1 00:00:00,760 --> 00:00:03,720 Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya Ren and I 2 00:00:03,880 --> 00:00:12,840 Speaker 1: Heart Radio podcast. Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in scrubbing In. 3 00:00:13,240 --> 00:00:17,400 Speaker 1: We have a special guest Sunny today. I was like, wait, 4 00:00:17,440 --> 00:00:20,239 Speaker 1: what very very special guests in the o R today, 5 00:00:20,360 --> 00:00:22,800 Speaker 1: my sweet sunny girl. Yeah, we have Sunny with a 6 00:00:22,920 --> 00:00:25,480 Speaker 1: chance of meat balls. That's right. So if you if 7 00:00:25,480 --> 00:00:27,840 Speaker 1: you if you sense a little extra chipperness or join 8 00:00:27,960 --> 00:00:29,840 Speaker 1: my voice, it's because I have my daughter in my lap, 9 00:00:30,240 --> 00:00:35,120 Speaker 1: her daughter. Um. I mean, there's so much to talk about, 10 00:00:35,320 --> 00:00:38,599 Speaker 1: like there's there's there's a lot, and I do have 11 00:00:38,680 --> 00:00:46,000 Speaker 1: albums dropping, albums have dropped, periods happening some really Oh 12 00:00:46,040 --> 00:00:48,800 Speaker 1: we can chease this for later because we'll get to 13 00:00:48,880 --> 00:00:51,120 Speaker 1: it at the end. But if you're single, I have 14 00:00:51,240 --> 00:00:55,120 Speaker 1: a scent you can try you were men in. Yeah wow, okay, 15 00:00:55,160 --> 00:00:58,440 Speaker 1: that's a great topic up with that one, thank you 16 00:00:58,520 --> 00:01:01,520 Speaker 1: very We need to talk about your other teas that 17 00:01:01,560 --> 00:01:05,320 Speaker 1: you did on Instagram because you got the scrubbers just 18 00:01:05,880 --> 00:01:08,679 Speaker 1: I had people messaging me asking if I was engaged, 19 00:01:08,840 --> 00:01:11,280 Speaker 1: saying they think I was engaged, and I'm like, where 20 00:01:11,360 --> 00:01:12,840 Speaker 1: is all this coming from? And then I go to 21 00:01:12,880 --> 00:01:16,319 Speaker 1: the scrubbing In group, and I see your teaser text 22 00:01:17,080 --> 00:01:19,480 Speaker 1: between us. First of all, it wouldn't have been a 23 00:01:19,520 --> 00:01:25,119 Speaker 1: disappointment had Becca grabbed her balls and done some work yesterday. 24 00:01:25,160 --> 00:01:29,160 Speaker 1: But I get a text message on my Sunday afternoon. 25 00:01:29,720 --> 00:01:33,319 Speaker 1: It was Sunday, right, yes, and it is by the 26 00:01:33,360 --> 00:01:38,440 Speaker 1: one Becca, And she says, Tanya, guess who just walked 27 00:01:38,440 --> 00:01:41,960 Speaker 1: into the restaurant that I'm at. Who do you think 28 00:01:42,040 --> 00:01:44,720 Speaker 1: let's rewind? Let's rewind. There's a rewind. No, I'm gonna 29 00:01:44,720 --> 00:01:46,680 Speaker 1: I'm gonna set the scene. Let me set the scene, 30 00:01:47,600 --> 00:01:51,000 Speaker 1: so prior to your text to me. Yeah, okay, so 31 00:01:51,200 --> 00:01:55,640 Speaker 1: we're at Haley set up made a reservation at one 32 00:01:55,640 --> 00:01:57,560 Speaker 1: of our favorite restaurants yesterday and it was kind of 33 00:01:57,600 --> 00:02:00,400 Speaker 1: like an early dinner late lunch Leonard and whatever you 34 00:02:00,400 --> 00:02:05,440 Speaker 1: wanna call it. And we go and the weather is perfect, 35 00:02:05,640 --> 00:02:08,920 Speaker 1: like the food is amazing, and I'm sitting there and 36 00:02:08,919 --> 00:02:11,840 Speaker 1: we're just like smiling and staring at each other, having 37 00:02:11,840 --> 00:02:15,080 Speaker 1: the best time. And all of a sudden, I'm facing 38 00:02:15,240 --> 00:02:18,440 Speaker 1: where you see like the entrance and the like host stand, 39 00:02:19,160 --> 00:02:24,800 Speaker 1: and I think I see Patrick Dempsey. But thank you. Wait, wait, 40 00:02:24,919 --> 00:02:27,799 Speaker 1: this is a big deal. Okay, I've been trying to 41 00:02:27,800 --> 00:02:31,000 Speaker 1: get him on the podcast for Centuries. I feel like 42 00:02:31,360 --> 00:02:34,240 Speaker 1: I see I just see like silver Fox, you know, 43 00:02:34,280 --> 00:02:36,440 Speaker 1: but that's like any man in Malibu. So I'm just 44 00:02:36,520 --> 00:02:38,960 Speaker 1: kind of like, I'm gonna wait till he gets closer 45 00:02:39,000 --> 00:02:42,320 Speaker 1: before I confirm. He walks right behind Haley and I 46 00:02:42,400 --> 00:02:45,600 Speaker 1: go Haley, and she was like, what are you looking at? 47 00:02:45,639 --> 00:02:48,000 Speaker 1: And I was like, Undrick Dempsey just walked behind you 48 00:02:48,040 --> 00:02:50,560 Speaker 1: and she was like what. So She's like, oh my gosh. 49 00:02:50,600 --> 00:02:53,760 Speaker 1: Like he so he sits like right over kind of 50 00:02:53,800 --> 00:02:55,320 Speaker 1: to the side of her, but I can only see 51 00:02:55,320 --> 00:02:56,880 Speaker 1: the back of his head. He was with his wife, 52 00:02:57,520 --> 00:03:02,280 Speaker 1: and so I obviously immediately hex Tanya and I'm like, you, 53 00:03:02,840 --> 00:03:06,799 Speaker 1: Patrick just walked in and I'm living vicariously through her, 54 00:03:06,840 --> 00:03:09,840 Speaker 1: So mind you, I am what am I doing? Making popsicles? 55 00:03:10,400 --> 00:03:13,600 Speaker 1: And like, I don't even know what I was doing 56 00:03:13,639 --> 00:03:16,960 Speaker 1: at the time, Like I think making popsicles and pizza 57 00:03:17,639 --> 00:03:20,120 Speaker 1: and playing um I don't even know what it's called, 58 00:03:20,160 --> 00:03:22,760 Speaker 1: but it's like some game on the on the Nintendo 59 00:03:22,880 --> 00:03:25,519 Speaker 1: where you swing the ball like you swing like you're 60 00:03:25,600 --> 00:03:30,080 Speaker 1: playing tennis. Yeah, not sure, but I was playing that. 61 00:03:30,200 --> 00:03:32,680 Speaker 1: So that's what I was doing when I get this text. Okay, 62 00:03:33,000 --> 00:03:35,320 Speaker 1: so I am what are you on a tennis court? 63 00:03:35,360 --> 00:03:37,600 Speaker 1: Of the people playing tennis on the screen, we're home? 64 00:03:37,680 --> 00:03:40,680 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah yah yah yeah yeah okay yeah yah yeah. 65 00:03:40,720 --> 00:03:46,560 Speaker 1: So it's like yea, which I'm terrible at. Yeah. They're like, 66 00:03:46,600 --> 00:03:48,080 Speaker 1: you're swinging too early, and I'm like, no, I'm not. 67 00:03:48,080 --> 00:03:50,120 Speaker 1: I'm actually hitting it perfectly. If I was on the court, 68 00:03:50,160 --> 00:03:54,480 Speaker 1: thank you don't. Yeah. So anyway, you put a pin 69 00:03:54,560 --> 00:03:57,200 Speaker 1: in that because I was getting real pissed because I 70 00:03:57,240 --> 00:04:00,720 Speaker 1: was losing. Um. But anyway, she's not she's not competitive, 71 00:04:00,800 --> 00:04:03,360 Speaker 1: so let's all remember, no, I'm not competitive, but I 72 00:04:03,400 --> 00:04:05,600 Speaker 1: was playing. I was on a team. We were playing doubles. 73 00:04:05,600 --> 00:04:07,640 Speaker 1: It was one of Robbie's kids with him and one 74 00:04:07,640 --> 00:04:09,920 Speaker 1: of them with me, and I was like letting him 75 00:04:09,920 --> 00:04:11,840 Speaker 1: down because I was so bad. So that's why I 76 00:04:11,880 --> 00:04:15,880 Speaker 1: was competitive, not because of my own Okay, Okay, So anyways, 77 00:04:16,120 --> 00:04:18,080 Speaker 1: I'm very excited when I get this text from Becca 78 00:04:18,160 --> 00:04:20,239 Speaker 1: because I'm like, oh my gosh, So I just started 79 00:04:20,320 --> 00:04:22,479 Speaker 1: flooding her, like paying her with like a million tags. 80 00:04:22,480 --> 00:04:24,280 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my gosh, what's he wearing? Who is 81 00:04:24,320 --> 00:04:27,560 Speaker 1: he with? Um? You should tell him, you should say 82 00:04:27,800 --> 00:04:30,239 Speaker 1: you met my best friend Tanya at a softball charity 83 00:04:30,240 --> 00:04:34,560 Speaker 1: softball tournament in twenty nineteen. Chris Harrison introduced you to her. 84 00:04:34,839 --> 00:04:37,400 Speaker 1: We have a podcast called Scrubbing In about Gray's anatomy. 85 00:04:37,440 --> 00:04:38,920 Speaker 1: We'd love to have you on because I kind of 86 00:04:39,040 --> 00:04:41,840 Speaker 1: in twenty nineteen, I set the scene with him. You know, 87 00:04:41,839 --> 00:04:43,960 Speaker 1: when I met him, I told him about Harrison said 88 00:04:44,000 --> 00:04:48,599 Speaker 1: the scene. I feel like you, Chrison sne you were 89 00:04:48,960 --> 00:04:51,599 Speaker 1: unsure about that scene being set, but I was there, 90 00:04:51,720 --> 00:04:54,880 Speaker 1: And I followed up with, like, if I had Chris Harrison, 91 00:04:54,920 --> 00:04:57,400 Speaker 1: who was the best friend of Patrick Dempsey introducing me, 92 00:04:57,400 --> 00:04:59,599 Speaker 1: I could have done it myself. What I'm saying is 93 00:04:59,800 --> 00:05:04,000 Speaker 1: you had the end because in I never him, and 94 00:05:04,120 --> 00:05:07,040 Speaker 1: so I said, Rebecca, get up there, get over there, 95 00:05:07,160 --> 00:05:09,720 Speaker 1: and let's get the ball moving a little more forward. Right. 96 00:05:09,760 --> 00:05:12,280 Speaker 1: So I'm like just flooding her with texts like you know, 97 00:05:12,600 --> 00:05:16,400 Speaker 1: oh my gosh, this is so huge. So I'm expecting 98 00:05:16,440 --> 00:05:18,760 Speaker 1: some action to happen. So when I posted that, I 99 00:05:18,800 --> 00:05:20,880 Speaker 1: was really expecting her to come with like a story 100 00:05:20,920 --> 00:05:23,400 Speaker 1: of like, no, you had gotten the results of the 101 00:05:23,440 --> 00:05:30,000 Speaker 1: story about that's not true. I know there's documentation that 102 00:05:30,080 --> 00:05:32,600 Speaker 1: we can prove this, but I won't make you do 103 00:05:32,640 --> 00:05:36,600 Speaker 1: it because I just I feel confident enough. You posted 104 00:05:36,640 --> 00:05:41,920 Speaker 1: the teaser after you knew that there was no further interaction. 