this morning.

566
00:29:04,600 --> 00:29:06,680
Speaker 1: So the poor mis ladies and poor mins, we just

567
00:29:06,960 --> 00:29:08,280
Speaker 1: we put him in the green room for a sac

568
00:29:08,360 --> 00:29:10,440
Speaker 1: YadA left the og speed gotta let the SPI. So

569
00:29:10,520 --> 00:29:12,600
Speaker 1: you asked the question right before we went to break Yeah,

570
00:29:12,600 --> 00:29:14,800
Speaker 1: because you know, everybody gets in front of these microphones

571
00:29:14,800 --> 00:29:17,800
Speaker 1: and they volunteer information like I never knew you managed

572
00:29:17,960 --> 00:29:19,360
Speaker 1: you know, So I want to I want to I

573
00:29:19,400 --> 00:29:22,280
Speaker 1: want to tell you guys about that situation. So I

574
00:29:22,400 --> 00:29:26,520
Speaker 1: had an opportunity to manage Meek Mills. So first, I

575
00:29:26,560 --> 00:29:29,920
Speaker 1: don't know if you know Charlie Mack that was and

576
00:29:30,000 --> 00:29:33,560
Speaker 1: so Charlie Mac had him, and then you know he

577
00:29:33,920 --> 00:29:36,520
Speaker 1: Meek wanted to go a different direction, but Charlie MC

578
00:29:36,560 --> 00:29:39,360
Speaker 1: had him under contract. James called Charlie Mac. Then I

579
00:29:39,440 --> 00:29:41,760
Speaker 1: called Charlie Mac. I said, man, this this guy is

580
00:29:41,800 --> 00:29:44,440
Speaker 1: a star. Let him go. Do you know Charlie Mack

581
00:29:44,560 --> 00:29:47,960
Speaker 1: was with Will Smith? And so what happened was it

582
00:29:48,080 --> 00:29:50,600
Speaker 1: was my attorney Rick. But I want to clear that

583
00:29:50,720 --> 00:29:53,000
Speaker 1: up to where I had an opportunity. Me and James

584
00:29:53,040 --> 00:29:56,400
Speaker 1: signed to management contract. But I knew that Meek was

585
00:29:56,440 --> 00:29:58,200
Speaker 1: gonna be a boss at the beginning. He had that

586
00:29:58,280 --> 00:30:01,760
Speaker 1: song called I'm a Boss. He this was a talented guy.

587
00:30:02,200 --> 00:30:05,480
Speaker 1: But my attorney Rick did all the stuff for me

588
00:30:05,720 --> 00:30:07,920
Speaker 1: and me and Jane trying to management contract. And then

589
00:30:07,960 --> 00:30:10,120
Speaker 1: I ended up moving on because I thought that Max

590
00:30:10,160 --> 00:30:12,600
Speaker 1: should be on his own, which you know, he's a

591
00:30:12,680 --> 00:30:14,680
Speaker 1: Boston night all work out. But when I talked about that,

592
00:30:15,120 --> 00:30:17,680
Speaker 1: it was talking about feel you how like you could

593
00:30:17,760 --> 00:30:20,480
Speaker 1: feel and move on and go on, do do something

594
00:30:20,560 --> 00:30:22,880
Speaker 1: else and be successful. So a lot of people think

595
00:30:22,920 --> 00:30:25,320
Speaker 1: that we're just successful right off the top. What this

596
00:30:25,520 --> 00:30:28,760
Speaker 1: was all about showing people how you could feel God

597
00:30:28,840 --> 00:30:30,880
Speaker 1: give you a second chance and move on. Other than that,

598
00:30:31,200 --> 00:30:34,280
Speaker 1: I mean I got a number loving respect for me

599
00:30:34,360 --> 00:30:36,360
Speaker 1: because he reposted it and putting this is a lie,

600
00:30:36,680 --> 00:30:38,719
Speaker 1: but there's no context to that. So of course blog's

601
00:30:38,720 --> 00:30:41,280
Speaker 1: going run with that. Yeah, they they didn't get it,

602
00:30:41,360 --> 00:30:43,960
Speaker 1: but that's that's the truth. So I had an opportunity.

603
00:30:44,000 --> 00:30:46,280
Speaker 1: I walked away from it because I figured, like he's

604
00:30:46,280 --> 00:30:49,360
Speaker 1: the truth, which he turned out to be. So another

605
00:30:49,440 --> 00:30:51,800
Speaker 1: thing that you know, was something I didn't like me

606
00:30:51,840 --> 00:30:54,400
Speaker 1: and Charlemagne didn't like because Charlemagne as for daughters, I

607
00:30:54,480 --> 00:30:56,880
Speaker 1: have six kids. You and your son got into a

608
00:30:56,920 --> 00:30:59,680
Speaker 1: public thing online, which was really bossing because like I

609
00:30:59,720 --> 00:31:02,440
Speaker 1: tell everybody, no matter what, that's family business and a

610
00:31:02,480 --> 00:31:04,560
Speaker 1: lot of time family business. Take time to straight your

611
00:31:04,600 --> 00:31:07,640
Speaker 1: family business out. So you Romeo, y'all, y'all good at

612
00:31:07,680 --> 00:31:09,800
Speaker 1: seeing like now. So that's what I want to tell y'all.

613
00:31:09,840 --> 00:31:11,960
Speaker 1: Man all y'all have kids, so I wouldn't wish this

614
00:31:12,080 --> 00:31:14,240
Speaker 1: on nobody. I love my son, but you know the

615
00:31:14,280 --> 00:31:16,600
Speaker 1: world and change now. You ain't never say it hurt

616
00:31:16,640 --> 00:31:19,160
Speaker 1: me saying nothing about it. I just like like any

617
00:31:19,240 --> 00:31:21,840
Speaker 1: other fail, you you hurt by You don't understand that

618
00:31:21,920 --> 00:31:24,640
Speaker 1: you like what's going on, because everybody try to tell

619
00:31:24,760 --> 00:31:27,360
Speaker 1: us all how to heal. You're not gonna understand my

620
00:31:27,520 --> 00:31:29,960
Speaker 1: pain because you know, you could say Romeo lost his sister.

621
00:31:30,280 --> 00:31:32,600
Speaker 1: I lost a daughter. So it's a different type of pain.

622
00:31:32,720 --> 00:31:34,920
Speaker 1: That's why I'm saying that that could make somebody snap.

623
00:31:35,280 --> 00:31:37,200
Speaker 1: And so at this time in my life, man, I'm

624
00:31:37,240 --> 00:31:40,080
Speaker 1: just thankful. I'm moving, so I'm doing positive things. I

625
00:31:40,120 --> 00:31:41,720
Speaker 1: wanted to get out you know, because some people think

626
00:31:41,880 --> 00:31:44,520
Speaker 1: I should be a certain way. I can't say at home,

627
00:31:44,640 --> 00:31:46,720
Speaker 1: so I get out here and I just want to

628
00:31:46,760 --> 00:31:49,360
Speaker 1: think the people that's been with me. That's a part

629
00:31:49,400 --> 00:31:51,480
Speaker 1: of it is, but that you are not alone foundation.

630
00:31:51,560 --> 00:31:53,920
Speaker 1: I'm telling like, even we talk about us, I got

631
00:31:54,040 --> 00:31:55,800
Speaker 1: one person in here, pop that came to me and

632
00:31:55,880 --> 00:31:58,480
Speaker 1: say let's do a tour. That was Post Malone, like,

633
00:31:58,640 --> 00:32:01,560
Speaker 1: let's do a concert, not alone concert to help and

634
00:32:01,680 --> 00:32:05,400
Speaker 1: give back because this is serious and so nobody looked

635
00:32:05,440 --> 00:32:07,320
Speaker 1: like us. And so shout out to post Malone and

636
00:32:07,480 --> 00:32:11,680
Speaker 1: his manager Drake Man. I appreciate y'all, Like we're gonna

637
00:32:11,760 --> 00:32:14,480
Speaker 1: do things because this is real. Drugs is killing ovel,

638
00:32:14,600 --> 00:32:18,600
Speaker 1: culturing off kids, and also mental illness, and so like

639
00:32:18,840 --> 00:32:20,320
Speaker 1: a lot of people are going through that. You think

640
00:32:20,360 --> 00:32:23,080
Speaker 1: this because you got money or you are you successful,

641
00:32:23,320 --> 00:32:27,000
Speaker 1: that that your kids are immune to this. Like nobody's

642
00:32:27,000 --> 00:32:30,240
Speaker 1: immune from pain, none of us. Because my brother died

643
00:32:30,280 --> 00:32:32,880
Speaker 1: at nineteen, got another brother in prison, you know what

644
00:32:32,920 --> 00:32:35,920
Speaker 1: I'm saying. And my parents, my grandparently, my grandparents, and

645
00:32:35,960 --> 00:32:37,960
Speaker 1: they took us the church every every day, you know,

646
00:32:38,040 --> 00:32:41,600
Speaker 1: I mean every Sunday. So you're not immune from pain that,

647
00:32:41,880 --> 00:32:44,560
Speaker 1: none of that. I just think that it's it's it's

648
00:32:44,640 --> 00:32:47,000
Speaker 1: tough man for a family. So you're good now though,

649
00:32:47,000 --> 00:32:49,000
Speaker 1: because because y'all are South, I mean, if the world

650
00:32:49,080 --> 00:32:51,000
Speaker 1: knows y'all like y'all were best friends, you know what

651
00:32:51,000 --> 00:32:53,560
Speaker 1: I mean that, But think about look how the media

652
00:32:53,760 --> 00:32:56,080
Speaker 1: turn that and Charlemagne No, I mean, we came up

653
00:32:56,320 --> 00:32:59,320
Speaker 1: the Challemaine to talk about why Romeo wanted to get

654
00:32:59,320 --> 00:33:01,239
Speaker 1: off of growing up hip hop, you know, and then

655
00:33:01,480 --> 00:33:03,640
Speaker 1: people each other your flowers when y'all was up pair like, yeah,

656
00:33:03,640 --> 00:33:06,240
Speaker 1: I took that opportunity to think about it. That's what

657
00:33:06,360 --> 00:33:09,280
Speaker 1: we got to realize. Man, nobody's promised, so you got

658
00:33:09,360 --> 00:33:12,440
Speaker 1: to appreciate every day. It's a blessing. So when your

659
00:33:12,480 --> 00:33:14,600
Speaker 1: family men walk out that though, man, I'm like, for

660
00:33:14,720 --> 00:33:17,479
Speaker 1: me as a parent, I get it. My kids are

661
00:33:17,520 --> 00:33:20,720
Speaker 1: not gonna understand everything I do, or somebody else could

662
00:33:20,760 --> 00:33:22,440
Speaker 1: get into somebody in and tell them that, oh you

663
00:33:22,520 --> 00:33:24,720
Speaker 1: need to do this or you deserve I don't have

664
00:33:24,880 --> 00:33:26,920
Speaker 1: all the answers. All I can do is keep growing

665
00:33:26,960 --> 00:33:28,480
Speaker 1: as a man and keep loving my kids. But the

666
00:33:28,560 --> 00:33:30,240
Speaker 1: ones that are old, I got to let them go

667
00:33:30,680 --> 00:33:32,920
Speaker 1: and do what they gotta do, make their mistakes feel

668
00:33:33,360 --> 00:33:36,440
Speaker 1: get over it, like like like I did and so

669
00:33:36,720 --> 00:33:40,320
Speaker 1: but my younger kids, I think it's different because I

670
00:33:40,520 --> 00:33:43,200
Speaker 1: just taught them hard work. And so you imagine as

671
00:33:43,200 --> 00:33:47,360
Speaker 1: a parent, I feel accountable for whatever happens with my

672
00:33:47,560 --> 00:33:51,480
Speaker 1: kids because you know, okay, growing up, you wanted to

673
00:33:51,520 --> 00:33:53,680
Speaker 1: give your kids everything if you're successful. I think that's

674
00:33:53,720 --> 00:33:56,080
Speaker 1: what's happened with a lot of these hip hop parents.

675
00:33:56,520 --> 00:33:58,320
Speaker 1: So we have to change that and just teach our

676
00:33:58,480 --> 00:34:01,480
Speaker 1: kids hard work like other cultures do. And so that's

677
00:34:01,560 --> 00:34:04,720
Speaker 1: the that's the changes that I'm in. Like I'm working

678
00:34:04,760 --> 00:34:07,600
Speaker 1: on myself. I'm not perfect, and I'm growing as a parent.

679
00:34:07,960 --> 00:34:10,440
Speaker 1: And that's why I really got out of the entertainment

680
00:34:10,520 --> 00:34:12,719
Speaker 1: side of this and say, let me focus more on

681
00:34:12,800 --> 00:34:14,840
Speaker 1: the product side. Do you hate the entertainment sign? No,

682
00:34:14,960 --> 00:34:17,120
Speaker 1: I don't hate it. I think going for it, But

683
00:34:17,239 --> 00:34:18,759
Speaker 1: I still have to grow up. I want to show

684
00:34:19,200 --> 00:34:21,239
Speaker 1: people in this culture how we can grow up and

685
00:34:21,320 --> 00:34:23,839
Speaker 1: don't don't be afraid to see us where we're at.

686
00:34:24,160 --> 00:34:26,000
Speaker 1: Don't be afraid to get older. Shoulder, man, you know,

687
00:34:26,080 --> 00:34:28,320
Speaker 1: I mean you're growing up in this You said you

688
00:34:28,680 --> 00:34:31,520
Speaker 1: wasn't talking the way you talk now, absolutely think about it.

689
00:34:31,880 --> 00:34:33,640
Speaker 1: You're not talking the way you used to talk now.

690
00:34:33,800 --> 00:34:36,080
Speaker 1: So why why people can't allow us to grow up

691
00:34:36,480 --> 00:34:39,680
Speaker 1: and get better? Because we're stronger together. And that's how

692
00:34:39,719 --> 00:34:41,560
Speaker 1: That's how I feel about this, Like we're gonna keep

693
00:34:41,600 --> 00:34:44,080
Speaker 1: one and I think that's what makes me and snoop

694
00:34:44,160 --> 00:34:48,120
Speaker 1: relationship so good because we realized that our lives are

695
00:34:48,200 --> 00:34:50,560
Speaker 1: not perfect, but we got to keep going. We got

696
00:34:50,640 --> 00:34:53,120
Speaker 1: My whole strength is just man, don't worry about it.

