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Speaker 1: It's awkward.

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Speaker 2: It's Tuesday.

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Speaker 1: It's awkward Tuesday phone call.

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Speaker 3: Alexis on a scale of one to ten, how involved

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Speaker 3: are you in your brother's dating life?

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Speaker 1: Because we all know.

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Speaker 2: You want to be I don't want to know anything.

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Speaker 3: Well, clearly you're not as good of a sister as

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Speaker 3: our listener Amanda is, because apparently she's taken a very

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Speaker 3: hands on approach with her siblings struggling love life. And

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Speaker 3: I don't know why, but somehow it's resulted in an

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Speaker 3: awkward Tuesday phone call.

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Speaker 1: Oh that's weird, jeff.

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Speaker 2: Don't you love when your sister meddles in your love life?

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Speaker 1: Absolutely?

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Speaker 3: I welcome it. So let's talk to her and find

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Speaker 3: out what's going on. Amanda. Welcome to the Brook and

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Speaker 3: Jeffrey Family Love and Rehabilitation Center.

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Speaker 1: How can we assist?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Hi, hi, oh May sounds like you're in the right place, Amanda.

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Speaker 5: I am okay?

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Speaker 1: What is it? What's going on in your family's love life?

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Speaker 6: All right?

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Speaker 1: Well, okay, how do you ask it? Normally? Someone ask

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Speaker 1: it normally?

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Speaker 7: Tell us the story?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, what did you do with your brother? No?

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Speaker 1: Go ahead, Amanda, you tell us what's talk?

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Speaker 4: Okay?

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Speaker 5: I have a younger brother. His name is Jalen, and

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Speaker 5: he's been complaining about being single. He's in his later

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Speaker 5: twenties and friends are getting married, so.

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Speaker 8: Oh yeah, it's like so hard at that stage and

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Speaker 8: everybody's like coupled up and you're the only person left.

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Speaker 8: It feels like.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, so he's just been kind of down about it

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Speaker 5: and he won't do anything about it. So I I

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Speaker 5: know this girl. She's a friend of mine, and I

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Speaker 5: had asked her to go out with him, just like

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Speaker 5: guess him up, like make him feel good about himself.

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Speaker 2: Basically, did you get my brother to stop complaining?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Is this like your best friend or is this like

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Speaker 3: a Russian bride that you saw.

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Speaker 5: No, he's a girl I used to work with. We've

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Speaker 5: kept in touch, we out in like group.

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Speaker 7: Okay, perfect, because if it was one of your best friends,

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Speaker 7: he probably knows all your friends, like I know my sister.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, close enough, but not too close. Yeah exactly. So

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Speaker 1: your friend was actually willing to do this for you.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean she's single and she's kind of out

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Speaker 5: there on the apps, and I was like, listen, no pressure,

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Speaker 5: Like it would be a huge favor to me if

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Speaker 5: you would just go out, like you don't have to

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Speaker 5: go out with him again.

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Speaker 1: So nothing past second base, not even for his base.

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Speaker 5: But you could just be really nice.

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Speaker 4: To him, you know.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, how did you sell this to your brother? Did

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Speaker 8: you sell it as someone was actually interested in him?

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Speaker 4: Or yeah? I just thought.

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Speaker 5: I was like, hey, I have a single friend who

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Speaker 5: saw your picture and just asked if I could set

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Speaker 5: you up.

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Speaker 8: Okay, yeah, you're surprised.

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Speaker 2: I don't think my brother would trust my judgment so.

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Speaker 5: For a picture, I'd be like, I showed him a

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Speaker 5: picture of her.

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Speaker 1: So now you're asking him up even before his date.

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Speaker 1: That's nice.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I know how.

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Speaker 1: So do you know how the date went?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? I do.

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Speaker 5: Oh they went out and maybe a couple hours into

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Speaker 5: the date, I got a phone call from both of them.

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Speaker 2: Oh that's cute.

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Speaker 5: They're on speaker. There's like music in the background. I

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Speaker 5: can feel like cheering and like clapping, and they're like, hey,

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Speaker 5: we have great news. I'm like, what news would you have?

