Speaker 1: This is he said a Yadiho with Eric Winter and
Speaker 1: Rodalin Fantas. Welcome back to another episode of He said,
Speaker 1: He said, wife, you're still out of town. But this
Speaker 1: is an episode of audience questions, which I always love
Speaker 1: to answer and be able to somewhat have a conversation
Speaker 1: with our listeners, answering your biggest thoughts and questions about
Speaker 1: what's going on in my life. And let's see what
Speaker 1: we have. First audience questions, Sarah Huck how do you
Speaker 1: figure out when is a good time to be alone?
Speaker 1: Our kids are always around, and we have not had
Speaker 1: any good luck keeping that spark making a lone time
Speaker 1: of priority. Oh listen, Sarah, that is a very honest
Speaker 1: and true problem for probably every single couple. I'm very
Speaker 1: fortunate because my mom lives close and my mom is
Speaker 1: always there when we need her. So if we try
Speaker 1: to plan a date night, I know I have somebody
Speaker 1: that can step in and we try to have that
Speaker 1: time to ourselves to go connect, have dinner talk. You
Speaker 1: can have that romantic time, you know, after the fact,
Speaker 1: But otherwise, listen, if you can plan a short get
Speaker 1: away over the weekend, a single night get away, if
Speaker 1: you have somebody that can stay with the kids. I
Speaker 1: don't know how old your kids are. That's always an option.
Speaker 1: That's good. Otherwise, if you don't really have someone that
Speaker 1: can stay or watch the kids, you're just gonna have
Speaker 1: to put the kids to bed and maybe take some,
Speaker 1: you know, some coffee so you can get your energy up,
Speaker 1: and maybe just do a candle at dinner, you know,
Speaker 1: you and your partner and sit and have dinner together
Speaker 1: after everybody's gone to bed. It might be later than usual,
Speaker 1: but that's you know, something you could do, or have
Speaker 1: a late night drink and just talk that way. It
Speaker 1: is hard, but I'm telling you it is a priority.
Speaker 1: You have to navigate it and figure it out within
Speaker 1: both your schedules because to me, it's the key, It's
Speaker 1: the key to everything. So I wish you luck with that.
Speaker 1: I hope you do it the best of your ability. Steven,
Speaker 1: do you listen to motivational speakers and who would you recommend?
Speaker 1: I listened to to try to keep my mental health. Listen.
Speaker 1: I just had a podcast with a great motivational speaker
Speaker 1: and Maury Signal Signal with Mariy and Melissa's a podcast
Speaker 1: that she has Maury Fontine's and uh, I think it's
Speaker 1: extremely valuable. I mean, there are a lot of great
Speaker 1: We have a friend Chris Lee, We've had on the
Speaker 1: podcast School of Greatness is a good podcast. These are
Speaker 1: things you can listen to to try to find that
Speaker 1: pick me up when you're down there. There's so many
Speaker 1: resources out there or even a good book that you
Speaker 1: can read. I used to be all about self help
Speaker 1: books and I would read them constantly. But that's the biggest,
Speaker 1: probably the biggest thing that helped me get through tough times.
Speaker 1: But that those would be my recommendations. I hope you
Speaker 1: you do find a source because I think it's important
Speaker 1: to get, you know, for a pick me up. All right,
Speaker 1: Catherine Guzman, how do you manage to juggle your career,
Speaker 1: Palm Republic, personal life? Who great questions? That is? Uh, Listen,
Speaker 1: I get yelled at a lot by my kids and
Speaker 1: my wife. I'm not perfect because I'm constantly on my
Speaker 1: phone and I'm trying to manage all of these things.
Speaker 1: But it's all balanced, right. I'm not always working, like
Speaker 1: right now, I'm off, I'm not filming, and if another
Speaker 1: job comes up, I'll have to, you know, address it.
Speaker 1: But at the moment I am. I am free, so
Speaker 1: that clears me of that. But I dump a lot
Speaker 1: of time into pond republic. I try to do most
Speaker 1: of it during the day while the kids are in school,
Speaker 1: and then I dedicate the rest of the time to
Speaker 1: the kids and my wife and I and I do
Speaker 1: my best to prioritize my family always comes first, even
Speaker 1: though I might be doing three things at once. I
Speaker 1: need to remind myself. I need to check myself and
Speaker 1: understand that the phone and things can wait. And I
Speaker 1: need to be with my kids and be present and
Speaker 1: being present to me as everything. So that I hope
Speaker 1: that answers that celebrity I want to meet, Oh wow,
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know if I have a
Speaker 1: single celebrity that I really care if I meet one
Speaker 1: way or another. I do love if it's Hollywood related.