105 00:05:42,520 --> 00:05:48,240 Speaker 1: Really so my so he was with his wife and 106 00:05:49,480 --> 00:05:52,640 Speaker 1: I also that restaurant. You know, if you saw someone 107 00:05:53,240 --> 00:05:55,640 Speaker 1: we were in No Boom Malibu, which is like literally 108 00:05:56,480 --> 00:06:02,000 Speaker 1: a scene. You know, you would not go up to celebrity, Tanya, 109 00:06:02,400 --> 00:06:06,159 Speaker 1: Are you kidding me? Tanya? You didn't even go up 110 00:06:06,160 --> 00:06:08,080 Speaker 1: to Jennier for Aniston. You were sitting right next to 111 00:06:08,120 --> 00:06:10,360 Speaker 1: her at dinner when we got up off the couch 112 00:06:10,400 --> 00:06:12,039 Speaker 1: and Jennifer Anderson. I'm not going to do it for 113 00:06:12,120 --> 00:06:15,240 Speaker 1: Patrick Dempsey. I'm going to do it for why because 114 00:06:15,320 --> 00:06:17,920 Speaker 1: Jennifer Edison's not coming on her podcast? Patrick Dempsey could 115 00:06:18,160 --> 00:06:21,400 Speaker 1: he did, He's not even he left Gray's Anatomy like 116 00:06:21,480 --> 00:06:30,360 Speaker 1: on like Rocky terms elector No. Okay, Also, okay, I'm 117 00:06:30,440 --> 00:06:35,120 Speaker 1: done with this gang up on me. Okay, But this 118 00:06:35,200 --> 00:06:38,719 Speaker 1: was my thought because I was considering, like there was 119 00:06:38,760 --> 00:06:41,400 Speaker 1: a moment where I was like, if we have another 120 00:06:41,520 --> 00:06:43,919 Speaker 1: drink and I get a little more tequila and me, 121 00:06:44,120 --> 00:06:46,920 Speaker 1: maybe I can get the braveness to go up there. 122 00:06:46,960 --> 00:06:50,120 Speaker 1: So the bravery I thought, I wish it was with 123 00:06:50,160 --> 00:06:52,120 Speaker 1: more people. If he was with more people, it would 124 00:06:52,120 --> 00:06:54,720 Speaker 1: have been better. I thought, what if I go up 125 00:06:54,760 --> 00:06:58,400 Speaker 1: to his wife, Oh no, because she's a celebrity like 126 00:06:58,440 --> 00:07:01,080 Speaker 1: hairstylist and has like product and stuff and said that. 127 00:07:01,520 --> 00:07:03,560 Speaker 1: I was like I loved her work and stuff, and 128 00:07:03,560 --> 00:07:06,880 Speaker 1: then obviously acknowledged him, like didn't like ignore, like, oh, 129 00:07:06,960 --> 00:07:09,680 Speaker 1: who's your husband, but just kind of was like, you know, 130 00:07:10,200 --> 00:07:13,400 Speaker 1: because I imagine her like a fool, No, because I 131 00:07:13,240 --> 00:07:18,040 Speaker 1: imagine her being like, okay, it's always them coming up 132 00:07:18,040 --> 00:07:21,160 Speaker 1: to him. I almost her sister's a stylist. I almost 133 00:07:21,240 --> 00:07:23,440 Speaker 1: worked with her like one on one, like we've talked, 134 00:07:23,480 --> 00:07:26,040 Speaker 1: and I thought there was an intro there, so it 135 00:07:26,080 --> 00:07:28,880 Speaker 1: wasn't just me coming up being like, oh my god, 136 00:07:29,000 --> 00:07:34,680 Speaker 1: like I love you and husband, and I got denied. 137 00:07:37,640 --> 00:07:42,320 Speaker 1: The right tactic, Well, the alternative was to go up 138 00:07:42,360 --> 00:07:45,560 Speaker 1: and it be really awkward and all the people sitting 139 00:07:45,600 --> 00:07:48,560 Speaker 1: around hearing the rejection if that happened, and I just 140 00:07:49,320 --> 00:07:52,280 Speaker 1: it felt better to just witness it. It's like, so 141 00:07:52,520 --> 00:07:54,760 Speaker 1: I have now been in the room. So here's my question. 142 00:07:54,800 --> 00:07:57,040 Speaker 1: Did you see what he ordered? Was he drinking? I 143 00:07:57,040 --> 00:07:58,920 Speaker 1: didn't see what he ordered but I did take a 144 00:07:59,000 --> 00:08:03,120 Speaker 1: really awkward video because as I'm taking it, I'm pretending 145 00:08:03,120 --> 00:08:05,960 Speaker 1: I'm taking a video or photo of Haley and I 146 00:08:06,040 --> 00:08:09,040 Speaker 1: like pan because they were facing the ocean. So I 147 00:08:09,120 --> 00:08:13,400 Speaker 1: was like, I'm gonna just but then I panicked that 148 00:08:13,480 --> 00:08:15,760 Speaker 1: anyone who was sitting like behind me and could see 149 00:08:15,840 --> 00:08:18,520 Speaker 1: my phone screen could see me in the back of 150 00:08:18,560 --> 00:08:21,920 Speaker 1: his head. I do I care, So the video you 151 00:08:21,960 --> 00:08:24,880 Speaker 1: can really sit the panic. I am too prideful. That 152 00:08:25,040 --> 00:08:30,480 Speaker 1: is something I'll take on there he is. God, please 153 00:08:30,520 --> 00:08:33,760 Speaker 1: show the zoom camera that video, because that is the lamest. 154 00:08:35,160 --> 00:08:39,000 Speaker 1: So it's like good vision the back of his head 155 00:08:39,800 --> 00:08:43,400 Speaker 1: literally and it's like point five seconds. That's all I 156 00:08:43,400 --> 00:08:47,840 Speaker 1: could do. Oh my gosh. So I have now been 157 00:08:48,160 --> 00:08:52,559 Speaker 1: in a room with all of my top celebrities. Wow, 158 00:08:53,160 --> 00:08:56,520 Speaker 1: I've been in like the It's like a radius of 159 00:08:56,640 --> 00:09:00,400 Speaker 1: like within they could hear me talk to them if 160 00:09:00,400 --> 00:09:02,360 Speaker 1: I if we did. What I don't understand is how 161 00:09:02,360 --> 00:09:05,120 Speaker 1: we don't have like a six degrees of Kevin Bacon 162 00:09:05,360 --> 00:09:08,400 Speaker 1: with Patrick Dempsey, Like, how do we not know someone 163 00:09:08,480 --> 00:09:11,360 Speaker 1: that knows him? You literally know Chris Harrison. You got 164 00:09:11,400 --> 00:09:13,960 Speaker 1: introduced because of Chris Harrison. Should I ask Chris to 165 00:09:13,960 --> 00:09:16,199 Speaker 1: get him on the pod, Like, how do we get 166 00:09:16,240 --> 00:09:18,480 Speaker 1: him on here? I mean that would be our literally 167 00:09:18,559 --> 00:09:23,240 Speaker 1: only bet. But yeah, I've had a three degree from 168 00:09:23,240 --> 00:09:26,120 Speaker 1: Patrick Dempsey. I think I've ever told you guys about. Uh. 169 00:09:26,160 --> 00:09:29,280 Speaker 1: One of Allison's friends was dating a guy and we 170 00:09:29,360 --> 00:09:31,439 Speaker 1: hung out with him and he works on Patrick Dempsey's 171 00:09:31,440 --> 00:09:34,160 Speaker 1: production company. He's like a producer. They work out of 172 00:09:34,160 --> 00:09:36,880 Speaker 1: his house, and so I was asking him about this. 173 00:09:36,920 --> 00:09:38,920 Speaker 1: Is before the podcast, I didn't know Grayson Ammy was 174 00:09:38,920 --> 00:09:41,520 Speaker 1: a thing. Uh, And I'm I'm like, when you see 175 00:09:41,559 --> 00:09:43,400 Speaker 1: Patrick next, can you please tell him that I loved 176 00:09:43,440 --> 00:09:45,800 Speaker 1: him in Transformers too? And the guy looks at me 177 00:09:45,840 --> 00:09:47,719 Speaker 1: and he's like, that is the first time I have 178 00:09:47,840 --> 00:09:52,080 Speaker 1: ever heard that. And uh, if you haven't seen Transformers 179 00:09:52,080 --> 00:09:54,760 Speaker 1: to Darker than Moon, Patrick Dempsey is the villain and 180 00:09:54,800 --> 00:09:57,720 Speaker 1: he's so good in it. But that's the closest I've 181 00:09:57,720 --> 00:10:00,000 Speaker 1: come to him. Are they Is this still or they 182 00:10:00,000 --> 00:10:03,320 Speaker 1: still working together? Do we still have this three degree? 183 00:10:04,600 --> 00:10:06,280 Speaker 1: I'll make some calls. I don't know if this dude 184 00:10:06,360 --> 00:10:09,480 Speaker 1: is still uh in my degrees, But yeah, I feel 185 00:10:09,520 --> 00:10:11,360 Speaker 1: like the only thing that I was realizing is he's 186 00:10:11,400 --> 00:10:13,839 Speaker 1: not really doing much press these days. I don't think 187 00:10:13,880 --> 00:10:18,360 Speaker 1: he does a whole lot of podcasting. Pitching a podcast 188 00:10:18,400 --> 00:10:21,079 Speaker 1: to someone out to dinner though, was a I don't know, 189 00:10:21,080 --> 00:10:22,360 Speaker 1: I don't want I don't want to take back his 190 00:10:22,440 --> 00:10:24,280 Speaker 1: side too hard, but like that's a really hard thing 191 00:10:24,320 --> 00:10:28,120 Speaker 1: to do. Okay, here's the thing though, Tanya wouldn't have 192 00:10:28,160 --> 00:10:30,679 Speaker 1: done it either, and like you even said, you wouldn't 193 00:10:30,679 --> 00:10:33,200 Speaker 1: have introduced yourself to him if Chris Harrison had done it. 194 00:10:33,280 --> 00:10:36,480 Speaker 1: That's softball game. That was casual. Yeah, because my problem 195 00:10:36,559 --> 00:10:38,480 Speaker 1: was as I was too star struck. It wasn't because 196 00:10:38,480 --> 00:10:41,320 Speaker 1: I was like prideful at all. I had zero pride. 197 00:10:41,360 --> 00:10:44,880 Speaker 1: My pride is nowhere. Uh. It was I was too 198 00:10:44,920 --> 00:10:47,200 Speaker 1: like starstruck. I couldn't get words out, Like I couldn't 199 00:10:47,200 --> 00:10:48,680 Speaker 1: even have a conversation with him because he was like, 200 00:10:48,720 --> 00:10:52,520 Speaker 1: also so strikingly handsome. I'm so handsome. It was like 201 00:10:52,800 --> 00:10:55,840 Speaker 1: surprising because you see him in photos and videos and stuff, 202 00:10:56,320 --> 00:10:59,280 Speaker 1: but not the same by I was like, oh my god, 203 00:11:00,040 --> 00:11:02,560 Speaker 1: I crush is so valid. Yeah. So he was like 204 00:11:02,600 --> 00:11:05,160 Speaker 1: talking to me and I couldn't even are you playing? 