697
00:34:53,200 --> 00:34:55,239
Speaker 1: I don't have to know everything. I don't have to

698
00:34:55,320 --> 00:34:57,160
Speaker 1: be the boss everything. So I'm gonna show you the

699
00:34:57,200 --> 00:35:00,160
Speaker 1: product that was because you know, you think sometimes that

700
00:35:00,360 --> 00:35:02,440
Speaker 1: people get disgruddled when things don't work out the way

701
00:35:02,440 --> 00:35:04,439
Speaker 1: they wanted to work out. Well, I'm gonna tell y'all,

702
00:35:05,040 --> 00:35:07,680
Speaker 1: so many things didn't work out for me. I feel

703
00:35:07,760 --> 00:35:09,680
Speaker 1: so many times, but I didn't hold my head down.

704
00:35:10,120 --> 00:35:12,360
Speaker 1: So I want people When people say, oh, they with

705
00:35:12,520 --> 00:35:14,200
Speaker 1: no limits, it's so allays And I think that's what

706
00:35:14,320 --> 00:35:18,080
Speaker 1: people come around me. They want what I did twenty

707
00:35:18,200 --> 00:35:20,440
Speaker 1: years ago. But that was twenty years ago. How long

708
00:35:20,560 --> 00:35:23,719
Speaker 1: do a music career last, That's what I'm saying, Like,

709
00:35:23,800 --> 00:35:25,360
Speaker 1: so think about it when you pull up some of

710
00:35:25,440 --> 00:35:28,600
Speaker 1: these things on iTunes. Everybody got products on iTunes, but

711
00:35:28,640 --> 00:35:30,759
Speaker 1: that don't mean to sell it, so you know you

712
00:35:30,840 --> 00:35:32,680
Speaker 1: can invest in something. So that's what I'm saying. I

713
00:35:32,760 --> 00:35:34,839
Speaker 1: think we just got to be able to communicate. That's

714
00:35:34,880 --> 00:35:36,799
Speaker 1: why I said today it's gonna be a teachable moment.

715
00:35:37,280 --> 00:35:40,480
Speaker 1: Let's educate the culture how this stuff work. Because people

716
00:35:40,520 --> 00:35:42,640
Speaker 1: see you on TV, they think you're making millions of dollars,

717
00:35:43,360 --> 00:35:44,879
Speaker 1: but that ain't the truth. A lot of these people

718
00:35:44,920 --> 00:35:46,839
Speaker 1: are not making unless you at the top of the game.

719
00:35:47,200 --> 00:35:49,160
Speaker 1: But the people at the bottom is not making millions

720
00:35:49,200 --> 00:35:51,680
Speaker 1: of dollars. People in the music industry right now is

721
00:35:51,719 --> 00:35:53,680
Speaker 1: not making millions of dollars. The ones at the top

722
00:35:53,760 --> 00:35:56,000
Speaker 1: bar but you pull up You guys talk about it

723
00:35:56,040 --> 00:35:58,480
Speaker 1: all the time. The people that that are not making

724
00:35:58,560 --> 00:36:01,680
Speaker 1: money that superstars, their records are not selling that superstar.

725
00:36:01,840 --> 00:36:03,560
Speaker 1: But this is the problem that I have that we

726
00:36:03,680 --> 00:36:07,480
Speaker 1: got to change. We don't go at the other coaches

727
00:36:07,640 --> 00:36:10,040
Speaker 1: the way we go at our culture if we have

728
00:36:10,080 --> 00:36:11,879
Speaker 1: a problem, because I think what it is, we're sitting

729
00:36:11,880 --> 00:36:14,520
Speaker 1: down and eat and hang with people. Yeah, you break

730
00:36:14,560 --> 00:36:16,320
Speaker 1: bread with him. So if you look somebody in the

731
00:36:16,400 --> 00:36:18,560
Speaker 1: eye and you have a conversation with him in their mind,

732
00:36:18,880 --> 00:36:21,520
Speaker 1: master Peers, the person behind all of this, Master Pea,

733
00:36:21,600 --> 00:36:24,080
Speaker 1: the person cutting me to check the even family, think

734
00:36:24,080 --> 00:36:26,400
Speaker 1: about it. Family, when you're not where you want to

735
00:36:26,440 --> 00:36:28,359
Speaker 1: be at, you tell a family member no one time

736
00:36:28,440 --> 00:36:30,359
Speaker 1: they mad with you, they never won't talk to They're

737
00:36:30,360 --> 00:36:32,480
Speaker 1: gonna they're gonna put you up, they're gonna blast you,

738
00:36:32,600 --> 00:36:34,160
Speaker 1: and all this stuff. So I'm saying, well, guess what,

739
00:36:34,400 --> 00:36:36,719
Speaker 1: won't y'all go do your own thing? Then if you

740
00:36:36,800 --> 00:36:38,520
Speaker 1: don't like the balls, go be the balls. That's what

741
00:36:38,600 --> 00:36:42,160
Speaker 1: I did, and everybody can't be the bass. So that's

742
00:36:42,200 --> 00:36:44,800
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. That's why Snooper is so successful to

743
00:36:44,960 --> 00:36:47,920
Speaker 1: where he took what he learned, what I showed him

744
00:36:48,040 --> 00:36:50,239
Speaker 1: and took it to another level. And that's cool, and

745
00:36:50,280 --> 00:36:51,440
Speaker 1: that's how we come to us. So I want to

746
00:36:51,440 --> 00:36:55,080
Speaker 1: show y'all. In June, and even with Snoop, Snoopers complained

747
00:36:55,080 --> 00:36:57,880
Speaker 1: about not getting paid from certain individuals, you know, from

748
00:36:57,920 --> 00:36:59,680
Speaker 1: death for all you who have held the publishing stuff

749
00:36:59,719 --> 00:37:01,880
Speaker 1: like that. Yeah, but that's a that's a common thing

750
00:37:01,960 --> 00:37:03,440
Speaker 1: for people to do. Yeah, people are gonna do it.

751
00:37:03,520 --> 00:37:05,640
Speaker 1: But guess what Snoop Now he went and brought the company.

752
00:37:06,640 --> 00:37:09,399
Speaker 1: See what I'm saying. So now we have Snoop Loops.

753
00:37:09,400 --> 00:37:11,480
Speaker 1: So this is bigger than I know a lot of people.

754
00:37:12,120 --> 00:37:14,600
Speaker 1: When we started, it was Snoop Loops. Right, Look, how

755
00:37:14,680 --> 00:37:18,120
Speaker 1: we feel people is like, oh, Snoop Loops, they gonna

756
00:37:18,120 --> 00:37:19,680
Speaker 1: they're gonna make y'all take it off the shelf. And

757
00:37:19,760 --> 00:37:22,120
Speaker 1: they did. Right. We came back and when you changed

758
00:37:22,160 --> 00:37:24,560
Speaker 1: the name to Snoop cereal, that's your second time in

759
00:37:24,600 --> 00:37:27,200
Speaker 1: this year, I remember who who? Yeah? I feel so

760
00:37:27,280 --> 00:37:29,160
Speaker 1: many times, but that's what it takes. So that y'all

761
00:37:29,160 --> 00:37:32,480
Speaker 1: don't realize I lost millions. Damn, I lost millions. So

762
00:37:32,840 --> 00:37:35,520
Speaker 1: and then but I figured the game out Brothers Food,

763
00:37:35,920 --> 00:37:39,520
Speaker 1: which is Snoop Calvin Brods. So think about it. When

764
00:37:39,520 --> 00:37:42,920
Speaker 1: you got when you got catalogs, You've got all these

765
00:37:42,960 --> 00:37:46,319
Speaker 1: different companies. Those are family brands. That's what we taught

766
00:37:46,360 --> 00:37:48,560
Speaker 1: each other how to build our own family brand. And

767
00:37:48,640 --> 00:37:50,760
Speaker 1: so Snoop is the founder of this, I'm gonna CEO

768
00:37:50,800 --> 00:37:52,960
Speaker 1: of the company. And so everybody got a job in

769
00:37:53,040 --> 00:37:54,960
Speaker 1: the roller. Fess why I get out of him from motus.

770
00:37:55,200 --> 00:37:57,840
Speaker 1: Let's think about it. We're feeding families with this. This

771
00:37:58,040 --> 00:38:01,000
Speaker 1: is not just about us. We take we tatling homelessness.

772
00:38:01,520 --> 00:38:03,520
Speaker 1: The more we make the movie gifts. So all right,

773
00:38:03,600 --> 00:38:05,480
Speaker 1: we got more with Master Pele when we come back,

774
00:38:05,520 --> 00:38:08,000
Speaker 1: don't move. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, think everybody

775
00:38:08,120 --> 00:38:10,719
Speaker 1: is DJ and V Charlomagne the guy. We are the

776
00:38:10,800 --> 00:38:13,800
Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. Were still kicking it with Master Pen. I

777
00:38:13,840 --> 00:38:16,719
Speaker 1: don't worry our Drea lex P from The poor Man's

778
00:38:16,760 --> 00:38:18,600
Speaker 1: Podcast and here they're just on in the green room

779
00:38:18,680 --> 00:38:20,359
Speaker 1: right now and we're still kicking it a Master Pa.

780
00:38:20,440 --> 00:38:22,040
Speaker 1: I want to declare something up to because I don't

781
00:38:22,080 --> 00:38:23,839
Speaker 1: want people to take it the wrong way. Now, when

782
00:38:23,920 --> 00:38:26,319
Speaker 1: when you were selling Meek Mill not to sign with Ross,

783
00:38:26,320 --> 00:38:28,439
Speaker 1: it wasn't because Ross was bad. You would just saying

784
00:38:28,440 --> 00:38:29,880
Speaker 1: it's big enough to be independent. He could have did

785
00:38:29,920 --> 00:38:31,560
Speaker 1: it on his own. The thing about it, that's own.

786
00:38:31,640 --> 00:38:34,560
Speaker 1: I'm a boss, go back when time passed that someone

787
00:38:34,640 --> 00:38:37,480
Speaker 1: was already big. Then Ross got on the record. So

788
00:38:37,600 --> 00:38:39,200
Speaker 1: that's the only thing I was saying. Then Ross tell

789
00:38:39,440 --> 00:38:43,080
Speaker 1: tell y'all hisself that he his his business wasn't straight.

790
00:38:43,200 --> 00:38:44,799
Speaker 1: Now you got it together and look where yet now,

791
00:38:44,960 --> 00:38:46,800
Speaker 1: So that's why I was saying about feeling, Man, I

792
00:38:46,880 --> 00:38:49,160
Speaker 1: love these guys. I mean I want them, I want

793
00:38:49,200 --> 00:38:50,560
Speaker 1: I want I want y'all to be able to learn

794
00:38:50,640 --> 00:38:52,960
Speaker 1: from all out of the mistakes. So that's basically what

795
00:38:53,000 --> 00:38:55,000
Speaker 1: it's about. I think the Internet to take it and

796
00:38:55,200 --> 00:38:57,560
Speaker 1: run with it, and that's how we destroying each other.

797
00:38:57,800 --> 00:38:59,920
Speaker 1: So that's why I say I'm gonna focus his own products.

798
00:39:00,800 --> 00:39:03,319
Speaker 1: So that's the that's the And I got one last

799
00:39:03,440 --> 00:39:05,520
Speaker 1: question okay that I thought it was kind of kind

800
00:39:05,560 --> 00:39:09,120
Speaker 1: of crazy. So, uh, your brother was saying that he

801
00:39:09,239 --> 00:39:11,440
Speaker 1: was trying to get hold on the record, I was

802
00:39:11,480 --> 00:39:13,680
Speaker 1: trying to get jays and he said jay Z declined

803
00:39:13,719 --> 00:39:16,120
Speaker 1: one hundred thousand dollars. Was that true? You know what

804
00:39:16,320 --> 00:39:18,879
Speaker 1: I mean? That was Silk project. That's what I'm saying,

805
00:39:18,920 --> 00:39:21,719
Speaker 1: I don't that was so long ago, like that was

806
00:39:21,920 --> 00:39:23,680
Speaker 1: that was my brother. That's what I'm saying. So I

807
00:39:23,960 --> 00:39:25,759
Speaker 1: want to I don't want people to turn this into

808
00:39:25,960 --> 00:39:29,439
Speaker 1: gotcha you know. So there you go. So how would

809
00:39:29,480 --> 00:39:33,080
Speaker 1: you tell people like Trev even just how how should

810
00:39:33,080 --> 00:39:37,560
Speaker 1: they handle these situations? Something? Reach out to communicate with

811
00:39:37,640 --> 00:39:40,520
Speaker 1: the people. That's it. But I'm just saying, though, like,

812
00:39:40,760 --> 00:39:43,239
Speaker 1: don't just jump off when I like if I was

813
00:39:43,320 --> 00:39:46,319
Speaker 1: in the music even room, even room my own son. Yeah,

814
00:39:46,440 --> 00:39:48,200
Speaker 1: and so I mean, this is a big part of

815
00:39:48,200 --> 00:39:50,319
Speaker 1: all this. But it's like, Okay, that's fine. But I'm

816
00:39:50,360 --> 00:39:52,560
Speaker 1: keep telling y'all that's what the devil would do. The

817
00:39:52,719 --> 00:39:55,040
Speaker 1: devil want to destroy the people that's gonna get out.

818
00:39:55,280 --> 00:39:56,840
Speaker 1: Like my whole life, if you're gonna look at it,

819
00:39:56,920 --> 00:39:59,320
Speaker 1: has been about helping. I didn't say I've been perfect.

820
00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:01,880
Speaker 1: My life ain't been perfect. I had to move on

821
00:40:02,120 --> 00:40:04,279
Speaker 1: and change and grow. I'm trying to show people we

822
00:40:04,400 --> 00:40:06,080
Speaker 1: can grow. And that's what I'm doing right now. The

823
00:40:06,160 --> 00:40:08,200
Speaker 1: last thing, pe tell us all the things you own

824
00:40:08,239 --> 00:40:09,879
Speaker 1: and we can get because p you always got something

825
00:40:09,960 --> 00:40:11,840
Speaker 1: that we ain't bring. No sneakers today, p Oh, you

826
00:40:11,920 --> 00:40:14,480
Speaker 1: know what I got. So many sneakers go to menat

827
00:40:14,600 --> 00:40:19,800
Speaker 1: dot com right now, come on, I'm gonna stay shin that.

828
00:40:19,840 --> 00:40:21,759
Speaker 1: I ain't wearing no. But you know what, even the

829
00:40:21,920 --> 00:40:25,640
Speaker 1: sneak of business, right bro, I didn't spend so much

830
00:40:25,719 --> 00:40:29,319
Speaker 1: money trying. I even we got to be like the Chinese. Right,

831
00:40:29,480 --> 00:40:33,880
Speaker 1: the Chinese give your order, make you pay for it upfront,

832
00:40:34,160 --> 00:40:35,960
Speaker 1: and then send you the wrong side. You can't do

833
00:40:36,080 --> 00:40:39,239
Speaker 1: nothing about it. You can't do nothing about it, dog

834
00:40:39,360 --> 00:40:42,239
Speaker 1: like you just like okay, whenever I had to change

835
00:40:42,280 --> 00:40:44,239
Speaker 1: the sides on that. But but what I'm gonna tell

836
00:40:44,239 --> 00:40:46,200
Speaker 1: you what I'm doing next? Oh you got the sports

837
00:40:46,440 --> 00:40:50,400
Speaker 1: talk radio show. Yeah, it's called the Truth. And so

838
00:40:50,800 --> 00:40:53,800
Speaker 1: it's really just about being able to give that entertainment.

