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Speaker 1: My husband's cheating on me with my high school bully.

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Speaker 1: Should I let him continue to do it?

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Speaker 2: Yes, but you should bully him for it?

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Speaker 1: Oh, like, Hey, what's up, dork cheating on me again

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Speaker 1: with that loser bully of mine from high school.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna put your face in the toilet. Yeah, I

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Speaker 2: really like it.

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Speaker 1: Give you I'm I'm gonna give you a weggie for

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Speaker 1: how dorky that is. Dork and you better not be

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Speaker 1: turned on by that weggie. Oh God, I just can't

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Speaker 1: believe that he could fool me. His affairs started six

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Speaker 1: months ago. I could trace it six months back. Anyways,

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Speaker 1: it could have been longer. There were no signs, no indications,

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Speaker 1: no change of behavior, no change in the bedroom. I

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Speaker 1: just found out by accident three weeks ago, when his

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Speaker 1: phone was on the nightstand. I mean, that's usually how

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Speaker 1: that my husband was sleeping with my high school bully.

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Speaker 1: I mean, of all the people on Bully never stops.

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Speaker 2: Seriously, you thought it was over in high school, but

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Speaker 2: guess what fucking your husband?

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Speaker 1: Like you know how they always say like, oh, like,

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Speaker 1: you know, high school isn't the rest of your life.

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Speaker 1: It always gets better. This is way worse this is

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Speaker 1: high school following you for sure, way worse, My god.

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Speaker 1: I grew up in a small town and this woman

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Speaker 1: bullied me severely in middle school and high school. After graduation,

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Speaker 1: I did everything I could to find a job in

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Speaker 1: a bigger city and moved, leaving all of the hurtful memories.

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Speaker 1: I worked hard for a year, found an apartment, bought

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Speaker 1: a car, and later started college. That's where I met

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Speaker 1: my husband. We got married two years ago, and I'm

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Speaker 1: eight weeks pregnant.

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Speaker 2: Oh no, oh no, oh no.

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Speaker 1: He doesn't know yet. Oh no, oh pe yikes. I

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Speaker 1: will tell him eventually, don't worry. When I was in college,

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Speaker 1: my bully reached out to me after we bumped into

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Speaker 1: each other at a party. Oh interesting. She was in

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Speaker 1: a new town and was glad that she saw a

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Speaker 1: familiar face. You mean, the same face that you gave

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Speaker 1: swirlies and plunged into the Do I remember the bullying.

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Speaker 2: I think a lot of bullies just like don't real

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Speaker 2: maybe don't even realize how much of a dick they

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Speaker 2: were being, because like you.

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Speaker 1: Would think a reasonably whatever emotioned person would be like,

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Speaker 1: oh man, I really like did you? That's like embarrassing.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it would be embarrassed. Yeah, but maybe maybe like

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Speaker 2: the bully totally rewrote the story in her head.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like oh you know, oh, p just would always

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Speaker 1: come in and I just noticed, oh she had some

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Speaker 1: some salad or some lettuce pointed it out. So I

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Speaker 1: was just a guy. Take her face and you know,

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Speaker 1: just put it in the toilet and lo and behold,

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Speaker 1: I mean the lettus is gone. You know, no one

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Speaker 1: could point it out or potentially make fun of her

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Speaker 1: for it, And honestly got my career started as a

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Speaker 1: cosmetology student. You know, she had, let me tell you,

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Speaker 1: horrendous acne, okay, and the only way to get rid

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Speaker 1: of herrendous acne is a pee cleanse.

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Speaker 2: I I completely got a pee on the face. Was

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Speaker 2: it was being on her face while I was in

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Speaker 2: the And.

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Speaker 1: This that's like the she has like a like a

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Speaker 1: like a DVD video of like and this is how

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Speaker 1: I started my new line of acne street. Yeah. It's

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Speaker 1: called pea cream. Yeah, straight from my urine. She never

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Speaker 1: acknowledged what she did and I never confronted her. I

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Speaker 1: didn't want to open old wounds. However, I wasn't going

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Speaker 1: to befriend her. So I just rebuffed any attempt of reconnecting.

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Speaker 1: She still moved in the same crowd as my husband

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Speaker 1: and me. Oh wow, so she ended up in the

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Speaker 1: same like circles.