205 00:11:05,160 --> 00:11:10,720 Speaker 1: And I was like, yeah, like what so I could 206 00:11:10,720 --> 00:11:13,640 Speaker 1: just say I'm star struck and and it's fine if 207 00:11:13,640 --> 00:11:17,000 Speaker 1: I don't go up. I mean, it is what it 208 00:11:17,040 --> 00:11:19,280 Speaker 1: is in the past. We can only do so much. 209 00:11:20,559 --> 00:11:23,439 Speaker 1: But I was really coming and hot with like something 210 00:11:23,640 --> 00:11:25,360 Speaker 1: if I was like, oh, we're going to have something here, 211 00:11:25,400 --> 00:11:26,960 Speaker 1: like this is going to be the start of something, 212 00:11:27,040 --> 00:11:29,480 Speaker 1: and it just was not. To be honest, it was 213 00:11:29,559 --> 00:11:33,600 Speaker 1: really cool to see him and like literally was not 214 00:11:33,720 --> 00:11:38,360 Speaker 1: prepared or expecting it. But I'm sorry the setup was 215 00:11:38,559 --> 00:11:44,000 Speaker 1: thinking something really huge was happening. But like, also that's 216 00:11:44,040 --> 00:11:46,240 Speaker 1: not very I mean, that's very on brand for me, 217 00:11:46,320 --> 00:11:49,080 Speaker 1: Like I think little things are very big deals. Well, 218 00:11:49,160 --> 00:11:51,040 Speaker 1: that was a big deal for us. But I think 219 00:11:51,080 --> 00:11:54,240 Speaker 1: like in terms of like pitching, like scrubbing in is 220 00:11:54,280 --> 00:11:57,160 Speaker 1: going to be amazing tomorrow when you're saying that people 221 00:11:57,360 --> 00:12:00,480 Speaker 1: thought people we were engaged or something like, if that happens, 222 00:12:00,600 --> 00:12:06,840 Speaker 1: you best believe you're gonna see things, not a screenshot 223 00:12:06,840 --> 00:12:10,079 Speaker 1: of a text, You're going to see some photos of things. 224 00:12:10,559 --> 00:12:12,960 Speaker 1: My favorite fan theory people were trying to de code 225 00:12:12,960 --> 00:12:17,520 Speaker 1: what was under the heart, myself included. I was panicking 226 00:12:18,080 --> 00:12:20,800 Speaker 1: all the theories knowing what it really was. I was like, 227 00:12:21,920 --> 00:12:25,760 Speaker 1: I think it's as Taylor Swift, Oh my god, I'm like, yeah, okay, 228 00:12:27,000 --> 00:12:29,440 Speaker 1: I love that y'all believe in us so much. It's 229 00:12:29,520 --> 00:12:34,480 Speaker 1: really nice. Like if I ever just question, like what's 230 00:12:34,480 --> 00:12:36,880 Speaker 1: our level on this podcast, I just know that the 231 00:12:36,880 --> 00:12:39,679 Speaker 1: scrubbers believe that we could get Taylor slipped on the podcast, 232 00:12:39,760 --> 00:12:43,760 Speaker 1: and that makes me feel good. I like the optimism, enthusiasm. 233 00:12:44,240 --> 00:12:52,439 Speaker 1: Love it. Oh wow, that was good. Well that was 234 00:12:52,480 --> 00:12:54,760 Speaker 1: a thrill for me on a Sunday it was. It 235 00:12:54,840 --> 00:12:58,200 Speaker 1: was a thrill for me too. And even Hailey was like, 236 00:12:58,280 --> 00:12:59,680 Speaker 1: do you want to go up and say something? And 237 00:12:59,679 --> 00:13:01,960 Speaker 1: I was like, like, just don't even know. Like I 238 00:13:02,080 --> 00:13:06,719 Speaker 1: was like on Anatomy once, she could have been like, hey, no, no, 239 00:13:06,840 --> 00:13:12,240 Speaker 1: she wasn't. That would be the most like way to 240 00:13:12,280 --> 00:13:14,959 Speaker 1: bury the lead moment. Ever, if Haley had been on 241 00:13:15,040 --> 00:13:17,839 Speaker 1: Gray's Anatomy, that's funny that. I don't know if that 242 00:13:17,960 --> 00:13:21,280 Speaker 1: for some reason, she was like on an episode dream 243 00:13:21,400 --> 00:13:24,840 Speaker 1: come true, like Back of the Day, still a dream 244 00:13:24,880 --> 00:13:28,960 Speaker 1: come she was on Wizards of Waverley Place. I confused 245 00:13:28,960 --> 00:13:31,719 Speaker 1: the two. Here's the I mean, you can't go back 246 00:13:31,720 --> 00:13:33,520 Speaker 1: in time, but here's the link. Here's the link. You 247 00:13:33,559 --> 00:13:36,760 Speaker 1: have Haley go up and say hello, Mr Patrick Dempsey. 248 00:13:36,880 --> 00:13:39,439 Speaker 1: I know you were in the film Enchanted. I myself 249 00:13:39,720 --> 00:13:44,360 Speaker 1: was lemonade Mouth, another Disney production. It's nice to meet 250 00:13:44,400 --> 00:13:46,440 Speaker 1: you here is Becca. Would you like to come on 251 00:13:46,480 --> 00:13:50,000 Speaker 1: her podcast? Yeah, it's all about just getting on their level, 252 00:13:50,120 --> 00:13:53,640 Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Somehow, So what what I 253 00:13:53,760 --> 00:13:56,120 Speaker 1: do in my mind in these situations is literally picture 254 00:13:56,240 --> 00:13:59,320 Speaker 1: their face as I would be saying my spiel, and 255 00:13:59,360 --> 00:14:02,920 Speaker 1: I picture of him just with a blank stare, Like 256 00:14:04,520 --> 00:14:05,800 Speaker 1: but like, here's the thing. You could do it like 257 00:14:05,800 --> 00:14:07,079 Speaker 1: a not but you could do it in a non 258 00:14:07,080 --> 00:14:09,559 Speaker 1: aggressive way, so like you could go, oh my gosh, hi, 259 00:14:09,760 --> 00:14:14,200 Speaker 1: Mr Dempsey, Um, I have a podcast it's called Scrubbing 260 00:14:14,200 --> 00:14:16,080 Speaker 1: In because we love grays Antomy, and so I just 261 00:14:16,120 --> 00:14:17,960 Speaker 1: I really wanted to come over here and just say hi, 262 00:14:18,120 --> 00:14:20,280 Speaker 1: Like you wouldn't have to pitch the podcast. Then it 263 00:14:20,280 --> 00:14:22,200 Speaker 1: would be up to him to be like, oh my gosh, 264 00:14:22,240 --> 00:14:24,000 Speaker 1: that's so fun, and like then you could gauge it 265 00:14:24,040 --> 00:14:25,160 Speaker 1: from that, you know what I mean, Like you just 266 00:14:25,160 --> 00:14:27,200 Speaker 1: need to get your foot in the door. And then 267 00:14:27,240 --> 00:14:29,720 Speaker 1: if he doesn't take the bait, then, like I understand, obviously, 268 00:14:29,720 --> 00:14:31,160 Speaker 1: you don't have to give him an elevator pitch, like 269 00:14:31,200 --> 00:14:33,760 Speaker 1: at dinner with his wife, but you get your foot 270 00:14:33,760 --> 00:14:37,000 Speaker 1: in the door and then let let him like be like, oh, like, 271 00:14:37,440 --> 00:14:39,360 Speaker 1: who have you head on? Or you know, see how 272 00:14:39,440 --> 00:14:42,800 Speaker 1: much he engages you think he wouldn't have engaged at all. 273 00:14:43,880 --> 00:14:45,320 Speaker 1: I still love the idea of you going up to 274 00:14:45,320 --> 00:14:46,880 Speaker 1: the wife and telling her you're a fan of work, 275 00:14:46,880 --> 00:14:49,840 Speaker 1: and then turning to him going and you are right, 276 00:14:52,120 --> 00:14:54,240 Speaker 1: excuse me, what's your name? It was never gonna be 277 00:14:54,280 --> 00:14:56,040 Speaker 1: like you are I just like, oh, I you know, 278 00:14:56,160 --> 00:14:59,400 Speaker 1: I love you. I love Gray's anatomy, and then focus 279 00:14:59,480 --> 00:15:04,520 Speaker 1: on her. That's that That would have been effective. I think, 280 00:15:04,600 --> 00:15:09,000 Speaker 1: truly think that would have been effective, but very disingenuous. No, 281 00:15:09,160 --> 00:15:12,800 Speaker 1: because like I like literally with her sister, and like 282 00:15:12,920 --> 00:15:15,520 Speaker 1: could have said, like, you know, I've taught your sister, 283 00:15:15,520 --> 00:15:17,800 Speaker 1: almost worked with your sister, and she's so awesome. I 284 00:15:17,840 --> 00:15:21,760 Speaker 1: love her style. Blah blah blah, I love what you do. Patrick, 285 00:15:23,360 --> 00:15:30,640 Speaker 1: I've masturbated to you. I'm just saying it's like you 286 00:15:30,680 --> 00:15:34,680 Speaker 1: can't go up to the wife and say like that, Well, no, 287 00:15:34,840 --> 00:15:37,400 Speaker 1: I know, but you can't, Like you just can't pretend 288 00:15:37,440 --> 00:15:41,360 Speaker 1: like you're not obsessed with her husband. It would have 289 00:15:41,360 --> 00:16:02,840 Speaker 1: worked exactly exactly the Trojan Horse of Sincerity. There was 290 00:16:02,880 --> 00:16:04,320 Speaker 1: a big week. There was a lot of that happened 291 00:16:04,320 --> 00:16:08,960 Speaker 1: this week. Hayley's album dropped, which is huge. It was amazing. 292 00:16:10,160 --> 00:16:15,200 Speaker 1: Have you listened to it? Listen any favorites? Um, yes, 293 00:16:17,440 --> 00:16:21,680 Speaker 1: stand by she hasn't notes page yeah, no, oh no, 294 00:16:21,800 --> 00:16:24,640 Speaker 1: she's looking at the track list because I don't want 295 00:16:24,640 --> 00:16:29,479 Speaker 1: to get it wrong. I know Easton probably has his 296 00:16:29,480 --> 00:16:34,120 Speaker 1: his favorites. It truly is a no skip album. Like 297 00:16:34,160 --> 00:16:35,880 Speaker 1: you were You weren't joking when he said that, I know, 298 00:16:36,040 --> 00:16:38,240 Speaker 1: I really I was critical, and I mean she wrote 299 00:16:38,280 --> 00:16:40,080 Speaker 1: so many songs and if there was one where I 300 00:16:40,120 --> 00:16:42,600 Speaker 1: was like, I don't think it's I don't think it's 301 00:16:42,640 --> 00:16:45,080 Speaker 1: at the level of the other songs, she would get 302 00:16:45,080 --> 00:16:48,160 Speaker 1: other people's opinions on it and then it ultimately ended 303 00:16:48,240 --> 00:16:51,880 Speaker 1: up alright, well, Eastern, do you have your favorite told 304 00:16:51,920 --> 00:16:57,320 Speaker 1: Donia finds the track list? Yes. Um. I just want 305 00:16:57,320 --> 00:16:59,920 Speaker 1: to say, I think picking sugar on the sugar at 306 00:16:59,920 --> 00:17:03,520 Speaker 1: the bottom for the opening track is so powerful. What 307 00:17:03,640 --> 00:17:06,040 Speaker 1: a way to open it up like at the uh. 308 00:17:06,240 --> 00:17:09,320 Speaker 1: Like I was lucky to go to the event the 309 00:17:09,320 --> 00:17:12,919 Speaker 1: other night. It was really cool. Um, and uh, you know, 310 00:17:12,920 --> 00:17:15,399 Speaker 1: Hayley does this really cool introduction and then she presses 311 00:17:15,440 --> 00:17:18,360 Speaker 1: play and the first song hits, and I'm like, oh 312 00:17:18,400 --> 00:17:20,200 Speaker 1: my god, this album is going to be a ride. 313 00:17:20,880 --> 00:17:23,600 Speaker 1: Uh So I love I love Sugar at the Bottom. 