839
00:40:53,880 --> 00:40:56,320
Speaker 1: I'm growing. I don't want to go to ESPN and

840
00:40:56,400 --> 00:40:58,160
Speaker 1: nothing I want. I wanted to do this, learn it

841
00:40:58,680 --> 00:41:00,719
Speaker 1: and get better because I I want. I want to

842
00:41:00,760 --> 00:41:02,680
Speaker 1: be in the sports because people don't realize sports. It

843
00:41:02,719 --> 00:41:05,800
Speaker 1: was saved my life. So basketball really took me to

844
00:41:05,880 --> 00:41:07,600
Speaker 1: a whole another level. So being able to do this

845
00:41:07,719 --> 00:41:11,360
Speaker 1: in Louisville, I mean, oh, I gotta show y'all I

846
00:41:11,480 --> 00:41:13,440
Speaker 1: got more products, he got more stuff and Now this

847
00:41:13,560 --> 00:41:15,680
Speaker 1: is good. They're gonna tell y'allself it's good and for

848
00:41:15,719 --> 00:41:17,839
Speaker 1: everybody listening. P just pull up on us this morning,

849
00:41:20,200 --> 00:41:22,920
Speaker 1: and I got things to talk about. Man, let me

850
00:41:22,960 --> 00:41:24,840
Speaker 1: tell you something. Put this on for your pain. You

851
00:41:24,920 --> 00:41:29,040
Speaker 1: see what that's called. Oh, CBD oil key Promax, p Provax.

852
00:41:29,360 --> 00:41:32,480
Speaker 1: You rubbed that on, You got an eight pains. I'm

853
00:41:32,560 --> 00:41:35,600
Speaker 1: taking it away for real, I'm taking it away. I

854
00:41:35,680 --> 00:41:38,080
Speaker 1: got a product, product to product of town. And that's

855
00:41:38,120 --> 00:41:39,920
Speaker 1: what it is. Because think about it, right, when you

856
00:41:39,960 --> 00:41:42,719
Speaker 1: look at these Portun five hundred companies, right, we make

857
00:41:42,840 --> 00:41:45,880
Speaker 1: up a tenth or one percent. I'm talking about CEOs

858
00:41:45,920 --> 00:41:48,400
Speaker 1: of these Portun five hundred company and we spend trillions

859
00:41:48,440 --> 00:41:52,000
Speaker 1: of dollars as African Americans. Why we don't own nothing

860
00:41:52,200 --> 00:41:56,200
Speaker 1: control anything. Also, when you go to Shopify, you go

861
00:41:56,280 --> 00:42:00,160
Speaker 1: to Shopify, I'm not. I got a new company. It's

862
00:42:00,160 --> 00:42:03,080
Speaker 1: called lunch Car. And so now that's what I'm saying.

863
00:42:03,120 --> 00:42:05,839
Speaker 1: Shopify is a sixty three million dollars sixty three billion

864
00:42:05,880 --> 00:42:09,800
Speaker 1: dollar company. We gotta start thinking building things to compete

865
00:42:10,320 --> 00:42:12,839
Speaker 1: and and and be able to grow things and give

866
00:42:12,880 --> 00:42:15,319
Speaker 1: our people opportunity. And so that's what I'm doing. I'm

867
00:42:15,360 --> 00:42:18,080
Speaker 1: like constantly thinking and because we can't take none of

868
00:42:18,160 --> 00:42:20,680
Speaker 1: this with her, We can't take when you die, they

869
00:42:20,680 --> 00:42:22,760
Speaker 1: ain't gonna You know, this is a sad thing about

870
00:42:22,760 --> 00:42:24,920
Speaker 1: it too, y'all. When we do die, they're gonna talk

871
00:42:24,920 --> 00:42:27,879
Speaker 1: about how great we was. But while we're here thinking

872
00:42:27,880 --> 00:42:31,359
Speaker 1: about it. No, if Biggie and Tupart was here, man,

873
00:42:31,400 --> 00:42:33,520
Speaker 1: they'll be going through so much right now. But but

874
00:42:33,840 --> 00:42:37,160
Speaker 1: like even Nipsey, all the stuff Nipsey did, all of

875
00:42:37,239 --> 00:42:39,799
Speaker 1: a sudden, he went platinum when he died, we gotta

876
00:42:39,840 --> 00:42:41,759
Speaker 1: stop with be honest with you. For me, I ain't

877
00:42:41,760 --> 00:42:43,920
Speaker 1: gonna let him look at my face. They might as

878
00:42:43,960 --> 00:42:46,479
Speaker 1: well cream make me. I don't want no fakers looking

879
00:42:46,520 --> 00:42:48,800
Speaker 1: in my face talking about they missed me and all that.

880
00:42:49,120 --> 00:42:52,000
Speaker 1: I don't want it. Even everybody that died, that's an

881
00:42:52,160 --> 00:42:55,240
Speaker 1: entertainment this world are now looking at it. We didn't

882
00:42:55,760 --> 00:42:58,840
Speaker 1: appreciate the people why they was here, right, you know,

883
00:42:59,000 --> 00:43:01,120
Speaker 1: we gotta start appreciate each other while we're here. And

884
00:43:01,400 --> 00:43:04,439
Speaker 1: I think that's basically what it is. The journey is gonna.

885
00:43:04,440 --> 00:43:05,880
Speaker 1: I love the journey. I love the products, I love

886
00:43:05,960 --> 00:43:08,920
Speaker 1: creating things, and I love my people. And so if

887
00:43:08,960 --> 00:43:11,600
Speaker 1: I can educate my people. I'm tired of this. We're

888
00:43:11,640 --> 00:43:14,160
Speaker 1: just gonna entertain our people. Let's educate our people, because

889
00:43:14,160 --> 00:43:17,279
Speaker 1: the bide will say, pray for wisdom, master, p ladies

890
00:43:17,280 --> 00:43:19,759
Speaker 1: and gentlemen. Pete, we appreciate you for pulling up. Yes, sir,

891
00:43:19,840 --> 00:43:25,600
Speaker 1: it's the breakfast Club the morning, it's time for Donkey

892
00:43:25,640 --> 00:43:29,960
Speaker 1: of the Day. I'm a Democrat, so being Dunky of

893
00:43:30,040 --> 00:43:32,320
Speaker 1: the day a little bit of a mixture. So like

894
00:43:32,400 --> 00:43:39,839
Speaker 1: a donkey the other day. Bitches. Now, I've been called

895
00:43:39,840 --> 00:43:41,880
Speaker 1: a lot of my twenty three years, but Donkey of

896
00:43:41,960 --> 00:43:44,120
Speaker 1: the Day is a new wife. Donkey the Day goes

897
00:43:44,120 --> 00:43:47,040
Speaker 1: to a young lady named Madison Marie rus So. She's

898
00:43:47,120 --> 00:43:50,000
Speaker 1: nineteen years old. She hails from Iowa, and she is

899
00:43:50,040 --> 00:43:52,040
Speaker 1: the reason that when people send me go fund me

900
00:43:52,200 --> 00:43:54,880
Speaker 1: is my first reaction is go f yourself. Okay, you

901
00:43:54,960 --> 00:43:58,160
Speaker 1: know why because in this cash I've been Mozelle go

902
00:43:58,400 --> 00:44:01,080
Speaker 1: fund me era, people be kind instantly asking for things,

903
00:44:01,120 --> 00:44:03,279
Speaker 1: and they'd be asking for things that some of us

904
00:44:03,400 --> 00:44:05,480
Speaker 1: used to have to work to get. For example, you

905
00:44:05,560 --> 00:44:07,279
Speaker 1: don't need to go fund me because you need tin

906
00:44:07,360 --> 00:44:10,440
Speaker 1: on your windows. Okay, all right, thank you, sim all right,

907
00:44:10,600 --> 00:44:12,479
Speaker 1: don't you don't need me to cash, have you because

908
00:44:12,480 --> 00:44:14,239
Speaker 1: you want to go to Miami for the weekend? All right?

909
00:44:14,239 --> 00:44:16,080
Speaker 1: I used to get those kind of requests often, but

910
00:44:16,160 --> 00:44:18,480
Speaker 1: I think folks realize that's not the way to get

911
00:44:18,640 --> 00:44:20,759
Speaker 1: money out of people. The way to get money out

912
00:44:20,840 --> 00:44:23,200
Speaker 1: of people is to have a story, and not just

913
00:44:23,400 --> 00:44:26,839
Speaker 1: any story, a story that pulls out people's heart strings. Okay,

914
00:44:26,920 --> 00:44:30,080
Speaker 1: you gotta have a SOB story. I'm talking Cleo right

915
00:44:30,120 --> 00:44:32,160
Speaker 1: before she accepted that she was about to go out

916
00:44:32,239 --> 00:44:34,359
Speaker 1: in the blaze of glory and set it off. I'm

917
00:44:34,440 --> 00:44:37,040
Speaker 1: talking Ricky getting shot in the backing boys in the Hood.

918
00:44:37,080 --> 00:44:40,520
Speaker 1: I'm talking when Charlotte and Charlotte's Webb dies because she

919
00:44:40,640 --> 00:44:44,400
Speaker 1: has reached the end of her lifespan sidebar. Wilbur is

920
00:44:44,400 --> 00:44:46,840
Speaker 1: the reason Charlotte died, all right. She doing all that

921
00:44:46,920 --> 00:44:50,040
Speaker 1: damned graffiti with her web right now, full messages to

922
00:44:50,160 --> 00:44:52,480
Speaker 1: show how special Wilber was when the reality is his

923
00:44:52,600 --> 00:44:55,319
Speaker 1: fate was to be baking. Okay, wal poor Charlotte out

924
00:44:55,320 --> 00:44:58,520
Speaker 1: physically and emotionally. Charlotte sacrificed her own well being for Wilbur,

925
00:44:58,640 --> 00:45:02,680
Speaker 1: dropping a clue's bomb for Charlotte Chote what a selfless spider.

926
00:45:02,800 --> 00:45:05,920
Speaker 1: She was okay, but your story to receive money from

927
00:45:05,960 --> 00:45:08,600
Speaker 1: complete scranges have to be that sad, which actually means

928
00:45:08,760 --> 00:45:11,040
Speaker 1: it has to be that good. And this woman Madison

929
00:45:11,080 --> 00:45:13,880
Speaker 1: from Iowa, Oh, she's one of those people who had

930
00:45:13,880 --> 00:45:16,440
Speaker 1: a really good, sad story. This woman was able to

931
00:45:16,480 --> 00:45:19,800
Speaker 1: raise thirty seven thousand dollars from Daunus thirty seven thousand

932
00:45:19,840 --> 00:45:22,399
Speaker 1: dollars thirty seven recks. How was she able to get

933
00:45:22,440 --> 00:45:24,439
Speaker 1: this money? Let's go to News eight for the report. Please,

934
00:45:25,360 --> 00:45:29,360
Speaker 1: hi everyone, my name is Maddie Russel and this is

935
00:45:29,440 --> 00:45:32,360
Speaker 1: my story. A LinkedIn video of nineteen year old Mattie

936
00:45:32,440 --> 00:45:36,200
Speaker 1: Russo explaining her supposed cancer diagnosis. She claims she was

937
00:45:36,280 --> 00:45:40,719
Speaker 1: diagnosed with stage two pancreatic cancer, acute limphoblastic leukemia, and

938
00:45:40,840 --> 00:45:44,120
Speaker 1: told there was a football sized tumor wrapped around her spine.

939
00:45:44,280 --> 00:45:46,880
Speaker 1: Since then, Russo has talked about going through cancer with

940
00:45:46,960 --> 00:45:50,160
Speaker 1: the National Pancreas Foundation in Chicago. She's also been on

941
00:45:50,239 --> 00:45:52,960
Speaker 1: a podcast for Project Purple Online, a group on a

942
00:45:53,040 --> 00:45:56,040
Speaker 1: mission to find a cure for pancreatic cancer. Her stories

943
00:45:56,080 --> 00:45:59,080
Speaker 1: on both platforms have since been removed. A go fund

944
00:45:59,120 --> 00:46:02,920
Speaker 1: me fundraiser was started titled Maddie's Fight against Pancreatic Cancer.

945
00:46:03,200 --> 00:46:06,160
Speaker 1: Tom Bouland was listed as who started the donation page.

946
00:46:06,400 --> 00:46:08,840
Speaker 1: As you can see, it raised nearly thirty eight thousand

947
00:46:08,920 --> 00:46:12,000
Speaker 1: dollars from more than four hundred donors By Tuesday. The

948
00:46:12,080 --> 00:46:14,239
Speaker 1: go fund me page was taken down. Go fund Me

949
00:46:14,400 --> 00:46:17,280
Speaker 1: releasing a statement Tuesday saying they have a zero tolerance

950
00:46:17,320 --> 00:46:19,840
Speaker 1: policy for misuse of our platform and the group is

951
00:46:19,920 --> 00:46:23,840
Speaker 1: guaranteeing a full refund to donors. I really don't understand

952
00:46:23,880 --> 00:46:28,239
Speaker 1: people like her. If you could take the time and

953
00:46:28,360 --> 00:46:31,560
Speaker 1: energy to create this elaborate false story about having a

954
00:46:31,680 --> 00:46:34,880
Speaker 1: stage two cancer diagnosis with a tumor, then guess what.