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Speaker 2: That sucks.

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Speaker 1: I never told my husband anything about her or our past.

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Speaker 1: I wasn't even sure he knew her name.

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Speaker 2: Sure, you know, it's a lot more than her name.

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Speaker 1: But three weeks ago, oh god, three weeks ago, when

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Speaker 1: my husband was in the shower, he got a notification

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Speaker 1: on Messenger. Hey, thanks so much for picking up wife's

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Speaker 1: surprise gift brom.

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Speaker 2: Oh he didn't say that. Nope, he didn't say that on.

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Speaker 1: The west That wasn't the conversation happening. Yeah, I thought

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Speaker 1: it was odd since he's not been active on Facebook

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Speaker 1: or Messenger. In ages, we don't know each other's codes.

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Speaker 1: So I looked and there was her name and pictures

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Speaker 1: telling him she missed his sweet sweet man meat. Oh

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Speaker 1: it's a little telling. It's I mean, like, what does

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Speaker 1: that mean? Yeah, you know, it's like there's so much

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Speaker 1: to interpret there. Oh yeah, there's so many layers, you

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Speaker 1: know what I mean. First the balls, the balls, then

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Speaker 1: that the penis, the penis head, the veiny shaft.

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Speaker 2: I mean, we can analyze this for.

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Speaker 1: Years, days and days. Y how does the shaft support

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Speaker 1: the head? That is how you know a good partner

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Speaker 1: supports his spouse by completely cheating and lying to them.

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Speaker 2: M so, and I think it's on op to continue helping.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, her husband bone the bully.

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Speaker 1: There you go.

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Speaker 2: You know, sticks and stones may break my bones, but

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Speaker 2: if you bone my husband, that will hurt me a

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Speaker 2: lot ouch.

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Speaker 1: I scolled a few messages back and there was a

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Speaker 1: full conversation. I felt sick and my eyes went blurry.

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Speaker 1: So I just left the phone back to where it

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Speaker 1: was and acted like happened.

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Speaker 2: Oh no, no.

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Speaker 1: Over the next two weeks, I looked in his phone

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Speaker 1: whenever I could. I found out that my husband deleted

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Speaker 1: Messenger when he didn't use it except for the time

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Speaker 1: that he forgot.

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Speaker 2: Oh.

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Speaker 1: I started doing the same.

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Speaker 2: Oh what what do you mean? Like, are you hookxing

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Speaker 2: with other people?

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Speaker 1: Oh so whenever he's sleeping, playing games, are out for

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Speaker 1: a run. I took his phone and installed Messenger. So

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Speaker 1: she is putting it back on his phone. Oh so

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Speaker 1: she can teach catch any messages I could trace back

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Speaker 1: their relationship six months long time. They've been sleeping together

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Speaker 1: for four A lot of graphic description of what they

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Speaker 1: want to do or have done to each other, but

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Speaker 1: also a lot about me, although it was often one sided.

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Speaker 1: And that's what's so crazy is like this he's literally describing, like, oh,

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Speaker 1: like cooking up my girlfriend isn't the same, and it's

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Speaker 1: like you don't be like you have a girlfriend, like.

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Speaker 2: Dude, sounds like she just wants to continue bullying op.

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Speaker 1: Literally in the worst humanly way imaginable. Oh, it's always

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Speaker 1: my bully asking questions and trying to get answers about me,

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Speaker 1: and my husband is either reluctantly answering or outright telling

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Speaker 1: her not to talk about me. But they've discussed my

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Speaker 1: constant questions about if he preferred me better, he answered

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Speaker 1: that it's different and he doesn't want to compare discussions

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Speaker 2: All I guess like weirdly loyal.

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Speaker 1: At least, like at least one specific small area where

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Speaker 2: It's like such a weird line to draw. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: I'm going to cheat up my wife, but I'm not

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Speaker 2: going to speak poorly about he's in bed.

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Speaker 1: I will I will hook up with you and do

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Speaker 1: the UO, but I will not talk about how my

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Speaker 1: wife can't do the same to me.