Speaker 1: I love just talking to people about Hollywood stories, even
Speaker 1: if they're just producers or anybody else. I find it
Speaker 1: fascinating talking about different actors, their personalities, what it's like
Speaker 1: to work with them. I'm a big fan of athletes.
Speaker 1: I love, you know. I'd love to meet Rapha and
Speaker 1: the doll Or, Roger Federer, that'd be really cool, I'd
Speaker 1: have to say, and why simply because I love tennis.
Speaker 1: I love their mental approach to the game. I would
Speaker 1: love to know what it was like for them, you know,
Speaker 1: throughout their career, the ups and downs. Yeah, that would
Speaker 1: be it. How do you and producers come up with
Speaker 1: the topics? Well, I gotta say a lot of it.
Speaker 1: We juggle. It's almost fit to fifty. You know, a
Speaker 1: lot of times Roz and I will totally riff on
Speaker 1: stuff that's present in our lives and things that we're
Speaker 1: facing on a daily basis that come just come up
Speaker 1: and we'll talk about it openly. And then other times
Speaker 1: our producers come up with great topics and questions or
Speaker 1: guests and they present it to us and we pick
Speaker 1: the ones that we think really eight to us and
Speaker 1: we can jump in and give a good perspective on
Speaker 1: Lynn Presley, Toronto, Ontario, Canada. I just recently recovered from
Speaker 1: in the intensity of seven oh eight. Yes, that episode
Speaker 1: was wild. Questions to do with the nuts and bolts
Speaker 1: of shooting that episode, So this was a big, a
Speaker 1: big episode. Let me start by saying this, This La
Speaker 1: Fire episode was shot so far in advance from our
Speaker 1: actual LA fires, which is crazy to think that this
Speaker 1: could even become a reality, and it was awful to
Speaker 1: see how it played out in real life after the
Speaker 1: fact and listen ABC and the Rookie. We tried to
Speaker 1: be very sensitive to that because this had I mean,
Speaker 1: who knew that something like that could happen. But I
Speaker 1: will say that tent scene that you're talking about, or
Speaker 1: we used to call it the burrito scene because it
Speaker 1: was like we were in this foil wrapped breakfast burrito.
Speaker 1: When we first shot the wide, we had an actual
Speaker 1: fire proof, you know, blanket type situation, and it was small.
Speaker 1: We had to find a way to cram into it
Speaker 1: and make it look somewhat realistic. They had to cut
Speaker 1: around it because we had you know, it wasn't very big.
Speaker 1: It's meant for probably one person. So we squeezed in,
Speaker 1: we pulled it around us, they shut the wide. We
Speaker 1: came out of it. A lot of great cuts and
Speaker 1: angles to make that look smooth. But what I was
Speaker 1: shocked is we were saying, on the day, how can
Speaker 1: we even shoot this? For all the dialogue we have
Speaker 1: to do in it, how are they going to create this?
Speaker 1: And when we got to work that day. It literally
Speaker 1: looked like they built a space ship out of aluminum foil.
Speaker 1: It was this big sort of pod thing that it
Speaker 1: was open on one side, closed on the other. We
Speaker 1: had all these lights around it that would look like fire.
Speaker 1: We were on this platform that we had to take
Speaker 1: steps to get up on, with dirt on it and
Speaker 1: all that to make it look like it was the ground.
Speaker 1: And as we would shoot it, the cameras would be
Speaker 1: on the one side that was open. We would do
Speaker 1: our coverage and they would move it the big rig
Speaker 1: that it was on to make it feel like the
Speaker 1: wind from the fires were causing all that rustling and
Speaker 1: lights would flicker and there was like a bun you know,
Speaker 1: there's a bunch of people around the lights and in
Speaker 1: the platform trying to create all that simulation right, the
Speaker 1: effect of the fires, and then the camera guys were
Speaker 1: just really in tight. It was very intimate and funny
Speaker 1: in a way because the camera guys were right there
Speaker 1: in that little burrito with us as we would do
Speaker 1: the scene, and then we'd flip it and we'd do
Speaker 1: the scene facing the other way, and we thought this
Speaker 1: was going to look absurd. I don't know how Mike
Speaker 1: goy pulled this off our director, but he cut together
Speaker 1: a phenomenal scene, the way that the angles and the
Speaker 1: idea of making that whole scene flow. So kudos to
Speaker 1: him and the crew because it was it was awesome,
Speaker 1: and we just did our acting, you know, accordingly, and
Speaker 1: thankfully the scene looked really good because I was concerned
Speaker 1: about it. How did the cast and crew react to
Speaker 1: when the alle fires broke out? Listen, we were all
Speaker 1: in shock, devastated. We had crew members that lost everything.