955
00:46:35,200 --> 00:46:37,960
Speaker 1: You can write a script? Okay, you can write a novel,

956
00:46:38,239 --> 00:46:40,920
Speaker 1: all right, how about write about your dock side instead

957
00:46:40,960 --> 00:46:43,400
Speaker 1: of leaning into it. Because what happens in these situations

958
00:46:43,560 --> 00:46:45,879
Speaker 1: is you make it bad for a person who's really

959
00:46:45,960 --> 00:46:48,520
Speaker 1: dealing with cancer and would and who would love to

960
00:46:48,640 --> 00:46:51,160
Speaker 1: have thirty seven thousand dollars to deal with their medical bills,

961
00:46:51,200 --> 00:46:54,040
Speaker 1: but because of folks like you, Okay, folks like me

962
00:46:54,120 --> 00:46:57,600
Speaker 1: will come across these requests and deny them simply because

963
00:46:57,640 --> 00:46:59,640
Speaker 1: I don't believe you. You need more people. All right,

964
00:46:59,680 --> 00:47:02,400
Speaker 1: this one had a fake stash and medical supplies. You

965
00:47:02,480 --> 00:47:06,040
Speaker 1: know what I mean, Anne wigs in her apartment. Girl,

966
00:47:06,080 --> 00:47:07,960
Speaker 1: you could have been throwing place. Okay. You could be

967
00:47:08,000 --> 00:47:10,040
Speaker 1: the next Style of Period, the next Jordan Cooper, the

968
00:47:10,160 --> 00:47:13,160
Speaker 1: next August Wilson. But instead of being America's next top playwright,

969
00:47:13,400 --> 00:47:16,080
Speaker 1: you decided to compete in America's got your cameras. I

970
00:47:16,239 --> 00:47:18,879
Speaker 1: don't feel sorry for you, man, Okay, I just hate

971
00:47:18,920 --> 00:47:20,960
Speaker 1: to waste the talent because anyone who can come up

972
00:47:21,000 --> 00:47:23,839
Speaker 1: with lavish, successful schemes like this can use that same

973
00:47:23,960 --> 00:47:26,480
Speaker 1: time and energy figure it out a way to mix

974
00:47:26,560 --> 00:47:29,239
Speaker 1: some money legally. Okay. Also, I was born in the

975
00:47:29,360 --> 00:47:31,800
Speaker 1: nineteen hundred. Okay, yo old uncle Charlotte and took a

976
00:47:31,840 --> 00:47:33,600
Speaker 1: few laps around the sun, and I'm from the era

977
00:47:33,719 --> 00:47:36,479
Speaker 1: with certain things. I just wasn't pretending to be because

978
00:47:36,480 --> 00:47:38,520
Speaker 1: I didn't want to actually be. That's how it was.

979
00:47:38,600 --> 00:47:40,600
Speaker 1: I didn't want to park in the handicap spot just

980
00:47:40,680 --> 00:47:43,880
Speaker 1: because I had the handicap decap. Okay, I wasn't parking

981
00:47:43,920 --> 00:47:46,680
Speaker 1: in the handicap spot getting out limping because I was taught.

982
00:47:46,719 --> 00:47:48,719
Speaker 1: You played like that, you may end up handicapped for

983
00:47:48,800 --> 00:47:51,880
Speaker 1: real faking sick, no, sir, not me. Hell I tell

984
00:47:51,960 --> 00:47:54,200
Speaker 1: my kids that now. I don't play about stuff like that. Okay,

985
00:47:54,200 --> 00:47:56,520
Speaker 1: if something is really wrong, by all means, let me know,

986
00:47:56,800 --> 00:47:59,759
Speaker 1: but don't pretend, because you really might end up that way.

987
00:48:00,200 --> 00:48:02,920
Speaker 1: Madison nineteen years old from Iowa clearly got none of

988
00:48:03,000 --> 00:48:05,560
Speaker 1: thold lessons in life, and now she's facing ten years

989
00:48:05,600 --> 00:48:08,520
Speaker 1: in prison because she wants to lie. And I hope

990
00:48:09,400 --> 00:48:12,480
Speaker 1: maybe she can get at least six months, six months.

991
00:48:12,680 --> 00:48:14,880
Speaker 1: She can just be in there with some some tough women,

992
00:48:15,480 --> 00:48:20,640
Speaker 1: you know, some tough women that sleeping box of briefs. Okay,

993
00:48:20,960 --> 00:48:23,840
Speaker 1: please get Madison Marie Russo the sweet sounds of the

994
00:48:23,880 --> 00:48:38,759
Speaker 1: Hamletones you dogkee oh the day, yeah, dog oh the day.

995
00:48:40,040 --> 00:48:46,040
Speaker 1: Yeah me six months for a scam that elaborate, you

996
00:48:46,120 --> 00:48:48,480
Speaker 1: know what I mean, making light of something that has

997
00:48:48,520 --> 00:48:51,239
Speaker 1: taken so many people's lives. At least low six months

998
00:48:51,640 --> 00:48:53,480
Speaker 1: in a prison, you know what I mean? All right,

999
00:48:53,520 --> 00:48:55,040
Speaker 1: just let us all let a room with some tough

1000
00:48:55,120 --> 00:48:56,880
Speaker 1: women that wear box of briefs, you know what I mean.

1001
00:48:57,320 --> 00:49:01,479
Speaker 1: That's all that scam scrap. Oh, come, that's it. What's

1002
00:49:01,880 --> 00:49:06,759
Speaker 1: the background. We're gonna play games, Okay, Okay, I guess

1003
00:49:06,800 --> 00:49:10,080
Speaker 1: it's time to play a game of guess what rati?

1004
00:49:11,800 --> 00:49:15,400
Speaker 1: All right, Madison Marie Russo, nineteen years old of Iowa

1005
00:49:15,680 --> 00:49:18,520
Speaker 1: did a scam where she said she had stage two

1006
00:49:18,600 --> 00:49:21,799
Speaker 1: cancer and a big ass tumor. She got thirty seven

1007
00:49:21,840 --> 00:49:30,879
Speaker 1: thousand dollars from donors. Guys, what ratio is completely white? Why?

1008
00:49:31,000 --> 00:49:34,200
Speaker 1: Completely white? Not even off white? Just completely white white

1009
00:49:34,239 --> 00:49:39,560
Speaker 1: completely not completely white? Him uh dj n Yes, Madison

1010
00:49:39,640 --> 00:49:42,760
Speaker 1: Marie rosso Or nineteen years old from Iowa, U scam

1011
00:49:42,920 --> 00:49:45,160
Speaker 1: thirty seven racks out of people by lying about having

1012
00:49:45,200 --> 00:49:49,320
Speaker 1: stage two cancer diagnosis and a tumor. Yess what ratio

1013
00:49:49,520 --> 00:49:54,799
Speaker 1: is white? I'm with you. Black people ain't gonna pay

1014
00:49:54,840 --> 00:49:57,120
Speaker 1: with ale miss, like they ain't gonna say ain't got sick?

1015
00:49:57,560 --> 00:49:59,160
Speaker 1: And then I don't think people are gonna get black

1016
00:49:59,160 --> 00:50:02,560
Speaker 1: people money like that bad love. That's right. I just

1017
00:50:02,640 --> 00:50:04,719
Speaker 1: had a whole conversation about how certain black people don't

1018
00:50:04,760 --> 00:50:06,200
Speaker 1: want to go to the doctor. So I ain't about

1019
00:50:06,200 --> 00:50:10,239
Speaker 1: to play about being what I'm saying. Both of you

1020
00:50:10,520 --> 00:50:14,520
Speaker 1: are absolutely correct. I didn't send Marie Russo is completely white,

1021
00:50:18,880 --> 00:50:25,120
Speaker 1: completely white the breakfast club and it was just something

1022
00:50:25,160 --> 00:50:27,839
Speaker 1: about his charisma and his energy, Like whatever he said

1023
00:50:27,880 --> 00:50:29,279
Speaker 1: he wanted to do in his life, thus far, he

1024
00:50:29,320 --> 00:50:31,320
Speaker 1: had gotten it. So I was like, oh, this this

1025
00:50:31,440 --> 00:50:33,080
Speaker 1: could be something. Did you know she was the one

1026
00:50:33,120 --> 00:50:44,160
Speaker 1: he was the first time about Nah, actually, man, man,

1027
00:50:44,239 --> 00:50:46,279
Speaker 1: that's gonna hit me with the Kevin Harten. I didn't

1028
00:50:46,320 --> 00:50:49,880
Speaker 1: say no like that, like damn, we're talking our podcasts

1029
00:50:49,880 --> 00:50:51,600
Speaker 1: and we said in the book like she told me

1030
00:50:51,719 --> 00:50:53,800
Speaker 1: she loved me. After two weeks and I was like,

1031
00:50:55,160 --> 00:50:59,359
Speaker 1: thanks much. I didn't know not turn off. It could

1032
00:50:59,400 --> 00:51:03,799
Speaker 1: have been eighteen No, I said thanks. And the reason

1033
00:51:03,840 --> 00:51:07,000
Speaker 1: why I said thanks and I still came back for

1034
00:51:07,120 --> 00:51:09,200
Speaker 1: more after the things right, So he was the crazy one.

1035
00:51:09,600 --> 00:51:11,279
Speaker 1: But here's the thing though, I said thanks because I

1036
00:51:11,400 --> 00:51:13,040
Speaker 1: was like, I don't want to lead her on. Am

1037
00:51:13,080 --> 00:51:14,440
Speaker 1: I going to be a liar and be like I

1038
00:51:14,600 --> 00:51:17,120
Speaker 1: love you and then not know if we're gonna be together?

1039
00:51:17,160 --> 00:51:18,400
Speaker 1: So I was like I didn't know what to say,

1040
00:51:18,440 --> 00:51:20,719
Speaker 1: so I said thanks. It makes me think, like, can

1041
00:51:20,800 --> 00:51:23,239
Speaker 1: you have a future someone if you can't see a

1042
00:51:23,320 --> 00:51:25,640
Speaker 1: future with someone like you saw the future with him?

1043
00:51:25,920 --> 00:51:28,319
Speaker 1: Yeah I did, And it's funny. It's just the vibe

1044
00:51:28,320 --> 00:51:30,160
Speaker 1: I think that we had from early. It was just

1045
00:51:30,239 --> 00:51:33,040
Speaker 1: talking about hopes and dreams, and he always spoke like

1046
00:51:33,160 --> 00:51:35,440
Speaker 1: a guy that was just far beyond his years, like

1047
00:51:35,520 --> 00:51:37,759
Speaker 1: even with plans for what he wants to do financially

1048
00:51:37,840 --> 00:51:39,719
Speaker 1: with his life and his future. And he knew that

1049
00:51:39,719 --> 00:51:41,560
Speaker 1: he didn't want to play football long term. He wanted

1050
00:51:41,600 --> 00:51:43,640
Speaker 1: to eventually be an actor. So I'm like, well, how

1051
00:51:43,640 --> 00:51:45,359
Speaker 1: are you gonna do that? He's like, I'm gonna ride

1052
00:51:45,360 --> 00:51:47,120
Speaker 1: out on the scholarship. I'm gonna see if I could

1053
00:51:47,280 --> 00:51:49,400
Speaker 1: make the NFL. If I'm at least on the practice squad,

1054
00:51:49,400 --> 00:51:51,080
Speaker 1: I can make a little money to build a little

1055
00:51:51,120 --> 00:51:53,920
Speaker 1: nest egg, move back to Brooklyn and get around so renovated.

1056
00:51:53,960 --> 00:51:55,480
Speaker 1: We live on the bottom floor, like we had a

1057
00:51:55,520 --> 00:51:57,319
Speaker 1: whole thing planned. That was the first date. We talked

1058
00:51:57,360 --> 00:51:59,440
Speaker 1: about that on the first day. First day. And when

1059
00:51:59,440 --> 00:52:01,879
Speaker 1: I think about it yourself, eighteen year old kids don't

1060
00:52:01,880 --> 00:52:04,600
Speaker 1: speak about building their life like that. But when I remember,

1061
00:52:04,600 --> 00:52:06,720
Speaker 1: if they think I was thinking like that at eighteen,

1062
00:52:06,880 --> 00:52:09,520
Speaker 1: So did you ever think because he played football he

1063
00:52:09,600 --> 00:52:11,120
Speaker 1: was an athlete, like, oh, he's gonna be one of

1064
00:52:11,160 --> 00:52:14,560
Speaker 1: those Oh, absolutely absolutely. People warned me too, They were like, oh, like,

1065
00:52:14,680 --> 00:52:17,920
Speaker 1: don't even get too involved, especially once time came for

1066
00:52:18,000 --> 00:52:20,880
Speaker 1: the NFL and he was a prospect. They were like,

1067
00:52:21,080 --> 00:52:23,919
Speaker 1: this is the part where you guys go your separate ways.

1068
00:52:24,040 --> 00:52:26,279
Speaker 1: Let him. So was Willow, you focus on what you

1069
00:52:26,360 --> 00:52:29,000
Speaker 1: gotta focus on, and if you make it out on

1070
00:52:29,120 --> 00:52:31,880
Speaker 1: top after he's out there with these NFL groupies, then

1071
00:52:31,960 --> 00:52:34,319
Speaker 1: maybe things will work out. And they went both ways.

1072
00:52:34,440 --> 00:52:36,040
Speaker 1: They told me when I went to go play football,

1073
00:52:36,040 --> 00:52:38,320
Speaker 1: she wasn't gonna wait for me. She was still in schools.

1074
00:52:38,360 --> 00:52:40,640
Speaker 1: You get her masters degree. Everybody's like, you think while

1075
00:52:40,640 --> 00:52:42,480
Speaker 1: you playing ball, she's gonna be sitting back at how

1076
00:52:42,520 --> 00:52:43,960
Speaker 1: she just waiting for you to come back. And it

1077
00:52:44,120 --> 00:52:45,560
Speaker 1: was part to me. I was like, dang, that's a

1078
00:52:45,680 --> 00:52:48,320
Speaker 1: tall tax. And it made me insecure. Like there's a

1079
00:52:48,320 --> 00:52:50,920
Speaker 1: story we talked about in the book when we couldn't

1080
00:52:50,960 --> 00:52:53,520
Speaker 1: find her for a day. She was coming back from

1081
00:52:53,560 --> 00:52:55,520
Speaker 1: tracks in Brooklyn. Yeah, it was like a little lounge

1082
00:52:55,520 --> 00:52:57,279
Speaker 1: I used to go to every Thursday with my home girls.

1083
00:52:57,440 --> 00:52:59,120
Speaker 1: And she ran into her uncle on the way back

1084
00:52:59,239 --> 00:53:01,160
Speaker 1: and he was like, you're not driving back to Long Island.

1085
00:53:01,160 --> 00:53:03,000
Speaker 1: You're gonna come stay when you know you were drinking

1086
00:53:03,080 --> 00:53:04,520
Speaker 1: or whatever, and he was She's like, I wasn't drinking.

1087
00:53:04,520 --> 00:53:06,439
Speaker 1: I'm gonna meal. So he went to stay. She went stay,

1088
00:53:06,800 --> 00:53:08,960
Speaker 1: uncle fell asleep, left her car, her phone in the car.