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Speaker 2: Come on, now, my wife is good, just in different

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Speaker 1: I have morals, I have standards. I have never cried

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Speaker 1: my whole life combined, compared to the last few weeks. Man,

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Speaker 1: my goodness, I want to leave my husband, but I

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Speaker 1: don't want to tell him why. I don't want to

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Speaker 1: they hurt me. I just want to ask for the

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Speaker 1: divorce and just tell him that I wasn't in love

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Speaker 1: I won't be lying technically, because he's not the man

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Speaker 1: haven't told anyone what I've found out, and she's freaking

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Speaker 1: my mom that I want to leave my husband and

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Speaker 1: stated the reasons above. She went berserk. This is so

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Speaker 1: out of the blue and moronic, and the first question

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Speaker 1: she asked was whether I was cheating on him or not.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if that's the first as you ask,

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Speaker 1: how about I'm so sorry, just tell me what's going on? Goodness,

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Speaker 1: I'm here for you, among many other very usable options.

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Speaker 1: This was a preview to what probably everyone else will

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Speaker 1: think and say. But honestly, I would rather live with

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Speaker 1: being the perpetrator than the victim this time. I just

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Speaker 1: can't let that be hurt me again, watch me suffer

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Speaker 1: and enjoy it. I just can't. I know I'm being

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Speaker 1: and tell me what you would do instead. Well, there

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Speaker 1: is an update, but I guess I guess we answer

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Speaker 1: the question if you are in OP shoes, that is,

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Speaker 1: if you found out that your high school bully was

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Speaker 1: cheating on you with your partner, what do you do.

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Speaker 2: I see what she's saying where she's like she wants

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Speaker 2: to leave it on her terms, Yeah, and not make

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Speaker 2: it seem like once again this bully has ruined her life.

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Speaker 2: I don't think it's necessarily her plan. I don't think

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Speaker 2: do whatever she needs to do to feel good, totally honestly, Yeah, I.

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Speaker 1: Mean you could if I was in OP shoes. I

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Speaker 1: the opposite in that I would want him to know

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Speaker 1: like not only did you cheat, but like you cheated

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's just me.

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Speaker 2: But I mean I feel like the thing though, is

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Speaker 2: maybe it might be best to tell the truth because

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Speaker 2: everyone in your life is going to think maybe you're.

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Speaker 1: The asshole true, Yeah, And.

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Speaker 2: I think like if you just tell the truth, yeah,

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Speaker 2: maybe they'll the bully will think that she went up

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Speaker 2: to you, but everyone that knows you will know she's

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Speaker 2: an asshole. Yeah, and your husband's an asshole, and you

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Speaker 2: won't have to like you won't have to have this

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Speaker 2: like cloud over your head. Yeah, of like, oh, like

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Speaker 2: I can't believe she would just do that.

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Speaker 1: Well remember the line she said at this now, I'd

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Speaker 1: rather be the perpetrator than the victim at this point,

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Speaker 1: which so I guess she feels like she.

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Speaker 2: Wants to be the bully. She's become the very thing.

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Speaker 1: Well not even because she oh yeah, she wants to

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Speaker 1: be seen as a bully on yeah, because it's like

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Speaker 1: because it's like she is dumping for what everyone else

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Speaker 2: I don't think it's worth it. If it was me,

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Speaker 2: I don't think it would be worth it. But I

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Speaker 2: would love to know what OBI thanks well, or what

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Speaker 2: OP did.

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Speaker 1: I will tell you. I have broken the news to

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Speaker 1: One of them offered me her place until I find

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Speaker 2: My sister is a big bully, and so I snitched

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Speaker 2: Like in Doctor Who, Yep, there's these statues they call

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Speaker 2: Watch doctor who? Yeah, David Tennant.

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Speaker 2: Okay, the situation at hand, my stepsister, seventeen, female has

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Speaker 2: About the bullying a month ago. People described it as

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Speaker 1: They hate it. They absolutely disgusted with it. Yeah, if

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Speaker 1: you're widowed, stay widowed. You know, if your divorce, stay divorce.

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Speaker 2: Too many steps and I'm you know, catch a flight

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Speaker 2: which is not what we want. No, No, we need

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Speaker 2: you ugly in the relationship. Ugly and in the relationship,

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Speaker 2: She was uglier, maybe she wouldn't have been.