314 00:17:24,440 --> 00:17:27,439 Speaker 1: I loved um Deep in the Woods, I know that 315 00:17:27,520 --> 00:17:31,760 Speaker 1: was like in that one released earlier. And then Panorama. 316 00:17:32,160 --> 00:17:35,159 Speaker 1: I just love that. Panorama is my favorite, and I 317 00:17:35,200 --> 00:17:40,440 Speaker 1: think it's because the lyrics just like give me chills. Yeah. Really, 318 00:17:40,480 --> 00:17:43,040 Speaker 1: you can't listen to that song without like a tear 319 00:17:43,160 --> 00:17:45,679 Speaker 1: rolling up in your eye, chills going down your spine. 320 00:17:45,720 --> 00:17:48,640 Speaker 1: It's a full sensory experience. I really I love that song. 321 00:17:48,840 --> 00:17:51,320 Speaker 1: It's I feel the same way I cried the first 322 00:17:51,320 --> 00:17:55,160 Speaker 1: time she played it for me. Yeah, it wasn't done. 323 00:17:55,240 --> 00:17:57,119 Speaker 1: She just kind of had some of the lyrics and 324 00:17:57,119 --> 00:18:00,560 Speaker 1: then like the like cinematic like instrumental, and I was 325 00:18:00,680 --> 00:18:04,239 Speaker 1: like fully overwhelmed because I wasn't I don't know, I 326 00:18:04,280 --> 00:18:07,480 Speaker 1: wasn't prepared for it. So when it that when it hit, 327 00:18:07,680 --> 00:18:11,880 Speaker 1: it was like, oh my gosh, this is incredible. So 328 00:18:12,520 --> 00:18:14,960 Speaker 1: that was one of my early favorites. But it was 329 00:18:15,000 --> 00:18:17,440 Speaker 1: actually like that was one of the last songs to 330 00:18:17,480 --> 00:18:19,920 Speaker 1: be put on the album, so that one's my number one, 331 00:18:19,960 --> 00:18:25,639 Speaker 1: and my number two is Underground oh wow. And then 332 00:18:25,680 --> 00:18:29,239 Speaker 1: I also like Flicker Start. Interesting. Flicker Start was like 333 00:18:29,640 --> 00:18:32,880 Speaker 1: a debatable one, but people love flicker Start. Yeah, those 334 00:18:32,880 --> 00:18:36,080 Speaker 1: are my top three. My top from the very beginning 335 00:18:36,080 --> 00:18:38,679 Speaker 1: that she played it for me was is Luna. It 336 00:18:38,800 --> 00:18:43,359 Speaker 1: gives me like the best feeling. It makes me feel 337 00:18:43,359 --> 00:18:47,280 Speaker 1: like I'm on like a in like a convertible cruising 338 00:18:47,840 --> 00:18:51,320 Speaker 1: an Italian coast or something. I've never done that, but 339 00:18:51,359 --> 00:18:55,040 Speaker 1: that's what it makes me feel. Like transports you and 340 00:18:55,080 --> 00:18:57,919 Speaker 1: then I love well, I think well is so funny? 341 00:18:58,000 --> 00:19:00,640 Speaker 1: Or any of these songs about you? And so hey. 342 00:19:00,680 --> 00:19:02,560 Speaker 1: I told Haley she has to come on the podcast 343 00:19:02,600 --> 00:19:04,600 Speaker 1: before she least her tour, and I think this is 344 00:19:04,640 --> 00:19:08,680 Speaker 1: a really funny conversation because the ones that that are 345 00:19:08,720 --> 00:19:12,840 Speaker 1: about me are not you would think I want to. 346 00:19:12,840 --> 00:19:15,520 Speaker 1: I think it's funny if we talk about because if 347 00:19:15,520 --> 00:19:18,600 Speaker 1: we can tell the story because it's funny, don't you 348 00:19:18,640 --> 00:19:21,240 Speaker 1: want it to? That would be good podcast with her. Well, yeah, 349 00:19:21,280 --> 00:19:22,880 Speaker 1: of course I want her on the podcast. But why 350 00:19:22,880 --> 00:19:25,440 Speaker 1: can't you tell us which one which before we get 351 00:19:25,480 --> 00:19:28,800 Speaker 1: I'll tell you which one's uh supposed to be? It's 352 00:19:28,800 --> 00:19:33,680 Speaker 1: a breakup song and s O S which is kind 353 00:19:33,680 --> 00:19:36,120 Speaker 1: of a break of song. Oh God, were these during 354 00:19:36,200 --> 00:19:38,720 Speaker 1: dark times during your relationship? And these were during some 355 00:19:38,760 --> 00:19:48,600 Speaker 1: times that before a couples therapy? Um, but well, it's 356 00:19:48,680 --> 00:19:51,359 Speaker 1: so fun and if you like I. Obviously I'm not 357 00:19:51,400 --> 00:19:53,120 Speaker 1: going through a breakup. But if I ever went through 358 00:19:53,119 --> 00:19:56,159 Speaker 1: a breakup and then like was doing so great and 359 00:19:56,240 --> 00:19:59,920 Speaker 1: ran into my ex it's so good. Oh, I got 360 00:20:00,000 --> 00:20:02,399 Speaker 1: always supposed to you had a chance to listen to 361 00:20:02,440 --> 00:20:10,440 Speaker 1: it that hold on, hold on, I got it. So 362 00:20:10,480 --> 00:20:13,000 Speaker 1: in case anybody wants to know the lyrics s os, 363 00:20:13,240 --> 00:20:16,040 Speaker 1: I hardly ever give in and let out, won't listen 364 00:20:16,080 --> 00:20:18,680 Speaker 1: to what you have to say. I thought forever would 365 00:20:18,680 --> 00:20:21,159 Speaker 1: hold onto you because it's too hard to lose. I 366 00:20:21,280 --> 00:20:23,280 Speaker 1: don't want you to leave me, so you won't leave me. 367 00:20:23,280 --> 00:20:25,919 Speaker 1: When you do, you keep me, send you, keep me 368 00:20:26,000 --> 00:20:30,399 Speaker 1: sending me an s O S. Oh, but I can't 369 00:20:30,440 --> 00:20:32,760 Speaker 1: read it, so I keep giving you the s O S, 370 00:20:33,280 --> 00:20:39,080 Speaker 1: same old repeat it falling way too fast? Is it 371 00:20:39,160 --> 00:20:43,080 Speaker 1: too late for a parachute? Bom Becca? What do you 372 00:20:43,119 --> 00:20:46,000 Speaker 1: do to her? I'm going under We've been there before, 373 00:20:46,080 --> 00:20:50,560 Speaker 1: We've been here before. I'll get that part. We're counting 374 00:20:50,600 --> 00:20:56,639 Speaker 1: to ten on who's gonna win? Lines in the sand? Okay, 375 00:20:57,280 --> 00:20:59,760 Speaker 1: let's say we'll go deep. We'll do a deep dive. Wait, 376 00:20:59,800 --> 00:21:02,879 Speaker 1: don't read this supposed to be why because I really 377 00:21:02,960 --> 00:21:05,440 Speaker 1: think I want to talk about this when we're so 378 00:21:05,520 --> 00:21:08,000 Speaker 1: much to talk to her about. I'm not even worried 379 00:21:08,040 --> 00:21:10,480 Speaker 1: at all when I think about the future. Don't think 380 00:21:10,480 --> 00:21:13,560 Speaker 1: i'd lose you. Your clothes are in the bathroom. Reminded 381 00:21:13,600 --> 00:21:17,920 Speaker 1: me of your body. Now we got no future. I 382 00:21:18,040 --> 00:21:20,280 Speaker 1: don't know what to do now because I wish you 383 00:21:20,320 --> 00:21:23,720 Speaker 1: were coming. Tell me, is this how it's supposed to be? 384 00:21:24,640 --> 00:21:28,600 Speaker 1: Only you can make me this lonely? We have a 385 00:21:28,600 --> 00:21:32,080 Speaker 1: lot to talk to Hale, I'm gonna tell you. But 386 00:21:32,160 --> 00:21:35,600 Speaker 1: when when we were like everyone's been like, what songs 387 00:21:35,600 --> 00:21:39,600 Speaker 1: are about you? Like, Yeah, well, don't worry about it. 388 00:21:40,400 --> 00:21:44,719 Speaker 1: That's so funny or any of the like romantic like 389 00:21:44,800 --> 00:21:48,080 Speaker 1: I mean a lot of the like love like romantic 390 00:21:48,119 --> 00:21:51,520 Speaker 1: ones are inspired by she wrote about your blue eyes. 391 00:21:51,720 --> 00:21:55,159 Speaker 1: Oh that's a that's a different song. Yeah, that'll I 392 00:21:55,200 --> 00:21:59,760 Speaker 1: think that's coming out of it. Okay, that honestly is 393 00:21:59,800 --> 00:22:08,960 Speaker 1: a really great song and like nice yeah, umah album, 394 00:22:09,000 --> 00:22:12,280 Speaker 1: it's incredible funny guy. I think, what what I love 395 00:22:12,320 --> 00:22:13,879 Speaker 1: about it? Because I did say it was a No 396 00:22:13,960 --> 00:22:17,200 Speaker 1: Skips album, But it gives me the same feeling that 397 00:22:17,440 --> 00:22:20,200 Speaker 1: nine gave me. Like it's not like a comparable in 398 00:22:20,280 --> 00:22:22,399 Speaker 1: the sense of like music, but like the feeling I 399 00:22:22,480 --> 00:22:24,240 Speaker 1: get listening to the album all the way through, I 400 00:22:24,280 --> 00:22:25,879 Speaker 1: get that same feeling. I think that's what it does. 401 00:22:25,960 --> 00:22:27,720 Speaker 1: It does tell a story. And but can I tell 402 00:22:27,720 --> 00:22:29,880 Speaker 1: you also something that's very interesting. So I was listening 403 00:22:29,920 --> 00:22:31,240 Speaker 1: to it with Robbie and he was like, you know 404 00:22:31,359 --> 00:22:33,600 Speaker 1: what's cool. He's like, I can't remember which song it 405 00:22:33,680 --> 00:22:35,920 Speaker 1: was exactly that he said it about, but he was like, 406 00:22:36,200 --> 00:22:38,920 Speaker 1: it kind of sounds like that Kate Bush song that's 407 00:22:38,960 --> 00:22:41,760 Speaker 1: on the right, like that that nineties whatever that's on 408 00:22:41,880 --> 00:22:44,160 Speaker 1: the radio every five seconds. He was like, it kind 409 00:22:44,160 --> 00:22:46,280 Speaker 1: of sounds like that Kate Bush song. And I was like, 410 00:22:46,320 --> 00:22:50,440 Speaker 1: oh my god, yeah, you're kind of right. So forty 411 00:22:50,520 --> 00:22:53,760 Speaker 1: five years it'll really take off. No, it's cool. It's 412 00:22:53,800 --> 00:22:57,520 Speaker 1: good now because people like to hear similar things to 413 00:22:57,600 --> 00:23:00,600 Speaker 1: what they hear. No. Yeah, I mean it's sonically and 414 00:23:00,720 --> 00:23:04,040 Speaker 1: like musically it's it's such a