1089
00:53:09,239 --> 00:53:11,359
Speaker 1: She always calls me when she gets back. So now

1090
00:53:11,440 --> 00:53:13,839
Speaker 1: I'm in the locker room, I'm getting ready for team meetings,

1091
00:53:13,880 --> 00:53:15,239
Speaker 1: and I don't get no phone call. I don't get

1092
00:53:15,280 --> 00:53:19,320
Speaker 1: no phone call at all. I wish woman understood that

1093
00:53:19,480 --> 00:53:21,480
Speaker 1: what I really do not want you understand how that

1094
00:53:21,600 --> 00:53:24,120
Speaker 1: makes us feel when you talk about it, bro, because

1095
00:53:24,120 --> 00:53:25,359
Speaker 1: I used to tell her all the time, like how

1096
00:53:25,400 --> 00:53:27,279
Speaker 1: do you not call me when you get places to

1097
00:53:27,400 --> 00:53:30,000
Speaker 1: this day? So now I'm in the locker room, NFL rookie.

1098
00:53:30,120 --> 00:53:31,960
Speaker 1: I didn't even get to practice. I didn't get to

1099
00:53:32,000 --> 00:53:34,640
Speaker 1: practice because after that, her mom called me to, hey,

1100
00:53:34,800 --> 00:53:40,200
Speaker 1: we haven't heard from now you cry? You cry? What?

1101
00:53:41,200 --> 00:53:46,960
Speaker 1: No nasty snot? Somebody got my good man? Like I'm

1102
00:53:47,080 --> 00:53:51,960
Speaker 1: crying balling. Then my mom calls me, Um, I think

1103
00:53:52,000 --> 00:53:55,320
Speaker 1: you should come home. So now I'm thinking they found

1104
00:53:55,360 --> 00:53:57,719
Speaker 1: her and they don't want to tell me because I'm

1105
00:53:57,760 --> 00:54:01,120
Speaker 1: buying myself in Detroit. So I go to the security office.

1106
00:54:03,400 --> 00:54:05,880
Speaker 1: I go to my the NFL securities office. I'm like, yo, um,

1107
00:54:06,000 --> 00:54:08,160
Speaker 1: they can't find my girlfriend and they've been having issues

1108
00:54:08,200 --> 00:54:11,440
Speaker 1: with people breaking in people's house, taking people's family members.

1109
00:54:11,480 --> 00:54:13,440
Speaker 1: This happens in the league a lot. We're taking for ransom,

1110
00:54:13,480 --> 00:54:15,239
Speaker 1: all of you. So they're like, all right, you know

1111
00:54:15,280 --> 00:54:18,120
Speaker 1: we're gonna get our people involved. They called FBI, they

1112
00:54:18,239 --> 00:54:21,920
Speaker 1: broke into her phone, they called campus security, broke into everything,

1113
00:54:22,040 --> 00:54:24,600
Speaker 1: like text menures everything right, They're like, we have nothing,

1114
00:54:24,640 --> 00:54:26,839
Speaker 1: We found nothing, like, we don't know where she give

1115
00:54:26,880 --> 00:54:28,399
Speaker 1: me a time to man, how long? What's that matter

1116
00:54:28,440 --> 00:54:32,320
Speaker 1: of dropped her? My friend? Another thing that you support

1117
00:54:32,320 --> 00:54:35,880
Speaker 1: int to mention. This guy parked me into my parking

1118
00:54:35,960 --> 00:54:38,279
Speaker 1: spot and wouldn't let me out the spot unless I

1119
00:54:38,360 --> 00:54:41,000
Speaker 1: gave him my number. That's the last conversation she had

1120
00:54:41,160 --> 00:54:42,880
Speaker 1: we had on the just like it was like, no,

1121
00:54:42,960 --> 00:54:44,239
Speaker 1: I need your number, and I'm like, I'm really trying

1122
00:54:44,239 --> 00:54:45,640
Speaker 1: to get this parking spot. So he was trying to

1123
00:54:45,640 --> 00:54:47,520
Speaker 1: bullieve me to get my number, and I told him

1124
00:54:47,520 --> 00:54:50,320
Speaker 1: that what was happening, So he thought for sure, homeboy

1125
00:54:50,400 --> 00:54:52,799
Speaker 1: follow me. Yeah, And I wasn't even thinking to put

1126
00:54:52,840 --> 00:54:54,760
Speaker 1: two and two together. So it's about maybe two am,

1127
00:54:54,800 --> 00:54:58,399
Speaker 1: but a yeah, and literally as I turned the block,

1128
00:54:58,520 --> 00:54:59,960
Speaker 1: I pull up and my uncle looks and He's like

1129
00:55:00,160 --> 00:55:02,399
Speaker 1: ky and I was like yeah, uncle Emil big time.

1130
00:55:02,480 --> 00:55:04,239
Speaker 1: Protected like you're not driving. He was like you about

1131
00:55:04,239 --> 00:55:10,240
Speaker 1: to drive to Long Island and yeah. I was missing

1132
00:55:10,280 --> 00:55:15,920
Speaker 1: for about two am to ten am and then she

1133
00:55:16,200 --> 00:55:17,560
Speaker 1: got to her phone. It was just like, yo, what's

1134
00:55:17,560 --> 00:55:19,080
Speaker 1: going on? Yeah? I woke up. I'm like, oh my god,

1135
00:55:19,120 --> 00:55:20,560
Speaker 1: where's my phone. I get to the car and I

1136
00:55:20,719 --> 00:55:22,320
Speaker 1: was like, oh, it's dead. The man I turned the

1137
00:55:22,360 --> 00:55:26,799
Speaker 1: phone on. It's like forty eight text messages, thirty something voicemails.

1138
00:55:26,880 --> 00:55:28,480
Speaker 1: My mom is in tears. She was like, don't you

1139
00:55:28,600 --> 00:55:30,840
Speaker 1: ever do that again? Develos on his way home. I'm like,

1140
00:55:30,960 --> 00:55:34,600
Speaker 1: what that part? And I was just wanting to make

1141
00:55:34,600 --> 00:55:36,640
Speaker 1: it to practice lines got me to flight. Oh my god,

1142
00:55:37,120 --> 00:55:38,840
Speaker 1: I'm in. I'm on my way to the airport. My

1143
00:55:38,920 --> 00:55:40,960
Speaker 1: phone rings. At first when I was calling her, it

1144
00:55:41,040 --> 00:55:42,960
Speaker 1: went dead. Now I'm like, they got her phone, They

1145
00:55:43,000 --> 00:55:45,239
Speaker 1: turned it off. They sending me the voicemail. Then I

1146
00:55:45,320 --> 00:55:47,400
Speaker 1: see a phone call from the boss. I got in.

1147
00:55:47,480 --> 00:55:49,480
Speaker 1: There's the boss and I'm like, not about to ask

1148
00:55:49,480 --> 00:55:50,920
Speaker 1: you for some money? Whoever? This is about I ask

1149
00:55:51,000 --> 00:55:53,279
Speaker 1: some money? So I pick up the phone. Yeah, I'm

1150
00:55:53,320 --> 00:55:57,600
Speaker 1: like I'm like who She's like, babe, baby, I tell

1151
00:55:57,640 --> 00:55:59,040
Speaker 1: you everything I went through. Right, you would think my

1152
00:55:59,120 --> 00:56:03,720
Speaker 1: wife learned right again, what happened this past weekend? Again,

1153
00:56:04,239 --> 00:56:08,000
Speaker 1: it wasn't that she went to get a massage, right,

1154
00:56:08,120 --> 00:56:10,360
Speaker 1: and she texts me, Hey, babe, I'm here. I'll be

1155
00:56:10,440 --> 00:56:12,520
Speaker 1: on my way home. I'll be home at six. Right,

1156
00:56:12,840 --> 00:56:15,120
Speaker 1: it's five forty five. I'm thinking she gotta be on

1157
00:56:15,200 --> 00:56:17,880
Speaker 1: her way home. Of course, I'm calling like ten minutes straight.

1158
00:56:18,239 --> 00:56:19,680
Speaker 1: Now I'm in a car, I'm about to pull out.

1159
00:56:19,719 --> 00:56:23,440
Speaker 1: I get phone call. Hey man, I'm like, bro, I'm

1160
00:56:27,160 --> 00:56:30,200
Speaker 1: my kids phone. My wife is sixty. I got through

1161
00:56:30,280 --> 00:56:33,160
Speaker 1: sixty three sixty. You know what's crazy? But what pisses

1162
00:56:33,200 --> 00:56:35,719
Speaker 1: you off the Moses, how nonchalant they act like it's

1163
00:56:35,800 --> 00:56:43,719
Speaker 1: nothing learnt that black. I was just on the massage table. Man.

1164
00:56:44,040 --> 00:56:45,680
Speaker 1: I don't know why our minds worked like that, but

1165
00:56:45,800 --> 00:56:48,880
Speaker 1: we think the worst, worst possible, an argument like after that,

1166
00:56:48,920 --> 00:56:51,040
Speaker 1: because now you kids just can't let her Liftc's the

1167
00:56:51,040 --> 00:56:52,759
Speaker 1: second time you gotta give a grace you talk about

1168
00:56:52,800 --> 00:56:54,440
Speaker 1: in the new book. You have to give you your

1169
00:56:54,680 --> 00:56:58,040
Speaker 1: partner Greece. Yes, yes, that's the biggest thing for us

1170
00:56:58,080 --> 00:56:59,920
Speaker 1: is learning how to communicate. You know, we came from

1171
00:57:00,040 --> 00:57:04,360
Speaker 1: different communication style, polar opposite. I grew up at an athlete.

1172
00:57:04,680 --> 00:57:07,040
Speaker 1: Nothing was ever good enough for my parents. They were

1173
00:57:07,040 --> 00:57:09,360
Speaker 1: always being hard on me like that. Then my football

1174
00:57:09,400 --> 00:57:12,520
Speaker 1: coaches extremely hard on me, but that made me successful.

1175
00:57:12,800 --> 00:57:15,200
Speaker 1: So I felt like, if you love someone and you

1176
00:57:15,280 --> 00:57:17,400
Speaker 1: want them to be successful, you should be hard on them.

1177
00:57:17,640 --> 00:57:19,760
Speaker 1: So I used to be hard on my girlfriend if

1178
00:57:19,800 --> 00:57:21,560
Speaker 1: I saw that she wanted to do something to send,

1179
00:57:21,600 --> 00:57:23,040
Speaker 1: which she was like, how are we gonna do that?

1180
00:57:23,400 --> 00:57:24,760
Speaker 1: She said she wanted to do TV. How are we

1181
00:57:24,880 --> 00:57:27,680
Speaker 1: gonna do it? I'm on her, Oh, TV, they weigh

1182
00:57:27,680 --> 00:57:29,200
Speaker 1: one hundred and twenty pounds. You need to be in

1183
00:57:29,240 --> 00:57:31,040
Speaker 1: the gym. What are your grades? Like, you said you

1184
00:57:31,080 --> 00:57:33,160
Speaker 1: wanted to do this, you need to record more content,

1185
00:57:33,200 --> 00:57:35,480
Speaker 1: And she'd be like, bro, I thought I was doing

1186
00:57:35,520 --> 00:57:38,520
Speaker 1: the right thing. And after five years of marriage, that's

1187
00:57:38,520 --> 00:57:40,600
Speaker 1: when I kind of realized he was taking the football approach.

1188
00:57:40,640 --> 00:57:42,480
Speaker 1: He thought it was like, I'm a teammate, yes, but

1189
00:57:42,600 --> 00:57:44,760
Speaker 1: I'm not like a teammate on the football field. So

1190
00:57:45,040 --> 00:57:47,680
Speaker 1: coming from a background where my family really like had

1191
00:57:47,880 --> 00:57:50,600
Speaker 1: extensive conversations about anything, it was more so if something

1192
00:57:50,680 --> 00:57:52,880
Speaker 1: happened you didn't feel so good about it. You feel

1193
00:57:52,920 --> 00:57:55,400
Speaker 1: a way it'll blow over. Let's just sweep it under

1194
00:57:55,400 --> 00:57:58,640
Speaker 1: the rug. So attacking things head on, communicating about problems,

1195
00:57:58,760 --> 00:58:00,520
Speaker 1: talking about how you felt like this was a huge

1196
00:58:00,640 --> 00:58:03,080
Speaker 1: learning curve for me. We're just figuring out how to

1197
00:58:03,360 --> 00:58:06,480
Speaker 1: both of us just eloquently even expressed or formulate in

1198
00:58:06,560 --> 00:58:08,640
Speaker 1: my mind, how to tell him how I felt about it.

1199
00:58:09,000 --> 00:58:10,920
Speaker 1: So people see us now and they're like, man, I

1200
00:58:11,040 --> 00:58:12,919
Speaker 1: want to find me a Devot. I want to find

1201
00:58:12,960 --> 00:58:15,440
Speaker 1: me a Codeine. So we're like, well, Devalikade, you see

1202
00:58:15,480 --> 00:58:19,080
Speaker 1: today is not the Devalide that first met each other.

1203
00:58:19,160 --> 00:58:21,440
Speaker 1: This is twenty years in the making. We have more

1204
00:58:21,480 --> 00:58:23,720
Speaker 1: with Cadein and de Vouls. When we come back that

1205
00:58:23,840 --> 00:58:26,040
Speaker 1: book we over me. It's out today. It's the breakfast

1206
00:58:26,080 --> 00:58:27,920
Speaker 1: club of morning. We're still kicking it with Codeine and

1207
00:58:27,960 --> 00:58:30,960
Speaker 1: Devout Charlemagne. You know, in the book, y'all talk about

1208
00:58:31,400 --> 00:58:34,600
Speaker 1: friendship and how friendship is the core of the relationship,

1209
00:58:34,680 --> 00:58:36,440
Speaker 1: which I agree with too, But some people would say

1210
00:58:36,760 --> 00:58:40,600
Speaker 1: a love should be the core of a relationship over friendship.

1211
00:58:40,640 --> 00:58:42,960
Speaker 1: What would y'all say that? I would say this, More

1212
00:58:43,080 --> 00:58:47,280
Speaker 1: friendships last than intimate partners. People have boyfriends and girlfriends

1213
00:58:47,320 --> 00:58:48,800
Speaker 1: in and out of their entire life. But some people

1214
00:58:48,840 --> 00:58:52,240
Speaker 1: have friends their whole life, and those friends are allowed grace. Right,

1215
00:58:52,600 --> 00:58:54,240
Speaker 1: You have friends that may do something to you like

1216
00:58:54,320 --> 00:58:56,520
Speaker 1: that's my homeboy. We'll figure it out. But a lot

1217
00:58:56,560 --> 00:58:58,400
Speaker 1: of times when this love that's like you hurt me,

1218
00:58:59,240 --> 00:59:01,280
Speaker 1: and when you hurt me, I can't take I can't

1219
00:59:01,800 --> 00:59:04,440
Speaker 1: you know, rekindle that hurt. This is what we've learned

1220
00:59:04,640 --> 00:59:07,200
Speaker 1: over the past couple of years. I no longer try

1221
00:59:07,360 --> 00:59:10,880
Speaker 1: to validate my actions by dismissing the way she feels

1222
00:59:10,920 --> 00:59:13,400
Speaker 1: about it, you know. And I think a lot of

1223
00:59:13,480 --> 00:59:17,440
Speaker 1: times in intimate relationships, not in friendships, people do that.