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Speaker 1: Damn is that what they were doing? Bro?

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Speaker 2: You're telling me these deer came far and wide just

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Speaker 1: I you know, I don't. I don't think I doubt it.

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Speaker 1: I don't think I doubt it.

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Speaker 2: You shouldn't doubt it. Cinderella baby doing it. She's doing it.

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Speaker 2: My dad is pissed. He said, it's so unbelievably petty

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Speaker 2: sibling issues. It's not really sibling issues if Mia is

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Speaker 2: the collateral damage. I told my dad nothing between us

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Speaker 1: Oh I mean, we're not blood.

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Speaker 2: Not blood, and my siblings younger brother and sister would

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Speaker 2: never do that to another person. Yeah, Dad, you married

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Speaker 2: the wrong family.

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Speaker 2: Stepsister got mean blood in her, that's right. My stepsister

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Speaker 1: Know, don't hate the player. I hate the game.

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Speaker 2: I feel like going to me as parents was the

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Speaker 2: right call because of how serious bullying can be for

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Speaker 2: the person being bullied, and even calling someone names can

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Speaker 2: right now. So oh am I the agle. I want

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Speaker 2: to know from you guys, like what do you think? Also,

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Speaker 2: were you a bully or have you been bullied, and

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Speaker 2: what is the I don't know, I don't know if

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Speaker 2: I want to know the worst one. What's your friend?

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Speaker 2: It's the funniest wave was the funniest way you've been bullied?

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Speaker 1: Funny? A funny maybe more lighthearted bully story, which I

438
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Speaker 1: have one right right right, yeah, funny.

439
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Speaker 2: I was bullied all I was bullied every which way,

440
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Speaker 2: seriously funnily. And one of the funny ones was we

441
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Speaker 2: would sing these church songs. Well one of them is

442
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Speaker 2: I ate silence, and so they called like they called

443
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Speaker 2: me salad boy, and then would sing salad boy up

444
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Speaker 2: in the why me crank that, Why Me crank that?

445
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Speaker 2: Parmesan and Superman they adapted Soldier Boy to be salad

446
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Speaker 2: very inventive. And then armand VESEGI I'll never forget made

447
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Speaker 2: made a rendition of one of the songs we sung

448
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Speaker 2: in church to clown on me. There was a song

449
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Speaker 2: called it was like our God is an awesome got me?

450
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Speaker 2: That was a begar bro but his rendition was armand

451
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Speaker 2: is an awesome dude, He is awesome because Sam sucks

452
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Speaker 2: oro and there was like a couple other verses and

453
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Speaker 2: everyone sung that in church instead of the real song.

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Speaker 1: So that was my that was my.

455
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Speaker 2: Those were my funny bullying stories. What was it wasn't

456
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Speaker 2: funny in the moment, but pretty funny.

457
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Speaker 1: Now I want to build a time machine and clown

458
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Speaker 1: them for their terrible Like you're like salad Boy.

459
00:23:21,400 --> 00:23:23,240
Speaker 2: Like, come on, solid boy is pretty good.

460
00:23:23,760 --> 00:23:26,639
Speaker 1: Yeah, retrospect is funny, but like, yeah, the parmasant, I'll

461
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Speaker 1: give them the parmer shot. That's that's clever for a

462
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Speaker 1: middle school or whatever. But yeah, so any of those stories,

463
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Speaker 1: send us your your send us your salad boy stories.

464
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Speaker 2: Yeah, send us your salad boy stories. Or if you

465
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Speaker 2: want to open up, you can send us your your

466
00:23:40,840 --> 00:23:43,760
Speaker 2: sad boys story that's true and sad girl stories. We're

467
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Speaker 2: here open, We're open to both. But John, what do

468
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Speaker 2: you think is op the a hole for going directly

469
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Speaker 2: to me as parents?

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Speaker 1: Yes? So so quick run down? So uh, me A's

471
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Speaker 1: stepsister was saying what did she say? Like she was

472
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Speaker 1: what did she say? Did they say? What was said

473
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Speaker 1: to Mia? What the stepsister said?

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Speaker 2: No, just like that, you don't deserve any friends.

475
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Speaker 1: You don't deserve any friends, right right? And it's hard.