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Speaker 5: This is your first date? And they're like we're engaged,

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Speaker 5: and I'm like, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 2: I did you laugh because I would laugh?

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Speaker 8: I just did I did?

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Speaker 1: I mean, are they joking? Must be a joke.

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Speaker 8: No, they're engaged after one date.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: They just keep saying like when you know, you know,

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Speaker 5: like just happened a couple of days ago.

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Speaker 8: Are you panicking right now? You sound like you're upset

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Speaker 8: or it sounds like you're not happy.

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Speaker 5: No, I'm freaking out because I'm all for like true

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Speaker 5: love or like love at first sight and all of that,

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Speaker 5: but this is very fast.

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Speaker 7: This just should be taken better.

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Speaker 1: Like you you set your brother.

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Speaker 8: Up talking about after one date and he's engaged, I'd

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Speaker 8: be like, oh hell no, oh no.

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Speaker 7: If you know you know, no, look, I get the girl.

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Speaker 7: Your friend is the one who agrees unless she's i know,

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Speaker 7: long or something.

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Speaker 2: No way, dude, I'd be so upset. But they tell

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Speaker 2: you that your parents like posting it and stuff like

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Speaker 2: is it like legit?

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Speaker 1: She is not real to you post about it on it?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, they posted like on Instagram.

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Speaker 1: Who god, whoa?

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Speaker 5: My parents are not sure how to feel.

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Speaker 3: In a way, you should feel kind of proud that

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Speaker 3: you're such a good matchmaker, That's what.

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Speaker 1: I was saying.

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Speaker 8: And impressive that he could propose without a ring, because I.

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Speaker 2: Doubt he went into the first thing.

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Speaker 8: But I know people who have done that before, propos

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Speaker 8: without a ring and then they go and get one together.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, they're going to go ring shopping like this weekend.

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Speaker 5: And I'm like, no, no, no, no, what.

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Speaker 3: Do you want to Why are you bringing the problem

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Speaker 3: to our show? Like how do you want us to help?

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Speaker 4: So?

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Speaker 5: I tried to text my friend and she just keeps

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Speaker 5: sending me like text emojis that are like the shrug,

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Speaker 5: you know, like when you know you know.

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Speaker 2: So what do you want to do? Because it doesn't

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Speaker 5: I know I need to talk to my brother about it,

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Speaker 5: but okay, I just I know I'm going to come

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Speaker 5: to talk to him about this and like just stay

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Speaker 7: Have you considered making a wedding on a Tuesday? Then

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Speaker 7: we call in a bomb three live on the show.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think she wants to stop it before it

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Speaker 2: I don't want to do anything illegal, all right, So.

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Speaker 3: We're going to come back and give you the best

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Speaker 3: advice we could think of. After you've given your brother

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Speaker 3: true love. Now we're going to help you rip it

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Speaker 3: back away.

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Speaker 2: Well, just put it low down.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'll gently ease it out of his hands.

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Speaker 2: You can keep it, he just can't keep it so tight.

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Speaker 2: Let's just go on a second date.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, second date at the church on the altered good idea.

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Speaker 1: We're going to do it with your awkward Tuesday phone

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Speaker 1: call right after this. It's awkward.

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Speaker 2: It's Tuesday.

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Speaker 3: It's awkward Tuesday phone call. What we have here is

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Speaker 3: a classic Goldilock situation. Our listener, Amanda has a brother

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Speaker 3: who couldn't get a relationship, let alone a date for himself.

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Speaker 2: And he was real sad about it.

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Speaker 1: So the porridge was too cold, Yes, okay, that's why.

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Speaker 3: Out of pity, sister Amanda generously introduces him to her

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Speaker 3: friend and on their very first.

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Speaker 1: Date, they get engaged. Porridge a scalding hawks.

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Speaker 2: That's analogy, Jack.