Speaker 1: It was awful. It was awful. I was glad I
Speaker 1: was able to do a fundraiser and be a part
Speaker 1: of that telethon to raise money. We shut down production
Speaker 1: for a long period of time. I remember going into
Speaker 1: work right like the day after it had started, and
Speaker 1: the air quality was so bad that you could see
Speaker 1: the fires from my house, the Altadena fires, and we
Speaker 1: were in work and we started shooting the actually like
Speaker 1: one of the biggest scenes of our season finale, and
Speaker 1: we started rehearsing and everything, and then we just had
Speaker 1: to We were just told, hey, go home, everybody's going home.
Speaker 1: We're canceling production. The air quality is awful. People's homes
Speaker 1: are in serious danger. People need to go get their stuff,
Speaker 1: and it was it was eye opening. It was really
Speaker 1: really sad and wild. So I'm glad we're on the
Speaker 1: other end of it. I know a lot of people
Speaker 1: are still figuring it out, but it's uh, it's been
Speaker 1: a big recovery process in Los Angeles, something I've never
Speaker 1: I've never seen, to be honest, Rebecca dan Or, if
Speaker 1: the Riders of the Rookie approached you and Sea and
Speaker 1: Sebbi and Dil being an episode or episodes, would you
Speaker 1: what would you do? Would you give it serious consideration
Speaker 1: or shout it down immediately? No listen? If if they asked,
Speaker 1: I mean mckea's daughter, funny enough, has been in an episode.
Speaker 1: If they had asked, or maybe even a couple, if
Speaker 1: they had asked my kids to be in a scene
Speaker 1: for something, I'm sure my kids would be into it.
Speaker 1: My daughter would for sure. My son, I don't know
Speaker 1: if he would care or not. He might be really
Speaker 1: uh freaked out by it, but he does like coming
Speaker 1: to set and seeing things, so he might be okay.
Speaker 1: He might be okay. I know they were. They did
Speaker 1: a little background work in a in a scene for
Speaker 1: Roslind's movie, which was fun. But I would definitely entertain
Speaker 1: something like that. Why not, It would be it'd be
Speaker 1: cool to do something together with them, let's say. Update
Speaker 1: from a fourteen year old who asked about dating when
Speaker 1: her parents had no dating role. Oh I remember this question.
Speaker 1: This is so interesting. Okay, guys, it's Kate with that
Speaker 1: question about the boy and no dating role. Thanks for
Speaker 1: the advice. Even thought I had, I have a completely
Speaker 1: went off tracks. So okay, a lot has happened. But
Speaker 1: long story short, we don't talk anymore because I got
Speaker 1: so confused with my feelings and realized if I'm having
Speaker 1: second thoughts, then that means I don't really like him.
Speaker 1: He also did some questionable things that made me feel
Speaker 1: different about him. I feel terrible, but I told him
Speaker 1: we shouldn't talk until I get my head straight. So
Speaker 1: we aren't talking anymore. Okay. So it really came down
Speaker 1: to having nothing to do with the parents for this
Speaker 1: particular situation. Kate, I'm glad that you were able to
Speaker 1: see through any of the nonsense that he might have
Speaker 1: been presenting or he may have been presenting, because that
Speaker 1: would have been a mess, to be honest, had you
Speaker 1: gotten to your parents then tried to focus on dating
Speaker 1: somebody who was really not being the best version of themselves,
Speaker 1: and now you're in a bad situation, your strained relationship
Speaker 1: with your parents, and now it's a bad situation with
Speaker 1: the guy. So I'm glad you were able to put
Speaker 1: your thinking hat on and really focus on who the
Speaker 1: person is and if it was worth it. So it's
Speaker 1: great to hear that, to be honest, But I do
Speaker 1: think this opens up a chance for you to maybe
Speaker 1: continue that dial with your parents and see if you
Speaker 1: can make any kind of headway and tell them there's
Speaker 1: no no particular person you know in the picture, but
Speaker 1: you would love to have an open dialogue about what
Speaker 1: that looks like down the road. Even more so, you know,
Speaker 1: I don't want to get you into a fight with
Speaker 1: your parents, but I think it's a worthy conversation at
Speaker 1: least to try to be able to communicate. So I
Speaker 1: hope that that helps a little bit, and I appreciate
Speaker 1: you coming back and sharing all of your thoughts with me,
Speaker 1: so thank you. All Right, another fan question here, a
Speaker 1: listener question. Do you or any other actors on the
Speaker 1: show refer back to past scripts or storylines then bring
Speaker 1: inconsistencies up with the writers. If so, how does that
Speaker 1: usually work out? Look at we don't. We don't do that.