476
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Speaker 1: That's that's bad. That's bad. I'll be honest here, I don't.

477
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Speaker 1: I mean, I'm guessing there's more, especially with the evidence,

478
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Speaker 1: But I don't know if that I would go straight

479
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Speaker 1: to expulsion for that. I don't think that. I don't

480
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Speaker 1: think at all that OPI is wrong for going going

481
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Speaker 1: to the parents. Definitely, uh, OPI made the right call

482
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Speaker 1: there at the same token I And again, maybe there's

483
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Speaker 1: more with the I mean, they have this evidence, right, so.

484
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Speaker 2: And than just like you don't deserve.

485
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Speaker 1: Yeah, and also the slippery slope, which is like, you know,

486
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Speaker 1: it could easily get worse, so while I.

487
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Speaker 2: Stop it while it's just small.

488
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Speaker 1: Small, So I you know, if if like in this

489
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Speaker 1: like you know, perfect hypothetical scenario that was all she said,

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Speaker 1: I would say that is too harsh. But I could

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Speaker 1: also see them being like, hey, we need to be

492
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Speaker 1: proactive so this doesn't escalate, especially with maybe other things

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Speaker 1: that were that they found in the messages and stuff. So,

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Speaker 1: and I don't know, like I'm trying to think what

495
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Speaker 1: would be a good punishment of like like if you're

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Speaker 1: a punishment high school, uh, not being able to walk

497
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Speaker 1: the stage?

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, but i'd even that feel, I mean, like,

499
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Speaker 2: I mean, take away something that matters yeah, you know

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Speaker 2: what I'm saying, Like, you know, a couple of days

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Speaker 2: of detention.

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Speaker 1: A couple of days of detention could could could do it.

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Speaker 1: But you know, if we really hey, if we want to.

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Speaker 2: It depends how serious of it is. It's just like,

505
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Speaker 2: you know, you don't deserve any friends and a few

506
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Speaker 2: name calls. I don't know if that's worthy of expulsion

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Speaker 2: because you also have to think about it from this this.

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Speaker 2: I don't know how old is the step sister in

509
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Speaker 2: middle school?

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Speaker 1: Right? Uh? Yeah, one of them was seventeen, maybe the

511
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Speaker 1: stepsister seventeen and then the.

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Speaker 2: Younger way Okay, I guess they would there in high school, right,

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Speaker 2: I mean I think this girl probably deserves a little

514
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Speaker 2: bit of detention at least. Yeah, and like, hey, if

515
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Speaker 2: it happens again, then that's when you bring the air.

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Speaker 2: But if this is like the first defense, I think,

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Speaker 2: give give the girl a chance to except to write

518
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Speaker 2: her ways.

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, because you know kids can be dumb,

520
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Speaker 1: and maybe there was something else, so it's like give

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Speaker 1: her like whatever, yeah, few days attention or there's or

522
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Speaker 1: maybe there's like a big fun field trip or something

523
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Speaker 1: that's like no field traainfold or like a like a

524
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Speaker 1: homecoming dance. I don't know, something that like actually hurts

525
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Speaker 1: to be like, we're serious, here's something that's you don't

526
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Speaker 1: want taken away that we're going to take away. And

527
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Speaker 1: if you do it again, then we can go crazy

528
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Speaker 1: because like it's it's really simple to not do it.

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Speaker 1: So if you like, she would be an idiot and

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Speaker 1: truly like you know, freaking evil if she did it again. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So I'm also surprised that Mea didn't go to her

532
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Speaker 2: parents about it.

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Speaker 1: I could see. I could see that being hard because

534
00:26:52,280 --> 00:26:54,960
Speaker 1: it's like it's it's her dad, right, so it's like

535
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Speaker 1: the dad is trying to curry favor with the mom,

536
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Speaker 1: and maybe she's like afraid, especially as a child, by like, oh,

537
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Speaker 1: I don't want my dad to be like disgruntled with me.

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Speaker 2: Mia is Mia is the kid that's getting bullied, me as.

539
00:27:08,200 --> 00:27:10,360
Speaker 1: The kid that's oh right right, completely separate.