1224
00:59:17,760 --> 00:59:19,600
Speaker 1: If your friend is hurt by something, a lot of times,

1225
00:59:19,640 --> 00:59:20,880
Speaker 1: as your friend, you'd be like, oh my bad, I

1226
00:59:20,920 --> 00:59:22,600
Speaker 1: ain't mean to hurt your feelings. But then when your

1227
00:59:22,640 --> 00:59:25,480
Speaker 1: girl does something or your girl's feelings are hurt, it's like, well,

1228
00:59:25,520 --> 00:59:27,280
Speaker 1: I didn't mean to hurt you. I did it like this,

1229
00:59:27,480 --> 00:59:30,520
Speaker 1: and you shouldn't be hurt. You can't tell people not

1230
00:59:30,720 --> 00:59:32,840
Speaker 1: to be hurt by something you did. They didn't ask

1231
00:59:33,240 --> 00:59:35,920
Speaker 1: to be hurt. They hurt. So what we've learned how

1232
00:59:35,960 --> 00:59:38,400
Speaker 1: to do was just accept the other's feelings. You feel

1233
00:59:38,440 --> 00:59:40,480
Speaker 1: that way, I'm gonna explain to you why I did it.

1234
00:59:40,520 --> 00:59:42,240
Speaker 1: I didn't mean to hurt you, but I accept the

1235
00:59:42,320 --> 00:59:44,560
Speaker 1: fact that you feel that way. And it's not just

1236
00:59:44,720 --> 00:59:46,680
Speaker 1: a for a man to do to a woman. I'd

1237
00:59:46,720 --> 00:59:49,120
Speaker 1: be wanting my feelings to be validated to you know

1238
00:59:49,160 --> 00:59:51,360
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like, that's and that's the manliest thing

1239
00:59:51,400 --> 00:59:53,520
Speaker 1: I can say about it. When my wife started to

1240
00:59:53,600 --> 00:59:56,120
Speaker 1: validate my feelings and say she understands how I feel,

1241
00:59:56,280 --> 00:59:58,800
Speaker 1: she didn't always agree, but she understood, I said, at

1242
00:59:58,840 --> 01:00:01,000
Speaker 1: least if you can understand, can move forward. And that's

1243
01:00:01,360 --> 01:00:04,240
Speaker 1: that's why I feel like friendship to me is the foundation,

1244
01:00:04,400 --> 01:00:06,360
Speaker 1: because you have funds for life. Now let me ask

1245
01:00:06,360 --> 01:00:08,520
Speaker 1: you know, what do you think about that? No? I think, um,

1246
01:00:08,760 --> 01:00:10,240
Speaker 1: he's spot on with that. And it's funny. For a

1247
01:00:10,320 --> 01:00:13,440
Speaker 1: while with Devout, I would encourage him to speak his

1248
01:00:13,520 --> 01:00:15,120
Speaker 1: mind and say how he felt, and then at the

1249
01:00:15,200 --> 01:00:17,400
Speaker 1: same time be like, man, you're bitching and moaning every

1250
01:00:17,520 --> 01:00:22,520
Speaker 1: day about something like literally, I was like, since when

1251
01:00:22,560 --> 01:00:25,640
Speaker 1: did the feeling she become what you said? We will

1252
01:00:25,640 --> 01:00:27,320
Speaker 1: have been a discussion, right, And this is for the

1253
01:00:27,400 --> 01:00:29,480
Speaker 1: first time in my life. I was just like, well,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna be honest, this is how I fell to

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Speaker 1: hurt my feelings, and I'm going through what I hurt

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Speaker 1: my feelings. She goes, sound like a damn it man,

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01:00:38,400 --> 01:00:41,480
Speaker 1: how do you respond? So me being a very immature

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01:00:41,800 --> 01:00:43,600
Speaker 1: person as I am, I said, I don't got to

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01:00:43,680 --> 01:00:46,160
Speaker 1: sound like a I can get me another because now

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to hurt her like we were like twenty

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Speaker 1: six immature. But and we tell these stories in the

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Speaker 1: book because we like to tell people the stories too

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01:01:00,160 --> 01:01:02,560
Speaker 1: through the trauma. I'm not gonna make it seem like

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Speaker 1: everything was picture perfect, because when people fall into a

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Speaker 1: situation in relationship where they hurting each other, they feel

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Speaker 1: like I'm the only relationship going through this. And since

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Speaker 1: I'm the only relationship going through this, I'm gonna get

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Speaker 1: out of here. But nah, were just like, listen, that

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Speaker 1: hurt my feelings. That hurt my feelings. I don't mean

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Speaker 1: to do that. I didn't mean to say that. How

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01:01:20,200 --> 01:01:21,520
Speaker 1: can we get back to what we want to do?

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Speaker 1: We try to. I try to encourage it now too,

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01:01:23,720 --> 01:01:26,360
Speaker 1: because I mean so often women are trying to pull

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Speaker 1: at their men to tell them how do you feel

1275
01:01:28,640 --> 01:01:30,240
Speaker 1: what do you need? What do you want? And the

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Speaker 1: fact that I have a Husbandhod I think is sometimes

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Speaker 1: even an oversharer, like sometimes we just talk like for us,

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01:01:34,800 --> 01:01:38,240
Speaker 1: marriage seems to be one continued long conversation, like it

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01:01:38,400 --> 01:01:41,080
Speaker 1: just never ends, like we're always talking about something. So

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Speaker 1: that's the thing that's been our saving race for us.

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01:01:43,480 --> 01:01:45,440
Speaker 1: It's like just being upfront about how we feel off

1282
01:01:45,440 --> 01:01:48,360
Speaker 1: the bat, so there's no guessing involved. Now he's acting now,

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01:01:49,160 --> 01:01:50,880
Speaker 1: or he's been acting for a long time now, So

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01:01:51,240 --> 01:01:53,000
Speaker 1: did you ever have a problem with him lip locking

1285
01:01:53,160 --> 01:01:59,520
Speaker 1: with others? How looky like this? Really? Well, let me

1286
01:01:59,560 --> 01:02:05,960
Speaker 1: tell you, queen, queen, now we're extending my poorn vocabulary.

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01:02:06,320 --> 01:02:09,120
Speaker 1: But anyway, no, I actually I think because I understand

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01:02:09,160 --> 01:02:11,280
Speaker 1: the industry and I realized, like, these sex scenes ain't

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01:02:11,320 --> 01:02:13,880
Speaker 1: really nothing super sexy about it. I think about the

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01:02:14,000 --> 01:02:16,880
Speaker 1: environment that he's in when they're actually filming that. Um.

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01:02:17,080 --> 01:02:21,320
Speaker 1: But a funny story. Two years ago, actually almost two

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Speaker 1: years he was filming an episode of Sisters or a

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01:02:23,840 --> 01:02:27,440
Speaker 1: season of Sisters. So I'm simultaneously watching the episodes that

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01:02:27,480 --> 01:02:30,320
Speaker 1: are on air, and he warns me that he has

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01:02:30,400 --> 01:02:33,160
Speaker 1: this shower scene coming up with his coast or Crystal.

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01:02:33,280 --> 01:02:35,680
Speaker 1: So I was like, okay, all right, and he was

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01:02:35,760 --> 01:02:37,880
Speaker 1: just like just so you know, like it's gonna be

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01:02:37,920 --> 01:02:40,240
Speaker 1: a little intense. And I'm like, how intense is going

1299
01:02:40,280 --> 01:02:43,600
Speaker 1: to be for BT? Like that's bet. So the episode

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01:02:43,640 --> 01:02:46,080
Speaker 1: comes on and I see the valve got Crystal like

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01:02:46,320 --> 01:02:48,720
Speaker 1: legs over his shoulder. She's up against the shower wall.

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01:02:48,760 --> 01:02:51,160
Speaker 1: It's a blue light and I'm then it's just going

1303
01:02:51,240 --> 01:02:54,040
Speaker 1: and it's going and I'm like, oh, that's what we're doing, right.

1304
01:02:54,240 --> 01:03:00,280
Speaker 1: So I'm like, that's what we doing? Okay? Cool? So

1305
01:03:00,320 --> 01:03:01,760
Speaker 1: what I did. I go on Amazon. I was like,

1306
01:03:02,160 --> 01:03:06,720
Speaker 1: blue light bulb. So I ordered me a blue light bulb,

1307
01:03:06,960 --> 01:03:09,600
Speaker 1: a blue light bulb, and the lamp came to the door.

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01:03:10,280 --> 01:03:13,040
Speaker 1: I screwed that join in. He came home one day

1309
01:03:13,280 --> 01:03:16,160
Speaker 1: before Valentine's Day and I was like, oh you hear.

1310
01:03:16,400 --> 01:03:19,200
Speaker 1: I went put that thing together, put the blue light on.

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01:03:19,240 --> 01:03:21,000
Speaker 1: We only had the air mattress in the bedroom at

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01:03:21,040 --> 01:03:23,120
Speaker 1: this point. And let me tell you, got to work

1313
01:03:23,240 --> 01:03:30,880
Speaker 1: in our son, Dakota the product of the Blue which

1314
01:03:30,960 --> 01:03:33,520
Speaker 1: is kind of weird because it was inspired from a

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01:03:33,560 --> 01:03:36,440
Speaker 1: scene between him and Crystals his godmother. Actually yeah, and

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01:03:36,600 --> 01:03:39,680
Speaker 1: he's you know, born months later, So I can't tell

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01:03:39,760 --> 01:03:42,600
Speaker 1: him that story. I don't think I'll save the I

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01:03:42,640 --> 01:03:48,720
Speaker 1: can't tell him like, oh, you were documented. But I

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01:03:48,800 --> 01:03:51,480
Speaker 1: will say this though, I'm very deliberate. I'm making sure

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01:03:51,520 --> 01:03:54,000
Speaker 1: that she is in contact with the women that I

1321
01:03:54,080 --> 01:03:56,480
Speaker 1: have these scenes were so for example, when we did

1322
01:03:56,520 --> 01:03:59,560
Speaker 1: our chemistry read me and Crystal, Crystal face timed her

1323
01:04:00,080 --> 01:04:01,720
Speaker 1: let her know beforehand, like, you know, we have some

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01:04:01,840 --> 01:04:04,040
Speaker 1: sex scenes to me. I don't want it to ever

1325
01:04:04,120 --> 01:04:06,080
Speaker 1: be a thing where she feels uncomfortable. You go to

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01:04:06,160 --> 01:04:07,720
Speaker 1: a red carpet or you go to an event, and

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01:04:07,840 --> 01:04:09,400
Speaker 1: that's the woman that I had a sex scene within.

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01:04:09,520 --> 01:04:11,520
Speaker 1: It's the first time you have a meter. It's like, nah,

1329
01:04:11,640 --> 01:04:14,840
Speaker 1: y'all have this conversation beforehand. I'm always respectful, especially to

1330
01:04:14,920 --> 01:04:17,120
Speaker 1: my costars, like I'm never going to cross that line

1331
01:04:17,160 --> 01:04:20,360
Speaker 1: because after the whole Me Too movement, you realize how

1332
01:04:20,440 --> 01:04:23,240
Speaker 1: easy it is for someone to feel uncomfortable in your presence.

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01:04:23,360 --> 01:04:25,760
Speaker 1: Have you ever felt uncomfortable in the workplace. I've never

1334
01:04:25,880 --> 01:04:27,880
Speaker 1: felt uncomfortable, to be honest, and I'm not going to

1335
01:04:27,920 --> 01:04:31,440
Speaker 1: out anybody, but women are very sexual to as a workplace.

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01:04:31,560 --> 01:04:34,120
Speaker 1: You know, they say stuff they you know, a woman, mate,

1337
01:04:34,160 --> 01:04:36,240
Speaker 1: smack you on the butt if you know what I'm saying.

1338
01:04:36,280 --> 01:04:38,240
Speaker 1: If they think it's just that type of environment, and

1339
01:04:38,480 --> 01:04:41,040
Speaker 1: you may feel comfortable as a man saying oh, if

1340
01:04:41,120 --> 01:04:43,560
Speaker 1: that's what we're doing, that's what we're doing. But what

1341
01:04:43,680 --> 01:04:46,160
Speaker 1: I equated to, which may not be right, is kind

1342
01:04:46,200 --> 01:04:48,000
Speaker 1: of like I can make a joke on a white boy.