gray album and there's 415 00:23:04,119 --> 00:23:07,800 Speaker 1: really there's not much that sounds like it. So I'm 416 00:23:07,840 --> 00:23:09,879 Speaker 1: really proud of her, really proud of her. What do 417 00:23:09,960 --> 00:23:12,400 Speaker 1: you guys do, like when when the album comes out? 418 00:23:12,640 --> 00:23:15,640 Speaker 1: Is it just like So she had her album released 419 00:23:16,080 --> 00:23:19,639 Speaker 1: party and experience which was the coolest thing. Like it 420 00:23:19,800 --> 00:23:22,639 Speaker 1: was at the they had so they did this van 421 00:23:22,800 --> 00:23:25,840 Speaker 1: Go Museum. It was like an immersive experience and she 422 00:23:25,960 --> 00:23:28,960 Speaker 1: had said like she really wanted to do something like 423 00:23:29,080 --> 00:23:32,600 Speaker 1: that for the album release, and she literally got the 424 00:23:33,000 --> 00:23:40,680 Speaker 1: space where they did the Vango Museum, which was for people, yes, 425 00:23:41,840 --> 00:23:45,480 Speaker 1: and it was just like people could come and you know, 426 00:23:45,720 --> 00:23:49,280 Speaker 1: there was like little photo boos, a bar, like just 427 00:23:50,160 --> 00:23:54,960 Speaker 1: a whole immersive like screens and this song cool because 428 00:23:55,000 --> 00:23:58,000 Speaker 1: like listening parties can get kind of like awkward because 429 00:23:58,119 --> 00:23:59,639 Speaker 1: you don't know where to like look, you don't what 430 00:23:59,720 --> 00:24:01,280 Speaker 1: to do. But this was so cool because it was 431 00:24:01,359 --> 00:24:03,399 Speaker 1: like there was a lot of visual elements to it 432 00:24:03,480 --> 00:24:04,800 Speaker 1: and the music was playing, so it was like you 433 00:24:04,840 --> 00:24:07,119 Speaker 1: could still kind of mingle but like listen and it 434 00:24:07,200 --> 00:24:10,960 Speaker 1: was like it was like a an experience for your eyes, 435 00:24:11,040 --> 00:24:14,440 Speaker 1: your ears, your mouth, like all the senses. But what 436 00:24:14,640 --> 00:24:18,000 Speaker 1: was really cool, So before friends and family came, there 437 00:24:18,119 --> 00:24:21,200 Speaker 1: was an opportunity for fans to come and listen, and 438 00:24:21,480 --> 00:24:24,360 Speaker 1: I got so emotional because it was my first time 439 00:24:24,440 --> 00:24:28,399 Speaker 1: seeing everything and hearing it. And the fans just sat 440 00:24:28,480 --> 00:24:31,920 Speaker 1: there and listened and watched for an hour. There was 441 00:24:32,000 --> 00:24:34,200 Speaker 1: no talking, there was no mingling. They just sat and 442 00:24:34,480 --> 00:24:36,960 Speaker 1: took in the music. And it was like, that was 443 00:24:37,080 --> 00:24:42,640 Speaker 1: really cool because he like you, no one could hear 444 00:24:42,920 --> 00:24:45,040 Speaker 1: anything because we were all just like chit chatting the 445 00:24:45,080 --> 00:24:47,639 Speaker 1: whole time. But it was really cool to watch people 446 00:24:47,720 --> 00:24:51,240 Speaker 1: come in and just like sit with it. So that 447 00:24:51,400 --> 00:24:54,240 Speaker 1: was really cool. And then Saturday or Friday, we had 448 00:24:54,280 --> 00:24:57,800 Speaker 1: dinner with her team, her like teams that has done everything, 449 00:24:57,960 --> 00:25:02,119 Speaker 1: and we went to Santalina. Oh yeah, so cute. And 450 00:25:02,200 --> 00:25:04,359 Speaker 1: then Saturday we went to the Angel City game. When 451 00:25:04,440 --> 00:25:06,480 Speaker 1: this was our first time, Haley got invited and we 452 00:25:06,560 --> 00:25:08,640 Speaker 1: were just like that sounds fun, Like let's go check 453 00:25:08,680 --> 00:25:12,200 Speaker 1: it out. That was one of the coolest things. And 454 00:25:12,560 --> 00:25:17,440 Speaker 1: seeing women's soccer being supported like that was Honestly, you 455 00:25:17,480 --> 00:25:19,359 Speaker 1: would love it. I'm sure I would. I was like 456 00:25:19,480 --> 00:25:22,800 Speaker 1: loving the video. It was sold out, I think liked 457 00:25:22,840 --> 00:25:26,639 Speaker 1: people or something. It's been sold out, and um, we 458 00:25:26,760 --> 00:25:30,560 Speaker 1: were sitting right basically on the field and I don't 459 00:25:30,600 --> 00:25:32,640 Speaker 1: know anything about soccer, but we had these two girls 460 00:25:32,720 --> 00:25:34,560 Speaker 1: behind us that were just like filling us in on 461 00:25:34,680 --> 00:25:37,480 Speaker 1: all the players. Who is who Hey, we couldn't figure 462 00:25:37,520 --> 00:25:39,520 Speaker 1: out how they were all on an Olympic team but 463 00:25:39,640 --> 00:25:44,240 Speaker 1: all separated. That really threw us off. But um, because 464 00:25:44,280 --> 00:25:46,879 Speaker 1: like we're like, so they're just they're like enemies until 465 00:25:46,920 --> 00:25:51,160 Speaker 1: they're on the team. What a weird mind shift. Um. 466 00:25:52,320 --> 00:25:55,920 Speaker 1: That was really really cool. And then we finished it 467 00:25:56,000 --> 00:25:58,800 Speaker 1: with the Patrick Dempsey dem Sea siding, so we tied 468 00:25:58,840 --> 00:26:03,399 Speaker 1: it up with a big red um. We hosted a 469 00:26:03,440 --> 00:26:06,240 Speaker 1: Shabbat dinner on Friday night, you know, just you know 470 00:26:06,560 --> 00:26:09,520 Speaker 1: this little Christian girl. No, thank you so much. I 471 00:26:09,600 --> 00:26:11,720 Speaker 1: appreciate that because like I didn't even know what a 472 00:26:11,760 --> 00:26:16,119 Speaker 1: Shabbat dinner was three years ago, So thank you. You 473 00:26:16,240 --> 00:26:18,560 Speaker 1: really have. I I really admire the work you put 474 00:26:18,640 --> 00:26:22,240 Speaker 1: in learning more about the Jewish religion and culture. Thank 475 00:26:22,280 --> 00:26:24,840 Speaker 1: you so much. I mean, I'm more Jewish than my 476 00:26:24,920 --> 00:26:28,480 Speaker 1: boyfriend is, like, because I learned got that newest Jewish encyclopedia, 477 00:26:28,520 --> 00:26:29,919 Speaker 1: so I feel like I like to read about all 478 00:26:29,920 --> 00:26:31,440 Speaker 1: the holidays. And I tell him I'm like, oh, yeah, 479 00:26:31,480 --> 00:26:33,080 Speaker 1: this is because of this, and he's like, oh, really 480 00:26:33,080 --> 00:26:35,960 Speaker 1: I didn't know, and I'm like, okay, so um, but 481 00:26:36,119 --> 00:26:38,760 Speaker 1: we did this Shabbat for his cousin that's getting married, 482 00:26:39,000 --> 00:26:42,399 Speaker 1: and um, I made jello shots for the party. And 483 00:26:42,560 --> 00:26:46,840 Speaker 1: let me tell you, no, I love a doello shot. 484 00:26:46,960 --> 00:26:48,560 Speaker 1: And it's not a thing. It's like it's it was 485 00:26:48,600 --> 00:26:51,879 Speaker 1: like my spin on on a Sabbat, Like it's not common. 486 00:26:52,480 --> 00:26:55,359 Speaker 1: They're not common at Shabbat dinner. But I wanted to 487 00:26:55,440 --> 00:26:57,000 Speaker 1: like loosen it up a little bit, so I made 488 00:26:57,040 --> 00:27:01,359 Speaker 1: jello shots and they were a hit. Yeah. I shout 489 00:27:01,400 --> 00:27:04,159 Speaker 1: out to love always. Emily made our table escape and 490 00:27:04,400 --> 00:27:07,880 Speaker 1: just literally crushes it. It's like the perfect We wanted 491 00:27:07,880 --> 00:27:10,920 Speaker 1: it to be like romantic fibe, and it was. But 492 00:27:11,000 --> 00:27:12,840 Speaker 1: the jello shots were major hit. But what I didn't 493 00:27:12,880 --> 00:27:15,680 Speaker 1: realize is because you don't taste the alcohol because you're 494 00:27:15,720 --> 00:27:18,560 Speaker 1: eating the jello. I took like four or five of them. 495 00:27:19,119 --> 00:27:21,560 Speaker 1: I was so drunk by the end of the night, 496 00:27:21,600 --> 00:27:24,960 Speaker 1: and I was so hungover on Saturday. All the scrubbers 497 00:27:24,960 --> 00:27:26,560 Speaker 1: were messaging me like, how many days did you make 498 00:27:26,600 --> 00:27:34,200 Speaker 1: it to not have a drink last week? Make it Thursdayay? No, 499 00:27:34,320 --> 00:27:39,080 Speaker 1: I didn't, um, but I was so hungover on Saturday, 500 00:27:39,320 --> 00:27:46,159 Speaker 1: it was like insanity, Like I was unwell and we 501 00:27:46,240 --> 00:27:48,800 Speaker 1: played tennis and it was like a hundred degrees outside. 502 00:27:48,880 --> 00:27:52,920 Speaker 1: I was like seeing stars. I this is okay. So 503 00:27:53,040 --> 00:27:55,920 Speaker 1: now I'm back to not drinking forever. I want to 504 00:27:56,119 --> 00:27:59,280 Speaker 1: listen to old podcasts. Do you remember when Tanya would 505 00:27:59,320 --> 00:28:02,480 Speaker 1: like unless it was a work event, she would not 506 00:28:02,800 --> 00:28:05,919 Speaker 1: go out if she had work or something the next day, 507 00:28:06,040 --> 00:28:08,880 Speaker 1: or like did not drink if she was like being 508 00:28:08,960 --> 00:28:13,000 Speaker 1: healthy like she was on it. Yeah, I you know, 509 00:28:13,040 --> 00:28:17,560 Speaker 1: I'm just I'm saying, like you have to drink to 510 00:28:17,600 --> 00:28:19,879 Speaker 1: half fun or like party, like even if you were 511 00:28:19,920 --> 00:28:22,720 Speaker 1: staying up late, I would be shocked. But I really 512 00:28:22,760 --> 00:28:26,320 Speaker 1: appreciate this, like more relaxed, just living life, just like 513 00:28:26,520 --> 00:28:28,480 Speaker 1: I'm living life, And actually I don't. I'm not staying 514 00:28:28,520 --> 00:28:31,919 Speaker 1: up late because that Roly screws me over staying up late. 515 00:28:32,000 --> 00:28:34,040 Speaker 1: I like to be in bed by ten thirty the 516 00:28:34,280 --> 00:28:39,000 Speaker 1: latest on a weekend even um. But the drinking does 517 00:28:39,080 --> 00:28:41,200 Speaker 1: make me more fun and then I like eat more 518 00:28:41,280 --> 00:28:44,120 Speaker 1: fun things and I'm a little looser. So I you 519 00:28:44,320 --> 00:28:45,920 Speaker 1: think it makes you more fun or do you think 520 00:28:45,960 --> 00:28:49,360 Speaker 1: it makes you more fun to other people? No, I'm 521 00:28:49,360 --> 00:28:52,320 Speaker 1: probably more annoying to other people. For sure, more annoying 522 00:28:52,400 --> 00:28:55,960 Speaker 1: to other people, I am right. The only thing I 523 00:28:56,120 --> 00:28:59,640 Speaker 1: kept I keep thinking about my well the Halloween party 524 00:28:59,800 --> 00:29:06,080 Speaker 1: and when you all were Cravis, and I'm like, haunts me. Yeah, 525 00:29:06,200 --> 00:29:08,440 Speaker 1: I'm for sure probably more annoying to everybody else, but 526 00:29:08,560 --> 00:29:13,000 Speaker 1: I have more fun Yeah, Like I'm like, I'm so funny, 527 00:29:13,520 --> 00:29:16,440 Speaker 1: everybody wants to hang out with me. But then when 528 00:29:16,480 --> 00:29:18,120 Speaker 1: you're hungover the next day, do you have like the 529 00:29:18,160 --> 00:29:22,080 Speaker 1: anxiety of like everything. I think I'm funny because that's 530 00:29:22,120 --> 00:29:25,640 Speaker 1: how I do. Yeah, I had. So we were all 531 00:29:25,680 --> 00:29:28,520 Speaker 1: just kind of giving speeches, and I told Robbie I 532 00:29:28,640 --> 00:29:30,680 Speaker 1: was like, I'm really bad at I'm really bad at 533 00:29:30,680 --> 00:29:32,840 Speaker 1: speeches because I get really emotional just in general. So 534 00:29:32,920 --> 00:29:35,040 Speaker 1: I was like, can you speak on behalf of both 535 00:29:35,080 --> 00:29:38,520 Speaker 1: of us? And He's like, yeah, sure, but everybody was speaking, 536 00:29:38,600 --> 00:29:40,760 Speaker 1: and so I was like, I can't not say something, 537 00:29:40,960 --> 00:29:42,800 Speaker 1: and so I waited till I was like almost one 538 00:29:42,800 --> 00:29:44,200 Speaker 1: of the last people to go. So I was like 539 00:29:44,560 --> 00:29:47,840 Speaker 1: so many of my jello shots and I was sobbing. 540 00:29:49,080 --> 00:29:52,320 Speaker 1: I've been to one of those family parties wells where 541 00:29:52,320 --> 00:29:56,880 Speaker 1: everyone's crying, like it is comical, right, like comical, but 542 00:29:57,040 --> 00:30:00,400 Speaker 1: like everyone's crying because of like half and that's not 543 00:30:00,560 --> 00:30:04,240 Speaker 1: sad tears, but like we all just get so emotional together. 544 00:30:04,360 --> 00:30:06,320 Speaker 1: It's so funny. But yeah, I was just like sobbing 545 00:30:06,720 --> 00:30:08,680 Speaker 1: by the end of it. I was like this, I can't. 546 00:30:09,760 --> 00:30:11,920 Speaker 1: I told them to speak because I did, I can't. 547 00:30:14,480 --> 00:30:18,360 Speaker 1: I bet it was eloquent. All I know is that 548 00:30:18,520 --> 00:30:27,400 Speaker 1: it was an eloquent Yeah. So drinking again, So no 549 00:30:27,520 --> 00:30:30,240 Speaker 1: taco Tuesday, jello shots tomorrow. No, we're going to talk 550 00:30:30,240 --> 00:30:35,760 Speaker 1: on Tuesday, but just sans alcohol until when forever. You're 551 00:30:35,800 --> 00:30:37,960 Speaker 1: never going to drink again as long as you shall live. 552 00:30:38,200 --> 00:30:40,880 Speaker 1: I just can't right now. The hangover was really gnarly. 553 00:30:41,480 --> 00:30:43,840 Speaker 1: I understand that. But I bet you don't make it 554 00:30:43,920 --> 00:30:47,680 Speaker 1: through the weekend. Oh yeah, that's right. Yeah, I'm going 555 00:30:47,720 --> 00:30:50,360 Speaker 1: to drink in a week so I'll last like five days. 556 00:30:50,520 --> 00:30:52,160 Speaker 1: What do you have that you're going to be drinking 557 00:30:52,200 --> 00:31:02,040 Speaker 1: it it's just the weekend? Wow. Oh yeah, I feel 558 00:31:02,040 --> 00:31:03,480 Speaker 1: like we need to take a break. But I wanted 559 00:31:03,520 --> 00:31:08,040 Speaker 1: to talk about y'all, yours and Robbie spot. Yeah. I 560 00:31:08,080 --> 00:31:09,880 Speaker 1: don't think I knew anything. I don't know about that. 561 00:31:09,960 --> 00:31:11,440 Speaker 1: I know I got a lot of d ms about 562 00:31:11,440 --> 00:31:13,120 Speaker 1: it over the weekend because I posted that and I 563 00:31:13,200 --> 00:31:15,200 Speaker 1: got like a lot of d m s. Let's talk 564 00:31:15,200 --> 00:31:33,719 Speaker 1: about them. Come back, all right, we're back. So before 565 00:31:33,760 --> 00:31:36,480 Speaker 1: we get into your your in Robbie's special place, you 566 00:31:36,520 --> 00:31:39,800 Speaker 1: wanted to talk to me about something you read about, Well, 567 00:31:39,840 --> 00:31:41,280 Speaker 1: I think we should flip them. I think I'll talk 568 00:31:41,280 --> 00:31:42,840 Speaker 1: to you about my special because it's really quite a 569 00:31:42,880 --> 00:31:44,960 Speaker 1: pivot and a turn, and I'd like to save the 570 00:31:45,440 --> 00:31:51,440 Speaker 1: the the night. Now I'm gonna do the Robbie story first, Okay, gotcha? So, 571 00:31:51,960 --> 00:31:59,320 Speaker 1: um before uh, my boyfriend Robbie, why do you all 572 00:31:59,360 --> 00:32:03,160 Speaker 1: of a sudden act like you're a secret for the 573 00:32:04,120 --> 00:32:06,440 Speaker 1: because I we call him Red Stars, So I don't 574 00:32:06,440 --> 00:32:09,040 Speaker 1: want to preface it with like, okay, So before we 575 00:32:09,120 --> 00:32:12,160 Speaker 1: started dating, I used to go to this courtyard. It 576 00:32:12,280 --> 00:32:15,160 Speaker 1: was when UM our radio show was working out of 577 00:32:15,200 --> 00:32:17,760 Speaker 1: the E building on mid Will Shore. I would go 578 00:32:17,800 --> 00:32:19,880 Speaker 1: to this courtyard. My friend Riquel was working at this 579 00:32:20,400 --> 00:32:22,440 Speaker 1: show room at the time that was right there, so 580 00:32:22,480 --> 00:32:24,560 Speaker 1: I'd meet her all the time for coffee. And then 581 00:32:24,600 --> 00:32:26,840 Speaker 1: I fell in love with this courtyard and there was 582 00:32:26,840 --> 00:32:29,320 Speaker 1: like a beautiful fountain and all these restaurants around and 583 00:32:29,440 --> 00:32:31,880 Speaker 1: just like a lot of like living and people walking around, 584 00:32:32,000 --> 00:32:34,720 Speaker 1: hustle and bustle. And so I would work there doing 585 00:32:34,760 --> 00:32:36,200 Speaker 1: my computer, and I would work there all the time, 586 00:32:36,240 --> 00:32:37,840 Speaker 1: and I would always pray there because it was just 587 00:32:37,920 --> 00:32:40,040 Speaker 1: so beautiful, Like I would pray there all the time, 588 00:32:40,240 --> 00:32:45,560 Speaker 1: right this courtyard, the specific courtyard. When I met Robbie 589 00:32:46,120 --> 00:32:48,840 Speaker 1: on our first or second date, we realized, so he 590 00:32:49,080 --> 00:32:52,400 Speaker 1: parks in that garage at that courtyard because his office 591 00:32:52,480 --> 00:32:55,960 Speaker 1: is down the street, So he walks that courtyard every 592 00:32:56,000 --> 00:32:58,320 Speaker 1: single day to like go in and out of like 593 00:32:58,440 --> 00:33:02,000 Speaker 1: to his car. So for years we have been in 594 00:33:02,080 --> 00:33:06,760 Speaker 1: the same courtyard, passing by each other, but not even realized, 595 00:33:06,760 --> 00:33:08,400 Speaker 1: Like we never met each other until we met on 596 00:33:08,480 --> 00:33:14,280 Speaker 1: a dating app. Isn't that crazy? I think it's such 597 00:33:14,360 --> 00:33:19,280 Speaker 1: a like crazy cute story, like we were just ships 598 00:33:19,320 --> 00:33:21,120 Speaker 1: in the night. Were ships in the night, I mean 599 00:33:21,240 --> 00:33:25,280 Speaker 1: like totally crossing paths before we ever met. And so 600 00:33:25,440 --> 00:33:27,560 Speaker 1: now we go back to that courtyard often. They have 601 00:33:27,760 --> 00:33:30,560 Speaker 1: like fun things we go eat there, and um, it's 602 00:33:30,600 --> 00:33:33,200 Speaker 1: just like that courtyard specifically holds a lot of meeting 603 00:33:33,280 --> 00:33:36,120 Speaker 1: because it's like almost kind of where we met, but 604 00:33:36,280 --> 00:33:39,400 Speaker 1: like before we met and that's legit stuff. I've said 605 00:33:39,440 --> 00:33:42,120 Speaker 1: before that my wife and I crossed paths multiple times 606 00:33:42,400 --> 00:33:44,440 Speaker 1: documented before we actually met, and that was one of 607 00:33:44,480 --> 00:33:46,200 Speaker 1: my favorite things about Loft, which you haven't seen. You 608 00:33:46,240 --> 00:33:48,320 Speaker 1: should go back and watch Lost. But when they do 609 00:33:48,440 --> 00:33:50,880 Speaker 1: flashbacks on Lost, these people on the island, they would 610 00:33:50,880 --> 00:33:53,600 Speaker 1: show them interacting before they all met on the island, 611 00:33:53,880 --> 00:33:56,000 Speaker 1: but in ways you wouldn't remember, like asking somebody for 612 00:33:56,080 --> 00:33:59,160 Speaker 1: directions or something like that, and how fate kind of 613 00:33:59,240 --> 00:34:01,360 Speaker 1: pushes you together that when fate wants you to be together, 614 00:34:01,400 --> 00:34:03,680 Speaker 1: it's kind of cool. Yeah, yeah, like it's kind of 615 00:34:03,840 --> 00:34:05,880 Speaker 1: I remember there was a I don't even think it 616 00:34:05,920 --> 00:34:07,600 Speaker 1: was a show that got made, but I remember hearing 617 00:34:07,600 --> 00:34:10,000 Speaker 1: about this show where it was like this girl takes 618 00:34:10,080 --> 00:34:15,120 Speaker 1: two different directions of she takes two different pro movie 619 00:34:15,120 --> 00:34:17,560 Speaker 1: sliding doors. No, I don't, I don't. I think it's 620 00:34:17,560 --> 00:34:19,960 Speaker 1: supposed to be a TV show, but she basically and 621 00:34:20,040 --> 00:34:23,080 