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00:27:10,440 --> 00:27:12,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, I didn't go to her own parents.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I don't know. I don't know, but I mean,

542
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Speaker 1: I mean I could you know, maybe she's like, see

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Speaker 1: it's embarrassing, you know, I could see that being hard

544
00:27:20,760 --> 00:27:23,120
Speaker 1: in some instances. I probably would myself, but.

545
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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I remember there was this kid I'm just

546
00:27:27,920 --> 00:27:31,240
Speaker 2: lighting up dropping in names, but he bullied me in

547
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Speaker 2: like middle school, and I think like we had like

548
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Speaker 2: a parent I told my parents because it was like incessant,

549
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Speaker 2: and then we had like a meeting between him and

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Speaker 2: his parents and mine and my parents, and I think

551
00:27:41,800 --> 00:27:45,000
Speaker 2: it got uh, it got less bad after that.

552
00:27:45,000 --> 00:27:47,520
Speaker 1: That's good. I never I should have done that. I never.

553
00:27:47,640 --> 00:27:49,280
Speaker 1: I never really thought to do that because because you

554
00:27:49,440 --> 00:27:51,920
Speaker 1: love it, because I love it. I love it. There's

555
00:27:51,960 --> 00:27:53,960
Speaker 1: this one kid who is like like a friend of me.

556
00:27:54,080 --> 00:27:55,679
Speaker 1: Like I never knew if we were friends or like

557
00:27:55,880 --> 00:27:57,359
Speaker 1: or not even a friend of me, but like I

558
00:27:57,359 --> 00:27:58,760
Speaker 1: don't know if he was like bullying me or if

559
00:27:58,760 --> 00:28:01,320
Speaker 1: we were friends. But what his classic thing was, you

560
00:28:01,320 --> 00:28:04,760
Speaker 1: know that thing where you can like squirt like sliva,

561
00:28:05,000 --> 00:28:07,280
Speaker 1: like if you do something the right way, to just

562
00:28:07,400 --> 00:28:10,000
Speaker 1: do like like a little spray. He would literally do

563
00:28:10,200 --> 00:28:15,080
Speaker 1: that to the back of my head all class sometimes.

564
00:28:14,640 --> 00:28:18,320
Speaker 2: Ew and yeah, that's so gross.

565
00:28:18,480 --> 00:28:19,160
Speaker 1: It sucked.

566
00:28:19,960 --> 00:28:20,640
Speaker 2: What would you say.

567
00:28:20,920 --> 00:28:23,439
Speaker 1: I'd be like stop, but he wouldn't stop. You know,

568
00:28:23,480 --> 00:28:28,760
Speaker 1: that just encouraged him to, you mean stop, This spider

569
00:28:28,800 --> 00:28:30,879
Speaker 1: man with his freaking little mouth. He was he was

570
00:28:30,880 --> 00:28:35,320
Speaker 1: a maniac. Since we're dropping names. I think it was

571
00:28:35,359 --> 00:28:35,680
Speaker 1: his name.

572
00:28:36,119 --> 00:28:37,320
Speaker 2: Wait, what's what he's doing?

573
00:28:37,800 --> 00:28:39,480
Speaker 1: I don't know. If my boy is on LinkedIn, I'm

574
00:28:39,600 --> 00:28:42,360
Speaker 1: I'm going to keep it one hundred maybe Instagram, maybe Instagram?

575
00:28:42,440 --> 00:28:47,320
Speaker 2: What's the CSS? This customer service? Something okay? Doing at

576
00:28:47,680 --> 00:28:51,720
Speaker 2: Morgan Stanley Wealth Management? I mean, not bad, that's pretty good.

577
00:28:52,040 --> 00:28:52,520
Speaker 2: Not bad.

578
00:28:53,760 --> 00:28:56,440
Speaker 1: No, this isn't him. God, and I can't remember this

579
00:28:56,480 --> 00:28:58,720
Speaker 1: is really I can't remember how to spell his name

580
00:28:58,840 --> 00:29:00,360
Speaker 1: or I don't know if I'm going to be here.