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Speaker 3: We're looking for that medium temperature just right porridge right

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Speaker 3: in the center, ice cubes in there. And I've got

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Speaker 3: just the breakfast chefs to whip up some advice for

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Speaker 3: you here, Amanda, let's go to Papa Bear.

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Speaker 1: Jose's all for that. What's your advice, Jose?

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Speaker 7: Look, they've moved so fast that Here's what I'm afraid

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Speaker 7: of that the next time you talk to him, he's

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Speaker 7: gonna say, oh, yeah, the data said next week or

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Speaker 7: something crazy.

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Speaker 4: I think.

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Speaker 7: The plan for you is just lengthen out their engagement

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Speaker 7: as long as possible, and then eventually they will come

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Speaker 7: to their own conclusion the cloud nine stage.

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Speaker 3: Instead of trying to like completely stop the engagement may

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Speaker 3: try and prolong and so.

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Speaker 1: They want time. What do you think of that.

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Speaker 8: I'm actually on board with Jose with this because you

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Speaker 8: don't want to break him up. But I have a

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Speaker 8: way for you to do it. Are his sister. I

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Speaker 8: know that you are sneaky enough to find his pin number,

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Speaker 8: get his credit card numbers. All you have to do

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Speaker 8: is emptiest bank account, max those things out so he

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Speaker 8: can't buy an engagement ring.

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Speaker 3: Then okay, what do you think about crippling your brother

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Speaker 3: financially for the rest.

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Speaker 1: Of his life?

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Speaker 5: He would tell my mom, Okay.

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Speaker 2: We're scared, so he doesn't know. I mean, I think the.

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Speaker 3: Overall idea here is to try and push the engagement back.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, let me think about it real quick before we

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Speaker 1: make the call.

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Speaker 3: In your email, you said you just heard that they

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Speaker 3: went out and got engaged. You didn't hear anything about

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Speaker 3: what specifically happened on the date.

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Speaker 2: Actually, yeah, I'm curious.

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Speaker 3: Yeah it might be important to try and find that out. Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 3: but we're gonna step away.

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Speaker 1: And let you do it. We'll jump in if we

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Speaker 1: feel like you need a little bit of help.

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Speaker 6: Okay, Okay, you got this. Here we go, Okay, Hello, Hey,

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Speaker 6: what's up, Amanda?

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Speaker 4: Hey, what's up?

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Speaker 5: I know a lot, but you have a lot going on.

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Speaker 5: How are you doing?

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Speaker 4: I'm done fantastic, Like things are great. Sorry, like you

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Speaker 4: and I have barely even talked. It's just in a whirlwind.

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Speaker 5: I know, we barely talked about it.

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Speaker 4: It's like.

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Speaker 5: I don't even know, Like you know, you went from

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Speaker 5: going out on the date at six o'clock to being

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Speaker 5: engaged at eleven o'clock. I just don't totally know what

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Speaker 5: happened in those five hours, you know, like it sounds

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Speaker 5: like it was amazing obviously.

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Speaker 4: And we got there all thanks to you. Thanks for

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Speaker 4: setting us up.

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Speaker 5: Oh oh, I mean you're welcome. But it's a lot.

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Speaker 4: I know, it's been crazy and until we get what

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Speaker 4: you're saying, but hashtag when you know you know, right?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but like, what what got you guys there? Like,

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Speaker 5: tell me the whole story.

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Speaker 4: Well, first we started at the bar, and yeah, it

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Speaker 4: was kind of awkward, but we found out both our

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Speaker 4: favorite colors are red. Isn't that crazy? And I googled

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Speaker 4: that and it's pretty rare, like less than thirty percent

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Speaker 4: of people have that in common.

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Speaker 5: Oh okay, I did not know that.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it was so cool. I was like, wow, what

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Speaker 4: are the chances?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that's really really cool. Did you propose to right

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Speaker 4: Or no? Not quite. But I was telling her that

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Speaker 4: A sign for a psychic.

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Speaker 5: Oh okay, where are we.

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Speaker 4: Going with this? What happened? We said let's go in

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Speaker 4: She's never told anyone that before. Can you believe that?