1343
01:04:48,400 --> 01:04:50,040
Speaker 1: If you make a joke on me about my blackness,

1344
01:04:50,040 --> 01:04:52,439
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be pissed. Right if a woman says something

1345
01:04:52,480 --> 01:04:54,720
Speaker 1: to me about my physique, I'm gonna eat that. I'm

1346
01:04:54,760 --> 01:04:57,160
Speaker 1: not gonna now just comment about her body every time

1347
01:04:57,200 --> 01:05:05,080
Speaker 1: I see her. You don't know that sounds crazy? Let

1348
01:05:05,120 --> 01:05:07,040
Speaker 1: me ask your questions, right. So, people got on me

1349
01:05:07,080 --> 01:05:09,000
Speaker 1: about a couple of weeks ago because my wife went

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01:05:09,040 --> 01:05:11,720
Speaker 1: on a twenty day trip. Yeah I see, and they

1351
01:05:11,760 --> 01:05:13,760
Speaker 1: were like, how dare you? How you let her go

1352
01:05:13,800 --> 01:05:15,080
Speaker 1: on the scene? Would you let your wife go on

1353
01:05:15,120 --> 01:05:18,080
Speaker 1: to twenty day trip? So here's here's my thing. I

1354
01:05:18,920 --> 01:05:21,160
Speaker 1: don't know how she would survive without me and the

1355
01:05:21,280 --> 01:05:24,120
Speaker 1: kids for twenty days and she would spend the whole

1356
01:05:24,240 --> 01:05:26,800
Speaker 1: time calling me first time the kids and it wouldn't

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01:05:27,400 --> 01:05:29,640
Speaker 1: out of me, right, me, I don't know how I

1358
01:05:29,680 --> 01:05:32,960
Speaker 1: would survive without my wife for twenty days. If Kay

1359
01:05:33,040 --> 01:05:35,240
Speaker 1: tells me she wants to do something, I'm gonna be

1360
01:05:35,280 --> 01:05:36,920
Speaker 1: one hundred percent behind it. But it was also a

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01:05:37,040 --> 01:05:40,880
Speaker 1: challenge to me six kids, no wife, I mean, and

1362
01:05:41,160 --> 01:05:43,439
Speaker 1: you could do that, Bro, I'm just sixty. You could

1363
01:05:43,480 --> 01:05:45,360
Speaker 1: do that. The math on work was hard. I ain't

1364
01:05:45,360 --> 01:05:52,160
Speaker 1: even gonna third grade. Third grade because that's what the

1365
01:05:52,240 --> 01:05:55,720
Speaker 1: common mass started to regroup of the common cord. Bro, Bro, me,

1366
01:05:56,560 --> 01:05:58,960
Speaker 1: you're on everything. Me and Jackson almost came to blows

1367
01:05:59,160 --> 01:06:01,280
Speaker 1: because I was trying to tell him old school carried

1368
01:06:01,280 --> 01:06:03,240
Speaker 1: the one and he's like, no, you got to make

1369
01:06:03,280 --> 01:06:07,080
Speaker 1: it go to ten. And they're like, I've been I've

1370
01:06:07,080 --> 01:06:09,240
Speaker 1: been doing math my whole life. You put put the

1371
01:06:09,360 --> 01:06:11,240
Speaker 1: one on top of that, cross the eight on and

1372
01:06:11,360 --> 01:06:12,960
Speaker 1: he was just like no. I said, you gonna tell

1373
01:06:12,960 --> 01:06:14,320
Speaker 1: me no, I'm your father. I don't care what your

1374
01:06:14,360 --> 01:06:20,080
Speaker 1: teach to say. Who was right? He was right to

1375
01:06:20,160 --> 01:06:23,120
Speaker 1: make all the equations go to ten for some reason? Yes,

1376
01:06:23,320 --> 01:06:25,840
Speaker 1: And then it comes back around about answer when you

1377
01:06:25,880 --> 01:06:27,919
Speaker 1: could have easily did it in three seconds. And I said,

1378
01:06:27,920 --> 01:06:30,040
Speaker 1: I am not having a stroke trying to figure this

1379
01:06:30,120 --> 01:06:31,800
Speaker 1: out with my eight year old. Yeah, I've been getting

1380
01:06:31,800 --> 01:06:37,120
Speaker 1: at assignment to my wife raised and they come home

1381
01:06:37,200 --> 01:06:40,720
Speaker 1: like dad is bad. So we had Lola up here

1382
01:06:40,760 --> 01:06:43,240
Speaker 1: against host and I see that I didn't see. Yeah,

1383
01:06:44,480 --> 01:06:47,560
Speaker 1: she came to mind it because her clip on people

1384
01:06:47,640 --> 01:06:52,040
Speaker 1: not wanting to be married now or aspiring to me different.

1385
01:06:52,280 --> 01:06:53,800
Speaker 1: I mean, I guess it's a case by case basis,

1386
01:06:53,840 --> 01:06:55,800
Speaker 1: but it doesn't. It's not something that's highlighted is the

1387
01:06:55,840 --> 01:06:57,720
Speaker 1: best thing all the time. Right, So I think the

1388
01:06:57,800 --> 01:07:00,160
Speaker 1: val and I much like many other couples, because why

1389
01:07:00,200 --> 01:07:02,080
Speaker 1: does this kept We're not an anomaly, Like there are

1390
01:07:02,080 --> 01:07:04,440
Speaker 1: a lot of like you're a happily married man, happily marriedment.

1391
01:07:04,440 --> 01:07:06,600
Speaker 1: There are a lot of happily married people running around.

1392
01:07:06,640 --> 01:07:08,240
Speaker 1: So I just feel like by us sharing more of

1393
01:07:08,320 --> 01:07:10,560
Speaker 1: those stories, it's a way to kind of help the

1394
01:07:10,800 --> 01:07:13,720
Speaker 1: narrative around marriage, but also too, like I said earlier,

1395
01:07:14,120 --> 01:07:17,080
Speaker 1: making sure people know, like do I aspire to marriage? Right?

1396
01:07:17,440 --> 01:07:19,880
Speaker 1: You can't find somebody and be like, oh, well, this

1397
01:07:20,000 --> 01:07:22,600
Speaker 1: person makes me want to be married, because what happens

1398
01:07:23,000 --> 01:07:24,920
Speaker 1: that puts the onus on that person to always be

1399
01:07:25,040 --> 01:07:27,160
Speaker 1: this perfect image of what you were, what they were

1400
01:07:27,240 --> 01:07:28,880
Speaker 1: when they met you were, you know, and that put

1401
01:07:28,880 --> 01:07:30,520
Speaker 1: that's so much pressure on one person. So what if

1402
01:07:30,560 --> 01:07:33,400
Speaker 1: they falter, what if they change, what if they outgrow something?

1403
01:07:33,720 --> 01:07:36,320
Speaker 1: Then are you still a marriage person or not? You

1404
01:07:36,440 --> 01:07:38,560
Speaker 1: know so I think you really need to decide, like

1405
01:07:38,720 --> 01:07:41,840
Speaker 1: is that something you aspire to first and then go

1406
01:07:42,000 --> 01:07:44,520
Speaker 1: from there. We have more with Cadeen and the vow Las.

1407
01:07:44,600 --> 01:07:46,440
Speaker 1: When we come back that book, we over me. It's

1408
01:07:46,480 --> 01:07:49,960
Speaker 1: out today. It's the Breakfast Club. Good Morning, The Breakfast

1409
01:07:50,000 --> 01:07:57,480
Speaker 1: Club body is DJ Envy Charlemagne the god ray j

1410
01:07:57,680 --> 01:08:00,160
Speaker 1: Our co host. We're still kicking it with Codeine de

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01:08:00,240 --> 01:08:03,080
Speaker 1: vois Chage Yea. I have a chapter called There's a

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01:08:03,160 --> 01:08:06,520
Speaker 1: Marriage after this Wedding? Break that down. So while we

1413
01:08:06,600 --> 01:08:09,040
Speaker 1: were writing the book, we had discussed what I thought

1414
01:08:09,120 --> 01:08:12,640
Speaker 1: process was about getting engaged in being married, and Kadein

1415
01:08:12,720 --> 01:08:16,719
Speaker 1: had admitted that she had never really thought about the marriage. Nope, anytime,

1416
01:08:17,400 --> 01:08:20,840
Speaker 1: anytime I had conversations with anyone regarding marriage or the wedding,

1417
01:08:20,960 --> 01:08:23,400
Speaker 1: it was the wedding. It was you know, what dress

1418
01:08:23,479 --> 01:08:25,400
Speaker 1: are you going to get? And who's the florist, and

1419
01:08:25,680 --> 01:08:27,840
Speaker 1: it was the planning of the day. At no point

1420
01:08:27,880 --> 01:08:30,280
Speaker 1: in time did anyone pull me aside and say kadein like,

1421
01:08:30,520 --> 01:08:33,720
Speaker 1: once you get married, here are some things to expect, right.

1422
01:08:34,000 --> 01:08:36,360
Speaker 1: You watch these Disney movies and it says happily ever after,

1423
01:08:36,479 --> 01:08:39,000
Speaker 1: no one sees what happens after they ride off into

1424
01:08:39,040 --> 01:08:40,720
Speaker 1: the sunset. So I felt like I was left in

1425
01:08:40,760 --> 01:08:42,400
Speaker 1: the dark. I feel like it was a setup. I

1426
01:08:42,479 --> 01:08:45,120
Speaker 1: felt like nobody prepped me on anything. And then I

1427
01:08:45,200 --> 01:08:47,000
Speaker 1: think there was also a beauty in that though, because

1428
01:08:47,040 --> 01:08:48,960
Speaker 1: I felt like if I were to get advice from

1429
01:08:49,240 --> 01:08:52,720
Speaker 1: aunt's uncles or grandmothers, it might have also been their

1430
01:08:52,800 --> 01:08:55,519
Speaker 1: jaded perspective of what their marriage was like, and I'm like,

1431
01:08:55,600 --> 01:08:57,720
Speaker 1: that could have been a turnoff too. But it was

1432
01:08:57,760 --> 01:09:00,640
Speaker 1: particularly difficult because I just did not think about or

1433
01:09:00,720 --> 01:09:02,400
Speaker 1: plan for what life was going to look like after

1434
01:09:02,439 --> 01:09:05,559
Speaker 1: the wedding. So the pressure comment had triggered a lot

1435
01:09:05,640 --> 01:09:07,639
Speaker 1: of women because they felt like, oh, so she pressured

1436
01:09:07,680 --> 01:09:09,920
Speaker 1: you to get married, And I was like, it wasn't

1437
01:09:09,960 --> 01:09:12,519
Speaker 1: the pressure to get married. It was the pressure to

1438
01:09:12,600 --> 01:09:15,479
Speaker 1: take care of all of the responsibilities once you decide

1439
01:09:15,479 --> 01:09:17,640
Speaker 1: you're going to marry a woman. For example, I have

1440
01:09:17,800 --> 01:09:19,880
Speaker 1: to save the money to get you a ring, I

1441
01:09:20,080 --> 01:09:22,080
Speaker 1: have to decide how we're going to propose. I have

1442
01:09:22,200 --> 01:09:24,679
Speaker 1: to decide after we get married, what else our life

1443
01:09:24,760 --> 01:09:27,200
Speaker 1: gonna look like if we have financial issues. No one

1444
01:09:27,240 --> 01:09:29,120
Speaker 1: ever says, what's your wife doing? They always look at

1445
01:09:29,200 --> 01:09:31,280
Speaker 1: me as a husband and be like So there was

1446
01:09:31,320 --> 01:09:33,720
Speaker 1: a lot of pressure on me to make sure that

1447
01:09:33,840 --> 01:09:36,200
Speaker 1: I'm doing everything that I can to be the husband

1448
01:09:36,240 --> 01:09:38,519
Speaker 1: and I want to be on top of that. Once

1449
01:09:38,600 --> 01:09:41,840
Speaker 1: I proposed, I had got cut six weeks after by

1450
01:09:41,880 --> 01:09:43,880
Speaker 1: the NFL, so I didn't have a job. So there

1451
01:09:44,000 --> 01:09:45,559
Speaker 1: was a lot of pressure on me because I'm like, hey,

1452
01:09:45,600 --> 01:09:48,639
Speaker 1: I was in the NFL when I proposed, and now

1453
01:09:48,920 --> 01:09:51,240
Speaker 1: we're planning a wedding and I'm no longer in the NFL.

1454
01:09:51,560 --> 01:09:53,680
Speaker 1: How do I sustain the lifestyle of someone who was

1455
01:09:53,760 --> 01:09:55,560
Speaker 1: making a half a million dollars a year when I

1456
01:09:55,640 --> 01:09:57,720
Speaker 1: make no money. So yeah, there was a lot of

1457
01:09:57,760 --> 01:09:59,840
Speaker 1: pressure on me. But I understand how a lot of

1458
01:10:00,000 --> 01:10:02,240
Speaker 1: woman could have taken that word pressure and felt triggered

1459
01:10:02,280 --> 01:10:04,320
Speaker 1: by it. But to me, I'm like, as the man,

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01:10:04,800 --> 01:10:07,080
Speaker 1: I didn't care about the wedding at all. I didn't.

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01:10:07,240 --> 01:10:09,800
Speaker 1: I was focused on the marriage. I said, Okay, after

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01:10:09,840 --> 01:10:11,519
Speaker 1: we get married, where we're gonna live. What are you

1463
01:10:11,520 --> 01:10:12,840
Speaker 1: gonna do for work? What am I gonna do for

1464
01:10:12,880 --> 01:10:15,120
Speaker 1: work all? We're gonna have children? How most men feel

1465
01:10:15,560 --> 01:10:17,240
Speaker 1: because I look at it the same way, like we

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01:10:17,360 --> 01:10:20,040
Speaker 1: spend all this money for this, Yeah right, if that,

1467
01:10:20,280 --> 01:10:22,160
Speaker 1: Let's do the future, Let's do the house, let's do

1468
01:10:22,240 --> 01:10:25,120
Speaker 1: the savings investment, let's do this because that's just for

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01:10:25,200 --> 01:10:28,760
Speaker 1: the show. Bro other day and James Wilson said, it's

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01:10:28,800 --> 01:10:30,880
Speaker 1: my guy, let's get he said, me and my wife

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01:10:31,000 --> 01:10:34,200
Speaker 1: got it together together on that come up. You know

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01:10:34,240 --> 01:10:36,400
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like we worry about things that it's

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01:10:36,439 --> 01:10:38,000
Speaker 1: what you got a partner for. She's gonna be with

1474
01:10:38,080 --> 01:10:39,680
Speaker 1: you if she's a real woman. That's the fact. I mean,

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01:10:39,760 --> 01:10:42,519
Speaker 1: think about it. After the whole wedding situation happened and

1476
01:10:42,560 --> 01:10:45,320
Speaker 1: then we went back, you know, the wedding was over,

1477
01:10:45,840 --> 01:10:47,760
Speaker 1: you know, it's spend for yourself. At this point, ye

1478
01:10:47,880 --> 01:10:49,280
Speaker 1: Dive looked at me and he said, you know, I

1479
01:10:49,320 --> 01:10:50,640
Speaker 1: don't want to go to Canada because he had an

1480
01:10:50,680 --> 01:10:53,240
Speaker 1: opportunity to play ball in Canada. He said, y'all want

1481
01:10:53,280 --> 01:10:55,679
Speaker 1: to start a business and maybe work towards this acting career.

1482
01:10:55,760 --> 01:10:58,200
Speaker 1: And I was like, all right, well, what we gotta

1483
01:10:58,240 --> 01:11:00,719
Speaker 1: do on everything? We had a house, I was in Michigan.

1484
01:11:01,080 --> 01:11:04,479
Speaker 1: It was on acre. Who's on an acre? Four bedrooms,

1485
01:11:04,520 --> 01:11:07,680
Speaker 1: five bathrooms, living room, dining them everything. Now we're back

1486
01:11:07,720 --> 01:11:09,880
Speaker 1: in an apartment in Crown Heights and she's on the bus.

1487
01:11:10,320 --> 01:11:12,640
Speaker 1: When I tell you my ego was freaking crushed, I'm like,

1488
01:11:12,680 --> 01:11:14,680
Speaker 1: I should sit in the bathroom. Sometimes I go in

1489
01:11:14,720 --> 01:11:16,600
Speaker 1: the bathroom, go on the bathroom. Babe. I'd be on

1490
01:11:16,640 --> 01:11:18,720
Speaker 1: the toilet, just sitting there, just like like, how did

1491
01:11:18,800 --> 01:11:21,439
Speaker 1: I end up back here? And I got this woman

1492
01:11:21,479 --> 01:11:23,200
Speaker 1: that I asked to be my wife, and now she

1493
01:11:23,280 --> 01:11:25,479
Speaker 1: got to go to the mall and work. Like imagine

1494
01:11:25,520 --> 01:11:27,800
Speaker 1: you tell a woman, yeah, I'm gonna be an actor.