Speaker 1: I actually think she was like trying to decide if 622 00:34:23,120 --> 00:34:25,839 Speaker 1: she wanted to come out and like be out as 623 00:34:25,880 --> 00:34:27,960 Speaker 1: a lesbian because she was like came from like a 624 00:34:28,040 --> 00:34:32,359 Speaker 1: really conservative family and they were saying, like she ends 625 00:34:32,440 --> 00:34:35,160 Speaker 1: up meeting it's like all her life choices. She's still 626 00:34:35,239 --> 00:34:39,840 Speaker 1: meeting the same people, it's just in a different you know, 627 00:34:40,960 --> 00:34:43,000 Speaker 1: you know, I'm maybe they're making it. I don't know, 628 00:34:43,200 --> 00:34:45,800 Speaker 1: but I love that and I totally believe in it. 629 00:34:46,520 --> 00:34:48,719 Speaker 1: So yeah, that courtyard in particular has like a lot 630 00:34:48,800 --> 00:34:52,759 Speaker 1: of meaning our relationship. Love that. Now, if you've been 631 00:34:52,800 --> 00:34:55,160 Speaker 1: wearing this fragrance, maybe you'd have attracted him sooner than 632 00:34:55,239 --> 00:34:58,239 Speaker 1: you did. Okay, is this like a pheromone fragrance? So 633 00:34:58,719 --> 00:35:00,600 Speaker 1: I don't know, but it's this new thing that people 634 00:35:00,640 --> 00:35:03,840 Speaker 1: are doing, and it's called vabbing, and it's like a 635 00:35:04,120 --> 00:35:05,960 Speaker 1: it's a new rage on TikTok and you know, I'm 636 00:35:05,960 --> 00:35:08,360 Speaker 1: all about these and I'm actually gonna try it. So basically, 637 00:35:08,960 --> 00:35:11,560 Speaker 1: I don't need to attract men. I just want to 638 00:35:11,680 --> 00:35:15,160 Speaker 1: track the one I have. Um, but so try it. 639 00:35:15,360 --> 00:35:19,760 Speaker 1: Especially when you're ovulating. They say you take vaginal fluids 640 00:35:19,920 --> 00:35:24,320 Speaker 1: and you use them as like perfume. Just put a 641 00:35:24,440 --> 00:35:32,399 Speaker 1: vague what's happening? Yeah, okay, so the vabbing is vaginal dabbing. Yeah, 642 00:35:32,520 --> 00:35:35,920 Speaker 1: so basically, like you take your finger, I don't really 643 00:35:35,920 --> 00:35:37,359 Speaker 1: need to get graphic, but you know how to get 644 00:35:37,400 --> 00:35:40,239 Speaker 1: your vaginal fluids. Thank you? So much. I don't need 645 00:35:40,320 --> 00:35:44,600 Speaker 1: a tutorial or descriptive tutorial. Okay, so you just take it. 646 00:35:44,719 --> 00:35:46,080 Speaker 1: I guess you put it on your finger and you 647 00:35:46,160 --> 00:35:48,000 Speaker 1: just like put a little bit like maybe on your 648 00:35:48,120 --> 00:35:50,760 Speaker 1: neck or like maybe right here where you put your perfume. 649 00:35:53,920 --> 00:35:56,360 Speaker 1: Is this really yeah? Look it's an article on the 650 00:35:56,400 --> 00:36:00,279 Speaker 1: rolling stone. Everybody's doing it and is this yeah, So 651 00:36:00,320 --> 00:36:02,720 Speaker 1: it says anytime you want to feel an extra boost 652 00:36:02,760 --> 00:36:06,080 Speaker 1: of confidence, this can serve as a love potion. So 653 00:36:06,280 --> 00:36:11,160 Speaker 1: basically the chemicals I guess, like this chemical secreted by 654 00:36:11,200 --> 00:36:14,560 Speaker 1: the vagina are uses perfume. It's going to attract anyone traditionally, 655 00:36:14,640 --> 00:36:17,239 Speaker 1: like it's going to attract them to you. Do you 656 00:36:17,440 --> 00:36:22,239 Speaker 1: layer it with your perfume? Just put it right on 657 00:36:22,320 --> 00:36:25,759 Speaker 1: there as perfume. I can't imagine it works the same 658 00:36:26,040 --> 00:36:30,000 Speaker 1: for guys, right, Mark, I would honestly, where would you 659 00:36:30,040 --> 00:36:32,680 Speaker 1: be getting the fluid from? Exactly? I think we both now, 660 00:36:33,800 --> 00:36:40,239 Speaker 1: I don't I don't mean anymore anything else under the 661 00:36:40,320 --> 00:36:45,920 Speaker 1: ball sack or something. I don't know where do they 662 00:36:45,960 --> 00:36:51,200 Speaker 1: have liquid? Uh? Tany you said you're gonna try this, 663 00:36:51,440 --> 00:36:56,239 Speaker 1: I'm begging you not to try this. And right next 664 00:36:56,320 --> 00:36:59,040 Speaker 1: to you, first of all, I'm not gonna do this 665 00:36:59,160 --> 00:37:01,759 Speaker 1: like on a Monday I'm going to work. I'm gonna 666 00:37:01,840 --> 00:37:03,640 Speaker 1: do it on like a date night when I'm going 667 00:37:03,719 --> 00:37:07,719 Speaker 1: on a date. Oh so they're saying like, yeah, they're 668 00:37:07,719 --> 00:37:09,399 Speaker 1: not saying to do this on your way to work 669 00:37:09,440 --> 00:37:11,399 Speaker 1: on a Tuesday. They're saying, to do this like before 670 00:37:11,440 --> 00:37:15,040 Speaker 1: you want a date with somebody. This is a serious 671 00:37:16,480 --> 00:37:20,960 Speaker 1: Do not bab before work days on the weekend attracts 672 00:37:20,960 --> 00:37:24,719 Speaker 1: someone at work, then do it there, I guess, but 673 00:37:24,800 --> 00:37:26,719 Speaker 1: I'm not. So what I'm saying is, I'm not gonna 674 00:37:26,800 --> 00:37:28,759 Speaker 1: do mine on a Monday when I'm doing the podcast. 675 00:37:29,120 --> 00:37:31,560 Speaker 1: I'm gonna try mine on like a Friday night date 676 00:37:31,640 --> 00:37:40,799 Speaker 1: night to each people are doing it. It's a thing. Yeah, 677 00:37:40,840 --> 00:37:43,200 Speaker 1: I just am proud to say people are doing it 678 00:37:43,280 --> 00:37:46,640 Speaker 1: on TikTok and it's not a ginger chan article. And 679 00:37:46,840 --> 00:37:51,800 Speaker 1: you have you have started to embrace the TikTok trends 680 00:37:52,320 --> 00:37:55,480 Speaker 1: viral moment. Yeah, you know me and the vaginal fluid. 681 00:37:55,840 --> 00:37:59,239 Speaker 1: Yeah that hasn't weirdly enough, it hasn't popped up on 682 00:37:59,400 --> 00:38:07,400 Speaker 1: my your algorithm. You gotta fix that. Mm hmm. The 683 00:38:07,480 --> 00:38:09,640 Speaker 1: babbing worked. Look at this person I worked for juel 684 00:38:09,920 --> 00:38:30,520 Speaker 1: at jul Leah. She attracted. Oh yeah, Julia. She spells 685 00:38:30,600 --> 00:38:35,680 Speaker 1: it like, okay, juel Leah, it's j e w l 686 00:38:35,840 --> 00:38:40,799 Speaker 1: i e ah yeah, but she ponetically. I think he's 687 00:38:40,800 --> 00:38:49,040 Speaker 1: trying to say Julia jul Leah. But it worked for 688 00:38:49,200 --> 00:38:54,040 Speaker 1: Julia the babbing. So if anybody's going he wants to experiment, 689 00:38:54,520 --> 00:39:00,279 Speaker 1: I am. I am curious to hear if it works 690 00:39:00,320 --> 00:39:05,400 Speaker 1: for anybody. Yeah, you're welcome in advance. Let us know 691 00:39:05,520 --> 00:39:08,120 Speaker 1: if you did. We have our email address. And speaking 692 00:39:08,160 --> 00:39:11,600 Speaker 1: of emails, not nice. Thank you. By the way. Before 693 00:39:11,600 --> 00:39:13,880 Speaker 1: I read this, I want to shout out Vanessa. You 694 00:39:13,920 --> 00:39:16,200 Speaker 1: guys know Vanessa. You met her in San Francisco when 695 00:39:16,200 --> 00:39:19,239 Speaker 1: you went to the Giants game. She's not in the 696 00:39:19,600 --> 00:39:22,440 Speaker 1: with the Giants anymore. She's with the Milwaukee Brewers. That's 697 00:39:22,520 --> 00:39:24,960 Speaker 1: my team. So she hooked me up last week. We 698 00:39:25,080 --> 00:39:26,839 Speaker 1: went to the game and I had a great time. 699 00:39:26,960 --> 00:39:28,400 Speaker 1: She got us down in the field and it was 700 00:39:28,440 --> 00:39:32,319 Speaker 1: really a wonderful, wonderful deal. So they're the scrubbers are 701 00:39:32,480 --> 00:39:35,560 Speaker 1: the best. I can't believe my good fortune that a 702 00:39:35,640 --> 00:39:38,160 Speaker 1: fan of this show was able to do me a 703 00:39:38,200 --> 00:39:44,720 Speaker 1: favor like out to incredible all right, email from anonymous. 704 00:39:45,400 --> 00:39:48,600 Speaker 1: I was in a nine year long relationship which ultimately 705 00:39:48,719 --> 00:39:50,840 Speaker 1: end then when I found out he was cheating on me, 706 00:39:51,560 --> 00:39:55,560 Speaker 1: sleeping with a girl he met on Tinder for months. Well, 707 00:39:55,960 --> 00:39:58,279 Speaker 1: one of my good friends recently admitted to me, out 708 00:39:58,320 --> 00:40:01,960 Speaker 1: of confidence and promising my seat Chrissie, that she slept 709 00:40:02,000 --> 00:40:03,759 Speaker 1: with a friend of ours who has been in a 710 00:40:03,880 --> 00:40:07,560 Speaker 1: five to six year long relationship. I'm not personally close 711 00:40:07,719 --> 00:40:10,000 Speaker 1: with the girl involved in this relationship who has now 712 00:40:10,080 --> 00:40:12,440 Speaker 1: been cheated on, and it would be very random for 713 00:40:12,560 --> 00:40:14,520 Speaker 1: me to reach out to her, but we are friends 714 00:40:14,560 --> 00:40:16,960 Speaker 1: on social media and we know who each other hour, etcetera. 715 00:40:17,520 --> 00:40:20,000 Speaker 1: I promised my friend up and down, I wouldn't tell 716 00:40:20,000 --> 00:40:22,000 Speaker 1: a soul, but it's been eating at me for weeks. 717 00:40:22,120 --> 00:40:23,880 Speaker 1: I feel so much empathy for the girl in this 718 00:40:24,040 --> 00:40:27,520 Speaker 1: relationship because it happened to me being cheated on a 719 00:40:27,560 --> 00:40:30,080 Speaker 1: committed a relationship where you lived together and planned for 720 00:40:30,120 --> 00:40:32,799 Speaker 1: the future. It's even harder for me when I see 721 00:40:32,840 --> 00:40:36,279 Speaker 1: her constant posts of him buying her flowers randomly and 722 00:40:36,440 --> 00:40:40,000 Speaker 1: posting about there forever. What would you do? I have 723 00:40:40,120 --> 00:40:42,280 Speaker 1: asked my friend to say something to the girl herself, 724 00:40:42,360 --> 00:40:44,960 Speaker 1: but she will not do that. I think deep down 725 00:40:45,040 --> 00:40:51,760 Speaker 1: she actually has feelings for this guy. That is tough, messy. 