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Speaker 5: I really can't.

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Speaker 4: Wow.

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Speaker 5: So did you propose her right there at the psychic place?

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Speaker 4: Or well? That changed the vibe of the date And

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Speaker 4: a few hours later I'm down on one knee, tyme

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Speaker 4: of cocktail napkin around her finger. Wow.

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Speaker 5: That's really quick. That is that's crazy quick.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, and and well I've I've never met a

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Speaker 1: Hey, Jalen.

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Speaker 3: That was a sound effect that we played on our

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Speaker 3: radio station. Here, you're on Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 4: Oh god, wow, are you.

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Speaker 5: I'm breathing?

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Speaker 3: I mean, I'm sure she's breathing heavy right now because

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, that sounds good.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a lot of information to process. But we're

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Speaker 1: She wanted to get all the details. It wasn't sure

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Speaker 2: We're not going to be honest here, Oh the right.

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Speaker 1: Way to be honest?

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Speaker 3: You should?

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Speaker 2: I think we should talk maybe about the honest part.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Brook, you talk about the honest.

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Speaker 2: I just think she's a little.

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Speaker 1: Concerned, well not that concerned, pretty concern. I mean, Brook

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll take it. I'll take that.

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Speaker 3: A little nervous about the speed of the engagement.

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Speaker 2: Why rush everything?

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Speaker 4: I mean, haven't you guys ever heard of anybody in

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 8: She would give Amanda would give anything if her brother

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Speaker 8: waited ninety days about on date.

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Speaker 1: Jeff, Hey, maybe that should be it. Maybe they should wait.

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Speaker 4: Ninety days and see, No, you were thinking about seeing

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Speaker 4: how soon we could get this thing rolling, like I

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Speaker 2: Like I still like my god read and a psychic?

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Speaker 2: Or what makes you think that your soulmates?

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Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, are you married? And though like, how

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Speaker 3: Yes, that's a good question, Brooke, how did you know?

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Speaker 6: You know?

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Speaker 8: I do feel like I knew really quickly that my

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Speaker 2: It was a special.

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Speaker 8: But listen, listen, we waited three years before we got

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Speaker 1: Didn't you hear they both like the color red?

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Speaker 3: But listen, jeering, buddy, look, I understand that this has

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Speaker 3: been a crazy few days for you, very very exciting sat.

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Speaker 2: Oh.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think the reason that your sister reached out

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Speaker 3: to diget. Yeah, if you slowed things down with your

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Speaker 7: Announce hey, I have a girlfriend before I ever announce it.

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Speaker 8: I think it'll be healthier for your relationship, even if

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Speaker 8: you pump the brakes.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, definitely.

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Speaker 4: Oh, I don't know. I just I just feel like

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Speaker 4: I can't let this go away. This is so exciting.

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Speaker 2: It won't go away. If it's meant to be, it'll

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Speaker 1: Like we can use that cliche to strategy for everybody.

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Speaker 3: Would for you to be open to staying engaged for

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Speaker 3: you know, as long as that takes before you get

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Speaker 1: That's what That's what we would say.

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Speaker 4: Just listen.

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Speaker 5: I'm not saying that you two shouldn't get married, But

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Speaker 5: what about her, Like, she's probably been dreaming about getting

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Speaker 4: Shouldn't well, I must be it.

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Speaker 3: I mean the Psycha said, though, you're gonna have to

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm all red. Yes, yes, yes, yes.

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Speaker 3: So what we should do is hit the red light

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Speaker 5: I think it's a good idea, you know, I think

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Speaker 5: Mom and Dad, let's support it. Red lights are good.

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Speaker 1: They're red, you know, red flags too.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, right, you do have a good point about red lights.

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Speaker 4: I didn't even think about that.

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Speaker 3: Let's focus on the red lights and keep us updated

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Speaker 3: on your blossoming, beautiful relationship.

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Speaker 8: Okay, and hopefully, and like a year, we'll get an

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I have great news.

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Speaker 3: I have seventeen children

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Speaker 2: Freaking Jeffrey in the morning.