581
00:29:00,400 --> 00:29:01,840
Speaker 1: Let me see if I have his number. I don't

582
00:29:01,840 --> 00:29:03,840
Speaker 1: think I do. I mean, dude, the fact that your

583
00:29:03,880 --> 00:29:08,480
Speaker 1: your childhood bullies are starting businesses is a I mean

584
00:29:08,520 --> 00:29:13,840
Speaker 1: mine are probably managers at Walmart. I'm not exactly a

585
00:29:13,880 --> 00:29:16,000
Speaker 1: good school. Yeah, I don't. I don't. I don't know

586
00:29:16,000 --> 00:29:18,160
Speaker 1: if I can find my boy, But shout out to

587
00:29:18,240 --> 00:29:20,800
Speaker 1: him if he's anywhere in the ether. He was. He

588
00:29:20,840 --> 00:29:22,960
Speaker 1: was a little perv. He was. He was. He was

589
00:29:23,000 --> 00:29:23,560
Speaker 1: a maniac.

590
00:29:23,600 --> 00:29:23,880
Speaker 2: He was.

591
00:29:23,960 --> 00:29:26,880
Speaker 1: He was a complete maniac. One time he uh he

592
00:29:27,480 --> 00:29:30,200
Speaker 1: the school was doing a video and he did this

593
00:29:30,600 --> 00:29:34,400
Speaker 1: at the camera and he tried to convince them that

594
00:29:34,480 --> 00:29:41,360
Speaker 1: he was doing a bow. He did this to a

595
00:29:41,560 --> 00:29:45,120
Speaker 1: teacher doing a or like like like a not a teacher,

596
00:29:45,200 --> 00:29:47,040
Speaker 1: but someone in the media department or whatever, like a

597
00:29:47,040 --> 00:29:48,920
Speaker 1: person who works for the school or like a teacher

598
00:29:48,960 --> 00:29:51,480
Speaker 1: say something something like that, and he did the camera

599
00:29:51,680 --> 00:29:54,920
Speaker 1: and she was like, I wasn't born yesterday, Cody, And

600
00:29:54,920 --> 00:29:57,480
Speaker 1: He's like what And then she pulled him out to

601
00:29:57,520 --> 00:29:59,560
Speaker 1: the principal's office and they called his dad and had

602
00:29:59,600 --> 00:30:00,520
Speaker 1: like a whole conference.

603
00:30:00,720 --> 00:30:02,600
Speaker 2: Man, Cody, what you doing?

604
00:30:02,840 --> 00:30:05,400
Speaker 1: He was a mania. He he jail broke his phone

605
00:30:05,480 --> 00:30:07,840
Speaker 1: just so he could put all kinds of crazy corn

606
00:30:08,240 --> 00:30:10,800
Speaker 1: on it. Like I mean, he just was just.

607
00:30:10,960 --> 00:30:14,120
Speaker 2: Hey, a little a little uh programmer, a little hacker.

608
00:30:14,160 --> 00:30:18,200
Speaker 1: That was. That was his his little pervinus. What truly

609
00:30:18,360 --> 00:30:22,040
Speaker 1: was the key that unlocked his like computer skills. Early

610
00:30:22,320 --> 00:30:25,280
Speaker 1: he could have, you know, he could have those.

611
00:30:26,240 --> 00:30:29,000
Speaker 2: Who were into drugs and like buying fake id's in

612
00:30:29,080 --> 00:30:31,040
Speaker 2: high school had access to bitcoin early.

613
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Speaker 1: It's true, that's true.

614
00:30:32,440 --> 00:30:34,040
Speaker 2: There was too bunch of a goodie two shoes to

615
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Speaker 2: do it.

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Speaker 1: I did. I did it at twenty. So I waited

617
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Speaker 1: for my for my fake ID when I was at twenty. Yeah,

618
00:30:40,120 --> 00:30:42,239
Speaker 1: because I was all my friends, I was working all

619
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Speaker 1: my friends went to bars and I literally couldn't get in,

620
00:30:44,840 --> 00:30:47,040
Speaker 1: so I was like, it got so annoying that I'm like,

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Speaker 1: fine all year early, that's right.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, where where are we we are?

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Speaker 1: I think this episode? Yeah, hold on, I need to

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Speaker 1: read a comment.

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Speaker 2: I'm glad they're both doing well.

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Speaker 1: But you know, Sam, unlike our our childhood bulldies, you

627
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Speaker 1: know who we really really want to do well is

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Speaker 1: I think what we are telling you consciously is that

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