726 00:40:55,120 --> 00:40:57,920 Speaker 1: My first instinct is to say stay out of it, 727 00:41:01,280 --> 00:41:05,200 Speaker 1: because I think, like you're, like Becca said earlier, she's 728 00:41:05,200 --> 00:41:08,200 Speaker 1: still she's going to find out eventually. If it's not 729 00:41:08,320 --> 00:41:13,919 Speaker 1: through you, it's going to be somehow, some way. Yeah. 730 00:41:13,960 --> 00:41:16,719 Speaker 1: But but just being devil Sraphica because I kind of 731 00:41:16,760 --> 00:41:19,080 Speaker 1: agree with you, wouldn't it be better for her to 732 00:41:19,120 --> 00:41:22,719 Speaker 1: find out now before they're married? Yes, So I see her, 733 00:41:22,880 --> 00:41:24,880 Speaker 1: I see your point, and I see the flaw in 734 00:41:25,040 --> 00:41:38,600 Speaker 1: my theory. Becca. I'm such a like, I'm so like 735 00:41:38,840 --> 00:41:42,680 Speaker 1: my initial instinct knows like, don't involve yourself more than 736 00:41:42,760 --> 00:41:46,560 Speaker 1: you need to. But this other part of me that's 737 00:41:46,840 --> 00:41:50,160 Speaker 1: maybe a little bit stronger, is like she needs to 738 00:41:50,200 --> 00:41:57,880 Speaker 1: tell her, Oh, I know, here we go, Butterfly, No, 739 00:41:58,080 --> 00:42:00,759 Speaker 1: this is good. You can just email her from like 740 00:42:00,840 --> 00:42:03,920 Speaker 1: an anonymous email account and let her why is it 741 00:42:04,000 --> 00:42:06,279 Speaker 1: not good? I don't think that's good because then you're 742 00:42:06,320 --> 00:42:10,279 Speaker 1: out of it. Give her the receipts, like show her like, 743 00:42:10,400 --> 00:42:12,640 Speaker 1: give her the proof she needs and say show this 744 00:42:12,760 --> 00:42:19,120 Speaker 1: to your man, love your guardian angel. Well, I don't 745 00:42:19,120 --> 00:42:20,759 Speaker 1: know if there are receipts. First of all, it sounds 746 00:42:20,760 --> 00:42:23,600 Speaker 1: like her friend just told her this in confidence. I 747 00:42:23,760 --> 00:42:26,320 Speaker 1: just hire a p I and let's get it, okay. 748 00:42:26,360 --> 00:42:28,000 Speaker 1: I don't I think you stay out of it. I do. 749 00:42:28,160 --> 00:42:29,879 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I do. I don't think cause I don't 750 00:42:29,880 --> 00:42:31,719 Speaker 1: think you're you know this woman that well, if she 751 00:42:31,840 --> 00:42:33,840 Speaker 1: was your dear friend or your sister or something like that, 752 00:42:33,960 --> 00:42:37,000 Speaker 1: you'd tell her. But I don't know, because sometimes they 753 00:42:37,040 --> 00:42:39,439 Speaker 1: don't receive the information. Well, I don't know. I don't 754 00:42:39,480 --> 00:42:45,200 Speaker 1: think you're close enough. M Yeah, that's true. No, I 755 00:42:45,320 --> 00:42:49,279 Speaker 1: don't know if I stand behind this, because I'd want 756 00:42:49,320 --> 00:42:51,719 Speaker 1: to know, like whether it's from a stranger or someone 757 00:42:51,800 --> 00:42:54,239 Speaker 1: I didn't know. If I was like trying to make 758 00:42:54,320 --> 00:42:56,800 Speaker 1: see if I saw mine forever with this guy and 759 00:42:57,040 --> 00:43:00,319 Speaker 1: over there on the side a girl that we're least 760 00:43:00,360 --> 00:43:03,440 Speaker 1: friendly on social media and she had the opportunity to 761 00:43:03,560 --> 00:43:07,160 Speaker 1: tell me and she didn't. I think I'd be upset. 762 00:43:08,040 --> 00:43:10,560 Speaker 1: I'd rather know and be able to like move on 763 00:43:10,680 --> 00:43:13,920 Speaker 1: and dump his ass then sit around and I know, 764 00:43:14,080 --> 00:43:16,880 Speaker 1: but think about it, if some rando came up to 765 00:43:17,000 --> 00:43:19,200 Speaker 1: you and was like, I know your girlfriend has been 766 00:43:19,239 --> 00:43:23,160 Speaker 1: cheating on you. Just hey, this is a really hard conversation, 767 00:43:23,320 --> 00:43:26,920 Speaker 1: but I've been wrestling with it and I'm really I 768 00:43:27,800 --> 00:43:29,640 Speaker 1: I wanted to give you the heads up because I 769 00:43:29,680 --> 00:43:32,880 Speaker 1: see your post and you know, this guy isn't he 770 00:43:32,960 --> 00:43:36,440 Speaker 1: hasn't been loyal to you, and I know from firsthand 771 00:43:38,640 --> 00:43:42,239 Speaker 1: I think I'm coming around. On T's anonymous email, oh 772 00:43:42,320 --> 00:43:45,720 Speaker 1: my god, finally, well, there is this girl in TikTok 773 00:43:45,760 --> 00:43:48,800 Speaker 1: who literally will reach out to the girls, will be like, 774 00:43:48,840 --> 00:43:51,000 Speaker 1: will you reach out to my boyfriend on and see 775 00:43:51,040 --> 00:44:01,160 Speaker 1: if he responds, or like, wow, it's true, really epic, honestly, 776 00:44:01,560 --> 00:44:05,400 Speaker 1: but it's always so disappointing because like I'll see a 777 00:44:05,440 --> 00:44:07,680 Speaker 1: guy and he'll almost get there to where he like 778 00:44:07,760 --> 00:44:10,719 Speaker 1: shuts her down, and then she she'll like push just 779 00:44:10,840 --> 00:44:14,960 Speaker 1: a little more and then it's done, just over so 780 00:44:15,280 --> 00:44:19,480 Speaker 1: she could have her do that. Sad. Yeah, it's not good, 781 00:44:20,000 --> 00:44:21,120 Speaker 1: But I would just like to go back to the 782 00:44:21,160 --> 00:44:24,040 Speaker 1: fact that Mark said he's coming around and something for you. 783 00:44:25,640 --> 00:44:30,360 Speaker 1: It's you know, like Mike Lizzo says in a minute, 784 00:44:30,440 --> 00:44:37,160 Speaker 1: I'm anna Nita sentimental top me and he idea because 785 00:44:37,160 --> 00:44:39,840 Speaker 1: I think that will torture her mentally more. You know, 786 00:44:42,000 --> 00:44:48,040 Speaker 1: sometimes the podcast goes ten seconds too long. I think 787 00:44:48,120 --> 00:44:55,799 Speaker 1: Mark said that I know, um, I think you tell 788 00:44:55,840 --> 00:45:00,279 Speaker 1: your best friend. Hey, I have been dealing with and 789 00:45:00,520 --> 00:45:02,560 Speaker 1: I all, I wish you would have never told me, 790 00:45:02,719 --> 00:45:05,600 Speaker 1: but you did, and now I I'm dealing with it, 791 00:45:05,680 --> 00:45:07,560 Speaker 1: and I don't think it's fair that there's this other 792 00:45:07,640 --> 00:45:10,200 Speaker 1: girl who's with this guy who is potentially a cheater. 793 00:45:10,760 --> 00:45:14,480 Speaker 1: She deserves more. I feel like I need to say something, 794 00:45:15,040 --> 00:45:16,719 Speaker 1: and I wanted to give you the heads up before 795 00:45:16,760 --> 00:45:25,439 Speaker 1: I do. Sure, or you can do an anonymous email. 796 00:45:25,440 --> 00:45:27,839 Speaker 1: I just don't know if she'll like take that seriously, 797 00:45:28,000 --> 00:45:31,200 Speaker 1: you know, anyway detail on it. She's gonna confront him 798 00:45:31,239 --> 00:45:33,400 Speaker 1: and he's gonna he's gonna panic. She's gonna see it, 799 00:45:33,560 --> 00:45:36,040 Speaker 1: and the anonymous email address could be like guardian angel 800 00:45:36,120 --> 00:45:41,600 Speaker 1: one oh one. Okay. I can stand behind the anonymous 801 00:45:41,600 --> 00:45:43,160 Speaker 1: email if you don't want to, if you don't have 802 00:45:45,000 --> 00:45:48,319 Speaker 1: if you don't want to, like cause drama in your 803 00:45:48,400 --> 00:45:51,400 Speaker 1: friendship with your friend, even though I think she should 804 00:45:51,560 --> 00:45:54,360 Speaker 1: own up to her own actions. But that's another story 805 00:45:54,400 --> 00:45:57,960 Speaker 1: for a different day. I think an anonymous email is 806 00:45:58,040 --> 00:46:00,359 Speaker 1: fun as long as you have enough something to back 807 00:46:00,440 --> 00:46:02,880 Speaker 1: it up and just say. This is complicated for me, 808 00:46:03,040 --> 00:46:09,200 Speaker 1: but I wanted you to know, and then sending the 809 00:46:09,280 --> 00:46:14,600 Speaker 1: article about babbing so that she can then take some 810 00:46:14,719 --> 00:46:18,120 Speaker 1: Babel juices and slather on the neck. Why do you 811 00:46:18,160 --> 00:46:21,640 Speaker 1: think everything grosser than it ardy is? It's not gross. 812 00:46:21,800 --> 00:46:24,719 Speaker 1: It's the female genital, get it, I get it. We 813 00:46:24,840 --> 00:46:28,080 Speaker 1: celebrate female bodies, but like, I don't need on my neck. 814 00:46:29,600 --> 00:46:35,279 Speaker 1: It's so natural we do it exact. I think he 815 00:46:35,520 --> 00:46:43,920 Speaker 1: was kidding. I think there was like some m um, 816 00:46:44,640 --> 00:46:47,799 Speaker 1: but yeah, you do you and non with email. I'm 817 00:46:47,920 --> 00:46:53,040 Speaker 1: I'm fine with I support it. Congrats Tanya winning advice. 818 00:46:54,000 --> 00:46:58,360 Speaker 1: Um for now, For now, what you need to know 819 00:46:58,600 --> 00:47:01,400 Speaker 1: is that Thursday we go head to head with some 820 00:47:01,600 --> 00:47:07,640 Speaker 1: scrubbers on a very intense family feud episode, So be 821 00:47:07,800 --> 00:47:11,360 Speaker 1: looking for that and otherwise, have a great week. I 822 00:47:11,480 --> 00:47:14,719 Speaker 1: have a great week. We love you, Sunny sense he regards. 823 00:47:15,560 --> 00:47:19,719 Speaker 1: I'll keep you all posted it to drinks tomorrow. I'm 824 00:47:19,719 --> 00:47:24,000 Speaker 1: not gonna drink. Okay, Um, you heard it here first 825 00:47:24,120 --> 00:47:26,200 Speaker 1: and last, so I'm not going to drink tomorrow, but 826 00:47:26,280 --> 00:47:29,880 Speaker 1: definitely this weekend and we'll be back Thursday. We love you. Bye,