Speaker 1: I don't think we go back into past storylines. I
Speaker 1: mean sometimes it pops into our head when we're on set,
Speaker 1: like wait, I don't remember this, tracking this would I
Speaker 1: don't think my character would have said this or this
Speaker 1: wouldn't come up. And we have those conversations, and often,
Speaker 1: to the credit of the writers, they have explanation for it.
Speaker 1: They let us know, this is the journey, this is
Speaker 1: the path where we're going. Continuity is a big thing.
Speaker 1: You know, we try. I will say, you know, Melissa's
Speaker 1: very hung up on continuity a lot I've noticed on set,
Speaker 1: and I do as well. But I often rely on
Speaker 1: the writers and producers to navigate that more. I don't
Speaker 1: put that as my focus a lot, but I do.
Speaker 1: You know, we do catch certain things that we bring
Speaker 1: up and often get a solid explanation for it. But
Speaker 1: I do know that a fan brought up if they
Speaker 1: recall a storyline an outcome that they noticed an inconsistency
Speaker 1: with a storyline that Tim mentions a niece to Angela
Speaker 1: when they're planning her wedding. However, Tim only mentions one
Speaker 1: sibling Jenny and has two who has two boys, which
Speaker 1: we now featured on the show. They've never mentioned the
Speaker 1: niece again. I'll be honest, I don't even remember that.
Speaker 1: I don't remember that episode. I don't remember saying that.
Speaker 1: But if we did, definitely an inconsistency and something that
Speaker 1: didn't work, I would love to god, I would love
Speaker 1: to see that clip. That would be fascinating to find
Speaker 1: out when it happened and how to correct it somehow.
Speaker 1: But thank you for catching it. Yeah, we don't. I
Speaker 1: feel like Tim would have noticed that or caught that,
Speaker 1: but maybe that was before we Maybe that was before
Speaker 1: they even decided if Jenny, you know, Jenny had two
Speaker 1: kids one kid, boy, girl or anything. So that's ironic
Speaker 1: how that worked out. But again, not something that we
Speaker 1: do so many episodes and there's so many moments and
Speaker 1: scenes that I can't keep track of it all to really
Speaker 1: catch something like that or an inconsistency. But that's a
Speaker 1: good one and we need to be on top of it.
Speaker 1: It's like, you know, listen, things happen all the time.
Speaker 1: You remember that big the Starbucks cup on Game of Thrones,
Speaker 1: which was wild that that somehow made it into a cut.
Speaker 1: No one ever saw that on set, and we've had
Speaker 1: that happened before, where things have been you know, there's
Speaker 1: been a cup, there's been a phone, there's been whatever
Speaker 1: in a scene that usually we catch it and we
Speaker 1: have to do a take again. I did a whole
Speaker 1: scene once totally forgot I had a water bottle in
Speaker 1: my back pocket. Long night shoot, everybody's exhausted. We always
Speaker 1: want to get out of there. All Tim and Lucy
Speaker 1: had to do was run upstairs in this mansion and
Speaker 1: I had a damn water bottle from Crafty in my
Speaker 1: back pocket, totally forgot about it. Shot the whole scene
Speaker 1: and realized couldn't use any of it because you saw
Speaker 1: this damn water bottle poking out of my butt. So yeah, listen,
Speaker 1: these mistakes happened all the time, but hopefully you catch
Speaker 1: them and that's the most important part. And there's tons
Speaker 1: of bloopers, you know, and things like that that happen
Speaker 1: on different shows and movies. But great question. Thanks for
Speaker 1: bringing that up. All right, everybody, That wraps up another
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