1495
01:11:28,200 --> 01:11:29,840
Speaker 1: I don't want to play football no more. I don't

1496
01:11:29,840 --> 01:11:31,479
Speaker 1: know how I'm gonna be an actor, but I'm gonna

1497
01:11:31,479 --> 01:11:32,720
Speaker 1: be an actor. A matter of fact, I'm gonna open

1498
01:11:32,800 --> 01:11:35,519
Speaker 1: a gym. I don't have no experience in kinesiology. But

1499
01:11:35,640 --> 01:11:37,640
Speaker 1: you tell your woman is and she goes, Okay, how

1500
01:11:37,640 --> 01:11:40,000
Speaker 1: are we gonna do that? You gotta tell me that. Imagine.

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01:11:45,560 --> 01:11:47,120
Speaker 1: I know y'all both been through it. So when you

1502
01:11:47,320 --> 01:11:49,080
Speaker 1: when you hear like when people say you know why

1503
01:11:49,240 --> 01:11:51,360
Speaker 1: you love marriage so much? That's why I got a

1504
01:11:51,400 --> 01:11:54,120
Speaker 1: partner row when when it was the worst or the worst,

1505
01:11:54,280 --> 01:11:59,200
Speaker 1: I could not right here, how many days did we

1506
01:11:59,280 --> 01:12:04,120
Speaker 1: eat ritz? Yo? This is after the NFL grit Rist today.

1507
01:12:04,200 --> 01:12:06,320
Speaker 1: That might be why that's Jackson, our old listen loves

1508
01:12:06,360 --> 01:12:08,720
Speaker 1: gritz and eggs like that's the thing. And it might

1509
01:12:08,840 --> 01:12:12,160
Speaker 1: be because three times a day I was not trying

1510
01:12:12,160 --> 01:12:14,360
Speaker 1: to go buy those stakes. The hungry buddy with you

1511
01:12:14,439 --> 01:12:20,439
Speaker 1: on breakfast. You want breakfast, breast, gritsain eggs every day.

1512
01:12:20,520 --> 01:12:22,200
Speaker 1: Can we give some of these books away? We got

1513
01:12:22,240 --> 01:12:27,000
Speaker 1: to a pair. We over me man, that's right, eight

1514
01:12:27,120 --> 01:12:28,720
Speaker 1: hundred and five eight five, one oh five one. We

1515
01:12:28,760 --> 01:12:30,920
Speaker 1: got two books to give away. We were keeping four books.

1516
01:12:30,920 --> 01:12:32,080
Speaker 1: You brought up so we can give it to away.

1517
01:12:33,040 --> 01:12:34,640
Speaker 1: So we don't give two books away today. Call us

1518
01:12:34,720 --> 01:12:36,760
Speaker 1: up right now and pick up the book. We over

1519
01:12:36,880 --> 01:12:40,439
Speaker 1: me and we appreciate you for joining us. Guys, subscribe

1520
01:12:40,479 --> 01:12:43,519
Speaker 1: to the Dead Ass podcast paton. You can watch all

1521
01:12:43,520 --> 01:12:46,599
Speaker 1: the video content on Patreon. We got some live shows

1522
01:12:46,640 --> 01:12:49,160
Speaker 1: coming up Detroit. We still got tickets if y'all out there. Yeah,

1523
01:12:49,439 --> 01:12:53,360
Speaker 1: I'm From's podcast dot com, Go todas podcast dot com.

1524
01:12:53,960 --> 01:12:56,400
Speaker 1: The last few tickets in Detroit everywhere else has sold out,

1525
01:12:56,520 --> 01:12:59,559
Speaker 1: LA sold out, Texas to sold out, Chicago sold out.

1526
01:12:59,600 --> 01:13:03,519
Speaker 1: All of the book tours sold out New York, DC, Philly,

1527
01:13:03,600 --> 01:13:06,800
Speaker 1: and Atlanta. It's all sold out, so we'll see ully.

1528
01:13:07,920 --> 01:13:10,840
Speaker 1: I love Sisters, man, but see I watched Sisters from

1529
01:13:10,880 --> 01:13:13,200
Speaker 1: the perspective of a comedy. Oh for sure, you have

1530
01:13:13,640 --> 01:13:17,240
Speaker 1: it is it's not the one way to do. Hit

1531
01:13:17,280 --> 01:13:22,840
Speaker 1: the dude and he's spun around. Don't tell you. Let

1532
01:13:22,880 --> 01:13:24,559
Speaker 1: me tell you the truth about Sisters. And when people

1533
01:13:24,560 --> 01:13:26,960
Speaker 1: don't understand, do y'all watch telling novellas? No? I mean

1534
01:13:27,040 --> 01:13:29,240
Speaker 1: I know, I know they are so Telling novellas is

1535
01:13:29,280 --> 01:13:33,280
Speaker 1: a soapy comedy in the soap opera. So when people

1536
01:13:33,320 --> 01:13:35,439
Speaker 1: first saw Sisters, they were just like, why is this

1537
01:13:35,560 --> 01:13:38,920
Speaker 1: on parme time? Tyler put a soap opera on prime

1538
01:13:39,000 --> 01:13:40,840
Speaker 1: time and added comedy to it, so it's like a

1539
01:13:40,920 --> 01:13:43,240
Speaker 1: telling novella. That's why the numbers are so crazy. But

1540
01:13:43,320 --> 01:13:46,200
Speaker 1: people who watch it don't understand. They're like, this is funny,

1541
01:13:46,240 --> 01:13:47,800
Speaker 1: but it's not supposed to be funny. It's supposed to

1542
01:13:47,800 --> 01:13:49,640
Speaker 1: be a drama. I didn't want you to hit care

1543
01:13:49,720 --> 01:13:52,040
Speaker 1: here so much. I don't know, and it na she

1544
01:13:52,160 --> 01:13:54,400
Speaker 1: mad disrespectful to the Teama. A lot of it is

1545
01:13:54,439 --> 01:13:56,760
Speaker 1: the fact that people love for Teama so much and

1546
01:13:56,920 --> 01:14:00,280
Speaker 1: she's the antithesis of what I need in a mental

1547
01:14:00,320 --> 01:14:02,080
Speaker 1: They're like, you gotta hate her in order to love her,

1548
01:14:02,120 --> 01:14:04,120
Speaker 1: and I'm like, no, it's a divine dichotomy. I can

1549
01:14:04,240 --> 01:14:09,160
Speaker 1: love both of them at the same time. Yeah, but no.

1550
01:14:09,320 --> 01:14:11,200
Speaker 1: Divine economy is the fact that two things that the

1551
01:14:11,240 --> 01:14:13,960
Speaker 1: opposite can exist at the same exact time, and people

1552
01:14:14,080 --> 01:14:16,400
Speaker 1: often think that they can't. Right. So it's like my

1553
01:14:16,600 --> 01:14:19,439
Speaker 1: ex and my current girl, I have to hate her

1554
01:14:19,760 --> 01:14:21,800
Speaker 1: in order to love my girl properly. No, I don't.

1555
01:14:22,160 --> 01:14:23,599
Speaker 1: I can still have love for her. It just didn't

1556
01:14:23,640 --> 01:14:26,240
Speaker 1: work out for us because she wasn't my one. This

1557
01:14:26,400 --> 01:14:28,360
Speaker 1: one is my one. I have loved for her, But

1558
01:14:28,479 --> 01:14:31,400
Speaker 1: I am in love with Fatima. And that's a great

1559
01:14:31,439 --> 01:14:33,920
Speaker 1: question because on Twitter that's what I'm always arguing with people.

1560
01:14:34,360 --> 01:14:36,840
Speaker 1: Why you still talk to Karen? Why would I not?

1561
01:14:37,200 --> 01:14:40,040
Speaker 1: Every woman deserves respect, especially if she might be carrying

1562
01:14:40,160 --> 01:14:47,360
Speaker 1: my child right exactly? This is why Charlemagne got the

1563
01:14:47,400 --> 01:14:52,120
Speaker 1: good job, is always what they asked me. Why do

1564
01:14:52,120 --> 01:14:53,880
Speaker 1: you still talk to Karen? Im? We have the travel

1565
01:14:53,960 --> 01:14:58,800
Speaker 1: show coming out with the boys. It's coming out actually

1566
01:14:58,800 --> 01:15:02,599
Speaker 1: this Friday, February ten, so make sure that's a good time.

1567
01:15:04,600 --> 01:15:06,080
Speaker 1: Oh I do have one more question. How do you

1568
01:15:06,080 --> 01:15:08,640
Speaker 1: feel about putting your family out there so much? So

1569
01:15:09,080 --> 01:15:11,040
Speaker 1: as the kids get older, I'm not sure how much

1570
01:15:11,160 --> 01:15:14,040
Speaker 1: more they're going to be out there. I'm just being up.

1571
01:15:14,880 --> 01:15:17,040
Speaker 1: It got to a point where we're asking Jackson like, hey,

1572
01:15:17,080 --> 01:15:18,519
Speaker 1: do you want to be on camera? And the Jackson

1573
01:15:18,600 --> 01:15:22,599
Speaker 1: say no, answers no because always yeah, Cass has always

1574
01:15:22,640 --> 01:15:25,280
Speaker 1: been no. Chiro loves the camera. At first, this was

1575
01:15:25,479 --> 01:15:27,280
Speaker 1: a way for me to share my life, like I'm

1576
01:15:27,280 --> 01:15:29,160
Speaker 1: an artist. If I was a rapper, i'd be rapping

1577
01:15:29,200 --> 01:15:31,439
Speaker 1: about my family, you know. But I'm starting to realize,

1578
01:15:31,520 --> 01:15:33,800
Speaker 1: like my kids need to have say in what their

1579
01:15:33,880 --> 01:15:36,320
Speaker 1: likeness is and just for safety prose too. Yeah that's me.

1580
01:15:36,360 --> 01:15:38,720
Speaker 1: I'm am a beer mo, so I have the time like, no,

1581
01:15:39,000 --> 01:15:40,960
Speaker 1: leave them out. No, even if people see it's in public.

1582
01:15:41,000 --> 01:15:42,720
Speaker 1: For the most part, people are very respectful. They'll come

1583
01:15:42,760 --> 01:15:45,000
Speaker 1: up and say from a distance, but they see it's

1584
01:15:45,040 --> 01:15:46,479
Speaker 1: with the kids. They kind of know that, like, you know,

1585
01:15:46,600 --> 01:15:49,000
Speaker 1: stay back and stuff. So we have a good strong

1586
01:15:49,160 --> 01:15:53,120
Speaker 1: hate saying fan base. But supportive. But the kids as

1587
01:15:53,120 --> 01:15:55,240
Speaker 1: they get old, especially going to school, traveling on their own,

1588
01:15:55,240 --> 01:15:57,120
Speaker 1: I'm probably gonna phase them back. I don't want them

1589
01:15:57,160 --> 01:15:59,280
Speaker 1: to have to walk around with security because their parents,

1590
01:15:59,360 --> 01:16:00,519
Speaker 1: you know, I just don't want them to have to.

1591
01:16:00,600 --> 01:16:02,840
Speaker 1: I want them to live, phase all the way off

1592
01:16:02,840 --> 01:16:04,720
Speaker 1: of social media and just shut the whole, the whole

1593
01:16:04,800 --> 01:16:06,920
Speaker 1: joint down. Well, she never wanted to do social media.

1594
01:16:07,120 --> 01:16:09,599
Speaker 1: This is what crazy moments where I like go back

1595
01:16:09,640 --> 01:16:12,320
Speaker 1: and forth about it, just because again, safety protectives, mama

1596
01:16:12,360 --> 01:16:14,240
Speaker 1: bear all that. So we just try to take the

1597
01:16:14,320 --> 01:16:16,679
Speaker 1: musures necessary. What we do involve them. But the travel

1598
01:16:16,760 --> 01:16:18,320
Speaker 1: show was fun because it was something that we got

1599
01:16:18,400 --> 01:16:19,720
Speaker 1: to do travel to the US a little bit with

1600
01:16:19,760 --> 01:16:22,600
Speaker 1: the guys, and we executive produce all our content. So

1601
01:16:22,800 --> 01:16:26,000
Speaker 1: I'm not I'm not about letting anybody else have autonomy

1602
01:16:26,080 --> 01:16:29,640
Speaker 1: over my children's likeness or my family's Like yet of

1603
01:16:29,680 --> 01:16:31,519
Speaker 1: stuff did we turn on a whole lot of stuff,

1604
01:16:31,640 --> 01:16:33,640
Speaker 1: like our manage over it is in the corner to

1605
01:16:33,640 --> 01:16:36,080
Speaker 1: be looking at us sometimes like really, y'all really don't

1606
01:16:36,120 --> 01:16:38,240
Speaker 1: want to do that, And I'm like, I don't want

1607
01:16:38,280 --> 01:16:40,160
Speaker 1: to do it if we can't control it. So um,

1608
01:16:40,479 --> 01:16:42,120
Speaker 1: we're just trying to own this as best as we can.

1609
01:16:42,200 --> 01:16:44,599
Speaker 1: And just you know, be we over me till we die.

1610
01:16:45,320 --> 01:16:48,240
Speaker 1: We over me. The books out right now right, It's

1611
01:16:48,280 --> 01:16:51,839
Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club. Your mornings

1612
01:16:51,880 --> 01:16:56,800
Speaker 1: will never be the same easily show. Celebrity prink Wars

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Speaker 1: has hosts Kevin Hart and Nick Cannon the Clearing War

1614
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Speaker 1: on Hollywood. Each week, they take you behind the schemes

1615
01:17:02,720 --> 01:17:05,400
Speaker 1: as they team up with their famous friends for high stakes,

1616
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Speaker 1: annex outrageous stunts, and sweet revenge. The bigger the star,

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Speaker 1: the harder they fall. Catch Celebrity prink Wars tonight at

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01:17:12,960 --> 01:17:15,280
Speaker 1: ten on eight. I want to get everybody is DJ

1619
01:17:15,880 --> 01:17:18,800
Speaker 1: n V. Charlemagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club.

1620
01:17:19,000 --> 01:17:20,760
Speaker 1: It's time to get up out again. Charlemagne, You've got

1621
01:17:20,800 --> 01:17:23,240
Speaker 1: a positive note. The positive note is simply this, if

1622
01:17:23,400 --> 01:17:25,840
Speaker 1: nothing else, and I want you to remember that this weekend.

1623
01:17:26,040 --> 01:17:29,880
Speaker 1: If nothing else, some people just teach you how not

1624
01:17:30,040 --> 01:17:32,960
Speaker 1: to be breakfast club pitches you don't finish for y'all.

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Speaker 1: Dunb